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All right.

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So welcome to the last year single orientation.

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My name is Renee Rizzo and I'm subbing for Jackie Dorman.

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So I'm going to give you a slightly different version of the orientation because I'm going

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to make sure you are comfortable in the portal on the website.

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You know how to find everything.

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You know kind of what happens from each phase and then I'm going to show you around the

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Facebook page because I really want you to make sure you're super comfortable and I'll

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even tell you just a little bit about the app that you all will be moving to by the

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time you get to phase three and but I'm just I'm so excited that you guys are here.

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I've been a part of this community for three years now and you know I had a friend that

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kind of roped me into the program.

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She like kind of begged me to do the challenge with her and do the full you know boot camp

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back then it was called and you know I was like a I don't need more female friends and

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B I don't need any more therapy or help like I've done it all like I've got the t-shirt

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and what I learned is there was so much more healing that was still available to me especially

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in the area of relationships and so that is what Jackie talks about in the heart work

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which is part of the phase one and now we have amazing content in phase two and even

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more amazing content and community in phase three.

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So the program is even bigger and better than it ever was when I joined three years ago.

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It truly is the secret sauce and that will transform you.

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So I promise you will find some of your best friends in this community if you stay engaged.

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So it's all about how much you put into it.

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No matter where we are in the country if I show up in a city all I have to do is put

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in the community hey you guys are going to be in New York for a couple days who wants

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to meet with me and I'll get to bump into people and some of the people that will be

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in each other's wedding parties are from this community and so you have an opportunity to

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get a lot out of it.

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I hope you are here for more well even if you're here for just a guy you're like ah

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I just want to meet a man Renee I'm sick I'm sick of it I need a man I don't need more

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girlfriends I don't need more therapy even if that's why you came in here and you were

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nudged to do it anyway that's okay because you're going to get that and then all the

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other stuff but what you're going to get is the other stuff first which is going to make

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you more healthy and more equipped to find the right guy.

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Now some of you are going to need to let go of the way that you used to find the other

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guys you're here because that plan didn't work that's what got you here so sometimes

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when you get to like phase 2 you know we have women who are like I know what to do I can

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get dates okay but you're here so you're not getting the right dates so I'm just going

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to really encourage you to just trust the process and embrace it and be super excited

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about it because you have a lot of cool stuff that's coming ahead so as Jackie talked about

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it's called the last year single program and you are now in phase one so phase one is the

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heart healing it's the book so I'm going to take you to the portal and show you where

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all of the downloads are one of them being her book I don't know if you've got a printer

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I have a printer at home I printed out the book because I have it in a notebook from

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3 years ago I have it in a notebook and it's all marked up if you want to buy a hard copy

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of the book it's like I don't know less than 20 bucks I think on Amazon so you can go get

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that if you want but you've got the PDF go ahead and download it make sure that you save

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it print it out if you can mark it all up and then a lot of the handouts are also in

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a PDF format for you to do and I also have all of those still printed out from the first

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time that I took the program 3 years ago so I'm going to show you how to do that so the

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way phase one works in the heart work on the website www.jackiederman.com we're going

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to go in there and I'm going to show you how to get in there make sure you see where all

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the videos are to watch where all the handouts are and I'm even going to show you where the

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links are in the schedule for how to get to these zoom sessions it's all in the portal

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now for now all of the community is on Facebook so the portal is where the education content

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is for phase one and for phase two on Facebook we have a separate challenge page as you guys

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know so if you're still in the challenge page take yourself out of the challenge page it's

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going to confuse you you don't need to be there anymore if you got to the phase one

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so hopefully if you are here it means you got an email from us or I bombarded you with

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an email and I'm like hey here's the link to get into the phase one go check your portal

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but we're going to do that again tonight I want to make sure everybody has their email

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set up to get emails from us or their profiles up to get emails from us so in the heart work

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you're going to do all your content in the portal community on a Facebook page when you're

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done with the heart work and that program which is five weeks long it's five weeks worth

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of videos reading questions and

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weekly check-ins, so that's what the heart work is.

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It's about four 15-minute videos a week,

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about 50 pages of her book,

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and there are questions at the end of the chapter.

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We encourage you to journal those.

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Then you're invited every Monday,

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either 1 p.m. or 8 p.m. Eastern Time,

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to come live to show up to a weekly check-in.

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Now, back in the day, we used to have a set start

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and stop time, and so everybody was doing

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the same information every single week.

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But what we learned is life happens,

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and some of you go really fast with the program,

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and we try to get you to slow down,

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and some of you go really slow because something happens.

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You had a job deadline, somebody got sick in the family,

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and you're like, oh my gosh, I didn't do any of week two.

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I'm still in week one.

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It's okay, you go at your own pace.

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So when we go to the check-ins, you're like,

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well, what is she gonna talk about at the check-ins?

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Well, part of what we do is we ask you guys

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to stay engaged on the Facebook page.

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Every Sunday, you will see a post,

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and I'll show you where that post

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is always gonna be in the feed,

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and it's gonna say, how are you doing?

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What's going on, what's working, what's not working?

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And so we want you guys to answer there.

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We have trained coaches.

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So Bethany, who you will meet Monday night,

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if you've not already met her,

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Bethany is our lead coach, our lead heartwork coach,

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and she has a team of a few people under her

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that will be responding to all of your posts.

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So Kelly and Bethany are gonna be the ones

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teaching the heart check-ins on Mondays,

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and then they've got a team of people

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that are gonna be responding to all of your posts.

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So when you get responses, especially that first response,

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if we approve your post,

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we're gonna be one of the first ones to respond.

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that first response is coming from a coach,

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and it's not just some hoo-ha,

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like just giving her a two-cent opinion.

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Now, y'all can give your two-cent opinion on it,

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just know that the first person responding

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is probably always gonna be a coach,

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so that kinda gives you just a little bit more validity.

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So we want you to respond in the roll call.

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We also, throughout the week, want you to share with us,

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hey, I just watched this video, I've got this question,

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or this kinda happened to me,

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or I hit this stumbling block, is this normal?

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Or is this normal?

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And you can ask questions in the newsfeed,

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and again, the coaches will respond.

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Based on what you guys are saying during the week,

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and what you're saying in the roll call,

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Bethany will bubble up what she thinks are the issue,

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the major issues kinda going on for the week,

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and that's usually what will happen at the check-in.

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I know she's got like some set content

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that she kind of goes over week to week to week,

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and so if she's gonna go over content in the week,

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if it's material you have not yet read,

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don't worry about it, you can still show up.

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She's just giving a broad overview.

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I know most of the time that Bethany will have you guys

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go into small breakout rooms,

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and to share with one another,

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and kinda bond with your sister,

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and then you guys are gonna come back together.

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So the kind of the cycle for phase one

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is you have a whole week to watch the four videos,

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do the reading, and answer the questions,

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and just kinda journal them.

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You're gonna come either Monday at 1 p.m. or 8 p.m.

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to go to a check-in.

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If you can't make the live check-in,

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you are gonna be able to just watch it in replay.

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It's not as fun, but you always can do that.

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And I'm gonna show you the calendar in a bit,

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but the other thing that's available to you

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is prayer seven days a week.

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Monday through Thursday, it's in the mornings,

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and it's always, I will say this to you guys,

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99.9% of the time, anything in the morning

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is always gonna be 10 a.m. Eastern time.

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The reason why it's 10 a.m. Eastern time

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is because it's 7 a.m. Pacific,

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and we're trying to find that sweet spot in the morning.

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it's 10 a.m. Eastern time.

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it's typically always 8 p.m.

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So if you're like, well, what time?

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That's it, I just told you.

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10 a.m. or 8 p.m. Eastern time.

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and you kind of have to do the math.

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I did not realize how many people don't know

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how to figure out their time zone from that.

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And I've been a little traumatized in the last three years

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listening to some of you, and I'm like,

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how did you get through elementary school

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and not know the time difference in places?

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Or Google now, you can look it up.

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Especially for those of y'all

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that are coming in from other countries,

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I get it when I'm in Israel or Italy or Mexico.

