WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.860 So the other mode is overcoming mode. 2 00:00:03.860 --> 00:00:05.660 You wanna get people into overcoming mode. 3 00:00:05.660 --> 00:00:08.560 I did this with Susie and my class 4 00:00:08.560 --> 00:00:10.580 and people that I do online. 5 00:00:11.660 --> 00:00:15.020 You want to make sure people are in overcoming mode. 6 00:00:15.020 --> 00:00:15.860 And that's the other thing. 7 00:00:15.860 --> 00:00:20.860 We are literally, we are built to face adversity 8 00:00:20.920 --> 00:00:22.700 and to overcome them. 9 00:00:22.700 --> 00:00:24.940 And you know this because you look at people 10 00:00:24.940 --> 00:00:27.420 that have survived, for instance, like the Holocaust 11 00:00:27.420 --> 00:00:31.580 and these major things and they, 12 00:00:31.580 --> 00:00:35.580 there's this inner drive to push through. 13 00:00:39.180 --> 00:00:41.200 Everybody has this built-in inner drive 14 00:00:41.200 --> 00:00:42.860 to push through difficult things. 15 00:00:43.940 --> 00:00:46.780 And so when that gets compromised, 16 00:00:46.780 --> 00:00:49.880 that natural drive, also the nervous system, 17 00:00:49.880 --> 00:00:53.660 again, is a sign that your body's meant to help you. 18 00:00:53.700 --> 00:00:55.700 When the nervous system sends out 19 00:00:55.700 --> 00:00:57.620 the flight or flight energy, 20 00:00:57.620 --> 00:01:01.020 that's to help you face that difficulty, 21 00:01:01.020 --> 00:01:03.100 that stressful situation. 22 00:01:03.100 --> 00:01:04.420 And it's to help you. 23 00:01:04.420 --> 00:01:07.900 And it actually does in the short term. 24 00:01:07.900 --> 00:01:09.980 It helps you in the short term. 25 00:01:09.980 --> 00:01:13.140 And then after, if you're in a car accident 26 00:01:13.140 --> 00:01:16.940 or any kind of trauma, any kind of stress, 27 00:01:16.940 --> 00:01:21.940 it could be something major or it could be something minor 28 00:01:21.940 --> 00:01:23.660 but it affected you in a big way. 29 00:01:23.660 --> 00:01:27.060 Whatever it is, the fight or flight energy 30 00:01:27.060 --> 00:01:29.980 helps you initially just kind of get through it. 31 00:01:29.980 --> 00:01:32.460 And then your nervous system is designed 32 00:01:32.460 --> 00:01:37.460 to then turn on the other branch of the nervous system, 33 00:01:37.520 --> 00:01:38.820 which calms you down. 34 00:01:38.820 --> 00:01:40.580 So there's one that pumps you up. 35 00:01:40.580 --> 00:01:42.660 It actually pulse, it's pulsing energy. 36 00:01:42.660 --> 00:01:47.420 It pulses energy through your muscles, everything. 37 00:01:47.420 --> 00:01:50.220 And then the other side is meant to calm you back down. 38 00:01:50.260 --> 00:01:53.580 And what happens is sometimes that calm down part 39 00:01:53.580 --> 00:01:55.740 of the nervous system, it doesn't stop. 40 00:01:55.740 --> 00:01:57.540 It calms down, down, down, down, down. 41 00:01:57.540 --> 00:02:01.260 And then a person is like, they can't move. 42 00:02:01.260 --> 00:02:02.740 Like the people that get so depressed, 43 00:02:02.740 --> 00:02:03.980 they can't get out of the bed. 44 00:02:03.980 --> 00:02:05.340 Is that the parasympathetic? 45 00:02:05.340 --> 00:02:08.620 Yeah, the parasympathetic nervous system. 46 00:02:08.620 --> 00:02:09.699 That part of their nervous system 47 00:02:09.699 --> 00:02:12.140 that's meant to calm them down got out of balance. 48 00:02:12.140 --> 00:02:13.860 It went too far. 49 00:02:13.860 --> 00:02:17.300 And those people are definitely not 50 00:02:17.300 --> 00:02:18.940 in overcoming mode at that point. 51 00:02:19.860 --> 00:02:21.700 Because that's when people feel hopeless, 52 00:02:21.700 --> 00:02:24.100 they feel like giving up, they feel defeated. 