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Hey, good evening, it's July 21st, 2025 with all these amazing mighty men of valor and

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this is Mike and we're with the Afro and I'm leading tonight so yeah.

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So you know Joshua had a major, previously we were talking about Joshua having a major,

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making it through a fast and getting a new job that he wanted so dude that is like praise

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the Lord.

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I love that dude, wins, wins, wins.

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Anybody else got some wins?

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I'm currently on a fast, eating for a day and fasting for a day and then on my eating

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days like today, I eat all my meals in a three-hour window and I'm purposely doing it after school

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so it's kind of just like being ferocious in my studies and being, I don't know, just

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less bogged down about thinking about what I'm going to eat, just saving it for afterward

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and so far things are going well.

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Only a weekend though but you know, just spending time learning how to make myself better.

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Well and you're in your place which that's a win and you got a robotic lawnmower.

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I mean so David got a robotic lawnmower, he's in his place and in his school and I mean

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that's a bunch of prayers answered right there, right?

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Just the fact that, I mean and we're so proud of you bro for, I mean like you wanted it,

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you went and you pushed forward and you got and you're in it, right?

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And like I say, it's beautiful, it encourages me, right?

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Like you guys, dude, like David stepped up and went after it and he's getting it.

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I mean it makes me like, oh well how can I step up, right?

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So anybody else?

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I have something to share but it's, I don't know, I want to give everybody the chance.

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Everybody say nothing when you want to.

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It's so depressing.

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All right.

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What's going on Hunter?

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Oh, I, you know, there's a, I just got an email.

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Can you hear me?

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Yeah, I hear you.

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I can hear you.

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All right.

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Well, I went out and I heard about I need to do some coaching before I get into LoveSeat

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and, but I accidentally went, bombed into, I saw an email that was not in my primary

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thing about Jackie giving me about Pedro doing a coaching about goals coaching and reset.

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So I signed up for it.

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I spent $295 on a fee for that.

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So I joined in and I figured, you know what, I got a lot to do.

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I want to, I want to solve some problems, this six month program.

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Wow.

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So you're going to jump in?

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I just jumped in weeks ago and I got done with Prime and I'm already taking care of

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finances and I went 20 days without looking at pornography.

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That's amazing.

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Awesome.

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I figured, you know what, if the more you walk away from self and the more you want

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to pursue intimacy, the less appealing it is to you because you want, it's all about

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pleasure.

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There's no intimacy in porn at all.

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And it ruins your perspective for your future life and every woman.

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Not to mention it's a lot of those people, a lot of those pornos are years old.

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Do you think those people in those pornos have moved on with their life?

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So maybe you should do the same.

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Not to mention.

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And also, so I figured I started some goals and everything.

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I started new kinds of goals, like talk to have one conversation with a woman, like a

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normal conversation with anybody, level one, level two relationship once a day or once

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every couple of days, because it's better than staying lonely and isolated.

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And also I'm already working on Jiu Jitsu and going to the gym today.

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I did six sets of each and I'm going to get up and work and start.

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Way to go.

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Yeah.

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Brazilian Jiu Jitsu?

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Yes.

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That.

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I've thought about doing that.

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I don't know.

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But everybody I see that does Jiu Jitsu ends up getting hurt.

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So like, you know, like, I don't know.

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I kind of like whatever.

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So that's cool.

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It's just who you roll with, Mike.

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Is it really?

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Yeah.

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You know, I think it's the white belts are the most dangerous people in the world.

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That's what I heard.

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They're going nonstop fast.

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And I'm also trying to do it.

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Yeah.

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That's one of my goals as well.

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And I'm going to do that.

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And then I'm going to I'm also going on the singles cruise in January.

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So figure, you know what, let's travel.

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And I'm all set and ready and I'm going to get set to go for it and do calls.

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Dude, that's awesome.

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What?

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What's up?

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Did somebody say something?

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Well, no.

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And I'm also going to have to work today on getting a haircut.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I might need one of those, just thinking, you know, but that's all right.

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Yeah, me too.

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So, all right.

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Well, Hunter, that's really good.

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You know, that's, you know, this week, you guys, you know, Jackie was talking about …

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Hey, guys.

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Sorry.

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Oh.

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I don't want to interrupt.

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I just wanted to pop in in case that you guys didn't find out the announcement that there

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is no other group for men this week except for this.

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Obviously, Faith Friday, Supernatural Saturday, Sunday, but just no Tuesday.

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So, that was removed from your calendar because we're going to have a women's only session

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and just wanted to let you guys know.

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All right.

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Hi, Jackie.

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Hi.

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I love the mid-set, the reset, the halftime, so, yeah.

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Yeah, and if you guys have any questions about that, let me know.

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I'd love to answer them.

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I see a whole bunch of bright faces in here that I haven't seen in a while.

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David Gamma is here.

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I see people that I have not seen in a long time, so that's great.

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Jesse's here.

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That's awesome.

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So, I'm assuming that you're leading tonight, Mike?

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I am.

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Okay.

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All right.

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Well, you guys, if you're not involved in the halftime reset, make sure the halftime

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shift is what we're calling it.

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Make sure that you watch that replay.

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It's on Thursday.

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Thursday's replay from last week.

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And then, also, I need volunteers for single spotlight, which is next on the 31st.

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So, if you want to volunteer for single spotlights, and for those of you that already volunteered

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and you didn't get any feedback about matches, we're actually going to be putting out your

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matches to you this week.

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And so, everyone had matches.

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Everyone had people that reached out about them, and so we will be giving those to you

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guys.

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Do you guys have questions for me?

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Is that why your hands are up?

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Yeah.

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Otherwise, I'm going to leave.

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Okay.

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Hunter, what's up?

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Well, I'm sorry.

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Forgive me for being delayed about the reset, the halftime reset, but the thing is, I'm

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joining Pedro with a six-month program, and so I figured, I assumed that was the coaching

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I needed to be on the spotlight, or no?

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I mean, it doesn't have anything to do with that.

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I mean, I'm a marketing partner of Pedro's, and I will be part of that group as well,

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but that doesn't have anything to do with this group.

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Oh, never mind.

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So, yeah.

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Thanks.

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I'm just going to do wherever I got to go to get on the spotlight.

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Gotcha.

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Hunter, thank you for letting me know that you're doing that, and I think that will be

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really good for you.

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Stephen, what's your question?

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Hi there, Jackie.

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I just quickly want to check the Ask Jackie on the app doesn't work on my app.

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Has there been an update recently, or is there something wrong with that Ask Jackie page?

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You're saying the form that you filled, like the form that you asked your question in is

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not populating for you?

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Is that what you're saying?

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Yeah, that's right.

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So, it's Google Drive.

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Sorry, the file you have requested has been deleted, as pops up on my screen.

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Anyone else recently have that same situation with that?

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I haven't tried it.

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We will test that, and I will let you know what's up with that, but thank you for bringing

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it to our attention.

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Thank you.

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Questions?

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Hi, Jackie.

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Hi.

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I'd be interested in doing the spotlight if you need another person.

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We always need another person, so as many guys as we can, that ladies love to meet you

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They love to hear you guys answer their questions, so definitely, for sure.

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And what about you, Joshua?

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Joshua?

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Joshua?

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Yeah, I'd love to be part of the single spotlight.

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I finished the heart work again, like 10 or so days ago.

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I still need to do that form, like what do you, the qualities are non-negotiables and

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a wife sort of thing, but pretty much done.

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I haven't started that other part alongside the heart work with all those like 24 videos

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I'm blanking on the name of it right now.

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The Love Story Accelerator?

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Maybe.

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So it's phase two.

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It's phase two after the heart work is what you're talking about.

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Well, I think I'm still in phase one.

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It's the heart work and then that other course thing in the app.

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The only other course that we have besides the heart work videos would be the Love Story

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Accelerator.

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So it's boundaries and dating 101, online dating, like those videos.

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Is that what you're referring to?

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The PATH sessions.

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Well, yeah, we have some replays on PATH sessions.

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Those are just different topics that I've taught on over the last couple of years of

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our program.

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They should be titled, so you could go through and look.

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There's some attachment style stuff in there that could be interesting.

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Um, to use sort of like a library of content, so you don't have to finish those, um, that's

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not required.

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It's just there for you if you want it.

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I was just wondering if there was anything you wanted me to do before I like go to single

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spotlight or something like that, so no, I mean, all of you are entitled to have a single

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spotlight.