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I'm always like, what time zone am I in?

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What time zone am I in?

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So I get it, and I get it.

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So prayer Monday through Thursday

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is led by one of our prayer leaders.

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I lead on Monday mornings.

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You don't usually see me on camera.

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Usually for prayer times, we're not on camera.

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and we're not getting on camera.

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kind of follows the same format.

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We pray for men, men in the community,

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and then we pray for Jackie and David,

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the leadership, the volunteers, all of you.

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We pray for this movement.

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and then we go into a time of specific prayer needs.

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Fridays are called Faith Fridays.

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It's still that 10 a.m. time slot.

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Jackie's husband has now started to lead that on Fridays.

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It's super awesome.

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We call it Brag on Jesus Fridays.

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So you get to hear a lot of wins that are going on.

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On Saturdays at 10 a.m., Jackie gives,

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and you guys, I'm giving you these time slots,

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but I'm gonna show you in the portal

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where this calendar is,

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so you don't have to write this down.

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I'm just trying to tell you

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all that's available to you right now.

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So Saturdays are Supernatural Saturday,

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and that's where you'll get a prophetic word from Jackie.

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If I can't ever make those live,

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those are super great to listen to in the car

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or just when you just need a jolt

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because there's usually something really amazing in there.

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again, 8 p.m., we will go into activation with that.

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We will activate the word that she has given out.

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Monday through Thursday, prayer is women only.

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Friday, Saturday, and Sunday is co-ed.

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So I will say, if you're gonna be on camera,

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make sure you're fully dressed and you're not getting ready.

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I will hate to tell you how many times

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women forget that they're on camera.

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And let's just say it's not fun.

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if you're not, like right now, I'm sitting fully engaged.

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This is an appropriate attire,

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an appropriate way to show up.

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your ceiling fan going in this,

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just have your camera off, it's all good.

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If you're running, if you're walking, if you're driving,

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I don't need to see your hip while you're driving.

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It's just kind of weird.

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So it's okay to have your camera off.

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if your camera is on though,

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realize on Friday, Saturday, Sunday,

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there might be men in the room.

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you're dressed appropriately,

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even if people forget to tell you that.

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Okay, so the beautiful thing about the heart work

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is you're gonna dig into like everything

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that you saw in that three-day challenge,

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but like on crack.

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There's like so much more

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that you're gonna kind of go through.

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Jackie will tell you a few things about this.

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It will be normal for you to start dreaming again.

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It will be normal for some of you

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to feel like you're getting a headache.

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or you get a massage, you kind of feel icky afterwards

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because all the toxin is coming out of your body.

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from the enemy.

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All of that stuff is natural.

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All of that stuff is natural.

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protect you and kind of push through it

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because you've got some great stuff.

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is don't go digging.

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She'll tell you that the Lord is gonna bring up the stuff

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that you need to uncover as you uncover it.

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you have a mom wound or a dad wound

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and something comes up that you hadn't really thought

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about before, don't go like dig in that first

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or second week to figure out all of it.

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Just whatever the Lord shines on it,

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that's what you take to the Holy Spirit and that's it.

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I kind of call it like peeling an onion.

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The Lord's only gonna let you peel pieces of your story

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that you're ready and able to do.

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you go at the pace that the Holy Spirit goes at.

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I already told you at the very, very beginning.

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everybody goes at a different pace.

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That's why even though a bunch of you just signed up

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in the last two weeks,

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some people already hit the ground running

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and they're already starting week two.

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Some people are like, okay, it just took me a week

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to learn where the Facebook page is.

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And so I haven't even started reading.

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Like it's all good, it's okay.

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Cause you're gonna be in a group of women who are like,

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man, I joined in December and I didn't do anything

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for a month and I just picked it back up.

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So don't have any FOMO, it's all good.

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We're gonna walk through the site

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to make sure you guys are set up to get emails.

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When you watch the last video, at the end of the five weeks,

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when you watch that last video,

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that and you say mark is complete,

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that should trigger an automatic email to come to you.

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you're gonna get an email that says,

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woohoo, you finished phase one, awesome.

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You're about to go into phase two.

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Here's what to expect in phase two.

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And then here's the Facebook link for phase two.

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If you finish that and you get no email,

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you're gonna have to email me and I'm gonna help you

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get your email set up and or get you the link

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to get into phase two.

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It's less homework, but it's more longer videos.

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We talk about dating.

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What that's kind of like your love story accelerator.

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So Jackie starts off the love story accelerator,

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a dating one to one and a divine feminine, divine masculine teaching.

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I teach the online dating and the boundary session.

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And you're there for about four weeks in phase two.

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Just like here, you're going to get a weekly check in.

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The weekly check ins for phase one is on Mondays.

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The check ins on phase two are Tuesdays.

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And then at the end of those four weeks, you're going to go into phase three.

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And like I said, by the time you get to phase three,

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you will probably be in the app, which will replace Facebook and the website.

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So those two things kind of get merged into one on the new app.

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Super excited.

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And that's when you kind of join the general population.

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And at that point, all of the teaching and all of the events

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are typically live and they're typically co-ed and they're always in replay.

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So we're going to all go march.

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You're going to I'm going to screen share and we're going to march over

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and I'm going to march over to the portal, show you everything there.

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Let you ask me any questions there.

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We're going to march over to the Facebook page

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and I'll let you ask me any questions there that I'm going to stop sharing.

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And then I'm just going to let you ask me any questions.

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The one thing I do have to remember to tell you in phase one,

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we strongly, strongly encourage you to stop dating right now

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that it will just be a distracting.

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if you're just piddling around dating guys, we want you to put that on pause.

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If you are in a serious relationship with somebody, of course,

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we're not going to tell you to break up with the guy for the next five weeks

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or stop talking to him.

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But we do want you to warn him that you are in a coaching program.

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And that they're just going to need to give you a lot of extra grace.

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If you've been out on one or two dates with somebody,

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we might encourage you to say, you know what, I will.

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I'm in the in the middle of working with a relationship coach.

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You can say whatever you guys want.

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Like, hey, you know, I just I just hired an executive coach, a life coach.

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You don't have to say if it's a relationship coach,

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if you've only been on two dates with him, he doesn't need to know everything

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that it is.

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And you can just say, hey, it's an intensive.

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I'm going to be back in a month.

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Now, you might think like, oh, my gosh, but what if he doesn't wait for me

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for a month and he ain't your guy?

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Like if he's your guy, he'll wait a month for you,

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because if anything, he's going to want a healthier you.

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So that's our encouragement to you.

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And all right, so let me go ahead and share the screen.

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And like I said, since I'm covering for Jackie tonight,

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for those of you that came on late,

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they are having Wi-Fi and storm issues in Columbia, Columbia.

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And so I'm kind of hitting.

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So if you want to get more of Jackie's, whoo,

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she's going to be way less technical in her orientation.

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She did it last week.

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It's in your portal.

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And I'll show you where it is so you can go out and watch it.

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But I get to teach you how to find everything.

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So I'm going to be your best friend.

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I also will tell you this before I forget.

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If you have a technical question, a billing question,

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you're going to email admin at Jackie Dorman dot com.

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Now, you guys have a very small staff.

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And so I want you to show us some grace.

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Sometimes people get very demanding on a Sunday afternoon.

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And I'm like, OK, some of us are in church or with our family.

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So hold space and grace.

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I will say this.

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Somebody is probably always manning the Facebook page.

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I mean, I will say we do try to check the emails every single day.

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But on the weekends, we don't check them every hour of every day.

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You know, we are trying to honor our families, too.

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So if you have a program question or an urgent question,

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it might be best for you to put it on the news feed on Facebook

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because we have dozens of volunteers helping man those pages.

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So chances are somebody is awake.

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If somebody is in a time zone that will be able to answer your question.

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But in general, the news feed is for program.

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The admin email is for technical issues.

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OK, let me go ahead and show the screen.

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Okey dokey.

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So here's the the Jackie Dorman website that you've got right here.

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So I'm going to kind of walk you through.

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You see how it says member login.

