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Just a handful of you on this early orientation

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and that's okay.

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I'll give you a chance to ask any questions

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that you need to ask before the end, all right?

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And so I'm just gonna go over some best practices here

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with you guys.

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I'm not gonna keep you long.

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I'm gonna go over what you can expect.

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That's really important part of orientation

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and how it all works.

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So first and foremost, I'm so excited for you.

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I just saw someone post in the group in the challenge group

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and say, I just joined the program

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and I feel like my whole life is about to change.

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And it is, that is not a lie.

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It is going to change.

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And the process of changing

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is not necessarily going to feel great at first.

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And so I wanna go ahead and give you that.

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Just because something hurts a little bit

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or it's a little hard at first

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doesn't mean that it's not gonna be worth it.

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It doesn't have to be easy.

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It just has to be worth it, right?

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And so that's the most important part of that.

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So depending on how many layers you got on you

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of counterfeits,

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depending on how much stuff you've been through,

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how much trauma directly related to relationships,

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not just romantic,

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but other types of relationships as well

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is in your life, in your heart,

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have to weigh in those heart boxes

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that that is going to be what this first five weeks

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of your life looks like.

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And so I wanna encourage you, don't fall off, don't quit.

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If you have to go a little slower than five weeks,

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that's fine.

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If you end up taking two or three weeks

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to just go through the first week,

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whatever you need to do, we will be here for you.

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And you won't be alone

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because there will always be other ladies

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in the same place that you are in the program,

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if that makes sense, okay?

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And I want you to get to know each other.

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We have all kinds of opportunities

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for you to get to know each other,

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for you to pray for each other,

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all different types of things where you feel supported

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and you feel seen, known, and loved in this community

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and by heaven.

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In fact, let me just tell you this.

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You know, a lot of you know my story

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and I have, you know,

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dealt with a lot of abandonment issues in my life.

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I've been on my own from a very young age,

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like my mid-teens.

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And today I had to do some things

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that I was really putting off

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because they kind of scared me.

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And maybe you've been putting off the type of work

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that you're about to do with us because it's scary

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and you really don't know what's gonna come up

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or you don't know what to expect.

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And so I've been putting some things off

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because I just felt unprotected.

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And I wanna let you know that you are protected,

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you are God-defended,

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and you're gonna see that more and more

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as you progress through this first five weeks

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of how intentionally involved God is in your life

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and how he has brought you here.

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And so my prayer today,

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I was crying actually earlier today

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over some of the things that I'm doing in my life.

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And I just said to God,

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I just wanna feel looked after.

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And I just wanna release that over you right now.

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I was just saying that to the Lord through tears.

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I just wanna feel looked after,

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like I'm being looked after.

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Like when we're children,

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if you have a good mother,

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then you're looked after, right?

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Your needs are not just met, but also preempted.

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Like a good mother knows what her child has needed

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before they even start crying for it, right?

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She knows about what time that child's gonna wanna eat

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or go to sleep.

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And a good mother is already ahead of the curve,

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a focused mother, an intentional mother,

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an intentional father.

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And so all my life, I felt like I was on my own

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and that there was no one looking after me,

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that I was unprotected, that life wasn't safe.

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The world wasn't safe, right?

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And so one of the main things that's gonna happen to you

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as you come through this first five weeks of the program

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is you are gonna feel fathered.

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You are gonna feel mothered,

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like you never have been before.

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Not smother mothered, not controlled.

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A lot of times when we find spiritual leadership

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in our lives, it's sort of like a controlling type of thing,

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but it's not gonna be like that.

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You're gonna feel protected and safe and looked after

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and cared for and seen and known and loved,

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not just by the people around you in the program,

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your coaches, myself, but also by heaven.

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And so for a lot of you,

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that's going to be so healing and so life-changing

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in and of itself.

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So that was kind of a word that I felt like

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I wanted to release over this group of ladies

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that are starting today.

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So let's talk about some of the things that you can expect.

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Let me go over a little housekeeping at first.

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So if you have not joined the Facebook group,

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please join it.

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And then after you're in that phase one Facebook group

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and all the links for that are in the email series

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that we're sending you,

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if you for some reason are not getting emails,

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go ahead and raise your little avatar hand

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if you've not received any confirmation emails,

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information emails from us since joining the program.

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Okay, no hands are up, that's good.

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But because this is being recorded,

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I will go ahead and say to all those

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that are watching and replay,

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if you have not gotten emails.

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It's possible that you gave us a typo when you entered your email address, that you put a typo

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in it. That happens more often than you think. So please email us at admin, A-D-M-I-N at Jackie

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Dorman, J-A-C-K-I-E D-O-R-M-A-N dot com. So admin at Jackie Dorman dot com. That is what you want

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to do. Email us and let us know, hey, I'm not getting the emails. I haven't gotten any of

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the emails with the information about how to access my materials, how to create my account,

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how to get to my Facebook classroom. That's just a bonus classroom. If you're not on Facebook for

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some reason, good news. In two weeks or shorter, we're going to have everything on an app that you

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can download for free. Whether you have a Droid or an iPhone, you'll be able to have it right on

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your phone. You'll have the community on your phone. You'll have the resources on your phone.

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You'll have the events on your phone. All you have to do is hit a link and go straight to the

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Zoom when it's time for your event. It'll be great. Who's excited about that? I am. I'm very

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excited about that. And so in just a couple of weeks, about halfway through your phase one,

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you will have access to that. And that's going to be incredible. And that's going to make the

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transition to phase two and phase three so seamless, because as of right now, you go into

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the challenge Facebook group, you go into phase one Facebook group, and then you go into phase

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two Facebook group, and then you go into phase three Facebook group, right? And so that's really

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clunky. And a lot of people don't even like to use Facebook. And so we invested in this app that is

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really phenomenal. And it'll be everything right at your fingertips that you need, including the

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community, the same type of community that you have on Facebook, like the newsfeed and all the

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pictures and videos and whatever it is that you want to post and your homework and whatever you're

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doing in your phase will be right there on your phone. And then also, if you don't use your phone

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like that, on your laptop, you'll have the it's a it's a web based app. So you can use it also on

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your laptop if that's what you prefer. Alright, so that's exciting. And that's coming so soon.

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They said by March 1, and maybe sooner. So I'm very, very excited about that. You'll be the

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first class that really gets to, you know, start the program that way. So back to little housekeeping.

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So you were in that challenge Facebook group, but when you join Facebook group phase one,

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for your heart work, please remove yourself from the challenge group. Why? Because it's confusing

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for you. A lot of people end up posting their videos or the things that they want to talk about

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that are happening to them in phase one in the challenge group, because they don't know where

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they are. And so it's important for you to just go ahead and remove yourself from the challenge

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group. You don't need it anymore. There's nothing that we're going to post there that you need to

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know about everything that we're going to be posting in your actual program groups are all

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that you're going to need to know. But do not leave the challenge group before you get safely and

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securely into phase one Facebook group. Okay, why? Because then we can't find you. We don't know what

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your Facebook name is, we can't find you. If for some reason you're not getting the emails, then we

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don't know where you are. And so make sure that you leave that group after you're you've been

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approved and you're admitted to the phase one group. Okay, how many of you are already in the

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phase one Facebook group? Raise your hand. You're already there. Put your hands up. I can see you.

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So if you're on camera, just raise your hand. All right, there's a lot of you. All right,

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so you can go ahead and safely remove yourself from the challenge group. All right. Good stuff.

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And then when you go to phase two, you'll already be in the app. So I'm not going to tell you how

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to do it, because it's going to be completely different and great. So it's going to be good.

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All right. So what you'll see in that phase one Facebook group is just community. All right,

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you'll see community there. There'll be a weekly roll call post put up every Monday, asking you

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how you're doing, what's going on. There'll be reminders about your live coaching that happens

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every Monday at one and eight. Like right now, there's live coaching going on. And tonight,

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there'll be live coaching going on. So 1pm Eastern, 8pm Eastern, that's your live coaching

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call. Y'all don't need to be there because you haven't started the program yet. So you go to

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your KajabiJackieDorman.com portal, and you're going to log in, and you're going to create your

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login. That's what's in those emails that we send to you after you registered. And then you'll be

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able to see all of your coursework. You guys, this coursework has been laid out week by week on

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purpose. And we do not want you to rush ahead in the curriculum. Can we stop you? No, we can't stop

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you. If you want to binge at all and try to get to phase two in one week, your master heartwork

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coach, Bethany, is going to know when you request phase two, that you did phase one in one and a

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half weeks. And she's going to call you out on it. She's going to say, Hey, you know, why are

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you trying to rush through this very supernatural process? I want to let you know in my experience,

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in all the success that we have in this program,

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It happens faster for the people that really focus on themselves for these five weeks.

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We can't force you to go on a dating sabbatical, but we're going to ask you to.

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We can't force you to get off the dating apps and put them on pause, but we're going to

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ask you to.

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We can't force you to focus on the curriculum and really allow that supernatural heart healing

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process to happen, but we're going to ask you to because we know that that's the secret

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sauce of what happens next.

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So do it for yourself.

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Do it for your future lineage and legacy.

