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Welcome to last year's single challenge day three.

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This is the final day in this series. So welcome.

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This is the last day and we have a lot of, a lot of territory to cover,

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but I want to pray over us first. Father God,

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I'm so thankful for your daughters.

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I'm thankful that you have drawn them here with your spirit,

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that you have heard the cries of their heart,

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that heaven has been listening and that you are drawing them to your heart,

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taking them off the path of pain and leading them on that good path back to you.

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I pray that you would open their hearts and their minds to receive whatever it

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is that you have for them today and that you would help them to understand that

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they are not alone,

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that you are emotionally involved with them and that you want even better for

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them than they want for themselves.

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I ask that you would speak to me and speak through me,

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let your anointing destroy any strongholds that are keeping them back from their

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best life. In Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Amen. All right.

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So we have a lot of stuff to get over today to get through today. Um,

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and then I'm going to tell you all about my program last year single.

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So last portion of today's broadcast, I'm going to tell you all about it.

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A lot of you have had questions like, Hey, how do we meet the guys? How, you know,

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do we have a success story? Like,

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how does this work is the consensus that I see right now happening in this

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challenge Facebook group.

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And I'm going to tell you all about that in the second half of today.

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But right now I want to just light you up spiritually about why God has brought

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you here. I want to just prime the pump,

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but I'm going to do a little housekeeping here at the beginning.

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I want you to invite a friend, invite a friend to come and join us.

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Yes, the challenge is over,

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but the replays are going to be up for at least another week or so.

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Invite a friend to come and watch because I believe what you help make happen

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for someone else, God makes happen for you.

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A lot of times we have a scarcity mentality and we just try to get to the front

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of the line, right? But we don't want to do that anymore because that's not

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kingdom. In kingdom, there's more than enough, right? Jehovah Jireh.

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He is our provider and he doesn't have empty pockets.

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And so it's important for us to understand that we don't have to gatekeep any

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good thing that comes into our lives because we can share it with others.

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Because the more that we give, the more that comes back to us.

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And so I want to really encourage you to, to invite a friend,

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but make sure that they come in through Jackie Dorman.com, right?

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www.Jackie,

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J A C K I E D O R M A N.com M A N.

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Dorman, like Norman, but with a D.

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Make sure they come through there because they're going to want to opt in for

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all of our bonus material that we send out through email and you're going to

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want to too. So if you didn't do that,

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make sure that you go over right now and you sign up and register your email

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because after this challenge is over today,

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I'm going to be sending out all kinds of amazing content. All right?

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And so you're going to want to get that because that's going to continue to just

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prime that hope pump in your heart, right?

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And supernatural hope is what happens in order for us to have these

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miraculous love stories. Okay? So we got to have that going on, right?

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So make sure that you do that and don't forget about it and make sure that you

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invite a friend, invite two friends, invite three friends. Um,

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because this is a very special,

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very supernatural place as you're going to see,

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because I'm going to show you some love stories today. At the end,

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when I'm telling you about the program,

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I'm going to show you some of the hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds

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of women just like you that are now engaged or married because of this

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program and because of their yes. Right? And so that's an important part.

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But before that,

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let's go ahead and just go after some supernatural things that I believe God

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wants you to leave this challenge with. All right?

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I promised you that I was going to over deliver during this challenge.

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This is not one of those tease videos that you see on the internet.

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You click on it and they promise to like give you the keys to some problem in

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your life, you know, your thyroid or losing weight or, you know,

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building a business or whatever it is.

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But then the entire video is just like a bunch of circular

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talking where they talk about the problem,

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but they never tell you the solution, right?

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Because they want you to buy something. But here, as you can see,

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I've delivered a lot of amazing truth during this challenge.

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A lot of things that have unlocked your heart,

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a lot of things that are just going to make you better. Right?

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That's why I always say, Hey, welcome me, Jackie D your life is better now,

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because I'm going to deliver the truth of heaven. Whatever God has given me,

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I'm not going to gatekeep it. I'm going to deliver it to you.

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The problem is, is that we can't do it all in three days.

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There's so much more work to be done. Although we've opened up some of those heart boxes, we've

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caught some of those foxes in the vineyard, we got to go forward and do the rest of the work. And so

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I want to talk about that for a second, because when God gives us a promise,

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he gives us a process. You might've heard me mention that in day two. Remember, I talked

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about going and sitting in the waiting room after you find out that you're pregnant. That would be

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ridiculous, right? We don't do that. We go and prepare. To recap a little bit of day two, I

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talked about how the word wait is not a biblical word. That word is actually translated into words

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that mean to expectantly prepare. There are no waiting rooms in the kingdom of God. None, y'all.

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There are no waiting rooms. Does it make sense for you to have a waiting room? Because you have

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a very finite earth life. The best of us, you know, I have a friend whose grandma is celebrating

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103 birthday, her 103rd birthday this week. Okay. So even the best of us, if we live to be over

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a hundred years old, y'all, that's just a hundred years and it goes by real fast, right? And so what

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benefit would it be for God to make you wait until the end of your life to be able to get the tools

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and the resources, including a partnership in order to be able to do the things that he's put

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you on earth to do? How does that make any sense? It doesn't make any sense. It doesn't make logical

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intellectual sense, but most importantly, it doesn't make any spiritual sense. A lot of people

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have this religious idea that God doesn't give us anything until we're perfect. Now, God gives us

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things to grow into. God helps us. He gives us the tools to get some maturity so that we can handle

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the things that he wants to give us. Remember what Jesus said about marriage to his disciples?

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I taught you guys about this. He said, not everyone can handle the weightiness of it.

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Not everyone's mature enough to live a married life, but if you can basically surrender to the

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process, then you should go after it because you can have it. And I believe that you can have it

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too. Now I've seen all different types of love stories. You guys have had a front row seat to

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so many love stories now, you know, gone are the days when I just helped 15 of my friends get

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married. You know, that might seem like a lot of friends to help get married. And actually I've

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helped so many others stay married because I've always been the relationship girl. But at the same

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time, now the love stories that I've had a front seat to are so numerous that a lot of times I even

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forget people's names, but I don't forget their stories, right? Because there's so many and guess

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what? They're all different types of stories. Then they all needed different tools and different

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resources and different maturity processes. And that is what we are here to help you with because

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it's not just about finding love. It's about being able to sustain love. There's a scripture in the

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Bible that says that God's increase, his upgrade, his promotion in your life. It doesn't come with

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sorrow, meaning that God's not going to give you something that's not sustainable. He's not going

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to give you something that you're not mature enough to handle. Now we can go out and get it ourselves.

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We can jump over those baby gates in our lives and we can go out and say, Hey, you know what?

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If God's not going to give it to me, I'm going to get it myself. And we do that. So often our

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broken hearts, remember the broken heart, it's what it's sick, right? And it wants medication.

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And so we run out and we try to medicate it with all different types of things. But if you want the

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God thing, not just the good to you in the moment thing, and then you're going to want to tune into

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what I'm going to say now. So God doesn't just give us a promise. He gives us a process and we

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can't circumvent that process. I know a lot of times we like to take shortcuts. We like to try

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to figure out shortcuts, but there's a difference between a shortcut and acceleration. If you stop

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trying to shortcut the process, all right, and you let God accelerate you, the acceleration is

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actually going to take you to a place where you can actually sustain what it is that you want.

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The shortcut is going to get you into places that are way beyond your pay grade. And you're going

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to end up having another failure and that failure is going to not rob you of potential. You still

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have the potential to be successful, but it's going to rob you of confidence. And what happens

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when we're robbed of confidence? We go back and sit in the waiting room for another five years.

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And I don't want that to happen to you. We're not going to lather, rinse, repeat that cycle.

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So it's time to cut off the cycle. It's time to stop trying to skip the process. I've done this

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in my life so many times. I've tried to skip the process to lose weight. I've tried to skip the

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process to build a business. I was the child of a single mother. My mom was married three times

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before I was 10 years old, all two abusive men. And so I knew what it was like to be independent

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at a very young age, to make my own food, to do my own thing, to figure it out. If I needed money

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for something, I had to go out and make that money myself, whether it was shoveling driveways.

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It didn't matter what it was. And so as an adult, because I'm a born entrepreneur,

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because of that, a lot of times I try to circumvent...

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I don't need that business coach, or I don't need to take this training,

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or I don't, I, you know, I know enough to be dangerous.

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The problem is,

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is the only thing that you're being dangerous to is yourself when you try to

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circumvent that process. And so we don't want to,

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we don't want to skip the process.

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We don't want to skip the people that have the grace to help us in the process.

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And we don't want to skip the maturity that's going to happen as a result.

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A lot of you have been single for a really long time, but you have been waiting.

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You haven't been preparing. Okay. You've been waiting.

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You haven't been maturing.

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And I believe that God wants to do an accelerated maturity process in your life

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so that you don't have to wait anymore.

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Please don't think that I'm inviting you into a big, long wait.

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That's why we call this last year single, because there are some things,

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some very important things that God wants to put into alignment in your heart.

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And in your life, there's a very, you know,

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detrimental foxes that he wants to catch and pull out of that vineyard before

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you're one year into an amazing relationship and you sabotage it,

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you cut and run from it. All right. Before you jump into something, you know,

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that dumb and happy, so to speak,

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and you have your blinders on of all the things that you wish something was,

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and you're not looking at the red flags waving right in your face.