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Uh, we don't let men stay in here that we don't think are safe and, you know, doing

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the hard work is in your benefit because going forward in relationship is going to require

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it for you, um, because we are, we're going to run into problems.

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All of us are.

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And, um, a lot of people cut and run when they run into a problem, they start convincing

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themselves that, you know, if this was a God match for them, that it would be easy and

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there wouldn't be any, you know, rocks in the road, you know, any potholes.

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And that's just not true, especially not in the year 2025.

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So please make sure that you understand that there is going to be conflict.

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It's how you're going to address the conflict, how you're going to frame the conflict when

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it happens.

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Are you going to make a mountain out of molehill?

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Are you going to own your side of the street?

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Are you going to realize, um, if it's a trigger of yours, that that's what's happening or

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you're going to blame the other person and the ladies get the same type of teaching.

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So you don't think that, you know, this is a man thing and we're like trying to make

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it a man thing because it's not, um, we tell the ladies the same thing.

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I can't tell you how many, you know, potentially really good matches I have seen that gets

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shipwrecked by people not doing their hard work.

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So, right.

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And I see some of you are reluctantly here after, um, trying to go it alone for a while.

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And so glad to have you back and seeing that, you know, community is good and that we need

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coaching and that we need to address things before they become problems.

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You can definitely address something before it becomes a, you know, a, a hand grenade

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that blows up your life.

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Can address it first before it becomes a serious issue.

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So, um, yeah.

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All right, guys.

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Well, I'll let Mike do whatever kind of stuff you guys are going to do tonight together.

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Um, David bought a truck today.

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That's where he is because I told him this morning when I woke up, you can't use my car

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anymore.

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And you've got to go find a car of your own because, uh, his car we gave to my homeless

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brother and my brother now lives in that car.

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Probably a little too much information, but so we've only had one car for a while now

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and it's starting to wear thin.

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So David is the, is an F one 50 man now.

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So for you truck dudes, you could be like, you know, Hey bro, he's feel, listen, he's

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feeling like a tall man.

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He's feeling like a tall man with this truck.

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He looks good in it too.

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Why are you telling on me right now?

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Hi babe.

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Did you get it?

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I did.

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And it, you know how it goes at the car dealership.

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You never know whether it's going to be three hours, two hours, eight hours.

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You know, you just never know what the process is going to be.

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And so I apologize.

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It's, I was literally in the finance house for the last 30 minutes.

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So I apologize guys for not getting on here before.

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Well, Mike is faithful and he's here to help.

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So, um, all right guys, so if you want a single spotlight, just, I'll, I'm going to make a

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post in your group and just, just comment, say, Hey, I'll do it.

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I volunteer.

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So I'll make a post, make sure that you're in the app and you're also in the Facebook

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group.

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If you have Facebook, if you don't, the app is fine.

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Um, but we do a lot more community over there in the, in the Facebook group.

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So the app, the community feature on the app is a little squirrely in my opinion.

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Um, okay.

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I'll check, ask Jackie, let you guys know what's up with that.

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And then if there are asked Jackie questions in there, I'll go ahead and answer them.

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And then I'll do a live in the Facebook group and answer those questions.

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So David, are you going to take over with Mike now?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Mike, definitely.

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Um, my, my, no, I'm not muted.

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Yeah, definitely.

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Mike, um, let us know what you got and then I'll just stay on here with y'all as well.

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So all right guys, thanks for jumping in.

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Tim, do you have one more question for me or you just had your hand up?

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Oh no, no.

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Sorry.

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Um, no, I kind of knew.

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Okay.

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So where do I, where do I go then to sign up for the single spotlight or the spotlight?

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I'm going to make, I'm going to, are you in the Facebook group, the Monatha challenge

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group or are you in the men's monthly 1822 group and in the app?

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I don't think so.

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I'd be happy to join.

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I did join some group that I got an invitation for, but I don't think it's that.

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Okay.

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So David, if you can point them in the right direction, I'm going to make, I'll make a

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post in both places so that whoever wants to sign up for the spotlight can, and you

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guys, that's next week on your calendar, July 31st.

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Okay.

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Can you guys, July is already over.

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It's crazy.

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Wait, it's my birthday.

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It's next week.

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Literally the 31st.

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That's not right.

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Is it?

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It is.

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Wow.

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That's, that's insane.

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Okay.

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Yep.

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31st.

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All right. Well, it's next week then. And so I will see you guys then. See everyone. Bye

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All right

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So cool. So yeah

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Definitely will get you invites into the Facebook

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The monthly men's group and there's a messenger too that we use just for people

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quite often so

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All right. So sorry getting back to so you guys like wins, you know, like like Jackie said a really good thing

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Or I mean, she's a lot of really good things but um, like handling your stuff before it blows up your life, right?

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You know, that's a big deal and you know, there's all those like she said they were optional videos

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But you guys I don't really I would I'm not gonna contradict her

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But those all those videos are huge. I got deliverance from one of those videos. It really helped set me free

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so like I mean

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they're not very long and they're well worth the watch and they go through and

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And I'll allow yourself to experience some of the things that might come up in them and help you get better

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I mean because ultimately what's this the whole point of this is that we all win, right?

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so

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But you know, I just I just want to also honor that you guys are doing that

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And David just linked. I

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Think it is

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Yeah, I did I don't still hear me I'd put the link to the invite link to the men's monthly group on Facebook

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Well, thank you

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So like so like this week you guys

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you know, I don't like really sharing my crap, but I have been like this is my gal at church who's the pastor's daughter and

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I just have had so much anxiety over it and which is kind of my tip like, you know

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Hey, if you know attachment styles, you know, I've been working towards secure

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But it's only when you're in the fire that you actually your attachment styles start coming up, right?

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And so, you know like this week I just ended up

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spending three hours as a puddle on the floor of my my room because

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There's a lot of things that I've just haven't been addressing and I've been running from you know

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I've been fasting but it's funny because I went I started gaming again and

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The Lord asked me to stop to fast that and to pray and and as I did, you know

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Like I

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Just if you don't grieve thing if there's things chasing you and you don't grieve them and you don't work through them

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they're gonna wear you they're gonna they're gonna chase you down and you're gonna end up crashing and burning and

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I ended up we went on a church thing this weekend and I actually drove her in my car and because I had

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Had gotten rid of all the junk and and processed done all the heart work on all the stuff that I had been putting off

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I was actually able to be present and have a great time and be myself which

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I hadn't been able to because I had just all the stuff that was going on. So I just really encourage you

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The heart work is really important

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you know, and so

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And apparently I have golden retriever energy, but I don't know. I don't know how that goes

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But you know, you know, I love golden retriever

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so

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but I just I just want to encourage you the steps work and it's better to do them now and

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Or if you start feeling anxious or you start feeling

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Weighted I

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It wasn't just my dating life. It was my work life

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It was my everything life and I just had a reckoning with it

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Did I want to sit on my floor in a puddle for three hours? No

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But I needed to

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right

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so

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What about you guys

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like

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What are the like Jackie was talking about

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It's halftime like it half we got half the year left and to like so my what was my halftime thing, you know

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I I don't want to jump over and look at it

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but basically was, you know, I want to be engaged by New Year's and

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I want to have my prophetic channel blowing and that was my half time reset like what?

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In the light in the next half this year. Where do you guys want to be?

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What do you guys want to do?

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Who do you want to be at the end of the year because you got sick you got nearly

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five and a half months that you can use to become

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whatever you want to be and I love hunter that you're doing jujitsu and you're you're doing the Pedro thing because

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You're gonna be a different man after that and it's also I'm not the man

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I was on how I approach women first off you want it

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It's more about you being had rather than possessing be be one to possess to be possessed rather than the other way around

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Basically, I'm not gonna treat it as an aging rat race to have it pressured as an aging rat race to have it done

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Again, I may be entering my mid my late 30s

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But I'm not gonna go like it young people always tempted saying we want to have it done

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You know hunter

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How about how about you just?

