WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:12.160 All right, welcome, welcome, welcome to the God, Love, and Me Masterclass. 2 00:00:12.160 --> 00:00:17.400 I'm so thrilled to be here with you. 3 00:00:17.400 --> 00:00:20.720 This is really straight from the Lord. 4 00:00:20.720 --> 00:00:25.160 2012 is the first time that I started teaching this. 5 00:00:25.160 --> 00:00:33.080 I taught it as a full-day event and tried to get out of it. 6 00:00:33.080 --> 00:00:38.600 God had me start, prosper in all things, with three events, God, money, and me. 7 00:00:38.600 --> 00:00:39.600 That went powerful. 8 00:00:39.600 --> 00:00:42.440 Let's just break through the money blocks. 9 00:00:42.440 --> 00:00:48.280 God, health, and me, my favorite, especially teaching the emotional connection and how 10 00:00:48.280 --> 00:00:51.480 I've been doing that since I was 17. 11 00:00:51.480 --> 00:00:52.480 Love it. 12 00:00:52.480 --> 00:01:00.480 When it came time to teach God, love, and me, guess what popped up? 13 00:01:00.480 --> 00:01:01.480 Imposter syndrome. 14 00:01:01.480 --> 00:01:08.200 Who am I to teach anything about love? 15 00:01:08.200 --> 00:01:16.560 The truth is, the first time I went to teach this, I was going through a very painful or 16 00:01:16.560 --> 00:01:19.400 I was about to go through a very painful divorce. 17 00:01:19.400 --> 00:01:25.120 I'd been in a tough 27-year marriage. 18 00:01:25.120 --> 00:01:28.800 I actually came to the event. 19 00:01:28.800 --> 00:01:33.760 It was beautiful at the La Rivage overlooking the river. 20 00:01:33.760 --> 00:01:39.200 Beautiful food laid out, just beautiful place. 21 00:01:39.200 --> 00:01:48.560 I had my assistant there, and I was prepared to return everybody's money. 22 00:01:48.560 --> 00:01:50.000 I couldn't teach it. 23 00:01:50.000 --> 00:01:52.200 Who am I? 24 00:01:52.200 --> 00:01:55.120 Who am I to teach this? 25 00:01:55.120 --> 00:02:01.640 I hadn't shared with anyone, and I honestly thought that because I was going through a 26 00:02:01.640 --> 00:02:08.280 divorce as a Christian woman, which had been many, many, many years of prayer and counseling 27 00:02:08.360 --> 00:02:16.840 and asking for release from God, and I had release from God, I didn't feel that anybody 28 00:02:16.840 --> 00:02:19.520 would want to listen to me. 29 00:02:19.520 --> 00:02:24.080 So I told them, I'm ready to give you all your money back. 30 00:02:24.080 --> 00:02:25.720 I'm not the one to teach you this. 31 00:02:25.720 --> 00:02:26.960 I don't know anything about love. 32 00:02:26.960 --> 00:02:31.920 I'm about to go through a divorce. 33 00:02:31.920 --> 00:02:32.920 I thought I was done. 34 00:02:32.920 --> 00:02:35.200 I thought that was the end of prosper and all things. 35 00:02:35.200 --> 00:02:37.800 What Christian woman would listen to me? 36 00:02:38.320 --> 00:02:39.320 Who am I to teach? 37 00:02:39.320 --> 00:02:41.320 Of course, I was so much in my own stuff. 38 00:02:41.320 --> 00:02:45.920 I never stopped to think that 50% of the people in the room were probably divorced. 39 00:02:45.920 --> 00:02:47.720 That never crossed my mind. 40 00:02:47.720 --> 00:02:53.320 I just got imposter syndrome bad, and I wanted to walk in integrity, and I wanted to return 41 00:02:53.320 --> 00:02:56.560 everyone's money. 42 00:02:56.560 --> 00:03:00.480 What happened that day changed my life forever. 43 00:03:00.480 --> 00:03:06.440 It's the event of all the events I've done over all the decades of speaking. 44 00:03:06.440 --> 00:03:15.480 It's the event that actually really changed my life, and nobody got up to get their money 45 00:03:15.480 --> 00:03:26.240 back, and instead, the amount of love that flooded the room, and they actually ended 46 00:03:26.240 --> 00:03:35.920 up giving me a group hug, and the amount of love that flooded the room, and it was probably 47 00:03:36.000 --> 00:03:40.160 the most powerful masterclass that I taught. 48 00:03:40.160 --> 00:03:46.960 At the end of the masterclass, God had told me to be willing to pray for anyone that wanted 49 00:03:46.960 --> 00:03:49.200 prayer. 50 00:03:49.200 --> 00:03:52.160 We had the most powerful time of prayer. 51 00:03:52.160 --> 00:03:56.040 There was so much healing, so much breakthrough. 52 00:03:56.040 --> 00:04:01.360 There's some really big-name coaches that weren't coaches yet that were birthed that 53 00:04:01.360 --> 00:04:02.360 day. 54 00:04:02.360 --> 00:04:08.400 They were set free, and they launched their business. 55 00:04:08.400 --> 00:04:14.640 It was the first time that I had taken off the masks. 56 00:04:14.640 --> 00:04:17.720 I don't know any of you. 57 00:04:17.720 --> 00:04:26.480 I had spent a lifetime of trying to look like I had it all together when everything was 58 00:04:26.480 --> 00:04:32.080 falling apart, and this was the first time I showed up naked and unashamed. 59 00:04:32.800 --> 00:04:37.640 I had my clothes on, but you guys get what I mean. 60 00:04:37.640 --> 00:04:45.880 It taught me the power of vulnerability and transparency, and it took prosper in all things 61 00:04:45.880 --> 00:04:52.080 and the relationship amongst prosper sisters to whole new levels. 62 00:04:52.080 --> 00:04:59.680 I can't help, but when I come to teach you today, to come back to the roots of that because 63 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:03.600 still feel, who am I to teach? 64 00:05:03.600 --> 00:05:07.120 I'm not here teaching as a love expert. 65 00:05:07.120 --> 00:05:11.600 I am not teaching as someone who has got it all together. 66 00:05:11.600 --> 00:05:13.640 If you're not OK with that, this is a good time 67 00:05:13.640 --> 00:05:17.560 to sign off and go find your expert. 68 00:05:17.560 --> 00:05:20.160 I am not. 69 00:05:20.160 --> 00:05:21.160 Thank you, Victoria. 70 00:05:21.160 --> 00:05:23.960 She says, I love you. 71 00:05:23.960 --> 00:05:28.880 So I'm thrilled to be here. 72 00:05:28.960 --> 00:05:33.680 I'm a fellow sojourner with you. 73 00:05:33.680 --> 00:05:35.720 You OK with that? 74 00:05:35.720 --> 00:05:41.840 And yet, God has been just talking to me about love 75 00:05:41.840 --> 00:05:46.520 and teaching me about love and telling me to study love. 76 00:05:46.520 --> 00:05:50.640 And I've been a student of love. 77 00:05:50.640 --> 00:05:55.080 And I'm going to share with you what God's been teaching me. 78 00:05:55.080 --> 00:05:58.280 And that's what this is about. 79 00:05:58.280 --> 00:06:00.040 So I'm so excited that you're here. 80 00:06:02.920 --> 00:06:06.600 And first thing in the morning, my voice is a little raspy. 81 00:06:06.600 --> 00:06:08.400 But here we are. 82 00:06:08.400 --> 00:06:13.600 So we're going to start with prayer. 83 00:06:13.600 --> 00:06:16.320 And we're going to talk a little bit about why this course 84 00:06:16.320 --> 00:06:17.480 and what this course is. 85 00:06:17.480 --> 00:06:20.080 And then we're going to dive right in. 86 00:06:20.080 --> 00:06:23.240 So let's open with prayer, shall we? 87 00:06:23.240 --> 00:06:33.160 Oh, Heavenly Father, I just thank you for this opportunity 88 00:06:33.160 --> 00:06:37.200 to study love, because you are love. 89 00:06:37.200 --> 00:06:39.360 Scripture says God is love. 90 00:06:39.360 --> 00:06:43.880 So Lord, it's our chance to get closer to you, 91 00:06:43.880 --> 00:06:47.560 to better understand ourselves, because we were created 92 00:06:47.560 --> 00:06:52.080 by love for love, our love. 93 00:06:52.080 --> 00:06:55.240 Many of us have been through a challenging journey 94 00:06:55.240 --> 00:06:58.560 when it comes to the L word, Lord. 95 00:06:58.560 --> 00:07:03.600 I ask Holy Spirit that you minister in powerful ways today. 96 00:07:03.600 --> 00:07:06.160 I ask that you speak through my mouth. 97 00:07:06.160 --> 00:07:08.280 I ask that you touch hearts. 98 00:07:08.280 --> 00:07:10.560 I ask that you bring healing. 99 00:07:10.560 --> 00:07:13.800 I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. 100 00:07:13.800 --> 00:07:17.440 I ask for wisdom to flow freely. 101 00:07:17.440 --> 00:07:19.640 I ask for a spirit of breakthrough. 102 00:07:19.680 --> 00:07:23.480 You are Jehovah Bel-Perezin, the God of the breakthrough. 103 00:07:23.480 --> 00:07:26.680 I ask that you are breaking through limiting beliefs, 104 00:07:26.680 --> 00:07:29.840 breaking through lies that have been told to us 105 00:07:29.840 --> 00:07:33.800 or spoken over us or we've told ourselves. 106 00:07:33.800 --> 00:07:39.120 I'm asking that this will be a place of profound breakthrough 107 00:07:39.120 --> 00:07:43.360 and that love will flow freely in this place. 108 00:07:43.360 --> 00:07:48.600 We invite you, Holy Spirit, to rule, to reign, to move. 109 00:07:48.600 --> 00:07:51.840 May the words of my mouth, the meditation of my heart 110 00:07:51.840 --> 00:07:55.440 be pleasing in your sight. 111 00:07:55.440 --> 00:07:58.600 We thank you in Jesus' name. 112 00:07:58.600 --> 00:08:01.120 Amen, amen, amen. 113 00:08:01.120 --> 00:08:05.120 So why study love? 114 00:08:05.120 --> 00:08:07.000 Why study love? 115 00:08:07.000 --> 00:08:12.000 Well, first of all, love is the currency of heaven, 116 00:08:12.000 --> 00:08:15.360 the currency of God's creation. 117 00:08:16.360 --> 00:08:21.440 If you broke yourself down to beyond the cells, 118 00:08:21.440 --> 00:08:25.880 to the atoms, to the electrons, neutrons, 119 00:08:25.880 --> 00:08:28.400 to the subatomic particles, and you 120 00:08:28.400 --> 00:08:36.000 get to little bits of light, every photon of that is love. 121 00:08:36.000 --> 00:08:41.240 And it's the source of joy. 122 00:08:41.240 --> 00:08:43.360 It's the source of healing. 123 00:08:43.360 --> 00:08:45.800 It's the source of abundance. 124 00:08:45.800 --> 00:08:48.880 Of course, God is love. 125 00:08:48.880 --> 00:08:56.240 And John 15, 9 says, even as the Father, this is Jesus talking, 126 00:08:56.240 --> 00:08:59.840 even as the Father has loved me. 127 00:08:59.840 --> 00:09:03.320 So Jesus is really aware that he lives and dwells 128 00:09:03.320 --> 00:09:05.400 in the Father's love. 129 00:09:05.400 --> 00:09:09.240 Jesus says, even as the Father has loved me, 130 00:09:09.280 --> 00:09:12.760 I also have loved you. 131 00:09:15.400 --> 00:09:20.000 He says, abide in my love. 132 00:09:20.000 --> 00:09:25.560 So here he's giving this discourse to his followers, 133 00:09:25.560 --> 00:09:28.120 trying to bring the importance of love. 134 00:09:28.120 --> 00:09:29.840 It was his theme message. 135 00:09:29.840 --> 00:09:32.200 It was the greatest commandment. 136 00:09:32.200 --> 00:09:35.000 And he's saying, look, here's the deal. 137 00:09:35.000 --> 00:09:37.480 The Father, the one who created me, 138 00:09:37.480 --> 00:09:41.200 the source, the Father, has loved me. 139 00:09:44.080 --> 00:09:46.920 I've loved you. 140 00:09:46.920 --> 00:09:52.480 Will you abide in that love? 141 00:09:52.480 --> 00:10:01.440 And John 4, 19 says, we love because he first loved us. 142 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:05.040 us. And 1 Corinthians, Paul wrote one of the greatest 143 00:10:05.040 --> 00:10:09.200 discourses, 1 Corinthians chapter 13, on love. If you 144 00:10:09.200 --> 00:10:12.640 want to read it in every version, one of the greatest 145 00:10:12.640 --> 00:10:16.240 discourses on what is love, how to love, what does love look 146 00:10:16.240 --> 00:10:20.560 like. And he opens by saying, I'll show you a more excellent 147 00:10:20.560 --> 00:10:25.760 way. It was directly following chapter 12, which was on the 148 00:10:25.760 --> 00:10:31.920 gifts. So prophecy and healing and speaking in tongues and 149 00:10:31.920 --> 00:10:35.280 words of knowledge and all the gifts that are described in 150 00:10:35.280 --> 00:10:40.720 1 Corinthians chapter 12. He closes out by saying, but all 151 00:10:40.720 --> 00:10:46.400 above all that, I'll show you a more excellent way. And he goes 152 00:10:46.400 --> 00:10:51.360 through and he does this discourse on love. And then he 153 00:10:51.360 --> 00:10:59.120 wraps it up by saying, if I don't have love, I'm nothing. 154 00:10:59.120 --> 00:11:01.040 He said, I could be the greatest, the biggest 155 00:11:01.040 --> 00:11:04.720 philanthropist, the greatest donor. I could be a martyr, 156 00:11:04.720 --> 00:11:12.240 give myself and die for God. But if I have not, I could, I 157 00:11:12.240 --> 00:11:17.760 could be the best in prophecy and prophesy. But if I have 158 00:11:17.760 --> 00:11:26.960 love, I don't have love, I'm nothing. So why do we study 159 00:11:26.960 --> 00:11:33.920 this? It's the very foundation. And yet, because of, of 160 00:11:33.920 --> 00:11:40.960 wounding, because of what we didn't learn about love, it's 161 00:11:40.960 --> 00:11:44.240 often the furthest thing from our mind. I mean, we crave it, 162 00:11:44.240 --> 00:11:48.880 we want it, we know we need it. But do we really have the 163 00:11:48.880 --> 00:11:54.160 intention of growing our love walk? Do we really study it? Do 164 00:11:54.160 --> 00:12:00.800 we really ask God to teach us? I have placed in my journal, I 165 00:12:00.800 --> 00:12:03.920 wrote a recent post, you probably read it, where I said, 166 00:12:03.920 --> 00:12:08.800 okay, God, download me, teach me the truth about love. And he 167 00:12:08.800 --> 00:12:12.960 gave me a whole discourse on love. That's built some of that 168 00:12:12.960 --> 00:12:18.480 is into, into this. And then there's the practical side of 169 00:12:18.480 --> 00:12:26.080 this. Health. We know it has everything to do with our 170 00:12:26.080 --> 00:12:34.160 health. When, when we feel loved. And when we have love, 171 00:12:34.160 --> 00:12:37.200 and we walk in love, and we give love, we have a stronger 172 00:12:37.200 --> 00:12:44.640 immune system, lowers our blood pressure, we live longer. So 173 00:12:44.640 --> 00:12:51.040 it's tied to our health. It's tied to our happiness. So many 174 00:12:51.040 --> 00:12:55.600 studies about our mood, and about anxiety, and about 175 00:12:55.600 --> 00:12:57.760 depression, you can look up, there's just dozens and 176 00:12:57.760 --> 00:13:01.520 dozens, it's, it's really studied. But here's an 177 00:13:01.520 --> 00:13:04.720 interesting one. Have you ever connected, I pray you get a 178 00:13:04.720 --> 00:13:09.360 real breakthrough on this one, has everything to do with 179 00:13:09.360 --> 00:13:13.680 money? The amount of money in your life? How many of you put 180 00:13:13.680 --> 00:13:16.400 in the chat? How many of you understand there's a direct 181 00:13:16.400 --> 00:13:21.520 correlation between love and money? I'm not talking about 182 00:13:21.520 --> 00:13:23.840 manipulation and marrying for love, none of that stuff. I'm 183 00:13:23.840 --> 00:13:27.040 talking about real, the energy of love and the energy of money. 184 00:13:27.040 --> 00:13:29.040 How many of you have thought about that? Put that in the 185 00:13:29.040 --> 00:13:32.720 chat that you understand, that is directly beginning to 186 00:13:32.800 --> 00:13:35.760 realize recently. Okay, love that. Who else? 187 00:13:38.400 --> 00:13:42.160 Who else? Yep. Okay. Who else? 188 00:13:46.400 --> 00:13:50.880 Here's the interesting thing. They're both tied in our minds 189 00:13:52.640 --> 00:13:56.240 to, okay, there we go. Just learning this love attracts 190 00:13:56.240 --> 00:13:59.120 favor, including money, it's just now starting to connect. 191 00:13:59.120 --> 00:14:01.120 Good. I think you're going to get a deeper connection. This 192 00:14:01.120 --> 00:14:03.440 is amazing. You're going to start seeing this in your life. 193 00:14:03.440 --> 00:14:09.280 It's a profound revelation. Okay. And Mary didn't even know. 194 00:14:09.280 --> 00:14:13.680 She says no. And Victoria, not really for me, but probably so. 195 00:14:13.680 --> 00:14:17.600 Well, where do we get done? We'll ask this question at the 196 00:14:17.600 --> 00:14:25.120 end. Okay. Susan. All right. They both kind of hold the same 197 00:14:25.120 --> 00:14:29.520 spot of some of our deepest needs. We tie money and we tie 198 00:14:29.520 --> 00:14:34.160 love to our sense of security, our sense of safety, right? 199 00:14:36.080 --> 00:14:41.360 If we feel like love is really important for us to feel secure, 200 00:14:41.360 --> 00:14:45.200 safe, and same for money. It's a similar energy. Y'all kind of 201 00:14:45.200 --> 00:14:51.040 get that? Okay. Where it's blocked in one, it's usually 202 00:14:51.040 --> 00:14:58.400 blocked in the other. So the limiting beliefs are very 203 00:14:58.400 --> 00:14:59.840 similar. There's no... 204 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:02.760 Oh, good man out there. 205 00:15:02.760 --> 00:15:04.560 Money's hard to come by. 206 00:15:04.560 --> 00:15:07.280 Lack, lack-based, very often. 207 00:15:07.280 --> 00:15:10.200 Same limiting beliefs of lack. 208 00:15:10.200 --> 00:15:11.600 Anybody getting any ahas? 209 00:15:11.600 --> 00:15:14.800 If you get any ahas, put aha in the chat. 210 00:15:14.800 --> 00:15:23.000 They're both tied in with our ability to receive. 