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Understand that the reason why you are single is not just because you haven't met him yet

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or not just because you haven't been in the right communities or you haven't met the right

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people to introduce you.

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One of the main reasons that you are stuck in your love life is because you're stuck

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on the inside, not the outside.

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So you guys, it's only five weeks.

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That means you're still set up for a summer of love.

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It's all good.

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It literally is still winter time, right?

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For everyone's like, I want a summer body.

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I want a summer body.

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I want a bikini body.

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Bikini bodies start in the winter time.

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They don't start in the summertime.

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They start in the winter, don't they?

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And also prevention's worth a pound of cure.

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And so it's about you really focusing on this.

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Now phase two, your love story accelerator, your dating coaching.

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It's fire too.

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Don't rush through that either.

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You're not going to have to, because you're already going to be out dating again, so you're

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not going to feel that FOMO going on.

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But a lot of people do have FOMO in the first five weeks.

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They wanted to be married last year, so they don't want to wait another five weeks to meet

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him.

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Come on, y'all.

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In fact, I just got, let me show you this, got to trust the process.

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I'm going to show you this.

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This little chicky mama just got engaged two days ago to one of our guys.

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So this is a guy from our program and a girl from our program just got engaged.

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They've only known each other for four months, you guys.

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That's how fast it can accelerate when you do your heart work.

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Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.

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So let's focus on the heart work part, shall we?

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I just got that in my inbox this morning.

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So that's an encouragement for you.

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Let's talk about some of the things you're going to experience if you really allow the

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heart work to do its work.

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What are you going to experience?

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Don't mail it in because you're a therapist or a counselor or a coach or because you're

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so-so teacher, you've done all kinds of therapy or inner healing.

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This is different.

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It's very different.

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It's not going to be like anything that you've experienced before and God brought you here

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to do it.

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So remember, you're having a divine appointment.

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Very, very important.

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So if you're a therapist or a coach or a counselor or a leader of some kind, we want

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you to take that hat off here.

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You get to just do you, boo.

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You don't have to lead anybody else.

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It's going to feel so freeing for a lot of you.

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I know you're going to see other people struggling and it's going to be so hard for you not to

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try to fix it for them.

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You're going to see your sisters posting and struggling.

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It's going to be so hard for you not to give out your personal phone number and say, call

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me anytime.

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I'll be there for you.

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I'll help you.

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I'll coach you.

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That's how we have people on our team that are master heartwork coaches.

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You don't need to do that.

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You can actually focus on yourself and we're going to actually insist that you do.

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Because this only works if you focus on yourself.

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So many therapists and coaches and counselors become that because they know how to help

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other people, but they don't know how to get healthy themselves.

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Right?

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Remember the, this, the saying that you can, you can coach, but you can't play, right?

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Well, my experience with sports, cause I used to be in sports is the best coaches were people

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that were former athletes.

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So it's time for you to really, you know, allow yourself to be healed, healthy, and

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whole in ways that you don't even know you need it.

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So take this time for yourself.

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So what are you going to experience in this first five weeks?

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I, I, I warn you about this and I'm going to warn it in orientation.

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And I know warning sounds so like negative, I'm going to advise you on it.

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And then so that you, when it shows up, you're like, Oh yeah, Jackie told us that this could

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happen so that you know what's going on, but you're also in the materials in first week

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of the materials.

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You'll see it again.

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These exact same things that I'm about to tell you.

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So you're going to expect some things.

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You remember that book that was out, even if you've never had a baby, it was called

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what to expect when you're expecting.

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What you expect.

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as your heart is healing in phase one of heart work, okay?

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To feel all the feels.

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You can expect to feel a lot of feelings,

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especially if you're someone who doesn't feel a lot

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and someone who, you know, you haven't cried in a long time.

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I'm one of those people, I don't cry a lot,

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but when I cry, oh baby,

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it's like five years of tears coming out.

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And you might be afraid of that.

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You're like, if I start crying, I'm never gonna stop.

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And that might feel, you might feel that way.

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For some of you that really value keeping it together,

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you have a lot of self-control,

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you're a really balanced person, okay?

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You show up in person put together,

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you might feel a little messy.

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You might feel a little messy during this first phase.

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And you know what, it's okay.

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God wants you to know that you're allowed to be messy.

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Because some of you like having it all together

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is a trauma response.

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You're so responsible, but that's a fancy word for fear.

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You fear anyone seeing you that you're messy.

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You don't think that you are, you know,

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valued or worthy of love outside of your perfectionism.

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And we need to rip that layer off,

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because it's counterfeit, it's a counterfeit.

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So I know who you are, y'all.

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You do 50 things before 8 a.m., bravo, sister.

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But you're gonna feel a little out of pocket

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in this first phase.

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God wants you to kind of let it all hang loose,

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let your hair down a little bit, right?

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So feel all the feels,

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because we have to feel the feels to heal the feels.

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That is something that God told me many, many years ago.

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He said, Jack, you got to feel the feels to heal the feels.

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And that is true.

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So those feelings want to be recognized.

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They want to be honored.

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The trauma that you've been through

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wants you to acknowledge it.

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We've got to honor our trauma.

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I know that sounds crazy,

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but we have to honor the things that we've been through,

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including the hard things.

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We have to recognize them.

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We have to acknowledge them.

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We have to hold a space of honor for our life experiences

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so that God can do Romans 8, 28,

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work it all to your good.

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Do you see how that works?

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A lot of you haven't seen how the bad things

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that have happened in your life

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have been worked to good yet.

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And the reason why is because you refuse

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to hold space for those things, okay?

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This is not eternal sunshine and spotless mind.

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We don't just go through hard things

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that just keep moving real fast

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and then hope that stuff doesn't catch up with us.

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It's with you all the time.

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So it's time to take a good look at it

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and allow God to bring good from it, right?

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Second, feel angry, weepy, irritable, alert,

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like highly alert and maybe even on a hair trigger.

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You might feel like you have a little chronic PMS

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during this first phase

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where you're a little more irritable than normal.

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You're a little more sassy than normal.

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You're possibly a little bit more angry than normal.

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I call anger hurt and fears bodyguard.

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you're gonna learn with your heart work tools

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to immediately assess where am I hurting?

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What am I afraid of with that frustration,

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that anger, that irritability,

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because that is just protecting a wounded part of you

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whenever it shows up.

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So we gotta figure out when it shows up,

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we gotta with Holy Spirit,

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we gotta figure out where it's really coming from, okay?

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Especially if you're having a level 10 response

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to a level two situation.

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Why are you overreacting?

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Because there's something rooted there in that situation

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that is really still hurting inside of you, okay?

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Or fearful inside of you.

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All right.

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All right, drama is something that people report

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during the first five weeks.

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You maybe have a drama free life

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and you like a drama free life

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and then all of a sudden drama starts knocking on your door,

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as I like to call it, all hell breaking loose.

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You go outside and someone's vandalized your car

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or something, I'm not speaking that over you,

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but I said that the other day

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in one of the challenge videos

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to kind of like help people register,

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like, hey, come on, let's do this.

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And then someone reported it already.

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Someone in this group that's in phase one

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already made a post and said that

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someone was going through the neighborhood

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messing up people's cars.

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So now that being said,

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we cannot allow intimidation or distraction.

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Those are gonna be your two biggest enemies

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during phase one, intimidation or distraction.

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Do not allow distraction to derail you.

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Stay focused, this is your time.

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So all of a sudden your best friend

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starts having man trouble

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and she breaks up with her husband or something

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and wants to cry on your shoulder 24 seven.

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No, all of a sudden your children

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who knew how to make their own hot pockets

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and tie their own shoes,

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now don't even know what a microwave is.

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Do not allow their needy, clingy, see it for what it is.

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It's distracting you from being able to focus on what it is that God brought you here to

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do.

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This is your time.

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You're allowed to have this time.

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Tell yourself that.

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I matter too.

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Just say it right now.

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I matter too.

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I matter too.

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Your aging parents have a fall or something happens.

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You know, just all kinds of crap that's trying to distract you and intimidate you and get

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you to stop going forward.

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We got to go forward.

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We're going to go forward.

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Now let's talk about the good things.

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Night dreaming, daydreaming, deja vu.

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These are just a few of the things that happen in during this first very supernatural phase

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of last year single.

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What's deja vu?

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Deja vu to me is when you're coming into convergence with the story that God wrote

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about your life.

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It may feel like you're doing something familiar.

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You're like, Hey, I've been here before.

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This has happened before.

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What the heck?

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Why does this feel so real?

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Did I dream about this?

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When you start having those moments, if you do write down, where are you?

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What are you doing?

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What are you saying?

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Who are you with?

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What's the context of the deja vu?

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Because God's talking to you.

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You're going to start to see all kinds of patterns during phase one of God looking at

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you and talking to you.

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You're going to feel the attention of heaven on your life like never before.

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You might start seeing number sequences all the time, 1111 or, you know, 1234 or this

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or that.

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You're going to start seeing things, 555-777, you know, all the stuff, 444, write it down.

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Keep a journal during your heart work.

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You're going to have lots of journaling questions in the curriculum.

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So just go ahead and buy yourself a new journal.

