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happen for you. Have a great night.

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Okay, so you guys, I'm so excited to be back

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with you. I feel like there's a song that we should be playing.

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For those of you that don't know, I've been part of this community for

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four years. I started in March of 2021. I started it and I quickly

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moved into being a volunteer and then I was on the team.

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And then about last summer when I was floundering and getting slaughtered in

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seminary and I needed a break, Jackie let me take a step back.

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And in the midst of seminary when my life

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felt very disorganized, God decided to drop the love bomb

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on me. And as most of you know, I got engaged

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I think 12 days ago at the top of the Empire State Building.

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And my wedding is October 18th. So it is so fun to be back. Jackie and I

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were talking and she's like, I'm bringing you back to phase three

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and I only have two more semesters left of school so I feel like

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the end is in sight. And she asked if I could,

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you know, host tonight and I was so excited because I'm in the middle of a

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paper that's due tomorrow but I'm a little tired of Ezekiel.

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And so I need a break from the commentaries.

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And this is one of my most fun things to get to do.

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So ladies, if you are not camera ready, you better get camera ready because

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there's four men we're going to spotlight and I'm going to ask them a

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bunch of questions. And then I'm going to ask women in

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different age groups to raise your hand and I'm going to call on you

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and I'm going to do like a quick fire spotlight of you. But if you look like

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you still are working out or you're in your pajamas, I'm probably not going to

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pick on you. And also make sure you've got some good

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lighting on you. Like look, I mean actually I probably, I personally probably

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need a little bit more lighting but I'm not getting spotlighted so it's not

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about me. All right, the first guy that we're

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going to spotlight. Oh David, look at you. You are all

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ready to go. You are right there in my top thing. So I'm going to,

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I'm going to pin you. Okay, does everybody see David pinned?

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And so if you have the view, like speaker view, you should be able to see

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him even more than me because he's like the big

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one that you really need to see. Okay, so David, I'm going to ask you a

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bunch of questions. So usually the basic

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questions, so how you doing David? Can you hear me

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okay?

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Can you thumbs up if you can hear me David?

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Okay, so you weren't smiling so I couldn't tell if you're with me. Okay,

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so some of the basic stuff is telling us a little bit like your name,

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your age, where you're located, and you only see me. Are you sure Melissa?

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Are you viewing it? Me too, I'm in speaker and I only see you.

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Okay, well hopefully. Yes, me too. Okay, you want to put me as co-host

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Janae? Yeah, I would love to do that. Shawn, you can fix it.

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There you go. I love partnering with Cheryl.

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You know guys, I couldn't even find the tab to get in tonight. It's been like, I'm

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so used to only coming on from my phone. It's been forever since I came on from

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my computer. All right, Cheryl is going to make sure

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that he is spotlighted because she's going to save me like she always does.

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Okay, David, like things like your name, location,

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age, do you have children, do you want children? Start there and then I'm going

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to fire some questions at you.

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Okay, I didn't know which David you're talking about. That's more when David. Oh,

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I'm sorry. You're on the list, right? You are on

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the list. Yeah, yeah, I'm on the list but I don't know.

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I apologize. You're like, I think she's talking about me.

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Yeah, that's why I wasn't very responsive. Sorry about that.

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My name is David. I'm currently in PA about an

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hour plus north of Philadelphia. I'm 51 years old but that just happened

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late May so that's kind of recent.

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I'm interested in having children. I'm single, never married

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and I am probably in the process of moving

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across the country but I still have to do my scout trip like later this month

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or possibly sometime in September. I'm looking at this point probably to

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move to Austin, Texas. So are you moving for your job? Is

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that what you're moving for? No, I'm actually moving. Well,

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I guess it might be job related because it kind of like a

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full circle moment, kind of coming back to getting back into music scene, I guess.

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I mean, at that time, I'm like an amateur musician, but yeah.

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But I mean, that's just one piece of the puzzle, so.

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Inquiring minds want to know, okay, so you're in Pennsylvania, you're going to head to Austin.

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What is paying the bills?

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Do you have a job that's paying the bills if it's not music?

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Right now, I'm just doing like deliveries, basically, you know, self-employed,

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just doing delivery courier work right now.

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Okay, great.

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Now, so when you say musician, do you play instruments, sing, or both?

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I did take voice lessons, but it's more like playing saxophone, so I don't know.

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Okay, I love it.

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Who does not like a saxophone?

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That's kind of hot.

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All right, so you're going to Austin, so are you then hoping whoever might be interested

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in you would be willing, who's either already living in Austin or willing to go to Austin?

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Would that be a fair statement?

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Yeah, at this point, yeah.

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Like I said, it's not 100% solid, but I mean, made up moving somewhere else, but yeah.

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Okay, all right.

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So I have some fun questions to ask you.

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Are you ready for me to woo you?

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And ladies and men that are in the audience, unless you're about to be men, unless you're

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going to be highlighted, you might want to save your answers, but this is a time, you

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guys, when we spotlight people, you can have a conversation with each other.

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Also in the chat, be paying attention to David because he is spotlighted, but we wanted that.

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So tell me three words you think your besties would use to describe yourself.

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Oh, I guess they would describe me, I guess, as upbeat, full of a lot of dead humor.

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It kind of like just comes out full force when I'm around a lot of people.

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The dry humor, the puns, that kind of stuff.

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Sometimes, you know, I know when, if it's getting too much, I, you know, I'm going to

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be merciful and not go overboard.

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Did you say all three?

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What were the three again?

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I want you to summarize.

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What were the three words?

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Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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I would say that I guess I'm more of like a jokester in the sense of dead humor and puns

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and that kind of stuff.

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Oh, dead humor.

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Dry humor.

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Hey, Rizzo.

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Hey, Hunter.

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How have you been?

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I'm good.

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Hey, Hunter, we're in the middle of a single spotlight, dude.

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So let's hang on on the close, but it's so great to see you.

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Awesome.

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Okay.

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What is the one thing that helps you relax?

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What's an activity or something you do that helps you relax?

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I enjoy putting puzzles together, especially when I go visit my mom, like just jigsaw puzzles.

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Oh.

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So unfortunately, she's been in and out of the hospital a lot, but I mean, she's 81 years old now.

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All right.

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So now where does mom live?

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Only about eight miles away now, about 10 now that she's in a recovery place for physical therapy.

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Do you have siblings, David?

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Yeah, I have two brothers, no sisters.

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So all boys or mom.

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I'm kidding.

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I'm the middle child.

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My father passed away like 13 plus years ago.

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So yeah.

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Right.

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Awesome.

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What is an activity that you would like to share with your partner?

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I don't know.

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I guess.

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A bit PG, just kidding.

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I'm not going to.

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See, I wanted to make you laugh.

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I knew you had a good laugh in you.

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That's awesome.

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I guess anything from, how about, I guess, take taking a walk on the local trail, you know,

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that used to be like a railroad trail that needs to be common is now like old railroad

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things get bought up by the township and they turn into walking trails.

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And then also, I guess, like go to a car show.

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I'm kind of a vintage car nerd.

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Vintage cars.

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Ladies pay attention to that.

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Vintage cars.

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I love that.

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What is something that you're you may have kind of already answered it because you talked

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about the move, but what is an area of your life that you're really working on right now

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that's super important to you that you want to share with that person?

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So just like something it could be.

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It could be the music thing.

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It could be I'm trying to lose five pounds.

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It could be I'm building.

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Building my own car.

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I don't know.

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Yeah, I'm just trying to, there's just so many things

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I'm kind of working on right now.

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It's just kind of like a rebuilding time for me.

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I guess more consistent in working out,

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starting out where I'm at, at least three times a week.

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That would be one thing, yeah.

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OK, I'm going to take the focus off you for just a moment.

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Tell me some qualities that you are

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looking for in a spirit mate.

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And let's assume, since we're all here on last year's single,

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we all want somebody who loves Jesus

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and somebody who's marriage minded.

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But what other qualities are you looking for in a mate?

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I'm looking for someone that's a partner,

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not any kind of, I don't know.

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David, did you freeze or did I freeze?

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No, he did.

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He did?

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Let's hope he comes back.

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David, can you hear me?

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Can you hear me, David?

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We're going to give it like 10 more seconds

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and I might have to bop to somebody else.

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OK, so we're going to assume he froze.

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So he hopped off.

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So remember, you guys, his name is David.

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He's 51.

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He is doing different jobs.

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He's looking at relocating to Austin.

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I lost signal.

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Sorry about that.

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Oh, you lost signal.

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Cheryl, can you find him and get him back?

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Oh, Cheryl and I look like twins.

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Oh, where's Cheryl?

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Oh, man.

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Look, y'all.

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I got some fun red lipstick on.

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I don't normally wear red, but someone gave it to me as a gift

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and I was testing it out.

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All right, so we were, what are you looking for in a mate?

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Do you feel like you finished answering that question?

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Can you hear me?

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Yes.

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OK, hold on.

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I'm having trouble here.

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OK.

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It keeps burying it behind another window,

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so all I can see is a white screen.

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So that's to be that wants to keep learning and growing.

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Like if I know if I'm more familiar with something

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than she is, I appreciate someone

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that's willing to learn and vice versa.

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If you know something more in another area to do, then yeah.

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It's like a teachable heart.

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All right, I'm going to give you some really fast, light, fun

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questions.

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Well, the first one's not light, but it's a fast one.

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Tell me a nonprofit that moves you.

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Like if you were to go to give your time, talents,

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or treasure to a nonprofit, what kind of nonprofit would it be?

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Something that really resonates with me,

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it's about like an hour plus west of here.

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There's a ministry that's called Blessings of Hope.

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And what they've done over the years,

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they've been doing this for about 12 plus years now

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in like the Lancaster County area of Pennsylvania.

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They had a warehouse, and then they got land.

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They bought even a bigger warehouse.

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Basically, they capture food that's

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going to basically be expired and be thrown out

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in the next week.

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And instead of it just being trashed,

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they gather it, and as soon as they get it,

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they distribute it out so people that are struggling with food

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can have that.

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So yeah.

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Very cool.

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I love that.

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Very cool.

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OK, this is a light one.

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You're going to a potluck.

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What are you bringing?

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What's the one item you're going to typically

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bring to a potluck?

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You're like, I'm signing up.

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That's the thing I'm bringing.

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Well, potlucks are usually more in the summer time.

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Well, they can be any time, I guess.

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But I don't know.

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Quick answer, quick.

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I guess, I don't know, something like corn on the cob, I guess.

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I don't know.

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It's like, I'm pretty simple.

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You're so cute.

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And you guys, by the way, in my role of single spotlights,

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you guys are all allowed to answer the questions

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because other people are checking you out

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and they're checking David out.

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And so we can all multitask.

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So let people know what you would make.

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OK, what is, all right, so let's see.

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They're making a movie about you.

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Who is going to play you?

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Or who do you want to play you?

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Maybe that's the answer.

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Who would you like?

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Like, what pro actor I want to play my part?

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Sure, man.

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Yeah.

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What actor's going to, who's going to play you?

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I don't know.

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I really don't know.

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Ladies.

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All right.

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Here's the fun.

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Ladies, tell us who you think should play David.

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That's always a fun game.

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I'm Jennifer Gray.

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People always say, it doesn't look like it tonight because I don't have my curly hair

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going on, but David, oh, Matt Damon, Matt Damon would be good.

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Oh, Brad Pitt, Jack Black.

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Oh my gosh.

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Look at David.

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You're getting some hot men.

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I mean, I'm just saying, I mean, that's a compliment right there.

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Okay.

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David.

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Ladies, I'm going to give you like five seconds to write down in this chat.

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Another question you want me to ask David before I go to the next person.

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Anybody want me to ask a specific question for David?

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David, are you a nighttime person or a morning person?

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I'm nighttime, but I'm trying to switch back to more middle of the road.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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But until like I transitioned fully from being like a courier and that kind of stuff to what's

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that person at?

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Do you make your bed?

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Huh?

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Do you make your bed?

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Do I make my bed?

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Not really.

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Okay.

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Fair.

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Fair.

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All right.

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David, somebody wants to know what is the age range that you are willing to date?

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Do you have an age range?

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I'm open to any age, but it's kind of like, I don't know.

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I want to be reasonable.

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I don't think I'm not really comfortable with, I guess, more than like 11, 12 years difference.

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That's very safe and respectable.

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Okay.

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So ladies, he's 51.

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So let's say like 38.

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Now you want kids.

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Do you want biological kids?

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Yeah.

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That's the thing.

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But I mean, it's been prophesied over this group that, you know.

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If she's still ovulating, she can have babies.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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Somewhere between 38 and possibly 52.

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We don't know how good some people's eggs are, but we're going to assume that there

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are some.

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But that should give some...

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See y'all, I ran a pregnancy center.

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If y'all didn't know me, you know that I have as low of a filter as Jackie does on this

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kind of stuff.

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All right.

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David, is there anything about yourself that you're like, gosh, I wish more people knew

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this about me?

348
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What would that be?

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I want that to be like your final thing.

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Or before you get me off the spotlight, you're like, I wish Renee asked me this.

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What else would you love the ladies to know about yourself?

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I guess I like to study a lot, but I mean, over the years, I've always been fascinated

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to study things that are related to like psychology and relationships, but it's always been like

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on the side, never official, never like a college horse or anything like that.

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Cool beans.

356
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All right.

357
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Well, ladies, David seems like he is fun.

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I bet you David, like as you talk to him, will even come out of his shell even more.

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Like you're kind of coming off nice and low key, but I've heard your laugh.

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So I suspect you are super fun and we are super excited for you.

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Continue to stay in this program, ladies.

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Get after it.

363
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Use that email that Jackie put in there.

364
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I believe you usually put a summary about yourself.

365
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Make sure you add photos to woo the crap out of David.

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David, thank you so much for being on tonight.

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Evan Rau.

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Oh, thank you.

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Evan Rau, are you here?

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Is Evan here?

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I am indeed.

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You are?

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Evan.

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Great.

375
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Well, Cheryl's going to save me again.

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Okay.

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Evan.

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Alrighty.

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Awesome.

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Evan.

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Okay.

382
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So back at the top, have you been here this whole time?

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So you did kind of get the warning on the question.

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So poor David kind of warmed it up for the rest of you, but it's all good.

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So start with the super basics.

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Give us your name, your age.

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If you have children, want children, where you live, and if you are willing to relocate.

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Because I kind of feel like that kind of helps people kind of go like, okay.

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Fair enough.

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Name is Evan, E-V-A-N, obviously.

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I'm 33 years old, based in Austin, Texas at the moment.

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My current plan, actually, I'm from Montana originally, so my family is to relocate myself

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to...

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to Boise, Idaho in the next year or two.

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So that's kind of my plan.

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So I guess I am willing to relocate somewhere.

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So tell us, I mean, it's Boise, Idaho.

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So I have no idea what Idaho has to offer besides,

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I don't know, potatoes, or I might even be wrong about that.

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So tell me what is drawing you to Idaho.

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Well, I grew up in Montana, which is very similar.

402
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So I'm from a small town of 800 people,

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which is pretty rare for a lot of people these days.

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But I'm just used to the simple life in Austin, obviously.

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I did like it five years ago.

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I moved here in COVID.

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It's changed really fast.

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So a lot of traffic, a lot of new people.

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I'm a builder in construction,

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so I'm kind of into that too.

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Okay.

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But I just, I'm going back to the mountains

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and the simple life and the clean water.

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And Boise is kind of perfect size too.

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It's about 200,000 people.

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So plenty of jobs, plenty of work,

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but no traffic, no crowds, plenty of everything I need.

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And yeah, beautiful place.

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So do you like want to live in the mountains,

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kind of like be a little crunchy?

421
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I'm a mountain guy for sure.

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I enjoy a day at the beach.

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Don't get me wrong.

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But mountains are where I feel closest to God

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and where I feel most at home.

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And then of course, Boise too,

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is eight hour drive to the family.

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So it works a lot of different ways.

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I love that.

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Oh my gosh.

431
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You know what?

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I love that you are surprising me

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because like, I just like,

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like my first image of what you looked like,

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I wouldn't have pictured like this mountain guy

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going to Idaho.

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So I love that.

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You surprised me.

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Okay.

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Tell me three words that your besties

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would use to describe you.

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I'd go with disciplined,

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honest, and kind.

444
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Ooh, man.

445
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Those are good.

446
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I love it.

447
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All right.

448
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What helps you relax the most?

