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How you guys doing? Doing good.

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Good.

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So

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Rebecca, you want to kick us off in prayer?

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Yeah, let's do it. Am I? I'm not muted. Am I you can hear me?

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Okay. Okay. Awesome. Heavenly Father, thank you for this time

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together. Lord, thank you for bringing us together collectively

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to grow just for iron to sharpen iron for us to spur each other

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on. Thank you that we get to come as empty vessels for

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filling up today, Lord. I thank you for Ray and how you're using

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him. Thank you for the anointing on his life. Just pray that you

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would speak through him today, Lord and guide us as we just

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dedicate this session to you. We pray that you would reveal only

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your truth. And give us the spiritual eyes and ears we need

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today, Lord increase our wisdom, help us with discernment. We

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want to hear from you. We pray that you just help us take

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charge and run with it. Lord. I love in Isaiah when it says this

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is the way walk in it help us walk in the direction you're

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calling us to do. We're just grateful that you're as close as

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the mention of your name. And we're thankful that you're such

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a faithful friend to us who stays closer than a brother. We

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love you, Lord, we invite you to have your way today. And we pray

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these things in Jesus name. Amen.

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Amen. Yay. Awesome. Awesome. All right. So first, first thing I

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know we got a lot or maybe not a lot. I don't know. I know we

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have some new people on. So if you would please raise your

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hand if this is your first meeting you're making your

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digital hand. So it should be under react. So react, raise

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hand. Okay. I know sometimes people struggle with that. Maybe

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if you're on your phone or something, but yeah, raise your

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keep them raised. Because I want to make sure and by the way,

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let me see. So Rhea, you're one of them. This is your first

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time. Yeah, find my hand.

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Yeah. And so I just want to make sure. So I want to make sure

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especially if it's your first time, or or if you've been on an

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and I haven't gotten to you personally yet. You can raise

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your hand for that too. But I want to make sure that we get to

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all the people that are new that have not gone through with yet.

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And so we'll just have to remember Rhea if she can't find

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the hand. Are you driving? Are you able to talk or? Oh, I'm

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stopped. Oh, okay. And so all right, so I will need it. I need

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a different view. Let me see here. Okay. So I'll actually

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I'll start I got an edge to start with Rhea. But first, let

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me just do a quick prayer.

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Okay, so a few of you what I've learned is if you guys are under

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spiritual warfare stuff, I get wrong answers when I pray about

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you. So a couple of you were and now you're not at least

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currently. So that's good. I'd remove that. Kim, what's up? You

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got something share?

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No, I think this is my first meeting.

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Yeah, okay. I'll come back to you. I want to hit Rhea first

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then we'll we'll come back to you. Sounds good.

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Okay. All right. So Rhea being I can't even find how to get my

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video back on the enemy messing with you. Oh, good. Oh, I'm not

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good at this. Sorry. So so just to help you with that and

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anything in life, right. So definitely, you know, today's

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Proverbs today's February is a February Yeah, February 18th.

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Right. So Proverbs 1821 says death and life's in the power of

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the tongue, those who love it will eat its fruit. So we what I

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am constantly training people on and they get it, you know, it

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comes easier and easier and easier is we want to no longer

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honor and edify language that that limits us. So different

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language you use is in the past, I struggled with this sort of

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thing, but I'm getting better and better. And so that way,

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you breathe hope and life. That way you you help your

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ministering spirits help you out versus staying under an old

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deal. Right. I used to I always used to say, you know, I'm not

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struggle with this stuff. And so use that in, and this is for all

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going to be able to do this. I'm not going to be able to do that.

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of you use this in every area of your life. Okay, you know what,

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I'm not going to be able to do that. I'm not going to be able

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to do that. I'm not going to be able to do that. I'm not going

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so learn to catch yourself when you go to say, I'm not good at

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this, or I suck at this, or man, this, I'm just so bad at this,

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you catch it and say, you know what, I used to struggle with

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this, but I feel like I'm getting better and better. And

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that that will breathe life into you actually getting better and

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better. Does that make sense? Rhea? That makes sense? Yes.

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Yeah. All right. And so let me for first, I just want to do

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prayer about you. And I know I've done some of this with you

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before outside of here.

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the one the only the one thing one thing, the one thing that

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was I was nudge, you know, to, to share with you and and and

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help you with is what's called our act. And, and I don't know

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if I've talked to you about this particular thing before.

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Because I know I've talked to you about like agreements and

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strongholds and different things. And so are all of us

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just kind of, I mean, it has to be God's design, right? All of

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us, all of us adults, I don't know what age, but all of us

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adults have an act. And, and this act, and I didn't come up

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with that word, it actually came from landmark form, they

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actually use that word is actually my first personal

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breakthrough was discovering my act. And this act was set in

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childhood. And it had it drives us unwillingly until we're aware

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of it. And then we have a chance of taking the wheel back and

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taken over, right, but until we're aware of it, we're on

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auto, we're on we're the passenger, and this act is the

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driver. So my act was I'll show you. So when people would doubt

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me, that was that would fuel me. So my best performance would

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come when someone would doubt me, the and that may not sound

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that bad, right? Like, Oh, that's not that bad, right?

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Well, the problem is, once I proved myself, and no one else

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doubted me, I would lose steam, and I'd have to go start a new

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career. So I would have all these careers where I would I

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would, you know, get the highest review ever given ever. And

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then I'd like, Oh, y'all believe in me? I'd weird out,

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and I gotta get out of here. And so I would, you know, I'd have

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all these these good careers that could have been great, cut

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off, because my act would flare and go search for somewhere where

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people doubted me. Right. And so you either get that or you don't

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like because that's, I haven't found too many people that

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that's their act, but but I'll show you with now I still have

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it, actually. But I get to choose. So it'll flare, like

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someone I'll sense that someone's doubting me or

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underplaying me or whatever. And it'll it'll flare and it'll want

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to flex, it'll want me to brag or want me to tell them how big

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time I am or whatever. But with awareness, I can choose, I can

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say, Nah, I don't need to do that. Right? Where in the past,

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it was unwilling, I would just, I would flex on them, I would

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brag, or I'd boast or be whatever, right? And it just

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wasn't good. And so what I what I get, and okay, what I so this

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this act is a thing that you would be pummeled with pretty

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much all the time.

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And so the act is not something we can actually pray off.

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It's not a, well, I don't need that anymore.

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It actually is a pathway

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for who we're called to actually help.

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Because whoever we're called to help

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is the person that we know inside and out.

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So God has equipped us to know this type of person

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inside and out so we can best serve them.

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So an example is if people come to me

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and they've unfortunately lost a child,

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at some point, they're not gonna listen to me.

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You know, I can't imagine it.

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I can't pretend to imagine it.

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I don't know the pain that they're feeling.

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So I have to point them to someone or something

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that is someone that lost a child.

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So I'll point them to the Ed Milett Granger Smith podcast

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where Granger, his son drowned in a pool.

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And he said, you know what?

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I'm gonna put a gun to his head and found Jesus.

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It's an amazing podcast.

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Even if you haven't lost a child,

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like I cried like a baby.

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And so they, you know, people,

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they want, they feel the best

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when they're with someone who understands them.

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So our act is actually an equipping.

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It's an equipping of who we're actually called most to serve.

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And when we serve this type of person,

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we're gonna give them the best.

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So there have been times when I share with you your act,

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there's been times where you've helped someone with this.

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I'm positive.

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And you didn't know why, but it felt really good

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because, you know, he's, you know,

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God the father, not the godfather.

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He's not a taskmaster.

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He's not gonna give us a purpose that sucks.

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He's not gonna give us a purpose that's like draining

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and like, oh geez, I'm supposed to break rocks in the sun.

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God, okay.

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He's gonna give us a purpose that lights us up,

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that keeps us awake at night, that fires us up.

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We look forward to it, okay?

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But to get there, we gotta get past this.

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We gotta become aware of what is it that's been driving us?

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What is that simple statement that's been driving us?

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And now, okay, how do we go and serve others

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that we know so well because they're us, right?

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And so yours is, you know, one that I do see.

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I think, you know, the industry,

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and I think, you know, with what I do,

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I think a lot of people come into this industry

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with this type of act, either similar or exact.

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And so the act that I get for you is I'm not enough.

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And so I'm not enough-

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That's not surprising.

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Most people, when they hear their act,

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they're usually not like, really?

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That's usually not the reaction.

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It's usually like, oh yeah, that makes sense.

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And so this would be an involuntary hammering

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that you would have on basically everything that you go for.

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And this can work one of two ways.

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There are, you know, I just spent time

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with someone who makes over $200,000 a month,

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and their act is I'm not enough.

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So it shows up in two different ways, right,

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that I've seen.

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Either you become the workaholic, rewardaholic,

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I have to go and conquer everything

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to try to fill this void that I'm not enough,

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but it never does.

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Or it's used as a, well, I can't do that

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because, you know, I'm not enough.

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I'm not gonna be able, you know?

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So it's usually one or the other.

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It's usually not in between.

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It's usually not someone that's like doing pretty good.

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It's either they're killing it,

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but they're unhappy and unfulfilled,

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or they're falling short of their goals

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because they have this, you know, I'm just not enough.

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How can I go and accomplish those goals?

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And so we can't, I can't give you a men in black moment

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and, you know, flash it out of your head

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or something like that.

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What we're designed and meant to do

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is to be aware of it and to actually tame it.

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And so this means that you will have this come up.

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It's not gonna stop, but you get to say, you know what?

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I am enough because I'm a child of God.

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And so we get to reframe.

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So yours is a reframing.

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And so, and I would encourage you,

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and I really believe, you know,

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if you look at 1 Corinthians 9, 27,

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I tame the body, I make it my slave.

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2 Corinthians 10, five, I take captive every thought,

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make it obedient to Christ.

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So you're, were to take, you know, that thought captive,

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understand it, okay.

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Is it obedient to Christ? Of course it's not. I'm a child of God. I am worthy.

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You're enough, and you're worthy because you're a child of God.

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And so that's what you want to reframe to. I get to do this thing because I am enough,

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because of what Jesus did on the cross. And so it's turning to Him, right?

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And all of heaven's favor is attracted to you because of Jesus inside of you, right?

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It's not our performance. It's not if Ray had a good week or whatever. We're not under performance,

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just like my kids aren't under performance. I don't some days really, really love Graham

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because he got an award at school, and I'm really upset. I don't love Sabrina because

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God loves us because of Jesus in us, not because of our performance.

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He loves us because we're a child of God and because Jesus is with us.

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And so this is your battlegrounds for I'm not enough. And it shouldn't actually be a battle.

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It'll get easier and easier and easier, just like with me. It got easier and easier and easier to

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notice that I'll show you and say, I don't need to do that. Does this make sense?

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And so when you have this, probably a goal, right? Like you probably are like,

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you know what, today I'm going to whatever, reach out to five people or whatever,

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when it flares and when it's like, well, you know, you're not enough.

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Why would they sign up with you? Or you're not enough. Like, you know,

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who are you to make rank or whatever? When you have that come up, you know,

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you know what, I am enough because I'm a child of God and I'm going to do this.

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And so you get to practice that. You get to practice taming that act that's been

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controlling you for so long. And that is a practice. And anything that we practice,

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we get better at. You know, we get better at practicing peace, patience, joy, kindness,

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gentleness, you know, all that. Anything that we practice, we get better at.

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So the more that you practice noticing the act of I'm not enough and reframing it to,

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I'm a child of God, I am enough and he's enough and I'm worthy because of whose I am.

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Then you can start, you'll get better and better and better. And the voice will get lesser and

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lesser and lesser and lesser. But it also equips you to go and help all the people that have no

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clue about acts that have no clue that they're struggling with this whole I'm not enough.

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And one thing I've noticed is when I talk about someone's act, anyone that has the same or a

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similar one, they like they really perk up when they when they hear me talk to someone and it's

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similar to theirs or the same as theirs because it just resonates, right? You're called to go and

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help others who don't feel enough. And I bet somewhere in your life, maybe probably multiple

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times, you've helped someone that didn't feel enough and you help them do something. And I

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bet it felt great. Yes. Does that does anything come up for you around that?

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Well, it comes up from my other multi-level marketing company that I was with. I'm still

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with them. I'm just not really working the business. But it's about helping people feel

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better. Yeah. You know, and is it like, like, very specifically, people who don't feel enough?

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Have you ever? Have you ever noticed that when you help someone who just doesn't feel like they're

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worthy or doesn't feel like they're enough? That would probably be like, really, like emotional

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cocaine for you. Because when we walk in our purpose and we help someone,

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we're like really meant to help. It's going to it's going to feel really good.

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I can't say that I've really been in that position to where I was with somebody that

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didn't feel enough because I don't know how to tell. Yeah, you don't you don't ask them or yeah,

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they don't reveal that it's not something most people would reveal. And so how do you tell?

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I'm paying attention to their language. You know, it usually won't come out like I'm not enough,

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but it'll come out with. I've never been very good at this thing, or yeah, I always struggle

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with this, or yeah, I sure try to do this thing, but it just never works like it can come out and

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in multiple ways. You know, and so you'll you'll notice like like what I would encourage you to do

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you know, step one for you, no question, is I would set some action steps and when,

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okay, because it will, when this flares, you get to practice and say,

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no, I am enough. I'm a child of God. I'm going to go do this thing.

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or doing a video or whatever.

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I would pray about it and ask if there's, hey, Lord, is there any association here?

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Is there any association with, you know, why, why, why did this make me feel so good?

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Like us, us like inspect that, you know, like, why do we feel so good?

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you know, I was asked to do, and I was, I was very nervous.

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I was asked to do a sermon in Costa Mesa, California.

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And then they, they said, hey, you know, let us know if you need help with altar call.

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And I'm like, altar call, like, what are you talking about?

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So I Googled how to run altar call the night before and I do it.

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And 20 people came to Christ and that feeling, I'm like, I want more of this.

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Like whatever this is, I want more of it.

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but almost every day I'm walking someone through to Christ and that's the Holy Spirit.

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I'm just being obedient. The Holy Spirit's pulling them to Christ.

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the most exhilarated feeling I'd had in my entire career,

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regardless of all the millions and the stages and yada, yada.

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That was the feeling that stood out more than anything I'd ever done.

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I want more of that. And so pay attention to that.

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Because that, that is God's favor is upon that.

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And he wants you to experience more of that.

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Just like you would want, you know, anyone that has kids,

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you'd want your kids to experience joy.

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something like that. I would, I would just pay attention to that.

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you get to say, you get to practice and say, no, I am enough.

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I'm a child of God. Go and do the thing.

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And I think you're starting to see some progress.

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Yes. Thank you, Ray.

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That cool? Helpful?

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Yes. Very.

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Everyone give, give Ria some love, give her some love.

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Awesome. Thanks for being vulnerable.

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Kind of required in here.

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Awesome. All right. So let's, let's get back.

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To.

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Oh, a lot of you have hands up now.

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Kim, you still around? Are you toast?

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I'm here.

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Hello.

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Okay. Yeah.

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So what's happening.

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What's up.

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So.

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I should be told I had the time to be here.

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And I found myself wanting to avoid this call.

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So I stopped myself kind of dead in my tracks and I said, whoa.

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That means we need to be on the call. So I'm here.

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Nice. Nice.

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Yeah.

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I don't get to, I need, I need to.

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I need to be on the call.

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So, you know, with you, I'll just say, what's the number one thing I can

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I really don't know that I have any questions.

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I will say thank you to Ria for raising her hand because.

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You you're such a natural mentor and the Holy spirit just flows

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through you.

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Sometimes you talk so fast.

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I couldn't take notes fast enough and you dropped so many nuggets for

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So, you know, I, I.

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I recognize some of myself in that.

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You know, you know what I do financially.

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And I will find myself.

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Better performer.

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When I'm backed against the wall.

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I don't feel the need to get after it as consistently as I do when

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things are going well, you know?

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So, yeah. So, so just.

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I remember hearing this from Tom Hopkins.

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Who's been around forever.

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When my kids were little,

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we used to listen to Tom Hopkins every morning.

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And it was, what was his saying?

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I'm alert. I'm alive and I feel great.

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And so for those that don't know, Tom Hopkins was a sales trainer.

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He was, you know,

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popular or like when Zig Ziglar and everyone.

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Don't so either I either tell them to go, you know, make it or go spend it

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um, but we don't have to operate that way and so I would just

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Because any I I I really believe you know book of hebrews talks about how angels are ministering spirits

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When it says death and life's in the power of the tongue those who love it will eat its fruit

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I like I actually believe that that's an equipping or an unequipping of angels to help us

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An equipping or unequipping a favor to go in front of us

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When we speak I only seem to operate, you know when my back's against the wall

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Then that is going to be our reality

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And so I would just say in the past I noticed that I really performed when my back was against the wall

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But it's so cool that god's helping me get that better and better

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and and then I would also

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You know, we know the the hack right the bio hack to to prayer and that's you know

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Mark 11 24 and philippians 4, you know says when you pray praise if you've already received and also

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In everything with prayer and petition in thanksgiving present your request to god

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Both of them are saying the same thing and that is uh, go to him with gratitude for what it is that you want

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is is listening for

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What is a trait that I want to make sure I have?

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So when I when I listen to uh, isaiah 11 3 and 4 he says, um, he will delight in being obedient to the lord

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So my very first reaction to that was lord. Do I delight in being obedient to you and I got no

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And in that one word in prayer I got I was being obedient

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but for my desires

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And and so there was it was it was I was making this little trade-off with god of of hey

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I'll go do this if you ask me to but i'm sure you're gonna bless me, right?

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You're gonna take care of dog, right? You're gonna hook ray up, right?

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So I was I was doing it but for ray's desires and so in that moment I prayed I said father

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Thank you for helping me put your will above my desires

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and I felt a physical change when I prayed that and that day he had me fast and

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literally ever since then

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Things have been different. It's been really incredible

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And and so and I know you know, isaiah 55 8 9 says his ways are higher than our ways

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So I know that you know, yes, he has great plans for me. So I don't gotta worry about it

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I'm gonna worry about you know, what exactly is my desire here?

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I want to make sure you know, god knows that um, you know

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My desire is his will and his will is is higher than than my thoughts. And so

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Let's just rock that out

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And and so i'm i'm always looking for traits. I'm always looking for what traits

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Do I seek first the kingdom of god like all of the all these verses?

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Point me to the traits that I want and I just go to him and thank him for helping me with those traits

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and so we want to be

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You know careful of we don't we don't you know, we don't need our back against the wall, you know

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Uh psalm 35 27 the lord delights in the prosperity and well-being and peace of his servant

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So he delights in your prosperity like he thinks it's wonderful just like we do, you know, you know for if our kids doing well

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We're like, yes, that's awesome

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You know, we're not you know, if they're struggling we're not like serves him, right, you know, like that's not us and we're not perfect

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You know, we do the best job we can

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uh, he's the perfect father and so I would just you know, catch yourself anytime you you find yourself saying a

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diminutive

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And so because we we just don't we don't want to go there. We don't want that. We don't want to keep it

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Thank you, thank you for pointing that out I appreciate it and uh

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I knew I was I was meant to be here

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So I appreciate your time and I will stay and uh, see what else I can learn from the group

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So thank you to everyone who's raised your hand because we learned just as much from you

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yeah, thank you and

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And you know, it's it's common to just you know, i'm just telling it like it is

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Right, you know, that's what most people do and telling it like it is keeps it like it is

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So if you want to keep it like it is then keep telling it like it is, you know, um,

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And so but you probably don't want to do that

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All right, we will go to eddie

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So eddie, it's your first time I believe right? Yes, sir. All right. So let me let me do

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About you

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So, first off, Eddie, you were one of the ones dealing with some spiritual warfare stuff.

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Are you aware of that? Do you feel that?

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Not exactly.

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And is there anything going on in your house at all? Any appliances or flooding or anything

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like that?

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No.

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No? OK. All right. One second.

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So, Eddie, you were one of the ones dealing with some spiritual warfare stuff. Are you

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aware of that?

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Not exactly.

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All right.

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Did you resonate with what I was saying to Rhea?

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Absolutely.

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Yeah, because you got the same one. So your act is I'm not enough. So that's you would

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naturally resonate with that.

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But there's also some other Rhea I've done some work with in past things. And so there's

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more stuff. Let's help you with here.

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OK, so two other things. One, I get that you have an agreement. And so, first of all,

463
00:32:25.480 --> 00:32:30.480
everything I said to Rhea applies to you. Right. So whenever you have that thought of

464
00:32:30.480 --> 00:32:37.640
I'm not enough, it's first of all, that's not true.

465
00:32:37.640 --> 00:32:49.480
It's actually it's a it's a tool that that that you have to to practice walking as a

466
00:32:49.480 --> 00:32:56.760
child of God. And and so when we get the I'm not enough chatter, we're like, you know,

467
00:32:56.760 --> 00:33:02.240
I am enough. I'm a child of God. So you will tame that. And it's just it's just practicing

468
00:33:02.240 --> 00:33:09.040
that. You also have something called an agreement and an agreement is not something you

469
00:33:09.040 --> 00:33:15.400
agree to, but it's something you agreed to at some point in your life. And an agreement

470
00:33:15.400 --> 00:33:22.520
is very strong. It is a spiritual agreement. It's kind of like a contract that allows the

471
00:33:22.520 --> 00:33:28.600
enemy to mess with you. And so the agreement, sometimes it's the same as the act. Yours

472
00:33:28.600 --> 00:33:37.800
isn't. The agreement is it won't work. So the agreement of it won't work would for most if

473
00:33:37.800 --> 00:33:42.600
they go to start something, there's kind of this nagging thought of that's not going to

474
00:33:42.600 --> 00:33:49.680
work. And you might come to the conclusion of why bother? It's not going to work. Do you ever

475
00:33:49.680 --> 00:33:50.600
have that kind of thing?

476
00:33:51.800 --> 00:33:53.440
Sometimes, sometimes.

477
00:33:54.160 --> 00:33:56.960
And so that one, go ahead. I'm sorry.

478
00:33:57.360 --> 00:34:04.600
There are times where like, I'm a bit of an like, because my my act is not good enough.

479
00:34:05.320 --> 00:34:12.480
I've trained my mind to just be on the other side, like you said, workaholic. But

480
00:34:12.560 --> 00:34:17.080
because I've done a lot of personal development, I've also kind of trained my mind and say I can do

481
00:34:17.080 --> 00:34:21.679
anything and nothing's gonna stop me. I'm gonna make it happen regardless. But oftentimes, I end

482
00:34:21.679 --> 00:34:29.880
up overworking myself to make sure that it happens. Because I know that my act is, you know,

483
00:34:29.880 --> 00:34:30.480
not enough.

484
00:34:31.560 --> 00:34:36.199
But you get to the end of those results, and you still don't feel any different.

485
00:34:37.320 --> 00:34:37.760
Correct.

486
00:34:37.800 --> 00:34:39.800
Right. That's the problem.

487
00:34:40.120 --> 00:34:44.800
Right. So like when I when I was, you know, chatting with, you know, one of my clients, you

488
00:34:44.800 --> 00:34:52.400
know, $200,000 a month, he's got the act of I'm not enough. It doesn't he could be to $200

489
00:34:52.400 --> 00:34:57.880
million a month. He's still without awareness, he's still going to have that thought and be

490
00:34:57.880 --> 00:34:59.600
like, What the heck? What do I got to do?

491
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.920
And, and so, you know, I resonate with that, because I

492
00:35:03.920 --> 00:35:08.840
kept trying to make success fulfilling to me. And it just

493
00:35:08.840 --> 00:35:12.920
never did. Like, I was grateful for it, like, cool. But it

494
00:35:12.920 --> 00:35:17.760
never, it never gave me what I was looking for. And and so I

495
00:35:17.760 --> 00:35:20.760
knew something was missing. And that's what I kind of, I'm just

496
00:35:20.760 --> 00:35:23.040
like 2020. I'm just like, man, I gotta do something else,

497
00:35:23.040 --> 00:35:26.200
because this ain't working. I'm not gonna do more of this. And

498
00:35:26.200 --> 00:35:31.360
and so, you know, we can, so I'm supposed to give you your

499
00:35:31.360 --> 00:35:36.680
three words. We'll get to that. And so the good news is

500
00:35:36.680 --> 00:35:45.080
agreements, we can just pray off. And second, and I have

501
00:35:45.080 --> 00:35:50.840
something. So Eddie, send me a, if you would, a direct message

502
00:35:50.840 --> 00:35:53.920
on Instagram or Facebook, because I guess something I'm

503
00:35:53.920 --> 00:35:55.960
not supposed to cover on here that I'll do with you

504
00:35:55.960 --> 00:36:01.640
separately. Different topic, but but we can pray off the

505
00:36:01.640 --> 00:36:04.480
agreement. And and so just remember that, though, send me

506
00:36:04.480 --> 00:36:07.160
a direct message, because I don't know how many people I'm

507
00:36:07.200 --> 00:36:11.560
gonna, he's gonna have me do this with. So I'll forget. And

508
00:36:11.560 --> 00:36:14.560
so first, let's let's pray off the agreement of it won't work.

509
00:36:14.680 --> 00:36:17.120
And so Father was so grateful for you, Father, thank you for

510
00:36:17.120 --> 00:36:20.480
your presence, Father, thank you for breaking off the agreement

511
00:36:20.480 --> 00:36:22.920
of it won't work from Eddie, thank you for breaking that

512
00:36:22.920 --> 00:36:27.800
agreement right now, Lord, in Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Thank

513
00:36:27.800 --> 00:36:30.960
you. And so you're still going to get the I'm not enough.

514
00:36:31.000 --> 00:36:33.000
That's not going away. But it sounds like you've trained

515
00:36:33.000 --> 00:36:39.920
yourself at least. But your weapon against really, it's an

516
00:36:39.920 --> 00:36:43.680
identity struggle. And that's what I had, you know, I fixed my

517
00:36:43.680 --> 00:36:48.120
identity struggle, like one year ago, to the month, you know,

518
00:36:48.120 --> 00:36:53.520
February of last year is when I fixed my identity. Your identity

519
00:36:53.520 --> 00:36:59.160
because most people operate and their identity is what have I

520
00:36:59.160 --> 00:37:02.600
done? What am I? What have I accomplished? What am I doing?

521
00:37:02.880 --> 00:37:07.920
What do I have that kind of stuff? And no matter the answer,

522
00:37:07.920 --> 00:37:12.360
it's never enough. Never. Now, we may pretend to others that it

523
00:37:12.360 --> 00:37:16.000
is, yeah, I just got a new boat or yacht or whatever, right? We

524
00:37:16.000 --> 00:37:21.200
may pretend that it is, but it never is. And so the to break

525
00:37:21.200 --> 00:37:26.200
that identity crisis, we have to find what is our actual identity?

526
00:37:26.200 --> 00:37:31.440
What is our real identity? How does God see us? And so one

527
00:37:31.480 --> 00:37:38.880
thing that he showed me is that all of us have a special unique

528
00:37:38.920 --> 00:37:43.480
identity with him. And there's three words that he'll give me

529
00:37:43.480 --> 00:37:51.280
when I pray about this with people. And so I'll do this

530
00:37:51.280 --> 00:37:54.680
first, and then I got one more thing for you. And so

531
00:38:14.480 --> 00:38:21.480
So it is. So your identity, how God sees you, the real you is

532
00:38:21.480 --> 00:38:29.480
bold, kind and wise. That's your three words. So it feels good,

533
00:38:29.480 --> 00:38:33.360
right? Yeah, I resonate with all three of those words. Yeah,

534
00:38:33.400 --> 00:38:41.720
usually people do. And, and so that's anything that is anti

535
00:38:42.640 --> 00:38:48.840
bold, kind and wise is false is a lie. Discard it. And so this

536
00:38:48.840 --> 00:38:52.480
is a great weapon. When when the enemy is messing with you, the

537
00:38:52.480 --> 00:38:54.720
enemy is going to try to make you think that you're timid or

538
00:38:54.720 --> 00:38:59.320
scared, that you're mean or a jerk and that you're dumb. Like

539
00:38:59.320 --> 00:39:01.240
that's what the enemy is going to focus on because the enemy is

540
00:39:01.240 --> 00:39:04.240
just trying to, the enemy does not want you to walk in your

541
00:39:04.280 --> 00:39:09.200
identity. And and so the way that I say it, I'm, I'm bold,

542
00:39:09.200 --> 00:39:12.600
loving and authentic. That's, that's my three words. And so I

543
00:39:12.600 --> 00:39:15.920
say it every morning, I'm, I hold my heart and I'm like, I'm

544
00:39:15.920 --> 00:39:20.680
a bold, loving, authentic man of God. And that just anchors me, I

545
00:39:20.680 --> 00:39:24.280
am not what I do, what I've done, what I have, what I've

546
00:39:24.280 --> 00:39:27.640
accomplished, all those things are great, or not great,

547
00:39:27.920 --> 00:39:32.120
whatever. That's my identity. So I don't I don't struggle trying

548
00:39:32.120 --> 00:39:37.040
to locate my identity, and awards or money or net worth or

549
00:39:37.040 --> 00:39:40.240
any of that stuff, all that stuff's fine. But it's not my

550
00:39:40.240 --> 00:39:44.440
source. It's not it's not who I am. It's not my identity. And so

551
00:39:44.440 --> 00:39:47.800
that that will help you with that. Do you have kids?

