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Okay, so this is single spotlight. Welcome everybody. It is August 26 and we've got three

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amazing bachelors to highlight tonight. I've got a great number of questions. Some of them

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seem super silly, but you guys, people's everyday habits kind of like sometimes they can be

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deal breakers and then I've got more serious questions and then I'm going to always make

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sure that the bachelor that or the guy that I'm highlighting, if I didn't ask him a question

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that really showcases something about him or that's important, I'm always going to be able

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to give him the floor. We're going to take about 15 minutes for each guy, maybe 20 minutes

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depending on how wordy they are. And then I'm going to be able to pull in about five women to

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come into a round robin season. So if you are on camera and I can see you and you look good, I

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could already see some women. You got the light on you. You look good today. So I like it. I

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like it. Okay. So David Wright, you are up first. Cheryl, are you going to do it for me or am I

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going to do it? I saw you, David. Where did you go? I'm here. Did you already get, let's

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see. I think spotlight for everyone. That's what I want to do, right? Yeah. You all can see

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him now, right? Did I do that correctly? Thumbs up. Okay, perfect. All right. I love it. Okay,

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perfect. All right, David. David and I had the wonderful opportunity. I got to be with the men

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last night. Oh, David, I like the artwork behind you. Okay. So now you have to, where'd you go?

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Okay. So that's going to be one of the questions I'm going to ask you because you've got this

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gorgeous artwork. Okay. So you're going to take the first couple of minutes and you're going to

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just tell everybody just the bare minimum about you because I got a whole page of fun questions

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for you. Tell everybody where you currently live, your age, do you have kids? Do you want kids? Can

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you relocate or not? And one thing about you that you love most about yourself. So it's kind of like

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you're bragging on yourself. So age, where do you live? Do you have kids? Do you want kids? What do

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you do for a living? Can you relocate or do you not want to? And if you can't relocate, do not be

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afraid to say that. Okay. So my name is David Wright. I'm from Kingston, Ontario, Canada. And yeah,

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so I am single, never married. I'm 33 and I definitely want kids. However, they don't need

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to be biologically my kids. So if you've already have kids or if you're like, I'm done, but hey,

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that's not a deal breaker for me. And adopting is great too. Yeah. And one thing that I love,

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that I think people will talk about me is I think I'm a pretty good listener. And yeah,

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I'm a social worker. So I've done that for about 10 years. And I was in ministry for another 10

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years running a homeless shelter. And I'm currently starting my own business where I

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sell collectibles, antique and art. Hence the art. So. I muted myself. I think my dog was

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barking. So tell me about that piece of art. Who is it? Somebody famous? Is it a local artist? Yeah.

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So it is a famous artist actually. And I can't remember her name right now, but I obtained it

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in a funny way. It was the first thing I ever picked. And, uh, I, I was 11 years old and my

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mom's best friend had just lost her husband. And he was a collector of art. And, uh, you know,

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he was this guy who was friends with like Andy Warhol and a lot of famous artists. And, uh, this

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was hidden behind the washing machine of their cottage because they all hated it, but it was his

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favorite and they couldn't get rid of it. And I found it covered in a garbage bag behind the washing

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machine. And I said, this is the most beautiful thing ever. And they're like, really? Like,

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you can just take it kid. So they just gave it to me. And so it's, uh, it's always been something

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that's brought me a lot of peace and, uh, staring at it. And yeah. It's funny that it brings you

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peace, David. Cause that's about what I feel like my brain looked like after my last final. And so

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there's something to be said for that. Someone's torment is someone's peace. Okay. I'm going to

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fire you 10 silly questions. Are you ready? Let's go. I'm ready. I'm buckled in. Do you have

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a cat, a dog? Are you a no pet? Do you want someone else's pet? How do you feel about pets?

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I love pets. Um, no cats, no dogs right now, just because I didn't have time when I was in

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ministry. And, and I think for me that longing for a pet, I always was always like, I didn't

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want to replace that. Cause I've, I have a longing to get married and have a family. Right. And so

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I didn't want to replace that with a pet yet, but I love animals. Um, cat is on a cat by cat basis,

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but any dog you're good to go.

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I feel you about that with the cats, but I am a dog person.

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That's awesome.

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I love that answer.

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Okay, so besides water, what is your beverage of choice?

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So like, it's gonna sound really lame,

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but like I love root beer and like specifically,

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I also love Verner's, which is a drink from Michigan.

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We can't always get it here in Canada,

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but it's definitely a childhood favorite, so yeah.

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That's awesome, I love it.

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I've learned my fiance might be more addicted to Diet Coke

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than I am to caffeine,

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but we can't give each other crap

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because we both drink too much of our things.

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So there you go.

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Okay, do you have a nickname

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and is there a story behind it?

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Yeah, so my nickname is called Birdie

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because when I was little, I had big blue eyes

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and my skin was jaundiced and my head was this size.

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No, but I had a big head and a little body that was yellow.

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So I looked like Tweety Bird.

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And so they called me Tweety

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and then they're like, well, we can't really call a boy

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Tweety, so let's just call him Birdie.

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And so Birdie or Bird has always been my nickname.

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Awesome, okay.

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Spencer, stay on Spencer,

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cause you are up after David.

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So I see you're writing on there.

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I love that.

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Oh my gosh, that might be my most adorable story.

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Okay, here's a silly one.

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Do you make your bed every day?

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I do and I also shave every day because I'm an old man.

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That is hilarious.

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That's awesome.

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Okay, do you squeeze the toothpaste from the middle

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or do you roll gently from the bottom?

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You know, I think it depends on the type of toothpaste.

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I, like if it's an aluminum one,

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like I have to like dial it up, but I just squeeze it.

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I'm like, just get two different tubes of toothpaste, like.

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It's just, you know, I love asking these

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like funny, quirky questions

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because some people can get really bent out of shape.

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To put the toilet paper over or under, you never know.

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Okay, do you leave the dishes in the sink at night

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for the morning or do they go right in the dishwasher?

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So that's a good tip or a really great question.

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And I think it depends on my energy level.

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So, but I often tell myself, you know what?

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If you start the day with a clean sink,

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you're gonna immediately sleep better and feel better.

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And so, and I like the idea of like,

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hey, no matter what kind of day it is,

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that's your grounding is you can do your dishes and yeah.

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Awesome, I love it, that's great.

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Okay, if you could have a superpower, what would it be?

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Definitely, I think the ability to take away pain.

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Not heal everybody, but just take away people's pain.

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Cause I think there's just a lot.

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Okay, you're such a good man.

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Mine is like, I wanna fly.

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If you wanna solve world peace, I love that.

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That was truly the most sweetest answer on the planet.

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I've asked that question a billion times

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and pretty sure no one's ever been that altruistic.

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So that tells me a lot about your character, that's awesome.

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Okay, number eight, when you go on a vacation,

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are you more like beach, mountains, snow or tourist city?

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Very different styles, you might say all of them,

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I'm just a beach person or man, get me to the slopes.

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but some people gravitate towards one.

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So I definitely think I love reading a book on the beach,

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but I would say my favorite vacation is staying home

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and just like being a bit of a homebody,

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but just planning to do activities at home.

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and I also love exploring, but I'm a big snow guy.

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So like, I love the sun, but like I would much rather like,

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I'm saving up to go to Alaska,

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like that's the dream to go on a cruise there, so.

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Me too, I love that, I love it, that's awesome.

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Okay, if you were gonna go to a potluck,

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what is the item you would probably go for?

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What is the item you would probably bring to the potluck?

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Okay, so I'm gonna be honest, it depends.

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I won't be honest, I'd rather you not lie.

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Well, I hope not, right?

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I hope we can be honest here.

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So I think one of the things that I would bring,

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it depends, like if my friends are inviting me like,

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hey Dave, we wanna introduce you to someone at the potluck,

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then that will change what I'm gonna bring to the potluck.

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Right, so like if there's someone that my friends

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wanna introduce me to, I'll probably bring a main

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but I like to make my own bulgogi, which is fun,

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or I often will do my mom's chili if it's like a Super Bowl

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but if my friends are introducing me to like,

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hey, we wanna introduce you to someone at the potluck,

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then I will make my own fudge.

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So sometimes I'll make pistachio fudge

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or like Nutella fudge, but that's my like.

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Amazing.

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I love it.

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I'll make fudge.

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I'm going to get a little more thoughtful for you.

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Let's go.

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Share a part of your story that you're most proud of.

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I think when I was 16,

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I really struggled with some suicide.

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that the Lord really healed me from

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and I won't get into it and I'll put a pin in it,

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but I think that's just something

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that I'm really glad that God has delivered me from.

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who have struggled with that since.

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So it's been a really lovely story.

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I am so proud of you, Dave, for sharing that

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and normalizing talking about that.

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That is how we keep people safe.

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So thank you for talking about that.

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Number two, what do your friends say

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they love most about you?

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I think my friends would say that I'm a good listener

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And also that I always have everything they need.

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So my neighbors, she has a three-year-old girl

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and they played a game

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and they wrote down all these random things.

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They're like, I wonder if David will have this.

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And so one of them was like, she loves crystals.

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they needed a TV and some other things.

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the little girl was like, you have all the treasure.

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Love it.

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I love it.

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Dave, you're so much fun.

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What do you wish more people knew about you?

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The fact that I love poetry and art.

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And yeah, I think that's something

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that is something that's really important to me.

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And the fact that I'm the youngest of five boys.

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So that's a fun fact.

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God bless that.

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God bless your poor mother with all that testosterone.

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Yeah, she had five sons and a master's degree by 29.

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Can you imagine?

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Oh my God.

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In the eighties too.

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No, I mean, I needed to quit my full-time job

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to do my master's and I'm dying.

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I cannot imagine raising five kids while doing that.

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What, if you could go back in time,

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what advice would you give your high school self or college,

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whichever age you feel like they needed the most?

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and, you know, just let things be.

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And yeah, and I think like, just,

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hey, you know what?

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Like my favorite quote is I'm not God.

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This is in heaven.

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Don't be a jerk.

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And I think I would definitely tell that to college Dave

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is that, hey, the world is not over.

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And there's such a thing as grace and repentance

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and forgiveness and just keep going.

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So good.

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So good.

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What is a bucket list item you would like to do

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with your future spirit mate?

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Oh yeah.

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I'd love to go on a cruise.

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I think that would be just so much fun.

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We went on one cruise with my family,

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but my brothers are all motion sick.

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And so I've always wanted to go back.

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So that's like a dream of mine is to just go on a cruise.

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And I also-

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You're either a cruise person or you're not.

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I thought I was not and my sister forced me on a few

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and I now love them.

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So yeah.

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Awesome.

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Do you have a particular place on a cruise you want to go

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or just anywhere?

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So I mentioned Alaska.

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That would be fun.

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And I really want to go on the month long cruise

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to the fjords.

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So there's a bunch of places that you can only really get to

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and also Svalbard in the Arctic.

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So that's a, you can only really get there by boat.

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So those are my goals.

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Again, it's snow.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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Okay.

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What character of God is really resonating with you lately?

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So like, you know, we know that God heals.

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We know that God is our provider.

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We know that he is the, you know,

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Jesus is the lion and the lamb.

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And so there's so many aspects of Jesus

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and there's so many aspects of the Holy Spirit.

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There's so many aspects of God, the father.

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So is there one that's like,

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I just need my daddy right now, right?

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I just need my, you know, like in different seasons

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of our life, there's an attribute of God

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that we're kind of hanging on to.

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So is there any one that's kind of hanging on

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for you right now?

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I think my biggest one is, I would say,

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is probably like God being Jehovah Jireh, my provider,

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and that God will provide no matter what.

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And so it always used to be El Roy.

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He's the God who sees me.

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Yeah.

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But during this season of last year single for this,

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you know, the six weeks that I've been in this course

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or seven weeks is that it's really been,

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I'm your provider and let me provide,

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and let me provide not just, you know,

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like physical, financially, but let me provide emotionally.

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Let me provide spiritually.

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Let me, give me all the burden

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that you're trying to solve yourself and let me provide.

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And that has been so humbling to just be like,

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oh, you already knew this.

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You've been with me the whole time

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that you're constantly with me, no matter what I do,

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no matter where I go, you're always with me.

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And even when I mess up, that's been.

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It's so humbling, like,

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because when I screw up or I do something stupid,

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I'm like, hey God, you're still there.

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You're still providing.

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You never left.

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You're still here.

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By the way, Dave, women are loving your answers.

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And so I, and I am too.

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And I did a good job giving you all the answers last night.

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I'm kidding.

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I did not, you guys.

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He is genuinely talking from the heart.

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Renee, you can't give our secrets away.

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That was a secret talk for many groups.

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You broke the rules.

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So tell us, what are you looking for?

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What are some characters, traits, things that are really,

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that are like, I really want these things

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in my spirit mate.

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Yeah, so for me, it's looking for someone

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who is lined up with the Lord.

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And that's your plan and your focus.

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And everyone says, I want a man or a woman

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who loves the Lord.

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But, and I'm not mocking that, but it's like, okay,

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this is everything.

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And raising a Christian family,

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I always thought missions had to be out.

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It wasn't in the home.

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And then I realized, hey, my parents were missionaries.

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They both were non-Christians and said,

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we want a Christian home.

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And God rescued them.

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And they raised my brothers and I to be Christians.

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And so I think that that is the mission field.

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And that's something.

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And I think my one caveat,

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and I don't really have like a list of no's or yes's.

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The only thing is, is that it's really important to me

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that me and my spirit mate would both be Canadian citizens

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or she would be willing to obtain Canadian citizenship.

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That's really important to me.

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Thank you for bringing that up.

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Because a few people asked that in the chat.

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And so you guys, and I've talked to Dave about this.

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And so it's not that Dave would not be willing

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to meet an American.

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If you're going to want to spend time in America,

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he wants y'all to have dual citizenship

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so that you can toggle back and forth.

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100%.

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Yep.

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And so hopefully that makes sense.

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So I don't know.

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I'm all about the dual citizenship.

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I'm going to try to get my Italian dual citizenship

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at some point.

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Okay.

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It'll open doors.

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And I love Americans.

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So this is not like, I love my American.

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Yes, do not be afraid to ask.

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Do not be afraid of that.

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I think it's so important.

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Okay.

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What do you think are green flags

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that first attract you to women?

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Like when you first meet her,

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whether it's the video call or the first date,

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what are the things that pop out to you?

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This is like to help educate the women

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that are on this call.

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Like if they're listening, kind of going,

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what do you notice first that really says,

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gosh, that's a green flag?

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I think for me, it's how they speak to me.

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Are you speaking with kindness and respect

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in a genuine way?

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Are you, yeah.

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Are you being genuine?

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And I think,

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because sometimes people can say things to manipulate,

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but they can also say things that are genuine and kind.

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And when someone just says something to me that's genuine,

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I'm like, oh, hey, that's a green flag.

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And I think also like having a good relationship

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with your parents, but how you're treating people.

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How are you talking about those in your family

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that you love,

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or even talking about people that have hurt you?

