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hear it say that. So welcome to your orientation for this winter installment of last year single

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program. All of you ladies that are starting right now within a couple weeks of each other

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are going to be considered a bridal party. All right. So we have some ladies that are starting

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today. We had a couple, we had a group of ladies. I shouldn't say a couple. There was probably 25

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ladies or so that started two weeks ago into their last year single program. And then we have

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some ladies that are kind of behind y'all because we've left registration open. And so they'll be

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coming maybe two weeks later than you guys. And that's okay. However, that works. I just

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want to really make sure that we're recording right now because I definitely didn't hear it

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say that it's recording. And I want to make sure because this is going to have to be in replay.

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So, um, yes, we are recording. Awesome. All right. Thank you, Renee. So this is your orientation. So

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I'm going to go over some best practices with you tonight. I'm going to tell you what to expect.

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Um, I'm going to get you excited and then I'm going to turn you loose. All right. We will have

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some Q and a please ask any questions that you have because someone in replay that wasn't here

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live, they may have the same question as you. And if you ask it, then it gets answered right

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on this live video. And so that's important. And so, um, we have three phases to our program

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and you guys are headed into phase one, also known as the heartwork part of our program.

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We did a little bit of heartwork during the challenge. I think all of you, that's probably

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why you signed up because you started having stuff come to the surface in your heart. And you're like,

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wow, I really need this. And so you're going to do an extended version of that during these first

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five weeks of your program. And then the second phase starts after five weeks of your program.

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The second phase starts that space too. And that is your love story accelerator part of our

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program. That's where we start digging into the divine feminine and dating and online dating and

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boundaries and all different types of things that you are going to need to know in order to be

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successful in this area of your love life. And then after you're done with phase one and two,

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you will go into phase three, which is just our community phase. That's where you'll have lots

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of different community events that you wouldn't have access to in phase one and two different coed

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events, like, um, dating game events. And we have this thing called single spotlight that we do.

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And there is an event every single week. There's one event every single week at the end of phase

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two, you will receive an email that tells you that you're headed into phase three and that you need

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to take a pathfinder assessment. It'll give you the link to that quiz. And all that quiz is going

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to do is really show you where you're at when you're at the end of phase two, going into phase

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three, that quiz is going to show you and us where you are at so that we know what you need to work

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on in phase three. Some of you are going to work on path one, which is your relationship with God.

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Some of you are going to work on path two, which is your relationship with yourself, your self-esteem,

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your self-worth, your identity. And some of you are going to work on path three, which is your

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relationship with others, boundaries, all different types of things go into phase three, right? I'm

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sorry, path three, a lot of different P words in this program, program, phase, paths. Okay.

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And so what I want to let you guys know is that you are the first group that we are allowing to

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go at their own pace. So it's kind of a hybrid evergreen process. What does that mean? That

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means that we all used to keep you guys all together as a group. And even in the materials,

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the materials wouldn't unlock until it was time for them to unlock. We're going to let you be on

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the honor system. We know that all of you have different schedules. You have different bandwidth

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in order to consume these materials, especially with the holidays coming. And so best practices

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in our protocol of what we've seen the most success with is that you will not consume more

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than one week's material at a time. Now, if for some reason, you know, you know, that you're going

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to go on vacation for a month and you want to go ahead and consume two weeks of material, like

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we're going to put you on the honor system of what you can handle. The reason why we want you to

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just process this. And that's what our sections are called in my book, the heart work. Let's just

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process that because it takes time to process things. You can know things and never know things.

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And so it's important that you allow yourself time to process. It's important that when you sign

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that permission slip, you're giving supernatural permission to Holy spirit to come alongside you

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in this process and to show you things that you've never seen before. That being said,

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I'm sorry, ladies, I have no idea what just happened. A password thing popped up on my

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screen and all of you went away. All right. So that being said, you know, if you do two weeks

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at the beginning, and then you have to take a week off because you know that you're going on vacation.

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then you catch up with the next two weeks

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or the next three weeks,

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we're gonna let you decide what that's like for you, okay?

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And so instead of your materials being on a drip

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where we schedule them,

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they are going to be on a honor system unlock system

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where if you complete one material,

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the next material, the next session, the next video,

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the next worksheet is gonna automatically unlock for you.

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Okay, it's still best practices

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for you to take one week at a time.

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Every single week in phase one,

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there will be a live coaching session on Mondays,

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1 p.m. Eastern, that's 12 noon Central,

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and that would be 10 a.m. Pacific,

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also 11 a.m. Mountain if you're in Mountain.

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There will be a live coaching session,

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a heart check-in every single week,

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and then it will also happen at 8 p.m. Eastern,

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7 p.m. Central, 6 p.m. Mountain, and 5 p.m. Pacific.

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There is a calendar in your phase one Facebook group.

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There'll also be a calendar in your portal

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at JackieDorman.com that just lets you know

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that every single Monday

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that those coaching sessions are live.

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The replay from the 8 p.m. session

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will be available in your portal as well.

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So if you didn't get to see that coaching session

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and you wanna watch it,

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the 8 p.m. session will be recorded

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and that recording will be in your portal.

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Everyone understand so far?

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All right.

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Also we have prayer every day of the week,

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10 a.m. Eastern, all right, that's 9 a.m. Central,

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8 a.m. Mountain, and 7 a.m. Pacific time.

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Every day of the week we have prayer,

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Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,

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and then Saturdays we have Supernatural Saturday.

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That is usually with me

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and that is a time of prophetic current realities.

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It's a very powerful time of breakthrough.

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I get on and I do a teaching

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and that usually is something that is fire, all right?

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So get ready for that

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because Holy Spirit really leads and guides

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on Supernatural Saturday

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and that's why we call it Supernatural Saturday.

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And on Sunday nights we have a time of activation

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for the things that were released on Saturday's call

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and that call on Sunday nights and all of this,

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you have to remember this,

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all of it's on your calendar

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that once again is in your portal at JackieDorman.com

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and it's also in the guide section

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of your phase one Facebook group.

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So all those times stay the same.

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So Mondays you have your live coaching calls.

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If you missed it, you can watch the replay.

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Every day of the week you have prayer.

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Saturdays you have Supernatural Saturday.

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Sunday night you have activations.

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And then the last Sunday of the month

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we have personal prophetic prophecy time,

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meaning if you have never received a word from the Lord,

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if you've never been exhorted or encouraged

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or edified in the Spirit,

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you're gonna wanna come to that.

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We have our entire prayer team usually available

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to just begin to speak over you the heart of the Father.

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And it is a really, really amazing time.

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And so that's once a month on Sunday nights.

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So we have all of that for you in phase one.

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the very same thing is gonna happen

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except your live coaching calls are on Tuesdays now,

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Tuesday afternoon and Tuesday evening.

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You're gonna have those live coaching calls.

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You're still gonna have that prerecorded content.

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You're still gonna be on an honor system

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going through that content,

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Dating 101 and The Divine Feminine

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and Boundaries and Online Dating

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and all the different things

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that are available to you there.

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There will be a kickoff video that explains phase two,

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explains how to navigate phase two,

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explains the challenge, the dating challenge

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that we release you into in phase two.

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But we will ask you during phase one,

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and we can't make you do this,

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and we're not gonna police you in it.

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We're not gonna police you in it,

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but we do recommend that you go on a dating sabbatical

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for the next five weeks during your first phase

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or your heartwork.

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You wanna focus on yourself.

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And I know that all of you are like anxious to get out there

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and to meet that person that God has for you,

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but there's no sense in continuing to run

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a hundred miles an hour down a dead end road.

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And so we've got to get the filters and the blind spots off

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so that we can have momentum, right?

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Clarity has to come before momentum.

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Now, we can't make you do that.

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Now, if you have a serious boyfriend,

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then we're not talking about them.

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If you're here just because you wanna do some heartwork,

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but you already met someone

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and you're very serious in that relationship,

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then we're not gonna make you break up with them

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in order to be in this group.

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If you just met someone brand new,

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just started talking to them,

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maybe even since you signed up,

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all of a sudden someone's talking on a dating app.

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Guess what?

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If they're your person,

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they're still gonna be there when you're done.

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they're gonna understand that you're doing this for you

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so you can become a better version of yourself.

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if they are your spirit mate.

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You cannot miss out on your spirit mate

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by working on your...

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own heart.

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That's just not going to happen.

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So we asked you to on that dating sabbatical, um, some people don't and they try to show

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up in our groups and post about the guys that they're talking to and to get heartwork feedback.

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If you're not on the dating sabbatical during phase one and you post a relationship question

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about some guy you're talking to on a dating app, we will not approve that message.

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That that message will not make it onto your Facebook group.

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Now you're distracting everyone with dating and with men and with whatever it is, shenanigans

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you got yourself into instead of focusing on what you're here to do during phase one.

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And the heartwork sometimes is hard work.

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And so you want to fully focus on it because even those of you that have been in counseling

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or therapy for years, you're going to have what I call revealing for healing.

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You're going to, this is a very supernatural process and you're single for a reason and

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God wants to show you what it is, okay?

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Whether it has something to do with you or something that you're believing a lot of times,

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that's what it is.

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Whether it has to do with something that you need to do that you haven't done yet.

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Some of you, God gave you some instructions a long time ago, not about your love life,

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about another area of your life, but guess what?

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You drug your feet on that and you never did that thing and now you're still walking around

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in circles.

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And so those things will come back to you during phase one, whether they come back during

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the heartwork or during a prayer call or during a supernatural Saturday, God is going

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to give you direction.

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You're going to get clarity and you're going to begin to move forward in every area of

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your life.

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Are you excited?

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You should be because it's going to be great.

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It's going to be great.

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So phase one is that heartwork part.

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Phase two is going to be that love story accelerator part.

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All of you are going to get there at different times.

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Some of you are going to be dragging behind because you're busy and it's going to take

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you a long time to get through the phase one and that's okay.

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However long it takes you, it's still going to be there.

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The coaches are still going to be there every Monday.

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If you're in phase two, the coaches are going to still be there every Tuesday and if you're

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in phase three, we have an entire calendar of events for phase three people.

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I do want to recommend that now that you have joined the program to remove yourself from

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the challenge Facebook group, please make yourself a little note and go back and do

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that as soon as possible.

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Why?

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Some of you even tonight are posting over there and you're confused.

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You're like, Hey, am I supposed to be here?

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Where am I supposed to be?

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We're posting over there talking about me coming live, talking to the challenge group

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and you're like, Hey Jackie, I thought you were going to be live at eight.

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It says here you're going to be live at seven.

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That's because we're talking about a different live, right?

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If you're lost and you can't find it, you don't know where the email is.

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Please check your spam filter and if it's not there, then email us at admin at Jackie

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That's one Oh Dorman like Norman, not doorman.

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Just one Oh and we will help you find your Facebook group.

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We will, we will send you that link again and we will get you over there.

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That is where you're going to post all of your stuff.

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You're going to start to trust the women in this group, your bridal party.

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I've seen people being each other's weddings.

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I've seen people become housemates during this process of their last year single.

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through the couples that are in this one.

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people that, you know, met actually through this community or through me specifically,

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So as you start that phase one heartwork after tonight, it's time.

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who did it during the challenge, do it again.

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from being challenged to accepting the challenge, right?

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Now you're in the program.

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every single day because you're one of those ladies

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who just really has a hard time giving control to God,

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you're like, you give him the wheel, take it back.

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Give Jesus the wheel, you take it back.

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I wanna encourage you to really make that permission slip

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part of your morning prayers.

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Teach me, show me, heal me, grow me.

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in your life and you will start seeing crazy stuff

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in a good way happening.

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about the go at your own pace,

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about how the stuff unlocks?

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the next video will be available to you

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even if you're not supposed to watch it yet.

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Netflix doesn't hold you accountable

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if you binge an entire season of Gilmore Girls

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You'll be able to do it.

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We don't want you to do that, but you would be able to.

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So does everyone understand how that works?

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or a grab bag, they're gonna be over

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all different types of stuff

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that have to do with the heart work.

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All right, phase of week one, two, three, and four.

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Supernatural surrender, understanding the heart,

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unpacking the heart boxes,

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which includes confession, repentance, and forgiveness,

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and then understanding and becoming the real you.

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All right, all right.

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So we have our coaches in the chat right now.

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They can either answer them or I can answer them live.

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Where can we access the permission slip?

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The permission slip should live in the very first part

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of your Jackie Dorman portal,

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in the phase one portal of Jackie Dorman,

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in the heart work course,

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and it should be at the very top, right?

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Guys, that is where the e-book is as well.

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If you wanna order a hard copy of the book,

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you can get it on Amazon, okay?

