WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:06.680 Hello and welcome to today's 52 Coffees podcast. 2 00:00:06.680 --> 00:00:13.160 I'm Cindy Williams, your host, and I am so thankful that you are here today because we 3 00:00:13.160 --> 00:00:15.560 have a great topic coming up. 4 00:00:15.560 --> 00:00:20.720 Every week I invite on extraordinary women who are living exceptional lives, advancing 5 00:00:20.720 --> 00:00:23.760 daily and achieving their dreams. 6 00:00:23.760 --> 00:00:31.120 The sponsor of 52 Coffees podcast is Lead My Life, which is a dynamic community coaching 7 00:00:31.120 --> 00:00:32.920 platform for women. 8 00:00:32.920 --> 00:00:36.880 If you want to check it out, go to leadmylife.com. 9 00:00:36.880 --> 00:00:46.160 And I am so excited to invite today's guest, Brenda Byers, here to discuss wealth of money 10 00:00:46.160 --> 00:00:50.040 and taking it from that God faith perspective. 11 00:00:50.040 --> 00:00:57.160 She is the owner of Prosper in All Things, and I found out she loves salsa dancing, has 12 00:00:57.160 --> 00:00:58.720 three kids. 13 00:00:58.720 --> 00:01:02.800 She has had multiple, you know, seven figure successful businesses. 14 00:01:02.800 --> 00:01:05.440 You are the coach to coaches. 15 00:01:05.440 --> 00:01:10.600 And I'm just so honored just to be able to talk with you and just to ask questions. 16 00:01:10.600 --> 00:01:11.600 So welcome, Brenda. 17 00:01:11.600 --> 00:01:12.600 Thank you, Cindy. 18 00:01:12.600 --> 00:01:15.480 I'm honored to be here. 19 00:01:15.480 --> 00:01:18.160 And yes, I love all of those subjects. 20 00:01:18.160 --> 00:01:19.560 I love salsa dancing. 21 00:01:20.080 --> 00:01:21.080 I love business. 22 00:01:21.080 --> 00:01:22.080 I love God. 23 00:01:22.080 --> 00:01:23.080 Glad to be here with you. 24 00:01:23.080 --> 00:01:24.080 Yeah. 25 00:01:24.080 --> 00:01:25.080 That's a great integration. 26 00:01:25.080 --> 00:01:26.080 God, salsa, and business. 27 00:01:26.080 --> 00:01:37.600 So I want to know, I want you to tell us about your journey. 28 00:01:37.600 --> 00:01:43.280 I know you've been successful and I kind of read a little bit months ago on LinkedIn, 29 00:01:43.280 --> 00:01:48.080 you know, just how you kind of started off people saying, no, you can't do this. 30 00:01:48.080 --> 00:01:49.080 No, you can't do that. 31 00:01:49.600 --> 00:01:50.600 And you said, well, how can I? 32 00:01:50.600 --> 00:01:51.600 And you launched out. 33 00:01:51.600 --> 00:01:57.720 So I want to hear your story, just the journey to where you are today. 34 00:01:57.720 --> 00:01:58.720 Thank you. 35 00:01:58.720 --> 00:01:59.720 Well, it's been a long journey. 36 00:01:59.720 --> 00:02:03.360 I won't bore you with the length of it. 37 00:02:03.360 --> 00:02:04.360 I will shorten it. 38 00:02:04.360 --> 00:02:11.039 I will say that around 2004, I've loved God since I was 17 years old. 39 00:02:11.039 --> 00:02:12.040 God found me. 40 00:02:12.040 --> 00:02:18.400 I came from a very traumatic domestic violence, alcohol, drugs, all kinds of childhood. 41 00:02:18.720 --> 00:02:25.760 So God really scooped me up and Jesus has been my source in everything. 42 00:02:25.760 --> 00:02:35.240 2004, I had an encounter with the Holy Spirit and I had no idea what was happening. 43 00:02:35.240 --> 00:02:37.600 And it was not something I was taught. 44 00:02:37.600 --> 00:02:39.360 It was something God was doing. 45 00:02:39.360 --> 00:02:40.800 I'll never forget. 46 00:02:40.800 --> 00:02:46.040 I went to, at that time I was founder of a nutritional network marketing company, a multi 47 00:02:46.040 --> 00:02:48.680 seven figure international company. 48 00:02:48.680 --> 00:02:54.120 And I was going to be doing a teaching, a talk in the Bay Area. 49 00:02:54.120 --> 00:03:01.200 And I went on the weekend to prepare for that, went to sit down at my laptop in my office. 50 00:03:01.200 --> 00:03:05.160 And I felt the Holy Spirit say, no, get your Bible down. 51 00:03:05.160 --> 00:03:06.920 We're not doing this. 52 00:03:06.920 --> 00:03:12.760 And he had me open to first Corinthians chapters 12 through 14. 53 00:03:12.760 --> 00:03:15.280 And I remember reading it. 54 00:03:15.280 --> 00:03:22.480 And I remember saying, that's not what I was taught because I was not taught that in church. 55 00:03:22.480 --> 00:03:25.640 And I said that, but that's not what I was taught. 56 00:03:25.640 --> 00:03:28.320 And the Holy Spirit said, read it again. 57 00:03:28.320 --> 00:03:31.600 I read it twice, but that's not what it was taught. 58 00:03:31.600 --> 00:03:32.600 Read it again. 59 00:03:32.600 --> 00:03:33.600 Third time. 60 00:03:33.600 --> 00:03:36.680 I said, okay, God, I want it. 61 00:03:36.680 --> 00:03:45.520 And that launched a wild season of miracles as it relates to the Holy Spirit in business. 62 00:03:45.520 --> 00:03:48.040 And it became a wild ride. 63 00:03:48.040 --> 00:03:50.880 I did not understand marketplace ministry. 64 00:03:50.880 --> 00:03:57.280 I didn't understand what was happening, but I began to see so many miracles in the marketplace 65 00:03:57.280 --> 00:04:00.080 and I could tell stories and stories. 66 00:04:00.080 --> 00:04:08.120 That's where the whole idea of integrating faith and business, you know, a person that 67 00:04:08.120 --> 00:04:12.880 I met, Glenn White shared a concept, many people God started bringing into my life to 68 00:04:12.880 --> 00:04:15.960 raise me up to having an understanding. 69 00:04:15.960 --> 00:04:19.920 And he calls it business street, business and ministry. 70 00:04:19.920 --> 00:04:25.360 And I don't want to take ownership for that, but I will tell you that that's where I come 71 00:04:25.360 --> 00:04:26.360 from. 72 00:04:26.360 --> 00:04:33.160 I come from, instead of having our life compartmentalized and, you know, that faith is relegated to 73 00:04:33.160 --> 00:04:39.000 Sunday mornings or Wednesday nights and that, you know, we're one person nine to five and 74 00:04:39.000 --> 00:04:43.840 we're another, you know, at night and another on the weekends, et cetera. 75 00:04:43.840 --> 00:04:50.360 God really began to teach me about decompartmentalize and instead of living a fragmented life, bringing 76 00:04:50.360 --> 00:04:52.280 it all together. 77 00:04:52.280 --> 00:04:56.440 And it was then that he began to teach me in the scriptures. 78 00:04:56.440 --> 00:05:00.040 And so I began to understand, for example. 