WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:00.840 Okay. 2 00:00:02.760 --> 00:00:04.520 So morning, morning, morning, 3 00:00:04.520 --> 00:00:08.520 and welcome to you that are here with us, which is yay. 4 00:00:08.520 --> 00:00:09.400 So thank you to Kerry, 5 00:00:09.400 --> 00:00:11.800 thank you to Amy for being with us this morning. 6 00:00:11.800 --> 00:00:15.200 And, you know, Wylene, we've got Lisa, 7 00:00:15.200 --> 00:00:17.620 we've got Vanessa, we've got others 8 00:00:17.620 --> 00:00:20.640 that are joining online to watch the recordings 9 00:00:20.640 --> 00:00:22.920 because for some people it's the middle of the night 10 00:00:22.920 --> 00:00:26.520 and for others it is like we're first thing in the morning 11 00:00:26.520 --> 00:00:29.320 here in New Zealand and Australia, 12 00:00:29.320 --> 00:00:33.200 but for some it's like halfway through their working day. 13 00:00:33.200 --> 00:00:35.600 So welcome, welcome, welcome, welcome. 14 00:00:35.600 --> 00:00:37.760 Well done for sewing in for yourselves. 15 00:00:37.760 --> 00:00:39.440 Well done for going, 16 00:00:39.440 --> 00:00:42.720 actually, I really want to go on an adventure with God. 17 00:00:42.720 --> 00:00:44.840 So for those who are listening to the recordings 18 00:00:44.840 --> 00:00:47.380 and don't know me, my name's Sally Whipp. 19 00:00:47.380 --> 00:00:52.380 I am a wife and a friend and a mum and a lover of Jesus. 20 00:00:52.380 --> 00:00:54.640 I thought those would be my top four. 21 00:00:54.640 --> 00:00:58.440 I'm a master reframer and life transformer. 22 00:00:59.000 --> 00:01:00.960 Because what the enemy meant for evil, 23 00:01:00.960 --> 00:01:02.360 God always turns for good. 24 00:01:02.360 --> 00:01:03.460 And that's my gig. 25 00:01:03.460 --> 00:01:06.600 Let's flip what's unhelpful into helpful. 26 00:01:06.600 --> 00:01:09.320 And, you know, when we change the way that we see the world, 27 00:01:09.320 --> 00:01:12.120 the world that we see changes and bless them, 28 00:01:12.120 --> 00:01:14.900 both Kerry and Amy who are on here today 29 00:01:14.900 --> 00:01:18.000 are part of coaching programmes that I do 30 00:01:18.000 --> 00:01:20.640 and the shifts that have been happening for them 31 00:01:20.640 --> 00:01:22.120 is just great fun. 32 00:01:22.120 --> 00:01:23.320 And that's what we, you know, 33 00:01:23.320 --> 00:01:25.320 God actually wants this to be fun. 34 00:01:25.320 --> 00:01:26.560 So that's why we're here. 35 00:01:26.560 --> 00:01:28.040 I've written The Great Exchange, 36 00:01:28.680 --> 00:01:29.520 which was the book that I launched 37 00:01:29.520 --> 00:01:30.360 at the beginning of this year 38 00:01:30.360 --> 00:01:33.720 and is now an international bestseller 39 00:01:33.720 --> 00:01:36.800 of how to exchange the unhelpful for helpful, 40 00:01:36.800 --> 00:01:39.160 how to take beauty from ashes. 41 00:01:39.160 --> 00:01:40.040 It's brilliant. 42 00:01:40.040 --> 00:01:40.860 I love it. 43 00:01:40.860 --> 00:01:42.920 Anyway, people are really enjoying it. 44 00:01:42.920 --> 00:01:47.480 I'm a coach, a mentor, a confidant, and a guide. 45 00:01:47.480 --> 00:01:52.120 My gig is to walk alongside people when they've got stuck 46 00:01:52.120 --> 00:01:54.720 or when things haven't gone the way they wanted them to go 47 00:01:54.720 --> 00:01:56.560 or when they, I'm very good. 48 00:01:56.560 --> 00:01:58.240 If somebody gets in a dark hole, 49 00:01:58.240 --> 00:02:00.600 I've put my hand out and lifting them up. 50 00:02:00.600 --> 00:02:01.680 That's my gig. 51 00:02:01.680 --> 00:02:05.120 And then once you're out, it's like, love you, bye. 52 00:02:05.120 --> 00:02:08.620 And, you know, setting you up for success to see people fly. 53 00:02:08.620 --> 00:02:11.600 And God said, I need you to set my captives free. 54 00:02:11.600 --> 00:02:13.200 So whatever people have, 55 00:02:13.200 --> 00:02:14.960 wherever they've been in captivity, 56 00:02:14.960 --> 00:02:16.520 whatever it has been, 57 00:02:17.380 --> 00:02:20.900 whether it has been in a, you know, burnout situation 58 00:02:20.900 --> 00:02:24.040 or a stressful situation or whatever it might be, 59 00:02:24.040 --> 00:02:26.440 I get to be his firecracker 60 00:02:27.280 --> 00:02:28.120 because that's what he calls me. 61 00:02:28.120 --> 00:02:31.720 And I get to ignite the fire within 62 00:02:32.640 --> 00:02:36.840 because all of the treasure, 63 00:02:36.840 --> 00:02:40.600 all of the gold that God wants to give you, 64 00:02:40.600 --> 00:02:42.600 it's actually inside you. 65 00:02:42.600 --> 00:02:43.960 It's already there. 66 00:02:43.960 --> 00:02:45.920 It's flipping nuts. 67 00:02:45.920 --> 00:02:47.880 Sorry, I get so excited 68 00:02:47.880 --> 00:02:52.200 because the world will tell us to look externally. 69 00:02:52.200 --> 00:02:54.960 The world will be looking for someone to help us, 70 00:02:54.960 --> 00:02:56.680 to show us, to give it to us, 71 00:02:58.760 --> 00:03:01.680 but it's all inside you already. 72 00:03:01.680 --> 00:03:03.760 So God bless his heart. 73 00:03:03.760 --> 00:03:05.800 He's crazy nuts, 74 00:03:05.800 --> 00:03:09.440 but he's chosen me to help people dig, 75 00:03:09.440 --> 00:03:11.560 get rid of the weeds, just quietly, 76 00:03:11.560 --> 00:03:12.400 the things we don't want, 77 00:03:12.400 --> 00:03:15.640 but we turn it over and then, oh my goodness, 78 00:03:15.640 --> 00:03:19.840 help people to see the seed they've got 79 00:03:19.840 --> 00:03:23.040 to create a harvest 30, 60, 100 fold. 80 00:03:24.040 --> 00:03:27.920 So ladies, because you're here with me right now, 81 00:03:29.920 --> 00:03:32.400 are you ready to have fresh wind in your sails? 82 00:03:32.400 --> 00:03:35.200 Are you ready to have that new wine 83 00:03:35.200 --> 00:03:39.200 to go into new wineskins and literally see the unseen 84 00:03:39.200 --> 00:03:41.480 and have an adventure with God? 85 00:03:41.480 --> 00:03:43.120 Bring it on. 86 00:03:43.120 --> 00:03:44.920 Bring it on, she says. 87 00:03:44.920 --> 00:03:47.160 Right, that was a bit of blurb about me. 88 00:03:47.160 --> 00:03:48.040 Let's have a wee look. 89 00:03:48.040 --> 00:03:49.640 I'm going to share my screen and hopefully, 90 00:03:49.640 --> 00:03:51.960 oh my goodness, I've even got the right thing up. 91 00:03:52.280 --> 00:03:54.320 Things are going well this morning. 92 00:03:54.320 --> 00:03:56.400 This is what we're going to cover off 93 00:03:56.400 --> 00:03:58.280 over the next three days. 94 00:03:58.280 --> 00:04:03.280 So the first is to live life by design, not by default. 95 00:04:05.280 --> 00:04:07.080 We want you to, I want you, 96 00:04:07.080 --> 00:04:10.320 by the end of this next 45 minutes, 97 00:04:10.320 --> 00:04:13.080 to be able to tap into your personal power source. 98 00:04:13.080 --> 00:04:15.440 Come on, let's find that treasure. 99 00:04:15.440 --> 00:04:16.279 How do I have fun? 100 00:04:16.279 --> 00:04:17.920 We're going to play a game with God. 101 00:04:17.920 --> 00:04:22.240 And to gain understanding on how to reign victorious 102 00:04:22.240 --> 00:04:24.440 because stuff is always, he says, 103 00:04:24.440 --> 00:04:26.120 we're going to have wars, rumors of wars. 104 00:04:26.120 --> 00:04:28.720 We're going to have things that are going to come against us 105 00:04:28.720 --> 00:04:31.800 and his yoke is easy and his burden is light, 106 00:04:31.800 --> 00:04:32.720 but that doesn't mean to say 107 00:04:32.720 --> 00:04:34.560 things aren't going to come and challenge us. 108 00:04:34.560 --> 00:04:37.160 So we need to learn how to be victorious 109 00:04:37.160 --> 00:04:38.960 in all circumstances 110 00:04:38.960 --> 00:04:42.080 and how to place the keys to happiness in your hands. 111 00:04:42.080 --> 00:04:45.840 It is no use having your keys to your happiness 112 00:04:45.840 --> 00:04:47.720 in someone else's pocket. 113 00:04:48.480 --> 00:04:49.320 It's unhelpful. 114 00:04:49.320 --> 00:04:50.720 So we're going to put them back in your hand 115 00:04:50.720 --> 00:04:53.960 and then help you to realize that the choice is yours, 116 00:04:53.960 --> 00:04:58.960 that life happens because of who you are and what you do, 117 00:04:59.520 --> 00:05:00.360 not for. 118 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:02.200 for you or against you. 119 00:05:02.200 --> 00:05:04.240 It's actually because of the choices we make. 120 00:05:04.240 --> 00:05:05.960 So that's today. 121 00:05:05.960 --> 00:05:07.920 That's just today. 122 00:05:07.920 --> 00:05:10.280 Tomorrow, we're gonna look at the three Rs. 123 00:05:10.280 --> 00:05:15.120 Actually, we're gonna look at how 95% of the population live 124 00:05:15.120 --> 00:05:18.040 and how the top 5% of the population live. 125 00:05:18.040 --> 00:05:20.760 And you are gonna become, as of tomorrow, 126 00:05:20.760 --> 00:05:22.960 the top 5%-er. 127 00:05:22.960 --> 00:05:24.840 How cool is that? 128 00:05:24.840 --> 00:05:27.520 I'm quite excited about that, just quietly. 