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Hello everyone, so good to see you.

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All right, so I'm gonna do a few things here.

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Give me one second.

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All right, I'm having trouble doing what I need to do.

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Bethany, if you could make me the host, that would be great.

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All right, now you can take that back.

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You can take that host permissions back because when I leave, then you'll need to be the host.

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All right, so that's awesome.

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So we're gonna get started right on time here.

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So let's just go ahead.

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Five minutes late.

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That's right on time for most of us.

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That works out.

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All right, so welcome to all community past sessions.

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I just want to do a little housekeeping here at the beginning about our app.

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Who's excited about the app?

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Who's excited about having one place, one stop shop for all things curriculum, for all

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things community?

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Very exciting.

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And I'm excited that we're going to have that opportunity.

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So what's happening this week is all of our team, and that includes all of our amazing

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volunteers that we love so much that help moderate their peer coaches in the groups,

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they run our single cities, all of those folks are going to get an opportunity to go onto

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the app first.

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Why?

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Because we need to try it out in real time with real people.

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Okay.

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So those 50 so people are going to get to go over this week and they're going to get

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to poke around and break things if necessary.

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You know, click on stuff, double click on stuff, do all the things so that we can see

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that it's working the way that we want it to.

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And then what will happen next is our phase three community and our men's community will

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be the next people that get to get migrated over to the app.

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Now, it is my desire that you would love the app so much and you guys, this is not this

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is a custom app.

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This is an app for our community.

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This is an app unlike anybody else's app.

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Okay.

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Meaning that we have taken everything that we do in this community in account when creating

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this app with the developers of what is that we need, what we would love to see happen

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for our community.

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And so everything that you need is there for those of you that always get lost and you're

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like, where's the link?

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Guess what?

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We got you.

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So regardless of what part of the app you're in, you're going to be able to see very clearly

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at the top of your phase, the chat, the conversation that's going, which would be your newsfeed

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on your Facebook groups.

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You can see the curriculum.

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You want to go and revisit something that you missed.

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You'll see a tab that says replays like where the replays.

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It's right here.

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Very easy.

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Very easy.

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A little index at the top, little index tab.

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So everyone remember those file folders, the little tabs, really easy to open the tab and

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just look at what's in that folder, so to speak.

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And then of course, there will be the today tab, y'all.

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It will tell you what's happening today in the last year single, you'll be able to click

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on that tab.

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You'll never miss a session because you'll know what's happening today in real time.

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It'll also tell you the time that it's happening at and even the length that it's happening

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at.

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And then there'll be an events tab for all the future events.

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But guess what?

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When the future event gets to today, it'll be in the today tab.

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And so you can look and kind of, for all of you that are planners, let me see all the

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planner hands.

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You're like, I need to know 50 years in advance, Jackie, of what you've got going on.

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Well, we got you.

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We can't give you 50 years in advance, but we can give you several weeks to a month,

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maybe even more in advance, and you'll be able to plan your schedule accordingly.

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All of you that are in phase three are going to have a regular coaching call, just like

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phase one and two does every single time that this day rolls around.

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And you notice that I'm purposely not telling you what day it is because we haven't decided

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that yet.

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Every time that day rolls around, you're going to have a 1 p.m. session available to you

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and an 8 p.m. session available to you.

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And the good news is, is that 8 p.m. session will always be an all community session.

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It'll be a past session.

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It'll be a single spotlight session where we're letting you see single guys or single

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girls depending on what you're interested in, right?

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And of course, we know what you're interested in based on your gender because we actually

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do gender around here.

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Gender is not fluid here.

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Gender is not relative here.

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Gender is whatever it is.

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Whatever you were born with, that's what you are, y'all.

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And so we're gonna help you out in that area.

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And what else can happen on that day?

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A little love seat fun, a little love story fun.

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And so you'll see just that there's an all community event

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for phase three every single time that, you know,

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on that day.

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So there'll be a one o'clock session

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with Q&A and Ask Jackie stuff.

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And then there'll be that evening session as well.

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And we do that 1 p.m. Eastern session for all of you

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that can't come to nighttime sessions

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and or are international and living in different time zones

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where it is nighttime when you're coming to that session.

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And so we want to expand internationally.

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And so that brings me to our next thing.

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So the app is coming, it's coming to all of you.

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We're gonna get the phase three people on there.

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And then the phase one and two people

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who are not in this group right now.

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So it doesn't matter if I say this or not,

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cause they're not gonna hear it.

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They're going to enter into the app

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when they leave those phases and they come into phase three.

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So that's when they will be on the app.

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And then everyone will be able to partake of the app

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as give us a week or two when you're on there

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cause we're working out kinks,

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we're making sure everything works good.

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But we are hoping that everything will be worked out

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before y'all get on there and say, what's wrong with this?

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Because we've really been working,

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our team has been really working on making sure

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that it's a smooth transition for everyone.

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That being said, last trip single.

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We sold out our first Cartagena retreat.

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I know that it was a little bit out

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of a lot of people's budget, but that's how much it cost.

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We're not making money on that trip.

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Just so you guys know, that's how much it costs

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to go to an all-inclusive type of place like that.

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It was low hanging fruit for us for our first trip

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because we have a Colombian national

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that's helping us with that,

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planning travel for us and doing things.

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that we just went ahead and broke the seal

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on last trip single.

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That being said, there is one spot open for that trip still.

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We thought we filled it,

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but we actually didn't communicate

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to the people that were interested in it.

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So I will go through the emails,

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first come first serve for that one spot.

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For the rest of you, there is a 2025 cruise

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that goes on sale today.

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All right, you're going to only have like three or four days

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to make your down payment.

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I think your down payment's like 200 bucks

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or something like that, $250, whatever it is.

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You have until January of 2025 to pay for your cruise.

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And I think most of the state rooms,

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because they're double occupancy,

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so if you can come with a roommate,

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sign up together and there's a place on the form

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to tell us who you want to room with.

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You can't room with the opposite sex,

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so don't even try it, okay?

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Unless you're married, then you can.

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But if you're not, you can't.

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That will be a co-ed,

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meaning that registration will be open for men and women.

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And we need at least eight state rooms to sell

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by the due date, which I think is the 25th,

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and then we can open up more.

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So if at least 16 people sign up for that

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right out of the gate and pay their deposit,

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then we can open up more and more state rooms

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all the way to, I think, 40,

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which would be a total of 80 people on that cruise with us.

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And that cruise is out of Florida, Cape Canaveral,

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to the Western Caribbean.

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Gonna be a really, really, really fun time.

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We're gonna be making payments on it

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all the way till January.

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So for those of you that are on a fixed income,

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I think that she's gotten it.

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Our travel consortium, travel agent,

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has gotten it to where you can pay like 100 bucks

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here and there and everywhere

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until you get to paying off your cruise, right?

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So that's gonna be exciting.

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Other trips.

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I am going to London and Paris in April

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to scout out a retreat for you all.

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So if you are in Europe already and you're like,

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when is last year's single coming to Europe?

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It's coming in April.

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So I'm gonna go there.

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I'm gonna scout that out.

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I'm gonna talk to leaders in that region,

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trying to get what?

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Two things.

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Trying to get trips opened up for y'all,

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not but not just that,

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trying to get community opened up for you all

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so we can make some international matches.

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I believe that God has said that relocation,

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relocation, relocation is the name of the game

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from 2020 to 2025.

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And I believe that a lot of you

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have international love stories,

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and I wanna help you to connect

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with those international folks.

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And so we are gonna do that.

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And that might mean them moving to the States as well, right?

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Not just you moving to Europe,

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but them moving to the States.

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And so I'm gonna go scout that out,

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and I'm willing to meet up with anyone in Europe

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that's there, any of our community.

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we are going to have a Paris retreat.

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Okay, so for those of you that are like,

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man, I really wanna go to Paris,

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but I don't have anyone to go with,

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then go ahead and put that in the back of your mind

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because we're gonna be announcing stuff about that soon.

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We're gonna have a lot of domestic stuff as well.

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We are going to have a South Florida conference.

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We're going to have an Austin.

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conference for those of you that are like, when is Austin?

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It is going to be right after Austin City Limits.

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So it's going to be in October.

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As soon as the music festival moves on out of Austin,

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that is when we're going to have our Austin retreat.

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For those of you that have heard how amazing it was

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when we had it before, it is really that amazing.

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And we are going to be having that at the end of October.

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And so there's lots of fun things happening

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with the single cities and in-person one day events.

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I'm going to be in Dallas tomorrow.

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If you are in the Dallas Fort Worth area, please come.

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I'm going to post it on my Instagram.

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Go over and look.

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I'm going to be speaking on a panel

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for a singles community that is located in Dallas.

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So come meet some other singles in your area

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that are not attached to this movement.

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There'll be some that are there

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when y'all come and see me,

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but then there'll be others that are just part

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of a different singles group.

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Come and meet them.

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We would love to see you out there.

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Remember, go to my Instagram, Jackie Dorman Official.

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I will be posting information about tomorrow.

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All right.

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That being said, let's get started.

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So tonight you guys were talking about momentum.

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We're talking about momentum,

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and we are going to have both of our master coaches

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on this panel with me.

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So that is Renee and Bethany,

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and we're going to dig into momentum in a couple areas.

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Momentum in your relationship with God,

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your spiritual life, momentum in your purpose on earth,

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you know, and that would include your finances

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because we don't chase money.

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Money chases us when we get into the sweet,

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sweet spot of what we've been created to do.

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And what you're created to do changes

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in every season, you guys.

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And every season, not meaning, you know,

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winter, spring, summer, fall,

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but every season of your life,

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you have to be open to a pivot.

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Got to be open to scaling, open to change.

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And if you feel like you're living in lack and scarcity,

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it's because you probably didn't pivot.

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And maybe you didn't know how to pivot,

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or maybe you were too scared to pivot,

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or maybe you didn't have support to pivot,

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but we're going to talk about

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what builds momentum in your purpose.

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Remember, your purpose is to show this world

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what it looks like to be a son and daughter of God,

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but all of you are going to do that differently

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through your vocation.

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So there's a difference between vision and mission.

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Okay, your mission on this earth is to show this world

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what it looks like to be a son or daughter of God.

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And the way that you walk that out

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in these different seasons of your life

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is going to look different for everyone.

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And it's going to be about your passions and your giftings.

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And your talents and your desire, all of those things.

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And even what pisses you off, that comes into play as well.

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Because I believe that whatever makes you the angriest

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about the world around you is probably a problem

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that you have been called to,

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not just be part of the solution for,

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but also to make some kingdom dent in that issue, okay?

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So solutionaries for those problems

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is what we're called to be.

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And then last but not least,

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what does it look like to gain momentum

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or scale our love lives?

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Go ahead, if you wanna write something down,

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you want a one-liner from Jackie, I say this a lot.

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God is going to scale your heart

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before he scales anything else.

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He's gonna make room here.

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We're never stuck on the outside,

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we're always stuck on the inside.

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So he is going to scale your heart

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in the area of relationship

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before he gives you the relationship

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that you've been praying for, right?

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He's gonna give you capacity to receive it.

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He's gonna scale your heart before he scales your business,

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before he scales whatever it is that you've been praying for

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that you want to scale, that you wanna grow

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and that you wanna enlarge

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and that you wanna gain more territory.

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And God is going to first make that capacity

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inside of your heart.

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That being said, if you're a procrastinator,

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let's see your hands, get them up, get them up fast.

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You're someone who takes two steps forward

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and 18 steps back because you wait too long

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and you sit around and you're a dreamer,

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but you're not a taken actioner.

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Okay, you like to think about it,

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but you don't actually do anything with it.

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That's connected to a lie.

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Procrastination is connected to heart wounds.

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It's connected to trauma.

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Even clinicians, even secular psychologists

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and psychiatrists will tell you that procrastination,

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especially the kind where you're stuck

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and you're not moving forward,

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is always connected to PTSD.

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It's connected to some sort of post trauma behavior pattern.

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Okay, do you believe it?

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So in order for us to talk about momentum tonight,

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you're gonna have to be willing through this conversation

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to look at where you're really stuck

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because you're not stuck out here.

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You're only stuck in here.

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And so what is the trauma-based lie that you're believing

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that's causing you to not take the steps forward?

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Okay, God is going to help you as you help yourself.

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And I know that that is not a popular thing to say.

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It's like, oh, no, faith without action, that's you.

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to helping yourself without works.

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Faith without action is dead religion.

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Write it down.

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You can have dead religion all day long, you guys,

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but it's dead.

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It's dead.

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Meaning nothing is gonna grow from it.

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No life is gonna come from it.

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And so it's important that we get to the roots of this

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while we're talking tonight.

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We might get into some hard work stuff.

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I don't know.

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We'll see where we go.

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All right, so let's go ahead.

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And since Bethany, you're a host now,

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if you could spotlight me and Renee and yourself,

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and then we will go ahead and go after this.

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I do have to leave early

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and then it will just be Renee and Bethany

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finishing the job tonight.

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And I know that it will be great.

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So I couldn't claim host back.

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Renee, can you pin us?

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Okay, wait a second.

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I'll give you host back.

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Let me do it.

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Awesome, thanks.

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Mm-hmm.

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All right, done.

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And if I seem a little hyper, you guys,

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because I drank matcha today.

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It's the gift that keeps on giving.

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And also I went to a wedding today.

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Guys, I went to a beautiful wedding

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of a widow from our community.

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She came in here like a lot of you saying,

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you know, I don't need to do any work.

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I've done a lot of inner healing.

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I'm so healthy.

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But the truth is that, you know,

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everybody has hard work to do.

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And God brought her here to prepare her

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and to get her ready to receive the love

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that he already had coming for her.

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And the fun part of that story is,

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is that she was match made

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by another member of this community.

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And the funner part of that story

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is that that same woman tried to introduce her

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to her now husband, as of right now, she's married,

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to her now husband two years ago.

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And she wasn't ready, wasn't interested,

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didn't want to go there.

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And then guess what?

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She did some more healing, came into this program,

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surrendered to God, surrendered the pen to God.

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And then that introduction circled back around,

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and she's now married to that guy.

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Woo!

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Fun stuff.

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You guys, I've been getting a lot of testimonies too

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of people, you guys remember in phase two

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when I told you, tell everyone you know

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that you wanna get married.

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Put it on your Facebook if you're brave.

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Put it out there.

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I've been getting testimonies from people

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who have been in here for about a year

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that they did that when they first came in, crickets.

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Nothing happened, everyone was like, yay, cool,

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that's great, okay, I'll keep you in mind.

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But now they're getting introductions

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from the people that they said that to.

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Took a minute, guess what?

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There is a timing in this.

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It's not a waiting room type of timing,

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but it's a, hey, you can move

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at the pace of your heart work.

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So if you really wanna focus in

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and let God show you where you're gonna sabotage it

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later on, then we can get this thing moving

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a little quicker, all right?

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So I believe that.

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And remember, it's not just about your readiness,

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it's about your children's readiness.

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For those of you that had kids,

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it's not just about your readiness,

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it's about their readiness.

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And I know you would love for them to be ready

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because you've been divorced for 14 years,

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but just because they haven't been with dad

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doesn't mean that they're ready for you

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to bring them a new man into their lives, okay?

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So it's about their readiness.

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And so doing heart work with your kids is really important.

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Don't just be doing this for yourself.

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Take what you're learning here and do it with your children.

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And we're gonna give you more opportunities for that.

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And then also it's about the other person

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that is gonna partner with you.

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It's about their readiness.

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So that's why it's important that we show up to prayer,

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that we're praying over men,

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we're praying over the revival of marriage and family

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because God puts people in people's lives

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to get them ready.

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And that is an important part as well.

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My father-in-law gave me this beautiful ruby ring

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that he had in the Air Force and I put it on today.

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Guys, family restoration is happening.

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One more thing, one more thing.

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Sorry, this is the matcha talking right now.

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This is the thing, and that is this Saturday

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on Supernatural Saturday,

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we are going to be celebrating springtime and Purim.

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And for those of you that don't know what that is,

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that is the feast of Esther.

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And we are going to be celebrating that together

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because it starts at sundown on Saturday,

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but we're gonna be talking about the prophetic word

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that God gave me today.

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And that is spring season of this year,

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2024 is about divine reversals.

