WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:09.080 Hello, amazing, beautiful people. It is so good to be back here. How did you get on with 2 00:00:09.080 --> 00:00:14.200 week one? Well, first of all, what I'm going to do is I'm actually going to take you through 3 00:00:14.200 --> 00:00:19.200 the process each week. Last week was our welcome, and you actually had two videos in one. You 4 00:00:19.200 --> 00:00:24.320 had the welcome video, and then you had session one. Today, you're going to get session two. 5 00:00:24.320 --> 00:00:29.320 And what we're going to do each week is we're going to do a recap to help you keep it refreshed 6 00:00:29.320 --> 00:00:36.040 in your brain and help you focus and see your progress. Because if we don't pause, and we 7 00:00:36.040 --> 00:00:41.640 don't reflect, and we don't review, we don't get to see God's goodness in our lives. So 8 00:00:41.640 --> 00:00:47.200 here goes, let's get straight into it. Because I know you I just make sure obviously, that 9 00:00:47.200 --> 00:00:51.760 you've got your notes printed off, that you're sat comfortably, and that you're ready, might 10 00:00:51.760 --> 00:00:59.080 even have a cup of coffee, or a cup of tea ready to go so that you can just sit and be 11 00:00:59.120 --> 00:01:05.120 in his presence and enjoy this coaching. So right now, Father God, I thank you for each 12 00:01:05.120 --> 00:01:10.360 person that is listening to this, and is watching this replay, because that's what it is. It's 13 00:01:10.360 --> 00:01:15.760 a replay of the training actually that we do yesterday with a live group. And I love 14 00:01:15.760 --> 00:01:20.560 the fact Lord that you're just giving them pure content. So in this season, and in this 15 00:01:20.560 --> 00:01:25.880 time, I know you're present here. And as two or more are gathered, so I'm on the video, 16 00:01:25.880 --> 00:01:31.760 there with each person, just help them Holy Spirit guide them through what it is that 17 00:01:31.760 --> 00:01:37.880 you want to show them that you want to lift up or bring out so that we can sort it out. 18 00:01:38.120 --> 00:01:42.360 So Lord, I thank you. I thank you for being here with us. I thank you for each person 19 00:01:42.360 --> 00:01:47.600 watching this. And I thank you Holy Spirit for what you're going to do in the next 20 20 00:01:47.600 --> 00:01:52.160 minutes. And we just claim that in Jesus name. Amen. Enjoy. 21 00:01:52.760 --> 00:02:00.880 Okie dokie, here we go, team, we're away. So week two, we really want to exchange confusion 22 00:02:00.880 --> 00:02:06.760 for clarity or unease or peace. In other words, we're turning or exchanging, we're turning 23 00:02:06.760 --> 00:02:11.640 our upside down world the right way up. Confusion, as we know, belongs to the enemy. But God 24 00:02:11.640 --> 00:02:16.440 is simple and straightforward and clear, same today, yesterday and tomorrow. And then that 25 00:02:16.600 --> 00:02:23.400 unease, unrest, that stuff that just niggles at us, that's not God. Jesus, Jesus is the 26 00:02:23.400 --> 00:02:29.480 Prince of Peace. So let's see if we can exchange the other stuff and get into our space. So 27 00:02:29.480 --> 00:02:34.720 welcome back. You know, I hope you had. And you know, as you looked last week on what 28 00:02:34.720 --> 00:02:39.160 you were doing, the words that you speak and who you are, because that's what we were working 29 00:02:39.160 --> 00:02:44.120 through last week. In fact, I'm just going to do a quick recap here. What we looked at 30 00:02:44.120 --> 00:02:50.880 last week was we went straight into what God was doing. So what game did God want to 31 00:02:50.880 --> 00:02:55.720 play with you? Why did he want to play that game? And what did he want you to learn from 32 00:02:55.720 --> 00:03:00.880 it? And I hope that in that, what do you want to learn from this, that you've been thinking 33 00:03:00.880 --> 00:03:05.720 about that during this week. And then the next thing that we looked at was out with 34 00:03:05.720 --> 00:03:11.360 the old and in with the new. So we looked at what holds you back. And then what's the 35 00:03:11.360 --> 00:03:18.080 promise? Every problem has a promise attached, or every issue has a possibility. So every 36 00:03:18.080 --> 00:03:23.840 problem is a is an opportunity is a possibility. So in my case here, it was poor planning. 37 00:03:24.040 --> 00:03:28.400 I obviously know the plans I have for you, but I needed to get into my morning and evening 38 00:03:28.400 --> 00:03:35.040 routine. I needed to get back into it. And actually, I got out my planner, which is 39 00:03:35.040 --> 00:03:41.440 available to all of you. I've just moved it today because I've been coaching. But right 40 00:03:41.440 --> 00:03:46.800 here right now. So I got into my planner. And as you can see, I've been doing every day 41 00:03:46.800 --> 00:03:52.800 since we coached last week, and just working through my top three each day. And this is 42 00:03:52.800 --> 00:03:59.240 available to you this planner in your in your store. The other things that I looked at to 43 00:03:59.240 --> 00:04:04.520 help me is to really focus on what I wanted to do for my morning and evening routine. So 44 00:04:04.520 --> 00:04:07.920 we're going to look at what did you do with your day? And that's what you're going to do 45 00:04:07.920 --> 00:04:13.640 when you recap. So that was a morning routine. So, you know, there, and I also had a quick 46 00:04:13.640 --> 00:04:18.360 look at my vision, you know, just did some bullet points of what I want to achieve in 47 00:04:18.360 --> 00:04:24.560 this next few weeks or months, we are going to go through this in detail this, this lovely 48 00:04:26.080 --> 00:04:30.400 what is your productivity planner. But then again, I just had a quick look at February, 49 00:04:30.400 --> 00:04:35.120 what do I want to achieve? And how do I want to achieve it? And so and then I've got wins here. 50 00:04:35.120 --> 00:04:40.560 So you can start filling this in because this tracks your progress. It have had it on my desk 51 00:04:40.560 --> 00:04:46.000 all week to refer back to so that I can go have I done something to do with that today, 52 00:04:46.000 --> 00:04:52.480 it keeps me focused, it brings me clarity, instead of me doing 428 other things, it keeps 53 00:04:52.480 --> 00:04:57.920 me focused. Actually, it stopped me doing emails and some other stuff I wanted to do right now. 54 00:04:57.920 --> 00:04:59.840 And it kept me focused on doing this video. 