129 00:05:27.520 --> 00:05:29.480 Where to dump your stuff safely 130 00:05:29.480 --> 00:05:32.880 and actually Amy has created something 131 00:05:32.880 --> 00:05:34.600 that is sold at Messenger Bookstore 132 00:05:34.600 --> 00:05:38.120 that you can dump yourself, your stuff very safely 133 00:05:38.120 --> 00:05:40.760 in something she's created, which is very cool. 134 00:05:40.760 --> 00:05:44.120 And where to get the upgrade and the great exchange 135 00:05:44.120 --> 00:05:45.640 because we're all about the book, 136 00:05:45.640 --> 00:05:50.280 it's all about actually, can I just go into the store, 137 00:05:50.280 --> 00:05:52.000 I'll take my old stuff that I don't want 138 00:05:52.000 --> 00:05:54.600 and exchange it for something brand spanking new. 139 00:05:54.600 --> 00:05:55.920 Brilliant, bring it on. 140 00:05:56.840 --> 00:05:59.520 And then day three is all about the treasure within. 141 00:05:59.520 --> 00:06:03.840 So we really gonna bring something stunningly amazing out. 142 00:06:03.840 --> 00:06:04.680 Do you know what? 143 00:06:04.680 --> 00:06:07.080 I just did this with, on Thursday, 144 00:06:07.080 --> 00:06:10.520 this session with the Year 13 boys at Lindisfarne 145 00:06:11.440 --> 00:06:14.200 to help them really understand their purpose. 146 00:06:14.200 --> 00:06:17.640 It blew their minds. 147 00:06:17.640 --> 00:06:19.800 So I've run this a lot, but this, 148 00:06:19.800 --> 00:06:24.320 it was just gold to have it stretched out to their space. 149 00:06:24.320 --> 00:06:26.120 So you're gonna find your zone of genius 150 00:06:26.120 --> 00:06:27.880 while you're on this planet 151 00:06:27.880 --> 00:06:30.520 and how to achieve more in the next 10 weeks 152 00:06:30.520 --> 00:06:31.880 than you personally did probably 153 00:06:31.880 --> 00:06:33.920 or potentially did in the last 10 months 154 00:06:33.920 --> 00:06:35.560 and where to find your tribe. 155 00:06:35.560 --> 00:06:37.840 So there'll be probably an invitation at the end 156 00:06:37.840 --> 00:06:39.600 to come and join our membership 157 00:06:39.600 --> 00:06:42.360 and to come and find the people 158 00:06:42.360 --> 00:06:45.840 who actually are gonna put wind in your sails. 159 00:06:45.840 --> 00:06:47.800 You're gonna be able to lock arms 160 00:06:47.800 --> 00:06:51.320 with their like-minded and they're ready to move on. 161 00:06:51.320 --> 00:06:54.000 So I do this every time. 162 00:06:54.840 --> 00:06:56.520 I want you, we've got to, 163 00:06:56.520 --> 00:06:58.480 Jesus drew a line in the sand 164 00:06:59.560 --> 00:07:00.920 and we need to do the same. 165 00:07:00.920 --> 00:07:02.840 We need to draw a line in the sand 166 00:07:02.840 --> 00:07:05.160 to know where we're starting from 167 00:07:05.160 --> 00:07:08.160 before we even come into this session. 168 00:07:08.160 --> 00:07:10.640 So the first thing when you're watching the replay 169 00:07:10.640 --> 00:07:15.480 that I want you to do is just be in the present moment 170 00:07:17.160 --> 00:07:20.880 and write down how you feel out of 10. 171 00:07:20.920 --> 00:07:25.640 So you could be one, I'm rushed, I'm anxious, 172 00:07:25.640 --> 00:07:28.760 I've just come out of work, could be a two. 173 00:07:28.760 --> 00:07:30.840 10 is like, oh my goodness, I'm so amazing, 174 00:07:30.840 --> 00:07:32.200 I'm relaxed, I'm at peace, 175 00:07:32.200 --> 00:07:34.440 I've found myself a comfortable chair, 176 00:07:34.440 --> 00:07:36.760 I can sit here and do what I need to do. 177 00:07:37.920 --> 00:07:39.880 Whatever it is for you. 178 00:07:39.880 --> 00:07:41.480 And you know what? 179 00:07:41.480 --> 00:07:44.320 Every morning I wake up new every morning 180 00:07:44.320 --> 00:07:48.160 and so because I wake up new every morning, I'm an eight. 181 00:07:48.160 --> 00:07:49.680 Eight is the number of new beginnings 182 00:07:49.680 --> 00:07:50.920 and I'm like, right God, 183 00:07:50.920 --> 00:07:53.320 what have you got on my agenda for me today? 184 00:07:53.320 --> 00:07:56.440 I plan it the night before, as these guys know, 185 00:07:56.440 --> 00:07:58.640 but I get up in the morning and I'm like, right, 186 00:07:58.640 --> 00:07:59.480 what have you got? 187 00:07:59.480 --> 00:08:00.320 What are we doing today? 188 00:08:00.320 --> 00:08:02.120 So I get so excited. 189 00:08:02.120 --> 00:08:03.600 And then what I'd like you to do 190 00:08:03.600 --> 00:08:07.600 is consider how you are feeling. 191 00:08:07.600 --> 00:08:09.040 So that's your number out of 10. 192 00:08:09.040 --> 00:08:11.000 It helps, it just gives you a gauge. 193 00:08:11.000 --> 00:08:12.440 And then how you're feeling, 194 00:08:12.440 --> 00:08:14.080 whether you haven't slept well, 195 00:08:14.080 --> 00:08:16.480 so you might be a bit tired or you're just waking up 196 00:08:16.480 --> 00:08:18.120 or whatever it might be, 197 00:08:18.120 --> 00:08:21.440 but how are you feeling in the moment? 198 00:08:21.440 --> 00:08:24.200 You could be excited 199 00:08:24.200 --> 00:08:26.000 because you're going on a new adventure. 200 00:08:26.000 --> 00:08:29.240 You could be like ready for the new day, 201 00:08:29.240 --> 00:08:30.960 whatever it is for you. 202 00:08:30.960 --> 00:08:34.799 So get that in, that's your line in the sand 203 00:08:34.799 --> 00:08:37.280 and then are we ready to move team? 204 00:08:38.880 --> 00:08:39.720 Yes. 205 00:08:39.720 --> 00:08:41.039 Thumbs up and a yes. 206 00:08:42.039 --> 00:08:43.080 Alrighty. 207 00:08:43.080 --> 00:08:47.960 So live life by design or by default. 208 00:08:47.960 --> 00:08:52.760 So we all receive new information through our senses. 209 00:08:52.760 --> 00:08:56.960 So it could be taste, smell, sight, whatever it might be. 210 00:08:56.960 --> 00:08:59.280 And I'm just gonna do a quick senses check 211 00:08:59.280 --> 00:09:04.280 because actually I want to bring you into your present 212 00:09:06.080 --> 00:09:07.680 and be in this moment. 213 00:09:07.680 --> 00:09:10.360 And this actually comes from chapter 18 in the book, 214 00:09:10.400 --> 00:09:11.400 but we're gonna get going. 215 00:09:11.400 --> 00:09:13.720 And the first thing we're gonna do 216 00:09:13.720 --> 00:09:16.200 is we're gonna play a game with God. 217 00:09:16.200 --> 00:09:20.280 And this is to check your hearing actually. 218 00:09:20.280 --> 00:09:21.560 Hearing and seeing, 219 00:09:21.560 --> 00:09:24.560 because some people see, some people hear, some people feel. 220 00:09:24.560 --> 00:09:27.280 So it's all to do with our senses. 221 00:09:27.280 --> 00:09:31.240 What I want you to do is ask God, 222 00:09:32.200 --> 00:09:34.880 God, what game do you want to play with me? 223 00:09:34.880 --> 00:09:37.720 Now, whatever comes into your head, 224 00:09:37.720 --> 00:09:39.400 the first thing that comes into your head, 225 00:09:39.400 --> 00:09:40.840 just write it down. 226 00:09:40.840 --> 00:09:42.240 Don't think about it. 227 00:09:42.240 --> 00:09:44.080 Don't try and apply logic. 228 00:09:44.080 --> 00:09:46.400 Whatever comes into your head, 229 00:09:46.400 --> 00:09:48.600 whether you see the word, you hear the word, 230 00:09:48.600 --> 00:09:51.600 or you sense it, put it down. 231 00:09:53.360 --> 00:09:56.400 And apparently I'm gonna play chess today. 232 00:09:58.000 --> 00:09:59.960 So, and then the next thing. 233 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:02.080 I want you to do once you've got your game, 234 00:10:02.080 --> 00:10:04.160 whatever your game is today. 235 00:10:04.160 --> 00:10:05.000 And you know what? 236 00:10:05.000 --> 00:10:05.820 It's nuts. 237 00:10:05.820 --> 00:10:07.700 Sometimes he gives us games we don't even know how to play. 238 00:10:07.700 --> 00:10:09.160 I think that's hilarious. 239 00:10:09.160 --> 00:10:10.480 Or it's not one. 240 00:10:10.480 --> 00:10:12.680 Last time I did this, 241 00:10:12.680 --> 00:10:15.320 a lovely gentleman called Alan was on the call. 242 00:10:15.320 --> 00:10:18.120 I play tennis and he got tennis and he plays golf 243 00:10:18.120 --> 00:10:19.000 and I got golf. 244 00:10:19.000 --> 00:10:19.820 That was crazy. 245 00:10:19.820 --> 00:10:20.680 That was so funny. 246 00:10:20.680 --> 00:10:24.840 Anyway, so why ask God, 247 00:10:26.160 --> 00:10:28.680 God, why do you want to play that game with me? 248 00:10:30.280 --> 00:10:32.120 Just ask him and then write down 249 00:10:32.120 --> 00:10:33.960 whatever comes into your head, 250 00:10:33.960 --> 00:10:35.320 whatever you hear. 251 00:10:35.320 --> 00:10:36.160 Don't question it. 252 00:10:36.160 --> 00:10:38.480 Just write it down, however crazy it is. 253 00:11:01.000 --> 00:11:04.480 I'm loving all the writing these gorgeous girls 254 00:11:04.480 --> 00:11:06.160 are doing on the call. 255 00:11:06.160 --> 00:11:07.960 So for those, and at any point, 256 00:11:07.960 --> 00:11:09.920 for those of you who are listening to the replay, 257 00:11:09.920 --> 00:11:12.400 at any point, you can just pause this 258 00:11:12.400 --> 00:11:14.840 and keep going while you're writing things down. 259 00:11:19.760 --> 00:11:22.600 Let it flow, wherever it might be, let it flow. 260 00:11:30.000 --> 00:11:35.000 And then once he's asked, 261 00:11:37.640 --> 00:11:38.480 once you've asked him, 262 00:11:38.480 --> 00:11:40.840 why does he want to play the game with you? 263 00:11:42.040 --> 00:11:44.160 The next thing to ask him is, 264 00:11:45.400 --> 00:11:47.920 what does he want you to learn from that game? 265 00:11:47.920 --> 00:11:50.720 So God, what do you want me to learn 266 00:11:50.720 --> 00:11:53.000 from playing that game with you? 267 00:12:30.000 --> 00:12:35.000 And then the last question is, 268 00:12:35.000 --> 00:12:40.000 what does he want you to learn from that game? 269 00:12:56.240 --> 00:13:01.240 And then the last question is really for you personally. 