WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:06.000 And good morning, good afternoon, good evening. 2 00:00:06.000 --> 00:00:12.240 I've got to collectively address each and every one of you beautiful people on this call. 3 00:00:12.240 --> 00:00:14.440 I'm so excited to be here. 4 00:00:14.440 --> 00:00:22.380 This, of course, is the part two, the Q&A, the interaction time from the God, Money, 5 00:00:22.380 --> 00:00:27.420 and Me masterclass that we did last week. 6 00:00:27.420 --> 00:00:32.780 And I know it probably felt, and I got some of your feedback, felt like you were drinking 7 00:00:32.780 --> 00:00:33.780 from a fire hose. 8 00:00:33.780 --> 00:00:39.340 Some of you said, hey, you do realize this could be a 10 or 12 week course. 9 00:00:39.340 --> 00:00:40.340 Absolutely. 10 00:00:40.340 --> 00:00:41.340 I realize that. 11 00:00:41.340 --> 00:00:43.300 I love doing that. 12 00:00:43.300 --> 00:00:50.620 And yet I felt led to just put it all there for you, knowing that you could go back and 13 00:00:50.620 --> 00:00:55.020 piece it and listen little by little by little and apply it. 14 00:00:55.020 --> 00:00:58.700 So I apologize if you got a little tired. 15 00:00:58.700 --> 00:01:04.819 And for those of you that were energized by the amount of information, good for you too. 16 00:01:04.819 --> 00:01:07.500 I know we all learn differently. 17 00:01:07.500 --> 00:01:14.660 So today, the idea is to be able to just really get any questions you have, or maybe any situations 18 00:01:14.660 --> 00:01:20.060 where you say, well, I keep running up against this, or I keep thinking this, or I keep experiencing 19 00:01:20.060 --> 00:01:21.060 this. 20 00:01:21.060 --> 00:01:23.980 Great time to bring it to us. 21 00:01:23.980 --> 00:01:27.140 How can I do this? 22 00:01:27.140 --> 00:01:33.500 And also, I would love for you to share, because several of you I've talked to in between, 23 00:01:33.500 --> 00:01:36.300 and you've said, wow, that was such a breakthrough. 24 00:01:36.300 --> 00:01:38.180 I haven't stopped thinking about it. 25 00:01:38.180 --> 00:01:39.180 I noticed this. 26 00:01:39.180 --> 00:01:40.820 I'm doing this. 27 00:01:40.820 --> 00:01:44.540 That also blesses everybody. 28 00:01:44.940 --> 00:01:53.380 So circulation, I've talked about that, flow is a huge part of having abundance. 29 00:01:53.380 --> 00:02:03.220 When we stop having flow, when we get constipated, coagulated, then the flow stops. 30 00:02:03.220 --> 00:02:10.979 And so part of you sharing, asking, giving, blessing, whatever it is, that's activating 31 00:02:10.979 --> 00:02:14.140 the flow for all of us and for you. 32 00:02:14.740 --> 00:02:21.020 I encourage you, even if you are more introverted and don't like to be front and center, I know 33 00:02:21.020 --> 00:02:27.540 when I get on my coaching calls the first couple of times, for me to speak up, it was 34 00:02:27.540 --> 00:02:28.540 freaky. 35 00:02:28.540 --> 00:02:30.140 I get just as nervous as you guys do. 36 00:02:30.140 --> 00:02:31.260 I was sweating bullets. 37 00:02:31.260 --> 00:02:32.860 I couldn't talk. 38 00:02:32.860 --> 00:02:40.980 But I had myself do it anyway, because I understood that life does not withhold, we withhold. 39 00:02:41.020 --> 00:02:47.260 And as we withhold, that's what causes that constipation, that coagulation. 40 00:02:47.260 --> 00:02:50.460 There's talk out there about recession. 41 00:02:50.460 --> 00:02:52.540 That's exactly what happens. 42 00:02:52.540 --> 00:02:57.140 This message, this belief happens, everybody pulls in, everybody stops spending, everybody 43 00:02:57.140 --> 00:03:01.900 gets scared, everybody gets scared, and voila, we create that. 44 00:03:01.900 --> 00:03:06.060 And so the opposite of that is creating circulation and flow. 45 00:03:06.060 --> 00:03:07.060 So that's what we're going to do. 46 00:03:07.060 --> 00:03:08.060 We're going to circulate. 47 00:03:08.060 --> 00:03:09.060 We're going to flow. 48 00:03:09.060 --> 00:03:10.060 We're going to answer questions. 49 00:03:10.140 --> 00:03:11.820 We're going to open and bless you in prayer. 50 00:03:11.820 --> 00:03:13.660 That'll be my first flow. 51 00:03:13.660 --> 00:03:19.100 And then just pop up your hand, click on the reactions button, and I'll call on you, and 52 00:03:19.100 --> 00:03:22.780 then you can unmute yourself and ask or share. 53 00:03:22.780 --> 00:03:24.260 All right. 54 00:03:24.260 --> 00:03:32.220 Oh, Father God, we just thank you for this day of life, the very gift of life, and the 55 00:03:32.220 --> 00:03:39.380 gift of your spirit that lives in us, the all sufficient, all knowing, all present, 56 00:03:39.700 --> 00:03:43.660 all giving spirit that we are the temple of. 57 00:03:43.660 --> 00:03:45.380 I give thanks for that. 58 00:03:45.380 --> 00:03:49.500 I give thanks that rivers of living water flow out of our belly and they never stop 59 00:03:49.500 --> 00:03:50.860 flowing. 60 00:03:50.860 --> 00:03:56.340 I give thanks for the mind of Christ to connect to infinite intelligence, infinite wisdom, 61 00:03:56.340 --> 00:04:01.140 infinite understanding, that all is infinite. 62 00:04:01.140 --> 00:04:07.300 And so I give thanks for this time that what needs to come forth for breakthrough, I pray 63 00:04:07.300 --> 00:04:12.100 for incredible breakthrough for every single person listening to this and to the replay 64 00:04:12.100 --> 00:04:18.300 for years to come, that whoever hears the sound of my voice, whoever hears the sound 65 00:04:18.300 --> 00:04:23.380 of those speaking in this, whoever hears what the spirit is saying today, that they will 66 00:04:23.380 --> 00:04:30.900 experience transformation, the renewing of the mind, and ultimately total breakthrough. 67 00:04:30.900 --> 00:04:34.980 I pray for rivers of abundance to flow. 68 00:04:34.980 --> 00:04:42.340 I ask for generosity, a spirit of generosity to rise up, a spirit of giving, a spirit of 69 00:04:42.340 --> 00:04:47.100 creating, a spirit of understanding and awareness. 70 00:04:47.100 --> 00:04:50.380 Have your way, Holy Spirit, on this call. 71 00:04:50.380 --> 00:04:52.220 Move in mighty ways. 72 00:04:52.220 --> 00:04:53.220 Surprise us. 73 00:04:53.220 --> 00:04:54.220 Surprise us with joy. 74 00:04:54.220 --> 00:04:55.700 Surprise us with power. 75 00:04:55.700 --> 00:04:57.380 We just, we are open. 76 00:04:57.380 --> 00:04:58.540 We are receptive. 77 00:04:58.540 --> 00:05:00.020 We ask that you open our spirit. 78 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:07.280 ears to hear what you are saying for the season. For each and every one of us. I ask in Jesus 79 00:05:07.280 --> 00:05:17.780 name. Amen. All right, let me see who has got some hands raised. I'm not seeing it yet 80 00:05:17.780 --> 00:05:24.960 so I will trust that you will step forward and share. There we go. Let's start with Denise 81 00:05:24.960 --> 00:05:31.360 go ahead and unmute yourself Denise and it's great to see you on the call. Welcome. I know 82 00:05:31.360 --> 00:05:38.960 you got some breakthroughs and cool things are happening. You are just oh my gosh an answer to 83 00:05:38.960 --> 00:05:45.680 prayer for me on so many levels and you know how much I love and appreciate you and the gifts what 84 00:05:45.680 --> 00:05:52.640 you create what you share you just I'm so grateful for you. You know and not only just the role 85 00:05:52.640 --> 00:06:01.200 model that you serve for me but I'm sure like so many of us on this call. So my breakthrough was 86 00:06:01.840 --> 00:06:07.360 first of all it's kind of like when you go shopping for a car and you think oh I want a red 87 00:06:07.360 --> 00:06:12.880 Honda and then all of a sudden what do you see red Hondas like everywhere. So here we have a 88 00:06:12.880 --> 00:06:22.560 conversation about my relationship and my perspective with money and oh my gosh I saw 89 00:06:23.120 --> 00:06:30.080 red Honda money signs everywhere. I even had my daughter come right out and blatantly say 90 00:06:30.080 --> 00:06:35.680 gosh mother I really I really I think she even used the words I really dislike the way that 91 00:06:35.680 --> 00:06:46.720 you talk about money. Whoa. And I was like whoa what what me no right. So two things that came out 92 00:06:46.720 --> 00:06:54.960 was number one obviously I am really speaking feeling projecting lack everywhere everywhere 93 00:06:54.960 --> 00:07:00.720 so much so that other people recognize it even when I'm not. Wow. Which I've got to say is 94 00:07:00.720 --> 00:07:07.680 embarrassing extremely humbling and like wow that's like a two by four. The other thing that 95 00:07:07.680 --> 00:07:20.480 was really huge for me was realizing how much I had forgotten that my job my business everything 96 00:07:20.480 --> 00:07:26.480 is not the source of my abundance and I have been like oh I've got to do this I've got to do that 97 00:07:26.480 --> 00:07:30.560 and it's been like I need to do this I need to do that and I'm sure that God 98 00:07:31.760 --> 00:07:38.080 rolls his eyes at how righteous I am so often thinking I need to do this it's all about me and 99 00:07:38.080 --> 00:07:46.960 I have the power and so that really came up a lot and so Sunday morning after this workshop 100 00:07:48.080 --> 00:07:55.760 I had spent time thinking okay you know what is it that that you want me to do and oh my gosh 101 00:07:55.760 --> 00:08:01.920 I got a download of not just a course that I had been working on right but a whole year's 102 00:08:01.920 --> 00:08:08.400 progression worth of courses I kid you not and so God lovingly shifted me of like you know 103 00:08:08.400 --> 00:08:13.440 you've been so dead set on creating this one course to be the source of some added income 104 00:08:14.160 --> 00:08:20.400 when I've got this entire one year's long membership site for you that will bless people 105 00:08:20.400 --> 00:08:27.840 repeatedly and expand your niche of not only students but their parents I was just so blown 106 00:08:27.840 --> 00:08:39.919 away by how much larger God has how much more than my little thing that I'm focusing on and 107 00:08:39.919 --> 00:08:47.120 trying to squish and and control and maneuver and and manipulate to make it work when it's 108 00:08:47.120 --> 00:08:55.680 not about that and so it was just a real literally come home to Jesus moment of oh yeah 109 00:08:56.240 --> 00:09:03.120 oh yeah I know that I totally forgotten that I knew that so wow thank you so much for sharing 110 00:09:03.120 --> 00:09:08.960 that that's that's incredible you you did a beautiful job right now of summarizing like 111 00:09:08.960 --> 00:09:17.040 the major major points you know and um and I think that that is so great that you shared that 112 00:09:17.040 --> 00:09:23.520 and that you began applying it and that you're already seeing results and and I think that's so 113 00:09:23.520 --> 00:09:31.280 phenomenal uh to to understand several things first of all you got the awareness right um and 114 00:09:31.280 --> 00:09:38.240 awareness is always the first step to transformation and so the awareness that first of all our mindset 115 00:09:38.240 --> 00:09:43.760 even that to be aware that we have a mindset and then you know through the quizzes and the things 116 00:09:43.760 --> 00:09:51.920 we did like which mindset am I walking in and then to realize how much that mindset plays out 117 00:09:52.720 --> 00:10:00.000 in our life and how much infinite potentiality God is infinite potentiality 118 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:05.000 you know, life, God is not withholding, okay? 119 00:10:05.000 --> 00:10:07.400 God so loved the world, 120 00:10:07.400 --> 00:10:08.800 and we're gonna talk about how money 121 00:10:08.800 --> 00:10:11.200 and the energy of love are one in the same, 122 00:10:11.200 --> 00:10:12.040 I'll come back to that, 123 00:10:12.040 --> 00:10:16.120 but God so loved the world that he gave, right? 124 00:10:16.120 --> 00:10:21.120 And so when we stop coming from the idea 125 00:10:21.380 --> 00:10:23.720 that what we need is outside of ourselves 126 00:10:23.720 --> 00:10:26.160 and that I have to get something, 127 00:10:26.160 --> 00:10:28.200 I have to, I gotta get, 128 00:10:28.200 --> 00:10:30.440 and then we get all uptight, 129 00:10:30.440 --> 00:10:33.040 I gotta get more money, I gotta get more time, 130 00:10:33.040 --> 00:10:36.120 I gotta get clients, I gotta get money, right? 131 00:10:36.120 --> 00:10:41.120 And we get in this opposite mode of contraction, right? 132 00:10:42.040 --> 00:10:44.800 As opposed to understanding 133 00:10:44.800 --> 00:10:47.960 that God who lives in us is all sufficient, 134 00:10:47.960 --> 00:10:50.000 the Holy Spirit is all sufficient. 135 00:10:50.000 --> 00:10:51.760 You know, throughout history, 136 00:10:51.760 --> 00:10:55.160 the concept of all sufficiency has existed, 137 00:10:55.160 --> 00:10:58.140 and we've lost, like you said, we forget, 138 00:10:58.140 --> 00:11:00.060 we forget the truth 139 00:11:00.060 --> 00:11:02.920 that my God will supply all my needs 140 00:11:02.920 --> 00:11:05.140 according to his riches, 141 00:11:05.140 --> 00:11:07.220 that the cattle on a thousand hills, 142 00:11:07.220 --> 00:11:08.700 that the gold and the silver, 143 00:11:08.700 --> 00:11:11.460 that all that I could possibly need 144 00:11:11.460 --> 00:11:13.300 has already been supplied, 145 00:11:13.300 --> 00:11:15.700 and so that I lack nothing. 146 00:11:15.700 --> 00:11:17.980 And yet the interesting thing about illusion 147 00:11:17.980 --> 00:11:20.700 or belief, when we believe it, 148 00:11:20.700 --> 00:11:23.700 even if it's not real, even if it's not true, 149 00:11:23.700 --> 00:11:26.420 the minute we buy into it, right, 150 00:11:26.420 --> 00:11:28.460 and we absorb it and we make it real, 151 00:11:28.460 --> 00:11:31.520 it becomes our reality. 