211 00:15:23.000 --> 00:15:24.600 Some of you really struggle. 212 00:15:24.600 --> 00:15:27.600 Good, you guys are already getting some ahas. 213 00:15:27.600 --> 00:15:29.440 We're just getting started. 214 00:15:29.440 --> 00:15:31.760 We've got a few hours together, OK? 215 00:15:31.760 --> 00:15:37.920 So tied to our ability to receive. 216 00:15:37.920 --> 00:15:42.440 And if you look at love, I've taught this many times, 217 00:15:42.440 --> 00:15:46.920 those of you that have worked with me. 218 00:15:46.920 --> 00:15:51.560 Life, the way that God has created the world, 219 00:15:51.560 --> 00:15:55.160 is very cyclical, OK? 220 00:15:55.760 --> 00:16:00.080 The moisture comes up from the groundwater and the ocean 221 00:16:00.080 --> 00:16:04.280 and everything, and it comes down as rain. 222 00:16:04.280 --> 00:16:09.560 We breathe out carbon monoxide or dioxide, whatever, 223 00:16:09.560 --> 00:16:13.640 and the trees breathe it in. 224 00:16:13.640 --> 00:16:17.080 The trees breathe out, or the plants breathe out, 225 00:16:17.080 --> 00:16:19.760 the oxygen that we breathe out. 226 00:16:19.760 --> 00:16:25.960 So breathing is very symbolic of our life. 227 00:16:25.960 --> 00:16:31.840 So you are usually, most of the women I coach, 228 00:16:31.840 --> 00:16:34.720 are stuck in one side of the breathing. 229 00:16:34.720 --> 00:16:39.200 This is a metaphor for love, too, OK? 230 00:16:39.200 --> 00:16:45.280 Some of you are stuck on trying to get. 231 00:16:45.280 --> 00:16:48.560 This plays out in all parts of life. 232 00:16:48.560 --> 00:16:53.920 You're trying to get more learning, more love, more, 233 00:16:53.920 --> 00:16:54.400 more. 234 00:16:54.400 --> 00:17:00.360 You're just inhaling, taking in, taking in, taking in. 235 00:17:00.360 --> 00:17:02.800 But you're not taking all that you're learning, 236 00:17:02.800 --> 00:17:04.480 all that you're receiving, and putting it 237 00:17:04.480 --> 00:17:06.520 into action in giving. 238 00:17:06.520 --> 00:17:12.640 So if we just breathe in, we die. 239 00:17:12.640 --> 00:17:17.880 Some of you, on the other side, are only breathing out. 240 00:17:17.880 --> 00:17:20.000 You're giving, giving, giving, giving, giving, 241 00:17:20.000 --> 00:17:22.359 and usually giving because you want to get, 242 00:17:22.359 --> 00:17:23.880 whether it's unconscious or not. 243 00:17:23.880 --> 00:17:26.400 You're hoping if you love enough, someone will love you. 244 00:17:26.400 --> 00:17:28.200 If you give enough, someone will give. 245 00:17:28.200 --> 00:17:31.120 If you do enough, someone will do for you. 246 00:17:31.120 --> 00:17:32.480 And so you're breathing out. 247 00:17:35.200 --> 00:17:37.800 And you keep breathing out. 248 00:17:37.800 --> 00:17:41.160 We have to breathe out, and we have to breathe in. 249 00:17:41.160 --> 00:17:43.880 Love is the same way. 250 00:17:43.920 --> 00:17:48.880 Money is the same way, OK? 251 00:17:51.720 --> 00:17:56.440 I see God as love, money as worldly game. 252 00:17:56.440 --> 00:17:57.960 We must play to function. 253 00:17:57.960 --> 00:18:01.800 Ah, so you've got a separation going on, Mary. 254 00:18:01.800 --> 00:18:04.680 That's a disconnect. 255 00:18:04.680 --> 00:18:06.560 It's a disconnect. 256 00:18:06.560 --> 00:18:07.600 We're going to see. 257 00:18:07.600 --> 00:18:09.120 Do you know in the Bible, do you know 258 00:18:09.120 --> 00:18:13.720 Jesus talked more about money than just about every topic? 259 00:18:14.720 --> 00:18:22.080 And I'm going to go into that whole idea of money, 260 00:18:22.080 --> 00:18:22.840 and it's not money. 261 00:18:22.840 --> 00:18:25.560 It's the love of money that is the root of evil 262 00:18:25.560 --> 00:18:27.520 that's misquoted. 263 00:18:27.520 --> 00:18:31.320 But man, did I buy into that one, and maybe you did too. 264 00:18:31.320 --> 00:18:35.000 So I came from an affluent background. 265 00:18:35.000 --> 00:18:40.640 My dad made his first million back in the, like, 40s. 266 00:18:40.760 --> 00:18:43.880 Anyway, I didn't get any of it, but I got a lot 267 00:18:43.880 --> 00:18:45.120 of the learning from it. 268 00:18:45.120 --> 00:18:48.640 Watched him make millions, lose millions, 269 00:18:48.640 --> 00:18:52.920 lived in a very beautiful, I lived in Rolling Hills Rancho 270 00:18:52.920 --> 00:18:56.400 Palo Verde in Southern California, 271 00:18:56.400 --> 00:18:59.600 and had horses, and showed horses, 272 00:18:59.600 --> 00:19:01.800 an indoor swimming pool. 273 00:19:01.800 --> 00:19:04.760 I grew up until the time I was about 12 274 00:19:04.760 --> 00:19:08.040 in a very affluent environment. 275 00:19:08.040 --> 00:19:12.440 But I grew up with a mother who was bipolar, 276 00:19:12.440 --> 00:19:18.640 addicted to pain meds, a father that was alcoholic, 277 00:19:18.640 --> 00:19:27.440 sexually abusive, a pedophile, and very domestically violent. 278 00:19:27.440 --> 00:19:30.960 So I grew up, you know, beautiful Christmas trees 279 00:19:30.960 --> 00:19:33.120 going through the windows, ashtrays 280 00:19:33.120 --> 00:19:34.280 going through fish tanks. 281 00:19:34.280 --> 00:19:35.720 You know, when you're a little kid, 282 00:19:35.760 --> 00:19:40.800 I grew up in absolute trauma and absolute craziness. 283 00:19:40.800 --> 00:19:42.280 So there's a lot of, we're going to talk 284 00:19:42.280 --> 00:19:43.800 about this in just a second, there's 285 00:19:43.800 --> 00:19:46.320 a lot of decisions that you made about love 286 00:19:46.320 --> 00:19:51.960 and about money in your early, early formative years, OK? 287 00:19:51.960 --> 00:19:58.440 And for me, what I got is money makes people crazy, OK? 288 00:19:58.440 --> 00:20:00.600 I don't want any. 289 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:05.000 So when I found Christ or Christ found me at 17 290 00:20:05.080 --> 00:20:07.920 and they mis-twisted that verse 291 00:20:07.920 --> 00:20:12.180 and I thought money was evil and I agree, I don't want any. 292 00:20:13.640 --> 00:20:16.240 So you wonder then why there's a struggle 293 00:20:16.240 --> 00:20:21.240 because of these beliefs that happen to us. 294 00:20:24.200 --> 00:20:28.320 And so we end up carrying these beliefs 295 00:20:28.320 --> 00:20:30.960 and the same beliefs for money 296 00:20:30.960 --> 00:20:34.160 and the same beliefs for God 297 00:20:34.160 --> 00:20:36.460 usually are happening in our life 298 00:20:36.460 --> 00:20:40.880 and I think you're gonna get some ahas as we go, okay? 299 00:20:40.880 --> 00:20:44.720 And Victoria, you got the belief there's not enough money 300 00:20:44.720 --> 00:20:47.560 and you probably got that there's not enough love too. 301 00:20:48.660 --> 00:20:50.840 So let's look at that for a second. 302 00:20:50.840 --> 00:20:53.200 When you open, if you all have your study guide, 303 00:20:53.200 --> 00:20:56.120 if you don't, we could pop the link in the chat 304 00:20:56.120 --> 00:20:58.640 because you're gonna wanna take notes. 305 00:20:58.640 --> 00:21:00.000 So if you need the study guide, 306 00:21:00.000 --> 00:21:02.360 you could say need study guide, 307 00:21:02.360 --> 00:21:04.960 we'll make sure you got it, but you could be taking notes. 308 00:21:04.960 --> 00:21:09.320 So it opens with the question, 309 00:21:09.320 --> 00:21:14.320 has Disney shaped your view of love? 310 00:21:14.540 --> 00:21:16.580 Most of us grew up on Disney. 311 00:21:17.840 --> 00:21:22.840 Has Disney shaped your view of love? 312 00:21:26.340 --> 00:21:27.320 Okay, she just popped, 313 00:21:27.320 --> 00:21:29.400 those of you saying need the study guide, there it is. 314 00:21:29.400 --> 00:21:31.520 She just popped the link in the chat 315 00:21:31.520 --> 00:21:35.120 so that you guys can have the study guide, okay? 316 00:21:35.120 --> 00:21:38.600 And if you can print it out, you can take notes in there, 317 00:21:38.600 --> 00:21:40.880 but you could be looking at it as well. 318 00:21:40.880 --> 00:21:45.880 So from childhood, we were taught some things about love 319 00:21:50.040 --> 00:21:55.040 and one of them that we were taught, 320 00:21:55.520 --> 00:21:59.900 well, maybe put in the chat, put in the chat. 321 00:22:01.120 --> 00:22:03.720 Did Disney shape your view of love? 322 00:22:06.760 --> 00:22:10.160 Did Disney shape your view of love? 323 00:22:10.160 --> 00:22:13.740 Did you grow up thinking love was gonna be a certain way? 324 00:22:16.700 --> 00:22:19.040 Were you waiting for someone to come save you, 325 00:22:20.840 --> 00:22:23.560 rescue you from the evil stepmother 326 00:22:23.600 --> 00:22:27.440 or rescue you from having eaten the poisoned apple 327 00:22:27.440 --> 00:22:30.260 or rescue you from, right? 328 00:22:32.160 --> 00:22:33.000 Okay? 329 00:22:34.680 --> 00:22:39.680 And yeah, save me part in there. 330 00:22:40.160 --> 00:22:41.360 Yeah, Karen. 331 00:22:41.360 --> 00:22:45.280 So waiting for the prince, 332 00:22:45.280 --> 00:22:47.340 so someone else holds your happiness. 333 00:22:47.340 --> 00:22:49.140 I want you guys to think about this. 334 00:22:50.560 --> 00:22:52.680 Someone else hold your happiness. 335 00:22:52.680 --> 00:22:56.320 You're waiting for your happiness and love, 336 00:22:57.320 --> 00:23:00.740 happily ever after to come to you, 337 00:23:03.400 --> 00:23:05.320 rescue you on the white horse 338 00:23:07.000 --> 00:23:10.580 so you can live happily ever after. 339 00:23:12.720 --> 00:23:14.160 Yeah? 340 00:23:14.160 --> 00:23:19.160 So from childhood, we've been taught a couple things. 341 00:23:23.280 --> 00:23:24.720 Yeah, love it. 342 00:23:24.720 --> 00:23:26.360 You guys are seeing this. 343 00:23:26.360 --> 00:23:27.720 I love this, okay? 344 00:23:29.560 --> 00:23:31.360 From childhood, we've been taught, 345 00:23:31.360 --> 00:23:32.840 here's, we're gonna start. 346 00:23:32.840 --> 00:23:35.800 Okay, today is about breaking free 347 00:23:35.800 --> 00:23:37.460 from the limiting beliefs. 348 00:23:38.700 --> 00:23:41.320 Today is about walking in truth. 349 00:23:41.320 --> 00:23:43.880 Today is about being set free. 350 00:23:43.880 --> 00:23:48.240 Today is about bringing transformation, okay? 351 00:23:48.240 --> 00:23:50.660 And so from childhood, 352 00:23:50.660 --> 00:23:54.420 we've been taught that love is something to get. 353 00:23:56.380 --> 00:23:58.040 It's out there. 354 00:23:59.100 --> 00:24:02.860 And we hope that it finds us or comes and rescues us 355 00:24:02.860 --> 00:24:06.580 or we meet it and it just changes our destiny 356 00:24:06.580 --> 00:24:08.180 and everything's all better. 357 00:24:08.180 --> 00:24:11.820 We look at love as something to get. 358 00:24:17.660 --> 00:24:18.860 Okay, good. 359 00:24:19.820 --> 00:24:21.180 Tawana, I love that. 360 00:24:21.180 --> 00:24:22.540 We're gonna talk about that right now. 361 00:24:22.540 --> 00:24:25.980 You're right on, spot on, spot on 362 00:24:26.940 --> 00:24:29.060 because that's the next thing I say. 363 00:24:29.060 --> 00:24:31.580 So we've been taught that love is something to get. 364 00:24:31.580 --> 00:24:36.500 A prince rescues the princess or here's the alternative. 365 00:24:38.380 --> 00:24:43.380 We must earn love by being good enough. 366 00:24:45.100 --> 00:24:47.300 Do we have any strivers in the house? 367 00:24:47.300 --> 00:24:48.940 Put strive in the chat. 368 00:24:48.940 --> 00:24:51.140 Do we have any strivers? 369 00:24:51.140 --> 00:24:56.140 Working hard to be accepted, to be loved, to be received. 370 00:24:58.420 --> 00:25:00.180 Did any of you? 371 00:25:00.800 --> 00:25:10.720 have love in the form of affection and attention pulled away if you weren't a good girl. 372 00:25:13.920 --> 00:25:14.640 Any of you? 373 00:25:16.800 --> 00:25:21.520 How many of you? You guys are connecting with me here. I think I'm, I think I've got 374 00:25:21.520 --> 00:25:26.400 some like-minded sisters here. Okay. All right. 375 00:25:26.400 --> 00:25:38.240 Good. Had to be perfect. Yep. Yep. Okay. Cindy says no. So maybe you grew up in a beautiful 376 00:25:38.240 --> 00:25:44.400 home of love. That's awesome. That's so awesome. Okay. But most of us, if you wonder why you're 377 00:25:44.400 --> 00:25:53.040 still striving and why you're striving so hard to get money, you're striving so hard to get love, 378 00:25:53.520 --> 00:25:58.640 we're getting to the roots of that. So I want you to journal right there real quick. I want you just, 379 00:25:58.640 --> 00:26:03.280 we're going to get you started. Today's just like a prime the pump, get you started. You're going to 380 00:26:03.280 --> 00:26:08.400 go deep with God. You're going to have some tools to transform, but I want you to write down in the 381 00:26:08.400 --> 00:26:17.200 journal right now. How did you first learn about love? What was the message? How did you learn? 382 00:26:17.600 --> 00:26:22.960 The message? How did you learn? I learned that you better work hard. You want affection from 383 00:26:22.960 --> 00:26:29.520 your father. You better be up early, not sleeping. You better be busy. You better be making it happen. 384 00:26:31.040 --> 00:26:35.760 You would get, you better get all A's, no B's because we'd be talking about the B. 385 00:26:38.720 --> 00:26:46.240 So if I did that, if I got first prize in the horse show championship, 386 00:26:48.000 --> 00:26:55.280 yeah. Asla, all A's. Yeah. Loved. Accepted. Okay. 387 00:26:59.840 --> 00:27:06.080 Yeah. Animals were there for me though, not always humans. Okay. So did you learn that? 388 00:27:06.080 --> 00:27:10.160 This is what I want you journaling. What'd you learn from love? That love is not safe. 389 00:27:11.120 --> 00:27:14.560 You know, I learned that the people are supposed to protect me. 390 00:27:16.240 --> 00:27:22.480 We're the ones hurting me. So I learned love is not safe. These are things that you're still, 391 00:27:23.120 --> 00:27:31.440 if you have not healed from, is still coming. Okay. That's so beautiful. Susan learned in church, 392 00:27:31.440 --> 00:27:36.960 Jesus loved me. This I know for the Bible tells me so. Beautiful. So you got introduced to love 393 00:27:37.120 --> 00:27:46.640 early. Love that. So how did you first learn about love and what was the message? I learned that what 394 00:27:46.640 --> 00:27:50.880 I thought was love betrayed me. Okay. These are, these are truths because what we're going to do 395 00:27:50.880 --> 00:27:55.280 today is break through these limiting beliefs and guess what? They also apply to your health. 396 00:27:55.280 --> 00:28:05.200 They apply to your finance, apply to your business. So write it down. Take a minute. 397 00:28:06.160 --> 00:28:16.080 How'd you first learn about love and what did it teach you? Was it safe? Did it feel good? Was it 398 00:28:16.080 --> 00:28:25.040 manipulative? Abused by parents, sisters, sexually abused by a teacher, doctor, and therapist, all 399 00:28:25.040 --> 00:28:33.040 who were supposed to be safe. Yes. I feel for you sister. Same, same. So often the ones we were 400 00:28:33.040 --> 00:28:41.680 supposed to protect us did not. Okay. Goes away at any moment. My mom went through three divorces 401 00:28:41.680 --> 00:28:48.880 by the time I was an adult. Okay. These, these messages, and thank you for sharing in here and 402 00:28:48.880 --> 00:28:53.280 because it blesses everyone to know that you're not alone and we're all going through this, 403 00:28:53.280 --> 00:29:00.400 but these are the messages that are still driving you if you have not dug in to replace them with 404 00:29:00.400 --> 00:29:05.440 God's truth. And that's what we're doing here. That's the purpose of today. We're not lingering 405 00:29:05.440 --> 00:29:09.760 there. We're not staying. This is not psychotherapy. Yes. My master's was in marriage and family 406 00:29:09.760 --> 00:29:14.480 counseling, but we're not dealing with the past. We're moving in the future and we're living in now. 407 00:29:14.480 --> 00:29:19.200 This is just an awareness exercise to go, huh? Where did I get my beliefs about love? And where 408 00:29:19.200 --> 00:29:26.960 did I get my beliefs about money? Because we assign a meaning to everything. Okay. I was always a 409 00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:36.560 striver. It was innate. And I was praised by my mom and love was not withheld or perfection was 410 00:29:36.560 --> 00:29:43.840 not forced, but I was criticized by other families for being goody two-shoes. Okay. Yeah. All of this 411 00:29:43.840 --> 00:29:49.280 is, is affecting where we are now. Thank you for, for sharing all of you that are writing that. 412 00:29:50.240 --> 00:29:56.720 Okay. One of the first things when I was spending time, those of you that know 413 00:29:58.000 --> 00:29:59.840 my morning spiritual practice. 414 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:05.600 is most important. It's the first thing I do when I coach someone. I was talking to Cindy, 415 00:30:05.600 --> 00:30:10.400 that's where we start. And how do you have a successful morning spiritual practice? 