552
00:39:48.600 --> 00:39:53.320
No, we um, we're working on it. And God timing. We raised our

553
00:39:53.320 --> 00:39:58.160
nephew. He's 12. We had him since he was three. But still

554
00:39:58.160 --> 00:39:59.680
in prayer for our own.

555
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.360
we had a few miscarriages and I was still working on it.

556
00:40:04.360 --> 00:40:13.440
Yeah. Okay. I do get that you have a heart wall,

557
00:40:13.440 --> 00:40:24.560
and a heart wall is when we've either been betrayed,

558
00:40:24.560 --> 00:40:27.360
abandoned, or hurt,

559
00:40:27.600 --> 00:40:30.600
and so we draw the conclusion of,

560
00:40:30.600 --> 00:40:32.680
wow, when I trust someone, they just hurt me,

561
00:40:32.680 --> 00:40:34.720
so we create a heart wall.

562
00:40:34.720 --> 00:40:39.920
So there are people that you let in, right?

563
00:40:39.920 --> 00:40:41.920
But most people you don't let in, right?

564
00:40:41.920 --> 00:40:44.280
You know, your default setting with a heart wall,

565
00:40:44.280 --> 00:40:47.000
your default setting would be to keep them at distance.

566
00:40:47.000 --> 00:40:49.160
Now, that doesn't mean you don't smile at them,

567
00:40:49.160 --> 00:40:51.240
you're not nice to them because, you know,

568
00:40:51.240 --> 00:40:53.040
you're bold, kind, and wise, right?

569
00:40:53.040 --> 00:40:55.040
So you would be kind to everyone,

570
00:40:55.040 --> 00:40:58.040
but you would keep them at a distance, okay?

571
00:40:58.040 --> 00:41:03.560
Now, the reality is that, yes, we can always be betrayed,

572
00:41:03.560 --> 00:41:07.320
we can always be lied to, we can always be let down.

573
00:41:07.320 --> 00:41:11.120
Almost a daily basis, the Lord's revealing someone to me

574
00:41:11.120 --> 00:41:12.320
that doesn't appreciate me,

575
00:41:12.320 --> 00:41:14.520
and he's moving them out of my life,

576
00:41:14.520 --> 00:41:18.520
and I'm like, okay, all right, Lord, no problem, right?

577
00:41:18.520 --> 00:41:21.600
And, you know, someone that I maybe thought appreciated me

578
00:41:21.600 --> 00:41:23.760
or that, you know, I appreciated,

579
00:41:24.080 --> 00:41:26.000
doesn't appreciate me, he's moving them out of my life,

580
00:41:26.000 --> 00:41:26.840
that's okay.

581
00:41:28.120 --> 00:41:29.680
What we don't wanna do, though,

582
00:41:29.680 --> 00:41:32.240
is have a default setting of a heart wall

583
00:41:32.240 --> 00:41:35.120
because it lessens our light.

584
00:41:35.120 --> 00:41:37.120
And, you know, Matthew 5, 14, 16,

585
00:41:37.120 --> 00:41:38.640
we're called to be the light of the world,

586
00:41:38.640 --> 00:41:40.600
the city on the hill that can't be hidden.

587
00:41:40.600 --> 00:41:45.600
When we are not generous with our energy,

588
00:41:46.920 --> 00:41:51.920
then we condemn our light to more match our expectations.

589
00:41:52.320 --> 00:41:57.320
And so when we, you probably will feel a difference

590
00:41:57.480 --> 00:41:59.040
because we can pray this off.

591
00:42:00.560 --> 00:42:03.320
And so we'll pray off the heart wall.

592
00:42:03.320 --> 00:42:07.160
You'll probably notice that might be easier

593
00:42:07.160 --> 00:42:10.000
for you to feel joy, it might be easier for you

594
00:42:10.000 --> 00:42:14.000
to be more welcoming and have more energy toward people

595
00:42:14.000 --> 00:42:17.420
that otherwise you might be more kind of distant with.

596
00:42:19.400 --> 00:42:21.240
Does that make sense?

597
00:42:21.240 --> 00:42:24.000
Yeah, well, on the heart wall,

598
00:42:24.000 --> 00:42:27.120
I'm not sure if that resonates

599
00:42:27.120 --> 00:42:30.200
because I'm pretty trusting of people.

600
00:42:30.200 --> 00:42:33.640
Like, until you prove me wrong, I trust everybody.

601
00:42:34.480 --> 00:42:36.240
I know that's probably not the way to be,

602
00:42:36.240 --> 00:42:38.240
but that's kind of how I am.

603
00:42:38.240 --> 00:42:40.040
It's an impressive way to be, actually.

604
00:42:40.040 --> 00:42:41.680
I mean, it's an impressive way to be

605
00:42:41.680 --> 00:42:43.520
if you can pull that off.

606
00:42:43.520 --> 00:42:45.120
Most of us have been hurt and damaged

607
00:42:45.120 --> 00:42:46.800
and we're not in that space.

608
00:42:46.800 --> 00:42:48.960
I don't know that I've been hurt in that way

609
00:42:49.280 --> 00:42:50.160
Yeah.

610
00:42:50.160 --> 00:42:51.560
Where I don't trust people.

611
00:42:52.800 --> 00:42:54.960
Okay, let's pray it off,

612
00:42:54.960 --> 00:42:57.520
see if you notice anything anyway.

613
00:42:57.520 --> 00:42:59.760
And so Father, we're so grateful for you, Father.

614
00:42:59.760 --> 00:43:00.920
Thank you for your presence, Father.

615
00:43:00.920 --> 00:43:02.880
Thank you for breaking off

616
00:43:02.880 --> 00:43:05.120
and disintegrating the heart wall from Eddie.

617
00:43:05.120 --> 00:43:07.080
Thank you for disintegrating that heart wall right now,

618
00:43:07.080 --> 00:43:08.640
Lord, in Jesus name.

619
00:43:08.640 --> 00:43:09.840
Amen.

620
00:43:09.840 --> 00:43:10.680
Amen.

621
00:43:16.120 --> 00:43:18.280
So make sure you send me that direct message.

622
00:43:18.280 --> 00:43:22.040
And then, what is, do you have a,

623
00:43:23.360 --> 00:43:25.040
like a number one hot question

624
00:43:25.040 --> 00:43:26.760
you want to ask me or anything?

625
00:43:26.760 --> 00:43:28.240
Yes.

626
00:43:28.240 --> 00:43:31.440
I mean, I have lots, but I'll just start with one.

627
00:43:31.440 --> 00:43:33.920
One of my biggest challenges that I've been having

628
00:43:33.920 --> 00:43:36.480
is figuring out my niche.

629
00:43:36.480 --> 00:43:38.400
Like when I do my messaging

630
00:43:38.400 --> 00:43:41.120
to try to attract clients for my business.

631
00:43:41.120 --> 00:43:45.160
Because, you know, like I don't want to just,

632
00:43:45.160 --> 00:43:48.240
I want to recruit people for my business, of course,

633
00:43:49.200 --> 00:43:52.240
but I haven't been able to narrow down on my niche

634
00:43:52.240 --> 00:43:53.880
of what my messaging would be,

635
00:43:55.360 --> 00:43:56.440
what my brand would be.

636
00:43:56.440 --> 00:43:58.920
So I kind of do the whole entrepreneur thing,

637
00:43:59.880 --> 00:44:01.520
but that's too broad.

638
00:44:01.520 --> 00:44:03.880
So I don't know how to like channel it in

639
00:44:03.880 --> 00:44:06.600
where I can get more of my ideal type of clients

640
00:44:06.600 --> 00:44:08.080
that I like to get.

641
00:44:08.080 --> 00:44:08.920
Yeah.

642
00:44:10.040 --> 00:44:10.880
Okay.

643
00:44:11.880 --> 00:44:16.880
So here's an exercise, all right?

644
00:44:18.240 --> 00:44:21.200
So an exercise is,

645
00:44:22.800 --> 00:44:24.200
what have I been through?

646
00:44:25.880 --> 00:44:28.240
What have I overcome?

647
00:44:28.240 --> 00:44:30.600
What have I survived?

648
00:44:30.600 --> 00:44:35.600
What have I gone through?

649
00:44:36.360 --> 00:44:41.360
Because what we've gone through is an equipping,

650
00:44:45.800 --> 00:44:48.720
is an equipping of who we absolutely

651
00:44:48.720 --> 00:44:50.280
have authority to go and help.

652
00:44:51.360 --> 00:44:56.360
And so it's now, so what I would,

653
00:44:56.600 --> 00:44:59.480
can you, let's see if we can narrow this down.

654
00:44:59.480 --> 00:45:00.320
And so,

655
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.280
Can you give me some things of what you've been through?

656
00:45:06.020 --> 00:45:11.020
Yeah, I was kicked out of my parents' house at 18.

657
00:45:11.440 --> 00:45:12.280
All right.

658
00:45:13.920 --> 00:45:18.680
And so I started becoming an entrepreneur

659
00:45:18.680 --> 00:45:20.400
right around that time.

660
00:45:20.400 --> 00:45:22.900
And I've kind of been on my own ever since.

661
00:45:22.900 --> 00:45:27.020
I mean, I'm married, but in terms of as an adult,

662
00:45:27.020 --> 00:45:28.920
from that point, I've always,

663
00:45:28.920 --> 00:45:31.060
so there's always been some challenges financially

664
00:45:31.060 --> 00:45:35.040
because I just kind of was struggling working three jobs,

665
00:45:35.040 --> 00:45:37.440
trying to just kind of make my way.

666
00:45:37.440 --> 00:45:42.440
And, you know, I've had some success in network marketing,

667
00:45:43.680 --> 00:45:45.640
but it's kind of going back and forth.

668
00:45:47.920 --> 00:45:51.380
So like even right now, just, you know, full transparency,

669
00:45:51.380 --> 00:45:55.120
like we've gotten to like a six figure income at one point,

670
00:45:55.120 --> 00:45:57.880
but now I'm driving Uber just to kind of

671
00:45:57.880 --> 00:46:00.660
make up for some of that income that's gone.

672
00:46:02.180 --> 00:46:05.720
And so I've had, you know, lots of challenges,

673
00:46:06.580 --> 00:46:10.120
whether it be just me personally as a person,

674
00:46:10.120 --> 00:46:14.820
mindset mentally, and just, you know,

675
00:46:14.820 --> 00:46:18.960
my journey, if you will, if that makes sense.

676
00:46:18.960 --> 00:46:23.960
So here's what I get is it's a combination

677
00:46:24.560 --> 00:46:29.560
of I see who you help is a combination

678
00:46:31.340 --> 00:46:36.340
of that combines rejection with I'm not enough.

679
00:46:39.100 --> 00:46:44.100
And so the next phase of this is the three questions.

680
00:46:47.700 --> 00:46:50.700
So the three questions are, who do I help?

681
00:46:51.600 --> 00:46:53.640
How do I help them?

682
00:46:53.640 --> 00:46:55.300
And why should they listen to me?

683
00:46:57.160 --> 00:47:02.160
So it's, I get that it's some form of communication of,

684
00:47:12.560 --> 00:47:16.360
it's something around, you know,

685
00:47:16.360 --> 00:47:20.820
I help people who struggled with their worth

686
00:47:20.820 --> 00:47:22.260
and been rejected.

687
00:47:22.260 --> 00:47:24.820
It's something like that.

688
00:47:24.820 --> 00:47:26.160
It's probably not the exact words,

689
00:47:26.160 --> 00:47:29.140
but I would play with that and I would pray on that.

690
00:47:29.140 --> 00:47:32.420
And I would say, you know, one of my favorite prayers is,

691
00:47:32.420 --> 00:47:35.300
Lord, what more do you have to say about this?

692
00:47:36.500 --> 00:47:40.820
And ask that specific, you know, give him, you know,

693
00:47:40.820 --> 00:47:42.900
we wanna do as much work as we can

694
00:47:42.900 --> 00:47:45.360
and present to him our presented works

695
00:47:45.360 --> 00:47:46.940
so he can bless the work of our hands.

696
00:47:46.940 --> 00:47:49.460
And so I don't just say, Lord, what's my tagline?

697
00:47:49.460 --> 00:47:52.260
I make some guesses, you know, I'm like, is this one?

698
00:47:52.260 --> 00:47:53.100
Is this close?

699
00:47:53.100 --> 00:47:54.300
Is this closer?

700
00:47:54.300 --> 00:47:57.220
And so I get that it's something around

701
00:47:57.220 --> 00:48:00.000
worth being enough and rejection.

702
00:48:01.580 --> 00:48:06.140
And so question one is gonna be in that

703
00:48:06.140 --> 00:48:07.900
I help people who struggle with their worth

704
00:48:07.900 --> 00:48:09.300
and have been rejected.

705
00:48:11.280 --> 00:48:14.260
Question three, we'll skip

706
00:48:14.280 --> 00:48:15.760
because we'll come back to question two.

707
00:48:15.760 --> 00:48:18.880
Question three is why should they listen to me?

708
00:48:18.880 --> 00:48:21.320
Because as a teenager, I was kicked out of my house

709
00:48:21.320 --> 00:48:23.120
and I was rejected and I faced rejected

710
00:48:23.120 --> 00:48:25.660
all throughout my life and struggled with, you know,

711
00:48:25.660 --> 00:48:27.700
my worth, you know,

712
00:48:28.760 --> 00:48:32.720
and with that still became a successful business owner.

713
00:48:32.720 --> 00:48:34.600
That's why they should listen to you.

714
00:48:35.560 --> 00:48:36.760
Do you get that?

715
00:48:36.760 --> 00:48:37.600
Yeah.

716
00:48:37.600 --> 00:48:42.040
Step two, question two is where

717
00:48:42.040 --> 00:48:44.100
we get to be a little creative.

718
00:48:44.840 --> 00:48:49.440
And so step question two is how do I help them?

719
00:48:49.440 --> 00:48:51.880
So we do not help them by recruiting them.

720
00:48:51.880 --> 00:48:54.260
We don't help them by selling them a thing.

721
00:48:54.260 --> 00:48:56.600
We help them with some kind of process

722
00:48:56.600 --> 00:49:00.800
or system or blueprint or, you know,

723
00:49:00.800 --> 00:49:04.540
there's other words, you know, that you could use,

724
00:49:04.540 --> 00:49:07.640
but I always like to encourage people

725
00:49:07.640 --> 00:49:09.920
to have a number there.

726
00:49:09.920 --> 00:49:13.600
So, you know, I help people that struggle with their worth

727
00:49:14.100 --> 00:49:15.340
and have been rejected.

728
00:49:16.260 --> 00:49:18.540
I help them with a four-step process

729
00:49:18.540 --> 00:49:20.780
to cleanse their mind of all the past

730
00:49:20.780 --> 00:49:22.900
and step into their new future.

731
00:49:22.900 --> 00:49:25.140
And then step number three, you know,

732
00:49:26.020 --> 00:49:28.560
you know, after being rejected as a teenager

733
00:49:28.560 --> 00:49:30.000
and having rejection throughout my life

734
00:49:30.000 --> 00:49:32.020
and struggled with worth,

735
00:49:32.020 --> 00:49:33.980
I've now created a successful business.

736
00:49:35.060 --> 00:49:38.060
So that right there, I know it's kind of rough,

737
00:49:38.060 --> 00:49:41.340
but that right there is a successful brand.

738
00:49:41.340 --> 00:49:43.720
That's a brand that people will tune into.

739
00:49:43.720 --> 00:49:48.440
And so, and by the way, when you say,

740
00:49:48.440 --> 00:49:51.480
I help people with a four-step process to, you know,

741
00:49:51.480 --> 00:49:54.160
cleanse their past and walk into a new future,

742
00:49:54.160 --> 00:49:55.000
well, guess what?

743
00:49:55.000 --> 00:49:57.200
They need something to fill that new future.

744
00:49:57.200 --> 00:49:59.340
And so what's that new future?

745
00:49:59.340 --> 00:50:00.640
Could be your opportunity.

746
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.200
opportunity, but it's not mentioned in the branding statements.

747
00:50:05.400 --> 00:50:07.200
Does that make sense?

748
00:50:07.400 --> 00:50:10.760
And so I pray around that, but I don't think we're very far off.

749
00:50:10.960 --> 00:50:12.680
I think I think we're pretty close.

750
00:50:12.880 --> 00:50:15.280
I think it has to do with rejection, not enough worth.

751
00:50:15.480 --> 00:50:19.240
And, you know, you get to it's your playground on number two.

752
00:50:19.440 --> 00:50:21.560
Right. Is it a seven step process?

753
00:50:21.760 --> 00:50:24.200
Is it a four step blueprint? Is it three exercises?

754
00:50:24.400 --> 00:50:26.280
What is it? You know, and so you want it.

755
00:50:26.480 --> 00:50:29.800
You said I've done a lot of self-development to get over this.

756
00:50:30.000 --> 00:50:30.920
Not enough.

757
00:50:31.120 --> 00:50:34.200
OK, so you've been a warrior fighting against this thing.

758
00:50:34.400 --> 00:50:40.000
And so, OK, if you had to boil it down, how did you do it?

759
00:50:40.200 --> 00:50:43.840
And so like, you know, is that seven steps, six steps, five steps, four steps,

760
00:50:44.040 --> 00:50:47.880
you know, whatever, and when you attract people to that brand,

761
00:50:48.080 --> 00:50:50.080
they're going to want to fill a new future.

762
00:50:50.080 --> 00:50:51.960
They're going to want to walk in a new creation.

763
00:50:52.160 --> 00:50:55.560
And that's, you know, by the way, second Corinthians 517.

764
00:50:55.760 --> 00:50:58.640
And so, you know, and you'll be able to say, well, you know,

765
00:50:58.640 --> 00:51:01.160
there's a lot of options out there, but, you know, here's the one I chose.

766
00:51:01.360 --> 00:51:02.400
And here's why.

767
00:51:02.600 --> 00:51:06.600
And they're going to already trust you and they're going to sign up.

768
00:51:08.000 --> 00:51:09.360
Does that help?

769
00:51:09.560 --> 00:51:10.840
Very much so.

770
00:51:11.040 --> 00:51:14.360
And also what this does is it gives you a mantle.

771
00:51:14.560 --> 00:51:16.160
Most people don't have their mantle.

772
00:51:16.360 --> 00:51:19.000
They don't know, you know, what is their anointing?

773
00:51:19.200 --> 00:51:22.520
What is their their who are they actually called to help?

774
00:51:22.720 --> 00:51:26.720
And so they're just they're just throwing content at the wall.

775
00:51:26.720 --> 00:51:27.920
They see this guy do this.

776
00:51:27.920 --> 00:51:30.240
I'll try that, you know, oh, you know,

777
00:51:30.440 --> 00:51:35.040
and so they're just throwing content at the wall and, you know, nothing is growing.

778
00:51:35.040 --> 00:51:37.040
There's no velocity. There's no momentum.

779
00:51:37.240 --> 00:51:39.800
When you're under a mantle, you're like, OK,

780
00:51:40.000 --> 00:51:42.400
is what I'm about to talk about under this mantle.

781
00:51:42.600 --> 00:51:45.280
If not, don't talk about it.

782
00:51:45.480 --> 00:51:48.840
You know, like, you know, what what God showed me was, you know,

783
00:51:48.840 --> 00:51:51.920
I help business owners increase their profits while putting God first.

784
00:51:52.120 --> 00:51:55.160
And and it brings together, you know,

785
00:51:55.320 --> 00:51:57.560
you know, the two things I'm called to help

786
00:51:57.760 --> 00:52:02.840
with business and relationship with God and, you know, and it just excites me.

787
00:52:03.040 --> 00:52:07.200
And so if I if I look at, OK, you know, am I talking about something that isn't

788
00:52:07.400 --> 00:52:10.160
under that if it is I don't need to be doing it?

789
00:52:10.360 --> 00:52:12.080
I need to just walk away from that thing,

790
00:52:12.280 --> 00:52:15.760
whether it'll make money or not, that shouldn't be the the criteria.

791
00:52:15.960 --> 00:52:18.200
Right. OK, thank you.

792
00:52:18.400 --> 00:52:21.680
And and so Heather's asking,

793
00:52:21.880 --> 00:52:24.400
where do we put our brand information on Facebook and our bio?

794
00:52:24.560 --> 00:52:25.400
Yeah, everywhere.

795
00:52:25.600 --> 00:52:30.440
But it's the most important is for you to know, right, for you to walk in that.

796
00:52:30.640 --> 00:52:32.000
And so.

797
00:52:32.200 --> 00:52:37.200
Awesome, great job, Eddie, give give Eddie some love, give him some love.

798
00:52:37.400 --> 00:52:38.560
Awesome, awesome.

799
00:52:38.760 --> 00:52:40.720
All right, let's go.

800
00:52:40.920 --> 00:52:42.240
Hold on.

801
00:52:44.560 --> 00:52:46.280
Jonah.

802
00:52:49.440 --> 00:52:52.640
What's up, what's happening?

803
00:52:52.920 --> 00:52:55.920
You're muted, so, you know.

804
00:52:56.320 --> 00:52:58.040
You're muted.

805
00:53:07.600 --> 00:53:11.880
Good, yes, how are you?

806
00:53:12.080 --> 00:53:15.560
Awesome, man, glad you're here.

807
00:53:15.760 --> 00:53:17.760
Thank you. OK, all right.

808
00:53:17.960 --> 00:53:21.480
Let me pray about you real quick.

809
00:53:52.640 --> 00:53:55.360
Thank you.

810
00:54:52.640 --> 00:54:54.640
All right, so two things.

811
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:04.160
I get that your act you've heard me at this point, you've heard me talk about a little bit.

812
00:55:04.160 --> 00:55:07.440
So I get that the act is I can't do it.

813
00:55:09.440 --> 00:55:15.920
So this would be a very prominent thought of like you want to do something,

814
00:55:15.920 --> 00:55:18.160
but you have this thought of I can't do it.

815
00:55:18.960 --> 00:55:20.320
You ever experienced that?

816
00:55:24.320 --> 00:55:24.880
I'm sure.

817
00:55:25.040 --> 00:55:36.880
There's a second thing that is similar to some that we've heard and the agreement.

818
00:55:36.880 --> 00:55:39.040
And again, the agreement is not something you agree with.

819
00:55:39.040 --> 00:55:41.520
You know, just like the act isn't something you agree with.

820
00:55:41.520 --> 00:55:45.280
It's just it's going to be a prominent pounding, a prominent thought.

821
00:55:46.560 --> 00:55:48.560
The agreement is it won't last.

822
00:55:48.560 --> 00:55:59.200
Now, it won't last usually makes it very difficult in relationships, usually,

823
00:56:00.800 --> 00:56:04.720
because if we're if we're like, you know, you know, walking on eggshells,

824
00:56:04.720 --> 00:56:08.480
I ain't going to last, you know, like they usually kind of creates the problem

825
00:56:08.480 --> 00:56:09.520
we're trying to avoid.

826
00:56:10.240 --> 00:56:15.680
And and so that agreement, you know, that one is something we can we can pray off,

827
00:56:15.680 --> 00:56:16.240
you know, yay.

828
00:56:16.880 --> 00:56:19.680
But the combination of I can't do it, it won't last.

829
00:56:20.560 --> 00:56:28.160
That's a debilitating combo of, you know, so you've probably had big goals

830
00:56:28.160 --> 00:56:31.040
and you just not going for them.

831
00:56:31.600 --> 00:56:32.480
Is that right?

832
00:56:32.480 --> 00:56:33.600
Do you feel like that's accurate?

833
00:56:34.400 --> 00:56:34.900
Yeah.

834
00:56:35.600 --> 00:56:36.100
Yeah.

835
00:56:36.720 --> 00:56:40.400
And so let's we can go ahead and pray off the agreement.

836
00:56:40.400 --> 00:56:42.080
And so, Father, we're so grateful for you, Father.

837
00:56:42.080 --> 00:56:43.360
Thank you for your presence, Father.

838
00:56:43.360 --> 00:56:47.200
Thank you for breaking off the agreement of it won't last from Jonah.

839
00:56:47.200 --> 00:56:50.800
Thank you for breaking that agreement from Jonah right now, Lord, in Jesus name.

840
00:56:50.800 --> 00:56:51.300
Amen.

841
00:56:52.720 --> 00:56:53.220
Okay.

842
00:56:55.680 --> 00:56:59.440
And so just like all the all the rest, right?

843
00:56:59.440 --> 00:57:07.600
You're you will feel the most empowered when you help someone do something

844
00:57:07.600 --> 00:57:08.800
they don't think they can do.

845
00:57:09.520 --> 00:57:11.680
That's when you're going to just be on fire.

846
00:57:11.680 --> 00:57:13.680
You're like, man, man, that felt great.

847
00:57:13.680 --> 00:57:15.440
You know, that felt really good.

848
00:57:15.440 --> 00:57:20.080
And and so, you know, helping.

849
00:57:20.080 --> 00:57:27.520
So you probably have a a real love for, like, the underdog, I would guess.

850
00:57:31.440 --> 00:57:33.120
People that don't think they can do it.

851
00:57:33.120 --> 00:57:33.620
Okay.

852
00:57:34.160 --> 00:57:36.480
And so so, yeah.

853
00:57:36.480 --> 00:57:38.160
So what how can I best help you?

854
00:57:38.160 --> 00:57:39.680
What's your what's your number one question?

855
00:57:42.320 --> 00:57:44.960
I don't have any questions at the moment yet.

856
00:57:44.960 --> 00:57:46.080
I'm just here to listen.

857
00:57:46.640 --> 00:57:47.680
Oh, okay.

858
00:57:47.680 --> 00:57:48.180
All right.

859
00:57:49.680 --> 00:57:54.960
My discouragement would be that whenever you have that thought of, you know, I can't do it.

860
00:57:55.760 --> 00:57:56.480
You know what?

861
00:57:56.480 --> 00:57:57.360
Yes, I can.

862
00:57:58.320 --> 00:57:59.520
And just take over.

863
00:57:59.520 --> 00:58:00.160
Take the wheel.

864
00:58:02.400 --> 00:58:03.120
Right.

865
00:58:03.120 --> 00:58:04.240
And we'll keep listening.

866
00:58:04.240 --> 00:58:06.480
You'll you'll get some more stuff there.

867
00:58:06.480 --> 00:58:07.440
Jonah, everyone.

868
00:58:07.440 --> 00:58:08.080
Awesome.

869
00:58:08.080 --> 00:58:08.640
You got it.

870
00:58:08.640 --> 00:58:09.140
Thank you.

871
00:58:09.700 --> 00:58:11.460
Michelle.

872
00:58:14.580 --> 00:58:15.080
Hello.

873
00:58:15.700 --> 00:58:16.200
Hey.

874
00:58:17.940 --> 00:58:18.740
What's happening?

875
00:58:18.740 --> 00:58:19.300
How are you?

876
00:58:20.260 --> 00:58:22.340
Oh, it's cold here in Minnesota.

877
00:58:23.300 --> 00:58:23.860
Oh, man.

878
00:58:25.060 --> 00:58:27.860
I usually at this point, I tell people what it is down here.

879
00:58:27.860 --> 00:58:28.980
And it's so cruel.

880
00:58:28.980 --> 00:58:29.860
I probably won't do it.

881
00:58:30.660 --> 00:58:31.300
I won't do it.

882
00:58:31.300 --> 00:58:32.260
How's that?

883
00:58:32.260 --> 00:58:33.220
Unless you want me to.

884
00:58:33.220 --> 00:58:33.780
I don't care.

885
00:58:33.780 --> 00:58:36.660
We had it was like 18 below yesterday.

886
00:58:37.140 --> 00:58:37.640
It was what?

887
00:58:38.500 --> 00:58:40.820
Yesterday was 18 below in the morning.

888
00:58:41.780 --> 00:58:43.700
And today it was like 14 below.

889
00:58:44.260 --> 00:58:44.740
Oh, my goodness.

890
00:58:44.740 --> 00:58:46.980
I think it's two above right now.

891
00:58:47.700 --> 00:58:48.580
Holy cow.

892
00:58:48.580 --> 00:58:49.080
Wow.

893
00:58:49.940 --> 00:58:50.440
Got it.

894
00:58:51.620 --> 00:58:52.180
All right.

895
00:58:52.180 --> 00:58:52.680
So.

896
00:58:58.660 --> 00:59:00.580
So with you, I can just get to ask the question.

897
00:59:00.580 --> 00:59:02.580
So what's your number one burning question?

898
00:59:02.740 --> 00:59:07.380
I have been for months struggling on my who, why, and my how.

899
00:59:08.340 --> 00:59:08.840
Okay.

