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Welcome, everybody.

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Hey, everyone. Welcome to Mindset Monday.

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We're going to get going here in a minute.

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Miracle March.

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Welcome to Miracle March.

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We're still going. March 9.

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Hey, Lindsay. Hey, Linda.

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Good to see you, girl.

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Welcome.

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Hey, A.K.

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God is doing miracles.

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Miracles are happening in the month of March.

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So welcome. Come on in, everyone.

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All right.

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All right. How's everyone feeling today?

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It's just me and Lindsay on camera right now.

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I love it.

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So good.

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How's everyone feeling? Pop in the chat.

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Let's do a quick check-in.

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Do a feeling check-in.

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How's everyone feeling this Monday?

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March 9, 20, 26.

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Pop in the chat. How's everyone feeling today?

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Hey, Linda.

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How's everyone feeling today?

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Pop it in the chat.

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Hey, Kristi. Hey, Jana. Hey, Erin. Welcome.

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So good to see you all and be with you today.

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All right. Yay.

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How's everyone feeling this morning?

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Pop your feelings in the chat.

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Remember, our feelings are so important.

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And I think a lot of people, there's this phrase

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in the entrepreneur world that's like F your feelings.

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You guys have heard that like F your feelings get to work.

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F this, like get focused.

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And guess what? I don't like that.

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And I'm not a fan of that.

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Because your feelings are connected to a thought.

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And your thought is connected to a belief, right?

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So anytime you're feeling something, it is to be paid attention to actually.

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It's to take a look.

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And what is that thought behind the feeling?

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We cannot forget this.

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So if anybody's telling you,

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ask your feelings, who cares?

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Anybody, I don't know if anyone has raised like this.

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I know I was, you know, like our parents generate,

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I know we're all in different generations here,

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but I think, I think the millennial generation

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is the generation that's really come away to our feelings

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and are like, wait a minute,

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our feelings are actually trying to tell us something.

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And it doesn't make us weak or strong.

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It doesn't make us good or bad.

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Feelings are actually,

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I like to look at them as neutral at face value.

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And then, okay, what is,

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what is my feeling trying to tell me?

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God made us emotional beings.

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And some of us feel deeper than others.

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Some of you are more thinkers,

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and maybe you actually need to learn how to feel.

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And that is why every, some people say,

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I know some of you are over thinkers,

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you know the term like if you're an over thinker.

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So sometimes that actually means you're an under feeler.

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And sometimes the feelings

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are actually what need to be taken a look at.

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And then find the thought

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and the behind that thought is the belief.

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And we are, you know, our mindset is basically essentially,

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it's our belief system.

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That's what our mindset is.

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Mindset belief system.

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'Cause at the end of the day,

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your results today right now are a direct result

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of what you think and what you believe about you.

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And that is actually meant to be an empowering statement,

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not a shame statement, right?

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This is all about how can I be in charge?

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How can I be in tune?

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I remember last week talking with you, Linda,

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like about scheduling, right?

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This is where the scheduling comes in.

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I'm in charge of me.

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I'm in, I get to choose.

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And actually sometimes we, you've heard this,

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like I can't control my feelings.

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Maybe you can't control the onset of the feeling, okay?

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The onset of the feeling, like they just onset,

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it just comes to us, but what we can't control are our thoughts.

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And our thoughts are connected to our feelings, right?

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And so that's why we started the year off in January

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about how to, you know, be, how to know our thoughts,

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how to create a brain prime,

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how to have thoughts on automation that work for you

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and not against you, that work for your business

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and for your goals and not against you.

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And so I just was thinking how important it is.

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Like our field, there's just,

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there's somebody in the business world

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who's creating a whole brand around after your feelings.

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And she's really successful.

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I'm not gonna, like, I think she's very successful

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in certain ways, but I think she's also missing

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an emotional aspect there that I just really wanted

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to bring light in the beginning of our call here.

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And so also, if you're not sure how you feel,

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then there is this thing called a feeling wheel

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that you can Google.

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It's literally called feeling wheel.

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Have you guys heard of it?

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Do you know what that is?

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I literally use it all the time.

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In fact, my mug today is a feeling wheel.

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And there's mug, I mean, it's the whole thing, right?

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And so, so there's no shame if you're feeling, you know,

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happy sad if you're feeling depressed, bored, peaceful,

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disgusted, disappointed, amazed, cheerful, rejected,

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horrified, anxious, tender, thankful, annoyed,

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disrespected, eager, you know,

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there's literally so many emotions that we experience,

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but do you know how to name them?

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'Cause that's the first step, right?

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How do you feel?

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So, all that to say, how's everyone feeling today?

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Pop in the chat, I know a few of you did.

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I just wanted to leave a little space again

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for everybody to respond to this question.

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How are you feeling right now this morning,

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this afternoon and this moment?

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How do you feel?

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All right, Lindsey's feeling hopeful, the sun shining.

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I know, that's interesting, right?

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Like when the sun's hot, I tend to feel happier

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and more cheerful.

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There's science behind all that.

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In fact, going out in the sun and having the sun hit your face

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will, is an immediate form of dopamine

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and helps your nervous system.

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Love that.

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Percy is feeling a little stressed and overwhelmed.

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All done.

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Thanks for sharing.

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Lindsay, okay.

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Yeah, I know, right?

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Our feelings are a gift.

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Yay, I love your tender heart, Lindsay.

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I think it's beautiful.

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All right, Sherry's feeling fine.

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Sherry is feeling a bit restless.

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Andre's mom, I always go like that.

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Feeling calm, Amy's feeling stressed,

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and Jana's not sure.

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All right, Jana, so maybe you're feeling confused.

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Is that like, 'cause you're not sure

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would be confusion, maybe is the feeling word for that?

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Is that a line?

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Okay, great.

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So Jana's feeling confused.

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And Erin's feeling good.

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All right, and I am feeling,

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I personally am feeling a little bloated

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and I feel expectant.

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Those are my two feeling words.

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So all right, here's what I was thinking for today.

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It's Miracle March.

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I put a big poster in my kitchen that says Miracle March

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and I am keeping track of the miracles

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that pop up in this month.

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So I would love to start our call off.

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We talked about a miracle.

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We talked that we defined it last week.

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It's something supernatural,

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something that's hard to explain,

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something that maybe there's a fruit of labor.

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We can finally see a miracle is actually seeing

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what we've been waiting or working towards.

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Another word could be a win.

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And the reason I'm using miracle is because

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I'm believing there's even bigger things

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that we're gonna be seeing in this month

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that are just bigger,

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that we can just encourage each other,

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that the miraculous still happens.

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And you guys know this, our particular activator system,

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I call them our antennas,

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our RAS is in our brain.

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And what it does is it's like little antennas

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and it's constantly searching for evidence

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for what you believe.

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It's evidence for what you want to see.

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So when I tell you look for miracles

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and be on the lookout for miracles,

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you're going to see more

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because you have set an intention,

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we're setting that intention in this month

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to see things happen.

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And I don't want, there is no wrong miracle.

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There's nothing no wrong about it.

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You can't answer this question wrong, by the way.

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Okay, that's number one.

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And then number two,

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I met with my counselor last week

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and she was talking about how there is a shit

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like economists are talking about how there is a big shift

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that is going to happen in our world in the next decade.

