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as well as in my personal life.

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But I was coaching a client on Saturday,

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and I was able to be fully present

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even when she said what you said hurted my feelings.

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And then I didn't take it personally,

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but I said, you know, what I'm saying

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is really not hurting your feelings,

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it's unresolved issues from your past,

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and would you like to go deeper with that?

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And so we were actually able to deal

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with some unresolved issues in her life,

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and by the end she was able to pray for people.

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And the prayer was so profound

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because not only did she pray for people,

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but she would identify the age,

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she would identify the person,

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and then she would identify

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what they had sexually done to her.

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Wow.

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And so, and that was all about me

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not taking it personally, not shutting down,

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not apologizing it, but it let her take ownership of it.

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See how that, that's so beautiful,

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because you, by practicing these four agreements,

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you unlocked your potential as a coach.

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And so you were able to truly coach

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not at the surface, much, much deeper level,

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and you unlock that latent potential in her,

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because you've always heard, you know,

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the main, the issue's not really the issue,

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and yet we get caught up circling around on the surface

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of what this issue appears to be,

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and we're not dealing with the issue of the heart,

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so there's no healing and breakthrough

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that truly begins to happen.

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So congratulations.

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How much better of a coach that that makes you,

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and how much more powerful each of the people

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that are getting that breakthrough.

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Congratulations, that blesses me to hear that story.

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That's why I like to open up a few minutes

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as people are getting on the line and hear those stories,

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because this stuff works, and it makes such a difference.

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And so much of the frustration and the lack of breakthrough

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and the lack of success is just simply these things,

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just breaking these old mindsets and these old agreements,

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and stepping into the full potential that God has for us.

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So thank you for sharing that.

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Anybody else, anything that this is,

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you've just really seen a change over these last few weeks

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as we've been covering these four agreements.

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All right, well, I know when Christine gets on the line,

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she's got a great story, but she's not on yet,

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so she's got little kids.

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She must be doing the juggling mommy stuff this morning,

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so I'll catch her when she gets back on.

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So I'm gonna go ahead and get started and push record.

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Let me just set up my equipment right here,

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and here we go.

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Welcome, by the way, welcome

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to Bible-Based Spiritual Equipping.

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And we have been doing a series on the four agreements.

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Now, it's a takeoff from the book or the audio series

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by Don Miguel Ruiz, and powerful.

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If you have not read the four agreements,

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I encourage you to go do that.

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It'll just add depth to what we're adding

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with the biblical perspective here.

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So I encourage you, and I like actually even listening

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even better.

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I caught times over the past couple of years,

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but listening to it, I just listened to it

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on a trip again this weekend, and listening to it,

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I just go, wow, I didn't hear that, I didn't hear that.

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So it gets to get in deeper and deeper,

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and I'm right there applying it with you.

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So the four agreements, this series is called

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The Four Agreements, A Biblical Perspective

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to Discovering the Secret to Transformation.

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That's what we're really talking about.

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That's the bottom line is the transformation

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that can occur in your life to allow you to truly live,

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to truly live the abundant life,

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to truly live the free life,

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to truly live the fulfilled, peace-filled life.

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It takes breaking these agreements

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that we may or may not even realize that have been going on.

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I know for me, a lot of the ones that I broke,

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I didn't even realize until after the fact

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that they were in my subconscious,

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they were holding me back,

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and it wasn't until I got breakthrough that I went, wow.

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This crosses over every area of our life.

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So this has to do, you've made agreements

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when it comes to your finances.

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I know I made agreements when it came to finances,

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when I saw the pain and the craziness

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in the family I was raised in.

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I saw that the pain and the craziness,

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I'm gonna close the door because the cat's meowing,

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and I made a decision, I linked it in my,

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eight-year-old mind that didn't

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So that I didn't want anything to do with money and you don't even realize I would I would not discover that

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agreement for another 20 years and

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Well, we make agreements about how we feel about the opposite sex how we feel about marriage all of those things

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We we are you know constantly making these agreements

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in our awareness and outside of our awareness, but this is affecting every area of our life and so

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Stuck in an area if you're just finding that you keep repeating

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Bad choices or you keep not being able to get breakthrough in certain areas

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there's a really good chance that there's an agreement that you've made out of self-protection and

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You've created this resistance and today we're going to be talking about resistance

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Okay, I can hear you guys so put it on mute if you could so

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You're going to see that part of these agreements

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Okay, can I ask that you guys put your phones star six are on mute because it is being recorded I can hear you talking

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All the background noise I can hear please if you could put it on mute

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Either star six or mute on your own phone. Either one will work

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Have you all on the line?

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So let's begin with prayer as we just really go a little deeper with all of this

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let's ask the Holy Spirit to reveal some of these things and

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To remind us part of the the role of the Holy Spirit is to remind us of some of these things that we've forgotten

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So father we just ask

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Holy Spirit that you just come and that like Paul prayed that the eyes of our heart

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Don't hear you have eyes, but you don't see father

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We're asking that Holy Spirit you open our spiritual senses in such a way

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That we can see hear feel not just with our natural senses

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but with our spiritual senses and then we can get a depth of

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Renew our minds renew make new our minds and experience

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transformation to truly live the abundant life that you promised so

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No longer service and we can be willing to think about our thinking and release that

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Thinking release those belief systems that no longer service give us the courage to face them boldly and give us the courage to

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To step into the freedom and the joy and abundance that you've called this to I

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Plowing through here the four agreements. We're already on week six

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I'm always amazed how fast these weeks go and our key verse that we have been repeating each week

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I like to have you know, one or two just key verses that just sum it all up

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So for those of you we got a number of you that are brand new this week. The key verse has been Romans 12

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There's a lot of anxiety. There's a lot of hopelessness. There's a lot of fear. There's a lot of customs

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We talked last week about some hard questions or first of all, just just because you're thinking doesn't make it true

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this is true and can I absolutely and half of the belief systems that you have

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you'll have to come to the conclusion you know I don't actually even know if

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it's true come to think of it so then you get to the place all right I'm

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holding on to this thing that I don't even know is true or not true and then I

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get to the question hmm what would happen if I let go of this thought what

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would happen if I no longer held this belief system and very often the answer

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that comes up is a whole lot of stress I'd let go a whole lot of anxiety I'd

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let go a whole lot of frustration if I wasn't holding that thought anymore and

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I'd let go a whole lot of self-sabotage and and and self-defeating behavior if I

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wasn't holding on to that call anymore and so then you're going well okay it's

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not serving me I don't even know if it's true and if I let it go I'd be

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better off and then it takes the courage to say you know what I think at this time

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I'm gonna choose no longer to hold on to that thought so the whole concept here

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of being transformed it says do not be conformed but rather than being

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conformed rather than being in that jello mold of how people all the people

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that hooked your attention all your life that this book talks about rather than

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being conformed that that's your mold that's what you're shaped to instead it

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has but and I always circle but when it's there to see what the contrast is

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but be transformed transformed and and it says change the amplified version of

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the Bible says changed by the entire renewal of your mind so that you can

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prove and know what is the good and acceptable perfect will of God so you

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want to know I get so many people say I just want to know the will of God for my

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life well the first will of God for your life is for you to walk in freedom from

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some of these these sins in a different definition of sin self-inflicted nonsense

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letting go of those you'll begin to see the perfect will of God for your life so

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it's not being conformed but being transformed and the way that you're

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doing that is by renewing your mind think about that word renew means to do

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again so you're going back and doing this thing again anytime you see re in

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front of a word it means to do again so you're doing something again what are

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you doing new your mind you're making your mind brand new you're making it a

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clean slate that is you're choosing not to base what you do today and how you

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experience today you're choosing not to do that based on the past see very few

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people think about their thinking and they think that they are thinking and

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they're not really thinking they're remembering they're simply rehashing the

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past that's not thinking and that's not creating and that's not living in the

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now and it's not experiencing your richest potential that is right here

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right now if you remember last week I gave you a visual of a bandit coming up

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to you just think of an old cowboy you know cartoon that you used to see when

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you were little and you got a bandit coming up to you you know you got it

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they got the scarf across their face and they're holding a gun and they got the

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cowboy hat and they say put them up give me everything and you think it's

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just money so you hand your money over but I know I want your peace I want your

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joy I want your future I want let me just rob everything of you your

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fulfillment your passion you're living your I want it all put it all out here

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and who is this bandit that is stealing from our present the present that God

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gives us the gift that God gives us which is this moment what is it that's

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stealing from this moment you experiencing your fullest potential well

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it's exactly what we're talking about it's these four agreements it is going

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back in the past and remembering and dealing with guilt or shame or regret or

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wishing or the good old days or however you're looking at the past allowing that

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to enter into your future so that you're not experiencing the future you're

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simply reliving the past or you're borrowing from the future and Jesus

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both of these or you're borrowing from the future. Jesus said don't borrow

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troubles from tomorrow today has enough troubles of its own. Why? Because you go

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in the future and now you've got fear, false evidence appearing real and you're

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bringing that into the present and you're experiencing you're bringing

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something that is not yet that hasn't come and there's a high high chance it's

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never going to come so you're borrowing fear from the future and bringing it now

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that's that bandit that's stealing the joy that you could be experiencing right

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now and I gave some examples of how we do that we can get so lost in in that

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fear anxiety regret whatever your your drug of choice is you know and I gave

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the example of sitting down to a nice meal and this thing's been finely

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prepared by the finest chef and it's in a beautiful ambience and there's you

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know or maybe it's just a loved one that's prepared it for you and this

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thing is beautiful and all of a sudden you realize you've eaten the whole thing

