WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:11.120 All right. So welcome, welcome. This is such an exciting day. This is just a wrap. It is, 2 00:00:11.120 --> 00:00:19.680 it's bonus day. I would also call it like key day. I would call it foundation day. I would call it 3 00:00:19.680 --> 00:00:29.120 most important day. And we've been working our way through the Prosper system. And I don't always do 4 00:00:29.120 --> 00:00:35.600 it in perfect order, right? But if you're coming in first time today, the replays are up until 5 00:00:36.160 --> 00:00:42.880 midnight Sunday, usually into Monday in the Prosper Women Facebook group. But we've covered 6 00:00:42.880 --> 00:00:50.080 the P in Prosper, which is partner with God, partner with God in business. I mean, we know 7 00:00:50.080 --> 00:00:57.120 to partner with life, but partnering with God in business, what a difference, what a difference 8 00:00:57.120 --> 00:01:05.280 this makes from striving and struggling and sacrificing and stressing to, to joy and peace 9 00:01:05.280 --> 00:01:11.360 and miracles in the marketplace and accessing infinite wisdom, infinite love. So we covered 10 00:01:11.360 --> 00:01:17.280 the first P and then the second P was about renewing the mind. And each of these is really 11 00:01:17.280 --> 00:01:22.480 a step because if we're not partnered with God, we can't renew our mind. We can't do it in our 12 00:01:22.480 --> 00:01:28.000 own strength. We can try, but it's too deep rooted, right? There's too many strongholds. 13 00:01:28.560 --> 00:01:35.360 So, so each of these builds, you know, the first one is, is, is really about, it's about surrender. 14 00:01:36.240 --> 00:01:43.440 It's about trusting God more than even we trust ourselves, which I hope that's what we do, 15 00:01:43.440 --> 00:01:48.320 right? Because you're talking about the creator of heaven and earth. We're made in his image, 16 00:01:48.320 --> 00:01:55.600 but we're finite beings. And so in that relationship, it's about relationship 17 00:01:56.400 --> 00:02:04.560 more than religion. It's about intimacy and it's, it's such a healing thing. So that first P that's, 18 00:02:04.560 --> 00:02:11.600 it's foundational that allows us to start on the second, which is the R, which is renewing of the 19 00:02:11.600 --> 00:02:20.880 mind. And scripture says we're transformed by the renewing of our mind. And this is where, 20 00:02:20.880 --> 00:02:28.240 um, scripture says we take every thought captive. It says that, that the war that we're really 21 00:02:28.240 --> 00:02:35.200 fighting is not carnal. It's not human. And that's what we forget. We think that we're 22 00:02:35.200 --> 00:02:43.360 battling against human things and human people, but the real war is happening inside of ourselves, 23 00:02:43.360 --> 00:02:51.360 inside our own mind. And so it talks about, you know, uh, we're going to get into Exodus today, 24 00:02:51.360 --> 00:02:57.280 when we look at your divine purpose in your divine identity and it's, it's being set free. 25 00:02:57.280 --> 00:03:04.720 And so scripture says that we're transformed and we talked about transform metamorphosis. This is 26 00:03:04.800 --> 00:03:13.520 the, the, the butterfly that the Caterpillar, no wings crawling on the ground, getting stepped on, 27 00:03:13.520 --> 00:03:20.000 whatever the Caterpillar, the transformation to butterfly. What a difference, like what a miracle 28 00:03:20.000 --> 00:03:29.680 this Caterpillar is in this cocoon and in the cocoon, there's so much struggle between Caterpillar 29 00:03:29.680 --> 00:03:36.240 and butterfly. This thing is pushing and stretching. And some of you probably read the 30 00:03:36.240 --> 00:03:41.040 stories where someone sees that and tries to help and snips and let me let this butterfly free. 31 00:03:41.040 --> 00:03:47.520 Let me speed up the process. Let's accelerate this. And they, and they snip it. And then the 32 00:03:47.520 --> 00:03:54.240 butterfly falls lifeless to the ground and dies because that struggle was how the wings got strong 33 00:03:54.240 --> 00:04:04.880 to fly. And so this struggle is primarily in that are the renewing of the mind and the biggest place 34 00:04:04.880 --> 00:04:13.440 that we need to renew the mind is where we're at today. Okay. Which is, which is understanding our 35 00:04:14.000 --> 00:04:21.519 divine identity, who we really are peeling off the layers. So we did the P we did the R 36 00:04:21.519 --> 00:04:28.160 and then we did the O about opening the flow, getting out of this constipation coagulation 37 00:04:28.160 --> 00:04:36.320 stuckness. Right. And we skipped, we went, we went P R O. We did the S which was simplify. 38 00:04:36.320 --> 00:04:41.760 That was so big. You've got to create a space for what you want. Then the next P was purpose and 39 00:04:41.760 --> 00:04:46.480 identity. And we jumped over that because I wanted to give a full two hours to that today, 40 00:04:46.480 --> 00:04:54.160 or at least an hour and a half. Okay. And so we, we, we skipped over that and we skipped over 41 00:04:54.160 --> 00:04:59.840 because of time, the E I'll probably bring some things maybe next week at the E and 42 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:04.200 We landed the five days of it, right, 43 00:05:04.200 --> 00:05:08.880 with learning how to run and rest at the same time. 44 00:05:08.880 --> 00:05:10.520 It's the resurrected life. 45 00:05:10.520 --> 00:05:15.600 So today is going to bring all of this together. 46 00:05:15.600 --> 00:05:17.520 Like, it's all going to make sense. 47 00:05:17.520 --> 00:05:18.920 You're going to make sense. 48 00:05:18.920 --> 00:05:20.880 Your business is going to make sense. 49 00:05:20.880 --> 00:05:25.480 And so today just super, super excites me. 50 00:05:25.480 --> 00:05:28.880 How many of you are ready and excited? 51 00:05:28.880 --> 00:05:30.760 Pop it in the chat. 52 00:05:30.760 --> 00:05:33.720 And woohoo, yes, yes, yes. 53 00:05:33.720 --> 00:05:37.200 I was enjoying the conversations before we started. 54 00:05:37.200 --> 00:05:41.200 And so let's open with prayer. 55 00:05:41.200 --> 00:05:45.240 So Father God, I just thank you for this day. 56 00:05:45.240 --> 00:05:49.160 You woke us up today, and I thank you for that. 57 00:05:49.160 --> 00:05:49.880 I thank you. 58 00:05:49.880 --> 00:05:50.920 Our heart is beating. 59 00:05:50.920 --> 00:05:53.360 Our lungs are breathing. 60 00:05:53.360 --> 00:05:55.440 All the things happening in our body 61 00:05:55.440 --> 00:05:59.480 we're not even aware as you've fearfully and wonderfully 62 00:05:59.480 --> 00:06:01.480 made us, we give you glory. 63 00:06:01.480 --> 00:06:03.080 We give you honor. 64 00:06:03.080 --> 00:06:05.720 And today we ask that you'll give us 65 00:06:05.720 --> 00:06:09.960 deeper understanding to that fearfully and wonderfully made. 66 00:06:09.960 --> 00:06:14.040 I pray every single man, woman, child listening 67 00:06:14.040 --> 00:06:19.280 to this or the replays that they'll have a breakthrough. 68 00:06:19.280 --> 00:06:22.480 A breakthrough, a shattering of the lies 69 00:06:22.480 --> 00:06:24.520 that maybe have been spoken over them 70 00:06:24.520 --> 00:06:30.280 by others or by themselves or passed down generationally. 71 00:06:30.280 --> 00:06:34.360 I pray just a shattering of the lies 72 00:06:34.360 --> 00:06:38.080 that have kept them stuck, kept them playing small. 73 00:06:38.080 --> 00:06:41.640 I ask for a fresh awareness. 74 00:06:41.640 --> 00:06:44.160 Awareness is the first step to transformation. 75 00:06:44.160 --> 00:06:48.000 I ask for a fresh awareness today. 76 00:06:48.000 --> 00:06:53.400 I ask for fresh life, fresh man, a fresh revelation 77 00:06:53.400 --> 00:06:55.960 to flow today. 78 00:06:55.960 --> 00:07:00.520 I ask that the words of my mouth, the meditation of my heart 79 00:07:00.520 --> 00:07:02.000 will be pleasing to you. 80 00:07:02.000 --> 00:07:07.480 And I ask that your words of life will flow through. 81 00:07:07.480 --> 00:07:13.160 I ask that you open our ears, our eyes, our heart, 82 00:07:13.160 --> 00:07:15.440 that we can see, we can hear, we can 83 00:07:15.440 --> 00:07:21.240 perceive what you're saying to us here and now today. 84 00:07:21.280 --> 00:07:24.120 I give thanks for this incredible opportunity. 85 00:07:24.120 --> 00:07:25.960 Thank you for the technology. 86 00:07:25.960 --> 00:07:28.680 May it work flawlessly. 87 00:07:28.680 --> 00:07:33.280 Thank you, Lord, for the gift of learning, 88 00:07:33.280 --> 00:07:38.440 for the gift of your word, for the gift of your Holy Spirit. 89 00:07:38.440 --> 00:07:42.440 I ask that you activate the rivers of living water 90 00:07:42.440 --> 00:07:45.200 in their belly. 91 00:07:45.200 --> 00:07:48.840 I ask that you break the lies of fear 92 00:07:49.640 --> 00:07:56.040 and the lies of separation and the lies of lack. 93 00:07:56.040 --> 00:08:00.720 And that new life gushes forth. 94 00:08:00.720 --> 00:08:04.440 I ask in Jesus' name, amen. 95 00:08:04.440 --> 00:08:06.480 Amen, amen, amen. 96 00:08:06.480 --> 00:08:08.840 Well, welcome back, ladies. 97 00:08:08.840 --> 00:08:11.360 We have been on a journey. 98 00:08:11.360 --> 00:08:13.560 So excited to be with you. 99 00:08:13.560 --> 00:08:17.800 So the question that we open with 100 00:08:17.800 --> 00:08:26.560 when we're looking at this, if I say to you, who are you? 101 00:08:26.560 --> 00:08:32.240 Or if you're asking yourself, who am I? 102 00:08:32.240 --> 00:08:33.559 Who am I? 103 00:08:36.559 --> 00:08:40.000 What comes to you? 104 00:08:40.000 --> 00:08:42.840 Who am I? 105 00:08:42.840 --> 00:08:46.320 You know, what comes to us most often, 106 00:08:46.320 --> 00:08:50.960 and it starts with the words, I am, right? 107 00:08:50.960 --> 00:08:54.800 I am, which is the name of God. 108 00:08:54.800 --> 00:08:57.720 When Moses was at the burning bush, 109 00:08:57.720 --> 00:09:03.080 and he discovers that he's talking to God. 110 00:09:03.080 --> 00:09:06.200 And he's like, what will I tell the people your name is? 111 00:09:06.200 --> 00:09:08.200 Who are you? 112 00:09:08.200 --> 00:09:11.240 And the answer was, I am. 113 00:09:11.240 --> 00:09:13.240 And isn't that interesting that that's 114 00:09:13.240 --> 00:09:15.320 how God identified himself? 115 00:09:15.320 --> 00:09:16.800 Isn't that interesting that that's 116 00:09:16.800 --> 00:09:18.840 what we're continuously saying? 117 00:09:18.840 --> 00:09:22.200 I am or I am not. 118 00:09:22.200 --> 00:09:25.800 And we're unconscious that we're saying the name of God 119 00:09:25.800 --> 00:09:29.160 when we do this. 120 00:09:29.160 --> 00:09:37.240 So most often, if we say, I am, usually jump into a role. 121 00:09:37.240 --> 00:09:39.600 I am a coach. 122 00:09:39.600 --> 00:09:40.440 I'm a healer. 123 00:09:40.440 --> 00:09:41.480 I am a teacher. 124 00:09:41.480 --> 00:09:45.000 I am a best-selling author. 125 00:09:45.000 --> 00:09:46.080 I am a mother. 