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So, Father, I thank you so much for these beautiful women.

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I thank you for this day.

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You created this, you created us, you ordained this moment before the foundation of the world.

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So we just ask right here, right now, that we'll be present, that we'll release everything

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from the past, other than gleaning from the field of the past.

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You've been showing me the past is a field.

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So we can go back to that field and harvest it.

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What were the lessons?

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What were the blessings?

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To take whatever really serves that we want to take into the now, we can glean it and

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the rest, the woulda, coulda, shoulda, the guilt, the blame, the shame, the regret, all

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of that we leave in the past that does not exist anymore.

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And we drop the need to go into the future.

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We look at how we can best live in this moment, the only moment that there really is, which

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is now, this sacred, holy instant.

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This is where you are.

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This is where the miracles are.

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This is where truth is.

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This is where transformation happens.

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If we get into the future, we get into fear, doubt, worry.

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We get into the past, we get into blame, shame, all of that.

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But when we're right here, this is the place transformation can happen.

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This is the place awareness can open.

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This is the place miracles happen.

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This is the place of your presence.

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We just invite the awareness that you are here and that you are working.

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And we just ask that what you intend for this call to come forth.

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I ask for supernatural wisdom and discernment and understanding and revelation.

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I ask that your glory flood this place.

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I ask that your healing touches every body and mind and soul.

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Total restoration, total healing, renewal of energy, renewal of our mind.

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Lord, you've called us and told us that we're seated in high places with you.

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May we have a high place vantage point.

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You've said we are more than conquerors.

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We are not victims.

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We are not worms.

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We are not defeated.

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We are more than conquerors.

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And so I ask that whatever needs to come forth on this call, it'll come forth powerfully.

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Whatever questions need to be answered, whatever strategies need to be revealed, whatever limiting

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beliefs need to be uncovered and broken, whatever strongholds need to be broken, whatever healing

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needs to happen, whatever insights and understanding needs to come forth, I ask that it come forth

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powerfully.

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I thank you for the spirit of unity and the love in the Prosper Leader community.

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May we have even more love.

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I ask it all in Jesus' name, amen.

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So I'm going to open with a few thoughts and then we'll have conversation around them and

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you could just be taking notes as some insights come.

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My thoughts were, first of all, that we had three really big chunks of teaching and I

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want you to be able to digest it and let it just really work into your system and create

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transformation and really work.

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I do not like the concept of education, of stuffing a lot of facts in the head, right?

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I like transformation, renewing of the mind, okay?

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So I'd like enough time for you to really chew on it and be able to absorb it and be

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able to use it and to share, like Victoria shared earlier, to share when there's breakthrough

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too because when one person is lifted up, so is everyone else.

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It's good for everyone.

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So thank you for sharing that, to have the awareness that, wow, I can have a different

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money mindset.

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That's huge.

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You're not stuck with the old mindset.

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You can change that.

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We're transformed by the renewing of our mind, Roman says.

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So we had the sales conversation masterclass a few months ago, and that was like five hours

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with the Q&A and the teaching, right?

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And so the idea there was to really get you confident so that as you-

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you do have a client in front of you, you can really serve, you

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can really get the sales, you can be growing your income,

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growing your impact. And then we realized that you've got to be

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able to have follow up, because most of it doesn't happen on

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that call that lays the foundation. And so I did the

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fortune is the follow up masterclass, right. And so if

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you haven't done those, go back, I recommend them, you know, for

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you, um, you know, they're free to you as a prosper leader

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member, they're there for you. And so, uh, you know,

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congratulations, you know, for those of you that did, you know,

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100% of your follow ups, that was pretty incredible. And

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getting new clients and extension of clients. So we did

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the sales, we did the follow up, and then I realized, hey, you

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can do all the sales and all the follow up. But if your money

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mindset, your beliefs around money are whacked, then you're

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not going to be any better off. And so of course, I did God

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money in me. And of course, we have the q&a this Saturday. So

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that was a lot of stuff and intense, I gave you a lot of

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material. And so this is a really good place to digest it.

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And so any questions about that any applications about that any

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celebration, I'd like to, you know, be able to serve on that.

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And then I'm going to give you a couple leading thoughts to

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to think about, um, as you're getting ready to finish out this

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year. And so here's some of the thoughts. And it's so interesting

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when God's showing you something, I'll be one of the

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ways he works with me is he gives me an idea. And then I'll

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open a book, and it'll talk about that. And I'll open a

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totally different book. And it'll talk about that. And I'll

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open a totally different book. And it'll talk any of you

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experience that. So I've got three books open right here, all

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saying the exact same thing. And I and they're years apart when I

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read them. And it's not recent, other than one of them. And so

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they're all saying the same thing. And I thought, okay, the

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message that you told me to bring up is what I supposed to

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bring up, and it just got validated. And so I'm going to

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share a few thoughts from a few books to get your mind thinking.

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And, and so the idea that was coming to me about you was

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number one, what are you giving your power to? Okay, so who or

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what is controlling you? What, what, what belief about

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yourself? What belief about the world? What belief about money?

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Or, or what is it that you're giving your power to that? Or

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what are what are you believing? What are you giving your power

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to that is keeping you from from your true desires and what it is

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you desire to create? Let's break through that. And as part

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of breaking through that, I was reminded of something I taught

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you guys quite a while ago, but I want to bring it back again.

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How many of you remember Justin Ipov? Sounds like a Russian name

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Justin Ipov. J-U-S-T-A-N-I-P-O-V, Justin Ipov. Any of

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you? Or has it been too long for most of you? Okay. Um, that

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stands for just an interesting point of view. Just an

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interesting point of view, Justin Ipov. I've taught a lot

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of my clients about Justin Ipov. It goes along with the same,

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maybe Course in Miracles or many other books where you know,

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nothing really has meaning until we give it meaning, right? We're

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the one that attaches meaning, okay. And so you know, this is

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just a this is just a drink, you know, I could describe what it

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is, it's delta E. But if I give it the meaning that this feeds

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my brain, and I'm going to have more focus, then that becomes

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the meaning. If I give it the meaning, you know, this is where

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we get the I talked about in the money, the placebo, the nocebo,

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the placebo, I give it the meaning, this is really going to

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help me and it will I give it the meaning is really going to

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harm me and it will. Well, same thing with our limiting

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beliefs. Okay. And so what are you believing? What are you

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giving your power to is that you don't believe you're smart

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enough, you don't have enough time, you don't have enough

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money, you don't have enough experience, you don't have, or

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like, what is it that you're giving your power to that we

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need to get a breakthrough. So you finish this year that that

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no longer is affecting you. So that's the first part of the

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conversation around what interesting, you know, point of

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view, have you made significant, okay. And so there's a there's a

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workbook on on money. And it says something really

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interesting.

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And it says really to change your financial situation, I didn't put this in our course, but to change your financial situation, you must learn to be in allowance of all things.

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Okay, let's explain how that fits in with interesting point of view. So, if something comes because we're just living and they're not even true necessarily it's just points of view that you've accepted as truth or rejected.

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Right. So, if you've accepted that, that there's a lack of money that there's not enough.

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Or if you've accepted in our family there's there's there's never enough nobody in our family gets rich, whatever. Okay, then you have gotten in agreement, you've gotten in agreement with that point of view it's just a point of view, everything

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is just a point of view, but you've gotten in agreement with that point of view. Okay, the moment you do that, you make it solid you make it part of your reality.

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Okay. So, let me explain what I mean.

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So, we know from quantum physics I think I shared this a little bit in the money right everything's in wave form like when they did the double slit experiment everything all the molecules, just in wave form.

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When we absorb when we observe them when we give them our attention, the moment we pay attention to them, they come out of the way form and they become particle form they become solid.

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This is our whole world God has created infinite potential for you.

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Unlimited he said all things are possible with God, you have access to anything and everything.

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Infinite potential.

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So from that point of view, if you come into agreement with it, like, there's not enough to go around by coming into agreement with it it becomes solid, it now becomes part of your life it becomes effect right becomes real for you, solid.

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If you say it's not true and you resist it, and now you go to war against it if you will, same thing.

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You gave it attention. The wave becomes a particle, it becomes real.

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And of course we know whatever we resist persists.

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Right, we know energy flows where the attention goes whatever we focus on expands I can say this a dozen different ways, what we resist persist why because it becomes solid, so we make a war against cancer and cancer rates go up we make a war against

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drugs and there's even more drugs we we do a war against violent even more you see, where is it solving anything, not.

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So, if we agree with something we make it real it becomes solid. If we resist something we make it real, and it becomes solid. So how do you avoid all of them, you understand that everything is just an interesting point of view.