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We don't want any of that. And God doesn't want that for you anymore either.

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He wants you to be able to continue to gain momentum in your life and not just

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your love life, but your love life is a very, very important thing, right?

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That's a make it or break it relationship.

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All of you that are divorced know that you, if you pick someone,

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you choose someone who either can't go, you know,

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to the place of maturity that you're going to continue to go to in life,

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or they just aren't who you thought they were. And they're, you know,

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in an unhealthy place that sabotages you. Every time you turn around,

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you take five steps forward and 20 steps back because of this relationship.

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That's a make it or break it relationship.

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And we want to make sure that we're not just choosing right,

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but we're choosing righteously.

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And a lot of us have some weird attractions that we have to unpack.

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We're not loser magnets, we're loser addicts.

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What we believe we become and what we become,

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we attract and we have to shut that cycle down.

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So I'm going to tell you that your love story is going to stretch you.

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It's supposed to, it's not supposed to be easy. It's supposed to be worth it.

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And some of you that have been through abusive relationships,

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now you're not even willing to take a look at anything that's hard.

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You expect that if it's from God, you're going to get to hit the easy button.

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It's going to be easy, right?

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That's how you're going to know that it's from God because it's easy.

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It's not complicated. It's not true. It's not true.

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That's not the way it works. We live in the year 2024. Everybody's broken.

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Everybody suffers. Everybody has yellow flags.

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The difference between yellow flags and red flags is a vast difference.

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And most yellow flags are either going to turn red and you need someone to help

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you see what's going on there before it happens and,

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or they're going to turn green.

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You have yellow flags and I have yellow flags,

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but what it's turning red or green,

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what's that's dependent on is whether or not we have a teachable heart,

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whether or not we're self-aware, whether or not we've done the heart work.

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who sees that they are broken and in process in this area,

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but they want to grow. They want to grow. All right.

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but we are going to stretch. And guess what? That's going to Mark you stretch

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marks, right? For those of you that have babies, um, there,

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there's marks that have been left behind that show that process in which you

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became the mother. We're coming up into mother's day.

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There's a process that shows that you became the mother on your body.

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And that is those marks where you've been stretched. And, and this is,

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this is going to stretch you and it's going to Mark you and it's going to change

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you because it's supposed to, and becoming the bride is supposed to,

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whether it's the bride of Christ or whether it's the bride of man,

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it's going to change you.

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And you have to make room for it just like you've made room for that baby in

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your womb. And for those of you that haven't experienced that yet, um,

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and want to experience that,

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God promised me that we would have geriatric supernatural pregnancies in this

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movement. And we do. So the doctors say, Hey,

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everything over 35 is advanced maternal age.

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carry a physical child in their womb past those years of gestation.

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God promised we would see those miracles in this community and we do see them.

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But then also there are all kinds of amazing children that need families.

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And so if you have the heart of a mother, which I believe you do,

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I believe all divine feminine women have the heart of a mother.

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There are children for you to parent and who knows, you know, like my love story,

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your love story might be a box set. My Prince Charming wasn't sold separately.

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He came as a family box set with children included.

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And for those of you that that scares, you're like, Oh no,

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I do not want to be, you know, the, the step mom. Well,

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don't be the step mom then. All right. Be the bonus mom.

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Be the mom that comes alongside these children and become such an important part

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of their lives.

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that they couldn't, like it's not just your love story,

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it's their love story.

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In fact, I just saw on my Facebook memories,

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this is reminding me,

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this is hot off the presses from Holy Spirit,

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you know, cause this is Mother's Day's weekend.

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I saw a post that my son, Jaron,

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who was 11 years old when I married his father,

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he posted for me on Mother's Day right here.

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I just found this in my memories, this post by my son.

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He said, I'd like to honor my mother,

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Jacqueline Dorman for Mother's Day

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because she's taught me so much

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about how to be more in tune with others

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and be more spontaneous in my life.

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I think that I get more out of this life experience

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than I ever could have without her.

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Happy Mother's Day.

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That was nine years ago, you guys.

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He was 20 years old when he wrote that.

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And I get all kinds of sweet cards from him.

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In fact, I'm not gonna see him on Mother's Day

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because he's traveling right now.

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But before he left, he made sure that he took me out.

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He gave me a gift card.

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He bought me some tennis shoes.

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He's always given me new tennis shoes.

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So you can have amazing, beautiful relationships

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with children that you have not given birth to.

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All right, you can.

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Okay, so we've already established during this challenge

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that God doesn't need our help to do his part.

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God can do his part,

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and he's always been able to do his part.

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But we've gotta get out of his way.

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We gotta stop trying to do his part, number one.

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And number two, we've gotta start doing our part.

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And a lot of times we don't know what that is,

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and we need help figuring out what that is, right?

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He says in Isaiah 66, hey, you do your part,

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but when it's time for the children to come to the birth,

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when it's time to birth,

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when it's time to manifest the things

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that I've put inside of you, that's all me, that's my part.

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So we do our part, and he does his.

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And oftentimes, God will hide our breakthrough

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in other people.

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And that's been hard for me

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because I grew up very independent.

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I told you about my childhood.

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I lived in a girl's home, a home for unwanted children.

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I want you to go ahead and take that in for a second.

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By the time that I was just starting out my teen years,

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some of the hardest years, right, in adolescence,

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I was living in a home for unwanted children,

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unwanted kids.

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to foster care type situations.

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All of you that were part of the foster care system,

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or maybe you're a fostering mom right now,

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the kids show up with the garbage bags full of clothes.

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That was my life, y'all.

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to just say, you know what, I don't wanna do this anymore,

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I ran away.

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I ran away with a guy that I was dating

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when I was 17 years old.

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I was couch surfing, I was homeless for a minute,

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all kinds of different things.

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I've experienced that.

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I'll be 50 years old in January,

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I look back and I see God's hand on me

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all through my life, helping me,

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establishing me, keeping me safe,

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even though I didn't know him.

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I didn't know him, but he certainly knew me.

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And so some of you feel like you've been abandoned

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and you've been forgotten, but you know what?

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Your story's not over yet.

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I'm not gonna cry.

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Your story's not over yet.

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My story wasn't over yet, right?

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And even after I met Jesus,

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you guys know that this is how the heart work came to be.

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Everything wasn't magically better for me, okay?

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We do people a disservice when we say,

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oh, you met Jesus, everything's better now.

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No, it's not.

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I was dealing with all kinds of mental health issues

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as a result of my abusive childhood,

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all kinds of situations where it would be very difficult

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for me to trust anyone or attach to anyone.

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You know, I uniquely have been gifted

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by what I have been through to help you get unstuck,

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to help you to be able to attach.

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It's one thing to meet someone

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and to feel all kinds of feels for them.

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And it's another thing to trust them

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and be able to let them in.

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Those are two very vastly different things.

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And so God will hide our breakthrough in midwives,

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so to speak.

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And I would love to be the midwife

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for the love story that you're carrying.

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Doesn't Song of Songs 2 tell us that the story,

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the love story that I've already planted within you,

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it's already been written, you're already carrying it.

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Psalm 139 tells us that God wrote a book,

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a story about your life.

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And I believe that this is a chapter of that story.

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And it's time to get in that chapter,

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the one that God wrote, not the one that Hurt wrote,

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not the one that Abandonment wrote,

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not the one that all of your bad choices and men wrote,

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but the one that God has written, right?

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And I wanna help you be able to do that.

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And I believe that God always sends people to me

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when they're ready for a tipping point.

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When they're sick and tired of being sick and tired,

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when they don't want to go through the same old motions

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over and over and over again, right?

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They don't wanna fake it till they make it anymore.

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They want to be it so that the world can see it.

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And that's what your love story is about.

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It's not just about you.

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It's about your lineage.

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It's about your legacy.

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I believe right now God is calling missionaries

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into marriage and family

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because marriage and family is dying.

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And if you wanna volunteer as tribute.

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If you want to say, like Isaiah said, here I am, God send me, then this is the time.

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This is the time. This is the time to volunteer for that because God is choosing people to go

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into that. And I believe that your presence here is because He has chosen you. He has

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highlighted you for this day and age to be the person that shows this world what marriage and

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family looks like through your marriage and your family. All right. So there's not one person on

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this earth that doesn't need other people and other people's help to reach their highest

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potential. That's the way God did it. All right. Yes, He's the source, but He's the head of the

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human resource department. And He will send human resources to answer our prayers. That is what He

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does. Working through their giftings because of their experience and the anointings they carry

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and the things that they know, but we don't trust people. And so if we can't get it done ourselves,

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then it doesn't get done. Right. And we've got to stop living that way because how's it working

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out for you? Right. That DIY, do it yourself. How's it working out for you? And not just in

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your love life. Think about all the areas of your life where you refuse to invest. And you're like,

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well, but Jackie, I don't have the money. We have what we, we have resources for what we want to

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have resources for. I know. Okay. Because the first financial breakthrough that I ever had was

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because my former husband told me on the phone because of my daughter's 16th birthday, she wanted

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to go to California. I had never taken her on a trip. I had never had the money to go anywhere

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on vacation with my children. You know, I was in ministry full time and y'all know that doesn't

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pay nothing. All right. It doesn't pay anything. Right. Um, as far as in this lifetime, lots of

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eternal treasure being stored up, not a lot of earthly treasure being stored up when you're in

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full-time ministry. And so he told me on the phone, you know, and, and he was very happy to

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tell me that he was going to take her on the trip that she wanted to go on because he had lots of

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money. He had a really great job. He had a career, you know, I helped pay for him to have that career

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as I worked while he went to college, when we were married, you know, all the things.