416 00:30:11.360 --> 00:30:17.360 And part of that for me is journaling. And I have a unique system that I journal and 417 00:30:17.360 --> 00:30:22.080 those that I've shared it with that use it. It takes a minute to learn and do it, 418 00:30:22.080 --> 00:30:26.640 but it's very powerful. And it goes like this. It's a conversation with God 419 00:30:27.520 --> 00:30:37.760 with a pink gel pen. I ask God my questions, what I want to know, whatever. Okay. And 420 00:30:41.040 --> 00:30:47.360 yeah, love it. So it only takes one Cindy. So the mom was love and the dad showed the criticism 421 00:30:47.360 --> 00:30:53.200 and the performance and the hard worker and the tough. And that probably carried over to the men 422 00:30:54.160 --> 00:31:00.160 that you attracted critical criticism, probably carried into yourself, self-criticism, 423 00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:08.000 this stuff lives on. Okay. So journaling, I take a pink pen and I ask God questions 424 00:31:08.000 --> 00:31:22.560 and I pray. Okay. And then I change to my purple gel pen. And we know historically that God will 425 00:31:22.640 --> 00:31:31.280 write through those who are open that God, the Bible says that, that his sheep hear his voice 426 00:31:32.480 --> 00:31:38.800 and that this is a mark of, of walking with the Holy spirit is being able to hear from God. 427 00:31:38.800 --> 00:31:43.760 And one of those ways is through writing. The Bible was written as the Holy spirit inspired 428 00:31:43.760 --> 00:31:49.760 human beings to write. And I believe that the Bible says there's two kinds of word, 429 00:31:49.760 --> 00:31:56.080 right? There's the written word and there's the rainbow word that revealed word. So God 430 00:31:56.080 --> 00:32:00.960 is still speaking. He's still revealing. He still wants us in conversation with him. 431 00:32:01.680 --> 00:32:10.000 And so you allow God to write through you with the purple. So I asked God, 432 00:32:10.960 --> 00:32:19.760 tell me the truth about love. Begin to teach me about love. I use these hard bound journals and 433 00:32:19.760 --> 00:32:28.400 you can see in my journals, there's always, you know, pink and purple as this conversation is 434 00:32:28.960 --> 00:32:34.480 happening. And what's so profound is a lot of it. I have to go look up. It's not something I knew 435 00:32:34.800 --> 00:32:46.960 or even understood. And it often creates a very powerful shift. So here is where I asked God, 436 00:32:49.200 --> 00:32:58.160 I said, teach me, speak to me about the truth of love. Show me love through your eyes. 437 00:32:59.040 --> 00:33:09.760 And this is what God said, child first is understanding the nature of love. You've got 438 00:33:09.760 --> 00:33:15.360 to understand the nature of love. Here's the first thing he gave me. Number one, this is one of the 439 00:33:15.360 --> 00:33:19.840 words I had to look up. I don't use this word. I don't go around thinking about this word. I don't 440 00:33:19.840 --> 00:33:25.520 speak. This word is not in my normal vocabulary. It's when you know the Lord is speaking. Number 441 00:33:26.480 --> 00:33:39.200 one, it's intrinsic. I-N-T-R-I-N-S-I-C. Intrinsic. I had to go look up that word, 442 00:33:39.200 --> 00:33:43.120 tell you the truth. I kind of had a vague sense that I knew what it was, but I really, 443 00:33:44.400 --> 00:33:50.800 not a word I think about. Love is intrinsic. Belonging naturally. Belonging, when I looked 444 00:33:50.800 --> 00:33:57.760 it up, belonging naturally, belonging to the real nature of a thing, not dependent on external 445 00:33:57.760 --> 00:34:08.880 circumstances, inherent, built in. God says, do you see it's already in you? It can never be 446 00:34:09.440 --> 00:34:15.440 taken from you. If something's intrinsic, it can't be added to and it can't be taken away. 447 00:34:16.400 --> 00:34:24.080 That in itself, I want you to think about that. Is that an aha for any of you? Put aha in the chat. 448 00:34:26.159 --> 00:34:32.480 Love, because how many of you have been taught it's something you try to get, you work for, 449 00:34:32.480 --> 00:34:37.840 you strive for, it's going to come to you. It's going to save you. You'll just find it. 450 00:34:38.159 --> 00:34:43.199 Find it. How many of you have seen love as outside of yourself? 451 00:34:48.000 --> 00:34:52.560 The truth, biblically, and we'll support all of this stuff biblically, 452 00:34:52.560 --> 00:34:59.520 because you know everything I do, right? It's scripture, it's science, it's strategy. Any ahas? 453 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:09.440 Hey. Good, Cindy. Love it. A-ha. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit. It's intrinsic. Good. 454 00:35:11.040 --> 00:35:16.400 That's a really good one, Peggy. I could go on a long rabbit trail about that one. That's a 455 00:35:16.400 --> 00:35:22.480 really good one. I won't right now. Karen. In the past couple of years, I realized I'm a child of 456 00:35:22.480 --> 00:35:29.360 God and that love is the base of all things. It's in you. You are love. You are created by love. 457 00:35:29.360 --> 00:35:37.760 You're created for love. This alone, when you come to that revelation, can start breaking 458 00:35:38.400 --> 00:35:43.760 the belief in lack. Guess what? Guess what's driving you right now for most of you? 459 00:35:44.560 --> 00:35:48.000 The first thing we have to get free from is the belief in lack. 460 00:35:49.440 --> 00:35:55.600 That I need to get something. It's an external locus of control. You're putting the power 461 00:35:55.600 --> 00:36:03.040 externally, outside of yourself. I need to get money. I need to get love. I need to get, right? 462 00:36:04.800 --> 00:36:13.040 And the fear, the lack, fear is always lack-based. I'm going to run out of love. I'm going to run 463 00:36:13.040 --> 00:36:21.200 out of health. I'm going to run out of money. I'm going to run out of time. Lack, lack, lack. 464 00:36:22.160 --> 00:36:24.960 Am I talking to anyone? Is this, is this useful? 465 00:36:27.760 --> 00:36:32.240 One of the first things in renewing our mind, the Bible says we're transformed. 466 00:36:32.960 --> 00:36:40.560 Transformed. That means completely, radically changed. We're transformed by the re, do it again, 467 00:36:41.120 --> 00:36:50.080 new, make brand new, renewing of our mind. Now, this is biblical, how transformation happens. 468 00:36:51.600 --> 00:36:57.200 It's physical. We're literally creating new neural pathways. If you spend a lot of time 469 00:36:57.200 --> 00:37:01.760 meditating on lack, believing in lack, thinking about lack, striving to break lack, 470 00:37:02.320 --> 00:37:12.640 then that's the natural highway that your thoughts go on. See? And God's breaking that spirit of lack. 471 00:37:13.360 --> 00:37:21.280 So the shift you see there on, we're still on page one. If love is not something you achieve, 472 00:37:21.280 --> 00:37:27.520 it's who you are. It's intrinsic. And the first prosperous shift, number one, 473 00:37:27.520 --> 00:37:32.320 when you go through these series, we always have prosperous shifts. So prosperous shift number one, 474 00:37:32.880 --> 00:37:41.680 love is not something you get. It's your identity. Let that sink in for a minute. 475 00:37:43.600 --> 00:37:50.080 Love is not, it's intrinsic. It's already in you and it's who you are. You were created by love, 476 00:37:50.080 --> 00:38:00.320 for love, our love. It's not something that you get. This is why I believe so many relationships 477 00:38:00.320 --> 00:38:07.680 struggle so much because they're living transactional. What are you going to give me? 478 00:38:07.680 --> 00:38:15.600 What are you going to do for me? How are you going to heal me, carry me, be my strength, 479 00:38:15.600 --> 00:38:23.040 be my whatever, be my better half? What? You don't have a half. You're a whole. Shalom. Nothing 480 00:38:23.040 --> 00:38:29.120 missing, nothing broken. You have Christ in you, the hope of glory that does not rely on another 481 00:38:29.120 --> 00:38:35.680 person. Then you're able to come from a totally different place for a relationship, which we'll 482 00:38:35.680 --> 00:38:46.320 talk about. So love is not something you get. It's your identity. Who's getting an aha? Okay. 483 00:38:46.320 --> 00:38:52.480 That face, Mary, I want some explanation. I don't speak emojis. Someone tell me. I think 484 00:38:52.480 --> 00:38:59.760 that's a throwing. Is that a throwing up face? What is that? So talk to me here. You guys are 485 00:38:59.760 --> 00:39:08.960 getting me with your emojis. Talk to me. What does that mean? Okay. Yeah. So you guys are ahas. 486 00:39:10.560 --> 00:39:15.440 This alone, if you've got nothing else, if you could start moving from love, it's not something 487 00:39:15.440 --> 00:39:24.320 outside of yourself, nor is abundance. When we talk about money, nor is healing. We can 488 00:39:24.320 --> 00:39:29.520 get tools out there. We can grow and all of that, but intrinsically. 489 00:39:31.200 --> 00:39:38.240 So let me just divert right here really quick. I want to get pure on scripture here. Okay. 490 00:39:40.480 --> 00:39:46.880 You can think like the world thinks, and that's Romans 12.2 that talks about being transformed 491 00:39:46.880 --> 00:39:53.520 by the renewing of your mind. The first part of that verse, and I think it's down on page 492 00:39:54.320 --> 00:39:59.760 you've got it in there. We'll come to it. I saw it. It's on my page. It's on page like 493 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.840 or it's in part two, but basically it says this, 494 00:40:06.200 --> 00:40:11.200 do not be conformed, con means come together, 495 00:40:11.420 --> 00:40:15.680 formed by, do not be conformed by the world 496 00:40:15.680 --> 00:40:18.120 and its superficial traditions. 497 00:40:18.120 --> 00:40:21.000 But, so it's telling you what not to be, 498 00:40:21.000 --> 00:40:24.640 do not be conformed, that's like a jello mold. 499 00:40:24.640 --> 00:40:27.920 You pour the jello in, it takes the form of the mold, 500 00:40:27.920 --> 00:40:29.040 you take it out of the mold, 501 00:40:29.040 --> 00:40:31.960 it forever has the shape of the mold, okay? 502 00:40:31.960 --> 00:40:33.480 That's what the world can do, 503 00:40:33.480 --> 00:40:35.540 so there's the world's reasoning, 504 00:40:36.600 --> 00:40:41.600 which is fear-based, lack-based, separation-based, okay? 505 00:40:41.760 --> 00:40:45.200 Do not be conformed, con means come together, 506 00:40:45.200 --> 00:40:50.200 formed by the world, but instead be transformed, 507 00:40:52.360 --> 00:40:55.140 not conformed, transformed. 508 00:40:56.140 --> 00:40:58.460 Transformed is permanent change, 509 00:40:58.460 --> 00:41:00.720 it's caterpillar to butterfly. 510 00:41:00.720 --> 00:41:03.320 The butterfly's never gonna be a caterpillar again, 511 00:41:03.320 --> 00:41:05.020 so this is talking about permanent, 512 00:41:05.020 --> 00:41:08.340 it's not a little change, I stuck to the diet for 30 days 513 00:41:08.340 --> 00:41:09.900 and then I fell off the wagon, no. 514 00:41:09.900 --> 00:41:12.100 Transformed is permanent change, 515 00:41:12.100 --> 00:41:17.100 so be transformed by the renewing of your mind. 516 00:41:17.920 --> 00:41:20.500 So if we're gonna think biblically, 517 00:41:20.500 --> 00:41:23.160 it's always from the inside out. 518 00:41:23.200 --> 00:41:25.600 The world is the outside in. 519 00:41:25.600 --> 00:41:29.320 You need makeup and a facelift, you need that purse, 520 00:41:29.320 --> 00:41:33.880 you need that job, you need that car, you need that man. 521 00:41:33.880 --> 00:41:36.940 When I get, when I get clients, when I get money, 522 00:41:36.940 --> 00:41:39.280 when I get fame, when I get recognized, 523 00:41:39.280 --> 00:41:41.600 when I get something from the outside, 524 00:41:41.600 --> 00:41:44.640 then I'll be happy, healthy, prosperous. 525 00:41:44.640 --> 00:41:46.640 That's the world's perspective. 526 00:41:46.640 --> 00:41:50.400 When I get something outside of myself, then I'll be happy. 527 00:41:50.400 --> 00:41:52.440 And so we go after it, we go after fame, 528 00:41:52.440 --> 00:41:54.960 we go after recognition, we go after whatever, 529 00:41:54.960 --> 00:41:58.300 but it's outside of us, that's the world. 530 00:41:59.940 --> 00:42:04.940 God says, out of the heart flow the issues. 531 00:42:07.360 --> 00:42:12.360 So the Bible says, as a man thinketh in his heart, 532 00:42:15.160 --> 00:42:16.320 so is he. 533 00:42:18.040 --> 00:42:21.120 When I first read that, I've been reading the Bible 534 00:42:21.120 --> 00:42:23.600 through all the way through, since I was 17, 535 00:42:23.600 --> 00:42:25.680 I've read it in many translations 536 00:42:25.680 --> 00:42:27.140 over and over and over again. 537 00:42:28.920 --> 00:42:30.680 I would read that and I think, man, 538 00:42:30.680 --> 00:42:32.280 they were really backwards back then. 539 00:42:32.280 --> 00:42:34.480 They thought that we thought with our heart. 540 00:42:35.960 --> 00:42:38.760 We all know we think with our mind 541 00:42:38.760 --> 00:42:41.440 because we live in the age of reason. 542 00:42:41.440 --> 00:42:43.660 Wow, were they advanced. 543 00:42:44.640 --> 00:42:46.880 Science has told the truth of it. 544 00:42:46.880 --> 00:42:49.840 Your heart is an afferent organ. 545 00:42:49.840 --> 00:42:50.900 What does that mean? 546 00:42:51.680 --> 00:42:54.620 Your heart is sending more signals to your brain 547 00:42:54.620 --> 00:42:56.980 than your brain is to your heart. 548 00:42:56.980 --> 00:43:00.440 Your heart is filled with lots and lots 549 00:43:00.440 --> 00:43:03.660 of little mini brains. 550 00:43:03.660 --> 00:43:07.060 Your heart is pumping chemicals to your body, 551 00:43:07.060 --> 00:43:10.100 neuropeptides, Candice Pert named them, 552 00:43:10.100 --> 00:43:12.960 molecules of emotion, taking the emotion 553 00:43:12.960 --> 00:43:16.780 and flooding your body with that emotion. 554 00:43:16.780 --> 00:43:18.500 And it is shaping your health. 555 00:43:19.300 --> 00:43:24.300 And because we're electromagnetic beings, 556 00:43:27.060 --> 00:43:30.520 so think heart, your heart stops, you give it electricity. 557 00:43:31.940 --> 00:43:35.240 Think MRI, magnetic resonance. 558 00:43:36.420 --> 00:43:38.100 We're electromagnetic beings. 559 00:43:38.100 --> 00:43:41.140 Let's be real, that's not woo, that's pure science. 560 00:43:43.120 --> 00:43:47.180 We are radiating a frequency eight to 12 feet 561 00:43:47.220 --> 00:43:48.580 outside of our body. 562 00:43:51.980 --> 00:43:55.180 If you don't believe that, just think about something. 563 00:43:55.180 --> 00:43:57.780 Have you ever walked in a room? 564 00:43:57.780 --> 00:43:59.700 Have you ever been around a couple? 565 00:43:59.700 --> 00:44:00.660 It might have been your parents, 566 00:44:00.660 --> 00:44:02.180 might have been someone, a friend or whatever. 567 00:44:02.180 --> 00:44:05.520 You walked in a room and they didn't say a word. 568 00:44:05.520 --> 00:44:08.360 They tried to put a smile on for you, 569 00:44:08.360 --> 00:44:11.340 but they had been like fighting, arguing. 570 00:44:11.340 --> 00:44:13.100 You ever walked into a room like that 571 00:44:13.100 --> 00:44:16.480 and we say it was so thick you could cut it with a knife. 572 00:44:16.480 --> 00:44:17.960 Any of you know what I'm talking about? 573 00:44:17.960 --> 00:44:19.920 Say yes in the chat. 574 00:44:19.920 --> 00:44:22.560 Any of you know what I'm talking about? 575 00:44:22.560 --> 00:44:24.160 What the heck was that? 576 00:44:25.520 --> 00:44:29.320 Energy, we're all so sensitive to that. 577 00:44:29.320 --> 00:44:31.200 So we're radiating this energy. 578 00:44:31.200 --> 00:44:34.920 So love can be radiated, we're gonna practice that. 579 00:44:35.780 --> 00:44:39.520 Hate can be radiated, fear can be radiated. 580 00:44:39.520 --> 00:44:42.420 And by the way, faith and fear both attract. 581 00:44:42.420 --> 00:44:45.780 The Bible says that which I feared has come upon me. 582 00:44:47.480 --> 00:44:48.320 Okay? 583 00:44:48.320 --> 00:44:50.520 So faith and fear both attract. 584 00:44:50.520 --> 00:44:53.800 And faith and fear cannot coexist. 585 00:44:53.800 --> 00:44:56.920 Fear and love cannot coexist, they're opposite. 586 00:44:56.920 --> 00:44:57.760 Okay? 587 00:44:59.480 --> 00:45:00.320 All right. 588 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.940 So just get this, so you know, am I thinking, 589 00:45:04.940 --> 00:45:06.760 am I conforming to the world, 590 00:45:06.760 --> 00:45:10.200 which means I think that what I need is outside of myself, 591 00:45:10.200 --> 00:45:11.800 and that's what I'm striving for 592 00:45:11.800 --> 00:45:14.440 in order to be happy, healthy, prosperous, 593 00:45:14.440 --> 00:45:17.840 or I'm gonna reason biblically 594 00:45:19.400 --> 00:45:22.120 that out of the heart flow all the issues of life. 595 00:45:22.120 --> 00:45:24.240 The Bible says, above all, guard your heart, 596 00:45:24.240 --> 00:45:26.160 for out of it the mouth speaks, 597 00:45:26.160 --> 00:45:28.820 out of it flows the issues of life, 598 00:45:30.600 --> 00:45:32.760 furthermore, we're called, biblically, 599 00:45:32.760 --> 00:45:34.820 we're called the temple of the Holy Spirit, 600 00:45:34.820 --> 00:45:37.100 we're a container of God. 601 00:45:37.100 --> 00:45:39.760 The Bible says we're a temple of the Holy Spirit. 