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And have you guys seen online,

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like people talking about there being a cashless society

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what's going towards the cashless society?

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And an Elon Musk was talking about how

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within the next 10 years,

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he says, you know, we're going to all be an AI currency.

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Okay, so whatever, those are just all thoughts

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ruining in the world today.

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And I'm just like, whether that happens or not,

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what I believe matters is number one,

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miracles still take place.

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So I don't care whether we have cash or not,

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whether your business is working or not,

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whether your feeling, encourage, inspired, ready to go,

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or you are not, a miracle does not depend on what we do.

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That is also something that's really beautiful

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about a miracle.

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And I think that that's forgotten in the business world

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if people don't believe in them.

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And again, if you're not, if you don't believe in God

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or you believe in a higher power,

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like even that would be a miracle,

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like things that are just hard to explain.

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Or like, hey, I did this thing and then this thing happened.

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So I really believe that's what we're supposed to be focusing

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on part of our calls in this month.

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So in a minute, I'm going to open the floor

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to if anybody wants to share some miracles

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that they've seen in the last week.

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And then I have a topic for us today.

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All right, does that sound good?

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All right, do anybody want to start?

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Anybody want to, you can unmute and share your miracle.

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Anybody has them?

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I can go.

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Okay, go ahead.

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choices, but they're choices that scare me. And I've been praying for several months about like

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either God would close a window or God would make me okay with her choice. And basically it's

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has to do with moving out of the house and all that stuff. And I this last week I could tell you

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the specific moment where I switched from fear and anxiety over her choice to

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celebrating her and being along for the ride and being supportive. And I know like with like

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on my own that would not have happened. So I know that that was a miracle.

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Yeah, yes, that is a miracle. Yay, those gonna feel good to be at peace and celebration and say

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I'm for you, I'm with you, right? And it's it's so good. It's more than just I'm okay with this.

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It's I'm I'm celebrating it and I'm happy and I'm excited for her. And last week I couldn't have

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told you that any of those feelings for her were inside me at all. Exactly.

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Yeah. All right, celebrating. That's awesome. Yay. All right, who's next? Let's get this miracle

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train going. Hey, I'll go. All right, Kate. I celebrated one year of post off on my ankle.

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I have been on a crazy health journey this last year. A lot of changes, a lot of hard. But it's

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bringing about good fruit. But this week, after months and months of not being able to walk normally

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or drive normally, I was going to an appointment. And I was just like calm and stuff. But like,

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I looked down at my feet and realized I was driving with my right foot, which I haven't done for a year.

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Wow. And I was just like, finally, it was like a miracle to me because I have been,

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you know, having to loophole around everything, not being able to use my right ankle for this long.

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And I was just like, what? I didn't even notice that I was doing it. I was just driving normally.

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And I was like, what? This is so crazy. Like my brain even allowed me to just not even think about

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it. And I was like, what? This is so good. That is huge, especially for all those months.

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So huge. I will take it as she will. We celebrate. We're celebrating with you. That's a miracle.

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Awesome. Who's next? Okay, I will go next. Okay. All right. My miracle happened. Yeah,

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this is a new week. Last week, so I actually had where my husband was supposed to take care of

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stuff and something with where the kids and he did not. So I was pissed because it was the day I was

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out the whole day. So I, you know, sent off this text message and he was mad. And we, you know,

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got it in the text. So later I was like, okay, we need to talk about it. I didn't go into the talk

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expecting good after I went in for it. But I got a lot of physical fights. So I was like,

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still mad, you know, but God like flipped that conversation to where it was actually very good.

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And we actually got on the same page and stuff. And I was shocked after the fact. I was like,

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wait a minute. I was in expecting that. Yeah, because we do have different parenting styles

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when it comes to the kids. So we have different parenting styles, you know, he likes to go soft.

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I like to go aggressive stuff. And but yeah, we grew up with different parents. So yeah,

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I have different will. Yeah. And so yeah, and I was like, generally shocked at it. And I was like,

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okay, God, I don't know what the heck you did there, but I like it. It's good. So I just want

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to share that. Yeah, that is so good. When you again, that's a miracle because you went in expecting

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one thing. And you came out with a complete completely different thing. And all you did was

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show up. Yeah, and you were open.

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Right. And so just to be able to be given a different outcome from that that conversation is a miracle. And what it does is it's telling your brain.

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God's trying to show you, hey, this is actually look as possible. Look what can happen.

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See, miracles also reveal possibility, where otherwise it would have seemed impossible. A miracle comes and say, wait a minute.

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It's actually possible. There can be something different.

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And we want to hold on to these moments. I'm actually writing them down.

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So I'm going to keep a list of us for the rest of the month, so that we can look back and remember these things because, listen, write these down because your brain is going to forget.

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We are so easily forget where we have come from. And when we, when we have healing, we forget, we forget, we, especially when we're just so used to rejection or, or disappointment, or, you know, whatever.

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That's why we don't want to get comfortable in that space. So we look for miracles. It's one way to do that. So, so good. Thank you so much for sharing.

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Anybody else miracles.

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Yeah, go ahead, Jerry.

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Okay, well, this isn't like a recent thing. I mean, maybe it's been like a few months now already, but for like six years, I think six years straight, I, I've had this really terrible gut problem with all these terrible symptoms, you know, like soft.

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Bowels and diarrhea, you know, bloating and my tummy felt like, like bubbles popping and just sit down. A very uncomfortable feeling for like six years and I went to so many different doctors tried so many different supplements, tried different diets, nothing, nothing I could figure out what the cause was, you know, I couldn't figure out what the cause was or what the.

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You know, the solution was, it just, it was crazy. I, I kept trying and trying and trying and just no luck. And then finally one day, I was looking at a video online and I, it was, it was actually a cancer video but, but it was, it was talking about fasting.

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And so I thought, you know, I, I actually researched it more and I saw more videos and more reading about it and it said that, you know, it could possibly cure just about any, anything that you have going on.

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So I, I decided to try it. And I fasted water fasted for seven days straight, just no food with just only water. And it was hard but, but I was determined and what happened after that.

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The first day after I started eating again. I felt fine but then the next day, I started getting symptoms again but, but then after that, all my symptoms went away.

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Wow, that's amazing. I was involved. Yes. Yeah. And it stayed away. But then it, the, the video said well you can, you can do this every, like, every five or six weeks.

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And do a seven day water pass every five to six weeks. Well, you can, you can, you don't have to have it seven days every time you can decide how many days.

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Yeah, the person, you know, yeah, yeah, that's amazing. That's amazing, Jerry.

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So then after, after like five or six weeks, I did another fast. It was not seven days. It was five days.

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And because, you know, sometimes when, when your symptoms start going again, you want to do it again. And so I did another five days fast and, and it helped.

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And then after that, I waited another five or six weeks and I, I did a three day fast.

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And then another, I don't know, five or six or more. I don't remember how long it was. I did another like day fast.

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I don't know what the cost was, but I know the cure and it was celebrating you, Stairie. That's awesome.

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Thanks.

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It feels, anybody here dealing with health stuff, you know, on and off in our lives, it's just so refreshing to find something that works and that takes a lot of discipline too.

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And I have, fasting is a regular part of my life as well.