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I worked in Hollywood for a little bit

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after college and stuff.

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So I've always been a big fan of storytelling.

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I love a good story.

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So I may be one of the-

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Are you an oral storyteller

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or do you like to write the story?

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I was a writer.

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I mean, actually, I guess I did both.

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I did a little bit of standup

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and screenwriting in Hollywood.

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So I dabbled in both,

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but probably these days more pen to paper.

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Although, yeah.

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Group events, I enjoy telling a good story,

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but also just to relax.

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I just enjoy watching a good story unfold or reading one.

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So I'm one of those rare people

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who still reads paper books.

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I don't like screens.

469
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Okay, so now that you told us

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that you have to tell us the last book you just read,

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besides the Bible,

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because we're going to-

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Oh, right.

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Yeah, true.

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Very true.

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Big fan of Jack Carr, who's a Navy SEAL.

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He's an author.

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He actually is producing the terminal list right now

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for Amazon too, which is Chris Pratt starring in that,

480
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but that's based on his book series.

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So very manly books.

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I don't know how many women would like to read them,

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but they're thrillers about a Navy SEAL.

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So those are very well done.

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I like it a lot.

486
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We like a good action story, ladies.

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Am I right?

488
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I'm just saying.

489
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You'd be surprised.

490
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Yeah.

491
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Hello.

492
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Okay, great.

493
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I love that.

494
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Okay.

495
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What is one activity you want to share with your partner?

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I drink hotel.

497
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I'm pretty outdoorsy.

498
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So I love a good hike.

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Not a lot of those in Texas, more walks,

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but they call it a hike.

501
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Anyway, it's kind of funny.

502
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But I just love being outdoors.

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So I love going to the lake, to the river,

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up in the mountains, to the beach.

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Or as David even said,

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just to walk along a path is always nice.

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So I just like to be out in God's creation.

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That's kind of my happy place.

509
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And if there's a girl who also enjoys that,

510
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then it works pretty well for me, for sure.

511
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Okay.

512
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So I'm taking it in.

513
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I'm going to jump to,

514
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what are you looking for in a mate besides a godly woman?

515
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I'm assuming then you don't mind a girl

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that can get dirty and dress up.

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Yeah, you got to have both, right?

518
00:23:54.060 --> 00:23:55.940
You need to outwit for every occasion.

519
00:23:55.940 --> 00:24:00.340
But I guess the main things I'm looking for is,

520
00:24:00.340 --> 00:24:02.700
and it can be, I guess, harder to find these days too,

521
00:24:02.700 --> 00:24:05.220
is someone who's really secure in their femininity.

522
00:24:05.220 --> 00:24:06.940
Because obviously, I'm sure you guys have talked about that

523
00:24:06.940 --> 00:24:07.780
in the program and stuff too,

524
00:24:07.780 --> 00:24:09.580
but just the culture in America

525
00:24:09.580 --> 00:24:11.740
and around the West these days is very interesting

526
00:24:11.740 --> 00:24:13.340
as far as masculinity versus femininity

527
00:24:13.340 --> 00:24:16.500
and kind of subverting it and flipping it around.

528
00:24:16.500 --> 00:24:18.820
So I really like a girl who's very comfortable

529
00:24:19.940 --> 00:24:21.500
with me taking the lead.

530
00:24:22.500 --> 00:24:26.580
Me making decisions and me sweeping her up on adventures.

531
00:24:26.580 --> 00:24:28.460
Not to say it's not a team effort sometimes,

532
00:24:28.460 --> 00:24:32.420
but just letting me kind of take that first step.

533
00:24:32.420 --> 00:24:33.860
I'm a very good planner too,

534
00:24:33.860 --> 00:24:35.540
so I love planning out adventures

535
00:24:35.540 --> 00:24:37.780
and sweeping up girls on dates and that kind of thing.

536
00:24:37.780 --> 00:24:38.900
Traveling.

537
00:24:38.900 --> 00:24:40.620
But it's mainly just finding that person

538
00:24:40.620 --> 00:24:43.580
who has that feminine touch.

539
00:24:43.580 --> 00:24:47.740
Because you want someone who's nurturing and inspires

540
00:24:47.740 --> 00:24:49.980
and turns a house into a home.

541
00:24:50.020 --> 00:24:50.860
Yeah.

542
00:24:50.860 --> 00:24:52.340
And on the male side, obviously,

543
00:24:52.340 --> 00:24:54.220
we'd love to just lean into being a provider

544
00:24:54.220 --> 00:24:55.660
and protector and structure.

545
00:24:55.660 --> 00:24:58.460
So I'm curious, will you be okay

546
00:24:58.460 --> 00:25:00.260
if you have a woman with a career?

547
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:03.120
or are you hoping she would stay home with the kiddos

548
00:25:03.120 --> 00:25:05.600
when you start to pop those out?

549
00:25:05.600 --> 00:25:08.240
When the kids come, I'm definitely a big believer

550
00:25:08.240 --> 00:25:12.080
in stay-at-home moms raise the best human beings, hands down.

551
00:25:12.080 --> 00:25:14.840
Not to say, again, it's not a team effort.

552
00:25:14.840 --> 00:25:17.080
I very much look forward to raising my children,

553
00:25:17.080 --> 00:25:19.640
very hands-on, and playing catch with them,

554
00:25:19.640 --> 00:25:20.800
and helping out with the dishes,

555
00:25:20.800 --> 00:25:22.960
and just making it happen as a team.

556
00:25:23.840 --> 00:25:27.100
Yeah, I'd say it's definitely a strength of women

557
00:25:27.100 --> 00:25:29.080
to do the nurturing side of things,

558
00:25:29.080 --> 00:25:31.580
and men can do it, but we're not very good at it.

559
00:25:32.480 --> 00:25:35.000
Yeah, stay-at-home mom, definitely important for me.

560
00:25:35.000 --> 00:25:37.220
I don't know if you've been through all of the program yet,

561
00:25:37.220 --> 00:25:39.760
but one of the classes that we teach in phase two

562
00:25:39.760 --> 00:25:42.600
is called Divine Feminine and Masculine,

563
00:25:42.600 --> 00:25:44.400
and we talk about the top gifts

564
00:25:44.400 --> 00:25:46.120
of being feminine and masculine,

565
00:25:46.120 --> 00:25:48.440
and God gave each of us separately different gifts.

566
00:25:48.440 --> 00:25:51.760
They're all amazing, but yes, women are the nurturers.

567
00:25:51.760 --> 00:25:54.680
And I think one of the things that Jackie tries

568
00:25:54.680 --> 00:25:55.940
to teach all the women here, Evan,

569
00:25:55.940 --> 00:25:58.200
is how to step into our femininity

570
00:25:58.240 --> 00:25:59.520
and what that looks like today,

571
00:25:59.520 --> 00:26:01.240
and kind of take that phrase back,

572
00:26:01.240 --> 00:26:04.280
because we kind of feel like the world

573
00:26:04.280 --> 00:26:06.680
kind of has abused that word, so to speak,

574
00:26:06.680 --> 00:26:08.240
and it's like, all of a sudden,

575
00:26:08.240 --> 00:26:10.640
being a masculine man isn't a good thing,

576
00:26:10.640 --> 00:26:11.520
and what does it mean,

577
00:26:11.520 --> 00:26:15.240
and how can you be a strong, confident woman?

578
00:26:15.240 --> 00:26:17.800
And some of these women on this call, they're bosses,

579
00:26:17.800 --> 00:26:20.240
and they've done very successful things,

580
00:26:20.240 --> 00:26:22.520
but how do you lay that down at the office

581
00:26:22.520 --> 00:26:24.120
and still show up soft?

582
00:26:25.060 --> 00:26:26.800
And so I think that's something

583
00:26:26.800 --> 00:26:28.840
that all of us are really,

584
00:26:28.840 --> 00:26:30.420
we've been really working after,

585
00:26:30.420 --> 00:26:33.000
and so you will be pleasantly surprised

586
00:26:33.000 --> 00:26:35.440
by the large number of women in this community

587
00:26:35.440 --> 00:26:37.320
who have been successful and strong

588
00:26:37.320 --> 00:26:39.720
and also leaning into her feminine side.

589
00:26:39.720 --> 00:26:41.120
So I think that's awesome,

590
00:26:41.120 --> 00:26:43.020
and I'm glad that you brought that up.

591
00:26:44.200 --> 00:26:46.960
What nonprofit moves you?

592
00:26:49.660 --> 00:26:51.220
Here in Austin, there's a really good one

593
00:26:51.220 --> 00:26:53.280
called Mobile Loaves and Fishes.

594
00:26:53.280 --> 00:26:54.320
So the guy who runs that,

595
00:26:54.320 --> 00:26:56.760
we've actually brought one of his trucks

596
00:26:56.760 --> 00:26:57.720
in time with my church,

597
00:26:57.720 --> 00:26:58.840
and we did it on Christmas day

598
00:26:58.840 --> 00:27:02.380
and went downtown and did some serving and everything.

599
00:27:02.380 --> 00:27:04.480
But his whole mission is very God-based,

600
00:27:04.480 --> 00:27:08.680
very grounded, and very Christian, and I love it.

601
00:27:08.680 --> 00:27:11.240
I guess he actually has a compound too here in Austin,

602
00:27:11.240 --> 00:27:14.120
but main thing with them is they go out with their trucks,

603
00:27:14.120 --> 00:27:15.400
food, water, clothing,

604
00:27:15.400 --> 00:27:17.480
and they bring it to those in need.

605
00:27:17.480 --> 00:27:19.400
For those who live in Austin or know about it,

606
00:27:19.400 --> 00:27:22.640
there is a sizable homeless population here,

607
00:27:22.640 --> 00:27:25.080
whether it's veterans, mentally ill, drugs,

608
00:27:25.080 --> 00:27:28.160
all that kind of stuff, so typical big city problem.

609
00:27:28.160 --> 00:27:30.040
But people are really inspired by him.

610
00:27:30.040 --> 00:27:31.480
He's actually on Joe Rogan's podcast

611
00:27:31.480 --> 00:27:32.860
talking about his system as well,

612
00:27:32.860 --> 00:27:36.340
because it's so effective at rehabilitation

613
00:27:36.340 --> 00:27:38.480
and getting people back on their feet,

614
00:27:38.480 --> 00:27:41.880
and he does it in a very biblically-driven way.

615
00:27:41.880 --> 00:27:43.400
So I really respect that,

616
00:27:43.400 --> 00:27:45.700
and I guess I've contributed for myself,

617
00:27:45.700 --> 00:27:47.120
so it definitely speaks to me.

618
00:27:47.120 --> 00:27:48.400
I love that one a lot.

619
00:27:48.400 --> 00:27:49.240
I love that.

620
00:27:49.240 --> 00:27:50.200
Thank you for sharing that.

621
00:27:50.200 --> 00:27:52.720
Okay, I don't know if I asked David this,

622
00:27:52.720 --> 00:27:55.320
but what have you learned most about yourself

623
00:27:55.320 --> 00:27:58.120
during a misstep?

624
00:27:58.120 --> 00:27:59.600
I don't want to call it a failure.

625
00:27:59.600 --> 00:28:02.840
Maybe it was something you did to get off track,

626
00:28:02.840 --> 00:28:05.040
but what did you learn most about yourself?

627
00:28:07.280 --> 00:28:09.440
I think, like a lot of people my age,

628
00:28:09.440 --> 00:28:12.320
back in my 20s, because I'm 33 now,

629
00:28:12.320 --> 00:28:15.460
I let the culture kind of affect me too much

630
00:28:15.460 --> 00:28:17.960
as far as my decisions with relationships

631
00:28:17.960 --> 00:28:19.340
and how to approach my faith,

632
00:28:19.340 --> 00:28:22.980
and I kind of got lulled into a false sense of comfort

633
00:28:22.980 --> 00:28:24.780
and drifted away from church,

634
00:28:24.780 --> 00:28:26.940
and that goes back into my family history too.

635
00:28:26.940 --> 00:28:30.500
My dad's an alcoholic, so I have a test relationship with him.

636
00:28:30.500 --> 00:28:31.460
It's gotten better over the years and everything,

637
00:28:31.460 --> 00:28:33.000
but kind of a longer story.

638
00:28:34.100 --> 00:28:35.780
But I think I learned the most

639
00:28:35.780 --> 00:28:38.180
is the more I got closer to God

640
00:28:38.180 --> 00:28:41.100
and the more I grounded myself in that,

641
00:28:42.540 --> 00:28:46.900
just the more secure, safe, happy, confident I ever felt,

642
00:28:46.900 --> 00:28:49.100
and just more proud of myself too

643
00:28:49.100 --> 00:28:52.500
as far as just being a good human being,

644
00:28:52.500 --> 00:28:53.940
and that's kind of that age-old wisdom.

645
00:28:53.940 --> 00:28:55.460
I kind of lean into the humility

646
00:28:55.460 --> 00:28:58.800
of listening to people who've been there before

647
00:28:58.800 --> 00:29:02.340
and listening to those ancient, what is it?

648
00:29:02.340 --> 00:29:03.180
What do you want to say?

649
00:29:03.180 --> 00:29:05.220
Wise words that people often forget,

650
00:29:05.220 --> 00:29:06.700
and they're like, oh, that doesn't apply to me,

651
00:29:06.700 --> 00:29:08.100
and you always learn it does,

652
00:29:08.100 --> 00:29:10.140
and especially with the Bible,

653
00:29:10.140 --> 00:29:11.460
especially my, I think Bible study

654
00:29:11.460 --> 00:29:12.300
is probably one of my favorite things

655
00:29:12.300 --> 00:29:13.140
to do with the guys,

656
00:29:13.140 --> 00:29:15.660
because we go through and you see these words

657
00:29:15.660 --> 00:29:17.220
written 2,000 years ago.

658
00:29:17.220 --> 00:29:18.060
Yeah.

659
00:29:18.060 --> 00:29:20.220
They're talking about farming or ladies

660
00:29:20.220 --> 00:29:22.260
or how to approach your faith and God,

661
00:29:22.260 --> 00:29:24.580
all these things, and it still applies today.

662
00:29:24.580 --> 00:29:26.540
So kind of the thing I learned about myself

663
00:29:26.540 --> 00:29:28.660
is just to have that humility,

664
00:29:28.660 --> 00:29:30.900
to listen to people who've been there before

665
00:29:30.900 --> 00:29:34.940
and to really understand the context of age-old wisdom

666
00:29:34.940 --> 00:29:36.060
and apply that to my life,

667
00:29:36.060 --> 00:29:40.660
and it's been a great revelation, I guess, for sure,

668
00:29:40.660 --> 00:29:41.500
in my 30s.

669
00:29:41.500 --> 00:29:42.620
Oh, good, I love it.

670
00:29:42.620 --> 00:29:43.620
I love that.

671
00:29:43.620 --> 00:29:44.460
Evan, so good.

672
00:29:44.460 --> 00:29:47.620
Okay, so you're 33 and you want some kids.

673
00:29:47.620 --> 00:29:52.620
So what would you say is the age range you're considering?

674
00:29:54.620 --> 00:29:56.580
You're gonna have more knowledge of this

675
00:29:56.580 --> 00:29:58.060
from what you just said for this,

676
00:29:58.060 --> 00:29:58.900
but I'm.

677
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.840
Friends or nurses always tell me it's really,

678
00:30:02.840 --> 00:30:06.120
that the risks are higher for a lady after 35,

679
00:30:06.120 --> 00:30:07.360
is what they tell me.

680
00:30:07.360 --> 00:30:08.400
So I try to keep that in mind,

681
00:30:08.400 --> 00:30:11.440
but for me it's, I try to do about a 10 years younger

682
00:30:11.440 --> 00:30:14.240
is probably my limit, I would say, so about 23-ish.

683
00:30:14.240 --> 00:30:15.060
Yeah.

684
00:30:15.060 --> 00:30:17.080
And then older, I try to keep it about my age.

685
00:30:17.920 --> 00:30:18.760
Yeah.

686
00:30:18.760 --> 00:30:20.480
Probably within like two to three years

687
00:30:20.480 --> 00:30:23.460
is my current thinking, but I can be convinced.

688
00:30:23.460 --> 00:30:24.300
Here's what I'm gonna tell you,

689
00:30:24.300 --> 00:30:26.840
I'm gonna give you some older sister advice.

690
00:30:27.680 --> 00:30:30.000
Your wisdom level is pretty high.