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And now I'm poor as a little church mouse. And he's out here making six figures and saying,

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I'm going to treat our daughter to this vacation. And something rose up inside of me. And I was like,

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no, I'm going to take her. And he laughed at me. You guys, he laughed in my ear. He said,

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come on, Jackie, you and I both know that you're not going to be able to come up with the money to

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take her to California for her birthday. And I said, yeah, I will watch me. And I hung up the

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phone and I was like, okay, God, I can't disappoint her. I can't say I'm going to do it. And then at

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the end, end up not doing it. And I didn't have credit cards. I didn't have anything to be able

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to like, you know, pay for it or live beyond my means, so to speak. So God began to give me

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creative ideas. And he began to give me opportunities and he began to give me the

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grace to have breakthrough. And you know what I learned during that little season of my life?

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I learned that I was never stuck on the outside. I was only stuck on the inside.

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I believed that I couldn't do it before that moment. And so I never was able to do it before

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I was never able to stretch. I was never able to have success in areas of my finances. But then

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all of a sudden I put, you know, my faith on it. I was like, okay, God, I can't do it myself for

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sure. But with you, I can do anything, right? It's not about what God can do. It's about what we

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believe he can do through us, right? To him who's able to exceedingly abundantly above all we can

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ask, think, or imagine through what? Ephesians 3.20, the power that works in us, which is the

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power of Holy Spirit. And so all kinds of revelation started coming to me. And can I tell

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you guys, I never from that moment forward ever thought that finances were something that was

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going to keep me back from something that I really wanted to do ever again, ever again.

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And that was seven years ago. My daughter is now 23 years old, right? Come on. Someone needed to

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hear that. So there's no one, there's not one person on this earth that doesn't need someone

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else's grace that's on their life, that they're carrying someone else's help, someone else's

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wisdom or knowledge in an area in order to get your breakthrough. And I believe that God has

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brought you here. And you're going to see some love stories in a minute to get the breakthrough

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that we carry. A lot of you are just positioned for a super bloom. God brings people here when

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there's time for a tipping point. Guys, there's only a couple hundred of you right here right now

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that have been actively involved in this challenge. There's eight plus billion people in the world.

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I believe that you've been handpicked. I believe that God brought you here specifically.

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Okay. It's not that there couldn't be lots and lots and lots more people, but we're not trying

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to get lots and lots and lots more people. We're just trying to get the people that God has marked

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the God, that the people that God is talking to their heart, you know? So it really, to me,

456
00:29:50.400 --> 00:29:56.320
I'm pulling for you. I'm pulling for you. So the super bloom, um, the last one that happened was

457
00:29:56.320 --> 00:30:00.000
out Lake Elsinore, California. A super bloom is a phenomena that has

458
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.360
happens when there's drought, but there's seed.

459
00:30:03.840 --> 00:30:06.180
And so a lot of you have had a lot of drought in your life.

460
00:30:06.200 --> 00:30:09.120
There hasn't been a lot of refreshing in your life.

461
00:30:09.120 --> 00:30:11.040
There hasn't been a lot of rain in your life, right?

462
00:30:11.040 --> 00:30:14.640
There's been a lot of hard things that have happened and there's areas of your

463
00:30:14.640 --> 00:30:18.400
heart that have become very hard and by disappointment and by failure,

464
00:30:18.640 --> 00:30:22.640
by trauma, by all different types of things. But the seed,

465
00:30:23.280 --> 00:30:27.880
God's word about you, God's love for you, all of those things, it's still here.

466
00:30:28.080 --> 00:30:32.000
It's still laying on that hardened area.

467
00:30:32.400 --> 00:30:36.280
And that's what happened in the natural. The last time out in California,

468
00:30:36.440 --> 00:30:38.320
they'd had months and months and months,

469
00:30:38.320 --> 00:30:41.360
I think even maybe a couple of years without any significant rainfall.

470
00:30:41.680 --> 00:30:45.360
But the flowers, the vegetation was still seeding.

471
00:30:45.640 --> 00:30:49.160
It was still seeding, especially the poppies. This was a poppy super bloom.

472
00:30:49.480 --> 00:30:52.200
And it was still seeding and it was still during the harvest season,

473
00:30:52.200 --> 00:30:55.640
letting it seeds, but the seeds were just laying on that hardened ground.

474
00:30:56.080 --> 00:30:58.480
But then they had a gully washer.

475
00:30:58.760 --> 00:31:03.560
They had a huge storm that came through and it softened that ground just

476
00:31:03.560 --> 00:31:07.360
enough for that seed to penetrate. And when that seed penetrated y'all,

477
00:31:07.640 --> 00:31:11.640
it was a sight to behold, a super bloom happened.

478
00:31:11.880 --> 00:31:14.520
And I believe that God has positioned you for a super bloom.

479
00:31:14.720 --> 00:31:17.920
There's a lot of good information that God has been trying to get into your

480
00:31:17.920 --> 00:31:19.320
heart for a really long time.

481
00:31:19.600 --> 00:31:24.600
And it's all just positioned to penetrate during this program that you would do

482
00:31:24.720 --> 00:31:28.800
with me during what I call the heart work and super bloom in your life,

483
00:31:28.800 --> 00:31:33.320
in the area of your health and your wealth, your relationships, your identity,

484
00:31:33.360 --> 00:31:34.680
so many different things,

485
00:31:34.720 --> 00:31:38.760
just things that you've never been able to go forward in for so long,

486
00:31:38.760 --> 00:31:41.960
just like me and that story about taking my daughter to California.

487
00:31:41.960 --> 00:31:44.560
And then all of a sudden, boom, super bloom,

488
00:31:45.600 --> 00:31:46.760
super bloom.

489
00:31:47.360 --> 00:31:50.840
And that is a word that we use a lot in our program because that is what happens

490
00:31:50.840 --> 00:31:53.240
to people here. Everything that you know,

491
00:31:53.240 --> 00:31:58.000
but you don't know makes that 18 inch journey from head to heart and finally

492
00:31:58.000 --> 00:31:59.840
gets rooted.

493
00:31:59.960 --> 00:32:04.240
It finally is able to penetrate and bear fruit in your life. Whoo.

494
00:32:04.280 --> 00:32:05.600
I gotta take a break.

495
00:32:09.080 --> 00:32:13.520
I don't know if you're feeling that, but I'm definitely feeling it. All right.

496
00:32:14.520 --> 00:32:18.920
Jesus. So you were promised Psalm 139. You were promised to this earth.

497
00:32:18.920 --> 00:32:22.120
God predicted you. He promised you. You're important.

498
00:32:22.120 --> 00:32:25.520
So many of you don't feel important, but not only you are important,

499
00:32:25.520 --> 00:32:27.080
but your love story is important.

500
00:32:27.120 --> 00:32:30.920
But so many of us are not living that story that God wrote about us.

501
00:32:31.480 --> 00:32:34.720
That book that he wrote about us. We're not living that in any area of our lives,

502
00:32:34.760 --> 00:32:39.480
any, any area of our lives. And when we try to step into that story,

503
00:32:39.880 --> 00:32:44.720
we always get thrown back on our butt, but not this time. It's time.

504
00:32:44.880 --> 00:32:47.280
It's time for us to step into the story of the real us.

505
00:32:47.960 --> 00:32:51.680
It's time for us to have healthy hearts because when you have an unhealthy heart,

506
00:32:51.680 --> 00:32:55.440
especially the area of your love story, it's like swimming with the sharks.

507
00:32:55.440 --> 00:32:59.840
You do not want to be bleeding out on these dating streets.

508
00:33:00.200 --> 00:33:03.000
All right. Because you will attract Prince alarming and not Prince charming.

509
00:33:03.040 --> 00:33:06.040
I'm going to tell you that right now. You do not want to do that.

510
00:33:06.080 --> 00:33:09.720
And I'm going to tell you a few love stories here where people have had success

511
00:33:09.720 --> 00:33:12.440
in areas where I know that you think people don't have success.

512
00:33:12.440 --> 00:33:16.040
Like for instance, the dating apps, none of you want to go on the dating apps.

513
00:33:16.040 --> 00:33:18.640
And a lot of you have been on the dating apps with no success.

514
00:33:18.680 --> 00:33:21.360
You've attracted some things, but they haven't been good things.

515
00:33:21.360 --> 00:33:26.120
And this is what happens when we go out there on our own and especially not

516
00:33:26.120 --> 00:33:28.080
with the right tools and not with the right heart.

517
00:33:28.520 --> 00:33:31.560
Your success in life is not going to be just about being in the right place at

518
00:33:31.560 --> 00:33:32.400
the right time.

519
00:33:32.520 --> 00:33:35.800
It's going to be about being in the right place at the right time with the right

520
00:33:35.800 --> 00:33:37.480
heart. That's what it's going to be about.

521
00:33:37.800 --> 00:33:40.560
So you might get on there and you attract all the scammers.

522
00:33:40.560 --> 00:33:43.320
You attract all the users and losers and abusers.

523
00:33:43.440 --> 00:33:45.960
We don't want that anymore, right? Not at all.