126 00:09:46.080 --> 00:09:47.920 I am a wife. 127 00:09:47.920 --> 00:09:48.960 You read a bio. 128 00:09:48.960 --> 00:09:51.800 Isn't that where everybody starts? 129 00:09:51.800 --> 00:09:53.800 It's all the roles. 130 00:09:57.200 --> 00:10:00.720 That's how we've come to identify ourselves. 131 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:08.920 What happens when the roles are no longer there? 132 00:10:08.920 --> 00:10:17.000 I am a world-class athlete until the injury. 133 00:10:17.000 --> 00:10:26.560 I am a mother until we lose the baby or we're experiencing something. 134 00:10:26.560 --> 00:10:38.940 I remember when I went through a painful divorce in 2012, everything that I thought I was was 135 00:10:38.940 --> 00:10:42.020 stripped away. 136 00:10:42.020 --> 00:10:48.720 I was no longer the founder of an international company, international nutritional network 137 00:10:48.720 --> 00:10:52.080 marketing company. 138 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:55.580 I was no longer a wife. 139 00:10:55.580 --> 00:11:01.240 I was no longer a homeschool mom. 140 00:11:01.240 --> 00:11:06.480 I was no longer the leader of the foundation. 141 00:11:06.480 --> 00:11:10.580 You see, all of a sudden, what happens when the roles are stripped away? 142 00:11:10.580 --> 00:11:16.520 And when we've identified too much with the roles, you see what happens in society when 143 00:11:16.520 --> 00:11:18.860 you no longer have a job. 144 00:11:18.860 --> 00:11:22.240 Who am I without that title? 145 00:11:22.240 --> 00:11:27.120 For women going through empty nest, who am I now? 146 00:11:27.120 --> 00:11:33.400 And there's this almost crisis of identity because for too long, when we're looking at 147 00:11:33.400 --> 00:11:37.860 who we are, we're looking at what we do. 148 00:11:37.860 --> 00:11:43.040 We've also defined ourselves by, I am not. 149 00:11:43.040 --> 00:11:44.680 I am not a speaker. 150 00:11:44.680 --> 00:11:46.280 I am not a writer. 151 00:11:46.280 --> 00:11:49.220 I am not, right? 152 00:11:49.220 --> 00:11:55.820 We identify ourselves with what we're not. 153 00:11:55.820 --> 00:12:07.020 The key is sifting through those layers to get to the core and to make sure that that 154 00:12:07.020 --> 00:12:15.180 core lines up with the truth, with the word of God, right? 155 00:12:15.180 --> 00:12:27.180 And there's so many I am nots that we do, right? 156 00:12:27.180 --> 00:12:37.940 So who we've been saying that we are is a combination of the stories, the narrative 157 00:12:37.940 --> 00:12:43.580 that we've believed because people have told us all our life. 158 00:12:43.980 --> 00:12:46.060 It could be very derogatory. 159 00:12:46.060 --> 00:12:47.060 I am stupid. 160 00:12:47.060 --> 00:12:51.260 I am just not smart, right? 161 00:12:51.260 --> 00:12:54.060 So there's these stories. 162 00:12:54.060 --> 00:12:56.520 I'm not good with money, whatever. 163 00:12:56.520 --> 00:13:02.980 We've got these stories that we've defined as to who we are and who we're not, and we've 164 00:13:02.980 --> 00:13:10.500 got these standards as to what we'll accept and what we'll settle for. 165 00:13:10.500 --> 00:13:15.740 A lot of times this identity is a family identity or a cultural identity. 166 00:13:15.740 --> 00:13:21.420 I've had many coaching clients grew up in our family. 167 00:13:21.420 --> 00:13:24.580 We don't make a lot of money in our family. 168 00:13:24.580 --> 00:13:27.340 We're a family of missionaries. 169 00:13:27.340 --> 00:13:30.060 Money's not part of our life, whatever it is. 170 00:13:30.060 --> 00:13:36.600 But sometimes this gets passed down even. 171 00:13:36.600 --> 00:13:44.040 So we've got this combination of our narrative of who we say we are and our standards, what 172 00:13:44.040 --> 00:13:47.720 we're willing to settle. 173 00:13:47.720 --> 00:13:56.960 And then we've had our experiences, and experiences are really interesting how they shape us. 174 00:13:56.960 --> 00:14:02.840 It's how our little brain tries to figure out to stay safe. 175 00:14:02.920 --> 00:14:13.040 And so very young, many of us, especially you, amazing, born to be leaders, born to 176 00:14:13.040 --> 00:14:17.640 be movers and shakers and world changers, you really had to deal with this because you 177 00:14:17.640 --> 00:14:23.320 didn't fit in the family mold or your mother's mold, right? 178 00:14:23.320 --> 00:14:31.480 And so you learned that it's not safe to be, to be who you really are. 179 00:14:31.480 --> 00:14:38.000 You had to make some shifts because your, your cry, the cry of all of us is to be loved 180 00:14:38.000 --> 00:14:40.320 and accepted. 181 00:14:40.320 --> 00:14:47.000 And especially at that age, who do you have to be loved and accepted, primarily mommy 182 00:14:47.000 --> 00:14:55.280 or daddy or both, maybe as your little older teacher, but you, you just want to be told 183 00:14:55.280 --> 00:14:59.760 that you're loved and that you're accepted and that you're okay. 184 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:08.400 But you would do certain things naturally and you would be told love gets withdrawn. 185 00:15:08.400 --> 00:15:10.680 You may not even be told, you would be shown. 186 00:15:10.680 --> 00:15:13.720 You would be shown in a scowl. 187 00:15:13.720 --> 00:15:15.960 You would be shown in words. 188 00:15:15.960 --> 00:15:25.000 You would be shown in the withdrawal of privileges or the withdrawal of affection. 189 00:15:25.000 --> 00:15:29.560 Any of you know what I'm talking about? 190 00:15:29.560 --> 00:15:41.600 And it even gets passed down that we learn these ways and we do it to our children. 191 00:15:41.600 --> 00:15:44.280 So they don't behave the way that we think. 192 00:15:44.280 --> 00:15:49.680 They are not a good girl the way that we've defined good girl and they don't get the smile 193 00:15:49.680 --> 00:15:50.680 that they crave. 194 00:15:50.680 --> 00:15:51.680 They get a scowl. 195 00:15:51.680 --> 00:15:59.920 And the man, if you're a woman, the man in your life doesn't do what you think he should 196 00:15:59.920 --> 00:16:00.920 be doing. 197 00:16:00.920 --> 00:16:08.520 And he no longer, that smiley girl that he married, that just the smile would just light 198 00:16:08.520 --> 00:16:09.520 him up. 199 00:16:09.520 --> 00:16:14.640 Ladies, when's the last time you smiled at your man? 200 00:16:14.640 --> 00:16:15.720 We stopped smiling. 201 00:16:15.720 --> 00:16:16.720 They get a scowl. 202 00:16:16.720 --> 00:16:19.440 Any of you guilty? 203 00:16:19.440 --> 00:16:20.440 I'm just curious. 204 00:16:20.440 --> 00:16:21.760 Is it just me? 205 00:16:21.760 --> 00:16:22.760 I'm just curious. 206 00:16:22.760 --> 00:16:23.760 Put in the chat. 207 00:16:23.760 --> 00:16:24.760 Am I just talking to myself here? 208 00:16:24.760 --> 00:16:25.760 I want to know. 209 00:16:25.760 --> 00:16:27.480 This is where we get real. 210 00:16:27.480 --> 00:16:28.680 We get raw. 211 00:16:28.680 --> 00:16:36.880 So this stuff gets passed down and associated at the very core of it is our need to be loved 212 00:16:36.880 --> 00:16:38.760 and accepted. 213 00:16:38.760 --> 00:16:52.080 And accepted and at the core of it is how we even punish and are punished. 214 00:16:52.080 --> 00:16:55.320 And so let me just see. 215 00:16:55.320 --> 00:16:58.600 I want to be able to see the chat and I'm not seeing it. 216 00:16:58.600 --> 00:17:00.360 Give me just a second here. 217 00:17:00.360 --> 00:17:01.720 Okay, there we go. 218 00:17:01.720 --> 00:17:02.720 Now I see you guys. 219 00:17:02.720 --> 00:17:04.200 I love hearing from you. 220 00:17:04.200 --> 00:17:07.079 Okay, there we go. 221 00:17:07.240 --> 00:17:09.240 Yeah. 222 00:17:09.240 --> 00:17:14.200 Because of the family dynamics of marriage on Flying Solo, well, yeah, maybe, but also 223 00:17:14.200 --> 00:17:16.720 we can learn new dynamics, right? 224 00:17:16.720 --> 00:17:17.720 Okay. 225 00:17:17.720 --> 00:17:18.720 I love it. 226 00:17:18.720 --> 00:17:21.400 Kimberly said, I think I may scowl. 227 00:17:21.400 --> 00:17:23.640 Try this, Kimberly. 228 00:17:23.640 --> 00:17:29.680 You know, we've been talking about some things and try this. 229 00:17:29.680 --> 00:17:34.680 Just look at him and give him the biggest smile and just watch what happens. 230 00:17:34.680 --> 00:17:35.680 You guys try this. 231 00:17:35.880 --> 00:17:37.360 I mean, try it with your kids. 232 00:17:37.360 --> 00:17:38.360 Try it with your man. 233 00:17:38.360 --> 00:17:39.360 Try it with anyone. 234 00:17:39.360 --> 00:17:42.840 Just give him a big smile and watch what happens. 235 00:17:42.840 --> 00:17:43.840 Okay. 236 00:17:43.840 --> 00:17:52.000 So, but we've got this, we've got this identity of how we see ourselves and look at the first 237 00:17:52.000 --> 00:17:56.160 verse right there. 238 00:17:56.160 --> 00:17:57.440 It's so fascinating. 239 00:17:57.440 --> 00:18:01.040 I just can't believe this is the scripture 5,000 years ago. 240 00:18:01.040 --> 00:18:02.480 So fascinating. 241 00:18:02.480 --> 00:18:05.360 And it's numbers, look at the number, 1333. 242 00:18:05.360 --> 00:18:08.000 I mean, it's like divine perfection here. 243 00:18:08.000 --> 00:18:09.960 This is like a perfect verse. 244 00:18:09.960 --> 00:18:10.960 Okay. 245 00:18:10.960 --> 00:18:13.240 Got three threes in there. 246 00:18:13.240 --> 00:18:21.480 It says, there we saw the Nephilim, the sons of Anak. 247 00:18:21.480 --> 00:18:24.840 This was, this was the giants, right? 248 00:18:24.840 --> 00:18:32.680 And it says, and we were like grasshoppers in our own sight. 249 00:18:32.680 --> 00:18:36.640 So here you get the self image. 250 00:18:36.640 --> 00:18:38.200 Obviously they're up against giants. 251 00:18:38.200 --> 00:18:40.200 So there's a certain physical truth. 252 00:18:40.200 --> 00:18:47.000 We've said the conditions always exist, but what's really interesting is the mental conditions 253 00:18:47.000 --> 00:18:48.000 around this. 254 00:18:48.000 --> 00:18:54.440 They didn't just say we were, we were many feet shorter or, you know, we were at a disadvantage. 255 00:18:55.040 --> 00:18:56.040 They had height on us. 256 00:18:56.040 --> 00:18:58.960 You know it didn't say something like that. 257 00:18:58.960 --> 00:19:01.520 It wasn't focusing on the circumstances. 258 00:19:01.520 --> 00:19:03.800 I mean, the analogy is incredible. 259 00:19:03.800 --> 00:19:08.600 Here's human beings made in the image of God who've been led to the promised land through 260 00:19:08.600 --> 00:19:12.560 a series of miracles by an incredible God. 261 00:19:12.560 --> 00:19:22.440 And they see themselves in their own sight, like grasshoppers, wow. 262 00:19:22.440 --> 00:19:33.560 And the fascinating thing about that is, and so we were in their sight, we are actually 263 00:19:33.560 --> 00:19:46.480 number one, we're discovering who we are and we're rewiring our brain for who we are. 264 00:19:46.480 --> 00:19:56.920 And as we change, people are going to see us differently as we change. 