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So I completely agree and believe that that God actually gave us fasting to heal parts of our body.

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So that's, that's amazing, Stairie.

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Congratulations.

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Celebrating you all.

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Yay.

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All right.

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Anybody else?

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I'll share.

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I've got a blessing.

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I'm kind of still in the throes of like baby life and my nine month old has slept through the night.

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The past four nights, which has not really been the norm.

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So that's been really huge and he's kind of like also sleeping in the time change, but, um, you know, we'll give it, we'll give it to him.

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Um, and then yeah, also, um, when we go to church on Sundays, I have him with me because the timing sometimes he like needs to nap or I don't want him to get sick or something with the kids church.

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But, um, with the timing of the time change, we just, my husband was like gone for the day.

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And so I was just like, let's just do it.

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We all went and I dropped him off the baby off at the kids church and I was just like able to go into the main sanctuary area.

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And it just was such a different experience, just like, I don't know, being, being with everybody in the sanctuary because it's really loud.

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So I usually have my baby out in the foyer area.

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So it was just such a, I guess, I don't know, miracle, but just like blessing to be like, it was my first time getting to be in the sanctuary and like the five months that we've been in our new town.

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So it was really nice.

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So yeah, it's huge.

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That is a miracle.

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Everyone out here, he's a mom.

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Come on.

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Like, that's amazing.

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Yeah, the kids church like this was like, uh, you know, I don't know, like having a babysitter.

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It's like, oh, my hour and I didn't have any of either of my kids.

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Yes, it was just nice.

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I really felt like I got to hear from God and that hour.

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And yeah, it was, it was great.

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So yeah, you're nervous system probably needed that hour.

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Yes.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, celebrating that miracle.

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Love it.

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Anybody else?

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Okay.

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I will share mine.

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I've got a list of like 10.

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So I want to share with the one that I really feel is so powerful because it's not something

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I ever have done before, but it has been a decade in the, in the process of work.

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So you guys know I'm single, never married.

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I went on, um, 68 first dates in my life.

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Um, and that is my version of putting myself out there.

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And, you know, giving, giving my heart out, giving chances to good guys.

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And the guys just keep getting better.

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They just keep getting better and better and better.

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Oh man.

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Cause one of my brain primes is I am surrounded by Christian, wealthy,

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emotionally available and stable men.

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So I say that to myself every day.

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And one popped up on my, on my radar two and a half weeks ago.

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And I took a chance and I said, yes, to a date and it turned into a few dates actually.

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And I haven't done that in a long time because I can tell after one date, whether

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I want to see them again or not, I, my discernment is up.

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And I know a lot more what I'm looking for at this point in my life.

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And, um, and I was my birthdays this week and I'm throwing a little party and I invited

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him and he was, I was like, no pressure.

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Like, you know, we're both extroverts.

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He's a big party person.

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So I was like, no big deal, right?

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I'm sure he'll want to come.

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And he said, yes.

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And so I was excited about that.

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And, um, and then I abruptly got a call on Friday night and he ended our connection.

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Just like that.

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Just boom.

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Just done.

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And this is not new.

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I have been in this position quite a few times of my life at this point.

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But here's what, here's the miracle.

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I did not go into any form of defeat.

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I did not blame.

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I did not curse.

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You want to know this was miraculous.

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What I did was I actually was so grateful.

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That's it.

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rejection and um and it was a miracle because and then because this bones called so shocking

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to my system I was like wait I was not expecting this like there was shock and um and I was

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a little tired so I didn't respond um I responded fine but I didn't get to bless him and tell

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him what a difference he made in my life in two and a half weeks and so guess what I

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blessed him um two days later and I just told him I just uplifted him because men I think

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are not uplifted enough they're not encouraged enough and so I literally blessed this man

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I encouraged him I told him all the amazing things that this man just brought into my

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life he restored joy in my life where I am needed it and and the God used this man and

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who am I to let the rejection get in the way like that's a miracle because and I'm like

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God I have waited for a decade to respond this way and I'm like we didn't even be friends

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maybe I'm surprised I don't know like I've never even had that thought before it's usually

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like oh get out of my life whatever and so that was just so much strength and resilience

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and and I believe a miracle of like all of these years of all of this emotional turmoil

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and my heart aches like my heart is sick literally for my husband but I get to go to

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God who is my first husband and my first lover and be like wow like thank you for all that

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I actually really need is found in you whether I'm married or not and so that was the miracle

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that happens that and even my friends my local friends were like whoa this is different

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this isn't we never seen you react like this before I say yeah it's a miracle that's what

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that is you know and just continually fixing my eyes on God and fixing my eyes on something

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greater than what I can see and that is a miracle and we get to do that all day every day we get

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to say wait how is this rejection so so I like to I like to take this belief and I've had this

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thought on replay in my life for a long time but it also you know our beliefs are tested

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when things happen and so I say rejection is not personal it's not when I'm rejected it doesn't

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have to do with me it has to do with the person rejecting think about this when you reject somebody

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or you reject something or you tell something no you're doing the rejecting that's your choice

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right so it's personal to you to the rejector not the one being rejected and and I believe that is

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something that we constantly need to be reminded of in business because there is a lot of rejection

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that happens in building a business and the rejection can also show up in in in yourself like self-rejecting

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self saying saying you know I'm not good enough I'm this isn't going to work this works for other

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people this doesn't work for me or partnering with what your nervous system has like you know

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felt or been comfortable with for so long and so I just believe that that is a belief that I have

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been saying on and off for years and I have this guy was like how could anyone reject you and I'm like

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they don't they reject themselves I'm actually not the one rejected you know and he was like wait

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what and I was like yeah let that sink in and then he went on to reject me two and a half weeks later

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and it's like because you weren't in alignment with where I'm going that's why right that doesn't

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have to do with you I'm actually showing up authentically and I got big goals and big dreams

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and he doesn't and and it revealed itself and he's like I can't do this I don't want this I think

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oh this is what I want you know and so I'm a very healthy space empathetic space not like a get on

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my pedestal I you know I feel like God's healed me a lot not so so I just really wanted to share

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I feel like that was something I really wanted us to remember in business building and in like

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getting your habits together and like saying no think about it think about this like you reject

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all the time you say no to maybe a food you would rather have eaten in the day why would you reject

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a certain type of food that's maybe not maybe because it's not good for you and you decided I

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don't want that so now who like that's a good thing right and it or or you know you reject something

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That's what I wanted to remember, remind all of us that I really felt like, because see, when we're looking for miracles, the opposite of a miracle is rejection.

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It's a no. It's a, it's a, that's impossible. That's never going to happen. And so I think in looking for miracles this month and looking for the impossible to be possible, there's when rejection comes, how do you want to handle that?

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And you get to choose, you get to choose, what does this know really mean? What am I making it mean about me? What am I making it mean about God? What am I making it mean about my business?

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It's really important that we are in tune with that, because at the end of the day, you each are your own CEO and you each get to create, you know, what you want to see in your life.

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So does anybody have any questions about rejection? Any thoughts or questions about that?

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I have a, I don't have a question. I have a statement. Well, I'm still mulling that over in my mind about I, in some instances, I get where the other person is, is reject, is rejecting, and they're the rejector are not, they're not rejecting me. They're rejecting their own thought.