270 00:13:01.960 --> 00:13:03.840 And it's, what does this mean to you? 271 00:13:07.440 --> 00:13:10.040 So for me, God's given me chess, 272 00:13:10.040 --> 00:13:11.720 he's given me strategy, 273 00:13:11.720 --> 00:13:14.680 and he's given me planning ahead, collaboration, 274 00:13:14.680 --> 00:13:16.000 activating the three Cs, 275 00:13:16.000 --> 00:13:17.640 which is commissioning, co-laboring, 276 00:13:17.640 --> 00:13:20.280 and co-creating, and working together. 277 00:13:22.600 --> 00:13:24.400 And this is the season that I'm in. 278 00:13:24.400 --> 00:13:28.640 So this confirms the current season 279 00:13:28.640 --> 00:13:29.840 I'm in about collaboration. 280 00:13:30.840 --> 00:13:35.840 So for me, it's confirmation I'm on the right track, 281 00:13:38.960 --> 00:13:40.400 the right path. 282 00:13:40.400 --> 00:13:45.400 And it is the season, it's this season for now, 283 00:13:48.480 --> 00:13:49.640 and he is with me. 284 00:13:54.560 --> 00:13:57.680 In fact, not only is he with me, 285 00:13:57.800 --> 00:14:01.120 but he has gone ahead of me. 286 00:14:08.520 --> 00:14:10.920 So for those watching the replay, just pause, 287 00:14:10.920 --> 00:14:13.120 just let the information come, 288 00:14:13.120 --> 00:14:17.200 whatever it is that you see, or you hear, or you feel. 289 00:14:28.000 --> 00:14:30.080 And then if either of you lovely ladies, 290 00:14:30.080 --> 00:14:32.160 actually, this is how coaching goes. 291 00:14:32.160 --> 00:14:34.360 When you coach with me, when I do small group coaching, 292 00:14:34.360 --> 00:14:36.320 this is exactly, these guys are well-prepared, 293 00:14:36.320 --> 00:14:37.680 they know I ask questions. 294 00:14:38.560 --> 00:14:41.080 We do something, and then I go, okay. 295 00:14:41.080 --> 00:14:46.040 Because actually, giving people like yourselves 296 00:14:46.040 --> 00:14:47.320 who are watching online, 297 00:14:48.640 --> 00:14:51.280 the opportunity to activate it for yourself, 298 00:14:51.280 --> 00:14:53.640 to speak it out for yourself, 299 00:14:53.640 --> 00:14:55.560 actually embeds the learning. 300 00:14:55.600 --> 00:14:58.400 So it's not about me doing everything. 301 00:14:58.400 --> 00:15:00.560 It's not actually about me, it's about you. 302 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:13.000 So that either one of you want to share shortly, I don't need a full length, you know, essay because I know both of you are as good as I am about talking, we want to keep it nice and tight. 303 00:15:13.000 --> 00:15:23.000 So what was the game? Why did he want to play it with you? What did he want you to learn? And then what does it mean for you? 304 00:15:23.000 --> 00:15:24.000 Yeah, I'll share. 305 00:15:24.000 --> 00:15:26.000 Go Amy. 306 00:15:26.000 --> 00:15:31.000 So actually what he wanted to do with me was jigsaw puzzles. 307 00:15:31.000 --> 00:15:34.000 Oh, why? 308 00:15:34.000 --> 00:15:44.000 And he was like, I just want you to spend time with me and I want to help you put the puzzle pieces of your life back into alignment. 309 00:15:44.000 --> 00:15:46.000 Wow. 310 00:15:46.000 --> 00:16:01.000 And then what do you want me to learn? Basically that, you know, all pieces of a puzzle will fit together perfectly, no matter how jumbled up or messed up they are, as long as you're referencing the image of the puzzle creator. 311 00:16:01.000 --> 00:16:09.000 Isn't that amazing? Like, what does it mean to you? 312 00:16:09.000 --> 00:16:16.000 I just want to keep my focus on God and what he thinks of me and what he says I am. 313 00:16:16.000 --> 00:16:27.000 How does that make you feel? 314 00:16:27.000 --> 00:16:38.000 I just can't think of the word. 315 00:16:38.000 --> 00:16:41.000 Reassured, that's it. 316 00:16:41.000 --> 00:16:44.000 Brilliant. 317 00:16:44.000 --> 00:16:49.000 And the words I got were safe, secure. 318 00:16:49.000 --> 00:16:50.000 You alright? 319 00:16:50.000 --> 00:16:52.000 Yep. 320 00:16:52.000 --> 00:16:55.000 Safe and secure because I am with you. 321 00:16:55.000 --> 00:16:57.000 You're covered. 322 00:16:57.000 --> 00:17:03.000 And the thing is, he's got all those puzzle pieces, he knows exactly what goes where and he's just going to show you. 323 00:17:03.000 --> 00:17:05.000 How cool is that? 324 00:17:05.000 --> 00:17:06.000 That's nuts. 325 00:17:06.000 --> 00:17:08.000 That's beautiful. 326 00:17:08.000 --> 00:17:09.000 Thank you, God. 327 00:17:09.000 --> 00:17:19.000 Thank you, God, for Amy's capacity to hear your voice and her openness to hear what you want to share. 328 00:17:19.000 --> 00:17:20.000 Amen. 329 00:17:20.000 --> 00:17:24.000 Did you have a bit of pain this morning, beautiful lady? 330 00:17:24.000 --> 00:17:27.000 Yep, my entire body hurts. 331 00:17:27.000 --> 00:17:30.000 Any particular reason? 332 00:17:30.000 --> 00:17:37.000 I think it was the walking in the town yesterday with a backpack full of groceries and that. 333 00:17:37.000 --> 00:17:47.000 Father God, just bless this beautiful lady that she's got a fantastic body that she can use to go to the groceries, get the stuff done and she's done it. 334 00:17:47.000 --> 00:17:50.000 Just come and be with you as her. 335 00:17:50.000 --> 00:17:51.000 You know what, Lord? 336 00:17:51.000 --> 00:17:58.000 Help her to move her muscles today so that they can soften and relax and not be as tight. 337 00:17:58.000 --> 00:18:05.000 So I just declare your love, your overwhelming love over the fact that that's great that she's used her muscles. 338 00:18:05.000 --> 00:18:07.000 And now, Lord, help her to use them more. 339 00:18:07.000 --> 00:18:09.000 Amen. 340 00:18:09.000 --> 00:18:13.000 Because that tightness, if we don't then move them, it's unhelpful. 341 00:18:13.000 --> 00:18:14.000 It's a good girl. 342 00:18:14.000 --> 00:18:15.000 Keep going. 343 00:18:15.000 --> 00:18:18.000 Keep going, because you'll get better and feel so much better. 344 00:18:18.000 --> 00:18:19.000 I love it. 345 00:18:19.000 --> 00:18:20.000 Thank you. 346 00:18:20.000 --> 00:18:21.000 Thank you. 347 00:18:21.000 --> 00:18:24.000 Kerry, do you want to give us a quick share before we go on? 348 00:18:24.000 --> 00:18:25.000 Sure. 349 00:18:25.000 --> 00:18:27.000 I usually get chess and backgammon and stuff. 350 00:18:27.000 --> 00:18:28.000 And he said hopscotch. 351 00:18:28.000 --> 00:18:31.000 And I just went, you're joking? 352 00:18:31.000 --> 00:18:32.000 Hopscotch. 353 00:18:32.000 --> 00:18:41.000 So he says we spend a lot of time doing strategy games, but now one step at a time and we're going to have fun with it. 354 00:18:41.000 --> 00:18:46.000 You know, sometimes it's two steps, but we're going to have fun with it one step at a time. 355 00:18:46.000 --> 00:18:48.000 And then we get to the end. 356 00:18:48.000 --> 00:18:57.000 We come back, you know, reviewing, recapping, and then start again with a new sort of project. 357 00:18:57.000 --> 00:18:58.000 And that's what we're going to do. 358 00:18:58.000 --> 00:19:00.000 And we're just going to have fun with it. 359 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:01.000 You've got all your strategy. 360 00:19:01.000 --> 00:19:02.000 You know what you've got to do. 361 00:19:02.000 --> 00:19:04.000 So let's just have some fun now. 362 00:19:04.000 --> 00:19:12.000 So that was just for me, it was like, oh, because I've had so many things going into my head now. 363 00:19:12.000 --> 00:19:20.000 And I know, Sally, you keep telling us one thing at a time, but my mind is really struggling to do that because there's so many things I want to do. 364 00:19:20.000 --> 00:19:28.000 So, yeah, we're just going to stick with this, what dad and I are doing at the moment and my painting that I need to do before mum gets back. 365 00:19:28.000 --> 00:19:30.000 And it's just going to be one day at a time. 366 00:19:30.000 --> 00:19:31.000 Yeah. 367 00:19:31.000 --> 00:19:33.000 So it's like, thanks, God. 368 00:19:33.000 --> 00:19:37.000 Thanks. I needed that permission, I think. 369 00:19:37.000 --> 00:19:41.000 Isn't it lovely how he brings us peace and rest? 370 00:19:41.000 --> 00:19:45.000 And you just went, oh, like he just lifted. 371 00:19:45.000 --> 00:19:50.000 He says, come all who are heavily laden and I will give you rest. 372 00:19:50.000 --> 00:19:52.000 My yoke is easy and my burden is light. 