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and you never detected all the fine seasonings and all the different flavors

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you never enjoyed the meal because your head was just spinning in fact you

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weren't even aware that you were eating the meal how many of you have done that

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how many of you have walked through a meal and don't realize you ate the whole

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thing till afterwards or maybe it was a bag of chips okay or a thing of Oreos or

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something how many of you have just eaten a whole thing completely unaware

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completely unconscious completely out of awareness any of you done that I'm giving

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up a real-life food example because it's it's such a vivid example of what we do

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with our life how we're missing every moment and I think that's why so many

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people that go through a near-death experience or get some you know

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something from the doctor that you got cancer or you got three months to live

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or whatever you know they get some decree that way it's the first time they

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start living because they realize this is all they have and they're not going

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to live it and regret and they're not going to live it in the future because

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they know the future is not coming in their mind and so what happens is they

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finally start living and they just make a decision I'm going to be with the

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people and enjoy the people I want to be with I'm going to do what I love and I'm

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not going to do those things that I don't love and I'm going to enjoy the

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things do you understand we it pulls us it pulls us into the present if you've

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read or listened to the book by Napoleon Hill that excuse me was only recently

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released to the general public because it's so powerful that the whole family

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and organization the foundation didn't want it released because they thought it

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would cause so much repercussions and it's called outwitting the devil and in

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outwitting the devil he has this conversation Napoleon Hill has this

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conversation with the devil and forces the devil to reveal all of his tricks

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that take out God's people and one of the tricks that the devil reveals is

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this idea of hypnotic rhythm hypnotic rhythm if he can get us unconscious not

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staying in the present not renewing our minds not breaking these agreements but

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instead just gets us in a hypnotic rhythm where we're just mindlessly going

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through life without thinking without tying in everything we do with our

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purpose without tying everything with our vision without being deliberate in

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other words we're creating our life not by design but by default if he can get

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us just going through life hypnotic rhythm the other one that goes along with

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that that he talks about is oh what's the word I'm trying to say not coasting

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but it's like coasting it's maybe some of you can help me out what's the word

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but basically you're just mindlessly going through life kind of on cruise

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control and so we get on this cruise control just just kind of just flowing

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through and so what happens you you go through your education because that's

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what everyone told you to do but you're not enjoying it and you're not extracting

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every good thing from it you're just chewing up regurgitating what you need

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to get an A on the paper you take the first job because it was there and it

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produces good money and pretty soon you're in a profession that you didn't

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really deliberately choose and you're finding you don't enjoy it the majority

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of the people I coach do not enjoy what they're doing what a tragedy to spend

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it huh

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risking not risking yeah they're they're not and so they get in this hypnotic

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rhythm where they're not thinking about their thinking and they're just doing

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doing doing doing without even

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thinking about it. So the opposite of this that we're talking about is being transformed

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by renewing. It's time to think about your thinking. I was talking to a young person

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and coaching him this week this past week and it's like you need to learn to think about your

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thinking. You need to control your thoughts not your thoughts just controlling you and taking you

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and so we went through this whole idea and and we covered it as we think about our thinking

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and so we began to realize that part of it is we've made these thousands of tiny little small

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agreements and probably too many to try to dissect and find them all and dig them up and most of them

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are not in our awareness. So the answer the simpler answer is to make four new agreements

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and when we make these four new agreements it breaks all of those thousands of previous

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agreements. That's breakthrough because when you start breaking these you'll experience whole new

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heights in your relationships in your health you will let go of things and suddenly you will not

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need that weight anymore that that extra weight or waste as we're going to be teaching this Friday

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on the God Health and Me Discovery that extra is is part of those agreements. You made an agreement

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that somehow that protected you or you made an agreement that somehow you weren't worthy or you

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made an agreement whatever so we're breaking those agreements by four new agreements and the first of

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those agreements was be impeccable with your word. Remember impeccable you always when you get a word

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look it up get in a new habit nice that you know the the when you're doing when you're reading

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things on kindle or you're using ipad and things nowadays the dictionary is right there at your hands

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start relearning words start looking back what they what their original especially if you can

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get to the latin or greek origin of words start doing that you'll have a whole new vocabulary

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and you'll begin to release some words out of your vocabulary when you're talking about being impeccable

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with your word. For example there's words you're holding on to that you probably don't know the

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meaning want is one of the words that I'm still working to completely remove from my vocabulary

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say I want this I want that I want this I want that's not being impeccable from your word because

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want means extreme lack that's why david was able to say the lord is my shepherd I shall not want

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it means lack and so if you are in the habit of saying I just want or I only want and you're

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in the habit of saying want want want all day you're saying lack lack lack lack lack you're

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not being impeccable with your word because you are actually hurting yourself with the words that

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that you're holding on to so begin to study words I got a revelation not long ago about the word

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nice I used to always say things like I'm playing nice or I just want to be nice or I'm a nice girl

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and someone called me on it and said I don't think you really want to be nice look it up and you get

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past the surface you know the way we use it now and you get back to the origin of the word

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and if you haven't looked up nice then the origin of the word you'll make a decision you probably

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don't want to be nice so it's funny how we do it that way but the word impeccable when you look

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at the what it means m means not and car means sin so impeccable means you're not sinning with

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your word you're not using your word to sin well there's obvious things you know using your word

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to sin by lying or using your word to sin by you know murdering someone with your words or whatever

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but this one just kind of goes a little deeper and says be impeccable with your word so to do

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that to be impeccable with your word it talks about not using your word against yourself

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not violating yourself this becomes a general principle of not violating yourself you know I

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was I was riding with in the car with a friend of my brother's and he was really wrestling because

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he was separated from his wife and he still had hopes of getting back with his wife and he still

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loved his wife and he had kids and his heart was there and this young thing was like hitting on

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him and asking him out and she kept calling him and she was asking him to go to the movies and

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he said you know it's tempting I mean she just keeps telling me I want to go to the movies with

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you let's go see a movie and he said what do you think I should do and I said don't violate yourself

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and he goes what do you mean I never thought about it that way don't violate yourself you

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already told me what you desire and what your heart is telling you see we're so not in the

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habit of listening to our heart the truth is there if we'll look so he knew the answer to that by

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looking at his emotions looking at how he felt about the situation looking at the uncomfort

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When you have uncomfort in your emotions, that's your early detection system. That's your guidance system. Don't ignore that

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Pay attention to that. So he already knew I said don't violate yourself. And he said I never thought about it that way

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You've heard the the saying I don't know. Is it Shakespeare? You guys can help me to thine own self be true. I

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Mean to your real self

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To thine own self how many times with your word? Are you violating yourself? Are you not being impeccable?

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Are you agreeing to something your mouth is agreeing to something that your heart is not in agreement?

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You you get yourself doing things saying things thinking things any of you ever

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Get in a situation where you're not impeccable with your word

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In other words, your word is getting you into something that does not line up

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You are violating yourself

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Can any of you as I'm sharing the story because if you jump in on this conversation, it makes it rich for everybody

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Can you think of a time that you were not impeccable with your word you you you sinned against yourself with your word?

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You violated yourself. Did you reject yourself with your word? Did you criticize yourself with your word?

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Did you agree to something that you really didn't desire to agree with with your word?

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Did you say something that you didn't really mean because you wanted to get attention or you were using it to manipulation?

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Can you think of ways that you were not impeccable with your word that now you could begin to break those agreements?

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Can you think of any examples? I want to pause right there and let that go deep

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Scripture says let your yes be yes and your no be no that's part of being impeccable with your word

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Let your yes be yes and your no be no that's part of being impeccable

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Can you think of some examples to really drive this home on being impeccable with your word?

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Sounds better in my head, but those are still little criticism or little things in my head that are keeping me

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out of

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being impeccable and

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They are things I know are not correct, but they're more subtle good

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Good good, that's renewing your mind and thinking about your thinking. That's great Candice. Thank you. Thank you for sharing that

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Anybody else so it's important that we

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don't plow through this meal of this great teaching and

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Don't not stop and just be present and and just let the Holy Spirit and I and I encourage you to pray that Holy Spirit

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Are there places in my life right now where I'm not being impeccable with my word where I'm using my word to violate

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Myself sin against myself. Is it self-criticism? Is it self-rejection? Is it self-condemnation is

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Self-denial is it self not not being willing to trust your heart not being willing to trust your

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Intuition that was a big one for me

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Can you think of ways that?

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You are sinning against yourself that you're not being impeccable with your word or on the other side ways that you're just getting victory and

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Being impeccable with your word. Can you think of some examples?

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Go ahead we've got to whoever wants to go first. I'm excited. Thank you for sharing

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Trying to be very careful about what I think and what I say and just think about what you just said

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There is meaning behind that and I'm to be performing tomorrow

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That's excellent Cindy. Thanks for sharing that there's yeah

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That's an example of being conformed to the world as opposed to

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Transformed because there are certain sayings that like she said well, that's just a saying so that's called

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What I'm talking about of, oh, I know the word I was trying to think of from

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outwitting the devil is drifting.

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And so we get in this habit, one of the ways that the devil takes us out of our

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purpose and our vision is we get in this habit of drifting.

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And within that drifting, there's this hypnotic rhythm.

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And it's powerful concept when you think about it because in order to get change,

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what we're talking about, renewing the mind, we have to break that hypnotic rhythm

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and break that habit of drifting.

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And we have to get back into a place of deliberate choosing and a place of

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building our life by design and not by default.

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And that would be an example, well, everybody just does that.

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You know, how many of your kids say that?

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Well, all my friends, you talk about drifting and hypnotic rhythm and what

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we're talking about right here.

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Well, all my friends are doing it.