602 00:45:41.480 --> 00:45:43.820 So the Holy Spirit lives in us. 603 00:45:46.900 --> 00:45:50.820 That's why we have Christ in me, the hope of glory. 604 00:45:51.700 --> 00:45:54.440 It also says we have the mind of Christ. 605 00:45:54.440 --> 00:45:59.440 It says out of your innermost being, 606 00:46:00.560 --> 00:46:03.040 another word for heart or deep spirit, 607 00:46:03.040 --> 00:46:05.200 out of your innermost being 608 00:46:05.200 --> 00:46:07.540 will flow rivers of living water. 609 00:46:08.560 --> 00:46:11.700 The woman at the well was trying to get 610 00:46:11.700 --> 00:46:13.640 what she wanted outside. 611 00:46:14.640 --> 00:46:16.540 Getting the water, of course we need water, 612 00:46:16.540 --> 00:46:20.300 we have a body, we're a body, spirit, soul, right? 613 00:46:20.300 --> 00:46:22.640 We have spirit, soul, and body. 614 00:46:22.640 --> 00:46:25.120 So the body needs food, air, 615 00:46:25.120 --> 00:46:26.400 we have to take care of our body. 616 00:46:26.400 --> 00:46:28.280 So she's there getting her water 617 00:46:28.280 --> 00:46:30.440 and Jesus asked her for a drink. 618 00:46:31.720 --> 00:46:34.880 And she's tripped out, number one, he's a man, 619 00:46:34.880 --> 00:46:37.320 number two, he's a Jew and she's a Samaritan, 620 00:46:37.320 --> 00:46:39.000 like there's no conversation 621 00:46:39.000 --> 00:46:40.440 and he's asking her for a drink. 622 00:46:40.440 --> 00:46:43.360 And she's like, you don't have anything to draw from. 623 00:46:43.360 --> 00:46:45.000 And he did what he often did, 624 00:46:45.000 --> 00:46:46.640 he would take what's right in front 625 00:46:46.640 --> 00:46:49.400 and give the spiritual corollary. 626 00:46:49.400 --> 00:46:51.320 He said, if you only knew who it was 627 00:46:51.320 --> 00:46:52.600 that was asking for a drink, 628 00:46:52.600 --> 00:46:54.200 you would ask for a drink 629 00:46:54.200 --> 00:46:56.560 and I would give you living water 630 00:46:56.560 --> 00:46:58.800 and you would never thirst again. 631 00:46:58.800 --> 00:47:01.020 But whoa, I want some of that. 632 00:47:03.440 --> 00:47:05.680 Rivers of living water will flow 633 00:47:05.680 --> 00:47:06.840 out of your innermost being. 634 00:47:06.840 --> 00:47:09.400 So I want you first to just think about for a minute, 635 00:47:09.400 --> 00:47:11.460 you might wanna make a note there. 636 00:47:11.460 --> 00:47:15.040 Have I been living, have I been conforming to the world 637 00:47:15.040 --> 00:47:18.520 that I think what I need to be happy, healthy, prosperous 638 00:47:18.520 --> 00:47:19.640 is outside of me? 639 00:47:19.640 --> 00:47:22.440 Or have I been reasoning biblically 640 00:47:22.440 --> 00:47:24.480 that everything is in me? 641 00:47:24.480 --> 00:47:28.260 Love is already in me, abundance is already in me. 642 00:47:31.280 --> 00:47:32.660 What is it? 643 00:47:32.660 --> 00:47:33.800 I'm curious. 644 00:47:35.000 --> 00:47:37.600 Any ahas, pop ahas in the chat, 645 00:47:37.600 --> 00:47:39.840 is something opening up for you here? 646 00:47:41.080 --> 00:47:42.600 Because this is life-changing. 647 00:47:48.360 --> 00:47:49.200 Any ahas? 648 00:47:50.400 --> 00:47:51.240 Okay. 649 00:47:53.160 --> 00:47:54.520 All right. 650 00:47:54.520 --> 00:47:56.240 Now, we're gonna dive deeper. 651 00:47:56.240 --> 00:47:59.040 That was just to like wet your appetite. 652 00:47:59.040 --> 00:48:00.000 But here's what we're gonna do. 653 00:48:00.000 --> 00:48:02.760 I know the mind can only absorb what the seed can absorb 654 00:48:02.760 --> 00:48:05.760 or however that saying goes, okay? 655 00:48:05.760 --> 00:48:09.680 Quick five-minute break, quick five-minute break. 656 00:48:09.680 --> 00:48:11.600 Get up, stretch, get a drink of water 657 00:48:11.600 --> 00:48:12.760 because I want you to get this 658 00:48:12.760 --> 00:48:14.880 because that was just laying a foundation. 659 00:48:14.880 --> 00:48:16.160 We're gonna get really juicy here. 660 00:48:16.160 --> 00:48:18.600 We're gonna get really practical, okay? 661 00:48:18.600 --> 00:48:21.040 So get up, stretch, get a drink of water, 662 00:48:21.040 --> 00:48:23.400 move right at the top of the hour. 663 00:48:23.400 --> 00:48:25.880 We're gonna start back again, okay? 664 00:48:34.960 --> 00:48:37.440 You wanna pause for the- 665 00:48:37.440 --> 00:48:38.280 The recording? 666 00:48:38.280 --> 00:48:39.100 Thank you. 667 00:48:42.760 --> 00:48:43.680 Where is it? 668 00:48:48.600 --> 00:48:49.440 Okay. 669 00:49:01.280 --> 00:49:02.120 Okay. 670 00:49:02.120 --> 00:49:07.120 Welcome back, welcome back, welcome back. 671 00:49:10.320 --> 00:49:15.320 So I would love, what was, from this first part, 672 00:49:16.120 --> 00:49:17.800 what was your biggest takeaway? 673 00:49:19.600 --> 00:49:22.520 We want this to land, we want this to be practical, 674 00:49:22.520 --> 00:49:24.600 we want you to be able to apply it. 675 00:49:24.600 --> 00:49:26.280 What was your biggest takeaway? 676 00:49:30.640 --> 00:49:33.560 Brenda, I think that Cindy's asking you to repeat 677 00:49:33.560 --> 00:49:35.720 what you had said about the women at the well. 678 00:49:35.720 --> 00:49:36.920 Okay, will do. 679 00:49:36.920 --> 00:49:37.760 Thank you. 680 00:49:39.920 --> 00:49:44.920 So the woman at the well was focusing external on the water. 681 00:49:44.920 --> 00:49:47.280 External on the water. 682 00:49:48.440 --> 00:49:50.340 And it was all about getting the water, 683 00:49:50.340 --> 00:49:53.480 which is natural, we're physical. 684 00:49:53.480 --> 00:49:58.480 And Jesus was trying to teach a difference. 685 00:49:58.920 --> 00:49:59.740 So, 686 00:50:00.720 --> 00:50:03.040 Our body has a physical thirst. 687 00:50:04.160 --> 00:50:08.160 Our soul and our spirit has a different thirst. 688 00:50:08.160 --> 00:50:12.820 And physical water can solve our physical thirst. 689 00:50:13.880 --> 00:50:16.280 But we all, any of you know that feeling 690 00:50:16.280 --> 00:50:18.380 of that spiritual thirst, 691 00:50:18.380 --> 00:50:22.560 it's that feeling of knowing there's got to be more. 692 00:50:22.560 --> 00:50:25.620 And no physical thing can solve that. 693 00:50:25.620 --> 00:50:27.560 Any of you know what I'm talking about? 694 00:50:28.540 --> 00:50:32.660 It's that soul hunger, that soul thirst. 695 00:50:33.780 --> 00:50:35.580 Says, I know there's got to be more. 696 00:50:37.180 --> 00:50:41.980 And Jesus was talking that that would come from within, 697 00:50:41.980 --> 00:50:45.220 not the well, but within. 698 00:50:45.220 --> 00:50:47.940 Rivers, the water that I'll give you, 699 00:50:47.940 --> 00:50:50.420 you'll never thirst again. 700 00:50:50.420 --> 00:50:52.620 It's living water. 701 00:50:52.620 --> 00:50:55.120 He was talking spiritual. 702 00:50:55.120 --> 00:50:59.980 And the Bible says rivers of living water will flow 703 00:50:59.980 --> 00:51:01.300 out of our innermost being. 704 00:51:01.300 --> 00:51:02.740 So the supply is coming. 705 00:51:02.740 --> 00:51:05.080 Notice it's coming from inside. 706 00:51:05.080 --> 00:51:07.480 Out of the heart flows the issues of life. 707 00:51:07.480 --> 00:51:09.020 Out of your innermost being 708 00:51:09.020 --> 00:51:13.180 will flow rivers of living water, right? 709 00:51:13.180 --> 00:51:18.180 And so it's realizing that what, 710 00:51:18.420 --> 00:51:20.980 and that's why the Bible says, 711 00:51:20.980 --> 00:51:24.820 what is in you is greater than anything on the outside. 712 00:51:25.520 --> 00:51:29.120 What is in you is greater than anything in the world, okay? 713 00:51:29.120 --> 00:51:30.280 Because it's much stronger. 714 00:51:30.280 --> 00:51:32.600 When you tap into this, you understand this. 715 00:51:32.600 --> 00:51:34.760 You'll never have to get love. 716 00:51:34.760 --> 00:51:37.440 You're going to live from such an abundance of love. 717 00:51:37.440 --> 00:51:39.760 You're going to be able to overflow and give love. 718 00:51:39.760 --> 00:51:42.800 And we talked about some of you that have struggle 719 00:51:42.800 --> 00:51:45.400 receiving, receiving love, receiving money. 720 00:51:45.400 --> 00:51:48.120 It's the same open, receptive heart. 721 00:51:49.540 --> 00:51:51.900 Being able to receive love 722 00:51:51.900 --> 00:51:54.080 because it's not coming from a needy place. 723 00:51:54.100 --> 00:51:55.540 It's not coming from a lack. 724 00:51:55.540 --> 00:51:59.700 It's not coming from a striving and grasping of love. 725 00:51:59.700 --> 00:52:01.860 It is being able to open your heart 726 00:52:01.860 --> 00:52:05.060 to receive all that God has for you. 727 00:52:05.060 --> 00:52:06.760 Love, abundance. 728 00:52:08.620 --> 00:52:10.380 If you look at the people in scripture, 729 00:52:10.380 --> 00:52:11.500 they were the wealthiest. 730 00:52:11.500 --> 00:52:14.740 If God had a problem with abundance or prosperity, 731 00:52:14.740 --> 00:52:16.880 then he really had a problem with Abraham 732 00:52:16.880 --> 00:52:19.940 or had a problem with lot that the land 733 00:52:19.940 --> 00:52:21.060 couldn't even contain them. 734 00:52:21.060 --> 00:52:21.900 They had so much. 735 00:52:21.900 --> 00:52:26.320 Or King David, the most wise and most prosperous. 736 00:52:26.320 --> 00:52:30.440 Or I could go on and on, Esther or Joseph. 737 00:52:30.440 --> 00:52:34.500 So if God has a problem with making people wealthy, 738 00:52:34.500 --> 00:52:36.480 but that's not what the Bible says. 739 00:52:38.840 --> 00:52:40.520 So it's the love of money. 740 00:52:40.520 --> 00:52:42.120 Why is that a problem? 741 00:52:42.120 --> 00:52:43.840 Because it's idolatry. 742 00:52:43.840 --> 00:52:47.240 It's looking that money is your security. 743 00:52:47.240 --> 00:52:49.280 Money is your safety. 744 00:52:49.280 --> 00:52:53.820 Money is where you can get happiness or whatever. 745 00:52:53.820 --> 00:52:57.060 So that's idolatry, the love of money. 746 00:52:57.060 --> 00:52:59.620 And God says, I'll have no other before me. 747 00:52:59.620 --> 00:53:02.980 So the reason that the love of money is the root of evil 748 00:53:02.980 --> 00:53:06.380 is because it's looking for money. 749 00:53:06.380 --> 00:53:09.620 And that word money, by the way, is mammon. 750 00:53:09.620 --> 00:53:14.620 It's looking to money to be your safety, your security. 751 00:53:17.140 --> 00:53:18.780 Your source. 752 00:53:19.280 --> 00:53:22.040 There's one source, which is God. 753 00:53:22.040 --> 00:53:24.800 Everything else is a re-source. 754 00:53:24.800 --> 00:53:28.120 It's already on the earth, the gold, the silver. 755 00:53:28.120 --> 00:53:30.000 All of that is a resource. 756 00:53:30.000 --> 00:53:31.320 It's not the source. 757 00:53:31.320 --> 00:53:33.360 Money is never the source. 758 00:53:33.360 --> 00:53:35.920 If you look to money as your source, 759 00:53:35.920 --> 00:53:37.080 you're going to be disappointed, 760 00:53:37.080 --> 00:53:42.080 and it will be a source of lots of pain and struggle. 761 00:53:43.640 --> 00:53:44.600 All right. 762 00:53:44.620 --> 00:53:49.620 So I want to see here some of your biggest takeaways. 763 00:53:53.860 --> 00:53:54.700 Okay. 764 00:53:54.700 --> 00:53:58.820 Less striving, exude love, not trying to get it. 765 00:53:58.820 --> 00:54:00.540 That is such a big breakthrough. 766 00:54:00.540 --> 00:54:01.900 You guys really get this. 767 00:54:01.900 --> 00:54:03.140 It's so huge. 768 00:54:04.300 --> 00:54:06.500 The woman at the well was thirsty for love. 769 00:54:06.500 --> 00:54:10.500 Yeah, she'd had, what, seven to eight husbands, 100%. 770 00:54:10.500 --> 00:54:12.260 Good, good point. 771 00:54:12.260 --> 00:54:13.500 Good point. 772 00:54:13.500 --> 00:54:14.340 Okay. 773 00:54:16.080 --> 00:54:17.480 Okay. 774 00:54:17.480 --> 00:54:22.480 What's the process that the heart is sending messages? 775 00:54:23.640 --> 00:54:24.840 What just happened? 776 00:54:24.840 --> 00:54:27.160 Computer just went somewhere else. 777 00:54:27.160 --> 00:54:30.120 What's the process the heart is sending messages 778 00:54:33.280 --> 00:54:34.620 to the mind? 779 00:54:34.620 --> 00:54:35.460 Yeah. 780 00:54:35.460 --> 00:54:40.460 So the mind-heart-mouth connection is throughout scripture. 781 00:54:43.960 --> 00:54:48.960 So you think a thought, and the feeling, 782 00:54:49.800 --> 00:54:54.800 the thought won't typically affect you that much, 783 00:54:54.840 --> 00:54:57.120 not to the fullest extent. 784 00:54:57.120 --> 00:55:00.200 So let me give you like a crazy- 785 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.320 is the example. 786 00:55:01.320 --> 00:55:04.520 You could think, I am a duck. 787 00:55:04.520 --> 00:55:05.520 I am a duck. 788 00:55:05.520 --> 00:55:06.440 I am a duck. 789 00:55:06.440 --> 00:55:07.200 I am a duck. 790 00:55:07.200 --> 00:55:09.380 And you're never going to become a duck, right? 791 00:55:09.380 --> 00:55:10.800 So you could think it all you want, 792 00:55:10.800 --> 00:55:12.600 but it's not actually creating the change. 793 00:55:12.600 --> 00:55:16.120 You might act weird or be frustrated. 794 00:55:16.120 --> 00:55:21.120 But if you take a thought and apply the feeling 795 00:55:21.120 --> 00:55:25.000 and you start living in the feeling tonality, 796 00:55:25.000 --> 00:55:28.480 and the science of this now is that every thought 797 00:55:28.560 --> 00:55:29.760 has a frequency. 798 00:55:29.760 --> 00:55:33.080 Frequency means the speed of the wave. 799 00:55:33.080 --> 00:55:36.000 Everything in life is waves, sound waves, air waves, 800 00:55:36.000 --> 00:55:39.280 microwaves, like everything is frequency 801 00:55:39.280 --> 00:55:41.040 in the world that we live in. 802 00:55:41.040 --> 00:55:46.040 And so the frequency, the wavelength 803 00:55:46.560 --> 00:55:51.560 that we're operating at produces a result within the body. 804 00:55:51.560 --> 00:55:56.560 And it actually, if it's below 250, 805 00:56:00.920 --> 00:56:03.840 the frequency, it actually creates dis-ease. 806 00:56:03.840 --> 00:56:08.200 Think about the word dis-ease, dis, out of ease. 807 00:56:08.200 --> 00:56:12.000 When we're out of ease, below 250, 808 00:56:12.000 --> 00:56:13.720 we start having sicknesses. 809 00:56:13.720 --> 00:56:18.720 Now, the neuropeptides, the neuropeptides, 810 00:56:18.920 --> 00:56:23.640 the molecules of emotion link to certain organs in the body. 811 00:56:23.640 --> 00:56:25.240 This is getting into God helping me. 812 00:56:25.240 --> 00:56:27.520 I'm not gonna spend too much time there. 813 00:56:27.520 --> 00:56:32.520 So some of you mentioned criticism, okay? 814 00:56:32.520 --> 00:56:35.900 Criticism will very often affect the kidneys. 815 00:56:39.040 --> 00:56:42.660 Grieving often affect the lungs. 816 00:56:43.660 --> 00:56:48.660 Anger, bitterness, resentment often affect the liver. 817 00:56:52.220 --> 00:56:55.260 So you can begin, and we know these things, 818 00:56:55.260 --> 00:56:57.900 like you go, oh, I just, you know, 819 00:56:57.900 --> 00:57:00.380 I felt it in the pit of my stomach, right? 820 00:57:00.380 --> 00:57:02.420 Or you say, I couldn't stomach that, 821 00:57:02.420 --> 00:57:04.820 or I couldn't digest that, right? 822 00:57:04.820 --> 00:57:09.500 Or, so like we kind of know this, 823 00:57:10.420 --> 00:57:15.420 but the science has really clarified that. 824 00:57:15.980 --> 00:57:19.860 And so when you have the thought, 825 00:57:19.860 --> 00:57:23.600 and then you attach the feeling to it, 826 00:57:23.600 --> 00:57:25.540 and then when you speak it, you harvest it, 827 00:57:25.540 --> 00:57:27.260 and that's what we see all the way through scripture. 828 00:57:27.260 --> 00:57:30.900 If you think with your mind and believe in your heart 829 00:57:30.900 --> 00:57:33.260 and confess, there it is, mind, heart, mouth, 830 00:57:33.260 --> 00:57:34.340 you shall be saved. 831 00:57:34.340 --> 00:57:37.580 I mean, it's the mechanism all the way through scripture. 832 00:57:38.420 --> 00:57:41.900 Okay, hopefully that helps you there. 833 00:57:41.900 --> 00:57:44.900 That's kind of a deep, that's a whole nother subject. 834 00:57:44.900 --> 00:57:49.900 Okay, I've spent a lot of my life giving myself, 835 00:57:52.860 --> 00:57:55.300 this crazy thing keeps taking me somewhere else. 836 00:57:55.300 --> 00:58:00.140 Okay, giving myself physical to get love and money. 837 00:58:00.140 --> 00:58:03.620 Yes, work as a hairstylist, form is aerobic. 838 00:58:03.620 --> 00:58:07.020 Okay, okay, all physically draining. 839 00:58:07.060 --> 00:58:12.060 Okay, yes, if it's where are you coming from? 840 00:58:13.820 --> 00:58:16.580 Okay, so many of you over givers, 841 00:58:16.580 --> 00:58:19.780 if you're giving from the rivers of living water, 842 00:58:19.780 --> 00:58:22.260 if you're giving from the incredible abundance, 843 00:58:22.260 --> 00:58:25.260 you're so filled up, a full cup spills out all over 844 00:58:25.260 --> 00:58:29.340 and is giving all the time, you'll never be drained. 