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All right, let's just see if I can do this here.

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All right. Good morning and good afternoon and good evening.

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I know we've got people all over the world.

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Looks like the first slide is missing. How fun is that? Okay.

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It said goals activation whatever reason the first slide didn't show but welcome welcome welcome. I am Brenda, this is the goals activation masterclass.

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Let me tell you a little bit about what this is and what it isn't so you can get the most out of this of course you've set your intention so you know where you're desiring to go individually.

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Most people know that goal setting is actually pretty basic. You can you can Google it anywhere you can probably write the steps if I asked you, right so you get really clear and you write your goals, and then you turn it into a plan, and then you take action.

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You can put some filler in there you prioritize you get accountability you commit, but the gist of setting a goal. I think most people know I don't think it's lack of knowledge about how to set a goal.

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My experience has been that there's these things in between that actually are more powerful than those steps. And that's why I'm calling this a goal activation masterclass it's not a goal setting.

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It's a goal activation, which means yes you're going to get clear on your goals and yes you'll know some of the steps, but we're going to be looking at the things that will actually put power behind your goals, we're going to be looking at the things that are

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going to infuse you with energy and life and infuse your goals with energy and life. Right. So those are the things, and I'm telling you on this particular one, I'm going to let the Holy Spirit lead as to what I cover because I've got enough content to start talking

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and you'll be long past your bedtime. So not going to do that to you I'm going to cover the main things as they come up and as I feel led by the Holy Spirit we're going to start with prayer, and we're going to dive right in.

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So Father I just thank you for this moment in history.

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At this moment, Lord, we just call on you to help us to drop all thoughts from the past.

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The past does not exist it's simply a memory, it's just simply a pathway in our brain.

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But it's not something we can go back and change we can't live in it, unless we want to drag it into the now. So we ask that whatever wants to come from the past well I tried and it didn't work well I failed while I do this while I'm not

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well I'm not all that stuff from the past.

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We just ask that that get buried in the sea of forgetfulness.

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We ask, even though this is goal setting and focuses on the future, that the future will also be quieted right now that we will be fully present here and now, and that you will open our spiritual senses that we will hear what you Holy Spirit have to say to

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us right here, right now. So I asked you speak through my mind you speak through my mouth that you allow this course to be everything that you wanted to be, and that every single person listening both now or later in the prosper leader membership or wherever they

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hear this recording that they will get exactly what they need to get to step into their divine call their divine purpose to operate in the fullness of who they were created to be.

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And I ask all of that in Jesus name.

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Amen. Amen. So again, this is the goals activation. And so, if you are an author a speaker a coach a healer and entrepreneur a solopreneur, and you have goals dreams desires, and you desire to learn how to successfully set and achieve goals, and you desire

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tools strategies to make this year, different than you're in the right place.

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I have to tell you that my first experience and goal setting happened about 30 years ago, and I was in a job I like to call it a job from hell maybe some of you have had that.

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boss from hell. Maybe some of you have had something like that. Her name was Trudy. And

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I was working because of my background with counseling and so on. I was working in a

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counseling center where people should have sanity, but they didn't particularly. And this job was so

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stressful that I can tell you I was just getting started. I'd come back as a missionary. I didn't

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have money. I got this through a temp agency and I, um, it would, it'd be so stressful that

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literally every day I would take my lunch break to get in my car, my old Ford Granada with green

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seats. Okay. This thing was, that's a whole story in and of itself. And I would drive myself to the

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park where I would sit and cry and eat my PB and J sandwich that I had made for myself for lunch.

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And I don't know if it was a person I was working with that felt sorry for me,

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had compassion. The Lord spoke to her from heaven. I don't know, but she handed me my first,

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um, I'm giving my age away, cassette deck, personal development, cassette deck. You see

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it on the screen here. It was Brian Tracy. That's me standing next to the success legend,

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Brian Tracy. I've had some wonderful encounters with him. Amazing man. Um, and I listened to the

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psychology of achievement, which was really goal setting extraordinary. And I did exactly what he

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said in there. And so I created, uh, the exact goal that I had for a job. It definitely wasn't

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working in hell with the boss from hell. And I knew I wanted to work with people from other cultures.

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I knew I wanted to use my teaching and speaking skills. And so I did the research found what

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companies had that and found three companies, went to the first one, got myself suited up,

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walked in the door. There was nothing advertised. There was no job. I was just showing up saying

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here, you need me. Right? So it was a very bold move. It took a lot of courage, but I had set a

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goal and I was very clear on it. I knew the wise. And so there I was, I drove my, you know, white

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Ford Granada with green seats into this business in, in, uh, an office park. And I walked in and

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sitting right at the front was the founder of this organization. His name was Joe. And I shook hands

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and I introduced myself and I told him why he needed to hire me. And the interesting fun thing

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is he did. And, um, you know, this is, this is, you know, going way back. I don't know now, 30

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plus years. And so I can, I can remember, you know, I don't remember now is 12, $1,500 a month.

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But what I know is in a matter of months doing this, I had increased to $2,200 a month just

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in the first couple of months there. And I was doing everything that I loved. And of course I

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have applied the things that I've learned. Um, this is me. Uh, and I, I wanted to show a picture

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with Brian, but I couldn't find it when we were in a restaurant and I was actually showing him

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the psychology of achievement. And he looked at it and he smiled and he said, that's the first one I

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ever produced. So you just never know, you know, how, how it happens, but that's how my goal setting

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got started. And it started me on a trajectory of success. And yet what I found is that even

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the things he taught are so basic, it's easy to do, but it's also easy to not do. You see,

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this is the challenge with goal setting. It's easy to do, but it's easy to not do. So how do we get

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around that dichotomy? So what I'm going to teach you, I can tell you that has led to over 30 years

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of, of goal setting. And so it was this first job. And then I left there, I fired that job and made

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my first six figure income in sales. Um, I ranked at the highest level with a Canadian nutritional

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network marketing company using these same things that I'm teaching only expanded and so much after

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30 years, uh, went on. Of course, most of you know, to found a international nutritional network

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marketing corporation and ultimately landed me where I am here as, as founder of prosper in all

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things where you find me right now. And I was sharing with the people before, and this is

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something also about grace and about timing. As you set your goals. I think it was Bill Gates

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that said we often overestimate what we can do in a year.

