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here if you need me as the host.

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Yay!

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And Cheryl's here for me to make me look good.

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All right, it is single spotlight tonight.

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We are doing community spotlight.

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So I have started talking,

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and now I'm gonna say it while it's being taped.

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Two things for you.

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You guys is make sure that you just get rid of any lie

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that the enemy is telling you

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that you're not doing enough of something.

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You're doing too much of something.

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What are you doing wrong?

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Or why is God not blessing you?

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Like sometimes those things have nothing to do with you.

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And like I just said a moment ago,

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like I don't think I did anything different last year

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that I did the year before.

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I just feel like this is God's timing.

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But I also believe that we live with spiritual warfare.

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And as much as the enemy wants to break up families,

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he wants to prevent them from happening in the first place.

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And so we don't fight against flesh and blood sometimes.

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We fight in the spirit.

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So we just have to keep on doing the things

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that bring us joy.

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Keep moving your story along

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and let the lies of the enemy just go to the curb.

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And just don't believe any of it.

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Trust that God has you.

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And I will say this, you guys,

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and I was just with a friend today for like a couple hours

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because her and her boyfriend just broke up.

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Like they were literally talking about Simbis a week ago.

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And now they just broke up and she's just devastated.

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And y'all like their relationship's been,

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like I know Jackie says, it doesn't have to be easy.

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It just has to be worth it.

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There's a difference between not easy and worth it.

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And you are pulling teeth to make the relationship work.

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If you are doing all the work in the relationship,

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all the compromise, all of the hustle,

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that's different than not easy.

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That's, and I will say this,

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after having been with those relationships

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and what I have right now,

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y'all wait for the right person.

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Wait for the person who treats you like gold.

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Wait for the person who cherishes you.

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Wait for the person who is your best friend.

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I promise you, keep living your life.

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It's gonna be super worth it.

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Okay, so if you are camera ready

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and you're ready for me to spotlight you,

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you're gonna have your name, comma,

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your age, comma, your state.

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So I am going to, all right, where were you before?

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Aaron, I'm spotlighting you.

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Let me see if I can pin you, if I can do this correctly.

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Bam, all right, that's one.

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You know what?

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Cheryl, I'm pretty sure you've not been spotlighted.

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You know, sometimes when we work in the program,

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everyone just assumes like, oh, no, no, no, no, okay.

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Kenton, I know you just got spotlighted,

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but dude, I want you to,

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you didn't get to do the questions with me, right?

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Kenton, you didn't, right?

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I'm adding you,

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because I just want to hear from you tonight.

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Bop, bop, bop, bop.

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I can do that if you want.

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I know, girl.

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All right, Kylie, I'm getting you.

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All right, I got my first four.

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Bam, okay, look at these four lovely people.

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All right, are you guys ready?

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Da, da, da, da.

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Okay, so we're gonna go around the circle

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and I'll call on you

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and you'll start to learn who's on the top.

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All right, so your first question is your name and age.

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All right, actually, let me put it into the chat

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so you see it.

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Da, da, da, da.

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Paste.

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All right, so it's in there.

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And so it's your name and age,

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obviously, which is already on your screen.

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Where do you live?

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Do you have kids?

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Do you want kids?

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And you guys, please answer this question honestly,

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because that is what actually just broke up this couple.

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He decided that he did not want to help raise her children.

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She's had the same four kids for the last seven months.

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This was not new information.

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They didn't suddenly show up on the scene.

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So we wanna make sure that we're really honest about that.

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What's your job?

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Can you relocate?

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And again, if you have custody with your ex and their little,

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Jackie doesn't want you to move and separate that system.

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Do you have a pet?

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Do you have issues with somebody with a pet?

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Because some people have allergies and it's a thing.

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And then name to interest.

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So Erin, Joy, you are up first.

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Woo, woo.

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All right, unmuting, howdy.

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All right, name, Erin Joy Crossfield, age 48.

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I live in Durham, North Carolina and have for like 20 years.

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I do not have kids, never married, no kids.

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I don't mind having somebody else's kids.

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I work for the state, I'm an analyst.

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That's my job.

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I do housing policy and analysis.

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I can relocate.

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I can relocate.

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I don't have any pets.

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I don't really have a big affinity for pets

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and I have slight allergies that I could use as an excuse,

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but it's really just.

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I like people and two interests, let's see.

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One interest is I've taken up musical theater

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just in the last three or four years and I'm loving it.

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I love that.

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Okay, so do you sing?

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Are you doing all of the things?

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Well, it's community theater,

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so we all do the things.

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Yeah, yeah, for sure.

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It's a big chip-in process and I sing middlingly well,

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but fine in a crowd.

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Yeah, let's see, what else?

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I would say lately my other hobby has been,

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I'm one of the peer coaches for this group,

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so I hang out with all y'all online

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and those two things fill up the spare time.

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They do, they do.

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Erin, I started running lights for community theater

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and now I'm like the chief baker,

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so whenever there's like really fancy food in the play,

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I've been known to make like 16 chocolate chiffon cakes

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for a show run, so it's fun.

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Local theater is awesome, love it.

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Hi everyone, my name is Cheryl Guiong, I am 53.

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I'm in Calgary, Alberta, Canada,

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and one of your hosts here with Single City Calgary,

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but also too in the background with last year's single,

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so good to be with you here.

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I'm single, never married, I do love kids,

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don't have any of my own, and I can relocate.

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My job is wherever my laptop is.

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I don't have a pet, I have pet-setted.

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but we'll see, you know, I'm pretty open to that.

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At first I wasn't, but coming around.

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And to my interest, you know me,

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especially those within the area,

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I do a lot of confections,

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so whenever, if I was to bring something,

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I'd be something of a dessert

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or something to bite your sweet tooth, so that's one.

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And then the other one is,

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the other thing that I like doing

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is just checking out cooking classes.

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I love learning, and so that's another thing.

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Anything culinary, anything confections, that would be me.

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I love that.

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Kenton, you are up.

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I am, thank you,

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and it's good to be with everybody tonight.

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Hello, ladies.

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My name is Kenton Rostolka.

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I do live in Edmonton, Alberta, just three hours north,

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and by the way, we go by hours in Canada,

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not by miles from Calgary, so that's a good place to be.

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Yes, I've got four kids, and I have 10 grandchildren.

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Do I love kids?

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I love grandchildren.

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I love, especially when the babies,

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when the babies come, it's like,

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give me the babies, I'll take them.

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Okay, it's all good.

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Where do I work?

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I work up north in the minefields

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in the Alberta oil sands.

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I'm a heavy operator up there.

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I drive the biggest trucks in the world,

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they're three stories high.

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Yes, I definitely can relocate.

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Comes to pets.

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Anything that's got a doodle in it, that's fine.

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Otherwise, I just don't like the hair.

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I have to be quite honest.

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Hair gets everywhere.

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No, thank you.

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Two interests.

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Two interests is mentoring and discipling young people.

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I love doing that.

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That's one of my favorite times.

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I do that whenever I'm home.

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I also am a sports and bodybuilding enthusiast.

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So I've gone back to bodybuilding.

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I used to be a bodybuilder at one time.

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I've gone back to it again now.

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And I love training up gentlemen.

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And you've probably seen that in many of my comments

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and how our young men are growing up.

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And I appreciate a good gentleman,

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especially the one who really knows how to look after

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his lady or the ladies around them.

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That's a little bit about me.

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Thank you.

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I'm telling you ladies,

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I've been able to be in small groups with Kenton.

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He is the real deal.

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Y'all should be running after this guy.

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Kylie.

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Is it Kylie?

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Am I saying that right?

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Yeah, you are.

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You betcha.

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You're up girl.

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Hold on.

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I gotta find these questions.

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So obviously my name is Kylie.

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I am 34.

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I live in Humboldt, Saskatchewan.

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I have three kids, 11 and under.

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I currently stay at home with them while I'm taking some,

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I'm studying nutrition right now.

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So I'm doing that.

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Can I relocate?

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So I have a custody arrangement.

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It's not.

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Potentially it would be something that I'd have to like really talk to that person about I do not have pets

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I don't really have an issue with pets, but I also don't love animals. So

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Just putting that out there to interest. I love baking

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I baked cookies and banana bread today, and I love competitions

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So I'm doing a crossfit competition and a high rocks competition at the end of this month

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I'm flying to Dallas to do a high rocks competition escape rooms

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Beaches all that kind of thing

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Love it. Oh my gosh, and you guys I didn't even mean to pick three candidate people

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I don't know how that happened. That was awesome. I love it

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Okay, these questions in the beginning are gonna be fast the first one

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Besides water. What are the beverages that you most often reach out for and it could be like a few answers

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Like I'm a coffee girl and after a big seminary exam, I'm an espresso martini girl. So there you go

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Erin you are up Oh

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Coffee, absolutely and to my embarrassment more than water. Yeah

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Erin, how do you take your coffee?

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Anyway, it comes I am I am a happy camper with it black and I also like it as fluffy and amazing as it

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Can get I love that. That's so fun. Okay, Cheryl, you're up

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Give me a good matcha or a latte. I mean a matcha or a chai latte. It's high latte

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Okay, those are good ones. Those are good ones

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Kenton how about you? I love my specialty coffees. I'm a snob for him. I

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Love it. I love it and Kylie

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Diet coke. Oh

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my gosh, okay, I

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Y'all America has the best diet cokes at McDonald's. Okay, Canada waters ours down

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This is the McDonald's diet coke and I I never drink diet coke

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But recently I saw that somebody swore that the diet coke from McDonald's tastes different and is better

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My gosh, I'm not gonna tell us about all the chemicals in there, but it's okay

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All right. The next question. Do you have a nickname? We all have a nickname

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And what's the story behind your nickname? Aaron Joey? Um, I don't really have a nickname now

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Um, I did used to just go by Aaron for like 30 years

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And then the Lord pointed out that he named me Aaron joy on purpose

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So I would say now I would categorize Aaron as a nickname

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When I was in high school people used to call me popsicle because I cannot keep my own internal temperature

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I think I must be like part chameleon or something. So cold all the time unless I make a point to bundle. I

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Love that. I love that

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Cheryl I know you got one. Oh, yeah. Well, I have a couple so

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To a lot of my missionary friends

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I'm called Chesa is something it I got from us when I was in Australia doing my internship with YWAM

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and so they called me Chesa there and then

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Amongst my well my Cole different colleagues when I was working in

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Industry they called me radar because I was like for those that may have remembered mashed radar

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O'Reilly because I would protect things before they even you know had to ask me so I was already on top of things

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So they called me radar. I

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Love it. I love it

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Okay, Kenton you're up

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Well, I don't have a nickname presently, which is which is kind of nice for a change

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But as I was on the on the force, I was known as rusty on in these on the streets

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So we usually didn't give our names out

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So they we always had a name for each other

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But and it's obviously by my last name with the RST and the why it happened

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Actually, it happened to follow right through my whole family line. Well, my brothers have the same nickname as well. I

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Love it and Kylie

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I don't really have a nickname. Some people call me Kai as a child

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I was called Kylie ketchup because I ate upon literally

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literally everything I

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Love that. I

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Love that. Okay next question

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This is it's a double question. This is telling us how clean you are

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Might as well learn this information. Do you make your bed every day?

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Do you put the dishes in the sink or do you wait to do them in the morning or do you put them out in the

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dishwasher, so

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It's kind of cleaning habits here. I

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Make my bed two-thirds of the time and I do the dishes two-thirds of the time

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That's good. That's good

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I'm very similar to Aaron joy

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majority of the time I do make my bed and

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Most majority of the time I also do all the dishes because whenever I've something when I was going through pastry schools

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though. Okay. Yeah. So you want to make sure everything's clean

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and done all the way through. So yeah, love it.

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Well, for myself, I do make my bed every day. I've been

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trained to do that since childhood. And I kept it right

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on going back to actually nice to come to home something at

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least is made. But secondly, I love house cleaning. Sorry,

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sorry, guys, I hate to do that to you. But I love house

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cleaning. So it

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yet another reason why to snag this man ladies right here.