265 00:19:56.920 --> 00:19:59.920 I might've shared this story, but it was, it was. 266 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:06.480 Such a profound revelation of how this works, right? 267 00:20:06.480 --> 00:20:09.880 So I have this brilliant woman come to me, highly educated, 268 00:20:09.880 --> 00:20:12.120 master's degrees. 269 00:20:12.120 --> 00:20:14.540 She is a licensed clinical counselor. 270 00:20:14.540 --> 00:20:17.840 She's got a beautiful practice, has had it for many, many 271 00:20:17.840 --> 00:20:18.340 years. 272 00:20:18.340 --> 00:20:19.700 She's great with clients. 273 00:20:19.700 --> 00:20:21.800 She's thriving over there. 274 00:20:21.800 --> 00:20:24.780 She desires to move over to the coaching space, 275 00:20:24.780 --> 00:20:28.040 less paperwork, no caps on what you can earn, 276 00:20:28.040 --> 00:20:30.560 less bureaucracy, all that stuff, right? 277 00:20:30.560 --> 00:20:33.520 And so she is making the transition 278 00:20:33.520 --> 00:20:37.200 from being over here in the clinical setting that she knew 279 00:20:37.200 --> 00:20:39.780 to over here to the coaching world. 280 00:20:39.780 --> 00:20:47.240 And it's not flying, meaning she's not getting any clients. 281 00:20:47.240 --> 00:20:49.840 And so I meet with her. 282 00:20:49.840 --> 00:20:53.360 And the first thing I'm doing on these calls, I'm listening. 283 00:20:53.360 --> 00:20:55.160 My ears are trained. 284 00:20:55.160 --> 00:20:59.840 I've been listening to what people say about themselves, 285 00:20:59.840 --> 00:21:02.160 what they believe about money. 286 00:21:02.160 --> 00:21:05.760 It's all in there when you're talking to them. 287 00:21:05.760 --> 00:21:07.840 And so she's just chatting. 288 00:21:07.840 --> 00:21:09.600 And she's saying, yeah, I've struggled. 289 00:21:09.600 --> 00:21:10.520 I've tried this. 290 00:21:10.520 --> 00:21:11.680 I've tried that. 291 00:21:11.680 --> 00:21:16.040 She says, I think I'm at a disadvantage. 292 00:21:16.040 --> 00:21:17.680 I'm like a grasshopper. 293 00:21:17.680 --> 00:21:22.720 I don't have a lot of these coaching certifications. 294 00:21:22.720 --> 00:21:24.480 I'm like a grasshopper. 295 00:21:24.480 --> 00:21:26.840 I don't have the experience. 296 00:21:26.840 --> 00:21:29.200 I'm like a grasshopper. 297 00:21:29.200 --> 00:21:32.200 And it says, and so they saw us. 298 00:21:32.200 --> 00:21:34.280 And so they saw her like a grasshopper. 299 00:21:34.280 --> 00:21:35.880 She believed she was a grasshopper. 300 00:21:35.880 --> 00:21:37.480 They're believing she's a grasshopper. 301 00:21:37.480 --> 00:21:38.360 Are you following me? 302 00:21:38.360 --> 00:21:40.480 Any of you tracking with me? 303 00:21:40.480 --> 00:21:42.160 We're teaching people how to see us. 304 00:21:42.160 --> 00:21:44.640 We're teaching people how to treat us. 305 00:21:44.640 --> 00:21:49.400 And so I'm like, I'm seeing things 306 00:21:49.400 --> 00:21:51.560 from a totally different perspective. 307 00:21:51.560 --> 00:21:56.080 I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, back the truck up 308 00:21:56.080 --> 00:21:59.680 for just a second, please. 309 00:21:59.680 --> 00:22:03.440 And I say to her, you don't have certifications. 310 00:22:03.440 --> 00:22:06.560 You've got a master's degree in this specialty. 311 00:22:06.560 --> 00:22:08.800 Did that master's degree and what 312 00:22:08.800 --> 00:22:14.280 you learned in your education go away between here and here? 313 00:22:14.280 --> 00:22:15.960 She says, no. 314 00:22:15.960 --> 00:22:19.520 I says, you've been creating change and transformation 315 00:22:19.520 --> 00:22:22.480 with all your clients for years and years and years. 316 00:22:22.480 --> 00:22:24.680 Did your skill set, did your tools 317 00:22:24.680 --> 00:22:28.200 go away between here and here? 318 00:22:28.200 --> 00:22:29.760 She's kind of starting to smile. 319 00:22:29.760 --> 00:22:30.920 I see she's getting it. 320 00:22:30.920 --> 00:22:33.120 Light is cracking. 321 00:22:33.120 --> 00:22:37.240 And so as I go through this process, 322 00:22:37.240 --> 00:22:40.840 I said, you're not writing a brand new book. 323 00:22:40.840 --> 00:22:43.680 You're adding a chapter to your existing. 324 00:22:43.680 --> 00:22:47.200 And this is the thing that so many of us don't know 325 00:22:47.240 --> 00:22:51.760 is that we keep thinking that when we change, especially 326 00:22:51.760 --> 00:22:54.440 those of you that are creative and multi-passionate 327 00:22:54.440 --> 00:22:57.560 in different ways, that you change professions 328 00:22:57.560 --> 00:23:01.880 or you leave the corporate world or you leave the government 329 00:23:01.880 --> 00:23:05.440 world or whatever and you go here and you think, 330 00:23:05.440 --> 00:23:08.520 oh, I'm just starting all over again. 331 00:23:08.520 --> 00:23:10.480 You're not. 332 00:23:10.480 --> 00:23:14.520 If you can learn to stack your successes. 333 00:23:14.520 --> 00:23:17.400 What I was doing in that free conversation 334 00:23:17.400 --> 00:23:20.760 was having her stack her successes. 335 00:23:20.760 --> 00:23:24.160 You're not starting in the basement every time. 336 00:23:24.160 --> 00:23:29.360 And so here, they forgot to stack their successes. 337 00:23:29.360 --> 00:23:32.200 They forgot that they were serving a God. 338 00:23:32.200 --> 00:23:35.640 And all the things that they had overcome for 40 years, 339 00:23:35.640 --> 00:23:38.360 they forgot for a minute. 340 00:23:38.360 --> 00:23:40.400 And they reverted. 341 00:23:40.400 --> 00:23:42.440 And so she got it. 342 00:23:42.440 --> 00:23:44.280 She got off that call. 343 00:23:44.280 --> 00:23:47.040 And she got a few clients right away. 344 00:23:47.040 --> 00:23:50.560 And then I happened to follow up with her 345 00:23:50.560 --> 00:23:52.160 to see how it was going. 346 00:23:52.160 --> 00:23:53.360 And I was excited. 347 00:23:53.360 --> 00:23:55.000 No clients to three clients. 348 00:23:55.000 --> 00:23:56.520 I was excited. 349 00:23:56.520 --> 00:24:00.400 We did a one-day business breakthrough intensive 350 00:24:00.400 --> 00:24:02.280 because I know that's foundational. 351 00:24:02.280 --> 00:24:04.960 That's the first thing I do is, OK, we 352 00:24:04.960 --> 00:24:07.760 got to break these mindsets, but we got to get clarity. 353 00:24:07.760 --> 00:24:10.040 Absolute, especially in this market. 354 00:24:10.040 --> 00:24:12.360 Who exactly do you serve? 355 00:24:12.400 --> 00:24:16.560 And what is their big problem that you solve? 356 00:24:16.560 --> 00:24:18.480 And how do you have that packaged 357 00:24:18.480 --> 00:24:19.840 in an irresistible offer? 358 00:24:19.840 --> 00:24:23.120 So we do this in the one-day breakthrough intensive. 359 00:24:23.120 --> 00:24:24.080 So we did that. 360 00:24:24.080 --> 00:24:26.240 And so she got these three clients. 361 00:24:26.240 --> 00:24:28.480 And so I follow up. 362 00:24:28.480 --> 00:24:32.320 And I find out she's charging peanuts. 363 00:24:32.320 --> 00:24:34.360 She got three clients, but she did it 364 00:24:34.360 --> 00:24:35.960 by practically giving it away. 365 00:24:38.560 --> 00:24:41.160 Why are we doing this? 366 00:24:41.200 --> 00:24:44.320 Why are we not charging? 367 00:24:44.320 --> 00:24:50.720 And so we talked about the money mindsets. 368 00:24:50.720 --> 00:24:55.840 And I looked at her sales presentation. 369 00:24:55.840 --> 00:24:57.720 Remember, I've been teaching all week. 370 00:24:57.720 --> 00:24:59.000 This is a combination. 371 00:24:59.000 --> 00:25:01.040 It always is. 372 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:04.720 Mindset plus skill set plus right action equals results. 373 00:25:04.720 --> 00:25:06.280 You should have that memorized by now. 374 00:25:06.480 --> 00:25:10.880 Mindset, right, plus skill set, plus right action equals results. 375 00:25:11.080 --> 00:25:11.880 Right. 376 00:25:12.080 --> 00:25:15.600 So, you know, for many, you know, 377 00:25:15.800 --> 00:25:18.520 Kim and I were having this conversation yesterday. 378 00:25:18.520 --> 00:25:21.000 Right. So there's there's some mindset shift, 379 00:25:21.200 --> 00:25:26.040 but there's also some uplifting skill sets and there's some right actions to take. 380 00:25:26.240 --> 00:25:29.760 So I help her with her sales conversation. 381 00:25:29.760 --> 00:25:31.680 And this is often where coaches fall down. 382 00:25:31.880 --> 00:25:36.200 So I say, OK, you know, tell me, tell me what it is that you're selling. 383 00:25:36.400 --> 00:25:38.360 Sell me. Give me your presentation. 384 00:25:38.560 --> 00:25:41.320 And I could see she was so deep in the weeds. 385 00:25:41.520 --> 00:25:44.440 Right. So I walked her through it. 386 00:25:44.640 --> 00:25:49.920 I get a testimony that night, same day, that night she got a full paying client. 387 00:25:50.120 --> 00:25:56.640 So when I share these things, they impact every area of your life, 388 00:25:56.800 --> 00:25:59.720 how you're seeing yourself. 389 00:25:59.920 --> 00:26:06.480 OK, if you're seeing yourself like a grasshopper, then you're going to set. 390 00:26:06.680 --> 00:26:09.680 We said before, it's the stories that is the standards. 391 00:26:09.880 --> 00:26:14.040 If you're seeing yourself like a grasshopper, you're going to set grasshopper 392 00:26:14.240 --> 00:26:16.080 standards. 393 00:26:16.280 --> 00:26:19.960 And the grasshopper is not going to jump over the building. 394 00:26:20.160 --> 00:26:25.760 If you see yourself as created in the image of God in like Superman, right, 395 00:26:25.960 --> 00:26:28.760 you're going to set Superwoman, Superman standards. 396 00:26:28.960 --> 00:26:33.800 All right. Let me know if like you're relating to what I'm saying. 397 00:26:34.000 --> 00:26:38.880 Any of you, any of you, this is hitting home. 398 00:26:39.080 --> 00:26:42.360 So I'm curious. 399 00:26:42.560 --> 00:26:45.840 I'm curious, maybe make a note for yourself, 400 00:26:46.040 --> 00:26:53.040 where have you said some I am's and where have you said I am not and just settled 401 00:26:53.040 --> 00:26:58.120 there like you said, well, I'm just not good at sales. 402 00:26:58.320 --> 00:26:59.960 But that was just a complete cop out. 403 00:27:00.160 --> 00:27:01.440 Did you take a sales class? 404 00:27:01.640 --> 00:27:03.440 Did you listen in the Prosper Leader 405 00:27:03.640 --> 00:27:07.240 membership to the successful sales conversation and the encore? 406 00:27:07.440 --> 00:27:10.040 There's five hours of sales training right there. 407 00:27:10.240 --> 00:27:12.600 Those of you VIP, you got that for free. 408 00:27:12.800 --> 00:27:15.240 It's in the Prosper Leader membership, right? 409 00:27:15.440 --> 00:27:17.040 Did you do something about it? 410 00:27:17.240 --> 00:27:19.840 Did you say, well, I'm not very good at speaking? 411 00:27:20.080 --> 00:27:23.160 Or did you shift the mindset and say, 412 00:27:23.360 --> 00:27:28.000 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me and I'm going to up level 413 00:27:28.200 --> 00:27:32.560 my skill set so that I am good at sales in a heart centered, 414 00:27:32.760 --> 00:27:37.720 integrous, God glorifying way, I am good at speaking. 