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Welcome to the Halftime Reset Check-in.

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And my name is David.

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I am the husband of your beloved Jackie Dorman,

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leader, thought leader, inspiration, guru,

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relationship expert, all the things, the author,

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the championess of ladies and gentlemen,

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all of those things.

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And I am stepping in tonight because I said,

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you know, why don't you just let me lead tonight?

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And she's like, yeah, I like that because I have stuff.

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I've been doing a six month reset.

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So I wanna share a little bit about my reset,

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but at the same time, by a share of hands,

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how many of you are really,

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like you're obviously in this group,

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you obviously get the idea, you showed up tonight,

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but how many of you really are like,

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just like seriously getting some breakthrough?

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If you're not, it's okay.

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It's okay to go slow.

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It's a six month reset, it's not a six minute reset,

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but how many of you already are experiencing,

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it's like, wow, some profound breakthrough.

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And I'm not talking about like little stuff.

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I'm not talking about like, oh, you know,

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I learned a tip, you know, to like tweak my schedule.

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I'm not talking about that.

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I'm talking about like real breakthrough

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in the six month reset.

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So many of you have got your hands raised.

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I'm gonna let you guys share in a little bit

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as far as what it is that you're resetting

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and what are some of your wins?

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What are some of your things that you're doing?

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What are some of the,

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try to share with us something that's pretty unique.

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It's pretty like a game changer type of tip or tool

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or practice or habit that you have discovered or made,

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or were made aware of by somebody else.

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And you share those kinds of things with us

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because when I heard this, when Jackie and I heard

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this in the spirit, our right after, like the day after,

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our business mentor actually put forth

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a six month reset challenge.

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Some of you might've joined that,

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our business mentors, Pedro Odeo.

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And so he kind of has his,

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he kind of formalized the whole thing,

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but we were like, you know what?

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We have people in our community that I know

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that would want to just kind of like gather around this idea

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of a six month reset.

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And when I heard that, when Jackie and I heard that concept,

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it's not like a new concept.

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It's not like, whoa, that's so profound,

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a six month reset.

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It was just like, it was the timing of it.

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It was the sense that, oh man, what if?

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Don't you, how many of you like what ifs?

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I like what ifs.

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What if you took six months and really dug into something?

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Really like said, you know what?

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This needs to change.

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And I'm not trying to like form a new little trick

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on my calendar or trying to form a new little habit

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and trying to change the time that I get up in the morning.

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All of those little steps might be part of the big reset,

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but it's time to really like get serious about something

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and get out of the someday syndrome.

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My pastor back in the day had a book,

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had a series called the Someday Syndrome.

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And it was like, you know, oh, that's someday.

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Someday I'll lose weight.

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Someday I'll start my business.

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Someday I'll write that book.

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Someday I'll start this project.

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Someday I'll get a dog.

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Someday I'll be married.

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Someday, someday, someday, someday, someday.

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And someday folks, I'm telling you, never comes.

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Or rarely comes because someday syndrome causes you

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to not put into action, not do the things,

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not take it seriously, not really invest the time,

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the energy, maybe even resources

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to really get the reset that you want.

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And what's beautiful about like a reset and we're, you know,

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we did six months because it's just the timing of it was,

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it made sense.

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You could do a one month reset.

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You can do all kinds of different resets,

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but a six month reset is kind of one of those things

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that's like, this has got some weight to it.

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Like six months is truly enough time

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to really make a big difference,

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not just for the next season of your life,

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but really for the rest of your life.

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So it's that kind of weight that we're putting

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on this six month reset.

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We said, and it's okay if your goal isn't, you know, that big, I'm just saying it's the possibilities there. And this is the kind of emphasis we're putting on this so when we heard the six month reset.

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We were like, wow, what an opportunity, because there were some things in our life.

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There were some things in our relationship there were some things in our business there were some things in our surrounding circumstances there's some things in our family that we're like wow, this could be an opportunity for for there to be a massive

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pullback, so that we can be launched forward.

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And that's what really excited us.

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And so we were like, we virtually cleared our schedule.

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We've been very busy since we started the six month reset and we have done some different things, but we cleared some things out of the way we didn't go abroad this year we didn't go, we canceled some other trips, and we canceled some other

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possibilities, if you will, of business opportunities or meetings or gatherings.

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And we decided that we were going to take the opportunity to do with the six month reset in several different ways.

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Jackie is working on her health and, of course, you all know you've been praying for her we really appreciate that, that she has been really taking the time to say you know what now's the time.

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Now is the season for me to really break through in this area that the health and the hormonal change that she's going through all the different things.

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And, um, I started to do some inner healing. Oh my gosh.

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Inner healing.

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You mean, the people that are leading the, you know, the, the, the last year single based on the heart work, people need inner healing.

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And so I started to work on the foundation of the heart work, and I'm doing some other inner healing with a trainer and a coach that just helps to get a different perspective.

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And I'm telling you what I have received so much breakthrough, and it has to do with my mindset, it has to do with how I see myself but has to do with how I perceive myself, and therefore how I relate to others.

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This inner healing has caused me to really get set free in a lot of in a lot of ways, and how I used to how I used to think about myself, I'm a very positive person.

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I have a lot of faith principles I teach faith on faith Fridays. I can pray. I have have a tremendous

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spiritual heritage and background. I've done a lot of experience a lot of teaching on a lot of trade done a lot of ministry, but that doesn't necessarily mean that there were areas in my life that I wasn't free that I wasn't completely.

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Son of God kingdom thinking processing type of individual.

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And so I tell you what I have been going through some, some amazing transformational some some retraining of my brain even to the point where like almost scientifically, where I'm taking like my wins Michael like my life wins, and I'm recording them and I'm

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making affirmations daily, I am getting a habits chart that I am committing to.

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I am making small steps to change my, my habits, my health.

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I am actually being more intentional in my relationship and my love relationship with my wife.

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And, and so there's so many little things that are that we're taking the opportunity to reset, we're making some massive changes in our finances and our business.

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And, you know, last year single is part of our business but there's so many other things that we do business wise that don't even have anything to do with last year single.

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And so we're, we're taking advantage of those opportunities and this time to put things in order, so that the next.

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five, 10, 20, 30 years of our life can be less stressful, can be more peaceful, can be more

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strategic, can be more bountiful, can be more just prosperous in so many ways. So we're getting

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our own business education, we're getting our own heart healing coaching, we're getting our own

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relationship development, we're getting our own upgrade, our own like,

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like my wife just dropped probably about 10 pounds. I'm like, oh, okay, babe, I see you,

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you know, like, okay, you know, and she's like doing the same thing a little bit. She's like,

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you know, like, you're so handsome. What if you just got like, you know, a little fit,

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you know, like, that would be so cool. And I'm like, okay, all right, babe, I see you,

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you know, like, I feel you like, okay, you know. So we've got some incentive on the line.

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We've got some habits that we're tracking. We've got some things that we're changing.

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And so I want to know from you guys, what is happening with you in the six month reset,

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we want it, we have some hands raised. And I think those are hands lining up to basically share

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on what I was saying earlier, like, what is it that what's the area?

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And, guys, I want to make sure, because this happens in this community. We don't have time

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for the life story. We don't have time for the 10 year background leading up to this moment.

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I want to know, we want to know who you are. And when we're very familiar, we gather a lot. So we

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know a lot of each other. So we know, we know kind of who you are, we can see your names and

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zoom and everything. But if you want to say, hey, so and so I'm from, you know, this place.

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But this is what I'm doing. This is the area. It's finances, health. It's, you know, business,

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it's a new project. It's, you know, I'm developing a new skill set. So I don't know what it is,

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just name the area. So we understand like, where you come from, like, what's the area?

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And then like a little bit of like, why, like, because I need to do this, or this has kind of

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been prophetically inspired long time ago. And it's finally time I'm coming around to it. Okay,

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that's cool. And then a few things like, what's like one of the breakthroughs that you're getting.

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And sometimes, even if you haven't had an actual breakthrough, you can feel a breakthrough coming

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on. You're like, okay, here's the breakthrough that I've either had, or here's the breakthrough

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that I feel is really gonna, it's like, it's like, it's like imminent, it is the next thing.

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It's like the next thing is a breakthrough. This is the breakthrough moment. It's going to be when

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I do thus and such, like, for instance, the breakthrough for me is, it sounds really simple,

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but it's profound. If I could ever get to the point where I am in command of the, from the

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very, very moment that I wake up, there's a, there's a, there's an old fellow that used to

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sort of like an inspirational, like, you know, like a positive speaker. They used to say,

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if you can command, if you can get command of your day, then you can command your life. You

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can change anything, you do anything. And some of you are like, yes, I know you're so disciplined

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and you're so like on it and you're so scheduled and you're so planned and I love you people,

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but I'm not like that. And I don't, I mean, I would thrive in that if I could just get that

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disciplined. And it's amazing how much we've accomplished without being that disciplined.

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But at the same time, I'm just, I'm aware that, man, if I just could command my day

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and start with activities, start with prayer, start with, you know, start with just a peace

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and not having to get up and rush towards something or rush towards an appointment or

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rush towards going over here and doing this and just picking where I, picking up where I left off

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last night, you know, late at night, trying to go to sleep or whatever that I could just, you know,

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really, really command my day, get into like a routine, like routine would be great. And so

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one of the things that I was helping me was when the alarm goes off,

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like we're our own business leaders, right?

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We're our own business people, we set our own schedule.

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So in a way that kind of works against us.

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Some of you that are like,

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hey, I gotta be at work at a certain time.

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You know, that like fixes it for you, I get it.

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But we're not like that.

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And when the alarm goes off,

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it's just easy just to turn it off

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and go back to sleep, turn over, whatever like that.

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And that's usually my thing.

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My alarm goes up pretty early.

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And so I can sort of afford to do that.

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But I can't afford to do it

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if I'm trying to make change in my life, right?

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And so I said, all I need is like,

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I've been telling myself for the longest time,

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well, I gotta get up and I gotta do something

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for like a half an hour, an hour,

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like pray or like do something, like set aside a thing.

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it was easy for me just to go, that's too much.

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You know, I can't do it.

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Because even if I did get up, I'd be so groggy,

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so sleepy and just like, oh, not into it.

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And it just wouldn't be productive anyway.

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So I might as well just like get my rest.

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But I knew that if I could just do 15 minutes,

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not 15 minutes of like a whole thing,

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but if I could get up and move for 15 minutes,

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that 15 minutes of movement would give me

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a better state of mind to then make better choices

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for the next 45 minutes or the next hour

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or the next half hour or the next whatever.

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Now, some of you think this is ridiculous

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because like, how, why is this so difficult?

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For me, it was like, all I have to do is 15 minutes.

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You see how 15 minutes can change my day

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because 15 minutes is just all I have to do.

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But I know that if I get up and I do 15 minutes of movement,

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walking outside or do something to where like,

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I get awakened and I get like going and I get moving,

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knowing that I don't have to be anywhere

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because I don't have this flex time.

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But if I can get up, that 15 minutes will put me

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in a state of mind to then I can make the next best decision

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and I will not have wasted an hour or whatever time it is

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because I turned off the alarm and went back to sleep.

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So to me, that was profound

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because I was always like,

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oh, I've got to do something for an hour.

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I've got to do something for, no, no, no.

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You just need 15 minutes.