152 00:11:31.520 --> 00:11:36.100 So I often think of two extremes, okay? 153 00:11:36.100 --> 00:11:39.220 I think about the prodigal son, 154 00:11:39.220 --> 00:11:41.740 the prodigal son, and you know, 155 00:11:41.740 --> 00:11:44.780 he was the son, and scripturally, 156 00:11:44.780 --> 00:11:47.480 it's a metaphor for the father, God, and us, 157 00:11:47.480 --> 00:11:49.460 and there's actually two sons. 158 00:11:49.460 --> 00:11:52.820 So the father is God, creator God, 159 00:11:52.820 --> 00:11:55.220 and the two sons are really two mindsets 160 00:11:55.260 --> 00:11:57.180 that we can have. 161 00:11:57.180 --> 00:12:00.420 And so one prodigal son thinks 162 00:12:00.420 --> 00:12:04.780 that he's going to find what feels so empty in him. 163 00:12:04.780 --> 00:12:08.220 He's going to find the joy, the love, 164 00:12:08.220 --> 00:12:10.200 because we're all not really going for money, 165 00:12:10.200 --> 00:12:11.540 we're going for an experience. 166 00:12:11.540 --> 00:12:13.020 The only reason we care about money 167 00:12:13.020 --> 00:12:15.620 is because we want a feeling, we want an experience. 168 00:12:15.620 --> 00:12:17.380 That's what we're really going for. 169 00:12:17.380 --> 00:12:19.220 And so the way you get set free 170 00:12:19.220 --> 00:12:21.700 when you realize you already can have that experience 171 00:12:21.700 --> 00:12:24.020 with or without money, and then the money comes. 172 00:12:24.540 --> 00:12:26.460 So he's going after an experience. 173 00:12:26.460 --> 00:12:29.700 And so he goes into, you know, wine, women, song, 174 00:12:29.700 --> 00:12:32.320 the same thing that Solomon, the richest king did, 175 00:12:32.320 --> 00:12:34.540 always go out to try to have experience. 176 00:12:34.540 --> 00:12:36.960 Well, if I have, you know, 100 wives, 177 00:12:36.960 --> 00:12:37.940 maybe I'll feel better. 178 00:12:37.940 --> 00:12:39.740 No, actually, I think that was a mistake. 179 00:12:39.740 --> 00:12:40.740 I feel worse, right? 180 00:12:40.740 --> 00:12:43.340 If I have 1,000, you know, orchards, 181 00:12:43.340 --> 00:12:44.380 maybe I'll feel better. 182 00:12:44.380 --> 00:12:45.740 Oh, that was a lot of work. 183 00:12:45.740 --> 00:12:46.980 I don't think I'm feeling the good 184 00:12:46.980 --> 00:12:47.980 I thought I was going to get. 185 00:12:47.980 --> 00:12:50.340 If I just get every car, every Lambo, 186 00:12:50.340 --> 00:12:51.420 maybe I'll feel better. 187 00:12:51.420 --> 00:12:52.720 No, I feel more empty, 188 00:12:52.720 --> 00:12:55.560 and I got to have a place to keep it and all that, right? 189 00:12:55.560 --> 00:12:57.160 So we're going after this feeling. 190 00:12:57.160 --> 00:12:59.920 And so the prodigal son goes after this feeling 191 00:12:59.920 --> 00:13:03.800 until it says he comes to the end of himself. 192 00:13:03.800 --> 00:13:05.560 And this is what has to happen. 193 00:13:05.560 --> 00:13:09.940 When we make money our source, 194 00:13:09.940 --> 00:13:11.960 instead of, you know, seeing that it comes 195 00:13:11.960 --> 00:13:15.640 from the one source through channels. 196 00:13:15.640 --> 00:13:18.720 And so you go and try to have money 197 00:13:18.720 --> 00:13:20.080 be your source of happiness, 198 00:13:20.080 --> 00:13:22.140 money be your source of security, 199 00:13:22.460 --> 00:13:23.500 money be your source of power. 200 00:13:23.500 --> 00:13:25.980 And think about for yourself, 201 00:13:25.980 --> 00:13:28.820 where have you given money power, right? 202 00:13:28.820 --> 00:13:32.860 So do you think that money is what makes you secure? 203 00:13:32.860 --> 00:13:35.100 Do you think money is what makes you safe? 204 00:13:35.100 --> 00:13:36.700 Do you think money is what makes you, 205 00:13:36.700 --> 00:13:39.180 have you given your power for all of that, right? 206 00:13:39.180 --> 00:13:40.860 And so he does that. 207 00:13:40.860 --> 00:13:42.420 He goes to try to find love. 208 00:13:42.420 --> 00:13:45.660 He tries to find fun, adventure, whatever, find himself. 209 00:13:45.660 --> 00:13:48.780 You know, we only get pieces of that in scripture. 210 00:13:48.780 --> 00:13:53.580 And he ends up, you know, completely desolate and empty. 211 00:13:53.580 --> 00:13:58.460 And he's in the pig pen and he's eating pig food. 212 00:13:58.460 --> 00:14:00.980 And it says an interesting thing. 213 00:14:00.980 --> 00:14:03.220 I think it's in the Amplified translation. 214 00:14:03.220 --> 00:14:06.820 It says he would have been content to live on, 215 00:14:06.820 --> 00:14:09.300 the pigs were eating carob pods 216 00:14:09.300 --> 00:14:12.180 and he would have been content to live on that. 217 00:14:12.180 --> 00:14:16.120 It says, but they could not satisfy. 218 00:14:16.120 --> 00:14:17.780 And there's the truth of it all. 219 00:14:17.780 --> 00:14:19.620 The wine couldn't satisfy. 220 00:14:19.620 --> 00:14:21.460 The women couldn't satisfy. 221 00:14:21.460 --> 00:14:25.580 The every step of it couldn't satisfy because it can't. 222 00:14:25.580 --> 00:14:28.340 That satisfaction, that love, that joy, that peace, 223 00:14:28.340 --> 00:14:30.700 that contentment comes from within, right? 224 00:14:30.700 --> 00:14:31.940 And so couldn't satisfy. 225 00:14:31.940 --> 00:14:36.580 And it says he came to himself, came to himself. 226 00:14:36.580 --> 00:14:38.220 And it says he returned. 227 00:14:38.220 --> 00:14:39.860 He came up with a big talk 228 00:14:39.860 --> 00:14:42.940 and he still had a wrong mindset where he said, 229 00:14:42.940 --> 00:14:44.420 you know, I'll go back to the father, 230 00:14:44.420 --> 00:14:45.900 but I'll just be his slave 231 00:14:45.940 --> 00:14:47.860 because even his slaves, his servants 232 00:14:47.860 --> 00:14:49.660 live better than I'm living. 233 00:14:49.660 --> 00:14:52.940 So he changed from one mindset of lack. 234 00:14:52.940 --> 00:14:55.620 And we do this sometimes, we go in stages. 235 00:14:55.620 --> 00:14:57.460 He goes from the mindset of lack 236 00:14:57.460 --> 00:14:59.560 and he goes into the mindset of a servant. 237 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:02.400 Now, not a good servant in the sense of, oh, I 238 00:15:02.400 --> 00:15:04.440 have so much abundant, I'm going to serve. 239 00:15:04.440 --> 00:15:06.320 We're all called to be that kind of servant. 240 00:15:06.320 --> 00:15:08.440 The greatest leader is the greatest servant. 241 00:15:08.440 --> 00:15:11.640 But I'm talking a slave mentality, right? 242 00:15:11.640 --> 00:15:13.200 And so he goes back. 243 00:15:13.200 --> 00:15:17.640 And the truth is that the father greets him on his way, 244 00:15:17.640 --> 00:15:20.320 as he did with you, Denise, on your way. 245 00:15:20.320 --> 00:15:22.600 You don't even have to arrive. 246 00:15:22.600 --> 00:15:25.560 But simply being open and receptive and turning 247 00:15:25.560 --> 00:15:28.280 and going, wait, wait, wait, you just reminded me. 248 00:15:28.280 --> 00:15:31.040 OK, God, you are source. 249 00:15:31.040 --> 00:15:32.920 OK, there's many channels. 250 00:15:32.920 --> 00:15:35.880 I don't have to link into one channel. 251 00:15:35.880 --> 00:15:37.760 My job is not my source. 252 00:15:37.760 --> 00:15:39.840 My clients are not my source. 253 00:15:39.840 --> 00:15:42.080 My business is not my source. 254 00:15:42.080 --> 00:15:45.240 My social security, the government is not my source. 255 00:15:45.240 --> 00:15:46.720 It's one of the channels. 256 00:15:46.720 --> 00:15:50.360 And there's infinite channels, how God can provide for us. 257 00:15:50.360 --> 00:15:55.280 And the interesting thing is, we are a channel. 258 00:15:55.280 --> 00:15:58.600 And so humanity becomes a channel. 259 00:15:58.600 --> 00:15:59.880 And I'll come back to that. 260 00:15:59.880 --> 00:16:01.280 So he goes to the father. 261 00:16:01.280 --> 00:16:04.720 And the father has to remind him who he is. 262 00:16:04.720 --> 00:16:08.240 And so he's barefoot when he shows up. 263 00:16:08.240 --> 00:16:09.920 The father puts shoes on his feet 264 00:16:09.920 --> 00:16:14.440 to show you are not a slave. 265 00:16:14.440 --> 00:16:15.320 You've been set free. 266 00:16:15.320 --> 00:16:17.520 You're not a slave. 267 00:16:17.520 --> 00:16:20.160 And he puts a robe on him. 268 00:16:20.160 --> 00:16:22.680 You are not a beggar. 269 00:16:22.680 --> 00:16:24.440 And he puts a ring on his finger. 270 00:16:24.440 --> 00:16:28.640 And the ring really reminds him, you have authority. 271 00:16:28.640 --> 00:16:30.440 You have authority. 272 00:16:30.440 --> 00:16:34.000 When we're made in the image of God, we were given dominion. 273 00:16:34.000 --> 00:16:36.880 We were given authority. 274 00:16:36.880 --> 00:16:42.880 And so he has to be brought back to remember who he is. 275 00:16:42.880 --> 00:16:46.160 And interestingly enough, the one that didn't leave, 276 00:16:46.160 --> 00:16:49.760 the other son that's still there, he didn't leave. 277 00:16:49.760 --> 00:16:53.440 But he was operating with a different kind of victim 278 00:16:53.440 --> 00:16:56.320 mindset, an entitled mindset. 279 00:16:56.320 --> 00:16:58.360 So he was doing works. 280 00:16:58.360 --> 00:17:01.800 If I just work hard enough, so some of you are in luck. 281 00:17:01.800 --> 00:17:02.960 Some of you are in the works. 282 00:17:02.960 --> 00:17:04.599 If I just work hard enough, work. 283 00:17:04.599 --> 00:17:06.720 If I work harder, work, work, work. 284 00:17:06.720 --> 00:17:08.680 Somehow I'm going to get my needs met. 285 00:17:08.680 --> 00:17:12.119 Somehow I'm going to get what it is that I desire. 286 00:17:12.119 --> 00:17:17.640 And so when that other son sees the son that went away 287 00:17:17.640 --> 00:17:20.119 and spent all the inheritance and he's got the ring 288 00:17:20.119 --> 00:17:21.480 and he's got the robe, of course, 289 00:17:21.480 --> 00:17:24.480 he's just consumed with jealousy and envy. 290 00:17:24.480 --> 00:17:26.800 And that's what happens when you're in that mentality. 291 00:17:26.800 --> 00:17:28.920 Now you're not celebrating. 292 00:17:28.920 --> 00:17:32.000 You're not celebrating the ones you see that you're 293 00:17:32.000 --> 00:17:33.440 comparing yourself with. 294 00:17:33.440 --> 00:17:36.240 Instead, you're comparing and seeing yourself behind them 295 00:17:36.240 --> 00:17:38.080 and seeing them better and seeing yourself 296 00:17:38.080 --> 00:17:40.120 help instead of celebrating. 297 00:17:40.120 --> 00:17:41.040 Wow. 298 00:17:41.040 --> 00:17:43.480 If they've done it, that means I can do it. 299 00:17:43.480 --> 00:17:45.760 If it's been done, that means it can be done. 300 00:17:45.760 --> 00:17:48.360 If there's coaches making a million, I can make a million. 301 00:17:48.360 --> 00:17:50.600 Coaches making 10 million, I can make 10 million. 302 00:17:50.600 --> 00:17:54.160 Coaches making 100 million, I can make 100 million. 303 00:17:54.160 --> 00:17:57.720 So instead of celebrating and going, congratulations, 304 00:17:57.720 --> 00:17:59.440 look, you're opening the way for all of us 305 00:17:59.440 --> 00:18:01.560 to see what's possible. 306 00:18:01.560 --> 00:18:04.520 Tony Robbins has opened the way as one of the greatest coaches. 307 00:18:04.520 --> 00:18:06.040 What's possible as a coach? 308 00:18:06.040 --> 00:18:07.720 What can you create? 309 00:18:07.720 --> 00:18:08.960 What can you do? 310 00:18:08.960 --> 00:18:11.920 How can you buy an island and make the island better? 311 00:18:11.920 --> 00:18:14.800 How can you change and create transformation in a day 312 00:18:14.800 --> 00:18:16.520 and charge a million dollars? 313 00:18:16.520 --> 00:18:17.640 What can you do? 314 00:18:17.640 --> 00:18:18.960 How many lives can you touch? 315 00:18:19.000 --> 00:18:21.960 And of course, with him, he understands flow and giving. 316 00:18:21.960 --> 00:18:25.760 So he's always giving to the hungry, for example. 317 00:18:25.760 --> 00:18:28.520 OK, because he's driven by that because he was hungry. 318 00:18:28.520 --> 00:18:33.520 So the other brother, instead of celebrating, 319 00:18:33.520 --> 00:18:34.800 my brother's back. 320 00:18:34.800 --> 00:18:36.640 We're back united as a family. 321 00:18:36.640 --> 00:18:37.200 We're a whole. 322 00:18:37.200 --> 00:18:38.120 No, no, no, no. 323 00:18:38.120 --> 00:18:40.640 He's jealous and says, wait a minute. 324 00:18:40.640 --> 00:18:42.600 Don't you see what I've done? 325 00:18:42.600 --> 00:18:44.080 And he's got this entitlement. 326 00:18:44.080 --> 00:18:45.640 You haven't given me a cow. 327 00:18:45.640 --> 00:18:47.240 You haven't given me. 328 00:18:47.240 --> 00:18:50.680 And the father's answer is very revealing to all of us. 329 00:18:50.680 --> 00:18:52.720 Son, don't you know? 330 00:18:52.720 --> 00:18:54.680 All that I have is yours. 331 00:18:54.680 --> 00:18:58.400 You're always with me and everything I have is yours. 332 00:18:58.400 --> 00:19:01.080 And this is the lavish, you know, 333 00:19:01.080 --> 00:19:05.160 nature that God by nature, who God is, 334 00:19:05.160 --> 00:19:06.360 what do we know about God? 335 00:19:06.360 --> 00:19:08.240 God is love. 336 00:19:08.240 --> 00:19:11.280 We know that God is love, right? 337 00:19:11.280 --> 00:19:14.600 God is ever giving. 338 00:19:14.600 --> 00:19:18.760 God so loved the world that he gave. 339 00:19:18.760 --> 00:19:23.200 And so when you come to the understanding of that, 340 00:19:23.200 --> 00:19:29.040 that there is so much love and that it's in you 341 00:19:29.040 --> 00:19:31.040 and that love gives. 342 00:19:31.040 --> 00:19:33.560 OK, so the example that came to me 343 00:19:33.560 --> 00:19:36.680 as I was praying about today and what came to me 344 00:19:36.680 --> 00:19:39.680 and I was in the shower was to get 345 00:19:39.680 --> 00:19:42.320 an understanding of this, right? 