373 00:19:52.000 --> 00:19:55.000 And that's exactly what he's just done for both of you. 374 00:19:55.000 --> 00:19:58.000 He's just taken all that gunk off. 375 00:19:58.000 --> 00:20:00.000 Just in one game. 376 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:03.840 Imagine what he can do, you know, as we journey more and 377 00:20:03.840 --> 00:20:06.880 more with him. So, those of you that are online, I pray that 378 00:20:06.880 --> 00:20:09.520 you have got some great revelations just like these 379 00:20:09.520 --> 00:20:13.200 gorgeous girls have done and feel free to share them with 380 00:20:13.200 --> 00:20:16.080 us. You know, feel free to email me because you're going 381 00:20:16.080 --> 00:20:20.000 to get emails. Feel free to let us know because it's lovely to 382 00:20:20.000 --> 00:20:22.880 share it and when we share it or we verbalize it, you can 383 00:20:22.880 --> 00:20:26.960 send me a little voice message. You know, it helps you to get 384 00:20:26.960 --> 00:20:31.280 clear in your head. So, celebrating you two, well done. 385 00:20:31.280 --> 00:20:34.560 Thank you for sharing with everyone. Um I'm just going to 386 00:20:34.560 --> 00:20:37.360 share the screen again and we can, oh, that's not what I 387 00:20:37.360 --> 00:20:39.920 wanted at all. That's unhelpful. That's not going to 388 00:20:39.920 --> 00:20:45.840 get us anywhere. That's a bit better. Okay, so, next one is 389 00:20:45.840 --> 00:20:51.680 words have power. Now, we all know God created the world with 390 00:20:51.680 --> 00:20:57.520 his words. We all know that God's word never comes back 391 00:20:57.520 --> 00:21:03.120 void. So, we know that stuff already. We also know that 392 00:21:03.120 --> 00:21:09.200 from our heart, our mouth speaks. A lot of the coaching 393 00:21:09.200 --> 00:21:16.240 that I do is to help heal people's hearts. Because hurt 394 00:21:16.240 --> 00:21:21.840 people, hurt people, and healed people, heal people. And one 395 00:21:21.840 --> 00:21:25.200 of the things that we've got to be aware of, first of all, is 396 00:21:25.200 --> 00:21:29.600 the words that come out of our own mouths. We're often quick 397 00:21:29.600 --> 00:21:33.920 to comment on others but it's out of our own mouths because 398 00:21:33.920 --> 00:21:42.640 that we have full control over our what we say and what we do. 399 00:21:42.640 --> 00:21:49.680 So, out of our heart, our mouth speaks. We learn by hearing 400 00:21:51.120 --> 00:21:57.920 because whatever we speak, we give permission to and our head 401 00:21:57.920 --> 00:22:03.760 accepts it. Your brain or your thinking or your head is just 402 00:22:03.760 --> 00:22:08.960 like a computer system. It processes. It just processes the 403 00:22:08.960 --> 00:22:15.360 information you give it. So, it's really important that we 404 00:22:15.360 --> 00:22:21.440 get our hearts healed. We speak kindness and goodness and love 405 00:22:21.440 --> 00:22:25.440 over ourselves because then we can do it over others. Because 406 00:22:25.440 --> 00:22:28.640 when we do it over ourselves, that's who we become. The words 407 00:22:28.640 --> 00:22:31.360 are who we become and that's where the outcome. So, that 408 00:22:32.320 --> 00:22:39.600 words hid outcome. So, what I want you to do is to think about 409 00:22:39.600 --> 00:22:42.720 maybe some words you've spoken in the last few weeks or few 410 00:22:42.720 --> 00:22:48.400 days or whatever it might be over yourself and be honest. No 411 00:22:48.400 --> 00:22:50.560 one gets to see this piece of paper other than you. 412 00:22:53.280 --> 00:22:57.440 And where have you either shifted? So, you may have said 413 00:22:57.440 --> 00:23:01.040 some unkind words and you've shifted them into kind words or 414 00:23:01.040 --> 00:23:05.760 just that sudden awareness that actually, what do you speak 415 00:23:05.760 --> 00:23:11.280 over yourself? So, think about the words in the last few days 416 00:23:12.000 --> 00:23:16.000 that you've spoken over yourself and just write them down 417 00:23:16.000 --> 00:23:20.320 and we can unpack them a bit. So, just take a moment to think 418 00:23:20.320 --> 00:23:22.560 about the words that you've spoken over yourself. 419 00:23:32.000 --> 00:23:36.960 It could also be, I've just written done list on there like, 420 00:23:36.960 --> 00:23:40.480 you know, I'm acknowledging achievements as I go. I'm 421 00:23:40.480 --> 00:23:46.960 acknowledging things as I, I'm looking for the good. 422 00:23:53.120 --> 00:23:55.120 You know, acknowledging what's happening as I go. 423 00:24:01.040 --> 00:24:06.800 I'm looking for the win, the good, the learn. 424 00:24:31.040 --> 00:24:54.480 So, I hope all of you that are watching this online have just 425 00:24:54.480 --> 00:24:59.840 taken a moment to write down what's in your heart or 426 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:02.400 what words you're speaking. 427 00:25:02.400 --> 00:25:04.440 I've been a bit broad here. 428 00:25:04.440 --> 00:25:09.160 I haven't said the actual words with mine, 429 00:25:09.160 --> 00:25:13.340 but, you know, and it's not, 430 00:25:13.340 --> 00:25:16.160 our brains are programmed seven, 431 00:25:16.160 --> 00:25:21.160 we're seven more times likely to say negative things 432 00:25:21.880 --> 00:25:23.160 than positive things. 433 00:25:24.560 --> 00:25:28.540 Our lean, our natural lean is to the default mode, 434 00:25:29.540 --> 00:25:31.820 which is to put ourselves down, 435 00:25:31.820 --> 00:25:33.660 which is to belittle ourselves, 436 00:25:33.660 --> 00:25:35.180 which is to say we're not good enough, 437 00:25:35.180 --> 00:25:37.180 all that stuff that we know is not true. 438 00:25:38.440 --> 00:25:41.240 So we have to choose the other path. 439 00:25:43.660 --> 00:25:46.740 Anything you beautiful ladies want to share 440 00:25:46.740 --> 00:25:49.820 about your words over yourself, 441 00:25:49.820 --> 00:25:53.500 or just your awareness as we've done this exercise, 442 00:25:53.500 --> 00:25:54.940 or we're doing this exercise? 443 00:25:55.940 --> 00:25:59.140 I think I need some clarification 444 00:25:59.140 --> 00:26:00.340 because I was trying to get, 445 00:26:00.340 --> 00:26:02.580 well, what's my heart, words, head, outcome. 446 00:26:02.580 --> 00:26:06.080 So instead of just doing those headings, I've gone, 447 00:26:08.460 --> 00:26:11.420 there was a moment with dad this week, 448 00:26:11.420 --> 00:26:14.940 and I said, nobody loves me, nobody loves me. 449 00:26:14.940 --> 00:26:16.460 And I knew that was wrong, 450 00:26:16.460 --> 00:26:19.900 but dad had just said something 451 00:26:19.900 --> 00:26:21.900 that had brought up the past, 452 00:26:21.900 --> 00:26:24.540 and I had to tell him what was going on. 453 00:26:24.540 --> 00:26:29.180 So my head says that I love dad, dad loves me, 454 00:26:30.180 --> 00:26:32.420 and the father, son, and Holy Spirit 455 00:26:32.420 --> 00:26:34.880 tell me every day that they love me, 456 00:26:36.700 --> 00:26:40.220 and so does Sally, and my tribe, my tribe. 457 00:26:41.820 --> 00:26:44.820 I know I'm in the middle of nowhere in rural Australia, 458 00:26:44.820 --> 00:26:48.380 but my tribe, they have told me all the time. 459 00:26:48.380 --> 00:26:52.480 So the outcome is stop living in the past. 460 00:26:53.280 --> 00:26:55.200 So can you help me? 461 00:26:57.800 --> 00:26:59.080 So I've told, you're right, 462 00:26:59.080 --> 00:27:02.480 I've told you heart, words, head, outcome, 463 00:27:02.480 --> 00:27:04.520 and you've gone through the whole process, 464 00:27:04.520 --> 00:27:06.080 but what I actually asked you to do 465 00:27:06.080 --> 00:27:09.240 is just write down what your heart or what your words were. 466 00:27:09.240 --> 00:27:11.560 So we're going to unpack the next bit 467 00:27:11.560 --> 00:27:16.000 because you need, the first thing is to be aware 468 00:27:16.000 --> 00:27:20.280 of where your heart was or is, 469 00:27:20.280 --> 00:27:21.560 and what the words were. 470 00:27:22.080 --> 00:27:23.640 The first thing is to be aware, 471 00:27:23.640 --> 00:27:26.400 because if we're not aware, we can't do anything with it. 472 00:27:26.400 --> 00:27:27.960 I always jump ahead, sorry. 473 00:27:27.960 --> 00:27:29.440 No, that's cool, and that's brilliant 474 00:27:29.440 --> 00:27:30.520 because you hang out with me a bit, 475 00:27:30.520 --> 00:27:31.680 so it's good to show that you're like, 476 00:27:31.680 --> 00:27:33.600 oh yeah, I can get this now, I can flip this, 477 00:27:33.600 --> 00:27:35.360 I can flip, oh, that's right, I've got it. 478 00:27:35.360 --> 00:27:36.600 So then that's what we're looking, 479 00:27:36.600 --> 00:27:39.160 so when you're ahead of the game, which is great, 480 00:27:40.240 --> 00:27:42.000 so the first thing is to be aware. 481 00:27:42.000 --> 00:27:44.720 Now, if they're encouraging and empowering 482 00:27:44.720 --> 00:27:48.360 and whatever, brilliant, carry on. 483 00:27:48.360 --> 00:27:51.480 But if somebody said something to you, 484 00:27:52.280 --> 00:27:53.120 which is the next bit, 485 00:27:53.120 --> 00:27:56.120 we're going to talk about when somebody triggers us, 486 00:27:56.120 --> 00:27:59.800 somebody says something to us that's unkind, 487 00:27:59.800 --> 00:28:02.440 and then whether we accept that or not. 488 00:28:02.440 --> 00:28:06.480 So in that moment, you took it in, 489 00:28:06.480 --> 00:28:09.840 and then you went, ugh, you know, that response, okay? 490 00:28:09.840 --> 00:28:14.360 So in that moment, you weren't being kind to yourself 491 00:28:14.360 --> 00:28:17.080 because you absorbed unkindness, 492 00:28:18.080 --> 00:28:21.840 and then you responded because hurt people hurt people. 493 00:28:21.840 --> 00:28:24.440 Well, you didn't respond, you reacted. 