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Go as you and not worry about it

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about like the rat race and this and that and just remember like I just shared I just

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I just I I laid things down so I could be me and I couldn't be and I you know and I wasn't always in

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my head so if you're always thinking if you're always reacting and thinking oh I'm doing this

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and I'm doing that then you don't actually just to get to be present in the moment you know you're

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either in the front or you're ahead you're or you're in the past and really the present is

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where you need to be to be in relationship with somebody right and even with yourself I mean like

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whether or not you're in a relationship or not you know being in the present and I'll be the

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first to say I spend a lot of time in the future and that's where my anxiety comes from because

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it's not here yet right so um so anybody like so I gotta share not exactly a win yeah

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uh so uh real quick let me

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jump on video for this be present and also silently brag about my uh robotic lawnmower

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so uh yeah I uh kind of broke things off with how that I been going out on a date

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out in Pennsylvania when things had gotten physical it kind of

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at first I was able to just stop things before they got

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busy you know uh but uh days later I noticed that I was getting angry every time she called

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and uh Jackie had said that it was uh avoidant attachment

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and I was like but I can't be right because I'm only anxious attachment but apparently you can

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have both yep and be disorganized so so now I'm in an area where there's young ladies like

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10-15 years younger than me they just keep giving me the uglies and keep asking me out and I'm just

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like no no I don't want to go out on a date I don't I don't even want to spend time with myself

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right now part of it's a little bit of uh anger or hostility for being so

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kind of a broken sense of things but also just I don't even have the time I'm just like dealing

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with the yard now because I noticed oh hey there's tons of dead grass out here and

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it's that thing's fault but no it's really the weather's fault where it's just uh

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because uh there is some such a delay in uh it working whenever it rains uh that it uh

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just didn't get out and cut it so now I gotta take so like let's look so yeah so there's you

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know depending on the relationship you can be anxious and you could you can vacillate between

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vacillate between both of them right you know in some way but you know you said something that

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struck me right it's like you don't even want to be with yourself right like or whatever like

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right that is that that's that's that's a great indicator that you should yeah you're doing well

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just until you can be with yourself you really shouldn't be with anybody else because

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yeah you haven't reconciled that right but you know I haven't it's kind of like not having time

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to breathe like I thought I'd have time to catch up this weekend and go to church and spend time

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with a men's prayer group out here and uh just went straight into studying actually skipped church

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altogether but uh jump into my bible every day it's just uh I don't know maybe just because it's

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this uh first full week of getting set up and trying to uh get things to where I don't have

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to worry about them so you just did a ginormous transition right your nervous system is jacked

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right now so like you just ended it with somebody who you cared for right and in a not so awesome

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way so yeah there might be a couple reasons why you're you're a little just disorganized and a

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little out you know and you're starting a whole new thing so have grace and be gentle with yourself

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right like you know and you know you don't have to check the box you know but

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get take some time to just get just be for a minute and take a breath right you've been through

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a lot you've done a lot of traveling right so um like I say you're you're a warrior but man

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your your battery your your um your batteries are low right so

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It's okay to not entertain offers

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because your batteries are low.

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You don't even have batteries for you right now, right?

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So like, you know, so you're loving yourself well.

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You know, like just love yourself well,

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work through the things that,

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see the cool thing is, is when things come up,

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it's being revealed so you can heal it, right?

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So.

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Yeah.

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Thank you for this, Mike.

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So David, in six months,

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this is your reset in six months.

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Hello?

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You still there, David?

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I'm still here.

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You were freezing there for about 30 seconds.

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Was I?

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My bad.

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So I just got new internet.

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So if you're in six months, you know,

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if you reset, where would you like to be?

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And you guys, I'd like to hear all your answers.

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And New Year's Eve, this picture, New Year's Eve, right?

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Where do you want to be?

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What do you want to change?

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Where do you want to be?

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I feel at this point, it's just like,

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low things down, just focus on.

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Like a female friend, like in the sense of things,

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I kind of, with some of my triggers revealed

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with that last relationship,

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I feel like the whole boyfriend, girlfriend thing

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is not a good idea for me personally.

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That is just like work on finding and making a friend

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and just work on spending time becoming best friends.

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And I know that's not everyone's cup of tea.

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Yeah, that's MO.

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But I feel like that's kind of like what I need.

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So at six months, do you like to have a female friend,

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have developed a female friendship?

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00:27:13.420 --> 00:27:14.620
Yep.

483
00:27:14.620 --> 00:27:15.620
All right.

484
00:27:15.620 --> 00:27:17.820
Just a friendship, not someone that I'm pursuing

485
00:27:17.820 --> 00:27:20.300
with lust in my eyes nor my heart.

486
00:27:20.300 --> 00:27:23.420
Not someone that I'm thinking, this is it.

487
00:27:23.420 --> 00:27:24.620
This is the one.

488
00:27:26.100 --> 00:27:28.540
This one's gonna be the woman I married type of thing

489
00:27:28.540 --> 00:27:29.380
because I've,

490
00:27:34.180 --> 00:27:35.820
ways gone, all right.

491
00:27:37.340 --> 00:27:38.900
But just someone that I can just think of,

492
00:27:38.900 --> 00:27:40.660
wow, this is such a great friend.

493
00:27:42.220 --> 00:27:47.020
So keep that in your, keep that as your vision, right?

494
00:27:47.020 --> 00:27:50.340
And your school, right?

495
00:27:50.340 --> 00:27:51.180
Who else?

496
00:27:51.180 --> 00:27:53.060
Who else wants to jump in and share

497
00:27:53.700 --> 00:27:55.100
what it's like to be in the club?

498
00:28:01.700 --> 00:28:02.740
I think for me,

499
00:28:05.620 --> 00:28:07.420
I'm not in a relationship currently.

500
00:28:07.420 --> 00:28:09.500
I definitely wanna be in a relationship

501
00:28:09.500 --> 00:28:12.100
and I think a committed relationship at that point.

502
00:28:12.100 --> 00:28:14.100
I don't know if it'd be too soon for engagement,

503
00:28:14.100 --> 00:28:18.300
but I'm just like very happy today

504
00:28:18.300 --> 00:28:19.740
because of the job and everything.

505
00:28:19.740 --> 00:28:22.980
So as a man, I'm like,

506
00:28:23.740 --> 00:28:25.060
this is what God designed me for.

507
00:28:25.060 --> 00:28:26.620
And so I have this increased vision

508
00:28:26.620 --> 00:28:31.300
and really I just want the school year to go well

509
00:28:31.300 --> 00:28:33.500
in my first semester coming up

510
00:28:33.500 --> 00:28:38.500
and just planning what the spring one looks like

511
00:28:38.620 --> 00:28:40.660
and be fully moved out,

512
00:28:40.660 --> 00:28:43.820
I think towards Louisville or somewhere over there

513
00:28:43.820 --> 00:28:46.860
and getting more involved in my messianic community

514
00:28:46.860 --> 00:28:50.020
or some other communities I've been involved with as well.

515
00:28:50.980 --> 00:28:51.900
So yeah.

516
00:28:51.900 --> 00:28:55.100
And as a result of breaking this fast,

517
00:28:55.100 --> 00:28:59.740
I've been very happy with myself in the sense of,

518
00:29:01.300 --> 00:29:05.780
I freaking made this tray with like artichoke hearts

519
00:29:05.780 --> 00:29:07.740
the other night, like just baked it in the oven.

520
00:29:07.740 --> 00:29:09.460
So I'm learning how to cook

521
00:29:09.460 --> 00:29:12.580
because I don't wanna eat processed junk all the time.

522
00:29:13.580 --> 00:29:17.140
And so just by the new year,

523
00:29:17.660 --> 00:29:21.060
just have like all these different recipes I've tried

524
00:29:21.060 --> 00:29:23.540
and just know how to,

525
00:29:23.540 --> 00:29:24.660
cause I didn't really,

526
00:29:24.660 --> 00:29:29.660
I wasn't really using the kitchen very much before now.

527
00:29:30.540 --> 00:29:31.740
And I baked a few times,

528
00:29:31.740 --> 00:29:33.700
but it's been a long time

529
00:29:33.700 --> 00:29:35.260
since I've like used the kitchen to cook.

530
00:29:35.260 --> 00:29:37.580
And so just get to a point where,

531
00:29:37.580 --> 00:29:40.300
no, that's like my regular lifestyle.

532
00:29:40.300 --> 00:29:41.140
And then when I go out,

533
00:29:41.140 --> 00:29:42.380
it's with friends or something,

534
00:29:42.380 --> 00:29:44.860
once in a while, once a week or so.

535
00:29:44.860 --> 00:29:46.500
So I'd say those.

536
00:29:46.780 --> 00:29:48.140
So you wanna be in a relationship,

537
00:29:48.140 --> 00:29:49.780
you wanna have more in your repertoire

538
00:29:49.780 --> 00:29:52.780
and you wanna be established in your school, right?