346 00:19:42.360 --> 00:19:47.760 Because, by the way, the energy of money and welcome, Martha. 347 00:19:47.760 --> 00:19:50.680 And go ahead and mute yourself if you can. 348 00:19:50.680 --> 00:19:56.560 The energy of money and the energy of love are the same 349 00:19:56.560 --> 00:19:58.200 and they are energy. 350 00:19:58.200 --> 00:19:59.960 So sometimes if it. 351 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:04.440 helps you just to think in terms of love, right? 352 00:20:04.440 --> 00:20:07.960 And so think about this, you know, 353 00:20:07.960 --> 00:20:10.680 if you look at love, like I've got to go get love 354 00:20:10.680 --> 00:20:12.260 and many people have been that way. 355 00:20:12.260 --> 00:20:14.180 I've got to find love. 356 00:20:14.180 --> 00:20:17.780 I'm gonna go try to extract it from another person 357 00:20:17.780 --> 00:20:19.220 because I feel empty. 358 00:20:19.220 --> 00:20:21.100 I'm gonna go try to get love. 359 00:20:21.100 --> 00:20:24.060 It's the same energy as money when you start looking at it. 360 00:20:24.060 --> 00:20:25.420 So I'm gonna do everything. 361 00:20:25.420 --> 00:20:29.460 I'm gonna try to just strive and I'm gonna work hard 362 00:20:29.520 --> 00:20:31.360 and I'm gonna find a man or a woman 363 00:20:31.360 --> 00:20:33.400 and I'm gonna find someone to give me love 364 00:20:33.400 --> 00:20:35.160 and I'm gonna try to get love 365 00:20:35.160 --> 00:20:38.400 when all the time love was inside of yourself 366 00:20:38.400 --> 00:20:42.240 and countless individuals came to the realization, 367 00:20:42.240 --> 00:20:45.640 wow, once I tapped into, I am love, I have love, 368 00:20:45.640 --> 00:20:47.520 there's no limit to my love, 369 00:20:47.520 --> 00:20:50.160 you begin to have this expansive quality 370 00:20:50.160 --> 00:20:55.160 that you can give love and as you give, you receive back. 371 00:20:55.200 --> 00:20:57.560 And so love comes back, you see? 372 00:20:57.560 --> 00:20:59.320 And so I want you to think about love. 373 00:21:00.180 --> 00:21:04.180 Let's say that my daughter's dog had puppies, okay? 374 00:21:04.180 --> 00:21:07.860 So let's just say, we all, many of us love animals, 375 00:21:07.860 --> 00:21:10.300 so we'll start there, no trauma there, hopefully, right? 376 00:21:10.300 --> 00:21:14.740 So let's just say you've got this love for the dog, right? 377 00:21:14.740 --> 00:21:16.580 And you're just giving all your love to the dog. 378 00:21:16.580 --> 00:21:18.900 The dog is your companion, the dog loves you, 379 00:21:18.900 --> 00:21:21.180 you're just giving love, love, love, right? 380 00:21:21.180 --> 00:21:22.980 Do you have any less love 381 00:21:22.980 --> 00:21:25.540 because you gave your love to a dog? 382 00:21:25.540 --> 00:21:27.140 Do you have any less love? 383 00:21:27.160 --> 00:21:28.320 Were you diminished? 384 00:21:28.320 --> 00:21:31.240 When you gave love, were you diminished? 385 00:21:31.240 --> 00:21:33.280 Put in the chat, yes or no? 386 00:21:33.280 --> 00:21:36.400 When you give love, are you diminished, right? 387 00:21:36.400 --> 00:21:39.760 Or do you still have the same amount of love, okay? 388 00:21:39.760 --> 00:21:41.560 Now, the dog has puppies, 389 00:21:41.560 --> 00:21:42.960 now you've got these cute little puppies, 390 00:21:42.960 --> 00:21:45.620 let's say there's three or four of these adorable puppies, 391 00:21:45.620 --> 00:21:48.840 so now you've got like five dogs to love, right? 392 00:21:48.840 --> 00:21:50.480 And you just pick up the little puppy 393 00:21:50.480 --> 00:21:51.920 and you just kiss on it, right? 394 00:21:51.920 --> 00:21:53.240 If some of you kiss dogs, right? 395 00:21:53.240 --> 00:21:56.120 And you just hold it up to you and you play with it 396 00:21:56.140 --> 00:21:58.460 and you rub it and you go to the other puppy 397 00:21:58.460 --> 00:22:00.180 and you give love to that puppy. 398 00:22:00.180 --> 00:22:02.680 And so now you're loving five puppies, 399 00:22:02.680 --> 00:22:05.140 do you have any less love? 400 00:22:05.140 --> 00:22:07.340 Were you diminished in any way? 401 00:22:08.540 --> 00:22:12.740 Okay, can you get a visual of this way, right? 402 00:22:12.740 --> 00:22:14.420 And so, good, Kim says, 403 00:22:14.420 --> 00:22:16.540 "'No, I believe love extracts more love. 404 00:22:16.540 --> 00:22:18.040 "'Actually, I have more love 405 00:22:18.040 --> 00:22:20.580 "'because I felt expanded,' Denise says." 406 00:22:20.580 --> 00:22:22.060 Yes, you see? 407 00:22:22.060 --> 00:22:26.280 And so when you begin to understand the energy of love, 408 00:22:26.280 --> 00:22:29.960 and we did the exercise about radiating love, 409 00:22:29.960 --> 00:22:34.400 then you can understand, yes, love begins to flow, 410 00:22:34.400 --> 00:22:36.440 you're activating, you're circulating, 411 00:22:36.440 --> 00:22:38.560 love that, thank you, okay? 412 00:22:38.560 --> 00:22:42.160 And so what happens is you're becoming more expanded, 413 00:22:42.160 --> 00:22:44.640 you actually have more love. 414 00:22:44.640 --> 00:22:47.400 So what would happen if you began to see money 415 00:22:47.400 --> 00:22:50.440 the same way, that it's energy? 416 00:22:50.460 --> 00:22:55.460 And you began to see that money is service energy, right? 417 00:22:55.500 --> 00:23:00.180 And so you began to look at, how can I add value? 418 00:23:00.180 --> 00:23:02.220 How can I circulate more? 419 00:23:02.220 --> 00:23:05.500 So you desire more to come back to you, you're giving. 420 00:23:05.500 --> 00:23:07.340 What does scripture say? 421 00:23:07.340 --> 00:23:10.420 It says, give, right? 422 00:23:10.420 --> 00:23:15.260 And it says, give, and it shall be given back to you. 423 00:23:15.260 --> 00:23:16.100 What? 424 00:23:16.100 --> 00:23:20.040 Multiplied, pressed down, overflowing, 425 00:23:21.040 --> 00:23:24.960 shall men give unto your bosom. 426 00:23:24.960 --> 00:23:27.340 Now, what happens is you start to get the revelation, 427 00:23:27.340 --> 00:23:32.000 men, mankind, you start getting the revelation, right? 428 00:23:32.000 --> 00:23:35.420 That we are all channels for each other. 429 00:23:36.440 --> 00:23:40.680 We're all channels for each other, let that sink in. 430 00:23:40.680 --> 00:23:44.320 So you are a channel, you're allowing God 431 00:23:44.340 --> 00:23:49.340 to flow through you to bless, to heal, to teach, to create. 432 00:23:49.460 --> 00:23:53.020 You're allowing God to flow through you, yeah? 433 00:23:53.020 --> 00:23:56.860 And men are giving back to you, 434 00:23:56.860 --> 00:24:00.620 and they give back in so many forms. 435 00:24:00.620 --> 00:24:02.460 Sometimes in the form of money, 436 00:24:02.460 --> 00:24:04.460 sometimes in the form of appreciation, 437 00:24:04.460 --> 00:24:06.420 sometimes in the form of love, 438 00:24:06.420 --> 00:24:10.380 sometimes in the form of lavish generosity. 439 00:24:10.380 --> 00:24:13.020 I'm gonna mute you, Martha, just a second, okay? 440 00:24:13.020 --> 00:24:18.020 All right, and so in the form of lavish generosity, 441 00:24:18.360 --> 00:24:22.200 and I've been the recipient of that in so many ways. 442 00:24:22.200 --> 00:24:23.960 I have seen it so many ways. 443 00:24:23.960 --> 00:24:26.120 I remember one of the clients 444 00:24:26.120 --> 00:24:29.360 that I was just serving and loving, they were in my classes. 445 00:24:29.360 --> 00:24:31.920 I wasn't thinking about receiving anything, 446 00:24:31.920 --> 00:24:35.000 and they knew I was writing a book, 447 00:24:35.000 --> 00:24:39.200 and I received a check in the mail for a week's stay 448 00:24:39.200 --> 00:24:42.640 up in Lake Tahoe to go and have a writing retreat 449 00:24:43.260 --> 00:24:44.100 by myself. 450 00:24:44.100 --> 00:24:46.060 You see, she understood generosity. 451 00:24:46.060 --> 00:24:47.260 I was the recipient. 452 00:24:47.260 --> 00:24:48.500 She became a channel. 453 00:24:48.500 --> 00:24:50.540 I was a channel in giving and serving 454 00:24:50.540 --> 00:24:52.780 in the Bible studies and the things she was in. 455 00:24:52.780 --> 00:24:54.940 She was a channel giving back. 456 00:24:54.940 --> 00:24:56.940 If you experience that in so many ways, 457 00:24:56.940 --> 00:24:58.780 probably you have too. 458 00:24:58.780 --> 00:25:00.060 And so begin. 459 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:01.920 ending to see that. 460 00:25:01.920 --> 00:25:06.520 So does that raise up questions, 461 00:25:06.520 --> 00:25:09.360 comments, ideas around that? 462 00:25:09.360 --> 00:25:11.560 So we talked about several things. 463 00:25:11.560 --> 00:25:14.840 First of all, getting clear who or what is the source 464 00:25:14.840 --> 00:25:17.200 and who or what is the channel. 465 00:25:17.200 --> 00:25:20.800 So we're not confusing, we're not making money source. 466 00:25:20.800 --> 00:25:25.280 And I know I read to you from the abundance book, okay? 467 00:25:25.280 --> 00:25:29.500 And there's another thing that I love 468 00:25:29.500 --> 00:25:34.500 that it says right here about how we look at it. 469 00:25:36.100 --> 00:25:40.140 And it says, money is an effect. 470 00:25:40.140 --> 00:25:42.300 Money is an effect, so cause and effect. 471 00:25:42.300 --> 00:25:45.180 Money is the effect, it's not the cause, right? 472 00:25:45.180 --> 00:25:48.900 And it says, when you concentrate on the effect, 473 00:25:48.900 --> 00:25:52.660 you are forgetting the cause. 474 00:25:52.660 --> 00:25:55.000 And when you forget the cause, 475 00:25:55.000 --> 00:25:58.040 the effect begins to diminish. 476 00:25:58.040 --> 00:26:01.860 When you focus your attention on getting money, 477 00:26:01.860 --> 00:26:05.720 you're actually shutting off your supply. 478 00:26:05.720 --> 00:26:08.920 You must begin this very moment to cease believing 479 00:26:08.920 --> 00:26:12.640 that money is your substance, your supply, your support, 480 00:26:12.640 --> 00:26:14.760 your security, or your safety. 481 00:26:14.760 --> 00:26:17.480 Money is not, God is. 482 00:26:17.480 --> 00:26:19.840 And when you understand and realize this truth, 483 00:26:19.840 --> 00:26:23.040 the supply flows uninterrupted into perfect 484 00:26:23.040 --> 00:26:24.980 and abundant manifestation. 485 00:26:24.980 --> 00:26:28.420 You must look to God alone as the source 486 00:26:28.420 --> 00:26:32.300 and take your mind completely off the outer effect. 487 00:26:32.300 --> 00:26:36.420 If you look to your job, your employer, your spouse, 488 00:26:36.420 --> 00:26:39.340 or investments as the source of your supply, 489 00:26:39.340 --> 00:26:42.020 you're actually cutting off the real source. 490 00:26:42.020 --> 00:26:46.460 And in fact, if you look to any human person, 491 00:26:46.460 --> 00:26:49.140 place or condition for your supply, 492 00:26:49.140 --> 00:26:51.780 you're shutting down the flow. 493 00:26:51.780 --> 00:26:53.940 If you give power to any mortal 494 00:26:53.940 --> 00:26:57.140 or as being the channel for your supply, 495 00:26:57.140 --> 00:26:59.260 you're limiting your good. 496 00:26:59.260 --> 00:27:01.260 You must think of money 497 00:27:01.260 --> 00:27:04.420 and any other material desire or possession 498 00:27:04.420 --> 00:27:09.420 simply as an outer symbol of the inner supply. 499 00:27:09.580 --> 00:27:12.620 So I love this. 500 00:27:12.620 --> 00:27:14.440 It says, do you want more money, 501 00:27:14.440 --> 00:27:16.060 more prosperity in your life 502 00:27:16.060 --> 00:27:19.500 than shift from a consciousness of effect, 503 00:27:19.500 --> 00:27:24.500 of materiality to a consciousness of cause, spirituality. 504 00:27:24.520 --> 00:27:26.540 When you give power to an effect, 505 00:27:26.540 --> 00:27:28.340 you're giving it your power. 506 00:27:28.340 --> 00:27:31.300 You're actually giving the effect power over you. 507 00:27:31.300 --> 00:27:33.060 Does money have power? 508 00:27:33.060 --> 00:27:36.460 If you say yes, then you've given it your power 509 00:27:36.460 --> 00:27:38.820 and you become the servant. 510 00:27:38.820 --> 00:27:42.460 You have reversed the roles. 511 00:27:42.460 --> 00:27:45.260 The inner presence, the only source, 512 00:27:45.260 --> 00:27:50.260 God presence within you is the true source. 513 00:27:50.340 --> 00:27:55.100 And so again, understanding that all of this 514 00:27:55.100 --> 00:27:56.660 has to do with our mindset. 515 00:27:56.660 --> 00:27:57.700 And when you get clarity, 516 00:27:57.700 --> 00:27:59.300 it has to do with your mindset. 517 00:27:59.300 --> 00:28:03.100 You can change, you can activate your power of choice. 518 00:28:03.100 --> 00:28:05.340 And when you can change your mindset, 519 00:28:05.340 --> 00:28:08.380 then you can change the conditions. 520 00:28:08.380 --> 00:28:09.900 So what do you do? 521 00:28:09.900 --> 00:28:13.100 You move from the mindset of acquisition, 522 00:28:13.100 --> 00:28:15.300 the mindset of I've got to get more stuff, 523 00:28:15.300 --> 00:28:17.060 I've got to get more money. 524 00:28:17.060 --> 00:28:20.420 You move from that mindset of acquisition and lack 525 00:28:20.420 --> 00:28:22.700 that I don't have enough, right? 526 00:28:22.700 --> 00:28:27.540 And you move to a mindset of generosity, 527 00:28:27.540 --> 00:28:30.940 of overflow, of lavishing, of saying spirit, 528 00:28:30.940 --> 00:28:32.880 flow through me, teach through me, 529 00:28:32.880 --> 00:28:35.020 love through me, live through me, 530 00:28:35.020 --> 00:28:39.580 give through me, heal through me, bless through me, right? 531 00:28:39.580 --> 00:28:42.340 And in that place of openness, 532 00:28:42.340 --> 00:28:45.020 then you take the next right action. 533 00:28:45.020 --> 00:28:47.220 It's not only mindset I've taught you, 534 00:28:47.220 --> 00:28:51.380 it's mindset plus skillset plus action equals results. 