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Oh, I knew it at once.

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We're good.

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Awesome.

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Very, very cool.

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Well, we're real excited to kick this off with you guys.

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Uh, it's going to be a lot of fun.

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We, um, um, yeah, just, just, just so excited.

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Just so excited for this and, uh, Oh, we got more people coming on.

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So probably give it, we'll give it a good two minutes and a yes.

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Thank you, Jeremy.

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Happy birthday to Dawn.

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Thank you.

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And I don't, I don't have everyone's birthday just yet.

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So I don't know.

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Is it anyone else's or was it recent?

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Okay.

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At some point we'll, we'll have those all dialed in.

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I know Rebecca is going to help us with that.

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And it sounded like an invitation to have multiple birthdays.

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Still my birthday.

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What a great birthday present.

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Yeah.

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Couldn't be in a better place.

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And on a cool day.

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I mean, 11, 11, that's, that's cool.

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Awesome.

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We all, we almost got married on 11, 11, uh, 2011.

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And, uh, we just kind of thought, you know what?

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I bet a lot of people will do that.

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And we just ended up not doing it.

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So we got married on November 5th.

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So it's 11, 5, 11.

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Um, and so just awesome.

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And so I wanted to, uh, start us off powerfully, Rebecca, if you, if you

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would, um, Oh, what time is it?

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Let's give it one more minute.

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One more minute.

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So drop me what's what's one.

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Cause I, this always happens when someone moves forward powerfully.

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Um, you know, people have breakthroughs, things will show up in their life.

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I've had people say, man, as soon as I made that decision,

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something powerful showed up.

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And so if you've had one of those God sentences, or you've had

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something cool show up, um, what's something cool that's happened.

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What's a win.

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Uh, so feel free, drop it in the chat and let's celebrate you.

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What's a win that you've had since joining, which I know it's been,

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you know, a week, a little bit over a week.

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I see Lisa coming on.

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Husband decided to join the business.

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I'll build a kingdom.

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Nice.

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Already have breakthroughs, uh, from video one with Dion.

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Yes.

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Do you see that Dion?

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Oh, that's fantastic.

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That's pretty cool.

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And by the way, if you still haven't been able to get into the app, you know,

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we'll want to help you with that.

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Make sure that that's working for you.

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Well, cool.

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Well, we're going to, we're going to get into it.

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Uh, American university called and wants to include us in a bid for janitorial

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cleaning, which never happens.

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I, I got, uh, an interesting call today about someone wanting to buy one of our

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brands, which I've never, never had that kind of call.

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It was very interesting.

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And, um,

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that was pretty cool.

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Teammates asking if they should join Leslie and, you know, encourage them if

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it's the right, if it's the right time for them, they get a yes in prayer, then

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you want that to happen, bring them on, have the breakthroughs, you know, not

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just you, but some of the leaders in your team too, for sure.

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So I wanted to, let's start off powerfully.

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I wanted, uh, Rebecca to kick us off with, uh, opening prayer.

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If that's okay, Rebecca.

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Hi guys.

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Let's do it.

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Heavenly father, God, we thank you for this time together.

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Thank you for bringing us together collectively in this

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incredible mastermind, Lord.

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We've got an incredible year ahead and we're so excited to see

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what you're going to do in it.

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Lord.

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We're excited to be in your hands.

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We're excited for the fruit that we're about to bear.

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Lord.

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We just give it all over to you tonight, father.

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Just pray that you would bless this time.

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We thank you, God, that your word says those who seek the

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Lord lack, no good thing.

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Father, we're here to see you more of your truth and what that looks

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like, um, as leaders in your kingdom, Lord help us remain alert, awake

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and focused tonight, Lord, as we press in, we thank you for what Ray

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and Dion are about to share Lord.

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And we just, we just invite you to have your way father.

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We praise you and thank you in Jesus name.

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Very cool.

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Um, Rebecca, can you share the schedule?

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I know I want, I just want to make sure, uh, and just kind of a recap.

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is, you know, you'll have Dion and I once a month. That's, I believe, correct me if I'm wrong,

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the second Monday of every month, I believe, at this time. And then you're going to have

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Jess once a month. And then we added the sales and marketing mentorship to this. That was a

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total surprise for you guys. And so that's going to be twice a month where you can hop in. And the

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that'll work is I'm just going to, you know, prioritize, you're going to get priority. So

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I'm going to go to you first in these in the sales and marketing mentorship. And then anyone that's

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just in the sales and marketing mentorship will, you know, get in with them after you guys. And,

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and remember, that's, you know, the schedule stuff, you can show up to as much of that,

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or as little as that, you also have direct access to me, and I would encourage you to use that. And

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I'm going to give you a couple, you know, little little pieces of homework and things to keep in

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mind to be communicating with me and letting me help you because I'm not I'm not looking to work

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less. I'm looking to create a story with you. And I'm looking for you to have, you know,

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big breakthroughs. And so Rebecca, do you have the actual dates? Because I don't have them up?

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I will share the link to the calendar. And I will highlight what the next date is.

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We've got a Google calendar that we continue to update as new training events are added to so

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you'll have that you can check it, we will always remind you of upcoming training,

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but I'll also let you know what the next one is in a moment.

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Cool. And any kind of logistical stuff, you know, Rebecca is the go to she's, she's the rock star.

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And so, and I would assume, oh,

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I'm trying to figure out. Okay, so we're going to make a graphic to make that easy, I would guess

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Rebecca. Yeah, so we're going to make a graphic, that'll be easy. We'll invite you to the thing

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so that you can be a part of that. And so yeah, believe me, we'll make it easy. Okay. And then

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let's start with Dion's message. I know Dion's got a powerful message for you. We'll start with

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him. And then I got a few questions to go through with you. And then we'll get into some, some fun

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stuff. So Dion. It's very appreciated.

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Year, what we're going to do together is we're going to work through the same base framework

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for each of these very powerful kingdom leadership routines or habits. And, you know,

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because we run a school, we also run a, you know, a CEO mastermind as well.

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What we've been studying is what does it take? What really moves the needle for kingdom leaders?

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And specifically, what's your kingdom advantage? If what I'm sharing with you, anybody could do,

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even if they don't know the law, then that's not much of a kingdom advantage, right? That's a great

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advantage everybody can have. And that's great. But it's not a kingdom advantage. And by the way,

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I am in my Santa Barbara office in California. That's why the background looks different.

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So for us, it's here at five, five, 10 in the afternoon in a beautiful city of Santa Barbara.

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So I'm going to take a minute. And so what I'm going to do is I'm going to give you a framework

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and I don't want this to be a lecture. I really want this to be a conversation I've asked.

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So Ray will be monitoring, Ray and Rebecca will be monitoring the chat so they can interrupt,

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or you can just interrupt as necessary. What's more important than just going through a talk

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is that we really catch the heart of the Father towards us in this and that we respond, right? So

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everything in the kingdom starts with God initiates, you respond. A lot of times religion

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will teach us you have to initiate and then God will respond. Now that was true in the old covenant.

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Fortunately, we're not part of the old covenant. We're now in the new covenant. And while we were

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still sinners, Christ died. We had nothing. We made no quality decision about that. You know,

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Jesus didn't go and die because we made a quality decision. He died because he loved us and he was

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reconciling himself back to us. And then our response was, yeah, come in. Right. So that's

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all of this is always set up in that mode. Now I'm also basing it off this basic idea

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that when you came to Christ, you became a new creation being. So 2 Corinthians 5 17 tells us

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that if anyone

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is in Christ, the old is passed away, all things have become new. So if you have been born again,

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in other words, you've given your life to Christ, you're born again by the Spirit of God,

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the Bible calls that being born again, that means you are a new creation. That means God

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isn't working on the old, because he's given you the ultimate permission. And that's from Romans

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6.11. I'm going to throw a lot of scriptures because everything we're teaching is straight

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out of the scripture. So the ultimate permission is this, consider yourself dead to sin and alive

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to God. Now let's take a second, that means God considers you that. Every time God gives you

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permission or a promise, he's not only binding himself and giving you his word of honor on that,

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he's also, we can look at it from his viewpoint. I think when we read the scriptures, we only read

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from our own viewpoint, you know, what does this mean to me and my family or the church or whatever,

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but rarely do we think of it from his viewpoint. What does it mean to him? Remember, it's a

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relationship, right? It's a fantastic relationship since we collectively, you know, we're the bride

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of Christ. All the guys have to get used to being the bride. That's part of the beautiful metaphor

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of his incredible love for us. So as the bride, our job is to respond to this beautiful bridegroom

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constantly pursuing us. And in that space, when God says consider yourself dead to sin,

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that means he considers you that. So when we want to say, I want to talk to God about my sin,

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what he would have to do to have that conversation is dishonor the cross. He would have to put Jesus

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back on the cross, unwind the transaction, put you back in your sin, so he can have a chat to

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and he's not about to do that. And the reason is why that's unnecessary is that what he's done

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is given you new life in Christ. It's no longer I that live, but Christ who lives in me. Okay,

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very cool. So that's just a sort of quick 101. Everything we're going to be talking about

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is from what we would call new man theology or new creation theology. And of course, by man,

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I mean mankind. So right off the bat, I don't want to be overly like gender sensitive, because

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I want to use the gender language that the Bible uses. And there's a really beautiful reason why

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the Bible calls us the bride. So we have boy and girl brides, and we have boy and girl sons,

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because sons are people with an inheritance, right? They were children with an inheritance,

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and God means men and women to have an inheritance in him. That's why the scripture teaches us

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that in Christ, there is no male and female, right? We're all so I don't want to keep bringing

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the he's or I want us to stick to the scripture, because when we get worldly, and we say,

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oh, we're the sons and daughters of God. Okay, we get it. We get it. But let's upgrade the

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conversation, because this is a mastermind for leaders. So that means we can take it to a higher

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level and say we have. So ladies, when you're a son of God, you're a child of God with inheritance,

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you're a child of God with authority, you're seated with Christ in heavenly places, gentlemen,

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when you're the bride of Christ, you can have that level of intimacy with your heavenly bridegroom.

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Okay, so this just opens up a beautiful metaphor of who the Lord is for us. He's showing us so

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many aspects of his heart towards us. Now, what's the kingdom advantage in leadership,

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we're going to go through 12 over one at one a month, 12 specific kingdom leadership,

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ways of being with God. So why are we doing this? Because here's what it is when you when you became

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a new creation. And now you're the righteousness of God in Christ by free gift. You're not righteous.

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You're not a sinner saved by grace, you were a sinner, you were saved by grace. And now you're

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a saint by free gift. Right? So you can't do I'm a sinner saved by grace routine, because that

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gets you stuck halfway. That's half the story. Let's keep the conversation going, finish the

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conversation. And now God sees you as a saint. Why? Because you are now in Christ, Christ is now

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in you. And now, what grace is, is God's empowering presence in you, himself in you, so that you can

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be the person he sees when he looks at you. So when he looks at you, he sees who he's made in

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Jesus. And that's who he's talking to all the time. He's saying, he's speaking to who you're

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becoming. He never speaks to who you're not. I hope that sounds like free to you like, whoa,

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that's a relief right away, right? God is never speaking to you. And so when we quote, well,

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if I'm righteous, why do I still sin? If I have a new nature, why do I still sin? Well,

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you don't have a sin nature that always

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nature died. The scriptures say when Christ died, you died. You are buried with him. And then when

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Christ was resurrected, your new nature was resurrected. Jesus didn't resurrect your old

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nature so you can go and fix it. So good news is God isn't fixing the old and therefore neither do

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you. That must be a huge relief. I don't have to fix the old. I can just consider it dead.

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Well, you say, well, it seems pretty alive, you know, sometimes because it's still around doing

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its thing. Well, here's the thing. Interruption there, Ray.

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Well, finish that thought.

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Yeah, yeah. So now I just noticed your hand there. Okay, so the cool thing is this,

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you don't have a sun nature, you just have a sun habit. Where did that habit come from? The old

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nature to which you those old habits, we call that the ways of the ways of the world. Right? So you

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the ways of the world. However, now that you're in Christ, you're a new creation. Now you're going

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to learn new nature ways, new nature habits. So all we're doing is we're learning new ways of

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being with the Lord. And we're using those ways as kingdom leaders to lead our business, to lead

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our teams, to lead our lives, to lead our families. We're learning how to be with the Lord.

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More specifically, we're learning how He wants to be with us. So when we learn that that's how

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He wants to be with us, we go, sure, you know, respond. Amen. Go ahead, Ray. Thought finished.

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Yeah. And so, you know, what does that? What does that look like? You know, for me,

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you know, a buddy said this to me, and I just thought it made so much sense is

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a God won't help you get rid of a buddy. He'll help you get rid of an enemy.

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And what I mean by that is I've yet to find anything that I could go to God and say,

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God, will you help me with this? And he didn't help. Right. And so when,

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when I found comfort in overeating, he didn't, you know, he didn't help me with that.

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But when I said, Lord, I want to get better at this. I don't, I don't, I want to lose some weight.

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I want to be in better shape. Will you help me with this? He helped me. He changed my heart

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around that. I just don't crave the same things that I used to crave. I walk in the new creation

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and, and just knowing his nature of when you're getting, you know, kind of nudged in the spirit

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that something's not right, or it's just not congruent, that could be him, you know, helping

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you with that. But, you know, to go to him and say, Hey, I want to walk differently in this way.

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I want to have more honor and respect for others. I want to, you know, I want to forgive. And that

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was one of the big ones for me is, you know, I realized as much as I had tried myself,

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that I hadn't fully forgiven my dad. And I thought I had. And when I said, Lord, help me,

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help me forgive my dad, he created a scenario. And all of a sudden I went from forgiveness to

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compassion. And so I have absolutely, there is no forgiveness left that I need for my dad. It's,

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it's compassion. I recognize who he is. I got to know him. And in such a short timeframe,

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in such a different way, because what I actually saw was myself. I saw my, my undeveloped,

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natures, and I saw my undeveloped self and my dad, and, and I had compassion,

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because it completely could be me. And, you know, so he'll, he'll help you wherever you,

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you want help. But if you have a sin habit, and a worldly habit, that's your buddy,

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you really enjoy smoking, or you enjoy whatever, and there's no judgment, I don't care. You know,

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that's not for me to judge. But if you have something that you're like, I really should

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quit this. But, you know, you're, it's your buddy. He's not going to smack it out of your hand,

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most of the times, unless you ask him to.

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Thanks for the clarification. I think where we, as we go through this, I think one of the themes

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you'll pick up on is this simple idea that when you discover your new nature in Christ, you get to

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practice it until it becomes permanent. See, a lot of times we hear something, we think, oh,

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it didn't work, I tried it, you know, tried it two or three times, that didn't work.

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So it's like any new habit, it takes a moment to, we don't practice it to be perfect, we practice

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till it's permanent. So in other words, we're gonna, there's a, we're practicing not to become

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someone, we're practicing it, because we are someone, you are a new creation. This is like

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Ray was saying, when you step into that new creation reality, suddenly it becomes super

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easy, because you're not trying to attain something Jesus already gave you. So let's

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talk about one of the big ones we're all trying to attain, which Jesus already gave us, and that is

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We'll find out very quickly in a short few seconds why there's no point in praying for

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peace because why?

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The Prince of Peace lives in you, right?

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And our job is to let that peace reign.

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So let's talk about that.

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So each time we tackle one of these new nature routines or habits, they got four components.

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The first component is what's the prompt?

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What's going to cause me to run this routine, right?

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So think of it as a cue or a prompt.

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If you've studied habits before, maybe, you know, do Higgs book on the power of habits

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or you've done James Clear on the atomic habits or any of those type of books, they all start

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with a cue, a process, and a reward.

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okay, what's the prompt?

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you know, when I feel those things gaining access or control over my life, that could

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The permission, God gives you a permission.

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And what's the permission he's giving us?

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Here's the permission comes from John 14, 27.

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By the way, I'm going to drop notes.

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I'm going to summarize these in a few seconds and drop them in the chat here in a second.

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So the permission is peace I leave with you.

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My peace, Jesus said, I give you.

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I do not give you as the world gives.

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How does the world give?

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When circumstances are going great, then I'll be peaceful.

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Jesus says, no, no, no, no.

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I give you permission to be peaceful, even when nothing is going great, when the circumstances

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are awful.

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We're not waiting for circumstances to give us permission.

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We get it straight from Jesus.

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Now, if God tells you to do not do this and do that, if you weren't fully capable of that

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in your new nature, then it'd be, you know, that would be really unkind to tell you something.

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It's like telling a five-year-old, you know, or five-month-old, go and ride your bicycle.

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You know, I mean, they don't know how to do that.

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It's the most natural thing for a new believer walking in their new nature to never be troubled.

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What if peace were permanent in your life, regardless of circumstances?

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What if all your peace came from permission from Jesus, not from your circumstances?

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Okay, so that's the permission part.

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The third part is practice.

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So now we're going to practice.

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What are we going to practice?

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We're going to practice letting the peace of Christ rule.

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So where do we get that?

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So we're going to pull that straight from the Scriptures, because when we let the peace

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of Christ rule in our lives, that's Colossians 3.15.

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Notice what's your job in there?

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Does anybody know the instruction there was to?

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Yeah, you want to drop in the chat?

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What's the instruction?

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Instruction, let the peace of Christ rule.

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What was your role?

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It wasn't to feel, okay, let's see what it wasn't.

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The instruction wasn't to feel more peaceful, to try to generate your peace.

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Whose peace do you have to let?

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His peace.

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So what we learned very quickly in this incredible kingdom advantage is that peace is a ruling

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power.

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Peace needs to become the ruling power in your life.

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Now, I don't know how many of you have ever been to a kingdom where there's a king, maybe

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some of you are from the UK, and so there's a king in the UK.

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How many of you know that King Charles rules whether you remember it or not?

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It's not like on Tuesday afternoons King Charles was the king because I remembered, right?

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How do you know he's always the king, whether you remember or not?

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Jesus is always the prince of peace in you.

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So the reason is what we're learning to do now is to let his peace be that ruling power.

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What is a ruling power?

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It means everything is subject to it.

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In other words, there's nothing in the kingdom that surpasses the king.

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He's the highest authority.

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So what if peace of Christ was the highest authority in your response to any situation?

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So it means when you get to practice your peace, even when nothing is peaceful.

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In fact, one might argue that's a fantastic opportunity to practice your peace.

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Do you know how hard it is to practice peace when everything's peaceful?

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It's quite hard.

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So if you're going through, for those of you going through a tough, tough time, hey, what

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a fantastic gift that is because you get to practice your peace.

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so much pressure, your life is set in Christ.

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You're in a whole, you've entered into a new realm.

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this because the Prince of Peace lives in us.

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what prompts us, stress, anxiety, worry.

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The permission is to have his peace.

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The practice is to let his peace reign.

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helping me prompt, permission, practice, person.

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So the person is, what is it you become?

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You become the person who's always untroubled.

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that is always untroubled?

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they do not believe.

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It's like, nah, that sounds like, you know.

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So the expression I had in my mind, I decide not to use.

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So, but they just, it's unbelievable to them, right?

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What if your team, you are always the calm leader?

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What if you're the one who hosts an atmosphere of peace?

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This is so powerful.

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and you bring the peace of Christ

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because you host the Prince of Peace.

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Did you know the peace, not just for you,

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for your families, for your immediate surroundings,

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that business meeting, that Zoom call,

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can you know that that peace can,

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people come into home and say,

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oh, it's so peaceful here, right?

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That's what we want.

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It's not because, you know, our family are magical

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or because our kids are little angels,

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because the Prince of Peace reigns there.

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Do you know you can carry that atmosphere?

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You can shift board meetings.

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Do you know you can shift sales meetings?

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I remember when we interviewed,

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when I first learned this was with Graham, my friend Graham,

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and for those who have heard him at the event.

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So Graham Cooke, we were interviewing him on a podcast

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and the person interviewing the podcast said,

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so Graham, word is you haven't worried in 23 years,

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no worry, no trouble, come on, that can't be true.

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They said, come on, Graham, real talk now.

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You know, you can be honest with us.

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And he said, nope, really?

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I had an encounter with the Prince of Peace

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and he never left.

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if you dug close in there with Graham,

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you will learn very quickly.

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We had to practice his peace.

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When you practice your peace, you get,

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so it's a lot like,

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practicing your peace is a lot like

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standing on the 20th floor of a building

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and you press the button, the peace button.

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It rises to meet you.

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Something deep in your inner being,

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the peace of Christ in you,

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rises and overwhelms everything.

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You go, oh, that lasted for two minutes.

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You practice again, lasts for five minutes.

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It gets longer, it stays longer.

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I'm learning to abide.

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I'm learning to make that my permanent habitation.

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a transactional relationship with peace.

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Like, oh, I'm in distress now.

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I need to get some peace.

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That's not what this is.

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This is, the Prince of Peace is a ruling power.

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He's never leave you.

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He'll never forsake you.

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Super patient with your learning.

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That patience is called grace,

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is grace for your learning.

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So God isn't annoyed or irritated or frustrated

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that you don't get it.

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it took about a year for peace to last to the point

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I went, hey, it's been a month since I've had to practice.

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I get you have me changing my language here.

455
00:28:48.220 --> 00:28:53.300
The average person or person that doesn't understand this,

456
00:28:54.420 --> 00:28:57.800
they try to avoid any kind of scenario

457
00:28:58.500 --> 00:29:01.240
that would give them the opportunity to practice peace.

458
00:29:02.480 --> 00:29:05.400
And, you know, let me not be triggered.

459
00:29:05.760 --> 00:29:07.980
Let me not have a problem.

460
00:29:08.280 --> 00:29:09.900
Let me not have any of that.

461
00:29:09.920 --> 00:29:11.180
Can you guys, am I still on?

462
00:29:13.060 --> 00:29:14.520
It looks like you froze.

463
00:29:15.540 --> 00:29:16.840
Did Dion freeze or me freeze?

464
00:29:18.540 --> 00:29:20.220
I think he's frozen, right?

465
00:29:20.760 --> 00:29:20.760


466
00:29:20.820 --> 00:29:21.720
Dion froze.

467
00:29:22.080 --> 00:29:22.080


468
00:29:22.200 --> 00:29:23.340
Oh, okay, okay.

469
00:29:23.360 --> 00:29:23.780
He froze.

470
00:29:24.000 --> 00:29:24.820
You're still going.

471
00:29:25.320 --> 00:29:26.280
We're peaceful here.

472
00:29:26.840 --> 00:29:27.060
Peaceful.

473
00:29:28.120 --> 00:29:36.100
And so you start to learn that, oh, this is, you know,

474
00:29:36.100 --> 00:29:38.040
I remember, you know, like during the,

475
00:29:38.400 --> 00:29:40.380
not during the event, but before the event,

476
00:29:41.100 --> 00:29:44.180
there was, you know, some big, you know, decisions

477
00:29:44.180 --> 00:29:47.500
and people were kind of stressing out and, you know,

478
00:29:47.760 --> 00:29:50.160
and, you know, Vanessa, I mean, she's just amazing.

479
00:29:50.400 --> 00:29:51.360
You know, I love her.

480
00:29:51.400 --> 00:29:53.220
And she messages me like, you know,

481
00:29:53.220 --> 00:29:54.880
we need to figure this thing out.

482
00:29:55.160 --> 00:29:56.360
I'm like, oh, whoa, whoa.

483
00:29:56.620 --> 00:29:59.640
We respond out of prayer, not out of panic.

484
00:30:00.940 --> 00:30:04.360
And that's just how we respond.