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So when we don't accomplish that we beat ourselves up, but we underestimate what we can do in 10 years.

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And this is the 10 year anniversary for prosper in all things. And I still have the goals written out every aspect that I put up on the wall 10 years ago.

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And the beautiful thing is that now 10 years later, all of those have been fulfilled except one. So, you know, there now is a website there now is a beautiful coach certification program there now is prosper TV.

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There now, you know, is a membership site. So I can tell you that stay the course with what you learn today. We're going to break it down what can you do this year what can you do this month, but we're also need to be patient.

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What can you do 10 years. If you, if you stay with it. So here's Brian, again, and this was when amazingly enough 20 years after that, that I was invited to be on his television show who would have thought person that I first started me on that one day

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that I would be on his television show. And he says something really powerful here. And he says that success is goals.

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Wow, I really love that. I really love that that success is goals, and all else is commentary.

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And so this is the beauty of being human, of being able to set goals and achieve them. This is where I believe that God is ever expanding, and he's created us to be ever expanding.

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So success is goals and all else is commentary. This is the great discovery throughout all human history, your life only begins to become a great life. When you clearly identify what it is that you want, make a plan to achieve it, and then work to achieve

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that plan every single day. So there it is, in, in a nutshell, this is what I learned 30 years ago, and yet, why is it that we do not. So there's something he says in there that I'm going to, I'm going to start with, first of all, and that is having a plan,

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and so he says to align our goals in accordance with God's will and leadership. We must first understand the difference between a goal and a plan.

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That's worth taking notes.

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Do I understand the difference between a goal and a plan.

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He said somewhere else, a goal without a plan is a hallucination.

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A goal without a plan is a hallucination. Okay, so we often either don't have clarity on the goal. So we say, I want to make more money.

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I want more money. Okay.

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Cool. You know Tony Robbins will say here's a dollar, you got more money, you achieved your goal.

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Right. So, we have these very vague goals.

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This is this is the first thing is we don't get really specific.

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Right. So the second part of what makes a goal a reality is there's a specific plan there's a set of steps necessary to achieve those goals.

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And so we will go through that. Some of you got my emails and there's other things that happen with our goals, and that we have to get clear on.

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And so one of those is getting really clear on your values, values are what really drive you they are what's really important to you.

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And so we were talking before.

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One of the people that was here live was talking about my email that I sent out about gas and brakes like why do I always put the gas and brakes on.

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Either you got a values conflict. Okay. And so what does that look like.

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So for example, let's suppose that your core value is security and safety.

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Really, I need to feel safe and secure.

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And your other value is, I desire to have my own business and the freedom and joy of being an entrepreneur.

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Now do you see where there's a conflict.

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You see, one is pushing towards safety and security and one is going into never never land that doesn't have any safety or security. Now you got a values conflict.

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Okay. And now what will happen is those will be warring against each other, you know, two pigs in a blanket right i mean you're just going to have gas and brakes going on.

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Okay. So, what do you do with that.

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There's a really powerful technique.

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Okay, I'm giving you right off the bat, I told you this is gonna be spirit, let whatever

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comes up.

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So very powerful technique.

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I actually learned this from my coach, Derek Rydell.

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So I didn't invent this, but it's it's brilliant, okay.

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And that is you bring those two things together.

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Okay, let me give you another example to that one.

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For me, I always thought my high value is freedom.

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And I also desire to have a business, but I had the value conflict that wow, the bigger

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the business I build, the less freedom that I'll have.

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That would be a conflict because the you know, I had built a huge network marketing company

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and it didn't have freedom for me and have freedom for the reps, but not for me, I was

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speaking all the time and you know, working all the time.

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So okay, so how do I bring that together, I've got this value of freedom.

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And I've got this value of desiring to have a business.

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And now they're at war.

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Here's how it looks.

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The bigger I grow my business, the more freedom I have.

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And the more freedom I have, the more creative and the bigger I build my business.

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And the bigger I build my business, isn't this true?

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And it's been true for me, the bigger I build my business, you know, I've got someone that

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handles all my lead generation, I don't have to think about leads, I got infinite leads

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coming to me already.

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You see, I don't have to think about that.

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I've got someone that's a brilliant copywriter.

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I don't have to write anything.

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The bigger I grow my business, the more freedom I have.

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That's so true.

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You see, I can, I can work from anywhere.

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I have the resources, I have the people, I have the help.

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You see how that works?

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So now I just took what used to hold me back personally, this is my story.

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I was really afraid to grow my business because I was afraid I wouldn't have freedom.

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You see how that works?

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So part of this, if you haven't done a values analysis, I've got templates to help you with

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that.

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We need to look at your values.

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We need to look at where is there a values conflict, right?

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If it's not that, then there's probably a limiting belief.

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Now do you see how the things I'm teaching you, you can have a goal, you can have a plan,

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you can even start to take action.

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But if there's a values conflict, see how that fits in between, you're not going to

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do anything.

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Gas and brakes.

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You see why I'm teaching a goals activation.

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There's a difference than goal setting, goal activation.

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So I've got to look at my values.

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I also have to look at my beliefs.

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If I have a belief that money is evil and that I'm really afraid if I make a lot of

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money, this is also a value conflict.

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But I think to myself, if I make a lot of money, I'm afraid I'm going to be really greedy.

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I'm going to be selfish.

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I'll lose my character because I have the belief that all rich people are really greedy,

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selfish, because that's what the movies teach, right?

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If you watch any movie, the business guy is always the bad guy.

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Always.

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He's selfish.

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He doesn't love his wife.

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He steals.

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He lies.

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He cheats.

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They always make the rich business guy, he's the villain.

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And we learn this from childhood.

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And so you've got this unconscious stuff that says, man, I don't want to have money.