79 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:08.160 the word work in the Bible is the same Greek word as serve and 80 00:05:08.200 --> 00:05:13.120 worship. Right. And so I began to understand that God is 81 00:05:13.120 --> 00:05:19.400 infragmented, and that our life is meant to be one. And so when 82 00:05:19.400 --> 00:05:22.960 I started 12 years ago, in 2012, when I started prosper in all 83 00:05:22.960 --> 00:05:27.920 things, I had gone through a pretty rough divorce and things 84 00:05:27.920 --> 00:05:32.480 happening. And I knew I wanted to minister to women. And at 85 00:05:32.480 --> 00:05:37.280 that point, God had really taught me about this 86 00:05:37.320 --> 00:05:40.360 integration about prospering about third, he gave me the 87 00:05:40.360 --> 00:05:43.360 name, he saved the website for me, I didn't pay extra. 88 00:05:45.560 --> 00:05:48.360 It's like, I knew what I was supposed to be doing. And that 89 00:05:48.360 --> 00:05:53.800 comes from third john to, of course. And so that's a summary 90 00:05:54.080 --> 00:05:58.640 of my passion and how I came to be here. That has, you know, 91 00:05:58.640 --> 00:06:01.560 taken a lot of directions. I have a coach certification 92 00:06:01.560 --> 00:06:05.440 program, prosper TV, the prosper leader membership, been a coach 93 00:06:05.440 --> 00:06:09.320 to coaches. So it's taken a lot of directions. It's been a fun 94 00:06:09.320 --> 00:06:12.720 journey. But it's all about integrating faith. 95 00:06:12.920 --> 00:06:16.200 Yeah, yeah. You know, what I love that story about that story 96 00:06:16.200 --> 00:06:21.800 first, is that when we take that first step, and it can be just a 97 00:06:21.800 --> 00:06:25.760 small step, but it's that first little step of faith, and just 98 00:06:25.760 --> 00:06:30.440 the, the doors just start to open up, maybe not all at once. 99 00:06:31.480 --> 00:06:35.360 But as God has designed it, they open up. And I think we were 100 00:06:35.360 --> 00:06:39.560 supposed to meet because that is exactly I see it as there's 101 00:06:39.560 --> 00:06:44.760 work, there's faith in life, you know, like three squares. And 102 00:06:44.760 --> 00:06:47.440 you go and you do your nine to five, and maybe you're dreaming 103 00:06:47.440 --> 00:06:52.160 about your five to nine. But but you put work, work there, and 104 00:06:52.160 --> 00:06:55.240 you go to church on Sunday, and you fill out the bulletin, you 105 00:06:55.240 --> 00:06:57.680 sing the songs, you drink the coffee, have the donut, there 106 00:06:57.680 --> 00:07:00.920 you go, shove the bulletin in your Bible, and that's it until 107 00:07:00.920 --> 00:07:06.360 next Sunday. Yeah. But I love that that integration, you know, 108 00:07:06.360 --> 00:07:11.880 in we feel so unfulfilled and disconnected in our lives, 109 00:07:11.880 --> 00:07:16.640 because we forget about the integration. Yeah. So yeah, I 110 00:07:16.640 --> 00:07:19.880 mean, when you really think about who God says we are, we're 111 00:07:19.880 --> 00:07:23.760 the tools of the Holy Spirit. I mean, we're, we're literally the 112 00:07:23.760 --> 00:07:27.760 container of God, right? There's a there's a verse in Scripture 113 00:07:27.760 --> 00:07:32.280 about Gideon, where the Holy Spirit says that the Holy 114 00:07:32.280 --> 00:07:36.360 Spirit put Gideon on like a glove, like, literally, we're 115 00:07:36.360 --> 00:07:40.880 the body, but it's the Holy Spirit. And in him, we live and 116 00:07:40.880 --> 00:07:44.080 move and have our being we have the mind of Christ, we have the 117 00:07:44.080 --> 00:07:48.600 power, we have authority, we have dominion. And so Jesus did 118 00:07:48.600 --> 00:07:52.000 most of his miracles in the marketplace, not in the church. 119 00:07:52.280 --> 00:07:57.720 And so I have, I've just experienced the beauty of that I 120 00:07:57.720 --> 00:08:02.640 saw my entire staff transform in the previous company and and of 121 00:08:02.640 --> 00:08:07.600 course, in prosper, and to just see what can happen when we 122 00:08:07.600 --> 00:08:11.720 tear down the fragmentation, because that fragmentation also 123 00:08:11.720 --> 00:08:15.720 Cindy, it exhausts us, okay, we're living those kind of 124 00:08:15.720 --> 00:08:21.200 multiplied lives. We're usually in striving, we are in 125 00:08:21.200 --> 00:08:26.440 stressing, we are in sacrificing, we're taught, you 126 00:08:26.440 --> 00:08:30.160 know, sacrifice your health to get wealth, broken model, then 127 00:08:30.160 --> 00:08:33.120 we end up sacrificing our wealth to get our health back, right. 128 00:08:33.440 --> 00:08:38.320 And so when we bring all of this together, and it's all under the 129 00:08:38.320 --> 00:08:42.799 lordship of Jesus, and the Holy Spirit is fueling everything, 130 00:08:42.919 --> 00:08:48.200 miracles break out, I have one room in that office, when this 131 00:08:48.200 --> 00:08:51.800 first started, that was a small conference room, it became known 132 00:08:51.800 --> 00:08:55.400 as the healing room, because people would come to pick up 133 00:08:55.400 --> 00:08:57.720 products, and they'd ask for prayer, and they'd come in there 134 00:08:57.840 --> 00:09:01.320 and they'd be healed. And one day, I looked out the window, 135 00:09:01.320 --> 00:09:04.600 and there was a tree and I had to go outside and look, it was 136 00:09:04.600 --> 00:09:07.640 outside the window of this healing room. And you know, 137 00:09:07.640 --> 00:09:11.680 scripture says, all of nature is groaning, waiting for us, 138 00:09:11.720 --> 00:09:15.200 right, to the sons and daughters of God to be revealed to step 139 00:09:15.200 --> 00:09:18.360 into who he made us to be, right. So I go out there to 140 00:09:18.360 --> 00:09:22.760 look, and Cindy, there was blossoms, not up on the 141 00:09:22.760 --> 00:09:26.600 branches. Yes, it was there like a normal tree. There was 142 00:09:26.600 --> 00:09:30.680 blossoms all the way down the trunk, there was blossoms on the 143 00:09:30.680 --> 00:09:34.520 roots. I have never seen such a thing. I walked the whole 144 00:09:34.520 --> 00:09:37.720 business park to see if these same trees that are everywhere, 145 00:09:37.760 --> 00:09:42.600 nowhere else. It was like the very nature was celebrating. And 146 00:09:42.600 --> 00:09:46.720 I believe that this is the season that God is calling us to 147 00:09:46.760 --> 00:09:51.240 step out of that fragment and step into the fullness. 148 00:09:51.400 --> 00:09:55.600 Yeah, you know, it reminds me that that vision of the tree, 149 00:09:56.080 --> 00:09:59.760 when I stepped out after my I had a 10 year 150 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:04.160 out of, you know, really just closing my Bible and just, 151 00:10:04.160 --> 00:10:06.600 we were going through a very traumatic family event 152 00:10:06.600 --> 00:10:08.760 and went through depression and all of that. 153 00:10:08.760 --> 00:10:13.280 And I finally opened my Bible up after 10 years 154 00:10:13.280 --> 00:10:15.560 and God took me to Psalm 52, eight 155 00:10:15.560 --> 00:10:17.560 and it's just become my cornerstone. 