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That's the cleaning.

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Kylie

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my bed is hit me if I make it, but I do dishes as they come. So

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as soon as there's a dish, I literally wash it. I am the

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dishwasher. I don't have one sadly.

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Oh my goodness. By the way, if you are not camera ready, and

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or you're in your car or something, like Cheryl said, you

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can always throw the answers in. As long as your profile photo

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is up at least for somebody to kind of see it. That'd be

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great. Okay.

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All right. Now we had a lot of altruistic answers the last

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time. So you don't have to be you can be totally selfish in

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vain on this next question. If you could have a superpower,

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what would it be?

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Time travel?

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Ooh, where are you going? Aaron?

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I want to meet Cyrus of Persia. I feel like the first person to

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like, like,

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yeah, he's like kind of a hero.

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Tell me why, though. What one thing do you want to ask?

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Um, I want to observe how he ran a kingdom where all of the his

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vassal states had like so much autonomy. And as long as they

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kept not causing trouble and paying taxes, like he was he was

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nearly universally beloved, except for in the instances

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where he had to call a rebellion. And that's amazing.

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Yeah, it's amazing. We had to learn about him. And yeah, I

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think that would be fascinating. One time travel. That's great.

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Okay, Cheryl, you're up.

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I would love my I would love to know every language in the

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world. So I can communicate better.

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I think in heaven, we get to do that.

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Kenton,

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I've got to actually, one would be I'm breaking the rules. I

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know that I did. I'm a rule breaker. But anyway, I do enjoy

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list, keep watching people get healed. So I'd love to have that

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power Jesus had that he just healed all that came to him.

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That'd be kind of neat. Secondly, I'd like to know also

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be able to be able to read people's minds, especially

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women's minds, because they're complicated. But that sure

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would be fun doing.

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Okay, the Mel Gibson movie is course coming to my mind. And

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that is sometimes way too much information. But I can see that

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the appeal of that Kylie.

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I would have to choose either mind reading or time or

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teleportation. For sure.

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I love it. I love it. That was fun. Okay. So and you know, if

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you say all of the above on this one, that's okay, too. You're

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going on vacation. Typically, where do you like to go the

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beach, the mountain snow or tourist city?

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Hmm, I would probably go to to a city with museums. I love

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museum and a docent led tour and educational things. Second

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choice would be the mountains.

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Okay, I like it. What time of year in the mountains?

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Oh, of course. Well, certainly.

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Yes. Okay, Joe.

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I love city life. And I love exploring different cities. And

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then if anything, I love doing again, because I have loved

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missions. I love going to other rural countries and exploring

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them and meeting people and understanding their culture and

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trying their food. So that would be me.

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Cool.

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I love the mountains, ladies. I do love them. I can go anywhere.

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I love hiking. I love anything to do with I'm a hunter as well.

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So it's obviously that's why. But another one would be also

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exploring. I love to explore the old pyramids or old ancient

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places. You want to take me to the Noah's Ark? I'll go there.

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Nice. I love it. Kylie?

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Beach for sure. I'm also an adventure person. So like any

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type of thing. I want to do it on a little holiday.

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Awesome. I love it. Okay. Since some of you kind of cheated in

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order to give this answer. However, I want to I want to be

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specific. If you're going to the potluck picnic, the last year

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single potluck picnic, what you bring in?

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So I when I was growing up, my family made something that we

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called Hawaiian haystacks. I don't know what other people

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call them, but it's just a pile of stuff, rice and crunchy

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noodles and pineapple and chicken and gravy and raisins

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and croutons and peanuts and.

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Yeah, all sorts of things and just in a pile and it's terrific and you can add what you

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like and not add what you don't like and people seem to enjoy it.

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I love it.

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Yep.

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I'd probably figure out some kind of artisanal cheesecake.

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So that's what I'd probably bring.

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Yeah.

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Canton?

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Oh, sorry.

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Um, yes, my favorite is Perlgis.

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It's a, if you don't know what they are, they're basically a dumpling style and they have bacon

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and potatoes and onions and, um, and cheese in it.

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And it is to die for, especially when it's boiled and then you put butter and sour cream

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on it.

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Yeah.

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It's just melts in your mouth.

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It's so good.

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But then again, I'm very practical.

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I like rice, rice, crispy squares as well.

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Love it.

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I love it.

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Kylie.

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If the potluck's in America, I low-key feel like I need to bring a poutine, but I would

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really bring cinnamon buns.

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Oh my goodness.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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Okay.

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We're moving on.

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What do your friends say they love most about you?

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Hmm.

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I don't know.

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I now think I need to ask.

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I have a peanut gallery chiming up humor, humor.

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My sister's in that group.

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See that?

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I love that.

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You know, I like your very positive attitude, Erin.

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Like I read so many of your comments to everybody.

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You find the silver lining in every story.

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Even when somebody feels like they're dumping all this, you're like, oh, but look at this

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thing that you just learned.

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That's so awesome.

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Thank you.

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I'm going to say that about you.

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Okay.

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Cheryl.

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Gosh, I would say that I'm kind of like the gatherer of our friends and stuff like that.

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So just bringing everybody together, but also that I, you know, loyal and listen.

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So those are three of the main things I would say that they would say about me.

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You are loyal.

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And Cheryl got your back, people.

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She's got your back.

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All right.

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What would your friends say about you?

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It's funny because I just recently had a bunch of friends, close friends actually do this

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on media.

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And so some of their comments were, I'll read them out.

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I'm a very generous person.

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Very kind.

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I'm an advocate for women, especially women in ministry.

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My humor, it can be dry, but they love it.

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I'm a great encourager and very loyal to the very deep.

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I'll stay like a puppy dog that gets kicked once in a while, but I'll keep on coming back.

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I love it.

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Kylie?

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I'm probably my free spirit.

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I'm very like childlike.

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I love having fun and laughing.

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It's just like a joy, honestly, wherever I go, I'm just bringing the positivity and good

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vibes.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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Okay.

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What do you wish more people knew about you?

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Oh man, I really wish I had prepared ahead of time.

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And it's okay.

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The next round, I'm doing slightly different questions.

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So for those-

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Everybody be on the spot.

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Oh, I'm going to have the perfect answer ready.

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Maybe not.

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Hmm.

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I can come back to you, Erin.

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Yeah.

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Would you mind?

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Yeah.

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I do not mind.

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Thanks.

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Cheryl, I'm going to put you in the hot seat.

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Oh, let's see.

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Probably that I've helped do a lot of startups that are just close to my heart.

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And so it's something that to be part of something, it's always been part of my joy.

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So yeah.

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Love that.

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I love that.

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Kenton, what do you wish more people knew about you?

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Wish people could really know about myself would be that I'm the real thing.

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I'm very honest, open, and I'm secure about who I am.

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And I know what I want in life.

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And in doing so, that scares people away because it's almost too much for them.

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So they don't always think.

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I've had people actually say to me, you're too good to be true.

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You're too good to be true.

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And I say, you're right.

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00:24:33.280 --> 00:24:34.280
I am.

509
00:24:34.280 --> 00:24:36.280
Because I know who I am and I love people.

510
00:24:36.280 --> 00:24:39.280
And that's why I love encouraging people and lifting them up at all times.

511
00:24:39.400 --> 00:24:42.400
See, that's the good part about the sweet spot of being over 60.

512
00:24:42.400 --> 00:24:44.400
You don't give a poop anymore.

513
00:24:44.400 --> 00:24:46.400
You're just going to be yourself and it's awesome.

514
00:24:46.400 --> 00:24:47.400
I love it.

515
00:24:47.400 --> 00:24:48.400
Kylie?

516
00:24:50.400 --> 00:24:51.400
I'm like Erin.

517
00:24:51.400 --> 00:24:54.400
I'm just sitting here and I'm like, what do I want people to know?

518
00:24:54.400 --> 00:24:56.400
Because I feel like I'm an open book.

519
00:24:56.400 --> 00:24:58.400
I feel like I'm very open with people.

520
00:24:58.400 --> 00:24:59.400
I don't hold a lot back.

521
00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:09.760
act. Um, yeah, I'm stumped. I'm not gonna lie. Okay, maybe, maybe so. Maybe, maybe so.

522
00:25:09.760 --> 00:25:14.560
So, um, well, like here's me being vulnerable on this question. Like, you know, everyone

523
00:25:14.560 --> 00:25:19.080
sees like, oh, Renee is so outgoing and friendly. Like she has no problem talking to a bunch

524
00:25:19.080 --> 00:25:24.800
of bunch of people, but like, it's not that I wish more people knew this about me, but

525
00:25:24.800 --> 00:25:33.200
I will say this, I'm far more insecure, um, and, and deal with creeps of unworthiness

526
00:25:33.200 --> 00:25:37.820
way more than the average person would think about me. And so I would want people to know

527
00:25:37.820 --> 00:25:42.360
that to just be a little more tender with me. Sometimes I think people think I've got

528
00:25:42.360 --> 00:25:47.600
really thicker skin than I do because I come off with a lot of confidence. So that's an

529
00:25:47.600 --> 00:25:53.400
example of me showing a little vulnerability. So Aaron, do you think you have one right

530
00:25:53.400 --> 00:26:01.320
now? Yeah, I do. Um, well related, tangential. Um, I, I am, um, I am generally charming

531
00:26:01.320 --> 00:26:06.920
and sort of baseline professional with everybody, but when I'm with my family, I'm way, way

532
00:26:06.920 --> 00:26:11.520
more relaxed. So I have definitely asked the Lord before that when my guy meets me, that

533
00:26:11.520 --> 00:26:15.360
he gets pretty quickly to see me around my people and around my family so that he can

534
00:26:15.360 --> 00:26:19.640
see a more genuine version of me and not my like professional best foot forward self.

535
00:26:19.640 --> 00:26:26.640
So you got a little goofy side. I love that. All right, Kylie, last chance. You got it?

536
00:26:26.640 --> 00:26:37.200
No, you're good. Um, yeah, I, I guess maybe more people, it would be kind of nice for

537
00:26:37.200 --> 00:26:42.200
them to get to see how I am with my children. Cause I guess I don't get to show that side

538
00:26:42.200 --> 00:26:48.440
a lot of the time with, um, dating prospects. No one's ever met my children. So that would

539
00:26:48.440 --> 00:26:53.600
be, that's good. Cause you're a mom and that's a big side of who you are. That's so good.

540
00:26:53.600 --> 00:27:00.840
Great. Last question, people tell us who you're looking for, what you're looking for.

541
00:27:00.840 --> 00:27:06.160
Um, I, I once upon a time, the Lord told me I'm not allowed to pay attention to age. So

542
00:27:06.160 --> 00:27:12.020
that is not on my list of things I'm looking for. I would love a guy that enjoys talking

543
00:27:12.020 --> 00:27:17.080
about the Bible instead of thinking of like, it's just a responsible part of church going

544
00:27:17.080 --> 00:27:27.680
life or whatever. Um, because it's super fun. Um, and, um, generally, uh, an appropriate

545
00:27:27.680 --> 00:27:33.640
understanding of work-life balance. Um, but also like a good solid hard worker, not a

546
00:27:33.640 --> 00:27:38.040
person who uses, I want work-life balance as an excuse to like maintain a part-time

547
00:27:39.040 --> 00:27:49.960
lifestyle. I love it. I love it. Cheryl. Um, definitely a communicator. I love great conversation

548
00:27:49.960 --> 00:27:55.280
and it would have to also have slight geekish side. Cause I kind of do so, you know, that

549
00:27:55.280 --> 00:27:59.000
I think that's, that helps. And I know that that's something actually Jackie's called

550
00:27:59.000 --> 00:28:03.120
me on. It goes, you need somebody that needs to communicate well. And he's like, I do agree

551
00:28:03.120 --> 00:28:10.400
on that. And also somebody that shows general kindness, not only to themselves, but to others,

552
00:28:10.400 --> 00:28:16.440
you know? And so I think that also goes a long way, you know, as, and also kind of fits

553
00:28:16.440 --> 00:28:23.360
within like what I would consider as a true gentleman, you know? So, and that, and in

554
00:28:23.360 --> 00:28:29.280
that kindness also has generosity because then, you know, they're generous for the time

555
00:28:29.400 --> 00:28:35.200
themselves, you know, with others. So just, yeah, I think that those are three main things

556
00:28:35.200 --> 00:28:41.200
that I would definitely, um, definitely be looking for or be hoping and praying for.