53 00:02:24.100 --> 00:02:29.020 So the opposite of overcoming mode is defeat mode. 54 00:02:29.020 --> 00:02:31.740 So you've got overcoming mode versus defeat mode. 55 00:02:31.740 --> 00:02:34.180 And if somebody's in defeat mode, 56 00:02:34.180 --> 00:02:36.420 they're not gonna be able to persevere 57 00:02:36.420 --> 00:02:38.660 and push through what they're going through. 58 00:02:38.660 --> 00:02:41.640 Or the things that they've faced. 59 00:02:42.860 --> 00:02:45.060 So that's my other goal with people, 60 00:02:45.060 --> 00:02:48.620 is to help them to shift into overcoming mode, 61 00:02:49.300 --> 00:02:52.380 regardless of what their circumstances have been. 62 00:02:52.380 --> 00:02:54.740 And then once they're in that, 63 00:02:54.740 --> 00:02:56.340 moving forward in their life, same thing. 64 00:02:56.340 --> 00:02:57.980 You're coaching them on, okay, 65 00:02:57.980 --> 00:03:00.420 how do you face difficult things in the future 66 00:03:00.420 --> 00:03:02.220 and function as an overcomer? 67 00:03:02.220 --> 00:03:04.420 Because it's already who you are. 68 00:03:04.420 --> 00:03:09.420 You know, Jesus overcame the greatest enemy of humanity. 69 00:03:09.620 --> 00:03:13.120 The biggest enemy of humanity was death. 70 00:03:13.120 --> 00:03:14.980 Because God didn't create us to die. 71 00:03:14.980 --> 00:03:17.860 He created us to live eternally with him. 72 00:03:17.860 --> 00:03:22.300 So death was the biggest, strongest enemy of humanity. 73 00:03:22.300 --> 00:03:23.420 Jesus overcame it. 74 00:03:23.420 --> 00:03:26.900 And so if Jesus overcame the biggest, 75 00:03:26.900 --> 00:03:29.380 the biggest thing there is to overcome, 76 00:03:29.380 --> 00:03:33.420 and then he crucified us with him and rose us with him, 77 00:03:33.420 --> 00:03:35.820 and now we're his embodiment, we're overcomers. 78 00:03:35.820 --> 00:03:36.660 It's who we are. 79 00:03:37.620 --> 00:03:42.620 So the overcoming mode is an operating system 80 00:03:43.460 --> 00:03:48.460 that is activated, and once overcoming mode is activated, 81 00:03:50.540 --> 00:03:53.580 you know, that's when you can leave the past in the past, 82 00:03:53.580 --> 00:03:54.940 where it belongs. 83 00:03:54.940 --> 00:03:58.220 You know, you don't need to dwell or stay in your, 84 00:03:58.220 --> 00:04:00.500 you leave the past in the past. 85 00:04:00.500 --> 00:04:05.500 You take only, you take only what you gained and learned. 86 00:04:07.420 --> 00:04:09.980 And that's what we wanna coach people into, 87 00:04:09.980 --> 00:04:14.980 is that no matter what happened, you gain something, 88 00:04:14.980 --> 00:04:18.579 and you gain something, you learn something, 89 00:04:18.579 --> 00:04:22.620 and something gets added to you for an upgrade. 90 00:04:23.540 --> 00:04:25.540 And that's just the truth. 91 00:04:25.540 --> 00:04:29.940 So when someone isn't, when overcoming mode is activated, 92 00:04:29.940 --> 00:04:30.860 they're able to do that. 93 00:04:30.860 --> 00:04:33.220 They're able to leave the past in the past. 94 00:04:33.220 --> 00:04:38.220 They're able to recognize and see what they have gained 95 00:04:39.140 --> 00:04:41.940 or what has been added to them because of that, 96 00:04:41.940 --> 00:04:43.780 and then they proceed forward. 97 00:04:43.780 --> 00:04:45.340 So you wanna get them in forward motion. 98 00:04:45.340 --> 00:04:49.180 You don't want people to get stuck, immobilized, 99 00:04:50.140 --> 00:04:51.900 not able to move forward. 100 00:04:53.620 --> 00:04:56.300 And you know, they're gonna have increased, 101 00:04:56.300 --> 00:04:57.900 they're gonna have gained something. 102 00:04:57.900 --> 00:05:00.100 They even gain authority. 