494 00:28:24.440 --> 00:28:28.280 And so we need to, if we're saying unkind words 495 00:28:28.280 --> 00:28:30.120 to ourselves, and this was actually, 496 00:28:30.120 --> 00:28:31.760 you've hopped into the next one, 497 00:28:31.760 --> 00:28:34.200 which is where you say unkind words to others, 498 00:28:34.200 --> 00:28:37.440 but I'm just asking you first to say, 499 00:28:37.440 --> 00:28:39.480 what about the words to yourself? 500 00:28:39.480 --> 00:28:43.640 So if I say, oh, Sally, why did you do that? 501 00:28:44.160 --> 00:28:48.320 And then I'm putting myself down. 502 00:28:50.080 --> 00:28:51.840 And so the reframe on that, 503 00:28:51.840 --> 00:28:53.640 because actually it's like, oh, why did you do that? 504 00:28:53.640 --> 00:28:56.000 It's like, oh, you're such a do-brain 505 00:28:56.000 --> 00:28:57.560 or whatever you want, you know, like those, 506 00:28:57.560 --> 00:29:01.520 it's that attitude, it's those words, it's those feelings. 507 00:29:01.520 --> 00:29:04.960 And that's okay to feel that for a moment, 508 00:29:04.960 --> 00:29:07.760 but it needs to be popped 509 00:29:07.760 --> 00:29:09.640 before you put that thought back in, 510 00:29:09.640 --> 00:29:13.000 before you allow those words that, 511 00:29:13.000 --> 00:29:15.760 oh, what did you do that for, you're so stupid, 512 00:29:15.760 --> 00:29:18.560 before that takes form, you go, 513 00:29:18.560 --> 00:29:20.880 actually, no, I was learning. 514 00:29:21.720 --> 00:29:24.560 Brilliant, I now know how not to do that 515 00:29:24.560 --> 00:29:25.800 or whatever it might be. 516 00:29:25.800 --> 00:29:29.440 So, because if we leave the words out there 517 00:29:29.440 --> 00:29:33.240 that are unhelpful, they've got permission, 518 00:29:33.240 --> 00:29:37.080 oh, Lisa's joining us, they've got permission to be here. 519 00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:43.000 If we are having words that are helpful, 520 00:29:43.000 --> 00:29:44.320 then they're permissioned to be here. 521 00:29:44.320 --> 00:29:46.240 So every time there's something unhelpful, 522 00:29:46.240 --> 00:29:47.680 we need to reframe it. 523 00:29:47.680 --> 00:29:50.080 Every time it's helpful, we need to continue. 524 00:29:50.080 --> 00:29:53.200 And what you did and what you've just demonstrated 525 00:29:53.200 --> 00:29:57.280 is that you, in the moment you were there, 526 00:29:57.280 --> 00:29:58.720 but then you've come away, 527 00:29:58.720 --> 00:30:00.720 so you've given yourself that permission. 528 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:07.200 space for a moment. You've taken a deep breath and you've gone is that you've gone back and 529 00:30:07.200 --> 00:30:14.560 you have questioned it. Is that true? No, it's not true because da da da da da da da da da da 530 00:30:14.560 --> 00:30:20.720 and you had all those reasons no it's not true and it's like right that sits back in my heart 531 00:30:21.760 --> 00:30:27.280 that I'm loved that I'm chosen that all of the opposites of what you were feeling at the time 532 00:30:27.360 --> 00:30:33.360 because it sits back in your heart and what we're doing here morning or afternoon Lisa 533 00:30:33.360 --> 00:30:38.080 I'm not quite sure what time of day it is for you well we've just got into words have power 534 00:30:38.080 --> 00:30:43.520 and we're just talking about where we're at in terms of the words we speak over ourselves 535 00:30:44.560 --> 00:30:49.040 um so you'll be able to watch a bit of the replay lovely to have you with us beautiful lady 536 00:30:50.400 --> 00:30:56.480 um so and Kerry's just shared about some words that were spoken over her that were unkind 537 00:30:58.080 --> 00:31:05.520 so she's put herself back into that space where her heart and her mind and Christ are back in 538 00:31:05.520 --> 00:31:12.560 alignment and then we're good to go again so you know you've just done a process that's done that 539 00:31:12.560 --> 00:31:18.320 that's lovely so Lisa um I'm hoping that you've received the email with the worksheet so you can 540 00:31:18.320 --> 00:31:25.440 follow the worksheet by hand if you wish to I did receive it I just I apologize for being so late 541 00:31:25.520 --> 00:31:30.640 um my granddaughter graduated from fifth grade they she's moving to middle school they clapped 542 00:31:30.640 --> 00:31:36.160 her out and so we were there and it just ran longer than I thought it would so oh how gorgeous 543 00:31:36.160 --> 00:31:42.400 that is what a precious time you know yes it was I'm just starting to walk into the grandparent 544 00:31:42.400 --> 00:31:49.280 journey and but it's such a precious time to be in those significant moments for our children 545 00:31:50.000 --> 00:31:55.600 children it's beautiful oh look lovely to have you here so just if you need to make yourself we're 546 00:31:55.600 --> 00:32:00.720 all hissing cups of tea so if you need to it's very relaxed here if you need to get yourself a 547 00:32:00.720 --> 00:32:06.160 cup of tea or whatever do so and have you managed to print the form off or have you got a you know 548 00:32:06.160 --> 00:32:13.120 a pen and paper to write with I didn't print it off but I have some paper so well yeah and you 549 00:32:13.120 --> 00:32:17.760 don't have to print it off pen and paper works just as well but the guided worksheet just allows 550 00:32:17.760 --> 00:32:22.560 you just to work through it in the system and I know that you wanted the recordings in this so 551 00:32:22.560 --> 00:32:30.400 you have got it brilliant so what we're going to do here um Kerry has that answered your question 552 00:32:31.200 --> 00:32:36.720 yes thank you great Amy was that good for you do you want to share anything before we I'm just 553 00:32:36.720 --> 00:32:46.160 going to flip into other people's words um no it was good actually I had one written down and 554 00:32:46.160 --> 00:32:51.840 I wasn't sure why I had said it and it was I'm useless and it was last night while I was trying 555 00:32:51.840 --> 00:32:57.840 to get stuff done for dinner and I was actually able to look at it today and go actually no I was 556 00:32:57.840 --> 00:33:10.720 tired I was sore um but you know I still got up and did it brilliant brilliant beautiful is a 557 00:33:10.800 --> 00:33:16.560 stunning reframe and Lisa both Kerry and Amy are part of coaching that I do currently so they 558 00:33:16.560 --> 00:33:23.440 are starting to flex these um replacement these exchanges muscles um but to kind of bring you up 559 00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:30.240 to speed Amy's background is she will have put herself down every time and the way that the 560 00:33:30.240 --> 00:33:35.440 enemy has got in for her is telling her she's not good enough or she's useless or whatever 561 00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:44.960 and I love the fact Amy that you are now no actually little toad go out of here I was tired 562 00:33:44.960 --> 00:33:52.880 so you you've come with your heart and compassion in the moment for who you are no I did a massive 563 00:33:52.880 --> 00:33:59.840 walk yesterday with a whole heap of groceries on my back and I'm I'm I was tired I was stiff 564 00:34:00.800 --> 00:34:08.159 actually I'm not useless I cooked a brilliant dinner it was beautiful I'm just going to rest 565 00:34:08.159 --> 00:34:15.360 just going to rest in who I am I'm actually quite good thanks God brilliant well done 566 00:34:16.080 --> 00:34:25.280 please share um I was actually just saying um in a meeting I was in yesterday um I can't 567 00:34:25.280 --> 00:34:29.280 actually remember other than you last night I can't actually remember the last time I put myself 568 00:34:29.360 --> 00:34:41.280 down that see that makes me want to cry because when I met you you didn't have anything kind to 569 00:34:41.280 --> 00:34:48.880 say about yourself at all and it's such a beauty and it's all about words it's all about so we're 570 00:34:48.880 --> 00:34:53.760 right in this so Lisa what we're doing we've done kind of we've just talked about the words we speak 571 00:34:53.760 --> 00:34:59.840 over ourselves because you know from when we heal people have you know have healed hearts and we 572 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.600 have to, if we don't encourage and empower ourselves. 573 00:35:03.600 --> 00:35:05.720 I don't mean, look at me, look at me, I'm amazing. 574 00:35:05.720 --> 00:35:07.240 Not that kind of stuff. 575 00:35:07.240 --> 00:35:11.920 But that real deep, well done, you'd nailed that today. 576 00:35:11.920 --> 00:35:14.120 Gosh, you fought that battle today. 577 00:35:14.120 --> 00:35:14.960 Whatever it was. 578 00:35:14.960 --> 00:35:16.440 And the battle that Amy had to fight 579 00:35:16.440 --> 00:35:18.760 was that she was tired and stiff, 580 00:35:18.760 --> 00:35:22.520 but still needed to do dinner for herself and her daughter. 581 00:35:22.520 --> 00:35:23.360 And you won. 582 00:35:24.600 --> 00:35:25.440 You know? 583 00:35:25.440 --> 00:35:27.640 And so it's looking from that perspective. 584 00:35:27.640 --> 00:35:32.640 And then the other thing about words is we have a choice. 