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Welcome, friends, to Halftime Shift, Halftime Reset, whatever you want to call it.

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We're going to go after the next five and a half months of 2025 together as a community.

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Gentlemen, you will have a chat group after tonight that is titled Halftime.

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And ladies, you also will have a chat that is titled Halftime.

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So if you really want to be in this to win it, you want accountability, I really want

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to encourage you to join that chat.

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You don't have to.

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You can take what you want from tonight.

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You can leave the rest.

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But if you want to really go after what we're going to be teaching tonight, which I really

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believe that Holy Spirit is speaking to us about this, then we're going to have an accountability

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portion of this, okay?

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So I'm excited about it.

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You guys, yesterday was my half birthday.

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So yesterday was my half birthday, and exactly six months from yesterday, I will be 51 years

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old.

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So I have six months left of my 50th year of life, and we have a little less than six

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months left of 2025.

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I obviously was born in January, and so that's why my birthday and the end of the year coincide.

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They're very close together.

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And so I have six months left of my 50th year, my jubilee, as they say, although I'm declaring

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a whole decade of jubilee.

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Let's go.

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All of my 50s, all right?

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But then we have a little less than six months.

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I think June 2nd was halfway through the year.

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All right, a little less, a little less than six months, okay?

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David taught a really good session a couple Sunday nights ago.

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It was called What Do You Want?

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So please raise your hand if you were there for that.

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All right, quite a bit of you were there for that.

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That's great.

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So we're going to start with the work that you did during that session.

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And if you weren't at that session, you can go watch the replay.

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It's in your replays, but also you can jump in tonight because you were supposed to really

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be prayerful about what do I want to achieve, accomplish, end, begin, get settled, get passed,

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you fill in the blank before the end of 2025.

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That is what you were supposed to drill down on.

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It can't be 15 things, you guys, sorry.

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And I'm just going to tell you right now, if you decide to do more than just a couple

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things, to focus on more than just a couple things, you're going to fail at everything.

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Somebody needs to hear that.

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Part of the reason why you're not successful in life is because you're very distracted.

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You're very scattered.

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You're very unintentional.

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You try to do too many things at once.

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You pride yourself on being a multitasker, but all you are is a procrastinator.

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That's really what it is, okay?

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You decide to do all these things at one time.

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You start out with a vigor and then you give up because there's no such thing as doing

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all of those things at the same time.

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There isn't.

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So that being said, is it possible that you focus on one or two things that you really

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feel like God is highlighting to you?

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And then by proxy, a couple other things have tipping points and actually get accomplished

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as well, sure.

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But that is the overflow of the work that you're going to do.

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That's the overflow.

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And so God can do stuff like that.

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He definitely can multiply our effort.

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In fact, we're counting on it, aren't we?

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We're counting on him to multiply our effort.

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But I want you to have one to two things, especially if they don't go together, okay?

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Like for instance, if you would tell me, hey, I'm really going to work on really getting

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healthy and losing weight.

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Those two things go together, right?

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So yeah, one's going to be a natural byproduct of the other probably.

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And so cool.

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That's awesome.

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But if you tell me that you are going to work on changing careers and work on, I'm trying

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to think of something that would be big, hairy, audacious, oh, completing a foster care program

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and adopting children, I would say, oh, hey, you know, I don't think those two things go

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together.

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I think that you're probably biting off more than you can chew just for five and a half

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months, right?

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Especially if you're trying to change careers, because you're not going to look that responsible

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on paper to the social service agencies, are you?

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You're going to look a little bit tran, a little bit in transition.

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which you would be in transition, and that's fine.

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Seasons of transition are great, they're wonderful,

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as long as they lead somewhere better.

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I'm gonna say that again.

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Seasons of transition are supposed to lead somewhere better.

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And so if you're constantly in transition,

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but then after the transition's over,

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you find yourself somewhere else,

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besides where you wanna be,

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then that wasn't a transition.

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Not, at least not the right kind of transition.

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Okay, we wanna be moving forward.

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We wanna be gaining ground, not losing ground.

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That's really important.

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But for some of us,

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we might have to go back a little bit to go forward.

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There might be some things that we didn't do

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that God asked us to do.

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There might be some things that we didn't deal with

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that God asked us to deal with.

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And because of that, we're actually,

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I don't wanna say behind,

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because God can catch you up in a heartbeat

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when you come to him in repentance

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and finally are willing to do the work.

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But just case in point,

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I'm coaching a couple right now, pre-marital coaching,

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that actually met 15 years ago.

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They were actually introduced by me 15 years ago.

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And they became really good friends.

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We had a friend group and they became really good friends.

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They were singles in that friend group.

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So they became friends.

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They did a lot of things together.

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But they never were able to get to the next level

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with each other because they kept getting distracted.

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They kept running off on other endeavors.

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They kept getting into other relationships

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that were really unhealthy,

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which showed where their heart was.

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It was really in an unhealthy place.

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And then they would revisit the idea of being together

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and then they couldn't get past the obstacles

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inside of their own heart.

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Remember friends, I tell you

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that you're never stuck on the outside,

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you're only stuck on the inside.

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Now I knew from the very beginning

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that they were really good match

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and I really hope to see them together

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because both of them are my friends

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and I really enjoy and love both of them

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and I love them together.

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But you cannot make people do the work

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that they're not willing to do.

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And I really want someone to hear what I'm saying right now.

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You could be delaying your promises

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because you're just really not willing to do the work

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that you need to do.

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And I'm not just talking about heart work.

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Although heart work is entangled

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and weaved into everything that we do

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because we're not stuck on the outside,

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we're stuck on the inside.

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But there's all kinds of different mindsets,

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belief systems, programming

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that you're not willing to let go of.

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So that's more of the heart work and the mind work.

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But then also, you're not willing to let go

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of certain things that you need to let go of.

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when you really need to move.

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Your life is not thriving and you know you need to do it

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but you're not willing to do it.

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And you're just afraid of what's on the other side

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of obedience and so you're never really truly,

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fully obedient because you're worried

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about what's on the other side of it.

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You don't fully trust that God transition

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because you know that it may be hard

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but it's really harder to stay where you are in life.

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And I will tell you that these people

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could have been happily married

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for probably over a decade now

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had they surrendered a lot sooner.

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And if that sounds kind of scary to some of you,

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then so be it because I don't want you to feel afraid

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but I do want you to feel sobered by that idea

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that you possibly are the thing that's in your own way.

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And 99% of the time that is true,

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in some way, shape or form.

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So really be open to God in this season

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because we're having lots of full circle moments.

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And I believe that all of you are scheduled

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for a full circle moment.

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I don't think that it's for just a few people.

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I think it's for everybody.

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And not necessarily about romance

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but about something that when the opportunity

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presented itself, however long ago it was,

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you just weren't ready for it.

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You weren't.

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You weren't willing to surrender.

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You weren't willing to change.

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You weren't willing to take the risk.

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You weren't willing to let go or grab a hold.

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Whatever it was, you just weren't willing

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to do whatever needed to be done

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in order to take advantage of that opportunity.

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But perhaps now you are.

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And here's the thing.

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And this is the thing that should sober you.

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If you're not willing this time around,

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it will come around again.

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And the thing that I'm trying to get you,

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it won't look the same probably.

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It'll be different, maybe different people,

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maybe dressed differently as far as on the outside

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of the opportunity.

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But it'll be the same thing, just in different packaging.

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And the thing that I really want for you

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and I want for myself is that we would be ready this time.

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That we'd be ready this time.

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That we would be willing to allow God to teach us,

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show us, heal us, grow us.

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It reminds me of the story of the spies

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going into the promised land.

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coming back and they were showing that,

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hey, we're not ready for this upgrade.

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Because of their language,

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because of their mindsets,

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because of their perspectives,

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there were a few that were ready,

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Caleb and Joshua, but the rest of them, they weren't.

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They caused the people to not be ready either

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because of the rumors and because of

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the negative perspective and all the different things.

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There was a lot of wandering and

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wondering that didn't need to happen.

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Because God's promises for you are always going to stretch you.

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You're not going to really ever feel ready for them.

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Someone needs to hear that. You're really

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not going to ever feel ready for them.

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If that is why you continue to say no to opportunity,

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then you're never going to be any more ready.

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This couple that I'm talking about,

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it's no less scary.

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They're finally ready to do the work.

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They're finally willing to do the work.

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It's not about ready, they're willing to do the work.

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But it's no less scary than it would have

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been five years ago, eight years ago,

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10 years ago, 15 years ago.

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The work that they would have had to do then,

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they're still going to have to do now.

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Do you see how it just doesn't change?

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I really want to encourage you that we don't want

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to wait for it to come full circle again.

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The word for 2025 is full circle.

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Regardless of what it looks like on the outside,

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I believe that a lot of you are going to have

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missed opportunities coming back around for different things.

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Once again, it doesn't have to have the same details,

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but it's going to be the same promise.

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And I really want to see you step into it this time.

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I want to see me step into it this time.

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I'm not just talking to you, I'm talking to me.

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And so let's not make God wait on us.

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So many people in waiting rooms thinking

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they're waiting on God.

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It's just really not true.

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There's always something ripe and ready for you.

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The question is, are you ready for it?

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Are you ready to take the chance?

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Are you ready to let go of your ego?

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Are you ready to say you're sorry?

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Are you ready to forgive?

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Are you ready to put the past behind you?

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Are you ready to try again, even though you failed before?

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Are you ready?

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I hope so.

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Because I believe that God needs us more than ever before

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stepping into the things that he has promised us,

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shown us, prophesied over us.

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More than ever before, he needs us in those spaces.

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Because we can't grow until we get there.

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We can't start to grow into those things

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until we put them on.

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You know, your daddy has bought you clothes

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that are a little bit too big for you

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because he wants you to grow into them.

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And it's important that we go ahead and put them on now.

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So we're gonna do that with this halftime shift.

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And the whole purpose of this is to help you

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take inventory of your life and get intentional.

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That's the whole purpose of this exercise.

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Let's take inventory of our lives and get intentional.

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So here's the very first thing that I want you to,

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let's pray.

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Father God, I thank you for all of your sons and daughters

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that are here tonight.

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I thank you that we have hearts that are towards you

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that really want to step into the things

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that you have promised us

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and that you have predicted over us

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all the way back to our mother's womb,

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all the way back to the foundation of the earth.

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The stories that you've written about us,

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we want to star in those stories in this season.

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And so help us to be made willing in your day of power.

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Your word says that we will be made willing

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in your day of power.

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And so I pray God that we'd be made willing,

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that we would not allow ourselves to be controlled by fear.

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We would not say another time, another day, when I'm ready.

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We would not use that language anymore,

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but that we would have an urgency to allow you

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to mature us quickly as we step into the things

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that we do not feel ready or qualified to do.

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And so Lord, I pray that a supernatural confidence

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would come over your children in Jesus' name, amen.

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All right, so the very first thing we're gonna do

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is we're gonna take inventory, all right?

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It's halftime, we're in the locker room.

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We're gonna look at the first half of the game,

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the first six months.

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This is what they do in the locker room

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if you've never played a sport.

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This is what we do at halftime.

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Yeah, I used to play sports.

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What we do at halftime or what we do when we're on a timeout

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is we go and we get with the coach,

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the coach is Holy Spirit.

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And we talk about, very vulnerably, you guys,

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you have to be able to get vulnerable to do this exercise.

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Don't have pride, don't have ego,

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don't be afraid to admit that you've screwed up,

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that you've failed.

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that yet have been stubborn, unwilling,

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whatever you need to do at this halftime

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in order to come out of the locker room ready to go.

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And so what we're gonna do tonight, first thing,

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is we're going to admit to ourselves, what's not working?

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What didn't work the first half of the year?

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What's not working?

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So when you take a few minutes,

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I want you to take a look at your paper and write down,

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what has not been working for the first half of the game,

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the first half of 2025?

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And here's some prompts for you

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that I have written down here.

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Where did you lose time, money, momentum, clarity, hope?

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What areas?

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You started out the year,

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maybe you had some really amazing plans,

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but you soon fizzled out in that area.

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Write down what that is.

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What distractions came?

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What detours came?

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What demonic interference came?

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What negativity came that you started entertaining

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and started rehearsing?

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What dream did you have at the beginning of the year

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that's now on a shelf getting dusty somewhere again?

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What kind of warfare came to try to blow you off course?

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Friends, dogs don't chase parked cars,

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they chase moving cars.

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And so if you're moving,

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you're gonna have to expect warfare.

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I've never seen a dog chasing a parked car,

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barking at a parked car.

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They're only chasing moving vehicles.

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So where did you lose time, money, momentum, clarity, hope?

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What dreams did you have at the beginning of the year

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that you started to go after, but now they're shelved?

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What distractions or detours or demonic interference

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came to make that happen, the shelving?

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I'll give you three or four minutes to write down.

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Go ahead and really spend some time

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with Holy Spirit right now.

