WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.060 you 2 00:00:30.000 --> 00:00:32.060 you 3 00:01:00.000 --> 00:01:02.060 you 4 00:01:31.000 --> 00:01:33.000 you 5 00:01:37.000 --> 00:01:39.000 you 6 00:01:53.000 --> 00:01:55.000 you 7 00:01:55.000 --> 00:01:58.000 you 8 00:01:58.000 --> 00:02:00.000 are 9 00:02:00.000 --> 00:02:14.000 You're 10 00:02:14.000 --> 00:02:16.000 welcome everyone. 11 00:02:16.000 --> 00:02:23.000 If you are seeing us on Facebook, you can watch us there if that's what's working best for you tonight. 12 00:02:24.000 --> 00:02:32.000 For those of you that might be joining us for the first time, my name is Bethany Cooper, and I'm one of the heart work coaches and I'll be leading the session this evening. 13 00:02:32.000 --> 00:02:44.000 And just a couple housekeeping things some of you have been asking what's next for those of you that have been in heart work since October 15 and you're about to finish your final week. 14 00:02:45.000 --> 00:02:50.000 So, I'm going to give you a couple minutes to think about the real you this week. 15 00:02:50.000 --> 00:02:52.000 And then we'll get started. 16 00:02:52.000 --> 00:02:54.000 So, praise the Lord you guys made it. 17 00:02:54.000 --> 00:02:56.000 It's exciting. 18 00:02:56.000 --> 00:02:58.000 If that's you, you will. 19 00:02:58.000 --> 00:03:00.000 I want you guys to kind of just finish out your material. 20 00:03:00.000 --> 00:03:02.000 Take some time to think about the real you this week. 21 00:03:02.000 --> 00:03:05.000 You know, we have Thanksgiving ahead. 22 00:03:05.000 --> 00:03:13.000 Early next week you guys will get an email with kind of the next steps of your love story accelerator. 23 00:03:13.000 --> 00:03:17.000 And we're kind of getting caught up in the dating and stuff because we want them to be able to focus on their heart work. 24 00:03:17.000 --> 00:03:19.000 So, just know that will be coming to your email. 25 00:03:19.000 --> 00:03:25.000 And we're excited to see what God is going to continue to do in your lives in the days ahead. 26 00:03:25.000 --> 00:03:29.000 If you are, you know, maybe you've been in the group a couple weeks. 27 00:03:29.000 --> 00:03:31.000 Maybe you just joined. 28 00:03:31.000 --> 00:03:38.000 The way that we're doing this, we don't want you to feel if you just joined, you don't have to feel like you have to catch up to everybody else. 29 00:03:38.000 --> 00:03:40.000 I know it can be a little confusing. 30 00:03:40.000 --> 00:03:42.000 But we're shifting the way we do some things. 31 00:03:42.000 --> 00:03:46.000 And so, that's why everyone's kind of getting put in together. 32 00:03:46.000 --> 00:03:49.000 And so, just continue at your pace. 33 00:03:49.000 --> 00:03:51.000 And sorry, guys. 34 00:03:51.000 --> 00:03:53.000 One second. 35 00:03:53.000 --> 00:03:58.000 And you will just do and be where God needs you to be in that time. 36 00:03:58.000 --> 00:04:02.000 We do encourage you to not rush through this process. 37 00:04:03.000 --> 00:04:08.000 And really, you want to either whether you're in Love Story Accelerator, same thing applies to heart work. 38 00:04:08.000 --> 00:04:10.000 You want to watch all the videos. 39 00:04:10.000 --> 00:04:13.000 For heart work people, you have the book to read. 40 00:04:13.000 --> 00:04:16.000 And then the questions to answer, worksheets to work on. 41 00:04:16.000 --> 00:04:19.000 Love Story Accelerator, you won't have a book to read. 42 00:04:19.000 --> 00:04:20.000 Just so you know. 43 00:04:20.000 --> 00:04:22.000 You're going to have videos to watch. 44 00:04:22.000 --> 00:04:25.000 And we'll give you some activations and some things to work on. 45 00:04:25.000 --> 00:04:28.000 So, that will be a little different in the days ahead. 46 00:04:28.000 --> 00:04:31.000 No, Lily, you're not in Love Story Accelerator yet. 47 00:04:31.000 --> 00:04:37.000 We're doing the final session of heart work tonight for those that had started back in October. 48 00:04:37.000 --> 00:04:40.000 So, we're doing the Real You live session tonight. 49 00:04:40.000 --> 00:04:42.000 That's what we're talking about. 50 00:04:42.000 --> 00:04:46.000 So, for those of you that are joining us live, again, welcome. 51 00:04:46.000 --> 00:04:50.000 If you're brand new, we want to encourage you to also ask God good questions. 52 00:04:50.000 --> 00:04:58.000 For those that are still in it for several weeks, keep asking God really great questions, even as you shift to Love Story Accelerator. 53 00:04:58.000 --> 00:05:01.000 For those that are shifting, 54 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:01.960 into Love Story Accelerator, 55 00:05:01.960 --> 00:05:04.680 I'm gonna issue your first challenge to you. 56 00:05:04.680 --> 00:05:08.360 This week, I want, there's a couple categories here. 57 00:05:08.360 --> 00:05:09.440 I want you guys to really think 58 00:05:09.440 --> 00:05:11.700 about your Facebook profile pictures. 59 00:05:11.700 --> 00:05:15.000 If you don't even have a picture of yourself up on Facebook, 60 00:05:15.000 --> 00:05:17.200 you need to have a picture of yourself. 61 00:05:17.200 --> 00:05:19.520 Not your dog, not your cat, 62 00:05:19.520 --> 00:05:22.040 not some random picture like you. 63 00:05:22.040 --> 00:05:25.320 You need to show up in the world as you. 64 00:05:25.320 --> 00:05:26.640 And I wanna also encourage you, 65 00:05:26.640 --> 00:05:29.240 if you have a picture from when you were like 30 66 00:05:29.280 --> 00:05:32.360 and you're 50, yeah, we need a recent picture. 67 00:05:32.360 --> 00:05:34.160 You gotta have a recent picture. 68 00:05:34.160 --> 00:05:35.800 You know, guys don't wanna be fooled. 69 00:05:35.800 --> 00:05:38.080 They wanna know who they're looking at. 70 00:05:38.080 --> 00:05:41.440 Show up as yourself and let God do the rest. 71 00:05:41.440 --> 00:05:44.720 Okay, on that note, I'm gonna pray 72 00:05:44.720 --> 00:05:46.920 and we're gonna start our content tonight. 73 00:05:48.000 --> 00:05:50.840 Joanne or Joe Johnson, sorry, 74 00:05:50.840 --> 00:05:54.360 you are gonna click the Zoom link to join the Zoom. 75 00:05:54.360 --> 00:05:56.880 So it's in the Facebook comments. 76 00:05:56.880 --> 00:05:58.980 It's also in the guides. 77 00:05:59.720 --> 00:06:00.560 So make sure you click that. 78 00:06:00.560 --> 00:06:03.020 She's watching us on Facebook and can't find us. 79 00:06:03.020 --> 00:06:06.180 All right, so Father, thank you so much for this night. 80 00:06:06.180 --> 00:06:09.060 God, thank you for everything you're doing. 81 00:06:09.060 --> 00:06:12.620 God, we thank you for bringing us out of hiding, 82 00:06:12.620 --> 00:06:13.580 no matter where we're at. 83 00:06:13.580 --> 00:06:16.420 If we're in heartwork, if we're finishing heartwork, 84 00:06:16.420 --> 00:06:19.900 if we're stepping next weekend to Love Story Accelerated, 85 00:06:19.900 --> 00:06:22.940 God, I thank you that you meet us right where we are. 86 00:06:22.940 --> 00:06:26.680 You know, every area that maybe even some of us, 87 00:06:26.680 --> 00:06:27.680 it was when we were a kid 88 00:06:27.680 --> 00:06:30.140 and we started hiding all the way back then. 89 00:06:31.040 --> 00:06:34.000 God, maybe it was when we went through a horrible marriage 90 00:06:34.000 --> 00:06:36.480 and the person we were with abused us, 91 00:06:36.480 --> 00:06:38.840 whether verbally, physically, you know, 92 00:06:38.840 --> 00:06:42.360 whatever it looks like, God, whatever our story has been, 93 00:06:42.360 --> 00:06:45.600 God, I pray that you would awaken us tonight 94 00:06:45.600 --> 00:06:47.840 to the real us in a fresh way. 95 00:06:47.840 --> 00:06:52.100 Help us to know who you originally created us to be 96 00:06:52.100 --> 00:06:54.840 and to step further into the fullness of your plans 97 00:06:54.840 --> 00:06:56.340 and your promises for us. 98 00:06:57.280 --> 00:07:00.000 God, we ask you to cleanse the way we look at ourselves. 99 00:07:00.000 --> 00:07:03.200 Help us to see ourselves the way that you see us. 100 00:07:03.200 --> 00:07:06.080 Help us to hear what your spirit is saying about us. 101 00:07:06.080 --> 00:07:07.040 And I thank you, God, 102 00:07:07.040 --> 00:07:10.560 that you'll help us to cling to the truth of your word, 103 00:07:10.560 --> 00:07:12.760 the character of who you are. 104 00:07:12.760 --> 00:07:15.280 God, that we would lean into that more and more and more 105 00:07:15.280 --> 00:07:16.120 in the days ahead, 106 00:07:16.120 --> 00:07:19.520 that we would hear your heart whispers for us. 107 00:07:20.760 --> 00:07:23.100 Lord, I thank you that any woman that struggles 108 00:07:23.100 --> 00:07:26.080 with anxiety, fear, panic, worry, or dread disorders, 109 00:07:26.820 --> 00:07:29.180 that's a part of this group of this community. 110 00:07:29.180 --> 00:07:30.820 God, we just ask you to wash over them 111 00:07:30.820 --> 00:07:32.660 with peace tonight, God. 112 00:07:32.660 --> 00:07:35.700 That perfect peace that passes all understanding, 113 00:07:35.700 --> 00:07:37.860 God, that that is what guards our hearts 114 00:07:37.860 --> 00:07:39.220 and our minds through Christ Jesus. 115 00:07:39.220 --> 00:07:42.700 And the reality is, is you are the prince of peace. 116 00:07:42.700 --> 00:07:44.340 You are that perfect peace. 117 00:07:44.340 --> 00:07:46.500 So help us to rest in you. 118 00:07:46.500 --> 00:07:50.060 And we just thank you for sending your Holy Spirit 119 00:07:50.060 --> 00:07:51.260 to be here with us tonight. 120 00:07:51.260 --> 00:07:54.260 Help us to hear everything you need us to hear. 121 00:07:54.280 --> 00:07:56.600 Bring those things that are in darkness to the light 122 00:07:56.600 --> 00:08:01.440 and let there be freedom and liberty in Jesus name, amen. 123 00:08:01.440 --> 00:08:04.680 All right, so tonight, the real you. 124 00:08:04.680 --> 00:08:08.040 Some of the things we want you to remember, 125 00:08:08.040 --> 00:08:10.400 as you guys, even in the heartwork process, 126 00:08:10.400 --> 00:08:12.520 some of you guys have already been experiencing it. 127 00:08:12.520 --> 00:08:14.680 You've been talking about it in your posts. 128 00:08:14.680 --> 00:08:18.640 You're starting to wake up and you're experiencing like, 129 00:08:18.640 --> 00:08:19.960 some of you, you're crying 130 00:08:19.960 --> 00:08:21.520 when you haven't cried for a long time. 131 00:08:21.520 --> 00:08:23.120 Some of you are feeling joy. 132 00:08:23.140 --> 00:08:24.900 Some of you are getting breakthroughs 133 00:08:24.900 --> 00:08:28.580 and you're seeing like, that you have peace in a situation. 134 00:08:28.580 --> 00:08:32.140 I loved, I can't remember, maybe it was Rachel. 135 00:08:32.140 --> 00:08:35.179 I think she posted about how the interaction 136 00:08:35.179 --> 00:08:37.520 with her ex coming over to visit her kids, 137 00:08:37.520 --> 00:08:40.340 the whole feeling for her was different. 138 00:08:40.340 --> 00:08:42.720 Wow, you all, this is huge stuff. 139 00:08:42.720 --> 00:08:44.120 So praise the Lord. 140 00:08:44.120 --> 00:08:45.460 But when new things come, 141 00:08:45.460 --> 00:08:47.420 one of the other things we have to understand 142 00:08:47.420 --> 00:08:51.060 is they don't always feel great, right? 143 00:08:51.060 --> 00:08:52.620 Have you ever bought a new pair of shoes 144 00:08:53.160 --> 00:08:54.000 and they look amazing? 145 00:08:54.000 --> 00:08:56.940 You're like, you can't wait to put those new shoes on 146 00:08:56.940 --> 00:08:59.880 and wear them to the party or the dance or whatever. 147 00:08:59.880 --> 00:09:03.160 And man, an hour or two into the wearing those things, 148 00:09:03.160 --> 00:09:07.200 you've got blisters, your toes are hurting. 149 00:09:07.200 --> 00:09:08.460 Has anyone ever done that? 150 00:09:08.460 --> 00:09:09.920 I did that on my wedding day. 151 00:09:09.920 --> 00:09:11.920 I couldn't even hardly walk. 152 00:09:12.840 --> 00:09:14.020 I was weird taking pictures. 153 00:09:14.020 --> 00:09:15.280 I'm like, I can't stand anymore. 154 00:09:15.280 --> 00:09:16.760 I gotta go, I gotta sit. 155 00:09:16.760 --> 00:09:20.800 Y'all, sometimes it's a transition, okay? 156 00:09:20.820 --> 00:09:23.300 So sometimes we've got to stretch those shoes out. 157 00:09:23.300 --> 00:09:26.900 We got to stretch into who we're being called to be. 158 00:09:26.900 --> 00:09:31.460 So we got to let go of the old and receive the new. 159 00:09:31.460 --> 00:09:34.140 And again, just allow yourself kind of, 160 00:09:35.300 --> 00:09:36.740 the word that's coming up in my spirit 161 00:09:36.740 --> 00:09:39.300 is like a recalibration period, okay? 162 00:09:39.300 --> 00:09:42.500 So even as you step into this love story accelerator 163 00:09:42.500 --> 00:09:43.620 for those that are there, 164 00:09:43.620 --> 00:09:46.380 even those that are in heartwork process, 165 00:09:46.380 --> 00:09:50.460 your whole inner self is being recalibrated. 166 00:09:51.120 --> 00:09:52.000 You're gonna start hearing things 167 00:09:52.000 --> 00:09:53.660 that you haven't heard in a long time. 168 00:09:53.660 --> 00:09:56.280 You're gonna start having memories surface, 169 00:09:56.280 --> 00:09:58.160 all kinds of stuff. 170 00:09:58.160 --> 00:09:59.680 But in the midst of all that, 171 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:08.600 God is teaching you showing you healing you and growing you and he's doing that to lead you as I prayed into your true 172 00:10:08.740 --> 00:10:12.640 Identity a lot of us think we know our identity 173 00:10:12.960 --> 00:10:18.720 But so often I can't tell you guys how many times even myself included. I feel like every day 174 00:10:18.720 --> 00:10:22.280 I'm learning something new about my identity in Christ 175 00:10:22.280 --> 00:10:28.880 And I want to encourage you guys don't ever get to the point that you feel like you've arrived and you've got nothing to learn 176 00:10:29.560 --> 00:10:36.920 Because that's a dangerous place to be. Okay, we want to always have a heart to like Lord show me something new 177 00:10:37.320 --> 00:10:39.400 Help me to see something new about myself 178 00:10:39.400 --> 00:10:45.520 Is there an area where I'm still walking in insecurity and fear versus the kingdom? 