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I went on a date with somebody and she was so kind

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talking about people that had just really hurt her,

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but she'd done a lot of hard work

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and this person was able to really just talk so gracefully

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about a very difficult situation.

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So good, I love that.

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Okay, Dave, this is your chance to tell the community

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anything about yourself that I did not ask you about

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that you think is important to you.

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Yeah, so I love poetry and I actually prepared a poem.

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Is it okay if I read it?

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You asked me to.

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You guys, a poem, we got a poem, I love it.

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Okay, so, and I think one thing that I prepared too

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is that something that I really learned in this course

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is that journaling is really hard for me

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to write down what I'm feeling and my emotions

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and to actually keep a record of it

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because in the past, when I was in high school,

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people would steal my journal or my poems

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and they would read it.

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And it's kind of like, if you've watched Lizzie McGuire

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and if you're in my demographic, you'd understand,

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but like there's this episode

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where someone steals Lizzie McGuire's notebook

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and she reads it to Ethan, her crash,

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or same with Boy Meets World.

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There's an episode where Topanga's crashed,

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Eric reads the letter or Saved by the Bell.

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So that happened to me a lot.

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And one of the biggest things,

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actually my first week I didn't,

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I did all the journaling, but I would delete them.

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And then the Lord said, you need to start keeping these.

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And so the fact that I actually was willing

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to actually start writing,

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and then it was kind of like the Lord's like,

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here's your voice again.

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So here's your inner child, here's your voice,

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it's coming back.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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All right.

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So this is called Night Forage by Bertie Carroll,

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which is my pen name.

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At dusk we forage to dodge the heat of month's end.

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Raspberries on the edge of the path.

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For my nephews, they have a fondness of berries.

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Using them as water goblets.

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A rustling of branches.

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Fear startles me to scream.

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A skunk.

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a dance growling we forge in solitude keeping our distance we are not friends not acquaintances

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overhead a full moon before us a skunk's white belly stained red we sink into the bleakness of

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dark mixed with moonlight wow okay so on your first date with one of these ladies that's going

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to be out with you you're gonna have to explain all of that that is amazing i know i mean the

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greenest of flags nina's like he knows lizzie mcguire boy meets world i mean i'm just saying

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boy meets world is the best show okay so somebody asked what your age range was you're 33

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so is there a minus in your age that you are willing to go i'm so glad they asked that because

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i was like oh that's the one thing i didn't answer i was nervous so i'm not sure i asked you anyway

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so you're all good um so i think for me um my family's all older and so uh that's important

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to me and so i think like around my age like 33 maybe a couple years younger but really like 33

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or like 10 years but i don't really have an age range to be honest but i think around that 10

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10 years it's kind of like perfect i think it's fair but i mean if you're the right person

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you're the right person so that's what matters uh and also with with kids you know what like

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my family we have the motto of hey you know what there's lots of little guys so if you have a

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little guy they're gonna fit right in so that is not at all a deal breaker for me um

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or my family and you know i love it yeah well david it was so much fun um with you tonight and

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i'm gonna pass the baton to the next person but collie thank you so much ladies um if you are

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interested in just getting to know david when you email the email at admin at jackiedorman.com

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you want to make sure that you have a close-up photo of you a full-length photo of you and give

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us a little bit of information about yourself same thing just to make sure um that you're a good match

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and david will review hopefully review those with um i'm not sure who this person is that

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takes care of that but bam all right david thank you so much i really appreciate it

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okie dokie now he was so good y'all all right spencer are you still here and that phil are you

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here let's see i want to make sure i'm scrolling look at all you got all the hearts y'all i mean

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all right i don't see phil spencer are you still here yeah can you hear me yeah i can but i got to

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find you on here so i could highlight you there we go let's see spotlight for everyone i'm getting

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so proud of myself that i'm learning how to do this all right so yeah can you hear me i can hear

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you perfectly perfect okay so spencer um you kind of have the upper hand a little bit because you

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kind of heard some of those questions so um it might help you you know um answer them so are

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you ready the first question is you get a chance to just spend a couple minutes telling us a little

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bit about yourself you want to give us your name your age where you live do you have kids do you

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want kids um what do you do for a living can you relocate and then what's one thing about you that

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you are most proud of about yourself so you got four opening two minutes sounds good to me um

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if i miss any questions please uh rephrase them just let me know that i missed some and just uh

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just kind of keep me in the loop if you can i appreciate i i'm i'm one of those i have to i have

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to read lips while uh doing a video call am i okay oh i can i can i can see you great my roommate

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used to be that my roommate was deaf i had a deaf roommate and he used to have to read my lips so i

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tried to remember to look at you when i'm talking that that's perfect okay um good evening my name

485
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is spencer um i am 47 years old i live in a little small town southwest of dallas texas

486
00:24:09.360 --> 00:24:18.640
his actual name is venus texas there is a venus texas um which is actually the tv capital of

487
00:24:18.640 --> 00:24:26.080
johnson county um it's a little town uh county south of fort worth uh we've had like major tv

488
00:24:26.080 --> 00:24:34.080
shows and even movies made here in this little small town uh yellowstone actually was uh here

489
00:24:34.080 --> 00:24:40.640
about i think two three years ago very cool anyways yeah anyway so um

490
00:24:43.200 --> 00:24:48.080
now i'm getting lost in trying to thought um can you give me some questions no no okay so

491
00:24:48.080 --> 00:24:56.080
you told us how you uh where you live what do you do for a living yes i um i am a facility

492
00:24:56.080 --> 00:24:59.920
technician which we basically working in maintenance at the federal

493
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:01.360
Reserve Bank of Dallas.

494
00:25:02.720 --> 00:25:03.560
Okay, awesome.

495
00:25:04.480 --> 00:25:06.320
Great, now, so you're in Dallas,

496
00:25:06.320 --> 00:25:08.880
and are you stuck in Dallas?

497
00:25:08.880 --> 00:25:13.800
Would you be willing to relocate, date long distance?

498
00:25:13.800 --> 00:25:15.120
How open to that?

499
00:25:15.120 --> 00:25:20.120
I could relocate somewhere within Texas.

500
00:25:22.640 --> 00:25:26.160
My biggest hangup, and this probably gonna have to be,

501
00:25:26.160 --> 00:25:28.760
if I was, quote, quote, was to relocate,

502
00:25:30.080 --> 00:25:32.840
because of my hearing disability,

503
00:25:34.200 --> 00:25:37.960
I've been able to gain access to so many programs

504
00:25:37.960 --> 00:25:40.920
that help me with my disability,

505
00:25:40.920 --> 00:25:43.200
and that's the reason why I stay in state

506
00:25:43.200 --> 00:25:46.240
in which I'm originally from, Oklahoma,

507
00:25:46.240 --> 00:25:51.240
but Texas is much more disability-friendly

508
00:25:52.080 --> 00:25:54.600
than most other states that I'm aware of.

509
00:25:54.600 --> 00:25:58.160
So that's another reason why I choose to live in Texas,

510
00:25:58.160 --> 00:26:01.200
because of those support for disability people.

511
00:26:01.200 --> 00:26:03.480
Great, now, do you also sign?

512
00:26:04.840 --> 00:26:07.520
Very little, not a whole lot.

513
00:26:07.520 --> 00:26:09.600
I did take a college class in that.

514
00:26:11.600 --> 00:26:13.680
Funny story, I should mention that,

515
00:26:13.680 --> 00:26:16.960
because I actually took that college class twice.

516
00:26:18.440 --> 00:26:21.040
So the deaf guy failed the ASL test?

517
00:26:21.040 --> 00:26:21.880
I'm just kidding.

518
00:26:21.880 --> 00:26:25.080
Yeah, because I was too lazy.

519
00:26:25.480 --> 00:26:27.040
Really?

520
00:26:27.040 --> 00:26:28.320
Well, here's what that tells me.

521
00:26:28.320 --> 00:26:30.840
So ladies, like, don't be intimidated by it.

522
00:26:30.840 --> 00:26:35.080
Like, it is possible to be in relationship with somebody,

523
00:26:35.080 --> 00:26:38.000
and obviously, Spencer doesn't even sign,

524
00:26:38.000 --> 00:26:40.600
so he can communicate just okay,

525
00:26:40.600 --> 00:26:43.440
and I feel like technology has moved so fast.

526
00:26:43.440 --> 00:26:45.760
So ladies, if you ever are trying to date men

527
00:26:45.760 --> 00:26:48.680
and they don't wanna get on camera and see you in person,

528
00:26:48.680 --> 00:26:50.400
here's a great guy that's never gonna wanna

529
00:26:50.400 --> 00:26:51.440
just text with you,

530
00:26:51.440 --> 00:26:53.920
and he's always gonna wanna be able to see you.

531
00:26:53.920 --> 00:26:55.600
Okay, do you have kids?

532
00:26:55.600 --> 00:26:57.040
Do you want kids?

533
00:26:59.760 --> 00:27:03.240
If the opportunity is there, yes.

534
00:27:03.240 --> 00:27:04.200
Here's the deal.

535
00:27:05.640 --> 00:27:10.200
Bottom line, I truly want to meet my best friend.

536
00:27:10.200 --> 00:27:13.840
That is my heart's desire,

537
00:27:13.840 --> 00:27:18.280
is to really be with my best friend.

538
00:27:18.280 --> 00:27:19.760
If she's a little older,

539
00:27:19.760 --> 00:27:22.760
and, you know, from an age perspective,

540
00:27:22.760 --> 00:27:25.080
can't have kids, that's okay.

541
00:27:25.080 --> 00:27:27.720
If she's younger and she wants kids,

542
00:27:27.720 --> 00:27:28.720
that'd be great too.

543
00:27:28.720 --> 00:27:33.360
So I'm kind of open both ways.

544
00:27:33.360 --> 00:27:34.200
Love it.

545
00:27:34.200 --> 00:27:35.040
I love it so much.

546
00:27:35.040 --> 00:27:35.880
That's awesome.

547
00:27:35.880 --> 00:27:38.240
Okay, Phil, somebody just asked,

548
00:27:38.240 --> 00:27:39.280
can you tell us your age again?

549
00:27:39.280 --> 00:27:40.560
I think I forgot.

550
00:27:42.280 --> 00:27:43.120
Your age again?

551
00:27:44.240 --> 00:27:45.080
Your age?

552
00:27:46.280 --> 00:27:48.120
Oh, my age is 47.

553
00:27:48.120 --> 00:27:49.520
I thought you said 47.

554
00:27:50.320 --> 00:27:52.720
You look so young for your age.

555
00:27:52.720 --> 00:27:54.760
No, I'm not even gonna say for your age.

556
00:27:54.760 --> 00:27:56.000
You look young.

557
00:27:56.000 --> 00:27:58.080
I'm gonna go full on with the compliment.

558
00:27:58.080 --> 00:28:01.120
Okay, so are you ready for the fast questions,

559
00:28:01.120 --> 00:28:02.840
the short answer?

560
00:28:02.840 --> 00:28:03.800
Let's do that.

561
00:28:03.800 --> 00:28:05.840
Okay, so do you have a cat, a dog?

562
00:28:05.840 --> 00:28:06.920
Do you not like pets?

563
00:28:06.920 --> 00:28:08.400
Are you okay with pets?

564
00:28:10.920 --> 00:28:14.200
Well, personally, I live in town,

565
00:28:14.200 --> 00:28:18.520
and where I live, I cannot have animals,

566
00:28:18.520 --> 00:28:23.480
but I do have some animals at my parents' place.

567
00:28:23.480 --> 00:28:25.920
I have two horses of my own

568
00:28:25.920 --> 00:28:30.080
that I keep with my dad's horses.

569
00:28:30.080 --> 00:28:33.880
They sit on about 20 acres of grass,

570
00:28:33.880 --> 00:28:35.960
and they eat grass all day,

571
00:28:35.960 --> 00:28:37.600
and I sometimes ride them.

572
00:28:39.200 --> 00:28:40.840
We have some barn cats.

573
00:28:42.760 --> 00:28:46.400
I know today is quote, quote, National Dog Day,

574
00:28:47.360 --> 00:28:49.760
but about a year and a half ago,

575
00:28:50.840 --> 00:28:53.320
I did have a dog, but he was,

576
00:28:53.320 --> 00:28:54.960
unfortunately, passed away.

577
00:28:56.680 --> 00:28:57.520
Okay, great.

578
00:28:57.520 --> 00:28:58.720
Well, obviously, you know I have a dog

579
00:28:58.720 --> 00:29:00.280
since my dog decided to just speak up.

580
00:29:00.280 --> 00:29:01.280
I love dogs.

581
00:29:01.280 --> 00:29:03.600
I mean, I'll tell you what, I love dogs.

582
00:29:03.600 --> 00:29:05.080
That's awesome, and you love horses,

583
00:29:05.080 --> 00:29:06.200
so that's even better.

584
00:29:06.200 --> 00:29:07.960
Okay, besides water,

585
00:29:07.960 --> 00:29:10.640
what is a beverage you most reach for?

586
00:29:12.280 --> 00:29:13.840
Unsweet tea, actually.

587
00:29:13.840 --> 00:29:16.240
Unsweet tea, okay, I love it.

588
00:29:17.040 --> 00:29:19.800
I grew up in the South, so that didn't surprise me.

589
00:29:19.800 --> 00:29:21.640
Okay, do you have a nickname?

590
00:29:22.720 --> 00:29:23.800
Actually, I do.

591
00:29:25.760 --> 00:29:29.600
My dad always, since my name is Spencer,

592
00:29:29.600 --> 00:29:33.160
and I always was very fast as a young man,

593
00:29:33.160 --> 00:29:36.160
he always called me Spinner Man.

594
00:29:36.160 --> 00:29:38.920
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, I love it.

595
00:29:38.920 --> 00:29:40.840
You know, spin like a top, you know.

596
00:29:40.840 --> 00:29:43.880
I was always very active and very quick.

597
00:29:43.880 --> 00:29:45.640
I love it, I love it.

598
00:29:46.040 --> 00:29:48.520
Okay, do you make your bed every day?

599
00:29:50.720 --> 00:29:51.560
I do.

600
00:29:51.560 --> 00:29:52.400
Let them know, ladies.

601
00:29:52.400 --> 00:29:53.880
I do, I do.

602
00:29:53.880 --> 00:29:54.720
No.

603
00:29:56.760 --> 00:29:58.760
Because sometimes, sometimes I'm awake at night.

604
00:29:58.760 --> 00:30:00.080
No shame in this game, Spencer.

605
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.680
I'll wake up like a bear coming out of hibernation.

606
00:30:03.680 --> 00:30:06.400
I need my coffee as soon as I wake up.

607
00:30:07.280 --> 00:30:08.320
Dude, I'm with you.

608
00:30:08.320 --> 00:30:10.320
It's the first thing I do.

609
00:30:10.320 --> 00:30:11.880
I'm with you.

610
00:30:11.880 --> 00:30:14.720
Okay, do you squeeze the toothpaste from the middle

611
00:30:14.720 --> 00:30:17.400
or do you gently roll it up from the bottom?

