WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.000 All right, so welcome to last year's single orientation. 2 00:00:03.000 --> 00:00:04.920 I'm gonna go over some things with you guys, 3 00:00:04.920 --> 00:00:07.360 and then you're gonna get to ask questions. 4 00:00:07.360 --> 00:00:08.720 No question is stupid. 5 00:00:08.720 --> 00:00:10.480 Please ask all of your questions 6 00:00:10.480 --> 00:00:12.240 because someone watching in replay 7 00:00:12.240 --> 00:00:14.000 may have the same question as you, 8 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:15.600 and they didn't have a chance to ask it 9 00:00:15.600 --> 00:00:17.280 because they weren't live, right? 10 00:00:17.280 --> 00:00:20.800 And so you're gonna help answer their question for them. 11 00:00:20.800 --> 00:00:21.820 Sound good? 12 00:00:21.820 --> 00:00:23.080 So no stupid questions. 13 00:00:23.080 --> 00:00:24.360 So let's go ahead and get started. 14 00:00:24.360 --> 00:00:26.280 Father God, thank you for all of your daughters 15 00:00:26.280 --> 00:00:27.680 that are here tonight 16 00:00:27.720 --> 00:00:31.320 that are headed into this last year's single journey. 17 00:00:31.320 --> 00:00:33.520 Lord, I pray that you would be with them, 18 00:00:33.520 --> 00:00:34.480 you're for them, 19 00:00:34.480 --> 00:00:37.280 that you would just chart the course ahead of them. 20 00:00:37.280 --> 00:00:38.920 I pray that you would help them to see 21 00:00:38.920 --> 00:00:40.960 what they need to see, Lord, 22 00:00:40.960 --> 00:00:41.960 and get out of their own way, 23 00:00:41.960 --> 00:00:44.920 get out of your way so that they can step into the love story 24 00:00:44.920 --> 00:00:47.080 that I believe you've written for them. 25 00:00:47.080 --> 00:00:50.240 Anything and everything that they need for that process 26 00:00:50.240 --> 00:00:51.360 will be given to them. 27 00:00:51.360 --> 00:00:55.280 Nothing will be withheld from them in Jesus' name, amen. 28 00:00:55.280 --> 00:00:57.480 All right, so we're gonna go over all the questions. 29 00:00:58.280 --> 00:00:59.600 I'm gonna tell you some things that you might experience. 30 00:00:59.600 --> 00:01:00.880 Remember that book, 31 00:01:00.880 --> 00:01:02.760 for those of you that have had a baby back in the day, 32 00:01:02.760 --> 00:01:03.600 there was a book, 33 00:01:03.600 --> 00:01:05.519 because the internet was not a thing yet, 34 00:01:05.519 --> 00:01:06.360 and it was called, 35 00:01:06.360 --> 00:01:08.880 What You Expect When You're Expecting. 36 00:01:08.880 --> 00:01:10.080 Anyone remember that book? 37 00:01:10.080 --> 00:01:11.640 Did you see a friend had that book, 38 00:01:11.640 --> 00:01:13.560 even if you've never had a child? 39 00:01:13.560 --> 00:01:16.760 That was like the manifesto of pregnancy. 40 00:01:16.760 --> 00:01:18.800 It had everything to expect. 41 00:01:18.800 --> 00:01:22.560 It's like, oh, you had this body odor, it means this. 42 00:01:22.560 --> 00:01:25.520 You see like this little sign in your body, it means this. 43 00:01:25.520 --> 00:01:27.480 You feel this feeling, it means that, right? 44 00:01:27.480 --> 00:01:29.080 And so that's what we're gonna kind of do tonight. 45 00:01:29.080 --> 00:01:30.160 We're going to, 46 00:01:30.160 --> 00:01:32.480 what you expect when you are going through 47 00:01:32.480 --> 00:01:35.680 this phase one of the process, right? 48 00:01:35.680 --> 00:01:38.960 I'm mainly gonna just focus on phase one of the program. 49 00:01:38.960 --> 00:01:41.240 I'll touch a little bit on phase two and phase three, 50 00:01:41.240 --> 00:01:42.120 but you're gonna be, 51 00:01:42.120 --> 00:01:43.480 all of you are gonna be in phase one 52 00:01:43.480 --> 00:01:45.880 for at least the next five weeks. 53 00:01:45.880 --> 00:01:48.000 Some of you are gonna be in phase one longer than that, 54 00:01:48.000 --> 00:01:50.400 because it's just gonna take you longer. 55 00:01:50.400 --> 00:01:51.880 And I want you to make sure, 56 00:01:51.880 --> 00:01:53.880 here's number one, if you wanna write it down, 57 00:01:53.880 --> 00:01:57.320 do not rush through this first part. 58 00:01:59.000 --> 00:01:59.880 Don't rush through it, 59 00:01:59.880 --> 00:02:01.880 trying to get to the second part of the third part, 60 00:02:01.880 --> 00:02:03.560 trying to get out on dates, 61 00:02:03.560 --> 00:02:05.720 trying to get to a place where, 62 00:02:05.720 --> 00:02:07.400 you know, you think you're going to be able to go meet 63 00:02:07.400 --> 00:02:10.880 your spirit mate, that's all great, but write this down. 64 00:02:10.880 --> 00:02:14.080 It's not about being in the right time at the right place. 65 00:02:14.080 --> 00:02:14.920 That's great. 66 00:02:15.880 --> 00:02:17.880 But a lot of you have already been in the right place 67 00:02:17.880 --> 00:02:18.920 the right time, 68 00:02:18.920 --> 00:02:20.960 but you didn't have the third part of the trifecta, 69 00:02:20.960 --> 00:02:22.120 the right heart. 70 00:02:22.120 --> 00:02:24.120 So right time, right place, right heart 71 00:02:24.120 --> 00:02:28.600 is the trifecta of success when it comes to your love story. 72 00:02:28.600 --> 00:02:32.320 And the right heart is what we do in this phase one. 73 00:02:32.320 --> 00:02:37.320 So I wanna make sure that you are really doing the work. 74 00:02:37.400 --> 00:02:39.520 That's why it's called hard work. 75 00:02:40.520 --> 00:02:42.600 If I would have called it hard work, 76 00:02:42.600 --> 00:02:44.080 it still would have been true, 77 00:02:46.360 --> 00:02:47.240 but it's hard work. 78 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:50.080 It's not hard work, but the hard work can be hard work. 79 00:02:50.080 --> 00:02:51.040 Why? 80 00:02:51.040 --> 00:02:53.640 Because we got a lot of stuff going on in there. 81 00:02:53.640 --> 00:02:55.880 A lot of stuff that we're not even really 82 00:02:55.880 --> 00:02:58.440 that consciously aware of. 83 00:02:58.440 --> 00:03:03.440 Once again, therapy's wonderful and counseling is wonderful. 84 00:03:05.040 --> 00:03:07.000 I definitely think that that should be a part 85 00:03:07.000 --> 00:03:09.080 of every believer's journey, 86 00:03:09.080 --> 00:03:10.600 but make sure that your therapist 87 00:03:10.600 --> 00:03:12.680 and your counselor has Jesus. 88 00:03:12.680 --> 00:03:14.680 You can have Jesus in the therapist, 89 00:03:14.680 --> 00:03:17.720 but you have to make sure that your therapist has Jesus too. 90 00:03:17.760 --> 00:03:22.320 I've seen lots of people get led astray by counselors 91 00:03:22.320 --> 00:03:24.240 and by therapy. 92 00:03:24.240 --> 00:03:26.280 They've gotten off on some other stuff. 93 00:03:26.280 --> 00:03:28.320 That's not meant to scare you. 94 00:03:28.320 --> 00:03:31.080 It is just a cautionary tale 95 00:03:31.080 --> 00:03:33.200 that there's a lot of humanism out there. 96 00:03:33.200 --> 00:03:35.080 There's a lot of transcendentalism. 97 00:03:35.080 --> 00:03:40.080 There's a lot of just what I call psychology culture, 98 00:03:41.760 --> 00:03:45.560 and none of that is going to ever really transform you. 99 00:03:45.560 --> 00:03:47.000 It's just not. 100 00:03:47.000 --> 00:03:47.840 You know why? 101 00:03:47.840 --> 00:03:50.040 Because it's based on head knowledge. 102 00:03:50.040 --> 00:03:52.000 I had plenty of counseling and therapy, 103 00:03:52.000 --> 00:03:53.800 and I was still tore up from the floor up. 104 00:03:53.800 --> 00:03:56.520 And the reason why is because it's all stuck here. 105 00:03:56.520 --> 00:03:59.120 It doesn't ever get here. 106 00:03:59.120 --> 00:04:01.080 And the Bible tells us very specifically 107 00:04:01.080 --> 00:04:02.680 that life is a heart game. 108 00:04:02.680 --> 00:04:04.400 It's not a head game. 109 00:04:04.400 --> 00:04:05.720 It's a heart game. 110 00:04:05.720 --> 00:04:08.040 And the problem with the heart part of you, 111 00:04:08.040 --> 00:04:10.520 which is what this whole first part is all about, 112 00:04:10.520 --> 00:04:12.560 the phase one is all about the heart part, 113 00:04:12.560 --> 00:04:15.800 the soul part, the mind, will, and emotions part. 114 00:04:15.800 --> 00:04:18.279 The problem with that is a lot of people 115 00:04:18.279 --> 00:04:20.320 are even deceiving themselves. 116 00:04:21.920 --> 00:04:26.920 You're gonna see really quickly in week one of phase one 117 00:04:27.160 --> 00:04:29.600 that your heart, when it's broken, 118 00:04:29.600 --> 00:04:31.840 when it's still operating on brokenness, 119 00:04:31.840 --> 00:04:36.840 it is a deceiver, it's a pretender, and it's a puzzle. 120 00:04:39.000 --> 00:04:40.920 And it will have you zigging and zagging 121 00:04:40.920 --> 00:04:42.280 and going left instead of right 122 00:04:42.280 --> 00:04:43.720 and jumping up and jumping down 123 00:04:43.720 --> 00:04:45.800 and trying to give it all the things that it wants, 124 00:04:45.800 --> 00:04:47.360 where none of those things are the things 125 00:04:47.360 --> 00:04:49.600 that the authentic you really needs or wants. 126 00:04:49.600 --> 00:04:51.560 And here's the good news. 127 00:04:51.560 --> 00:04:54.200 God knows who you are, and he knows where you are, 128 00:04:54.200 --> 00:04:55.440 and he knows what you need, 129 00:04:55.440 --> 00:04:57.120 and he knows how to get it to you. 130 00:04:58.120 --> 00:05:00.320 But you have to stop. 131 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:01.400 Surrender the pen. 132 00:05:01.400 --> 00:05:03.120 And so week one of phase one, 133 00:05:03.120 --> 00:05:04.400 which is what you're in right now, 134 00:05:04.400 --> 00:05:05.960 you're about to head into week one, 135 00:05:05.960 --> 00:05:08.400 is called supernatural surrender for a reason. 136 00:05:08.400 --> 00:05:09.960 We're gonna revisit that permission slip 137 00:05:09.960 --> 00:05:11.180 that you saw during the challenge, 138 00:05:11.180 --> 00:05:13.000 but you're really gonna dig into that. 139 00:05:13.000 --> 00:05:16.240 Surrender is going to be your new favorite word. 140 00:05:16.240 --> 00:05:17.760 Everything's gonna be surrendered. 141 00:05:17.760 --> 00:05:19.160 You're gonna make a Jesus cares board. 142 00:05:19.160 --> 00:05:20.000 You're like, what is that? 143 00:05:20.000 --> 00:05:22.520 You'll see as you go through week one, 144 00:05:22.520 --> 00:05:26.000 and you're gonna stop taking ownership 145 00:05:26.000 --> 00:05:27.880 of everything in your life. 146 00:05:27.880 --> 00:05:31.040 And you're gonna start letting God do his part. 147 00:05:31.040 --> 00:05:33.120 A lot of you are very responsible, 148 00:05:33.120 --> 00:05:35.840 and that is just a fancy word for fear. 149 00:05:35.840 --> 00:05:38.320 That is an orphan mentality. 150 00:05:38.320 --> 00:05:40.400 It is a poverty mentality. 151 00:05:40.400 --> 00:05:43.800 A lot of times it's a religious mindset. 152 00:05:43.800 --> 00:05:45.760 And so it's not about what we can do. 153 00:05:45.760 --> 00:05:48.640 It's about what God can do through us, right? 154 00:05:48.640 --> 00:05:49.680 That is what it's about. 155 00:05:49.680 --> 00:05:53.480 And so you're gonna get in alignment with that 156 00:05:53.480 --> 00:05:58.480 during the first part of this program. 157 00:05:58.520 --> 00:06:00.200 So don't mail it in. 158 00:06:00.200 --> 00:06:01.560 Don't try to rush through it. 159 00:06:01.560 --> 00:06:03.880 If we see you getting there faster than five weeks, 160 00:06:03.880 --> 00:06:06.160 we're gonna wanna know why. 161 00:06:06.160 --> 00:06:09.400 Because it should take all of five weeks and even more 162 00:06:09.400 --> 00:06:11.640 to process through this material. 163 00:06:11.640 --> 00:06:14.040 So don't be like, oh, I've heard this before. 164 00:06:14.040 --> 00:06:16.000 Well, first of all, you definitely haven't 165 00:06:16.000 --> 00:06:19.000 because I've never taken any inner healing courses. 166 00:06:19.000 --> 00:06:19.840 I haven't. 167 00:06:19.840 --> 00:06:22.200 I've never read any of the inner healing gurus books 168 00:06:22.200 --> 00:06:24.720 like the Danny Silk books and the Henry Clout. 