415 00:27:37.920 --> 00:27:43.760 Did you read my successful speaking secrets of Jesus? 416 00:27:43.960 --> 00:27:48.520 Like, did you did you listen to anything on how to speak? 417 00:27:48.560 --> 00:27:55.000 You see, we just kind of the lowest level of sinking down is what you see here. 418 00:27:55.200 --> 00:27:57.160 It's an apathy kind of place. 419 00:27:57.360 --> 00:27:58.800 It's a settling place. 420 00:27:59.000 --> 00:28:02.280 And so they're just like, well, you know what? 421 00:28:02.480 --> 00:28:06.320 We were like grasshoppers and that's how they saw us. 422 00:28:06.520 --> 00:28:08.800 And it's all hopeless. 423 00:28:09.760 --> 00:28:13.680 You want to know how to rise through these 424 00:28:13.800 --> 00:28:18.080 levels of shedding the beliefs. 425 00:28:18.280 --> 00:28:22.000 And seeing who God 426 00:28:22.200 --> 00:28:26.440 has called you to be, and so all of this is inside of you, 427 00:28:26.640 --> 00:28:30.920 you've learned it all week, but it's shedding those grasshopper 428 00:28:31.120 --> 00:28:34.840 beliefs about yourself. 429 00:28:35.040 --> 00:28:37.360 Am I talking to anybody? 430 00:28:37.560 --> 00:28:41.360 OK, Susan, this is the very topic of my meditation this morning. 431 00:28:41.560 --> 00:28:42.720 Yes. 432 00:28:42.920 --> 00:28:44.880 Yeah. And I love that. 433 00:28:45.080 --> 00:28:48.240 She says, I tell myself I need many things in my business. 434 00:28:48.440 --> 00:28:52.560 Right. And yet I'm not being resourceful. 435 00:28:52.760 --> 00:28:54.760 I love it. You're here today. 436 00:28:54.960 --> 00:28:56.400 You're staying in the game. 437 00:28:56.600 --> 00:28:59.640 I appreciate your honesty and your transparency with that. 438 00:28:59.840 --> 00:29:02.600 That's the key. There's never a lack of resources. 439 00:29:02.800 --> 00:29:05.520 There's only a lack of us being resourcefulness. 440 00:29:05.720 --> 00:29:07.960 God has put all the resources on the planet, 441 00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:12.360 the cattle on a thousand hills, the gold, the silver, the infinite wealth. 442 00:29:12.360 --> 00:29:14.680 I mean, everything is already here. 443 00:29:14.880 --> 00:29:17.880 It's the resourcefulness, but you won't tap in. 444 00:29:18.080 --> 00:29:20.120 This is this is the little glitch right here. 445 00:29:20.320 --> 00:29:23.000 You won't tap into the resourcefulness 446 00:29:23.200 --> 00:29:27.120 if you're still stuck in the grasshopper mindset. 447 00:29:27.320 --> 00:29:33.600 That victim mindset that, you know, I can't, which is really I won't, 448 00:29:33.800 --> 00:29:37.120 but I can't and. 449 00:29:37.320 --> 00:29:41.120 It's been this way for generations, this is what happens in my family, 450 00:29:41.120 --> 00:29:44.680 whatever it is, yada, yada, yada, the stories that we tell. 451 00:29:44.880 --> 00:29:49.800 OK, am I talking to anybody, anybody getting something already? 452 00:29:50.000 --> 00:29:54.440 One of the things I encourage you when you're listening to this is that you're 453 00:29:54.640 --> 00:29:59.880 making notes on the side, the thing that really jumps and then go deep afterwards to. 454 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:01.800 to really apply this. 455 00:30:01.800 --> 00:30:06.800 So there's how we see ourselves, 456 00:30:06.800 --> 00:30:11.320 and then there is how others see us. 457 00:30:13.000 --> 00:30:18.000 And this is really amazing. 458 00:30:18.760 --> 00:30:20.800 Jesus asks a question. 459 00:30:22.680 --> 00:30:25.240 Who do people say I am? 460 00:30:26.280 --> 00:30:27.800 Who do people say I am? 461 00:30:28.800 --> 00:30:31.520 And they start throwing out answers. 462 00:30:31.520 --> 00:30:33.000 Well, some say you're a prophet. 463 00:30:33.000 --> 00:30:34.880 Some say you're Elijah, come back. 464 00:30:34.880 --> 00:30:37.760 Some say you're a good teacher, kind of like today. 465 00:30:37.760 --> 00:30:39.560 Some people say a lot of things. 466 00:30:40.520 --> 00:30:45.520 And then he looks at them and he says, 467 00:30:45.600 --> 00:30:50.600 but who do you say that I am? 468 00:30:50.800 --> 00:30:52.560 We're reading from your study guide. 469 00:30:52.560 --> 00:30:55.320 By the way, did you all get the new study guide for today? 470 00:30:55.320 --> 00:30:56.840 If not, Linda, I'm afraid, 471 00:30:56.840 --> 00:30:58.240 in case some people didn't get it, 472 00:30:58.240 --> 00:30:59.200 if you could put the link. 473 00:30:59.200 --> 00:31:01.760 It's different than the original study guide. 474 00:31:01.760 --> 00:31:06.000 I did email it out today, so it should be in your email. 475 00:31:06.000 --> 00:31:08.640 But Linda, yeah, we're getting people did not get it. 476 00:31:08.640 --> 00:31:12.400 So Linda, could you pop the study guide link, 477 00:31:12.400 --> 00:31:16.240 or all of you, it is in your email. 478 00:31:18.200 --> 00:31:20.520 I did send it today to everybody. 479 00:31:21.480 --> 00:31:24.440 But yeah, Linda's gonna get it and pop it in there for you 480 00:31:24.440 --> 00:31:26.600 because I know it's different than the other, 481 00:31:27.360 --> 00:31:28.520 and I want you to have this, okay. 482 00:31:28.520 --> 00:31:31.280 But we'll read from it now while she's getting you that. 483 00:31:31.280 --> 00:31:33.560 Okay, yeah, people are saying thank you, 484 00:31:33.560 --> 00:31:34.440 they didn't get it. 485 00:31:34.440 --> 00:31:39.440 Okay, so Jesus says, but who do you say that I am? 486 00:31:40.360 --> 00:31:44.440 And of course, Simon Peter is always the first 487 00:31:44.440 --> 00:31:47.040 to pop up and pop off, right? 488 00:31:47.040 --> 00:31:52.040 And he says, you are Christ, the Messiah, the anointed. 489 00:31:52.880 --> 00:31:57.320 You are the son of the living God. 490 00:31:58.760 --> 00:32:00.560 There it is, you guys, there's the Google link 491 00:32:00.560 --> 00:32:01.740 for the study guide. 492 00:32:02.760 --> 00:32:06.280 Can you put it in the Facebook group too, please, Linda? 493 00:32:06.280 --> 00:32:11.280 All right, so then Jesus answers him and says, blessed. 494 00:32:15.380 --> 00:32:17.360 I'm reading from the Amplified translation, 495 00:32:17.360 --> 00:32:20.700 so it gives you all the words, happy, spiritually secured, 496 00:32:20.740 --> 00:32:24.380 favored by God, are you Simon, son of Jonah? 497 00:32:24.380 --> 00:32:26.900 Because flesh and blood, mortal man 498 00:32:26.900 --> 00:32:31.900 did not reveal this to you, but my father who is in heaven. 499 00:32:34.940 --> 00:32:37.540 Now, many of you have probably read that, 500 00:32:37.540 --> 00:32:40.100 you've glossed over that, and you're like, wow, okay, 501 00:32:40.100 --> 00:32:42.380 the Holy Spirit really spoke through Peter 502 00:32:42.380 --> 00:32:44.160 and Peter got it. 503 00:32:45.220 --> 00:32:48.940 What I want you to notice in this that's really important, 504 00:32:48.940 --> 00:32:51.420 this is something that the Lord hit me with, 505 00:32:51.420 --> 00:32:53.260 I think it was at one of the last retreats 506 00:32:53.260 --> 00:32:56.820 I was doing for his view, and it really hit me 507 00:32:56.820 --> 00:33:01.820 and I taught on this, for Jesus to recognize 508 00:33:02.740 --> 00:33:06.300 that Peter's answer was truth, 509 00:33:06.300 --> 00:33:09.960 he had to already know his own identity. 510 00:33:11.220 --> 00:33:13.200 He would not have been able to answer that 511 00:33:13.200 --> 00:33:17.900 if he was not already rock solid himself in who he was. 512 00:33:17.900 --> 00:33:18.920 You get that? 513 00:33:19.980 --> 00:33:24.180 So in that moment, he wasn't seeking affirmation, 514 00:33:24.180 --> 00:33:25.540 oh, tell me who am I? 515 00:33:25.540 --> 00:33:27.980 Come on, guys, I need you to pick me up, 516 00:33:27.980 --> 00:33:30.780 encourage me, please, really, do you see that in me? 517 00:33:30.780 --> 00:33:33.420 Oh, thank you, I don't see that in myself. 518 00:33:33.420 --> 00:33:34.940 How often do we do that? 519 00:33:34.940 --> 00:33:36.260 You know, what do you guys see? 520 00:33:36.260 --> 00:33:39.220 Oh, really, you see that, you get a compliment, right? 521 00:33:39.220 --> 00:33:40.980 And either you just resist it and go, 522 00:33:40.980 --> 00:33:43.120 no, definitely, that's not me, you don't believe it, 523 00:33:43.120 --> 00:33:46.100 or you go, oh, thank you, right? 524 00:33:46.100 --> 00:33:47.940 Jesus wasn't doing that here. 525 00:33:49.740 --> 00:33:51.100 He just went, you know what, 526 00:33:51.100 --> 00:33:52.860 you're walking in divine revelation, 527 00:33:52.860 --> 00:33:54.820 that's exactly who I am. 528 00:33:55.860 --> 00:33:57.900 Where did he get that from? 529 00:33:59.620 --> 00:34:02.540 Where did he know so well? 530 00:34:03.940 --> 00:34:08.179 Well, he heard from the Lord, 531 00:34:08.179 --> 00:34:13.179 I'm sure growing up, he heard the miracle stories, 532 00:34:14.179 --> 00:34:18.739 how he was born in a virgin and how, you know, 533 00:34:18.739 --> 00:34:21.020 the wise men came and the angels came. 534 00:34:21.020 --> 00:34:25.260 I'm sure he had a history that kind of helped a little bit 535 00:34:25.260 --> 00:34:29.980 to set him apart, but when he went to get baptized 536 00:34:29.980 --> 00:34:34.340 before his ministry and the heavens opened 537 00:34:34.340 --> 00:34:36.820 and the voice of God spoke and said, 538 00:34:36.820 --> 00:34:41.360 this is my son in whom I'm well pleased. 539 00:34:42.320 --> 00:34:46.320 And the Holy Spirit landed on him like a dove. 540 00:34:46.320 --> 00:34:50.239 There you had Father, Son, and Holy Spirit right there. 541 00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:53.360 He got his identity from the Father. 542 00:34:53.360 --> 00:34:55.600 What did God say about him? 543 00:34:55.600 --> 00:34:58.000 He had heard cool stories from his parents 544 00:34:58.000 --> 00:35:00.160 and from his cousins, you know. 545 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.760 and all the miracles and stuff. 546 00:35:01.760 --> 00:35:03.040 He'd heard cool stories. 547 00:35:03.040 --> 00:35:05.480 And many of you have sat in churches 548 00:35:05.480 --> 00:35:09.060 or you've heard cool stories from your parents or whatever, 549 00:35:09.060 --> 00:35:10.520 but it didn't become real. 550 00:35:10.520 --> 00:35:12.640 I don't think until that moment 551 00:35:12.640 --> 00:35:15.520 when he tapped in and he heard God himself. 552 00:35:15.520 --> 00:35:18.600 But that wasn't enough because we can read the word 553 00:35:18.600 --> 00:35:23.240 and go, wow, says that I'm created in the image of God. 554 00:35:23.240 --> 00:35:25.520 Wow, says that I'm, you know, 555 00:35:25.520 --> 00:35:27.480 son and daughter of the most high God. 556 00:35:27.480 --> 00:35:30.240 Wow, says I'm a temple of the Holy Spirit. 557 00:35:30.240 --> 00:35:34.000 But none of that matters until we internalize that, right? 