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So whatever someone says about money whatever they say about sickness whatever they say you have the ability to say oh interesting point of view you don't have to agree you don't have to resist you don't have to fight it just interesting point of view that

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interesting point of view that you have that point of view. Okay. And, um, and so you can, that's not part of my reality. Right. And so I was, I was reading from a book, and this is all going to come together, I pray, I was reading from a book,

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and this is a man who tapped the secrets of the universe, and the interviewer this is a man who made it big in music, made it big in art painting, made it huge in sculptures, made it huge in horse riding and horse training made it huge and ice skating

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made it huge in science, and all he did was tap into the God power that is available to all of us. Okay. And so they asked him do you ever have failure. And he says that's just, that's not even part of my reality and that that doesn't exist I mean there can be

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stepping stones but that's just not part of my reality. And when I read that it reminded me you know my daughter had come home and said mom everybody's sick everybody's catching stuff and I says okay well, that's not part of my conversation that's not part

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of my reality. And, you know, well it's you know it's flu season it's cold season. No, there's four seasons in the Bible there's no allergy season in the Bible there's no flu season in the Bible there's that was invented by drug companies that is a point of view.

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Okay. So, how many are you are with me so far give me a snap. Are you following because I know I'm sharing a lot again but I want to open this conversation. So, they asked him because then he got into the scientific knowledge he was the one that discovered

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how to make hydrogen water he, he was discovered two of the of the elements and the hydrogen bomb and

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you know, all of this stuff, right?

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And so in the interview, it says,

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tell me how you acquired your scientific knowledge.

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So he already had all the financial, the art,

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the sculpture, the sports, everything.

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And now he's like the final stage of his life.

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He's like doing all this science.

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And he says, how did you acquire your scientific knowledge?

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You say you never studied physics

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and you've read but few books in your life.

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And this was his answer.

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It is because I always looked for the cause behind things.

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The word cause is all in capitals.

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I always looked for the cause

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and I didn't fritter away my time analyzing effects.

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So the word effects is all in capital.

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He replied, listen to this, all knowledge exists as cause

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It's limited to light and the electrical wave of motion.

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Now this was written in 1921, I think,

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which records God's thinking into matter.

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I've talked to you about substance, right?

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He says effect, E-F-F-E-C-T, effect is complex,

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infinitely complex.

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So cause, very simple, bottom line, right?

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Effect, complex, infinitely complex,

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but one can have no knowledge of effect.

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One can be informed of effect.

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Information is not knowledge.

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Our educational process informs us,

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but until we recognize the internal truth,

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which underlies that information,

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we have no knowledge of it.

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Like food in the grocery store,

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it's not nourishment until it's converted

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into the bloodstream.

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All knowledge is possible for anyone

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and the cosmos gives it.

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He said, can you tell me the process

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by which this all knowledge came to you?

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Was it a gradual process, the interviewer's asking,

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the result of earnest seeking, or was there a high point,

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a period of revelation or illumination?

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Mr. Russell replied, I will put it very simply.

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In May, 1921, God took me up into a high mountain

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of inspiration and intense ecstasy.

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A brilliant flash like lightning severed

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my bodily sensation from my consciousness

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and I found myself freed from my body

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and holy in the mind universe of light, which is God.

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And then God said to me, behold thou the unity

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of all things in light of me

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and the seeming separateness of all things

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in the two lights of my divided thinking.

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See thou that I, the undivided, unchanging one,

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am within all divided things centering them

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and I am without all changing things controlling them.

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And he says, and then the secrets came to me

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and I understood the cause of all effects

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for there's very little to know.

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And he said, it was shown to me in entirety,

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the illusion of the separation.

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Okay, so he's talking about, you really wanna have wisdom,

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always look at the cause, not the effect.

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This goes back to what I taught you in the money one

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about judge not by appearances.

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Don't look at your bank account, that's an effect.

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Money is an effect, go back to the source.

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That goes back to what I read to you from the abundance book

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about how we gave away our power because we objectified

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when we believe that money was source,

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that instead of being effect, that it was cause,

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we gave our power, we gave away our God-given power

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and gave it to the money

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like I shared in that course, right?

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So this says the exact same thing.

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It says that we tend to, it says,

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are you focusing on God as your abundance

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that constitutes the supply?

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It says, or do you want more money,

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more prosperity in your life

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than shift from a consciousness of effect?

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In other words, the material world that you see

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to a consciousness of cause, God, spirituality.

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When you give power to an effect,

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you are giving it your power.

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You're actually giving the effect power over you.

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Money have power.

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If you say yes, then you've given it your power,

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and you become the servant.

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You have reversed the roles.

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When you get back to spirit, the Holy Spirit in you,

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God in you, the inner presence, the true you,

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then you know the only source is God's presence within you.

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When your mind is on source, it's on cause,

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the supply flows freely.

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Listen to this.

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If your mind is on the effect, you block the flow.

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The more impersonal, we were impersonal

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when I said interesting point of view.

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It's another way of saying the more impersonal,

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that no matter what they say about money or about sickness

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or anything else that you're hearing,

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you can look at it impersonally and say,

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interesting point of view.

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Now, what's the truth of God?

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What's the truth of Holy Spirit?

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What's the truth about that matter?

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Do you guys kind of feel that?

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And so the more personal you become in your relationship

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with the true source of your money,

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the greater the abundance in your life.

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But remember, if you constantly look to effect,

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the visible form, you will create a mutation.

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And it will actually block,

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it'll actually lessen the amount of money.

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the more you focus on the lack of the money,

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the more you give it your power, the less of it you'll have.

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Okay, so that's a lot from three books,

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but I wanted to open it so that now

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when we're looking at what you're believing,

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we could maybe back up a little bit

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and be able to look at it and even about ourselves say,

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oh, interesting point of view

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that I have that point of view.

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You can even be open that way yourself.

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Like what point of view did I receive?

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Interesting point of view that I received

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that point of view.

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now let's go back to the original question.

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What interesting point of view

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have you been giving your power to

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that maybe you're ready to release as you finish this year?

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Or what interesting point of view do you need support in

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that you think you need something

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to be able to finish strong,

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have the clients, have the abundance,

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have the results, whatever it is.

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And let's talk about that collectively

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and get some breakthrough.

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So it might be looking at who or what's running you.

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It might be, what are you thinking about the most?

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It might be, where do you most need support or prayer?

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It might be, what advice do you need?

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It might be, what are you resisting?

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What are you making solid?

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What are you giving life to?

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Because you're really resisting it.

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What are you giving life to?

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What are you giving your power?

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It could be any of those things.

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Okay, so let's kind of open to a wonderful conversation

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and prayer and breakthrough to finish this year strong.

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So give me a snap.

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Do you like this topic?

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Is this something interesting to you?

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How many of you like this is really something,

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those of you that I can see.

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All right, so go ahead and hit reaction.

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You can raise your hand.

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It's my opportunity to coach you, to mentor you.

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It's your community's opportunity to lift you up in prayer,

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to share their ideas, to us really to come together

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to make sure that we finish this year so strong.

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So be bold, be courageous, come forth,

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so that we can really get some transformation.

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So click on reactions, raise your hand,

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and let's talk about this.

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How is this resonating with you?

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What is it bringing up?

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What's true?

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What do you need support around?

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Did I overwhelm you, underwhelm you?

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I'll go.

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Okay, I can't see who said it.

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Oh, sorry, I'll put my hand up.

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Ah, okay, Victoria, I see you now.

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When you put your hand up, I can see you.

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Okay.

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Yeah, just, you know, there's,

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I give a lot of power to my,

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I've got a real, my habit with my phone is kind of,

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I mean, I'm working on it,

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but so I can actually block myself out,

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but it's just, you know, I don't watch TV.

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It's just kind of a mindless activity,

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but it really is kind of out of control.

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It steals my time away from God.

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It steals my time away from prayer.

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You know, it's just a,

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it's a coping skill, I guess.

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So that's like one.

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And then two is, you know, when I tested positive,

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I was just about to start a four day,

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stretch of work. So I lost like 48 hours of work. And my first

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reaction was, Oh, man, I should have just done. Why did I take

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the test? You know, I mean, it was my choice. I was trying to

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learn how to do it. But I'm so and then I just stopped worrying

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about it. But you know, I need I need to be home. I just reframe

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that whole situation and flip it instead of worrying about how am

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I going to pay my bill, you know, that worry, worry, worry.

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So I just, that's a new thing for me. So I'm, I immediately

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go ahead. I'm sorry. I know. So I immediately went to fear. Okay.

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And then I stopped, I caught myself and said, Nope, I'm not

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gonna go there. I'm gonna be fine. I always am. And I'm just

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gonna enjoy the time off and recover.

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Love that. I love that. So there's a lot of cool things

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that you did. And I think I want to, I want to bring these

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forward, because we're all dealing with this. And I don't

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think there's any of you that that are not even myself, we

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just keep every time we stretch, and we get out of our comfort

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zone, there's a whole new level of feeling like, how am I going

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to afford that? How am I going to do that? And I like every

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time that we make that stretch, whether we leave the comfort of

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a job and security, or whether you know, we miss because of

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sickness or, you know, family dynamic. So, so we all are

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dealing with that. And so I had the thought earlier, and you

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guys might want to do this yourself, if you were going to

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draw a circle of your day of 24 hours, and you're going to make

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a pie chart. And so, you know, take and take a piece of that

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pie of that 24 hours, and how much of that 24 hours is spent

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on fear, worry, let's give it a slice of the pie. This is just

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my own idea that came to me earlier. So, you know, if you

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figure half of the pie is 12 hours, you know, quarter of the

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power pie is four hours of the day, you know, how much of it

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would you say that fear tries to come in or worry or how am I

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going to do this or anxiety or doubt how much of it and then in

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that same pie, how much is dedicated to praise or joy or

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love or beauty or high frequency? Like how much of the

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day and is it is it more than the fear? Is it the same as the

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fear? Like look at the pie kind of make it relative to each

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other? What would you say that is dedicated to to that to love

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to beauty? Okay, how much of the pie is dedicated to growing you?

