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What I want you to do, this is like a whole new world

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for many people of thinking and being.

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I have coached pre-Christians and Christians.

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So people who aren't there yet

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and people who have hung out with God,

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for some of them for 50 plus years.

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And they've never asked God a question.

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It's nuts.

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It's like, what?

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How can you have a relationship

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with your father in heaven without talking with him?

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I might ask him for things like he's a genie,

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but we don't often ask back.

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So we do this exercise with all of the year 13s

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at Lindisfarne College.

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And every single one of them can hear.

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So this is super cool.

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Whether you believe or you don't believe, it's all good.

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I want you to tune into the right voices.

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So this is where we're gonna open up the treasure within

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and find your true and authentic self.

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It's time to find your brilliant brilliance

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and stop hiding.

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So the first game that we're going to do

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is to help you find a space.

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So we're going to, actually, before we get into my exercise,

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you just need to rate yourself out of 10

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because what I'm looking at here now,

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this is one of my little keys.

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If we don't pause and put a line in the sand

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of where we are at any point in time,

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we can't measure it.

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We can't measure growth.

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We can't measure where we're at

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because we've never put a line in the sand to measure by.

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We've got nothing to go by.

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So what we do here, right at the beginning of every week,

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I'm gonna ask you to rate yourself

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about how you're feeling and then a word.

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So I'm gonna give myself an eight out of 10.

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Whoops, I said here.

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So I want you to just think for a moment.

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You can pause me and just have a word.

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So I'm feeling eight out of 10

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because it's about halfway through my day.

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And my word is I'm still excited.

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So I'm still in that excited space after launching.

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I'm so excited to be sharing this with you.

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Like I'm 110 miles an hour.

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So that's where I'm at.

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An eight is for new beginnings.

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So I'm quite happy with an eight out of 10

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because that gives me new beginnings.

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So put a pause button on me, ask God,

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or just ask yourself, how do you feel?

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And just write it down.

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Okay, welcome back.

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The next thing I want you to do

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is we're gonna do a census check.

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Now, beautiful Jan Billings,

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who runs Kingdom Adventurers for teachers,

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is absolutely amazing.

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And she shared this game with me

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when I went on one of her courses,

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which is why we use it for the Lindisfarne boys.

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And it's about, at the end of the day,

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we have three voices in our heads.

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We have the enemy's voice,

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which is all about you don't wanna do that.

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Keep yourself safe.

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Oh no, that would be a bad thing.

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Oh, don't talk to that person.

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Oh, you know, and tells you all sorts of lies,

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but you believe it

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because it's a voice you've got in your head.

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It's internal.

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And then there's your voice.

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Well, I can't believe he said that.

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That's outrageous because we're just in our space,

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in our time, in our thinking.

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So it's all about me.

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And I'm a shocker for getting in my own space.

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Or we can go, oh, I hand to God.

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What do you see?

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What do you show me?

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And you know what I love about him?

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He's always uplifting.

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He's always positive.

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He's always encouraging.

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He's always got a quiet voice.

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He never judges.

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He never condemns.

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He never puts me down.

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Bring it on.

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Out of those three voices,

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there's one that lifts me up,

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that makes me feel better,

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that boosts me and gives me a much better way.

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So I'm gonna encourage you to tune into that voice.

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And before you go, but you know,

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no one's got, everyone's got voices in their heads.

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We're not nuts.

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It's how we're made.

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It's our thinking,

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it's part of our thinking process and being.

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So what I want you to do right now is ask God

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what game he wants to play with you.

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All right, now, the first one he's given me is tennis.

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So whatever the first thing is

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that comes into your head,

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interesting, because when I did this yesterday,

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it was a completely different game.

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Brick up.

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So whatever was the first game that comes into your head,

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just write it down.

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And then when you've got that, ask God,

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God, why, why do you want to play that game with me?

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Okay, so, interesting.

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So my case, he wants the backwards and forwards.

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He wants.