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Dig in and see what you come up with.

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And friends, this is not to shame you about this stuff,

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this is so we can get a strategy.

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Okay, we gotta look at what's not working

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in order to come out of the locker room

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ready to play the second half of the game and win.

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All right, if you have those prompts written down,

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then you should be able to go back to this, right?

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I wanna keep, for the sake of time,

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I wanna keep moving forward here, okay?

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All right, so that's kind of step one.

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We're gonna take a look at what wasn't working,

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what didn't work out, what we gave up on.

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And sometimes giving up on something that we had planned

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from the beginning is good

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because clarity comes before momentum.

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If we really wanna go fast towards something,

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we need to make sure that that's really what we want.

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And perhaps for some of you,

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you realized that your dream wasn't big enough.

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The thing that you wanted

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really wasn't the right thing for you after all.

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And so letting go of that is fine

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and picking up something else.

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All right, so that brings us to step two.

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What are you still believing for?

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Now, you may have let go of some of the things

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you started the year wanting to have happen this year.

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This goes back to what David taught about,

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what do you want, you should have gotten crystal clear

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from that Sunday night activation with David

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about one or two key areas that you plan to pursue

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for the rest of the year.

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Health, getting out of debt, your finances,

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whatever it is,

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finishing that book,

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changing careers.

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You're like, can I change careers in six months?

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Yeah, you can, you can actually.

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For some of you that are retired,

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it could be starting a new career,

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refiring yourself instead of retiring yourself.

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So because we were supposed to already have this work done,

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I would like to just go ahead and see in the chat

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what those one to two key areas are.

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Remember, we don't want more than two.

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You're not gonna accomplish more than two

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unless it's just by proxy and God allows those birds

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to be all killed with one stone, all right?

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Emily says, purge stuff and move, love it.

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Relocating to Florida and finding a job,

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working on a health and taking a couple of classes,

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career and health, renovate house at a spot and start.

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Sorry, that went too fast.

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I'm gonna have to pull up the chat here.

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Digital marketing business so I can quit the corporate life.

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Got it, finance and fitness, health and debt-free,

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relocate and find a home, moving,

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launching my business, which I did,

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work on finishing my training.

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Got it, start my prophetic channel, go on a date.

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Go on one date.

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You just want one date before the end of the year, Mike?

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Retraining into a new career, complete part one

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of becoming an independent distributor

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for a nutrition company.

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Get out of debt, financial stability, date, live on my own,

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career and love, stop ignoring my health and join a gym.

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If you already did it, Jeannie, then you need a new dream.

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Heart healing and intentional dating,

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health, making product for business,

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marriage to spirit mate and health.

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Meeting my spirit mate and being engaged this year,

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building community where I live,

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purge and finish book rough draft.

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Getting established in my therapy practice again

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and creating my side hustle job.

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Get back to my comfortable weight, finish my book,

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finish paintings and create book.

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Health and debt-free, a move back to the city

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followed by a car accident four weeks ago,

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MPT three days a week, feeling discouraged.

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All right, you just released confidence

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and courage over you, George.

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We're glad to have you back.

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Health, prioritizing healthy food, exercise,

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making room for someone in my life by decluttering,

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making space, being open to moving.

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All right, these are all really great, you guys.

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These are great.

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You guys are getting it.

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You're getting ahold of it.

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All right, now I want you to take that thing

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that you just wrote down and I want you to define

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what success would look like by December 31st.

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If you were able to succeed in doing that,

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what would that look like?

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By December 31st and I want you to write it

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in present tense as if it's already done.

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So I want you to write a little short paragraph

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very quickly about you accomplished this thing

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that you're putting here, these one or two things

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you accomplished it.

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I want to know what that looks like.

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What does that look like?

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So for instance, if I'm debt-free,

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then I'm no longer using my entire paycheck

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to pay bills anymore, right?

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So perhaps I have some money in my savings now.

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Perhaps I was able to pay off a car or a house.

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I just want you to get more detailed with it

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than just that one line.

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Do you understand?

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If getting healthy is your plan between now

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and the end of the year, then maybe you give us

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what your blood pressure numbers look like

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or your A1C looks like.

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That's your insulin or your insulin resistance number

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or your glucose number, your A1C.

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Yeah, it goes from a 5.9 to a 4.8

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or my blood pressure is 120 over 78

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or this is what I weigh on the scale.

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This is what clothes size I'm in.

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Do you guys get what I mean about what does it look like

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to you?

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Because when we say I want to be successful in this,

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I want to accomplish this thing.

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What does it look like to accomplish it?

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Not exactly smart goals, Melissa,

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but just what does it look like to accomplish it?

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We're not going to get that deep in

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because we're not going to get that deep in.

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I don't wanna confuse people,

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but if that works for you, you can do it.

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But for the rest of us, just write a little story,

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a little paragraph of what it looks like

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to have accomplished that.

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The Bible says in Habakkuk 2.2,

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write the vision and make it plain.

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And that's really what I want you to do right here.

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For those of you that may be wondering

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what any of this has to do with getting married,

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it has everything to do with it.

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It has everything to do with it.

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All the parts of your life are intertwined.

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Okay, this is not a sprint, it's a marathon.

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You guys don't really have to try to put the paragraphs

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up in the chat unless you want to.

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I really just want this for you.

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Some of you, it may be deeply personal,

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the actual details of what that's gonna look like for you.

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For some of you, you have a lot of health problems

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that are being caused by your weight.

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That paragraph is gonna contain information

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about pain being gone from certain parts of your body,

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certain symptoms that you're having right now

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no longer being there.

516
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It might contain information about your credit score.

517
00:26:52.800 --> 00:26:56.000
Your credit score going from here to here.

518
00:26:56.100 --> 00:26:59.500
I just got a little alert on my phone

519
00:26:59.500 --> 00:27:01.800
saying that over the course of this year,

520
00:27:01.800 --> 00:27:04.700
my credit score has gone up 130 points.

521
00:27:06.700 --> 00:27:08.200
Don't say it can't be done.

522
00:27:10.400 --> 00:27:12.100
I mean, I've been debt-free for a while,

523
00:27:12.100 --> 00:27:18.400
but you guys, being debt-free is amazing.

524
00:27:18.400 --> 00:27:21.000
I really highly recommend it.

525
00:27:22.600 --> 00:27:23.800
I really highly recommend it.

526
00:27:23.800 --> 00:27:25.800
It's not as hard as people think it is,

527
00:27:25.800 --> 00:27:29.600
and once again, I believe that when we get intentional

528
00:27:30.800 --> 00:27:33.100
and make a plan, God will order our steps

529
00:27:33.100 --> 00:27:34.600
and he will bless that plan.

530
00:27:39.400 --> 00:27:43.700
He's not obligated to direct you or instruct you

531
00:27:43.700 --> 00:27:47.100
until you go ahead and get intentional and make your plan.

532
00:27:50.800 --> 00:27:52.600
Everyone got your little paragraph?

533
00:27:53.600 --> 00:27:55.400
Once again, you could write this prompt down

534
00:27:55.400 --> 00:27:56.900
and finish it later.

535
00:27:56.900 --> 00:27:59.700
Right, here's where it gets fun.

536
00:28:01.100 --> 00:28:02.600
Here's where I get excited,

537
00:28:02.600 --> 00:28:05.200
because I'm a very visual person.

538
00:28:05.200 --> 00:28:06.400
Anyone else visual?

539
00:28:08.100 --> 00:28:10.200
Anyone else a real visual learner?

540
00:28:10.200 --> 00:28:12.000
Sorry, I have the hiccups right now.

541
00:28:17.300 --> 00:28:21.400
I mean, realistic to be engaged by the end of the year.

542
00:28:22.100 --> 00:28:25.300
I mean, being engaged when you don't know someone yet

543
00:28:25.300 --> 00:28:27.900
and we only have five and a half months left,

544
00:28:27.900 --> 00:28:29.300
it's not unrealistic.

545
00:28:29.300 --> 00:28:31.400
I mean, you could get engaged after only knowing someone

546
00:28:31.400 --> 00:28:33.100
for five and a half months,

547
00:28:33.100 --> 00:28:36.100
or four months, or three months, or two months,

548
00:28:36.100 --> 00:28:40.800
but I would rather see you put in your story

549
00:28:40.800 --> 00:28:44.100
that you want to be in relationship with the person

550
00:28:44.100 --> 00:28:46.600
that you're gonna marry before the end of the year,

551
00:28:46.600 --> 00:28:49.000
because we have way more than enough time

552
00:28:49.000 --> 00:28:52.000
for a love story this year still.

553
00:28:58.500 --> 00:29:01.100
Way more than enough time for a love story this year.

554
00:29:05.900 --> 00:29:07.300
All right.

555
00:29:07.300 --> 00:29:09.500
By the way, friends, I wanna tell you something exciting.

556
00:29:09.500 --> 00:29:11.300
We actually did the calendar

557
00:29:11.300 --> 00:29:14.000
for the remainder of the year for our retreats,

558
00:29:14.000 --> 00:29:17.300
and we're gonna be putting that information up

559
00:29:17.400 --> 00:29:21.000
on my website on the event page.

560
00:29:21.000 --> 00:29:22.400
And so if you go there now,

561
00:29:22.400 --> 00:29:24.400
you won't see an event page, it's not live.

562
00:29:24.400 --> 00:29:26.300
We just have it behind the scenes,

563
00:29:26.300 --> 00:29:28.600
but we are going to be putting up those dates

564
00:29:28.600 --> 00:29:30.900
and you will be able to go and mark them on your calendar.

565
00:29:30.900 --> 00:29:32.300
It's gonna be fun.

566
00:29:32.300 --> 00:29:35.200
All right, here's step three for tonight.

567
00:29:35.200 --> 00:29:37.700
And step three, I've entitled Picture It,

568
00:29:37.700 --> 00:29:39.300
Feel It, and Speak It.

569
00:29:40.500 --> 00:29:45.100
That is what I've entitled because I am a visual learner

570
00:29:45.100 --> 00:29:48.100
and I love to remind myself,

571
00:29:48.100 --> 00:29:50.200
and that is why the Jesus Cares Board exists

572
00:29:50.200 --> 00:29:51.500
and all of you should know what that is

573
00:29:51.500 --> 00:29:53.000
because you all should have made one

574
00:29:53.000 --> 00:29:55.000
when you were back in your heartwork era

575
00:29:56.300 --> 00:29:57.600
during the program.

576
00:29:57.600 --> 00:29:59.900
Okay, so my question.

577
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.920
for you is, can you see it?

578
00:30:02.920 --> 00:30:05.960
You just wrote a paragraph of what success would look like

579
00:30:05.960 --> 00:30:09.480
if you were able to accomplish your one to two goals

580
00:30:09.480 --> 00:30:10.840
before the end of the year.

581
00:30:13.240 --> 00:30:16.160
You wrote a paragraph about what it would look like,

582
00:30:16.160 --> 00:30:18.580
but now I want you to close your eyes

583
00:30:18.580 --> 00:30:20.160
and I want you to begin to visualize.

584
00:30:20.160 --> 00:30:21.780
All eyes should be closed.

585
00:30:22.820 --> 00:30:24.320
All eyes should be closed

586
00:30:24.320 --> 00:30:28.200
and I want you to begin to visualize.

587
00:30:29.200 --> 00:30:33.320
Imagine yourself, it's New Year's Eve, 2025.

588
00:30:35.080 --> 00:30:36.280
It's December 31st.

589
00:30:36.280 --> 00:30:39.640
We're about to step over the Gregorian calendar line

590
00:30:39.640 --> 00:30:41.220
into January 1st.

591
00:30:44.080 --> 00:30:46.540
It's a couple hours before midnight

592
00:30:46.540 --> 00:30:49.000
and your eyes are closed

593
00:30:49.000 --> 00:30:51.760
and you're thinking back on the year 2025

594
00:30:51.760 --> 00:30:53.280
as it's about to end

595
00:30:54.480 --> 00:30:57.000
and you're thinking about all of the things

596
00:30:57.000 --> 00:30:58.160
that have happened this year,

597
00:30:58.160 --> 00:31:00.240
all that you've been able to accomplish.

598
00:31:00.240 --> 00:31:03.240
I want you to be visualizing that paragraph that you wrote,

599
00:31:04.320 --> 00:31:06.840
visualizing those one to two goals,

600
00:31:08.200 --> 00:31:11.160
what it looks like for them to be accomplished,

601
00:31:11.160 --> 00:31:12.880
for you to have succeeded in them.

602
00:31:12.880 --> 00:31:15.040
Right now, I want you to imagine yourself,

603
00:31:15.880 --> 00:31:17.700
New Year's Eve, 2025.

604
00:31:17.700 --> 00:31:18.600
What are you thinking about?

605
00:31:18.600 --> 00:31:20.520
What are you picturing in your mind's eye?

606
00:31:20.520 --> 00:31:22.360
What are you seeing?