169 00:06:24.720 --> 00:06:26.560 Like whatever it is, I don't know it. 170 00:06:26.560 --> 00:06:28.920 So this is a direct download from God. 171 00:06:28.920 --> 00:06:30.520 And it's been around actually longer 172 00:06:30.520 --> 00:06:32.360 than some of those books. 173 00:06:32.360 --> 00:06:35.880 This teaching has been around for 20-ish years. 174 00:06:35.880 --> 00:06:37.800 And so the bottom line is, 175 00:06:37.800 --> 00:06:41.960 is that you're going to learn something supernatural here. 176 00:06:41.960 --> 00:06:43.840 You're gonna go into a supernatural process 177 00:06:43.840 --> 00:06:45.120 if you allow yourself 178 00:06:45.120 --> 00:06:47.880 and you don't let your ego get in the way 179 00:06:47.880 --> 00:06:51.640 because sometimes transformation is simple. 180 00:06:52.800 --> 00:06:55.680 And so if this seems like Mickey Mouse stuff 181 00:06:55.680 --> 00:06:58.520 compared to all the deep sozo work you've done, 182 00:06:58.520 --> 00:07:02.560 then good, because it does not have to be hard 183 00:07:02.560 --> 00:07:06.160 to be transformative, right? 184 00:07:06.160 --> 00:07:08.240 But then you're like, Jackie, but you said it was hard work. 185 00:07:08.240 --> 00:07:10.360 The hard work is not being distracted. 186 00:07:10.360 --> 00:07:12.480 The hard work is staying focused 187 00:07:12.480 --> 00:07:15.840 in this very crazy distractible world that we live in. 188 00:07:15.840 --> 00:07:17.440 You came here for a reason. 189 00:07:17.960 --> 00:07:19.160 God sent you here for a reason. 190 00:07:19.160 --> 00:07:22.440 And we've never had anyone who's done the hard work 191 00:07:22.440 --> 00:07:23.880 not come out on the other side 192 00:07:23.880 --> 00:07:28.680 with lots of great, amazing breakthrough in transformation. 193 00:07:28.680 --> 00:07:30.640 Okay, not one person. 194 00:07:30.640 --> 00:07:35.640 And so please do yourself a favor, don't rush it. 195 00:07:35.720 --> 00:07:38.080 Okay, so what might you experience? 196 00:07:38.080 --> 00:07:39.400 What can you expect? 197 00:07:39.400 --> 00:07:42.760 Well, first of all, you can expect to feel all the feels. 198 00:07:42.760 --> 00:07:45.880 Around here, we say you have to feel the feels 199 00:07:45.920 --> 00:07:48.560 to heal the feels, right? 200 00:07:49.480 --> 00:07:50.880 I know that's beautiful and it rhymes. 201 00:07:50.880 --> 00:07:54.280 And I've been saying that for probably 15 years. 202 00:07:54.280 --> 00:07:58.320 You have to feel the feels to heal the feels. 203 00:07:58.320 --> 00:08:00.000 A lot of us want healing, 204 00:08:00.000 --> 00:08:05.000 but we don't want to really experience the trauma 205 00:08:05.480 --> 00:08:08.160 where the brokenness is rooted. 206 00:08:08.160 --> 00:08:09.800 And that's just not possible. 207 00:08:09.800 --> 00:08:11.520 Now, the good news is this, 208 00:08:11.520 --> 00:08:15.200 that this is not a situation we're gonna come in here 209 00:08:15.240 --> 00:08:17.120 and we're going to force you to like, 210 00:08:17.120 --> 00:08:18.720 look at all your trauma. 211 00:08:18.720 --> 00:08:20.240 You're only going to look at 212 00:08:20.240 --> 00:08:22.000 what Holy Spirit brings to the surface. 213 00:08:22.000 --> 00:08:23.760 It's a very supernatural process. 214 00:08:24.960 --> 00:08:27.400 So the second thing is no digging. 215 00:08:27.400 --> 00:08:29.600 We don't want you to get a shovel and dig around 216 00:08:29.600 --> 00:08:32.880 where all the dead bones are buried in your family history 217 00:08:32.880 --> 00:08:35.720 and try to dig out all the generational curses. 218 00:08:35.720 --> 00:08:37.039 You guys, we don't do that here. 219 00:08:37.039 --> 00:08:38.799 We're not doing that here. 220 00:08:38.799 --> 00:08:40.320 What we're gonna do is we're gonna allow 221 00:08:40.320 --> 00:08:44.159 the revealing for healing to happen is what we call it. 222 00:08:44.159 --> 00:08:46.720 And trust me, there's gonna be plenty of things. 223 00:08:46.720 --> 00:08:47.960 And the reason why it's important for you 224 00:08:47.960 --> 00:08:52.240 not to go sifting around, okay, in your family's graveyard, 225 00:08:52.240 --> 00:08:53.520 the reason why that's important 226 00:08:53.520 --> 00:08:54.520 is because there's some things 227 00:08:54.520 --> 00:08:56.600 that you just don't need to deal with right now. 228 00:08:56.600 --> 00:08:58.720 Yeah, you might be aware that they happened 229 00:08:58.720 --> 00:08:59.560 and you might think, 230 00:08:59.560 --> 00:09:01.280 maybe I need some more healing in that area, 231 00:09:01.280 --> 00:09:03.840 but unless it is brought to the surface 232 00:09:03.840 --> 00:09:06.560 during this revealing for healing process, 233 00:09:06.560 --> 00:09:09.680 then you're just gonna let sleeping dogs lie. 234 00:09:09.680 --> 00:09:10.500 Why? 235 00:09:10.500 --> 00:09:12.920 Because as you go forward into phase two and phase three, 236 00:09:12.920 --> 00:09:16.360 and you're able to try out your newly healed heart 237 00:09:16.360 --> 00:09:20.760 in real life, real time scenarios with people, 238 00:09:20.760 --> 00:09:23.600 including potential suitors, 239 00:09:23.600 --> 00:09:25.720 that stuff will come up on its own. 240 00:09:25.720 --> 00:09:27.720 Let it come up when it needs to come up. 241 00:09:28.640 --> 00:09:31.840 We're gonna diffuse all the ticking time bombs that we can, 242 00:09:31.840 --> 00:09:32.920 that we know about, 243 00:09:32.920 --> 00:09:34.480 but we're not going to go 244 00:09:34.480 --> 00:09:37.280 and try to force healing in an area 245 00:09:37.280 --> 00:09:40.800 or maybe it's just not time yet for that, okay? 246 00:09:40.800 --> 00:09:42.800 And what will happen if you try to force something 247 00:09:43.640 --> 00:09:45.320 is that you might have a little bit of a breakdown. 248 00:09:45.320 --> 00:09:48.080 And this is not a phase 249 00:09:48.080 --> 00:09:50.340 where you're gonna have a nervous breakdown. 250 00:09:50.340 --> 00:09:52.160 You have a scheduled breakthrough. 251 00:09:52.160 --> 00:09:53.660 That is what's happening here, 252 00:09:53.660 --> 00:09:56.480 but only if you follow directions, okay? 253 00:09:56.480 --> 00:09:59.680 So we're gonna feel the feels when they come, 254 00:09:59.680 --> 00:10:00.680 we're not gonna go. 255 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:01.000 I'm gonna try to feel them. 256 00:10:01.000 --> 00:10:03.280 We're gonna feel the feels to heal the feels. 257 00:10:03.280 --> 00:10:08.280 You might expect to feel a little emotional, okay? 258 00:10:08.560 --> 00:10:10.660 For those of you that have a fight or flight response 259 00:10:10.660 --> 00:10:11.760 that's really sensitive, 260 00:10:11.760 --> 00:10:13.480 you might feel a little panicky at times, 261 00:10:13.480 --> 00:10:15.240 might feel a little bit of anxiety. 262 00:10:15.240 --> 00:10:17.440 It's okay, just move through it. 263 00:10:17.440 --> 00:10:20.600 Okay, move through it, show up to your coachings, 264 00:10:20.600 --> 00:10:23.100 show up in your group and post. 265 00:10:23.100 --> 00:10:27.100 Pro tip for phase one is post as much as possible 266 00:10:27.100 --> 00:10:27.940 in your group. 267 00:10:28.760 --> 00:10:31.160 Now we're hoping to get you guys all moved onto the app 268 00:10:31.160 --> 00:10:33.200 and you'll have your group over there as well. 269 00:10:33.200 --> 00:10:35.320 But right now you're still posting in that Facebook group. 270 00:10:35.320 --> 00:10:36.720 The only people that are in there 271 00:10:36.720 --> 00:10:38.440 are people that are in phase one. 272 00:10:39.320 --> 00:10:41.160 They're all going through the same process as you. 273 00:10:41.160 --> 00:10:42.200 They might be a little ahead of you. 274 00:10:42.200 --> 00:10:44.220 They might be a little behind you in the five weeks, 275 00:10:44.220 --> 00:10:47.180 but they're all going to be in the same process. 276 00:10:47.180 --> 00:10:49.480 Go ahead and be seen, known and loved in there, right? 277 00:10:49.480 --> 00:10:51.200 Because you're seen, known and loved in heaven 278 00:10:51.200 --> 00:10:53.920 and we want to be on earth as we already are in heaven 279 00:10:53.920 --> 00:10:55.420 and this is a safe space. 280 00:10:56.240 --> 00:10:58.560 And you will get more and more and more breakthrough 281 00:10:58.560 --> 00:11:02.040 as you allow people to come into this process with you. 282 00:11:02.040 --> 00:11:04.280 That being said, we don't need any of you 283 00:11:04.280 --> 00:11:06.600 to become therapists or counselors or coaches 284 00:11:06.600 --> 00:11:07.480 for each other. 285 00:11:07.480 --> 00:11:09.880 We have people on our staff 286 00:11:09.880 --> 00:11:12.320 that are there in the group with you 287 00:11:12.320 --> 00:11:14.680 that will see your post, that will comment on your post. 288 00:11:14.680 --> 00:11:17.140 The only job that you have with your sisters here 289 00:11:17.140 --> 00:11:18.520 that you're starting this process with 290 00:11:18.520 --> 00:11:20.440 and the others that are a little ahead of you 291 00:11:20.440 --> 00:11:23.480 in the process is to just cheer each other on, 292 00:11:23.480 --> 00:11:26.100 encourage each other, love each other, pray for each other. 293 00:11:26.100 --> 00:11:27.700 That's all we want you to do. 294 00:11:27.700 --> 00:11:29.860 If we see you with your little counselor, your coach hat, 295 00:11:29.860 --> 00:11:31.620 your therapist, maybe that's what you do for a living. 296 00:11:31.620 --> 00:11:32.460 Wonderful. 297 00:11:32.460 --> 00:11:33.640 You get to take that hat off 298 00:11:33.640 --> 00:11:36.420 and leave it at the door in this program. 299 00:11:36.420 --> 00:11:38.280 And if we see you wearing it too often, 300 00:11:38.280 --> 00:11:39.620 we're probably going to take you aside 301 00:11:39.620 --> 00:11:42.880 and we're going to ask you to take it off, okay? 302 00:11:42.880 --> 00:11:43.860 Why is that? 303 00:11:43.860 --> 00:11:45.700 Because this is all about you, boo. 304 00:11:45.700 --> 00:11:46.820 That's why. 305 00:11:46.820 --> 00:11:48.980 You get to rest in here. 306 00:11:48.980 --> 00:11:51.080 It's not because we don't think you're wise and amazing. 307 00:11:51.080 --> 00:11:52.500 It's because you get to rest in here. 308 00:11:52.500 --> 00:11:54.560 In fact, that's some of y'all's problems. 309 00:11:54.560 --> 00:11:55.440 You're already focused. 310 00:11:55.440 --> 00:11:57.400 You're always focused on someone else's problem 311 00:11:57.400 --> 00:12:00.800 and their healing and you've neglected your own heart. 312 00:12:00.800 --> 00:12:04.120 And what you do is you medicate by helping others. 313 00:12:04.120 --> 00:12:05.400 We don't want that anymore. 314 00:12:05.400 --> 00:12:09.080 We want you to deal with you, right? 315 00:12:09.080 --> 00:12:10.700 And so keep those hats off. 316 00:12:10.700 --> 00:12:12.280 And that continues into phase two. 317 00:12:12.280 --> 00:12:13.500 We have dating coaches. 318 00:12:13.500 --> 00:12:15.780 We have relationship coaches, including myself. 319 00:12:15.780 --> 00:12:17.040 We don't need you to do anything 320 00:12:17.040 --> 00:12:20.360 but support and cheer each other on. 321 00:12:20.360 --> 00:12:22.440 You're allowed to, you know, you can chime in 322 00:12:23.280 --> 00:12:24.420 as long as you're not coaching or advising, 323 00:12:24.420 --> 00:12:25.820 you can chime in and say, 324 00:12:25.820 --> 00:12:28.140 hey, you know, that sounds kind of fishy to me. 325 00:12:28.140 --> 00:12:29.360 Maybe you should check that out. 326 00:12:29.360 --> 00:12:30.420 You can say stuff like that. 327 00:12:30.420 --> 00:12:32.500 And you'll learn more as you go along in the second place. 328 00:12:32.500 --> 00:12:34.300 I don't want any of you to be afraid 329 00:12:34.300 --> 00:12:35.900 to actually talk to each other, 330 00:12:35.900 --> 00:12:38.940 but especially in this phase one heart work part, 331 00:12:38.940 --> 00:12:42.660 we want you to make sure that you are not being a helper 332 00:12:42.660 --> 00:12:45.880 as much as you are being a student, okay? 333 00:12:45.880 --> 00:12:46.940 Really important. 334 00:12:46.940 --> 00:12:48.400 And so you might feel a lot of emotions. 