691
00:30:30.000 --> 00:30:32.400
So if you're gonna date a girl under 25,

692
00:30:32.400 --> 00:30:36.160
she needs to be pretty far along in her maturity

693
00:30:36.160 --> 00:30:38.000
because you're kind of an old soul.

694
00:30:38.860 --> 00:30:43.860
I would say, don't be afraid of a woman in her mid thirties.

695
00:30:43.980 --> 00:30:47.240
Women are having babies up to 50 years old.

696
00:30:47.240 --> 00:30:50.800
So a woman could, I would hate to see you blow off a chance

697
00:30:50.800 --> 00:30:53.640
for a 37 year old, because she can pop out

698
00:30:53.640 --> 00:30:56.220
some babies for you and they can be completely healthy.

699
00:30:56.260 --> 00:30:59.620
So I would say be open.

700
00:30:59.620 --> 00:31:04.620
I would say, you know, 24 to 38 might be the range

701
00:31:04.980 --> 00:31:06.540
that you would be open to.

702
00:31:07.580 --> 00:31:09.580
Some women may have frozen their eggs for you.

703
00:31:09.580 --> 00:31:12.460
And so they might have fresh eggs to put in the oven.

704
00:31:12.460 --> 00:31:15.500
So you just don't know, you just don't know.

705
00:31:15.500 --> 00:31:19.460
Ruth's laughing at me, you just don't know.

706
00:31:19.460 --> 00:31:21.640
But you definitely have an old soul

707
00:31:21.640 --> 00:31:23.980
and I want you to get a mature woman

708
00:31:23.980 --> 00:31:27.460
who can match the energy that you just shared with us.

709
00:31:27.460 --> 00:31:28.660
Cause you're a good looking guy

710
00:31:28.660 --> 00:31:30.900
and I don't want you to be with some just young chick

711
00:31:30.900 --> 00:31:33.540
just cause, you know, whatever.

712
00:31:33.540 --> 00:31:35.000
You have a lot of depth to yourself.

713
00:31:35.000 --> 00:31:38.140
Is there anything else you wanted to say about yourself

714
00:31:38.140 --> 00:31:41.640
that I didn't ask you that you want the ladies to know?

715
00:31:44.540 --> 00:31:47.040
That's a deep question, let's see.

716
00:31:47.040 --> 00:31:49.260
I know, I mean, I didn't even ask you anything.

717
00:31:49.260 --> 00:31:50.100
All right, do you want me to ask you?

718
00:31:50.100 --> 00:31:52.460
All right, let me ask you the stupid questions real quick.

719
00:31:52.460 --> 00:31:55.060
And I'm going to let you think about that one.

720
00:31:55.060 --> 00:31:57.020
What are you bringing to the potluck?

721
00:31:59.180 --> 00:32:01.660
I mean, I can cook, but I'm more of a Costco guy

722
00:32:01.660 --> 00:32:03.140
just for time efficiency.

723
00:32:03.140 --> 00:32:03.980
What?

724
00:32:03.980 --> 00:32:05.500
So typically a Costco guy.

725
00:32:05.500 --> 00:32:06.580
So I love to go to Costco

726
00:32:06.580 --> 00:32:08.500
and just find something easy I can bring.

727
00:32:08.500 --> 00:32:09.820
But if I do like cook myself,

728
00:32:09.820 --> 00:32:11.260
I like to bring like a meat dish.

729
00:32:11.260 --> 00:32:13.460
So whether it's like a lot of taco meat

730
00:32:13.460 --> 00:32:15.580
or grilled some steaks or just something.

731
00:32:15.580 --> 00:32:16.700
If time and money is not an issue,

732
00:32:16.700 --> 00:32:20.260
then I like to bring something sizable of protein, so.

733
00:32:20.260 --> 00:32:21.220
Okie dokie.

734
00:32:21.220 --> 00:32:24.580
So you're gonna bring the filet mignon.

735
00:32:24.580 --> 00:32:26.220
Okay, do you make your bed?

736
00:32:28.140 --> 00:32:28.980
I do not.

737
00:32:30.340 --> 00:32:32.140
Y'all, this is a real thing.

738
00:32:33.220 --> 00:32:35.600
As Brian and I are like learning about each other,

739
00:32:35.600 --> 00:32:38.060
I'm like, I have learned he makes his bed

740
00:32:38.060 --> 00:32:40.180
in five hot seconds of leaving the bed.

741
00:32:40.180 --> 00:32:42.820
And so not that I know where you sleep in y'all,

742
00:32:42.820 --> 00:32:45.420
but I'm just saying, I've just learned this about him.

743
00:32:45.420 --> 00:32:48.200
And so I think it's a fun thing to learn about somebody.

744
00:32:48.200 --> 00:32:50.360
Okay, who is playing Evan?

745
00:32:50.360 --> 00:32:52.240
Evan, who is playing you?

746
00:32:57.040 --> 00:32:59.040
I swear there's an action that people said I look like.

747
00:32:59.040 --> 00:33:02.440
I don't know, but I get a lot of Joey from Friends,

748
00:33:02.440 --> 00:33:04.240
which I do appreciate that.

749
00:33:04.240 --> 00:33:05.440
He's an older now.

750
00:33:05.440 --> 00:33:07.320
Matthew LeBanc is,

751
00:33:07.320 --> 00:33:09.680
well, he's a little too old for you right now.

752
00:33:09.680 --> 00:33:13.080
And you know, he kind of plays too stupid for you.

753
00:33:13.080 --> 00:33:15.200
So I'm thinking,

754
00:33:15.200 --> 00:33:16.040
I appreciate that.

755
00:33:16.040 --> 00:33:18.480
Manahe, Zac Efron, oh, Zac Efron.

756
00:33:18.480 --> 00:33:20.240
That would be a good option, I think.

757
00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:22.200
Zac Efron would be a good one for you.

758
00:33:24.800 --> 00:33:27.280
Okay, Young George Clooney.

759
00:33:27.280 --> 00:33:29.760
Ooh, yeah, Young George Clooney, that'd be nice.

760
00:33:29.760 --> 00:33:30.600
All right.

761
00:33:30.600 --> 00:33:32.560
I'm getting the gray hair, so I might be fit now.

762
00:33:32.560 --> 00:33:34.280
You have some gray hair?

763
00:33:34.280 --> 00:33:35.200
I'm getting there, yeah.

764
00:33:35.200 --> 00:33:36.040
Okay, it's all right.

765
00:33:36.040 --> 00:33:38.800
Hey, you know, fortunately for men,

766
00:33:38.800 --> 00:33:40.160
gray hair just looks great on you.

767
00:33:40.160 --> 00:33:41.440
You don't look old.

768
00:33:41.440 --> 00:33:42.480
So it's a good thing.

769
00:33:42.480 --> 00:33:44.680
All right, Evan, it was so fun getting to know you.

770
00:33:45.160 --> 00:33:46.760
Ladies, if you want to get to know Evan,

771
00:33:46.760 --> 00:33:47.600
you know the drill.

772
00:33:47.600 --> 00:33:50.120
Go to the spotlight at JackieDorman.org

773
00:33:50.120 --> 00:33:51.520
or something like that.

774
00:33:51.520 --> 00:33:53.280
And do the thing, do your bio,

775
00:33:53.280 --> 00:33:55.640
do some photos, make it happen.

776
00:33:55.640 --> 00:33:57.360
All right, we have, perfect.

777
00:33:57.360 --> 00:33:58.200
Thank you for doing that.

778
00:33:58.200 --> 00:34:02.520
All right, next up, we have Jayden Hurd.

779
00:34:02.520 --> 00:34:06.640
H-E-A-R-D, Jayden Hurd.

780
00:34:06.640 --> 00:34:07.720
What's up?

781
00:34:07.720 --> 00:34:08.560
Hey, I'm right here.

782
00:34:08.560 --> 00:34:09.400
Can you hear me?

783
00:34:09.400 --> 00:34:11.400
And Joshua, I know you're next too.

784
00:34:11.400 --> 00:34:12.320
Ooh, Jayden.

785
00:34:12.320 --> 00:34:14.840
Oh my gosh, all the good looking men we got tonight.

786
00:34:14.840 --> 00:34:17.520
I'm just saying, y'all, even though I'm getting married,

787
00:34:17.520 --> 00:34:20.040
you can enjoy a beautiful looking man.

788
00:34:20.040 --> 00:34:21.239
I'm just saying.

789
00:34:21.239 --> 00:34:23.080
All right, Jayden, you know the drill now.

790
00:34:23.080 --> 00:34:24.360
You've been warned.

791
00:34:24.360 --> 00:34:27.000
Name, location, are you willing to change or not?

792
00:34:27.000 --> 00:34:28.679
Age, do you want children?

793
00:34:28.679 --> 00:34:29.600
Will you have children?

794
00:34:29.600 --> 00:34:31.400
And since everybody's asking this question,

795
00:34:31.400 --> 00:34:35.800
when you tell us your age, give us ish, the range,

796
00:34:35.800 --> 00:34:37.520
or if you're like Renee, I'll let you decide.

797
00:34:37.520 --> 00:34:38.520
That's fine too.

798
00:34:38.520 --> 00:34:40.120
All right, you are up.

799
00:34:40.120 --> 00:34:42.840
You may need to remind me of what I'm missing when I,

800
00:34:42.840 --> 00:34:46.159
because you just asked me like 10 questions.

801
00:34:46.159 --> 00:34:47.760
No, yeah, I'm 23.

802
00:34:47.760 --> 00:34:49.400
I'm from Auburn, Alabama.

803
00:34:49.400 --> 00:34:52.960
And I just moved to Austin, Texas three months ago.

804
00:34:52.960 --> 00:34:55.120
So brand new to the area.

805
00:34:55.120 --> 00:34:58.320
I don't have much friends, but I have the Lord.

806
00:34:58.320 --> 00:34:59.760
So that's all I need, right?

807
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.040
Uh, yeah, I mean, I'm 23.

808
00:35:02.080 --> 00:35:04.040
Um, I forgot the rest of your questions.

809
00:35:04.040 --> 00:35:04.320
Oh yeah.

810
00:35:04.320 --> 00:35:04.880
Age range.

811
00:35:04.880 --> 00:35:08.760
So age range, I mean, 18 to like, you know, depending on her maturity, of course.

812
00:35:09.360 --> 00:35:12.720
To, I mean, I would go up to 30 for sure.

813
00:35:12.760 --> 00:35:15.760
Like over 30, I mean, all right.

814
00:35:15.760 --> 00:35:21.080
Now ladies, if you are 35, stop, just say it depends on how, I guess it depends.

815
00:35:21.080 --> 00:35:21.480
Whatever.

816
00:35:21.640 --> 00:35:25.080
I'm just saying like, I'm really grounded, you know, in the Lord.

817
00:35:25.080 --> 00:35:28.360
And I feel like I'm really mature in my faith and like, Evan would

818
00:35:28.360 --> 00:35:29.760
be a guy that I would hang out with.

819
00:35:29.760 --> 00:35:33.120
And so I kind of find myself to be similar to him.

820
00:35:33.120 --> 00:35:33.480
So.

821
00:35:33.720 --> 00:35:34.600
I love that.

822
00:35:34.600 --> 00:35:34.960
Probably.

823
00:35:34.960 --> 00:35:35.080
Yeah.

824
00:35:35.080 --> 00:35:35.280
Yeah.

825
00:35:35.280 --> 00:35:35.760
Well, good.

826
00:35:36.000 --> 00:35:36.280
All right.

827
00:35:36.280 --> 00:35:39.680
Now, some of you older ladies, you might be like looking at all the youngsters

828
00:35:39.680 --> 00:35:43.920
that we've heard from, um, in the last two people, but you know, somebody

829
00:35:43.920 --> 00:35:45.200
that's in their age range.

830
00:35:45.200 --> 00:35:48.560
And so we're going to, you know, remember Jackie always says what you make happen

831
00:35:48.560 --> 00:35:50.640
for someone else, God makes happen for you.

832
00:35:51.040 --> 00:35:55.960
Um, and so this is a good opportunity for us to make sure we help Jaden find a

833
00:35:55.960 --> 00:36:00.600
really good woman because we don't want some icky women snagging him up

834
00:36:00.600 --> 00:36:02.280
and ruining and breaking his heart.

835
00:36:02.320 --> 00:36:02.880
Okay.

836
00:36:03.320 --> 00:36:05.520
So do you want children?

837
00:36:06.120 --> 00:36:06.600
Oh, yes.

838
00:36:06.600 --> 00:36:07.560
I definitely want children.

839
00:36:07.560 --> 00:36:09.520
I want like 12 kids.

840
00:36:09.520 --> 00:36:13.080
And then when the IRS comes for us for being too Epic, you know,

841
00:36:13.080 --> 00:36:14.240
we can hold down the fort.

842
00:36:14.280 --> 00:36:17.280
We have 12 kids with, with guns, you know, I'm in Texas.

843
00:36:17.280 --> 00:36:18.680
So that's like a popular thing.

844
00:36:18.680 --> 00:36:21.720
So I'm, I'm mostly joking by the way.

845
00:36:21.960 --> 00:36:22.600
I'm mostly joking.

846
00:36:22.600 --> 00:36:22.880
Okay.

847
00:36:22.920 --> 00:36:25.440
See, you know, in this, in this community, I wouldn't have, that

848
00:36:25.440 --> 00:36:26.240
wouldn't have surprised me.

849
00:36:26.240 --> 00:36:26.880
12 kids.

850
00:36:26.880 --> 00:36:27.280
Okay.

851
00:36:27.320 --> 00:36:28.360
So you want kids.

852
00:36:28.680 --> 00:36:30.360
So you want someone who's nice and fertile.

853
00:36:30.400 --> 00:36:31.040
We got you.

854
00:36:31.360 --> 00:36:32.480
Um, okay.

855
00:36:33.440 --> 00:36:37.360
Three words that your besties would use to describe yourself.

856
00:36:39.080 --> 00:36:41.840
I would say definitely weird for sure.

857
00:36:42.520 --> 00:36:43.600
Um, okay.

858
00:36:43.640 --> 00:36:44.080
Well, yes.

859
00:36:44.080 --> 00:36:45.560
You just told us you want 12 kids.

860
00:36:45.600 --> 00:36:47.360
I'm just jealous.

861
00:36:47.400 --> 00:36:48.760
I would say definitely zealous.

862
00:36:49.320 --> 00:36:53.040
Um, and then I would say unfiltered.

863
00:36:54.160 --> 00:36:54.600
Yeah.

864
00:36:54.800 --> 00:36:55.120
Yeah.

865
00:36:55.240 --> 00:36:56.120
I love that.

866
00:36:56.400 --> 00:36:57.160
Oh my gosh.

867
00:36:57.240 --> 00:36:58.760
You might be my new best friend.

868
00:36:58.800 --> 00:36:59.400
Okay.

869
00:37:00.120 --> 00:37:02.600
Um, well, cause you heard me talk about the baby thing.

870
00:37:02.600 --> 00:37:05.680
So clearly I have no filter, so I think you can handle that.

871
00:37:05.720 --> 00:37:06.200
All right.

872
00:37:06.400 --> 00:37:09.240
What is something that you do that helps you relax?

873
00:37:09.480 --> 00:37:10.440
Keep it PG.

874
00:37:10.680 --> 00:37:12.560
Just to get us, um, it's your filter.

875
00:37:12.600 --> 00:37:13.480
You have no filter.

876
00:37:14.320 --> 00:37:15.880
I'm so I'm still a young guy.

877
00:37:15.880 --> 00:37:19.040
I grew up playing video games, so I might crank on maybe the

878
00:37:19.040 --> 00:37:22.160
PlayStation or something, but, uh, I, since I've moved here, I've been

879
00:37:22.160 --> 00:37:24.320
taking walks in this place called Peace Park.

880
00:37:24.640 --> 00:37:24.840
Okay.

881
00:37:24.840 --> 00:37:28.160
And I'll play worship music and they have, uh, they have shaved

882
00:37:28.160 --> 00:37:29.600
ice and it's really good.

883
00:37:29.600 --> 00:37:32.760
And I've been doing that every week and it's just like such a vibe.

884
00:37:32.760 --> 00:37:35.200
So that's like my new relaxation thing.

885
00:37:35.560 --> 00:37:35.840
Okay.

886
00:37:35.840 --> 00:37:38.360
So what flavor do you get with your shaved ice?