535 00:28:51.380 --> 00:28:55.780 So that's the mindset as to what is source 536 00:28:55.780 --> 00:28:57.300 and what is abundance. 537 00:28:57.300 --> 00:29:00.260 The skillset then is you hone your skills. 538 00:29:00.260 --> 00:29:02.700 You get better and better at coaching, at teaching, 539 00:29:02.700 --> 00:29:06.260 at writing, at painting, at crafting, 540 00:29:06.260 --> 00:29:09.140 at whatever you do that you're giving to serve the world. 541 00:29:09.140 --> 00:29:12.300 You get better and better at your skillset, okay? 542 00:29:13.140 --> 00:29:14.940 And you take the next right action. 543 00:29:14.940 --> 00:29:17.260 You do what is in front of you. 544 00:29:17.260 --> 00:29:20.340 Like scripture says, you do it as unto the Lord. 545 00:29:20.340 --> 00:29:22.540 And so you're creating as a gift. 546 00:29:22.540 --> 00:29:25.900 It's like God gives you life and creativity and abilities, 547 00:29:25.900 --> 00:29:29.780 and you're giving them back to God and to the world. 548 00:29:29.780 --> 00:29:30.700 Does that make sense? 549 00:29:30.700 --> 00:29:33.580 Do you feel the flow, just like the plants, right? 550 00:29:33.580 --> 00:29:36.940 You're breathing in oxygen, you're breathing out, 551 00:29:36.940 --> 00:29:39.860 you know, the carbon and the plants are breathing that in, 552 00:29:39.860 --> 00:29:41.140 you're breathing back in. 553 00:29:41.140 --> 00:29:44.700 It's this inhaling and exhaling of life. 554 00:29:44.700 --> 00:29:48.020 What happens is we get stuck in one or the other. 555 00:29:48.020 --> 00:29:50.100 We're either stuck inhaling. 556 00:29:51.900 --> 00:29:55.060 You just keep breathing, breathing, breathing, you die. 557 00:29:55.060 --> 00:29:59.100 Or we're stuck exhaling where you're just breathing out. 558 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:07.400 Usually, out of wrong motives, you're giving from a place of lack in that case, and you're 559 00:30:07.400 --> 00:30:09.120 just giving, giving, giving, giving, giving. 560 00:30:09.120 --> 00:30:12.880 If you're giving from your abundance, it never runs in because it's always coming back. 561 00:30:12.880 --> 00:30:13.880 It's this constant flow. 562 00:30:13.880 --> 00:30:15.440 Give and it shall be given unto you. 563 00:30:15.440 --> 00:30:16.440 Press down. 564 00:30:16.440 --> 00:30:17.440 Overflowing. 565 00:30:17.440 --> 00:30:19.120 David said, my cup overflows. 566 00:30:19.120 --> 00:30:21.480 It's coming from this place of overflow. 567 00:30:21.480 --> 00:30:22.720 You're living. 568 00:30:22.720 --> 00:30:25.840 Rivers of living water flow out of your belly. 569 00:30:25.840 --> 00:30:27.480 They never stop flowing. 570 00:30:27.480 --> 00:30:29.720 Rivers of living water flow out of your body. 571 00:30:30.440 --> 00:30:34.760 The gifts of your spirit never stop flowing, you see? 572 00:30:34.760 --> 00:30:41.080 I thought of a little kid's Sunday school song kind of hit me this morning. 573 00:30:41.080 --> 00:30:44.520 Maybe some of you remember, and I don't want to torture you by singing too much. 574 00:30:44.520 --> 00:30:50.120 Maybe I'll just tell you the words, but if any of you remember the song, I've Got a River 575 00:30:50.120 --> 00:30:52.920 of Life Flowing Out of Me. 576 00:30:52.920 --> 00:30:53.920 I'm just talking it. 577 00:30:53.920 --> 00:30:56.000 I'm not singing it, right? 578 00:30:56.000 --> 00:30:59.000 Any of you remember the song, Spring Up Oh Well? 579 00:30:59.280 --> 00:31:00.280 Okay. 580 00:31:00.280 --> 00:31:01.280 Kate is raising her hand. 581 00:31:01.280 --> 00:31:02.280 Anybody else? 582 00:31:02.280 --> 00:31:03.640 How many of you remember that song? 583 00:31:03.640 --> 00:31:05.360 Spring up, oh well, right? 584 00:31:05.360 --> 00:31:11.440 And so this whole idea, I've got this river of life flowing out of me, makes the lame 585 00:31:11.440 --> 00:31:17.840 to walk, makes the blind to see, opens prison doors, sets the captives free. 586 00:31:17.840 --> 00:31:21.760 I've got a river of life flowing out of me. 587 00:31:21.760 --> 00:31:25.240 Spring up, oh well, right? 588 00:31:25.240 --> 00:31:27.520 And this is our awareness. 589 00:31:27.520 --> 00:31:32.520 So we did the exercise of radiating love, and you can do the same thing. 590 00:31:32.520 --> 00:31:35.440 It's that whole energy of radiating abundance. 591 00:31:35.440 --> 00:31:36.600 What can I give? 592 00:31:36.600 --> 00:31:39.200 Life is not withholding, we're withholding. 593 00:31:39.200 --> 00:31:41.160 How can I give more? 594 00:31:41.160 --> 00:31:42.680 What else, Lord, serve through me? 595 00:31:42.680 --> 00:31:45.560 What else can I create to make the world a better place? 596 00:31:45.560 --> 00:31:46.560 How? 597 00:31:46.560 --> 00:31:50.480 The big question for those of you on here as coaches and teachers and healers, how can 598 00:31:50.480 --> 00:31:52.560 I add more value? 599 00:31:52.560 --> 00:31:54.080 How can I add more value? 600 00:31:54.080 --> 00:31:55.680 All right. 601 00:31:55.680 --> 00:31:57.000 I want to hear from you. 602 00:31:57.000 --> 00:31:58.000 Somebody raise your hand. 603 00:31:58.000 --> 00:31:59.720 You're making me keep talking. 604 00:31:59.720 --> 00:32:02.360 Somebody raise your hand. 605 00:32:02.360 --> 00:32:03.360 Somebody raise your hand. 606 00:32:03.360 --> 00:32:04.360 I want to hear from you. 607 00:32:04.360 --> 00:32:05.360 Questions, comments, ahas. 608 00:32:05.360 --> 00:32:06.360 All right. 609 00:32:06.360 --> 00:32:07.360 Thank you, Kate. 610 00:32:07.360 --> 00:32:08.360 Love to hear from you. 611 00:32:08.360 --> 00:32:09.360 Go ahead and unmute yourself. 612 00:32:09.360 --> 00:32:10.360 I'll pin you so I can see you too. 613 00:32:10.360 --> 00:32:11.360 Here we go. 614 00:32:11.360 --> 00:32:12.360 It's so funny. 615 00:32:12.360 --> 00:32:13.360 It's in and out of these places, right? 616 00:32:13.360 --> 00:32:30.720 Like, as soon as you said, do I become diminished as I give, you know, as I'm petting the puppies, 617 00:32:30.720 --> 00:32:33.720 and a little part of me is going, yes, you do. 618 00:32:33.720 --> 00:32:34.720 Be careful. 619 00:32:34.720 --> 00:32:39.000 And so it's like, huh, let me, you know, what's up there? 620 00:32:39.000 --> 00:32:41.520 But it's just those old stories, you know, come back. 621 00:32:41.680 --> 00:32:45.480 And so as you're talking, I'm typing and taking notes, and there's just the reminder coming 622 00:32:45.480 --> 00:32:48.120 back, wait a second, it's your come from, it's your come from. 623 00:32:48.120 --> 00:32:50.240 Were you petting that puppy because you had to? 624 00:32:50.240 --> 00:32:52.960 Were you petting that puppy because somebody needed you to babysit that puppy? 625 00:32:52.960 --> 00:32:57.160 Were you petting that puppy because, you know, something would happen to that puppy if you 626 00:32:57.160 --> 00:32:58.160 didn't pet that puppy? 627 00:32:58.160 --> 00:32:59.160 Right? 628 00:32:59.160 --> 00:33:03.600 Like, versus, oh, get that puppy, I just want to pet that puppy, right? 629 00:33:03.600 --> 00:33:09.120 It's either creating energy and increasing and expanding love, or it is bringing us back 630 00:33:09.120 --> 00:33:13.520 and shrinking us into scarcity and diminished, and I don't have enough. 631 00:33:13.520 --> 00:33:14.520 Yeah. 632 00:33:14.520 --> 00:33:15.520 Yes. 633 00:33:15.520 --> 00:33:16.520 Yes. 634 00:33:16.520 --> 00:33:17.520 Yes. 635 00:33:17.520 --> 00:33:18.520 I'm so glad that you brought that up. 636 00:33:18.520 --> 00:33:20.720 That is a really important point, okay? 637 00:33:20.720 --> 00:33:25.000 Because we do have some over-givers in the room, and they're going, well, I'm giving, 638 00:33:25.000 --> 00:33:27.320 giving, and I'm completely depleted. 639 00:33:27.320 --> 00:33:31.840 And again, it's where you're coming from, okay? 640 00:33:31.840 --> 00:33:33.280 It's the same mindset. 641 00:33:33.280 --> 00:33:36.960 If you're coming from this place of lack, right? 642 00:33:36.960 --> 00:33:43.280 And so you're giving out of obligation or giving in hope that you'll get love if you 643 00:33:43.280 --> 00:33:50.360 give, or you're giving in hope that something, it's a different energy that you're giving 644 00:33:50.360 --> 00:33:51.360 from. 645 00:33:51.360 --> 00:33:53.400 I'm not talking about that, okay? 646 00:33:53.400 --> 00:33:56.280 A place of codependency or dysfunction. 647 00:33:56.280 --> 00:34:00.520 I'm talking about, it is literally a channel. 648 00:34:00.520 --> 00:34:06.400 You're giving because of the abundance, because God, scripture says, God has poured his love 649 00:34:06.400 --> 00:34:08.920 into our heart, okay? 650 00:34:08.920 --> 00:34:11.960 And he's poured everything that we could ever need. 651 00:34:11.960 --> 00:34:16.320 Scripture's really rich with all the texts about all sufficiency, that he's given us 652 00:34:16.320 --> 00:34:19.280 all grace, all sufficiency to meet every need. 653 00:34:19.280 --> 00:34:21.800 I mean, that's cover to cover, okay? 654 00:34:21.800 --> 00:34:28.880 And so when you're coming from, I just have so much love, and you just want to give that 655 00:34:28.880 --> 00:34:31.880 love, then more love comes back to you and it's multiplied. 656 00:34:31.880 --> 00:34:35.520 But if you're coming from a place of lack, I don't have love. 657 00:34:35.639 --> 00:34:40.960 And maybe if I give, maybe if I just do this and do that, then they'll love me. 658 00:34:40.960 --> 00:34:45.360 Well, you're giving, your whole energy and mindset is from a place of lack. 659 00:34:45.360 --> 00:34:51.080 I don't have money, so maybe if I offer this course, I can get money. 660 00:34:51.080 --> 00:34:52.480 Totally different energy. 661 00:34:52.480 --> 00:34:55.920 So you have to see that money is energy. 662 00:34:55.920 --> 00:34:59.720 And I like the saying that people and money go where they're treated best, right? 663 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.320 because they're energy, money is energy. 664 00:35:02.320 --> 00:35:04.560 Love is energy, money is energy. 665 00:35:04.560 --> 00:35:05.680 It's plain and simple. 666 00:35:05.680 --> 00:35:07.540 It's nothing more than energy. 667 00:35:07.540 --> 00:35:11.400 And so when you come from this place of all abundance, 668 00:35:11.400 --> 00:35:12.920 God has poured his love in my heart. 669 00:35:12.920 --> 00:35:15.400 I got enough to give to everybody. 670 00:35:15.400 --> 00:35:18.880 And so you have to think about then 671 00:35:18.880 --> 00:35:23.560 the ways to activate that, okay? 672 00:35:23.560 --> 00:35:26.120 So Kate, thank you. 673 00:35:26.120 --> 00:35:29.080 You always bring really relevant, important things 674 00:35:29.120 --> 00:35:30.200 for us to think about. 675 00:35:30.200 --> 00:35:31.200 And I love that. 676 00:35:31.200 --> 00:35:33.080 Thank you for sharing that. 677 00:35:33.080 --> 00:35:34.440 Do you have additional question 678 00:35:34.440 --> 00:35:36.120 or shall I comment more on that? 679 00:35:37.320 --> 00:35:40.400 I do have one more that came up if I could just throw it. 680 00:35:40.400 --> 00:35:41.920 It's not so much business related, 681 00:35:41.920 --> 00:35:44.080 but it's mindset related, which affects my business. 682 00:35:44.080 --> 00:35:47.440 And so as I'm trying to change the old narratives 683 00:35:47.440 --> 00:35:49.880 and stories that I grew up with around money 684 00:35:49.880 --> 00:35:52.320 and pass on new ones to my children, 685 00:35:52.320 --> 00:35:53.760 I have a 14 year old daughter 686 00:35:53.760 --> 00:35:56.000 that's getting ready for homecoming next week. 687 00:35:56.000 --> 00:35:58.400 And I get a text from her yesterday, 688 00:35:58.400 --> 00:36:00.560 hey, I need to go find my shoes tomorrow. 689 00:36:00.560 --> 00:36:02.840 And can we make a manicure appointment? 690 00:36:02.840 --> 00:36:05.360 And we've already made appointment for hair 691 00:36:05.360 --> 00:36:08.480 and all those stories. 692 00:36:08.480 --> 00:36:09.320 Yeah. 693 00:36:09.320 --> 00:36:10.160 That's entitled. 694 00:36:10.160 --> 00:36:12.120 Who do you think you are that you can do all that stuff? 695 00:36:12.120 --> 00:36:14.360 I never had, you don't need that stuff. 696 00:36:14.360 --> 00:36:16.040 And the mama's heart, 697 00:36:16.040 --> 00:36:20.120 no, I want to be expansive and give in and lavish on her, 698 00:36:20.120 --> 00:36:22.800 but be careful because if you do, this will happen. 699 00:36:22.800 --> 00:36:26.600 And so I'd love for you to just expand on that for me. 700 00:36:26.600 --> 00:36:27.440 That would be great. 701 00:36:28.080 --> 00:36:31.160 Yeah, that is really, really, really good 702 00:36:32.120 --> 00:36:37.120 because she's looking to you right now as source 703 00:36:39.000 --> 00:36:43.800 and with a sense of expectation, right? 704 00:36:43.800 --> 00:36:48.280 Not as a channel and not as a multitude of channels. 705 00:36:48.280 --> 00:36:53.280 So she's given in some sense, all of her power to you. 706 00:36:53.480 --> 00:36:56.440 There's no creativity in her perhaps 707 00:36:56.480 --> 00:36:59.560 as to a homecoming's coming. 708 00:36:59.560 --> 00:37:01.760 What can I do to make this? 709 00:37:01.760 --> 00:37:03.960 How can I make this really great? 710 00:37:03.960 --> 00:37:07.360 And our kids face a lot of difficult things 711 00:37:07.360 --> 00:37:08.760 about that right now. 712 00:37:08.760 --> 00:37:11.160 The whole Instagram culture 713 00:37:11.160 --> 00:37:13.520 that everyone is trying to look, 714 00:37:13.520 --> 00:37:15.280 that every single kid out there looks 715 00:37:15.280 --> 00:37:16.400 at their Paris Hilton. 