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And I just made it easy.

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It's a little bite-sized chunk,

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but it's going to make a profound effect on my entire day

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because I actually got up early

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and actually gave myself some time to get prepared

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for the rest of the day in a way that makes sense.

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But all to me, I don't have to feel like,

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well, I've got to pray and then I've got to work out

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and then I've got to get ready.

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And then I'm like, that's just like, oh, la, la, la, la.

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That's too much.

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To me, it was just like, get up out of bed

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when the alarm goes off and all you need is 15 minutes.

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And now I've just started my day off because I did it.

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So that little win, it was like a little step

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was a big step for me.

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All right, who's ready?

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Leslie's first, Kim, Heather, go ahead, Leslie.

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Can you hear me okay?

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We can hear you, yes.

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Okay, so I don't give a lot of backstory

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because I get very, very nervous when I unmute.

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So it'll be quick.

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But when y'all did the halftime reset,

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I knew that there was so much that was going well for me.

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So like my weight loss has been good.

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My exercise is good.

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My work is good.

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So I knew immediately that it was a situationship

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that I needed to get out of.

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And I never even knew what that word was

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until I was in this program.

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And I didn't even know I was in a situationship

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until I was in this program.

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And so this was this whole back and forth,

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like I'm gonna come for you

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and I'm gonna pull back from you.

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I'm gonna come for you, I'm gonna pull back from you.

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And it was just a very miserable thing,

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but I'm an empath and I loved him.

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And so there was so many emotions involved with that,

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but I knew that the halftime reset,

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I had to truly let that go.

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And so, I don't know, maybe a week ago,

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he reached out like he does after a gap of time went by

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and he's like, I really think I need to come and see you

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and we need to kind of clear the air.

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And it took me a few days,

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but I was able to actually say,

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I don't think that that is something that I'm interested in.

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And I don't think that that's a good idea for us.

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And it was a huge step because, I mean, I still love him.

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So I feel like I'm grieving him in that way,

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but I'm very happy that I was able to go that way.

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Wow, powerful, you got a breakthrough.

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You were able to really say no and like, okay, no,

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this is not working out, this is not good.

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Super powerful.

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Yeah, thank you.

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Yes, I love that.

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Thank you for sharing.

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And so, hey, what's the next step for you in terms of,

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I'm just, you don't have to unmute or say it,

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but the question is, it's like, okay, man,

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you had a breakthrough and now,

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so what's the rest of the steps for you

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in terms of the larger thing for the reset?

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Go ahead, Kim, and then Heather.

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I had two things, same as Leslie.

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I finally broke it off with a situationship

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that had been going on for two years, on and off,

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and I finally ended it in June and I blocked him.

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Wow.

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So it was that, and then really just leaving,

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leaving Florida, I had lived there for eight years.

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I packed up my stuff Sunday with my younger son

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and I moved here for him because I knew he needed me

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and I moved here for my dad too.

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So I'm just really, you know, it's hard,

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but I know it was the right thing.

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Yeah.

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Proximity is super, super important

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and sometimes it requires, that's why I moved to Texas.

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Part of the reason we moved to Texas

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is because Texas was Texas,

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but part of the reason was also because Texas is not Ohio for us.

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I love Ohio.

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You know, I have nostalgia for Ohio.

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I was raised there, wasn't quite born there,

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but Ohio was like, I just, it was a mind crunch.

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It was a mind shift.

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It was a heart shift.

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It was a geographical shift that was necessary

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for so many reasons and so powerful that even that alone,

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but to come to that decision, you know,

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in this like this time period where you're like,

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this is necessary to happen.

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I have to say no, and then I have to move.

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And same thing with Leslie.

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That's so powerful.

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Thank you for sharing, Kim.

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Heather, go ahead.

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Hi, sorry, walking in New York City.

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I would say this to keep it succinct.

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So I had a really rough pandemic.

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Many people did, but I gained a ton of weight,

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lots of depression, had to really navigate.

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And I had been working since then to try to recover from that.

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I've lost like 90 pounds, big, big shift.

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And, but when I got to the end of last year,

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I was realized I was totally burned out.

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And I was struggling on so many levels, work-wise,

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unmotivated, just, I didn't want to do anything

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that I was doing before.

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And I needed to take some time to reset.

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And I did, but I got to the six month point

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and I'd been resetting and I still felt like

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I need another six months.

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I don't know what I'm doing.

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And having the reset hit when it did was great

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because what it did was help me

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be so specific on what I'm working on.

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You know, like a career change

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that allows me to do other things

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and really have concrete goals

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on what I'm trying to achieve by the end of the year.

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I also have suffered some losses of a very good friend,

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even just one, like two weeks ago

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that was shocking and devastating.

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And, but, and I've been working with her husband

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on having to navigate through this.

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And it has been replaying to me, you know,

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we don't know how long we have here.

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We have today.

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So that whole conversation about someday never comes,

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you don't, you have today, yesterday is done.

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And so what can I do with my day?

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And having concrete specific goals

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and having the six month reset help me crystallize

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what I'm trying to do in a three month window

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and in a six month window that gets me to December

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was so helpful.

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And it makes me feel more inspired

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about what'll happen after that.

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But right now I keep the window short

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I'm keeping, I'm working on really being present

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and I'm being, trying to just focus on being consistent

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in the small habits that will move me toward that goal,

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which without the constant distractions

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and identifying those distractions

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and also having the concrete goals

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is really helping me move the needle.

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And God is really blessing me, you know,

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finding Jackie and the program

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at the beginning of the year.

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And now I'm just entered in a special place

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I'm just entered in a first time

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in a very, very long time.

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I'm at stage three in a relationship.

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We'll see what happens.

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But it's just the specificity of it,

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the short timeline, being in prayer,

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starting my day with that

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and having the six month reset to crystallize

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that has been such a huge blessing.

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Wow, that's so powerful.

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Yeah, it's very powerful.

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Paradoxical.

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I think that's a word, right?

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Paradoxical.

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It's very like, it's interesting

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because I don't know if there's anything magical,

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you know, like supernatural about a six month,

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but just, it sounds good.

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You know, it's kind of sizzly.

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And, but it's like, there's, it's, it's long enough time,

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but it's short enough time to where you can like

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make a major decision.

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Like, this is kind of like, there's, I don't think there's,

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you know, I don't want to make it a pattern,

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but I feel like a lot of people go,

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I'm going to receive the six month reset.

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A major decision is made upfront

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and that major decision brings freedom.

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It brings, it like clears the table, so to speak.

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Like it's a geographical move,

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or I'm saying no to something that I've always said yes to

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for a very long time.

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And for the first time I'm saying no.

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And it starts with this like big decision.

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Like we cleared our schedule.

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We said, okay, we're clearing our schedule.

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We're going to do a six month reset.

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So that big decision to clear the schedule

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or whoever it was to move,

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then made the space for a lot of things to then get done.

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So the paradox is you have a long time, six months,

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but it's kind of a short enough season

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to where it doesn't linger on and on and on and on and on.

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And you're just kicking the can down the road

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because that's what this is not about, right?

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We talk about it all the time about like,

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we got to move forward, we got to progress.

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The, even just the environment,

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the spiritual and the emotional environment

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that we live in the day and age we live in,

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like everything is speeding up.

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Time is, seems like it's,

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the scripture even says that.

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It says that time actually gets shorter.

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And it's just like, everybody senses it.

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We feel it in our bodies.

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We feel it in our minds.

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We feel it in our spirits.

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That time is short, time is short,

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time is short, time is short.

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And we feel like there's so much we want to do

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is so much we got to want to get done.

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But when we come into a reset, a six month reset,

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it causes us to stop and pause,

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make a single decision,

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which then sort of clears the slate

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and then brings a sense of peace and freedom

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and like joy and like levity

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to then now we can get really clear

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about accomplishing something in this time period.

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I don't know if many have experienced that pattern,

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but I feel like that's sort of a pattern

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of what's going on with this reset.

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So I don't know if that's helpful,

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but it just, I kind of wanted to say that.

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Christina, Brittany, Tammy, go ahead, Christina.

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Are you there, Christina?

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We will go to Brittany now

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and we'll come back to Christina if she's there.

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Brittany, go ahead.

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Okay, so with my share,

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my six month reset is to look for another job.

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I know the Lord was talking to me about that last year.

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And at first I wasn't sure if I heard correctly.

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And now my environment has been screaming

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that you need to get another job.

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And so God has put all the puzzle pieces together.

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And so it went from me trying to go into one career field

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and the Lord directing my path into something else.

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And so that door has opened for me.

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And what I've done is just really

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just had to step out in faith.

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So it was a lot of like changes with my mindset.

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And with that, I've woken up early in the morning.

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So I start my mornings again with prayer

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and I try to get a scripture in

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and I talk to the Lord on my way to work

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and back and wherever I need to go.

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But the puzzle pieces are starting to align too.

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And so now I'm just waiting for my background

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check to clear.

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So that way I can get my initial offer and don't relocate.

482
00:29:11.360 --> 00:29:16.360
And so this is huge just because currently

483
00:29:16.440 --> 00:29:18.400
I've been a caregiver for my grandmother

484
00:29:18.400 --> 00:29:22.360
for some time, several years.

485
00:29:22.360 --> 00:29:25.800
And so now this situationship with my family

486
00:29:25.800 --> 00:29:26.960
is coming to an end.

487
00:29:26.960 --> 00:29:30.040
Thank God, like the Lord's like, it's time for you to go.

488
00:29:30.040 --> 00:29:33.880
I'm moving you and just go with the wind,

489
00:29:33.880 --> 00:29:35.760
just go where I tell you to go.

490
00:29:35.760 --> 00:29:37.200
And so this is what I've been doing

491
00:29:37.200 --> 00:29:39.240
is I've been trying to keep consistent with it.

492
00:29:39.240 --> 00:29:42.960
And if I feel like I've fallen off the wagon a little bit

493
00:29:42.960 --> 00:29:45.040
when it comes to like morning with like prayer

494
00:29:45.080 --> 00:29:48.360
and spending time with the Lord before I go downstairs

495
00:29:48.360 --> 00:29:50.880
and help with whatever needs to be taken care of.

496
00:29:50.880 --> 00:29:55.080
I just try to readjust later on in the evening

497
00:29:55.080 --> 00:29:56.200
before I go to bed.

498
00:29:56.200 --> 00:29:58.600
So I try to make sure that I end my nights

499
00:29:58.600 --> 00:29:59.920
where like prayer and...

500
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.080
Um, just gratitude to the Lord and it's just helped so much because now it's

501
00:30:04.080 --> 00:30:10.540
opened the doors to, um, looking at how I eat and so less intake with sodium.

502
00:30:11.180 --> 00:30:13.580
And sugars and changing how I eat my diet.

503
00:30:13.580 --> 00:30:15.260
And so just being more stricter on that.

504
00:30:15.260 --> 00:30:20.740
So it's just open to door to that and some more financial blessings as well.

505
00:30:20.740 --> 00:30:24.120
So it's just like the floodgates are starting to like open up for me.

506
00:30:24.120 --> 00:30:28.300
And I just really thank the Lord because guys like, just trust me, just trust me.

507
00:30:28.300 --> 00:30:33.380
Like the Indiana Jones movie, when the last crusade, but Anna Jones, it has to

508
00:30:33.380 --> 00:30:37.660
go across the other way just to get the cup of Jesus Christ to pour the water on

509
00:30:37.660 --> 00:30:38.180
his dad.