103 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:05.560 That's what Jacob Reeve used to always teach. Every single thing that you walk 104 00:05:05.560 --> 00:05:12.280 through in this life and you overcome, you gain authority in that area. And so 105 00:05:12.280 --> 00:05:18.200 you always increase because of your circumstances. You don't 106 00:05:18.200 --> 00:05:23.080 decrease. You always increase. You always upgrade. You always gain. Always. And so we 107 00:05:23.080 --> 00:05:28.360 want to get people to that and operating in overcoming mode, not defeat. And you 108 00:05:28.360 --> 00:05:34.280 know, so this is when I use this. Since we're pre-programmed to endure 109 00:05:34.280 --> 00:05:39.320 hardship, to persevere through difficulties, and to move through 110 00:05:39.320 --> 00:05:46.460 adversity, you know, I use this when someone is stuck in defeat. I mean, they 111 00:05:46.460 --> 00:05:50.880 believe they've been defeated. They feel that they're defeated. That there's no 112 00:05:50.880 --> 00:05:58.880 hope for them. They don't see any way forward or out. You know, this 113 00:05:58.880 --> 00:06:03.000 usually has to do with discouragement, like massive discouragement, 114 00:06:03.000 --> 00:06:10.840 disappointment, those types of things. Doubt. And there will always be some 115 00:06:10.840 --> 00:06:19.120 beliefs in there with someone who's in defeat mode. Some limiting 116 00:06:19.120 --> 00:06:25.200 beliefs, hindering beliefs that are keeping them down in a pit. And I mean, 117 00:06:25.200 --> 00:06:29.840 that sounds very extreme. And it can be very extreme. But it can also be more 118 00:06:29.840 --> 00:06:33.040 subtle, where maybe somebody's not depressed, where they can't get out of 119 00:06:33.040 --> 00:06:41.560 bed. But they're just kind of functioning in this low, kind of low way. And they're 120 00:06:41.560 --> 00:06:48.920 just not really free or fully pressing on ahead. It's kind of dimmed down. 121 00:06:48.920 --> 00:06:54.800 Yeah, yeah. Identity and spirit. Everything's just kind of dimmed. The identity and the spirit is dimmed down. 122 00:06:54.800 --> 00:07:03.200 It's kind of like going in a circle. That's really good. And you know, we're supposed to be shining. I mean, yeah, yeah. 123 00:07:03.200 --> 00:07:08.280 We're a light on the hill. It's already who we are. And it says, let your light 124 00:07:08.280 --> 00:07:11.440 shine before men. And someone who's in defeat, like Nicole just said, they're 125 00:07:11.440 --> 00:07:15.440 gonna be dim. They're gonna be very dim. And honestly, when we, and I've been in 126 00:07:15.440 --> 00:07:20.160 this. I've been in this mode. So, I recognize it. But when we get in 127 00:07:20.160 --> 00:07:28.920 this, it is, number one, you're not gonna be shining your light. Because you know, 128 00:07:28.920 --> 00:07:34.400 your light is very dim. But it also creates a lot of stress. And here 129 00:07:34.400 --> 00:07:38.920 we go back into stress mode. So, a lot of times you'll have someone that's not in 130 00:07:38.920 --> 00:07:43.280 healing mode and not in overcoming mode. Because when you're not functioning fully 131 00:07:43.440 --> 00:07:47.400 and who you are, when your identity is dimmed, your light is dimmed and you're 132 00:07:47.400 --> 00:07:52.760 just like almost like barely just barely living. Living enough just to get through. 