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So hello, hello, hello and welcome back. Thank you for joining us live. For those of you

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who've got your guided worksheets, I hope you've had a chance to get them printed off

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or just you can, they're editable PDFs so you can tap them into the into the laptop

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too as you go. So whatever works best for you is great. And hopefully you've got yourself

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a cup of tea, cup of coffee, whatever, a glass of water, whatever it might be. I can see

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the cat in the back at least is getting herself all snuggled in. So that you're ready to just

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come and have some fun. Now, I won't actually show the screen in terms of we'll just share.

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But anyone had like, ah, I really thought about this from yesterday's training. So anything

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for anyone that went, hmm, I really watched my words or whatever it might be. Anything

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pop for anyone? I love the way I was paying more attention. Oh, I'm sorry. That's right.

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I'm paying attention like this morning with my grandkids, especially and so school just

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ended. I work at a school. And so we're done as of yesterday. And so it's a little easier

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to just be a little calmer and settled because I don't have to be up doing whatever. I'm

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just off now. So but you know, sometimes I get a little bit pushed and I'm not always

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as sweet with the grandkids as I'd like to be because we all live together. And it's

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like, but this morning was good. It just was just more calm and more. Let's pay attention

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to how we're how we're talking. And especially with my youngest granddaughter, I told her

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this morning we were talking and she was telling me about something that happened. And I said,

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well, always remember, just use kind words. So yay, yay. Actually, there's a bit of a

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testimony we did. So these guys actually hang out with me and Fruits of Spirit with Brilliant.

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And one of the ladies who who started doing Fruits of Spirit has never heard of Graham

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didn't know anything about any of his teachings and came last term, a grand grandmother. And

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she was always like, not that this is you, but, you know, she was always like this with

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her granddaughter. Her granddaughter was hurt and her granddaughter was struggling with

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things and her dad had gone away and she was living with them for a while. And but just

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working through the fruits, just working through kindness and goodness and coming back to her

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granddaughter with love. It's transformed their relationship, absolutely transformed

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their relationship. And it's like, oh, this is so good. So you're right. Just having that

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moment to just be present. And yes, end of terms, end of school, especially when you're

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teaching or involved in school, it's all on like it's full noise. And so you've got that

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double portion, you're hanging out with us and you're getting a chance to breathe, which

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is great. And to just, you know, by the God, help Lisa in this beautiful time that she's

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got to just really rest in you and be able to be who she's called to be. Just, you know,

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that's it's that breathing space to regroup, reset and go, right, OK, we've got this. So

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I love that. I love that. That's a lovely testimony to start with. Anyone else want

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to share? You don't have to, but if you would like to, anything you want to share from yesterday's

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training or just how you were following, kind of getting up and getting going in your day.

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Realize that something I sort of said to that last night, I know when he doesn't like

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something I've said, because he'll get up, make himself a coffee and sort of just remove

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himself from the conversation. But I was trying to encourage him, get him to to move.

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We don't have to sit and wait for for God all the time.

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And I use the the illustration that, you know, if you're looking for a job, you don't

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just sit back. And wait, you actually go for jobs and then God will give you, you know,

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so I'm trying to tell him, let's step out and, you know, and he didn't like it and.

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Just. Sometimes you've got even the words you use for other people, you know, sort of

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needs to sometimes suit them like it, it's a whole new ballgame, like we don't have to

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go into that, but it was like, OK, I understand he's not quite there with with that sort

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of conversation. So, but yeah, it's.

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It was really a, I hope now it's like.

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Yeah. And it's, Jesus met people where they were,

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not where he was, but where they were.

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And so I think that's another little, you know,

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it's a little shimmy with our words is we can see,

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and again, we can't read the label from inside the jar.

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So your dad's got no idea what you can see.

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You can see stuff that he can't see.

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All of us can see stuff in each other

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that we can't see for ourselves.

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And I believe it's like when we come together

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and we work in this scenario or whatever,

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and, but we've got to come with love and kindness

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and go, okay, I can see this.

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And I've got a scenario

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with my amazing bestest friend on the planet.

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I caught up with her yesterday and I've been praying

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because I'm like, because we chatted

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and we'd nutted some stuff out,

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but I couldn't go there with,

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you just want life the way you want it to be.

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of loggerheads with her husband's

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not quite fitting the mold she wants.

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And he's, you know, so it's just that ee, ee, ee, ee.

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And I'm like, okay, I'm going to have to pray about this.

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how, what do you want me to say to her?

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And how do I share it with her

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that she'll be able to receive what I've got to say

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without getting offended,

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without going and making a cup of coffee

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or whatever it might be, you know?

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it's having that relationship with God

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to be able to do that,

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but just choosing the words,

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just because I see it,

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doesn't mean to say I have to say it.

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doesn't mean that I should speak it

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until God has said, actually, this is how to share it,

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or this is, you know, whatever it might be.

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So it's an interesting journey,

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being aware of our words.

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Brilliant.

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I love it.

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Well done.

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And I know Amy was on fire yesterday.

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She got lots done in her personal life yesterday.

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So anything you want to share, Ames,

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or should we get cracking with the day?

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Yeah, no, it was good to get some stuff done yesterday.

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I have noticed

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things have dampened a little bit

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in regards with

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where my mind's going straight to at times.

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Around some of the old behaviours.

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And of course, when you start to take ground,

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so you're looking again,

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and God's given you,

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he gave you a beautiful revelation yesterday

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with the game that you played with him.

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So what's going to happen?

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You're going to get tested.

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So that's fine.

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We've got this.

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No, you are the weakest link.

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Goodbye.

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I'm going this way.

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And you're choosing,

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and that's what you did yesterday.

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I mean, this had been,

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this was before the coaching yesterday.

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You were having some tough stuff going on,

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and it was kind of,

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but you turned the corner.

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You went, nah, nah, I'm going to go this way.

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So yes, that old stuff is going to try and come back,

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but you're like, no, no, it's not who I am.

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I'm going this way.

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And you've got some beautiful words from God yesterday

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to encourage you to.

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So keep going.

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You've got this.

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You're going to get tested.

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You've got this.

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You made some massive progress yesterday,

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and you're really aware of,

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oh, it's because of this.

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It's because of this.

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It's because of that.

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Boom, right, there you go.

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Put it back into order.

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It was lovely.

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Alrighty, let's share the screen so we can get going.

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Oh, we don't need that bit.

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And what we've done today is key four.

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We've just done it verbally rather than writing it down,

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which you can do by all means,

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but it's the recap, review, and reflect.

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And so yesterday we looked at hearing his voice,

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the words have power, and the choice is yours.

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And all of you have just witnessed

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that you are making good choices.

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You are pausing, you are thinking,

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you are responding, not reacting.

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So even just from yesterday's training,

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all of you have got something out of that.

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And when I review, I look at the love.

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So the life, love, insight, freedom, and engagement.

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So what love?

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What did I notice that shifted in my heart?

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So for many of you, it may have been the pause button.

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What were the light bulb moments?

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Actually, if I come with kindness,

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it's going to allow us to connect, whatever it might be.

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And then freedom, what are the chains that have been broken

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that have set you free?

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And in Amy's case, there's some old lies

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that have tried to come back into her head.

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No, you are the weakest link, goodbye.

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No, I'm going to go this way.

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I'm going to get this done.

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I'm going to get this done.

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I'm going to do some things that I know bring me joy,

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not going back into the other space.

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And then engagement,

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how has this helped you deepen your relationships

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and connect with those around you?

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And straight away, Kerry's witnessed that,

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oh, hold on a minute, dad's gone off for his cup of tea.

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Okay, he's not ready for this conversation yet.

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That's okay, I can be patient.

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God's got all the time in the world, so have I.

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It's not my will, it's his will.

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he wants dad to come home.

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I'll just follow in what you asked me to do, Lord.

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I love it.

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oh no, you need to do this, you need, you know what?

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No, he doesn't just let it be.