557
00:28:42.040 --> 00:28:45.120
Awesome. Kenton.

558
00:28:46.880 --> 00:28:51.160
Well, this is, this one's always a high one for me and it's, uh, because of my age and

559
00:28:51.160 --> 00:28:55.320
everything else, I enjoy life to the fullest. So I'm definitely going to need somebody who's

560
00:28:55.320 --> 00:29:01.880
going to continue to love, um, life in itself, but more so that, uh, they'd love to keep

561
00:29:01.880 --> 00:29:06.560
themselves in good shape, but because I am an athlete and I would like a lady who would

562
00:29:06.560 --> 00:29:12.280
like to join me in all my athletic adventures, it would be sports or it would be hiking,

563
00:29:12.600 --> 00:29:16.720
hunting, fishing, whatever it might be there. I'd love somebody who would like to be a true

564
00:29:16.720 --> 00:29:20.200
partner so that we join together and really enjoy each other. So I'm looking for almost

565
00:29:20.200 --> 00:29:25.520
somebody who's like myself. They say opposite track. Yeah, they do. That's always good for

566
00:29:25.520 --> 00:29:30.440
each other. I found that out already, but somebody who can out-talk me, that would be an

567
00:29:30.440 --> 00:29:33.080
interesting one because usually I seem to get...

568
00:29:33.080 --> 00:29:40.040
Okay. So she needs to be Italian. So we need to find her an Italian or a New Yorker or a

569
00:29:40.040 --> 00:29:44.800
New Yorker. I'm just kidding. You know, somebody who can get the gift of gab. I love it.

570
00:29:45.480 --> 00:29:51.360
And a person and a lady who really loves people, uh, who's hospitable because I enjoy

571
00:29:51.560 --> 00:29:55.720
bringing people into my home and putting on parties for them or whatever, especially

572
00:29:55.720 --> 00:29:59.960
people that are underprivileged, people that would never be invited out to some.

573
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.500
to somebody's party ever again.

574
00:30:02.500 --> 00:30:04.340
Those people still need to be loved on.

575
00:30:04.340 --> 00:30:07.220
And I love being a police officer.

576
00:30:07.220 --> 00:30:08.900
I understand street people.

577
00:30:08.900 --> 00:30:12.100
And they're actually fantastic, lovable people.

578
00:30:12.100 --> 00:30:13.420
They just need somebody to love on them.

579
00:30:13.420 --> 00:30:14.260
That's all that is.

580
00:30:14.260 --> 00:30:18.860
So, and somebody who can really, who knows how to love,

581
00:30:18.860 --> 00:30:22.560
especially as a guy, us guys like to be known.

582
00:30:22.560 --> 00:30:24.420
We like to know that we're needed.

583
00:30:24.420 --> 00:30:26.500
And I always like to be needed.

584
00:30:26.500 --> 00:30:27.540
I'm a handyman, of course.

585
00:30:27.540 --> 00:30:30.060
So, it's easy to be needed,

586
00:30:30.060 --> 00:30:34.420
but it's nice when the person has to express themselves

587
00:30:34.420 --> 00:30:36.580
that, yes, they do need me.

588
00:30:36.580 --> 00:30:37.420
That'd be nice.

589
00:30:37.420 --> 00:30:38.260
Thank you.

590
00:30:38.260 --> 00:30:39.080
Sounds good.

591
00:30:39.080 --> 00:30:39.920
All right, Kylie, wrap it up.

592
00:30:41.380 --> 00:30:43.220
I would love to find somebody

593
00:30:43.220 --> 00:30:45.860
who really has more of a freer spirit like me.

594
00:30:45.860 --> 00:30:47.300
Like we like to joke around,

595
00:30:47.300 --> 00:30:49.420
do the silly trends on the internet.

596
00:30:50.620 --> 00:30:52.460
Somebody who's very intentional

597
00:30:52.460 --> 00:30:57.140
with how they handle stuff and like remembering things.

598
00:30:57.780 --> 00:30:58.620
I really desire that.

599
00:30:58.620 --> 00:31:01.660
And I really admire a man who like knows the direction

600
00:31:01.660 --> 00:31:04.140
he's headed, what he believes in, where he's going.

601
00:31:04.140 --> 00:31:07.260
I think that's super important for me

602
00:31:07.260 --> 00:31:08.100
and what I'm looking with.

603
00:31:08.100 --> 00:31:10.820
And obviously somebody who's got like a father heart

604
00:31:10.820 --> 00:31:12.740
and is gonna love my kids

605
00:31:12.740 --> 00:31:15.700
and wanna become kind of an instant type of family

606
00:31:15.700 --> 00:31:19.220
is what I, it's a couple of like the main things.

607
00:31:19.220 --> 00:31:20.060
Love it.

608
00:31:20.060 --> 00:31:23.060
All right, Erin Joy, Cheryl, Kenton, and Kylie.

609
00:31:23.060 --> 00:31:23.900
Great job.

610
00:31:23.900 --> 00:31:25.260
Woo, woo, woo, woo.

611
00:31:25.260 --> 00:31:27.260
All right, I'm gonna get my next four.

612
00:31:29.060 --> 00:31:31.540
And then what I'm gonna, how do I unpeel?

613
00:31:31.540 --> 00:31:32.740
Let's see, we're moving.

614
00:31:33.940 --> 00:31:38.260
Oh gosh, the dog, the dog.

615
00:31:38.260 --> 00:31:41.580
I'm slow, I'm slow, I'm slow, I'm slow, I'm slow.

616
00:31:41.580 --> 00:31:43.380
Okay, where, no, crap.

617
00:31:44.780 --> 00:31:46.500
Okay, let's see.

618
00:31:46.500 --> 00:31:48.620
Da, da, da, da.

619
00:31:48.620 --> 00:31:49.460
Boom.

620
00:31:50.340 --> 00:31:52.620
Da, da, ah, ah, ah, ah.

621
00:31:52.620 --> 00:31:53.880
Where are you now?

622
00:31:56.260 --> 00:31:57.100
Boom.

623
00:31:59.580 --> 00:32:01.160
David, I know I just talked to you,

624
00:32:01.160 --> 00:32:04.060
but I'm gonna give you different questions this time.

625
00:32:08.060 --> 00:32:12.560
Da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da, da.

626
00:32:12.560 --> 00:32:14.560
Okay, there's my next four.

627
00:32:14.560 --> 00:32:16.860
All right, and so after we're done with these four,

628
00:32:16.860 --> 00:32:20.340
I'm also, I know, my sweet little doggie.

629
00:32:20.340 --> 00:32:21.380
She's like crying.

630
00:32:21.380 --> 00:32:23.460
It's cause I'm up on the, like a bar stool.

631
00:32:23.460 --> 00:32:25.460
So like I'm not next to her.

632
00:32:25.460 --> 00:32:26.940
If I were sitting on the couch, she'd be great.

633
00:32:26.940 --> 00:32:28.880
All right, you've got two minutes.

634
00:32:28.880 --> 00:32:33.220
Let me go ahead and put it up there so you can see it.

635
00:32:33.220 --> 00:32:35.700
Really quick, your name, age, where do you live,

636
00:32:35.700 --> 00:32:38.820
kids, want kids, job, can you relocate,

637
00:32:38.820 --> 00:32:40.380
do you have a pet, do you have issues with pets,

638
00:32:40.380 --> 00:32:42.420
and two interests of yours.

639
00:32:42.420 --> 00:32:43.820
And then after we do this round,

640
00:32:43.820 --> 00:32:45.740
I'm gonna do just a teeny bit of Q&A

641
00:32:45.740 --> 00:32:47.980
that may have come up just from hearing people's answers.

642
00:32:47.980 --> 00:32:49.700
You're like, oh, I have a question.

643
00:32:49.700 --> 00:32:52.100
All right, Melissa Dawn, you are my first corner.

644
00:32:53.660 --> 00:32:56.900
Okay, so I live in Pennsylvania,

645
00:32:56.900 --> 00:32:58.940
but I am 100% Texan,

646
00:32:58.940 --> 00:33:02.080
although maybe not 100% cause I don't like football.

647
00:33:03.300 --> 00:33:06.900
And let's see, I am a continuationist.

648
00:33:06.900 --> 00:33:09.460
I love salsa and bachata dancing.

649
00:33:09.460 --> 00:33:13.020
I speak Spanish and a little bit of Portuguese.

650
00:33:13.020 --> 00:33:16.500
I love other cultures, have traveled to 23 countries.

651
00:33:16.500 --> 00:33:20.060
I value someone that is like me,

652
00:33:20.060 --> 00:33:22.160
single, never married, with no kids,

653
00:33:22.160 --> 00:33:24.280
but open to children.

654
00:33:24.280 --> 00:33:28.320
And I am open to whatever the Lord has,

655
00:33:28.320 --> 00:33:30.440
whether that's to have kids or not.

656
00:33:30.440 --> 00:33:34.400
I am a professor, and so I value intellectual stimulation.

657
00:33:34.400 --> 00:33:39.300
And I also really value growing and learning perpetually.

658
00:33:40.320 --> 00:33:43.200
Cool, Megan, go for it.

659
00:33:47.920 --> 00:33:51.160
Hey, I didn't know that I was gonna be selected.

660
00:33:51.320 --> 00:33:53.160
You put your age and your thing,

661
00:33:53.160 --> 00:33:54.920
so that told me you were ready, girl.

662
00:33:54.920 --> 00:33:55.760
Yes, I'm ready.

663
00:33:55.760 --> 00:33:57.680
I just wasn't expecting that, so.

664
00:33:59.200 --> 00:34:01.680
Yes, my name's Megan Legault.

665
00:34:01.680 --> 00:34:04.860
I am in San Antonio, Texas.

666
00:34:04.860 --> 00:34:07.260
Oh, that's a cute little dog you've got there.

667
00:34:09.120 --> 00:34:11.440
I am from DFW.

668
00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:12.600
I was in Austin,

669
00:34:12.600 --> 00:34:14.440
and then I've been in San Antonio for a bit,

670
00:34:14.440 --> 00:34:18.080
but I've been open to maybe moving back home to DFW.

671
00:34:18.080 --> 00:34:19.760
I'm definitely open to relocating.

672
00:34:19.760 --> 00:34:22.679
I've kind of had an itch to possibly move

673
00:34:22.679 --> 00:34:23.840
in the near future.

674
00:34:24.800 --> 00:34:26.639
I can move.

675
00:34:26.639 --> 00:34:29.000
I do work as a physical therapist,

676
00:34:29.000 --> 00:34:30.639
and I do home health PT,

677
00:34:30.639 --> 00:34:34.520
which thankfully I can find a job pretty much anywhere,

678
00:34:34.520 --> 00:34:37.500
because there's such a high need for physical therapists.

679
00:34:38.520 --> 00:34:41.840
I don't have kids, but I definitely want kids.

680
00:34:42.960 --> 00:34:46.440
And pets, I did have a dog.

681
00:34:46.440 --> 00:34:48.440
She just recently passed away.

682
00:34:48.440 --> 00:34:50.280
I just had to put her down like two weeks ago.

683
00:34:50.280 --> 00:34:51.920
I think some of y'all know about that.

684
00:34:51.920 --> 00:34:54.320
And so it's been a little bit challenging,

685
00:34:54.320 --> 00:34:58.360
but I am feeling a little better day by day.

