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Hey, welcome back.

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Now, in this video, we're going to talk more about unpacking our heart boxes, weeding our

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heart gardens, getting all those rocks of offense, those thistles and weeds out of the

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way of this beautiful story that God has for us.

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God has an amazing life for you.

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He doesn't write sad, boring stories, and the story that he wrote about your life is

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epic.

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It's an adventure of love and excitement and anticipation and all types of victory.

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Yes, there's always valleys, but there's also more mountaintops than valleys.

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And if you haven't had a lot of wins, it's time, time to step out of the story of shame

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and hurt and trauma and step into the story that God has always wanted for you.

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I know a lot of people that have had a lot of hard things happen in their lives.

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They don't think that God cares about them or has anything good for them.

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They're just like, this is just how it is for me.

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Other people are blessed.

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Yes, other people are abundant.

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And they'll even use that quote that says that God will never give more to me than I

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can handle.

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That's kind of depressing, right?

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It's basically saying that I've been created for struggle, but you haven't, you've been

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created for love.

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You might think, I wish God didn't trust me so much with all this shame and hurt and pain.

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Well, that stuff didn't come from God.

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Those things didn't come from heaven.

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God is a good daddy and he's the giver of good and perfect gifts, right?

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Isn't that what his word says?

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All that stuff that came into your life, all that trauma, that didn't come from God.

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Hurting people hurt people and broken people break people, but guess what?

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Healed people heal people.

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And that's why you're here.

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You're here because God wants you to step out of that story and step into his story,

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which is full of victory and amazing things that you haven't even unpacked yet.

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So I want you to get your hopes all the way up.

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You have all these unpacked, all this packed, I should say, goodness that needs to be unpacked.

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It's like you're sitting in this room full of presence that you haven't even began to

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open and you might be looking around and seeing everyone else opening their presence.

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Maybe people on social media, people in your family or your friend groups, and you want

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to be excited for those people and their victories and their happiness, their engagements, their

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marriages, maybe their job promotions.

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You want to be excited for them, but you feel like God's blessing everybody else, but

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you're not being blessed.

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But the truth is you're sitting here with all these wrapped presents around you.

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You're watching everyone else unwrap their gifts, but you have all these gifts that you

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haven't unwrapped yet.

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And you're never going to see them sitting there because we don't see from here.

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We see from here.

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We do.

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This is where the eyes of our life are.

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And so if you're only seeing struggle and you're only seeing trauma, then we really

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need to clean that lens.

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And that's why we unpack these boxes.

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We want to clean that lens, but we can't do it from here.

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We have to do it from here.

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And so that's why we're inviting Holy Spirit to do this plowing.

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And maybe as you're plowing, you're beginning to run into lies.

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You're beginning to see those lies as they tumble out of your heart box.

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So what do we do?

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We apply truth to them.

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You have an amazing worksheet.

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It's already in your worksheets.

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It's called God's truth versus my truth.

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So many times we take the facts of our life and we try to escalate them into truth.

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Maybe the fact is that you're broke.

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Maybe the fact is that you're lonely.

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There's no prospects on the horizon for a romantic relationship.

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That might be a fact right now, but it's not the truth.

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There's a higher truth in God's word.

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And if we come into agreement with that higher truth, even before it's manifested, even before

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it happens, it has to first be believed to be received.

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And if you'll believe it, you can receive it.

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Not here, but here.

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So we're making space for this new stuff to get planted.

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Remember, we can't erase.

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We have to replace.

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And so this new stuff is going to be planted by repetition.

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Those lies were planted by repetition.

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And so we're going to be have to begin to believe the truth by repetition as well.

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So we're inviting Holy Spirit to help plow these hard spots, these hopeless spots, these

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problem areas of our lives so that the seed of the truth can get in there.

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But first that soil has to be softened.

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Those hard parts in our hearts have to be softened.

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And we're doing that through repentance, confession, and forgiveness.

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That's going to be the game changer.

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Those three things are going to be the supernatural plow that shovels things out of the way and

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makes room for that beautiful truth to be planted and become an amazing blessing for

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you.

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So let's start with repentance and confession too.

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In this video, I think we're going to go ahead and do both of those.