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So well done.

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So you can write in there what it is for you

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that has popped for you so far.

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Give yourself a score out of 10

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and you know that I'm always an eight.

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I'm always ready for what the day has got to bring to me.

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And this morning I've managed to do

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another couple of chapters of my books

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in terms of recording it.

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So we're now at chapter 11, quite excited.

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I've got seven chapters to go

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and then the audio, we can start to put it together

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and get the audio book out, that'd be so cool.

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So I'm quite, again, quite excited

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because things are moving forward.

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Okie dokie, now big training today.

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These guys have heard it before, but it is just,

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you can't hear this more than like however many times.

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So we've got two concepts here.

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It's one concept, but I want to share it with you

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because I'm going to break it down.

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So ultimately, perfect love casts out all fear.

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That is what I'm breaking down today

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or unpacking rather than breaking down.

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I'm unpacking that today.

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So there are two concepts here,

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the empowerment dynamic, which is a book by David Emerald

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and the dreaded drama triangle,

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which was some incredible work done way back

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by Dr. Stephen Cartman.

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Now I promised you guys

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that you were going to live in the top 5%.

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You were going to be a top 5% by the end of today

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because the top 5% live in the empowerment dynamic.

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90 to 95% of the population

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live in the dreaded drama triangle.

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And the difference between the two is taking responsibility.

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That's it.

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So in the dreaded drama triangle,

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which is the stuff we put in the God box,

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I'm going to talk to you about that in a minute,

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we live in fear.

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And fear is false evidence appearing real.

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So it feels real, it looks real, but it's a lie.

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And it's the enemy's way of keeping us stuck, trapped,

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and not doing what we're called to do.

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And we can go between three points.

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We can be the victim.

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Oh my goodness, no one loves me.

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I haven't got enough money.

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I haven't got this.

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Oh my goodness.

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Whatever it might be, we can be the victim.

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And what we do is we take our hands off.

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And we go, oh, poor me, I'm so helpless.

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I can't do whatever it might, I can't.

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The moment we say I can't,

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we're putting ourselves into the victim's shoes.

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There is often a persecutor.

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And we can also be that persecutor.

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We can move into that space.

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When we're attacking somebody, oh, you have to do this,

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we've become the persecutor.

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But the persecutor can be a business, a system, a person.

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It can be lots of different things,

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but ultimately it's what is coming against you

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as you see it in that season or in that moment.

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So it could be somebody you're arguing with.

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It could be a business or a leader

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that isn't doing things the way you see it.

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And you're feeling like you're then a victim.

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So we can sit in these spaces at any time.

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And then the other one is being the rescuer.

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So we can sit in the, oh, let me do that for you.

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Let me, and actually the rescuer is a really masked coach.

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So a rescuer is let me take it away from you.

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I'm a caretaker, not a caregiver.

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So the rescuer is a caretaker.

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And what they do is they do it for you.

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Instead of showing you how to do it,

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they disempower you by doing it for you.

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If you can do it for yourself.

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So it's like, for example,

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if I was to tie my children's shoelaces

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when they're capable of doing it for themselves,

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I am taking the care away

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and they're not learning to do that for themselves.

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If I make the bed for them

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when they can make it for themselves,

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I'm disempowering them, I'm rescuing them.

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And I'm wanting life my way.

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I'm wanting to be in control.

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And that's what the Dreaded Trauma Triangle

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is all about, control.

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Every single person on here

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or every single one wants to be in control.

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Do you want to ask a question, Amy?

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I saw you put your finger up.

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Yeah, I'm not sure if this is relevant,

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but when you talk about the rescuer,

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the analogy I sort of get is give a man a fish.

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you can feed them for a day,

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teach them to fish, you can feed for life.

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That's right, because that's the one I use

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when I go into, which we're about to hop into,

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which is that's when you flip from the rescuer to the coach.

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You're absolutely right.

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But that's spot on, that's spot on.

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So we've got the dreaded drama triangle,

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all about fear, all about control,

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all about being less than.

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And what somebody noticed when I coached them

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with this analogy,

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look, if you were the victim down here,

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look how much weight is above you.

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Like you've got the, it's all weighty,

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it's heavy and it feels oppressive.

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Now, we don't have to stay there, thankfully,

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because God is about love

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and love is living out valour or courage every day.

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So we're new every morning,

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we get to live courageously every day.

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We get to walk.

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And if you look, this triangle has got a beautiful tip

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towards the creator.

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So it's light, it's easy,

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because the bulk is behind you, not ahead of you.

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So what we do here is we've got the creator,

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how can I, what can I do?

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How can I move forward?

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We've got the coach,

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is the person who is the caregiver.

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So they're the person that teaches you to fish,

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which is what Amy was talking about.

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And instead of being the persecutor,

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it becomes the challenge.

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What I love about the enemy is he's stupid.

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I love the fact that he's stupid

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and he is totally uncreative.

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He does the same thing,

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that accusing finger that he pointed at Jesus

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has not changed, that's his gig.

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So when we get,

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when we feel something comes against us,

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that against us,

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draw the drama triangle,

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it's actually for us

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because it's God pointing to our next upgrade.

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I think it's brilliant.

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And he lets the enemy point it out to us.

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I think when he says,

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consider it joy in all circumstances,

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he genuinely means it

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because there is always a promise attached to the problem.

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So the persecutor is the problem,

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the challenge is the promise.

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And so we get to choose what we look for.

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So ultimately the victim in this

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becomes the creator, how can I?

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Not I can't, but how can I?

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The persecutor or the problem

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becomes the promise, the challenge.

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Like, oh, how am I going to get my next upgrade now?

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This is brilliant.

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And the rescuer becomes the coach

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instead of caretaker,

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I'll do that for you, give you a fish.

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I become a caregiver, a coach.

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Let me show you how,

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let me show you how to fish

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and then you can eat the rest of your life.

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Brilliant.

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And we call this the great exchange.

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You can go, so Amy, bless her heart,

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has created some God boxes for me

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that are sold in the local bookstore.

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But ultimately you can use a tissue box

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and you can put all your rubbish in the tissue box

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and then ask God for the great exchange.

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I love it.

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And he gives you all the good stuff.

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So that's, and also we've got here,

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the victim is limited, God is limitless.

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He is endless, he is eternity.

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He's got more in his pocket

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than we could ever imagine.

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So I've got a quick whip here for you guys

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and I'm sure some of you have been

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writing in that already.

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So what I want you to consider right now,

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so key six, God box.

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We are now, I talked about the fact

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that you would have somewhere safe.

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Actually, before I go on,

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any questions on that concept,

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on how it works?

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You're all quiet, so I'm guessing you're good.

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So what we want to do,

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I feel good.

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Great.

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We're going to do the great exchange.

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And to do that,

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the first thing we need to do,

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be aware of the things that are false.

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There's false evidence appearing real,

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aware of the things that trip us up,

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aware of the things that we don't like,

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aware of the things that are coming against us.

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So what I'd like you to do

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is look up in there,

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just write down anything right now

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that's challenging you,

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that's coming against you,

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where you're a victim,

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where you're whatever it might be

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and get them down there.

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Because if we can write them in,

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we can then give them to God,

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which we'll do in a moment.

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So just take a moment to write down

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anything at the moment,

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unhelpful thoughts,

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unkind words,

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whatever it might be

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that is coming against you right now.

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All that you want to get rid of.

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Some of you are busy writing, some of you are thinking.

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Some of it could be we might want to get rid of some unhelpful thoughts

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or we might want to get rid of feeling tired or unmotivated.

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Too motivated.

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It is interesting, Kerry, what I have put in for me is falling into the busy trap.

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Sometimes we can get too busy doing before being.

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For me, I always have to keep resetting to rest.

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Going back in my evening routine to God, thanking Him for the day,

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thanking Him for all the stuff we have done,

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helping me plan so that there is space and time in my day that I can hang out with Him,

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I can have fun, and amongst all the other things I am doing.