612
00:30:17.400 --> 00:30:19.040
I gently roll it up.

613
00:30:19.040 --> 00:30:20.960
I love it.

614
00:30:20.960 --> 00:30:21.800
Okay.

615
00:30:21.800 --> 00:30:25.280
I got, the toothpaste I got is actually very good.

616
00:30:25.280 --> 00:30:27.640
It's a little more on the expensive side.

617
00:30:27.640 --> 00:30:30.240
It's more of a natural type toothpaste.

618
00:30:30.240 --> 00:30:34.240
So I try to squeeze every cent I have.

619
00:30:34.240 --> 00:30:35.080
I love it.

620
00:30:35.080 --> 00:30:35.920
I love it.

621
00:30:35.920 --> 00:30:36.760
That's awesome.

622
00:30:36.760 --> 00:30:38.120
Okay, do you leave dishes in the sink

623
00:30:38.120 --> 00:30:40.640
or do you fill up the dishwasher right away?

624
00:30:40.640 --> 00:30:42.040
I fill up the dishwasher.

625
00:30:42.040 --> 00:30:43.240
I better fill up that dishwasher.

626
00:30:43.240 --> 00:30:46.520
Ladies, he makes his bed after he gets his coffee.

627
00:30:46.520 --> 00:30:49.040
He rolls up the toilet, the toothpaste nicely

628
00:30:49.040 --> 00:30:50.160
and he puts his dishes away.

629
00:30:50.160 --> 00:30:51.000
Love it.

630
00:30:51.000 --> 00:30:53.760
Okay, if you could have a super power, what would it be?

631
00:30:55.520 --> 00:30:56.360
Huh.

632
00:30:58.640 --> 00:31:03.640
Actually, I would love to make sure that everybody is fed.

633
00:31:04.120 --> 00:31:04.960
Is what?

634
00:31:04.960 --> 00:31:06.720
No, everybody, you know, every, you know,

635
00:31:06.720 --> 00:31:08.480
people all around the world, you know,

636
00:31:08.480 --> 00:31:11.880
we got world hunger and, you know, people across the world.

637
00:31:11.880 --> 00:31:12.720
I love it.

638
00:31:12.720 --> 00:31:16.080
You know, you can't function without, you know,

639
00:31:16.080 --> 00:31:18.040
some food in your belly.

640
00:31:18.040 --> 00:31:18.880
I love it.

641
00:31:18.880 --> 00:31:19.720
That's awesome.

642
00:31:19.720 --> 00:31:20.560
Like two for two.

643
00:31:20.560 --> 00:31:22.560
You guys tonight, are you hearing these men

644
00:31:22.560 --> 00:31:24.760
like wanting to do these good things?

645
00:31:24.760 --> 00:31:27.120
And I'm the, you know, I'm like the selfish girl

646
00:31:27.120 --> 00:31:28.720
that just wanted to learn how to fly.

647
00:31:28.720 --> 00:31:29.680
All right.

648
00:31:29.680 --> 00:31:33.560
If you're going on vacation, where would you prefer to go?

649
00:31:33.560 --> 00:31:38.560
The beach, the mountains, like hiking, skiing, snow,

650
00:31:39.040 --> 00:31:41.720
or like a tour of a city or something?

651
00:31:41.720 --> 00:31:44.200
Like lots of sightseeing and tourism.

652
00:31:44.200 --> 00:31:47.880
Well, I have toured lots of cities.

653
00:31:47.880 --> 00:31:52.360
So beaches and mountains are kind of not,

654
00:31:52.800 --> 00:31:57.800
those are places I haven't gotten to be a whole lot.

655
00:31:58.680 --> 00:32:00.520
I haven't gotten to see a whole lot.

656
00:32:00.520 --> 00:32:03.680
Well, you gotta understand here in Texas,

657
00:32:03.680 --> 00:32:05.240
we don't have mountains.

658
00:32:05.240 --> 00:32:08.240
Now we got beaches, but they're about five hours away.

659
00:32:08.240 --> 00:32:09.360
Yeah.

660
00:32:09.360 --> 00:32:10.400
Yeah, you sure don't.

661
00:32:10.400 --> 00:32:11.320
You sure don't.

662
00:32:11.320 --> 00:32:13.120
It's a big state too.

663
00:32:13.120 --> 00:32:14.320
Okay.

664
00:32:14.320 --> 00:32:16.520
If you were going to a potluck,

665
00:32:16.520 --> 00:32:19.400
what item would you bring to the potluck?

666
00:32:20.560 --> 00:32:22.040
Y'all gonna love this.

667
00:32:22.720 --> 00:32:27.720
I'm gonna bring a whole dish of bacon-wrapped jalapenos.

668
00:32:29.360 --> 00:32:30.200
Woo-hoo!

669
00:32:30.200 --> 00:32:31.040
I like that.

670
00:32:31.040 --> 00:32:33.120
I make the best bacon-wrapped jalapenos,

671
00:32:33.120 --> 00:32:34.360
I'm telling you.

672
00:32:34.360 --> 00:32:36.280
Nice, I believe you.

673
00:32:36.280 --> 00:32:38.680
And I think you should mail some to Nashville, Tennessee.

674
00:32:38.680 --> 00:32:41.880
I'm just saying, I'd be happy to test it for you.

675
00:32:41.880 --> 00:32:43.080
Okay, those are awesome.

676
00:32:43.080 --> 00:32:44.240
All right, those were the fun questions.

677
00:32:44.240 --> 00:32:46.760
Are you ready for me to get more serious?

678
00:32:46.760 --> 00:32:47.600
Sure.

679
00:32:47.600 --> 00:32:49.240
Okay.

680
00:32:49.240 --> 00:32:52.320
Share us a part of your story that you're most proud of.

681
00:32:53.960 --> 00:32:55.720
I am actually most proud of

682
00:32:57.400 --> 00:33:01.880
overcoming other people's opinions about me in my past.

683
00:33:03.040 --> 00:33:05.640
I used to, as a young man,

684
00:33:05.640 --> 00:33:08.520
if somebody said something wrong

685
00:33:08.520 --> 00:33:11.640
or said something mean or hurtful

686
00:33:11.640 --> 00:33:13.400
or something along that line,

687
00:33:13.400 --> 00:33:16.160
I would just, you know, take offense to that.

688
00:33:16.760 --> 00:33:20.760
But I have learned to grow up and grow past it,

689
00:33:20.760 --> 00:33:22.720
and I had to realize that

690
00:33:22.720 --> 00:33:25.560
those were other people's opinions about me.

691
00:33:25.560 --> 00:33:27.600
They didn't walk a mile on my shoes

692
00:33:27.600 --> 00:33:29.560
and they never asked me questions

693
00:33:29.560 --> 00:33:34.560
about why they ever thought that way.

694
00:33:34.760 --> 00:33:37.880
And the way I look at it now is

695
00:33:39.680 --> 00:33:41.760
everybody has their own opinions.

696
00:33:41.760 --> 00:33:44.000
I got my own opinions as well,

697
00:33:44.760 --> 00:33:47.680
just because somebody else's opinion,

698
00:33:48.520 --> 00:33:52.320
what they said, what they think is true,

699
00:33:53.240 --> 00:33:55.720
99% of the time, it's not true.

700
00:33:56.600 --> 00:34:01.600
So we should take emotions out of

701
00:34:01.600 --> 00:34:06.600
what everybody says because I think it's human nature

702
00:34:06.640 --> 00:34:11.639
to try to see what everybody else

703
00:34:12.080 --> 00:34:14.719
is really saying about us.

704
00:34:14.719 --> 00:34:17.920
And, but there are just some people in this world

705
00:34:17.920 --> 00:34:20.600
that just got different opinions than others,

706
00:34:20.600 --> 00:34:22.400
and that's just the way it is.

707
00:34:22.400 --> 00:34:25.960
And we can't live, our life is too short

708
00:34:25.960 --> 00:34:28.120
to live for other people's opinions.

709
00:34:29.080 --> 00:34:30.239
I love it, I love it.

710
00:34:30.239 --> 00:34:32.719
That's so good, that's so good.

711
00:34:32.719 --> 00:34:35.199
Okay, so what do your friends currently say

712
00:34:35.199 --> 00:34:36.880
they love most about you?

713
00:34:38.320 --> 00:34:39.719
Repeat that one more time.

714
00:34:39.760 --> 00:34:43.440
Yeah, what do your friends say they love most about you?

715
00:34:44.800 --> 00:34:49.800
That I'm friendly, I'm kind, I listen, understanding.

716
00:34:51.600 --> 00:34:54.040
A lot of them will tell you that,

717
00:34:54.040 --> 00:34:57.320
I will listen to everything they have to say

718
00:34:57.320 --> 00:35:00.000
before I say something back.

719
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.280
or I respond or reply,

720
00:35:02.280 --> 00:35:06.120
that I really think deeply about what is being said

721
00:35:06.120 --> 00:35:08.560
and then consider what they're talking about

722
00:35:08.560 --> 00:35:12.400
and then respond in kind what they need to hear.

723
00:35:12.400 --> 00:35:14.280
Love it, I love it, that's so good.

724
00:35:14.280 --> 00:35:16.480
Spencer, people are really enjoying your answers,

725
00:35:16.480 --> 00:35:18.880
by the way, so you don't have time to read it,

726
00:35:18.880 --> 00:35:21.120
but I'm just gonna let you know I can see it.

727
00:35:21.120 --> 00:35:23.360
Okay, so what is one thing

728
00:35:23.360 --> 00:35:25.680
you wish more people knew about you?

729
00:35:26.720 --> 00:35:28.840
Well, I'm glad you said that,

730
00:35:28.880 --> 00:35:33.360
because I am an author.

731
00:35:35.480 --> 00:35:36.680
What?

732
00:35:36.680 --> 00:35:39.720
I love it, tell us about that book.

733
00:35:40.600 --> 00:35:45.600
Yeah, so basically that book happens to talk

734
00:35:45.800 --> 00:35:50.800
about how to overcome depression and suicidal thoughts.

735
00:35:50.800 --> 00:35:53.960
As a young man, I struggled with that

736
00:35:53.960 --> 00:35:57.960
and I know there are too many people today

737
00:35:57.960 --> 00:36:00.800
deal with depression and suicidal thoughts,

738
00:36:00.800 --> 00:36:02.600
even at this moment,

739
00:36:02.600 --> 00:36:05.400
and I wish I could just reach out to them and say,

740
00:36:05.400 --> 00:36:10.240
hey, I've been in your shoes, I know how it feels.

741
00:36:10.240 --> 00:36:12.560
I know how it feels to feel hopeless.

742
00:36:14.120 --> 00:36:18.240
It doesn't have to be, you don't have to end it.

743
00:36:18.240 --> 00:36:19.080
You don't have to end it,

744
00:36:19.080 --> 00:36:22.320
because I'm a walking testimony because of that.

745
00:36:23.440 --> 00:36:24.480
I love that, Spencer.

746
00:36:24.480 --> 00:36:26.920
I feel like you brought it up and Dave brought it up

747
00:36:26.920 --> 00:36:28.240
and I've always shared with folks,

748
00:36:28.240 --> 00:36:32.200
I have a Celtic Trinity sign and I put it on my wrist

749
00:36:32.200 --> 00:36:36.200
after one of my high school friends committed suicide.

750
00:36:36.200 --> 00:36:38.680
And I have struggled with depression

751
00:36:38.680 --> 00:36:40.280
and the dark night of the soul.

752
00:36:40.280 --> 00:36:42.680
And I have talked about that

753
00:36:42.680 --> 00:36:44.840
and I think we need to continue to talk about it.

754
00:36:44.840 --> 00:36:46.640
So thank you for being honest about that,

755
00:36:46.640 --> 00:36:48.520
I really appreciate it.

756
00:36:48.520 --> 00:36:51.400
Okay, if you could go back to high school,

757
00:36:51.400 --> 00:36:53.880
what would you tell your high school self?

758
00:36:54.720 --> 00:36:57.800
Basically two things, I'd tell him,

759
00:36:57.800 --> 00:37:00.960
number one, you don't have to stay where you're at.

760
00:37:03.240 --> 00:37:06.240
There is an old line that says, go West, young man.

761
00:37:06.240 --> 00:37:08.640
I'd tell him, go East, young man.

762
00:37:10.360 --> 00:37:14.800
That's where you'll be living, going East.

763
00:37:14.800 --> 00:37:16.360
And number two,

764
00:37:20.280 --> 00:37:22.280
find you some mentors.

765
00:37:22.320 --> 00:37:23.840
Find you some mentors.

766
00:37:23.840 --> 00:37:28.840
Find you some godly, good, Christian-centered men

767
00:37:29.880 --> 00:37:32.320
who can help you because you can't be a Christian

768
00:37:32.320 --> 00:37:33.920
by yourself.

769
00:37:33.920 --> 00:37:36.000
So good, so, so good, I love it.

770
00:37:36.000 --> 00:37:38.960
Okay, somebody just asked, can you put your book back up

771
00:37:38.960 --> 00:37:40.600
so we can see the title of your book?

772
00:37:40.600 --> 00:37:42.080
What's the title of your book?

773
00:37:43.760 --> 00:37:45.080
What is the title of your book?

774
00:37:45.080 --> 00:37:46.400
Oh, sure, sure.

775
00:37:47.520 --> 00:37:50.800
The title of my book is called Sunshine in the Window.

776
00:37:51.200 --> 00:37:53.720
It's not in print anymore, but.

777
00:37:53.720 --> 00:37:54.920
There you go, I love it.

778
00:37:54.920 --> 00:37:56.840
Thank you so much, I appreciate that.

779
00:37:56.840 --> 00:38:00.080
Okay, what is a bucket list item

780
00:38:00.080 --> 00:38:02.840
that you want to share with your future wife?

781
00:38:02.840 --> 00:38:06.320
Oh, wow, there's so many of them.

782
00:38:16.600 --> 00:38:19.440
Exploring a new country together.

783
00:38:21.800 --> 00:38:23.960
I love that, I love that, so good.

784
00:38:23.960 --> 00:38:25.360
That's so fun to answer.

785
00:38:25.360 --> 00:38:30.360
Okay, all right, what character of God right now

786
00:38:30.680 --> 00:38:32.320
is really resonating with you?

787
00:38:32.320 --> 00:38:35.680
There's so many characters of either God the Father,

788
00:38:35.680 --> 00:38:38.800
Son, Spirit, and at different season of our lives,

789
00:38:38.800 --> 00:38:41.240
we gravitate towards a part of Him.

790
00:38:41.240 --> 00:38:43.400
What part is really grabbing you right now?

791
00:38:45.520 --> 00:38:46.360
God.

792
00:38:51.440 --> 00:38:55.120
Getting a little emotional right now.

793
00:38:57.840 --> 00:39:00.240
God's faithfulness through tough times.

794
00:39:09.360 --> 00:39:10.960
Best way I can describe it,

795
00:39:10.960 --> 00:39:14.960
you know, I've had some tough times recently.