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How much are you investing in, in growing and growing you and

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you know, you got to mark out of there, obviously, you know, if

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there's six, seven, eight hours of sleep and eating, you know,

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just go ahead and, you know, mark out what you know, you're

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not doing anything because you're sleeping, you're eating

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your whatever. And then, you know, of that, you've probably

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got, you know, tasks that you're working or you're doing to, you

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know, grow your business or something, either work or

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building your business. And you could divide that in half or

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quarter or whatever, how much of that are you giving, serving,

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loving, absolutely enjoying work, you're just like, you're

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you're giving, you're you're loving, you're serving, it just

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feels so good. And how much of that are you doing what you

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don't like? And so now the reason that I have you do that

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is just for the purpose of awareness, and also conscious

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choice, right? So if you look at that, and you know, if fear is a

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small, tiny sliver, and you go, wow, I just don't even give it

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much thought all day long, okay, you're in a great space, you

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know, now, okay, how can I increase more of my giving and

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love, or maybe there's only a sliver for growing, I've really

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got to expand that, you know, I know that as I grow my business,

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my income will grow. And so you can kind of have a visual to

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say, is this look how you want it now, if fear is taking, you

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know, six hours of the day that it just keeps every hour, it

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comes to your mind, and at least 20 minutes of every hour, you're

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wrestling with this, you know, we know that we've got to look

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at, okay, how can I replace that perfect love casts out fear. And

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so now I need to be on a deliberate strategy. And what

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are some of the tools I can do? So for example, I will listen to,

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I'll listen to meditations on YouTube, that are really about

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about that, with with frequencies, right? Music

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frequencies.

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change our frequency. Of course, obviously, in prayer and praise

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and scripture, in affirmations, in declarations, in all of those

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type of things that are designed to really change your frequency,

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right. So, so what I really want to congratulate you on with

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that, Victoria, is the awareness that you've gotten since you've

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been doing all of this that it didn't take you under that you

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like you said, you reframed it, right? So, so you were able to

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say, okay, I'm not going to go into resistance. I'm not going

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to put a story like, wow, now I'm really gonna lack Wow, this

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really sucks. I'm really frustrated about this. I'm very

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unhappy. I'm very scared. You said, Okay, I get to be home.

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And you can look at it and say, wow, what's, what's the good

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here that I'm not seeing? Right? And, and, you know, what's the

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blessing here? What's the lesson? And, and God, how do you

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want me to use this time? How could I really multiply? And as

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I was sharing at the beginning of the call, you know, there's a

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whole lot of people, I'm really offering my coach certification

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for this very reason. There's a whole lot of people that did

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come home sick and say, you know, I think I'd like to be

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home a whole lot more. How can I create that? Right? And that's

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the purpose of, you know, the coach certification. So I want

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to congratulate, you know, you on, you know, on the reframe.

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And then, is there any area in that that you need support, or

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you have questions, or you'd like anything, ideas, support,

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prayers, anything around that? Or do you feel like, you know, I

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have the awareness, I handle it, I feel good?

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Yeah, um, I still need to, well, just to further me down the

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road, I still need to get with you and have you like, look at

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00:32:00.080 --> 00:32:03.240
my offer. I'm getting I was getting hung up on that. Like,

463
00:32:03.240 --> 00:32:06.680
is it too complicated? Is it too much? You know? Okay, that's a

464
00:32:06.680 --> 00:32:09.760
special lesson. Can I just do that by email?

465
00:32:09.920 --> 00:32:12.920
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, absolutely. That's, you know,

466
00:32:12.920 --> 00:32:17.720
that's, you know, the equation that I share of results mindset

467
00:32:17.720 --> 00:32:21.360
plus skill set plus action, right. So a lot of this that

468
00:32:21.360 --> 00:32:24.360
we're talking right now is mindset, but it also could very

469
00:32:24.360 --> 00:32:27.680
much be skill set that we need to look at, right. So skill set,

470
00:32:27.680 --> 00:32:31.960
meaning I'm I don't have an irresistible offer, or, you

471
00:32:31.960 --> 00:32:35.760
know, skill set might be I'm still, you know, not making it

472
00:32:35.760 --> 00:32:39.080
on the sales call or skill set might be I don't really know,

473
00:32:39.080 --> 00:32:42.800
you know, whatever it is. So So yeah, absolutely. Your offers

474
00:32:42.800 --> 00:32:46.600
should be irresistible. It should focus on benefits and not

475
00:32:46.600 --> 00:32:50.920
features. It should be simple. Um, you know, it should have

476
00:32:50.920 --> 00:32:56.560
language that's that's very dynamic. So good. Good. All

477
00:32:56.560 --> 00:33:00.200
right. And let's see someone else have their hand up. Let me

478
00:33:00.200 --> 00:33:05.520
look and find it. Okay, Kate. Um, love it. Sure. First of all,

479
00:33:05.520 --> 00:33:11.200
are you are you complete on that? Victoria? Yes. Okay, let's

480
00:33:11.200 --> 00:33:13.600
get let's give Victoria snap. Thank you for being willing.

481
00:33:13.920 --> 00:33:18.680
First, thank you for sharing that. And congratulations on on

482
00:33:18.680 --> 00:33:22.400
the on the reframe there. That was really good way to to do

483
00:33:22.400 --> 00:33:27.640
that. Okay. And, and, you know, one of the ways you can tell is,

484
00:33:27.880 --> 00:33:32.840
are you feeling heavy? Or are you feeling light? Okay, if

485
00:33:32.840 --> 00:33:37.560
you're feeling heavy, you're in some kind of lie, it's not in

486
00:33:37.560 --> 00:33:42.040
alignment with God. Okay, it's not in alignment with truth. If

487
00:33:42.040 --> 00:33:45.680
you're feeling very light, very expansive, you're in alignment

488
00:33:45.680 --> 00:33:51.360
with the truth of where you're at. So when you start to feel

489
00:33:51.360 --> 00:33:54.880
heavy, and you start to go, okay, where am I constricting?

490
00:33:54.920 --> 00:33:59.600
Okay, where am I blocking the flow? Where is their fear, then

491
00:33:59.600 --> 00:34:04.080
I need to do things to get back into the truth and to expand.

492
00:34:04.080 --> 00:34:07.720
And that's why I said at times, I just listen to a meditation,

493
00:34:07.720 --> 00:34:11.400
or I go into praise, or I go into worship, or I, I read, I,

494
00:34:11.400 --> 00:34:16.360
you know, and so that's what we do with with that. So you can

495
00:34:16.360 --> 00:34:21.159
always tell, am I am I contracting? Do I feel heavy? Or

496
00:34:21.159 --> 00:34:25.840
am I light, your body doesn't lie, your body tells you where

497
00:34:25.880 --> 00:34:31.239
where you're at. And it tells you something else, too. You

498
00:34:31.239 --> 00:34:34.080
noticed in the book that we read, the first thing that had

499
00:34:34.080 --> 00:34:38.719
to happen is he had to get out of our out of body. Because as

500
00:34:38.719 --> 00:34:41.360
soon as you're stuck in body, you're already condensed, you're

501
00:34:41.360 --> 00:34:44.280
making life about the physical and life is not about the

502
00:34:44.280 --> 00:34:47.600
physical life is energy, life is spiritual, you're a spiritual

503
00:34:47.600 --> 00:34:50.920
being having a physical experience, you are not your

504
00:34:50.920 --> 00:34:56.199
body. Right. So, you know, if I if you lost your hand and your

505
00:34:56.199 --> 00:35:00.040
arm, you're still you, you might not have a hand.