510
00:30:38.180 --> 00:30:42.060
And he's like, I got to take the step of faith.

511
00:30:42.060 --> 00:30:44.680
And so that's pretty much what it's been.

512
00:30:44.680 --> 00:30:49.860
And it's, it's been truly a ride so far and I know there's more to come.

513
00:30:49.860 --> 00:30:52.180
So that's what I've been doing consistently.

514
00:30:52.860 --> 00:30:53.900
That's super powerful.

515
00:30:53.900 --> 00:30:58.280
Yeah, no, it's easy to like, um, get into that.

516
00:30:59.300 --> 00:31:04.340
Um, discouragement when you're like set this goal and you're going to do this thing and

517
00:31:04.340 --> 00:31:07.620
then you do it for a few times and then you drop off.

518
00:31:08.220 --> 00:31:11.140
And then the, that voice, that inner voice starts coming at you.

519
00:31:11.500 --> 00:31:22.500
And I'm telling you what I have, I've been able to reframe, um, that because I, um, I

520
00:31:22.500 --> 00:31:28.020
I've just, I'm not accepting that negative talk anymore.

521
00:31:28.300 --> 00:31:29.860
And that's not just a positivity.

522
00:31:30.540 --> 00:31:41.420
It's about, it's about really stepping in to, um, heaven's, um, attributes, heaven's

523
00:31:41.420 --> 00:31:47.380
way of thinking heavens, God's way of, of how he truly views us.

524
00:31:47.420 --> 00:31:49.020
And that's renewing your mind.

525
00:31:49.900 --> 00:31:58.380
I know this sounds very, you know, simple and very like elementary, but the renewing

526
00:31:58.380 --> 00:32:02.060
of the mind, I mean, I've always been a big renewing of the mind, a big scripture,

527
00:32:02.060 --> 00:32:03.220
a big word person.

528
00:32:03.500 --> 00:32:09.860
I've always been a very, you know, you know, speak, uh, you know, my mom always

529
00:32:09.860 --> 00:32:12.620
used to teach me, says, you have what you say, you have what you say.

530
00:32:12.620 --> 00:32:13.860
If you say it, you have what you say.

531
00:32:14.380 --> 00:32:15.380
She always reminded me of that.

532
00:32:15.380 --> 00:32:18.380
And she's always very positive and she's always very word field.

533
00:32:18.380 --> 00:32:20.180
So I, I was trained that way.

534
00:32:20.180 --> 00:32:27.060
I grew up that way, but it's funny how you can still, even in your training and

535
00:32:27.060 --> 00:32:32.580
your heritage, you can still get that sense of like, I'm not worthy.

536
00:32:32.700 --> 00:32:33.980
I'm, I'm a failure.

537
00:32:34.260 --> 00:32:35.340
I can't do this.

538
00:32:35.500 --> 00:32:37.660
I can, you know, like, where does all that come from?

539
00:32:37.700 --> 00:32:39.900
And it just, it doesn't really matter where it comes from.

540
00:32:40.500 --> 00:32:44.780
It's just that it needs to be reframed in your head.

541
00:32:45.220 --> 00:32:54.460
And I learned that you could through, through repetition, through, um, hearing

542
00:32:54.460 --> 00:33:01.820
your own voice, um, and making declarations that you could literally

543
00:33:01.820 --> 00:33:05.460
retrain your brain to think differently.

544
00:33:06.220 --> 00:33:10.100
Old dogs can learn new tricks.

545
00:33:11.220 --> 00:33:12.300
It's really true.

546
00:33:12.660 --> 00:33:20.860
And you can think differently, which then causes your behavior to be different.

547
00:33:21.540 --> 00:33:24.500
And then which causes your situation to change.

548
00:33:25.100 --> 00:33:30.780
We all know this to be true at some level, or we've seen it in others, or

549
00:33:30.780 --> 00:33:36.500
we know it's kind of a possibility, but we have difficulty as individuals

550
00:33:36.500 --> 00:33:40.020
stepping into that in a lot of different areas of our life.

551
00:33:40.980 --> 00:33:46.260
And so it's not just about believing it, but it's about stepping into it and

552
00:33:46.260 --> 00:33:52.060
going, you know what, I, I'm not, I'm not going to, I'm not going

553
00:33:52.060 --> 00:33:53.420
to receive that any longer.

554
00:33:53.420 --> 00:33:54.900
I'm going to turn that voice off.

555
00:33:54.900 --> 00:34:02.420
That voice is no longer has command, no longer has, um, the ability.

556
00:34:02.420 --> 00:34:05.340
It doesn't have anything in me to speak to anymore.

557
00:34:05.860 --> 00:34:09.139
And, um, I'm telling you what, it's, it's been a huge game changer for me.

558
00:34:09.139 --> 00:34:13.020
I've turned, I've been able to get freedom from a lot of that.

559
00:34:13.699 --> 00:34:16.380
And, um, so it's really good.

560
00:34:16.780 --> 00:34:20.500
Uh, Tammy, Elizabeth, Gwen, go ahead, Tammy.

561
00:34:22.580 --> 00:34:22.820
Okay.

562
00:34:22.820 --> 00:34:25.219
So you want like our name and the break?

563
00:34:25.659 --> 00:34:27.420
I just need what it is you're working on.

564
00:34:27.500 --> 00:34:28.100
Okay.

565
00:34:28.179 --> 00:34:28.580
Okay.

566
00:34:29.260 --> 00:34:35.460
Um, I'm just working on spending time in the word and I started when she did

567
00:34:35.460 --> 00:34:37.620
the, what's your, what's your six month reset?

568
00:34:38.380 --> 00:34:41.179
Um, what do you mean?

569
00:34:42.219 --> 00:34:43.820
Well, we're doing a six month reset.

570
00:34:43.820 --> 00:34:45.780
What's your resetting in your life?

571
00:34:46.860 --> 00:34:50.460
Well, um, I'm not really in that little paid thing cause I can't afford to do

572
00:34:50.460 --> 00:34:54.020
that right now, but I just started getting in the word since that, uh, when

573
00:34:54.020 --> 00:34:57.260
she talked about living in the word ever since then, I started more and more and

574
00:34:57.260 --> 00:34:59.940
more listening to scripture songs and focusing on that.

575
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:07.040
praying and stuff and a lot of scripture and ever since then I was gotten so many breakthroughs in my family dealing with the issues

576
00:35:07.040 --> 00:35:09.040
the people that I live with

577
00:35:09.640 --> 00:35:13.480
They get triggered and not to keep myself from getting triggered to help me God

578
00:35:13.480 --> 00:35:18.800
I've had so many breakthroughs in that and I just feel God's presence like I get a revelation

579
00:35:18.800 --> 00:35:22.200
I know that's God before I wouldn't know that's God, but I wouldn't have liked

580
00:35:22.760 --> 00:35:24.000
heard

581
00:35:24.000 --> 00:35:26.120
spiritually his voice you and me like it was a

582
00:35:26.880 --> 00:35:29.720
Now that I knew it was God I knew but I

583
00:35:30.080 --> 00:35:33.200
Felt it like I felt in my spirit like more than ever

584
00:35:33.480 --> 00:35:38.480
I'm able to do that now and I feel like I watched one video on YouTube for Andrew Womack

585
00:35:38.480 --> 00:35:43.080
And I felt like it doesn't matter like he said it didn't matter what other people thought the measure of God

586
00:35:43.080 --> 00:35:46.400
Thanks, and after that I thought I belong to Jesus

587
00:35:46.400 --> 00:35:51.960
I really felt that and I didn't worry anymore about my mom was mad at me or somebody was upset with me

588
00:35:52.640 --> 00:35:57.360
Rejection to say not I went to class and I didn't have any rejection anymore. I went up to strangers

589
00:35:57.360 --> 00:36:02.360
I didn't know introduce myself and I never done that before they're sitting there on their phone. I would have thought oh

590
00:36:02.880 --> 00:36:05.660
They might want me to interrupt in but I didn't even think that

591
00:36:06.440 --> 00:36:13.280
I was just so outgoing so happy made everybody and just wanted to but it was awesome. My eyes were not looking at myself

592
00:36:14.280 --> 00:36:18.200
For once in years and years and years. That's good. Yeah, I

593
00:36:18.760 --> 00:36:24.940
Love that. Thank you for sharing Tammy. I love that. It's a breakthrough in your life and I love it

594
00:36:25.520 --> 00:36:27.520
Thank you. We bless that and Jesus

595
00:36:28.720 --> 00:36:37.480
Elizabeth Gwen and Denise Elizabeth, go ahead. Yeah. So when Jackie shared about the six-month reset, you know, it

596
00:36:38.520 --> 00:36:42.440
Brought up the question of Lord. I've been trying so long to get out of this cycle of

597
00:36:43.440 --> 00:36:47.560
Overworking and still finding myself in lack and I know that the overworking

598
00:36:48.560 --> 00:36:54.360
Is long been a way that I've avoided the pain of childhood wounds. Yeah

599
00:36:56.240 --> 00:36:59.680
And it's really kept me from stepping into some of the

600
00:37:00.000 --> 00:37:05.760
Relationships and things that I know God's called me into and I found myself going God like I've been making progress

601
00:37:05.760 --> 00:37:08.800
But it's been so like little baby

602
00:37:09.440 --> 00:37:16.680
What do I need to do to really shift this to actually have the bandwidth to build relationship

603
00:37:16.680 --> 00:37:18.680
but tend to myself have a time to

604
00:37:19.080 --> 00:37:24.200
Like actually invest in being able to date because I'm working still seven days a week

605
00:37:25.240 --> 00:37:27.240
you know and

606
00:37:27.280 --> 00:37:29.120
so I went

607
00:37:29.120 --> 00:37:35.320
My mom was in hospice earlier this year and I started thinking about do you know do I move home? And then my mom passed in

608
00:37:36.320 --> 00:37:38.320
In June and

609
00:37:39.280 --> 00:37:45.080
Thank you, and I just got back from visiting my dad in Georgia checking in with him and started to explore

610
00:37:45.080 --> 00:37:47.120
what does dating in Georgia look like and

611
00:37:49.120 --> 00:37:54.640
Came back and just really started chewing on you know, is that reset, you know

612
00:37:55.360 --> 00:38:03.000
Making space does that mean moving home and living with my dad and cutting my expenses significantly?