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Just write heart work on the front of it and keep it.

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I have a private client who did that and she goes back all the time and reads through all

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the stuff that was coming up during this time and it's so amazing how many miracles God

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did in her life during phase one.

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So get yourself a, if you're like, I can't afford a journal, go to the dollar store and

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get a notebook and just use it for a dollar.

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Go, go get it.

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Go get it.

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Okay.

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Night dreaming.

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If you're already a dreamer, you might have an increase in dreaming or God might start

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talking to you in different ways that you're not used to him talking to you in.

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Okay.

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Anything that sticks out to you that seems interesting and seems like you keep seeing

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it.

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I keep seeing a red bird all the time.

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Jackie.

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Um, I keep seeing this or that or these numbers or I keep, I keep, I'm getting deja vu or

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I'm dreaming more at night, but I don't understand them.

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Write those things down.

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Sometimes people will put a dream that seems very, very prophetic to them in their group,

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in the phase one group, and then people will weigh in on the interpretations of that.

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You might find yourself zoning out and daydreaming more like starting to imagine your life and

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imagine your wedding and what you want.

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You might even start a Pinterest board where you start pinning things because you're so

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full of hope and excitement about what your future looks like.

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That's all good.

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That's all God.

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Okay.

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Heightened senses.

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Some of you that have had babies, you know, during pregnancy, you feel like your smell

494
00:23:23.520 --> 00:23:29.200
is on high alert and your hearing seems like more keen and saw your senses seem to be like

495
00:23:29.200 --> 00:23:30.680
way escalated.

496
00:23:30.680 --> 00:23:34.620
That happens here for a lot of people as well because you're pregnant with promise.

497
00:23:34.620 --> 00:23:39.620
And so you might feel like your smell, sight, touch, taste, all of those things are going

498
00:23:39.620 --> 00:23:41.180
to another level.

499
00:23:41.180 --> 00:23:42.180
That's all good.

500
00:23:42.180 --> 00:23:43.180
And it's okay.

501
00:23:43.180 --> 00:23:46.800
What's happening there is that this dirty heart lens is getting cleaned off and you're

502
00:23:46.800 --> 00:23:49.700
seeing more clearly, right?

503
00:23:49.700 --> 00:23:52.320
You're feeling more point poignantly.

504
00:23:52.320 --> 00:23:56.660
Those things are just happening more vibrant, colorful kind of situation.

505
00:23:56.660 --> 00:24:01.580
Now here's something I want to warn you of personality and lifestyle changes as you're

506
00:24:01.580 --> 00:24:08.180
coming alive during this first phase, you might want to run off and do some crazy, like

507
00:24:08.180 --> 00:24:11.700
go into your job and say, you can take this job and shove it.

508
00:24:11.700 --> 00:24:13.580
I work in here no more.

509
00:24:13.580 --> 00:24:15.940
You know, don't do that.

510
00:24:15.940 --> 00:24:16.940
Don't do that.

511
00:24:16.940 --> 00:24:20.940
Don't make any major changes during phase one.

512
00:24:20.940 --> 00:24:26.140
If you're still feeling like that's what you want to do come phase two, then by all means

513
00:24:26.140 --> 00:24:30.980
we will help you to do that in a way that is wise.

514
00:24:30.980 --> 00:24:34.860
A lot of people will start seeing the areas of their life that are not abundant, that

515
00:24:34.860 --> 00:24:38.240
are not good, the areas where they've been held back for years.

516
00:24:38.240 --> 00:24:41.540
And what you want to do when you see that as you want to, you know, cut it off as quick

517
00:24:41.540 --> 00:24:42.540
as possible.

518
00:24:42.540 --> 00:24:46.900
Of course, some of you are going to start getting the itch to make a move geographically

519
00:24:46.900 --> 00:24:51.180
God said that his singles were going to relocate, relocate, relocate for their love story.

520
00:24:51.180 --> 00:24:53.100
So we're seeing that in droves.

521
00:24:53.100 --> 00:24:54.540
Don't do it during phase one.

522
00:24:54.540 --> 00:24:58.980
Now that being said, if you already were in the middle of a life transition before you

523
00:24:58.980 --> 00:24:59.980
joined this program.

524
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:02.520
you're already moving, you're already changing jobs,

525
00:25:02.520 --> 00:25:05.160
then carry on, okay?

526
00:25:05.160 --> 00:25:06.640
I feel like you'll have even more clarity

527
00:25:06.640 --> 00:25:09.040
as you go forward in phase one.

528
00:25:09.040 --> 00:25:11.880
But if you're not, don't do it.

529
00:25:11.880 --> 00:25:15.520
Don't take your long hair and cut it into a pixie cut.

530
00:25:15.520 --> 00:25:18.000
Don't do that during phase one.

531
00:25:18.960 --> 00:25:21.560
You're gonna feel some kind of way about a lot of things.

532
00:25:21.560 --> 00:25:24.800
Don't cut off that toxic best friend

533
00:25:24.800 --> 00:25:29.680
that's been using you for the last 25 years.

534
00:25:29.760 --> 00:25:31.840
Don't do it right now.

535
00:25:31.840 --> 00:25:33.160
You can do it in phase two.

536
00:25:33.160 --> 00:25:34.600
Like I said, you'll have more clarity

537
00:25:34.600 --> 00:25:35.940
and you'll have more support.

538
00:25:35.940 --> 00:25:38.360
Go ahead and wait to make those huge changes

539
00:25:38.360 --> 00:25:40.320
after phase one is over.

540
00:25:40.320 --> 00:25:41.880
Remember, you don't want distractions.

541
00:25:41.880 --> 00:25:43.880
And a lot of times making that change

542
00:25:43.880 --> 00:25:45.840
actually causes you to derail.

543
00:25:45.840 --> 00:25:47.280
It causes you to get distracted

544
00:25:47.280 --> 00:25:49.040
and now you're running around making these changes

545
00:25:49.040 --> 00:25:50.400
instead of focusing on your hard work.

546
00:25:50.400 --> 00:25:51.600
Do you see what I mean?

547
00:25:53.640 --> 00:25:56.400
Because changes require bandwidth

548
00:25:56.400 --> 00:25:58.960
and they require time and investment.

549
00:25:59.560 --> 00:26:01.960
Let's not do that until we're done with this.

550
00:26:02.960 --> 00:26:05.240
So those are the things that are gonna happen.

551
00:26:05.240 --> 00:26:08.880
Those are just a little sampling

552
00:26:08.880 --> 00:26:10.640
of the things that people report to us

553
00:26:10.640 --> 00:26:13.800
over and over and over and over again during phase one.

554
00:26:13.800 --> 00:26:15.600
And so that's kind of like what to expect

555
00:26:15.600 --> 00:26:16.800
when you're expecting.

556
00:26:17.800 --> 00:26:18.840
And what you can't expect

557
00:26:18.840 --> 00:26:20.500
is you are going to get breakthrough.

558
00:26:20.500 --> 00:26:21.760
You are going to get healing,

559
00:26:21.760 --> 00:26:24.200
healing that you didn't even know that you needed.

560
00:26:24.200 --> 00:26:26.800
And if you don't take out the shovel and start digging,

561
00:26:26.840 --> 00:26:29.240
trying to find your own heart wounds,

562
00:26:29.240 --> 00:26:31.920
Holy Spirit will bring them very gently to the surface

563
00:26:31.920 --> 00:26:33.640
as you go through the curriculum.

564
00:26:33.640 --> 00:26:35.080
You'll start thinking about something.

565
00:26:35.080 --> 00:26:36.440
You might have a dream.

566
00:26:36.440 --> 00:26:40.640
All of a sudden you'll be remembering in vivid detail

567
00:26:40.640 --> 00:26:42.280
something that happened to you

568
00:26:42.280 --> 00:26:44.640
that you thought you were over a long time ago.

569
00:26:45.640 --> 00:26:47.200
And when you get to week three and four,

570
00:26:47.200 --> 00:26:50.040
those are the confession, repentance and forgiveness weeks,

571
00:26:50.040 --> 00:26:51.080
you might start realizing

572
00:26:51.080 --> 00:26:52.560
that you have more unforgiveness in your heart

573
00:26:52.560 --> 00:26:53.800
than you thought you did.

574
00:26:53.800 --> 00:26:55.520
You might have some secrets in your heart

575
00:26:55.520 --> 00:26:56.920
that you need to get off your chest

576
00:26:56.920 --> 00:26:58.480
that you didn't realize were there.

577
00:26:58.480 --> 00:27:01.840
All kinds of stuff is going to happen to do what?

578
00:27:01.840 --> 00:27:04.600
To clear the way for you to have a vibrant

579
00:27:04.600 --> 00:27:07.680
and healthy relationship with your spirit mate

580
00:27:07.680 --> 00:27:09.640
and with God and with others.

581
00:27:10.640 --> 00:27:11.760
It's gonna be really great.

582
00:27:11.760 --> 00:27:12.760
I'm excited for you.

583
00:27:12.760 --> 00:27:13.720
Heartwork's my favorite.

584
00:27:13.720 --> 00:27:16.360
Remember God used the heartwork to save my life.