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and if you're one of those people that wants to highlight,

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you wanna make little notes,

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and you wanna dog ear the pages, then you can order that.

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It does come with, the e-book does come with your program.

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All right, can you please describe

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what the Sunday night event is again?

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Sunday night is an activation of Saturday.

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the things that I release over the single nation on Saturday,

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because that is a co-ed event of our women's program

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the things that I release, okay,

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that God is speaking to my heart to release to you

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of encouragement and hope

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and all kinds of supernatural instruction and direction.

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I mean, they're just amazing times together in the spirit.

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that's where you can dig in with our activation coach.

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the stuff that you heard on Saturdays

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to your everyday life.

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Like, what does that mean for me?

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Like, that sounded great, Jackie,

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that lit my panties on fire.

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Like, I'm running around now, I'm excited, woo, woo.

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I got excited about it, but how do I implement it

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in my everyday life, right?

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we have a time where our entire prayer team

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or whoever's available on our prayer team comes together

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and we begin to speak the Father's heart over you.

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you know, words of prophecy.

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of every month, okay?

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to really receive encouragement from heaven.

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that God's doing in your life that week.

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just to brag on Jesus on Fridays.

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on that prayer leader's heart or whatever's on your heart.

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up at those prayer times and you can share short, brief and powerful, um, you know, scriptures

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that God put on your heart or some sort of prayer that you want to pray over the group.

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your sisterhood. And so if you've got to show up and ask for prayer because you're hurting and

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you're, you need a physical healing and you need a breakthrough or you need this or that, that's

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where you're going to find that support as well. And so show up for those as much as you can.

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All right. I downloaded the app. Isn't that where everything is? There isn't an app,

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so I'm not really sure what you downloaded, but it wasn't us. So if you can put in the chat what

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the name of the app is that you downloaded, because I'm not really sure what we're talking

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about there. Um, all right, let's see. You have an account, right? The email that you registered

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with the email that you purchased the course with you had, you make a password and that

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email and that password is how you log into jackiedorman.com into your portal.

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And in your portal, the thing that you purchased is there. All right. So you're just going to see,

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you're just going to see phase one of the heartwork program right now, because that's

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all you have access to. And that is going to be called the heartwork. And that is where I'm

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talking about you having access to these materials. Once you go through all those materials, regardless

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of whether it takes you five weeks, like we want it to take you, or it takes you three weeks because

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you, you know, you double time it, whatever you're doing, you know, make sure you're following holy

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spirit. But as soon as you unlock that final session in that phase one, that's when phase two

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will pop up. Okay. On your portal. And you'll start having access to that. Does that make sense

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to everybody? Any questions, any more questions? Nicole, go ahead. Hi, sorry. So the videos that

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are in Facebook group that you watch consecutively after you unlock. Oh, I can't hear you, Nicole.

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Hold on a second. Hold on one second. Okay, go ahead. Sorry. The videos in the Facebook,

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you unlock them, like it's like one through eight, things like that. I think somebody had posted

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something as a question, but some of them are not pertaining to the week that we're on.

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Do we still watch them? Okay. First of all, the videos, your actual assignments in your videos,

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in your materials for phase one are in the Jackie Dorman portal. They're not in the Facebook. Okay.

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So the ones in the Facebook, they're just to go back and reference what each. Yeah. Are you talking

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about the replays that are in the guide section of Facebook? Okay. Yeah. You don't need to watch

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those replays. Those are obviously from, you know, a class before you, and we're going to actually be

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removing all of that from Facebook and putting it over in the portal so that people are not

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confused about what's happening. There's a lot of good information in those videos. So we're

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not going to stop you from watching them if you want to watch them, but if you want to keep

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yourself from trying to get ahead of yourself and like zigging and zagging and going left and right

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being confused, because, you know, we're over here talking about forgiveness, but you're still

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on supernatural surrender. Then I suggest you stay in your portal and don't pay attention to

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those replays because we are going to be putting your replays in your portal.

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Okay. And your Jackie Dorman portal. Good question, Nicole. Thank you so much for asking that.

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All right. Someone just asked something. Let me take a look.

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Make sure you ask your questions, ladies. Let's see. So by Monday for our coaching session,

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are we supposed to have the first 48 pages read chapters one through three and homework process

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this done? Well, it's obviously Thursday. Okay. So you guys, this is your orientation and you can

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get started. Go ahead and show up to Monday's coaching call, but really honestly about, you

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know, your coaching calls are going to happen every week. So we're having your orientation

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on a Thursday. We usually do it on a Monday. And then the following Monday would be your first

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coaching call, but you can show up to the coaching call on Monday, but no, the following Monday would

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be when we would expect you to be showing up either live or on replay for that first heart

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check-in. All right. Cause I know that you guys are like, whoa, it's Christmas time. I'm busy.

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I got to go shopping. I got to wrap presents. I got to do all this stuff. And I got to read

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48 pages. What I know the reading part's hard. You guys, I almost had that. I almost had that

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completely finished and audible. And I know people really love it when that book is on audible.

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But honestly, I think reading and then journaling.

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that are at the end of each chapter of those materials

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because they are designed to bring that revealing

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for healing faster.

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they're supernatural questions.

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to get the most out of this first phase.

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What about the bonus session?

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Good question.

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Guys, I had that bonus session for the people

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that signed up within the first 24 hours,

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and some of you may have been those people.

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But unfortunately, a lot of people,

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they hadn't watched the challenge at all.

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So they weren't there live

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00:25:42.960 --> 00:25:44.440
for that last day of the challenge.

475
00:25:44.440 --> 00:25:46.400
They didn't hear the offer.

476
00:25:46.400 --> 00:25:48.920
And so people were emailing and asking,

477
00:25:48.920 --> 00:25:50.260
oh, please, can you extend it?

478
00:25:50.260 --> 00:25:51.760
I just finally heard about it.

479
00:25:51.760 --> 00:25:53.960
I just finally got to watch video three.

480
00:25:53.960 --> 00:25:56.920
So we went ahead and extended that bonus session

481
00:25:56.920 --> 00:25:57.760
to this Sunday.

482
00:25:57.760 --> 00:26:00.760
So anyone who signs up until this Sunday night,

483
00:26:00.760 --> 00:26:03.280
they will also receive that bonus session.

484
00:26:03.280 --> 00:26:05.320
And that includes all of you, obviously,

485
00:26:05.320 --> 00:26:06.440
because you all signed up.

486
00:26:06.440 --> 00:26:08.320
So whether you sign up in the first 24 hours

487
00:26:08.320 --> 00:26:09.280
or you signed up,

488
00:26:09.280 --> 00:26:11.320
so then we will schedule that bonus session

489
00:26:11.320 --> 00:26:12.300
and it will be live.

490
00:26:12.300 --> 00:26:14.920
It will be available in replay as well.

491
00:26:14.920 --> 00:26:17.840
But we will send you out an email and let you know,

492
00:26:17.840 --> 00:26:19.720
everyone who signed up from the very beginning

493
00:26:19.720 --> 00:26:21.080
till this Sunday,

494
00:26:21.080 --> 00:26:22.680
all of you will receive an email saying,

495
00:26:22.680 --> 00:26:26.400
hey, here's a time and date for that bonus session

496
00:26:26.400 --> 00:26:27.760
that you signed up for.

497
00:26:27.760 --> 00:26:29.360
And then we'll, and it's going to be good, y'all.

498
00:26:29.360 --> 00:26:32.600
It's going to be about prophesying your year.

499
00:26:32.600 --> 00:26:35.320
So like what's going to be happening for us in 2024,

500
00:26:35.320 --> 00:26:38.880
it's going to be a really amazing, great time

501
00:26:38.880 --> 00:26:41.360
of just really getting some clarity

502
00:26:41.360 --> 00:26:43.360
and some breakthrough and some things.

503
00:26:43.360 --> 00:26:45.480
And so I really want to encourage you

504
00:26:45.480 --> 00:26:49.200
to be part of that life if possible.

505
00:26:49.200 --> 00:26:50.660
Okay.

506
00:26:50.660 --> 00:26:52.160
And we will let you know when that date is.

507
00:26:52.160 --> 00:26:53.120
So good question.

508
00:26:53.120 --> 00:26:55.320
Thank you for asking, Matt.

509
00:26:55.320 --> 00:26:56.320
All right.

510
00:26:56.320 --> 00:26:57.920
Yeah, that bonus session is going to be fun.

511
00:26:57.920 --> 00:26:59.280
I'm looking forward to that.

512
00:26:59.280 --> 00:27:00.320
Are there worksheets?

513
00:27:00.320 --> 00:27:01.240
Yes.

514
00:27:01.240 --> 00:27:02.960
Not every chapter has a worksheet,

515
00:27:02.960 --> 00:27:04.400
but there are several worksheets

516
00:27:04.400 --> 00:27:07.080
and the worksheet goes where it is.

517
00:27:07.080 --> 00:27:08.980
So if it's in week one's materials,

518
00:27:08.980 --> 00:27:10.680
that's where it belongs.

519
00:27:10.680 --> 00:27:11.520
Okay.

520
00:27:11.520 --> 00:27:13.440
There's bonus sessions in some of them.

521
00:27:13.440 --> 00:27:15.960
Like there's one called Supernatural Hope

522
00:27:15.960 --> 00:27:18.560
and it has a worksheet that goes with it.

523
00:27:18.560 --> 00:27:19.400
Okay.

524
00:27:19.400 --> 00:27:20.320
The Hope Scale.

525
00:27:20.320 --> 00:27:22.440
You want to make sure that you do that worksheet

526
00:27:22.440 --> 00:27:24.880
before you watch the bonus session.

527
00:27:25.440 --> 00:27:26.440
You want to do the worksheet first

528
00:27:26.440 --> 00:27:29.700
and then you want to watch the bonus session about hope.

529
00:27:29.700 --> 00:27:30.540
Why?

530
00:27:30.540 --> 00:27:32.720
Because if you watch the bonus session first,

531
00:27:32.720 --> 00:27:35.680
then you're not going to fill out the worksheet correctly.

532
00:27:35.680 --> 00:27:37.480
It's not going to be accurate.

533
00:27:37.480 --> 00:27:40.000
So you want to make sure you do that first.

534
00:27:40.000 --> 00:27:42.440
And the instructions are in that portal.

535
00:27:42.440 --> 00:27:44.120
Hey, do this worksheet

536
00:27:44.120 --> 00:27:47.440
and then watch the Supernatural Hope bonus session.

537
00:27:47.440 --> 00:27:48.280
Okay.

538
00:27:48.280 --> 00:27:51.880
So if the worksheet, the worksheet is where it belongs.

539
00:27:51.880 --> 00:27:53.000
It's where it belongs.

540
00:27:53.040 --> 00:27:54.760
And then that's where you should do it

541
00:27:54.760 --> 00:27:57.400
is where it is in your materials.

542
00:27:57.400 --> 00:27:58.960
All right.

543
00:27:58.960 --> 00:28:00.040
I'm going to tell you in a few minutes,

544
00:28:00.040 --> 00:28:02.840
what you can expect as you go into this first phase.

545
00:28:03.980 --> 00:28:06.720
And that's based on the majority of people

546
00:28:06.720 --> 00:28:08.240
and what happens with them.

547
00:28:12.400 --> 00:28:13.840
Can someone link the workbook

548
00:28:13.840 --> 00:28:15.080
if we want to order it online?

549
00:28:15.080 --> 00:28:16.320
So I'm assuming that you're saying,

550
00:28:16.320 --> 00:28:18.640
can someone link the heart work?

551
00:28:18.640 --> 00:28:21.240
And you just find it at Amazon, Jackie Dorman,

552
00:28:21.240 --> 00:28:23.080
the heart work, that's what it's called.

553
00:28:23.080 --> 00:28:24.040
But if one of our coaches

554
00:28:24.040 --> 00:28:25.920
want to put a link up in the chat right now

555
00:28:25.920 --> 00:28:29.180
of where they can buy it on Amazon, then you can do that.

556
00:28:31.200 --> 00:28:32.320
All right, let's see.

557
00:28:33.800 --> 00:28:35.760
I read the book, but I'm now doing the course.

558
00:28:35.760 --> 00:28:36.600
Okay.

559
00:28:36.600 --> 00:28:37.520
So I'm assuming that you're not talking

560
00:28:37.520 --> 00:28:39.280
about the Married in 12 Months or Less book,

561
00:28:39.280 --> 00:28:41.040
which is one of my other books.

562
00:28:41.040 --> 00:28:43.040
You're talking about the heart work.