485
00:30:04.900 --> 00:30:06.020
We don't respond out of panic.

486
00:30:07.160 --> 00:30:10.700
Panic is, I've missed,

487
00:30:10.980 --> 00:30:16.760
if I maintain for more than a microsecond in panic,

488
00:30:16.760 --> 00:30:19.220
then I'm missing an opportunity.

489
00:30:19.660 --> 00:30:22.780
I'm missing an opportunity for more clear thinking,

490
00:30:23.240 --> 00:30:25.540
for more peace, for that practice.

491
00:30:26.020 --> 00:30:28.620
And so it's not that you look for a,

492
00:30:28.620 --> 00:30:30.920
I want such a vanilla life

493
00:30:30.920 --> 00:30:32.780
that nothing ever stresses me out.

494
00:30:33.120 --> 00:30:36.420
It's that I can go through the stress, but not be stressed.

495
00:30:36.900 --> 00:30:40.080
I can go through, I can fight against the wind

496
00:30:40.400 --> 00:30:42.500
and it's not bothering me.

497
00:30:42.640 --> 00:30:46.400
I can have the shipwreck and it's not a big deal.

498
00:30:47.560 --> 00:30:50.920
And so it's just, for me there's,

499
00:30:51.780 --> 00:30:54.380
I always like to bring in Proverbs,

500
00:30:54.740 --> 00:30:57.740
but Proverbs 25, I think it's 25, 28.

501
00:30:57.740 --> 00:30:58.360
Yeah, I'm pretty sure.

502
00:30:59.860 --> 00:31:02.080
Yeah, so Proverbs, I'll post it in the thing.

503
00:31:02.660 --> 00:31:03.840
Proverbs 25, 28 says,

504
00:31:04.380 --> 00:31:06.180
whoever has no rule over his own spirit

505
00:31:06.180 --> 00:31:08.900
is like a city broken down without walls.

506
00:31:10.360 --> 00:31:12.280
Okay, let me post that for you.

507
00:31:12.800 --> 00:31:14.660
I'm sure Dionne will be back on shortly.

508
00:31:15.580 --> 00:31:16.720
Oh, come back.

509
00:31:17.720 --> 00:31:20.080
And so, hey, Scott.

510
00:31:20.800 --> 00:31:20.960
Hey.

511
00:31:21.660 --> 00:31:22.360
What's going on?

512
00:31:23.220 --> 00:31:24.680
Yeah, I'd love to know.

513
00:31:24.760 --> 00:31:26.500
I'm practicing my peace right now.

514
00:31:26.500 --> 00:31:26.900
Yes.

515
00:31:28.140 --> 00:31:33.500
And so I just shared like Proverbs 25, 28,

516
00:31:33.700 --> 00:31:35.140
whoever has no rule over his own spirit

517
00:31:35.140 --> 00:31:36.940
is like a city broken down without walls.

518
00:31:37.880 --> 00:31:39.460
And meaning anything can infiltrate.

519
00:31:41.240 --> 00:31:43.800
Most people, anything can infiltrate them.

520
00:31:44.580 --> 00:31:46.020
Anyone can infiltrate their peace.

521
00:31:46.960 --> 00:31:51.180
And so this is, you have the prince of peace with you.

522
00:31:51.220 --> 00:31:55.200
And so it's an upgrade from Proverbs.

523
00:31:55.200 --> 00:31:57.460
It's an upgrade from, they didn't have,

524
00:31:57.980 --> 00:31:59.760
Holy Spirit may visit them in the Old Testament,

525
00:31:59.920 --> 00:32:01.980
but they didn't have Holy Spirit in them.

526
00:32:02.060 --> 00:32:04.140
They didn't have them, Jesus in them.

527
00:32:04.540 --> 00:32:06.280
You have this ultimate upgrade.

528
00:32:06.400 --> 00:32:07.260
So just walk in it.

529
00:32:07.520 --> 00:32:08.960
And that's what you have to do.

530
00:32:09.440 --> 00:32:12.640
You have to practice, the baby doesn't know

531
00:32:12.760 --> 00:32:16.580
that at what point it has the capacity to walk.

532
00:32:16.700 --> 00:32:18.420
It just starts to walk in it

533
00:32:18.420 --> 00:32:19.620
and gets better and better and better.

534
00:32:19.640 --> 00:32:22.040
You have the capacity to walk in peace.

535
00:32:22.340 --> 00:32:23.620
You just have to practice it.

536
00:32:23.620 --> 00:32:25.720
You just have to build that as a habit.

537
00:32:29.720 --> 00:32:30.700
Back to you, Dion.

538
00:32:32.280 --> 00:32:34.260
I don't know if you're back to me yet.

539
00:32:34.640 --> 00:32:35.360
Can you hear me all right?

540
00:32:35.840 --> 00:32:36.220
Yes.

541
00:32:37.880 --> 00:32:40.820
Yeah, I'm gonna take a second drop off and just rest.

542
00:32:41.500 --> 00:32:43.420
Things, I'll be back in about two minutes.

543
00:32:43.800 --> 00:32:44.200
No problem.

544
00:32:44.540 --> 00:32:47.100
Let me connect to another source for the internet

545
00:32:47.100 --> 00:32:48.000
and then I'll be back.

546
00:32:48.600 --> 00:32:50.720
Okay, no problem, no problem.

547
00:32:50.780 --> 00:32:51.360
All good.

548
00:32:53.620 --> 00:32:53.920
Awesome.

549
00:32:54.160 --> 00:32:56.600
So what are you getting from this so far?

550
00:32:56.820 --> 00:32:58.920
I'd love to hear some takeaways.

551
00:32:59.100 --> 00:32:59.920
What are you getting from this?

552
00:33:00.420 --> 00:33:04.500
And by the way, I know that some,

553
00:33:05.980 --> 00:33:07.760
like, hey, let's get to that kingdom offer, man.

554
00:33:07.760 --> 00:33:08.760
I'm ready to make some money.

555
00:33:09.220 --> 00:33:12.000
Well, let's get you prepared to make more money.

556
00:33:12.120 --> 00:33:15.800
Let's get you prepared to have the characteristics

557
00:33:15.800 --> 00:33:18.920
of someone who can carry the mantle of a,

558
00:33:19.500 --> 00:33:22.020
whatever, million dollar, 10 million, 50 million,

559
00:33:22.140 --> 00:33:23.080
whatever, right?

560
00:33:23.080 --> 00:33:25.960
So you have those characteristics

561
00:33:26.240 --> 00:33:30.920
to be able to operate in situations of higher capacity.

562
00:33:31.440 --> 00:33:32.920
And so I'd love to feel free.

563
00:33:33.040 --> 00:33:33.480
All right, Kyle.

564
00:33:33.680 --> 00:33:34.360
Yeah, what are you getting?

565
00:33:34.860 --> 00:33:36.840
Yeah, so it's crazy, right?

566
00:33:37.120 --> 00:33:41.600
So it was actually just like practicing a piece right now.

567
00:33:42.040 --> 00:33:44.160
So Megan, she's just laying down or whatever.

568
00:33:44.800 --> 00:33:45.560
She's watching like,

569
00:33:45.740 --> 00:33:49.060
she likes watching TikTok like mom stuff right now

570
00:33:49.060 --> 00:33:51.720
because she's about to be a mom.

571
00:33:52.320 --> 00:33:53.480
So she's over there.

572
00:33:53.600 --> 00:33:54.180
Normally, I'm like,

573
00:33:54.180 --> 00:33:56.720
I started to get like irritated a little bit

574
00:33:56.720 --> 00:33:58.480
because I'm like, Megan, I'm on this training.

575
00:33:58.560 --> 00:34:01.020
And then she's, then I just like, okay, peace.

576
00:34:01.340 --> 00:34:02.760
Now I'm just not even listening.

577
00:34:02.860 --> 00:34:06.020
I'm just zoning it out and I'm just laser focused.

578
00:34:06.100 --> 00:34:08.040
So that's what I got out of it so far.

579
00:34:08.120 --> 00:34:08.520
Nice.

580
00:34:08.699 --> 00:34:10.260
Like practice it right in the moment.

581
00:34:10.440 --> 00:34:11.639
You get to practice it.

582
00:34:11.659 --> 00:34:12.000
Absolutely.

583
00:34:12.560 --> 00:34:13.639
You get to practice it.

584
00:34:13.780 --> 00:34:13.940
Awesome.

585
00:34:16.000 --> 00:34:17.300
Anyone else want to share?

586
00:34:18.020 --> 00:34:18.960
Feel free to raise your hand.

587
00:34:19.219 --> 00:34:20.760
I'm calling you or you can unmute.

588
00:34:22.659 --> 00:34:25.199
I unmuted before I raised my hand.

589
00:34:26.500 --> 00:34:26.500


590
00:34:26.600 --> 00:34:32.960
You know, this concept is not something

591
00:34:32.960 --> 00:34:35.900
that I haven't heard or understood before,

592
00:34:35.900 --> 00:34:40.040
but now it's like another level for me of,

593
00:34:41.100 --> 00:34:44.440
you know, I guess I just really loved when he said,

594
00:34:48.739 --> 00:34:51.699
he's not working with the old, right?

595
00:34:51.699 --> 00:34:53.480
We're not working with the old.

596
00:34:53.600 --> 00:34:55.920
It was just a great shift in my mind.

597
00:34:57.040 --> 00:34:59.980
I memorized a lot of scripture and those scriptures.

598
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.740
are kind of like the wall for me, you know?

599
00:35:04.040 --> 00:35:06.160
So if I feel a little anxious anxiety,

600
00:35:06.300 --> 00:35:07.720
I'm like, I'll be anxious for nothing,

601
00:35:07.840 --> 00:35:10.060
but in everything by prayer and supplication, you know?

602
00:35:10.060 --> 00:35:13.700
So I have all these scriptures that kind of like

603
00:35:13.700 --> 00:35:18.820
are that divider in my world to kind of keep the old out

604
00:35:19.340 --> 00:35:22.860
and protect the new so that I'm communing

605
00:35:23.260 --> 00:35:24.960
with the spirit instead.

606
00:35:26.380 --> 00:35:31.400
But I really, yeah, I just, it was like a shift in my brain.

607
00:35:32.080 --> 00:35:35.260
Like, oh, he's not working on the old.

608
00:35:36.120 --> 00:35:37.640
That stuff's history.

609
00:35:38.100 --> 00:35:41.380
And it was just like another level of freedom

610
00:35:41.940 --> 00:35:43.580
just thinking of it that way.

611
00:35:43.880 --> 00:35:46.260
You know, it was kind of like when the first time

612
00:35:46.340 --> 00:35:48.920
I made the shift, like I'm not waiting

613
00:35:48.920 --> 00:35:50.060
to live my eternal life.

614
00:35:50.060 --> 00:35:53.300
I'm already living my eternal life, you know?

615
00:35:53.300 --> 00:35:56.080
Like what a, just wow, that's right.

616
00:35:56.160 --> 00:35:57.640
Like, here we are.

617
00:35:58.260 --> 00:35:59.820
Because people will spend their whole lives

618
00:35:59.880 --> 00:36:01.840
working on the old problems.

619
00:36:02.540 --> 00:36:04.840
And there's plenty of self-development books

620
00:36:04.840 --> 00:36:06.400
and plenty of personal development books

621
00:36:06.400 --> 00:36:08.720
that will help you do just that

622
00:36:08.720 --> 00:36:11.400
versus let me just walk in the new.

623
00:36:11.620 --> 00:36:14.320
Let me just assume, let me just understand

624
00:36:14.640 --> 00:36:16.880
the sheer power of Christ in me.

625
00:36:16.960 --> 00:36:19.540
And let me just say, hey, help me with this thing.

626
00:36:19.980 --> 00:36:22.680
And you will, and you just walk differently.

627
00:36:23.340 --> 00:36:24.120
For sure.

628
00:36:24.180 --> 00:36:26.340
Well, thanks for your patience with me there.

629
00:36:26.980 --> 00:36:27.760
Yeah, no problem.

630
00:36:28.420 --> 00:36:30.080
I think the Lord just said, oh, show them

631
00:36:30.080 --> 00:36:32.140
how you stay calm when everything falls apart.

632
00:36:32.580 --> 00:36:33.080
There you go.

633
00:36:33.340 --> 00:36:35.280
So we did a real-time practice.

634
00:36:36.440 --> 00:36:38.960
You know, here's the incredible thing about this

635
00:36:38.960 --> 00:36:41.740
is that you never get flustered, right?

636
00:36:41.740 --> 00:36:44.060
Because if you're in peace all the time,

637
00:36:44.460 --> 00:36:45.360
what happened?

638
00:36:45.380 --> 00:36:46.640
What does the enemy do with you?

639
00:36:46.640 --> 00:36:47.800
How does he threaten you?

640
00:36:48.380 --> 00:36:50.900
With what, right?

641
00:36:50.900 --> 00:36:53.220
So, you know, we will talk more about that.

642
00:36:53.220 --> 00:36:55.200
So let's get into the nuts and bolts of this

643
00:36:55.200 --> 00:36:56.760
for a little bit longer, for a minute.

644
00:36:57.320 --> 00:36:59.620
So here's what we know from the neuroscience straight away.

645
00:36:59.820 --> 00:37:05.080
When you're at peace, when you are in this mental state

646
00:37:05.260 --> 00:37:09.380
of peace, now remember, peace is the state of your heart

647
00:37:09.380 --> 00:37:11.000
that informs your mind.

648
00:37:11.260 --> 00:37:14.320
Your heart, your human spirit, the inner man,

649
00:37:14.440 --> 00:37:17.360
the inner you, is informing your mind

650
00:37:17.360 --> 00:37:19.360
and says, this is what we believe.

651
00:37:20.080 --> 00:37:22.880
So anxiety, stress, worry, and all that stuff,

652
00:37:23.680 --> 00:37:26.240
and we'll get into that, I'm sure, at some point.

653
00:37:26.360 --> 00:37:29.200
But just a quick heads up, there's a fantastic study.

654
00:37:29.320 --> 00:37:30.680
I think it was by Stanford University.

655
00:37:30.780 --> 00:37:32.920
I'll go get, I've got the exact study somewhere,

656
00:37:33.020 --> 00:37:36.760
which shows that of 25 years of studying human emotions,

657
00:37:36.860 --> 00:37:40.100
that the human mind has no emotional circuits.

658
00:37:41.000 --> 00:37:43.100
That doesn't mean it doesn't experience emotions.

659
00:37:43.140 --> 00:37:44.720
It just has no emotional circuits.

660
00:37:44.720 --> 00:37:48.160
That means the brain is literally looking ahead

661
00:37:48.160 --> 00:37:50.920
and it's making a prediction.

662
00:37:51.200 --> 00:37:52.760
So you wake up in the morning and say,

663
00:37:52.760 --> 00:37:54.840
oh, yesterday I screwed up on that deal.

664
00:37:54.940 --> 00:37:56.860
You know, I lost that major client.

665
00:37:56.900 --> 00:37:58.480
I bet I'm getting fired today.

666
00:37:58.980 --> 00:38:02.240
So the brain says, oh, oh, hang on a second.

667
00:38:02.340 --> 00:38:04.260
I know what emotion goes with that.

668
00:38:04.560 --> 00:38:06.680
Depression, anxiety.

669
00:38:06.760 --> 00:38:08.660
And so it generates all this stuff.

670
00:38:08.800 --> 00:38:10.840
And so when the mind is in control,

671
00:38:10.960 --> 00:38:13.160
remember your mind is just an instrument

672
00:38:13.160 --> 00:38:15.240
trying to serve you, but your mind

673
00:38:15.240 --> 00:38:17.080
is not your highest form of you.

674
00:38:17.880 --> 00:38:19.460
You are not your mind.

675
00:38:19.560 --> 00:38:22.900
Your mind is just a device that helps you process and think.

676
00:38:23.100 --> 00:38:27.040
The real you, it's with the heart man believes.

677
00:38:28.040 --> 00:38:30.960
So your brain can't believe, your heart can believe.

678
00:38:31.400 --> 00:38:32.520
Believing is a heart function.

679
00:38:32.800 --> 00:38:35.280
So when you believe you're a new creation,

680
00:38:35.280 --> 00:38:36.360
you're telling your mind,

681
00:38:37.280 --> 00:38:39.720
we don't do the anxiety thing anymore

682
00:38:39.720 --> 00:38:43.000
because we are now grounded in Christ.

683
00:38:43.000 --> 00:38:43.960
We're a new creation.

684
00:38:43.960 --> 00:38:45.800
You see, you're not in your circumstances.

685
00:38:45.800 --> 00:38:46.780
You're in Christ.

686
00:38:46.980 --> 00:38:49.520
And so you start to live in this way

687
00:38:49.520 --> 00:38:52.440
because your peace surpasses what?

688
00:38:52.460 --> 00:38:53.580
All understanding.

689
00:38:54.160 --> 00:38:55.480
That's beautiful, isn't it?

690
00:38:55.800 --> 00:38:58.640
And we know that peace protects your heart mind.

691
00:38:58.660 --> 00:39:00.400
So let's take a quick look at that.

692
00:39:00.400 --> 00:39:03.160
Because we know that when we're in this space

693
00:39:03.600 --> 00:39:06.020
and we know that other studies have shown us

694
00:39:06.020 --> 00:39:07.140
that when you're at peace,

695
00:39:07.140 --> 00:39:09.700
when you're in this neurological state of peace,

696
00:39:09.800 --> 00:39:13.220
you're most creative, you're most clear thinking,

697
00:39:14.100 --> 00:39:16.080
you're most productive, right?

698
00:39:16.880 --> 00:39:19.160
You're most present in your relationships

699
00:39:19.160 --> 00:39:21.820
and you're definitely most effective in your leadership.

700
00:39:22.320 --> 00:39:25.700
So we know it brings out the very best of you

701
00:39:25.700 --> 00:39:27.940
in that moment, even while you're still learning.

702
00:39:29.100 --> 00:39:31.800
So let's talk about finding this peace.

703
00:39:32.040 --> 00:39:32.260
Go ahead.

704
00:39:32.920 --> 00:39:33.160
Yeah.

705
00:39:33.160 --> 00:39:37.740
And, you know, neurologically, you know,

706
00:39:37.740 --> 00:39:40.360
you have these thoughts, right?

707
00:39:40.360 --> 00:39:42.260
And if you accept, surrender and believe them,

708
00:39:42.260 --> 00:39:44.700
they go from the neocortex to the limbic brain,

709
00:39:44.920 --> 00:39:46.720
which is the chemical brain, the emotional brain,

710
00:39:47.180 --> 00:39:48.900
which creates amino acid peptides

711
00:39:48.900 --> 00:39:51.680
that travel down the spinal cord to the adrenal glands

712
00:39:51.680 --> 00:39:53.680
to create the actual emotions.

713
00:39:54.460 --> 00:39:56.600
And so then the brain will check in with the body

714
00:39:56.600 --> 00:39:58.280
and say, hey, how are we feeling?

715
00:39:58.540 --> 00:39:59.980
And so now that, you know, now that you're at peace.

716
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:01.900
the feeling, thinking, thinking, feeling.

717
00:40:02.380 --> 00:40:04.840
And then if it's of stress and anxiety,

718
00:40:04.840 --> 00:40:07.460
it kicks in the parasympathetic nervous system,

719
00:40:07.640 --> 00:40:11.060
which has your resources rushed to your hands and your feet

720
00:40:11.060 --> 00:40:13.460
away from some of your critical functions

721
00:40:13.460 --> 00:40:16.140
because it thinks you're about to fight or flight.

722
00:40:17.060 --> 00:40:21.420
And so just that interruption of, you know,

723
00:40:21.420 --> 00:40:23.760
second Corinthians 10, five, take captive every thought,

724
00:40:23.820 --> 00:40:25.660
make it obedient to Christ, right?

725
00:40:25.660 --> 00:40:28.020
So if you literally do that neurologically,

726
00:40:28.020 --> 00:40:31.200
you're preventing the emotions from being created.

727
00:40:31.520 --> 00:40:33.980
You're preventing the parasympathetic nervous system

728
00:40:34.180 --> 00:40:35.640
from kicking in.

729
00:40:36.080 --> 00:40:37.080
And I think I have that right.

730
00:40:37.360 --> 00:40:39.480
Parasympathetic is the bad, sympathetic is the good.

731
00:40:39.980 --> 00:40:39.980


732
00:40:40.580 --> 00:40:41.840
Yeah, I think so.

733
00:40:42.540 --> 00:40:43.700
Sympathetic is where you heal.

734
00:40:44.540 --> 00:40:45.880
Parasympathetic is where you're in stress.

735
00:40:46.860 --> 00:40:48.980
And so, and your body doesn't know the difference

736
00:40:49.080 --> 00:40:51.280
between I'm stressed about a deadline

737
00:40:51.280 --> 00:40:53.820
versus a lion is about to attack me.

738
00:40:54.020 --> 00:40:56.480
And so, you know, the same reaction.

739
00:40:57.120 --> 00:41:02.540
And so just that, hey, hey thought, I see you there.

740
00:41:02.900 --> 00:41:04.180
We don't need to do that anymore.

741
00:41:04.560 --> 00:41:08.240
And the more that you do that, the weaker and weaker,

742
00:41:08.620 --> 00:41:10.900
I think it was Hebert, I think,

743
00:41:11.280 --> 00:41:13.700
who said nerve cells that fire together, wire together.

744
00:41:14.020 --> 00:41:17.500
And so the more that you have a consistent thread of thought

745
00:41:17.500 --> 00:41:21.200
the stronger it becomes and vice versa.

746
00:41:21.760 --> 00:41:22.800
You know, those that, you know,

747
00:41:22.800 --> 00:41:24.840
when you stopped firing those, they unwire.

748
00:41:25.360 --> 00:41:28.880
And so pretty soon it becomes hard to even access stress.

749
00:41:29.480 --> 00:41:33.120
Like, you know, this is my experience of someone said,

750
00:41:34.020 --> 00:41:35.420
hey, you know, what, you know, during the event,

751
00:41:35.520 --> 00:41:37.080
they're like, hey, how are you feeling about the event?

752
00:41:37.800 --> 00:41:40.300
And my first thought was,

753
00:41:41.140 --> 00:41:43.060
how did I feel last year about the event?

754
00:41:43.080 --> 00:41:44.540
And I couldn't access that memory.

755
00:41:44.600 --> 00:41:46.200
I wasn't able, you know,

756
00:41:46.200 --> 00:41:48.080
cause I was probably stressed, right?

757
00:41:48.140 --> 00:41:49.820
And I just wasn't stressed.

758
00:41:50.480 --> 00:41:52.320
And so that, you know, these nerve cells

759
00:41:52.320 --> 00:41:54.620
that no longer fire together, no longer wire together.

760
00:41:54.620 --> 00:41:57.700
So they get distance and you actually forget

761
00:41:57.700 --> 00:41:59.660
how to even access stress.

762
00:42:00.460 --> 00:42:02.940
And so it's kind of a fun process.

763
00:42:03.680 --> 00:42:05.220
Well, that was a great,

764
00:42:05.300 --> 00:42:07.940
that was a great addition there, Ray.

765
00:42:08.500 --> 00:42:11.140
And cause you literally store the piece ultimately

766
00:42:11.140 --> 00:42:12.520
in every cell in your body,

767
00:42:12.800 --> 00:42:14.500
just like you store stress in your body.