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So if you need a reversal in your life,

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you need a do-over,

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you need whatever didn't work out before

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to be reversed in the circumstances

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to go the different direction.

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If you need that,

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you're gonna wanna be on Supernatural Saturday

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and Sunday night activation.

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All right, we're ready to go.

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So Bethany, let's start talking about how to scale

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and how to gain momentum in our spiritual lives.

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Let's start there.

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So you want me just to riff kind of

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some of the notes I have?

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Is that what you're wanting me to do?

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Yeah, and then you guys can chime in

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and Rizzo and Bethany and I will answer some questions

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as you guys tell us.

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your feedback.

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Yeah, so one of the things I was thinking about

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as far as like when I gained momentum spiritually

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in my own life is I started spending time with people

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who were further along than me, not just in person,

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but like books and absorbing content and absorbing wisdom

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from other people that had giftings that I not just desired,

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but I wanted to step into in order to take territory

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for the kingdom, but also the in-person

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and not just what I could get from them,

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but how could I be a blessing to them as well?

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So there's this mutual exchange

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that I would even consider a divine exchange

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that happens that I wouldn't just go to them

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asking for something from them,

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but I would go to be a blessing to them

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and in that that I would receive something through them

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that the Lord had for me.

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And so years ago, I made a list of people

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that I wanted to meet and to come into contact with.

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Some of those people are big name people,

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but I still believe God is working in those.

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So that's one of the things I felt like

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was a big shifter for me spiritually.

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Okay, let's stop right there.

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Let's unpack that for a second.

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Who has a list of people that you would wanna meet,

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that you would want to ask a question to

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or have so into your life?

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Who has a list like that?

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It looks like like one person or three people.

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All right, so I want you to put in the comments right now

519
00:21:29.240 --> 00:21:30.540
who would be on your list?

520
00:21:31.680 --> 00:21:33.520
And I won't be offended if I'm not on that list.

521
00:21:33.520 --> 00:21:34.360
Oh, shoot.

522
00:21:35.920 --> 00:21:38.120
You guys get a heavy dose of me all the time.

523
00:21:38.120 --> 00:21:39.440
Who's on that list?

524
00:21:39.440 --> 00:21:41.440
Have you ever thought about it?

525
00:21:41.440 --> 00:21:43.600
And you're like, well, we're not supposed to idolize people.

526
00:21:43.600 --> 00:21:45.160
That's not idolizing people.

527
00:21:46.400 --> 00:21:50.520
That's respecting the success and the anointing

528
00:21:50.520 --> 00:21:54.640
and the gift that someone is to either the body of Christ

529
00:21:54.640 --> 00:21:58.760
or just the world and wanting to honor them or meet them

530
00:21:58.760 --> 00:22:01.720
or believing that they have something to impart to you.

531
00:22:01.720 --> 00:22:04.040
There's a strong precedent of impartation

532
00:22:04.040 --> 00:22:04.960
in the word of God.

533
00:22:07.200 --> 00:22:08.240
All right, let's see.

534
00:22:09.480 --> 00:22:10.320
Who we got?

535
00:22:10.320 --> 00:22:12.360
Rizzo, Bethany, who are they saying?

536
00:22:14.680 --> 00:22:17.240
Yeah, so I see John and Lisa Bevere.

537
00:22:17.240 --> 00:22:18.980
I mean, I saw a lot of Jackie.

538
00:22:20.480 --> 00:22:22.360
Us as the team, Amanda Grace.

539
00:22:22.360 --> 00:22:24.440
I see Donna De Silva.

540
00:22:25.400 --> 00:22:28.320
Let's see, Real Talk Kim, Bill Johnson,

541
00:22:28.320 --> 00:22:30.640
Brene Brown, Kevin Young.

542
00:22:31.880 --> 00:22:34.780
I see another Bill Johnson, Randy Clark,

543
00:22:35.840 --> 00:22:38.360
Dano Arthur.

544
00:22:38.360 --> 00:22:40.040
I'm not sure if I think,

545
00:22:40.040 --> 00:22:42.360
and then it says Dano, Arthur Burke, Randy Clark.

546
00:22:42.360 --> 00:22:45.200
So I'm just not sure if that's, I think that's two people.

547
00:22:46.720 --> 00:22:50.160
Brandon Lake, Jennison Franklin, Annie Downs,

548
00:22:50.560 --> 00:22:52.280
Michael Dalton, Chris Vallotton.

549
00:22:52.280 --> 00:22:53.760
Do you want me to keep going?

550
00:22:53.760 --> 00:22:55.320
Yeah, you know what's so fun about this list

551
00:22:55.320 --> 00:22:57.760
is that I have had the privilege

552
00:22:57.760 --> 00:23:00.320
to have some of these people so into my life.

553
00:23:00.320 --> 00:23:02.960
Dano McCullum, I spent holidays at his house, y'all.

554
00:23:02.960 --> 00:23:05.160
I spent Thanksgiving and Christmas time

555
00:23:05.160 --> 00:23:08.600
with Dano and Regina, good friends of mine.

556
00:23:08.600 --> 00:23:12.240
Chris Vallotton also has become a friend of mine

557
00:23:12.240 --> 00:23:14.600
and just saw him the other day

558
00:23:14.600 --> 00:23:17.160
and has become a father to me.

559
00:23:17.160 --> 00:23:21.040
And so very much, very much appreciate that.

560
00:23:21.040 --> 00:23:23.480
Someone put, I saw someone put Michael Dalton on here.

561
00:23:23.480 --> 00:23:25.440
I was just hanging out with Michael the other day.

562
00:23:25.440 --> 00:23:27.360
In fact, I prophesied over Michael.

563
00:23:27.360 --> 00:23:29.880
I gave, you know, hanging out, eating with Michael,

564
00:23:29.880 --> 00:23:32.960
friend of mine and, you know, prophesied over him.

565
00:23:32.960 --> 00:23:35.120
So the reason why I say that is to say this,

566
00:23:35.120 --> 00:23:37.680
is that these people that you're holding in high esteem,

567
00:23:37.680 --> 00:23:40.000
they could actually become your friends.

568
00:23:40.000 --> 00:23:42.600
They could actually be people that you don't know right now,

569
00:23:42.600 --> 00:23:45.120
but you end up doing community with later, right?

570
00:23:45.120 --> 00:23:47.920
Being in community, being in family with them.

571
00:23:47.920 --> 00:23:51.800
And so it's important for us to the people

572
00:23:51.800 --> 00:23:53.480
that are ahead of us, so to speak,

573
00:23:53.480 --> 00:23:55.040
in areas where we really want breakthrough

574
00:23:55.040 --> 00:23:56.320
to be praying over them.

575
00:23:56.320 --> 00:23:59.320
So that is the next key to momentum.

576
00:23:59.320 --> 00:24:01.080
Bethany just shared some really great nuggets.

577
00:24:01.080 --> 00:24:02.680
Now I wanna share one.

578
00:24:02.680 --> 00:24:06.200
If you really respect and admire

579
00:24:06.200 --> 00:24:08.800
something that someone else is carrying

580
00:24:08.800 --> 00:24:10.760
and you resonate with it because you believe

581
00:24:10.760 --> 00:24:13.560
that you're carrying something similar, pray for them.

582
00:24:15.680 --> 00:24:17.160
Pray for them.

583
00:24:17.160 --> 00:24:18.360
Pray that God would bless them.

584
00:24:18.360 --> 00:24:19.560
Pray that God would increase them.

585
00:24:19.560 --> 00:24:21.840
Pray that God would cover them and protect them.

586
00:24:21.840 --> 00:24:23.440
Pray for them, okay?

587
00:24:23.440 --> 00:24:27.120
Because you have no idea what they have to do or sacrifice

588
00:24:27.120 --> 00:24:30.960
to get to that level of success in that area, right?

589
00:24:30.960 --> 00:24:32.880
And it's important that we're doing that

590
00:24:32.880 --> 00:24:36.840
because I believe that if you really respect someone

591
00:24:36.840 --> 00:24:38.200
and you really believe

592
00:24:38.200 --> 00:24:40.000
that they're carrying something important,

593
00:24:40.000 --> 00:24:42.680
then it's important for us to pray for them,

594
00:24:42.720 --> 00:24:45.880
especially if there's someone that you always listen to.

595
00:24:45.880 --> 00:24:47.040
You always watch their videos.

596
00:24:47.040 --> 00:24:48.080
You always read their words.

597
00:24:48.080 --> 00:24:50.200
A lot of us love Lana Bowser, right?

598
00:24:50.200 --> 00:24:52.600
Have you ever donated any money to her ministry?

599
00:24:53.720 --> 00:24:57.280
If you love what she's saying, sow a seed on it.

600
00:24:57.280 --> 00:24:59.640
I know that's so religious to a lot of people

601
00:24:59.640 --> 00:25:00.480
and a lot of people.

602
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:02.320
You have been abused by paying tithes.

603
00:25:02.320 --> 00:25:05.140
You've been abused by the whole sow a seed kind of idea.

604
00:25:05.140 --> 00:25:08.020
Trust me, I got the mug and t-shirt on all that.

605
00:25:08.020 --> 00:25:08.860
I get it.

606
00:25:08.860 --> 00:25:09.900
But you know what I've learned?

607
00:25:09.900 --> 00:25:14.400
I've learned that money is the least thing in the kingdom.

608
00:25:14.400 --> 00:25:15.900
Meaning if God can't trust you with it,

609
00:25:15.900 --> 00:25:17.800
he can't trust you with anything else.

610
00:25:18.940 --> 00:25:23.380
Money is the smallest thing in the kingdom.

611
00:25:24.220 --> 00:25:26.100
And so for those of us that are praying for anointing,

612
00:25:26.100 --> 00:25:27.060
we're praying for influence,

613
00:25:27.060 --> 00:25:28.680
we're praying for all of those things,

614
00:25:28.720 --> 00:25:31.920
but we won't use our money to invest in our betterment

615
00:25:31.920 --> 00:25:34.840
or invest in the furthering of something else

616
00:25:34.840 --> 00:25:36.600
that's kingdom, then guess what?

617
00:25:37.820 --> 00:25:40.040
That means we're pretty immature still in that area.

618
00:25:40.040 --> 00:25:41.240
And I had to learn that, you guys,

619
00:25:41.240 --> 00:25:44.200
because I was discipled by a church

620
00:25:44.200 --> 00:25:46.140
that used money to abuse people.

621
00:25:47.320 --> 00:25:48.600
Pay your tithes and if you don't,

622
00:25:48.600 --> 00:25:50.120
God's gonna curse you and take your house.

623
00:25:50.120 --> 00:25:51.540
Your house is gonna burn down.

624
00:25:51.540 --> 00:25:53.920
Or your car is gonna blow up

625
00:25:53.920 --> 00:25:55.320
and you're not gonna have a car anymore

626
00:25:55.320 --> 00:25:56.780
because you didn't pay your tithes.

627
00:25:56.780 --> 00:25:58.560
Well, I think it's more important to pay your light bill

628
00:25:59.400 --> 00:26:00.240
than pay your tithes.

629
00:26:00.240 --> 00:26:02.760
And if you're really that broke that you definitely,

630
00:26:02.760 --> 00:26:06.280
God doesn't need your money, but he does need your heart.

631
00:26:06.280 --> 00:26:07.760
And so it's important that we understand

632
00:26:07.760 --> 00:26:09.940
that if it's a heart issue, it's a heart issue, right?

633
00:26:09.940 --> 00:26:11.880
But if someone really blesses you

634
00:26:11.880 --> 00:26:14.720
and they're carrying something really authentic,

635
00:26:14.720 --> 00:26:17.440
then sow into it, whether it's money,

636
00:26:17.440 --> 00:26:20.500
whether it's your time, whether it's your talent.

637
00:26:20.500 --> 00:26:23.840
My mom used to volunteer at Joyce Meyers conferences.

638
00:26:23.840 --> 00:26:25.260
She would sign up to volunteer.

639
00:26:25.260 --> 00:26:26.100
What was she doing?

640
00:26:26.100 --> 00:26:28.280
She was sowing into that ministry.

641
00:26:29.000 --> 00:26:31.400
She was investing her time and her talent

642
00:26:31.400 --> 00:26:34.680
with caring for people and helping people find out

643
00:26:34.680 --> 00:26:36.280
where they need to go and where they need to sit.

644
00:26:36.280 --> 00:26:37.640
My mom has a hospitality gift.

645
00:26:37.640 --> 00:26:39.440
She did when she was on this earth,

646
00:26:39.440 --> 00:26:41.160
she was using that to sow into it.

647
00:26:41.160 --> 00:26:45.160
So Bethany and Rizzo, that's another way we can get momentum

648
00:26:45.160 --> 00:26:49.960
is by blessing the people that bless us

649
00:26:49.960 --> 00:26:54.000
and sowing into the people that are sowing into us.

650
00:26:54.000 --> 00:26:56.200
I believe in that divine exchange.

651
00:26:56.200 --> 00:26:57.040
I do.

652
00:26:57.040 --> 00:27:00.080
I believe that that seed, if it's in good soil,

653
00:27:00.080 --> 00:27:05.080
will take root and bear fruit and quickly a lot of times.

654
00:27:05.420 --> 00:27:06.260
And guess what?

655
00:27:06.260 --> 00:27:07.080
You're good soil too.

656
00:27:07.080 --> 00:27:08.120
I want you to say that over yourself.

657
00:27:08.120 --> 00:27:08.960
I'm good soil.

658
00:27:10.040 --> 00:27:11.320
I am good soil.

659
00:27:11.320 --> 00:27:12.960
I've done my hard work and guess what?

660
00:27:12.960 --> 00:27:13.940
I'm good soil.

661
00:27:15.080 --> 00:27:17.240
So as I sow into others,

662
00:27:17.240 --> 00:27:20.420
God is going to bring people to sow into me.

663
00:27:21.980 --> 00:27:23.660
All right, so Rizzo, you're up.

664
00:27:23.660 --> 00:27:24.800
You're up to bat on this one.

665
00:27:24.800 --> 00:27:25.880
What do you got?

666
00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:27.280
Yeah, so this is a new one

667
00:27:27.280 --> 00:27:29.320
that I've done recently in the last year,

668
00:27:29.320 --> 00:27:32.880
especially you guys, when I left my full-time job.

669
00:27:32.880 --> 00:27:34.440
And to Jackie's point,

670
00:27:34.440 --> 00:27:38.400
like when I wasn't able to tie my church like I used to,

671
00:27:38.400 --> 00:27:40.040
I've been volunteering my time,

672
00:27:40.040 --> 00:27:41.400
but I'm doing it differently.

673
00:27:41.400 --> 00:27:44.120
It's been so easy for me to gravitate

674
00:27:44.120 --> 00:27:46.960
towards the things at church that I already know how to do.

675
00:27:46.960 --> 00:27:50.480
And so I've been delving out into ministries

676
00:27:50.480 --> 00:27:51.960
that I never thought I would do.

677
00:27:51.960 --> 00:27:53.240
Like two years ago,

678
00:27:53.240 --> 00:27:55.680
I helped put together the set

679
00:27:55.680 --> 00:27:59.440
for our Easter play in service.

680
00:27:59.440 --> 00:28:02.960
And I worked alongside somebody who is a florist

681
00:28:02.960 --> 00:28:05.160
and owns like a home and garden thing.

682
00:28:05.160 --> 00:28:07.480
And she taught me about flower arranging.

683
00:28:09.360 --> 00:28:12.280
And since then, at two of my nieces' weddings,

684
00:28:12.280 --> 00:28:14.620
I'm now becoming the flower arranger

685
00:28:14.620 --> 00:28:15.840
for all the centerpieces.

686
00:28:15.840 --> 00:28:19.760
Like I don't know how to grow a flower to save my life,

687
00:28:19.760 --> 00:28:23.520
but I can now arrange bouquets like no one's business.

688
00:28:23.520 --> 00:28:26.920
And I'm also helping with the landscaping team.

689
00:28:26.920 --> 00:28:30.040
I helped paint the murals at our new building.

690
00:28:30.040 --> 00:28:32.400
And so it's exposing me to new people

691
00:28:32.400 --> 00:28:33.880
in the church community,

692
00:28:33.880 --> 00:28:37.760
finding out about new talents I didn't know that I had.