506
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.080
under an arm, but you're not your body if you lost both. And

507
00:35:04.080 --> 00:35:07.640
we've seen enough shark attacks, what whatever her name was that

508
00:35:07.640 --> 00:35:10.880
you know, lost her legs or lost her arms. We've seen you know,

509
00:35:10.880 --> 00:35:13.600
what's the wonderful speaker that has no legs and no arms,

510
00:35:13.600 --> 00:35:17.280
it gets up there and speaks to kids, right? So he's still

511
00:35:17.300 --> 00:35:20.040
right. So you could lose everything, your eyes, your

512
00:35:20.040 --> 00:35:24.160
ear, you're still you, you are not a body. And so we have to

513
00:35:24.160 --> 00:35:29.480
get out of body consciousness. And so sometimes when we get

514
00:35:29.480 --> 00:35:34.120
really stuck, then remember, I taught you during like, even the

515
00:35:34.120 --> 00:35:36.980
money we practice with radiating, we get out of our

516
00:35:36.980 --> 00:35:40.640
body, we've got to get expansive. And the truth is not

517
00:35:40.640 --> 00:35:44.840
stuck. Right? So another thing to think about is it heavy? Is

518
00:35:44.840 --> 00:35:49.480
it light? Am I really in my body? Okay, Kate, I'm ready. I

519
00:35:49.480 --> 00:35:49.760
mean,

520
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:55.800
that's good. Um, as I was just sitting here thinking about, you

521
00:35:55.800 --> 00:35:58.760
know, where my attention is, and what I'm resisting, or all that

522
00:35:58.760 --> 00:36:01.960
that's happening, just in the last, I would say in this last

523
00:36:01.960 --> 00:36:05.940
week, I've become a little bit too future focused on

524
00:36:05.940 --> 00:36:08.800
recognizing that I'm going to be traveling for a full month,

525
00:36:08.800 --> 00:36:12.160
December to January. And it's like, Oh, wait a second, how do

526
00:36:12.160 --> 00:36:15.760
I offer a four month program to, and I'm just starting to be

527
00:36:15.760 --> 00:36:20.760
like, um, like, I got up yesterday and actually spent

528
00:36:20.760 --> 00:36:24.440
time figuring out what I wanted to do, and was really clear. And

529
00:36:24.440 --> 00:36:27.360
let me do this masterclass. And let me do these group sessions

530
00:36:27.360 --> 00:36:30.520
this month and this month. And, and then I then this morning, it

531
00:36:30.520 --> 00:36:34.800
was back to like the foot on the brake, like, what are you doing?

532
00:36:34.800 --> 00:36:39.120
Like, I don't know, I just feel like there's some energy going

533
00:36:39.120 --> 00:36:43.880
to resistance, and there's energy going to worry and

534
00:36:43.880 --> 00:36:47.120
problem solving and trying to plan the future. And what I

535
00:36:47.120 --> 00:36:49.960
really want to do is just step back and take a winter break and

536
00:36:49.960 --> 00:36:53.600
just write and be by myself and not have my energy scattered.

537
00:36:53.600 --> 00:36:56.000
And so I'm just kind of all over the place right now.

538
00:36:56.840 --> 00:37:01.440
Okay, okay. I, I love that. So I want to be sure that I'm, I'm

539
00:37:01.440 --> 00:37:07.240
hearing you and, and really clarifying. So is the resistance

540
00:37:07.240 --> 00:37:11.760
that I'm hearing is that you're you're going against your own

541
00:37:11.800 --> 00:37:15.280
desires that in other words, what what your spirit and your

542
00:37:15.280 --> 00:37:18.160
soul is really crying for is I just want to take a couple

543
00:37:18.160 --> 00:37:23.080
months off. In which case we look at what's possible, right?

544
00:37:23.080 --> 00:37:27.640
The big question is what's possible. And, and, and also we

545
00:37:27.640 --> 00:37:33.040
look at, instead of either or we get more expansive, right? And

546
00:37:33.040 --> 00:37:36.720
so sometimes the heaviness is that we've made an either or

547
00:37:36.720 --> 00:37:41.120
either I can be working or I can be vacationing. Oh, well, maybe

548
00:37:41.240 --> 00:37:45.720
I can be doing both what's possible. Okay. And so when you

549
00:37:45.720 --> 00:37:48.880
get into a what's possible, if you're looking at what do I

550
00:37:48.880 --> 00:37:52.200
really desire? What's my heart really crying for? What's

551
00:37:52.240 --> 00:37:56.760
possible? Well, now there's like infinite, we're not collapsing

552
00:37:56.760 --> 00:38:01.280
it, there's infinite possibilities, right? So, um, as

553
00:38:01.280 --> 00:38:06.960
someone who has spent about 30 years building a business for

554
00:38:06.960 --> 00:38:11.040
fun on the road, um, meaning that I can build my business,

555
00:38:11.040 --> 00:38:16.200
like deliberately, long before COVID-2014 went for this

556
00:38:16.200 --> 00:38:20.560
business, I went 100% online, because I desire if I want to be

557
00:38:20.560 --> 00:38:22.680
in Belize, or I want to be in Tahoe, or I want to be in

558
00:38:22.680 --> 00:38:25.800
Europe, I'd like to build my business anywhere, all I need is

559
00:38:25.800 --> 00:38:31.280
a laptop, that's the beauty of technology, right? And so I for

560
00:38:31.280 --> 00:38:35.200
one have had a lot of fun before this being a founder of a

561
00:38:35.200 --> 00:38:38.000
network marketing company building my business from

562
00:38:38.040 --> 00:38:43.160
wherever I want to play. And I can take an hour out and do a

563
00:38:43.160 --> 00:38:46.040
call and then you know, go explore Paris or go explore

564
00:38:46.040 --> 00:38:49.360
Israel or go explore whatever I can, you know, I can do that.

565
00:38:49.440 --> 00:38:53.480
That's one possibility. The other possibility is I can

566
00:38:53.480 --> 00:38:58.080
create something that is almost totally online. And so then I

567
00:38:58.080 --> 00:39:01.680
come back and the coaching part is when I get back. The other

568
00:39:01.680 --> 00:39:08.360
possibility is I sell for January once I get back, and I

569
00:39:08.360 --> 00:39:11.880
take off that time. So they're like, I'm only throwing out

570
00:39:11.880 --> 00:39:16.680
there's possibilities. So get out of the either or get to

571
00:39:16.680 --> 00:39:20.280
what do I truly desire? Because the risk is desire? What do I

572
00:39:20.280 --> 00:39:24.680
truly desire? And then once you got what I desire, I desire to

573
00:39:24.680 --> 00:39:28.440
rest, I desire to not coach at all. Okay, then what's possible?

574
00:39:28.440 --> 00:39:32.200
How do I make that happen? Or I desire to have fun and build my

575
00:39:32.200 --> 00:39:36.000
business? What's possible? You see? So am I answering what

576
00:39:36.000 --> 00:39:36.600
you're asking?

577
00:39:36.600 --> 00:39:42.840
Yeah, yeah. It's just clarity that there's a lot more space

578
00:39:42.840 --> 00:39:46.480
for the both and if I let go of the resistance in the wrestling

579
00:39:47.440 --> 00:39:48.800
like that's taking up a lot.

580
00:39:49.960 --> 00:39:54.200
Yeah, yeah, it does. It does.

581
00:39:55.960 --> 00:39:59.920
And I think one thing that I wrestle with in making those

582
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:06.480
decisions, whether I allow both end or I feel like I have to pull back or whatever is, um,

583
00:40:06.480 --> 00:40:11.240
just boundaries around my mental energy. Like, like, I feel like I have to coach or right.

584
00:40:11.240 --> 00:40:16.560
I don't, I don't, I can't turn my coaching brain off in order to allow myself that. And

585
00:40:16.560 --> 00:40:20.800
I'm like, do I, so I just need to get clear on what is it I really desire there.

586
00:40:20.800 --> 00:40:26.160
Yeah. What do you desire? And also what are you making true? So if you say I can't coach

587
00:40:26.400 --> 00:40:32.080
and right, is that really true? I know a whole lot of people that coach and right. So is that

588
00:40:32.080 --> 00:40:37.440
really true? Right. That's just past experience, right? There you go. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. There you

589
00:40:37.440 --> 00:40:44.400
go. Okay. I think that's where that. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So now we get out of the, I can't do this

590
00:40:44.400 --> 00:40:52.160
and that, and we get into what would I love to do? What would give me bliss and how could I do that?

591
00:40:52.160 --> 00:40:56.960
How could I do both? Or how could I do neither? What did it, whatever it is that your heart's

592
00:40:56.960 --> 00:41:02.080
really, you know, what's the Holy spirit speaking to you? And then you get into, well, what's

593
00:41:02.080 --> 00:41:09.440
possible, what else is possible? Okay. And you know, um, this is another thing and I'm going

594
00:41:09.440 --> 00:41:16.240
to see if I can find it really quick. And as, and if anybody else has any feedback, it goes right to

595
00:41:16.240 --> 00:41:21.360
what you said that I read from this, from the same book. And this is so important for everybody that

596
00:41:21.360 --> 00:41:28.640
I'm going to just grab this really quick for you because, uh, what you said is so true about the

597
00:41:28.640 --> 00:41:39.520
mental energy and how, if we, um, if we don't stay in a place of beauty and love and enjoyment,

598
00:41:39.520 --> 00:41:47.440
there it is. Okay. So, um, so they said, um, here's the one I asked about, you know,

599
00:41:47.520 --> 00:41:54.240
a defeat. And, and he said, I don't recognize, you know, as defeat, it's interesting experiences

600
00:41:54.240 --> 00:42:00.080
in life. They're valuable stepping stones. A defeat is a condition which one must accept in

601
00:42:00.080 --> 00:42:05.760
order to give it reality. So there we go again, we talked about it. I accepted it becomes real.