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I am not running ahead of Him so I can get busy in life

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as opposed to being in the business of the Kingdom.

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It is just making sure I stay in that space.

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I hear you.

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Okey-dokey.

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Thank you.

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I was just going to say, I think sometimes that God gives me dreams at night.

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I have to sit there with Him in the morning and interpret it all

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and it doesn't get me.

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Everything else is pushed aside.

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It is like, you know, you are talking to me when we are doing this

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so I am going to keep giving you dreams.

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It is my rest at night.

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Good.

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You know what, that is not being busy.

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That is not.

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But it is good just to make sure.

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And it is.

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We want to be with Him in the morning.

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You know what, many of us would.

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I remember it wasn't that long ago when you said,

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Oh my goodness, I used to get dreams.

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I haven't had them for ages.

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I remember you saying that in the relatively recent past.

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And I love the fact now that you cherish them.

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You cherish them.

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You write them down.

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You interpret them.

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You are asking God.

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You are spending that time together.

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And that is precious time.

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It is exciting.

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You know?

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Right.

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Excellent.

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So what I would like you to do, anything that is on that list that is

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making you feel less than, I want you to release it to God.

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I want you to say, sorry, God, that I'm not achieving whatever it is.

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Help me.

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Help me, Lord.

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So I'm going to release right now, Father God, I am going to release.

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And in my case, lack of administration.

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letting my eyes deceive me and falling into the busy trap.

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I'm gonna release that and give that to you, Jesus.

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I'm gonna take my hands off my rubbish

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and I'm going to give it to you.

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And that's what I want you to do.

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I want you to declare this.

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You can put yourself on mute

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and just say it quietly in your own space or whatever,

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but tell Jesus that you are giving this to him.

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You're giving it back to God

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because Jesus paid in full for all of this.

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And there's a lovely story for those of you

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who may or may not be aware.

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I love repeating it because it just cracks me up

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where Graham Cook, who used to hang,

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like does, you know, has dreams.

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You know, like Kerry, has dreams.

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He's often in heaven with Jesus

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and he often has some really good chats up there.

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And then one day, and he's so used to going up

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and he said, they've got this like little tent

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that they hang out in.

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There's always good food there.

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They have a good chat, a good yarn.

516
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It's always great fun.

517
00:26:03.440 --> 00:26:04.760
And one day he's there

518
00:26:06.080 --> 00:26:08.440
and Jesus's face looks like thunder.

519
00:26:08.440 --> 00:26:13.040
And he's like, holy, what have I done?

520
00:26:13.040 --> 00:26:15.760
And he's like, oh, I think I'll just hide in this tent

521
00:26:15.760 --> 00:26:17.200
and then maybe Jesus will go away.

522
00:26:17.200 --> 00:26:18.920
Jesus doesn't go away.

523
00:26:18.920 --> 00:26:21.000
But, and so he walks over and he says,

524
00:26:21.000 --> 00:26:23.320
give me back what's mine.

525
00:26:24.280 --> 00:26:26.560
And Graham's like, oh my goodness, what have I done?

526
00:26:27.160 --> 00:26:29.360
What am I holding onto that belongs to you, Jesus?

527
00:26:29.360 --> 00:26:30.200
I love you.

528
00:26:30.200 --> 00:26:31.280
Like, what the heck?

529
00:26:33.000 --> 00:26:34.880
And he says, give me back what's mine.

530
00:26:34.880 --> 00:26:36.640
And he's, by this time he's crying.

531
00:26:36.640 --> 00:26:39.920
He's like, what have I taken of yours?

532
00:26:39.920 --> 00:26:44.920
Guilt, shame, anxiety, stress, worry,

533
00:26:46.000 --> 00:26:48.240
all the burdens of life in my case,

534
00:26:48.240 --> 00:26:50.000
not being, my lack of,

535
00:26:50.000 --> 00:26:52.400
not being on top of my administration,

536
00:26:52.400 --> 00:26:55.760
not being on, letting my eyes look at chocolate cakes

537
00:26:55.800 --> 00:26:57.320
and things and then eat them.

538
00:26:57.320 --> 00:26:59.040
That's really unhelpful.

539
00:27:00.080 --> 00:27:02.880
And then falling into the busy trap,

540
00:27:02.880 --> 00:27:04.360
getting into other people's lanes,

541
00:27:04.360 --> 00:27:07.560
being busy as opposed to being in the business

542
00:27:07.560 --> 00:27:08.480
of the kingdom.

543
00:27:09.760 --> 00:27:14.160
Jesus paid in full for all of your stuff

544
00:27:15.080 --> 00:27:16.600
and it belongs to him.

545
00:27:16.600 --> 00:27:19.040
So I want you right now, whatever you've written down

546
00:27:19.040 --> 00:27:20.960
and you can write more down later,

547
00:27:20.960 --> 00:27:22.280
I want you to release it,

548
00:27:22.280 --> 00:27:24.680
verbally tell Jesus,

549
00:27:24.680 --> 00:27:27.480
thank you that you paid in full for this.

550
00:27:28.680 --> 00:27:33.680
Lord, I'm giving you back the stuff that you paid for,

551
00:27:33.920 --> 00:27:35.360
that belongs to you.

552
00:27:37.120 --> 00:27:38.600
And I release it to you.

553
00:27:43.080 --> 00:27:45.280
And then you're going to write them down

554
00:27:45.280 --> 00:27:47.640
and stick them in a God box or a tissue box,

555
00:27:47.640 --> 00:27:49.120
or you're going to put them somewhere

556
00:27:49.120 --> 00:27:50.320
that is no longer yours.

557
00:27:51.200 --> 00:27:52.920
And when you do that,

558
00:27:52.920 --> 00:27:55.400
we're then going to ask for great exchange.

559
00:27:55.400 --> 00:27:56.760
Because what I love about Jesus

560
00:27:56.760 --> 00:27:58.600
is he doesn't leave that room empty.

561
00:27:59.920 --> 00:28:01.840
He's so cool.

562
00:28:01.840 --> 00:28:05.240
He gives us then what we need.

563
00:28:06.120 --> 00:28:08.840
We have to release it first to clear the room

564
00:28:08.840 --> 00:28:11.080
and then he can give us what we need.

565
00:28:14.080 --> 00:28:19.080
So give us a thumbs up when you've given it back to Jesus

566
00:28:19.480 --> 00:28:21.800
and you're ready to do the great exchange.

567
00:28:21.800 --> 00:28:24.040
Lisa's like, yeah, I'm so ready.

568
00:28:25.600 --> 00:28:28.160
I think it's funny that when I got sick,

569
00:28:29.280 --> 00:28:31.000
so that I didn't have to walk over to the house

570
00:28:31.000 --> 00:28:31.840
with my rubbish,

571
00:28:31.840 --> 00:28:34.760
dad put the wheelie bin just outside my door.

572
00:28:34.760 --> 00:28:35.960
That's my God box.

573
00:28:35.960 --> 00:28:37.440
That's been my God box.

574
00:28:37.440 --> 00:28:39.320
It's like this massive big bin.

575
00:28:39.320 --> 00:28:41.240
It's like, yeah, it's like.

576
00:28:41.240 --> 00:28:43.640
Great, great.

577
00:28:43.640 --> 00:28:44.480
I love it.

578
00:28:44.480 --> 00:28:47.880
So you can throw whatever rubbish you want to put in there,

579
00:28:47.880 --> 00:28:48.840
but you know what?

580
00:28:49.600 --> 00:28:50.440
It is like the wheelie bin.

581
00:28:50.440 --> 00:28:52.600
It just goes, it's gone.

582
00:28:52.600 --> 00:28:55.200
And once the wheelie bin's been picked up,

583
00:28:55.200 --> 00:28:57.600
Jesus has just picked up your stuff, by the way,

584
00:28:57.600 --> 00:28:58.880
you can't take it back.