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to and fro he wants the you know and there's some running there's some energy there's

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some relationship in there because you're playing together so that's kind of what i feel for the

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tennis and then for you so you ask yourself and i'd love feel free to message me these these bring

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me so much joy just quietly um and then the last one is what does he want you to learn in this game

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so what does he want me to learn

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okay so i've just got a few that say like healthy boundary structure tactics planning ahead because

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you have to plan your shots ahead you don't you've got to see where it's going to go you've

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got to see the unseen and to be a good sport so whether i win or i lose i've still got to be me

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i've still got to hold my identity in who i am so i thought that was quite interesting so yeah

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please message me with what your game is what did you know why he wants to play it with you

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and what did he want you to learn from that game and if you're open to me setting up a

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whatsapp chat that you can be part of then please let me know and we can pop it in there because

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then we'll know everyone's games and um why he wanted to play them and it's so exciting to have

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that okay now i know you can hear the right voice i want us to move into like out with the old and

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in with the new so it's time to dig deep and be this is some self-reflection and the more honest

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you can be with yourself the more you will get out of this so we are digging deep i want you to

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consider right now what holds you back so whether it's negative things or limiting beliefs or

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unhelpful feelings whatever it is for you i just want you to take a moment right now and consider

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what holds you back

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okay so i've just put three things in the air um for me which is lack of planning um

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not looking ahead for tomorrow next week or the month consistently so i'm a bit inconsistent at

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the moment i've kind of fallen off the wagon with the um book launch i was doing quite well in

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january and then it's sort of all gone off and then being unclear on what next because i haven't

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done my planning so those are the things that will hold me back if i'm not clear and focused

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on where i need to go so whatever it is for you for some people it's the fear of failure for others

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it can be feeling like they're not good enough for others it could be the fear of what other

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people say it could be worries about money it could be concerns about something else whatever

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it might be it could be a sick child or a sick parent or whatever it might be so whatever it is

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for you i encourage you and actually when we did this live with the live group there were two things

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that came up one was not being good enough so feeling that they weren't good enough and another

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was always needing to seek permission or acceptance so if that's something that bubbles for you

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then we need to put that in because what we're going to do is we're going to flip it

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so just pause and take time to think about all the things that hold you back

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and then i've just got another one that's popped up not making a decision there's a quote around

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once you've made a decision you never have to think about it again so once you have got to

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the place right i'm not going to

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sweet, you know, sugary foods.

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you never have to think about it again.

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And then you can start moving forward,

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which is what we're gonna do right now.

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So what we're gonna do is exchange the old for the new.

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We're gonna exchange the pain for the promise,

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because that's what God says.

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Jesus paid in full, job done.

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So take a moment to ask God to help you

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exchange the pain for the promise,

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as you reflect and write down any new thoughts

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or promises that arise.

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So what I want you to do is just sit and be in his presence

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and whatever comes into your head,

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whatever you're thinking about,

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I want you to just write it down.

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So, lack of planning, Father God,

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what would be the opposite of that?

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And just ask him for the replacement or the exchange,

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the insteading, as Dion would call it.

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We'll just take a moment to do that.

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So, what would be the opposite of that?

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And just ask him for the replacement or the exchange,

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the insteading, as Dion would call it.

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We'll just take a moment to do that.

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the insteading, as Dion would call it.

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We'll just take a moment to do that.

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We'll just take a moment to do that.

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We'll just take a moment to do that.

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Okay, so just to give you an idea of what I've written here.

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Okay, so just to give you an idea of what I've written here.

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So, lack of planning, so utilizing the 2025 planner,

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because that's what God and I wrote last year,

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so that we've worked on for the past year.

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So we've worked on that.

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Actually, that's the next one, just bear with.

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Evening and morning routines.

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So, the Jewish calendar starts at 6 p.m.

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and goes through to 6 p.m.

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Now, what I have been doing,

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just get my wee thing out so you can have a little see,

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a look-see, is, oh, that's not the whole day's worth

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of stuff, just bear with.

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So, I'm doing quite well in January,

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and I was putting down all the things

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that I was doing in my day,

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so done lists, because winners have done lists,

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and I was just writing down, I was tracking my hydration,

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you know, how I was doing on my hydration each day,

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but I would do that at night,

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and then I would set my plan for the following morning,

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and it's been so key.

