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All right, to repeat, we have a little shift in spotlights.

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And so if you are interested in a spotlight, you're going to put their name and their city,

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okay?

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And the reason why you want to add their city is because they might have a similar first

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name to a different spotlight.

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So put their name, their city in the subject line of your email, and you're going to send

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those emails to spotlight.

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Is it plural or just spotlight?

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Spotlights or spotlight?

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Spotlight.

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Spotlight, singular.

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Spotlight at JaneMedia.org.

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So not admin, at JackieDorman.com.

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Spotlight at Jane, like the girl's name, J-A-N-E-M-E-D-I-A, like media, dot O-R-G.

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Okay?

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If someone wants to type that into the chat, that would be great.

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Spotlight at JaneMedia.org.

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Thank you, Erin Joy, appreciate that.

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Okay.

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So that is going to actually help that move faster.

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We actually have a team member that is only going to be handling your spotlights, and

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so that's going to be awesome.

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Going to help us move that a lot, lot faster.

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And once again, if you do inquire about a spotlight, you need to make sure that you

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send your bio and your pictures attached to your interest email, and then that's all you

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have to do.

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You're going to get an email in response saying, hey, we got it, we received it, but if you

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don't hear back, then that spotlight wasn't right for you, it wasn't a match, and or,

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you know, whoever the spotlight is was, you know, meeting other people and not interested

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in making the connection.

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And so we can't control it, y'all, all we can do is put ourselves out there and see

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what happens, and we're hoping to do lots and lots and lots more spotlights.

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Just this year alone, we've spotlighted probably about 50, 60 people or more, so I'm hoping

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to do more and more and more of those.

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Okay, so we're going to get to the spotlights in a little while.

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We have a couple guys to spotlight tonight.

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Ladies, we did not get your spotlights, and so let's go ahead and just put up your city

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and state here.

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Like I always tell you, when you come to any of phase three sessions, you should be camera

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ready.

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You should have your camera on, you should have your name and where you live in your

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Zoom window, just like Melissa.

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Let's use her as an example.

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She's got her cute hat on, okay, she's camera ready, she's got her bright lipstick on, she's

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looking fine, and she has her name, and she has where she lives, right there.

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She lives in between PA and Texas.

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Okay, perfect example.

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We have Julie here, looking gorgeous, okay, got her earbuds in, saying she lives in California.

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Sandy, she got the memo, she understood the assignment, lives in South Carolina.

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Christopher, Syracuse, New York.

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We see a side profile of Christopher right now, but he's got a fine jawline there.

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Thanks, Christopher, we can see your face.

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All right, so if you didn't put your city or state, just make sure you do that in the

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future.

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It's really easy to rename your Zoom window.

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If someone could put a little tutorial up in the chat, telling people how to rename

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their Zoom window, that would be great.

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Thomas, Los Angeles, you can see, all right, Lori in SoCal, Sharice in DFW, Paul in Cincinnati,

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Ohio.

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So once again, if you didn't realize that you should put up your city and state, now

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you're going to know.

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You can put your last name on, that's up to you.

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Or you can put your first name and your last name, your first initial, because people may

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see you here and they may come and try to find you on social media based on your first

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and last name, and they may not be able to get ahold of you because their interest might

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go to your spam inbox on social media.

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And or, what's more likely to happen is you're not wanting to be spotlighted and someone's

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reaching out to you, and then you don't know if they're a member of this community or not.

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And then you're asking us, hey, do you know this person?

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And all that happens.

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And so if you want those connections to come through us, then I would just leave your first

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name.

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If you don't care if people come and sleuth you out on their own, then you can put whatever

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up you want.

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You can put your address, your email, no, I'm kidding.

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Don't do that.

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All right.

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One of our ladies just recently I heard offered a reward for anyone who could find her husband

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for her.

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That's one way to do it.

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I thought that was pretty creative and not opposed.

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But we definitely don't want any money-changing hands in here for finder's fees for finding

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someone's spirit mate.

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Okay.

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Guys, we do have a challenge this week.

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I just want to make that announcement.

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So if you have any friends or family that are single, I believe what you help make happen

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for others, God will make happen for you.

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So if you want to send them to the challenge, they can go to JackieDorman.com.

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Some of you don't even know how to spell my name still.

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It's 1-0.

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It's not Dorman.

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It's Dorman.

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JackieDorman.com.

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And at the top of the page, there's a banner they can click on to go to the challenge.

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We are calling it the Millennial Love Story Challenge because we really want to focus

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on people who are exhausted by modern dating.

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But then we were told, hey, everyone's exhausted by modern dating.

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So now it's the modern.

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And so the Millennial Love Story Challenge is the modern love story challenge for those

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of you that are exhausted by modern dating.

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And remember, you don't have to join that challenge because we are going to put the

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replays of what I'm teaching in that challenge in here in phase three so that you guys can

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enjoy any kind of upgrades from those ideas that I'm going to be releasing tomorrow, right?

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It is a co-ed challenge.

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So if you have any guys or girls that are just tired of the dating apps, here's the

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tagline.

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Dating apps, you hate them, right?

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Dating apps failed you.

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Church ignored you.

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Church doesn't have anything to do with singles over 30 for the most part.

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And then God has not failed you.

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So dating apps failed you, okay?

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Church ignored you, but God has not forgotten you.

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He has not forgotten you.

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And so if you know anyone who's really suffering, and this would be their very first touch point

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with us as a community, this would be a great thing to send them to because it's absolutely

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free.

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They're going to get little old me, Jackie D, and they're going to get blown away by what

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I'm going to release.

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And it is a lot of new teaching for this community, and I promise you, you do not have to get

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back on our list and get back in there and confuse all the whole algorithm.

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You can just stay right here, and we will be releasing the replays here tomorrow, right

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after I teach it.

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It'll be here.

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Teach it.

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It'll be here.

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Teach it.

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It'll be here, okay?

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So it will be in your app, I should say, in replays.

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Cool?

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Thank you, guys.

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I appreciate it.

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All right.

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So we're going to do a little Ask Jackie action.

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You guys, we will be doing Ask Jackie again every single week, and so you have that questionnaire

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in your resource tab on the app.

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Guys, girls, you both have it.

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And so all you have to do is just click on that, and you can put your question, and you

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can put your question in anonymously if you don't want me to know who you are.

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I think better than that is for you to just let me know who you are when you're asking

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the question, and then just say in the question if you wouldn't share my name if you ever

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share the answer to this question, because I won't.

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In fact, I usually don't use people's names, but it'd be good if I knew who's asking the

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question so that if I see you and I want to help solve your problem somehow, then I know

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who I was talking to.

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Make sense?

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All right.

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Guys, I think that we are in a very important time spiritually.

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We just came out of Passover week.

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We just came out of Easter.

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This is our first session since Easter besides women's prayer, and I just want to let you

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guys know that I had a word from the Lord, and I want to release that over you guys right

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now.

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The Lord told me that there was a brokering going on in heaven.

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There was a brokering happening, and that word actually means that there's negotiations

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happening, that there's settlements that are being reached, and that there is agreements

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that are happening in heaven.

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I know that it's kind of beyond our pay grade to understand fully what that looks like,

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but I believe that there have been things, and you're like, what do you mean negotiations?

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God doesn't negotiate with evil.

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He doesn't, like was it George Bush that said that we don't negotiate with terrorists or

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something, right?

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There's like the famous line.

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I'm not saying that he's negotiating.

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I'm saying that, like Jesus said to Peter, Satan desired to sift you like wheat, but

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I have prayed for you that your faith would not fail you, and so when you are what?

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When you are delivered, go and strengthen your brethren, right?

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There's all kinds of stuff that's going on in the spirit realm that we don't fully understand,

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and it might even offend our religiosity, what's happening, because we maybe think,

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well, God doesn't work that way, or that's not how things work, or that's not what I

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was ever taught.

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Well, you know what?

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There's a lot of things that are true that none of us were ever taught.

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Do you believe that?

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Do you believe that?

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believe that you have not exhausted the truth of God, that there's a lot of things that

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don't make any sense to your human reasoning or your religion that are true of the supernatural

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and of God that we just don't fully understand.

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And so I'm telling you there are agreements that are happening in the heavenlies because

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one thing I do know is I know I hear from the Lord.

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And I know that I didn't make that up because it doesn't make any earthly sense to me.

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And so the Lord is saying that there are agreements happening in the heavenlies.

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And what does that mean to you guys and to me?

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It means that if there are settlements of things, you know how Jesus says, it is settled,

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it is finished.

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If there are those types of things that are happening in the unseen realm, then they're

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going to manifest something in the scene realm.

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If there's kind of some things that are closing, some chapters that are closing, that are coming

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to some sort of settling and ending, if there are agreements that are being made between

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us and our spirits, that's why it's important.

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Remember, I told you, pray in the spirit if you can, you know, and if you can ask God

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to give you your prayer language, because we want to circumvent our human reasoning.

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Sometimes we got to bypass what we think in order to come into agreement with what God

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thinks a lot of times, actually.

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And so if you don't have your prayer language, then all you need to really do to intercede

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is just start to speak God's word from his word, to start to read the Logos out loud,

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to start to give God permission to do whatever it is that he wants to do in your life.

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That is the season that we're in right now, okay?

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So because I know that there's movement happening in the unseen, I know that we're going to

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start to see movement in the scene.

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And thank you for everyone that's been praying for our prayer leader, Teresa.

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She actually is doing better.

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There's actually some positive movement there.

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And so once again, things that are happening in the unseen realm are beginning to be seen

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in the seen realm, and that's important stuff.

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That's all that I want to share about that.

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But the reason why I'm sharing that is because some of you guys need to step into, and go

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ahead and take a look at people's cities and states in the chat, since we don't have a

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lot of single spotlights for tonight.

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Sorry about that, you guys.

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We will definitely get ahead of that, but with the holiday and all kinds of different

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things happening, we didn't get that going on.

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So go ahead and take a look over there.

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With that being said, some of you have to come into agreement with the scripture that

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says that, my people will be made willing in my day of power, and your prayer needs

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to be, God, make me willing in your day of power.

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That word is indicative of visitation.

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So in the day of God's visitation on mankind, his people will be made willing.

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Willing for what?

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Willing for anything.

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Willing to be made willing for things that maybe weren't part of your plan.

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And I'm seeing a lot of that in the love stories that are rolling in right now.

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People who are taking seriously what I have taught you guys, and the coaches have continued

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to reinforce in your lives, of having a list of non-negotiables and deal breakers that

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are from heaven only.

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Not preferences that have been escalated to non-negotiables.

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Not preferences that are tried and true, that you know the Lord has spoken and said

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to you that you can not do without, or you can't do with.

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That's all that needs to be there.

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Nothing else.

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Because one thing I can promise you, and I can promise all of you, and I don't want to

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see you guys breaking your own hearts.

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You've already had your hearts broken too many times by too many other things.

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I don't want to see you breaking your own hearts.

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One thing that I can promise you is that not one of you will have a love story, an

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invitation to a love story.

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Not even a love story, but an invitation to a love story that is not going to require

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sacrifice on your part.

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Not zero of you, zero.

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There will be obstacles to overcome.

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There will be aspects of that invitation into that partnership, that love story, that

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relationship.

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There will be aspects that you weren't expecting and that weren't part of your preferences

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and that you maybe don't even like.

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You don't like it that that person's been married before or that they have children.

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You might not like it that they have a baby mama.

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Daddy, that's a little whoo. Okay, you might not like it that they don't live 30 minutes

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away from you in rush hour traffic. You might not like it, fill in the blank.

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You might not like it that, and this might be part of your list of non-negotiables from heaven

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because you used to be married to an addict and you're not signing back up for anything that even

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looks remotely like that. And so it'd be very difficult for you to enter into a relationship

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with anyone who has any kind of addiction in their family history, in their history, in anything.