585
00:27:16.360 --> 00:27:19.200
He downloaded it to me for me.

586
00:27:19.200 --> 00:27:22.760
And now it's been used to help thousands and thousands

587
00:27:23.360 --> 00:27:26.640
of other people in all different areas of their life,

588
00:27:26.640 --> 00:27:28.120
not just their love life.

589
00:27:28.120 --> 00:27:29.520
So very exciting.

590
00:27:29.520 --> 00:27:32.880
All right, for those of you that we provide

591
00:27:32.880 --> 00:27:34.760
as part of your materials, an ebook,

592
00:27:34.760 --> 00:27:36.760
for those of you that are like, I hate an ebook.

593
00:27:36.760 --> 00:27:39.320
I do not want to do it on an ebook.

594
00:27:39.320 --> 00:27:42.640
There is a hardback book available on Amazon.

595
00:27:42.640 --> 00:27:43.960
You can grab that.

596
00:27:43.960 --> 00:27:45.760
Probably we'll get to you in a couple of days.

597
00:27:45.760 --> 00:27:47.360
For those of you that like to highlight,

598
00:27:47.360 --> 00:27:50.640
you like to do all the things, it is available.

599
00:27:50.640 --> 00:27:52.520
It does exist, okay?

600
00:27:53.760 --> 00:27:57.120
I think that's all that I have for you right now.

601
00:27:57.120 --> 00:28:00.120
There is another orientation tonight at eight,

602
00:28:00.120 --> 00:28:02.880
or we'll just play this replay one or the other,

603
00:28:02.880 --> 00:28:05.400
depending on what the questions are that y'all have.

604
00:28:05.400 --> 00:28:08.480
So what questions do you guys have for me?

605
00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:09.480
I'm ready to answer them.

606
00:28:09.480 --> 00:28:10.520
Go for it.

607
00:28:10.520 --> 00:28:11.360
Abby?

608
00:28:16.160 --> 00:28:17.640
You need to unmute yourself.

609
00:28:19.920 --> 00:28:20.840
Sorry about that.

610
00:28:21.840 --> 00:28:24.280
I didn't realize there was an orientation until today.

611
00:28:24.280 --> 00:28:28.400
And so I kind of went gangbusters and went too fast.

612
00:28:28.400 --> 00:28:31.840
So I only started a couple of days ago,

613
00:28:31.840 --> 00:28:34.400
and I'm almost, I think I'm basically done with it.

614
00:28:34.400 --> 00:28:36.720
It's already as embarrassing as that is to admit.

615
00:28:36.720 --> 00:28:40.480
So I just wanted to mention that I didn't know

616
00:28:40.480 --> 00:28:41.920
what I didn't know, I guess.

617
00:28:42.800 --> 00:28:46.040
Yeah, so what I would suggest that you do

618
00:28:46.040 --> 00:28:48.800
is I would suggest that you have two choices.

619
00:28:49.120 --> 00:28:53.000
You can go through week one at a slower pace

620
00:28:53.000 --> 00:28:57.480
and really just digest and journal and process.

621
00:28:57.480 --> 00:28:59.960
Week one is the supernatural surrender week, you guys,

622
00:28:59.960 --> 00:29:02.800
and it's really important to really be revisiting

623
00:29:02.800 --> 00:29:05.040
that permission slip, really being allowed God

624
00:29:05.040 --> 00:29:06.400
to speak to you about all the ways

625
00:29:06.400 --> 00:29:08.160
you've been controlling your own life

626
00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:10.280
and not submitting to him.

627
00:29:10.280 --> 00:29:11.720
He'll bring all kinds of stuff

628
00:29:11.720 --> 00:29:13.320
to the surface during week one.

629
00:29:13.320 --> 00:29:15.320
So you have the option to do that,

630
00:29:15.320 --> 00:29:18.200
and then go to your live coaching calls next Monday,

631
00:29:18.200 --> 00:29:20.120
either one or eight o'clock, okay?

632
00:29:20.120 --> 00:29:21.680
Those are both Eastern times.

633
00:29:21.680 --> 00:29:24.160
And so it's noon and seven for Central,

634
00:29:24.160 --> 00:29:29.160
and then it's 10 and seven or five, five?

635
00:29:32.040 --> 00:29:34.800
Wait, five for Pacific.

636
00:29:34.800 --> 00:29:37.080
So you have that option,

637
00:29:37.080 --> 00:29:40.080
or if you feel like you really did process

638
00:29:40.080 --> 00:29:42.280
and you did a lot of processing in those three days,

639
00:29:42.280 --> 00:29:45.960
then tonight at 8 p.m., there is a coaching call

640
00:29:46.000 --> 00:29:50.440
for people that are actively in the program,

641
00:29:50.440 --> 00:29:51.720
including the week one people.

642
00:29:51.720 --> 00:29:54.720
You guys, every week, when you have those live calls

643
00:29:54.720 --> 00:29:56.800
at either one Eastern or eight Eastern,

644
00:29:56.800 --> 00:29:59.880
it's a grab bag based on your.

645
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:01.240
weekly roll call.

646
00:30:01.240 --> 00:30:04.120
So your master heart work coach, Bethany,

647
00:30:04.120 --> 00:30:07.200
will put up a weekly roll call post in phase one

648
00:30:07.200 --> 00:30:09.200
every single week on Mondays and say,

649
00:30:09.200 --> 00:30:10.120
hey, where are you?

650
00:30:10.120 --> 00:30:10.960
What's going on?

651
00:30:10.960 --> 00:30:11.800
What's coming up?

652
00:30:11.800 --> 00:30:12.680
What are you working on?

653
00:30:12.680 --> 00:30:13.920
What week are you in?

654
00:30:13.920 --> 00:30:16.480
And you fill that out, you comment in that post.

655
00:30:16.480 --> 00:30:18.360
And then on those coaching calls,

656
00:30:18.360 --> 00:30:21.720
that gives her an idea of where we need to go

657
00:30:21.720 --> 00:30:24.760
with the support and the heart check-in that we're doing.

658
00:30:24.760 --> 00:30:25.600
Okay?

659
00:30:26.720 --> 00:30:28.760
And that's how that works.

660
00:30:28.840 --> 00:30:31.800
And you guys, the more that you show up live in the group,

661
00:30:31.800 --> 00:30:34.080
when I mean live, like you post in the group,

662
00:30:34.080 --> 00:30:36.160
the more that you post about what you're working on

663
00:30:36.160 --> 00:30:37.360
and what's coming up,

664
00:30:37.360 --> 00:30:39.400
your breakthrough creates breakthrough for others.

665
00:30:39.400 --> 00:30:41.560
So if you want to just be a fly on the wall in this group,

666
00:30:41.560 --> 00:30:43.920
in your Facebook group, you don't ever want to post.

667
00:30:43.920 --> 00:30:45.400
You want to just kind of fly under the radar.

668
00:30:45.400 --> 00:30:47.440
You're doing the stuff, but you're not engaging.

669
00:30:47.440 --> 00:30:49.240
You're not showing up for the live calls.

670
00:30:49.240 --> 00:30:51.440
You're also not sharing your experience with others

671
00:30:51.440 --> 00:30:52.960
and what God's doing in your life,

672
00:30:52.960 --> 00:30:55.040
including your dreams or this or that.

673
00:30:55.040 --> 00:30:56.760
You're going to get out of it what you put into it.

674
00:30:56.760 --> 00:30:59.360
And so stop hiding.

675
00:30:59.360 --> 00:31:00.880
This is a private group.

676
00:31:00.880 --> 00:31:02.000
There's no judgment here.

677
00:31:02.000 --> 00:31:04.800
And a lot of you have heart wounds with other women

678
00:31:04.800 --> 00:31:06.280
and you'll get healed of those heart wounds

679
00:31:06.280 --> 00:31:07.160
with other women.

680
00:31:07.160 --> 00:31:09.360
If you go ahead and you start trusting people

681
00:31:09.360 --> 00:31:11.000
in this group, it'll be good for you.

682
00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:12.520
All right, go ahead, Abby.

683
00:31:12.520 --> 00:31:14.840
Oh, I just want to say one last thing.

684
00:31:14.840 --> 00:31:19.400
I was able to process, even though I kind of went faster,

685
00:31:19.400 --> 00:31:21.480
I don't think I remember crying this much

686
00:31:21.480 --> 00:31:22.520
in a very long time.

687
00:31:22.520 --> 00:31:24.160
So I can relate to what you were saying.

688
00:31:24.160 --> 00:31:26.160
I just wanted to mention that.

689
00:31:26.200 --> 00:31:27.040
Awesome.

690
00:31:27.040 --> 00:31:28.880
Well, make sure that you find your roll call post

691
00:31:28.880 --> 00:31:31.520
for today in the group and comment in there.

692
00:31:31.520 --> 00:31:35.320
And then you can show up to your live coaching tonight.

693
00:31:35.320 --> 00:31:36.520
All right?

694
00:31:36.520 --> 00:31:37.560
All right, sounds good.

695
00:31:37.560 --> 00:31:38.400
Any other questions?

696
00:31:38.400 --> 00:31:39.360
Yeah, Heidi, go ahead.