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And, you know, we always, what do we say because I can tell you how much you are

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still conformed.

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Your kids say, well, all my friends are doing it.

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Johnny's doing it, Johnny down the street.

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And how many of your parents said this and how many of you said this?

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Well, if Johnny jumps off a cliff, are you going to too?

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How many of you knew that saying, what I was going to say already before I even

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said it?

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Really?

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My parents are the only ones that said that?

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No, it was a bunch of trouble.

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Bridge, cliff, whatever.

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But do you see how we take on these sayings?

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You know, you say, well, I really want to do this.

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Well, how are you going to pay for that?

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Money doesn't grow on trees.

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So there's these words that we're saying and often still repeating it.

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And so congratulations, Cindy, you're being impeccable with your word.

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And that includes not just the words that you're speaking to yourself, but the words

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that you're receiving.

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Now, sometimes you'll have the opportunity to say to that person, you know, and you

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get them thinking like you did, I don't receive that or, you know, I want to maybe

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reframe that or whatever.

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Sometimes you won't.

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Sometimes stuff is spoken for you or to you that it's not the time or the place and

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you have to just do that within yourself and say, I don't receive that.

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I choose a different reality.

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For example, how many people when you're doing it and you've got a family member

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and you're telling them you're going to start a business and they say, you just

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need to be realistic.

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You just need to be realistic.

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Well, inside, yes, I do.

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I'm choosing a different reality.

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I'm choosing a higher reality.

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So do you see these words just learning to be impeccable both in the words that we're

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receiving from the outside and the ones that we're speaking?

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So that's the first agreement.

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And it's a hard one and it's a nonstop really getting to the place that you are

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always thinking about what you're speaking.

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So you're not only thinking about what you're thinking, but you're thinking about what you're

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speaking.

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Here's another thing, just understanding the brain and then I'll move on from being impeccable

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with your word.

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I was talking to a young person and he said, I just want to stay out of jail.

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And I had to teach him how the brain processes.

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The brain does not process negative.

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That's why if you tell a kid, don't spill the milk, the brain has to imagine spilling

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the milk to come to the conclusion to attempt not to spill the milk.

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And nine times out of 10, you keep telling a kid, don't spill that milk, don't spill

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that milk.

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The kid will spill it.

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And then you'll be saying, I told you not to spill that milk.

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You weren't listening to me.

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No, you were planting the seed of a visual image of spilling the milk and were a huge

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part by not being impeccable with your word of causing that milk to be spilled.

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And we do this in our life by negative all the time.

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It's so much easier to focus on what we don't desire.

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This is why in coaching to get people to move from what they don't desire to what they do

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desire.

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And so that's part of being impeccable with our word also is to speak in positive present

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tense when you're, when you're speaking, that's part of it that now there was two people that

455
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wanted to speak.

456
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Is there a second person that had something to say about impeccable with your word before

457
00:34:14.159 --> 00:34:15.159
I go on?

458
00:34:15.159 --> 00:34:16.159
I'd love to hear it.

459
00:34:16.159 --> 00:34:17.159
This is Tanya.

460
00:34:17.159 --> 00:34:18.159
Yeah.

461
00:34:18.159 --> 00:34:19.159
Um, real quickly.

462
00:34:19.159 --> 00:34:20.159
Um, what I've noticed because I've been listening to the God, money and me, uh, Palm Study is

463
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that even though I don't verbally say something, my action says it.

464
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Okay.

465
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So really being honest with what's really going on and making sure my actions line up

466
00:34:23.159 --> 00:34:24.159
with my words.

467
00:34:24.159 --> 00:34:25.159
And for instance, um, I've often said, well, I can't afford to do this.

468
00:34:25.159 --> 00:34:26.159
I can't afford to do that.

469
00:34:26.159 --> 00:34:27.159
I can't afford to do that.

470
00:34:27.159 --> 00:34:28.159
I can't afford to do that.

471
00:34:28.159 --> 00:34:29.159
I can't afford to do that.

472
00:34:29.159 --> 00:34:30.159
I can't afford to do that.

473
00:34:30.159 --> 00:34:31.159
I can't afford to do that.

474
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I can't afford to do that.

475
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to make sure what are my actions in, what, what, what am I leaving out?

476
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:10.000
agreements are being manifested in my life because what I believe in though I'm not saying it, my action is telling what I believe and it's standing for me.

477
00:35:10.000 --> 00:35:17.000
So I've just kind of been slowing down and just really present to the decisions and choices and work really behind it, driving me to it.

478
00:35:17.000 --> 00:35:25.000
I love that. That's so powerful. Thank you for being willing to do all of this work and even like what you're doing.

479
00:35:25.000 --> 00:35:33.000
I mean you've attended the God Money and Me a couple times live but allowing the home study course where you can be listening over and over

480
00:35:33.000 --> 00:35:41.000
and letting this new thinking, part of being transformed by the renewing of our mind is we have to be putting new stuff in.

481
00:35:41.000 --> 00:35:48.000
And I know in my travel, like I've been listening to Outwitting the Devil and I've been listening to this, the four agreement

482
00:35:48.000 --> 00:35:54.000
and it's just like it has to go in and in. There has to be a whole new thinking pattern, a whole new way of looking at things,

483
00:35:54.000 --> 00:36:01.000
a whole new level of awareness and I see that happening for you as your awareness is increasing, you're making different choices,

484
00:36:01.000 --> 00:36:07.000
different words, different thoughts and you're getting different results and it's why you had your first $10,000 a month.

485
00:36:07.000 --> 00:36:12.000
I mean it's powerful. As this changes, I'm telling you it affects everything, your relationships.

486
00:36:12.000 --> 00:36:21.000
I know you're getting open to whole different levels of relationships in your life and opening yourself to that and not letting past pain keep you all hidden

487
00:36:21.000 --> 00:36:30.000
and you'll begin to make different choices about the foods you put in your body and about exercise, about loving yourself, about loving others.

488
00:36:30.000 --> 00:36:38.000
I mean all areas of our life are part of this. So that's the first of the agreements.

489
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The second is don't take anything personally. Man, this is a constant for me, paying attention to this constant.

490
00:36:49.000 --> 00:36:57.000
It's so easy especially if you're the intuitive type, if you're a feeler and if you're a feeler, you know what I'm talking about.

491
00:36:57.000 --> 00:37:03.000
You can walk in a room and you can feel the temperature in the room and I'm not talking about the heat temperature.

492
00:37:03.000 --> 00:37:08.000
You can feel, you can walk in and know when a couple's already fought. You can walk in and know when someone's stressed out.

493
00:37:08.000 --> 00:37:13.000
They don't have to say a word. You can one glance, you're a feeler, you feel what's in the room.

494
00:37:14.000 --> 00:37:19.000
If you're one, you know what I'm talking about. How many feelers do we have on the line? Do we have any of you?

495
00:37:24.000 --> 00:37:33.000
So as a feeler, this becomes really important and the second agreement is don't take anything personal.

496
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Don't take anything personally. This is big because you will assume the way someone's treating you

497
00:37:42.000 --> 00:37:48.000
or the way something they said or the way they're acting or the way they're not acting or the way things transpired

498
00:37:48.000 --> 00:37:57.000
and you will assume that that is about you, which then allows you to take offense that we talked about.

499
00:37:57.000 --> 00:38:04.000
So in the book, Don talks about don't take anything personal. It comes out of this belief system.

500
00:38:04.000 --> 00:38:07.000
It comes when you take things personally, it comes out of wrong thinking.

501
00:38:07.000 --> 00:38:11.000
I can tell you right now when you take things personally, you have wrong thinking.

502
00:38:11.000 --> 00:38:19.000
You have not renewed your mind in this area and the wrong thinking, the false thinking is personal importance.

503
00:38:19.000 --> 00:38:25.000
In other words, in order to take something personally, you have to subscribe to the belief

504
00:38:26.000 --> 00:38:34.000
that what is going on is about you. He says in the book, personal importance or taking things personally

505
00:38:34.000 --> 00:38:41.000
is the maximum expression of selfishness because we make the assumption, which is of course the third agreement,

506
00:38:41.000 --> 00:38:45.000
don't make assumptions so they go together, taking things personally and making the assumption.

507
00:38:45.000 --> 00:38:50.000
In order to take things personally, you make the assumption that everything is about me.

508
00:38:51.000 --> 00:38:56.000
But the truth, when you say, is this true? Is this really true? Can I know it's true?

509
00:38:56.000 --> 00:39:02.000
Can I be absolutely sure that what this person is doing is because of me and what I did has anything at all to do with me?

510
00:39:02.000 --> 00:39:08.000
Nothing, he says, other people do is because of you. It's because of themselves.

511
00:39:08.000 --> 00:39:14.000
And when you get this whole idea that all people live in their own dream, in their own mind,

512
00:39:14.000 --> 00:39:17.000
that all people have a movie going on in their head.

513
00:39:17.000 --> 00:39:21.000
If you're a visual person, they've got a movie. They are their own director.

514
00:39:21.000 --> 00:39:25.000
They're creating their own reality and there's a movie playing all the time in their head.

515
00:39:25.000 --> 00:39:31.000
Or if you're more of the reading or writing, you can imagine they're writing a book in their head.

516
00:39:31.000 --> 00:39:35.000
They are daily subscribing and writing this book, but it's their book. It's not your book.

517
00:39:35.000 --> 00:39:40.000
And they're in a completely different world than the one you're living in.

518
00:39:40.000 --> 00:39:43.000
And if you take it personally, you make the assumption that they know our world

519
00:39:43.000 --> 00:39:47.000
and that what they're doing is because of our world, that they are actually in our world

520
00:39:47.000 --> 00:39:50.000
and they're responding to our world and doing something.