900
00:59:08.840 --> 00:59:17.060
I kind of gave, not gave up, so to speak, but I haven't put barely anything into my business

901
00:59:17.060 --> 00:59:18.580
because I keep hitting that.

902
00:59:18.580 --> 00:59:21.060
And for a while I was like, oh, this is cool.

903
00:59:21.060 --> 00:59:21.620
This is cool.

904
00:59:21.620 --> 00:59:25.700
And then I, I don't know if I think I was listening to something.

905
00:59:25.700 --> 00:59:29.940
It's like, okay, if something, so say I go this road.

906
00:59:30.900 --> 00:59:35.300
So say I go this road or this commercial or advertise, you know, whatever.

907
00:59:36.340 --> 00:59:39.940
I need to stick with that for, you know, six months or whatever.

908
00:59:40.580 --> 00:59:42.580
And then go back and evaluate it.

909
00:59:42.580 --> 00:59:45.860
If it's not working, then I need to look.

910
00:59:45.860 --> 00:59:53.700
So it's, I'm just still everything I, and I used to listen to more because I do audio

911
00:59:53.700 --> 00:59:58.740
books on my way to and from work, but I used to do, you know, try and get as much in.

912
00:59:58.740 --> 00:59:59.940
And some of them.

913
01:00:00.880 --> 01:00:04.440
or a little mix, you know, you should go this way, or you

914
01:00:04.440 --> 01:00:07.040
should go this way. So I'm trying to narrow it down. And

915
01:00:07.040 --> 01:00:11.320
I've really been pulled and drawn to listening to your

916
01:00:11.320 --> 01:00:14.840
podcasts and your books. And so I've been trying to kind of

917
01:00:14.840 --> 01:00:20.640
stick, you know, just on the same line, but I just cannot get

918
01:00:20.760 --> 01:00:21.800
those three.

919
01:00:22.800 --> 01:00:25.640
Okay. All right. Let's all right now. Let me

920
01:00:26.680 --> 01:00:27.320
worry about you.

921
01:02:22.800 --> 01:02:25.440
You got some spiritual stuff going on too. It's made it very

922
01:02:25.440 --> 01:02:32.920
difficult. It's like I'm like trying to chase something. Do

923
01:02:32.920 --> 01:02:34.560
you feel that? Do you know that?

924
01:02:35.360 --> 01:02:38.480
I kind of wondered. I've been wondering.

925
01:02:39.080 --> 01:02:39.600
Yeah.

926
01:02:51.800 --> 01:03:12.600
Okay, took me a sec here. So I get that the act, your act is,

927
01:03:12.680 --> 01:03:21.240
it won't work. And so the person that has, it won't work,

928
01:03:21.560 --> 01:03:28.840
is would probably have a lot of starts, not finishes. And, and

929
01:03:28.840 --> 01:03:34.680
so where you start something, and it sounds good at first, but

930
01:03:34.680 --> 01:03:38.200
there's a, well, I don't think this is going to work. And then

931
01:03:38.200 --> 01:03:42.240
your agreement is it's not working. So it's kind of a

932
01:03:42.280 --> 01:03:49.240
combo. One, two punch there. It won't work. It's not working. So

933
01:03:49.240 --> 01:03:52.560
that would probably have you start and start and not finish a

934
01:03:52.560 --> 01:03:56.280
lot of stuff. Do you feel like is that accurate?

935
01:03:56.680 --> 01:04:01.640
If I was, yeah, if I like, think about it a little bit. I did

936
01:04:01.640 --> 01:04:04.680
realize this morning, and I hadn't thought about it. Um,

937
01:04:05.600 --> 01:04:12.880
that I go back to I don't know if I was in like, probably 1415.

938
01:04:12.880 --> 01:04:16.960
It's I haven't thought about for years, but it's I had gotten

939
01:04:16.960 --> 01:04:24.160
mine, I went out for softball got mono. And then wasn't played

940
01:04:24.160 --> 01:04:27.600
again, wasn't better had to play again. But then it was like, I

941
01:04:27.600 --> 01:04:32.640
realized today that I just quit. I just kind of like, well, you

942
01:04:32.640 --> 01:04:37.000
know, spend this long, I'm not gonna, you know, play anymore.

943
01:04:37.000 --> 01:04:44.080
And then I brought me to I think the following year of playing

944
01:04:44.080 --> 01:04:49.000
softball. And I recall if it's coming to me correctly, I didn't

945
01:04:49.000 --> 01:04:52.720
get to play the position I wanted. So that was kind of

946
01:04:52.720 --> 01:04:58.680
going hand in hand and didn't like finish the year. And then I

947
01:04:58.760 --> 01:04:59.840
my senior year, I

948
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:08.520
barely into volleyball that I had played for how many years, and I didn't like how it was

949
01:05:08.520 --> 01:05:14.520
going, and so then I quit. And I blamed it on, well, they're, you know, all they want

950
01:05:14.520 --> 01:05:19.800
to do is this, this, and this. And so then I kept piling up, and it's, I brought that

951
01:05:19.800 --> 01:05:26.480
into like, different work. You know, in my younger years, I'm thinking, well, I was young,

952
01:05:26.480 --> 01:05:31.200
you know, I quit because I didn't have a, you know, I didn't like the schedule, or I

953
01:05:31.200 --> 01:05:35.240
didn't like who I worked with.

954
01:05:35.240 --> 01:05:44.320
And it, it won't work, and it's not working, can have lots of different meanings. Like,

955
01:05:44.320 --> 01:05:50.800
it's not working for me. It's not working for what I want. It won't work to help me

956
01:05:50.800 --> 01:06:01.880
get that goal I have. Right. So it's, it's, you know, very valuable is the word I think.

957
01:06:01.880 --> 01:06:17.440
And so the, so one, the, the it won't work, is that the act is that will you to be aware

958
01:06:17.440 --> 01:06:24.000
of that. And, you know, and the truth is, I mean, you know, almost anything you do consistently

959
01:06:24.000 --> 01:06:28.920
will work, right? But what are you wanting it to work for? You know, like, what exactly

960
01:06:28.920 --> 01:06:35.600
you so knowing, with, I think one thing that would be very important for you, and for whoever

961
01:06:35.600 --> 01:06:44.680
you help, is to have the end goal in mind. Like, you know, when I'm, if I'm, if I'm talking

962
01:06:44.680 --> 01:06:53.020
to a client, and it's not clear, I may ask, Hey, if we work together, how will we know

963
01:06:53.020 --> 01:07:00.960
if it's successful? And, you know, and they can say, Well, you know, if I double my income,

964
01:07:00.960 --> 01:07:07.440
or if I do this, then that will have been successful. And so with you, whatever you

965
01:07:07.440 --> 01:07:13.600
start, I would I would identify, okay, how will I know if this is successful? How will

966
01:07:13.600 --> 01:07:18.880
I know if this is moving in the right direction, and have benchmarks have, you know, have different

967
01:07:18.880 --> 01:07:28.040
things like have like a plan. And that's going to really help you from falling to the it

968
01:07:28.040 --> 01:07:33.840
won't work scenario. And when you have that thought, which you will continue to have it,

969
01:07:33.840 --> 01:07:39.960
when you have that thought of it won't work, be like, you know what, it is working. That'll

970
01:07:39.960 --> 01:07:45.160
be your your chance to practice that it is working, I am moving toward, you know, my

971
01:07:45.160 --> 01:07:52.520
goal. And, you know, because the problem is, if you don't, if you don't get that, we can

972
01:07:52.520 --> 01:07:56.600
come up with 50 different taglines that aren't going to work to, right, you'll just you'll

973
01:07:56.600 --> 01:08:00.560
just burn through taglines, you know, you'll, you'll hire different branding experts, and

974
01:08:00.560 --> 01:08:05.200
they'll help you with the next tagline. And that won't work either. And so, you know,

975
01:08:05.200 --> 01:08:13.520
it's, it's, this thing is with you. But it's not to conquer us, it's for us, us to tame,

976
01:08:13.520 --> 01:08:19.800
it's for us to take the controls. And, and so that's, that's a primary thing to learn,

977
01:08:19.800 --> 01:08:24.479
then we can get into the specifics of, okay, who do you help? How do you help them? You

978
01:08:24.479 --> 01:08:27.520
know, why should they listen to me kind of thing? Does that make sense?

979
01:08:27.760 --> 01:08:37.680
Yeah, would that kind of pull into like, changing it up? Like, so my job, like, if I'm, because

980
01:08:37.680 --> 01:08:44.000
right now, I've been struggling with it, but it's like, not going the way I would like,

981
01:08:44.000 --> 01:08:50.399
so to speak. And I'm kind of like, trying to tell myself, it's not that it's, I mean,

982
01:08:50.399 --> 01:08:56.160
it's gonna happen anywhere, but I need to change my attitude. And it's maybe it's me

983
01:08:56.160 --> 01:09:03.840
that's not working, you know, the way I would like, why do you know, if it kind of like,

984
01:09:05.680 --> 01:09:08.560
because at first, I was like, Oh, I need a different job. I need to look for a different

985
01:09:08.560 --> 01:09:16.000
job. This is this and this isn't going right at work. But then it kind of hit me that it's

986
01:09:16.640 --> 01:09:23.680
possibly me that you know, the issue and I need to fix me, you know, pray through it or

987
01:09:24.560 --> 01:09:27.840
what have you different thought process different, you know,

988
01:09:30.160 --> 01:09:37.760
pray, yeah, let's, let's first pray off that agreement. So Father, we're so grateful for

989
01:09:37.760 --> 01:09:41.520
you, Father, thank you for your presence. And Father, thank you for breaking off the

990
01:09:41.520 --> 01:09:45.439
agreement of it's not working for Michelle. Thank you for breaking that agreement right

991
01:09:45.680 --> 01:09:48.640
now, Lord, in Jesus name. Amen. Amen.

992
01:09:56.480 --> 01:09:57.920
And and so

993
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:12.080
I, I, a brand to pray around and think about is the starters, not finishers.

994
01:10:14.880 --> 01:10:19.380
I think if you, if you went in, cause we're, you know, what we've dealt with

995
01:10:19.380 --> 01:10:25.200
our whole lives, right, we're, we're, we know we can speak that language.

996
01:10:26.000 --> 01:10:33.480
And, and so, um, you know, I help people who, um, have struggled with, with

997
01:10:34.080 --> 01:10:40.040
starting their plans, goals, and, uh, objectives, but just never quite finish.

998
01:10:40.760 --> 01:10:46.240
That would be very specific and it would really resonate with

999
01:10:46.240 --> 01:10:48.400
people that struggle with that.

1000
01:10:49.280 --> 01:10:53.640
And so I would pray, I would pray around that, but that looks like

1001
01:10:53.840 --> 01:10:59.200
there might be, I suspect there might be stages to it because you're

1002
01:10:59.200 --> 01:11:04.040
getting over this yourself, you know, and, and, but you know, how this

1003
01:11:04.040 --> 01:11:07.800
person thinks, you know, you understand them cause that's, that's been you.

1004
01:11:07.920 --> 01:11:08.240
Right.

1005
01:11:08.280 --> 01:11:12.440
Um, and so I, I, I, there's probably stages to this kind of thing, but

1006
01:11:12.440 --> 01:11:13.880
that's where I would spend some prayer.

1007
01:11:13.880 --> 01:11:16.080
Lord, what, what do you have to add around this?

1008
01:11:16.080 --> 01:11:20.040
What do you have to, uh, what can you help me with around this?

1009
01:11:20.360 --> 01:11:24.320
And, and of course, you know, we'll keep moving you forward and, and,

1010
01:11:24.480 --> 01:11:26.320
you know, helping as we go along.

1011
01:11:27.680 --> 01:11:27.880
Okay.

1012
01:11:27.880 --> 01:11:28.640
Does that help?

1013
01:11:29.120 --> 01:11:29.640
Yes.

1014
01:11:30.200 --> 01:11:30.520
Yeah.

1015
01:11:31.000 --> 01:11:35.600
Gives me, yeah, sort of like something to focus on and think, yeah.

1016
01:11:35.600 --> 01:11:42.400
Streamline right into something versus, oh, I like, you know, this quote.

1017
01:11:42.400 --> 01:11:43.440
So I'm going to post that.

1018
01:11:43.440 --> 01:11:44.360
I like this quote.

1019
01:11:44.360 --> 01:11:46.960
I'm going to, this will help me.

1020
01:11:47.240 --> 01:11:47.760
Yes.

1021
01:11:48.160 --> 01:11:49.480
I can already feel better.

1022
01:11:49.480 --> 01:11:54.440
And I kind of wondered this morning when I remembered that from all those years

1023
01:11:54.440 --> 01:11:59.280
ago, it's like, oh, that, you know, adding up your life and thinking to

1024
01:11:59.280 --> 01:12:03.680
different things, it's like, I did it here and here and here and here it's

1025
01:12:03.680 --> 01:12:09.600
like the pattern reveals the pattern always reveals, so it's, it's always,

1026
01:12:09.640 --> 01:12:14.320
let me look at, you know, it's not what we know, you know, cause you know,

1027
01:12:14.400 --> 01:12:16.080
what we know is like, okay.

1028
01:12:16.400 --> 01:12:22.520
Um, the pattern is real and the, and the pattern shows us what have we been

1029
01:12:22.520 --> 01:12:26.040
thinking consistently and, and how have we been showing up consistently?

1030
01:12:26.040 --> 01:12:32.320
And so, um, I think, you know, I feel like God's favor brought those memories

1031
01:12:32.320 --> 01:12:34.000
up to you for, for this moment.

1032
01:12:34.000 --> 01:12:35.600
So you could have that breakthrough.

1033
01:12:36.040 --> 01:12:44.120
Would there be any, um, like verses to like go and read and, or pray on

1034
01:12:44.120 --> 01:12:49.760
to help like just me personally, not even just the business, but just to help

1035
01:12:49.960 --> 01:12:51.960
me grow and to be better.

1036
01:12:51.960 --> 01:12:55.840
So I'm not constantly thinking, oh, well, I don't want to work here anymore

1037
01:12:55.840 --> 01:12:57.560
because of this, or I don't want to.

1038
01:12:58.320 --> 01:12:58.640
Yeah.

1039
01:12:58.640 --> 01:13:01.920
So I can better myself with that aspect.

1040
01:13:03.240 --> 01:13:03.520
Yeah.

1041
01:13:03.520 --> 01:13:10.360
So, um, so Proverbs 26, um, would be helpful for you to study.

1042
01:13:10.800 --> 01:13:19.280
Um, a very powerful proverb is Proverbs 26, 15 and Proverbs 26, 15, depending

1043
01:13:19.280 --> 01:13:21.120
on what translation you're using.

1044
01:13:21.520 --> 01:13:28.440
Um, you know, the new King James says, um, um, the lazy man buries his hand

1045
01:13:28.440 --> 01:13:32.360
in the bowl, it wearies it, it wearies him to draw it back to his mouth.

1046
01:13:33.800 --> 01:13:34.040
Okay.

1047
01:13:34.040 --> 01:13:34.240
Yeah.

1048
01:13:34.240 --> 01:13:38.280
I was listening to one of your podcasts earlier last week or something that

1049
01:13:38.280 --> 01:13:43.400
resonated with you kind of that's yeah, that's the starter, not the finisher.

1050
01:13:43.440 --> 01:13:48.040
That's that's like they, he, the, they have their hand in the bowl and

1051
01:13:48.040 --> 01:13:52.920
they just kind of Peter out, they don't finish right now, the King James

1052
01:13:52.920 --> 01:13:59.120
version, I believe says, um, Uh, he buries it in his bosom.

1053
01:13:59.400 --> 01:14:04.760
And so when they mentioned bosom, that's more of an, I have this intention in my

1054
01:14:04.760 --> 01:14:06.880
heart, but I never actually execute.

1055
01:14:08.520 --> 01:14:15.240
And, and so, um, but let me, you know, sometimes I'm nudged to do this

1056
01:14:15.240 --> 01:14:16.920
and I I'm not, I should do it with you.

1057
01:14:17.720 --> 01:14:21.960
Um, there is, I don't know if it's, I don't know if it's always, but there,

1058
01:14:22.320 --> 01:14:30.200
there is, um, a, um, Graham cook calls this an inheritance verse.

1059
01:14:30.840 --> 01:14:36.520
So in different seasons of our life, we can have an inheritance verse that

1060
01:14:36.520 --> 01:14:40.400
God is basically God's promise to us that he really wants us to know.

1061
01:14:41.080 --> 01:14:46.400
And so I, I I've had, uh, you know, over the last, you know, since I understood

1062
01:14:46.400 --> 01:14:48.720
this, I've had three different ones.

1063
01:14:48.960 --> 01:14:53.560
And, and so the first one was really rough, really, really rough, man.

1064
01:14:53.560 --> 01:14:54.760
It was a real punch to the face.

1065
01:14:55.120 --> 01:15:00.040
Um, the second one was around protection and the third one is just beautiful.

1066
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.320
It's just amazing. So that's the season I'm in right now is this very wonderful verse. And so let me

1067
01:15:10.080 --> 01:15:12.080
Okay

1068
01:15:22.080 --> 01:15:25.600
Okay, so I don't know this one off top my head I have a rough idea

1069
01:15:25.600 --> 01:15:29.280
I think it has to do with speaking through you but jeremiah 1 9

1070
01:15:30.960 --> 01:15:32.960
I gotta look this one up

1071
01:15:41.680 --> 01:15:46.000
Ah, yeah, this is super cool. Um, and so

1072
01:15:49.520 --> 01:15:53.600
So your inheritance verse at least right now for this season is jeremiah 1 9

1073
01:15:54.160 --> 01:15:58.960
Then the lord reached out his hand and touched my mouth and said to me. I have put my words in your mouth

1074
01:16:00.960 --> 01:16:03.200
So he's going to guide you on what to say

1075
01:16:04.160 --> 01:16:08.560
Is what this what this is saying to me and that's that that's what i'm that's what i'm getting

1076
01:16:09.040 --> 01:16:12.400
and so what I do with my inheritance verse is

1077
01:16:13.040 --> 01:16:14.160
um

1078
01:16:14.160 --> 01:16:20.240
I I play with it like I I looked up every single version of my inheritance verse

1079
01:16:20.640 --> 01:16:24.800
and and they're you know, because like in the hebrew it could be a little different and and the

1080
01:16:25.520 --> 01:16:29.140
I mean, there's so many of them, you know, like I use biblegateway.com

1081
01:16:30.400 --> 01:16:33.440
And you can just hit the down arrow and you can look at all of them

1082
01:16:34.000 --> 01:16:36.000
and you know, and so

1083
01:16:36.640 --> 01:16:38.640
um

1084
01:16:38.800 --> 01:16:40.000
So

1085
01:16:40.000 --> 01:16:42.000
He doesn't want me to share mine. But anyway, so

1086
01:16:42.480 --> 01:16:47.040
Uh, it's just cool. Like I want to know it and so now I do with inheritance verse

1087
01:16:47.120 --> 01:16:49.120
I do say it out loud twice a day

1088
01:16:49.600 --> 01:16:53.120
And so twice a day I say it out loud. I just I just i'm honored by it

1089
01:16:53.280 --> 01:16:59.040
This is a great one for you. He's gonna so he's one he's wanting you to trust and moving forward

1090
01:16:59.440 --> 01:17:02.640
He's gonna he's gonna put words in your mouth. He's gonna speak through you

1091
01:17:03.440 --> 01:17:09.280
That's pretty cool. Okay. I have one other person that i've ever had get that one. Um, which is cool

1092
01:17:10.160 --> 01:17:12.640
So, okay. Awesome. Well, keep us in the loop

1093
01:17:13.360 --> 01:17:15.360
Does he give you the three words for me?

1094
01:17:15.920 --> 01:17:16.800
Okay

1095
01:17:16.800 --> 01:17:18.000
um

1096
01:17:18.000 --> 01:17:20.000
Yeah

1097
01:17:29.040 --> 01:17:31.040
So

1098
01:17:39.280 --> 01:17:44.080
So same as my wife gentle wise and kind

1099
01:17:46.800 --> 01:17:48.800
That's what I got, okay

1100
01:17:51.440 --> 01:17:57.440
Nice do you like that? I do. Yeah. Yeah easy people like it. Cool

1101
01:17:58.400 --> 01:18:05.780
Very good. Awesome. All right. All right. Appreciate you so much. You got it. Let's go to evelyn

1102
01:18:09.440 --> 01:18:10.640
Hi

1103
01:18:10.640 --> 01:18:14.000
Hey, what's happening? I'm thankful to i'm thankful to be here

1104
01:18:14.640 --> 01:18:15.680
Yeah

1105
01:18:15.680 --> 01:18:19.520
Awesome. Hey, I know I know it's a it's a commitment. It's a risk. It's a

1106
01:18:20.160 --> 01:18:21.120
you know

1107
01:18:21.120 --> 01:18:22.480
that uh

1108
01:18:22.480 --> 01:18:24.080
these kind of things

1109
01:18:24.080 --> 01:18:26.080
When you make these investments, they pucker you up

1110
01:18:26.800 --> 01:18:28.560
Yes, it does

1111
01:18:28.560 --> 01:18:30.320
um, well

1112
01:18:30.320 --> 01:18:32.080
I

1113
01:18:32.080 --> 01:18:34.640
I'm struggling with who it is. I'm to serve

1114
01:18:35.280 --> 01:18:36.640
um

1115
01:18:36.640 --> 01:18:38.480
You know having a brand

1116
01:18:38.480 --> 01:18:40.080
my three words

1117
01:18:40.080 --> 01:18:41.040
um

1118
01:18:41.040 --> 01:18:45.760
I've been with this company and i've been buying from them, but I haven't gotten anybody in

1119
01:18:46.400 --> 01:18:48.400
because i'm not really sure on

1120
01:18:49.120 --> 01:18:51.120
who I am supposed to

1121
01:18:51.200 --> 01:18:54.000
you know who my target audience is I I just

1122
01:18:54.880 --> 01:18:57.040
Don't know i've been through a lot of things through my life

1123
01:18:58.240 --> 01:19:04.480
So there's a lot of different things. I think I could probably use as my target audience, but I just don't know

1124
01:19:05.280 --> 01:19:06.880
for sure

1125
01:19:06.880 --> 01:19:08.160
sure

1126
01:19:08.160 --> 01:19:09.120
um

1127
01:19:09.120 --> 01:19:11.120
Okay

1128
01:19:24.640 --> 01:19:26.640
You

1129
01:19:37.280 --> 01:19:43.840
So did you uh, do you resonate when I was talking to ria and eddie about their act

1130
01:19:45.520 --> 01:19:50.640
Yes, yeah, so it's I get that's a same i'm not enough

1131
01:19:51.600 --> 01:19:53.600
Yes

1132
01:19:53.600 --> 01:19:55.600
um

1133
01:21:00.000 --> 01:21:27.400
Very unique.

1134
01:21:27.400 --> 01:21:32.800
So I get, um, act, I'm not enough.

1135
01:21:32.800 --> 01:21:36.080
So that's going to, you know, our, your, your mission is to overcome that.

1136
01:21:36.080 --> 01:21:41.920
Your mission is to tame that, is to recognize it, take the wheel and, and, and you decide

1137
01:21:41.920 --> 01:21:42.920
I am enough.

1138
01:21:42.920 --> 01:21:48.360
I'm a child of God, whatever, whatever empowers you to move past that, whatever that looks

1139
01:21:48.360 --> 01:21:49.360
like.

1140
01:21:49.360 --> 01:22:01.760
The agreement of, and I think someone else had this one to, uh, yeah, Eddie, like you,

1141
01:22:01.760 --> 01:22:07.880
you and Eddie Barry, you had the two things, same, uh, it won't work.

1142
01:22:07.880 --> 01:22:13.200
And so if there's this pervasive thought that it's like, it's not going to work.

1143
01:22:13.200 --> 01:22:15.120
Look, I told you that's how the enemy works.

1144
01:22:15.120 --> 01:22:17.040
It'd be like, look, I told you it wouldn't work.

1145
01:22:17.040 --> 01:22:18.800
See, see how it didn't work.

1146
01:22:18.800 --> 01:22:21.360
I told you, like, do you, does that resonate?

1147
01:22:21.360 --> 01:22:23.360
Yes, it does.

1148
01:22:23.360 --> 01:22:24.360
Yeah.

1149
01:22:24.360 --> 01:22:25.360
Totally.

1150
01:22:25.360 --> 01:22:28.420
Um, and so, you know, that, that we can pray off.

1151
01:22:28.420 --> 01:22:30.120
So let's go ahead and do that.

1152
01:22:30.120 --> 01:22:32.160
And so father was so grateful for you, father.

1153
01:22:32.160 --> 01:22:35.320
Thank you for your presence for the, thank you for breaking off the agreement from Evelyn

1154
01:22:35.320 --> 01:22:36.320
of it won't work.

1155
01:22:36.320 --> 01:22:39.840
Thank you for breaking that agreement right now, Lord, in Jesus name.

1156
01:22:39.840 --> 01:22:40.840
Amen.

1157
01:22:40.840 --> 01:22:41.840
Amen.

1158
01:22:41.840 --> 01:22:48.760
Now you do have, um, and by the way, none of y'all have as many things as I had, you

1159
01:22:49.720 --> 01:22:55.000
know, like I had way worse, way more stuff, uh, just way, way more stuff.

1160
01:22:55.000 --> 01:22:59.520
I mean, entities, all kinds of stuff.

1161
01:22:59.520 --> 01:23:06.480
And, um, and so you do have a side agreement and a side agreements always interesting one

1162
01:23:06.480 --> 01:23:09.600
because, uh, I have to walk you through praying it off.

1163
01:23:09.600 --> 01:23:13.520
I actually can't pray it off you for some reason.

1164
01:23:13.520 --> 01:23:17.040
Um, and, um, I don't know.

1165
01:23:17.040 --> 01:23:18.720
I had three, by the way.

1166
01:23:19.680 --> 01:23:20.680
You have one.

1167
01:23:20.680 --> 01:23:27.220
So again, I got more than most, um, but the side agreement is I can't do it.

1168
01:23:27.220 --> 01:23:31.080
And so there would be this thought of starting something and be like, well, what am I thinking

1169
01:23:31.080 --> 01:23:32.080
here?

1170
01:23:32.080 --> 01:23:34.400
Like the, I can't do this thing, you know?

1171
01:23:34.400 --> 01:23:39.200
Um, and so I remember how to do this.

1172
01:23:39.200 --> 01:23:41.500
Um, okay.

1173
01:23:41.500 --> 01:23:45.320
So I will type it out for you cause you actually have to say this one.

1174
01:23:45.320 --> 01:23:46.320
I can't do it.

1175
01:23:46.320 --> 01:23:47.320
Okay.

1176
01:23:47.320 --> 01:24:15.400
So you would, you would just say this out loud.

1177
01:24:15.400 --> 01:24:19.960
You want me to say it now?

1178
01:24:19.960 --> 01:24:20.960
Sure.

1179
01:24:20.960 --> 01:24:21.960
Yeah.

1180
01:24:21.960 --> 01:24:22.960
Why not?

1181
01:24:22.960 --> 01:24:26.120
Then I can, then I can make sure I can pray and make sure it's gone.

1182
01:24:26.120 --> 01:24:30.840
I break off the agreement of, I can't do it in Jesus name.

1183
01:24:30.840 --> 01:24:34.440
I break this off right now in Jesus name.

1184
01:24:34.440 --> 01:24:35.880
Awesome.

1185
01:24:35.880 --> 01:24:37.360
Okay.

1186
01:24:37.360 --> 01:24:39.840
So we got the agreement off.

1187
01:24:39.840 --> 01:24:41.400
We got the side agreement off.

1188
01:24:41.400 --> 01:24:44.040
Uh, very unique three words.

1189
01:24:44.040 --> 01:24:46.940
I don't know that I've, this is very unique.

1190
01:24:46.940 --> 01:24:56.280
So you're, you're a unique individual, um, at, um, yeah.

1191
01:24:56.280 --> 01:25:00.040
And so I get gentle, brave, and wise.

1192
01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:04.160
Gentle, brave, and wise.

1193
01:25:04.160 --> 01:25:07.720
So you've had to make some tough decisions

1194
01:25:07.720 --> 01:25:11.880
that you stepped into bravery, guaranteed,

1195
01:25:11.880 --> 01:25:14.560
because you just wouldn't have that if that wasn't the case.

1196
01:25:14.560 --> 01:25:17.280
So very cool.

1197
01:25:17.280 --> 01:25:21.680
I came out of an abusive marriage in 2018.

1198
01:25:21.680 --> 01:25:24.360
So that was hard.

1199
01:25:24.360 --> 01:25:29.360
And then having to learn again who I am,

1200
01:25:29.680 --> 01:25:32.160
re-knowing, you know, getting to know who I am.

1201
01:25:32.160 --> 01:25:34.760
And so that was hard.

1202
01:25:34.760 --> 01:25:38.400
And now I'm, for right now, in this season of time,

1203
01:25:38.400 --> 01:25:41.160
I'm working at the Colorado State Penitentiary,

1204
01:25:41.160 --> 01:25:42.560
which is really rough.