55 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:05.760 you. So it's a really good way to get clarity by tracking what you're doing. I've given you a 56 00:05:05.760 --> 00:05:11.200 planner to help you track and work through. So enjoy working with that. Feel free to email me 57 00:05:11.200 --> 00:05:18.800 if you want to know more. We need some more training on it too. Okay. So rather than being 58 00:05:18.800 --> 00:05:24.320 busy, I wanted to be focused. I wanted to just do the one to three things. And I've actually got two 59 00:05:24.320 --> 00:05:29.200 diaries because I've got two. So that's the summary again. But it's like I've got three 60 00:05:29.200 --> 00:05:34.880 things each day that I'm going to do. And so I work on these, those three things. And today 61 00:05:34.880 --> 00:05:40.240 was to record this video. So now I'm doing it. So what I would like you to do, the first thing 62 00:05:40.240 --> 00:05:45.440 we do in every session, we looked at senses and we looked at the old baggage for new luggage. So 63 00:05:45.440 --> 00:05:51.040 I've just given you a quick recap. So what I want you to consider is the key takeaways from last 64 00:05:51.040 --> 00:06:02.080 week's session. So for me, it was about planning and activating. I need it because it helped me 65 00:06:03.200 --> 00:06:09.440 to focus on what was noble, right and true. Focus on what it was that God really wants me to do 66 00:06:10.080 --> 00:06:15.280 today, tomorrow and the next day. So I just needed to go, right, what do I need to achieve? 67 00:06:15.280 --> 00:06:20.400 What's God calling me to do this right now? And then bringing into my, just my top three. 68 00:06:20.400 --> 00:06:24.320 What are the three things, one to three things that I need to do? And some days, 69 00:06:24.320 --> 00:06:31.680 it was just one thing. So Monday, it was to just finish doing my admin, whatever it was. 70 00:06:31.680 --> 00:06:35.840 I remember something specific I had to do. Oh, that's right. Follow up on all the book, 71 00:06:35.840 --> 00:06:40.160 people who wanted books on Sunday. I needed to make sure that I followed that up for them on 72 00:06:40.160 --> 00:06:46.960 Monday. So it got done. Okay. And then integration of learnings. So how have you applied these 73 00:06:46.960 --> 00:06:50.880 concepts? So I've just kind of done two together. The insights we gained about planning and 74 00:06:50.880 --> 00:06:56.000 activating and focus. And then how have I done that? I've written my notes. I've said what I'm 75 00:06:56.000 --> 00:07:03.520 going to do. I've been using my daily diary here, just to give you an idea. So again, I'm back on 76 00:07:03.520 --> 00:07:09.040 track with this. What have I done? What am I thankful for in my day to make sure I'm just 77 00:07:09.040 --> 00:07:13.840 really onto it and focused. And they sit on my desk every day to make sure that I stay 78 00:07:14.560 --> 00:07:20.160 in the right zone, in the right place at the right time. So that's what's important there. 79 00:07:20.800 --> 00:07:27.520 So here, so me, it's about how have I done it? I've done tracking and it helps me keep on point. 80 00:07:27.520 --> 00:07:38.640 It keeps, so I'm achieving more. And not only that, but I'm much less stressed because I'm 81 00:07:38.640 --> 00:07:45.840 getting things done. I'm not forgetting things. So I'm not forgetting things that are important 82 00:07:45.840 --> 00:07:51.680 to others and to me. So that's been really good. And engagement with others. So just reflecting 83 00:07:51.680 --> 00:07:59.120 on your interactions over the past week, were you able to use the tools to foster connection, 84 00:07:59.200 --> 00:08:03.360 learning and healing? So yes, I've honoured 85 00:08:06.560 --> 00:08:13.120 others, because quite frankly, I'm making sure that I keep in touch with them, 86 00:08:13.120 --> 00:08:16.800 that whoever's ordered the book will say, can I have a book? Can I have this? Can I have that? 87 00:08:16.800 --> 00:08:22.960 Whatever it might be, I've got back to them. And I've made sure that I'm following up. So for 88 00:08:22.960 --> 00:08:28.240 example, Pleroma may well be able to distribute my books throughout New Zealand in the amount of 89 00:08:28.240 --> 00:08:32.559 bookstores. And so therefore, I've had to just follow up, Phil gave me a contact, I followed up 90 00:08:32.559 --> 00:08:38.159 with a contact, you know, and then I'll do another one tomorrow. So it's just around. And again, just 91 00:08:39.280 --> 00:08:47.680 you know, it's how we can work together. So it becomes for a win, win, win. 92 00:08:51.280 --> 00:08:55.600 So just take a moment, I've just given you a quick overview of how I've reviewed my week, 93 00:08:55.600 --> 00:09:01.360 pause this video, take a moment, make sure you're reviewing what did you learn from last time? 94 00:09:01.920 --> 00:09:06.480 What have you applied? And how has it helped? Because it's all very good applying something, 95 00:09:06.480 --> 00:09:10.800 but if it doesn't make any difference, we need to think again, because we want to make 96 00:09:10.800 --> 00:09:19.440 a difference in everything we do. Okay, team. So the other thing I'd like you to do 97 00:09:20.080 --> 00:09:27.600 is just consider where you are right now. As you come into this training, you know, how do you feel 98 00:09:27.600 --> 00:09:33.200 as you're coming in? Are you excited? Are you tired? Is it the end of your day? Where are you at? 99 00:09:33.200 --> 00:09:37.760 So I'm going to give myself an eight out of 10. Because I've just come out of a couple of really 100 00:09:37.760 --> 00:09:43.280 inspiring meetings. And I'm going to give myself, I'm going to say I'm inspired at the moment, 101 00:09:43.280 --> 00:09:50.640 I'm ready to go. I'm like, come on, let's do this. So we're going to look at some key concepts. 102 00:09:50.640 --> 00:09:54.960 So once you've given you just given yourself an idea of where you're at, let's get into it. 103 00:09:54.960 --> 00:09:59.840 So key concepts for this session, we're going to look at key four, which is getting your 104 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:04.040 life in order, and you'll find this in chapter three. 105 00:10:04.040 --> 00:10:06.360 So what I'd like you to do is just take a moment 106 00:10:06.360 --> 00:10:09.800 to consider the order of your life. 107 00:10:09.800 --> 00:10:11.640 When you write down your thoughts, 108 00:10:12.800 --> 00:10:17.160 to help you, excuse me team, with the following prompts. 