521
00:39:50.000 --> 00:39:53.000
Biblically, we went through it. That's called taking offense.

522
00:39:53.000 --> 00:39:59.000
And so we went through all of the scriptures and you can go back and listen about taking offense.

523
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.340
What happens when you take offense?

524
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The first thing is you have to defend yourself.

525
00:40:05.360 --> 00:40:07.240
You have to defend your beliefs.

526
00:40:07.240 --> 00:40:08.680
That creates conflict.

527
00:40:08.680 --> 00:40:12.400
You have to make something big out of something small because you begin to have this need

528
00:40:12.400 --> 00:40:17.280
to be right and let everyone else know that they're wrong.

529
00:40:17.280 --> 00:40:20.640
And it creates this whole craziness.

530
00:40:20.640 --> 00:40:25.960
And so taking offense, taking things personally, we went all the way through that.

531
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And what we said is the key, the issue around that is that offense keeps us from seeing

532
00:40:30.680 --> 00:40:32.960
the truth.

533
00:40:32.960 --> 00:40:36.680
We read about how offense made them not receive Jesus.

534
00:40:36.680 --> 00:40:37.720
They took offense.

535
00:40:37.720 --> 00:40:39.540
This guy's not a rabbi.

536
00:40:39.540 --> 00:40:40.720
We know his sisters.

537
00:40:40.720 --> 00:40:42.120
This is the carpenter's son.

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00:40:42.120 --> 00:40:48.520
It says that they took offense and it says in Matthew 11, 6 that they were hindered from

539
00:40:48.520 --> 00:40:51.600
seeing the truth because of that.

540
00:40:51.600 --> 00:40:57.680
In Matthew 13, verse 56, we saw that it keeps away miracles.

541
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Having offense, taking things personally, keeps the miraculous out of your life.

542
00:41:04.360 --> 00:41:08.000
And it says, do not all his sisters live here amongst us?

543
00:41:08.000 --> 00:41:09.800
Where then did this man get all this wisdom?

544
00:41:09.800 --> 00:41:11.440
Who is this guy to be talking to us?

545
00:41:11.440 --> 00:41:14.340
Who is he to think that he can teach me?

546
00:41:14.340 --> 00:41:18.240
And it says, and they took offense at him.

547
00:41:18.240 --> 00:41:19.960
They were repelled, hindered.

548
00:41:19.960 --> 00:41:25.520
And the Amplified Version says, from acknowledging his authority, they were caused to stumble.

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00:41:25.520 --> 00:41:30.880
And of course, do you know the famous saying Jesus said, a prophet is not without honor

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in his own hometown.

551
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But verse 58, I think it is, Matthew 13, 58 says, he did not do many works of power there

552
00:41:44.320 --> 00:41:50.280
because they had taken his offense and because they had unbelief as a result.

553
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So the fact of the matter is infinite wisdom, infinite love was in their midst in their

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00:41:57.240 --> 00:42:01.500
present moment that had the power to completely change their life.

555
00:42:01.500 --> 00:42:05.120
And they missed the miracle because they had taken offense.

556
00:42:05.120 --> 00:42:09.120
Often we're so caught up with what people have done to us.

557
00:42:09.120 --> 00:42:11.320
We're so busy still licking our wounds.

558
00:42:11.320 --> 00:42:17.240
We're so walking in unforgiveness that that's one of those bandits, unforgiveness that keeps

559
00:42:17.240 --> 00:42:19.960
us from really enjoying the present moment.

560
00:42:19.960 --> 00:42:23.520
You're still way stuck on what that person did to you.

561
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And you are rehashing it and living it over and over and over again, and it's keeping

562
00:42:27.800 --> 00:42:28.800
you a slave.

563
00:42:28.800 --> 00:42:29.800
It's keeping you in bondage.

564
00:42:29.800 --> 00:42:30.920
The other person's gone on.

565
00:42:30.920 --> 00:42:31.920
They're living their life.

566
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Your unforgiveness isn't hurting them at all.

567
00:42:34.560 --> 00:42:35.920
They've long forgotten about it.

568
00:42:35.920 --> 00:42:36.920
They're moved on.

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The only one being hurt is you.

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00:42:40.040 --> 00:42:45.280
And so the answer to that, the antidote we found is that love protects us from taking

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offense.

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00:42:47.040 --> 00:42:55.800
It says in 1 Peter 4, 8, that love covers a multitudes of sins, that love disregards

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the offense of others.

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Proverbs 17, 9 says, he who covers and forgives an offense seeks love, but he who repeats

575
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or harps the matter separates even close friends.

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00:43:10.080 --> 00:43:15.080
I want to talk, taking things personally and being impeccable with your word, I want to

577
00:43:15.080 --> 00:43:16.080
couch it.

578
00:43:16.080 --> 00:43:21.640
I'd like to, I desire to couch it talking about gossip.

579
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It's really important.

580
00:43:22.720 --> 00:43:28.320
I've had gossip come to me twice in this past week.

581
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One of them about me.

582
00:43:31.360 --> 00:43:36.880
Because gossip is one of these ways that we are not impeccable with our word, we're

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00:43:36.880 --> 00:43:39.480
taking offense.

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And scripture says that that gossip goes deep into the marrow of our bones, deep to our

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00:43:44.800 --> 00:43:46.940
innermost parts.

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00:43:46.940 --> 00:43:49.680
This causes so much destruction.

587
00:43:49.680 --> 00:43:52.320
It causes so much breakdown of relationship.

588
00:43:52.320 --> 00:43:55.680
It causes so much unnecessary pain.

589
00:43:55.680 --> 00:44:03.120
And unfortunately, the person who people gossip to about me was mature.

590
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And I'm so thankful.

591
00:44:04.120 --> 00:44:09.280
I love it when I meet a mature individual because she came directly to me.

592
00:44:09.280 --> 00:44:11.000
She didn't make assumptions.

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00:44:11.000 --> 00:44:12.840
She didn't take it personally.

594
00:44:12.840 --> 00:44:17.400
She came directly to me and asked.

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00:44:17.400 --> 00:44:21.860
And that just not only ended it.

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00:44:21.860 --> 00:44:25.420
And the answer when someone comes to you with gossip, and this is what I do because I had

597
00:44:26.160 --> 00:44:28.100
someone come to me with gossip about another person.

598
00:44:28.100 --> 00:44:31.820
I said, great, let's get that person on the line right now.

599
00:44:31.820 --> 00:44:35.260
I saw all the destruction that had already affected about 10 people.

600
00:44:35.260 --> 00:44:37.260
This thing was spreading like wildfire.

601
00:44:37.260 --> 00:44:40.140
I said, let's get that person on the line right now.

602
00:44:40.140 --> 00:44:44.780
So if someone comes to you with juicy gossip, say, hey, you know what?

603
00:44:44.780 --> 00:44:46.700
I don't know anything about that because it's not me.

604
00:44:46.700 --> 00:44:48.300
How about if we get that person on the line?

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00:44:48.300 --> 00:44:49.520
Let's talk through it right now.

606
00:44:49.520 --> 00:44:55.520
You will end gossip and you will stop so much of this sinning with our words.

607
00:44:55.520 --> 00:45:00.040
I encourage you to create a mandate.

608
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:07.720
for yourself I encourage you to create a protocol how you will handle gossip you

609
00:45:07.720 --> 00:45:13.180
know in this book he gives the example of gossip of someone that goes to

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00:45:13.180 --> 00:45:17.880
university and doesn't like their teacher and they go and gossip to

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00:45:17.880 --> 00:45:21.480
someone coming that's about to take the class so this person has a fresh new

612
00:45:21.480 --> 00:45:25.080
thinking they're ready to take the class and and they already color it and say

613
00:45:25.080 --> 00:45:30.960
that teacher is such a jerk and you know what else he did such and such and such

614
00:45:30.960 --> 00:45:35.920
and watch him because this will happen okay now when they go in the class do

615
00:45:35.920 --> 00:45:39.980
you think that they're getting and they ended up not liking that class dropping

616
00:45:39.980 --> 00:45:43.400
out of that class flunking now had the teacher even done any of that and the

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00:45:43.400 --> 00:45:48.240
answers no that's called gossip because it shapes the way you view and you think

618
00:45:48.240 --> 00:45:51.800
and you accept it as truth and the person has no chance to defend themselves

619
00:45:51.800 --> 00:45:56.680
and you don't even know if it's true and it gets spread like a cancer so I

620
00:45:56.680 --> 00:46:01.360
encourage you to have a mandated protocol that when someone brings gossip

621
00:46:01.360 --> 00:46:04.240
to you I immediately get the other person that they're gossiping about on

622
00:46:04.240 --> 00:46:06.920
the phone I put an end to it right away let's just go ahead and get that person

623
00:46:06.920 --> 00:46:10.960
on the line right now if that's possible otherwise I shut it down and say I can't

624
00:46:10.960 --> 00:46:15.280
really that's not my business I don't know anything about that I'm sorry and I

625
00:46:15.280 --> 00:46:20.000
end it do you have a way of stopping gossip gossip is killing so many

626
00:46:20.080 --> 00:46:25.400
innocent people destroying their businesses their their their reputation

627
00:46:25.400 --> 00:46:31.760
do you have a protocol what to deal with that and love love covers that

628
00:46:31.760 --> 00:46:38.960
multitude of sins and puts a stop to that I love I shared with you the other

629
00:46:38.960 --> 00:46:42.940
answer of not taking personally is understanding that all it is is opinion