558 00:35:34.840 --> 00:35:38.480 So it's interesting what it says. 559 00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:42.240 It says that he went in the desert straight from there 560 00:35:43.180 --> 00:35:47.780 to fast and actually even to be tested. 561 00:35:49.120 --> 00:35:53.140 This is the butterfly pressing against the cocoon. 562 00:35:54.920 --> 00:35:57.200 Because it actually, when you read the scriptures, 563 00:35:57.920 --> 00:36:00.040 it says the Holy Spirit led him into the desert 564 00:36:00.040 --> 00:36:01.640 to be tested and tempted. 565 00:36:06.080 --> 00:36:10.080 And what exactly was he tested in? 566 00:36:12.900 --> 00:36:16.360 It's the same thing you're going to be tested in 567 00:36:16.360 --> 00:36:20.060 before you step fully into your full identity 568 00:36:20.060 --> 00:36:21.600 of who you are. 569 00:36:21.600 --> 00:36:23.920 You're always gonna be tested in the same two areas 570 00:36:23.920 --> 00:36:25.140 he was tested in. 571 00:36:27.520 --> 00:36:28.840 What did it say? 572 00:36:31.040 --> 00:36:36.040 If you are the son of God. 573 00:36:37.400 --> 00:36:39.140 Prove it by doing this. 574 00:36:41.680 --> 00:36:45.600 If, you see the first thing that's gonna be attacked 575 00:36:46.680 --> 00:36:49.480 is your identity. 576 00:36:49.480 --> 00:36:52.360 If you're the son of God. 577 00:36:54.080 --> 00:36:55.640 All right, prove it. 578 00:36:55.680 --> 00:36:57.560 Get into works. 579 00:36:57.560 --> 00:37:00.680 If you think you're really, really powerful, 580 00:37:00.680 --> 00:37:01.960 get in there and prove it. 581 00:37:06.720 --> 00:37:10.280 The second thing that gets attacked that's so interesting 582 00:37:11.160 --> 00:37:14.320 is did God really say? 583 00:37:14.320 --> 00:37:16.160 We need you to mute, please. 584 00:37:16.160 --> 00:37:18.320 Did God really say? 585 00:37:18.320 --> 00:37:20.640 So you're going to be attacked in two areas, 586 00:37:20.640 --> 00:37:23.680 in your identity and in the word. 587 00:37:23.680 --> 00:37:26.760 This is what you have to grow through and be rock solid 588 00:37:26.760 --> 00:37:31.000 and know I am who God says I am. 589 00:37:31.000 --> 00:37:33.500 I can do what God says I can do. 590 00:37:34.680 --> 00:37:39.040 What did we read yesterday about the rest? 591 00:37:39.040 --> 00:37:41.720 That they didn't enter into the rest 592 00:37:41.720 --> 00:37:45.040 because they didn't add their faith to the word. 593 00:37:45.040 --> 00:37:46.040 They had the word, 594 00:37:46.040 --> 00:37:49.280 but they didn't add their faith to the word. 595 00:37:49.280 --> 00:37:52.040 So you've got the word who you are. 596 00:37:52.040 --> 00:37:54.040 You've maybe even seen miracles, 597 00:37:54.040 --> 00:37:55.920 read miracles, heard miracles, 598 00:37:55.920 --> 00:37:59.840 but you've got to add your faith to that word. 599 00:37:59.840 --> 00:38:04.840 And you've got to identify who you are. 600 00:38:05.960 --> 00:38:08.280 I need you to mute yourself, please. 601 00:38:08.280 --> 00:38:11.320 Can you see, Linda, who that is? 602 00:38:13.200 --> 00:38:14.600 Powerful, okay. 603 00:38:15.040 --> 00:38:20.040 So the question as you're beginning all of this is, 604 00:38:23.280 --> 00:38:28.280 does how you see yourself right now line up with the word? 605 00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:35.960 Are your thoughts, your feelings, your words, 606 00:38:38.720 --> 00:38:40.440 do they line up with truth? 607 00:38:40.480 --> 00:38:44.800 Do they line up with the word of God? 608 00:38:46.680 --> 00:38:50.920 Now, let me tell you how I can almost immediately know 609 00:38:50.920 --> 00:38:52.320 that you're believing a lie. 610 00:38:52.320 --> 00:38:55.120 Just right off the top, I can tell you're believing a lie. 611 00:38:55.120 --> 00:38:57.200 Here's your lie detector test. 612 00:38:58.680 --> 00:39:00.820 It makes you feel really lousy. 613 00:39:04.800 --> 00:39:08.320 You feel fear, you feel frustration, 614 00:39:08.320 --> 00:39:12.760 you feel limiting beliefs, you feel stuck, 615 00:39:12.760 --> 00:39:14.360 you feel paralyzed. 616 00:39:14.360 --> 00:39:17.160 Like you feel any of these low frequency things, 617 00:39:17.160 --> 00:39:18.880 I'm already telling you you're believing a lie. 618 00:39:18.880 --> 00:39:21.360 There's your lie detector test. 619 00:39:21.360 --> 00:39:23.640 You feel contracted. 620 00:39:23.640 --> 00:39:26.040 You see, fear contracts. 621 00:39:28.680 --> 00:39:33.480 Are you feeling creative and expansive? 622 00:39:33.480 --> 00:39:36.720 Then there's a good chance you're tapped into truth. 623 00:39:36.720 --> 00:39:39.520 So there's, are you feeling heavy? 624 00:39:40.720 --> 00:39:44.200 These are just little, your body telling you. 625 00:39:44.200 --> 00:39:45.600 You feeling heavy? 626 00:39:46.800 --> 00:39:49.080 Chances are you're not tapped into truth. 627 00:39:50.520 --> 00:39:54.960 You feeling light, feeling joy, expansion? 628 00:39:54.960 --> 00:39:56.520 Chances are. 629 00:39:56.520 --> 00:39:58.600 Any of you relating, I'm just curious. 630 00:39:58.600 --> 00:40:00.160 I wanna pause for a second. 631 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:01.920 Hop in the chat. 632 00:40:01.920 --> 00:40:03.400 What's jumping out for you? 633 00:40:03.400 --> 00:40:05.240 Let's digest this. 634 00:40:07.320 --> 00:40:08.880 Let's digest this. 635 00:40:11.480 --> 00:40:12.300 Joy. 636 00:40:14.120 --> 00:40:15.040 Tell me more. 637 00:40:17.640 --> 00:40:18.480 Okay. 638 00:40:18.480 --> 00:40:19.300 You're feeling joy. 639 00:40:19.300 --> 00:40:21.520 You're feeling creative. 640 00:40:21.520 --> 00:40:23.100 You're probably tapped in with truth. 641 00:40:23.100 --> 00:40:24.200 It's hitting home. 642 00:40:26.360 --> 00:40:28.040 Butterfly jumping out at you. 643 00:40:28.040 --> 00:40:29.440 The story of the struggle. 644 00:40:29.440 --> 00:40:31.000 It's all part of the process. 645 00:40:31.000 --> 00:40:32.480 Love it. 646 00:40:32.480 --> 00:40:33.320 Love it. 647 00:40:34.120 --> 00:40:36.200 Anybody else getting something right now 648 00:40:36.200 --> 00:40:39.560 that you can just apply and glean right here, right now? 649 00:40:41.880 --> 00:40:46.500 So you're looking at what you're saying to yourself, 650 00:40:46.500 --> 00:40:49.340 primarily your self-talk, 651 00:40:49.340 --> 00:40:54.180 and is it empowering or is it disempowering? 652 00:40:54.740 --> 00:40:55.580 Love it. 653 00:40:59.300 --> 00:41:00.140 Love it. 654 00:41:00.140 --> 00:41:01.540 Love what you guys are writing. 655 00:41:02.500 --> 00:41:04.460 Is what I'm saying to myself. 656 00:41:04.460 --> 00:41:08.500 So there's a series of four questions. 657 00:41:09.340 --> 00:41:11.500 Let's let somebody in. 658 00:41:11.500 --> 00:41:12.780 There we go. 659 00:41:12.780 --> 00:41:17.780 There's a series of questions that I often ask. 660 00:41:17.820 --> 00:41:22.620 So first lie detector is you can just go, 661 00:41:22.700 --> 00:41:24.380 am I feeling contracted? 662 00:41:24.380 --> 00:41:26.860 Am I feeling heavy? 663 00:41:26.860 --> 00:41:28.340 It's probably lie-based. 664 00:41:28.340 --> 00:41:31.900 Am I feeling expansive, creative, light? 665 00:41:31.900 --> 00:41:34.300 You're probably tapped into the truth, okay? 666 00:41:34.300 --> 00:41:38.100 That's like just a quick lie detector, okay? 667 00:41:39.420 --> 00:41:40.260 Yes. 668 00:41:40.260 --> 00:41:42.460 Speak to yourself, even in the mirror, 669 00:41:42.460 --> 00:41:43.660 even in front of your husband. 670 00:41:43.660 --> 00:41:44.580 Absolutely. 671 00:41:44.580 --> 00:41:45.460 Love that. 672 00:41:45.460 --> 00:41:49.380 So often when I need to get the root of this with someone, 673 00:41:49.380 --> 00:41:52.860 they'll come to me and basically in my own way, 674 00:41:52.860 --> 00:41:54.800 I'm saying, tell me your story. 675 00:41:54.800 --> 00:41:57.740 And they're basically telling me what they can't do 676 00:41:57.740 --> 00:41:58.860 and what they're not, 677 00:41:58.860 --> 00:42:02.940 and what it is that's keeping them from that. 678 00:42:02.940 --> 00:42:04.020 That's kind of the story. 679 00:42:04.020 --> 00:42:07.140 Remember, we're all part of our story and our standards. 680 00:42:07.140 --> 00:42:11.320 So I write down, you could do this yourself. 681 00:42:11.320 --> 00:42:16.320 So I write down what it is that they're saying, okay? 682 00:42:17.240 --> 00:42:20.340 And some of you I've done this with already. 683 00:42:22.640 --> 00:42:24.520 Linda, are you open to sharing? 684 00:42:24.520 --> 00:42:26.520 Do you remember when we did this process? 685 00:42:26.520 --> 00:42:28.480 Are you open or is it too far removed? 686 00:42:28.480 --> 00:42:30.120 That is probably not top of mind. 687 00:42:31.400 --> 00:42:34.840 Pop in the chat or unmute yourself. 688 00:42:34.840 --> 00:42:36.240 I could give a real example. 689 00:42:36.240 --> 00:42:39.600 So the process of what? 690 00:42:39.600 --> 00:42:41.520 The intensive that you did? 691 00:42:41.520 --> 00:42:45.440 Where we looked at what it was you were believing, 692 00:42:45.480 --> 00:42:47.400 and then we asked a series of four questions, 693 00:42:47.400 --> 00:42:48.520 and then we did some tapping. 694 00:42:48.520 --> 00:42:49.560 Do you remember some of that? 695 00:42:49.560 --> 00:42:50.400 Is that fresh in you? 696 00:42:50.400 --> 00:42:51.840 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 697 00:42:51.840 --> 00:42:54.880 Okay, so are you open to sharing here? 698 00:42:54.880 --> 00:42:56.240 Is that okay or not? 699 00:42:56.240 --> 00:42:57.080 Yeah. 700 00:42:57.080 --> 00:42:57.920 Okay, all right. 701 00:42:57.920 --> 00:43:00.160 Sometimes real is just better than me making it up 702 00:43:00.160 --> 00:43:01.080 because I do this all day, 703 00:43:01.080 --> 00:43:03.640 but you're right in front of my camera, so it's you. 704 00:43:03.640 --> 00:43:05.240 You get to choose this, okay. 705 00:43:05.240 --> 00:43:08.520 So thank you for participating. 706 00:43:08.520 --> 00:43:11.960 So the first thing is I have them make a statement. 707 00:43:11.960 --> 00:43:14.040 Do you remember your statement that you were making 708 00:43:14.040 --> 00:43:16.880 before we worked through it at all or the gist of it? 709 00:43:18.760 --> 00:43:19.600 There were a bunch. 710 00:43:19.600 --> 00:43:20.600 I think it was something like, 711 00:43:20.600 --> 00:43:23.040 I need to go along to get along. 712 00:43:23.040 --> 00:43:23.880 I think it was- 713 00:43:23.880 --> 00:43:25.160 Yeah, that was one. 714 00:43:25.160 --> 00:43:26.520 That was absolutely one. 715 00:43:26.520 --> 00:43:27.360 Okay, yeah. 716 00:43:27.360 --> 00:43:29.360 So it was about settling. 717 00:43:29.360 --> 00:43:31.120 She had just been taught, 718 00:43:31.120 --> 00:43:34.120 whether I believe in something or whether I like it or not, 719 00:43:34.120 --> 00:43:37.280 I need to go along to get along. 