845 00:58:29.340 --> 00:58:32.420 Okay, I'm giving you today, 846 00:58:32.420 --> 00:58:35.100 and I'm gonna be more fired up and more energized 847 00:58:35.100 --> 00:58:37.460 at the end of this three hours than when I started. 848 00:58:37.460 --> 00:58:39.140 I'm operating in my gifts 849 00:58:39.140 --> 00:58:41.300 and I'm giving you out of my abundance. 850 00:58:41.300 --> 00:58:42.780 I'm just spilling out over you, 851 00:58:42.780 --> 00:58:44.300 it's not gonna make me tired, 852 00:58:44.300 --> 00:58:46.540 it's not gonna make me feel like I'm lacking, 853 00:58:46.540 --> 00:58:48.580 like I need to go replenish myself. 854 00:58:48.580 --> 00:58:50.420 In fact, I'm gonna leave here and tonight, 855 00:58:50.420 --> 00:58:52.020 I'm gonna go salsa dancing. 856 00:58:52.020 --> 00:58:55.740 Okay, so I want you to understand, 857 00:58:55.740 --> 00:58:59.300 but when we're giving from a place of fear, I hope, 858 00:58:59.300 --> 00:59:02.860 or we're giving from a place of lack, I need money, 859 00:59:02.860 --> 00:59:06.420 I need clients, we're giving from a place of lack, 860 00:59:06.420 --> 00:59:09.060 I need love, I hope if I give enough, 861 00:59:09.060 --> 00:59:10.980 a lot of women over givers, 862 00:59:10.980 --> 00:59:13.980 they get taken advantage of with men in relationships, 863 00:59:13.980 --> 00:59:16.180 they wonder why men never provide for them, 864 00:59:16.180 --> 00:59:18.700 never give to them, they never open that door. 865 00:59:18.700 --> 00:59:21.620 Okay, so it's this energy is what I want you to begin 866 00:59:21.620 --> 00:59:24.900 to understand that everything underneath the fruit 867 00:59:24.900 --> 00:59:28.260 of everything is a frequency, it's a wavelength. 868 00:59:28.260 --> 00:59:33.260 So if it's less than 250, it's forming disease in the body 869 00:59:33.780 --> 00:59:35.780 and it's going to radiate, 870 00:59:35.780 --> 00:59:37.860 that's gonna form dysfunction and lack 871 00:59:37.860 --> 00:59:39.340 and all kinds of things, okay? 872 00:59:39.340 --> 00:59:42.780 So hopefully that helps clarify that. 873 00:59:42.780 --> 00:59:44.340 When you're giving out of fullness, 874 00:59:44.340 --> 00:59:48.060 so some of you over givers are giving to everyone else 875 00:59:48.060 --> 00:59:50.500 and you're not giving to yourself. 876 00:59:50.500 --> 00:59:53.060 And we're gonna get to that verse right now 877 00:59:53.060 --> 00:59:54.580 about why it's important. 878 00:59:54.580 --> 01:00:00.580 So, okay, my dad always said... 879 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:07.360 to emanate love. That's so cool. That's so cool. Another word for radiate, because that's what 880 01:00:07.360 --> 01:00:14.560 we've been called to do, is just radiate, okay? So good. I love, I love, I think you guys are 881 01:00:14.560 --> 01:00:21.600 getting the gist already, okay? So let's keep going. The greatest commandment, when they, 882 01:00:21.600 --> 01:00:26.960 when the Jews, who had hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of commandments, said, Jesus, teacher, 883 01:00:26.960 --> 01:00:34.720 tell us what is the greatest commandment, and Jesus said, open with the word love, 884 01:00:35.920 --> 01:00:42.160 love the Lord your God, there it is, with your whole being, with your whole heart, soul, mind, 885 01:00:42.160 --> 01:00:54.000 like whole being, love God, and love, the second is just like it, love your neighbor as, and you 886 01:00:54.000 --> 01:01:01.200 could circle that word as you love yourself. So those of you over givers that aren't loving 887 01:01:01.200 --> 01:01:06.640 yourself, you can't actually be loving someone else. You're, now you're just draining, and now 888 01:01:07.200 --> 01:01:14.080 you're getting those issues that you just talked about. So notice the three objects of our love 889 01:01:14.080 --> 01:01:21.920 in this verse. There's three objects of love. Number one, there's God, and that's our primary 890 01:01:21.920 --> 01:01:28.960 love. That's what we're supposed to give our entire being, love the Lord your God with all 891 01:01:28.960 --> 01:01:39.840 your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind. That's the primary. Then, interestingly, neighbor, 892 01:01:41.360 --> 01:01:50.960 so, so God is primary, neighbor is proportional. You can only love your neighbor as, it's 893 01:01:50.960 --> 01:02:01.280 proportional. The third is self, and it's assumed that we're called to love ourselves. That's why 894 01:02:01.280 --> 01:02:12.160 he said love your neighbor as you love yourself. Well, when you really get an idea of who you are, 895 01:02:13.120 --> 01:02:19.920 your, your love for yourself, because of your love for God, so as you love God, you love yourself 896 01:02:19.920 --> 01:02:27.200 more. You become like David, where he said, wow, I think it's Psalms 119, when I consider 897 01:02:28.720 --> 01:02:39.360 like how amazingly you made me, how fearfully and wonderfully I'm created. When you, when you consider 898 01:02:39.760 --> 01:02:43.760 and if you think of your body as a temple, 899 01:02:45.920 --> 01:02:54.880 and the Bible has a lot to say about that. Your body is a temple, a container of God, 900 01:02:56.400 --> 01:03:03.520 Christ in me, the hope of glory, right? Um, when you consider that, then you're very careful what 901 01:03:03.520 --> 01:03:12.960 you attach to. That's why it says, should you attach emotionally or physically, sexually, or 902 01:03:12.960 --> 01:03:19.520 emotionally, when you're attached, should you be joining these two things, the very temple of God 903 01:03:19.520 --> 01:03:25.920 and the spirit of God, should you be joining it? So, we see these three objects of love. God is primary, 904 01:03:26.000 --> 01:03:35.680 the neighbor is proportional. I love my neighbor as it's proportional, and self is assumed, 905 01:03:36.560 --> 01:03:43.200 and it's in degrees. So, the more that I'm able to love myself with God's love, the more I am 906 01:03:43.200 --> 01:03:52.800 able to pour out and love others, because I'm filling up with God's love, okay? So, this was 907 01:03:53.600 --> 01:03:58.720 when I was going through God teaching me about love, that was number two. Number one is it's 908 01:03:58.720 --> 01:04:12.720 intrinsic. Number two, love is ever expanding and limitless. It can grow and expand infinitely. You 909 01:04:12.720 --> 01:04:18.080 could spend the rest of your life growing your love and never reach the outer edges of it. 910 01:04:19.040 --> 01:04:20.160 Can you imagine that? 911 01:04:23.920 --> 01:04:27.120 It's never exhausted. It's inexhaustible. 912 01:04:29.440 --> 01:04:37.600 There's always more to discover. There's always a higher, a deeper, a wider of love, and that's 913 01:04:37.600 --> 01:04:43.680 why Paul talks about how great is this love, how high, how wide, how deep. Paul was trying to come 914 01:04:43.760 --> 01:04:50.960 up with this. He couldn't come up with enough words to describe the love of God, which, of 915 01:04:50.960 --> 01:04:59.840 course, is in us. So, it's ever expanding, limitless, and yeah, the next thing God's 916 01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:04.920 said is the application has infinite forms and variety. 917 01:05:04.920 --> 01:05:07.400 So a mother's love, the love for God, 918 01:05:07.400 --> 01:05:11.280 friendship love, romantic love. 919 01:05:11.280 --> 01:05:17.160 Number four, God says it multiplies or it 920 01:05:17.160 --> 01:05:24.560 grows when it's shared, like electricity. 921 01:05:24.560 --> 01:05:26.920 So again, we're talking waves. 922 01:05:26.920 --> 01:05:29.200 If you've ever studied physics, I 923 01:05:29.200 --> 01:05:31.560 know Cindy and I were talking, we were both pre-med, 924 01:05:31.560 --> 01:05:32.920 so we did a lot of this stuff. 925 01:05:32.920 --> 01:05:37.600 And so you have these waves in physics, 926 01:05:37.600 --> 01:05:40.200 and they have a frequency how high 927 01:05:40.200 --> 01:05:41.800 and how close they are together. 928 01:05:41.800 --> 01:05:43.720 So you've got these waves. 929 01:05:43.720 --> 01:05:47.960 If you have two opposing waves coming together, 930 01:05:47.960 --> 01:05:50.080 so one is going down and one is going up, 931 01:05:50.080 --> 01:05:51.800 they'll cancel each other. 932 01:05:51.800 --> 01:05:53.680 This is basic physics. 933 01:05:53.680 --> 01:05:56.920 If you have two waves going the same direction, 934 01:05:56.920 --> 01:06:01.880 they will multiply each other. 935 01:06:01.880 --> 01:06:03.560 They get bigger. 936 01:06:03.560 --> 01:06:09.200 So God said it multiplies like electricity. 937 01:06:09.200 --> 01:06:13.880 When it's joined, you experience a higher voltage. 938 01:06:13.880 --> 01:06:17.920 So this is why when we sink with the love of God, 939 01:06:17.920 --> 01:06:21.000 this is the power of worship. 940 01:06:21.040 --> 01:06:25.320 This is the power of just soaking 941 01:06:25.320 --> 01:06:29.880 in the presence of God, because you're joining 942 01:06:29.880 --> 01:06:33.280 and you're intensifying the frequency. 943 01:06:33.280 --> 01:06:37.760 It's also why I have the Prosper Women, the Prosper Leader 944 01:06:37.760 --> 01:06:40.400 membership. 945 01:06:40.400 --> 01:06:45.800 Because together, we are stronger and higher and better. 946 01:06:45.800 --> 01:06:47.040 And this is what's happening. 947 01:06:47.040 --> 01:06:49.200 The more each of you are giving to each other 948 01:06:49.200 --> 01:06:51.840 and you're sinking and you're collaborating, 949 01:06:51.840 --> 01:06:55.920 this is why biblically competition doesn't exist. 950 01:06:55.920 --> 01:06:58.280 It's collaboration. 951 01:06:58.280 --> 01:07:01.520 And so love multiplies when it's joined. 952 01:07:01.520 --> 01:07:05.440 So if you tap into the love of God, it multiplies. 953 01:07:05.440 --> 01:07:08.560 If you are in sync in romantic love, 954 01:07:08.560 --> 01:07:10.760 if you can both be in sync that you're not 955 01:07:10.760 --> 01:07:14.480 striving and trying to take from each other and all of that, 956 01:07:14.480 --> 01:07:17.440 if you're in sync, it multiplies. 957 01:07:17.440 --> 01:07:20.440 And that's why it can be so intense. 958 01:07:20.440 --> 01:07:24.480 And so love grows when it's given. 959 01:07:24.480 --> 01:07:26.560 But again, not from a place of lack. 960 01:07:26.560 --> 01:07:30.040 It's given from the overflow. 961 01:07:30.040 --> 01:07:33.560 And so you're giving from the fruit, not the root. 962 01:07:33.560 --> 01:07:35.280 Think of a tree. 963 01:07:35.280 --> 01:07:41.320 If a tree lets you pick all of its fruit, no problem. 964 01:07:41.320 --> 01:07:43.880 More fruit's going to come. 965 01:07:43.880 --> 01:07:45.040 Where does it come from? 966 01:07:45.040 --> 01:07:47.280 I want you to think about a tree for a second. 967 01:07:47.280 --> 01:07:49.640 This is the most profound example from nature. 968 01:07:49.640 --> 01:07:51.640 I've got a beautiful lemon tree right now. 969 01:07:51.640 --> 01:07:53.720 Gorgeous lemon tree. 970 01:07:53.720 --> 01:07:55.840 So many lemons. 971 01:07:55.840 --> 01:07:56.600 So, so many. 972 01:07:56.600 --> 01:07:58.120 It's just beautiful just to look at. 973 01:08:01.240 --> 01:08:04.560 And once I've picked all of those, 974 01:08:04.560 --> 01:08:08.080 maybe made some juice, lemonade, frozen ice cubes, whatever. 975 01:08:08.080 --> 01:08:09.840 I've picked all of those. 976 01:08:09.840 --> 01:08:11.760 The tree looks like it's naked. 977 01:08:11.760 --> 01:08:13.320 Like, oh, no. 978 01:08:13.320 --> 01:08:15.280 All the fruit is gone. 979 01:08:15.280 --> 01:08:18.680 That tree should be stressing and fearful, right? 980 01:08:18.680 --> 01:08:20.880 Should be looking to other trees to borrow. 981 01:08:20.880 --> 01:08:24.279 It should be really, like, biting its limbs, right? 982 01:08:24.279 --> 01:08:25.399 Its nails, right? 983 01:08:25.399 --> 01:08:27.479 Because all the fruit is gone. 984 01:08:27.479 --> 01:08:32.600 Like, times that you don't see money. 985 01:08:32.600 --> 01:08:34.279 Or not. 986 01:08:34.279 --> 01:08:36.640 What's going to happen next spring? 987 01:08:36.640 --> 01:08:38.080 Next summer? 988 01:08:38.080 --> 01:08:39.080 What's going to happen? 989 01:08:42.359 --> 01:08:44.279 More fruit's going to come. 990 01:08:44.279 --> 01:08:46.600 Where does that fruit come from? 991 01:08:46.600 --> 01:08:50.399 Does it go borrow from the tree next door? 992 01:08:50.399 --> 01:08:55.240 Does it beg God to please give it fruit? 993 01:08:55.240 --> 01:08:56.399 I'm so curious. 994 01:08:56.399 --> 01:08:59.359 These beautiful lemons, where in the world 995 01:08:59.359 --> 01:09:01.080 do they, year after year? 996 01:09:01.080 --> 01:09:02.960 I've been in this house 12 years. 997 01:09:02.960 --> 01:09:05.600 I've seen these beautiful lemons every year. 998 01:09:05.600 --> 01:09:08.000 Where the heck do these lemons come from? 999 01:09:08.000 --> 01:09:10.040 I want you to tell me. 1000 01:09:10.040 --> 01:09:11.880 Jesus always said, look at nature 1001 01:09:11.880 --> 01:09:13.520 and you'll discover the truth. 1002 01:09:13.520 --> 01:09:15.800 Where in the world do these lemons come from? 1003 01:09:15.800 --> 01:09:16.680 Somebody tell me. 1004 01:09:19.200 --> 01:09:20.399 Anybody getting an aha? 1005 01:09:23.600 --> 01:09:25.200 Because if you understood the tree, 1006 01:09:25.200 --> 01:09:27.160 you would understand your life. 1007 01:09:27.160 --> 01:09:29.840 Where does the resources keep coming from? 1008 01:09:32.319 --> 01:09:34.160 Anybody getting something here? 1009 01:09:38.840 --> 01:09:40.520 Seed, OK? 1010 01:09:40.560 --> 01:09:43.720 But it's not getting the lemons from the seed anymore. 1011 01:09:43.720 --> 01:09:46.520 The seed made the tree. 1012 01:09:46.520 --> 01:09:47.240 That was done. 1013 01:09:47.240 --> 01:09:48.840 One seed made the tree. 1014 01:09:48.840 --> 01:09:50.880 But I want to know where the lemons come from. 1015 01:09:50.880 --> 01:09:51.680 Someone tell me. 1016 01:09:51.680 --> 01:09:53.319 Where do the lemons come from? 1017 01:09:56.400 --> 01:09:57.640 Is anybody getting anything? 1018 01:09:57.640 --> 01:09:59.040 Is just me fascinated with this? 1019 01:09:59.040 --> 01:10:01.440 Or is this something just a myth? 1020 01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:07.800 to think about. It's coming from within and it's inexhaustible and it'll keep on coming 1021 01:10:07.800 --> 01:10:17.280 and this is what Jesus tried to explain about us. It's amazing. So love gives naturally 1022 01:10:17.280 --> 01:10:25.920 true love gives that's why God so loved that he gave. So I want you to look at page 2 on 1023 01:10:25.920 --> 01:10:36.540 your guide. Okay, and this was a visual that God gave me and so you understand the flow 1024 01:10:36.540 --> 01:10:42.840 this this waterfall was like a three-tiered waterfall. They grabbed my attention. Okay. 1025 01:10:42.840 --> 01:10:48.200 So at the top of the waterfall is the source waterfall starts with the source at the top 1026 01:10:48.200 --> 01:10:53.780 of the water at the top of the waterfall is the source. Well, the source is God God is 1027 01:10:53.780 --> 01:11:03.340 love first John 4 8 the source is God. But then it says in Romans 5 5 for God's love 1028 01:11:03.340 --> 01:11:11.180 has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit. So the source is God, but 1029 01:11:11.180 --> 01:11:19.020 that love the second tier of the waterfall is our heart has been poured into our heart. 1030 01:11:19.020 --> 01:11:26.260 And then from that overflow, then we're able to spill out to others. So think about that 1031 01:11:26.260 --> 01:11:31.460 waterfall. There's always the source never be confused. God is the source but God's love 1032 01:11:31.460 --> 01:11:39.020 has been poured into our heart. And out of that abundance were able to pour into others. 