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Their own ideas about whatever that situation is. Some instances, I'm thinking, like, I can't, I'm trying to make it apply across the board.

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Yeah.

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You know, I mean, for myself, I realize I'm a very, like, if I, if I like you or I love you and you love me, I want you to agree with me, not, you don't have to agree on everything. But when you don't agree, I take it really personally.

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Like, it's like, it's personal. Yeah, is that I can't take it that personal, because that is the other person's thought about it. If I have a belief in and standing or standard or whatever it is that I know is true, whatever you say about it, or someone else says about it, that does not apply to me.

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Unless I put it in my mind, I realize, okay, you know, you were right. So I don't entirely put your thoughts off the table. But if I don't find that you're right, I have to learn to not take it so personal. If this is what I believe, this is what I believe.

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And guess what? Same for that person.

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If that's what you believe, then that's what you believe. And now we're talking like Christian principles are like a spiritual principle, even at the end of the day, maybe you're interpreting something and you think this is the godly or right way and like this is not because I do believe there is like, there is like a narrow path and a white path like we each get a choice there's and not send there's, you know, this is honoring, this is dishonoring.

456
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Right. That's not necessarily what I'm talking about, but even in the rejecting of this is the right way. This is the way I think we need to go. That is their own belief and how many of you can change somebody else's belief.

457
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Can you eat your barely able to change your own.

458
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It's nice work to just change our own beliefs and take ownership of our own thoughts, let alone, let alone somebody else's.

459
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Yep, you can only share.

460
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You can only share that's it and then and then and then accept.

461
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There's got to be a form of acceptance, because here's the thing, if you refuse to accept somebody who's rejecting you, then now that's going to start to hurt you and then bitterness resentment like things are going to start to form inside of you.

462
00:39:15.280 --> 00:39:26.240
Yeah. Um, and that's a whole nother topic, acceptance, actually, within rejection, but like being, no, that's good Linda. Thanks for sharing that you're not the only one here who's like,

463
00:39:26.240 --> 00:39:35.360
you know, recovering people, please, there's anybody I don't like when people reject me. I want to be like, I, I want, I don't want to take it personal.

464
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But the more you can, this is the, this is the thing is your, you are separating yourself from the rejection.

465
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You're separating yourself and you're saying, it's not personal to me. It's actually personal to you. And if you want to talk more about that, that's where you can begin to understand and have empathy for the person. That's where empathy comes in. I see your

466
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else have a question about reduction or I thought about it? Okay, I want to know, I want you to

467
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type in the chat, everybody, please, I would like everyone to be a part of this. I want to know,

468
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how are you doing, if you could sum up your business journey right now? Like, how are you feeling

469
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about it? And is rejection like a part of it right now? Are you, you know, are you seeing

470
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rejection show up somehow in your business that's maybe stalling you? So I just want each of you

471
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to take a moment and I would like you to pop this in the chat. This is going to help me see where

472
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each of you are at right now with your business. So like, how are you feeling about your business?

473
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And what's your relationship with the reduction in regards to it? Is there something that's popped up

474
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in rejection? Is there, is it stalling you? Are you like, I've been rejected and I'm still going? Or

475
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that's kind of what I would like to hear from each of you right now in the chat.

476
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481
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All right, I'm looking. You can't get this wrong, by the way, just where you're at. I know this is

482
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vulnerable. I want to, I feel like we're supposed to go there right now and I just want to hear

483
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from each of you. Like, how are you feeling? Where are you at your business? And is rejection

484
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a part of it right now? And how is that looking? Is it stalling you? Is it holding you?

485
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492
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All right, I see I'm writing this down and I'm taking a look at it all and then we're going to talk about it.

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Okay, we're going to take that view in light of that view.

514
00:45:21.720 --> 00:45:29.360
Some of you talked about how you are feeling like you're rejecting yourself.

515
00:45:30.360 --> 00:45:36.360
So in a way, it's personal, but I want you, we're going to go deep here in a minute.

516
00:45:36.360 --> 00:45:40.360
Okay, we're going to go, I want you to just get really honest with yourself. Are you ready?

517
00:45:40.360 --> 00:45:43.360
I believe each of you are about to have a break there right now.

518
00:45:43.360 --> 00:45:58.360
I'm declaring breakthroughs ever, every single one of you on this call in the next 15 minutes, everything one of you are leaving and you're not going to be stalled and you're not going to be disillusioned, not going to be stagnant, you're not going to be stand still.

519
00:45:59.360 --> 00:46:10.360
Okay, because these things, these things, there's something that is holding each of you back.

520
00:46:10.360 --> 00:46:18.360
There is a belief or there is a thing or there is a fear that is holding you, that is keeping you still.

521
00:46:18.360 --> 00:46:35.360
We are not stand still or stagnant or not wanting to work on money or not wanting to work on the business or, you know, there's a reason, there's a reason, there's a reason.

522
00:46:35.360 --> 00:46:40.360
We don't get stuck for no reason. It doesn't just happen out of the blue.

523
00:46:40.360 --> 00:46:44.360
And rejection can sometimes play a really big role.

524
00:46:46.360 --> 00:46:54.360
So right now we're just going to get curious, and when you get curious to be really kind to yourself, okay, we're going to like do big hugs right now.

525
00:46:54.360 --> 00:47:00.360
Okay, we're doing hugs, we're being nice, we're being kind, but we want to find something right now.

526
00:47:00.360 --> 00:47:09.360
So where do you, what is, this is my question, what is the thought behind what you wrote in the chat?

527
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Or what is your belief behind what you wrote in the chat?

528
00:47:16.360 --> 00:47:20.360
That's why I want you to like write down for yourself right now.

529
00:47:20.360 --> 00:47:40.360
There's some, like there's something we want to uncover underneath the stagnation or the stalling or the feeling tired, the disillusionment, the rejecting.

530
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I want you to do your best right now to try to find out what is my thought or what is my belief driving what you wrote in the chat.

531
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Does that make sense?

532
00:47:57.360 --> 00:48:01.360
Does that make sense everybody?

533
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What is your thought or your belief driving behind what you wrote in the chat here?

534
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Okay, now share it in the chat. Yes, I wanted to give you a moment to like think about it because sometimes it can be hard to find.

535
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The thought behind it or the belief behind it.

536
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This is vulnerable. Okay, this is good.

537
00:48:51.360 --> 00:48:59.360
You might feel exposed a little bit, but that's not what I want. We're after breakthrough here. We're after new thoughts.

538
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We're going to have a turnaround right now. It's about to be 14 little mini miracles in our brains right now.

539
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So when you're ready, when you have the thought, go ahead and write in the chat.

540
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So when you're ready, when you have the thought, go ahead and write in the chat.

541
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542
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Good job everybody. Keep them coming. You're doing great.

543
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544
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Hey, Garim, I saw that you just joined what we're kind of doing a live coaching with everybody but I, the first question was where, you know, how would you sum up your business right now and where is rejection playing a roller part of it.

545
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And now I'm asking everybody to write, what is the thought or the belief behind that.

546
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What is driving, driving that.

547
00:50:58.200 --> 00:51:15.200
All right, this is basically what we're doing right now is we're trying to reveal where you're stuck or where you're not able to move forward and then what we're about to step into is you each creating a new thought for yourself.