768
00:42:18.980 --> 00:42:20.100
But now,

769
00:42:20.320 --> 00:42:23.040
what you call reprogram or neuroplasticity

770
00:42:23.040 --> 00:42:24.180
or any of that sort of stuff,

771
00:42:24.180 --> 00:42:26.260
is getting past the neuro stuff.

772
00:42:26.400 --> 00:42:27.140
You can simply,

773
00:42:34.560 --> 00:42:36.920
used to go and look at where the animal trails.

774
00:42:37.040 --> 00:42:38.680
So we had all these animals and like it was,

775
00:42:38.960 --> 00:42:39.880
it wasn't a very big game farm.

776
00:42:40.040 --> 00:42:41.260
It was like 3,500 acres,

777
00:42:41.360 --> 00:42:42.680
which for a game farm is pretty small.

778
00:42:42.700 --> 00:42:44.760
It was too small to have some of the big cats,

779
00:42:44.800 --> 00:42:46.640
but we did have giraffe and various antelope

780
00:42:46.740 --> 00:42:47.960
and some other things.

781
00:42:48.720 --> 00:42:51.580
But you'd watch where the animal pathways were.

782
00:42:51.920 --> 00:42:53.480
Then if you, those animal pathways

783
00:42:53.480 --> 00:42:55.480
would sometimes be worn so many times,

784
00:42:55.580 --> 00:42:56.580
they started to broaden.

785
00:43:01.420 --> 00:43:04.200
We had a big, you know, D6 bulldozer,

786
00:43:04.360 --> 00:43:06.140
and we used a very sophisticated

787
00:43:06.220 --> 00:43:08.500
African town planning model.

788
00:43:08.680 --> 00:43:10.960
And that is the guy who grew up there,

789
00:43:10.960 --> 00:43:12.540
who knew all the animal pathways.

790
00:43:12.620 --> 00:43:14.080
He was about 80 years old.

791
00:43:18.900 --> 00:43:20.420
You know, with the teepee.

792
00:43:20.520 --> 00:43:22.420
And then the bulldozer literally followed him.

793
00:43:22.420 --> 00:43:26.360
We made a road in the middle of the road,

794
00:43:26.800 --> 00:43:28.700
you know, real farm technology there.

795
00:43:28.700 --> 00:43:30.620
But I thought what a beautiful illustration

796
00:43:30.880 --> 00:43:32.300
of what happens with,

797
00:43:32.540 --> 00:43:33.840
when you first practice it,

798
00:43:33.860 --> 00:43:36.300
it's like you're pushing through all the bushes

799
00:43:36.300 --> 00:43:38.300
and the stuff and it's because it's new.

800
00:43:38.360 --> 00:43:39.840
Then you walk it a second time,

801
00:43:44.300 --> 00:43:45.340
a third,

802
00:43:45.600 --> 00:43:48.760
it becomes a well-worn pathway until it becomes a road,

803
00:43:48.860 --> 00:43:50.140
which until it becomes a highway.

804
00:43:50.140 --> 00:43:52.600
And what Ray is referring to there is

805
00:43:52.600 --> 00:43:54.980
once you've stopped using the old pathways,

806
00:43:55.180 --> 00:43:56.480
they grow closed.

807
00:44:02.260 --> 00:44:03.480
It's over the old ways.

808
00:44:03.960 --> 00:44:05.260
So what happens is not only,

809
00:44:05.600 --> 00:44:07.040
it's not like the old ways stay,

810
00:44:07.120 --> 00:44:08.020
then you get new ways.

811
00:44:08.060 --> 00:44:09.620
The old ways actually die.

812
00:44:09.960 --> 00:44:13.100
And so we know from scripture that you get renewed

813
00:44:13.100 --> 00:44:15.280
in the spirit of your mind.

814
00:44:15.600 --> 00:44:16.620
That's very deep.

815
00:44:16.740 --> 00:44:18.460
That's at its lowest possible level.

816
00:44:18.460 --> 00:44:22.300
So we already established that peace is relational.

817
00:44:22.600 --> 00:44:23.440
It's not transactional

818
00:44:23.440 --> 00:44:25.040
because it's with the Prince of Peace.

819
00:44:25.140 --> 00:44:27.380
You're saying you're inviting the Lord in.

820
00:44:27.680 --> 00:44:28.540
And in that moment,

821
00:44:28.560 --> 00:44:30.080
his peace makes no sense.

822
00:44:30.180 --> 00:44:31.620
Or as the Bible puts it,

823
00:44:31.720 --> 00:44:32.920
passes all understanding.

824
00:44:33.060 --> 00:44:33.400
In other words,

825
00:44:33.420 --> 00:44:36.040
it's above your brain's ability to understand

826
00:44:36.040 --> 00:44:38.880
why you should be peaceful in this situation.

827
00:44:39.020 --> 00:44:40.480
This makes no sense.

828
00:44:40.720 --> 00:44:41.200
Exactly.

829
00:44:41.480 --> 00:44:42.300
Not only that,

830
00:44:42.360 --> 00:44:44.780
it protects your mind in that moment

831
00:44:44.780 --> 00:44:46.260
and it protects your heart.

832
00:44:46.260 --> 00:44:48.580
So you don't start to doubt what you're believing.

833
00:44:49.740 --> 00:44:50.380
And so we can't.

834
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:05.640
show you taking your job seriously as you get stressed. Look, look how stressed I am. I'm

835
00:45:11.520 --> 00:45:21.860
overworked. Yeah, he's breaking up pretty bad.

836
00:45:28.120 --> 00:45:36.200
Yeah, he's breaking up pretty bad. Yeah, he's not in his normal office. So, sorry about

837
00:45:36.200 --> 00:45:48.420
that. We got Game Farm Bulldozer Pathway. Yeah. And now part three. Yeah, welcome to

838
00:45:48.660 --> 00:45:54.220
you're going to appreciate every word. Don't let him go. This is hilarious. It just drops off.

839
00:45:54.720 --> 00:45:59.960
Anyway, we'll make it fun. So, anyway, I don't know what you last caught. Did you catch the

840
00:45:59.960 --> 00:46:04.760
last bit about in the world you act stressed to show you're taking it seriously? And in the

841
00:46:04.760 --> 00:46:10.220
kingdom, you're at peace to show you're taking it seriously. So, it's a different permission.

842
00:46:11.380 --> 00:46:17.140
So, I think, you know, some, you know, a lot of people are used to and kind of grew up in a

843
00:46:17.380 --> 00:46:23.860
of wearing their work ethic on their sleeve, right? You know, look how many hours I put in

844
00:46:23.860 --> 00:46:33.420
or look how hard that was. And that's a very common scenario. But as you say that, right,

845
00:46:33.420 --> 00:46:38.140
even if you're saying it kind of cosmetically for others to appreciate you or whatever,

846
00:46:38.600 --> 00:46:43.000
you become that, right? Because death and life is still in the power of the tongue.

847
00:46:43.000 --> 00:46:49.640
And as you're describing things, you are creating those things. And so, you know, we want to be

848
00:46:50.320 --> 00:46:54.580
careful. How, you know, how are we using that language? Because you just don't, you know,

849
00:46:54.580 --> 00:47:00.620
have to, you know, have to use that language. Absolutely. Absolutely. Well, we won't take it.

850
00:47:00.620 --> 00:47:04.800
We'll just get a couple. I want to give you a couple of real practical. So, we always started

851
00:47:04.800 --> 00:47:11.060
this. What's your permission? What's the person you're going to become? You're going to practice

852
00:47:11.060 --> 00:47:16.660
this. And honestly, if you get this working in under a year, that's fantastic. Be really patient.

853
00:47:16.740 --> 00:47:21.180
Because here's what it is. Slow learning is kingdom learning. This idea that it's three

854
00:47:21.180 --> 00:47:24.740
steps and you got it and you listen to it, you listen to Ray and me talk for an hour and a bit

855
00:47:24.740 --> 00:47:29.280
about it. Now we're good. That's not what's going to happen. All that's happening is heart learning

856
00:47:29.280 --> 00:47:36.660
takes a moment. It takes time. So be super patient with yourself in this. So, you know,

857
00:47:36.660 --> 00:47:44.700
here's the thing we know from Philippians 4 through 7. It says, Rejoice in the Lord always.

858
00:47:45.280 --> 00:47:51.080
That means tough stuff in the middle of tough things as well. I say it again. Rejoice. Let your

859
00:47:51.080 --> 00:47:56.820
gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Yeah. Do nots. When you see a do not, remember

860
00:47:56.820 --> 00:48:04.160
this is what your new nature can do very naturally without stress or effort. Do not be anxious about

861
00:48:05.360 --> 00:48:10.740
anything. So nothing is allowed on that list. You're not allowed to be anxious. Why? The Lord

862
00:48:10.740 --> 00:48:15.880
said I've upgraded you from that low level of life to a whole new level. So there's no anxiety,

863
00:48:16.060 --> 00:48:22.380
worry, stress, fear. But in every single situation by petition where thanksgiving presents your

864
00:48:22.380 --> 00:48:29.340
request to God and the peace of God which transcends all understanding will do what?

865
00:48:29.340 --> 00:48:34.920
Guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus. What a beautiful way to live. I'm for this way

866
00:48:34.920 --> 00:48:44.740
of living for sure. So I think here's the thing. And I point out one quick thing is yet again,

867
00:48:45.560 --> 00:48:51.740
here's an interesting use of the word, you know, Thanksgiving gratitude or whatever,

868
00:48:51.740 --> 00:48:59.840
Mark 11 24 says, when you pray, pray as if you've already received. And here it's saying,

869
00:49:00.240 --> 00:49:06.980
with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known. Right? So that's going to the waiter

870
00:49:06.980 --> 00:49:14.240
waitress and saying, thank you for the cheeseburger that you that you're ordering right now. And so

871
00:49:14.240 --> 00:49:21.660
it's, you know, so every I have to remind myself that everything that that I'm wanting, right,

872
00:49:21.680 --> 00:49:26.200
that I'm thinking, I'm thanking him. Thank you, Father, for blessing me in the work of my hands.

873
00:49:26.660 --> 00:49:30.360
Thank you, Father, for blessing me and my family. Thank you, Father, for healing all parts of me.

874
00:49:30.540 --> 00:49:37.620
Thank you. So I'm just constantly in Thanksgiving, not Father, would you please, would you please

875
00:49:37.620 --> 00:49:42.500
help me out here? Please help a brother out here, my lonely voice in the wilderness. You know,

876
00:49:42.500 --> 00:49:47.800
I'm saying thank you, because I know that, you know, I think it's Matthew 711 says, you know,

877
00:49:48.020 --> 00:49:52.780
us, you know, being evil, you know, he's a he's a good father, and a good father wants to,

878
00:49:52.780 --> 00:49:58.700
you know, provide for us. And, and so just, you know, whatever it is that you're wanting,

879
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:03.560
to improve, to walk in more powerfully, thank him for that.

880
00:50:04.280 --> 00:50:06.280
Thank you for helping me trust you more. Thank you for helping

881
00:50:06.280 --> 00:50:09.340
me rely on you more. Thank you for helping me turn to you more

882
00:50:09.200 --> 00:50:12.960
quickly. You know that all of those are very good.

883
00:50:15.160 --> 00:50:18.920
So let's just take that even a step further there, Ray. That's

884
00:50:18.720 --> 00:50:25.560
great. And that is that you're not asking for peace. So by this

885
00:50:26.220 --> 00:50:29.200
definition, we don't pray for peace, because we have peace, we

886
00:50:29.300 --> 00:50:31.320
have the Prince of Peace, we have the source of peace living

887
00:50:31.320 --> 00:50:36.240
in us. What we're praying for, our requests made known to God

888
00:50:36.240 --> 00:50:39.100
here is about whatever it is that's, that's trying to cause

889
00:50:39.100 --> 00:50:42.520
stress, the problem, the situation, the difficulty. But

890
00:50:42.520 --> 00:50:45.600
remember, and we're going to learn this later on, with every

891
00:50:45.600 --> 00:50:51.140
problem you face, God has already attached his possibility

892
00:50:51.140 --> 00:50:55.500
to it. And here's the most extraordinary thing when he

893
00:50:55.500 --> 00:50:58.380
shows you his possibility. So when you're at peace, you can

894
00:50:58.380 --> 00:51:00.820
hear that possibility. When you're stressed, you can't even

895
00:51:00.820 --> 00:51:04.300
see that you're in begging mode, please, God help me. So what

896
00:51:04.300 --> 00:51:08.420
religion teaches us is to pray panic prayers to get rescued.

897
00:51:09.580 --> 00:51:13.400
What new creation prayers are is we're partnering with God to

898
00:51:13.400 --> 00:51:17.440
step into who we're becoming. Lord, let this situation be an

899
00:51:17.440 --> 00:51:22.240
upgrade. So every problem you're facing not only has his

900
00:51:22.700 --> 00:51:26.620
possibility attached, but you know, hey, upgrade. Wow, this is

901
00:51:26.620 --> 00:51:29.780
a real doozy of a problem. I can't wait to see the upgrade

902
00:51:29.780 --> 00:51:32.860
that comes with this. You know, I'm going to become someone

903
00:51:33.040 --> 00:51:36.860
more. So God isn't just wanting to solve your problems. God is

904
00:51:36.860 --> 00:51:41.240
wanting to bless you in such a way that you become more in his

905
00:51:41.240 --> 00:51:44.660
image and likeness. So you're going to come out. So every time

906
00:51:44.660 --> 00:51:48.360
the enemy threatens you, he loses because you become more in

907
00:51:48.360 --> 00:51:51.820
Christ. He tries to say, he tries to curse you, God turns it

908
00:51:51.820 --> 00:51:54.920
into a blessing, you become more in Christ. So the enemy works

909
00:51:54.920 --> 00:51:58.940
for God whether he likes it or not, sucks to be him. So you

910
00:51:58.940 --> 00:52:04.020
know, back to what so nothing, so no weapon formed against you

911
00:52:04.020 --> 00:52:08.320
can prosper, because everything flips into your advantage. That

912
00:52:08.320 --> 00:52:12.640
is your kingdom advice. Now the key to that is you being at

913
00:52:12.420 --> 00:52:17.420
rest. Because everything in the kingdom starts in rest,

914
00:52:17.780 --> 00:52:21.020
everything. The reason is you can hear him, you can see what,

915
00:52:21.380 --> 00:52:23.880
hey, this is the problem. This is how the Lord sees this

916
00:52:23.880 --> 00:52:29.320
problem. This is the possibility that God is attached

917
00:52:29.320 --> 00:52:31.920
to it. And then you say, Father, is there a promise that comes

918
00:52:31.920 --> 00:52:35.340
with that? With the promise comes provision, man, he just

919
00:52:35.340 --> 00:52:39.140
stacks it, he stacks it in your favor. He's like, okay, you got

920
00:52:39.140 --> 00:52:43.200
this problem. And Jesus said, so when you do, you will have

921
00:52:43.200 --> 00:52:46.460
trouble in this world strategy, but be of good cheer because

922
00:52:46.460 --> 00:52:53.160
I've overcome the world. So problem, laughter. And that's

923
00:52:53.160 --> 00:52:57.580
why warriors in the kingdom partner with God in laughter.

924
00:52:59.060 --> 00:53:01.780
It's like you're staring at Goliath and you're thinking it

925
00:53:02.020 --> 00:53:05.260
really sucks to be you. You know why? I've got a promise from

926
00:53:05.260 --> 00:53:07.660
God, I'm going to be king one day. If you're David, you're

927
00:53:07.660 --> 00:53:11.320
thinking, I could have prophetic word of my life. I mean, I can't

928
00:53:11.240 --> 00:53:15.760
die. So, you know, you're so big, I can't miss. There you go.

929
00:53:16.140 --> 00:53:19.860
So the point here is that you see, it flips you when you're at

930
00:53:19.860 --> 00:53:23.480
peace stage, it's almost like there's a lightheartedness,

931
00:53:23.660 --> 00:53:28.100
there's a lightness of being. What did Jesus say? When we take

932
00:53:28.100 --> 00:53:32.900
his yoke, come to me, Matthew 11, 28 through 30, come to me

933
00:53:32.900 --> 00:53:38.860
all your heavy laden and burdened and I will give you

934
00:53:38.860 --> 00:53:41.940
rest. So rest is an exchange. It's a permanent state of being.

935
00:53:41.940 --> 00:53:44.360
It's not like transaction. Oh, you need a bit of rest, you need

936
00:53:44.360 --> 00:53:47.340
a bit of rest. No, it's a new lifestyle of rest. I'm going to

937
00:53:47.420 --> 00:53:52.080
teach you this, because rest activates your yoke. Take my

938
00:53:52.080 --> 00:53:55.460
yoke, take my partnership, take my being together. It's like

939
00:53:55.460 --> 00:53:58.280
he's putting his, think of yoke as him putting his arm around

940
00:53:58.160 --> 00:54:03.500
you. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, from gentle and

941
00:54:03.500 --> 00:54:06.480
I'm humble in heart. That means I'm not going to hurt you. I'm

942
00:54:06.480 --> 00:54:08.920
not going to stress you. I'm going to be with you in it. I'm

943
00:54:08.920 --> 00:54:13.500
going to be patient with you. And then you'll say my yoke is

944
00:54:13.500 --> 00:54:18.680
easy. My burden is light. So God is setting you up. So I

945
00:54:18.680 --> 00:54:21.360
think the Father, Son and Holy Spirit had a meeting in heaven

946
00:54:21.360 --> 00:54:23.720
when they're planning this whole thing. I think he's scratching

947
00:54:23.720 --> 00:54:29.360
there and going, Hmm, where can we put Rebecca so that she's

948
00:54:29.520 --> 00:54:33.140
absolutely guaranteed all our favor, all our blessing, and our

949
00:54:33.140 --> 00:54:36.220
love and in a place where she can never feel like we will

950
00:54:36.220 --> 00:54:39.420
never leave her or forsake her. I know we'll hide her in Christ.

951
00:54:40.240 --> 00:54:43.300
And now you're hidden with Christ in God. Double level, by

952
00:54:43.300 --> 00:54:47.680
the way, in God. So we go, Oh, the enemy this and the enemy.

953
00:54:47.780 --> 00:54:50.660
Listen, forget the enemy. The enemy doesn't even make it on

954
00:54:50.660 --> 00:54:53.700
the master's list. Jesus said there are two masters, God and

955
00:54:53.700 --> 00:54:57.440
money. He's not on that list. He was catastrophically made a

956
00:54:57.480 --> 00:54:58.360
public spectacle.

957
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:02.460
is Jesus crushed him at the cross.

958
00:55:03.260 --> 00:55:05.640
And so we'll get more into what that means

959
00:55:05.780 --> 00:55:08.540
and when the enemy comes against us, which he does,

960
00:55:08.860 --> 00:55:10.900
but it's a lot rarer than we think he does.

961
00:55:11.500 --> 00:55:14.080
And so we're gonna talk about this coming

962
00:55:14.080 --> 00:55:16.460
to this place of utter peace.

963
00:55:16.900 --> 00:55:18.460
And with this, I'll wrap it up.

964
00:55:19.560 --> 00:55:21.360
So what's the mode?

965
00:55:21.540 --> 00:55:22.900
If you're taking this yoke,

966
00:55:23.020 --> 00:55:25.360
if you're taking God putting his arm around you,

967
00:55:25.360 --> 00:55:26.700
where are we getting this from?

968
00:55:27.300 --> 00:55:29.380
Well, we can get into servant mode.

969
00:55:29.380 --> 00:55:30.720
God, tell me what to do.

970
00:55:30.720 --> 00:55:31.620
I'll go and do it.

971
00:55:31.620 --> 00:55:32.460
God, tell me what to do.

972
00:55:32.960 --> 00:55:35.680
And when we first starting off, we tend to do that,

973
00:55:35.700 --> 00:55:36.260
which is fine.

974
00:55:36.260 --> 00:55:39.400
But then we move into John 15, 15.

975
00:55:39.400 --> 00:55:41.200
I no longer call you servants

976
00:55:41.660 --> 00:55:45.600
because a servant does not know his master's business.

977
00:55:46.500 --> 00:55:48.400
Right, Jesus said, I'm about my father's business.

978
00:55:48.900 --> 00:55:50.620
Jesus wants you to be about his business.

979
00:55:51.520 --> 00:55:54.920
I call you friends for everything that I learned

980
00:55:54.920 --> 00:55:58.080
from my father, I have made known to you.

981
00:55:58.080 --> 00:56:01.060
In other words, the same way the father taught me,

982
00:56:01.180 --> 00:56:02.840
Jesus says, I'm gonna teach you.

983
00:56:03.740 --> 00:56:07.740
So we have this beautiful John, I'll drop it here in the,

984
00:56:08.260 --> 00:56:10.000
oh, you see, you're already raising it.

985
00:56:10.300 --> 00:56:12.260
And you're quick, that's fantastic.

986
00:56:12.380 --> 00:56:14.820
So I no longer call you, because here's the new thing.

987
00:56:15.460 --> 00:56:18.060
God is setting you up as a friend

988
00:56:18.460 --> 00:56:23.040
and he's setting you up to live as more than an overcomer.

989
00:56:23.640 --> 00:56:26.920
So that means you're living over your circumstances,

990
00:56:26.920 --> 00:56:28.400
you're not living under them.

991
00:56:28.400 --> 00:56:31.040
You're not living under the weight of your challenges.

992
00:56:32.160 --> 00:56:34.760
Now, as God promotes you in business in the kingdom,

993
00:56:34.760 --> 00:56:36.380
as he adds more and more zeros,

994
00:56:36.520 --> 00:56:38.620
by the way, same lessons, just more zeros.

995
00:56:39.280 --> 00:56:41.820
When you remember that time you trusted God for $1,000

996
00:56:41.860 --> 00:56:43.200
and it was a big deal.

997
00:56:43.200 --> 00:56:45.880
And you remember that time, hang on, that was 10 days ago

998
00:56:45.880 --> 00:56:47.580
when you trusted him for $25,000.

999
00:56:48.040 --> 00:56:50.380
I remember the day you trust him for 250.

1000
00:56:50.520 --> 00:56:51.980
Now I remember when I was trusting God

1001
00:56:51.980 --> 00:56:53.080
for a million dollars a month,

1002
00:56:53.080 --> 00:56:54.200
because that was my payroll.

1003
00:56:54.820 --> 00:56:57.680
And I was, you know, and then it'll go 10,

1004
00:56:57.680 --> 00:56:58.720
but nothing changes.

1005
00:56:58.900 --> 00:57:01.760
All that happens is more zeros add, same lesson,

1006
00:57:02.100 --> 00:57:03.320
same day, same thing.

1007
00:57:04.060 --> 00:57:08.200
Because at some point, Jesus, if God can, you know,

1008
00:57:08.300 --> 00:57:12.040
God will, if you cannot be trusted with worldly wealth,

1009
00:57:12.320 --> 00:57:15.040
how much then God can't trust you with?

1010
00:57:15.980 --> 00:57:18.740
True, Richard, put it in the positive.

1011
00:57:19.160 --> 00:57:22.480
God is training you right now in worldly wealth,

1012
00:57:22.480 --> 00:57:24.020
because he wants to bless and prosper you.

1013
00:57:24.320 --> 00:57:27.300
But remember, that's just that something else

1014
00:57:27.300 --> 00:57:28.320
comes on top of that.

1015
00:57:28.460 --> 00:57:29.300
And you know what that is?

1016
00:57:29.320 --> 00:57:29.800
True riches.

1017
00:57:29.940 --> 00:57:30.520
What is that?

1018
00:57:30.680 --> 00:57:31.980
He is the true riches.