697
00:31:40.960 --> 00:31:42.480
Hi, Jackie.

698
00:31:42.480 --> 00:31:45.120
I kind of started at the end of January

699
00:31:45.120 --> 00:31:50.120
and I thought I'd be moving at a faster pace in the process.

700
00:31:50.160 --> 00:31:53.320
I'm in week two and I can't, for the life of me,

701
00:31:53.320 --> 00:31:56.000
get to actually do the work.

702
00:31:56.840 --> 00:31:59.360
And now I'm watching my walls coming up.

703
00:31:59.360 --> 00:32:01.680
So any kind of recommendation is that,

704
00:32:01.680 --> 00:32:04.320
I'm like, I spun around on Saturday

705
00:32:04.320 --> 00:32:05.720
doing all sorts of stuff,

706
00:32:05.720 --> 00:32:08.120
so I don't get to do what I'm supposed to do,

707
00:32:08.120 --> 00:32:09.840
which is what I committed to.

708
00:32:09.840 --> 00:32:12.360
So it was just interesting to watch.

709
00:32:13.400 --> 00:32:14.800
I don't want to rush the process,

710
00:32:14.800 --> 00:32:17.400
but I also want like, come on, Heidi,

711
00:32:17.400 --> 00:32:19.760
get to your stuff, you know?

712
00:32:19.760 --> 00:32:22.840
Well, you know, the thing is, procrastination,

713
00:32:22.840 --> 00:32:24.400
you guys, procrastination,

714
00:32:24.440 --> 00:32:26.360
and we all do it in different ways.

715
00:32:26.360 --> 00:32:28.240
And most people don't realize,

716
00:32:28.240 --> 00:32:31.280
but we procrastinate doing things

717
00:32:31.280 --> 00:32:34.120
that we don't feel like we can do, right?

718
00:32:34.120 --> 00:32:35.800
Or we're afraid to do.

719
00:32:35.800 --> 00:32:38.240
And so really what you need to do there, Heidi,

720
00:32:38.240 --> 00:32:39.640
is that's already hard work.

721
00:32:39.640 --> 00:32:43.040
You're aware that you're avoiding the hard work.

722
00:32:43.040 --> 00:32:46.560
So you have to sit with God, you know,

723
00:32:46.560 --> 00:32:50.200
and ask to be shown what you're afraid of.

724
00:32:50.200 --> 00:32:51.760
Like, what am I afraid of here?

725
00:32:51.760 --> 00:32:53.320
Am I afraid of success?

726
00:32:53.320 --> 00:32:54.880
Am I afraid of breakthrough?

727
00:32:54.880 --> 00:32:57.000
And am I afraid that if I actually do this,

728
00:32:57.000 --> 00:32:58.400
then I'm going to end up in phase two

729
00:32:58.400 --> 00:32:59.920
and I'm going to be in dating,

730
00:32:59.920 --> 00:33:02.440
I'm going to be in dating someone?

731
00:33:02.440 --> 00:33:04.160
You know, what is it?

732
00:33:04.160 --> 00:33:06.200
Look at, you know, I really feel that for you.

733
00:33:06.200 --> 00:33:07.840
I feel like it's like, oh,

734
00:33:07.840 --> 00:33:09.800
I'm being intentional about my love life

735
00:33:09.800 --> 00:33:11.720
and making this my last year single.

736
00:33:11.720 --> 00:33:14.960
And now that I'm here, I'm dragging my feet

737
00:33:14.960 --> 00:33:17.520
because I don't actually want to get to the place

738
00:33:17.520 --> 00:33:20.520
where I actually will be with the men,

739
00:33:20.520 --> 00:33:22.400
with my, with, you know.

740
00:33:22.400 --> 00:33:25.880
So, and just go ahead and let God show you why.

741
00:33:25.880 --> 00:33:27.800
It's not just about the what, it's about the why.

742
00:33:27.800 --> 00:33:28.760
Why?

743
00:33:28.760 --> 00:33:30.480
Why am I afraid?

744
00:33:30.480 --> 00:33:33.000
You know, I feel like that will be empowering.

745
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:34.640
And then you just have to do it afraid.

746
00:33:34.640 --> 00:33:36.840
Once you realize why, you just got to do it.

747
00:33:38.120 --> 00:33:39.240
Yes, thank you.

748
00:33:39.240 --> 00:33:40.080
We're rooting for you.

749
00:33:40.080 --> 00:33:40.960
We're here for you.

750
00:33:40.960 --> 00:33:42.120
Now you're on our radar.

751
00:33:42.120 --> 00:33:42.960
So we're going to be fine.

752
00:33:42.960 --> 00:33:44.480
We're going to be coming to find you

753
00:33:44.480 --> 00:33:47.200
if you were not showing up.

754
00:33:47.200 --> 00:33:48.040
All right.

755
00:33:48.040 --> 00:33:48.880
Thank you.

756
00:33:48.880 --> 00:33:50.000
A couple other questions here going.

757
00:33:50.000 --> 00:33:50.840
Jennifer?

758
00:33:53.400 --> 00:33:54.240
Okay.

759
00:33:54.240 --> 00:33:55.520
Just a quick question.

760
00:33:55.520 --> 00:33:59.200
The prayer links, the community faith Friday,

761
00:33:59.200 --> 00:34:00.800
supernatural Saturdays,

762
00:34:00.800 --> 00:34:04.840
will they be recorded for work purposes?

763
00:34:04.840 --> 00:34:06.120
Supernatural Saturdays.

764
00:34:06.120 --> 00:34:06.960
Okay.

765
00:34:06.960 --> 00:34:08.040
So none of the prayer calls.

766
00:34:08.040 --> 00:34:11.520
So we have prayer for women Monday through Thursday.

767
00:34:11.520 --> 00:34:12.360
Okay.

768
00:34:12.360 --> 00:34:13.840
And it's at 10 AM Eastern.

769
00:34:13.840 --> 00:34:16.239
And then on Fridays, we have faith Friday.

770
00:34:16.239 --> 00:34:19.600
That is a all community session, a co-ed session.

771
00:34:19.600 --> 00:34:20.960
A lot of men work during the day.

772
00:34:21.280 --> 00:34:22.800
So we don't really see a lot of men coming

773
00:34:22.800 --> 00:34:25.440
to daytime things, just so you guys know.

774
00:34:25.440 --> 00:34:28.280
But faith Friday is not recorded.

775
00:34:28.280 --> 00:34:30.000
But supernatural Saturday is.

776
00:34:30.000 --> 00:34:32.400
Supernatural Saturday is the only prayer call

777
00:34:32.400 --> 00:34:33.320
that's recorded.

778
00:34:34.239 --> 00:34:35.480
Sunday night activations.

779
00:34:35.480 --> 00:34:38.639
And the reason why is because it's available every week.

780
00:34:39.639 --> 00:34:41.159
The prayer calls are available every week.

781
00:34:41.159 --> 00:34:43.120
Faith Friday is just people testifying

782
00:34:43.120 --> 00:34:44.560
and bragging on Jesus.

783
00:34:44.560 --> 00:34:48.440
And then Sunday night activation is just activation time.

784
00:34:48.440 --> 00:34:50.560
And so there's no reason to record those things,

785
00:34:51.159 --> 00:34:52.120
especially activation,

786
00:34:52.120 --> 00:34:54.639
because there's a lot of breakouts for that kind of stuff.

787
00:34:54.639 --> 00:34:56.400
And so supernatural Saturday is the only thing

788
00:34:56.400 --> 00:34:58.400
that's recorded of that stuff.

789
00:34:58.400 --> 00:34:59.800
All of the coaching calls.

790
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.600
Mondays are recorded.

791
00:35:01.600 --> 00:35:04.800
So there's one coaching call every Monday,

792
00:35:04.800 --> 00:35:07.280
whether it's the one or the 8 p.m. that's recorded,

793
00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:09.580
and you'll have access to that in your portal.

794
00:35:11.920 --> 00:35:12.760
All right.

795
00:35:13.600 --> 00:35:15.760
And Jennifer, if you can't be there live

796
00:35:15.760 --> 00:35:17.960
for either of those times for whatever reason,

797
00:35:17.960 --> 00:35:19.680
you can put that in your roll call

798
00:35:19.680 --> 00:35:21.320
to say, hey, I can't be there live,

799
00:35:21.320 --> 00:35:24.400
but I would love for you to address this situation

800
00:35:24.400 --> 00:35:26.960
on the live call so that when I listen and replay,

801
00:35:26.960 --> 00:35:29.560
I can hear what you're saying to me.

802
00:35:29.600 --> 00:35:31.040
Okay, thank you.

803
00:35:31.040 --> 00:35:31.880
Yep.

804
00:35:33.080 --> 00:35:33.900
Barbara.

805
00:35:36.440 --> 00:35:37.520
Hi, Jackie.

806
00:35:38.520 --> 00:35:42.080
So I've never really been a big church person

807
00:35:42.080 --> 00:35:44.560
or close to God in my life.