548
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Because remember, if you have a thought on replay, that is what a neuro pathway is it's a thought on replay over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again.

549
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That is the result of that thought.

550
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Okay now.

551
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Some of you are having thoughts right now that are not they're not working for you. Some of you have some that are right now.

552
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If they're working right.

553
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If they're not working, then they need to change right this is this is the whole thing about not seeing the results that you want where like one little change you can do this week.

554
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And the one little change can be a new thought.

555
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That's what we're going to do this week.

556
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All right, everyone ready.

557
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I'm going to go through each of you rapid fire here and I want you to pay attention.

558
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Everyone pay attention.

559
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So.

560
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All right, Kendall, I'm sorry with you. No, no, I'm starting with.

561
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Who am I starting with? Hold on.

562
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Okay.

563
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All right, Lindsay, I'm sorry with you. I think, hold on.

564
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No, no, no, you are at the bottom. Sorry, guys.

565
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All right, Kendall, start with you.

566
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You said, I'm not going to get it done by the time I feel like I need her once I have it done. That's going to create disappointment from my husband and cause him to question if it's worth continued investment in rainmakers.

567
00:52:53.200 --> 00:52:58.200
Okay, so I'm sure those thoughts are creating anxiety.

568
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Feeling like you're stuck feeling like what, you know.

569
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Is this really is this, like you said, I get distracted with all these excuses. There's overwhelm.

570
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All right, so, Kendall, I want you to create a new positive thoughts.

571
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That is going to work for you.

572
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Here's the thing, your brain doesn't believe it, but in order to believe it, you've got to start saying it.

573
00:53:27.200 --> 00:53:40.200
All right, so maybe, Kendall, something you need to do this week is to reevaluate your timeline, because it looks like time is something that is frustrating you.

574
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So I would like you to, like, take a real look at, like, what is my timeline? Like, what is, what's realistic? And then I, instead of your husband questioning your worth.

575
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I want you to question it yourself.

576
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What is worth it for you? What do you think you need?

577
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That's what I want you to do this week.

578
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Like, with this thought.

579
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Okay.

580
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Because here this everybody, if you're questioning, is this worth it? Is this worth it? It's a good question.

581
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It is.

582
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But the first question is, am I worth it? And what do I want?

583
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That's where our investments come. They stem from what do I want? What is worth it for me?

584
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And sometimes we just forget that along the process when we are discouraged or rejected or things aren't looking the way that we expected them to. So we're kind of coming back. Does that make sense for you, Kendall?

585
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I want you to do that this week.

586
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Okay.

587
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All right, Kate.

588
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You're saying someone is better than me. So why should I try someone else shines better better does better looks better sings better.

589
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Okay. If you keep having that thought, then you're going to continue to shrink back smaller and smaller and smaller.

590
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And that's what's happening, right? Exactly.

591
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of saying somebody's better than me, I want you to say something positive about you and

592
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what you bring to the table. Because while there may be true, listen, there's always

593
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somebody better at all of us than things. That's actually true. However, if you believe

594
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it's true, then it's stopping you from showing up authentically in your voice and what you're

595
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called to. So to say something, someone is better than me. I want you to say what you

596
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are good at. I want you to write this week about what you are good at and what you bring

597
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to the table because there is no other Kate in the world. So if you think about this,

598
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isn't it for everybody? Since there's only one of you, then you actually do the best

599
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of what you bring to the table. But your brain does not believe in that right now. It's agreeing

600
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that somebody's doing it better. So I want you, I want this week, I want you to say,

601
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I want you to literally write down like what you are good at, what you shine in, what you

602
00:56:10.520 --> 00:56:16.120
do good at, not what somebody else does. Okay, and then that's what I want you to do this

603
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week. Okay, Jenna, you're not sure you want to keep going with your business. So that

604
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makes sense, right? When you start feeling stuck, when you start questioning, like, do

605
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I really want to do this? You can get, it could be very stagnant. And I know you came

606
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on through the call feeling confused. So here's what I'd like you to do this week. I want

607
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you to write down throws and cons. Have you done that yet? Okay, that's what I want you

608
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to do this week. I want you to actually get on paper. What is working in my business?

609
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Why do I want to do this? And what are, what are the cons? And I want you to take a hard

610
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look and I want you to ask yourself, what would it look like to keep going? And what

611
00:57:00.880 --> 00:57:05.840
would it look like to stop? Because you have it, since you haven't actually put it on paper

612
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yet, it's bought, it's boggled up in here and you're just going to keep getting stuck

613
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and stagnant if you don't like actually take a good look at it. And nobody's forcing any

614
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of you all to, you don't have to continue with your business if you don't want to. There

615
00:57:19.440 --> 00:57:25.800
is no forcing here. That's why this exercise is like, what, what do you want? And like,

616
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I want you to take a look at it and make a decision for yourself. And I want you to

617
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do that this week. And I want you to be like really honest with yourself. Here's the reality.

618
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There are a lot of cons in the beginning of building a business. There's a lot, it takes

619
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a lot to do this. But it's not, it's not anything that's impossible, right? Unless you decide

620
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that it is. And you decide that this isn't what I want. And this isn't possible for me.

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So that's why it's important for you to like write down and be like, okay, what's the pros?

622
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What's the cons? And I want you to be like, okay, if I go down this way, what would this

623
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look like? If I go down this way, what would it look like? And that is going to help you

624
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at least take a look at like what you're actually looking at instead of making up a bunch of

625
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stuff in your head. Does that help, Jenna? Okay, good. Okay, Shari, you've done it wrong.

626
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Okay, so you have this style, like I've done it wrong. I saw that you were like, I saw

627
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you list some of the wins, but then it's like, okay, like where's the finances? Like I'm waiting

628
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on some finances, right? So instead of I've done it wrong, I want you to take a look this

629
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week at like, what am I, what can I do differently? And maybe where do I need to change or tighten

630
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something up? That's what I want you to look at yourself for yourself this week.

631
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Because in learning new skills, we tend to do things wrong for a while until we get them right.

632
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But it, but behind that thought is like, I think there's, I think you just need to take a look

633
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to assure yourself that actually you're doing things right. But the only way to do that is to

634
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answer those questions I said. Does that, does that make sense? Is that helpful? All right, cool.

635
00:59:14.680 --> 00:59:20.280
All right, Chrissy, the stress of this business is not worth it. It's not what I expected it to be.

636
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Great. Okay, so you're having a miss expectation sounds like with yourself. There's like,

637
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I have this expectation. I thought it was going to look like this. It's actually looking like this.

638
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So here's what I'd like you to do this week. I want you to write down what actually

639
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is stressing you out from your business. Have you done that yet? Okay, so you actually have like

640
00:59:45.960 --> 00:59:53.880
key points. This task and this thing is stressing me out. This thing here is where I'm getting my

641
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guess. But you've, so you've already done that. Okay, so then.