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But some of you don't have that deal breaker and you trust that God changes people

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and that someone who has an appropriate amount of

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change in their life and evidence of change and proof of change that it doesn't really matter

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if they were an alcoholic in their 20s. Do you see what I'm saying?

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You don't prefer it, but I mean, we've all been changed and saved from something,

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haven't we? We're all not the same. Hopefully we're all not the person that we used to be.

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And the reason why I'm saying that to you guys tonight is because I really do believe that God

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is inviting people into partnerships. Those agreements that are happening in the heavens,

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how can two walk together unless they agree? I believe that that is happening. I believe that

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it's happening exponentially. I think that it's happening a lot faster. The marriage funnel that

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we have going on in this community now is full. It's just popping out engagements, I feel like,

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every day now. It used to be every couple of weeks, then it was every week, and now I feel

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like it's every other day. And so I want all of you guys to get kind of swept into the funnel.

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But once again, I can promise you that there's going to be lots of things that you just really

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weren't expecting and that you didn't think were going to be part of what your love story looked

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like. I had a client just recently who was telling me that to step into the love story

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that is in front of her, she'd have to give up something, or at least partially give it up,

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or at least to her understanding, give up partially something that had been a dream of hers.

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And then my response to her and my response to you would be this.

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Can you ask God for a new dream?

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Can you ask for a new dream? Maybe not. You might not be able to ask for a new dream.

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You might believe that, you know, this is the dream, and nothing

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is going to take you from it. Okay? And that's why it's just a question.

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If this requires you to release a dream, can you believe God for a new dream?

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Can you?

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I've received several new dreams in my life beyond

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what I wanted or thought I wanted. And I tell you right now, I'm not unhappy. I'm not sitting

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around pining away for what didn't happen. I'm not unhappy. I'm not upset. I'm not sad.

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I'm not pining away for what didn't happen. Now, prayerfully, I have a lot of life left.

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Story's not over. And so on this earth, you know, a lot of life left on this earth. And so

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I just want to encourage all of you, because some of you are in your own way.

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You are. You're in your own way. And the longer that you go single, the more that you get,

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you're getting in your own way. You're not becoming more open. You're becoming more closed

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to anything besides what it is that you think you have to have or want. You're becoming more

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closed off. Okay. The list is getting longer that are non-negotiables from heaven,

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even though they're not. Okay. You're getting, I don't want to say picky. Okay. But you are

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mistaking preferences for needs. And I really want you to take a look at that. So that's all

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of your homework. Revisit that list of God-given non-negotiables, heaven's deal-breakers. Really

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be prayerful about it. Put it before the Lord and really ask God to let your heart be open

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to what's going on in your life. And I hope that you have a great day.

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heart be open and not closed.

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And for you to be willing to be made willing

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in this day of his power and his visitation

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and his partnership,

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this time of agreements and settlements

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that you would be able to participate

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without removing yourself from the equation

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because of blind spots, heart wounds,

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anything and everything that will keep you back.

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Okay, cool.

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Let's do, I think we're gonna do a spotlight

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and I just have, I have two guys right now

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that we could spotlight for tonight.

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So we'll do a spotlight

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and then we'll do a little bit of Q&A with that spotlight,

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a little bit of Ask Jackie

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and then we'll do another spotlight.

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Does that sound okay?

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All right.

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Guys, we kind of have a new format

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that we're gonna introduce for spotlight.

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So this will probably be the last time

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that it looks like this.

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And once again, we didn't open up the spotlights

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in time for people to be able to come and be part of it.

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All right.

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All right.

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Sorry guys, I'm just looking for, I'm looking for our guys.

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Okay, got it.

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All right.

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All right.

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Way to just be thrown on camera.

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Hi Jeremy, how are you?

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I'm doing well.

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How about yourself?

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Good, I'm doing good.

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All right, you guys can see Jeremy is from Columbus, Ohio.

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And as you guys know,

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David and I are also from Columbus, Ohio

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and why that might seem like a very fun coincidence,

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my husband actually knows Jeremy.

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So, and I'm assuming that probably through mutual friends

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is how you found out about this community,

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like maybe someone posting or.

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Yes, I think probably about a year ago

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and I probably should have joined sooner, but finally did.

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So yes.

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As everyone's, everyone hears about it,

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they're like, oh, I'm not doing that.

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And then, and then they eventually end up here anyway.

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So that's fun.

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All right, so Jeremy lives in Columbus, Ohio.

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If you guys don't know where that is,

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it's the capital of Ohio, right there in the middle of,

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actually it's a pretty up and coming city.

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It's considered a sister city

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to Austin and Portland, Oregon.

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So it's a very progressive city in a lot of ways.

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There's a lot of really cool things that happen there.

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And so most people live in the suburbs, not in the city,

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but Jeremy, I know some of your history

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cause you just told me,

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but kind of tell people what you've been up to.

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First of all, how old are you right now?

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I am 43.

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Okay.

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And tell people what you've been up to

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kind of for the last 10, 15 years.

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Okay.

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So I did two stints in Columbus, Ohio.

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So I moved back to Columbus in 2015.

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So for the last 10 years, I've been a IT project manager.

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So that's going really well.

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So currently working in IT.

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At the same time, I am involved at church.

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So I work with the kids ministry there.

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And I also have a ministry background

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before I went into the IT field.

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So I've been doing that as well.

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In my spare time, I do CrossFit.

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So I'd like to kind of stay healthy that way

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so I can balance all my food intake as well.

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So life's about balance on there.

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And then I think this year,

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one of my goals is to go to more concerts.

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So like the last month and a half,

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I went to see Rascal Flatts.

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I love country music.

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And then the last concert I went two weeks ago

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was Forest Frank.

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So that was really awesome as well.

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Oh my gosh.

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I'm so jealous right now.

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I totally want to see.

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I want to go.

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So, okay.

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And so, but you did some ministry.

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You were involved in ministry.

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You went to ministry school back in the day?

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Yes.

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I went to, if you want to call it Bible college

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or seminary here in Columbus.

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And so did that, moved to Baltimore, Maryland

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after that for nine years

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and then worked at a church there

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before moving back to Ohio.

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So yes, I do have a ministry background.

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That's always going to be a part of me no matter what.

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And then I love doing that, so.

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Right.

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Well, what's your favorite kind of ministry

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that you have been involved with?

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I've always been, so I did.

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youth ministry, and then I did kids ministry as well.

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So, and anything in between preteens.

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So I started in youth, did preteen ministry,

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and then in Columbus, went to, you know,

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kids ministry with, you know, around middle school.

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Okay, yeah, awesome.

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You like those middle schoolers.

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You've never been married, no kids.

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Correct, yep, never married, no kids.

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Okay, awesome.

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So ladies, I'm opening up, Jeremy is 43 years old,

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and he lives in Columbus, Ohio,

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and I'm opening up the chat now

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for you guys to ask your questions.

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So if you have any questions, ladies, keep it light.

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I know how y'all can be.

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Rascal Flats, I love, I didn't even know Rascal Flats

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was still out there touring and having concerts,

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but I love them.

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This was their farewell tour, so yes.

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Oh gosh, so they say.

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Most bands have like, what, 10 farewell tours

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until they finally, do you play an instrument?

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Are you, do you do anything musical?

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I do not, no, my family plays instruments.

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It was either a sport or instrument,

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and I chose soccer, so.

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Okay, well, that's fair, that's okay.

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Okay, so how long ago did you move back to Columbus?

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I've been in here, I've been in Columbus for 10 years.

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Okay, so someone's asking, are you open to relocating?

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Yes, I'm open to relocating for the right situation.

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Okay, also someone's like, soccer, yes.

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The other question that we have is,

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are you wanting to have kids?

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Yes, if the opportunity arises, yes.

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It can either be obviously from myself

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or kids from whoever I'm dating or marrying in the future.

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Okay, so they can have kids already,

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you're open to blended family,

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you're open to biological kids,

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are you open to adopting children?

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Yes, yeah, I would do that.

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Okay, all right, wow, those are great answers.

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Okay, do you enjoy being outdoors, hiking, nature?

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I do, yes, yeah, definitely hiking, nature.

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Love the outdoors, and at the same time,

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I do love some binge-watching on Netflix as well.

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Some binge-watching, what's your favorite show?

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What's your favorite show

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that you've been watching, binging lately?

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Reacher, actually, so.

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Reacher, okay, I'll have to write that down.

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That's Jack Reacher?

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Yes.

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Okay, so you like action.

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Action.

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Especially not spy, spy stuff.

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Did you get into, shoot, what's it called?

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David and I, we tried to binge it,

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and then we ended up just watching a video

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about what happened in it because we got too sucked in,

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it was taking too long.

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I'll have to think about it for a second.

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Oh, not duplicity, gosh.

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All right, I'll think about it for a second.

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All right, what is, do you dance?

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Whoa, man, I don't,

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and I'm not opposed to learning, though,

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so I have to embrace the dancing part of myself.

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I mean, you like country music,

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so I feel like you would probably like two-stepping, right?

484
00:28:23.520 --> 00:28:25.640
I can do the two-step, yes.

485
00:28:25.640 --> 00:28:28.360
Okay, so you're not too left-feet,

486
00:28:28.360 --> 00:28:31.320
you have a little bit of rhythm in your life.

487
00:28:31.320 --> 00:28:33.480
Yes, room for improvement, yes.

488
00:28:33.480 --> 00:28:35.720
Severance is the show that we were watching, Severance.

489
00:28:35.720 --> 00:28:37.080
I'm not recommending that, you guys,

490
00:28:37.080 --> 00:28:38.360
just because I'm saying it out loud,

491
00:28:38.480 --> 00:28:39.320
and trust me, it's kind of like

492
00:28:39.320 --> 00:28:41.880
a mind-bending, strange thing.

493
00:28:41.880 --> 00:28:44.080
Okay, let's see.

494
00:28:44.080 --> 00:28:45.320
Do you like baseball?

495
00:28:45.320 --> 00:28:46.840
Are you a baseball fan?

496
00:28:47.800 --> 00:28:50.480
I do like to watch it in person, yes.

497
00:28:50.480 --> 00:28:53.960
Okay, that's, listen, that's just right.

498
00:28:53.960 --> 00:28:55.920
Baseball's so fun to watch in person.

499
00:28:55.920 --> 00:28:59.040
I feel like, I'm assuming you like to watch soccer on TV.

500
00:28:59.040 --> 00:28:59.880
Are you a sports guy?

501
00:28:59.880 --> 00:29:01.400
You like to watch sports?

502
00:29:01.400 --> 00:29:03.480
I do like to watch sports.

503
00:29:03.480 --> 00:29:05.560
I can go to the Columbus Crew Games,

504
00:29:05.560 --> 00:29:09.360
obviously, the Ohio State Buckeyes.

505
00:29:09.360 --> 00:29:10.200
That's right.

506
00:29:10.200 --> 00:29:11.160
Yep, that's right.

507
00:29:12.720 --> 00:29:14.520
David will appreciate that.

508
00:29:14.520 --> 00:29:17.160
So if you're a Michigan fan,

509
00:29:17.160 --> 00:29:20.240
it could be a fun rivalry in the relationship.

510
00:29:21.440 --> 00:29:23.640
Not, yeah, it could be a fun rivalry.

511
00:29:23.640 --> 00:29:26.360
Do you have any animals?

512
00:29:26.360 --> 00:29:28.520
Do you like animals?

513
00:29:28.520 --> 00:29:30.080
Are you allergic to animals?

514
00:29:30.080 --> 00:29:32.560
I am not allergic to animals.

515
00:29:32.560 --> 00:29:34.440
I previously did have a dog.

516
00:29:34.440 --> 00:29:38.120
So, yeah, dogs are okay with me, yes.

517
00:29:40.080 --> 00:29:41.680
I noticed that you're like,

518
00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:44.640
I did have an animal, dogs are okay with me.

519
00:29:44.640 --> 00:29:46.400
You just named one animal.

520
00:29:47.880 --> 00:29:50.640
I've only, so I've only either had,

521
00:29:50.640 --> 00:29:52.120
I've had dogs growing up.