585
00:28:59.800 --> 00:29:02.680
The reason I use a tissue box or a God box

586
00:29:02.680 --> 00:29:07.680
is because what often happens is unintentionally,

587
00:29:07.880 --> 00:29:09.880
we pick that rubbish back up.

588
00:29:09.880 --> 00:29:13.360
We go and rummage in the flipping bin

589
00:29:13.360 --> 00:29:15.640
and start picking it back up again.

590
00:29:16.640 --> 00:29:18.080
Hmm.

591
00:29:18.080 --> 00:29:20.280
So the reason for the God box is you leave it

592
00:29:20.280 --> 00:29:23.680
and you are only allowed to think about that thought

593
00:29:23.680 --> 00:29:25.200
or do that thing.

594
00:29:26.200 --> 00:29:27.760
If you think you're bigger than God,

595
00:29:27.760 --> 00:29:30.280
in which case, take a piece of paper out the God box

596
00:29:30.280 --> 00:29:31.200
and have it back.

597
00:29:32.800 --> 00:29:36.800
But the reality is I just use it as a physical idea.

598
00:29:36.800 --> 00:29:39.520
So that's like when you think, no, no, it's in the God box.

599
00:29:39.520 --> 00:29:40.960
No, I've left it with God.

600
00:29:40.960 --> 00:29:42.560
No, I've left it with God.

601
00:29:42.560 --> 00:29:43.480
I'm going to do this.

602
00:29:44.240 --> 00:29:46.920
It's a physical thing that just helps you see

603
00:29:46.920 --> 00:29:48.840
or leave it where you need to leave it.

604
00:29:49.840 --> 00:29:53.560
And so, key seven, now's the fun stuff.

605
00:29:54.440 --> 00:29:55.600
We've got rid of the fear.

606
00:29:55.600 --> 00:29:57.200
We've got rid of the dreaded drama triangle.

607
00:29:57.200 --> 00:29:58.680
We've got rid of all that stuff.

608
00:29:58.680 --> 00:30:00.000
We're giving it back to Jesus.

609
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.080
Now I go, come on, Jesus,

610
00:30:02.080 --> 00:30:04.600
what have you got for me in exchange?

611
00:30:04.600 --> 00:30:07.840
And this is about living out valor or courage every day.

612
00:30:07.840 --> 00:30:09.240
But what I want you to consider,

613
00:30:09.240 --> 00:30:10.080
and I want you to write down now,

614
00:30:10.080 --> 00:30:11.560
I want you to ask God,

615
00:30:12.400 --> 00:30:13.240
okay, God,

616
00:30:14.440 --> 00:30:16.560
what are you gonna give me in exchange

617
00:30:16.560 --> 00:30:18.680
for the stuff that I've written down?

618
00:30:20.400 --> 00:30:21.720
What am I looking at?

619
00:30:21.720 --> 00:30:23.040
What can I claim?

620
00:30:23.040 --> 00:30:26.380
What can I hold onto that is noble, right, and true?

621
00:30:27.520 --> 00:30:29.400
What is the love you wanna give me now?

622
00:30:29.400 --> 00:30:32.320
So I want you just to take a moment to write that down.

623
00:30:33.560 --> 00:30:35.360
That's what you're gonna stick on your wall.

624
00:30:35.360 --> 00:30:36.980
That's what you're gonna put on your forehead.

625
00:30:36.980 --> 00:30:38.360
That's what you're gonna put on the mirror

626
00:30:38.360 --> 00:30:40.440
in the bathroom every time, you know,

627
00:30:40.440 --> 00:30:42.340
you go in there, whatever it might be,

628
00:30:42.340 --> 00:30:44.460
that's what you're gonna claim.

629
00:30:44.460 --> 00:30:46.920
So I'll just give you a moment or two to do that.

630
00:31:59.880 --> 00:32:01.240
I want you to do that.

631
00:32:01.240 --> 00:32:02.860
I want you to ask God,

632
00:32:02.860 --> 00:32:05.840
okay, God, what are you gonna give me in exchange?

633
00:32:05.840 --> 00:32:07.520
What am I gonna claim?

634
00:32:07.520 --> 00:32:08.960
What can I claim?

635
00:32:08.960 --> 00:32:12.600
What can I hold onto that is noble, right, and true?

636
00:32:12.600 --> 00:32:15.500
What is the love you wanna give me now?

637
00:32:15.500 --> 00:32:18.320
So I want you to take a moment to write that down.

638
00:32:18.320 --> 00:32:19.920
That's what you're gonna put on your wall.

639
00:32:19.920 --> 00:32:21.460
That's what you're gonna put on your forehead.

640
00:32:21.460 --> 00:32:23.760
That's what you're gonna put on your mirror.

641
00:32:23.760 --> 00:32:25.480
That's what you're gonna put on your walkie-talkie.

642
00:32:25.480 --> 00:32:27.800
That's what you're gonna put on your phone.

643
00:32:27.800 --> 00:32:32.800
Thank you.

644
00:32:57.800 --> 00:33:00.800
Thank you.

645
00:33:27.800 --> 00:33:30.800
Thank you.

646
00:33:57.800 --> 00:34:00.800
Thank you.

647
00:34:27.800 --> 00:34:38.800
How are you getting on, team?

648
00:34:38.800 --> 00:34:41.800
Do you need a little bit more time?

649
00:34:41.800 --> 00:34:43.800
I'm good.

650
00:34:43.800 --> 00:34:44.800
You're good?

651
00:34:44.800 --> 00:34:45.800
Good.

652
00:34:45.800 --> 00:34:46.800
Okay.

653
00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:55.800
So this is now how you walk into your new identity.

654
00:34:55.800 --> 00:34:56.800
This is now your claim.

655
00:34:56.800 --> 00:34:59.800
Has everyone got something to claim?

656
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:13.600
in exchange. Okay, and how do you feel now sitting on that? Oh,

657
00:35:14.880 --> 00:35:17.480
I think I've just we haven't walked in it yet. So we're just

658
00:35:17.480 --> 00:35:21.360
sitting on that almost like a knife edge. It's like, Oh, got

659
00:35:21.360 --> 00:35:25.720
rid of that. I've got this I've got this that I can now claim as

660
00:35:25.720 --> 00:35:27.800
my inheritance. How are you feeling about that?

661
00:35:31.400 --> 00:35:38.680
lighter? Yeah. It's great. It's not. Yeah, it's like not. It's

662
00:35:38.680 --> 00:35:43.200
just not all my responsibility. And I don't have to. I have to

663
00:35:43.200 --> 00:35:46.200
by myself to begin with, which I know, but I don't always

664
00:35:46.200 --> 00:35:50.280
practice that as well as I should. Right. But it's, he's

665
00:35:50.280 --> 00:35:53.720
always got always there for me. So all these things that I drag

666
00:35:53.720 --> 00:35:57.160
around, it's like, No, that's, that's not even true. So

667
00:35:58.840 --> 00:36:01.560
celebrating you look, I'm going to give you one of God's little

668
00:36:01.560 --> 00:36:05.920
hearts. You know, celebrating you because you're absolutely

669
00:36:05.920 --> 00:36:09.880
right. And he says, Come all who are heavily laden, and I will

670
00:36:09.880 --> 00:36:15.040
give you rest. Because we carry the ball and chain, we carry the

671
00:36:15.040 --> 00:36:21.160
world stuff on our shoulders, without realizing. And it's

672
00:36:21.200 --> 00:36:25.720
like, Oh, okay. And the moment we give back to Jesus, what

673
00:36:25.720 --> 00:36:31.600
belongs to him, it's like, Oh, that's right. My yoke is easy

674
00:36:31.600 --> 00:36:38.160
and my burden is light. So good. Hey, like, it's crazy good.

675
00:36:39.720 --> 00:36:40.160
It is.