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And yet what does God do with his beloved?

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What did he shower on Abraham?

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What did he shower on Isaac?

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What did he shower on Jacob?

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What did he shower on all of his beloved?

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What does the Bible promise?

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God is infinite abundance and we're made in his image and he wants us to walk in this

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infinite abundance.

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Somebody needs to mute.

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I'm getting some background noise.

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So again, then it's a belief system.

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In light of this right here, a goal is a desired result.

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So the goal is where do you want to end up?

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What does it look like at the end of this picture?

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The plan is how am I going to get there?

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Here's another one.

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See the Holy Spirit's just bringing stuff up.

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Most of you know that I personally use the prosper daily plan.

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This is available to all of you.

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There is several reasons for that.

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One of them is every day I am writing down my mission.

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So you have your vision, okay?

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The mission is how you do your vision.

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I write my mission down every day.

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I then write my goals down every day on the prosper daily plan and the goals are in line

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with the mission.

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So I'm seeing my mission where I'm trying to get.

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It's a type of goal in a way.

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Where am I trying to get and how am I going to get there?

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Underneath that, you put your goals.

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What are the goals?

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Now, whatever works for your brain, that could be for that day or it could be for that week

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or it could be for that month.

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I usually do my goals for the month.

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So I'm writing down my monthly goals.

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If you've ever heard of SMART goals,

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they're very specific, they're very measurable.

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I can take action on them.

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They're very realistic, right?

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They're very time sensitive.

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So when I write down my goals,

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you know, 10 new members of the Prosper Leader membership,

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you know, by the end of this month, that's very specific.

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It's very doable, it's very measurable.

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It's powerful, it's in alignment, okay?

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So writing down the goals every single day is another way

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because that means every time I sit at my desk,

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I fill out a Prosper Daily Plan,

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I am writing my goals every single day.

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That is huge, okay?

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Then you notice on the Prosper Daily Plan

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for the plan part of it

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is I'm breaking it into 20 minute chunks.

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I'm writing down what I absolutely will do.

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I'm making declarations,

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and we'll talk about this at the end of this course,

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what I will do,

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and then I'm breaking that into 20 minute chunks,

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actions that I can specifically do.

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So I'm always progressing toward a worthwhile goal,

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always on focus.

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When I sit down and work, I'm working off of that.

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Nothing else, if it's not written on the Prosper Daily Plan,

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it's not happening, okay?

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So these are some, you know,

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extra little tips that I just gave you.

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So your goals are both an inner game,

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which I just got done sharing some of the inner game, right?

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I wanna mention on the inner game,

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because you might be in one of these four stages

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of personal growth,

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and you're gonna look at goal setting very differently.

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The goal is to get to level four,

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but we're all somewhere between one and four.

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So the four stages of personal growth,

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where most people are is in victim consciousness,

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consciousness, victim consciousness.

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What does that look like?

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What does that look like?

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Things are happening to me, okay?

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And not through me, they're happening to me.

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And what I desire is out there.

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So my life is always as a victim thinking

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that something has to change for me

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to be happy, healthy, prosperous.

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So when the president changes,

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I'll be happy, healthy, prosperous.

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When the government changes, when I retire,

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when I get a raise, when I get a job,

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when I get married, when I get divorced,

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we're always looking for something outside of ourselves

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for us to go forward with our goals.

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then your first step of goal setting

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is to get out of the victim consciousness

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and begin to take responsibility for your life,

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that God has given you the ability to choose,

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God has given you the ability to take action

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and that things are happening through you, not to you.

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Could you push your mute button, please, somebody,

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if I have to go looking for you,

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but if you could make sure you're muted,

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I'm getting background noise from somebody.

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Make sure, thank you.

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Okay, and so from that, whoops, let's go back.

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From the victim consciousness, you grow, okay?

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You grow into these stages,

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you get into manifest consciousness

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and that you may be here because you're live at this,

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my suspicion is you're in the manifest consciousness.

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that you can change your thoughts,

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that your thoughts are up to you.

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You can change your beliefs, you can change your words,

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you can change your actions.

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And so you start becoming aware

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that as you change your words,

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as you change your thoughts, as you change your beliefs,

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as you change your actions, then you change your results.

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Okay, so the manifest consciousness means

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I can really manifest what I desire in my life.

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If I learn, like scripture talks about,

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we're transformed by the renewing of our mind.

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If I learn to do that,

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then I'm entering in more of this manifest consciousness.

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Okay, manifest consciousness.

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Then we get into number three,

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and that is a vessel consciousness, okay?

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And so a vessel consciousness or a channel, okay,

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now you're starting to realize, okay,

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so manifest consciousness, I need to make it happen.

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I got to do my declarations, I got to do my affirmations,

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I got to do my daily disciplines,

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I got to make it happen, okay?

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That's way better than victim that I'm just like,

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I'm just in the sea and I'm being bobbed up and down.

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It's the next level that, wow,

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God gave me the ability, okay, to make things happen.

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level is even higher, you no longer feel you have to make things happen, you begin to allow

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them to happen.

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And so you cultivate a place of openness and receptiveness, you're a Romans 12, you know,

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I offer myself as a living sacrifice, Lord, think through me, coach through me, work through

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me, you know, build through me, and you're you're co laboring with God, you become aware

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that you know, you're working, speaking, writing, teaching, co creating with God, okay, higher

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level of consciousness, then I got to make it happen, which is a which is a real striving

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energy, it's a push, it's a shove, it's a and, and this one is more of, you know what,

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there's abundance everywhere, there's opportunity, I carry the Spirit of God in me, I have the

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mind of Christ, Lord, I'm open, I'm receptive, you've called me to this, build this through

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me, teach me, show me, right.

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And then ultimately, you get into very few people get into number four.

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And we may come in or out of that, which is being consciousness.

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And so being consciousness is like Jesus, the Father and I are one, I'm in the Father,

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the Father's in me, you are we're in each other.

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And you're just in this place of literally being your goal.

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And we're going to talk about how to implement this.