693
00:28:37.760 --> 00:28:39.760
And it's kind of stretching me and growing me.

694
00:28:39.760 --> 00:28:42.040
Like it would be so easy for me to volunteer

695
00:28:42.040 --> 00:28:43.720
in prayer and women's ministry,

696
00:28:43.720 --> 00:28:45.280
because that's what I know how to do it.

697
00:28:45.280 --> 00:28:48.160
But it's been so fun helping, you know,

698
00:28:48.640 --> 00:28:51.480
the men with the landscaping and behind the scenes here

699
00:28:51.480 --> 00:28:53.240
and planting the flowers over here.

700
00:28:53.240 --> 00:28:55.400
So if you feel like your spiritual life

701
00:28:55.400 --> 00:28:59.440
is kind of stuck and in a rut, go try something different.

702
00:28:59.440 --> 00:29:00.800
And the fact that you're like, oh my gosh,

703
00:29:00.800 --> 00:29:02.520
but I would be terrible at it,

704
00:29:02.520 --> 00:29:04.000
that's actually why I want you to do it.

705
00:29:04.000 --> 00:29:07.240
Because I think if it stretches you

706
00:29:07.240 --> 00:29:09.480
to learn something new in the church,

707
00:29:09.480 --> 00:29:12.000
in hopefully a safe environment,

708
00:29:12.000 --> 00:29:13.720
you're gonna learn something new about yourself.

709
00:29:13.720 --> 00:29:15.960
Because a lot of what Bethany and I and Jack

710
00:29:15.960 --> 00:29:19.040
are asking you to do in this community is new stuff.

711
00:29:19.040 --> 00:29:20.920
We're asking you to try things differently

712
00:29:20.920 --> 00:29:22.760
or see it from a different perspective.

713
00:29:22.760 --> 00:29:26.600
And if you could see your church through a different lens,

714
00:29:26.600 --> 00:29:29.200
you might start to see the men and women in your life

715
00:29:29.200 --> 00:29:30.360
through a different lens,

716
00:29:30.360 --> 00:29:32.120
and you might show up differently.

717
00:29:32.120 --> 00:29:35.240
So that has really stretched me and grown me

718
00:29:35.240 --> 00:29:36.240
in the last couple of years.

719
00:29:36.240 --> 00:29:38.960
So spiritually, that's one of the things

720
00:29:38.960 --> 00:29:40.320
I've been trying to do.

721
00:29:41.320 --> 00:29:42.360
That was so good, Renee.

722
00:29:42.360 --> 00:29:43.600
I was sitting here thinking too,

723
00:29:43.600 --> 00:29:46.000
I wrote down on my paper, something similar.

724
00:29:47.280 --> 00:29:49.240
I wrote down go into,

725
00:29:49.240 --> 00:29:50.720
now don't take this the wrong way you all,

726
00:29:50.720 --> 00:29:53.200
but go into spiritual environments

727
00:29:53.200 --> 00:29:55.080
that are outside what you're used to.

728
00:29:56.080 --> 00:29:57.480
Just from my perspective,

729
00:29:57.480 --> 00:30:00.120
I think that's a really good way to start.

730
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.760
of going into different denominations to understand them.

731
00:30:00.120 --> 00:30:02.640
And I think that's a really good way to start.

732
00:30:02.640 --> 00:30:05.360
And I think that's a really good way to start.

733
00:30:03.760 --> 00:30:06.560
You know, there's things like Koinonia, Maus walks,

734
00:30:05.360 --> 00:30:07.720
And I think that's a really good way to start.

735
00:30:06.560 --> 00:30:08.480
where you're intermingling with people

736
00:30:08.480 --> 00:30:10.040
that are from different denominations

737
00:30:10.040 --> 00:30:11.980
and you're coming together as the body of Christ.

738
00:30:11.980 --> 00:30:15.280
But also in the sense that, you know,

739
00:30:15.280 --> 00:30:16.680
like kind of what Renee's saying,

740
00:30:16.680 --> 00:30:19.960
like go into something and minister,

741
00:30:19.960 --> 00:30:23.000
even in a nonprofit that's outside the church.

742
00:30:23.000 --> 00:30:26.440
I remember years ago when I started going and volunteering

743
00:30:26.440 --> 00:30:29.480
and just going to an inner city school and reading to kids.

744
00:30:29.520 --> 00:30:33.200
Like doing that still, I think about that all the time.

745
00:30:33.200 --> 00:30:35.840
Like the impact that I was having on those kids,

746
00:30:35.840 --> 00:30:37.600
just by going and reading a book to them,

747
00:30:37.600 --> 00:30:39.560
a lot of them didn't have parents

748
00:30:39.560 --> 00:30:40.620
that would do that kind of stuff.

749
00:30:40.620 --> 00:30:42.800
So getting outside of your comfort zone,

750
00:30:42.800 --> 00:30:45.740
investing on other people, investing in the community,

751
00:30:45.740 --> 00:30:49.160
and letting God show up through that is pretty huge.

752
00:30:51.720 --> 00:30:52.560
Yeah.

753
00:31:00.440 --> 00:31:01.280
Hi.

754
00:31:01.280 --> 00:31:02.100
Okay.

755
00:31:02.100 --> 00:31:02.940
So I agree.

756
00:31:02.940 --> 00:31:06.120
Sorry, I was eating and listening and it was so good.

757
00:31:06.120 --> 00:31:09.240
But you guys noticed that we sort of have married now,

758
00:31:09.240 --> 00:31:12.280
relationship with God and our purpose.

759
00:31:12.280 --> 00:31:13.680
So while we said, we're gonna talk about

760
00:31:13.680 --> 00:31:15.920
these three distinct areas of momentum,

761
00:31:15.920 --> 00:31:18.400
you see how two of them are already doing what?

762
00:31:18.400 --> 00:31:19.420
They're merging, right?

763
00:31:19.420 --> 00:31:20.260
They're converging.

764
00:31:20.260 --> 00:31:21.320
Why is that?

765
00:31:21.320 --> 00:31:24.900
Because it's very difficult to remove your who from your do.

766
00:31:26.340 --> 00:31:28.000
Okay?

767
00:31:28.000 --> 00:31:28.840
It's very difficult.

768
00:31:29.200 --> 00:31:31.760
And I know that we had all this talk for a long time.

769
00:31:31.760 --> 00:31:34.800
It's like, oh, pay attention to your who and not your do.

770
00:31:34.800 --> 00:31:39.020
Well, the Bible says that faith without action or works,

771
00:31:39.020 --> 00:31:41.740
your do is dead religion.

772
00:31:42.880 --> 00:31:45.240
So these two things are interlocked.

773
00:31:45.240 --> 00:31:46.080
Why is that?

774
00:31:46.080 --> 00:31:48.140
Because the proof of belief is action.

775
00:31:48.140 --> 00:31:50.760
If you believe that you're a son or daughter of God,

776
00:31:50.760 --> 00:31:52.400
if you believe that Jesus died for you,

777
00:31:52.400 --> 00:31:55.000
if you believe in the finished work of the cross,

778
00:31:55.000 --> 00:31:56.240
if you believe in John 10, 10,

779
00:31:56.240 --> 00:31:57.840
if you believe in any of those things,

780
00:31:57.840 --> 00:32:00.440
which is this vertical relationship, right?

781
00:32:00.440 --> 00:32:02.160
This vertical identity,

782
00:32:02.160 --> 00:32:04.140
then it's gonna look like something.

783
00:32:05.560 --> 00:32:06.720
It's gonna look like something.

784
00:32:06.720 --> 00:32:09.160
It's gonna be looking like you becoming passionate

785
00:32:09.160 --> 00:32:13.920
and impassioned with whatever is hurting

786
00:32:13.920 --> 00:32:15.980
the people of this world, right?

787
00:32:17.120 --> 00:32:20.600
At the end of the day, all that's gonna matter is people.

788
00:32:20.600 --> 00:32:21.440
At the end of the day,

789
00:32:21.440 --> 00:32:24.700
all that's gonna matter is eternal things.

790
00:32:24.700 --> 00:32:25.680
And that's people.

791
00:32:25.680 --> 00:32:27.520
The only thing that's gonna last for eternity

792
00:32:28.200 --> 00:32:29.760
is faith, hope, and love and people.

793
00:32:29.760 --> 00:32:31.000
Those are the things.

794
00:32:31.000 --> 00:32:33.240
And so everything that we do with our lives

795
00:32:33.240 --> 00:32:34.440
needs to lead back to that.

796
00:32:34.440 --> 00:32:37.040
Now, a lot of us try to have this kind of relationship.

797
00:32:37.040 --> 00:32:37.960
We try to get it right.

798
00:32:37.960 --> 00:32:40.320
We try to cross every T and dot every I

799
00:32:40.320 --> 00:32:42.000
and pray for a certain amount of time

800
00:32:42.000 --> 00:32:43.760
or read the Bible or do the things.

801
00:32:43.760 --> 00:32:46.160
And we feel guilty and ashamed if we don't do that.

802
00:32:46.160 --> 00:32:49.980
But what we don't realize is that there's actually

803
00:32:49.980 --> 00:32:53.800
a greater way to experience the relationship with God

804
00:32:53.800 --> 00:32:57.960
than just you sitting and trying to do a list of works,

805
00:32:57.960 --> 00:32:59.600
like spiritual works.

806
00:32:59.600 --> 00:33:03.220
And that is called serving people.

807
00:33:04.220 --> 00:33:05.400
Why do I say this?

808
00:33:05.400 --> 00:33:06.680
Because when you serve people,

809
00:33:06.680 --> 00:33:08.760
if we wanna really gain momentum in this area,

810
00:33:08.760 --> 00:33:10.520
when you serve people,

811
00:33:10.520 --> 00:33:13.080
it actually shows you what God looks like.

812
00:33:13.080 --> 00:33:15.780
Because you know, we can't see him, right?

813
00:33:15.780 --> 00:33:17.920
But we can see him through what?

814
00:33:17.920 --> 00:33:19.440
Through people.

815
00:33:20.760 --> 00:33:21.600
And guess what?

816
00:33:21.600 --> 00:33:24.400
People get to see him through us.

817
00:33:24.400 --> 00:33:26.720
There is nothing better in this life

818
00:33:26.720 --> 00:33:30.740
than knowing that you made an eternal impact on someone.

819
00:33:30.740 --> 00:33:33.080
And it could have been the simplest thing that you did,

820
00:33:33.080 --> 00:33:35.680
but it made an eternal impact

821
00:33:35.680 --> 00:33:37.280
because you showed them what God looks like.

822
00:33:37.280 --> 00:33:39.640
You showed them his kindness or his goodness.

823
00:33:39.640 --> 00:33:41.520
You showed them his forgiveness.

824
00:33:41.520 --> 00:33:44.360
You showed them his provision.

825
00:33:44.360 --> 00:33:45.840
And it draws you closer to God

826
00:33:45.840 --> 00:33:48.560
because every time you get to show someone

827
00:33:48.560 --> 00:33:51.520
what God looks like or what Jesus looks like, essentially,

828
00:33:52.320 --> 00:33:54.480
because he was the physical vision of God, right?

829
00:33:54.480 --> 00:33:56.400
If you've seen me, you've seen the father.

830
00:33:56.400 --> 00:33:57.880
Every time you do that,

831
00:33:57.880 --> 00:34:00.680
you get to see what he looks like more clearly as well.

832
00:34:02.480 --> 00:34:03.440
Isn't that amazing?

833
00:34:04.640 --> 00:34:05.480
And what does that do?

834
00:34:05.480 --> 00:34:07.320
That fuels the relationship

835
00:34:07.320 --> 00:34:10.239
of where you want to get to know him more.

836
00:34:10.239 --> 00:34:11.760
You want to read the word.

837
00:34:11.760 --> 00:34:13.760
You want to listen to,

838
00:34:13.760 --> 00:34:16.100
and I agree with what Bethany said at the beginning

839
00:34:16.100 --> 00:34:17.560
about, hey, read the books, do that.

840
00:34:17.560 --> 00:34:19.239
But please be careful with that

841
00:34:19.239 --> 00:34:21.880
because there's a lot of voices out there

842
00:34:21.880 --> 00:34:25.880
that are saying something very authentic

843
00:34:25.880 --> 00:34:27.719
and very biblically based.

844
00:34:27.719 --> 00:34:28.679
It's from the Bible.

845
00:34:28.679 --> 00:34:31.080
It's right, but it's not for you.

846
00:34:32.080 --> 00:34:34.860
And I know you're like, what, what?

847
00:34:34.860 --> 00:34:38.239
Yes, because we live in a digital age,

848
00:34:38.239 --> 00:34:42.800
you at your fingertips have access to a bazillion sermons,

849
00:34:44.400 --> 00:34:46.400
so many scriptures,

850
00:34:46.400 --> 00:34:49.040
and so many podcasts that are talking about scriptures

851
00:34:49.880 --> 00:34:54.880
and so much, you know, someone's commentary on scriptures.

852
00:34:55.400 --> 00:34:57.520
And what's the problem with that?

853
00:34:57.520 --> 00:35:02.520
All of you have access to a bazillion sermons.

854
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.560
How many of us are on here right now?

855
00:35:01.560 --> 00:35:04.600
145 of us, all of you right now,

856
00:35:04.600 --> 00:35:06.680
at any given moment in your life,

857
00:35:06.680 --> 00:35:10.320
God is doing something in your life, okay?

858
00:35:10.320 --> 00:35:12.720
You have a season that you're in.

859
00:35:12.720 --> 00:35:15.280
You have a path that you're on.

860
00:35:15.280 --> 00:35:17.600
And the problem is, is that just like the dating apps,

861
00:35:17.600 --> 00:35:21.040
there's this illusion of all of these things.

862
00:35:21.040 --> 00:35:23.440
And a lot of them are diametrically opposed

863
00:35:23.440 --> 00:35:24.360
to each other, right?

864
00:35:24.360 --> 00:35:26.280
Yeah, they all come from the word of God,

865
00:35:26.280 --> 00:35:29.960
but it's like, oh, you want a breakthrough?

866
00:35:29.960 --> 00:35:31.000
Okay, sit up.

867
00:35:31.000 --> 00:35:34.960
No, the other one says, lay down, sit down, stand up,

868
00:35:34.960 --> 00:35:37.640
do a jig, dance a jig, get quiet, get loud,

869
00:35:37.640 --> 00:35:39.800
speak it out loud, meditate in your heart.

870
00:35:39.800 --> 00:35:41.720
It's just schizophrenic, y'all.

871
00:35:43.040 --> 00:35:44.720
It is.

872
00:35:44.720 --> 00:35:47.360
And it's gonna have you all over the place.

873
00:35:47.360 --> 00:35:51.040
Just because it's from God, doesn't mean it's for you.

874
00:35:51.040 --> 00:35:52.880
Write that down.

875
00:35:52.880 --> 00:35:56.360
Just because it's from God, doesn't mean it's for you.

876
00:35:56.360 --> 00:35:58.040
So one of the main things that you need to do

877
00:35:58.040 --> 00:36:01.480
in order to scale your relationship with God

878
00:36:01.480 --> 00:36:03.840
or just your spirituality in general,

879
00:36:03.840 --> 00:36:07.600
is you need to discern where you are.

880
00:36:07.600 --> 00:36:08.440
Where am I?

881
00:36:08.440 --> 00:36:10.320
What am I working on?

882
00:36:10.320 --> 00:36:13.880
What keeps coming up that I'm working on right now?

883
00:36:13.880 --> 00:36:18.840
And then only focus on things that God brings to you

884
00:36:18.840 --> 00:36:22.720
that will help you to continue in that vein.

885
00:36:22.720 --> 00:36:25.240
You guys, I stopped reading books for a decade.

886
00:36:25.240 --> 00:36:27.840
I know they're like, leaders are readers.

887
00:36:28.520 --> 00:36:29.720
Cool.

888
00:36:29.720 --> 00:36:33.240
But I was devouring so many books in my early discipleship

889
00:36:33.240 --> 00:36:34.720
that I was all over the place,

890
00:36:34.720 --> 00:36:36.120
like what I'm saying right now,

891
00:36:36.120 --> 00:36:40.880
and it was actually causing me to what?

892
00:36:40.880 --> 00:36:42.680
Lose momentum.

893
00:36:44.840 --> 00:36:46.520
I want you to think about a river.