676
00:36:41.120 --> 00:36:45.200
I don't know about you. But for me, it goes from head. Because

677
00:36:45.400 --> 00:36:48.360
I didn't ever start in the head knowledge, God bless his heart,

678
00:36:48.360 --> 00:36:51.120
kept me out of church and religion and all that kind of

679
00:36:51.120 --> 00:36:55.960
stuff. So I'm relatively new in this space. And so it's all

680
00:36:55.960 --> 00:37:00.560
heart knowledge for me. And it's like, Come on, get your heart

681
00:37:00.560 --> 00:37:03.800
out, not your head, because your heart will inform your head to

682
00:37:03.800 --> 00:37:07.400
get your heart back out. Let's do this together. Let me let

683
00:37:07.400 --> 00:37:12.240
your heart and my heart be one. Let's do this together. And I

684
00:37:12.240 --> 00:37:16.600
just love the fact that he sews this into our hearts, that then

685
00:37:16.600 --> 00:37:20.080
informs our minds, which is why I wanted you to speak it out. I

686
00:37:20.080 --> 00:37:24.600
wanted you to speak out that you were giving that to God. Because

687
00:37:24.600 --> 00:37:28.360
then you release it, you release it to him. And it tells your

688
00:37:28.360 --> 00:37:38.160
brain, it's God's now not yours. Crazy, a crazy good. Okay, and

689
00:37:38.160 --> 00:37:44.600
then your job now going out from here is to read this to

690
00:37:44.600 --> 00:37:48.800
yourself, every moment of every flippant day that you need to

691
00:37:48.920 --> 00:37:52.920
until it's in that beautiful head, head of yours, it's gone

692
00:37:52.920 --> 00:37:56.720
from your heart to your head. And it becomes your new normal

693
00:37:57.520 --> 00:37:59.360
kingdom normal. Does that make sense?

694
00:38:02.160 --> 00:38:02.480
Yes.

695
00:38:03.520 --> 00:38:06.640
Amy's like, Oh, I need to really think about this. I can see the

696
00:38:06.640 --> 00:38:09.880
expression on her face. She's like, Oh, really grapple with

697
00:38:09.880 --> 00:38:15.720
this. Does anybody want to share what they exchanged? So what

698
00:38:15.720 --> 00:38:19.800
they've given back to Jesus? And then what they've got in return?

699
00:38:20.600 --> 00:38:22.440
Does anybody want to share one of those?

700
00:38:26.360 --> 00:38:28.840
I'll share a lot of it because I also have a question.

701
00:38:29.240 --> 00:38:30.760
Great. Love that.

702
00:38:31.760 --> 00:38:40.080
Um, so, um, some of the stuff God sort of told me was like,

703
00:38:40.800 --> 00:38:47.240
you know, you're beautiful, strong enough, always loved and

704
00:38:47.240 --> 00:38:56.000
never alone. And that also in regards to one of the old habits,

705
00:38:56.640 --> 00:39:03.360
which I'll be vulnerable and brave and self arm. Um, it sort

706
00:39:03.360 --> 00:39:08.680
of left me feeling not so great, because what he had to say about

707
00:39:08.680 --> 00:39:12.280
that was, you know, I live in you and hurting yourself is

708
00:39:12.280 --> 00:39:21.720
hurting me. And I was a bit like, okay, don't know where to

709
00:39:21.720 --> 00:39:22.640
go from that.

710
00:39:22.840 --> 00:39:26.320
What I get straight up, thank you for being so open and honest,

711
00:39:27.200 --> 00:39:30.800
is that how great is your God?

712
00:39:34.600 --> 00:39:41.800
What I love, what I feel or sense he's telling you is to keep

713
00:39:41.800 --> 00:39:45.520
your eyes on him, not on ourselves and our flesh. Keep

714
00:39:45.520 --> 00:39:49.680
your eyes on the Holy Spirit, keep your eyes on God. Because

715
00:39:50.080 --> 00:39:53.680
he loves you, because he loves you, because he loves you. And

716
00:39:53.680 --> 00:40:00.000
that because you love God, you love him.

717
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:07.200
and you do love him and he's probably the one you love the most. He's encouraging you to

718
00:40:08.320 --> 00:40:16.800
lean into that and lean into him because as you do that he will literally put his arms around you

719
00:40:16.800 --> 00:40:24.560
and those other thoughts will go away. Because you honour him more than you do yourself right now

720
00:40:25.520 --> 00:40:30.800
but he wants to bring you together because you are together, he does live inside of you,

721
00:40:30.800 --> 00:40:34.480
it's actually so intimate and so everything that we do

722
00:40:36.560 --> 00:40:43.440
we've got to realise that if we, our bodies are a temple, like our bodies are a temple

723
00:40:43.440 --> 00:40:48.080
like and I'm still working on that because you know I love chocolate um you know it's like

724
00:40:48.080 --> 00:40:56.720
I you know I've done I've done like I've and it's in that whole journey and eyes for me

725
00:40:56.720 --> 00:41:03.840
is the battle I'm in at the moment. So Amy's battle is in her thoughts and again she'll

726
00:41:03.840 --> 00:41:07.680
see something or she'll think of something and it will take her down an unhelpful route.

727
00:41:08.240 --> 00:41:14.480
I will see a nice chocolate brownie or I will see

728
00:41:16.400 --> 00:41:20.640
some chocolate chip cookies that I've made for hockey and the boys are eating them

729
00:41:20.640 --> 00:41:23.920
and I will see them and go oh I'd quite like that

730
00:41:26.400 --> 00:41:33.440
and God said no you've got to keep your eyes. Where are we going with this? I've given you

731
00:41:33.440 --> 00:41:39.520
and you Amy, both of us, we have already been blessed with the spirit of self-control.

732
00:41:41.200 --> 00:41:48.400
That's not us, it's not in our strength, he's given it to us for us to claim

733
00:41:51.360 --> 00:41:57.680
and it comes from the spirit, not from the flesh, it comes from God, not from earth

734
00:41:57.760 --> 00:42:03.920
and so when we look towards him, when we claim our inheritance, when you claim I am beautiful,

735
00:42:03.920 --> 00:42:08.880
I am chosen, I am loved, whatever you wrote down on your piece of paper that he gave you

736
00:42:08.880 --> 00:42:14.640
in exchange, you have to have it written on your foreheads every time you're going

737
00:42:14.640 --> 00:42:19.920
you know go to the toilet or whatever, you know you go into your bathroom, you can see it

738
00:42:20.880 --> 00:42:25.040
or stick it on your kitchen doors or whatever, every time you have a cup of tea it's right

739
00:42:25.280 --> 00:42:31.600
in front of you, I'm beautiful and you know what, let it sow into your heart, not head, heart

740
00:42:33.840 --> 00:42:41.840
because that will shift your head, does that make sense? But it is scary, it is like and then you go

741
00:42:41.840 --> 00:42:47.120
oh you know every time I eat a chocolate biscuit, I'm disrespecting God, you know or whatever it

742
00:42:47.120 --> 00:42:52.720
might be, you know like and it sounds but it's like actually that's where I'm going to go,

743
00:42:53.200 --> 00:42:58.640
but it's like actually that's where I've got to be, I have got, if I want to be more Jesus like

744
00:43:00.000 --> 00:43:06.080
I need to honour him in everything, not just in some bits but Jesus bless his

745
00:43:06.080 --> 00:43:10.640
heart knows we're all stuffed and so he just takes us one step at a time

746
00:43:13.040 --> 00:43:20.240
and you have been in such a good space, do not let that little flipping toad get anywhere near

747
00:43:20.240 --> 00:43:28.800
you right now, you know you've got so many tools and so many weapons to kick his backside so hard,

748
00:43:28.800 --> 00:43:36.320
he can't even sit here in the country, so use them because he's placed them already in your hands,

749
00:43:38.000 --> 00:43:44.080
so Father God I thank you that Amy shows up, I thank you that she's here, I thank you that you

750
00:43:44.080 --> 00:43:50.080
love her, I thank you that she's chosen, I thank you that she's beautiful and most of all I thank

751
00:43:50.080 --> 00:43:57.360
you Holy Spirit that you live in her and it's you that she can partner with that will give her the

752
00:43:57.360 --> 00:44:03.360
strength, that will give her the courage and actually Holy Spirit what I love most about you

753
00:44:04.880 --> 00:44:11.920
is that you are gentle, you are loving, you are kind, there's no retribution in this,

754
00:44:11.920 --> 00:44:17.840
that's the enemy's plan, it's all about compassion and empathy and love

755
00:44:19.840 --> 00:44:28.400
and so Lord just pour your love over Amy right now, overwhelm her with your love

756
00:44:29.680 --> 00:44:37.840
because just as we're talking about this, perfect love casts out all fear and you enemy can just get

757
00:44:37.840 --> 00:44:47.440
lost because God has got her, he loves her, he's for her and nothing can come against her

758
00:44:49.040 --> 00:44:56.320
because the God in you will always be bigger than anything else that comes against you.