335 00:12:48.400 --> 00:12:50.260 You might feel angry or weepy, irritable. 336 00:12:50.260 --> 00:12:51.980 You might feel like you're on a hair trigger. 337 00:12:52.520 --> 00:12:54.720 You might feel like you have a little chronic PMS, 338 00:12:54.720 --> 00:12:56.880 a little fight or flight response, a little anxious. 339 00:12:56.880 --> 00:12:59.320 You might feel a little down, a little heavy. 340 00:12:59.320 --> 00:13:01.400 You might feel a lot of other emotions too, 341 00:13:01.400 --> 00:13:03.360 some positive emotions. 342 00:13:03.360 --> 00:13:05.440 There might be some drama that kind of tries 343 00:13:05.440 --> 00:13:07.920 to get stirred up while you're in this first phase. 344 00:13:07.920 --> 00:13:08.740 What is that? 345 00:13:08.740 --> 00:13:09.580 That's a distraction. 346 00:13:09.580 --> 00:13:12.240 That's what I like to call the border bullies. 347 00:13:12.240 --> 00:13:14.440 They're showing up to try to keep you from going forward. 348 00:13:14.440 --> 00:13:16.720 Because remember your whole lineage and legacy, 349 00:13:16.720 --> 00:13:19.340 I believe, is depending on you. 350 00:13:19.340 --> 00:13:20.640 Whatever's been running in your family 351 00:13:20.640 --> 00:13:21.920 that shouldn't be running in your family, 352 00:13:22.760 --> 00:13:23.600 I believe it runs out with you. 353 00:13:23.600 --> 00:13:24.420 I believe that's why you're here. 354 00:13:24.420 --> 00:13:26.120 You're spotlighted and highlighted 355 00:13:26.120 --> 00:13:28.660 to be a kinsman redeemer in your family. 356 00:13:28.660 --> 00:13:31.340 Has anyone ever received a word like that? 357 00:13:31.340 --> 00:13:33.120 Like you're gonna be a person in your family 358 00:13:33.120 --> 00:13:35.180 that's gonna shift things and change things, 359 00:13:35.180 --> 00:13:39.060 that you're a forerunner or pioneer, 360 00:13:39.060 --> 00:13:41.320 that your marriage, your future marriage 361 00:13:41.320 --> 00:13:44.260 is going to shift your whole family. 362 00:13:44.260 --> 00:13:45.700 If you haven't received those words, 363 00:13:45.700 --> 00:13:47.620 then I'm telling you those words right now 364 00:13:47.620 --> 00:13:48.740 and releasing them over you, 365 00:13:48.740 --> 00:13:50.820 because I believe those are the people 366 00:13:50.820 --> 00:13:52.700 that get called to this program. 367 00:13:52.700 --> 00:13:54.660 There's eight plus billion people in the world, 368 00:13:54.660 --> 00:13:56.680 and the small group of people, 369 00:13:56.680 --> 00:13:59.020 the thousands that get called into this program, 370 00:13:59.020 --> 00:14:01.860 I believe that they've been highlighted by heaven 371 00:14:01.860 --> 00:14:03.820 to be that for their family line. 372 00:14:04.900 --> 00:14:05.740 I do. 373 00:14:06.900 --> 00:14:08.420 And one thing that I truly believe 374 00:14:08.420 --> 00:14:11.820 is that more important than the family that you come from 375 00:14:11.820 --> 00:14:15.220 is the family that you create with your future spirit mate. 376 00:14:16.260 --> 00:14:18.380 So if you came like me, 377 00:14:18.380 --> 00:14:20.740 you came out of your mom's womb running for your life 378 00:14:21.460 --> 00:14:22.300 and you were raised by wolves 379 00:14:22.300 --> 00:14:23.300 on the plains of the Serengeti, 380 00:14:23.300 --> 00:14:25.140 then there's good news. 381 00:14:25.140 --> 00:14:27.740 And the good news is that more important 382 00:14:27.740 --> 00:14:30.180 and more powerful than the family you've come from 383 00:14:30.180 --> 00:14:32.500 is the family that you're gonna build together 384 00:14:32.500 --> 00:14:34.140 with your spirit mate. 385 00:14:34.140 --> 00:14:34.980 Cool? 386 00:14:36.020 --> 00:14:36.900 Great. 387 00:14:36.900 --> 00:14:37.740 All right. 388 00:14:37.740 --> 00:14:40.620 So a little drama might try to break out. 389 00:14:40.620 --> 00:14:43.660 Just check no on that invitation. 390 00:14:43.660 --> 00:14:46.300 You're not gonna come to that pity party. 391 00:14:46.300 --> 00:14:48.340 You're not gonna come to that fight. 392 00:14:48.380 --> 00:14:51.740 If your husband, the man who was your husband 393 00:14:51.740 --> 00:14:53.180 and now he's your husband, 394 00:14:53.180 --> 00:14:56.660 tries to pick a fight with you over custody or the kids, 395 00:14:56.660 --> 00:14:58.820 or the kids started to pick a fight with you 396 00:14:58.820 --> 00:15:00.020 or your in-laws. 397 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:03.880 to your outlaws or friends or your boss or whoever, 398 00:15:03.880 --> 00:15:07.560 just don't say yes to that. 399 00:15:07.560 --> 00:15:11.700 Because all that's trying to do is get you to fall off. 400 00:15:15.260 --> 00:15:18.080 Guys, there's a reason why this is part of the orientation 401 00:15:18.080 --> 00:15:19.780 because it happens just that much. 402 00:15:22.420 --> 00:15:24.200 Don't get into a fight with your car. 403 00:15:24.200 --> 00:15:26.000 Your car starts acting up. 404 00:15:26.000 --> 00:15:27.260 You just tell the Lord, 405 00:15:28.260 --> 00:15:30.740 I'm putting this on my Jesus cares board. 406 00:15:30.740 --> 00:15:32.020 I can't be distracted. 407 00:15:32.020 --> 00:15:33.920 I'm not allowed to get distracted by this. 408 00:15:33.920 --> 00:15:36.420 So if all hell starts trying to break loose in your life, 409 00:15:36.420 --> 00:15:40.060 that's good because we want hell to break off of us 410 00:15:40.060 --> 00:15:41.460 and be gone. 411 00:15:41.460 --> 00:15:44.260 Okay, so distractions, they will try to come. 412 00:15:44.260 --> 00:15:45.780 For those of you that are single moms, 413 00:15:45.780 --> 00:15:48.160 a lot of times the kids, 414 00:15:48.160 --> 00:15:50.420 the opposing forces will show up through the kids. 415 00:15:50.420 --> 00:15:52.280 All of a sudden, they don't know how to use the microwave. 416 00:15:52.280 --> 00:15:53.420 They don't know how to tie their shoes 417 00:15:53.420 --> 00:15:55.940 when they've been self-sufficient for a long time. 418 00:15:55.980 --> 00:15:59.380 Don't give into it, all right? 419 00:15:59.380 --> 00:16:01.660 Put your foot down and stand your ground 420 00:16:01.660 --> 00:16:03.060 and keep going forward. 421 00:16:03.060 --> 00:16:05.040 Dreaming is something that happens. 422 00:16:05.040 --> 00:16:09.260 Please keep a pen and a dream journal, 423 00:16:10.100 --> 00:16:11.180 whatever you want that to look like, 424 00:16:11.180 --> 00:16:13.420 a pad of paper at your bedside. 425 00:16:13.420 --> 00:16:16.300 When I tell you that you will not remember your dream, 426 00:16:16.300 --> 00:16:17.660 you'll wake up, you'll remember it, 427 00:16:17.660 --> 00:16:19.420 and then you'll go back to sleep and you wake up again, 428 00:16:19.420 --> 00:16:21.220 you will not remember it. 429 00:16:21.220 --> 00:16:22.060 You won't. 430 00:16:23.060 --> 00:16:26.260 I can't tell you how many times I'm like, 431 00:16:26.260 --> 00:16:28.780 I could never forget that, it was so poignant. 432 00:16:28.780 --> 00:16:32.180 Go back to sleep, you wake up like you have amnesia. 433 00:16:32.180 --> 00:16:33.660 You don't remember it at all. 434 00:16:33.660 --> 00:16:36.580 It's like, how, how, how is it gone? 435 00:16:37.620 --> 00:16:41.100 Because I don't know what happens, but it happens. 436 00:16:41.100 --> 00:16:44.660 And so make sure that you have that little pad of paper, 437 00:16:44.660 --> 00:16:47.660 even those of you that it would be like, I never dream. 438 00:16:47.660 --> 00:16:49.980 Me neither, but guess what? 439 00:16:49.980 --> 00:16:51.220 You might start. 440 00:16:51.220 --> 00:16:55.100 And so just in case, keep it there and write it down. 441 00:16:55.100 --> 00:16:57.740 There'll be opportunity for you to post that in phase one 442 00:16:57.740 --> 00:17:00.660 and get some feedback from our coaches, from myself. 443 00:17:00.660 --> 00:17:02.260 I scroll through there. 444 00:17:02.260 --> 00:17:04.339 I do have the gift to interpret dreams. 445 00:17:04.339 --> 00:17:05.859 I will scroll through there and take a look, 446 00:17:05.859 --> 00:17:07.420 see every once in a while. 447 00:17:07.420 --> 00:17:09.819 We have other people on our team that also can give you 448 00:17:09.819 --> 00:17:11.700 insight into your dreams as well. 449 00:17:11.700 --> 00:17:15.380 Now don't be writing us a 15 page dream, 450 00:17:15.380 --> 00:17:16.740 because you're one of the dreamer people 451 00:17:16.740 --> 00:17:18.180 that dream all the time. 452 00:17:18.180 --> 00:17:19.619 So you're like, oh, what about this dream 453 00:17:19.619 --> 00:17:20.619 I had six months ago? 454 00:17:21.060 --> 00:17:23.420 I'm going to put it in here and it's 18 paragraphs. 455 00:17:23.420 --> 00:17:26.380 No, short, brief, powerful. 456 00:17:26.380 --> 00:17:28.380 Give us the highlights of it. 457 00:17:28.380 --> 00:17:29.540 Let us weigh in. 458 00:17:29.540 --> 00:17:30.740 All right. 459 00:17:30.740 --> 00:17:32.540 And only the important ones, 460 00:17:32.540 --> 00:17:34.420 because you need to learn how to know 461 00:17:34.420 --> 00:17:35.940 what your own dream means. 462 00:17:35.940 --> 00:17:37.300 God gave it to you. 463 00:17:37.300 --> 00:17:40.620 And so don't be posting it before you really pray into it, 464 00:17:40.620 --> 00:17:43.260 ask Holy Spirit to give you the interpretation 465 00:17:43.260 --> 00:17:44.620 of what it means as well. 466 00:17:44.620 --> 00:17:46.140 That's super important. 467 00:17:46.140 --> 00:17:47.620 Some of you will not night dream. 468 00:17:47.620 --> 00:17:49.220 Does that mean you're broken and messed up? 469 00:17:49.220 --> 00:17:50.780 Does that mean the heart work's not working? 470 00:17:50.780 --> 00:17:51.660 No. 471 00:17:51.660 --> 00:17:53.580 It just means that that's not how God's talking to you 472 00:17:53.580 --> 00:17:55.700 in this season, but you might daydream. 473 00:17:55.700 --> 00:17:57.780 You might start seeing patterns and numbers 474 00:17:57.780 --> 00:17:59.460 and things that just seem significant, 475 00:17:59.460 --> 00:18:00.940 but you don't know why. 476 00:18:00.940 --> 00:18:02.060 Write it down. 477 00:18:03.300 --> 00:18:05.940 If you feel like you start seeing stuff 478 00:18:05.940 --> 00:18:07.940 over and over again, and you're like, 479 00:18:07.940 --> 00:18:09.420 what in the world does that mean? 480 00:18:09.420 --> 00:18:11.100 Why do I keep seeing this red bird? 481 00:18:11.100 --> 00:18:12.620 Write it down. 482 00:18:12.620 --> 00:18:15.820 Okay, keep a heart work journal. 483 00:18:15.820 --> 00:18:17.740 You're going to want to do this. 484 00:18:17.740 --> 00:18:19.620 If you just find yourself zoning off 485 00:18:19.620 --> 00:18:22.060 and daydreaming about something and doing something 486 00:18:22.060 --> 00:18:26.500 and you see yourself in some future state, write it down. 487 00:18:26.500 --> 00:18:27.540 What is happening? 488 00:18:27.540 --> 00:18:30.060 Your heart is coming alive. 489 00:18:30.060 --> 00:18:31.220 You might have some heightened senses. 490 00:18:31.220 --> 00:18:32.180 For those of you that were pregnant, 491 00:18:32.180 --> 00:18:33.300 you remember you had heightened senses. 492 00:18:33.300 --> 00:18:36.820 You had like a supersonic hearing and sense of smell. 493 00:18:36.820 --> 00:18:39.300 You might start having something like that 494 00:18:39.300 --> 00:18:41.500 during this as well, 495 00:18:41.500 --> 00:18:45.140 where everything seems like it's in live and living color, 496 00:18:45.980 --> 00:18:47.900 unlike before. 497 00:18:47.900 --> 00:18:51.220 Some of you may have what I call deja vu. 498 00:18:51.220 --> 00:18:53.140 It may start happening like, 499 00:18:53.140 --> 00:18:55.340 hey, something's weird about this. 500 00:18:55.340 --> 00:18:56.980 I feel like I've said this before. 501 00:18:56.980 --> 00:18:59.260 I feel like I've been here before. 502 00:18:59.260 --> 00:19:04.260 Deja vu is just a kind of French name for convergence. 503 00:19:04.860 --> 00:19:06.580 When you start having deja vu, 504 00:19:06.580 --> 00:19:08.740 it's most likely because you're beginning 505 00:19:08.740 --> 00:19:13.620 to come into alignment with where God is taking you. 506 00:19:13.620 --> 00:19:16.620 So write down the elements of your deja vu. 507 00:19:16.620 --> 00:19:17.860 Who were you with? 508 00:19:17.860 --> 00:19:19.140 What were you doing? 