1205
01:25:43.800 --> 01:25:47.800
But that's where I'm at for right now.

1206
01:25:47.800 --> 01:25:51.520
And so I want to get this online business going

1207
01:25:51.520 --> 01:25:53.560
so I don't have to continue working

1208
01:25:53.560 --> 01:25:55.200
at that state penitentiary.

1209
01:25:56.000 --> 01:25:56.920
Yeah.

1210
01:25:56.920 --> 01:25:58.320
When I left my husband,

1211
01:25:58.360 --> 01:25:59.880
the reason why I'm working there

1212
01:25:59.880 --> 01:26:01.240
is because when I left my husband,

1213
01:26:01.240 --> 01:26:04.600
he left me with a lot of bills.

1214
01:26:04.600 --> 01:26:09.600
So I am paying a lot of things that he hasn't paid.

1215
01:26:10.120 --> 01:26:14.560
And so I've learned with forgiving him and letting it go

1216
01:26:14.560 --> 01:26:17.040
and letting God take care of him.

1217
01:26:17.040 --> 01:26:20.040
I've dealt with my six kids.

1218
01:26:21.680 --> 01:26:22.840
At first they were upset

1219
01:26:22.840 --> 01:26:24.680
because why did you stay with him so long

1220
01:26:24.680 --> 01:26:26.920
with him being the way he was?

1221
01:26:26.920 --> 01:26:27.760
I was scared.

1222
01:26:28.160 --> 01:26:29.400
I didn't know what to do.

1223
01:26:29.400 --> 01:26:33.080
But I finally, one of my daughters helped me.

1224
01:26:33.080 --> 01:26:35.400
Come on, let's just get out of it.

1225
01:26:35.400 --> 01:26:36.920
And so I did.

1226
01:26:36.920 --> 01:26:38.440
And I moved here to Colorado.

1227
01:26:38.440 --> 01:26:40.280
I was in Oklahoma.

1228
01:26:40.280 --> 01:26:44.680
And now I know God wants me to do this.

1229
01:26:44.680 --> 01:26:46.560
He wants me to help.

1230
01:26:46.560 --> 01:26:51.440
I feel like other women that have been abused also.

1231
01:26:51.440 --> 01:26:52.760
That's right.

1232
01:26:52.760 --> 01:26:53.640
A hundred percent.

1233
01:26:53.640 --> 01:26:54.480
No question.

1234
01:26:55.000 --> 01:26:59.080
I just don't know how to do it.

1235
01:26:59.080 --> 01:27:00.960
I have a mother who's still alive

1236
01:27:00.960 --> 01:27:05.720
and she's the type that keep it hush hush.

1237
01:27:05.720 --> 01:27:07.760
Don't say anything.

1238
01:27:07.760 --> 01:27:09.600
Keep your problems to yourself.

1239
01:27:10.600 --> 01:27:12.040
And my sister-

1240
01:27:12.040 --> 01:27:13.120
Was she abused?

1241
01:27:14.200 --> 01:27:15.800
I don't think so.

1242
01:27:15.800 --> 01:27:17.280
Not that I know of.

1243
01:27:17.280 --> 01:27:20.400
And my sister, she went to college.

1244
01:27:20.400 --> 01:27:22.080
She's got the good job.

1245
01:27:22.080 --> 01:27:24.320
She's got the nice house.

1246
01:27:25.160 --> 01:27:28.200
And me, I left with the clothes on my back.

1247
01:27:28.200 --> 01:27:32.480
So her and I are not really close,

1248
01:27:32.480 --> 01:27:35.600
even though I guess she's in a different season of life.

1249
01:27:35.600 --> 01:27:36.960
I am too.

1250
01:27:36.960 --> 01:27:40.840
So it's just all these things coming at me.

1251
01:27:40.840 --> 01:27:44.280
And that's why it's like I get frozen on what to say.

1252
01:27:45.920 --> 01:27:46.760
Yeah.

1253
01:27:48.600 --> 01:27:49.440
So yeah.

1254
01:27:49.440 --> 01:27:52.280
So no, there was no question.

1255
01:27:53.120 --> 01:27:55.560
No question that you're,

1256
01:27:57.840 --> 01:28:00.840
you know, it's gonna be around.

1257
01:28:04.800 --> 01:28:09.800
I don't think your brand is,

1258
01:28:11.360 --> 01:28:14.240
I help people leave abusive marriages,

1259
01:28:14.240 --> 01:28:17.680
but it is around, I help people,

1260
01:28:17.680 --> 01:28:22.160
I help women who struggle with their self-worth

1261
01:28:24.760 --> 01:28:26.920
take the bold actions they know they need to

1262
01:28:26.920 --> 01:28:28.200
or something like that.

1263
01:28:28.200 --> 01:28:30.240
It's gonna be something like that.

1264
01:28:30.240 --> 01:28:35.240
And so it's speaking boldness, courage, and bravery

1265
01:28:36.280 --> 01:28:40.320
to women that struggle with their self-worth.

1266
01:28:40.320 --> 01:28:42.120
It's gonna be something around that.

1267
01:28:42.120 --> 01:28:43.440
And that's where you're gonna,

1268
01:28:43.440 --> 01:28:44.960
it's gonna be your play land.

1269
01:28:44.960 --> 01:28:46.960
It's gonna be just a blast.

1270
01:28:47.280 --> 01:28:48.560
You're just gonna love it.

1271
01:28:49.960 --> 01:28:52.840
And very obvious, why should they listen to you?

1272
01:28:52.840 --> 01:28:57.360
You know, you're just gonna use what you've done.

1273
01:28:57.360 --> 01:29:02.360
And so that's what I would pray around.

1274
01:29:06.320 --> 01:29:09.400
I would pray around for guidance on what does that look like

1275
01:29:09.400 --> 01:29:12.680
but that's, you're right there.

1276
01:29:12.680 --> 01:29:15.560
I mean, you're really close because,

1277
01:29:15.560 --> 01:29:17.480
and here's the thing, like most people

1278
01:29:17.480 --> 01:29:19.960
that haven't figured out their,

1279
01:29:19.960 --> 01:29:21.520
I call it their mantle, right?

1280
01:29:21.520 --> 01:29:23.280
Like there's just the overriding mantle

1281
01:29:23.280 --> 01:29:25.280
that I fall underneath this,

1282
01:29:25.280 --> 01:29:27.440
I've got God's favor, things are good.

1283
01:29:27.440 --> 01:29:32.360
And by the way, it's 2 Samuel 11, one, I believe.

1284
01:29:32.360 --> 01:29:34.000
And it says at the time of the year

1285
01:29:34.000 --> 01:29:37.960
when Kings went out to battle, David stayed home.

1286
01:29:37.960 --> 01:29:42.040
And so when we walk, when we're outside of our anointing,

1287
01:29:42.040 --> 01:29:45.480
when we're outside of our mantle, bad things happen.

1288
01:29:46.320 --> 01:29:47.120
Because when David stayed home,

1289
01:29:47.120 --> 01:29:48.640
very next verse is Bathsheba,

1290
01:29:48.640 --> 01:29:53.040
he becomes an adulterer, a murderer, falls from grace.

1291
01:29:53.040 --> 01:29:57.200
And so the more we were under that mantle,

1292
01:29:57.200 --> 01:30:00.040
we're under God's favor, we got that.

1293
01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:07.900
blessing. We're feeling great. It's just great. It's when we get distracted, when we go off to the left or right,

1294
01:30:07.900 --> 01:30:14.820
you know, keep my eyes pointed forward. And so I would just, you know, pray around that of, you know, what does

1295
01:30:14.820 --> 01:30:21.580
that, you know, what exactly does that look like? How will I help them? What are some of the steps that I took? What

1296
01:30:21.580 --> 01:30:28.740
gave me the bravery? You should be asking yourself that question. And because it was probably traumatic, you may

1297
01:30:28.740 --> 01:30:36.540
ask, Father, thank you for restoring my memories. You know, like he restored some of my memories from childhood of

1298
01:30:36.540 --> 01:30:44.080
like the worst day of childhood where, you know, I got part of my neck ripped off. And, you know, it was just really,

1299
01:30:44.080 --> 01:30:51.900
really bad. He restored that memory. He pieced it all together of what, of what happened, what what exactly

1300
01:30:51.900 --> 01:31:03.420
happened there? What was the sequence? And, and, and what, what I what character flaws did I develop because of that,

1301
01:31:03.460 --> 01:31:09.660
that weren't actually me. So like, for example, after I was betrayed by that guidance counselor, I actually became a

1302
01:31:09.660 --> 01:31:19.780
thief. I just I just I did it as a mechanism to push people away from me. And, you know, and I just I started stealing

1303
01:31:19.780 --> 01:31:28.180
stuff. And I prayed on that. I'm like, Lord, did I steal stuff before that day? No. So like, that wasn't my identity. But

1304
01:31:28.180 --> 01:31:35.340
because of the hurt, I became something I wasn't. And he restored that that memory to me. And so when you know, when

1305
01:31:35.340 --> 01:31:42.700
there's trauma, our brain will try to block it out and black it out. And so I would I would ask, you know, okay, what did I

1306
01:31:42.700 --> 01:31:51.700
do? What was the sequence of events that that led me to be brave, because that's who you are. And and so that'll, that'll

1307
01:31:51.700 --> 01:31:54.180
really help people it really well.

1308
01:31:55.060 --> 01:32:05.540
Well, I also remembered, my father, he died in 2006. He wasn't a very good father when I was growing up, and I hated him. When I

1309
01:32:05.540 --> 01:32:16.140
became a Christian, God told me you need to forgive your dad. And I told God, I can't. I actually I hate him. And, but if you

1310
01:32:16.140 --> 01:32:30.220
want me to help me, and he did. And I still remember sitting on the couch next to him. And I told him that I loved him. And he

1311
01:32:30.220 --> 01:32:40.060
told me he was sorry for being such a bad father. So I still have that wonderful memory. And then he died in 2006. But at least we

1312
01:32:40.060 --> 01:32:40.740
got to talk.

1313
01:32:41.940 --> 01:32:51.500
So good. And that is the key. You know, it's second Corinthians 12, nine, my grace is sufficient for you for my power is made

1314
01:32:51.500 --> 01:33:01.220
perfect in your weakness. When we recognize we can't do something. And we just ask for help me with this. He does. And and he helped me

1315
01:33:01.220 --> 01:33:11.380
forgive my dad. And when I went up to see my you know, my dad last year at his brother's funeral, he he didn't he didn't say sorry. He said

1316
01:33:11.380 --> 01:33:19.300
it in his own way, in his own kind of awkward way. And he said, he goes, Yeah, you know, you know, to go back, you know, I'd make

1317
01:33:19.300 --> 01:33:20.380
different decisions.

1318
01:33:21.100 --> 01:33:28.620
Yeah, that's the best he got. You know, I mean, I don't hold it against him. Like, that's the best he got. Like, that's the most real thing he

1319
01:33:28.620 --> 01:33:39.460
said to me my entire life. And, and so and I do he moved God moved me from forgiveness, pass that to compassion. Like I, you know, I feel

1320
01:33:39.460 --> 01:33:47.500
for him. He's an undeveloped me, I would be him if I hadn't done all this work. And, you know, and God didn't guide me on all this

1321
01:33:47.500 --> 01:33:58.660
stuff. And and so I can be mad at him. And so very, very powerful. So that that's another that should that's one of your so you're you

1322
01:33:58.660 --> 01:34:06.420
already have two keystone stories, right? So I have different keystone stories. One of them is forgiving my dad. That's definitely a

1323
01:34:06.420 --> 01:34:15.340
keystone story for you. Because a lot of women, when you hold a spirit of offense against someone, it invites other stuff at you.

1324
01:34:15.620 --> 01:34:16.180
Yes,

1325
01:34:16.580 --> 01:34:22.900
just does one of the prayers that I do is do they have any spirits of offense against anyone. And so when we have a spirit of offense, and this is

1326
01:34:22.900 --> 01:34:33.100
from Ephesians 426 27, says, Be angry, but do not send don't let the sun go down in your anger, lest you give the devil a foothold. And, and so

1327
01:34:33.100 --> 01:34:39.860
that foothold is a spirit of offense. I don't know if it's only a foothold, it could be it could be other things too. But I definitely know

1328
01:34:39.860 --> 01:34:47.540
it's spirit of offense is tied in there. And and so when we don't forgive someone because they don't deserve it, and they're not even

1329
01:34:47.540 --> 01:34:56.900
sorry, well, that nowhere in Scripture doesn't say forgive them if they are sorry. Nowhere, nowhere, forgive them if they deserve it. No,

1330
01:34:56.900 --> 01:35:00.060
it doesn't say that. You know, Mark 1125 says, When

1331
01:35:00.000 --> 01:35:03.260
you stand praying, forgive anyone of anything, so your

1332
01:35:03.260 --> 01:35:07.560
Heavenly Father can forgive you. Yeah, definitely. So we actually

1333
01:35:07.560 --> 01:35:11.240
when we aren't forgiving of others, we need to ask for

1334
01:35:11.240 --> 01:35:15.400
forgiveness. How about that? Yeah, because we're not following

1335
01:35:15.400 --> 01:35:19.000
God's rule, right? We're not following his his, his, you

1336
01:35:19.000 --> 01:35:22.040
know, his word, the Word of God, we're not following it when we

1337
01:35:22.040 --> 01:35:25.480
hold resentment and bitterness against anybody, regardless of

1338
01:35:25.480 --> 01:35:27.680
whether they're sorry. And if you only forgive those who are

1339
01:35:27.680 --> 01:35:30.520
sorry to you, what difference is that to you like that? You're

1340
01:35:30.520 --> 01:35:35.600
not that's not Christian, right? And so you already have two

1341
01:35:35.600 --> 01:35:39.240
keystone stories, the abuse of marriage, the forgiving of dad,

1342
01:35:39.440 --> 01:35:44.480
I mean, you're you, I think, in a very short order, I think you

1343
01:35:44.480 --> 01:35:48.400
can see some real velocity with this. Okay. And the fact that

1344
01:35:48.400 --> 01:35:50.920
you're working in penitentiary, I mean, that that's, you know,

1345
01:35:51.160 --> 01:35:52.920
that says something that says,

1346
01:35:53.720 --> 01:35:58.240
that takes bravery takes bravery. Yes. No question. No

1347
01:35:58.240 --> 01:36:01.560
question. Well, I'm excited to watch your evolution, Evelyn.

1348
01:36:02.040 --> 01:36:04.120
Okay, thank you. You got it.

1349
01:36:05.760 --> 01:36:08.960
Beverly. That's my mom's name.

1350
01:36:11.720 --> 01:36:14.080
She's actually here. What's going on?

1351
01:36:15.600 --> 01:36:19.760
Are you here? Thank you. Yeah, thanks for being here. We're

1352
01:36:19.760 --> 01:36:24.960
excited to have you. And so yeah, so what's the number one

1353
01:36:24.960 --> 01:36:25.920
thing you want to ask?

1354
01:36:27.720 --> 01:36:31.400
Oh, man, I just want to go through with these. These

1355
01:36:31.400 --> 01:36:37.040
people have have you pray over me and and I'm stuck on a few

1356
01:36:37.720 --> 01:36:42.720
things. So I'll let you pray first and then we can go from

1357
01:36:42.720 --> 01:36:44.440
there. Right. Okay.

1358
01:37:19.760 --> 01:37:48.160
So no agreements or strongholds or any of that stuff. The act is

1359
01:37:48.200 --> 01:37:51.240
I can't do it. So you've probably resonated with a few

1360
01:37:51.240 --> 01:37:55.280
people I've talked to on here. So there would be when you when

1361
01:37:55.280 --> 01:37:58.440
you would start something, there would be this thought of I can't

1362
01:37:58.440 --> 01:38:03.200
do that. You might even have a why bother? I don't know if you

1363
01:38:03.200 --> 01:38:08.160
ever get that. Why bothers like, absolutely the language of I

1364
01:38:08.160 --> 01:38:12.800
can't do it. And so you know that that's not something we can

1365
01:38:12.840 --> 01:38:15.400
you know, pray off. That's something that you get to tame

1366
01:38:15.400 --> 01:38:21.200
you get to practice your can do it Ness. And and so when you

1367
01:38:21.200 --> 01:38:25.560
have that thought, I can't do it. So you know what? Yes, I

1368
01:38:25.560 --> 01:38:28.880
can. I'm a child of God. I can do all things through Christ who

1369
01:38:28.880 --> 01:38:32.520
strengthens me, right? You can find, you know, scripture that

1370
01:38:32.520 --> 01:38:36.720
backs that up, you can find, you know, with the Lord at my right

1371
01:38:36.720 --> 01:38:42.000
hand, I will not be shaken, you know, like, there's, I have, you

1372
01:38:42.000 --> 01:38:44.040
know, there's just different verses out there that are just

1373
01:38:44.040 --> 01:38:48.040
really, really powerful. And I would, you know, speak to

1374
01:38:48.040 --> 01:38:51.960
myself more than I listened to myself. And so, you know, you

1375
01:38:51.960 --> 01:38:57.840
may have a power set of verses that, you know, that you just,

1376
01:38:57.920 --> 01:39:01.040
you know, go to when you feel that I can't do it, Ness show

1377
01:39:01.040 --> 01:39:03.600
up. Does that make sense?

1378
01:39:04.800 --> 01:39:08.960
Yes, but that and, and I agree with you, it's just that it

1379
01:39:08.960 --> 01:39:12.480
seems to have been since last fall, this has hit me, you know,

1380
01:39:12.480 --> 01:39:16.320
I have a friend, I'm losing a lot of friends and things like

1381
01:39:16.320 --> 01:39:20.320
that. And it's just, I have and the other thing I have is no

1382
01:39:20.320 --> 01:39:25.160
confidence going on social media. But I have a product that

1383
01:39:25.160 --> 01:39:29.000
can help these people, these friends of mine, but they, they

1384
01:39:29.000 --> 01:39:32.040
just don't seem to want to do it. They just almost they give

1385
01:39:32.040 --> 01:39:36.400
up and, and I'm losing, you know, physically, physically.

1386
01:39:37.200 --> 01:39:40.120
I'm a nurse, by the way. So I'm always I'm into health and

1387
01:39:40.120 --> 01:39:44.640
wellness. And, and I found products that gave me my life

1388
01:39:44.640 --> 01:39:47.280
back. And that's what I want to do for others. And so I'm just

1389
01:39:47.280 --> 01:39:50.440
having a little difficulty. I just got blocked.

1390
01:39:53.280 --> 01:39:59.240
Yeah, so big thing with nurses, is

1391
01:40:00.000 --> 01:40:02.000
You've been a nurse a long time?

1392
01:40:02.000 --> 01:40:06.560
I did, but I had to give it up, you know, 25 years ago because of my health.

1393
01:40:06.560 --> 01:40:12.080
And so I got into health and wellness and that's where I've gone is the other vent, right?

1394
01:40:12.080 --> 01:40:27.840
Yeah, because, you know, like as a, as an, so you, at least my experience is nurses have posture around nursing and like they, they, they, they know what to do.

1395
01:40:28.080 --> 01:40:31.520
They're confident, they make decisions, they make it happen.

1396
01:40:31.520 --> 01:40:37.920
And a lot of times that same nurse whose posture gets into network marketing and deer in headlights.

1397
01:40:39.200 --> 01:40:40.000
Does that resonate?

1398
01:40:40.960 --> 01:40:41.440
Yes.

1399
01:40:41.440 --> 01:40:41.680
Yeah.

1400
01:40:42.640 --> 01:40:45.040
But I've been in a network marketing a long time.

1401
01:40:45.040 --> 01:40:48.960
So I'm, I resonate so because I deal with that.

1402
01:40:48.960 --> 01:40:52.080
And when I'm trying to talk to nurses, I get it totally.

1403
01:40:52.880 --> 01:40:53.040
Yeah.

1404
01:40:53.280 --> 01:40:53.520
Right.

1405
01:40:55.280 --> 01:40:56.960
And so, okay.

1406
01:40:56.960 --> 01:40:59.920
So I don't want to deal in too many different things.

1407
01:40:59.920 --> 01:41:07.280
So the, we'll come back around to what is your posture in your, in your business.

1408
01:41:08.560 --> 01:41:12.960
But anytime you have that thought of, I can't do it or anything like that,

1409
01:41:12.960 --> 01:41:17.440
you just speak to yourself more than you listen to yourself, step into power.

1410
01:41:18.640 --> 01:41:22.960
You are confident as a nurse, you can be confident here and feel good too.

1411
01:41:23.760 --> 01:41:30.400
Um, the three words I get for you are all great.

1412
01:41:30.400 --> 01:41:31.520
I mean, they always are, right?

1413
01:41:31.520 --> 01:41:32.480
This is how God sees us.

1414
01:41:33.440 --> 01:41:39.120
Loving, gentle, and wise, loving, gentle, and wise.

1415
01:41:39.120 --> 01:41:43.760
So you are, I'm positive, a great friend.

1416
01:41:43.760 --> 01:41:48.240
I'm sure that there's, you have, you know, people that just really appreciate your friendship.

1417
01:41:48.960 --> 01:41:58.160
And, and sometimes I, I think you may struggle with,

1418
01:41:58.880 --> 01:42:00.960
I want it more for them than they want it.

1419
01:42:02.640 --> 01:42:05.360
Because someone who's loving, gentle, and wise might struggle with that.

1420
01:42:06.160 --> 01:42:08.480
And, you know, like, ah, I just want it for them.

1421
01:42:08.480 --> 01:42:12.160
And so you do have to, so I want you to think about as a nurse,

1422
01:42:13.120 --> 01:42:18.800
you had stubborn patients, I'm sure that you had to, you know,

1423
01:42:19.360 --> 01:42:23.280
you had to speak to them quite frankly, and, and you had to use candor.

1424
01:42:24.000 --> 01:42:28.800
And, and so don't be afraid to have a loving side of that,

1425
01:42:29.680 --> 01:42:34.080
um, with any people that aren't doing the work and complaining.

1426
01:42:36.160 --> 01:42:37.360
Does that make sense?

1427
01:42:37.360 --> 01:42:37.680
Yes.

1428
01:42:37.760 --> 01:42:38.000
Yeah.

1429
01:42:39.440 --> 01:42:45.200
And so, you know, be okay with, you know, there's probably times where you're like,

1430
01:42:45.200 --> 01:42:48.240
Mr. Thompson, for you to get better, you're gonna have to stop smoking.

1431
01:42:48.800 --> 01:42:51.200
You know, they ain't helping you, anybody.

1432
01:42:51.200 --> 01:42:55.040
And, and you, you've had to give, you know, advice that they didn't want to hear.

1433
01:42:56.000 --> 01:42:58.080
But you, you had to be frank with them.

1434
01:42:58.080 --> 01:43:01.120
And, and so don't be afraid to do that.

1435
01:43:01.120 --> 01:43:07.840
So like, you know, I, when I would specifically recruit people, like,

1436
01:43:08.800 --> 01:43:12.000
you know, I want to make sure they have clear expectations.

1437
01:43:12.000 --> 01:43:15.600
I hate unclear expectations.

1438
01:43:15.600 --> 01:43:16.240
I hate it.

1439
01:43:16.240 --> 01:43:17.440
Can't stand it.

1440
01:43:17.440 --> 01:43:24.960
And, and so, you know, if someone asks me, well, how, how quick until I'm making big money?

1441
01:43:26.640 --> 01:43:28.320
I'd say, well, what if it takes five years?

1442
01:43:28.880 --> 01:43:30.400
And they're like, five years?

1443
01:43:30.400 --> 01:43:32.880
I'm like, yeah, what if it takes five years for you to make big money?

1444
01:43:33.600 --> 01:43:36.000
Are you going to make big money in five years if you don't do this?

1445
01:43:36.800 --> 01:43:37.360
Well, no.

1446
01:43:37.920 --> 01:43:38.400
Okay.

1447
01:43:39.360 --> 01:43:40.720
So what if it takes five years?

1448
01:43:40.720 --> 01:43:41.280
You know what I mean?

1449
01:43:41.280 --> 01:43:49.360
So I just would use frankness and candor if I felt like they had any unrealistic expectations.

1450
01:43:49.360 --> 01:43:54.480
And I remember this lady called me, I'm just getting these stories are just popping up for you.

1451
01:43:54.480 --> 01:43:56.320
So I feel like they're going to help.

1452
01:43:56.320 --> 01:44:04.320
This lady calls me and she goes, hey, I want to join your team because my, my last,

1453
01:44:04.320 --> 01:44:09.840
I want to join your team because I'm leaving my company because my current upline sucks.

1454
01:44:11.840 --> 01:44:12.880
That's always a red flag.

1455
01:44:12.880 --> 01:44:13.360
Right.

1456
01:44:14.240 --> 01:44:16.160
And, and so I said, why do they suck?

1457
01:44:17.440 --> 01:44:21.280
You know, I want to know this or else I'm the next guy on the suck list.

1458
01:44:21.280 --> 01:44:23.680
And, and so I said, why do they suck?

1459
01:44:23.680 --> 01:44:26.080
And, and she said, they never call me.

1460
01:44:27.840 --> 01:44:32.320
And I'm like, okay, are you saying that you call them and they never call you back?

1461
01:44:33.280 --> 01:44:34.880
No, they just never call me.

1462
01:44:34.880 --> 01:44:38.880
And I'm like, okay, if they would call you, what would they say?

1463
01:44:41.680 --> 01:44:46.400
And she goes, well, you know, like pump me up and see how I'm doing and check on me and stuff.

1464
01:44:46.400 --> 01:44:47.440
I'm like, okay, got it.

1465
01:44:47.440 --> 01:44:47.840
Got it.

1466
01:44:47.840 --> 01:44:50.640
I'm like, okay, well, I'm not going to call you either.

1467
01:44:51.120 --> 01:44:56.960
Just so you're aware, I'm not going to call you now.

1468
01:44:56.960 --> 01:44:59.840
If you call me, I will always call you back.

1469
01:45:00.000 --> 01:45:02.560
I'll message you, I'll reply to you.

1470
01:45:02.560 --> 01:45:04.960
You ask me a question, I'll always answer it.

1471
01:45:04.960 --> 01:45:09.040
Now, if you go to town, if you go make it rain,

1472
01:45:09.040 --> 01:45:12.360
if you go start getting a bunch of sales, I'll call you.

1473
01:45:12.360 --> 01:45:15.060
That's gonna happen.

1474
01:45:15.060 --> 01:45:17.360
But if you're not, I'm not gonna,

1475
01:45:17.360 --> 01:45:22.280
I'm not going to laden you with this idea

1476
01:45:22.280 --> 01:45:23.960
that you're supposed to call every person

1477
01:45:23.960 --> 01:45:27.400
in your organization because you're not.

1478
01:45:27.400 --> 01:45:29.720
And so if I did that with everyone in my organization,

1479
01:45:29.720 --> 01:45:32.160
one, I wouldn't bring new,

1480
01:45:32.160 --> 01:45:34.000
I wouldn't have time to bring new people in.

1481
01:45:34.000 --> 01:45:36.880
And two, I would give them an unrealistic expectation

1482
01:45:36.880 --> 01:45:39.000
that they can't fulfill either.

1483
01:45:39.000 --> 01:45:41.520
And so I don't call everyone in my organization.

1484
01:45:41.520 --> 01:45:44.560
If they reach out to me, I always reach back out to them.

1485
01:45:44.560 --> 01:45:47.240
And so unfortunately, I'm not gonna call you either.

1486
01:45:48.120 --> 01:45:50.180
And because I helped her understand

1487
01:45:50.180 --> 01:45:52.240
and have a clear expectation, she's like,

1488
01:45:52.240 --> 01:45:54.520
all right, that's fair, well, how do I join?

1489
01:45:56.360 --> 01:45:57.400
Oh, okay.

1490
01:45:57.400 --> 01:46:01.600
Now you can join before you couldn't, I wouldn't let you.

1491
01:46:01.600 --> 01:46:06.600
And so don't be afraid of in a loving way

1492
01:46:08.040 --> 01:46:13.040
to share your realistic expectations with people.

1493
01:46:13.400 --> 01:46:16.700
What kind of work will they need to do?

1494
01:46:17.680 --> 01:46:19.240
Okay, and a lot of times, Ray,

1495
01:46:19.240 --> 01:46:21.720
I'm working at helping them get their health back

1496
01:46:21.720 --> 01:46:24.360
on track first before they,

1497
01:46:24.360 --> 01:46:25.920
and then after then they think,

1498
01:46:25.920 --> 01:46:28.000
oh, I should be helping people too.

1499
01:46:28.000 --> 01:46:32.280
And I wanna get more in prevention than helping,

1500
01:46:32.280 --> 01:46:34.280
because people get so down low,

1501
01:46:34.280 --> 01:46:35.760
then they don't wanna fight.