156 00:10:17.560 --> 00:10:20.200 And it says, but I am like an olive tree 157 00:10:20.200 --> 00:10:23.940 flourishing in the house of my God. 158 00:10:23.940 --> 00:10:26.100 I will, you know, praise him forever and ever. 159 00:10:26.100 --> 00:10:29.200 And I just, I took that word flourish 160 00:10:29.200 --> 00:10:32.020 and this is what I want to talk to you about next. 161 00:10:32.020 --> 00:10:35.040 I gave each letter of the word flourish 162 00:10:36.460 --> 00:10:37.900 an affirmation really. 163 00:10:37.900 --> 00:10:41.500 So, you know, free or F was for free to live a large life 164 00:10:41.500 --> 00:10:45.100 and L is live out, live out your love out loud. 165 00:10:45.100 --> 00:10:46.500 And, you know, all of it, 166 00:10:46.500 --> 00:10:50.820 but the first three letters was flow, F-L-O, right? 167 00:10:50.820 --> 00:10:54.140 And so I want you to talk about flow 168 00:10:54.140 --> 00:10:56.540 because I read that and I'm like, that is so- 169 00:10:56.540 --> 00:10:59.080 It's pretty magical that you're saying that. 170 00:10:59.080 --> 00:11:02.920 I don't know if you know or not, but I am doing a, 171 00:11:02.920 --> 00:11:05.720 if you're listening to this in real time, 172 00:11:05.720 --> 00:11:10.320 I am doing a series the last week of June 173 00:11:10.320 --> 00:11:13.160 and it's about everything we're talking about. 174 00:11:13.160 --> 00:11:17.420 It is how do you build a prosperous business 175 00:11:17.420 --> 00:11:20.920 in this market that without striving, 176 00:11:20.920 --> 00:11:22.720 without stressing, without sacrificing, 177 00:11:22.720 --> 00:11:25.640 well, day three is about flow. 178 00:11:25.660 --> 00:11:27.540 So like the whole day is dedicated. 179 00:11:27.540 --> 00:11:31.180 So I love that you said that and everything in life, 180 00:11:31.180 --> 00:11:34.460 the way that God has designed it, it's all flow, okay? 181 00:11:34.460 --> 00:11:36.660 No matter how you look at it, we're talking trees. 182 00:11:36.660 --> 00:11:40.860 If I look outside, the trees breathe out oxygen. 183 00:11:40.860 --> 00:11:43.500 I breathe in, I breathe out the carbon. 184 00:11:43.500 --> 00:11:47.340 There's this flow, the rain goes up and it comes down. 185 00:11:47.340 --> 00:11:48.500 So think about flow. 186 00:11:48.500 --> 00:11:53.060 We measure our health by flow, oxygen flow, blood flow. 187 00:11:53.060 --> 00:11:56.160 We measure our financial health by flow. 188 00:11:56.160 --> 00:12:00.200 The very name of our money, currency, means flow. 189 00:12:00.200 --> 00:12:04.040 The word affluent means flow, right? 190 00:12:04.040 --> 00:12:08.440 And so scripture says that rivers of living water 191 00:12:08.440 --> 00:12:11.200 will flow out of our belly. 192 00:12:11.200 --> 00:12:15.960 And so understanding flow, I'm actually gonna teach you 193 00:12:15.960 --> 00:12:18.640 because most people don't understand it, 194 00:12:18.640 --> 00:12:20.360 especially biblically, 195 00:12:20.360 --> 00:12:23.580 and most people are constricting the flow. 196 00:12:23.580 --> 00:12:26.700 They're coagulated, they're constipated. 197 00:12:26.700 --> 00:12:29.660 Right now we're in a recession, supposedly. 198 00:12:29.660 --> 00:12:30.500 What is that? 199 00:12:30.500 --> 00:12:34.300 That's a constipation of coagulation, right? 200 00:12:34.300 --> 00:12:37.060 And so, which is blocking the flow. 201 00:12:37.060 --> 00:12:41.820 And so learning, how do you biblically activate the flow? 202 00:12:41.820 --> 00:12:43.540 How do you live in the flow? 203 00:12:43.540 --> 00:12:44.940 The Holy Spirit is flow. 204 00:12:44.940 --> 00:12:47.340 God is a God of overflow. 205 00:12:47.340 --> 00:12:49.300 Like there's so much around flow 206 00:12:49.300 --> 00:12:51.440 and flow is about life. 207 00:12:51.440 --> 00:12:54.320 Flow is absolutely about life. 208 00:12:54.320 --> 00:12:57.240 Yeah, isn't it amazing how God has created things, 209 00:12:57.240 --> 00:12:59.400 all the things that you just described, 210 00:12:59.400 --> 00:13:02.680 to move forward, to flow forward. 211 00:13:02.680 --> 00:13:07.420 And it's only us as humans, as sinful human beings, 212 00:13:07.420 --> 00:13:11.000 who step back, who say, you know, I'm gonna stop. 213 00:13:11.000 --> 00:13:12.400 I'm not gonna move forward in life. 214 00:13:12.400 --> 00:13:15.640 You know, we regress back, but God's calling us 215 00:13:15.640 --> 00:13:18.280 to move forward, to move into that flow. 216 00:13:18.280 --> 00:13:19.100 Yeah. 217 00:13:19.860 --> 00:13:21.880 So look at what happens when flow stops. 218 00:13:21.880 --> 00:13:24.200 I've been to Israel, okay? 219 00:13:24.200 --> 00:13:25.760 And you think about the Jordan River. 220 00:13:25.760 --> 00:13:28.800 I've been in the Sea of Galilee. 221 00:13:28.800 --> 00:13:30.040 It's massive. 222 00:13:30.040 --> 00:13:32.120 It's like an ocean, okay? 223 00:13:32.120 --> 00:13:34.320 And then you've got the Jordan River 224 00:13:34.320 --> 00:13:37.040 and then it ends up in the Dead Sea, right? 225 00:13:37.040 --> 00:13:37.880 There's no flow. 226 00:13:37.880 --> 00:13:39.080 There's an inlet. 227 00:13:39.080 --> 00:13:40.680 There's no outlet. 228 00:13:40.680 --> 00:13:43.200 Nothing to live in the Dead Sea, you see? 229 00:13:43.200 --> 00:13:47.380 So when we stop having flow, life stops. 230 00:13:47.400 --> 00:13:50.680 Yeah, and that's why we feel stuck and we feel stagnant 231 00:13:50.680 --> 00:13:53.360 and, you know, miserable, really. 232 00:13:53.360 --> 00:13:54.200 Yeah. 233 00:13:54.200 --> 00:13:56.320 You just feel miserable, like you can't breathe. 234 00:13:56.320 --> 00:13:57.320 Yeah. 235 00:13:57.320 --> 00:14:00.520 How do you, you work with women, you know, 236 00:14:00.520 --> 00:14:04.680 entrepreneurs or coaches, you know, wanting to launch out. 237 00:14:04.680 --> 00:14:09.720 How do you help them to integrate their faith 238 00:14:09.720 --> 00:14:11.440 into what they do? 239 00:14:11.440 --> 00:14:16.440 I mean, how do you get that flowing in their life? 240 00:14:16.900 --> 00:14:19.500 That's a really great question. 241 00:14:19.500 --> 00:14:21.620 You know, I am a coach to coaches 242 00:14:21.620 --> 00:14:23.900 and to high-level entrepreneurs. 