179 00:10:45.880 --> 00:10:52.000 principles that you gave you died you sent Jesus to die on the cross for our freedom for our liberty for our 180 00:10:52.160 --> 00:10:58.960 Healing for our redemption and all these amazing things if there's any part of myself that is not living in those places 181 00:10:59.680 --> 00:11:05.520 Help me to shift into that and that comes through the transforming of our minds. It comes through that 182 00:11:06.040 --> 00:11:09.320 Replacing you all that just started heart work. You're gonna learn a lot about 183 00:11:10.120 --> 00:11:16.840 Replacing the lies with truth. Yes, we recognize and we have revelation of the truth, but we can't stop there 184 00:11:16.840 --> 00:11:19.440 We have to ask God for the other half 185 00:11:19.920 --> 00:11:26.600 What's the truth to replace the lies and then we start living into the truth and and you guys will 186 00:11:27.000 --> 00:11:30.780 A lot of the ladies that have been here for weeks. They know what activation is now 187 00:11:30.920 --> 00:11:34.400 But if you're first starting out, you're like, what's an activation? What do you even mean? 188 00:11:34.480 --> 00:11:41.000 We're just saying put it into practice take action on these things put it into your life and and start doing it 189 00:11:41.720 --> 00:11:42.680 as 190 00:11:42.680 --> 00:11:48.240 The book talked about you each one of you every single one of you are super Nova 191 00:11:48.600 --> 00:11:53.600 You're carrying something that can change the world in some way 192 00:11:54.920 --> 00:11:59.000 And so God wants to show you more and more what that looks like 193 00:11:59.840 --> 00:12:05.640 What does it look like for you to understand that you have something that's placed inside of you? 194 00:12:05.640 --> 00:12:07.640 That's special that can change 195 00:12:08.160 --> 00:12:09.960 someone else's life 196 00:12:09.960 --> 00:12:16.400 Whether it's your local people whether it's bigger cities and towns and states or it's global 197 00:12:16.400 --> 00:12:22.800 some of you all are called to global impact and want to encourage you if that resonates in your spirit if that causes like 198 00:12:23.040 --> 00:12:27.260 Butterflies or that leap in your spirit. That's probably you okay? 199 00:12:28.280 --> 00:12:30.280 If God is for you 200 00:12:30.400 --> 00:12:32.400 Who can be against you? 201 00:12:32.400 --> 00:12:38.640 So if God is on your side, and he's the one that created you to be the supernova who can be against you 202 00:12:38.920 --> 00:12:43.200 No one that's what the Bible says. Nothing can stand against you 203 00:12:43.400 --> 00:12:46.440 So I'm gonna read to you Romans 8 37 through 39 204 00:12:46.960 --> 00:12:48.000 No in all these things 205 00:12:48.000 --> 00:12:52.880 We are more than conquerors through him who loved us for I am convinced that neither life nor death 206 00:12:53.200 --> 00:13:01.000 Nor angels nor demons nor the present nor the future nor any powers neither height nor depth nor anything else in all of creation 207 00:13:01.160 --> 00:13:06.560 Will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord 208 00:13:07.760 --> 00:13:12.160 So if we lean into that and even as I was saying like all these heavenly things 209 00:13:12.800 --> 00:13:19.560 The the promises of heaven if we lean into those things one of the biggest things you guys need to walk away from tonight 210 00:13:19.600 --> 00:13:21.240 This is key 211 00:13:21.240 --> 00:13:23.240 We don't strive 212 00:13:23.320 --> 00:13:25.320 We inherit 213 00:13:26.640 --> 00:13:31.120 We don't strive we inherit what does it mean to inherit do you believe you're a princess 214 00:13:32.640 --> 00:13:38.220 Do you believe that God and I might I can't remember if I said this on a session with you guys already or not 215 00:13:38.780 --> 00:13:43.140 But like God is is setting this banquet table 216 00:13:43.140 --> 00:13:50.900 he walks in royalty walks in majesty and power in love and grace and he said a 217 00:13:51.340 --> 00:13:53.540 Seat at the table for us to sit in 218 00:13:54.300 --> 00:13:59.140 But so often we're underneath the table and we're begging for crumbs 219 00:14:01.500 --> 00:14:03.500 So tonight I'm 220 00:14:03.500 --> 00:14:08.860 Inviting you the father is inviting you to come and sit at the table 221 00:14:09.620 --> 00:14:12.300 To come and sit in that chair that you have always 222 00:14:13.060 --> 00:14:15.060 been called to sit in 223 00:14:16.660 --> 00:14:22.200 And some of you even now you're not gonna feel that shift in your spirit quite yet because you're still kind of on your way 224 00:14:22.200 --> 00:14:24.200 There like what does it look like? 225 00:14:24.900 --> 00:14:26.900 To sit with the father 226 00:14:27.220 --> 00:14:31.940 The creator of heaven and earth. What does it look like to sit and have a conversation with him? 227 00:14:32.540 --> 00:14:34.140 Wow 228 00:14:34.140 --> 00:14:39.900 Y'all the real you is gonna start birthing and flourishing and coming forth if you just even spend a little bit of time 229 00:14:39.900 --> 00:14:44.420 thinking about that and thinking about all the things there's a feast there and 230 00:14:45.300 --> 00:14:47.940 He wants you to be able to eat from it 231 00:14:48.780 --> 00:14:50.380 so tonight 232 00:14:50.380 --> 00:14:55.300 Your goal is to allow the princess inside of you to be awakened 233 00:14:56.540 --> 00:14:59.980 God wants to awaken your princess your inner princess and some 234 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:07.360 you might be like, I have never been into girly, girly stuff. I climb trees. That's great. That's 235 00:15:07.360 --> 00:15:14.640 okay. You don't have to shift who you are. I'm just saying the inside of you being a princess 236 00:15:14.640 --> 00:15:22.240 is a mindset. It's an internal mindset about the way we look at life and the way that we walk and 237 00:15:22.240 --> 00:15:26.880 hold ourselves. Have you ever seen somebody walking and they're just like all slumped over 238 00:15:26.880 --> 00:15:31.680 and you can just tell me and they're broken, they're depressed and they're beaten down in 239 00:15:31.680 --> 00:15:36.640 some way. But then you see another person and they're, they got their shoulders back. They're 240 00:15:36.640 --> 00:15:41.360 happy. They're bubbly. They're alive. And it's not fake. It's not a facade they're putting on. 241 00:15:41.360 --> 00:15:46.320 It's just really on the inside. That is who they are. And that's what's coming forth. 242 00:15:47.040 --> 00:15:51.600 They are living in to their princess aspects of who God created them to be. 243 00:15:52.560 --> 00:15:57.840 So tonight, as we say that, what does it mean to be awake and a princess awakened and who awakens 244 00:15:57.840 --> 00:16:04.240 us? Y'all remember snow white and the story? Well, there had to be a prince, right? And yes. Okay. 245 00:16:04.240 --> 00:16:08.480 We're praying and believing for your spirit mate, but we're talking about an even better printer. 246 00:16:08.480 --> 00:16:12.800 And I'm not talking about, okay. Don't hear what I'm not saying. I'm not saying God's going to 247 00:16:12.800 --> 00:16:17.520 come down and physically kiss you. Cause that doesn't even happen. Y'all. Okay. But we're 248 00:16:18.480 --> 00:16:26.000 talking about a kiss from heaven, like the father sending his love and it literally flowing over 249 00:16:26.000 --> 00:16:32.000 you like choice oil and changing everything about your being from the inside out. 250 00:16:33.760 --> 00:16:39.760 That you would emanate that true inner love story that you would be awakened to your, 251 00:16:39.760 --> 00:16:44.080 your true identity as we're talking about that you would be awakened to restoration 252 00:16:44.080 --> 00:16:48.640 and reconciliation and your life within yourself. Some of you guys need some 253 00:16:48.640 --> 00:16:54.720 reconciliation with yourself. Like, what does it mean to like yourself? Not just love yourself 254 00:16:54.720 --> 00:16:59.840 because the church tells you to love yourself and the Bible tells you to, but like you like you 255 00:17:01.120 --> 00:17:05.680 and you actually like your presence and your presence is enough to fill a room. 256 00:17:06.240 --> 00:17:10.800 Not because you're telling yourself you have to feel that way, but you really feel that way. 257 00:17:11.440 --> 00:17:15.280 So many times we don't even slow down to recognize there's a difference between 258 00:17:15.280 --> 00:17:18.800 liking yourself and loving yourself and they're both needed. 259 00:17:21.680 --> 00:17:27.440 So how do you shift into that? The father's going to help you. The third thing to awaken to is that 260 00:17:27.440 --> 00:17:34.080 big, bold, beautiful future. God's going to awaken dreams inside of you guys. And there's two 261 00:17:34.080 --> 00:17:38.880 categories here. Childhood dreams that are going to start coming back to life. 262 00:17:41.200 --> 00:17:46.480 How many of you all had a dream when you're a child? Anyone? Dreams of what you were going to 263 00:17:46.480 --> 00:17:51.520 do, dreams of things you wanted to have fun doing, you know, create things, whatever, dancing, 264 00:17:51.520 --> 00:17:56.240 all these fun things. We, we dreamed when we were kids. Well, why do we stop doing that when we 265 00:17:56.240 --> 00:18:02.640 become adults? Because somewhere along the way, someone told us stop that dream in, or, you know, 266 00:18:02.640 --> 00:18:07.120 stop being like over there when you need to go do that. All these things the world tells us, 267 00:18:08.080 --> 00:18:11.760 but God's saying it's time for those things to awaken. Some of you all, 268 00:18:11.760 --> 00:18:17.920 God's going to help you start walking those dreams out in your today. The next part is 269 00:18:17.920 --> 00:18:22.800 new dreams. Some of you guys are going to start to have some really bold, beautiful dreams that 270 00:18:22.800 --> 00:18:27.680 you have not had before. And I'm not, I'm talking about nighttime dreams, daytime dreams, 271 00:18:27.680 --> 00:18:34.720 but I'm also talking about like ideas and creativity flowing into you. And like, 272 00:18:35.120 --> 00:18:39.360 Oh my gosh, I think I want to go try a dance class, or, Oh my gosh, I think I want to 273 00:18:39.360 --> 00:18:45.440 go do a cooking class, or, Hey, I think I might want to go back to school, whatever it is. 274 00:18:46.400 --> 00:18:51.120 Don't just shove those things off. Ask the Lord about them. Those are coming up for a reason. 275 00:18:52.320 --> 00:18:56.640 Okay. So our first breakout session tonight we're doing, we're doing our first one quick 276 00:18:56.640 --> 00:19:01.280 because I'm going to have a couple for you. Yes. See, I love when God does this. I wasn't 277 00:19:02.240 --> 00:19:08.800 planning on even saying that earlier, Lisandra. She's looking at a dance class. See, God's already 278 00:19:08.800 --> 00:19:13.200 doing it. Love this. All right. Your first breakout session is what dreams are even 279 00:19:13.200 --> 00:19:17.520 bubbling up in you. Even as I'm talking to you about this tonight, what are what's coming to 280 00:19:17.520 --> 00:19:23.120 your mind? Were there dreams that you had as a kid that you would really love to see fulfilled? 281 00:19:23.120 --> 00:19:28.560 You know, maybe some of those dreams because of like physical life and circumstances, maybe they 282 00:19:28.560 --> 00:19:34.080 won't come to pass the way you thought they would, but maybe, you know, sometimes, yeah, 283 00:19:34.080 --> 00:19:40.320 I think we've got to say, okay, yeah, maybe I can't do that. You know, but I also think there 284 00:19:40.320 --> 00:19:45.040 are times where we can say, okay, God, my life looks a little different than I thought it would, 285 00:19:45.760 --> 00:19:51.280 but do you still want me to have this dream? And if so, show me how I can carry it out. 286 00:19:51.920 --> 00:19:56.560 Okay. All right. So you're going to talk about what dreams are bubbling to the surface tonight. 287 00:19:56.560 --> 00:19:59.680 Are they dreams from when you were a kid? What are they? Are they new dreams? 288 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:03.080 that God has given you even right now. 289 00:20:03.080 --> 00:20:05.720 Okay, I'm gonna get you set up here in your breakout. 290 00:20:13.920 --> 00:20:15.160 Almost there, guys. 291 00:20:23.560 --> 00:20:24.760 All right, there you go. 292 00:20:24.760 --> 00:20:26.400 Seven minutes, y'all, in a little bit, 293 00:20:26.400 --> 00:20:28.800 I'll be praying for you on this side of things. 294 00:20:30.000 --> 00:20:30.820 Keep going. 295 00:20:42.580 --> 00:20:43.900 So good. 296 00:20:43.900 --> 00:20:44.900 Hi, Jennifer. 297 00:20:45.840 --> 00:20:50.120 All right, Sarah, and then iPhone. 298 00:20:50.120 --> 00:20:53.240 Okay, iPhone, are you able to click to join? 299 00:20:53.240 --> 00:20:56.420 Are you working tonight and you have to stay here? 300 00:20:58.560 --> 00:20:59.400 It's okay, either way. 301 00:20:59.400 --> 00:21:01.600 Just let me know so I know if you are having trouble 302 00:21:01.600 --> 00:21:03.160 getting into the breakout room. 303 00:21:09.980 --> 00:21:11.560 Oh, and Kimberly Smith. 304 00:21:11.560 --> 00:21:12.800 Yeah, share with us. 305 00:21:12.800 --> 00:21:14.280 You used to want to be a writer. 306 00:21:14.280 --> 00:21:15.100 I love it. 307 00:21:15.100 --> 00:21:16.320 Let me see who else is talking to me 308 00:21:16.320 --> 00:21:17.720 here on Facebook tonight. 309 00:21:19.600 --> 00:21:22.440 Gina, we wish we could see you live here too, 310 00:21:22.440 --> 00:21:23.880 but we understand. 311 00:21:23.880 --> 00:21:28.880 All right, hi, hi. 312 00:21:29.360 --> 00:21:31.280 Did you not have anybody in your room? 313 00:21:32.520 --> 00:21:34.520 Okay, let me put you in a different one. 314 00:21:36.400 --> 00:21:37.640 Okay, go ahead and click to join. 315 00:21:37.640 --> 00:21:39.520 It might've been just somebody was stuck here. 316 00:21:39.520 --> 00:21:41.040 We had one lady that was stuck. 317 00:21:41.040 --> 00:21:42.960 See, Sandra, I just sent you one. 318 00:21:42.960 --> 00:21:45.000 Corinne, let me find you. 319 00:21:45.000 --> 00:21:45.920 Or is it Corinne? 320 00:21:45.920 --> 00:21:47.480 I'm sorry if I said that wrong. 321 00:21:47.940 --> 00:21:52.940 Sorry, I just have a lot of these to scroll through. 322 00:21:57.520 --> 00:21:58.680 We'll get you in there. 323 00:22:06.040 --> 00:22:07.880 Okay, so she's gonna, I see you. 324 00:22:07.880 --> 00:22:10.080 She's gonna need a different group too. 325 00:22:10.080 --> 00:22:11.200 Someone was in your room. 326 00:22:11.200 --> 00:22:12.200 That's weird. 327 00:22:12.200 --> 00:22:14.300 I wonder if it kicked you out or something. 328 00:22:15.300 --> 00:22:17.580 All right, I'm just gonna bump you into that room. 329 00:22:17.580 --> 00:22:19.680 Okay, do you see it there? 330 00:22:19.680 --> 00:22:21.180 Okay, have fun. 331 00:22:21.180 --> 00:22:22.060 All right. 332 00:22:22.980 --> 00:22:25.940 Hi, Jennifer, I heard you kind of unmute. 333 00:22:25.940 --> 00:22:27.120 Good to see you. 334 00:22:30.060 --> 00:22:33.460 Okay, so I wanna respond to Kimberly Smith. 335 00:22:33.460 --> 00:22:36.020 She's asking, not sure where the writing dream went. 336 00:22:36.020 --> 00:22:38.680 It just kind of got brushed to the side. 337 00:22:41.120 --> 00:22:43.080 So just ask the Lord. 338 00:22:43.120 --> 00:22:45.680 Ask the Lord if something happened 339 00:22:45.680 --> 00:22:47.920 to cause you to brush that to the side. 340 00:22:47.920 --> 00:22:51.180 Is it that, you know, is there fear 341 00:22:51.180 --> 00:22:53.560 that's holding you back from doing that? 342 00:22:53.560 --> 00:22:57.280 Was it for a season that it needed to develop more? 343 00:22:57.280 --> 00:22:58.620 Or was there something else? 344 00:22:58.620 --> 00:23:00.000 He will show you. 345 00:23:00.000 --> 00:23:03.280 And Michelle, hi, Michelle, shout out to you. 346 00:23:03.280 --> 00:23:06.320 It's okay, yeah, glad you're here listening in. 347 00:23:06.320 --> 00:23:10.440 God will meet you and give you what you need as well. 348 00:23:10.440 --> 00:23:11.840 All right. 349 00:23:11.840 --> 00:23:14.360 Father, thank you so much for this amazing night. 350 00:23:14.360 --> 00:23:17.320 God, thank you for all the ways that you awaken us 351 00:23:17.320 --> 00:23:20.480 and you're doing an amazing work. 352 00:23:20.480 --> 00:23:24.360 We just thank you so much for loving us so well 353 00:23:24.360 --> 00:23:26.720 that you, through your loving kindness, 354 00:23:26.720 --> 00:23:27.800 draw us into repentance, 355 00:23:27.800 --> 00:23:31.460 but you also draw us into new life and awakening. 356 00:23:31.460 --> 00:23:34.720 And I just wanted to read this declaration from the book. 357 00:23:34.720 --> 00:23:36.000 Even if you guys have read it, 358 00:23:36.000 --> 00:23:37.820 I feel like it's always impactful 359 00:23:37.820 --> 00:23:39.780 for people to hear it read over them. 360 00:23:40.660 --> 00:23:42.420 So I'm reading this over everybody 361 00:23:42.420 --> 00:23:44.060 that's in the breakouts right now, 362 00:23:44.060 --> 00:23:46.160 everybody that's gonna watch the replays. 363 00:23:47.100 --> 00:23:49.580 This is the God's word over you. 364 00:23:49.580 --> 00:23:51.340 I am a world changer. 365 00:23:51.340 --> 00:23:53.900 So you need to say these things over yourself as well. 366 00:23:53.900 --> 00:23:55.740 I am an atmosphere shifter. 367 00:23:55.740 --> 00:23:57.180 I'm a light bearer. 368 00:23:57.180 --> 00:23:58.660 I'm a truth teller. 369 00:23:58.660 --> 00:24:00.980 And I am a hope dealer. 370 00:24:00.980 --> 00:24:02.700 My heart is awakening. 371 00:24:02.700 --> 00:24:06.020 It's my time to be made whole. 372 00:24:06.020 --> 00:24:08.900 I contain the beauty of all creation. 373 00:24:08.940 --> 00:24:13.740 The mysteries of the entire universe reside in me. 374 00:24:13.740 --> 00:24:16.180 Hi, Cassie, I see you too. 375 00:24:16.180 --> 00:24:18.120 Glad you're here with us as well. 376 00:24:18.120 --> 00:24:20.660 I am the image of the almighty God, 377 00:24:20.660 --> 00:24:24.180 the offspring of the great I am. 378 00:24:24.180 --> 00:24:26.460 I am a beloved daughter of God. 379 00:24:26.460 --> 00:24:30.020 My original heart is one of love and joy and peace, 380 00:24:30.020 --> 00:24:31.620 hope and innocence. 381 00:24:31.620 --> 00:24:32.740 Wow, yes. 382 00:24:32.740 --> 00:24:34.140 Thank you, Lord, for innocence. 383 00:24:34.140 --> 00:24:36.680 Coming back to so many of these ladies 384 00:24:36.680 --> 00:24:38.780 where the enemy could try to come in and steal 385 00:24:39.620 --> 00:24:41.140 and kill and destroy that at a young age, 386 00:24:41.140 --> 00:24:45.260 teenagers, adult women, where their innocence was taken. 387 00:24:45.260 --> 00:24:48.340 We just thank you, God, for restitution in those areas. 388 00:24:48.340 --> 00:24:51.700 We thank you for giving that back to them in Jesus name. 389 00:24:51.700 --> 00:24:54.180 I was created for community. 