607
00:31:22.360 --> 00:31:23.820
What are you celebrating?

608
00:31:25.120 --> 00:31:26.360
What are you celebrating?

609
00:31:27.920 --> 00:31:29.520
What are you so thankful for?

610
00:31:29.520 --> 00:31:33.120
What are you full of gratitude for about these things

611
00:31:36.400 --> 00:31:37.760
that have come to pass?

612
00:31:41.540 --> 00:31:42.380
See it.

613
00:31:43.440 --> 00:31:44.240
See it, Gail.

614
00:31:44.240 --> 00:31:45.060
Keep your eyes closed.

615
00:31:45.060 --> 00:31:45.900
See it.

616
00:31:50.700 --> 00:31:53.400
George, you can't see it if you're writing.

617
00:31:53.400 --> 00:31:55.320
No one should be typing right now.

618
00:31:55.320 --> 00:31:56.400
See it.

619
00:31:58.000 --> 00:31:59.600
See it.

620
00:32:01.120 --> 00:32:04.120
Be living it in the movie of your mind.

621
00:32:08.480 --> 00:32:09.320
Wow.

622
00:32:11.520 --> 00:32:14.400
Thinking about how healthy you feel and look

623
00:32:14.400 --> 00:32:17.440
and the beautiful dress or suit that you are wearing

624
00:32:17.440 --> 00:32:19.520
that you haven't been able to wear for years

625
00:32:19.520 --> 00:32:22.640
or never thought you'd be able to wear ever in your life

626
00:32:22.640 --> 00:32:24.320
or buy something like that

627
00:32:24.320 --> 00:32:27.080
or be confident enough to wear something like that.

628
00:32:28.120 --> 00:32:29.400
For those of you that accomplish

629
00:32:29.400 --> 00:32:31.860
some kind of creative project, see it in your mind.

630
00:32:31.860 --> 00:32:33.280
See the painting.

631
00:32:33.280 --> 00:32:34.120
See the book.

632
00:32:34.120 --> 00:32:35.280
See the project.

633
00:32:35.280 --> 00:32:36.120
See the business.

634
00:32:36.120 --> 00:32:37.120
See the thing.

635
00:32:38.640 --> 00:32:39.480
See it.

636
00:32:41.640 --> 00:32:44.040
All right, go ahead and open your eyes.

637
00:32:44.040 --> 00:32:46.360
Now, whatever is it that you saw, your homework,

638
00:32:46.360 --> 00:32:48.420
because remember, we're gonna have chats.

639
00:32:48.420 --> 00:32:49.920
We're gonna have chats in the men's group.

640
00:32:49.920 --> 00:32:51.040
You guys are gonna have a chat.

641
00:32:51.040 --> 00:32:53.720
It's gonna be entitled Halftime Shift

642
00:32:53.720 --> 00:32:56.480
and also, ladies, you're gonna have a chat too.

643
00:32:56.480 --> 00:32:58.880
I want you to make, not a Jesus Cares board,

644
00:32:58.880 --> 00:33:01.920
but I want you to make a mini vision board

645
00:33:01.920 --> 00:33:05.200
just on the paragraph

646
00:33:05.200 --> 00:33:08.240
and on that visualization that you just did.

647
00:33:08.240 --> 00:33:10.760
I want you to make a mini vision board

648
00:33:13.480 --> 00:33:15.360
that shows this,

649
00:33:15.360 --> 00:33:18.280
shows what you just saw in your mind's eye.

650
00:33:18.280 --> 00:33:20.360
You might've seen yourself driving a new car

651
00:33:20.360 --> 00:33:22.080
because you got out of debt.

652
00:33:22.080 --> 00:33:24.880
You're able to pay cash for a car,

653
00:33:24.880 --> 00:33:26.360
buy a car that you loved.

654
00:33:26.360 --> 00:33:28.000
Maybe you're moving into your new house,

655
00:33:28.000 --> 00:33:29.160
living in your new state

656
00:33:29.160 --> 00:33:30.920
because relocating is what you wanna do

657
00:33:30.920 --> 00:33:33.000
before the end of the year.

658
00:33:33.000 --> 00:33:35.800
Maybe you saw yourself in a new career,

659
00:33:35.800 --> 00:33:37.720
so maybe you put on that little mini vision board

660
00:33:37.720 --> 00:33:38.920
what you're wearing to work now.

661
00:33:38.920 --> 00:33:41.880
Maybe it's a job where you have to wear

662
00:33:41.880 --> 00:33:43.620
a specific type of uniform.

663
00:33:45.240 --> 00:33:47.440
Maybe it's a job where you have to dress up,

664
00:33:47.440 --> 00:33:48.280
wear a suit,

665
00:33:49.180 --> 00:33:50.200
wear some heels.

666
00:33:53.080 --> 00:33:55.640
Maybe you got a new haircut for your new job.

667
00:33:56.480 --> 00:33:58.980
I want you to make a mini vision board.

668
00:34:01.040 --> 00:34:02.240
And then the next thing I want you to do,

669
00:34:02.240 --> 00:34:05.040
because remember this step is called picture it, feel it.

670
00:34:05.040 --> 00:34:06.440
We were just feeling it.

671
00:34:06.440 --> 00:34:08.719
And every time you look at that vision board,

672
00:34:08.719 --> 00:34:09.699
I want you to feel it.

673
00:34:09.699 --> 00:34:11.840
I want you to take it in.

674
00:34:11.840 --> 00:34:14.580
I want you to feel like it's happening,

675
00:34:16.120 --> 00:34:17.760
like it's possible,

676
00:34:19.020 --> 00:34:20.840
like you're gonna end this year

677
00:34:20.840 --> 00:34:22.920
having accomplished this thing,

678
00:34:22.920 --> 00:34:25.719
these things, these two things, these one things.

679
00:34:25.719 --> 00:34:30.719
And then I want you to speak it, all right?

680
00:34:31.040 --> 00:34:34.060
So we're gonna create some affirmations.

681
00:34:34.060 --> 00:34:35.320
And I'm gonna help you really quickly

682
00:34:35.320 --> 00:34:36.159
because if I just say,

683
00:34:36.159 --> 00:34:38.880
hey, I want you to speak some affirmations daily

684
00:34:38.880 --> 00:34:42.040
about living out this dream,

685
00:34:42.040 --> 00:34:43.719
accomplishing these goals,

686
00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:44.880
a lot of you won't do it

687
00:34:44.880 --> 00:34:46.199
because you don't know where to start.

688
00:34:46.199 --> 00:34:47.360
So really quickly,

689
00:34:47.360 --> 00:34:50.360
let's do a little sidebar on creating affirmations, shall we?

690
00:34:51.679 --> 00:34:52.719
All right, get ready.

691
00:34:53.679 --> 00:34:55.920
Guys, we already know that God created worlds,

692
00:34:55.920 --> 00:35:00.000
not world, but worlds, universes with his words.

693
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:03.580
and we've been created in his image, okay?

694
00:35:03.580 --> 00:35:05.500
So when we speak the right things

695
00:35:05.500 --> 00:35:07.880
in the right direction towards heaven,

696
00:35:07.880 --> 00:35:10.680
we reprogram our mind, we align our spirit,

697
00:35:10.680 --> 00:35:13.880
and we activate our faith, we do.

698
00:35:13.880 --> 00:35:15.920
Words have power, friends, words are not empty,

699
00:35:15.920 --> 00:35:17.840
and that's why you gotta watch your words.

700
00:35:17.840 --> 00:35:20.260
Some of you are actually tearing down your future

701
00:35:20.260 --> 00:35:21.840
with your mouth.

702
00:35:21.840 --> 00:35:24.480
Death and life are in the power of the tongue.

703
00:35:24.480 --> 00:35:25.980
Proverbs 18, 21.

704
00:35:25.980 --> 00:35:30.960
Okay, so we're going to create

705
00:35:30.960 --> 00:35:32.940
some faith-filled affirmations right now,

706
00:35:32.940 --> 00:35:35.320
speaking about our future reality,

707
00:35:35.320 --> 00:35:38.820
in present tense agreement with God's promises,

708
00:35:38.820 --> 00:35:41.820
and this God-given vision that you have on your board, okay?

709
00:35:43.140 --> 00:35:45.100
So here's how you're gonna create them.

710
00:35:48.220 --> 00:35:49.900
Here's the question prompt.

711
00:35:49.900 --> 00:35:54.900
What do I want to be true by December 31st, 2025?

712
00:35:56.980 --> 00:36:01.140
We're gonna start with the end in mind, you guys.

713
00:36:01.140 --> 00:36:03.420
We're starting with the end in mind right now.

714
00:36:04.340 --> 00:36:05.980
Right now, you're speaking it in faith,

715
00:36:05.980 --> 00:36:08.580
but what do you want to be true,

716
00:36:08.580 --> 00:36:13.500
totally true, manifested by December 31st, 2025?

717
00:36:13.500 --> 00:36:14.900
And here's some examples.

718
00:36:16.380 --> 00:36:19.280
I want to be in the healthiest shape of my life.

719
00:36:19.280 --> 00:36:20.900
I said that at the beginning of 2025.

720
00:36:20.900 --> 00:36:23.540
I want to be in the best shape of my entire life,

721
00:36:23.540 --> 00:36:26.100
even though I know I'm 50, not 21,

722
00:36:26.100 --> 00:36:28.820
but I want to be in the best shape of my whole life.

723
00:36:30.660 --> 00:36:33.380
Some of you might say, I want to be engaged to a godly man,

724
00:36:33.380 --> 00:36:36.060
or I want to be in relationship with a godly man.

725
00:36:36.060 --> 00:36:39.320
Gentlemen, you might say, I want to be in relationship

726
00:36:39.320 --> 00:36:43.100
with a beautiful and Jesus-loving woman.

727
00:36:44.220 --> 00:36:46.180
Get as detailed as you want to on that.

728
00:36:47.380 --> 00:36:50.300
Some of you say, I want to be a published author.

729
00:36:50.300 --> 00:36:52.560
A lot of you put a book in your thing just now,

730
00:36:52.560 --> 00:36:53.840
and I've written several books.

731
00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:55.320
I have another book coming out,

732
00:36:55.320 --> 00:36:57.480
and I know that that's a labor of love,

733
00:36:57.480 --> 00:36:59.840
and it feels so good when you accomplish it.

734
00:37:01.060 --> 00:37:02.600
Seriously, friends, I didn't know if anyone

735
00:37:02.600 --> 00:37:04.000
was ever gonna read any of my books,

736
00:37:04.000 --> 00:37:06.280
and it didn't matter because I did it.

737
00:37:06.280 --> 00:37:07.640
I did it.

738
00:37:07.640 --> 00:37:10.040
And even if only one person read it, you know?

739
00:37:10.040 --> 00:37:11.480
My grandma.

740
00:37:11.480 --> 00:37:12.560
I did it.

741
00:37:12.560 --> 00:37:15.760
And so you're starting with what you want to be true.

742
00:37:15.760 --> 00:37:19.300
I want this, I want this, I want this, I want that.

743
00:37:19.300 --> 00:37:20.640
And then once you get those down,

744
00:37:20.640 --> 00:37:21.520
write them down really quick.

745
00:37:21.520 --> 00:37:22.560
Come on, let's go.

746
00:37:22.560 --> 00:37:23.900
Once you get them down,

747
00:37:24.860 --> 00:37:27.680
I want you to flip them into present tense,

748
00:37:27.680 --> 00:37:30.480
because we're gonna speak from the outcome.

749
00:37:30.480 --> 00:37:33.800
We're gonna speak from the end, okay?

750
00:37:33.800 --> 00:37:37.360
So we're gonna speak as if it's already happened and done.

751
00:37:37.360 --> 00:37:39.280
So I want to lose weight,

752
00:37:39.280 --> 00:37:40.640
or be in the best shape of my life,

753
00:37:40.640 --> 00:37:43.780
turns into I am strong, I am energized,

754
00:37:43.780 --> 00:37:45.400
I am walking in divine health.

755
00:37:46.400 --> 00:37:48.560
You see how it shifts to the present tense?

756
00:37:52.520 --> 00:37:55.600
I hope I meet someone,

757
00:37:57.960 --> 00:38:01.720
turns into I'm attracting my godly husband or wife

758
00:38:01.720 --> 00:38:03.420
with confidence, peace, and joy.

759
00:38:04.840 --> 00:38:07.080
These are just some I have written down here.

760
00:38:07.960 --> 00:38:10.000
Okay, see how we shift them?

761
00:38:10.000 --> 00:38:14.040
So go ahead and tell me what your I wants are.

762
00:38:14.040 --> 00:38:16.040
Start with the end in mind,

763
00:38:16.040 --> 00:38:18.800
what you want to be true by December 31st.

764
00:38:18.800 --> 00:38:20.040
And once you have those down,

765
00:38:20.040 --> 00:38:23.380
let's shift them into present tense affirmations.