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We do some amazing things for the morning

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and evening routine, but it's my evening routine,

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how I end my day, and if I reflect on that,

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if I, oh my goodness, I've forgotten to send that email,

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oh, I must just do that, because it reminds me,

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because I'm writing it down,

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and because I've written it down, I then remember,

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and of course, if I do it at six o'clock at night,

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I've still got time to get that email sent,

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or whatever it is that I might need to still do

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before I go to bed, which is gold,

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and I make sure, like for example,

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when I've got early mornings,

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I'll actually put my clothes ready in the bathroom,

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because I don't want to wake my husband up

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if I've got a seriously early morning,

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so it's setting myself up the night before.

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Have I prepared my lunches?

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Have I got myself sorted so that do I know

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what I'm doing every hour of the following day?

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Now, I'll still allow God to move within that,

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so he might move my calendar for the day,

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but I need to have a plan in the first.

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first place so that he can then move my steps and make me do

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what needs to happen or open my open it up for what needs to

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happen. And then not looking ahead for tomorrow or next week

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or next month. That's where I use my 2025 planner. Now

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actually what I will be able to do if I was super clever. Let me

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just see if I'm sure I put this in for you guys. It should be in

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here. Oh, that's not what I want at all. Bear with one moment

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caller. I have got you here. And we have got course notes

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here. And so this is the 2025 great exchange productivity

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planner. And I have, I believe, just emailed this out to you, we

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will have the link in this thing. So Annabelle's kindly put

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this together for me. We used it last year. So the first thing is

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to have your values rules. Some of you have coached with me

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there'll be in there or your new belief, your identity or your

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priority order. And also to have your vision. Now, if you

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haven't got all these straight up, don't panic about it. Don't

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worry about it. What I would say to you right now is think about

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where do you want to be in 10 years time? Or what if you

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could do one to three things this year, that like fit,

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perhaps in faith, family and finance, you know, fit in those

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key areas? What would it be? What would those things be? You

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don't have to have big sentences, you don't have to do

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too much. But all I would put in here, like, you know, obviously

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last year, mine was to write my book. And I published it this

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year. So boom, I've got the first thing off my vision. And

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this year, I'm going to look to build the safest, most

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beautiful, warmest community possible, where everyone is here

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to give, but when we give, we get so much more. Everyone's

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here to embrace and lift up and bring the best of who they are,

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so that everyone can be their best. So that's my vision for

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this year. And I will type it in. I shall do it for next week.

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things that I need to do for my evening routine doesn't look

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like bells, you have to print it off because we can't type on

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this. But for me is setting myself up. Have I done my lunch

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for the following day? Have I done my you know, have I done

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my laid out my clothes? Have I reviewed? Have I planned it?

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that I need to do. And then in the morning, am I straight up?

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Have I walked the dog? Have I listened to the word? Have I got

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going before the day has even started? And then from your

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vision from what you really want to do, we often have a big

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finance. So under those three, you might want to put something

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in there. So under faith, it might be I want to grow in a

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certain area, or I want to add value to the worship team, or I

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want to make sure I'm listening to the word every day. And it

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could be a physical fitness as well, because faith for me is

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all about the whole our bodies are a temple. So it's looking

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after my body as well. So I'm actually going to do a 40 day

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fast in Lent. So that which isn't I've never done any of

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those religious parts of the calendars, this will just be a

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bit of fun. But actually, it's because I need to shed some

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kilos again. So and then number two family, so I'm going away,

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Kevin, I've got our wedding anniversary in this quarter. And

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we just we always have a month like once a month we go away for

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a weekend. So we're just going to focus on that and building

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that. And then finance will be growing, growing this movement

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growing where we're going. And then also, in here, you can be

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so key upgrades or your stretch. So what we're going to do is

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we're going to look here and break those down to what I can

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be doing this month or this quarter. So what are those

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stretch goals that are really and then you've got a place

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there to track your wins and learns. You can then take that

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down to January, so February or whatever in your big three. So

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this one's January's. So you break so you've got your

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quarterly one, quarter one, and then you've got your into

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months. And then we've also got is a little planner to go I'm

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going to do this on Tuesday, I'm going to do these three

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things. So I have three things every day. And today, recording

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this video was one of my three, because I knew that you are

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going to need this tomorrow morning, where you can then get

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started at the weekend. So that was just a bit of a sidetrack. I

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actually need to share the screen, but just not that

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particular thing. So we'll go back to here. So that just gives

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you an idea of the 2025 planner. And that is going to be I'll

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give you the link so that you've got that having your

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clear vision as I you know, God saying have a clear vision as I

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work with you on what's next spend time with God and ask him

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the questions. And it will be fun. It's always fun. It's

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always engaged. It's like a journey that it's like being

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the look I feel like a kid in a lolly shop because I'm never

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quite sure what's going to come up next. And then let's work

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together with the Holy Spirit on what's right

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and what's not and put that plan into place.