524
00:33:46.320 --> 00:33:50.720
It's the masculine's job according to the word of God and Proverbs to find the

525
00:33:50.720 --> 00:33:55.280
wife, not the woman, the wife. It's the masculine's job to find the wife.

526
00:33:55.320 --> 00:33:59.440
So the wife is something, it's something that you can give off.

527
00:33:59.760 --> 00:34:02.440
You notice that the scripture doesn't say when a man finds a woman,

528
00:34:03.320 --> 00:34:06.080
and it doesn't say when a husband finds a wife, it says,

529
00:34:06.080 --> 00:34:09.360
when a man finds a wife, he becomes a husband.

530
00:34:10.040 --> 00:34:12.880
And so I want to help you step into the divine feminine.

531
00:34:12.920 --> 00:34:17.639
I believe that all of us as women have been created to be the help meet,

532
00:34:17.679 --> 00:34:21.560
the easer, which means it's, it's a word that God uses for himself.

533
00:34:21.560 --> 00:34:23.920
That means warrior. It's not a weak word, y'all.

534
00:34:23.960 --> 00:34:26.760
For all of you that think that women are weak and we've been created to be

535
00:34:26.760 --> 00:34:27.600
subservient.

536
00:34:27.960 --> 00:34:31.920
That's something I would also like to help you unpack because that is not the

537
00:34:31.920 --> 00:34:33.320
heart posture of the feminine.

538
00:34:34.080 --> 00:34:38.280
But when a man finds this divine feminine, he's not going to let it go.

539
00:34:39.239 --> 00:34:42.440
It's going to bring out the husband in him because he's found his good thing.

540
00:34:42.440 --> 00:34:44.679
Let's go back to Genesis. Remember what God said?

541
00:34:44.679 --> 00:34:48.719
It's not good for man to be alone. So let's get forward to Proverbs 18.

542
00:34:48.960 --> 00:34:51.880
When a man finds a wife, what?

543
00:34:52.159 --> 00:34:56.400
He's found his good thing because he's obtained favor from the Lord to be able

544
00:34:56.400 --> 00:35:00.040
to see that this is not an ordinary woman. This is my easer.

545
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.400
And we have that happen.

546
00:35:02.480 --> 00:35:08.100
We know how to activate that process and we've had it happen over and over and

547
00:35:08.100 --> 00:35:08.800
over again.

548
00:35:09.040 --> 00:35:13.440
And we, and because we have a men's challenge and a men's community, we

549
00:35:13.520 --> 00:35:16.040
obviously get to teach them the opposite, right?

550
00:35:16.440 --> 00:35:19.200
We get to teach them the opposite of what the women are being taught so that

551
00:35:19.200 --> 00:35:22.320
we're raising up a generation of men that understand their place as the

552
00:35:22.320 --> 00:35:23.560
divine masculine as well.

553
00:35:23.720 --> 00:35:25.200
So that's just been so rewarding.

554
00:35:25.440 --> 00:35:29.080
So we have to have this grace from heaven to become the bride.

555
00:35:29.520 --> 00:35:30.040
We do.

556
00:35:30.600 --> 00:35:35.920
And the single seasons that we've lived in, they haven't necessarily done that

557
00:35:35.920 --> 00:35:38.640
for us because we haven't been preparing.

558
00:35:38.640 --> 00:35:40.080
We've just been waiting, right?

559
00:35:40.640 --> 00:35:41.680
We've just been waiting.

560
00:35:41.960 --> 00:35:46.240
Let me tell you a story about my daughter, Reagan, the 23 year old, that

561
00:35:46.240 --> 00:35:55.480
daughter, when she was 17, I'm trying to think of when pandemic was, um, 17 or 18

562
00:35:55.480 --> 00:35:55.920
years old.

563
00:35:56.160 --> 00:35:58.000
So she lived here in Austin with me.

564
00:35:58.000 --> 00:36:01.280
She's still living at home when the pandemic happened.

565
00:36:01.280 --> 00:36:04.040
And of course you guys all know that things shut down and here in Texas,

566
00:36:04.040 --> 00:36:05.440
things really shut down.

567
00:36:05.720 --> 00:36:07.480
Like there was nothing open, all the stuff.

568
00:36:07.680 --> 00:36:08.120
Okay.

569
00:36:08.440 --> 00:36:10.040
So she was a nanny at the time.

570
00:36:10.040 --> 00:36:10.920
That's what she was doing.

571
00:36:10.920 --> 00:36:14.320
She was going to college and she was a nanny and she didn't have a job anymore.

572
00:36:14.360 --> 00:36:16.560
Immediately, instantly her job was over.

573
00:36:16.600 --> 00:36:16.920
Why?

574
00:36:16.920 --> 00:36:19.480
Because the people she nannied for didn't have to go to work.

575
00:36:19.800 --> 00:36:21.200
And so they're going to be home with their child.

576
00:36:21.200 --> 00:36:21.960
They don't need her.

577
00:36:22.120 --> 00:36:25.960
She wasn't working for people that had essential jobs that had to continue to

578
00:36:25.960 --> 00:36:28.800
work even during the quarantine and shutdown.

579
00:36:29.080 --> 00:36:29.520
Okay.

580
00:36:29.960 --> 00:36:34.800
So fast forward a few months, I think four or five months and things started to open

581
00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:35.520
up a little bit.

582
00:36:35.560 --> 00:36:37.720
And my daughter's like, I want to go back to work.

583
00:36:38.160 --> 00:36:40.160
She's like, I don't want to sit at home anymore.

584
00:36:40.160 --> 00:36:40.760
I'm bored.

585
00:36:40.760 --> 00:36:41.840
I'm tired of sitting home.

586
00:36:41.840 --> 00:36:46.080
I want to find someone to nanny for that is still working and has to work.

587
00:36:46.640 --> 00:36:50.880
So she went on an app, like a care kind of app where you find babysitting and nanny

588
00:36:50.880 --> 00:36:51.320
jobs.

589
00:36:51.560 --> 00:36:54.440
And she found someone who was, was a lawyer.

590
00:36:54.480 --> 00:36:58.840
The woman was a lawyer and I think the father was a doctor and they were still

591
00:36:58.840 --> 00:37:00.280
working and needed a nanny.

592
00:37:00.640 --> 00:37:03.920
So my daughter applied for the job and she got it immediately.

593
00:37:03.920 --> 00:37:05.160
They were like, Oh, this is great.

594
00:37:05.160 --> 00:37:06.000
You seem amazing.

595
00:37:06.000 --> 00:37:07.080
Let's give it a shot.

596
00:37:07.280 --> 00:37:08.400
Let's go ahead and try you out.

597
00:37:08.560 --> 00:37:11.120
So she was so excited because this job was going to pay more.

598
00:37:11.120 --> 00:37:12.320
This is like her dream job.

599
00:37:12.560 --> 00:37:13.520
It was one child.

600
00:37:13.520 --> 00:37:14.920
It was a super easy job.

601
00:37:14.920 --> 00:37:18.840
It had all kinds of perks to it and she was going to make more money than she had

602
00:37:18.840 --> 00:37:20.760
ever made y'all in her entire life.

603
00:37:21.280 --> 00:37:23.840
So she goes to their first day of work.

604
00:37:23.840 --> 00:37:25.400
Everything's great and wonderful.

605
00:37:25.400 --> 00:37:26.520
And then she comes back.

606
00:37:26.520 --> 00:37:28.000
She goes to her second day of work.

607
00:37:28.000 --> 00:37:29.440
Everything's great and wonderful.

608
00:37:29.560 --> 00:37:31.760
And this is how some of y'all's relationships are going to be going to meet

609
00:37:31.760 --> 00:37:32.120
someone.

610
00:37:32.120 --> 00:37:33.800
You're like, Oh, this is what I've always wanted.

611
00:37:33.840 --> 00:37:34.840
Oh, it's great.

612
00:37:35.200 --> 00:37:35.760
Right?

613
00:37:36.400 --> 00:37:37.720
That's what was happening here.

614
00:37:37.960 --> 00:37:38.320
Okay.

615
00:37:38.320 --> 00:37:43.600
But then by the third day of work, she was late.

616
00:37:44.360 --> 00:37:45.320
Why was she late?

617
00:37:45.360 --> 00:37:48.840
Because during this whole four or five months off of work, she had developed some

618
00:37:48.840 --> 00:37:49.520
bad habits.

619
00:37:49.520 --> 00:37:52.880
She was staying up really late at night because there was nowhere to be the next

620
00:37:52.880 --> 00:37:53.040
day.

621
00:37:53.040 --> 00:37:53.480
Right?

622
00:37:53.720 --> 00:37:55.000
She wasn't setting an alarm.

623
00:37:55.000 --> 00:38:00.000
She wasn't staying disciplined like in work mode because there wasn't any work

624
00:38:00.280 --> 00:38:02.680
mode during lockdown and quarantine.

625
00:38:02.960 --> 00:38:06.120
And so these bad habits, hear me out,

626
00:38:06.360 --> 00:38:10.600
that she developed in the waiting room when she was just twiddling her thumbs,

627
00:38:10.720 --> 00:38:11.560
waiting for what?

628
00:38:11.560 --> 00:38:12.160
Who knows?

629
00:38:12.160 --> 00:38:12.920
When's it going to show up?

630
00:38:12.920 --> 00:38:13.400
I don't know.