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So as you're looking at your goals, you're looking at where am I at, and then you're

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making sure some of the basic things your goals need to be positive.

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This is really important, okay, because many people make negative goals.

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I want to stop overeating.

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That's a negative goal.

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I want to quit smoking, right?

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So the brain doesn't understand it's just like telling your kids not to, to not spill

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their milk, okay?

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Don't spill your milk.

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Don't spill your milk.

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What do you think chances are really high, because the brain doesn't understand negative.

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So it has to picture spent is spilling the milk in order to try to figure out what don't

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spilling the milk.

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And by that time, already, they've spilled the milk.

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I remember when my kids, I used to read Bernstein bears to them.

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And the Papa bear was always doing stuff.

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And he's like, don't when you're writing, make sure that you don't hit the trees, because

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that's really dangerous.

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Don't hit the trees, smack, Bernstein bear hits the tree.

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And then he looks at his son, of course, that I'm trying to show you what not to do, right?

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So you learn from me, right?

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But this is what we do.

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We can't look anybody that that knows, you know, a race car driver, and they're spinning

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out of control, they've got to look where they're trying to go, they can't look at where

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they're going.

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And so, so this has to be positive, it has to be present tense has to be personal, this

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has to really matter for you.

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You can't be living someone else's goals.

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This has to be yours, it has to be possible.

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And it has to be prioritized.

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Okay, you've got a lot of goals, which ones are we going to do first, what's most important

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here.

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And I'm going to add this, it has to be based on truth.

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It can't be based on lies.

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Okay, so lack is a lie.

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Even if you feel it right now, it's a lie.

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Abundance is the truth of God.

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There's infinite abundance available to you right now.

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If you are trying to make your goals based on lack, and you're going, I need to do this

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because I don't want to lose my home because I don't want to be homeless because I don't

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want my kids to be out on the streets, where, right, the energy flows where the attention

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goes, where is my attention going?

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What am I looking at?

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I'm looking smack at the tree of what I don't want.

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You have to focus on what you desire, not what you don't desire.

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Too many people spend all their time focusing on what they don't desire.

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I don't desire to be broke.

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I don't desire to be fat.

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I don't desire to be single.

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And they stay in that place.

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So part of being positive has to be based on the truth of God, okay, has to be based

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on abundance and not based on fear, okay, because fear is the opposite of love.

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Fear is lovelessness.

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Fear is not of God.

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That's why the Bible says perfect love casts out fear.

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Fear is just pure lovelessness, okay?

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So it's a lie.

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So we have to replace fear-based thinking with love-based thinking, okay?

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We have to replace the lies with truth.

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So it's very, very important that these are some of the things overall.

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So that's inner stuff.

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That's the inner game.

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So let's talk about the outer game, okay?

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Here are some steps that we're going to talk about.

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We're going to do a little bit of practice as we go through.

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So once I have these goals.

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Here are some questions, and I'm going to break these down.

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But they're great questions.

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Who do I need to become?

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So let's say I desire to be the founder of a seven-figure

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business or an eight-figure business.

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Who do I need to become?

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I desire to be a great leader.

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I desire to be an amazing wife or husband.

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Who do I need to become to fulfill that goal?

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Now, do you see how that's so much higher than higher

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level of thinking?

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And at the same time, what must I release?

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What have I been holding on to that's not

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allowing me to achieve that?

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I've shared with some of you that I

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don't know if it's been a year now, six months,

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I just got motivated to absolutely clean out

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my living room.

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And in a matter of 24 hours, I gave away everything in there.

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The tapestries on the wall, the couches, the rugs,

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everything was out.

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It was an empty room.

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And then I was able, because I created the space, which

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is a principle, creating the space for what you desire.

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I had created the space.

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You see, I can't hang new curtains

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with the old curtains still on the rug.

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I can't keep bringing in new clothes in my closet.

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There's going to reach a breaking point

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until I get rid of the old.

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Now, a minimalism principle is every time I bring something

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in, I have to take something out.

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That's a basic minimalism, minimalist principle.

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So what must I release?

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And that doesn't have to be only possessions.

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One of the things we have to release is an old identity.

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So if you're holding the identity of I'm a smoker,

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but my goal is to quit smoking.

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So we got a negative goal.

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I have to stop smoking.

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But my identity is I'm a smoker.

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I've always been a smoker.

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I've been a smoker for 40 years.

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Do you see the problem?

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These things I'm sharing with you, these are like the mud.

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These are like the quicksand.

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You start driving down the path, you're in your Jeep, right?

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And I'm ready to achieve these goals.

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And the mud is getting thicker and thicker and thicker.

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And you're sinking down and sinking down, right?

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Why?

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Because these are the sticky things.

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So this talks about when I say I am a smoker,

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when we put the word I am in front of something,

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first of all, those are the most powerful words

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in the universe.

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00:32:53.840 --> 00:32:55.960
They're the name of God.

452
00:32:55.960 --> 00:33:00.000
So anything you put after I am, if you wouldn't put it

453
00:33:00.000 --> 00:33:02.080
after God, don't put that.

454
00:33:02.080 --> 00:33:05.480
So if you say I am, let's say broke, OK,

455
00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:07.000
would you say that about God?

456
00:33:07.000 --> 00:33:09.400
Then don't say it about you as a son or daughter

457
00:33:09.400 --> 00:33:11.080
of the most high God.

458
00:33:11.120 --> 00:33:14.800
But that's one part of I am, because it's very powerful.

459
00:33:14.800 --> 00:33:20.720
Second part of it is I am represents your identity.

460
00:33:20.720 --> 00:33:22.680
When you're saying I am, you understand

461
00:33:22.680 --> 00:33:24.280
this is like my core being.

462
00:33:24.280 --> 00:33:26.240
I am.

463
00:33:26.240 --> 00:33:28.440
I am.

464
00:33:28.440 --> 00:33:30.120
I am.