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And you guys, you can go to Kajabi.

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Kajabi does have a app version of it.

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It's a lot more clunky.

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And so I don't train from that.

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And so if you use that, I can just tell you it's harder to.

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It's not harder to watch the videos.

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It's harder to download some stuff.

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And it's not as easy to navigate.

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So I'm showing you the desktop version.

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Member login.

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So you're going to come down here and you're going to put your email address

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and that's the email you use to purchase the program and the password.

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And so you have to do that login.

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I'm going to be able to see more than you can see, so don't worry.

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Great about that.

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So let's see how it says my library at the top.

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Now you guys, right now,

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you should only see these two things right here.

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Phase one, the heart work program.

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This is where the content is

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and it's where the downloads are.

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All the PDFs, content PDFs.

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This right here, we separated this out

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to make it super easy for you.

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This is the link to all the prayer sessions,

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the links to the check-in,

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the links to Supernatural Saturday,

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the schedule, and all the replays.

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So the links to stuff and the replays are here.

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Look, it says links to live sessions.

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Check it in links.

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It's also where the replays are.

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Here is where the content is.

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Are we good?

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Okay, so we're gonna go into the content.

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So you're gonna click on it.

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So the first thing I'm gonna ask you guys to do,

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and if you guys have gotten an email from me

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because you weren't in the Facebook page,

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you already know what this is,

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but I'm gonna walk you guys through this.

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So way up in the corner, this little, your profile,

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he doesn't show up until you're actually in the heart work.

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Because if you noticed, here, there was no little guy.

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No little guy here.

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Don't know why Kajabi did that, but they did.

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So you have to come in and there's the thing.

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I'm gonna click on my profile

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and I'm gonna go to settings.

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And it's like, oh, there's Renee Rizzo, there's my email.

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I'm gonna come all the way to the bottom.

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This is how I know.

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And see where it says,

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please email me about new products and promotions.

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A lot of you did not click that button on the purchase

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because who wants new products and promotions?

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You're like, bleh.

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And so a lot of you didn't click that.

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The problem is, it means you get none of our emails.

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So you have to make sure all these buttons are to the right.

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So I want you guys, when you get off here,

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I want everybody going in, double check,

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to make sure all these little buttons are to the right.

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Once you do that, come down here, y'all.

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You gotta hit the save button, right?

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I'm sorry, it's way up here in the corner.

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So if you click here, but you don't hit save, guess what?

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It don't save.

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So go to the little guy, go to settings,

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come all the way down, click everything to the right,

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then hit save.

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That's how you save it.

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Okay, so that's your setting.

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We're gonna go back to Jackie Dorman.

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We're gonna go back here to phase one.

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All right, so you guys are just starting.

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And you're gonna go, wow, what do I do, what do I do?

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Well, you start here.

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It says start here, so that's what you're gonna do.

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And you're gonna start here.

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You're gonna watch the welcome video.

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I've already completed it, so I don't have to do it again.

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We need you to sign a waiver, so there's the link.

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See, it's a live link to sign the waiver.

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Confirm your subscription emails.

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00:22:49.520 --> 00:22:52.080
I already just showed you how to do that.

491
00:22:52.080 --> 00:22:53.560
Download the HeartWork book.

492
00:22:53.560 --> 00:22:55.080
I'll show it to you to the right.

493
00:22:55.080 --> 00:22:59.080
You can begin by reading, and then join the Facebook page.

494
00:22:59.080 --> 00:23:02.000
So in case you didn't join the Facebook page,

495
00:23:02.000 --> 00:23:03.640
or you're like, I didn't get the email

496
00:23:03.640 --> 00:23:05.040
to join the Facebook page.

497
00:23:05.040 --> 00:23:06.340
Here it is, right here.

498
00:23:06.340 --> 00:23:09.960
So we try to give you a lot of ways to do that.

499
00:23:09.960 --> 00:23:12.880
So if you go over here to the right,

500
00:23:12.880 --> 00:23:14.200
here are the downloads.

501
00:23:14.200 --> 00:23:16.340
So typically, the downloads are to the right.

502
00:23:16.340 --> 00:23:18.680
That's why if you're looking at this from your phone,

503
00:23:18.680 --> 00:23:20.640
you may not see it as clean.

504
00:23:20.640 --> 00:23:22.800
But here is the book.

505
00:23:22.800 --> 00:23:25.020
Here is some of the information,

506
00:23:25.020 --> 00:23:27.400
and here is the permission slip

507
00:23:27.400 --> 00:23:30.480
that you probably already did in the challenge.

508
00:23:30.480 --> 00:23:34.600
Okay, so then once you do that, you say complete.

509
00:23:35.680 --> 00:23:37.840
Boom, and now look, it's already telling me

510
00:23:37.840 --> 00:23:39.520
the next thing to do.

511
00:23:39.520 --> 00:23:42.040
Now there's a welcome video from Jackie.

512
00:23:42.040 --> 00:23:44.260
So you click on that, and now you could watch

513
00:23:44.260 --> 00:23:46.520
this welcome video from her.

514
00:23:46.520 --> 00:23:47.840
Woo woo!

515
00:23:47.840 --> 00:23:50.400
Now you're like, okay, I really wish I got a chance

516
00:23:50.440 --> 00:23:51.960
to talk to Jackie personally,

517
00:23:51.960 --> 00:23:53.440
and like, I got stuck with Renee.

518
00:23:53.440 --> 00:23:55.080
It's all good, I'm not taking it personal.

519
00:23:55.080 --> 00:23:59.080
So if you go here, you can watch this orientation

520
00:23:59.080 --> 00:24:00.400
that Jackie did.

521
00:24:00.400 --> 00:24:02.880
It's pretty much the same kind of orientation,

522
00:24:02.880 --> 00:24:04.560
but you can go ahead and watch it,

523
00:24:04.560 --> 00:24:06.980
and when you're done, you're gonna hit mark complete.

524
00:24:06.980 --> 00:24:08.400
If you guys don't hit mark complete,

525
00:24:08.400 --> 00:24:11.560
it doesn't really show you the next thing to do.

526
00:24:11.560 --> 00:24:13.440
Now this is the tech orientation.

527
00:24:13.440 --> 00:24:15.920
I'm walking you through the tech orientation.

528
00:24:15.920 --> 00:24:18.960
So you really don't need to go through it, but that's me.

529
00:24:18.960 --> 00:24:21.800
So we're gonna pretend that we just completed that.

530
00:24:21.800 --> 00:24:23.880
Ah, what's the schedule?

531
00:24:23.880 --> 00:24:24.960
There you go.

532
00:24:24.960 --> 00:24:27.940
Here's the schedule right here.

533
00:24:27.940 --> 00:24:30.660
So the schedule here, click here for dates and times

534
00:24:30.660 --> 00:24:32.260
to convert to your area.

535
00:24:32.260 --> 00:24:34.160
So remember I said to you,

536
00:24:34.160 --> 00:24:37.560
the schedule and important links, Monday prayer calls.

537
00:24:37.560 --> 00:24:39.040
Here's the link to it.

538
00:24:39.040 --> 00:24:41.520
Boom, here's the times.

539
00:24:41.520 --> 00:24:44.360
I'm sorry, this is the check-in.

540
00:24:44.360 --> 00:24:46.040
This is the check-in for you.

541
00:24:46.040 --> 00:24:48.560
Sorry, yes, this is the live check-in.

542
00:24:49.160 --> 00:24:50.000
And then here are the prayer call.

543
00:24:50.000 --> 00:24:51.760
This is the prayer call schedule.

544
00:24:51.760 --> 00:24:55.240
And here are all the prayer call links right there.

545
00:24:55.240 --> 00:24:56.720
So, beautiful.

546
00:24:56.720 --> 00:24:58.480
I'm gonna also show you another place

547
00:24:58.480 --> 00:24:59.840
this calendar always is.

548
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.360
You can always go back to it, super easy.

549
00:25:03.360 --> 00:25:05.240
Keep going, downloads.