766
00:38:26.760 --> 00:38:29.620
And the way that you do that is you add emotion to it.

767
00:38:31.600 --> 00:38:33.020
You add identity to it.

768
00:38:36.480 --> 00:38:40.160
I'm gonna give you a few more examples while you're working.

769
00:38:40.160 --> 00:38:42.460
I am free, focused, and favored.

770
00:38:43.500 --> 00:38:46.140
I'm living boldly and unapologetically.

771
00:38:47.140 --> 00:38:50.460
In the new career, fill in the blank,

772
00:38:50.460 --> 00:38:51.720
that God has given me.

773
00:38:58.180 --> 00:38:59.220
Here's one.

774
00:38:59.220 --> 00:39:03.620
Maybe some of your goals are to break free from rejection

775
00:39:03.620 --> 00:39:07.460
and personality difficulties that are keeping you stuck.

776
00:39:07.460 --> 00:39:09.460
So for those of you that are people pleasers,

777
00:39:09.460 --> 00:39:12.860
or people that are hiding behind the labels

778
00:39:12.860 --> 00:39:14.460
that I'm shy and I'm introverted,

779
00:39:14.460 --> 00:39:16.540
maybe this is for one of you guys,

780
00:39:16.540 --> 00:39:18.120
I'm no longer shrinking.

781
00:39:19.380 --> 00:39:21.180
I am confident.

782
00:39:21.180 --> 00:39:26.180
I show up as the main character in my life story.

783
00:39:26.460 --> 00:39:28.780
I am the star of my show,

784
00:39:28.780 --> 00:39:32.500
and I am fully seen, fully known, and fully loved.

785
00:39:32.500 --> 00:39:33.340
Come on.

786
00:39:34.960 --> 00:39:36.460
You're the star of your show.

787
00:39:38.500 --> 00:39:39.460
I know as Christians,

788
00:39:39.460 --> 00:39:41.340
we're not supposed to say things like that

789
00:39:41.340 --> 00:39:43.460
because that seems like ego, but it's not ego.

790
00:39:43.460 --> 00:39:45.660
God created you to be the star of your show.

791
00:39:47.540 --> 00:39:49.220
You're not taking anything away from Jesus

792
00:39:49.220 --> 00:39:50.780
by being the star of your show.

793
00:39:53.100 --> 00:39:53.940
You are.

794
00:39:55.940 --> 00:39:57.240
He wants you to shine.

795
00:39:59.340 --> 00:40:00.180
But then after you're-

796
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:06.400
done after you shine, he wants you to be able to tell people why you shine. That's all.

797
00:40:09.280 --> 00:40:14.240
It does not do God any favors if his kids are broke, busted, and disgusted.

798
00:40:14.960 --> 00:40:24.000
All right? Ugly, fat, unhealthy, disease-ridden, broke, dumb.

799
00:40:24.000 --> 00:40:30.560
For those of you that are parents, would you like for your children to show up in this world

800
00:40:31.520 --> 00:40:36.080
like that? Would you want your kids to show up in this world like that?

801
00:40:38.480 --> 00:40:41.680
People feeling sorry for them because they're so pathetic? Is that what you would want?

802
00:40:42.800 --> 00:40:49.200
No, you would want your kids to be glorious. You'd want your kids to shine, talented,

803
00:40:49.920 --> 00:40:56.480
smart, beautiful, amazing, but also kind and gracious and loving and merciful.

804
00:40:57.120 --> 00:40:59.440
You guys, those are not either ors. Those are both ands.

805
00:41:02.080 --> 00:41:07.280
You have permission to shine. You're not stealing any glory from God. You are God's glory.

806
00:41:08.080 --> 00:41:10.480
The Bible says that the children are the glory of the Father.

807
00:41:13.600 --> 00:41:16.720
And when he says about Jacob, I will not give my glory to another,

808
00:41:16.720 --> 00:41:22.240
he's not talking about Jacob stealing his glory. He's talking about him saving Jacob

809
00:41:22.240 --> 00:41:27.360
because Jacob is his glory. You can't just read the Bible. You got to read the Bible.

810
00:41:28.320 --> 00:41:34.240
So many people use that scripture for talented people, people that are singing or doing

811
00:41:34.240 --> 00:41:39.120
something amazing. Oh, don't steal God's glory. Make sure that you get up there and say, oh,

812
00:41:39.120 --> 00:41:42.320
don't applaud me. This is all Jesus. Well, it's not Jesus. It's you.

813
00:41:42.880 --> 00:41:48.080
It's you. Jesus made it possible for, by dying on the cross so that you can be

814
00:41:48.080 --> 00:41:52.800
reconciled to your divine identity, but it's you and it doesn't do you any good.

815
00:41:54.400 --> 00:41:59.120
Someday you're going to throw your crown at his feet for sure. But in this life,

816
00:41:59.120 --> 00:42:04.880
you have to make sure that you show up as a child of God and the glory of God in the earth.

817
00:42:06.160 --> 00:42:07.600
And that does not make you conceited.

818
00:42:08.000 --> 00:42:09.440
And that does not make you conceited.

819
00:42:12.800 --> 00:42:17.680
All right. Some of you need to add some real emotion to these declarations

820
00:42:18.480 --> 00:42:21.680
and it's going to feel weird. It's going to feel like you're bragging about yourself and

821
00:42:21.680 --> 00:42:25.760
that's going to be uncomfortable for you. But you know what? You're going to have to get past that

822
00:42:26.400 --> 00:42:28.800
because this is part of the reason why you're stuck.

823
00:42:29.760 --> 00:42:33.520
God's not afraid of you saying that you're amazing. He already knows you're amazing.

824
00:42:33.520 --> 00:42:38.080
You're the one that needs convincing, not him. You're the one. Okay.

825
00:42:40.640 --> 00:42:45.600
All right. Then once you have those beautiful declarations in present tense, I am, I have, I did.

826
00:42:47.840 --> 00:42:54.960
I feel free, focused, favored. I'm living boldly, confident,

827
00:42:55.280 --> 00:43:02.800
favored. I'm living boldly, confidently. I'm no longer blank, blank, blank. Okay.

828
00:43:02.800 --> 00:43:04.960
Once you do that, then let's back it up with the word.

829
00:43:07.200 --> 00:43:11.200
So we're going to anchor these affirmations in scripture to make them prophetic.

830
00:43:12.320 --> 00:43:18.560
Now we're going to make them prophetic. Here's Psalm 1 3. I'm fruitful and productive in every

831
00:43:18.560 --> 00:43:23.920
season. I prosper in everything I put my hand to. That's like the Midas touch, isn't it? Everything

832
00:43:23.920 --> 00:43:30.160
I touch turns to gold. Now that wasn't good for Midas, but it is good for us, right? That story

833
00:43:30.160 --> 00:43:36.640
didn't end well for him, but Psalm 1 3 says that we can prosper in every season. Here's some more

834
00:43:36.640 --> 00:43:43.920
examples. Philippians 1 6, Proverbs 21 5. I put both those scriptures together in one affirmation.

835
00:43:44.560 --> 00:43:49.840
I have divine strategies and supernatural discipline to finish this year strong.

836
00:43:54.480 --> 00:43:59.440
And friends, if you're having trouble finding scriptures to back up your, I am, and I have,

837
00:43:59.440 --> 00:44:06.240
and I will, and I did affirmations, then in those chats, you can post them and ask other people to

838
00:44:06.240 --> 00:44:11.520
give you scriptures to help back them up. We're going to work together as a team, as a community

839
00:44:11.520 --> 00:44:22.640
to help this happen. Cool. All right. So here's some bonus tips that I want you to remember about

840
00:44:23.440 --> 00:44:31.360
these affirmations. Speak them out loud every morning, speak them before you go to bed,

841
00:44:31.920 --> 00:44:38.160
rehearse them. The Bible says, rehearse, meditate on his word day and night, write them on sticky

842
00:44:38.160 --> 00:44:43.040
notes, put them on your phone lock screen. You guys know that you can put anything you want on

843
00:44:43.040 --> 00:44:47.440
your phone lock screen, right? Put it before your face somewhere on the bathroom mirror. So you see

844
00:44:47.520 --> 00:44:53.200
in the morning when you're brushing your teeth, first thing you guys, I used to carry affirmations

845
00:44:53.200 --> 00:44:59.760
and scriptures around in my purse on note cards. I did. It's a real thing.

846
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.960
If you just want to listen, if you're someone who wants to listen to something while you're

847
00:45:04.960 --> 00:45:12.440
on the treadmill, record yourself speaking them and then put it on repeat in your own

848
00:45:12.440 --> 00:45:18.240
ears while you're on the treadmill, while you're out doing your morning walk.

849
00:45:18.240 --> 00:45:22.960
Record yourself and then listen to yourself.

850
00:45:22.960 --> 00:45:25.680
And remember, you want to do it even when you don't feel like doing it because there's

851
00:45:25.680 --> 00:45:28.400
going to be lots of times in the next five and a half months when you're not going to

852
00:45:28.400 --> 00:45:30.280
feel like this.

853
00:45:30.280 --> 00:45:32.720
Faith is not a feeling, okay?

854
00:45:32.720 --> 00:45:34.280
Faith is works.

855
00:45:34.280 --> 00:45:38.240
Faith, the proof of belief is action.

856
00:45:38.240 --> 00:45:39.240
Julio?

857
00:45:39.240 --> 00:45:40.240
Good?

858
00:45:40.240 --> 00:45:41.240
Okay.

859
00:45:41.240 --> 00:45:45.440
All right, so we're going to picture it, feel it, and speak it.

860
00:45:45.440 --> 00:45:49.560
You're going to make those little mini boards, those little mini vision boards, and then

861
00:45:49.560 --> 00:45:54.080
you're going to write some affirmations in present tense to back them up and back it

862
00:45:54.080 --> 00:45:55.080
up with scripture.

863
00:45:55.080 --> 00:45:57.440
And we'll help you with that if you get stuck.

864
00:45:57.480 --> 00:45:59.400
Let me see how much time I have left.

865
00:45:59.400 --> 00:46:00.400
I have about 15 minutes.

866
00:46:00.400 --> 00:46:02.400
We're going to go after the rest of this.

867
00:46:02.400 --> 00:46:05.400
Okay, here's step four.

868
00:46:05.400 --> 00:46:09.360
If you don't schedule it, you better scrap it.

869
00:46:09.360 --> 00:46:13.680
I have told you guys this from day one of this entire movement.

870
00:46:13.680 --> 00:46:19.680
Don't tell me you want something unless it's blocked out on your calendar.

871
00:46:19.680 --> 00:46:22.560
I've learned that the hard way myself.

872
00:46:22.560 --> 00:46:25.480
You know, we can have all kinds of wishes.

873
00:46:25.520 --> 00:46:27.920
This is not about wishing and hoping.

874
00:46:27.920 --> 00:46:29.520
This is about action.

875
00:46:29.520 --> 00:46:31.760
The proof of belief is action.

876
00:46:31.760 --> 00:46:38.200
And so if it's not on your calendar, then it doesn't matter to you.

877
00:46:38.200 --> 00:46:42.240
If you've not made room for it, if you've not scheduled it, it doesn't matter to you.

878
00:46:42.240 --> 00:46:45.480
Oh, you know, I'm just going to try to get to the gym every day.

879
00:46:45.480 --> 00:46:49.520
You ain't going to the gym.

880
00:46:49.520 --> 00:46:50.520
You're not going to go to the gym.

881
00:46:50.520 --> 00:46:54.640
Well, I got to try to figure out to find time for it.

882
00:46:54.800 --> 00:46:55.800
You're not going to find time for it.

883
00:46:55.800 --> 00:46:56.800
You got to make time for it.

884
00:46:56.800 --> 00:47:00.760
Didn't you hear that said when you were a little kid?

885
00:47:00.760 --> 00:47:03.880
Can't find time, got to make time.

886
00:47:03.880 --> 00:47:05.480
You have to time block.

887
00:47:05.480 --> 00:47:09.400
Friends, you have to time block.

888
00:47:09.400 --> 00:47:20.000
If it's important, it will be given space on your calendar, on your schedule.

889
00:47:20.000 --> 00:47:27.120
So I want you to create a time block for this every week, every day of the week.

890
00:47:27.120 --> 00:47:30.400
If it's only two or three days, be realistic.

891
00:47:30.400 --> 00:47:35.400
If you can't do it every day, can't go to the gym every day, then you have to figure

892
00:47:35.400 --> 00:47:41.200
out how many times do I need to go to the gym in order to be my healthiest version of

893
00:47:41.200 --> 00:47:44.560
myself by the end of 2025?

894
00:47:44.560 --> 00:47:45.960
Is it three times?

895
00:47:45.960 --> 00:47:46.960
Is it four times?

896
00:47:46.960 --> 00:47:49.800
And then you have to block it on your calendar.