465
00:33:30.120 --> 00:33:35.480
And so if I am thinking that my identity,

466
00:33:35.480 --> 00:33:37.880
this is an area I think about often,

467
00:33:37.880 --> 00:33:42.920
even with AA or the 12-step program, I love it.

468
00:33:42.920 --> 00:33:44.480
I think it helps so many people.

469
00:33:44.480 --> 00:33:45.480
I think it's amazing.

470
00:33:45.480 --> 00:33:47.120
Many family have gone through it.

471
00:33:47.120 --> 00:33:49.440
But I always wonder about walking around all the time

472
00:33:49.440 --> 00:33:51.160
and saying I am an alcoholic.

473
00:33:51.160 --> 00:33:52.360
I just wonder about that.

474
00:33:52.360 --> 00:33:55.360
I can't help if that doesn't sabotage in some way.

475
00:33:55.360 --> 00:33:56.760
It's just my own thinking.

476
00:33:56.760 --> 00:33:57.920
I love the program.

477
00:33:57.920 --> 00:33:59.240
I'm not dissing it.

478
00:33:59.240 --> 00:34:06.520
But I feel that it would be better to say I am a recovered

479
00:34:06.520 --> 00:34:09.800
or recovering or something in front of it.

480
00:34:09.800 --> 00:34:14.120
Somehow make it present tense and where you desire to be.

481
00:34:14.120 --> 00:34:15.840
So what must I release?

482
00:34:15.840 --> 00:34:17.080
It might be an identity.

483
00:34:17.080 --> 00:34:18.440
It might be old thinking.

484
00:34:18.440 --> 00:34:19.520
It might be old habits.

485
00:34:19.520 --> 00:34:21.199
We'll talk more about that.

486
00:34:21.199 --> 00:34:22.880
What do I have?

487
00:34:22.880 --> 00:34:26.120
This is another big one that we really neglect.

488
00:34:26.120 --> 00:34:27.280
This is another big one.

489
00:34:27.280 --> 00:34:29.520
What do I have?

490
00:34:29.520 --> 00:34:33.280
And then also, what do I need to accomplish this?

491
00:34:33.280 --> 00:34:34.520
What do I need?

492
00:34:34.520 --> 00:34:36.800
I need a web developer that really knows.

493
00:34:36.800 --> 00:34:38.920
I need a social media expert.

494
00:34:38.920 --> 00:34:40.560
What do I need to achieve?

495
00:34:40.560 --> 00:34:44.600
I desire to be an eight-figure thought leader.

496
00:34:44.600 --> 00:34:47.159
What do I need?

497
00:34:47.159 --> 00:34:48.639
We have to think about these things.

498
00:34:48.639 --> 00:34:51.400
And what do I need to let go of?

499
00:34:51.400 --> 00:34:53.000
These are really important questions.

500
00:34:53.000 --> 00:34:54.719
This is the quicksand stuff that gets

501
00:34:54.719 --> 00:34:58.080
between setting the goal and taking action.

502
00:34:58.080 --> 00:34:59.200
It's this stuff.

503
00:34:59.200 --> 00:34:59.880
You understand?

504
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:06.360
Okay, and so what do I have a need and then of course the plan and the action so let's

505
00:35:06.360 --> 00:35:08.360
get a little deeper into this.

506
00:35:08.360 --> 00:35:09.360
Okay.

507
00:35:09.360 --> 00:35:16.240
So, right now take out a piece of paper, take your pen, and really quick, just on the spot

508
00:35:16.240 --> 00:35:20.160
write down three goals right now and if you want to do it in three areas cool do a business

509
00:35:20.160 --> 00:35:25.340
do a family or do a health whatever three goals, write them down right now fast three

510
00:35:25.340 --> 00:35:29.320
goals quick as you can raise your hand those of you that are live once you've written

511
00:35:29.320 --> 00:35:34.700
them three goals, boom, raise your hand.

512
00:35:34.700 --> 00:35:39.740
Those of you listening online three goals write them down quick don't overanalyze just

513
00:35:39.740 --> 00:35:47.900
write the first three things that come to you three goals, quick.

514
00:35:47.900 --> 00:35:52.140
Raise your hand when you've got them put in the chat when you've got them.

515
00:35:52.140 --> 00:35:53.140
Okay.

516
00:35:53.140 --> 00:35:57.800
You got your three goals.

517
00:35:57.800 --> 00:36:01.480
Let me see I'm gauging by those of you that are live, raise your hand when you've got

518
00:36:01.480 --> 00:36:02.480
them.

519
00:36:02.480 --> 00:36:03.480
Okay.

520
00:36:03.480 --> 00:36:04.480
All right.

521
00:36:04.480 --> 00:36:05.480
Give it another second.

522
00:36:05.480 --> 00:36:09.600
Some of you haven't raised your hand you got them okay you got them all right, so you identify

523
00:36:09.600 --> 00:36:12.260
these top three goals in writing.

524
00:36:12.260 --> 00:36:16.360
Now what we know scientifically these are probably the most accurate.

525
00:36:16.360 --> 00:36:22.620
We can do all kinds of exercises but you know your mind knows your spirit knows.

526
00:36:23.100 --> 00:36:25.280
So whatever you wrote down is probably your top goals.

527
00:36:25.280 --> 00:36:27.520
I just prioritized them for you.

528
00:36:27.520 --> 00:36:30.680
This is an old trick that is really accurate.

529
00:36:30.680 --> 00:36:31.680
Okay.

530
00:36:31.680 --> 00:36:34.080
So you take a look at what is that.

531
00:36:34.080 --> 00:36:38.640
So this is what we just did is called the three goal method.

532
00:36:38.640 --> 00:36:39.640
Okay.

533
00:36:39.640 --> 00:36:46.400
Now, step two with that is we're going to clarify and amplify those goals.

534
00:36:46.400 --> 00:36:47.400
Okay.

535
00:36:47.400 --> 00:36:51.600
So I want you to pick one, the one that really jumps out at you that you really really would

536
00:36:51.600 --> 00:36:53.140
like to have in this year.

537
00:36:53.140 --> 00:36:56.140
Just pick one right now kind of draw a box around it.