550
00:25:05.240 --> 00:25:06.120
And now it's gonna be like,

551
00:25:06.120 --> 00:25:08.880
oh my gosh, here's all the downloads.

552
00:25:08.880 --> 00:25:11.160
So you can look to the right

553
00:25:12.200 --> 00:25:14.900
and you can grab the downloads.

554
00:25:14.900 --> 00:25:17.320
So you see how there's more downloads here for you.

555
00:25:17.320 --> 00:25:18.680
So you're gonna come to the right

556
00:25:18.680 --> 00:25:20.200
and you're gonna click on all these,

557
00:25:20.200 --> 00:25:21.960
save them to your computer.

558
00:25:21.960 --> 00:25:25.560
They're like, good job, keep going, next lesson.

559
00:25:25.560 --> 00:25:27.840
Okay, so now we're in part one.

560
00:25:27.880 --> 00:25:30.080
So that was a lot of housekeeping.

561
00:25:30.080 --> 00:25:34.760
So now part one, now you can see how it shows week one.

562
00:25:34.760 --> 00:25:38.440
There are one, two, three, four, five, six little videos.

563
00:25:38.440 --> 00:25:40.920
They're not longer than like 14 minutes, you guys.

564
00:25:40.920 --> 00:25:42.120
So they're not that bad.

565
00:25:42.120 --> 00:25:45.120
You've got a whole week to watch these videos.

566
00:25:46.220 --> 00:25:48.520
And then look, it even has instructions.

567
00:25:48.520 --> 00:25:53.320
She's telling you here what to read, what to watch,

568
00:25:53.320 --> 00:25:56.000
what to do, homework questions,

569
00:25:56.000 --> 00:25:57.520
and other things that you've got.

570
00:25:58.200 --> 00:25:59.720
So week one for the entire week,

571
00:25:59.720 --> 00:26:01.920
this is what you've got to do.

572
00:26:01.920 --> 00:26:03.740
And here's all the videos.

573
00:26:03.740 --> 00:26:07.000
So that's warning you that there are gonna be six videos.

574
00:26:07.000 --> 00:26:08.560
So you're gonna go through,

575
00:26:08.560 --> 00:26:10.960
you're gonna watch the next video, hit complete,

576
00:26:10.960 --> 00:26:14.380
watch the next video, hit complete, boom.

577
00:26:15.840 --> 00:26:19.500
You're gonna keep going through all the way.

578
00:26:20.520 --> 00:26:22.140
There's the bonus session.

579
00:26:23.360 --> 00:26:25.200
Bonus session, dream interpretation,

580
00:26:25.200 --> 00:26:26.280
everyone loves that one.

581
00:26:26.280 --> 00:26:27.680
And now you're part two.

582
00:26:27.680 --> 00:26:30.960
You're like, oh crap, part two, that's already next week.

583
00:26:30.960 --> 00:26:34.560
So there's how you move around this.

584
00:26:36.000 --> 00:26:40.080
Any questions, I'm gonna open the floor for questions.

585
00:26:40.080 --> 00:26:45.080
Any questions about how to walk through the videos,

586
00:26:45.300 --> 00:26:48.760
how to get to the downloads for part one?

587
00:26:48.760 --> 00:26:51.880
And then you kind of see that you basically do this process

588
00:26:51.880 --> 00:26:54.120
for the next five weeks.

589
00:26:54.120 --> 00:26:55.760
Any questions so far?

590
00:26:56.760 --> 00:26:58.120
You can come off mute and just ask

591
00:26:58.120 --> 00:26:59.720
because I can only see five of you

592
00:26:59.720 --> 00:27:01.120
across my screen right now.

593
00:27:02.520 --> 00:27:04.200
Hi, I have a question.

594
00:27:05.160 --> 00:27:08.800
I noticed that there are permission slips,

595
00:27:08.800 --> 00:27:12.320
I think on each, after each video or something like that.

596
00:27:12.320 --> 00:27:14.840
Do we have to open the permission slip

597
00:27:14.840 --> 00:27:16.320
and send them again or do our,

598
00:27:16.320 --> 00:27:18.560
because we did one before, it's fine.

599
00:27:18.560 --> 00:27:19.400
Yeah, it's fine.

600
00:27:19.400 --> 00:27:20.680
Yeah, you're fine.

601
00:27:20.680 --> 00:27:23.320
So a lot of times you will see, thanks for asking.

602
00:27:24.160 --> 00:27:26.880
A lot of times you'll see we will put things

603
00:27:26.880 --> 00:27:30.520
in multiple places so that you can't miss it.

604
00:27:30.520 --> 00:27:32.760
So if you've already seen it, already printed it,

605
00:27:32.760 --> 00:27:34.040
already signed it, and you guys,

606
00:27:34.040 --> 00:27:36.200
nobody's gonna ask you for your handouts.

607
00:27:36.200 --> 00:27:38.260
Those are just for you to keep for yourself.

608
00:27:38.260 --> 00:27:40.680
It's not like you're gonna come to week one class

609
00:27:40.680 --> 00:27:41.960
and you're like, hey, I signed it.

610
00:27:41.960 --> 00:27:44.520
I mean, you can, but you don't have to.

611
00:27:44.520 --> 00:27:47.520
That's really, all of this is really on your honor system.

612
00:27:47.520 --> 00:27:50.680
Now I will tell you, when you finish phase,

613
00:27:50.680 --> 00:27:54.240
when you finish phase one or the heart work in five weeks,

614
00:27:54.240 --> 00:27:56.480
some of you will try to watch all the videos

615
00:27:56.480 --> 00:27:59.800
in like two hot weeks and plow through the program.

616
00:27:59.800 --> 00:28:01.680
And you're gonna get the button that says,

617
00:28:01.680 --> 00:28:03.440
you're gonna come to us

618
00:28:03.440 --> 00:28:05.440
and you're gonna try to join phase two.

619
00:28:05.440 --> 00:28:06.440
And we're not gonna let you.

620
00:28:06.440 --> 00:28:07.280
We're gonna be like, look,

621
00:28:07.280 --> 00:28:10.160
you did not do the heart work in two weeks flat.

622
00:28:10.160 --> 00:28:11.560
There's no way.

623
00:28:11.560 --> 00:28:13.120
We want you to get all that you can.

624
00:28:13.120 --> 00:28:14.280
And here's what I can tell you,

625
00:28:14.280 --> 00:28:15.760
and Jackie will tell you this.

626
00:28:15.760 --> 00:28:18.800
Anybody that tries to rush phase one,

627
00:28:18.800 --> 00:28:21.080
I mean, yes, can you get it done in four weeks?

628
00:28:21.080 --> 00:28:24.280
Probably, you could probably get it done in four, not five,

629
00:28:24.280 --> 00:28:26.600
but can you really get it done in two or three?

630
00:28:26.600 --> 00:28:27.760
You really can't.

631
00:28:27.760 --> 00:28:29.360
And what we have found is that people

632
00:28:29.360 --> 00:28:31.440
who don't take the time at the front end,

633
00:28:31.440 --> 00:28:33.320
they kind of plow through phase one and two

634
00:28:33.320 --> 00:28:35.080
just so they can get to phase three,

635
00:28:35.080 --> 00:28:37.280
start date and meet the guys.

636
00:28:37.280 --> 00:28:38.920
And it just combusts.

637
00:28:38.920 --> 00:28:40.320
And they're like, oh,

638
00:28:40.320 --> 00:28:42.760
and they're just making all the same old mistakes

639
00:28:42.760 --> 00:28:45.360
because they really didn't have any time to change

640
00:28:45.360 --> 00:28:46.360
and get healed.

641
00:28:46.360 --> 00:28:48.640
They're still looking for the same kind of guys.

642
00:28:49.480 --> 00:28:51.160
And so they usually end up having to start all over

643
00:28:51.160 --> 00:28:52.480
and go back to the heart work.

644
00:28:52.480 --> 00:28:55.160
So you might as well do it right the first time.

645
00:28:55.160 --> 00:28:57.640
Okay, we're gonna back out of here.