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And we'll do forgiveness in the next video because it needs a video all of its own, right?

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And so as we're doing this hard work, and as we're dealing with these things that are

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coming up, we have to allow Holy Spirit to help us process, like to come alongside of

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us and do the heavy lifting.

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Now there's no.

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I don't want you rushing, I don't want you trying to plow through this material yourself.

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Let Holy Spirit be the plow.

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Watch these videos, watch them more than once if you need to because every time you listen

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your mind and your heart is going to zone into something, it's going to zone into something,

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something that I'm saying.

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It's going to hit the target, there's going to be a spot that's highlighted more than

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it was before.

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So repentance is one of those things that has a lot of religion attached to it.

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It means feel terrible about yourself, you're dirty, rotten, scoundrel, you should just

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cut yourself and cry and, you know, that's kind of what they did in the Bible, right?

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When they were in repentance, they sat in ashes and they cut themselves, no, sorry.

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That is not what we want to do here.

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What we want to do here is realize that our behavior is unworthy of us.

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What we're experiencing in the natural oftentimes is consequences of us doing it our own way.

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And that is what repentance means.

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Repentance means it's time to do it God's way, to turn away from our behavior and turn

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towards God's behavior.

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Repentance is about having a change of heart, having a change of mind.

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Behavior follows identity.

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You can't fake it till you make it.

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You can't be good to get God to do things for you because whatever it is that you really

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believe about yourself, your behavior is going to follow that.

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So we have to receive a new identity.

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And the way that we receive a new identity is through repentance.

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We come to God and we admit, Hey, you know what?

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My way is not working out.

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It's not the things that I've been doing.

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It's the things that I've been thinking, it's the things that I've been believing.

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And then that's turned into the things that I'm doing.

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It doesn't look like your word.

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You know, that's what I did.

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I said, God, I see what your word says, but I'm really fed up.

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I'm fed up with what I hear preached because it's not working out in my life.

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Nothing in your word is happening to me.

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What's wrong?

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You know, you know that I'm broken.

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You know, I messed up, but do you not want to bless me?

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I was willing to ask the hard questions to God, not in disrespectful manner, but I was

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frustrated.

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I was hurt.

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I was angry.

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I felt like the redheaded stepchild.

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I'm the one that nobody wanted.

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I was abandoned.

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I was collateral damage.

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I was insignificant.

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I felt that way, but that wasn't the truth.

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That was the truth of my experience, but that wasn't the truth.

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That was my heart wounds talking.

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Those were the lies that I was believing that we're talking and God showed me that when

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I came to him in repentance and I was willing to do things, not my way anymore, but his

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way that I've been believing a lot of lies and I've been in agreement with a lot of lies.

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And so repentance means coming out of agreement, having that change of heart, having that change

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of mind, having a super natural change of heart, not just a temporary change of heart.

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So I needed a real change in my heart and I couldn't change it and neither can you.

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So I asked God to search me and know me.

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Show me where I'm lying to myself.

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Show me where I'm pretending.

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Show me where I'm confused.

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Show me where I'm partnering with religion.

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Show me where my heart is a puzzle that's leading me astray and I can't figure it out.

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Reveal and heal me.

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That's what real repentance is.

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It is.

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That's what it is.

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It's asking God to take control and not one of those things where, you know, take the

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wheel.

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No, take it back.

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Take it back.

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And I really want to encourage you to be using those Jesus cares boards because that's how

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we let go of control and give control to God.

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That's how we do it.

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We're saying, I can't do this in my own power.

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I surrender to you.

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I'm submitting my free will to yours.

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And that's repentance.

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You know, the only thing that you'll ever be asked to do in your own power is surrender.

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Everything else will be done by empowerment.

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Everything will be done by grace.

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And grace just means the enabling power of heaven to do what you could never do on your

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own.

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You'll be empowered by the spirit.

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And so grace is just leaning into that.

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It's leaning into the spirit.

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It's admitting that you can't do this on yourself, on your own.

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You can't do this yourself.

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It's inviting God to pull back all the layers of those false identities and to show you

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who you really are.

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You know, my kids used to always sing that song by Carrie Underwood, Jesus take the wheel.