538
00:36:56.140 --> 00:36:58.700
We're going to focus on that because we don't have time to do all three.

539
00:36:58.700 --> 00:37:02.180
So just put the box around that one.

540
00:37:02.180 --> 00:37:03.180
Okay.

541
00:37:03.180 --> 00:37:08.820
And now I'm going to ask you five times why.

542
00:37:08.820 --> 00:37:10.220
Okay.

543
00:37:10.220 --> 00:37:19.540
So if you say I have the goal to XYZ, okay, why write down why.

544
00:37:19.560 --> 00:37:23.240
And once you've once you've written down the first why and you guys can be my gauge

545
00:37:23.240 --> 00:37:24.240
here live.

546
00:37:24.240 --> 00:37:29.440
Just put a one up that you've you've done you've done the first why.

547
00:37:29.440 --> 00:37:32.440
Okay.

548
00:37:32.440 --> 00:37:35.240
Okay.

549
00:37:35.240 --> 00:37:36.480
Everybody got the first why.

550
00:37:36.480 --> 00:37:37.480
Okay, beautiful.

551
00:37:37.480 --> 00:37:40.520
Now, I want you to do it the second time.

552
00:37:40.520 --> 00:37:41.520
Go even deeper.

553
00:37:41.520 --> 00:37:47.460
So let's say I desire to to have, you know, lose 30 pounds.

554
00:37:47.460 --> 00:37:48.460
Why?

555
00:37:48.460 --> 00:37:50.860
Because I want to have more energy.

556
00:37:50.860 --> 00:37:51.860
Okay.

557
00:37:51.860 --> 00:37:52.860
Second, why?

558
00:37:52.860 --> 00:37:53.860
Why?

559
00:37:53.860 --> 00:37:54.980
Why do you want to have more energy?

560
00:37:54.980 --> 00:37:58.740
So take what you just wrote down and ask why about that?

561
00:37:58.740 --> 00:37:59.740
Why?

562
00:37:59.740 --> 00:38:01.860
Why do you want that thing that you just wrote?

563
00:38:01.860 --> 00:38:14.880
Why?

564
00:38:14.880 --> 00:38:19.000
So I want to lose, I desire to lose 30 pounds.

565
00:38:19.000 --> 00:38:21.200
Why I desire to have more energy.

566
00:38:21.200 --> 00:38:22.200
Why?

567
00:38:22.200 --> 00:38:24.640
So I can play with my grandkids, right?

568
00:38:24.640 --> 00:38:25.640
Okay.

569
00:38:25.640 --> 00:38:27.120
Number three, take that one.

570
00:38:27.120 --> 00:38:30.600
You just wrote down why?

571
00:38:30.600 --> 00:38:35.740
Number three, you wrote down for the next one, why?

572
00:38:35.740 --> 00:38:41.060
That's level three of why.

573
00:38:41.060 --> 00:38:43.100
So I desire to lose 30 pounds.

574
00:38:43.100 --> 00:38:44.100
Why?

575
00:38:44.100 --> 00:38:45.100
So I can have more energy.

576
00:38:45.100 --> 00:38:46.100
Why?

577
00:38:46.100 --> 00:38:47.100
So I can play with my grandkids.

578
00:38:47.100 --> 00:38:48.100
Why?

579
00:38:48.100 --> 00:38:49.100
This is three or four.

580
00:38:49.100 --> 00:38:50.100
Where am I at?

581
00:38:50.100 --> 00:38:51.100
This is three.

582
00:38:51.100 --> 00:38:52.100
Okay.

583
00:38:52.100 --> 00:38:53.100
We're going to do it two more times.

584
00:38:53.100 --> 00:38:54.100
Okay.

585
00:38:54.100 --> 00:38:55.100
So I desire to lose 30 pounds.

586
00:38:55.100 --> 00:38:56.100
Why?

587
00:38:56.100 --> 00:38:57.100
So I can have more energy.

588
00:38:57.100 --> 00:38:58.100
Why?

589
00:38:58.100 --> 00:38:59.100
So I can play with my grandkids.

590
00:38:59.100 --> 00:39:00.100
Why?

591
00:39:00.600 --> 00:39:01.600
Okay.

592
00:39:01.600 --> 00:39:02.600
So now we're going to take that one.

593
00:39:02.600 --> 00:39:03.600
We're going to do number four.

594
00:39:03.600 --> 00:39:04.600
The last thing.

595
00:39:04.600 --> 00:39:06.640
So, so I desire to lose 30 pounds.

596
00:39:06.640 --> 00:39:07.640
Why?

597
00:39:07.640 --> 00:39:08.640
So I have more energy.

598
00:39:08.640 --> 00:39:09.640
Why?

599
00:39:09.640 --> 00:39:10.640
So I can play with my grandkids.

600
00:39:10.640 --> 00:39:11.640
Why?

601
00:39:11.640 --> 00:39:14.280
So that they think that I'm a loving grandma.

602
00:39:14.280 --> 00:39:15.280
Okay.

603
00:39:15.280 --> 00:39:18.320
So next one, why?

604
00:39:18.320 --> 00:39:40.380
Okay.

605
00:39:40.380 --> 00:39:42.380
And then we're going to do the last level.

606
00:39:42.380 --> 00:39:47.940
Now by this last level, you should be working past the superficial and you should find that

607
00:39:48.560 --> 00:39:51.560
you're getting deeper and deeper, closer to what really matters to you.

608
00:39:51.560 --> 00:39:56.320
By the fifth level, it really should be tapping into a feeling or a quality.

609
00:39:56.320 --> 00:39:59.760
So for example, you know, I desire to lose 30 pounds.

610
00:39:59.760 --> 00:40:00.040
Why?

611
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:07.280
I to have more energy why so I can play with my grandkids why so I can be loving, loving

612
00:40:07.280 --> 00:40:13.800
grandmother, why, so I feel valuable or so I feel love.

613
00:40:13.800 --> 00:40:17.680
See, so I feel purposeful.