646
00:29:01.640 --> 00:29:04.000
And I am just hitting the back button.

647
00:29:05.800 --> 00:29:07.400
That might not be the best way to get out of here.

648
00:29:07.400 --> 00:29:08.560
Let me think.

649
00:29:08.560 --> 00:29:12.000
All right, we're gonna go to here, phase one.

650
00:29:12.000 --> 00:29:13.800
No, okay.

651
00:29:13.800 --> 00:29:15.680
We're learning together.

652
00:29:15.680 --> 00:29:17.320
I forget how I get out of here.

653
00:29:19.600 --> 00:29:23.920
Okay, there is gotta be a better way to close out of here.

654
00:29:23.920 --> 00:29:25.200
I'm embarrassed to tell you this.

655
00:29:25.200 --> 00:29:26.960
I should know how to do this.

656
00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:28.280
I do this all the time.

657
00:29:33.800 --> 00:29:38.720
Well, when all else fails, I back out all the way.

658
00:29:38.720 --> 00:29:39.600
Oh, library.

659
00:29:39.600 --> 00:29:40.760
Ah, there you go.

660
00:29:40.760 --> 00:29:43.200
Okay, so you click on your little head

661
00:29:43.200 --> 00:29:45.400
and you go and click on my library.

662
00:29:45.400 --> 00:29:47.160
Woo, see, there you go.

663
00:29:47.160 --> 00:29:48.440
Even I forget stuff.

664
00:29:49.080 --> 00:29:50.960
Now we're gonna go into where all the check,

665
00:29:50.960 --> 00:29:53.360
the replays are, and the links.

666
00:29:53.360 --> 00:29:55.600
So you're like, okay, Renee.

667
00:29:55.600 --> 00:29:57.520
So I've got some important things to show you here.

668
00:29:57.520 --> 00:29:59.400
So here's the royal rules.

669
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.000
And this is just rules of engagement.

670
00:30:03.000 --> 00:30:06.560
And so this is really important for you to know

671
00:30:06.560 --> 00:30:08.520
how we try to operate here.

672
00:30:08.520 --> 00:30:12.060
We say things like community over competition.

673
00:30:12.060 --> 00:30:14.600
This is the one community I swear,

674
00:30:14.600 --> 00:30:18.200
you guys, if a lot of you have girl wounds

675
00:30:18.200 --> 00:30:20.240
from mean girls that you grew up with

676
00:30:20.240 --> 00:30:23.840
and women that comparison and all of that,

677
00:30:23.840 --> 00:30:26.440
you will find some healing in this community.

678
00:30:26.440 --> 00:30:28.400
I don't know how we can have a thousand women

679
00:30:28.440 --> 00:30:30.800
in this community and we don't get petty

680
00:30:30.800 --> 00:30:33.320
or kind of cray cray, but we really don't.

681
00:30:33.320 --> 00:30:36.080
We have the most beautiful community here.

682
00:30:36.080 --> 00:30:39.280
And it's because we take these world rules really seriously

683
00:30:39.280 --> 00:30:42.960
and we will put you on probation if you start breaking them.

684
00:30:42.960 --> 00:30:44.320
Lift all boats.

685
00:30:44.320 --> 00:30:47.460
It is okay for you guys to share things

686
00:30:47.460 --> 00:30:50.060
that are disappointing, things that are hurting you

687
00:30:50.060 --> 00:30:53.000
when you feel sad, but what we won't do

688
00:30:53.000 --> 00:30:57.280
is let you whine and complain and bring each other down.

689
00:30:57.280 --> 00:31:00.440
We wanna make sure that we lift all boats up.

690
00:31:00.440 --> 00:31:04.200
Guard your words, just pay attention to what you say.

691
00:31:04.200 --> 00:31:07.960
Think about this, is this kind, is this necessary?

692
00:31:07.960 --> 00:31:09.400
So we are really paying attention

693
00:31:09.400 --> 00:31:12.360
to not only how you talk to other women in the community,

694
00:31:12.360 --> 00:31:14.560
but really how you talk to yourself.

695
00:31:14.560 --> 00:31:17.040
So if we feel like you're kind of crapping on yourself,

696
00:31:17.040 --> 00:31:19.640
we're gonna even call you out on that.

697
00:31:19.640 --> 00:31:22.280
Remember to respect each other's privacy.

698
00:31:22.280 --> 00:31:25.180
What is said in a prayer call stays in a prayer call.

699
00:31:25.180 --> 00:31:28.620
What is said in your small groups stays in a small group.

700
00:31:28.620 --> 00:31:30.140
And then obviously,

701
00:31:30.140 --> 00:31:32.180
we really don't want you private messaging.

702
00:31:32.180 --> 00:31:35.060
Don't private message or DM in Facebook me,

703
00:31:35.060 --> 00:31:37.240
Jackie or Bethany or the coaches.

704
00:31:37.240 --> 00:31:39.020
If you need to reach out to us,

705
00:31:39.020 --> 00:31:41.860
send it to the admin at JackieDorman.com email

706
00:31:41.860 --> 00:31:43.240
and it will get to us.

707
00:31:44.300 --> 00:31:47.580
Try not to sell your books, sell your own product.

708
00:31:47.580 --> 00:31:50.380
This is not a place for it or anybody else's.

709
00:31:50.380 --> 00:31:53.140
And so we really don't want you guys recommending

710
00:31:53.140 --> 00:31:56.700
other authors, other speakers, other influencers.

711
00:31:56.700 --> 00:31:59.060
There's a lot of other great content out there.

712
00:31:59.060 --> 00:32:00.380
We're not saying that.

713
00:32:00.380 --> 00:32:01.840
But right now in here,

714
00:32:01.840 --> 00:32:03.460
we're trying to focus on the hard work.

715
00:32:03.460 --> 00:32:07.420
Because the problem is if you promote an outside speaker,

716
00:32:07.420 --> 00:32:10.780
we just don't have the staff time to vet that speaker

717
00:32:10.780 --> 00:32:12.900
to make sure that what they're saying

718
00:32:12.900 --> 00:32:16.200
or what they're writing is in conflict of what we're saying.

719
00:32:16.200 --> 00:32:19.240
And so we just try to keep that out here.

720
00:32:19.240 --> 00:32:20.700
You are not a therapist here.

721
00:32:20.700 --> 00:32:22.180
Even if you are a therapist,

722
00:32:22.180 --> 00:32:25.260
you get to take your therapist hat off.

723
00:32:25.260 --> 00:32:27.300
So you just wanna make sure

724
00:32:27.300 --> 00:32:29.980
that you are not diagnosing people.

725
00:32:29.980 --> 00:32:31.820
Like, oh my gosh, she sounds like a narcissist.

726
00:32:31.820 --> 00:32:33.780
Oh my gosh, she sounds so codependent.

727
00:32:33.780 --> 00:32:36.580
Oh my gosh, they sound bipolar.

728
00:32:36.580 --> 00:32:39.020
Like you guys, that's like making a diagnosis.

729
00:32:39.020 --> 00:32:40.480
So we really can't do that.

730
00:32:41.720 --> 00:32:42.560
There you go.

731
00:32:42.560 --> 00:32:44.380
See, look, if you're like, I don't know what the email is.

732
00:32:44.380 --> 00:32:46.220
There you go, there's the email.

733
00:32:46.220 --> 00:32:49.380
Okay, so that's the Royal Rules.

734
00:32:49.420 --> 00:32:52.780
And we're gonna back out of the Royal Rules.

735
00:32:52.780 --> 00:32:55.620
And then there's the schedule and important links to attend.

736
00:32:55.620 --> 00:32:56.620
So remember I said,

737
00:32:56.620 --> 00:32:59.580
you may not wanna go to phase one and look for that.

738
00:32:59.580 --> 00:33:03.980
Boom, here's the schedule again with all of the links.

739
00:33:03.980 --> 00:33:05.300
Super easy.

740
00:33:06.420 --> 00:33:08.580
How to contact us, boom, right there.

741
00:33:08.580 --> 00:33:11.020
Look, it's a direct link to the email.