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They sing it off key for sure.

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But when we're in a crisis, we're fine with giving God control.

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We are.

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We don't want to live in the consequences of those decisions.

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But as soon as we're not in a crisis anymore, we want to give it back.

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Give the wheel back.

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I don't need you to drive anymore.

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I got it from here.

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But a lifestyle of repentance, a lifestyle of surrender, it means that you never, ever

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feel like you have it all together without him.

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You always need him.

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You need his input all the time.

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That heavenly wisdom that can show you what's really going on because we see, we don't see

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things.

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We see through filters no matter what.

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Even when we do the heart work, our heart wounds, we're always seeing through filters,

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always seeing through something that's just not quite right.

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And so we want his perspective.

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We have to have his perspective in everything.

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And so this is where the buck stops, it stops here.

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We're gonna start surrendering,

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we're gonna stop putting the blame

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on everyone else that's hurt us.

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That's why my life stinks.

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No, we make choices.

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If you're an adult person, you've made choices.

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You have, yes, you might have been through abuse.

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People may have hurt you,

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but now you have an opportunity to make the next choice.

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And so it's about confession too, not just repentance.

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We have to confess.

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A lot of times it's difficult to confess,

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and that's part of repentance.

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It is, it's confessing that I've gone the wrong way.

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I've done all these things,

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now I need to turn away from those things.

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Now, James 5.16 says, confess your faults and be healed.

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There's a promise connected to this scripture.

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That's great, isn't it?

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Confess your faults to who?

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To God?

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No, it says confess your faults to one another and be healed.

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And so that's the beauty of this community.

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And I really wanna encourage you to show up

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to your peer coaching sessions,

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to your community, to the Facebook community.

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And you might think, ah, people are gonna judge me.

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They really are.

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No, they're not gonna judge you.

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They're not gonna hurt you.

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This is a no judgment zone.

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But you know what's gonna hurt you?

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That sin inside of you, that blame and guilt inside of you.

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It's gonna eat you alive.

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It's gonna isolate you.

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That's what the enemy wants.

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He wants to back you in a corner

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and make you feel like you're the only one

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who's ever done this.

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You're the only one who's ever believed this.

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You know, there's this thing in this human court system

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called double jeopardy, you know,

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in the American court system.

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And it just means that if you're acquitted,

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you can never be tried for the same crime.

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You can't.

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But you can be tried for a different crime.

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And so when you're going through this confession part

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of this workshop, I wanna encourage you to make sure

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that you're confessing to the full crime,

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not just part of the sin,

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but the full unworthiness of whatever it is that's done.

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Okay, a lot of times we'll just be like,

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ah, say a little tidbit of it.

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And you definitely don't wanna do that

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because the enemy, the prosecutor,

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the Bible calls him the accuser of the brethren.

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He's gonna continue to accuse you and put you on trial

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and barrage with a barrage of questions

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and blame and tactics

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because he has the authority to do that.

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Why?

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Because you've not confessed to the whole thing.

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So you're living in constant guilt and shame,

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but like double jeopardy,

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if you confess to the whole thing,

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you're always gonna be acquitted.

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Jesus died on the cross for you to be declared innocent.

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But if you don't confess to the whole thing,

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then the enemy is gonna continue.

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And he has the right and authority to continue

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to accuse you and prosecute you for all the pieces

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that you haven't confessed to.

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So go ahead and confess to the full crime

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and let God put the gavel down that you're innocent,

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that you're vindicated.

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He can't heal you if you won't admit that it even happened,

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that you even did it.

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He can't heal you of something that you won't admit hurt you.

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So he wants to forgive you and he cannot forgive you

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unless you really admit that you need to be forgiven.

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So as that part of the homework that you have in part three,

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show up in that Facebook community,

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show up with your peers and just do a video,

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be willing to admit to the unworthy things

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that you've done in your life.

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Like I said, it's a private group

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and it's a safe space.

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And it really is gonna be a huge part of your healing

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if you allow yourself to be seen, known,

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and loved and vindicated there, all right?

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I'm gonna see you in the next video

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and we're gonna talk about forgiveness.

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Until then, ciao for now.