563
00:28:43.040 --> 00:28:46.120
And I want to, I want to suggest to you

564
00:28:46.120 --> 00:28:48.480
that even if you've already read that book in its entirety,

565
00:28:48.480 --> 00:28:49.760
maybe in a different season,

566
00:28:49.760 --> 00:28:51.720
or maybe before you joined the course,

567
00:28:51.720 --> 00:28:55.640
that you still do the reading and the journaling

568
00:28:55.640 --> 00:28:57.720
along with the videos and the worksheets

569
00:28:57.720 --> 00:29:00.000
in the order that we've presented them in,

570
00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:01.680
even if you read it before.

571
00:29:01.680 --> 00:29:04.560
Because it's going to hit differently this time, okay?

572
00:29:04.560 --> 00:29:07.400
And it's important that you do that reading

573
00:29:07.400 --> 00:29:10.080
and that journaling along with what you're doing here,

574
00:29:10.080 --> 00:29:12.000
along with the live coaching.

575
00:29:12.000 --> 00:29:13.120
That's very important.

576
00:29:16.720 --> 00:29:17.600
All right, awesome.

577
00:29:17.600 --> 00:29:18.600
I see you, Tony Lynn.

578
00:29:18.600 --> 00:29:20.120
I see what you're saying and you're right.

579
00:29:20.120 --> 00:29:21.040
Okay.

580
00:29:21.040 --> 00:29:22.480
All right, so let's go ahead and move forward.

581
00:29:22.480 --> 00:29:25.560
What can we expect during this phase one?

582
00:29:25.560 --> 00:29:26.720
What can we expect?

583
00:29:26.720 --> 00:29:28.360
A lot of really good things

584
00:29:28.360 --> 00:29:31.120
and some not so good things, all right?

585
00:29:31.120 --> 00:29:33.760
Let's go ahead and cover, what do you guys want first?

586
00:29:33.760 --> 00:29:35.280
The good, bad, the ugly.

587
00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:43.000
Let's go over the hard, but not that fun, all right?

588
00:29:43.880 --> 00:29:47.200
So some of the things that happen

589
00:29:47.200 --> 00:29:49.520
when we begin the supernatural process of heart work,

590
00:29:49.520 --> 00:29:51.280
and once again, it doesn't matter how much therapy

591
00:29:51.280 --> 00:29:54.200
or counseling you've done, this is still going to happen.

592
00:29:54.200 --> 00:29:56.520
You might be like, Jackie, I unpacked all my heart boxes.

593
00:29:56.520 --> 00:29:57.360
Well, guess what?

594
00:29:57.360 --> 00:29:58.440
There's a few left in the back

595
00:29:58.440 --> 00:29:59.760
that you don't know about yet.

596
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.080
all gonna open up like Pandora's box during this program.

597
00:30:04.080 --> 00:30:06.880
And so, because it's over the holidays as well,

598
00:30:06.880 --> 00:30:11.880
I wanna encourage you to really take time for yourself.

599
00:30:12.040 --> 00:30:15.360
Make sure that you're not showing up to a family dinner,

600
00:30:15.360 --> 00:30:17.320
half cocked, ready to blow up

601
00:30:17.320 --> 00:30:19.560
because you just did a session

602
00:30:19.560 --> 00:30:24.000
and you realize that your parents were not that great, okay?

603
00:30:24.000 --> 00:30:26.260
So we know everyone suffers.

604
00:30:26.260 --> 00:30:27.860
And so we go through that

605
00:30:27.860 --> 00:30:29.680
when we're going through this hard work part.

606
00:30:29.740 --> 00:30:31.460
A lot of times we're revisiting that

607
00:30:31.460 --> 00:30:33.340
and I know it's hard to revisit that.

608
00:30:33.340 --> 00:30:37.660
Most adults that are living right now on earth

609
00:30:37.660 --> 00:30:42.180
have some form of post-traumatic stress disorder, okay?

610
00:30:42.180 --> 00:30:43.780
When I used to be a social worker,

611
00:30:43.780 --> 00:30:46.160
we used to call that broken heart syndrome.

612
00:30:46.160 --> 00:30:48.620
That's what we called it as clinicians behind the scenes,

613
00:30:48.620 --> 00:30:50.420
we called it broken heart syndrome.

614
00:30:50.420 --> 00:30:51.820
And so that's what happens.

615
00:30:51.820 --> 00:30:53.100
And trauma doesn't just hurt us,

616
00:30:53.100 --> 00:30:55.140
it creates different versions of us.

617
00:30:55.140 --> 00:30:57.540
You're gonna get to meet all of your counterfeit identities

618
00:30:57.540 --> 00:30:59.440
during this phase one.

619
00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:01.040
And some of them you're gonna like,

620
00:31:01.040 --> 00:31:02.620
you'd be like, I see you girl.

621
00:31:02.620 --> 00:31:04.980
And some of them you're not gonna like, all right?

622
00:31:04.980 --> 00:31:07.380
You're gonna be like, ooh, I can't stand her.

623
00:31:07.380 --> 00:31:11.100
And so that is because she's been causing you

624
00:31:11.100 --> 00:31:13.500
a lot of trouble with her decision-making

625
00:31:13.500 --> 00:31:14.940
and her people-pleasing.

626
00:31:14.940 --> 00:31:17.660
And so you're gonna get to meet them.

627
00:31:17.660 --> 00:31:18.900
They're gonna come to the surface.

628
00:31:18.900 --> 00:31:23.380
At some point in time, your process, your patterns,

629
00:31:23.380 --> 00:31:25.220
your choices, all of those things

630
00:31:25.220 --> 00:31:27.140
and where they come from,

631
00:31:27.160 --> 00:31:29.920
not just the what, but also the why

632
00:31:29.920 --> 00:31:31.480
is gonna begin to surface.

633
00:31:31.480 --> 00:31:35.840
And we call that revealing for healing, all right?

634
00:31:35.840 --> 00:31:37.680
And so you don't have to do that alone.

635
00:31:37.680 --> 00:31:39.480
That is what your Facebook group is for.

636
00:31:39.480 --> 00:31:41.320
So show up there, all right?

637
00:31:41.320 --> 00:31:42.800
Let people know what you're going through.

638
00:31:42.800 --> 00:31:45.320
Let people know what your experiences are,

639
00:31:45.320 --> 00:31:47.480
your breakthroughs, your wins,

640
00:31:47.480 --> 00:31:50.280
and some of the losses and hurts and pains

641
00:31:50.280 --> 00:31:52.560
because you're gonna hear me too.

642
00:31:52.560 --> 00:31:55.920
You're gonna hear support and encouragement.

643
00:31:55.920 --> 00:31:57.660
I want you guys to encourage each other

644
00:31:57.660 --> 00:32:00.140
and cheer each other on and clap when each other win

645
00:32:00.140 --> 00:32:04.660
and hug each other virtually and love each other

646
00:32:04.660 --> 00:32:07.980
when people are going through the hard things, okay?

647
00:32:07.980 --> 00:32:08.820
The Bible says,

648
00:32:08.820 --> 00:32:09.940
rejoice with those that rejoice

649
00:32:09.940 --> 00:32:11.340
and weep with those that weep.

650
00:32:11.340 --> 00:32:13.540
What we don't want you to do in here

651
00:32:13.540 --> 00:32:16.140
is we don't want you to counsel, right?

652
00:32:16.140 --> 00:32:18.460
We don't want you to give advice or counsel

653
00:32:18.460 --> 00:32:20.380
because even if that's what you do for a living

654
00:32:20.380 --> 00:32:22.180
and it's gonna be hard for some of you,

655
00:32:22.180 --> 00:32:24.660
if you are a therapist or a counselor or a coach,

656
00:32:24.960 --> 00:32:27.200
a lot of women are in those healthy professions.

657
00:32:27.200 --> 00:32:28.920
So there's probably a lot of you

658
00:32:28.920 --> 00:32:31.760
that do some sort of work like that.

659
00:32:31.760 --> 00:32:35.760
We want you to take that hat off during this course, okay?

660
00:32:35.760 --> 00:32:38.320
You don't have to wear that hat here

661
00:32:38.320 --> 00:32:41.480
because we have people on our team that wear those hats

662
00:32:41.480 --> 00:32:44.180
so that you can take a break.

663
00:32:45.160 --> 00:32:46.680
You can focus on you.

664
00:32:46.680 --> 00:32:49.240
Some of you have never had the luxury to focus on yourself.

665
00:32:49.240 --> 00:32:51.960
You're always caretaking for someone else,

666
00:32:51.960 --> 00:32:53.240
always taking care of someone else,

667
00:32:53.240 --> 00:32:54.820
always cleaning up someone else's mess,

668
00:32:54.820 --> 00:32:56.320
always worrying about someone else,

669
00:32:56.320 --> 00:32:58.940
always trying to fix someone else or help someone else.

670
00:32:58.940 --> 00:33:00.440
This is you time.

671
00:33:01.580 --> 00:33:04.380
And it's very important that you take advantage of it

672
00:33:04.380 --> 00:33:06.420
because if you're so worried,

673
00:33:06.420 --> 00:33:08.340
I want you to support each other and love each other,

674
00:33:08.340 --> 00:33:09.220
but if you're so worried

675
00:33:09.220 --> 00:33:11.780
about what's going on over here with Sophia

676
00:33:11.780 --> 00:33:13.500
and you're getting all down a rabbit hole

677
00:33:13.500 --> 00:33:15.760
with her trauma and her stuff,

678
00:33:15.760 --> 00:33:18.300
a lot of times that is a self-defense mechanism

679
00:33:18.300 --> 00:33:20.100
to not work on our own stuff.

680
00:33:20.120 --> 00:33:23.240
For constantly focused on someone else and their stuff

681
00:33:23.240 --> 00:33:24.960
is because we don't want to take a good look

682
00:33:24.960 --> 00:33:26.400
at our own heart, right?

683
00:33:27.600 --> 00:33:29.440
We're deflecting.

684
00:33:29.440 --> 00:33:31.600
We don't want to deflect here.

685
00:33:31.600 --> 00:33:33.420
We want to process.

686
00:33:33.420 --> 00:33:35.240
Holy Spirit is here to help us.

687
00:33:35.240 --> 00:33:38.240
Remember the parable where the man in the pool with Bethesda,

688
00:33:38.240 --> 00:33:39.880
he couldn't get in the water fast enough

689
00:33:39.880 --> 00:33:40.880
and Jesus showed up and said,

690
00:33:40.880 --> 00:33:43.380
you don't need the water, you need me.

691
00:33:43.380 --> 00:33:44.800
And here I am.

692
00:33:44.800 --> 00:33:47.720
And the man was so busy with all his victim mentalities

693
00:33:47.720 --> 00:33:49.040
that he didn't notice that his answer

694
00:33:49.040 --> 00:33:49.880
was right in front of him.

695
00:33:50.640 --> 00:33:52.140
And he kept making excuses of why

696
00:33:52.140 --> 00:33:54.180
things weren't going to work out for him.

697
00:33:54.180 --> 00:33:55.480
We don't want to do that here.

698
00:33:55.480 --> 00:33:57.940
We want to realize that the waters are being stirred

699
00:33:57.940 --> 00:34:02.500
and Jesus is here to help us get into them, right?

700
00:34:02.500 --> 00:34:03.540
We're here for healing

701
00:34:03.540 --> 00:34:05.860
and you will have breakthrough if you expect.

702
00:34:05.860 --> 00:34:09.040
You're going to get whatever you expect

703
00:34:09.040 --> 00:34:10.440
and whatever you put into this,

704
00:34:10.440 --> 00:34:12.020
you are going to get out of it, all right?

705
00:34:12.020 --> 00:34:15.300
You're going to be an accelerated season of healing here.

706
00:34:15.300 --> 00:34:17.199
So all hell is going to break loose a little bit

707
00:34:17.199 --> 00:34:19.659
for some of you, right?

708
00:34:20.360 --> 00:34:21.199
You're going to have some pushback.

709
00:34:21.199 --> 00:34:22.440
I call it the opposing forces,

710
00:34:22.440 --> 00:34:25.440
the border bullies that don't want you to cross over

711
00:34:25.440 --> 00:34:28.040
into your proverbial promised land.

712
00:34:28.040 --> 00:34:30.639
And so don't pay attention to it.

713
00:34:30.639 --> 00:34:35.239
Do not give the distractions any type of power in your life.

714
00:34:35.239 --> 00:34:37.420
None of the naysayers, none of the voices.

715
00:34:37.420 --> 00:34:39.080
If you tell someone that you're in some kind of

716
00:34:39.080 --> 00:34:41.800
premarital group because you want to meet your spirit mate,

717
00:34:41.800 --> 00:34:43.960
people are going to give you a hard time.