642
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like next to those. I want you to think about what is the solution to each of those? Have

643
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you done that? Okay. That's your next step this week. What is the solution to help get

644
01:00:19.760 --> 01:00:25.640
you out of anxiety? You don't have to do any of them, actually, unless one minute feels

645
01:00:25.640 --> 01:00:29.160
really good and really peaceful, then I want you to do that one. But this will be the next

646
01:00:29.160 --> 01:00:34.040
step. Okay. You identified, you got your stressor, and now I want you to write down what could

647
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problem solve this? And then you'll be able to have even more clarity. Is this worth it?

648
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Do I want to keep doing this? And is this what, is it actually what I expected it to

649
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be? Because maybe it actually is. And then maybe you can say, okay, because here's where

650
01:00:50.040 --> 01:00:54.040
here's where everybody hear this, and you're not alone, Kristi, and I'm right there with

651
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you. Expectations are really tricky, because they can help us, but sometimes they can really

652
01:01:06.280 --> 01:01:14.400
hurt us. And so, a phrase that I've said a lot in dating, and I translated into growing

653
01:01:14.400 --> 01:01:25.120
businesses over the year, is have high standards, but lower my expectations. I keep my standards

654
01:01:25.120 --> 01:01:31.640
here, but I lower the way that I'm going to get to the standard, or how long it's going

655
01:01:31.640 --> 01:01:39.920
to take me, or what's required of me. Because Kristi, let's not forget, I'm aware it's one

656
01:01:39.920 --> 01:01:44.000
minute over, I'm going to keep going for a couple more minutes, feel free to pop off if you need

657
01:01:44.000 --> 01:01:48.720
to. Because Kristi, let's also not forget that you're in transition, you just made a big life

658
01:01:48.720 --> 01:01:56.000
decision. And that also could be, it's actually probably a good thing that's like forcing you

659
01:01:56.000 --> 01:02:03.440
to kind of take a look at like, what is my business? Is this worth it? Do you know, are these the

660
01:02:03.440 --> 01:02:08.640
things that I want to, I want to, I want to keep going, right? What is the problem? How can I

661
01:02:08.640 --> 01:02:14.320
problem solve this? And is this what I want to keep doing? And that's why I want you to do this

662
01:02:14.320 --> 01:02:18.320
week. And then I also would like you to do you and maybe anybody else who's dealing with an

663
01:02:18.320 --> 01:02:24.480
unmet expectation conversation with yourself. You've got to revisit your expectations, and are they

664
01:02:24.480 --> 01:02:28.640
realistic, and are they in alignment with you? Are they realistic, and are they in alignment with

665
01:02:28.640 --> 01:02:34.320
who you are, and what you want to do? That's basically how you relook in an expectation.

666
01:02:36.160 --> 01:02:40.480
I've actually just lowered my expectations for myself over the last couple of weeks,

667
01:02:40.480 --> 01:02:47.520
and I brought me a lot of peace. Not my standard. My standard is my goal. My standard is, that's not

668
01:02:47.520 --> 01:02:56.320
changing. But my expectations are, are hand lower. I need to give everyone permission.

669
01:02:56.320 --> 01:03:01.680
This is going to sound really to counter cultural, but this is what I've seen work with

670
01:03:01.680 --> 01:03:07.920
expectations, is if you lower them and make them realistic and in aligns, realistic and aligns,

671
01:03:07.920 --> 01:03:12.400
and only you can really answer that at the end of the day. Okay, so I want you to do that this week,

672
01:03:12.400 --> 01:03:20.880
Christy. All right. Aaron said, I'm not smart enough to do this business. Anybody else have that

673
01:03:20.880 --> 01:03:26.480
thought before? I know I have many, many, many, many, many, many times. So Aaron, I want you to

674
01:03:26.480 --> 01:03:33.440
really, I want you to write down this week where you have had success in your life and where you

675
01:03:33.440 --> 01:03:40.480
think that you are smart enough, because I think your brain needs some evidence that you are smart

676
01:03:40.480 --> 01:03:46.800
and you are capable of doing new skills, because you haven't got to this stage in your life already

677
01:03:46.800 --> 01:03:53.600
without having conquered and been smart enough to do quite a few skills. And they can be parenting

678
01:03:53.600 --> 01:04:03.280
skills. They can be social skills. They can be life skills. They can be, you know, health skills.

679
01:04:03.280 --> 01:04:08.240
Okay, I want you to do that this week, because what it's going to do is it's going to,

680
01:04:08.240 --> 01:04:17.600
it's going to help you have some evidence of where you are smart.

681
01:04:17.600 --> 01:04:23.280
Any, listen, just for everybody. Anytime you're saying, I'm not smart enough, it's normally not

682
01:04:23.280 --> 01:04:29.840
true. What's behind that usually is I'm not sure that I'm willing or wanting to do what it takes

683
01:04:29.840 --> 01:04:35.040
to be good at this, at such and such skill. Because all of us are smart and all of us

684
01:04:35.040 --> 01:04:42.240
have are capable of doing a lot. All right, Aaron, is that helpful for you? I want you to do that this

685
01:04:42.240 --> 01:04:53.840
week. Oh, no, I don't even think Aaron was on here. Dang it. I just scrolled down.

686
01:04:53.840 --> 01:04:59.920
All right. She's just going to watch it though, so she'll get it. Okay, okay, that's for you.

687
01:05:00.840 --> 01:05:03.800
All right, amazing.

688
01:05:03.800 --> 01:05:08.240
And then, okay, the last person is Amy.

689
01:05:08.240 --> 01:05:12.040
That I don't think I can, I have.

690
01:05:12.040 --> 01:05:16.880
All right, Amy, this is too good to be true.

691
01:05:16.880 --> 01:05:18.200
What if this doesn't work for me?

692
01:05:18.200 --> 01:05:19.680
I got tracks.

693
01:05:19.680 --> 01:05:21.800
Let's see, is Amy on this both still?

694
01:05:21.800 --> 01:05:23.840
Okay, she is.

695
01:05:23.840 --> 01:05:26.640
So I've definitely had those thoughts too.

696
01:05:26.640 --> 01:05:30.320
And I think again, this is tricky

697
01:05:30.320 --> 01:05:33.560
because I use that word on purpose.

698
01:05:33.560 --> 01:05:38.680
We actually can be deceived.

699
01:05:38.680 --> 01:05:42.240
Sometimes we're in a low place and we just go

700
01:05:42.240 --> 01:05:44.800
and we say, this is too good to be true.

701
01:05:44.800 --> 01:05:46.040
This isn't gonna work for me.

702
01:05:46.040 --> 01:05:48.600
'Cause that is like a brain default.

703
01:05:48.600 --> 01:05:53.600
Like, that is where your brain probably just goes naturally.

704
01:05:56.080 --> 01:05:59.480
When things, rubber hits the red,

705
01:05:59.480 --> 01:06:00.520
when things are not working.

706
01:06:00.520 --> 01:06:03.320
So this is what I want you to do this week.

707
01:06:03.320 --> 01:06:08.040
I want you to say, what if it was true, then what?

708
01:06:08.040 --> 01:06:10.600
I want you to begin to actually ask yourself

709
01:06:10.600 --> 01:06:11.840
the opposite of this, right?

710
01:06:11.840 --> 01:06:13.920
You think you're getting tricked?

711
01:06:13.920 --> 01:06:15.560
What if it's actually true?

712
01:06:15.560 --> 01:06:18.680
And what if it does work?