686
00:34:58.360 --> 00:35:00.160
I do absolutely love dogs.

687
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.760
and I'd be open to somebody who had a dog.

688
00:35:02.760 --> 00:35:05.440
I'm not ready to get one myself just yet,

689
00:35:05.440 --> 00:35:06.600
but I would be open.

690
00:35:06.600 --> 00:35:09.080
And I'm actually allergic to cats.

691
00:35:09.080 --> 00:35:11.840
So that's kind of a little bit of a deal breaker

692
00:35:11.840 --> 00:35:13.360
for me with the cats.

693
00:35:14.560 --> 00:35:15.840
Okay.

694
00:35:15.840 --> 00:35:17.740
David, you know what, David, if you're not,

695
00:35:17.740 --> 00:35:18.580
oh, are you there?

696
00:35:18.580 --> 00:35:20.280
Oh my gosh, it didn't even look like you were there.

697
00:35:20.280 --> 00:35:22.560
It looked like a frozen photo of you.

698
00:35:22.560 --> 00:35:24.200
I thought it was like your photo.

699
00:35:24.200 --> 00:35:25.620
It's me, I'm here.

700
00:35:27.240 --> 00:35:28.880
Go ahead.

701
00:35:28.880 --> 00:35:31.840
Okay, so my name is David Wright.

702
00:35:31.840 --> 00:35:34.240
I'm from Kingston, Ontario, Canada,

703
00:35:34.240 --> 00:35:38.000
and I love all animals.

704
00:35:38.000 --> 00:35:38.920
I love dogs.

705
00:35:38.920 --> 00:35:40.220
I'm not so much a cat guy.

706
00:35:40.220 --> 00:35:42.080
That really depends on the cat and I.

707
00:35:43.200 --> 00:35:46.920
And yeah, I'm definitely willing to relocate.

708
00:35:46.920 --> 00:35:51.920
I would say my age range is probably like 32 to 43.

709
00:35:52.680 --> 00:35:54.800
Right now you're just telling us about your bub.

710
00:35:54.800 --> 00:35:55.640
You're good.

711
00:35:55.640 --> 00:35:57.160
Oh, sorry, my bad.

712
00:35:57.240 --> 00:36:00.240
Where do you live, kids, want kids?

713
00:36:00.240 --> 00:36:01.520
All right, can you relocate?

714
00:36:01.520 --> 00:36:02.360
Do you have a pet?

715
00:36:02.360 --> 00:36:03.760
Issues with pet, two interests.

716
00:36:03.760 --> 00:36:05.680
So you're telling us about you first.

717
00:36:05.680 --> 00:36:08.960
Okay, so definitely willing to relocate.

718
00:36:08.960 --> 00:36:09.960
I love all kids.

719
00:36:09.960 --> 00:36:12.140
And if you have kids, that's not a deal breaker

720
00:36:12.140 --> 00:36:13.160
for me at all.

721
00:36:13.160 --> 00:36:16.240
I'm definitely of the mind that, you know,

722
00:36:16.240 --> 00:36:18.720
my family, we have little kids all the way

723
00:36:18.720 --> 00:36:21.600
from like four weeks old to like nine years old

724
00:36:21.600 --> 00:36:22.880
and my brothers and their nieces.

725
00:36:22.880 --> 00:36:25.760
So if you've got a little guy, they're gonna fit right in.

726
00:36:25.760 --> 00:36:28.000
And that's my family's motto too.

727
00:36:28.000 --> 00:36:31.560
And yeah, two interests.

728
00:36:31.560 --> 00:36:34.320
I really am really enjoying watching women's rugby right now

729
00:36:34.320 --> 00:36:36.820
and Canada is doing so well.

730
00:36:36.820 --> 00:36:38.920
And that's been really fun watching that.

731
00:36:38.920 --> 00:36:40.460
And I think they're gonna win.

732
00:36:40.460 --> 00:36:41.420
They're the underdogs,

733
00:36:41.420 --> 00:36:44.480
but I think they can beat England and New Zealand.

734
00:36:44.480 --> 00:36:46.880
So that's a big interest and I love art

735
00:36:46.880 --> 00:36:48.520
and I'm currently illustrating

736
00:36:48.520 --> 00:36:49.960
and writing a children's book.

737
00:36:49.960 --> 00:36:51.160
So that's fun.

738
00:36:51.160 --> 00:36:53.520
Y'all, David is also amazing.

739
00:36:53.520 --> 00:36:55.320
I'm just telling you, y'all need to snag him up.

740
00:36:55.880 --> 00:36:57.680
Joan, you're up girl.

741
00:37:01.720 --> 00:37:02.560
Can you see the question?

742
00:37:02.560 --> 00:37:04.160
Sorry about that.

743
00:37:04.160 --> 00:37:06.280
Hi, thank you, Renee.

744
00:37:06.280 --> 00:37:09.280
My name is Joan Kavanaugh, I'm 55.

745
00:37:09.280 --> 00:37:11.360
I'm an RN psychotherapist.

746
00:37:11.360 --> 00:37:13.600
I live in Wallisburg, Ontario,

747
00:37:13.600 --> 00:37:16.180
which is 15 minutes from Michigan.

748
00:37:17.680 --> 00:37:20.720
I can relocate if need be.

749
00:37:21.600 --> 00:37:25.000
I do have two dogs

750
00:37:26.120 --> 00:37:31.120
and I love all pets and I love children.

751
00:37:31.800 --> 00:37:34.520
Now, I did have a child on my own

752
00:37:34.520 --> 00:37:36.920
using an anonymous sperm donor

753
00:37:36.920 --> 00:37:39.140
and that little fella just turned seven.

754
00:37:41.200 --> 00:37:42.040
Yeah.

755
00:37:44.240 --> 00:37:45.600
In terms of interests,

756
00:37:45.600 --> 00:37:50.600
I would say cycling and watching movies.

757
00:37:50.720 --> 00:37:52.160
Awesome, okay.

758
00:37:52.160 --> 00:37:54.520
Since I have to give you guys different questions

759
00:37:54.520 --> 00:37:56.680
because I don't want to bore everybody in the audience

760
00:37:56.680 --> 00:37:59.360
and you already had a chance to answer those,

761
00:37:59.360 --> 00:38:03.440
this question is your favorite show when you were a kid.

762
00:38:03.440 --> 00:38:04.880
Think favorite show when you were a kid

763
00:38:04.880 --> 00:38:06.420
and I'm not gonna tell you what that means.

764
00:38:06.420 --> 00:38:09.900
It could be when you were five or 12, don't really care.

765
00:38:10.720 --> 00:38:12.200
Melissa Dawn, you're up.

766
00:38:15.800 --> 00:38:16.620
Oh, okay.

767
00:38:16.620 --> 00:38:19.340
So the first thing that came to mind was the chipmunks,

768
00:38:19.340 --> 00:38:21.300
but I don't think it's really my favorite.

769
00:38:21.300 --> 00:38:22.840
So, but there you go.

770
00:38:24.420 --> 00:38:26.620
That is hilarious, I love that.

771
00:38:27.620 --> 00:38:28.460
Megan.

772
00:38:29.780 --> 00:38:31.160
Hey, I was also gonna add,

773
00:38:31.160 --> 00:38:32.980
I think I forgot to mention a couple of things.

774
00:38:32.980 --> 00:38:37.980
I'm 39 and interest, I love just being active,

775
00:38:38.620 --> 00:38:40.560
playing volleyball, hiking, all the things

776
00:38:40.560 --> 00:38:41.620
and I love dancing.

777
00:38:41.620 --> 00:38:44.060
Those are two big things for me.

778
00:38:44.060 --> 00:38:45.020
Great.

779
00:38:45.020 --> 00:38:49.020
Yeah, for movies as a kid,

780
00:38:49.700 --> 00:38:52.980
the movie that came to me was the Brave Little Toaster.

781
00:38:53.900 --> 00:38:56.460
I don't know if y'all remember that.

782
00:38:56.460 --> 00:38:58.780
I mean, I feel like I'd have to watch it again.

783
00:38:58.780 --> 00:39:00.140
Some people have talked about

784
00:39:00.140 --> 00:39:03.200
how there's some really like creepy scenes from that.

785
00:39:03.200 --> 00:39:06.100
So some of it might be kind of demonic or something,

786
00:39:06.100 --> 00:39:08.780
but there was something about it that hit me

787
00:39:08.780 --> 00:39:11.900
with the bravery of that toaster for some reason.

788
00:39:11.900 --> 00:39:13.140
Oh, funny.

789
00:39:13.140 --> 00:39:16.740
You know, I was on staff at a church many years ago

790
00:39:16.740 --> 00:39:17.580
and I thought,

791
00:39:17.580 --> 00:39:20.580
oh, Still Big Nolies is such a great girl movie

792
00:39:20.580 --> 00:39:22.900
to do at the women's retreat.

793
00:39:22.900 --> 00:39:25.980
Watching it with all the pastors, you're like.

794
00:39:27.300 --> 00:39:28.140
Maybe not.

795
00:39:28.140 --> 00:39:29.940
Maybe not so much.

796
00:39:30.860 --> 00:39:33.300
David, favorite show as a kid?

797
00:39:35.060 --> 00:39:36.140
That would definitely be,

798
00:39:36.140 --> 00:39:38.420
so the Canadians in the chat might know this.

799
00:39:38.420 --> 00:39:41.980
There was a show called Dudley the Dragon, which I loved.

800
00:39:41.980 --> 00:39:43.940
And there was another one, Polka Dot Shorts,

801
00:39:43.940 --> 00:39:46.700
which was another favorite Canadian TV show.

802
00:39:47.540 --> 00:39:49.860
They were big giant like puppet dragons

803
00:39:49.860 --> 00:39:51.500
and they were my favorite.

804
00:39:51.500 --> 00:39:54.620
Also, there was a show called Theodore the Tugboat.

805
00:39:54.620 --> 00:39:56.620
He was a little animatronic tugboat.

806
00:39:56.620 --> 00:39:58.060
There's another Canadian show,

807
00:39:58.060 --> 00:40:00.060
but all of those were like little David.

808
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:01.600
Those are my favorites.

809
00:40:01.600 --> 00:40:02.640
It's telling us a lot.

810
00:40:02.640 --> 00:40:03.140
Awesome.

811
00:40:03.140 --> 00:40:06.360
Joan, what about you?

812
00:40:06.360 --> 00:40:10.680
It shows my age a little too much, but leave it to beaver.

813
00:40:10.680 --> 00:40:13.160
Love, leave it to beaver.

814
00:40:13.160 --> 00:40:14.320
To beave.

815
00:40:14.320 --> 00:40:15.360
OK.

816
00:40:15.360 --> 00:40:16.200
All right.

817
00:40:16.200 --> 00:40:19.920
This is now we're going fast forward to today.

818
00:40:19.920 --> 00:40:24.400
You're guilty pleasure like your brain is fried

819
00:40:24.400 --> 00:40:27.200
and you're just going to watch a show because it's just

820
00:40:27.200 --> 00:40:29.800
going to make you feel good.

821
00:40:29.800 --> 00:40:33.200
So your current, it could be, we're

822
00:40:33.200 --> 00:40:34.800
going to get to podcasts in a minute.

823
00:40:34.800 --> 00:40:37.320
So it's just a TV show or a movie.

824
00:40:37.320 --> 00:40:40.120
It could be on a regular station or on Netflix or whatever.

825
00:40:40.120 --> 00:40:41.960
Melissa.

826
00:40:41.960 --> 00:40:42.480
Oh, man.

827
00:40:42.480 --> 00:40:45.080
I don't feel like I get a chance to think.

828
00:40:45.080 --> 00:40:45.640
Let's see.

829
00:40:45.640 --> 00:40:47.680
I actually don't watch television.

830
00:40:47.680 --> 00:40:49.120
I've never had Netflix.

831
00:40:49.120 --> 00:40:50.600
I like to learn things.