109 00:10:17.160 --> 00:10:22.160 So, the first section is about people. 110 00:10:22.480 --> 00:10:26.000 So who comes first in your life and who comes at the end? 111 00:10:26.000 --> 00:10:29.480 So first person at the top and then work your way down 112 00:10:29.480 --> 00:10:32.800 or groups of people, work your way down to the bottom, 113 00:10:32.800 --> 00:10:35.240 to wherever it is for you. 114 00:10:35.240 --> 00:10:38.640 So for some people, friends might be first. 115 00:10:47.120 --> 00:10:49.200 For others, it might be family. 116 00:10:51.440 --> 00:10:54.600 And for others, it may be, you know, spouses. 117 00:10:56.840 --> 00:10:58.600 Or it could be work colleagues. 118 00:11:00.480 --> 00:11:05.480 So you need to work out who comes where, you know, 119 00:11:06.040 --> 00:11:08.680 and where do your parents, or, 120 00:11:08.680 --> 00:11:10.600 and I know family is quite broad, 121 00:11:10.600 --> 00:11:12.240 so I'm just being a bit more specific. 122 00:11:12.240 --> 00:11:15.480 Where do your parents or children sit? 123 00:11:17.360 --> 00:11:20.800 You know, in the order of people. 124 00:11:20.800 --> 00:11:23.200 And where are those that, you know, 125 00:11:23.200 --> 00:11:24.880 might be church people. 126 00:11:24.880 --> 00:11:26.720 There's others that I call family. 127 00:11:26.720 --> 00:11:28.000 So that's a little bit closer. 128 00:11:28.000 --> 00:11:30.720 Those are the friends that we choose to be family. 129 00:11:30.720 --> 00:11:33.400 So they're not just friends, they're not family, 130 00:11:33.400 --> 00:11:36.040 they're a bit, they're kind of in between the two. 131 00:11:36.040 --> 00:11:41.040 So just have a think of the different people in your life 132 00:11:41.120 --> 00:11:45.920 and who is the most important and who's the least important. 133 00:11:45.920 --> 00:11:50.520 So it just helps you to prioritise who comes first 134 00:11:50.520 --> 00:11:52.120 or who's most important to you. 135 00:11:53.600 --> 00:11:55.000 So again, you can pause the video 136 00:11:55.000 --> 00:11:56.760 and just work that out for yourself 137 00:11:57.760 --> 00:11:59.160 or you can carry on as I am. 138 00:11:59.160 --> 00:12:03.240 So what do you, what is it that for you, 139 00:12:03.240 --> 00:12:05.720 you seek fulfilment and identity? 140 00:12:06.680 --> 00:12:11.400 So what is it that really brings you that fulfilment? 141 00:12:11.400 --> 00:12:14.000 What is it that really helps you? 142 00:12:14.000 --> 00:12:15.520 And that you've got some examples there 143 00:12:15.520 --> 00:12:19.960 about God or family or career, but what do you seek? 144 00:12:19.960 --> 00:12:22.720 Where is it that you feel the most welcome, 145 00:12:22.720 --> 00:12:25.400 the most warm, the most happy? 146 00:12:25.520 --> 00:12:27.880 Where is it that you're like, oh my goodness, 147 00:12:27.880 --> 00:12:31.800 I am just so in my element here, I found my tribe. 148 00:12:31.800 --> 00:12:36.800 And what is it that brings you that real sense of peace, 149 00:12:37.520 --> 00:12:42.520 overflow, love, connection, whatever it might be for you? 150 00:12:42.720 --> 00:12:47.520 So, and it could be, you know, 151 00:12:47.520 --> 00:12:49.480 it could be in your part-time with God. 152 00:12:50.200 --> 00:12:55.200 It could be when you are at work. 153 00:12:56.920 --> 00:13:00.080 It could be when you're creating something new. 154 00:13:02.200 --> 00:13:05.160 It could be when you are serving others. 155 00:13:07.480 --> 00:13:12.480 It could be when you're just having dinner 156 00:13:13.200 --> 00:13:17.200 with your husband or spouse or family or friends 157 00:13:17.200 --> 00:13:19.480 or whatever it might be for you. 158 00:13:22.880 --> 00:13:23.720 Excuse me. 159 00:13:23.720 --> 00:13:28.720 It could be looking after yourself 160 00:13:31.480 --> 00:13:33.440 and that could be quiet time. 161 00:13:33.440 --> 00:13:35.320 It could be exercise. 162 00:13:37.720 --> 00:13:39.440 It could be just being yourself. 163 00:13:39.440 --> 00:13:44.440 It could be healthy eating. 164 00:13:54.360 --> 00:13:56.360 It could be doing the fun stuff in life, 165 00:13:58.480 --> 00:14:03.000 your lifestyle choices, which could be swimming 166 00:14:03.000 --> 00:14:06.240 or it could be going to the beach 167 00:14:06.240 --> 00:14:08.640 or it could be mountain biking. 168 00:14:10.440 --> 00:14:12.680 So just have a think. 169 00:14:12.680 --> 00:14:15.400 So there's things that about people 170 00:14:15.400 --> 00:14:18.160 and then there's activities that we do 171 00:14:18.160 --> 00:14:19.760 or things that we do in our day 172 00:14:19.760 --> 00:14:22.680 and where do they sit on the priority order? 173 00:14:23.680 --> 00:14:28.680 And then what do you believe your true priorities 174 00:14:29.120 --> 00:14:30.720 perhaps could be? 175 00:14:30.720 --> 00:14:33.920 So have you got things in the right order? 176 00:14:33.920 --> 00:14:34.840 Just have a think. 177 00:14:34.840 --> 00:14:37.000 Now we might come back to this at the end 178 00:14:37.000 --> 00:14:39.200 or you might come back to this at the end 179 00:14:39.960 --> 00:14:41.440 because at the moment, what we're really looking at 180 00:14:41.440 --> 00:14:46.440 is the people and the things in your life and what order, 181 00:14:46.600 --> 00:14:48.760 what have you got in your life and then what order? 182 00:14:48.760 --> 00:14:52.480 And we'll look at the order really at the end. 183 00:14:52.480 --> 00:14:55.840 Okay, and then we've got, 184 00:14:55.840 --> 00:15:00.000 so just think about what's in your life at the moment. 185 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:01.960 What have you got in your life? 186 00:15:01.960 --> 00:15:04.760 And then we can look at the order shortly. 187 00:15:06.640 --> 00:15:11.640 And this is all about really considering 188 00:15:13.280 --> 00:15:18.280 what would or could come first in your life. 189 00:15:18.840 --> 00:15:23.200 What do you think would really help you 190 00:15:23.200 --> 00:15:27.240 to make your order settled and right and true 191 00:15:27.240 --> 00:15:29.360 in a perfect world without things going, 192 00:15:29.360 --> 00:15:32.160 you know, without other things happening. 