713
01:06:18.680 --> 01:06:19.920
Like, I want you to take some time

714
01:06:19.920 --> 01:06:22.440
to actually write this down and think about this.

715
01:06:24.600 --> 01:06:27.880
'Cause it's going to put your brain into possibility.

716
01:06:27.880 --> 01:06:30.160
Right now, this is more like impossible.

717
01:06:30.160 --> 01:06:31.640
It's not gonna work.

718
01:06:31.640 --> 01:06:33.920
But I want you to get into possibility.

719
01:06:33.920 --> 01:06:36.000
Like, how, what if this is true?

720
01:06:36.000 --> 01:06:37.040
What if it does work for me?

721
01:06:37.040 --> 01:06:39.440
Because it has worked for a lot of people

722
01:06:39.440 --> 01:06:41.240
and it does work for a lot of people.

723
01:06:41.240 --> 01:06:43.680
A lot of people in the world have a lot of success

724
01:06:43.680 --> 01:06:44.880
running businesses.

725
01:06:44.880 --> 01:06:50.080
All right, Amy, that's why I want you to do this week.

726
01:06:50.080 --> 01:06:52.920
Also, maybe you have something similar going on

727
01:06:52.920 --> 01:06:55.840
that Christy has, which is maybe there's an expectation

728
01:06:55.840 --> 01:06:58.320
that's not being met or that hasn't been met.

729
01:06:58.320 --> 01:07:02.520
What would it maybe look like to also lower

730
01:07:02.520 --> 01:07:05.640
or shift your expectations right now?

731
01:07:05.640 --> 01:07:11.920
Remember, in expectation, we want to be possible

732
01:07:11.920 --> 01:07:14.840
and in alignment, right?

733
01:07:14.840 --> 01:07:18.440
Like realistic and in alignment with who you are.

734
01:07:18.440 --> 01:07:27.960
All right, I think I'm about done.

735
01:07:27.960 --> 01:07:29.640
I think that's everybody.

736
01:07:29.640 --> 01:07:31.000
All right, Lindsey.

737
01:07:31.000 --> 01:07:34.520
Awesome.

738
01:07:34.520 --> 01:07:38.160
I am, that's exciting Lindsey.

739
01:07:38.160 --> 01:07:39.200
Yay!

740
01:07:39.200 --> 01:07:42.480
Lindsey's made some really great decisions for you.

741
01:07:42.480 --> 01:07:45.640
Getting out of feeling stuck in rejection.

742
01:07:45.640 --> 01:07:46.520
That feels so good.

743
01:07:46.520 --> 01:07:48.120
I mean, especially with like the miracle

744
01:07:48.120 --> 01:07:50.120
with your daughter too, I feel like that was like

745
01:07:50.120 --> 01:07:52.920
in alignment with that too, so.

746
01:07:52.920 --> 01:07:56.640
Amazing.

747
01:07:56.640 --> 01:08:01.840
Okay, Christy, lowering the time expectations.

748
01:08:01.840 --> 01:08:04.880
Yeah, so Christy, we can also talk about this too

749
01:08:04.880 --> 01:08:08.440
in our, in the book Club Tomorrow Too,

750
01:08:08.440 --> 01:08:12.920
because time is really, it's interesting.

751
01:08:12.920 --> 01:08:15.320
You know, the expectations we have for us in our time

752
01:08:15.320 --> 01:08:19.240
and like what's actually possible, right?

753
01:08:19.240 --> 01:08:22.319
And what is in alignment?

754
01:08:22.319 --> 01:08:25.000
And I think with you right now, it's also maybe asking,

755
01:08:25.000 --> 01:08:27.600
again, it's not alignment, like what's in alignment?

756
01:08:27.600 --> 01:08:30.520
'Cause we're reading this book, The Science of Scaling

757
01:08:30.520 --> 01:08:32.720
by Ben Hardy, and he talks about

758
01:08:32.720 --> 01:08:34.720
how to scale your business in three years

759
01:08:34.720 --> 01:08:38.359
and how to like work backwards from that.

760
01:08:38.359 --> 01:08:40.160
And so it can just feel really intense.

761
01:08:40.160 --> 01:08:43.279
It can feel like a lot, you know, with that time.

762
01:08:43.279 --> 01:08:45.040
So Christy, that might be a part of that too,

763
01:08:45.040 --> 01:08:48.240
but we'll definitely talk about that some more tomorrow.

764
01:08:48.240 --> 01:08:50.439
Okay, yay.

765
01:08:50.439 --> 01:08:53.640
I know a few of you hopped on here a little bit late

766
01:08:53.640 --> 01:08:54.800
and

767
01:08:54.800 --> 01:09:00.319
Garima, are you still on this call?

768
01:09:00.319 --> 01:09:01.160
Let's see.

769
01:09:01.160 --> 01:09:03.800
Okay, Garima is on this call.

770
01:09:03.800 --> 01:09:06.479
I see what you wrote and, you know,

771
01:09:06.479 --> 01:09:09.160
I don't need to have a business with millions in return.

772
01:09:09.160 --> 01:09:10.680
Here's what's awesome.

773
01:09:10.680 --> 01:09:12.760
You get to decide what you want.

774
01:09:13.800 --> 01:09:15.800
What do you want, Ben?

775
01:09:15.800 --> 01:09:19.560
If you don't want millions, no one's saying you have to, right?

776
01:09:19.560 --> 01:09:23.200
If you have enough, anybody struggle with this thought

777
01:09:23.200 --> 01:09:25.520
of like, I'm content and I have enough.

778
01:09:25.520 --> 01:09:27.359
And also there's more.

779
01:09:27.359 --> 01:09:31.040
Anybody under like feel that tension in business building.

780
01:09:31.040 --> 01:09:34.720
I think that's partly also what's going on in you, Garima.

781
01:09:34.720 --> 01:09:36.880
Right? 'Cause we were taught to like,

782
01:09:36.880 --> 01:09:39.560
let's be grateful, let's be content.

783
01:09:39.560 --> 01:09:42.000
Let's say thank you God for what I have today

784
01:09:42.000 --> 01:09:44.120
for all of my needs and more.

785
01:09:44.120 --> 01:09:48.160
And if a lot of you in this call,

786
01:09:48.160 --> 01:09:50.720
you have dreams, you have visions,

787
01:09:50.720 --> 01:09:55.240
you have something inside of you that is greater

788
01:09:55.240 --> 01:09:57.800
than what you have in the moment.

789
01:09:57.800 --> 01:09:59.560
It is beyond.

790
01:10:05.000 --> 01:10:08.760
It's stretching past, okay?

791
01:10:08.760 --> 01:10:11.400
Like getting out of the stress and anxiety

792
01:10:11.400 --> 01:10:13.160
of like, how do I live day to day?

793
01:10:13.160 --> 01:10:15.200
How do I, 'cause that can also,

794
01:10:15.200 --> 01:10:17.360
sometimes there could be like some stress and anxiety

795
01:10:17.360 --> 01:10:18.200
with that.

796
01:10:18.200 --> 01:10:21.800
Here's what I think is really important.

797
01:10:21.800 --> 01:10:27.320
Gurima, this is for you, and maybe any of you as well.

798
01:10:27.320 --> 01:10:29.760
Continue to be content and grateful.