133 00:07:52.760 --> 00:07:58.280 Your spirit is down there going, wait a second, I'm made for more. And I'm it's 134 00:07:58.280 --> 00:08:07.240 I'm not, it's this isn't me. And so, your spirit gets really discouraged. And your 135 00:08:07.240 --> 00:08:12.320 body will react to that even. Your body can malfunction because of your 136 00:08:12.760 --> 00:08:19.160 living. Almost like it, I don't know, just like half of who you really are. Maybe 137 00:08:19.160 --> 00:08:24.280 even less. I don't know. But it's like I feel it as we're talking. Just what that 138 00:08:24.280 --> 00:08:29.000 feels like. And it's very harmful. It's very harmful to someone who's functioning 139 00:08:29.000 --> 00:08:32.960 like that. Mentally, emotionally and physically as well and spiritually. It's 140 00:08:32.960 --> 00:08:43.640 very, very stressful. No, nobody knows how to get out of it. Nobody does. That's 141 00:08:43.640 --> 00:08:50.320 what they're feeling. Yeah. And you know, we go, we function off of our feelings 142 00:08:50.320 --> 00:08:54.160 and our experiences. Because that's what that's what the subconscious mind 143 00:08:54.160 --> 00:09:01.840 operates from. And so, if you feel like, oh everything's hopeless. This is just 144 00:09:01.840 --> 00:09:08.640 how my life is. And you're stuck in that, you're just gonna function down there. 145 00:09:08.640 --> 00:09:14.200 You know, that's just. And it's it's really sad. I mean, it feels like a 146 00:09:14.200 --> 00:09:19.000 tragedy to me. It feels like a tragedy for someone to have so much. Everybody, 147 00:09:19.000 --> 00:09:24.640 every human being has so much capability and potential for their lives. And you 148 00:09:24.640 --> 00:09:31.480 know, all of us, you all are the only ones on this planet that are you at this time. 149 00:09:31.480 --> 00:09:35.320 In history. And you're the only one of you that will ever be in this world. And 150 00:09:35.320 --> 00:09:41.960 so, that means you have something so significant and valuable and powerful to 151 00:09:41.960 --> 00:09:46.840 contribute to the world. And think about it, if that's just capped off down here 152 00:09:46.840 --> 00:09:52.560 somewhere. Like how tragic. How tragic for you. Tragic for the people that could 153 00:09:52.560 --> 00:10:01.360 benefit from who you are. The impact that coulda, woulda, shoulda happened. Like how sad. 154 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:06.300 I know, it's so sad. So, when do you use this? So, this is another question that I 155 00:10:06.300 --> 00:10:10.440 ask. Are you in overcoming mode or defeat mode? So, you do that after you like 156 00:10:10.440 --> 00:10:17.600 release things from healing? If they get into healing mode, then you do this? So, there's not an order to this. I'm 157 00:10:17.600 --> 00:10:22.040 just giving you options. Oh, yeah. You're kind of sensing after hearing their story 158 00:10:22.040 --> 00:10:25.840 and what's going on. It's more of a sensing. What question you're gonna ask. 159 00:10:25.840 --> 00:10:31.960 So, these are just other... These are just more little focuses to kind of... Because 160 00:10:31.960 --> 00:10:34.120 we were talking... It's kind of like a puzzle piece when you meet with someone. 161 00:10:34.120 --> 00:10:36.400 You're getting all these things and you're trying to put the puzzle together. 162 00:10:36.400 --> 00:10:43.320 And this just helps in my opinion. And so, I use this... I focus on overcoming mode 163 00:10:43.320 --> 00:10:48.240 when someone is struggling with depression for sure. If someone comes in 164 00:10:48.240 --> 00:10:53.920 with depression. If someone is stuck in a continuous struggle like... I see this 165 00:10:53.960 --> 00:10:58.120 pattern. Like someone has this big struggle in their life. They get through 166 00:10:58.120 --> 00:11:02.200 it and then they have another one. And they seem to go like just walk through 167 00:11:02.200 --> 00:11:08.860 life from one struggle to the next. And we all go through struggles. But that is 168 00:11:08.860 --> 00:11:13.840 not abundant life. So, that's not God's intention for us to live in continuous 169 00:11:13.840 --> 00:11:17.320 struggle. It's not. So, if someone has developed a pattern where they just go... 170 00:11:17.320 --> 00:11:23.280 They're just living and struggle all the time. Check this. Or... Yeah. Honestly, it's 