720 00:43:37.280 --> 00:43:38.480 And then was there anything more? 721 00:43:38.480 --> 00:43:40.160 I mean, this is just off the top of my head. 722 00:43:40.160 --> 00:43:41.760 Do you remember? 723 00:43:41.800 --> 00:43:44.880 Well, that was one 724 00:43:44.880 --> 00:43:48.000 because I'm sandwiched between two sisters 725 00:43:48.000 --> 00:43:51.800 that have really big personalities. 726 00:43:51.800 --> 00:43:52.920 So that was definitely one 727 00:43:52.920 --> 00:43:55.440 where I was the one that was leaned on 728 00:43:55.440 --> 00:43:59.280 to just go with the flow, go with the flow, right? 729 00:43:59.280 --> 00:44:03.120 And then one of the other ones connected to my business, 730 00:44:03.120 --> 00:44:05.760 because we were working the mindset coach aspect 731 00:44:05.760 --> 00:44:08.960 and the created to bloom business now 732 00:44:09.560 --> 00:44:12.360 is the one that you've said before. 733 00:44:12.360 --> 00:44:16.080 And that is, it'll just take up all my time. 734 00:44:16.080 --> 00:44:17.280 It'll be so much work. 735 00:44:18.600 --> 00:44:20.040 Thank you for reminding me. 736 00:44:20.040 --> 00:44:20.960 Yeah, yeah. 737 00:44:20.960 --> 00:44:23.360 So there was two couched in there. 738 00:44:23.360 --> 00:44:25.680 There was one that was kind of creating 739 00:44:25.680 --> 00:44:27.960 some resentment and stuckness and stuff. 740 00:44:27.960 --> 00:44:31.160 And the second one was here she's launching 741 00:44:31.160 --> 00:44:33.600 her created to bloom, her VA business. 742 00:44:33.600 --> 00:44:38.600 And the thought was, if I grow this, 743 00:44:38.600 --> 00:44:41.080 I'm going to lose all my freedom, right? 744 00:44:41.080 --> 00:44:42.880 And we talked about that all week 745 00:44:42.880 --> 00:44:46.160 that that's a straight up value conflict, okay? 746 00:44:46.160 --> 00:44:48.040 And so what it does is it keeps us 747 00:44:48.040 --> 00:44:49.440 putting the gas in the brakes. 748 00:44:49.440 --> 00:44:53.280 Many of us have these, if I do this, I'm going to lose 749 00:44:53.280 --> 00:44:55.640 or I'm going to lose my friends. 750 00:44:55.640 --> 00:44:58.680 Or if I do this, I'm going to lose my freedom. 751 00:44:58.680 --> 00:45:00.080 Or, you know, we have these. 752 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:02.880 things about what we're going to lose, okay? 753 00:45:02.880 --> 00:45:06.560 And so what we did, so the first thing you do 754 00:45:06.560 --> 00:45:08.600 is you just got to get clear on what is it 755 00:45:08.600 --> 00:45:11.640 that you've been believing, okay? 756 00:45:11.640 --> 00:45:13.880 And because this is what's keeping you stuck. 757 00:45:13.880 --> 00:45:16.240 So I'm giving you some real examples. 758 00:45:16.240 --> 00:45:21.240 And the first question that I ask and you ask yourself is, 759 00:45:21.280 --> 00:45:26.280 is that, you could write this down and you say, 760 00:45:26.360 --> 00:45:29.360 is that true? 761 00:45:29.360 --> 00:45:32.980 Can I absolutely know that's true? 762 00:45:35.080 --> 00:45:37.920 And I didn't invent these questions. 763 00:45:37.920 --> 00:45:40.960 This comes from the work and I'm trying to think 764 00:45:40.960 --> 00:45:43.920 of her name right now, but is that true? 765 00:45:43.920 --> 00:45:47.840 Can I absolutely know that's true? 766 00:45:49.440 --> 00:45:50.640 It might feel true, 767 00:45:50.640 --> 00:45:52.260 because that's why you've been believing it. 768 00:45:52.260 --> 00:45:54.580 But when you really back up and you go, 769 00:45:54.580 --> 00:45:56.660 no, actually it's not true. 770 00:45:56.660 --> 00:45:59.500 Like, do you absolutely know beyond a shadow of a doubt 771 00:45:59.500 --> 00:46:01.060 that if you build a business 772 00:46:01.060 --> 00:46:03.780 that you're going to lose your freedom? 773 00:46:03.780 --> 00:46:05.820 Do you absolutely know, 774 00:46:05.820 --> 00:46:08.820 like whatever it is you've been believing, right? 775 00:46:08.820 --> 00:46:13.820 And so the first thing that happens is we realize 776 00:46:14.260 --> 00:46:19.260 what the Bible calls cleverly crafted stories. 777 00:46:19.260 --> 00:46:23.480 We believe these stories, 2 Corinthians 10, five. 778 00:46:23.480 --> 00:46:27.100 We believe these stories that exalt themselves above truth. 779 00:46:28.040 --> 00:46:31.420 And so that was a story exalting itself above truth. 780 00:46:31.420 --> 00:46:34.040 Because if that was true, 781 00:46:34.040 --> 00:46:37.500 then every single person that has a big business 782 00:46:37.500 --> 00:46:38.760 has no freedom. 783 00:46:38.760 --> 00:46:41.520 I'm sorry, most of the eight figure earners I know 784 00:46:41.520 --> 00:46:43.880 take month long vacations often. 785 00:46:43.880 --> 00:46:45.980 They take one week off a month. 786 00:46:45.980 --> 00:46:48.640 They've got a team doing everything for them. 787 00:46:48.640 --> 00:46:52.320 I'm sorry, I don't see that as true. 788 00:46:52.320 --> 00:46:54.560 I don't think anybody would go into business 789 00:46:54.560 --> 00:46:55.440 if that was true. 790 00:46:55.440 --> 00:46:57.560 And yet I believe that lie 791 00:46:57.560 --> 00:47:01.240 because it had been my experience personally. 792 00:47:01.240 --> 00:47:03.360 Because of my own wounding, 793 00:47:03.360 --> 00:47:05.360 operating from my core wounding 794 00:47:05.360 --> 00:47:08.200 and my desire for perfectionism, 795 00:47:08.200 --> 00:47:10.840 I thought because of my own programming, 796 00:47:10.840 --> 00:47:13.040 I thought I had to work myself to the bone 797 00:47:13.040 --> 00:47:16.000 seven days, 24 hours a day, okay? 798 00:47:16.000 --> 00:47:19.600 So my experience or what had been passed on to me, 799 00:47:19.600 --> 00:47:21.240 I saw my father do that. 800 00:47:21.240 --> 00:47:22.480 He was a workaholic. 801 00:47:22.480 --> 00:47:24.720 What gets passed down generationally, 802 00:47:24.720 --> 00:47:26.040 we believe it's true. 803 00:47:26.040 --> 00:47:27.320 That's why we believed it. 804 00:47:27.320 --> 00:47:30.560 But when we back up and we go, is that true? 805 00:47:31.840 --> 00:47:36.380 And then we go, no, actually it's not. 806 00:47:36.380 --> 00:47:38.440 And that's what I did with Linda 807 00:47:38.440 --> 00:47:40.640 because she knows, she saw. 808 00:47:40.640 --> 00:47:43.000 Like the bigger my business got, 809 00:47:43.000 --> 00:47:44.920 the more freedom I had. 810 00:47:44.920 --> 00:47:47.880 I remember the day that probably four or five years ago 811 00:47:47.880 --> 00:47:50.360 when I hired a professional lead generation team 812 00:47:50.360 --> 00:47:52.200 and I never had to look for a lead again. 813 00:47:52.200 --> 00:47:54.540 I'm sorry, that's freedom in my opinion. 814 00:47:54.540 --> 00:47:56.560 My calendar's always booked. 815 00:47:56.560 --> 00:47:58.400 That's pretty darn freedom. 816 00:47:58.400 --> 00:47:59.800 I know where the leads are coming from. 817 00:47:59.800 --> 00:48:02.400 And then I remember when I hired a copywriter. 818 00:48:02.400 --> 00:48:05.520 And then I remember when I hired several VAs. 819 00:48:05.520 --> 00:48:09.800 And then I remember when AI came out and I teach you all 820 00:48:09.800 --> 00:48:12.040 and I bonused you an AI course 821 00:48:12.040 --> 00:48:15.760 in the Prosper Leader membership as part of VIP. 822 00:48:15.760 --> 00:48:19.020 If you're not VIP, by the way, I don't even understand. 823 00:48:19.020 --> 00:48:23.020 I offered you for $47, you got $197 membership. 824 00:48:23.020 --> 00:48:25.580 If you haven't done that yet, I don't get it. 825 00:48:25.580 --> 00:48:27.600 And in there was an AI course 826 00:48:27.600 --> 00:48:30.820 to save you 15 to 20 hours a week. 827 00:48:30.820 --> 00:48:34.100 That in itself, by the way, was $47. 828 00:48:34.100 --> 00:48:36.500 Like, come on, I don't even understand. 829 00:48:36.500 --> 00:48:38.720 It's beyond me, right? 830 00:48:38.720 --> 00:48:41.740 So I encourage you, Linda put the VIP link. 831 00:48:41.740 --> 00:48:43.260 It's just crazy. 832 00:48:43.260 --> 00:48:45.620 If you're not VIP yet, I don't understand. 833 00:48:45.620 --> 00:48:47.580 I'm offering you the world, okay? 834 00:48:47.580 --> 00:48:52.300 But anyway, so we decided, no, it's not true. 835 00:48:52.300 --> 00:48:54.660 And this is where what we're learning today, 836 00:48:54.660 --> 00:48:56.260 the rubber meets the road. 837 00:48:56.260 --> 00:48:59.660 And so we then came to the conclusion, 838 00:48:59.660 --> 00:49:02.340 oh, actually, that's a lie. 839 00:49:02.340 --> 00:49:05.540 That's what the Bible calls a cleverly crafted tale 840 00:49:05.540 --> 00:49:07.060 that exalts itself above truth. 841 00:49:07.060 --> 00:49:09.580 So the truth is I've been believing a lie. 842 00:49:09.580 --> 00:49:12.340 That's what's been keeping me stuck, paralyzed, playing small. 843 00:49:12.340 --> 00:49:14.000 I've been believing a lie. 844 00:49:14.000 --> 00:49:16.380 You've got to come to that revelation first. 845 00:49:17.220 --> 00:49:20.500 And then the second question to take that deeper 846 00:49:20.500 --> 00:49:25.500 is when you believe that lie, what's the fruit? 847 00:49:25.660 --> 00:49:28.420 Because every thought and feeling has a fruit. 848 00:49:28.420 --> 00:49:31.540 What's the fruit of believing that? 849 00:49:33.400 --> 00:49:36.900 And she would say, I play small. 850 00:49:36.900 --> 00:49:39.620 I don't even know if you remember some of the fruit, Linda, 851 00:49:39.620 --> 00:49:42.140 but pop up, I'm doing this off my head. 852 00:49:42.140 --> 00:49:46.380 But believing that lie, that if you build a big business, 853 00:49:46.380 --> 00:49:47.580 you were going to lose your freedom, 854 00:49:47.580 --> 00:49:49.740 what kind of fruit was that producing? 855 00:49:50.580 --> 00:49:52.060 Well, then you don't, I don't build. 856 00:49:52.060 --> 00:49:54.060 I just stay stuck. 857 00:49:54.060 --> 00:49:57.980 Yeah, stuckness, playing small. 858 00:49:57.980 --> 00:50:00.740 It's usually because you've been believing a lie about. 859 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:07.600 yourself or about life in your business, okay? So you identify it's a lie and then you look at the 860 00:50:07.600 --> 00:50:13.200 fruit. Now, Linda will tell you, I repeat this over and over. I'm wanting this to just really 861 00:50:13.200 --> 00:50:19.200 get in. So I'll say, so you've been believing a lie and I'll repeat that. And the fruit of 862 00:50:19.200 --> 00:50:26.240 believing that lie is that it's kept you playing small, not earning the income that you wanted to 863 00:50:26.240 --> 00:50:30.560 earn, not experiencing the fulfillment you wanted to experience, not touching lives the way you 864 00:50:30.560 --> 00:50:39.120 wanted to touch lives, wanted to get that. Okay. Linda, she's asking for the promo code. I'm 865 00:50:39.120 --> 00:50:44.160 thinking that's for the VIP. Is that what you're asking? Okay. I think she put it there, but pop 866 00:50:44.160 --> 00:50:51.680 it again there if you could, Linda, the VIP code. Okay. So we've been believing this lie and then 867 00:50:52.640 --> 00:50:57.680 it has this fruit. So now I'm going to expand and you're going to expand yourself. So you've 868 00:50:57.680 --> 00:51:02.480 been going, what's the lie I've been believing about myself that I can't do this, that I don't 869 00:51:02.480 --> 00:51:07.440 know enough, that I'm too old, that I'm too fat, that I don't have enough education, that I don't 870 00:51:07.440 --> 00:51:14.160 have enough training, that I, what is the lie you've been believing about yourself that you can't do 871 00:51:14.160 --> 00:51:20.720 what God has called you to do? And what fruit is that producing? Get clear on that. What is it 872 00:51:20.800 --> 00:51:28.800 keeping you from? Touching lives? Having the joy and satisfaction and fulfillment of it? 873 00:51:29.680 --> 00:51:36.640 Earning the money? Having freedom? What is this lie you've been believing about yourself? 