887
00:37:38.720 --> 00:37:40.600
I always ask the lady for her favorite.

888
00:37:40.600 --> 00:37:43.400
And the last two times I went, she's recommended watermelon.

889
00:37:43.400 --> 00:37:44.360
So I get watermelon.

890
00:37:44.400 --> 00:37:44.600
So.

891
00:37:45.320 --> 00:37:46.120
Okay.

892
00:37:46.160 --> 00:37:47.440
Now do you ask different women?

893
00:37:47.520 --> 00:37:49.000
Is it, or is the same check every time?

894
00:37:49.000 --> 00:37:49.840
It was the same chick.

895
00:37:49.840 --> 00:37:50.240
Yeah.

896
00:37:50.240 --> 00:37:51.840
Of course she's going to keep saying watermelon.

897
00:37:51.880 --> 00:37:54.080
Well, I didn't, I didn't know she lied to me the first time.

898
00:37:54.080 --> 00:37:54.440
Who knows?

899
00:37:56.440 --> 00:37:57.560
That is awesome.

900
00:37:57.600 --> 00:37:58.240
Okay.

901
00:37:58.480 --> 00:38:02.120
What is an activity that you would like to share with your partner?

902
00:38:03.120 --> 00:38:07.840
Um, well, definitely, uh, I would say cooking.

903
00:38:07.840 --> 00:38:12.040
I'm a big foodie, so I like, I'm not the best cook in the world, but I take a,

904
00:38:12.640 --> 00:38:13.480
take an interest to it.

905
00:38:13.480 --> 00:38:14.960
Like I'm, I'm kind of having fun learning.

906
00:38:14.960 --> 00:38:18.200
I just got my own apartment here and I'm learning how to do different things, but

907
00:38:18.200 --> 00:38:21.840
also going out to try different foods.

908
00:38:21.880 --> 00:38:23.720
Like Austin is the place for that.

909
00:38:23.720 --> 00:38:27.280
So I've been really enjoying that just by myself.

910
00:38:27.320 --> 00:38:29.720
And so I would love to have somebody come do it with me.

911
00:38:29.880 --> 00:38:30.640
I just love food.

912
00:38:30.640 --> 00:38:30.920
So.

913
00:38:31.360 --> 00:38:31.720
Okay.

914
00:38:31.720 --> 00:38:32.920
So that's a good question.

915
00:38:33.120 --> 00:38:36.880
So when you go eat at a restaurant by yourself, are you going to go sit at the

916
00:38:36.880 --> 00:38:39.240
bar and kind of do the easy way out?

917
00:38:39.280 --> 00:38:42.000
Or are you going to be brave and go get a table by yourself?

918
00:38:43.000 --> 00:38:44.920
I feel like the bar is brave.

919
00:38:45.560 --> 00:38:46.000
Okay.

920
00:38:46.240 --> 00:38:47.680
I go, I go to the table though.

921
00:38:47.920 --> 00:38:49.000
I sit at the table.

922
00:38:49.480 --> 00:38:50.240
That's funny.

923
00:38:50.240 --> 00:38:52.600
Cause as a girl, I feel like the bar is easy.

924
00:38:52.600 --> 00:38:57.080
Cause you can always talk to the bartender and there's always somebody next to you

925
00:38:57.080 --> 00:39:00.360
that's going to talk to you, but to sit there by yourself at a table, not pick up

926
00:39:00.360 --> 00:39:04.120
a book and not pick up a phone, that's really hard to do, but you've, unless.

927
00:39:04.160 --> 00:39:06.040
Oh, well, so yeah, to be fair.

928
00:39:06.040 --> 00:39:07.600
So I grew up an iPad kid.

929
00:39:07.600 --> 00:39:11.840
If you know what that is, like, I just had the, yeah.

930
00:39:11.840 --> 00:39:16.080
So when I go to restaurants, I like set up my phone and I turn on YouTube and like

931
00:39:16.120 --> 00:39:20.840
crank on like a sermon or some debate or something or like just whatever.

932
00:39:20.920 --> 00:39:25.200
And I'd watch that while I'm just sitting there eating my chicken fried rice or

933
00:39:25.200 --> 00:39:25.480
something.

934
00:39:25.480 --> 00:39:26.440
I don't know, whatever I'm eating.

935
00:39:26.440 --> 00:39:31.000
So for the record, I have an iPhone, an iPad, an Apple watch and a Mac.

936
00:39:31.760 --> 00:39:32.120
Yeah.

937
00:39:32.160 --> 00:39:35.400
No, I have all those and I have an Apple home pod.

938
00:39:35.440 --> 00:39:35.960
Just saying.

939
00:39:36.080 --> 00:39:37.120
Oh my gosh.

940
00:39:37.400 --> 00:39:38.200
Hilarious.

941
00:39:38.240 --> 00:39:40.200
I, you just, you're so adorable.

942
00:39:40.600 --> 00:39:41.200
Okay.

943
00:39:41.840 --> 00:39:46.440
Um, what is one thing that you're working on right now in your life that is

944
00:39:46.440 --> 00:39:47.320
important to you?

945
00:39:47.440 --> 00:39:52.440
Uh, I, I would kind of just lean on, yeah, trying to learn how to cook or just

946
00:39:52.480 --> 00:39:55.120
generally just like be a responsible adult.

947
00:39:55.160 --> 00:39:59.240
I mean, I moved from Auburn, Alabama and I had just got an apartment, my brother

948
00:39:59.680 --> 00:39:59.960
and.

949
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.200
Lord brought me here, but that's a whole story. I just got a job here. I'm basically learning

950
00:40:04.200 --> 00:40:11.200
how to manage finances. I have a budget. The word budget, that's insane to me. It's like

951
00:40:11.400 --> 00:40:17.080
a thing apparently, living below your means. That's something I'm learning. I'm a big Dave

952
00:40:17.080 --> 00:40:20.040
Ramsey guy now. I've been huge into him.

953
00:40:20.040 --> 00:40:23.040
You know he lives right down the street from me.

954
00:40:23.040 --> 00:40:26.040
I know he does. Wait, no way. You're in Nashville?

955
00:40:26.040 --> 00:40:27.040
I'm in Nashville.

956
00:40:27.080 --> 00:40:31.400
That's amazing. That's cool. Then the other guy, whatever his name is, lives in Austin.

957
00:40:31.400 --> 00:40:35.400
The other financial dude. I forgot his name though.

958
00:40:35.400 --> 00:40:42.400
I'm a big fan of financial piece. Jay didn't learn it now. Here's my, because I was a finance

959
00:40:42.600 --> 00:40:48.760
girl. Here's my financial advice to you. Even if it's five bucks a week, start putting money

960
00:40:48.760 --> 00:40:53.880
in your 401k. Especially if your company matches it, that is money you are throwing away. At

961
00:40:53.880 --> 00:41:00.880
least always 401k, the money that your company is matching. What do you do for a living?

962
00:41:01.000 --> 00:41:02.680
Did you tell us that?

963
00:41:02.680 --> 00:41:09.440
No. I am now a media and marketing manager. I also have two podcasts. I speak at schools

964
00:41:09.440 --> 00:41:15.320
across the country. I'm a street preacher, but that doesn't really pay the bills. I do

965
00:41:15.320 --> 00:41:17.320
ads as well.

966
00:41:17.320 --> 00:41:23.360
Tell us about this. A, you do have a podcast voice. This does not surprise me. Tell me

967
00:41:23.360 --> 00:41:25.240
about your street preaching.

968
00:41:25.240 --> 00:41:29.080
We'll have a YouTube channel if y'all want to check it out. It's just Jayden Hurst street

969
00:41:29.080 --> 00:41:36.080
preaching. I basically go on college campuses, downtown, around the bars. I share the gospel

970
00:41:36.080 --> 00:41:41.040
with people. It's not just open air preaching, which it is. It's a lot of open air preaching.

971
00:41:41.040 --> 00:41:45.400
Which is nowadays, it's culture. It's like, oh wow, you're doing it wrong. You're so hateful.

972
00:41:45.400 --> 00:41:50.200
People don't understand. That's what all the apostles did. Just saying. I also have little

973
00:41:50.240 --> 00:41:54.520
cards that I hand out to people to try to tell them the gospel. I'll leave them at gas

974
00:41:54.520 --> 00:42:00.520
pumps. I got a haircut yesterday. I gave one to my barber. There's different ways to share

975
00:42:00.520 --> 00:42:05.520
the gospel. I like to do that and share my different strategies with people on how to

976
00:42:05.520 --> 00:42:06.520
share it.

977
00:42:06.520 --> 00:42:11.680
Jayden, I'm sure when you first got on, half the women, we were like, well crap, he's young

978
00:42:11.680 --> 00:42:18.680
enough to be my son. But now, you are so adorable. Everybody wants to help find your wife. I

979
00:42:18.680 --> 00:42:19.680
love that.

980
00:42:20.160 --> 00:42:25.840
Oh my gosh. You have just won us all over. What do you bring into the potluck? I want

981
00:42:25.840 --> 00:42:26.840
to know.

982
00:42:26.840 --> 00:42:34.240
Oh, okay. My mom taught me how to make the best Rotel dip. That's the one thing I've

983
00:42:34.240 --> 00:42:35.240
always known how to cook.

984
00:42:35.240 --> 00:42:38.240
Is that the Velveeta with the Rotel?

985
00:42:38.240 --> 00:42:43.240
Yeah, but trust me. I can't tell you, but it's good.

986
00:42:43.240 --> 00:42:45.240
There's some secret stuff in there?

987
00:42:45.240 --> 00:42:46.240
Oh yeah.

988
00:42:46.800 --> 00:42:52.880
I love that. Okay. You are young, so you may not have had as many missteps as the rest

989
00:42:52.880 --> 00:42:57.800
of us, but what have you learned about yourself in some of your missteps?

990
00:42:57.800 --> 00:43:08.280
Well, missteps. I think the biggest missteps, I haven't really done much. I'm pretty chill.

991
00:43:08.280 --> 00:43:17.720
I never really got into crazy stuff, but I would just say sin as a whole. Maybe my

992
00:43:17.720 --> 00:43:23.280
pastor did a podcast last night on this, but every time we as Christians look back on any

993
00:43:23.280 --> 00:43:28.680
time that we've ever sinned since being born again, there's always something that maybe

994
00:43:28.680 --> 00:43:35.040
we didn't do or we did do that led us to that sin. I think the biggest thing in me growing

995
00:43:35.040 --> 00:43:40.320
in my sanctification is every time I, if I sin, I look back and I was like, well, was

996
00:43:40.320 --> 00:43:45.120
I in my word enough? Was I in prayer enough? Was I abiding in Jesus enough? The Bible says

997
00:43:45.120 --> 00:43:51.240
if you abide in Him, you won't sin. If you're resting in Him, you won't sin. When you're

998
00:43:51.240 --> 00:43:56.160
not doing that, guess what you're going to do? You're going to be tempted. What are those

999
00:43:56.160 --> 00:44:00.160
things practically that I should have done? I think that's the biggest way that I grow

1000
00:44:00.160 --> 00:44:08.520
spiritually. As far as missteps, missing an exit or something on I-35 or I don't know,

1001
00:44:08.520 --> 00:44:13.000
buying something stupid. You live and you learn, I guess, but I'm a little young, so

1002
00:44:13.000 --> 00:44:16.920
I haven't done anything crazy yet. You know what? You answered it completely well. That's

1003
00:44:16.920 --> 00:44:24.600
amazing. Do you make your bed? Absolutely not. No. That is hilarious. I think I've made

1004
00:44:24.600 --> 00:44:33.080
my bed twice since I moved here. Oh my gosh. That is hilarious. Okay. Are you a night person

1005
00:44:33.080 --> 00:44:39.520
or a morning person? I'm a night person, but I've had to learn to get up in the morning

1006
00:44:39.520 --> 00:44:44.880
now. I bet you also leave your dishes in the sink at night too, don't you? Okay. No. Well,

1007
00:44:44.880 --> 00:44:50.480
okay. It's just me here, so just keep that in mind. Fair. My dinner dishes are still

1008
00:44:50.480 --> 00:44:54.880
sitting on the counter because it's just me right now, so fair. But I'm a lot better

1009
00:44:54.880 --> 00:44:59.720
than you think. Let's just put it like that. I am not making any judgment, Jaden. I'm glad

1010
00:44:59.720 --> 00:45:00.000
to know that.

1011
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.400
that you're human and not this perfect, amazing little boy.

1012
00:45:03.400 --> 00:45:05.480
OK, tell me what you're looking for.

1013
00:45:05.480 --> 00:45:06.680
Tell the ladies here.

1014
00:45:06.680 --> 00:45:10.320
So if it's not us, we are going to help you find your gal.

1015
00:45:10.320 --> 00:45:12.920
What you looking for?

1016
00:45:12.920 --> 00:45:16.160
Well, I am looking for a modest woman,

1017
00:45:16.160 --> 00:45:19.040
similar to Evan, who is just comfortable in her femininity.

1018
00:45:19.040 --> 00:45:21.760
A lot of days, people just look down

1019
00:45:21.760 --> 00:45:24.440
upon men who are masculine and women who are feminine.

1020
00:45:24.440 --> 00:45:28.680
And I really want someone who's unashamedly just feminine.

1021
00:45:28.680 --> 00:45:31.640
I do kind of want to be like a dink for a couple of years,

1022
00:45:31.640 --> 00:45:32.880
like dual income, no kids.

1023
00:45:32.880 --> 00:45:34.600
So if she has a job.

1024
00:45:34.600 --> 00:45:36.140
I didn't know that was still a phrase.

1025
00:45:36.140 --> 00:45:39.640
I'm glad to know 30 years later, y'all are still saying that.

1026
00:45:39.640 --> 00:45:41.840
So I would like us both to have a job

1027
00:45:41.840 --> 00:45:43.200
and stack up some cash.

1028
00:45:43.200 --> 00:45:45.720
And then once she starts to get pregnant

1029
00:45:45.720 --> 00:45:51.280
or whatever that happens, then I would like her to step back.

1030
00:45:51.280 --> 00:45:53.200
And if she wants to work remote, that's great.

1031
00:45:53.200 --> 00:45:56.520
But I would rather have her be over the home,

1032
00:45:56.520 --> 00:45:57.560
be a keeper of the home.

1033
00:45:57.560 --> 00:46:00.160
I think that's a gift that God gave to women, specifically.

1034
00:46:00.160 --> 00:46:01.960
And I think that they're really good at it.

1035
00:46:01.960 --> 00:46:05.440
So I want my child to have the best circumstances growing up.

1036
00:46:05.440 --> 00:46:09.160
I also want a woman to be, obviously, spiritually mature

1037
00:46:09.160 --> 00:46:13.200
and someone who's meek, who cares for others,

1038
00:46:13.200 --> 00:46:14.400
always serving.

1039
00:46:14.400 --> 00:46:17.080
My love language is, what is it?

1040
00:46:17.080 --> 00:46:20.280
It's acts of service.

1041
00:46:20.280 --> 00:46:23.520
I love a woman who can just do things for people.

1042
00:46:23.520 --> 00:46:25.200
You know how someone goes into your house

1043
00:46:25.200 --> 00:46:26.240
and you just want to help them and just

1044
00:46:26.280 --> 00:46:27.480
do whatever you can for them?

1045
00:46:27.480 --> 00:46:28.720
That's what I'm looking for.

1046
00:46:28.720 --> 00:46:32.400
So that is unusual for that to be a love language for a guy.

1047
00:46:32.400 --> 00:46:33.920
So that is really cool.

1048
00:46:33.920 --> 00:46:35.320
I really like hearing that.

1049
00:46:35.320 --> 00:46:36.920
That's so nice.

1050
00:46:36.920 --> 00:46:37.840
Oh, my goodness.

1051
00:46:37.840 --> 00:46:40.040
All right, Jaden, have I not asked you something

1052
00:46:40.040 --> 00:46:42.880
that you want to answer or tell us?

1053
00:46:42.880 --> 00:46:44.760
Oh, yeah, I guess I left out one thing.

1054
00:46:44.760 --> 00:46:46.080
So I do have a podcast.

1055
00:46:46.080 --> 00:46:47.440
And it is a Christian podcast.

1056
00:46:47.440 --> 00:46:50.160
And I do talk about a lot of controversial stuff.