539
00:29:56.260 --> 00:29:57.460
It is like, I cook.

540
00:29:57.460 --> 00:30:00.180
So I mean, it's nice to have a lot of things and I do.

541
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.120
I hate eating out all the time and the processed food because it's crap, right?

542
00:30:04.120 --> 00:30:06.040
So I mean, and it's good to be a man.

543
00:30:06.040 --> 00:30:10.380
I mean, like, we need to be men with plants, and you have a vision, you know, and like,

544
00:30:10.380 --> 00:30:17.600
so that's a that's a really cool vision for, and you know, and may the Lord and for like,

545
00:30:17.600 --> 00:30:19.800
for everybody here, may the Lord bless your vision for that.

546
00:30:19.800 --> 00:30:21.640
May you actually find that one.

547
00:30:21.640 --> 00:30:23.920
And may you be engaged in the new year.

548
00:30:23.920 --> 00:30:27.640
But it takes but it takes action, right, like, you know, by putting yourself out there and

549
00:30:27.640 --> 00:30:31.120
like you, you said you sign up for a spotlight.

550
00:30:31.120 --> 00:30:32.920
So that's, that's a great step.

551
00:30:32.920 --> 00:30:33.920
Right?

552
00:30:33.920 --> 00:30:36.680
You know, and it allows the Lord to meet you in that thing.

553
00:30:36.680 --> 00:30:38.040
Yeah, that's amazing.

554
00:30:38.040 --> 00:30:39.800
You're doing great.

555
00:30:39.800 --> 00:30:40.800
Who else?

556
00:30:40.800 --> 00:30:45.520
Hey, guys, I'm Tim here.

557
00:30:45.520 --> 00:30:53.720
My goal is I'd like to be just in a committed relationship, I guess that's only five months

558
00:30:53.720 --> 00:30:54.720
away.

559
00:30:54.720 --> 00:30:55.720
Right?

560
00:30:55.720 --> 00:30:56.720
So.

561
00:30:56.800 --> 00:30:59.920
So I'm probably not engaged yet.

562
00:30:59.920 --> 00:31:05.560
But but yeah, it'd be nice to be seriously dating the girl who I think I'm going to marry.

563
00:31:05.560 --> 00:31:10.040
No, that's, that's a good I mean, I get New Year's, I want to spend New Year's with somebody,

564
00:31:10.040 --> 00:31:11.040
right?

565
00:31:11.040 --> 00:31:12.440
Like, okay, let me rephrase that.

566
00:31:12.440 --> 00:31:13.440
Let me be worse.

567
00:31:13.440 --> 00:31:16.040
Like somebody in a committed relationship, right?

568
00:31:16.040 --> 00:31:17.040
Yeah.

569
00:31:17.040 --> 00:31:21.040
I mean, and, and like, once again, you said you said you sign up for a spotlight.

570
00:31:21.040 --> 00:31:22.800
That's, that's a great step.

571
00:31:22.800 --> 00:31:23.800
Right?

572
00:31:23.880 --> 00:31:29.240
I mean, like, you know, I don't know if you guys know that biblical waiting isn't like

573
00:31:29.240 --> 00:31:34.040
sitting around in your house waiting for the you know, I think Jackie said this, I don't

574
00:31:34.040 --> 00:31:35.040
know.

575
00:31:35.040 --> 00:31:36.480
I don't know if this is if she did or not.

576
00:31:36.480 --> 00:31:39.760
But she's like, if you if you're waiting around in your house, the only person you're ever

577
00:31:39.760 --> 00:31:45.200
going to get a chance to marry is the Amazon delivery guy or the UPS guy, right?

578
00:31:45.200 --> 00:31:46.200
You know,

579
00:31:46.200 --> 00:31:47.720
I'm the Amazon guy.

580
00:31:47.720 --> 00:31:49.680
So maybe I might be in luck, but

581
00:31:49.680 --> 00:31:54.320
you know, there you go, Hunter, like, you know, if you're going door to door, baby,

582
00:31:54.320 --> 00:31:58.480
then I'm gonna be having you to to match to the UPS guy in our turf war.

583
00:31:58.480 --> 00:31:59.480
Right?

584
00:31:59.480 --> 00:32:03.360
So it was Tim, I saw it.

585
00:32:03.360 --> 00:32:10.120
So other than like, relationally, where would you like to be?

586
00:32:10.120 --> 00:32:14.040
You know, because like, do you know, one of the things is like, I want to be I'm working

587
00:32:14.040 --> 00:32:15.040
out.

588
00:32:15.040 --> 00:32:17.840
Like, I have been working out for a while because I want my body back.

589
00:32:17.840 --> 00:32:21.480
I want I want physical freedom, and I want to feel good.

590
00:32:21.480 --> 00:32:25.720
And I've been actually making Greek yogurt, so I get to get my protein, right?

591
00:32:25.720 --> 00:32:26.720
You know?

592
00:32:26.720 --> 00:32:27.720
You know?

593
00:32:27.720 --> 00:32:28.720
Yeah, let's see.

594
00:32:28.720 --> 00:32:35.720
You know, I think I think actually, that that is my main goal, because I feel like I'm fairly

595
00:32:35.720 --> 00:32:41.040
balanced in other areas, like with friends and going to the gym a couple times a week

596
00:32:41.040 --> 00:32:44.280
and okay, your job and stuff.

597
00:32:44.280 --> 00:32:50.960
So I think my main thing that I need to, you know, that need to keep trust the Lord

598
00:32:50.960 --> 00:32:54.720
with and working toward is, is really, you know, date a romantic relationship.

599
00:32:54.720 --> 00:32:57.240
Well, may the Lord bless that.

600
00:32:57.240 --> 00:32:58.240
Yeah, cool.

601
00:32:58.240 --> 00:33:02.120
No, I just always always want to check because you know, because there's, while we're waiting,

602
00:33:02.120 --> 00:33:03.640
we can always be working on things.

603
00:33:03.640 --> 00:33:04.640
Oh, yeah.

604
00:33:04.640 --> 00:33:06.520
And doing like doing the heartwork.

605
00:33:06.520 --> 00:33:10.560
You guys, the more heartwork you do before you get in relationship, the less chances

606
00:33:10.560 --> 00:33:14.040
you are going to scuttling it or screwing it up.

607
00:33:14.040 --> 00:33:15.040
Yeah.

608
00:33:15.040 --> 00:33:16.040
And winning.

609
00:33:16.040 --> 00:33:17.040
Yeah.

610
00:33:17.040 --> 00:33:22.200
And I'm also for New Year's thing, it might it'd be great to be in relationship, but I'm

611
00:33:22.200 --> 00:33:25.080
just going to stick with a relationship with God.

612
00:33:25.080 --> 00:33:26.360
That's in God's hands in control.

613
00:33:26.360 --> 00:33:30.240
I'm just going to do what I control and as contribute to my own happiness, like travel.

614
00:33:30.240 --> 00:33:33.440
Oh, and New Year's, I'll go on to singles cruise too.

615
00:33:33.440 --> 00:33:35.600
That's what I want to see come back.

616
00:33:35.600 --> 00:33:37.360
All right.

617
00:33:37.360 --> 00:33:38.360
So that's good.

618
00:33:38.360 --> 00:33:39.360
Huh?

619
00:33:40.160 --> 00:33:41.160
Who else is who else?

620
00:33:41.160 --> 00:33:42.160
Abram, how you doing?

621
00:33:42.160 --> 00:33:43.160
What's going on?

622
00:33:43.160 --> 00:33:44.160
You there?

623
00:33:44.160 --> 00:33:45.160
You guys hear me?

624
00:33:45.160 --> 00:33:46.160
Yep.

625
00:33:46.160 --> 00:33:47.160
Dude, Abram.

626
00:33:47.160 --> 00:33:48.160
I love you, bro.

627
00:33:48.160 --> 00:33:49.160
I so want to come over and get some pizza from you, bro.

628
00:33:49.160 --> 00:33:50.160
I just like I want to have a pizza party.

629
00:33:50.160 --> 00:33:51.160
It'd be a little bit of a jaunt, but, you know, it'd be nice to all get together.

630
00:33:51.160 --> 00:33:52.160
That's I agree.

631
00:33:52.160 --> 00:33:53.160
Well, I just turned my house.