193 00:15:32.160 --> 00:15:35.720 And so I'll loop around to this. 194 00:15:35.720 --> 00:15:36.720 I want you to have a think, 195 00:15:36.720 --> 00:15:38.160 because if I put my order on there, 196 00:15:38.160 --> 00:15:39.640 it will influence your thoughts. 197 00:15:39.640 --> 00:15:43.800 So I just want you to consider what your order might be. 198 00:15:46.640 --> 00:15:51.400 And then we've got life, life alignment, 199 00:15:51.400 --> 00:15:52.840 how we align our lives. 200 00:15:52.840 --> 00:15:54.600 And this is in chapter four, 201 00:15:54.600 --> 00:15:56.960 and we've got love, insight, freedom, and engagement, 202 00:15:56.960 --> 00:16:00.160 because we want all to just pump for us 203 00:16:00.160 --> 00:16:02.400 and stay in alignment with Christ. 204 00:16:02.400 --> 00:16:03.800 So what I want you to think about 205 00:16:03.800 --> 00:16:06.080 is what do you love doing? 206 00:16:08.400 --> 00:16:12.440 What is it that really adds value in your life? 207 00:16:13.360 --> 00:16:16.800 And so for me, creating with God, 208 00:16:16.800 --> 00:16:18.920 like the book, like this course, 209 00:16:18.920 --> 00:16:21.640 it just, I love it, it just makes me pump. 210 00:16:22.400 --> 00:16:26.360 Connecting with him and with people. 211 00:16:30.400 --> 00:16:31.840 And actually just, you know, 212 00:16:31.840 --> 00:16:34.680 connecting with those that just wanna love Jesus, 213 00:16:34.680 --> 00:16:36.560 it just brings me so much joy. 214 00:16:38.520 --> 00:16:41.760 Exercise, like when I walk the dog, 215 00:16:41.760 --> 00:16:44.040 and there has to be exercise with, 216 00:16:44.040 --> 00:16:47.840 so with the dog, with people, with something. 217 00:16:47.840 --> 00:16:50.600 Me exercising on my own, not so much fun, 218 00:16:50.640 --> 00:16:52.400 but for me, it has to be social 219 00:16:52.400 --> 00:16:55.680 because then I do it and I love it and I enjoy it. 220 00:16:55.680 --> 00:16:59.560 So exercise is the people before the exercise for me. 221 00:16:59.560 --> 00:17:01.040 However, it might be different for you. 222 00:17:01.040 --> 00:17:04.200 You might love going and doing things on your own. 223 00:17:04.200 --> 00:17:07.560 So what else do I love that brings me joy? 224 00:17:07.560 --> 00:17:09.800 I actually love eating. 225 00:17:10.960 --> 00:17:14.440 And that, again, with others, 226 00:17:14.440 --> 00:17:17.319 you know, gathering around a meal table, gathering around, 227 00:17:17.359 --> 00:17:20.720 I just love gathering and hanging out with people. 228 00:17:22.200 --> 00:17:23.319 And I don't really care what I do, 229 00:17:23.319 --> 00:17:26.240 like tomorrow, or not tomorrow, Saturday, 230 00:17:26.240 --> 00:17:27.480 I'm off to, yeah, it will be tomorrow 231 00:17:27.480 --> 00:17:28.920 by the time you get this, 232 00:17:28.920 --> 00:17:31.160 I'm off to do the Tongariro Crossing. 233 00:17:31.160 --> 00:17:32.480 And it's all about the people. 234 00:17:32.480 --> 00:17:34.320 And yes, I will enjoy the landscapes. 235 00:17:34.320 --> 00:17:37.120 Yes, I'm not sure I'm going to enjoy the exercise too much, 236 00:17:37.120 --> 00:17:39.840 but I'm gonna choose to enjoy it, so that's good. 237 00:17:39.840 --> 00:17:42.920 Alrighty, and then, so think about the things that you love, 238 00:17:42.920 --> 00:17:45.400 the things that bring you joy, you know, 239 00:17:45.400 --> 00:17:47.480 sorry, I haven't even put poor old family in here, 240 00:17:47.480 --> 00:17:49.600 they're absolutely at the top of the list. 241 00:17:50.720 --> 00:17:55.160 You know, family, being outdoors, in his creation, 242 00:17:56.880 --> 00:17:59.080 all stuff that just brings me joy. 243 00:17:59.080 --> 00:18:01.560 Okay, and then insight. 244 00:18:01.560 --> 00:18:06.320 How can you become more present in your daily life? 245 00:18:07.480 --> 00:18:10.120 In other words, stop thinking about all the bad things 246 00:18:10.120 --> 00:18:12.160 that happen in the day, or could, what about this? 247 00:18:12.160 --> 00:18:13.000 What about that? 248 00:18:13.000 --> 00:18:13.840 All the worries of the world, 249 00:18:13.840 --> 00:18:16.400 because Jesus said, no, no, that's not your gig, 250 00:18:16.400 --> 00:18:19.240 that's mine, belongs to me, doesn't belong to you. 251 00:18:19.240 --> 00:18:23.560 So how can you be more present in your daily life? 252 00:18:23.560 --> 00:18:25.680 So for example, for me, 253 00:18:25.680 --> 00:18:29.280 I can be more present when I'm focused, 254 00:18:29.280 --> 00:18:32.840 when I've had my morning or my evening routine actually, 255 00:18:32.840 --> 00:18:34.600 so do it in the evening first, 256 00:18:37.160 --> 00:18:39.080 followed by my morning routine. 257 00:18:40.080 --> 00:18:44.760 So I literally make sure that I bookend my days, 258 00:18:44.760 --> 00:18:47.240 so that evening routine sets me up, 259 00:18:47.240 --> 00:18:50.360 I have peace at night, and then I can be present, 260 00:18:50.360 --> 00:18:53.560 because I'm not thinking about 426 things in my brain, 261 00:18:53.560 --> 00:18:56.720 I've written it down, I know what needs to be done, 262 00:18:56.720 --> 00:18:59.320 and then at peace, I can be present in the moment. 263 00:19:00.440 --> 00:19:02.160 And when I get on with my morning routine, 264 00:19:02.160 --> 00:19:03.720 I'm then pumping and I'm in my day, 265 00:19:03.720 --> 00:19:04.560 and I'm in the moment, 266 00:19:04.560 --> 00:19:06.200 and I'm thinking about what I need to do now, 267 00:19:06.200 --> 00:19:07.680 I'm not thinking about tomorrow, 268 00:19:07.760 --> 00:19:09.440 because that's already been sorted, 269 00:19:09.440 --> 00:19:10.720 I'm not thinking about anything else, 270 00:19:10.720 --> 00:19:13.920 I'm just getting into my zone. 271 00:19:13.920 --> 00:19:18.240 So those are two things that I use to keep me 272 00:19:18.240 --> 00:19:20.880 into the space that I need to be in. 273 00:19:22.280 --> 00:19:26.760 The other thing that I do is I have my one to three things 274 00:19:26.760 --> 00:19:30.720 each day, and that helps me keep focused, 275 00:19:30.720 --> 00:19:33.920 I just need to get this video done today for you, 276 00:19:33.920 --> 00:19:35.440 and that's a one to three things 277 00:19:35.440 --> 00:19:36.880 that are gonna move my dial, 278 00:19:36.880 --> 00:19:38.600 they're gonna make a difference in my life, 279 00:19:38.600 --> 00:19:41.560 they're gonna impact others and add value. 