243 00:14:23.900 --> 00:14:28.900 And the equation that I use for success 244 00:14:28.940 --> 00:14:33.940 is mindset plus skillset plus right action equals success. 245 00:14:34.700 --> 00:14:38.340 So in mindset, scripture says that we're transformed 246 00:14:38.340 --> 00:14:40.140 by the renewing of our mind. 247 00:14:40.140 --> 00:14:44.220 So faith begins in the changing of our thoughts, 248 00:14:44.240 --> 00:14:47.120 that our thoughts begin to line up with God's thought, 249 00:14:47.120 --> 00:14:50.860 how God sees us, how God sees money, how God sees business. 250 00:14:50.860 --> 00:14:53.120 So there's this renewing of the mind 251 00:14:53.120 --> 00:14:55.400 that needs to happen, right? 252 00:14:55.400 --> 00:14:57.520 And then there's a skillset. 253 00:14:57.520 --> 00:15:00.080 And so there's a skillset of business. 254 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:03.280 And how do you truly prosper in this market? 255 00:15:03.280 --> 00:15:05.840 There's also the skill set of how 256 00:15:05.840 --> 00:15:10.400 do you integrate your faith into everything that you do? 257 00:15:10.400 --> 00:15:14.680 I think I started in God just moved through me, 258 00:15:14.680 --> 00:15:17.360 and it was pure boldness and craziness maybe, 259 00:15:17.360 --> 00:15:21.120 but I'm really grateful it's brought me to where I am. 260 00:15:21.120 --> 00:15:23.560 When I launched Prosper in All Things, 261 00:15:23.560 --> 00:15:25.640 I launched with a speaking model because I'd 262 00:15:25.640 --> 00:15:29.160 been speaking on large stages for 30 years. 263 00:15:29.160 --> 00:15:33.240 And so I did something that was unheard of in 2012. 264 00:15:33.240 --> 00:15:35.960 I launched three full-day events. 265 00:15:35.960 --> 00:15:40.480 The first was called God, Money, and Me. 266 00:15:40.480 --> 00:15:43.560 Now, you didn't even put those three words together, right? 267 00:15:43.560 --> 00:15:44.060 No. 268 00:15:44.060 --> 00:15:47.120 I'm telling you, the Christians were mad at me 269 00:15:47.120 --> 00:15:49.640 putting God in the money, and the non-Christians 270 00:15:49.640 --> 00:15:51.320 were mad at me putting God in there. 271 00:15:51.320 --> 00:15:52.720 Like, everybody was all in that. 272 00:15:52.720 --> 00:15:56.400 The fact that I was charging $597 for this one-day event, 273 00:15:56.760 --> 00:15:59.440 it was so interesting. 274 00:15:59.440 --> 00:16:01.640 But I launched with God, Money, and Me, 275 00:16:01.640 --> 00:16:03.760 and God just had this ordered. 276 00:16:03.760 --> 00:16:06.440 And then the second one was God, Health, and Me, 277 00:16:06.440 --> 00:16:09.120 and the third one was God, Love, and Me. 278 00:16:09.120 --> 00:16:10.720 And it was where God was beginning 279 00:16:10.720 --> 00:16:13.520 to teach me about prospering in all things 280 00:16:13.520 --> 00:16:16.520 and integrating our faith into every aspect 281 00:16:16.520 --> 00:16:20.240 because our faith has a huge aspect on our emotions, 282 00:16:20.240 --> 00:16:24.840 huge aspects on our health, huge aspect on our finances. 283 00:16:24.960 --> 00:16:28.000 And so there is a renewing of the mind. 284 00:16:28.000 --> 00:16:29.880 There's a skill set. 285 00:16:29.880 --> 00:16:31.520 And I did something interesting 286 00:16:31.520 --> 00:16:36.520 that God just gave me the words, but I asked permission. 287 00:16:36.520 --> 00:16:39.560 I started doing different masterclasses and things, 288 00:16:39.560 --> 00:16:42.120 and I said, I'm going to ask your permission. 289 00:16:42.120 --> 00:16:44.080 They knew I'd made multi-seven figures. 290 00:16:44.080 --> 00:16:45.680 They knew I understood business. 291 00:16:45.680 --> 00:16:49.120 And I said, I want to give you the best. 292 00:16:49.120 --> 00:16:51.480 I want to share what has worked for me, 293 00:16:51.480 --> 00:16:53.540 what can work for you. 294 00:16:53.540 --> 00:16:57.740 Can I have permission to authentically show up 295 00:16:57.740 --> 00:17:00.140 and share what has worked for me? 296 00:17:00.140 --> 00:17:02.660 Even if a majority of that comes from something 297 00:17:02.660 --> 00:17:06.780 you don't read from the Bible, if I use the word God, 298 00:17:06.780 --> 00:17:07.940 can I have permission, 299 00:17:07.940 --> 00:17:10.300 just like I'd like to honor you and give you permission, 300 00:17:10.300 --> 00:17:11.859 can we give each other permission 301 00:17:11.859 --> 00:17:14.339 to show up fully as ourselves? 302 00:17:14.339 --> 00:17:15.900 Nobody said no. 303 00:17:15.900 --> 00:17:19.260 And from that day on, I could teach. 304 00:17:19.260 --> 00:17:21.839 And there's so much power in the word 305 00:17:21.839 --> 00:17:24.160 that I could integrate the word. 306 00:17:24.160 --> 00:17:26.640 And the Bible has so much to say about money, 307 00:17:26.640 --> 00:17:30.920 about business, about health, about everything, right? 308 00:17:30.920 --> 00:17:33.960 And so it opened those doors. 309 00:17:33.960 --> 00:17:36.080 And so from that place, 310 00:17:36.080 --> 00:17:39.740 everything I do is faith integrated, everything. 311 00:17:41.600 --> 00:17:43.800 That's so beautiful, what you just described. 312 00:17:43.800 --> 00:17:44.680 I love that. 313 00:17:44.680 --> 00:17:45.600 It's giving me chills. 314 00:17:45.600 --> 00:17:50.600 I had this vision, I'm gonna say maybe a month or so ago 315 00:17:50.880 --> 00:17:55.640 of that God doesn't wanna be my seasoning. 316 00:17:55.640 --> 00:18:00.520 He doesn't want me to just season it out there in the world 317 00:18:00.520 --> 00:18:03.280 because I am a woman of faith. 318 00:18:03.280 --> 00:18:06.200 And do I just throw it out there just enough 319 00:18:06.200 --> 00:18:07.560 where I can say God, 320 00:18:07.560 --> 00:18:10.440 so people will know I'm a woman of faith, 321 00:18:10.440 --> 00:18:14.040 but it won't be too much where it's not palatable anymore. 322 00:18:14.040 --> 00:18:17.220 And God said, no, I am your main course. 323 00:18:17.220 --> 00:18:19.960 I want you to digest and consume me. 324 00:18:20.000 --> 00:18:22.200 And it's down to your fingertips. 325 00:18:22.200 --> 00:18:26.840 And it is to go out into everything that you do, 326 00:18:26.840 --> 00:18:28.440 do not hold back. 327 00:18:28.440 --> 00:18:29.600 I love it. 328 00:18:29.600 --> 00:18:33.320 And it seemed like I was flat before the Lord 329 00:18:33.320 --> 00:18:35.720 and he really moved things. 330 00:18:35.720 --> 00:18:38.800 There were things that I had been really working on 331 00:18:38.800 --> 00:18:40.080 that weren't coming together 332 00:18:40.080 --> 00:18:41.460 and they just started coming together. 