1057
00:46:50.160 --> 00:46:52.080
So whoever would want to pursue me

1058
00:46:52.080 --> 00:46:55.000
would have to be OK with their potential husband

1059
00:46:55.000 --> 00:46:58.480
being out there.

1060
00:46:58.480 --> 00:46:59.680
I do have a presence online.

1061
00:46:59.680 --> 00:47:01.400
Tell us a couple of things that you

1062
00:47:01.400 --> 00:47:03.520
would consider controversial.

1063
00:47:03.520 --> 00:47:07.000
I mean, literally any current events, social issues

1064
00:47:07.000 --> 00:47:08.760
you can think of.

1065
00:47:08.760 --> 00:47:11.080
Do you hold space for both opinions?

1066
00:47:11.080 --> 00:47:15.880
Or do you have a very strong opinion about aversion?

1067
00:47:15.880 --> 00:47:19.400
I have very strong opinions about depending on the topic.

1068
00:47:19.400 --> 00:47:22.040
But I mean, I guess it depends.

1069
00:47:22.040 --> 00:47:24.680
There's some things that I just don't care and more nuanced.

1070
00:47:24.680 --> 00:47:26.600
And then there's some things that I'm like, OK,

1071
00:47:26.600 --> 00:47:28.640
I'll stand on business for this.

1072
00:47:28.640 --> 00:47:29.720
OK.

1073
00:47:29.720 --> 00:47:30.640
OK.

1074
00:47:30.640 --> 00:47:32.640
Are you into the politics?

1075
00:47:32.640 --> 00:47:33.920
Oh, yeah, very much so.

1076
00:47:33.920 --> 00:47:35.800
OK.

1077
00:47:35.800 --> 00:47:39.400
But from a biblical perspective, I don't really, yeah,

1078
00:47:39.400 --> 00:47:40.920
I don't know how to explain it.

1079
00:47:40.920 --> 00:47:45.880
Well, since you are controversial,

1080
00:47:45.880 --> 00:47:48.000
tell us one thing that you might think would

1081
00:47:48.000 --> 00:47:50.240
be controversial about you.

1082
00:47:50.240 --> 00:47:52.960
Oh, I mean, where do we start?

1083
00:47:52.960 --> 00:47:55.400
Well, I identify as a Black conservative.

1084
00:47:55.400 --> 00:47:59.160
So that's already a big deal in this, especially in Austin.

1085
00:47:59.160 --> 00:48:00.920
But I think you need to run for office.

1086
00:48:00.920 --> 00:48:03.000
How many people think he needs to run for office?

1087
00:48:03.000 --> 00:48:03.480
No?

1088
00:48:03.480 --> 00:48:04.040
I don't know.

1089
00:48:04.040 --> 00:48:05.160
Did you corrupt?

1090
00:48:05.160 --> 00:48:06.480
No, it might corrupt you.

1091
00:48:06.480 --> 00:48:09.400
The politics might corrupt you.

1092
00:48:09.400 --> 00:48:13.680
If y'all find me in politics, I am corrupted.

1093
00:48:13.680 --> 00:48:16.480
Do not vote for me.

1094
00:48:16.480 --> 00:48:17.640
I am not your guy.

1095
00:48:17.640 --> 00:48:19.800
They do not want people like me in office.

1096
00:48:19.800 --> 00:48:20.840
Yeah, you know what?

1097
00:48:20.880 --> 00:48:23.040
You're probably too nice, and you would

1098
00:48:23.040 --> 00:48:24.800
have to compromise too much.

1099
00:48:24.800 --> 00:48:26.960
And sometimes you can be much more effective

1100
00:48:26.960 --> 00:48:28.360
on the sidelines.

1101
00:48:28.360 --> 00:48:31.720
Jaden, I have so much enjoyed getting to know you.

1102
00:48:31.720 --> 00:48:34.440
I mean, I think there are a lot of women out here like, man,

1103
00:48:34.440 --> 00:48:36.760
that's what I want for my son.

1104
00:48:36.760 --> 00:48:39.320
By the way, you guys, do you see what Cheryl's done?

1105
00:48:39.320 --> 00:48:42.000
She's been summarizing all this gobbledygook.

1106
00:48:42.000 --> 00:48:45.400
And oh my gosh, I love it, Jaden.

1107
00:48:45.400 --> 00:48:47.960
What is it, 2026 or 2029?

1108
00:48:47.960 --> 00:48:49.680
Jaden, thank you so much.

1109
00:48:49.680 --> 00:48:52.240
I'm excited to have you in this program.

1110
00:48:52.240 --> 00:48:56.280
And we're all going to have our antenna up for you.

1111
00:48:56.280 --> 00:48:58.800
But we only want the very best for you, all of you,

1112
00:48:58.800 --> 00:49:02.600
for David, for Evan, and for Jaden so far.

1113
00:49:02.600 --> 00:49:04.760
We only want the very best for you,

1114
00:49:04.760 --> 00:49:07.200
because you guys are great, quality men.

1115
00:49:07.200 --> 00:49:10.040
And yeah, you just do that.

1116
00:49:10.040 --> 00:49:11.920
All right, it was so fun having you.

1117
00:49:11.920 --> 00:49:15.800
The last guy up that we have is Joshua Pickle.

1118
00:49:15.800 --> 00:49:17.360
Joshua, are you here?

1119
00:49:17.360 --> 00:49:19.640
Oh, I love that name, Joshua.

1120
00:49:19.640 --> 00:49:21.000
I am here.

1121
00:49:21.000 --> 00:49:22.360
Awesome.

1122
00:49:22.360 --> 00:49:25.120
So excited to have you.

1123
00:49:25.120 --> 00:49:28.080
And ladies, in about 15 minutes, it's

1124
00:49:28.080 --> 00:49:31.280
ready for speed spotlight for the ladies.

1125
00:49:31.280 --> 00:49:35.800
So if your camera is on, I might call on you.

1126
00:49:35.800 --> 00:49:37.360
All right, Joshua.

1127
00:49:37.360 --> 00:49:40.360
OK, so I'm not going to make you memorize.

1128
00:49:40.360 --> 00:49:43.080
Jaden was clear that I gave too many questions

1129
00:49:43.080 --> 00:49:44.560
at the same time.

1130
00:49:44.560 --> 00:49:47.840
So first, just tell us your full name, your location,

1131
00:49:47.840 --> 00:49:53.160
and if you can relocate or not, and your age,

1132
00:49:53.160 --> 00:49:55.200
and if you have children and want children.

1133
00:49:55.200 --> 00:49:58.400
So name, location, age, have children, want children.

1134
00:49:58.400 --> 00:50:00.360
Let's start there.

1135
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:04.160
All right. My name is Joshua Pickle. It's kind of a big deal.

1136
00:50:06.440 --> 00:50:07.520
I love you already.

1137
00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:15.600
I'm 33 years old. I live in the Dallas area. And at the moment

1138
00:50:15.600 --> 00:50:19.600
not opening to relocate. I'm actually going to relocate to

1139
00:50:20.000 --> 00:50:22.440
the other side of Dallas within the next month or two because

1140
00:50:22.440 --> 00:50:24.000
I'm just I'm starting a job tomorrow.

1141
00:50:25.000 --> 00:50:27.320
And what's your job?

1142
00:50:28.040 --> 00:50:30.160
Middle school science and chemistry teacher.

1143
00:50:31.040 --> 00:50:36.160
Whoa, that is amazing. God bless you. There's a place in heaven

1144
00:50:36.160 --> 00:50:40.280
for you. That's awesome. Middle school. Whoo. Yeah. Yeah.

1145
00:50:40.560 --> 00:50:44.520
Awesome. I love it. Okay. How big is Dallas that you're saying

1146
00:50:44.520 --> 00:50:48.000
the other side like end to end? Is it like an hour?

1147
00:50:48.400 --> 00:50:51.960
Well, it's not like Houston where I'm from originally. With

1148
00:50:51.960 --> 00:50:55.160
traffic, it's an hour one way. That's why I have to move. And

1149
00:50:55.160 --> 00:50:57.800
so I just I can't do that commute every day, especially as

1150
00:50:57.800 --> 00:50:58.320
a teacher.

1151
00:50:58.480 --> 00:51:02.720
So yeah, man. Yeah, you can't. Okay. So as a teacher, do you

1152
00:51:02.720 --> 00:51:07.160
have any pressure to also lead a sport and activity?

1153
00:51:08.680 --> 00:51:11.720
Just teach I forget how it goes in the school system.

1154
00:51:12.080 --> 00:51:16.320
So that's something we'll be talking about our first

1155
00:51:16.320 --> 00:51:19.200
meetings tomorrow. Our first class day is not until the 12th

1156
00:51:19.200 --> 00:51:23.840
of August. So this is my first teaching job. So I think from

1157
00:51:23.840 --> 00:51:26.920
the job interview, maybe it's inferred that there's

1158
00:51:26.920 --> 00:51:31.800
activities that I'll be put in charge of. Like they were

1159
00:51:31.800 --> 00:51:34.640
looking for a volleyball coach. And that was very interesting

1160
00:51:34.640 --> 00:51:37.960
because someone gave me a prophetic word that before that

1161
00:51:37.960 --> 00:51:44.000
interview, that, like, I should do volleyball as a fun activity

1162
00:51:44.000 --> 00:51:49.840
this summer. Wow. And so that was very interesting. So but I'm

1163
00:51:49.840 --> 00:51:52.600
not like a volleyball guy played it. It's fun, but I'm more of a

1164
00:51:52.600 --> 00:51:57.080
baseball guy. I might help with their theater program. I'm a

1165
00:51:57.080 --> 00:52:03.160
very theatrically gifted person, directed written, help co write

1166
00:52:03.160 --> 00:52:08.360
music with a friend. And been a lot of like different kids and

1167
00:52:08.360 --> 00:52:11.600
adult shows. The most professional semi professional

1168
00:52:11.600 --> 00:52:15.120
when I done was Bonnie and Clyde. I was like a co star

1169
00:52:15.360 --> 00:52:18.680
multiple roles in that one. Got to play Billy the kid.

1170
00:52:18.800 --> 00:52:21.880
So okay, ladies, he's an actor. Oh my gosh, this is so

1171
00:52:21.880 --> 00:52:25.040
adorable. I love it. Okay, so this is your first teaching

1172
00:52:25.040 --> 00:52:28.040
gagging or 33. What did you do before this?

1173
00:52:29.400 --> 00:52:34.480
I graduated with a bachelor's in chemistry. And I went straight

1174
00:52:34.520 --> 00:52:39.520
into the oil and gas field as a research chemist. Houston areas,

1175
00:52:39.560 --> 00:52:46.640
the hub hub for all that energy sector. Did that off and on for

1176
00:52:46.640 --> 00:52:52.200
about I think, seven years total. Several different jobs.

1177
00:52:52.240 --> 00:52:58.240
And I just didn't it was it's, you know, it's it pays very well.

1178
00:52:58.320 --> 00:53:02.800
And I'm, I can do it like I'm good at this stuff. But I just

1179
00:53:02.800 --> 00:53:07.000
didn't feel I knew the Lord was calling me up to Dallas is

1180
00:53:07.000 --> 00:53:11.320
calling a lot of people Dallas and I just had to follow and the

1181
00:53:11.320 --> 00:53:14.640
last couple of years people have been teaching telling me Oh,

1182
00:53:14.640 --> 00:53:16.440
yeah, like you'd be great as a teacher.

1183
00:53:19.440 --> 00:53:25.200
You Josh, Josh, we're gonna be praying for you. No, I love to

1184
00:53:25.200 --> 00:53:30.640
thank you. No, I love to teach. And actually, when I get out of

1185
00:53:30.640 --> 00:53:35.400
seminary, I just saw a local position to teach the Bible to

1186
00:53:35.840 --> 00:53:39.440
seniors at private Christian school. And I was like, wow, I

1187
00:53:39.440 --> 00:53:41.880
thought I wanted to be an adjunct professor. But I'm like,

1188
00:53:42.520 --> 00:53:46.840
I think I could be a high school Bible teacher. I think I like

1189
00:53:46.840 --> 00:53:51.160
that idea. So I'm excited for you to do that. Okay. Tell us

1190
00:53:51.160 --> 00:53:54.360
three words that your besties would use to describe you.

1191
00:53:56.800 --> 00:54:01.040
Thorough, smart, and goofy.

1192
00:54:02.760 --> 00:54:04.520
We said again, thorough,

1193
00:54:05.000 --> 00:54:07.240
thorough, smart and goofy.

1194
00:54:07.320 --> 00:54:10.560
I love that. So you're like a fun nerdy guy.

1195
00:54:11.120 --> 00:54:14.640
Yeah. Awesome. I love it. You know, your words were way more

1196
00:54:14.760 --> 00:54:18.040
than what I just said. So that's awesome. Okay. What is the one

1197
00:54:18.040 --> 00:54:19.960
thing that you do that helps you relax?

1198
00:54:21.520 --> 00:54:26.480
Ooh, uh, listen to worship music. Get outside if I've been

1199
00:54:26.480 --> 00:54:30.640
inside too long. I get a little stir crazy if I've just been

1200
00:54:30.640 --> 00:54:35.240
inside too long. Haven't been outside all day. Just have to do

1201
00:54:35.240 --> 00:54:39.240
something with my hands. I think this kind of answers a future

1202
00:54:39.240 --> 00:54:43.240
question. But if I just need to get some energy out, I'll play

1203
00:54:43.240 --> 00:54:47.000
pickleball or do some sort of other fun activity. Maybe. I

1204
00:54:47.000 --> 00:54:48.000
like board games, too.

1205
00:54:48.400 --> 00:54:50.640
Okay, I love it. What's your favorite board game?

1206
00:54:51.720 --> 00:54:57.240
Ooh, um, this one called King of New York is a good one. You're

1207
00:54:57.240 --> 00:54:59.680
like literally a monster in Manhattan trying to destroy all

1208
00:54:59.680 --> 00:54:59.960
the other

1209
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.000
Monsters and kind of like King Kong, Godzilla sort of thing.

1210
00:55:05.600 --> 00:55:08.360
Okay, Catan is another good one.

1211
00:55:08.360 --> 00:55:10.320
Okay, all right, good to know.

1212
00:55:10.320 --> 00:55:12.360
All right, so you're 33 and did you tell us

1213
00:55:12.360 --> 00:55:14.820
if you want to have kids when you get married?

1214
00:55:15.800 --> 00:55:18.700
Yes, I do wanna have kids for sure.

1215
00:55:19.960 --> 00:55:23.480
I'm up for like having four to six.

1216
00:55:23.480 --> 00:55:26.320
Okay, so you're also probably looking

1217
00:55:26.320 --> 00:55:30.360
in the 25 to 38 year old age range as well

1218
00:55:30.360 --> 00:55:32.480
to pop out all those babies.

1219
00:55:32.480 --> 00:55:33.320
Yes.

1220
00:55:33.320 --> 00:55:34.560
Would you agree with that?

1221
00:55:34.560 --> 00:55:36.920
Okay, ladies, awesome, awesome.

1222
00:55:36.920 --> 00:55:40.720
All right, what are you looking for in a mate?

1223
00:55:40.720 --> 00:55:43.020
What kind of qualities are you looking for?

1224
00:55:45.440 --> 00:55:50.440
I think the big one for me is gentle

1225
00:55:50.680 --> 00:55:53.440
and it doesn't mean she has to like 100%

1226
00:55:53.440 --> 00:55:54.760
be gentle all the time,

1227
00:55:54.760 --> 00:55:57.200
but it's just an important quality.

1228
00:55:57.200 --> 00:56:01.120
I think I've realized over time that I've wanted

1229
00:56:01.120 --> 00:56:06.120
and needed in a marriage or a dating relationship.

1230
00:56:08.320 --> 00:56:10.880
I wanna say someone who's responsible

1231
00:56:12.200 --> 00:56:15.560
where we can be both interdependent.

1232
00:56:15.560 --> 00:56:18.200
We're not like in a codependent relationship

1233
00:56:18.200 --> 00:56:22.600
where it's just unhealthy for all sorts of reasons.

1234
00:56:22.720 --> 00:56:25.880
And somebody obviously who loves the Lord,

1235
00:56:25.880 --> 00:56:26.960
we already mentioned that one,

1236
00:56:26.960 --> 00:56:31.080
but I think someone also, I think,

1237
00:56:31.080 --> 00:56:32.760
so I go to a Messianic synagogue.