894
00:36:46.520 --> 00:36:50.400
Close your eyes and picture the mightiest, craziest,

895
00:36:50.400 --> 00:36:55.400
rough, white-capped, greatest river in the world

896
00:36:55.440 --> 00:36:56.760
for whitewater rafting,

897
00:36:56.760 --> 00:36:58.800
except it might be too dangerous.

898
00:36:58.800 --> 00:37:01.040
Hippos are popping out of it everywhere

899
00:37:01.040 --> 00:37:02.360
and they're chasing your boat.

900
00:37:02.360 --> 00:37:04.680
Like, I want you to picture this river.

901
00:37:04.680 --> 00:37:05.520
It's crazy.

902
00:37:06.440 --> 00:37:07.280
All right?

903
00:37:07.280 --> 00:37:09.840
And then I want you to picture that at like every,

904
00:37:09.840 --> 00:37:13.760
like, let's say 30, 40 feet,

905
00:37:13.760 --> 00:37:15.200
there's a tributary running off it.

906
00:37:15.200 --> 00:37:17.800
There's a smaller river running off of that river.

907
00:37:20.360 --> 00:37:23.440
All these little tributary rivers running off that river.

908
00:37:23.440 --> 00:37:24.480
Answer me this.

909
00:37:24.520 --> 00:37:26.440
How long do you think that river

910
00:37:26.440 --> 00:37:30.360
is going to be a rushing, mighty river

911
00:37:30.360 --> 00:37:32.760
with all of those leaks?

912
00:37:36.840 --> 00:37:38.400
There's so many leaks, right?

913
00:37:40.480 --> 00:37:45.480
How full do you think that your cistern,

914
00:37:45.880 --> 00:37:48.520
your vase, your whatever, your vessel is

915
00:37:48.520 --> 00:37:51.480
if there's all of these holes in it?

916
00:37:52.480 --> 00:37:54.440
We're all kinds of stuff leaking out.

917
00:37:54.440 --> 00:37:56.040
And that is what happens

918
00:37:56.040 --> 00:38:00.320
when we are going a million different directions.

919
00:38:01.680 --> 00:38:03.440
We lose momentum.

920
00:38:03.440 --> 00:38:05.800
That river loses momentum.

921
00:38:05.800 --> 00:38:09.720
And so it's important for us to know where we are

922
00:38:09.720 --> 00:38:11.640
and what we're working on,

923
00:38:11.640 --> 00:38:15.160
and then to only look at stuff

924
00:38:15.160 --> 00:38:18.960
that is going to help us in that.

925
00:38:19.640 --> 00:38:21.200
And that includes people.

926
00:38:21.200 --> 00:38:22.440
You can have all kinds of friends.

927
00:38:22.440 --> 00:38:23.480
It's great to have friends.

928
00:38:23.480 --> 00:38:24.760
Friends are wonderful.

929
00:38:24.760 --> 00:38:29.200
But if your friends are creating stagnation in you

930
00:38:30.560 --> 00:38:33.600
because they're not going the same direction as you

931
00:38:33.600 --> 00:38:34.640
in this season,

932
00:38:36.280 --> 00:38:38.480
and every time you get together and you have coffee

933
00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:40.560
and you talk about something that you're doing,

934
00:38:40.560 --> 00:38:43.120
and then they kind of pour water on that fire

935
00:38:43.120 --> 00:38:45.240
because that's not where they are,

936
00:38:45.240 --> 00:38:47.080
maybe they're in their silent season

937
00:38:47.360 --> 00:38:49.480
of just waiting on the Lord.

938
00:38:49.480 --> 00:38:52.600
But you're in this action-oriented season.

939
00:38:52.600 --> 00:38:53.440
What's going to happen

940
00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:55.240
if you're hanging out with that person?

941
00:38:55.240 --> 00:38:57.040
You're going to start kind of second-guessing yourself,

942
00:38:57.040 --> 00:38:57.880
aren't you?

943
00:38:58.840 --> 00:39:01.520
Like, oh, what they're doing seems so much holier

944
00:39:01.520 --> 00:39:02.600
than what I'm doing, you know?

945
00:39:02.600 --> 00:39:03.560
And then, you know,

946
00:39:03.560 --> 00:39:05.160
someone's going to quote scriptures at you.

947
00:39:05.160 --> 00:39:07.880
They that wait upon the Lord will renew their strength.

948
00:39:07.880 --> 00:39:08.720
Great.

949
00:39:10.400 --> 00:39:11.240
Do you get it?

950
00:39:15.080 --> 00:39:16.240
I'm not going to say who,

951
00:39:16.240 --> 00:39:17.800
I'm not going to say who,

952
00:39:17.800 --> 00:39:22.800
but I had a friend who's actually famous now, okay?

953
00:39:23.160 --> 00:39:24.560
But before he was famous,

954
00:39:25.440 --> 00:39:27.960
he wouldn't self-promote.

955
00:39:28.960 --> 00:39:31.440
He had an amazing gift to give the world.

956
00:39:31.440 --> 00:39:32.920
And I would say to him all the time,

957
00:39:32.920 --> 00:39:36.960
hey, we need to get this out there.

958
00:39:36.960 --> 00:39:37.800
We need to market it.

959
00:39:37.800 --> 00:39:39.240
Because remember, I used to be a media consultant.

960
00:39:39.240 --> 00:39:40.200
We need to do this.

961
00:39:40.200 --> 00:39:41.040
We need to do that.

962
00:39:41.040 --> 00:39:43.680
Oh, no, no, no, no, no, not going to do it.

963
00:39:44.520 --> 00:39:46.160
Not going to self-promote.

964
00:39:46.160 --> 00:39:47.800
Self-promotion's wrong.

965
00:39:47.800 --> 00:39:50.040
Not going to get a social media channel.

966
00:39:50.040 --> 00:39:51.280
Not going to run ads.

967
00:39:51.280 --> 00:39:53.320
Not going to do the things.

968
00:39:53.320 --> 00:39:54.280
Okay?

969
00:39:54.280 --> 00:39:55.960
Why?

970
00:39:55.960 --> 00:39:57.880
Why is this amazing gift

971
00:39:59.240 --> 00:40:00.080
keeping all the

972
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.760
this gatekeeping all this amazing information

973
00:40:04.000 --> 00:40:05.600
and not putting it out to the world

974
00:40:05.600 --> 00:40:10.600
because someone he admired, Bill Johnson, who I love.

975
00:40:12.040 --> 00:40:13.680
Bill's amazing, he's incredible.

976
00:40:13.680 --> 00:40:14.760
He's one of the most humble men

977
00:40:14.760 --> 00:40:16.640
I've ever met in my entire life.

978
00:40:16.640 --> 00:40:21.240
But he was preaching against self-promotion.

979
00:40:22.760 --> 00:40:25.640
And the thing is, is that he was talking about it

980
00:40:25.640 --> 00:40:28.480
in a specific vein for a specific situation.

981
00:40:28.480 --> 00:40:31.160
But my friend took that personally,

982
00:40:31.160 --> 00:40:33.800
grabbed a hold of that little thing

983
00:40:33.800 --> 00:40:36.120
and made it his new mantra in life.

984
00:40:37.760 --> 00:40:39.460
You see how that can be a problem?

985
00:40:41.600 --> 00:40:43.640
So you gotta stay in your season.

986
00:40:43.640 --> 00:40:46.920
You gotta make sure that you're not just, you know,

987
00:40:46.920 --> 00:40:49.400
going to the buffet of the internet

988
00:40:49.400 --> 00:40:52.280
and just sampling all the little words out there.

989
00:40:53.640 --> 00:40:55.920
Because not only will it keep you full

990
00:40:55.960 --> 00:40:58.560
and yet not satisfied,

991
00:40:58.560 --> 00:41:01.760
it will cause you to stagnate and lose momentum.

992
00:41:01.760 --> 00:41:02.880
I promise you it will.

993
00:41:05.680 --> 00:41:07.120
Hey, can I just jump in real quick?

994
00:41:07.120 --> 00:41:10.280
You guys, I'm just gonna say this and be really blunt.

995
00:41:10.280 --> 00:41:14.960
I know it's really easy to hear everything that we're saying

996
00:41:14.960 --> 00:41:16.960
and give me a reason why it's not gonna work

997
00:41:16.960 --> 00:41:18.680
or give Jackie a reason why it's not gonna work

998
00:41:18.680 --> 00:41:21.120
or give Bethany a reason why it's not gonna work.

999
00:41:21.120 --> 00:41:24.240
I'm gonna encourage us, especially in the chat tonight,

1000
00:41:24.280 --> 00:41:26.760
but as we kind of go through the rest of this,

1001
00:41:26.760 --> 00:41:28.240
at least through Easter,

1002
00:41:28.240 --> 00:41:32.360
I want us to hold space to not type

1003
00:41:32.360 --> 00:41:34.960
or say out loud words that you know

1004
00:41:34.960 --> 00:41:36.680
don't come from the Lord.

1005
00:41:36.680 --> 00:41:40.120
Let's not give the enemy a foothold into our heart

1006
00:41:41.000 --> 00:41:43.600
that says, well, I've tried that, it's just not gonna work.

1007
00:41:43.600 --> 00:41:45.480
Or I don't have enough money to do this

1008
00:41:45.480 --> 00:41:47.200
or I don't have enough money to do that.

1009
00:41:47.200 --> 00:41:49.720
We promise you life is not easy, we get that.

1010
00:41:49.720 --> 00:41:51.800
We get that it's hard,

1011
00:41:51.800 --> 00:41:55.480
but all three of us know the dark night of the soul.

1012
00:41:55.480 --> 00:41:58.400
All three of us have been hurt and harmed

1013
00:41:58.400 --> 00:42:01.160
and we have pressed in and pressed on.

1014
00:42:01.160 --> 00:42:03.400
So we're not giving any of this input

1015
00:42:03.400 --> 00:42:05.640
because we've had some Pollyanna easy life.

1016
00:42:05.640 --> 00:42:08.360
Like we've all had trauma.

1017
00:42:08.360 --> 00:42:10.280
And so I get it, life is hard,

1018
00:42:10.280 --> 00:42:13.520
but I'm gonna ask you to press in anyway.

1019
00:42:13.520 --> 00:42:15.880
And one of the best ways that you can do that

1020
00:42:15.880 --> 00:42:19.800
is watch what you give power to out of your mouth

1021
00:42:19.800 --> 00:42:21.600
and out of your fingertips.

1022
00:42:22.400 --> 00:42:23.240
And just say, yeah,

1023
00:42:23.240 --> 00:42:25.040
I think Bethany always says that a lot, yet.

1024
00:42:25.040 --> 00:42:26.200
You haven't done that yet.

1025
00:42:26.200 --> 00:42:28.640
You've not received that yet, yet, yet.

1026
00:42:28.640 --> 00:42:30.440
So I'm just gonna encourage you guys

1027
00:42:30.440 --> 00:42:32.280
and hold each other accountable.

1028
00:42:32.280 --> 00:42:34.320
Like hold each other accountable.

1029
00:42:34.320 --> 00:42:36.560
So like, it's not just me, Bethany and Jackie

1030
00:42:36.560 --> 00:42:39.200
saying that if you see your sister or brother

1031
00:42:39.200 --> 00:42:41.440
starting to speak, never to just say that.

1032
00:42:41.440 --> 00:42:44.360
I just rebuke that in the name of Jesus, boom.

1033
00:42:44.360 --> 00:42:46.920
Because those lies are not coming from God.

1034
00:42:46.920 --> 00:42:50.840
God does not want you to live anything but an abundant life.

1035
00:42:50.840 --> 00:42:52.560
So I just needed to jump in there

1036
00:42:52.560 --> 00:42:54.400
because it's so easy to think

1037
00:42:54.400 --> 00:42:55.560
that we got it all figured out.

1038
00:42:55.560 --> 00:42:56.560
We don't.

1039
00:42:56.560 --> 00:42:58.400
And we are saying all of this.

1040
00:42:58.400 --> 00:42:59.840
We're trying to speak the truth in love

1041
00:42:59.840 --> 00:43:01.920
because we want abundance for you.

1042
00:43:01.920 --> 00:43:03.960
So I'll get off my soap box now.

1043
00:43:08.960 --> 00:43:09.800
It's true.

1044
00:43:09.800 --> 00:43:11.120
What she's saying is true.

1045
00:43:11.120 --> 00:43:14.560
So if you think that you have all the trauma trophies,

1046
00:43:14.560 --> 00:43:16.080
you're wrong.

1047
00:43:16.080 --> 00:43:18.920
So, and you can polish those trophies

1048
00:43:18.920 --> 00:43:20.200
in your little trophy case.

1049
00:43:20.200 --> 00:43:21.760
And that's what you can do with your life

1050
00:43:21.760 --> 00:43:25.160
is say, hey, I have more trauma trophies than anybody else.

1051
00:43:25.160 --> 00:43:26.520
But guess what?

1052
00:43:26.520 --> 00:43:28.440
That will not get you anywhere.

1053
00:43:29.640 --> 00:43:34.440
That will not get you anywhere, nowhere at all, okay?

1054
00:43:35.360 --> 00:43:37.480
Until you've been homeless,

1055
00:43:37.480 --> 00:43:40.840
until you've eaten a week old bean burrito from Taco Bell

1056
00:43:40.840 --> 00:43:42.080
that was under your car seat

1057
00:43:42.080 --> 00:43:43.920
because you were just that hungry,

1058
00:43:43.920 --> 00:43:47.720
then you don't even get to roll with me, baby girl.

1059
00:43:47.720 --> 00:43:51.800
All right, so it's time for you to understand

1060
00:43:51.800 --> 00:43:56.800
that no matter what has happened in your life,

1061
00:43:58.000 --> 00:44:03.000
you can still live abundantly, okay?

1062
00:44:03.000 --> 00:44:04.160
And so that means what?

1063
00:44:04.160 --> 00:44:07.560
That means that we can't live from past to present.

1064
00:44:07.560 --> 00:44:10.160
This is another momentum killer.

1065
00:44:10.160 --> 00:44:12.480
You keep looking at your past and where you've come from

1066
00:44:12.480 --> 00:44:13.320
and what has happened.

1067
00:44:13.320 --> 00:44:15.520
You keep disqualifying yourself

1068
00:44:15.520 --> 00:44:19.480
because of whatever you see back there, all right?

1069
00:44:20.400 --> 00:44:21.720
And whatever you see back there

1070
00:44:21.720 --> 00:44:23.520
is still hanging on in the present, right?

1071
00:44:23.520 --> 00:44:26.800
It's still affecting you with these orphan mentalities

1072
00:44:26.800 --> 00:44:29.040
and these poverty mentalities, I get it.

1073
00:44:29.040 --> 00:44:31.080
And that's why you have to come in here

1074
00:44:31.080 --> 00:44:33.200
and you have to really press into your heart work

1075
00:44:33.200 --> 00:44:35.880
and live future present.

1076
00:44:35.880 --> 00:44:37.640
So you can't live past present,

1077
00:44:37.640 --> 00:44:39.000
you have to live future present.

1078
00:44:39.000 --> 00:44:42.040
You have to allow God to give you a vision of yourself

1079
00:44:42.040 --> 00:44:44.200
in the future.

1080
00:44:44.280 --> 00:44:47.240
And then instead of living from your past

1081
00:44:47.240 --> 00:44:48.280
to where you are now,

1082
00:44:48.280 --> 00:44:51.840
you live from your future to where you are now.

1083
00:44:51.840 --> 00:44:54.920
You show up there and then you walk backwards to here.

1084
00:44:54.920 --> 00:44:55.760
Does that make sense?

1085
00:44:55.760 --> 00:44:56.840
Do you understand?

1086
00:44:58.120 --> 00:44:59.480
That's what you have to do.

1087
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.440
That's what I did, okay?

1088
00:45:03.440 --> 00:45:05.480
When I couldn't leave my house and I had agoraphobia

1089
00:45:05.480 --> 00:45:07.960
and I had panic disorder, I had obsessive compulsive disorder

1090
00:45:07.960 --> 00:45:09.600
and I was mentally ill and my former husband

1091
00:45:09.600 --> 00:45:13.760
was trying to get me institutionalized, okay?