1019
00:57:33.100 --> 00:57:34.020
Christ is your reward.

1020
00:57:34.140 --> 00:57:36.820
You get to know him and what he's like and be with him.

1021
00:57:36.860 --> 00:57:39.060
And more importantly, become just like him.

1022
00:57:39.740 --> 00:57:42.600
Okay, so that's episode three, season one.

1023
00:57:44.800 --> 00:57:45.740
Hope you enjoyed it.

1024
00:57:46.100 --> 00:57:47.020
Ray, back to you.

1025
00:57:48.060 --> 00:57:48.060


1026
00:57:48.980 --> 00:57:52.600
Yeah, and so this is, so I got,

1027
00:57:52.820 --> 00:57:54.240
when I prayed on this meeting,

1028
00:57:54.300 --> 00:57:58.200
I got a few questions to ask you guys

1029
00:57:58.200 --> 00:58:01.340
and then some homework for you.

1030
00:58:01.560 --> 00:58:02.840
Very simple.

1031
00:58:03.060 --> 00:58:06.480
I'm not gonna overload you with crazy, you know,

1032
00:58:06.480 --> 00:58:08.060
a whole bunch of stuff to do.

1033
00:58:08.100 --> 00:58:10.860
But it's important, you know,

1034
00:58:10.860 --> 00:58:14.440
I just posted in the chat, John 1515,

1035
00:58:14.620 --> 00:58:16.080
which Dion was talking about.

1036
00:58:17.060 --> 00:58:20.900
I've called you friends for all things

1037
00:58:20.900 --> 00:58:22.760
that I heard from my father I've made known to you.

1038
00:58:24.940 --> 00:58:28.460
What, I had something very interesting happen today

1039
00:58:28.460 --> 00:58:36.140
in that I was doing a project with someone

1040
00:58:37.420 --> 00:58:42.900
and I just, I had this little bit of my spirit

1041
00:58:42.900 --> 00:58:49.400
that was just like, hey, I don't know

1042
00:58:49.400 --> 00:58:51.400
if they really appreciate me in this thing.

1043
00:58:51.840 --> 00:58:53.380
And so it was just a little part of my spirit.

1044
00:58:53.660 --> 00:58:54.600
And so I would, you know, I would pray.

1045
00:58:54.840 --> 00:58:55.760
I'm like, all right, you know, God,

1046
00:58:55.880 --> 00:58:57.660
you want me doing this thing?

1047
00:58:58.080 --> 00:59:01.480
And I would get a yes, but I would get this little,

1048
00:59:01.720 --> 00:59:04.380
and so, you know, I got into deep prayer yesterday

1049
00:59:04.380 --> 00:59:09.440
about this thing and, because it just kept coming up.

1050
00:59:09.440 --> 00:59:12.700
And the more and more I understand his nature

1051
00:59:13.400 --> 00:59:20.800
and I see his nature, he wants us fully just so excited

1052
00:59:20.800 --> 00:59:24.260
about what we do here, so excited about our work,

1053
00:59:24.820 --> 00:59:28.760
so excited to labor, so excited to do things

1054
00:59:28.940 --> 00:59:33.460
and to not have a, okay, you're calling me to do this.

1055
00:59:33.560 --> 00:59:35.860
All right, fine, I'll do it.

1056
00:59:36.240 --> 00:59:38.380
And so I just got into deep prayer.

1057
00:59:38.380 --> 00:59:40.280
I'm like, Lord, what are you trying to tell me about this?

1058
00:59:40.540 --> 00:59:46.320
And so while still trying to keep this,

1059
00:59:46.320 --> 00:59:51.100
you know, private or whatever, I got to go to the person

1060
00:59:55.100 --> 00:59:59.900
and give back some of what they had offered.

1061
01:00:01.120 --> 01:00:03.040
but to continue in a certain way.

1062
01:00:03.140 --> 01:00:07.980
And so I do that today and that felt good.

1063
01:00:09.600 --> 01:00:15.560
And then I got to see that the same demands

1064
01:00:15.560 --> 01:00:17.300
and everything were still there.

1065
01:00:17.760 --> 01:00:20.500
And then it just pricked my spirit more.

1066
01:00:20.840 --> 01:00:22.640
And I'm like, okay, Lord,

1067
01:00:23.320 --> 01:00:24.900
that he actually wanted me to see that.

1068
01:00:26.220 --> 01:00:28.640
And I'm like, Lord, am I appreciated in this?

1069
01:00:28.640 --> 01:00:29.260
No.

1070
01:00:31.300 --> 01:00:32.620
Okay, all right.

1071
01:00:33.000 --> 01:00:34.260
Do you want me to continue this?

1072
01:00:34.380 --> 01:00:35.700
I already knew the answer, no.

1073
01:00:36.700 --> 01:00:41.480
And so he's, you know, we're friends, right?

1074
01:00:42.140 --> 01:00:44.620
It's not servants, go do this boy.

1075
01:00:45.640 --> 01:00:48.780
There may be moments where he calls you

1076
01:00:48.780 --> 01:00:50.620
to do something that's very uncomfortable.

1077
01:00:51.460 --> 01:00:54.860
You know, my altar call in Arizona, very uncomfortable.

1078
01:00:55.420 --> 01:00:59.140
If you haven't read the first chapter

1079
01:00:59.140 --> 01:01:00.700
of Faith Driven Network Marketer,

1080
01:01:00.800 --> 01:01:02.080
I talk all about obedience

1081
01:01:02.080 --> 01:01:04.860
and I talk about many of the uncomfortable things

1082
01:01:04.880 --> 01:01:06.660
he's had me do,

1083
01:01:07.280 --> 01:01:10.640
but he's not gonna give you an occupation you hate.

1084
01:01:10.880 --> 01:01:14.680
He's not gonna give you an I help statement that sucks.

1085
01:01:14.820 --> 01:01:16.040
He's not gonna give you,

1086
01:01:16.560 --> 01:01:19.540
here's what you're just called to do, go toil in the field.

1087
01:01:20.120 --> 01:01:22.340
It's gonna be something that excites you.

1088
01:01:22.340 --> 01:01:25.640
And so last week, and I have,

1089
01:01:25.960 --> 01:01:28.060
I've been in this interesting season

1090
01:01:28.060 --> 01:01:30.420
of being just absolutely infatuated with scripture

1091
01:01:30.420 --> 01:01:31.820
and love for that,

1092
01:01:32.260 --> 01:01:34.420
but also knowing that he's equipped me

1093
01:01:34.420 --> 01:01:35.640
to help people in business.

1094
01:01:35.640 --> 01:01:37.300
Cause it's, you know, it's just very simple

1095
01:01:37.300 --> 01:01:41.020
for me to look at someone's design and set up and say,

1096
01:01:41.100 --> 01:01:42.500
hey, you know, tweak these things

1097
01:01:42.500 --> 01:01:45.100
and this is gonna be a lot smoother, easier,

1098
01:01:45.860 --> 01:01:46.840
faster, better, more lucrative.

1099
01:01:47.480 --> 01:01:52.760
And then last week he gave me a new, a brand new tagline.

1100
01:01:52.780 --> 01:01:55.540
And that is, I help business owners increase their profits

1101
01:01:55.540 --> 01:01:56.700
while putting God first.

1102
01:01:57.020 --> 01:02:03.000
And what that's done for me is it's allowed me to look at,

1103
01:02:03.120 --> 01:02:04.060
okay, what am I doing?

1104
01:02:04.480 --> 01:02:07.280
And is everything complimenting this mantle?

1105
01:02:07.860 --> 01:02:08.260
Great.

1106
01:02:09.140 --> 01:02:13.420
And, but it's also led me to do some interesting things

1107
01:02:13.420 --> 01:02:17.280
in a manner that has brought a lot of people to Christ

1108
01:02:17.280 --> 01:02:18.260
this last week.

1109
01:02:18.260 --> 01:02:20.260
I mean, it probably brought it like a hundred people

1110
01:02:20.300 --> 01:02:22.460
to Christ through direct messages.

1111
01:02:23.760 --> 01:02:25.800
Because for you to put God first,

1112
01:02:25.880 --> 01:02:27.420
and he knew that I would know this,

1113
01:02:27.920 --> 01:02:29.820
for me, for you to put God first, you gotta hear his voice.

1114
01:02:30.680 --> 01:02:31.700
You can't put him first.

1115
01:02:31.860 --> 01:02:32.780
It's not a bumper sticker.

1116
01:02:32.880 --> 01:02:34.460
It's not a, you know, a necklace.

1117
01:02:34.540 --> 01:02:37.240
It's not a, you know, it's even our great swag.

1118
01:02:37.340 --> 01:02:39.180
We love our swag, but it's not swag.

1119
01:02:39.400 --> 01:02:41.220
You know, it's hearing his voice

1120
01:02:41.220 --> 01:02:42.760
and knowing what does that look like?

1121
01:02:42.760 --> 01:02:44.260
How do you stay in step with the spirit

1122
01:02:44.380 --> 01:02:45.700
by hearing from him?

1123
01:02:46.400 --> 01:02:50.000
And so it's given me different marketing approaches

1124
01:02:50.080 --> 01:02:53.000
to get more people interested in hearing from him

1125
01:02:53.000 --> 01:02:54.180
because that's my mantles

1126
01:02:54.180 --> 01:02:56.180
and I got to, I'm walking under it happily.

1127
01:02:56.960 --> 01:02:58.880
Does this make sense?

1128
01:03:00.220 --> 01:03:05.120
And so what I got, and we'll have each of you

1129
01:03:05.700 --> 01:03:08.600
if you're, you know, hopefully game,

1130
01:03:08.880 --> 01:03:10.640
this is, you know, we've got an intimate group here.

1131
01:03:11.280 --> 01:03:14.620
And so what I'd like is I'm gonna ask you three questions

1132
01:03:14.740 --> 01:03:18.600
and I'll have Lisa go first

1133
01:03:18.600 --> 01:03:21.840
because she's, you know, I've asked her these questions.

1134
01:03:22.620 --> 01:03:24.760
And so three questions for you

1135
01:03:25.440 --> 01:03:28.880
and I want you to, you know, to write these down

1136
01:03:29.500 --> 01:03:31.860
and then, you know, part of the homework

1137
01:03:31.860 --> 01:03:35.740
is to go to prayer about these and see if this,

1138
01:03:36.120 --> 01:03:38.820
if you feel like this is where you're supposed to be.

1139
01:03:38.820 --> 01:03:42.600
But the three questions are, who do you help?

1140
01:03:44.840 --> 01:03:45.760
Who do you help?

1141
01:03:47.840 --> 01:03:49.020
How do you help them?

1142
01:03:50.420 --> 01:03:52.640
And why should they listen to you?

1143
01:03:54.000 --> 01:03:55.500
So who do you help?

1144
01:03:56.860 --> 01:03:57.460
How do you help?

1145
01:03:57.520 --> 01:04:01.060
And this is kind of the, our very first part

1146
01:04:01.060 --> 01:04:04.060
of helping you develop out not just your kingdom offer

1147
01:04:04.060 --> 01:04:05.660
but your entire infrastructure

1148
01:04:06.000 --> 01:04:07.700
of what's gonna be the most lucrative,

1149
01:04:07.700 --> 01:04:11.460
the most accelerated way for you to grow your business

1150
01:04:11.460 --> 01:04:13.440
and to get into the right questions

1151
01:04:13.440 --> 01:04:15.980
because it's, you know, God has infinite wisdom

1152
01:04:16.580 --> 01:04:20.340
but what I've noticed is I have to locate the questions.

1153
01:04:21.320 --> 01:04:25.400
I have to figure out a different way to ask questions

1154
01:04:25.400 --> 01:04:27.780
to get what I'm really looking for.

1155
01:04:28.300 --> 01:04:31.740
And this will help start that process.

1156
01:04:32.500 --> 01:04:35.820
And so Lisa, is that clear?

1157
01:04:36.620 --> 01:04:37.640
Oh, just throw it at me.

1158
01:04:37.640 --> 01:04:38.520
I wing it well.

1159
01:04:38.700 --> 01:04:40.040
What was the third one?

1160
01:04:40.720 --> 01:04:42.460
So who do you help?

1161
01:04:43.240 --> 01:04:44.460
Okay, who do you feel?

1162
01:04:44.660 --> 01:04:49.940
Like this is your, and I will be shocked

1163
01:04:51.820 --> 01:04:55.120
if any of you nail this perfectly right now

1164
01:04:55.300 --> 01:04:57.380
it's probably gonna be, it might be close.

1165
01:04:57.860 --> 01:04:59.120
It might be completely off

1166
01:04:59.480 --> 01:04:59.980
but it'll be close.

1167
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:04.720
I'll be shocked if someone just absolutely nails it and that's that's the deal right away.

1168
01:05:06.020 --> 01:05:09.360
But it's who do you help? How do you help? And why should they listen to you?

1169
01:05:11.000 --> 01:05:15.880
And there's a few ways to answer that one. You know, sometimes why should they listen to you

1170
01:05:16.120 --> 01:05:21.660
is because you have this incredible system. You know, sometimes why they should listen to you

1171
01:05:21.660 --> 01:05:25.860
is because you lived and experienced this thing that you're helping them with now.

1172
01:05:25.860 --> 01:05:30.040
And that's most often, I think, going to be going to be the case.

1173
01:05:33.360 --> 01:05:41.920
Okay. All right, family, get ready. Here I come. Okay, so who do I help? I help

1174
01:05:43.300 --> 01:05:52.420
individuals who have been bullied by their family. Now, how do I help them? I help them

1175
01:05:52.420 --> 01:06:03.260
by working slowly through them. I use short, I just went blank. I've been going since 9 a.m.

1176
01:06:03.340 --> 01:06:11.720
this morning, so my brain's kind of toasty. I help them through short videos, YouTube shorts,

1177
01:06:12.920 --> 01:06:20.420
and yeah, less than 60 second videos online with, you know, stuff I've been through.

1178
01:06:21.300 --> 01:06:26.360
And tips and tricks. And why should they listen to me? Because I've lived it.

1179
01:06:27.880 --> 01:06:33.380
And let's just say to this day, I have two siblings that barely talk to me.

1180
01:06:34.320 --> 01:06:40.300
And it is what it is. And I love them. And it's okay.

1181
01:06:41.620 --> 01:06:51.960
Yeah. So I really do think that that is your, who you're supposed to help. I really do believe that.

1182
01:06:52.440 --> 01:07:10.200
And the things where we'll work is how needs to be sexy. How needs to be, you know,

1183
01:07:10.200 --> 01:07:16.860
I have an 11 step process that took me from beating myself up and feeling worthless to

1184
01:07:16.900 --> 01:07:22.400
being absolutely cool, whether they approved of me or not. Right? So that's just off the top of my

1185
01:07:22.400 --> 01:07:29.240
head. But it was probably some way to say that or do that or something. But it's some it's some kind

1186
01:07:29.240 --> 01:07:43.640
of like tangible thing. So what, what got so much, probably more of a reaction than almost

1187
01:07:43.640 --> 01:07:50.980
anything I've posted before in stories, I only posted this in stories. I said, Hey, I've learned

1188
01:07:50.980 --> 01:07:55.780
a three step process to hear from God, if you'd like to learn more, drop the word three. And so

1189
01:07:55.780 --> 01:08:02.660
I had hundreds of people drop the word three and in stories. And, and so now I'm walking them

1190
01:08:02.660 --> 01:08:07.380
through. So I pray about them, you know, have they accepted Christ? If they haven't step one,

1191
01:08:07.980 --> 01:08:14.700
you know, got to do this, you know, and if I, if I do a, Hey, who wants to accept Christ? I,

1192
01:08:15.240 --> 01:08:20.319
a lot fewer hands go up. But if I say who wants to hear from God, almost everyone's hand goes up.

1193
01:08:20.319 --> 01:08:24.160
They at least want to experience that they want to know what that's like. And, and so,

1194
01:08:26.080 --> 01:08:34.680
you know, that so that's what to work on. And then that also falls under why listen to you.

1195
01:08:34.779 --> 01:08:40.899
So you are an authority because you lived it. You've done it. But we also want an outcome.

1196
01:08:41.479 --> 01:08:49.960
Yes, we want you know, we want a which I actually included in mine, you know, in my for you the 11

1197
01:08:49.960 --> 01:08:57.779
or not. But you know, so you want you want to tighten that up? Because once what's interesting,

1198
01:08:58.080 --> 01:09:05.420
and I talked about this, you know, Dion helped me a lot with the different aspects of, of

1199
01:09:05.420 --> 01:09:10.859
structuring this mastermind and coming up with how I'm going to talk about it at the event of

1200
01:09:11.399 --> 01:09:18.520
once I understood, okay, this is how I'm really going to help people. It changed my marketing of

1201
01:09:18.520 --> 01:09:25.160
that. And so for you, when you understand how you're really going to help people, it'll change

1202
01:09:25.160 --> 01:09:30.500
all your marketing. Because you know, now you're under that mantle. And now you just you just kind

1203
01:09:30.500 --> 01:09:38.020
of get that. Yeah. And then past coaching through the last year's mastermind at the end, you were,

1204
01:09:38.359 --> 01:09:43.819
you gave me the it was it's kind of cool, because you said that 12, it was like, 12 steps. Yeah.

1205
01:09:44.520 --> 01:09:52.420
1112, whatever. What I've been wanting to find, and I've been praying about, and I guess I need

1206
01:09:52.420 --> 01:09:59.980
to just disconnect from everything, go find a park, and just listen. Yeah. The one thing.

1207
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:05.640
that keeps coming up as a 12-step program for alcoholics and I actually researched it because

1208
01:10:05.640 --> 01:10:10.920
I didn't know exactly what it was. It was there was a few things in there I could have taken and

1209
01:10:11.520 --> 01:10:13.520
but but I want to hear it from God.

1210
01:10:16.960 --> 01:10:25.540
Well sometime I think you know we it's we can get into the habit of discounting

1211
01:10:25.540 --> 01:10:33.440
one of God's creations which is everything as an inspiration for what we're doing and

1212
01:10:33.440 --> 01:10:41.200
and so the fact that you thought about the 12 steps you know that's you know Proverbs

1213
01:10:42.260 --> 01:10:51.260
I think nine something three maybe talks about how you know wisdom or Holy Spirit if we want

1214
01:10:51.260 --> 01:10:59.680
say that will speak will will send maidens to the highest places of the cities which the highest

1215
01:10:59.680 --> 01:11:07.960
places of the city is is your head and and so a maiden is a thought and and so you know so you'll

1216
01:11:07.960 --> 01:11:14.080
get this thought that it's kind of like oh the 12 step you know and so that's that's a clue right to

1217
01:11:14.080 --> 01:11:20.820
go and hey go take a look at that and and so it doesn't mean to copy it you know exactly but it

1218
01:11:20.820 --> 01:11:28.060
means that may be inspiring for you and so I would you know spend spend time on that because

1219
01:11:28.820 --> 01:11:38.540
you know if you without that you can't really serve the person you're actually called to serve

1220
01:11:38.540 --> 01:11:43.300
at any kind of scalable level and beyond do you have something to add?

1221
01:11:45.480 --> 01:11:53.240
Oh yes I wanted to just undergird what you were saying an answer to Lisa's question about the 12

1222
01:11:53.240 --> 01:11:59.300
steps and hearing it from dad from the Lord you know I want dad to tell me right for sure I I

1223
01:11:59.300 --> 01:12:03.540
suspect what's happening Lisa is that the Lord wants to give you a higher version of that

1224
01:12:04.140 --> 01:12:09.100
his version so so let's just talk about this we've talked about upstairs downstairs before

1225
01:12:09.100 --> 01:12:14.960
so a lot of times there are downstairs solutions which is God's grace and kindness to the world

1226
01:12:14.960 --> 01:12:19.720
but when he wants to bring a kingdom solution there's an upgraded view because it involves him

1227
01:12:20.780 --> 01:12:26.180
overtly so in that case so the Lord will be pointing you to so I'll give you a quick example

1228
01:12:26.180 --> 01:12:30.540
we use very something very simple so my wife wrote a book I was looking around for it here but it's

1229
01:12:30.540 --> 01:12:35.340
it's called why to parent and we were trying to think through this process and as Ray very

1230
01:12:35.340 --> 01:12:42.020
correctly says as if you can make it more sexy so then we kept getting the idea of

1231
01:12:44.600 --> 01:12:54.640
the finance guy seven steps baby steps Ramsey yeah Ramsey so Ramsey this is a parenting this

1232
01:12:54.640 --> 01:13:03.860
is a kingdom parenting book Lord you know check your references so you know so you go back and

1233
01:13:04.740 --> 01:13:10.820
and so we realized what he was saying was there's an architecture to what Ramsey did

1234
01:13:10.820 --> 01:13:16.780
that was really helpful like the first baby step one was a save a thousand dollars in other words

1235
01:13:16.780 --> 01:13:23.620
an immediate quick win super fast quick one two a little more challenging and then you're

1236
01:13:23.620 --> 01:13:30.020
overcoming the obstacles of each step right so when we looked at Ramsey seven steps we came up

1237
01:13:30.020 --> 01:13:36.740
with seven steps to build a kingdom family okay seven steps building kingdom the first one's really

1238
01:13:36.780 --> 01:13:41.400
easy and it was a quick one and so we looked at the we didn't just look at the steps and

1239
01:13:41.400 --> 01:13:44.020
make them better we looked at the architecture I saw

1240
01:13:49.800 --> 01:13:52.580
picture of that because there's something in that for you

1241
01:13:54.600 --> 01:13:58.300
powerful we're going to screen capture the next time you freeze I'm just saying

1242
01:14:02.180 --> 01:14:08.700
I know this is this is our Santa Barbara office it sometimes just goes crazy at night

1243
01:14:09.680 --> 01:14:16.600
so so prayer on that see see what inspiration you get if you've already gotten an inspiration from

1244
01:14:16.600 --> 01:14:23.000
the 12 steps go take a look at that look at okay it might have come up with you know it may or not

1245
01:14:23.000 --> 01:14:29.540
may not be 12 right it might be but like you know get into prayer around that because once you have

1246
01:14:29.660 --> 01:14:36.820
that I really it's so important to have that thing like because we're just kind of firing into the

1247
01:14:36.820 --> 01:14:44.760
air you know and just kind of shotgun blasting and hoping we hit somebody until we have that thing

1248
01:14:44.760 --> 01:14:49.580
once we have that thing you can build an entire infrastructure around it to support that thing

1249
01:14:50.060 --> 01:14:56.040
yeah and I'll work with you and I got your number yeah yeah exactly and that and she brings up a

1250
01:14:56.040 --> 01:14:59.920
good point this isn't you know when I give you know this kind of homework

1251
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.400
it's not all right see you next month kiddo it's no get get into boxer with me i'm you know you

1252
01:15:06.400 --> 01:15:13.780
guys y'all got my boxers now so you know just boxer me and i want to help who else because i

1253
01:15:13.780 --> 01:15:20.260
want to do we'll do if i i don't we'll do a few more of these because i want you guys to understand

1254
01:15:21.060 --> 01:15:25.800
this um so that you can go off and and do your best version of it pray about it see what you get

1255
01:15:25.800 --> 01:15:29.520
um and uh so who would like to go next

1256
01:15:33.480 --> 01:15:42.060
okay kim thank you uh full transparency this is really a big reason why i'm here

1257
01:15:42.740 --> 01:15:48.280
i i kind of feel like i'm held together with duct tape right now even though it looks fabulous