874 00:51:38.080 --> 00:51:48.640 What is it? So then I say to expand the mind, if you are willing to let go, you've been believing 875 00:51:48.640 --> 00:51:56.560 a lie, it produces this fruit. If you were willing to let go of that lie and release that lie, 876 00:51:57.920 --> 00:52:01.600 what would be the fruit? What would be the fruit? 877 00:52:04.960 --> 00:52:10.720 Always, when I ask the first question, you've been believing a lie, what's the fruit? Always 878 00:52:10.720 --> 00:52:18.240 low frequency, fear, doubt, stuck, angry, sad, paralyzed, always low frequency fruit. 879 00:52:18.640 --> 00:52:25.120 Because every thought and belief has a fruit. If you're willing to let go of that belief, those 880 00:52:25.120 --> 00:52:31.920 thoughts, those feelings, what's the fruit? I'd be creative. I'd be free. I would just totally go for 881 00:52:31.920 --> 00:52:38.640 it. I'd be top of the world. I'd be on the moon. I would just, it would be fun. I'd be so excited. 882 00:52:38.640 --> 00:52:49.520 I would, and so it's always a high frequency. And then I'll just dive it in one more time 883 00:52:51.120 --> 00:52:55.840 and I'll say, can you give me any good reason? You've been believing a lie. Can you give me 884 00:52:55.840 --> 00:53:04.080 any good reason to continue to hold that lie? And the answer will be no, no. 885 00:53:04.240 --> 00:53:13.040 And here's where the rubber meets the road, ladies. You're God-given ability to choose. 886 00:53:15.200 --> 00:53:18.800 God has given you ability to choose your thoughts, or he wouldn't have told you to 887 00:53:18.800 --> 00:53:23.600 take every thought captive. God has given you the ability to renew your mind, 888 00:53:23.600 --> 00:53:26.160 or he wouldn't have told you that's how you're transformed. 889 00:53:26.400 --> 00:53:34.080 I say, are you willing to choose to let go of that lie, that belief, that thought? 890 00:53:36.560 --> 00:53:44.160 And then she said, yes. Now, if I'm working with you one-on-one, I will walk you through EFT, 891 00:53:44.800 --> 00:53:51.760 some tapping to wire the new belief. And I do it in a way that we completely obliterate 892 00:53:52.000 --> 00:53:57.920 and crush and smash the old belief. And we just, just dig in the new belief. And what happens, 893 00:53:57.920 --> 00:54:01.360 Linda, after we do that process, how did you feel? What changed for you? 894 00:54:02.320 --> 00:54:07.440 You know, free, I felt very released. And I actually, that's when I created my mindset 895 00:54:07.440 --> 00:54:13.520 coloring book. Love it. You know what I can do? I can do some really cool things here. So I just, 896 00:54:13.520 --> 00:54:19.200 yeah, because I had done your prosper plan. I had done your prosper plan. I had done your 897 00:54:19.360 --> 00:54:25.040 yeah, because I had done your prosper plan or learn the KDP process. And I'm like, you know, 898 00:54:25.040 --> 00:54:30.720 I could, I could do something with this. So, I mean, it just, I gave myself permission 899 00:54:32.080 --> 00:54:36.160 to do the things. Right. And I think I told you the other day, I got a download and God said, 900 00:54:36.160 --> 00:54:42.240 if you're not, if you're not doing what I called you to do, you're serving the other guy. 901 00:54:42.720 --> 00:54:54.240 Yeah. I was like, so, so you got clear that it was a lie. You chose, we rewired. And right away, 902 00:54:54.240 --> 00:54:58.480 you started creating products. You started growing your new company. You started getting 903 00:54:58.480 --> 00:54:59.840 some clients. You had new. 904 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:08.800 peace. And this is what we do. This is how it works. Okay. So I love this. And I hope that 905 00:55:08.800 --> 00:55:18.480 this part is helping you. So we saw on the next page where Jesus got his identity. And so there's 906 00:55:18.480 --> 00:55:23.680 this exercise there that you can do afterwards that says, who do you say you are? What do you 907 00:55:23.680 --> 00:55:30.960 most commonly say about yourself? What do you put after the words I am? And then there's an 908 00:55:30.960 --> 00:55:38.640 exercise. I hope you do this afterwards to really experience this. How does that compare to who God 909 00:55:38.640 --> 00:55:50.400 says that you are? Right? How does that compare with who God says you are? So we saw in Matthew 910 00:55:50.400 --> 00:55:56.400 four, three to six, that the tempter comes and tempts him with the words if. 911 00:55:58.720 --> 00:56:07.520 And what we see here on your notes is that if you don't know your identity, if you don't get 912 00:56:07.520 --> 00:56:18.080 clear on who you are, others will tell you who they think you should be. So if you're not stepping 913 00:56:18.080 --> 00:56:23.760 up and being who you say, who God says you are, then other people are going to tell you who you 914 00:56:23.760 --> 00:56:29.120 are and put you in position and hold you like we saw. We saw ourselves as grasshoppers. They saw 915 00:56:29.120 --> 00:56:36.320 us as grasshoppers. They put us in the grasshopper field and that was that. Yeah? Any of you like 916 00:56:36.320 --> 00:56:45.680 picking up what I'm putting down? Okay. So a lot of this in your study guide is you discover who 917 00:56:45.680 --> 00:56:58.160 you are by removing what you are not. There is a peeling away and I see why today. This doesn't 918 00:56:58.160 --> 00:57:05.600 happen to me very often, but the Lord told me to pull this out of my bookshelf and it just wouldn't 919 00:57:05.600 --> 00:57:11.280 leave me alone. So I grabbed it. It's something I read a long time ago. It's called Letting Go, 920 00:57:11.280 --> 00:57:17.120 The Pathway of Surrender by Dr. David Hawkins. He's the same one that wrote Power versus Force, 921 00:57:17.120 --> 00:57:24.400 right? And I was like, why is God just telling me to pick that up? So I picked it up. I thought, 922 00:57:24.400 --> 00:57:30.160 well, I'll just set it there. I got things to do to get ready for this morning. And the Lord's like, 923 00:57:30.160 --> 00:57:37.120 no, I want you reading this this morning. And probably five times talking to you, this has come 924 00:57:37.120 --> 00:57:45.920 up in what I'm talking about right now. What we wrote here, we tap into who we are at your very 925 00:57:45.920 --> 00:57:55.600 essence. You are who God made you to be. It's in your very DNA. You know, the story of Michelangelo 926 00:57:55.600 --> 00:58:01.520 and the statue of David. I've been to the Louvre. I've seen that magnificent statue. 927 00:58:02.160 --> 00:58:09.760 And there is the place where Michelangelo was asked, how do you take a piece of marble? You've 928 00:58:09.760 --> 00:58:17.520 just got this square stone. And how do you carve like this magnificent of David? I mean, 929 00:58:17.520 --> 00:58:27.360 the details are incredible. And he answered simply, I simply remove, I chip away everything 930 00:58:27.360 --> 00:58:34.160 that is not David. So he's chip, chipping on the stone, chip, chip, chipping on the stone. And 931 00:58:34.160 --> 00:58:39.840 pretty soon you see a leg and chip, chip, chipping. And the muscles start coming out and he's chip, 932 00:58:39.840 --> 00:58:46.640 chip, chipping. You see an arm and chip, chip. And like pretty soon you got every detail. 933 00:58:47.600 --> 00:58:52.400 It was there inside of the stone. David was there the whole time. 934 00:58:53.360 --> 00:59:02.000 Michelangelo took off what was not so that you could see what it was. He didn't build David. 935 00:59:02.000 --> 00:59:08.640 He didn't, it wasn't pottery or clay that I'm going to build this. He chipped away everything 936 00:59:08.640 --> 00:59:14.880 that was not. Do you get that? This is what God is calling you to do in this day and age. And, 937 00:59:14.880 --> 00:59:19.600 and so I looked through this this morning. I thought, man, it's been years since I've read 938 00:59:19.600 --> 00:59:26.160 this and let me just go through the chapters. And, you know, the first chapter is the mechanism of, 939 00:59:26.160 --> 00:59:33.360 of letting go. And it goes through the anatomy of emotions and then it starts walking you through. 940 00:59:33.360 --> 00:59:41.120 And if you've ever studied power versus force, you understand he's a physician. He's a psychiatrist. 941 00:59:42.880 --> 00:59:46.960 He's, he's really brilliant. I could, I could grab the power versus force, but 942 00:59:47.440 --> 00:59:54.400 what he saw that we all know is that all these emotions have a frequency. Everything that God 943 00:59:54.400 --> 00:59:59.120 made has a frequency. Look, I'm not getting new age or woo-woo. When I say frequency, I mean, 944 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:03.200 I mean, it's vibrating, it has a wavelength. 945 01:00:03.200 --> 01:00:04.760 And it means some of the wavelengths 946 01:00:04.760 --> 01:00:06.920 are really high and close together. 947 01:00:06.920 --> 01:00:10.160 Some of them are really spread out, okay? 948 01:00:10.160 --> 01:00:12.320 And we call that a frequency. 949 01:00:12.320 --> 01:00:14.720 And everything that God created in the universe 950 01:00:14.720 --> 01:00:15.760 has a frequency. 951 01:00:15.760 --> 01:00:19.360 Everything is vibrating, everything is moving, okay? 952 01:00:19.360 --> 01:00:21.720 And what he began to see 953 01:00:21.720 --> 01:00:24.520 is that there's low frequency emotions, 954 01:00:24.520 --> 01:00:27.680 and you all know this in experience. 955 01:00:27.680 --> 01:00:30.400 And there's high frequency emotions. 956 01:00:30.400 --> 01:00:34.120 And the high frequency emotions, 957 01:00:34.120 --> 01:00:39.120 everything over, I think it's 200 in my head right now, 958 01:00:40.120 --> 01:00:42.680 brings strength and health to the body. 959 01:00:42.680 --> 01:00:47.680 And everything below 200 brings dis-ease. 960 01:00:48.000 --> 01:00:50.040 Well, this lines up with scripture. 961 01:00:50.040 --> 01:00:53.680 What are the highest frequencies that they measured 962 01:00:53.680 --> 01:00:56.880 using either applied kinesiology 963 01:00:56.880 --> 01:00:59.000 or using instruments? 