390 00:24:54.180 --> 00:24:56.940 I'm accepted in the family of God. 391 00:24:56.940 --> 00:24:59.020 I've been created to prosper. 392 00:24:59.020 --> 00:25:00.220 I will not be anyone. 393 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:06.320 on besides who love has made me to be from this moment forward every day when I look 394 00:25:06.320 --> 00:25:12.560 in the mirror, I'm going to see more and more of what God sees. Yes, yes, yes. Okay. So 395 00:25:12.560 --> 00:25:18.040 sorry, Jennifer, I saw your, your camera come on there. I missed you. Um, I want to ask 396 00:25:18.040 --> 00:25:22.720 you, do you want to share, um, and I'm kind of putting you on the spot, so it's okay if 397 00:25:22.720 --> 00:25:26.280 you don't have anything coming to mind, but just even share with the ladies, like, what 398 00:25:26.280 --> 00:25:32.080 did it feel like for you having already gone through this process a while back, like to 399 00:25:32.080 --> 00:25:36.840 have dreams awaken in you? Like, I would love for them to hear from you for a little bit. 400 00:25:36.840 --> 00:25:42.720 Totally. Um, yeah. Like just talking about childhood dreams, it just, I feel like I've 401 00:25:42.720 --> 00:25:47.600 like reconnected with my youth again. I feel like I've just really been able to just have 402 00:25:47.600 --> 00:25:51.480 freedom in that area. Like I can think about the things I used to like to do. And like 403 00:25:51.480 --> 00:25:56.480 you mentioned just dancing, I just went dancing. Um, you know, I'm reminded to do things that 404 00:25:56.480 --> 00:26:02.320 I used to enjoy and get back to like who God created me to be and who I was. And yeah, 405 00:26:02.320 --> 00:26:06.720 that's just been awesome. Just, I mean, the hard work is amazing. It's really, it's okay. 406 00:26:06.720 --> 00:26:15.480 Yeah. It's okay. If we see her. Hi there. Yes. We love our kids in our, in our community. 407 00:26:15.480 --> 00:26:21.640 Hi, Hope. So where we just, I feel like that's even a symbol for so many ladies that are 408 00:26:21.640 --> 00:26:26.040 watching live and watching the replay, just the fact that Hope popped in with just that 409 00:26:26.040 --> 00:26:32.080 childlike in a sense, and just curiosity. And, and God is saying to you tonight, like 410 00:26:32.080 --> 00:26:37.440 be curious, be curious about his dreams for you. I feel the Holy spirit on that. Be curious 411 00:26:37.440 --> 00:26:42.480 and ask him like, God, what is it that I need to do to shift, to receive your truth, to 412 00:26:42.480 --> 00:26:49.440 receive your love, to step into the plans and promises you have for me. Hi JH. Uh, they're 413 00:26:49.440 --> 00:26:53.240 about to come back. So I'm just going to leave you here with us for a minute. And just that 414 00:26:53.240 --> 00:27:03.480 you would lean into, um, that amazing, um, call to sweetness of a childlike faith. Y'all, 415 00:27:03.480 --> 00:27:07.360 um, Sunday night they, they did an activation. I just want to kind of put this out there 416 00:27:07.360 --> 00:27:12.520 for you. They, they encouraged everyone to pray with childlike faith. Like what does 417 00:27:12.520 --> 00:27:20.000 it look like to pray like a child? Their, their prayers are so pure. And, and, and when 418 00:27:20.000 --> 00:27:23.840 I say simple, I don't mean that they're not powerful, but like, they just pray what's 419 00:27:23.840 --> 00:27:28.520 in their mind and the way they perceive the world. Right. And so I want to encourage you 420 00:27:28.520 --> 00:27:36.360 all, even in that, that you would, um, allow the Lord to help you begin to pray in a new 421 00:27:36.360 --> 00:27:43.880 way that as he increases faith, as he renews your mind, as he kind of restores the awe 422 00:27:43.880 --> 00:27:49.640 and wonder of the world. You know, so often when we go through trauma and hardships and, 423 00:27:49.640 --> 00:27:54.640 you know, we start to look at the world through this dark lens, like everything, you know, 424 00:27:54.640 --> 00:28:00.360 doesn't taste the same. Things don't look the same, but when God starts awakening you, 425 00:28:00.360 --> 00:28:04.400 I'm serious, y'all you're, you're going to start tasting food in a new way. You're going 426 00:28:04.400 --> 00:28:09.360 to start seeing life in a new way. You're going to start seeing that people enjoy being 427 00:28:09.360 --> 00:28:13.720 around you more because you're coming alive more. You're going to, you'll start to have 428 00:28:13.720 --> 00:28:19.960 people commenting, no joke on your countenance. Like, so something's going on with you. Like 429 00:28:19.960 --> 00:28:24.600 I'm noticing something different. Like what is what's going on? You know? And people are 430 00:28:24.720 --> 00:28:29.080 curious, like, what is God doing in your life? So I can tell something's different. If that 431 00:28:29.080 --> 00:28:33.160 hasn't already happened for you, I think a lot of you will begin to experience that more 432 00:28:33.160 --> 00:28:38.600 and more in the days ahead. Hello. Welcome back. I think we almost have everybody. I 433 00:28:38.600 --> 00:28:46.200 used the Lord. We were just talking about awakening, um, and seeing, um, God's glory 434 00:28:46.200 --> 00:28:51.920 on people. Um, Oh, Cassandra. That's okay. I'm sorry about that. Yeah. Sometimes internet 435 00:28:51.960 --> 00:28:56.720 can be spotty and it does that. All right. So who is willing to share with the whole 436 00:28:56.720 --> 00:29:00.960 group what you shared in your private now? Okay. Let me, let me preface this. I can take 437 00:29:00.960 --> 00:29:05.400 about five people at the most, depending on how long the shares are, because I have two 438 00:29:05.400 --> 00:29:11.600 more breakout sessions for us tonight. Okay. All right. Who wants to share or who's willing? 439 00:29:14.400 --> 00:29:15.920 Okay, awesome. Go ahead, Katie. 440 00:29:16.880 --> 00:29:24.400 All right. So, um, what I was talking about my group, so I am a single mom. So the whole 441 00:29:24.400 --> 00:29:32.480 like custody, uh, shared custody thing. Um, my big dream is to live abroad and do like 442 00:29:32.480 --> 00:29:38.240 international missions. And I don't know how that works with having to, you know, share 443 00:29:38.240 --> 00:29:44.480 a daughter, but, um, like that's so deep in my heart. Um, yeah, it's kind of one of those 444 00:29:44.560 --> 00:29:48.560 Yeah. It's kind of one of those things where, all right, God, whatever, whatever you have, 445 00:29:48.560 --> 00:29:54.560 I just submit that to you. And in the time being, I'm just going to do short mission strips, 446 00:29:55.520 --> 00:29:59.920 um, and see where it goes. That's so powerful. Yeah. 447 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:01.920 Yes, Lord, we just thank you for that dream. 448 00:30:01.920 --> 00:30:05.880 And Katie, we ask you to give her the wisdom and the discernment and the joy 449 00:30:05.880 --> 00:30:10.200 in that to know where you're leading and what that looks like in this season, as 450 00:30:10.200 --> 00:30:13.840 well as many seasons to come in Jesus name. 451 00:30:13.840 --> 00:30:15.000 Thank you for sharing that with us. 452 00:30:15.000 --> 00:30:15.400 Okay. 453 00:30:15.440 --> 00:30:16.760 Emily, go ahead. 454 00:30:20.320 --> 00:30:22.240 Sorry, I had to unmute. 455 00:30:23.240 --> 00:30:31.720 Um, so for me, I had, I shared, um, with Michelle that I had a dream probably 456 00:30:32.000 --> 00:30:35.680 when I was old enough to really start thinking about like owning my own 457 00:30:35.680 --> 00:30:36.920 business and that sort of thing. 458 00:30:37.320 --> 00:30:43.640 Um, but for most of my, I would say young adult and adult life to own a creative 459 00:30:43.640 --> 00:30:48.440 space, a place where, um, Christians or non-Christians could come and express 460 00:30:48.440 --> 00:30:50.920 themselves, um, creatively in the arts. 461 00:30:51.160 --> 00:30:55.000 Um, I'm a super creative, anything, photography, dance, music, 462 00:30:55.320 --> 00:30:56.960 um, drawing, anything. 463 00:30:56.960 --> 00:30:57.640 I love it all. 464 00:30:58.000 --> 00:31:02.640 So, um, that's definitely something that that's been on the back burner 465 00:31:02.640 --> 00:31:06.240 for quite a few years now, but it's definitely something that's still there. 466 00:31:06.240 --> 00:31:09.000 I mean, I've drawn the plans for it and everything. 467 00:31:09.000 --> 00:31:13.120 So, um, I don't know if that's still what God's calling me to, um, but it's 468 00:31:13.120 --> 00:31:14.320 definitely a dream that's there. 469 00:31:14.320 --> 00:31:18.120 But recently, um, I'm also feeling called to go back to school in January. 470 00:31:18.120 --> 00:31:24.040 So I'm praying about that, whether that's something, um, that God's wanting me to 471 00:31:24.040 --> 00:31:27.280 do, um, for a licensed massage therapist. 472 00:31:27.280 --> 00:31:34.320 So, um, yeah, just really seeking God, um, because I just don't know, but I 473 00:31:34.320 --> 00:31:36.640 know that, that he does, so that's all that matters. 474 00:31:37.280 --> 00:31:37.960 That's so good. 475 00:31:37.960 --> 00:31:40.280 The Lord told me to tell you, why not you? 476 00:31:40.480 --> 00:31:41.520 Why not now? 477 00:31:42.520 --> 00:31:44.800 So I want you to, I want you to like receive that. 478 00:31:44.800 --> 00:31:45.720 Why not you? 479 00:31:45.720 --> 00:31:46.600 Why not now? 480 00:31:47.280 --> 00:31:50.480 You know, and sometimes I know like that can sound so easy. 481 00:31:50.480 --> 00:31:54.800 It's a big, big dream, but like one of the things I always encourage you guys, 482 00:31:54.800 --> 00:31:57.760 even in heartwork is like, just do the next best thing. 483 00:31:58.120 --> 00:32:03.360 And you know why I say that, man, I used to be terrified because God told me early 484 00:32:03.360 --> 00:32:07.400 on when I got saved, that I was going to be used in this really big way to impact 485 00:32:07.400 --> 00:32:09.840 the kingdom and I'm like, okay, awesome. 486 00:32:09.840 --> 00:32:11.040 But what do I do with that? 487 00:32:11.400 --> 00:32:11.840 Right. 488 00:32:12.200 --> 00:32:16.000 And so God just taught me over the years that I didn't have to have it all 489 00:32:16.000 --> 00:32:16.720 figured out. 490 00:32:16.800 --> 00:32:18.680 I just needed to do the next best thing. 491 00:32:19.400 --> 00:32:23.720 So all of you just, just do the next best thing that God shows you do the next 492 00:32:23.720 --> 00:32:27.240 best thing with heart healing, do the next best thing to invest in yourself, 493 00:32:27.440 --> 00:32:28.960 to grow yourself, all those things. 494 00:32:28.960 --> 00:32:29.760 Bless you, Emily. 495 00:32:29.760 --> 00:32:30.920 Thank you for sharing. 496 00:32:30.920 --> 00:32:31.720 So good. 497 00:32:32.440 --> 00:32:33.800 All right, Katie driver. 498 00:32:33.800 --> 00:32:34.360 How about you? 499 00:32:38.080 --> 00:32:42.640 Um, yeah, so I just talked about, I, when I was growing up, I always said that I 500 00:32:42.640 --> 00:32:44.320 wanted to be a teacher and be a mom. 501 00:32:44.640 --> 00:32:47.440 And like, when people asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, that was 502 00:32:47.440 --> 00:32:48.160 always my answer. 503 00:32:48.160 --> 00:32:49.440 Like, I want to be a teacher and a mom. 504 00:32:49.960 --> 00:32:55.920 Um, and I am 33, but I have been a teacher for about four years with a 505 00:32:56.000 --> 00:32:56.680 teaching license. 506 00:32:56.680 --> 00:32:59.960 I did a non-traditional program to obtain my license. 507 00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:04.880 Um, so I was just talking in my group about how, like, I've seen the Lord bring 508 00:33:04.880 --> 00:33:08.120 that dream to pass and it's not the way that I thought that it was going to be, 509 00:33:08.120 --> 00:33:10.080 but it's still like really, really good. 510 00:33:10.600 --> 00:33:14.080 Um, and so like, that can be true of my desire to be a mom too. 511 00:33:14.080 --> 00:33:18.000 And I, and as a little girl, I, I didn't understand that you couldn't be a mom 512 00:33:18.000 --> 00:33:18.840 without being a wife. 513 00:33:18.840 --> 00:33:24.120 So like my four year old brain, that was just like a no, a no brainer, literally 514 00:33:24.120 --> 00:33:27.080 just as a child, like I wanted to be a wife and a mom. 515 00:33:27.160 --> 00:33:32.840 Um, so yeah, just kind of coming to recognize that like the Lord has brought 516 00:33:32.880 --> 00:33:38.160 some dreams to pass and, and not in the way that I like really was anticipating 517 00:33:38.160 --> 00:33:43.840 or hoping, um, and you know, it wasn't my dream to still be single and to not 518 00:33:43.840 --> 00:33:48.760 have kids when I'm 33, but that the Lord can still bring like those dreams into 519 00:33:48.760 --> 00:33:52.640 fruition in a really beautiful way, even though it's not like the way that I 520 00:33:52.640 --> 00:33:53.720 had planned it or hoped for. 521 00:33:54.200 --> 00:33:54.560 Yeah. 522 00:33:54.560 --> 00:33:59.160 And I'm just going to say this, I'm sorry to be so kind of like slangy, but girl, 523 00:33:59.160 --> 00:34:01.080 you got a lot of time left. 524 00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:05.560 I know that doesn't feel good to hear that, but you're 33, honey, you got 525 00:34:05.560 --> 00:34:06.880 time to make some babies. 526 00:34:06.920 --> 00:34:07.480 Okay. 527 00:34:08.000 --> 00:34:09.520 I want to encourage you in that y'all. 528 00:34:09.560 --> 00:34:13.560 I didn't, I thought I would have kids when I was married the first time too 529 00:34:13.560 --> 00:34:18.600 quick and, you know, honestly, praise God that I didn't in that marriage. 530 00:34:18.600 --> 00:34:21.360 Cause it was a really bad situation. 531 00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:25.520 Um, and it's weird to even say that out loud, but I've got, I've got 532 00:34:25.520 --> 00:34:27.199 stepkids, spiritual daughters. 533 00:34:27.199 --> 00:34:29.000 Now I've got two other stepdaughters. 534 00:34:29.000 --> 00:34:32.040 Like who knew, who knew I'd have five kids right now? 535 00:34:32.520 --> 00:34:32.760 Okay. 536 00:34:32.760 --> 00:34:36.920 Do I like, we don't always get to see some of the, his daughters, but his one 537 00:34:36.920 --> 00:34:39.920 daughter's here for this, for the next few days from California. 538 00:34:40.400 --> 00:34:44.360 I mean, it's a blessing, you know, but we're about to try to start 539 00:34:44.360 --> 00:34:46.080 having our own family between us. 540 00:34:46.080 --> 00:34:49.239 And, you know, God's doing a lot and I'm 45. 541 00:34:49.520 --> 00:34:52.120 I totally thought it was going to look different than this. 542 00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:52.880 Okay. 543 00:34:53.120 --> 00:34:56.920 So, you know, everybody feels different about pursuing that. 544 00:34:56.920 --> 00:34:59.960 And I'm not saying it always has to be, I've already told the Lord if. 545 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.240 We don't end up getting pregnant. 546 00:35:01.240 --> 00:35:03.920 We're, you know, we already know we're adopting, we've already made that 547 00:35:03.920 --> 00:35:05.700 decision, but we're going to give it our best shot. 548 00:35:05.700 --> 00:35:07.040 So I want to just encourage you guys. 549 00:35:07.040 --> 00:35:09.920 Don't, don't just write it off that you're too old. 550 00:35:09.920 --> 00:35:12.160 Cause that's just the enemy telling you that. 551 00:35:12.200 --> 00:35:12.620 All right. 552 00:35:12.640 --> 00:35:15.520 Now they're obviously for not having periods, that's totally different. 553 00:35:15.880 --> 00:35:16.560 All right. 554 00:35:16.740 --> 00:35:17.200 Awesome. 555 00:35:17.200 --> 00:35:18.580 Katie, thanks for sharing. 556 00:35:18.580 --> 00:35:21.920 I can't wait to see what God does in your life in the days ahead. 557 00:35:21.920 --> 00:35:24.460 It's exciting to see Maria. 558 00:35:24.460 --> 00:35:25.200 How about you? 559 00:35:27.940 --> 00:35:28.600 Hi. 560 00:35:28.700 --> 00:35:33.300 Um, so this is so interesting that you, you brought this up today because 561 00:35:33.940 --> 00:35:40.420 I've been super focused on this so much so that I'm not like really doing this 562 00:35:40.420 --> 00:35:47.140 stuff for, for heart work, because I think about 10 days before I signed up for 563 00:35:47.140 --> 00:35:52.960 this, um, I realized, uh, that I could still become a flight attendant. 564 00:35:52.960 --> 00:35:54.460 I'm, I'm 55 years old. 565 00:35:54.820 --> 00:35:57.840 I had always thought I was too old to do it. 566 00:35:58.460 --> 00:36:02.620 And then I found out that people my age and older are getting hired. 