333 00:18:41.460 --> 00:18:46.120 And I think it's that obedience that we need to have 334 00:18:46.120 --> 00:18:48.680 to say, you know what, it's yours. 335 00:18:48.680 --> 00:18:50.480 And then I need to tell you something. 336 00:18:50.480 --> 00:18:53.200 I want to ask your opinion on this. 337 00:18:53.200 --> 00:18:55.160 My husband and I, we have a home church. 338 00:18:55.160 --> 00:18:57.640 We just started like a month ago. 339 00:18:57.640 --> 00:19:00.840 And we were teaching on a Psalm 41 through three, 340 00:19:00.840 --> 00:19:03.200 you know, where he pulls us out of the miry pit 341 00:19:03.200 --> 00:19:05.320 and he sets our feet upon the rock 342 00:19:05.320 --> 00:19:08.360 and he gives us a firm place to stand, yeah. 343 00:19:08.360 --> 00:19:12.080 And in the Young's literal, 344 00:19:12.080 --> 00:19:14.760 where it says he gives us a firm place to stand, 345 00:19:14.760 --> 00:19:19.680 it says he is establishing our steps. 346 00:19:19.680 --> 00:19:21.280 It's a present participle. 347 00:19:21.280 --> 00:19:22.680 It's ongoing. 348 00:19:22.680 --> 00:19:26.000 He's always working to establish our steps. 349 00:19:26.000 --> 00:19:29.920 And so it took me to Proverbs 16, three, 350 00:19:29.920 --> 00:19:30.760 you know where it says, 351 00:19:30.760 --> 00:19:32.000 commit your way to the Lord. 352 00:19:32.000 --> 00:19:34.160 And I just learned something just a couple of days ago. 353 00:19:34.160 --> 00:19:35.160 So I want to share this with you. 354 00:19:35.160 --> 00:19:36.680 You probably already know this, 355 00:19:36.680 --> 00:19:40.720 but commit in the Hebrew means role. 356 00:19:40.720 --> 00:19:42.920 It means release. 357 00:19:42.920 --> 00:19:43.920 Isn't that beautiful? 358 00:19:43.960 --> 00:19:45.960 So when we commit our way to the Lord, 359 00:19:45.960 --> 00:19:48.120 we're rolling it over to him. 360 00:19:48.120 --> 00:19:49.920 We're releasing it to him 361 00:19:49.920 --> 00:19:52.360 so that he can establish our plans. 362 00:19:52.360 --> 00:19:53.600 So speak on that. 363 00:19:53.600 --> 00:19:55.760 I want to hear your take. 364 00:19:55.760 --> 00:19:57.440 I think you covered it. 365 00:19:57.440 --> 00:19:58.680 I think that is so beautiful. 366 00:19:58.680 --> 00:20:00.280 That was the immediate verse. 367 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:02.460 that came and the only other verse that comes 368 00:20:02.460 --> 00:20:04.320 is cast your cares on him, right? 369 00:20:04.320 --> 00:20:07.520 It is that constant of just, 370 00:20:07.520 --> 00:20:11.320 and there's, I have a philosophy on this, 371 00:20:11.320 --> 00:20:13.400 a biblical philosophy, I think, 372 00:20:13.400 --> 00:20:16.960 that there's things that God does, 373 00:20:16.960 --> 00:20:19.040 and only God, and can do. 374 00:20:19.040 --> 00:20:21.240 There's things that God can't do, believe it or not, 375 00:20:21.240 --> 00:20:23.160 that only we can do, okay? 376 00:20:23.160 --> 00:20:27.720 And I think about the freeing of the Hebrews from Egypt. 377 00:20:28.280 --> 00:20:29.600 Right? 378 00:20:29.600 --> 00:20:33.660 So he could, in a miracle, he could free them. 379 00:20:35.760 --> 00:20:38.840 He couldn't renew their mind, they had to do that. 380 00:20:38.840 --> 00:20:40.200 You see? 381 00:20:40.200 --> 00:20:43.080 So you can see this, there is this, 382 00:20:43.080 --> 00:20:44.840 the Bible's filled with cos, 383 00:20:44.840 --> 00:20:47.680 co-laboring, co-heirs, you know? 384 00:20:47.680 --> 00:20:51.480 And so there is this divine partnership. 385 00:20:51.480 --> 00:20:54.080 I do a whole series, and I'm doing one day 386 00:20:54.080 --> 00:20:57.080 in my upcoming series on partnering with God, 387 00:20:57.080 --> 00:21:00.120 because there's these things that God will do, 388 00:21:00.120 --> 00:21:01.440 there's things he won't. 389 00:21:01.440 --> 00:21:04.180 You look at, there was places that Jesus went, 390 00:21:04.180 --> 00:21:07.680 and this is Jesus that says he couldn't do any miracles 391 00:21:07.680 --> 00:21:11.000 because there wasn't faith there, right? 392 00:21:11.000 --> 00:21:15.200 So there's things that we're called to do, 393 00:21:15.200 --> 00:21:17.520 and part of that is renewing our mind, 394 00:21:17.520 --> 00:21:20.560 getting the word, surrendering, like you're talking about, 395 00:21:20.560 --> 00:21:23.960 you know, those type of things that we're called to do, 396 00:21:23.960 --> 00:21:27.440 and then that opens the door for God to move. 397 00:21:27.440 --> 00:21:29.440 I'm not, you know, I'm not saying there isn't a miracle 398 00:21:29.440 --> 00:21:31.440 where God just zaps you and does something, 399 00:21:31.440 --> 00:21:36.440 but the normal way that he works is it's this partnership. 400 00:21:36.760 --> 00:21:39.440 Yeah, we have to take the action 401 00:21:39.440 --> 00:21:42.040 through our obedience, right? 402 00:21:42.040 --> 00:21:45.000 He's gonna work through us, but there's that part 403 00:21:45.000 --> 00:21:47.560 where we have to step out in obedience. 404 00:21:47.560 --> 00:21:50.840 I often, I think it's used as an excuse sometimes, 405 00:21:50.840 --> 00:21:52.680 there's too many people that say, 406 00:21:52.760 --> 00:21:55.080 well, I'm just waiting on God, 407 00:21:55.080 --> 00:21:58.440 and even that is an active waiting when you study. 408 00:21:58.440 --> 00:22:00.760 I love that you said that. 409 00:22:00.760 --> 00:22:03.360 I always say waiting is a verb, it's a verb. 410 00:22:03.360 --> 00:22:08.360 Yeah, and I often say, and God's waiting on you. 411 00:22:08.560 --> 00:22:09.760 That's the truth. 412 00:22:09.760 --> 00:22:10.800 You know, I always say, 413 00:22:10.800 --> 00:22:13.600 even like people wanting to build a business, you know, 414 00:22:13.600 --> 00:22:15.680 they're not getting out there and talking 415 00:22:15.680 --> 00:22:16.560 and meeting people. 416 00:22:16.560 --> 00:22:18.680 I'm like, your prospect's not gonna knock on your door 417 00:22:18.680 --> 00:22:20.120 and go knock on your back bedroom door 418 00:22:20.120 --> 00:22:22.000 and come in and say, please, I want your business. 419 00:22:22.000 --> 00:22:23.560 I wanna be a business partner. 420 00:22:23.560 --> 00:22:26.400 You know, that's why I say it's mindset, 421 00:22:26.400 --> 00:22:29.480 skillset, action equals results. 