614
00:40:17.680 --> 00:40:22.600
So I want you to get down to the state of the very feeling or the quality, by the time

615
00:40:22.600 --> 00:40:27.360
you get down you're drilling down like a, like a well, and you're getting to the truth

616
00:40:27.360 --> 00:40:30.720
of who you are.

617
00:40:30.720 --> 00:40:35.920
So get it down to what is it that you really want to feel or what is it that you really

618
00:40:35.920 --> 00:40:38.880
desire to be.

619
00:40:38.880 --> 00:40:42.720
It might be, you know, let's say I didn't do the grandkids let's say I desire to lose

620
00:40:42.720 --> 00:40:50.280
30 pounds, why, so that I can wear better clothes, why, so that, and I might get there

621
00:40:50.280 --> 00:40:56.800
fast so that I feel attractive, why, you know, that's it, I just desire to feel I desire

622
00:40:56.800 --> 00:40:58.360
to feel sexy or attractive.

623
00:40:58.360 --> 00:41:02.880
Okay, so you might have been able to do it in three times but usually by five you get

624
00:41:02.880 --> 00:41:09.080
down to the core what is it that you desire to feel.

625
00:41:09.080 --> 00:41:12.260
That's where the juices for your goal.

626
00:41:12.260 --> 00:41:15.920
So for those of you here live.

627
00:41:15.920 --> 00:41:20.560
How many of you hit that you've got to like the feeling quality where you just like it

628
00:41:20.560 --> 00:41:24.400
went like yes that's exactly what I really really desire.

629
00:41:24.400 --> 00:41:30.200
I desire to feel secure I desire to feel loved I desire to feel, you know, spiritual

630
00:41:30.200 --> 00:41:37.160
I desire to feel sexy whatever it is I desire to feel secure safe I desire to feel loved

631
00:41:37.160 --> 00:41:44.840
I desire to feel, and go ahead and maybe put in the chat, I would love to see this from

632
00:41:44.840 --> 00:41:53.340
some of you tell me about what is it that what was the feeling did you land on the final

633
00:41:53.340 --> 00:42:01.620
feeling and just put the word, it could be loved, secure, happy, faithful, sexy I don't

634
00:42:01.620 --> 00:42:05.220
know what it is put down what you came to on the goal, what was it just put it in the

635
00:42:05.220 --> 00:42:06.820
chat.

636
00:42:06.820 --> 00:42:16.180
What did you arrive at enough, okay, that's a big one so many people feel they're not

637
00:42:16.180 --> 00:42:21.660
enough I want to feel okay confidence I desire to feel I desire to feel joy, I desire to

638
00:42:21.660 --> 00:42:27.060
feel secure a couple of you have put could secure, okay, that's a big one I desire.

639
00:42:27.060 --> 00:42:31.580
You see, this is important because now you're getting to the bedrock of your goals, and

640
00:42:31.580 --> 00:42:33.820
you're going to be more motivated.

641
00:42:33.820 --> 00:42:40.780
If you are looking at that feeling so thank you those of you that wrote some into.

642
00:42:40.780 --> 00:42:43.780
We're getting a lot of confidence secure.

643
00:42:43.780 --> 00:42:46.260
You got some joy.

644
00:42:46.260 --> 00:42:49.660
Okay.

645
00:42:49.660 --> 00:42:56.180
God's order love, I desire to feel that things are in God's order I desire to feel love.

646
00:42:56.180 --> 00:42:58.220
Just really walk in the love of God.

647
00:42:58.220 --> 00:43:00.820
I desire to feel powerful.

648
00:43:00.820 --> 00:43:04.620
I desire to feel fulfilled.

649
00:43:04.620 --> 00:43:09.860
That's another one or I desire to feel purposeful, okay.

650
00:43:09.860 --> 00:43:15.780
Take it further to a feeling, instead of quality of life, go even deeper what does

651
00:43:15.780 --> 00:43:24.900
that feel like what do you feel, I, it's a feeling, I feel purposeful I feel, you know,

652
00:43:24.900 --> 00:43:30.860
whatever it is try to take it all the way to the end, I feel loving, I feel happy, I

653
00:43:30.860 --> 00:43:36.420
feel confident all of those, okay, beautiful you guys did a great job you can do more of

654
00:43:36.420 --> 00:43:40.540
this when you get home for, you know, time sake I'm, I'm rushing through a lot of this

655
00:43:40.540 --> 00:43:46.820
I'm giving you tools, it's up to you to use the toolbox Okay, I desire to feel peace that's

656
00:43:46.820 --> 00:43:47.820
a big one.

657
00:43:47.820 --> 00:43:53.780
That's a big one, you know I know both my values and my goals tend to lead to both piece

658
00:43:53.780 --> 00:43:59.620
that's one of my highest values, anything that robs my piece is too expensive, okay,

659
00:43:59.620 --> 00:44:05.180
and freedom, you know, and so now I have to merge things like I shared with you before

660
00:44:05.180 --> 00:44:08.220
how can I have this and freedom, right.

661
00:44:08.220 --> 00:44:09.220
So beautiful.

662
00:44:09.220 --> 00:44:10.220
Okay.

663
00:44:10.220 --> 00:44:11.220
Wonderful.

664
00:44:11.220 --> 00:44:12.220
I'm going to put that down.

665
00:44:12.220 --> 00:44:13.220
We'll keep going.

666
00:44:13.220 --> 00:44:15.860
So, um, all right.

667
00:44:15.860 --> 00:44:21.000
So now the tool that you can apply this to.

668
00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:25.900
And this is something that you do on a daily basis, so you're you're writing your goals

669
00:44:25.900 --> 00:44:26.900
down.

670
00:44:26.900 --> 00:44:32.560
Okay, you're writing your goals down, and then you're drilling into that goal you're

671
00:44:32.560 --> 00:44:36.760
making a positive making it personal bringing it, you know, right there.