718
00:34:43.960 --> 00:34:46.360
Not everyone, but someone's going to give you a hard time

719
00:34:46.360 --> 00:34:49.440
and you cannot let people discourage you.

720
00:34:50.179 --> 00:34:51.300
When God wrote the story of your life

721
00:34:51.300 --> 00:34:52.620
and when God wrote your love story,

722
00:34:52.620 --> 00:34:54.540
he didn't ask anyone else for their permission

723
00:34:54.540 --> 00:34:57.220
and you don't need their permission either.

724
00:34:57.220 --> 00:35:00.140
And so my advice to you during this.

725
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:06.800
first phase to minimize distraction would be to show up here and utilize our coaches

726
00:35:06.800 --> 00:35:13.840
and your sisters for sounding board and maybe leave everybody else out of it.

727
00:35:13.840 --> 00:35:16.960
You don't need anyone sabotaging your progress here.

728
00:35:16.960 --> 00:35:18.200
Okay.

729
00:35:18.200 --> 00:35:22.240
If you have kids at home, you can expect them to act out.

730
00:35:22.240 --> 00:35:25.120
Maybe they forget how to use the microwave or tie their shoes and all of a sudden they're

731
00:35:25.120 --> 00:35:28.720
needy and clingy and rude because why?

732
00:35:28.720 --> 00:35:33.480
Because your kids are very trauma bonded to you.

733
00:35:33.480 --> 00:35:35.840
You're like trauma about it.

734
00:35:35.840 --> 00:35:36.840
Yes.

735
00:35:36.840 --> 00:35:37.840
You've been through a lot.

736
00:35:37.840 --> 00:35:39.120
That's why you're here.

737
00:35:39.120 --> 00:35:40.120
Okay.

738
00:35:40.120 --> 00:35:44.920
That's why you're raising them without a father in the home because you're either divorced

739
00:35:44.920 --> 00:35:48.760
or he's passed away or he, you never married him in the first place.

740
00:35:48.760 --> 00:35:49.760
Why?

741
00:35:49.760 --> 00:35:51.360
Because it wasn't a healthy situation.

742
00:35:51.360 --> 00:35:56.640
And so those kids, they pick up on your feelings and your emotions.

743
00:35:56.640 --> 00:35:57.840
They know how you're feeling.

744
00:35:57.960 --> 00:35:58.960
They know what's up.

745
00:35:58.960 --> 00:36:03.200
They don't consciously know, but they unconsciously feel it.

746
00:36:03.200 --> 00:36:07.880
And so they might start to have some revealing for healing and not even know why.

747
00:36:07.880 --> 00:36:08.880
Right.

748
00:36:08.880 --> 00:36:14.400
And so you want to support them without allowing them to distract you.

749
00:36:14.400 --> 00:36:15.400
Okay.

750
00:36:15.400 --> 00:36:17.160
Cause this is your time.

751
00:36:17.160 --> 00:36:21.040
It's that thing on the plane, put your own oxygen mask on first, and then you can help

752
00:36:21.040 --> 00:36:23.040
your child.

753
00:36:23.040 --> 00:36:25.040
Cool.

754
00:36:25.040 --> 00:36:26.600
You can expect to feel all the fields.

755
00:36:26.600 --> 00:36:30.560
For those of you that are shut down, we call it numbing in the clinical world.

756
00:36:30.560 --> 00:36:35.160
For those of you that have parts of you that you just don't feel much, you just don't feel

757
00:36:35.160 --> 00:36:36.480
much in those areas.

758
00:36:36.480 --> 00:36:41.040
I can't tell you how many women have come to me and said, you know, I just have never

759
00:36:41.040 --> 00:36:44.520
really been that attracted to anybody.

760
00:36:44.520 --> 00:36:47.160
I just haven't, I haven't really been in love.

761
00:36:47.160 --> 00:36:52.240
I don't know if I was ever in love or, you know, once we get them into phase two, they're

762
00:36:52.240 --> 00:36:55.480
just like, yeah, you know, he's a nice guy.

763
00:36:55.480 --> 00:36:57.760
He seems really great, but I don't feel any sparks.

764
00:36:57.760 --> 00:36:58.760
Why?

765
00:36:58.760 --> 00:36:59.760
Because we're numbing out.

766
00:36:59.760 --> 00:37:05.320
We've been hurt so many times, or we're so afraid of being hurt that those parts of us

767
00:37:05.320 --> 00:37:06.320
are shut down.

768
00:37:06.320 --> 00:37:07.320
Right.

769
00:37:07.320 --> 00:37:10.560
And I talked about that in the challenge about those places coming alive again.

770
00:37:10.560 --> 00:37:13.120
So we've got to feel the fields to heal the fields.

771
00:37:13.120 --> 00:37:14.120
That's what I say in the hard work.

772
00:37:14.120 --> 00:37:16.080
We've got to feel the fields to heal the fields.

773
00:37:16.080 --> 00:37:20.080
And so, yeah, you're going to have feelings maybe that you haven't had a really long time

774
00:37:20.080 --> 00:37:22.240
and that's okay because they're not permanent.

775
00:37:22.240 --> 00:37:25.360
So regardless of whether they're great or whether they're not so great, I just really

776
00:37:25.360 --> 00:37:27.720
want to encourage you to push through them.

777
00:37:27.720 --> 00:37:28.720
Don't fall off.

778
00:37:28.720 --> 00:37:33.560
Don't go sit down in a corner somewhere and self-medicate come here and let's just go

779
00:37:33.560 --> 00:37:38.360
ahead and feel them together so that we can move you through them to the next level.

780
00:37:38.360 --> 00:37:39.360
Okay.

781
00:37:39.360 --> 00:37:41.800
So you're going to have those revealing for healings.

782
00:37:41.800 --> 00:37:42.800
All hell might break loose.

783
00:37:42.800 --> 00:37:45.400
You're going to feel the fields to heal the fields.

784
00:37:45.400 --> 00:37:48.500
One of the things that's going to happen is Psalm 126.

785
00:37:48.500 --> 00:37:52.000
You're going to begin to dream again.

786
00:37:52.760 --> 00:37:55.520
The word of God says that when we're in captivity, we can't dream.

787
00:37:55.520 --> 00:38:00.400
But when we're coming out of bondage, we become like those that dream.

788
00:38:00.400 --> 00:38:03.800
I want to tell you that one of the biggest things that happens in post-traumatic stress

789
00:38:03.800 --> 00:38:09.040
disorder or anytime that you've had trauma in your life as a result of that trauma, a

790
00:38:09.040 --> 00:38:13.220
lot of times our imaginations turn dark.

791
00:38:13.220 --> 00:38:17.840
So we still have an imagination, but we can't imagine anything but bad happening.

792
00:38:17.840 --> 00:38:20.040
Anybody else ever experienced this?

793
00:38:20.080 --> 00:38:24.160
You really are kind of stuck on worst case scenario a lot, and you're always like in

794
00:38:24.160 --> 00:38:30.160
hypervigilant survival mode, trying to make sure that nothing bad is going to happen.

795
00:38:30.160 --> 00:38:34.960
You're always very cautious, maybe even call it being responsible, but you don't really

796
00:38:34.960 --> 00:38:37.720
take a lot of time to just sit around and dream anymore.

797
00:38:37.720 --> 00:38:42.280
Like imagine or fantasize yourself in really good scenarios where really amazing things

798
00:38:42.280 --> 00:38:44.200
are happening to you.

799
00:38:44.200 --> 00:38:45.940
Your imagination has turned negative.

800
00:38:45.940 --> 00:38:49.340
So if you're imagining something, you're usually imagining a scenario that you don't

801
00:38:49.340 --> 00:38:54.460
want and you feel like by imagining it, that is somehow keeping it from happening.

802
00:38:54.460 --> 00:38:59.060
So you're like, well, if I get ahead of this thing, then I'm going to beat it.

803
00:38:59.060 --> 00:39:05.020
It's time for your imagination to be shifted back over to dreaming with God again.

804
00:39:05.020 --> 00:39:06.980
God wants that for you.

805
00:39:06.980 --> 00:39:08.460
We've been created to be dreamers.

806
00:39:08.460 --> 00:39:13.660
We've been created to imagine with God or dream with God.

807
00:39:13.660 --> 00:39:16.060
Remember we are God's dream.

808
00:39:16.060 --> 00:39:22.140
You are a product of the imagination of God and he took his imagination and he wrapped

809
00:39:22.140 --> 00:39:26.340
a body around it and we call it you.

810
00:39:26.340 --> 00:39:30.500
And so just how he's a creator of amazing and beautiful things, you are also a creator

811
00:39:30.500 --> 00:39:32.300
of amazing and beautiful things.

812
00:39:32.300 --> 00:39:35.780
And so we want to come out of that stress and trauma response with our imaginations

813
00:39:35.780 --> 00:39:37.140
and we want to dream with God.

814
00:39:37.140 --> 00:39:41.660
We want to begin to see ourselves in, in the things that we want to have happen in our

815
00:39:41.660 --> 00:39:42.660
lives.

816
00:39:42.660 --> 00:39:47.500
We want to begin to see ourselves in incredible scenarios, doing things that we've only dreamed

817
00:39:47.500 --> 00:39:48.980
of doing.

818
00:39:48.980 --> 00:39:50.260
And that is what we want to do.

819
00:39:50.260 --> 00:39:54.060
So night dreaming, put a little journal, put a little notepad, a pen.

820
00:39:54.060 --> 00:39:56.660
You will not remember if you wake up in the middle of the night, you're like, wow, that's

821
00:39:56.660 --> 00:39:57.660
an interesting thing.

822
00:39:57.660 --> 00:39:59.380
I got to ask Jackie or a team member.

823
00:39:59.380 --> 00:40:00.020
I got to ask.

824
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.040
somebody what that means.

825
00:40:02.040 --> 00:40:04.360
And then you go back to sleep and you wake back up

826
00:40:04.360 --> 00:40:06.960
and darn it, you just can't, you know, you had a dream,

827
00:40:06.960 --> 00:40:08.840
but you don't know what it is.

828
00:40:08.840 --> 00:40:10.960
You just can not.

829
00:40:10.960 --> 00:40:13.180
Yes, Linda Hart, if you've not dreamed in a while,

830
00:40:13.180 --> 00:40:16.780
that is a good indication that you've been

831
00:40:16.780 --> 00:40:19.100
in some kind of stress response.

832
00:40:19.100 --> 00:40:20.760
Because we've been designed to dream.

833
00:40:20.760 --> 00:40:22.260
People will say all the time, including me,

834
00:40:22.260 --> 00:40:23.320
oh, you know, I'm not a dreamer.

835
00:40:23.320 --> 00:40:25.120
I don't dream that much at night.

836
00:40:25.120 --> 00:40:26.920
Yeah, because our hormones are whacked out

837
00:40:26.920 --> 00:40:28.320
because our adrenals are burnt out

838
00:40:28.320 --> 00:40:29.720
because we're stressed out.

839
00:40:31.280 --> 00:40:32.560
And the first thing that happens

840
00:40:32.560 --> 00:40:33.840
when you're stressed out friends

841
00:40:33.840 --> 00:40:35.520
is that your adrenals are impaired,

842
00:40:35.520 --> 00:40:37.120
your thyroid is impaired,

843
00:40:37.120 --> 00:40:38.440
your ovaries are impaired

844
00:40:38.440 --> 00:40:40.160
if you're still a menstruating woman.

845
00:40:40.160 --> 00:40:41.460
And then guess what?

846
00:40:41.460 --> 00:40:42.800
You're not getting deep sleep.

847
00:40:42.800 --> 00:40:44.320
And so you're not getting REM sleep,

848
00:40:44.320 --> 00:40:46.080
so you're not getting dream sleep.

849
00:40:46.080 --> 00:40:47.440
Does that make sense to everyone?

850
00:40:47.440 --> 00:40:49.320
You guys, it's biological.

851
00:40:49.320 --> 00:40:51.240
And so as you're starting to come out of that

852
00:40:51.240 --> 00:40:54.420
during the heart work, you're gonna start dreaming.

853
00:40:54.420 --> 00:40:56.480
And when you start dreaming,

854
00:40:56.480 --> 00:40:58.400
and some of you are not even gonna only dream at night,

855
00:40:58.400 --> 00:40:59.360
you're gonna dream during the day.

856
00:40:59.360 --> 00:41:01.880
You're gonna find yourself sitting around daydreaming again

857
00:41:01.880 --> 00:41:03.440
like you were when you were a kid.

858
00:41:03.440 --> 00:41:04.520
Write those things down.

859
00:41:04.520 --> 00:41:05.540
God's talking to you.