832
00:40:50.600 --> 00:40:54.040
So I'm going to watch a YouTube channel.

833
00:40:54.040 --> 00:40:57.680
I like to watch things in which I understand current events.

834
00:40:57.680 --> 00:41:02.040
And also, I am focused on mentoring the next generation

835
00:41:02.040 --> 00:41:03.920
and helping them walk with Christ.

836
00:41:03.920 --> 00:41:07.480
So anything that's going to help me understand psychology,

837
00:41:07.480 --> 00:41:10.080
theology, current events, those are the things

838
00:41:10.080 --> 00:41:13.000
that I tend to enjoy the most and find the most enriching

839
00:41:13.000 --> 00:41:16.080
in order to impart wisdom to the next generation.

840
00:41:16.080 --> 00:41:16.680
Oh, my gosh.

841
00:41:16.680 --> 00:41:18.320
That sounded so lovely.

842
00:41:18.320 --> 00:41:21.200
OK, so in case Megan is embarrassed to share

843
00:41:21.200 --> 00:41:24.280
your guilty pleasure, I'll tell you that mine is love is blind.

844
00:41:24.280 --> 00:41:29.040
I'm a junkie for married at first sight, and love is blind.

845
00:41:29.040 --> 00:41:29.840
There you go.

846
00:41:29.840 --> 00:41:32.440
So not changing the world for a better place.

847
00:41:32.440 --> 00:41:33.680
Megan, you're up now.

848
00:41:33.680 --> 00:41:36.640
I mean, I just went through the gutter, so there you go.

849
00:41:36.640 --> 00:41:39.680
Thank you for chiming in, because I feel like, yeah,

850
00:41:39.680 --> 00:41:42.560
it's kind of hard to top that.

851
00:41:42.560 --> 00:41:44.960
As of right now, I do like love is blind.

852
00:41:44.960 --> 00:41:48.120
But as of right now, it's been the summer I turned pretty.

853
00:41:48.120 --> 00:41:49.920
No spoiler alerts, because I did not

854
00:41:49.920 --> 00:41:53.320
watch the last episode with the season finale last night yet.

855
00:41:53.320 --> 00:41:55.880
I'm supposed to watch with a friend this weekend.

856
00:41:55.880 --> 00:41:57.960
But it's a really great show.

857
00:41:57.960 --> 00:42:01.080
I feel like it's really popular with the millennials right now.

858
00:42:01.080 --> 00:42:01.920
I love that.

859
00:42:01.920 --> 00:42:04.200
David?

860
00:42:04.200 --> 00:42:06.960
That would be the Sherlock, but it's

861
00:42:06.960 --> 00:42:08.960
the new version with Lucy Liu.

862
00:42:08.960 --> 00:42:11.200
So there's something about it.

863
00:42:11.200 --> 00:42:14.800
I've seen so many episodes of it, and I've re-watched it now.

864
00:42:14.800 --> 00:42:16.720
This is like my second time through.

865
00:42:16.720 --> 00:42:19.320
Like Sherlock, like the Benedict, what's his name,

866
00:42:19.320 --> 00:42:20.680
guy that you see?

867
00:42:20.680 --> 00:42:22.760
It's not the Benedict Cumberbatch one.

868
00:42:22.760 --> 00:42:26.360
This one has the actress Lucy Liu, and she's Watson in it.

869
00:42:26.360 --> 00:42:27.320
Wow, OK.

870
00:42:27.320 --> 00:42:29.720
And it's so clever, and the writing is good,

871
00:42:29.720 --> 00:42:32.000
and it's just funny.

872
00:42:32.000 --> 00:42:32.800
So I just like it.

873
00:42:32.800 --> 00:42:33.600
I love it.

874
00:42:33.600 --> 00:42:34.800
I love it.

875
00:42:34.800 --> 00:42:38.240
Joan, what's your guilty pleasure show?

876
00:42:38.240 --> 00:42:40.000
I'm really with you, Renee.

877
00:42:40.000 --> 00:42:43.800
I love love is blind.

878
00:42:43.800 --> 00:42:47.960
The new season is coming out, ladies.

879
00:42:47.960 --> 00:42:49.840
When they see each other, sometimes

880
00:42:49.840 --> 00:42:54.360
like one of their faces drop, but they

881
00:42:54.360 --> 00:42:55.680
try to look really happy.

882
00:42:58.880 --> 00:43:01.080
So yeah, no, I love that one too.

883
00:43:01.080 --> 00:43:02.520
Awesome, OK.

884
00:43:02.520 --> 00:43:04.600
Recommend to us, Melissa, this is

885
00:43:04.600 --> 00:43:08.680
going to be in your wheelhouse, recommend to us a podcast

886
00:43:08.680 --> 00:43:12.640
that you're listening to that's really good,

887
00:43:12.640 --> 00:43:13.920
a really good podcast.

888
00:43:13.920 --> 00:43:16.080
And tell us a little bit about it

889
00:43:16.080 --> 00:43:19.200
so we know what kind of genre it is.

890
00:43:19.200 --> 00:43:22.240
Well, I really appreciate Alisa Childers

891
00:43:22.240 --> 00:43:25.520
because she is extremely kind and well-informed

892
00:43:25.520 --> 00:43:27.440
and biblically grounded.

893
00:43:27.440 --> 00:43:31.600
And I appreciate just that she is

894
00:43:31.600 --> 00:43:36.200
able to address current events in a very robust way.

895
00:43:36.200 --> 00:43:37.400
So she would be one.

896
00:43:37.400 --> 00:43:38.720
I also like Ruslan.

897
00:43:38.720 --> 00:43:42.160
He tends to be incredibly balanced as well

898
00:43:42.160 --> 00:43:44.640
and has a wide range of connections

899
00:43:44.640 --> 00:43:49.400
with multiple people across the spectrum of society.

900
00:43:49.400 --> 00:43:52.280
And so I also love that he does rap because I love rap,

901
00:43:52.280 --> 00:43:53.840
as long as it's like Christian rap,

902
00:43:53.840 --> 00:43:56.160
let's say, where it's not like toxic.

903
00:43:56.160 --> 00:43:57.360
That's so good.

904
00:43:57.360 --> 00:43:59.080
So I love that kind of stuff.

905
00:43:59.080 --> 00:44:01.360
OK, so Alisa Childs and I went to the same church.

906
00:44:01.360 --> 00:44:02.840
She's freaking amazing.

907
00:44:02.840 --> 00:44:04.400
She's a local girl here.

908
00:44:04.400 --> 00:44:06.520
She's just smart.

909
00:44:06.520 --> 00:44:08.080
I just shared one of her clips.

910
00:44:08.080 --> 00:44:09.840
Actually, I just shared the last two clips

911
00:44:09.840 --> 00:44:12.560
that she did because she's just so brilliant.

912
00:44:12.560 --> 00:44:16.640
Megan, podcast, do you have one to share with us?

913
00:44:16.640 --> 00:44:19.720
So I'm kind of like Melissa, just definitely a learner.

914
00:44:19.720 --> 00:44:21.880
And so I love listening to various things

915
00:44:21.880 --> 00:44:23.920
depending on what my mood is.

916
00:44:23.920 --> 00:44:26.960
But a couple of things I've listened to recently,

917
00:44:26.960 --> 00:44:28.560
one was Real Foodology.

918
00:44:28.560 --> 00:44:32.440
It's just the particular podcast was more geared towards women

919
00:44:32.440 --> 00:44:35.600
and just hormones and health.

920
00:44:35.600 --> 00:44:37.160
I won't get into all of it right now.

921
00:44:37.160 --> 00:44:39.040
But it was really fascinating just the things

922
00:44:39.040 --> 00:44:41.480
that we can learn about our bodies

923
00:44:41.480 --> 00:44:45.080
and how they work as women and what we don't know.

924
00:44:45.080 --> 00:44:47.640
It was really just fascinating.

925
00:44:47.640 --> 00:44:49.640
Part of Dating is also a really good podcast.

926
00:44:49.640 --> 00:44:51.760
I don't know if some of you all have heard of that.

927
00:44:51.760 --> 00:44:53.760
They have some similar things they

928
00:44:53.760 --> 00:44:56.280
teach that remind me of last year's single

929
00:44:56.280 --> 00:45:00.960
and just as a Christian and dating.

930
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.620
just there's so much that's there. I feel like I actually

931
00:45:03.620 --> 00:45:07.800
just listened to something last night. And here and there, I'll

932
00:45:07.800 --> 00:45:10.440
listen to Mel Robbins podcast. I don't know if y'all have

933
00:45:10.440 --> 00:45:13.760
listened to her too. I'd like to listen to her book, but I've I've

934
00:45:13.760 --> 00:45:18.160
appreciated some things lately about just the let them, you

935
00:45:18.160 --> 00:45:21.880
know, theory about just, you know, it's just helpful for fear

936
00:45:21.880 --> 00:45:24.880
of man and releasing what people think of you and just allowing

937
00:45:24.880 --> 00:45:29.520
them to think, you know, think their own thing and let me be,

938
00:45:29.520 --> 00:45:32.480
you know, have my own thoughts. And I would take a while to get

939
00:45:32.480 --> 00:45:34.960
back and get into it. But I definitely do want to listen to

940
00:45:34.960 --> 00:45:39.000
the, the book, the audio book, and I feel like it applies to

941
00:45:39.280 --> 00:45:41.720
the dating. And it's really helpful.

942
00:45:42.480 --> 00:45:43.720
For sure, David.

943
00:45:44.880 --> 00:45:48.080
So there's so many that was there running through my head.

944
00:45:48.880 --> 00:45:51.640
To pick one, I'm a big Andrew Huberman fan. So I love the

945
00:45:51.640 --> 00:45:54.880
fact that he takes science that's publicly released, and

946
00:45:54.880 --> 00:45:57.760
then puts it in a way so that other people can understand it.

947
00:45:58.520 --> 00:46:01.880
Even I myself, I lost 75 pounds just following what Andrew

948
00:46:01.880 --> 00:46:05.040
Huberman said. And me and my friends, we took a challenge and

949
00:46:05.040 --> 00:46:07.640
we said, Okay, let's take four months and see how much weight

950
00:46:07.640 --> 00:46:10.480
we can lose. And between the seven of us, we've all lost

951
00:46:10.480 --> 00:46:14.440
about 600 pounds. Wow. And so like, that's been a really cool

952
00:46:14.440 --> 00:46:18.240
one. I also love Leanne Kreiser. She her husband is a famous

953
00:46:18.240 --> 00:46:20.560
comedian, Bert Kreiser. And she has a podcast called wife of the

954
00:46:20.560 --> 00:46:24.040
party. And it's kind of about like, reigning in her husband.

955
00:46:24.040 --> 00:46:26.240
And what does it mean to be the one who's actually solid when

956
00:46:26.240 --> 00:46:29.640
your husband is this famous rock star, and she's got some

957
00:46:29.640 --> 00:46:32.520
really cool perspectives and anything by Good Mythical

958
00:46:32.520 --> 00:46:35.080
Morning. I love their cooking show where they make last meals

959
00:46:35.080 --> 00:46:36.120
and lots of stuff.

960
00:46:37.640 --> 00:46:39.240
Awesome, Joan.

961
00:46:40.720 --> 00:46:44.240
I feel really out of it because I haven't actually listened to a

962
00:46:44.240 --> 00:46:51.040
podcast. But anyways, I'm on YouTube, I am watching one

963
00:46:51.040 --> 00:46:57.200
that's called the Bible in 365 days. So each, you know, each

964
00:46:57.200 --> 00:47:01.880
video is one, one, one day's worth of the Bible split into

965
00:47:01.880 --> 00:47:09.080
365. Who's teaching that? Um, I should know that I can't think

966
00:47:09.080 --> 00:47:12.880
of her name offhand. I was just curious. Okay, so you guys, if

967
00:47:12.880 --> 00:47:16.800
you ever have trouble reading through the Bible, I highly

968
00:47:16.840 --> 00:47:20.640
recommend Tara Lee Cobble. The Bible recap, the woman is

969
00:47:20.640 --> 00:47:24.800
brilliant. She's also single. So goes to show you that you can

970
00:47:24.800 --> 00:47:27.760
keep I think she actually came from the music industry, because

971
00:47:27.760 --> 00:47:32.320
I have friends who are friends with her. So Tara Lee Cobble.