1258
01:15:49.000 --> 01:15:56.720
so who do i help is introverted entrepreneurs how do i help them is through proven digital

1259
01:15:56.720 --> 01:16:05.180
marketing strategies and automation and why should they listen to me um i have successfully

1260
01:16:05.180 --> 01:16:12.040
created the systems of which i call the virtual spider web built the multiple six figure a year

1261
01:16:12.040 --> 01:16:21.340
business that has provided my family a lot of what they're praying for and asking for time

1262
01:16:21.340 --> 01:16:30.620
freedom financial freedom location freedom etc say um so introverted entrepreneurs yeah and then

1263
01:16:30.620 --> 01:16:39.920
say the the how again um proven digital marketing strategies the biggest one being pinterest

1264
01:16:39.920 --> 01:16:45.160
marketing but a lot of people come to work with me and they're just not ready for pinterest yet

1265
01:16:45.160 --> 01:16:50.580
because they don't know what a lead magnet is or they don't have their their ducks in a row yet

1266
01:16:50.580 --> 01:16:58.740
so there's some education that has to happen before we can even dive into pinterest so i think

1267
01:17:00.140 --> 01:17:13.600
with you it's and this this is very common is to just just make that what what is it that i can

1268
01:17:13.600 --> 01:17:21.520
what is it that i can say that if my who hears it they just have to have it

1269
01:17:22.400 --> 01:17:31.920
and and so if my my who hears my how they're just like how do i get that thing yeah and and so um

1270
01:17:33.020 --> 01:17:37.080
you know you have so you're you consider yourself an introverted entrepreneur

1271
01:17:37.600 --> 01:17:44.000
i actually am very big introvert yeah yeah yeah okay um and so

1272
01:17:47.100 --> 01:17:54.340
you know i i do you know keep in mind with this as we're structuring this out this is kind of the

1273
01:17:54.340 --> 01:18:01.140
initial steps as you're structuring this out it's not let me share everything i can possibly do

1274
01:18:01.500 --> 01:18:09.260
it's what's that what's that one pill what's that one shot of espresso what's that one

1275
01:18:09.260 --> 01:18:17.020
you know thing that that is going to be that that super attracting super sexy man i would

1276
01:18:17.020 --> 01:18:22.600
love to have that if only my who would hear about this thing they would have to have it

1277
01:18:22.640 --> 01:18:28.900
yes and you know six minute abs right you know like that's that's that's a that's a good one

1278
01:18:29.640 --> 01:18:38.080
um and and so um you know i would think about that what is what is your version of

1279
01:18:38.080 --> 01:18:43.040
seven steps twelve steps you know what whatever um and uh

1280
01:18:45.080 --> 01:18:50.040
and yeah i have a little bit of business bipolar and i feel like i changed that weekly so if you

1281
01:18:50.040 --> 01:18:54.840
go to my social media each platform says a little something different because i'm just like ah

1282
01:18:56.140 --> 01:19:03.680
what is that thing and once you once you once we get this this piece and we'll you know tweak be

1283
01:19:03.880 --> 01:19:10.900
um once we get this piece it's going to give you peace all right yes you know you know my north

1284
01:19:10.900 --> 01:19:16.420
star i know i know where i'm going and you know if you if you don't know that you are kind of

1285
01:19:16.500 --> 01:19:23.940
scrambling because you're thinking what works yep and what you know so what we think works is just a

1286
01:19:23.940 --> 01:19:28.800
lot of content and a lot of stuff that just gets thrown out there and so we do that but it just

1287
01:19:28.800 --> 01:19:35.920
never scales it never gets to the level of impact that we could be reaching because we never we can

1288
01:19:35.920 --> 01:19:43.620
never quite figure it out and um and so i would just you know what it doesn't mean this is your

1289
01:19:43.780 --> 01:19:50.500
in hey you can never change it ever but you know what is that if an in what what could i say to an

1290
01:19:50.500 --> 01:19:55.700
end if i if only i get the eyeballs of an introverted entrepreneur this thing right here

1291
01:19:55.700 --> 01:19:59.560
this is what would really excite them and they were just

1292
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:06.720
push someone over to get to. Thank you. Yeah. So pray around that work, work on that. And then,

1293
01:20:06.720 --> 01:20:10.060
you know, you can work back and forth with me. You'll do. Thank you.

1294
01:20:11.740 --> 01:20:17.380
Dion. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Quick, quick, um, just listening to everybody go through this.

1295
01:20:17.660 --> 01:20:22.920
This is a lot harder to do for yourself than it is to do from someone else, right? Ray,

1296
01:20:22.920 --> 01:20:28.980
you mentioned earlier that, you know, I've helped you. I, I need help. What happens is you get so

1297
01:20:28.980 --> 01:20:34.980
close to the detail, you know, like Kim, you were just sharing there yet we're listening to and go,

1298
01:20:35.240 --> 01:20:41.900
my goodness. Uh, you know, what's the number one thing, why introverted entrepreneurs don't get on,

1299
01:20:41.900 --> 01:20:47.360
you know, social media it's because they terrified and they think they'll stumble or blah, blah. So,

1300
01:20:47.780 --> 01:20:53.600
so what's the number one thing you don't have changed your personality, right? Yeah. Be yourself,

1301
01:20:53.760 --> 01:20:58.140
how to be yourself and be super effective as an introverted personality, you know,

1302
01:20:58.140 --> 01:21:02.860
strategies for introverted personality so that you don't, that I think you, you will nail that

1303
01:21:02.860 --> 01:21:08.500
down really quickly. Um, Ray, a second quick point, uh, that you brought up there is like,

1304
01:21:09.700 --> 01:21:15.820
um, you know, it, it, am I still going or have I jammed up? No, no, go ahead.

1305
01:21:17.080 --> 01:21:23.620
Oh, as soon as you said it, you were going. And then as soon as you said it,

1306
01:21:23.620 --> 01:21:25.960
yeah, no worries.

1307
01:21:28.380 --> 01:21:33.900
Okay. I think you're back. Yeah, I think it's back and forth. It's probably a bit,

1308
01:21:34.080 --> 01:21:38.180
it's, it's probably not helpful. So I'm just going to, I agreed with what you said. I just

1309
01:21:38.180 --> 01:21:41.840
want to encourage everyone. Don't feel frustrated if you don't have it all nailed down right up

1310
01:21:41.840 --> 01:21:47.700
front. This takes time to really nail it in. But once you do, it's like a building block. You just

1311
01:21:47.800 --> 01:21:51.760
rapidly build out everything, your marketing strategy. In fact, once you've got this down,

1312
01:21:51.760 --> 01:21:58.740
your ads will write themselves. Powerful. Powerful. Yeah. It's a good, it's a good point

1313
01:21:59.140 --> 01:22:03.980
of, you know, the enter, what does the introvert not want to do? And what, and quite frankly,

1314
01:22:04.060 --> 01:22:09.900
what does no one want to do be someone they're not right. And that introvert doesn't want,

1315
01:22:09.960 --> 01:22:14.640
I don't want to have to be extroverted. You know, I was at a training in South B or I spoke

1316
01:22:14.680 --> 01:22:19.780
in South beach this weekend at a company event and the guy did the colors training

1317
01:22:19.780 --> 01:22:30.760
and he did a great job. But he, to me, he overly picked on the yellows. And, and, and so I think

1318
01:22:30.760 --> 01:22:35.940
a lot of yellows for those that don't know, yellows typically are more emotional. I'm a

1319
01:22:35.940 --> 01:22:41.360
yellow red, right? So I'm like neck and neck for those that know the colors training. And and so

1320
01:22:41.360 --> 01:22:46.660
the yellows typically are more spiritual, more emotional, you know, afraid of conflict and

1321
01:22:46.660 --> 01:22:53.080
things like that. And, and so this trainer, you know, kind of picked on, on the yellow. So I,

1322
01:22:53.080 --> 01:22:57.540
I think a lot of yellows left that meeting thinking they can't be yellow.

1323
01:22:59.000 --> 01:23:03.840
That's not good because then they'll sabotage themselves because they don't want to be someone

1324
01:23:03.840 --> 01:23:09.120
they're not. And, and so, you know, it's not that. So I think you reassuring them, Hey,

1325
01:23:09.360 --> 01:23:14.180
it's okay to be introverted. You can be successful as an advert. I am. And I show you how in this

1326
01:23:14.360 --> 01:23:20.000
unique process. Oh, very good. Dawn.

1327
01:23:24.580 --> 01:23:32.140
Okey dokey. Uh, who do I help women who feel like they are stuck or that life is a struggle

1328
01:23:32.260 --> 01:23:40.260
and need some hope? How do I help them? I share the strategies that make it easier.

1329
01:23:41.220 --> 01:23:48.180
Uh, wait, yeah. I share the seven strategies that make it easier to move out of your past

1330
01:23:48.180 --> 01:23:56.300
and live your purpose. Um, and why should they listen to me going through many struggles

1331
01:23:56.460 --> 01:24:02.460
and challenges? I implemented these exact strategies, which radically changed my life.

1332
01:24:02.460 --> 01:24:06.580
And now I can help and encourage others to find that piece.

1333
01:24:07.260 --> 01:24:20.300
Yeah. So I, I, I like that you got, it sounds like we have a stronger how then, you know, um,

1334
01:24:20.300 --> 01:24:28.540
the why I would say probably want to get more vulnerable there, you know, and, and share.

1335
01:24:29.760 --> 01:24:34.840
It sounds kind of nebulous and, and, you know, like, um,

1336
01:24:36.420 --> 01:24:39.800
you know, I mean, I don't know what, what exactly you've been through, but

1337
01:24:39.800 --> 01:24:44.780
yeah, there may be some, a vulnerability piece there. Yeah. Well, I mean, I could cover the

1338
01:24:44.480 --> 01:24:51.960
gamut. It's just, and so you, you pick and choose and it's, um, and, and that's really where I,

1339
01:24:51.960 --> 01:24:59.980
I want to dial in, right. There's a, there's a lot there, but, and then, and I'll

1340
01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:08.540
So, so I know, that's what God has gifted me to do. Yeah. And

1341
01:25:08.540 --> 01:25:12.100
so it's a matter of dialing into that now, and being very

1342
01:25:13.360 --> 01:25:17.340
specific, and strategic. And also, I want that kingdom

1343
01:25:17.700 --> 01:25:25.900
thinking versus my, you know, human spirit thinking, okay, I'm

1344
01:25:25.900 --> 01:25:33.920
or human thinking to, to try to figure it out. Yeah. So, yeah,

1345
01:25:34.000 --> 01:25:38.940
these, these initial steps are kind of launching you into that

1346
01:25:39.520 --> 01:25:43.700
space. And we are going to be praying about all this and

1347
01:25:43.820 --> 01:25:47.160
digging it up and everything. But you know, what, what you

1348
01:25:47.240 --> 01:25:51.140
mentioned just reminds me of first Peter 410, as each one has

1349
01:25:51.140 --> 01:25:53.900
received a gift. And a gift doesn't necessarily mean a

1350
01:25:54.040 --> 01:25:58.760
talent, or a singing ability, or whatever. But a gift is also

1351
01:25:58.760 --> 01:26:03.980
what have we been rescued from? Yeah. And, and so it's, you

1352
01:26:03.980 --> 01:26:07.240
know, vulnerability is usually what's the thing I really don't

1353
01:26:07.240 --> 01:26:09.920
want to share. And

1354
01:26:11.020 --> 01:26:13.620
I've given that up.

1355
01:26:13.860 --> 01:26:17.280
Like, whatever, don't care. The books coming out next month.

1356
01:26:17.640 --> 01:26:24.020
Yeah, comes out on the 12th. My parents might not talk to my, my

1357
01:26:24.020 --> 01:26:28.560
but it's all it's all good. My ex husband might take me to court,

1358
01:26:28.780 --> 01:26:36.020
but it's all good. Yeah. So I'm ready. I just I want to make

1359
01:26:36.020 --> 01:26:40.600
sure and you know how you taught us at the speaking thing, too,

1360
01:26:41.320 --> 01:26:46.200
that there's a difference between dredging it up and making

1361
01:26:46.200 --> 01:26:51.900
people feel icky. Right. But But really, the goal is to is to

1362
01:26:52.200 --> 01:26:58.720
create a connection. Yeah. So I want to dial in to how do I and

1363
01:26:58.720 --> 01:27:03.660
I can go back to my notes from when we did that workshop.

1364
01:27:04.780 --> 01:27:07.960
Because I've left, you know, I kind of went back to my other

1365
01:27:08.920 --> 01:27:13.340
companies, and full speed ahead on those. And now it's just

1366
01:27:13.340 --> 01:27:15.020
like, okay, Don Anderson.

1367
01:27:16.080 --> 01:27:24.840
Yeah. And no, and notice, and notice in me, the increase in

1368
01:27:24.320 --> 01:27:29.240
stewardship. Because for those that just attended that speaking

1369
01:27:30.200 --> 01:27:35.020
thing, if, if I didn't do a good job of getting them plugged into

1370
01:27:35.020 --> 01:27:38.040
something additional, I really didn't serve them that well.

1371
01:27:39.140 --> 01:27:42.260
Because your experience is probably the same experience of

1372
01:27:42.260 --> 01:27:44.420
many of them. Yeah, I just didn't know what to do with it.

1373
01:27:44.420 --> 01:27:48.360
It was good that I had it. But yeah, now and so you know,

1374
01:27:48.780 --> 01:27:52.920
that's, like when I prayed about over and over and over and over

1375
01:27:52.920 --> 01:27:57.240
about the offer for, you know, faith and, you know, faith or

1376
01:27:57.160 --> 01:28:01.660
fear. This is what he designed, because it's like, it needs to

1377
01:28:01.660 --> 01:28:05.160
be 12 months, it needs to be this, it needs to be a serious

1378
01:28:05.160 --> 01:28:07.560
commitment, and you're going to cover this, you're going to do

1379
01:28:07.560 --> 01:28:13.420
and and so but it's, it's, it's, you know, because there's a part

1380
01:28:13.420 --> 01:28:16.740
of me that's like, I just want to do a good job. I just want to,

1381
01:28:16.980 --> 01:28:20.580
you know, put on a great event and everything. Like, no, no,

1382
01:28:20.580 --> 01:28:23.860
that's not good stewardship. Because you're going to impress

1383
01:28:23.860 --> 01:28:26.020
these people are going to go right back to their same lives.

1384
01:28:26.480 --> 01:28:30.000
And, you know, there are people that were right on the decision

1385
01:28:30.000 --> 01:28:33.260
button of a completely different life, didn't pull the trigger.

1386
01:28:33.840 --> 01:28:36.480
And and so they're already back in the world, they're already

1387
01:28:36.480 --> 01:28:41.060
back. And so it's, you know, it's, it's going to be a great

1388
01:28:41.060 --> 01:28:46.420
journey, for sure. For sure. But pray, pray around that. What is

1389
01:28:46.420 --> 01:28:50.140
the what is the most powerful piece of that? And what you'll

1390
01:28:50.140 --> 01:28:55.820
find is, you know, getting even more detailed on the who is

1391
01:28:55.820 --> 01:28:59.860
what's going to reveal that for you? If that makes sense? Yeah.

1392
01:28:59.900 --> 01:29:04.120
So who's who specifically? Is it from a narcissistic relationship?

1393
01:29:04.120 --> 01:29:08.660
Is it from a, you know, like, I don't know what it is. But we'll

1394
01:29:08.660 --> 01:29:13.480
get there. So yeah, I mean, so narcissism is broad, right?

1395
01:29:14.040 --> 01:29:19.320
Because it's a broad spectrum. And I was married to someone who

1396
01:29:19.320 --> 01:29:23.700
had antisocial personality disorder. So psychopath and

1397
01:29:23.700 --> 01:29:27.820
sociopath, you know, that the name is not a good description

1398
01:29:27.820 --> 01:29:32.920
of who the person is. Right. So but I don't think I need to like,

1399
01:29:33.820 --> 01:29:36.720
necessarily say that, you know, he tried to burn the house down

1400
01:29:36.720 --> 01:29:42.040
with me in it. Even though that might be a good part for sharing

1401
01:29:42.040 --> 01:29:50.240
in a speaking situation, right? So it's just, yeah. So I've,

1402
01:29:50.820 --> 01:29:53.100
there's just so many options. I don't know what to say.

1403
01:29:53.960 --> 01:29:57.440
Yeah, great prayer on that. And then as we communicate back and

1404
01:29:57.440 --> 01:29:59.980
forth, I'll be praying about that too. And you know,

1405
01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:02.120
what's our best dialed in.

1406
01:30:02.820 --> 01:30:02.820


1407
01:30:02.840 --> 01:30:03.360
Awesome.

1408
01:30:04.240 --> 01:30:05.280
Thank you.

1409
01:30:05.680 --> 01:30:06.120
Kyle.

1410
01:30:07.420 --> 01:30:08.660
Oh, yeah, let's go.

1411
01:30:10.500 --> 01:30:13.020
So, thank you all for sharing everything

1412
01:30:13.020 --> 01:30:15.300
because it helped me out.

1413
01:30:15.740 --> 01:30:19.120
But anyway, so mine is not what I have on my Facebook.

1414
01:30:20.500 --> 01:30:22.940
Anybody else's is not what theirs is on their Facebook,

1415
01:30:23.000 --> 01:30:23.420
right?

1416
01:30:23.420 --> 01:30:25.240
So, yeah, I am in the weeds, Jeremy.

1417
01:30:25.400 --> 01:30:26.720
That's why I changed my thing.

1418
01:30:26.860 --> 01:30:28.260
I was in the weeds for a minute.

1419
01:30:29.100 --> 01:30:32.360
So, anyway, so who do I help?

1420
01:30:33.160 --> 01:30:36.080
Okay, so this one is, I prayed on this

1421
01:30:36.080 --> 01:30:37.380
and it came to me and stuff.

1422
01:30:37.760 --> 01:30:40.380
So, I help the fatherless fathers

1423
01:30:40.380 --> 01:30:42.060
that are stuck in survival mode.

1424
01:30:43.540 --> 01:30:46.160
And I'm gonna explain it at the end.

1425
01:30:46.560 --> 01:30:47.980
So, how do I help them?

1426
01:30:48.380 --> 01:30:52.100
Well, survival mode to me starts financially.

1427
01:30:53.360 --> 01:30:54.780
I help people make money.

1428
01:30:54.800 --> 01:30:56.180
It's super easy what I do.

1429
01:30:56.940 --> 01:30:58.700
So, that's not a problem at all.

1430
01:30:58.800 --> 01:31:00.800
I hope it's easy to make money with that.

1431
01:31:00.860 --> 01:31:04.660
So, then I help them, the ones that were fatherless,

1432
01:31:05.820 --> 01:31:08.520
find a GPS by going to the Lord, right?

1433
01:31:08.520 --> 01:31:09.240
That is your father.

1434
01:31:09.360 --> 01:31:11.480
I didn't think I had a father growing up,

1435
01:31:11.520 --> 01:31:13.180
or I didn't have a father growing up.

1436
01:31:13.180 --> 01:31:15.580
So, I had no guidance, right?

1437
01:31:15.920 --> 01:31:18.540
And now I am seeking the Lord.

1438
01:31:18.660 --> 01:31:19.280
That's my father.

1439
01:31:19.380 --> 01:31:21.120
That's my GPS, right?

1440
01:31:21.880 --> 01:31:25.620
So, and why do they need to listen to me?

1441
01:31:26.280 --> 01:31:27.400
Well, because I lived there

1442
01:31:27.400 --> 01:31:29.020
and I'm gonna share a couple of reasons

1443
01:31:29.020 --> 01:31:30.200
why I said fatherless.

1444
01:31:30.540 --> 01:31:32.940
Fatherless isn't just like physically fatherless.

1445
01:31:33.020 --> 01:31:35.640
It's like I had no guidance at all growing up.

1446
01:31:36.100 --> 01:31:38.840
So, I had to be stuck in survival mode my entire life

1447
01:31:38.840 --> 01:31:40.020
because I had to figure it out.

1448
01:31:40.900 --> 01:31:43.660
And money for me was my pain point.

1449
01:31:43.760 --> 01:31:44.940
I'll just share one little story.

1450
01:31:45.160 --> 01:31:46.740
I remember high school football.

1451
01:31:46.980 --> 01:31:49.560
My mother was never at my football games.

1452
01:31:49.560 --> 01:31:53.520
I used to walk home literally five miles

1453
01:31:54.480 --> 01:31:57.240
every single night from football practice.

1454
01:31:57.440 --> 01:31:59.040
I would stand outside of the school

1455
01:31:59.260 --> 01:32:00.700
and everybody that walks by,

1456
01:32:00.740 --> 01:32:02.080
the coach, do you need a ride home?

1457
01:32:02.360 --> 01:32:03.940
Too embarrassed to say, yeah, I did.

1458
01:32:05.040 --> 01:32:07.620
And my mom didn't have enough money to pay for gas.

1459
01:32:07.960 --> 01:32:11.420
So, we would have to walk home every single night,

1460
01:32:11.460 --> 01:32:13.300
every single night after every event.

1461
01:32:13.340 --> 01:32:14.480
Or my mom would go in the store

1462
01:32:14.520 --> 01:32:16.600
and buy us food with food stamps.

1463
01:32:16.640 --> 01:32:18.320
And we'd hurry up, tell her what we wanted

1464
01:32:18.320 --> 01:32:19.220
and run out of the store.

1465
01:32:20.700 --> 01:32:22.080
So, money was pain to me.

1466
01:32:22.200 --> 01:32:23.520
So, that's why I was, you know,

1467
01:32:23.980 --> 01:32:25.200
I never knew how to make it.

1468
01:32:25.200 --> 01:32:26.380
And I don't think that the world

1469
01:32:27.100 --> 01:32:28.680
needs to struggle over money.

1470
01:32:29.020 --> 01:32:30.800
So, to me, I'm confident that I found

1471
01:32:31.220 --> 01:32:33.100
literally the easiest way to make money.

1472
01:32:34.100 --> 01:32:35.660
So, I solved that problem.

1473
01:32:35.520 --> 01:32:39.580
Now, bringing people to Christ after that event,

1474
01:32:39.640 --> 01:32:40.960
that's new for me.

1475
01:32:41.740 --> 01:32:44.040
So, and after you're saying, be the light.

1476
01:32:44.120 --> 01:32:45.260
So, now I'm like, you're right.

1477
01:32:45.260 --> 01:32:46.160
Cause that's what helped me.

1478
01:32:46.160 --> 01:32:47.320
That's why I'm here,

1479
01:32:47.460 --> 01:32:49.460
through every situation I've ever been in life,

1480
01:32:49.500 --> 01:32:51.280
because he was there the entire time.

1481
01:32:51.520 --> 01:32:53.520
He guided me through every step of the way.

1482
01:32:54.180 --> 01:32:56.700
So, yeah, I just want to explain it.

1483
01:32:57.020 --> 01:33:00.040
So, cause I know Ray's over here dissecting it.

1484
01:33:00.080 --> 01:33:01.520
That's what I was hoping you were gonna do.

1485
01:33:01.580 --> 01:33:03.760
So, that's why, and that's my pain point.

1486
01:33:04.040 --> 01:33:05.540
And that's, yeah.

1487
01:33:05.340 --> 01:33:07.740
So, the fatherless man.

1488
01:33:08.640 --> 01:33:08.900
Yeah.

1489
01:33:09.380 --> 01:33:10.840
So, I think that's,

1490
01:33:11.960 --> 01:33:14.780
there's a lot of powerful stuff there.