1502
01:46:35.760 --> 01:46:39.360
And so, yeah, so it's, yeah, and that's,

1503
01:46:39.360 --> 01:46:41.880
and I have a problem with my own confidence

1504
01:46:41.880 --> 01:46:44.320
putting myself on social media.

1505
01:46:45.200 --> 01:46:46.240
It's how I grew up.

1506
01:46:46.240 --> 01:46:48.840
Someone else said there, you were taught not to talk,

1507
01:46:48.840 --> 01:46:52.320
and it's like, nothing goes outside the household.

1508
01:46:52.320 --> 01:46:54.040
Now I grew up in a lovely family,

1509
01:46:54.040 --> 01:46:56.320
but still I had a troublesome brother

1510
01:46:56.320 --> 01:47:01.320
and nothing went outside, but everybody knows.

1511
01:47:01.480 --> 01:47:05.920
So I wanna, let's use our driver

1512
01:47:05.920 --> 01:47:09.120
to get us past a limitation, okay?

1513
01:47:09.120 --> 01:47:13.920
So when, so you are,

1514
01:47:13.920 --> 01:47:16.600
you're going to feel your greatest

1515
01:47:16.600 --> 01:47:18.440
when you're helping someone do something

1516
01:47:18.440 --> 01:47:19.880
they don't think they can do.

1517
01:47:20.800 --> 01:47:22.960
Because if your act is I can't do it,

1518
01:47:22.960 --> 01:47:25.520
then you're gonna naturally be equipped

1519
01:47:25.520 --> 01:47:28.120
to help people that also don't think they can do it.

1520
01:47:29.040 --> 01:47:33.360
And so let's use that drive

1521
01:47:33.360 --> 01:47:35.840
to have you show up bigger on social media.

1522
01:47:35.840 --> 01:47:38.640
So if you wanna go and help more people

1523
01:47:38.640 --> 01:47:40.680
that don't think they can get better,

1524
01:47:40.680 --> 01:47:42.680
that don't think they can be healthier,

1525
01:47:42.680 --> 01:47:44.920
that don't think they can do whatever,

1526
01:47:44.920 --> 01:47:47.720
then you're gonna reach them through social media.

1527
01:47:47.960 --> 01:47:52.040
And you sharing your story is going to help them.

1528
01:47:52.040 --> 01:47:54.040
So you're gonna be able to help people

1529
01:47:54.040 --> 01:47:55.840
that don't think they can do it

1530
01:47:55.840 --> 01:47:57.200
by you getting over the thing

1531
01:47:57.200 --> 01:48:00.320
you don't think you can do it, right?

1532
01:48:00.320 --> 01:48:04.640
And so you going and being more vulnerable on social media,

1533
01:48:04.640 --> 01:48:06.120
you don't gotta talk about your brother,

1534
01:48:06.120 --> 01:48:07.240
because I don't get that your brother

1535
01:48:07.240 --> 01:48:09.920
has to do with your purpose,

1536
01:48:09.920 --> 01:48:13.040
but you going on there and sharing

1537
01:48:13.160 --> 01:48:16.160
in a loving, gentle and wise way,

1538
01:48:16.160 --> 01:48:20.600
how people can get better when they don't think they can.

1539
01:48:22.560 --> 01:48:26.840
Let me help equip you with how to improve your health

1540
01:48:26.840 --> 01:48:28.640
even when you don't think you can.

1541
01:48:30.280 --> 01:48:33.560
That's what I'm getting, use that as a driver.

1542
01:48:33.560 --> 01:48:35.320
Well, if I'm gonna reach more people,

1543
01:48:35.320 --> 01:48:38.600
then I'm gonna have to be bolder on social media,

1544
01:48:38.600 --> 01:48:40.400
bolder about my purpose.

1545
01:48:40.600 --> 01:48:42.560
I'm gonna have to be bolder on social media,

1546
01:48:42.560 --> 01:48:44.000
bolder about what?

1547
01:48:44.000 --> 01:48:45.720
Helping them accomplish something

1548
01:48:45.720 --> 01:48:47.160
they don't think they can do.

1549
01:48:49.600 --> 01:48:50.680
Does that make sense?

1550
01:48:50.680 --> 01:48:51.520
Yes.

1551
01:48:52.520 --> 01:48:57.520
And so I would, just to come back to the three questions,

1552
01:48:58.800 --> 01:49:00.480
who do I help?

1553
01:49:00.480 --> 01:49:01.560
And I think,

1554
01:49:07.920 --> 01:49:10.040
and you're gonna have to be frank too.

1555
01:49:11.000 --> 01:49:14.120
Like if you're telling someone to take your supplements,

1556
01:49:14.120 --> 01:49:15.200
you're gonna have to be like,

1557
01:49:15.200 --> 01:49:19.640
hey, listen, if you don't take them as I'm suggesting,

1558
01:49:19.640 --> 01:49:20.640
it's not gonna work.

1559
01:49:20.640 --> 01:49:22.920
Like just like a nurse, you're gonna have to tell them,

1560
01:49:22.920 --> 01:49:24.480
like don't just take one a week

1561
01:49:24.480 --> 01:49:27.120
and think it's gonna do something, it's not.

1562
01:49:27.120 --> 01:49:30.480
And I know a lot of people they get supplements

1563
01:49:30.480 --> 01:49:32.760
and they take them as they think they should

1564
01:49:32.760 --> 01:49:35.520
versus what you may know better

1565
01:49:35.520 --> 01:49:37.840
or what the bottle even tells them.

1566
01:49:37.840 --> 01:49:39.560
And so be frank with them.

1567
01:49:39.560 --> 01:49:44.560
But what I would look at,

1568
01:49:46.000 --> 01:49:51.000
what have I overcome that I didn't think I could do?

1569
01:49:52.120 --> 01:49:55.760
And that's your answers to part three,

1570
01:49:55.760 --> 01:49:57.660
which is why should they listen to me?

1571
01:49:59.040 --> 01:50:00.600
Because you overcame your own.

1572
01:50:00.000 --> 01:50:01.280
health issues, right?

1573
01:50:01.280 --> 01:50:02.280
Yes.

1574
01:50:02.280 --> 01:50:03.440
But that's perfect.

1575
01:50:03.440 --> 01:50:06.300
I mean, now, you know, careful, you're

1576
01:50:06.300 --> 01:50:08.520
not going to mention the product or the supplement

1577
01:50:08.520 --> 01:50:12.160
or the company in the three questions,

1578
01:50:12.160 --> 01:50:14.600
just not how they work.

1579
01:50:14.600 --> 01:50:20.120
So you want to be careful in a branding bio kind of scenario

1580
01:50:20.120 --> 01:50:23.440
when you're with a health and wellness company.

1581
01:50:23.440 --> 01:50:26.200
We're not saying I beat cancer three times

1582
01:50:26.200 --> 01:50:28.400
and then you're leading them to a supplement,

1583
01:50:28.400 --> 01:50:33.560
can't do that, even if it's real, it's not legal.

1584
01:50:33.560 --> 01:50:38.640
And so you're going to have a, why should they listen to me,

1585
01:50:38.640 --> 01:50:41.280
should be answered.

1586
01:50:41.280 --> 01:50:43.320
I had health challenges that forced me out

1587
01:50:43.320 --> 01:50:46.120
of my nursing career, but I was able to overcome them,

1588
01:50:46.120 --> 01:50:47.800
and now I show others how to do that,

1589
01:50:47.800 --> 01:50:49.920
how to overcome their challenges.

1590
01:50:49.920 --> 01:50:50.920
OK.

1591
01:50:50.920 --> 01:50:53.240
So that probably just off the cuff

1592
01:50:53.240 --> 01:50:57.440
is probably a decent answer to the question number three.

1593
01:50:57.440 --> 01:50:59.760
Question number two is you're probably

1594
01:50:59.760 --> 01:51:03.200
going to have to be a little bit creative and come up with,

1595
01:51:03.200 --> 01:51:07.600
OK, what are four things, three things, seven things, 10

1596
01:51:07.600 --> 01:51:09.520
things, 21 things, whatever.

1597
01:51:09.520 --> 01:51:13.040
What are the things that, if done,

1598
01:51:13.040 --> 01:51:15.200
will help them overcome that health challenge

1599
01:51:15.200 --> 01:51:17.360
that they don't think they can overcome?

1600
01:51:17.360 --> 01:51:20.160
OK.

1601
01:51:20.160 --> 01:51:22.880
And so it doesn't mention the company,

1602
01:51:22.880 --> 01:51:26.640
but it is a series of mindset hacks,

1603
01:51:26.640 --> 01:51:33.120
perhaps some eating suggestions, things around that.

1604
01:51:33.120 --> 01:51:34.080
Does that make sense?

1605
01:51:34.080 --> 01:51:34.720
Yes.

1606
01:51:34.720 --> 01:51:35.600
Thank you very much.

1607
01:51:35.600 --> 01:51:37.680
Does that give you ground to run on?

1608
01:51:37.680 --> 01:51:39.040
Yes, thank you.

1609
01:51:39.040 --> 01:51:39.840
OK.

1610
01:51:39.840 --> 01:51:40.440
Great.

1611
01:51:40.440 --> 01:51:41.440
Awesome.

1612
01:51:41.440 --> 01:51:42.240
Thank you.

1613
01:51:42.240 --> 01:51:43.640
Beverly, everyone.

1614
01:51:43.640 --> 01:51:45.680
Give Beverly some love.

1615
01:51:45.680 --> 01:51:47.280
OK.

1616
01:51:47.280 --> 01:51:48.960
All right.

1617
01:51:48.960 --> 01:51:51.520
Let's go to Alyssa.

1618
01:51:51.520 --> 01:51:54.360
Alyssa in the house.

1619
01:51:54.360 --> 01:51:55.960
Hey, how are you?

1620
01:51:55.960 --> 01:51:57.080
Good, thank you.

1621
01:51:57.080 --> 01:51:57.560
How are you?

1622
01:51:57.560 --> 01:51:58.480
Thanks for staying on.

1623
01:51:58.480 --> 01:52:00.520
I know these can get long.

1624
01:52:00.520 --> 01:52:03.080
We go until we're done.

1625
01:52:03.080 --> 01:52:04.560
That's OK, thank you.

1626
01:52:04.560 --> 01:52:05.360
Yeah.

1627
01:52:05.360 --> 01:52:11.480
So what's the number one thing you want to ask or focus on?

1628
01:52:11.480 --> 01:52:16.040
Well, you helped me last time with my marketing

1629
01:52:16.040 --> 01:52:17.000
and who I spoke to.

1630
01:52:17.000 --> 01:52:19.480
And it's helped a lot.

1631
01:52:19.480 --> 01:52:21.640
So thank you for that.

1632
01:52:21.640 --> 01:52:26.880
But I think the whole three words, the act, agreements,

1633
01:52:26.880 --> 01:52:28.240
I didn't get any of that.

1634
01:52:28.240 --> 01:52:29.800
And so that's kind of what.

1635
01:52:29.800 --> 01:52:32.800
And I'm, by the way, he's teaching me

1636
01:52:32.800 --> 01:52:36.400
stuff all the time, like all the time.

1637
01:52:36.400 --> 01:52:40.000
And so it's interesting because the thing about the act

1638
01:52:40.000 --> 01:52:42.520
is I learned that in 2009.

1639
01:52:42.520 --> 01:52:47.480
It was my first actual breakthrough with myself.

1640
01:52:47.480 --> 01:52:49.640
And I kind of forgot about it.

1641
01:52:49.640 --> 01:52:52.960
And then recently, I was with someone.

1642
01:52:52.960 --> 01:52:56.560
And I got nudged to pray about that for them.

1643
01:52:56.560 --> 01:52:59.000
And I'm like, oh, man, I forgot about that.

1644
01:52:59.000 --> 01:53:00.560
Am I supposed to be praying about that?

1645
01:53:00.560 --> 01:53:03.280
And so sometimes he reminds me of things.

1646
01:53:03.280 --> 01:53:06.200
Sometimes he'll guide me to something new.

1647
01:53:06.200 --> 01:53:08.920
All right, so let me, I just don't want to assume.

1648
01:53:08.920 --> 01:53:10.400
So I'll just go through the list.

1649
01:53:19.640 --> 01:53:20.640
OK.

1650
01:53:45.640 --> 01:53:48.480
Yeah, so you probably resonated with Michelle.

1651
01:53:50.640 --> 01:53:54.480
Do you remember me talking to Michelle about work?

1652
01:53:54.480 --> 01:53:55.760
It won't work.

1653
01:53:55.760 --> 01:53:57.120
Oh, yeah.

1654
01:53:57.120 --> 01:54:00.000
Yeah, all right, all right.

1655
01:54:06.400 --> 01:54:08.720
I prayed with you before, right?

1656
01:54:08.720 --> 01:54:09.640
Yeah.

1657
01:54:09.640 --> 01:54:11.400
OK, all right.

1658
01:54:11.400 --> 01:54:16.240
Because it's got a green light to skip a whole bunch of stuff.

1659
01:54:20.240 --> 01:54:23.000
Oh, man, you're a firecracker, huh?

1660
01:54:27.000 --> 01:54:28.840
Am I right?

1661
01:54:28.840 --> 01:54:29.320
Yeah.

1662
01:54:32.320 --> 01:54:38.280
So yeah, you had the same as my, you had the same as my,

1663
01:54:38.280 --> 01:54:42.920
you had the same as my, yeah, you had the same as my,

1664
01:54:42.920 --> 01:54:46.400
you had the same as my, yeah, you had the same as my,

1665
01:54:47.400 --> 01:54:50.840
so yeah, you had the same as my daughter.

1666
01:54:50.840 --> 01:54:55.040
So you are bold, daring, and brave.

1667
01:54:55.040 --> 01:54:57.080
It's all alpha with you.

1668
01:54:57.080 --> 01:54:59.120
Oh, wow, OK.

1669
01:55:00.000 --> 01:55:03.440
That's same, same with Sabrina. Bold, daring and brave. She

1670
01:55:03.440 --> 01:55:07.740
keeps me on my toes. I remember we were we were at a waterfall

1671
01:55:07.740 --> 01:55:11.120
in Costa Rica. And all these crazy people are jumping off the

1672
01:55:11.120 --> 01:55:14.820
waterfall. It's 33 feet. And she's like, Come on, Dad. I'm

1673
01:55:14.820 --> 01:55:20.280
like, Wait, what? Like no, no one her age. Like no kid is up

1674
01:55:20.280 --> 01:55:24.120
there. It's 33 feet. And she's like, Come on, Dad, you're doing

1675
01:55:24.120 --> 01:55:26.860
it. And I'm like, I'll just take pictures. She goes, Come on,

1676
01:55:26.860 --> 01:55:29.980
Dad. And so you know, she gets me up there. And she's just

1677
01:55:30.060 --> 01:55:34.660
he's a firecracker, man. So you do you keep people on their

1678
01:55:34.660 --> 01:55:43.740
toes is what I get. Okay. Okay. So the act, it won't work. And

1679
01:55:43.740 --> 01:55:47.220
so that's an interesting combination. That's really

1680
01:55:47.220 --> 01:55:55.580
interesting. So I think I wonder if maybe you have this thought

1681
01:55:55.580 --> 01:55:58.460
of, I don't know if this is going to work, but screw it. I'm

1682
01:55:58.460 --> 01:56:03.180
doing it anyway. Kind of. Uh huh. Yeah, that that would make

1683
01:56:03.180 --> 01:56:11.180
sense. That's an interesting guy. And so but

1684
01:56:11.180 --> 01:56:41.060
really interesting. Do you do? But the act eventually wins.

1685
01:56:42.180 --> 01:56:46.180
And so the act, I would imagine that you may struggle with

1686
01:56:46.180 --> 01:56:53.340
finishing. Yeah. So you boldly go after this thing, you go and

1687
01:56:53.340 --> 01:56:57.260
you buy a franchise, or you, you go make this big leap, and

1688
01:56:57.260 --> 01:57:01.260
everyone's like, you're crazy. And and so you go after it, and

1689
01:57:01.260 --> 01:57:04.140
you make that leap that most people would never, ever make.

1690
01:57:04.940 --> 01:57:10.180
But you just don't complete. And you just don't finish it. And

1691
01:57:10.180 --> 01:57:14.220
because eventually, that act just works on us until we're

1692
01:57:14.220 --> 01:57:18.340
like, well, it's it's it won't work. Let me go make another big

1693
01:57:18.340 --> 01:57:22.980
leap. Mm hmm. Does that make sense? Oh, yeah, I have 500

1694
01:57:22.980 --> 01:57:27.700
sports bras sitting in my house right now, because I came up

1695
01:57:27.700 --> 01:57:33.780
with this great plan. Got the inventory. And now I'm having

1696
01:57:33.780 --> 01:57:38.420
trouble selling them. Yeah, yeah, it's not gonna work.

1697
01:57:38.700 --> 01:57:49.940
It's not gonna work. So. So our act is, is, is there for us to

1698
01:57:49.940 --> 01:57:55.900
tame, like, it's for us to take control of and wrench control

1699
01:57:55.900 --> 01:58:02.260
away from. And and so it's, and it's who you know, you're,

1700
01:58:02.260 --> 01:58:09.180
you're called to help people that are, you know, starters,

1701
01:58:09.180 --> 01:58:11.900
not finishers, right? They start stuff, they don't finish.

1702
01:58:12.700 --> 01:58:16.300
You're, you're called to to learn that in in and of

1703
01:58:16.300 --> 01:58:22.860
yourself. And and they're, they're gonna love you. All

1704
01:58:22.860 --> 01:58:27.380
right. Okay, I just because they people that have like, it's

1705
01:58:27.380 --> 01:58:31.100
such a unique combination. Like people that have it won't work

1706
01:58:31.100 --> 01:58:35.340
starters, not finishers. They they need someone to boldly

1707
01:58:35.340 --> 01:58:39.060
tell them about consistency. They need someone to boldly and

1708
01:58:39.100 --> 01:58:43.780
bravely tell them that, you know, hey, when you have this

1709
01:58:43.780 --> 01:58:46.700
thought, you keep after it, like, keep going, keep going,

1710
01:58:46.700 --> 01:58:49.420
you got this, keep going. And that's why, you know, certain

1711
01:58:49.420 --> 01:58:52.940
people resonate with the David Goggins of the world and the,

1712
01:58:54.300 --> 01:58:58.980
you know, the in your face, you know, kind of people, because

1713
01:58:58.980 --> 01:59:01.700
they, they, they, they energetically lack that, and

1714
01:59:01.700 --> 01:59:05.180
they, they need that, you know, they need that, that, that, you

1715
01:59:05.180 --> 01:59:09.780
know, right, they need that boldness, and, and you can, and

1716
01:59:09.780 --> 01:59:34.540
you can deliver it. And, and so, so, so instead of, I think

1717
01:59:34.540 --> 01:59:43.100
the hack for you is, instead of I boldly start this new thing

1718
01:59:43.100 --> 01:59:50.820
and go all in, only to abandon it too soon. It's to stay

1719
01:59:50.820 --> 01:59:55.180
locked in and ask yourself this question, what would be bold

1720
01:59:55.180 --> 02:00:00.060
about this? What's a bold way that I could I could make this

1721
02:00:00.000 --> 02:00:02.800
happen that could get this to work.

1722
02:00:02.800 --> 02:00:09.560
And so what I'll have you do is you boldly leap into something.

1723
02:00:09.560 --> 02:00:12.760
And then instead of boldly leaping into another thing,

1724
02:00:12.760 --> 02:00:16.160
instead boldly leap in the same thing.

1725
02:00:16.160 --> 02:00:22.960
OK, what if one of my buddies, Cesar Rodriguez,

1726
02:00:22.960 --> 02:00:29.920
his deal is 10 times bolder, 10x bolder, be 10x.

1727
02:00:30.680 --> 02:00:32.680
I forget his actual tagline.

1728
02:00:32.680 --> 02:00:37.120
But you could say, OK, I got these sports bras.

1729
02:00:37.120 --> 02:00:38.440
And this is just an example.

1730
02:00:38.440 --> 02:00:40.880
Who knows, is that your end all be all?

1731
02:00:40.880 --> 02:00:41.440
Probably not.

1732
02:00:41.440 --> 02:00:43.160
But maybe, I don't know.

1733
02:00:43.160 --> 02:00:45.920
And so like, OK, instead of what's

1734
02:00:45.920 --> 02:00:49.120
something I can be bold, daring, and brave about today?

1735
02:00:49.120 --> 02:00:52.760
OK, how can I be bolder about this?

1736
02:00:52.760 --> 02:00:54.640
What's a bold decision that would

1737
02:00:54.640 --> 02:00:57.800
move this needle instead of some new needle?

1738
02:01:00.640 --> 02:01:06.160
Because you can just keep bolding it, the same thing,

1739
02:01:06.160 --> 02:01:10.320
and keep it fresh for you, keep it interesting for you.

1740
02:01:10.320 --> 02:01:12.240
I would just keep asking that question.

1741
02:01:12.240 --> 02:01:14.800
In fact, that might be, like I have certain daily questions

1742
02:01:14.800 --> 02:01:17.360
I ask.

1743
02:01:17.360 --> 02:01:22.080
Lord, is there anyone you want me to reach out to or pray about?

1744
02:01:22.080 --> 02:01:24.320
There's just certain daily questions I ask.

1745
02:01:24.320 --> 02:01:28.480
And this might be a good daily question for you.

1746
02:01:28.520 --> 02:01:32.680
How can I be bolder in what I'm doing right now?

1747
02:01:32.680 --> 02:01:34.840
And giving God permission to give you

1748
02:01:34.840 --> 02:01:38.360
a bold idea about what you're doing, not a new idea.

1749
02:01:38.360 --> 02:01:42.400
So you're just boldly jumping in like a kangaroo, right?

1750
02:01:42.400 --> 02:01:45.920
But you're in the same, how do I be bold about this?

1751
02:01:45.920 --> 02:01:47.000
How do we bold about this?

1752
02:01:47.000 --> 02:01:52.440
And if you think about, Jeff Bezos

1753
02:01:52.440 --> 02:01:55.880
is an amazing example of this.

1754
02:01:55.880 --> 02:01:58.080
That's a bold guy.

1755
02:01:58.280 --> 02:02:00.680
I haven't prayed about him, but that's a bold guy

1756
02:02:00.680 --> 02:02:04.160
that he just continuously, I mean,

1757
02:02:04.160 --> 02:02:06.920
they do, I think, like $10 billion a year

1758
02:02:06.920 --> 02:02:08.120
off cloud computing.

1759
02:02:10.560 --> 02:02:16.000
He owns Amazon, but he's been so bold for so long

1760
02:02:16.000 --> 02:02:18.040
in the same thing.

1761
02:02:18.040 --> 02:02:19.080
It's crazy.

1762
02:02:19.080 --> 02:02:22.240
And that's why it's such a dominating force.

1763
02:02:25.200 --> 02:02:27.160
But that's what I get for you, is

1764
02:02:27.200 --> 02:02:29.480
how do we be bold about this thing right here?

1765
02:02:29.480 --> 02:02:31.640
Whatever your focus is.

1766
02:02:31.640 --> 02:02:34.280
And I would look at, maybe you have multiple focuses

1767
02:02:35.200 --> 02:02:36.560
going on right now.

1768
02:02:36.560 --> 02:02:38.320
I would imagine you probably do, right?

1769
02:02:38.320 --> 02:02:39.160
Yeah.

1770
02:02:39.160 --> 02:02:42.400
And so I would just ask, okay, Lord,

1771
02:02:42.400 --> 02:02:44.240
what can I be, what's a bold decision

1772
02:02:44.240 --> 02:02:45.840
I can make about this thing?

1773
02:02:45.840 --> 02:02:48.160
What's a bold decision I can make about this thing?

1774
02:02:48.160 --> 02:02:50.960
What's a bold decision I can make about this thing?

1775
02:02:50.960 --> 02:02:53.040
And another prayer for all of you,

1776
02:02:53.040 --> 02:02:55.160
and this is one I do every single day,

1777
02:02:55.160 --> 02:02:58.520
I spend three minutes every single morning,

1778
02:02:58.520 --> 02:03:02.680
and I just, first I pump myself up,

1779
02:03:02.680 --> 02:03:06.120
because I did, I listened to the Jordan Peterson,

1780
02:03:06.120 --> 02:03:09.400
Tony Robbins thing, and it's like a million hours.

1781
02:03:09.400 --> 02:03:11.880
I don't like long podcasts,

1782
02:03:11.880 --> 02:03:14.240
but there are two really good things

1783
02:03:14.240 --> 02:03:16.320
that I got out of that podcast.

1784
02:03:16.320 --> 02:03:21.320
And one, that when you're in an excited physical state,

1785
02:03:22.320 --> 02:03:25.640
change lasts longer.

1786
02:03:27.240 --> 02:03:28.920
That's an important thing.

1787
02:03:28.920 --> 02:03:31.200
And so what I had been doing

1788
02:03:31.200 --> 02:03:34.560
is I'd been doing this three minute exercise every morning,

1789
02:03:34.560 --> 02:03:38.080
where I, at first I just visualize

1790
02:03:38.080 --> 02:03:39.640
things in my business happening

1791
02:03:39.640 --> 02:03:41.520
and things in my life happening.

1792
02:03:41.520 --> 02:03:43.320
And then I kind of got turned on

1793
02:03:43.320 --> 02:03:47.120
to just thanking God for his favor in those things.

1794
02:03:47.120 --> 02:03:49.080
And so I would sit there and be like,

1795
02:03:49.080 --> 02:03:51.720
thank you, God, for favor with my rank makers.

1796
02:03:51.720 --> 02:03:52.880
Thank you, God, for favor

1797
02:03:52.880 --> 02:03:54.280
with sales and marketing mentorship,

1798
02:03:54.280 --> 02:03:55.680
for faith and finance mastermind,

1799
02:03:55.680 --> 02:03:59.520
for, you know, and I have different affiliate agreements

1800
02:03:59.520 --> 02:04:00.400
and different things.

1801
02:04:00.400 --> 02:04:01.880
And so I would just go through,

1802
02:04:01.880 --> 02:04:03.920
thank you for favor with my parenting,

1803
02:04:03.920 --> 02:04:06.120
thank you for favor with my kids and my wife,

1804
02:04:06.120 --> 02:04:08.800
thank you for favor in my neighborhood in Naples, Florida,

1805
02:04:08.800 --> 02:04:09.880
thank you for my favorite.

1806
02:04:09.880 --> 02:04:14.120
And so I just go through as many as I can come up with

1807
02:04:14.120 --> 02:04:16.200
during three minutes, I set a timer,

1808
02:04:16.200 --> 02:04:17.920
and then timer dings, I'm done.

1809
02:04:18.800 --> 02:04:22.160
Now, I get in a physical excited state,

1810
02:04:22.160 --> 02:04:24.600
so I do this kind of thing and I just,

1811
02:04:24.600 --> 02:04:26.320
you know, and then I get into it.

1812
02:04:26.320 --> 02:04:28.720
That's another thing that I would suggest all of you do,

1813
02:04:28.720 --> 02:04:32.080
is, you know, just thank God that his favor goes before you

1814
02:04:32.080 --> 02:04:34.880
in all of these different areas of your life.

1815
02:04:34.880 --> 02:04:37.520
And I've seen it happen.

1816
02:04:37.520 --> 02:04:40.760
You know, like I'm supposed to, it's interesting.

1817
02:04:40.760 --> 02:04:42.480
I'm supposed to, well, I'm not supposed to,

1818
02:04:42.480 --> 02:04:45.040
I'm speaking at an event next month

1819
02:04:45.960 --> 02:04:48.600
for Graham Cook and Dion,

1820
02:04:48.600 --> 02:04:51.600
and they're actually at a studio

1821
02:04:51.600 --> 02:04:54.800
that I haven't been to in quite a few years.

1822
02:04:54.800 --> 02:04:57.480
And so I just, you know, I'm like, you know,

1823
02:04:57.480 --> 02:04:59.400
God, thank you for your favor that goes before me

1824
02:04:59.400 --> 02:05:00.240
in this, for this.

1825
02:05:00.000 --> 02:05:04.880
event, the people who run the studio, who never reach out to

1826
02:05:04.880 --> 02:05:08.680
me ever, reach out to me yesterday and said, Hey, you

1827
02:05:08.680 --> 02:05:11.880
know, we're just we're at this, the audio is we're at this loud

1828
02:05:11.880 --> 02:05:15.160
ass bar, and we were thinking about you. And, you know, and

1829
02:05:15.160 --> 02:05:17.520
we're, you know, just just thinking about you, we hope

1830
02:05:17.520 --> 02:05:20.640
you're doing well, we never get to talk to you. And, you know,

1831
02:05:20.640 --> 02:05:25.920
God bless you. And, and they don't know I'm speaking there.