860
00:41:05.540 --> 00:41:07.440
He's always talking to us,

861
00:41:07.440 --> 00:41:10.800
but he wants to let you in on the little love notes

862
00:41:10.800 --> 00:41:13.400
that are leading you somewhere special in your life.

863
00:41:14.440 --> 00:41:16.260
Okay, so begin to write those things down.

864
00:41:16.260 --> 00:41:18.700
You start seeing patterns, write them down.

865
00:41:18.700 --> 00:41:21.060
Like I saw a red bird five times this week.

866
00:41:21.060 --> 00:41:21.900
Write it down.

867
00:41:22.920 --> 00:41:23.960
God's talking to you.

868
00:41:24.920 --> 00:41:27.880
Like I saw, I saw all these numbers.

869
00:41:27.880 --> 00:41:28.800
I keep seeing them.

870
00:41:28.800 --> 00:41:31.240
One, two, three, four, two, two, two, four, four, four,

871
00:41:31.240 --> 00:41:33.320
11, 11, one, one, one, all the things.

872
00:41:33.320 --> 00:41:36.200
Write it down, write it down.

873
00:41:36.200 --> 00:41:40.000
And we'll make sure that on all of our heart work check-ins,

874
00:41:40.000 --> 00:41:41.200
our heart check-ins,

875
00:41:41.200 --> 00:41:44.880
we will say something about supernatural patterns.

876
00:41:44.880 --> 00:41:47.440
Okay, we'll say something, we'll take any questions,

877
00:41:47.440 --> 00:41:48.600
because remember those heart check-ins,

878
00:41:48.600 --> 00:41:49.860
you get to ask your questions.

879
00:41:49.860 --> 00:41:52.060
Regardless of what part of phase one you're in,

880
00:41:52.060 --> 00:41:53.360
you're gonna get to ask your questions

881
00:41:53.760 --> 00:41:55.080
if you show up live.

882
00:41:55.080 --> 00:41:56.800
Okay, really important stuff.

883
00:41:56.800 --> 00:41:57.760
So you're gonna start dreaming again.

884
00:41:57.760 --> 00:41:59.440
You're gonna start having daydreams again.

885
00:41:59.440 --> 00:42:00.280
You're gonna imagine,

886
00:42:00.280 --> 00:42:03.040
you might start having a little thing called deja vu.

887
00:42:03.040 --> 00:42:05.240
Just so you know, you know what deja vu is?

888
00:42:05.240 --> 00:42:06.640
It's convergence.

889
00:42:06.640 --> 00:42:09.480
And so if you start experiencing deja vu,

890
00:42:09.480 --> 00:42:11.000
I want you to stop right then.

891
00:42:11.880 --> 00:42:14.600
I want you to take inventory, write it down.

892
00:42:14.600 --> 00:42:15.840
Who am I talking to?

893
00:42:15.840 --> 00:42:16.980
What am I talking about?

894
00:42:16.980 --> 00:42:17.820
Where am I?

895
00:42:17.820 --> 00:42:18.640
Who am I with?

896
00:42:18.640 --> 00:42:19.880
Who am I not with?

897
00:42:19.880 --> 00:42:21.200
What's going on?

898
00:42:21.200 --> 00:42:22.220
Write it down.

899
00:42:22.220 --> 00:42:23.060
Why?

900
00:42:23.740 --> 00:42:25.060
Because the reason why you're having deja vu

901
00:42:25.060 --> 00:42:29.220
is because you are actually remembering something

902
00:42:29.220 --> 00:42:31.340
that God has spoken to you,

903
00:42:31.340 --> 00:42:33.840
maybe in the nighttime, in a dream,

904
00:42:33.840 --> 00:42:36.020
that you don't remember consciously.

905
00:42:36.020 --> 00:42:37.620
It could be something that's actually written

906
00:42:37.620 --> 00:42:39.900
in your Psalm 139 story.

907
00:42:39.900 --> 00:42:41.940
That story that God wrote about your life.

908
00:42:41.940 --> 00:42:43.900
You could be actually experiencing it,

909
00:42:43.900 --> 00:42:47.340
and the real you knows that you've heard about this

910
00:42:47.340 --> 00:42:49.100
somewhere before.

911
00:42:49.100 --> 00:42:52.420
In that story that was written inside your heart.

912
00:42:53.180 --> 00:42:56.340
Like when I saw my husband on that jumbotron, I knew him.

913
00:42:56.340 --> 00:42:58.460
I didn't know why I knew him,

914
00:42:58.460 --> 00:43:00.260
but two years later, he became my neighbor,

915
00:43:00.260 --> 00:43:02.420
and four years later, he became my husband.

916
00:43:04.180 --> 00:43:05.340
Right?

917
00:43:05.340 --> 00:43:07.100
Or two years later, he became my neighbor,

918
00:43:07.100 --> 00:43:10.300
and four years later, I found out

919
00:43:10.300 --> 00:43:11.900
that he was the same guy in the jumbotron

920
00:43:11.900 --> 00:43:14.180
after I was married to him for two years.

921
00:43:14.180 --> 00:43:15.300
Why did I recognize him?

922
00:43:15.300 --> 00:43:18.980
My heart recognized him because he was written in my story.

923
00:43:18.980 --> 00:43:21.980
So you guys, one thing that I really want

924
00:43:21.980 --> 00:43:24.900
to have happen to you, and it's meant to happen to you

925
00:43:24.900 --> 00:43:28.420
during phase one, is that you supernaturally come alive.

926
00:43:28.420 --> 00:43:30.220
You're a spirit that lives in a body.

927
00:43:30.220 --> 00:43:32.580
You're not a body that has a spirit,

928
00:43:32.580 --> 00:43:34.380
and your spirit's gonna come alive.

929
00:43:34.380 --> 00:43:36.460
You're gonna start realizing that God's talking to me.

930
00:43:36.460 --> 00:43:37.300
He's leading me.

931
00:43:37.300 --> 00:43:38.120
He's guiding me.

932
00:43:38.120 --> 00:43:39.280
He's emotionally involved with me.

933
00:43:39.280 --> 00:43:40.200
He loves me.

934
00:43:40.200 --> 00:43:41.460
He wants better things for me

935
00:43:41.460 --> 00:43:43.180
than I would ever choose for myself.

936
00:43:43.180 --> 00:43:46.300
That's what we want to have happen to you in phase one,

937
00:43:46.300 --> 00:43:47.880
and it's going to.

938
00:43:47.880 --> 00:43:49.680
God starts reframing all the bad things

939
00:43:49.680 --> 00:43:50.840
that happen in your life.

940
00:43:50.840 --> 00:43:52.880
You're gonna start seeing it through a different lens.

941
00:43:52.880 --> 00:43:54.780
You're gonna start having those Romans 8, 28,

942
00:43:54.780 --> 00:43:57.720
God working it all out to your good moments,

943
00:43:57.720 --> 00:43:59.560
beauty for ashes kind of stuff,

944
00:43:59.560 --> 00:44:02.600
as you progress through those first five weeks.

945
00:44:02.600 --> 00:44:03.440
It's gonna be so fun.

946
00:44:03.440 --> 00:44:05.660
You're gonna get to see it happen for other people too,

947
00:44:05.660 --> 00:44:09.000
and that is gonna be so rewarding for you, okay?

948
00:44:09.000 --> 00:44:09.840
Woo!

949
00:44:09.840 --> 00:44:10.840
Love it.

950
00:44:10.840 --> 00:44:12.000
So exciting.

951
00:44:12.000 --> 00:44:13.160
All right.

952
00:44:13.160 --> 00:44:17.360
Okay, so that is what you can expect.

953
00:44:18.880 --> 00:44:22.240
Does anyone have any questions?

954
00:44:22.240 --> 00:44:23.240
And then once again,

955
00:44:25.240 --> 00:44:26.960
we don't have it completely set up this way

956
00:44:26.960 --> 00:44:27.980
because you're the first group

957
00:44:27.980 --> 00:44:29.440
that's gonna go through this hybrid,

958
00:44:29.440 --> 00:44:31.640
like kind of beyond the honor system,

959
00:44:31.640 --> 00:44:33.160
go at your own pace,

960
00:44:33.160 --> 00:44:35.080
but pretty soon,

961
00:44:35.080 --> 00:44:38.000
probably within the first week of your program,

962
00:44:38.000 --> 00:44:39.500
when you unlock a material,

963
00:44:39.500 --> 00:44:41.440
like you unlock a session,

964
00:44:41.440 --> 00:44:43.240
a video of me speaking to you,

965
00:44:43.240 --> 00:44:45.100
like in week one or week two,

966
00:44:45.960 --> 00:44:47.360
it'll generate an email.

967
00:44:48.640 --> 00:44:51.440
So please make sure that you mark our email safe.

968
00:44:51.440 --> 00:44:53.560
Make sure that you remove them from your spam inbox,

969
00:44:53.560 --> 00:44:56.360
put them in your inbox so that we're communicating with you

970
00:44:56.360 --> 00:44:57.440
because in that email,

971
00:44:57.440 --> 00:44:59.800
it's gonna tell you really what we want you to dig into

972
00:44:59.800 --> 00:45:00.640
when you.

973
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.480
watch that video and what you should or might be feeling and just different things that should be

974
00:45:04.480 --> 00:45:09.600
feeling, but might be feeling it kind of coach you a little bit in those emails, along with

975
00:45:09.600 --> 00:45:15.280
that live coaching session every week. Okay. We want to make sure you're getting those emails

976
00:45:15.280 --> 00:45:20.240
are really important. Okay. They're not going to come right away. Remember what I just said.

977
00:45:20.800 --> 00:45:25.440
It's not completely that algorithm isn't completely set up yet, but it's going to start

978
00:45:25.440 --> 00:45:29.440
happening pretty soon here. You know, hopefully before you get through week one, that's going

979
00:45:29.440 --> 00:45:36.960
to start happening. All right. Okay. So coaches, we have Bethany Cooper on tonight. She used to

980
00:45:36.960 --> 00:45:43.040
be Bethany Stanko when she was like you, because she is a success story from this community.

981
00:45:43.920 --> 00:45:48.960
Always was a coach was a coach before she came to us. Like a lot of you are, and now she coaches

982
00:45:48.960 --> 00:45:54.800
for us and she will be one of your main heartwork coaches that will be showing up with you on those

983
00:45:54.800 --> 00:46:00.640
check-ins on Monday. And then we have Renee Rizzo on here as well. And she's going to be a very

984
00:46:00.640 --> 00:46:06.000
familiar face to you when you get to phase two. She also was a student in this program as well.

985
00:46:06.000 --> 00:46:10.240
And so when you get to phase two, you're going to get to glean from the wisdom of, we call her Rizzo

986
00:46:10.240 --> 00:46:16.320
around here and you know, kind of like Greece, right. And you're going to get to glean from

987
00:46:16.320 --> 00:46:21.680
that wisdom when you get to phase two and you'll see, you'll see some of her before that as well.

988
00:46:21.680 --> 00:46:26.800
Then we have another, other amazing coaches. If you see people commenting on your posts

989
00:46:26.800 --> 00:46:30.960
in any Facebook group, whether it's phase one, two, or three, that's right. There's three different

990
00:46:30.960 --> 00:46:35.120
Facebook groups. So when you go on phase one Facebook group, when you're done with that

991
00:46:35.120 --> 00:46:40.160
and you, and you request phase two, because you got the email, it's time to go to phase two

992
00:46:40.160 --> 00:46:44.400
and you went over there, you'll get removed from the phase one group. Okay. So don't worry about

993
00:46:44.400 --> 00:46:48.400
that. And you know, if you can help us remove yourself, that's great, but otherwise we will

994
00:46:48.400 --> 00:46:53.200
remove you because we don't want you confused in those groups. But in those groups, when you post

995
00:46:53.200 --> 00:46:58.720
and you see people that are commenting on your posts, and it seems more like a coaching comment

996
00:46:58.720 --> 00:47:03.120
is probably not one of your sisters. And here's probably one of our peer coaches that works with

997
00:47:03.120 --> 00:47:07.680
us. Right. And so we're going to introduce all of them to you. So you know who they are,

998
00:47:07.680 --> 00:47:11.760
and you don't think that they're just some nosy Nelly all up in your business.