632
00:33:53.160 --> 00:33:54.160
I just turned 40.

633
00:33:54.160 --> 00:33:55.160
So I'm kind of, you know.

634
00:33:55.160 --> 00:33:56.160
Yeah.

635
00:33:56.160 --> 00:33:57.160
Yeah.

636
00:33:57.160 --> 00:33:58.160
Yeah.

637
00:33:58.160 --> 00:33:59.160
Yeah.

638
00:33:59.160 --> 00:34:00.160
Yeah.

639
00:34:00.160 --> 00:34:01.160
Yeah.

640
00:34:01.160 --> 00:34:02.160
Yeah.

641
00:34:02.160 --> 00:34:03.160
Yeah.

642
00:34:03.160 --> 00:34:04.160
Yeah.

643
00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:05.160
Yeah.

644
00:34:05.160 --> 00:34:06.160
Yeah.

645
00:34:06.160 --> 00:34:07.160
Yeah.

646
00:34:07.240 --> 00:34:12.040
So I'm kind of, you know, thinking about things.

647
00:34:12.040 --> 00:34:16.639
And my grandfather passed away a couple of weeks ago, 95.

648
00:34:16.639 --> 00:34:21.199
So just like reflecting a lot on life a little bit.

649
00:34:21.199 --> 00:34:22.199
Not freaking out.

650
00:34:22.199 --> 00:34:23.199
No, no midlife crisis.

651
00:34:23.199 --> 00:34:27.120
I haven't bought like a 70 inch TV or anything like that.

652
00:34:27.120 --> 00:34:28.120
But corvette.

653
00:34:28.120 --> 00:34:29.120
Yeah.

654
00:34:29.120 --> 00:34:34.540
No, it'd be nice to find some nice lady.

655
00:34:34.540 --> 00:34:37.040
You know, and around New Year's, that'd be great.

656
00:34:37.560 --> 00:34:40.080
Maybe spend the first holiday together.

657
00:34:40.080 --> 00:34:41.280
That sounds nice.

658
00:34:41.280 --> 00:34:45.280
But I'm just going to try to maintain my health.

659
00:34:45.280 --> 00:34:47.960
I just, you know, grandpa had dementia here.

660
00:34:47.960 --> 00:34:52.360
Grandma's 94, getting older and just, you know, society, I just see people, you know,

661
00:34:52.360 --> 00:34:53.360
health's a big deal.

662
00:34:53.360 --> 00:34:54.360
So just maintain that.

663
00:34:54.360 --> 00:34:57.200
It's a goal of mine always.

664
00:34:57.200 --> 00:35:00.120
And I've been working on.

665
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:06.640
down some debt, consolidating some debt, tightening up on the budget, kind of a thing.

666
00:35:08.240 --> 00:35:11.920
Kind of some financial goals, some physical goals.

667
00:35:13.840 --> 00:35:18.000
I've been working Sundays forever because I work in the restaurant business.

668
00:35:19.040 --> 00:35:24.960
I've been doing that for over 10 years, but I'm really thinking about maybe switching

669
00:35:24.960 --> 00:35:28.160
on my schedule and kind of hitting church back up.

670
00:35:29.120 --> 00:35:32.240
I was raised Catholic and kind of got away from going.

671
00:35:34.640 --> 00:35:36.480
I think I should really connect back with that.

672
00:35:39.840 --> 00:35:42.880
So I've got some things thinking about and stuff.

673
00:35:44.640 --> 00:35:45.840
I mean, everything is good, though.

674
00:35:45.840 --> 00:35:46.480
Life's good.

675
00:35:46.480 --> 00:35:47.040
Life's easy.

676
00:35:47.040 --> 00:35:49.040
But just a few things, yeah.

677
00:35:50.320 --> 00:35:53.360
That would be good steps.

678
00:35:53.360 --> 00:35:54.160
And who knows?

679
00:35:54.160 --> 00:35:56.000
When you go back, you could find somebody.

680
00:35:56.960 --> 00:36:03.360
I mean, really, we just submit our steps to the Lord, and he's the one that aligns them.

681
00:36:05.280 --> 00:36:06.480
So that's cool.

682
00:36:07.680 --> 00:36:08.180
Awesome.

683
00:36:09.360 --> 00:36:10.160
Who else we got?

684
00:36:12.080 --> 00:36:15.440
Mr. James, you want to jump in?

685
00:36:16.720 --> 00:36:18.080
I wish I was on my laptop, guys.

686
00:36:18.080 --> 00:36:18.580
Sorry.

687
00:36:20.640 --> 00:36:21.680
Sure, I'll jump in.

688
00:36:22.320 --> 00:36:23.440
It's good hearing you guys.

689
00:36:24.000 --> 00:36:27.600
What I would say is to continue to improve my health.

690
00:36:30.160 --> 00:36:37.200
I just spent a week outside of New York City at my friend's lake house, and that whole

691
00:36:37.200 --> 00:36:41.200
area, it's kind of like Dirty Dancing, if you're old enough to know that movie.

692
00:36:41.200 --> 00:36:43.280
It's kind of like, it's just like camp.

693
00:36:43.280 --> 00:36:46.160
Everyone's playing tennis, dancing.

694
00:36:47.280 --> 00:36:53.200
It was just unbelievable how much people are doing to bring their

695
00:36:53.920 --> 00:36:58.240
pulse up and doing stuff that's really enjoyable, kayaking.

696
00:36:58.240 --> 00:37:07.120
And man, it was just really cool to put the cell phone down and really feel my body.

697
00:37:07.120 --> 00:37:08.800
And I thought, wow, this is great.

698
00:37:08.800 --> 00:37:09.920
I want more of this.

699
00:37:11.040 --> 00:37:19.840
And yeah, definitely, I went on a date when I was there with a woman that I've been speaking

700
00:37:19.840 --> 00:37:20.800
with in New York City.

701
00:37:20.800 --> 00:37:21.520
She's a nurse.

702
00:37:23.680 --> 00:37:25.760
She did this thing called 2x2.

703
00:37:25.760 --> 00:37:31.920
It's like a religion, a sect of Christianity, where you just kind of go and you go out 2x2

704
00:37:31.920 --> 00:37:33.600
and you live in people's houses.

705
00:37:33.600 --> 00:37:36.240
It came from Ireland 100 years ago.

706
00:37:36.240 --> 00:37:44.880
And sorry if anybody is a 2x2, but they kind of believe that Jesus is not so supernatural.

707
00:37:44.880 --> 00:37:46.800
He's kind of not God incarnate.

708
00:37:46.800 --> 00:37:52.560
So she's kind of coming out of that and going to what I would deem to be

709
00:37:53.520 --> 00:37:54.720
like a good church.

710
00:37:54.720 --> 00:37:59.520
And so just talking with her, her experience of coming out of that church.

711
00:37:59.520 --> 00:38:07.520
And it's kind of like when I meet Mormons, they kind of have this starry eyed look and

712
00:38:07.520 --> 00:38:09.040
very fresh about the world.

713
00:38:09.040 --> 00:38:17.360
And kind of when the shine wears off for them, it's kind of like there's this interesting

714
00:38:17.360 --> 00:38:21.120
way of looking at the world that I got that kind of from her.

715
00:38:21.120 --> 00:38:26.000
Not to say like the 2x2 thing is like a cult, but I just, I mean, she's 38.

716
00:38:26.000 --> 00:38:27.040
She's a virgin.

717
00:38:27.040 --> 00:38:30.400
And she was like, she knows I'm moving to Austin.

718
00:38:30.400 --> 00:38:32.320
She's like, hey, I'm going to get a job down there.

719
00:38:32.320 --> 00:38:33.520
We can start dating.

720
00:38:33.520 --> 00:38:36.560
There's just like a lot of pressure, you know, like the first day.

721
00:38:37.440 --> 00:38:42.800
And I was just like, yeah, there's just so much insecurity.

722
00:38:42.800 --> 00:38:44.640
I was like, I don't know if I can.

723
00:38:44.640 --> 00:38:48.960
So I want to have patience, you know, it's been a month or two months since we started

724
00:38:48.960 --> 00:38:49.840
really talking.

725
00:38:49.840 --> 00:38:54.400
And I just decided like I want a secure woman in my life.

726
00:38:54.400 --> 00:39:00.720
So I have to be the secure dude in all the aspects, you know, so that's what I want.