1033 01:11:39.020 --> 01:11:45.900 Hey, and that's the great commandment and there's some scriptures there for you to meditate 1034 01:11:45.900 --> 01:11:53.980 on. So here's where it gets important. Go to the next page. Okay, that little Roman 1035 01:11:53.980 --> 01:12:02.060 soldier there. Okay, this statue of David. Okay, as we start to embrace God's love remember 1036 01:12:02.060 --> 01:12:07.900 we're breaking these lies the lies and belief and lack and all of these things as we embrace 1037 01:12:07.900 --> 01:12:17.300 God's love we start to learn to see ourselves as God sees us. So the poet Rumi said something 1038 01:12:17.300 --> 01:12:29.420 so profound Rumi says this your task is not to seek for love. Too many people are chasing 1039 01:12:29.420 --> 01:12:34.020 love striving love and it runs the more you chase it the more it runs just like money 1040 01:12:34.140 --> 01:12:39.820 the more you chase it the more it runs away. It's a law chase anything it runs away be 1041 01:12:39.820 --> 01:12:47.580 open and receptive and it comes to you. Okay, so Rumi says your task is not to seek for 1042 01:12:47.580 --> 01:12:54.380 love. We got to break the Disney spell. Okay, not looking for my night and shining armor 1043 01:12:54.380 --> 01:13:04.580 on a white horse. Your task is not to seek for love. But instead seek and find all the 1044 01:13:04.580 --> 01:13:14.060 barriers within yourself. You have built against it. You say that again, your task is not to 1045 01:13:14.060 --> 01:13:25.100 seek for love but seek and find all the barriers within yourself. You've built against it. 1046 01:13:25.100 --> 01:13:31.180 That's pretty profound. That's pretty profound. So as we embrace God's love we learn to see 1047 01:13:31.180 --> 01:13:37.940 ourself like he sees us and so we start removing we start removing the labels the names the 1048 01:13:37.940 --> 01:13:46.300 limitations that were placed on us by others or by myself. I'm not this you are this and 1049 01:13:46.300 --> 01:13:52.140 we start removing the masks that we put on to try to protect ourself. We can show up 1050 01:13:52.140 --> 01:14:01.060 authentically Shakespeare William Shakespeare says God has given you one face and you make 1051 01:14:01.060 --> 01:14:14.180 yourself another. Okay, Michelangelo, he would take this block of marble and he would chip chip 1052 01:14:14.180 --> 01:14:20.420 chip chip chip chip and you'd end up with this gorgeous statue if you've ever been to the Louvre 1053 01:14:21.380 --> 01:14:30.500 in Paris and Michelangelo said I just when they asked him how did you how did you come up with 1054 01:14:30.500 --> 01:14:36.900 David? How did you do that? And Michelangelo said I just chip away the stone that doesn't 1055 01:14:36.900 --> 01:14:43.940 look like David. I just chip away everything that's not David. This is what God has already 1056 01:14:43.940 --> 01:14:51.540 made you perfect. He's made you love. He's made you beautiful. He's made you with infinite potential 1057 01:14:52.580 --> 01:14:58.980 and yet in order we think to protect ourselves we add these layers. We wear these masks for 1058 01:14:58.980 --> 01:14:59.860 safety. 1059 01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:03.480 We think if we close our heart to love, we'll be protected 1060 01:15:03.480 --> 01:15:05.340 and we won't get hurt, but all we've done 1061 01:15:05.340 --> 01:15:07.460 is lock ourselves inside. 1062 01:15:07.460 --> 01:15:11.420 And then all we do is just repeat a cycle. 1063 01:15:11.420 --> 01:15:13.140 One of the things I do at night, I've 1064 01:15:13.140 --> 01:15:15.100 been teaching myself Spanish. 1065 01:15:15.100 --> 01:15:16.700 And one of the things I do at night 1066 01:15:16.700 --> 01:15:20.380 is I only, if I watch Netflix for an hour or something just 1067 01:15:20.380 --> 01:15:22.740 to unwind, I'll only watch it in Spanish. 1068 01:15:22.740 --> 01:15:24.900 This is how I keep my Spanish fluent. 1069 01:15:24.900 --> 01:15:27.140 So some of these ones are just crazy. 1070 01:15:27.140 --> 01:15:35.460 So I've been watching this, Envidiosa, which is envy. 1071 01:15:35.460 --> 01:15:39.860 So it's about this woman that is just absolutely all 1072 01:15:39.860 --> 01:15:42.780 she's ever wanted is to be married and have a baby. 1073 01:15:42.780 --> 01:15:46.980 And she's absolutely envious of everybody that gets that. 1074 01:15:46.980 --> 01:15:49.780 Everybody gets that ahead of her. 1075 01:15:49.780 --> 01:15:52.140 And she just gets so much envy. 1076 01:15:52.140 --> 01:15:53.780 She gets so much irritation. 1077 01:15:53.780 --> 01:15:56.740 She actually gets a rash on her face, which by the way, 1078 01:15:56.820 --> 01:15:59.380 that was really accurate because when 1079 01:15:59.380 --> 01:16:02.380 we have strong irritation, it comes out in the skin 1080 01:16:02.380 --> 01:16:02.900 very often. 1081 01:16:02.900 --> 01:16:05.500 So if you're extremely agitated, angry, or whatever, 1082 01:16:05.500 --> 01:16:06.740 you get these rashes. 1083 01:16:06.740 --> 01:16:08.900 I mean, unless you rolled in poison oak 1084 01:16:08.900 --> 01:16:11.420 and there's a natural source, but usually 1085 01:16:11.420 --> 01:16:13.140 there's a spiritual source. 1086 01:16:13.140 --> 01:16:15.460 And so she just struggles and struggles 1087 01:16:15.460 --> 01:16:17.460 because her father abandoned her. 1088 01:16:17.460 --> 01:16:20.540 And she's reliving, this is what we do. 1089 01:16:20.540 --> 01:16:23.340 So her father left and left her sitting 1090 01:16:23.340 --> 01:16:26.700 on the stairs with her sister waiting to take her to a movie. 1091 01:16:26.700 --> 01:16:31.500 When she was young, 6, 7, 8, never came, never came again. 1092 01:16:31.500 --> 01:16:32.940 She never saw her dad. 1093 01:16:32.940 --> 01:16:35.260 So the dad abandoned her. 1094 01:16:35.260 --> 01:16:38.500 And some of you really struggle with abandonment. 1095 01:16:38.500 --> 01:16:41.380 That's one of my core issues, right? 1096 01:16:41.380 --> 01:16:46.860 And so she ends up playing it out, 1097 01:16:46.860 --> 01:16:49.740 which is what we do the rest of her life. 1098 01:16:49.740 --> 01:16:57.660 And so she ends up pushing away all the people in her life. 1099 01:16:57.660 --> 01:17:00.700 And the last scene in this series 1100 01:17:00.700 --> 01:17:03.420 is a man that wants to just stand by her side 1101 01:17:03.420 --> 01:17:04.220 and just stay. 1102 01:17:04.220 --> 01:17:07.580 And she tries so hard to push him away and push him. 1103 01:17:07.580 --> 01:17:10.780 Her anger rages, her nagging, her whatever. 1104 01:17:10.780 --> 01:17:13.620 She just does everything unconsciously 1105 01:17:13.620 --> 01:17:16.580 to push him away because she's afraid of being abandoned 1106 01:17:16.580 --> 01:17:19.220 if she can push him away first. 1107 01:17:19.220 --> 01:17:24.580 And he addresses that just smack on and says, 1108 01:17:24.580 --> 01:17:26.260 I'm not going anywhere. 1109 01:17:26.260 --> 01:17:28.820 Why do you think everybody leaves? 1110 01:17:28.820 --> 01:17:31.420 And she got the revelation. 1111 01:17:31.420 --> 01:17:33.180 The last scene, she gets it. 1112 01:17:33.180 --> 01:17:34.500 This is so true of ours. 1113 01:17:34.500 --> 01:17:38.420 What of these patterns are you living out and repeating 1114 01:17:38.420 --> 01:17:42.900 over and over and over again? 1115 01:17:42.900 --> 01:17:47.700 So the next page goes through some of the studies 1116 01:17:48.060 --> 01:17:51.940 with love, like depression and anxiety. 1117 01:17:51.940 --> 01:17:53.660 Those that were most self-critical 1118 01:17:53.660 --> 01:17:56.060 were most likely to be depressed and have 1119 01:17:56.060 --> 01:17:58.020 difficulties in relationship. 1120 01:17:58.020 --> 01:18:02.180 The physical symptoms, for example, in your hands. 1121 01:18:02.180 --> 01:18:07.020 Arthritis on the right is being rigid and perfectionistic 1122 01:18:07.020 --> 01:18:12.300 or controlling personality, severe self-criticism. 1123 01:18:12.300 --> 01:18:19.380 Kidneys, deep, unconscious resentments, 1124 01:18:19.380 --> 01:18:23.980 unfounded criticism of others, repressed emotion. 1125 01:18:23.980 --> 01:18:29.540 So those were taken from the book Feelings Buried Alive, 1126 01:18:29.540 --> 01:18:30.260 Never Die. 1127 01:18:30.260 --> 01:18:34.340 There's a bunch of really good books that the whole science 1128 01:18:34.340 --> 01:18:37.660 of psychoneuroimmunology, that the symptoms in your body 1129 01:18:37.660 --> 01:18:38.540 are not random. 1130 01:18:38.540 --> 01:18:41.580 They're directly tied to emotions. 1131 01:18:41.580 --> 01:18:42.700 That's a whole other talk. 1132 01:18:42.700 --> 01:18:46.420 That's God, health, and me. 1133 01:18:46.420 --> 01:18:49.940 So the idea is love in action, a full cup, 1134 01:18:49.940 --> 01:18:51.460 naturally spills over. 1135 01:18:51.460 --> 01:18:55.860 So when we're filling up in God's love, when we're open, 1136 01:18:55.860 --> 01:18:59.140 when we're receptive, we naturally spill out. 1137 01:18:59.140 --> 01:19:01.860 And it reflects in health and longevity. 1138 01:19:01.860 --> 01:19:04.300 And it reflects in our finances. 1139 01:19:04.300 --> 01:19:08.380 Our love starts building trust and attracts provision. 1140 01:19:08.380 --> 01:19:10.340 And in business and relationships, 1141 01:19:10.340 --> 01:19:12.700 we strengthen connection. 1142 01:19:12.700 --> 01:19:17.260 So here's a little journaling exercise now. 1143 01:19:17.260 --> 01:19:21.260 So we already talked about what you first learned about love. 1144 01:19:21.260 --> 01:19:26.380 And in what ways have you and do you still 1145 01:19:26.380 --> 01:19:32.060 believe that you have to work for or earn love? 1146 01:19:32.060 --> 01:19:33.500 I want you just to be aware. 1147 01:19:33.500 --> 01:19:37.220 Awareness is the first step of transformation. 1148 01:19:37.220 --> 01:19:43.500 So in what ways are you still either believing or striving 1149 01:19:43.500 --> 01:19:46.220 or working to earn love? 1150 01:19:50.020 --> 01:19:51.740 A little place to just awareness. 1151 01:19:51.740 --> 01:19:54.340 And you can keep this conversation going with God 1152 01:19:54.340 --> 01:19:55.380 and study scripture. 1153 01:19:55.380 --> 01:19:58.020 We're going to replace it with truth. 1154 01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:17.040 Are you still striving for love? 1155 01:20:17.040 --> 01:20:21.320 Hey, thank you guys for sharing. 1156 01:20:21.320 --> 01:20:23.640 I've pushed away a lot of my relationships. 1157 01:20:23.640 --> 01:20:28.320 Yeah, usually that's fear, fear of the same thing repeating, you're recreating either 1158 01:20:28.320 --> 01:20:33.480 the abandonment or the abuse or the, you're recreating it. 1159 01:20:33.480 --> 01:20:35.920 So here's a, here's an example. 1160 01:20:35.920 --> 01:20:42.920 You guys, I had a coaching client and she was, she was a prospective coaching client. 1161 01:20:42.920 --> 01:20:49.080 I was just meeting her for the first time and she kept talking about abuse. 1162 01:20:49.080 --> 01:20:54.640 And she said, my father abused me when I was a child and she says, and then my husband 1163 01:20:54.640 --> 01:21:00.000 abused me so much abuse and I'm listening. 1164 01:21:00.000 --> 01:21:03.680 And then, then she starts catching my attention. 1165 01:21:03.680 --> 01:21:07.480 She says, I'm being abused by my boss at work. 1166 01:21:07.480 --> 01:21:09.200 I'm starting to see a pattern now. 1167 01:21:09.200 --> 01:21:11.200 Look for patterns. 1168 01:21:11.200 --> 01:21:13.280 I'm thinking, okay. 1169 01:21:13.280 --> 01:21:18.280 And she, then the final one, she says, so she said, my father abused me. 1170 01:21:18.280 --> 01:21:20.640 My husband abused me. 1171 01:21:20.640 --> 01:21:23.480 My boss is abusing me. 1172 01:21:23.480 --> 01:21:27.200 And then, then I, it was just like crystal clear. 1173 01:21:27.200 --> 01:21:29.240 She said, my neighbors are abusing me. 1174 01:21:29.240 --> 01:21:31.880 I thought, okay, okay, okay. 1175 01:21:31.880 --> 01:21:38.720 I said to her, sister, where are you abusing yourself? 1176 01:21:38.720 --> 01:21:41.320 Of course she argued with me. 1177 01:21:41.320 --> 01:21:43.440 Oh no, no, I'm not abusing myself. 1178 01:21:43.440 --> 01:21:44.760 I take really good care of myself. 1179 01:21:44.760 --> 01:21:45.760 I exercise. 1180 01:21:45.760 --> 01:21:47.080 You know, where are you abusing yourself? 1181 01:21:47.080 --> 01:21:48.080 No, no, no. 1182 01:21:48.080 --> 01:21:49.560 I don't, I don't abuse myself. 1183 01:21:49.560 --> 01:21:50.560 I eat really good. 1184 01:21:50.560 --> 01:21:51.560 I have a good diet. 1185 01:21:51.720 --> 01:22:00.880 Like all of this abuse, let's look within, let's think biblically, where are you abusing 1186 01:22:00.880 --> 01:22:01.880 yourself? 1187 01:22:01.880 --> 01:22:06.640 So I came from a different angle because she was sure she wasn't. 1188 01:22:06.640 --> 01:22:12.960 When you look in the mirror at yourself, what do you do? 1189 01:22:12.960 --> 01:22:16.600 She says, oh wow, I, I really beat myself up. 1190 01:22:16.600 --> 01:22:19.400 She just, it just came out right before she knew what she was saying. 1191 01:22:19.400 --> 01:22:22.360 I said, yeah, that would be abuse. 1192 01:22:22.360 --> 01:22:23.360 It's always there. 1193 01:22:23.360 --> 01:22:30.160 We're living out these patterns and recreating the external world is a reflection. 1194 01:22:30.160 --> 01:22:32.280 Scripture is so clear. 1195 01:22:32.280 --> 01:22:39.840 It's a reflection, either within ourselves or collectively as a society, we're manifesting 1196 01:22:39.840 --> 01:22:47.640 in our external world that the form, the external never comes first. 1197 01:22:47.640 --> 01:22:51.320 The internal comes first. 1198 01:22:51.320 --> 01:22:54.800 So what we do now is we have awareness. 1199 01:22:54.800 --> 01:22:56.960 I've brought like this whole part to you. 1200 01:22:56.960 --> 01:23:00.200 The idea was awareness and you could write this down. 1201 01:23:00.200 --> 01:23:02.320 Awareness is the first step to transformation. 1202 01:23:02.320 --> 01:23:06.000 You want to bring transformation, you got to be aware. 1203 01:23:06.000 --> 01:23:08.680 Awareness is the first step to transformation. 1204 01:23:08.680 --> 01:23:17.000 And then when we're aware, we can begin to replace it with truth. 1205 01:23:17.000 --> 01:23:20.200 We can replace it with truth. 1206 01:23:20.200 --> 01:23:23.320 Now I don't have time to do this today. 1207 01:23:23.320 --> 01:23:30.560 I do it in coaching, but when I start to see these, these patterns and these things come, 1208 01:23:30.560 --> 01:23:36.280 the first step is awareness and I help them come to awareness. 1209 01:23:36.280 --> 01:23:43.760 And then I help them to see that every thought, which ends up becoming an opinion, which is 1210 01:23:43.760 --> 01:23:51.080 a, you know, a strongly held belief, a strongly held opinion, and starts getting lived out. 1211 01:23:51.080 --> 01:23:54.320 It's producing a fruit. 1212 01:23:54.320 --> 01:23:56.560 It's producing a fruit. 1213 01:23:56.560 --> 01:23:57.640 Okay. 1214 01:23:57.640 --> 01:24:04.680 And so if we can look at that, and if we don't like the fruit, the external manifestation, 1215 01:24:04.680 --> 01:24:11.760 we've got to go back to the root, okay? 1216 01:24:11.760 --> 01:24:15.280 And so you come to the awareness and then you can choose. 1217 01:24:15.280 --> 01:24:17.240 Life is about God-given choice. 1218 01:24:17.240 --> 01:24:19.240 You can choose a new belief. 1219 01:24:19.240 --> 01:24:20.800 You can choose a new thought. 1220 01:24:20.800 --> 01:24:22.360 You can choose a new action. 1221 01:24:22.360 --> 01:24:24.880 You can choose a new vocabulary. 1222 01:24:24.880 --> 01:24:32.040 See the vocabulary of lack is one vocabulary, the vocabulary of abundance is totally different. 1223 01:24:32.040 --> 01:24:34.080 How much are you speaking lack? 1224 01:24:34.080 --> 01:24:35.240 I lack sleep. 1225 01:24:35.240 --> 01:24:36.400 I didn't get enough sleep. 1226 01:24:36.400 --> 01:24:37.400 I lack time. 1227 01:24:37.400 --> 01:24:38.520 I don't have enough time. 1228 01:24:38.520 --> 01:24:39.520 I lack money. 1229 01:24:39.520 --> 01:24:41.200 Like we lack, lack, lack. 1230 01:24:41.200 --> 01:24:42.200 We're speaking it. 1231 01:24:42.200 --> 01:24:45.240 That's one vocabulary. 1232 01:24:45.240 --> 01:24:47.240 Abundance is a different. 1233 01:24:47.240 --> 01:24:49.400 Sickness has a vocabulary. 1234 01:24:49.400 --> 01:24:51.280 Health is a different vocabulary. 1235 01:24:51.280 --> 01:24:53.160 Do you get this? 1236 01:24:53.160 --> 01:25:00.040 So as we're changing reverse engineering, the mind, heart, mouth, we can start replacing. 1237 01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:03.760 these lies with truth. 1238 01:25:03.760 --> 01:25:07.720 And so we said it earlier on part two here, 1239 01:25:07.720 --> 01:25:10.840 removing the illusions is number one, 1240 01:25:10.840 --> 01:25:14.080 we're learning to reason biblically. 1241 01:25:14.080 --> 01:25:19.240 So prosperous shift number two that you see on this page, 1242 01:25:19.240 --> 01:25:22.640 love isn't something external to chase, 1243 01:25:22.640 --> 01:25:26.640 it flows from the inside out. 1244 01:25:26.640 --> 01:25:29.480 So then we have to remove, number two, 1245 01:25:29.480 --> 01:25:34.560 remove the illusions that are blocking love. 1246 01:25:34.560 --> 01:25:37.240 So it begins with the awareness, we identify, 1247 01:25:37.240 --> 01:25:39.320 what's the limiting beliefs I've been believing? 1248 01:25:39.320 --> 01:25:42.400 About money, about love, about life, about business, 1249 01:25:42.400 --> 01:25:44.240 what's the limiting beliefs? 1250 01:25:44.240 --> 01:25:47.600 Because you've been living those out. 1251 01:25:47.600 --> 01:25:50.800 And then we begin to remove those lies, 1252 01:25:50.800 --> 01:25:53.040 we begin healing those past wounds, 1253 01:25:53.040 --> 01:25:56.400 those past misconceptions. 1254 01:25:56.400 --> 01:25:58.520 And we replace them with truth. 1255 01:25:58.520 --> 01:26:02.920 I would add that to that list, replace with truth. 