759
00:44:58.960 --> 00:44:59.760
Amen.

760
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.760
Was that helpful?

761
00:45:03.760 --> 00:45:04.760
Yep.

762
00:45:04.760 --> 00:45:11.680
And that wake-up call, actually, that every time we do something that is out of line with

763
00:45:11.680 --> 00:45:16.640
his will, we're disrespecting him, is super helpful.

764
00:45:16.640 --> 00:45:24.840
Use it to help you focus, because that chocolate biscuit in the moment, or that thought in

765
00:45:24.840 --> 00:45:30.760
the moment, you feel rubbish afterwards.

766
00:45:30.760 --> 00:45:35.800
So what he's trying to show us is how to look on the other side, just keep going, just keep

767
00:45:35.800 --> 00:45:36.800
going.

768
00:45:36.800 --> 00:45:40.520
Tune into my spirit, tune into what I've given you.

769
00:45:40.520 --> 00:45:41.520
I've given you self-control.

770
00:45:41.520 --> 00:45:42.520
Make sense?

771
00:45:42.520 --> 00:45:43.520
Yep.

772
00:45:43.520 --> 00:45:44.520
Did you have been on fire?

773
00:45:44.520 --> 00:45:51.200
She walked into church last Sunday like a diva.

774
00:45:51.200 --> 00:45:55.660
She was like, honestly, I was like, who is this woman in front of me?

775
00:45:55.660 --> 00:45:56.800
So what's happened?

776
00:45:56.800 --> 00:46:00.640
You've been putting it out there, you've been taking ground, you've been doing your devotion.

777
00:46:00.640 --> 00:46:06.080
She's done 30 days of, well, she's doing 30 days of devotion, she's on 23 today, and so

778
00:46:06.080 --> 00:46:07.080
he's trying to take you out.

779
00:46:07.080 --> 00:46:08.080
No!

780
00:46:08.080 --> 00:46:09.080
Get lost!

781
00:46:09.080 --> 00:46:10.080
You are the weakest link.

782
00:46:10.080 --> 00:46:11.080
Goodbye.

783
00:46:11.080 --> 00:46:12.080
I'm getting on with the stuff God's given me to do.

784
00:46:12.080 --> 00:46:13.080
Thank you.

785
00:46:13.080 --> 00:46:14.080
Done.

786
00:46:14.080 --> 00:46:21.880
So you just focus on the brilliant things, and I'm expecting the diva to come back in

787
00:46:21.880 --> 00:46:22.880
on Sunday.

788
00:46:22.880 --> 00:46:23.880
No pressure.

789
00:46:23.880 --> 00:46:30.880
Done it once, I'd like to see it again, please.

790
00:46:30.880 --> 00:46:37.040
Honestly, that poor girl, you guys, you know, in the States, in Australia, you can get away

791
00:46:37.040 --> 00:46:38.480
from me.

792
00:46:38.480 --> 00:46:39.840
She's got no flipping hope.

793
00:46:39.840 --> 00:46:40.840
She's up the road.

794
00:46:40.840 --> 00:46:50.920
Everyone else can hide, Amy, you've got nowhere to, you know, God has such a sense of humour.

795
00:46:50.920 --> 00:46:56.560
He's like, I'm just going to put this random woman in your path and with your family, and

796
00:46:56.560 --> 00:47:02.280
you have got no get out of jail free card, because she can see you.

797
00:47:02.280 --> 00:47:03.280
Just as he can.

798
00:47:03.280 --> 00:47:06.880
And he sees you now, look at him, he's making you laugh, I love him.

799
00:47:06.880 --> 00:47:11.920
You know, he sees you, he loves you, he wants you to have fun and embrace life.

800
00:47:11.920 --> 00:47:16.320
So just, no, I'm going this way.

801
00:47:16.320 --> 00:47:17.600
Good lesson.

802
00:47:17.600 --> 00:47:23.040
Okay, anyone else want to share an exchange or something that they've got?

803
00:47:23.040 --> 00:47:24.040
Yeah, go Kerry.

804
00:47:24.040 --> 00:47:25.040
I do have an exchange.

805
00:47:25.040 --> 00:47:29.960
But first, Amy, when you walk into church on Sunday, you know where the cameras are

806
00:47:29.960 --> 00:47:30.960
going to go to the first one.

807
00:47:30.960 --> 00:47:31.960
I want to see you walk it in because I watch that church service.

808
00:47:31.960 --> 00:47:32.960
All right.

809
00:47:32.960 --> 00:47:33.960
You know where the cameras are.

810
00:47:34.580 --> 00:47:35.580
I want to see.

811
00:47:35.580 --> 00:47:36.580
I want to see.

812
00:47:36.580 --> 00:47:37.580
You will see me.

813
00:47:37.580 --> 00:47:38.580
I'm getting up and speaking.

814
00:47:38.580 --> 00:47:39.580
Woohoo!

815
00:47:39.580 --> 00:47:40.580
At the first service?

816
00:47:40.580 --> 00:47:41.580
Yeah, at both.

817
00:47:41.580 --> 00:47:42.580
Oh, isn't that interesting?

818
00:47:42.580 --> 00:48:03.180
Let me see, so you're about to get up on stage again and share the goodness of God.

819
00:48:03.740 --> 00:48:07.500
Oh, and you're having some unhelpful thoughts right now.

820
00:48:07.500 --> 00:48:10.220
Hmm, I wonder what that is.

821
00:48:10.220 --> 00:48:16.140
Oh, oh, that'll be you, you little toad, trying to stop me.

822
00:48:16.140 --> 00:48:17.140
Well, you know what?

823
00:48:17.140 --> 00:48:18.140
You can get lost.

824
00:48:18.140 --> 00:48:20.860
I've got work to do and it's for God.

825
00:48:20.860 --> 00:48:23.260
So out of the way, I'm going this way.

826
00:48:28.060 --> 00:48:29.060
Perfect.

827
00:48:29.060 --> 00:48:30.060
Perfect.

828
00:48:30.060 --> 00:48:31.060
I love it.

829
00:48:31.060 --> 00:48:32.060
Kerry?

830
00:48:32.580 --> 00:48:38.420
Oh yeah, my exchange, it was so involved in the dream, even had a part of it.

831
00:48:38.420 --> 00:48:40.500
So it's just been incredible.

832
00:48:40.500 --> 00:48:50.140
But basically, there was practically one thing that God said, exchange it with this, and

833
00:48:50.140 --> 00:48:51.900
that covers all of that.

834
00:48:51.900 --> 00:48:54.300
It's like, wow, yeah, yeah.

835
00:48:54.300 --> 00:49:03.060
So I said, oh, it was all about my co-creating, right?

836
00:49:03.060 --> 00:49:04.060
You know, co-creating.

837
00:49:04.060 --> 00:49:09.340
He says, you co-create with me, you've got the Holy Spirit in you.

838
00:49:09.340 --> 00:49:16.180
And I looked and I thought, that covers that, that covers that, covers that, covers that.