171 00:11:23.280 --> 00:11:30.440 any time. Like you can sense it. Just use your discernment or... And I use it... 172 00:11:30.440 --> 00:11:33.800 And maybe someone's not really fully depressed or something like that. But I 173 00:11:33.800 --> 00:11:39.040 also use it when someone comes in. And I usually get like a feel for it. When you 174 00:11:39.040 --> 00:11:43.040 know that someone's kind of failing to thrive. Remember when you had babies? Well, 175 00:11:43.040 --> 00:11:46.380 and you're at the doctor and they make sure... You don't want your baby to be 176 00:11:46.380 --> 00:11:51.080 failing to thrive. Fail to thrive. They checked out at the doctor's visit. And so, 177 00:11:51.080 --> 00:11:55.760 when someone comes in, sometimes you can get just tell. This person is failing to 178 00:11:55.760 --> 00:11:59.520 thrive. Like they could be doing so much more. They're capable of so much more. And 179 00:11:59.520 --> 00:12:04.600 they're not. It's like a baby that's failing to thrive. So... And then the other 180 00:12:04.600 --> 00:12:11.120 thing is that people that have just been shut down by their circumstances. So, 181 00:12:11.120 --> 00:12:16.240 maybe it's just been too much, too many. Maybe they haven't had the support but 182 00:12:16.240 --> 00:12:21.560 they come to you. And it's just this backlog of stuff that they've been 183 00:12:21.560 --> 00:12:25.560 through and they're just shut down. And they're... They cannot move forward. Or they 184 00:12:25.560 --> 00:12:30.040 they can but they don't know that they can. And they don't know how. It's 185 00:12:30.040 --> 00:12:37.520 overwhelmed. Overwhelmed. Drowning. Oh, that's good. A drowning feeling. Yes, yes. 186 00:12:37.520 --> 00:12:42.880 That's good. That's good. So, yeah. So, you're using all your prophetic senses. 187 00:12:42.880 --> 00:12:48.000 Your discernment. So, your spirit is working too. Yeah. And this is where 188 00:12:48.000 --> 00:12:53.560 you're going to get your own style of discovering how you sense that. And 189 00:12:53.560 --> 00:12:57.800 that's what's so cool because you're learning about yourself too. And you're 190 00:12:57.800 --> 00:13:04.080 growing. So, you're always growing and learning more. And that is actually 191 00:13:04.080 --> 00:13:09.720 life-giving to you when you're learning and you're growing and you're... You're 192 00:13:09.720 --> 00:13:26.720 moving forward. It's life-giving to you. And so that's really great. So, I'm going to 193 00:13:26.720 --> 00:13:35.200 get to that. This is how. So, you know, you're going to muscle test, muscle test, 194 00:13:35.200 --> 00:13:42.000 are you an overcoming mode? And if you get a yes, you're going to ask, you know, 195 00:13:42.000 --> 00:13:47.280 what is... What is hindering them? What is hindering you? So, if you get a no? Yeah. 196 00:13:47.280 --> 00:13:54.000 Sorry. Oh, yeah. What is hindering you from... Oh, yes. Like that I'm not an overcoming mode. Either way. 197 00:13:54.000 --> 00:14:00.480 However, you can ask it that way. Okay. You can ask... You can ask, what's the 198 00:14:00.480 --> 00:14:07.240 underlying cause? Yeah. Or you can ask, what is what is hindering you from... What 199 00:14:07.240 --> 00:14:10.400 is hindering you? And then you go to the map. And then you go to the map and 200 00:14:10.400 --> 00:14:15.920 whatever comes up. And this usually has a lot of trapped emotions of, you know, 201 00:14:15.920 --> 00:14:20.160 hopelessness, disillusionment, those types of things. Usually has a lot of 202 00:14:20.160 --> 00:14:30.400 those, a lot of negative beliefs. And then... Yes? When you go to like the emotions 203 00:14:30.400 --> 00:14:36.400 of beliefs, do you test like whether you need to know what age and everything? Age 204 00:14:36.400 --> 00:14:43.960 