509 00:19:19.140 --> 00:19:20.460 What were you talking about 510 00:19:20.460 --> 00:19:22.660 when you all of a sudden had the deja vu? 511 00:19:22.660 --> 00:19:25.860 Write all that stuff down because all of that is clues. 512 00:19:25.860 --> 00:19:27.340 The most important thing that I want to tell you 513 00:19:27.340 --> 00:19:28.420 is during this first phase, 514 00:19:28.420 --> 00:19:30.940 you're going to feel like God is talking to you 515 00:19:30.940 --> 00:19:32.740 more than ever before. 516 00:19:32.740 --> 00:19:34.660 You're going to feel like you're getting 517 00:19:34.660 --> 00:19:36.340 a lot of what I call God wings. 518 00:19:37.460 --> 00:19:39.380 Heaven is listening. 519 00:19:39.380 --> 00:19:41.100 God is always talking. 520 00:19:41.100 --> 00:19:42.300 He really is. 521 00:19:42.340 --> 00:19:43.500 And for some of you, 522 00:19:43.500 --> 00:19:44.740 you haven't really been aware 523 00:19:44.740 --> 00:19:46.340 of how God's been talking to you, 524 00:19:46.340 --> 00:19:48.940 and you're going to start becoming more and more aware. 525 00:19:48.940 --> 00:19:50.780 So if you haven't really been that close to God, 526 00:19:50.780 --> 00:19:53.780 you feel like he's a bazillion, million miles away, 527 00:19:53.780 --> 00:19:56.140 he's going to start feeling a lot closer. 528 00:19:56.140 --> 00:19:59.660 Things are going to start feeling significant. 529 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:01.500 might read a verse of scripture 530 00:20:01.500 --> 00:20:03.580 and you feel like God's talking directly to you. 531 00:20:03.580 --> 00:20:05.460 You might scroll on the internet 532 00:20:05.460 --> 00:20:08.180 and it feels like a video jumps out at you about something. 533 00:20:08.180 --> 00:20:11.100 And I really want to encourage you 534 00:20:11.100 --> 00:20:14.300 to be careful about your scrolling during phase one. 535 00:20:14.300 --> 00:20:16.220 I'm not telling you to fast media, 536 00:20:16.220 --> 00:20:18.340 but I am telling you that you want to stay 537 00:20:18.340 --> 00:20:21.180 as focused as possible, okay? 538 00:20:21.180 --> 00:20:23.540 Stay as focused as possible if you can. 539 00:20:23.540 --> 00:20:26.580 Now, we're gonna ask you to do two things during phase one. 540 00:20:26.580 --> 00:20:28.380 We're gonna ask you to go on a dating sabbatical 541 00:20:28.400 --> 00:20:31.120 unless you're in a level, what we call level three, 542 00:20:31.120 --> 00:20:33.460 exclusive marriage-minded courtship. 543 00:20:34.440 --> 00:20:36.340 If you're just kind of talking to people, 544 00:20:36.340 --> 00:20:37.920 even if you've been on a few dates with them, 545 00:20:37.920 --> 00:20:40.120 but nothing serious, nothing exclusive, 546 00:20:40.120 --> 00:20:41.760 we're gonna ask you to put a pin in that, 547 00:20:41.760 --> 00:20:44.600 put it on pause, hit the pause button, 548 00:20:44.600 --> 00:20:48.480 tell them, say, hey, listen, I'm going through a workshop. 549 00:20:48.480 --> 00:20:49.680 I'm gonna be in it for five weeks 550 00:20:49.680 --> 00:20:51.520 and they've asked me to really focus on this 551 00:20:51.520 --> 00:20:52.480 and not to be dating. 552 00:20:52.480 --> 00:20:55.100 And, you know, I'll see you on the flip side. 553 00:20:55.100 --> 00:20:57.600 Trust me, you can't miss out on your spirit mate. 554 00:20:57.600 --> 00:21:00.060 If that's your spirit mate and you're doing the heart work, 555 00:21:00.060 --> 00:21:01.260 it's only gonna grow stronger 556 00:21:01.260 --> 00:21:04.460 when you flip around after five weeks. 557 00:21:04.460 --> 00:21:08.760 But that could be a massive distraction for you 558 00:21:08.760 --> 00:21:11.300 if you do not follow those instructions. 559 00:21:11.300 --> 00:21:14.180 And then the second thing we're gonna ask you not to do 560 00:21:14.180 --> 00:21:18.820 is make huge personality or lifestyle changes 561 00:21:18.820 --> 00:21:21.260 during phase one of this program. 562 00:21:21.260 --> 00:21:22.100 Why is that? 563 00:21:22.100 --> 00:21:23.900 Because your heart's gonna start coming alive. 564 00:21:23.900 --> 00:21:25.340 Week one is supernatural surrender. 565 00:21:25.340 --> 00:21:26.980 Week two is unpacking the heart boxes. 566 00:21:27.320 --> 00:21:28.880 Week three is confession and repentance. 567 00:21:28.880 --> 00:21:30.240 Week four is forgiveness. 568 00:21:30.240 --> 00:21:33.000 Week five is the real authentic you. 569 00:21:33.000 --> 00:21:34.200 And somewhere in this process, 570 00:21:34.200 --> 00:21:35.120 you're gonna start wanting things 571 00:21:35.120 --> 00:21:36.840 that you might not have wanted before, 572 00:21:36.840 --> 00:21:38.640 or maybe you wanted them a long time ago 573 00:21:38.640 --> 00:21:40.600 and now all of a sudden you're gonna want them again. 574 00:21:40.600 --> 00:21:43.400 Your day job may start looking like crap 575 00:21:43.400 --> 00:21:45.120 and maybe it already does, 576 00:21:45.120 --> 00:21:47.440 but you can't go in and tell your boss to shove it. 577 00:21:47.440 --> 00:21:51.200 You ain't working here no more during phase one. 578 00:21:51.200 --> 00:21:52.760 Don't do it. 579 00:21:52.760 --> 00:21:55.000 Please don't do it, okay? 580 00:21:55.000 --> 00:21:55.840 Just wait, 581 00:21:55.860 --> 00:21:57.700 because your little pendulum is gonna start swinging 582 00:21:57.700 --> 00:22:00.080 and we wanna wait till it kind of gets right here 583 00:22:00.080 --> 00:22:02.660 before we make those crazy decisions 584 00:22:02.660 --> 00:22:05.780 like dyeing your hair purple and tattooing your face. 585 00:22:05.780 --> 00:22:08.620 Don't do those things during phase one. 586 00:22:08.620 --> 00:22:11.340 Don't pack up the truck and move to Beverly. 587 00:22:11.340 --> 00:22:15.740 Don't do any of that stuff until after phase one is over. 588 00:22:15.740 --> 00:22:16.580 You think I'm kidding, 589 00:22:16.580 --> 00:22:18.160 but there's a reason why these are the rules, 590 00:22:18.160 --> 00:22:19.720 because this is what people do. 591 00:22:20.680 --> 00:22:21.780 When I first did my heart work, 592 00:22:21.780 --> 00:22:24.100 I dyed my hair purple and pierced my nose. 593 00:22:24.120 --> 00:22:27.200 That was just a big old, you know what, 594 00:22:27.200 --> 00:22:29.200 to the people that tried to keep me 595 00:22:29.200 --> 00:22:32.780 just under their little Pentecostal thumb my whole life. 596 00:22:32.780 --> 00:22:34.780 Cut all my hair off. 597 00:22:34.780 --> 00:22:36.040 It's an act of rebellion. 598 00:22:36.040 --> 00:22:38.160 Those of you that have been around Pentecostals, 599 00:22:38.160 --> 00:22:39.000 you know why. 600 00:22:39.920 --> 00:22:42.960 And then I was just like, I'll do what I want. 601 00:22:42.960 --> 00:22:45.160 But thank goodness all these years later, 602 00:22:45.160 --> 00:22:47.720 my pendulum has kind of come to the middle, right? 603 00:22:47.720 --> 00:22:48.880 Very important. 604 00:22:48.880 --> 00:22:52.640 So depending on how oppressed you have been by other people 605 00:22:52.660 --> 00:22:55.220 and their opinions of who you should be 606 00:22:55.220 --> 00:22:56.460 and who you shouldn't be, 607 00:22:56.460 --> 00:22:59.760 you might get a little wild and that's okay. 608 00:23:00.860 --> 00:23:03.380 But let's make sure that we save 609 00:23:03.380 --> 00:23:05.180 some of that wildness for later. 610 00:23:05.180 --> 00:23:07.060 Let's not be doing it here. 611 00:23:07.060 --> 00:23:08.860 So no quitting your jobs, no moving. 612 00:23:08.860 --> 00:23:12.220 Now, the exception to that is if you were already 613 00:23:12.220 --> 00:23:13.380 transitioning your job, 614 00:23:13.380 --> 00:23:15.700 if you were already in the middle of a transition 615 00:23:15.700 --> 00:23:17.600 and you're moving, you sold your house, 616 00:23:17.600 --> 00:23:20.500 you're moving whatever your lease is up, that's different. 617 00:23:20.520 --> 00:23:23.600 But don't do it all of a sudden 618 00:23:23.600 --> 00:23:27.280 in the middle of phase one of this program, okay? 619 00:23:27.280 --> 00:23:29.200 And then lastly, divine appointments. 620 00:23:29.200 --> 00:23:31.620 There's gonna be so many divine appointments. 621 00:23:31.620 --> 00:23:34.600 Make sure you keep a journal of how God's talking to you, 622 00:23:34.600 --> 00:23:39.360 what he's saying, what kind of exciting anticipation 623 00:23:39.360 --> 00:23:41.720 is starting to come alive in your heart 624 00:23:42.920 --> 00:23:45.560 because you are going to come alive. 625 00:23:45.560 --> 00:23:46.760 You are. 626 00:23:46.780 --> 00:23:50.660 And good things, amazing things are on the horizon for you. 627 00:23:50.660 --> 00:23:54.420 We have had people lose huge amounts of weight 628 00:23:54.420 --> 00:23:57.100 in this program as a result of this first phase. 629 00:23:57.100 --> 00:24:00.660 We've had people completely relocate to other countries, 630 00:24:00.660 --> 00:24:03.580 to other careers, zip codes, communities. 631 00:24:04.780 --> 00:24:08.060 We've had people move in with each other 632 00:24:08.060 --> 00:24:10.100 that they met here, like as housemates, 633 00:24:10.100 --> 00:24:12.260 as they go through their single journey together. 634 00:24:12.260 --> 00:24:15.980 Some of the people meet their best, closest friends 635 00:24:16.320 --> 00:24:17.160 in this group. 636 00:24:17.160 --> 00:24:21.920 In fact, I just saw this picture in one of my OG groups. 637 00:24:25.240 --> 00:24:28.740 One of my students just had her bridal shower. 638 00:24:30.240 --> 00:24:34.160 So there she is in her little bridal shower dress, 639 00:24:34.160 --> 00:24:37.100 but then here's a picture of her 640 00:24:37.100 --> 00:24:39.200 with another one of my success stories, 641 00:24:39.200 --> 00:24:41.640 who's married and has a baby now. 642 00:24:41.640 --> 00:24:42.840 And then here's a picture of her 643 00:24:42.840 --> 00:24:45.920 with another one of my success stories. 644 00:24:46.860 --> 00:24:48.660 And they're all in this wedding together. 645 00:24:48.660 --> 00:24:50.300 So you're gonna meet your bridesmaids, 646 00:24:50.300 --> 00:24:53.980 your maids of honor in this group probably. 647 00:24:53.980 --> 00:24:55.580 All different types of amazing things 648 00:24:55.580 --> 00:24:56.980 are gonna happen here. 649 00:24:56.980 --> 00:25:00.020 You're going to travel maybe for the first. 650 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:04.240 of your life, you're going to stop putting the pause button on all these beautiful, amazing 651 00:25:04.240 --> 00:25:08.320 things that God has for you. And you're going to start moving forward. And so I hope you're 652 00:25:08.320 --> 00:25:13.920 excited about that because all of that is what's going to happen here. My God, Lorraine Woods is 653 00:25:13.920 --> 00:25:19.600 in the house. You finally made it over into the program. Look at you, girl. I'm so proud of you. 654 00:25:19.600 --> 00:25:27.840 I've seen her in my challenge many, many times and here she is. All right. Okay. So I'm very 655 00:25:27.840 --> 00:25:32.960 excited for all of you. How many of you did the challenge more than once before you actually joined 656 00:25:32.960 --> 00:25:43.600 the program? Put your little avatar hand up so I can see it. Your little, it'll say on your Zoom, 657 00:25:43.600 --> 00:25:48.320 raise your hand. Just put that up so I can see how many of you did the challenge more than once 658 00:25:48.320 --> 00:25:53.120 before you finally pulled the trigger on it. All right. Not that many. So this was all of 659 00:25:53.120 --> 00:25:58.480 you's like first time through. Okay. Except for like four of you. That's awesome. All right. Well, 660 00:25:58.480 --> 00:26:02.160 we're going to go ahead and you can put your hands down. We're going to go ahead and take some 661 00:26:02.160 --> 00:26:10.880 questions now. Logistically phase one has their coaching calls live on Mondays at 1 PM Eastern 662 00:26:10.880 --> 00:26:16.400 and 8 PM Eastern. Your calendar is in your Facebook group. There's a guide section there. 