630
00:46:42.940 --> 00:46:47.600
and I shared with you dr. Arlene's way that whenever she speaks she's she's

631
00:46:47.600 --> 00:46:52.320
really wise I can't wait till you come to brain leads of women in the Bible in

632
00:46:52.320 --> 00:46:56.280
September that we're doing that's going to be a great workshop and and but she

633
00:46:56.280 --> 00:46:59.520
always couches it and she'll say in my brains opinion that's how she begins

634
00:46:59.520 --> 00:47:04.160
most sentences in my brains opinion well she's real clear that that's all she has

635
00:47:04.160 --> 00:47:08.080
someone will say well that's just your opinion and you're wise enough to say of

636
00:47:08.080 --> 00:47:14.800
course that's all I have and you also are wise enough to know that the person

637
00:47:14.800 --> 00:47:18.320
speaking is simply sharing their opinion and you give them the right to

638
00:47:18.320 --> 00:47:22.000
do that and you can say that yeah I appreciate your opinion it doesn't make

639
00:47:22.000 --> 00:47:25.560
it truth and it doesn't make it something you have to take offense and

640
00:47:25.560 --> 00:47:30.600
it doesn't make something that you have to take personally so this is so

641
00:47:30.600 --> 00:47:35.880
powerful now I'd like to bring this now to a new perspective as we're as we're

642
00:47:35.880 --> 00:47:41.720
talking about taking personally because next week we're going to move into not

643
00:47:41.720 --> 00:47:46.360
making assumptions so I want to wrap up this not taking personally and being

644
00:47:46.360 --> 00:47:50.000
impeccable with our words I want to bring that to a landing today and I'm

645
00:47:50.000 --> 00:47:55.960
going to close with a very powerful new teaching on that but I'd like to open up

646
00:47:55.960 --> 00:48:02.680
on the line any comments or questions or aha's or things on what we've shared so

647
00:48:02.680 --> 00:48:13.720
far on on this yes thank you for sharing I so appreciate it

648
00:48:33.680 --> 00:48:38.120
the same thing I've already paid for it don't keep bringing it up if I've

649
00:48:38.120 --> 00:48:41.760
already did something I've already paid the consequences don't make myself keep

650
00:48:41.760 --> 00:48:46.080
living it don't keep punishing myself for it but today when you talked about

651
00:48:46.080 --> 00:48:52.360
it I got a different look at it where not to charge someone for the same thing

652
00:48:52.360 --> 00:48:57.160
that they've done over and over to really let it go and release them in

653
00:48:57.160 --> 00:49:01.120
your heart so if they've done something that offended you if they've done

654
00:49:01.120 --> 00:49:05.520
something that went against the Word of God that once you've spoken your truth

655
00:49:05.520 --> 00:49:10.360
once you addressed it let it go because it's not fair for them to have already

656
00:49:10.360 --> 00:49:14.640
paid with forgiveness or whatever has taken place and for you to constantly

657
00:49:14.640 --> 00:49:19.240
every time you see them bring them back up on the same charges and if they've

658
00:49:19.240 --> 00:49:23.120
never paid it or that for the rest of their life don't keep paying it over and

659
00:49:23.120 --> 00:49:27.200
over again because you refused to release them in your heart so it was

660
00:49:27.200 --> 00:49:33.000
about me let them go and not making them pay for it over and over again that is so good

661
00:49:33.000 --> 00:49:36.160
Latonya thank you for sharing that and thank you for reminding me of that

662
00:49:36.160 --> 00:49:41.840
because he does talk about that in the book about being impeccable he he really

663
00:49:41.840 --> 00:49:46.720
mentions we're the only creature okay we talk about fairness and wanting to have

664
00:49:46.720 --> 00:49:52.000
this level of fairness and he says where we're not fair we're the only creature

665
00:49:52.000 --> 00:49:57.120
that when we apply punishment punishment he said should be applied once okay

666
00:49:57.120 --> 00:50:01.680
and we're the only ones that punish ourselves

667
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:04.000
over and over and over and over and over again for the same thing and that's

668
00:50:04.000 --> 00:50:09.360
crazy when you think about it how many times are you still beating yourself up

669
00:50:09.360 --> 00:50:14.720
about a previous mistake how many times are you still criticizing yourself about

670
00:50:14.720 --> 00:50:19.440
something you did do or you didn't do or something from your past how many times

671
00:50:19.440 --> 00:50:24.800
or another person you're reminding them you see this in marriage a lot this is

672
00:50:24.800 --> 00:50:28.560
this is what offense is is it's punishing again and again and again when

673
00:50:28.560 --> 00:50:32.800
you take offense and you see where someone in the marriage fell maybe

674
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adultery maybe something and the other person brings it up again and again and

675
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again and again and again so that thank you that is I'm so glad I remember

676
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thinking about it listening and I'm so glad you remember to bring that up

677
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because that is so important how many times are you punishing yourself or

678
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another person for something that's long been done I'm amazed some we're talking

679
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like 10 years 20 years 40 years still holding on to an old belief system and

680
00:51:03.680 --> 00:51:13.000
punishing punishing punishing punishing it's amazing awesome anybody else yeah

681
00:51:13.000 --> 00:51:17.320
good you got on the line I knew you had a story to share

682
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you know if you can be conscious enough when you're you know just doing we're

683
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working in your business and you know something comes up and it looks like it

684
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could go sideways you know decide beforehand how you're going to how

685
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you're going to handle it and this literally happened to me over the course

686
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of about two months I put in just a tremendous amount of work I truly went

687
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above and beyond average you know for what an agent would do for helping a

688
00:52:14.000 --> 00:52:19.160
couple and and initially I thought that it's a slam dunk but then things kind of

689
00:52:19.160 --> 00:52:24.800
started to go sideways and I decided at that point that you know what I may not

690
00:52:24.800 --> 00:52:28.520
close this deal and you know what I'm okay with it I was starting to just see

691
00:52:28.520 --> 00:52:32.240
kind of custom breakdowns of communication and it involved a third

692
00:52:32.240 --> 00:52:39.120
party who was one of my business partners in a different area and but I

693
00:52:39.120 --> 00:52:44.800
just had to eat through it and then I got confirmation yesterday that they

694
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actually took my information and they either went to another broker or went to

695
00:52:49.800 --> 00:52:54.800
the carrier direct and just completely cut me out of it and you know if that

696
00:52:54.800 --> 00:52:57.680
happened like a year ago I would have been just devastated I would have been

697
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in tears and upset and it's kind of funny because my business partner he's

698
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just all been out of shape and I mean he like had me on the phone for almost an

699
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hour just just oh he was just completely and he wants to investigate it and just

700
00:53:13.200 --> 00:53:20.000
you know he's he's just going to war about this and me I'm like I had I had

701
00:53:20.000 --> 00:53:24.760
so much peace and I'm I'm I'm like glad that it's just done and I'm okay with it

702
00:53:24.760 --> 00:53:28.640
and I told him I said you know sometimes there's just people that you're not meant

703
00:53:28.640 --> 00:53:34.600
to work with and that's okay and so you know I'm not so I don't take it

704
00:53:34.600 --> 00:53:39.080
personally I realized that you know what people are operating out of their own

705
00:53:39.080 --> 00:53:45.000
paradigm and you know it's not logical definitely I mean I presented some great

706
00:53:45.000 --> 00:53:49.200
options for them and I even had the option for them that they choose but for

707
00:53:49.200 --> 00:53:53.800
some reason they cut me out of it but you know I'm okay with it it's okay and

708
00:53:53.800 --> 00:53:58.200
I like already moved on so that was a huge personal victory for me and I felt

709
00:53:58.200 --> 00:54:04.560
like I applied a lot of what what I've learned that's that's awesome and and

710
00:54:04.560 --> 00:54:10.440
really to step back and think about this from the bigger picture part of the

711
00:54:10.440 --> 00:54:13.880
choice well when you look at the fruit okay you look at the fruit and you get

712
00:54:13.880 --> 00:54:17.440
back to the root and you look at the fruit and you have to decide the fruit

713
00:54:17.440 --> 00:54:21.120
in your life because remember we saw the power of life and death is in the tongue

714
00:54:21.120 --> 00:54:27.720
and we eat the fruit thereof that's the fruit in our life so the fruit you can

715
00:54:27.720 --> 00:54:35.120
have frustration anger which is going to lead to anxiety or depression if you

716
00:54:35.120 --> 00:54:39.640
hold it back and repress it the anger then it's going to go into depression if

717
00:54:39.640 --> 00:54:43.600
you release it you know it's going to be in anger so it's going to often

718
00:54:43.600 --> 00:54:48.640
translate into dis-ease suddenly you don't understand why part of your back

719
00:54:48.640 --> 00:54:52.760
is hurting your neck is hurting why you've got intestinal problems why

720
00:54:52.760 --> 00:54:56.120
you're stuck and and you're constipated you know stuff that we're teaching in

721
00:54:56.120 --> 00:55:01.760
the God health of me discovery stuff but so you're gonna have this physical side

722
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:09.520
of dis-ease. You've got this emotional, so what you chose, the fruit, was peace and joy and love

723
00:55:09.520 --> 00:55:17.840
and not stealing from this moment, whereas opposed to choosing the other way is sleepless nights and

724
00:55:17.840 --> 00:55:21.840
frustration and dis-ease and when you just really step back, then you have to decide,

725
00:55:21.840 --> 00:55:25.680
is this really worth it? I mean, it's cutting years off my life. It didn't change the results,

726
00:55:25.680 --> 00:55:33.120
the outcome and so a lot of this is just deliberate choice of saying, I am choosing

727
00:55:33.120 --> 00:55:40.880
to experience this moment so richly, so fully. I'm choosing to have joy and peace and love

728
00:55:40.880 --> 00:55:49.040
and abundance and fulfillment and truly enjoy my life beginning in this moment right now

729
00:55:49.760 --> 00:55:58.400
and you made that choice, Christine, and peace was the result. Peace and so I love that and

730
00:55:59.120 --> 00:56:04.800
what I'd like to bring this thing to a landing in talking about it, I'd like to bring in another

731
00:56:04.800 --> 00:56:13.600
concept which is the concept of allowing and resistance. Allowing and resistance and this

732
00:56:14.000 --> 00:56:19.840
I teach this a lot in my manifest course and when you understand how to manifest your dreams,

733
00:56:19.840 --> 00:56:26.640
goals and desires quickly and part of the manifestation process of being able to

734
00:56:26.640 --> 00:56:33.600
manifest your dreams, goals and desires is to understand that there is an overall current.