897
00:47:50.600 --> 00:47:51.600
You're going to have to give up other things.

898
00:47:51.600 --> 00:47:55.440
I don't want any of you to think that you're just going to march right into 2026 having

899
00:47:55.440 --> 00:48:03.960
accomplished a few of your most important goals in 2025 without having to have sacrificed

900
00:48:03.960 --> 00:48:04.960
something.

901
00:48:04.960 --> 00:48:05.960
It isn't.

902
00:48:05.960 --> 00:48:14.720
For those of you that said, you want to write a book, you guys, I sacrificed a bunch.

903
00:48:14.720 --> 00:48:15.920
I had to give up income.

904
00:48:15.920 --> 00:48:17.320
I had to give up a job.

905
00:48:18.160 --> 00:48:21.000
I had to give up going out with friends.

906
00:48:21.000 --> 00:48:23.180
I had to give up a social life.

907
00:48:23.180 --> 00:48:25.000
I had to give it all up.

908
00:48:25.000 --> 00:48:26.000
Everyone else is out having fun.

909
00:48:26.000 --> 00:48:27.000
Where am I?

910
00:48:27.000 --> 00:48:28.000
Writing.

911
00:48:28.000 --> 00:48:29.000
Was it fun?

912
00:48:29.000 --> 00:48:30.000
No, it wasn't fun.

913
00:48:30.000 --> 00:48:31.000
It wasn't.

914
00:48:31.000 --> 00:48:38.400
And at the end of every day, I was like, ugh.

915
00:48:38.400 --> 00:48:43.720
I would read back what I wrote and just be like, this is crap.

916
00:48:43.720 --> 00:48:46.520
Raise your hand if you love The Heart Work, the book.

917
00:48:46.520 --> 00:48:47.640
Raised your hand.

918
00:48:47.640 --> 00:48:48.640
Don't lie either.

919
00:48:48.640 --> 00:48:51.880
If you don't like it, I don't care.

920
00:48:51.880 --> 00:48:56.440
I want to see for those of you that you read that book and you got a breakthrough from

921
00:48:56.440 --> 00:48:57.440
it.

922
00:48:57.440 --> 00:48:58.440
You laughed.

923
00:48:58.440 --> 00:48:59.440
You cried.

924
00:48:59.440 --> 00:49:04.520
You were challenged in your faith.

925
00:49:04.520 --> 00:49:07.120
So many people kind of unanimously.

926
00:49:07.120 --> 00:49:08.120
Let me tell you something.

927
00:49:08.120 --> 00:49:09.440
That was the first book that I ever wrote.

928
00:49:09.440 --> 00:49:11.800
It's the first book that I wrote.

929
00:49:11.880 --> 00:49:20.480
I wrote it in about three months of 14, 15 hour a day writings.

930
00:49:20.480 --> 00:49:21.840
Some of you know the story behind that.

931
00:49:21.840 --> 00:49:26.280
God told me to stop doing everything else and focus on that.

932
00:49:26.280 --> 00:49:27.560
And I did.

933
00:49:27.560 --> 00:49:32.520
But I want to tell you, and hopefully this is encouraging to someone, at the end of every

934
00:49:32.520 --> 00:49:38.360
day's writing session, I was like, this book is terrible.

935
00:49:38.360 --> 00:49:40.200
This book stinks.

936
00:49:40.240 --> 00:49:42.440
I hate this book.

937
00:49:42.440 --> 00:49:46.680
But someone gave me a wise piece of advice and I'm going to give it to you right now.

938
00:49:46.680 --> 00:49:52.680
Don't re-read it until the whole book is over, done.

939
00:49:52.680 --> 00:49:54.360
Don't go read, don't read it.

940
00:49:54.360 --> 00:49:58.200
Just write it and be like, okay, it wasn't that great, but I'm just going to go on to

941
00:49:58.200 --> 00:49:59.840
the next part.

942
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:02.560
finished with the entire manuscript,

943
00:50:02.560 --> 00:50:04.400
it's probably gonna be a while.

944
00:50:04.400 --> 00:50:06.280
When you're finished with the entire manuscript,

945
00:50:06.280 --> 00:50:08.800
go back and read it from the beginning.

946
00:50:08.800 --> 00:50:10.280
And now there's some space and time

947
00:50:10.280 --> 00:50:13.620
between what you wrote and where you are now.

948
00:50:13.620 --> 00:50:15.080
And I'm just gonna tell you,

949
00:50:15.080 --> 00:50:18.640
you're gonna read it, you'll be like, this is brilliant.

950
00:50:18.640 --> 00:50:21.360
This is so good, I don't even remember writing that

951
00:50:21.360 --> 00:50:22.520
or saying that.

952
00:50:24.160 --> 00:50:26.900
By the way, you guys, I'm announcing the pre-sale

953
00:50:26.900 --> 00:50:29.200
of my new book, Modern Dating Sucks next week.

954
00:50:30.500 --> 00:50:33.040
So I'm gonna announce the pre-sale of it

955
00:50:33.040 --> 00:50:36.280
and you'll be able to get it in pre-sale only from me.

956
00:50:36.280 --> 00:50:37.680
I'm not selling it anywhere else.

957
00:50:37.680 --> 00:50:39.760
You'll only be able to get it from me in pre-sale

958
00:50:39.760 --> 00:50:40.840
until October.

959
00:50:40.840 --> 00:50:43.260
Okay, so that is beside the point.

960
00:50:43.260 --> 00:50:44.940
But for those of you that are writing anything,

961
00:50:44.940 --> 00:50:47.400
and this goes with all creative projects.

962
00:50:47.400 --> 00:50:49.580
If you're writing songs, if you're writing books,

963
00:50:49.580 --> 00:50:51.720
if you're painting, if you're decorating,

964
00:50:51.720 --> 00:50:55.520
if you're, just stay in the flow.

965
00:50:55.520 --> 00:50:59.120
Go look back at the beginning of it later.

966
00:51:00.440 --> 00:51:04.420
Later, painting a picture, drawing a picture,

967
00:51:04.420 --> 00:51:06.800
writing a kid's book, someone's writing a kid's book,

968
00:51:06.800 --> 00:51:09.640
someone's illustrating and writing a kid's book,

969
00:51:09.640 --> 00:51:12.400
or you're writing and you're looking for an illustrator.

970
00:51:14.760 --> 00:51:19.080
Do not give up and also do not critique

971
00:51:19.080 --> 00:51:22.600
what you have done already until it's fully finished.

972
00:51:22.600 --> 00:51:25.040
All right, hopefully that helps somebody.

973
00:51:25.040 --> 00:51:26.480
All right, so we're gonna time block.

974
00:51:26.480 --> 00:51:29.160
So maybe if for those of you that are writing or painting

975
00:51:29.200 --> 00:51:32.440
or drawing or decorating or whatever,

976
00:51:32.440 --> 00:51:33.960
you're gonna time block.

977
00:51:33.960 --> 00:51:37.720
I need so many hours a week working on this.

978
00:51:37.720 --> 00:51:40.200
And you're gonna have to give stuff up.

979
00:51:40.200 --> 00:51:42.440
I had to give up a lot of stuff.

980
00:51:42.440 --> 00:51:45.480
A lot of time, a lot of fun, and I like to have fun.

981
00:51:47.200 --> 00:51:48.520
It'd be worth it.

982
00:51:48.520 --> 00:51:50.520
For those of you that are looking for a new job,

983
00:51:50.520 --> 00:51:55.520
you're gonna have to time block out specific set of time

984
00:51:56.760 --> 00:51:58.720
where you're gonna be working on your resume.

985
00:51:59.520 --> 00:52:00.360
When you're gonna be going

986
00:52:00.360 --> 00:52:01.280
and getting some continuing education

987
00:52:01.280 --> 00:52:04.280
so that you have the credentials to get a better paying job.

988
00:52:05.320 --> 00:52:06.480
Maybe that's what you have to do.

989
00:52:06.480 --> 00:52:07.760
You have to take some classes.

990
00:52:07.760 --> 00:52:10.520
Some of you have to re-up your licenses.

991
00:52:10.520 --> 00:52:13.440
You gotta take some continuing ed on license stuff.

992
00:52:14.320 --> 00:52:15.440
For others of you,

993
00:52:15.440 --> 00:52:19.200
you're gonna have to spend time researching jobs.

994
00:52:19.200 --> 00:52:20.240
For those of you that are moving,

995
00:52:20.240 --> 00:52:22.720
you're gonna have to spend some time researching places

996
00:52:22.720 --> 00:52:24.200
to live in that other place.

997
00:52:24.200 --> 00:52:26.200
You're gonna have to block off some time

998
00:52:26.200 --> 00:52:27.840
to go travel to that place.

999
00:52:28.720 --> 00:52:30.520
Go travel to that place,

1000
00:52:30.520 --> 00:52:33.600
get your feet on the soil of that new land and territory

1001
00:52:33.600 --> 00:52:36.120
and start to walk and pray in those places,

1002
00:52:36.120 --> 00:52:39.720
those new states, those new cities, those new zip codes,

1003
00:52:39.720 --> 00:52:42.240
and let God begin to open doors and show you things.

1004
00:52:42.240 --> 00:52:45.080
You may have to take several trips to that new place

1005
00:52:45.080 --> 00:52:47.840
before the doors start opening.

1006
00:52:52.440 --> 00:52:55.200
You have to do it, okay?

1007
00:52:55.200 --> 00:52:58.400
So if it matters, you're gonna make space for it.

1008
00:52:59.720 --> 00:53:02.000
You're gonna make space for it, okay?

1009
00:53:02.000 --> 00:53:03.520
All right, step five.

1010
00:53:03.520 --> 00:53:05.320
You're gonna have to sow into it.

1011
00:53:05.320 --> 00:53:06.600
That's what I have here.

1012
00:53:07.800 --> 00:53:10.400
What are you willing to invest in order to get this?

1013
00:53:11.680 --> 00:53:14.200
All of you are willing to invest in this program

1014
00:53:14.200 --> 00:53:19.200
so that you could get into your marriage-minded courtship.

1015
00:53:21.000 --> 00:53:22.600
What are you investing in?

1016
00:53:22.600 --> 00:53:24.640
What kind of time are you investing?

1017
00:53:24.640 --> 00:53:26.280
What kind of money are you investing?

1018
00:53:26.280 --> 00:53:28.240
What kind of energy are you investing?

1019
00:53:29.240 --> 00:53:30.080
What?

1020
00:53:33.920 --> 00:53:36.520
Stop wasting your resources, your time, your energy,

1021
00:53:36.520 --> 00:53:38.760
your money, your bandwidth.

1022
00:53:39.920 --> 00:53:41.160
I know you think you can do it all,

1023
00:53:41.160 --> 00:53:43.200
but I'm just here to tell you, you cannot.

1024
00:53:43.200 --> 00:53:44.920
You cannot do it all.

1025
00:53:44.920 --> 00:53:47.280
And I do believe that we can have it all.

1026
00:53:47.280 --> 00:53:49.200
I do, all the things that God has promised us,

1027
00:53:49.200 --> 00:53:51.280
I believe we can have all of those things,

1028
00:53:51.280 --> 00:53:54.480
but we probably can't have them all at the same time.

1029
00:53:54.640 --> 00:53:57.760
But we probably can't have them all at the same time,

1030
00:53:58.600 --> 00:54:01.840
meaning that there are some dreams that will have to die

1031
00:54:01.840 --> 00:54:03.640
and you will have to let go of

1032
00:54:03.640 --> 00:54:05.520
because their time has expired

1033
00:54:05.520 --> 00:54:09.200
in order for you to actualize new dreams.

1034
00:54:10.600 --> 00:54:13.400
New beginnings require endings, and that's a true story.

1035
00:54:15.080 --> 00:54:16.880
Can't have it all at the same time.

1036
00:54:18.840 --> 00:54:19.680
Cannot.

1037
00:54:21.080 --> 00:54:23.320
I loved raising my children, but friends,

1038
00:54:23.360 --> 00:54:25.960
I had to give up a lot to raise my children.

1039
00:54:27.320 --> 00:54:30.000
There are a lot of people that don't give up anything.

1040
00:54:30.000 --> 00:54:31.080
And you know what they don't do?

1041
00:54:31.080 --> 00:54:32.160
They don't raise their children.

1042
00:54:32.160 --> 00:54:33.200
Someone else does.

1043
00:54:34.280 --> 00:54:35.400
School systems do.

1044
00:54:36.400 --> 00:54:38.720
Their friends of their children's parents do.

1045
00:54:38.720 --> 00:54:40.440
Coaches do.

1046
00:54:40.440 --> 00:54:41.960
Other people around.

1047
00:54:41.960 --> 00:54:43.440
And then they grow up and they wonder

1048
00:54:43.440 --> 00:54:45.240
why their kids are not close to them,

1049
00:54:45.240 --> 00:54:47.800
why their kids don't wanna be around

1050
00:54:47.800 --> 00:54:50.040
because you didn't invest any time in your kids.