280 00:19:43.920 --> 00:19:48.440 Yeah, and I think being planned and prepared, 281 00:19:48.440 --> 00:19:50.480 and again, not worrying about tomorrow, 282 00:19:50.480 --> 00:19:51.680 it's got enough worries of its own, 283 00:19:51.680 --> 00:19:54.320 just get on with today, just keep focused on today, 284 00:19:54.320 --> 00:19:56.120 what do I need to do today? 285 00:19:56.120 --> 00:19:57.960 We can have a bigger picture, 286 00:19:57.960 --> 00:20:00.160 so I look at the month, I look at the week. 287 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:01.100 I look at the day. 288 00:20:01.100 --> 00:20:04.380 So I come from where I want to be and I take it down. 289 00:20:04.380 --> 00:20:06.740 But all I have to worry about now is today. 290 00:20:07.940 --> 00:20:10.860 Okay, so have a pause and think how you can become 291 00:20:10.860 --> 00:20:12.860 more present in your daily life. 292 00:20:12.860 --> 00:20:14.820 Maybe sometimes it's switching off. 293 00:20:14.820 --> 00:20:19.820 So some of it is switching off, oh my goodness, 294 00:20:24.100 --> 00:20:27.680 off the noise or distractions. 295 00:20:30.500 --> 00:20:32.180 Which could be not scrolling, 296 00:20:32.180 --> 00:20:33.620 it could be limiting your time 297 00:20:33.620 --> 00:20:34.980 when you have a look at Facebook 298 00:20:34.980 --> 00:20:37.540 or you check your messages or whatever it might be 299 00:20:37.540 --> 00:20:38.980 because those are all distractions. 300 00:20:38.980 --> 00:20:40.260 They're good, they're important, 301 00:20:40.260 --> 00:20:42.860 or certainly some of the messages can be. 302 00:20:42.860 --> 00:20:46.980 But it's all really about just cutting out the noise. 303 00:20:46.980 --> 00:20:48.820 What do I not need to be doing today? 304 00:20:48.820 --> 00:20:51.340 Success is more about what you say no to 305 00:20:51.340 --> 00:20:53.180 than it is about what you say yes to. 306 00:20:54.260 --> 00:20:56.200 Okay, and then freedom. 307 00:20:56.220 --> 00:20:59.180 What choices can you make today 308 00:20:59.180 --> 00:21:02.280 that will align with your true self? 309 00:21:02.280 --> 00:21:04.420 So those choices could be around, 310 00:21:04.420 --> 00:21:07.180 for example, healthy eating, 311 00:21:07.180 --> 00:21:09.380 so choosing the right foods. 312 00:21:09.380 --> 00:21:11.020 It could be around hydration, 313 00:21:11.020 --> 00:21:13.420 which I have been focused on for a month or so. 314 00:21:14.460 --> 00:21:18.620 It could be around exercising daily. 315 00:21:21.340 --> 00:21:23.580 It could be around 316 00:21:26.500 --> 00:21:29.980 just being intentional 317 00:21:34.820 --> 00:21:35.860 with my diary, 318 00:21:43.780 --> 00:21:46.420 making sure that I'm writing things down 319 00:21:49.460 --> 00:21:51.300 and I'm referring back 320 00:21:52.300 --> 00:21:55.300 to what I set out to do at the beginning of the day. 321 00:22:01.440 --> 00:22:03.920 You know, so that you just, I'm keeping myself, 322 00:22:03.920 --> 00:22:06.160 and that actually keeps me free 323 00:22:06.160 --> 00:22:08.160 to do the things that I want to do 324 00:22:08.160 --> 00:22:10.080 to make sure that I'm honoring 325 00:22:10.080 --> 00:22:11.480 and I'm running my business 326 00:22:11.480 --> 00:22:13.240 and I'm making sure the books are going out 327 00:22:13.240 --> 00:22:14.520 to whatever they need to go to, 328 00:22:14.520 --> 00:22:15.680 whatever it might be. 329 00:22:17.400 --> 00:22:19.040 So just think for yourself 330 00:22:19.580 --> 00:22:21.180 So just think for yourself 331 00:22:21.180 --> 00:22:23.300 what choices you can make today 332 00:22:24.400 --> 00:22:26.640 to align yourself with your true self, 333 00:22:27.620 --> 00:22:28.460 with what you really want. 334 00:22:28.460 --> 00:22:30.300 Not what others want of you, 335 00:22:30.300 --> 00:22:31.980 but what you really want. 336 00:22:31.980 --> 00:22:33.580 When you work out what you really want, 337 00:22:33.580 --> 00:22:35.880 you're actually serving others in the process. 338 00:22:37.580 --> 00:22:39.340 And then finally, we've got engagement. 339 00:22:39.340 --> 00:22:42.960 How can you engage with the world around you 340 00:22:42.960 --> 00:22:44.340 in a meaningful way? 341 00:22:45.340 --> 00:22:47.740 So thinking about, so for me, 342 00:22:47.760 --> 00:22:50.040 how can I engage the world around me? 343 00:22:50.040 --> 00:22:53.200 I'm always thinking about how I can smile. 344 00:22:54.200 --> 00:22:56.760 Very present, very in the moment, 345 00:22:56.760 --> 00:22:59.520 and just make a nice positive comment. 346 00:22:59.520 --> 00:23:00.800 Isn't it a beautiful day? 347 00:23:00.800 --> 00:23:02.760 Aren't we blessed to be in New Zealand? 348 00:23:02.760 --> 00:23:06.320 Enjoy your walk, if it's people that are out walking. 349 00:23:06.320 --> 00:23:09.020 You know, just acknowledge people. 350 00:23:14.480 --> 00:23:16.780 You know, bless them, whatever it might be. 351 00:23:18.740 --> 00:23:22.600 Obviously, text messages, phone calls, 352 00:23:22.600 --> 00:23:23.440 whatever it might be. 353 00:23:23.440 --> 00:23:24.920 And again, we've got a couple of people 354 00:23:24.920 --> 00:23:26.160 with some sick parents, 355 00:23:26.160 --> 00:23:29.820 or actually a friend of mine lost her father this week. 356 00:23:29.820 --> 00:23:32.840 And so just connecting with you, messaging her, 357 00:23:32.840 --> 00:23:35.800 sending love, she's overseas at the moment. 358 00:23:35.800 --> 00:23:38.040 You know, all of those things. 359 00:23:38.040 --> 00:23:43.040 It's so important that we are meaningful in our comments 360 00:23:43.380 --> 00:23:44.680 and how we interact. 361 00:23:44.680 --> 00:23:47.000 Could be even on Facebook or LinkedIn or whatever. 362 00:23:47.260 --> 00:23:49.740 You just add a comment, well done. 363 00:23:49.740 --> 00:23:52.100 You might, and actually this week, 364 00:23:52.100 --> 00:23:56.780 I did a Google review on a business that I frequent. 365 00:23:56.780 --> 00:24:01.000 And so actually, be lovely for all of you listening to this, 366 00:24:01.000 --> 00:24:03.560 if you could do a Google review for me 367 00:24:03.560 --> 00:24:05.300 on Inspiring Perspectives. 368 00:24:05.300 --> 00:24:10.260 I can even put the review or the link in our email 369 00:24:10.260 --> 00:24:11.660 as this comes out. 370 00:24:11.660 --> 00:24:13.220 So I would love you to do that. 371 00:24:13.220 --> 00:24:16.140 That's great, you're then engaging and thanking me 372 00:24:16.160 --> 00:24:16.980 for the course. 373 00:24:16.980 --> 00:24:18.440 Hopefully it's being helpful. 