808
00:35:44.560 --> 00:35:47.040
So this whole, I mean, I'm here

809
00:35:47.040 --> 00:35:50.060
because it was appealing to me, and I feel like,

810
00:35:50.060 --> 00:35:52.560
so I don't know if you have any words of wisdom

811
00:35:52.560 --> 00:35:54.400
about like a newcomer

812
00:35:54.400 --> 00:35:57.560
to the whole religious aspect of my life.

813
00:35:57.560 --> 00:35:59.320
Yeah, okay, no, I love that.

814
00:36:00.080 --> 00:36:04.320
And I think that you are going to feel a little bit

815
00:36:04.320 --> 00:36:05.800
on Mr. Toad's wild ride,

816
00:36:05.800 --> 00:36:09.080
because number one, we don't do religion here.

817
00:36:09.080 --> 00:36:13.440
So, I mean, I am a Christian, this is a faith-based program,

818
00:36:13.440 --> 00:36:15.100
but I am a true Christ follower.

819
00:36:15.100 --> 00:36:17.280
I'm not a religious person.

820
00:36:17.280 --> 00:36:19.880
This is gonna be a very spiritual program

821
00:36:19.880 --> 00:36:22.600
because we are spirits, you guys, we are not bodies.

822
00:36:22.600 --> 00:36:25.980
We are spirits that live in bodies that possess souls,

823
00:36:25.980 --> 00:36:30.900
which are these master control areas of our life

824
00:36:30.900 --> 00:36:33.660
where all of our memories and experiences are kept.

825
00:36:33.660 --> 00:36:36.020
And so it's important that we address that

826
00:36:36.020 --> 00:36:38.980
when we are going after any kind of healing,

827
00:36:38.980 --> 00:36:40.500
inner healing, especially.

828
00:36:40.500 --> 00:36:42.500
So I think you're gonna learn a lot of stuff.

829
00:36:42.500 --> 00:36:45.780
I don't think that a lot of it's gonna be over your head

830
00:36:45.780 --> 00:36:47.260
because it's, like I said,

831
00:36:47.260 --> 00:36:50.660
this is not like a deep religious,

832
00:36:50.660 --> 00:36:52.280
you have to know scripture type of thing.

833
00:36:52.280 --> 00:36:54.700
I think a lot of it's just gonna really resonate with you.

834
00:36:54.700 --> 00:36:56.060
And one thing I know for sure,

835
00:36:56.060 --> 00:36:58.420
this will really resonate with you.

836
00:36:58.420 --> 00:37:01.100
And it's very, very simple.

837
00:37:01.100 --> 00:37:04.140
It's very spiritually simple to understand.

838
00:37:04.140 --> 00:37:06.160
So I think that you're really gonna like it.

839
00:37:06.160 --> 00:37:07.460
Give us feedback too.

840
00:37:09.300 --> 00:37:10.620
We have people that come in here

841
00:37:10.620 --> 00:37:12.780
at all levels of spirituality

842
00:37:12.780 --> 00:37:16.580
and all levels of belief,

843
00:37:16.580 --> 00:37:19.300
and they all get massive breakthrough.

844
00:37:19.300 --> 00:37:22.920
So we would love to hear, as you're going forward,

845
00:37:23.800 --> 00:37:28.800
what you think about the ability to process and comprehend,

846
00:37:29.360 --> 00:37:31.960
even if you haven't like been around

847
00:37:31.960 --> 00:37:35.000
that type of language for a long time.

848
00:37:35.000 --> 00:37:36.000
Thank you.

849
00:37:36.000 --> 00:37:36.840
Thank you.

850
00:37:36.840 --> 00:37:37.680
Thanks for being here.

851
00:37:37.680 --> 00:37:40.360
Excited that, I believe it's a divine appointment.

852
00:37:40.360 --> 00:37:42.280
So excited for your divine appointment.

853
00:37:42.280 --> 00:37:43.120
Evangeline.

854
00:37:46.040 --> 00:37:47.840
Thank you so much.

855
00:37:47.840 --> 00:37:49.240
I just have a question.

856
00:37:49.240 --> 00:37:52.280
So you mentioned that the first one

857
00:37:52.280 --> 00:37:54.360
was a five week sabbatical.

858
00:37:55.800 --> 00:37:58.040
And can you give some guidance around

859
00:37:58.040 --> 00:38:02.040
like how to communicate that if I'm in the middle-

860
00:38:02.040 --> 00:38:05.000
I'm having a hard time hearing you.

861
00:38:05.000 --> 00:38:06.480
I don't know if it's your microphone.

862
00:38:06.480 --> 00:38:08.120
It seems a little muffled.

863
00:38:08.960 --> 00:38:09.800
Try again.

864
00:38:13.360 --> 00:38:14.200
Is this better?

865
00:38:15.680 --> 00:38:17.160
Maybe, go ahead.

866
00:38:17.160 --> 00:38:18.560
Yeah, let's just go ahead and talk.

867
00:38:18.680 --> 00:38:19.520
Let me see.

868
00:38:22.800 --> 00:38:23.640
Oh.

869
00:38:25.720 --> 00:38:26.960
Can you hear me, Jackie?

870
00:38:28.760 --> 00:38:29.640
Is this better?

871
00:38:30.640 --> 00:38:32.800
Yeah, that is better.

872
00:38:32.800 --> 00:38:34.920
Jackie, is this group for women only?

873
00:38:34.920 --> 00:38:37.880
It's an orientation for our women's class, Scott.

874
00:38:37.880 --> 00:38:38.720
Okay.

875
00:38:38.720 --> 00:38:39.560
Sorry.

876
00:38:39.560 --> 00:38:42.040
We do have heart check-in for men tonight.

877
00:38:42.040 --> 00:38:42.880
Yeah, I'll be there.

878
00:38:42.880 --> 00:38:43.720
Thank you.

879
00:38:43.720 --> 00:38:44.560
Okay.

880
00:38:44.560 --> 00:38:45.400
Thanks, Scott.

881
00:38:45.400 --> 00:38:46.240
Bye-bye.

882
00:38:46.240 --> 00:38:47.400
Bye.

883
00:38:47.400 --> 00:38:48.240
Hi, Jackie.

884
00:38:48.920 --> 00:38:50.120
So I just had a question.

885
00:38:50.120 --> 00:38:52.920
So I know for the first five weeks,

886
00:38:52.920 --> 00:38:55.600
you mentioned that it's a sabbatical

887
00:38:55.600 --> 00:38:58.720
that you are recommending people taking.

888
00:38:58.720 --> 00:39:02.320
And I was wondering if you have any language

889
00:39:02.320 --> 00:39:05.520
or what you would use to like tell people

890
00:39:05.520 --> 00:39:09.440
who are in the initial phases of seeing people.

891
00:39:11.280 --> 00:39:12.200
Okay.

892
00:39:12.200 --> 00:39:13.400
So if you're not, okay.

893
00:39:13.400 --> 00:39:15.120
So you guys will learn in our program

894
00:39:15.120 --> 00:39:19.640
that we differentiate relationship with five phases,

895
00:39:19.640 --> 00:39:21.040
okay, of relationship.

896
00:39:21.040 --> 00:39:22.160
We have five levels.

897
00:39:22.160 --> 00:39:24.320
So level one is just community friendships.

898
00:39:24.320 --> 00:39:25.680
It's not necessarily romantic.

899
00:39:25.680 --> 00:39:27.360
It could be with a woman or a man, right?

900
00:39:27.360 --> 00:39:29.600
It's just community relationship.

901
00:39:30.480 --> 00:39:33.720
And then level two is that discovery process

902
00:39:33.720 --> 00:39:36.160
where you're getting to know people,

903
00:39:36.160 --> 00:39:37.680
but there's nothing official.

904
00:39:37.680 --> 00:39:39.960
It's not a romantic relationship yet.

905
00:39:39.960 --> 00:39:41.960
You might be dating them,

906
00:39:41.960 --> 00:39:43.760
going out with them, hanging out with them,

907
00:39:43.760 --> 00:39:45.880
but nothing has been made official.

908
00:39:45.880 --> 00:39:47.520
It hasn't turned romantic.

909
00:39:47.520 --> 00:39:50.920
Level three is where there's that definition of romance,

910
00:39:50.920 --> 00:39:52.560
that defining of the relationship.

911
00:39:52.560 --> 00:39:53.840
You're exclusively together,

912
00:39:53.840 --> 00:39:55.360
you're boyfriend and girlfriend.

913
00:39:55.360 --> 00:39:58.480
You see a future together and you want to explore that.

914
00:39:58.480 --> 00:39:59.840
Okay, then level four is engagement.

915
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:05.280
five's marriage. So if you're in a level three relationship, you're someone's girlfriend,

916
00:40:05.280 --> 00:40:10.160
you have made a commitment to that relationship to see it through and see where it's going to go

917
00:40:10.160 --> 00:40:14.480
because you feel like it's a marriage minded courtship. Do not break up with that person

918
00:40:15.760 --> 00:40:22.800
during this program. Focus on your heart work, but don't break up with someone that you're

919
00:40:23.360 --> 00:40:28.480
in a relationship with unless of course it's a bad and unhealthy relationship and you realize

920
00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:32.400
that through this program and then you break up with them. So Evangeline, are you talking about

921
00:40:32.400 --> 00:40:39.120
a level two kind of just dating around getting level two? Yeah. Right. So here's the thing.