602
00:42:05.760 --> 00:42:10.800
And he said, I refuse to give it reality by accepting totally different three books saying

603
00:42:10.800 --> 00:42:15.920
the same thing. Right. And so he said in my philosophy, I've written these words, defeat,

604
00:42:16.000 --> 00:42:21.520
I shall not know. It shall not touch me. I will meet it with true thinking, which is what we've

605
00:42:21.520 --> 00:42:27.200
been saying. What's the truth. Scripture says the truth, capital T will set you free. What's the

606
00:42:27.200 --> 00:42:36.720
truth. He said, re resisting it, um, will be my strengthening. So I want you to notice something

607
00:42:36.720 --> 00:42:43.040
right here. Um, where he talks about what that does to your body. There's a couple places,

608
00:42:43.040 --> 00:42:48.880
but this is one. And they said, what's the great passion of your life. He was being interviewed

609
00:42:49.600 --> 00:42:59.840
and he said, beauty, beauty. And he replied without hesitation. He said, beauty and worthiness

610
00:42:59.840 --> 00:43:07.600
to live life as a masterful interpreter of the light. And so the interviewer said,

611
00:43:07.600 --> 00:43:13.200
what do you mean by beauty? And he said, perfection of rhythm, balance, perfection of

612
00:43:13.200 --> 00:43:19.920
rhythm. Everything in nature is expressed by rhythmic waves of light. And so then he goes on,

613
00:43:19.920 --> 00:43:30.720
he says, um, our thoughts have to be balanced. He said, ugliness, fears, failure, and diseases

614
00:43:30.720 --> 00:43:40.320
arise from unbalanced thoughts and actions. Therefore think beauty always. If one desires

615
00:43:40.320 --> 00:43:47.520
vitality of body and happiness in his life philosophy, this principle is stated this way.

616
00:43:47.520 --> 00:43:54.880
I will see beauty and goodness in all things from all that is unlovely. Shall my vision be

617
00:43:54.880 --> 00:44:05.440
immune? And so, um, when, when you understand this, um, everything, when we just choose to

618
00:44:05.440 --> 00:44:10.880
see, like I said earlier, what's the good in this that I'm not seeing again, whatever we focus on

619
00:44:10.880 --> 00:44:15.200
expands. If you focus on lack, you're getting more focused on what you don't like you're getting

620
00:44:15.200 --> 00:44:20.400
more. If you focus on what's beautiful here, what's good here, what's lovely here, which,

621
00:44:20.400 --> 00:44:27.200
what does scripture say whatsoever is pure, lovely, beautiful. If there be any virtue,

622
00:44:27.200 --> 00:44:33.520
if there be any praise, fix your mind on these things, 2000 years ago, scripture was already

623
00:44:33.520 --> 00:44:41.440
saying, look, you must fix your mind on high frequency things. That's life. That's vitality.

624
00:44:41.440 --> 00:44:50.080
You see? And so resistance is literally that it's what happens. You know, if you're driving with the

625
00:44:50.080 --> 00:44:54.400
brakes on, you're going to wear off, you know, what happens if there's resistance, it slows

626
00:44:54.400 --> 00:44:59.760
everything down. What happens in resistance and water. Right. And, and so.

627
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:02.000
We really have to look at, you know,

628
00:45:02.000 --> 00:45:04.800
where am I not only giving my power away,

629
00:45:04.800 --> 00:45:07.360
but you're bringing up another very important point, Kate,

630
00:45:07.360 --> 00:45:09.800
where am I giving my life force?

631
00:45:09.800 --> 00:45:11.760
Where am I giving my mental energy?

632
00:45:11.760 --> 00:45:14.880
Where am I giving my strength away?

633
00:45:15.880 --> 00:45:19.200
And, you know, when I was in Reno on Tuesday

634
00:45:19.200 --> 00:45:22.320
at the Tapestry Women's Network,

635
00:45:22.320 --> 00:45:23.760
there's a nonprofit there,

636
00:45:23.760 --> 00:45:28.000
a gentleman that's had a nonprofit for like 20 some years

637
00:45:28.000 --> 00:45:32.800
and Soulless Tree, and he is working with kids

638
00:45:32.800 --> 00:45:35.760
that have been a witness to suicide,

639
00:45:35.760 --> 00:45:39.000
or like he goes to the schools when there's violence

640
00:45:39.000 --> 00:45:43.000
or whatever, and he's the one really helping the kids, okay?

641
00:45:43.000 --> 00:45:47.040
And what he teaches them, I've never forgotten,

642
00:45:47.040 --> 00:45:52.040
he teaches them to pour more life into every moment.

643
00:45:53.600 --> 00:45:55.960
And I've been meditating on that for two days.

644
00:45:55.960 --> 00:45:59.840
Also put the word love, but imagine your life

645
00:45:59.840 --> 00:46:02.280
not only is taking staying in the now

646
00:46:02.280 --> 00:46:05.920
to a whole nother level, not only stay in the present,

647
00:46:05.920 --> 00:46:08.080
so I'm not in the past, I'm not in the future,

648
00:46:08.080 --> 00:46:11.640
and in the now, how can I pour more life

649
00:46:11.640 --> 00:46:13.120
and love into the now?

650
00:46:13.120 --> 00:46:15.600
Can I see the love?

651
00:46:15.600 --> 00:46:16.760
Can I see the beauty?

652
00:46:16.760 --> 00:46:20.440
Can I take the time to watch the sunset?

653
00:46:20.440 --> 00:46:21.600
Can I read the poetry?

654
00:46:21.600 --> 00:46:23.480
Can I put on the beautiful music?

655
00:46:23.480 --> 00:46:24.680
Can I smell?

656
00:46:24.680 --> 00:46:26.640
Can I bring beauty into my home?

657
00:46:26.640 --> 00:46:29.320
Can I bring beauty into my work?

658
00:46:29.320 --> 00:46:31.360
Can I see beauty in my work?

659
00:46:31.360 --> 00:46:34.960
Can I do, and this is life to the body,

660
00:46:34.960 --> 00:46:37.200
life to the soul, yeah?

661
00:46:37.200 --> 00:46:38.040
Yeah.

662
00:46:38.040 --> 00:46:39.240
Is that helpful?

663
00:46:39.240 --> 00:46:40.080
Absolutely.

664
00:46:40.920 --> 00:46:44.440
Yeah, that's, I'm already trying to reframe here,

665
00:46:44.440 --> 00:46:45.280
so it's good.

666
00:46:46.280 --> 00:46:48.440
Well, let's give Kate a big snap,

667
00:46:48.440 --> 00:46:50.200
because that was really useful for all of us.

668
00:46:50.200 --> 00:46:51.880
See how we all win?

669
00:46:51.880 --> 00:46:53.880
Julie just gave you a big heart.

670
00:46:53.880 --> 00:46:55.040
See how we all win?

671
00:46:55.040 --> 00:46:57.200
As we bring this forth, we're all struggling.

672
00:46:57.200 --> 00:46:59.160
We're all fellow sojourners.

673
00:46:59.160 --> 00:47:01.000
It's true for all of us.

674
00:47:01.000 --> 00:47:02.840
And so as one gets lifted up,

675
00:47:02.840 --> 00:47:05.880
we all together get lifted up.

676
00:47:05.880 --> 00:47:08.360
So, okay.

677
00:47:08.360 --> 00:47:10.960
Who else is going to be courageous

678
00:47:10.960 --> 00:47:13.280
and come forth and share?

679
00:47:13.280 --> 00:47:15.120
What do you need support, prayers?

680
00:47:15.120 --> 00:47:16.680
Where are you giving your power?

681
00:47:16.680 --> 00:47:18.240
What questions do you have?

682
00:47:18.240 --> 00:47:19.080
What are you learning?

683
00:47:19.080 --> 00:47:21.640
What is this stirring up for you?

684
00:47:21.640 --> 00:47:24.920
And then Kate, go ahead and take your hand down.

685
00:47:24.920 --> 00:47:27.640
And there we go.

686
00:47:27.640 --> 00:47:29.520
All right, that way I can see.

687
00:47:29.520 --> 00:47:32.600
Okay, looks like Mary Ann raised her hand.

688
00:47:32.600 --> 00:47:33.840
There you are, beautiful.

689
00:47:33.840 --> 00:47:34.680
All right.

690
00:47:36.840 --> 00:47:40.040
I have been giving my power over to,

691
00:47:40.040 --> 00:47:42.880
and I just realized this as we're sitting here

692
00:47:42.880 --> 00:47:43.720
talking about it,

693
00:47:43.720 --> 00:47:45.920
and I can actually feel this happiness

694
00:47:45.920 --> 00:47:47.520
because I've been doing it.

695
00:47:47.520 --> 00:47:49.760
And when I go on social media,

696
00:47:49.800 --> 00:47:53.960
I compare myself to the other coaches.

697
00:47:53.960 --> 00:47:55.160
Oh, what are they doing?

698
00:47:55.160 --> 00:47:59.640
Oh, well, maybe I'm not doing it right,

699
00:47:59.640 --> 00:48:01.000
or I haven't even started,

700
00:48:01.000 --> 00:48:03.320
or I don't have enough experience.