522
00:29:52.120 --> 00:29:55.000
So I mean, that's all I'm really used to.

523
00:29:55.000 --> 00:29:56.560
What if someone had a cat?

524
00:29:57.560 --> 00:30:00.360
A cat is okay, as long as it's not gonna hurt.

525
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.000
Scratch me so

526
00:30:02.400 --> 00:30:05.680
As long as it doesn't scratch him you guys he's he's he's good

527
00:30:05.680 --> 00:30:10.040
I'm sorry, someone had to say go blue because people are just just

528
00:30:11.080 --> 00:30:12.920
so

529
00:30:12.920 --> 00:30:14.920
Okay dogs all the way

530
00:30:15.080 --> 00:30:17.320
Do you or a horse? Do you own?

531
00:30:18.040 --> 00:30:22.400
Like do you rent you own a house to live in a country in the city? Like what?

532
00:30:24.120 --> 00:30:29.240
Currently I have an apartment because it's just me right now. So just saving money doing that

533
00:30:29.600 --> 00:30:31.160
and I live

534
00:30:31.160 --> 00:30:33.280
in the in the suburbs, right so

535
00:30:34.480 --> 00:30:36.480
Yeah, you have any siblings?

536
00:30:37.120 --> 00:30:40.960
I am the oldest I have two younger sisters. Are they married?

537
00:30:41.600 --> 00:30:45.160
Both are married and my youngest sister is currently pregnant

538
00:30:45.760 --> 00:30:49.840
Wow about to be an uncle. Okay, and your parents are they alive still?

539
00:30:50.520 --> 00:30:54.560
Both my parents are alive and well, okay, and they do they live in Columbus

540
00:30:55.280 --> 00:30:59.640
They live an hour and a half northeast so just near Canton, Ohio. Oh

541
00:31:00.200 --> 00:31:05.040
Wow, okay, just near Canton. Parents are alive. They're well, they're married

542
00:31:05.680 --> 00:31:07.680
Yes

543
00:31:09.800 --> 00:31:12.600
Okay, does anyone else have any other questions

544
00:31:13.480 --> 00:31:18.640
How tall are you at all? Listen all men besides Paul tall Paul are five eight

545
00:31:18.640 --> 00:31:23.320
They're all five eight just so you guys know right Jeremy. How about you five eight?

546
00:31:23.920 --> 00:31:26.080
See they're all five eight ladies, so

547
00:31:26.920 --> 00:31:31.800
Listen to Jackie. All right, how old David Dorman? I mean, how tall is he? He's five eight

548
00:31:32.400 --> 00:31:37.920
Okay, I know that we do have a couple guys that are taller than that, but it's just not the norm. All right

549
00:31:38.560 --> 00:31:42.560
Five eight is a terrific height. I agree. I agree David Dorman agrees. All right

550
00:31:43.120 --> 00:31:47.160
People are like I live near Akron. I live in Columbus. I live near Canton

551
00:31:48.120 --> 00:31:54.360
Okay, so if you want to know more about Jeremy you want to ask him a million questions yourself

552
00:31:54.360 --> 00:31:57.880
Please don't do that. But if you do want to get to know him better

553
00:31:58.520 --> 00:32:04.160
Please email us spotlight to singular at Jane media dot org

554
00:32:04.680 --> 00:32:07.000
Jeremy thanks for being a good sport and thanks for being here tonight

555
00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:09.640
Well, thank you. I appreciate it. Yeah

556
00:32:10.280 --> 00:32:12.280
You know, he's cute

557
00:32:12.960 --> 00:32:14.960
He's got a deep masculine voice

558
00:32:14.960 --> 00:32:17.280
I know that you guys are gonna be writing in about him

559
00:32:17.280 --> 00:32:22.000
So listen up if you don't think that you would be a viable match for Jeremy

560
00:32:22.000 --> 00:32:28.200
Then don't waste the spotlight team members time. There'll be more. There's no scarcity here. There's no FOMO

561
00:32:28.200 --> 00:32:33.760
And so if you think that you'd be great match if you want the same things if you're in a similar age range

562
00:32:33.760 --> 00:32:35.760
I like to keep it within five years

563
00:32:36.760 --> 00:32:39.080
one way or the other if you

564
00:32:39.080 --> 00:32:45.400
You know if it sounds like you guys would have some things in common and you just would like to get to know him better

565
00:32:46.080 --> 00:32:52.600
Send your bio send your pictures so we don't have to go trying to hunt you down on social media

566
00:32:52.600 --> 00:32:54.560
I know you're like but Jackie I filled out the spirit mate match

567
00:32:54.560 --> 00:32:58.720
I know but you guys didn't put up great pictures and it only allows you to put up one picture

568
00:32:58.720 --> 00:33:04.040
And so I need you to send me a bunch of pictures of yourself for these spotlights. All right close-ups

569
00:33:04.040 --> 00:33:09.440
No sunglasses want to see your smile. Make sure you're smiling. I want to see full body shot

570
00:33:09.440 --> 00:33:14.080
I want to see you know, just want to see you. I want to see what you're like, okay

571
00:33:14.720 --> 00:33:18.840
And then write those bios don't guys don't let chat GPT write your bio

572
00:33:19.360 --> 00:33:22.640
Just make it personal. It doesn't have to be flowery and poetic

573
00:33:23.160 --> 00:33:28.720
Okay, just so you know if you put those on dating apps people are not gonna read them especially men ladies

574
00:33:28.720 --> 00:33:31.240
This is for you. I know it's a great idea

575
00:33:31.240 --> 00:33:35.520
And we want to use AI to use all kinds of do all kinds of things for us and that's great

576
00:33:35.520 --> 00:33:42.480
and there are certain things like recipes and all different kinds of fun things that you can help you and get from AI, but

577
00:33:43.000 --> 00:33:49.080
You know long bios that are really poetic and use big words. No friends people don't read

578
00:33:49.920 --> 00:33:52.920
Not just bios people don't read in general

579
00:33:52.920 --> 00:33:56.680
You're like, well, I want to read her and just that one needle in the haystack is gonna read my bio

580
00:33:56.680 --> 00:34:02.920
I would suggest that you maybe use it as an outline and you take a couple bullet points that are really true about yourself and

581
00:34:02.920 --> 00:34:04.920
that you feel really represent you and

582
00:34:05.160 --> 00:34:09.600
make it just easier to read just a few bullet points about yourself and

583
00:34:10.120 --> 00:34:14.760
Then leave the rest for the conversation that you will have with the person that swipes on you. Well

584
00:34:15.600 --> 00:34:18.600
That is my expert opinion. All right, so

585
00:34:19.639 --> 00:34:23.679
Let's put up a couple ask Jackie questions give people a chance to ask you questions

586
00:34:23.679 --> 00:34:28.159
Let's put up a couple ask Jackie questions give people a chance to respond to Jeremy

587
00:34:28.480 --> 00:34:34.080
Go ahead and write down his information and do all that stuff. I'll give you guys a chance to do that

588
00:34:34.080 --> 00:34:36.080
let's go ahead and

589
00:34:37.320 --> 00:34:40.440
Do a little ask Jackie and then we'll do our next spotlight

590
00:34:45.280 --> 00:34:50.739
The men don't read that they don't read the bios y'all they're they're swiping on your pictures so take your filters off

591
00:34:50.739 --> 00:34:58.420
Stop filtering your pictures. Okay, they're gonna see you in real life. So stop filtering your pictures

592
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.240
and

593
00:35:01.240 --> 00:35:05.680
You know just take a good picture have someone take a really good picture of yourself

594
00:35:05.680 --> 00:35:12.920
And I'll tell you what men are attracted to because there's a lot more women here tonight than men men are attracted to women that

595
00:35:13.440 --> 00:35:17.300
Smile they're attracted to women that look like they like their life

596
00:35:18.400 --> 00:35:22.400
If you don't look like you like your life, they're not gonna come and try to fix it for you

597
00:35:22.400 --> 00:35:27.560
All right, and so they want to know that you're enjoying life that you're happy to be here

598
00:35:27.560 --> 00:35:32.440
You know, these are the kinds of people that men are attracted to so smile

599
00:35:33.440 --> 00:35:39.160
Smile make sure your hair looks clean. These are just some tips for ladies right now gentlemen. It's for you as well

600
00:35:39.600 --> 00:35:41.600
Nobody likes greasy hair

601
00:35:42.680 --> 00:35:47.320
Wash your hair before you take the picture make sure that your hair looks clean

602
00:35:48.000 --> 00:35:51.880
Look like look in your pictures look like you smell nice

603
00:35:51.880 --> 00:35:58.240
That's just really good advice for everyone look like you smell nice and then if you get a chance to meet in person smell nice

604
00:35:59.840 --> 00:36:06.480
Smell nice don't overpower gentlemen. We don't need all the cologne if you didn't know that's hormone disruptors for us ladies

605
00:36:06.760 --> 00:36:10.680
So don't be coming at us with your smelly hormone disruptors

606
00:36:11.720 --> 00:36:13.720
Okay

607
00:36:14.200 --> 00:36:18.840
There's different ways to smell good get some essential oils not patchouli and

608
00:36:18.960 --> 00:36:21.480
Get some essential oils not patchouli

609
00:36:22.240 --> 00:36:24.240
Okay, not patchouli

610
00:36:24.880 --> 00:36:32.080
But there's there's some guy stuff out there. My husband uses like beef tallow on his face that has lavender in it. He smells good

611
00:36:33.800 --> 00:36:35.880
Gentlemen you can use lotion on your face, too

612
00:36:35.880 --> 00:36:37.520
You don't have to look like the Crypt Keeper

613
00:36:37.520 --> 00:36:41.960
If you don't want to use lotions with a bunch of synthetic stuff in them and chemicals in them

614
00:36:41.960 --> 00:36:44.560
You can get good old-fashioned beef tallow

615
00:36:44.840 --> 00:36:51.840
With some essential oils added in like lavender and other smells at the farmers market you can also order them online somewhere

616
00:36:52.480 --> 00:36:54.480
Do not smell like fish

617
00:36:54.800 --> 00:37:01.120
Kim's like don't forget the fish. I don't know what she's saying here, but don't smell like fish. Okay. Oh the fish pics

618
00:37:02.040 --> 00:37:04.200
No mirror selfies for the guys. I

619
00:37:04.880 --> 00:37:09.480
Personally ladies you don't like the fish pics. I know people make fun of it, but I like the fish pics

620
00:37:10.000 --> 00:37:14.800
The guys are smiling they have their fish, you know guys if you like to golf

621
00:37:14.800 --> 00:37:19.840
Maybe you're taking a picture of yourself smiling without your sunglasses. We want to see your eyes

622
00:37:19.840 --> 00:37:24.360
That's how we know whether or not you're a creeper. We want to see your eyes

623
00:37:25.400 --> 00:37:29.520
Okay, so take your sunglasses off everyone men and women no sunglasses and pictures

624
00:37:29.760 --> 00:37:35.960
All right, so take your sunglasses off guys and show us, you know you at the at the you know the whole

625
00:37:36.760 --> 00:37:41.800
You know with the flag take a picture, you know smiling you're happy we know that you bogeyed it

626
00:37:42.240 --> 00:37:46.200
okay, but you can pretend that you part it you can pretend that you birdied it or

627
00:37:46.960 --> 00:37:52.200
Aced it. We know that well, I mean some people get a hole in one every once in a while, but

628
00:37:54.400 --> 00:37:59.800
Yes, yes, we'd like to see you doing stuff that you love we like to see you doing stuff that you love

629
00:37:59.800 --> 00:38:05.200
It's so important to show people don't just tell people what you love show them what you love

630
00:38:05.200 --> 00:38:07.200
You have a fur friend that you love

631
00:38:08.040 --> 00:38:10.040
Ladies guys, they're not fur babies

632
00:38:10.440 --> 00:38:15.960
We're not animals. We don't give birth to other animals. Okay, we're not dogs. We don't give birth to dogs

633
00:38:15.960 --> 00:38:21.480
We don't have cat fur babies. They're not fur babies. You're not firm parents for mothers and fathers

634
00:38:21.800 --> 00:38:26.560
They're your fur friends, and I believe that animals are angels from heaven

635
00:38:26.560 --> 00:38:29.720
I do I mean that lot like really but I do believe that

636
00:38:30.320 --> 00:38:36.760
God sends animals to us at our darkest moments that they love us unconditionally and it's beautiful, but we're not their parents you guys

637
00:38:36.760 --> 00:38:38.560
We got to stop this

638
00:38:38.560 --> 00:38:39.680
We got to stop this

639
00:38:39.680 --> 00:38:45.200
I know that we have maternal instincts and paternal instincts and we want to parent something mother something father something

640
00:38:45.200 --> 00:38:47.200
Let's find a human to do that, too

641
00:38:47.320 --> 00:38:52.840
There's so many kids that need big brothers and big sisters through organizations. There's foster children

642
00:38:53.560 --> 00:39:00.320
Situations there's you know families that you marry into with kids that need you know a parental figure in their life

643
00:39:01.040 --> 00:39:06.400
Reason why I'm saying that to you guys right now is probably because Holy Spirit is prompting me because I had no intention of saying

644
00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:08.400
this but because when you

645
00:39:08.720 --> 00:39:12.720
Put a if you have an empty space and you put a counterfeit in it

646
00:39:13.520 --> 00:39:17.440
Now it's no longer empty, but it also isn't filled with what God

647
00:39:18.200 --> 00:39:20.040
created the space for

648
00:39:20.040 --> 00:39:22.040
Does that make sense to everyone?