1832
02:05:25.920 --> 02:05:28.160
They don't know I'm about I'm gonna see them next month. But

1833
02:05:28.160 --> 02:05:31.480
God's favor went before me and had them think of me. Pretty

1834
02:05:31.480 --> 02:05:35.400
cool. And so I see that, you know, I'll see where I'll go

1835
02:05:35.400 --> 02:05:38.600
somewhere and someone will, you know, you'll say something to me

1836
02:05:38.600 --> 02:05:42.280
or someone will give me a gift or something. And it's just

1837
02:05:42.280 --> 02:05:44.840
like, just God's favor showing up all over the place and God's

1838
02:05:44.840 --> 02:05:48.840
favor showing up, not because of my performance, but because all

1839
02:05:48.840 --> 02:05:52.480
of heaven, all of heaven's goodness is attracted to me

1840
02:05:52.480 --> 02:05:56.080
because of Christ in me. And I'm just I'm just thanking him for

1841
02:05:56.080 --> 02:06:02.160
that for that favor. And and so helpful. Yes. Yeah.

1842
02:06:02.240 --> 02:06:05.520
Incredibly. Thank you. As for bold statements in that

1843
02:06:05.520 --> 02:06:11.280
vertical, right? Not horizontal, vertical, right? Thank you for

1844
02:06:11.280 --> 02:06:14.680
new bold ideas around this vertical. And you'll you'll

1845
02:06:14.680 --> 02:06:20.480
just it'll be more exciting for you. Okay. Cool. Cool. Thank you

1846
02:06:20.480 --> 02:06:24.520
so much. Yay. That was great. That was fun. Kim, what's

1847
02:06:24.520 --> 02:06:32.840
happening? Hey, I'm excited to catch you live. Right? It's

1848
02:06:32.840 --> 02:06:36.080
crazy, but I'm excited to finally be able to be on here

1849
02:06:36.080 --> 02:06:38.800
with you. And we've been watching the replays and keeping

1850
02:06:38.800 --> 02:06:44.920
up but Oh, wow. It's good to be cool. So yeah. Anyway, pages and

1851
02:06:44.920 --> 02:06:47.720
pages of notes already and just thank you for the session. It's

1852
02:06:47.720 --> 02:06:51.960
been fantastic. I'm still working. So I'm still working on

1853
02:06:51.960 --> 02:06:56.720
honing in. Like everybody else, the niche who's who I'm really

1854
02:06:56.720 --> 02:07:00.520
speaking with, I really believe I've got the direction. Honing

1855
02:07:00.520 --> 02:07:05.520
it in is what I'm doing now. But I wanted to see if you have any

1856
02:07:05.520 --> 02:07:09.360
guidance as far as my act, the mantle I ought to be working

1857
02:07:09.360 --> 02:07:12.960
under. And if you've got an inheritance verse for this

1858
02:07:12.960 --> 02:07:13.520
season.

1859
02:08:21.960 --> 02:08:48.520
Hmm, I've never gotten this one. Wow.

1860
02:09:21.960 --> 02:09:32.480
Okay. All right. So never gotten this one. Pretty rare to

1861
02:09:32.480 --> 02:09:39.840
get one I've never had. But in this, I can imagine some of

1862
02:09:39.840 --> 02:09:44.240
this work may come from possibly, but the act that I get

1863
02:09:44.240 --> 02:09:53.080
is I'll be stopped. So were you at, I think you were, you were

1864
02:09:53.080 --> 02:09:58.600
at faith over fear. Have you ever heard Jess talk about

1865
02:09:58.600 --> 02:09:59.400
permission?

1866
02:10:00.000 --> 02:10:00.500
Yes.

1867
02:10:01.080 --> 02:10:02.280
Did that resonate with you?

1868
02:10:02.640 --> 02:10:03.480
It sure did.

1869
02:10:03.680 --> 02:10:04.180
Yeah.

1870
02:10:05.040 --> 02:10:11.520
Because what I, what I get is there may have been some time in your life where you

1871
02:10:11.520 --> 02:10:15.640
were feeling good about something and going after something, but you were stopped.

1872
02:10:16.080 --> 02:10:24.160
Like you were parents canceled practice or you were, you know, whatever you were

1873
02:10:24.160 --> 02:10:28.200
starting something you were excited about, but they said, no, you can't do that.

1874
02:10:28.880 --> 02:10:33.680
And I don't know if, I don't know, but it's a permission thing.

1875
02:10:34.160 --> 02:10:39.240
It's a, do, do I have permission to play as, as big as I want?

1876
02:10:39.240 --> 02:10:40.640
Well, I I'll be stopped.

1877
02:10:41.440 --> 02:10:42.440
You know, they're going to stop me.

1878
02:10:42.480 --> 02:10:43.480
Someone's going to stop me.

1879
02:10:44.240 --> 02:10:50.120
And, um, you know, so I don't know the exact origin of it, but that's, that's what I get.

1880
02:10:50.720 --> 02:10:51.220
Okay.

1881
02:10:53.080 --> 02:10:56.920
I can see that it's deeper than somebody just saying you can't do it.

1882
02:10:57.520 --> 02:10:58.020
Right.

1883
02:10:58.060 --> 02:11:04.860
So someone will stop me, you know, like compliance will stop me or the

1884
02:11:04.860 --> 02:11:09.340
authorities or someone's going to say, Hey, you can't do that.

1885
02:11:09.380 --> 02:11:12.140
You know, like that's, that's what I get.

1886
02:11:12.180 --> 02:11:23.180
And so, um, so it's a permission thing of, you know, you want, you know, um, so

1887
02:11:23.180 --> 02:11:27.700
probably the counter to that would be, uh, I have permission to play as big as I want.

1888
02:11:28.940 --> 02:11:29.440
Okay.

1889
02:11:29.460 --> 02:11:32.380
God, God gives me permission to play as big as I want.

1890
02:11:33.860 --> 02:11:36.060
That's probably the overcomer of that.

1891
02:11:36.620 --> 02:11:37.140
Um,

1892
02:11:41.900 --> 02:11:42.180
okay.

1893
02:11:42.220 --> 02:11:44.020
And you said inheritance first.

1894
02:11:48.460 --> 02:11:49.540
That's really good though.

1895
02:11:49.580 --> 02:11:50.460
I can see that.

1896
02:11:51.620 --> 02:11:57.300
So we can't get rid of it by it's just to recognize it and say, Hey,

1897
02:11:57.620 --> 02:12:00.860
now, you know, you're, you're not serving me in this example.

1898
02:12:01.340 --> 02:12:02.220
I'm going to play big.

1899
02:12:02.820 --> 02:12:06.820
I'm going to go after it because there might be a timidity.

1900
02:12:07.460 --> 02:12:12.060
You might have like a big idea and then think, uh, I don't know if I can do the,

1901
02:12:12.100 --> 02:12:15.380
you know, and so like you, you don't be like, you know what, I can do it.

1902
02:12:15.820 --> 02:12:16.620
Let's go.

1903
02:12:17.180 --> 02:12:17.500
Right.

1904
02:12:17.500 --> 02:12:20.620
So more, more boldness moving forward.

1905
02:12:21.300 --> 02:12:21.800
Okay.

1906
02:12:27.300 --> 02:12:27.800
Okay.

1907
02:12:42.740 --> 02:12:50.060
Um, inheritance, I get, um, it's working on your, it's working on your thoughts.

1908
02:12:50.180 --> 02:12:55.220
Um, and it's, uh, it's second Corinthians 10, five.

1909
02:12:55.820 --> 02:12:56.620
That's what I got.

1910
02:12:58.140 --> 02:13:06.060
Is that, you know, to, and I, and I bet they're, you know, related of this is

1911
02:13:06.060 --> 02:13:11.300
your key, this, what I get is this is your key of, so second Corinthians 10,

1912
02:13:11.300 --> 02:13:15.100
five, you may know is, uh, take captive every thought, make it obedient to Christ.

1913
02:13:15.940 --> 02:13:24.540
And so, um, you know, for, for you to, um, and, and this, by the way, isn't,

1914
02:13:24.780 --> 02:13:33.820
I gotta be careful to not put this as something we do, even though that, that

1915
02:13:33.860 --> 02:13:42.100
versus very much, um, it's more like, I really see our duty and this kind of

1916
02:13:42.100 --> 02:13:46.180
context is awareness and that God's prompt.

1917
02:13:46.180 --> 02:13:48.660
So an inheritance versus like God's promise.

1918
02:13:49.100 --> 02:13:54.500
So what I get from this is God's going to help you take captive those thoughts.

1919
02:13:54.660 --> 02:13:54.980
Right.

1920
02:13:54.980 --> 02:13:57.100
So one of the fruit of the spirit is self-control.

1921
02:13:57.860 --> 02:14:00.060
It's kind of a weird one, you know, like joy.

1922
02:14:00.060 --> 02:14:00.420
Okay.

1923
02:14:00.420 --> 02:14:00.980
That makes sense.

1924
02:14:00.980 --> 02:14:01.500
Peace.

1925
02:14:01.500 --> 02:14:07.220
And you know, all that self-control like, well, what I get from this is, uh, God's

1926
02:14:07.220 --> 02:14:12.420
going to help you with the self-control to tame those thoughts, to help those

1927
02:14:12.420 --> 02:14:15.860
thoughts and, and I, and, and you.

1928
02:14:16.380 --> 02:14:23.740
The I'll be stopped the timidity around that, giving you permission to play

1929
02:14:23.780 --> 02:14:26.180
bolder and he's, he's going to help you with that.

1930
02:14:26.660 --> 02:14:27.380
That's what I get.

1931
02:14:28.380 --> 02:14:29.420
That's all very good.

1932
02:14:29.460 --> 02:14:30.100
Thank you.

1933
02:14:30.620 --> 02:14:31.060
Yeah.

1934
02:14:31.460 --> 02:14:35.500
Well, so mantle to work under.

1935
02:14:36.100 --> 02:14:38.060
So, um,

1936
02:14:38.620 --> 02:14:41.180
I, I mean, the word, the word I get is potential.

1937
02:14:41.220 --> 02:14:49.980
The word I get is helping people that, um, have a lot of fear in their heart.

1938
02:14:49.980 --> 02:14:59.740
Like, you know, I had, I had a friend who had a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a,

1939
02:14:59.740 --> 02:15:06.780
a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a.

1940
02:15:00.000 --> 02:15:10.000
That know, not think, but know that they're not operating out of their potential.

1941
02:15:10.000 --> 02:15:15.400
And helping them to helping them to play bigger, helping them to be bolder.

1942
02:15:15.400 --> 02:15:18.400
And in doing so, that's also going to help you.

1943
02:15:18.400 --> 02:15:19.400
Right?

1944
02:15:19.400 --> 02:15:25.720
Because I think there's, I believe there's a piece of you that knows that you're, you're

1945
02:15:25.720 --> 02:15:32.400
under your potential and, and that you, you, you, you're, you're going, you're going into

1946
02:15:32.400 --> 02:15:39.280
a bigger level and, and you're to help people with that, help people that, you know, I so

1947
02:15:39.280 --> 02:15:54.120
this is interesting.

1948
02:15:54.120 --> 02:16:01.240
So I'll try one out for you, but always pray on these things because a lot of time, what

1949
02:16:01.240 --> 02:16:09.880
I found is a lot of times I'll, I'll get something that isn't the thing, but leads me to the

1950
02:16:09.880 --> 02:16:10.880
thing.

1951
02:16:10.880 --> 02:16:11.880
Right.

1952
02:16:11.880 --> 02:16:15.200
And, and so like, you know, don't always like, Oh, you should, you know, like, cause there's

1953
02:16:15.200 --> 02:16:18.800
been things that I thought like, Oh, that's a good idea, but it actually led me to the

1954
02:16:18.800 --> 02:16:20.600
better idea.

1955
02:16:20.600 --> 02:16:45.639
And so I got, I help people accept this is again, I'm just wanting to, I help people

1956
02:16:45.639 --> 02:16:54.280
accept, accept, I help people accept God's permission to play bigger.

1957
02:16:54.280 --> 02:17:00.280
I think there's somewhere around in there, there's something in there.

1958
02:17:00.280 --> 02:17:01.480
I'll pray around that.

1959
02:17:01.480 --> 02:17:04.480
See what, see what other ideas come up for you around that.

1960
02:17:04.480 --> 02:17:05.480
Okay.

1961
02:17:05.480 --> 02:17:06.480
I'll do that.

1962
02:17:06.480 --> 02:17:13.400
And, and, and I bet when you're training that when you're speaking to play in bigger, that

1963
02:17:13.400 --> 02:17:15.200
really resonates with you.

1964
02:17:15.760 --> 02:17:16.760
Definitely.

1965
02:17:16.760 --> 02:17:17.760
Yep.

1966
02:17:17.760 --> 02:17:18.760
Yeah.

1967
02:17:18.760 --> 02:17:23.160
Growing into the person that you need to be, to be able to step out into your purpose.

1968
02:17:23.160 --> 02:17:24.160
Yeah.

1969
02:17:24.160 --> 02:17:29.120
Cause we'll always, this is the way God equip it will always feel best when we're walking

1970
02:17:29.120 --> 02:17:33.559
in our anointing and you're, you're anointed at that you're anointed at helping people

1971
02:17:33.559 --> 02:17:41.000
play bigger and, and, and it is a permission thing like receiving, he had me say, accepting

1972
02:17:41.000 --> 02:17:46.920
not receiving, but except I guess accepting does make sense, accepting.

1973
02:17:46.920 --> 02:17:53.120
I help people accept the permission that they are meant to play bigger, something like that.

1974
02:17:53.120 --> 02:18:00.080
I see permission, bigger, bolder, underlying tone of potential.

1975
02:18:00.080 --> 02:18:01.080
Okay.

1976
02:18:01.080 --> 02:18:08.760
So in a way that I'm sorry, go ahead.

1977
02:18:08.760 --> 02:18:09.760
Okay.

1978
02:18:09.840 --> 02:18:13.760
And you, you probably already have a number two.

1979
02:18:13.760 --> 02:18:21.480
So if you were tasked with what are the four, six, seven, 10 steps for someone to accept

1980
02:18:21.480 --> 02:18:24.000
permission to play bolder, what would it look like?

1981
02:18:24.000 --> 02:18:26.320
You probably already have that.

1982
02:18:26.320 --> 02:18:28.160
Yeah.

1983
02:18:28.160 --> 02:18:31.360
And so why would they listen to you?

1984
02:18:31.360 --> 02:18:39.559
It's that you went and did things successfully that you didn't have permission to do.

1985
02:18:40.360 --> 02:18:47.200
Or you weren't sure if you had permission to do that's, I think, I think that'll give

1986
02:18:47.200 --> 02:18:48.959
you some, some groundwork.

1987
02:18:48.959 --> 02:18:52.920
Yes, it does quite a bit actually.

1988
02:18:52.920 --> 02:18:55.040
Okay.

1989
02:18:55.040 --> 02:18:59.639
Because I've, I've also felt that I was pretty much two things.

1990
02:18:59.639 --> 02:19:03.700
I feel that I've been wired to be an equipper all my life.

1991
02:19:03.700 --> 02:19:09.440
So that, I mean, that's, I've equipped people for the tasks that God had in front of them.

1992
02:19:10.320 --> 02:19:14.120
So, you know, there was our kids or professionally, that was what I did as a career prior to,

1993
02:19:14.120 --> 02:19:16.400
you know, when I was home.

1994
02:19:16.400 --> 02:19:22.320
But then the other part is I feel I'm being called something to do with helping women

1995
02:19:22.320 --> 02:19:24.639
when life's transitions happen.

1996
02:19:24.639 --> 02:19:29.959
A lot of times, even the good things, you know, like a transition of, I homeschooled

1997
02:19:29.959 --> 02:19:32.760
our kids cradle to college.

1998
02:19:32.760 --> 02:19:37.719
And so once that job was over, I've faced the transition of you, you've worked yourself

1999
02:19:37.719 --> 02:19:38.719
out of a job.

2000
02:19:38.719 --> 02:19:43.360
What's next in your life, you need to have a place that has impact, you know, that you've

2001
02:19:43.360 --> 02:19:50.320
got meaning and you know, that you're going to do something that make, that means something.

2002
02:19:50.320 --> 02:19:55.720
People have all kinds of different things that happen in their lives that are transitional.

2003
02:19:55.720 --> 02:19:57.320
So I don't know.

2004
02:19:57.320 --> 02:19:59.960
This kind of dovetails in with that whole thing of being able.

2005
02:20:00.000 --> 02:20:02.000
a play bigger into your next season.

2006
02:20:03.220 --> 02:20:08.760
Who do you need to become to be able to step out into that next level of, of what

2007
02:20:08.760 --> 02:20:10.740
God's calling you to do and to serve.

2008
02:20:10.740 --> 02:20:11.100
Yeah.

2009
02:20:11.880 --> 02:20:16.280
Do you feel like, like, cause normally I don't, I won't get God in the, in the

2010
02:20:16.280 --> 02:20:20.640
tagline, but with you, I did, are you feeling called to be more faith forward?

2011
02:20:21.960 --> 02:20:22.640
I am.

2012
02:20:22.740 --> 02:20:24.560
And I didn't know if that, yeah.

2013
02:20:25.460 --> 02:20:30.080
Cause he, normally he won't, I won't get a, use his name in the

2014
02:20:30.140 --> 02:20:31.540
tagline, but with you, I did.

2015
02:20:32.020 --> 02:20:38.020
Um, so like, you know, some scripture that'll help too, is, um, you know,

2016
02:20:38.020 --> 02:20:42.580
second Corinthians five 17, you know, the oldest passed away, the, you're a new

2017
02:20:42.580 --> 02:20:48.560
creation, so new creation and several of the Psalms say, sing a new song.

2018
02:20:49.060 --> 02:20:49.340
Yep.

2019
02:20:49.460 --> 02:20:53.820
So that, that indicates new seasons and, you know, so sing a new song, new

2020
02:20:53.840 --> 02:20:55.520
creation, both of those would be good.

2021
02:20:56.600 --> 02:21:00.360
But if you go, if you go that route, which I think you are, um, that'd be good.

2022
02:21:00.800 --> 02:21:01.680
You know, good to use.

2023
02:21:02.340 --> 02:21:02.640
Okay.

2024
02:21:02.680 --> 02:21:05.080
Those are good things to use that, that newness.

2025
02:21:05.160 --> 02:21:05.640
What's that?

2026
02:21:05.680 --> 02:21:06.060
Okay.

2027
02:21:06.120 --> 02:21:07.000
That's excellent.

2028
02:21:07.080 --> 02:21:11.240
Um, as far as the tagline, did you, was there something specific that was shared?

2029
02:21:11.840 --> 02:21:15.800
Yeah, I'm not saying a tagline, but just under the mantle, you know, like, you

2030
02:21:15.800 --> 02:21:20.640
know, like if, if I'm going to share a quote, it's not, you know, if it's going

2031
02:21:20.640 --> 02:21:24.300
to be, it's up to me, like I'm, you know, that's, eh, you know, but you know,

2032
02:21:24.300 --> 02:21:27.620
walk in the new creation, like, Ooh, that'll resonate with people that are,

2033
02:21:27.900 --> 02:21:31.660
that you're meant to help, you know, it's time for you to, to let go of

2034
02:21:31.660 --> 02:21:33.220
the past and sing a new song.

2035
02:21:33.660 --> 02:21:37.900
Like, you know, another one is a Wayne Dyer quote, and he says, don't

2036
02:21:37.900 --> 02:21:39.380
die with the music inside you.

2037
02:21:40.060 --> 02:21:40.660
I love that.

2038
02:21:40.860 --> 02:21:41.140
Yeah.

2039
02:21:41.180 --> 02:21:41.540
Yeah.

2040
02:21:42.020 --> 02:21:42.180
Yeah.

2041
02:21:42.180 --> 02:21:42.860
That's a good one.

2042
02:21:43.020 --> 02:21:46.300
You know, so any, anything like that, that there's potential inside

2043
02:21:46.300 --> 02:21:48.340
of you, that's your people.

2044
02:21:48.860 --> 02:21:49.740
That's your people.

2045
02:21:49.760 --> 02:21:51.000
And I do think it's cool.

2046
02:21:51.000 --> 02:21:52.360
The new, the whole new season thing.

2047
02:21:52.360 --> 02:21:55.200
Cause that's, that's our, honestly, I think it's our biggest challenge.

2048
02:21:55.200 --> 02:22:00.000
Our biggest challenge is to walk in the new season always, and to not beat up

2049
02:22:00.000 --> 02:22:01.800
the old, not try to work on the old.

2050
02:22:01.800 --> 02:22:03.540
And that's why second Corinthians five 17.

2051
02:22:03.540 --> 02:22:05.720
And so such a critical verse.

2052
02:22:06.680 --> 02:22:07.080
Okay.

2053
02:22:07.920 --> 02:22:08.640
That's exciting.

2054
02:22:08.640 --> 02:22:11.800
This is really confirmation from where I have felt this was going.

2055
02:22:11.800 --> 02:22:13.480
So yeah, very good.

2056
02:22:13.840 --> 02:22:14.640
This is all helpful.

2057
02:22:14.640 --> 02:22:15.320
Thank you.

2058
02:22:15.680 --> 02:22:16.320
You're welcome.

2059
02:22:16.380 --> 02:22:16.960
You're welcome.

2060
02:22:17.120 --> 02:22:17.480
Great.

2061
02:22:17.480 --> 02:22:17.760
Great.

2062
02:22:17.760 --> 02:22:18.040
Great.

2063
02:22:18.740 --> 02:22:19.340
Okay.

2064
02:22:19.500 --> 02:22:20.740
Let's go.

2065
02:22:21.100 --> 02:22:22.420
You guys have been so patient.

2066
02:22:22.900 --> 02:22:24.500
Let's go to Marianne.

2067
02:22:27.580 --> 02:22:29.340
Hey, what's happening?

2068
02:22:29.340 --> 02:22:30.060
How are you?

2069
02:22:30.780 --> 02:22:31.700
I'm good.

2070
02:22:32.860 --> 02:22:33.380
Awesome.

2071
02:22:35.540 --> 02:22:39.380
And so, yeah, what's, what's the number one thing you want to focus on?

2072
02:22:39.380 --> 02:22:40.100
How can I help?

2073
02:22:40.380 --> 02:22:43.700
Gosh, well, it's been already amazing.

2074
02:22:44.120 --> 02:22:49.000
I think I've probably resonated with several people and, but I guess I would

2075
02:22:49.000 --> 02:22:54.840
too, like, just a couple of questions answered on the, like my act, I don't

2076
02:22:54.840 --> 02:23:02.520
think you give it, you didn't, haven't given me that, an agreement, my mental.

2077
02:23:02.520 --> 02:23:09.080
I think I know, but gosh, today has been really different in the fact that.

2078
02:23:09.980 --> 02:23:15.820
Because I feel like I know my niche and I know I thought I knew my mantle, but,

2079
02:23:17.100 --> 02:23:22.420
and maybe it all, maybe it all will conjugate together.

2080
02:23:22.780 --> 02:23:23.500
I don't know.

2081
02:23:23.500 --> 02:23:32.700
I'm a little bit like a little bit, uh, what's the word not confused, but anyway,

2082
02:23:32.720 --> 02:23:36.280
anyway, I, yeah, just an act.

2083
02:23:36.280 --> 02:23:42.280
If you happen to hear or something, three words, that would be amazing.

2084
02:23:42.280 --> 02:23:43.200
An inheritance verse.

2085
02:23:43.200 --> 02:23:45.360
I mean, they're all like, yes, yes, yes.

2086
02:23:46.000 --> 02:23:46.800
Yeah.

2087
02:23:47.120 --> 02:23:47.720
Why not?

2088
02:23:48.480 --> 02:23:48.960
Okay.

2089
02:24:32.700 --> 02:24:51.640
Okay.

2090
02:24:58.600 --> 02:24:59.400
Okay.

2091
02:25:00.000 --> 02:25:05.000
So you probably resonated with Beverly of the,

2092
02:25:08.240 --> 02:25:10.380
cause the act I get is I can't do it.

2093
02:25:12.100 --> 02:25:15.460
So that would be like, you know, I want to do this thing,

2094
02:25:15.460 --> 02:25:17.420
but I don't think I can do it.

2095
02:25:17.420 --> 02:25:21.980
I start this thing, but I don't know if I can do it.

2096
02:25:21.980 --> 02:25:23.620
And does that resonate?

2097
02:25:23.620 --> 02:25:25.260
Yes, totally.

2098
02:25:25.260 --> 02:25:28.020
And so again, you know, like our, you know,

2099
02:25:28.020 --> 02:25:33.020
the deal with an act is for us to overcome it, you know?

2100
02:25:33.540 --> 02:25:37.320
And so we're going to feel our best when we help people

2101
02:25:37.320 --> 02:25:39.340
that don't think they can do it.

2102
02:25:40.540 --> 02:25:43.660
So I don't know if you ever taught kids

2103
02:25:43.660 --> 02:25:45.140
or anything like that, like that.

2104
02:25:45.140 --> 02:25:47.380
I was a teacher.

2105
02:25:47.380 --> 02:25:48.380
You were a teacher.

2106
02:25:51.380 --> 02:25:53.340
So yeah, that makes sense.

2107
02:25:53.340 --> 02:25:57.180
And so like, you probably loved helping kids learn things

2108
02:25:57.180 --> 02:25:58.220
they didn't think they could do,

2109
02:25:58.220 --> 02:26:01.460
tie their shoes or, you know, whatever, you know,

2110
02:26:01.460 --> 02:26:03.380
like, you know, people that don't think they can do it.

2111
02:26:03.380 --> 02:26:05.100
That's where we're going to feel really good.

2112
02:26:05.100 --> 02:26:08.140
Like I love teaching people that don't think they can do

2113
02:26:08.140 --> 02:26:10.100
whatever it is I'm teaching them to do.

2114
02:26:11.780 --> 02:26:12.620
The-

2115
02:26:12.620 --> 02:26:16.380
I've been a nutrition educator for the last 25 years, so.

2116
02:26:16.380 --> 02:26:17.220
Yeah.

2117
02:26:17.220 --> 02:26:19.500
I, you know, I graduated from teaching children

2118
02:26:19.500 --> 02:26:21.260
to teaching women.

2119
02:26:21.260 --> 02:26:22.100
Yeah.

2120
02:26:22.100 --> 02:26:23.380
I love.

2121
02:26:23.380 --> 02:26:28.260
So the three words, all great, of course,

2122
02:26:28.260 --> 02:26:30.420
gentle, loving, and brave.

2123
02:26:31.780 --> 02:26:34.940
Gentle, loving, brave, great combo.

2124
02:26:34.940 --> 02:26:37.240
Your inheritance, which I don't, I don't,

2125
02:26:37.240 --> 02:26:39.900
I don't know this, the full thing off the top of my head,

2126
02:26:39.900 --> 02:26:44.660
but I do know part of it, but I get Isaiah 55, eight, nine,

2127
02:26:44.660 --> 02:26:46.820
which is, talks about how God's ways

2128
02:26:46.820 --> 02:26:48.700
are higher than our ways.

2129
02:26:48.740 --> 02:26:52.660
And so what I get from that

2130
02:26:52.660 --> 02:26:55.540
is that you may be a very logical thinker

2131
02:26:55.540 --> 02:26:58.180
and you may be a little analytical.

2132
02:26:58.180 --> 02:26:59.980
Do you get that?

2133
02:26:59.980 --> 02:27:04.780
And to lean on him, to turn to him more

2134
02:27:04.780 --> 02:27:07.940
and to lean on, like, let me just pull up the verse

2135
02:27:07.940 --> 02:27:09.860
because I actually don't know the full thing

2136
02:27:09.860 --> 02:27:11.460
off the top of my head.

2137
02:27:11.460 --> 02:27:14.220
So it says, for my thoughts are not your thoughts,

2138
02:27:14.220 --> 02:27:16.940
neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord.

2139
02:27:16.940 --> 02:27:18.620
As the heavens are higher than the earth,

2140
02:27:19.500 --> 02:27:20.460
so are my ways higher than your ways

2141
02:27:20.460 --> 02:27:22.500
and my thoughts than your thoughts.

2142
02:27:22.500 --> 02:27:25.740
So he's encouraging you to be more dependent on him.

2143
02:27:27.820 --> 02:27:32.460
And so like, you know, with my, with my wife, right?

2144
02:27:32.460 --> 02:27:34.740
So one day she asked me, she goes,

2145
02:27:34.740 --> 02:27:37.260
do your prayers ever make logical sense?

2146
02:27:38.260 --> 02:27:40.180
Because a lot of times they don't, you know,

2147
02:27:40.180 --> 02:27:41.740
like I'm nudged to do something

2148
02:27:41.740 --> 02:27:45.640
that literally doesn't make sense until it does.

2149
02:27:45.640 --> 02:27:50.640
And so that has been a real struggle for her

2150
02:27:51.280 --> 02:27:56.280
because she'll say, well, I think we should do this.

2151
02:27:56.720 --> 02:27:59.540
And what she says is very logical.

2152
02:28:01.080 --> 02:28:04.160
It's perfect logic, but it's not what God wants.