585 00:35:34.120 --> 00:35:35.840 So when we, so we've talked about the words 586 00:35:35.840 --> 00:35:38.520 and you can watch the replay about our personal words, 587 00:35:38.520 --> 00:35:41.240 but, and Kerry was talking about an incident 588 00:35:41.240 --> 00:35:43.840 that happened with her dad this week. 589 00:35:43.840 --> 00:35:46.440 We all have people who say things unkind to us 590 00:35:46.440 --> 00:35:47.520 or put us down. 591 00:35:48.400 --> 00:35:53.400 But I love God because he gave us the armour of God 592 00:35:53.800 --> 00:35:56.480 and the shield of faith. 593 00:35:56.520 --> 00:36:01.520 And for me, this is where I flex the shield of faith muscle. 594 00:36:02.440 --> 00:36:05.040 So when somebody says, 595 00:36:05.040 --> 00:36:08.680 say somebody says something unkind to me, 596 00:36:08.680 --> 00:36:11.600 oh, you're rude, you're obnoxious, you're pushy, 597 00:36:11.600 --> 00:36:13.960 whatever it might be that people say. 598 00:36:16.760 --> 00:36:21.080 Out of my heart, my mouth speaks. 599 00:36:22.680 --> 00:36:25.800 So what they're showing me is the condition 600 00:36:25.800 --> 00:36:29.280 of their heart in that moment. 601 00:36:29.280 --> 00:36:30.800 It's hurting. 602 00:36:30.800 --> 00:36:31.960 It's angry. 603 00:36:31.960 --> 00:36:32.800 It's upset. 604 00:36:32.800 --> 00:36:34.360 It's hurting. 605 00:36:34.360 --> 00:36:36.800 Those words aren't mine. 606 00:36:36.800 --> 00:36:37.960 They're not for me. 607 00:36:37.960 --> 00:36:41.360 So my shield of faith says, thank you, but no thank you. 608 00:36:42.600 --> 00:36:44.600 And the other thing about putting my hand up 609 00:36:44.600 --> 00:36:46.480 is that also we have to remember 610 00:36:47.360 --> 00:36:50.200 that I have to look in the mirror sometimes. 611 00:36:50.200 --> 00:36:53.840 If I'm saying unkind things to other people or to myself, 612 00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:55.240 they're actually about me. 613 00:36:55.600 --> 00:36:58.400 So I actually need to take a moment to sort that out. 614 00:36:59.480 --> 00:37:01.880 So it's when I learned that, 615 00:37:02.960 --> 00:37:04.280 I was like, wow, 616 00:37:04.280 --> 00:37:09.280 I didn't have to carry the burdens of other people's hurt. 617 00:37:09.520 --> 00:37:11.120 I didn't, but my shield of faith said, 618 00:37:11.120 --> 00:37:12.560 no, that's not for you, Sal. 619 00:37:13.800 --> 00:37:16.320 And what it then does, because God shields us 620 00:37:16.320 --> 00:37:17.760 and it's not, we don't get hurt. 621 00:37:17.760 --> 00:37:21.320 We don't, there's fiery darts fall to the floor. 622 00:37:21.320 --> 00:37:24.800 And in the moment for Kerry, they hit her heart. 623 00:37:25.400 --> 00:37:26.800 She fired back. 624 00:37:26.800 --> 00:37:29.000 But when we have that moment to pause 625 00:37:29.000 --> 00:37:33.200 and realize that those words are about them, not us, 626 00:37:34.520 --> 00:37:39.360 it flips the switch so that we can come back with love. 627 00:37:40.400 --> 00:37:41.960 And that's exactly what's happened for Kerry. 628 00:37:41.960 --> 00:37:43.760 She's taken a moment out. 629 00:37:43.760 --> 00:37:45.040 She's thought it through. 630 00:37:45.040 --> 00:37:46.240 Dad, I love you. 631 00:37:46.240 --> 00:37:47.560 I know you love me. 632 00:37:47.560 --> 00:37:49.080 I know this is not the situation. 633 00:37:49.080 --> 00:37:50.760 We can come with love. 634 00:37:50.760 --> 00:37:54.560 And what happens instead of doing this, 635 00:37:55.360 --> 00:37:58.400 one of us has the capacity, us, I can only control myself. 636 00:37:58.400 --> 00:38:00.160 I have a choice in what I do. 637 00:38:00.160 --> 00:38:02.600 I can love the other person. 638 00:38:02.600 --> 00:38:04.240 Are you okay? 639 00:38:04.240 --> 00:38:05.920 Gosh, that's really out of character 640 00:38:05.920 --> 00:38:08.520 for you to say things like that, dad. 641 00:38:08.520 --> 00:38:09.440 What's up? 642 00:38:09.440 --> 00:38:10.600 How can I help? 643 00:38:10.600 --> 00:38:12.080 I love you. 644 00:38:12.080 --> 00:38:13.680 And nine times out of 10, 645 00:38:15.280 --> 00:38:17.880 you both get to be together and love. 646 00:38:17.880 --> 00:38:19.800 And it just blows me away. 647 00:38:19.800 --> 00:38:23.400 So this exercise here, oh my goodness, 648 00:38:23.400 --> 00:38:24.600 I'm nearly at time. 649 00:38:25.520 --> 00:38:26.800 I haven't even done the choices yours. 650 00:38:26.800 --> 00:38:28.120 I'm going to have to be super quick. 651 00:38:28.120 --> 00:38:29.720 I'm going to get you guys to do this 652 00:38:29.720 --> 00:38:30.560 because I've talked too much. 653 00:38:30.560 --> 00:38:33.120 I didn't realize we'd lost so much time. 654 00:38:33.120 --> 00:38:35.080 Actually, you guys okay to go over 655 00:38:35.080 --> 00:38:36.200 by about five or 10 minutes? 656 00:38:36.200 --> 00:38:37.440 Because we started late. 657 00:38:38.480 --> 00:38:39.320 Brilliant. 658 00:38:39.320 --> 00:38:40.640 So let me just check. 659 00:38:40.640 --> 00:38:42.360 I haven't got another meeting straight after this. 660 00:38:42.360 --> 00:38:43.200 I don't think I have. 661 00:38:43.200 --> 00:38:44.840 So just bear with. 662 00:38:44.840 --> 00:38:47.160 I'm doing the calendar thing. 663 00:38:48.360 --> 00:38:51.240 You've got the extended version of this, I think. 664 00:38:51.240 --> 00:38:52.080 Yeah, I have. 665 00:38:52.080 --> 00:38:52.960 I have got a meeting at nine. 666 00:38:53.520 --> 00:38:57.960 So in fact, this is what I love 667 00:38:57.960 --> 00:39:01.120 about the capacity that we have in this place. 668 00:39:01.120 --> 00:39:03.520 I'm just going to let that person know 669 00:39:03.520 --> 00:39:05.680 because it's Jesse and he's amazing. 670 00:39:07.000 --> 00:39:08.400 That's not what I want. 671 00:39:08.400 --> 00:39:10.000 Just let them know we're running. 672 00:39:15.360 --> 00:39:16.920 Why can I not find him on my thing? 673 00:39:16.920 --> 00:39:18.160 I was trying to be really helpful. 674 00:39:18.160 --> 00:39:19.000 I'll send him a message. 675 00:39:19.000 --> 00:39:20.800 Can you just send him a quick message for me 676 00:39:20.800 --> 00:39:23.000 and tell him I'm going to be 10 minutes late for my meeting? 677 00:39:23.000 --> 00:39:24.320 Thank you. 678 00:39:24.320 --> 00:39:25.240 Because we started late. 679 00:39:25.240 --> 00:39:26.880 That would be lovely. 680 00:39:26.880 --> 00:39:29.160 So just think for a moment of any words 681 00:39:29.160 --> 00:39:31.680 that have been unkind that have been spoken over you. 682 00:39:31.680 --> 00:39:35.520 And right now, I want you to say, 683 00:39:35.520 --> 00:39:36.800 thank you, Lord, that they're yours. 684 00:39:36.800 --> 00:39:39.680 Give them to Jesus right now. 685 00:39:39.680 --> 00:39:41.960 And we're going to talk about this tomorrow, actually. 686 00:39:41.960 --> 00:39:45.120 But because out of there, so we've talked about it, 687 00:39:45.120 --> 00:39:49.080 but any that have been unkind, you just release them now. 688 00:39:51.160 --> 00:39:52.200 And give them to Jesus. 689 00:39:55.200 --> 00:39:57.200 And if you're really clever, 690 00:39:57.200 --> 00:40:00.000 well, not you're really clever, but if you what I'd also. 691 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.720 or love is for you to say, God, what do you want me to do? 692 00:40:04.720 --> 00:40:06.360 How can I love on that person? 693 00:40:07.360 --> 00:40:12.360 How can I bless or love, show love for that person? 694 00:40:22.200 --> 00:40:24.080 And hopefully, I mean, I'd like to say, 695 00:40:24.080 --> 00:40:28.360 every time God's done it for me, it's been warmly received, 696 00:40:28.400 --> 00:40:32.080 but I've had to ask him, how do I show love to that person? 697 00:40:32.080 --> 00:40:34.480 Because it's not about me, it's about them, 698 00:40:34.480 --> 00:40:36.560 and I want to connect with them. 699 00:40:36.560 --> 00:40:38.160 And some people, it's giving them a gift. 700 00:40:38.160 --> 00:40:39.580 Some people, it's giving them a hug. 701 00:40:39.580 --> 00:40:41.960 Some people, it's a kind word. 702 00:40:41.960 --> 00:40:44.860 But what is it that will help me connect with that person? 703 00:40:47.080 --> 00:40:51.520 Okay, so whatever is true, whatever is noble, 704 00:40:51.520 --> 00:40:53.000 whatever is white, whatever is pure, 705 00:40:53.000 --> 00:40:55.040 whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, 706 00:40:55.040 --> 00:40:57.140 if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, 707 00:40:57.140 --> 00:40:59.420 think about such things, 708 00:40:59.420 --> 00:41:03.900 it is so important to keep our eyes on the prize, 709 00:41:03.900 --> 00:41:05.980 on the goodness of who God is, 710 00:41:05.980 --> 00:41:10.420 of his promises that he gives us in his word, 711 00:41:10.420 --> 00:41:14.260 because we can claim those any moment of any day. 712 00:41:16.260 --> 00:41:21.260 And so that, if we can sow his word into our hearts, 713 00:41:22.740 --> 00:41:25.100 then when something comes against us, 714 00:41:26.100 --> 00:41:31.100 it'll be his words, his love, his kindness that pours out. 715 00:41:32.900 --> 00:41:35.300 And that's ideally where we want to get to. 716 00:41:35.300 --> 00:41:39.740 I love Jesus, because people threw 717 00:41:39.740 --> 00:41:41.980 all sorts of stuff at him. 718 00:41:41.980 --> 00:41:45.100 Everyone, so many people were horrid to him. 719 00:41:46.700 --> 00:41:50.820 And not once did he have a go. 720 00:41:50.820 --> 00:41:52.940 Might have got a little bit cross 721 00:41:52.940 --> 00:41:54.720 with the guys in the temple, 722 00:41:55.560 --> 00:42:00.160 but that's a whole kind of different ball game. 723 00:42:00.160 --> 00:42:01.640 But when somebody came at him, 724 00:42:01.640 --> 00:42:03.200 all those Pharisees were saying, 725 00:42:03.200 --> 00:42:07.320 what didn't matter, every time he came back with love, 726 00:42:08.360 --> 00:42:10.600 every time he came back with wisdom, 727 00:42:10.600 --> 00:42:12.520 I'm like, I want that God, 728 00:42:12.520 --> 00:42:15.840 I want to be able, when somebody comes at me, 729 00:42:15.840 --> 00:42:18.520 and you know what, the enemy is such a toad, 730 00:42:18.520 --> 00:42:19.720 he would use the piece, 731 00:42:19.720 --> 00:42:22.580 every time for me, it's the people closest to me. 732 00:42:23.580 --> 00:42:25.220 Every time, if he's going to attack, 733 00:42:25.220 --> 00:42:27.300 if the enemy is going to try and attack me, 734 00:42:27.300 --> 00:42:29.700 it's always with people close to me. 735 00:42:29.700 --> 00:42:32.940 But what I love is with every problem, there's a promise. 