1238
00:56:32.760 --> 00:56:34.360
I just became a member at one.

1239
00:56:35.480 --> 00:56:37.420
And for everyone who doesn't know what that is,

1240
00:56:37.420 --> 00:56:41.880
I essentially go to a place where Jews and Gentiles

1241
00:56:41.880 --> 00:56:44.400
who believe in Jesus or Yeshua is Messiah.

1242
00:56:44.400 --> 00:56:45.240
Yes.

1243
00:56:45.240 --> 00:56:48.040
And I really felt Jesus leading me into that last fall.

1244
00:56:48.040 --> 00:56:50.040
So I completed it this spring.

1245
00:56:50.040 --> 00:56:51.840
I mentioned that because I think

1246
00:56:51.840 --> 00:56:53.040
because of where I'm at

1247
00:56:53.040 --> 00:56:55.080
and just literally getting into this,

1248
00:56:55.080 --> 00:56:58.680
I want to date somebody who is,

1249
00:56:58.680 --> 00:57:01.720
I would say open to at least exploring,

1250
00:57:03.440 --> 00:57:05.800
being in that environment with me for long-term.

1251
00:57:05.800 --> 00:57:06.640
I love that.

1252
00:57:07.720 --> 00:57:08.560
I love that.

1253
00:57:08.560 --> 00:57:11.560
I just wrote a term paper on that whole topic.

1254
00:57:11.560 --> 00:57:14.400
And so super fun to blend both.

1255
00:57:14.400 --> 00:57:17.760
And ladies, I'm seeing some of the chats vaguely.

1256
00:57:17.760 --> 00:57:20.280
I'm trying to give Joshua my full attention.

1257
00:57:20.280 --> 00:57:21.400
Here's what I can tell you.

1258
00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:23.520
If you are over the age of 40 and you're like,

1259
00:57:23.520 --> 00:57:25.360
oh my gosh, it's all these young dudes tonight.

1260
00:57:25.360 --> 00:57:26.940
Okay, A, David was not young.

1261
00:57:26.940 --> 00:57:28.320
David was 51.

1262
00:57:29.320 --> 00:57:31.320
And so let's not forget amazing David

1263
00:57:31.320 --> 00:57:32.280
at the front end of the night.

1264
00:57:32.280 --> 00:57:35.240
But also I want you to be paying attention to their answers

1265
00:57:35.240 --> 00:57:38.560
because from David being the oldest

1266
00:57:38.560 --> 00:57:40.480
to Jaden being the youngest,

1267
00:57:40.480 --> 00:57:43.280
there's a lot of similarity in what they're looking for

1268
00:57:43.280 --> 00:57:45.720
in women and things that interest them.

1269
00:57:45.720 --> 00:57:47.520
And so I think it would behoove all of us

1270
00:57:47.520 --> 00:57:49.440
to just kind of sit there and go like,

1271
00:57:49.440 --> 00:57:50.920
am I presenting feminine?

1272
00:57:51.440 --> 00:57:52.720
Am I presenting that way?

1273
00:57:52.720 --> 00:57:55.360
So I think what you're hearing across the three decades

1274
00:57:55.360 --> 00:57:57.640
is a lot of similarities in what they're looking for.

1275
00:57:57.640 --> 00:58:00.840
So there's value in staying present

1276
00:58:00.840 --> 00:58:02.440
in this conversation tonight.

1277
00:58:02.440 --> 00:58:05.520
So there are plenty of times that the men

1278
00:58:05.520 --> 00:58:08.400
that are being spotlighted are much older

1279
00:58:08.400 --> 00:58:10.120
than the women on the call.

1280
00:58:10.120 --> 00:58:13.440
And so we wanna hold space that there's value

1281
00:58:13.440 --> 00:58:14.880
in hearing from everybody.

1282
00:58:14.880 --> 00:58:16.120
Joshua, I love it.

1283
00:58:16.120 --> 00:58:16.960
Okay.

1284
00:58:19.000 --> 00:58:20.720
Did I already, I mean, please forgive me.

1285
00:58:21.520 --> 00:58:22.640
I am old.

1286
00:58:22.640 --> 00:58:23.480
Oh, you're forgiven.

1287
00:58:23.480 --> 00:58:26.720
Did I already ask you what you're looking for in a mate?

1288
00:58:26.720 --> 00:58:27.560
Yes, you did.

1289
00:58:29.560 --> 00:58:30.400
Oh my gosh.

1290
00:58:30.400 --> 00:58:31.760
I need to sleep badly.

1291
00:58:31.760 --> 00:58:32.600
All right.

1292
00:58:32.600 --> 00:58:34.480
What nonprofit moves you?

1293
00:58:35.680 --> 00:58:36.600
That's easy.

1294
00:58:36.600 --> 00:58:38.840
Acts of Mercy International.

1295
00:58:38.840 --> 00:58:41.760
I went with them about a year ago to Israel

1296
00:58:41.760 --> 00:58:45.560
to help at a special needs school in Nazareth.

1297
00:58:45.560 --> 00:58:47.680
And the first one in the Middle East

1298
00:58:47.680 --> 00:58:50.600
that was formed in 1985.

1299
00:58:51.440 --> 00:58:54.920
I actually really wanted to go down to,

1300
00:58:54.920 --> 00:58:57.200
I live in Dallas, but South of Texas,

1301
00:58:58.400 --> 00:59:00.000
I think it's North of San Antonio,

1302
00:59:00.000 --> 00:59:02.720
wherever the massive flooding happened.

1303
00:59:02.720 --> 00:59:05.920
They've been pretty active out there this last month.

1304
00:59:05.920 --> 00:59:06.760
I've wanted to go.

1305
00:59:06.760 --> 00:59:08.480
I just, I can't right now.

1306
00:59:08.480 --> 00:59:09.320
Yeah.

1307
00:59:10.880 --> 00:59:14.520
But yeah, I just, I regularly look at their,

1308
00:59:14.520 --> 00:59:17.640
I get their weekly updates and I freaking love Israel.

1309
00:59:17.640 --> 00:59:18.800
I would just love to go back.

1310
00:59:18.800 --> 00:59:19.640
There's another assignment.

1311
00:59:19.640 --> 00:59:21.600
No, when did you go?

1312
00:59:21.600 --> 00:59:23.200
About a year ago, July.

1313
00:59:23.200 --> 00:59:24.040
Oh, wow.

1314
00:59:24.040 --> 00:59:24.880
Okay.

1315
00:59:24.880 --> 00:59:28.080
I was there March of 2020 and then March of 2023.

1316
00:59:28.080 --> 00:59:29.240
So were you there?

1317
00:59:29.240 --> 00:59:30.080
Oh, wow.

1318
00:59:30.080 --> 00:59:31.640
You were there during COVID.

1319
00:59:31.640 --> 00:59:34.240
We were the one of the last flights out of Israel.

1320
00:59:34.240 --> 00:59:37.600
Like COVID was a questionable thing.

1321
00:59:37.600 --> 00:59:41.840
And then by day 10 of our pilgrimage,

1322
00:59:41.840 --> 00:59:44.080
like they stopped letting us in places

1323
00:59:44.080 --> 00:59:46.160
and then we were the last group at the hotel

1324
00:59:46.160 --> 00:59:49.880
and then we were the last group flying out of Israel.

1325
00:59:49.880 --> 00:59:51.920
And like literally as we were boarding the plane,

1326
00:59:51.920 --> 00:59:54.640
the president was declaring a state of emergency.

1327
00:59:54.640 --> 00:59:57.080
And we're like, oh, this is a real thing.

1328
00:59:57.080 --> 01:00:00.080
And I had a sore throat and laryngitis and nobody was.

1329
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:04.080
letting me talk because we were afraid that we were going to get quarantined just because

1330
01:00:04.080 --> 01:00:10.400
I couldn't talk. And I was fine. I didn't have COVID. But Israel has my heart too, Joshua.

1331
01:00:10.400 --> 01:00:15.960
Like I literally have such a love for Israel. And if I could go long term, I would do it.

1332
01:00:15.960 --> 01:00:20.360
I feel like, and this is a thing to all of you guys, like don't let everything in the

1333
01:00:20.360 --> 01:00:25.880
news kind of freak you out. There's so much beauty in Israel. It is like the gospel comes

1334
01:00:25.880 --> 01:00:32.520
alive and it just blows you away. It's just freaking amazing. So I'm glad you have a heart

1335
01:00:32.520 --> 01:00:37.640
for Israel. Okay. Some fun questions. Who is playing you in a movie? And the ladies

1336
01:00:37.640 --> 01:00:42.400
might help you. Who is playing you in a movie?

1337
01:00:42.400 --> 01:00:49.080
That guy from House of, is it House of Dragons? It was at HBO show. It's like one of the main

1338
01:00:49.080 --> 01:00:55.000
characters was a redhead guy. He's been in one or two commercials. I mean, people would

1339
01:00:55.000 --> 01:00:57.680
say I play Prince Harry or something, I guess.

1340
01:00:57.680 --> 01:00:58.680
Oh my gosh.

1341
01:00:58.680 --> 01:00:59.680
Yeah.

1342
01:00:59.680 --> 01:01:00.680
Okay.

1343
01:01:00.680 --> 01:01:01.680
Game of Thrones. That's what it is.

1344
01:01:01.680 --> 01:01:05.760
Game of Thrones. Yes. You do look like that guy. Not that I've seen that show at all,

1345
01:01:05.760 --> 01:01:10.880
but you do look like that guy. Timothy Buzzfield, like 30 years ago, you would actually look

1346
01:01:10.880 --> 01:01:15.160
like, he kind of looks like you. You kind of have that same kind of demeanor. All right.

1347
01:01:15.160 --> 01:01:18.640
You're going to a potluck. What are you bringing?

1348
01:01:18.640 --> 01:01:25.440
I make, it's been a while, but I can make homemade cheesecakes. Reese's peanut butter.

1349
01:01:25.440 --> 01:01:26.440
Okay.

1350
01:01:26.440 --> 01:01:32.080
And it is delicious because it's made with love. But if I want to do something like more

1351
01:01:32.080 --> 01:01:39.600
simple and actually this is kind of cool. I lost a lot of weight recently and I'm trying

1352
01:01:39.600 --> 01:01:43.480
to do more home cooking. So I've been just learning different recipes and stuff. I do

1353
01:01:43.480 --> 01:01:51.400
something like fried artichoke hearts or fried okra chips, you know, just something

1354
01:01:51.400 --> 01:01:55.200
very basic and simple. You can get done within 30 minutes to an hour.

1355
01:01:55.200 --> 01:01:59.920
Oh my gosh. Somebody said you look like Mark Zuckerberg. You kind of do. The Owen Wilson

1356
01:01:59.920 --> 01:02:01.880
thing. Do you get the Mark one a lot?

1357
01:02:01.880 --> 01:02:08.480
No, actually. I think it's the hair. So I've had phases where it's been shorter. And then

1358
01:02:08.480 --> 01:02:13.360
like right now where it's a little bit longer, you know, I'm like trying to do Jesus or something.

1359
01:02:14.240 --> 01:02:19.920
That is hilarious. Okay. How did you lose the weight? Did you just change your eating

1360
01:02:19.920 --> 01:02:25.920
habits? Usually men stop drinking and they lose 50 pounds or something. I'm kidding.

1361
01:02:25.920 --> 01:02:32.360
Not that I have any bitterness towards men losing weight faster than women. I'm kidding.

1362
01:02:32.360 --> 01:02:42.120
Yes. I did a long extended fast and yeah, it was very, it was very good. It wasn't easy

1363
01:02:42.160 --> 01:02:48.880
for sure. But I mean, there were multiple times I wanted to give up, but I was just,

1364
01:02:48.880 --> 01:02:53.200
I was taking care of myself during it too, making sure I was getting enough minerals

1365
01:02:53.200 --> 01:02:59.920
and stuff. But yeah, I'm just in a place now physically where I don't want to gain back

1366
01:02:59.920 --> 01:03:06.360
the weight and like, you know, splurge maybe once every week or two weeks, but just maintaining

1367
01:03:06.360 --> 01:03:14.120
discipline in that area I think is important for me. Okay. I love it. I love it. What have

1368
01:03:14.120 --> 01:03:21.240
you learned about yourself during a misstep in your life? That I pick on myself too much.

1369
01:03:24.360 --> 01:03:32.440
Yeah. And that's an, honestly, that's an area of repentance. And I, obviously I don't think

1370
01:03:32.440 --> 01:03:38.280
it's just me that struggled with that, but I mentioned it because the blood of Jesus

1371
01:03:38.280 --> 01:03:44.600
is enough to cleanse everything. And if I'm beating myself over the head, I'm basically

1372
01:03:44.600 --> 01:03:51.240
saying, Jesus, your blood wasn't enough. And it's like an insult to the cross and to him.

1373
01:03:51.240 --> 01:03:59.000
And so it's an area where, and it's honestly, I've, I've beat myself so much over the years

1374
01:03:59.080 --> 01:04:04.440
where I had to learn who God was as a father. And I'm having to relearn that recently too,

1375
01:04:04.440 --> 01:04:11.400
a little bit. And I just feel Jesus drawn me closer to him in this season. And, and just

1376
01:04:11.960 --> 01:04:18.840
like the previous guy, he said like abiding with the father. And I just realized that my battery

1377
01:04:18.840 --> 01:04:25.640
is at 1%. Well, Josh, you are lucky because we're in the home stretch with you. So if we lose you

1378
01:04:25.640 --> 01:04:30.120
ladies, Cheryl's going to summarize your stuff. And I'll say the same thing to you that I said

1379
01:04:30.120 --> 01:04:35.480
to the other three men, what a blessing you have been to listen to. And I think that was a word

1380
01:04:35.480 --> 01:04:42.680
other women needed to hear because we can be the queens of letting the enemy say really bad stuff.

1381
01:04:43.480 --> 01:04:47.800
And we would speak to ourselves in a way we would never speak to other people. So thank you for,

1382
01:04:47.800 --> 01:04:53.240
for sharing that. That was amazing. So thank you so much. Is there anything you wanted to say before

1383
01:04:53.240 --> 01:04:57.320
I let you bounce? Yes.

1384
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:05.640
guess just a little bit more about me. I love teaching. I'm actually looking very

1385
01:05:05.640 --> 01:05:09.000
forward to it. It is my first year, so it's, you know, the challenges will be

1386
01:05:09.000 --> 01:05:15.280
there, but I'll have people who help me along the way. And it was just super

1387
01:05:15.280 --> 01:05:20.920
natural how I got this job. But I've taught three different Passover Seders

1388
01:05:20.920 --> 01:05:29.840
before. I just, I really love teaching, and what I love is seeing it come alive

1389
01:05:29.840 --> 01:05:34.480
in people. Like, I know this might sound cliche, because this is a Christian

1390
01:05:34.480 --> 01:05:41.840
circle, but I just, I love the Bible, and I'm just a deep diver of the word, and

1391
01:05:41.840 --> 01:05:48.520
you know, there's just so much to learn. You can never learn enough.

1392
01:05:48.520 --> 01:05:53.720
I'm finishing up my second year of seminary, and I feel like I learned, I

1393
01:05:53.720 --> 01:05:58.720
feel like all I've learned is how much I don't know, so I get it. What's funny is

1394
01:05:58.720 --> 01:06:04.880
that you mentioned Ezekiel. My reading plan tomorrow starts Ezekiel, so I was

1395
01:06:04.880 --> 01:06:11.480
reading the bio today. Yeah. It's a lot, man. I'm on part three of my research

1396
01:06:11.480 --> 01:06:16.920
paper, so awesome. Well, Joshua, thank you so much. Okay, ladies, I'm gonna spotlight

1397
01:06:16.920 --> 01:06:23.320
you by age demographic first, because I want to make sure I get a good peppering

1398
01:06:23.320 --> 01:06:30.720
of women in all of the age groups. So, go ahead and raise your hand if you are in

1399
01:06:30.720 --> 01:06:37.040
your 20s, and I'm actually gonna close out the chat box so I can see. So, Cheryl,

1400
01:06:37.040 --> 01:06:44.080
make it so that we can see all the people, and not just me. I'm gonna do gallery,

1401
01:06:44.080 --> 01:06:48.080
so raise your hand if you're on camera and in your 20s. I'm gonna start there.

1402
01:06:48.080 --> 01:06:54.960
Do we have anybody in their 20s? Poor Jaden's like, really? Okay, three, two, one.