1491
01:33:16.160 --> 01:33:16.160


1492
01:33:19.840 --> 01:33:20.020
we,

1493
01:33:22.040 --> 01:33:23.280
you know, we don't,

1494
01:33:24.560 --> 01:33:26.400
you know, definitely get into prayer

1495
01:33:26.400 --> 01:33:28.220
around all these pieces, right?

1496
01:33:29.860 --> 01:33:30.660
Because,

1497
01:33:34.200 --> 01:33:38.580
the challenge here is,

1498
01:33:41.840 --> 01:33:44.220
the two, what I, my experience, my observation,

1499
01:33:44.220 --> 01:33:47.980
is the two biggest factors that prevent people from God

1500
01:33:48.380 --> 01:33:51.260
are father wounds and church hurt.

1501
01:33:53.120 --> 01:33:57.400
So, when you're tagline

1502
01:33:57.400 --> 01:34:01.140
or whatever marketing messages we come up with

1503
01:34:01.140 --> 01:34:03.380
are toward the fatherless fathers,

1504
01:34:04.200 --> 01:34:07.140
you're gonna have an uphill battle.

1505
01:34:07.360 --> 01:34:09.420
Now, if in prayer, this gets revealed,

1506
01:34:09.660 --> 01:34:11.020
then rock it out, right?

1507
01:34:11.020 --> 01:34:12.340
And we will get there.

1508
01:34:12.340 --> 01:34:13.860
Not tonight, but we'll get there.

1509
01:34:15.120 --> 01:34:16.780
But if I'm, this is like,

1510
01:34:22.180 --> 01:34:24.520
yeah, I really don't have another analogy for it,

1511
01:34:25.380 --> 01:34:26.500
but, you know,

1512
01:34:27.460 --> 01:34:30.280
the fatherless or those with father wounds

1513
01:34:33.080 --> 01:34:36.860
are the most likely to be turned off by a God message.

1514
01:34:38.340 --> 01:34:38.900
Okay?

1515
01:34:38.900 --> 01:34:39.720
Well, that makes sense.

1516
01:34:39.720 --> 01:34:42.020
And so, you know,

1517
01:34:42.440 --> 01:34:46.080
we may not have God on the outside of the wrapper, right?

1518
01:34:46.960 --> 01:34:49.600
But they open the wrapper and they get inside

1519
01:34:49.600 --> 01:34:50.420
and they're like, wait a minute,

1520
01:34:50.600 --> 01:34:51.960
Kyle's like a really good guy.

1521
01:34:52.600 --> 01:34:53.160
That makes sense.

1522
01:34:53.360 --> 01:34:57.960
I wonder what, how, you know, how he operates, you know?

1523
01:35:00.000 --> 01:35:04.580
Peter 3 15 says, you know, for those that ask for the source of

1524
01:35:04.580 --> 01:35:08.620
your hope, be gentle and respectful. Right? And so you

1525
01:35:08.620 --> 01:35:11.280
want to get to the point where someone's asking you the source

1526
01:35:11.280 --> 01:35:14.360
of your hope, right? And so I mean, I wonder what makes Kyle

1527
01:35:14.360 --> 01:35:19.320
tick, you know, how can he help me make money? Because I think

1528
01:35:19.320 --> 01:35:23.800
that that's a very powerful thing for those fathers. So I'm

1529
01:35:23.800 --> 01:35:31.900
I'm just, I'm wondering if God's calling you to go bring a whole

1530
01:35:31.900 --> 01:35:36.940
bunch of people that will never step foot in church, but to go

1531
01:35:36.940 --> 01:35:40.840
bring a whole lot of people to you, to learn from you connect

1532
01:35:40.840 --> 01:35:46.100
with you. And, and you then tell them about their Heavenly

1533
01:35:46.100 --> 01:35:50.340
Father and help them explain, you know, that biological, how

1534
01:35:50.340 --> 01:35:52.780
we feel about our biological fathers, often how we feel about

1535
01:35:52.780 --> 01:35:55.860
him. And it doesn't have to be the way that makes sense.

1536
01:35:55.900 --> 01:35:58.400
Rebecca, that makes a lot. That makes a lot of sense. That's

1537
01:35:58.400 --> 01:36:01.500
cool. Like the whole candy wrapper analogy. I like that.

1538
01:36:02.320 --> 01:36:06.200
Yeah. Yeah. And Rebecca, do you have something to add on this?

1539
01:36:06.280 --> 01:36:08.300
Yeah, I just wanted to share something, Kyle, because when

1540
01:36:08.300 --> 01:36:12.140
you were speaking, I'm just excited for you, because I saw

1541
01:36:12.140 --> 01:36:14.580
something and I'm so I'm just going to share it. But you

1542
01:36:14.580 --> 01:36:17.960
mentioned something about like, the GPS. And as soon as you

1543
01:36:17.840 --> 01:36:21.840
said, I started having chills. And I saw this massive compass

1544
01:36:22.360 --> 01:36:25.860
with you kind of standing like in in rubble, like on a gravel

1545
01:36:25.860 --> 01:36:29.820
road, and then immediately it smoothed out. It was like fresh

1546
01:36:30.900 --> 01:36:34.200
pavement, like nice. I don't know if this is like a

1547
01:36:34.200 --> 01:36:36.700
transition for you. But I just really sensed that God's

1548
01:36:36.700 --> 01:36:39.780
connecting in such a big way. And that he's like getting ready

1549
01:36:39.780 --> 01:36:40.980
to really elevate you.

1550
01:36:41.780 --> 01:36:42.780
I get that, too.

1551
01:36:42.880 --> 01:36:45.720
Yeah, I really appreciate that. Because I was, I think it was

1552
01:36:45.720 --> 01:36:48.640
Yeah, it was Leslie that I was talking to on here the other

1553
01:36:48.640 --> 01:36:52.160
day. I was talking to you, right? And she's like, you know,

1554
01:36:52.160 --> 01:36:55.840
you really got to start helping men out there. Because a lot of

1555
01:36:55.800 --> 01:36:59.460
men, they're not vulnerable. They're scared to like, you

1556
01:36:59.460 --> 01:37:01.400
know, because when you stepped up to that room, you started

1557
01:37:01.400 --> 01:37:04.300
talking about everything that happened to you. When you're

1558
01:37:04.300 --> 01:37:06.780
younger, she's like, a lot of men need that, like, they really

1559
01:37:06.780 --> 01:37:10.780
need to know that they have like, they can, they have

1560
01:37:10.780 --> 01:37:13.900
someone to talk to or turn to and like express yourself. So I

1561
01:37:13.900 --> 01:37:16.640
was also mixed up with that, too. So I had a lot of things

1562
01:37:16.640 --> 01:37:21.940
written, but I crossed out a couple. And but yeah, yeah.

1563
01:37:22.740 --> 01:37:26.960
Yeah, I like that a lot. I think that's a very powerful image of

1564
01:37:26.780 --> 01:37:31.160
rocky, you know, like deal. Compass. Yeah, that's actually

1565
01:37:31.160 --> 01:37:33.420
cool. I might take my user.

1566
01:37:33.680 --> 01:37:36.720
Go get some. I mean, with AI nowadays, you know, you can go

1567
01:37:36.760 --> 01:37:44.060
create anything. So cool. So yeah, pray around that. Let's

1568
01:37:44.060 --> 01:37:48.180
let's work from that base. Let's keep moving forward. And

1569
01:37:48.180 --> 01:37:52.120
you know, this is again, this is just the Kickstarter here, you

1570
01:37:52.120 --> 01:37:54.660
know, just the you know, the beginning and we'll, we'll get

1571
01:37:55.140 --> 01:38:01.720
to all of you will have this and you'll love it. You'll love it.

1572
01:38:01.980 --> 01:38:04.160
I'm telling you, because we're not gonna you know, it's not of

1573
01:38:04.160 --> 01:38:07.320
God if you don't love it. And you're gonna you're gonna love

1574
01:38:07.320 --> 01:38:10.300
it. And so we'll get there. We're not we're not there yet.

1575
01:38:11.260 --> 01:38:18.620
I'm Stephanie. Do you have your hand raised? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1576
01:38:24.160 --> 01:38:27.980
So I got who do I help? I help heart centered high performers

1577
01:38:27.980 --> 01:38:30.240
who are interested in growing themselves and their businesses

1578
01:38:30.240 --> 01:38:37.360
but don't know where to start. Okay. It's not there, but it's

1579
01:38:37.360 --> 01:38:41.720
for sure. Okay. How do I help them? I help them get to the

1580
01:38:41.720 --> 01:38:44.600
heart of their businesses by setting up systems to scale and

1581
01:38:44.600 --> 01:38:46.800
in touch with their own hearts by teaching techniques so they

1582
01:38:46.800 --> 01:38:49.520
can show up awesome in their businesses for their teams for

1583
01:38:49.520 --> 01:38:54.920
themselves and their lives. Why should they listen to me? I've

1584
01:38:54.920 --> 01:38:57.600
taken a deep dive into the hearts of several six and seven

1585
01:38:57.600 --> 01:39:00.380
figure businesses over the last 14 years have been on my own

1586
01:39:00.380 --> 01:39:03.040
personal development journey, and have been trained to get

1587
01:39:03.040 --> 01:39:07.240
connected to my own heart so that I can help them get

1588
01:39:07.240 --> 01:39:12.680
pretty powerful. So that, yeah, so I would say that's

1589
01:39:14.800 --> 01:39:20.080
probably gonna be like, like you're on a bio, you know, kind

1590
01:39:20.080 --> 01:39:24.740
of thing. And, you know, coming up with also a, you know, maybe

1591
01:39:24.760 --> 01:39:28.980
a quicker, you know, a more shortened. Yeah, it doesn't feel

1592
01:39:28.980 --> 01:39:35.660
tight. It just like, you know, first drafty. Yeah, yeah. No, I

1593
01:39:35.660 --> 01:39:39.220
mean, it's, it's powerful how you put that, how you put that

1594
01:39:42.300 --> 01:39:47.240
together. Let me just, let me see. I get anything. Let me just

1595
01:39:47.240 --> 01:39:52.000
pray around around that. Yeah. All right, Mike, maybe while

1596
01:39:52.000 --> 01:39:55.680
you're praying. Yeah. Yeah. So, Stephanie, I think you're really

1597
01:39:55.680 --> 01:39:59.320
onto something in the sense of, because if you discover the

1598
01:39:59.320 --> 01:39:59.980
heart of a business.

1599
01:40:00.000 --> 01:40:04.840
let's see if you discover you because really the business reflects your own heart so you

1600
01:40:04.840 --> 01:40:06.840
discover the heart of the business you unlock the

1601
01:40:11.020 --> 01:40:12.420
it's like a cliffhanger

1602
01:40:15.560 --> 01:40:20.140
oh dion you're breaking her heart you're breaking her heart

1603
01:40:38.620 --> 01:40:44.960
so my question is oh this is a long one for me uh my my question is

1604
01:40:47.120 --> 01:40:54.040
does does this do you feel like when i when i say help the person you used to be

1605
01:40:54.900 --> 01:41:00.140
does that resonate with what you're saying or is there some something else

1606
01:41:03.960 --> 01:41:12.040
um it's like a yes and so what i've got um i've got a bunch of puzzle pieces that i got to put

1607
01:41:12.040 --> 01:41:18.080
together so when i said i've got like four projects that are like almost there i i know

1608
01:41:18.080 --> 01:41:25.260
once i tweak there's a system there but it's not clear yet and so the book that i'm writing

1609
01:41:25.260 --> 01:41:30.440
is all about my journey and all the really challenging things that i faced the resources

1610
01:41:30.440 --> 01:41:38.400
that i had the questions i was asking the um frameworks i used um so there's that and that's

1611
01:41:38.400 --> 01:41:45.460
kind of like the personal journey of like the becoming but then there's this business piece

1612
01:41:45.460 --> 01:41:52.660
over here where i help people like people come to me when they've grown fast and furious their

1613
01:41:52.660 --> 01:41:57.120
stuff's a mess and they don't know where to go next they know that they need system set up so

1614
01:41:57.120 --> 01:42:01.480
like i can go in laser and see it and structure it and like i was like you're gonna have relief

1615
01:42:01.480 --> 01:42:05.740
after i get this set up and they do that because then they can see it clearly they're not holding

1616
01:42:05.740 --> 01:42:11.720
it on their head so that's like on the business side but then i also coach them because they're

1617
01:42:11.720 --> 01:42:15.280
bumping up against their own limitations in their business so i'm running their teams and i'm

1618
01:42:15.280 --> 01:42:20.280
interfacing with the ceo so i have a unique seat because i can see where the ceo is bumping up

1619
01:42:20.280 --> 01:42:25.900
against their own stuff i can see where the teams are falling down and i i put those both together

1620
01:42:25.900 --> 01:42:34.700
and i can coach across them and then also the other layer is i can see within themselves

1621
01:42:35.800 --> 01:42:42.200
what they're dealing with for example um ceo the other day she's like um getting ready to sell her

1622
01:42:43.120 --> 01:42:46.880
showed me her org chart and she was trying to figure out the titles for the people like

1623
01:42:46.980 --> 01:42:50.600
i just started asking her questions i helped ask the questions so she can arrive to her own

1624
01:42:51.300 --> 01:42:56.960
answer right and i can see what the thing is and quickly identify that and move them toward

1625
01:42:56.960 --> 01:43:03.320
where they need to go also i the where the personal piece comes in is like i've had client

1626
01:43:03.320 --> 01:43:07.680
i've had a client call me up crying hysterically we're in the middle of a launch she's leaving

1627
01:43:07.680 --> 01:43:14.100
she has left her husband she's got two kids so i let her vent out and i was like okay we've got

1628
01:43:14.100 --> 01:43:18.660
some options do you want to move ahead do you want to scrap it like how do you want to go and we walk

1629
01:43:18.660 --> 01:43:23.540
through it we did her launch it was successful and did the things so i've been in like walking

1630
01:43:23.540 --> 01:43:28.540
them through hard things while they're running their business so these things pair together

1631
01:43:28.540 --> 01:43:33.840
like the being and the doing and in the heart of the people and and being connected but i don't

1632
01:43:33.840 --> 01:43:41.920
it's like it hasn't locked in yet if that makes sense yeah so dion's comment he posted he just

1633
01:43:41.920 --> 01:43:46.800
typed it when you find the heart of your business you unlock the potential of your business

1634
01:43:48.020 --> 01:43:53.760
i'm looking for that in myself right now yeah yeah that's what i'm that's what i'm

1635
01:43:55.110 --> 01:44:05.550
i'm getting is um you're very good at what you do and is that a lot of times we can

1636
01:44:05.970 --> 01:44:12.330
get confused with we're really good at this thing that we do but it's not actually our calling

1637
01:44:13.450 --> 01:44:15.730
and or at least it's not

1638
01:44:17.850 --> 01:44:22.290
um it's not it's it's it's a it's a little off you know

1639
01:44:23.650 --> 01:44:29.250
yeah i i sense i like god's been working in me over the past year and i feel like i've got all

1640
01:44:29.250 --> 01:44:35.170
the pieces and i've been like trying to put it together and it is like what i'm doing now it's

1641
01:44:35.170 --> 01:44:38.830
going to be a different version of that because the heart's going to be infused in it more right

1642
01:44:38.830 --> 01:44:44.570
now the pieces are kind of more separate it's going to all integrate together into a system

1643
01:44:44.570 --> 01:44:50.310
of some sort but it has not revealed itself yet like it hasn't clicked in i've got all like i

1644
01:44:50.310 --> 01:44:53.950
said i've got all i think i've got all the pieces but it has not clicked in yet

1645
01:44:55.010 --> 01:44:59.970
yeah yeah we'll get there yeah we'll get there we'll get there and i and i do

1646
01:45:00.520 --> 01:45:05.080
I do think, oh, let me, I promise.

1647
01:45:09.480 --> 01:45:12.100
And I do get there's a level of healing for you here too.

1648
01:45:13.940 --> 01:45:17.940
100%, because I will say I've been doing this for people

1649
01:45:18.700 --> 01:45:20.360
and like getting them out there,

1650
01:45:20.420 --> 01:45:23.480
I've not fully put myself out there to be seen.

1651
01:45:23.980 --> 01:45:26.020
And like I voxed you today, I've been,

1652
01:45:26.500 --> 01:45:28.680
I don't know why I'm having the reaction that I'm having,

1653
01:45:28.680 --> 01:45:31.800
but I think it's like, there's some part of it

1654
01:45:31.800 --> 01:45:33.300
that feels vulnerable for me.

1655
01:45:33.300 --> 01:45:36.360
Cause I guess there's a very spiritual side of me

1656
01:45:36.360 --> 01:45:37.540
that I don't show everybody.

1657
01:45:39.400 --> 01:45:42.960
And it's not forward in my business.

1658
01:45:44.980 --> 01:45:47.780
And you may or may not be called to be forward.

1659
01:45:48.200 --> 01:45:51.720
You know, that's, you know, where, what is,

1660
01:45:51.980 --> 01:45:53.440
you know, God's going to help you with

1661
01:45:53.440 --> 01:45:55.960
what is the best approach there.

1662
01:45:58.660 --> 01:46:01.200
And, but yeah, and I do want to commend you.

1663
01:46:01.320 --> 01:46:02.900
Stephanie has started messaging me,

1664
01:46:03.100 --> 01:46:04.700
which I appreciate, right?

1665
01:46:04.700 --> 01:46:07.320
So you guys, please, you know, do this.

1666
01:46:08.140 --> 01:46:10.380
So I'm going to, well, I'll be going back and forth

1667
01:46:10.380 --> 01:46:14.060
with you and pray a little bit more on around that of,

1668
01:46:14.580 --> 01:46:16.420
you know, but that's what, that's why I'm being nudged in.

1669
01:46:16.660 --> 01:46:18.180
There's some healing here.

1670
01:46:19.900 --> 01:46:21.980
There's, you're very good at what you do.

1671
01:46:21.980 --> 01:46:26.060
And a lot of it's,

1672
01:46:28.420 --> 01:46:29.760
we don't want to,

1673
01:46:30.420 --> 01:46:33.180
we don't want to be really, really good at what we do,

1674
01:46:33.280 --> 01:46:34.440
but be off.

1675
01:46:35.280 --> 01:46:36.820
And, and I, and that's right.

1676
01:46:36.820 --> 01:46:39.260
I feel like there's a little, it's a little off,

1677
01:46:39.360 --> 01:46:40.480
even though you're very good.

1678
01:46:40.720 --> 01:46:41.940
And no, it is.

1679
01:46:41.980 --> 01:46:42.900
No, I don't disagree with you.

1680
01:46:42.940 --> 01:46:44.280
You're like right on track.

1681
01:46:44.360 --> 01:46:46.420
I, that's why I said to you, like, I've been praying,

1682
01:46:46.520 --> 01:46:47.600
like, God, if this is not the thing

1683
01:46:47.600 --> 01:46:48.460
that I'm supposed to be doing,

1684
01:46:48.520 --> 01:46:50.080
like show me where I'm supposed to be.

1685
01:46:51.600 --> 01:46:53.600
Because I do, I, there's a missing.

1686
01:46:54.220 --> 01:46:55.460
However, I've got all these other things

1687
01:46:55.460 --> 01:47:00.400
that I've been given downloads over the past 10 years.

1688
01:47:00.760 --> 01:47:03.920
And it's like, my journey's led me here.

1689
01:47:04.420 --> 01:47:07.380
I, what's came up through our Voxer messages today

1690
01:47:07.380 --> 01:47:10.400
was like, there's a trust piece.

1691
01:47:10.620 --> 01:47:13.300
Like I haven't been able to, in my life,

1692
01:47:13.300 --> 01:47:16.080
I feel like I haven't been able to fully trust anyone.

1693
01:47:16.860 --> 01:47:17.380
Yeah.

1694
01:47:17.980 --> 01:47:22.740
And so like, to put myself out there, it's all bubbling.

1695
01:47:23.000 --> 01:47:24.400
I feel like it's coming soon.

1696
01:47:24.600 --> 01:47:27.120
It's growing, but it's not there yet,

1697
01:47:27.200 --> 01:47:29.540
but it's all, yeah, it's coming.

1698
01:47:29.760 --> 01:47:30.120
For sure.

1699
01:47:30.380 --> 01:47:33.640
I mean, I'll give you an example from today.

1700
01:47:33.900 --> 01:47:37.400
I mean, I shared a little piece of it of,

1701
01:47:39.100 --> 01:47:43.420
you know, he had me go back to this project and,

1702
01:47:44.100 --> 01:47:47.500
you know, say, hey, I know y'all wanted to give me this.

1703
01:47:48.080 --> 01:47:49.340
I'm gonna give that back.

1704
01:47:51.840 --> 01:47:57.540
And then afterwards, the reaction to that was,

1705
01:47:57.620 --> 01:47:58.920
I just felt it in my spirit,

1706
01:47:59.120 --> 01:48:01.000
like there's something not right here.

1707
01:48:01.660 --> 01:48:03.880
And so I was in a hurry,

1708
01:48:04.020 --> 01:48:05.800
because this actually happened, you know,

1709
01:48:05.800 --> 01:48:08.160
before this meeting, I actually got off at like 7.45.

1710
01:48:08.940 --> 01:48:12.700
And so I was kind of in a hurry for it to get over.

1711
01:48:12.700 --> 01:48:15.580
And as soon as it ended, I got right down on this mat

1712
01:48:15.740 --> 01:48:16.920
and just got into prayer.

1713
01:48:17.120 --> 01:48:19.080
I'm like, all right, Lord, you know, please,

1714
01:48:19.840 --> 01:48:21.440
number one, heal my heart around this.

1715
01:48:22.340 --> 01:48:24.000
Thank you for healing my heart around this.

1716
01:48:24.240 --> 01:48:26.640
And two, what's up?

1717
01:48:27.440 --> 01:48:29.260
What's going on with this?

1718
01:48:29.620 --> 01:48:33.300
And so, you know, I just, just, you know, I just,

1719
01:48:33.360 --> 01:48:35.240
I knew that was my next move,

1720
01:48:35.260 --> 01:48:37.720
not to think about it or whatever, just get into prayer,

1721
01:48:38.320 --> 01:48:39.380
help me out with this.

1722
01:48:39.380 --> 01:48:42.320
And he wanted me to see that reaction.

1723
01:48:43.040 --> 01:48:44.180
He wanted me to see that.

1724
01:48:44.340 --> 01:48:49.180
And he's, you know, there've been people that I love,

1725
01:48:50.520 --> 01:48:52.960
that I really love and I've seen them grow

1726
01:48:52.960 --> 01:48:54.240
and I've helped them grow.

1727
01:48:55.180 --> 01:48:57.280
And, but he wanted me to see their hearts

1728
01:48:57.480 --> 01:49:01.420
if the situation changed slightly so that I, you know,

1729
01:49:01.580 --> 01:49:05.320
but, oh, I can't believe that was the response, wow.

1730
01:49:05.780 --> 01:49:07.400
And, but he wanted me to see that.

1731
01:49:07.400 --> 01:49:11.560
And, and so it's, you know, when we know we're off,

1732
01:49:11.800 --> 01:49:14.660
just, you know, you're going to learn to, you know,

1733
01:49:14.660 --> 01:49:16.960
go to him and figure that out.

1734
01:49:18.300 --> 01:49:20.260
And, you know, so it's going to be good.

1735
01:49:20.300 --> 01:49:21.580
We're going to get there.

1736
01:49:22.400 --> 01:49:22.540
Cool.