736 00:42:32.940 --> 00:42:34.620 And God has already sorted that, 737 00:42:34.620 --> 00:42:36.300 he already knew that was going to happen. 738 00:42:36.300 --> 00:42:39.300 So I just have to ask him, okay, God, what's this about? 739 00:42:39.300 --> 00:42:42.540 And I love the fact that the enemy is so stupid, 740 00:42:42.540 --> 00:42:45.500 that every attack is like he's literally 741 00:42:45.500 --> 00:42:48.420 pointing our next upgrade, it's nuts. 742 00:42:48.420 --> 00:42:51.460 Anyway, so slight sideline, 743 00:42:51.460 --> 00:42:55.420 but out of our heart, out of our minds, 744 00:42:55.420 --> 00:42:57.260 out of our hearts, our words speak. 745 00:42:57.260 --> 00:42:59.740 So we need to be speaking kindness all the time 746 00:42:59.740 --> 00:43:02.220 to inform our brain that that's who we are. 747 00:43:02.220 --> 00:43:04.720 And it helps us with our outcomes. 748 00:43:04.720 --> 00:43:07.100 So the last piece of the puzzle for today's training 749 00:43:07.100 --> 00:43:09.700 is the fact that the choice is yours. 750 00:43:09.700 --> 00:43:11.340 And there's an amazing young man 751 00:43:11.340 --> 00:43:14.260 who I had the honor of knowing here, brittle bone disease, 752 00:43:15.220 --> 00:43:19.120 he's no longer with us, but he was incredible. 753 00:43:19.120 --> 00:43:20.780 And he said, the choices we make 754 00:43:21.100 --> 00:43:22.700 determine the directions our lives take 755 00:43:22.700 --> 00:43:24.580 and the people we become. 756 00:43:25.800 --> 00:43:28.500 So from today's training, 757 00:43:28.500 --> 00:43:31.140 or just from the game we've played with God, 758 00:43:31.140 --> 00:43:32.940 and Lisa, you'll have some fun doing that later, 759 00:43:32.940 --> 00:43:35.360 I'll get recordings out as soon as I can to you. 760 00:43:36.880 --> 00:43:41.060 So playing a game and thinking about your words, 761 00:43:41.060 --> 00:43:42.880 what does it mean for you today? 762 00:43:42.880 --> 00:43:45.620 What are you going to do for the rest of today, 763 00:43:45.620 --> 00:43:48.740 between today and tomorrow that is going to be different? 764 00:43:48.740 --> 00:43:51.020 Or what are you going to focus on 765 00:43:51.020 --> 00:43:53.660 that tells you actually, I've learned this today, 766 00:43:53.660 --> 00:43:55.220 I'm going to really be present in this, 767 00:43:55.220 --> 00:43:56.940 or I'm going to think about my words. 768 00:43:56.940 --> 00:43:58.900 So just take a moment to think about 769 00:43:58.900 --> 00:44:01.560 what does it mean for you? 770 00:44:03.260 --> 00:44:05.940 And I'm just going to put a couple of comments in here. 771 00:44:18.740 --> 00:44:23.740 And I'm just going to put a couple of comments in here. 772 00:44:48.740 --> 00:44:53.740 Brilliant, brilliant, brilliant. 773 00:44:54.460 --> 00:44:57.220 I'm sure you'll have some more comments to put in there. 774 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:01.800 Anybody want to share one thing 775 00:45:01.800 --> 00:45:03.560 that they're going to do from today? 776 00:45:05.400 --> 00:45:06.320 Go for it, Amy. 777 00:45:07.360 --> 00:45:08.880 Yeah, I think I only put one thing, 778 00:45:08.880 --> 00:45:11.920 but just really surround my environment 779 00:45:11.920 --> 00:45:15.080 with the heart and mind of Christ. 780 00:45:15.080 --> 00:45:18.680 So that's what I end up speaking out. 781 00:45:18.680 --> 00:45:20.400 Good girl, yep. 782 00:45:20.400 --> 00:45:24.480 And I know for you that playing worship music, 783 00:45:24.480 --> 00:45:25.960 doing your daily devotions, 784 00:45:25.960 --> 00:45:29.760 she's doing an amazing thing on Instagram at the moment, 785 00:45:29.760 --> 00:45:33.160 doing daily devotions on there with your beautiful art 786 00:45:33.160 --> 00:45:35.200 and what God is speaking to you. 787 00:45:35.200 --> 00:45:37.040 And it was never about the Instagram. 788 00:45:37.040 --> 00:45:39.200 It was actually about you just having time with him. 789 00:45:39.200 --> 00:45:40.720 So continue to do that. 790 00:45:40.720 --> 00:45:41.640 You're absolutely right. 791 00:45:41.640 --> 00:45:46.640 Just continue to consume or just cover yourself 792 00:45:47.120 --> 00:45:48.120 because he's there. 793 00:45:48.120 --> 00:45:49.080 I love that. 794 00:45:49.080 --> 00:45:50.320 Well done, excellent. 795 00:45:50.320 --> 00:45:51.760 Kerry, is there anything you want to share 796 00:45:51.760 --> 00:45:53.840 about one thing that you're going to do today 797 00:45:53.840 --> 00:45:55.600 from today's training? 798 00:45:55.720 --> 00:46:00.720 Just to not think about my past and how I was treated, 799 00:46:01.480 --> 00:46:06.480 but just know that my identity in God 800 00:46:08.680 --> 00:46:10.160 is the only thing that matters. 801 00:46:10.160 --> 00:46:12.880 Yeah, good. 802 00:46:12.880 --> 00:46:13.840 I love it. 803 00:46:13.840 --> 00:46:15.720 And Lisa, in the last like five minutes 804 00:46:15.720 --> 00:46:16.560 that you've had to this, 805 00:46:16.560 --> 00:46:19.080 is there anything that's popped for you? 806 00:46:19.080 --> 00:46:20.280 There is actually. 807 00:46:21.960 --> 00:46:25.280 That others' words when they're cranky or whatever 808 00:46:26.080 --> 00:46:27.120 they aren't about me. 809 00:46:29.600 --> 00:46:32.040 Thinking about what is going on with them 810 00:46:32.040 --> 00:46:35.960 that would make them say or do whatever they do. 811 00:46:35.960 --> 00:46:37.280 And then, Lord, how can I love them? 812 00:46:37.280 --> 00:46:38.640 I really like that. 813 00:46:38.640 --> 00:46:40.000 It is, it's beautiful. 814 00:46:40.000 --> 00:46:41.640 And you know what? 815 00:46:41.640 --> 00:46:43.320 The issue is never the issue. 816 00:46:43.320 --> 00:46:45.760 The words they're saying and never the, it's not that. 817 00:46:45.760 --> 00:46:49.920 It's always some baggage behind, some hurt behind that. 818 00:46:49.920 --> 00:46:51.480 And that's none of our business. 819 00:46:51.480 --> 00:46:53.920 Everyone's got their own business, it's none of ours. 820 00:46:53.960 --> 00:46:57.880 But our job is to love on them regardless of the behaviour. 821 00:46:57.880 --> 00:47:01.240 And just this whole mindset shift change 822 00:47:01.240 --> 00:47:03.360 around putting that mirror up or whatever 823 00:47:03.360 --> 00:47:08.280 has just really helped me to be able to come with love. 824 00:47:08.280 --> 00:47:09.120 Brilliant. 825 00:47:09.120 --> 00:47:10.160 I love that, ladies. 826 00:47:10.160 --> 00:47:12.720 So today you've been able to hear his voice 827 00:47:12.720 --> 00:47:13.840 because you played a game with him 828 00:47:13.840 --> 00:47:16.080 and Lisa will play his later. 829 00:47:16.080 --> 00:47:20.200 You know your words have power and you get to choose them. 830 00:47:20.200 --> 00:47:21.040 And that's really it. 831 00:47:21.040 --> 00:47:22.240 The choice is yours. 832 00:47:22.240 --> 00:47:23.920 So from today's training, 833 00:47:23.920 --> 00:47:26.640 you can put your activation steps in. 834 00:47:26.640 --> 00:47:30.520 So you can put those in as to what you want to do 835 00:47:30.520 --> 00:47:32.160 between now and tomorrow. 836 00:47:32.160 --> 00:47:33.840 And you've just spoken them. 837 00:47:33.840 --> 00:47:35.720 And then what I'd love you to do, 838 00:47:35.720 --> 00:47:38.280 as I always do at the end of every coaching, 839 00:47:38.280 --> 00:47:42.400 is just where are you now on your score of zero to 10? 840 00:47:42.400 --> 00:47:44.840 So we put a line in the sand at the beginning, Lisa, 841 00:47:44.840 --> 00:47:46.320 about how we were feeling. 842 00:47:47.160 --> 00:47:49.440 Like 10 out of 10, he's like, I'm amazing. 843 00:47:49.440 --> 00:47:50.920 And one was zero. 844 00:47:50.920 --> 00:47:53.120 It's like, oh, I'm really not that flash. 845 00:47:53.120 --> 00:47:55.520 And then a feeling to go with it. 846 00:47:55.520 --> 00:47:57.120 And part of the reason I do that 847 00:47:57.120 --> 00:48:00.280 is because it helps you to stack as you go. 848 00:48:00.280 --> 00:48:01.120 It helps you to, 849 00:48:01.120 --> 00:48:04.440 and it also helps to bring you into the present 850 00:48:04.440 --> 00:48:06.560 and just actually just take a pause. 