799
01:10:30.160 --> 01:10:32.400
We cannot overlook that.

800
01:10:32.400 --> 01:10:34.080
If we are not content and grateful,

801
01:10:34.080 --> 01:10:36.240
I promise you that's not gonna work for us.

802
01:10:36.240 --> 01:10:39.040
That's not a good place to be, okay?

803
01:10:39.040 --> 01:10:41.440
So like maybe this week you're doing a gratitude journal,

804
01:10:41.440 --> 01:10:44.520
maybe this week you're being specifically thankful

805
01:10:44.520 --> 01:10:47.680
and content for what you can see and what you do have

806
01:10:47.680 --> 01:10:51.560
and what is already in the scene for you.

807
01:10:51.560 --> 01:10:53.700
But we also wanna believe for miracles.

808
01:10:53.700 --> 01:10:57.240
We wanna believe for the things we have yet to see.

809
01:10:57.240 --> 01:10:59.080
We want, a lot of you are visionaries.

810
01:10:59.080 --> 01:11:02.320
A lot of you have something inside of you

811
01:11:02.320 --> 01:11:06.480
that is beyond what you've been given.

812
01:11:06.480 --> 01:11:09.600
It is beyond, and that is a good thing.

813
01:11:09.600 --> 01:11:12.480
So hear me out, that's also good.

814
01:11:12.480 --> 01:11:14.880
Having a vision, creating something greater

815
01:11:14.880 --> 01:11:15.920
than what you're able to see,

816
01:11:15.920 --> 01:11:17.880
that is very godly as well.

817
01:11:17.880 --> 01:11:22.280
There is a space in God's heart for both.

818
01:11:22.280 --> 01:11:23.420
I see it all over.

819
01:11:23.420 --> 01:11:27.240
So I also want you, Gurima,

820
01:11:27.240 --> 01:11:29.760
to maybe take some time to say, okay,

821
01:11:29.760 --> 01:11:31.120
what is, what do I want?

822
01:11:31.120 --> 01:11:32.400
How much money do I want?

823
01:11:32.400 --> 01:11:34.480
What does this business actually?

824
01:11:34.480 --> 01:11:36.120
What do I want this to look like?

825
01:11:36.120 --> 01:11:39.340
Okay, so I want you to do this week.

826
01:11:39.340 --> 01:11:45.520
All right, we are past the hour.

827
01:11:45.520 --> 01:11:48.600
I don't wanna, I'm feeling like I got some energy left.

828
01:11:48.600 --> 01:11:52.960
So anybody else have any questions

829
01:11:52.960 --> 01:11:55.160
or any last minute support that they need

830
01:11:55.160 --> 01:11:56.480
before we head off here?

831
01:11:57.200 --> 01:11:59.440
(silence)

832
01:11:59.440 --> 01:12:09.640
Oh, thanks, Gurima, yes.

833
01:12:09.640 --> 01:12:10.680
Oh, that's the miracle too.

834
01:12:10.680 --> 01:12:12.320
Yeah, I started feeling better.

835
01:12:12.320 --> 01:12:16.760
Yes, my energy has definitely taken a turn.

836
01:12:16.760 --> 01:12:19.440
I rode on my journal, I rode a turn around a week

837
01:12:19.440 --> 01:12:22.340
at the top, it turned around a week.

838
01:12:25.200 --> 01:12:27.360
All right, so awesome.

839
01:12:27.360 --> 01:12:28.840
Okay, I've got two more topics.

840
01:12:28.840 --> 01:12:33.640
I think would be fun this week or these next two weeks.

841
01:12:33.640 --> 01:12:36.320
I'm thinking nervous system.

842
01:12:36.320 --> 01:12:37.960
Can talk about our nervous system

843
01:12:37.960 --> 01:12:42.960
and then also habit stacking/how to look at our weeks

844
01:12:42.960 --> 01:12:49.440
a little bit differently.

845
01:12:49.440 --> 01:12:52.760
Do both of those sound valuable to you

846
01:12:52.760 --> 01:12:54.480
for the next two weeks?

847
01:12:54.880 --> 01:12:57.120
(silence)

848
01:12:57.120 --> 01:13:01.720
All right, awesome, Kate.

849
01:13:01.720 --> 01:13:06.720
All thanks for complimenting my jacket.

850
01:13:06.720 --> 01:13:09.080
I appreciate that.

851
01:13:09.080 --> 01:13:10.760
It's in my color palette.

852
01:13:10.760 --> 01:13:12.560
It's literally so much fun.

853
01:13:12.560 --> 01:13:21.360
All right, nervous system reset.

854
01:13:21.360 --> 01:13:22.200
Here's what I'm gonna do.

855
01:13:22.200 --> 01:13:26.840
Next week I'll do a nervous system reset

856
01:13:26.840 --> 01:13:28.360
'cause I think that's gonna be helpful

857
01:13:28.360 --> 01:13:30.920
after we've done some digging today

858
01:13:30.920 --> 01:13:34.640
with like reduction in the business.

859
01:13:34.640 --> 01:13:39.640
And then we'll do habits after that.

860
01:13:39.640 --> 01:13:42.120
And then we'll do some more coaching after that.

861
01:13:42.120 --> 01:13:44.120
And that's marked for us.

862
01:13:44.120 --> 01:13:48.460
All right, awesome ladies.

863
01:13:49.560 --> 01:13:54.560
Okay, I bless you all with some movement this week

864
01:13:54.560 --> 01:13:56.440
taken steps towards your business.

865
01:13:56.440 --> 01:13:59.640
Remembering rejection isn't personal.

866
01:13:59.640 --> 01:14:02.640
That you are worth it.

867
01:14:02.640 --> 01:14:05.400
You get to decide what you wanna do

868
01:14:05.400 --> 01:14:07.640
with your business this week

869
01:14:07.640 --> 01:14:10.520
and what that looks like for you.

870
01:14:10.520 --> 01:14:16.560
And you can't mess it up.

871
01:14:19.200 --> 01:14:21.000
We can't mess these things up.

872
01:14:21.000 --> 01:14:23.640
God works for us, whether we work or not.

873
01:14:23.640 --> 01:14:26.720
So miracles are coming.

874
01:14:26.720 --> 01:14:29.120
So be on the lookout for your miracles

875
01:14:29.120 --> 01:14:32.800
and we will spend part of our calls

876
01:14:32.800 --> 01:14:34.600
doing that in the very beginning.

877
01:14:34.600 --> 01:14:35.440
All right.

878
01:14:35.440 --> 01:14:39.160
All right, it was so good to deal with you all this week.

879
01:14:39.160 --> 01:14:42.160
I'm looking forward to seeing you all next Monday

880
01:14:42.160 --> 01:14:47.280
and have an amazing rest of your week.

881
01:14:47.280 --> 01:14:48.240
And we'll see you next week.

882
01:14:48.240 --> 01:14:52.760
I will be one year older when I be well.

883
01:14:52.760 --> 01:14:54.640
Thank you.

884
01:14:54.640 --> 01:14:57.760
I'm sure I'll have some birthday miracles

885
01:14:57.760 --> 01:14:59.400
to share with you all next week.

886
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.000
Get ready. All right. So good to be with you all. Bye. See you next Palm Day.