701
00:48:03.320 --> 00:48:08.240
And so, I mean, I'm catching those thoughts,

702
00:48:08.240 --> 00:48:13.240
but just right now I realized that I've been doing that.

703
00:48:13.600 --> 00:48:15.440
Yeah, well, good.

704
00:48:15.440 --> 00:48:16.920
First of all, good awareness,

705
00:48:16.920 --> 00:48:19.240
even that awareness is the first step

706
00:48:19.720 --> 00:48:21.000
to transformation.

707
00:48:21.000 --> 00:48:25.080
So, obviously scripture says to compare with one another

708
00:48:25.080 --> 00:48:26.680
is not wise.

709
00:48:26.680 --> 00:48:31.680
And that's the reason, and we all do it, right?

710
00:48:32.400 --> 00:48:35.040
Especially social media has been terrible for that.

711
00:48:35.040 --> 00:48:37.880
And it's really rough on the young people even more so,

712
00:48:37.880 --> 00:48:40.400
because you would think looking at social media

713
00:48:40.400 --> 00:48:41.960
that every single young person

714
00:48:41.960 --> 00:48:45.360
is living as a multimillionaire, right?

715
00:48:45.360 --> 00:48:47.880
And they're all in debt and not true.

716
00:48:47.880 --> 00:48:49.680
So, social media is creating

717
00:48:49.680 --> 00:48:51.400
all kinds of interesting things.

718
00:48:52.280 --> 00:48:55.880
It's really interesting to just look at everybody

719
00:48:55.880 --> 00:49:00.880
as your teacher and everybody as your student.

720
00:49:01.680 --> 00:49:03.960
In other words, you're not thinking of yourself

721
00:49:03.960 --> 00:49:06.640
as scripture says more highly than you ought,

722
00:49:06.640 --> 00:49:09.280
because you've got a lot to learn from everybody.

723
00:49:09.280 --> 00:49:12.040
And also everybody has a lot to learn.

724
00:49:12.040 --> 00:49:14.120
That's why I love the Prosper Leader membership.

725
00:49:14.120 --> 00:49:17.720
We're all learning from each other.

726
00:49:18.560 --> 00:49:20.200
And that's the beautiful thing.

727
00:49:20.200 --> 00:49:22.040
I think I've shared this with you,

728
00:49:22.040 --> 00:49:23.880
but I had an experience once,

729
00:49:23.880 --> 00:49:25.880
it's probably been 20 years ago now,

730
00:49:25.880 --> 00:49:27.800
but I've never forgotten it.

731
00:49:27.800 --> 00:49:29.280
Because I was young,

732
00:49:29.280 --> 00:49:32.280
I was founder of a network marketing company.

733
00:49:32.280 --> 00:49:36.600
And there was a dentist, a very successful dentist,

734
00:49:36.600 --> 00:49:38.920
lived in the nicest of mansions.

735
00:49:38.920 --> 00:49:41.400
I was still really growing and young,

736
00:49:41.400 --> 00:49:44.040
and it was very successful.

737
00:49:44.040 --> 00:49:49.040
And he became a distributor with our company.

738
00:49:49.400 --> 00:49:54.400
And then there was another one that was a mom

739
00:49:54.920 --> 00:49:58.120
and working from home and became a distributor.

740
00:49:58.120 --> 00:49:59.800
And they had both.

741
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:04.040
scheduled appointments with me kind of back to back.

742
00:50:04.040 --> 00:50:09.040
And so what was fascinating is how they compared each other

743
00:50:09.640 --> 00:50:11.960
and made the other person like the other person

744
00:50:11.960 --> 00:50:13.360
had it better.

745
00:50:13.360 --> 00:50:16.480
And so the woman came and said,

746
00:50:16.480 --> 00:50:18.760
you know, I'm not like the dentist.

747
00:50:18.760 --> 00:50:22.060
I don't have just infinite files of people I can call.

748
00:50:22.060 --> 00:50:24.680
I don't have built-in patients, you know,

749
00:50:24.680 --> 00:50:27.220
that I could bring into this business,

750
00:50:27.220 --> 00:50:29.560
this network marketing nutrition business.

751
00:50:29.560 --> 00:50:32.820
So I'm really at a disadvantage, you know, to build this.

752
00:50:32.820 --> 00:50:34.380
Cause I don't have patients.

753
00:50:34.380 --> 00:50:38.260
I don't have files of, you know, a big Rolodex.

754
00:50:38.260 --> 00:50:42.020
And then the doctor came in to meet with me and he said,

755
00:50:42.020 --> 00:50:44.500
I'm not like these moms that can be home all day,

756
00:50:44.500 --> 00:50:48.140
making calls and have so much time, right?

757
00:50:48.140 --> 00:50:51.580
So, you know, it's this whole saying of the grass

758
00:50:51.580 --> 00:50:53.280
is always greener on the other side.

759
00:50:53.280 --> 00:50:55.460
We always think someone else has it better

760
00:50:55.460 --> 00:50:57.460
and that they're further ahead

761
00:50:57.480 --> 00:50:58.920
and that they're doing it better

762
00:50:58.920 --> 00:51:00.960
and struggling less and making more.

763
00:51:00.960 --> 00:51:04.400
And the truth is probably we're all, you know,

764
00:51:04.400 --> 00:51:07.300
struggling, we're all growing, we're all learning.

765
00:51:07.300 --> 00:51:12.040
And so you're doing beautiful and, you know,

766
00:51:12.040 --> 00:51:14.680
appreciate you bringing the awareness.

767
00:51:14.680 --> 00:51:15.720
How about you guys?

768
00:51:15.720 --> 00:51:18.580
This is something you probably all can comment on.

769
00:51:18.580 --> 00:51:20.500
Let's do this one as a group.

770
00:51:20.500 --> 00:51:25.500
So, you know, how many of you have compared

771
00:51:25.500 --> 00:51:29.660
and how many of you maybe have found a solution

772
00:51:29.660 --> 00:51:30.940
to compare less?

773
00:51:30.940 --> 00:51:34.680
Can you share with Marianne, what have you done?

774
00:51:34.680 --> 00:51:36.760
Or are you stuck in that same thing?

775
00:51:36.760 --> 00:51:41.760
Or have you found some ways to do less of that?

776
00:51:42.080 --> 00:51:44.680
Anybody wanna share for everybody?

777
00:51:48.240 --> 00:51:50.700
Do you find yourself comparing?

778
00:51:50.700 --> 00:51:53.600
Have you gotten a breakthrough when it comes to comparing?

779
00:51:54.600 --> 00:51:55.900
And how did you do that?

780
00:52:00.220 --> 00:52:01.860
Hello, it's Kristen.

781
00:52:01.860 --> 00:52:03.180
Hi Kristen.

782
00:52:03.180 --> 00:52:05.420
Hello, I'm tired tonight,

783
00:52:05.420 --> 00:52:10.260
but I would say I have been in that place of comparison.

784
00:52:10.260 --> 00:52:13.620
I think for myself, the biggest thing is that

785
00:52:13.620 --> 00:52:18.620
I had to just reconcile that my journey is my journey

786
00:52:20.260 --> 00:52:21.860
and I'm not somebody else.

787
00:52:21.880 --> 00:52:24.640
And I was listening to something recently

788
00:52:24.640 --> 00:52:26.180
and I don't even know who, where,

789
00:52:26.180 --> 00:52:28.520
but it was just kind of talking about like,

790
00:52:28.520 --> 00:52:30.720
we can look at everybody else and say,

791
00:52:30.720 --> 00:52:33.280
oh, well, they already have the business.

792
00:52:33.280 --> 00:52:36.200
They already, you know, have X, Y, and Z.

793
00:52:36.200 --> 00:52:38.960
But realizing that the gift that God has given me

794
00:52:38.960 --> 00:52:40.720
is the gift that he's given me.

795
00:52:40.720 --> 00:52:43.360
And that it doesn't matter how many of us they are,

796
00:52:43.360 --> 00:52:44.960
the people who are attracted to you,

797
00:52:44.960 --> 00:52:47.280
you're who, they're gonna be attracted to you.

798
00:52:47.280 --> 00:52:48.360
Yes, yes.

799
00:52:48.360 --> 00:52:51.180
And that you can do your thing differently.

800
00:52:51.200 --> 00:52:53.560
And I went through that because I used to sit there

801
00:52:53.560 --> 00:52:56.960
and I did all these programs and all this good stuff.

802
00:52:56.960 --> 00:53:00.280
And then I kind of got despondent because of course,

803
00:53:00.280 --> 00:53:02.440
like, oh, this can happen and this can happen.

804
00:53:02.440 --> 00:53:03.920
And then I started doing it.

805
00:53:03.920 --> 00:53:06.080
And I remember I was on another coaching call

806
00:53:06.080 --> 00:53:08.920
with another coach that I was working with.

807
00:53:08.920 --> 00:53:11.720
And one day he said, I got on and I was like,

808
00:53:11.720 --> 00:53:14.360
God, I need somebody to pour into me

809
00:53:14.360 --> 00:53:17.400
because I feel like I give so much in all these circles.