663 00:26:16.400 --> 00:26:23.200 The replays are going to live over on your Jackie Dorman portal. So you can look at all the replays 664 00:26:23.840 --> 00:26:28.640 at least every Monday, at least one of those sessions, the 1 PM or the 8 PM is recorded. 665 00:26:29.680 --> 00:26:35.600 So you can go back and listen to it and watch it. It is a grab bag of coaching from all five weeks. 666 00:26:35.600 --> 00:26:40.800 It's not just week one coaching or week two coaching week three coaching. It's a grab bag. 667 00:26:40.800 --> 00:26:46.320 And where do we get that grab bag from every Sunday night in your group? There is a post 668 00:26:46.320 --> 00:26:51.040 that's put up called roll call. Where are you? What are you working on? What's going on? What 669 00:26:51.040 --> 00:26:56.480 are your breakthroughs? Where are you stuck at? You need to make sure that you post in the comments 670 00:26:56.480 --> 00:27:01.600 of that post, because that is where our coaches gather all the information that they want to coach 671 00:27:01.600 --> 00:27:07.680 on in the weekly coaching session. And then of course you can show up live if you can, 672 00:27:07.680 --> 00:27:11.760 and then ask your questions there as well. So if you, you can post in the comments, 673 00:27:11.760 --> 00:27:15.040 but if you're able to be live, you can also ask your questions live. Okay. 674 00:27:16.320 --> 00:27:23.280 Also weekly prayer, 10 AM Eastern, every single day, Monday through Friday, we have weekly prayer. 675 00:27:23.280 --> 00:27:27.760 The links are all in your group. They're all in that guide section of your group in the important 676 00:27:27.760 --> 00:27:33.440 links guide, which I think is guide to, and then you can also, and I think they also live in your 677 00:27:33.440 --> 00:27:38.000 Jackie Dorman portal as well. So you can find them there. And thankfully we're going to be on 678 00:27:38.000 --> 00:27:44.000 the app. We're onboarding people. Now don't go download it. We will tell you when it's your turn 679 00:27:44.000 --> 00:27:48.320 to onboard, but all the links will be there to just touch them and hit them and go straight to 680 00:27:48.320 --> 00:27:54.000 where you need to go, which is going to be such an amazing thing. Um, Saturdays also at 10 PM 681 00:27:54.000 --> 00:27:59.520 Eastern in the morning time, um, that is supernatural Saturday. That is current prophetic realities. 682 00:27:59.520 --> 00:28:04.640 It is a powerful time together in the spirit. If you can be there live, be there live, but it is 683 00:28:04.640 --> 00:28:09.840 available in replay morning prayer is not because it happens every single day of the week. So that'd 684 00:28:09.840 --> 00:28:14.960 be way too many recordings. So Monday through Friday, 10 AM Eastern, not available in replay 685 00:28:14.960 --> 00:28:21.040 Saturdays. Yes. Available in replay Sunday nights. Sometimes we have activated 8 PM Eastern on Sunday 686 00:28:21.040 --> 00:28:25.680 nights. It's mainly breakout rooms. So it's not always available in replay, but once a month, 687 00:28:25.680 --> 00:28:30.960 we have a prophetic night. Everyone gathers together, all of our prayer leaders, all of 688 00:28:30.960 --> 00:28:35.920 our prophetic teachers. And we all just, we have people get prophesied over all kinds of amazing 689 00:28:36.560 --> 00:28:42.240 things happen that does get recorded. And that does happen once a month. Okay. All right. Um, 690 00:28:43.360 --> 00:28:48.400 when you get to phase two, your coaching calls, same thing, one and eight, but it's going to be 691 00:28:48.400 --> 00:28:53.200 on Tuesdays. Same thing. One of those sessions available in replay, where are you going to find 692 00:28:53.200 --> 00:29:00.560 the replays in your portal. Okay. And then phase three, their live sessions kind of run the gamut, 693 00:29:00.560 --> 00:29:07.040 but they're usually on Tuesdays or Thursdays only once, only one a week. And they are on all 694 00:29:07.040 --> 00:29:11.520 different types of things. We have path sessions that strengthen your relationship with God, 695 00:29:11.520 --> 00:29:18.320 yourself and others like this week's path session is on your expectations of each phase of 696 00:29:18.320 --> 00:29:23.440 relationship. We have five phases of relationship that we work with in this program, community, 697 00:29:24.320 --> 00:29:29.600 low stakes, dating, exclusive dating, engagement in marriage. What should you be expecting from 698 00:29:29.600 --> 00:29:33.680 someone in all of those phases of relationship? What should it look like? What should they be 699 00:29:33.680 --> 00:29:40.080 doing? You know, do you have missed expectations? Do you have, you know, unrealistic expectations? 700 00:29:40.800 --> 00:29:45.680 Do you have, you counted the cost of what you're going to have to do to make room and space for 701 00:29:45.680 --> 00:29:50.640 relationship as it grows? We're going to talk about that. Our last path session was about sex, 702 00:29:50.640 --> 00:29:54.640 no holds barred everything in anything that you've ever wanted to ask or know about sex. 703 00:29:55.600 --> 00:29:59.760 We had that last time. That was a non co-ed session. 704 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:05.160 So sometimes our path sessions are co-ed sometimes or not in phase three, we have love seats, 705 00:30:05.160 --> 00:30:06.160 which is dating coaching. 706 00:30:06.160 --> 00:30:08.360 We have asked Jackie, which is dating coaching. 707 00:30:08.360 --> 00:30:12.820 We have single spotlights, which is a fun matchmaking time that we have. 708 00:30:12.820 --> 00:30:15.680 So all different types of things happen in phase three. 709 00:30:15.680 --> 00:30:19.880 Once again, it's usually on Tuesdays or Thursdays, not both one. 710 00:30:19.880 --> 00:30:22.280 And then the calendar is laid out a couple of months in advance. 711 00:30:22.280 --> 00:30:26.200 So you can see what is there and plan your life accordingly. 712 00:30:26.200 --> 00:30:28.000 All right. 713 00:30:28.000 --> 00:30:29.000 Everyone excited. 714 00:30:29.000 --> 00:30:30.000 We have a lot of questions. 715 00:30:30.000 --> 00:30:34.000 Let me go ahead and hear them. 716 00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:40.600 Jackie, would you repeat the levels of relationship again, please? 717 00:30:40.600 --> 00:30:44.160 And listen, you don't have to remember any of this because you're going to get taught 718 00:30:44.160 --> 00:30:50.120 this in phase two, the divine feminine, dating 101, all that, but I will tell you community 719 00:30:50.120 --> 00:30:51.120 low stakes dating. 720 00:30:51.120 --> 00:30:59.720 It's kind of like the talking stage of things, exclusive dating, engagement, and marriage. 721 00:30:59.720 --> 00:31:05.080 And in phase two, everything in anything about dating is going to happen. 722 00:31:05.080 --> 00:31:07.800 Also things about divine feminine boundaries. 723 00:31:07.800 --> 00:31:11.680 That's all phase two classes. 724 00:31:11.680 --> 00:31:12.680 I have a question. 725 00:31:12.680 --> 00:31:16.480 So I am committed to stopping dating apps, a hundred percent. 726 00:31:16.480 --> 00:31:17.480 No problem. 727 00:31:17.480 --> 00:31:19.200 I have a date in progress. 728 00:31:19.200 --> 00:31:24.920 So I live in Washington state and I have a date scheduled for Tamita fella a week from 729 00:31:24.920 --> 00:31:26.960 Friday in North Dakota. 730 00:31:26.960 --> 00:31:28.640 Do I cancel it? 731 00:31:28.640 --> 00:31:34.800 Like the odds of it being a distraction for five weeks are like so slim. 732 00:31:34.800 --> 00:31:38.560 You're traveling to, you're traveling all the way to North Dakota. 733 00:31:38.560 --> 00:31:42.640 I'm seeing my kids in North Dakota and he happened to live there. 734 00:31:42.640 --> 00:31:43.640 Yeah. 735 00:31:43.640 --> 00:31:46.640 I mean, if you've already promised them, you guys, we don't want you to break promises. 736 00:31:46.640 --> 00:31:49.680 If you've already made plans and you told someone that you would do something, go ahead 737 00:31:49.680 --> 00:31:54.960 and follow through knowing that if it is the best date of your entire life, you're going 738 00:31:54.960 --> 00:31:56.440 to put it on pause. 739 00:31:56.440 --> 00:31:57.440 Perfect. 740 00:31:57.440 --> 00:31:58.440 Okay. 741 00:31:58.440 --> 00:31:59.440 Thank you. 742 00:31:59.440 --> 00:32:00.440 Yep. 743 00:32:00.440 --> 00:32:01.440 Who's next? 744 00:32:01.440 --> 00:32:02.440 Go ahead. 745 00:32:02.440 --> 00:32:09.760 You, if you have your hands up, just go ahead and unmute yourself and take turns. 746 00:32:09.760 --> 00:32:14.920 Oh, I don't know who else is waiting, but I'll just go ahead. 747 00:32:14.920 --> 00:32:16.600 So I'm also sort of wrestling. 748 00:32:16.600 --> 00:32:21.760 I've been doing low stakes dating, talking to multiple people. 749 00:32:21.760 --> 00:32:23.960 I've got three guys kind of in my funnel. 750 00:32:23.960 --> 00:32:25.600 One of them's in Florida. 751 00:32:25.600 --> 00:32:27.440 I think he would totally understand. 752 00:32:27.440 --> 00:32:29.560 I can put him on pause. 753 00:32:29.560 --> 00:32:35.840 I think he's somebody that I know will be there in five weeks and would give me space 754 00:32:35.840 --> 00:32:39.840 and he actually may need some space too because it's one of those, we've been talking for 755 00:32:39.840 --> 00:32:45.640 three to four months and it's like, this long distance thing isn't going to work unless 756 00:32:45.640 --> 00:32:49.200 one of us is able to fly to meet one another. 757 00:32:49.200 --> 00:32:53.600 So that's, I'm going to leave that in God's hands. 758 00:32:53.600 --> 00:33:00.240 Another two are local and I'm struggling with like how, I've gone on like four or five dates 759 00:33:00.240 --> 00:33:04.720 with them, but I've only been talking to each of them for about a month. 760 00:33:04.720 --> 00:33:07.960 So it's like, I'm struggling with how to communicate. 761 00:33:07.960 --> 00:33:09.520 One of them, I think I can just let go. 762 00:33:09.720 --> 00:33:14.240 I don't think that we're necessarily compatible. 763 00:33:14.240 --> 00:33:17.200 I just have to figure out the language about how to let him go. 764 00:33:17.200 --> 00:33:22.120 The other one, I'm like more hesitant to let go of. 765 00:33:22.120 --> 00:33:27.240 So I'm just around how to ask for this. 766 00:33:27.240 --> 00:33:30.160 You've been on four to five dates and it's not exclusive. 767 00:33:30.160 --> 00:33:32.720 And I just want to let you know, you're not going to miss out on your spirit mate. 768 00:33:32.720 --> 00:33:37.200 You know, what comes to my mind is that, you know, especially not when you're being obedient 769 00:33:37.200 --> 00:33:38.200 to God. 770 00:33:38.200 --> 00:33:42.400 But what comes to my mind is one of my guys, one of my guy students, he kind of met his 771 00:33:42.400 --> 00:33:43.480 dream girl. 772 00:33:43.480 --> 00:33:45.080 He wanted, he lives in Florida. 773 00:33:45.080 --> 00:33:46.640 He wanted to move to Colorado. 774 00:33:46.640 --> 00:33:53.320 He met this really cool girl in Colorado and started, you know, you know, talking to her 775 00:33:53.320 --> 00:33:57.640 and, you know, then he started his heartwork phase and he's like, Oh, do I really need 776 00:33:57.640 --> 00:33:58.640 to do this? 777 00:33:58.640 --> 00:34:01.600 I think that it's possible that, you know, she could just, you know, slip through my 778 00:34:01.600 --> 00:34:02.600 fingers. 779 00:34:02.600 --> 00:34:06.600 And I said, you know, you need to do what you need to do, but you know, that's part 780 00:34:06.600 --> 00:34:08.719 of the process that you've signed up for. 781 00:34:08.719 --> 00:34:14.360 So he did it and she understood, put a pin in it, put it on pause and did his heartwork. 782 00:34:14.360 --> 00:34:17.679 And right when his heartwork was finished, I said to him, I said, Hey, are you going 783 00:34:17.679 --> 00:34:19.639 to reach out to Colorado girl? 784 00:34:19.639 --> 00:34:24.199 And he goes, I am going to, but first I'm going on a ski trip. 785 00:34:24.199 --> 00:34:27.340 He's a skier I'm up in Vermont. 