613
00:38:03.880 --> 00:38:08.960
So that way I'm not having to work this same amount of intensity

614
00:38:09.880 --> 00:38:13.920
Just to pay all the expenses because I've got my office rent my own personal rent

615
00:38:14.960 --> 00:38:16.360
and

616
00:38:16.360 --> 00:38:23.320
Do I need to position myself in a new space to be able to position myself relationally? So

617
00:38:24.280 --> 00:38:26.800
broached having that conversation with my dad and

618
00:38:26.840 --> 00:38:27.960
And

619
00:38:27.960 --> 00:38:33.120
He was on board with it even offered to fly out here in December to help me pack up and move

620
00:38:34.520 --> 00:38:39.280
So just really wanting to hear from the Lord if that's the reset of you know

621
00:38:39.280 --> 00:38:46.440
This has been like still doing the habits working to you know, create space for myself be relationally connected still

622
00:38:46.960 --> 00:38:48.960
Be open to dating out here

623
00:38:49.080 --> 00:38:50.280
but

624
00:38:50.280 --> 00:38:53.320
Yeah, I'm starting to kind of really like today

625
00:38:53.520 --> 00:38:57.120
Conversation for the first time with a friend of what would it look like to

626
00:38:57.800 --> 00:38:59.680
to move to Georgia

627
00:38:59.680 --> 00:39:01.160
Yeah, I

628
00:39:01.160 --> 00:39:03.680
Love that. Thank you for sharing that again

629
00:39:03.680 --> 00:39:10.560
It's like it's the what-ifs and then like giving yourself the permission, you know to really do the move

630
00:39:10.920 --> 00:39:13.920
Do the cut cutting back saying no

631
00:39:14.680 --> 00:39:18.560
all the all the things that come with just a new

632
00:39:19.320 --> 00:39:21.320
level of

633
00:39:21.440 --> 00:39:22.800
Freedom

634
00:39:22.800 --> 00:39:26.600
That you made it a major again. It's that pattern of making a major decision

635
00:39:26.600 --> 00:39:30.440
it's like I'm making this pretty big decision pretty big for me and

636
00:39:31.440 --> 00:39:39.160
Creating the space to then move forward in some things that really need to be taken care of and sometimes it feels like we're drawing

637
00:39:39.160 --> 00:39:43.960
Back like you would do like moving back home moving this thing, you know going

638
00:39:44.000 --> 00:39:50.360
It's not backwards as much as a drawback to to let you boost forward and I love that

639
00:39:50.760 --> 00:39:53.240
Denise and Sheena go ahead Denise

640
00:39:55.880 --> 00:39:59.520
Yeah, so mine's a little different because I feel the Lord has been

641
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:03.240
I'm slowing me down for my, my six month reset.

642
00:40:03.500 --> 00:40:06.960
So I was really excited to like start this let's dream together course

643
00:40:06.960 --> 00:40:08.700
and help people hope and dream again.

644
00:40:09.120 --> 00:40:11.860
And it's like, you got to put your, yourself forward and you

645
00:40:11.860 --> 00:40:12.960
got to create the content.

646
00:40:12.960 --> 00:40:13.820
You got to get out there.

647
00:40:14.040 --> 00:40:17.040
And I feel like it's just door slamming in my face.

648
00:40:17.040 --> 00:40:20.260
And he's like, honey, I need you to slow down and I need you to get

649
00:40:20.260 --> 00:40:23.100
grounded in your identity of me.

650
00:40:23.500 --> 00:40:25.660
I need you to know that I'm your provider.

651
00:40:25.660 --> 00:40:29.500
I'm your father that I've got your back in any situation.

652
00:40:29.500 --> 00:40:33.700
And I feel I've heard Jackie talk about building the foundation or fixing

653
00:40:33.700 --> 00:40:37.600
the cracks in the foundation first, before you go into the, like

654
00:40:37.600 --> 00:40:39.300
higher project type of thing.

655
00:40:39.620 --> 00:40:44.940
So that mine, this whole six months is getting reset in my identity as the

656
00:40:44.940 --> 00:40:48.500
child of a King of an inexhaustible supply.

657
00:40:49.380 --> 00:40:50.060
Love that.

658
00:40:50.060 --> 00:40:50.980
I love that.

659
00:40:51.260 --> 00:40:51.460
Yeah.

660
00:40:51.460 --> 00:40:52.500
Mine, mine too.

661
00:40:52.540 --> 00:40:56.500
As far as like the identity identity, like I've had a shift and the

662
00:40:56.500 --> 00:41:01.500
understanding of my identity and who I am, and it's hard to explain

663
00:41:01.500 --> 00:41:05.660
because it kind of sounds like, just like, okay, you know, very basic.

664
00:41:05.660 --> 00:41:06.880
Like, of course you're, you're a son of God.

665
00:41:06.880 --> 00:41:09.340
Like we're so used to a lot of these.

666
00:41:09.900 --> 00:41:14.620
Um, phrases in our community and the kind of spiritual communities

667
00:41:14.620 --> 00:41:19.220
that a lot of us are attached to, but there's a certain profoundness

668
00:41:19.220 --> 00:41:25.260
that happens when you really start internalizing that you start believing

669
00:41:25.260 --> 00:41:27.100
it, you start changing your confession.

670
00:41:27.100 --> 00:41:31.180
You start changing the inner voice, you start reshaping and renewing

671
00:41:31.180 --> 00:41:34.020
your mind, um, like in a really.

672
00:41:34.660 --> 00:41:36.380
You know, Holy spirit led way.

673
00:41:36.380 --> 00:41:39.060
So I love that as far as your reset.

674
00:41:39.060 --> 00:41:42.620
Thank you for sharing that identity is a huge piece.

675
00:41:42.620 --> 00:41:44.780
I've got an upgrade in my identity as well.

676
00:41:45.260 --> 00:41:46.380
Uh, Gina, go ahead.

677
00:41:47.020 --> 00:41:55.900
Um, so yeah, I, my six month reset was, um, really a lot of things I, I felt

678
00:41:55.900 --> 00:42:00.220
like I just needed to be healthy in a lot of areas in my life that I had kind of let slide.

679
00:42:00.700 --> 00:42:05.540
Um, I had had my dad living with me for some time and, um, and I just, the

680
00:42:05.540 --> 00:42:07.340
atmosphere changed in my home.

681
00:42:07.780 --> 00:42:13.820
Um, and it was just a slow, it's been kind of a slow re recap of my life.

682
00:42:13.980 --> 00:42:17.660
It's been kind of a slow re recapturing of my home.

683
00:42:18.180 --> 00:42:23.180
Um, and so, you know, really my goal has been not just physical health,

684
00:42:23.300 --> 00:42:26.980
um, but spiritual health, my, my work environment.

685
00:42:27.340 --> 00:42:30.180
Um, I was getting to a point where I was accepting things that

686
00:42:30.180 --> 00:42:31.740
I knew I shouldn't be accepting.

687
00:42:32.100 --> 00:42:36.900
Um, and so I just had to make some really hard decisions, um, that were, you know,

688
00:42:36.900 --> 00:42:38.940
I was allowing myself to become comfortable.

689
00:42:38.940 --> 00:42:40.820
And I always said I didn't want a safe life.

690
00:42:40.820 --> 00:42:45.540
I wanted to, to be and go wherever the Lord asked me to.

691
00:42:45.900 --> 00:42:51.180
Um, and I found myself kind of sitting in this safeness that wasn't

692
00:42:51.180 --> 00:42:53.220
very comfortable, but it was known.

693
00:42:53.660 --> 00:42:59.980
So, um, literally within the last month, I've quit a job and started

694
00:42:59.980 --> 00:43:03.340
a new one that I'm so far loving.

695
00:43:04.220 --> 00:43:13.580
Um, I, I haven't really done, I, I like a lot of women over 50, um, have some.

696
00:43:14.020 --> 00:43:17.620
Um, health issues that I need to address and that's, that's coming.

697
00:43:17.980 --> 00:43:21.220
Um, but part of the, you know, part of it was like cleaning out my house.

698
00:43:21.220 --> 00:43:24.220
I've had three different people living in my house at any one time

699
00:43:24.220 --> 00:43:27.020
and, and it's been just full of stuff.

700
00:43:27.020 --> 00:43:30.460
So now I've found, you know, and that's overwhelming.

701
00:43:30.700 --> 00:43:33.060
Well, I've made headway, right?

702
00:43:33.060 --> 00:43:35.220
So I'm, I've been able to do that.

703
00:43:35.460 --> 00:43:42.420
I've been, um, getting up every morning, um, usually by six 30 and my first

704
00:43:42.420 --> 00:43:44.540
half hour is spent with the Lord.

705
00:43:45.100 --> 00:43:47.180
Um, which had not been a habit.

706
00:43:47.180 --> 00:43:51.020
I'm, you know, I think like you were mentioning getting up and just kind of,

707
00:43:51.380 --> 00:43:54.660
you know, feet on the floor and you're go, go, go from moment one.

708
00:43:54.660 --> 00:43:59.300
And I don't want my days to be like that because I just lose

709
00:43:59.300 --> 00:44:01.340
myself in it if I, if I do that.

710
00:44:01.340 --> 00:44:05.860
So I made a commitment to the Lord that I wanted to begin and end my day with him.

711
00:44:06.820 --> 00:44:11.980
Um, so every morning I'm, I'm up by six 30, I've got my coffee and I'm sitting

712
00:44:11.980 --> 00:44:17.700
there, um, with the Lord just in prayer and reading the word and I fall asleep

713
00:44:17.860 --> 00:44:23.980
after writing scripture, which has just been a really amazing, um, time of

714
00:44:23.980 --> 00:44:27.700
just spending time with the Lord, even though I'm not, that time isn't really

715
00:44:27.700 --> 00:44:32.460
study, it's just literally writing scripture, but the, what it's doing

716
00:44:32.460 --> 00:44:34.180
to my spirit has been an amazing thing.

717
00:44:35.100 --> 00:44:38.940
That, that is, that is a process of repetition, wrote

718
00:44:38.940 --> 00:44:40.740
repetition to even write it down.

719
00:44:40.740 --> 00:44:44.980
So you, yeah, that's your thing that you like to do, writing it down and you

720
00:44:44.980 --> 00:44:50.780
reading it and just that's meditating on that, that is definitely changing the

721
00:44:50.780 --> 00:44:53.220
way you think, the way you look at things for sure.

722
00:44:55.380 --> 00:44:56.380
Yeah, absolutely.

723
00:44:57.220 --> 00:44:58.180
So good.

724
00:44:59.540 --> 00:45:00.340
Yeah, it's, it's so.

725
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.360
funny because in these communities as well, you know, we're all like, yeah,

726
00:45:03.680 --> 00:45:06.640
I get up every morning and spend time with the Lord. I do all the things.

727
00:45:06.640 --> 00:45:10.400
I'm like, it sounds so great. And some of you are like really good at it.

728
00:45:10.520 --> 00:45:11.400
I'm like, seriously,

729
00:45:11.400 --> 00:45:15.240
some of you are like super pros at it because you're like super disciplined

730
00:45:15.240 --> 00:45:20.160
kind of people. But for the rest of us who are not like,

731
00:45:20.240 --> 00:45:23.240
hello, just not discipline. I'm just telling you. I mean,

732
00:45:23.280 --> 00:45:26.880
I love a good prayer time, but I'm just like, I don't do it every day.

733
00:45:27.520 --> 00:45:31.800
Because why? I don't know. Because I just, I'm not in the,

734
00:45:31.920 --> 00:45:34.360
I'm not in the good habit of it. You know,

735
00:45:34.400 --> 00:45:38.880
I do it later on usually because like things get in the way and I'm like, Oh,

736
00:45:38.880 --> 00:45:42.440
Lord. And I start calling on the name of Jesus. I, Lord Jesus,

737
00:45:42.440 --> 00:45:44.920
I need you in this situation right now. You know, cause like,

738
00:45:44.920 --> 00:45:48.960
that's like in the middle of my day at the end of my day or sometimes in the

739
00:45:48.960 --> 00:45:51.840
middle of the night. So those things happen.