999
00:47:11.760 --> 00:47:15.600
When you're posting there, you're like, Hey, you're not supposed to be coaching me. The coaches are,

1000
00:47:15.600 --> 00:47:19.760
well, they are an extension of the coaches. And so we want to know, we want you to know who they

1001
00:47:19.760 --> 00:47:25.680
are. So you don't think that they're just some, you know, some overzealous over helping. I'm not

1002
00:47:25.680 --> 00:47:31.760
bossy. I'm just an aggressive helper kind of girl, right? Because there's a sweatshirt that I almost

1003
00:47:31.760 --> 00:47:40.960
bought for myself. It says I'm not bossy. I'm just aggressively helpful. Some of you are like that

1004
00:47:40.960 --> 00:47:44.960
too. All right. So they are not being aggressively helpful. They are actually,

1005
00:47:44.960 --> 00:47:49.200
they have permission and they to be helpful because they all have been through this program

1006
00:47:49.200 --> 00:47:52.800
and they've been with us for a long time and they're here to help you be successful. All

1007
00:47:52.800 --> 00:48:00.400
right. Does anyone have any questions? I have a question. Okay. Um, if I'm not ready to talk

1008
00:48:00.400 --> 00:48:04.640
to guys or start dating after phase one, can I wait for phase two or how does that work?

1009
00:48:05.440 --> 00:48:09.840
I think phase two would still just be amazing for you. Even if you're, even if you're not,

1010
00:48:09.840 --> 00:48:13.520
cause ladies, you're not going to ever stop doing the heartwork. The heartwork is a tool belt

1011
00:48:13.520 --> 00:48:16.880
you're going to wear for the rest of your life. And it's just going to help you to, you know,

1012
00:48:17.680 --> 00:48:22.560
just really be self-aware of what's happening in your life and be able to get to those wins a lot

1013
00:48:22.560 --> 00:48:27.680
faster. But if you're really not ready, because we have people in here whose husbands just passed

1014
00:48:27.680 --> 00:48:32.080
away or they just got divorced or different things, no one's going to force you into dating,

1015
00:48:32.080 --> 00:48:37.440
but the information in phase two, like the divine feminine and boundaries and all that is so good

1016
00:48:37.440 --> 00:48:42.880
for you, regardless of whether you're ready to get out there or not. Okay. So go ahead and do it.

1017
00:48:42.880 --> 00:48:47.280
And don't just wait until I feel like I'm ready to date. Yeah. I think that you'll really enjoy

1018
00:48:47.280 --> 00:48:52.720
it regardless of whether you really want to get out there or not yet. Okay. Yeah. And it might

1019
00:48:52.720 --> 00:48:57.520
actually empower you to feel confident to want to do that. And here's the other thing. You have no

1020
00:48:57.520 --> 00:49:04.640
idea how you're going to feel after heartwork, right? Don't force you. Okay. I just went through

1021
00:49:04.640 --> 00:49:11.680
a breakup. Um, so I'm just kind of not sure. You're wrong. You're wrong. We get it. Yeah. Yes.

1022
00:49:11.680 --> 00:49:16.560
And we're here to help stop the bleeding. It's going to be good. You're in the right place.

1023
00:49:16.560 --> 00:49:22.080
And that goes for anyone. We're not going to force you into anything you don't feel ready for. Okay.

1024
00:49:22.080 --> 00:49:26.320
But we're here to get you ready. That's what we're here to do. All right. Who else?

1025
00:49:27.280 --> 00:49:33.920
We had one question, um, about Christmas day and new year's fall on Monday. So they they're asking,

1026
00:49:33.920 --> 00:49:37.200
will they have live sessions on Christmas day and new year's day?

1027
00:49:38.880 --> 00:49:46.000
Um, we probably will still record something. I think that we will, our, that our team will

1028
00:49:46.000 --> 00:49:50.960
still record something, but you can just watch it and replay. Like, if you can't be there for that,

1029
00:49:50.960 --> 00:49:55.600
we understand that it's Christmas day. Um, but we will still record it because we really need

1030
00:49:55.600 --> 00:49:59.760
to stay on that Monday. And you guys, you're going to learn something about me.

1031
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:06.320
Um, right now in, in this program, I learned a long time ago that the timing's never going

1032
00:50:06.320 --> 00:50:08.460
to be perfect in life.

1033
00:50:08.460 --> 00:50:12.120
And so if you want it, you just got to go do it, right?

1034
00:50:12.120 --> 00:50:13.840
You just got to go do it.

1035
00:50:13.840 --> 00:50:18.400
And so, um, so yeah, you know, we don't just, we don't just wait for Friday.

1036
00:50:18.400 --> 00:50:19.840
We won't, don't wait for vacation.

1037
00:50:19.840 --> 00:50:21.240
We don't wait till we're a certain age.

1038
00:50:21.240 --> 00:50:24.240
We don't, you know, wait till we're a certain weight.

1039
00:50:24.240 --> 00:50:27.560
Like a lot of you, you know, you haven't replaced your clothes in a long time because you're

1040
00:50:27.560 --> 00:50:31.960
waiting until you feel worthy of cute clothes because you don't like your body.

1041
00:50:31.960 --> 00:50:36.600
Well, it's time to start making peace with your body and letting it look cute, regardless

1042
00:50:36.600 --> 00:50:38.680
of whether you're at your ideal weight or not.

1043
00:50:38.680 --> 00:50:40.120
Like we're not going to wait.

1044
00:50:40.120 --> 00:50:41.120
Okay.

1045
00:50:41.120 --> 00:50:42.120
This is life.

1046
00:50:42.120 --> 00:50:43.120
This is not a dress rehearsal.

1047
00:50:43.120 --> 00:50:44.120
This is life right now.

1048
00:50:44.120 --> 00:50:45.680
And so our team will show up.

1049
00:50:45.680 --> 00:50:51.880
Someone on our team will show up, probably me and, um, and, um, especially since, um,

1050
00:50:51.880 --> 00:50:53.920
I am having Christmas on the 23rd.

1051
00:50:53.920 --> 00:50:58.480
So on the 25th, I for sure can show up coaches.

1052
00:50:58.480 --> 00:50:59.480
I will.

1053
00:50:59.480 --> 00:51:00.480
I will take those.

1054
00:51:00.480 --> 00:51:01.880
I will take those slots on the 25th.

1055
00:51:01.880 --> 00:51:02.880
And so, yes.

1056
00:51:02.880 --> 00:51:04.440
And on, and on, on New Year's day too.

1057
00:51:04.440 --> 00:51:07.720
So you can watch and replay if you're not available though.

1058
00:51:07.720 --> 00:51:13.000
And I leave prayer on Mondays and I will be praying on Christmas day and New Year's day.

1059
00:51:13.000 --> 00:51:14.000
There we go.

1060
00:51:14.000 --> 00:51:15.000
Right.

1061
00:51:15.000 --> 00:51:19.960
There's a scripture in the Bible that says that if you regard the wind, like the weather,

1062
00:51:19.960 --> 00:51:24.720
the wind and the rain that you will never plant and you will never harvest.

1063
00:51:24.720 --> 00:51:28.320
And so, you know, we can't just, we can't work, wait for perfect conditions.

1064
00:51:28.320 --> 00:51:29.840
We just got to go after it.

1065
00:51:29.840 --> 00:51:30.840
All right.

1066
00:51:30.840 --> 00:51:31.840
So what else do we have?

1067
00:51:31.840 --> 00:51:32.840
Any other questions?

1068
00:51:32.840 --> 00:51:35.840
Let me look in the chat here.

1069
00:51:35.840 --> 00:51:38.400
Cause I see that there's stuff coming up.

1070
00:51:38.400 --> 00:51:40.680
All right.

1071
00:51:40.680 --> 00:51:42.920
What if you don't think you know how to look cute, et cetera?

1072
00:51:42.920 --> 00:51:45.960
Oh, you're going to get so much of that in phase two.

1073
00:51:45.960 --> 00:51:50.560
And if you end up in path two, when you get to phase three, there's going to be a lot

1074
00:51:50.560 --> 00:51:56.760
of that as well with just, you know, beginning to love yourself, you got to rock it out.

1075
00:51:56.760 --> 00:51:59.680
You know, I'm a, I'm a, I'm what they call midsize girl.

1076
00:51:59.680 --> 00:52:04.240
So I'm not necessarily plus size, but I'm not, you know, missus size either.

1077
00:52:04.240 --> 00:52:09.360
I'm just kind of right in that, you know, 10 to 16, depending on who makes the clothes

1078
00:52:09.360 --> 00:52:11.040
kind of arranged.

1079
00:52:11.040 --> 00:52:15.200
And you know, I didn't used to be like that when I was young and I'm five 10.

1080
00:52:15.440 --> 00:52:18.840
So I'm pretty substantially kind of sturdy girl.

1081
00:52:18.840 --> 00:52:21.240
And I just had to make peace with, you know what?

1082
00:52:21.240 --> 00:52:22.240
I got to love myself.

1083
00:52:22.240 --> 00:52:24.840
I got to love myself right here, right now.

1084
00:52:24.840 --> 00:52:29.080
I can't wait till I'm what everybody else thinks I should be or what, you know, I think

1085
00:52:29.080 --> 00:52:32.800
I should be based on culture or based on what I was like when I was 20.

1086
00:52:32.800 --> 00:52:36.240
And so you're going to hear about how to look cute and how to love yourself.

1087
00:52:36.240 --> 00:52:37.560
And that's going to be important.

1088
00:52:37.560 --> 00:52:39.720
Did you mention there are dating events later?

1089
00:52:39.720 --> 00:52:40.720
How does that work?

1090
00:52:40.720 --> 00:52:43.460
There are live events that also include men.

1091
00:52:43.460 --> 00:52:46.620
So if you want to call that a dating event, you can call it a dating event, but we have

1092
00:52:46.620 --> 00:52:49.500
fun times of discussions, lively discussions called.

1093
00:52:49.500 --> 00:52:53.900
He said, she said, we have single spotlights where I might bring someone before you that

1094
00:52:53.900 --> 00:53:00.180
I'm trying to match make, you know, and, and interview them and tell you all about them

1095
00:53:00.180 --> 00:53:01.780
so that you can meet them.

1096
00:53:01.780 --> 00:53:06.580
We do have other fun games and different things that we play like date, the dating game, just

1097
00:53:06.580 --> 00:53:09.780
like the old fashioned one where there's three people that you can't see.

1098
00:53:09.780 --> 00:53:13.500
And one bachelor or bachelorette that gets to choose between those three people based

1099
00:53:13.500 --> 00:53:17.100
on the questions they answer, just fun, things like that.

1100
00:53:17.100 --> 00:53:22.260
Plus a lot of our things, Saturdays and Sundays are co-ed Fridays are now co-ed as well.

1101
00:53:22.260 --> 00:53:26.340
And so if there are any men in our community that are showing up to those things, just

1102
00:53:26.340 --> 00:53:30.020
so you know, ladies, men don't show up to a lot of zoom stuff live, they usually watch

1103
00:53:30.020 --> 00:53:31.820
and replay.

1104
00:53:31.820 --> 00:53:36.540
But there are lots of opportunities to meet the guys that are somehow associated or affiliated

1105
00:53:36.540 --> 00:53:39.140
with our, with our movement.

1106
00:53:39.900 --> 00:53:44.820
We have had lots of marriages happen between those two groups of people.

1107
00:53:44.820 --> 00:53:46.740
Do you have any events local to the Austin area?

1108
00:53:46.740 --> 00:53:47.740
Good question.

1109
00:53:47.740 --> 00:53:52.340
Renee, you guys were on here, Bethany, I want to go ahead and make single cities available

1110
00:53:52.340 --> 00:53:54.900
to people as soon as phase one.

1111
00:53:54.900 --> 00:53:59.700
So ladies, there's going to be a list and links to things to Facebook pages called single

1112
00:53:59.700 --> 00:54:00.700
city.

1113
00:54:00.700 --> 00:54:02.420
All right.

1114
00:54:02.420 --> 00:54:04.820
And we have, I think 19 of them right now.

1115
00:54:04.820 --> 00:54:07.700
We have several more that are being added.

1116
00:54:07.700 --> 00:54:09.660
Choose the one that's closest in proximity to you.

1117
00:54:09.660 --> 00:54:13.220
If you don't have one, that's right in your city that you're from.

1118
00:54:13.220 --> 00:54:15.620
You can suggest one to get started there.

1119
00:54:15.620 --> 00:54:16.620
Okay.

1120
00:54:16.620 --> 00:54:21.940
You can email us and say, Hey, I'd love for you to start one in St. Louis.

1121
00:54:21.940 --> 00:54:26.300
But in the meantime, join the one that's closest to you, the one that's within a four or five

1122
00:54:26.300 --> 00:54:30.700
hour driving distance, or the one that's just closest to you just in general.

1123
00:54:30.700 --> 00:54:33.420
We have a couple in Canada and the rest of them are in the US.