735
00:56:33.600 --> 00:56:40.000
In my mind, the picture in my imagination that I think of is the jet stream when you're flying.

736
00:56:40.560 --> 00:56:47.280
Think of the current of the jet stream. So when I fly to Atlanta or New Jersey,

737
00:56:48.000 --> 00:56:55.520
it is twice as fast or it cuts off, it shaves off a good hour as opposed to when I fly back

738
00:56:55.520 --> 00:57:05.040
and the reason is going with the jet stream. So it allows the airplane to use less fuel,

739
00:57:05.040 --> 00:57:09.760
it's more effortless and you get there faster. Well, you can think about that in your life.

740
00:57:09.760 --> 00:57:16.320
If you would like to use less fuel, you're not just burning through anxiety and stress

741
00:57:16.320 --> 00:57:24.800
and your immune system and aging rapidly and so on. Okay, by going against it, if you want to have

742
00:57:24.800 --> 00:57:32.160
that, that if you desire to have that ease, you go with the flow, you go with the jet stream.

743
00:57:33.040 --> 00:57:42.480
Now, in Ecclesiastes 10 verse 3 and 4, there's an interesting little statement in there,

744
00:57:42.480 --> 00:57:51.920
Ecclesiastes 10 verses 3 and 4. It says, even when he who is a fool walks along the road,

745
00:57:53.040 --> 00:58:00.880
his heart and understanding fail him and he says of everyone and to everyone that he is a fool.

746
00:58:01.680 --> 00:58:06.080
So it's the fool walking down the road just calling everybody else a fool. Idiots, you know,

747
00:58:06.080 --> 00:58:10.880
they're driving down the road. Idiot, what are you thinking? That stupid idiot that did that and so

748
00:58:10.880 --> 00:58:15.600
they're a fool but they're busy resisting and calling everyone and everything a fool, this

749
00:58:15.600 --> 00:58:25.280
verse says. In verse 4, it says, if the temper of the ruler rises up against you, do not leave

750
00:58:25.280 --> 00:58:34.960
your place and then the amplified version says or show a resisting spirit. So here would be an

751
00:58:34.960 --> 00:58:40.800
opportunity to take something personally. You've got someone, a ruler, it could be your boss,

752
00:58:40.800 --> 00:58:48.000
it could be your husband, it could be your manager, whatever and their temper rises up

753
00:58:48.000 --> 00:58:53.200
against you. So someone gets angry at you, they took offense at something, they're really angry

754
00:58:53.200 --> 00:58:59.200
and naturally you can take that personally and then when you take things personally, you take

755
00:58:59.200 --> 00:59:05.920
offense and now you move into the us versus them, the you versus me and now you have to justify,

756
00:59:05.920 --> 00:59:10.160
now you have to spend your energy proving that you're right, now you have to enter into an

757
00:59:10.160 --> 00:59:14.880
argument and disagreement, now your blood pressure has to go up, now blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

758
00:59:14.880 --> 00:59:18.880
It says, if the temper of the ruler, just think of this however you want to think of it, your

759
00:59:19.840 --> 00:59:24.640
parent, whoever pushes your button, if the temper of the ruler rises up against you,

760
00:59:25.520 --> 00:59:30.720
don't leave your place. See what you talked about Christine, you didn't leave your place,

761
00:59:30.720 --> 00:59:37.920
you didn't, I use that word place your position, don't leave your position and then the amplified

762
00:59:37.920 --> 00:59:45.600
says or show a resisting spirit. You didn't get into resistance about this whole thing

763
00:59:45.600 --> 00:59:52.800
and then it takes it all the way, it says for gentleness and calmness, prevent or put a stop

764
00:59:52.800 --> 00:59:59.600
to great offenses. You slept that night Christine, you didn't put your body in a state of

765
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:05.000
you didn't shut down your immune system, you didn't constipate yourself, you understand?

766
01:00:05.000 --> 01:00:10.000
because you chose the way of gentleness and calmness and not the way of resistance

767
01:00:10.000 --> 01:00:14.000
this is why I believe Jesus, because people say what was that all about?

768
01:00:14.000 --> 01:00:16.000
he was such a pacifist

769
01:00:16.000 --> 01:00:18.000
in Matthew chapter 5

770
01:00:18.000 --> 01:00:20.000
Jesus said

771
01:00:20.000 --> 01:00:24.000
I say to you do not resist

772
01:00:24.000 --> 01:00:27.000
the evil man who injures you

773
01:00:27.000 --> 01:00:32.000
if anyone strikes you on the right jaw or cheek, turn to him the other one too

774
01:00:32.000 --> 01:00:35.000
how do you do that? how do you turn the other cheek figuratively?

775
01:00:35.000 --> 01:00:37.000
we're not talking about someone punching you

776
01:00:37.000 --> 01:00:39.000
that probably isn't what happened

777
01:00:39.000 --> 01:00:43.000
but they probably kicked you in the stomach or punched you with their words

778
01:00:43.000 --> 01:00:47.000
or their accusation or their gossip or their whatever

779
01:00:47.000 --> 01:00:52.000
and you chose not to take it personally

780
01:00:52.000 --> 01:00:56.000
and you chose to turn the other cheek

781
01:00:56.000 --> 01:01:00.000
because you had the grace to understand

782
01:01:00.000 --> 01:01:04.000
that something's going on in their life

783
01:01:04.000 --> 01:01:07.000
and you were going to choose the way of love that covers a multitude of sins

784
01:01:07.000 --> 01:01:11.000
and you were going to protect your own health and your own peace of mind

785
01:01:11.000 --> 01:01:15.000
by not resisting the evil man

786
01:01:15.000 --> 01:01:20.000
now I'd like to read you from a book called Manifesting

787
01:01:20.000 --> 01:01:24.000
that is done by Hicks

788
01:01:24.000 --> 01:01:26.000
what's their names?

789
01:01:26.000 --> 01:01:29.000
it's Esther and Jerry Hicks

790
01:01:29.000 --> 01:01:31.000
they have a book on

791
01:01:31.000 --> 01:01:34.000
they were one of the original on the law of attraction

792
01:01:34.000 --> 01:01:36.000
and on manifesting

793
01:01:36.000 --> 01:01:38.000
I don't agree with their whole perspective

794
01:01:38.000 --> 01:01:40.000
and how they're doing things

795
01:01:40.000 --> 01:01:43.000
so you guys don't need to send me letters and tell me where the book's wrong

796
01:01:43.000 --> 01:01:46.000
but I do glean things from things

797
01:01:46.000 --> 01:01:52.000
and their idea of explaining resistance and allowing is really nicely done

798
01:01:52.000 --> 01:01:55.000
so I'm going to choose to pull that truth from it and make it my own

799
01:01:55.000 --> 01:01:59.000
and so what it talks about in the terms of manifesting

800
01:01:59.000 --> 01:02:04.000
in terms of achieving your goals, dreams and desires quickly

801
01:02:04.000 --> 01:02:08.000
if someone is not receiving what they're asking for

802
01:02:08.000 --> 01:02:10.000
so you've got to stop and say

803
01:02:10.000 --> 01:02:13.000
Jesus said, ask, believe, receive

804
01:02:13.000 --> 01:02:19.000
Jesus said, if you ask, believing that you have received, you shall receive

805
01:02:19.000 --> 01:02:21.000
those are Jesus' words, period

806
01:02:21.000 --> 01:02:23.000
now either Jesus spoke truth or he didn't

807
01:02:23.000 --> 01:02:26.000
either this is a reality or it's not

808
01:02:26.000 --> 01:02:30.000
either you believe the word of God or you flush it down the toilet and say it's not true

809
01:02:30.000 --> 01:02:32.000
if you're going to believe it, you've got to believe all of it

810
01:02:32.000 --> 01:02:38.000
and Jesus said that whatever you ask for

811
01:02:38.000 --> 01:02:41.000
believing that you have received it

812
01:02:41.000 --> 01:02:44.000
you will receive it, you shall have it

813
01:02:44.000 --> 01:02:50.000
so in this book it says if someone's not receiving what they're asking for

814
01:02:50.000 --> 01:02:53.000
it's not because there's a shortage of resources

815
01:02:53.000 --> 01:02:56.000
see if you base it on lack, now you're basing it on the lion illusion

816
01:02:56.000 --> 01:02:59.000
there is no lack in the universe

817
01:02:59.000 --> 01:03:01.000
I almost, I'll confess here

818
01:03:01.000 --> 01:03:04.000
I almost brought lack into the miraculous

819
01:03:04.000 --> 01:03:08.000
I was asking God, I needed several miracles

820
01:03:08.000 --> 01:03:11.000
there's some things that have hit me and I needed several miracles

821
01:03:12.000 --> 01:03:14.000
and I asked God for a miracle

822
01:03:14.000 --> 01:03:16.000
and then I asked God, I said

823
01:03:16.000 --> 01:03:18.000
would it be okay if I asked for another miracle?