796
00:39:16.880 --> 00:39:18.400
I've had some tough times recently,

797
00:39:18.440 --> 00:39:23.440
but He's showing me that He is faithful, He is faithful.

798
00:39:30.760 --> 00:39:33.320
Love it, okay, I'm giving you a big virtual hug right now,

799
00:39:33.320 --> 00:39:36.320
as are many women, I'm sure, listening to you right now.

800
00:39:36.320 --> 00:39:40.600
God is faithful, and He has taken all of us through stuff.

801
00:39:40.600 --> 00:39:41.440
So thank you, Spencer,

802
00:39:41.440 --> 00:39:43.360
thank you for sharing your heart with us.

803
00:39:43.360 --> 00:39:47.720
I really, okay, what are you looking for

804
00:39:47.760 --> 00:39:49.960
in your spirit mate, besides best friend,

805
00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:51.880
because I heard you say that earlier,

806
00:39:51.880 --> 00:39:54.560
what other qualities are you hoping she has?

807
00:39:56.320 --> 00:39:57.160
Qualities.

808
00:39:59.520 --> 00:40:00.360
I love a woman.

809
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.920
When they're sweet, sweet-spirited, she's approachable,

810
00:40:04.920 --> 00:40:08.980
but she's also an industrious person, a hard-working person.

811
00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:12.480
I'm a hard-working guy myself,

812
00:40:12.480 --> 00:40:17.400
and I just, the energy of a hard-working woman,

813
00:40:17.400 --> 00:40:20.800
it just, you know, it just resonates with me.

814
00:40:20.800 --> 00:40:23.560
And, you know, it just, you know,

815
00:40:23.560 --> 00:40:27.720
it encourages me to do my best

816
00:40:27.720 --> 00:40:29.620
and to work as hard as I can.

817
00:40:29.620 --> 00:40:32.580
And I just hope that the energy that, you know,

818
00:40:32.580 --> 00:40:34.900
she gives me, I can give back to her.

819
00:40:34.900 --> 00:40:36.340
It's just like a ping-pong effect,

820
00:40:36.340 --> 00:40:39.100
and I just hope that just continues.

821
00:40:39.100 --> 00:40:41.100
Awesome, okay, so while I'm asking you

822
00:40:41.100 --> 00:40:42.700
about your spirit mate,

823
00:40:42.700 --> 00:40:46.780
do you have an age range of what you're looking for?

824
00:40:46.780 --> 00:40:47.900
Do you care?

825
00:40:47.900 --> 00:40:51.620
Um, from the youngest I can,

826
00:40:51.620 --> 00:40:54.700
youngest, you know, woman I would take,

827
00:40:54.700 --> 00:40:59.220
it'd probably be about 33 and up to,

828
00:40:59.820 --> 00:41:03.980
I'm going to say 48-ish, so.

829
00:41:03.980 --> 00:41:06.180
Okay, I'm going to encourage you, Spencer,

830
00:41:06.180 --> 00:41:09.180
if there is a 49, because you're 47,

831
00:41:09.180 --> 00:41:14.180
so if there's a 49 to 52-year-old fabulous fit woman,

832
00:41:15.580 --> 00:41:17.500
like, look, I'm 57.

833
00:41:17.500 --> 00:41:19.660
Some of us look really good for our age.

834
00:41:19.660 --> 00:41:22.440
So I'm going to encourage you to be open.

835
00:41:22.440 --> 00:41:24.860
So ladies, if you match his season of life

836
00:41:24.860 --> 00:41:27.980
and his age range, you know, be willing to go.

837
00:41:28.020 --> 00:41:30.020
But, you know, if you're amazing and fabulous

838
00:41:30.020 --> 00:41:31.540
and you're a couple of years older than him,

839
00:41:31.540 --> 00:41:33.700
I'm going to encourage Spencer to be a little bit open

840
00:41:33.700 --> 00:41:35.980
to that possibility, right?

841
00:41:35.980 --> 00:41:38.380
Exactly, I definitely, you know,

842
00:41:38.380 --> 00:41:40.860
if she, you know, got all the qualities I'm looking for,

843
00:41:40.860 --> 00:41:43.500
but she's 52, I'm all for it.

844
00:41:43.500 --> 00:41:46.100
Perfect, all right, that's what I like to hear.

845
00:41:46.100 --> 00:41:51.100
Okay, if you could give advice to the ladies here

846
00:41:52.860 --> 00:41:55.300
in her dating pursuit,

847
00:41:55.300 --> 00:41:57.900
what would you like to say to her to encourage her?

848
00:41:59.020 --> 00:42:03.100
Never settle, never settle for just any guy.

849
00:42:03.100 --> 00:42:07.660
Just make sure you know what you want and go for it.

850
00:42:07.660 --> 00:42:10.260
I love that, I love that, that's so awesome.

851
00:42:10.260 --> 00:42:13.860
Is there anything about yourself that I did not ask you

852
00:42:13.860 --> 00:42:16.380
that you want to share with everybody here?

853
00:42:21.180 --> 00:42:23.900
I know you didn't ask, but I can tell you one thing,

854
00:42:23.900 --> 00:42:27.780
I'm looking forward to going on plenty of road trips.

855
00:42:27.780 --> 00:42:31.500
Plenty of road trips, I love that, I love that.

856
00:42:33.300 --> 00:42:36.140
Okay, so somebody just asked

857
00:42:36.140 --> 00:42:38.740
if you are into health eating, right?

858
00:42:38.740 --> 00:42:41.140
So where are you, like, do you eat pretty good?

859
00:42:41.140 --> 00:42:44.940
You look like you work out, do you work out a little bit?

860
00:42:45.940 --> 00:42:47.660
As a matter of fact, I do,

861
00:42:47.660 --> 00:42:50.860
and as a matter of fact, after this call,

862
00:42:50.860 --> 00:42:53.020
I am headed to go work out.

863
00:42:53.060 --> 00:42:55.740
All right, I love that, get it, get it.

864
00:42:55.740 --> 00:43:00.740
Okay, so ladies, you've met so far two incredible men.

865
00:43:01.100 --> 00:43:04.500
Aaron corrected me, so I think Aaron and Cheryl,

866
00:43:04.500 --> 00:43:06.420
if you guys can put the correct email,

867
00:43:06.420 --> 00:43:08.980
I forgot there's a spotlight email

868
00:43:08.980 --> 00:43:12.900
if you want to get to know any of these two men.

869
00:43:12.900 --> 00:43:15.620
All right, Spencer, it was so fun getting to know you.

870
00:43:15.620 --> 00:43:19.500
I hope a lot of women reach out to you

871
00:43:19.500 --> 00:43:22.180
or reach out for somebody that they want you to meet,

872
00:43:22.180 --> 00:43:24.540
no matter what, stay in this program,

873
00:43:24.540 --> 00:43:26.060
get with the community,

874
00:43:26.060 --> 00:43:27.460
there's a lot of great people in here,

875
00:43:27.460 --> 00:43:29.500
and we loved having you tonight.

876
00:43:30.500 --> 00:43:32.020
But stay on.

877
00:43:32.020 --> 00:43:34.140
It's been a pleasure talking to you,

878
00:43:34.140 --> 00:43:38.700
it's been a pleasure to introduce myself to everybody here.

879
00:43:38.700 --> 00:43:39.540
And it's-

880
00:43:39.540 --> 00:43:42.100
Also, Spencer, after you get off talking,

881
00:43:42.100 --> 00:43:44.620
you can look at the chat and see all the nice things

882
00:43:44.620 --> 00:43:46.660
that people have been saying to you, okay?

883
00:43:46.660 --> 00:43:48.420
Okay, okay.

884
00:43:48.420 --> 00:43:51.740
All right, I've got to find my buddy now,

885
00:43:52.260 --> 00:43:53.100
where are you?

886
00:43:58.380 --> 00:43:59.660
Where'd you go?

887
00:44:00.860 --> 00:44:05.020
Oh, Tim, did Cheryl hook you up for me?

888
00:44:05.020 --> 00:44:06.940
Cheryl, did you take care of it for me?

889
00:44:06.940 --> 00:44:08.460
She's so good.

890
00:44:08.460 --> 00:44:09.700
Look how good you look.

891
00:44:09.700 --> 00:44:11.780
I love you in your little button-down shirt,

892
00:44:11.780 --> 00:44:14.180
you're looking good tonight, okay.

893
00:44:15.100 --> 00:44:17.500
It was your coaching that helped, you know.

894
00:44:17.700 --> 00:44:21.660
Y'all, I gave the men some tips last night,

895
00:44:21.660 --> 00:44:24.500
I'm like, you did perfect.

896
00:44:24.500 --> 00:44:26.140
Although I am in the car, you know,

897
00:44:26.140 --> 00:44:27.500
I don't need the car.

898
00:44:28.860 --> 00:44:29.700
Whenever.

899
00:44:29.700 --> 00:44:32.300
All right, hold on, I gotta mute somebody

900
00:44:32.300 --> 00:44:35.700
who is not muted, there we go.

901
00:44:35.700 --> 00:44:37.500
Okay, sorry about that.

902
00:44:38.820 --> 00:44:40.100
Wait, did I just mute you?

903
00:44:40.100 --> 00:44:41.580
Wait, I just muted you.

904
00:44:41.580 --> 00:44:45.140
Hold on, crap, I just muted you, so, oh crap.

905
00:44:46.140 --> 00:44:49.060
Can you get your voice back up?

906
00:44:50.860 --> 00:44:52.660
Cheryl, can you fix what I just did?

907
00:44:52.660 --> 00:44:53.500
Dang it.

908
00:44:53.500 --> 00:44:54.340
There we go.

909
00:44:54.340 --> 00:44:55.180
Can you hear me now?

910
00:44:55.180 --> 00:44:56.180
Yes, okay.

911
00:44:56.180 --> 00:44:58.860
Somebody else was talking and I was trying to mute that one

912
00:44:58.860 --> 00:45:00.020
and I muted you.

913
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:05.080
See, you know, all right. Okay. So have you been on this whole time?

914
00:45:06.000 --> 00:45:12.760
Yes, ma'am. I have so you've been crafting your answer. So the challenge is you got to be better than them. I'm just kidding

915
00:45:12.760 --> 00:45:14.760
I'm kidding right

916
00:45:14.800 --> 00:45:21.120
There's no competition. All right. So the opening question is tell us your name. Where do you live your age?

917
00:45:21.120 --> 00:45:23.120
Do you have kids do you want kids?

918
00:45:23.120 --> 00:45:29.480
Um, do you have a hopefully you have a job? Do you want to relocate? Can you relocate?

919
00:45:29.480 --> 00:45:34.160
Heck no to that and then tell us one thing about yourself that you are most proud of

920
00:45:35.000 --> 00:45:37.520
Okay. So hi, my name is Tim McAuliffe

921
00:45:38.080 --> 00:45:40.680
Those right there. I live in Dallas, Dallas, Texas

922
00:45:41.240 --> 00:45:43.240
I'm 55. I

923
00:45:44.640 --> 00:45:47.320
Let's see, I don't have any kids I

924
00:45:48.120 --> 00:45:51.280
Would open to kids I've always I like kids

925
00:45:52.040 --> 00:45:54.600
I'm a little bit of a kid at heart as well. But

926
00:45:55.720 --> 00:45:57.480
Let's see my

927
00:45:57.480 --> 00:46:03.840
For job. I'm a doctor. I have a clinic here in in the Dallas area

928
00:46:04.800 --> 00:46:06.800
Would be honestly

929
00:46:07.040 --> 00:46:09.040
Realistically, I own my own

930
00:46:09.200 --> 00:46:14.040
Practice. So if I were employed by a hospital or something to be easy to relocate, but I built my own

931
00:46:14.040 --> 00:46:17.920
You know practice over these years with that don't apologize Tim. You got it

932
00:46:19.040 --> 00:46:24.320
Yeah, so so can't really relocate, you know, perhaps. Okay. So what kind of doctor are you?

933
00:46:25.200 --> 00:46:31.380
Well, I have a actually it's mainly with men. It's a believe it or not. It's a vasectomy and circumcision clinic

934
00:46:31.480 --> 00:46:33.480
so a lot of sniffing and clipping

935
00:46:33.840 --> 00:46:35.840
and then I do a little bit of

936
00:46:36.280 --> 00:46:40.240
Kind of a side side gig of like a med spa

937
00:46:40.960 --> 00:46:42.960
Some Botox and fillers and things

938
00:46:43.120 --> 00:46:44.560
I

939
00:46:44.560 --> 00:46:50.800
Love it. I mean I can make so many inappropriate jokes right now. It's not going to

940
00:46:52.160 --> 00:46:54.160
Me's and Botox

941
00:46:56.920 --> 00:46:58.920
Circumstances of all things. Yeah

942
00:46:59.160 --> 00:47:05.000
Sound like a moil with all those circumcision. So see okay for those of you that don't know my history

943
00:47:05.000 --> 00:47:07.720
I ran a pregnancy center for 20 years and

944
00:47:08.720 --> 00:47:11.240
So my filters really low on certain

945
00:47:12.160 --> 00:47:17.240
Okay, are you ready for the fun questions? Yes. Yes, ma'am

946
00:47:17.400 --> 00:47:21.800
Okay, cat dog no pets hate pets like pets

947
00:47:22.520 --> 00:47:25.040
You know, I don't have any pets. I love dogs

948
00:47:25.200 --> 00:47:31.480
My neighbor has a dog named buddy and I get to say hello to him pretty much every night. He's a great tyrannies

949
00:47:32.320 --> 00:47:34.080
and I

950
00:47:34.080 --> 00:47:39.080
Had a couple outdoor cats. Actually, I kind of live on a little bit of I mean not land but I live on

951
00:47:39.480 --> 00:47:41.480
You know like an acre and so

952
00:47:41.880 --> 00:47:47.560
Those cat they ran away. I guess I didn't wasn't nice enough to him. But but I do love I love animals

953
00:47:48.000 --> 00:47:51.240
If I were to get a pet I definitely get a dog like a big dog

954
00:47:51.840 --> 00:47:57.880
Awesome, great. Okay besides water since you are a doctor. I'm assuming you drink water. I'm kidding

955
00:47:58.320 --> 00:48:00.320
What is your beverage of choice?

956
00:48:01.080 --> 00:48:03.080
coffee

957
00:48:03.160 --> 00:48:06.400
Although I try to I'll have a cup in the morning usually cup at noon

958
00:48:07.320 --> 00:48:11.320
So, yeah, are you are you a black coffee? How do you take your coffee?

959
00:48:11.560 --> 00:48:15.840
You know, I like a little bit of coffee with my half-and-half basically

960
00:48:15.840 --> 00:48:20.840
So so it's a lot of actually I use the I use the heavy whipping the heavy cream

961
00:48:21.280 --> 00:48:25.920
Heavy whipping cream with it. So I know this stuff. I understand. I love it

962
00:48:25.920 --> 00:48:30.200
You know, have you all like the fact that can you tell him a Yankee that I keep saying coffee?