740
00:45:52.040 --> 00:45:54.400
But in terms of like starting my day off, you know,

741
00:45:54.400 --> 00:45:59.400
it's been a real challenge. And so I'm not like,

742
00:45:59.800 --> 00:46:02.160
Oh, I'm S I'm not putting forth like, Oh,

743
00:46:02.160 --> 00:46:05.680
I'm spending every day now with the Lord in the morning, an extra 15 minutes.

744
00:46:06.080 --> 00:46:06.360
No,

745
00:46:06.360 --> 00:46:11.360
I just need the 15 minutes to get myself awakened enough to then make the

746
00:46:14.280 --> 00:46:18.520
decision to pray or read or do something productive,

747
00:46:18.560 --> 00:46:22.680
like seriously. And I'm telling myself, it just takes 15 minutes.

748
00:46:22.840 --> 00:46:24.960
Like you can do whatever you want after the 15 minutes,

749
00:46:24.960 --> 00:46:28.720
but just get up for 15 minutes. And then by 15 minutes,

750
00:46:28.760 --> 00:46:32.440
I just know myself that like, okay, I can do this.

751
00:46:32.480 --> 00:46:36.480
I can prepare a beautiful breakfast. I can, or, or not.

752
00:46:36.760 --> 00:46:41.200
I can read the word. I can just take a walk. You know, I can do things,

753
00:46:41.200 --> 00:46:43.920
but I'm going to make a pretty good decision. Most of the time.

754
00:46:44.240 --> 00:46:45.680
I'm not going to just be like, Oh,

755
00:46:45.680 --> 00:46:49.080
I'll just turn on my favorite television show and watch that at seven 30 or

756
00:46:49.120 --> 00:46:53.760
whatever, you know, six 30 in the morning. No, I'm not doing that.

757
00:46:54.120 --> 00:46:55.560
I'm going to make it productive.

758
00:46:56.360 --> 00:47:00.120
And so that was just my little trick to help me do that. Um,

759
00:47:00.360 --> 00:47:04.720
thank you, Gina, for sharing a step, Stephanie,

760
00:47:05.160 --> 00:47:07.680
Adrian Hunter, Gwen, go ahead, Stephanie.

761
00:47:09.120 --> 00:47:12.720
Hi, David. Um, I am nearly 70.

762
00:47:13.080 --> 00:47:17.040
I usually work almost full-time and oddly enough,

763
00:47:17.040 --> 00:47:21.800
I felt like God was telling me to go halftime about two weeks before

764
00:47:21.800 --> 00:47:26.000
Jackie said halftime. And I'm like, Oh God, I'm doing this already.

765
00:47:26.000 --> 00:47:29.200
This is cool. So I made the decision. I went out on a limb,

766
00:47:30.040 --> 00:47:33.560
talked to my boss and went to halftime my hours.

767
00:47:33.880 --> 00:47:38.560
So I I'm down at 24 hours right now. I've spent a month doing it.

768
00:47:39.200 --> 00:47:42.320
So talk about, it's been a breakthrough for me. And believe it or not,

769
00:47:42.360 --> 00:47:47.320
my sales for the month of July were probably higher than they were for the

770
00:47:47.320 --> 00:47:48.320
last few months.

771
00:47:48.320 --> 00:47:53.320
I feel like my yes was just exactly what God wanted me to do.

772
00:47:53.360 --> 00:47:57.480
It was kind of amazing. And then I started, um,

773
00:47:58.640 --> 00:48:01.600
going to a new, a new chiropractor.

774
00:48:01.600 --> 00:48:06.200
And cause I've been needing to work on my health and my

775
00:48:06.200 --> 00:48:10.960
heart was an issue. And I'm like, God heal my broken heart. Right.

776
00:48:10.960 --> 00:48:12.560
Cause it there's something wrong with it.

777
00:48:13.160 --> 00:48:17.280
And what he's showing me is how the mind and the

778
00:48:17.600 --> 00:48:20.040
body are connected together.

779
00:48:20.360 --> 00:48:24.920
And that by making certain activations and declarations,

780
00:48:24.920 --> 00:48:29.040
which I have done for many years, I'm,

781
00:48:29.080 --> 00:48:33.360
I'm finding healing. I'm kind of amazed. So it's, and,

782
00:48:33.360 --> 00:48:36.640
and one more thing I just wanted to add is that when you asked,

783
00:48:36.720 --> 00:48:39.960
what do you want, you asked us all about a month ago, what do you want? Right.

784
00:48:41.160 --> 00:48:45.560
And I thought I wanted to do a mobile salon for homeless people.

785
00:48:46.600 --> 00:48:49.120
And it's like, this sounds really good. And this is wonderful. Right.

786
00:48:49.160 --> 00:48:52.840
But then Jackie, a couple of weeks later said, what do you really want?

787
00:48:53.760 --> 00:48:58.760
And I said, God, what I really want is time to create.

788
00:49:00.280 --> 00:49:03.040
And I don't know what that creation creating is going to be.

789
00:49:03.040 --> 00:49:05.880
I have started doing some bags and stuff like that,

790
00:49:06.240 --> 00:49:09.240
but I'm going to do what I really want to do and let God use it.

791
00:49:09.440 --> 00:49:13.880
So that's that of that in half the time that I love it. Yeah.

792
00:49:13.920 --> 00:49:16.640
There's so many things there that you said that were so good.

793
00:49:16.880 --> 00:49:21.160
I love the counter intuitiveness of the six month reset. I mean,

794
00:49:21.400 --> 00:49:26.240
you're just bringing this up for the rest of us because it's kind of like when

795
00:49:26.240 --> 00:49:30.800
you do less, God does more little as much when God is in it.

796
00:49:31.360 --> 00:49:34.120
But it's really true. Like some of the greatest times we've had,

797
00:49:34.120 --> 00:49:39.040
some of the most successful times we've had is when we pulled back and did less

798
00:49:39.440 --> 00:49:44.040
and then saw God do more in that season or in that month or

799
00:49:44.040 --> 00:49:45.600
whatever. And so that's incredible.

800
00:49:45.600 --> 00:49:49.160
I love the counter intuitiveness of the kingdom. You know,

801
00:49:49.200 --> 00:49:51.360
when you want to go strong, you know,

802
00:49:51.400 --> 00:49:56.000
you go soft and God fills in the gaps when you want to,

803
00:49:56.040 --> 00:49:59.920
you know, when you want to you want to rest.

804
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:01.480
You want to like, Oh, I don't want to do it.

805
00:50:01.480 --> 00:50:03.840
But I mean, you press in something changes.

806
00:50:04.240 --> 00:50:09.160
I just love the counter-intuitiveness of like what I'm supposed to do or what

807
00:50:09.480 --> 00:50:13.640
society is telling me or what my, you know, my, my parents are telling me I

808
00:50:13.640 --> 00:50:16.680
should blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, whatever you're supposed to go forward.

809
00:50:16.680 --> 00:50:17.280
It's supposed to do this.

810
00:50:17.280 --> 00:50:18.200
You're never supposed to go back.

811
00:50:18.200 --> 00:50:21.360
Don't let them see you sweat, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, all the stuff.

812
00:50:21.760 --> 00:50:27.020
And you're like, no, I feel like the Lord is telling me completely opposite, you

813
00:50:27.020 --> 00:50:30.700
know, and you do the counter-intuitive and then the spirit comes in and does.

814
00:50:31.140 --> 00:50:32.140
Tremendous things.

815
00:50:32.140 --> 00:50:37.900
And so some of you that are really like type a people, you're like always on it.

816
00:50:37.980 --> 00:50:41.180
Always this and that it's hard for you to do the counter too, because like, Oh,

817
00:50:41.180 --> 00:50:47.140
what if I like, Oh, I can't do that because, uh, and that's a person that

818
00:50:47.140 --> 00:50:48.780
needs to just let loose of control.

819
00:50:49.180 --> 00:50:50.740
That has changed with age.

820
00:50:51.180 --> 00:50:52.340
That has changed with age.

821
00:50:52.340 --> 00:50:56.660
I used to be a type eight personality and I have learned to rest.

822
00:50:56.700 --> 00:50:59.780
And now I actually love my rest.

823
00:51:00.180 --> 00:51:00.700
Yeah.

824
00:51:01.340 --> 00:51:05.580
And there's some of those, some of us that are procrastinators and we rest too

825
00:51:05.580 --> 00:51:08.180
much and we're like, all right, I want to get to this.

826
00:51:08.180 --> 00:51:10.020
I want to get doing this, you know, like changing.

827
00:51:10.180 --> 00:51:11.540
So it's, it's both.

828
00:51:11.580 --> 00:51:13.700
And right guys, I love it.

829
00:51:14.340 --> 00:51:15.900
I love the counter-intuitiveness.

830
00:51:15.980 --> 00:51:18.340
Uh, I love all the other stuff that you said as well.

831
00:51:18.900 --> 00:51:22.220
Um, and, uh, so good.

832
00:51:22.420 --> 00:51:22.820
So good.

833
00:51:22.820 --> 00:51:23.660
Thank you for sharing.

834
00:51:23.660 --> 00:51:26.180
Stephanie, Adrian, go ahead.

835
00:51:27.660 --> 00:51:28.420
Hello.

836
00:51:28.820 --> 00:51:35.580
So for my, um, six month reset, I wanted to focus on my health and being

837
00:51:35.580 --> 00:51:39.580
prosperous and I said, Lord, I really want, cause health issues run through

838
00:51:39.580 --> 00:51:43.140
my family and I did not want it to continue.

839
00:51:43.620 --> 00:51:45.940
Um, and he said, I already told you what to do.

840
00:51:46.500 --> 00:51:48.460
I told you to walk and drink more water, right?

841
00:51:48.780 --> 00:51:50.900
So it's like, it sounds so easy.

842
00:51:50.900 --> 00:51:53.900
So I started doing it on a regular basis.

843
00:51:54.180 --> 00:51:59.340
And then as I would go back to God each day, he said, part of the issue is you

844
00:51:59.340 --> 00:52:02.540
don't value yourself enough to keep your word to yourself.

845
00:52:03.100 --> 00:52:09.260
And I said, oh, okay, well, can you teach me to keep my word to myself?

846
00:52:09.660 --> 00:52:14.780
And so I have all these half finished projects and God was like, just start on

847
00:52:14.780 --> 00:52:14.900
them.

848
00:52:14.900 --> 00:52:18.260
So one after the other, he'd bring up the one to work on.

849
00:52:18.660 --> 00:52:21.980
So I have finished knitting a blanket for my sister.

850
00:52:22.180 --> 00:52:25.060
I finished, um, writing a devotional.

851
00:52:25.060 --> 00:52:30.700
I finished uploading a book, um, that my nephew wrote that I said I would,

852
00:52:30.780 --> 00:52:32.260
that I was going to design for him.

853
00:52:32.260 --> 00:52:37.660
And so like, he's been working me through keeping my word to myself by finishing

854
00:52:37.660 --> 00:52:40.700
things that I had stopped halfway through.

855
00:52:41.460 --> 00:52:46.460
And then I have seen, like I walked for maybe like two weeks, two to

856
00:52:46.460 --> 00:52:47.860
three weeks, almost every day.

857
00:52:48.380 --> 00:52:52.900
Um, about a week ago, my mom said, oh, can I come walking with you?