1092
00:45:13.760 --> 00:45:18.080
Weighed 126 pounds at 5'10", wore a double zero

1093
00:45:18.080 --> 00:45:22.380
and was literally dying right in front of everyone's eyes.

1094
00:45:24.320 --> 00:45:25.800
What happened next?

1095
00:45:25.800 --> 00:45:27.520
God gave me a word.

1096
00:45:28.520 --> 00:45:29.880
He gave me a vision.

1097
00:45:29.880 --> 00:45:32.120
He gave me a dream.

1098
00:45:32.120 --> 00:45:33.680
And I could have, like everyone else, said,

1099
00:45:33.680 --> 00:45:35.840
oh yeah, that's great, but I can't get there.

1100
00:45:35.840 --> 00:45:36.840
I don't know how to get there.

1101
00:45:36.840 --> 00:45:39.320
I don't know what to do.

1102
00:45:39.320 --> 00:45:43.400
And it wasn't that I didn't have days like that,

1103
00:45:43.400 --> 00:45:46.600
but the days that I just got up and went after it,

1104
00:45:46.600 --> 00:45:47.960
even though I didn't know what to do,

1105
00:45:47.960 --> 00:45:49.960
outnumbered the days when I sat down

1106
00:45:49.960 --> 00:45:53.880
and felt sorry for myself and played the victim.

1107
00:45:53.880 --> 00:45:56.080
I got up way more than I fell down.

1108
00:45:56.320 --> 00:45:57.520
And that's what the Bible says.

1109
00:45:57.520 --> 00:46:01.040
The Bible says, rejoice not over me, my enemy,

1110
00:46:01.040 --> 00:46:04.520
because when I fall down, I will get back up.

1111
00:46:06.080 --> 00:46:07.840
And God gave me the grace to keep getting up

1112
00:46:07.840 --> 00:46:09.160
and keep getting up and keep getting up.

1113
00:46:09.160 --> 00:46:10.000
Why?

1114
00:46:10.000 --> 00:46:14.120
Because I believed in that girl.

1115
00:46:14.120 --> 00:46:18.160
I believed that she was the real me and I was the real her,

1116
00:46:18.160 --> 00:46:20.960
not this other girl that had been abandoned by her family

1117
00:46:20.960 --> 00:46:22.560
and lived in girls' home in foster care

1118
00:46:22.560 --> 00:46:26.120
that was sexually abused by a pedophile grandfather

1119
00:46:26.120 --> 00:46:29.520
that sat at my dinner table every single night

1120
00:46:30.800 --> 00:46:34.560
because he bought off my parents with money.

1121
00:46:36.120 --> 00:46:37.600
That wasn't the real me.

1122
00:46:37.600 --> 00:46:39.760
That was what the enemy set up in my life

1123
00:46:39.760 --> 00:46:43.960
to try to keep me from ever becoming who I truly was.

1124
00:46:43.960 --> 00:46:44.800
And guess what?

1125
00:46:44.800 --> 00:46:45.640
It didn't work.

1126
00:46:46.720 --> 00:46:48.240
It didn't work.

1127
00:46:48.240 --> 00:46:49.960
And it only didn't work, you guys,

1128
00:46:49.960 --> 00:46:53.920
because once again, like Rizzo just said,

1129
00:46:53.920 --> 00:46:58.920
I refused to come into complete agreement with it.

1130
00:46:59.240 --> 00:47:00.640
We all have bad days.

1131
00:47:01.520 --> 00:47:02.840
We all have bad moments.

1132
00:47:02.840 --> 00:47:03.800
You might have a bad week.

1133
00:47:03.800 --> 00:47:05.160
You could even have a bad month,

1134
00:47:05.160 --> 00:47:07.520
but you can't let it continue.

1135
00:47:07.520 --> 00:47:09.840
That's a momentum stealer.

1136
00:47:09.840 --> 00:47:11.760
I don't care how you feel.

1137
00:47:13.200 --> 00:47:14.600
Doesn't matter how you feel.

1138
00:47:14.600 --> 00:47:15.680
And that's the number one reason

1139
00:47:15.680 --> 00:47:17.680
why I'm sitting in front of you today

1140
00:47:17.680 --> 00:47:20.200
because no matter how I felt,

1141
00:47:21.160 --> 00:47:23.600
and I'm just gonna get real with you because you need it.

1142
00:47:23.600 --> 00:47:26.200
Guys, I couldn't even drink a glass of water

1143
00:47:26.200 --> 00:47:29.880
because I felt like someone poisoned it.

1144
00:47:29.880 --> 00:47:32.600
That's how messed up my mind was.

1145
00:47:32.600 --> 00:47:35.160
I had a mental illness.

1146
00:47:35.160 --> 00:47:36.520
Are you listening to me?

1147
00:47:37.560 --> 00:47:42.160
I was paranoid and obsessed with danger.

1148
00:47:43.680 --> 00:47:46.960
If I left my drink at my own home,

1149
00:47:47.680 --> 00:47:48.680
I could not drink it.

1150
00:47:48.680 --> 00:47:51.640
Even though rationally you would say that's crazy, Jackie.

1151
00:47:51.640 --> 00:47:53.480
Yeah, that's the point of this story.

1152
00:47:55.640 --> 00:47:59.400
That's how far gone I was in so many ways, you guys.

1153
00:47:59.400 --> 00:48:02.600
But there came a moment

1154
00:48:02.600 --> 00:48:07.600
when I could not trust my feelings anymore and I knew it.

1155
00:48:08.040 --> 00:48:10.280
And so regardless of how I felt,

1156
00:48:10.280 --> 00:48:12.160
I made a commitment to God.

1157
00:48:12.160 --> 00:48:15.880
Doesn't matter what I think is true or what I feel is true.

1158
00:48:15.880 --> 00:48:19.120
I'm still gonna just do what you've showed me

1159
00:48:19.120 --> 00:48:20.880
that I know is true.

1160
00:48:20.880 --> 00:48:23.680
And you guys, I had to live against my own feelings

1161
00:48:23.680 --> 00:48:25.880
and against my own thoughts.

1162
00:48:25.880 --> 00:48:27.800
I had to work it like a job every day

1163
00:48:27.800 --> 00:48:30.600
until it got easier and easier,

1164
00:48:30.600 --> 00:48:32.240
until the truth started winning out.

1165
00:48:32.240 --> 00:48:33.520
And that's why I write in that book,

1166
00:48:33.520 --> 00:48:35.960
you cannot erase, you have to replace.

1167
00:48:37.440 --> 00:48:39.640
And so for all of you that are showing up in the chat

1168
00:48:39.640 --> 00:48:43.400
and giving us a list of reasons why it's not possible,

1169
00:48:43.400 --> 00:48:45.120
you're right, all those reasons are true,

1170
00:48:45.120 --> 00:48:46.560
but there is a greater truth.

1171
00:48:47.920 --> 00:48:49.960
And if you won't come into alignment with it,

1172
00:48:49.960 --> 00:48:51.160
then you won't succeed.

1173
00:48:52.600 --> 00:48:54.840
But if you're willing to come into alignment with it,

1174
00:48:54.840 --> 00:48:56.720
nothing can stop you.

1175
00:48:57.880 --> 00:48:59.280
Nothing can stop you.

1176
00:48:59.280 --> 00:49:01.400
Not even your own feelings can stop you.

1177
00:49:01.400 --> 00:49:04.360
Not even your own messed up thoughts can stop you

1178
00:49:04.360 --> 00:49:08.000
if you won't listen to them anymore

1179
00:49:08.000 --> 00:49:10.040
and you will only listen to God.

1180
00:49:11.320 --> 00:49:13.240
And if that means you have to look at yourself in the mirror

1181
00:49:13.240 --> 00:49:16.400
like I did many, many, many, many, many, many times

1182
00:49:16.400 --> 00:49:18.840
and tell yourself to stop it.

1183
00:49:19.760 --> 00:49:21.200
I have done that so many times.

1184
00:49:21.200 --> 00:49:22.960
I've looked at myself right in the eyes in the mirror

1185
00:49:22.960 --> 00:49:24.800
and I've said, that's not true, Jackie.

1186
00:49:24.800 --> 00:49:25.800
That's a lie.

1187
00:49:25.800 --> 00:49:27.040
No one's poisoned you.

1188
00:49:27.040 --> 00:49:28.600
You're not gonna die right now.

1189
00:49:28.600 --> 00:49:30.080
You don't need to call the squad.

1190
00:49:30.080 --> 00:49:31.480
You don't need to call the ambulance.

1191
00:49:31.480 --> 00:49:33.360
You don't need to go to the emergency room.

1192
00:49:33.360 --> 00:49:36.120
What you believe right now is not true.

1193
00:49:36.120 --> 00:49:37.240
It's a lie.

1194
00:49:37.240 --> 00:49:38.080
Fear is a lie.

1195
00:49:38.080 --> 00:49:39.520
Anxiety is a lie.

1196
00:49:39.520 --> 00:49:40.960
And I had to get to the place y'all

1197
00:49:40.960 --> 00:49:42.400
where I was just like, you know what?

1198
00:49:42.440 --> 00:49:45.240
If I'm wrong, then I'm just gonna keel over and die.

1199
00:49:45.240 --> 00:49:46.400
But that's okay.

1200
00:49:46.400 --> 00:49:51.200
Cause I'd rather live in God's truth

1201
00:49:51.200 --> 00:49:52.880
and continue to follow after him

1202
00:49:52.880 --> 00:49:55.640
than live like this torment and this fear

1203
00:49:56.720 --> 00:49:58.280
and try to keep myself safe.

1204
00:49:58.280 --> 00:49:59.560
I just had to make a decision.

1205
00:49:59.560 --> 00:50:00.400
If I'm wrong.

1206
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:01.000
I guess I'm going to die.

1207
00:50:02.760 --> 00:50:03.720
And you guys have worked.

1208
00:50:05.360 --> 00:50:06.000
It worked.

1209
00:50:07.440 --> 00:50:10.840
And you're like, Jackie, that's, that's really out there, babe.

1210
00:50:10.840 --> 00:50:12.240
You had some serious issues.

1211
00:50:12.240 --> 00:50:13.080
I'm not like you.

1212
00:50:13.520 --> 00:50:15.240
Yeah, you're not, but you're just a stuck.

1213
00:50:16.600 --> 00:50:19.760
You're just a stuck because you think that the number in your bank

1214
00:50:19.760 --> 00:50:21.720
account is why you can't succeed.

1215
00:50:22.160 --> 00:50:23.760
And you don't know how to make it grow bigger.

1216
00:50:25.640 --> 00:50:28.760
You think the number of divorces you've had is why you can't succeed.

1217
00:50:28.760 --> 00:50:33.000
And you don't know how to get past that, the weight on the scale, the number here,

1218
00:50:33.000 --> 00:50:35.920
the number there, whatever it is, you're a bad childhood.

1219
00:50:39.040 --> 00:50:39.720
You believe it.

1220
00:50:40.440 --> 00:50:44.480
And you believe it more than you believe what God has said about you or the visions

1221
00:50:44.480 --> 00:50:46.040
that God has given you about yourself.

1222
00:50:46.840 --> 00:50:47.800
You believe it more.

1223
00:50:48.000 --> 00:50:50.680
And as long as you believe it more, you will never gain momentum.

1224
00:50:50.680 --> 00:50:54.400
You'll have a couple of good days where you're like, I'm going to do it.

1225
00:50:54.920 --> 00:50:55.520
And then guess what?

1226
00:50:55.520 --> 00:50:59.120
You fall right back off because you don't really believe it.

1227
00:51:00.360 --> 00:51:03.840
Because the Bible says out of the abundance of the heart, what happens?

1228
00:51:07.360 --> 00:51:08.120
What happens?

1229
00:51:10.240 --> 00:51:12.360
The mouth speaks, the mouth speaks.

1230
00:51:14.600 --> 00:51:17.120
And in this case, the mouth types.

1231
00:51:21.400 --> 00:51:21.840
Right.

1232
00:51:26.520 --> 00:51:27.040
Amen.

1233
00:51:30.880 --> 00:51:34.800
Every single one of you can have momentum in your life that leads to abundance.

1234
00:51:37.160 --> 00:51:37.920
Every one of you.

1235
00:51:40.040 --> 00:51:41.960
Put up the area that you're sabotaging yourself.

1236
00:51:42.000 --> 00:51:45.240
What area do you just not, you're not able to get any momentum at all.

1237
00:51:45.240 --> 00:51:46.040
What area is it?

1238
00:51:46.040 --> 00:51:46.440
Let's see it.

1239
00:52:25.520 --> 00:52:39.880
There's a lot of duplicates there, huh?

1240
00:52:49.320 --> 00:52:51.040
There's a lot of duplicates there.

1241
00:52:52.920 --> 00:52:53.680
What does that mean?

1242
00:52:54.280 --> 00:52:57.440
That means not only is the devil a liar, he's a really bad liar.

1243
00:52:59.200 --> 00:53:00.760
He's telling us all the same lie.

1244
00:53:02.960 --> 00:53:03.880
Don't you notice that?

1245
00:53:06.200 --> 00:53:07.040
And we're onto it.

1246
00:53:14.160 --> 00:53:14.520
All right.

1247
00:53:14.640 --> 00:53:20.800
So Rizzo, we're going to, uh, Bethany, why don't we take some of these and talk

1248
00:53:20.800 --> 00:53:22.880
about what could be at the root of that?

1249
00:53:24.280 --> 00:53:28.960
That we need to not just erase, but replace so we can gain some momentum.

1250
00:53:31.240 --> 00:53:35.000
I would love to take the weight loss one since I've been on a diet my whole

1251
00:53:35.000 --> 00:53:38.280
life and I just dropped almost 30 pounds.

1252
00:53:38.280 --> 00:53:39.280
And so here's what I can say.

1253
00:53:39.280 --> 00:53:44.200
You guys, you cannot starve your way into weight loss.

1254
00:53:44.480 --> 00:53:47.880
You cannot hate your body enough into weight loss.

1255
00:53:48.200 --> 00:53:51.640
You cannot overexercise enough into weight loss.

1256
00:53:52.000 --> 00:53:56.760
So you have to, first of all, get right with your, your body in its current

1257
00:53:56.760 --> 00:54:02.160
shape and get to know it, get to know the foods that your body receives well.

1258
00:54:02.160 --> 00:54:03.960
And the foods that your body does not receive.

1259
00:54:03.960 --> 00:54:06.800
Well, you need to pay attention to your nutrition.

1260
00:54:07.080 --> 00:54:12.560
You can't work out enough hours, like 90% of your health starts in the kitchen.

1261
00:54:13.080 --> 00:54:13.920
It just does.

1262
00:54:14.200 --> 00:54:18.520
So if you're saying that you're not, you know, having trouble with weight loss,

1263
00:54:18.720 --> 00:54:20.440
you have to decide what am I buying?

1264
00:54:20.480 --> 00:54:22.000
First of all, what are you buying?

1265
00:54:22.320 --> 00:54:24.040
What food are you buying?

1266
00:54:24.280 --> 00:54:28.120
Whether it's out to eat or, you know, where you shop, like you should be

1267
00:54:28.120 --> 00:54:30.320
shopping the perimeter of the store.

1268
00:54:30.560 --> 00:54:33.840
90% of what you eat should be whole single source foods.

1269
00:54:34.640 --> 00:54:38.320
And I understand not everyone can do gluten-free, not everyone can do organic,

1270
00:54:38.560 --> 00:54:41.480
but you can at least start with single source foods.

1271
00:54:41.920 --> 00:54:47.840
Um, you know, apples, oranges, meat, vegetables, like things that are grown

1272
00:54:47.840 --> 00:54:49.480
single source that are not in a box.

1273
00:54:49.840 --> 00:54:54.040
And so you have control over what you eat, right?

1274
00:54:54.080 --> 00:54:55.400
You guys buy your own grocery.

1275
00:54:55.400 --> 00:54:59.680
So you have control and you go to Aldi's, find a way to buy in bulk.

1276
00:54:59.720 --> 00:55:00.000
So.

1277
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:12.720
That it can be cost effective. That's the first thing. And you guys have to budget moving on my calendar. I'm just going to share my screen for just a second. So you can see what my calendar looks like.

1278
00:55:14.520 --> 00:55:21.480
Can y'all see my calendar. It is color coded. Now y'all may not want to be as crazy as me, but my workouts.