567 00:36:03.300 --> 00:36:10.220 And so I started the process to apply for Delta and it's a four step process. 568 00:36:10.260 --> 00:36:12.340 And last week I completed my. 569 00:36:13.060 --> 00:36:17.040 Uh, on demand video interview, and I'm waiting to hear back. 570 00:36:17.060 --> 00:36:22.060 And if I pass that, I'm going to be going to Atlanta for a face to face interview. 571 00:36:22.980 --> 00:36:26.460 So, um, so I'm super excited. 572 00:36:26.460 --> 00:36:33.540 Um, um, people have been praying over me for this and, um, you know, and, and 573 00:36:33.540 --> 00:36:37.900 it's funny that it's like, I'm like, so focused on this, I'm not even 574 00:36:37.900 --> 00:36:40.460 worried about meeting somebody. 575 00:36:40.860 --> 00:36:45.500 So, and I, I don't know if that's like a bad thing or a good thing, but 576 00:36:45.500 --> 00:36:47.740 I've been very, very focused on this. 577 00:36:48.460 --> 00:36:53.100 Sometimes they are puzzle pieces that lead us to our spirit mate y'all. 578 00:36:53.420 --> 00:36:55.020 So don't put yourself on the shelf. 579 00:36:55.500 --> 00:36:58.340 Just keep walking it out and see what God does in the mix. 580 00:36:58.340 --> 00:37:03.180 But some of us, you know, we have, we need, I shouldn't say we have to, but 581 00:37:03.180 --> 00:37:07.100 we, we really need to step into these things that bring this inner confidence 582 00:37:07.440 --> 00:37:12.260 because I'm serious, we will walk around in life will show up so differently. 583 00:37:12.620 --> 00:37:19.540 Um, so I'm just seeing, yeah, I'm trying to read that too. 584 00:37:19.540 --> 00:37:22.860 Sorry, but, um, yeah, just really lean into what God is doing. 585 00:37:22.860 --> 00:37:27.740 It sounds like he's opening a door wide open for you at this point so far. 586 00:37:27.740 --> 00:37:30.700 So yeah, just keep walking that out and see, and it's okay to have 587 00:37:30.700 --> 00:37:32.660 just this balanced perspective. 588 00:37:33.020 --> 00:37:37.980 Ladies like we've taught you guys from the beginning, you come in, the Lord 589 00:37:37.980 --> 00:37:40.180 uses the spirit mate to draw y'all in here. 590 00:37:40.180 --> 00:37:43.460 You don't even know what's about to happen, but he's drawing you through 591 00:37:43.460 --> 00:37:46.180 that because he wants you to be set free. 592 00:37:46.180 --> 00:37:47.540 He wants you to be alive. 593 00:37:47.540 --> 00:37:50.620 He wants you to experience life better than you've ever experienced 594 00:37:50.620 --> 00:37:52.620 it and get the spirit mate. 595 00:37:53.140 --> 00:37:54.340 That's the cherry on top. 596 00:37:54.340 --> 00:37:55.020 Seriously. 597 00:37:55.260 --> 00:37:59.820 I mean, even friendships I've built, I'm just so grateful for what God 598 00:37:59.820 --> 00:38:02.340 has done through, through being a part of this community. 599 00:38:02.340 --> 00:38:05.700 Like I literally couldn't have dreamt it myself years ago. 600 00:38:05.860 --> 00:38:06.380 I couldn't have. 601 00:38:06.860 --> 00:38:07.140 Yeah. 602 00:38:07.140 --> 00:38:09.140 So, so good. 603 00:38:09.180 --> 00:38:09.700 So good. 604 00:38:09.700 --> 00:38:10.700 Keep dreaming on that. 605 00:38:10.700 --> 00:38:10.940 Okay. 606 00:38:10.940 --> 00:38:13.900 So Jenny, um, and then Alicia, and then we're going to start 607 00:38:13.900 --> 00:38:15.940 shifting into the next part. 608 00:38:17.780 --> 00:38:18.180 Hi. 609 00:38:18.180 --> 00:38:18.460 Yeah. 610 00:38:18.460 --> 00:38:24.180 So, um, I shared about just wanting to write, write a book when I was 611 00:38:24.180 --> 00:38:27.500 little, um, I would write a lot and I said I wanted to be a writer. 612 00:38:27.940 --> 00:38:33.780 Um, and you know, things just fall to the wayside as an adult. 613 00:38:33.780 --> 00:38:38.380 So, um, it's just something that's been like bubbling up a little bit, but I am 614 00:38:38.380 --> 00:38:41.340 kind of like, I don't know how to start and I don't know what that looks like. 615 00:38:41.340 --> 00:38:43.020 And I'm just praying about it. 616 00:38:43.020 --> 00:38:43.300 So. 617 00:38:43.940 --> 00:38:44.620 That's so good. 618 00:38:45.060 --> 00:38:49.260 So I want you to really ask yourself too, what is your book going to be about? 619 00:38:49.260 --> 00:38:50.900 What audience do you want to reach? 620 00:38:50.900 --> 00:38:55.500 Really, really allow God to bring that thing to life in you. 621 00:38:55.500 --> 00:38:59.860 Like when do you want to do it by, you know, and it's okay if you don't end 622 00:38:59.860 --> 00:39:03.740 up getting it done by then, seriously, but like putting some kind of like 623 00:39:03.740 --> 00:39:07.580 thing that motivates you to move towards it, that's, that's so, so important. 624 00:39:07.660 --> 00:39:08.060 Okay. 625 00:39:08.340 --> 00:39:09.180 Alicia, go ahead. 626 00:39:09.580 --> 00:39:10.260 Thanks for sharing. 627 00:39:10.260 --> 00:39:10.580 Jenny. 628 00:39:11.060 --> 00:39:14.220 Jenny, that's amazing because that's my exact same share as well. 629 00:39:14.220 --> 00:39:16.380 And I was like debating whether I should put my hand up or not. 630 00:39:16.380 --> 00:39:17.300 So that's really cool. 631 00:39:17.500 --> 00:39:20.260 Um, it's on my Jesus cares board as well. 632 00:39:20.700 --> 00:39:21.900 I am a writer. 633 00:39:21.900 --> 00:39:23.980 I write as part of my career. 634 00:39:23.980 --> 00:39:25.900 I work in like PR and communications. 635 00:39:26.380 --> 00:39:30.260 Um, but I've been, I've believed like a lot of lies about how, you know, 636 00:39:30.340 --> 00:39:35.020 published authors and writers don't make enough money to have a good living. 637 00:39:35.060 --> 00:39:39.260 And I really shelved that dream of going after it like 638 00:39:39.340 --> 00:39:40.860 wholeheartedly because of that. 639 00:39:40.860 --> 00:39:47.900 So, um, I, I don't know that I have like fully restored hope yet, but I feel a 640 00:39:47.900 --> 00:39:49.380 little bit of it coming back in. 641 00:39:49.380 --> 00:39:53.940 And like I said, I put it on my board, so I'm really, I'm hopeful for it. 642 00:39:55.220 --> 00:39:55.700 Yes. 643 00:39:55.700 --> 00:39:56.260 So good. 644 00:39:56.500 --> 00:39:58.420 And yes, of course you should share that. 645 00:39:58.420 --> 00:39:59.860 That's an amazing, beautiful. 646 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.000 And God put it inside of you clearly. 647 00:40:02.000 --> 00:40:06.000 So keep leaning into that ladies, whatever your thing is. 648 00:40:06.000 --> 00:40:11.000 Some of you, again, I said last week, if you feel yourself kind of like, 649 00:40:11.000 --> 00:40:13.000 I don't know if I should share this. 650 00:40:13.000 --> 00:40:17.000 I don't know if anybody would even care, like what I have to say. 651 00:40:17.000 --> 00:40:20.000 Definitely do not listen to that. 652 00:40:20.000 --> 00:40:23.000 Come in the group and share, you know, 653 00:40:23.000 --> 00:40:26.000 because it's really going to be a part of you guys getting set free in ways 654 00:40:26.000 --> 00:40:29.000 that you don't even comprehend or understand right now. 655 00:40:29.000 --> 00:40:31.000 Sincerely. All right. 656 00:40:31.000 --> 00:40:35.000 We're going to start to shift into the next part of tonight. So praise God. 657 00:40:35.000 --> 00:40:37.000 Everything you guys shared was awesome. 658 00:40:37.000 --> 00:40:40.000 I hope to hear more of your dreams and from, 659 00:40:40.000 --> 00:40:44.000 from all of you as you feel led to share them. 660 00:40:44.000 --> 00:40:47.000 So we want to start talking about like, okay, 661 00:40:47.000 --> 00:40:49.000 so we talked about supernatural surrender. 662 00:40:49.000 --> 00:40:51.000 Wait for those that have been in for the full time. 663 00:40:51.000 --> 00:40:54.000 And for those of you just starting, you'll be in that, 664 00:40:54.000 --> 00:40:57.000 that part of supernatural surrender. 665 00:40:57.000 --> 00:41:01.000 But now we want to also encourage you to surrender, surrender, excuse me, 666 00:41:01.000 --> 00:41:05.000 your inner identity. So what does that look like? 667 00:41:06.000 --> 00:41:09.000 That looks like leaning into God as your identity giver. 668 00:41:11.000 --> 00:41:15.000 So what is it that he speaks over you? And, 669 00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:18.000 and the other thing here that we have to look at is if we don't know the 670 00:41:18.000 --> 00:41:20.000 character of God, 671 00:41:20.000 --> 00:41:25.000 we're going to interpret what he's saying incorrectly because we're going to 672 00:41:25.000 --> 00:41:30.000 hear it through a lens and a filter of what we have known in this world or 673 00:41:30.000 --> 00:41:34.000 the way that we have perceived this world because of lies we've believed. 674 00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:38.000 So for example, you know, 675 00:41:38.000 --> 00:41:41.000 if you don't believe that God is good, 676 00:41:42.000 --> 00:41:47.000 then you're going to struggle to walk in an inner identity of peace and 677 00:41:47.000 --> 00:41:52.000 confidence because underlying you're always waiting for the other shoe to drop 678 00:41:52.000 --> 00:41:56.000 or, you know, is God really good? You know, all the, 679 00:41:56.000 --> 00:41:57.000 the opposite of those things. 680 00:41:57.000 --> 00:42:02.000 So just understand that first leaning into God is your identity giver. 681 00:42:04.000 --> 00:42:08.000 So go to him as the source for the, you know, a lot of you guys, um, 682 00:42:09.000 --> 00:42:10.000 I've kind of said, Hey, 683 00:42:10.000 --> 00:42:14.000 ask the Lord to tell you what he has to say about this situation or ask the 684 00:42:14.000 --> 00:42:18.000 Lord what he wants to tell you about yourself. And if write those down, 685 00:42:18.000 --> 00:42:21.000 if you hear something negative, write it down, but cross it out. 686 00:42:21.000 --> 00:42:25.000 And then ask the Lord to give you the truth instead. And that process alone, 687 00:42:25.000 --> 00:42:28.000 if you guys will put that in practice, when you hear something negative, 688 00:42:28.000 --> 00:42:31.000 write it down, cross it out. God, what's the truth? 689 00:42:32.000 --> 00:42:35.000 Like it will make it so tangible for you to say, no, 690 00:42:35.000 --> 00:42:40.000 I do not receive that lie father. What's the truth about me. 691 00:42:41.000 --> 00:42:44.000 Okay. And then we can't erase. We have to replace, 692 00:42:44.000 --> 00:42:46.000 which we talked about a little bit earlier. 693 00:42:47.000 --> 00:42:49.000 The next thing we want to talk about is unbelief. 694 00:42:50.000 --> 00:42:52.000 Y'all everybody has unbelief. Even, 695 00:42:52.000 --> 00:42:55.000 even the ones that are the most faith filled, even myself, 696 00:42:56.000 --> 00:42:58.000 I still at times have unbelief. 697 00:42:59.000 --> 00:43:02.000 The Bible talks in the one story about the father, you know, 698 00:43:02.000 --> 00:43:07.000 he was asking Jesus to heal his daughter. And he says, I believe help my unbelief. 699 00:43:08.000 --> 00:43:10.000 What he's asking Jesus to heal his daughter. 700 00:43:10.000 --> 00:43:14.000 And he's telling Jesus that he believes him, but he still has doubt. 701 00:43:15.000 --> 00:43:18.000 He has unbelief. And you know what Jesus did? 702 00:43:19.000 --> 00:43:22.000 He healed his daughter. Y'all get ahold of that a little bit. 703 00:43:23.000 --> 00:43:28.000 You're not going to get cast out because you struggle to have unbelief at 704 00:43:28.000 --> 00:43:31.000 times, but it's owning it. It's owning it, 705 00:43:31.000 --> 00:43:33.000 but also understanding where does it come from? 706 00:43:33.000 --> 00:43:36.000 Why do we have unbelief? This is something we need to look at. 707 00:43:38.000 --> 00:43:40.000 We haven't been able to see the fruit of the promise. 708 00:43:41.000 --> 00:43:45.000 So it causes uncertainty. So for some of you, you haven't seen, 709 00:43:46.000 --> 00:43:48.000 excuse me, seen the fruit of the promise. 710 00:43:48.000 --> 00:43:52.000 You believe God was telling you that he wanted a good marriage for you. 711 00:43:52.000 --> 00:43:56.000 He wanted you to have kids or whatever that dream was. 712 00:43:57.000 --> 00:43:59.000 And you haven't seen the fruit of that thing. 713 00:43:59.000 --> 00:44:02.000 And so you've started to have uncertainty, 714 00:44:02.000 --> 00:44:07.000 which then develops unbelief. Okay. 715 00:44:07.000 --> 00:44:14.000 The next part is uncertainty that causes inaction is what creates the doubt. 716 00:44:16.000 --> 00:44:19.000 So if you're feeling uncertain about something, 717 00:44:19.000 --> 00:44:22.000 what I want to encourage you guys to do is go back and ask the Lord, 718 00:44:22.000 --> 00:44:27.000 what's the fear that's causing inaction. 719 00:44:27.000 --> 00:44:31.000 That's then causing the doubt and uncertainty to be in my life. 720 00:44:33.000 --> 00:44:37.000 Do y'all catch that? I can say it again. So you want to unpack it. 721 00:44:37.000 --> 00:44:41.000 It's kind of like working backwards instead of just living with this stuff. 722 00:44:41.000 --> 00:44:43.000 Why do we just keep living with this stuff on the inside of us? 723 00:44:43.000 --> 00:44:46.000 And we, we show up in life and we show up in the day to day, 724 00:44:46.000 --> 00:44:49.000 and we're just carrying this stuff around. 725 00:44:52.000 --> 00:44:55.000 So, yeah, yeah. I can say it again there, Margaret. 726 00:44:55.000 --> 00:44:58.000 So let's see if I remember it. You all the way I said it. 727 00:45:00.960 --> 00:45:09.200 So if you have any kind of fear, so you have a fear that's causing you to stop doing anything, 728 00:45:09.200 --> 00:45:15.680 so inaction, so you stop moving, you know, even some of you guys, these dreams that we had, 729 00:45:15.680 --> 00:45:20.880 something at some point causes us to not act on those things. So when we acknowledge what 730 00:45:20.880 --> 00:45:26.080 those things are and the fears that are feeding that inaction, then we can start to understand 731 00:45:26.080 --> 00:45:32.000 what's feeding the uncertainty and creating that atmosphere of doubt. Because then we can invite 732 00:45:32.000 --> 00:45:36.640 the Holy Spirit to come into that place, and we can be honest with ourselves and honest with Him 733 00:45:36.640 --> 00:45:43.920 and say, Father, forgive me. I believe, help my unbelief. I want to have faith. Y'all, we can ask 734 00:45:43.920 --> 00:45:49.840 for a fresh and filling of faith. Did you know, like seriously, the Bible says that faith is a 735 00:45:49.840 --> 00:45:56.400 gift. Yes. Sometimes we have it because we cultivate it because we read the word and 736 00:45:56.400 --> 00:46:02.960 we get to know the Lord, but it's also a gift given from heaven. So we can ask for more faith. 737 00:46:02.960 --> 00:46:08.560 We can ask for him to fill us in a fresh way to believe he's not going to be upset with us. 738 00:46:08.560 --> 00:46:14.720 He's not going to punish us. He never, he never corrected that man for saying that 739 00:46:15.680 --> 00:46:21.520 he just healed the daughter. Okay. So someone that's that someone really needs to get a hold 740 00:46:21.520 --> 00:46:26.400 of that tonight. Like he, he literally didn't, he didn't reprimand him. He didn't question him. 741 00:46:26.400 --> 00:46:31.440 He didn't yell at him. He just turned and like the daughter was healed. That was it. 742 00:46:32.640 --> 00:46:37.920 I mean, powerful, powerful stuff. So are you guys being hospitable to doubts? 743 00:46:39.680 --> 00:46:43.280 So what I mean by that is, you know, if you think about hospitality, 744 00:46:43.360 --> 00:46:47.760 you get your house ready. Some of you guys like me, you're getting ready for guests to come over 745 00:46:47.760 --> 00:46:52.880 to your house for Thanksgiving. You're getting it cleaned. You're getting food ready and you're 746 00:46:52.880 --> 00:46:59.520 getting all the things put together. You're being hospitable, preparing your home to invite the 747 00:46:59.520 --> 00:47:07.200 people in. Some of us do that with our doubts and our fears, but it's time to kick them out. 748 00:47:08.160 --> 00:47:13.840 Okay. It's time to get rid of that stuff and stop being hospitable to it. So you want to start to 749 00:47:13.840 --> 00:47:20.480 believe for yourself. So what I mean by that is come into full agreement and partner with it. 750 00:47:21.440 --> 00:47:25.840 The promises like you want to, okay, Lord, what is your promise to me? And if you don't know what 751 00:47:25.840 --> 00:47:31.600 his promises are to you, you know, again, if you don't hear God audibly or that still quiet, 752 00:47:31.760 --> 00:47:38.080 small voice inside y'all, his word has promises, promises, so many promises for us 753 00:47:38.800 --> 00:47:43.840 that you can read and you can start to partner with those. You know, one of them that, you know, 754 00:47:43.840 --> 00:47:48.320 a couple of years ago when I was in my process that really spoke to me, and I've probably said 755 00:47:48.320 --> 00:47:53.040 it on our sessions before, but that I would see the goodness of God in the land of the living. 