374 00:24:18.440 --> 00:24:20.320 But for those of you who've worked with me for a while, 375 00:24:20.320 --> 00:24:21.380 it's not just this course, 376 00:24:21.380 --> 00:24:23.640 it's, well, you've known me for a while. 377 00:24:23.640 --> 00:24:26.480 It's like, actually, Sally's always encouraging. 378 00:24:26.480 --> 00:24:28.400 She's always empowering, or whatever it might be. 379 00:24:28.400 --> 00:24:29.520 I'm not going to put words in your mouth. 380 00:24:29.520 --> 00:24:31.360 You can think about that for yourselves. 381 00:24:31.360 --> 00:24:35.120 But how do you engage the world and make it meaningful? 382 00:24:35.120 --> 00:24:36.760 Make it add value? 383 00:24:36.760 --> 00:24:41.320 What is it that you do to add value to somebody else? 384 00:24:41.320 --> 00:24:42.720 Because that's what we're about. 385 00:24:42.720 --> 00:24:44.540 It's about connecting and crossing over. 386 00:24:44.540 --> 00:24:46.080 How do I add value? 387 00:24:46.420 --> 00:24:48.060 I love hanging out with Anati. 388 00:24:48.060 --> 00:24:49.700 She is such a gem. 389 00:24:49.700 --> 00:24:51.700 She adds so much value. 390 00:24:51.700 --> 00:24:54.420 And all of us that are in the worship team come under her. 391 00:24:54.420 --> 00:24:56.180 So every time we gather, 392 00:24:56.180 --> 00:24:58.180 it's because it's under her leadership. 393 00:24:58.180 --> 00:24:59.580 It's under her guidance. 394 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:05.360 She adds value and engages with us and helps us and she puts on development nights 395 00:25:05.360 --> 00:25:09.520 and really grows us as musicians, which is super cool. 396 00:25:10.000 --> 00:25:12.240 So just consider what that is for you. 397 00:25:12.760 --> 00:25:15.320 Now, I think we still have an issue with this. 398 00:25:15.960 --> 00:25:17.840 Yeah, I thought so. 399 00:25:17.840 --> 00:25:20.800 So I can't actually type in this, which is really unhelpful. 400 00:25:21.720 --> 00:25:24.480 However, what I would like you to do. 401 00:25:24.720 --> 00:25:27.880 So before I go into this, actually, so those are your four. 402 00:25:27.880 --> 00:25:31.480 So what we've done now, we've done key four, 403 00:25:32.120 --> 00:25:36.360 which is just thinking about the order, getting your life in order. 404 00:25:37.920 --> 00:25:40.400 We've done key five, living, you know, 405 00:25:41.080 --> 00:25:44.360 love, insight, freedom and engagement, looked at what those are for you. 406 00:25:45.720 --> 00:25:49.520 And now what I want you to do is really look at your priority order, 407 00:25:49.840 --> 00:25:55.160 the order in which your people and your things come. 408 00:25:56.160 --> 00:26:02.120 So in my example that I can't type in at the moment, 409 00:26:04.160 --> 00:26:05.840 let's just do. 410 00:26:08.960 --> 00:26:14.360 Yeah, I'm just doing verbally for now, so I would be thinking about 411 00:26:14.360 --> 00:26:16.840 and we'll just it'll come up everywhere, but you'll just have to put up 412 00:26:16.840 --> 00:26:17.600 with this for a moment. 413 00:26:17.600 --> 00:26:20.280 So where is God in your life or your faith? 414 00:26:20.280 --> 00:26:21.320 Where does he come? 415 00:26:21.320 --> 00:26:28.360 Where does your own health and well-being? 416 00:26:31.240 --> 00:26:33.280 Where does your spouse? 417 00:26:35.200 --> 00:26:36.200 Or family come? 418 00:26:38.280 --> 00:26:41.760 Where does your work come? 419 00:26:44.440 --> 00:26:47.600 So just consider, so you're going to pause this video 420 00:26:48.160 --> 00:26:51.880 and you are going to work out the order, which is where I said 421 00:26:51.880 --> 00:26:53.480 we'd come back to here. 422 00:26:53.480 --> 00:26:56.800 So what do you believe your true priority should be? 423 00:26:56.800 --> 00:26:58.960 Or actually, what are they currently? 424 00:26:59.200 --> 00:27:01.120 Let's do currently first. 425 00:27:01.120 --> 00:27:03.400 So rather than should, let's do currently. 426 00:27:03.680 --> 00:27:05.920 Go actually, what order are they in? 427 00:27:06.360 --> 00:27:10.560 And then what we can do is go, OK, are they in the right order? 428 00:27:10.560 --> 00:27:14.360 So we can look into the future and say, would we like to change them? 429 00:27:15.240 --> 00:27:20.000 So if we pause for a moment and just consider what order things are coming in 430 00:27:20.000 --> 00:27:22.320 and then is that the right order? 431 00:27:22.320 --> 00:27:23.680 So I'm going to do that for now. 432 00:27:23.680 --> 00:27:24.960 And I'm a bit naughty. 433 00:27:24.960 --> 00:27:26.400 I call this my five F's. 434 00:27:26.400 --> 00:27:30.520 So I'm actually going to give you what I believe is a brilliant order. 435 00:27:30.720 --> 00:27:34.480 And for me, as I aligned my heart and my mind with Christ 436 00:27:34.800 --> 00:27:38.080 and I have no stress, regardless of circumstances, 437 00:27:38.320 --> 00:27:39.800 this order has worked for me. 438 00:27:39.800 --> 00:27:44.320 So faith is actually my physical. 439 00:27:48.600 --> 00:27:53.520 Mental. And spiritual. 440 00:27:59.840 --> 00:28:00.680 Health. 441 00:28:05.280 --> 00:28:07.560 For my typing skills, I really lost it tonight. 442 00:28:08.280 --> 00:28:11.760 And health and well being 443 00:28:11.960 --> 00:28:14.880 because we're human beings before we're human doings. 444 00:28:15.120 --> 00:28:17.680 So we have to be who we are before we go out. 445 00:28:17.680 --> 00:28:21.960 So I have to look if I look after my mental, physical and spiritual health. 446 00:28:22.200 --> 00:28:24.400 I have quite time. I do exercise. 447 00:28:24.600 --> 00:28:26.960 I drink lots of green tea or peppermint tea. 448 00:28:26.960 --> 00:28:29.720 So I'm hydrating well, whatever it might be. 449 00:28:30.120 --> 00:28:33.680 Then I'm looking after myself so that I can be the best coach, 450 00:28:33.680 --> 00:28:35.880 the best wife, the best whatever. 451 00:28:35.880 --> 00:28:39.240 So it's important that I put God first 452 00:28:39.640 --> 00:28:45.000 and myself before I even go out and filled to overflowing before I go out. 453 00:28:45.000 --> 00:28:47.240 I'm not expecting the world to fill me up in the day. 454 00:28:47.520 --> 00:28:50.320 I'm filled so that I pour out in the day. 455 00:28:50.560 --> 00:28:53.240 My job isn't to fill anybody else's cup. 456 00:28:53.240 --> 00:28:55.360 My job is to empty mine 457 00:28:56.000 --> 00:28:59.440 because I'm meant to be adding value throughout the day. 458 00:29:00.600 --> 00:29:05.640 OK, so we've got faith as number one and then family. 