858
00:52:52.900 --> 00:52:57.700
And so she has had, um, one knee surgery and she's scheduled for the other.

859
00:52:58.220 --> 00:53:01.900
Um, but as she's been walking with me the past couple of days, she told me today,

860
00:53:01.900 --> 00:53:04.380
she was like, I didn't exercise yesterday.

861
00:53:04.380 --> 00:53:05.820
And I noticed the difference.

862
00:53:06.260 --> 00:53:12.700
So not only is me keeping, learning to keep my word to myself, helping me and

863
00:53:12.700 --> 00:53:18.220
helping change my perspective of how God has created me and what he's calling me

864
00:53:18.220 --> 00:53:22.460
to do, but I see him changing things in my family as well.

865
00:53:23.260 --> 00:53:30.780
Wow, man, the multiplication, the, the, the add on the bonus, all the stuff that

866
00:53:30.780 --> 00:53:37.700
comes with just saying yes to the Lord and just saying yes to a reset saying,

867
00:53:38.020 --> 00:53:40.900
um, saying yes to, to what you really want.

868
00:53:41.420 --> 00:53:42.460
That was another thing.

869
00:53:42.820 --> 00:53:46.700
Um, that was mentioned is like what I want and then what I really want.

870
00:53:47.100 --> 00:53:47.940
And that's the question.

871
00:53:47.940 --> 00:53:51.780
That is the question because the question is, is not what you want.

872
00:53:51.820 --> 00:53:53.740
It is what do you want?

873
00:53:54.260 --> 00:53:54.780
You know?

874
00:53:54.780 --> 00:53:58.060
And that's really like, if you could ever get, you have to keep on asking

875
00:53:58.060 --> 00:54:02.340
yourself that question, like what I want, what do I, what do I want?

876
00:54:02.700 --> 00:54:04.300
No, what do I really want?

877
00:54:04.340 --> 00:54:07.180
No, what do I really, really, really want?

878
00:54:07.500 --> 00:54:09.940
That's what asking the question over and over again.

879
00:54:10.540 --> 00:54:16.060
Um, not for the sake of repetition, but the sake for, for the sake of digging

880
00:54:16.060 --> 00:54:21.380
deeper, digging deeper each time so that you can really get the, to the root of

881
00:54:21.380 --> 00:54:27.340
what it is that you want to get done or want to accomplish or want to see and

882
00:54:27.340 --> 00:54:33.700
want to perform, and then Holy spirit really starts giving you the steps

883
00:54:33.700 --> 00:54:34.820
and giving you the clarity.

884
00:54:34.980 --> 00:54:40.060
And I love, um, what you said with regard to like, God already told you

885
00:54:40.180 --> 00:54:43.740
like, he already gave you the information I love was like, yeah, I've

886
00:54:43.740 --> 00:54:45.420
been telling you this for some time.

887
00:54:45.820 --> 00:54:48.340
And he doesn't like say it sarcastically and rudely.

888
00:54:48.340 --> 00:54:52.460
He just says it lovingly like, yeah, I know I've been telling you this.

889
00:54:52.500 --> 00:54:56.780
And so I'm so excited that now you're, you're, you're seeing this,

890
00:54:56.780 --> 00:54:57.740
that you're going to do it.

891
00:54:58.100 --> 00:54:59.660
And the simplicity is there.

892
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:03.080
I love, it's simplistic, it's counterintuitive,

893
00:55:03.080 --> 00:55:05.520
it's the big decision that leads to the clearing

894
00:55:05.520 --> 00:55:07.400
of the space that leads then to the,

895
00:55:07.400 --> 00:55:09.640
all the little things that get accomplished

896
00:55:09.640 --> 00:55:11.360
in the six month reset.

897
00:55:11.360 --> 00:55:14.520
Can you see the pattern over and over and over guys?

898
00:55:14.520 --> 00:55:18.120
It is, you know, saying yes to the simple things

899
00:55:18.120 --> 00:55:22.880
and they seem hard because it's like they're so,

900
00:55:24.440 --> 00:55:26.920
you know, some of you were talking about making decisions

901
00:55:26.920 --> 00:55:29.560
that you've been needing to make for a long time.

902
00:55:29.600 --> 00:55:30.440
And it's just like,

903
00:55:30.440 --> 00:55:32.400
why didn't you make that decision before?

904
00:55:32.400 --> 00:55:33.720
I don't know, it really doesn't matter,

905
00:55:33.720 --> 00:55:35.680
but now I am making that decision.

906
00:55:35.680 --> 00:55:37.080
You know, whether it was hard

907
00:55:37.080 --> 00:55:38.720
or whether it was just seemed too difficult

908
00:55:38.720 --> 00:55:42.480
or too much of an obstacle or whatever it was,

909
00:55:42.480 --> 00:55:44.520
this timing, the season is right.

910
00:55:44.520 --> 00:55:48.080
That's why six month reset is so powerful too

911
00:55:48.080 --> 00:55:49.760
is because it's the timing.

912
00:55:49.760 --> 00:55:51.680
Most everyone that's testified tonight

913
00:55:51.680 --> 00:55:53.080
says the timing was perfect

914
00:55:53.080 --> 00:55:55.960
because what I was going through was being set up for.

915
00:55:55.960 --> 00:55:58.320
So that's powerful, that's incredible.

916
00:55:58.320 --> 00:56:00.400
And I love all of these testimonies,

917
00:56:00.400 --> 00:56:02.200
love all the sharing.

918
00:56:02.200 --> 00:56:03.120
We're gonna do a few more.

919
00:56:03.120 --> 00:56:05.440
We've got Hunter, Gwen and Crystal

920
00:56:05.440 --> 00:56:06.360
and we're past the time.

921
00:56:06.360 --> 00:56:10.080
So we'll make them quick so we can wrap this up.

922
00:56:11.240 --> 00:56:13.880
Go ahead Hunter, what is your six month reset brother?

923
00:56:13.880 --> 00:56:16.640
Well, you can see I signed up with Payro

924
00:56:16.640 --> 00:56:21.520
with the, I spent $295 on course

925
00:56:21.520 --> 00:56:22.760
and I wanna make the most of it.

926
00:56:22.760 --> 00:56:24.160
I don't know if I'm really am.

927
00:56:24.160 --> 00:56:27.320
My goals are that I wanna stop self gratifying

928
00:56:27.360 --> 00:56:30.400
and like, okay, ladies are gonna be mad at it.

929
00:56:30.400 --> 00:56:32.600
I'm gonna have a bad review with ladies now.

930
00:56:32.600 --> 00:56:35.040
Anyways, and then be on a date with someone,

931
00:56:35.040 --> 00:56:37.600
learning more Jiu-Jitsu, pray on a basis,

932
00:56:37.600 --> 00:56:40.040
not so distracting, stick to the pattern.

933
00:56:40.040 --> 00:56:42.880
So what's the pain, problem, frustration of this?

934
00:56:42.880 --> 00:56:45.680
It's been going for almost 15 years

935
00:56:45.680 --> 00:56:49.040
and I want this self gratification to end.

936
00:56:49.040 --> 00:56:50.640
It should have been done a long time ago,

937
00:56:50.640 --> 00:56:52.680
especially when I spent college

938
00:56:52.680 --> 00:56:55.320
and up to this point doing ministry.

939
00:56:55.320 --> 00:56:57.280
I also like to be the strongest I can be

940
00:56:58.240 --> 00:56:59.800
with Jiu-Jitsu and I wanna date

941
00:56:59.800 --> 00:57:01.760
because of personal growth in my social life.

942
00:57:01.760 --> 00:57:04.080
Not have a negative aspect and have a build a wall

943
00:57:04.080 --> 00:57:07.600
and remain antisocial because that just misses out

944
00:57:07.600 --> 00:57:09.120
and I don't like missing out

945
00:57:09.120 --> 00:57:12.280
and I wanna work like any normal person.

946
00:57:12.280 --> 00:57:15.560
I've been in pain and born in masturbation

947
00:57:15.560 --> 00:57:18.120
and it didn't get rid of the pain, it just numbed it.

948
00:57:18.120 --> 00:57:19.240
And I wanna stick to a pattern

949
00:57:19.240 --> 00:57:21.760
to help me maintain a good habit and prevent idleness.

950
00:57:21.760 --> 00:57:24.600
That's my trigger, I wanna stay busy.

951
00:57:24.640 --> 00:57:27.520
So, and the rewards is what I can accomplish.

952
00:57:27.520 --> 00:57:30.680
Like if you work hard, if you put in hours of work,

953
00:57:30.680 --> 00:57:33.040
you get a paycheck and if you work hard in Jiu-Jitsu,

954
00:57:33.040 --> 00:57:34.640
you get a medal.

955
00:57:34.640 --> 00:57:36.880
And the responsibility is not to remain a victim

956
00:57:36.880 --> 00:57:41.800
of my circumstances and discover how I can get incentives

957
00:57:41.800 --> 00:57:45.400
and turn clocks back and undiscovered how did it start.

958
00:57:45.400 --> 00:57:48.600
That's how I did with taking responsibility.

959
00:57:48.600 --> 00:57:50.440
And then how can I take your responsibility

960
00:57:50.440 --> 00:57:52.720
of life results, take thoughts captives,

961
00:57:52.720 --> 00:57:55.120
doing things by doing this on my own,

962
00:57:55.120 --> 00:57:57.080
set boundaries of people.

963
00:57:57.080 --> 00:58:01.360
And here's my step and here it is right here.

964
00:58:01.360 --> 00:58:02.320
Love it.

965
00:58:02.320 --> 00:58:05.120
And then here's how I'm gonna accomplish it

966
00:58:05.120 --> 00:58:07.120
is go to bed early tonight.

967
00:58:07.120 --> 00:58:08.440
It used to be 10 p.m.

968
00:58:08.440 --> 00:58:10.160
I would make that habit when I was,

969
00:58:10.160 --> 00:58:12.840
even my bedtime as a teen was 10

970
00:58:12.840 --> 00:58:14.720
and then all of a sudden started degenerating

971
00:58:14.720 --> 00:58:16.200
to 10 or 30 or 10 o'clock.

972
00:58:16.200 --> 00:58:18.800
I'll stay up late if I don't have to get up early.

973
00:58:18.800 --> 00:58:21.040
Go to lessons, go to Jiu-Jitsu lessons,

974
00:58:21.080 --> 00:58:24.080
like two or three times a week for two months

975
00:58:24.080 --> 00:58:25.360
is my deadline.

976
00:58:25.360 --> 00:58:27.880
Like go jogging, morning or hit the gym.

977
00:58:27.880 --> 00:58:30.800
Talk with a woman on way on a daily basis,

978
00:58:30.800 --> 00:58:34.640
like one woman per day, even if it's a quick day.

979
00:58:34.640 --> 00:58:35.480
Yeah.

980
00:58:35.480 --> 00:58:37.040
Or like, and it's not enough to talk to them

981
00:58:37.040 --> 00:58:38.640
or be around them or be on messenger,

982
00:58:38.640 --> 00:58:42.000
but improve the quality of time that's worth our time.

983
00:58:42.000 --> 00:58:43.320
Yeah, that's good.

984
00:58:43.320 --> 00:58:44.160
And pray.

985
00:58:44.160 --> 00:58:48.040
Some would sing one day at a time, sweet Jesus,

986
00:58:48.040 --> 00:58:52.400
but I'm just like, one woman a day, sweet Jesus.