810
00:53:17.400 --> 00:53:19.680
And he said, you don't need another program

811
00:53:19.700 --> 00:53:21.100
because the things that you're learning

812
00:53:21.100 --> 00:53:23.500
is not how God is gonna move through you

813
00:53:23.500 --> 00:53:25.320
in this particular season.

814
00:53:25.320 --> 00:53:27.940
And that was the greatest breakthrough that I had

815
00:53:27.940 --> 00:53:30.300
because again, I was looking at,

816
00:53:30.300 --> 00:53:32.700
oh my gosh, I'm not far enough, I'm not this.

817
00:53:32.700 --> 00:53:36.860
And I remember one day in my quiet time during prayer,

818
00:53:36.860 --> 00:53:39.680
I was like, God, I don't feel like I'm far enough ahead.

819
00:53:39.680 --> 00:53:42.100
And he says, you're where you're supposed to be

820
00:53:42.100 --> 00:53:45.060
because there's things that you need to learn on the journey.

821
00:53:45.060 --> 00:53:46.940
And so don't keep, because again,

822
00:53:46.940 --> 00:53:49.560
if I keep looking at what everybody else is doing,

823
00:53:50.400 --> 00:53:53.340
I'm a rubberneck and I might have an accident, right?

824
00:53:53.340 --> 00:53:56.340
Where I'm going, it's my journey.

825
00:53:56.340 --> 00:53:59.500
And one of the things that in my weekly calls with Julie

826
00:53:59.500 --> 00:54:01.300
and I told her this last weekend,

827
00:54:01.300 --> 00:54:03.620
I love it because she says all the time,

828
00:54:03.620 --> 00:54:06.020
the time it takes is the time it takes.

829
00:54:06.020 --> 00:54:08.940
And so I can look at, yes, I should be further,

830
00:54:08.940 --> 00:54:12.060
I could be further, I could be doing this, that and the third

831
00:54:12.060 --> 00:54:16.020
and right now the reality is I'm where I'm supposed to be

832
00:54:16.020 --> 00:54:18.460
and what I'm doing is where I'm supposed to be.

833
00:54:18.480 --> 00:54:21.120
So that's helped me tremendously.

834
00:54:21.120 --> 00:54:21.960
I love that.

835
00:54:21.960 --> 00:54:24.360
Thank you for sharing that.

836
00:54:24.360 --> 00:54:25.200
Thank you, Kristen.

837
00:54:25.200 --> 00:54:27.520
Let's give her a snap.

838
00:54:27.520 --> 00:54:28.720
Yeah.

839
00:54:28.720 --> 00:54:33.040
So anyone else have feedback or does that,

840
00:54:33.040 --> 00:54:34.720
do you feel complete on that?

841
00:54:34.720 --> 00:54:36.520
Marianne, how do you feel on that?

842
00:54:38.640 --> 00:54:40.360
See if I can see where you went.

843
00:54:40.360 --> 00:54:41.200
Okay.

844
00:54:41.200 --> 00:54:42.020
Where'd you go?

845
00:54:42.020 --> 00:54:42.860
There you are.

846
00:54:44.400 --> 00:54:46.660
I loved what she said.

847
00:54:47.640 --> 00:54:51.040
How is God gonna move through you?

848
00:54:51.040 --> 00:54:54.000
And putting the focus back on God

849
00:54:54.000 --> 00:54:59.000
and how he gave me the idea, he put people on my path.

850
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:06.360
I'm, you know, you know, I'm focusing on the wrong thing. But

851
00:55:06.400 --> 00:55:10.120
I love that. I love what she said about how, how God is going

852
00:55:10.120 --> 00:55:14.440
to move through you. So that's helpful to me a lot. Wonderful.

853
00:55:15.120 --> 00:55:19.840
Wonderful. Thank you. Thank you. Yes, Julie.

854
00:55:21.320 --> 00:55:25.440
I love that to the shift of the focus, like what you're just

855
00:55:25.440 --> 00:55:29.160
saying, Mary, about, you know, putting it back on God. And I've

856
00:55:29.160 --> 00:55:34.560
been, I've been diving into the feeling spirit alive, never die.

857
00:55:34.760 --> 00:55:36.640
Since you brought up, I've written that I'm reading like,

858
00:55:37.040 --> 00:55:39.880
almost all the books, I think that you suggested, but it's

859
00:55:39.880 --> 00:55:42.640
been awesome, because I've been stuck. And I feel like I've just

860
00:55:42.640 --> 00:55:45.520
been really just feeding on it. So it's been great. But I've

861
00:55:45.520 --> 00:55:49.160
been up and down motions, which is also great. So and after

862
00:55:49.160 --> 00:55:52.080
operating by design, but just in that focus, a word that he gave

863
00:55:52.080 --> 00:55:56.000
me this past week was gaze. And I looked it up in the 1828

864
00:55:56.280 --> 00:55:59.240
dictionary. And it was just so powerful, how I didn't even

865
00:55:59.240 --> 00:56:01.640
realize what it was, but it was like in time of prayer. And I

866
00:56:01.640 --> 00:56:05.280
just was like, you know, fix my gate, put my gaze on your, you

867
00:56:05.280 --> 00:56:08.000
know, don't go to the left, don't go to the right. But, you

868
00:56:08.000 --> 00:56:11.040
know, we're just moving forward. And every moment moving forward,

869
00:56:11.040 --> 00:56:14.320
it's the step by step together, you know, ordered our steps. And

870
00:56:14.760 --> 00:56:21.680
so one of the I broke competition in like 2007. That's

871
00:56:21.680 --> 00:56:25.600
when it was like, that was it. And one of the phrases in case

872
00:56:25.600 --> 00:56:28.920
it helps is that I like I keep in front of my eyes is complain

873
00:56:28.960 --> 00:56:34.080
equals remain. So it's whatever I think is outside of where Oh,

874
00:56:34.080 --> 00:56:38.040
they have a blah, blah. It's like, that's just it. It helps

875
00:56:38.040 --> 00:56:41.000
me quickly just say nope, not going there and keeping that

876
00:56:41.000 --> 00:56:45.280
gaze on moving forward, you know, and, and also just putting

877
00:56:45.280 --> 00:56:48.840
up anything before your site around, you know, maybe

878
00:56:48.840 --> 00:56:51.440
wherever you personal like visiting boards and stuff, but

879
00:56:51.440 --> 00:56:54.680
just words that are powerful, like when the vision appears,

880
00:56:54.720 --> 00:56:57.640
or when the vision is clear, the vote, the results will appear or

881
00:56:57.640 --> 00:57:02.080
stay focused in these things that feed us. Because what goes

882
00:57:02.080 --> 00:57:07.000
in our eyes and ears is what's keeping our mind focused or, you

883
00:57:07.000 --> 00:57:11.920
know, driven, driving towards where we're going. So yeah, not

884
00:57:11.920 --> 00:57:16.920
competing, or comparing it. I don't know what the word would

885
00:57:16.920 --> 00:57:18.720
be. But just not competing is, is a

886
00:57:19.160 --> 00:57:25.120
like, I love that. I love that. realizing the divine order to

887
00:57:25.120 --> 00:57:29.400
your life, you're not behind, you're not ahead, you are

888
00:57:29.440 --> 00:57:35.600
exactly where you are called to be right now. And that allows

889
00:57:35.600 --> 00:57:41.240
you to be present. God was showing me today, and I actually

890
00:57:41.240 --> 00:57:44.840
wrote it in my journal. If you write on a piece of paper, if

891
00:57:44.840 --> 00:57:49.960
you write the word nowhere, and then if you break it up between

892
00:57:50.000 --> 00:57:55.680
the W and the H, it becomes now here. And so if you want to move

893
00:57:55.680 --> 00:57:58.880
from nowhere, God was showing me this, as I was journaling, if

894
00:57:58.880 --> 00:58:03.040
you want to move from feeling like you're nowhere, to you are

895
00:58:03.040 --> 00:58:12.000
now, here, simply separate the now and realize. And so then you

896
00:58:12.000 --> 00:58:14.560
are in a place where transformation can happen,

897
00:58:14.560 --> 00:58:19.800
because you're now here. And now you're in the place to say, God,

898
00:58:20.040 --> 00:58:23.480
what are you doing? You know, God is doing a new thing. It

899
00:58:23.480 --> 00:58:27.520
says, Will you not see? Will you not perceive? Right? Will you

900
00:58:27.520 --> 00:58:34.280
not be aware of what is in this holy moment in this holy

901
00:58:34.280 --> 00:58:40.680
instant? What is right here that God is, is wanting to do. And so

902
00:58:40.680 --> 00:58:45.160
when that's happening, you know, another another thing that

903
00:58:45.160 --> 00:58:51.360
just hit me is, when you're tempted to compare, another

904
00:58:51.360 --> 00:58:56.920
powerful thing is the power of blessing, and the power of

905
00:58:56.920 --> 00:59:02.640
celebrating. So you see someone having success. And if you turn

906
00:59:02.640 --> 00:59:05.760
that into a negative, you're keeping the success from

907
00:59:05.760 --> 00:59:10.920
yourself. So if you if you look at that person's success, and

908
00:59:10.920 --> 00:59:14.360
you go look at that, and you even send them a congratulations,

909
00:59:14.360 --> 00:59:17.320
or I really celebrate you, or I love how you had that

910
00:59:17.320 --> 00:59:21.760
breakthrough. You remember the boomerang effect, you can't give

911
00:59:21.760 --> 00:59:24.520
anything that doesn't come back to you. And you can't keep

912
00:59:24.520 --> 00:59:28.840
anything that you don't get, right. And so remember, we've

913
00:59:28.840 --> 00:59:31.800
talked about the flow and activating the flow. So the flow

914
00:59:31.800 --> 00:59:34.880
gets constipated, if I look and go, oh, they're better, and I'm

915
00:59:34.880 --> 00:59:37.480
behind the flow gets constipated. If I look at it,

916
00:59:37.480 --> 00:59:41.800
and I go look at that coach, look at that I celebrate. And

917
00:59:41.800 --> 00:59:45.080
so I speak blessings, I might send a prayer, I might send

918
00:59:45.080 --> 00:59:48.280
blessings and say, I'm just so blessed by your success.