756 00:47:53.920 --> 00:47:58.400 That is a promise for me. I love the Lord and I live according to his ways to the best of my 757 00:47:58.480 --> 00:48:02.800 ability. And it says when we do that, that we will see the goodness of God in the land of the 758 00:48:03.360 --> 00:48:07.600 living. I don't think I have to wait just to have, when I get to heaven to experience that 759 00:48:08.640 --> 00:48:15.200 he promised me that I could have that. So I claim that myself and I, I do my best to partner with 760 00:48:15.200 --> 00:48:21.360 that. I want that. I want it. I want to experience. I remember the first time, I mean, I'm, 761 00:48:21.360 --> 00:48:25.600 I'm a pretty happy person for the most part, but there, there was this time where I remember just 762 00:48:25.600 --> 00:48:33.200 like, you know, the Bible talks about joy, uh, unspeakable and full of glory. Well, I imagine 763 00:48:33.200 --> 00:48:39.760 that that feels different than just kind of coaxing ourselves to be joyful. Like it's a bubbling up 764 00:48:39.760 --> 00:48:44.800 out of us. Like it, it just, we just can't contain it because it just comes up out of us. Well, I 765 00:48:44.800 --> 00:48:50.960 want that. And I remember I started praying like, Lord, I want joy, unspeakable and full of glory. 766 00:48:50.960 --> 00:48:55.920 I want joy, please, Lord, give me joy and speak. And I'm not saying I always have it, but y'all 767 00:48:55.920 --> 00:49:01.360 I'm serious. There are times where I like, even tonight before I jumped on, we're playing a game. 768 00:49:01.360 --> 00:49:07.120 I'm just cracking up laughing. Like I just, there's this new found joy that he's given. And, 769 00:49:07.120 --> 00:49:13.600 and it's not, yes, having an amazing spirit may and having life be good is amazing. And that's 770 00:49:13.600 --> 00:49:19.840 a part of it. But y'all, this started happening before I found my spirit main where this, 771 00:49:19.840 --> 00:49:25.600 this laughter in this new life started birthing out of me. And I would have people say, like, 772 00:49:25.600 --> 00:49:30.000 I feel like God's going to flourish this area. And they just like, people would, didn't even know 773 00:49:30.000 --> 00:49:35.040 that I was in this heartwork stuff. So just know that stuff's going to happen to you too. 774 00:49:35.760 --> 00:49:40.160 All right. So we all have to choose what to believe. So what are you, who's reporter you 775 00:49:40.160 --> 00:49:44.960 want you going to believe? You know, the Bible talks about that. There's a song about an old 776 00:49:44.960 --> 00:49:49.520 school song. Here's a report. Will you believe? I don't remember what the other, but that's just 777 00:49:49.520 --> 00:49:54.720 what's coming. It's an old school. Y'all might know it, but like we can, we can believe the 778 00:49:54.720 --> 00:49:59.200 report of the enemy, or we can believe the report of the Lord. Which one do we want? 779 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:06.560 Sorry, I'm seeing that I'm not sure on that, Christine. I'm sorry. I don't even know if 780 00:50:06.560 --> 00:50:12.200 I remember what that was about. I'll have to look back at that later. Um, all right. 781 00:50:12.200 --> 00:50:19.400 So you want to ask God to increase your faith and the next breakout we're going to go into. 782 00:50:19.400 --> 00:50:25.800 I want you guys to think about this a little bit. How many of you struggle with comparison 783 00:50:25.800 --> 00:50:32.440 traps? And what I mean by that is the enemy often tries to get you to compare yourself 784 00:50:32.440 --> 00:50:38.240 to other women, to compete with other people, to try to imitate other people because you 785 00:50:38.240 --> 00:50:44.220 just don't feel good enough on your own. Anybody else ever like see another woman and you automatically 786 00:50:44.220 --> 00:50:50.320 feel jealous or like angry or mad or like weird stuff that you don't even know why you 787 00:50:50.320 --> 00:50:54.640 think it and feel it. Yeah. That's the enemy trying to get you to be like in comparison, 788 00:50:54.640 --> 00:51:00.240 like you're not good enough. Y'all we can, we can walk around with this stuff or we can 789 00:51:00.240 --> 00:51:06.120 get rid of this stuff. One, one of the stories I I've kind of told that I feel like is super 790 00:51:06.120 --> 00:51:12.260 important is years ago, um, God told me I would minister to women. And I remember like 791 00:51:12.260 --> 00:51:18.440 just feeling the weight in a good way of that. Um, but like before that opportunity opened 792 00:51:18.440 --> 00:51:23.400 up, I used to, I remember, um, so vividly I was driving home and I had, there was a 793 00:51:23.400 --> 00:51:30.680 lot of traffic where I used to live in, in Lexington, Kentucky. And, um, it like literally 794 00:51:30.680 --> 00:51:36.280 never failed. There would be these really gorgeous women running with these perfect 795 00:51:36.280 --> 00:51:42.120 bodies. And I would just like, not even mean to, but I would just like think bad things 796 00:51:42.120 --> 00:51:48.400 like whatever, why are you running around like that? Like just weird stuff. Like, Oh, 797 00:51:48.400 --> 00:51:54.480 of course she's got the perfect boobs. You know, like just I'm being real. You all like, 798 00:51:54.480 --> 00:51:58.880 okay, somebody put this in the chat in the group too. And it made me just think of it, 799 00:51:58.880 --> 00:52:03.320 you know, the body shaming stuff. My brothers used to make fun of me because I didn't have 800 00:52:03.320 --> 00:52:08.040 big boobs when I was little. Well, they were my abusers. And so you want to know the thing, 801 00:52:08.040 --> 00:52:13.280 one of the things the enemy used to always make me super jealous about other women having 802 00:52:13.280 --> 00:52:19.760 big boobs. I didn't ever want to feel that way, but the enemy, like there was so much 803 00:52:19.760 --> 00:52:25.840 brokenness about my own body that the enemy was trying to come in through those broken areas and 804 00:52:25.840 --> 00:52:30.560 torment me and get me to hate on, like, not, I shouldn't say hate on, but like not think good 805 00:52:30.560 --> 00:52:35.360 things about women. And I remember like, it happened a couple of times. And then I would 806 00:52:35.360 --> 00:52:39.760 like realize what I was thinking about and be like, why was I thinking that? Like, Oh my God, 807 00:52:39.760 --> 00:52:45.520 like, and I would feel so bad. And it was like this guilt thing. Then eventually one day I 808 00:52:45.520 --> 00:52:51.840 realized, you know what, I'm going to stop this at the, at the door when it happens this time. 809 00:52:52.960 --> 00:52:58.720 And I remember seeing something similar and just, you know, the enemy came real quick and I was 810 00:52:58.720 --> 00:53:05.360 like, not, no, not today. And I started praying for that woman and I started blessing her and 811 00:53:05.360 --> 00:53:09.760 thanking God for making whatever part of her body that I thought was more perfect than mine. 812 00:53:10.720 --> 00:53:18.160 Cause that's how he does it y'all. But, you know, like owning that and being honest with myself 813 00:53:18.160 --> 00:53:24.320 about that gave me the ability to pray for them and break out of that. And then literally I just, 814 00:53:24.320 --> 00:53:28.400 I just, all, all women, I would start to compliment them. And I was gen, I mean, 815 00:53:28.400 --> 00:53:34.960 serious, genuine. I wasn't doing it to be fake. I was being genuine. So, okay, Lily, this is okay. 816 00:53:35.360 --> 00:53:38.480 You might not get, she makes a good point. You might not get jealous. You might feel sad. 817 00:53:39.760 --> 00:53:44.480 You might have all different kinds of emotions, but when we lean away from that and we start 818 00:53:44.480 --> 00:53:49.680 blessing them and thanking God for them and, you know, oh my gosh, that, you know, shirt looks so 819 00:53:49.680 --> 00:53:54.560 beautiful on you. I mean, even I, okay, I'm going to point out someone cause Audrey Mills, you keep 820 00:53:54.560 --> 00:53:59.920 standing out to me tonight. Like you're glowing, sweetie. You're glowing. God, you like, God is 821 00:53:59.920 --> 00:54:05.920 doing something really great in you. I can see it. And so I just want you to know God sees you 822 00:54:05.920 --> 00:54:10.240 and I could call out anybody on here, but I, for whatever reason, I just felt led that I needed to 823 00:54:10.240 --> 00:54:19.200 do that. You know, so we start owning it and we do the opposite. So not much longer after that, 824 00:54:19.200 --> 00:54:26.160 God opened the first door for me to start leading one group of women that turned into two that 825 00:54:26.160 --> 00:54:31.120 turned into three of the two before I knew it, it was a group and it was not in this community, 826 00:54:31.120 --> 00:54:36.640 but it was a group of almost 300 women. I had 25 to 30 leaders under my care. 827 00:54:38.400 --> 00:54:43.280 I don't, I don't know that that would have happened if I hadn't gotten ahold of that thing. 828 00:54:44.320 --> 00:54:48.480 Do you understand? Like, yes, I think God in his goodness would have still made a way, 829 00:54:48.480 --> 00:54:53.440 but like I had to be willing to crucify my flesh and crucify those old thoughts 830 00:54:53.440 --> 00:54:58.960 and get rid of that stuff. So some of you all yours might look totally different. Okay. 831 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:06.400 might happen differently, you know, but it's there and it's real. And even, okay, thank 832 00:55:06.400 --> 00:55:11.720 you, Lord. I'm going to say this to the panic mode. As soon as you, some of you all start 833 00:55:11.720 --> 00:55:18.920 trying to date or try to like step into that new, the panic mode of like, you got to like 834 00:55:18.920 --> 00:55:24.360 make it happen. And you know, if somebody else happens to meet the same guy, like, no, 835 00:55:24.960 --> 00:55:31.760 don't have to do that. God is going to lead you to your spirit mate. He, he will lead 836 00:55:31.760 --> 00:55:37.720 you to them and he'll lead them to you and God will help you on that path. So you can 837 00:55:37.720 --> 00:55:47.400 lean into peace and you can choose to stay in peace and live that up instead. All right. 838 00:55:47.400 --> 00:55:51.320 So you're going to share in your breakout group. What is the way that you, you fall 839 00:55:51.320 --> 00:55:55.960 into comparison traps? Like what, what is the thing? Maybe it's not your body for you. 840 00:55:55.960 --> 00:56:01.360 Maybe it's, you know, someone else is smarter than you. They have a degree and you don't 841 00:56:01.360 --> 00:56:05.720 and you think you're not as qualified or whatever. I'm just trying to give you guys some ideas 842 00:56:05.720 --> 00:56:09.540 and why don't you share about that and your breakout with each other. In what ways does 843 00:56:09.540 --> 00:56:14.280 the enemy challenge the real you with this comparison? So is there any part of yourself 844 00:56:14.280 --> 00:56:19.040 that you don't show up as the real you, because you're always comparing yourself to someone 845 00:56:19.040 --> 00:56:27.360 else? That can be something you talk about too. All right. All righty. Oh, wait on. Shoot. 846 00:56:27.360 --> 00:56:38.880 I did not mean to do that. Sorry. Sorry. I'll hold on. I pushed the wrong button. All right. 847 00:56:39.040 --> 00:56:43.040 I'm going to recreate these, mix you up tonight a little bit. All right, here you go. 848 00:56:43.040 --> 00:57:11.600 All right, ladies, keep clicking to join. So Sarah and Tabitha that still need to join 849 00:57:11.600 --> 00:57:35.440 in. Andrea, are you guys having trouble? Okay. All right. Father, thank you so much 850 00:57:35.440 --> 00:57:39.440 for these ladies. God, thank you for those watching on Facebook. You can still chime 851 00:57:39.520 --> 00:57:46.320 in. I'll come and see comments here. I see you, Cassie. I see you saying it's good. Yes. 852 00:57:46.320 --> 00:57:51.200 Smarter than trap. So ladies that are watching on Facebook, if you want, you can put in here 853 00:57:51.200 --> 00:57:56.960 what your comparison trap is. All right. Hopefully I'm saying it right. If it's Casey or Cassie, 854 00:57:56.960 --> 00:58:02.080 I'm sorry if I'm saying it wrong. It's one of those. I'm blessing both. All right. She says 855 00:58:02.080 --> 00:58:07.680 her comparison trap is everyone around her being married or having a family. And then I compare 856 00:58:07.680 --> 00:58:12.080 myself and go into what's wrong with me. Yeah, that's so common. I want you to know that you're 857 00:58:12.080 --> 00:58:17.040 not alone in that. A lot of ladies struggle with that. A lot of men struggle with that. They just 858 00:58:17.040 --> 00:58:22.880 struggle with it in different ways. It might sound different when they express it. So Father, 859 00:58:22.880 --> 00:58:30.000 we just thank you. Excuse me. We just ask you to bless every one of these ladies with the truth 860 00:58:30.080 --> 00:58:37.760 that they are enough. That even if life looks different than their friends' lives or other 861 00:58:37.760 --> 00:58:42.640 people that they know, God, that they can lean into who you've created them to be. God, that 862 00:58:42.640 --> 00:58:46.720 they don't have to compare themselves. They don't have to feel like they have to keep up with the 863 00:58:46.720 --> 00:58:52.160 other people, God, because you're writing a special story just for them. God, I thank you that you 864 00:58:52.160 --> 00:58:57.680 would help them to lean into the truth that you have for them. That you would, you know, discard 865 00:58:57.680 --> 00:59:02.240 their hearts and their minds through Christ Jesus and help them to take an active role in that. 866 00:59:02.240 --> 00:59:06.800 God, we thank you that you would help them to hear what your spirit is saying about them in 867 00:59:06.800 --> 00:59:12.720 all situations. I also see Kimberly, smarter than trap. I'm in marketing. I compare myself 868 00:59:12.720 --> 00:59:18.480 constantly to the sales team. They are very smart and educated. I really feel, I feel really less 869 00:59:18.480 --> 00:59:26.320 than around them. Interesting, Kimberly, I used to work in sales and marketing. So I know how 870 00:59:26.320 --> 00:59:34.800 tough that can be too. And so Lord, we just ask you to bless Kimberly's perspective of her mind 871 00:59:34.800 --> 00:59:39.680 and her ability. God, we ask you just to come against any lies of the enemy that will cause 872 00:59:39.680 --> 00:59:45.360 her to compare herself to those on the sales team or any person that she would feel is 873 00:59:46.800 --> 00:59:51.520 very smart and educated and where she feels less than around them. But Lord, not only that, but I 874 00:59:51.520 --> 00:59:59.840 ask you to reveal any core areas inside of herself that might lead her to this less than. 875 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:03.400 and posture in her heart, in her mind, in her spirit. 876 01:00:03.400 --> 01:00:07.000 God, reveal any lies that the enemy's feeding her 877 01:00:07.000 --> 01:00:09.160 and also reveal where they began. 878 01:00:09.160 --> 01:00:10.640 Like, where did that start for her 879 01:00:10.640 --> 01:00:13.840 that she felt less than in a situation? 880 01:00:13.840 --> 01:00:16.800 And then that grew into what she's currently experiencing 881 01:00:16.800 --> 01:00:20.440 in her today's, where we just ask you to bring healing 882 01:00:20.440 --> 01:00:21.560 to those places. 883 01:00:21.560 --> 01:00:24.520 We thank you, God, that even now you'll just begin 884 01:00:24.520 --> 01:00:26.440 to like remove that off of her. 885 01:00:26.440 --> 01:00:28.680 Like, even as I snapped, that that would just fall 886 01:00:28.680 --> 01:00:31.440 off of her and when she starts to be around the sales team, 887 01:00:31.440 --> 01:00:34.880 she's gonna start to hear your voice inside of her 888 01:00:34.880 --> 01:00:38.640 and in her ear and speaking truth and hope and life to her 889 01:00:38.640 --> 01:00:41.320 that she would lean into that more and more and more 890 01:00:41.320 --> 01:00:42.440 in the days ahead. 