and all that info? Or do you just test for the age and where it was? Because I was 205 00:14:43.960 --> 00:14:46.920 with somebody who she didn't... She tested to see if we even needed to know 206 00:14:46.920 --> 00:14:53.080 anything else or we can just release. You know, for this, I usually ask like with 207 00:14:53.080 --> 00:14:58.640 the healing mode, how long? Like how long have you been in a defeat mode? Like how 208 00:14:58.640 --> 00:15:01.920 long? I think it's just... 209 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:04.400 helpful for them and for you to know kind of what it is like. 210 00:15:04.400 --> 00:15:06.800 Yeah, and I feel like the age, asking the age and all that 211 00:15:06.800 --> 00:15:09.960 stuff, it's almost more helpful for the client. Yeah, person 212 00:15:09.960 --> 00:15:13.160 like helps them connect. It helps them connect helps them 213 00:15:13.160 --> 00:15:16.080 connect. Yeah, are always helpful for me. I know when I 214 00:15:16.080 --> 00:15:19.680 was doing. And so what you're looking for, what you're looking 215 00:15:19.680 --> 00:15:23.320 to say, the other thing was asking on the timing. I know a 216 00:15:23.320 --> 00:15:28.640 lot of times Holly when we met, it helped me then relating to 217 00:15:28.640 --> 00:15:33.360 whatever the whatever the topic area is. And then I'm going back 218 00:15:33.360 --> 00:15:35.480 to that age, you know, we were talking about what did anything 219 00:15:35.480 --> 00:15:38.560 happen at that age or anything during that time, which helps 220 00:15:38.560 --> 00:15:42.720 get down to the cause then? Yes, it does. Yeah, it helps get down 221 00:15:42.720 --> 00:15:47.960 to the cause. It helps you connect, connect the dots. And I 222 00:15:47.960 --> 00:15:53.040 think for the for the releasing it, the more information that 223 00:15:53.040 --> 00:15:56.400 you can bring to your conscious awareness, the better. 224 00:15:57.160 --> 00:16:02.080 Yeah, easier just to release. Yeah. So so when you're when 225 00:16:02.080 --> 00:16:03.800 you're testing for this overcoming mode, you're 226 00:16:03.800 --> 00:16:07.200 basically looking for the blocks, like what is blocking 227 00:16:07.200 --> 00:16:09.880 them from functioning and as over overcomer, because it's 228 00:16:09.880 --> 00:16:15.320 your, it's your natural ability to overcome is more your natural 229 00:16:15.320 --> 00:16:17.920 ability. And so what is blocking that? So you're looking for the 230 00:16:17.920 --> 00:16:24.920 blocks. And so when you remove the blocks that are blocking 231 00:16:24.920 --> 00:16:28.440 them from functioning as an overcomer and overcoming mode, 232 00:16:28.840 --> 00:16:31.920 you're actually unlocking, you're unlocking the strength 233 00:16:31.920 --> 00:16:36.440 and the courage to move. So you're unlocking something for 234 00:16:36.440 --> 00:16:39.880 them. And the same thing with the healing mode, when you 235 00:16:39.880 --> 00:16:43.760 remove the healing blocks, you're unlocking the natural 236 00:16:43.760 --> 00:16:47.480 healing systems and mechanisms. 237 00:16:47.480 --> 00:16:51.800 So, um, whatever comes up when you ask, you know, are you in 238 00:16:51.800 --> 00:16:56.600 heal overcoming mode and what's blocking it, whatever comes up, 239 00:16:56.640 --> 00:16:58.960 you're going to just follow the mind map and then clear the 240 00:16:58.960 --> 00:17:02.920 blocks. So whatever it is, whatever's blocking them. And 241 00:17:02.920 --> 00:17:07.319 then you want to ask if they've shifted into overcoming mode 242 00:17:07.839 --> 00:17:10.720 after you release the stuff. And if not, that means there's just 243 00:17:10.720 --> 00:17:14.880 more. So there's just more blocks. So you just want to find 244 00:17:14.880 --> 00:17:18.880 them all however