1279
00:55:21.840 --> 00:55:46.680
My grocery shopping, my work, my schoolwork, all of it's here. So I can say I want to lose weight. But if I don't budget time in my calendar to shop, to meal prep, to work out, then I don't take it seriously. None of us are going to be able to take a pill and suddenly lose weight. You're not going to suddenly get a job.

1280
00:55:46.680 --> 00:55:59.400
So if you are not budgeting in your calendar to do something, whether it's exercise, whether it's go get healthy, whether it's go get another job, work a second job.

1281
00:56:00.320 --> 00:56:06.080
Some of you guys have talked about finances. You know, for years out of college, I had a second job.

1282
00:56:06.640 --> 00:56:26.160
You know, I worked nights in the bra room at Victoria's Secret. Like you can now do Uber delivery if you don't want to do Uber because you don't like people in your car. So if it's not going in your calendar, if you're not budgeting time to do it, especially weight loss, it is never going to happen. You can't pray away the weight loss.

1283
00:56:26.760 --> 00:56:54.720
But it should start with maybe going to your doctor or nutritionist and taking a blood DNA just to find out. But you guys can do some kind of different elimination diet. So I just wanted to take that one. And you guys, I now have a love of all food. There's no such thing as a bad food. I used to think there were good food, bad food. Now, if I want the cookie, it just fits into my macros. Like I eat a certain number of calories, fiber and protein a day. Everything else I get to fit in.

1284
00:56:54.720 --> 00:57:08.600
So if I want a cookie or a piece of cake, it's going in my macros and I'm going to work around it. So we have to stop thinking of food like it's evil or it's bad or it's a sin. It's like now some foods metabolize differently for all of you and others.

1285
00:57:08.600 --> 00:57:19.200
So I'm not saying that some of you may have allergies and you have to be careful of that. But I've moved away from that. I've also moved away from worrying about what a piece of metal says I should look like or how I should feel.

1286
00:57:19.200 --> 00:57:33.320
I'm taking photographs, inches. And so I'm looking at my body and my body is fitting into clothes that I couldn't that I was barely fitting into three years ago when I was 15 pounds lighter because I'm changing my body composition.

1287
00:57:33.320 --> 00:57:42.840
So I no longer let that piece of metal determine my value, how well I'm sleeping, how well I'm breathing, how well I'm moving, how good I feel, the energy I have.

1288
00:57:42.840 --> 00:57:52.680
That's what determines if my fitness and my nutrition are in order. So I'll get off the soapbox, Bethany. I know you've had to tackle this too, or you might want to take one of those other topics.

1289
00:57:52.680 --> 00:58:03.840
Yeah, I actually, I mean, they're all really good, but there were two that really stood out to me. So I feel like God's highlighting them. I saw, I just can't do it, whatever it is.

1290
00:58:03.840 --> 00:58:15.920
And, um, what I heard the Holy spirit say actually was, um, I think this is rooted from when you were in childhood, I saw almost like you were asking someone, someone for help with something.

1291
00:58:15.920 --> 00:58:25.400
Um, you were struggling to do something and you didn't get the help that you felt like you needed. And so you agreed with a lie back then when you were a child that you couldn't do it.

1292
00:58:25.520 --> 00:58:41.440
And so now you're still struggling with that same lie. I just can't do it. Anytime something feels beyond where you're at. And I say this with a lot of love, but we got to go into the heartwork for these things, because there's a reason why the enemy keeps limiting us and holding us back.

1293
00:58:41.440 --> 00:58:51.520
It's actually because we have a lot of potential. And so he came in and lied against your identity and your potential of what you can accomplish. Um, and this is for anybody, even if you didn't write that.

1294
00:58:51.520 --> 00:59:02.800
I mean, the reality is, is we can do way more than we know we can. There's a quote I used to keep up, you know, a lot of times we're actually intimidated by who we can become.

1295
00:59:03.160 --> 00:59:14.360
And so some of us stay stagnant because that feels more comfortable, but inside we have this inner angst. And so what I would say for anyone that feels like you can't do it.

1296
00:59:14.360 --> 00:59:28.440
Sometimes this also happens when the it feels way too big. I remember the first time someone gave me a word about my calling and what God was going to do in me and through me. I mean, it was so awesome, but it was so overwhelming.

1297
00:59:29.120 --> 00:59:42.160
And so over the years, that's something I prayed into a lot. And God just started talking to me about just do what I show you next. Like, don't worry about like, that's awesome. I have a goal. I have goals I move towards. I set those goals.

1298
00:59:42.280 --> 00:59:53.760
But overall, every day, my goal is to take one more step towards whatever it is that God is asking me to do that day. And y'all that's created momentum and really putting ourselves out there.

1299
00:59:53.760 --> 00:59:59.880
So how do we shift? Cause that's the other thing we got. We're talking about these, these topics, but how do you.

1300
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:08.000
shift out of that. So I would start saying over myself, I am able to do whatever it is.

1301
01:00:08.000 --> 01:00:12.920
So for me recently, interestingly enough, the weight loss was a thing and God started

1302
01:00:12.920 --> 01:00:16.600
talking to me. I needed to start saying, God, thank you that I'm going to, I'm going to

1303
01:00:16.600 --> 01:00:19.800
lose weight. Thank you, God, that you're going to help my body to release this weight and

1304
01:00:19.800 --> 01:00:25.120
let it go. So things like, you know, book that I'm working on and the enemy's always

1305
01:00:25.120 --> 01:00:28.860
trying to tell me like all the reasons why I should enter a clinic because everybody

1306
01:00:28.860 --> 01:00:33.300
else has written the book. Well, that's not truth. So I have a word, I have a message

1307
01:00:33.300 --> 01:00:38.700
and God wants me to release it. And so I have to lean into that. I have something inside

1308
01:00:38.700 --> 01:00:43.500
of me that God wants me to release into the world to help set even one person free and

1309
01:00:43.500 --> 01:00:49.620
that matters. And so it goes back to, to when, um, interestingly when Jackie said, I don't

1310
01:00:49.620 --> 01:00:54.380
know where it's at, but like you are good soil, man, I felt power on that. Like so many

1311
01:00:54.380 --> 01:00:59.260
people don't even, we don't think we're good soil. So if you don't think you're good soil,

1312
01:00:59.260 --> 01:01:04.420
man, I would start there. I would start there because all these other lists are really important.

1313
01:01:04.420 --> 01:01:08.340
But if you don't think you're good soil, you're not going to think you're worth a guy or a

1314
01:01:08.340 --> 01:01:13.420
woman investing in you for a relationship. So maybe the relationship that's not, you

1315
01:01:13.420 --> 01:01:16.300
know, that you're wanting and it's not coming and it's not coming. Well, maybe it's because

1316
01:01:16.300 --> 01:01:22.040
you actually don't think you're worth them pursuing you or that you're worth them having

1317
01:01:22.040 --> 01:01:27.040
you as a husband or a wife. So go to the identity, go to the worth and things like

1318
01:01:27.040 --> 01:01:32.280
that. The other one, um, was the decluttering. And interestingly enough, this is something

1319
01:01:32.280 --> 01:01:36.320
I feel like the Lord is talking to me about tackling. So I thought it was funny that he

1320
01:01:36.320 --> 01:01:43.720
highlighted that maybe that's why, but what came to my spirit was, um, you know, we just

1321
01:01:43.720 --> 01:01:48.760
had a woman in phase two, that's been getting massive breakthrough y'all. She started cleaning

1322
01:01:48.760 --> 01:01:54.520
out this garage that was an overwhelming task for her. And she decided to start taking

1323
01:01:54.520 --> 01:01:59.660
bites, which is what I kind of said, you start somewhere. And as she started cleaning out

1324
01:01:59.660 --> 01:02:06.360
this garage, y'all, she started getting like breakthrough emotionally, mentally, spiritually,

1325
01:02:06.360 --> 01:02:11.660
like so much healing has been happening because she's cleaning out her garage. So sometimes

1326
01:02:11.660 --> 01:02:17.800
I think we resist cleaning out because there's things that are connected. There's emotions,

1327
01:02:17.840 --> 01:02:24.120
there's memories, there's pain. And sometimes also, um, just from my experience, when you

1328
01:02:24.120 --> 01:02:31.560
have a lot of loss growing up, maybe you get attached to things. Okay. So what does the

1329
01:02:31.560 --> 01:02:37.400
Lord want you to let go of first? Just start with one thing. And then the next day, get

1330
01:02:37.400 --> 01:02:41.960
rid of maybe something else and start to gain some momentum in that way.

1331
01:02:41.960 --> 01:02:45.280
And I think there's also something else to that. You guys, sorry, I can't be on camera

1332
01:02:45.280 --> 01:02:51.240
right now. But, um, with that, um, that if there's anything, okay. And I want you to

1333
01:02:51.240 --> 01:02:54.760
do an inventory right now, shut your eyes while I say these words and see if anything

1334
01:02:54.760 --> 01:03:00.740
comes up, everyone shut your eyes. If there's anything that you keep feeling like you need

1335
01:03:00.740 --> 01:03:04.400
to do, whether it's clean out a garage or a closet, or whether it's something else,

1336
01:03:04.400 --> 01:03:08.640
like go, you know, change your, change your passport back to your maiden name. It doesn't

1337
01:03:08.640 --> 01:03:12.800
matter what it is. It's something that you keep feeling like you need to do. It always

1338
01:03:12.800 --> 01:03:19.520
comes back up and you keep putting it off. There's breakthrough attached to that activity.

1339
01:03:19.520 --> 01:03:26.520
The enemy that if there's an area, specific area of procrastination in your life that

1340
01:03:26.520 --> 01:03:33.520
you just cannot, it comes up frequently, but you just can't go there and actually do it.

1341
01:03:34.000 --> 01:03:38.080
Then there is definitely something attached to that. That's going to cause breakthrough.

1342
01:03:38.080 --> 01:03:40.640
And I would love to see what those things are. If you guys could just put those in the

1343
01:04:10.640 --> 01:04:15.360
chat. I'm driving, so I can't read. So if someone could read them to me, that'd be great.

1344
01:04:15.360 --> 01:04:21.160
Yeah, that's what I was just wondering. So we've got a lot in here. So one is learning,

1345
01:04:21.160 --> 01:04:27.680
relearning Spanish, someone taking CPA exam, cleaning out closet, changing their last name,

1346
01:04:27.680 --> 01:04:33.600
getting a hair trim, clean out their office, do a business plan, complete video work for

1347
01:04:33.600 --> 01:04:38.880
a friend, get back into shape, pack their house for remodel, finished book, daily walks,

1348
01:04:40.800 --> 01:04:44.080
need to schedule a deliverance session, meet with the financial planner,

1349
01:04:45.440 --> 01:04:49.040
a lot of cleaning out, cleaning out closets, rooms, all that kind of stuff.

1350
01:04:50.640 --> 01:04:56.160
So this goes to, okay, so some of those are not like one bite, right? Cause like losing weight,

1351
01:04:56.160 --> 01:04:59.920
all right, or whatever. But you can do two.

1352
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:04.360
day well, meaning that for those of you that it's a one and done, like go to the DMV and

1353
01:05:04.360 --> 01:05:05.360
change your name.

1354
01:05:05.360 --> 01:05:06.360
Do it.

1355
01:05:06.360 --> 01:05:07.360
There's breakthrough attached to it.

1356
01:05:07.360 --> 01:05:08.760
Meet with a financial planner.

1357
01:05:08.760 --> 01:05:09.760
Do it.

1358
01:05:09.760 --> 01:05:10.760
There's breakthrough attached to it.

1359
01:05:10.760 --> 01:05:14.280
For people that had more of like a, you know, it's more of like a series of things that

1360
01:05:14.280 --> 01:05:17.000
you need to do in that area.

1361
01:05:17.000 --> 01:05:18.000
Take the first step.

1362
01:05:18.000 --> 01:05:19.000
Do today well.

1363
01:05:19.000 --> 01:05:23.320
You know, part of the reason why we get overwhelmed and I used to really be like this is because

1364
01:05:23.320 --> 01:05:26.920
I'm a big picture thinker and some of you are like that too.

1365
01:05:26.920 --> 01:05:28.500
You're a visionary thinker.

1366
01:05:28.500 --> 01:05:31.300
You don't think in small details, okay?

1367
01:05:31.300 --> 01:05:34.060
You're not someone who can look at the minutiae.

1368
01:05:34.060 --> 01:05:38.100
You're someone who sees the forest, not necessarily the trees.

1369
01:05:38.100 --> 01:05:39.100
Okay?

1370
01:05:39.100 --> 01:05:46.880
And when you have that gift and it gets overextended by trauma, what happens is that you get overwhelmed.

1371
01:05:46.880 --> 01:05:47.880
You get massively overwhelmed.

1372
01:05:47.880 --> 01:05:50.900
Now, those of you that see the details, you see the trees and not the forest, you guys

1373
01:05:50.900 --> 01:05:53.920
get overwhelmed too, right, in a different way.

1374
01:05:53.920 --> 01:05:58.080
And so the problem with that is, is that when you're a big picture, when you're a futuristic

1375
01:05:58.660 --> 01:06:05.360
thinker, you get a tendency to get caught in daydreams, okay, instead of caught in right

1376
01:06:05.360 --> 01:06:08.000
now what you can do today.

1377
01:06:08.000 --> 01:06:11.120
And then you don't do it because you see all the pieces that you would need to actually

1378
01:06:11.120 --> 01:06:15.160
be successful and because you don't have those pieces yet, you don't do what you could do

1379
01:06:15.160 --> 01:06:17.680
today, right?

1380
01:06:17.680 --> 01:06:19.080
This is for everyone.

1381
01:06:19.080 --> 01:06:23.560
So God started talking to me and he'd say, Jackie, just do today well.

1382
01:06:23.560 --> 01:06:25.240
I'm like, what does that mean?

1383
01:06:25.240 --> 01:06:29.720
He means, he says, what can you do today towards this thing, all right?

1384
01:06:29.720 --> 01:06:31.240
I want it to be in television, right?

1385
01:06:31.240 --> 01:06:32.240
You guys all know that.

1386
01:06:32.240 --> 01:06:33.240
God gave me this dream.

1387
01:06:33.240 --> 01:06:34.240
He gave me this vision.

1388
01:06:34.240 --> 01:06:37.000
He gave me this word that I was going to do this TV work.

1389
01:06:37.000 --> 01:06:42.980
And I had no education in that, no qualifications, no experience, none of it, okay?

1390
01:06:42.980 --> 01:06:44.480
And so I started getting overwhelmed.

1391
01:06:44.480 --> 01:06:46.040
Do I need to go to broadcasting school?

1392
01:06:46.040 --> 01:06:49.760
Do you go back to college and go to, do I need to go to, you know, do I need to move

1393
01:06:49.760 --> 01:06:54.960
to New York and go to NYU and like, what do I need to do?

1394
01:06:54.960 --> 01:06:59.880
And God's like, you need to do today well, instead of worrying about what you don't have

1395
01:06:59.880 --> 01:07:04.280
in order to accomplish whatever it is that you just listed, what do you have?

1396
01:07:04.280 --> 01:07:05.680
It's like the woman with the cruise of oil.

1397
01:07:05.680 --> 01:07:07.120
She's like, I don't have anything.

1398
01:07:07.120 --> 01:07:09.680
The prophet's like, that's not true.

1399
01:07:09.680 --> 01:07:13.040
You got this oil right here, okay?

1400
01:07:13.040 --> 01:07:16.560
What can you do today?

1401
01:07:16.560 --> 01:07:18.960
What can, how can you do today well?

1402
01:07:18.960 --> 01:07:20.040
Maybe it's what Rizzo said.

1403
01:07:20.040 --> 01:07:21.780
You can only eat real food.

1404
01:07:21.780 --> 01:07:26.900
You can stop eating fake food that comes in boxes that is not food at all.

1405
01:07:26.900 --> 01:07:30.820
Today, you're like, oh, I got a craving.

1406
01:07:30.820 --> 01:07:33.500
I, you know, I, it's so hard for me to do.

1407
01:07:33.500 --> 01:07:34.780
Don't worry about tomorrow.

1408
01:07:34.780 --> 01:07:39.060
Just do it today.