631
00:38:13.400 --> 00:38:14.400
How long is this going to last?

632
00:38:14.400 --> 00:38:15.080
Who knows?

633
00:38:15.080 --> 00:38:15.680
Right?

634
00:38:15.920 --> 00:38:17.880
That's what a lot of your love lives look like.

635
00:38:18.200 --> 00:38:19.440
Oh, I don't know what God's doing.

636
00:38:19.440 --> 00:38:20.880
Maybe someday, I don't know.

637
00:38:20.880 --> 00:38:22.480
He'll probably send me a husband.

638
00:38:22.960 --> 00:38:23.760
Maybe he won't.

639
00:38:23.760 --> 00:38:25.280
Maybe I have the gift of singleness.

640
00:38:25.280 --> 00:38:26.400
I don't know what's going on.

641
00:38:26.640 --> 00:38:28.440
That's what happened during that time.

642
00:38:28.440 --> 00:38:31.040
And by the third day of work, she was tardy.

643
00:38:32.080 --> 00:38:34.240
And so the parents gave her another chance.

644
00:38:34.240 --> 00:38:36.120
They're like, Hey, you know what could happen to anyone?

645
00:38:36.640 --> 00:38:37.640
You know, it's a one-off.

646
00:38:37.680 --> 00:38:42.080
Now keep in mind that this isn't necessarily part of her character just to be

647
00:38:42.080 --> 00:38:43.600
late and to be irresponsible.

648
00:38:43.880 --> 00:38:46.880
But once again, the waiting room can mess you up.

649
00:38:47.760 --> 00:38:48.360
It can.

650
00:38:48.800 --> 00:38:52.000
So the fourth day of work, once again, everything's good and great.

651
00:38:52.160 --> 00:38:56.240
But by the last day of the week, she was late again and they met her at the door

652
00:38:56.240 --> 00:38:57.160
and they fired her.

653
00:38:58.920 --> 00:39:00.280
She forgot to set her alarm.

654
00:39:00.280 --> 00:39:05.600
She was so tired when she got home that she did a few things and she went to

655
00:39:05.600 --> 00:39:08.920
sleep and she forgot to set her alarm and then she woke up late.

656
00:39:09.160 --> 00:39:12.080
So she called the mom because the dad's the one that met her at the door because

657
00:39:12.080 --> 00:39:16.560
he was the one that stayed back late for work to wait for her, said, I'm sorry,

658
00:39:16.560 --> 00:39:18.560
we don't need your services anymore.

659
00:39:18.800 --> 00:39:19.760
She was devastated.

660
00:39:19.760 --> 00:39:20.680
She called me on the phone.

661
00:39:20.680 --> 00:39:21.680
She's crying.

662
00:39:22.240 --> 00:39:23.560
Oh, so great.

663
00:39:23.560 --> 00:39:25.640
This opportunity and I messed it up.

664
00:39:26.640 --> 00:39:27.160
Okay.

665
00:39:27.680 --> 00:39:31.120
And so I said, well, why don't you just text the mom and just tell her, Hey, you

666
00:39:31.120 --> 00:39:32.760
know, I promise this won't happen again.

667
00:39:32.760 --> 00:39:35.400
So she tried and she said, I'll set three alarms.

668
00:39:35.760 --> 00:39:37.880
She said, I'll have my parents wake me up if I need to.

669
00:39:37.880 --> 00:39:39.000
Anything I need to do.

670
00:39:39.120 --> 00:39:41.560
I really, really, really, really, really want this job.

671
00:39:41.760 --> 00:39:43.160
And the woman was so gracious.

672
00:39:43.160 --> 00:39:44.240
You know what she said back to her?

673
00:39:44.240 --> 00:39:46.760
She said, Reagan, she said, you're an amazing girl.

674
00:39:47.240 --> 00:39:51.080
She said, and I know that you are going to be so successful in life.

675
00:39:51.360 --> 00:39:54.200
She said, but I needed you to be ready before you took the job.

676
00:39:54.720 --> 00:39:57.440
I needed you to set those three alarms before you took the job.

677
00:39:57.800 --> 00:40:00.040
I needed you to be prepared before you took the job.

678
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:09.880
But I know this, there's such a spiritual message here. I know this Regan, the next

679
00:40:09.880 --> 00:40:16.960
time that you get an opportunity to do something, to have another job or to do

680
00:40:16.960 --> 00:40:19.960
something you want to do, you're going to learn from this situation and you're

681
00:40:19.960 --> 00:40:24.720
going to be prepared, right? In essence what she was saying is the next time you

682
00:40:24.720 --> 00:40:28.520
come up to bat you're going to hit it out of the park because you're going to be

683
00:40:28.520 --> 00:40:33.080
ready for it. And that was such a hard lesson for my daughter to learn. It was

684
00:40:33.080 --> 00:40:39.920
so hard, you know? And me getting married at 20 with bad information and picking

685
00:40:39.920 --> 00:40:44.520
the wrong person and going through so much turmoil and abuse and hurt and just

686
00:40:44.520 --> 00:40:48.000
crazy stuff in that marriage, even though I got my beautiful daughter out of that

687
00:40:48.000 --> 00:40:52.800
marriage, you know, it taught me that the second time around when God began to

688
00:40:52.800 --> 00:40:56.700
talk to me about my hard work, I wasn't going to do that the second time. And my

689
00:40:56.700 --> 00:41:00.100
daughter did get another opportunity for an amazing job and it wasn't too

690
00:41:00.100 --> 00:41:03.980
long after that. It was probably three or so months later and you know what? She

691
00:41:03.980 --> 00:41:08.540
did hit it out of the park and she is super successful and she has learned so

692
00:41:08.540 --> 00:41:12.460
much from that experience. And so what Papa God is inviting us into is he's

693
00:41:12.460 --> 00:41:17.900
inviting us into some short season of being able to be prepared for love when

694
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it shows up. Because love shows up suddenly. Remember, I've had a front row

695
00:41:22.940 --> 00:41:27.620
seat to people that have been in barren wastelands in their dating lives for

696
00:41:27.620 --> 00:41:30.780
years and years and years and years and then they come into this program and

697
00:41:30.780 --> 00:41:34.060
love shows up suddenly. So let's look at some of those love stories because I

698
00:41:34.060 --> 00:41:39.700
think it's fun and I think that, you know, you can't be it if you can't see it. So

699
00:41:39.700 --> 00:41:45.300
when I first, here's my Instagram. My Instagram is just doing its own thing

700
00:41:45.300 --> 00:41:50.380
right now. All right, let's see. So here's my Instagram. If you don't follow

701
00:41:50.380 --> 00:41:54.220
me, follow me. Why don't you follow me? Jackie Dorman Official, all right. And

702
00:41:54.220 --> 00:41:57.860
then there's highlights right here. And if you go to my highlights, the very

703
00:41:57.860 --> 00:42:01.740
first success story highlight I ever made was just called Success Stories.

704
00:42:01.740 --> 00:42:09.420
And as you can see here, it has lots and lots and lots of couples. Look at all

705
00:42:09.420 --> 00:42:16.780
these amazing couples just like you. I match made those two. All these couples

706
00:42:16.820 --> 00:42:23.860
that have had success. Let me go back this one. See if I can go back. Can I go back?

707
00:42:23.860 --> 00:42:29.620
She met him in her living room after she was in this program. Her love story

708
00:42:29.620 --> 00:42:33.260
just not showed up suddenly. It showed up suddenly in her living room, y'all.

709
00:42:33.260 --> 00:42:38.340
Mariah and Ian. I wish, I don't know if I can get this focused. Okay, so I'm gonna

710
00:42:38.340 --> 00:42:41.620
be in the background but these couples are gonna be in the foreground. Look at

711
00:42:41.780 --> 00:42:47.780
all these couples, y'all. And this is just, these highlight reels on Instagram, they

712
00:42:47.780 --> 00:42:54.660
hold a hundred pictures. So I have five of them. I have at least 500 success

713
00:42:54.660 --> 00:42:59.300
stories just on my Instagram and that doesn't even include the other hundreds

714
00:42:59.300 --> 00:43:09.220
and hundreds. Okay, so this, this, this, this, this girl. You go back. That girl.

715
00:43:09.220 --> 00:43:15.940
Look at that love story. I love that. I love that picture. This girl is my

716
00:43:15.940 --> 00:43:21.500
husband's cousin. Single mama, had never had success in love, had always attracted

717
00:43:21.500 --> 00:43:26.860
Prince Alarming and not Prince Charming and I helped her get married. I know that

718
00:43:26.860 --> 00:43:30.980
there are other programs and there are matchmakers out there and the actual

719
00:43:30.980 --> 00:43:34.900
matchmakers, I've been on panels at events with matchmakers. They charge

720
00:43:34.900 --> 00:43:42.140
anywhere from $30,000 to $300,000 to matchmake. Whoa, that's crazy. But here's

721
00:43:42.140 --> 00:43:45.860
the thing, they don't have the type of success that I have. They charge that

722
00:43:45.860 --> 00:43:49.940
amount of money but they do not have the success that this program has. This

723
00:43:49.940 --> 00:43:55.420
program is super natural and I get new engagement announcements and new wedding

724
00:43:55.420 --> 00:44:01.820
invitations every single week. Every single week. You know, one of these, I just

725
00:44:01.860 --> 00:44:06.580
saw, I just saw her picture. She had never been on a date in her entire life. She

726
00:44:06.580 --> 00:44:12.220
was in her mid-30s, had never ever had a boyfriend, had never been on a date, had

727
00:44:12.220 --> 00:44:17.580
never had her first kiss, nothing. Now she is married and she has a little daughter.