1051
00:54:50.040 --> 00:54:51.560
And I'm not here to shame you.

1052
00:54:53.360 --> 00:54:56.520
But I am here to tell you that it's not too late

1053
00:54:56.520 --> 00:54:57.840
if one of the things that you want

1054
00:54:57.840 --> 00:55:00.440
before the end of the year is a vibrant relationship.

1055
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:02.200
with your children and grandchildren, you can have it,

1056
00:55:02.200 --> 00:55:04.520
but you're going to have to really invest.

1057
00:55:06.520 --> 00:55:09.880
You're gonna have to invest the time and the energy

1058
00:55:09.880 --> 00:55:13.120
that you didn't invest when they were growing up.

1059
00:55:13.120 --> 00:55:14.720
After the divorce, you ran off

1060
00:55:14.720 --> 00:55:18.040
and tried to do your own thing, meet a man, meet a woman.

1061
00:55:18.040 --> 00:55:21.640
You're out trying to medicate your own wounds,

1062
00:55:21.640 --> 00:55:23.120
trying to make double the money

1063
00:55:23.120 --> 00:55:25.240
because there's only one income now,

1064
00:55:25.240 --> 00:55:29.360
but you made those choices

1065
00:55:29.440 --> 00:55:31.520
and you may have thought they were the right ones

1066
00:55:31.520 --> 00:55:34.440
at the time, but here's the truth.

1067
00:55:34.440 --> 00:55:38.320
The truth is, is that your children

1068
00:55:40.880 --> 00:55:44.880
want to see you invest your time and your energy,

1069
00:55:44.880 --> 00:55:47.920
your money, your emotional bandwidth into them.

1070
00:55:49.240 --> 00:55:51.040
Those years were really hard for me, you guys.

1071
00:55:51.040 --> 00:55:52.880
I'm a high capacity woman

1072
00:55:52.880 --> 00:55:55.840
and I always knew that I was called to do great things.

1073
00:55:55.840 --> 00:55:57.320
I always knew that I was called to minister

1074
00:55:57.320 --> 00:56:00.240
and speak and write and do all kinds of things,

1075
00:56:00.240 --> 00:56:01.960
but my kids needed my full attention.

1076
00:56:01.960 --> 00:56:04.080
They'd already been through a divorce.

1077
00:56:04.080 --> 00:56:04.920
They were young.

1078
00:56:04.920 --> 00:56:06.520
They were six, nine, and 11 years old

1079
00:56:06.520 --> 00:56:08.360
and they needed my attention.

1080
00:56:08.360 --> 00:56:11.640
And I reluctantly at first gave it to them,

1081
00:56:12.480 --> 00:56:14.080
reluctantly at first.

1082
00:56:14.080 --> 00:56:17.000
I tried my best to lean into that.

1083
00:56:17.000 --> 00:56:20.080
And I can tell you now, all three of my children

1084
00:56:20.080 --> 00:56:22.000
have chosen amazing partners.

1085
00:56:22.000 --> 00:56:24.720
They're all super healthy and happy

1086
00:56:24.720 --> 00:56:28.120
and well-situated and talented

1087
00:56:28.120 --> 00:56:31.080
and walking in their identities in Christ.

1088
00:56:31.080 --> 00:56:33.680
And they absolutely adore me and David.

1089
00:56:33.680 --> 00:56:34.800
They wanna be around us

1090
00:56:34.800 --> 00:56:37.160
more than they wanna be around anybody.

1091
00:56:37.160 --> 00:56:39.400
They're stuck like glue to us

1092
00:56:39.400 --> 00:56:41.440
and not in a codependent way.

1093
00:56:41.440 --> 00:56:42.680
And you know what?

1094
00:56:42.680 --> 00:56:45.520
All those years of sacrifice, worth it.

1095
00:56:48.040 --> 00:56:50.720
And I'm still young and I can do all the things.

1096
00:56:51.640 --> 00:56:53.320
And so if you didn't do that,

1097
00:56:53.320 --> 00:56:54.920
I want you to repent of that now

1098
00:56:54.920 --> 00:56:59.080
and ask God to accelerate your relationship

1099
00:56:59.080 --> 00:56:59.920
with your children

1100
00:56:59.920 --> 00:57:03.480
so that it doesn't take 15 years of raising them

1101
00:57:03.480 --> 00:57:04.800
because you don't have that anymore.

1102
00:57:04.800 --> 00:57:05.920
They're raised.

1103
00:57:05.920 --> 00:57:08.840
But God is able to accelerate that healing

1104
00:57:08.840 --> 00:57:09.920
and that bonding

1105
00:57:09.920 --> 00:57:12.800
so that you can have the rest of your lives together.

1106
00:57:13.800 --> 00:57:14.800
All right?

1107
00:57:14.800 --> 00:57:16.640
But they're gonna wanna see you invest

1108
00:57:16.640 --> 00:57:18.880
in them, in their children.

1109
00:57:18.880 --> 00:57:22.480
If you're still too distracted all about your own stuff,

1110
00:57:22.480 --> 00:57:23.320
forget it.

1111
00:57:23.320 --> 00:57:24.320
They're not gonna give you a chance.

1112
00:57:24.320 --> 00:57:27.280
They need to see you investing and sacrificing for them.

1113
00:57:30.640 --> 00:57:32.440
It can't be all about you.

1114
00:57:32.440 --> 00:57:33.280
I already told you

1115
00:57:33.280 --> 00:57:34.680
that you're the main character of your story,

1116
00:57:34.680 --> 00:57:36.640
but don't be a main character.

1117
00:57:36.640 --> 00:57:37.680
You know what that means?

1118
00:57:37.680 --> 00:57:39.720
Main character, personality.

1119
00:57:39.720 --> 00:57:43.320
When we're shallow and selfish,

1120
00:57:43.320 --> 00:57:44.480
we don't want that.

1121
00:57:44.480 --> 00:57:46.080
Yes, you're the star of your story,

1122
00:57:46.080 --> 00:57:47.280
but make sure that your story

1123
00:57:47.280 --> 00:57:49.040
is about loving and serving others.

1124
00:57:50.000 --> 00:57:52.840
So let's just put a little thing in there.

1125
00:57:52.840 --> 00:57:53.680
Okay.

1126
00:57:56.600 --> 00:57:58.400
I wrote, I have this down here.

1127
00:57:59.360 --> 00:58:02.360
What do you need to stop wasting your resources on?

1128
00:58:02.360 --> 00:58:03.960
What do you need to stop wasting your time

1129
00:58:03.960 --> 00:58:05.520
and your energy and your bandwidth on?

1130
00:58:05.520 --> 00:58:09.800
Because you're not getting a harvest back from that.

1131
00:58:11.080 --> 00:58:12.960
If you stop wasting your resources

1132
00:58:12.960 --> 00:58:14.320
on whatever that thing is,

1133
00:58:14.320 --> 00:58:17.720
then you can have more resources to sow into other stuff.

1134
00:58:17.720 --> 00:58:19.200
So go ahead and think about that for a second.

1135
00:58:19.200 --> 00:58:21.120
What am I wasting my resources on?

1136
00:58:22.120 --> 00:58:27.120
Time, energy, finances, emotional bandwidth, talents.

1137
00:58:34.200 --> 00:58:35.040
Marsh is honest.

1138
00:58:35.040 --> 00:58:37.280
She's like social media.

1139
00:58:37.280 --> 00:58:38.920
I'm wasting my time on that.

1140
00:58:40.720 --> 00:58:42.480
Social media, y'all.

1141
00:58:42.480 --> 00:58:43.440
God help us.

1142
00:58:48.000 --> 00:58:51.560
And you guys, AI is so rampant on social media.

1143
00:58:51.560 --> 00:58:53.320
The stories and all the things,

1144
00:58:53.320 --> 00:58:57.280
the videos are not real and it's so bizarre.

1145
00:58:57.280 --> 00:59:00.800
I have seen so many heartbreaking, fake news,

1146
00:59:00.800 --> 00:59:02.920
AI stories about the floods in Texas

1147
00:59:02.920 --> 00:59:04.840
and about children being rescued alive

1148
00:59:04.840 --> 00:59:07.720
and all kinds of stuff that just simply is not reality.

1149
00:59:07.720 --> 00:59:10.680
And it has caused so many people to have hope

1150
00:59:10.680 --> 00:59:13.880
in things that are just absolutely not accurate.

1151
00:59:13.880 --> 00:59:16.600
And it's just, it's actually kind of sickening.

1152
00:59:17.600 --> 00:59:18.680
It's really scary.

1153
00:59:19.640 --> 00:59:22.280
And a lot of people just don't know how to recognize that.

1154
00:59:22.280 --> 00:59:26.160
So they think it's real and it's bad.

1155
00:59:26.160 --> 00:59:29.160
All right, so get honest with yourself

1156
00:59:29.160 --> 00:59:33.120
about where you're wasting your stuff.

1157
00:59:33.120 --> 00:59:35.080
Let's stop wasting.

1158
00:59:35.080 --> 00:59:36.360
Let's not be wasteful.

1159
00:59:38.200 --> 00:59:41.120
We wanna sow into things that are fruitful.

1160
00:59:41.120 --> 00:59:44.480
You can't harvest from a field that you never sowed into.

1161
00:59:47.280 --> 00:59:49.280
Kind of, I mean, you kind of can.

1162
00:59:49.280 --> 00:59:53.080
The Bible has promised us that if we focus

1163
00:59:55.880 --> 00:59:58.240
and are intentional and are obedient

1164
00:59:58.240 --> 01:00:00.200
to what God is telling us to do.

1165
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:04.040
Then we can be in alignment with a transfer of wealth.

1166
01:00:04.040 --> 01:00:10.000
You can harvest vineyards that you didn't plant, live in houses that you didn't build.

1167
01:00:10.000 --> 01:00:11.520
I believe that.

1168
01:00:11.520 --> 01:00:12.640
I do.

1169
01:00:12.640 --> 01:00:14.480
But we have to sow somewhere.

1170
01:00:14.480 --> 01:00:16.500
So let's be sowing.

1171
01:00:16.500 --> 01:00:21.400
If we want Amos 9.13 to happen where the reaper overtakes the sower and there's a perpetual

1172
01:00:21.400 --> 01:00:27.000
suddenly season of harvest, we've got to be sowing our time, our energy, our talents,

1173
01:00:27.000 --> 01:00:28.000
all the things.

1174
01:00:28.000 --> 01:00:29.000
Okay.

1175
01:00:29.000 --> 01:00:37.200
Number six, we want to take immediate and imperfect action, friends.

1176
01:00:37.200 --> 01:00:40.040
Fire shoot aim.

1177
01:00:40.040 --> 01:00:44.640
Not, not, what is it?

1178
01:00:44.640 --> 01:00:46.120
Shoot aim fire or whatever.

1179
01:00:46.120 --> 01:00:47.880
No, the opposite.

1180
01:00:47.880 --> 01:00:49.200
The other way around.

1181
01:00:49.200 --> 01:00:51.080
You want to go ahead and take imperfect action.

1182
01:00:51.080 --> 01:00:55.400
Sorry, I feel like I'm screaming, but the air in my daughter's house, I'm at my daughter's

1183
01:00:55.400 --> 01:00:57.000
is really loud.

1184
01:00:57.000 --> 01:00:58.480
All right.

1185
01:00:58.480 --> 01:01:03.280
So I want you to think of one thing that you can do.

1186
01:01:03.280 --> 01:01:09.720
Even before you go to bed tonight, they can start moving this promise forward either tonight

1187
01:01:09.720 --> 01:01:23.200
or tomorrow morning, send the email, do the research, make the phone call.

1188
01:01:23.200 --> 01:01:24.200
Don't wait to feel the motivation.

1189
01:01:24.400 --> 01:01:27.800
Hopefully you feel motivation from tonight's talk, but you might not.

1190
01:01:27.800 --> 01:01:29.760
So go ahead and move.

1191
01:01:29.760 --> 01:01:31.560
Just make a decision.

1192
01:01:31.560 --> 01:01:35.040
Do it, do it.

1193
01:01:35.040 --> 01:01:37.560
People often ask me, Jackie, you know, how do you accomplish so much?

1194
01:01:37.560 --> 01:01:38.720
Like, how are you successful?

1195
01:01:38.720 --> 01:01:39.720
I just do it.

1196
01:01:39.720 --> 01:01:46.240
Just do it.

1197
01:01:46.240 --> 01:01:47.240
Sometimes it doesn't work out.

1198
01:01:47.240 --> 01:01:48.240
That's okay.

1199
01:01:48.240 --> 01:01:50.520
That's why it's called imperfect action.

1200
01:01:50.520 --> 01:01:52.800
I just learned one way not to do it.

1201
01:01:52.800 --> 01:01:58.040
And then I don't do it like that the next time I just do it a different way.