649
00:39:23.840 --> 00:39:28.320
We have to let go of placeholders, it's great to have animals in our life

650
00:39:28.320 --> 00:39:31.240
They bring us a lot of comfort, but don't become their parent

651
00:39:33.640 --> 00:39:36.560
Don't use all of your nurturing instinct on

652
00:39:37.280 --> 00:39:40.920
An animal and make it your child because it's not

653
00:39:41.760 --> 00:39:43.240
It isn't

654
00:39:43.240 --> 00:39:46.520
You're gonna outlive that animal by decades

655
00:39:46.520 --> 00:39:47.800
and

656
00:39:47.800 --> 00:39:52.160
So it's really important that you understand that that animal there is there for a reason and a season

657
00:39:52.520 --> 00:39:58.720
To be a support to you and a time of your life and to be very thankful for that for a friend and that

658
00:39:58.720 --> 00:40:00.720
fur angel

659
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.280
But at the same time,

660
00:40:02.280 --> 00:40:05.600
leave your heart open for human relationship.

661
00:40:05.600 --> 00:40:08.360
There are some people that are using

662
00:40:08.360 --> 00:40:09.800
all their relationship bandwidth on

663
00:40:09.800 --> 00:40:12.760
animals because they're scared of people.

664
00:40:12.760 --> 00:40:16.180
Now we're meddling. I don't even know who all that's for.

665
00:40:16.180 --> 00:40:17.820
But if you're doing that,

666
00:40:17.820 --> 00:40:20.080
let's not do that anymore.

667
00:40:20.080 --> 00:40:23.240
I'm going to try to un-spotlight myself right now.

668
00:40:23.240 --> 00:40:25.680
On that note,

669
00:40:30.880 --> 00:40:34.320
someone's out here killing their cactuses.

670
00:40:34.320 --> 00:40:36.640
They're like, I'm not going to try an animal,

671
00:40:36.640 --> 00:40:38.960
my cactuses. You killed a cactus?

672
00:40:38.960 --> 00:40:43.440
I literally have cactus in my house that I didn't water for a year.

673
00:40:43.440 --> 00:40:50.240
Still alive. But I will tell you when I finally did water it,

674
00:40:50.240 --> 00:40:51.620
I promise you guys,

675
00:40:51.620 --> 00:40:53.680
when I finally did water this cactus,

676
00:40:53.680 --> 00:40:59.000
because I inherited it from my daughter because

677
00:40:59.000 --> 00:41:01.200
she moved out, moved away.

678
00:41:01.200 --> 00:41:02.920
She grew up and moved away.

679
00:41:02.920 --> 00:41:04.760
She left her plants,

680
00:41:04.760 --> 00:41:08.080
but she left them in the room that no one's using.

681
00:41:08.080 --> 00:41:09.880
So I just didn't really know that it was there.

682
00:41:09.880 --> 00:41:11.360
Then when I found the poor things,

683
00:41:11.360 --> 00:41:14.960
I brought them and put them in the windowsill.

684
00:41:14.960 --> 00:41:16.760
So when I watered this cactus,

685
00:41:16.760 --> 00:41:20.320
it grew like seven inches.

686
00:41:20.320 --> 00:41:23.920
When it got watered, it had a growth spurt.

687
00:41:23.920 --> 00:41:26.320
So some of you all just need some water in,

688
00:41:26.320 --> 00:41:28.560
so you can have a little growth spurt.

689
00:41:29.040 --> 00:41:31.840
Do you guys have any Ask Jackie questions?

690
00:41:31.840 --> 00:41:37.120
Or I'm going to ramble and go ahead and take another single spotlight.

691
00:41:39.280 --> 00:41:44.640
Cherie says, I do best with plants that thrive on neglect.

692
00:41:49.360 --> 00:41:52.240
Someone is saying the link is broken.

693
00:41:52.240 --> 00:41:55.040
I don't know what link we put up.

694
00:41:58.920 --> 00:42:04.600
You guys don't have to put it in Ask Jackie right now.

695
00:42:04.600 --> 00:42:07.400
Right now, you just put your Ask Jackie questions in the chat.

696
00:42:07.400 --> 00:42:09.960
Sorry if I didn't explain that.

697
00:42:09.960 --> 00:42:11.040
You guys don't have to.

698
00:42:11.040 --> 00:42:12.760
Don't put them over there right now.

699
00:42:12.760 --> 00:42:14.320
I'm just saying going forward,

700
00:42:14.320 --> 00:42:16.360
we're going to have a new Ask Jackie link there.

701
00:42:16.360 --> 00:42:19.840
We're going to be having Ask Jackie not live,

702
00:42:19.840 --> 00:42:24.360
but I'll be answering your questions in your groups as a recorded video.

703
00:42:24.360 --> 00:42:26.680
Sorry for that. Ask Jackie right now.

704
00:42:26.880 --> 00:42:28.800
I'm here. I'm Jackie.

705
00:42:28.800 --> 00:42:30.800
Nice to meet you.

706
00:42:30.800 --> 00:42:33.720
Ask me your questions.

707
00:42:33.720 --> 00:42:34.480
All right, let's go ahead.

708
00:42:34.480 --> 00:42:35.800
While you guys are coming up with your questions,

709
00:42:35.800 --> 00:42:40.440
I'm going to go ahead and spotlight our next Bachelorette,

710
00:42:40.440 --> 00:42:43.200
Bachelor Two.

711
00:42:43.200 --> 00:42:45.600
Let's see.

712
00:42:45.600 --> 00:42:47.960
Where are you at?

713
00:42:47.960 --> 00:42:49.000
Found you.

714
00:42:49.000 --> 00:42:49.520
All right.

715
00:42:49.520 --> 00:42:52.960
Live from Portland, Oregon, we have Daniel.

716
00:42:52.960 --> 00:42:53.800
Hi, Daniel.

717
00:42:53.800 --> 00:42:54.480
Hey, Jackie.

718
00:42:54.480 --> 00:42:55.800
Can you hear me okay?

719
00:42:55.800 --> 00:42:56.760
I can.

720
00:42:56.760 --> 00:42:58.320
Okay, great.

721
00:42:58.320 --> 00:42:58.920
All right.

722
00:42:58.920 --> 00:43:01.160
So first of all, you're sitting in front of some books.

723
00:43:01.160 --> 00:43:04.160
So what's your favorite book that you've ever read?

724
00:43:04.160 --> 00:43:07.400
Favorite book that I've ever read?

725
00:43:07.400 --> 00:43:09.000
You know, I can't pick a favorite.

726
00:43:09.000 --> 00:43:10.520
Let me ask you this.

727
00:43:10.520 --> 00:43:13.440
If you could pick a book that you liked so much

728
00:43:13.440 --> 00:43:16.800
that you wish that you could unread it just to read it again,

729
00:43:16.800 --> 00:43:20.440
what would it be?

730
00:43:20.440 --> 00:43:22.280
I know mine right away, The Hobbit.

731
00:43:22.280 --> 00:43:23.680
I wish I could unread The Hobbit

732
00:43:23.680 --> 00:43:26.560
because I read The Hobbit for the first time again.

733
00:43:26.560 --> 00:43:28.600
I read The Hobbit and all The Lord of the Rings

734
00:43:28.600 --> 00:43:30.720
when I was like 15 years old.

735
00:43:30.720 --> 00:43:32.880
And I love them so much.

736
00:43:32.880 --> 00:43:34.360
I've got those right here, The Hobbit

737
00:43:34.360 --> 00:43:35.400
and The Lord of the Rings.

738
00:43:35.400 --> 00:43:36.440
I love them.

739
00:43:36.440 --> 00:43:37.320
I can't.

740
00:43:37.320 --> 00:43:41.360
You know, I can't tell you what a book like that.

741
00:43:41.360 --> 00:43:43.040
I'll have to get back to you on that one.

742
00:43:43.040 --> 00:43:46.280
I can tell you that I do enjoy kind of thriller,

743
00:43:46.280 --> 00:43:48.600
like a thriller read usually.

744
00:43:48.600 --> 00:43:51.400
But I'm always, I always have maybe a half dozen books

745
00:43:51.400 --> 00:43:54.480
in my rotation between physical and audio books.

746
00:43:54.480 --> 00:43:59.040
So I like to have one personal devotional book.

747
00:43:59.040 --> 00:44:01.240
I have started reading more about finances

748
00:44:01.240 --> 00:44:02.880
and long-term investments.

749
00:44:02.880 --> 00:44:06.120
I like to have one on personal development.

750
00:44:06.120 --> 00:44:08.240
I cycle in some parenting ones in there.

751
00:44:08.240 --> 00:44:10.400
So you like to learn?

752
00:44:10.400 --> 00:44:12.680
I, yeah, someone mentioned Enneagram earlier.

753
00:44:12.680 --> 00:44:15.520
I'm in Enneagram three and I love learning.

754
00:44:15.520 --> 00:44:19.080
So always trying to kind of broaden who I am,

755
00:44:19.080 --> 00:44:21.720
what I know and then implement what I've learned.

756
00:44:22.640 --> 00:44:23.480
Okay, I love that.

757
00:44:23.480 --> 00:44:25.760
Okay, so I know I jumped in

758
00:44:25.760 --> 00:44:27.360
because the books were right there,

759
00:44:27.360 --> 00:44:29.920
but tell the folks, you know, how old you are

760
00:44:29.920 --> 00:44:32.680
and what have you been doing for the last 15 years?

761
00:44:32.680 --> 00:44:33.520
15 years?

762
00:44:33.520 --> 00:44:34.360
Okay, yeah, sure.

763
00:44:34.360 --> 00:44:36.160
I am 39 years old.

764
00:44:36.160 --> 00:44:38.440
I grew up in East Tennessee,

765
00:44:38.440 --> 00:44:40.640
but I got stationed up in Alaska

766
00:44:40.640 --> 00:44:45.640
and I was stationed in Anchorage for about six years,

767
00:44:46.520 --> 00:44:51.200
moved down to the Portland area in 2011.

768
00:44:51.200 --> 00:44:54.800
And I actually, just like Jeremy,

769
00:44:54.800 --> 00:44:56.040
by the way, Jeremy, good job.