716 00:37:16.400 --> 00:37:19.240 They try to make their purses, 717 00:37:19.240 --> 00:37:21.240 even if the purses are fake and they're mad 718 00:37:21.240 --> 00:37:23.600 and they're just constantly trying to show this. 719 00:37:23.600 --> 00:37:25.800 Again, from a place of lack, if I do that, 720 00:37:25.800 --> 00:37:28.280 maybe I'll be accepted, maybe I'll be loved. 721 00:37:28.280 --> 00:37:32.520 So there is that, like, where is this coming from, right? 722 00:37:32.520 --> 00:37:34.800 And what's the creativity? 723 00:37:34.800 --> 00:37:39.800 So how could I leave my kid with enough legacy 724 00:37:40.160 --> 00:37:44.080 of their own ability to tap into source 725 00:37:44.080 --> 00:37:47.600 and their own ability to be creative? 726 00:37:47.600 --> 00:37:51.400 And so sometimes that means 727 00:37:51.400 --> 00:37:55.080 that the greatest love is not giving them everything 728 00:37:55.080 --> 00:37:58.520 as many parents of spoiled children can tell you. 729 00:37:58.520 --> 00:38:00.600 Sometimes it means teaching them 730 00:38:00.600 --> 00:38:03.160 and letting it be an opportunity of wisdom 731 00:38:03.160 --> 00:38:04.200 when they use the money, 732 00:38:04.200 --> 00:38:06.360 depending on the kid and the disposition 733 00:38:06.360 --> 00:38:09.000 of where they're coming from, right? 734 00:38:09.000 --> 00:38:11.200 So not because of lack and fear 735 00:38:11.200 --> 00:38:13.000 that you're not giving to them, 736 00:38:13.000 --> 00:38:16.000 but what is the greatest amount of love? 737 00:38:16.000 --> 00:38:18.280 How would I show the greatest amount of love? 738 00:38:18.280 --> 00:38:21.200 Would I love them more by helping them be creative? 739 00:38:22.200 --> 00:38:26.200 You know, for years, as I homeschooled my kids, 740 00:38:26.200 --> 00:38:28.200 it certainly wasn't because I lacked. 741 00:38:28.200 --> 00:38:30.760 I could have easily bought elaborate costumes. 742 00:38:30.760 --> 00:38:32.040 I could have easily supplied. 743 00:38:32.040 --> 00:38:33.400 I had enough money, 744 00:38:33.400 --> 00:38:37.680 but very often I had them create their own. 745 00:38:37.680 --> 00:38:41.320 And we didn't have, growing up, 746 00:38:41.320 --> 00:38:45.520 I did not have, my kids did not have TV deliberately. 747 00:38:45.520 --> 00:38:47.800 We watched videos as a family on weekends, 748 00:38:47.800 --> 00:38:51.520 but TV was not part of our culture as they grew up. 749 00:38:51.520 --> 00:38:55.920 And what I saw was the immense creativity. 750 00:38:55.920 --> 00:38:59.240 What they did have was massive floor-to-ceiling 751 00:38:59.240 --> 00:39:01.240 craft closet that they could go to. 752 00:39:01.240 --> 00:39:04.120 It had paints and clay and papers and scissors. 753 00:39:04.120 --> 00:39:08.200 It had every possible thing they could need to go create. 754 00:39:08.200 --> 00:39:10.480 And they would surprise me. 755 00:39:10.480 --> 00:39:12.400 They would amazingly surprise me 756 00:39:12.400 --> 00:39:14.480 with the puppet shows they came up with 757 00:39:14.480 --> 00:39:16.040 and invite us to come watch, 758 00:39:16.040 --> 00:39:17.480 or the plays they created, 759 00:39:17.480 --> 00:39:19.040 or the games they invented, 760 00:39:19.040 --> 00:39:20.920 or the, you know, 761 00:39:20.920 --> 00:39:25.720 because they were drawing on their resourcefulness. 762 00:39:25.720 --> 00:39:29.480 So I want you to think about source, resource, 763 00:39:29.480 --> 00:39:33.160 to bring more source, resourcefulness. 764 00:39:33.160 --> 00:39:37.040 And so are we calling our kids to be resourceful, 765 00:39:37.040 --> 00:39:40.680 or are we just teaching them to look to us as source? 766 00:39:41.960 --> 00:39:45.840 And so I think that's where it takes wisdom. 767 00:39:46.520 --> 00:39:47.680 As parents, I'm not going to say it's easy. 768 00:39:47.680 --> 00:39:50.240 I'm not going to say I've arrived or I've mastered it, 769 00:39:50.240 --> 00:39:53.040 but the awareness of them saying, you know, 770 00:39:53.040 --> 00:39:58.040 spirit, how can I best give and serve? 771 00:39:59.360 --> 00:40:00.200 The child. 772 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.080 held as a whole, as a whole being. 773 00:40:04.080 --> 00:40:05.720 Does that help you a little bit? 774 00:40:05.720 --> 00:40:08.760 Yeah, I can apply that to my clients as well, 775 00:40:08.760 --> 00:40:11.480 as I'm, you know, like the difference between, 776 00:40:11.480 --> 00:40:13.040 it's trying to feel the difference 777 00:40:13.040 --> 00:40:14.360 in the energy of generosity. 778 00:40:14.360 --> 00:40:16.960 Generosity isn't necessarily being their source 779 00:40:16.960 --> 00:40:18.160 and giving them. 780 00:40:18.160 --> 00:40:20.920 Generosity is helping them find the source 781 00:40:20.920 --> 00:40:22.600 within themselves. 782 00:40:22.600 --> 00:40:26.640 Of course, we're always pointing them back to the source. 783 00:40:26.640 --> 00:40:29.620 And so generosity is giving the tools 784 00:40:29.620 --> 00:40:32.580 and the love and the lessons that you've learned 785 00:40:32.580 --> 00:40:36.500 and the things to help that person become sufficient 786 00:40:36.500 --> 00:40:39.420 in what is in them through God, 787 00:40:39.420 --> 00:40:40.980 pointing them back to God. 788 00:40:41.780 --> 00:40:44.780 You know, that's the whole thing of, 789 00:40:44.780 --> 00:40:47.800 you know, you can lead, 790 00:40:48.660 --> 00:40:50.660 you can lead an army, 791 00:40:50.660 --> 00:40:53.860 but you can only carry one on your back, right? 792 00:40:53.860 --> 00:40:56.220 So you're in a, 793 00:40:56.220 --> 00:40:59.220 you rise to a place of leadership and wisdom 794 00:40:59.780 --> 00:41:02.980 that part of what you're giving is not necessarily, 795 00:41:02.980 --> 00:41:04.660 it could be, you know, 796 00:41:04.660 --> 00:41:05.940 there's gonna be some cases 797 00:41:05.940 --> 00:41:07.380 where the best thing you can give, 798 00:41:07.380 --> 00:41:10.700 if someone is hungry, give them food or water, 799 00:41:10.700 --> 00:41:13.340 but then go beyond that 800 00:41:13.340 --> 00:41:17.060 and teach them how to go to the next level in their life, 801 00:41:17.060 --> 00:41:19.280 not just that you're going to continue. 802 00:41:19.280 --> 00:41:20.780 You can't make enough sandwiches 803 00:41:20.780 --> 00:41:24.420 to feed the homelessness of the world by yourself, right? 804 00:41:24.420 --> 00:41:25.900 So I love that. 805 00:41:25.900 --> 00:41:27.300 I love what you shared, Kate. 806 00:41:27.300 --> 00:41:29.100 I think that is, 807 00:41:29.100 --> 00:41:31.340 those are both really, really powerful lessons 808 00:41:31.340 --> 00:41:33.980 and I love your awareness. 809 00:41:33.980 --> 00:41:35.060 That was really helpful. 810 00:41:35.060 --> 00:41:37.300 I've just reframed my definition of generosity. 811 00:41:37.300 --> 00:41:39.020 I was really, I don't know, 812 00:41:39.020 --> 00:41:41.780 that was messing with me, so I got it. 813 00:41:41.780 --> 00:41:43.540 Tell us your free frame for everybody. 814 00:41:43.540 --> 00:41:45.540 Denise said, ooh, I love how you said that. 815 00:41:45.540 --> 00:41:47.820 So share it again for everybody. 816 00:41:47.820 --> 00:41:49.800 Generosity is giving the tools and love 817 00:41:49.800 --> 00:41:51.820 and lessons to help others become all sufficient 818 00:41:51.820 --> 00:41:53.540 in God and the true source. 819 00:41:53.540 --> 00:41:55.620 And so not me being their source. 820 00:41:55.620 --> 00:41:58.340 Yeah, that's just the remembering 821 00:41:58.340 --> 00:42:02.380 that generosity doesn't look like overgiving. 822 00:42:02.380 --> 00:42:05.260 Generosity doesn't look like, you know, 823 00:42:05.260 --> 00:42:06.660 going and buying her all the things. 824 00:42:06.660 --> 00:42:07.780 That's not generosity. 825 00:42:07.780 --> 00:42:08.620 Yeah, I got you. 826 00:42:08.620 --> 00:42:09.440 I love that. 827 00:42:09.440 --> 00:42:10.540 What a great lesson. 828 00:42:10.540 --> 00:42:12.700 Thank you for just being so transparent 829 00:42:12.700 --> 00:42:13.660 and sharing that with us. 830 00:42:13.660 --> 00:42:14.580 What a blessing. 831 00:42:14.580 --> 00:42:16.780 I really love that. 832 00:42:16.780 --> 00:42:18.380 Okay. 833 00:42:18.380 --> 00:42:19.820 See how we all benefit? 834 00:42:19.820 --> 00:42:21.780 So someone else raised their hand. 835 00:42:21.780 --> 00:42:23.060 Okay, Kim. 836 00:42:24.740 --> 00:42:25.580 Hey, Kate. 837 00:42:26.420 --> 00:42:27.580 I was just thinking as you were talking 838 00:42:27.580 --> 00:42:32.140 because I have a granddaughter and she is, 839 00:42:32.140 --> 00:42:35.540 my daughter is very resourceful also, 840 00:42:35.540 --> 00:42:38.300 as you are Brenda, as far as, 841 00:42:38.300 --> 00:42:40.260 she'll allow them to play video games 842 00:42:40.260 --> 00:42:41.860 for just a little bit on the weekends, 843 00:42:41.860 --> 00:42:45.620 but they're out gardening and creating all the time. 844 00:42:45.620 --> 00:42:47.620 And one of the things that I found like 845 00:42:47.620 --> 00:42:51.100 with my granddaughter is giving her options 846 00:42:51.100 --> 00:42:55.500 because she also wants to go, you know, 847 00:42:56.260 --> 00:42:57.540 it's that little bit of insecurity 848 00:42:57.540 --> 00:42:59.380 to feel like she fits in. 849 00:42:59.380 --> 00:43:00.860 And so what I've done, 850 00:43:00.860 --> 00:43:02.780 one of the things that I do is that 851 00:43:02.780 --> 00:43:06.100 I will let her pick her options. 852 00:43:06.100 --> 00:43:08.380 Like, okay, so a lot of times 853 00:43:08.380 --> 00:43:10.740 they're just vying for our time 854 00:43:10.740 --> 00:43:12.580 and they don't even know it. 855 00:43:12.580 --> 00:43:13.420 You know what I mean? 856 00:43:13.420 --> 00:43:15.860 Just that very intimate time together. 857 00:43:15.860 --> 00:43:17.940 And so I was thinking, you know, 858 00:43:17.940 --> 00:43:20.820 she's, your daughter is wanting her hair 859 00:43:20.820 --> 00:43:22.980 and, you know, manicure and all this. 860 00:43:22.980 --> 00:43:25.820 And so I would maybe just reach out to her 861 00:43:25.820 --> 00:43:27.220 and give her options and say, 862 00:43:27.220 --> 00:43:30.660 I'd really love to spend time with you, 863 00:43:30.660 --> 00:43:31.940 just like you and me, 864 00:43:31.940 --> 00:43:35.780 not necessarily running out and getting something 865 00:43:35.780 --> 00:43:37.900 that maybe spending that time together 866 00:43:37.900 --> 00:43:40.780 and let's figure out something that we could do together 867 00:43:40.780 --> 00:43:44.100 to make this time very special, 868 00:43:44.100 --> 00:43:47.940 that it wasn't just a manicure or pedicure or whatever, 869 00:43:47.940 --> 00:43:51.500 that it was, you know, maybe it's a choice of 870 00:43:51.540 --> 00:43:54.900 what if we, you know, did this together? 871 00:43:54.900 --> 00:43:57.820 What if we got really creative and we looked online 872 00:43:57.820 --> 00:44:00.300 and we figured out some really cool nail collars 873 00:44:00.300 --> 00:44:02.380 or whatever, and you know what I mean? 874 00:44:02.380 --> 00:44:05.260 And so that's what my granddaughter and me do. 875 00:44:05.260 --> 00:44:08.860 We'll go and we'll pick out a cool nail collar 876 00:44:08.860 --> 00:44:10.980 and then we'll come back. 877 00:44:10.980 --> 00:44:15.980 And I just, what I have found is giving options 878 00:44:17.020 --> 00:44:20.340 allows them to be resourceful or creative as well. 879 00:44:20.380 --> 00:44:24.140 And that kind of, you know, ties into that relationship too. 880 00:44:24.140 --> 00:44:27.420 And knowing that you're gonna offer your time 881 00:44:27.420 --> 00:44:32.220 and your creativity to make this thing 882 00:44:32.220 --> 00:44:34.180 just amazing for her. 883 00:44:34.180 --> 00:44:35.100 I love that. 884 00:44:35.100 --> 00:44:37.180 Thank you so much for sharing that. 885 00:44:37.180 --> 00:44:42.180 You know, I also think of what is underlying 886 00:44:42.900 --> 00:44:44.660 all of that for her? 887 00:44:44.660 --> 00:44:47.980 Is she feeling a lack of, like she's not beautiful? 888 00:44:47.980 --> 00:44:50.420 Like she's hoping that she'll be accepted. 889 00:44:50.420 --> 00:44:52.180 She's hoping she'll be loved. 890 00:44:52.180 --> 00:44:54.980 Well, then the generosity could be helping her 891 00:44:54.980 --> 00:44:56.900 to discover just how loved she is, 892 00:44:56.900 --> 00:44:58.860 just how beautiful she is. 893 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.560 And, and, you know, I just had like, like a visual of having 894 00:45:05.320 --> 00:45:10.080 friends and family all as she's getting ready to go, tell her 895 00:45:10.120 --> 00:45:13.320 how beautiful she is, and the inner qualities that she has 896 00:45:13.320 --> 00:45:16.800 that make her beautiful, so that she's not buying into the lie of 897 00:45:16.800 --> 00:45:20.360 culture, that anything is outside of herself, including 898 00:45:20.360 --> 00:45:24.160 beauty, true beauty comes from within, what would happen if the 899 00:45:24.160 --> 00:45:27.640 generosity was that she really discovered true beauty, you 900 00:45:27.640 --> 00:45:30.880 know, it just hit me, it just hit me, can you imagine how it 901 00:45:30.880 --> 00:45:34.200 would change a girl's life, the hair and the nails she'll forget 902 00:45:34.200 --> 00:45:37.600 about the guy might really, you know, end up really being a 903 00:45:37.600 --> 00:45:42.440 heartache, it might not be a fun dance or whatever. But receiving 904 00:45:42.640 --> 00:45:48.040 from so many people that that love and that reminder of how 905 00:45:48.040 --> 00:45:50.960 beautiful she is, and how important she is in the world 906 00:45:50.960 --> 00:45:56.200 will stay forever. So it might be only coming from you. It's 907 00:45:56.200 --> 00:45:59.080 like, I will get you this part of the beauty. But what I really 908 00:45:59.080 --> 00:46:02.280 can give you the best as your mother is I want to reflect to 909 00:46:02.280 --> 00:46:05.720 you, I wrote you a poem about how beautiful you are, or I want 910 00:46:05.720 --> 00:46:08.240 to take you on a drive. And we're just going to look at all 911 00:46:08.240 --> 00:46:10.960 the beautiful things and let you know that you're beautiful. 