742
00:33:11.020 --> 00:33:14.180
Look, boom, it sets up an email right away.

743
00:33:14.180 --> 00:33:16.340
And you will get that email out the door.

744
00:33:16.380 --> 00:33:19.940
So it can't get any easier than that.

745
00:33:19.940 --> 00:33:22.520
And then of course, there's where all the replays.

746
00:33:22.520 --> 00:33:26.320
You guys, the only replays you need to worry about

747
00:33:26.320 --> 00:33:27.620
is if you want.

748
00:33:27.620 --> 00:33:30.660
You don't have to watch any of the replays

749
00:33:30.660 --> 00:33:32.100
that are not current,

750
00:33:32.100 --> 00:33:34.260
but you can watch any Supernatural Saturday.

751
00:33:34.260 --> 00:33:35.120
They're always good.

752
00:33:35.120 --> 00:33:38.420
So it goes March, April, May.

753
00:33:38.420 --> 00:33:41.860
Again, I wouldn't go in and watch all the check-ins.

754
00:33:41.860 --> 00:33:43.440
That'll just confuse you.

755
00:33:43.440 --> 00:33:45.140
There are just the taped versions

756
00:33:45.140 --> 00:33:47.300
of what you guys are gonna start attending.

757
00:33:47.300 --> 00:33:48.900
But Supernatural Saturdays,

758
00:33:48.900 --> 00:33:51.020
if you're ever alone in your car

759
00:33:51.020 --> 00:33:52.660
or you're out on a walk or a hike

760
00:33:52.660 --> 00:33:54.580
and you need a good word from the Lord,

761
00:33:54.580 --> 00:33:57.060
then feel free to watch the Supernatural Saturdays.

762
00:33:57.060 --> 00:33:58.940
But obviously if you click on it,

763
00:33:58.940 --> 00:34:01.780
it's gonna take you right to the video.

764
00:34:01.780 --> 00:34:05.780
So that is the beauty of this module

765
00:34:05.780 --> 00:34:10.100
is that we've got the calendar right there with the links,

766
00:34:10.100 --> 00:34:14.420
how to contact us and all the replays right there.

767
00:34:14.460 --> 00:34:16.540
So I love having this.

768
00:34:16.540 --> 00:34:19.600
And let's see, we're gonna back out of that.

769
00:34:21.340 --> 00:34:23.380
And back out of that.

770
00:34:24.780 --> 00:34:27.060
See, now let's see if I can go back to the beginning here.

771
00:34:27.060 --> 00:34:27.900
Oh, nope.

772
00:34:29.060 --> 00:34:30.100
Library.

773
00:34:30.100 --> 00:34:32.179
Go back to the library, boom.

774
00:34:32.179 --> 00:34:33.620
So evidently the library

775
00:34:33.620 --> 00:34:36.020
is the word you're looking for everywhere.

776
00:34:36.020 --> 00:34:39.260
Okay, so I'm gonna stop

777
00:34:39.260 --> 00:34:41.380
just so I can see more of your faces.

778
00:34:41.380 --> 00:34:42.659
Anybody have any questions

779
00:34:42.659 --> 00:34:45.300
about how to start viewing that video footage,

780
00:34:45.300 --> 00:34:47.179
how to download the thing and kind of move?

781
00:34:47.179 --> 00:34:48.860
And remember, there's two modules,

782
00:34:48.860 --> 00:34:51.179
one that's got the content and the downloads,

783
00:34:51.179 --> 00:34:54.060
one that's got the schedule, the links and the replays.

784
00:34:54.060 --> 00:34:55.860
We try to make it super easy for you.

785
00:34:55.860 --> 00:34:57.720
So we good there?

786
00:34:57.720 --> 00:34:58.560
Good there?

787
00:34:58.560 --> 00:35:00.020
Okay, y'all look super excited.

788
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.400
All right, I'm going to go to Facebook now.

789
00:35:02.400 --> 00:35:04.160
I'm not going to insult you, because I'm not

790
00:35:04.160 --> 00:35:05.400
going to spend a lot of time.

791
00:35:05.400 --> 00:35:08.360
Because most of you already know how to use Facebook.

792
00:35:08.360 --> 00:35:10.960
But we're going to go to Facebook.

793
00:35:10.960 --> 00:35:14.040
I have to get my other Chrome screen up

794
00:35:14.040 --> 00:35:16.720
where my Facebook page is.

795
00:35:16.720 --> 00:35:18.120
And I'm going to go to phase one.

796
00:35:18.120 --> 00:35:19.960
And now I'm going to screen share for y'all.

797
00:35:25.400 --> 00:35:29.640
OK, so here is phase one.

798
00:35:29.640 --> 00:35:32.800
When we say, so if you're like, I'm

799
00:35:32.800 --> 00:35:36.400
in the middle of the Facebook page, if you go to guides,

800
00:35:36.400 --> 00:35:43.440
guides also has, you guys, don't watch the content here

801
00:35:43.440 --> 00:35:45.300
and click off complete here.

802
00:35:45.300 --> 00:35:49.500
You really need to watch all your training in the portal.

803
00:35:49.500 --> 00:35:52.160
So kind of ignore all of this stuff.

804
00:35:52.160 --> 00:35:54.480
But this is kind of here too.

805
00:35:54.480 --> 00:35:56.000
And you page down.

806
00:35:56.000 --> 00:35:58.320
Look, there's the calendar right here again.

807
00:35:58.360 --> 00:36:00.240
So here's the calendar again.

808
00:36:00.240 --> 00:36:02.560
Here's the Zoom link for Supernatural Saturday,

809
00:36:02.560 --> 00:36:07.640
the prayer schedule, the live session, all community link.

810
00:36:07.640 --> 00:36:10.720
So here's also the very same links

811
00:36:10.720 --> 00:36:12.800
in the calendar in guide two.

812
00:36:12.800 --> 00:36:15.880
So a lot of times, you'll hear us say the calendar

813
00:36:15.880 --> 00:36:17.720
and the links are in guide two.

814
00:36:17.720 --> 00:36:21.540
They're in guide two for phase one, phase two, and phase three.

815
00:36:21.540 --> 00:36:24.320
So you go to the guide section.

816
00:36:24.320 --> 00:36:27.360
But if you notice, see, this is what's clunky about Facebook.

817
00:36:27.360 --> 00:36:30.560
You kind of have to bypass all this stuff to get to guide two.

818
00:36:30.560 --> 00:36:33.520
There's no other way to do it except scroll on down.

819
00:36:33.520 --> 00:36:36.360
And then if you get to guide three,

820
00:36:36.360 --> 00:36:39.440
here's also where some of the replays are.

821
00:36:39.440 --> 00:36:41.640
And so that's where you can go.

822
00:36:41.640 --> 00:36:46.320
Now, the other thing I'm going to show you is the Feature tab.

823
00:36:46.320 --> 00:36:48.320
So that's what the guides have.

824
00:36:48.320 --> 00:36:51.360
So the guides also, see how it's just more clunky?

825
00:36:51.360 --> 00:36:54.720
Then the Feature tabs, the Feature tab

826
00:36:54.720 --> 00:36:58.320
is always going to show the most recent stuff that's

827
00:36:58.320 --> 00:37:00.480
been recorded here for you.

828
00:37:00.480 --> 00:37:02.880
Like here, this was just featured.

829
00:37:02.880 --> 00:37:09.280
Now, I will say, I like the way that the Feature looks on my phone

830
00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:11.520
way better than it does here.

831
00:37:11.520 --> 00:37:13.080
Here, it kind of cascades down.

832
00:37:13.080 --> 00:37:15.800
On my phone, it kind of cascades across.

833
00:37:15.800 --> 00:37:17.640
So it's a lot easier to see.

834
00:37:17.640 --> 00:37:20.480
Because unfortunately, with this, it shows all the comments.

835
00:37:20.480 --> 00:37:21.520
And it's kind of a pain.

836
00:37:21.520 --> 00:37:23.260
So you're going to see all the Feature.

837
00:37:23.260 --> 00:37:25.220
Remember I told you about a roll call?