728
00:44:17.580 --> 00:44:21.860
She was worried, you know, I'm not gonna, this is her right here, she's like, I'm

729
00:44:21.860 --> 00:44:27.540
not gonna find anyone. I'm not gonna get married. Men don't like me. She's married

730
00:44:27.540 --> 00:44:32.620
to an amazing guy, Caleb, Dana and Caleb, and she has a little baby daughter. But

731
00:44:32.620 --> 00:44:36.220
she had never been on a date. It's not that she was bad at dating, she had no

732
00:44:36.220 --> 00:44:40.380
experience dating. Rebecca and Joshua, they have two children now. Some of these,

733
00:44:40.380 --> 00:44:43.700
these are, this is my first highlight reel. So some of these people have been

734
00:44:43.700 --> 00:44:48.420
married for three or four years now and they have babies, all kinds of incredible

735
00:44:48.420 --> 00:44:52.260
things. Here's our most recent highlight reel of just some success stories within

736
00:44:52.300 --> 00:44:55.020
the last month or so.

737
00:44:59.140 --> 00:44:59.980
Well, that's an anniversary.

738
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.880
picture, but see these two right here? For those of you that are like, oh, I'm too old.

739
00:45:04.880 --> 00:45:09.360
Those people are in their sixties. These people are in their sixties. Oh, I'm too

740
00:45:09.360 --> 00:45:18.040
young. Our most recent success story is just a week or so ago. Let me find her.

741
00:45:18.040 --> 00:45:23.080
She's 23 years old. She's our youngest success story that we've ever had and

742
00:45:23.080 --> 00:45:29.000
our oldest success story we've ever had was 81, or is 81. So you guys, I just want

743
00:45:29.000 --> 00:45:32.720
to let you know that this isn't hype. This is real. It is, and God's

744
00:45:32.720 --> 00:45:36.760
inviting you into it. So let's talk about what the program is. Are you ready to

745
00:45:36.760 --> 00:45:40.880
talk about the program? So the program has three phases. The first phase is what

746
00:45:40.880 --> 00:45:43.640
we call heart work, and we did a little bit of it during this challenge, but

747
00:45:43.640 --> 00:45:46.960
we're gonna do a lot of it. In the first five weeks that you're in this program,

748
00:45:46.960 --> 00:45:53.620
we're gonna ask you to put your date and shoes away and just focus on those foxes

749
00:45:53.620 --> 00:45:57.440
in the vineyard. With our team, we're gonna focus. We're gonna dig deep. We're

750
00:45:57.440 --> 00:46:00.560
gonna find out how you're sabotaging yourself. It doesn't matter how much

751
00:46:00.560 --> 00:46:04.920
therapy or counseling you've had, this is gonna hit differently. I even have

752
00:46:04.920 --> 00:46:08.120
therapists take this and they're like, whoa, you know, I've been in therapy all

753
00:46:08.120 --> 00:46:12.640
my life and and I have never had so much breakthrough in such a short amount of

754
00:46:12.640 --> 00:46:16.840
time. Why? Because it's a super bloom. It's a tipping point. That's why. Okay, and so

755
00:46:16.840 --> 00:46:21.800
and it's designed specifically to help you to unpack the things that are

756
00:46:21.800 --> 00:46:27.880
keeping you single, alright? But not just single, but also broke, also sick, also at

757
00:46:27.880 --> 00:46:32.080
odds with everyone in your life. Whatever it is that's keeping you stuck on the

758
00:46:32.080 --> 00:46:37.560
inside is going to help you to be freed on the outside, okay? So that's phase one

759
00:46:37.560 --> 00:46:41.560
and it's five weeks long. And for those of you that are like, hey, is this local?

760
00:46:41.560 --> 00:46:46.080
No, it's global. We're an international movement. We have success stories in all

761
00:46:46.080 --> 00:46:51.040
different types of countries. We're translated into Spanish. Portuguese is

762
00:46:51.040 --> 00:46:54.920
next for translation because we have so many Brazilian success stories. I think I

763
00:46:54.920 --> 00:47:00.360
have five Brazilian brides now that have gotten married as a result of this

764
00:47:00.360 --> 00:47:05.040
program. Some of them that I personally match made. Two of those five I

765
00:47:05.040 --> 00:47:09.920
personally match made. Alright, phase two. When you graduate phase one, you're gonna

766
00:47:09.920 --> 00:47:14.120
go into what we call our love story accelerator or our dating challenge. Now

767
00:47:14.120 --> 00:47:19.840
you get to go back out and try out all of your new hearts in the real world

768
00:47:19.880 --> 00:47:24.200
with us helping you. You're not alone. The community's around you. Your coaches

769
00:47:24.200 --> 00:47:27.360
and your team is around you. We're gonna help you date differently than you've

770
00:47:27.360 --> 00:47:32.160
ever dated before. Alright, you're gonna have to surrender the pen, that list, some

771
00:47:32.160 --> 00:47:37.280
of your messed up attractions that are based on broken things in your life and

772
00:47:37.280 --> 00:47:42.800
let people in. I will tell you 70% of my success stories tell me this, Jackie, I

773
00:47:42.800 --> 00:47:45.800
would have never given this person even a second look without this program.

774
00:47:46.240 --> 00:47:50.480
Jackie, this is not what I expected. This is not what I thought it would look

775
00:47:50.480 --> 00:47:56.040
like, but I'm so happy. So as you can see, what you don't know is hurting you and

776
00:47:56.040 --> 00:48:01.960
what you're not open to is keeping you from having what God has for you. And so

777
00:48:02.000 --> 00:48:06.400
we want to help those blind spots and filters and we have to do it in the

778
00:48:06.400 --> 00:48:11.720
dating module. Why? Because hurt in family healed in family. Hurt in marriage

779
00:48:11.720 --> 00:48:15.280
healed in marriage. Hurt in dating healed in dating. Hurt in relationship healed in

780
00:48:15.280 --> 00:48:18.800
relationship. Hurt in community, friendship healed in friendship and

781
00:48:18.800 --> 00:48:24.560
community. We have to help you in real time while you're out there so you can

782
00:48:24.560 --> 00:48:27.800
see the things that you've been doing and you're going to be a lot more

783
00:48:27.800 --> 00:48:30.880
self-aware because of that five weeks of heart work and it's going to be great.

784
00:48:30.880 --> 00:48:33.960
And you're gonna be a lot more open because of that five weeks as well. Once

785
00:48:33.960 --> 00:48:38.960
again, it is super natural. Lots of people meet someone great in phase two.

786
00:48:39.280 --> 00:48:43.280
Sometimes they sabotage it, sometimes they can sustain it, but everyone learns

787
00:48:43.280 --> 00:48:47.000
and gets another chance up at bat just like my daughter Reagan and so it's all

788
00:48:47.000 --> 00:48:51.400
good. And then phase three is our final phase and that's our community phase.

789
00:48:52.120 --> 00:48:55.560
It's a highly co-ed phase. We have a lot of co-ed things that happen, a few

790
00:48:55.560 --> 00:48:58.360
things that happen in phase two that are like that, but phase three and guess

791
00:48:58.360 --> 00:49:01.600
what? Now it's never been a better time to join our community because now we

792
00:49:01.600 --> 00:49:06.000
have an app for phase three and higher. So when you're in our community, um,

793
00:49:06.040 --> 00:49:09.720
your community phase, phase three, you get to go on our app. There's all kinds

794
00:49:09.720 --> 00:49:13.000
of amazing things. We have a new brand called last trip single. We have all

795
00:49:13.000 --> 00:49:17.080
kinds of conferences and all types of things to meet up in person with other

796
00:49:17.080 --> 00:49:20.120
people in the community. So you're going to meet your best friends in this

797
00:49:20.120 --> 00:49:23.160
group. You're going to meet people that are going to be in your wedding in this

798
00:49:23.160 --> 00:49:27.000
group. Let me show you this. This girl right here, she's one of my most recent

799
00:49:27.000 --> 00:49:30.920
success stories. She gets married in 30 days. This is a picture that her

800
00:49:30.920 --> 00:49:34.880
girlfriend, her friend in this group took of her for her birthday and posted

801
00:49:34.880 --> 00:49:39.240
it. She lost a hundred pounds. You guys, people lose so much weight in this

802
00:49:39.240 --> 00:49:44.320
program because your heart gets healed and it was never fat. It was hurt. It

803
00:49:44.320 --> 00:49:48.800
was hurt all along. It was trauma just stored in the body. And so she lost a

804
00:49:48.800 --> 00:49:53.840
hundred pounds. Um, she was able to heal from her divorce and now she is

805
00:49:53.840 --> 00:49:57.280
getting married to a great guy, but that's not all. Several girls in her

806
00:49:57.280 --> 00:49:59.840
wedding are from this community, including her maid of honor.

807
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:03.880
She was the maid of honor in that other girl's wedding

808
00:50:03.880 --> 00:50:05.480
that she met in this community.

809
00:50:05.480 --> 00:50:08.520
She's met her best friends in this community.

810
00:50:08.520 --> 00:50:13.320
In fact, let me just read what she said to me.