786 00:34:27.340 --> 00:34:29.440 So he was going on a ski trip to Vermont. 787 00:34:29.440 --> 00:34:32.440 And right when he got back from that, he was going to, you know, reach out to Colorado 788 00:34:32.440 --> 00:34:33.440 girl. 789 00:34:33.440 --> 00:34:40.239 So he went to Vermont and he ran into a girl from Florida that someone tried to introduce 790 00:34:40.239 --> 00:34:42.280 him to two years earlier. 791 00:34:42.280 --> 00:34:44.000 And he said, no, I don't want to meet her. 792 00:34:44.000 --> 00:34:49.040 I'm not interested because of his avoidant attachment and she wasn't his type. 793 00:34:49.040 --> 00:34:53.560 And he didn't like her picture, met her in person at the ski resort and they're getting 794 00:34:53.560 --> 00:34:55.120 married now. 795 00:34:55.120 --> 00:34:58.880 So Colorado girl, wasn't it? 796 00:34:58.880 --> 00:35:00.000 And he definitely didn't miss out on that. 797 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:05.000 Nothing. And so, um, I'm going to leave that ball in your court. 798 00:35:05.200 --> 00:35:07.200 I'm going to tell you that story and I'm gonna leave that ball in your court 799 00:35:07.360 --> 00:35:08.760 because we're not going to police you. 800 00:35:09.080 --> 00:35:13.040 We're not going to police you or I'm going to ask you. Now I will tell you, 801 00:35:13.400 --> 00:35:18.240 if you show up in phase one and you're posting about like dates that you're 802 00:35:18.240 --> 00:35:21.160 going on and different things and you know, Oh, you know, 803 00:35:21.160 --> 00:35:23.720 this heartwork thing's coming up. Cause I went out with this guy. 804 00:35:23.920 --> 00:35:27.360 We go on cards. You want it. Okay. Because you're, 805 00:35:27.560 --> 00:35:31.120 because you're not supposed to be dating in phase one. 806 00:35:31.160 --> 00:35:34.560 And so we want to keep everyone honest in this group. 807 00:35:34.600 --> 00:35:35.840 So if you're going to do some, 808 00:35:35.840 --> 00:35:40.400 if you're going to and you feel like God's giving you the green light to just do 809 00:35:40.420 --> 00:35:44.480 what you want and not do what we're suggesting, that's all of you. Cool. 810 00:35:44.600 --> 00:35:46.760 Because once again, there is no control in love, 811 00:35:47.000 --> 00:35:49.560 but don't post about it in phase one. 812 00:35:49.600 --> 00:35:53.240 Wait till you get to phase two and there'll be lots of dating posting going on 813 00:35:53.240 --> 00:35:54.080 over there. Okay. 814 00:35:54.920 --> 00:35:58.920 Okay. Gotcha. I tend to show up as like a perfectionist rules girl. 815 00:35:58.920 --> 00:36:02.200 And there's a part of me that like is also wanting to challenge myself to hear 816 00:36:02.200 --> 00:36:03.680 from the Lord on it as well. 817 00:36:04.040 --> 00:36:06.920 So that I'm not just like following the rules for the sake of rules, 818 00:36:07.000 --> 00:36:11.920 like in that religious spirit sort of sense. And so, um, I, 819 00:36:11.920 --> 00:36:14.840 I, I love the, the ask and I'm, 820 00:36:15.480 --> 00:36:17.920 I think I'm probably going to put them all on pause, 821 00:36:17.960 --> 00:36:19.720 but it's just one of those things. I'm, 822 00:36:19.720 --> 00:36:24.600 I'm trying to like gauge my like hearing from the Lord well as well. 823 00:36:24.640 --> 00:36:25.960 So thank you for that. I appreciate it. 824 00:36:26.680 --> 00:36:30.640 I will tell you guys that heart work takes a lot of space. It really does. 825 00:36:30.640 --> 00:36:33.520 If you're going to do it right, you're going to really focus on yourself. I mean, 826 00:36:33.520 --> 00:36:37.360 this is your time, you know, so don't let anything steal it from you. 827 00:36:37.360 --> 00:36:39.000 Don't let anything steal it from you. 828 00:36:39.000 --> 00:36:40.200 This is your time. 829 00:36:40.240 --> 00:36:44.920 And I believe that God has drawn you here to have some real special breakthrough 830 00:36:44.920 --> 00:36:49.000 with him. Okay. And so I want you to have that for sure. Let's see, Pam, 831 00:36:49.160 --> 00:36:50.120 you have your hand up. 832 00:36:50.800 --> 00:36:55.640 Yeah. Hi. How are you Jackie? And everybody I'm good. 833 00:36:55.680 --> 00:37:00.400 I'm good. Uh, glad to be here. I went to your challenge this weekend and, um, 834 00:37:01.240 --> 00:37:06.000 I'm, I'm excited. I'm ready, but I'm just having logistical challenges. 835 00:37:06.040 --> 00:37:10.520 I don't know if anybody else's or not. I'm not really a big social media person. 836 00:37:10.520 --> 00:37:13.840 So I did, you know, your challenge on Facebook and everything. 837 00:37:14.400 --> 00:37:18.480 And then of course I registered. And then, um, so I, 838 00:37:20.000 --> 00:37:24.720 managed to get to my profile setting and then it's offering me the phase 839 00:37:24.720 --> 00:37:28.720 one, the two different blocks of phase one. So I, I, 840 00:37:28.720 --> 00:37:31.960 I'm just thinking like, I guess I'm not seeing all these things you're saying. 841 00:37:31.960 --> 00:37:34.640 I'm going to see until I click on that button that says like, 842 00:37:35.120 --> 00:37:38.920 do the work the first part of it, or am I supposed to be doing something else? 843 00:37:39.920 --> 00:37:41.800 So when you, when you're in phase one, 844 00:37:41.800 --> 00:37:45.200 which all of you are on your Jackie Dorman.com portal, because once again, 845 00:37:45.200 --> 00:37:48.240 we have not completely migrated over to the app yet. 846 00:37:48.240 --> 00:37:50.720 We are going to have all of that available in the app, 847 00:37:51.120 --> 00:37:53.840 just with a click of a button. It'd be really great and wonderful, 848 00:37:53.840 --> 00:37:55.480 but we have not migrated everyone. 849 00:37:55.680 --> 00:37:58.760 So right now you're still in the Jackie Dorman.com portal. 850 00:37:58.920 --> 00:38:01.200 So you make your login, right? 851 00:38:01.200 --> 00:38:04.240 If you are not getting our emails and we had to come and hunt you down, 852 00:38:04.240 --> 00:38:05.800 then we need you to opt into email. 853 00:38:05.800 --> 00:38:10.000 So make sure that you are reaching out to us at admin at Jackie Dorman.com. 854 00:38:10.000 --> 00:38:13.200 So we can communicate with you because a lot of you didn't get into the 855 00:38:13.200 --> 00:38:15.200 Facebook challenge class. I'm sorry, 856 00:38:15.280 --> 00:38:17.440 the Facebook classroom for phase one, 857 00:38:17.760 --> 00:38:20.720 because you didn't opt into the email. So you never got the link. 858 00:38:21.080 --> 00:38:23.240 And so we want to make sure that you do that. So if you're here, 859 00:38:23.520 --> 00:38:28.280 but you didn't get into the Facebook group for phase one, raise your hand. 860 00:38:31.000 --> 00:38:34.840 Okay. Tammy's got her hand up. Okay. We need you to get in there. 861 00:38:34.840 --> 00:38:39.600 And so it's possible that you're not getting our emails because we sent out all 862 00:38:39.600 --> 00:38:41.600 those links as soon as you purchased your program. 863 00:38:41.880 --> 00:38:45.360 So please email us at admin at Jackie Dorman.com say, Hey, 864 00:38:45.600 --> 00:38:49.720 I don't have access to my Facebook classroom and we'll get you in. Okay. 865 00:38:50.320 --> 00:38:52.280 It's important that you get in there because that's where you're going to 866 00:38:52.280 --> 00:38:57.080 process with your community. All of your materials are on Jackie Dorman.com, 867 00:38:57.080 --> 00:38:59.600 but you're going to process with your community there. 868 00:38:59.720 --> 00:39:02.720 And as soon as we migrate everyone to the app, all of it will be in one place, 869 00:39:02.720 --> 00:39:07.240 the curriculum, the coursework and the community. And I cannot wait for that. 870 00:39:07.280 --> 00:39:10.920 I'm so excited. It's going to be great. So to answer your question, Pam, 871 00:39:11.200 --> 00:39:13.320 you're going to see, because you're in phase one, 872 00:39:13.320 --> 00:39:15.960 y'all aren't going to have access to everyone, everything. 873 00:39:15.960 --> 00:39:17.680 You're only going to see in Jackie Dorman. 874 00:39:17.920 --> 00:39:23.000 You're just going to see phase one, the heartwork is week one, two, three, 875 00:39:23.000 --> 00:39:27.040 four, five, right? As you open those materials, 876 00:39:27.040 --> 00:39:28.760 the next one's going to become available. 877 00:39:29.040 --> 00:39:30.720 The next one's going to become available. 878 00:39:31.000 --> 00:39:35.600 Make sure that you do everything in the first week in a week, 879 00:39:36.040 --> 00:39:38.360 meaning that your first coaching call is next Monday. 880 00:39:38.360 --> 00:39:41.840 All of you should take this entire week to do week one's materials. 881 00:39:42.120 --> 00:39:44.320 It should take you the entire week. Why? 882 00:39:44.320 --> 00:39:48.440 Because there's questions to process. There's worksheets to do. 883 00:39:48.480 --> 00:39:52.000 There's all kinds of different things to do, to dig in deeper and deeper, 884 00:39:52.280 --> 00:39:55.320 and then show up to one of those live coaching calls next Monday, 885 00:39:55.400 --> 00:39:59.280 or watch one in replay before heading into week two. 886 00:39:59.320 --> 00:40:00.080 Makes sense to everyone. 887 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.000 Try to come to prayer if you can. 888 00:40:02.000 --> 00:40:05.000 Definitely come to Supernatural Saturday if you can. 889 00:40:05.000 --> 00:40:07.000 Sunday night activate if you can. 890 00:40:07.000 --> 00:40:15.000 All of those things are going to be important in helping you to supernaturally process the curriculum. 891 00:40:15.000 --> 00:40:16.000 Okay? 892 00:40:16.000 --> 00:40:18.000 So Pam, you shouldn't see anything else except for that. 893 00:40:18.000 --> 00:40:20.000 That's all you should see. 894 00:40:20.000 --> 00:40:21.000 Right? 895 00:40:21.000 --> 00:40:23.000 Are you in the Facebook group? 896 00:40:23.000 --> 00:40:24.000 Not the challenge group. 897 00:40:24.000 --> 00:40:29.000 Are you in the Facebook classroom for phase one? 898 00:40:29.000 --> 00:40:32.000 You guys, I really suggest that you leave the Facebook challenge group. 899 00:40:32.000 --> 00:40:33.000 Just leave it. 900 00:40:33.000 --> 00:40:39.000 But do not leave it until you're safely into the phase one challenge group. 901 00:40:39.000 --> 00:40:41.000 Because if you do, then we won't be able to find you at all. 902 00:40:41.000 --> 00:40:45.000 If we don't have your email and you're also not in the challenge group, we can't search your name. 903 00:40:45.000 --> 00:40:46.000 We can't find you. 904 00:40:46.000 --> 00:40:47.000 We can't communicate with you. 905 00:40:47.000 --> 00:40:48.000 And that's going to be a mess. 906 00:40:48.000 --> 00:40:56.000 So once you're safely in the phase one Facebook group, okay, last year single phase one is what it's called. 907 00:40:56.000 --> 00:41:00.000 When you're in there, then you can remove yourself from last year's single challenge. 908 00:41:00.000 --> 00:41:04.000 And that way you're not posting homework over there, you're not confused about it. 909 00:41:04.000 --> 00:41:09.000 Once again, being on the app is going to solve all of these problems for us. 910 00:41:09.000 --> 00:41:15.000 And there's just a couple little bugs that we're working out with the developer, but that should be very soon. 911 00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:19.000 Thank you. 912 00:41:19.000 --> 00:41:20.000 Thorough explanation, right? 913 00:41:20.000 --> 00:41:21.000 Understand? 914 00:41:21.000 --> 00:41:22.000 Good? 915 00:41:22.000 --> 00:41:23.000 Okay. 916 00:41:23.000 --> 00:41:26.000 Clear as mud. 917 00:41:26.000 --> 00:41:30.000 Are you so confused? 918 00:41:30.000 --> 00:41:31.000 No, I think I understand. 919 00:41:31.000 --> 00:41:33.000 I wasn't sure about the Facebook part. 920 00:41:33.000 --> 00:41:35.000 So I'll figure that out. 921 00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:38.000 If I need help, I'll send a thing to you. 922 00:41:38.000 --> 00:41:41.000 Pam Taylor, I can look in two seconds, Pam, to see if you're there. 