963
00:48:31.760 --> 00:48:35.920
All right, you have a nickname and is there a story behind it

964
00:48:36.560 --> 00:48:42.320
I do it's it's Mac MAC Mac last name's McAuliffe and so

965
00:48:42.680 --> 00:48:48.560
in the fraternity house in college, one of the guys who called me McAuliffe and then it became Mac and and

966
00:48:49.040 --> 00:48:51.040
then Mac man, so

967
00:48:51.520 --> 00:48:55.200
Yeah, so when I'm talking to myself around, you know in my own mind

968
00:48:56.280 --> 00:48:59.160
Internal speak. I refer to myself as Mac. So it's kind of

969
00:49:00.160 --> 00:49:06.200
How that stuck I love that all three of you had a nickname and it would have been really awkward if you're all like now

970
00:49:06.400 --> 00:49:08.400
I don't really have anything. Okay

971
00:49:08.680 --> 00:49:12.920
So do you want me to call you Tim or Mac? What would you prefer? Oh Tim, you know

972
00:49:13.920 --> 00:49:17.760
You may have answered this and I am already old and brain cells are dying

973
00:49:18.600 --> 00:49:20.600
Did you say if you want kids?

974
00:49:21.000 --> 00:49:24.480
Have kids. Yeah, I've always wanted kids. I sure love to have kids

975
00:49:25.400 --> 00:49:27.400
You know again, it depends on the girl

976
00:49:27.920 --> 00:49:32.960
I've dated girls that don't have kids that want kids. I've dated girls have kids

977
00:49:33.680 --> 00:49:36.600
Like older women have grandkids, so I'm pretty open

978
00:49:37.480 --> 00:49:41.960
You know, what's that? I love it. Yeah, if it's a younger

979
00:49:43.160 --> 00:49:47.920
Younger woman. Yeah, I'd be delighted to have kids, you know, I'm 55, but you know, I

980
00:49:50.960 --> 00:49:58.600
What is what is so what is the like the youngest you would date them, you know, honestly I would go

981
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:03.620
I've met some people who are more mature at 31 than 51.

982
00:50:03.620 --> 00:50:08.080
So at 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, honestly, I'm pretty wide open.

983
00:50:08.080 --> 00:50:10.360
You're looking for somebody, as Jackie would say,

984
00:50:10.360 --> 00:50:12.780
you're looking somebody who matches your season of life

985
00:50:12.780 --> 00:50:13.960
and your energy.

986
00:50:13.960 --> 00:50:14.800
Right, right.

987
00:50:14.800 --> 00:50:15.720
I'm pretty energetic.

988
00:50:15.720 --> 00:50:17.320
I like to stay pretty active.

989
00:50:17.320 --> 00:50:20.960
And so, for me, it's just more about the individual

990
00:50:20.960 --> 00:50:22.120
than her age.

991
00:50:22.120 --> 00:50:22.960
So.

992
00:50:22.960 --> 00:50:23.800
Perfect, I love it.

993
00:50:23.800 --> 00:50:24.640
I love it.

994
00:50:24.640 --> 00:50:26.800
You're giving women on this call hope tonight.

995
00:50:26.800 --> 00:50:29.520
Okay, do you make your bed?

996
00:50:29.520 --> 00:50:30.560
I bet you, you do.

997
00:50:30.560 --> 00:50:31.400
You know, I do.

998
00:50:31.400 --> 00:50:32.220
It's pretty simple.

999
00:50:32.220 --> 00:50:33.560
I just kind of, you pull the covers up.

1000
00:50:33.560 --> 00:50:35.040
It takes like two seconds, so.

1001
00:50:35.040 --> 00:50:37.280
Okay, you clearly don't sprawl.

1002
00:50:37.280 --> 00:50:40.480
I mean, when I hear people say that,

1003
00:50:40.480 --> 00:50:43.920
my fans say, he says he can make the bed in one swoop too.

1004
00:50:43.920 --> 00:50:46.940
But if you've seen the way I sleep and my dog,

1005
00:50:46.940 --> 00:50:49.640
we definitely do not sleep that nicely.

1006
00:50:49.640 --> 00:50:51.260
So that is awesome.

1007
00:50:51.260 --> 00:50:54.080
Okay, do you squeeze the toothpaste from the middle

1008
00:50:54.080 --> 00:50:55.880
or roll it up from the bottom?

1009
00:50:57.460 --> 00:50:59.320
Both, you know, I'm a middle squeezer

1010
00:51:00.080 --> 00:51:01.320
as it gets lower toward the end,

1011
00:51:01.320 --> 00:51:02.400
I'm definitely gonna, you know,

1012
00:51:02.400 --> 00:51:06.120
feed that remain toothpaste toward the top.

1013
00:51:06.120 --> 00:51:07.620
Use, utilize all of it.

1014
00:51:08.640 --> 00:51:09.720
I love that.

1015
00:51:09.720 --> 00:51:10.920
Do you leave dishes in the sink

1016
00:51:10.920 --> 00:51:12.880
or do you put them right in the dishwasher?

1017
00:51:12.880 --> 00:51:15.360
Well, in the sink if it needs to soak, right?

1018
00:51:15.360 --> 00:51:18.640
But then I'll put it in the dishwasher.

1019
00:51:18.640 --> 00:51:20.940
Yeah, I definitely don't let them pile up.

1020
00:51:20.940 --> 00:51:22.280
Okay, awesome.

1021
00:51:22.280 --> 00:51:23.120
I love it.

1022
00:51:23.120 --> 00:51:25.060
Okay, if you could have a superpower

1023
00:51:25.060 --> 00:51:26.960
and be selfish like me, what would it be?

1024
00:51:26.960 --> 00:51:28.000
I'm kidding.

1025
00:51:28.000 --> 00:51:29.960
Yeah, I'm gonna be a little more selfish,

1026
00:51:29.960 --> 00:51:32.080
you know, rather than the world peace.

1027
00:51:32.080 --> 00:51:35.080
I would love to be able to fly and fly fast.

1028
00:51:35.080 --> 00:51:36.760
Then I could just fly to work, you know,

1029
00:51:36.760 --> 00:51:38.000
go over all that traffic

1030
00:51:38.000 --> 00:51:40.480
and be at work in like five minutes.

1031
00:51:40.480 --> 00:51:41.680
See, fellow flyer.

1032
00:51:41.680 --> 00:51:43.360
I'm just saying, a fellow flyer.

1033
00:51:43.360 --> 00:51:46.480
Except my flying thing, whenever I have dreams,

1034
00:51:46.480 --> 00:51:49.600
my flying thing was always about how I escaped.

1035
00:51:49.600 --> 00:51:52.440
So it was always my escape plan,

1036
00:51:52.440 --> 00:51:54.720
but yours sounds way more practical.

1037
00:51:54.720 --> 00:51:57.240
Okay, if you're going on vacation,

1038
00:51:57.280 --> 00:51:59.360
are you hitting the beach, the mountains,

1039
00:51:59.360 --> 00:52:01.840
snow, or tourist city?

1040
00:52:01.840 --> 00:52:03.040
You know, I like all of the above,

1041
00:52:03.040 --> 00:52:05.620
but my favorite, honestly, is Colorado in the summer.

1042
00:52:05.620 --> 00:52:07.520
It's, you know, low humidity.

1043
00:52:07.520 --> 00:52:09.880
It's like 75 degrees.

1044
00:52:09.880 --> 00:52:11.000
I love the mountains.

1045
00:52:12.040 --> 00:52:16.000
I like to ski also, but yeah, in the summer,

1046
00:52:16.000 --> 00:52:19.040
Colorado hiking, you know, whitewater rafting,

1047
00:52:19.040 --> 00:52:20.480
those types of things.

1048
00:52:20.480 --> 00:52:21.720
So, yeah.

1049
00:52:21.720 --> 00:52:23.360
All right, love it.

1050
00:52:23.360 --> 00:52:26.000
If you were going to a potluck, what do you bring in?

1051
00:52:26.960 --> 00:52:28.360
Chips and queso.

1052
00:52:28.360 --> 00:52:29.200
Chips and queso.

1053
00:52:29.200 --> 00:52:30.360
I'm in Texas, Texas, right?

1054
00:52:30.360 --> 00:52:32.480
So there's gotta be a chips and queso guy.

1055
00:52:32.480 --> 00:52:33.920
Okay, do you have a brand,

1056
00:52:33.920 --> 00:52:36.480
do you have a brand that you like, boom,

1057
00:52:36.480 --> 00:52:38.880
or do you like whatever you can find?

1058
00:52:38.880 --> 00:52:40.120
Oh, for the queso?

1059
00:52:40.120 --> 00:52:41.600
Mm-hmm.

1060
00:52:41.600 --> 00:52:42.440
Well, you know, I got-

1061
00:52:42.440 --> 00:52:43.480
Sometimes we eat chips and queso.

1062
00:52:43.480 --> 00:52:45.240
Some people don't care, but some people are like,

1063
00:52:45.240 --> 00:52:46.720
no, it's gotta be this.

1064
00:52:46.720 --> 00:52:47.560
Right.

1065
00:52:47.560 --> 00:52:49.640
You know, I do have a little secret, you know,

1066
00:52:49.640 --> 00:52:50.600
so I don't know if I can share it

1067
00:52:50.600 --> 00:52:53.120
on this type of a public forum.

1068
00:52:53.120 --> 00:52:53.960
Just kidding.

1069
00:52:54.840 --> 00:52:55.680
Hey, you know what?

1070
00:52:55.680 --> 00:52:57.400
On the first date, you can talk about that.

1071
00:52:57.400 --> 00:52:58.240
I love it.

1072
00:52:58.240 --> 00:52:59.080
That's right.

1073
00:52:59.080 --> 00:53:00.240
That's right, my secret ingredients.

1074
00:53:00.240 --> 00:53:01.080
Topic of conversation.

1075
00:53:01.080 --> 00:53:03.120
That is hilarious, I love it.

1076
00:53:03.120 --> 00:53:04.120
I love it.

1077
00:53:04.120 --> 00:53:06.040
Okay, so we're getting a little bit more serious.

1078
00:53:06.040 --> 00:53:09.040
So share part of your story that you are most proud of.

1079
00:53:10.680 --> 00:53:12.040
Yeah, so I would say that,

1080
00:53:15.400 --> 00:53:17.080
oh gosh, probably, you know,

1081
00:53:17.080 --> 00:53:19.560
the biggest leap of faith that I took

1082
00:53:21.080 --> 00:53:23.920
was when I was out of college initially

1083
00:53:24.760 --> 00:53:25.600
and I've had a few careers,

1084
00:53:25.600 --> 00:53:28.520
but I was an accountant and I left accounting

1085
00:53:28.520 --> 00:53:31.880
to join full-time vocational ministry.

1086
00:53:31.880 --> 00:53:34.160
And my parents weren't believers yet,

1087
00:53:34.160 --> 00:53:35.480
so they thought I was joining the cult.

1088
00:53:35.480 --> 00:53:37.440
They thought I was crazy.

1089
00:53:37.440 --> 00:53:39.280
They didn't disown me, but, you know,

1090
00:53:39.280 --> 00:53:40.920
they came close to it.

1091
00:53:40.920 --> 00:53:45.080
But as a result, the Lord used that to bring them to Christ.

1092
00:53:45.080 --> 00:53:46.720
You know, they trusted Christ.

1093
00:53:46.720 --> 00:53:50.080
And so that was definitely a big leap of faith.

1094
00:53:50.080 --> 00:53:53.040
So I'm proud of that, you know, in a good way.

1095
00:53:53.920 --> 00:53:55.240
I love that, I love that.

1096
00:53:55.240 --> 00:53:56.680
Thank you for sharing.

1097
00:53:56.680 --> 00:53:59.040
What do your friends say they love about most,

1098
00:53:59.040 --> 00:54:00.960
what they love most about you?

1099
00:54:02.400 --> 00:54:06.040
Yeah, so I would say that they like,

1100
00:54:06.040 --> 00:54:08.040
I am fun, I like to have fun.

1101
00:54:09.040 --> 00:54:10.880
I like, you know,

1102
00:54:10.880 --> 00:54:13.680
I like doing ministry with international students.

1103
00:54:13.680 --> 00:54:16.280
We do some ministry with some students from Iran.

1104
00:54:16.280 --> 00:54:20.040
And so my close friend who's actually in vocational ministry,

1105
00:54:20.040 --> 00:54:23.600
he appreciates my involvement, you know,

1106
00:54:23.600 --> 00:54:26.040
with the students kind of, you know,

1107
00:54:26.040 --> 00:54:28.720
trying to go with the Great Commission.

1108
00:54:28.720 --> 00:54:30.160
And I would say they would say

1109
00:54:30.160 --> 00:54:33.560
I'm trustworthy and compassionate.

1110
00:54:34.760 --> 00:54:36.560
You know, my spiritual gift usually ends up being like,

1111
00:54:36.560 --> 00:54:40.320
helps or like service,

1112
00:54:40.320 --> 00:54:41.800
which I don't like that spiritual gift,

1113
00:54:41.800 --> 00:54:44.440
but, you know, I'd rather be like preaching or,

1114
00:54:44.440 --> 00:54:45.600
you know, like one of those, you know,

1115
00:54:45.600 --> 00:54:49.120
but I have that gift of like encouragement and helps.

1116
00:54:49.360 --> 00:54:51.920
And that's what the Lord gave me, so I run with it.

1117
00:54:52.760 --> 00:54:54.120
Please run with it.

1118
00:54:54.120 --> 00:54:56.080
You know, Brian is,

1119
00:54:56.080 --> 00:54:57.920
has been an ICU nurse his whole life

1120
00:54:57.920 --> 00:55:00.080
and now an educator and he's an helper.

1121
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:05.220
And man, helpers are important and we, we, it's so important.

1122
00:55:05.220 --> 00:55:06.540
I'm just going to say it's important.

1123
00:55:06.840 --> 00:55:09.320
We can be the, we are, we are all the hand and not the head

1124
00:55:09.320 --> 00:55:10.440
and not the foot and the tail.

1125
00:55:10.520 --> 00:55:11.020
All right.

1126
00:55:11.220 --> 00:55:11.720
Okay.

1127
00:55:13.680 --> 00:55:16.880
If you could go back and talk to your high school self, what

1128
00:55:16.880 --> 00:55:18.080
would you say to that person?

1129
00:55:19.920 --> 00:55:24.720
You know, I would say, you know, trust Christ now and walk with the Lord.

1130
00:55:24.720 --> 00:55:26.680
I trusted Christ, a senior of college.

1131
00:55:27.280 --> 00:55:32.520
Um, but I, I would say, you know, walk with the Lord and that's the, that's

1132
00:55:32.520 --> 00:55:37.840
the greatest way to have a abundant life, a wonderful life, a most fulfilling life.

1133
00:55:37.920 --> 00:55:40.160
Um, um, yeah.

1134
00:55:40.160 --> 00:55:42.920
And I would also say, actually, you know, we're not in high school, but

1135
00:55:42.920 --> 00:55:46.060
probably, you know, after college, I'd say like, Hey, find a, find the

1136
00:55:46.060 --> 00:55:47.980
golly Christian girl and pursue her.