891 01:00:43.680 --> 01:00:47.200 Christina says, a comparison trap I had 892 01:00:47.200 --> 01:00:49.440 was I would see a beautiful woman and then think, 893 01:00:49.440 --> 01:00:53.040 oh, I'm sure she has men wanting her, but no one wants me. 894 01:00:53.040 --> 01:00:54.800 I used to believe that lie. 895 01:00:54.800 --> 01:00:59.040 Thank you for sharing, Christina and Cassie and Kimberly. 896 01:01:00.320 --> 01:01:05.160 Yes, Christina, we just encourage you just to see yourself 897 01:01:05.160 --> 01:01:07.960 as the beautiful woman that you are through God's eyes 898 01:01:07.960 --> 01:01:11.040 that you wouldn't compare yourself to other beautiful women. 899 01:01:12.080 --> 01:01:15.320 And actually that reminds me of something 900 01:01:15.320 --> 01:01:16.800 that I wanted to say. 901 01:01:19.040 --> 01:01:21.240 And I'll say it again when they come on live, 902 01:01:21.240 --> 01:01:24.560 but do you know that someone else's beauty 903 01:01:24.560 --> 01:01:28.040 does not take away from our own beauty? 904 01:01:28.040 --> 01:01:29.960 God created us all beautiful. 905 01:01:29.960 --> 01:01:33.560 He created us all fearfully and wonderfully made. 906 01:01:33.560 --> 01:01:36.440 And it's like, when we start leaning into that, 907 01:01:36.440 --> 01:01:38.200 like someone else can be beautiful 908 01:01:38.200 --> 01:01:40.840 and we can be just as beautiful. 909 01:01:40.840 --> 01:01:43.680 It's whether or not we believe that on the inside 910 01:01:43.680 --> 01:01:46.760 and we don't allow the enemy to torment us. 911 01:01:46.760 --> 01:01:49.840 And so asking the father to reveal, 912 01:01:50.400 --> 01:01:54.160 what is in the core of you that causes you to think 913 01:01:54.160 --> 01:01:56.640 you're not as beautiful as someone else? 914 01:01:56.640 --> 01:01:59.280 And again, I think it's okay for us to look at women 915 01:01:59.280 --> 01:02:01.200 and think, oh, that's a beautiful woman. 916 01:02:01.200 --> 01:02:04.400 But when we are in a posture of like, 917 01:02:04.400 --> 01:02:09.320 she's beautiful in abundance and not a deficit, 918 01:02:09.320 --> 01:02:11.400 I think that's key. 919 01:02:11.400 --> 01:02:15.640 So when we show up in life and we're around other women, 920 01:02:15.640 --> 01:02:19.080 we're around situations, when we show up with that deficit, 921 01:02:19.120 --> 01:02:20.720 that's when we can really, 922 01:02:20.720 --> 01:02:23.640 the enemy really comes in and messes with us. 923 01:02:23.640 --> 01:02:26.080 And so Lord, we just ask you to, 924 01:02:27.000 --> 01:02:28.760 I'm sorry, y'all, my voice is going in and out 925 01:02:28.760 --> 01:02:29.600 a little bit. 926 01:02:30.480 --> 01:02:33.080 We just ask you to bless Christina. 927 01:02:33.080 --> 01:02:35.160 And we ask you just so Lord to, 928 01:02:36.720 --> 01:02:38.680 right now, but even as she sleeps tonight, 929 01:02:38.680 --> 01:02:40.920 God, I pray that you would give her a dream, 930 01:02:42.440 --> 01:02:44.800 a dream of how beautiful she really is. 931 01:02:44.800 --> 01:02:46.240 Lord, help her to begin to see that 932 01:02:46.240 --> 01:02:48.160 even in the daytime hours. 933 01:02:48.160 --> 01:02:49.920 God, that she would start to look at herself 934 01:02:49.920 --> 01:02:50.760 through a new lens. 935 01:02:50.760 --> 01:02:55.680 So yes, Lord, I'm even hearing Christina, 936 01:02:55.680 --> 01:02:57.720 just what came up in my spirit is like, 937 01:02:58.720 --> 01:03:00.800 you know, when people go in for a cataract surgery, 938 01:03:00.800 --> 01:03:03.600 they actually have that cataract removed from their eye 939 01:03:03.600 --> 01:03:06.880 and that cataract blurs their vision. 940 01:03:06.880 --> 01:03:09.240 And just in the spirit realm that you have, 941 01:03:09.240 --> 01:03:11.080 you don't have cataracts in the physical, 942 01:03:11.080 --> 01:03:12.640 but in the spirit realm, 943 01:03:12.640 --> 01:03:15.200 you've had kind of like this film of your eyes 944 01:03:15.200 --> 01:03:19.200 that causes you to see yourself like in a wrong way 945 01:03:19.200 --> 01:03:22.320 because you emanate beauty and you are fearfully 946 01:03:22.320 --> 01:03:25.920 and beautifully and wonderfully made. 947 01:03:25.920 --> 01:03:28.160 And God is going to start to help you 948 01:03:28.160 --> 01:03:30.960 like see that differently, see yourself differently. 949 01:03:30.960 --> 01:03:34.520 He's gonna remove those spiritual cataracts, if you will. 950 01:03:34.520 --> 01:03:36.520 And so we just thank you for that in advance. 951 01:03:36.520 --> 01:03:38.680 And we just bless Christina. 952 01:03:38.680 --> 01:03:41.120 And thank you for sharing ladies. 953 01:03:41.120 --> 01:03:42.080 That's huge. 954 01:03:42.080 --> 01:03:44.720 I love seeing these takeaways and the ladies sharing 955 01:03:45.240 --> 01:03:46.400 in the Facebook comments, 956 01:03:46.400 --> 01:03:47.960 in addition to the people that are chatting 957 01:03:47.960 --> 01:03:48.800 in the breakouts. 958 01:03:48.800 --> 01:03:50.680 This is how we make community happen. 959 01:03:50.680 --> 01:03:52.960 Even when we can't be here on the lives, 960 01:03:52.960 --> 01:03:55.720 you guys can still get massive breakthrough. 961 01:03:55.720 --> 01:03:57.280 If you're watching this on the replay, 962 01:03:57.280 --> 01:04:00.040 just know, like lean into this, you know, 963 01:04:00.040 --> 01:04:02.960 come back and even share in the comments of these videos 964 01:04:02.960 --> 01:04:06.840 and let us hear what is God speaking to you in these areas. 965 01:04:06.840 --> 01:04:09.360 And we will comment and engage with you 966 01:04:09.360 --> 01:04:11.680 and believe with you as well. 967 01:04:11.680 --> 01:04:13.200 Welcome back ladies. 968 01:04:15.720 --> 01:04:17.520 Yes, Lord. 969 01:04:17.520 --> 01:04:18.360 All right. 970 01:04:18.360 --> 01:04:19.200 Welcome back. 971 01:04:19.200 --> 01:04:20.040 Welcome back. 972 01:04:24.840 --> 01:04:27.040 Almost have everybody. 973 01:04:27.040 --> 01:04:28.520 Gotta wait just a little bit. 974 01:04:30.840 --> 01:04:32.120 Okay, Debbie, that's okay. 975 01:04:32.120 --> 01:04:34.760 Yeah, I think some people are having internet issues tonight. 976 01:04:34.760 --> 01:04:37.240 It's okay if you guys start to be really spotty 977 01:04:37.240 --> 01:04:40.680 and it makes it hard for you to be in here. 978 01:04:40.680 --> 01:04:43.680 You guys can definitely watch on the Facebook. 979 01:04:43.800 --> 01:04:45.960 It's always okay for y'all to watch on the Facebook. 980 01:04:45.960 --> 01:04:47.560 It's just, you can't join the breakouts 981 01:04:47.560 --> 01:04:49.320 if you're on Facebook, that's all. 982 01:04:49.320 --> 01:04:50.240 All right, let's see. 983 01:04:50.240 --> 01:04:51.240 Do we have everyone back? 984 01:04:51.240 --> 01:04:53.640 We're still waiting for some people, I think. 985 01:04:53.640 --> 01:04:54.480 Here they come. 986 01:04:55.720 --> 01:04:56.680 All right, all right. 987 01:04:56.680 --> 01:04:57.520 Welcome back. 988 01:04:57.520 --> 01:04:58.360 Welcome back. 989 01:04:59.680 --> 01:05:00.520 Doesn't even. 990 01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:01.440 and feel good, more free. 991 01:05:01.440 --> 01:05:02.920 You guys just getting this stuff out 992 01:05:02.920 --> 01:05:03.940 and talking to each other. 993 01:05:03.940 --> 01:05:04.780 I hope it does. 994 01:05:04.780 --> 01:05:07.040 I feel good talking to you all about it. 995 01:05:07.040 --> 01:05:09.520 So I hope you all feel good releasing this stuff 996 01:05:09.520 --> 01:05:10.760 and letting God work in you. 997 01:05:10.760 --> 01:05:12.400 Who is willing to share? 998 01:05:12.400 --> 01:05:15.400 Oh, one thing I want to share before you start to share. 999 01:05:15.400 --> 01:05:16.940 I promise I won't share long. 1000 01:05:16.940 --> 01:05:20.120 This came up on someone's comment on the Facebook. 1001 01:05:20.120 --> 01:05:21.040 It made me think about it. 1002 01:05:21.040 --> 01:05:23.480 I wanted to say before you all went in. 1003 01:05:23.480 --> 01:05:24.960 This is the reality. 1004 01:05:25.960 --> 01:05:29.760 Someone else's beauty does not diminish our own beauty. 1005 01:05:31.040 --> 01:05:33.520 If we believe that it does, 1006 01:05:33.520 --> 01:05:36.240 there's some kind of deficit inside of us. 1007 01:05:36.240 --> 01:05:37.120 And what I mean by that, 1008 01:05:37.120 --> 01:05:39.880 there's something that needs healed in us. 1009 01:05:39.880 --> 01:05:43.400 So we're looking at ourselves through a lens of deficit 1010 01:05:43.400 --> 01:05:46.360 versus abundance and overflow. 1011 01:05:46.360 --> 01:05:49.960 And so anytime we show up in anywhere, 1012 01:05:49.960 --> 01:05:52.600 we're looking at ourselves through the lens of, 1013 01:05:52.640 --> 01:05:55.160 I'm not as good as someone else. 1014 01:05:55.160 --> 01:05:59.680 Or if someone else is beautiful, I'm not. 1015 01:05:59.680 --> 01:06:01.580 And that is not truth. 1016 01:06:04.080 --> 01:06:06.280 Can you all just kind of soak in that for a minute? 1017 01:06:06.280 --> 01:06:10.500 Like each one of you are beautiful. 1018 01:06:10.500 --> 01:06:12.900 Like God didn't mess up. 1019 01:06:16.600 --> 01:06:18.040 Yeah, I feel Holy Spirit on that. 1020 01:06:18.040 --> 01:06:19.180 He didn't mess up. 1021 01:06:20.020 --> 01:06:25.020 He didn't say, let me form my beautiful daughter, Deborah. 1022 01:06:25.260 --> 01:06:28.100 And then, oops, I made a mistake. 1023 01:06:28.100 --> 01:06:30.100 Nope, he did not. 1024 01:06:30.100 --> 01:06:33.820 He said, I made her fearfully and wonderfully made. 1025 01:06:33.820 --> 01:06:36.340 Oh, Deborah, I'm so excited 1026 01:06:36.340 --> 01:06:38.860 about these amazing gifts I put in her. 1027 01:06:38.860 --> 01:06:41.180 I can't wait to see her live these things out. 1028 01:06:41.180 --> 01:06:44.580 Like he's excited about the way he created you. 1029 01:06:44.580 --> 01:06:49.260 He's excited to see you live into the fullness 1030 01:06:49.260 --> 01:06:51.820 of like your splendor. 1031 01:06:52.940 --> 01:06:56.300 Proverbs 31, you know, the church misuses that 1032 01:06:56.300 --> 01:06:59.240 even though it's an amazing chapter, it is. 1033 01:07:01.360 --> 01:07:03.900 But the church lords that over people too. 1034 01:07:05.820 --> 01:07:08.300 Yes, your worth is far above Ruby's. 1035 01:07:08.300 --> 01:07:10.300 And that is the truth of what God said. 1036 01:07:11.600 --> 01:07:14.340 But you don't have to lean into striving. 1037 01:07:15.100 --> 01:07:18.900 Yes, do the next best thing, but like your beauty is there. 1038 01:07:18.900 --> 01:07:20.460 Lean into it. 1039 01:07:20.460 --> 01:07:21.380 All right. 1040 01:07:21.380 --> 01:07:23.060 Okay, awesome. 1041 01:07:23.900 --> 01:07:24.740 All right. 1042 01:07:24.740 --> 01:07:26.980 Yes, when you shine, it changes your features. 1043 01:07:26.980 --> 01:07:27.820 It surely does. 1044 01:07:27.820 --> 01:07:28.660 Crystal, go ahead. 1045 01:07:28.660 --> 01:07:30.580 I would love to hear what you have to say. 1046 01:07:32.220 --> 01:07:34.660 Don't mind, I will make clicks if someone else can share. 1047 01:07:34.660 --> 01:07:38.020 But as soon as you said that last line before we broke out, 1048 01:07:38.020 --> 01:07:42.060 it made me realize I compare myself to my sister. 1049 01:07:42.060 --> 01:07:46.380 She is 10 years older than me and I love her to death, 1050 01:07:46.380 --> 01:07:51.060 but she gets special treatment in my family. 1051 01:07:51.060 --> 01:07:53.940 And I hate to say that, but it's very true. 1052 01:07:54.940 --> 01:07:58.460 So often it hinders me from like going home 1053 01:07:58.460 --> 01:07:59.780 unless she's going to go home 1054 01:07:59.780 --> 01:08:04.060 because the welcome committee is the same 1055 01:08:04.060 --> 01:08:06.720 when I go home and visit is when she does. 1056 01:08:06.720 --> 01:08:11.100 And I very much compare my presence in my family 1057 01:08:11.100 --> 01:08:12.900 to her presence in my family, 1058 01:08:12.900 --> 01:08:16.020 which is hurtful because she is my best friend 1059 01:08:16.020 --> 01:08:20.260 and I love her so very much and I'm so grateful for her. 1060 01:08:20.260 --> 01:08:24.340 But I, yeah, that's my comparison trap right there. 1061 01:08:26.460 --> 01:08:27.939 So I'm so glad that you shared. 1062 01:08:27.939 --> 01:08:29.300 This is huge, you all. 1063 01:08:29.300 --> 01:08:32.840 Okay, how many can relate to Crystal 1064 01:08:32.840 --> 01:08:36.060 that you compare yourself to a sister or a sibling 1065 01:08:36.060 --> 01:08:38.660 and maybe you feel like that sibling gets special treatment? 1066 01:08:38.660 --> 01:08:40.380 Anybody else? 1067 01:08:40.380 --> 01:08:41.220 Let me see you. 1068 01:08:43.380 --> 01:08:45.420 All right, a couple of you here. 1069 01:08:45.420 --> 01:08:47.140 Awesome. 1070 01:08:47.140 --> 01:08:49.020 All right, you all can put your hands back down. 1071 01:08:49.020 --> 01:08:50.660 So I want to speak into that for a moment 1072 01:08:50.660 --> 01:08:52.460 because this is really important. 1073 01:08:53.819 --> 01:08:56.140 I'm not saying it's not true and it does happen. 1074 01:08:56.140 --> 01:08:59.100 Unfortunately, it does happen in a lot of families, 1075 01:08:59.100 --> 01:09:03.939 but the thing is, is like the enemy is creating that fissure 1076 01:09:03.939 --> 01:09:06.380 and he's trying to, you know, when a fissure starts, 1077 01:09:06.380 --> 01:09:07.740 like, let's just imagine this. 1078 01:09:07.740 --> 01:09:09.740 It's kind of like this, okay? 1079 01:09:09.779 --> 01:09:10.779 And they all look different, 1080 01:09:10.779 --> 01:09:13.300 but I'm just, for tonight's purposes. 1081 01:09:13.300 --> 01:09:15.420 And then when something else happens, 1082 01:09:15.420 --> 01:09:17.779 it cracks it more and it cracks it more. 1083 01:09:17.779 --> 01:09:19.899 Every time the enemy comes in 1084 01:09:19.899 --> 01:09:22.859 and he's attacking that same area and is attacking, 1085 01:09:22.859 --> 01:09:26.580 he's trying to just literally create this divide 1086 01:09:26.580 --> 01:09:31.240 that it's gonna feel like so hard to get back to this. 1087 01:09:32.420 --> 01:09:35.060 But I can tell you that God can supernaturally 1088 01:09:35.060 --> 01:09:37.979 take something where there's all this division, 1089 01:09:37.979 --> 01:09:41.460 even in a family where another sibling is favored 1090 01:09:41.460 --> 01:09:43.620 and he can start to create this. 1091 01:09:43.620 --> 01:09:46.140 I'm not saying it's possible in every family 1092 01:09:46.140 --> 01:09:48.060 and some of us will not experience that 1093 01:09:48.060 --> 01:09:49.500 in this side of heaven, 1094 01:09:49.500 --> 01:09:51.979 but we can absolutely do our best to show up 1095 01:09:51.979 --> 01:09:55.100 and believe for that on this side of heaven, right? 1096 01:09:55.100 --> 01:09:57.620 And if you have a toxic family, 1097 01:09:57.620 --> 01:10:00.220 again, anytime we do these lives, ladies, 1098 01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:04.000 I'm not telling you that you have to go and be around toxic people. 1099 01:10:04.000 --> 01:10:07.000 Boundaries are there and needed for a reason. 1100 01:10:07.000 --> 01:10:11.000 I'm talking about if God is bringing reconciliation, healing, 1101 01:10:11.000 --> 01:10:16.000 and he's leading you to do things that go in that direction, 1102 01:10:16.000 --> 01:10:18.000 then that's the things that we should invest in. 1103 01:10:18.000 --> 01:10:20.000 But yeah, so many times. 1104 01:10:20.000 --> 01:10:27.000 So I would encourage you or anyone else that struggles with comparison 1105 01:10:27.000 --> 01:10:32.000 is to ask the Lord to reveal the first time that happened. 1106 01:10:32.000 --> 01:10:34.000 Because again, it's just like any other heartwork session. 1107 01:10:34.000 --> 01:10:36.000 Like we have to go back to the root. 1108 01:10:36.000 --> 01:10:38.000 Like, and again, we don't dig. 1109 01:10:38.000 --> 01:10:41.000 We ask the Lord to reveal it for healing. 1110 01:10:41.000 --> 01:10:44.000 And maybe the first memory that's revealed, I'm just making this up, 1111 01:10:44.000 --> 01:10:46.000 is at 15. 1112 01:10:46.000 --> 01:10:49.000 And then you process that with your revealing for healing cycle. 1113 01:10:49.000 --> 01:10:53.000 If you're not that far in the course yet, you'll get there. 1114 01:10:53.000 --> 01:10:56.000 But that revealing for healing cycle and you process that with the Lord 1115 01:10:56.000 --> 01:11:01.000 and then if you're still struggling with that same thing, ask the Lord, 1116 01:11:01.000 --> 01:11:05.000 is there any other memory that I don't remember that I need to remember? 