922
00:40:39.120 --> 00:40:44.160
If any of those people are your spirit mates, they will be there in five weeks. They will still be

923
00:40:44.160 --> 00:40:50.000
there. And so what you say to them is say, Hey, you know what? I am doing some self-improvement.

924
00:40:50.000 --> 00:40:57.840
I'm taking a course and part of the first five weeks of the course is heart work and they

925
00:40:57.920 --> 00:41:05.200
recommend that we take a sabbatical from dating relationships. And so I'd love to,

926
00:41:05.200 --> 00:41:10.640
to pick this up again, you know, in mid, you know, mid-March or, and yeah, mid-March.

927
00:41:13.760 --> 00:41:18.080
Thank you. That's super helpful. Yeah. And you can't miss out on your spirit mate, you guys. So

928
00:41:18.080 --> 00:41:22.640
if that creates fear in you immediately with someone that you don't have really anything

929
00:41:22.640 --> 00:41:26.880
invested in, then you might have an anxious attachment style. And so it's important to

930
00:41:26.880 --> 00:41:30.800
understand that you're not going to miss your spirit mate by focusing on healing your heart.

931
00:41:30.800 --> 00:41:33.840
You're not going to miss out on them. They'll still be there waiting. If that's them.

932
00:41:37.120 --> 00:41:39.360
Thank you, Jackie. You're welcome. Michelle.

933
00:41:41.520 --> 00:41:44.160
Hi. Hello. Can you hear me? Yeah, I can hear you.

934
00:41:45.280 --> 00:41:51.600
Yes. I have two things. First. I'm not understanding about the, the weekly coaching.

935
00:41:52.160 --> 00:41:55.520
If you're going at different paces, everyone is going at different paces.

936
00:41:55.520 --> 00:42:01.600
How do you know which coaching session we're supposed to actually be in? Or is it that we're

937
00:42:01.600 --> 00:42:07.920
supposed to go every week? Yeah. Every week phase one, which is where everyone, regardless of whether

938
00:42:07.920 --> 00:42:11.680
they're at first week of heartwork or they're in the fifth week of heartwork, you're in the phase

939
00:42:11.680 --> 00:42:18.000
one that you're coaching sessions are at 1 PM Eastern and 8 PM Eastern on Mondays. And based

940
00:42:18.000 --> 00:42:23.600
on what you fill out in that roll call post, that is what the coach will cover. So they'll cover

941
00:42:23.600 --> 00:42:29.600
stuff from, you know, face phase one, uh, week five or week three or week two, or, you know,

942
00:42:29.600 --> 00:42:33.760
the forgiveness week or the supernatural surrender week. And if you can't be there,

943
00:42:33.760 --> 00:42:37.520
you can ask them to cover something specifically, and then you can watch the replay.

944
00:42:37.520 --> 00:42:42.880
So everyone in all different weeks of phase one will be on those coaching calls together. Phase

945
00:42:42.880 --> 00:42:48.480
two, when you graduate to your dating accelerator coaching, those coaching calls are live on

946
00:42:48.480 --> 00:42:53.920
Tuesdays at 1 PM Eastern and 8 PM Eastern. And once again, they cover everything from all four

947
00:42:53.920 --> 00:42:59.520
of those weeks in a grab bag of whoever's live and whoever's asked in the, you know,

948
00:42:59.520 --> 00:43:05.200
comments of the roll call for specific coaching. Plus I do something in phase two called ask Jackie,

949
00:43:05.200 --> 00:43:09.520
where you can ask me your specific questions. And I come on live once a week and I answer

950
00:43:09.520 --> 00:43:14.720
all the questions in the ask Jackie form. So if you're in phase one, which you are,

951
00:43:14.720 --> 00:43:19.840
your coaching is at one and eight on Mondays until you get to phase two. Does that make sense?

952
00:43:22.720 --> 00:43:31.200
Yes. Okay. Okay. It gives you a preview as well, because some, some ladies might be in

953
00:43:31.200 --> 00:43:35.520
week three or week four that are on your call and they're asking questions about forgiveness

954
00:43:35.520 --> 00:43:39.680
and stuff. It will give you a preview of what you're headed towards as you go through the

955
00:43:39.680 --> 00:43:49.760
curriculum. Okay. Um, also I am from Jamaica. I'm not American. Okay. I understand about the, um,

956
00:43:49.760 --> 00:43:55.760
the, the heart issues. I think that's something I do need, but I'm kind of unsure of the program

957
00:43:55.760 --> 00:44:00.240
will work for me as a single outside of America, because I'm realizing majority of the persons

958
00:44:00.240 --> 00:44:08.080
there are Americans. We do have, we do have international students and we have had a lot

959
00:44:08.080 --> 00:44:14.000
of international matches. So, um, as far as the community portion in like the community-based

960
00:44:14.000 --> 00:44:22.880
matchmaking portion, I think it definitely can work for you. Okay. Thank you. And the

961
00:44:22.880 --> 00:44:27.040
other thing that I want to tell you, Michelle, and you guys all need to hear this and know this

962
00:44:27.040 --> 00:44:32.080
is that we have a lot of matches that happen within our community, but the majority of our

963
00:44:32.080 --> 00:44:37.840
matches happen as part of the supernatural process, meaning that before you joined this

964
00:44:37.840 --> 00:44:42.080
program, you had no prospects. You might not have been on a date for a really long time,

965
00:44:42.080 --> 00:44:47.840
or you kept dating the same men over and over again, which were bad situations and, you know,

966
00:44:47.840 --> 00:44:53.280
things that left you heartbroken. And then all of a sudden, after you do this program phase one,

967
00:44:53.280 --> 00:44:58.000
and you go into phase two, there's healthy men that are attracted to you. There's love right

968
00:44:58.000 --> 00:44:59.760
in front of you that you didn't see before. You,

969
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:01.920
You would be amazed at how many people end up

970
00:45:01.920 --> 00:45:03.640
marrying their best friend

971
00:45:03.640 --> 00:45:05.620
that they never even thought of romantically

972
00:45:05.620 --> 00:45:07.260
until they took this program.

973
00:45:07.260 --> 00:45:10.300
It's just a very supernatural thing.

974
00:45:10.300 --> 00:45:11.740
So don't count yourself out

975
00:45:11.740 --> 00:45:14.080
just because you don't think you're in proximity

976
00:45:14.080 --> 00:45:17.520
to our community in America or any of those things

977
00:45:17.520 --> 00:45:19.460
because that's just really not the way God works.

978
00:45:19.460 --> 00:45:20.740
God brought you here

979
00:45:20.740 --> 00:45:22.980
because he wants his single sons and daughters married.

980
00:45:22.980 --> 00:45:25.820
He's gonna help you to get out of your own way

981
00:45:25.820 --> 00:45:26.900
and get out of his way

982
00:45:26.900 --> 00:45:29.100
and then stuff's just gonna start happening.

983
00:45:29.140 --> 00:45:30.620
That's what happens here.

984
00:45:30.620 --> 00:45:32.140
And it's really fun to watch.

985
00:45:32.140 --> 00:45:35.160
I never, it never gets old for me to watch

986
00:45:35.160 --> 00:45:39.700
and get to see how God makes these matches

987
00:45:39.700 --> 00:45:42.300
because ultimately God really is the matchmaker

988
00:45:42.300 --> 00:45:44.500
but it's gonna be great.

989
00:45:44.500 --> 00:45:45.820
You guys watch, you'll see.

990
00:45:45.820 --> 00:45:48.780
Pay attention to each other and each other's backstories

991
00:45:48.780 --> 00:45:51.620
and each other's present tense love story

992
00:45:51.620 --> 00:45:53.780
meaning like nothing on the horizon

993
00:45:53.780 --> 00:45:55.760
and see how quick something that

994
00:45:55.760 --> 00:45:57.040
there was nothing on the horizon

995
00:45:57.040 --> 00:45:58.740
now there's something on the horizon.

996
00:45:59.380 --> 00:46:00.420
Just watch, you'll see.

997
00:46:00.420 --> 00:46:04.780
Oh yeah, my husband walked in the room.

998
00:46:04.780 --> 00:46:06.460
He said, Perth, Australia.

999
00:46:06.460 --> 00:46:08.580
Yeah, one of my success stories

1000
00:46:08.580 --> 00:46:11.580
was in the most isolated city in the world, Google it.

1001
00:46:11.580 --> 00:46:14.580
No one leaves, no one moves there

1002
00:46:14.580 --> 00:46:19.300
and there are 1% Christians there and she's married.

1003
00:46:19.300 --> 00:46:21.380
She thought she would have to move away from there

1004
00:46:21.380 --> 00:46:23.100
but she couldn't, she had shared parenting.

1005
00:46:23.100 --> 00:46:27.020
So she felt so trapped and guess what?

1006
00:46:27.020 --> 00:46:28.620
Her guy was there the whole time

1007
00:46:29.460 --> 00:46:31.780
and now they're married, so it's great.