1137
00:55:47.980 --> 00:55:53.360
You know, I, I spent a long time, uh, uh, in the, in the library with, uh,

1138
00:55:53.360 --> 00:55:55.640
you know, pre-med, med school and everything, residency.

1139
00:55:56.080 --> 00:55:59.160
And so I would, I would give that advice of, you know, Hey, you don't

1140
00:55:59.160 --> 00:56:02.320
need to wait, uh, so long to pursue a girl.

1141
00:56:02.400 --> 00:56:04.480
You could have just found a girl who could have studied with you.

1142
00:56:04.480 --> 00:56:04.980
Maybe.

1143
00:56:06.680 --> 00:56:07.680
Um, okay.

1144
00:56:08.400 --> 00:56:12.200
What's a bucket list item you would like to do with your future spirit mate?

1145
00:56:13.760 --> 00:56:16.680
Yeah, I would like to, um, travel to New Zealand.

1146
00:56:16.680 --> 00:56:20.520
My aunt and uncle live in New Zealand and I spent two months there after

1147
00:56:20.560 --> 00:56:22.080
between med school and residency.

1148
00:56:22.480 --> 00:56:27.120
And it was just so, uh, you know, beautiful, exotic, fun.

1149
00:56:27.440 --> 00:56:30.720
You have mountain, you know, you have, you're looking at the beach at a

1150
00:56:30.720 --> 00:56:33.560
palm tree and you look back and then you see a snow cap mountains.

1151
00:56:33.560 --> 00:56:38.240
And so I'd really like to go back there, um, with my spirit mate

1152
00:56:38.240 --> 00:56:40.520
and visit aunt and uncle and travel.

1153
00:56:41.520 --> 00:56:42.280
All right.

1154
00:56:42.360 --> 00:56:44.040
Um, I'm going to jump in with a question.

1155
00:56:44.040 --> 00:56:47.680
Somebody has for you cause it's a good one, but, um, I think this is

1156
00:56:47.680 --> 00:56:50.480
applicable to anybody you guys, just because he's a doctor that

1157
00:56:50.480 --> 00:56:52.280
doesn't make this a question.

1158
00:56:52.280 --> 00:56:56.640
Cause, uh, Jackie just talked about margin on Saturday, but somebody

1159
00:56:56.640 --> 00:56:59.120
said, you know, you are a doctor.

1160
00:56:59.120 --> 00:57:02.720
Do you feel like you've got a good handle on work life balance?

1161
00:57:04.720 --> 00:57:05.000
Yeah.

1162
00:57:05.000 --> 00:57:05.640
Great question.

1163
00:57:05.640 --> 00:57:11.200
You know, I I'm very grateful because, um, my clinic is eight 30 to four

1164
00:57:11.200 --> 00:57:13.240
30 Monday, Wednesday, Friday.

1165
00:57:13.800 --> 00:57:16.720
And then Thursdays I work a half day and Tuesdays I'm off.

1166
00:57:16.720 --> 00:57:18.840
I'll do like some paperwork, administrative work.

1167
00:57:19.400 --> 00:57:22.560
So it's just three and a half days a week, you know, so I work less

1168
00:57:22.560 --> 00:57:24.680
than most of my friends, actually.

1169
00:57:24.680 --> 00:57:27.840
I mean, you guys, he's a snipping and zipping.

1170
00:57:27.840 --> 00:57:30.960
So people schedule those appointments.

1171
00:57:33.000 --> 00:57:33.360
Yeah.

1172
00:57:33.360 --> 00:57:37.680
And then once a month I just go do a 24 hour ER shift, you know, stuff like my

1173
00:57:37.680 --> 00:57:40.240
once a month, like one day working really hard.

1174
00:57:40.440 --> 00:57:40.720
Yeah.

1175
00:57:40.840 --> 00:57:44.000
Um, but other than that, it's a pretty, you know, I don't, I'm

1176
00:57:44.000 --> 00:57:46.120
off every, every night, every weekend.

1177
00:57:46.560 --> 00:57:47.160
That's great.

1178
00:57:47.240 --> 00:57:47.640
I love it.

1179
00:57:47.880 --> 00:57:48.360
Okay.

1180
00:57:49.000 --> 00:57:51.720
Um, if you could learn something new, what would it be?

1181
00:57:53.040 --> 00:57:53.920
Oh, good question.

1182
00:57:53.960 --> 00:57:55.360
Um, it'd be Spanish.

1183
00:57:55.360 --> 00:58:00.080
You know, I know some Spanish, but I've been, uh, in my clinic.

1184
00:58:00.360 --> 00:58:04.840
Well, I knew more Spanish when I lived in Nebraska, but down here, I feel like

1185
00:58:04.840 --> 00:58:08.880
everyone speaks English and everyone's bilingual, even if they're, um, Latino.

1186
00:58:09.400 --> 00:58:13.840
But, um, one of our staff, she is bilingual, but she might be leaving.

1187
00:58:13.960 --> 00:58:18.560
And so if she leaves and I will be, I'll need to, you know, get on my

1188
00:58:18.560 --> 00:58:19.800
game there with the Spanish.

1189
00:58:19.800 --> 00:58:24.800
So, um, so that might be on the, on the, you know, future horizon here.

1190
00:58:24.800 --> 00:58:25.200
So.

1191
00:58:25.560 --> 00:58:26.080
I love it.

1192
00:58:26.320 --> 00:58:26.800
I love it.

1193
00:58:26.880 --> 00:58:27.400
Okay.

1194
00:58:27.760 --> 00:58:30.800
What character of God is resonating with you right now?

1195
00:58:33.920 --> 00:58:39.800
You know, I think it's really been God's gentleness, just learning that, um, yeah,

1196
00:58:39.800 --> 00:58:42.680
I grew up thinking God was more of a distant, distant God.

1197
00:58:43.000 --> 00:58:48.400
Um, and so it's been over time that I've learned and even like such as watching

1198
00:58:48.400 --> 00:58:53.360
the chosen, you know, just seeing how, how kind that, that Jesus portrayal is.

1199
00:58:53.360 --> 00:58:58.680
And, and, um, thinking, wow, that, that my savior is that amazing.

1200
00:58:58.680 --> 00:59:03.400
And he's so, so awesome and compassionate and, and, uh, kindhearted.

1201
00:59:03.400 --> 00:59:07.440
And so it's just really, I think it's just realizing that God, you know, how

1202
00:59:07.440 --> 00:59:12.280
much he cares, how much he cares for me, you know, just like a parent, uh, for

1203
00:59:12.280 --> 00:59:12.840
child.

1204
00:59:13.520 --> 00:59:14.080
I love it.

1205
00:59:14.360 --> 00:59:15.200
So I love it.

1206
00:59:15.200 --> 00:59:15.720
So good.

1207
00:59:15.720 --> 00:59:17.880
You guys all gave such great answers with that tonight.

1208
00:59:17.880 --> 00:59:18.360
Okay.

1209
00:59:18.600 --> 00:59:21.760
So if you haven't already said it, tell us a little bit about what you're looking

1210
00:59:21.760 --> 00:59:22.260
for.

1211
00:59:23.680 --> 00:59:29.480
Oh, and a spirit mate, you know, I would like to, um, I do like someone who's fun.

1212
00:59:29.640 --> 00:59:35.440
Um, but, but someone, someone who can kind of joke around, but also can talk deep

1213
00:59:35.440 --> 00:59:36.080
about things.

1214
00:59:36.080 --> 00:59:42.000
I enjoy reading Christian books and, and listening to podcasts, um, about, you

1215
00:59:42.000 --> 00:59:43.400
know, different topics and things.

1216
00:59:43.880 --> 00:59:48.640
And so, um, just someone who enjoys, you know, talking about, uh, deep things,

1217
00:59:48.640 --> 00:59:51.800
you know, some theological topics or even just current events, you know, news and

1218
00:59:51.800 --> 00:59:54.440
things, but also we can just joke around and have fun.

1219
00:59:54.800 --> 00:59:57.880
Um, someone who likes to be, you know, fairly active.

1220
00:59:58.240 --> 01:00:00.080
I like to, you know, play a little bit of tennis.

1221
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:06.840
I like to go, you know, go dancing, like there's this thing called West Coast Swing Dance,

1222
01:00:06.840 --> 01:00:08.200
which is really fun.

1223
01:00:08.200 --> 01:00:11.240
And so none of these things are just over the top athletic.

1224
01:00:11.240 --> 01:00:15.960
I like to run and, you know, lift weights and stuff, but just someone who likes to be,

1225
01:00:15.960 --> 01:00:22.480
you know, a little bit more of a kind of out and about doing some things, more so than

1226
01:00:22.480 --> 01:00:26.520
just someone who would want to really be at home all the time.

1227
01:00:26.520 --> 01:00:27.960
So I like to be home also.

1228
01:00:27.960 --> 01:00:32.400
I like to relax, but I do like to, you know, do fun things and try, you know, someone who'd

1229
01:00:32.400 --> 01:00:41.080
like to, who's okay with traveling and, and yeah, definitely, I mean, obviously the most,

1230
01:00:41.080 --> 01:00:44.040
the deal breaker is, you know, the walk with the Lord, heart with the Lord.

1231
01:00:44.040 --> 01:00:48.080
We probably all met a lot of people who say they're Christian or gone on dates who might

1232
01:00:48.080 --> 01:00:49.080
be saved.

1233
01:00:49.080 --> 01:00:53.320
But, you know, is that person sold out for Jesus and really in love for Jesus, Christ

1234
01:00:53.320 --> 01:00:56.120
is Christ's number one in that person's life.

1235
01:00:56.720 --> 01:01:00.080
So I want someone who loves the Lord more than she loves me.

1236
01:01:00.080 --> 01:01:02.840
You know, we know that's the most important part.

1237
01:01:02.840 --> 01:01:03.840
Yeah.

1238
01:01:03.840 --> 01:01:04.840
I didn't pay him to say that.

1239
01:01:04.840 --> 01:01:06.880
I'm just saying he's on his own.

1240
01:01:06.880 --> 01:01:07.880
Okay.

1241
01:01:07.880 --> 01:01:12.480
If you could give the ladies here any piece of advice, what would you share with them?

1242
01:01:12.480 --> 01:01:13.480
Hmm.

1243
01:01:13.480 --> 01:01:14.480
Hmm.

1244
01:01:14.480 --> 01:01:20.120
Piece of advice for, for like, for dating or anything?

1245
01:01:20.120 --> 01:01:21.120
Yeah, for sure.

1246
01:01:21.120 --> 01:01:22.120
Yeah.

1247
01:01:22.120 --> 01:01:23.120
Let's keep it on the dating.

1248
01:01:23.120 --> 01:01:25.640
Um, in terms of dating, let's see.

1249
01:01:25.640 --> 01:01:28.880
I mean, maybe this goes without saying, but I'd say flirt.

1250
01:01:28.880 --> 01:01:34.160
You know, I think it's okay to, to in a G rated kind of PG rated way, you know, be flirtatious

1251
01:01:34.160 --> 01:01:35.160
with a guy.

1252
01:01:35.160 --> 01:01:42.760
And, um, we probably all gone on dates with people who are so standoffish and, um, and,

1253
01:01:42.760 --> 01:01:48.360
and, and like, um, you know, like if I, if I hug a girl on a date, it's okay just to,

1254
01:01:48.360 --> 01:01:52.680
you know, and hug and you don't, you don't have to like put your one girl, she like jammed

1255
01:01:52.680 --> 01:01:53.680
me with their shoulders.

1256
01:01:53.680 --> 01:01:54.680
Like, Whoa, Whoa.

1257
01:01:54.680 --> 01:01:55.680
Gosh.

1258
01:01:55.680 --> 01:01:56.680
Okay.

1259
01:01:56.680 --> 01:01:57.680
Um, and so I think it's, you know, okay.

1260
01:01:57.680 --> 01:02:03.360
Just to be, um, uh, you know, friendly flirtation, you know, kind of a Christian, you know, G

1261
01:02:03.360 --> 01:02:04.360
rated way.

1262
01:02:04.360 --> 01:02:05.360
So I think it's healthy.

1263
01:02:05.360 --> 01:02:06.360
That gives it, it's good.

1264
01:02:06.360 --> 01:02:09.200
Like the guy that gives the guy the, the, the hint that, Oh wow, I think she kind of

1265
01:02:09.200 --> 01:02:10.240
likes me.

1266
01:02:10.240 --> 01:02:14.160
I'm so glad you said that you guys, and I know some people feel differently about hugs

1267
01:02:14.160 --> 01:02:19.200
and not, I mean, I have, I will say this, like I haven't been known if I feel safe

1268
01:02:19.200 --> 01:02:21.920
with you, I might hug you if I don't feel safe with you.

1269
01:02:21.920 --> 01:02:25.480
I might give you the side hug, but you guys don't assume a guy's a creeper just because

1270
01:02:25.480 --> 01:02:26.480
he goes for a hug.

1271
01:02:26.480 --> 01:02:28.220
Some of it's just culture.

1272
01:02:28.220 --> 01:02:29.220
Some of it's geographic.

1273
01:02:29.220 --> 01:02:34.560
And so I'm so glad you said that just for us to normalize that not every hug is meant

1274
01:02:34.560 --> 01:02:35.560
something bad.

1275
01:02:35.560 --> 01:02:36.560
Right.

1276
01:02:36.560 --> 01:02:39.280
It can be a good thing and it can be a kind thing.

1277
01:02:39.280 --> 01:02:44.480
Is there anything I didn't ask you that you feel like showcases you that you want to share

1278
01:02:44.480 --> 01:02:45.480
with the ladies?

1279
01:02:45.480 --> 01:02:46.480
Hmm.

1280
01:02:46.480 --> 01:02:51.440
You know, I, I have a couple of, um, nice hobbies.

1281
01:02:51.960 --> 01:02:54.800
I play guitar, um, acoustic guitar.

1282
01:02:54.800 --> 01:02:57.320
And so you'll like to do like praise and worship music.

1283
01:02:57.320 --> 01:02:58.560
David's write a poem to us.

1284
01:02:58.560 --> 01:03:02.200
Do you not have your guitar in the back seat for you to whip out and get something for

1285
01:03:02.200 --> 01:03:03.200
us?

1286
01:03:03.200 --> 01:03:04.200
Just air guitar.

1287
01:03:04.200 --> 01:03:08.360
I mean that would have put you up the, I mean, you know, that would have taken you up the

1288
01:03:08.360 --> 01:03:09.360
slot there.

1289
01:03:09.360 --> 01:03:10.360
Oh, you're right.

1290
01:03:10.360 --> 01:03:11.360
Darn it.

1291
01:03:11.360 --> 01:03:12.600
I knew I should have planned ahead.

1292
01:03:12.600 --> 01:03:13.600
It's all good.

1293
01:03:13.600 --> 01:03:17.880
It just means on the first video date, a girl's going to be like, so you're going to serenade

1294
01:03:17.880 --> 01:03:18.880
me?