1409
01:07:39.060 --> 01:07:40.060
Just today.

1410
01:07:40.060 --> 01:07:41.060
And then guess what?

1411
01:07:41.060 --> 01:07:42.060
Tomorrow will be today.

1412
01:07:42.060 --> 01:07:43.780
You're going to do another day well and another day well.

1413
01:07:43.780 --> 01:07:44.940
Can I just be honest with you?

1414
01:07:44.940 --> 01:07:47.900
This is how I quit smoking.

1415
01:07:47.900 --> 01:07:50.180
I used to smoke when I was a teenager.

1416
01:07:50.180 --> 01:07:55.700
I know shocking, but once again, didn't know Jesus and I smoked other things besides just

1417
01:07:55.700 --> 01:07:58.940
cigarettes, but that's a whole different story.

1418
01:07:58.940 --> 01:08:02.180
But the thing is, is that when it came time to quit smoking, I didn't know Jesus.

1419
01:08:02.180 --> 01:08:05.180
You guys, I actually quit smoking before I became a believer.

1420
01:08:05.180 --> 01:08:09.780
I only smoked for a couple of years, but I was hopelessly addicted to it because of trauma,

1421
01:08:09.780 --> 01:08:10.780
right?

1422
01:08:10.780 --> 01:08:11.780
And stimulants are proven.

1423
01:08:11.780 --> 01:08:12.780
People have trauma.

1424
01:08:12.780 --> 01:08:14.420
They want to be stimulized or they want to be depressed.

1425
01:08:14.420 --> 01:08:17.100
Like they want the alcohol or they want the stimulant.

1426
01:08:17.100 --> 01:08:22.779
And so what I did was, is every day, I didn't focus on whether I was going to smoke tomorrow.

1427
01:08:22.779 --> 01:08:25.540
I only focused on getting through today.

1428
01:08:25.540 --> 01:08:26.540
Doing it today.

1429
01:08:26.540 --> 01:08:30.660
Does that make sense to everybody?

1430
01:08:30.660 --> 01:08:32.939
And for some of you, I feel this really strongly in my spirit.

1431
01:08:32.939 --> 01:08:34.300
You can't even do today well.

1432
01:08:34.300 --> 01:08:37.700
You just need to do this hour well.

1433
01:08:37.700 --> 01:08:42.380
You just need to do this minute well, okay?

1434
01:08:42.380 --> 01:08:43.779
And what does that well word mean?

1435
01:08:43.779 --> 01:08:46.500
It means do your best and then rest.

1436
01:08:46.500 --> 01:08:50.740
Like Rizzo said, she said, no, it was Bethany that said, she's like, God, I need you to

1437
01:08:50.740 --> 01:08:55.300
help me lose weight.

1438
01:08:55.300 --> 01:08:59.180
Here's the other key to momentum that none of us have said yet, but all of us were probably

1439
01:08:59.180 --> 01:09:00.180
thinking.

1440
01:09:00.180 --> 01:09:09.140
He said that his strength is made perfect in our weakness.

1441
01:09:09.140 --> 01:09:11.180
His strength is made perfect in our weakness.

1442
01:09:11.180 --> 01:09:15.220
And I'm going to tell you, when you start to gain some momentum, like just take me quitting

1443
01:09:15.220 --> 01:09:16.220
smoking.

1444
01:09:16.220 --> 01:09:18.859
Let's just take that as an example.

1445
01:09:18.859 --> 01:09:25.420
There came a point, you guys, in the success of that, that yeah, I could have smoked.

1446
01:09:25.420 --> 01:09:28.420
And so some of you, you know, you're going to reward yourself with some weight loss with

1447
01:09:28.420 --> 01:09:29.420
a Twinkie, right?

1448
01:09:29.420 --> 01:09:33.300
You could eat that Twinkie and maybe someday you will eat the Twinkie.

1449
01:09:33.300 --> 01:09:36.620
But when it came to smoking, and I don't know why I'm saying this, I feel like someone here

1450
01:09:36.620 --> 01:09:37.620
is addicted to smoking.

1451
01:09:37.620 --> 01:09:39.300
And so you need to hear this.

1452
01:09:39.300 --> 01:09:46.020
We are not going to ask you to tell us, but I will tell you that, you know, I know Christian

1453
01:09:46.020 --> 01:09:50.500
people are like smoking, oh my God, you know, maybe it's drinking, maybe it's some other

1454
01:09:50.500 --> 01:09:51.500
kind of addiction.

1455
01:09:51.500 --> 01:09:52.500
Maybe it's smoking weed.

1456
01:09:52.500 --> 01:09:53.779
Who knows what it is?

1457
01:09:53.779 --> 01:09:57.100
But I will tell you this, there comes a point in your deliverance.

1458
01:09:57.100 --> 01:09:59.660
There comes a point in your success.

1459
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:01.900
from being up under whatever that is,

1460
01:10:01.900 --> 01:10:04.600
negative thinking, smoking, whatever it is,

1461
01:10:04.600 --> 01:10:07.120
that you've just gone so far

1462
01:10:07.120 --> 01:10:08.340
because you've done today well

1463
01:10:08.340 --> 01:10:10.800
over and over and over again,

1464
01:10:10.800 --> 01:10:13.080
that just the thought of doing it again,

1465
01:10:13.080 --> 01:10:14.960
then you realize you got to start back at the beginning,

1466
01:10:14.960 --> 01:10:17.200
you just don't want to do it.

1467
01:10:17.200 --> 01:10:18.960
Then you got to go through all the withdrawal again,

1468
01:10:18.960 --> 01:10:20.440
you got to, and you just, it's not,

1469
01:10:20.440 --> 01:10:21.800
it's not worth it to you.

1470
01:10:21.800 --> 01:10:22.620
What is that called?

1471
01:10:22.620 --> 01:10:23.660
That's called momentum.

1472
01:10:25.460 --> 01:10:27.000
When you start gaining momentum

1473
01:10:27.000 --> 01:10:28.640
and you start picking up speed,

1474
01:10:28.720 --> 01:10:31.860
you're just not willing to lose that momentum

1475
01:10:31.860 --> 01:10:36.720
for one moment of some fleeting self-medication

1476
01:10:36.720 --> 01:10:38.480
in whatever area it is.

1477
01:10:40.040 --> 01:10:40.920
Do you feel me?

1478
01:10:44.920 --> 01:10:45.880
You're not willing.

1479
01:10:47.880 --> 01:10:50.880
When you, listen, ladies, gentlemen,

1480
01:10:50.880 --> 01:10:53.940
when you finally get free from having sex

1481
01:10:53.940 --> 01:10:55.980
with people that you're not married to,

1482
01:10:55.980 --> 01:10:57.280
and you've gained some momentum

1483
01:10:57.280 --> 01:10:58.680
because you're doing every date well,

1484
01:10:58.680 --> 01:10:59.720
you're not just doing today well,

1485
01:10:59.720 --> 01:11:01.200
you're doing every date well,

1486
01:11:01.200 --> 01:11:04.680
you don't end up slipping and falling into someone's bed

1487
01:11:06.600 --> 01:11:08.560
with their private parts inside of yours.

1488
01:11:08.560 --> 01:11:10.000
Woo-hoo, you did it!

1489
01:11:10.000 --> 01:11:11.160
All right!

1490
01:11:11.160 --> 01:11:12.800
But here's the good news to that.

1491
01:11:13.920 --> 01:11:17.440
The good news is that once you get a streak like that going,

1492
01:11:17.440 --> 01:11:20.640
the moment that the few fleeting moments

1493
01:11:20.640 --> 01:11:23.400
of connection that you were feeling

1494
01:11:23.400 --> 01:11:26.960
and that anxiety medicator

1495
01:11:27.640 --> 01:11:29.360
that that sexual experience was doing for you,

1496
01:11:29.360 --> 01:11:30.600
whatever it was,

1497
01:11:30.600 --> 01:11:35.200
you're not willing to give up how you feel now

1498
01:11:35.200 --> 01:11:36.040
for that again.

1499
01:11:36.040 --> 01:11:37.600
Does that make sense?

1500
01:11:37.600 --> 01:11:38.440
You got what?

1501
01:11:38.440 --> 01:11:39.500
You got momentum!

1502
01:11:41.360 --> 01:11:42.400
All right, someone speak to this.

1503
01:11:42.400 --> 01:11:43.240
This is good.

1504
01:11:45.520 --> 01:11:46.680
Yeah, it is really good.

1505
01:11:46.680 --> 01:11:51.040
And I mean, just from, I mean, I lived that out personally

1506
01:11:51.040 --> 01:11:55.460
when I started putting myself and my value before my flesh

1507
01:11:55.460 --> 01:11:59.060
and what my flesh was telling me it thought it wanted.

1508
01:11:59.060 --> 01:12:01.300
I absolutely started gaining momentum

1509
01:12:01.300 --> 01:12:04.220
and it wasn't just in my relational life.

1510
01:12:04.220 --> 01:12:06.940
Like I started gaining momentum in my career,

1511
01:12:06.940 --> 01:12:08.940
in my, like my finances,

1512
01:12:08.940 --> 01:12:11.180
like everything started gaining momentum

1513
01:12:11.180 --> 01:12:13.580
when I really leaned into my value

1514
01:12:14.940 --> 01:12:19.940
and chose holiness and chose to be set apart

1515
01:12:20.300 --> 01:12:23.620
and chose to fight for legacy.

1516
01:12:23.620 --> 01:12:25.900
Okay, so stop there, Bethany,

1517
01:12:25.900 --> 01:12:27.740
and let them process that.

1518
01:12:27.740 --> 01:12:29.260
Did you hear what she said?

1519
01:12:29.260 --> 01:12:30.460
Did you hear her?

1520
01:12:30.460 --> 01:12:34.920
She said, momentum gives birth to momentum.

1521
01:12:34.920 --> 01:12:35.940
Yeah.

1522
01:12:35.940 --> 01:12:39.820
You guys, that's how that woman cleaning out her garage,

1523
01:12:39.820 --> 01:12:42.420
which makes no sense whatsoever

1524
01:12:42.420 --> 01:12:44.280
of how that would be connected

1525
01:12:44.280 --> 01:12:45.820
to any other type of breakthrough

1526
01:12:45.820 --> 01:12:47.640
besides just a clean garage.

1527
01:12:47.640 --> 01:12:51.520
That is how it caused momentum in other areas

1528
01:12:51.560 --> 01:12:54.800
because momentum creates momentum.

1529
01:12:54.800 --> 01:12:57.840
For some of you, really focusing on your health journey

1530
01:12:57.840 --> 01:13:00.360
will create momentum in your love life,

1531
01:13:00.360 --> 01:13:03.280
in your financial life, in your spiritual life.

1532
01:13:03.280 --> 01:13:04.440
My husband is one of those people,

1533
01:13:04.440 --> 01:13:07.060
I wish he was here and he could testify to you guys,

1534
01:13:07.060 --> 01:13:08.280
but when I married him,

1535
01:13:08.280 --> 01:13:11.560
he was already about 45, 50 pounds overweight.

1536
01:13:11.560 --> 01:13:13.400
He was pretty fluffy and he said to me,

1537
01:13:13.400 --> 01:13:15.680
I'm gonna be in the best shape of my life at 40 years old.

1538
01:13:15.680 --> 01:13:17.060
He was 36 at the time.

1539
01:13:17.060 --> 01:13:17.900
Guess what?

1540
01:13:17.900 --> 01:13:21.320
He's 52, still resembling a shape

1541
01:13:22.160 --> 01:13:23.000
that's not the best shape.

1542
01:13:23.000 --> 01:13:24.720
It's a round shape, but it's not the best shape.

1543
01:13:24.720 --> 01:13:26.740
It is a shape to be fair.

1544
01:13:26.740 --> 01:13:29.240
It is, but it's not the shape he was going for.

1545
01:13:29.240 --> 01:13:30.160
And guess what?

1546
01:13:30.160 --> 01:13:32.400
He got a word and the word said,

1547
01:13:32.400 --> 01:13:35.080
if you will take control of this area of your life,

1548
01:13:35.080 --> 01:13:37.240
you will have breakthrough in all areas of your life.

1549
01:13:37.240 --> 01:13:38.580
And guess what had happened?

1550
01:13:38.580 --> 01:13:41.000
My husband started, he joined a CrossFit gym.

1551
01:13:41.000 --> 01:13:43.800
You guys, I have never seen my husband work out

1552
01:13:43.800 --> 01:13:45.360
in my whole 17 years of marriage

1553
01:13:45.360 --> 01:13:48.840
beyond like maybe a few times.

1554
01:13:48.840 --> 01:13:50.200
He has been going consistently.

1555
01:13:50.200 --> 01:13:51.640
No one's forcing him.

1556
01:13:51.640 --> 01:13:53.060
I'm not nagging him into it.

1557
01:13:53.060 --> 01:13:53.900
He's doing it.

1558
01:13:53.900 --> 01:13:54.720
And guess what?

1559
01:13:54.720 --> 01:13:56.600
He is getting breakthrough in every area

1560
01:13:56.600 --> 01:13:58.000
of his life right now.

1561
01:13:58.000 --> 01:14:00.360
And I wish he was here to talk to you about it.

1562
01:14:02.440 --> 01:14:04.940
So I wanna put this out there.

1563
01:14:04.940 --> 01:14:06.960
Laura just asked a great question.

1564
01:14:06.960 --> 01:14:09.380
She said, so which area do you start in?

1565
01:14:12.360 --> 01:14:14.160
What area is getting highlighted to you?

1566
01:14:14.160 --> 01:14:16.000
What area keeps coming up?

1567
01:14:16.000 --> 01:14:17.640
Look, my husband needed breakthrough

1568
01:14:17.640 --> 01:14:19.480
and I'm not singling him out

1569
01:14:19.560 --> 01:14:21.640
because we all need breakthrough, including me.

1570
01:14:21.640 --> 01:14:23.240
But he really needed breakthrough

1571
01:14:23.240 --> 01:14:25.400
in a lot of areas of his life.

1572
01:14:26.520 --> 01:14:30.680
But this area, okay, because it was his main medicator.

1573
01:14:30.680 --> 01:14:32.840
Food was his main medicator.

1574
01:14:32.840 --> 01:14:34.800
When he surrendered this area to God

1575
01:14:34.800 --> 01:14:38.440
and he was willing to start doing the work

1576
01:14:38.440 --> 01:14:41.520
and let God give him the momentum,

1577
01:14:41.520 --> 01:14:44.560
it caused a domino effect in all the other areas.

1578
01:14:44.560 --> 01:14:46.520
So maybe take a look at the area

1579
01:14:46.520 --> 01:14:51.520
that you use as the self-medicator the most.

1580
01:14:52.680 --> 01:14:56.440
Maybe look at the area that God has highlighted

1581
01:14:56.440 --> 01:14:58.560
to you the most.

1582
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:09.200
And even, Bethany, that's being highlighted to them right now under the sound of our voices

1583
01:15:09.200 --> 01:15:11.100
teaching these subjects.

1584
01:15:11.100 --> 01:15:12.740
What is coming up?

1585
01:15:12.740 --> 01:15:15.040
What is being highlighted to you?

1586
01:15:15.040 --> 01:15:28.200
And I'm going to encourage you right now to don't pick the one that's bringing you the

1587
01:15:28.200 --> 01:15:30.060
most shame.

1588
01:15:30.060 --> 01:15:34.600
That may not be like in financial piece, David Ramsey always actually has you start, he does

1589
01:15:34.600 --> 01:15:36.360
the snowball effect.

1590
01:15:36.360 --> 01:15:41.160
So you pay off your smallest credit card first, and then you build the momentum for the next

1591
01:15:41.160 --> 01:15:44.040
biggest credit card or the next biggest credit card.

1592
01:15:44.040 --> 01:15:51.320
So Renee, that is so good, because just today I posted on my Instagram, everybody needs

1593
01:15:51.320 --> 01:15:53.880
some wins.

1594
01:15:53.880 --> 01:15:54.880
So speak to that.

1595
01:15:54.880 --> 01:15:59.200
What you're saying right now is get a win under your belt.

1596
01:15:59.200 --> 01:16:01.320
Yeah, it's really about getting a win.