1403
01:06:54.960 --> 01:06:59.000
All right, raise your hand, raise your avatar hand if you're on camera and you're

1404
01:06:59.000 --> 01:07:11.800
in your 30s. I mean, woo-hoo. All right, ladies. Okay, I'm gonna give you 60

1405
01:07:11.800 --> 01:07:22.360
seconds, and I'm gonna let you say whatever the heck you want to say, because not only

1406
01:07:22.360 --> 01:07:27.160
are men here to watch this now, men might watch this in replay, but ladies, help your

1407
01:07:27.160 --> 01:07:36.200
sisters out. You may have a brother, a cousin, a coworker that would be perfect for them,

1408
01:07:36.200 --> 01:07:42.200
or maybe you went on a date with a guy that's not right for you, but is perfect for them.

1409
01:07:42.200 --> 01:07:53.080
Okay, Megan, you're up first. Go. You're muted, girl. Eat in time. You're muted. Take

1410
01:07:53.080 --> 01:08:03.240
your thing off mute. Am I unmuted? Now you are. Go. Oh, okay. I am on a trip right now

1411
01:08:03.320 --> 01:08:08.120
in Acomal, Mexico. Actually, I didn't hear what you said because the reception went out,

1412
01:08:08.120 --> 01:08:13.400
but what do you want me to say? You have 45 seconds to tell us anything you want us to

1413
01:08:13.400 --> 01:08:19.640
know about you. Okay, I'm a physical therapist. I'm in San Antonio. I love the outdoors. I love

1414
01:08:19.640 --> 01:08:24.840
health and wellness and fitness. I love the Lord, obviously. This program has been so encouraging

1415
01:08:24.840 --> 01:08:31.080
for me. I just turned 39. I'm pretty young at heart. All my friends here are younger.

1416
01:08:31.080 --> 01:08:37.080
It's my friend's 35th birthday. I would say I'm pretty positive, encouraging,

1417
01:08:37.640 --> 01:08:44.200
compassionate, kind. Those words came to mind when you asked about what you know or the words

1418
01:08:44.200 --> 01:08:50.600
to describe yourself. Okay, that's good. That's good. You're up, Megan. That's awesome. I loved

1419
01:08:50.600 --> 01:08:57.960
it. That was great. Thank you so much. Michelle Mark, you're up. Okay. Hopefully, you can hear

1420
01:08:57.960 --> 01:09:06.520
me. My name is Michelle, and I live in Ohio. I'm 34 years old. I'm a special education teacher

1421
01:09:06.520 --> 01:09:12.200
with most of my experience primarily being with really young kids. I'm currently getting

1422
01:09:13.160 --> 01:09:17.560
certified as an ABA therapist, which is someone who works a lot with kiddos with autism.

1423
01:09:18.760 --> 01:09:26.040
I'm a big outdoor person. I grew up on a farm, very rural person. I'm an animal lover.

1424
01:09:26.200 --> 01:09:31.560
I was just at the dog shelter today volunteering. I do a lot of animal rescue and things like that.

1425
01:09:32.439 --> 01:09:38.680
I'm a very crunchy person, I guess. It's a new word to describe people like me. I actually just

1426
01:09:38.680 --> 01:09:43.800
got diagnosed with chronic Lyme disease. I'm on a healing journey with that. I live very,

1427
01:09:43.800 --> 01:09:49.960
very healthy because of all of that. I don't necessarily expect someone that I'm with to

1428
01:09:49.960 --> 01:09:55.320
be as strict and eat as healthy as I do. All right, that's it, Michelle. That was

1429
01:09:55.880 --> 01:09:59.480
great. Thank you, Michelle. I'm sorry. One minute goes by very fast.

1430
01:09:59.480 --> 01:09:59.880
No, you're good. You're good.

1431
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:01.040
Mary, you're up.

1432
01:10:06.480 --> 01:10:07.480
Where'd you go, Mary?

1433
01:10:07.480 --> 01:10:07.980
Yep.

1434
01:10:07.980 --> 01:10:09.400
I'm here.

1435
01:10:09.400 --> 01:10:10.240
My name's Mary.

1436
01:10:10.240 --> 01:10:13.080
I am from the Hamilton, Michigan area.

1437
01:10:13.080 --> 01:10:16.960
I am an administrative assistant with a faffing pub.

1438
01:10:16.960 --> 01:10:19.480
And I love to dance and music.

1439
01:10:19.480 --> 01:10:22.280
You will find me anywhere, like literally,

1440
01:10:22.280 --> 01:10:24.840
not doing any music, just dancing down the street

1441
01:10:24.840 --> 01:10:27.240
for no apparent reason because it's fun.

1442
01:10:27.240 --> 01:10:29.960
I love the beach.

1443
01:10:29.960 --> 01:10:31.680
I love hanging out with my family.

1444
01:10:31.680 --> 01:10:34.960
And I love playing pinball.

1445
01:10:34.960 --> 01:10:35.840
Awesome.

1446
01:10:35.840 --> 01:10:37.000
Are you good?

1447
01:10:37.000 --> 01:10:37.840
That was good.

1448
01:10:37.840 --> 01:10:40.200
All right, Michelle, let's go.

1449
01:10:40.200 --> 01:10:43.240
I'm just letting everybody get a chance.

1450
01:10:43.240 --> 01:10:43.800
Hello.

1451
01:10:43.800 --> 01:10:46.560
So I am actually 38 this year.

1452
01:10:46.560 --> 01:10:48.440
And I'm not an American.

1453
01:10:48.440 --> 01:10:49.840
I'm a Jamaican.

1454
01:10:49.840 --> 01:10:53.080
I live in Kingston, Jamaica.

1455
01:10:53.080 --> 01:10:55.320
I am a lab analyst, so I have a science background.

1456
01:10:55.400 --> 01:10:58.120
I do like financial management, so that is something

1457
01:10:58.120 --> 01:11:00.960
that I've studied, doing budgeting and stuff.

1458
01:11:00.960 --> 01:11:05.080
And I want to move on to learn how to multiply funds.

1459
01:11:05.080 --> 01:11:10.200
I also like experiencing new cultures and new food,

1460
01:11:10.200 --> 01:11:12.200
of course, beaches and rivers.

1461
01:11:12.200 --> 01:11:14.560
We have a lot of that here in Jamaica.

1462
01:11:14.560 --> 01:11:15.760
Not necessarily hiking.

1463
01:11:15.760 --> 01:11:17.560
I think the cultural thing, hiking, is fairly new

1464
01:11:17.560 --> 01:11:20.120
in Jamaica, so I'm not really sure what that is about.

1465
01:11:20.120 --> 01:11:22.320
I heard a lot of you guys talking about that.

1466
01:11:22.320 --> 01:11:24.480
But other than that, yeah, that's me.

1467
01:11:24.480 --> 01:11:25.320
All right, awesome.

1468
01:11:25.320 --> 01:11:27.440
Liz, you're the last one in this age group.

1469
01:11:27.440 --> 01:11:30.680
And then I'm bopping to the 40-somethings.

1470
01:11:30.680 --> 01:11:33.400
All right, Liz, give us a short snap.

1471
01:11:33.400 --> 01:11:35.880
OK, short snapshot.

1472
01:11:35.880 --> 01:11:36.520
I'm Liz.

1473
01:11:36.520 --> 01:11:38.480
I'm based in Michigan currently, but I

1474
01:11:38.480 --> 01:11:41.880
lived overseas for seven years doing mission work in East

1475
01:11:41.880 --> 01:11:44.160
Africa and Southeast Asia.

1476
01:11:44.160 --> 01:11:46.960
Just moved back last year, so I'm newly stateside,

1477
01:11:46.960 --> 01:11:49.360
looking to settle down.

1478
01:11:49.360 --> 01:11:51.360
I like health fitness.

1479
01:11:51.360 --> 01:11:55.120
I'm really into cooking healthy meals.

1480
01:11:55.120 --> 01:11:59.000
Anything outdoors and active, I am so game.

1481
01:11:59.000 --> 01:12:00.080
And I'm a tennis player.

1482
01:12:00.080 --> 01:12:03.120
I play competitively in a women's league

1483
01:12:03.120 --> 01:12:05.440
and also a very big reader.

1484
01:12:08.080 --> 01:12:08.640
Awesome.

1485
01:12:08.640 --> 01:12:09.640
Thank you so much.

1486
01:12:09.640 --> 01:12:10.640
That was great.

1487
01:12:10.640 --> 01:12:11.680
That was really good.

1488
01:12:11.680 --> 01:12:12.720
All right, ladies.

1489
01:12:12.720 --> 01:12:14.480
See, those are some great 30-year-olds,

1490
01:12:14.480 --> 01:12:17.240
and I bet you they can pop out some babies, too.

1491
01:12:17.240 --> 01:12:17.920
Just kidding.

1492
01:12:17.920 --> 01:12:19.240
All right, 40-year-olds.

1493
01:12:19.240 --> 01:12:21.800
If you are 40, raise your hand.

1494
01:12:21.800 --> 01:12:24.240
I'm not going to be able to call on every single person

1495
01:12:24.240 --> 01:12:26.400
like I just did in that small age group,

1496
01:12:26.400 --> 01:12:29.720
so I'm going to look for people that I can see on camera.

1497
01:12:29.720 --> 01:12:32.240
You've got light shining in your face,

1498
01:12:32.240 --> 01:12:34.120
and it's going to be super random.

1499
01:12:34.120 --> 01:12:36.360
Stacey, your face jumped out at me.

1500
01:12:36.360 --> 01:12:38.320
Stacey Cleland, go.

1501
01:12:38.320 --> 01:12:38.800
Hey, y'all.

1502
01:12:38.800 --> 01:12:39.800
I'm Stacey.

1503
01:12:39.800 --> 01:12:41.520
I am 40 years young.

1504
01:12:41.520 --> 01:12:44.160
I live in Austin, Texas, where I am

1505
01:12:44.160 --> 01:12:47.920
the leader of my singles group at Gateway Church.

1506
01:12:47.920 --> 01:12:53.040
So all of the Austin folks, I'd love to connect with you.

1507
01:12:53.040 --> 01:12:56.440
I do have some folks of mine that I've been thinking about.

1508
01:12:56.440 --> 01:13:00.840
I'm very active in the Christian singles community here.

1509
01:13:00.840 --> 01:13:06.400
I love to host and play theme trivia,

1510
01:13:06.400 --> 01:13:09.200
so that's with Get It Games here in Austin.

1511
01:13:09.200 --> 01:13:14.760
And I'm just very active in the Christian singles group,

1512
01:13:14.760 --> 01:13:18.240
so I'd love to make connections with new people here.

1513
01:13:18.240 --> 01:13:18.800
Awesome.

1514
01:13:18.800 --> 01:13:19.600
Great job.

1515
01:13:19.600 --> 01:13:23.360
OK, Kim, you are up, my friend.

1516
01:13:23.360 --> 01:13:25.040
Hi, I'm Kim.

1517
01:13:25.040 --> 01:13:29.720
I am 45, originally born and raised in Alaska,

1518
01:13:29.720 --> 01:13:31.520
just moved back from Florida.

1519
01:13:31.520 --> 01:13:33.000
I live in the DMV now.

1520
01:13:33.000 --> 01:13:37.280
I'm a public servant, new government employee,

1521
01:13:37.280 --> 01:13:39.480
and I love my job.

1522
01:13:39.480 --> 01:13:40.920
I'm also an empty nester.

1523
01:13:40.920 --> 01:13:42.920
Both of my kids are in college now,

1524
01:13:42.920 --> 01:13:47.560
so just trying to figure out what else I can do with my life.

1525
01:13:47.560 --> 01:13:49.480
So I'm very excited.

1526
01:13:49.480 --> 01:13:50.520
I love it.

1527
01:13:50.520 --> 01:13:53.480
Rio Joy.

1528
01:13:53.480 --> 01:13:54.720
Hi, everyone.

1529
01:13:54.720 --> 01:13:56.520
My name is Rio Joy Loxa.

1530
01:13:56.520 --> 01:13:58.680
It actually means flowing river of joy, which

1531
01:13:58.680 --> 01:14:01.560
is something I learned recently, which is really cool.

1532
01:14:01.560 --> 01:14:02.960
I turned 40 this year.

1533
01:14:02.960 --> 01:14:05.640
I live in San Jose, California.

1534
01:14:05.640 --> 01:14:09.080
I was a missionary, a worship pastor, and now I'm in business

1535
01:14:09.080 --> 01:14:11.840
and I run a couple of businesses with my sister.

1536
01:14:11.840 --> 01:14:15.240
And so now we just believe in marketplace ministry

1537
01:14:15.240 --> 01:14:18.080
and really being kingdom financiers.

1538
01:14:18.080 --> 01:14:21.320
I was raised by a single mother, and she's amazing.

1539
01:14:21.320 --> 01:14:25.760
And just in this place of really desiring for marriage

1540
01:14:25.760 --> 01:14:26.560
and for family.

1541
01:14:26.560 --> 01:14:28.480
I've never been married, don't have children,

1542
01:14:28.480 --> 01:14:30.360
but that is a desire of my heart.

1543
01:14:30.360 --> 01:14:32.040
And I just love the Lord.

1544
01:14:32.040 --> 01:14:33.120
I love people.

1545
01:14:33.120 --> 01:14:35.040
And I'm just happy to be here.

1546
01:14:35.040 --> 01:14:36.720
So thanks for having me.

1547
01:14:36.720 --> 01:14:37.400
Good job.

1548
01:14:37.400 --> 01:14:40.960
Candice Perry, go up.

1549
01:14:41.000 --> 01:14:41.600
Hey, y'all.

1550
01:14:41.600 --> 01:14:42.960
I am Candice Perry.

1551
01:14:42.960 --> 01:14:45.120
I'm actually Jackie's marketing manager.

1552
01:14:45.120 --> 01:14:48.120
Just moved here from Austin, from Dallas, Texas.

1553
01:14:48.120 --> 01:14:51.520
I'm 43, never married, no kids.

1554
01:14:51.520 --> 01:14:53.560
Definitely looking for my spirit mate, of course,

1555
01:14:53.560 --> 01:14:56.200
because I work for the program and I've wanted it for years

1556
01:14:56.200 --> 01:14:57.680
anyway.

1557
01:14:57.680 --> 01:15:01.720
When I'm not working for Jackie, I also work for the program.

1558
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.920
So do photography, a dance, love the outdoors, food, very connected to my church.

1559
01:15:06.940 --> 01:15:10.100
Um, just found one actually after only three months and it was amazing.

1560
01:15:10.440 --> 01:15:15.000
Very connected in community and yeah, that's awesome.

1561
01:15:15.100 --> 01:15:16.240
Jessica Frank.

1562
01:15:18.880 --> 01:15:20.200
Hey, thank you, Renee.

1563
01:15:20.600 --> 01:15:22.440
Uh, I'm 42.

1564
01:15:22.880 --> 01:15:26.160
I work for a global cosmetics company.

1565
01:15:26.160 --> 01:15:30.840
I work from home the majority of the time, going to campus, uh, once in a

1566
01:15:30.840 --> 01:15:32.800
while, just to have human interaction.

1567
01:15:33.360 --> 01:15:37.920
I'm very, very into fitness, uh, healthy eating.

1568
01:15:38.560 --> 01:15:41.520
And I'm finding it's been very difficult to find men in their

1569
01:15:41.520 --> 01:15:43.340
forties, especially in Pennsylvania.

1570
01:15:43.340 --> 01:15:47.400
So I have only seen a few women from Pennsylvania, but if you know

1571
01:15:47.400 --> 01:15:53.040
anyone, uh, in their forties, uh, let me know, I have never been

1572
01:15:53.040 --> 01:15:54.920
married and I don't have children.

1573
01:15:55.920 --> 01:15:56.320
Awesome.

1574
01:15:56.320 --> 01:15:56.880
Thank you.

1575
01:15:57.040 --> 01:15:59.480
If you've already gone, can you guys lower your hands?

1576
01:15:59.480 --> 01:16:03.600
So I make sure that I don't call on you a second time.

1577
01:16:04.120 --> 01:16:05.480
Um, Natalie.

1578
01:16:07.800 --> 01:16:12.520
I am Natalie and I am 48 and I'm from sunny.

1579
01:16:12.880 --> 01:16:15.360
So Cal, you can see the palm trees in the back.