459 00:29:05.880 --> 00:29:09.720 For me, I can have all the money in the world, but if I haven't got family, 460 00:29:09.720 --> 00:29:13.200 if I haven't got the people most important to me, what is it for? 461 00:29:13.760 --> 00:29:15.760 So it's really important for me. 462 00:29:16.040 --> 00:29:17.360 Family is next. 463 00:29:17.360 --> 00:29:19.040 They will always come before my work. 464 00:29:19.040 --> 00:29:22.200 They will always come before everything else because they are the number one 465 00:29:22.200 --> 00:29:25.520 in my life and my husband comes before my children. 466 00:29:25.800 --> 00:29:31.160 And I learned that by default in terms of the reason I'm married twice 467 00:29:31.400 --> 00:29:35.480 is because I may have put my children before my husband the first time around. 468 00:29:35.720 --> 00:29:39.640 So just it does help some other factors in that as well. 469 00:29:39.880 --> 00:29:43.360 But for now, ultimately, if you get that in the right order, 470 00:29:43.360 --> 00:29:44.720 it make a big difference. 471 00:29:44.720 --> 00:29:49.320 And so, again, my children and those I'm directly responsible for 472 00:29:49.560 --> 00:29:52.720 will come before my parents in this season to be children. 473 00:29:52.720 --> 00:29:55.440 Your parents kind of sit after your spouse. 474 00:29:55.880 --> 00:29:59.240 OK, so families next and then finance. 475 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:08.760 If I haven't got anything in my bank account to pay for things I want to do with my family, 476 00:30:08.760 --> 00:30:14.280 to look after myself, to put a roof over myself, I'm not going to be going very far. 477 00:30:14.280 --> 00:30:19.120 So I need to do my work, and often family is our work. 478 00:30:19.120 --> 00:30:20.120 It's the thing that we do. 479 00:30:20.120 --> 00:30:25.040 Sorry, finance is our work, I'm just going to put in here the order, so it has to be 480 00:30:25.040 --> 00:30:33.000 your spouse first, then children, slash parents, just so that you've got that, and obviously 481 00:30:33.000 --> 00:30:36.400 when your children are little, they've got to come before your parents, so it's kind 482 00:30:36.400 --> 00:30:42.160 of, it works in that, that's the order, spouse, children, parents. 483 00:30:42.160 --> 00:30:46.640 Finance is often the work that we do, and then actually, the next F for me is about 484 00:30:46.640 --> 00:30:52.360 having fun, because if I'm having fun, I'll find the people that are the right friends 485 00:30:52.360 --> 00:30:53.360 for me. 486 00:30:53.360 --> 00:30:57.400 So if I try and find my friends and then have my fun, I'm not with the right people, 487 00:30:57.400 --> 00:31:00.520 so having the fun is finding the tribe. 488 00:31:00.520 --> 00:31:03.080 Find your tribe vibe, and you'll find your tribe. 489 00:31:03.080 --> 00:31:09.080 So find my vibe, my fun, and I'll find my tribe, which is my friends. 490 00:31:09.080 --> 00:31:16.000 So that has been the order of play for me for the last, probably at least five years, 491 00:31:16.000 --> 00:31:20.360 since working out and realising that that's what I needed to do, and I have had more fun 492 00:31:20.360 --> 00:31:23.200 in the last five years than I had in my last 50. 493 00:31:23.200 --> 00:31:27.600 I am more settled than I've ever been, more peaceful than I've ever been. 494 00:31:27.600 --> 00:31:31.920 So when we're looking at, it doesn't matter what your priority is currently, you need 495 00:31:31.920 --> 00:31:36.440 to know what it is, and then if you start to realign, so when I did this for the first 496 00:31:36.440 --> 00:31:41.840 time, I had to realign the fact that my husband came before my children, and that was, I really 497 00:31:41.840 --> 00:31:46.200 realised that's where I'd gone wrong, and that I was looking for people and friends 498 00:31:46.200 --> 00:31:48.320 to fill me up, rather than God to fill me up. 499 00:31:48.320 --> 00:31:52.560 God wasn't even on the radar at that point, well he was five years ago, but the reason 500 00:31:52.560 --> 00:31:56.520 things went wrong was because I wasn't looking after myself, I was putting everyone else 501 00:31:56.520 --> 00:32:03.040 first, and I still honour others, but if I don't look after myself first, then I'm actually 502 00:32:03.040 --> 00:32:08.000 doing it the wrong way round, and then what happens is I'm sucking the energy out of people, 503 00:32:08.000 --> 00:32:09.800 rather than giving energy to people. 504 00:32:09.800 --> 00:32:13.040 So just have a wee think about that. 505 00:32:13.040 --> 00:32:17.740 So when you're looking here, for those of you who aren't typing, and I will get this 506 00:32:17.740 --> 00:32:26.180 updated for you, you can handwrite in here, so for me it's faith, family, finance, I'm 507 00:32:26.180 --> 00:32:29.980 just going to have to clear that because it's going to do my head in with all that writing 508 00:32:29.980 --> 00:32:35.540 in there. 509 00:32:35.540 --> 00:32:44.260 So faith, family, finance, fun, friends, that's how I want to be, that's how I am now, that's 510 00:32:44.260 --> 00:32:46.620 how I want to be in the future. 511 00:32:46.620 --> 00:32:50.300 So hopefully this has been helpful for you. 512 00:32:50.300 --> 00:32:55.180 So what we've looked at, we've looked at the importance of clarity and peace in your life, 513 00:32:55.180 --> 00:33:00.540 working out what the order, what the priorities are, and when you align and reflect with your 514 00:33:00.540 --> 00:33:04.900 values and your beliefs, so what's really important to you, then you have that peace, 515 00:33:04.900 --> 00:33:09.540 you have that joy, you have that settlement, and to engage the intentional choices that 516 00:33:09.540 --> 00:33:13.780 lead to fulfilment and joy, and that's what we're doing, we're being intentional, we're 517 00:33:13.780 --> 00:33:18.300 living our life by design, because we've been created to be brilliant, so let's start 518 00:33:18.300 --> 00:33:23.340 using that brilliance and work by design, and not conform to the patterns of this world, 519 00:33:23.340 --> 00:33:28.060 but be transformed by the renewing of our minds, and we'll know where to go. 520 00:33:28.060 --> 00:33:32.780 So what I'd like you to do now is consider your call to action based on what we've just 521 00:33:32.780 --> 00:33:36.380 learned for the coming week. 522 00:33:36.380 --> 00:33:42.180 So faith, family, finance, that's my priorities, so what am I going to do with my faith, family 523 00:33:42.180 --> 00:33:43.820 and finance? 