851 00:48:06.560 --> 00:48:08.840 How am I feeling right now? 852 00:48:08.840 --> 00:48:11.520 And if Amy had had chance to pause 853 00:48:11.520 --> 00:48:13.160 before she cooked dinner last night 854 00:48:13.160 --> 00:48:15.160 and go, actually, I'm tired. 855 00:48:15.160 --> 00:48:17.360 Actually, I'm feeling stiff. 856 00:48:17.360 --> 00:48:20.400 The compassion would have helped her then 857 00:48:20.400 --> 00:48:22.080 before she'd gone into dinner 858 00:48:22.080 --> 00:48:23.760 because she'd have been aware 859 00:48:23.760 --> 00:48:25.920 for her to be kind to herself. 860 00:48:25.920 --> 00:48:29.080 So it's just, I'm just helping people flex that muscle. 861 00:48:29.080 --> 00:48:31.320 So give yourself a score. 862 00:48:31.320 --> 00:48:34.440 I'm obviously like, yeah, I want a 10 now. 863 00:48:34.440 --> 00:48:35.280 I'm like ready. 864 00:48:35.280 --> 00:48:36.160 I'm ready. 865 00:48:36.160 --> 00:48:37.360 I've pulled out to you guys. 866 00:48:37.360 --> 00:48:38.920 I've got another meeting to go to. 867 00:48:38.920 --> 00:48:40.320 Jesse's amazing. 868 00:48:40.320 --> 00:48:45.320 So I am fired up and ready to go. 869 00:48:46.320 --> 00:48:48.600 But you, it doesn't matter where you're at, 870 00:48:48.600 --> 00:48:50.240 whether it's, you know, whatever the, 871 00:48:50.240 --> 00:48:53.560 the scores are for you just to be aware. 872 00:48:54.400 --> 00:48:56.160 Are you, you know, how are you feeling? 873 00:48:56.160 --> 00:48:58.920 So that then you can start working from that 874 00:48:58.920 --> 00:49:02.320 because your feelings aren't meant to control you. 875 00:49:02.320 --> 00:49:05.160 You are meant to be in control of your feelings. 876 00:49:05.160 --> 00:49:06.920 And I mean that like life is, 877 00:49:06.920 --> 00:49:08.320 life is what we make it. 878 00:49:09.400 --> 00:49:13.600 So remember winning in the game of life is an inside job. 879 00:49:13.600 --> 00:49:15.200 That's what I love about God. 880 00:49:16.080 --> 00:49:16.920 It's all internal. 881 00:49:16.920 --> 00:49:18.760 It's inside out, not outside in. 882 00:49:19.680 --> 00:49:21.200 Go Jesus. 883 00:49:21.200 --> 00:49:24.880 And life is meant to be fun and engaging. 884 00:49:24.880 --> 00:49:26.800 So tomorrow you're going to learn 885 00:49:26.800 --> 00:49:28.720 how to be a top 5 percenter in the world. 886 00:49:28.720 --> 00:49:29.880 So excited about that. 887 00:49:29.880 --> 00:49:32.440 And we're to safely dump the stuff so that we don't, 888 00:49:32.440 --> 00:49:34.880 when we are squeezed, it's only God that comes out 889 00:49:34.880 --> 00:49:36.000 and not our gunk. 890 00:49:36.000 --> 00:49:38.360 So we're going to deal with that tomorrow. 891 00:49:38.360 --> 00:49:41.480 So any questions or anything anybody wants to share 892 00:49:41.480 --> 00:49:43.920 before I let you beautiful ladies go, 893 00:49:43.920 --> 00:49:46.000 I'll go to my next meeting and then 894 00:49:46.000 --> 00:49:47.400 see if I can get the recording out 895 00:49:47.400 --> 00:49:48.840 as quickly as possible for, 896 00:49:48.840 --> 00:49:49.920 in fact, it's great. 897 00:49:49.920 --> 00:49:52.120 Cause I've sent you the link with the recording. 898 00:49:52.120 --> 00:49:53.320 So all I've got to do is, 899 00:49:53.320 --> 00:49:54.600 I don't have to worry about the email. 900 00:49:54.600 --> 00:49:56.960 I just need to get it into that drop box for you 901 00:49:56.960 --> 00:49:58.720 so that it's there and you can, 902 00:49:58.720 --> 00:50:00.680 you're not waiting for me to send you. 903 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:04.160 an email, I'm feeling, see, that's an admin upgrade. 904 00:50:04.160 --> 00:50:05.440 We've just been talking about that, 905 00:50:05.440 --> 00:50:07.680 someone we're working on, my admin's not that flash, 906 00:50:07.680 --> 00:50:08.800 but I'm getting there. 907 00:50:08.800 --> 00:50:11.620 So that, see, because then you're not waiting. 908 00:50:11.620 --> 00:50:12.880 Any questions, team? 909 00:50:14.400 --> 00:50:16.220 I don't have a question, but I just wanna say 910 00:50:16.220 --> 00:50:19.840 that I have done this a few times with you, 911 00:50:19.840 --> 00:50:24.840 but it's so important to keep stacking and keep doing this 912 00:50:25.320 --> 00:50:27.440 because you come up with things all the time. 913 00:50:27.440 --> 00:50:29.860 So you don't ever think, oh, I've done that course, 914 00:50:30.500 --> 00:50:32.140 I don't need to do it again. 915 00:50:32.140 --> 00:50:35.500 No, because you learn every time, you know? 916 00:50:35.500 --> 00:50:39.100 I mean, I was doing four small groups with Brilliant, 917 00:50:39.100 --> 00:50:42.220 but every, it was the same thing, 918 00:50:42.220 --> 00:50:45.100 Free to the Spirit is the same session each week, 919 00:50:45.100 --> 00:50:48.880 but I was learning something different in all of them. 920 00:50:48.880 --> 00:50:51.780 So I just wanna encourage anyone 921 00:50:51.780 --> 00:50:53.860 who may be watching a recording, 922 00:50:53.860 --> 00:50:56.620 just do these, even if you've done it before, 923 00:50:56.620 --> 00:50:57.580 just keep doing it. 924 00:50:58.500 --> 00:50:59.980 And that's God. 925 00:50:59.980 --> 00:51:00.980 Thank you, Kerry. 926 00:51:00.980 --> 00:51:03.300 And thank you for showing it, you know? 927 00:51:03.300 --> 00:51:06.580 Because it is, it's glory to glory, to glory, to glory. 928 00:51:06.580 --> 00:51:08.820 And it's like reading the Bible. 929 00:51:08.820 --> 00:51:11.620 Like we get to read the Bible right here, right now, 930 00:51:11.620 --> 00:51:14.380 as we're together, and more comes out. 931 00:51:14.380 --> 00:51:17.300 And that's why he wants us to gather together. 932 00:51:17.300 --> 00:51:20.820 That's why community is so important 933 00:51:20.820 --> 00:51:24.660 because we reflect different things from different people. 934 00:51:24.940 --> 00:51:29.220 Because that, he wants his bride to look amazing. 935 00:51:29.220 --> 00:51:32.140 And so our job is to look after each other 936 00:51:32.140 --> 00:51:36.380 so that when he comes, we're like pumping, 937 00:51:36.380 --> 00:51:39.740 like we're just like so ready for him, you know? 938 00:51:39.740 --> 00:51:42.740 It's like, and yeah, I do, you know, 939 00:51:42.740 --> 00:51:45.100 I've done Free to the Spirit four times now myself, 940 00:51:45.100 --> 00:51:46.820 but at different times. 941 00:51:46.820 --> 00:51:49.860 And every time, you learn something new, you know? 942 00:51:49.860 --> 00:51:52.140 Every, I've done this every time, 943 00:51:52.140 --> 00:51:54.380 I get a different game, every time. 944 00:51:54.980 --> 00:51:57.620 And it's always, what blows my mind? 945 00:51:57.620 --> 00:52:01.300 It's always for the season that I'm in. 946 00:52:01.300 --> 00:52:03.100 It's always, right, here you go, 947 00:52:03.100 --> 00:52:04.860 this is your next step, Sal. 948 00:52:04.860 --> 00:52:07.900 Sal, I'm just pointing you in this direction right now. 949 00:52:07.900 --> 00:52:09.740 So just stay on this path. 950 00:52:09.740 --> 00:52:11.260 It's brilliant. 951 00:52:11.260 --> 00:52:13.220 Because then you don't get distracted 952 00:52:13.220 --> 00:52:15.700 by all the other fluff, it's nuts. 953 00:52:17.300 --> 00:52:20.220 So Father God, thank you for these beautiful women 954 00:52:20.220 --> 00:52:21.820 who have shown up today. 955 00:52:21.820 --> 00:52:23.380 Thank you, Lord, for all of those 956 00:52:23.380 --> 00:52:24.780 that are going to watch the recordings 957 00:52:24.780 --> 00:52:27.580 because it's either nighttime in the UK 958 00:52:27.580 --> 00:52:30.780 or they're at work right now, Lord. 959 00:52:30.780 --> 00:52:33.700 Just bless each and every one of them 960 00:52:34.540 --> 00:52:37.820 that they may feel your presence, 961 00:52:37.820 --> 00:52:41.740 know your perfect will for them and your love. 962 00:52:42.700 --> 00:52:46.900 And Lord, as we get to absorb all the beauty 963 00:52:46.900 --> 00:52:50.500 of who you are and how you are for us, 964 00:52:51.500 --> 00:52:55.500 let us be fountains, not drains. 965 00:52:55.500 --> 00:52:58.100 Let us flow in your spirit. 966 00:52:58.100 --> 00:53:00.580 Let us flow in your love 967 00:53:00.580 --> 00:53:04.780 and let us change the worlds around us. 968 00:53:05.740 --> 00:53:09.300 Because as we do that, I know you will come home 969 00:53:09.300 --> 00:53:11.780 because you are waiting for your people 970 00:53:11.780 --> 00:53:14.140 to cover the earth with your goodness. 971 00:53:14.140 --> 00:53:17.660 Oh, I can feel that, your kindness and your love. 972 00:53:17.980 --> 00:53:20.460 And so the more that we tune in, 973 00:53:20.460 --> 00:53:24.820 the more we get to do, the sooner you'll come. 974 00:53:24.820 --> 00:53:26.940 And I love that, amen. 975 00:53:30.780 --> 00:53:32.180 A little bit moved in. 976 00:53:32.180 --> 00:53:34.460 Right, have an amazing day. 977 00:53:34.460 --> 00:53:39.060 I'll see you, same time, same place tomorrow for day two. 978 00:53:39.060 --> 00:53:41.260 I love you, God bless, take care. 979 00:53:41.260 --> 00:53:42.100 Thanks, Tim. 980 00:53:42.100 --> 00:53:42.940 Bye.