824
01:03:18.000 --> 01:03:21.000
I actually need three miracles

825
01:03:21.000 --> 01:03:23.000
and I really felt the spirit of God speak to me

826
01:03:23.000 --> 01:03:25.000
why do you put lack when it comes to miracles?

827
01:03:25.000 --> 01:03:29.000
why wouldn't you ask for multiple miracles on a daily basis?

828
01:03:29.000 --> 01:03:33.000
why would you apply lack that you can only ask for one miracle?

829
01:03:33.000 --> 01:03:36.000
and I realized that this illusion of lack

830
01:03:36.000 --> 01:03:39.000
we take even into the spiritual dimension of how much we can pray for

831
01:03:39.000 --> 01:03:41.000
how much we can ask for, how often we can ask

832
01:03:41.000 --> 01:03:44.000
and how many miracles we can ask for

833
01:03:44.000 --> 01:03:48.000
I'm confessing that just happened to me like two days ago

834
01:03:48.000 --> 01:03:50.000
I'm making it real right now

835
01:03:50.000 --> 01:03:52.000
I was bringing this, what it's talking about

836
01:03:52.000 --> 01:03:54.000
it says if someone's not receiving what they're asking for

837
01:03:54.000 --> 01:03:57.000
it's not because there's a shortage of resources

838
01:03:57.000 --> 01:04:00.000
you think God has a shortage that he can't do more than one miracle?

839
01:04:02.000 --> 01:04:04.000
that I can't believe for more than one miracle?

840
01:04:04.000 --> 01:04:08.000
that I can't believe for a different miracle in three different areas of my life?

841
01:04:10.000 --> 01:04:13.000
it's not because there's a shortage of resources

842
01:04:13.000 --> 01:04:20.000
it can only be that the person holding the desire

843
01:04:20.000 --> 01:04:24.000
is out of alignment with their own request

844
01:04:24.000 --> 01:04:26.000
remember we're talking about impeccable

845
01:04:26.000 --> 01:04:28.000
not violating yourself

846
01:04:28.000 --> 01:04:29.000
do you hear that?

847
01:04:29.000 --> 01:04:31.000
do you see the congruency there?

848
01:04:31.000 --> 01:04:33.000
they're not receiving what they're asked for

849
01:04:33.000 --> 01:04:35.000
it's not because there's a shortage of resources

850
01:04:35.000 --> 01:04:36.000
there is no lack

851
01:04:36.000 --> 01:04:38.000
he owns the cattle on a thousand hills

852
01:04:38.000 --> 01:04:40.000
it's not that, it can only be

853
01:04:40.000 --> 01:04:43.000
that the person asking, the person holding the desire

854
01:04:43.000 --> 01:04:46.000
is out of alignment with their own request

855
01:04:46.000 --> 01:04:48.000
so their mouth is saying one thing

856
01:04:48.000 --> 01:04:51.000
but they're not believing it

857
01:04:51.000 --> 01:04:53.000
expecting it

858
01:04:53.000 --> 01:04:55.000
I was talking about manifesting

859
01:04:55.000 --> 01:04:57.000
I was talking with a young man

860
01:04:57.000 --> 01:04:59.000
who wanted a desire to

861
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:07.560
car and so I began to ask him what he was doing to prepare for that car. Did he

862
01:05:07.560 --> 01:05:11.280
really believe that he was going to receive it? Because if you really believe

863
01:05:11.280 --> 01:05:14.080
that you're going to receive it and you're in alignment with what you're

864
01:05:14.080 --> 01:05:18.340
asking, you're going to create space. That's part of what I teach in my

865
01:05:18.340 --> 01:05:21.280
manifest program and I'm going to do another manifest workshop shortly

866
01:05:21.280 --> 01:05:25.320
because the results are so tremendous. So if you're not part of

867
01:05:25.320 --> 01:05:29.000
prosperinallthings.com, if you haven't opted in so that you know what I'm

868
01:05:29.000 --> 01:05:32.920
teaching, I'm going to be adding some things here real soon. Make sure that

869
01:05:32.920 --> 01:05:37.720
you're receiving mail from me at prosperinallthings.com. Put your name on

870
01:05:37.720 --> 01:05:42.000
the right side, you get five free videos because I'm going to be teaching even

871
01:05:42.000 --> 01:05:45.880
more on this. I'm realizing that this is so effective and making such a

872
01:05:45.880 --> 01:05:49.280
difference when I teach people this and so I'm going to get heavier into that.

873
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And so I talked to him about one of the aspects that I teach is how to create

874
01:05:53.680 --> 01:05:57.560
space. I said, are you really expecting that car? Are you expecting to get it?

875
01:05:57.560 --> 01:06:01.880
Because if I was, I'd be buying accessories for it. I'd be clearing the

876
01:06:01.880 --> 01:06:05.480
parking spot or the garage where I'm going to park it. I would and I started

877
01:06:05.480 --> 01:06:08.560
talking about all the ways I would create space. See, when you don't really

878
01:06:08.560 --> 01:06:11.400
believe you're going to receive it, so many people go in and pray in the

879
01:06:11.400 --> 01:06:14.320
morning and they do it out of ritual but they don't really expect to get an

880
01:06:14.320 --> 01:06:18.640
answer for prayer. It just makes them feel good. I meet more people that pray

881
01:06:18.640 --> 01:06:22.920
not expecting to get an answer at all. So it says if they're not receiving, it's

882
01:06:22.920 --> 01:06:27.040
not lack, it's because it's out of alignment with their own request. And it

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01:06:27.040 --> 01:06:34.200
says your habit of resistant thought is the only thing that ever keeps you from

884
01:06:34.200 --> 01:06:38.240
allowing the things you desire. So if there's something you desire and you're

885
01:06:38.240 --> 01:06:42.800
not getting it, I guarantee you there's resistance. You're going against the jet

886
01:06:42.800 --> 01:06:50.720
stream. It says there is an unlimited stream of well-being. First of all, you

887
01:06:50.720 --> 01:06:54.400
have to work out in your own heart either God is good or he isn't. I'm of

888
01:06:54.400 --> 01:06:58.640
the firm conclusion that God is good and that everything he's working, Romans

889
01:06:58.640 --> 01:07:03.800
828, is working together for my good. So I'm coming from the worldview that

890
01:07:03.800 --> 01:07:08.120
everything happening in my life is working for my good. And that's what this

891
01:07:08.120 --> 01:07:12.600
is saying. There's an unlimited stream of well-being and abundance of all manners

892
01:07:12.600 --> 01:07:17.200
of things available to you at all times. I believe when God put Adam and Eve in

893
01:07:17.200 --> 01:07:22.440
the garden, gave them dominion, taught them the principles of what I'm teaching

894
01:07:22.680 --> 01:07:28.800
you here, he said you can have whatever it is you desire. So it says an abundance

895
01:07:28.800 --> 01:07:34.120
of all manner of things available to you at all times, but you must be in

896
01:07:34.120 --> 01:07:40.440
alignment with the receiving of those things. You cannot stand in resistance of

897
01:07:40.440 --> 01:07:45.720
them and receive them at the same time. In my mind, I made the

898
01:07:45.720 --> 01:07:51.280
connection between being impeccable in what I'm asking with my word and what

899
01:07:51.280 --> 01:07:55.720
I'm asking. Being impeccable, making sure that I'm in alignment, that I'm allowing

900
01:07:55.720 --> 01:08:00.120
and I'm not in resistance. It says you must be in alignment with the receiving

901
01:08:00.120 --> 01:08:03.600
of those things. You cannot stand in resistance and receive them at the same

902
01:08:03.600 --> 01:08:09.680
time. It says when you really, really, really want something, I'd put the word

903
01:08:09.680 --> 01:08:14.240
desire there, when you really, really desire something and you're thinking

904
01:08:14.240 --> 01:08:19.220
about your desire and this is how you can gauge. This is your early detection

905
01:08:19.220 --> 01:08:25.460
system, is your emotions and you're feeling pleasure from the thought. So

906
01:08:25.460 --> 01:08:29.580
you really, really desire something, you think about it and immediately you

907
01:08:29.580 --> 01:08:33.140
have so much pleasure around that, which is one of the secrets of manifesting.

908
01:08:33.140 --> 01:08:38.819
Your current thought vibration is in alignment with your desire. We call that

909
01:08:38.819 --> 01:08:44.380
allowing, but when you really, really desire something but instead you start

910
01:08:44.380 --> 01:08:50.380
feeling anger or fear or disappointment or whatever, the low frequency emotions,

911
01:08:50.380 --> 01:08:55.580
that means there's your early detection system, it means you're focused on the

912
01:08:55.580 --> 01:09:03.620
opposite of your desire and in doing so you're introducing another non-matching

913
01:09:03.620 --> 01:09:11.060
vibration to the mix. We call that resistance. So the degree of negative

914
01:09:11.060 --> 01:09:14.700
emotion that you're experiencing indicates, that's your early detection

915
01:09:14.700 --> 01:09:23.859
system, indicates the degree of resistance. This young man asked me why he

916
01:09:23.859 --> 01:09:31.340
manifests the things he doesn't desire and why that's so easy to do and I said

917
01:09:31.340 --> 01:09:35.779
because that's what your predominant thought and emotions are around. You're

918
01:09:35.779 --> 01:09:40.899
focusing on what you don't desire and that's your predominant thought. You see

919
01:09:40.899 --> 01:09:48.660
you can have a desire in your heart but if the vibration that you are in is not

920
01:09:48.660 --> 01:09:51.779
in alignment with that desire, you're going to attract the vibration that

921
01:09:51.779 --> 01:09:56.380
you're in. We are electrical beings. Quantum physics now has taught us every

922
01:09:56.380 --> 01:10:01.300
cell, every part of us, we are electrical beings.