770
00:44:56.040 --> 00:44:57.840
You set a high bar on your intro,

771
00:44:58.920 --> 00:45:00.720
but just like Jeremy, I went to...

772
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:05.360
ministry school. I have half of an MDiv. I'm a seminary dropout.

773
00:45:05.720 --> 00:45:09.260
I kind of pivoted to actually get more, you know, they talk

774
00:45:09.260 --> 00:45:12.140
about prophet, priest and king is kind of the three offices

775
00:45:12.160 --> 00:45:15.000
there. Some people have that philosophy. So I was leaning

776
00:45:15.000 --> 00:45:20.000
more king administrative leadership skill set. So I

777
00:45:20.000 --> 00:45:23.560
actually pivoted to get an MBA. And I finished that back in

778
00:45:23.560 --> 00:45:30.240
2016. I work for a company called lamb research, we make

779
00:45:30.280 --> 00:45:33.280
semiconductor equipment. And so if you've never heard of us, or

780
00:45:33.280 --> 00:45:35.120
you've never heard of semiconductor equipment,

781
00:45:35.920 --> 00:45:38.520
basically, if you've used anything with a computer chip in

782
00:45:38.520 --> 00:45:41.240
it, then the company that created that computer chip

783
00:45:41.280 --> 00:45:46.320
probably use our equipment to make the chip. I also Yeah, I

784
00:45:46.320 --> 00:45:49.560
mentioned that I'm a I was in the Air Force, I was active

785
00:45:49.560 --> 00:45:52.720
duty for seven years. And then I've been part time ever since

786
00:45:52.720 --> 00:45:56.840
then. So I just hit 20 years of service. And I'm kind of

787
00:45:56.840 --> 00:46:01.400
thinking about getting out in the next couple years. I am a

788
00:46:01.400 --> 00:46:04.760
father of two wonderful kids. I've got a 13 year old daughter

789
00:46:04.800 --> 00:46:09.240
and an 11 year old son. So relocating is not an option for

790
00:46:09.240 --> 00:46:12.560
me. I do have a really great co parenting dynamic. But we're

791
00:46:12.560 --> 00:46:15.040
both we're both here local and kind of planted.

792
00:46:16.720 --> 00:46:17.880
Former wife remarried.

793
00:46:19.080 --> 00:46:19.720
Daddy, pardon?

794
00:46:20.320 --> 00:46:22.880
Your former wife, your children's mother? Is she? Is

795
00:46:22.880 --> 00:46:23.720
she remarried?

796
00:46:24.280 --> 00:46:28.320
No, but she's in a serious relationship. Okay. Yeah, yeah.

797
00:46:28.320 --> 00:46:30.680
We talk we talk openly about that kind of stuff. We have a

798
00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:35.080
pretty amicable co parenting dynamic at this point. So it's,

799
00:46:35.440 --> 00:46:36.160
it's been good.

800
00:46:37.560 --> 00:46:39.320
Tell everyone how long you've been divorced.

801
00:46:39.800 --> 00:46:45.280
I was the paperwork was signed in February of last year. Okay.

802
00:46:45.480 --> 00:46:49.520
And we were separated in October of 23. And we agreed to get

803
00:46:49.520 --> 00:46:52.560
divorced almost, like almost a year before that.

804
00:46:53.200 --> 00:46:57.640
Okay. Yeah. So you guys have been, you know, contemplating

805
00:46:57.640 --> 00:46:59.680
and working towards divorce since 22.

806
00:47:00.400 --> 00:47:03.360
Yep. Yep. That's right. Okay. Yeah.

807
00:47:03.960 --> 00:47:08.680
Not easy. Um, okay. So I always ask all my divorce guys this. So

808
00:47:08.680 --> 00:47:11.720
I'm gonna ask you this question. What did you learn from your

809
00:47:11.720 --> 00:47:12.320
divorce?

810
00:47:12.840 --> 00:47:15.680
You know, that's a great question. So I learned a couple

811
00:47:15.680 --> 00:47:19.120
things. The first one is, you really need to take the time to

812
00:47:19.120 --> 00:47:23.840
get to know yourself, and the other person and the dynamic

813
00:47:23.840 --> 00:47:28.600
that you to co create. My co parent and I, we'd only known

814
00:47:28.600 --> 00:47:31.000
each other for about 10 and a half months when we got married,

815
00:47:31.040 --> 00:47:35.920
and we were 21. So we didn't know ourselves very well. And we

816
00:47:35.920 --> 00:47:39.840
didn't really take the time to get to know one another. Also,

817
00:47:40.760 --> 00:47:42.840
we didn't have a lot of the tools, you know, one of the

818
00:47:42.840 --> 00:47:46.440
things I've read up a bunch on over the last couple years is

819
00:47:46.760 --> 00:47:49.800
just relationship dynamics, attachment styles, things like

820
00:47:49.800 --> 00:47:53.960
that. We really didn't have the tools that we needed to nobody

821
00:47:53.960 --> 00:47:57.160
had those tools. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, go ahead. Yeah, exactly.

822
00:47:57.200 --> 00:48:00.800
Exactly. So just being able to bridge that gap was, we just

823
00:48:00.800 --> 00:48:04.520
didn't know what we didn't know at the time. And so I feel like

824
00:48:04.520 --> 00:48:08.920
I've learned a lot from that. And then we were, you know, we

825
00:48:08.920 --> 00:48:12.160
were unequally yoked as well. And so I think that's a big,

826
00:48:13.040 --> 00:48:16.760
essential piece of making things work.

827
00:48:17.720 --> 00:48:20.920
Yeah, okay. Good answer. All right. Yeah, getting married at

828
00:48:20.920 --> 00:48:23.880
21 years old, after only 10 and a half months of knowing each

829
00:48:23.880 --> 00:48:26.480
other, that's really fast. And of course, most people don't

830
00:48:26.480 --> 00:48:30.680
know themselves at 21. And if we have good support systems, and

831
00:48:30.680 --> 00:48:34.320
we have good foundations with, you know, not a lot of trauma, I

832
00:48:34.320 --> 00:48:37.120
think that we can grow together and not apart. Because if you

833
00:48:37.120 --> 00:48:40.640
get married young, and you also have had a rocky foundation, and

834
00:48:40.640 --> 00:48:43.480
you have had a lot of bad information, the chances are

835
00:48:43.480 --> 00:48:45.680
that that's not going to continue. Because you know, what

836
00:48:45.680 --> 00:48:49.520
comes home to roost as you get older trauma? Yeah. And it

837
00:48:49.520 --> 00:48:51.840
starts showing up in all different types of ways in

838
00:48:51.840 --> 00:48:56.680
relationships, and it causes us to grow apart. And even, you

839
00:48:56.680 --> 00:49:01.120
know, other types of abusive and unhealthy things can happen. So

840
00:49:02.160 --> 00:49:03.720
did you tell everyone how old your kids are?

841
00:49:04.680 --> 00:49:11.240
I might have, my daughter is 13. And my son is 11. And one of the

842
00:49:11.240 --> 00:49:13.720
things that I've started doing recently, we're doing these

843
00:49:13.720 --> 00:49:17.200
little 36 hour getaway trips to like, my son calls them

844
00:49:17.200 --> 00:49:20.000
blinking, you miss it towns. So we'll just drive out there after

845
00:49:20.000 --> 00:49:24.880
school, check into a hotel, you know, grab something local. Yeah,

846
00:49:24.880 --> 00:49:27.280
spend Saturday kind of exploring it and then come back Saturday

847
00:49:27.640 --> 00:49:28.160
afternoon.

848
00:49:28.800 --> 00:49:34.480
Oh, I love that. So awesome. Yeah. So ladies, what are your

849
00:49:34.480 --> 00:49:37.800
questions for Daniel? Daniel, remind everyone how old you are?

850
00:49:38.280 --> 00:49:40.240
I am 39 years old.

851
00:49:40.480 --> 00:49:43.800
39. So both of these gentlemen are millennials, kind of the

852
00:49:43.800 --> 00:49:47.920
upper scale of millennials. Once again, I like to keep matches

853
00:49:47.920 --> 00:49:52.040
within a five to six year radius, unless it's just such an

854
00:49:52.040 --> 00:49:56.360
amazing match. That, you know, we just have to make the

855
00:49:56.360 --> 00:50:00.320
introduction. Okay, like you have so much in common or

856
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:03.980
You know, there's some other thing that's like I have to meet this person

857
00:50:04.440 --> 00:50:09.900
okay, and the reason for that is is that I'm just gonna tell you that that is kind of the sweet spot of

858
00:50:10.620 --> 00:50:16.900
Introductions and matches is five to six years age difference at the most and remember we want to also match seasons

859
00:50:17.220 --> 00:50:21.460
What a match seasons if someone is, you know in their 40s

860
00:50:21.460 --> 00:50:26.980
But they've had kids already and they don't want to have more kids. So I guess Daniel that's a good question

861
00:50:26.980 --> 00:50:32.940
Are you open to more children from from from zero age like babies that you would have with you know

862
00:50:32.940 --> 00:50:35.540
Your future wife. Are you open to?

863
00:50:36.100 --> 00:50:40.600
More biological children. Yeah, you know, I'm open to that. I'd always wanted more kids

864
00:50:40.980 --> 00:50:43.940
I was and I will just kind of full disclosure

865
00:50:43.940 --> 00:50:48.540
Maybe I shouldn't share this at this point, but I I was kind of pressured into getting a vasectomy

866
00:50:48.540 --> 00:50:55.380
I did see a specialist about a year ago. Yeah, it's about this time last year and he said he was 90% confident

867
00:50:55.380 --> 00:50:56.980
It could be reversed

868
00:50:56.980 --> 00:51:04.280
So I'm open. I'm open to that for sure. No, I actually think that this is the perfect time to disclose that information because

869
00:51:05.180 --> 00:51:11.220
Sometimes you know people on their list of non-negotiables is that you know, they're young enough

870
00:51:11.220 --> 00:51:18.160
They're healthy enough and they want to have a family and that is you know, that's a non-negotiable for them

871
00:51:18.380 --> 00:51:24.780
So just knowing that is a good thing to know. Okay, so open to children. Are you open to adoption?

872
00:51:24.780 --> 00:51:29.580
Are you open to someone who has a blended family situation like yours that also is local?

873
00:51:29.980 --> 00:51:33.380
yeah, I was gonna add that as well open open to either a you know,

874
00:51:33.540 --> 00:51:38.060
Adoption fostering or some a mom who already has a couple kids of her own

875
00:51:38.620 --> 00:51:45.460
In a blended family dynamic. Okay, you said it was super super easy, right Jackie just blended family just naturally

876
00:51:48.340 --> 00:51:50.340
You know, if you love to be offended

877
00:51:51.340 --> 00:51:53.340
You

878
00:51:54.060 --> 00:52:00.900
Don't forget, okay good write that down not easy, but it is so rewarding. Yeah, no rewarding. Okay

879
00:52:01.660 --> 00:52:03.660
open to more children

880
00:52:04.180 --> 00:52:09.260
Can you describe and if Jeremy's still here? We didn't ask him this either

881
00:52:10.500 --> 00:52:17.420
Actually, let me get him back if he's here. Let's just do this real quick. Yes. I'm here. Okay. All right good. Hold on one sec

882
00:52:18.420 --> 00:52:20.420
I'm gonna add you to

883
00:52:20.620 --> 00:52:23.780
All right. These are our two spotlights for tonight's was Adam at both the same time

884
00:52:23.860 --> 00:52:28.860
So ladies if you have any other questions here and don't forget ladies, we have lots of outstanding

885
00:52:29.700 --> 00:52:35.140
Spotlights, please go to your replay section and go to all the single spotlight replays and watch

886
00:52:35.660 --> 00:52:38.140
Gentlemen you as well all of those people

887
00:52:38.580 --> 00:52:44.460
There are a couple people that we've already matched Andrew from Dallas is not he's taken

888
00:52:44.460 --> 00:52:48.620
I'll put a list of the guys that are taken and the girls that are taken now that they're seeing someone

889
00:52:48.940 --> 00:52:52.660
But there are a lot of people that are still single and ready to mingle. So

890
00:52:53.300 --> 00:52:59.900
Maybe you missed it. Maybe didn't see their spotlight. But let's just let's make sure that we're checking that out. Okay, so

891
00:53:00.420 --> 00:53:02.420
ideal partner

892
00:53:02.460 --> 00:53:04.460
ideal partner

893
00:53:05.140 --> 00:53:11.260
Just kind of describe the attributes of someone that you think would be really compatible with you

894
00:53:11.940 --> 00:53:17.020
What are the attributes have you I'm sure you've thought about this, you know

895
00:53:17.020 --> 00:53:20.620
I know that my husband told me that after you know

896
00:53:20.620 --> 00:53:25.020
He went through his divorce and when he was like, I don't want to be alone for the rest of my life

897
00:53:25.020 --> 00:53:27.020
I'm only 36 years old. He was only 36

898
00:53:27.460 --> 00:53:32.460
Happened and so he said he would pray to God and he'd say why can't I want to get remarried someday?