923 00:41:41.000 --> 00:41:42.000 Oh, good. 924 00:41:42.000 --> 00:41:43.000 Thank you. 925 00:41:43.000 --> 00:41:45.000 Let me just look and see. 926 00:41:45.000 --> 00:41:47.000 This is what it looks like. 927 00:41:47.000 --> 00:41:49.000 It has like a little green phase one. 928 00:41:49.000 --> 00:41:52.000 This is last year's single phase one. 929 00:41:52.000 --> 00:41:54.000 Let me look in here. 930 00:41:54.000 --> 00:41:57.000 Miss Pam. 931 00:41:57.000 --> 00:41:59.000 You are not in the group. 932 00:41:59.000 --> 00:42:00.000 Okay. 933 00:42:00.000 --> 00:42:01.000 So I need to get it. 934 00:42:01.000 --> 00:42:03.000 I need to get in the group. 935 00:42:03.000 --> 00:42:04.000 Why did I just feel like Maury Povich? 936 00:42:04.000 --> 00:42:06.000 You are not the father. 937 00:42:06.000 --> 00:42:07.000 Is that what my tone was like? 938 00:42:07.000 --> 00:42:10.000 I was like, you are not. 939 00:42:10.000 --> 00:42:11.000 Okay. 940 00:42:11.000 --> 00:42:12.000 Listen. 941 00:42:12.000 --> 00:42:19.000 All right, you guys, if you know what I'm talking about, then you were watching some ratchet television back in the day. 942 00:42:19.000 --> 00:42:20.000 And so was I. 943 00:42:20.000 --> 00:42:21.000 Okay. 944 00:42:21.000 --> 00:42:22.000 All right. 945 00:42:22.000 --> 00:42:24.000 So Pam, yes, you need to get in there. 946 00:42:24.000 --> 00:42:26.000 Have you been getting our emails, Miss Pam? 947 00:42:26.000 --> 00:42:27.000 Where'd you go? 948 00:42:27.000 --> 00:42:28.000 Where'd she go? 949 00:42:28.000 --> 00:42:29.000 I'm still here. 950 00:42:29.000 --> 00:42:30.000 Yeah. 951 00:42:30.000 --> 00:42:31.000 I got the email. 952 00:42:31.000 --> 00:42:34.000 I got the thank you, the receipt and all of that. 953 00:42:34.000 --> 00:42:36.000 And I went in. 954 00:42:36.000 --> 00:42:42.000 There should be another email that came and it was telling you about this orientation and join the group. 955 00:42:42.000 --> 00:42:46.000 If you haven't joined it and had a link to join the Facebook group, did you get that email? 956 00:42:47.000 --> 00:42:54.000 Jackie, I just got my notification on the phase one, like maybe 10 minutes ago. 957 00:42:54.000 --> 00:42:55.000 Okay. 958 00:42:55.000 --> 00:42:56.000 And you joined? 959 00:42:56.000 --> 00:42:57.000 Yeah. 960 00:42:57.000 --> 00:42:58.000 What's your name? 961 00:42:58.000 --> 00:43:00.000 Deborah Seaford. 962 00:43:00.000 --> 00:43:01.000 I mean, I've got it up. 963 00:43:01.000 --> 00:43:02.000 I'm here. 964 00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:05.000 But I mean, I just got the notification maybe 10 minutes ago. 965 00:43:05.000 --> 00:43:07.000 So maybe things are just running a little bit slow. 966 00:43:07.000 --> 00:43:10.000 Well, and also, Deborah, didn't you win the prize? 967 00:43:10.000 --> 00:43:11.000 I did. 968 00:43:11.000 --> 00:43:12.000 Thank you. 969 00:43:13.000 --> 00:43:19.000 That may be also why yours came late because you just were part of a different registration process. 970 00:43:19.000 --> 00:43:25.000 So I don't want to use you as a litmus test just in case that just is why that happened for you. 971 00:43:25.000 --> 00:43:27.000 Did everyone get the email? 972 00:43:27.000 --> 00:43:32.000 Raise your hand if you got an email to join your classroom and you're safely in the classroom. 973 00:43:32.000 --> 00:43:33.000 You know you are. 974 00:43:33.000 --> 00:43:34.000 You're in there. 975 00:43:34.000 --> 00:43:35.000 You've introduced yourself. 976 00:43:35.000 --> 00:43:37.000 Make sure you introduce yourself when you get in there. 977 00:43:37.000 --> 00:43:38.000 Okay. 978 00:43:38.000 --> 00:43:41.000 So all your sisters that are in the program can see who you are. 979 00:43:41.000 --> 00:43:45.000 A lot of people matchmake each other, but eventually that's what happens. 980 00:43:45.000 --> 00:43:46.000 Okay. 981 00:43:46.000 --> 00:43:48.000 Now, everyone put your hands down. 982 00:43:48.000 --> 00:43:53.000 Raise your hands if you are not in the Facebook group. 983 00:43:53.000 --> 00:43:55.000 You don't even know where it is. 984 00:43:55.000 --> 00:43:56.000 You don't even know. 985 00:43:56.000 --> 00:43:57.000 What's Facebook? 986 00:43:57.000 --> 00:43:58.000 Let me see your hands. 987 00:44:00.000 --> 00:44:01.000 Pam's not in there. 988 00:44:01.000 --> 00:44:02.000 Okay. 989 00:44:02.000 --> 00:44:06.000 I only see I think Tammy has her hand up. 990 00:44:06.000 --> 00:44:07.000 Okay. 991 00:44:07.000 --> 00:44:08.000 I only see like four. 992 00:44:08.000 --> 00:44:10.000 Four hands are up right now. 993 00:44:10.000 --> 00:44:11.000 Okay. 994 00:44:11.000 --> 00:44:16.000 Please email us at admin at Jackie doorman.com as soon as this is over tonight, so we can 995 00:44:16.000 --> 00:44:19.000 get you immediately connected with that. 996 00:44:19.000 --> 00:44:20.000 Okay. 997 00:44:20.000 --> 00:44:22.000 We want to get you in there right away. 998 00:44:22.000 --> 00:44:23.000 Everyone. 999 00:44:23.000 --> 00:44:24.000 Okay. 1000 00:44:24.000 --> 00:44:25.000 With her Jackie Dorman portal. 1001 00:44:25.000 --> 00:44:26.000 Everyone have their login. 1002 00:44:26.000 --> 00:44:29.000 Everyone being able to access their materials. 1003 00:44:29.000 --> 00:44:32.000 Anyone not anyone stuck and don't have a login. 1004 00:44:32.000 --> 00:44:34.000 Don't know how to access their materials. 1005 00:44:34.000 --> 00:44:36.000 Becca, are you saying yes to that? 1006 00:44:41.000 --> 00:44:42.000 Okay. 1007 00:44:43.000 --> 00:44:44.000 All right. 1008 00:44:46.000 --> 00:44:48.000 Can I jump in? 1009 00:44:48.000 --> 00:44:49.000 Yeah. 1010 00:44:50.000 --> 00:44:55.000 So, hi, my name is Marissa and I did get on the Facebook, but only because I went and 1011 00:44:55.000 --> 00:44:59.000 found the Facebook and I was like, hey, I'd be to this and I got approved. 1012 00:44:59.000 --> 00:45:00.000 I never got an email. 1013 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.200 email about it, and I never got an email for the link to the zoom. 1014 00:45:03.680 --> 00:45:07.680 Um, somebody else had, what is your, what is your, can you tell me what your 1015 00:45:07.680 --> 00:45:11.960 name is, because you're just coming up as a phone number, sorry, Marissa, 1016 00:45:12.960 --> 00:45:14.200 Marissa, what's your last name? 1017 00:45:15.360 --> 00:45:17.720 Nah, I'm sorry. 1018 00:45:17.720 --> 00:45:19.760 What is it now? 1019 00:45:19.880 --> 00:45:21.200 K N a P P. 1020 00:45:22.080 --> 00:45:22.480 Okay. 1021 00:45:23.360 --> 00:45:23.680 Right. 1022 00:45:23.880 --> 00:45:26.360 It's possible that you did not opt into our emails. 1023 00:45:26.440 --> 00:45:29.120 It's kind of tricky to see on the buy page. 1024 00:45:29.480 --> 00:45:32.160 Um, some people just scroll right past it and they don't pay attention. 1025 00:45:32.160 --> 00:45:35.720 We've made it as bold of letters as we can, and people still scroll past it. 1026 00:45:36.120 --> 00:45:39.880 Um, so we're trying to make it so people can't buy if they don't check the box. 1027 00:45:40.360 --> 00:45:43.080 Um, but for some reason it's not letting us do that. 1028 00:45:43.360 --> 00:45:48.760 So, um, we, we need to make sure that you're opted in, uh, please email us, 1029 00:45:48.760 --> 00:45:51.600 but I will give your name also to the admin team when I get off here. 1030 00:45:51.600 --> 00:45:52.000 Okay. 1031 00:45:53.320 --> 00:45:53.840 Thank you. 1032 00:45:54.600 --> 00:45:54.880 Yep. 1033 00:45:55.440 --> 00:45:56.160 Anybody else? 1034 00:45:56.440 --> 00:45:57.160 Anything else? 1035 00:45:57.280 --> 00:45:59.200 I would like to ask a question. 1036 00:45:59.200 --> 00:46:00.440 Just indulge me a bit. 1037 00:46:00.520 --> 00:46:08.600 Um, so I joined them in the group, in the Jackie Dorman, um, page, and I 1038 00:46:08.600 --> 00:46:11.600 downloaded, uh, um, some PDF documents. 1039 00:46:12.560 --> 00:46:14.680 Is that what you're calling the classroom? 1040 00:46:14.960 --> 00:46:17.120 I'm trying to understand what is the classroom? 1041 00:46:17.320 --> 00:46:18.360 Am I in the classroom? 1042 00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:19.520 Okay. 1043 00:46:19.520 --> 00:46:20.920 The, the community. 1044 00:46:20.920 --> 00:46:25.080 So there's, there's jackiedorman.com portal where all of your materials are. 1045 00:46:25.120 --> 00:46:28.480 So all of your videos and your teaching and your worksheets, and then you're 1046 00:46:28.480 --> 00:46:31.680 going to process that material with your sisterhood, okay, your sister 1047 00:46:31.680 --> 00:46:35.120 squad in the phase one Facebook group. 1048 00:46:35.640 --> 00:46:39.320 Once again, when our app is finished and migrated, when you guys are 1049 00:46:39.320 --> 00:46:42.800 migrated onto it, those two things will be in the same place right 1050 00:46:42.800 --> 00:46:44.280 now they're in separate spaces. 1051 00:46:44.680 --> 00:46:44.960 Okay. 1052 00:46:44.960 --> 00:46:49.160 All your materials on jackiedorman.com and your community, unfortunately, 1053 00:46:49.160 --> 00:46:52.280 is still on a Facebook page, not the challenge page, but a page 1054 00:46:52.280 --> 00:46:55.400 called last year, single phase one. 1055 00:46:56.240 --> 00:46:57.160 Are you in that group? 1056 00:46:58.120 --> 00:46:58.920 Yes, I am. 1057 00:46:59.800 --> 00:47:00.120 Okay. 1058 00:47:00.480 --> 00:47:01.680 So you're in the right place then. 1059 00:47:02.040 --> 00:47:02.280 Yep. 1060 00:47:02.280 --> 00:47:02.640 Thank you. 1061 00:47:03.760 --> 00:47:05.960 And you guys, when we're ready to migrate you guys onto the app where 1062 00:47:05.960 --> 00:47:10.040 everything lives together and prayerfully that will happen way before you ever get 1063 00:47:10.040 --> 00:47:15.200 to phase two, um, we will let you know in the Facebook group, we'll, we'll post 1064 00:47:15.200 --> 00:47:18.600 in there, we'll post the link to it, to download the app, to do all the things. 1065 00:47:18.600 --> 00:47:19.760 We'll walk you through that way. 1066 00:47:19.760 --> 00:47:20.200 Okay. 1067 00:47:20.640 --> 00:47:21.120 So don't worry. 1068 00:47:21.120 --> 00:47:22.320 You're not going to miss out on it. 1069 00:47:22.320 --> 00:47:23.680 Don't be like, did you send an email? 1070 00:47:23.720 --> 00:47:24.360 I didn't get it. 1071 00:47:24.800 --> 00:47:28.000 No, we're going to let you know via your Facebook classroom. 1072 00:47:28.040 --> 00:47:28.560 All right. 1073 00:47:28.840 --> 00:47:30.000 Who else has a question? 1074 00:47:31.880 --> 00:47:33.840 Um, my quick question is I'm Tracy. 1075 00:47:34.480 --> 00:47:37.680 Um, can we, if we can, if we have time on a Monday, can we jump 1076 00:47:37.680 --> 00:47:39.040 on both of those coaching calls? 1077 00:47:39.680 --> 00:47:41.880 You can, you can go to as many things as you want. 1078 00:47:42.160 --> 00:47:46.880 Guys, you can put in as much time as you want. 1079 00:47:47.480 --> 00:47:50.640 And I recommend that you do. 1080 00:47:51.120 --> 00:47:51.760 You do that. 1081 00:47:51.760 --> 00:47:55.160 You set aside this time for you and take it seriously. 1082 00:47:56.360 --> 00:47:57.080 Okay, great. 1083 00:47:57.080 --> 00:47:57.760 Thank you so much. 1084 00:47:59.840 --> 00:48:03.920 I will tell you the people that I've seen have the quickest success are people who 1085 00:48:04.160 --> 00:48:09.000 really just believe that God sent them here and that they're going to, you know, 1086 00:48:09.880 --> 00:48:13.280 just be all in, be all in. 1087 00:48:13.880 --> 00:48:14.320 All right. 1088 00:48:14.720 --> 00:48:17.720 And that's the people that I see have the quickest breakthroughs, 1089 00:48:17.760 --> 00:48:18.880 which I think is great. 1090 00:48:28.080 --> 00:48:30.280 Anybody else questions? 1091 00:48:32.600 --> 00:48:32.800 Okay. 1092 00:48:32.800 --> 00:48:33.080 Go ahead. 1093 00:48:33.680 --> 00:48:34.920 How long are the sessions? 