1295
01:03:18.880 --> 01:03:19.880
Right.

1296
01:03:19.880 --> 01:03:20.880
Exactly.

1297
01:03:21.320 --> 01:03:25.240
I'll serenade you and I'll show you my, teach you my queso recipe.

1298
01:03:25.240 --> 01:03:29.960
I mean, if Brian wasn't sitting right here, I would want to see that just to, just to

1299
01:03:29.960 --> 01:03:31.960
get that, that recipe.

1300
01:03:31.960 --> 01:03:32.960
All right.

1301
01:03:32.960 --> 01:03:33.960
Okay.

1302
01:03:33.960 --> 01:03:34.960
Um, awesome.

1303
01:03:34.960 --> 01:03:35.960
Thank you so much.

1304
01:03:35.960 --> 01:03:36.960
Okay.

1305
01:03:36.960 --> 01:03:41.480
I'm about to switch over to some of the girls, but, um, Phil or Tim, make sure you, um, go

1306
01:03:41.480 --> 01:03:44.480
to the chats and start to see all the fabulous things.

1307
01:03:44.480 --> 01:03:45.480
Ladies.

1308
01:03:45.480 --> 01:03:49.760
I'm Cheryl's going to put in there again, the email for you to reach out to folks.

1309
01:03:49.840 --> 01:03:52.480
Um, and don't forget to go after Tim.

1310
01:03:52.480 --> 01:03:56.720
He sounds like, gosh, Tim, you sound y'all, all three of you, I feel like we knocked it

1311
01:03:56.720 --> 01:03:57.720
out of the park.

1312
01:03:57.720 --> 01:03:58.720
Ladies.

1313
01:03:58.720 --> 01:03:59.720
Did we not?

1314
01:03:59.720 --> 01:04:00.720
We have had such amazing men tonight.

1315
01:04:00.720 --> 01:04:05.440
And did you guys notice we had a man in his thirties, forties and fifties.

1316
01:04:05.440 --> 01:04:10.400
So no one can say that we're not trying to make it all happen for y'all.

1317
01:04:10.400 --> 01:04:11.400
Okay.

1318
01:04:11.400 --> 01:04:13.200
It is eight Oh seven.

1319
01:04:13.200 --> 01:04:20.960
We're going to take 12, 15 minutes and I'm going to highlight, um, but this time with

1320
01:04:20.960 --> 01:04:26.440
the ladies, it's kind of a little bit more of a, all at the same time.

1321
01:04:26.440 --> 01:04:30.040
And so if you have not, do me a favor.

1322
01:04:30.040 --> 01:04:38.920
If you have not been spotlighted, um, in the last six months, so like it's been six, six

1323
01:04:38.920 --> 01:04:42.160
months or sometime this year, if you have already been spotlighted, I don't want you

1324
01:04:42.160 --> 01:04:43.160
to get spotlighted.

1325
01:04:43.160 --> 01:04:44.320
It's kind of not fair.

1326
01:04:44.320 --> 01:04:49.040
So if you've not yet been spotlighted, you are on camera and I can see you raise your

1327
01:04:49.040 --> 01:04:50.480
avatar hand.

1328
01:04:50.480 --> 01:04:54.800
And I'm just going to do a random, you guys don't take it personal kind of thing.

1329
01:04:54.800 --> 01:04:59.520
I want to, um, be able to get across mixture.

1330
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:04.880
of some beautiful folks. You've not been spotlight, you're highlight, you're raising your hand.

1331
01:05:05.520 --> 01:05:10.320
You've not been spot, no Susan, I swear we spotlighted you the last month.

1332
01:05:10.320 --> 01:05:19.040
Did we not? I swear I spotlighted you. Okay, so Denise, Los Angeles, you've not been spotlighted

1333
01:05:19.040 --> 01:05:24.080
yet, right? Rene, are you talking about me? Yes, girl, Susan, but I swear you got highlighted last

1334
01:05:24.080 --> 01:05:30.160
time. Oh, I've never been highlighted, but it's okay, it's all right. No, no, no, no, no, you're

1335
01:05:30.160 --> 01:05:42.240
fine, okay. Oh, can I add another one? Oh, I did. You guys don't take this personal, I'm just going,

1336
01:05:42.240 --> 01:05:48.480
I'm just, I'm just smooshing around here. Look as you go, sorry. All right, I'm gonna get to,

1337
01:05:48.480 --> 01:05:52.560
all right, I got four ladies up. All right, if you didn't get picked this week, I promise it's

1338
01:05:52.560 --> 01:05:57.360
all good. And here's the thing, you guys, now, if you guys want to get your attention out there,

1339
01:05:57.360 --> 01:06:03.440
whether you're on camera or in the chat, those three men that we just spotlighted are now in

1340
01:06:03.440 --> 01:06:08.560
the chat. So feel free to answer the questions, ladies. If you did not get spotlighted, feel free

1341
01:06:08.560 --> 01:06:12.720
to answer the questions in the chat. These ladies are going to do it. Okay, Denise, you're going to

1342
01:06:12.720 --> 01:06:18.720
go first. Tell us your name, your age, where do you live and can you relocate? My name is Denise,

1343
01:06:18.720 --> 01:06:24.880
obviously, I live in Los Angeles. I am 51 years old and I can move anywhere because I live,

1344
01:06:24.880 --> 01:06:31.680
I work 100% remote. Awesome, what do you do? I'm in IT, so I work in computers. You teach,

1345
01:06:31.680 --> 01:06:38.240
you said? Awesome. No, IT, computers. IT, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. That's okay. All right,

1346
01:06:38.240 --> 01:06:45.760
tell me one thing about yourself that you're most proud of. I'm a recovered alcoholic, so that's my

1347
01:06:45.760 --> 01:06:52.000
parting the Red Sea. Awesome, how many years, girl? Three, a little over three. Perfect, love

1348
01:06:52.000 --> 01:06:57.280
it. Okay, Rhonda, you're next. Age, name, where do you live, what do you do? Can you relocate?

1349
01:06:57.280 --> 01:07:04.000
I'm going to freeze. I'm 54. I live in Alberta, Canada and I am a nurse.

1350
01:07:05.200 --> 01:07:12.960
And what was the other questions, Renee? Can you relocate? You know what? The answer was no

1351
01:07:12.960 --> 01:07:19.120
in the prior, but it has become very, very likely and I think so, yes. I love it. Okay,

1352
01:07:19.120 --> 01:07:21.600
tell me one thing about yourself that you're most proud of.

1353
01:07:22.960 --> 01:07:31.600
I am, my best and greatest accomplishment is my 14-year-old son. Oh, I love that. Who is vivacious,

1354
01:07:31.600 --> 01:07:40.720
spirit-filled, kind and hilarious. Cheesy, much like myself, Tim, mac and cheese, mac and cheese.

1355
01:07:40.720 --> 01:07:48.880
I love that. I love it. Oh my gosh, that is mac. I mean, I saw your answer, mac and cheese,

1356
01:07:48.880 --> 01:07:53.680
and I think that's why I couldn't get past the mac and cheese. I'm just saying it was genius.

1357
01:07:53.680 --> 01:07:58.800
I am queen of the cheese. I am queen of the cheese. Awesome. Okay, Laura, you're up. Name,

1358
01:07:58.800 --> 01:08:03.760
age, where do you live, can you relocate, what do you do? I'm Lori Stewart and I have

1359
01:08:04.000 --> 01:08:12.960
been in healthcare insurance for 18 years. I am in the third fastest growing county in the state

1360
01:08:12.960 --> 01:08:22.800
of Texas, which is the Woodlands, Texas, and I can relocate because my licensing is for all the state

1361
01:08:22.800 --> 01:08:36.160
of Texas. And my most prized possession would be that I train detection canines for drugs, guns,

1362
01:08:36.160 --> 01:08:46.720
bombs, and PTSD care canines for veterans. Oh, I love that. That's so cool. That's so cool.

1363
01:08:46.960 --> 01:08:52.960
Oh, okay. All right. Somebody's trying to message me. All right, Jeannie, go up. You got that.

1364
01:08:52.960 --> 01:08:57.920
Hopefully you remembered everything I just asked. Ah, Jeannie. Yes, my name's Jeannie,

1365
01:08:57.920 --> 01:09:12.399
and I live in Washington state. I am 64 years old today, and gosh, I can relocate 100%

1366
01:09:12.720 --> 01:09:23.040
because I work remotely as well. I have my own bookkeeping business, and I also am the finance

1367
01:09:23.040 --> 01:09:30.800
and HR manager for a wonderful nonprofit that rescues children. We work in eight different

1368
01:09:30.800 --> 01:09:38.479
countries, about 4,000 children we support, so I can do that job remotely. Great. And what's one

1369
01:09:38.479 --> 01:09:47.040
thing about yourself you're most proud of? Oh, golly. I think I love the relationships I have

1370
01:09:47.040 --> 01:09:54.800
with my adult children. They are all professionals. They are all doing very well, and they know I

1371
01:09:56.080 --> 01:09:59.920
am there for them, and we're friends. I love it.

1372
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:15.800
Of that. I love it. Okay, you guys, I'm gonna go really fast with these the fun one. So you just have to give us a like a one word answer. Okay, cat, dogs, pets, no pets. Denise dogs, but I love all animals, but dogs. Hey, Rhonda.

1373
01:10:18.840 --> 01:10:19.680
Dogs.

1374
01:10:21.440 --> 01:10:22.480
Did you go Lori

1375
01:10:22.920 --> 01:10:23.960
Yeah, dogs.

1376
01:10:24.280 --> 01:10:26.280
Okay, so did Rhonda. Did you say dogs to

1377
01:10:26.480 --> 01:10:29.360
I did. I love cats and horses, too. But yeah, yeah.

1378
01:10:31.160 --> 01:10:40.000
Jeannie showing us her dog. So that's her answer. I love it. Okay. Do you have a nickname. If you do just share it. Denise.

1379
01:10:40.600 --> 01:10:43.480
D nice. And if you've seen Kingdom Peel you understand

1380
01:10:43.920 --> 01:10:45.560
Okay, Rhonda.

1381
01:10:46.560 --> 01:10:47.520
Rocking Rhonda

1382
01:10:47.840 --> 01:10:49.800
Oh, yeah, girl. Lori

1383
01:10:50.080 --> 01:10:50.760
Hello.

1384
01:10:51.360 --> 01:10:52.920
Hello. I love it. Jeannie

1385
01:10:53.360 --> 01:10:55.360
Dino. My middle name is

1386
01:10:58.560 --> 01:10:59.760
Do you make your bed every day.

1387
01:11:00.400 --> 01:11:00.920
Nope.

1388
01:11:02.600 --> 01:11:03.080
Rhonda

1389
01:11:03.680 --> 01:11:04.280
No.

1390
01:11:05.360 --> 01:11:06.760
Lori, my son does.

1391
01:11:07.640 --> 01:11:17.720
Yes, Jeannie. You're a no. You're a yes to. Okay, awesome. Um, if you had a super I'm going to skip around here. If you had a superpower. What would it be Denise

1392
01:11:18.000 --> 01:11:20.160
I'm like you flying. I want to fly.

1393
01:11:20.520 --> 01:11:21.200
Rhonda

1394
01:11:21.880 --> 01:11:27.400
I think I would still be what I already have, which is signs, wonders and miracles, but I'd like to see

1395
01:11:28.720 --> 01:11:30.280
I love it. Lori

1396
01:11:30.760 --> 01:11:34.840
Um, it would be to take guns out of criminals hands.

1397
01:11:36.760 --> 01:11:39.240
Amen, sister. That's a good one. Jeannie

1398
01:11:39.840 --> 01:11:48.680
And I think, um, yeah, just the ability to to actually speak in the name of Jesus and you will be healed. Wouldn't that be awesome.

1399
01:11:49.000 --> 01:11:49.520
Amen.

1400
01:11:50.720 --> 01:11:54.200
Okay vacation beach mountain snow or tour city Denise

1401
01:11:54.240 --> 01:11:55.840
Beach. Beach. Hands down.

1402
01:11:56.280 --> 01:11:56.800
Rhonda

1403
01:11:57.680 --> 01:11:59.800
Beach and ocean cold or hot

1404
01:12:00.360 --> 01:12:00.880
Lori

1405
01:12:01.840 --> 01:12:04.880
I'm currently in the touring cities.

1406
01:12:05.000 --> 01:12:06.400
Okay, Jeannie.

1407
01:12:07.280 --> 01:12:09.080
I think the cities to. Yeah.

1408
01:12:09.920 --> 01:12:13.680
Awesome. All right. Last fun question. If you're going to potluck. What you bring in Denise

1409
01:12:14.680 --> 01:12:15.880
Oatmeal carmelitas

1410
01:12:16.280 --> 01:12:17.800
Ooh, Rhonda

1411
01:12:18.360 --> 01:12:22.600
Something spicy because out here in Canada, the potlucks are usually pretty boring.

1412
01:12:23.160 --> 01:12:25.880
Okay, you seem like a spicy kind of gal. I like

1413
01:12:27.600 --> 01:12:30.760
Oh gosh, lately, it's just been fruit.

1414
01:12:31.400 --> 01:12:32.800
Okay, Jeannie

1415
01:12:33.680 --> 01:12:39.480
Um, red potato salad with pine nuts and cilantro and red onion. Yeah.

1416
01:12:40.240 --> 01:12:45.000
Okay, girlfriend. All right. What do your friends say they love most about you, Denise.

1417
01:12:45.640 --> 01:12:48.280
I'm very optimistic and I'm an encourager.

1418
01:12:48.760 --> 01:12:49.520
Awesome Rhonda

1419
01:12:50.440 --> 01:12:56.840
They love about me. My love for people and they call me a pocket Rhonda because I'm a little bit of a smarty pants so

1420
01:12:57.240 --> 01:13:03.200
Often they wish that they had the remarks that I could come back with. So they're like, can I wish I had a pocket Rhonda

1421
01:13:03.440 --> 01:13:05.520
Yes, spicy. I get it.

1422
01:13:05.600 --> 01:13:06.120
Lori

1423
01:13:06.600 --> 01:13:12.320
Um, I'm great with children and teenagers and I finished what I start

1424
01:13:13.040 --> 01:13:13.920
I love it.

1425
01:13:13.960 --> 01:13:14.560
Jeannie

1426
01:13:14.920 --> 01:13:16.080
Um,

1427
01:13:16.080 --> 01:13:29.640
Oh, golly. Um, I, I hate paying fees. So I negotiate bank fees like nobody's business. And I just yeah, I, I negotiate. Yep. Get a good deal.

1428
01:13:30.320 --> 01:13:34.880
I love it. Okay, what do you wish more people what is something you wish more people knew about you, Denise?

1429
01:13:36.040 --> 01:13:37.840
Yeah, come back to me. I don't know.

1430
01:13:38.400 --> 01:13:38.920
Rhonda

1431
01:13:38.920 --> 01:13:51.280
Um, I present as really strong as a strong woman and super confident and because I'm prophetically unctioned. I'm kind of sharp, but I'm actually super soft and I love that. Lori

1432
01:13:51.720 --> 01:13:55.120
Everyone thinks I'm in control because I am six feet tall.