2153
02:28:05.120 --> 02:28:08.160
And so I'm like, I hear you.

2154
02:28:08.160 --> 02:28:09.680
And what I've learned to do,

2155
02:28:09.680 --> 02:28:11.640
this is what I do with my wife,

2156
02:28:11.640 --> 02:28:12.940
is when she comes to me and says,

2157
02:28:12.940 --> 02:28:14.360
I think we should do this.

2158
02:28:14.360 --> 02:28:15.320
And I've already prayed on it.

2159
02:28:15.320 --> 02:28:16.520
And I know that's not the answer.

2160
02:28:16.520 --> 02:28:18.640
I'll say, get into prayer.

2161
02:28:18.640 --> 02:28:20.540
I'll listen to what you get in prayer.

2162
02:28:21.720 --> 02:28:24.880
Three times in a row, she's gotten,

2163
02:28:24.880 --> 02:28:25.800
Ray knows the answer.

2164
02:28:25.800 --> 02:28:29.200
Listen to what he's gonna say, three times.

2165
02:28:29.200 --> 02:28:31.400
Now that's very difficult for her to accept.

2166
02:28:33.200 --> 02:28:36.720
But, you know, so what I'm getting is

2167
02:28:36.720 --> 02:28:38.560
he's blessed you with,

2168
02:28:41.320 --> 02:28:42.780
you're smart, right?

2169
02:28:42.780 --> 02:28:43.620
No doubt.

2170
02:28:44.560 --> 02:28:47.000
Be more dependent on him than your own logic.

2171
02:28:47.000 --> 02:28:50.160
So before you make some move,

2172
02:28:50.160 --> 02:28:52.440
like get into prayer and just say,

2173
02:28:52.440 --> 02:28:53.840
God, do I got this right?

2174
02:28:53.840 --> 02:28:55.540
Can I confirm this with you?

2175
02:28:55.540 --> 02:28:57.700
And you can do this a few different ways.

2176
02:28:59.200 --> 02:29:01.080
You can ask for a sign if you want.

2177
02:29:02.040 --> 02:29:03.600
Lord, show me a sign.

2178
02:29:03.600 --> 02:29:07.000
And like I shared this the other day,

2179
02:29:07.000 --> 02:29:10.440
but this is my first ever book, right?

2180
02:29:10.440 --> 02:29:13.080
So I wrote this in 2010, okay?

2181
02:29:13.080 --> 02:29:16.040
And someone pointed this out to me.

2182
02:29:16.040 --> 02:29:21.040
In chapter 13, I talk about the water buffalo story

2183
02:29:21.160 --> 02:29:23.180
of when I went to a church in Grand Rapids

2184
02:29:23.180 --> 02:29:24.120
and said, God, if you're real,

2185
02:29:24.120 --> 02:29:26.200
I want to hear the words water buffalo.

2186
02:29:26.200 --> 02:29:29.880
Like, I didn't know I had that in that book

2187
02:29:29.880 --> 02:29:31.720
because I'd actually forgotten it

2188
02:29:31.720 --> 02:29:34.480
until a few months after I came to Christ.

2189
02:29:34.480 --> 02:29:35.680
And I remembered, I'm like, oh yeah,

2190
02:29:35.680 --> 02:29:38.000
I remember going to that church and I had water buffalo.

2191
02:29:38.000 --> 02:29:39.760
I didn't know I had that in this book.

2192
02:29:39.760 --> 02:29:40.760
It's crazy.

2193
02:29:40.840 --> 02:29:42.680
And so-

2194
02:29:42.680 --> 02:29:44.360
I just started reading that.

2195
02:29:44.360 --> 02:29:45.840
Yeah, yeah.

2196
02:29:45.840 --> 02:29:47.940
And so I would just,

2197
02:29:51.360 --> 02:29:54.280
you know, give him permission to guide you.

2198
02:29:54.280 --> 02:29:57.600
And, cause magic things happen.

2199
02:29:58.560 --> 02:29:59.720
You know, like I have,

2200
02:30:00.000 --> 02:30:04.680
Honestly, probably the biggest project of my life

2201
02:30:04.680 --> 02:30:09.680
that came to me, it 100% lacked logic when I first got it,

2202
02:30:11.200 --> 02:30:12.280
but it's gonna be end up,

2203
02:30:12.280 --> 02:30:15.320
I believe gonna end up being the biggest project of my life.

2204
02:30:15.320 --> 02:30:20.080
And it's got, I mean, it's just unbelievable

2205
02:30:21.160 --> 02:30:23.920
the picture he's painted out for this thing.

2206
02:30:23.920 --> 02:30:27.440
And not one of it is my idea, like just none of it.

2207
02:30:27.440 --> 02:30:30.160
And an interesting thing is when I prayed about this,

2208
02:30:30.160 --> 02:30:32.920
I got a two page download on this thing.

2209
02:30:32.920 --> 02:30:37.040
And when I went to the guy that I'm supposed to do it with,

2210
02:30:38.160 --> 02:30:43.160
God gave me every single piece except my compensation.

2211
02:30:43.480 --> 02:30:45.520
And so he asked me, he's like,

2212
02:30:45.520 --> 02:30:48.080
well, how will you be compensated?

2213
02:30:48.080 --> 02:30:51.180
I'm like, I don't know, Lord didn't give me that.

2214
02:30:52.280 --> 02:30:54.040
And so he's like, what about this?

2215
02:30:54.040 --> 02:30:56.200
And he makes me the most generous offer

2216
02:30:56.200 --> 02:30:57.320
I've ever been given.

2217
02:30:58.440 --> 02:31:00.800
And I mean, I almost cried because,

2218
02:31:00.800 --> 02:31:05.280
and I said, I'm like, wow, that's more generous

2219
02:31:05.280 --> 02:31:07.760
than I would have thought.

2220
02:31:07.760 --> 02:31:09.500
And he goes, yeah, I figured that.

2221
02:31:10.720 --> 02:31:12.680
Because I'm just so used to people nickel and diamond me.

2222
02:31:12.680 --> 02:31:15.960
And so many companies that I've helped and like,

2223
02:31:15.960 --> 02:31:18.640
can we throw you a quarter of fresh penny?

2224
02:31:18.640 --> 02:31:21.720
And I'm just used to that.

2225
02:31:21.720 --> 02:31:23.760
And I do whatever he asked me to do.

2226
02:31:24.480 --> 02:31:26.200
So I don't care about that.

2227
02:31:26.200 --> 02:31:28.200
But to be offered such a generous,

2228
02:31:28.200 --> 02:31:31.160
it was just such a blessing and so cool and all God,

2229
02:31:31.160 --> 02:31:32.600
none of my logic.

2230
02:31:32.600 --> 02:31:36.160
So there's opportunity out there for you

2231
02:31:36.160 --> 02:31:39.440
by turning to him and relying on him more

2232
02:31:39.440 --> 02:31:43.880
than your own very strong logic and intellect

2233
02:31:43.880 --> 02:31:46.200
is what I get from that inheritance.

2234
02:31:46.200 --> 02:31:49.640
That makes so much sense because I feel like

2235
02:31:49.640 --> 02:31:54.640
I have been trying to do a lot of it.

2236
02:31:55.240 --> 02:31:58.320
I mean, I'm always in prayer and in the word,

2237
02:31:58.320 --> 02:32:01.680
but it's like, then I go to do something

2238
02:32:01.680 --> 02:32:03.360
or create or whatever.

2239
02:32:03.360 --> 02:32:08.360
And I feel like I leave God out of the picture

2240
02:32:08.600 --> 02:32:10.080
because, okay, now I've prayed

2241
02:32:10.080 --> 02:32:13.240
and I think I've figured out

2242
02:32:13.240 --> 02:32:14.800
what you want me to do with this.

2243
02:32:14.800 --> 02:32:15.840
And then I go do it.

2244
02:32:15.840 --> 02:32:19.880
And it's like, something is not gelling.

2245
02:32:19.880 --> 02:32:22.960
So I'm not, yeah, there's a disconnect somewhere.

2246
02:32:22.960 --> 02:32:25.000
So that makes perfect sense.

2247
02:32:25.000 --> 02:32:28.720
He's, I mean, he's very gentle.

2248
02:32:28.720 --> 02:32:33.640
And like what I've learned in the beginning,

2249
02:32:33.640 --> 02:32:35.600
I would get something from him and I'd be like,

2250
02:32:35.600 --> 02:32:37.440
all right, Lord, I'm gonna go do that thing.

2251
02:32:37.440 --> 02:32:42.440
And I would go and actually it wasn't for me

2252
02:32:43.280 --> 02:32:45.280
to do that thing.

2253
02:32:45.280 --> 02:32:49.400
It was for me to go at it as if I was doing that thing,

2254
02:32:49.400 --> 02:32:51.800
but for him to lead me to a different direction.

2255
02:32:52.920 --> 02:32:55.400
You know, weird, like it would have me have a conversation

2256
02:32:55.400 --> 02:32:56.880
that I thought, oh, you're having me do this

2257
02:32:56.880 --> 02:32:57.720
because of this.

2258
02:32:57.720 --> 02:32:59.320
And I would draw my own conclusions.

2259
02:32:59.320 --> 02:33:02.040
And it's like, no, I'm having you do that

2260
02:33:02.040 --> 02:33:03.720
so I can hedge you here.

2261
02:33:03.720 --> 02:33:05.840
I'm having you do that so you can realize

2262
02:33:05.840 --> 02:33:08.280
that they don't actually appreciate you.

2263
02:33:08.280 --> 02:33:10.920
And so, you know, multiple times he's had me do something.

2264
02:33:10.920 --> 02:33:11.760
I'm like, oh, cool.

2265
02:33:11.760 --> 02:33:13.960
Then they're gonna hire me or something.

2266
02:33:13.960 --> 02:33:16.680
And so I go and they totally don't appreciate it.

2267
02:33:16.680 --> 02:33:18.520
And he's like, yeah, I wanted you to know this.

2268
02:33:18.520 --> 02:33:19.960
You would stop pursuing them.

2269
02:33:21.320 --> 02:33:22.400
Stop it.

2270
02:33:22.400 --> 02:33:23.960
I'm taking them away from you.

2271
02:33:23.960 --> 02:33:25.800
Like, I don't want you around people

2272
02:33:25.800 --> 02:33:27.080
that don't appreciate you.

2273
02:33:27.080 --> 02:33:30.200
And so like, I've had like, oh, okay.

2274
02:33:30.200 --> 02:33:32.000
Because, you know, like, you know,

2275
02:33:32.000 --> 02:33:34.240
Apostle Paul said, I forget where this is,

2276
02:33:34.240 --> 02:33:37.160
but it's, you know, I can't be a people pleaser

2277
02:33:37.160 --> 02:33:39.160
and a servant of Christ.

2278
02:33:39.160 --> 02:33:42.480
And so I've learned that in spades.

2279
02:33:42.480 --> 02:33:46.320
I've learned that so much of, you know, let me,

2280
02:33:46.320 --> 02:33:50.440
I am, God is not here to have me please everybody.

2281
02:33:51.440 --> 02:33:54.160
And he's here to have me roll up my sleeves

2282
02:33:54.160 --> 02:33:56.040
and work with the right people

2283
02:33:56.040 --> 02:34:00.520
and to, you know, to be fruitful with the right people,

2284
02:34:00.520 --> 02:34:01.880
but not to please everybody.

2285
02:34:01.880 --> 02:34:03.920
That's just not in the cards.

2286
02:34:03.920 --> 02:34:07.400
And so, and that needs to be okay.

2287
02:34:07.400 --> 02:34:08.240
And if it's not okay,

2288
02:34:08.240 --> 02:34:10.480
then I'm putting my desires above his will.

2289
02:34:11.960 --> 02:34:13.760
And so, yeah.

2290
02:34:14.640 --> 02:34:16.320
Yeah, perfect.

2291
02:34:16.320 --> 02:34:17.360
Does that help?

2292
02:34:17.360 --> 02:34:18.680
Yes, absolutely.

2293
02:34:18.680 --> 02:34:19.520
Thank you.

2294
02:34:19.520 --> 02:34:21.920
Because a lot of times I feel that you've just said it,

2295
02:34:21.920 --> 02:34:23.680
you know, I'm going in this direction,

2296
02:34:23.680 --> 02:34:26.920
but he wants me in that direction to show me something else.

2297
02:34:26.920 --> 02:34:29.400
Exactly, exactly.

2298
02:34:29.400 --> 02:34:31.560
And I keep moving my direction.

2299
02:34:31.560 --> 02:34:33.080
I'll give you a crazy example.

2300
02:34:33.080 --> 02:34:34.000
This is a crazy example.

2301
02:34:34.000 --> 02:34:39.000
So, I was praying and someone asked me

2302
02:34:39.080 --> 02:34:41.160
to speak at this event.

2303
02:34:41.160 --> 02:34:43.640
And so, you know, I prayed about it

2304
02:34:43.640 --> 02:34:45.760
because I just don't, I don't do anything without prayer.

2305
02:34:45.760 --> 02:34:46.680
And so I prayed about it.

2306
02:34:46.680 --> 02:34:49.600
I get, yes, tell him you can speak there.

2307
02:34:49.600 --> 02:34:50.920
Like, okay.

2308
02:34:50.920 --> 02:34:52.200
And so I do it.

2309
02:34:52.200 --> 02:34:55.920
And then like a week later, maybe two weeks later,

2310
02:34:57.080 --> 02:35:00.240
I'm like, man, you really want me to speak there?

2311
02:35:00.000 --> 02:35:02.940
Like, I don't feel like I'm called to speak there.

2312
02:35:02.940 --> 02:35:06.860
And I just felt nudged to pray about it again.

2313
02:35:06.860 --> 02:35:08.780
Tell them you can't speak there.

2314
02:35:08.780 --> 02:35:11.840
I'm like, ah, that doesn't look good.

2315
02:35:11.840 --> 02:35:16.840
Like, ah, I'm like, okay.

2316
02:35:16.880 --> 02:35:19.860
And so I go and I tell them and they were disappointed.

2317
02:35:19.860 --> 02:35:24.860
They didn't like that, but they said something to me

2318
02:35:25.220 --> 02:35:26.740
and they said, you know,

2319
02:35:27.040 --> 02:35:31.040
because I assumed this would really piss them off.

2320
02:35:31.040 --> 02:35:33.840
And so, you know, I said, hey, listen,

2321
02:35:33.840 --> 02:35:37.400
you know, I know, you know, I don't know why,

2322
02:35:37.400 --> 02:35:40.440
but I feel like I'm not supposed to speak there

2323
02:35:40.440 --> 02:35:44.320
and I apologize and maybe I was mistaken and whatever.

2324
02:35:44.320 --> 02:35:46.420
And, you know, if that affects our relationship,

2325
02:35:46.420 --> 02:35:48.200
I understand.

2326
02:35:48.200 --> 02:35:51.460
They came back and said, hey, you've helped me so much.

2327
02:35:51.460 --> 02:35:54.160
There's nothing you could do to hurt the relationship.

2328
02:35:55.060 --> 02:35:57.740
God wanted me to experience that,

2329
02:35:59.120 --> 02:36:00.980
which I would not have experienced

2330
02:36:00.980 --> 02:36:03.880
if I didn't tell him I'd speak there and then take it away.

2331
02:36:04.920 --> 02:36:07.100
Like, that's how amazing he is.

2332
02:36:07.100 --> 02:36:08.860
He'll have you do something like that.

2333
02:36:08.860 --> 02:36:10.540
Now, does that make sense?

2334
02:36:10.540 --> 02:36:11.860
It doesn't make any sense.

2335
02:36:11.860 --> 02:36:13.920
It completely lacks logic,

2336
02:36:13.920 --> 02:36:15.780
but his ways are higher than our ways.

2337
02:36:15.780 --> 02:36:19.820
And so like, it's trusting him in the,

2338
02:36:19.820 --> 02:36:24.000
this doesn't make senseness and he'll show up.

2339
02:36:24.860 --> 02:36:25.700
So.

2340
02:36:25.700 --> 02:36:26.520
Absolutely.

2341
02:36:26.520 --> 02:36:27.740
Well, thank you.

2342
02:36:27.740 --> 02:36:28.580
You're welcome.

2343
02:36:28.580 --> 02:36:29.400
You're welcome.

2344
02:36:29.400 --> 02:36:30.240
Rooting for you.

2345
02:36:30.240 --> 02:36:31.080
Thank you so much.

2346
02:36:31.080 --> 02:36:32.540
Yay, awesome.

2347
02:36:32.540 --> 02:36:33.540
All right.

2348
02:36:33.540 --> 02:36:34.820
Our friend, Heather.

2349
02:36:34.820 --> 02:36:37.900
And we'll, so we got two people.

2350
02:36:37.900 --> 02:36:41.620
We'll finish with, is it Lubna?

2351
02:36:41.620 --> 02:36:43.220
My eyes are kind of going to be.

2352
02:36:44.900 --> 02:36:46.780
Am I saying that right?

2353
02:36:46.780 --> 02:36:47.600
Yeah.

2354
02:36:47.600 --> 02:36:48.440
So Heather.

2355
02:36:51.980 --> 02:36:53.300
Where'd you go?

2356
02:36:53.320 --> 02:36:54.160
Oh, there she is.

2357
02:36:54.160 --> 02:36:55.460
Hey, what's happening?

2358
02:36:59.440 --> 02:37:00.280
I'm sorry.

2359
02:37:04.880 --> 02:37:06.640
I'm having a hard time hearing you.

2360
02:37:18.320 --> 02:37:20.320
My mute is off.

2361
02:37:20.320 --> 02:37:21.160
Okay.

2362
02:37:21.160 --> 02:37:22.640
I can hear you right now.

2363
02:37:23.640 --> 02:37:24.720
Okay.

2364
02:37:24.720 --> 02:37:25.840
I better not move.

2365
02:37:27.000 --> 02:37:27.840
Yeah.

2366
02:37:29.640 --> 02:37:31.560
In the country, so that could be part of it.

2367
02:37:31.560 --> 02:37:33.440
It's weird.

2368
02:37:33.440 --> 02:37:37.360
Maybe I need to move towards my kitchen counter.

2369
02:37:37.360 --> 02:37:38.200
Okay.

2370
02:37:40.800 --> 02:37:42.280
Is this better?

2371
02:37:42.280 --> 02:37:44.440
Okay, that right there seems to be better.

2372
02:37:45.360 --> 02:37:46.360
Stand on one leg.

2373
02:37:46.660 --> 02:37:47.500
Oh.

2374
02:37:51.100 --> 02:37:54.640
Boy, make it quick so the other person can go.

2375
02:37:55.620 --> 02:37:56.580
What's your number one?

2376
02:37:56.580 --> 02:38:00.180
Just if we, like in every meeting, if we, you know,

2377
02:38:00.180 --> 02:38:02.700
one, you're going to learn from all the people

2378
02:38:02.700 --> 02:38:04.860
that aren't you, right?

2379
02:38:04.860 --> 02:38:07.620
So like, you know, if you're just attending this,

2380
02:38:07.620 --> 02:38:09.260
you're going to learn a lot.

2381
02:38:09.260 --> 02:38:12.180
And some of you said you had seven, 10 pages of notes.

2382
02:38:12.180 --> 02:38:13.020
So that's number one.

2383
02:38:13.020 --> 02:38:15.180
Number two, if when we're on,

2384
02:38:15.180 --> 02:38:17.360
if we just focus on what's the number one thing,

2385
02:38:17.360 --> 02:38:19.760
what's the big hot poking bear?

2386
02:38:19.760 --> 02:38:23.600
What's the number one thing that's messing with you?

2387
02:38:23.600 --> 02:38:25.280
I'm going to pray around that thing.

2388
02:38:25.280 --> 02:38:26.520
And we're, you know,

2389
02:38:26.520 --> 02:38:29.060
we're going to get you a movement in that area.

2390
02:38:31.480 --> 02:38:34.440
Right now, actually last time it was,

2391
02:38:35.800 --> 02:38:38.800
we've learned that I think it was a spiritual,

2392
02:38:40.960 --> 02:38:43.160
it was a spiritual battle that I was in

2393
02:38:43.160 --> 02:38:45.660
because you got the word mill.

2394
02:38:45.660 --> 02:38:48.900
There was a lot of people that did have something on it.

2395
02:38:48.900 --> 02:38:51.680
And then I looked up every verse I could think of

2396
02:38:51.680 --> 02:38:53.420
that I wound up looking up mill.

2397
02:38:53.420 --> 02:38:56.220
I looked online and it gave me like,

2398
02:38:56.220 --> 02:39:01.180
I would say over 10 things with mill in it, in the script.

2399
02:39:01.180 --> 02:39:03.140
So at least God gave me an exercise

2400
02:39:03.140 --> 02:39:05.220
to read the Bible a little bit more because-

2401
02:39:05.220 --> 02:39:06.060
There you go.

2402
02:39:06.060 --> 02:39:06.900
That's interesting.

2403
02:39:09.520 --> 02:39:11.520
It was like the Holy spanking, I guess.

2404
02:39:13.860 --> 02:39:16.380
You know, it was just, I got a lot from it

2405
02:39:18.020 --> 02:39:21.780
in terms of people and stuff that just helped with that.

2406
02:39:21.780 --> 02:39:25.800
And it was so neat to actually have a messages from you.

2407
02:39:25.800 --> 02:39:28.500
So I was like, whoa, this is different.

2408
02:39:28.500 --> 02:39:31.580
Like I've never experienced like the one-on-one,

2409
02:39:31.580 --> 02:39:34.140
like literally text messaging.

2410
02:39:34.140 --> 02:39:38.220
So it gave me some reassurance too,

2411
02:39:38.220 --> 02:39:41.580
because putting out so much,

2412
02:39:41.600 --> 02:39:44.240
I know God was talking to me to do it.

2413
02:39:44.240 --> 02:39:46.260
My husband was like on board.

2414
02:39:46.260 --> 02:39:48.640
And then after I started committing,

2415
02:39:49.520 --> 02:39:52.280
now I'm part of the Facebook group

2416
02:39:53.400 --> 02:39:58.000
because I missed some of, there was gaps that I wasn't in.

2417
02:39:58.000 --> 02:40:00.240
So I was starting to, well.

2418
02:40:00.000 --> 02:40:04.660
books out and I'm like, am I making the right decision?

2419
02:40:04.660 --> 02:40:09.700
And they got, um, Raymond reached out because he's like, okay, we need,

2420
02:40:11.400 --> 02:40:13.660
and that gave me more peace of mind.

2421
02:40:13.660 --> 02:40:16.260
Like, he's like, it's okay to have that.

2422
02:40:19.100 --> 02:40:19.380
Yeah.

2423
02:40:19.380 --> 02:40:19.660
Well,

2424
02:40:19.860 --> 02:40:23.760
I mean, it, it, it takes courage to, to be in something like this, you know,

2425
02:40:23.760 --> 02:40:27.660
to, to be vulnerable, to invest, right.

2426
02:40:27.660 --> 02:40:29.100
You know, to get uncomfortable.

2427
02:40:29.100 --> 02:40:32.900
Like, like it takes, it takes some, you know, I never asked someone to do

2428
02:40:32.900 --> 02:40:37.560
something I haven't done, you know, and I, I remember my first investments in

2429
02:40:37.560 --> 02:40:41.520
coaching and I still, you know, still to this day, I have multiple, you know,

2430
02:40:41.520 --> 02:40:43.140
coaches that I, that I pay.

2431
02:40:43.560 --> 02:40:45.620
And, um, so yeah, I get it.

2432
02:40:46.500 --> 02:40:46.860
Yeah.

2433
02:40:47.100 --> 02:40:53.140
Ever since that, it was like, everything that could go wrong has gone wrong.

2434
02:40:53.860 --> 02:40:55.520
Our washing machine died.

2435
02:40:55.600 --> 02:40:57.960
And okay.

2436
02:40:57.960 --> 02:41:03.620
We know that this is not from God and God is just taking

2437
02:41:03.620 --> 02:41:05.120
care of even the finances.

2438
02:41:05.160 --> 02:41:08.600
Like, I don't know how we're making it, but God is taking.

2439
02:41:09.160 --> 02:41:12.760
So it's like, he's given me that.

2440
02:41:15.040 --> 02:41:18.160
Like, it's like, he's wooing me all over again.

2441
02:41:19.280 --> 02:41:19.800
Nice.

2442
02:41:20.560 --> 02:41:21.040
I like that.

2443
02:41:21.720 --> 02:41:22.480
I'm a Christian.

2444
02:41:22.480 --> 02:41:24.760
If God said move, I'm going, you know,

2445
02:41:25.760 --> 02:41:32.160
and I housebound, I forgot what it felt like to be like scared, but

2446
02:41:32.160 --> 02:41:34.000
excited because God's got me.

2447
02:41:36.000 --> 02:41:36.440
Yeah.

2448
02:41:37.320 --> 02:41:39.320
Like you really had to wake me up.

2449
02:41:40.120 --> 02:41:40.520
Yeah.

2450
02:41:41.440 --> 02:41:44.520
It's decent that I didn't want, didn't ask for.

2451
02:41:45.520 --> 02:41:48.560
And so, yeah, I'm really excited.

2452
02:41:48.640 --> 02:41:53.800
Um, I'm really excited because I don't have three words.

2453
02:41:53.960 --> 02:41:55.160
I have an idea.

2454
02:41:55.760 --> 02:41:56.080
Okay.

2455
02:41:57.600 --> 02:42:06.880
I don't have, and I just, I'm, I'm, I don't know what God's let's get that.

2456
02:42:07.040 --> 02:42:08.040
Let's get that for you.

2457
02:42:08.080 --> 02:42:08.480
Yeah.

2458
02:42:08.520 --> 02:42:17.640
Um, and what, one thing that popped up for me is, um, I forget where it's at.

2459
02:42:17.640 --> 02:42:19.920
I want to say Matthew seven, but don't quote me on that one.

2460
02:42:19.960 --> 02:42:24.920
Um, where it talks about, you know, God will, you know, does, does the sparrow

2461
02:42:24.920 --> 02:42:30.160
reaper, so, you know, like God will take care of us, however, however, uh, he

2462
02:42:30.160 --> 02:42:36.880
won't multiply us where we're not good stewards, so our level of stewardship

2463
02:42:36.880 --> 02:42:41.280
is very important if we want multiplication, if we, if we want to

2464
02:42:41.280 --> 02:42:47.880
increase, increase our, uh, following our brand, our money, we need, we,

2465
02:42:47.920 --> 02:42:49.720
he's very much about stewardship.

2466
02:42:49.800 --> 02:42:53.680
That's when, that's been one of the biggest areas, um, that he's grown in

2467
02:42:53.680 --> 02:42:59.920
me in that, you know, I, you know, I've had, you know, twice where I've, I've

2468
02:42:59.960 --> 02:43:04.480
made a lot of money, wasn't a good steward of it and, you know, it doesn't

2469
02:43:04.480 --> 02:43:08.520
mean I was stupid with it necessarily, but not a good steward of it.

2470
02:43:08.760 --> 02:43:14.200
And so like, he'll, he'll only continue to bless where you're, where you have

2471
02:43:14.200 --> 02:43:17.680
the stewardship capability to, to, to make it last.

2472
02:43:18.040 --> 02:43:19.760
And so it doesn't mean he won't provide for you.

2473
02:43:20.160 --> 02:43:20.400
Right.

2474
02:43:20.400 --> 02:43:21.560
He'll make, he'll make things happen.

2475
02:43:21.560 --> 02:43:21.840
Right.

2476
02:43:21.840 --> 02:43:24.560
We get, we get to pay our bills, but if we're just here to pay our bills,

2477
02:43:24.560 --> 02:43:29.720
that's, you know, kind of lame, you know, like we, we want to step into more

2478
02:43:29.720 --> 02:43:34.680
influence and more, you know, uh, more reach and more helping.

2479
02:43:35.200 --> 02:43:41.760
Um, and so, yeah, I did get a nudge right away to get into your inheritance,

2480
02:43:41.760 --> 02:43:43.560
but let's pray the other things too.

2481
02:43:47.680 --> 02:43:48.000
Okay.

2482
02:43:53.920 --> 02:43:54.280
Hmm.

2483
02:43:58.920 --> 02:43:59.280
yes.

2484
02:44:17.680 --> 02:44:42.680
Okay, so you you have a very sensitive act. And, and so I'm not called to share it publicly, but I will, I will send it to you privately.

2485
02:44:48.680 --> 02:44:49.680
Let's.

2486
02:44:53.680 --> 02:44:57.680
Let me do the other things first and then I'll send that to you. That's what I'm getting.

2487
02:45:00.000 --> 02:45:08.000
But I can tell you this is a very big calling.

2488
02:45:08.000 --> 02:45:11.640
So I'll just leave it at that,

2489
02:45:11.640 --> 02:45:17.000
but I will share some stuff around it at the end.

2490
02:46:00.000 --> 02:46:17.920
Okay, so all right, so first, I don't think I've ever gotten this one either.