1117 01:11:05.000 --> 01:11:08.000 And he might reveal something earlier on. 1118 01:11:08.000 --> 01:11:12.000 It takes time, ladies, and process, but it will be worth it. 1119 01:11:12.000 --> 01:11:14.000 Thank you, Crystal, for sharing that. 1120 01:11:14.000 --> 01:11:16.000 Jamie, go ahead. 1121 01:11:16.000 --> 01:11:22.000 Hi. 1122 01:11:22.000 --> 01:11:26.000 I shared that I think my comparison comes when I feel like I should be 1123 01:11:26.000 --> 01:11:28.000 farther along for my age. 1124 01:11:28.000 --> 01:11:31.000 Like there are some things that I have gotten to do, 1125 01:11:31.000 --> 01:11:35.000 but I feel like earlier in my life I was striving and moving and things 1126 01:11:35.000 --> 01:11:39.000 were going and then now I feel like I've kind of hit this standstill where 1127 01:11:39.000 --> 01:11:44.000 the things that I wanted to see happen, I can't seem to get to. 1128 01:11:44.000 --> 01:11:48.000 So when I see people around me that have reached those things, 1129 01:11:48.000 --> 01:11:52.000 I keep that's where my, oh, I can't wait till I get to that point 1130 01:11:52.000 --> 01:11:56.000 or have that thing or whatever the case may be. 1131 01:11:56.000 --> 01:11:58.000 Yeah, that's so good. 1132 01:11:58.000 --> 01:12:01.000 Let's see if I can tell if I remember if I muted myself. 1133 01:12:01.000 --> 01:12:04.000 I think here, too, I said this on another session, 1134 01:12:04.000 --> 01:12:07.000 but I'm going to say it again tonight because it's making me think of it. 1135 01:12:07.000 --> 01:12:11.000 We shouldn't should on anybody, including ourselves. 1136 01:12:11.000 --> 01:12:13.000 I know that I think it's so funny. 1137 01:12:13.000 --> 01:12:17.000 But like, seriously, you know, I, 1138 01:12:17.000 --> 01:12:20.000 and I understand it because I've done it to myself too. 1139 01:12:20.000 --> 01:12:26.000 Like it's this, I needed to be at this place at this time in my life to feel 1140 01:12:26.000 --> 01:12:28.000 successful. 1141 01:12:28.000 --> 01:12:29.000 Y'all I mean, seriously, 1142 01:12:29.000 --> 01:12:34.000 all my friends have kids and they're grown up and they're graduating and I 1143 01:12:34.000 --> 01:12:37.000 haven't had a baby yet for sure. 1144 01:12:37.000 --> 01:12:39.000 I've, I've dealt with that, 1145 01:12:39.000 --> 01:12:43.000 like I'm just in this place now that I'm just like, well, Lord, 1146 01:12:43.000 --> 01:12:47.000 I think you'll bring new friends into my life that are having babies and I'll 1147 01:12:47.000 --> 01:12:51.000 have a new tribe to raise my babies with, you know, it's, it's, 1148 01:12:51.000 --> 01:12:55.000 and I'm not saying I don't, I haven't had to deal with that stuff, 1149 01:12:55.000 --> 01:12:58.000 but I just try to like get a new perspective. 1150 01:12:58.000 --> 01:13:00.000 Like the new, it might, 1151 01:13:00.000 --> 01:13:03.000 my story might not have all worked out the way I wanted it to. 1152 01:13:03.000 --> 01:13:07.000 And it had a lot of bumps in it. But now when I look back, seriously, 1153 01:13:07.000 --> 01:13:12.000 like, like being with Brian, like, I, I, I'm so grateful. 1154 01:13:12.000 --> 01:13:14.000 I'm so grateful that I'm where I'm at. 1155 01:13:14.000 --> 01:13:18.000 And then I get to share my life with the person I'm sharing it with. 1156 01:13:18.000 --> 01:13:23.000 And so I couldn't see that five, 10 years ago, whatever, 1157 01:13:23.000 --> 01:13:25.000 but I see it now. 1158 01:13:25.000 --> 01:13:28.000 And I know in part and see in part in the future. 1159 01:13:28.000 --> 01:13:31.000 And so if we'll let go of the, 1160 01:13:31.000 --> 01:13:34.000 I should be farther along and say, Lord, 1161 01:13:34.000 --> 01:13:35.000 thank you for where I am. 1162 01:13:35.000 --> 01:13:38.000 And thank you that you're not finished with me yet. 1163 01:13:38.000 --> 01:13:42.000 Thank you that you have really incredible ways to, 1164 01:13:42.000 --> 01:13:46.000 like basically he gets back time for us. 1165 01:13:46.000 --> 01:13:50.000 Like so many times we feel like, man, a lot like that one relationship. 1166 01:13:50.000 --> 01:13:53.000 I was in with like my spiritual daughter's dad. I felt, man, 1167 01:13:53.000 --> 01:13:57.000 I lost six years of my life on that guy. What the heck was I thinking? 1168 01:13:57.000 --> 01:14:01.000 And yes, that was not a good choice. 1169 01:14:02.000 --> 01:14:06.000 And I did, I stayed for six years. I still, sometimes I'm like, Oh, 1170 01:14:06.000 --> 01:14:11.000 can't believe I did that. But man, 1171 01:14:11.000 --> 01:14:15.000 I learned so much that I can now share with you all. 1172 01:14:15.000 --> 01:14:18.000 I'm not saying that was God wanted me to go through that pain. 1173 01:14:18.000 --> 01:14:20.000 I chose, 1174 01:14:20.000 --> 01:14:24.000 but God is using it and working it all together for good. 1175 01:14:24.000 --> 01:14:27.000 And you know what? I, 1176 01:14:28.000 --> 01:14:32.000 I feel like God is giving me time back like a lot lately. 1177 01:14:32.000 --> 01:14:36.000 Like it's just this accelerated process right now that's happening. 1178 01:14:36.000 --> 01:14:37.000 And so just know, 1179 01:14:37.000 --> 01:14:42.000 like God has so many ways to get that 1180 01:14:42.000 --> 01:14:45.000 stuff back. And again, it might not look exactly the way we thought, 1181 01:14:45.000 --> 01:14:50.000 but that doesn't mean it's not going to be great when we enjoy it. Okay. 1182 01:14:50.000 --> 01:14:55.000 Is that good? Everyone understand, but it's like, again, it's like, okay, 1183 01:14:55.000 --> 01:15:00.000 what we're inside of myself. Do I still believe I'm not measuring? 1184 01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.240 bring up in some way? And what lies are feeding that? Yes, God 1185 01:15:06.240 --> 01:15:09.720 is so good. God is so good, y'all. Italia, is that how you 1186 01:15:09.720 --> 01:15:13.200 say it? Okay, awesome. Go ahead. 1187 01:15:14.560 --> 01:15:17.160 I think I compare myself and lately, I haven't compared 1188 01:15:17.160 --> 01:15:20.040 myself as much because I've been off of social medias, except 1189 01:15:20.040 --> 01:15:24.240 Facebook, of course. But I think I compare myself the most when 1190 01:15:25.240 --> 01:15:28.840 in areas that I feel flawed. So let's say like when I'm like 1191 01:15:28.840 --> 01:15:31.560 feeling like I'm overweight, I start to look at people that 1192 01:15:31.560 --> 01:15:36.040 like can eat anything and not gain a pound and say like, wow. 1193 01:15:36.800 --> 01:15:39.600 Or like, like something I've struggled with this year is like 1194 01:15:39.640 --> 01:15:44.200 acne. So like there's people out there, you know, I'm like using 1195 01:15:44.200 --> 01:15:46.960 a new product every three weeks. There's people out there that 1196 01:15:47.000 --> 01:15:50.840 literally uses soap and water and I'm like, just like really? 1197 01:15:51.800 --> 01:15:54.840 So I think that's when I compare myself and start to feel that, 1198 01:15:55.280 --> 01:15:59.160 you know, maybe like jealousy or something that comes to the 1199 01:15:59.160 --> 01:16:00.000 surface. 1200 01:16:01.480 --> 01:16:05.200 So good, y'all. I love all these different shares the complexity 1201 01:16:05.200 --> 01:16:08.880 each person is bringing here. How many I kind of chuckled when 1202 01:16:08.880 --> 01:16:11.880 you were sharing not because I'm laughing at you because I've 1203 01:16:11.880 --> 01:16:15.200 been doing some of the stuff you were saying. Even tonight, I'm 1204 01:16:15.200 --> 01:16:18.600 like, whoa, I'm like looking a little greasy on this thing 1205 01:16:18.600 --> 01:16:22.920 here. And I'm sweating in this room. That's why but I'm kind of 1206 01:16:22.920 --> 01:16:25.760 being silly right now a little bit too. But when you said the 1207 01:16:25.760 --> 01:16:29.600 thing about when you're gaining weight, and you're looking at 1208 01:16:29.600 --> 01:16:32.200 people and they're eating all kinds of food, and they're like 1209 01:16:32.200 --> 01:16:36.560 staying skinny, and you're like, what, you know, so I think we 1210 01:16:36.560 --> 01:16:39.920 can all relate to some degree there, like the comparisons in 1211 01:16:39.920 --> 01:16:43.920 the way the enemy, again, if you think about this, ladies, how 1212 01:16:43.920 --> 01:16:48.320 many times like, does the enemy get us so focused in a negative 1213 01:16:48.320 --> 01:16:52.400 way on ourself? And then it literally it leads into that 1214 01:16:52.400 --> 01:16:55.280 inaction that leads to uncertainty that leads to 1215 01:16:55.280 --> 01:17:00.120 doubt. And so we want to shift out of that. Like, Lord, thank 1216 01:17:00.120 --> 01:17:05.080 you for my skin. And I know it's again, okay, I'm going to kind 1217 01:17:05.080 --> 01:17:09.320 of bring this full circle. Y'all I remember the one day when God 1218 01:17:09.320 --> 01:17:11.560 started telling me like when I was struggling about the whole 1219 01:17:11.560 --> 01:17:14.960 boob thing. And I know this resonates with some people 1220 01:17:14.960 --> 01:17:18.640 because like, everybody's got like, my one spiritual daughter 1221 01:17:18.640 --> 01:17:22.880 is very busty, and she is embarrassed and hides them and 1222 01:17:23.160 --> 01:17:26.200 all this stuff. And then, you know, I struggled my whole life 1223 01:17:26.200 --> 01:17:29.680 with having not very many and feeling like, well, this isn't 1224 01:17:29.680 --> 01:17:33.800 fun. You know, all these things. But I remember when when the 1225 01:17:33.800 --> 01:17:38.400 Lord led me to start like, just God, thank you for the way you 1226 01:17:38.400 --> 01:17:41.120 made me. And I'll just lay hands on myself. I'm not I'm not 1227 01:17:41.120 --> 01:17:43.760 kidding, y'all. Thank you for my boobs. Thank you for the way you 1228 01:17:43.760 --> 01:17:48.520 made me thank you that I am. I'm the way you wanted me to be. And 1229 01:17:48.520 --> 01:17:51.400 I know that's might sound so silly. But like sometimes y'all 1230 01:17:51.400 --> 01:17:54.640 we just that's what we just need to slow down and thank him. 1231 01:17:56.240 --> 01:18:00.480 That we're alive that we, you know, are, we have skin and, and 1232 01:18:00.480 --> 01:18:04.320 we have arms and we have legs and we, we, you know, have the 1233 01:18:04.320 --> 01:18:07.240 ability to try to lose weight, sometimes we maybe that's 1234 01:18:07.240 --> 01:18:11.360 exercise, or we have enough food to eat, you know, whatever, you 1235 01:18:11.360 --> 01:18:14.200 know, that whole shifting into gratitude, y'all, when we 1236 01:18:14.200 --> 01:18:17.560 shifted into gratitude and Thanksgiving, guess what can't 1237 01:18:17.560 --> 01:18:21.920 stay there. Doubt and insecurity and unbelief and all 1238 01:18:21.920 --> 01:18:25.880 the negative things, they will start to just dissipate. They 1239 01:18:25.880 --> 01:18:29.480 will they will start to leave, and you'll have more space and 1240 01:18:29.480 --> 01:18:32.920 peace. And so if the enemy is attacking you about your 1241 01:18:32.920 --> 01:18:37.080 appearance a lot, you know, maybe like maybe you are like me 1242 01:18:37.080 --> 01:18:40.840 and you gain gain weight a lot on your legs or your butt or 1243 01:18:40.840 --> 01:18:44.640 whatever. Like seriously, Lord, thank you so much for my legs. 1244 01:18:44.920 --> 01:18:48.080 Thank you, God that they get me around. I'm serious. Y'all I'm 1245 01:18:48.080 --> 01:18:50.920 speaking to myself. I'm about to teach on body shame tomorrow 1246 01:18:50.920 --> 01:18:53.240 night. So I'm practicing I'm getting some practice in 1247 01:18:53.240 --> 01:18:56.880 tonight. But like for real, these are things we need to do. 1248 01:18:56.920 --> 01:19:00.880 These are the ways that we can overcome these insecurities and 1249 01:19:00.880 --> 01:19:05.080 the way that we really shame our ourselves and shame who we are. 1250 01:19:06.080 --> 01:19:10.160 So, Beth, go ahead. And then I'm going to shift you guys into the 1251 01:19:10.160 --> 01:19:11.960 last breakout before we close tonight. 1252 01:19:12.960 --> 01:19:16.080 Okay, so real quick, just another perspective. Although 1253 01:19:16.080 --> 01:19:20.840 yes, I do often compare myself appearance wise with other 1254 01:19:21.480 --> 01:19:25.880 women. I'm having three kids and I don't look the way that I did 1255 01:19:25.880 --> 01:19:29.920 when I was 120 pounds in high school. I just I just don't 1256 01:19:29.920 --> 01:19:33.920 anymore. And, you know, I kind of try and do the same thing, 1257 01:19:33.920 --> 01:19:37.760 which is like, okay, yeah, like I have, you know, I carry more 1258 01:19:37.760 --> 01:19:40.480 weight in certain areas of my body, but that's because I've 1259 01:19:40.760 --> 01:19:44.040 grown humans, three of them, you know, I've grown them from 1260 01:19:44.040 --> 01:19:48.360 nothing, basically. And, and that kind of thing. But one of 1261 01:19:48.360 --> 01:19:52.240 the things that I shared in the breakout was that I feel like as 1262 01:19:52.240 --> 01:19:58.120 I've gotten older, I compare myself more to how other people, 1263 01:19:59.280 --> 01:19:59.920 I guess, 1264 01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:04.240 present themselves as having it all together, and I do not. 1265 01:20:04.240 --> 01:20:06.880 So, you know, one of the things I said was, 1266 01:20:06.880 --> 01:20:10.720 I see a lot of times other moms that I compare myself to 1267 01:20:10.720 --> 01:20:13.440 that their kids are all, you know, on time for school 1268 01:20:13.440 --> 01:20:15.480 and their hair is always brushed 1269 01:20:15.480 --> 01:20:17.160 and they've got these healthy lunches 1270 01:20:17.160 --> 01:20:19.240 and my kids are like rolling in a minute 1271 01:20:19.240 --> 01:20:22.400 after the bell rings and my middle one 1272 01:20:22.400 --> 01:20:24.520 hasn't let me brush her hair for like three days 1273 01:20:24.520 --> 01:20:25.840 and it looks kind of crazy. 1274 01:20:25.840 --> 01:20:28.280 And they've got Cheez-Its and fruit roll-ups 1275 01:20:28.280 --> 01:20:30.200 and all kinds of other stuff in their lunch 1276 01:20:30.200 --> 01:20:32.600 that like isn't super healthy. 1277 01:20:32.600 --> 01:20:36.920 But, you know, like, and I told the person 1278 01:20:36.920 --> 01:20:38.640 that I was in the breakout room with was like, 1279 01:20:38.640 --> 01:20:41.800 I am consciously trying to remind myself now, 1280 01:20:41.800 --> 01:20:45.560 like, yeah, my kids don't have like these super healthy foods 1281 01:20:45.560 --> 01:20:47.240 and they don't always have cut vegetables, 1282 01:20:47.240 --> 01:20:48.440 but they have food. 1283 01:20:48.440 --> 01:20:51.840 And, you know, like my kid's hair is kind of crazy today 1284 01:20:51.840 --> 01:20:53.960 and maybe she's wearing the same clothes as yesterday, 1285 01:20:53.960 --> 01:20:58.240 but she has clothes and they don't all have holes in them. 1286 01:20:59.200 --> 01:21:01.440 And I've got piles of laundry, but at least it's clean 1287 01:21:01.440 --> 01:21:05.360 and we have laundry to fold and I have a means to wash it. 1288 01:21:05.360 --> 01:21:07.840 And, you know, my house is messy, 1289 01:21:07.840 --> 01:21:10.720 but that's because I've got kids that live here 1290 01:21:10.720 --> 01:21:13.520 that have toys and things and we do crafts 1291 01:21:13.520 --> 01:21:14.680 and I've got dogs. 1292 01:21:14.680 --> 01:21:18.480 And when I was in the breakout room, 1293 01:21:18.480 --> 01:21:20.880 my youngest one was fussing in the back of the car. 1294 01:21:20.880 --> 01:21:22.840 And I said, you know, like, even when my kid is fussing, 1295 01:21:22.840 --> 01:21:26.040 I know several friends that can't have kids. 1296 01:21:26.040 --> 01:21:28.720 And so trying to turn everything that I feel 1297 01:21:28.720 --> 01:21:31.040 is like a burden to me or a stressor for me 1298 01:21:31.040 --> 01:21:35.920 that I use to compare with other people into a blessing 1299 01:21:35.920 --> 01:21:39.560 instead of viewing it as a negative thing. 1300 01:21:39.560 --> 01:21:41.360 Yes, so good. 1301 01:21:41.360 --> 01:21:43.760 And just so you know, ladies are saying 1302 01:21:43.760 --> 01:21:45.760 they can relate to you. 1303 01:21:45.760 --> 01:21:49.440 You sound like a fun mom, you're being awesome. 1304 01:21:49.440 --> 01:21:53.520 You know, so I just wanted you to hear, you know, 1305 01:21:53.520 --> 01:21:55.960 that God is supporting you through your sisters tonight 1306 01:21:56.960 --> 01:21:59.040 so keep it up, y'all. 1307 01:21:59.040 --> 01:22:00.440 I mean, this is good stuff. 