1202
01:01:58.040 --> 01:01:59.400
Do it.

1203
01:01:59.400 --> 01:02:00.560
You don't need permission from God.

1204
01:02:00.560 --> 01:02:02.520
He already gave you permission.

1205
01:02:02.520 --> 01:02:03.560
You already have permission.

1206
01:02:03.560 --> 01:02:05.000
You're pre-approved.

1207
01:02:05.000 --> 01:02:06.000
You're pre-approved.

1208
01:02:06.000 --> 01:02:07.000
Okay.

1209
01:02:07.000 --> 01:02:12.800
I wrote this, I wrote this, this is in my notes and I want to speak it over you and

1210
01:02:12.800 --> 01:02:15.240
I want you to write it down.

1211
01:02:15.240 --> 01:02:17.000
Action breaks intimidation.

1212
01:02:17.000 --> 01:02:22.840
If you're intimidated to start, taking action will break that intimidation off of you.

1213
01:02:22.840 --> 01:02:25.760
Even the smallest action.

1214
01:02:25.760 --> 01:02:31.680
And then the other part of that is action activates favor.

1215
01:02:31.680 --> 01:02:38.120
Remember, God will order our steps when we make a plan.

1216
01:02:38.120 --> 01:02:42.640
When we start moving, don't just make the plan, activate the plan.

1217
01:02:42.640 --> 01:02:44.360
All right.

1218
01:02:44.360 --> 01:02:53.120
Step seven, protect the process.

1219
01:02:53.120 --> 01:02:55.320
I want you to think about the first half of this year.

1220
01:02:55.320 --> 01:02:58.480
Some of you have already been trying to get this accomplished in the first six months

1221
01:02:58.480 --> 01:03:00.200
and you weren't able to.

1222
01:03:00.200 --> 01:03:03.660
You made very little progress or maybe no progress and I want you to get honest with

1223
01:03:03.660 --> 01:03:11.040
yourself and ask yourself what or who has been derailing you.

1224
01:03:11.040 --> 01:03:16.880
It might be you derailing you and your own bad mindsets, your own guilt and shame and

1225
01:03:16.880 --> 01:03:18.240
beat yourself up.

1226
01:03:18.240 --> 01:03:21.280
I told someone today, they wanted advice about something.

1227
01:03:21.280 --> 01:03:24.800
They're always asking me for advice and they wanted advice about something that they were

1228
01:03:24.800 --> 01:03:28.040
dealing with, some intrusive thoughts that they were having.

1229
01:03:28.040 --> 01:03:33.360
And I just straight up told them, why are you trying to find something wrong with yourself?

1230
01:03:33.360 --> 01:03:34.360
And they're like, what?

1231
01:03:34.360 --> 01:03:37.600
I was like, why can't you just be happy?

1232
01:03:37.600 --> 01:03:42.280
I said, every time your life is going good and you're liking your life and you're making

1233
01:03:42.280 --> 01:03:50.360
progress and you're getting momentum, you find a reason to punish yourself for something,

1234
01:03:50.360 --> 01:03:54.440
to find something wrong with yourself, to have intrusive thoughts that you feel guilty

1235
01:03:54.440 --> 01:03:55.440
about.

1236
01:03:55.440 --> 01:04:00.560
Or I was like, why can't you just enjoy your life?

1237
01:04:00.560 --> 01:04:01.840
And for some of you, that's true.

1238
01:04:01.840 --> 01:04:03.200
You're derailing you.

1239
01:04:03.200 --> 01:04:04.720
You won't allow yourself to be happy.

1240
01:04:04.720 --> 01:04:10.240
You're not going to allow yourself to accomplish these goals because you hate yourself and

1241
01:04:10.240 --> 01:04:12.920
you hate yourself because of shame.

1242
01:04:12.920 --> 01:04:19.840
You hate yourself because of things that you've been through that now you have taken on yourself.

1243
01:04:19.840 --> 01:04:21.440
They might've been done to you.

1244
01:04:21.440 --> 01:04:30.560
Maybe you did them, but you haven't forgiven yourself and or you have reframed the problem

1245
01:04:30.560 --> 01:04:36.960
as you being the problem instead of allowing it to be other people's in other people's

1246
01:04:36.960 --> 01:04:37.960
court.

1247
01:04:37.960 --> 01:04:44.880
You're just punishing yourself because of shame.

1248
01:04:44.880 --> 01:04:45.880
Can't do this.

1249
01:04:45.880 --> 01:04:52.680
You're not going to be successful if you don't believe that you're allowed to be successful.

1250
01:04:52.680 --> 01:04:54.320
And for some of you, this is very, very true.

1251
01:04:54.320 --> 01:04:55.320
All right.

1252
01:04:55.320 --> 01:04:59.920
So identify your biggest distraction, your biggest self-sabotage.

1253
01:04:59.920 --> 01:05:00.920
For

1254
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:03.060
Some of you, and I did a Supernatural Saturday about this,

1255
01:05:00.920 --> 01:05:01.920
a

1256
01:05:01.920 --> 01:05:02.920
little

1257
01:05:02.920 --> 01:05:03.920
bit

1258
01:05:03.060 --> 01:05:05.240
probably like two months ago,

1259
01:05:03.920 --> 01:05:04.920
more

1260
01:05:04.920 --> 01:05:05.920
information,

1261
01:05:05.240 --> 01:05:08.820
but as soon as you start getting some momentum,

1262
01:05:05.920 --> 01:05:06.920
visit

1263
01:05:06.920 --> 01:05:07.920
the

1264
01:05:07.920 --> 01:05:08.920
website

1265
01:05:08.920 --> 01:05:09.920
that

1266
01:05:09.920 --> 01:05:10.920
you

1267
01:05:10.280 --> 01:05:14.040
things start happening that are derailing you,

1268
01:05:10.920 --> 01:05:11.920
want

1269
01:05:11.920 --> 01:05:12.920
to

1270
01:05:12.920 --> 01:05:13.920
find.

1271
01:05:13.920 --> 01:05:14.920
And

1272
01:05:14.040 --> 01:05:15.780
and they're always the same things.

1273
01:05:14.920 --> 01:05:15.920
you

1274
01:05:15.920 --> 01:05:16.920
can

1275
01:05:16.920 --> 01:05:17.920
find

1276
01:05:17.200 --> 01:05:20.000
You start getting sick.

1277
01:05:17.920 --> 01:05:18.920
it

1278
01:05:18.920 --> 01:05:19.920
on

1279
01:05:19.920 --> 01:05:20.920
the

1280
01:05:20.000 --> 01:05:21.640
You're like, well, I can't control getting sick.

1281
01:05:20.920 --> 01:05:21.920
website.

1282
01:05:21.640 --> 01:05:23.200
Yeah, you can.

1283
01:05:21.920 --> 01:05:22.920
And

1284
01:05:22.920 --> 01:05:23.920
you

1285
01:05:23.200 --> 01:05:24.080
Yeah, you can.

1286
01:05:23.920 --> 01:05:24.920
can

1287
01:05:24.920 --> 01:05:25.920
find

1288
01:05:24.960 --> 01:05:26.920
If there's a pattern of you getting sick

1289
01:05:25.920 --> 01:05:26.920
it

1290
01:05:26.920 --> 01:05:27.920
on

1291
01:05:26.920 --> 01:05:28.040
and having health problems

1292
01:05:27.920 --> 01:05:28.920
the

1293
01:05:28.040 --> 01:05:30.520
every time that you start to gain momentum in your life,

1294
01:05:30.520 --> 01:05:31.620
that's demonic.

1295
01:05:35.480 --> 01:05:37.120
There's something tied to that.

1296
01:05:37.120 --> 01:05:38.480
That's not a coincidence.

1297
01:05:40.120 --> 01:05:42.000
And maybe you're not even really truly getting sick.

1298
01:05:42.000 --> 01:05:44.020
Maybe you're just worrying about getting sick.

1299
01:05:44.020 --> 01:05:46.800
Maybe you're all of a sudden focusing on that knee pain

1300
01:05:46.800 --> 01:05:48.240
that you've had for 20 years now,

1301
01:05:48.240 --> 01:05:49.600
but all of a sudden you're like,

1302
01:05:49.600 --> 01:05:51.560
oh, I think it's something really bad.

1303
01:05:51.560 --> 01:05:53.740
No, you're just self-sabotaging.

1304
01:05:53.740 --> 01:05:58.740
You're just self-sabotaging.

1305
01:05:59.180 --> 01:06:00.580
Every time you start to gain momentum,

1306
01:06:00.580 --> 01:06:02.340
you have financial problems.

1307
01:06:02.340 --> 01:06:03.360
You have car problems.

1308
01:06:03.360 --> 01:06:05.180
You have relationship problems.

1309
01:06:05.180 --> 01:06:07.220
Every time things are peaceful and going well,

1310
01:06:07.220 --> 01:06:08.660
you pick a fight with someone.

1311
01:06:08.660 --> 01:06:11.940
You get into some big, hairy, nasty,

1312
01:06:12.820 --> 01:06:15.460
offense-laden situation with somebody.

1313
01:06:17.980 --> 01:06:19.040
It's a pattern.

1314
01:06:20.860 --> 01:06:23.620
So let's identify those self-sabotaging patterns, friends,

1315
01:06:24.460 --> 01:06:25.300
and let's cut them off.

1316
01:06:25.300 --> 01:06:26.120
Let's do the hard work.

1317
01:06:26.120 --> 01:06:27.220
Let's get down to the root.

1318
01:06:32.020 --> 01:06:33.780
All right, the other way we're gonna protect the process

1319
01:06:33.780 --> 01:06:35.160
is with accountability.

1320
01:06:35.160 --> 01:06:39.300
In that chat, we're gonna hold each other accountable.

1321
01:06:39.300 --> 01:06:41.980
You guys, please don't over-coach each other in those chats.

1322
01:06:41.980 --> 01:06:43.220
Don't offend each other.

1323
01:06:43.220 --> 01:06:46.700
Don't give people unsolicited coaching advice.

1324
01:06:46.700 --> 01:06:48.500
If you really wanna tell someone something,

1325
01:06:48.500 --> 01:06:53.140
start out with, hey, I think I see something here.

1326
01:06:53.180 --> 01:06:54.540
Would you mind if I shared?

1327
01:06:56.220 --> 01:06:58.260
Do you wanna, would you like me to share?

1328
01:06:58.260 --> 01:06:59.900
Would it be okay if I shared?

1329
01:06:59.900 --> 01:07:02.100
Ask them before you just tell them.

1330
01:07:03.660 --> 01:07:05.940
And if it's not the kind of advice or feedback

1331
01:07:05.940 --> 01:07:07.400
that you would wanna get publicly,

1332
01:07:07.400 --> 01:07:09.400
then don't give it to them publicly.

1333
01:07:10.580 --> 01:07:13.660
If it would embarrass you to get that in a group chat,

1334
01:07:13.660 --> 01:07:16.200
then it would probably embarrass them too.

1335
01:07:21.380 --> 01:07:22.220
Okay?

1336
01:07:23.620 --> 01:07:24.460
Okay.

1337
01:07:28.220 --> 01:07:29.320
I learned this years ago.

1338
01:07:29.320 --> 01:07:31.660
God spoke this to me, and I'm gonna speak it over you.

1339
01:07:31.660 --> 01:07:33.620
The enemy of your dream

1340
01:07:36.180 --> 01:07:37.500
is distraction.

1341
01:07:41.080 --> 01:07:44.560
It's not the devil, okay?

1342
01:07:44.560 --> 01:07:46.780
The enemy of your dream is not failure.

1343
01:07:46.780 --> 01:07:49.020
In fact, you're gonna have to fail to succeed,

1344
01:07:49.020 --> 01:07:50.540
so expect it.

1345
01:07:50.540 --> 01:07:51.860
Get up and try again.

1346
01:07:53.260 --> 01:07:57.500
The enemy of your dreams and goals is distraction.

1347
01:07:57.500 --> 01:07:58.340
I want you to say it.

1348
01:07:58.340 --> 01:07:59.680
Distraction is my enemy.

1349
01:08:00.940 --> 01:08:02.480
Distraction is my enemy.

1350
01:08:04.580 --> 01:08:06.940
Whatever distracts me and tries to keep me

1351
01:08:06.940 --> 01:08:09.220
from staying focused is my enemy.

1352
01:08:11.940 --> 01:08:12.780
All right.

1353
01:08:14.180 --> 01:08:16.859
Step eight, last step.

1354
01:08:16.859 --> 01:08:21.540
Repeat the dream, the goal daily.

1355
01:08:24.140 --> 01:08:27.620
Build a daily shift ritual.

1356
01:08:27.620 --> 01:08:29.460
You want a daily shift ritual.

1357
01:08:30.740 --> 01:08:34.279
So I'm gonna have a five-minute check-in in the morning.