839
00:49:16.180 --> 00:49:28.060
So yeah, look, it's been a wild ride the last couple of days, because just knowing

840
00:49:28.060 --> 00:49:35.260
how the Holy Spirit is going to activate that creation with me, the creativity.

841
00:49:35.260 --> 00:49:41.540
And I actually, and I hope Dad really saw this, I did see his face sort of just, you

842
00:49:41.540 --> 00:49:45.140
know, he got up and moved over to his chair.

843
00:49:45.140 --> 00:49:52.820
As his mind was going, but yesterday I decided to write a chapter, and without him, because

844
00:49:52.820 --> 00:49:57.900
he likes to use all these software programs and stuff to write stuff for him, and I went,

845
00:49:57.900 --> 00:50:00.020
it's been just driving me nuts.

846
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.520
So I sat there and just started writing a chapter and I said, Dad, come and listen to this.

847
00:50:05.520 --> 00:50:12.960
And even I was wowed. I read it and I thought this was the Holy Spirit, this was not me.

848
00:50:14.400 --> 00:50:17.440
And he's just looking at me, he goes, where did you hear that from? I said, I just wrote it.

849
00:50:19.040 --> 00:50:26.000
And then the dream last night, it was about me writing a book and transcribing.

850
00:50:26.000 --> 00:50:30.480
It was actually transcribing, not just writing, I was transcribing. And I realized,

851
00:50:30.480 --> 00:50:34.160
and the whole, every time I woke up, it was Holy Spirit's doing, Holy Spirit's doing.

852
00:50:34.160 --> 00:50:41.120
And he gave me chapters three, four, five, six, seven, like, but it was not for the book,

853
00:50:41.120 --> 00:50:49.120
but each word, like five was John, like it was just John. But number five means grace and

854
00:50:49.120 --> 00:50:54.480
abundance. And John was the beloved and stuff. So, and he gave me three foreign words.

855
00:50:55.360 --> 00:51:01.120
As well, the chapters and just the whole translation, it was like, I was just mind

856
00:51:01.120 --> 00:51:08.320
blown. I logged on to this and I'm still, I was still sort of like, you know, but this is all

857
00:51:08.320 --> 00:51:15.040
just, it's just all intertwined. Plus the game yesterday, the hopscotch. Yeah, it's sort of.

858
00:51:15.920 --> 00:51:16.480
Having fun.

859
00:51:16.480 --> 00:51:27.840
Holy Spirit, we're on adventures with God because it's fun. It's an adventure. It's exciting.

860
00:51:27.840 --> 00:51:32.320
It's like, what treasure have you got for me today, God? You know, what are you going to

861
00:51:32.320 --> 00:51:37.680
show me today? Because every day is a new day and every day he wants to release something special

862
00:51:37.680 --> 00:51:45.280
within us. But you're right. The key is the Holy Spirit and the Holy Spirit lives in each one of us.

863
00:51:46.480 --> 00:51:51.200
That's time to go. And what I love about the kingdom and God is it's an inside job.

864
00:51:52.880 --> 00:51:59.040
Because he's inside of us. So it's an inside. It's nuts. And it's like we have nothing can

865
00:51:59.040 --> 00:52:06.560
separate us because he's inside us. Like, it's like, this is crazy. And we still go rushing off

866
00:52:06.560 --> 00:52:12.160
in our own strength. And then I often say God hasn't happened for a while. But he goes, I'm

867
00:52:12.160 --> 00:52:18.400
over here. And I'm like, Oh, okay, I'm coming back. Sorry. You know, like, because I've gone

868
00:52:18.400 --> 00:52:26.560
off doing it in my own strength. And the way that I know, instantly, is as I am I free in what I'm

869
00:52:26.560 --> 00:52:32.640
doing? Is this a pull motivation? Or am I trying to push in my own strength? There's a there's a

870
00:52:32.640 --> 00:52:39.040
real you learn to be aware of that. So but yeah, commissioning, co creating, co laboring, we don't

871
00:52:39.040 --> 00:52:45.440
do anything on our own. We do it with him in all moments. So for Amy, the moment she takes the eyes

872
00:52:45.440 --> 00:52:51.520
off the prize, when she's thinking about other things, that's not co laboring with him. That's

873
00:52:51.520 --> 00:52:56.240
not co creating with him. That's not going on a mission with him that's going on a mission with

874
00:52:56.240 --> 00:53:01.200
somebody else. And so it's and it's literally as black and white as that every time I eat a

875
00:53:01.200 --> 00:53:06.400
chocolate biscuit, I don't know I'm talking about chocolate biscuits today. But every time I go down

876
00:53:06.400 --> 00:53:14.880
that route. I'm not honoring God. I'm not making my body my temple. I'm making my flesh, my idol

877
00:53:15.440 --> 00:53:23.680
unhelpful. Anyway. So yeah, for all of us, whatever it is, it's the Holy Spirit. I love that. So keep

878
00:53:23.680 --> 00:53:29.200
tuning in because he's got you and you are tuning in because he's given you heaps to stay there.

879
00:53:29.200 --> 00:53:33.840
It's great. And Lisa, anything you want to share with us before we wrap this up?

880
00:53:34.720 --> 00:53:40.080
Yeah, one of the one of the big ones for me has been for quite a while is finances.

881
00:53:41.040 --> 00:53:50.640
And so it's just it's remembering who really is the provider, you know, and that I start from

882
00:53:50.640 --> 00:53:57.360
fullness. I don't I'm not trying to get to fullness and I need to get that. So it's also up here.

883
00:53:57.920 --> 00:53:58.960
So I don't have to be going.

884
00:54:01.760 --> 00:54:08.640
And it's like, no, he he knows and he's got all this stuff. And I became a brilliant ambassador.

885
00:54:08.640 --> 00:54:14.080
So I'm excited about what may happen there. And just, you know, who knows what he's going to do.

886
00:54:14.080 --> 00:54:18.960
But it's like, I just need to keep my eyes on him and go it's this isn't about me working harder.

887
00:54:18.960 --> 00:54:23.360
Or because I thought about, well, maybe I'll get a summer job. And then that's just I never have

888
00:54:23.920 --> 00:54:27.600
peace with that. And it's like, no, because what I want to do this summer while I'm off

889
00:54:28.400 --> 00:54:35.200
is get closer to him and just create routines that I also do as school starts again.

890
00:54:36.080 --> 00:54:43.200
Because, you know, when I go back to school, it's like, and but it doesn't have to be like that.

891
00:54:43.200 --> 00:54:50.880
And I love what I do. I get to work with special ed kids and I love it. So yeah,

892
00:54:50.880 --> 00:54:58.000
yeah, it's just putting things in place that will continue as I move through whatever the day brings.

893
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:03.360
him and I love that I love that you've released that and said actually I'm

894
00:55:03.360 --> 00:55:08.320
gonna give that back to you God because you said you'll be my provider you said

895
00:55:08.320 --> 00:55:13.240
that you would you know and it's lovely you've got so many scriptures about

896
00:55:13.240 --> 00:55:17.920
actually he's gonna provide for you actually you know seek me first and my

897
00:55:17.920 --> 00:55:22.320
righteousness and all things will be given to us including our finance and it

898
00:55:22.320 --> 00:55:28.960
is that flesh you know all of us it's the flesh spirit juggle it's that

899
00:55:28.960 --> 00:55:36.320
tension that we have and so all of us are in our own battles but the battle is

900
00:55:36.320 --> 00:55:40.780
never with each other the battle isn't it's always if we take it upstairs God

901
00:55:40.780 --> 00:55:46.720
will always give us the answers so well done ladies and you know Lisa you know

902
00:55:46.720 --> 00:55:52.520
ice we sit in that financial battle you know I have had to release the business

903
00:55:52.520 --> 00:55:57.360
to God I've had to release things to him you know and so it is it's like okay I'm

904
00:55:57.360 --> 00:56:02.960
just trusting you and you know what I am having the most fun in this season