1308 01:22:01.880 --> 01:22:04.080 Thank you so much for sharing that. 1309 01:22:04.080 --> 01:22:06.200 You know, the other thing in this, 1310 01:22:06.200 --> 01:22:09.040 what she said is other people have it all together. 1311 01:22:09.040 --> 01:22:11.720 That's what the enemy torments her with. 1312 01:22:11.720 --> 01:22:13.640 And this can show up in a lot of different ways too. 1313 01:22:13.640 --> 01:22:16.160 I love that you shared from the parenting perspective 1314 01:22:16.160 --> 01:22:18.360 because I think that's so important. 1315 01:22:20.000 --> 01:22:21.920 Let's just breathe, ladies. 1316 01:22:21.920 --> 01:22:24.040 Let's just be where we are. 1317 01:22:24.920 --> 01:22:29.920 You are becoming, we are all becoming 1318 01:22:29.960 --> 01:22:32.080 who we're gonna be tomorrow. 1319 01:22:32.080 --> 01:22:34.760 So maybe tonight you need to give yourself 1320 01:22:34.760 --> 01:22:36.080 some grace in an area. 1321 01:22:36.960 --> 01:22:39.640 Maybe tonight you need to give some grace. 1322 01:22:39.640 --> 01:22:42.840 Okay, I gotta hustle and get this last breakout in. 1323 01:22:42.840 --> 01:22:44.800 We're gonna shift you for this last breakout 1324 01:22:44.800 --> 01:22:49.600 from victim into victor, okay? 1325 01:22:50.600 --> 01:22:53.000 You wanna shift from waving the banner 1326 01:22:53.000 --> 01:22:55.960 of victim, victim, victim, I'm the victim, 1327 01:22:55.960 --> 01:22:58.720 to waving your banner of victory. 1328 01:22:58.720 --> 01:23:01.720 Some of you guys really need to step into victory tonight. 1329 01:23:02.840 --> 01:23:04.400 You know, and if you're not quite there, 1330 01:23:04.400 --> 01:23:06.120 I'm gonna encourage you to ask the Lord 1331 01:23:06.120 --> 01:23:08.120 to help you to get there. 1332 01:23:08.120 --> 01:23:10.320 We don't need to convince people of our value. 1333 01:23:10.320 --> 01:23:13.280 We don't need to over-exaggerate our value. 1334 01:23:13.280 --> 01:23:15.680 We can just like, kind of like what Beth was saying, 1335 01:23:15.680 --> 01:23:17.800 just show up as who you are. 1336 01:23:18.440 --> 01:23:20.080 You are so valuable. 1337 01:23:20.080 --> 01:23:24.240 You're like, just your worth is incredible to the Lord. 1338 01:23:24.240 --> 01:23:28.720 So step out of the old story and step into the new story. 1339 01:23:28.720 --> 01:23:32.280 Yes, you all, and I'm not minimizing it, you know, 1340 01:23:32.280 --> 01:23:34.240 we've all been through some crap, 1341 01:23:35.600 --> 01:23:38.280 but like, are you gonna stay in victim mode 1342 01:23:38.280 --> 01:23:40.920 and let the crap define you? 1343 01:23:40.920 --> 01:23:44.240 Or are you gonna step into victory tonight 1344 01:23:44.240 --> 01:23:46.920 and start waving that banner over your life? 1345 01:23:46.920 --> 01:23:47.880 It's up to you. 1346 01:23:49.160 --> 01:23:51.760 We all have a choice, okay? 1347 01:23:51.760 --> 01:23:52.760 And there's no shame. 1348 01:23:52.760 --> 01:23:53.600 I'm not shaming you. 1349 01:23:53.600 --> 01:23:55.240 I'm just speaking truth. 1350 01:23:55.240 --> 01:23:57.240 I had to do it. 1351 01:23:57.240 --> 01:23:59.000 And so I get to come and tell you 1352 01:23:59.000 --> 01:24:01.800 and encourage you all to do it, okay? 1353 01:24:01.800 --> 01:24:05.080 So tonight, where do you need to come out of being a victim 1354 01:24:05.080 --> 01:24:06.040 and step into victory? 1355 01:24:06.040 --> 01:24:07.520 That's your breakout session. 1356 01:24:10.360 --> 01:24:13.680 All right, create these. 1357 01:24:14.640 --> 01:24:15.480 There you go. 1358 01:24:17.920 --> 01:24:22.920 All right, go ahead and click to join, make sure. 1359 01:24:37.720 --> 01:24:39.480 All right, Kate, did you get one? 1360 01:24:39.480 --> 01:24:41.920 And Janice, do you guys have one coming your way? 1361 01:24:43.920 --> 01:24:45.280 You should have one there. 1362 01:24:46.920 --> 01:24:48.880 All right, go ahead and click to join. 1363 01:24:54.880 --> 01:24:56.520 Janice, I'm gonna send you to a different one 1364 01:24:56.520 --> 01:24:57.840 if you're not seeing that one. 1365 01:24:57.840 --> 01:24:59.560 Go ahead and click to join that. 1366 01:24:59.560 --> 01:25:00.880 And then let's see, Kate. 1367 01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:05.000 Okay, it's frozen. 1368 01:25:05.000 --> 01:25:11.000 All right, Jennifer, not to put you on the spot, if you can't come online, that's okay. 1369 01:25:11.000 --> 01:25:14.000 Oh, Janice, did it kick you back out? 1370 01:25:14.000 --> 01:25:17.000 I don't know. 1371 01:25:17.000 --> 01:25:19.000 Yeah, it kicked me out. 1372 01:25:19.000 --> 01:25:22.000 I wonder if your internet's spotty where you're at. 1373 01:25:22.000 --> 01:25:24.000 Very possible. 1374 01:25:24.000 --> 01:25:26.000 Okay, let me try another one. 1375 01:25:26.000 --> 01:25:34.000 Okay, do you see it? 1376 01:25:34.000 --> 01:25:36.000 Yeah, there's a delay tonight. 1377 01:25:36.000 --> 01:25:43.000 But, Jennifer, if you want to come on, or you don't even have to come on screen if you just want to talk, but no pressure. 1378 01:25:43.000 --> 01:25:46.000 You can always put in the chat if you're not able to. 1379 01:25:46.000 --> 01:25:55.000 But would love to ask you a question about any areas where maybe you came out of victim and had to start stepping into victory. 1380 01:25:55.000 --> 01:26:02.000 If there's anything that you feel like to share tonight. 1381 01:26:02.000 --> 01:26:11.000 Yeah, I'm thinking, of course there's areas. 1382 01:26:11.000 --> 01:26:26.000 I mean, I think what I'm still working on because I can't think of one thing that I am that I've overcome I that right to my mind but I think I'm very much relate to the food and the looking at other people. 1383 01:26:26.000 --> 01:26:32.000 And it's just kind of going back and reminding myself that the fear and that those thoughts are not. 1384 01:26:32.000 --> 01:26:33.000 They're not God. 1385 01:26:33.000 --> 01:26:49.000 And it's just like every time I get that I just can reassure myself by remembering that God is for me, he's not against me, and that it's so important that you know he wants me to have victory in this area like this is not who he created me to be and 1386 01:26:50.000 --> 01:27:05.000 I have had days where I'm not looking the way I want and I have, you know, weeks when I'm not looking the way I want but I can overcome that. And I will overcome that and I just have to believe and it is, you know, some of it's in my power so yeah, I'll keep thinking. 1387 01:27:06.000 --> 01:27:21.000 No, that's so good. I appreciate what you shared. I'm Kimberly Smith put in the Facebook comments sometimes I feel like a victim of my poor background upbringing, Kimberly I can I can relate or resonate with what you said I used to feel the same way. 1388 01:27:21.000 --> 01:27:27.000 Having grown up and having gone through not only sexual abuse but physical abuse was in our home. 1389 01:27:28.000 --> 01:27:38.000 My dad was a drug addict alcoholic. I mean I could my, my family was hit by a drunk driver like one thing after another after another after another in my life. 1390 01:27:38.000 --> 01:27:56.000 And I absolutely grew up feeling like a victim, I felt like, oh my gosh is anything ever going to get better. And I really had to choose to take my life back and obviously by the grace and mercy of the Lord and accepting Jesus into my heart and life was a huge 1391 01:27:56.000 --> 01:28:13.000 part of that and him walking with me and leading me, whether it was besides still waters or into the battle, you know, so to speak, and God, God just started telling me very early on how important it was for me to watch the things that I said. 1392 01:28:13.000 --> 01:28:39.000 And I just mentioned that book because it really did transform the way I lived my life. And I realized that I couldn't say the negative things anymore and expect a different outcome I had to change. 1393 01:28:40.000 --> 01:28:51.000 And so like I just encourage any of you watching this live that are in the breakouts when if you come back and watch this part of it or if you're watching us on Facebook or in the replay later. 1394 01:28:51.000 --> 01:29:03.000 You know, is there an area where you're saying a lot of negative stuff still about yourself or thinking a lot of negative stuff about yourself. And that's an area where you need to come out of victim and step into victory tonight. 1395 01:29:04.000 --> 01:29:14.000 You know, every spirit is a gentleman, Jesus Christ, God, the father, they're all a gentleman, they're not going to force their way on you, you have to choose, like we all have to choose the better way. 1396 01:29:14.000 --> 01:29:29.000 And, you know, the Bible talks about you know there will be all these paths off offered us but there's one path that is the right way. And it's not like we can't ever make a mistake because God by his grace and mercy will help us get back on that pathway. 1397 01:29:29.000 --> 01:29:41.000 But we want to try to do our best to stay on the path that he has laid out before us the word declares that, you know, as we honor him as we live our lives for him that he will be the voice behind us telling us the way to go. 1398 01:29:41.000 --> 01:29:53.000 And that he will be a lamp unto our feet and a light on to our path like he will show us the path to go and that's what I leaned into a lot and would Kimberly encourage you. 1399 01:29:53.000 --> 01:30:00.000 You know, in that area as well. And it's okay yeah sometimes we might not feel like we're struggling with anything but it's like. 1400 01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:05.600 all of a sudden, just God is bringing more revelation. And so he's just trying to continue 1401 01:30:05.600 --> 01:30:12.240 to set us free from any ways that we are not living again into the fullness of who God 1402 01:30:12.240 --> 01:30:21.440 originally created us to be, to come up into that higher life and heart posture that God 1403 01:30:21.440 --> 01:30:27.520 originally intended for us. And I think someone was asking in the chat earlier, like, what do I 1404 01:30:27.520 --> 01:30:32.640 mean by that? Or, you know, and I would say like, you know, with the materials that you have in the 1405 01:30:32.640 --> 01:30:36.960 heart work, just, you know, continuing to lean into those, go back and revisit those videos, 1406 01:30:36.960 --> 01:30:41.120 go back and read that book again. Y'all, I read the heart work and I'm not saying this as a brag, 1407 01:30:41.120 --> 01:30:48.160 but I think it's important to mention. I read the heart work book probably three times at least. 1408 01:30:48.160 --> 01:30:53.520 And then now just to plan for sessions, I go back and read parts again. But I'm just saying that to 1409 01:30:53.520 --> 01:30:58.960 say, like, I knew that I needed breakthrough and I was willing to do whatever it took. And I felt 1410 01:30:58.960 --> 01:31:04.560 like every time I read it, I was getting something new. The same thing with the videos, the soul ties 1411 01:31:04.560 --> 01:31:10.400 video I watched several times for sure. And so I just want to encourage you guys, like, don't give 1412 01:31:10.400 --> 01:31:16.960 up on yourself. Just keep leaning in to the content, the material, and God is going to keep enabling 1413 01:31:16.960 --> 01:31:24.000 you to break free and more and more and more ways. This is a proven process. It works. We have 1414 01:31:24.000 --> 01:31:30.000 so many people, their lives have been completely transformed and changed by walking this out. So 1415 01:31:30.000 --> 01:31:37.280 we would just encourage you all to do the same. Welcome back ladies. All right. 1416 01:31:40.320 --> 01:31:44.720 Welcome back. Welcome back. We'll wait for everybody else to come back. I know we're like 1417 01:31:44.720 --> 01:31:50.080 on our, we went the full hour and a half tonight, y'all. I hope it was good. I hope it's been a 1418 01:31:50.080 --> 01:31:55.280 blessing to you, but I am not going to keep you late. So I want to encourage you all. I'm normally, 1419 01:31:55.280 --> 01:31:59.280 I would have you share every time you come back, but because we are at the time we're at, 1420 01:32:00.320 --> 01:32:05.120 I am going to pray us out and close us down for the night, but want to encourage you. If there's 1421 01:32:05.120 --> 01:32:09.840 something you really feel like burning on your heart to share, like about coming out of victim, 1422 01:32:09.840 --> 01:32:14.800 I would encourage you to create a post about that and share it. And if there's something else 1423 01:32:14.800 --> 01:32:18.640 that was really like a big breakthrough for you, whether it's tonight or in the days ahead, that 1424 01:32:18.640 --> 01:32:25.280 you'll come back and share those things. Remember to keep showing up for yourself. Like you, you 1425 01:32:25.280 --> 01:32:32.800 matter. And the way that you show up in this process matters. You know, what we put into it 1426 01:32:32.800 --> 01:32:36.480 is what we're going to get out of it. And again, not for those of you that are getting ready to 1427 01:32:36.480 --> 01:32:42.000 shift into phase two, you know, have this week, take this week to really think about what did God 1428 01:32:42.000 --> 01:32:48.080 do in your life in the last five weeks, just really sitting in and pondering and, and asking 1429 01:32:48.080 --> 01:32:53.200 God to show you more about the real you. What does he want you to in this next, you know, we still 1430 01:32:53.200 --> 01:33:00.880 have a month in a week left of 2023. Like how can God transform your life in the next five weeks, 1431 01:33:00.880 --> 01:33:05.280 ladies, whether you're just starting out in heartwork or you're getting ready to step into 1432 01:33:05.280 --> 01:33:10.960 love story accelerator, we, we are here cheering you on. We're excited to see what God is going to 1433 01:33:10.960 --> 01:33:15.280 continue to do. And I'm going to pray for you all and bless you and send you on your way to my 1434 01:33:15.280 --> 01:33:22.400 father. Thank you so much. God, so many amazing women here, God, we love them. We ask you to 1435 01:33:22.400 --> 01:33:27.120 bless them. And we thank you God, that you would help them to feel your love in a new way tonight. 1436 01:33:27.120 --> 01:33:31.920 God, I pray that you would help them to come out of victim and step into victory, God, and show 1437 01:33:31.920 --> 01:33:37.200 them what that looks like. Show them how to activate that in their lives. Like maybe coming 1438 01:33:37.200 --> 01:33:44.240 out of victim and stepping into victory is they stop looking at the, the, the evidence they have 1439 01:33:44.240 --> 01:33:49.280 on the person that betrayed them or treated them wrong God. And they release that stuff and they 1440 01:33:49.280 --> 01:33:55.360 decide to move forward. God, whatever it is, God, I thank you for revealing it for healing. God, 1441 01:33:55.360 --> 01:34:01.840 help them to step into the fullness of who you have called them to be. God, nothing missing, 1442 01:34:01.840 --> 01:34:07.760 nothing lacking, nothing broken. We thank you, God, that you would just bring peace that passes 1443 01:34:07.760 --> 01:34:12.720 all understanding to wash over them in a fresh way. God, I ask you even while they sleep tonight, 1444 01:34:12.720 --> 01:34:17.360 God, give them, give them beautiful dreams, help them to hear what your spirit is saying to them, 1445 01:34:17.360 --> 01:34:23.360 God, and that you would wash over them with Selah, peace and rest. God, that you would help 1446 01:34:23.360 --> 01:34:29.040 them to yes, pause and reflect on all that you've done in their lives and all that you are going to 1447 01:34:29.040 --> 01:34:35.920 do. And we just believe it tonight in Jesus name, ladies, we love you. We will be back again next 1448 01:34:35.920 --> 01:34:41.840 Monday for those that are still in heartwork. We'll still be back for heartwork live sessions 1449 01:34:41.840 --> 01:34:47.840 at 1 PM Eastern and 8 PM Eastern time. Again, for those that are going into love story accelerator, 1450 01:34:47.920 --> 01:34:54.240 be watching for your email. Please don't message us a ton about it. Just, just know it's going to 1451 01:34:54.240 --> 01:34:59.760 be on its way and we will get it to you early next week. You guys will, you'll, you'll know where to 1452 01:35:00.000 --> 01:35:12.000 So everything will be communicated and just because it takes us more time to try to answer everybody when people are all anxious about it, and that takes away from us being able to get that out to you and get that done. 1453 01:35:12.000 --> 01:35:18.000 Okay. All right. Be blessed. See you guys later. Bye. 1454 01:35:18.000 --> 01:35:19.000 Thank you.