727
00:39:00.720 --> 00:39:06.320
I want to like be secure in every single aspect of my life, not like wonky and wobbly in one

728
00:39:06.320 --> 00:39:09.120
area and overcompensating the other.

729
00:39:09.120 --> 00:39:14.560
Like I know I've done that and I could see where I could be the right size and just,

730
00:39:14.560 --> 00:39:15.920
yeah, just bring God into that.

731
00:39:15.920 --> 00:39:18.720
That's what I'm hoping at six months from now.

732
00:39:18.720 --> 00:39:19.840
Just bring God into that.

733
00:39:19.840 --> 00:39:24.160
And I think like everything else is going to work out, the professional development,

734
00:39:24.160 --> 00:39:28.320
the women's stuff, everything, health, it'll happen.

735
00:39:28.960 --> 00:39:34.480
I just have to like claim the time and keep it balanced and keep God in the center of

736
00:39:34.480 --> 00:39:34.720
it.

737
00:39:34.720 --> 00:39:36.800
So, yeah, thanks, Mike.

738
00:39:37.360 --> 00:39:39.440
You nailed that, like claim the time, right?

739
00:39:39.440 --> 00:39:42.560
Otherwise, like it'll be six months and you'll be like, what happened to it, right?

740
00:39:42.560 --> 00:39:47.200
You know, and that's really good that you're looking at being secure and stepping into

741
00:39:47.200 --> 00:39:47.600
that.

742
00:39:47.600 --> 00:39:52.320
And you guys like whatever you want, you know, like start declaring it.

743
00:39:52.320 --> 00:39:57.920
I'm going to be fit in for New Year's and I'm going to be in a relationship and just

744
00:39:57.920 --> 00:39:59.840
start like standing on that.

745
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:06.200
And just, yeah, there's a point to standing on what you want, right?

746
00:40:06.200 --> 00:40:10.280
You know, and obviously, the Lord's the one that delivers it, but, you know, that's cool.

747
00:40:11.040 --> 00:40:11.700
Thank you for sharing.

748
00:40:13.840 --> 00:40:17.940
Who else, anybody else want to volunteer?

749
00:40:18.160 --> 00:40:19.720
I can step in.

750
00:40:20.120 --> 00:40:20.820
All right, sweet.

751
00:40:21.120 --> 00:40:21.480
Jesse?

752
00:40:21.700 --> 00:40:28.000
My iPhone doesn't really work the best, but I guess one of the goals I have is just to be

753
00:40:28.000 --> 00:40:32.280
in a better community of like-minded people.

754
00:40:32.680 --> 00:40:39.440
I mean, I'm, you know, I'm very involved in our church, but it's a small church.

755
00:40:40.320 --> 00:40:46.040
And now being a single dad, it's been harder to connect.

756
00:40:46.360 --> 00:40:48.600
You know, we usually would hang out with couples and stuff like that.

757
00:40:48.600 --> 00:40:55.360
So, you know, people are super gracious, but at the same time, people have lives as well

758
00:40:55.480 --> 00:40:57.360
that they want to kind of keep rolling with.

759
00:40:57.800 --> 00:41:03.320
So anyhow, that's one of the reasons why I'm connecting on here with you guys.

760
00:41:03.360 --> 00:41:07.240
And I've, I think it's my third time on this call.

761
00:41:08.360 --> 00:41:14.280
And I, the one time I was on vacations and I was driving and the other time I forget.

762
00:41:14.640 --> 00:41:19.320
But anyhow, I completely forgot about last week, but yeah.

763
00:41:19.920 --> 00:41:28.880
So I, that's the one thing that stands out is just being better connected.

764
00:41:28.920 --> 00:41:33.360
I know Jackie had that Supernatural Saturday a couple of weeks ago about the

765
00:41:33.360 --> 00:41:35.400
importance of friendship, of friendships.

766
00:41:35.640 --> 00:41:37.640
That was really a good, a good word.

767
00:41:38.240 --> 00:41:43.320
But yeah, I've been going through a lot here in Pennsylvania.

768
00:41:43.440 --> 00:41:52.400
Um, just, uh, I, I did the hard work, like I connected with this whole thing because

769
00:41:52.400 --> 00:41:56.600
of a date that I went on and then she passed my number on the Jackie and then

770
00:41:56.600 --> 00:41:59.320
Jackie contacted me like towards the end of March.

771
00:42:00.280 --> 00:42:05.040
And then, um, she was going to kind of connect me with some potential matches.

772
00:42:06.080 --> 00:42:08.120
In the meantime, she got me on board with dating.

773
00:42:08.120 --> 00:42:13.760
So I, that Sunday I signed up on a dating app and the next week I went on a couple

774
00:42:13.760 --> 00:42:16.320
dates, one through the app and one through someone I knew.

775
00:42:16.320 --> 00:42:19.240
And then I just went out on like six dates in like two and a half weeks.

776
00:42:20.080 --> 00:42:24.560
And so I kind of went through the season of like dating a lot.

777
00:42:24.600 --> 00:42:29.840
And then I like went on a second date and realized I wasn't quite ready for this.

778
00:42:30.240 --> 00:42:33.640
So I pulled back and that's when I did the heart work.

779
00:42:34.000 --> 00:42:35.680
Um, it was really good.

780
00:42:36.600 --> 00:42:44.760
Um, and then anyhow, coming out of that, I randomly connected, reconnected with

781
00:42:44.760 --> 00:42:49.000
something like I intentionally wasn't connecting with anyone, but then I like

782
00:42:49.840 --> 00:42:55.680
was at the theme park near our house for father's day and me and two of my

783
00:42:55.680 --> 00:43:00.800
daughters ended up sitting next to, I sat next to this woman who I didn't realize

784
00:43:00.800 --> 00:43:04.240
at the time was a widow and she was the only person on the rollercoaster.

785
00:43:05.160 --> 00:43:11.280
And, um, so I'm like, and that's crazy that that happened when I found out what

786
00:43:11.280 --> 00:43:18.320
her status was and then, um, reconnected with one of these dates a few days later

787
00:43:18.320 --> 00:43:18.960
randomly.

788
00:43:19.080 --> 00:43:22.760
And I don't know, the Lord kind of started reconnecting me with some people.

789
00:43:22.760 --> 00:43:28.800
I'm like, okay, well maybe it's time for phase two, but then yeah, I told David

790
00:43:28.800 --> 00:43:34.040
all about this, but it ended up, I've had this like neighbor that turned, I

791
00:43:34.040 --> 00:43:38.840
didn't even know what this term meant, but situationship is apparently a real

792
00:43:38.840 --> 00:43:39.240
thing.

793
00:43:40.080 --> 00:43:44.200
Like I looked it up, I'm like, oh, that's what, that's what this is.

794
00:43:44.920 --> 00:43:51.120
So I'm just trying to navigate that because there's definitely something

795
00:43:51.120 --> 00:43:55.480
there, but I don't know, you know, Jackie says it's a yes until it's a no.

796
00:43:55.480 --> 00:43:57.640
And so I'm trying to discern what's going on with that.

797
00:43:57.640 --> 00:44:01.880
So anyhow, I just, it's good to have people to talk to.

798
00:44:01.880 --> 00:44:05.840
And, um, I haven't said a whole lot on these calls.

799
00:44:06.320 --> 00:44:13.280
Um, but here I am, I'm over here in Pennsylvania trying to live life and.

800
00:44:14.080 --> 00:44:17.560
We have quite a few people in Pennsylvania and I, and I love, see, like you brought up

801
00:44:17.560 --> 00:44:18.880
something that I think is really important.

802
00:44:19.240 --> 00:44:23.720
Like in my life, as I started dating, like all these things kept surfacing and I'm

803
00:44:23.720 --> 00:44:26.000
like, whoa, wait, time out.

804
00:44:26.520 --> 00:44:28.520
Until you get in it, you don't, they don't pop up.

805
00:44:29.240 --> 00:44:29.680
Right.

806
00:44:29.800 --> 00:44:33.480
And, and that's why the heartwork is so, it's so cool to be able to do that.

807
00:44:33.480 --> 00:44:33.680
You do.

808
00:44:33.680 --> 00:44:35.160
Oh, like, oh, I'm going to do the heartwork for that.

809
00:44:35.720 --> 00:44:36.920
And I'm going to get free of that.

810
00:44:37.280 --> 00:44:40.880
I mean, even this gal that I went out, well, technically it was a church thing,

811
00:44:40.880 --> 00:44:43.880
but you know, we were, I, she was in my car while we were driving.