899
00:53:32.660 --> 00:53:37.740
Not anytime soon, but I want to get remarried someday and I know I can't just marry anybody

900
00:53:38.300 --> 00:53:43.780
Because I have children and you know, I have a relationship with you so I can't just marry anybody

901
00:53:44.140 --> 00:53:49.700
So what would this person need to be like and so he would begin to think along those lines

902
00:53:49.700 --> 00:53:53.860
So I'm sure you guys have thought along those lines. So kind of like let us into your thoughts there

903
00:53:55.980 --> 00:54:01.300
Sure, I I know one thing that I've been trying to work on myself on what is like try to

904
00:54:02.100 --> 00:54:05.560
Do different things meaning that I can get in my same routines

905
00:54:05.960 --> 00:54:11.160
So I would like someone to kind of like break me out of my shell and try different things and

906
00:54:11.480 --> 00:54:13.480
You know kind of balance me out that way

907
00:54:15.760 --> 00:54:17.760
Okay, so

908
00:54:18.160 --> 00:54:20.160
You want someone who can break you?

909
00:54:21.440 --> 00:54:24.160
Correct, okay and help you to try new things

910
00:54:25.840 --> 00:54:29.440
Yes, mm-hmm. All right, so you can get kind of stuck in routine a little bit

911
00:54:30.440 --> 00:54:34.800
Absolutely, I can't yeah, but but but you're not resistant to new things

912
00:54:34.800 --> 00:54:39.960
So you just need someone who's a little bit of a fun little catalyst. Yeah. Yeah, I'm not resistant at all

913
00:54:39.960 --> 00:54:46.480
It's just like hey, that's ideas of doing things going, you know other places and and just exploring. Yes

914
00:54:46.840 --> 00:54:52.040
Yes, do you happen to know what you're like your Enneagram or Myers-Briggs is your personality?

915
00:54:52.040 --> 00:54:56.240
I have I have the paperwork. I did it last year. I just forget what number I am

916
00:54:59.440 --> 00:55:01.680
I

917
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.000
It might be in the drawer right beside me.

918
00:55:05.000 --> 00:55:07.040
So if you can give me like 30 seconds.

919
00:55:07.040 --> 00:55:08.600
I think you're a nine.

920
00:55:08.600 --> 00:55:09.440
Yes, you get it.

921
00:55:09.440 --> 00:55:12.160
You get it while Daniel tells us his ideal.

922
00:55:12.160 --> 00:55:13.440
Let me see if I can find it real quick.

923
00:55:13.440 --> 00:55:14.280
Okay, all right.

924
00:55:15.880 --> 00:55:19.760
Yeah, I think I'm looking for two things, two big things.

925
00:55:19.760 --> 00:55:24.040
One is like a woman that would be a great role model

926
00:55:24.040 --> 00:55:27.360
for my daughter, for how a Christian woman shows up

927
00:55:27.360 --> 00:55:32.280
in the world and what kind of woman my son should expect

928
00:55:32.280 --> 00:55:33.840
to look for in the world.

929
00:55:33.840 --> 00:55:37.080
And then for me, somebody who's kind of a playmate.

930
00:55:37.080 --> 00:55:38.600
You know, I have a growth mindset,

931
00:55:38.600 --> 00:55:41.320
but I think it's motivated from more of a spirit of play.

932
00:55:41.320 --> 00:55:44.560
I'm not, you know, my kids are gonna injure their eyes

933
00:55:44.560 --> 00:55:48.000
from rolling them so much at the dad jokes that I make.

934
00:55:48.000 --> 00:55:51.520
So I'm looking for somebody who has that spirit of play,

935
00:55:51.520 --> 00:55:53.280
but also wants to continue growing.

936
00:55:54.680 --> 00:55:55.880
Yeah, okay.

937
00:55:55.880 --> 00:55:57.960
Someone who's playful, someone who's fun,

938
00:55:57.960 --> 00:56:01.280
someone who is committed to personal growth,

939
00:56:01.280 --> 00:56:03.480
someone who is gonna love your children

940
00:56:03.480 --> 00:56:06.240
and also be a good model for them.

941
00:56:07.120 --> 00:56:07.960
Yeah.

942
00:56:07.960 --> 00:56:09.000
Okay, that's great.

943
00:56:09.000 --> 00:56:11.360
Do you know what your, you said you're a three.

944
00:56:12.760 --> 00:56:14.160
You're a three, Daniel.

945
00:56:14.160 --> 00:56:15.000
I am a three.

946
00:56:15.000 --> 00:56:15.840
Yep, I am a three.

947
00:56:15.840 --> 00:56:18.240
Sorry, I've got a book right there with the Enneagrams.

948
00:56:18.240 --> 00:56:20.160
Yeah, I'm definitely a type three.

949
00:56:21.480 --> 00:56:23.800
And for those of you that are gonna message us

950
00:56:23.800 --> 00:56:26.480
or email us saying the Enneagram is of the devil,

951
00:56:26.480 --> 00:56:27.520
please don't.

952
00:56:27.520 --> 00:56:30.800
We're not over here like reading our Enneagrams.

953
00:56:30.800 --> 00:56:32.920
Just for people who understand what that is,

954
00:56:32.920 --> 00:56:35.560
sometimes it's helpful to know what someone tested out as,

955
00:56:35.560 --> 00:56:37.280
not because it's an end all be all,

956
00:56:37.280 --> 00:56:39.680
but because it kind of helps you understand

957
00:56:39.680 --> 00:56:41.000
how they answered the questions

958
00:56:41.000 --> 00:56:43.160
and what their personality probably is like, okay?

959
00:56:43.160 --> 00:56:44.400
It's not the Christian horoscope,

960
00:56:44.400 --> 00:56:46.240
so don't worry about it, all right?

961
00:56:46.240 --> 00:56:48.720
Anything and everything can be a tool

962
00:56:48.720 --> 00:56:50.280
if that is what you do.

963
00:56:50.280 --> 00:56:53.640
If you make it your source, then that's on you.

964
00:56:54.640 --> 00:56:55.480
I was just gonna say,

965
00:56:55.480 --> 00:56:57.760
I like to say that the Enneagram is a good servant,

966
00:56:57.760 --> 00:56:59.400
but a terrible master.

967
00:56:59.400 --> 00:57:01.040
And so it's a good reference point,

968
00:57:01.040 --> 00:57:03.440
but it's not gonna seal your fate.

969
00:57:03.440 --> 00:57:06.320
That is beautiful to be applied to everything and anything,

970
00:57:06.320 --> 00:57:10.520
money, good servant, bad master, all the things.

971
00:57:10.520 --> 00:57:13.280
So that's a good analogy.

972
00:57:14.360 --> 00:57:15.600
Jeremy.

973
00:57:15.600 --> 00:57:19.320
So I am like an even like six and a nine.

974
00:57:20.480 --> 00:57:22.680
I was gonna say six, and then I said nine.

975
00:57:22.720 --> 00:57:24.840
So I'm a good guesser with this,

976
00:57:24.840 --> 00:57:26.520
and I'm just proud of myself right now.

977
00:57:26.520 --> 00:57:28.960
All right, so beautiful, wonderful.

978
00:57:28.960 --> 00:57:32.280
Okay, so the kind of six personality type

979
00:57:32.280 --> 00:57:35.080
is someone who is a little really cautious.

980
00:57:35.080 --> 00:57:36.480
And the nines have a tendency

981
00:57:36.480 --> 00:57:39.440
to kind of be a little bit diplomatic

982
00:57:39.440 --> 00:57:44.040
and unable to really be bold in some ways too.

983
00:57:44.040 --> 00:57:47.640
So that why it makes sense for you to need someone

984
00:57:47.640 --> 00:57:52.160
to kind of give you permission to let loose a little bit,

985
00:57:52.160 --> 00:57:54.400
not worry about it, not overanalyze it,

986
00:57:54.400 --> 00:57:59.080
not kind of like figure out all of the liabilities of it,

987
00:57:59.080 --> 00:58:00.080
just go for it.

988
00:58:00.080 --> 00:58:02.280
And I like that, that's good.

989
00:58:02.280 --> 00:58:04.720
But nines are peacemakers.

990
00:58:04.720 --> 00:58:07.360
Someone said that you were laid back here in the comments.

991
00:58:07.360 --> 00:58:10.680
That's definitely what a nine personality is like.

992
00:58:10.680 --> 00:58:15.680
Very peacemaking, easygoing in some ways.

993
00:58:19.000 --> 00:58:21.480
And then nines can also be contrarians.

994
00:58:22.040 --> 00:58:27.040
Both my son-in-laws and my husband and my son,

995
00:58:27.440 --> 00:58:30.480
both my son-in-laws and my husband are all nines.

996
00:58:31.560 --> 00:58:35.280
And I'm an eight with a really strong seven.

997
00:58:37.160 --> 00:58:40.240
I'm a human mullet, business in the front,

998
00:58:40.240 --> 00:58:41.720
party in the back, okay?

999
00:58:41.720 --> 00:58:45.880
So nines can be contrarians.

1000
00:58:45.880 --> 00:58:47.200
They can like to mess with you.

1001
00:58:47.200 --> 00:58:48.120
When they're playing around,

1002
00:58:48.120 --> 00:58:51.760
they can kind of mess with you like you say something

1003
00:58:51.760 --> 00:58:53.160
and then they just kind of push back

1004
00:58:53.160 --> 00:58:55.600
and like be a little contrary like,

1005
00:58:55.600 --> 00:58:56.600
but what about this?

1006
00:58:56.600 --> 00:58:57.840
And you're just like, ah.

1007
00:58:59.160 --> 00:59:00.560
So if you're a strong personality

1008
00:59:00.560 --> 00:59:02.800
that has strong opinions, nines,

1009
00:59:02.800 --> 00:59:06.400
they like to kind of like to jab you a little bit

1010
00:59:06.400 --> 00:59:10.480
with other views.

1011
00:59:12.160 --> 00:59:13.440
Eights don't like other views.

1012
00:59:13.440 --> 00:59:14.800
They only like their views.

1013
00:59:14.800 --> 00:59:16.480
They're right.

1014
00:59:16.480 --> 00:59:19.320
But nines have a tendency to be pretty diplomatic

1015
00:59:19.320 --> 00:59:20.160
and understand.

1016
00:59:20.160 --> 00:59:21.920
David just stood up and literally said we are

1017
00:59:21.920 --> 00:59:22.960
and then walked away.

1018
00:59:24.400 --> 00:59:26.640
Okay, we are.

1019
00:59:26.640 --> 00:59:28.520
Okay, I'm a one nine, okay.

1020
00:59:28.520 --> 00:59:29.360
All right, guys.

1021
00:59:29.360 --> 00:59:31.920
Is your son in the Bay Area?

1022
00:59:31.920 --> 00:59:33.880
Because I saw his twin.