422 00:22:29.480 --> 00:22:32.920 And so God is calling us, but this is a season, 423 00:22:32.920 --> 00:22:37.680 and this is a season that the doors are open very, very wide. 424 00:22:37.680 --> 00:22:40.800 I believe we're going into, in some ways, 425 00:22:40.800 --> 00:22:42.280 one of the darkest seasons, 426 00:22:42.280 --> 00:22:45.480 and God has been showing me Philippians 2, 427 00:22:45.480 --> 00:22:48.560 that we will shine like bright stars 428 00:22:48.560 --> 00:22:50.560 against that dark contrast, 429 00:22:50.560 --> 00:22:55.360 will only enter us into one of the greatest seasons, 430 00:22:55.360 --> 00:22:57.840 and us meaning, I'm not anybody 431 00:22:57.840 --> 00:23:00.520 that has surrendered to the Lord in this season. 432 00:23:00.520 --> 00:23:04.640 I believe the doors have really opened 433 00:23:04.640 --> 00:23:08.560 for a very supernatural, miraculous season. 434 00:23:08.560 --> 00:23:12.400 There's a new, there's a new almost coming out 435 00:23:12.400 --> 00:23:14.160 of people sharing their faith, 436 00:23:14.160 --> 00:23:17.440 of making a demand on their faith. 437 00:23:17.440 --> 00:23:19.720 That's another element I would talk about. 438 00:23:19.720 --> 00:23:23.120 I think about the woman with the issue of blood. 439 00:23:23.120 --> 00:23:24.760 Think about all that she'd been, 440 00:23:24.760 --> 00:23:26.120 she tried all the doctors, 441 00:23:26.120 --> 00:23:28.960 she exhausted all her resources. 442 00:23:28.960 --> 00:23:31.520 She was unclean, she was despised, 443 00:23:31.520 --> 00:23:33.440 she couldn't be seen in public, 444 00:23:33.440 --> 00:23:37.240 but she changed her mind and she changed her mouth. 445 00:23:37.240 --> 00:23:40.520 And I teach the biblical mind, heart, mouth connection. 446 00:23:40.520 --> 00:23:42.600 She changed her words, 447 00:23:42.600 --> 00:23:44.440 and she kept on repeating to herself, 448 00:23:44.440 --> 00:23:48.640 if I can only touch the hem of his garment, 449 00:23:48.640 --> 00:23:50.200 I shall be healed. 450 00:23:50.200 --> 00:23:52.480 And you see her, she wants to crawl. 451 00:23:52.480 --> 00:23:54.640 She can't even walk, and there's blood, 452 00:23:54.640 --> 00:23:56.680 and she's being kicked around. 453 00:23:56.680 --> 00:23:58.240 She has to crawl. 454 00:23:58.240 --> 00:23:59.760 Jesus is not coming to her. 455 00:23:59.760 --> 00:24:02.080 Jesus is walking the other direction. 456 00:24:02.080 --> 00:24:05.120 She comes and she makes it to touch, 457 00:24:05.120 --> 00:24:07.600 as she had visualized, she held the vision, 458 00:24:07.600 --> 00:24:11.320 she spoke the words, she took the action, 459 00:24:11.320 --> 00:24:13.280 and she was healed. 460 00:24:13.280 --> 00:24:16.160 And Jesus said, who touched me? 461 00:24:16.160 --> 00:24:17.600 Of course, he's nuts. 462 00:24:17.600 --> 00:24:18.920 What do you mean, who touched you? 463 00:24:18.920 --> 00:24:23.920 He said, no, no, someone pulled the virtue out of me, 464 00:24:24.600 --> 00:24:25.960 the scriptures say. 465 00:24:25.960 --> 00:24:29.280 She literally made a demand on Jesus 466 00:24:29.280 --> 00:24:30.880 and pulled her healing right. 467 00:24:30.880 --> 00:24:32.160 He wasn't turning to her. 468 00:24:32.160 --> 00:24:35.160 He didn't walk up and say, bless you, my child. 469 00:24:35.160 --> 00:24:37.080 She made a demand. 470 00:24:37.080 --> 00:24:39.120 And I believe we're in a season right now 471 00:24:39.120 --> 00:24:41.720 to make a demand when it comes to our business, 472 00:24:41.720 --> 00:24:43.160 when it comes to our finances, 473 00:24:44.040 --> 00:24:45.120 when it comes to our healing, 474 00:24:45.120 --> 00:24:48.320 I believe it's gonna be a time of bold faith, 475 00:24:48.320 --> 00:24:49.880 making a demand on God, 476 00:24:49.880 --> 00:24:52.040 and it's gonna be a season of miracles. 477 00:24:52.040 --> 00:24:54.840 I've seen enough miracles to, I've told you, 478 00:24:54.840 --> 00:24:57.760 fill journals and journals and journals, right? 479 00:24:57.760 --> 00:25:00.360 I believe that's another thing I'm gonna teach about. 480 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:04.440 circles in the marketplace. God is calling us to experience. 481 00:25:04.440 --> 00:25:08.240 I'm in agreement with you. And aren't we right for it? Has he 482 00:25:08.240 --> 00:25:11.760 not been preparing the ground? You know, there's so much 483 00:25:11.920 --> 00:25:16.200 disconnection. And just, you know, we're just right. The 484 00:25:16.200 --> 00:25:19.960 women that I talked to, and that I lead, you know, they come, 485 00:25:20.360 --> 00:25:22.560 because they want something, they don't even know what they 486 00:25:22.560 --> 00:25:26.560 want. You know, they're just right to hear you share with 487 00:25:26.560 --> 00:25:30.560 them, and they're just right to hear. And we'll pray for that 488 00:25:30.560 --> 00:25:36.640 together. Yeah, that's beautiful. I want to make a 489 00:25:36.640 --> 00:25:41.000 little switch right now. And I want to talk you teach women to 490 00:25:41.000 --> 00:25:44.960 prosper in all things. And I know, in particular with the 491 00:25:44.960 --> 00:25:49.880 women that I work with, and myself for my past, just growing 492 00:25:49.880 --> 00:25:52.520 up in a very, you know, interesting financial 493 00:25:52.520 --> 00:25:57.240 environment. I want to talk about women and our money 494 00:25:57.240 --> 00:26:03.400 blocks, and our fear of charging what we're worth, or, you know, 495 00:26:03.400 --> 00:26:06.920 even in our careers for, you know, asking for the raise, and 496 00:26:07.320 --> 00:26:10.480 in all of that, what do you see from your coaching perspective? 497 00:26:10.760 --> 00:26:16.120 Oh, that's a big one. Like I said, with God money, and me, I 498 00:26:16.120 --> 00:26:20.120 teach that a lot. It's really big. And there's a lot of 499 00:26:20.120 --> 00:26:27.080 dimensions to it. Okay. So on one side, there is limiting 500 00:26:27.080 --> 00:26:33.240 beliefs. On other sides, there's value conflicts. On other sides, 501 00:26:33.360 --> 00:26:38.440 there is, there is religious beliefs that have infiltrated, 502 00:26:38.440 --> 00:26:44.560 you know, the the vow of poverty has infiltrated us all. And so 503 00:26:44.600 --> 00:26:49.200 it's this idea that if I'm ministering, if I'm helping 504 00:26:49.200 --> 00:26:52.920 people, if I'm integrating my faith, the minute I integrate my 505 00:26:52.920 --> 00:26:58.320 faith, now it's a ministry, now I should not charge. And so 506 00:26:58.440 --> 00:27:02.960 there's this idea of the poor pastor in the broken down car 507 00:27:02.960 --> 00:27:06.840 that can't even support his children is holy. And that if we 508 00:27:06.960 --> 00:27:10.840 have money, somehow we're not holy. It's not biblical, it 509 00:27:10.840 --> 00:27:15.440 doesn't line up with how God has worked or is