812
00:44:44.160 --> 00:44:44.440
Right.

813
00:44:44.440 --> 00:44:47.840
You know, um, I had done my heartwork so I could be present.

814
00:44:48.760 --> 00:44:49.080
Right.

815
00:44:49.080 --> 00:44:51.640
Had I not done my heartwork, I wouldn't have been able to be present.

816
00:44:52.080 --> 00:44:53.040
And right.

817
00:44:53.400 --> 00:44:57.840
And so I just want to, I just want to, you know, um, give you props for like

818
00:44:57.840 --> 00:45:00.000
doing the work and seeing it right.

819
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:02.920
and just, and getting back out there.

820
00:45:02.920 --> 00:45:04.360
It's not easy, right?

821
00:45:04.360 --> 00:45:07.500
And so great job.

822
00:45:07.500 --> 00:45:11.220
You know, and so like, you know, like Jackie,

823
00:45:11.220 --> 00:45:13.680
Jackie, you should really go back

824
00:45:13.680 --> 00:45:15.960
and look at the, the, the, the halftime thing.

825
00:45:15.960 --> 00:45:18.320
She, I watched that too.

826
00:45:18.320 --> 00:45:19.160
That was really good.

827
00:45:19.160 --> 00:45:20.240
That was really good.

828
00:45:20.240 --> 00:45:21.560
You just need to just,

829
00:45:21.560 --> 00:45:24.000
because she goes through the whole process

830
00:45:24.000 --> 00:45:26.100
and I'm, and, and we don't have time to do that tonight,

831
00:45:26.100 --> 00:45:28.060
but I really, you guys really need to go back

832
00:45:28.060 --> 00:45:29.760
and check that out because,

833
00:45:29.760 --> 00:45:32.060
well, let me rephrase it this way.

834
00:45:32.060 --> 00:45:35.220
If you want your life to be different

835
00:45:35.220 --> 00:45:38.380
and you want to end the year well in a different place,

836
00:45:38.380 --> 00:45:40.820
I would highly encourage you to go do it.

837
00:45:40.820 --> 00:45:42.600
If you, if you're pretty cool with where you're at,

838
00:45:42.600 --> 00:45:44.020
then it's okay too, right?

839
00:45:44.020 --> 00:45:46.620
I'm not gonna, you know, but I'm not, I'm a person,

840
00:45:46.620 --> 00:45:49.940
you know, I, I, I want, I want God's best, right?

841
00:45:49.940 --> 00:45:52.420
And the way she did it was really amazing.

842
00:45:52.420 --> 00:45:53.600
So thank you for sharing, Jessie.

843
00:45:53.600 --> 00:45:55.320
It's really good to see your face.

844
00:45:56.100 --> 00:45:56.940
Thanks.

845
00:45:58.220 --> 00:46:00.420
All right, we got like five more minutes.

846
00:46:00.420 --> 00:46:03.920
Anybody want to share anything?

847
00:46:07.300 --> 00:46:11.220
Yeah, I, just real brief, Mike.

848
00:46:11.220 --> 00:46:15.180
I think when it was not Jessie,

849
00:46:15.180 --> 00:46:17.660
but the guy who was talking before,

850
00:46:17.660 --> 00:46:20.540
you had said something about like just going out

851
00:46:20.540 --> 00:46:24.620
and claiming or something.

852
00:46:24.640 --> 00:46:27.200
Well, it sparked a memory in me where

853
00:46:27.200 --> 00:46:30.300
after I had the job interview for the job I have now,

854
00:46:30.300 --> 00:46:33.440
Tuesday of last week, I still had three days left on my fast

855
00:46:33.440 --> 00:46:35.720
and I came out of that interview,

856
00:46:35.720 --> 00:46:37.140
I felt like it went really well,

857
00:46:37.140 --> 00:46:40.760
but there's this moment where fear was trying to set in.

858
00:46:42.260 --> 00:46:46.160
And fear has been, it's funny, my name is Josh.

859
00:46:46.160 --> 00:46:47.240
I don't think it's a coincidence.

860
00:46:47.240 --> 00:46:49.320
Fear has been like the major stronghold enemy

861
00:46:49.320 --> 00:46:51.920
to try to use against me throughout my whole life.

862
00:46:52.780 --> 00:46:57.780
And God had been,

863
00:46:58.060 --> 00:47:00.260
he had me read the book of Joshua at the beginning

864
00:47:00.260 --> 00:47:03.860
where he says, wherever you step foot, it's yours.

865
00:47:04.860 --> 00:47:07.900
And so I, instead of giving into fear,

866
00:47:07.900 --> 00:47:09.700
I just sat in my car, played worship

867
00:47:09.700 --> 00:47:11.300
and I just said it out loud.

868
00:47:11.300 --> 00:47:13.700
I said, this job is mine.

869
00:47:13.700 --> 00:47:14.520
Yeah.

870
00:47:14.520 --> 00:47:17.020
I set my foot in here, this is mine.

871
00:47:17.020 --> 00:47:18.240
I just declare it.

872
00:47:18.240 --> 00:47:21.700
I went to this prophetic thing that night

873
00:47:22.480 --> 00:47:24.160
and the guy who teamed up with me

874
00:47:24.160 --> 00:47:26.240
were doing prophetic exercise.

875
00:47:26.240 --> 00:47:27.920
He said, God, are you sure this is what you want me

876
00:47:27.920 --> 00:47:28.760
to tell him?

877
00:47:31.760 --> 00:47:34.020
And he said, yeah, he was right.

878
00:47:34.020 --> 00:47:36.680
I started crying the day when God reminded me of it.

879
00:47:36.680 --> 00:47:40.000
And he said, what you said about,

880
00:47:40.000 --> 00:47:43.240
you think this job interview went well is correct

881
00:47:43.240 --> 00:47:45.220
and tell him that the job is his.

882
00:47:46.180 --> 00:47:48.560
Yeah, that's amazing.

883
00:47:49.380 --> 00:47:52.140
And what you nailed there is,

884
00:47:52.140 --> 00:47:56.300
so one of those steps that Jackie did is you take,

885
00:47:56.300 --> 00:47:59.420
so I took, I wanna be engaged.

886
00:47:59.420 --> 00:48:01.020
I'm like, you guys, I just want,

887
00:48:02.500 --> 00:48:05.140
you can choose whatever, however verbiage you want, right?

888
00:48:05.140 --> 00:48:07.740
By New Year's and it's like, and took the scripture,

889
00:48:07.740 --> 00:48:10.580
Lord, it's not good for man to be alone.

890
00:48:10.580 --> 00:48:13.220
And the Lord brought Adam to Eve, right?

891
00:48:13.220 --> 00:48:14.420
And then like, Lord, I just,

892
00:48:14.420 --> 00:48:15.820
it's not good for me to be alone

893
00:48:16.800 --> 00:48:19.760
and I'm declaring that I won't be alone any longer

894
00:48:19.760 --> 00:48:21.520
on New Year's Day, right?

895
00:48:21.520 --> 00:48:23.120
Or New Year's Eve, right?

896
00:48:23.120 --> 00:48:28.120
So, and just aligning it with scripture, right?

897
00:48:31.160 --> 00:48:33.600
We got a couple more minutes.

898
00:48:36.880 --> 00:48:38.800
Anybody else real quick got something?

899
00:48:41.560 --> 00:48:44.120
Mike, would you be willing to share a little bit

900
00:48:44.140 --> 00:48:45.940
or maybe other people have ideas

901
00:48:45.940 --> 00:48:49.540
about when doing that is healthy

902
00:48:49.540 --> 00:48:53.300
and when doing that is like,

903
00:48:53.300 --> 00:48:57.020
because I personally don't come from a background

904
00:48:57.020 --> 00:48:58.980
that kind of does,

905
00:48:58.980 --> 00:49:01.360
I think it was all considered to be unhealthy.

906
00:49:01.360 --> 00:49:03.180
And so I'd love to hear,

907
00:49:03.180 --> 00:49:04.420
I hear you talking about scripture.

908
00:49:04.420 --> 00:49:05.940
I hear you, it sounds like getting in touch

909
00:49:05.940 --> 00:49:07.000
with the desires of your heart.

910
00:49:07.000 --> 00:49:08.220
Are there any other principles

911
00:49:08.220 --> 00:49:10.780
to kind of do that well from your perspective?