1256 01:26:02.920 --> 01:26:05.440 So let's do that right now. 1257 01:26:05.440 --> 01:26:07.880 I want you to write down, this is 1258 01:26:07.880 --> 01:26:14.320 where you get to get involved and begin to experience this. 1259 01:26:14.320 --> 01:26:18.720 And thank you guys for sharing a lot of this. 1260 01:26:18.720 --> 01:26:21.280 OK, I think it's why I don't follow up with clients. 1261 01:26:21.280 --> 01:26:23.960 Yes, so here's the thing, because I'm also 1262 01:26:23.960 --> 01:26:25.040 pushing money away. 1263 01:26:25.040 --> 01:26:29.000 Yes, because you've got a limiting belief about yourself, 1264 01:26:29.000 --> 01:26:31.400 and you've got a limiting belief about your money 1265 01:26:31.400 --> 01:26:36.240 or about your business, and you're operating on that. 1266 01:26:36.240 --> 01:26:39.800 So yes, absolutely. 1267 01:26:39.800 --> 01:26:42.320 Love that you guys are getting the awareness. 1268 01:26:42.320 --> 01:26:46.840 So then, yeah, you won't follow up. 1269 01:26:46.840 --> 01:26:48.880 Very accurate, I love that. 1270 01:26:51.560 --> 01:26:53.840 So here's the exercise. 1271 01:26:53.880 --> 01:26:56.920 Number one, write down, what's the main limiting belief 1272 01:26:56.920 --> 01:26:59.520 that you're becoming aware of today? 1273 01:26:59.520 --> 01:27:01.840 Write it down. 1274 01:27:01.840 --> 01:27:08.680 What's the limiting belief that you got awareness of today? 1275 01:27:13.520 --> 01:27:14.400 Limiting belief. 1276 01:27:24.840 --> 01:27:31.080 What's the limiting belief that you got awareness of today? 1277 01:27:37.600 --> 01:27:38.480 Write that down. 1278 01:27:41.520 --> 01:27:50.160 And now, give you time, make sure you got that. 1279 01:27:54.840 --> 01:27:55.840 What's the limiting belief? 1280 01:28:10.640 --> 01:28:13.840 Now, here's the exercise. 1281 01:28:13.840 --> 01:28:14.880 It's really powerful. 1282 01:28:14.880 --> 01:28:16.400 This is a time of prayer. 1283 01:28:16.400 --> 01:28:20.000 I want you to go into a time of prayer right now. 1284 01:28:20.000 --> 01:28:24.640 And I want you to ask God to show you 1285 01:28:24.640 --> 01:28:32.640 the truth about yourself, about this limiting belief. 1286 01:28:32.640 --> 01:28:35.920 Ask God to show you the truth. 1287 01:28:35.920 --> 01:28:42.880 Ask him to show you you as he sees you. 1288 01:28:42.880 --> 01:28:46.800 This is a very powerful journal prayer right now. 1289 01:28:46.800 --> 01:28:49.920 You have a certain belief about yourself, about life, 1290 01:28:49.920 --> 01:28:51.280 about God, about love. 1291 01:28:54.080 --> 01:29:04.240 Now, ask God in prayer to show you the truth, to show you 1292 01:29:04.240 --> 01:29:09.520 you as he sees you. 1293 01:29:09.520 --> 01:29:11.520 OK, we're going to take just a couple of minutes. 1294 01:29:11.520 --> 01:29:15.520 I want you to really go into that prayer. 1295 01:29:16.480 --> 01:29:25.520 Ask God to show you, you, as he sees you. 1296 01:29:29.520 --> 01:29:31.040 Such a powerful exercise. 1297 01:29:34.320 --> 01:29:36.240 God, show me the truth. 1298 01:29:36.240 --> 01:29:40.080 Like David said, I desire truth in my inward being. 1299 01:29:40.640 --> 01:29:41.600 Show me the truth. 1300 01:29:48.800 --> 01:29:50.000 Speak truth, Lord. 1301 01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:11.000 Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. Speak truth. Break through the lies. Break through the strongholds. 1302 01:30:30.000 --> 01:30:39.000 Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. 1303 01:31:00.000 --> 01:31:10.000 Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. 1304 01:31:30.000 --> 01:31:50.000 Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. 1305 01:32:00.000 --> 01:32:20.000 Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. 1306 01:32:30.000 --> 01:32:50.000 Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. 1307 01:32:50.000 --> 01:33:10.000 Holy Spirit, I ask for revelation knowledge to flow. 1308 01:33:20.000 --> 01:33:38.000 Begin to come back as you're able. 1309 01:33:38.000 --> 01:33:43.000 Who got some revelation from that who had a shift. 1310 01:33:43.000 --> 01:33:46.000 Who had something. 1311 01:33:46.000 --> 01:33:49.000 Karen, I see you're raising your hand. 1312 01:33:49.000 --> 01:34:08.000 Poppy and just put shift in the chat if you want to say what the shift was great. If you just want to say shift up in the chat, let me know if something I was really praying that strongholds get broken that lies get torn down. 1313 01:34:08.000 --> 01:34:11.000 Love to hear what came. 1314 01:34:11.000 --> 01:34:14.000 Hey awesome Amanda says shift. 1315 01:34:14.000 --> 01:34:17.000 Hey beginning of awareness Susan. 1316 01:34:17.000 --> 01:34:19.000 Karen. 1317 01:34:19.000 --> 01:34:26.000 I wrote I'm not enough I heard immediately I am abundant. I love that so beautiful. 1318 01:34:26.000 --> 01:34:39.000 So to, you know, put that in writing where you can see it and begin to meditate chew on that what does that mean God said I'm under, what does that mean. 1319 01:34:39.000 --> 01:34:41.000 Wow. 1320 01:34:41.000 --> 01:34:43.000 Hey, shift. 1321 01:34:43.000 --> 01:35:00.000 The lemon tree got me it took a while. Yeah, I'm so glad I mean I was out in my backyard Victoria and the more it's like weird and those crazy lemons come from beautiful juicy yellow like lemon layer in the world. 1322 01:35:00.000 --> 01:35:04.960 when the tree's naked, that next year they're going to come again. And this is how God wants 1323 01:35:04.960 --> 01:35:12.960 us to live, that there's never-ending supply. God in us, there's an infinite supply that we 1324 01:35:12.960 --> 01:35:18.000 never run out. And there's so many scriptures of that. I'm so glad that you got that. 1325 01:35:18.720 --> 01:35:24.240 Oh, beautiful. Cindy said, I'm seeing. I love, thank you guys for being vulnerable and willing 1326 01:35:24.240 --> 01:35:31.840 to share, you know, being on this side of the chair, teaching, I just love knowing that it's 1327 01:35:32.400 --> 01:35:40.400 making impact. Okay. Tawana, I belong. That's a good one. There's several on this call that 1328 01:35:40.400 --> 01:35:45.600 that's an important, they've just so much wanted all their life to belong. And so they've 1329 01:35:45.600 --> 01:35:51.920 tied themselves into a pretzel trying to belong, right? And when you get to the root of it and 1330 01:35:51.920 --> 01:36:01.040 you understand you already belong, that's so, so, so amazing. So glad that you got that. 1331 01:36:01.040 --> 01:36:06.720 Now on the next page, if you can think of it, if you already know the scriptures, 1332 01:36:07.680 --> 01:36:16.000 so here's how it works. Whatever limiting belief that you've had, you are gathering evidence. 1333 01:36:16.000 --> 01:36:21.200 We are meaning making machines. We're always gathering evidence for what we believe. So if 1334 01:36:21.200 --> 01:36:25.680 you believe that there's a lack, you're going to see lack everywhere. You're gathering. Just look, 1335 01:36:25.680 --> 01:36:29.200 just look at my checkbook and my bank account. Just look like there's lack. I'm telling you, 1336 01:36:29.200 --> 01:36:34.480 look at the world there. Look at how many people lack. There's just, and you're gathering evidence. 1337 01:36:34.480 --> 01:36:39.280 Same thing for love. Oh, love never works. That's a fairy tale. There's no good men left. 1338 01:36:39.280 --> 01:36:45.760 There's so many good men left. Beautiful God loving men, but we're keeping them away because 1339 01:36:45.760 --> 01:36:51.760 we think there's no good men, right? So these beliefs are so self-limiting. And so as you get 1340 01:36:51.760 --> 01:37:02.720 the awareness, then from that awareness, we want to gather new evidence. So on the next page, 1341 01:37:02.720 --> 01:37:08.320 it says there's lines there for you to write a new biblical belief to replace each lie. 1342 01:37:08.320 --> 01:37:16.960 The best way to gather evidence now is begin to find biblical verses or chapters or books 1343 01:37:17.920 --> 01:37:28.160 that support the new belief. Okay. Oh, I love this. I got to read all this. This is so good. 1344 01:37:28.160 --> 01:37:35.600 Thank you, Tracy. Reminded I don't need to strive to be anything. I simply need to be me. Can you 1345 01:37:35.600 --> 01:37:42.080 imagine how beautiful that is? If we would just authentically be ourselves and not try to be 1346 01:37:42.080 --> 01:37:49.440 the lemon trees, not trying to be a peach tree, right? Linda got a beautiful revelation on that. 1347 01:37:49.440 --> 01:37:55.920 You know, the daffodil is not trying to be the rose. Come on. You are so beautiful. You are made 1348 01:37:55.920 --> 01:38:02.000 for your divine purpose. You are unique. You have a unique thumbprint, a unique eye print. 1349 01:38:02.000 --> 01:38:09.040 You have a unique purpose. You have a unique design. Only you can do that. And there's no 1350 01:38:09.040 --> 01:38:14.960 lack. And so I love that. Simply need to be me. That's so beautiful. Okay. Bev got a shift. Thank 1351 01:38:14.960 --> 01:38:21.280 for speaking up that people won't see the value of what I bring. That's a big one. The imposter 1352 01:38:21.280 --> 01:38:27.200 syndrome that comes up a lot for new coaches that people won't see the value of what you bring. 1353 01:38:28.160 --> 01:38:35.120 So there's an exercise for that. Let me just give a side bonus, any of you that relate to that. 1354 01:38:36.160 --> 01:38:42.160 One of the exercises I do with my coaching clients is I have them take out a sheet of paper. 1355 01:38:43.520 --> 01:38:52.960 And on that white sheet of paper, they just start scribbling all over all the ways that they add 1356 01:38:52.960 --> 01:38:58.160 value, all the ways they help. I help them get clarity. I help them discover their purpose. I 1357 01:38:58.160 --> 01:39:04.320 help like all the way to start writing and just fill up the page with all the ways you add value. 1358 01:39:05.040 --> 01:39:11.040 Keep that in a clear sheet, keep it nearby before you get on the phone, before you talk to a 1359 01:39:11.040 --> 01:39:16.480 potential client, just look at that again. And then for most that experience is like, wow, 1360 01:39:16.480 --> 01:39:22.960 actually I add a lot of value. Like let's stop this chatter, this nonsense. I've had a lot of 1361 01:39:22.960 --> 01:39:29.120 value, right? And that helps with that Bev. So thank you for bringing that up. You're not the 1362 01:39:29.120 --> 01:39:37.600 only one to feel that. Okay. Susan, money issues, guilt over debt, blame and shame can't be trusted 1363 01:39:37.680 --> 01:39:45.120 with money. Okay. Listing for the truth. Okay. I love that. That's so, that's so beautiful. So 1364 01:39:46.800 --> 01:39:54.560 of these frequencies, okay. The lowest frequency that we have recorded, the lowest wavelength that 1365 01:39:54.560 --> 01:39:59.920 we have recorded is shame. And it's something 1366 01:40:00.000 --> 01:40:03.480 I think you want to eliminate from your vocabulary and from your mind. 1367 01:40:03.680 --> 01:40:05.320 OK, it's used to control. 1368 01:40:05.520 --> 01:40:06.920 It's used for manipulation. 1369 01:40:07.120 --> 01:40:10.080 Parents will say you should be ashamed of yourself. 1370 01:40:10.280 --> 01:40:12.200 Teachers will say you should be ashamed. 1371 01:40:12.400 --> 01:40:14.760 Even have, you know, kids and family or 1372 01:40:14.960 --> 01:40:18.280 whatever begin to try to put shame on you, do not receive shame. 1373 01:40:18.480 --> 01:40:19.840 It's not of God. 1374 01:40:20.040 --> 01:40:25.000 OK, and it's the lowest frequency below that is like death. 1375 01:40:25.200 --> 01:40:26.280 You can't go any lower. 1376 01:40:26.440 --> 01:40:29.440 So we want to raise that frequency. 1377 01:40:29.640 --> 01:40:35.200 And so, Susan, we should do a coaching around that and we'll raise that frequency 1378 01:40:35.400 --> 01:40:38.680 and get right past that and move into action and solutions. 1379 01:40:38.880 --> 01:40:44.880 And but right now with what we're doing, take the the truth. 1380 01:40:45.080 --> 01:40:47.800 And if you know God's word. 1381 01:40:48.000 --> 01:40:52.080 Write some biblical verses to support your new truth. 1382 01:40:52.280 --> 01:40:56.120 So those of you that said, I'm I'm seeing I am love. 1383 01:40:56.320 --> 01:41:00.000 I am enough like you're breaking the lies of lack that I not enough. 1384 01:41:00.000 --> 01:41:01.560 I don't have enough. It's all lack. 1385 01:41:01.560 --> 01:41:03.200 All of that is just fear based lack. 1386 01:41:03.400 --> 01:41:04.600 They're all just different forms. 1387 01:41:04.800 --> 01:41:06.760 I don't have enough lack. 1388 01:41:06.960 --> 01:41:09.000 I am not enough lack. 1389 01:41:09.000 --> 01:41:09.720 Right. 1390 01:41:09.920 --> 01:41:12.560 My clients won't think I'm enough lack. 1391 01:41:12.760 --> 01:41:15.360 These are all these are all just lack based thinking. 1392 01:41:15.560 --> 01:41:16.400 Right. 1393 01:41:16.600 --> 01:41:19.480 And so. 1394 01:41:19.680 --> 01:41:26.160 Right now, I want you to write down some biblical verses. 1395 01:41:27.280 --> 01:41:34.000 And nowadays with chat, TPT or even all of the AI that's built into all the search 1396 01:41:34.200 --> 01:41:41.800 engines, if you don't know, just type in what verses help break 1397 01:41:42.000 --> 01:41:47.600 the belief in shame or what verses, you know. 1398 01:41:47.800 --> 01:41:53.680 Counter that, you know, what verses teach that I am prosperous or that I am love or 1399 01:41:53.680 --> 01:41:57.360 what verses help free me from guilt or whatever it is you're struggling. 1400 01:41:57.560 --> 01:41:59.840 If you don't know, you can look them up. 1401 01:42:01.480 --> 01:42:04.960 Chat, TPT can give you a really great Bible study, ask it to write you a Bible 1402 01:42:05.160 --> 01:42:09.400 study, tell me all the verses to break the fear or break the shame or break 1403 01:42:09.600 --> 01:42:11.640 the guilt or break through debt, whatever. 1404 01:42:11.840 --> 01:42:13.120 OK. 1405 01:42:13.680 --> 01:42:15.360 Really good, really good. 1406 01:42:15.560 --> 01:42:19.640 So write some verses down or look up, find some verses real quick. 1407 01:42:19.840 --> 01:42:22.080 Then we'll keep moving. 1408 01:42:24.680 --> 01:42:26.160 Write down. 1409 01:42:26.360 --> 01:42:31.040 We're gathering evidence for the new belief. 1410 01:42:34.920 --> 01:42:42.680 The new belief, the truth, replacing lies, breaking down strongholds. 1411 01:42:48.480 --> 01:42:50.520 Hey, Heather. Hey, Jamie. 1412 01:42:50.520 --> 01:42:51.880 I didn't say hi to you earlier. 1413 01:42:51.880 --> 01:42:54.240 I didn't see you, see you pop in there. 1414 01:42:54.440 --> 01:42:55.960 Glad you're here. 1415 01:42:56.600 --> 01:42:58.400 Find some more evidence. 1416 01:42:58.600 --> 01:43:00.560 That young man. 1417 01:43:24.040 --> 01:43:25.920 Gather that evidence. 1418 01:43:25.960 --> 01:43:30.080 And then what happens is going to be repetition. 1419 01:43:30.280 --> 01:43:33.920 You learned the belief that you have now by repetition. 1420 01:43:34.120 --> 01:43:35.760 You kept on repeating over and over. 1421 01:43:35.960 --> 01:43:37.320 Oh, no, I don't have enough. 1422 01:43:37.520 --> 01:43:38.600 Put the feeling to it. 1423 01:43:38.800 --> 01:43:40.480 Oh, my goodness. Right. 1424 01:43:40.680 --> 01:43:44.920 And and it becomes part of you. 1425 01:43:45.120 --> 01:43:50.880 And so we begin to change this with repetition of the truth. 1426 01:43:51.080 --> 01:43:54.480 So let's just say, OK, I don't have enough. 1427 01:43:54.480 --> 01:43:59.240 I lack and you can see behind me 1428 01:43:59.440 --> 01:44:04.880 or another verse would be, my God will supply all my needs according to his 1429 01:44:05.080 --> 01:44:08.320 riches in glory. Right. 1430 01:44:08.520 --> 01:44:12.400 Never have the righteous been forsaken nor bacon for bread. 1431 01:44:12.600 --> 01:44:14.080 Right. 1432 01:44:15.360 --> 01:44:16.640 I don't know if I can do it. 1433 01:44:16.840 --> 01:44:21.240 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. 1434 01:44:21.400 --> 01:44:24.800 OK, so begin to have. 1435 01:44:25.560 --> 01:44:28.880 The verses, it could be around healing. 1436 01:44:29.080 --> 01:44:31.760 Could be around all of these things. 1437 01:44:31.960 --> 01:44:33.400 OK. 1438 01:44:38.800 --> 01:44:40.320 OK. 1439 01:44:41.120 --> 01:44:42.600 Love it. 1440 01:44:42.800 --> 01:44:44.280 OK. 1441 01:44:44.480 --> 01:44:47.720 I love that Ephesians three, 20. 1442 01:44:47.920 --> 01:44:50.920 Now to him who is able 1443 01:44:51.120 --> 01:44:55.200 to do immeasurably more than all we could ask, imagine, according to his power, 1444 01:44:55.400 --> 01:44:58.600 that's at work within us. Beautiful, beautiful. 1445 01:44:58.800 --> 01:45:00.000 OK, let's take a four. 1446 01:45:00.000 --> 01:45:03.400 minute break. We're going to get into part three. Oh, it's the 1447 01:45:03.400 --> 01:45:06.480 best. It's the juiciest. But I want you awake, drink some 1448 01:45:06.480 --> 01:45:10.160 water, move. I'm going to push pause. Let's come back at the 1449 01:45:10.160 --> 01:45:13.800 top of the hour stretch, do some jumping jacks, get some fresh 1450 01:45:13.800 --> 01:45:17.760 air. Come on, come on. Let's have lots of energy for part 1451 01:45:17.760 --> 01:45:18.840 three. Okay. 1452 01:45:20.760 --> 01:45:21.960 Recording in progress. 