1023
00:59:33.880 --> 00:59:37.040
Oh, is your son, is your son?

1024
00:59:38.120 --> 00:59:42.400
Oh, I don't know who, I don't,

1025
00:59:42.400 --> 00:59:43.360
Rachel, I don't, Rochelle,

1026
00:59:43.360 --> 00:59:44.520
I don't know who you're talking to there.

1027
00:59:45.240 --> 00:59:47.280
Who's son, who's son?

1028
00:59:47.280 --> 00:59:49.080
I hope it's not my son because he's 11.

1029
00:59:49.080 --> 00:59:49.920
Yeah, I know.

1030
00:59:49.920 --> 00:59:50.760
Very worried.

1031
00:59:50.760 --> 00:59:51.600
That's what I'm thinking too.

1032
00:59:51.600 --> 00:59:53.280
We don't want him to be anywhere.

1033
00:59:53.280 --> 00:59:55.840
He should be at track right now, yeah.

1034
00:59:55.840 --> 00:59:57.120
He's at track.

1035
00:59:57.120 --> 00:59:59.520
Yeah, trying to keep track of him too.

1036
00:59:59.520 --> 01:00:00.360
He's definitely.

1037
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:01.720
Mountain in the Bay Area from Oregon.

1038
01:00:01.720 --> 01:00:03.680
Does anyone else have any questions

1039
01:00:03.680 --> 01:00:05.640
for either one of these fine gentlemen?

1040
01:00:09.040 --> 01:00:10.480
What kind of music do you like, Daniel,

1041
01:00:10.480 --> 01:00:13.480
since we know what kind of music Jeremy likes?

1042
01:00:13.480 --> 01:00:14.680
Ooh, you know, it's funny,

1043
01:00:14.680 --> 01:00:18.320
when he said Rascal Flatts and Boris Frank,

1044
01:00:18.320 --> 01:00:20.200
I was like all about it.

1045
01:00:20.200 --> 01:00:23.800
I have a pretty wide range of musical tastes.

1046
01:00:23.800 --> 01:00:27.400
My son and I like to memorize rap songs,

1047
01:00:27.400 --> 01:00:28.920
so that's been a little fun thing

1048
01:00:28.920 --> 01:00:30.800
that we've done together.

1049
01:00:30.800 --> 01:00:32.200
Not the bad ones.

1050
01:00:32.200 --> 01:00:35.240
Conor Price, he's a big Conor Price fan.

1051
01:00:35.240 --> 01:00:36.080
Okay.

1052
01:00:36.080 --> 01:00:37.000
Yeah.

1053
01:00:37.000 --> 01:00:38.840
I love it that you can do stuff with your kids,

1054
01:00:38.840 --> 01:00:42.040
and I love little excursions you're taking your kids on.

1055
01:00:42.040 --> 01:00:44.560
Right, everyone's like in the chat doing Enneagram now.

1056
01:00:44.560 --> 01:00:48.160
You guys, focus, focus, focus.

1057
01:00:48.160 --> 01:00:51.680
Do you have any questions for these two gentlemen?

1058
01:00:52.680 --> 01:00:57.120
How does Jeremy feel about California relocation?

1059
01:00:59.280 --> 01:01:01.760
Again, I'm open to it.

1060
01:01:01.760 --> 01:01:05.200
I've only been to Los Angeles one time,

1061
01:01:05.200 --> 01:01:07.560
so there's always opportunities to go there.

1062
01:01:07.560 --> 01:01:09.080
I'm for it, so.

1063
01:01:09.080 --> 01:01:10.200
Just so you know, there's a lot of places

1064
01:01:10.200 --> 01:01:11.640
in California besides L.A.

1065
01:01:11.640 --> 01:01:13.600
Very true, yes.

1066
01:01:13.600 --> 01:01:16.080
Yeah, I'm just telling you because I don't know

1067
01:01:16.080 --> 01:01:17.680
that anyone wants to really move to L.A.,

1068
01:01:17.680 --> 01:01:19.200
but there's all kinds, there's country,

1069
01:01:19.200 --> 01:01:21.960
there's beautiful areas in Northern California

1070
01:01:21.960 --> 01:01:23.120
and in Central California,

1071
01:01:23.120 --> 01:01:25.520
and then for Southern California, the O.C.,

1072
01:01:25.520 --> 01:01:27.320
totally different vibe than L.A.

1073
01:01:27.360 --> 01:01:28.880
I love California, which is why

1074
01:01:28.880 --> 01:01:30.880
I'm kind of sticking up for it, I guess.

1075
01:01:31.880 --> 01:01:34.400
Let's see, questions.

1076
01:01:34.400 --> 01:01:35.680
All right, ladies.

1077
01:01:35.680 --> 01:01:40.680
Jeremy, what's your dream vacation look like?

1078
01:01:41.480 --> 01:01:43.360
Or your weekend, dream weekend, vacation.

1079
01:01:43.360 --> 01:01:44.400
What do you like to do to unwind

1080
01:01:44.400 --> 01:01:46.400
is basically what we're asking right now.

1081
01:01:46.400 --> 01:01:47.320
Oh, boy.

1082
01:01:50.360 --> 01:01:52.720
I mean, that's, man.

1083
01:01:54.280 --> 01:01:55.720
Maybe that's why I need someone

1084
01:01:55.720 --> 01:01:58.920
to help me find ideas to unwind.

1085
01:01:58.920 --> 01:02:03.920
So, no, I mean, man, that's,

1086
01:02:06.120 --> 01:02:08.400
I know this is gonna sound boring,

1087
01:02:08.400 --> 01:02:12.280
but I do like binge-watching, obviously, shows,

1088
01:02:12.280 --> 01:02:16.440
but nature, watching sporting events.

1089
01:02:17.480 --> 01:02:19.600
I mean, all the normal things, per se,

1090
01:02:19.600 --> 01:02:22.880
but I do love, I love the beach.

1091
01:02:22.880 --> 01:02:25.440
So, I mean, if I had a beach, I would go to it.

1092
01:02:26.440 --> 01:02:28.440
Yeah, Ohio does have a beach.

1093
01:02:28.440 --> 01:02:29.280
Well.

1094
01:02:32.720 --> 01:02:35.040
So, let's make sure that we clarify

1095
01:02:35.040 --> 01:02:37.760
that that's not the kind of beach you wanna go to.

1096
01:02:37.760 --> 01:02:39.560
People are like, wait, Ohio's a landlocked state.

1097
01:02:39.560 --> 01:02:41.720
Yes, yes, it is, but it still has a beach,

1098
01:02:41.720 --> 01:02:43.640
and don't ask, and we won't tell.

1099
01:02:43.640 --> 01:02:46.360
Okay, so, guys, do you like to travel?

1100
01:02:46.360 --> 01:02:47.320
Where do you like to travel to?

1101
01:02:47.320 --> 01:02:49.920
That's a question that people have asked both of you guys.

1102
01:02:49.920 --> 01:02:51.360
We need to get Jeremy out of the house,

1103
01:02:51.880 --> 01:02:56.240
but Daniel and Jeremy, where have you been?

1104
01:02:57.200 --> 01:02:59.520
Like, what was your favorite trip, country?

1105
01:02:59.520 --> 01:03:01.800
Like, have you traveled out of the country or not,

1106
01:03:01.800 --> 01:03:04.120
or where, just, like, where have you traveled to,

1107
01:03:04.120 --> 01:03:06.360
or where do you wanna travel to?

1108
01:03:06.360 --> 01:03:08.240
Yeah, for the, well, yeah, for the military,

1109
01:03:08.240 --> 01:03:12.240
I've been to Japan, and I stopped over in Thailand,

1110
01:03:12.240 --> 01:03:15.560
and then spent some time on a little island.

1111
01:03:15.560 --> 01:03:17.360
Technically, it's on the continent of Africa

1112
01:03:17.360 --> 01:03:21.440
called Diego Garcia, and then I spent half a year

1113
01:03:21.440 --> 01:03:24.840
in Afghanistan and half a year in United Arab Emirates.

1114
01:03:26.640 --> 01:03:30.680
On the personal side, I've been to, what is it,

1115
01:03:30.680 --> 01:03:35.000
I've been to France, Rome, London,

1116
01:03:35.000 --> 01:03:37.160
and I forget where it was in Germany,

1117
01:03:37.160 --> 01:03:40.160
but I definitely want to do more travel.

1118
01:03:40.160 --> 01:03:41.560
I've got a passport,

1119
01:03:41.560 --> 01:03:46.000
and I also have the National Parks passport as well, so.

1120
01:03:47.000 --> 01:03:47.920
Yeah.

1121
01:03:47.920 --> 01:03:48.760
That's a lot.

1122
01:03:48.760 --> 01:03:49.600
Let's do it.

1123
01:03:49.600 --> 01:03:50.440
I love that, yeah.

1124
01:03:50.440 --> 01:03:53.120
I saw this National Parks, like, road trip.

1125
01:03:53.120 --> 01:03:54.760
You can hit them all.

1126
01:03:54.760 --> 01:03:57.680
Sounded really, very, yeah.

1127
01:03:59.720 --> 01:04:01.840
That's a lot, but someone will do it.

1128
01:04:01.840 --> 01:04:02.680
Someone has done it.

1129
01:04:02.680 --> 01:04:04.640
Okay, what about you, Jeremy?

1130
01:04:04.640 --> 01:04:07.360
I have not traveled outside the country.

1131
01:04:07.360 --> 01:04:08.440
Would love to, though.

1132
01:04:09.320 --> 01:04:12.680
I usually go down once a year down to Florida.

1133
01:04:12.680 --> 01:04:14.360
I got cousins down there,

1134
01:04:14.600 --> 01:04:16.800
and so, actually, I'm going in May

1135
01:04:17.800 --> 01:04:19.560
to hang out with their families,

1136
01:04:19.560 --> 01:04:21.160
and they're like brothers to me,

1137
01:04:21.160 --> 01:04:24.040
so we're close that way, so.

1138
01:04:24.040 --> 01:04:25.560
Florida.

1139
01:04:25.560 --> 01:04:28.920
I've been to Houston, Texas.

1140
01:04:28.920 --> 01:04:30.200
That place is huge.

1141
01:04:30.200 --> 01:04:33.560
Like, drive anywhere, it takes like a half hour.

1142
01:04:33.560 --> 01:04:35.160
Did not like it.

1143
01:04:35.160 --> 01:04:38.800
But yeah, been to Las Vegas a few times.

1144
01:04:38.800 --> 01:04:40.400
I mean, that's fun for like a two or three.

1145
01:04:40.400 --> 01:04:41.240
Vegas!

1146
01:04:41.240 --> 01:04:43.560
If you're going for a concert, it's really fun.

1147
01:04:45.120 --> 01:04:46.680
I'll have to go to the Sphere, then.

1148
01:04:46.680 --> 01:04:48.920
I've been to the Sphere twice.

1149
01:04:48.920 --> 01:04:50.520
I went to see the U2,

1150
01:04:50.520 --> 01:04:53.560
and I went to see the Eagles for my 50th birthday.

1151
01:04:53.560 --> 01:04:56.320
And the Eagles, they're old, and the music was great,

1152
01:04:56.320 --> 01:04:57.880
but they didn't let anyone stand up

1153
01:04:57.880 --> 01:04:59.480
because their fans are so old,

1154
01:04:59.480 --> 01:05:00.480
and they were afraid.

1155
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:02.200
that their fans would get trampled or something.

1156
01:05:02.200 --> 01:05:04.640
And so we all had to sit down like we were at the symphony,

1157
01:05:04.640 --> 01:05:06.280
and that was not fun.

1158
01:05:06.280 --> 01:05:08.440
But the sphere is amazing, and you have to go.

1159
01:05:08.440 --> 01:05:09.360
And don't feel bad.

1160
01:05:09.360 --> 01:05:11.480
I did not leave the country until I was 47,

1161
01:05:11.480 --> 01:05:12.520
which was three years ago.