1124
00:54:33.420 --> 00:54:41.380
We have one opening in the UK and a couple more us cities that are opening as we speak

1125
00:54:41.380 --> 00:54:42.860
or in the works for that.

1126
00:54:42.860 --> 00:54:46.980
So we're going to get those links put up in your guide section of your Facebook page.

1127
00:54:46.980 --> 00:54:50.740
Scroll down till you see the guide that says single city, and then you'll see the links.

1128
00:54:50.740 --> 00:54:52.060
Go ahead and join that.

1129
00:54:52.060 --> 00:54:55.020
And that is where you're going to find out about local events.

1130
00:54:55.020 --> 00:54:58.420
Like if I'm coming to your city, like I'm in Southern California right now, I was in

1131
00:54:58.420 --> 00:54:59.860
Southern California a few months ago.

1132
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:02.440
a meetup, a meet and greet where I got to meet people

1133
00:55:02.440 --> 00:55:05.480
and it was fun, it was co-ed, it was a good time.

1134
00:55:05.480 --> 00:55:06.880
So if that's happening,

1135
00:55:06.880 --> 00:55:09.560
that will be posted on your single city page.

1136
00:55:09.560 --> 00:55:12.880
If there are other events in your city for singles,

1137
00:55:12.880 --> 00:55:15.200
because all of those single cities have moderators

1138
00:55:15.200 --> 00:55:17.040
that are in our community,

1139
00:55:17.040 --> 00:55:18.840
they will get posted on those pages

1140
00:55:18.840 --> 00:55:21.840
where you can meet up in person with your sisters,

1141
00:55:21.840 --> 00:55:24.360
you can do some homework together,

1142
00:55:24.360 --> 00:55:27.840
you can go out together and have fun, have a girls night,

1143
00:55:27.840 --> 00:55:30.160
you can meet whatever guys are in that area

1144
00:55:30.160 --> 00:55:31.120
in the single cities.

1145
00:55:31.120 --> 00:55:34.320
The single cities tend to be pretty much sisterhoods though

1146
00:55:34.320 --> 00:55:36.720
with just a few men intermingled in there.

1147
00:55:36.720 --> 00:55:39.600
All right, what else questions do we have?

1148
00:55:42.840 --> 00:55:44.360
Can we join all if we love to travel?

1149
00:55:44.360 --> 00:55:46.240
No, we don't like you to do that.

1150
00:55:46.240 --> 00:55:49.760
We like you to really have community,

1151
00:55:49.760 --> 00:55:53.480
but if you work two places and you're back and forth,

1152
00:55:53.480 --> 00:55:55.240
back and forth between those two places,

1153
00:55:55.240 --> 00:55:57.200
you definitely can join both of them.

1154
00:55:57.200 --> 00:55:59.120
If one place is like your hometown,

1155
00:55:59.120 --> 00:56:00.360
that's where your parents still live

1156
00:56:00.360 --> 00:56:03.000
and you go there a lot, let's near that one,

1157
00:56:03.000 --> 00:56:04.240
then you can do that.

1158
00:56:04.240 --> 00:56:06.840
But we definitely don't want you to join all of them.

1159
00:56:06.840 --> 00:56:09.400
Okay, so yeah,

1160
00:56:09.400 --> 00:56:12.320
because we really want you to make friends and community

1161
00:56:12.320 --> 00:56:13.600
and that's what's important there.

1162
00:56:13.600 --> 00:56:15.040
And then when you guys get into phase three,

1163
00:56:15.040 --> 00:56:17.320
then we do have global groups

1164
00:56:17.320 --> 00:56:19.960
that are just everyone everywhere.

1165
00:56:19.960 --> 00:56:22.120
And those won't be available to you

1166
00:56:22.120 --> 00:56:25.440
until you're over there in phase two and three.

1167
00:56:25.480 --> 00:56:27.480
All right, is there any other questions?

1168
00:56:34.360 --> 00:56:36.440
The Zoom links for prayers should already be

1169
00:56:36.440 --> 00:56:39.800
in your Facebook portal.

1170
00:56:39.800 --> 00:56:41.520
Renee, Bethany.

1171
00:56:42.880 --> 00:56:45.760
Yes, the schedule and all the Zoom links

1172
00:56:45.760 --> 00:56:49.720
are in guide number two in your Facebook portal.

1173
00:56:49.720 --> 00:56:50.560
Okay.

1174
00:56:56.440 --> 00:56:59.040
Yeah, and that's in Facebook, friends.

1175
00:56:59.040 --> 00:57:01.280
Guides in Facebook, right?

1176
00:57:01.280 --> 00:57:04.640
When we say portal, that's JackieDorman.com.

1177
00:57:04.640 --> 00:57:07.640
Okay, when we say Facebook group,

1178
00:57:07.640 --> 00:57:08.520
it's obviously Facebook.

1179
00:57:08.520 --> 00:57:12.160
When we say the word guides, that's the Facebook group.

1180
00:57:12.160 --> 00:57:14.360
You're gonna see a little word that says guides.

1181
00:57:14.360 --> 00:57:18.040
It's gonna either be in your toolbar on your Facebook page,

1182
00:57:18.040 --> 00:57:19.320
your phase one Facebook page,

1183
00:57:19.320 --> 00:57:21.560
or if you have an old version of Facebook,

1184
00:57:21.560 --> 00:57:23.440
there might be a little three line hamburger,

1185
00:57:23.480 --> 00:57:26.280
a little three lines, little dropdown menu,

1186
00:57:26.280 --> 00:57:28.400
and your guides might be in there as well.

1187
00:57:31.960 --> 00:57:34.120
The single cities, we have 19 of them, Sophia.

1188
00:57:34.120 --> 00:57:35.920
So you'll see the list of them,

1189
00:57:35.920 --> 00:57:37.920
and those will be also in the guides section

1190
00:57:37.920 --> 00:57:38.920
of your Facebook group.

1191
00:57:38.920 --> 00:57:40.920
So just join the one that's nearest you

1192
00:57:40.920 --> 00:57:42.680
or the two that are nearest you.

1193
00:57:44.080 --> 00:57:46.080
Don't join all 19 of them, Tony Lynn.

1194
00:57:48.280 --> 00:57:49.680
Tory Lynn, Tory Lynn.

1195
00:57:49.680 --> 00:57:51.440
Don't, no, I'm just kidding.

1196
00:57:51.440 --> 00:57:52.480
I'm just kidding.

1197
00:57:53.400 --> 00:57:54.320
Sophia, go ahead.

1198
00:57:57.520 --> 00:58:02.280
So I'm in the guides, but I'm not seeing where the-

1199
00:58:02.280 --> 00:58:04.680
I'm literally, yeah, Sophia,

1200
00:58:04.680 --> 00:58:07.360
she just announced that she's offering that.

1201
00:58:07.360 --> 00:58:08.720
So we have not linked it yet.

1202
00:58:08.720 --> 00:58:12.000
So you need to, we'll do that tomorrow for you guys.

1203
00:58:12.000 --> 00:58:12.840
Okay.

1204
00:58:14.200 --> 00:58:15.480
Yeah, usually we don't let,

1205
00:58:15.480 --> 00:58:19.520
usually single cities are not available till phase two

1206
00:58:19.520 --> 00:58:22.240
because we want you to focus on hard work

1207
00:58:23.000 --> 00:58:24.240
and they are co-ed to a certain extent.

1208
00:58:24.240 --> 00:58:26.480
So we don't want you to get all, you know,

1209
00:58:26.480 --> 00:58:29.560
get all distracted by any guys that you may or may not meet.

1210
00:58:29.560 --> 00:58:30.960
But I'm just going to go ahead and do it

1211
00:58:30.960 --> 00:58:32.880
because I want you to have community with each other.

1212
00:58:32.880 --> 00:58:34.600
I want you to see who lives near you

1213
00:58:34.600 --> 00:58:35.920
and who you can get together with

1214
00:58:35.920 --> 00:58:38.600
and really link arms with during this time.

1215
00:58:38.600 --> 00:58:39.440
So we're going to go ahead

1216
00:58:39.440 --> 00:58:41.600
and make those available right away.

1217
00:58:45.760 --> 00:58:46.800
Any other questions?

1218
00:58:46.800 --> 00:58:48.360
Ladies, remember you're asking questions

1219
00:58:48.360 --> 00:58:50.680
for all the people that are not here.

1220
00:58:50.680 --> 00:58:53.440
So if you even think that it's a good question,

1221
00:58:53.440 --> 00:58:54.440
go ahead and ask it.

1222
00:58:59.960 --> 00:59:04.960
Do you have like a specific amount of time

1223
00:59:05.000 --> 00:59:07.880
that you encourage girls to wait after a breakup

1224
00:59:07.880 --> 00:59:11.280
in order to even step their foot back in there

1225
00:59:11.280 --> 00:59:13.040
or not really?

1226
00:59:13.040 --> 00:59:15.840
You know, everybody's different, obviously.

1227
00:59:15.840 --> 00:59:19.720
You know, it depends on how serious the relationship was.

1228
00:59:19.720 --> 00:59:21.600
It depends on what kind of trauma

1229
00:59:21.600 --> 00:59:23.760
or drama ended the relationship.

1230
00:59:23.760 --> 00:59:26.040
You know, it depends on what level, yeah,

1231
00:59:26.040 --> 00:59:28.840
what level of seriousness of the relationship, you know?

1232
00:59:28.840 --> 00:59:33.400
And so, you know, it depends on the sensitivity

1233
00:59:33.400 --> 00:59:34.960
of the person just in general.

1234
00:59:34.960 --> 00:59:37.600
And so I just think that as you go through your heart work,

1235
00:59:37.600 --> 00:59:39.400
I think that you'll be able to get a better gauge

1236
00:59:39.400 --> 00:59:40.360
of where you are.

1237
00:59:42.040 --> 00:59:44.280
And then you'll know what it is

1238
00:59:44.280 --> 00:59:46.000
that you want to do going forward.

1239
00:59:47.000 --> 00:59:49.120
And ladies, remember that everyone's here

1240
00:59:49.120 --> 00:59:51.320
for a different reason, right?

1241
00:59:51.320 --> 00:59:52.480
I think that we can all agree

1242
00:59:52.480 --> 00:59:57.040
that there are some beautiful, amazing, talented women

1243
00:59:57.880 --> 00:59:58.720
that are single.

1244
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:02.720
on this earth, right?

1245
01:00:02.720 --> 01:00:04.760
And so that should encourage you first and foremost,

1246
01:00:04.760 --> 01:00:05.920
that you're not rowing this boat alone,

1247
01:00:05.920 --> 01:00:08.680
but everyone's rowing this boat for a different reason.

1248
01:00:08.680 --> 01:00:13.680
And while I don't know all of you personally,

1249
01:00:13.920 --> 01:00:16.560
and if I did sit down and have a coaching call with you,

1250
01:00:16.560 --> 01:00:19.240
we would probably be able to get down to the bottom of,

1251
01:00:19.240 --> 01:00:22.000
you know, your stagnation in this area of your life

1252
01:00:22.000 --> 01:00:23.040
pretty quickly.

1253
01:00:23.040 --> 01:00:24.200
I do know this,

1254
01:00:24.200 --> 01:00:27.560
I do know that there has been a corporate singleness

1255
01:00:27.560 --> 01:00:28.920
over the body of Christ.

1256
01:00:30.160 --> 01:00:35.160
And God spoke to me that he wants that to end.

1257
01:00:35.400 --> 01:00:38.400
So the dry spell in people's love lives has been ending.

1258
01:00:38.400 --> 01:00:42.280
There's been a tsunami wave of marriages happening

1259
01:00:42.280 --> 01:00:43.320
just in this movement.

1260
01:00:43.320 --> 01:00:45.080
That doesn't include all the other people

1261
01:00:45.080 --> 01:00:48.040
that may be called to this ministry as well.

1262
01:00:48.040 --> 01:00:50.920
And so all I wanna say is this,

1263
01:00:50.920 --> 01:00:55.360
is that whatever's been keeping you back from this,

1264
01:00:55.360 --> 01:00:57.960
I believe is now breaking off.

1265
01:00:57.960 --> 01:00:59.200
Okay, that's why you're here.

1266
01:00:59.200 --> 01:01:00.560
So corporately, you know,

1267
01:01:00.560 --> 01:01:03.320
we're seeing mass numbers of people get married

1268
01:01:03.320 --> 01:01:05.160
and I believe you're gonna be one of them.

1269
01:01:05.160 --> 01:01:07.360
So it doesn't matter what's kept you single,

1270
01:01:08.640 --> 01:01:10.920
God's, he's playing matchmaker.

1271
01:01:10.920 --> 01:01:12.320
So it's time for you now.