912
00:49:10.780 --> 00:49:12.220
That's a very good point, Thomas.

913
00:49:12.220 --> 00:49:13.860
Thank you for bringing that up, right?

914
00:49:14.600 --> 00:49:16.000
So, okay, you guys, it's not hocus-pocus.

915
00:49:16.000 --> 00:49:18.320
It's not like, you know,

916
00:49:18.320 --> 00:49:21.200
but the thing is, is God honors his words, right?

917
00:49:21.200 --> 00:49:23.200
But ultimately you're asking him,

918
00:49:25.120 --> 00:49:28.200
you're saying, well, this is what I want

919
00:49:28.200 --> 00:49:30.400
and I'm gonna, you know, and you're declaring it.

920
00:49:30.400 --> 00:49:32.880
And there is a point in the spirit realm

921
00:49:32.880 --> 00:49:34.780
to declaring things, right?

922
00:49:34.780 --> 00:49:37.240
But ultimately it's his hand that delivers it.

923
00:49:37.240 --> 00:49:40.600
So it's not you strong-arming him.

924
00:49:40.600 --> 00:49:41.960
You know, a lot of people,

925
00:49:41.960 --> 00:49:44.100
like it's the health and wealth crap, right?

926
00:49:44.100 --> 00:49:46.540
You know, like name it and claim it.

927
00:49:46.540 --> 00:49:49.580
I'm not saying name it and claim it, right?

928
00:49:49.580 --> 00:49:51.620
But, you know, you can ask the Lord what,

929
00:49:51.620 --> 00:49:54.020
you know, I, the first thing I did was,

930
00:49:54.020 --> 00:49:56.540
Lord, what scriptures apply?

931
00:49:56.540 --> 00:49:58.020
And those are the two I got, right?

932
00:49:58.020 --> 00:50:00.220
And so I'm like, Lord, it's not good for me.

933
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:01.000
to be alone.

934
00:50:01.000 --> 00:50:02.600
And I don't want to be alone on New Year's Eve.

935
00:50:02.600 --> 00:50:07.400
So I'm expecting and I'm declaring that I won't be alone on New Year's Eve.

936
00:50:07.400 --> 00:50:08.400
Does that help, Thomas?

937
00:50:08.400 --> 00:50:14.000
Like, where it's you're aligning your heart with his word and asking him to direct your

938
00:50:14.000 --> 00:50:17.640
steps and, you know, and to provide.

939
00:50:17.640 --> 00:50:18.640
Yeah.

940
00:50:18.640 --> 00:50:19.640
Thanks for sharing.

941
00:50:19.640 --> 00:50:21.640
I mean, but yeah, thank you.

942
00:50:21.640 --> 00:50:24.080
Because it isn't name it and claim it, guys.

943
00:50:24.080 --> 00:50:26.120
I absolutely do.

944
00:50:26.120 --> 00:50:27.880
Like that's just a bunch of crap.

945
00:50:27.880 --> 00:50:33.120
Because God's not a God's not a cosmic vending machine, but he is a good dad.

946
00:50:33.120 --> 00:50:36.680
And what you're basically saying is, you know, you're a really good dad and dad, I'd really

947
00:50:36.680 --> 00:50:37.680
like it.

948
00:50:37.680 --> 00:50:40.000
I'd really like somebody for you.

949
00:50:40.000 --> 00:50:43.400
And even if I don't have somebody for New Year's Eve, I know you're still good and you're

950
00:50:43.400 --> 00:50:45.280
and you're working it out.

951
00:50:45.280 --> 00:50:47.800
Because it's not good for me to be alone.

952
00:50:47.800 --> 00:50:49.220
Right.

953
00:50:49.220 --> 00:50:50.760
And I'm tired of being alone.

954
00:50:50.760 --> 00:50:54.240
And so and that's been my my heart's purge.

955
00:50:54.240 --> 00:50:57.480
So that's that's kind of how I have been doing it.

956
00:50:57.480 --> 00:50:58.480
Right.

957
00:50:58.480 --> 00:51:03.320
But but there is a point to saying I'm standing on his word.

958
00:51:03.320 --> 00:51:04.320
Right.

959
00:51:04.320 --> 00:51:06.760
Because I won't be I'm not going to die alone.

960
00:51:06.760 --> 00:51:08.560
I can stand on that.

961
00:51:08.560 --> 00:51:09.560
Right.

962
00:51:09.560 --> 00:51:13.080
Now, when that all comes to pass, I don't know.

963
00:51:13.080 --> 00:51:16.240
So all right, we're at the hour, guys.

964
00:51:16.240 --> 00:51:18.600
I want I want to pray us out.

965
00:51:18.600 --> 00:51:25.760
Is there there's somebody who I just feel like there's somebody I really could use encouragement

966
00:51:25.760 --> 00:51:26.760
right now.

967
00:51:26.760 --> 00:51:29.320
Like, you're you're kind of low.

968
00:51:29.320 --> 00:51:32.680
And you really I mean, I know, David, you're one of them, right?

969
00:51:32.680 --> 00:51:34.320
Oh, totally.

970
00:51:34.320 --> 00:51:39.840
But like, you know, can I share in your mind's purview?

971
00:51:39.840 --> 00:51:44.000
Can I share the word that I put up on Facebook this, you know, I've been asking the Lord

972
00:51:44.000 --> 00:51:46.960
for words to encourage people, right?

973
00:51:46.960 --> 00:51:50.720
And this is the word that the prophetic word I got from the Lord last night.

974
00:51:50.720 --> 00:51:51.720
It is not good.

975
00:51:51.720 --> 00:51:54.360
If it is not good, it's not over yet.

976
00:51:54.360 --> 00:51:57.880
Keep going on and you will see the goodness of God in the land of the living.

977
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And the scripture to back that, sorry, is yet I totally trust you to rescue me one more

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time so that I can see you once again, how good you are while I'm still alive.

979
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Here's what I've learned through it all.

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Don't give up.

981
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Don't be impatient.

982
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Be entwined as one with the Lord.

983
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Be brave and courageous and never lose hope.

984
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Yes, keep on waiting for he will never disappoint you.

985
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And then you can always go to Romans 8, 28.

986
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You know, so we are convinced that every detail of our lives is continually woven together

987
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to fit into God's perfect plan of bringing God into our lives, for we are his lovers

988
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who have been called to fulfill his design purpose, for he knew all about us before we

989
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were born, and he destined us from the beginning to share the likeness of his son.

990
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This means the son is the oldest among a vast family of brothers and sisters who will become

991
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just like him.

992
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Having determined our destiny ahead of time, he called us to himself and transferred his

993
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perfect righteousness to everyone he called, and those he possessed his perfect righteousness.

994
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And you guys, we were meant to, um, he's working all things out for our good, and you

995
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know, and we're, we're, he loves us just like he loves his son.

996
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So I just, if you guys are low, you realize he's working it out.

997
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He says he's working all things out for good, and if it's not good, he's not done yet, right?

998
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And some of you guys, you need to hear the word that your circumstances are lying to

999
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you.

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You know, you think this is all it's ever going to be, and that's not true, because

1001
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God has greater plans for you.

1002
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And so I just want to bring some truth into that.

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Lord Jesus, I thank you for every man on this call.

1004
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I pray that you would give them their five-month plan.

1005
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You give them the scriptures to back that they can stand on.

1006
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Would you encourage their hearts?

1007
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Would you heal their hearts?

1008
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Lord, any of the, um, any heart work that needs to be done, would you, would you just

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help them to face that, and would you gently just remove it and set them free?

1010
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And Lord, you know, in New Year's, I just pray that we, that everybody on this call

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would be in a serious relationship with somebody that they're heading into marriage with.

1012
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And Lord, but like, but, but in all that, Lord, that we would never lose that you are

1013
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the one that really is the prize, that you love us so much, and may we, may we never

1014
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lose you in pursuit of a woman or anything else, Lord.

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We love you, Lord, and we pray this in Jesus' name, amen.

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Hey, y'all, have an amazing week.

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Amen.

1018
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Make a plan and stick to it, guys.

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Get her to, you know, in six months, you'll be able to have a completely different life,

1020
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right?

1021
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Make this your reset day.

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Go watch that video, and, um, and just go, go with God, mighty man of valor.

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Love you guys.

1024
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Have a wonderful week.

1025
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Thank you, Mike.

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It was great.

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Love y'all.

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See ya.

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.

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.