919
00:59:48.280 --> 00:59:51.240
Congratulations. And you actually get into the place

920
00:59:51.240 --> 00:59:55.160
where you you feel their success boomerang effect, you're feeling

921
00:59:55.160 --> 00:59:59.440
your own success, you're giving you're activating the flow.

922
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:06.160
then instead of being constipated. And the other thing is to also have it be encouraging to you.

923
01:00:06.720 --> 01:00:13.440
You know, so if you see a coach that is, you know, making 2 million a year or 5 million a year or 10

924
01:00:13.440 --> 01:00:18.000
million or whatever it is for you, a six figure, you see a coach that has a six figure income,

925
01:00:18.640 --> 01:00:25.840
then you can say, wow, God, you're no respecter of people. That's so awesome. You did that for

926
01:00:25.840 --> 01:00:30.000
her. That's so awesome you're doing. And I know if you'll do it for them, you'll do it for me

927
01:00:30.000 --> 01:00:37.600
because you're no respecter of people. So I remember it started with the gifts of the Holy

928
01:00:37.600 --> 01:00:42.960
Spirit when God really started teaching me about the gifts of the Holy Spirit. And I met a man and

929
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he would just like prophesy and it would happen like within 24 hours, within 48 hours. And he'd

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put his hands on someone's ears and he'd be able to hear and limbs would grow out. And I was seeing

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all these miracles. And I remember saying to the Lord, I desire that. And so it wasn't feeling less

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than it was. It was making me hungry because he was being salt. He was being light. I was thirsty.

933
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I desired more of that. And so you're going, wow, you know, instead of me feeling less than I go,

934
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wow, God, you bless this person. I celebrate. I celebrate that their coaching just hit, you know,

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a hundred thousand. I celebrate that. It just hit a million or I celebrate. They just got their

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first five clients or their first 500 or their group has 50 million, whatever it is. I celebrate

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that. And I know you're no respecter of people and, and Lord, I would like that. I'm celebrating

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with them. I'm looking at that. And I say, I desire that. I would like that. Thank you for

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showing me that showing me it's possible. If it's been done, it can be done. Thank you for showing

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it's possible. And so now you're in a very expansive state of not jealousy, not, you know,

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whatever, but you are in a place of, of, of generosity. And those, by the way, are two very

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different planes of existence. The plane of competition is a different plane than the

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spiritual plane of, of lavish generosity, lavish generosity. And so it's again, what are we talking

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about this whole call? Everything we've talked about could be summed up in one word and that's

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reframe, right? Just change the meaning you're attached to it. So you change the meaning that's

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not competition. That's an example. That's someone for me to celebrate. That's God showing me it can

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be done. That's my inspiration. That's, you know, so what can I learn? How can that person be my

948
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teacher? What can't, you know what did they do that I could emulate, you know, if it's really,

949
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truly working, don't get caught up trying a million different things, but so anyway, does, does that,

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does that help? Is that, is that useful? I gotta go. I can't see you. Where's Marianne?

951
01:02:59.040 --> 01:03:05.440
Yeah, there you are. Is that, is that helpful? Yeah, there's a, there's a lot there. I'm taking

952
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my focus off of, you know, everybody knows more than me. I didn't realize it till tonight.

953
01:03:14.880 --> 01:03:22.160
It, I, it was there, but it wasn't, the spotlight wasn't on that. So yeah. Thank you ladies for

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helping me. Yeah, thank you for bringing that forward and, and, and what a gift that you just

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were for, for everybody. It's a reminder for, for everyone and you know, I had a, another experience

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with a woman and she was going on and on and on about the things that were, were wrong and I

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started asking her some questions. What's right about the situation? What's good about the

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situation? What is it that you love about the situation? What's the blessing? What's the lesson?

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You know, are you, are you speaking more about what you desire or about what you don't desire

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01:04:02.720 --> 01:04:09.360
because whatever you focus on expands and are you speaking on what's present and the abundance or

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are you speaking about lack and she says, oh my gosh, you just gave me the awareness.

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I've been focusing on what I don't want and so I'm creating more of it. So again, you know,

963
01:04:21.680 --> 01:04:28.320
all of that is the same as far as that. Oh, I love all of this. Okay. What's coming up for you?

964
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Anybody feeling like something's just really bubbling up that you would like to share?

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Um, Google trust the slow work of God. Ooh, that looks very good. Thank you. Um,

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um, I gotta make sure I write that down too. I don't know that one. So that's beautiful in the

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chat. You guys are getting, um, trust the slow work of God. Okay. If I say something about that

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really quick. Sure. My spiritual director.

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just shared this with me today.

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And I'm like, oh my gosh,

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I've got to frame that and read that every morning.

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It's powerful.

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So I won't take time, but look it up.

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Wonderful, wonderful.

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I love it.

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I love it.

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You know, this goes to being sure

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that you're starting your morning powerfully every morning

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with some good reading, some really high quality,

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some meaty, meaty, meaty reading, okay?

981
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I know I've been recommending a lot.

982
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Some of you are reading, you know,

983
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The Feelings Buried Alive.

984
01:05:29.840 --> 01:05:32.120
Some of you are reading The Science of Getting Rich.

985
01:05:32.120 --> 01:05:33.480
Some of you, you know,

986
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there's so many really great books to study

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and to focus on, which also, you know,

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I shared a lot about this.

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I won't go over it because it's in the money seminar.

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Okay, what else is coming up for you guys?

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Has this been a helpful format, by the way?

992
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I would love your feedback on this.

993
01:06:01.520 --> 01:06:03.480
I really felt led to do that.

994
01:06:03.480 --> 01:06:07.000
So Kristen's giving a hard, you guys can even unmute.

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Tell me what you like or don't like about this format.

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01:06:15.840 --> 01:06:17.160
I'm loving it.

997
01:06:17.160 --> 01:06:18.640
Okay, all right, I love it.

998
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And I love the feedback.

999
01:06:20.040 --> 01:06:23.720
And, you know, Kate, I'm so glad you're part of this.

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And if you guys haven't gotten to know Kate,

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she is so wonderful about really helping process,

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especially trauma and emotion that's stuck in the body.

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And she's just really good at, you know,

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she comes and brings forth all these things where,

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you know, where she's feeling stuck in some ways

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and we're able to process,

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but she's got so much value that she brings

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and each one of you do.

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And so thank you so much for being part of this group.

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And each of you are uniquely designed

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and with unique gifts and with unique understanding

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and unique revelations and unique experiences.

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And there's no accident that you're here.

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You are what makes this collective great.

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You really are what makes this fabulous.

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And so I want each and every one of you to know

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that you're so important that you're here.

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And I admire your courage when you come forth.

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I know for some of you, you're introverts.

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It's uncomfortable to come forth.

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You know, thank you for stepping up

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and being willing to share.

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You really matter.

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You're very significant and you're loved.

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And for every breakthrough that you get,

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everybody gets a breakthrough.

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And I love that.

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So I just want you to know that I, for one,

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look forward to seeing you guys

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and I celebrate you so much.

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01:07:53.960 --> 01:07:58.360
You're so beautiful and love the work that you're doing,

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both within yourself and in your communities

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and with your clients.

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So thank you for being you,

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truly from the bottom of my heart.

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I just love, love, love each one of you.

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All right.

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So I think that we're at the bottom of the hour

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and I think we are well-fed.

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How are you feeling?

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Are you all feeling pretty well-fed?

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And something that you can begin applying right away

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and making a change or a reframe

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or something to go to the next level.

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Of course, I will see you Saturday morning

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with the Q&A for God, money and me.

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So review, see what questions,

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what applications to get the most out of that.

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If you're listening to this live,

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if you're not, nevermind that.

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And I'm gonna stop the recording

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and then I'll just, off the recording,

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just have a final closing with you guys.

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So let me stop that.