1162
01:05:12.520 --> 01:05:16.680
And now I have left the country like five times.

1163
01:05:16.680 --> 01:05:18.600
So you will get there.

1164
01:05:18.600 --> 01:05:22.840
OK, so anyone have anything else for either of these guys?

1165
01:05:22.840 --> 01:05:24.320
They're both awesome.

1166
01:05:24.320 --> 01:05:26.840
I know we're going to have a lot.

1167
01:05:26.840 --> 01:05:30.080
Don't forget, go and look at the other spotlights.

1168
01:05:30.080 --> 01:05:32.680
We have lots of people, lots of guys on here.

1169
01:05:32.680 --> 01:05:35.360
Andy was spotlighted in January.

1170
01:05:35.360 --> 01:05:39.960
Some of you guys need to be volunteering for spotlights.

1171
01:05:39.960 --> 01:05:43.360
David, Las Vegas, OK, make sure that you guys are

1172
01:05:43.360 --> 01:05:44.900
checking out these spotlights.

1173
01:05:44.900 --> 01:05:46.360
I'm just looking through here to see

1174
01:05:46.360 --> 01:05:51.560
who's here that has been spotlighted in the past.

1175
01:05:51.560 --> 01:05:53.160
And then lots of amazing ladies.

1176
01:05:53.160 --> 01:05:55.520
Gentlemen, make sure you're checking out those spotlights

1177
01:05:55.520 --> 01:05:57.440
as well.

1178
01:05:57.440 --> 01:06:00.160
Let's see.

1179
01:06:00.160 --> 01:06:02.480
For those of you that are like, oh, it's a nice beach.

1180
01:06:02.480 --> 01:06:04.560
I'm not talking about Cleveland.

1181
01:06:04.560 --> 01:06:06.600
Of course, Lake Erie is an amazing beach.

1182
01:06:06.600 --> 01:06:08.720
We love the beach in Cleveland.

1183
01:06:08.720 --> 01:06:11.120
We are talking about Columbus, Ohio,

1184
01:06:11.120 --> 01:06:14.720
which does not have a body of water outside of Man-Made Lake.

1185
01:06:14.720 --> 01:06:18.960
And the beach there is not good, OK?

1186
01:06:18.960 --> 01:06:21.000
So that's what we're talking about, not Lake Erie.

1187
01:06:21.000 --> 01:06:22.160
Lake Erie is awesome.

1188
01:06:22.160 --> 01:06:23.720
I agree with you.

1189
01:06:23.720 --> 01:06:26.440
All right, do we have any more Ask Jackie questions?

1190
01:06:31.240 --> 01:06:31.800
Wait a second.

1191
01:06:31.800 --> 01:06:32.520
That looked interesting.

1192
01:06:32.520 --> 01:06:33.640
I want to see that one.

1193
01:06:33.640 --> 01:06:36.920
If you could have an unlimited supply of any liquid that

1194
01:06:36.920 --> 01:06:41.200
would come from your thumb, what would you choose?

1195
01:06:41.200 --> 01:06:42.600
It is a good question.

1196
01:06:42.600 --> 01:06:44.920
I think we need the answer to it.

1197
01:06:44.920 --> 01:06:47.440
I chose peanut butter and chocolate

1198
01:06:47.440 --> 01:06:51.600
because a ridiculous question deserves a ridiculous answer.

1199
01:06:51.600 --> 01:06:53.440
It's not liquid.

1200
01:06:53.640 --> 01:06:55.520
It's like a liquid chocolate, and then

1201
01:06:55.520 --> 01:06:57.320
peanut butter is like a viscous.

1202
01:06:57.320 --> 01:07:00.880
I mean, it's on the spectrum.

1203
01:07:00.880 --> 01:07:05.760
OK, really watery peanut butter and chocolate for Daniel.

1204
01:07:05.760 --> 01:07:07.120
What else have we got?

1205
01:07:07.120 --> 01:07:09.480
Jeremy, what do we got?

1206
01:07:09.480 --> 01:07:12.400
So I really like the movie Mr. Deeds,

1207
01:07:12.400 --> 01:07:15.360
and they have a Hawaiian Punch drinking fountain.

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01:07:15.360 --> 01:07:18.480
So I would pick Hawaiian Punch.

1209
01:07:18.480 --> 01:07:20.360
Hawaiian Punch is the bomb.

1210
01:07:20.360 --> 01:07:21.040
That's true.

1211
01:07:21.080 --> 01:07:23.520
It's on the spectrum, Shawnee.

1212
01:07:23.520 --> 01:07:25.520
OK, Shawnee did want to know what

1213
01:07:25.520 --> 01:07:27.040
both of your favorite food is.

1214
01:07:27.040 --> 01:07:29.160
It's not chocolate and peanut butter, I'm assuming.

1215
01:07:29.160 --> 01:07:32.080
So favorite genre of food or favorite food item,

1216
01:07:32.080 --> 01:07:33.200
doesn't matter.

1217
01:07:33.200 --> 01:07:35.360
If you could eat it nonstop, it wouldn't

1218
01:07:35.360 --> 01:07:39.040
cause you any havoc in any way or gain you any weight,

1219
01:07:39.040 --> 01:07:42.240
what would it be?

1220
01:07:42.240 --> 01:07:43.720
Well, I like sushi.

1221
01:07:43.720 --> 01:07:47.920
I love ramen, but I also really enjoy trying new foods.

1222
01:07:47.920 --> 01:07:51.320
I would try the chef's special any time.

1223
01:07:51.320 --> 01:07:54.680
Whatever the dish of the day is, bring it on.

1224
01:07:54.680 --> 01:07:56.960
Let's try it.

1225
01:07:56.960 --> 01:07:58.120
All right.

1226
01:07:58.120 --> 01:08:00.520
You went to the last restaurant that we went to in Portugal.

1227
01:08:00.520 --> 01:08:02.800
They served the seafood still on the rocks.

1228
01:08:02.800 --> 01:08:06.520
You had to scrape it off like barnacles.

1229
01:08:06.520 --> 01:08:07.440
Lots of seafood.

1230
01:08:07.440 --> 01:08:09.440
OK, what about you, Jeremy?

1231
01:08:09.440 --> 01:08:12.440
I'm a burger guy, so just give me a burger all day long,

1232
01:08:12.440 --> 01:08:13.840
and I'm a happy man.

1233
01:08:13.840 --> 01:08:17.840
Jeremy's like, give me burgers, give me Netflix.

1234
01:08:17.840 --> 01:08:20.399
I'm fine.

1235
01:08:20.399 --> 01:08:21.520
All right, all right.

1236
01:08:21.520 --> 01:08:25.279
So the irony is that I feel like you're

1237
01:08:25.279 --> 01:08:27.000
going to end up with someone who's

1238
01:08:27.000 --> 01:08:33.960
going to have you first class to another country,

1239
01:08:33.960 --> 01:08:36.160
eating all kinds of things that you don't even know,

1240
01:08:36.160 --> 01:08:37.399
you've never seen before in your life.

1241
01:08:37.399 --> 01:08:38.319
It's going to be fun.

1242
01:08:38.319 --> 01:08:40.399
OK, all right.

1243
01:08:40.399 --> 01:08:41.920
It'll be a double date, Jeremy.

1244
01:08:41.920 --> 01:08:43.040
Perla's making fun of you.

1245
01:08:43.040 --> 01:08:45.439
She's like a real foodie, right?

1246
01:08:45.439 --> 01:08:46.840
Like a foodie.

1247
01:08:46.840 --> 01:08:49.760
And then she quoted something from Mr. Deeds, too.

1248
01:08:49.760 --> 01:08:52.240
Very, very sneaky, sir.

1249
01:08:52.240 --> 01:08:53.279
I didn't see the movie.

1250
01:08:53.279 --> 01:08:54.319
That's the butler, yes.

1251
01:08:54.319 --> 01:08:56.120
Yeah, I did not see that.

1252
01:08:56.120 --> 01:08:58.000
Very, very sneaky, sir.

1253
01:08:58.000 --> 01:09:01.319
OK, well, she likes to tease you,

1254
01:09:01.319 --> 01:09:04.640
so maybe that will be an introduction for you, Jeremy.

1255
01:09:04.640 --> 01:09:06.240
OK, all right.

1256
01:09:06.240 --> 01:09:07.359
So that's it, you guys.

1257
01:09:07.359 --> 01:09:09.040
Those are the questions.

1258
01:09:09.040 --> 01:09:11.319
I'm going to go ahead and remove these spotlights, guys.

1259
01:09:11.319 --> 01:09:12.800
I really appreciate you.

1260
01:09:12.800 --> 01:09:15.040
I know that it can be kind of intimidating.

1261
01:09:15.040 --> 01:09:20.120
And so thank you for hanging out with us

1262
01:09:20.120 --> 01:09:22.720
and answering all of our questions.

1263
01:09:22.720 --> 01:09:24.399
I'm just trying to.

1264
01:09:24.399 --> 01:09:27.560
I'm at David's computer, so I'm trying to do all this.

1265
01:09:27.560 --> 01:09:29.640
OK, all right.

1266
01:09:29.640 --> 01:09:30.439
What time is it?

1267
01:09:30.439 --> 01:09:31.319
We have four minutes.

1268
01:09:31.319 --> 01:09:33.319
Do we have any more Ask Jackie questions?

1269
01:09:33.319 --> 01:09:35.680
Don't forget, check out all the old spotlights.

1270
01:09:35.680 --> 01:09:39.920
Please email us at spotlight at Jackie Dorman.

1271
01:09:39.920 --> 01:09:41.200
No, that's not true.

1272
01:09:41.200 --> 01:09:45.040
Spotlight at jainmedia.org.

1273
01:09:45.040 --> 01:09:48.920
OK, that is the new place for spotlights.

1274
01:09:48.920 --> 01:09:50.720
What do we have going on this week?

1275
01:09:50.720 --> 01:09:55.200
We have all community prayer on Sunday night, which is usually

1276
01:09:55.200 --> 01:09:58.040
a prophetic prayer time.

1277
01:09:58.040 --> 01:10:01.200
I know that we're going to be going after some healing.

1278
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:03.800
on that night and so if you have anything that's going on in your body

1279
01:10:03.800 --> 01:10:08.600
in your mind something that you want healed you want to make sure to make it

1280
01:10:08.600 --> 01:10:15.000
to that come full of faith and God can do what you believe he can do and so we

1281
01:10:15.000 --> 01:10:18.740
will be activating that among other things we'll be releasing prophetic

1282
01:10:18.740 --> 01:10:21.960
words and doing all the stuff that we usually do once a month on Sunday night

1283
01:10:21.960 --> 01:10:29.100
activation okay the old spotlights are in the replay tab of your app so ladies

1284
01:10:29.100 --> 01:10:34.080
phase 3 your app replays to scroll through they're all titled look for the

1285
01:10:34.080 --> 01:10:40.440
spotlight replays gentlemen same thing all right and I think that is it for

1286
01:10:40.440 --> 01:10:44.340
tonight so we'll see you on supernatural Saturday we'll see you on Sunday night

1287
01:10:44.340 --> 01:10:51.140
activation until then may God help you to cross paths with your spirit mate may

1288
01:10:51.140 --> 01:10:55.060
he spotlight you and make you really make you willing to be made willing in

1289
01:10:55.060 --> 01:11:03.820
this time really be digging into what it is that God is speaking to you about

1290
01:11:03.820 --> 01:11:11.100
your non-negotiables your deal-breakers really allow God to soften your heart in

1291
01:11:11.100 --> 01:11:14.660
places where it has not been softened before where you're still self-protecting

1292
01:11:14.660 --> 01:11:18.480
and as a result of self-protecting you are missing some invitations to

1293
01:11:18.480 --> 01:11:24.300
relationship stop self-protecting and trust the Lord okay all right love you

1294
01:11:24.300 --> 01:11:27.500
guys see you soon bye