912 00:46:10.960 --> 00:46:14.320 We're going to focus on all the beautiful things, the roses, the 913 00:46:14.320 --> 00:46:17.480 trees, the sunset, the ocean, we're going to focus on all the 914 00:46:17.480 --> 00:46:20.520 things of beauty, and then realize that you are one of 915 00:46:20.520 --> 00:46:23.520 those things of God's beauty. I don't know all kinds of 916 00:46:23.520 --> 00:46:26.720 creativity as possible. All right, Kim, did you have a 917 00:46:26.720 --> 00:46:32.480 question or just that comment? Oh, you're muted. There we go. 918 00:46:32.520 --> 00:46:36.200 Sorry about that. No, that I'm, you know, honestly, I want to go 919 00:46:36.200 --> 00:46:42.000 back to last week, though. And, you know, as you being my coach, 920 00:46:42.000 --> 00:46:45.960 you know, that I've had, well, like with money, like I would 921 00:46:45.960 --> 00:46:51.840 always say, I don't know where that block is. Right. And as you 922 00:46:51.840 --> 00:46:57.040 were speaking about your money story, I realized that my money 923 00:46:57.040 --> 00:47:02.920 story was very much like yours. And so it kind of hit on the 924 00:47:02.920 --> 00:47:06.920 nail is to where that may have come from. And that is something 925 00:47:06.920 --> 00:47:11.640 that I have just kind of daunted on, like, why is it like, I 926 00:47:11.640 --> 00:47:15.840 don't remember my mom saying that money was the root of all 927 00:47:15.840 --> 00:47:21.600 evil, or I do know that we didn't have much money. Right. 928 00:47:21.760 --> 00:47:24.840 And then it started occurring to me when we were talking last 929 00:47:24.840 --> 00:47:30.080 week, that my father, too, was an alcoholic. And although my 930 00:47:30.080 --> 00:47:34.560 mom worked and worked to work to provide, there was never enough 931 00:47:34.560 --> 00:47:38.360 because he took took and took because of his own addiction. 932 00:47:39.480 --> 00:47:44.920 And I started realizing that there is a core correlation 933 00:47:44.960 --> 00:47:51.640 between those two. Because he was always taking, then they 934 00:47:51.640 --> 00:47:55.480 were not, you know, then they were not able to give as 935 00:47:55.480 --> 00:47:58.960 intended. Right. And so I started realizing that 936 00:47:58.960 --> 00:48:04.440 yesterday, I think that's where it came from, is that I was, I 937 00:48:04.440 --> 00:48:09.920 was not able to depend as a child growing up, on knowing 938 00:48:09.920 --> 00:48:15.920 what that flow was, because it was always stagnated. Because 939 00:48:16.360 --> 00:48:20.760 that that was the block. And it was just really kind of cool to 940 00:48:20.760 --> 00:48:24.640 go, oh, my gosh, like, I mean, my father's been gone for 941 00:48:24.640 --> 00:48:31.040 several years, right. And my but my stepfather, he always he 942 00:48:31.040 --> 00:48:35.600 really didn't have the money, but he created like he, you 943 00:48:35.600 --> 00:48:39.880 know, Schwinn bikes were like the big deal, right. And I 944 00:48:39.880 --> 00:48:46.240 really wanted a bike for I was I think, 12 or 13. And so what he 945 00:48:46.240 --> 00:48:51.160 did is he found a bike, an older bike that looked like a Schwinn 946 00:48:51.160 --> 00:48:55.560 and he painted it the same colors, and he just made it look 947 00:48:55.560 --> 00:48:59.720 like a total replica. And I thought that was the coolest 948 00:49:00.080 --> 00:49:06.360 ever, right. But if I look back to my growing years, because he 949 00:49:06.360 --> 00:49:10.120 was my dad, like when I was a teenager, but if I look at my 950 00:49:10.120 --> 00:49:15.960 growing years, I think that lap came from always my, it was 951 00:49:15.960 --> 00:49:21.960 always no. Because, you know, my mom worked extra hard to do 952 00:49:21.960 --> 00:49:26.040 this, this and this. And it was always no, because they just 953 00:49:26.040 --> 00:49:29.560 didn't have the money, but it wasn't because they did it. My 954 00:49:29.560 --> 00:49:34.680 father made good money. Yeah, he just peddled it away on gambling 955 00:49:34.680 --> 00:49:39.760 and drinking and that type of thing, if that makes sense. So I 956 00:49:39.760 --> 00:49:43.560 feel like there was a breakthrough there. And I now 957 00:49:43.560 --> 00:49:48.320 can own that story. Because I understand now, you know what I 958 00:49:48.320 --> 00:49:54.960 mean? I can all I can say, it's no longer a mystery. So and then 959 00:49:54.960 --> 00:50:00.080 the thing is, it's just allowing that flow. 960 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:07.680 um, to take place, just allowing things besides myself, always trying to get, you know, I think, 961 00:50:08.400 --> 00:50:15.440 and that's the way the world thinks. Yeah. So we're surrounded by it all the time. Right. And 962 00:50:15.440 --> 00:50:21.680 to be able to decipher that and go, but no, no, no, I'm a child of the most high. Yes. And so 963 00:50:21.680 --> 00:50:29.520 all sufficiency flows through me and through me. But if you're over here being constipated or 964 00:50:29.520 --> 00:50:36.640 stuck because you see everybody in the world, you know, in your industry, this and that, 965 00:50:36.640 --> 00:50:44.160 and it's just vying for your time. Yeah. That's when everything stops. Yeah. And that's what I 966 00:50:44.160 --> 00:50:51.760 found in myself. And even though I'd like to think that I don't, I don't look to the world 967 00:50:51.760 --> 00:50:59.600 for any of that. That is exactly what stops me sometimes, if that makes sense. Yeah. Yeah. And 968 00:50:59.600 --> 00:51:06.880 I, and I have to tell you, Kim, that, um, we all go through this and we go through it at levels 969 00:51:06.880 --> 00:51:15.520 and levels and levels and levels. And so Romans 12, two, that we're transformed by the renewing 970 00:51:15.520 --> 00:51:22.400 re means do again, newing of our mind. And so these neural pathways, like you're discovering 971 00:51:22.400 --> 00:51:27.680 where some of them originated and all of that, but the beauty of neuroplasticity and the brain 972 00:51:27.680 --> 00:51:33.440 is that, is that our mind can literally be renewed. We now know that biologically, 973 00:51:33.440 --> 00:51:39.280 it's not just a spiritual concept, but literally we're changing. And so it's called different 974 00:51:39.280 --> 00:51:45.120 things, but it could be called consciousness, awareness, consciousness. Like do we live 975 00:51:45.760 --> 00:51:51.680 with a consciousness of abundance or a consciousness of scarcity? So there's this 976 00:51:51.680 --> 00:51:59.440 renewing, this retraining of our mind to just get in the habit of finding, finding, first of all, 977 00:51:59.440 --> 00:52:04.720 you could think about just the consciousness of abundance and just sit and think, wow, 978 00:52:04.720 --> 00:52:11.680 you know, just look at the ocean and how much water is, is there, you know, and, and it never 979 00:52:11.680 --> 00:52:17.120 is depleted. Right. And so we just look at the abundance of that. How many fish live in there? 980 00:52:17.120 --> 00:52:23.120 I wonder how many grains of sand, how many stars, I wonder how many galaxies, how we're still 981 00:52:23.120 --> 00:52:29.840 discovering new stars, new planets, like even in your own lawn, like the blades of grass or, 982 00:52:29.840 --> 00:52:39.040 or the leaves on a tree or the amount of trees. And, and so this whole, this whole idea of, 983 00:52:39.040 --> 00:52:46.640 of having this consciousness of abundance, right. So it's renewing our mind about that. 984 00:52:47.520 --> 00:52:55.440 And then it's activating flow. So it's having this mindset of activating flow. And there's so many 985 00:52:55.440 --> 00:53:05.120 ways we can activate flow. And so gratitude or showing appreciation is, is another way that, 986 00:53:05.120 --> 00:53:11.760 that we activate flow. And so if you just, you know, the saying that which you appreciate 987 00:53:11.760 --> 00:53:20.000 appreciates, right. And so you're in this place of just constantly like gratitude toward God and, 988 00:53:20.000 --> 00:53:26.160 and appreciation. And, you know, we get there's there, there is, you know, scientifically, 989 00:53:26.160 --> 00:53:32.400 there's the law of diminishing returns. Like we know like people make a certain amount of money 990 00:53:32.400 --> 00:53:38.080 and, and they feel a certain happiness from it. And then anything that they make above that, 991 00:53:38.080 --> 00:53:42.880 there's no additional happiness. Sometimes there's less it's the law of diminishing returns. 992 00:53:42.880 --> 00:53:50.880 Right. And, and so instead of just this continuous of just waking up and going through your day with 993 00:53:50.880 --> 00:53:57.360 so much gratitude, this is, this is one way of activating flow, giving appreciation, 994 00:53:57.360 --> 00:54:05.120 another way of activating flow, giving value, another way of, of activating flow, right. 995 00:54:05.120 --> 00:54:14.800 Another way of activating flow. So we look at these ways to, to renew our mind. And I tell you 996 00:54:14.800 --> 00:54:21.600 that renewing of the mind is a daily thing. It's easy. And, and, and being in tune with, 997 00:54:21.600 --> 00:54:29.440 with your body, with your energy, with your mind of saying, okay, when I feel heavy, when I feel 998 00:54:29.440 --> 00:54:38.800 contracted, I'm out of alignment with truth. I'm not, I'm not living truth. Whenever I feel heavy, 999 00:54:38.800 --> 00:54:45.920 there's a lie there. I'm out of alignment. I'm not living truth. When I feel expanded, 1000 00:54:45.920 --> 00:54:54.240 when I feel that joy, I'm living in this place of truth. And so you can evaluate looking at your 1001 00:54:54.240 --> 00:54:59.520 life and you know, okay. All right. I'm feeling heavy. What is it? Oh, okay. There's fear. 1002 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:16.000 Okay, there's the lie right there false evidence appearing real, what am I fearing I'm fearing I'm going to run out of money I'm fearing I'm not going to be able to I'm fearing I'm going to get sick I'm fearing I'm not going to be able I'm fearing I'm never going to find a man I'm fearing I'm not going to be able to. 1003 00:55:16.000 --> 00:55:32.000 And so you you identify that and you replace the lies with truth. That's where affirmations and declarations come in you find a scripture description you know the Bible says that the truth will set you free the truth. 1004 00:55:32.000 --> 00:55:36.000 And so you replace the lie with the truth what's the truth. 1005 00:55:36.000 --> 00:55:40.000 And now I meditate on that truth. 1006 00:55:40.000 --> 00:55:53.000 Scripture says, never have the righteous been forsaken or begging for bread scripture says my God will supply all my needs. Scripture says, you know, it's the Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom. 1007 00:55:53.000 --> 00:56:05.000 So you're coming up with, with this replacing of the lies and you begin to then tap into the place of gratitude I thank you that all my needs are supplied. 1008 00:56:05.000 --> 00:56:20.000 I thank you that you never leave me or forsake me. I thank you that I have the mind of Christ, I thank you that I'm the temple of the Holy Spirit I thank you you've given me dominion and authority I, I thank you, and, and you begin to speak a new truth 1009 00:56:21.000 --> 00:56:28.000 about yourself you know money and opportunity comes to me with ease and grace. 1010 00:56:28.000 --> 00:56:46.000 I have different affirmations here thank you God my seemingly impossible good now comes to pass. I give thanks for miracles shall follow miracle and wonder shall never cease you know that's Florence Shen, you know you just you have reminders, all the way around 1011 00:56:47.000 --> 00:56:59.000 you surround yourself with love and with beauty and and raising your vibration that way and that attracts more good because whatever we focus on expands. 1012 00:56:59.000 --> 00:57:13.000 So when I focus on beauty more beauty comes when I focus on love more love comes when I focus on generosity more generosity comes. And so it is this continuous renewal of the mind and retraining of the mind. 1013 00:57:13.000 --> 00:57:29.000 And sometimes you know like in this little book like I said I don't agree with everything in here but there's enough good that I glean I eat the pitch and I, the peach and I spit out the seed, but there's a there's a 40 day prosperity plan, where you just do 1014 00:57:29.000 --> 00:57:41.000 a little sentence, every day and you can tell I've kind of worked this like, like I'm doing the work, I'm not teaching you something I have to renew my mind, I can get into fear. 1015 00:57:42.000 --> 00:58:00.000 What I've learned guys, is that the lie. The lie is that more money will solve the problem that if I just get more money this problem will go away, I promise you, you will have the same problem with more money, and the same problem or different problems, 1016 00:58:00.000 --> 00:58:14.000 from that standpoint. And so judging not by appearances, I have known so many people. I have sat with some of the I sat with at the time, this is about 20 years ago, the wealthiest African American. 