987
00:58:52.400 --> 00:58:56.520
And then there's also, and also just if I remember,

988
00:58:56.520 --> 00:58:57.680
pray on a daily basis.

989
00:58:57.680 --> 00:58:59.040
Try and align my will of God,

990
00:58:59.040 --> 00:59:01.320
then prayer won't be like going through emotions

991
00:59:01.320 --> 00:59:02.600
and wasting time.

992
00:59:02.600 --> 00:59:05.320
My workplace has a multi-faith room

993
00:59:05.320 --> 00:59:08.120
for not just Christians, but other religions too.

994
00:59:08.120 --> 00:59:10.120
So I'll take advantage of it when I go in

995
00:59:10.120 --> 00:59:12.440
and go and take advantage of it.

996
00:59:12.440 --> 00:59:14.920
And then another thing is be on my phone

997
00:59:14.920 --> 00:59:15.840
only when it's necessary.

998
00:59:15.840 --> 00:59:17.840
Check on, focus on, not create panic.

999
00:59:18.840 --> 00:59:20.840
Oh, like even when I'm on the job

1000
00:59:20.840 --> 00:59:23.040
because it's wasting time and you don't,

1001
00:59:23.040 --> 00:59:25.600
I don't really need to be there.

1002
00:59:25.600 --> 00:59:26.520
So good.

1003
00:59:26.520 --> 00:59:27.360
I love that.

1004
00:59:27.360 --> 00:59:28.520
Thank you, Hunter, for sharing.

1005
00:59:28.520 --> 00:59:30.040
That's powerful.

1006
00:59:30.040 --> 00:59:33.280
If more men would take responsibility,

1007
00:59:33.280 --> 00:59:36.640
I tell you this world would change, including myself.

1008
00:59:36.640 --> 00:59:37.600
It's a challenge.

1009
00:59:37.600 --> 00:59:38.600
I mean, I'm telling you what,

1010
00:59:38.600 --> 00:59:41.360
we're having that sort of like masculinity,

1011
00:59:41.360 --> 00:59:43.400
like crisis in the world.

1012
00:59:43.400 --> 00:59:44.640
It's just kind of the way it is.

1013
00:59:44.640 --> 00:59:46.240
And like, you guys are always saying like,

1014
00:59:46.240 --> 00:59:47.440
where are the good men at?

1015
00:59:48.040 --> 00:59:49.160
There are good men out there.

1016
00:59:49.160 --> 00:59:51.120
And I'm telling you what,

1017
00:59:51.120 --> 00:59:53.280
they are good and getting gooder.

1018
00:59:53.280 --> 00:59:56.760
And because of the work that we're doing,

1019
00:59:56.760 --> 01:00:00.040
because you are showing up, women and ladies.

1020
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:03.640
Hunter's showing up trying, it's like, look, this is about maturity.

1021
01:00:03.640 --> 01:00:04.840
It's about responsibility.

1022
01:00:04.840 --> 01:00:06.520
It's about taking ownership.

1023
01:00:06.800 --> 01:00:08.720
It's about taking, I'm writing it down.

1024
01:00:09.000 --> 01:00:10.040
I'm making goals.

1025
01:00:10.080 --> 01:00:11.040
I'm doing the work.

1026
01:00:11.320 --> 01:00:12.400
I'm putting it before me.

1027
01:00:12.720 --> 01:00:16.760
It doesn't have to be all about white knuckling it, but it does have to be about

1028
01:00:16.760 --> 01:00:21.280
putting forth the vision in front of me and writing it down and making it plain.

1029
01:00:21.600 --> 01:00:27.200
And that brings life to your, to your situation and to the change that's going on.

1030
01:00:27.200 --> 01:00:32.360
So thank you, Hunter, for sharing Gwen and Crystal right here at the end.

1031
01:00:32.480 --> 01:00:32.880
Go ahead.

1032
01:00:32.920 --> 01:00:33.240
Hi.

1033
01:00:33.240 --> 01:00:33.640
Yeah.

1034
01:00:33.680 --> 01:00:39.480
Um, I wanted to say, uh, I have this breakthrough for business and I'm very

1035
01:00:39.480 --> 01:00:44.120
excited about it, but I kind of want to tell you, uh, one thing, the prayer that

1036
01:00:44.120 --> 01:00:47.320
we have every day with this group is it gets me out of bed.

1037
01:00:47.320 --> 01:00:52.040
I'm 66, semi-retired, like, okay, I would not be getting out of bed.

1038
01:00:52.280 --> 01:00:53.600
So it's been amazing.

1039
01:00:53.600 --> 01:00:58.880
And it, not only that it sets me on fire and it sets my head in the right spot.

1040
01:00:58.920 --> 01:01:00.120
So I'm like, this is amazing.

1041
01:01:00.120 --> 01:01:01.920
So like Sunday morning, it's kind of hard.

1042
01:01:02.160 --> 01:01:04.360
I mean, I go up because it's 7 a.m.

1043
01:01:04.360 --> 01:01:04.720
for you.

1044
01:01:04.720 --> 01:01:09.520
You're, uh, yeah, it's early and like it's early and you get going and it's great.

1045
01:01:09.800 --> 01:01:15.240
And then what's going on, the love, the summer love book, huge breakthrough.

1046
01:01:15.480 --> 01:01:18.960
Like, I don't know what happened is just going through the book again with

1047
01:01:18.960 --> 01:01:21.360
Jackie and this refining it.

1048
01:01:21.360 --> 01:01:25.800
And then it's like, I poked my head out and I mentioned this and then I think it

1049
01:01:25.800 --> 01:01:30.920
was our group, so that's not everybody on here, but I poked my head out of my wall

1050
01:01:30.960 --> 01:01:33.200
and I look, I'm looking at myself.

1051
01:01:33.280 --> 01:01:36.360
I'm like, oh, I'm not what I was thinking.

1052
01:01:36.360 --> 01:01:37.600
I'm not all those negative things.

1053
01:01:37.840 --> 01:01:39.840
And then I'm seeing other people.

1054
01:01:40.520 --> 01:01:44.960
And I'm just looking up, looking up has been huge, changing my life, looking

1055
01:01:44.960 --> 01:01:46.520
up at me and looking up at God.

1056
01:01:46.680 --> 01:01:51.200
Anyways, that, um, I had a business for 20 years, sunshine quilting.

1057
01:01:51.200 --> 01:01:53.040
It's called long arm quilting.

1058
01:01:53.240 --> 01:01:56.560
And my body just gave up because I'm an artist and I was drawing with thread.

1059
01:01:56.560 --> 01:01:56.760
It's.

1060
01:01:57.240 --> 01:02:02.360
But, but God shifted and to 2019 to teaching.

1061
01:02:02.640 --> 01:02:06.480
So I go, because if you're, if you have 25 years experience of

1062
01:02:06.480 --> 01:02:08.320
anything, you can go teach it.

1063
01:02:08.560 --> 01:02:13.040
So I went out and I, and it was just amazing how it all, all the doors went

1064
01:02:13.040 --> 01:02:13.680
boom, boom, boom, boom.

1065
01:02:13.680 --> 01:02:16.800
They all opened up and I go out and teach at quilt guilds.

1066
01:02:17.160 --> 01:02:23.040
They, they, um, pay me for my lecture, my workshop, the hotel, the food, the gas

1067
01:02:23.200 --> 01:02:27.360
all over California, I've been doing that for the last five years, minus 2020.

1068
01:02:27.760 --> 01:02:32.520
And then, um, and in the back of my head, God's like, do videos, do it.

1069
01:02:32.520 --> 01:02:34.600
And people ask me, why don't you do online videos?

1070
01:02:34.600 --> 01:02:35.960
And I'm like, oh, I can't do it.

1071
01:02:35.960 --> 01:02:37.640
I have, there's a stupid lie in my head.

1072
01:02:37.680 --> 01:02:38.320
I can't do it.

1073
01:02:38.520 --> 01:02:42.080
My thing that I teach, which is very, actually kind of.

1074
01:02:43.040 --> 01:02:45.520
I don't even know how to wrap my head around what I do.

1075
01:02:45.520 --> 01:02:46.760
God gave me this thing.

1076
01:02:46.760 --> 01:02:47.760
It's curved piecing.

1077
01:02:47.760 --> 01:02:48.560
It's really weird.

1078
01:02:48.840 --> 01:02:49.520
It's hard.

1079
01:02:49.600 --> 01:02:53.600
It's people, when they do it, they're like, oh my God, this just happened anyway.

1080
01:02:53.600 --> 01:02:57.120
So I'm like, so there was this block in my head that I can't do it.

1081
01:02:57.440 --> 01:02:59.360
Anyways, I found this online place.

1082
01:02:59.360 --> 01:03:01.280
They've been open since 2020.

1083
01:03:01.280 --> 01:03:04.480
It's called Global Quilt Connection.

1084
01:03:04.920 --> 01:03:10.640
And they go out and they, they introduce teachers, um, quilt teachers worldwide.

1085
01:03:10.920 --> 01:03:14.320
So it's a global, so not just California anymore.

1086
01:03:14.320 --> 01:03:17.840
I did fly to Florida once and I got to do two workshops there

1087
01:03:17.880 --> 01:03:19.400
because it's an ocean art quilt.

1088
01:03:19.880 --> 01:03:24.280
And, um, it's curved piecing, which is, um, considered a harder thing to do.

1089
01:03:24.640 --> 01:03:31.040
But the thing is, it's like the, the summer love book did something.

1090
01:03:31.480 --> 01:03:32.720
It's all supernatural.

1091
01:03:32.760 --> 01:03:33.520
That's what's going on.

1092
01:03:33.960 --> 01:03:36.840
And I'm trying to do my homework as best I can.

1093
01:03:37.320 --> 01:03:40.440
Um, what is, what do you, what would you say is your reset?

1094
01:03:40.960 --> 01:03:46.680
It's a reset from this point on there's, I have not done the videos yet, but

1095
01:03:46.680 --> 01:03:54.760
this from August to January, I am going, I, I, it says you can, you can increase

1096
01:03:54.760 --> 01:04:00.840
your income seven times, um, compared to just once a month teaching twice.

1097
01:04:01.360 --> 01:04:01.520
Yeah.

1098
01:04:01.560 --> 01:04:05.720
I mean, once a month for each guild, um, I was doing that.

1099
01:04:05.760 --> 01:04:11.680
And that in California driving hotel, all that stuff, this is a total different thing.

1100
01:04:11.680 --> 01:04:16.440
And they also there's classes on how to do, um, virtual, there's one

1101
01:04:16.440 --> 01:04:18.880
called video production checklist.

1102
01:04:18.880 --> 01:04:20.160
They teach you how to do it.

1103
01:04:20.480 --> 01:04:22.880
Um, and the prices have all come down.

1104
01:04:23.040 --> 01:04:28.080
They were like an astronomical and right after COVID, but now it's like $75.

1105
01:04:28.600 --> 01:04:32.520
And September 27th and eighth, they have this thing.

1106
01:04:32.920 --> 01:04:36.040
Um, for teachers, it's called the sample platter.

1107
01:04:36.280 --> 01:04:41.720
And if you're, if you get on there and I'm hoping I can get in, um, and they just

1108
01:04:41.720 --> 01:04:44.760
show you, show a sample of what your work is and it's going to go global.