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00:50:13.320 --> 00:50:14.160
Thank you, Jackie.

812
00:50:14.160 --> 00:50:16.080
I don't know how to say thank you enough.

813
00:50:16.080 --> 00:50:17.480
I'm not great at receiving gifts,

814
00:50:17.480 --> 00:50:19.120
but this one is so special to me,

815
00:50:19.120 --> 00:50:21.120
and I'm so excited to wear it one day.

816
00:50:21.120 --> 00:50:23.240
I gave her something to wear on her wedding.

817
00:50:23.240 --> 00:50:26.320
It looks at me in the closet every day.

818
00:50:26.360 --> 00:50:29.440
I almost felt like I let you down

819
00:50:29.440 --> 00:50:33.600
being in the program and not having any prospects.

820
00:50:33.600 --> 00:50:35.440
I had felt so prophetic,

821
00:50:35.440 --> 00:50:38.220
but prophetic things don't necessarily have a timeline,

822
00:50:38.220 --> 00:50:40.660
and I wasn't open to healing yet.

823
00:50:40.660 --> 00:50:43.040
But thank you for believing in my love story.

824
00:50:43.040 --> 00:50:44.640
I know God brought me to your group,

825
00:50:44.640 --> 00:50:46.440
and I'm so grateful every day for it.

826
00:50:46.440 --> 00:50:49.360
Two of my best friends have come from it,

827
00:50:49.360 --> 00:50:52.680
along with a community and mentor, meaning me,

828
00:50:52.680 --> 00:50:56.120
that I was missing so much in my life.

829
00:50:57.000 --> 00:50:57.840
Thank you.

830
00:51:01.600 --> 00:51:03.080
You guys, I would be lying if I said

831
00:51:03.080 --> 00:51:05.060
that it's easy to run this type of movement.

832
00:51:05.060 --> 00:51:07.680
There's a lot of warfare because the enemy hates family

833
00:51:07.680 --> 00:51:10.640
because all that God ever wanted was a family.

834
00:51:10.640 --> 00:51:13.220
But it is worth it, and those are the types of things

835
00:51:13.220 --> 00:51:15.940
that make it worth it, make it worth it.

836
00:51:15.940 --> 00:51:17.760
So you're gonna go at your own pace.

837
00:51:17.760 --> 00:51:19.120
Some of you have a lot of healing to do.

838
00:51:19.120 --> 00:51:21.520
If you come in and you surrender immediately.

839
00:51:21.520 --> 00:51:22.960
You know, she's apologizing to me

840
00:51:22.960 --> 00:51:25.160
because it wasn't her last year single.

841
00:51:25.160 --> 00:51:27.480
This success for her is happening over a year

842
00:51:27.480 --> 00:51:28.760
of being in the program.

843
00:51:28.760 --> 00:51:32.280
But the thing is is that she had a lot of healing to do.

844
00:51:32.280 --> 00:51:34.360
You know, I told you, she lost 100 pounds.

845
00:51:34.360 --> 00:51:37.280
She changed careers, she relocated.

846
00:51:37.280 --> 00:51:39.000
You know, all the things that happened

847
00:51:39.000 --> 00:51:41.400
for this woman are so miraculous.

848
00:51:41.400 --> 00:51:43.920
Her first husband that she married at 18 years old,

849
00:51:43.920 --> 00:51:45.680
he ghosted her in the marriage.

850
00:51:45.680 --> 00:51:47.840
He just didn't come back home one day.

851
00:51:47.840 --> 00:51:49.360
Never told her he was leaving,

852
00:51:49.360 --> 00:51:50.760
never told her he was divorcing her,

853
00:51:50.760 --> 00:51:53.080
and then she got papers in the mail

854
00:51:53.080 --> 00:51:54.820
saying, I want a divorce.

855
00:51:55.480 --> 00:51:56.340
But first he was just missing.

856
00:51:56.340 --> 00:51:58.180
Can you imagine your husband is not showing up

857
00:51:58.180 --> 00:51:59.060
and you're calling the police?

858
00:51:59.060 --> 00:51:59.900
Where is he?

859
00:51:59.900 --> 00:52:00.720
I don't know.

860
00:52:00.720 --> 00:52:02.180
Is he dead somewhere?

861
00:52:02.180 --> 00:52:03.460
Yeah, that happened to this girl.

862
00:52:03.460 --> 00:52:04.860
So she had a lot of healing to do.

863
00:52:04.860 --> 00:52:07.380
And do you know that during the fourth week,

864
00:52:07.380 --> 00:52:09.460
which is the forgiveness week of phase one,

865
00:52:09.460 --> 00:52:12.220
which is our heart work phase, phase one,

866
00:52:12.220 --> 00:52:14.440
the fourth week is your forgiveness week.

867
00:52:14.440 --> 00:52:17.180
She ran into that guy that she was married to

868
00:52:17.180 --> 00:52:18.660
all those years ago.

869
00:52:18.660 --> 00:52:19.500
She ran into him.

870
00:52:19.500 --> 00:52:22.140
She had never seen him since the day he left the house

871
00:52:22.140 --> 00:52:23.220
and never came back.

872
00:52:23.220 --> 00:52:25.740
Even the divorce was done just with paperwork in the mail.

873
00:52:25.740 --> 00:52:27.980
Never saw him again until this moment

874
00:52:27.980 --> 00:52:29.580
during her forgiveness week.

875
00:52:29.580 --> 00:52:33.180
She ran into him in a coffee shop in her old hometown.

876
00:52:33.180 --> 00:52:35.280
And he said, hey, I'm so glad I ran into you.

877
00:52:35.280 --> 00:52:36.600
I've been thinking about you.

878
00:52:36.600 --> 00:52:39.820
I really owe you an explanation and an apology.

879
00:52:39.820 --> 00:52:42.980
She got the apology.

880
00:52:42.980 --> 00:52:44.700
She got the closure.

881
00:52:44.700 --> 00:52:45.820
She got it, y'all.

882
00:52:45.820 --> 00:52:46.780
That happened.

883
00:52:46.780 --> 00:52:48.300
I know it's crazy.

884
00:52:48.300 --> 00:52:51.860
It's crazy, but it's a true story and it's her story.

885
00:52:51.860 --> 00:52:53.660
And I know that the Lord highlighted her.

886
00:52:53.660 --> 00:52:55.740
I had no intention of saying anything

887
00:52:55.740 --> 00:52:58.380
about any specific person right now,

888
00:52:58.380 --> 00:53:00.980
but God wants someone out there to know that.

889
00:53:00.980 --> 00:53:03.460
Okay, so phase three is the community phase

890
00:53:03.460 --> 00:53:04.980
and it has all kinds of goodness.

891
00:53:04.980 --> 00:53:06.580
We're gonna continue in healing.

892
00:53:06.580 --> 00:53:08.100
We have all kinds of stuff that happens

893
00:53:08.100 --> 00:53:11.660
in our PATH sessions during community phase.

894
00:53:11.660 --> 00:53:14.140
We have all kinds of online meetups and in-person meetups.

895
00:53:14.140 --> 00:53:16.620
We have all kinds of continuing education

896
00:53:16.620 --> 00:53:19.660
about things like blending families and attachment styles,

897
00:53:19.660 --> 00:53:21.420
everything and anything you could want.

898
00:53:21.980 --> 00:53:25.780
That is a subscription that only happens for $37 a month.

899
00:53:25.780 --> 00:53:27.300
And now it includes an app and guess what?

900
00:53:27.300 --> 00:53:30.220
We're gonna have a community-based matchmaking app

901
00:53:30.220 --> 00:53:31.860
that comes out this summer as well

902
00:53:31.860 --> 00:53:34.020
that's going to be included in that subscription.

903
00:53:34.020 --> 00:53:35.620
All of that will be included.

904
00:53:35.620 --> 00:53:38.300
The community phase has its own app as well

905
00:53:38.300 --> 00:53:42.220
where you can mingle and meet all kinds of friends

906
00:53:42.220 --> 00:53:44.780
and all different types of things there, okay?

907
00:53:44.780 --> 00:53:47.440
And plus it makes it really easy to use that community level

908
00:53:47.440 --> 00:53:49.180
if you're just on the app, okay?

909
00:53:49.180 --> 00:53:50.540
And for those of you that don't like to do things

910
00:53:50.580 --> 00:53:52.300
from your phone, it's a web-based app

911
00:53:52.300 --> 00:53:53.500
so you can use it on your computer

912
00:53:53.500 --> 00:53:56.060
and you can also use it from your phone, all right?

913
00:53:56.060 --> 00:53:57.340
All right, so today we have a special offer.

914
00:53:57.340 --> 00:53:58.860
I've never done this before,

915
00:53:58.860 --> 00:54:00.980
but my mom's birthday is on Monday.

916
00:54:00.980 --> 00:54:02.940
Her birthday always falls around Mother's Day.

917
00:54:02.940 --> 00:54:06.380
Mother's Day is Sunday and my mom's birthday is Monday.

918
00:54:06.380 --> 00:54:08.820
A lot of you didn't get your heart broken the first time

919
00:54:08.820 --> 00:54:10.420
from a love interest.

920
00:54:10.420 --> 00:54:13.340
You got your heart broken in family, okay?

921
00:54:13.340 --> 00:54:15.460
You were hurt and traumatized

922
00:54:15.460 --> 00:54:18.100
and your heart was broken in family and that's my story.