1094 00:48:34.920 --> 00:48:37.520 Are they like an hour long or two hours long? 1095 00:48:38.280 --> 00:48:42.320 Most of the coaching sessions are 60 to 75 minutes long. 1096 00:48:43.280 --> 00:48:43.600 Okay. 1097 00:48:44.320 --> 00:48:46.840 Like the, the, the coaching and phase one and phase two. 1098 00:48:47.160 --> 00:48:51.960 Now the, the get togethers, the gatherings and phase three, those 1099 00:48:51.960 --> 00:48:53.480 can go up to 90 minutes long. 1100 00:48:53.600 --> 00:48:56.120 So those are anywhere from 60 to 90 minutes long. 1101 00:48:57.440 --> 00:48:57.840 Perfect. 1102 00:49:02.520 --> 00:49:03.040 Who else? 1103 00:49:10.440 --> 00:49:11.240 Any other questions? 1104 00:49:12.160 --> 00:49:12.560 Concerned 1105 00:49:13.080 --> 00:49:17.720 in the, in the week one videos, there's a, there's a video on the 1106 00:49:17.720 --> 00:49:20.600 supernatural surrender heart check-in. 1107 00:49:20.800 --> 00:49:24.360 Is that an example of what we will be experiencing each week? 1108 00:49:24.720 --> 00:49:27.120 Like, is that an example of an ideal coaching call? 1109 00:49:28.800 --> 00:49:31.880 Yeah, that is, yeah, that's, that's a, that's a heart check-in. 1110 00:49:31.920 --> 00:49:34.320 And it's, it's kind of an example. 1111 00:49:34.320 --> 00:49:38.520 It's just, it's a static check-in for people who maybe can't come to one. 1112 00:49:38.960 --> 00:49:42.400 Um, so each of those phases has a check-in replay. 1113 00:49:42.760 --> 00:49:44.080 And so that's why it's there. 1114 00:49:45.360 --> 00:49:45.640 Okay. 1115 00:49:48.640 --> 00:49:55.120 And that I, I consider that to be a, um, authentically week one check-in. 1116 00:49:55.120 --> 00:49:58.040 Remember these coaching calls that you guys have on Mondays are going to 1117 00:49:58.040 --> 00:50:00.000 be a grab bag of week one through five. 1118 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.360 And so that would be like a very, you know, week one supernatural surrender 1119 00:50:05.360 --> 00:50:06.800 focused check-in. 1120 00:50:10.080 --> 00:50:12.360 You guys, the surrender part is so important. 1121 00:50:13.360 --> 00:50:14.800 Do not sleep on it. 1122 00:50:15.080 --> 00:50:16.360 It really is very important. 1123 00:50:16.360 --> 00:50:22.080 If you have to read that permission slip over yourself every day, do it every day. 1124 00:50:23.360 --> 00:50:29.560 So many of us do not have what God has for us simply because we only have what 1125 00:50:29.560 --> 00:50:30.760 we get for ourselves. 1126 00:50:31.640 --> 00:50:36.560 We do not know how to live a life that is very spirit led. 1127 00:50:36.920 --> 00:50:42.000 We don't, we are in our own little, I'll get it done myself energy. 1128 00:50:42.320 --> 00:50:45.840 Ever since we're little girls, I do it myself, right? 1129 00:50:46.040 --> 00:50:47.640 I remember my daughter saying that to me. 1130 00:50:47.760 --> 00:50:48.480 It's like, let me help you. 1131 00:50:48.480 --> 00:50:49.600 You know, I do it myself. 1132 00:50:49.640 --> 00:50:50.160 Okay. 1133 00:50:50.880 --> 00:50:54.360 I know our children need to learn how to do things themselves, but that gets into 1134 00:50:54.360 --> 00:50:59.720 us and we never grow out of it where we think if I'm going to have anything, I 1135 00:50:59.720 --> 00:51:02.520 can only have what I can get for myself. 1136 00:51:02.800 --> 00:51:06.360 And I'm going to tell you right now, that's a whole lot of nothing, nothing 1137 00:51:06.360 --> 00:51:09.200 that you can get in your own power is really worth having. 1138 00:51:09.520 --> 00:51:10.120 It's not. 1139 00:51:10.640 --> 00:51:14.560 So we need to get back into that supernatural process of allowing God to 1140 00:51:14.560 --> 00:51:19.600 provide for us without going and sitting in some waiting room and, and, and 1141 00:51:19.600 --> 00:51:20.880 advocating our own authority. 1142 00:51:21.200 --> 00:51:22.280 There's a balance there. 1143 00:51:22.280 --> 00:51:23.120 You see what I'm saying? 1144 00:51:24.040 --> 00:51:27.400 There's a balance of God doing his part and us doing ours. 1145 00:51:27.560 --> 00:51:29.360 And it's not a 50, 50 situation. 1146 00:51:29.360 --> 00:51:31.600 It's not a 50, 50 balance, right? 1147 00:51:31.600 --> 00:51:37.080 It's us submitting to God's will submitting our will to God's will 1148 00:51:37.120 --> 00:51:40.440 supernaturally surrendering, and then God come in the rest of the way. 1149 00:51:40.880 --> 00:51:42.240 So that is what that looks like. 1150 00:51:42.920 --> 00:51:47.120 And I will tell you this, when you are submitted, God will have you do 1151 00:51:47.120 --> 00:51:49.440 things that are very counterintuitive. 1152 00:51:50.440 --> 00:51:54.560 Uh, I'd say about 80% of my success stories. 1153 00:51:54.680 --> 00:51:58.760 This is the same, the thing that people had in common that they said out loud to 1154 00:51:58.760 --> 00:52:04.680 me in 80% of my success stories is I would have never picked this person on my own. 1155 00:52:10.080 --> 00:52:12.320 I don't think that's a coincidence to you. 1156 00:52:15.480 --> 00:52:18.600 Now, some of you immediately process that as, Oh, he ugly. 1157 00:52:19.720 --> 00:52:20.560 That's not true. 1158 00:52:21.040 --> 00:52:22.800 That is not what I'm saying. 1159 00:52:23.440 --> 00:52:23.800 Okay. 1160 00:52:23.800 --> 00:52:29.960 Or he's short or he's old or he's broke or whatever. 1161 00:52:30.000 --> 00:52:31.280 No, that is not what I'm saying. 1162 00:52:31.280 --> 00:52:35.840 What I'm saying is, is that God knows what we need. 1163 00:52:36.360 --> 00:52:37.720 He knows who we need. 1164 00:52:38.840 --> 00:52:42.760 And it's usually not your type, because I think we can all agree that 1165 00:52:42.760 --> 00:52:44.320 your type's not working out for you. 1166 00:52:46.840 --> 00:52:49.360 And so that's why this part is really, really, really important. 1167 00:52:49.480 --> 00:52:54.680 It is some of you guys have been waiting on your spirit mate for a really long time. 1168 00:52:55.040 --> 00:52:58.760 And so I'm excited that your weight is going to be over in this program. 1169 00:52:58.880 --> 00:53:02.440 And once again, you're going to end up married to someone that 10 years ago, 1170 00:53:02.440 --> 00:53:04.320 you would have never thought possible. 1171 00:53:04.320 --> 00:53:06.160 You're like, I did not see this coming. 1172 00:53:06.560 --> 00:53:08.080 And that is a supernatural love story. 1173 00:53:13.680 --> 00:53:16.440 Hey, Jackie, I just wanted to acknowledge and thank you 1174 00:53:16.440 --> 00:53:17.840 for the work that you're doing. 1175 00:53:17.840 --> 00:53:23.120 I can tell you that the challenge videos fired me all the way up that I was like, 1176 00:53:23.160 --> 00:53:24.920 I cannot on this. 1177 00:53:24.920 --> 00:53:27.240 Like, I was like, Holy Spirit tears. 1178 00:53:27.240 --> 00:53:28.600 Like, it's just really good. 1179 00:53:28.600 --> 00:53:33.600 And I just wanted to thank you for making this accessible and for giving 1180 00:53:33.600 --> 00:53:36.320 your yes to God in doing this. 1181 00:53:36.360 --> 00:53:42.960 I feel encouraged for the first time in a long time that my spirit mate is not 1182 00:53:42.960 --> 00:53:46.440 only out there, but that like God has him tailor made for me and I just 1183 00:53:46.440 --> 00:53:47.920 have to submit to the process. 1184 00:53:48.240 --> 00:53:53.160 So I know that it's going to be challenging and like my brain is bucking 1185 00:53:53.160 --> 00:53:57.160 up against it, but I also know that submitting to God and to obey is 1186 00:53:57.160 --> 00:53:58.200 better than sacrifice. 1187 00:53:58.520 --> 00:54:01.200 So, um, thank you for doing this. 1188 00:54:01.200 --> 00:54:03.480 I just wanted to acknowledge everything that you're doing. 1189 00:54:03.480 --> 00:54:04.240 I appreciate it. 1190 00:54:04.880 --> 00:54:05.800 Even in the beginning. 1191 00:54:06.880 --> 00:54:08.160 Yeah, Sarah, thank you. 1192 00:54:08.160 --> 00:54:09.120 I appreciate that. 1193 00:54:09.120 --> 00:54:09.880 I really do. 1194 00:54:10.320 --> 00:54:14.920 Um, and I, it is definitely challenging at times. 1195 00:54:14.960 --> 00:54:20.760 Anything that is on the front lines of revival of marriage and family is going 1196 00:54:20.760 --> 00:54:22.280 to have a lot of warfare attached to it. 1197 00:54:22.800 --> 00:54:26.760 So we've experienced a lot of warfare, you know, in our, in our 1198 00:54:26.760 --> 00:54:28.760 lives in the last four years. 1199 00:54:29.080 --> 00:54:34.800 Um, but God has definitely been with us and, um, and it is, it's my honor. 1200 00:54:34.800 --> 00:54:39.200 It is my pleasure to help this process for people. 1201 00:54:39.200 --> 00:54:40.120 So I love it. 1202 00:54:40.120 --> 00:54:43.240 Every time I get a wedding invitation, every time I get a success story, 1203 00:54:43.400 --> 00:54:44.520 it makes it all worthwhile. 1204 00:54:44.520 --> 00:54:49.160 You guys, I was traveling a couple months ago and I had to go to three 1205 00:54:49.160 --> 00:54:52.400 different airports because I had a layover and in every airport that I 1206 00:54:52.400 --> 00:54:56.200 went to all three airports, someone came up to me and said, you're 1207 00:54:56.200 --> 00:54:57.320 the reason why I'm married. 1208 00:54:58.280 --> 00:54:59.560 They recognize me. 1209 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:02.360 and approached me at an airport. 1210 00:55:02.360 --> 00:55:04.560 And I was like, whoa. 1211 00:55:04.560 --> 00:55:07.160 And so because I'm not famous, 1212 00:55:07.160 --> 00:55:10.040 that means God wanted to supernaturally encourage me. 1213 00:55:10.040 --> 00:55:12.680 He allowed me to be in the same place in the same time 1214 00:55:12.680 --> 00:55:15.280 as people that have had success in this program 1215 00:55:15.280 --> 00:55:18.400 and recognize me and see me there and come up to me. 1216 00:55:18.400 --> 00:55:22.400 So very exciting stuff. 1217 00:55:22.400 --> 00:55:23.240 So thank you, Sarah. 1218 00:55:23.240 --> 00:55:24.060 I appreciate that. 1219 00:55:24.060 --> 00:55:26.080 And Gail and Brittany and all of you 1220 00:55:26.080 --> 00:55:29.000 that amend Sarah's sentiments. 1221 00:55:30.280 --> 00:55:31.120 All right. 1222 00:55:31.120 --> 00:55:32.440 So does anyone have any other questions 1223 00:55:32.440 --> 00:55:34.400 before we go ahead and let you go on? 1224 00:55:34.400 --> 00:55:36.840 Remember, you're gonna start into that first week. 1225 00:55:36.840 --> 00:55:38.200 Take it slow. 1226 00:55:38.200 --> 00:55:40.680 Let it marinate inside of you. 1227 00:55:40.680 --> 00:55:43.560 You should get to your coaching call next Monday 1228 00:55:43.560 --> 00:55:46.720 with some great ahas, with some daydreams, 1229 00:55:46.720 --> 00:55:49.400 with some things where God's speaking to you. 1230 00:55:49.400 --> 00:55:51.600 Something should be happening. 1231 00:55:51.600 --> 00:55:52.840 Signing that permission slip. 1232 00:55:52.840 --> 00:55:55.000 I have so many supernatural testimonies. 1233 00:55:55.000 --> 00:55:56.420 If you can print it out and sign it, great. 1234 00:55:56.420 --> 00:55:59.160 If you can't, just sign it verbally. 1235 00:55:59.160 --> 00:56:01.320 Let God know you're giving him your yes. 1236 00:56:01.320 --> 00:56:05.080 And when you do that, stuff starts happening. 1237 00:56:05.080 --> 00:56:07.760 And we wanna know about that stuff. 1238 00:56:07.760 --> 00:56:10.120 And you can show up to your coaching call and share. 1239 00:56:10.120 --> 00:56:13.560 You guys, Friday is, prayer is called Faith Friday, 1240 00:56:13.560 --> 00:56:15.520 or we call it Brag on Jesus Day. 1241 00:56:15.520 --> 00:56:17.280 And so if you are able to show up live, 1242 00:56:17.280 --> 00:56:20.920 then you can also talk about your ahas on that coaching, 1243 00:56:20.920 --> 00:56:22.560 that prayer call as well. 1244 00:56:25.360 --> 00:56:26.280 Okay. 1245 00:56:26.280 --> 00:56:27.800 All right. 1246 00:56:27.800 --> 00:56:28.680 Thank you guys for joining me. 1247 00:56:29.080 --> 00:56:29.920 I know it's really late for some of you, 1248 00:56:29.920 --> 00:56:31.160 so I'm gonna go ahead and let you guys go. 1249 00:56:31.160 --> 00:56:33.080 If you don't have any other questions, 1250 00:56:34.160 --> 00:56:36.720 go on into your first week and we'll see you soon. 1251 00:56:36.720 --> 00:56:37.560 Bye.