1597
01:16:01.320 --> 01:16:08.720
And so it's like, if losing 25 pounds or writing that book or paying off your debt is too big,

1598
01:16:08.720 --> 01:16:13.260
like start to list all of the things and start like, what is the one that you can get done

1599
01:16:13.260 --> 01:16:18.040
in the next 10 days, or the next three weeks, and do that one.

1600
01:16:18.040 --> 01:16:22.220
And then that one's going to give you the excitement and the momentum, as Bethany said,

1601
01:16:22.220 --> 01:16:24.500
to do the very next one.

1602
01:16:24.500 --> 01:16:28.740
And the very next one, it kind of gives you like excitement.

1603
01:16:28.740 --> 01:16:33.660
And even if it's lose weight or something, and your goal is 30 pounds, you might say,

1604
01:16:33.660 --> 01:16:37.680
I want to be able to walk 100 steps without sitting down.

1605
01:16:37.680 --> 01:16:40.020
I want to get to 1000 steps.

1606
01:16:40.020 --> 01:16:43.900
I want to be able to, you know, do a sit up.

1607
01:16:43.900 --> 01:16:50.140
I mean, like, do one push up, like give yourself these smaller wins.

1608
01:16:50.140 --> 01:16:54.820
And again, don't pick the one that you think the world has beat you down with, like the

1609
01:16:54.820 --> 01:16:57.220
one that's your nemesis.

1610
01:16:57.220 --> 01:17:02.740
You know, like, if you feel motivated, and the Holy Spirit is convicting you to go tackle

1611
01:17:02.740 --> 01:17:06.380
it, and it's done in love, yes, then God will do it.

1612
01:17:06.380 --> 01:17:12.420
Like my dad was able to quit smoking cold turkey at the age of 65, I think, and he'd

1613
01:17:12.420 --> 01:17:14.620
been smoking since he was 13 years old.

1614
01:17:14.620 --> 01:17:16.780
And we begged him for years.

1615
01:17:16.780 --> 01:17:21.940
And because there was so much pressure for him to do it, he just couldn't do it until

1616
01:17:21.940 --> 01:17:24.580
he was finally not feeling shame about it.

1617
01:17:24.580 --> 01:17:27.460
And the Holy Spirit was like, all right, now it's time.

1618
01:17:27.460 --> 01:17:29.820
And then he did it for the right reason for the right purpose.

1619
01:17:29.820 --> 01:17:31.940
And he was just able to cut it off.

1620
01:17:31.940 --> 01:17:35.780
You guys, after 50 years, I finally was able to stop biting my nails.

1621
01:17:35.780 --> 01:17:42.100
There was so much shame around nail biting that I couldn't even tackle that one first

1622
01:17:42.100 --> 01:17:46.180
because the enemy just had such a field day in my ear.

1623
01:17:46.580 --> 01:17:50.580
And you guys, this is why you have to just do today well.

1624
01:17:50.580 --> 01:17:54.020
And remember, if it's just this hour well, fine.

1625
01:17:54.020 --> 01:17:57.980
In whatever area it is that, you know, you really need that breakthrough.

1626
01:17:57.980 --> 01:17:59.100
You need to do that.

1627
01:17:59.100 --> 01:18:03.620
Because like Renee is saying, you know, you can't, you can't, you eat an elephant one

1628
01:18:03.620 --> 01:18:04.620
bite at a time.

1629
01:18:04.620 --> 01:18:05.620
You do.

1630
01:18:05.620 --> 01:18:06.620
All right.

1631
01:18:06.620 --> 01:18:09.740
Not that any of us are eating elephants, but it's a saying, and it's a saying for a reason.

1632
01:18:09.740 --> 01:18:11.500
You think about how big elephants are.

1633
01:18:11.500 --> 01:18:13.660
You couldn't eat it in one sitting.

1634
01:18:13.660 --> 01:18:15.900
You would have to eat it one bite at a time.

1635
01:18:15.900 --> 01:18:21.380
And for a lot of us, in fact, all of us, different areas of our lives, they're connected

1636
01:18:21.380 --> 01:18:23.740
like dominoes.

1637
01:18:23.740 --> 01:18:24.740
They're connected.

1638
01:18:24.740 --> 01:18:27.620
And so you might think, oh, you know, what difference is this little thing going to make?

1639
01:18:27.620 --> 01:18:28.620
Like what?

1640
01:18:28.620 --> 01:18:29.620
Like cleaning out your garage.

1641
01:18:29.620 --> 01:18:31.220
It makes a big difference.

1642
01:18:31.220 --> 01:18:33.700
It creates a momentum.

1643
01:18:33.700 --> 01:18:35.740
You guys know what momentum means, right?

1644
01:18:35.740 --> 01:18:38.580
It means gaining speed, right?

1645
01:18:38.580 --> 01:18:42.220
Until you get to a place where you're unstoppable.

1646
01:18:42.220 --> 01:18:47.140
It doesn't mean that you go zero to a hundred miles an hour in five seconds, right?

1647
01:18:47.140 --> 01:18:48.580
You're not a Lamborghini.

1648
01:18:48.580 --> 01:18:56.220
You are going to gain speed by increments, by successes, by wins.

1649
01:18:56.220 --> 01:19:02.500
For me, it was, my former husband told me that I couldn't take my daughter on vacation.

1650
01:19:02.500 --> 01:19:07.980
By the way, y'all, that was, I just celebrated the seventh anniversary of that.

1651
01:19:07.980 --> 01:19:10.460
Renee and Bethany, I forgot to tell you this.

1652
01:19:10.460 --> 01:19:14.340
When I was in San Francisco, you guys, speaking on that panel a couple of days ago, in my

1653
01:19:14.340 --> 01:19:19.020
Facebook memory, it popped up that I was in San Francisco on the very same day, seven

1654
01:19:19.020 --> 01:19:20.020
years ago.

1655
01:19:20.020 --> 01:19:21.020
You know what I was doing there?

1656
01:19:21.020 --> 01:19:25.700
I had my 16-year-old daughter and I took her to California for her 16th birthday because

1657
01:19:25.700 --> 01:19:27.860
that's what she wanted for her birthday.

1658
01:19:27.860 --> 01:19:32.980
You guys, I had never taken any of my family on a vacation in my entire life, all right?

1659
01:19:32.980 --> 01:19:37.780
I was, what, 42 years old, had never, ever gone on a vacation, had never been able to

1660
01:19:37.780 --> 01:19:42.340
afford a vacation where I'm the person taking someone on vacation.

1661
01:19:42.340 --> 01:19:47.580
And my former husband said, don't disappoint her by telling her you're going to take her.

1662
01:19:47.580 --> 01:19:51.500
We all know that you can't afford it and then, and you know, and that it's not true.

1663
01:19:51.500 --> 01:19:52.820
You're not going to be able to take her.

1664
01:19:52.820 --> 01:19:59.740
And you guys, that just made me mad enough that I went to the Lord and I was like, he's

1665
01:19:59.740 --> 01:20:00.020
right.

1666
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:03.680
and it's not okay with me anymore that he's right.

1667
01:20:04.800 --> 01:20:07.060
Someone needs to get mad tonight

1668
01:20:07.060 --> 01:20:08.920
and you need to go to the Lord and say,

1669
01:20:08.920 --> 01:20:11.560
this thing that I'm believing about myself,

1670
01:20:11.560 --> 01:20:15.240
it's been true up until today, the facts point to it.

1671
01:20:15.240 --> 01:20:16.920
But your truth is greater than that

1672
01:20:16.920 --> 01:20:19.480
and I'm no longer okay with the facts.

1673
01:20:20.800 --> 01:20:23.960
I'm no longer okay to stay here.

1674
01:20:23.960 --> 01:20:24.960
And you know what?

1675
01:20:24.960 --> 01:20:26.720
God began to give me favor.

1676
01:20:26.720 --> 01:20:29.240
I got my little butt out and the only thing I had,

1677
01:20:29.240 --> 01:20:32.040
my little cruise of oil was my car.

1678
01:20:32.040 --> 01:20:36.040
And I signed up and I started delivering food and people

1679
01:20:36.040 --> 01:20:37.040
and guess what?

1680
01:20:37.040 --> 01:20:40.360
God allowed my fares to be people that tip me big.

1681
01:20:40.360 --> 01:20:43.560
In fact, I started driving this, this is a true story.

1682
01:20:43.560 --> 01:20:45.800
I started driving, not that all my stories are not true,

1683
01:20:45.800 --> 01:20:48.840
they are, but I know this is gonna be kind of fantastical.

1684
01:20:48.840 --> 01:20:52.360
I picked up this guy from a bar driving Uber

1685
01:20:52.360 --> 01:20:54.960
that was three sheets to the wind, all right?

1686
01:20:54.960 --> 01:20:56.800
Drunk as a skunk, for those of you that don't know

1687
01:20:56.800 --> 01:20:59.160
what that three sheets to the wind means.

1688
01:21:00.080 --> 01:21:03.560
And he liked me so much, thought I was so funny.

1689
01:21:03.560 --> 01:21:05.560
He was a local business owner and guess what?

1690
01:21:05.560 --> 01:21:10.560
An alcoholic, a raging alcoholic that he asked me

1691
01:21:10.560 --> 01:21:13.080
if I would pick him up from these bars regularly

1692
01:21:13.080 --> 01:21:14.280
and take him home.

1693
01:21:14.280 --> 01:21:16.920
You guys, he would tip me a hundred bucks every time.

1694
01:21:17.920 --> 01:21:22.040
I started picking up this drunk skunk from bars

1695
01:21:22.040 --> 01:21:22.920
and taking him home.

1696
01:21:22.920 --> 01:21:25.120
You guys were like, that sounds crazy, Jackie.

1697
01:21:25.120 --> 01:21:28.400
Yeah, so his name was Judd and he was super kind.

1698
01:21:28.440 --> 01:21:30.080
He was just not kind to himself.

1699
01:21:31.120 --> 01:21:33.040
And one night as I was taking him home

1700
01:21:33.040 --> 01:21:34.880
and this was right before I went on this vacation,

1701
01:21:34.880 --> 01:21:36.760
this was right before I had enough money

1702
01:21:36.760 --> 01:21:40.000
and every day I would come home with hundreds of dollars

1703
01:21:40.000 --> 01:21:41.560
towards this vacation and then I would buy

1704
01:21:41.560 --> 01:21:43.720
the plane tickets and then I would come home

1705
01:21:43.720 --> 01:21:45.000
and then I would rent the Airbnb

1706
01:21:45.000 --> 01:21:46.480
because I'd have enough money then.

1707
01:21:46.480 --> 01:21:48.080
And then I would do this and do that until what?

1708
01:21:48.080 --> 01:21:51.200
Until I had everything that I needed for that.

1709
01:21:51.200 --> 01:21:53.920
But one night as I was taking him home

1710
01:21:53.920 --> 01:21:56.920
and it was one of the last times that I ever saw him,

1711
01:21:56.920 --> 01:21:59.720
he was passed out drunk in the backseat of my car

1712
01:21:59.720 --> 01:22:02.120
and I started singing this song by the Helzers

1713
01:22:02.120 --> 01:22:04.360
called No Longer Slaves.

1714
01:22:04.360 --> 01:22:05.480
You guys know the song?

1715
01:22:06.360 --> 01:22:09.000
I was just driving my car with a passed out drunk man

1716
01:22:09.000 --> 01:22:13.440
in my backseat singing the song No Longer Slaves.

1717
01:22:14.400 --> 01:22:16.560
And I'm sure you guys know the song, right?

1718
01:22:17.480 --> 01:22:21.720
I'm no longer a slave to fear, I am a child of God.

1719
01:22:21.720 --> 01:22:22.840
And guess what?

1720
01:22:22.840 --> 01:22:25.360
He started rousing in his sleep

1721
01:22:25.360 --> 01:22:27.200
and he started singing it with me.

1722
01:22:28.720 --> 01:22:30.520
He started singing along like,

1723
01:22:30.520 --> 01:22:33.280
I don't know what this is but I like this song.

1724
01:22:33.280 --> 01:22:35.640
Yeah, you have a beautiful voice, keep singing.

1725
01:22:35.640 --> 01:22:38.160
And we kept singing and we were singing together

1726
01:22:38.160 --> 01:22:42.040
and then he's really singing like it's an Irish pub song

1727
01:22:42.040 --> 01:22:44.760
and he's singing it and he's getting more and more sober.

1728
01:22:44.760 --> 01:22:46.960
And before he got out of my car that night,

1729
01:22:46.960 --> 01:22:48.680
I talked to him about Jesus.

1730
01:22:50.280 --> 01:22:52.640
I talked to him about his liver.

1731
01:22:52.640 --> 01:22:55.840
I talked to him about his one and only life on this earth

1732
01:22:55.840 --> 01:22:57.400
and I was able to pray for him.

1733
01:23:01.240 --> 01:23:02.440
That's a true story.

1734
01:23:02.440 --> 01:23:04.560
And what happened in that story?

1735
01:23:04.560 --> 01:23:07.520
I got breakthrough and I wanna tell you guys something.

1736
01:23:07.520 --> 01:23:12.520
That was my first real win and I've never turned back since.

1737
01:23:12.760 --> 01:23:14.880
I've had win after win after win.

1738
01:23:14.880 --> 01:23:17.000
So Father God has prayed for all your sons and daughters

1739
01:23:17.000 --> 01:23:18.680
right now that are on this call.

1740
01:23:18.680 --> 01:23:20.440
You have wins for each and every one of them

1741
01:23:20.440 --> 01:23:22.400
and maybe they don't look the way they expected them

1742
01:23:23.160 --> 01:23:25.240
to look, maybe it's something that they're not even thinking

1743
01:23:25.240 --> 01:23:27.120
about being powerful in their life

1744
01:23:27.120 --> 01:23:29.000
to change their lives forever.

1745
01:23:29.000 --> 01:23:31.520
But I know that one taste of victory

1746
01:23:31.520 --> 01:23:33.680
because you've created them to be victors.

1747
01:23:33.680 --> 01:23:36.640
You've created them to be lenders and not borrowers.

1748
01:23:36.640 --> 01:23:40.120
One moment, God, where they have victory,

1749
01:23:40.120 --> 01:23:43.520
they will be addicted to it in a righteous way

1750
01:23:43.520 --> 01:23:46.600
and they will know that that is their true identity.

1751
01:23:46.600 --> 01:23:48.640
Victors is their true identity.

1752
01:23:48.640 --> 01:23:50.840
Overcomers is their true identity.

1753
01:23:51.840 --> 01:23:53.320
Father, we just thank you for it, God.

1754
01:23:53.320 --> 01:23:55.400
Right now, Lord, in each and every one of them, God,

1755
01:23:55.400 --> 01:23:57.480
we pray that you would stoke the fires,

1756
01:23:57.480 --> 01:24:00.160
stoke the fires of the overcoming spirit

1757
01:24:00.160 --> 01:24:01.920
that you've placed inside of them.

1758
01:24:01.920 --> 01:24:03.840
Stoke the fires of their identity,

1759
01:24:03.840 --> 01:24:06.880
their royal identity as daughters and sons.

1760
01:24:06.880 --> 01:24:09.160
You've created them to succeed, Lord.

1761
01:24:09.160 --> 01:24:11.080
And so Lord, we're asking that you would highlight

1762
01:24:11.080 --> 01:24:14.400
to them one thing, one thing that they can do,

1763
01:24:14.400 --> 01:24:17.520
that they could even do before we meet together again

1764
01:24:17.520 --> 01:24:20.680
on Saturday, where they can get that initial win

1765
01:24:21.520 --> 01:24:23.400
and then that win from heaven will be at their back,

1766
01:24:23.400 --> 01:24:26.600
pushing them forward into more and more and more

1767
01:24:26.600 --> 01:24:28.840
and more breakthrough in Jesus' name.

1768
01:24:28.840 --> 01:24:30.440
Let it be so, amen.

1769
01:24:35.960 --> 01:24:37.680
Amen, so good.

1770
01:24:38.960 --> 01:24:41.840
So good, it's been a blessing to be with you all tonight.

1771
01:24:41.840 --> 01:24:45.240
We hope to see you on Supernatural Saturday at 10 a.m.

1772
01:24:45.240 --> 01:24:47.760
on Eastern time this Saturday.

1773
01:24:48.760 --> 01:24:50.240
Have a great night, everyone.