1008
00:46:31.780 --> 00:46:33.940
All right, Adele, I don't see any other hands.

1009
00:46:33.940 --> 00:46:35.140
Does anyone else have any other questions

1010
00:46:35.140 --> 00:46:36.140
before I let you go?

1011
00:46:39.220 --> 00:46:40.140
Who's excited?

1012
00:46:41.300 --> 00:46:43.300
Oh wait, Heidi has a question, go ahead.

1013
00:46:44.340 --> 00:46:46.180
And now Abby has a question.

1014
00:46:46.180 --> 00:46:47.020
Okay.

1015
00:46:47.020 --> 00:46:49.300
I may have missed this when you spoke in the beginning.

1016
00:46:49.300 --> 00:46:52.300
When you say week one, let's say like just my work schedule,

1017
00:46:52.300 --> 00:46:53.980
I have a lot of time that I can dedicate

1018
00:46:53.980 --> 00:46:56.620
on a Saturday night, on a Friday night.

1019
00:46:57.220 --> 00:47:00.020
If I dedicate just the two days of the week for week one,

1020
00:47:00.020 --> 00:47:01.100
does that count?

1021
00:47:01.100 --> 00:47:02.100
Does that work?

1022
00:47:02.100 --> 00:47:04.460
How does, I don't wanna rush through the process.

1023
00:47:04.460 --> 00:47:07.980
Week one is not about a week, it's about the curriculum.

1024
00:47:07.980 --> 00:47:11.500
Okay, so the curriculum is laid out in weeks

1025
00:47:11.500 --> 00:47:15.260
and if the time that you have to do your work

1026
00:47:15.260 --> 00:47:18.220
is just two days of that week, then that's what you do.

1027
00:47:18.220 --> 00:47:19.980
What we don't want people to do

1028
00:47:19.980 --> 00:47:24.420
is rush through all five weeks of curriculum in one week.

1029
00:47:24.860 --> 00:47:27.700
We don't want people to binge the curriculum.

1030
00:47:27.700 --> 00:47:29.140
I got it, thank you.

1031
00:47:29.140 --> 00:47:29.980
Yeah.

1032
00:47:29.980 --> 00:47:30.820
Okay, Abby.

1033
00:47:34.100 --> 00:47:35.580
Just a quick question.

1034
00:47:35.580 --> 00:47:37.980
You had mentioned when you were giving an example

1035
00:47:37.980 --> 00:47:41.860
about how you had a private client and I was curious,

1036
00:47:41.860 --> 00:47:43.940
is that possible if we need it

1037
00:47:43.940 --> 00:47:46.500
to be a private client to you?

1038
00:47:46.500 --> 00:47:47.860
I'm just curious.

1039
00:47:47.860 --> 00:47:51.500
We do have one-on-one coaching sessions.

1040
00:47:51.500 --> 00:47:52.780
Yes, we do.

1041
00:47:52.780 --> 00:47:53.620
Okay.

1042
00:47:53.660 --> 00:47:56.020
Yeah, so we have, you guys,

1043
00:47:56.020 --> 00:47:58.980
so the HeartWork specifically, phase one,

1044
00:47:58.980 --> 00:48:00.980
is a inner healing protocol.

1045
00:48:00.980 --> 00:48:05.180
It's an actual protocol that has very supernatural success.

1046
00:48:05.180 --> 00:48:09.620
And so if you need specifically HeartWork one-on-one coaching

1047
00:48:09.620 --> 00:48:11.100
we do have that available.

1048
00:48:11.100 --> 00:48:12.020
It is an extra fee.

1049
00:48:12.020 --> 00:48:14.100
We do have one-on-one coaching available.

1050
00:48:14.100 --> 00:48:16.180
Obviously the group coaching is phenomenal

1051
00:48:16.180 --> 00:48:18.860
and I think that you'll really get a lot from it.

1052
00:48:18.860 --> 00:48:19.940
And a lot of people that think

1053
00:48:19.940 --> 00:48:21.340
that they're gonna need a one-on-one call

1054
00:48:21.340 --> 00:48:22.780
realize they don't need one.

1055
00:48:22.780 --> 00:48:26.460
But we do have that available for a very nominal price.

1056
00:48:26.460 --> 00:48:28.380
And then in phase two,

1057
00:48:28.380 --> 00:48:31.300
we actually have one-on-one dating coaching available

1058
00:48:31.300 --> 00:48:34.020
as well, all the way through phase three.

1059
00:48:34.020 --> 00:48:36.380
So people that are in community as well.

1060
00:48:36.380 --> 00:48:37.500
We also have Symbus.

1061
00:48:37.500 --> 00:48:40.020
We have a, I'm a certified Symbus instructor,

1062
00:48:40.020 --> 00:48:41.580
which is save your marriage before it starts.

1063
00:48:41.580 --> 00:48:46.540
It's a pre-marital coaching class that is really awesome.

1064
00:48:46.540 --> 00:48:49.020
We have that available and we have had hundreds

1065
00:48:49.020 --> 00:48:52.660
and hundreds and hundreds of our pre-marital students

1066
00:48:53.420 --> 00:48:55.500
that have found success in this program take that.

1067
00:48:55.500 --> 00:48:57.460
Some people take it, something else,

1068
00:48:57.460 --> 00:48:59.700
they go to a pre-marital counselor or something,

1069
00:48:59.700 --> 00:49:01.300
but a lot of people take that program

1070
00:49:01.300 --> 00:49:02.940
as their pre-marital coaching.

1071
00:49:02.940 --> 00:49:04.260
And we have that available for you

1072
00:49:04.260 --> 00:49:07.100
when you get into a serious level three,

1073
00:49:07.100 --> 00:49:08.740
level four relationship.

1074
00:49:08.740 --> 00:49:11.340
So we got you covered on all ends.

1075
00:49:11.340 --> 00:49:13.100
I'm excited, thank you.

1076
00:49:13.100 --> 00:49:15.460
I'm glad, I'm glad.

1077
00:49:15.460 --> 00:49:17.980
You guys, we are matchmakers, but we are matchbreakers.

1078
00:49:17.980 --> 00:49:20.100
We are not going to let you get to the altar

1079
00:49:20.100 --> 00:49:21.780
with someone you should not be there with

1080
00:49:21.780 --> 00:49:24.660
if you have any kind of teachable heart.

1081
00:49:24.660 --> 00:49:25.780
I mean, we're not going to come to your house

1082
00:49:25.780 --> 00:49:29.180
and kidnap you, but short of that, just short of that,

1083
00:49:29.180 --> 00:49:31.100
we're going to do everything we can

1084
00:49:31.100 --> 00:49:32.740
to make sure that you see

1085
00:49:32.740 --> 00:49:35.340
if something really is unhealthy, all right?

1086
00:49:35.340 --> 00:49:40.140
So relax, you're God defended, have fun.

1087
00:49:40.140 --> 00:49:42.300
Let this be a time of just,

1088
00:49:42.300 --> 00:49:45.020
you guys, people have so many breakthroughs in phase one

1089
00:49:45.020 --> 00:49:47.220
that have nothing to do with romance.

1090
00:49:47.220 --> 00:49:49.700
They start doing something they did when they were a kid

1091
00:49:49.700 --> 00:49:50.940
that they haven't done in a long time.

1092
00:49:51.020 --> 00:49:52.460
They start playing an instrument again.

1093
00:49:52.460 --> 00:49:55.900
They start going and doing something with their life

1094
00:49:55.900 --> 00:49:57.980
that they didn't know that they still wanted to do.

1095
00:49:57.980 --> 00:50:00.020
They start having all kinds.

1096
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.720
of ideas, they start writing stuff, they start creating stuff, all kinds of breakthrough

1097
00:50:05.720 --> 00:50:10.680
happen in this program besides just the love story.

1098
00:50:10.680 --> 00:50:13.720
Expect to come alive, because that's what's going to happen to you.

1099
00:50:13.720 --> 00:50:17.520
All right, so let's get going, Heidi, no procrastinating.

1100
00:50:17.520 --> 00:50:21.980
And that's for everybody else who gets in and is just like, ah, it's going to be okay.

1101
00:50:21.980 --> 00:50:23.540
We're here to support you.

1102
00:50:23.540 --> 00:50:25.960
And everyone else is going through it right with you.

1103
00:50:25.960 --> 00:50:27.320
And so just know you're not alone.

1104
00:50:27.320 --> 00:50:28.320
All right.

1105
00:50:28.320 --> 00:50:31.560
And if you get to, if you get to prayer at all, please get to prayer.

1106
00:50:31.560 --> 00:50:36.720
If you get to supernatural Saturday, Sunday activation, take advantage of those things.

1107
00:50:36.720 --> 00:50:37.720
And we'll see you guys soon.

1108
00:50:37.720 --> 00:50:38.720
Yes, you're expected.

1109
00:50:38.720 --> 00:50:39.720
All right.

1110
00:50:39.720 --> 00:50:40.720
Bye, everyone.

1111
00:50:40.720 --> 00:50:41.720
Welcome.

1112
00:50:41.720 --> 00:50:42.720
Welcome to your last year single.

1113
00:50:42.720 --> 00:50:42.720