1453 01:45:22.000 --> 01:45:27.240 I love I love your comments. I love your takeaways. So I love 1454 01:45:27.240 --> 01:45:30.920 the fact that you realize you say I struggle with this a lot 1455 01:45:30.920 --> 01:45:35.800 more than I thought. Yeah. So many of us we think if you think 1456 01:45:35.800 --> 01:45:38.720 like a victim, here's different levels of awareness. If you 1457 01:45:38.720 --> 01:45:44.120 think like a victim, you think that life is just happening to 1458 01:45:44.120 --> 01:45:48.920 you. The victim mentality is everything's happening to me. 1459 01:45:49.040 --> 01:45:54.040 Why does this always happen to me? Why do I keep going through 1460 01:45:54.040 --> 01:45:58.240 this all the time? Because you're you haven't gotten to 1461 01:45:58.240 --> 01:46:02.560 the root, you're just reacting out the same patterns over and 1462 01:46:02.560 --> 01:46:07.240 over again. So the next level of awareness life is happening to 1463 01:46:07.240 --> 01:46:11.480 me. The next level of awareness is when you start to realize 1464 01:46:11.480 --> 01:46:15.560 biblically, wow, what I think really does matter. I'm called 1465 01:46:15.560 --> 01:46:19.320 to be transformed by the renewing of my mind. Wow, the 1466 01:46:19.360 --> 01:46:24.960 Bible has so much to say about my words. I am speaking, like 1467 01:46:24.960 --> 01:46:28.960 into existence things I made in the image of God and my words, 1468 01:46:28.960 --> 01:46:33.400 the Bible says the power of life and death is in the tongue. Wow, 1469 01:46:33.840 --> 01:46:37.080 I have power with my thoughts. I have power with my words, the 1470 01:46:37.080 --> 01:46:41.040 power of life and death is in the tongue. The second part of 1471 01:46:41.040 --> 01:46:46.880 that verse is and we eat the fruit thereof. Okay, so wow, my 1472 01:46:46.880 --> 01:46:51.160 feelings really have that much impact me just mulling in a 1473 01:46:51.160 --> 01:46:55.120 certain state, a certain frequency actually affects my 1474 01:46:55.120 --> 01:46:58.640 organs actually creates dis-ease. Really? Yeah, 1475 01:46:58.640 --> 01:47:05.080 psychoneuroimmunology is a huge field. The relationship between 1476 01:47:05.080 --> 01:47:12.720 our feelings and our immune system, our health, incredible, 1477 01:47:12.880 --> 01:47:19.720 incredible. I love when I'm talking about levels of 1478 01:47:19.720 --> 01:47:24.160 awareness. Victim, life is happening to me, poor me, life's 1479 01:47:24.160 --> 01:47:26.640 happening to me, you're waiting for everything outside of you to 1480 01:47:26.640 --> 01:47:31.040 change. Then you get some awareness that I can make 1481 01:47:31.040 --> 01:47:36.440 certain things happen. That's a lot of the self-help world out 1482 01:47:36.440 --> 01:47:44.200 there. Just make it happen. Manifest it. That's most of the 1483 01:47:44.200 --> 01:47:47.120 self-help, which is it's a much higher frequency, at least you 1484 01:47:47.120 --> 01:47:49.560 started to take some of your power back and you're not acting 1485 01:47:49.560 --> 01:47:53.000 as a victim, just everything's happening to you. It's a higher 1486 01:47:53.000 --> 01:48:00.640 level of awareness. An even higher level of awareness is 1487 01:48:01.520 --> 01:48:06.120 life is happening through me, which is what we're really 1488 01:48:06.120 --> 01:48:09.280 talking about here. I start to have the awareness of my 1489 01:48:09.280 --> 01:48:14.600 identity. Who am I in Christ? What power and what authority 1490 01:48:14.600 --> 01:48:21.160 has been given? What am I allowing to create through me? 1491 01:48:22.160 --> 01:48:26.000 That's a higher level of awareness. I love that many of 1492 01:48:26.000 --> 01:48:28.480 you are growing in awareness. Just the awareness that I 1493 01:48:28.480 --> 01:48:30.880 struggle with this more than I thought. Most people are not 1494 01:48:30.880 --> 01:48:34.640 thinking about their thinking. They're just busy doing their 1495 01:48:34.640 --> 01:48:41.360 human doings. They're not human beings. I love the very fact 1496 01:48:41.360 --> 01:48:47.880 that your name means worthy of love. This is what I strongly 1497 01:48:47.880 --> 01:48:52.560 believe. I believe you have a divine identity, who you are in 1498 01:48:52.560 --> 01:48:55.760 Christ. I believe you have a divine purpose. It's my great 1499 01:48:55.760 --> 01:48:59.680 joy to help people discover their purpose. I believe you 1500 01:48:59.680 --> 01:49:05.880 have a God given vision that you're here to live out. Part 1501 01:49:05.880 --> 01:49:11.280 of that is there is something in you that you're here to prove. 1502 01:49:13.240 --> 01:49:17.960 I love that it's built right in your name. You're here to prove 1503 01:49:17.960 --> 01:49:23.680 the truth. Scripture says that you're more than worthy of love. 1504 01:49:24.200 --> 01:49:26.800 Because you're the apple of God's eye. You're made in his 1505 01:49:26.840 --> 01:49:31.800 image. You're dearly loved. Each of us have something. The more 1506 01:49:31.800 --> 01:49:34.200 you understand your purpose and your vision, this is where 1507 01:49:34.200 --> 01:49:38.240 coaching is so powerful. This is why community is so powerful. 1508 01:49:40.680 --> 01:49:46.760 For me, I was so taught that you have to strive and you have to 1509 01:49:46.760 --> 01:49:51.640 sacrifice. I was raised that in order to be successful, you 1510 01:49:51.640 --> 01:49:55.360 sacrifice. You sacrifice sleep. My dad used to say, I can sleep 1511 01:49:55.360 --> 01:49:57.520 when I'm dead. He died early because of that. 1512 01:50:00.000 --> 01:50:02.800 that forget about it, just work. 1513 01:50:02.800 --> 01:50:05.480 Do what others won't now so you can do what others can't. 1514 01:50:05.480 --> 01:50:08.480 And so people just sacrifice, sacrifice health, 1515 01:50:08.480 --> 01:50:11.080 sacrifice relationships, sacrifice your life, 1516 01:50:11.080 --> 01:50:14.880 sacrifice your joy, all of that, right? 1517 01:50:14.880 --> 01:50:17.840 And so I'm here, Prosper in All Things, 1518 01:50:17.840 --> 01:50:24.240 the name of my company, I'm here to prove 3 John 2. 1519 01:50:24.240 --> 01:50:28.360 3 John 2 goes like this, beloved. 1520 01:50:28.400 --> 01:50:31.480 So it starts with love, be loved, be loved. 1521 01:50:34.240 --> 01:50:41.600 Above all, I pray you may prosper in all things, 1522 01:50:41.600 --> 01:50:45.080 physically, relationally, spiritually, financially, 1523 01:50:45.080 --> 01:50:50.600 prosper in all things, and be in health, 1524 01:50:50.600 --> 01:50:55.960 even as your soul prospers. 1525 01:50:55.960 --> 01:50:57.720 That's 3 John, OK? 1526 01:50:57.720 --> 01:51:00.920 So beloved, I pray that you prosper in all things 1527 01:51:00.920 --> 01:51:05.080 and be in health, even as your soul prospers. 1528 01:51:05.080 --> 01:51:07.200 Your soul is your mind, will, and emotions. 1529 01:51:07.200 --> 01:51:08.840 This is an equation. 1530 01:51:08.840 --> 01:51:12.920 As your mind, your will, and your emotions prosper, 1531 01:51:12.920 --> 01:51:16.040 you're going to prosper in all things. 1532 01:51:16.040 --> 01:51:18.240 So my whole life has been dedicated 1533 01:51:18.240 --> 01:51:23.560 to proving, to living that out, to teaching it. 1534 01:51:23.560 --> 01:51:26.880 You're here to prove something as well. 1535 01:51:26.880 --> 01:51:32.240 And for Christ, for God, for love, OK? 1536 01:51:32.240 --> 01:51:33.760 So, so beautiful. 1537 01:51:33.760 --> 01:51:34.280 Let me see. 1538 01:51:34.280 --> 01:51:38.440 You guys put all kinds of stuff here I want to read. 1539 01:51:38.440 --> 01:51:40.160 OK. 1540 01:51:40.160 --> 01:51:43.240 Reset and refreshing in the midst of the journey. 1541 01:51:43.240 --> 01:51:44.480 Love it, OK? 1542 01:51:48.360 --> 01:51:50.520 Oh, you heard that too, I'll sleep when I'm dead. 1543 01:51:50.520 --> 01:51:51.360 Isn't that annoying? 1544 01:51:51.360 --> 01:51:52.880 OK, yeah. 1545 01:51:52.880 --> 01:51:54.320 No, I get plenty of sleep. 1546 01:51:54.320 --> 01:51:56.920 Our sleep is tied to our immune system. 1547 01:51:56.920 --> 01:51:59.240 Get plenty of sleep, unless I'm dancing. 1548 01:51:59.240 --> 01:52:04.800 OK, Nicole, Hebrews 10, 35 and 36. 1549 01:52:04.800 --> 01:52:07.400 So do not throw away your confidence. 1550 01:52:07.400 --> 01:52:09.160 It will be richly rewarded. 1551 01:52:09.160 --> 01:52:10.880 That hits home to me. 1552 01:52:10.880 --> 01:52:12.880 Love it, with I am enough. 1553 01:52:12.880 --> 01:52:15.200 So good, you guys are getting some good, juicy stuff. 1554 01:52:15.200 --> 01:52:16.800 I love that. 1555 01:52:16.800 --> 01:52:19.560 OK, here's the next concept then. 1556 01:52:19.560 --> 01:52:22.440 It's an extension of that, part three, 1557 01:52:22.440 --> 01:52:31.040 is that we now start living from instead of for. 1558 01:52:31.040 --> 01:52:35.720 We start living from love instead of for love. 1559 01:52:35.720 --> 01:52:38.040 Or another way of looking at this 1560 01:52:38.040 --> 01:52:41.720 is we're living from who God says we are. 1561 01:52:41.720 --> 01:52:45.120 We're living from abundance. 1562 01:52:45.120 --> 01:52:49.240 We're living from this overflow, from this fullness. 1563 01:52:49.240 --> 01:52:52.120 We're living from God in me. 1564 01:52:52.120 --> 01:53:01.520 Not trying to get to something or trying to work for something. 1565 01:53:01.520 --> 01:53:04.080 That can sound like a little nuance. 1566 01:53:04.080 --> 01:53:07.760 But that's the difference, the split 1567 01:53:07.760 --> 01:53:11.640 of where those two end up, working for or trying 1568 01:53:11.640 --> 01:53:15.160 to get to something and working from something 1569 01:53:15.160 --> 01:53:17.920 is like night and day, where you end up. 1570 01:53:17.920 --> 01:53:21.240 Peace, health, abundance, joy. 1571 01:53:21.240 --> 01:53:24.200 All of it. 1572 01:53:24.200 --> 01:53:29.840 So it's a super exciting concept, really. 1573 01:53:29.840 --> 01:53:31.440 I could really spend a lot. 1574 01:53:31.440 --> 01:53:34.920 Most of us, and I kind of talked about this at the beginning, 1575 01:53:34.920 --> 01:53:39.400 most of us are constantly trying to get to something. 1576 01:53:39.400 --> 01:53:48.080 And part of the power of you really applying this 1577 01:53:48.120 --> 01:53:55.160 and really having joy is learning to live in the now. 1578 01:53:55.160 --> 01:53:59.000 So let me get a drink here. 1579 01:54:03.680 --> 01:54:06.840 We've been taught a timeline model of things, 1580 01:54:06.840 --> 01:54:09.400 that there's a past. 1581 01:54:09.400 --> 01:54:10.920 And a lot of us spend a lot of time 1582 01:54:10.920 --> 01:54:14.560 in that past, which leads to what you're talking about. 1583 01:54:14.560 --> 01:54:20.040 Shame, blame, regret, all kinds of low frequency. 1584 01:54:20.040 --> 01:54:22.560 Or nostalgia, just wishing for the good old days. 1585 01:54:22.560 --> 01:54:26.480 But it robs our present. 1586 01:54:26.480 --> 01:54:29.320 So most of us are either living in the past 1587 01:54:29.320 --> 01:54:33.760 or we think that the past is what is creating our future. 1588 01:54:33.760 --> 01:54:37.840 And so we think we're just a result of our past. 1589 01:54:37.880 --> 01:54:43.200 Or we're living in the future. 1590 01:54:43.200 --> 01:54:46.200 And we're missing what's happening right here. 1591 01:54:46.200 --> 01:54:48.400 So we keep trying to get to something. 1592 01:54:48.400 --> 01:54:53.200 When I get this, once I have this, after I get this, 1593 01:54:53.200 --> 01:54:55.160 then I can be happy, healthy, prosperous. 1594 01:54:55.160 --> 01:54:58.960 So we're always putting off everything in the future. 1595 01:54:58.960 --> 01:55:01.160 And Jesus had so. 1596 01:55:00.000 --> 01:55:03.640 so much to say about take no thought for tomorrow. 1597 01:55:03.640 --> 01:55:05.680 Tomorrow has enough worries of its own. 1598 01:55:06.540 --> 01:55:10.240 Have so much to say about living in the present. 1599 01:55:10.240 --> 01:55:13.700 And it's in this moment and this moment alone 1600 01:55:13.700 --> 01:55:15.320 that your prayers are answered. 1601 01:55:15.320 --> 01:55:18.760 It's in this moment that you can create transformation. 1602 01:55:18.760 --> 01:55:21.160 It's in this moment. 1603 01:55:21.160 --> 01:55:23.960 God showed me once in prayer that all of eternity 1604 01:55:23.960 --> 01:55:25.720 is contained in every moment. 1605 01:55:25.720 --> 01:55:27.320 It's a holographic universe, 1606 01:55:27.320 --> 01:55:32.320 but the idea is in this very moment is everything. 1607 01:55:32.880 --> 01:55:37.880 When we can learn to stop rushing, hurrying, 1608 01:55:38.560 --> 01:55:43.560 trying to get to something that is sacrificing our present 1609 01:55:46.020 --> 01:55:50.060 and stay grounded right here in right now. 1610 01:55:52.080 --> 01:55:57.080 If we can understand that the past does not exist anymore, 1611 01:55:58.320 --> 01:56:00.400 you can't go in the past and change it. 1612 01:56:00.400 --> 01:56:02.800 You can't go do anything with it. 1613 01:56:02.800 --> 01:56:03.720 It's gone. 1614 01:56:04.920 --> 01:56:06.800 The only thing you can do in your memory, 1615 01:56:06.800 --> 01:56:08.480 because it's just a memory, 1616 01:56:08.480 --> 01:56:09.880 is you can reactivate it 1617 01:56:09.880 --> 01:56:12.200 and keep bringing it into the present 1618 01:56:14.040 --> 01:56:16.840 and rob the joy from the present. 1619 01:56:16.840 --> 01:56:20.280 And like I said, take you in a low frequency. 1620 01:56:21.280 --> 01:56:23.840 You're looking in the past, so you're in shame. 1621 01:56:23.840 --> 01:56:24.680 You're in blame. 1622 01:56:24.680 --> 01:56:25.680 You're in regret. 1623 01:56:25.680 --> 01:56:27.040 You're in disappointment. 1624 01:56:27.760 --> 01:56:30.000 You're in disillusionment, whatever. 1625 01:56:30.000 --> 01:56:32.320 When you can understand that the past is gone 1626 01:56:33.440 --> 01:56:38.440 and you can bless it, you can release it, 1627 01:56:40.040 --> 01:56:42.000 you can glean it like a field. 1628 01:56:42.000 --> 01:56:43.800 Let me pull, what was the lessons? 1629 01:56:43.800 --> 01:56:45.240 Let me bring the lessons. 1630 01:56:45.240 --> 01:56:46.400 What was the blessings? 1631 01:56:46.400 --> 01:56:48.300 Let me bring the blessings. 1632 01:56:49.300 --> 01:56:52.040 But beyond that, we're not gonna dwell there. 1633 01:56:52.040 --> 01:56:53.600 We don't allow ourselves to dwell there. 1634 01:56:53.600 --> 01:56:55.920 We're gonna live right here, right now. 1635 01:56:55.920 --> 01:56:58.440 This is how true transformation happens. 1636 01:56:59.760 --> 01:57:04.760 So the truth is the past does not create your present. 1637 01:57:06.520 --> 01:57:11.520 What's interesting about that is that we're seeing the past 1638 01:57:12.880 --> 01:57:15.480 through our present lens. 1639 01:57:15.480 --> 01:57:19.240 So you all understand that you don't see life as it is. 1640 01:57:19.240 --> 01:57:21.520 You see it as you are. 1641 01:57:21.520 --> 01:57:25.160 You've got to understand first and foremost perception, 1642 01:57:25.160 --> 01:57:28.880 right, point of view, perspective, right? 1643 01:57:28.880 --> 01:57:30.320 So we're looking at our past 1644 01:57:30.320 --> 01:57:32.660 through the lens of what we know today. 1645 01:57:34.560 --> 01:57:37.160 And we're imprinting that on there. 1646 01:57:38.200 --> 01:57:41.640 So the past does not have to equal the present. 1647 01:57:41.640 --> 01:57:45.160 You can actually reframe your past 1648 01:57:45.160 --> 01:57:47.280 and you can choose to make it a blessing. 1649 01:57:48.400 --> 01:57:51.100 You can choose to thank God for it. 1650 01:57:51.680 --> 01:57:52.580 You can choose to say, 1651 01:57:52.580 --> 01:57:55.380 because of that, I learned and I became. 1652 01:57:55.380 --> 01:57:57.860 Because of that, I'm able to. 1653 01:57:57.860 --> 01:57:59.740 So you can glean the blessings, 1654 01:57:59.740 --> 01:58:03.140 you can forgive and release the rest. 1655 01:58:04.260 --> 01:58:08.380 If you're still living in the past with unforgiveness, 1656 01:58:08.380 --> 01:58:13.380 this is a bondage that is robbing everything from you. 1657 01:58:13.980 --> 01:58:18.780 We don't forgive someone for their sake 1658 01:58:18.780 --> 01:58:20.460 or because they deserve it. 1659 01:58:21.340 --> 01:58:23.100 It's for our sake. 1660 01:58:23.100 --> 01:58:26.420 You ever heard unforgiveness is like drinking a poison 1661 01:58:26.420 --> 01:58:28.740 and hoping that it kills the other person? 1662 01:58:28.740 --> 01:58:30.720 No, it's a poison that's killing you. 1663 01:58:32.280 --> 01:58:36.140 And so there's a wonderful exercise that you can do 1664 01:58:36.980 --> 01:58:38.580 and you can write this down, 1665 01:58:39.660 --> 01:58:44.660 but you can say, I release. 1666 01:58:45.820 --> 01:58:48.020 So you literally need to let go. 1667 01:58:48.020 --> 01:58:50.820 Some of you need to actually visualize