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as in paddock to plate.

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What's not right for me is eating all the cakes

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that we've eaten for the birthday of the book,

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all the other stuff that, you know, cakes, carbs, sugar,

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whatever it might be, not helpful at all.

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which is about making the decision, right, okay,

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today's the day, and today was the day.

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that's the last piece of birthday cake.

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between now and Easter.

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I am going to be looking at staying focused,

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and just actually being on track.

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what holds you back,

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and then ask God for what to replace it with.

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writing and reflecting on how amazing my day has been,

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what I've done, not what I haven't done,

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who I am, not what I'm not.

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so I can go, yes, I've done this today.

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of the concepts we've covered today.

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So I'm really encouraging to embrace your journey

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and self-development and personal growth,

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because that's what we're going to be doing.

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That's what we're looking at.

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So well done for being here.

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Embrace it.

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You're going to have fun.

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Some of it's going to be new to you.

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and ride them without, you know, trainer wheels

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or whatever they're called here.

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They're stabilizers or whatever the score is.

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and you will get brilliant at it the more you practice.

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and we want to permanently sit in a good space,

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not sit in the unhelpful space.

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Engage with the questions to uncover insights from God.

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It's listening, it's feeling, it's sensing,

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it's working through the good stuff.

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and negative thoughts.

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I generally hang out in the God space,

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but I coach a lot of people who don't hang out with God

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and they can hear from him,

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they can put the positives in, they're brilliant.

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and the negative thoughts and exchange them

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for what we know to be true,

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for the good, for the uplifting, for the positive.

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Like it's time to look for that.

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Because what you focus on expands.

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If you look for the good, you'll find it.

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what we've done is we've exchanged the old baggage here

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of things that are holding us back for new luggage,

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what's going to take us forward into the future.

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So that's what we're looking for.

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you saying yes is your key to freedom,

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your key to freedom, prosperity and abundance.

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You saying yes to this, this is time for my light to shine.

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I'm ready to embark on a new journey.

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what I'd like you to do is just reflect on how you feel.

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I feel more settled because I now know where I'm going.

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I now have a plan.

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I've got something in place.

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I know where I'm going.

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I'm going to encourage you to put a call to adventure in.

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and morning routines each day.

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that I'm missing previously,

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but I'm not going to stress over what I haven't done.

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I'm going to look at what I have done.

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that's great too.

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I'm just looking at,

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so you might need to go back and have a wee look.

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I'll just put healthy headache to plate food.

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how I get on with that and many of you actually are in my personal life as well so you'll be

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able to see. So what I encourage you to do is write your call to adventure and then stick it

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in the chat. So I will set that chat up with everybody who has signed up to do this DIY course.

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You are welcome to leave it, you do not have to be part of it, you do not have to engage in it,

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but if I set you up because I know who you are and we put it in there and I welcome you,

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we'll set that up for now. We are going to look at an app. Kev said it's all ready to go but he

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hasn't shown me how to use it yet. So it might take just a couple of weeks for us to get the

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app up and running and then you'll all be in there together and you can introduce yourselves,

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you can say hello, you can go yeah I did this, I did that. Many of you won't know who each other

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is which is great because it gives you that beautiful anonymity because no one knows you

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and you can be honest and real because nobody knows you in that particular space. So thank you,

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thank you, thank you, well done. You have now finished week one and next week, I'm just

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thinking, oh yes, next week we're exchanging confusion for clarity and unease for peace.

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So again it's those big exchanges, we're going to be looking at, I think it was,

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it might even be chapter three and four, just let me have, I'm just having a look at me at

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chapter three and four, there we go, my notes are ready for next week. So we will look forward to

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seeing you next week, have an amazing week this week, flipping those upside down world the right

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way up, getting rid of those negatives, those things that hold you back and really walking in

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to what's brilliant about you and let me know. Have an amazing, God blessed week, love you all, take care, bye.