1737
01:49:25.060 --> 01:49:27.460
Jeremy and Miranda, right?

1738
01:49:27.540 --> 01:49:27.840
Miranda?

1739
01:49:28.880 --> 01:49:30.000
Okay. Yes.

1740
01:49:30.000 --> 01:49:32.300
I know it was an M, I'm like, it's either Marissa or Miranda.

1741
01:49:32.460 --> 01:49:32.960
I think it's Miranda.

1742
01:49:33.540 --> 01:49:33.660
Good.

1743
01:49:33.780 --> 01:49:34.660
Yeah, you're good.

1744
01:49:35.020 --> 01:49:35.340
Very good.

1745
01:49:35.900 --> 01:49:36.180
Yep.

1746
01:49:36.820 --> 01:49:39.880
So Ray, you know, what do you say to the person

1747
01:49:39.880 --> 01:49:40.880
that goes, number one?

1748
01:49:42.100 --> 01:49:42.960
I don't know.

1749
01:49:43.800 --> 01:49:44.340
Number two?

1750
01:49:45.180 --> 01:49:45.180


1751
01:49:45.580 --> 01:49:45.920
I'm not sure.

1752
01:49:46.020 --> 01:49:46.520
Number three?

1753
01:49:48.120 --> 01:49:48.880
No clue.

1754
01:49:49.760 --> 01:49:52.260
You know, what do you say to that person?

1755
01:49:52.960 --> 01:49:53.280
Yeah.

1756
01:49:53.640 --> 01:49:56.180
Because there's so many ways that I could go

1757
01:49:56.660 --> 01:49:57.880
with those questions.

1758
01:49:57.880 --> 01:49:59.500
I could just talk about my business.

1759
01:50:00.000 --> 01:50:02.900
where I could talk about who Jeremy really is,

1760
01:50:02.960 --> 01:50:03.820
the heart of Jeremy,

1761
01:50:05.680 --> 01:50:09.460
you know, apart from the business I inherited from my dad

1762
01:50:09.460 --> 01:50:11.380
and the business I've grown up around

1763
01:50:11.380 --> 01:50:12.560
over the last 30 years,

1764
01:50:13.600 --> 01:50:15.740
you know, what do you say to that person?

1765
01:50:16.460 --> 01:50:16.720
Yeah.

1766
01:50:17.920 --> 01:50:18.360
Yeah.

1767
01:50:18.640 --> 01:50:19.020
So,

1768
01:50:21.960 --> 01:50:22.400
it's,

1769
01:50:23.340 --> 01:50:24.560
you know, it's, this is,

1770
01:50:24.560 --> 01:50:26.760
I talked about this at the event,

1771
01:50:26.880 --> 01:50:28.760
but, you know, Judges 3, 1 and 2

1772
01:50:29.400 --> 01:50:31.720
says that God allowed some of the Israelites

1773
01:50:31.720 --> 01:50:35.020
to experience war so that they could train others

1774
01:50:35.020 --> 01:50:37.140
who had not been through war, right?

1775
01:50:37.840 --> 01:50:39.240
And so, you know,

1776
01:50:40.040 --> 01:50:40.420
we,

1777
01:50:41.400 --> 01:50:45.140
God, you know, a distinction in,

1778
01:50:45.380 --> 01:50:46.440
you know,

1779
01:50:46.820 --> 01:50:49.700
God and all things is,

1780
01:50:50.820 --> 01:50:51.660
you know,

1781
01:50:52.300 --> 01:50:53.920
not that he allows,

1782
01:50:54.120 --> 01:50:55.960
he allowed that car crash

1783
01:50:55.960 --> 01:50:57.480
or he allowed that child abuse

1784
01:50:57.480 --> 01:50:59.040
or he allowed that,

1785
01:51:00.140 --> 01:51:00.540
you know, whatever,

1786
01:51:02.000 --> 01:51:03.620
but whatever was meant for evil,

1787
01:51:03.700 --> 01:51:05.060
he will use for good.

1788
01:51:05.400 --> 01:51:08.000
And so what we've been through

1789
01:51:08.160 --> 01:51:10.300
was equipping, anointing, calling,

1790
01:51:10.780 --> 01:51:15.180
leading us to have the capacity to go and help others.

1791
01:51:15.940 --> 01:51:17.700
And whatever we've been through,

1792
01:51:17.740 --> 01:51:19.320
we are automatically equipped,

1793
01:51:19.580 --> 01:51:21.000
we're automatically qualified,

1794
01:51:21.080 --> 01:51:22.520
we automatically have confidence.

1795
01:51:22.940 --> 01:51:25.000
And so whatever we've been through,

1796
01:51:25.240 --> 01:51:25.760
whatever we've overcome,

1797
01:51:26.100 --> 01:51:27.000
whatever we survived,

1798
01:51:28.000 --> 01:51:33.020
that now we can miss that

1799
01:51:33.020 --> 01:51:36.520
by looking at current circumstances, right?

1800
01:51:36.520 --> 01:51:38.880
So if we inherit a business

1801
01:51:39.040 --> 01:51:43.820
or we're offered some amazingly high paying job,

1802
01:51:44.340 --> 01:51:45.020
you know, we can be like,

1803
01:51:45.060 --> 01:51:46.360
you know, it's not my calling,

1804
01:51:46.680 --> 01:51:49.420
but it's funny, you know, it's pretty good.

1805
01:51:49.420 --> 01:51:54.020
And so we can live that non-fulfilled life

1806
01:51:54.020 --> 01:51:57.680
because we have placed our trust in money,

1807
01:51:58.480 --> 01:51:59.680
then we have him.

1808
01:52:00.780 --> 01:52:03.260
And so I would say, you know,

1809
01:52:03.260 --> 01:52:04.640
taking a look at your life,

1810
01:52:05.080 --> 01:52:07.520
you know, what have you been through, overcome,

1811
01:52:07.880 --> 01:52:09.300
you know, progressed through, survived,

1812
01:52:09.760 --> 01:52:11.520
you know, that was an equipping.

1813
01:52:12.020 --> 01:52:13.860
You know, you heard Kyle talk about this,

1814
01:52:13.920 --> 01:52:15.580
fatherless fathers, right?

1815
01:52:15.820 --> 01:52:17.600
And, you know, someone who, you know,

1816
01:52:17.620 --> 01:52:20.360
did not have a powerful, you know,

1817
01:52:20.360 --> 01:52:22.400
father presence that now has kids

1818
01:52:22.400 --> 01:52:24.560
and trying to deal with what the hell, you know?

1819
01:52:24.880 --> 01:52:27.160
And, you know, I'm not that far off.

1820
01:52:27.260 --> 01:52:32.060
I mean, my dad just was never there for me or anything.

1821
01:52:33.440 --> 01:52:36.420
And, you know, so I really didn't know what I was doing.

1822
01:52:39.100 --> 01:52:41.180
And, you know, you know,

1823
01:52:41.180 --> 01:52:42.540
God's really helped me with that.

1824
01:52:43.600 --> 01:52:49.060
And so I would, it's your calling is almost always

1825
01:52:49.060 --> 01:52:51.000
gonna be what have I overcome?

1826
01:52:51.000 --> 01:52:53.600
Let me go bring them out of the war in Israel.

1827
01:52:53.920 --> 01:52:55.120
Let me go help them out.

1828
01:52:55.200 --> 01:52:57.560
Let me go, cause you didn't pick your wars,

1829
01:52:57.920 --> 01:52:59.120
you went through them, right?

1830
01:52:59.120 --> 01:52:59.740
It wasn't a choice.

1831
01:53:00.340 --> 01:53:02.840
You know, you are an authority around the things

1832
01:53:02.840 --> 01:53:04.680
that you've overcome and progressed and survived.

1833
01:53:05.240 --> 01:53:10.100
And so that's almost always gonna be a clue

1834
01:53:10.500 --> 01:53:12.900
to how are you, who are you supposed to help?

1835
01:53:14.540 --> 01:53:16.300
Yeah, and that's also 2 Corinthians 1,

1836
01:53:16.540 --> 01:53:17.640
you know, the God of all comfort.

1837
01:53:18.940 --> 01:53:20.320
Absolutely, I love that one.

1838
01:53:20.920 --> 01:53:22.760
Comfort others in the same way

1839
01:53:22.760 --> 01:53:24.060
that you needed to be comforted.

1840
01:53:24.240 --> 01:53:25.680
So I understand that.

1841
01:53:26.300 --> 01:53:26.940
I love that one.

1842
01:53:26.980 --> 01:53:29.960
It's more complicated to say, but I love that.

1843
01:53:30.060 --> 01:53:33.180
When I first heard that, I'm like, oh man, that's it, man.

1844
01:53:33.280 --> 01:53:33.600
That's so good.

1845
01:53:33.620 --> 01:53:36.540
The catchphrase is God has all the comfort you need

1846
01:53:36.540 --> 01:53:37.760
for all the troubles you face.

1847
01:53:38.900 --> 01:53:39.860
Yeah, amen.

1848
01:53:40.880 --> 01:53:43.400
Yeah, Miranda, you wanna say something for you?

1849
01:53:43.700 --> 01:53:45.640
Well, I was focusing on you.

1850
01:53:45.640 --> 01:53:49.680
I'm marinating on mine, but I don't know if you're-

1851
01:53:49.680 --> 01:53:51.500
Let's not skip too fast.

1852
01:53:53.400 --> 01:53:57.120
So based on all that and your understanding,

1853
01:53:58.460 --> 01:54:04.420
so is there a, you know, hey God, can you give me a clue?

1854
01:54:04.760 --> 01:54:06.520
You know, what do you have to add to this?

1855
01:54:07.260 --> 01:54:09.680
Are you getting an inkling of what you're thinking?

1856
01:54:10.360 --> 01:54:11.720
Focus on the who,

1857
01:54:13.100 --> 01:54:16.500
because that is step one, the who,

1858
01:54:16.560 --> 01:54:18.900
because you can't possibly have a how before you have a who.

1859
01:54:18.900 --> 01:54:21.680
You know, like, that doesn't even make sense, right?

1860
01:54:21.680 --> 01:54:24.400
And you can't have a why listen to me until you have a who.

1861
01:54:24.560 --> 01:54:26.940
So like, who is important first step?

1862
01:54:27.460 --> 01:54:30.960
Yeah, so I mean, apart from the business,

1863
01:54:31.060 --> 01:54:31.780
I mean, because we're not,

1864
01:54:31.800 --> 01:54:33.580
we're just saying in life, right?

1865
01:54:34.060 --> 01:54:35.500
Your career is what you paid for.

1866
01:54:35.660 --> 01:54:36.760
Your calling is what you made for.

1867
01:54:36.820 --> 01:54:37.880
You're talking about the calling,

1868
01:54:38.420 --> 01:54:40.320
not necessarily the career, is that correct?

1869
01:54:40.680 --> 01:54:40.800
Okay.

1870
01:54:41.100 --> 01:54:41.500
Yes.

1871
01:54:41.720 --> 01:54:47.680
The calling side of me is, you know, I love being a dad.

1872
01:54:47.680 --> 01:54:49.820
Like, that's like the best job in the world.

1873
01:54:50.020 --> 01:54:54.360
I love, if I did anything right, I raised my boys well.

1874
01:54:54.660 --> 01:54:56.720
That's like, that's my success story.

1875
01:54:56.880 --> 01:54:59.880
Like my 26 and 25 years old and their studs.

1876
01:55:00.000 --> 01:55:03.200
They're amazing and they're just affectionate and affirming

1877
01:55:03.200 --> 01:55:06.100
and there's all the things I would want my sons to be.

1878
01:55:06.280 --> 01:55:09.200
So I'm very, very, very proud of them.

1879
01:55:09.660 --> 01:55:09.660


1880
01:55:10.820 --> 01:55:15.700
And, you know, so really encouraging men in that journey,

1881
01:55:15.820 --> 01:55:17.860
like, you know, in their masculine journey.

1882
01:55:18.060 --> 01:55:20.040
I'm a big John Eldridge Wild at Heart guy,

1883
01:55:20.060 --> 01:55:21.660
like massive Wild at Heart guy.

1884
01:55:21.540 --> 01:55:24.200
So, you know, every man wants to adventure,

1885
01:55:24.460 --> 01:55:25.960
live in a battle to fight, the beauty to rescue,

1886
01:55:26.080 --> 01:55:27.920
like that's the core of who I am.

1887
01:55:27.920 --> 01:55:30.120
It was really speaking to the masculine heart

1888
01:55:30.740 --> 01:55:32.560
and encouraging men, you know,

1889
01:55:32.580 --> 01:55:34.480
a real man accepts responsibility,

1890
01:55:34.880 --> 01:55:37.020
rejects passivity, leads courageously,

1891
01:55:37.400 --> 01:55:38.660
lives toward an eternal reward.

1892
01:55:38.940 --> 01:55:40.460
Like that's what a real man is.

1893
01:55:40.700 --> 01:55:44.920
And to reject passivity and not be passive husbands

1894
01:55:44.920 --> 01:55:47.540
and not be passive dads and to be intentional

1895
01:55:47.540 --> 01:55:51.900
in their lives as men of God and as husbands and as dads.

1896
01:55:52.380 --> 01:55:54.720
And, you know, to not miss those moments

1897
01:55:54.720 --> 01:56:00.180
where God is speaking, revealing the father's heart

1898
01:56:00.180 --> 01:56:02.500
through you to those around you.

1899
01:56:03.860 --> 01:56:07.800
So what was the overcome or what was the,

1900
01:56:08.100 --> 01:56:09.540
did you used to not be good at that?

1901
01:56:09.580 --> 01:56:10.920
Then you became good at that.

1902
01:56:11.060 --> 01:56:13.520
Did you grow up and that wasn't your experience

1903
01:56:13.520 --> 01:56:15.540
and you decided I'm going to be different?

1904
01:56:16.080 --> 01:56:17.620
What was the overcome?

1905
01:56:17.920 --> 01:56:20.260
What was the breakthrough?

1906
01:56:24.280 --> 01:56:29.180
Because, and I just, the reason I say this is because

1907
01:56:29.500 --> 01:56:33.680
if you're just naturally an amazing dad,

1908
01:56:33.960 --> 01:56:36.480
it's actually going to be hard for you to teach people

1909
01:56:39.020 --> 01:56:40.620
because you're natural.

1910
01:56:41.700 --> 01:56:46.240
And so it's usually in the, I had to overcome this.

1911
01:56:46.440 --> 01:56:48.140
I didn't know what the hell I was doing.

1912
01:56:48.320 --> 01:56:50.240
I had never experienced this before.

1913
01:56:50.240 --> 01:56:51.760
I had never experienced what a dad even looked like.

1914
01:56:51.940 --> 01:56:54.260
You know, so it's usually the overcoming

1915
01:56:55.940 --> 01:57:00.420
that is really powerful because, you know,

1916
01:57:00.440 --> 01:57:04.400
if I'm like, I want to improve my dadness.

1917
01:57:04.440 --> 01:57:06.120
I want to be a better dad.

1918
01:57:06.840 --> 01:57:08.700
And, you know, and I want to learn from you.

1919
01:57:08.700 --> 01:57:12.960
What would turn me completely on to you would be,

1920
01:57:13.720 --> 01:57:14.640
hey, I used to struggle.

1921
01:57:14.820 --> 01:57:16.840
I wasn't sure because I didn't experience that as a kid.

1922
01:57:17.000 --> 01:57:19.380
And now I've raised these amazing kids

1923
01:57:19.380 --> 01:57:22.700
and I know exactly, you know, like, oh cool, he gets me.

1924
01:57:23.100 --> 01:57:23.100


1925
01:57:23.200 --> 01:57:24.060
You know what I mean?

1926
01:57:24.160 --> 01:57:29.100
So like, what was it around dad that was overcome

1927
01:57:29.100 --> 01:57:30.900
or did you used to be very passive?

1928
01:57:32.040 --> 01:57:34.140
Do you fail in a marriage in the past

1929
01:57:34.140 --> 01:57:37.760
or with a kid in the past and now you totally dial it in

1930
01:57:37.760 --> 01:57:39.060
or like, what was the overcome?

1931
01:57:39.380 --> 01:57:40.060
I'm sure I'm curious.

1932
01:57:40.520 --> 01:57:44.800
So I had an amazing dad up until I was 14.

1933
01:57:44.800 --> 01:57:48.160
And then he got hit with depression

1934
01:57:48.180 --> 01:57:51.240
and spiraled down severely.

1935
01:57:51.780 --> 01:57:54.720
And so I had a very present dad

1936
01:57:54.720 --> 01:57:59.820
and then a very emotionally absent dad.

1937
01:57:59.880 --> 01:58:01.720
And I became a husband to my mom,

1938
01:58:02.080 --> 01:58:04.580
a father to my dad at the age of 14.

1939
01:58:05.940 --> 01:58:07.540
Alone, I had two other sisters

1940
01:58:07.540 --> 01:58:09.420
but they were both moved out of the house.

1941
01:58:09.800 --> 01:58:14.040
So I'm the one that was left alone to deal with.

1942
01:58:14.800 --> 01:58:16.200
Trying to steward my mom's heart

1943
01:58:16.200 --> 01:58:18.260
and try to steward my dad's heart

1944
01:58:19.020 --> 01:58:22.380
and try to be the head of the home at 14 years old.

1945
01:58:23.780 --> 01:58:28.400
So this man, this pillar, this idol,

1946
01:58:28.840 --> 01:58:31.720
this hero of mine, you know, just crumbling.

1947
01:58:32.100 --> 01:58:33.940
And all I ever wanted to do growing up

1948
01:58:33.940 --> 01:58:35.600
was minister side by side with my dad.

1949
01:58:35.680 --> 01:58:37.700
He was a pastor for 30 years.

1950
01:58:38.440 --> 01:58:42.460
And so when he stepped down from the ministry when I was 16

1951
01:58:42.460 --> 01:58:45.000
and never got back into the ministry,

1952
01:58:45.180 --> 01:58:46.180
every dream I ever had,

1953
01:58:47.220 --> 01:58:49.140
that first portion of my life was shattered.

1954
01:58:50.480 --> 01:58:54.860
And I just flailed, you know, for years

1955
01:58:55.120 --> 01:58:57.620
trying to, as Michael David Smith says,

1956
01:58:57.780 --> 01:58:58.900
find my place in this world.

1957
01:58:59.100 --> 01:59:00.640
And like, God, why am I even here?

1958
01:59:01.880 --> 01:59:03.720
Because dad's not in the ministry anymore.

1959
01:59:03.900 --> 01:59:06.360
And that's when, you know, my mid twenties,

1960
01:59:06.460 --> 01:59:07.640
I felt like I heard the Lord say,

1961
01:59:07.740 --> 01:59:09.620
hey, this may not be the way he thought it was gonna be,

1962
01:59:09.620 --> 01:59:12.940
but, you know, Primerica, the company I'm with,

1963
01:59:13.740 --> 01:59:16.000
Primerica's an opportunity for you

1964
01:59:16.000 --> 01:59:17.840
to still minister side by side with your dad.

1965
01:59:18.300 --> 01:59:20.160
And so I got involved in the business

1966
01:59:20.160 --> 01:59:25.700
really just to fulfill what I believe God said to me,

1967
01:59:25.740 --> 01:59:28.320
I felt like from conception was, you know,

1968
01:59:28.320 --> 01:59:29.660
ministering side by side with my dad.

1969
01:59:29.700 --> 01:59:31.240
And that was just a way that I could do that.

1970
01:59:33.300 --> 01:59:33.780
Yeah.

1971
01:59:33.980 --> 01:59:39.600
So the phrase that I get is,

1972
01:59:40.420 --> 01:59:41.600
fatherless too early.

1973
01:59:43.900 --> 01:59:48.300
So that's a phrase of a very specific who

1974
01:59:48.980 --> 01:59:53.660
that is true of your situation that, you know,

1975
01:59:53.660 --> 01:59:54.860
fatherless too early,

1976
01:59:55.240 --> 01:59:58.400
had to be the head of the household too soon.

1977
01:59:59.040 --> 01:59:59.780
And,

1978
02:00:00.000 --> 02:00:04.340
And I think that's a very powerful, powerful calling.

1979
02:00:05.320 --> 02:00:06.240
Does that resonate?

1980
02:00:07.220 --> 02:00:07.780
Yeah, of course.

1981
02:00:07.900 --> 02:00:08.720
Yeah, for sure.

1982
02:00:10.380 --> 02:00:13.320
And so I think working around that,

1983
02:00:14.780 --> 02:00:16.660
you know, I think that would be very powerful.

1984
02:00:17.260 --> 02:00:17.600
I really do.

1985
02:00:17.780 --> 02:00:20.040
And not passing on to the next generation, right?

1986
02:00:20.600 --> 02:00:22.740
Just passing just the good that I was given.

1987
02:00:22.820 --> 02:00:25.360
When I said my boys are affectionate and affirming,

1988
02:00:25.520 --> 02:00:28.380
that's the good that my dad gave me, overwhelming.

1989
02:00:28.380 --> 02:00:31.520
Like, press down, shake it together, running over.

1990
02:00:31.780 --> 02:00:33.500
Like that was abundantly good.

1991
02:00:34.320 --> 02:00:37.240
I'm protecting them from all the depression

1992
02:00:37.580 --> 02:00:39.860
and the rejection, the abandonment,

1993
02:00:40.360 --> 02:00:41.860
the, you know, all the negative stuff.

1994
02:00:41.980 --> 02:00:44.280
Like protect, they still don't know

1995
02:00:44.600 --> 02:00:47.800
all that I went through with my dad.

1996
02:00:47.920 --> 02:00:50.340
You know, I will share that with them in the future,

1997
02:00:51.420 --> 02:00:54.360
but yeah, so just trying to protect them

1998
02:00:54.360 --> 02:00:55.100
and not pass it on.

1999
02:00:55.980 --> 02:00:59.160
And so you've done, clearly,

2000
02:00:59.300 --> 02:01:05.060
you've done a great job with your kids, right?

2001
02:01:05.060 --> 02:01:05.860
Your boys, right?

2002
02:01:06.200 --> 02:01:06.560
Clearly.

2003
02:01:06.980 --> 02:01:09.820
And now you get the opportunity to do that

2004
02:01:09.820 --> 02:01:12.980
at a much larger scale and, you know,

2005
02:01:13.060 --> 02:01:16.520
and to, you know, have a message that resonates

2006
02:01:16.520 --> 02:01:19.600
with the people you're exactly called to help.

2007
02:01:20.120 --> 02:01:23.100
And you already know how to help them.

2008
02:01:23.100 --> 02:01:24.680
We'll just help you with the verbiage.

2009
02:01:25.040 --> 02:01:26.780
You know, we'll help you with the words

2010
02:01:26.780 --> 02:01:28.360
and, you know, that kind of stuff.

2011
02:01:28.680 --> 02:01:30.900
And then you operate underneath that mantle.

2012
02:01:31.920 --> 02:01:35.740
And notice it's not, hey, what are you trying to sell?

2013
02:01:36.660 --> 02:01:38.200
It's what's your calling?

2014
02:01:38.820 --> 02:01:40.140
And once you know your calling,

2015
02:01:40.240 --> 02:01:41.540
we can figure out what to sell.

2016
02:01:42.060 --> 02:01:43.460
You know, and some of you, you know,

2017
02:01:43.460 --> 02:01:47.600
what you sell and your calling can be, you know, connected.

2018
02:01:47.900 --> 02:01:49.040
So, you know, guess what?