1017 00:58:14.000 --> 00:58:29.000 He was ambassador to multiple African nations, he had everything you could imagine I sat with him and he put down a ring of car keys and said what do you need to drive while you're here visiting what do you want you want the Ferrari you want the Lambo 1018 00:58:29.000 --> 00:58:48.000 you know where do you want to stay you want to be on the I got I got houses every like the wealthiest, and yet he had poverty of spirit. And I was able to bring at that time, the spirit of God to him and love to him, which no amount of money could buy. 1019 00:58:49.000 --> 00:59:07.000 You see, and so being aware that you will always have to give. And it's not more money doesn't solve the problems. It's, it's life is not withholding you're withholding it's it's it's having more life. 1020 00:59:08.000 --> 00:59:22.000 I was at I think I shared this last time around another call but I was at a women's meeting here a couple days ago, and there was a man there that had a nonprofit that we were supporting, and he's teaching kids how to deal with loss he goes into the schools 1021 00:59:23.000 --> 00:59:34.000 and, and kids that have lost through suicide and all of that and he goes in and coaches these kids, and he, we said what do you teach the kids in that situation. 1022 00:59:34.000 --> 00:59:44.000 And this is so powerful I can't stop thinking about what do you teach the kids in that situation. He says I teach them to bring more life into every moment. 1023 00:59:44.000 --> 01:00:00.000 into every moment. That's the essence of what we're really talking about it's not about more money. It's about how do you bring more life, how do you bring more love which is in you already, which you have unlimited supply of all sufficiency 1024 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:08.000 you. God lives in you. How do I bring more life to this moment? Well, for one, you can't be in the 1025 01:00:08.000 --> 01:00:15.760 past because that robs this moment. It takes life. I can't be in regret or shame or blame or any of 1026 01:00:15.760 --> 01:00:20.720 that. I can't. That just stole the life from this moment. I can't be in the future because I don't 1027 01:00:20.720 --> 01:00:26.160 know what the future holds. It's not here yet. And so if I get into the future with worry and 1028 01:00:26.160 --> 01:00:33.280 anxiety and what ifs and what could happen and all of that, I just stole the life from this moment. 1029 01:00:33.280 --> 01:00:39.760 So how can I add more life to this moment? I must be present. I must be present. And I must be 1030 01:00:39.760 --> 01:00:46.000 present to what's in me first and foremost. And then the love and the beauty that is all around 1031 01:00:46.000 --> 01:00:53.440 me that never lacks and never runs short. And so there's this renewing of the mind. So I look at 1032 01:00:53.440 --> 01:01:05.120 number one, day one. Day one says, God is lavish, unfailing abundance, the rich, omnipresent 1033 01:01:05.120 --> 01:01:13.040 substance of the universe. This all providing source of infinite prosperity is individualized 1034 01:01:13.040 --> 01:01:19.760 as the reality of me. Now, you could take every word. It'll look different every time. But if you 1035 01:01:19.760 --> 01:01:27.360 just started with God is, what is God? God is love, right? This says God is lavish. Yes. 1036 01:01:27.360 --> 01:01:34.000 Look at how God creates. There's never shortage in the way that God creates lavish, 1037 01:01:34.000 --> 01:01:42.320 galaxy upon galaxy, star upon star, lavish, plant upon plant, animal upon animal, 1038 01:01:42.320 --> 01:01:48.320 fish in the sea, lavish, lavish. God is lavish, unfailing abundance. So when you start to 1039 01:01:48.320 --> 01:01:58.000 understand the nature of God, lack isn't in God's vocabulary ever. God is lavish. And so you 1040 01:01:58.000 --> 01:02:05.040 look at when you come from that place that God is lavish abundance. And then you're coming from that 1041 01:02:05.040 --> 01:02:11.600 place. Look at Jesus. Jesus was our best. If you've seen, it says, if you see me, you've seen the 1042 01:02:11.600 --> 01:02:17.360 father, right? He came and just represented when you see me, you see God. So how did he handle 1043 01:02:17.360 --> 01:02:24.560 situations when apparent lack, right? Judge not by appearance, but apparent negativity sprung up. 1044 01:02:24.560 --> 01:02:32.000 How did Jesus handle it? Okay. Let's just take examples. The feeding of the 5,000. 1045 01:02:32.640 --> 01:02:41.040 Okay. The disciples come to him from a place of lack. We don't have enough. We don't have enough 1046 01:02:41.040 --> 01:02:48.800 food. And Jesus says, give it to them. And they're like dumbfounded saying all of our incomes combined 1047 01:02:48.800 --> 01:02:52.720 couldn't feed these people. It would take a year salary of all of us combined. And we still wouldn't 1048 01:02:52.720 --> 01:03:00.640 have enough. They're still stuck in lap appearances of lack. And Jesus begins with the principle that 1049 01:03:00.640 --> 01:03:04.560 I teach you guys first start with, what do you have? What's in your hand? Cause you all have 1050 01:03:04.560 --> 01:03:10.640 something. What do you have? Elijah asked the widow with the oil. What do you have? You know, 1051 01:03:10.640 --> 01:03:15.200 ask the other widow, what do you have? You know, one had oil, one had a cake. So he asked them, 1052 01:03:15.200 --> 01:03:20.960 what do you have? Well, this kid's got a few fish. This is a couple loaves of bread. That's what we 1053 01:03:20.960 --> 01:03:27.280 have. It won't make a dent for this 5,000. Give me what you have. You start with what do you have? 1054 01:03:27.920 --> 01:03:32.960 And then what was the next thing that he did? Offered it up to the father and gave thanks. 1055 01:03:34.160 --> 01:03:40.000 That was the next thing appreciation for what you had expectation, faith and expectation. 1056 01:03:40.880 --> 01:03:48.400 Now let's give from what we have. And he said, expectation, have them all be seated. 1057 01:03:49.520 --> 01:03:55.760 And they passed it out groups of 50 and they passed it out. And what happened? God is lavish 1058 01:03:55.760 --> 01:04:01.200 abundance. He didn't say, Hey, you guys, there's a lot of us to feed. Everybody take only one piece, 1059 01:04:01.200 --> 01:04:06.720 half a slice per person, please. One half of a fish, please. We've got 5,000 plus women and 1060 01:04:06.720 --> 01:04:12.800 children. No, it says that everybody was satisfied. And then what happened? There was still 1061 01:04:12.800 --> 01:04:19.840 overflow. They collected the leftovers. There was still overflow, lavish abundance. God is 1062 01:04:19.840 --> 01:04:28.240 lavish abundance. You see that? I remember a time I was at a retreat. I was giving a retreat. 1063 01:04:28.240 --> 01:04:35.120 I was in Bodega Bay and the people had arrived. It was getting dark. Everything was closed down 1064 01:04:35.120 --> 01:04:40.000 and they were hungry. These are my guests. We need to have dinner. They were hungry. 1065 01:04:40.000 --> 01:04:46.320 And the food truck had broken down that was bringing our food. The stores nearby were closed 1066 01:04:46.320 --> 01:04:51.520 and it was looking like we weren't going to have enough to eat. And, you know, God just did this 1067 01:04:51.520 --> 01:04:56.400 through me. I really don't think I had this kind of faith. God just had the faith through me, 1068 01:04:56.400 --> 01:04:59.920 but I had a container of minestrone about this big. It was one of the 1069 01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:03.600 those court, they send you home with soup. And I had it. And I 1070 01:05:03.600 --> 01:05:06.560 said, I've got a little bit of minestrone. I'm going to heat 1071 01:05:06.560 --> 01:05:10.040 this up. And I heated in the pan. Everybody there, there was 1072 01:05:10.040 --> 01:05:13.720 probably 1520 people were witnessing this. And I began to 1073 01:05:13.720 --> 01:05:16.460 scoop out of that. And I began to serve and I noticed that the 1074 01:05:16.460 --> 01:05:19.920 pan didn't go empty. And I served again, and it didn't go 1075 01:05:19.920 --> 01:05:23.640 empty. All of us had minestrone from that cup of my leftover 1076 01:05:23.640 --> 01:05:26.240 lunch minestrone because the food truck didn't get there till 1077 01:05:26.240 --> 01:05:29.840 the next morning. I have seen this any of you that have you 1078 01:05:29.840 --> 01:05:32.560 know, some of your missionaries even on this call, you've seen 1079 01:05:32.560 --> 01:05:38.120 this, where, you know, there was enough to feed everybody. This 1080 01:05:38.120 --> 01:05:41.920 is a lot of multiplication of taking what's in your hand and 1081 01:05:41.920 --> 01:05:46.240 by faith, and it multiplies. Jesus would always go that way. 1082 01:05:46.240 --> 01:05:48.520 They'd come to him and they say, Jesus, how are we going to pay 1083 01:05:48.520 --> 01:05:51.100 the taxes? They're coming after us right now. They say we need 1084 01:05:51.100 --> 01:05:55.160 to pay taxes. And he said, Go fish over there, you'll find a 1085 01:05:55.160 --> 01:05:58.560 gold coin in the fish's mouth. You know, substance can change 1086 01:05:58.560 --> 01:06:01.080 into anything that you need pulled the gold coin paid the 1087 01:06:01.080 --> 01:06:05.640 taxes. It's getting ready to have Jesus was saying, let's 1088 01:06:05.680 --> 01:06:08.400 let's gather I want to break bread together before I go to 1089 01:06:08.400 --> 01:06:12.480 Jerusalem and I'm killed. Let's gather in an upper room. And 1090 01:06:12.560 --> 01:06:15.680 he's saying, Where are we going to find this? Go over there and 1091 01:06:15.680 --> 01:06:18.480 tell this man that we have you'll find a room it's upstairs 1092 01:06:18.480 --> 01:06:22.080 go tell him that the master has needs of it. And they had the 1093 01:06:22.080 --> 01:06:25.360 room, you know, bring me the donkey down the street, there 1094 01:06:25.360 --> 01:06:28.520 was always whatever they needed, it would manifest 1095 01:06:28.520 --> 01:06:34.160 because God is lavish abundance. So even that renewal of the mind 1096 01:06:34.160 --> 01:06:37.280 of going, you know, God is all sufficiency. Scripture says all 1097 01:06:37.280 --> 01:06:40.920 sufficiency and that God lives in me. God said, I shall never 1098 01:06:40.920 --> 01:06:45.080 lack. Okay, that's a renewing of the mind. I'm going to look at 1099 01:06:45.080 --> 01:06:50.240 what's in my hand. What am I going to give? Right? Um, and 1100 01:06:50.240 --> 01:06:55.000 number two, another day, I lift my mind and my heart to be 1101 01:06:55.000 --> 01:07:00.360 aware and understand and know that the divine presence the I 1102 01:07:00.360 --> 01:07:04.400 am is the source and substance of all my good again, renewing 1103 01:07:04.400 --> 01:07:07.480 the mind, I need to lift my mind, I have to raise my 1104 01:07:07.480 --> 01:07:12.800 consciousness to know that the great I am, that the Holy Spirit 1105 01:07:12.920 --> 01:07:19.080 is in me. And that is my source period, I shall lack nothing. So 1106 01:07:19.080 --> 01:07:23.360 now becomes okay, live through me teach through me coach 1107 01:07:23.360 --> 01:07:26.280 through me, give through me heal through me, how can I add 1108 01:07:26.280 --> 01:07:29.320 value? How do you want to live through me? How do you want to 1109 01:07:29.320 --> 01:07:32.760 create through me today? I'm coming from this place of 1110 01:07:32.760 --> 01:07:37.240 abundance not to get something. But how can I add value? If 1111 01:07:37.240 --> 01:07:40.320 you're always focusing on how you can add value, you'll always 1112 01:07:40.320 --> 01:07:43.440 have enough? How can I add value? How can I make that 1113 01:07:43.440 --> 01:07:51.560 person's life rich? You see how this works? Okay. Um, I know 1114 01:07:51.560 --> 01:07:55.680 we're over time. Any I'd like I'd like any last thoughts that 1115 01:07:55.680 --> 01:07:59.280 can be just little kind of, um, what do you call it? Let's do 1116 01:07:59.280 --> 01:08:03.440 like a little popcorn. Okay, so just just popcorn statements. I 1117 01:08:03.440 --> 01:08:06.880 just really got this today. I really through these two 1118 01:08:06.880 --> 01:08:09.600 courses. This is what jumped out at me. Let's just let's just 1119 01:08:09.600 --> 01:08:13.000 kind of popcorn sharing revelation, understanding 1120 01:08:13.040 --> 01:08:16.080 awareness, just popcorn, just you guys turn off your mic and 1121 01:08:16.080 --> 01:08:20.600 just, you know, turn it on. I mean, and just just popcorn. 1122 01:08:20.600 --> 01:08:23.080 Let's just let's just bless the world with this right now. 1123 01:08:23.080 --> 01:08:25.800 Whoever, whoever's coming forward. This is you adding 1124 01:08:25.800 --> 01:08:29.479 value, whoever's going to listen to this. Okay, I realized the 1125 01:08:29.479 --> 01:08:34.000 wrong mindset goes deeper than I thought. Wonderful. And what 1126 01:08:34.000 --> 01:08:36.600 that means with that awareness is that you can have a new 1127 01:08:36.600 --> 01:08:40.439 mindset and a fresh mindset, and that everything can change 1128 01:08:40.479 --> 01:08:44.680 starting today. Thank you for sharing that. So you can unmute 1129 01:08:44.720 --> 01:08:48.040 or you can put it in the chat. But just I want you to think 1130 01:08:48.040 --> 01:08:51.279 right now I want you to radiate value. I want you to radiate 1131 01:08:51.279 --> 01:08:53.760 love. I want you to radiate abundance. I want you to think 1132 01:08:53.760 --> 01:08:56.520 of the people that are going to listen to the replay for times 1133 01:08:56.520 --> 01:09:00.840 to come. And just right now just give practice giving you can 1134 01:09:00.840 --> 01:09:04.120 write it in the chat, or you could just say it. All right, go 1135 01:09:04.120 --> 01:09:04.359 ahead. 