923
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:04.480
our magnetic beings we know that force radiates out from our heart it's been

924
01:10:04.480 --> 01:10:08.000
it's now been monitored somewhere between 8 and 12 feet coming out from

925
01:10:08.000 --> 01:10:12.480
the heart you are emitting energy

926
01:10:12.480 --> 01:10:18.400
magnetic electromagnetic energy emfs electromagnetic frequencies you are

927
01:10:18.400 --> 01:10:22.240
emitting those you are an electrical being all you have to

928
01:10:22.240 --> 01:10:25.680
do is have a heart attack and know that how do they start back your heart

929
01:10:25.680 --> 01:10:29.520
electrically the brain shuts down there's no

930
01:10:29.520 --> 01:10:33.200
electrical understand you are an electrical being

931
01:10:33.200 --> 01:10:36.160
your thoughts are being communicated across

932
01:10:36.160 --> 01:10:42.480
all the neural pathway electrically so you've got the the chemical side of

933
01:10:42.480 --> 01:10:44.960
yourself you've got the electrical side of

934
01:10:44.960 --> 01:10:48.160
yourself and that electrical side of yourself

935
01:10:48.160 --> 01:10:51.840
is attracting that which is in agreement with it

936
01:10:51.840 --> 01:10:55.440
that's why when you change when you change your way of thinking

937
01:10:55.440 --> 01:10:59.120
when you change your mindset the people that you used to be able to hang out

938
01:10:59.120 --> 01:11:01.680
with you won't be able to anymore you'll just feel this

939
01:11:01.680 --> 01:11:04.960
uncomfort you'll just feel this resistance well you're no longer in

940
01:11:04.960 --> 01:11:07.680
alignment you're on a different frequency

941
01:11:07.680 --> 01:11:10.960
you'll get with someone that's operating on the same frequency and it'll be as

942
01:11:10.960 --> 01:11:15.280
natural as breathing for you you'll feel so comfortable well the

943
01:11:15.280 --> 01:11:17.840
same thing happens with our own desires and so

944
01:11:17.840 --> 01:11:21.040
you're going to attract the vibration you're at

945
01:11:21.040 --> 01:11:24.640
not the desire in your heart if those don't match that's what i'm talking

946
01:11:24.640 --> 01:11:29.760
about allowing and resisting and so part of that

947
01:11:29.760 --> 01:11:36.080
becomes changing and becoming skilled at changing your frequency

948
01:11:36.080 --> 01:11:39.200
and that is a decision you're going to learn

949
01:11:39.200 --> 01:11:44.560
to be able to make uh let's see i'm getting some questions being

950
01:11:44.560 --> 01:11:48.800
text yeah all of us are electric but some of

951
01:11:48.800 --> 01:11:51.600
us throw off sparks thanks christine for your comment

952
01:11:51.600 --> 01:11:55.360
um by the way you guys can do that if you want to send me comments that's fun

953
01:11:55.360 --> 01:11:59.040
too so um part of it is is learning very

954
01:11:59.040 --> 01:12:02.160
quickly how to change your frequency when you get when you get in this place

955
01:12:02.160 --> 01:12:04.720
of resistance this is thinking about your thinking and

956
01:12:04.720 --> 01:12:08.160
knowing how to change that very quickly whether you need to get up and move and

957
01:12:08.160 --> 01:12:11.440
dance whether you need to put on music whether you need to pray and worship

958
01:12:11.440 --> 01:12:15.440
when you find yourself sinking into a vibration and a frequency that is

959
01:12:15.440 --> 01:12:19.760
causing you to get into disease that is uh pushing away the things you want you

960
01:12:19.760 --> 01:12:22.720
have to be able to change that very quickly

961
01:12:22.720 --> 01:12:29.680
so um what what this book says is identify your resistance about 80%

962
01:12:29.680 --> 01:12:34.400
of what holds us back is internal and the remaining 20% is in the outside

963
01:12:34.400 --> 01:12:38.320
world and even then it's our personal internal responses to

964
01:12:38.320 --> 01:12:41.120
what's outside that determines if we'll succeed

965
01:12:41.120 --> 01:12:46.320
your internal resistant controls what you can and cannot achieve in your

966
01:12:47.200 --> 01:12:52.000
unless you identify what's holding you back you'll never overcome it

967
01:12:52.000 --> 01:12:55.920
and the really interesting thing is that most of your internal resistance

968
01:12:55.920 --> 01:13:00.400
is probably just old stuff you've dragged forward from childhood

969
01:13:00.400 --> 01:13:03.840
it often has no real truth for who you are

970
01:13:03.840 --> 01:13:10.000
today superior achievers often ask one question when they're moving ahead

971
01:13:10.000 --> 01:13:13.760
what am i doing or thinking that's holding me back demand an

972
01:13:13.760 --> 01:13:18.080
answer you need to know how you're placing limitations on

973
01:13:18.080 --> 01:13:22.400
yourself ask focus questions i put it in the

974
01:13:22.400 --> 01:13:26.160
positive sense and that's why i begin each day with

975
01:13:26.160 --> 01:13:29.440
what's the single most important thing i can do today

976
01:13:29.440 --> 01:13:32.560
to advance in the direction of my goals dreams

977
01:13:32.560 --> 01:13:35.680
and desires my coaching clients all know that

978
01:13:35.680 --> 01:13:38.960
well they've got that ingrained in their brain learning to ask the right

979
01:13:38.960 --> 01:13:42.320
questions what's the single most important thing i

980
01:13:42.320 --> 01:13:47.520
can do right now today to advance in the direction of my

981
01:13:47.520 --> 01:13:52.560
goals dreams desires it says when you really really

982
01:13:52.560 --> 01:13:58.000
want something desire something and and you're thinking about your desire and

983
01:13:58.000 --> 01:14:01.440
you feel pleasure from the thought then your current thought vibration is in

984
01:14:01.440 --> 01:14:04.560
alignment with your desire we call that allowing

985
01:14:04.560 --> 01:14:07.680
when you really really desire when you really are feeling the opposite the

986
01:14:07.680 --> 01:14:10.880
negative emotions come anger fear disappointment that means you're focused

987
01:14:10.880 --> 01:14:14.560
on the opposite of your desire so your emotions can let you know that

988
01:14:14.560 --> 01:14:17.040
actually you're thinking about the opposite

989
01:14:17.040 --> 01:14:21.200
you're resisting you're not allowing and so you're introducing another

990
01:14:21.200 --> 01:14:25.280
non-matching vibration to the mix that's called resistance

991
01:14:25.280 --> 01:14:29.520
that degree of negative emotion your experience lets you know the degree of

992
01:14:29.520 --> 01:14:32.880
resistance so just another little twist as we bring

993
01:14:32.880 --> 01:14:37.440
this thing to a landing about being impeccable with our word

994
01:14:37.440 --> 01:14:41.760
begin to learn to listen to your body your body never lies

995
01:14:41.760 --> 01:14:45.920
look at your symptoms look at that if you have that begin to listen to your

996
01:14:45.920 --> 01:14:52.000
heart begin to listen to your emotions begin to get what's really going on

997
01:14:52.000 --> 01:14:56.480
for you so that you can make these new agreements

998
01:14:56.480 --> 01:15:02.000
and you can go forward like christine just shared

999
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:04.900
and joy and begin to know that all things are working together for your

1000
01:15:04.900 --> 01:15:12.480
good so I pray that this is just really blessed you dealing with these two I

1001
01:15:12.480 --> 01:15:18.060
pray you think about it all week long and allow this to bring transformation

1002
01:15:18.060 --> 01:15:23.080
for you and we are going to start next week with a real big one wow you are

1003
01:15:23.080 --> 01:15:27.800
going to get some revelation like none other on don't make assumptions you are

1004
01:15:27.800 --> 01:15:33.280
you're gonna be amazed I believe on all the places I am in my life all the ways

1005
01:15:33.280 --> 01:15:38.080
I end up making assumptions and now I catch myself now I'm getting to the

1006
01:15:38.080 --> 01:15:42.080
level of awareness that I go oh my gosh that's an assumption how do I even know

1007
01:15:42.080 --> 01:15:45.800
that that's true how do I even know that that person was thinking that how do I

1008
01:15:45.800 --> 01:15:49.880
even know the reason they did that was the reason I'm saying how do I even know

1009
01:15:49.880 --> 01:15:53.360
that they're doing something because I thought all of the assumptions that we

1010
01:15:53.360 --> 01:16:00.320
make is crazy so we're gonna conclude this one and I bless you all to have an

1011
01:16:00.320 --> 01:16:05.960
amazing week of being impeccable with your word not violating yourself not

1012
01:16:05.960 --> 01:16:10.840
taking things personally and walking in joy and abundance has been such a

1013
01:16:10.840 --> 01:16:15.080
pleasure it's been the high point of my week to to have you on this call although

1014
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I've got two more real high points so be sure you're catching the schedule and

1015
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seeing the webinars going on this week this is a big week I bless you I'm just

1016
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thankful to have you in my life and that we get to go down this journey together

1017
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so may the Lord bless and keep you and all your desires come true this week