2019
02:01:49.200 --> 02:01:51.160
Hey guys, you're gonna, as a man,

2020
02:01:51.160 --> 02:01:53.020
you're gonna have to provide, you know,

2021
02:01:53.020 --> 02:01:54.200
you'll be the head of the household.

2022
02:01:54.420 --> 02:01:55.820
One way for you to provide.

2023
02:01:56.100 --> 02:01:57.860
I actually have a way, if you don't know how,

2024
02:01:58.360 --> 02:02:00.280
here you go, Primerica, go Bada Bing.

2025
02:02:00.760 --> 02:02:02.620
And so, you know, you can associate them,

2026
02:02:02.640 --> 02:02:03.760
but it doesn't mean, you know,

2027
02:02:03.960 --> 02:02:06.840
you have Primerica in your branding or whatever.

2028
02:02:07.520 --> 02:02:08.520
I helped the fatherless,

2029
02:02:09.160 --> 02:02:12.120
or fatherless too early succeed in Primerica, right?

2030
02:02:12.120 --> 02:02:14.760
That doesn't, what was that one?

2031
02:02:14.860 --> 02:02:14.940
Yeah.

2032
02:02:14.940 --> 02:02:15.880
I was in my back of the line,

2033
02:02:16.020 --> 02:02:17.340
I'm going, what's this have to do with business?

2034
02:02:17.460 --> 02:02:20.320
Like, I'm just talking about like fatherless,

2035
02:02:20.880 --> 02:02:21.860
like I do with business.

2036
02:02:21.960 --> 02:02:23.660
It's in the back of my mind, that's the.

2037
02:02:23.980 --> 02:02:24.500
Of course.

2038
02:02:25.100 --> 02:02:25.320
Right.

2039
02:02:25.600 --> 02:02:30.860
And so, and what will happen is you will have a brand,

2040
02:02:31.160 --> 02:02:33.680
you will have people coming to you by the droves

2041
02:02:34.120 --> 02:02:36.820
and they will want to know more about you.

2042
02:02:36.880 --> 02:02:37.980
Well, how do you make money?

2043
02:02:38.020 --> 02:02:39.960
Like I'm doing this and I don't like it.

2044
02:02:39.960 --> 02:02:41.640
Well, you know, I have a way to help you.

2045
02:02:42.040 --> 02:02:44.780
And, you know, you will have earned the right to share

2046
02:02:44.780 --> 02:02:47.160
how you do business and what you do in business.

2047
02:02:47.680 --> 02:02:50.700
And so, you know, similar to Kyle too, you know,

2048
02:02:50.700 --> 02:02:54.100
Kyle doing his, you know, the fatherless fathers,

2049
02:02:54.860 --> 02:02:55.920
people are going to come.

2050
02:02:56.160 --> 02:02:58.000
They want to, they're going to want to know,

2051
02:02:58.460 --> 02:03:00.460
a father's going to want to know how to better provide.

2052
02:03:00.740 --> 02:03:04.660
That's just the deal, you know, that's just wired in us.

2053
02:03:05.200 --> 02:03:08.460
And, and so I just, I just think it's really powerful, man.

2054
02:03:08.640 --> 02:03:10.040
I think it's really, really powerful.

2055
02:03:11.100 --> 02:03:11.300
Appreciate that.

2056
02:03:11.520 --> 02:03:13.660
And we'll keep working out, we'll keep tweaking it.

2057
02:03:13.740 --> 02:03:15.600
You know, this is session one, you know,

2058
02:03:15.600 --> 02:03:16.340
we'll keep tweaking it.

2059
02:03:16.840 --> 02:03:17.360
Thank you.

2060
02:03:17.980 --> 02:03:19.680
And Miranda, did you want to share?

2061
02:03:20.580 --> 02:03:22.640
Well, I can, I feel like mine's kind of,

2062
02:03:23.160 --> 02:03:24.380
it's in the weeds too.

2063
02:03:24.440 --> 02:03:26.940
Like I could go a couple of different ways with it.

2064
02:03:27.660 --> 02:03:28.880
If we have time, I didn't know,

2065
02:03:29.040 --> 02:03:30.800
I wanted to honor your time too tonight, so.

2066
02:03:31.700 --> 02:03:34.720
Yeah, I wanted to give a taste and then I do,

2067
02:03:35.060 --> 02:03:36.900
hopefully, I don't know, is everyone able?

2068
02:03:36.980 --> 02:03:39.360
I always, Rebecca knows, she's like,

2069
02:03:39.480 --> 02:03:40.600
oh boy, how long is he going to go?

2070
02:03:41.520 --> 02:03:45.100
I'm trying not to give you the full dosage here

2071
02:03:45.100 --> 02:03:46.500
and scare you off.

2072
02:03:48.660 --> 02:03:51.180
But yeah, let's, let's hear from you.

2073
02:03:51.300 --> 02:03:54.440
And then I have a couple very simple things

2074
02:03:54.440 --> 02:03:56.680
for people to work on.

2075
02:03:56.900 --> 02:03:57.380
Very simple.

2076
02:03:58.100 --> 02:03:58.700
Yeah, go ahead.

2077
02:03:58.980 --> 02:04:00.040
Let's hear from you.

2078
02:04:00.560 --> 02:04:01.360
So who do I help?

2079
02:04:02.320 --> 02:04:05.540
Typically, my client has tended to be middle-aged women.

2080
02:04:05.660 --> 02:04:08.320
So women who are fat, fatigued and frustrated,

2081
02:04:08.940 --> 02:04:13.080
battling food addiction and weight and stubborn symptoms.

2082
02:04:14.040 --> 02:04:14.680
How do I help them?

2083
02:04:14.720 --> 02:04:16.160
I help them eat real food as medicine

2084
02:04:16.260 --> 02:04:20.620
to reverse disease and dysfunction using the reset method.

2085
02:04:21.540 --> 02:04:23.280
And why should they listen to me?

2086
02:04:23.280 --> 02:04:24.780
Because I lost over a hundred pounds,

2087
02:04:25.240 --> 02:04:27.120
reversed multiple autoimmune conditions

2088
02:04:28.120 --> 02:04:31.440
after nearly dying, doing all of the right things.

2089
02:04:33.620 --> 02:04:34.880
That's pretty good.

2090
02:04:36.600 --> 02:04:38.840
So you're, it sounds to me

2091
02:04:38.840 --> 02:04:41.300
like you're trying to help who you used to be.

2092
02:04:41.540 --> 02:04:42.080
Exactly.

2093
02:04:42.080 --> 02:04:42.680
Yeah.

2094
02:04:43.840 --> 02:04:46.340
And what, say that again, fat, fatigued.

2095
02:04:47.820 --> 02:04:49.360
Fat, frustrated, fatigued.

2096
02:04:49.960 --> 02:04:50.520
Frustrated, fatigued.

2097
02:04:50.980 --> 02:04:50.980


2098
02:04:52.580 --> 02:04:52.940
Okay.

2099
02:04:52.980 --> 02:04:54.260
What was the rest?

2100
02:04:55.700 --> 02:04:57.360
Battling, I think, I think this is what I said.

2101
02:04:58.040 --> 02:04:59.940
Battling food addiction, stubborn weight.

2102
02:05:00.680 --> 02:05:06.060
symptoms and disease because they all run together.

2103
02:05:06.920 --> 02:05:07.660
So my struggle-

2104
02:05:08.180 --> 02:05:10.360
Is it mainly women or is it men too?

2105
02:05:10.720 --> 02:05:12.340
Well, it's, I can help everyone,

2106
02:05:12.600 --> 02:05:14.280
but typically middle-aged women,

2107
02:05:14.600 --> 02:05:15.840
they tend to be the decision makers

2108
02:05:15.840 --> 02:05:19.060
and the husbands or the spouses kind of come along.

2109
02:05:19.740 --> 02:05:21.400
Usually the decision makers have been women.

2110
02:05:21.540 --> 02:05:23.740
They're the seekers, they've tried a million things.

2111
02:05:24.580 --> 02:05:26.660
Man, I just, I just think it's powerful to say,

2112
02:05:27.500 --> 02:05:33.140
I help fat, frustrated, fatigued,

2113
02:05:33.680 --> 02:05:35.240
females battling food addictions.

2114
02:05:35.780 --> 02:05:37.100
I mean, man, is that powerful.

2115
02:05:38.320 --> 02:05:40.640
Yeah, because they know that they're food addicted.

2116
02:05:41.320 --> 02:05:43.500
Yeah, that's powerful, man.

2117
02:05:44.200 --> 02:05:47.220
Yeah, and even more like that,

2118
02:05:48.120 --> 02:05:50.560
I didn't kind of go with that in the beginning.

2119
02:05:50.620 --> 02:05:52.140
It was more about like,

2120
02:05:52.180 --> 02:05:54.700
I want people to know that this is health creation,

2121
02:05:54.700 --> 02:05:56.900
but like you use God as the wrapper,

2122
02:05:57.600 --> 02:05:59.480
like people, they just want to lose weight.

2123
02:05:59.780 --> 02:06:02.040
They're right now stuck in the shots thing

2124
02:06:02.040 --> 02:06:04.140
that they can't even see the forest or the trees

2125
02:06:04.480 --> 02:06:06.080
that they don't even care

2126
02:06:06.080 --> 02:06:08.640
that there's a side effect to that thing.

2127
02:06:08.960 --> 02:06:11.680
So, but they do know that they're going to that

2128
02:06:12.040 --> 02:06:13.720
because they're addicted to food.

2129
02:06:13.760 --> 02:06:14.840
I'm an emotional eater.

2130
02:06:14.920 --> 02:06:18.400
They'll, people just come up and like say that to me.

2131
02:06:18.920 --> 02:06:20.960
Like, so, and that's, that's what it is.

2132
02:06:20.960 --> 02:06:21.740
It's what we're all battling.

2133
02:06:21.740 --> 02:06:24.880
So I just feel like I need to leave with it.

2134
02:06:25.060 --> 02:06:27.100
Yeah, and there's like you,

2135
02:06:28.000 --> 02:06:32.560
there are people that I just,

2136
02:06:32.560 --> 02:06:34.260
I just know that like,

2137
02:06:34.300 --> 02:06:38.240
if you mixed in the Lord into this message,

2138
02:06:38.500 --> 02:06:40.580
they would actually think it's less effective.

2139
02:06:42.380 --> 02:06:45.360
Unfortunately, that's how some would think.

2140
02:06:45.360 --> 02:06:49.040
So like with me, so I can't, I can't,

2141
02:06:49.040 --> 02:06:51.980
what wouldn't work for me is I can't say,

2142
02:06:52.540 --> 02:06:55.920
I help you grow your business while putting God first

2143
02:06:56.640 --> 02:06:59.660
because the one isn't powerful enough.

2144
02:07:00.220 --> 02:07:01.580
That's why I say profits.

2145
02:07:01.880 --> 02:07:03.520
And he gave me the tagline.

2146
02:07:03.680 --> 02:07:05.640
I didn't come up with it, but profits,

2147
02:07:05.760 --> 02:07:08.260
like that's more specific than growing your business.

2148
02:07:08.820 --> 02:07:10.100
Profits, I'm more profitable.

2149
02:07:10.660 --> 02:07:11.760
I'll like that.

2150
02:07:11.800 --> 02:07:13.440
I'll see about the God first, right?

2151
02:07:13.440 --> 02:07:15.500
So some people are going to do that.

2152
02:07:15.580 --> 02:07:16.880
You know, they're, you know,

2153
02:07:16.880 --> 02:07:22.300
and so, I mean, I think that's, I think that's really good.

2154
02:07:22.340 --> 02:07:23.220
I do have another piece

2155
02:07:23.220 --> 02:07:26.880
that I was been working on in my marketing too,

2156
02:07:27.440 --> 02:07:31.040
because really who they are on the inside is they're fierce.

2157
02:07:31.500 --> 02:07:34.780
And that's an acronym that stands for,

2158
02:07:34.980 --> 02:07:39.660
they want freedom, that stands for freedom, impact.

2159
02:07:39.700 --> 02:07:41.100
This is what, this is who I stand for.

2160
02:07:41.100 --> 02:07:42.020
This is like my core values.

2161
02:07:42.120 --> 02:07:45.140
So freedom, impact, empowerment, respect,

2162
02:07:45.980 --> 02:07:47.600
community, and education.

2163
02:07:48.460 --> 02:07:52.460
So, but fierce is just like who these women are

2164
02:07:52.460 --> 02:07:54.080
underneath the surface and finding their purpose.

2165
02:07:54.900 --> 02:07:57.120
These strong willed, strong willed,

2166
02:07:57.220 --> 02:07:58.920
they can do anything, but they can't do this.

2167
02:07:58.920 --> 02:08:01.280
It's like the one thing that they can't overcome,

2168
02:08:01.640 --> 02:08:02.360
which is awesome.

2169
02:08:02.780 --> 02:08:04.660
There's a lot of people like that too.

2170
02:08:04.660 --> 02:08:05.120
Yeah.

2171
02:08:05.160 --> 02:08:10.200
A lot of powerful people that food is what got them.

2172
02:08:10.800 --> 02:08:11.480
And, you know.

2173
02:08:11.480 --> 02:08:13.440
More is more, like that's what got me.

2174
02:08:13.460 --> 02:08:14.280
It's how I nearly died.

2175
02:08:14.280 --> 02:08:17.020
Like, okay, if one workout is not enough,

2176
02:08:17.180 --> 02:08:18.200
then two must be better.

2177
02:08:18.760 --> 02:08:18.760


2178
02:08:19.480 --> 02:08:24.120
And so that mentality is my-

2179
02:08:24.120 --> 02:08:27.140
Yeah, I could see fierce not part of the small,

2180
02:08:27.520 --> 02:08:28.980
you know, like the catchphrase,

2181
02:08:29.140 --> 02:08:31.140
the quick thing that we're working on,

2182
02:08:31.180 --> 02:08:32.620
but I could see that part of your page.

2183
02:08:33.180 --> 02:08:36.340
You know, I could just definitely see that.

2184
02:08:37.560 --> 02:08:38.300
Very good.

2185
02:08:38.460 --> 02:08:38.920
Very good.

2186
02:08:38.940 --> 02:08:40.240
So let's keep working on that.

2187
02:08:40.240 --> 02:08:42.360
And so let's,

2188
02:08:44.780 --> 02:08:46.020
here's what I want you to.

2189
02:08:46.380 --> 02:08:49.420
So one, if you, whether you went or didn't,

2190
02:08:50.060 --> 02:08:51.300
come up with your answer.

2191
02:08:51.460 --> 02:08:52.120
Who do I help?

2192
02:08:52.360 --> 02:08:52.920
How do I help?

2193
02:08:53.000 --> 02:08:54.400
Do the best job you can.

2194
02:08:54.940 --> 02:08:55.780
There's no wrong answer.

2195
02:08:56.540 --> 02:08:57.380
It's week one.

2196
02:08:57.620 --> 02:08:58.660
There's no wrong answer.

2197
02:08:58.760 --> 02:08:59.940
You can't screw this up.

2198
02:08:59.940 --> 02:09:00.360
Okay.

2199
02:09:00.440 --> 02:09:01.860
And so do your best job.

2200
02:09:01.880 --> 02:09:02.500
Who do you help?

2201
02:09:02.720 --> 02:09:03.260
How do you help?

2202
02:09:03.580 --> 02:09:04.760
Why should they listen to you?

2203
02:09:05.240 --> 02:09:06.380
And feel free.

2204
02:09:06.580 --> 02:09:09.280
You can post it in the Boxer group.

2205
02:09:09.840 --> 02:09:12.480
You can, you know, send it to me directly,

2206
02:09:12.700 --> 02:09:14.340
if that's more comfortable.

2207
02:09:16.240 --> 02:09:19.480
But, you know, pray on it and just ask the Lord

2208
02:09:19.480 --> 02:09:21.020
if he has anything to add.

2209
02:09:21.580 --> 02:09:22.460
He may or may not.

2210
02:09:23.140 --> 02:09:23.280
Okay.

2211
02:09:23.400 --> 02:09:24.760
And don't be, and if you're not,

2212
02:09:24.860 --> 02:09:28.540
you feel confident that you're not hearing from him yet,

2213
02:09:28.820 --> 02:09:29.740
you will.

2214
02:09:30.320 --> 02:09:31.980
Let me know that too though,

2215
02:09:32.240 --> 02:09:35.200
because anyone that's not, I want to help you

2216
02:09:35.200 --> 02:09:37.340
because he's shown me every way not to hear from him.

2217
02:09:37.860 --> 02:09:39.500
Let me help you with that.

2218
02:09:39.700 --> 02:09:43.740
And then next is send me,

2219
02:09:44.240 --> 02:09:46.080
all I, I don't need any context.

2220
02:09:47.200 --> 02:09:47.200


2221
02:09:47.420 --> 02:09:50.540
Because I'm not, I'm not the psychoanalyst here.

2222
02:09:50.780 --> 02:09:51.980
No context.

2223
02:09:52.500 --> 02:09:55.720
But any tough relationships you have right now,

2224
02:09:56.080 --> 02:09:59.440
I want to help be a blessing and help you with those.

2225
02:10:00.000 --> 02:10:05.840
Because the majority of those are spiritual and and I've seen that over and over and over and over and over

2226
02:10:06.140 --> 02:10:09.300
You know with my oldest son. There's a spirit of offense

2227
02:10:11.320 --> 02:10:18.120
It just makes your life a lot easier and so you can just you know, you can just box me I don't need context

2228
02:10:18.120 --> 02:10:21.780
I don't need last names. Give me first name. That's it

2229
02:10:21.780 --> 02:10:28.060
I'll pray about them and then I'll also pray about each of you which I pray for you every day

2230
02:10:28.060 --> 02:10:30.380
I don't know if anyone has felt more peace

2231
02:10:30.860 --> 02:10:35.080
But I asked the father to bless you guys every single day. It's part of my routine

2232
02:10:35.640 --> 02:10:38.440
and so that will prevent spiritual stuff from

2233
02:10:39.660 --> 02:10:44.760
Clinging to you won't stop it from attacking you but it'll stop it sticking with you

2234
02:10:46.000 --> 02:10:48.400
But I'll also pray about you

2235
02:10:48.500 --> 02:10:53.580
I know with I won't mention names, but with one of you have helped you with an agreement and

2236
02:10:53.650 --> 02:10:57.630
And so I'll pray on is there anything that can be

2237
02:10:58.410 --> 02:11:02.350
Released broken off of you, you know and and help you out with that, too

2238
02:11:02.350 --> 02:11:06.150
And so all of that you can, you know, feel free to you know, hit me on boxer

2239
02:11:06.150 --> 02:11:09.970
You can put pieces in the group if you want or not

2240
02:11:09.970 --> 02:11:15.790
Does that or personal just direct to me does all of that make sense? Are you all in boxer?

2241
02:11:17.930 --> 02:11:21.410
Okay, and those of you that aren't in

2242
02:11:21.550 --> 02:11:22.110
And

2243
02:11:23.210 --> 02:11:27.990
The app, you know, you can message Rebecca any kind of logistical stuff message Rebecca

2244
02:11:28.010 --> 02:11:31.090
She'll work on your behalf. The app is not ours, right?

2245
02:11:31.190 --> 02:11:37.250
It's Dion's but we'll connect them and and help you get you know connected in there because that's where

2246
02:11:37.870 --> 02:11:45.190
You know Dion is already loading content over there. And did you guys enjoy Dion? He's great, right?

2247
02:11:45.190 --> 02:11:52.350
Like I've had a lot of Dion so like I just he's amazing and it's cool to be co-training, you know with him

2248
02:11:53.390 --> 02:11:55.890
And so there you go. Awesome

2249
02:11:56.890 --> 02:11:59.230
Cool guys. Oh

2250
02:11:59.230 --> 02:12:03.650
Stephanie really quick. Where do you want us to post in the Facebook group or on the app?

2251
02:12:04.670 --> 02:12:05.270
questions

2252
02:12:06.030 --> 02:12:07.230
Yeah, so

2253
02:12:08.290 --> 02:12:10.330
So for me

2254
02:12:11.070 --> 02:12:15.150
Anything you so Rebecca's amazing, right and she will and in fact

2255
02:12:15.150 --> 02:12:19.770
She sent me some questions that I have not had a time to do anything with I'm so sorry

2256
02:12:20.990 --> 02:12:21.470
but

2257
02:12:22.150 --> 02:12:27.710
Rebecca's great. If you if you're more comfortable posting and Facebook you can Rebecca will let me know

2258
02:12:27.710 --> 02:12:32.050
I don't I just don't I don't see all the stuff in Facebook with all the different things we got going on

2259
02:12:33.250 --> 02:12:37.210
boxer is going to always be your fastest response for me and

2260
02:12:37.910 --> 02:12:40.670
You're always gonna be the I'm always gonna be the fastest on that

2261
02:12:41.990 --> 02:12:48.890
You know every at least every morning. I'm checking that but often throughout the day I check it, too

2262
02:12:48.890 --> 02:12:51.490
And so, you know if it's speed

2263
02:12:51.810 --> 02:12:53.310
boxer for me

2264
02:12:53.830 --> 02:12:55.790
Thank you. Cool and

2265
02:12:57.230 --> 02:12:59.530
Cool and we do have a Facebook group

2266
02:13:00.890 --> 02:13:07.330
So, you know just let Rebecca know is it it's Rebecca at Higdon group calm right is that yeah

2267
02:13:07.990 --> 02:13:11.490
And yeah, and then she's also in the boxer group with you

2268
02:13:12.090 --> 02:13:17.610
And so, all right. So with that I'll pray us out. I know we went a little bit longer

2269
02:13:17.610 --> 02:13:23.550
This is you know, just a warning probably gonna be the the deal with pretty much all of these

2270
02:13:24.650 --> 02:13:25.170
but

2271
02:13:26.570 --> 02:13:30.630
Father we're just so grateful for you father. Thank you for bringing us all together Lord father

2272
02:13:30.630 --> 02:13:37.230
I just want to thank you that you gave such boldness and courage to every single person on here tonight

2273
02:13:37.230 --> 02:13:44.130
Thank you for that. Thank you for blessing them with boldness and courage to to be a part of this and thank you for

2274
02:13:44.130 --> 02:13:49.830
Bringing us all together and thank you for your presence with us Lord. We're so grateful for you and and father

2275
02:13:49.830 --> 02:13:53.510
We thank you for clarity guidance direction wisdom strength and discernment father

2276
02:13:53.510 --> 02:13:56.390
We thank you for abundance prosperity riches honor in life

2277
02:13:56.430 --> 02:14:01.410
We thank you for healing harmony order and balance in our heart minds Brian brains and bodies

2278
02:14:02.310 --> 02:14:07.210
Thank you for prospering us in the work of our hands. Thank you for blessing our families

2279
02:14:07.750 --> 02:14:14.930
We're just so grateful for you Lord. Thank you for guiding us and directing us. Thank you for all that you've done for us

2280
02:14:14.930 --> 02:14:19.750
Thank you for rescuing us while we were still so far off. Thank you for sending your son

2281
02:14:19.750 --> 02:14:25.030
Thank you for your word, which astonishes us every single day Lord. You're worthy of our praise

2282
02:14:25.030 --> 02:14:30.770
You're worthy of our glory honor power and strength and we are just so honored to be your children in Jesus name. We thank you

2283
02:14:31.550 --> 02:14:31.770
Amen

2284
02:14:33.310 --> 02:14:39.290
All right guys appreciate you love you guys so much and we'll be talking with you, all right