964 01:00:59.000 --> 01:01:01.240 What were the highest frequencies? 965 01:01:01.240 --> 01:01:03.040 Love, peace, joy? 966 01:01:03.040 --> 01:01:04.400 Any of those sound familiar? 967 01:01:04.400 --> 01:01:06.680 Like the fruits of the Holy Spirit? 968 01:01:07.800 --> 01:01:12.800 What was the absolute lowest frequency before you die? 969 01:01:13.880 --> 01:01:15.920 This is it, the dis-ease. 970 01:01:15.920 --> 01:01:18.760 The lowest frequency was shame. 971 01:01:19.640 --> 01:01:22.880 I didn't get into the E part of the Prosper system. 972 01:01:22.880 --> 01:01:24.360 We'll do that, or you could see it 973 01:01:24.360 --> 01:01:26.920 inside of the Prosper Leader membership. 974 01:01:26.920 --> 01:01:29.520 But the lowest frequency was shame. 975 01:01:30.440 --> 01:01:35.440 And so what we found is that with each breakthrough 976 01:01:35.840 --> 01:01:38.640 of letting go of a previous low frequency 977 01:01:38.640 --> 01:01:40.720 and you go to a higher frequency, 978 01:01:40.720 --> 01:01:43.520 you become stronger and more creative. 979 01:01:43.520 --> 01:01:45.080 And what's interesting about this 980 01:01:45.080 --> 01:01:47.240 is it changes your view of yourself. 981 01:01:47.240 --> 01:01:50.000 We're talking about self-perception. 982 01:01:50.000 --> 01:01:53.080 It changes your view of yourself, 983 01:01:53.080 --> 01:01:55.280 and it changes your view of God. 984 01:01:55.280 --> 01:01:57.360 I'm gonna jump up and grab it. 985 01:01:57.360 --> 01:01:58.200 Hold on. 986 01:01:59.160 --> 01:02:01.600 Oh, if I don't knock anything over. 987 01:02:01.600 --> 01:02:04.400 Yep, I knocked something over, but here we are. 988 01:02:04.400 --> 01:02:06.000 You can tell this is off the cuff, 989 01:02:06.000 --> 01:02:08.360 and the Lord just reminds me of things. 990 01:02:08.360 --> 01:02:13.000 Okay, here's his book, Power Versus Force, same author, okay? 991 01:02:13.000 --> 01:02:15.920 And so let me just pull up the frequency chart 992 01:02:15.920 --> 01:02:17.600 really quick, okay? 993 01:02:17.600 --> 01:02:20.880 And so the interesting thing about this 994 01:02:20.880 --> 01:02:25.640 is that the frequency you're operating at, 995 01:02:25.640 --> 01:02:28.520 the emotion that you're clinging to where you're living, 996 01:02:28.520 --> 01:02:29.520 it has a fruit. 997 01:02:29.520 --> 01:02:32.280 We already gave that example, okay? 998 01:02:32.280 --> 01:02:37.280 So shame is the very lowest, has a frequency of 20, okay? 999 01:02:38.000 --> 01:02:39.920 And so in that place, 1000 01:02:39.920 --> 01:02:42.640 there's kind of humiliation and that type of thing. 1001 01:02:42.640 --> 01:02:46.280 But look, your life view when you're in shame 1002 01:02:46.280 --> 01:02:48.400 is life is miserable. 1003 01:02:48.400 --> 01:02:51.800 And your God view is God is very despising. 1004 01:02:51.800 --> 01:02:53.960 He despises me, he despises us. 1005 01:02:53.960 --> 01:02:57.400 We're worthless sinners, we're worms, whatever, right? 1006 01:02:57.400 --> 01:03:02.400 And as you rise up, maybe you get to apathy, which is 50. 1007 01:03:02.560 --> 01:03:05.700 And so that's more like despair, right? 1008 01:03:05.700 --> 01:03:09.560 And so when you are in apathy, 1009 01:03:09.560 --> 01:03:13.600 then your life view is life is pretty hopeless. 1010 01:03:13.600 --> 01:03:17.720 And your God view is God is very condemning. 1011 01:03:17.720 --> 01:03:22.560 So interesting, your view of God will change as you change. 1012 01:03:22.560 --> 01:03:24.320 This is an amazing thought. 1013 01:03:24.320 --> 01:03:27.480 It's all in scripture, by the way, I don't have time today. 1014 01:03:27.480 --> 01:03:29.560 But we work our way up to grief 1015 01:03:29.560 --> 01:03:32.240 and then we work our way up to fear. 1016 01:03:32.240 --> 01:03:34.600 So fear is at 100. 1017 01:03:34.600 --> 01:03:37.200 And at least it's got way more energy 1018 01:03:37.200 --> 01:03:39.760 and stronger than shame or guilt or grief. 1019 01:03:39.760 --> 01:03:42.440 At least you're starting to get some movement 1020 01:03:42.440 --> 01:03:43.400 going with fear. 1021 01:03:43.400 --> 01:03:44.820 Fear can motivate you. 1022 01:03:44.820 --> 01:03:47.600 Fear can motivate you to get going and do things 1023 01:03:48.440 --> 01:03:49.280 and whatever. 1024 01:03:49.280 --> 01:03:51.560 And so that feels more like anxiety. 1025 01:03:51.560 --> 01:03:54.540 And so you see life as frightening. 1026 01:03:54.540 --> 01:03:57.120 You see God is punitive. 1027 01:03:57.120 --> 01:04:00.760 Now we work our way up, we work our way to anger. 1028 01:04:00.760 --> 01:04:04.880 We work our way up to pride and we get to 200, 1029 01:04:04.880 --> 01:04:06.720 which is courage. 1030 01:04:06.720 --> 01:04:09.880 And when we're at 200 courage, 1031 01:04:09.880 --> 01:04:11.880 now this is where the breakthrough, 1032 01:04:11.880 --> 01:04:15.480 where everything below 200 is creating dis-ease 1033 01:04:15.480 --> 01:04:17.440 in your body, okay? 1034 01:04:18.260 --> 01:04:21.280 But when we get to 200 at courage, 1035 01:04:21.280 --> 01:04:25.120 now life seems feasible. 1036 01:04:25.120 --> 01:04:28.560 Like maybe, maybe I can do this. 1037 01:04:28.560 --> 01:04:31.280 And God seems permitting, 1038 01:04:31.280 --> 01:04:34.000 like maybe God will let me do this. 1039 01:04:34.860 --> 01:04:37.440 And then we get up into neutrality. 1040 01:04:37.440 --> 01:04:39.720 That's where like, man, I just need to relearn 1041 01:04:39.720 --> 01:04:44.140 what I've been doing has not been working. 1042 01:04:45.140 --> 01:04:48.460 And I'm getting some important messages. 1043 01:04:48.460 --> 01:04:49.380 What are they? 1044 01:04:50.940 --> 01:04:51.860 Yes. 1045 01:04:51.860 --> 01:04:55.180 Okay, so we get to this. 1046 01:04:55.180 --> 01:05:00.180 And so now we work our way all the way up to 200. 1047 01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:03.440 these high-level frequencies, okay? 1048 01:05:03.440 --> 01:05:06.160 And so we get to love at 500, 1049 01:05:06.160 --> 01:05:09.760 and now we see life is benign, life is loving, 1050 01:05:09.760 --> 01:05:11.200 life makes things available. 1051 01:05:11.200 --> 01:05:12.720 I have a sense of reverence. 1052 01:05:12.720 --> 01:05:14.680 I start feeling revelation, 1053 01:05:14.680 --> 01:05:17.480 and my view of God is God is loving. 1054 01:05:17.480 --> 01:05:20.340 And I get to 540 at joy, 1055 01:05:20.340 --> 01:05:22.440 and at joy, I'm starting to see, 1056 01:05:22.440 --> 01:05:24.260 wow, everything's complete in life. 1057 01:05:24.260 --> 01:05:27.000 God really has already supplied all my needs, 1058 01:05:27.040 --> 01:05:30.520 and God is one, as he said that he was. 1059 01:05:30.520 --> 01:05:33.120 And we work our way up to peace, 1060 01:05:33.120 --> 01:05:35.360 where we start seeing life as perfect, 1061 01:05:35.360 --> 01:05:39.280 and God is in everything and everyone, 1062 01:05:39.280 --> 01:05:41.560 and we work our way up. 1063 01:05:41.560 --> 01:05:46.560 And so this process then of letting go 1064 01:05:47.640 --> 01:05:50.320 is why did God remind me? 1065 01:05:50.320 --> 01:05:54.400 Because as I let go of the apathy and depression 1066 01:05:54.400 --> 01:05:57.920 that says I can't, which really is I won't, 1067 01:05:57.920 --> 01:05:59.820 and I let go of the blame, 1068 01:05:59.820 --> 01:06:01.760 and I start choosing the positive, 1069 01:06:01.760 --> 01:06:04.220 and I start changing my company, 1070 01:06:04.220 --> 01:06:06.580 I bump up to grief. 1071 01:06:06.580 --> 01:06:09.320 And in grief, I have to start handling the loss. 1072 01:06:09.320 --> 01:06:11.160 What was it that put me in apathy? 1073 01:06:11.160 --> 01:06:13.960 I lost, and I started giving up. 1074 01:06:13.960 --> 01:06:16.240 And so it walks you through, 1075 01:06:16.240 --> 01:06:19.040 and as you get into fear, 1076 01:06:19.040 --> 01:06:21.920 and how the healing affects of love, 1077 01:06:21.920 --> 01:06:24.440 you'll start moving into desire. 1078 01:06:24.440 --> 01:06:26.280 And we've talked about that all week. 1079 01:06:26.280 --> 01:06:29.040 And then you may feel some anger, 1080 01:06:29.040 --> 01:06:33.120 and pride, and humility, and joy, and gratitude, 1081 01:06:33.120 --> 01:06:35.600 and you get into courage, and you get into acceptance, 1082 01:06:35.600 --> 01:06:38.120 and you get into love, and love healing, 1083 01:06:38.120 --> 01:06:40.800 and unconditional love, and so on. 1084 01:06:40.800 --> 01:06:43.900 So it's like this we're seeing with David, 1085 01:06:45.360 --> 01:06:49.360 the whole goal of this is chipping away 1086 01:06:49.360 --> 01:06:53.080 everything that you are not. 1087 01:06:53.080 --> 01:06:54.440 So we're gonna pick up there, 1088 01:06:54.440 --> 01:06:55.800 we're gonna pick up there, 1089 01:06:55.800 --> 01:06:57.340 we're gonna take a short break, 1090 01:06:57.340 --> 01:06:58.800 but we're gonna look at the story 1091 01:06:58.800 --> 01:07:01.460 of the exodus in scripture, 1092 01:07:01.460 --> 01:07:04.960 and what that actually represents in our life. 1093 01:07:04.960 --> 01:07:08.280 Not only is it historical, and in the Bible, 1094 01:07:08.280 --> 01:07:11.680 the word of God, but it's really representative 1095 01:07:11.680 --> 01:07:15.920 of what we're going to do as you are, 1096 01:07:15.920 --> 01:07:18.860 remember we talked about this is a hero's journey. 1097 01:07:19.380 --> 01:07:21.100 And so you're in a form of an exodus, 1098 01:07:21.100 --> 01:07:26.100 you're leaving a slavery of self-imposed expectations, 1099 01:07:26.780 --> 01:07:30.460 of perfectionism, of fear, of doubt, of worry, 1100 01:07:30.460 --> 01:07:33.920 whatever it is that's kept you stuck and enslaved, 1101 01:07:33.920 --> 01:07:36.860 and God is taking you on this hero's journey. 1102 01:07:36.860 --> 01:07:39.620 We've been working through the prosperous system 1103 01:07:39.620 --> 01:07:42.980 to where you're going from soul tired 1104 01:07:42.980 --> 01:07:46.060 to total soul prosperity. 1105 01:07:46.060 --> 01:07:46.900 Who's with me? 1106 01:07:46.900 --> 01:07:48.420 Say with you. 1107 01:07:48.620 --> 01:07:49.460 Who's with me? 1108 01:07:49.460 --> 01:07:50.620 Say with you. 1109 01:07:50.620 --> 01:07:54.060 And we're going to take like a three minute break, 1110 01:07:54.060 --> 01:07:56.020 like a stand up, go to the bathroom, 1111 01:07:56.020 --> 01:07:57.980 stretch, shake it out, 1112 01:07:59.420 --> 01:08:01.300 maybe maximum five minutes, 1113 01:08:01.300 --> 01:08:04.820 I'll be right back with you, 1114 01:08:04.820 --> 01:08:06.980 and I just want you to be fresh, okay? 1115 01:08:06.980 --> 01:08:09.220 So we'll see you in three to five minutes, 1116 01:08:09.220 --> 01:08:11.940 as fast as we can do this. 1117 01:08:11.940 --> 01:08:14.180 Let me stop the recording, 1118 01:08:14.180 --> 01:08:16.020 and I can't do that in Facebook, 1119 01:08:16.020 --> 01:08:19.580 so I wonder if there's some music we can be playing or song.