524 00:33:43.820 --> 00:33:58.300 And so just making sure that I bookend with God, and that's an intentional time, and then 525 00:33:58.300 --> 00:34:06.780 I also make sure that I'm hanging out throughout the day, but the key is my bookending, starting 526 00:34:06.780 --> 00:34:11.780 my day in his space, finishing my day in his space, listening to the word, being with him 527 00:34:11.780 --> 00:34:16.420 in the morning, doing the same at night, so I'm just making sure that I'm fully in 528 00:34:16.420 --> 00:34:18.620 that faith space. 529 00:34:18.620 --> 00:34:25.500 And for family, actually in this coming week, we're going to do the Tongariro crossing with 530 00:34:25.500 --> 00:34:31.139 my husband and a few mates, so that's going to be exciting, so I'm looking forward to 531 00:34:31.139 --> 00:34:34.940 doing that. 532 00:34:34.940 --> 00:34:46.460 And then what also it means is I've got undivided attention, quality time with him while we're 533 00:34:46.460 --> 00:34:51.100 away, so that's exciting too, you know, we actually get the quality time, we get time 534 00:34:51.100 --> 00:34:55.179 in the car to chat and yarn and work stuff out and nut it out, and then we get there, 535 00:34:55.179 --> 00:34:59.460 we're with friends, but we've also got some time just for us, which I'm really looking 536 00:34:59.460 --> 00:34:59.980 forward to. 537 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:05.000 And then for finance, what I'm going to be doing this week, 538 00:35:06.420 --> 00:35:09.740 so I'm actually running my first workshop 539 00:35:14.020 --> 00:35:15.900 on the Great Exchange. 540 00:35:17.460 --> 00:35:19.380 So how exciting is that, 541 00:35:20.220 --> 00:35:23.340 that we're looking after 12 people this weekend 542 00:35:23.340 --> 00:35:25.980 on a workshop, so that's exciting. 543 00:35:25.980 --> 00:35:28.820 So have a think about what are your one to three things 544 00:35:28.860 --> 00:35:30.260 that are going to move your dial forward, 545 00:35:30.260 --> 00:35:31.420 that are going to make you grow, 546 00:35:31.420 --> 00:35:33.300 that are going to help you to go 547 00:35:33.300 --> 00:35:34.940 in the direction you want to go. 548 00:35:36.260 --> 00:35:37.580 And then what I'd like you to do 549 00:35:37.580 --> 00:35:39.300 is I'd like you to self-reflect. 550 00:35:40.500 --> 00:35:41.740 How are you feeling now? 551 00:35:41.740 --> 00:35:43.820 Are you excited about your week ahead? 552 00:35:43.820 --> 00:35:45.020 Are you feeling focused? 553 00:35:45.020 --> 00:35:47.740 Are you feeling like, ooh, some of the weight has gone? 554 00:35:47.740 --> 00:35:48.860 Are you feeling refreshed? 555 00:35:48.860 --> 00:35:50.540 What are you feeling right now? 556 00:35:50.540 --> 00:35:53.580 And score yourself, because it's really important 557 00:35:53.580 --> 00:35:56.180 to consider how you're feeling 558 00:35:56.180 --> 00:35:59.460 and how it relates to what you're doing. 559 00:35:59.460 --> 00:36:01.340 So I'm going to give myself a nine out of 10, 560 00:36:01.340 --> 00:36:02.540 because I'm quite excited 561 00:36:02.540 --> 00:36:04.380 about what I'm going to be doing this week, 562 00:36:04.380 --> 00:36:05.900 and I'm just going to put excited, 563 00:36:05.900 --> 00:36:08.220 because I'm excited about going away. 564 00:36:08.220 --> 00:36:11.300 I'm excited about having time with God. 565 00:36:11.300 --> 00:36:14.700 I'm excited about having time with my husband. 566 00:36:14.700 --> 00:36:17.860 So remember, your journey is a journey of self-discovery. 567 00:36:17.860 --> 00:36:19.660 This video is for you. 568 00:36:19.660 --> 00:36:22.780 It is to help you get the best out of what you need. 569 00:36:22.780 --> 00:36:25.980 I've shared my story with you as I've gone through, 570 00:36:25.980 --> 00:36:29.020 because I think it's easy, then it gives you an example, 571 00:36:29.020 --> 00:36:30.660 but this is actually not about me. 572 00:36:30.660 --> 00:36:32.540 It's about you and getting the best 573 00:36:32.540 --> 00:36:34.700 out of what God has given you. 574 00:36:34.700 --> 00:36:36.980 So thank you for listening. 575 00:36:36.980 --> 00:36:38.540 I love you all dearly. 576 00:36:38.540 --> 00:36:40.780 And Father God, I just ask 577 00:36:40.780 --> 00:36:42.620 that as these guys have sat there 578 00:36:42.620 --> 00:36:43.660 and they've worked it through 579 00:36:43.660 --> 00:36:45.900 and you've been with them, Holy Spirit, 580 00:36:45.900 --> 00:36:48.140 that you will continue to be with them 581 00:36:48.140 --> 00:36:49.940 for the rest of this week, 582 00:36:49.940 --> 00:36:52.220 that you will bless them. 583 00:36:52.220 --> 00:36:53.940 They'll hang out, they'll chat with you. 584 00:36:53.940 --> 00:36:55.100 God, what do you want me to do? 585 00:36:55.100 --> 00:36:56.700 How do you see this, God? 586 00:36:56.700 --> 00:36:58.140 What do you want me to do now? 587 00:36:58.140 --> 00:36:58.980 What about this? 588 00:36:58.980 --> 00:37:00.100 How am I working that? 589 00:37:00.100 --> 00:37:02.100 Whatever it might be, Lord, 590 00:37:02.100 --> 00:37:05.100 I just ask that you will be with them, 591 00:37:05.100 --> 00:37:06.580 you will be for them, 592 00:37:06.580 --> 00:37:08.900 because I know actually that's your word. 593 00:37:08.900 --> 00:37:12.180 And I just get this sense of know the plans I have for you 594 00:37:12.180 --> 00:37:14.380 to prosper you and not to harm you. 595 00:37:14.380 --> 00:37:16.620 And then you'll know, like you'll know is true, 596 00:37:16.620 --> 00:37:18.820 you know, true and perfect will for you. 597 00:37:18.820 --> 00:37:20.820 And I encourage you to focus 598 00:37:20.820 --> 00:37:22.740 on what's noble, right and true. 599 00:37:22.740 --> 00:37:24.100 Focus on the good things, 600 00:37:24.100 --> 00:37:25.300 focus on your family, 601 00:37:25.300 --> 00:37:28.740 focus on what brings you joy and start tracking it. 602 00:37:28.740 --> 00:37:30.900 Use those morning and evening routines. 603 00:37:30.900 --> 00:37:32.780 All right, I love you all dearly. 604 00:37:32.780 --> 00:37:35.860 Have an amazing week and God bless you all. 605 00:37:35.860 --> 00:37:36.900 See you next time.