working. But it is 510 00:27:15.440 --> 00:27:20.280 such a prevalent, it's, it's gotten its threads into all of 511 00:27:20.280 --> 00:27:25.760 culture. So sometimes it's just internal, I'm not worthy. And 512 00:27:25.760 --> 00:27:29.400 that's more like imposter syndrome, who am I to charge a 513 00:27:29.400 --> 00:27:32.840 lot, and they're gonna find me out. And you know, I don't know 514 00:27:32.840 --> 00:27:36.320 enough, I'm not educated enough, I'm too old, I'm too young, 515 00:27:36.320 --> 00:27:40.560 whatever the story. So there's, there's the story, the personal 516 00:27:40.560 --> 00:27:45.320 story, there's the value conflicts that says, if I make 517 00:27:45.320 --> 00:27:48.960 money, I'm going to lose, like, I'll make a lot of money, I'll 518 00:27:48.960 --> 00:27:52.520 lose my family, I'll make money, I'll lose my faith, I'll make 519 00:27:52.520 --> 00:27:55.880 money. You know, there's, there's, there's a lot of that 520 00:27:55.880 --> 00:27:58.960 kind of story. So a lot of times, you got to get to the 521 00:27:58.960 --> 00:28:02.280 underlying narrative that's driving it, because I see all of 522 00:28:02.280 --> 00:28:05.680 these in my coaching, and we just, we just get breakthrough. 523 00:28:05.880 --> 00:28:10.040 But that one is really powerful. I told you, I launched with 524 00:28:10.040 --> 00:28:13.320 those three events. And there's a funny story around that. It 525 00:28:13.320 --> 00:28:17.560 came back to me through the grapevine, that there was a 526 00:28:17.560 --> 00:28:22.720 ministry leader that said that it was ridiculous, I was 527 00:28:22.720 --> 00:28:27.480 charging too much as a Christian. And I said that word, 528 00:28:27.520 --> 00:28:30.760 and I said, you share, I'd love to meet her. And you let her 529 00:28:30.760 --> 00:28:33.960 know, I'm not in the business of lowering my prices, but I'm in 530 00:28:33.960 --> 00:28:38.880 the business of raising hers. And do you know, I ended up 531 00:28:38.880 --> 00:28:44.880 coaching her for many years, she built a wide organization, 532 00:28:44.880 --> 00:28:48.800 and we worked through the charging and the money. So a lot 533 00:28:48.800 --> 00:28:52.440 of times, I think it's those of us that have the courage to lead 534 00:28:52.440 --> 00:28:57.080 by example. There's the, you know, there's kind of the other 535 00:28:57.080 --> 00:29:01.000 beliefs that if I, if I, you know, have money, I'm going to 536 00:29:01.000 --> 00:29:07.440 become greedy. I disagree. I have I have a vision, I have a 537 00:29:07.440 --> 00:29:10.640 vision for having retreat centers on four continents for 538 00:29:10.640 --> 00:29:14.600 different purposes. I have a vision of those being very high 539 00:29:14.600 --> 00:29:18.120 ticket, their total soul transformation, spirit, soul 540 00:29:18.120 --> 00:29:21.960 body, I have a vision that is very high ticket to get there. 541 00:29:22.160 --> 00:29:26.680 90% of that goes to the mamas and the babies of the land. So 542 00:29:26.680 --> 00:29:30.440 it's that I'll be able to vision God's given me for healing 543 00:29:30.440 --> 00:29:33.920 centers for educational centers for micro lending for the 544 00:29:33.920 --> 00:29:37.880 women. Guess what? It's money that allows us to do that. It's 545 00:29:37.880 --> 00:29:41.200 money that puts in the wells, it's money that builds schools, 546 00:29:41.200 --> 00:29:44.760 it's money that builds the hospitals, being broke doesn't 547 00:29:44.760 --> 00:29:47.640 serve you or anyone, it doesn't serve your family, it doesn't 548 00:29:47.640 --> 00:29:51.920 serve anyone, and it doesn't make you more holy. Now, I'm not 549 00:29:51.920 --> 00:29:57.680 saying to go the other extreme, okay, of mammon. And and and 550 00:29:57.680 --> 00:30:00.080 what is mammon? It's where I 551 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:06.160 put money in the place of God, right? Yeah. Money is not my source. God is my source. There's one 552 00:30:06.160 --> 00:30:12.880 source. Okay. So if I start thinking of money or my job or my social security or my IRA or 553 00:30:12.880 --> 00:30:19.120 any other thing as my source, now I'm into idolatry and now God's not going to bless it. 554 00:30:20.080 --> 00:30:29.120 Yeah. Okay. So, so it's a deep question. We can spend weeks on it because there's many layers, 555 00:30:29.120 --> 00:30:34.720 but the key is replacing every one of those layers with the truth. They're lies. They're 556 00:30:34.720 --> 00:30:40.560 lies that are keeping us stuck and keeping us broke. And there's no, no reason for it. It's 557 00:30:40.560 --> 00:30:45.440 not biblical at all. Yeah. You just answered that question so beautifully. I know it was 558 00:30:45.440 --> 00:30:52.800 multifaceted and we could spend a whole, you know, a long time on it. I, you answered it in the very 559 00:30:52.800 --> 00:30:57.520 end when you talked about what your vision was, you know, with the four retreat centers 560 00:30:58.240 --> 00:31:03.280 and my husband and I, we went to a life surge event. I don't know if you've heard of life 561 00:31:03.280 --> 00:31:10.800 surge, but it was, you know, about how to make a kingdom impact with the wealth that he provides 562 00:31:10.800 --> 00:31:18.480 for us and just being the poor church that our father owns the cattle on a thousand Hills and 563 00:31:18.480 --> 00:31:27.840 how better to take back the land for Christ than to use wealth as a tool and money as a tool to do 564 00:31:27.840 --> 00:31:33.920 exactly what you just said, you know, take your vision when God's given you build the retreat 565 00:31:33.920 --> 00:31:38.080 centers for, for my husband and I, we want to use lead my life to, you know, I work with a 566 00:31:38.080 --> 00:31:44.160 lot of women who are divorced or widowed who are just like their life changes in the drop of a hat 567 00:31:44.400 --> 00:31:49.920 and they're totally displaced. They've been taking care of the kids for 25 years and they, 568 00:31:50.480 --> 00:31:55.840 they don't know what to do with their life. And it's my vision to, you know, buy an apartment 569 00:31:55.840 --> 00:32:02.160 complex and hold two units back and offer that as a place for them to get back on their feet. So I 570 00:32:02.160 --> 00:32:10.880 think the more that we use the wealth that he gives us as a tool, you know, that's how he 571 00:32:10.880 --> 00:32:18.000 designed it. Yeah. He gives each of us a vision. Yeah. I love, I saw your vision, you shared it 572 00:32:18.000 --> 00:32:23.680 and I love it. It's so beautiful. And I know, cause I went through a divorce and I know