1272
01:01:14.800 --> 01:01:16.360
Go ahead, let's see.

1273
01:01:16.360 --> 01:01:17.280
Is it Ms. Shonda?

1274
01:01:17.280 --> 01:01:19.200
I'm so bad at sounding things out.

1275
01:01:19.200 --> 01:01:20.800
Is that how I say your name?

1276
01:01:20.800 --> 01:01:21.840
Yes, you said it correctly.

1277
01:01:21.840 --> 01:01:26.360
And I think you sort of answered the question

1278
01:01:26.360 --> 01:01:27.720
without answering the question.

1279
01:01:27.720 --> 01:01:29.720
So my question was gonna be about diversity,

1280
01:01:29.720 --> 01:01:32.000
but obviously God can move through any,

1281
01:01:33.920 --> 01:01:35.040
he can move through anything,

1282
01:01:35.040 --> 01:01:37.560
but when we are having the coaching calls

1283
01:01:37.560 --> 01:01:42.560
and obviously we are the sum of our lived experiences

1284
01:01:43.240 --> 01:01:44.480
and shared experiences,

1285
01:01:44.480 --> 01:01:46.520
and sometimes that's very different.

1286
01:01:46.520 --> 01:01:49.560
And so my question is always,

1287
01:01:49.560 --> 01:01:53.800
if you don't have a very diverse upbringing,

1288
01:01:54.800 --> 01:01:56.720
how those answers could be,

1289
01:01:56.720 --> 01:01:59.880
or the coaching could be very unique if you,

1290
01:02:00.880 --> 01:02:02.640
I don't know, I don't wanna make it like.

1291
01:02:02.640 --> 01:02:04.320
No, no, I hear what you're saying for sure.

1292
01:02:04.320 --> 01:02:05.600
And we definitely have,

1293
01:02:05.600 --> 01:02:09.880
I feel like we have some very diverse experience,

1294
01:02:09.880 --> 01:02:13.640
you know, and it's as far as our coaches are concerned

1295
01:02:13.640 --> 01:02:17.400
and who they are that will be giving that advice.

1296
01:02:17.400 --> 01:02:20.200
And specifically in the area of people's love lives,

1297
01:02:20.640 --> 01:02:22.480
I mean, obviously, like you said,

1298
01:02:22.480 --> 01:02:24.400
you know, every area of our lives is different.

1299
01:02:24.400 --> 01:02:27.200
We all have different experiences in those areas,

1300
01:02:27.200 --> 01:02:29.320
you know, regardless of where we come from.

1301
01:02:29.320 --> 01:02:31.120
And so, yeah, that's important.

1302
01:02:31.120 --> 01:02:31.960
I will say this,

1303
01:02:31.960 --> 01:02:34.280
and I think this is important to note that,

1304
01:02:34.280 --> 01:02:35.720
you know, I had someone just recently,

1305
01:02:35.720 --> 01:02:38.160
I don't know if any of you follow me on Instagram,

1306
01:02:38.160 --> 01:02:40.480
but it's Jackie Dorman official on Instagram.

1307
01:02:40.480 --> 01:02:43.120
And I post a lot of success stories there.

1308
01:02:43.120 --> 01:02:46.080
And there's not a lot of diversity in those pictures, right?

1309
01:02:46.080 --> 01:02:48.000
So they're pretty much all just called

1310
01:02:48.120 --> 01:02:50.240
And then interspersed every once in a while,

1311
01:02:50.240 --> 01:02:51.680
we'll have an interracial marriage,

1312
01:02:51.680 --> 01:02:53.160
or we'll have, you know,

1313
01:02:53.160 --> 01:02:56.200
we'll have some people of color in some ways,

1314
01:02:56.200 --> 01:02:58.280
whether they're Asians or whether they're black,

1315
01:02:58.280 --> 01:02:59.800
or it doesn't matter what they are.

1316
01:02:59.800 --> 01:03:01.360
And someone questioned me about that,

1317
01:03:01.360 --> 01:03:03.760
like, is your program for all people?

1318
01:03:03.760 --> 01:03:05.760
It's for all the people that sign up.

1319
01:03:05.760 --> 01:03:07.160
And so that has been,

1320
01:03:07.160 --> 01:03:09.360
I feel like the thing that has kept us

1321
01:03:09.360 --> 01:03:11.840
from having more diversity is that, you know,

1322
01:03:11.840 --> 01:03:13.960
more people just haven't given it a shot

1323
01:03:13.960 --> 01:03:15.240
and it's not, you know,

1324
01:03:15.280 --> 01:03:16.120
is that, you know,

1325
01:03:16.120 --> 01:03:18.040
more people just haven't given it a shot

1326
01:03:18.040 --> 01:03:19.840
or believe that it was for them.

1327
01:03:19.840 --> 01:03:22.640
But I will tell you that when I started this in 2020,

1328
01:03:22.640 --> 01:03:25.440
God said that this movement would be instrumental

1329
01:03:25.440 --> 01:03:27.240
in restoring the black family.

1330
01:03:27.240 --> 01:03:29.480
And so I've yet to see that promise come to pass.

1331
01:03:29.480 --> 01:03:31.440
Like I said, it's just been a little trickle

1332
01:03:31.440 --> 01:03:33.360
of diversity in the success stories

1333
01:03:33.360 --> 01:03:36.160
only because of the fact that

1334
01:03:36.160 --> 01:03:38.280
we haven't had more diverse audience

1335
01:03:38.280 --> 01:03:39.720
actually join the program.

1336
01:03:39.720 --> 01:03:42.200
So I'm excited with this last challenge.

1337
01:03:42.200 --> 01:03:43.880
I feel like that's shifting.

1338
01:03:43.880 --> 01:03:47.160
And so I feel like that word that God gave me in 2020

1339
01:03:47.160 --> 01:03:51.880
about this movement being that force of revival,

1340
01:03:51.880 --> 01:03:53.680
I think that that is going to,

1341
01:03:53.680 --> 01:03:56.920
I think we're gonna start seeing that come to pass.

1342
01:03:56.920 --> 01:03:58.240
Thank you.

1343
01:03:58.240 --> 01:03:59.520
And I'm excited about it.

1344
01:04:00.640 --> 01:04:02.920
So I made a few comments.

1345
01:04:02.920 --> 01:04:05.640
You go, I'm not afraid of being transparent.

1346
01:04:05.640 --> 01:04:08.040
I made a few comments during this last challenge

1347
01:04:08.040 --> 01:04:09.760
that actually got an email from someone

1348
01:04:09.760 --> 01:04:12.240
that they felt like the comments that I made

1349
01:04:12.240 --> 01:04:17.240
were actually insensitive culturally.

1350
01:04:17.280 --> 01:04:19.320
And I didn't understand.

1351
01:04:19.320 --> 01:04:20.840
I had to like actually go back

1352
01:04:20.840 --> 01:04:22.200
and look at what the comments were.

1353
01:04:22.200 --> 01:04:23.200
And then even after that,

1354
01:04:23.200 --> 01:04:24.520
it was hard for me to understand

1355
01:04:24.520 --> 01:04:29.080
because culturally those comments are where I come from.

1356
01:04:29.080 --> 01:04:31.400
I might not look like I come from that place,

1357
01:04:31.400 --> 01:04:34.560
but I grew up in foster care.

1358
01:04:34.560 --> 01:04:35.840
I lived in the inner city.

1359
01:04:35.840 --> 01:04:38.880
So the comments that I made, they're part of me.

1360
01:04:38.880 --> 01:04:41.520
They're part of what would naturally flow from me.

1361
01:04:41.560 --> 01:04:43.600
And so I feel like this is a really amazing

1362
01:04:43.600 --> 01:04:46.760
and beautiful opportunity for all of us

1363
01:04:46.760 --> 01:04:48.280
as the single sons and daughters of God

1364
01:04:48.280 --> 01:04:51.880
to kind of lock arms and like join this revival together.

1365
01:04:51.880 --> 01:04:54.080
And so that really stretched me.

1366
01:04:54.080 --> 01:04:56.360
And I feel like there'll be a lot of stretching

1367
01:04:56.360 --> 01:04:59.280
as we go forward, seeing these promises of God fulfilled.

1368
01:04:59.280 --> 01:05:00.680
And I'm excited about that.

1369
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:16.640
that. Coolness? Everyone excited? All right. Good, good, good. Well, is there any other

1370
01:05:16.640 --> 01:05:20.480
questions? What time is it? All right, we're just a little bit, seven minutes after the hour.

1371
01:05:21.360 --> 01:05:24.400
Anybody have any other comments before we go forward?

1372
01:05:35.760 --> 01:05:39.120
It sounded like someone was trying to get in the back door. I remember this in my house.

1373
01:05:39.120 --> 01:05:44.800
So I'm like, what's going on over there? What's going on? I will, since we're kind of on that

1374
01:05:44.800 --> 01:05:49.600
subject, I will say this, you know, you would have heard this in phase two, but let's really be

1375
01:05:50.880 --> 01:05:57.120
willing to allow God to move all things out of our heart that would keep us from the love story

1376
01:05:57.120 --> 01:06:01.840
that he has for us. Like, you know, we got to surrender the pen and you know, I say this in

1377
01:06:01.840 --> 01:06:07.040
phase two, but I'll go ahead and say this now. A lot of people are going to have marriages that

1378
01:06:07.040 --> 01:06:12.960
they weren't expecting. So we always have to be open to intercultural, interracial, inter,

1379
01:06:13.040 --> 01:06:20.880
you know, denominational or intergenerational like ages marriages, because like, I know someone

1380
01:06:20.880 --> 01:06:25.120
right now who's dating someone who's like 35 years older than them. And it's a God thing. And

1381
01:06:25.120 --> 01:06:30.640
that's like, whoa, most of us would not sign up for that. Right. So whether it's intergenerational

1382
01:06:30.640 --> 01:06:37.040
or interracial or intercultural, intercontinental, you have no idea the love story that God might

1383
01:06:37.040 --> 01:06:41.120
have for you. And so I want you to begin, even during this heart work part to really begin to

1384
01:06:41.120 --> 01:06:45.200
open your heart, knowing that God knows what's best for you and he knows how to restore your

1385
01:06:45.200 --> 01:06:50.720
lineage and legacy better than you do. And so we got to surrender the pen. I would not have signed

1386
01:06:50.720 --> 01:06:56.240
up to marry a guy who's two inches shorter than me. Inter, inter height. Is that a thing?

1387
01:06:58.480 --> 01:07:03.440
In my bare feet, friends in my bare feet, I'm not even talking about with shoes on.

1388
01:07:03.440 --> 01:07:10.320
All right. So, but, um, but yeah, good times. So we all have, we all have things that we're

1389
01:07:10.320 --> 01:07:14.800
going to get stretched in. I, mine is small compared to some of the ones that y'all might

1390
01:07:14.800 --> 01:07:19.120
get stretched in, but I want us to begin the process of being open to that. Cool.

1391
01:07:20.880 --> 01:07:23.920
All right. So I want to pray over you, father God, I thank you for this group of ladies. I

1392
01:07:23.920 --> 01:07:29.440
thank you that you brought them here to help them to get to the places that they have always dreamed

1393
01:07:29.440 --> 01:07:34.400
of going. And so now is the time Lord help us to come into alignment and agreement with heaven and

1394
01:07:34.400 --> 01:07:39.520
every area of our lives. Help us to be willing to be made willing in this day of your power to step

1395
01:07:39.520 --> 01:07:44.160
in the waters while they're being stirred, that our hearts might be healed, that the filters might

1396
01:07:44.160 --> 01:07:49.200
be cleaned off. The heart lens might be clear so that we can walk into the destiny that you've

1397
01:07:49.200 --> 01:07:56.000
always had for us, take our feet off the path of pain and lead us back to you in Jesus name. Amen.

1398
01:07:57.520 --> 01:08:02.240
Right. If you think of any other questions, you can put them in the chat of this replay,

1399
01:08:02.240 --> 01:08:06.960
like in the comments of this replay and our coaches or myself, we will circle back around

1400
01:08:06.960 --> 01:08:11.280
and we will answer those questions, but this is it ladies. You are activated.

1401
01:08:11.280 --> 01:08:18.080
Go ahead and go. Remember one week, one, one section, one week, a week of the first five

1402
01:08:18.080 --> 01:08:22.960
weeks is what we recommend. If you got to go faster than that, for some reason, we trust you,

1403
01:08:22.960 --> 01:08:27.439
but we know that you're doing it for the right reasons, right? Make sure you ask yourself that.

1404
01:08:27.439 --> 01:08:30.319
All right. Love y'all. See you soon. Bye everyone.