972
00:47:32.360 --> 00:47:38.200
Okay, we are moving on. And Melissa, if you could go back to

973
00:47:38.200 --> 00:47:41.440
your high school's person, your high school or college person,

974
00:47:41.440 --> 00:47:42.640
what would you tell them?

975
00:47:43.640 --> 00:47:47.040
Be completely and unabashedly yourself.

976
00:47:48.320 --> 00:47:49.520
Awesome, Megan.

977
00:47:50.240 --> 00:47:57.160
That's really good. Um, I think maybe don't care so much about

978
00:47:57.240 --> 00:48:00.000
your achievements and what people think of and just stay

979
00:48:00.000 --> 00:48:02.200
rooted in your identity in Christ.

980
00:48:03.240 --> 00:48:04.480
Awesome, David.

981
00:48:05.840 --> 00:48:09.600
This is what I would say to my high school self. Yeah. Stop

982
00:48:09.600 --> 00:48:10.600
looking in the mirror.

983
00:48:13.640 --> 00:48:15.280
Your hair is not going to last forever.

984
00:48:19.640 --> 00:48:20.160
Joe.

985
00:48:22.920 --> 00:48:29.840
I'd say, get some confidence. I was just, you know, really meek

986
00:48:29.840 --> 00:48:30.680
at that time.

987
00:48:31.320 --> 00:48:38.520
Yeah, I got you girl. I got you. Okay. Um, what is a bucket list

988
00:48:38.520 --> 00:48:43.320
activity that you would love to do with your spirit mate, Melissa?

989
00:48:45.120 --> 00:48:49.560
Um, well, I've already climbed an active volcano with ice

990
00:48:49.560 --> 00:48:52.520
cleats. So I don't know exactly what else I would want to do

991
00:48:52.520 --> 00:49:00.000
next. But I think that maybe go to the southern cone somewhere

992
00:49:00.040 --> 00:49:06.520
like in South America, maybe Argentina and canoe or kayak or

993
00:49:06.560 --> 00:49:10.560
kayak or I don't know something adventurous or perhaps I've

994
00:49:10.560 --> 00:49:12.840
already been to Chile for one month but maybe go to the

995
00:49:12.840 --> 00:49:17.560
southern part of it and you know, they have beautiful scenery

996
00:49:17.560 --> 00:49:24.200
there and maybe maybe go with like go and kayak or do some

997
00:49:24.200 --> 00:49:25.200
outdoor adventure there.

998
00:49:25.440 --> 00:49:29.280
Man, Melissa, I want to go do that with you. Megan.

999
00:49:30.560 --> 00:49:34.480
I have a few bucket list places I've always wanted to go to with

1000
00:49:34.480 --> 00:49:42.040
spirit mate one day. Glacier National Park and Lake Tahoe and

1001
00:49:42.040 --> 00:49:45.520
Banff. Those are some places I'd like to go specifically with a

1002
00:49:45.520 --> 00:49:48.600
spirit mate. A friend was saying she could go with me to Glacier

1003
00:49:48.600 --> 00:49:51.520
but I was like, I kind of want to go with my spirit mate someday

1004
00:49:51.520 --> 00:49:52.800
so I'm holding out for that.

1005
00:49:52.880 --> 00:49:55.600
Oh my goodness. Okay, don't hold out too long because maybe

1006
00:49:55.600 --> 00:49:57.160
you're gonna bump into him there.

1007
00:49:57.240 --> 00:49:58.480
That's very true.

1008
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:02.200
Okay, David, you're up.

1009
00:50:07.400 --> 00:50:09.200
Oh, we're losing the mood.

1010
00:50:13.440 --> 00:50:15.400
I think just like going to New York,

1011
00:50:15.400 --> 00:50:17.440
but really just like maybe doing a Broadway play,

1012
00:50:17.440 --> 00:50:19.440
but really just like spending two or three days

1013
00:50:19.440 --> 00:50:22.040
just exploring MoMA would be amazing.

1014
00:50:22.040 --> 00:50:24.040
Awesome, Joan, how about you?

1015
00:50:24.040 --> 00:50:30.920
I'm similar to the last lady.

1016
00:50:30.920 --> 00:50:34.880
I'd like to go to Australia and also to Thailand.

1017
00:50:34.880 --> 00:50:36.720
So I have cousins in Australia

1018
00:50:36.720 --> 00:50:41.040
and my dad's partners in Thailand and yeah, so.

1019
00:50:43.280 --> 00:50:45.720
Oh, wait, I just, okay, Cheryl,

1020
00:50:45.720 --> 00:50:48.000
have I not been pinning people correctly?

1021
00:50:48.000 --> 00:50:49.680
Can you guys not see the four people?

1022
00:50:49.680 --> 00:50:51.520
Did I wait this long?

1023
00:50:51.520 --> 00:50:53.280
Are you not seeing the four people?

1024
00:50:53.360 --> 00:50:54.200
Dang it.

1025
00:50:54.200 --> 00:50:55.520
Now we are.

1026
00:50:55.520 --> 00:50:57.120
Oh, okay.

1027
00:50:57.120 --> 00:50:58.360
Okay, I just wanted to make sure

1028
00:50:58.360 --> 00:51:00.560
that you can see the four people

1029
00:51:00.560 --> 00:51:02.400
because I thought I did it right this time.

1030
00:51:02.400 --> 00:51:04.320
But Cheryl, I'm like an hour

1031
00:51:04.320 --> 00:51:05.880
into just catching your message.

1032
00:51:05.880 --> 00:51:08.560
So I apologize, I should have made you co-host.

1033
00:51:08.560 --> 00:51:10.160
Joan, that was good, thank you so much.

1034
00:51:10.160 --> 00:51:15.160
Okay, tell us what part of the Trinity,

1035
00:51:15.520 --> 00:51:17.760
okay, so you guys, you all know I'm in seminary

1036
00:51:17.760 --> 00:51:21.000
and I'm doing historical theology right now.

1037
00:51:21.000 --> 00:51:22.240
So it's like basically running

1038
00:51:22.240 --> 00:51:24.640
through the early church, medieval church,

1039
00:51:24.640 --> 00:51:27.640
reformation and modern church all in one semester,

1040
00:51:27.640 --> 00:51:29.920
just summarizing all of it in church doctrine.

1041
00:51:29.920 --> 00:51:33.120
It's been fascinating and my brain's ready to explode.

1042
00:51:33.120 --> 00:51:35.400
And so just like learning the early church

1043
00:51:35.400 --> 00:51:39.240
and how they were really like figuring it out

1044
00:51:39.240 --> 00:51:43.320
as they go along, like, who was Christ really?

1045
00:51:43.320 --> 00:51:46.400
And how did they line up with his full divinity

1046
00:51:46.400 --> 00:51:47.800
and full humanity?

1047
00:51:47.800 --> 00:51:49.560
Like we just take it for granted

1048
00:51:49.560 --> 00:51:51.520
and like, what's the role of the Holy Spirit

1049
00:51:51.560 --> 00:51:53.440
and is he on equal footing?

1050
00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:57.440
And it took until the Nicene Creed

1051
00:51:57.440 --> 00:52:00.520
and like 300 years after Jesus died

1052
00:52:00.520 --> 00:52:03.560
before they were really even talking about correctly

1053
00:52:03.560 --> 00:52:04.960
the role of the Holy Spirit.

1054
00:52:04.960 --> 00:52:09.960
So it's just made me kind of realize how much,

1055
00:52:10.080 --> 00:52:13.220
sometimes we only lean on one part of the Trinity,

1056
00:52:13.220 --> 00:52:15.480
but we all kind of have the one that we go to.

1057
00:52:15.480 --> 00:52:17.720
So there's three persons in one.

1058
00:52:17.720 --> 00:52:20.600
So Melissa, who do you kind of pray to

1059
00:52:20.680 --> 00:52:22.960
or do you kind of dabble back and forth

1060
00:52:22.960 --> 00:52:24.760
between the three for different parts

1061
00:52:24.760 --> 00:52:26.960
of your relationship with the Lord?

1062
00:52:26.960 --> 00:52:31.040
Well, I would say that I pray to God the Father

1063
00:52:31.040 --> 00:52:34.080
based on the model prayer of Jesus.

1064
00:52:34.080 --> 00:52:37.220
However, I really appreciate the Holy Spirit

1065
00:52:37.220 --> 00:52:41.080
who according to John 14 and 16 is our guide

1066
00:52:41.080 --> 00:52:43.120
and the revealer of all truth.

1067
00:52:43.120 --> 00:52:45.840
And I feel a great need right now

1068
00:52:45.840 --> 00:52:49.520
for incredible amounts of particular truth.

1069
00:52:49.520 --> 00:52:51.880
So wisdom, which is knowledge applied

1070
00:52:51.880 --> 00:52:55.800
to particular instances, like as I mentor students

1071
00:52:55.800 --> 00:52:58.200
and they're asking very difficult questions.

1072
00:52:58.200 --> 00:53:01.840
And I really rely on the wisdom

1073
00:53:01.840 --> 00:53:04.920
that the Holy Spirit gives me because it's far beyond me.

1074
00:53:04.920 --> 00:53:09.200
And also the proverb that says that the Lord can give us

1075
00:53:09.200 --> 00:53:11.880
words that are like apples of gold and settings of silver.

1076
00:53:11.880 --> 00:53:14.020
So they're just so fitting and beautiful

1077
00:53:14.020 --> 00:53:16.120
for that particular moment.

1078
00:53:16.120 --> 00:53:18.880
And so because of that, the Holy Spirit,

1079
00:53:19.360 --> 00:53:21.400
I am a continuationist.

1080
00:53:21.400 --> 00:53:24.320
And so I believe in all of the gifts of the Spirit.

1081
00:53:24.320 --> 00:53:27.400
And yet I don't personally believe that everyone

1082
00:53:27.400 --> 00:53:30.960
has to have a particular expression

1083
00:53:30.960 --> 00:53:32.920
of the fullness of the Spirit.

1084
00:53:32.920 --> 00:53:36.720
However, I think according to 1 Corinthians 14, one,

1085
00:53:36.720 --> 00:53:39.760
it says eagerly desire the gifts.

1086
00:53:39.760 --> 00:53:41.620
And then it says, especially that you may prophesy,

1087
00:53:41.620 --> 00:53:46.040
but the first part eagerly desire the gifts, want more.

1088
00:53:46.040 --> 00:53:47.440
And so I'm all about it.

1089
00:53:47.480 --> 00:53:48.320
Awesome.

1090
00:53:48.320 --> 00:53:49.140
Megan.

1091
00:53:50.960 --> 00:53:53.280
Melissa has such good wisdom to offer on all of that.

1092
00:53:53.280 --> 00:53:54.120
So thanks for sharing Melissa.

1093
00:53:54.120 --> 00:53:56.240
Megan's like crap, I can't.

1094
00:53:56.240 --> 00:53:58.360
I always have to follow up after her.

1095
00:53:58.360 --> 00:54:00.600
I'm just kidding, no, that's great.

1096
00:54:01.520 --> 00:54:06.180
I would say I often pray just, I pray to God

1097
00:54:06.180 --> 00:54:09.800
or like the Lord, that's how I like preface my prayers.

1098
00:54:09.800 --> 00:54:12.940
But as I was discussing this with a friend recently,

1099
00:54:12.940 --> 00:54:16.920
I feel like I think of them all kind of, you know, as one,

1100
00:54:17.760 --> 00:54:19.320
because the Trinity is one.