long it takes and clear them all for them. And 245 00:17:19.400 --> 00:17:22.839 it may require some inner healing for these for this type 246 00:17:22.839 --> 00:17:25.960 of session. And I'm going to go through that in just a minute, 247 00:17:25.960 --> 00:17:28.119 I'm going to go through the inner healing. That's also 248 00:17:28.119 --> 00:17:32.120 something that's very profound for this type of person and this 249 00:17:32.120 --> 00:17:34.600 type of situation where they feel just really discouraged, 250 00:17:34.600 --> 00:17:37.200 really overwhelmed, and they're just like, I don't know, I don't 251 00:17:37.200 --> 00:17:43.240 know. And this is really great, because I did this for all once 252 00:17:43.240 --> 00:17:48.440 people get into overcoming mode. I mean, they usually notice a 253 00:17:48.440 --> 00:17:53.320 difference. They notice a hope like they they notice that they 254 00:17:53.320 --> 00:17:56.120 have hope where they didn't before at all. And that's a 255 00:17:56.440 --> 00:17:59.600 that's a big thing. Honestly, you know, it says that it's a 256 00:17:59.600 --> 00:18:03.440 big deal. But it's a big deal. And it's a big deal. And it's a 257 00:18:03.440 --> 00:18:06.880 and that's a that's a big thing. Honestly, you know, it 258 00:18:06.880 --> 00:18:09.920 says that faith, hope and love are the are the biggest things. 259 00:18:09.960 --> 00:18:12.800 Yeah, they're the greatest. So when someone can get their hope 260 00:18:12.800 --> 00:18:18.560 back, that's a huge, huge victory. Because their heart is 261 00:18:18.560 --> 00:18:22.600 sick. Yeah, when you have no hope, the heart is sick when you 262 00:18:22.600 --> 00:18:28.400 have no hope. Yeah. Yeah. That's right. It says that it does. 263 00:18:29.400 --> 00:18:33.600 Yeah, usually. Yeah, hope deferred makes the heart sick. 264 00:18:35.000 --> 00:18:42.080 That's what I'm talking about. Literally. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. I 265 00:18:42.080 --> 00:18:45.840 think the process of even helping them get breakthrough on 266 00:18:45.840 --> 00:18:50.680 a couple things gives them hope, you know, yeah. Oh, like that 267 00:18:50.680 --> 00:18:55.360 puts you into overcoming mode. It does. Hope does. Yeah, just a 268 00:18:55.360 --> 00:18:58.000 little bit of hope. Just a little bit. It can grow. It can 269 00:18:58.000 --> 00:19:02.120 grow. And you know, I also people report that they have a 270 00:19:02.120 --> 00:19:05.200 little more almost like excitement or enthusiasm about 271 00:19:05.200 --> 00:19:09.280 what's ahead about their future. Whereas before, they like, saw 272 00:19:09.280 --> 00:19:11.560 nothing bright in their future at all, which is why would you 273 00:19:11.560 --> 00:19:13.400 want to get out of bed if there's nothing in your future 274 00:19:13.400 --> 00:19:16.800 that's could ever be good again, or whatever. So they feel 275 00:19:16.840 --> 00:19:21.040 enthusiasm, excitement about the future, which is huge. Again, 276 00:19:21.040 --> 00:19:25.920 it's a huge gift to them. And just encourage just to 277 00:19:26.200 --> 00:19:29.720 encourage to keep going. And we all need that. I mean, everybody 278 00:19:29.720 --> 00:19:35.880 needs to feel encouraged to keep going. And when someone is in 279 00:19:35.880 --> 00:19:39.200 overcoming mode, you they're also able to encourage 280 00:19:39.200 --> 00:19:42.120 themselves. And sometimes we just need to encourage 281 00:19:42.120 --> 00:19:44.400 ourselves. It's kind of like you do with your little kid when 282 00:19:44.400 --> 00:19:48.600 they're, you know, running their race, and you stand on the side, 283 00:19:48.600 --> 00:19:51.560 you can do it, keep going, keep going. I mean, it just helps. 284 00:19:51.640 --> 00:19:53.400 Sometimes I do that to myself. Yeah.