838
00:37:25.220 --> 00:37:27.860
Every Sunday, you're going to see a post like this.

839
00:37:27.860 --> 00:37:30.460
And it's going to say, time for the weekly roll call.

840
00:37:30.460 --> 00:37:31.460
How are you doing?

841
00:37:31.460 --> 00:37:34.260
And look, 150 responses.

842
00:37:34.260 --> 00:37:37.600
So people will always tell everybody how they're doing.

843
00:37:37.600 --> 00:37:39.620
And Bethany or one of the other coaches

844
00:37:39.620 --> 00:37:41.540
will always be there to respond.

845
00:37:41.540 --> 00:37:44.060
So you guys, we take your posts very seriously.

846
00:37:44.060 --> 00:37:48.740
It takes us hours, hours to respond to you.

847
00:37:48.740 --> 00:37:52.700
And we do it because we love you guys.

848
00:37:52.700 --> 00:37:54.220
So that's the most important thing.

849
00:37:54.220 --> 00:37:57.140
And obviously, the main news feed

850
00:37:57.140 --> 00:37:59.780
is in the discussion, like it normally would be,

851
00:37:59.780 --> 00:38:01.380
just like you're normally on any.

852
00:38:01.380 --> 00:38:03.440
And then you can just do a post.

853
00:38:03.440 --> 00:38:05.780
Now, I will say this, you guys.

854
00:38:05.780 --> 00:38:09.620
All of your posts do go up for approval.

855
00:38:09.620 --> 00:38:13.140
And again, give people a chance to get

856
00:38:13.140 --> 00:38:14.620
to approve all of the posts.

857
00:38:14.620 --> 00:38:17.460
Because not only are we approving your post,

858
00:38:17.460 --> 00:38:20.060
but we need to make sure that the staff person is approving

859
00:38:20.060 --> 00:38:23.540
your post, also is the time to be the first one to comment.

860
00:38:23.540 --> 00:38:27.340
This way you know, whoever your first commenter is,

861
00:38:27.340 --> 00:38:29.900
it's a coach.

862
00:38:29.900 --> 00:38:32.900
And I'm super excited because Bethany is your main coach.

863
00:38:32.900 --> 00:38:36.580
You're going to also get to know Annette, Jennifer, and Kelly

864
00:38:36.580 --> 00:38:37.380
in phase one.

865
00:38:37.380 --> 00:38:39.660
So those are the names you're going to be looking for.

866
00:38:39.660 --> 00:38:41.700
Bethany is your main teacher.

867
00:38:41.700 --> 00:38:46.660
Kelly, Jennifer, and Annette.

868
00:38:46.660 --> 00:38:51.140
And of course, Jackie is always around, bopping in and out everywhere.

869
00:38:51.140 --> 00:38:54.140
So if you think she's not reading your post, you're wrong.

870
00:38:54.140 --> 00:38:55.300
She is.

871
00:38:55.300 --> 00:38:58.980
And she will comment on them a lot.

872
00:38:58.980 --> 00:39:01.060
And she will show up for a check-in.

873
00:39:01.060 --> 00:39:02.860
She will show up for a random live.

874
00:39:02.860 --> 00:39:05.140
And of course, she leads on Saturday morning.

875
00:39:05.140 --> 00:39:10.900
So I promise you will get to see Jackie through phase one, two, and three.

876
00:39:10.900 --> 00:39:15.420
She does a lot of the teachings live in phase three.

877
00:39:15.420 --> 00:39:19.500
Once you get to phase two, she does invite you to phase three stuff

878
00:39:19.500 --> 00:39:21.740
every now and then if it overlaps with stuff

879
00:39:21.740 --> 00:39:24.180
and if she's feeling in the mood.

880
00:39:24.180 --> 00:39:27.660
And so anyway, we're super excited for you to be here.

881
00:39:27.660 --> 00:39:29.740
I don't want to take up too much more of your time

882
00:39:29.740 --> 00:39:31.460
because it's a Wednesday night.

883
00:39:31.460 --> 00:39:33.980
But do you have any other questions, concerns,

884
00:39:33.980 --> 00:39:39.180
any other thoughts you kind of wanted to cover?

885
00:39:39.180 --> 00:39:40.180
Are y'all feeling good?

886
00:39:40.180 --> 00:39:41.060
OK.

887
00:39:41.060 --> 00:39:41.860
Renee.

888
00:39:41.860 --> 00:39:44.380
Renee, what a beautiful name.

889
00:39:44.380 --> 00:39:46.620
OK, Renee, I'm going to give you a dating tip.

890
00:39:46.620 --> 00:39:47.740
Dating tip 101.

891
00:39:47.740 --> 00:39:52.340
Because y'all, I lead the check-ins on Tuesday nights.

892
00:39:52.340 --> 00:39:54.140
It is so much fun.

893
00:39:54.140 --> 00:39:56.660
You know, put your hair up in a top knot.

894
00:39:56.660 --> 00:39:58.860
And I will do weekly check-ins.

895
00:39:58.860 --> 00:40:01.340
Literally, we last like.

896
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:07.060
90 minutes because I will let every single person share their dating woes and I will give you fun facts, but

897
00:40:07.740 --> 00:40:14.780
And just so you guys get to know our personalities Jackie, if you've not already figured out total straight shooter, right? She is direct

898
00:40:14.780 --> 00:40:16.780
She's funny. She's a straight shooter

899
00:40:17.100 --> 00:40:24.220
Bethany is like the wife of a pastor. She's super sweet. Super amazing. I'm kind of somewhere in the middle

900
00:40:24.220 --> 00:40:27.980
I'm snarky. Maybe not as snarky as Jackie and I'm super nice

901
00:40:27.980 --> 00:40:34.140
Maybe not as nice as Bethany and so you're gonna get a lot of straight talk for me when you are going through the love

902
00:40:34.140 --> 00:40:36.140
Story accelerator. Okay, Renee. You're up

903
00:40:37.820 --> 00:40:40.180
Okay, love your name, you know, it's great

904
00:40:43.340 --> 00:40:50.260
But I had a question Bethany on I don't know if it was Monday I think it was Monday she had mentioned

905
00:40:51.100 --> 00:40:53.100
that some are

906
00:40:53.620 --> 00:40:57.380
personal one-on-one coaching and not and is it just

907
00:40:57.980 --> 00:41:01.820
Is that part of the program too? Or is that just kind of?

908
00:41:03.300 --> 00:41:05.680
Shot off the hip type thing

909
00:41:06.980 --> 00:41:12.120
Or as it is what it is. Did she say there was one? I mean, okay, so just so you know

910
00:41:13.980 --> 00:41:15.980
99% of what you're gonna get here is group coaching

911
00:41:16.860 --> 00:41:18.860
however, when you get to

912
00:41:19.740 --> 00:41:23.500
When you're in like and I forget how she does it in phase one

913
00:41:23.940 --> 00:41:30.700
But usually in phase one you will get to ask questions so there's always a chance to ask a question

914
00:41:31.420 --> 00:41:36.060
One to one in the check-ins whether it's phase one two or three

915
00:41:36.340 --> 00:41:41.580
You get to ask me direct questions Jackie direct questions Bethany direct questions

916
00:41:41.580 --> 00:41:48.260
If you want private one-on-one where it's just you and just Jackie Bethany or myself

917
00:41:49.300 --> 00:41:51.300
That is a separate fee

918
00:41:52.060 --> 00:41:58.580
To do that and you can email us at admin at Jackie Durman comm what I can tell you is out of like

919
00:41:58.780 --> 00:42:03.900
You know 3,000 people that have gone through this program. I think a lot of people come in saying oh my gosh

920
00:42:03.900 --> 00:42:07.340
I need one-on-one coaching. No. No, you don't understand my story

921
00:42:07.340 --> 00:42:15.460
I need one-on-one coaching and I would say 98% decide that they don't need the coaching because they realize how much they get