905
00:56:02.960 --> 00:56:07.680
that I've ever had and for those of us that overseas we can't be ambassadors

906
00:56:07.680 --> 00:56:14.120
it's just for the US so it's great lean into that because you're passing such a

907
00:56:14.120 --> 00:56:19.120
blessing on to people you know the opportunity even if the only thing

908
00:56:19.120 --> 00:56:23.960
people did was have seven days with Graham bring it on you know but that's

909
00:56:23.960 --> 00:56:32.200
it costs nothing but yet if they've got the opportunity to go goodness this is

910
00:56:32.200 --> 00:56:37.440
like a whole new world then they'll lean in they get the blessing and so do you

911
00:56:37.440 --> 00:56:43.120
that's God's double portion which is the minimum so just yeah I encourage you to

912
00:56:43.120 --> 00:56:47.960
and share your testimonies you know Amy's been doing a daily devotional on

913
00:56:47.960 --> 00:56:53.760
her Instagram page or whichever pages they are and Facebook just to share who

914
00:56:53.760 --> 00:56:57.680
your journey share your journey around what Graham does for you or what

915
00:56:57.680 --> 00:57:01.360
brilliant does for you or I learned this today or if I hadn't been in brilliant I

916
00:57:01.360 --> 00:57:04.160
wouldn't have had this connection I've just been on adventures with God or

917
00:57:04.160 --> 00:57:08.640
whatever it is but because what you'll do is when you share it people will

918
00:57:08.640 --> 00:57:13.120
start picking it up and then when you go oh and if anybody's interested you can

919
00:57:13.120 --> 00:57:17.080
get a you know but build the relationship first share what it's doing

920
00:57:17.080 --> 00:57:21.360
for you and then people will start asking you you won't even have to people

921
00:57:21.360 --> 00:57:26.000
will start coming to you how did you end up sorting this out how did you why

922
00:57:26.000 --> 00:57:30.800
are you oh my goodness they'll see the change in you and that change will be

923
00:57:30.800 --> 00:57:35.600
what brings you know what brings it so we just take that I love it we've got

924
00:57:35.600 --> 00:57:40.560
about three minutes just bear with I'll quickly share this so what I would like

925
00:57:40.560 --> 00:57:45.720
you guys to do is just consider out of today's training you know we've just

926
00:57:45.720 --> 00:57:50.920
done how to reflect review recap understanding the dreaded drama triangle

927
00:57:50.920 --> 00:57:54.880
versus the empowerment dynamic because we want the empowerment dynamic putting

928
00:57:54.880 --> 00:57:59.280
the God box getting rid of the old baggage safely rather than dumping it on

929
00:57:59.280 --> 00:58:03.760
other people and getting cross we can give it to God and then exchanging it

930
00:58:03.760 --> 00:58:10.000
letting Jesus fill you up so what activation do you want to do from

931
00:58:10.000 --> 00:58:15.480
today's session how do you want that to show up for you so just put a couple of

932
00:58:15.480 --> 00:58:23.800
things in there I'm gonna read my new declarations that he's just given me

933
00:58:23.800 --> 00:58:31.600
over those situations and I might even print them off to be honest print them

934
00:58:31.600 --> 00:58:39.360
off and put in put by my cup of tea put by the kettle because I'll put them by

935
00:58:39.360 --> 00:58:44.200
the kettle I can read them while the kettles boiling so I'm add immediately

936
00:58:44.200 --> 00:58:50.440
habit stacking where can I put these in my face that I will see them two or

937
00:58:50.440 --> 00:58:55.200
three or four times a day so I can get those reps in so I can just read them

938
00:58:55.200 --> 00:59:04.080
for now and get it plugged in and then again for me some of you know I coach on

939
00:59:04.080 --> 00:59:07.280
evening and morning routines so getting back in you know making sure that I

940
00:59:07.280 --> 00:59:12.720
focus on my evening and morning routine which is where I do the reflection and

941
00:59:12.720 --> 00:59:18.440
stuff like that so just whatever it is for you and then how do you feel now as

942
00:59:18.440 --> 00:59:24.760
you're going out of this session do you feel motivated do you feel thoughtful

943
00:59:24.760 --> 00:59:29.600
you know what is it that you feel I'm a nine out of ten I've got to go and put

944
00:59:29.600 --> 00:59:38.280
my tennis shoes on because that's the next that's the next venue for me

945
00:59:43.720 --> 00:59:48.120
and while you're just writing those in the things I'd like you to remember is

946
00:59:48.120 --> 00:59:51.720
the choices we make determine the directions our lives take and the people

947
00:59:51.720 --> 00:59:58.080
we become you're going to get to make some really good choices today and if

948
00:59:58.080 --> 01:00:01.960
need be keep offloading

949
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:05.600
the old baggage as it comes up during the day today or tomorrow or whatever you know and place

950
01:00:05.600 --> 01:00:11.680
it where it belongs in the God box. Give it back to Jesus and keep exchanging it for your new

951
01:00:11.680 --> 01:00:20.000
luggage so it can come up all the time but the whole of heaven is available to you. Claim it.

952
01:00:20.000 --> 01:00:28.800
And then for day three we're going to look at, we're going to do a really fun exercise

953
01:00:29.920 --> 01:00:33.840
and I've done it two or three times and it's amazing what God has given me each time it's

954
01:00:33.840 --> 01:00:39.360
been crack up. So what have you got to offer that's uniquely you to the world,

955
01:00:39.360 --> 01:00:42.560
the reason you're on this planet? We're going to find out your zoner genius

956
01:00:43.360 --> 01:00:47.680
and potentially how to achieve more in your school holidays perhaps Lisa,

957
01:00:47.680 --> 01:00:51.360
you know in the next 10 weeks than you did in the last 10 months because there's some

958
01:00:51.360 --> 01:00:55.680
things that we can share and we're to find tribe because that's where we want to stay connected.

959
01:00:56.880 --> 01:01:02.720
So any questions before I pray you guys out and let you get on with the one to three

960
01:01:02.720 --> 01:01:08.960
things you've just put on your list? You're all good? I want chocolate then,

961
01:01:08.960 --> 01:01:15.680
you shouldn't have kept mentioning it. Sorry, sorry, unhealthy. That's okay I'm just testing

962
01:01:15.680 --> 01:01:19.360
you to see how well you'll get on with your flesh, you know the spirit over the flesh.

963
01:01:19.360 --> 01:01:23.120
You just hang out with the Holy Spirit and there's your test for today. You and me both.

964
01:01:23.680 --> 01:01:29.120
Thanks. I love it. So Father God we thank you for these beautiful ladies that have turned up

965
01:01:29.120 --> 01:01:34.240
today and showed up and been able to be here. We bless those that are actually watching the replay,

966
01:01:34.240 --> 01:01:37.280
you know I know Vanessa is going to be watching it, Andy there's a few that are going to be

967
01:01:37.280 --> 01:01:42.320
watching the replay. So Lord we just bless all of those watching the replay but we just thank you,

968
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we thank you for this time together, we thank you for your wisdom, we thank you for your insight,

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we thank you that you say do not fear because I've overcome the world and I love the fact that we

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don't have to fear because you've overcome the world and you live in us. It's brilliant. I just

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think that's nuts. So thank you Lord that you paid in full for all anxiety, all stress, all worry,

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whatever it might be and we just release that to you because it's yours, it's your stuff and we

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thank you for the great exchange, we thank you for your love, we thank you for your wisdom, we thank

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you for your insight, we thank you Holy Spirit for all the fruit that you have given each one of us

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that is ripe and ready to go so that we can claim it. So I just say thank you, thank you, thank you,

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thank you Lord for this group, for these people, for those walking with us and for our families

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and I bless each one of them today and always in Jesus name. Amen.

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Love you all ladies and we will look forward to seeing you same time, same place tomorrow.

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Have fun. God bless each of you. Take care. Bye.