1358
01:08:34.279 --> 01:08:36.460
Do it again before you go to bed if you need to.

1359
01:08:36.460 --> 01:08:37.380
What are you doing right there?

1360
01:08:37.380 --> 01:08:38.620
Your affirmations.

1361
01:08:40.120 --> 01:08:41.300
Those are your affirmations.

1362
01:08:41.300 --> 01:08:42.899
That's what you're gonna do right there.

1363
01:08:42.899 --> 01:08:44.399
You're gonna speak the vision.

1364
01:08:45.859 --> 01:08:47.060
You're gonna touch the plan.

1365
01:08:47.060 --> 01:08:48.800
If it's written in a journal, you're gonna look at it.

1366
01:08:48.800 --> 01:08:51.620
If you made a little mini board, you're gonna look at it.

1367
01:08:51.620 --> 01:08:52.939
You're gonna visualize.

1368
01:08:53.660 --> 01:08:57.260
You're gonna reconnect to the why behind the what

1369
01:08:57.260 --> 01:08:58.700
every single day.

1370
01:09:01.380 --> 01:09:03.939
You're gonna stay anchored, stay connected.

1371
01:09:05.660 --> 01:09:06.800
Pray over it.

1372
01:09:08.100 --> 01:09:09.700
Let God show you what you can't see.

1373
01:09:09.700 --> 01:09:11.500
Teach me, show me, heal me, grow me.

1374
01:09:12.720 --> 01:09:15.060
God renews our mind through repetition, friends.

1375
01:09:15.060 --> 01:09:16.359
Romans 12 too.

1376
01:09:17.580 --> 01:09:19.340
It comes by reputation.

1377
01:09:19.340 --> 01:09:21.060
That's how God renews our mind.

1378
01:09:23.779 --> 01:09:28.779
All right, those are all eight of our steps.

1379
01:09:34.500 --> 01:09:36.020
They're not hard.

1380
01:09:36.020 --> 01:09:37.260
They all build on each other.

1381
01:09:37.260 --> 01:09:38.420
They all go together.

1382
01:09:39.680 --> 01:09:41.319
We can do this.

1383
01:09:41.319 --> 01:09:42.460
We can achieve.

1384
01:09:43.700 --> 01:09:46.260
We can, we can achieve these goals, these dreams.

1385
01:09:46.260 --> 01:09:50.720
We can step into this manifestation of promises

1386
01:09:50.720 --> 01:09:51.560
and breakthrough.

1387
01:09:51.560 --> 01:09:52.660
We can, we can do it.

1388
01:09:53.819 --> 01:09:56.180
I told someone today, one of my private clients,

1389
01:09:56.180 --> 01:09:58.640
I told them they wanted to,

1390
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:02.240
They wanted to get back on the apps.

1391
01:10:02.240 --> 01:10:04.080
I wanna say something that I know is gonna offend

1392
01:10:04.080 --> 01:10:05.600
a lot of you, but I'm gonna go ahead and say it.

1393
01:10:05.600 --> 01:10:10.600
70% of adults are meeting their spirit mate on an app, 70%.

1394
01:10:12.320 --> 01:10:15.340
I know you don't like that, I know you hate the apps.

1395
01:10:15.340 --> 01:10:16.960
And I'm not telling you to get on the apps.

1396
01:10:16.960 --> 01:10:18.620
Please do not make this part of your plan

1397
01:10:18.620 --> 01:10:19.740
if it's not part of your plan.

1398
01:10:19.740 --> 01:10:23.360
But this person wanted to get on the apps, back on the apps.

1399
01:10:23.360 --> 01:10:27.000
She's 38 years old, I think.

1400
01:10:28.000 --> 01:10:30.560
And this is what I told her.

1401
01:10:30.560 --> 01:10:32.480
I said, do not get on the apps

1402
01:10:32.480 --> 01:10:34.420
unless you have a strategy and a plan.

1403
01:10:34.420 --> 01:10:35.800
She's like, what do you mean?

1404
01:10:35.800 --> 01:10:38.240
I said, you have to time block this.

1405
01:10:38.240 --> 01:10:42.520
People feel burnt out and discouraged by technology dating

1406
01:10:42.520 --> 01:10:44.400
because they don't do it right.

1407
01:10:47.820 --> 01:10:49.200
Now she's my private client,

1408
01:10:49.200 --> 01:10:51.780
so I put together a strategy for her.

1409
01:10:51.780 --> 01:10:53.480
You have to time block this.

1410
01:10:53.480 --> 01:10:55.320
You don't just get on the apps when you're lonely

1411
01:10:55.360 --> 01:10:57.440
or when you feel like it, swipe a little bit

1412
01:10:57.440 --> 01:11:00.640
and then get off and then get back on three months later.

1413
01:11:01.560 --> 01:11:04.040
Have a binge where you're swiping constantly

1414
01:11:04.040 --> 01:11:07.480
for 24 hours straight and then you fall off and bleh.

1415
01:11:08.720 --> 01:11:13.200
No, that's not how you do this, okay?

1416
01:11:13.200 --> 01:11:16.320
You have to have a strategy.

1417
01:11:16.320 --> 01:11:19.320
You have to time block it just like everything else.

1418
01:11:19.320 --> 01:11:23.280
And so if part of your plan for meeting someone

1419
01:11:23.280 --> 01:11:25.160
that you're gonna be marriage-minded with

1420
01:11:26.000 --> 01:11:28.440
before the end of 2025 and you have a plan

1421
01:11:28.440 --> 01:11:32.920
to use technology to help and aid you in that goal,

1422
01:11:32.920 --> 01:11:34.780
you have to time block it.

1423
01:11:36.640 --> 01:11:41.640
You have to choose an app, a platform

1424
01:11:41.880 --> 01:11:43.760
that Holy Spirit is leading you to.

1425
01:11:44.740 --> 01:11:48.100
And you have to make the best profile that you can

1426
01:11:48.100 --> 01:11:49.880
with the tools and the resources

1427
01:11:49.880 --> 01:11:51.600
and the understanding that you have.

1428
01:11:51.600 --> 01:11:53.680
And we've done a lot of teaching on that.

1429
01:11:53.680 --> 01:11:55.120
And I'll post this in your groups

1430
01:11:55.120 --> 01:11:57.000
for those of you that wanna do this.

1431
01:11:57.000 --> 01:11:58.560
And then you have to make a plan

1432
01:11:58.560 --> 01:12:01.360
of how often you're going to be on there,

1433
01:12:01.360 --> 01:12:03.480
swiping, choosing people to connect with

1434
01:12:03.480 --> 01:12:06.940
and then talking in messages to those people.

1435
01:12:08.180 --> 01:12:11.360
Okay, deleting the ones that aren't going anywhere,

1436
01:12:11.360 --> 01:12:12.880
making a decision of how many people

1437
01:12:12.880 --> 01:12:14.760
you're gonna connect with per week,

1438
01:12:14.760 --> 01:12:17.200
how many conversations you're gonna let them have with you

1439
01:12:17.200 --> 01:12:18.960
until they have the date and if they don't,

1440
01:12:18.960 --> 01:12:22.160
going ahead and pruning them off.

1441
01:12:22.160 --> 01:12:24.300
You have to have a strategy.

1442
01:12:25.440 --> 01:12:27.320
And you can't give up on that app

1443
01:12:27.320 --> 01:12:29.120
when you haven't met someone in two weeks

1444
01:12:29.120 --> 01:12:30.320
and switch to another app.

1445
01:12:30.320 --> 01:12:31.880
You have to stay with it.

1446
01:12:32.920 --> 01:12:35.940
You felt like God led you there to that platform,

1447
01:12:35.940 --> 01:12:37.280
to that technology.

1448
01:12:38.820 --> 01:12:41.480
These are the things that you have to do

1449
01:12:41.480 --> 01:12:44.140
if you're going to be successful there.

1450
01:12:44.140 --> 01:12:45.720
People wanna get on there

1451
01:12:45.720 --> 01:12:48.040
and they wanna do two or three swipes

1452
01:12:48.040 --> 01:12:49.200
and just meet the person

1453
01:12:49.200 --> 01:12:50.720
they're gonna spend the rest of their life with.

1454
01:12:50.720 --> 01:12:52.120
And if it doesn't happen like that,

1455
01:12:52.960 --> 01:12:53.800
then they get very frustrated.

1456
01:12:53.800 --> 01:12:56.080
And then some people work those apps like a job.

1457
01:12:56.080 --> 01:12:58.820
They're super burnout, they're bitter, they're jaded,

1458
01:12:58.820 --> 01:13:01.060
but they've put all their hope and trust

1459
01:13:01.060 --> 01:13:03.120
in technology-based dating

1460
01:13:03.120 --> 01:13:04.260
because they just simply don't think

1461
01:13:04.260 --> 01:13:06.180
they can meet anyone in person.

1462
01:13:06.180 --> 01:13:08.560
You have to decide what's right for you.

1463
01:13:08.560 --> 01:13:11.080
And I think a hybrid of doing a little bit of both

1464
01:13:11.080 --> 01:13:12.520
is really important in summertime.

1465
01:13:12.520 --> 01:13:14.280
Let's get out, let's meet people.

1466
01:13:14.280 --> 01:13:16.660
But we have to have a strategy.

1467
01:13:16.660 --> 01:13:18.180
We have to time block.

1468
01:13:18.180 --> 01:13:21.180
We have to spend a specific amount of time,

1469
01:13:21.180 --> 01:13:24.380
energy, resources on our dream,

1470
01:13:24.380 --> 01:13:25.900
no matter what our dream is.

1471
01:13:28.580 --> 01:13:30.260
Correct?

1472
01:13:30.260 --> 01:13:31.100
All right.

1473
01:13:31.100 --> 01:13:32.580
Did you guys enjoy tonight?

1474
01:13:35.720 --> 01:13:36.660
I hope you did.

1475
01:13:36.660 --> 01:13:40.480
So in the chat, we can hold each other accountable.

1476
01:13:40.480 --> 01:13:43.020
You can dig into what it is that you're going after.

1477
01:13:43.020 --> 01:13:45.100
You can tell people, people can cheer you on.

1478
01:13:45.100 --> 01:13:47.360
We're all gonna clap when each other win.

1479
01:13:47.360 --> 01:13:50.140
People can give you feedback if you invite feedback.

1480
01:13:50.140 --> 01:13:53.040
Friends, if they're not inviting feedback,

1481
01:13:53.040 --> 01:13:55.000
don't give them feedback.

1482
01:13:55.000 --> 01:13:57.240
If you do want feedback, make sure you ask for it.

1483
01:13:57.240 --> 01:13:59.320
Say, hey, I'm thinking about doing this

1484
01:13:59.320 --> 01:14:02.100
and this is what I'm gonna hold myself accountable to.

1485
01:14:02.100 --> 01:14:03.800
Does anyone have anything to add?

1486
01:14:03.800 --> 01:14:06.100
Does anyone have any resources or tools

1487
01:14:06.100 --> 01:14:08.000
they think I should take a look at?

1488
01:14:08.000 --> 01:14:09.120
Support one another.

1489
01:14:11.680 --> 01:14:12.580
Right?

1490
01:14:12.580 --> 01:14:13.420
Sound good?

1491
01:14:14.580 --> 01:14:15.420
All right.

1492
01:14:15.420 --> 01:14:18.160
Father God, we thank you that you've created us to succeed,

1493
01:14:18.160 --> 01:14:19.860
that we are winners, Lord.

1494
01:14:20.580 --> 01:14:22.280
And so Father, we thank you that each and every one of us

1495
01:14:22.280 --> 01:14:25.240
are going to get the resources, the tools, the strategies,

1496
01:14:25.240 --> 01:14:27.960
the favor, the understanding in order to accomplish

1497
01:14:27.960 --> 01:14:30.720
our dreams and goals that you have set aside for us

1498
01:14:30.720 --> 01:14:32.540
for 2025.

1499
01:14:32.540 --> 01:14:34.600
We believe that your promises are yes and amen.

1500
01:14:34.600 --> 01:14:37.200
And we believe that now is our time more than ever before.

1501
01:14:37.200 --> 01:14:39.680
We have to step into places of authority,

1502
01:14:39.680 --> 01:14:42.400
into places of favor, into places of success,

1503
01:14:42.400 --> 01:14:45.240
in our relationships, in our health, in our wealth,

1504
01:14:45.240 --> 01:14:47.560
in community, in the world.

1505
01:14:47.560 --> 01:14:51.300
We are leaders, not followers, except of Christ.

1506
01:14:51.300 --> 01:14:53.580
And so Lord, we thank you, God, that you love us

1507
01:14:53.580 --> 01:14:55.700
and that you're for us and life is for us.

1508
01:14:55.700 --> 01:14:59.260
And now is our time in Jesus name, amen.

1509
01:14:59.260 --> 01:15:00.220
All right, friends.

1510
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:02.720
I'll see you soon. Bye, everyone.