922
00:42:16.500 --> 00:42:18.220
coaching here

923
00:42:18.220 --> 00:42:20.420
But that is an option for you

924
00:42:20.780 --> 00:42:27.220
I'm gonna encourage you Jackie would encourage you to start the program before you decide that you need that

925
00:42:28.860 --> 00:42:33.820
So I will say you get a and I feel like you guys I love one-on-one coaching

926
00:42:33.820 --> 00:42:36.900
I love a one-on-one therapy, but I also love group therapy

927
00:42:36.900 --> 00:42:41.900
I think there's something magical about what you learn when you're among your peers and

928
00:42:42.780 --> 00:42:47.700
Especially when you see I'm gonna try to say this delicately, but it's not gonna come out delicate

929
00:42:47.980 --> 00:42:52.500
Okay, sometimes you've got some like blind spots on your own story

930
00:42:52.780 --> 00:42:59.180
but when you watch someone else like ask Beth near Jackie a question and or they say something in a post and you're like

931
00:42:59.180 --> 00:43:04.300
Oh my gosh, and then you're like, oh crap. That's what I say. Oh crap

932
00:43:04.300 --> 00:43:09.420
That's what I must look like when I say that and so there's kind of like this revealing to you. You're like, oh

933
00:43:10.180 --> 00:43:15.220
and so you get to see it play out when you're watching somebody else do it and it just kind of gives you a

934
00:43:15.220 --> 00:43:17.700
little bit more of an aha honest moment and

935
00:43:18.380 --> 00:43:23.380
The other thing is you kind of can't con the con artists, you know, so when you're all in the same room together

936
00:43:23.900 --> 00:43:28.260
You know, you kind of it kind of forces a little bit more honesty

937
00:43:28.300 --> 00:43:32.580
So it's all group coaching, but there's always time to ask

938
00:43:33.180 --> 00:43:39.980
questions individually and in phase two and in phase three Jackie has what's called ask Jackie you submit your

939
00:43:40.140 --> 00:43:44.900
Question and you can submit it anonymous if you want. It's on a Google form

940
00:43:44.900 --> 00:43:51.180
We post the form every single week and she will get on live and she'll answer all of those questions and kind of plow through

941
00:43:51.180 --> 00:43:54.420
Them and even if she doesn't get to your question

942
00:43:54.420 --> 00:44:01.900
She gets to so many of the questions you always learn something every single time that she she can't speak without learning something. So

943
00:44:03.220 --> 00:44:06.660
Hopefully that will that answers your question enough. Okay, so Renee

944
00:44:06.660 --> 00:44:09.340
So here's my here's my teaching moment for you

945
00:44:09.340 --> 00:44:13.620
And I want to see this change the next time I see you on a zoom meeting

946
00:44:13.620 --> 00:44:15.900
So you guys when you start zoom dating?

947
00:44:17.520 --> 00:44:21.680
You want to make sure you're facing the light do you see how young I look I'm facing the light

948
00:44:21.680 --> 00:44:23.680
So it's hiding all my lines and wrinkles

949
00:44:24.460 --> 00:44:27.940
And so you want to make sure you've got like something pretty in your background

950
00:44:28.060 --> 00:44:32.580
You've got a cute outfit on you know, you're you at least look good here

951
00:44:32.580 --> 00:44:37.960
No, I can have my pajamas on and y'all wouldn't even know it. So Renee's got the light behind her

952
00:44:37.960 --> 00:44:40.160
So she's looking very dark, right?

953
00:44:41.160 --> 00:44:44.240
Megan Norton you even have the light behind you

954
00:44:44.520 --> 00:44:49.440
So you see how like if I turn this computer around you see how I look really different

955
00:44:49.440 --> 00:44:53.280
I don't look as shebang, but this one like ooh shit bang

956
00:44:53.800 --> 00:44:59.520
So that's my that's my tip to you if you're ever on camera Friday Saturday Sunday

957
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.540
Face the light. Make sure your background looks nice.

958
00:45:03.540 --> 00:45:05.940
Do a fake background if you need to.

959
00:45:05.940 --> 00:45:09.440
Smile. Do not have the computer down here

960
00:45:09.440 --> 00:45:11.340
so that we're looking up your nose.

961
00:45:11.340 --> 00:45:14.180
So gross. Like, stop it. Don't be like your grandma.

962
00:45:14.180 --> 00:45:16.480
Learn how to do this. And if you have to,

963
00:45:16.480 --> 00:45:18.820
prop your computer up on something

964
00:45:18.820 --> 00:45:20.520
so that you're looking straight at it.

965
00:45:20.520 --> 00:45:22.020
Because even right now,

966
00:45:22.020 --> 00:45:25.200
like, when I know I'm being filmed for a teaching with the guys,

967
00:45:25.200 --> 00:45:28.200
I know, look it, my computer's kind of coming up a little bit

968
00:45:28.200 --> 00:45:30.300
and so you can still see my nose a little bit.

969
00:45:30.300 --> 00:45:32.040
So I know when I'm teaching with the guys,

970
00:45:32.040 --> 00:45:35.540
I have the camera right here. So now I just look good.

971
00:45:35.540 --> 00:45:37.580
And now you don't see my double chin or anything.

972
00:45:37.580 --> 00:45:42.420
So that's my free phase two dating, video dating lesson.

973
00:45:42.420 --> 00:45:43.680
There you go.

974
00:45:43.680 --> 00:45:45.520
Thank you. Thanks.

975
00:45:45.520 --> 00:45:46.780
You're welcome.

976
00:45:46.780 --> 00:45:48.820
All right, you guys, this was so much fun.

977
00:45:48.820 --> 00:45:49.980
I'm going to pray y'all out.

978
00:45:49.980 --> 00:45:52.520
If you have no more questions, I'm not going to keep you.

979
00:45:52.520 --> 00:45:53.720
Father God, thank you so much

980
00:45:53.720 --> 00:45:55.600
for each and every single woman here.

981
00:45:55.600 --> 00:45:57.260
We know that you've called them.

982
00:45:57.260 --> 00:45:59.700
We know that such as a time as this,

983
00:45:59.700 --> 00:46:01.900
we ask that you just fill them to overflowing.

984
00:46:01.900 --> 00:46:04.160
I ask for a hedge of protection around their mind,

985
00:46:04.160 --> 00:46:06.300
their body, their spirit, their finances,

986
00:46:06.300 --> 00:46:07.800
and their home and their family.

987
00:46:07.800 --> 00:46:10.380
Father God, no weapon formed against them shall prosper

988
00:46:10.380 --> 00:46:12.940
so that as they go through this heartwork,

989
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that you bring up what you want them to learn

990
00:46:15.440 --> 00:46:18.740
and to deal with just at the pace that's perfect for them.

991
00:46:18.740 --> 00:46:20.620
So Father God, we just ask that you seal them

992
00:46:20.620 --> 00:46:22.780
and protect them and guide them in this time

993
00:46:22.780 --> 00:46:26.060
and that we just give them extra dose of space

994
00:46:26.060 --> 00:46:27.800
and grace and presence.

995
00:46:27.800 --> 00:46:29.300
Father God, we just ask for the peace

996
00:46:29.300 --> 00:46:30.820
that surpasses all understanding.

997
00:46:30.820 --> 00:46:33.000
And we are so excited to partner with them

998
00:46:33.000 --> 00:46:35.740
on their love story, their heart healing story.

999
00:46:35.740 --> 00:46:38.400
And we just know that there's going to be an abundance

1000
00:46:38.400 --> 00:46:41.180
of change in their life, not just in their love story,

1001
00:46:41.180 --> 00:46:43.500
but Father God, you are going to bring victory

1002
00:46:43.500 --> 00:46:45.140
in every area of their life.

1003
00:46:45.140 --> 00:46:48.280
So we just thank you so much in the precious name of Jesus.

1004
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Y'all, it was so fun being with you tonight

1005
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and you'll see me some other time.

1006
00:46:52.320 --> 00:46:54.180
And if you see me on a Monday morning,

1007
00:46:54.180 --> 00:46:55.480
I don't look this good.

1008
00:46:55.480 --> 00:46:56.740
Anyway, bye.