2491
02:46:17.920 --> 02:46:26.000
So the three words, I don't know if your husband can hear this, but he'd probably agree

2492
02:46:26.000 --> 02:46:35.560
with it, tough, tough, loving, and wise.

2493
02:46:35.560 --> 02:46:41.280
Oh, you hear that husband?

2494
02:46:41.280 --> 02:46:42.280
Uh-huh.

2495
02:46:42.280 --> 02:46:43.600
Yeah, that's it.

2496
02:46:43.600 --> 02:46:47.320
I've never gotten tough.

2497
02:46:47.320 --> 02:46:53.160
Tough loving and wise, that's good.

2498
02:46:53.160 --> 02:46:58.080
And so the inheritance verse, again, this is God's promise to you.

2499
02:46:58.080 --> 02:47:03.760
And this is really one of my favorites, is 2 Corinthians 12, 9.

2500
02:47:03.760 --> 02:47:09.520
And look up the exactness of it, but it is Jesus is talking to the Apostle Paul and he

2501
02:47:09.520 --> 02:47:15.800
says, my grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in your weakness.

2502
02:47:15.800 --> 02:47:20.320
It's been showing up a lot lately.

2503
02:47:20.320 --> 02:47:28.640
So what I believe why that verse is because you think you have to overcome it on your

2504
02:47:28.640 --> 02:47:29.640
own.

2505
02:47:29.640 --> 02:47:38.560
And he's saying, where you're willing to admit that you can't, that's where I'll step in.

2506
02:47:38.560 --> 02:47:39.560
Does that make sense?

2507
02:47:39.560 --> 02:47:40.560
It does.

2508
02:47:40.560 --> 02:47:45.360
And it's amazing how that came out, because that's where I've been struggling, is I know

2509
02:47:45.360 --> 02:47:46.360
I need him.

2510
02:47:46.360 --> 02:47:47.360
Yeah.

2511
02:47:47.400 --> 02:47:57.640
Probably why I've been housebound for so long, because until I recognize that he's got me.

2512
02:47:57.640 --> 02:48:03.320
And so it's just, you know, turning to him and just recognizing, Lord, I can't do this.

2513
02:48:03.320 --> 02:48:05.760
Thank you for helping me do this.

2514
02:48:05.760 --> 02:48:08.920
And just turning to him always.

2515
02:48:08.920 --> 02:48:16.280
And so the act.

2516
02:48:16.280 --> 02:48:19.920
Why do I always cry on this?

2517
02:48:19.920 --> 02:48:28.880
So I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to direct message you your act because it's a

2518
02:48:28.880 --> 02:48:29.880
sensitive one.

2519
02:48:29.880 --> 02:48:39.160
And I'm sometimes I'm told not to share it publicly.

2520
02:48:39.160 --> 02:48:51.920
So you know, you were given a very large challenge, which has led to a very large calling.

2521
02:48:51.920 --> 02:49:01.160
And so when you read this, I want you to think about that this is the exact people you're

2522
02:49:01.160 --> 02:49:03.800
called to help.

2523
02:49:03.800 --> 02:49:08.060
People that think this is who you're called to help.

2524
02:49:08.060 --> 02:49:15.940
And this, this is a very powerful thing, okay.

2525
02:49:15.940 --> 02:49:22.940
And so this is, this is a thought that you will have been inundated with your whole life.

2526
02:49:22.940 --> 02:49:25.720
And know that there's you're not alone.

2527
02:49:25.720 --> 02:49:29.420
There's others, but you're actually called to lead them.

2528
02:49:29.420 --> 02:49:36.540
You're called to take that territory, you're called to go and help this type of person.

2529
02:49:36.540 --> 02:49:46.500
And so I imagine this has to do with birth and you'll, you'll get what I mean when you,

2530
02:49:46.500 --> 02:49:49.660
I think you'll get what I mean when I send you the act.

2531
02:49:49.660 --> 02:49:50.660
Okay.

2532
02:49:50.660 --> 02:49:51.660
Okay.

2533
02:49:51.660 --> 02:49:52.660
All right.

2534
02:49:52.660 --> 02:49:55.660
Let me send it to you.

2535
02:49:55.660 --> 02:49:59.060
And then, yeah, you got it.

2536
02:49:59.060 --> 02:50:00.060
And this might be emotional.

2537
02:50:00.000 --> 02:50:04.280
for you to, to, you know, I imagine it will be, but

2538
02:50:00.060 --> 02:50:00.060


2539
02:50:05.280 --> 02:50:08.680
it should have been the morning Heather, because I feel like God

2540
02:50:08.680 --> 02:50:12.080
always speaks to me. Like, I thought there was something wrong

2541
02:50:12.080 --> 02:50:15.920
with me as a child, because I was always sensitive. All the

2542
02:50:15.920 --> 02:50:20.720
time. Good, bad, good movie. Good book. It's like God would

2543
02:50:20.720 --> 02:50:24.760
use his spirit to just open something and break me in a good

2544
02:50:24.760 --> 02:50:30.040
way. Yeah. So just look at this, not as a condemnation,

2545
02:50:30.040 --> 02:50:33.640
because it's not, it's a it's a calling. This is who you're

2546
02:50:33.640 --> 02:50:37.360
called to help, because you are equipped to help them because

2547
02:50:37.360 --> 02:50:41.560
you've been dealing with this thought your whole life. Okay.

2548
02:50:41.960 --> 02:50:46.480
And so, well, we'll not have Heather off camera, we'll grab

2549
02:50:46.480 --> 02:50:51.200
our last person here, and I am sending it to you now.

2550
02:50:54.760 --> 02:51:00.160
So Heather, do you get it? Yeah, I'll let you. I'll let

2551
02:51:00.160 --> 02:51:07.960
you percolate on that one. Wow. Yeah, it's. Yeah, yeah, I

2552
02:51:07.960 --> 02:51:12.600
figured that. Yeah. All right. So let's and how do I say your

2553
02:51:12.600 --> 02:51:18.760
name? love now? Yeah, love now. Love now. Right. I love it. I

2554
02:51:18.800 --> 02:51:25.000
love it. I love it. And so yeah, so what's number one thing I can

2555
02:51:25.000 --> 02:51:25.640
help you with?

2556
02:51:29.680 --> 02:51:34.040
Love now, I just went to mute. Sorry. Yeah, I can hear you.

2557
02:51:34.040 --> 02:51:38.480
Yes. So my. Alright, so I do resonate with most of the things

2558
02:51:38.480 --> 02:51:42.800
you've talked about already on the call. And, but I would need

2559
02:51:42.800 --> 02:51:46.320
help with that. Yeah, I would need help with that. Yeah, I

2560
02:51:46.600 --> 02:51:52.240
would need help with my, my acts and then guidance around that.

2561
02:51:53.000 --> 02:51:58.080
And then three words, but most importantly, is what I've been

2562
02:51:58.080 --> 02:52:08.120
struggling with. I have an idea of who I want to help. Now, my

2563
02:52:08.120 --> 02:52:12.400
struggle is with how to come up with a message, the mission

2564
02:52:12.400 --> 02:52:17.240
statement. I think it falls under the mantle and how to

2565
02:52:17.280 --> 02:52:21.400
attract the right person in terms of who I need to help.

2566
02:52:21.880 --> 02:52:24.960
That is where my struggle is my biggest struggle is now at the

2567
02:52:24.960 --> 02:52:28.680
minute. And I believe that also feeds into my messaging in terms

2568
02:52:28.680 --> 02:52:33.760
of my content and all that because I feel that I'm just

2569
02:52:33.760 --> 02:52:36.960
doing the right thing, but it's not working. That's how I'm

2570
02:52:36.960 --> 02:52:42.840
feeling, but not to give up. But I just saw that I just need a

2571
02:52:42.840 --> 02:52:47.160
little bit of a tweak. Yeah, around what I'm doing. And then

2572
02:52:47.200 --> 02:52:51.280
it will get me to, you know, I tried the right person, my dual

2573
02:52:51.280 --> 02:52:55.520
client, so I can help them. Well. Yeah.

2574
02:52:57.760 --> 02:53:01.520
Yeah. Yeah, I think you keep freezing, but I can hear you the

2575
02:53:01.520 --> 02:53:09.440
whole time. Yeah. No problem. Okay. And so first thing that

2576
02:53:09.440 --> 02:53:14.000
came up, because you were like, Hey, if I if I march in this

2577
02:53:14.000 --> 02:53:17.480
direction, how will I attract people? And so a good verse

2578
02:53:17.480 --> 02:53:22.160
around that is Deuteronomy 817 and 18. It says you will think

2579
02:53:22.160 --> 02:53:25.120
it's by your mind that you create wealth, but remember the

2580
02:53:25.120 --> 02:53:30.280
Lord, your God who gave you the power to get wealth. And and so

2581
02:53:30.760 --> 02:53:34.640
basically, when you're walking in your anointing, he's going to

2582
02:53:34.640 --> 02:53:38.440
bless it. And so you won't have to, you know, yes, we are, you

2583
02:53:38.440 --> 02:53:42.480
know, Psalm 78 7072 says David led with a contrite heart and

2584
02:53:42.480 --> 02:53:45.720
skillful hands. So we are to grow in skill, and we're going

2585
02:53:45.720 --> 02:53:47.880
to help you in that right, the sales and marketing mentorship.

2586
02:53:48.600 --> 02:53:52.720
And so but you're going to see favor, right? When you're when

2587
02:53:52.720 --> 02:53:55.160
you're walking in your anointing, and you're going and

2588
02:53:55.160 --> 02:53:58.200
helping the person you're meant to help, you're going to see

2589
02:53:58.200 --> 02:54:00.000
favor, you're going to see breakthroughs, you're going to

2590
02:54:00.000 --> 02:54:03.240
see people come to you that you like, wow, how did they even

2591
02:54:03.240 --> 02:54:06.360
find me? Like, I get that all the time, you know, like, I'll

2592
02:54:06.360 --> 02:54:11.520
go to events. And I'll go to events that have nothing to do

2593
02:54:11.520 --> 02:54:15.120
with what I do. And someone will come up and be like, Hey, man, I

2594
02:54:15.120 --> 02:54:18.440
watch all your videos. I'm like, really? And you work for the

2595
02:54:18.440 --> 02:54:21.120
hospital? Like, like, you're not in network marketing? No, I just

2596
02:54:21.120 --> 02:54:24.560
love it. I'm like, huh, you know, and that's like, so you'll

2597
02:54:24.560 --> 02:54:29.280
have that kind of stuff happen. Because, you know, john 327 says

2598
02:54:29.480 --> 02:54:33.840
that our Heavenly Father is responsible for all results. All

2599
02:54:33.840 --> 02:54:36.120
results. So if you take that into consideration, like, oh,

2600
02:54:36.120 --> 02:54:40.360
man, really? Wow. So if I if I'm walking on hers under his will,

2601
02:54:40.360 --> 02:54:43.160
and I'm and his ways are higher than my ways, and then dying,

2602
02:54:43.480 --> 02:54:46.280
you know, like, I'm gonna be getting results. That's pretty

2603
02:54:46.280 --> 02:54:50.080
awesome. And so, all right, let me let me pray about all this.

2604
02:55:30.000 --> 02:55:55.640
Okay, and so you probably resonated with Marianne and I think one other person had this, Jonah.

2605
02:55:55.640 --> 02:55:58.920
The act that I get is I can't do it.

2606
02:55:58.920 --> 02:56:08.340
And so that can have you in a type of analysis paralysis of, of you, like, you know, looking

2607
02:56:08.340 --> 02:56:11.500
at, well, is this, is this the right thing?

2608
02:56:11.500 --> 02:56:15.200
Like, you know, cause it, cause if it's, if it's not perfectly right, that ain't going

2609
02:56:15.200 --> 02:56:16.200
to work.

2610
02:56:16.200 --> 02:56:18.200
Have you ever thought that?

2611
02:56:18.200 --> 02:56:24.760
Yeah, I'm kind of, it's not that I can't do it.

2612
02:56:24.760 --> 02:56:31.000
But I think for me, it's more of, I do it and I want to see the results quickly.

2613
02:56:31.000 --> 02:56:38.960
And so if I'm not seeing the results, perhaps at the time I want to see the results, I get

2614
02:56:38.960 --> 02:56:39.960
discouraged.

2615
02:56:39.960 --> 02:56:48.240
So the, the, my initial efforts, the energy, the enthusiasm, which I started doing it,

2616
02:56:48.240 --> 02:56:51.440
it dwindles, it decreases with time.

2617
02:56:52.240 --> 02:56:56.040
So yours is multidimensional, okay.

2618
02:56:56.040 --> 02:57:01.840
So you start in this scenario, you're not getting results.

2619
02:57:01.840 --> 02:57:02.840
So then it kicks in.

2620
02:57:02.840 --> 02:57:03.840
I can't do it.

2621
02:57:03.840 --> 02:57:04.840
Well, I can't do this.

2622
02:57:04.840 --> 02:57:05.840
It's not getting results.

2623
02:57:05.840 --> 02:57:06.840
Does it?

2624
02:57:06.840 --> 02:57:07.840
Does it?

2625
02:57:07.840 --> 02:57:08.840
Yeah.

2626
02:57:08.840 --> 02:57:09.840
Right.

2627
02:57:09.840 --> 02:57:13.000
And so I think for most, it's more one dimensional of, I just can't do it.

2628
02:57:13.000 --> 02:57:16.080
For you, it's like, okay, I'm going along while I'm not getting results.

2629
02:57:16.080 --> 02:57:18.480
I can't do this.

2630
02:57:18.480 --> 02:57:20.840
And so I can't, I can't keep doing this.

2631
02:57:20.840 --> 02:57:23.840
It's not getting results.

2632
02:57:23.840 --> 02:57:31.240
And this, this actually, this makes your explanation makes sense because your three words, one of

2633
02:57:31.240 --> 02:57:32.240
them is very unique.

2634
02:57:32.240 --> 02:57:36.240
I don't, I think I've gotten this maybe one other time, the three words I get for you

2635
02:57:36.240 --> 02:57:39.960
and, and, and it does matter the order.

2636
02:57:39.960 --> 02:57:45.080
So the order, it goes by what, what's more the primary.

2637
02:57:45.080 --> 02:57:51.120
So your three words are smart, gentle, and wise.

2638
02:57:51.120 --> 02:58:01.040
And so smart of your, your figuring out, Hey, you know, I'm not getting results, you know?

2639
02:58:01.040 --> 02:58:09.080
And so I get smart, gentle, and wise is your, is your three words, which is great.

2640
02:58:09.080 --> 02:58:13.840
You know, that's, that's a good thing.

2641
02:58:13.840 --> 02:58:25.360
And so one second.

2642
02:58:25.360 --> 02:58:33.240
So I, the, the very thing that has held you back is, is really what you're called to help

2643
02:58:33.240 --> 02:58:34.720
others with.

2644
02:58:34.720 --> 02:58:40.560
And that is people who have been attempting something for a long time, but haven't seen

2645
02:58:40.560 --> 02:58:41.560
results.

2646
02:58:42.280 --> 02:58:51.000
That's what I get, which you may not like, but you will.

2647
02:58:51.000 --> 02:58:57.640
So for example, one of my favorite stories, I mean, I say it all the time, Amy Murphy,

2648
02:58:57.640 --> 02:59:03.960
Amy Murphy was, she had been in network marketing for 17 years, had never made more money than

2649
02:59:03.960 --> 02:59:07.880
she spent, finds my training.

2650
02:59:07.880 --> 02:59:10.600
She's made $5 million in her company.

2651
02:59:10.640 --> 02:59:18.440
The reason I love that story is it gives so many people who have 17 years or less hope.

2652
02:59:18.440 --> 02:59:25.080
So you are a hope dealer, you are a person that you're going to be the equipper of people

2653
02:59:25.080 --> 02:59:28.720
that are going to bring so much hope.

2654
02:59:28.720 --> 02:59:33.960
And so people who have struggled, you're going to know how to help them get that result they've

2655
02:59:33.960 --> 02:59:38.160
been after for a long time, because you're going to be able to figure it out.

2656
02:59:38.240 --> 02:59:41.280
You're smart, you're going to be able to figure it out for them.

2657
02:59:41.280 --> 02:59:45.760
And I bet, I'm willing to bet, you've actually figured this out for other people.

2658
02:59:45.760 --> 02:59:46.760
Am I right?

2659
02:59:46.760 --> 02:59:50.600
Yes, I have, a number of times.

2660
02:59:50.600 --> 02:59:58.120
So you've actually felt the exhilaration of walking in your anointing by you helping someone

2661
02:59:58.120 --> 03:00:00.000
who had tried to do something for so long.

2662
03:00:00.000 --> 03:00:01.680
and you were smart enough to figure out,

2663
03:00:01.680 --> 03:00:03.120
you just need to do this.

2664
03:00:03.120 --> 03:00:04.440
Just do, do, dee, right?

2665
03:00:04.440 --> 03:00:05.560
You give them like two tweaks

2666
03:00:05.560 --> 03:00:07.600
and like all of a sudden they're getting a result.

2667
03:00:07.600 --> 03:00:09.480
And that probably felt really, really good

2668
03:00:09.480 --> 03:00:11.440
because that's actually your anointing.

2669
03:00:14.520 --> 03:00:15.400
Does that help?

2670
03:00:16.440 --> 03:00:19.160
Absolutely, it helps, yeah.

2671
03:00:19.160 --> 03:00:23.880
But you, now remember like the purpose of our act

2672
03:00:23.880 --> 03:00:25.640
is for us to tame it,

2673
03:00:25.640 --> 03:00:30.640
is for us to be greater than it

2674
03:00:31.040 --> 03:00:33.700
and recognize it as it's serving us,

2675
03:00:33.700 --> 03:00:36.760
but it's serving us to serve others.

2676
03:00:36.760 --> 03:00:40.880
And so the, I can't keep doing this thing

2677
03:00:40.880 --> 03:00:43.520
that's not getting results, right?

2678
03:00:43.520 --> 03:00:46.780
You're to overcome that and tame that

2679
03:00:46.780 --> 03:00:49.280
and you go get the results.

2680
03:00:49.280 --> 03:00:51.360
But I believe you're gonna get the results

2681
03:00:51.400 --> 03:00:55.680
by helping other people with their lack of results.

2682
03:00:55.680 --> 03:00:57.280
Get their results, right.

2683
03:00:57.280 --> 03:00:58.120
Yeah.

2684
03:00:58.120 --> 03:00:58.940
Yeah.

2685
03:01:00.760 --> 03:01:03.080
And that's good, and the great thing about that

2686
03:01:03.080 --> 03:01:06.460
is every single time you do this,

2687
03:01:06.460 --> 03:01:10.300
it's not just you help that person,

2688
03:01:10.300 --> 03:01:12.400
you help the whole legion of people

2689
03:01:13.380 --> 03:01:17.000
that are gonna hear that story and say, holy crap.

2690
03:01:17.000 --> 03:01:21.560
They, that's, and I remember when I was,

2691
03:01:21.560 --> 03:01:23.760
you know, the top income earner of a company,

2692
03:01:25.460 --> 03:01:28.240
we used to do these team calls every week

2693
03:01:28.240 --> 03:01:29.920
and it really was team stories.

2694
03:01:29.920 --> 03:01:31.440
I actually didn't train my team a whole lot.

2695
03:01:31.440 --> 03:01:34.000
We had a library, we had an archive,

2696
03:01:34.000 --> 03:01:36.400
but I didn't do a whole bunch of trainings for them.

2697
03:01:36.400 --> 03:01:40.140
I just did stories mainly and not made up stories.

2698
03:01:40.140 --> 03:01:43.040
We would have, you know, we would feature somebody.

2699
03:01:43.040 --> 03:01:45.320
And the most listened to call

2700
03:01:45.360 --> 03:01:47.680
was my friend Linda out of England.

2701
03:01:47.680 --> 03:01:50.240
She actually splits time between England and Spain.

2702
03:01:51.240 --> 03:01:53.240
She had been in the business for two years

2703
03:01:53.240 --> 03:01:55.640
and finally got her first two customers.

2704
03:01:56.980 --> 03:01:58.460
That was the most listened to call

2705
03:01:58.460 --> 03:02:00.120
because it brought the most hope.

2706
03:02:01.240 --> 03:02:03.920
And so you're a hope dealer

2707
03:02:03.920 --> 03:02:05.920
and you're gonna help all these people

2708
03:02:05.920 --> 03:02:08.760
that you help go get a result that haven't gotten one.

2709
03:02:08.760 --> 03:02:10.220
That's exactly me, yeah.

2710
03:02:11.220 --> 03:02:15.500
And so just like you're on the hunt

2711
03:02:15.500 --> 03:02:17.380
because your smartness.

2712
03:02:17.380 --> 03:02:22.380
So you literally, you know,

2713
03:02:22.500 --> 03:02:26.560
I help people who've been at it a long time with no results.

2714
03:02:26.560 --> 03:02:31.560
Like that's such an interesting and bold brand

2715
03:02:34.780 --> 03:02:36.460
because you would think that's the least likely people

2716
03:02:36.460 --> 03:02:37.460
I wanna work with.

2717
03:02:37.460 --> 03:02:38.860
These people, they've been at it for years

2718
03:02:38.860 --> 03:02:40.100
and they haven't created a result.

2719
03:02:40.940 --> 03:02:42.500
That's actually your superpower.

2720
03:02:42.500 --> 03:02:44.060
You're gonna be able to help people,

2721
03:02:44.060 --> 03:02:46.660
or you can right now, you don't have to wait.

2722
03:02:46.660 --> 03:02:49.820
You can help people right now that haven't had a result.

2723
03:02:49.820 --> 03:02:50.940
They've been at it a long time.

2724
03:02:50.940 --> 03:02:52.780
You're equipped to go and help them.

2725
03:02:54.780 --> 03:02:56.380
That's pretty awesome.

2726
03:02:56.380 --> 03:02:58.100
It's unique, yeah.

2727
03:02:58.100 --> 03:02:59.980
Yes, thank you so much.

2728
03:02:59.980 --> 03:03:01.900
Yeah, that makes sense, absolutely makes sense.

2729
03:03:01.900 --> 03:03:02.980
Really, really cool.

2730
03:03:02.980 --> 03:03:04.900
That's what I needed to hear.

2731
03:03:06.260 --> 03:03:08.180
So like I said, I've been on it

2732
03:03:08.180 --> 03:03:10.100
and it's like, I'm still doing it.

2733
03:03:10.100 --> 03:03:11.140
I see myself doing it.

2734
03:03:11.140 --> 03:03:12.420
I have no issues.

2735
03:03:12.420 --> 03:03:15.020
I have no struggle with putting in the work,

2736
03:03:15.020 --> 03:03:18.700
but I think just going for the long haul

2737
03:03:18.700 --> 03:03:21.660
and putting in the work and just wait

2738
03:03:21.660 --> 03:03:25.420
to see the results as and when it happens.

2739
03:03:25.420 --> 03:03:27.260
That is where my struggle is.

2740
03:03:27.260 --> 03:03:31.700
Become a heat seeking missile for people

2741
03:03:31.700 --> 03:03:35.020
that have been at it a long time, but haven't had a result.

2742
03:03:35.020 --> 03:03:37.220
That's like the last people

2743
03:03:37.220 --> 03:03:39.340
that most people would pick, right?

2744
03:03:39.340 --> 03:03:41.100
So there's magic in that too, right?

2745
03:03:41.100 --> 03:03:42.180
You're picking people

2746
03:03:42.180 --> 03:03:45.020
that most people would pick last, right?

2747
03:03:45.020 --> 03:03:48.260
And there's,

2748
03:03:55.420 --> 03:03:58.660
yeah, there's a story of,

2749
03:03:58.660 --> 03:04:03.660
I think about Jesus and the lepers, right?

2750
03:04:04.660 --> 03:04:07.900
And so imagine the life of a leper, right?

2751
03:04:07.900 --> 03:04:11.300
All of a sudden you got leprosy, you're unclean.

2752
03:04:11.300 --> 03:04:13.500
No one wants to be around you.

2753
03:04:13.500 --> 03:04:17.420
Your wife stops touching you, like all that.

2754
03:04:17.420 --> 03:04:20.580
Like you're helping the people

2755
03:04:20.580 --> 03:04:23.380
that most people might shy away from

2756
03:04:23.380 --> 03:04:26.300
because that person doesn't get results,

2757
03:04:26.300 --> 03:04:29.180
but you're gonna be able to help them get results.

2758
03:04:29.180 --> 03:04:31.980
And so I just think that's very admirable and very cool.

2759
03:04:32.980 --> 03:04:34.780
So become a heat seeking missile.

2760
03:04:34.780 --> 03:04:37.140
Who's been at it a long time, hasn't had a result.

2761
03:04:37.140 --> 03:04:38.380
I don't know if you have a team,

2762
03:04:38.380 --> 03:04:40.340
but anyone in your team that's been at it a long time,

2763
03:04:40.340 --> 03:04:44.100
no result, you wanna get under the hood.

2764
03:04:44.100 --> 03:04:46.100
You're gonna give them a few little tweaks

2765
03:04:46.100 --> 03:04:47.220
and they're gonna start getting results.

2766
03:04:47.220 --> 03:04:48.380
God's gonna bless that.

2767
03:04:49.780 --> 03:04:50.700
Yeah.

2768
03:04:50.700 --> 03:04:51.540
Cool.

2769
03:04:52.540 --> 03:04:54.580
All right, yeah, very helpful.

2770
03:04:54.580 --> 03:04:55.420
Very, very helpful.

2771
03:04:55.420 --> 03:04:56.420
Thank you so much.

2772
03:04:56.420 --> 03:04:57.260
Thank you.

2773
03:04:57.260 --> 03:04:58.660
Yeah, well, awesome.

2774
03:04:58.660 --> 03:05:00.060
Well, awesome guys.

2775
03:05:00.000 --> 03:05:03.760
All right, we broke a record, three hours and six minutes.

2776
03:05:05.480 --> 03:05:07.560
But I appreciate you guys.

2777
03:05:07.560 --> 03:05:08.720
Let me pray us out.

2778
03:05:08.720 --> 03:05:13.360
And again, if I didn't get to you individually,

2779
03:05:13.360 --> 03:05:16.320
let's make sure I get with you on the next one.

2780
03:05:16.320 --> 03:05:19.760
And hopefully you wanna be able to learn from everyone else

2781
03:05:19.760 --> 03:05:22.960
because I don't think anyone could possibly be on here

2782
03:05:22.960 --> 03:05:24.620
and not have learned something

2783
03:05:24.620 --> 03:05:27.960
from whether I talked to you personally or not.

2784
03:05:27.960 --> 03:05:29.320
And so Father, we're so grateful for you.

2785
03:05:29.360 --> 03:05:30.960
Father, thank you for this session, Lord.

2786
03:05:30.960 --> 03:05:33.240
Father, thank you for helping us.

2787
03:05:33.240 --> 03:05:34.680
Thank you for blessing us.

2788
03:05:34.680 --> 03:05:36.000
Thank you for blessing our families

2789
03:05:36.000 --> 03:05:39.320
and the work of our hands, Lord.

2790
03:05:39.320 --> 03:05:41.520
And Father, I just lift up everyone on this call, Lord.

2791
03:05:41.520 --> 03:05:42.660
Father, thank you for blessing them

2792
03:05:42.660 --> 03:05:44.580
from the top of their head to the tips of their toes.

2793
03:05:44.580 --> 03:05:45.820
Father, thank you for giving them

2794
03:05:45.820 --> 03:05:47.160
that wisdom and discernment.

2795
03:05:47.160 --> 03:05:49.360
Father, thank you for speaking to them.

2796
03:05:49.360 --> 03:05:51.920
Thank you for helping them to discern your voice always,

2797
03:05:51.920 --> 03:05:52.760
Lord.

2798
03:05:52.760 --> 03:05:55.760
Father, thank you for helping them to see their anointing

2799
03:05:55.760 --> 03:05:58.240
and help them see themselves the way that you see them,

2800
03:05:58.240 --> 03:05:59.080
Lord.

2801
03:05:59.080 --> 03:06:00.640
And we're just so grateful for you.

2802
03:06:00.640 --> 03:06:01.600
We're so grateful for you.

2803
03:06:01.600 --> 03:06:02.760
You're worthy of our praise.

2804
03:06:02.760 --> 03:06:04.520
You're worthy of our glory, honor, power, and strength.

2805
03:06:04.520 --> 03:06:06.760
And we are honored to be your children.

2806
03:06:06.760 --> 03:06:09.040
We thank you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

2807
03:06:09.040 --> 03:06:10.360
Amen.

2808
03:06:10.360 --> 03:06:11.480
All right, guys.

2809
03:06:11.480 --> 03:06:12.680
Appreciate you so much.

2810
03:06:12.680 --> 03:06:13.520
Appreciate you.

2811
03:06:14.440 --> 03:06:15.360
Love you guys.

2812
03:06:15.360 --> 03:06:16.800
Rooting for you.

2813
03:06:16.800 --> 03:06:17.640
Bye, guys.