1433
01:13:57.400 --> 01:13:59.600
No, is that what you wish more people knew about you?

1434
01:14:00.080 --> 01:14:10.840
I thought you said something. I don't know. I heard the question correctly. Something I wish people knew about me. Um, I'm a fashionista because I used to be a fashion model. I don't know.

1435
01:14:11.160 --> 01:14:12.880
All right, there you go. Jeannie

1436
01:14:13.480 --> 01:14:22.000
Um, I, uh, I kind of present quiet and reserved, but I am so much fun. Oh,

1437
01:14:22.040 --> 01:14:25.800
I know you are. I can attest to that. You're a fun gal.

1438
01:14:25.800 --> 01:14:34.240
I love it. Okay, let's see, um, what's something you want it. What's a bucket list item you want to do with your future spirit mate, Denise.

1439
01:14:34.560 --> 01:14:39.560
Everything that it's not about where you go. It's about who you're with. So I want to do everything with them.

1440
01:14:39.720 --> 01:14:40.800
I love it. Rhonda.

1441
01:14:41.040 --> 01:14:54.120
I love Denise's answer because it's not actually anything big. It's like simple things like watching a movie on a couch or going to a market together or having a meal with a friend or a family member, you know,

1442
01:14:54.120 --> 01:14:59.960
going to a market together or having coffee with someone on a Sunday, Saturday morning. Like it's a simple things.

1443
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:02.360
Plus traveling.

1444
01:15:02.360 --> 01:15:02.860
Awesome.

1445
01:15:02.860 --> 01:15:03.760
Lori?

1446
01:15:03.760 --> 01:15:08.800
I want to cozy up in a cold environment and sled dog rides.

1447
01:15:08.800 --> 01:15:09.800
I love it.

1448
01:15:09.800 --> 01:15:10.300
I love it.

1449
01:15:10.300 --> 01:15:11.320
Jeannie?

1450
01:15:11.320 --> 01:15:16.040
Israel, Israel, Israel, and Italy, Italy, Italy.

1451
01:15:16.040 --> 01:15:17.360
My two favorite places.

1452
01:15:17.360 --> 01:15:19.320
Those literally are my two favorite places.

1453
01:15:19.320 --> 01:15:20.480
OK.

1454
01:15:20.480 --> 01:15:23.880
What character of God are you resonating with these days?

1455
01:15:23.880 --> 01:15:24.880
Denise?

1456
01:15:24.880 --> 01:15:26.160
Definitely provider.

1457
01:15:26.160 --> 01:15:29.040
I'm learning how to trust him for everything.

1458
01:15:29.040 --> 01:15:30.840
Rhonda?

1459
01:15:30.840 --> 01:15:32.880
I would say it's probably not.

1460
01:15:32.880 --> 01:15:34.320
I would say covering.

1461
01:15:34.320 --> 01:15:36.520
He's my covering at every present.

1462
01:15:36.520 --> 01:15:38.680
He's just been such good company lately.

1463
01:15:38.680 --> 01:15:39.480
Oh, I love that.

1464
01:15:39.480 --> 01:15:40.600
Lori?

1465
01:15:40.600 --> 01:15:43.320
Niecy, because he's my banner.

1466
01:15:43.320 --> 01:15:47.080
I'm trusting him through the changes of health care.

1467
01:15:47.080 --> 01:15:47.960
I love that.

1468
01:15:47.960 --> 01:15:50.520
Jeannie?

1469
01:15:50.520 --> 01:15:56.560
With Rhonda, just his presence and comfort,

1470
01:15:56.560 --> 01:16:02.040
just nonstop, nonstop talking to him and him to me.

1471
01:16:02.040 --> 01:16:05.720
And it's just been really comforting.

1472
01:16:05.720 --> 01:16:06.400
Awesome.

1473
01:16:06.400 --> 01:16:07.040
Great.

1474
01:16:07.040 --> 01:16:08.520
All right, last question, ladies.

1475
01:16:08.520 --> 01:16:10.440
Tell us what you're looking for.

1476
01:16:10.440 --> 01:16:11.280
Rhonda, you're up.

1477
01:16:11.280 --> 01:16:13.280
I mean, Denise, you're up.

1478
01:16:13.280 --> 01:16:14.320
My spirit mate.

1479
01:16:14.320 --> 01:16:17.200
Honestly, somebody just to play this game called life with.

1480
01:16:17.200 --> 01:16:19.240
But he's got to love God more than he loves me.

1481
01:16:19.240 --> 01:16:21.760
I love that answer from one of the gentlemen tonight.

1482
01:16:21.760 --> 01:16:22.880
Yeah, that was good.

1483
01:16:22.880 --> 01:16:24.240
Rhonda, how about you?

1484
01:16:24.240 --> 01:16:26.560
Yeah, I agree.

1485
01:16:26.560 --> 01:16:28.240
I'm looking for a running mate.

1486
01:16:28.240 --> 01:16:31.400
Like, I got tired of waiting, so I'm running.

1487
01:16:31.400 --> 01:16:32.360
I'm running right now.

1488
01:16:32.360 --> 01:16:34.440
And I just, my heart's desire is to be

1489
01:16:34.440 --> 01:16:36.160
able to just look over to the next lane

1490
01:16:36.160 --> 01:16:38.680
and just see my running mate.

1491
01:16:38.680 --> 01:16:40.560
So knowing that we're in the same race,

1492
01:16:40.560 --> 01:16:44.400
we're like minded in terms of calling and hopes

1493
01:16:44.400 --> 01:16:49.200
for the future and an ability to dream together and partner

1494
01:16:49.200 --> 01:16:51.040
well.

1495
01:16:51.040 --> 01:16:51.600
Awesome.

1496
01:16:51.600 --> 01:16:52.120
I love it.

1497
01:16:52.120 --> 01:16:53.120
And have fun.

1498
01:16:53.120 --> 01:16:53.800
Yes.

1499
01:16:54.360 --> 01:16:54.840
Always.

1500
01:16:54.840 --> 01:16:58.720
I have laughed more in the last year with Brian

1501
01:16:58.720 --> 01:17:00.720
than I've laughed in the last five years.

1502
01:17:00.720 --> 01:17:03.320
So laugh often.

1503
01:17:03.320 --> 01:17:05.120
Lori.

1504
01:17:05.120 --> 01:17:08.840
I'm looking for, again, I have to bring up the height thing

1505
01:17:08.840 --> 01:17:11.840
because that's something I ask God for.

1506
01:17:11.840 --> 01:17:14.600
Almost a non-negotiable for me.

1507
01:17:14.600 --> 01:17:17.040
And so six foot.

1508
01:17:17.040 --> 01:17:18.200
Girl, you're six feet.

1509
01:17:18.200 --> 01:17:19.320
I get it.

1510
01:17:19.320 --> 01:17:21.080
I'm going to bow to you on that one.

1511
01:17:21.080 --> 01:17:22.600
We're going to give that one to you.

1512
01:17:23.400 --> 01:17:25.880
Power couple.

1513
01:17:25.880 --> 01:17:26.760
You know, it's funny.

1514
01:17:26.760 --> 01:17:28.160
My friend, Allison Allen, I don't

1515
01:17:28.160 --> 01:17:29.960
know if any of you guys watch back porch

1516
01:17:29.960 --> 01:17:32.080
theology with Lisa Harper.

1517
01:17:32.080 --> 01:17:34.640
And so the sidekick on that show is Allison Allen.

1518
01:17:34.640 --> 01:17:36.200
And she's one of my dearest friends.

1519
01:17:36.200 --> 01:17:38.000
She's actually going to be singing at my wedding

1520
01:17:38.000 --> 01:17:38.840
with her husband.

1521
01:17:38.840 --> 01:17:42.040
And she jokes that she's five foot 12.

1522
01:17:42.040 --> 01:17:45.040
And Jonathan is easily over six feet tall.

1523
01:17:45.040 --> 01:17:46.360
So I get it, girl.

1524
01:17:46.360 --> 01:17:46.880
I get it.

1525
01:17:46.880 --> 01:17:49.120
OK.

1526
01:17:49.120 --> 01:17:50.840
What is, and then I'm sorry, I'm going to give you

1527
01:17:50.840 --> 01:17:52.000
one more bonus question.

1528
01:17:52.000 --> 01:17:53.800
Is there anything that you want the world

1529
01:17:53.800 --> 01:17:55.360
to know, this group to know about you

1530
01:17:55.360 --> 01:17:57.120
that I did not ask you?

1531
01:17:57.120 --> 01:17:57.640
Denise.

1532
01:18:01.240 --> 01:18:06.760
I'm just looking to probably find ways to serve more.

1533
01:18:06.760 --> 01:18:07.600
Awesome.

1534
01:18:07.600 --> 01:18:08.400
Great.

1535
01:18:08.400 --> 01:18:11.000
Rhonda.

1536
01:18:11.000 --> 01:18:12.720
That's a deep question, girl.

1537
01:18:18.360 --> 01:18:20.400
Never judge a book by its cover, I think.

1538
01:18:20.440 --> 01:18:25.880
It's just a lot of the substance and weight

1539
01:18:25.880 --> 01:18:28.760
that a lot of the women carry here in this place

1540
01:18:28.760 --> 01:18:33.320
is forged in the hard times and is forged in the fires.

1541
01:18:33.320 --> 01:18:38.120
So being able to walk in victory has a lot behind it.

1542
01:18:38.120 --> 01:18:39.440
So good.

1543
01:18:39.440 --> 01:18:40.280
So good.

1544
01:18:40.280 --> 01:18:42.600
Lori.

1545
01:18:42.600 --> 01:18:45.920
Just that I've been a part of a behavioral health suicide

1546
01:18:45.920 --> 01:18:48.640
prevention task force for six years.

1547
01:18:48.640 --> 01:18:52.160
It was created and we helped establish the 988 number.

1548
01:18:52.160 --> 01:18:55.360
So I am very involved with that.

1549
01:18:55.360 --> 01:19:03.640
I just want to continue to help people save lives.

1550
01:19:03.640 --> 01:19:06.400
And helping teenagers is really important.

1551
01:19:06.400 --> 01:19:08.280
That's about it.

1552
01:19:08.280 --> 01:19:09.120
Love it.

1553
01:19:09.120 --> 01:19:10.680
Jeannie.

1554
01:19:10.680 --> 01:19:14.680
I think that I'm really entrepreneurial

1555
01:19:14.680 --> 01:19:17.480
and I love kingdom minded businesses.

1556
01:19:18.480 --> 01:19:22.480
My business is based on helping those kingdom

1557
01:19:22.480 --> 01:19:26.480
minded business owners have the stability in their bookkeeping

1558
01:19:26.480 --> 01:19:28.120
and things like that.

1559
01:19:28.120 --> 01:19:30.440
So I'm very mission minded as well.

1560
01:19:30.440 --> 01:19:33.800
And yeah, I'm just looking for someone

1561
01:19:33.800 --> 01:19:37.960
that can help support me as I support them because I'm

1562
01:19:37.960 --> 01:19:39.440
very supportive as well.

1563
01:19:39.440 --> 01:19:40.240
I love it.

1564
01:19:40.240 --> 01:19:40.800
I love it.

1565
01:19:40.800 --> 01:19:41.920
Thank you so much.

1566
01:19:41.920 --> 01:19:43.040
OK.

1567
01:19:43.040 --> 01:19:45.080
You guys are fabulous.

1568
01:19:45.080 --> 01:19:46.320
I'm so proud of you.

1569
01:19:46.320 --> 01:19:48.760
You did good.

1570
01:19:48.760 --> 01:19:51.360
Ladies, if I missed you, I'll get you next time.

1571
01:19:51.360 --> 01:19:54.840
I promise we always do this.

1572
01:19:54.840 --> 01:19:55.720
OK.

1573
01:19:55.720 --> 01:19:58.400
So we had three wonderful men tonight.

1574
01:19:58.400 --> 01:19:59.840
You know how to reach out to them.

1575
01:19:59.840 --> 01:20:01.400
It's the.

1576
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:03.440
Spotlight email, I was wrong at first.

1577
01:20:03.440 --> 01:20:07.720
And you guys, stop asking about men's heights.

1578
01:20:07.720 --> 01:20:09.180
Do you remember Jackie said about that?

1579
01:20:09.180 --> 01:20:10.360
Like, okay, six foot girl,

1580
01:20:10.360 --> 01:20:12.120
she was allowed to ask about men's heights.

1581
01:20:12.120 --> 01:20:14.080
The rest of you stop asking how tall these men are.

1582
01:20:14.080 --> 01:20:15.160
Stop it.

1583
01:20:15.160 --> 01:20:16.000
I'm kidding.

1584
01:20:16.000 --> 01:20:17.720
But like, seriously.

1585
01:20:17.720 --> 01:20:18.880
I mean, I know I'm 4'11".

1586
01:20:18.880 --> 01:20:20.560
It's really easy for me to say that.

1587
01:20:20.560 --> 01:20:24.180
However, I would hate to see you miss out on your guy

1588
01:20:24.180 --> 01:20:25.520
because of an inch.

1589
01:20:26.480 --> 01:20:27.500
Just saying.

1590
01:20:27.500 --> 01:20:28.340
All right.

1591
01:20:29.200 --> 01:20:30.520
Let's see.

1592
01:20:30.520 --> 01:20:32.080
Dave, are you still on?

1593
01:20:32.080 --> 01:20:33.200
David, are you still on?

1594
01:20:33.200 --> 01:20:34.640
Yeah, I'm here.

1595
01:20:34.640 --> 01:20:36.760
Would you close us out in prayer?

1596
01:20:36.760 --> 01:20:37.600
I'd love to.

1597
01:20:38.840 --> 01:20:42.320
So Father God, we just thank you for this opportunity, Lord.

1598
01:20:42.320 --> 01:20:45.560
And we thank you that we are spotlighted by you, Lord.

1599
01:20:45.560 --> 01:20:47.960
And Father, we just pray in our life,

1600
01:20:47.960 --> 01:20:48.960
wherever we are, Lord,

1601
01:20:48.960 --> 01:20:51.520
would you bring us closer to you, Father?

1602
01:20:51.520 --> 01:20:54.600
And Lord, we just pray that you would prepare our hearts

1603
01:20:54.600 --> 01:20:57.440
and make us ready for our spirit mates, Father.

1604
01:20:57.460 --> 01:20:59.180
And Lord, we just thank you for Renee.

1605
01:20:59.180 --> 01:21:02.420
I pray a special blessing over her and her family.

1606
01:21:02.420 --> 01:21:04.700
And Lord, I just thank you for her leadership tonight.

1607
01:21:04.700 --> 01:21:06.740
And we just pray all this in your name.

1608
01:21:06.740 --> 01:21:07.880
Amen.

1609
01:21:07.880 --> 01:21:08.720
Awesome.

1610
01:21:08.720 --> 01:21:12.000
Hey, you guys have a great night, everybody.