1109
01:04:45.160 --> 01:04:47.160
So I'm like, I'm hoping it's only $75.

1110
01:04:47.160 --> 01:04:47.960
So it's changed.

1111
01:04:48.040 --> 01:04:48.880
They've changed.

1112
01:04:49.640 --> 01:04:50.040
It's good.

1113
01:04:50.040 --> 01:04:57.040
I just, I, you know, Gwen is probably the fourth or fifth person that just is, you

1114
01:04:57.040 --> 01:04:59.960
know, like I I've been studying business online business for.

1115
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:04.800
years now because we have an online business and everything, but for anybody to be able to

1116
01:05:05.600 --> 01:05:13.040
do an online business and, you know, succeed at it is so possible today. It's just not even

1117
01:05:13.040 --> 01:05:21.280
fun. Like it's not even, it's not like, ah, no, it's seriously, it is possible.

1118
01:05:21.280 --> 01:05:26.960
It is doable for crying out loud. Gwen is teaching quilting. It's like equivalent of

1119
01:05:26.960 --> 01:05:32.160
underwater basket weaving class in college. It's just like, seriously, like I'm making money doing

1120
01:05:32.160 --> 01:05:38.880
this. Like, how can anybody do that? I have heard of people making millions of million dollars in a

1121
01:05:38.880 --> 01:05:46.400
year, online courses, teaching art, not just like art in general, like specific, like art on wood

1122
01:05:46.400 --> 01:05:53.360
with this kind of ink. I have heard of people making a million dollars teaching calligraphy

1123
01:05:53.360 --> 01:05:59.120
to single mothers that want to write scriptures that do it in a certain ink with a certain kind

1124
01:05:59.120 --> 01:06:04.240
of paint. I mean, like, it's so specific. It's like, how could you do that? How could you make

1125
01:06:04.240 --> 01:06:12.400
$10 doing that? Let alone a million dollars. It is ridiculously accessible. It is simple.

1126
01:06:13.040 --> 01:06:18.080
It's not easy in the sense that's like, oh, you just do, you know, whatever. I mean, it is work

1127
01:06:18.080 --> 01:06:22.480
and then there's challenges and there's the skillset, but I am, I'm telling you the, the,

1128
01:06:22.480 --> 01:06:31.200
the word that I'm using specifically is it is accessible. If you have any idea,

1129
01:06:31.920 --> 01:06:39.920
any concept, anything that you can teach, train, explain, that you could show that like,

1130
01:06:39.920 --> 01:06:44.080
I mean, it doesn't have to be, you don't have to be a lawyer and be a doctor. You don't have to be

1131
01:06:44.160 --> 01:06:47.840
a professional. You don't have to be like certified in this. It doesn't have to be real

1132
01:06:47.840 --> 01:06:53.920
estate. It doesn't have to be like big, normal business stuff. It could be anything. And I'm

1133
01:06:53.920 --> 01:07:01.680
telling you what you can be successful on it. Even if you made $500 extra a month,

1134
01:07:02.560 --> 01:07:07.360
some of that would be profoundly shifting for some people in their finances, a thousand dollars a

1135
01:07:07.360 --> 01:07:17.280
month, $2,500, $5,000 a month. That's like, like that's replacing your job. I mean, if you could

1136
01:07:17.280 --> 01:07:22.240
tell if somebody want to say, I just want to replace my job and do something different with

1137
01:07:22.240 --> 01:07:28.000
my job, not have to go nine to five, whenever it is easy, possible. Let's work on, let's do it.

1138
01:07:28.000 --> 01:07:36.560
Let's put a plan together, get it done. And it is so accessible. And so I I'm saying that trying

1139
01:07:36.560 --> 01:07:43.040
to be encouraging, because if you're struggling to find something to reset, you know, I really

1140
01:07:43.040 --> 01:07:47.280
believe everybody that's sharing, you know, they're like, Oh, I'm doing this. And this is my reset

1141
01:07:47.280 --> 01:07:50.160
and blah, blah, blah. And I got it dialed in and they feel like, Oh, they're having all this

1142
01:07:50.160 --> 01:07:55.680
breakthrough and success. But the rest of you have equally as many good stories. I'm sure to share.

1143
01:07:55.680 --> 01:08:00.400
You just decided for whatever reason not to share. But then some of you are also struggling. You're

1144
01:08:00.400 --> 01:08:05.840
like, what can be my thing? What can be my breakthrough? What can be my thing? That's why

1145
01:08:05.840 --> 01:08:11.440
it's six months guys. Because sometimes it takes a second for you to catch up with what God is doing

1146
01:08:11.440 --> 01:08:17.840
and it's okay. If you go away from this call tonight and you're like, Oh, all these people

1147
01:08:17.840 --> 01:08:23.439
are having all this breakthrough, but I'm not having it. No, I rebuke that. And I silence that

1148
01:08:23.439 --> 01:08:32.960
voice. I'm telling you, God has something for you. Just press a little bit further. Just be a

1149
01:08:32.960 --> 01:08:40.720
little bit more sincere. Don't, don't try to work at prayer. Don't try to beg God. Don't try to

1150
01:08:41.680 --> 01:08:47.439
manipulate God with your tears and with your sorrow. Don't do any of that.

1151
01:08:48.399 --> 01:08:54.800
Don't do any of that, but press in and go, okay, God, I really want to take this six month reset

1152
01:08:54.800 --> 01:09:02.800
seriously. I want to take myself seriously. I want to say that not only am I worthy and that I'm a

1153
01:09:02.800 --> 01:09:11.520
child of God, but there's something for me and it's okay. It's not being selfish. It's not being

1154
01:09:12.080 --> 01:09:20.160
self-centered. It's just being sincere before the Lord. And I really want that breakthrough for you.

1155
01:09:20.160 --> 01:09:26.240
I want you to be able to go, you know what? I prayed and I really feel clarity on that. I'm

1156
01:09:26.240 --> 01:09:32.800
going to make a big decision. I'm going to make some space and then I'm going to get clarity on

1157
01:09:32.800 --> 01:09:38.720
what it is I want to get breakthrough in, to get a reset in, to change, to really shift.

1158
01:09:39.359 --> 01:09:44.080
And then Holy Spirit's going to show you a lot of different ways to make some patterns of behavior,

1159
01:09:44.080 --> 01:09:49.200
make some changes, make some little things that are going to lead to big, big steps through these

1160
01:09:49.200 --> 01:09:53.920
next several months. There's still time left. There's still an opportunity to do it. The

1161
01:09:55.120 --> 01:09:59.760
harvest is ripe for you to be able to break through.

1162
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:06.000
and to do some great things, not only for your life, but for the kingdom and other people's lives.

1163
01:10:06.000 --> 01:10:13.000
Trust me, when you're teaching and training and you're motivating and you're helping and you're solving problems for other people,

1164
01:10:13.000 --> 01:10:20.000
you are blessing them, you are healing them, you are shifting them, you are changing them, you are spreading the kingdom,

1165
01:10:20.000 --> 01:10:25.000
you are evangelizing them, you are doing all the work of the gospel

1166
01:10:25.000 --> 01:10:32.000
by literally helping and shifting and changing and teaching and training other people.

1167
01:10:32.000 --> 01:10:36.000
How many of you are getting excited?

1168
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Hey man, we got one last share. Crystal, can't wait to hear what you have to share for us. Thank you for waiting and so patient.

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Well, we're in last year single, and I can't believe I'm the only one, but my thing to get intentional about,

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and I think every single person that doesn't have anything to be intentional about, to get intentional about this.

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Because we came to your last year single, I came last November out of a horrific situation with the ex-fiancee

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and much court and much police involvement and threats and stuff, you know, came through, did the hard work,

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went through the phase two and phase three, but God's like, you never got intentional.

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You never got intentional about the dating. You know, you never got intentional.

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You know, God always said one thing through me as I went through the program before, you know,

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he's like, follow directions. And Jackie gives very specific directions, you know, do this in this part,

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do this in this part and this in this part, you know, so I never got intentional.

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So I was like, I'm coming up on one year. So I was like, Lord, I'm going to get intentional.

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And I always had the, you know, like, I don't want to unlike, well, first of all, I had for a long time,

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my ex had told me if he saw me, you know, with someone near here that he would either kill me or the other person.

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And it was quite a situation. So I was like, you know, I was just holding off.

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I was like, had all these, you know, excuses, you know, things that I would tell myself like,

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oh, you know, maybe I could meet someone here. It's, you know, God will just drop this person, you know, out of the sky.

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Maybe somebody else is thinking that too. So anyways, now I got intentional.

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I joined a business, a Christian business group here in the area.

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We meet for lunch and it is 99.9% men. So, and then me.

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So I go and I sit with these men and I have lunch and we have a five minute get to know you.

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So at the five minute get to know you, I say, you know, I'm really looking to get married and have kids.

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I was like, if any of, you know, a good quality Christian men, man, that you could recommend.

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I was like, I would, I would greatly appreciate it.

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So then I also found an online Christian speed dating. So I'm going to that.

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I found, and then one of the guys there, he's like, oh, Hey, we run this worship thing where we're trying to bring people to Jesus.

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So he's like, why don't you come out to that?

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And then I found another in person group thing because the online thing is really not, I mean, maybe, maybe somebody here from the community or whatever, but the online strangers thing is, you know,

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it's just not in my heart. So now I'm getting intentional because we came here. I mean, everybody came to last year's single to get married.

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If you didn't come for that, then you came for the wrong thing because Jackie's not offering soup dogs, you know, pants quilts or anything else.

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She's offering men's last year single. So, you know, I think it's time to step up and pick up the David along the way here.

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I love that. Thank you for encouraging us all in that. I love that because it's true. It's like, if you're wondering where the men are, just go where the men are.

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And you're willing to go where the men are. You found an incubator or whatever it is that you, I mean, go to the soccer field, go to the football game, whatever you have to do.

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I mean, go where the men are and trust that you're going to be safe and sound and that Holy Spirit's going to lead you to the right place.

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I mean, I don't want you to do anything dangerous. I'm not promoting just going and hanging out at the bars, but, you know, people have met at the actual bar and not in the bad way either too.

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I mean, that just happened to be where they met. I'm just saying, I don't know. I'm not encouraging any bad behavior. I'm just saying, take some. I love, I love Crystal's advice.

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I love the intentionality. That's a huge, huge, huge factor in what it is you're saying. It's about intentionality. Where are you being intentional for your love life, for your career, for the change you want to make in your life, in your body, in your

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surroundings, whatever it is. Some of you just cleaning out your house is a huge reset, is a huge reset for you because it just leads to so much clarity in so many other areas, you know, so praise God for all of that.

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Thank you guys for sharing. Thank you guys for tonight.

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And hey, Faith Friday is tomorrow morning.

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You can make it great.

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I'll be on there.

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It'll be good.

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And we're gonna be lifting up Jesus, bragging on Jesus.

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And I want you guys to go forward

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and keep on being intentional,

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keep on resetting and do it what God

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has laid upon your heart to do.

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Amen.

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God bless you guys.

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Amen.

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Thank you, David.

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God bless you.

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Thank you, David.

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It was so much fun.

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Love you all.

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Thanks, David.

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God bless y'all.

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Bye.