923
00:54:18.100 --> 00:54:20.440
My mom and I had a very tumultuous relationship.

924
00:54:21.200 --> 00:54:22.280
She sent me to live in a girl's home, as you know,

925
00:54:22.280 --> 00:54:23.760
and all the things, and as an adult,

926
00:54:23.760 --> 00:54:27.800
I had really no real true relationship with her.

927
00:54:27.800 --> 00:54:32.800
But she got sick in 2017 and 2016,

928
00:54:33.240 --> 00:54:36.920
she got sick and God reconciled us and reunited us

929
00:54:36.920 --> 00:54:38.520
and I was able to be there with her

930
00:54:38.520 --> 00:54:40.300
for the last four years of her life,

931
00:54:40.300 --> 00:54:41.560
help her do her heart work,

932
00:54:41.560 --> 00:54:43.680
help her forgive herself and forgive others.

933
00:54:43.680 --> 00:54:46.200
And my mom is such a big part of why I do this

934
00:54:46.200 --> 00:54:48.080
because she was married three times before I was 10.

935
00:54:48.080 --> 00:54:49.760
My mom wasn't a bad woman,

936
00:54:49.760 --> 00:54:53.000
but she was so traumatized by those abusive relationships

937
00:54:53.000 --> 00:54:54.640
that she wasn't able to love,

938
00:54:54.640 --> 00:54:56.520
that she wasn't able to do the things

939
00:54:56.520 --> 00:54:58.320
that she needed to do for her children.

940
00:54:58.320 --> 00:55:00.120
And I believe also she left.

941
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.080
this life very early at only 62 years old because of what had happened, the

942
00:55:05.080 --> 00:55:09.240
dis-ease and disease that happened in her body as a result of all of that

943
00:55:09.240 --> 00:55:12.600
unhealed trauma. So I got to spend the last four years of her life with her,

944
00:55:12.600 --> 00:55:16.760
helping her as she was, you know, leaving this earth and going to heaven. And

945
00:55:16.760 --> 00:55:23.720
because of that, we're going to give you a special offer today, all right? If you

946
00:55:23.720 --> 00:55:29.720
sign up and you use the code, which is my mother's name, Diana, in the first, what,

947
00:55:29.720 --> 00:55:33.720
couple days, because I'm going to end this special offer at

948
00:55:33.720 --> 00:55:40.640
midnight on Mother's Day. May 12th at midnight, PST, this offer will end. And

949
00:55:40.640 --> 00:55:45.160
once again, we have never, because this is already so inexpensive compared to

950
00:55:45.160 --> 00:55:48.260
everything that's out there that's not successful. All the stuff that's out

951
00:55:48.260 --> 00:55:51.320
there is super expensive, thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars, and

952
00:55:51.320 --> 00:55:59.480
it's not successful like this. And this is $297 one time. You pay $297

953
00:55:59.480 --> 00:56:03.600
one time, and I'm going to give you $50 off today with the code Diana, which is

954
00:56:03.600 --> 00:56:09.600
my mom's name. In celebration of her, I believe that God is keeping so many

955
00:56:09.600 --> 00:56:14.080
people from having, you know, from their destinies being cut off, from ending up

956
00:56:14.080 --> 00:56:18.120
in that trajectory. I know that my mom would be so pleased that her memory and

957
00:56:18.120 --> 00:56:22.520
her name is being used to help single mamas and single women to choose, you

958
00:56:22.520 --> 00:56:28.520
know, godly, great, amazing partners. I know that she would love that. So Diana, D-I-A-N-A,

959
00:56:28.520 --> 00:56:36.160
not Diane, Diana, D-I-A-N-A. If you put that code in, you will be able to get $50

960
00:56:36.160 --> 00:56:41.800
off. So $247 one time to sign up today. And then your subscription starts 30

961
00:56:41.800 --> 00:56:46.840
days after, so most of you will be done with phase one into phase two, $37 a

962
00:56:46.840 --> 00:56:51.720
month. That is cancel anytime. People don't ever cancel, but it is cancel

963
00:56:51.720 --> 00:56:54.520
every time. It's really easy to cancel. If you want to cancel, if you get into some

964
00:56:54.520 --> 00:56:58.360
kind of financial hardship and you don't have $37, you can cancel. But as

965
00:56:58.360 --> 00:57:01.280
of today, $37 a month for the rest of the time that you're with us getting your

966
00:57:01.280 --> 00:57:05.680
success story. That's it. That's what it is. All right, so here's the signup page

967
00:57:05.680 --> 00:57:11.720
and right here you can see underneath the payment thing, there's a, do you have

968
00:57:11.720 --> 00:57:18.120
a coupon? Have a coupon code right there. You're gonna put D-I-A-N-A, Diana, if you

969
00:57:18.120 --> 00:57:23.640
want to get that $50 off. That will only be good until May 12th, Mother's Day at

970
00:57:24.000 --> 00:57:29.080
midnight. You guys, come Monday morning. All right, come one o'clock in the

971
00:57:29.080 --> 00:57:35.040
morning on Monday, it is going to be the $297 again. So just $50 more, but still.

972
00:57:35.040 --> 00:57:38.120
All right, for those of you that are asking questions, we are going to come

973
00:57:38.120 --> 00:57:41.560
through and answer those questions in the chat. So put them in the chat of this

974
00:57:41.560 --> 00:57:45.960
video and our team will come through and answer them. I know that for some of you

975
00:57:45.960 --> 00:57:50.880
$297 seems like a lot and remember it's $247 if you go ahead. This is your fast

976
00:57:51.080 --> 00:57:54.920
action bonus. We're going to reward people that step out in faith like I did

977
00:57:54.920 --> 00:57:59.480
when I told my former husband, my WAS-bin, he was my husband, so he's my WAS-bin,

978
00:57:59.640 --> 00:58:04.280
that, hey, I'm going to do it. Don't tell me what I can't do. I can do it, right?

979
00:58:04.880 --> 00:58:08.560
This has got to be your intention, your faith. This cannot be handed to you.

980
00:58:08.560 --> 00:58:12.760
You've got to stretch for it. You have to, you have to, you have to invest in

981
00:58:12.760 --> 00:58:16.840
yourself and in your love story. All right? I want to be your midwife. I want

982
00:58:16.840 --> 00:58:18.520
to help you birth what you're carrying,

983
00:58:18.640 --> 00:58:23.640
but you have to have an investment in yourself and your love story as well.

984
00:58:24.000 --> 00:58:25.240
And you guys, it's so small.

985
00:58:25.960 --> 00:58:30.200
There's programs to help you heal and to help you attachment style and all the

986
00:58:30.200 --> 00:58:32.200
things, you know, to help you to, you know,

987
00:58:32.200 --> 00:58:36.040
notice the narcissists and the red flags and none of them are less than like

988
00:58:36.040 --> 00:58:39.440
$2,500 down. None of them. Okay.

989
00:58:39.640 --> 00:58:41.760
And so I know that this is priced right.

990
00:58:41.960 --> 00:58:43.840
I know that this is priced for the single mama.

991
00:58:44.080 --> 00:58:46.400
I know that we've done this on purpose.

992
00:58:46.480 --> 00:58:49.480
It used to be more expensive and years ago,

993
00:58:49.480 --> 00:58:53.840
and I've made it this because I want it to be doable for everybody and it's,

994
00:58:55.200 --> 00:58:59.360
it is what it is. So love you. Bless you.

995
00:58:59.600 --> 00:59:01.040
If you didn't watch day one and two,

996
00:59:01.040 --> 00:59:03.640
please go back and watch them so much breakthrough for you there.

997
00:59:03.640 --> 00:59:06.000
Make sure you do the homework. Make sure you do the declarations.

998
00:59:06.000 --> 00:59:07.560
Make sure you sign the permission slip.

999
00:59:08.120 --> 00:59:11.600
Go ahead and get in position for God to do in your life what you've always

1000
00:59:11.600 --> 00:59:12.520
wanted him to do.

1001
00:59:13.000 --> 00:59:18.000
And that is give you the abundant life that Jesus died for you to have.

1002
00:59:18.480 --> 00:59:21.640
It's yours. It's yours. All right. I love y'all.

1003
00:59:21.640 --> 00:59:23.880
Thank you for joining me for this session,

1004
00:59:23.880 --> 00:59:26.680
the spring session of our last year single challenge.

1005
00:59:26.840 --> 00:59:28.560
And I hope to see you in the program.

1006
00:59:28.720 --> 00:59:32.080
I will be showing up over the course of the next couple of days with some fun

1007
00:59:32.120 --> 00:59:35.240
bonus content. Um, and you're going to want to be there.

1008
00:59:35.240 --> 00:59:37.720
I'll do a Q and a for those of you that have questions.

1009
00:59:37.920 --> 00:59:41.000
I'll do that quickly so that you can be part of that fast action bonus.

1010
00:59:41.000 --> 00:59:45.360
I'll go ahead and do a Q and a, um, probably, uh, off to see when,

1011
00:59:45.360 --> 00:59:48.840
but I'll post it in the group. Okay. So that if you have any questions,

1012
00:59:48.840 --> 00:59:51.400
you get them answered so you can go ahead and pull the trigger. All right.

1013
00:59:51.440 --> 00:59:52.600
See you soon. Love you. Bye-bye.