1580
01:16:15.360 --> 01:16:17.440
I'm getting ready to go on a hike by the beach.

1581
01:16:17.440 --> 01:16:18.480
That's my solace.

1582
01:16:18.800 --> 01:16:22.120
I'm a music therapist for hospice patients, and I'm

1583
01:16:22.120 --> 01:16:23.960
really active in my community.

1584
01:16:24.560 --> 01:16:28.440
I serve on the hospitality team because I'm half Italian and half Mexican.

1585
01:16:28.440 --> 01:16:30.120
So I love food and I love to cook.

1586
01:16:30.480 --> 01:16:32.080
I love to go out and find dine.

1587
01:16:32.080 --> 01:16:34.560
And I also, um, enjoy hosting in my home.

1588
01:16:35.000 --> 01:16:39.120
I'm on the greeting team and, um, part of three different Bible studies.

1589
01:16:39.320 --> 01:16:41.000
I'm really active in my community.

1590
01:16:41.440 --> 01:16:43.080
Never married, no kids.

1591
01:16:43.120 --> 01:16:46.600
Um, totally whoever God has in store for me.

1592
01:16:47.080 --> 01:16:47.640
Love it.

1593
01:16:47.680 --> 01:16:48.560
Katie.

1594
01:16:50.040 --> 01:16:51.120
Hi, I'm Katie.

1595
01:16:51.240 --> 01:16:53.280
Uh, I'm in north central Pennsylvania.

1596
01:16:53.280 --> 01:16:55.040
Just turned 40 this year.

1597
01:16:55.560 --> 01:16:59.040
Um, just God take me on a whirlwind journey this year.

1598
01:16:59.080 --> 01:17:02.000
Um, but I've moved a couple of times, just bought a big

1599
01:17:02.000 --> 01:17:04.000
historic house that I'm fixing up.

1600
01:17:04.520 --> 01:17:06.280
Uh, I have an eight year old daughter.

1601
01:17:06.440 --> 01:17:11.480
I am an architect by trade and I'm looking to transition into like a

1602
01:17:11.480 --> 01:17:14.960
digital marketing, um, business online.

1603
01:17:14.960 --> 01:17:18.800
So we'll see what that involves, but I'm really active in my church.

1604
01:17:18.880 --> 01:17:20.840
Um, lead small groups.

1605
01:17:20.840 --> 01:17:23.080
I'm one of the coaches in this program.

1606
01:17:23.520 --> 01:17:26.200
So, yeah, I'm just super grateful for all that Jackie's

1607
01:17:26.200 --> 01:17:28.560
done and, and meeting new people.

1608
01:17:29.240 --> 01:17:29.960
Awesome.

1609
01:17:30.040 --> 01:17:33.000
Anya from Canada.

1610
01:17:33.400 --> 01:17:33.800
Yes.

1611
01:17:33.800 --> 01:17:34.840
Hi, I'm Anya.

1612
01:17:35.640 --> 01:17:36.160
Anya.

1613
01:17:36.480 --> 01:17:36.800
Okay.

1614
01:17:37.400 --> 01:17:39.480
Uh, I'm from Alberta, Canada.

1615
01:17:39.920 --> 01:17:45.520
Uh, so Western, um, not too far from the mountains, just a few hours drive.

1616
01:17:45.880 --> 01:17:49.400
I am in full-time ministry with a missions organization here.

1617
01:17:49.720 --> 01:17:54.080
Um, I am a worship leader, uh, very involved in my church as well.

1618
01:17:54.440 --> 01:17:58.280
Um, just love being part of Christian community.

1619
01:17:58.280 --> 01:18:02.360
And so I have friends that are married, uh, that are my age that

1620
01:18:02.360 --> 01:18:04.880
have grown almost grown children.

1621
01:18:05.280 --> 01:18:10.040
Um, and, uh, they've been a great support, but would love to meet

1622
01:18:10.040 --> 01:18:12.240
my spirit mate and have kids.

1623
01:18:12.240 --> 01:18:14.440
I've never been married, never had children.

1624
01:18:14.480 --> 01:18:17.320
Um, but I still very greatly desire that.

1625
01:18:17.440 --> 01:18:19.920
Uh, I'm 40, I'll be 41 later this year.

1626
01:18:20.480 --> 01:18:22.800
Um, I do feel very called to Canada.

1627
01:18:22.800 --> 01:18:26.280
So I know most of you are American, but if you know anyone who'd be willing

1628
01:18:26.280 --> 01:18:32.840
to move here, or, you know, anyone who lives here, um, that's like 35 to 45 ish.

1629
01:18:33.160 --> 01:18:34.000
Um, let me know.

1630
01:18:34.480 --> 01:18:35.000
Awesome.

1631
01:18:35.040 --> 01:18:35.440
All right.

1632
01:18:35.480 --> 01:18:38.120
Lower your hands, everybody else.

1633
01:18:38.160 --> 01:18:40.560
If I didn't call your age group, raise your hands.

1634
01:18:40.560 --> 01:18:44.360
And obviously you guys have only got about six more minutes, so I'm not

1635
01:18:44.360 --> 01:18:47.520
going to be able to, um, call on everybody.

1636
01:18:47.560 --> 01:18:50.680
So I'm just going to look for who I see on camera.

1637
01:18:50.680 --> 01:18:53.440
That is got a good sign of light.

1638
01:18:53.440 --> 01:18:54.040
Shanna.

1639
01:18:54.320 --> 01:18:56.000
Good girl.

1640
01:18:56.600 --> 01:18:57.120
Shanna.

1641
01:18:57.880 --> 01:18:58.360
Shanna.

1642
01:18:58.880 --> 01:19:01.880
I know I mess up every stinking time.

1643
01:19:06.240 --> 01:19:07.120
I'm Shanna.

1644
01:19:07.120 --> 01:19:08.880
I live in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

1645
01:19:09.360 --> 01:19:12.760
I am 54 years old, never married, no kids.

1646
01:19:13.040 --> 01:19:18.160
Um, but would love to do have both of those things still happen somehow.

1647
01:19:18.520 --> 01:19:23.280
Um, I'm an artist in terms of creative, uh, actor, singer.

1648
01:19:24.000 --> 01:19:26.040
Um, not really a dancer.

1649
01:19:26.040 --> 01:19:27.000
It was never a triple threat.

1650
01:19:27.320 --> 01:19:31.440
Um, but, uh, mostly doing writing these days, writing a musical

1651
01:19:31.440 --> 01:19:32.920
and kind of pursuing that.

1652
01:19:33.400 --> 01:19:37.840
Um, and then I make my money by working at a, um, company that

1653
01:19:37.840 --> 01:19:41.360
manages senior living housing here in, um, Oklahoma.

1654
01:19:41.360 --> 01:19:42.680
I'm willing to relocate.

1655
01:19:42.680 --> 01:19:43.600
I'll go anywhere.

1656
01:19:44.000 --> 01:19:49.320
And, um, just, I love, I love, I love all the things.

1657
01:19:49.360 --> 01:19:50.600
I have tons of favorite things.

1658
01:19:50.760 --> 01:19:53.040
So if you say it, I love it.

1659
01:19:53.840 --> 01:19:54.320
I love it.

1660
01:19:54.360 --> 01:19:55.720
Ruth, Ruth, go up.

1661
01:19:56.560 --> 01:19:57.720
Hi, I'm Ruth.

1662
01:19:57.760 --> 01:19:59.400
I live in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada.

1663
01:19:59.400 --> 01:19:59.960
And.

1664
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:07.000
I am just 50, I turned 50 in April, and I have older children.

1665
01:20:07.000 --> 01:20:11.920
The youngest is 18 now and has graduated from high school, so I want to figure out what

1666
01:20:11.920 --> 01:20:14.080
I want to be when I grow up now.

1667
01:20:14.080 --> 01:20:22.040
And I am looking for someone to travel with and just enjoy the post-children lifestyle.

1668
01:20:22.040 --> 01:20:28.640
And I am basically, what do you say, organized or administrative.

1669
01:20:28.640 --> 01:20:32.000
Basically that's the one thing everyone will say if they know me is like, oh, she's super

1670
01:20:32.000 --> 01:20:33.000
organized.

1671
01:20:33.000 --> 01:20:38.600
I run my singles group at our church for the 30 to 55s.

1672
01:20:38.600 --> 01:20:39.600
And I love that.

1673
01:20:39.600 --> 01:20:40.840
I love planning events.

1674
01:20:40.840 --> 01:20:46.040
And then I will play board games, read books, watch movies.

1675
01:20:46.040 --> 01:20:48.120
I'm kind of open for everything.

1676
01:20:48.120 --> 01:20:51.120
Play softball last couple of years too, which is kind of fun.

1677
01:20:51.120 --> 01:20:52.120
I love that.

1678
01:20:52.120 --> 01:20:53.120
Love that.

1679
01:20:53.120 --> 01:20:54.120
So good.

1680
01:20:54.120 --> 01:20:55.120
Marilyn.

1681
01:20:55.120 --> 01:20:56.120
Oh, stop.

1682
01:20:56.120 --> 01:20:59.400
I didn't realize you're going to call on me.

1683
01:20:59.400 --> 01:21:01.000
You raised your hand girl.

1684
01:21:01.000 --> 01:21:04.360
I know that alone was a big for me.

1685
01:21:04.360 --> 01:21:05.360
Okay.

1686
01:21:05.360 --> 01:21:09.440
So Marilyn, I am from Jamaica, born and bred, but buttered in New York.

1687
01:21:09.440 --> 01:21:10.920
I currently live in New Jersey.

1688
01:21:10.920 --> 01:21:16.920
Oh my gosh, I work as an administrative coordinator at a law firm.

1689
01:21:16.920 --> 01:21:20.240
And funny enough, I'm also the administrator for our worship team.

1690
01:21:20.240 --> 01:21:25.000
Very much involved in my church, which is non-denominational, but I love everything

1691
01:21:25.000 --> 01:21:26.000
Hebrew.

1692
01:21:26.880 --> 01:21:28.880
Love everything Israel.

1693
01:21:28.880 --> 01:21:29.880
That is my heartbeat.

1694
01:21:29.880 --> 01:21:32.440
And I feel like I'm going to end up at a messianic church one day.

1695
01:21:32.440 --> 01:21:36.080
Lisa, I was trying to answer your questions that you were asking other people.

1696
01:21:36.080 --> 01:21:40.960
So three words, humorous, encouraging, helpful, really quirky.

1697
01:21:40.960 --> 01:21:42.040
Yeah.

1698
01:21:42.040 --> 01:21:45.120
So whoever my man is, he's going to have to rock with that.

1699
01:21:45.120 --> 01:21:50.640
Love to hike, love nature, love God, love just everything.

1700
01:21:50.640 --> 01:21:51.640
Not everything.

1701
01:21:51.640 --> 01:21:52.640
I take that back.

1702
01:21:52.640 --> 01:21:53.640
Okay.

1703
01:21:53.640 --> 01:21:54.640
Lisa.

1704
01:21:54.640 --> 01:21:55.640
Lisa.

1705
01:21:56.280 --> 01:21:57.280
Yeah.

1706
01:21:57.280 --> 01:21:58.280
Yes.

1707
01:21:58.280 --> 01:21:59.280
I'm Lisa.

1708
01:21:59.280 --> 01:22:00.280
I'm in Redding, California.

1709
01:22:00.280 --> 01:22:02.040
I am 53.

1710
01:22:02.040 --> 01:22:04.000
I've never been married.

1711
01:22:04.000 --> 01:22:05.000
Don't have kids.

1712
01:22:05.000 --> 01:22:07.280
I've always wanted children.

1713
01:22:07.280 --> 01:22:12.120
So open to that being done in a creative way.

1714
01:22:12.120 --> 01:22:13.360
And I am an artist.

1715
01:22:13.360 --> 01:22:15.600
I paint and I make copper jewelry.

1716
01:22:15.600 --> 01:22:16.920
I love the outdoors.

1717
01:22:16.920 --> 01:22:18.560
I love being in nature.

1718
01:22:18.560 --> 01:22:22.840
I usually come home with a pocket full of rocks and a camera full of photos.

1719
01:22:22.840 --> 01:22:23.840
Yeah.

1720
01:22:23.840 --> 01:22:29.760
Three words that would describe me would be kind, loyal, and creative.

1721
01:22:29.760 --> 01:22:30.760
Awesome.

1722
01:22:30.760 --> 01:22:31.760
Great job.

1723
01:22:31.760 --> 01:22:32.760
Swarna.

1724
01:22:32.760 --> 01:22:33.760
Hi.

1725
01:22:33.760 --> 01:22:34.760
My name is Swarna.

1726
01:22:34.760 --> 01:22:41.000
I live in New Jersey, but I'm originally from India when I was 10 years old.

1727
01:22:41.000 --> 01:22:52.640
And I love missions, I love international travel, languages, and I'm a primary care physician.

1728
01:22:53.440 --> 01:22:59.440
And definitely, it's definitely the Lord's calling, but I'm open to whatever the Lord

1729
01:22:59.440 --> 01:23:02.640
has for me in the future.

1730
01:23:02.640 --> 01:23:09.400
Tons of interests, including ballroom dancing, pickleball recently, languages, I speak several

1731
01:23:09.400 --> 01:23:14.400
languages, a few languages, and yeah, just looking forward to whatever the Lord has for

1732
01:23:14.400 --> 01:23:15.400
me.

1733
01:23:15.400 --> 01:23:16.400
I'm excited.

1734
01:23:16.400 --> 01:23:17.400
Awesome.

1735
01:23:17.400 --> 01:23:18.400
All right.

1736
01:23:18.400 --> 01:23:21.400
I'm calling two more because we're going, we're cutting out time.

1737
01:23:21.400 --> 01:23:26.400
Grace, you are up next, and then Terry Bliss, you're going to go last.

1738
01:23:26.400 --> 01:23:27.400
Oh, hi.

1739
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My name is Jadis Dickerson.

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My name is Jadis Rhymes with Goddess.

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I live in Roselle Park, New Jersey.

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I will be 59 in two weeks.

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And I have two adult daughters that are in their 30s.

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I'm an insurance underwriter by trade.

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I'm very active in my church.

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I've facilitated several classroom groups at my church.

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I love jazz, listening to piano music, and I've taken a sudden liking to watching YouTube

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videos, watching people from the 50s and 60s make these casseroles.

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I've suddenly taken a little liking to that and making these one dish casseroles.

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And I'm just looking for someone to do life with and do ministry with.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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Okay.

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Thank you.

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01:24:23.800 --> 01:24:25.800
Terry Bliss, where'd you go?

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Did she pop off?

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I'm right here.

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I'm sorry.

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Okay.

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I forgot to unmute myself.

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Okay.

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I'm Terry Bliss, and I'm from Cleveland, Ohio.

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I lived in North Carolina for 11 years.

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I am divorced, and that's what took me there as we moved there together.

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And I came back, but I miss North Carolina immensely.

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Not the other life.

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And I love God.

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I love to ballroom dance and I am a dispatcher and I love my job and I want to retire from it.

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I love my family and I'm happy that I'm a great aunt now and I love to bake.

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Awesome, thank you so much. All right you guys, I'm so excited. If you did not get to go tonight,

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you will get to go the next time. Make sure you stay in community. So Father God, I'm just so

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grateful for each and every single person who showed up, who shared a little bit of their story.

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Father God, we just ask that you give everybody the peace that surpasses all understanding,

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that nobody has this, oh my gosh I should have said this, I shouldn't have said that,

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maybe I shouldn't have worn that outfit, like we're just going to toss all of that stuff. We

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believe that every single person is highlighted in their most unique way. We trust and believe

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that there is a spirit mate and there is the perfect match for every single person who is

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watching this in replay, who is here live, and that we trust and believe that there is no mistakes,

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there's no fumbles, and that there's a reason why people are watching this. And so we just

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ask for your divine protection and your divine alignment to bring people together, whether it's

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matching in community or another way. So we just thank you and bless you in Jesus' precious and

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mighty name. You guys, it was so fun. I have missed you all. I am so excited to be back.

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You will see more of me and some good nuggets. And I can say this, as somebody who's been in

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the program and who has coached a lot of you and a lot of people who've gone on to be married,

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I promise you waiting for your person is worth every single thing. It really will be worth it.

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God has just blessed me and I know he's going to bless you because I'm not any more special

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than you are. So have a great night. Bye, Renee. Bye, Renee.