1101
00:54:19.320 --> 00:54:22.440
But in a way I feel like the Holy Spirit is something

1102
00:54:22.440 --> 00:54:24.800
that's just so real to me.

1103
00:54:24.800 --> 00:54:27.520
And like, I feel like I probably lean on the Holy Spirit

1104
00:54:27.520 --> 00:54:30.200
the most just because I think I'm just sensitive

1105
00:54:30.200 --> 00:54:31.340
to his presence.

1106
00:54:31.340 --> 00:54:36.080
And, you know, the church I go to,

1107
00:54:36.080 --> 00:54:41.080
we do like really talk about following the Spirit

1108
00:54:41.380 --> 00:54:45.160
and just when we go to worship, I just feel God's presence.

1109
00:54:45.200 --> 00:54:48.880
And I think that's a big part of that

1110
00:54:48.880 --> 00:54:50.720
is just sensing the Holy Spirit.

1111
00:54:50.720 --> 00:54:55.340
And so that's like, it's really important to me just,

1112
00:54:56.480 --> 00:54:57.920
yeah, following the Spirit.

1113
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.000
Awesome.

1114
00:55:01.000 --> 00:55:03.560
David, you keep losing, I keep losing you.

1115
00:55:03.560 --> 00:55:04.560
You're back.

1116
00:55:04.560 --> 00:55:07.640
Who are you talking to in the Trinity?

1117
00:55:07.640 --> 00:55:14.280
Maybe it's all of them for different parts of your story.

1118
00:55:14.280 --> 00:55:15.280
Can you hear me?

1119
00:55:15.280 --> 00:55:16.280
Me?

1120
00:55:16.280 --> 00:55:17.280
Sorry.

1121
00:55:17.280 --> 00:55:18.280
Yes.

1122
00:55:18.280 --> 00:55:19.280
You, David.

1123
00:55:19.280 --> 00:55:24.440
I think I'm definitely talking like Father, Son, Holy Spirit, which one am I talking to?

1124
00:55:24.440 --> 00:55:25.440
All three.

1125
00:55:26.320 --> 00:55:30.080
And at the same time, give me that multidimensional thing.

1126
00:55:30.080 --> 00:55:33.240
But I think for me, for sure, the Father.

1127
00:55:33.240 --> 00:55:38.240
Just knowing God as Father has been really healing, especially through last year's single.

1128
00:55:38.240 --> 00:55:42.560
Knowing that He's a good dad and that He always had right for me.

1129
00:55:42.560 --> 00:55:43.760
And that I love my dad.

1130
00:55:43.760 --> 00:55:45.600
My dad was awesome.

1131
00:55:45.600 --> 00:55:49.960
But just that God is my Heavenly Father and that He knows every one of my needs has been

1132
00:55:49.960 --> 00:55:51.560
so humbling.

1133
00:55:51.560 --> 00:55:55.720
And yeah, it's been an incredible journey of just Him being like, I have everything

1134
00:55:55.720 --> 00:55:56.920
you've ever wanted.

1135
00:55:56.920 --> 00:55:57.920
Just trust me.

1136
00:55:57.920 --> 00:55:58.920
I love it.

1137
00:55:58.920 --> 00:56:06.840
Jo, you're up, girl.

1138
00:56:06.840 --> 00:56:14.040
I'd say in day-to-day life, when I need help with something, I do call on Jesus.

1139
00:56:14.040 --> 00:56:17.680
But when I'm praying, I pray to God.

1140
00:56:17.680 --> 00:56:25.920
And when I'm meditating and trying to figure things out, I lean on the Holy Spirit.

1141
00:56:25.920 --> 00:56:30.040
So just like everyone before me, kind of all of them.

1142
00:56:30.040 --> 00:56:34.160
And you guys, if you guys think this is a weird question, I encourage you to actually,

1143
00:56:34.160 --> 00:56:39.960
especially in this month of rest, as you're thinking about it, there are three distinct

1144
00:56:39.960 --> 00:56:42.680
persons of God for a reason.

1145
00:56:42.680 --> 00:56:47.680
So if you're actually not tapping into all three and you kind of just mush them, they

1146
00:56:47.680 --> 00:56:49.920
are three distinct persons.

1147
00:56:49.920 --> 00:56:55.840
There was one God, but they have three distinct, there are three distinct persons.

1148
00:56:55.840 --> 00:57:01.840
And you know, like for me, kind of like David, I really needed to get God the Father back

1149
00:57:01.840 --> 00:57:06.360
in relationship with me because I had such a complicated relationship with my father.

1150
00:57:06.360 --> 00:57:12.000
I always thought of God as this big, distant, angry God ready to punish me and not a good

1151
00:57:12.320 --> 00:57:14.080
So I really needed to unpack that.

1152
00:57:14.080 --> 00:57:17.640
So I actually pray to God most of the time.

1153
00:57:17.640 --> 00:57:20.800
I always picture Jesus sitting next to me on a porch.

1154
00:57:20.800 --> 00:57:25.000
Yeah, he is wearing jeans without socks and he's got a white t-shirt on.

1155
00:57:25.000 --> 00:57:26.800
He looks a little hippy dippy.

1156
00:57:26.800 --> 00:57:31.120
And he's always holding my dog, Eli, my first dog that passed away.

1157
00:57:31.120 --> 00:57:34.320
And for me, that's how I learned to have intimacy.

1158
00:57:34.320 --> 00:57:36.280
Because people used to say, oh, have intimacy with Christ.

1159
00:57:36.280 --> 00:57:37.960
And I'd be like, oh my gosh, intimacy.

1160
00:57:37.960 --> 00:57:39.360
I'm not going to have sex with Jesus.

1161
00:57:39.360 --> 00:57:43.800
And for me, because of my trauma, I just thought intimacy, sex.

1162
00:57:43.800 --> 00:57:45.200
And so that was like a safe way.

1163
00:57:45.200 --> 00:57:49.920
But when I think about power, like before I even come on with you all, before I do my

1164
00:57:49.920 --> 00:57:54.320
freedom prayer or speak in engagements, I'm always asking the Holy Spirit to give me the

1165
00:57:54.320 --> 00:57:55.520
juice.

1166
00:57:55.520 --> 00:57:58.140
And so I feel like I tap into all three.

1167
00:57:58.140 --> 00:58:03.400
So that's just something for you all to encourage you all to kind of consider as you're doing

1168
00:58:03.400 --> 00:58:04.400
it.

1169
00:58:04.400 --> 00:58:05.400
Okay.

1170
00:58:06.160 --> 00:58:08.240
Tell us who you're looking for.

1171
00:58:08.240 --> 00:58:13.160
Melissa, you're up.

1172
00:58:13.160 --> 00:58:19.480
I'm looking for a pure hearted, diligent man of God with whom I have mutual attraction

1173
00:58:19.480 --> 00:58:26.000
across the board, physically, emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, and fellow learner

1174
00:58:26.000 --> 00:58:27.000
and grower.

1175
00:58:27.000 --> 00:58:34.720
And also someone who like me is open to having children, whether one or two, whether biologically

1176
00:58:35.040 --> 00:58:37.120
and or via adoption.

1177
00:58:37.120 --> 00:58:44.400
And I'm open to someone in the range of roughly 35 to 51.

1178
00:58:44.400 --> 00:58:46.400
So that's kind of who I'm looking for.

1179
00:58:46.400 --> 00:58:47.680
I need someone that's playful.

1180
00:58:47.680 --> 00:58:51.880
I'm actually, I'm very intellectual, but I'm also really ridiculous and playful.

1181
00:58:51.880 --> 00:58:52.880
I don't believe you.

1182
00:58:52.880 --> 00:58:53.880
No.

1183
00:58:53.880 --> 00:58:54.880
I am.

1184
00:58:54.880 --> 00:58:55.880
Yeah.

1185
00:58:55.880 --> 00:58:56.880
And I have a very wild imagination.

1186
00:58:56.880 --> 00:58:58.560
So I'm like, I'm off the chart.

1187
00:58:58.560 --> 00:59:03.240
Like my students are always like, kind of like laughing, but also like, ah, I'm like,

1188
00:59:03.240 --> 00:59:04.400
like this lady is a little wild.

1189
00:59:05.080 --> 00:59:11.000
I'm looking for somebody that can kind of have like me a full range of emotion and way

1190
00:59:11.000 --> 00:59:12.000
of being.

1191
00:59:12.000 --> 00:59:13.000
Cool.

1192
00:59:13.000 --> 00:59:14.000
Okay.

1193
00:59:14.000 --> 00:59:16.440
Megan, what you looking for, girl?

1194
00:59:16.440 --> 00:59:17.600
All right.

1195
00:59:17.600 --> 00:59:25.160
So I would say I really appreciate somebody who's a really good listener and somebody

1196
00:59:25.160 --> 00:59:28.880
who's like calm and just grounded.

1197
00:59:29.880 --> 00:59:37.120
Somebody who's emotionally mature and aware, intentional, clear, who pursues me wholeheartedly.

1198
00:59:37.120 --> 00:59:38.440
And it's clear with that.

1199
00:59:38.440 --> 00:59:44.720
Somebody who's obviously, you know, pursuing the Lord and has a depth of their relationship

1200
00:59:44.720 --> 00:59:50.080
with the Lord and is like good with talking about their depth, the depth of that relationship.

1201
00:59:50.080 --> 00:59:54.760
And I appreciate spiritual depth, but also intellectually.

1202
00:59:54.760 --> 00:59:59.200
Somebody who has like, you know, they're solid in their career.

1203
00:59:59.200 --> 01:00:00.200
I'm pretty established.

1204
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:01.280
my career as a PT.

1205
01:00:01.280 --> 01:00:03.680
So sometimes that's been kind of challenging.

1206
01:00:03.680 --> 01:00:07.560
I'm open to different people having different backgrounds

1207
01:00:07.560 --> 01:00:09.120
with maybe if they didn't go to school

1208
01:00:09.120 --> 01:00:12.840
and they're still established in their field or career.

1209
01:00:12.840 --> 01:00:15.320
But I'd like somebody who's just,

1210
01:00:16.680 --> 01:00:19.560
yeah, just established financially

1211
01:00:19.560 --> 01:00:21.000
and in their career, that's important.

1212
01:00:21.000 --> 01:00:22.360
Somebody who's really active.

1213
01:00:22.360 --> 01:00:26.560
I am big into sports and working out, hiking,

1214
01:00:26.560 --> 01:00:28.000
playing volleyball, dancing.

1215
01:00:28.040 --> 01:00:30.160
And so I think it's important for me,

1216
01:00:30.160 --> 01:00:31.640
kind of like what Kitten was saying.

1217
01:00:31.640 --> 01:00:33.280
You just want to be on the same page.

1218
01:00:33.280 --> 01:00:35.800
Like I want to be on the same page with my spirit mate

1219
01:00:35.800 --> 01:00:37.680
in those areas to have fun with them.

1220
01:00:37.680 --> 01:00:39.440
I love when I can get to play volleyball

1221
01:00:39.440 --> 01:00:42.160
or dance with somebody or go hiking.

1222
01:00:44.760 --> 01:00:48.840
I think that's probably most of everything that I covered.

1223
01:00:48.840 --> 01:00:49.680
That was good.

1224
01:00:49.680 --> 01:00:50.500
That's good.

1225
01:00:50.500 --> 01:00:51.340
Thanks.

1226
01:00:51.340 --> 01:00:52.240
David.

1227
01:00:52.240 --> 01:00:55.040
Yeah, this is such a hard question.

1228
01:00:55.040 --> 01:00:57.320
I'm just looking for someone who really loves Jesus

1229
01:00:57.360 --> 01:00:59.400
and I don't really have a list.

1230
01:00:59.400 --> 01:01:01.640
I'm just really looking for someone who is like,

1231
01:01:01.640 --> 01:01:03.120
hey, my heart is sold out

1232
01:01:03.120 --> 01:01:05.920
and they feel led for the mission field of family.