what 573 00:32:23.680 --> 00:32:28.480 that is like where you have no source of income because you were busy homeschooling the kids and 574 00:32:28.480 --> 00:32:32.880 doing even, even though I built multimillion dollar companies, it's another story, but I know 575 00:32:32.880 --> 00:32:38.560 that feeling. And I love, love, love, love that you're doing that. And you used a word that I 576 00:32:38.560 --> 00:32:45.600 think is, is really important. Money is a tool. It's a tool. That means as a tool, it can be a 577 00:32:45.600 --> 00:32:52.240 hammer to kill someone or as a tool, it can be a hammer to build a beautiful home for displaced 578 00:32:52.240 --> 00:33:01.200 women. And if, when we understand that, if we can detach the, the energy, the story, the angst 579 00:33:01.200 --> 00:33:07.920 that we've placed on money, it's just an exchange, right? It's just, you know, if you, if you think 580 00:33:08.000 --> 00:33:13.920 back, you know, it started with beads and shells and, and, and bark, you know, cows for, you know, 581 00:33:13.920 --> 00:33:19.200 I'll give you my butter, you give me your wool, you know, you trying to come up with a fair exchange. 582 00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:23.840 Well, how much butter for how much the wool. And so now we're using, you know, whatever shelves, 583 00:33:23.840 --> 00:33:30.880 beads, it becomes coin and paper money. It's simply a means of exchange. We've attached so much 584 00:33:30.880 --> 00:33:36.080 energy and angst to it, right? It's just a tool. It's just a tool. 585 00:33:36.880 --> 00:33:42.640 Yeah. What a beautiful conversation. Thank you so much for having that with me. I just I'm going 586 00:33:42.640 --> 00:33:49.120 to have to replay that over and over. We're very like-minded sister. I'm honored. I love your 587 00:33:49.120 --> 00:33:57.520 vision. I love being able to I look forward to just getting to know you more and collaborating. 588 00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:03.440 Yes, yes, absolutely. I tell everybody who's listening that when we came on, we're just like, 589 00:34:03.440 --> 00:34:07.840 you know, we're two sisters in Christ who you just want to further the kingdom of God. We're 590 00:34:07.840 --> 00:34:12.880 here to support women in our different ways and within our different visions that God's given us. 591 00:34:13.440 --> 00:34:19.520 I want to know Brenda, what is, what is next for you? What, what exciting thing? I, we know you 592 00:34:19.520 --> 00:34:24.560 have the workshop and I'm going to put a link to the workshop and I'll also post it on my LinkedIn 593 00:34:24.560 --> 00:34:32.960 too. But what's next for you? Anything exciting coming up? You know, this is the really big 594 00:34:32.960 --> 00:34:39.040 thing that's on my mind right now are these retreats. God has given me such a vision for 595 00:34:39.040 --> 00:34:46.239 that. And they're, they're different in different places. And so I'm really in the exploring and 596 00:34:46.239 --> 00:34:54.159 collaborating and mapping it out. I see a horse ranch in Columbia for women in trauma. I see more 597 00:34:54.159 --> 00:34:59.920 of a health in Belize. I see more of a business retreat in, in, in, in, in, in, in, in, in, in, in, 598 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:08.000 Italy now, I've done retreats. It's not doing the retreats. It's the land, it's the total experience 599 00:35:08.000 --> 00:35:14.400 from the water to the smells, to the art, to the music, to the garden. It's the experience completely 600 00:35:14.400 --> 00:35:22.800 for total soul prosperity. So, you know, on an individual, I coach women to experience that. 601 00:35:22.800 --> 00:35:28.400 Sometimes it's just a one-day coaching to get their business profitable, prosperous, to get 602 00:35:28.400 --> 00:35:33.600 absolute clarity, right? It's just many women get clear on their niche, get clear on their packages, 603 00:35:33.600 --> 00:35:37.920 their pricing, so they can go from no clients. I mean, for them, this is huge. Let's go from no 604 00:35:37.920 --> 00:35:44.400 clients to high ticket clients coming on a regular basis. So I start sometimes on that level, sometimes 605 00:35:44.400 --> 00:35:51.840 90 days, sometimes a year. So that's my passion there. I have the Transfer Leader Membership. 606 00:35:51.840 --> 00:35:58.480 We'll give you a link for that too. In COVID, God spoke to me and said two things. He said, 607 00:35:58.480 --> 00:36:05.280 we are not those who draw back in fear. And he said, gather the women. And he showed me women 608 00:36:05.280 --> 00:36:12.000 linking arms and carrying each other across their personal finish line. So that is the Prosper Leader 609 00:36:12.000 --> 00:36:17.680 Membership. It's got all access paths to all the things I've created, as well as the community and 610 00:36:17.680 --> 00:36:23.840 the group coaching. So whether someone just needs to jumpstart, they want to be part of a community, 611 00:36:23.840 --> 00:36:29.040 or I'm working on the bigger things with the retreat center. That's where my mind and heart is right now. 612 00:36:29.680 --> 00:36:35.040 I love the idea of a retreat center, because one of the things that I teach, 613 00:36:35.040 --> 00:36:42.000 because I found in my life I was not doing it, is the reflect, the reset, renew, and being able to 614 00:36:42.000 --> 00:36:49.280 pull yourself away for a time. You have to. You have to be able to get away in what you're 615 00:36:50.000 --> 00:36:55.920 setting up. I can't wait to hear more about it and start to see it come into fruition. 616 00:36:55.920 --> 00:36:59.360 Well, I'm excited with your real estate background and everything. Let's see what God's going to do. 617 00:37:00.720 --> 00:37:02.480 I'm not international, but... 618 00:37:03.520 --> 00:37:07.040 Yeah, let's see what God's going to do with the knowledge that you have. 619 00:37:07.680 --> 00:37:15.920 So yeah, I love what you're doing for divorced women and coaching and bringing this podcast. 620 00:37:15.920 --> 00:37:21.520 Feel honored that you invited me to be on it. I'm thrilled to where this divine appointment's 621 00:37:21.520 --> 00:37:26.720 going to go from here. Yeah, beautiful. Beautiful. Thank you. And if you were listening today, 622 00:37:26.720 --> 00:37:31.920 feel free to subscribe so you can get more on your Monday morning. And we just want to thank 623 00:37:31.920 --> 00:37:36.640 Brenda for being a part of this today, and we look forward to next week. 624 00:37:38.800 --> 00:37:42.000 And I'm going to just stop the recording right here.