1136 01:09:05.880 --> 01:09:11.160 I realized the simplicity of using that contraction, feeling 1137 01:09:11.160 --> 01:09:17.920 contracted as a barometer as just a little signal of oopsie 1138 01:09:17.960 --> 01:09:21.560 I'm living I'm in a line. Nice. You know, I know that I've 1139 01:09:21.560 --> 01:09:24.760 practiced it. But again, the simplicity of it, there are many 1140 01:09:24.760 --> 01:09:29.920 times during my day when I feel that way, and instead of making 1141 01:09:29.920 --> 01:09:35.120 it wrong, or I'm so tired, or, you know, writing about it, just 1142 01:09:35.120 --> 01:09:39.399 to realize, oh, that's a really great signal. Yeah, what's not 1143 01:09:39.399 --> 01:09:42.399 true right now? What lie am I believing? And then just it's 1144 01:09:42.399 --> 01:09:45.960 just such a quick shift, quick shift, quick shift. Can you 1145 01:09:45.960 --> 01:09:49.720 imagine the difference of the energy that I would be 1146 01:09:49.720 --> 01:09:54.760 experiencing all day long? Yeah, just recognize and shift 1147 01:09:54.760 --> 01:09:59.680 recognize and shift. So what a tool but really powerful. Thank 1148 01:09:59.680 --> 01:09:59.840 you. 1149 01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:01.000 Thank you. 1150 01:10:01.000 --> 01:10:02.000 Thank you. 1151 01:10:02.000 --> 01:10:03.000 Love it. 1152 01:10:03.000 --> 01:10:04.000 Love it. 1153 01:10:04.000 --> 01:10:05.000 You're getting hearts up there. 1154 01:10:05.000 --> 01:10:06.000 Okay. 1155 01:10:06.000 --> 01:10:07.000 Next. 1156 01:10:07.000 --> 01:10:10.400 I just love, I'll have to say, I just love when you said in reading the abundance book, 1157 01:10:10.400 --> 01:10:13.640 I am totally going to get that book. 1158 01:10:13.640 --> 01:10:21.200 But just God is when, you know, what Denise is talking about, just shifting, just shifting, 1159 01:10:21.200 --> 01:10:22.200 just shifting. 1160 01:10:22.680 --> 01:10:30.300 And if nothing more, if I just shifted to God is and took a moment to realize who he 1161 01:10:30.300 --> 01:10:35.280 is, that is the ultimate presence that we need to live in. 1162 01:10:35.280 --> 01:10:36.280 Right. 1163 01:10:36.280 --> 01:10:39.960 And I'm like, oh my gosh, that's so simple. 1164 01:10:39.960 --> 01:10:42.880 You know, I never really looked at the value. 1165 01:10:42.880 --> 01:10:45.760 I mean, just two words, God is. 1166 01:10:45.760 --> 01:10:46.760 Love that. 1167 01:10:46.760 --> 01:10:47.760 And talk about a shift. 1168 01:10:47.760 --> 01:10:53.680 And for me, I was just like, wow, I was just like, everything's just bouncing. 1169 01:10:53.680 --> 01:10:59.080 And I thought that is probably the most two powerful words that we could ever have in 1170 01:10:59.080 --> 01:11:00.080 our life. 1171 01:11:00.080 --> 01:11:01.080 And to shift. 1172 01:11:01.080 --> 01:11:04.160 I'm taking it to the next level. 1173 01:11:04.160 --> 01:11:05.520 I am. 1174 01:11:05.520 --> 01:11:06.520 I am. 1175 01:11:06.520 --> 01:11:08.780 The two most powerful of the universe, right? 1176 01:11:08.780 --> 01:11:11.600 So God is lavish abundance. 1177 01:11:11.600 --> 01:11:14.640 I am his dearly beloved child. 1178 01:11:14.640 --> 01:11:17.120 God is love and grace. 1179 01:11:17.120 --> 01:11:19.480 I am the carrier of that love and grace. 1180 01:11:19.480 --> 01:11:20.480 You see? 1181 01:11:20.480 --> 01:11:22.600 So now it's even becoming more powerful. 1182 01:11:22.600 --> 01:11:24.080 I love that you shared that. 1183 01:11:24.080 --> 01:11:25.080 Thank you, Kim. 1184 01:11:25.080 --> 01:11:28.160 But you know, Brenda, here's the thing. 1185 01:11:28.160 --> 01:11:37.160 I have a lot of affirmations right here on my desk that I am, but I just, for me personally, 1186 01:11:37.160 --> 01:11:40.440 I think that it needs to be God is first. 1187 01:11:40.440 --> 01:11:41.440 Love that. 1188 01:11:41.440 --> 01:11:42.440 Yes. 1189 01:11:42.440 --> 01:11:43.440 For me to own who I am. 1190 01:11:43.440 --> 01:11:44.440 Does that make sense? 1191 01:11:44.440 --> 01:11:45.440 Absolutely. 1192 01:11:45.440 --> 01:11:46.440 Source. 1193 01:11:46.760 --> 01:11:47.760 I'm a channel. 1194 01:11:47.760 --> 01:11:48.760 Yeah. 1195 01:11:48.760 --> 01:11:49.760 Source. 1196 01:11:49.760 --> 01:11:50.760 I'm a channel. 1197 01:11:50.760 --> 01:11:51.760 Yep. 1198 01:11:51.760 --> 01:11:52.760 Yes. 1199 01:11:52.760 --> 01:11:53.760 Yeah. 1200 01:11:53.760 --> 01:11:54.760 God is. 1201 01:11:54.760 --> 01:11:59.640 And then when we know who God is, then we can say, I am, yes, we can't say I am apart 1202 01:11:59.640 --> 01:12:00.640 from God. 1203 01:12:00.640 --> 01:12:02.880 You're absolutely a hundred percent apart. 1204 01:12:02.880 --> 01:12:03.880 Apart from God. 1205 01:12:03.880 --> 01:12:04.880 I'm nothing. 1206 01:12:04.880 --> 01:12:05.880 Right. 1207 01:12:05.880 --> 01:12:06.880 I can't. 1208 01:12:06.880 --> 01:12:07.880 I'm nothing. 1209 01:12:07.880 --> 01:12:11.000 Everything that I am is God in me living through me. 1210 01:12:11.000 --> 01:12:12.000 Right. 1211 01:12:12.000 --> 01:12:13.000 So I love that. 1212 01:12:13.000 --> 01:12:14.000 That's so good. 1213 01:12:14.000 --> 01:12:15.000 Okay. 1214 01:12:15.000 --> 01:12:16.000 Let's see. 1215 01:12:16.560 --> 01:12:22.360 I love the importance of getting back to declarations and shifting from sourcing someone to pointing 1216 01:12:22.360 --> 01:12:29.160 them to source, being really aware of my come from where I'm coming from moment by moment. 1217 01:12:29.160 --> 01:12:30.160 So good. 1218 01:12:30.160 --> 01:12:31.160 So rich. 1219 01:12:31.160 --> 01:12:32.160 You guys are amazing. 1220 01:12:32.160 --> 01:12:33.160 I love that. 1221 01:12:33.160 --> 01:12:34.160 All right. 1222 01:12:34.160 --> 01:12:35.160 Keep it going. 1223 01:12:35.160 --> 01:12:37.160 Some more popcorns real quick, and we're going to wrap it up. 1224 01:12:37.160 --> 01:12:38.160 Popcorn. 1225 01:12:38.160 --> 01:12:39.160 Okay. 1226 01:12:39.160 --> 01:12:41.240 Claudia, let's see what she says. 1227 01:12:41.240 --> 01:12:44.440 I got a river of life flowing out of me. 1228 01:12:44.440 --> 01:12:45.560 Source and channel. 1229 01:12:46.120 --> 01:12:47.120 I love that. 1230 01:12:47.120 --> 01:12:48.560 I looked up the song today. 1231 01:12:48.560 --> 01:12:49.560 I actually played it. 1232 01:12:49.560 --> 01:12:52.640 It was a little kid song, and I had it. 1233 01:12:52.640 --> 01:12:53.640 I had it right here. 1234 01:12:53.640 --> 01:12:54.880 Let me just see something. 1235 01:12:54.880 --> 01:12:55.880 This is kind of fun. 1236 01:12:55.880 --> 01:12:56.880 Let me just. 1237 01:12:56.880 --> 01:12:59.880 I'm going to give this to you, because I have it right up, because I was listening to it. 1238 01:12:59.880 --> 01:13:00.880 Okay. 1239 01:13:00.880 --> 01:13:03.880 Oh, it went away. 1240 01:13:03.880 --> 01:13:04.880 Okay. 1241 01:13:04.880 --> 01:13:10.400 I'm going to just put this really quick. 1242 01:13:10.400 --> 01:13:11.400 It'll come back. 1243 01:13:11.400 --> 01:13:13.400 There it is. 1244 01:13:13.400 --> 01:13:14.400 Okay. 1245 01:13:14.400 --> 01:13:16.080 See if you can hear this. 1246 01:14:14.400 --> 01:14:19.240 All right. 1247 01:14:19.240 --> 01:14:20.720 That's going to be catchy in your mind. 1248 01:14:20.720 --> 01:14:26.120 Go out and, you know, I got a river of life, you know, flowing out of me. 1249 01:14:26.120 --> 01:14:27.680 That's what scripture says. 1250 01:14:27.680 --> 01:14:28.680 You do. 1251 01:14:28.680 --> 01:14:29.680 You do. 1252 01:14:29.680 --> 01:14:32.320 And it's never ending, and it never runs dry. 1253 01:14:32.320 --> 01:14:35.960 River of life flowing out of me. 1254 01:14:35.960 --> 01:14:36.960 Love that. 1255 01:14:36.960 --> 01:14:37.960 Okay. 1256 01:14:37.960 --> 01:14:38.960 I love that song. 1257 01:14:38.960 --> 01:14:42.160 Can I give you the link? 1258 01:14:42.200 --> 01:14:47.000 I will put it in the chat, because I can't give it easily right now. 1259 01:14:47.000 --> 01:14:53.800 I will give it to you, but all I did, thanks for the nostalgia, all I did, just that song 1260 01:14:53.800 --> 01:14:57.720 just popped in my spirit, and I just looked up river of life flowing out of me. 1261 01:14:57.720 --> 01:14:59.560 Just Google that, and it'll pop right up. 1262 01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:07.000 And I'm showing that Phil Wickham, it looks like Phil Wickham, that's a rendition of him. 1263 01:15:07.000 --> 01:15:08.000 Uh-huh, Phil Wickham. 1264 01:15:08.000 --> 01:15:09.000 Okay. 1265 01:15:09.000 --> 01:15:18.400 And this one, this one says, this one is Steve Wingfield and it's Oh Happy Days Sunday School 1266 01:15:18.400 --> 01:15:19.720 Sing-Along. 1267 01:15:19.720 --> 01:15:20.720 I've got a river of light. 1268 01:15:20.720 --> 01:15:23.200 It's just the first thing when I Googled, it's what popped up. 1269 01:15:23.200 --> 01:15:24.200 Any of them are fine. 1270 01:15:24.200 --> 01:15:26.280 Find one that works for you. 1271 01:15:26.280 --> 01:15:27.720 But it's just a reminder. 1272 01:15:27.720 --> 01:15:34.320 It's a reminder of who God is and who you are and what we're called to be and do. 1273 01:15:34.320 --> 01:15:41.520 And the joy that we're called to live in, the awe when you think about who God is, the 1274 01:15:41.520 --> 01:15:46.760 awe to come back to the presence, get out of this mindset of lack and come back and 1275 01:15:46.760 --> 01:15:53.520 just the awe of a sunrise or a sunset, the awe of a beach and the ocean, the awe of the 1276 01:15:53.520 --> 01:16:00.480 tall pine trees, the awe of the stars at night, the awe, just come back to the awe 1277 01:16:00.480 --> 01:16:09.520 of we're alive in this beautiful world with so many beautiful experiences waiting to be 1278 01:16:09.520 --> 01:16:12.000 received, waited to be given. 1279 01:16:12.000 --> 01:16:16.880 This is the joy of why we renew our mind and life. 1280 01:16:17.840 --> 01:16:25.440 Scripture says that the thief, the enemy of your soul comes to steal, kill and destroy. 1281 01:16:25.440 --> 01:16:34.920 But Jesus said, I have come that you might have life and have it more abundantly. 1282 01:16:34.920 --> 01:16:37.440 You see, this is what we're called. 1283 01:16:37.440 --> 01:16:41.600 We're called to live an abundant life and abundance. 1284 01:16:41.600 --> 01:16:43.320 Money's just one effect. 1285 01:16:43.320 --> 01:16:45.440 Money's not abundance. 1286 01:16:45.440 --> 01:16:53.120 Abundance is truly being able to love, truly being able to enjoy all of life, give and 1287 01:16:53.120 --> 01:16:54.120 receive. 1288 01:16:54.120 --> 01:16:59.760 And like he taught, put more life into every moment. 1289 01:16:59.760 --> 01:17:06.800 If you get nothing else from this, I pray that you live more fully, that you put more 1290 01:17:06.800 --> 01:17:07.800 life. 1291 01:17:07.800 --> 01:17:12.560 Again, when you're feeling contracted and constricted, life is not withholding from 1292 01:17:12.560 --> 01:17:13.560 you. 1293 01:17:13.560 --> 01:17:14.640 God doesn't withhold. 1294 01:17:14.840 --> 01:17:16.320 Life is not withholding. 1295 01:17:16.320 --> 01:17:18.760 You're withholding from life. 1296 01:17:18.760 --> 01:17:24.960 And when you understand that shift, and then you come from this place of how can I give 1297 01:17:24.960 --> 01:17:27.480 more value, more love? 1298 01:17:27.480 --> 01:17:33.940 How can I radiate more joy, more appreciation, more generosity? 1299 01:17:33.940 --> 01:17:35.640 How can I circulate? 1300 01:17:35.640 --> 01:17:39.000 How can I increase the flow, increase the circulation? 1301 01:17:39.000 --> 01:17:44.160 I open myself to receive all the goodness that God has, all the love that comes through 1302 01:17:44.160 --> 01:17:45.320 all the channels. 1303 01:17:45.320 --> 01:17:46.320 I'm open. 1304 01:17:46.320 --> 01:17:47.320 I'm receptive. 1305 01:17:47.320 --> 01:17:51.960 That's stepping into the divine feminine, to be open and receptive. 1306 01:17:51.960 --> 01:17:53.120 So I'm open, God. 1307 01:17:53.120 --> 01:17:54.600 I'm open to all your goodness. 1308 01:17:54.600 --> 01:17:57.400 I'm open to your creativity. 1309 01:17:57.400 --> 01:18:01.480 Being still and just saying, God, I'm open. 1310 01:18:01.480 --> 01:18:02.800 What do you have for me today? 1311 01:18:02.800 --> 01:18:03.800 What do you want me to know? 1312 01:18:03.800 --> 01:18:06.480 What do you want me to understand? 1313 01:18:06.480 --> 01:18:10.640 Being receptive and willingness, live through me, give through me, love through me, heal 1314 01:18:10.640 --> 01:18:15.800 through me, enjoy through me, celebrate through me. 1315 01:18:15.800 --> 01:18:18.920 And this life starts circulating. 1316 01:18:18.920 --> 01:18:23.640 And now the whole idea of lack, it just becomes non-existent. 1317 01:18:23.640 --> 01:18:28.040 That whole illusion dissipates in the sunlight of God's love. 1318 01:18:28.040 --> 01:18:29.040 You see? 1319 01:18:29.040 --> 01:18:30.040 All right. 1320 01:18:30.040 --> 01:18:32.680 I think we went like a half an hour over. 1321 01:18:32.680 --> 01:18:34.600 I hope you've been blessed by this. 1322 01:18:34.600 --> 01:18:36.280 Just go forth and circulate. 1323 01:18:36.280 --> 01:18:37.920 Go forth and add value. 1324 01:18:37.920 --> 01:18:39.520 Go forth and bless. 1325 01:18:40.400 --> 01:18:47.000 I really look forward to getting your questionnaires that I sent you, just to get feedback from 1326 01:18:47.000 --> 01:18:48.000 you. 1327 01:18:48.000 --> 01:18:50.200 Those that haven't done it, that would mean a lot. 1328 01:18:50.200 --> 01:18:54.280 It allows other people to see that and experience this. 1329 01:18:54.280 --> 01:18:57.360 Just bless you, bless you, bless you from all over the world. 1330 01:18:57.360 --> 01:18:59.640 Thank you for being part of my life. 1331 01:18:59.640 --> 01:19:02.200 Thank you for everything you shared today. 1332 01:19:02.200 --> 01:19:05.240 And I look forward till we gather next time. 1333 01:19:05.240 --> 01:19:05.960 We'll see you soon.