1233
01:01:07.160 --> 01:01:09.840
God has rocked my world that that is the new mission field

1234
01:01:09.840 --> 01:01:11.720
is that having a Christian family.

1235
01:01:11.720 --> 01:01:13.520
And they don't have to be my biological kids,

1236
01:01:13.520 --> 01:01:17.080
but just raising children up in the way that they should go.

1237
01:01:17.080 --> 01:01:20.200
And definitely somebody who wants to run an empire with me.

1238
01:01:20.200 --> 01:01:21.680
You know, like I have business dreams

1239
01:01:21.680 --> 01:01:24.120
and people who want to build something together

1240
01:01:24.120 --> 01:01:25.040
and make an impact.

1241
01:01:26.040 --> 01:01:28.680
But yeah, I just want to change the world for Jesus Christ.

1242
01:01:28.680 --> 01:01:33.040
And so I don't really have a list of things,

1243
01:01:33.040 --> 01:01:34.240
you know, like, not like,

1244
01:01:34.240 --> 01:01:37.280
oh, she has to be a guitar player and seven feet tall.

1245
01:01:37.280 --> 01:01:38.320
And I mean, that would be cool,

1246
01:01:38.320 --> 01:01:40.800
but I'm just trusting God with whatever he brings

1247
01:01:40.800 --> 01:01:42.840
and whoever he brings, I'm gonna be grateful.

1248
01:01:42.840 --> 01:01:43.680
I love it.

1249
01:01:43.680 --> 01:01:45.120
Joan, wrap us up.

1250
01:01:50.600 --> 01:01:54.720
Yeah, so it's hard not to laugh when David says,

1251
01:01:55.280 --> 01:01:58.120
she plays guitar and she's seven feet tall.

1252
01:01:58.120 --> 01:02:00.400
You know, but anyway, sorry.

1253
01:02:02.560 --> 01:02:05.520
Like I have had lists and,

1254
01:02:05.520 --> 01:02:08.320
but then I'll like people who are outside of that.

1255
01:02:08.320 --> 01:02:12.120
So I guess one fundamental thing is that

1256
01:02:12.120 --> 01:02:14.200
I would like someone who's dependable.

1257
01:02:14.200 --> 01:02:18.400
And then obviously, because I have a young child,

1258
01:02:18.400 --> 01:02:21.600
you know, as Kylie said, a father's heart.

1259
01:02:21.600 --> 01:02:22.440
So.

1260
01:02:22.440 --> 01:02:23.280
I love it.

1261
01:02:23.400 --> 01:02:27.000
You guys, I'm going to unpin these folks,

1262
01:02:27.000 --> 01:02:28.760
but if you are on camera,

1263
01:02:28.760 --> 01:02:32.520
I want you guys to stand camera for like all of you

1264
01:02:32.520 --> 01:02:35.040
for like the next 10 minutes.

1265
01:02:35.040 --> 01:02:40.040
I'm gonna hold space for you guys to ask me any questions.

1266
01:02:41.800 --> 01:02:44.280
So it's about 10 after the hour.

1267
01:02:44.280 --> 01:02:46.880
I'll hang here for 10 more minutes.

1268
01:02:46.880 --> 01:02:49.360
And I want to just answer any questions

1269
01:02:49.360 --> 01:02:52.360
that you guys have about heartwork, about dating,

1270
01:02:52.400 --> 01:02:55.440
about what it's like being engaged.

1271
01:02:55.440 --> 01:02:56.280
I don't know.

1272
01:02:56.280 --> 01:02:57.520
Whatever you want to ask me, by the way,

1273
01:02:57.520 --> 01:03:00.240
we had our first dance lesson tonight

1274
01:03:00.240 --> 01:03:03.280
because he wants to dance for like dance for our wedding.

1275
01:03:03.280 --> 01:03:05.640
Y'all, he does not know how to dance.

1276
01:03:05.640 --> 01:03:08.920
I did not know how bad it was going to be,

1277
01:03:08.920 --> 01:03:10.120
but it's amazing.

1278
01:03:10.120 --> 01:03:12.360
Bless his ever loving heart

1279
01:03:13.400 --> 01:03:15.640
because he wants to do this for me.

1280
01:03:15.640 --> 01:03:18.440
And I think he almost passed out when they told him

1281
01:03:18.440 --> 01:03:21.880
how much the dance lessons are going to cost.

1282
01:03:22.880 --> 01:03:26.680
And I was like, is she, you want to do this?

1283
01:03:26.680 --> 01:03:28.000
He's like, uh-huh.

1284
01:03:30.360 --> 01:03:31.560
So it's fun.

1285
01:03:31.560 --> 01:03:33.560
So does anybody have any questions?

1286
01:03:33.560 --> 01:03:36.200
Like, otherwise, while you're listening to me talk,

1287
01:03:36.200 --> 01:03:38.760
you can be scanning, looking all for the pretty people.

1288
01:03:38.760 --> 01:03:42.160
And remember you guys, this is community matchmaking.

1289
01:03:42.160 --> 01:03:44.080
And so you might be going like, oh my gosh,

1290
01:03:44.080 --> 01:03:46.720
like I'm not the right person for somebody,

1291
01:03:46.720 --> 01:03:49.240
but like you just met eight great people tonight

1292
01:03:49.240 --> 01:03:51.960
or you got to know them a little bit better.

1293
01:03:52.560 --> 01:03:54.160
And so I want you to be thinking about them.

1294
01:03:54.160 --> 01:03:55.880
Like I'm constantly like,

1295
01:03:55.880 --> 01:03:59.160
I just met this guy in my chaplain gig.

1296
01:03:59.160 --> 01:04:02.400
I'm like, oh my gosh, I've got to introduce you to Shawna.

1297
01:04:02.400 --> 01:04:04.320
Like the next time she's in Franklin,

1298
01:04:04.320 --> 01:04:05.760
like she'd be perfect for him.

1299
01:04:05.760 --> 01:04:08.040
And so I want you guys to be always thinking about that.

1300
01:04:08.040 --> 01:04:10.240
Like so many of you hate dating apps.

1301
01:04:10.240 --> 01:04:12.920
Like this is a way to do it.

1302
01:04:12.920 --> 01:04:15.400
All right, well, if we don't have any questions,

1303
01:04:15.400 --> 01:04:17.360
I'm not going to force the time.

1304
01:04:17.360 --> 01:04:18.680
So that's okay.

1305
01:04:18.680 --> 01:04:20.000
I've loved being with you all.

1306
01:04:20.000 --> 01:04:25.000
I'm actually leading our sabbatical rest prayer time

1307
01:04:25.240 --> 01:04:26.160
on Saturday morning.

1308
01:04:26.160 --> 01:04:28.520
And I'm looking forward to getting to do that.

1309
01:04:29.760 --> 01:04:32.520
You know, I feel like the Lord knew

1310
01:04:32.520 --> 01:04:34.200
we would need extra prayer time

1311
01:04:34.200 --> 01:04:37.480
because boy, the last week has just been a whammy

1312
01:04:37.480 --> 01:04:39.760
of life stuff coming at us.

1313
01:04:39.760 --> 01:04:43.920
And so how we battle spiritual crap

1314
01:04:43.920 --> 01:04:46.720
that's going on in the world right now is through prayer.

1315
01:04:47.680 --> 01:04:50.560
And we're going to go to the throne on Saturday morning.

1316
01:04:50.560 --> 01:04:52.080
And I look forward to getting to do that.

1317
01:04:52.080 --> 01:04:56.480
So I'm going to go ahead and pray us out.

1318
01:04:56.480 --> 01:04:57.320
Hold on.

1319
01:04:57.320 --> 01:04:59.400
I want to make sure I got no more questions in here.

1320
01:04:59.400 --> 01:05:00.240
All right.

1321
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:02.480
God, I just ask that you be with every single person here.

1322
01:05:02.480 --> 01:05:04.440
I ask that they feel you tonight,

1323
01:05:04.440 --> 01:05:06.640
that Father God, when they lay their head down,

1324
01:05:06.640 --> 01:05:09.820
that they see you, Father, Son, and Spirit,

1325
01:05:09.820 --> 01:05:14.440
that they feel exactly what David was talking about,

1326
01:05:14.440 --> 01:05:17.900
that they know that their daddy loves them,

1327
01:05:17.900 --> 01:05:19.680
that their daddy cares for them,

1328
01:05:19.680 --> 01:05:21.500
and that they are adopted children,

1329
01:05:21.500 --> 01:05:23.080
that they are not just adopted

1330
01:05:23.080 --> 01:05:26.680
into being under his protection,

1331
01:05:26.680 --> 01:05:29.260
but that we get all of the inheritance rights

1332
01:05:29.300 --> 01:05:31.940
that Jesus gets, all of them.

1333
01:05:31.940 --> 01:05:35.340
And so, Father God, I ask that Jesus be present,

1334
01:05:35.340 --> 01:05:39.740
that there is a new reminder and a new awakening

1335
01:05:39.740 --> 01:05:41.100
what Jesus did on the cross,

1336
01:05:41.100 --> 01:05:44.080
that if you don't feel love tonight,

1337
01:05:44.080 --> 01:05:46.380
you remember how much that Jesus loved you,

1338
01:05:46.380 --> 01:05:47.900
that he died for you.

1339
01:05:47.900 --> 01:05:52.340
And then, Holy Spirit, I ask that you infuse your power

1340
01:05:52.340 --> 01:05:55.140
into each and every single person, Father God.

1341
01:05:55.140 --> 01:05:56.520
Holy Spirit, whatever gift

1342
01:05:56.520 --> 01:05:57.840
that people have been praying for,

1343
01:05:57.840 --> 01:05:59.960
whatever you think that they need,

1344
01:05:59.960 --> 01:06:03.800
Holy Spirit, I believe that you can give that to them.

1345
01:06:03.800 --> 01:06:05.400
And so, some of these superpowers

1346
01:06:05.400 --> 01:06:06.920
that we were talking about,

1347
01:06:06.920 --> 01:06:09.800
Father God, you kinda heard, you know what the stirring is,

1348
01:06:09.800 --> 01:06:12.840
and I believe there's a Holy Spirit version

1349
01:06:12.840 --> 01:06:15.520
of the superpower that they're asking for.

1350
01:06:15.520 --> 01:06:17.520
So, Father God, you know each and every single person

1351
01:06:17.520 --> 01:06:20.360
on here, you know their needs, you know their wants,

1352
01:06:20.360 --> 01:06:22.320
you know their desires, their fears.

1353
01:06:22.320 --> 01:06:24.020
Father God, I just ask that you just be

1354
01:06:24.020 --> 01:06:25.560
with each and every single person,

1355
01:06:25.560 --> 01:06:27.560
that you do something amazing,

1356
01:06:28.280 --> 01:06:29.920
and so that when the next Faith Friday comes up,

1357
01:06:29.920 --> 01:06:31.660
this group that came here tonight,

1358
01:06:31.660 --> 01:06:34.740
who heard this word, or is listening to this in replay,

1359
01:06:34.740 --> 01:06:36.840
that they're gonna be like, yes, in this moment,

1360
01:06:36.840 --> 01:06:39.400
I woke up and something shifted with me,

1361
01:06:39.400 --> 01:06:42.560
with Father God, the Son, and the Holy Spirit,

1362
01:06:42.560 --> 01:06:45.240
and we just lift all of this up in the Father's name,

1363
01:06:45.240 --> 01:06:49.000
the Son's name, and the Holy Spirit's name, amen.

1364
01:06:50.120 --> 01:06:51.560
Amen, thanks, Renee.

1365
01:06:51.560 --> 01:06:52.920
Amen, thanks, Renee.

1366
01:06:52.920 --> 01:06:53.760
Thank you, Renee.

1367
01:06:53.760 --> 01:06:55.360
Thank you, see y'all.

1368
01:06:55.360 --> 01:06:56.840
Amen, thank you, Renee.