672
00:44:36.760 --> 00:44:42.780
And by the way, all these slides will be available to you on the prosper leader site so you should

673
00:44:42.780 --> 00:44:47.640
be able to have all of these so you don't have to take just notes for notes taking really

674
00:44:47.640 --> 00:44:50.200
let this dive in for you.

675
00:44:50.200 --> 00:44:53.600
So here's a tool that is fantastic.

676
00:44:53.600 --> 00:44:59.880
You guys get ready snap your fingers and tune in if you're really ready for a powerful tool.

677
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:00.920
I said, give me a tool.

678
00:45:00.920 --> 00:45:03.920
Give it to me, Brenda, give me a tool, OK?

679
00:45:03.920 --> 00:45:05.240
All right.

680
00:45:05.240 --> 00:45:08.320
By the way, that itself is a tool.

681
00:45:08.320 --> 00:45:11.040
Tony Robbins gave me that more than 30 years ago,

682
00:45:11.040 --> 00:45:13.680
that you get into the feeling of it.

683
00:45:13.680 --> 00:45:17.600
So I desired at that time to be a confident speaker

684
00:45:17.600 --> 00:45:18.960
on the stage.

685
00:45:18.960 --> 00:45:21.520
I desired to just be this amazing public speaker.

686
00:45:21.520 --> 00:45:23.600
When I first, I mean, when Tony Robbins was

687
00:45:23.600 --> 00:45:26.200
in like a small room with like 100 people or whatever,

688
00:45:26.200 --> 00:45:27.760
we're going way back, right?

689
00:45:27.760 --> 00:45:32.040
And what you did is you got into that state.

690
00:45:32.040 --> 00:45:34.000
That's a feeling quality is a state.

691
00:45:34.000 --> 00:45:37.320
You got into the state, and you remember the closest

692
00:45:37.320 --> 00:45:38.840
that you can in your mind of when

693
00:45:38.840 --> 00:45:40.960
you had the closest to that.

694
00:45:40.960 --> 00:45:43.240
And you get into that feeling state,

695
00:45:43.240 --> 00:45:45.600
and then you anchor it with something in your body.

696
00:45:45.600 --> 00:45:47.520
For me, that's why I snap my fingers

697
00:45:47.520 --> 00:45:49.840
without thinking about it, because I've been doing that

698
00:45:49.840 --> 00:45:50.800
for 30 years, OK?

699
00:45:50.800 --> 00:45:53.680
So you see me walking up to a stage, and I'm about to speak.

700
00:45:53.680 --> 00:45:55.280
Anybody that knows me, I'll be walking.

701
00:45:55.280 --> 00:45:57.200
I was doing it on the hall before I came here,

702
00:45:57.200 --> 00:45:57.840
before I taught.

703
00:45:57.840 --> 00:46:00.720
This ignites every part of my nervous system,

704
00:46:00.720 --> 00:46:03.120
because it's been anchored in.

705
00:46:03.120 --> 00:46:03.920
So that's a tool.

706
00:46:03.920 --> 00:46:06.880
I'm giving you tools that you can apply, OK?

707
00:46:06.880 --> 00:46:08.400
So you've got this feeling.

708
00:46:08.400 --> 00:46:10.920
You've got this goal, and you've got this feeling,

709
00:46:10.920 --> 00:46:13.880
and you're going to practice anchoring it in, OK?

710
00:46:13.880 --> 00:46:16.440
And remember I said in the prayer,

711
00:46:16.440 --> 00:46:20.000
like eliminate looking into the past,

712
00:46:20.000 --> 00:46:23.880
eliminate looking into the future, and live it now.

713
00:46:23.880 --> 00:46:26.200
Because the problem with most people with goals

714
00:46:26.200 --> 00:46:29.520
is they actually see it in their mind in the future.

715
00:46:29.520 --> 00:46:32.440
This is a problem.

716
00:46:32.440 --> 00:46:36.000
So it's like the horse with the carrot in front of the stick.

717
00:46:36.000 --> 00:46:40.880
No matter how much, the horse can walk for 100 miles.

718
00:46:40.880 --> 00:46:42.680
The horse can run as fast as he can.

719
00:46:42.680 --> 00:46:44.440
The horse can gallop.

720
00:46:44.440 --> 00:46:47.240
That carrot is going to be in front.

721
00:46:47.240 --> 00:46:49.920
This is what we do in our mind with our goals.

722
00:46:49.920 --> 00:46:51.440
It's always somewhere in the future.

723
00:46:51.440 --> 00:46:52.160
It's not here.

724
00:46:52.160 --> 00:46:54.440
It's not now.

725
00:46:54.440 --> 00:46:58.960
So I do this for all the different areas of my life.

726
00:46:58.960 --> 00:47:05.400
So if I was an eight-figure thought leader, OK?

727
00:47:05.400 --> 00:47:08.960
And I might be picking out clothes

728
00:47:08.960 --> 00:47:11.240
while I'm shopping with my daughter.

729
00:47:11.240 --> 00:47:13.240
Might be going through Macy's or something.

730
00:47:13.240 --> 00:47:16.440
And if I was an eight-figure thought leader,

731
00:47:16.440 --> 00:47:17.280
would I wear this?

732
00:47:17.280 --> 00:47:18.560
What would I wear?

733
00:47:18.560 --> 00:47:21.680
And I'll ask the Holy Spirit, show me.

734
00:47:21.680 --> 00:47:24.000
How do I bring my present circumstances

735
00:47:24.040 --> 00:47:28.480
to line up to be in alignment with where I desire to be?

736
00:47:28.480 --> 00:47:31.320
I'm bringing it to now, right?

737
00:47:31.320 --> 00:47:38.040
If my goal was to have my home be a gorgeous home,

738
00:47:38.040 --> 00:47:41.360
then I look at something in there.

739
00:47:41.360 --> 00:47:43.000
I brought it a little different.

740
00:47:43.000 --> 00:47:46.040
I have a vision to have a retreat on three continents.

741
00:47:46.040 --> 00:47:48.160
So I often play with that in my home.

742
00:47:48.160 --> 00:47:51.600
If my home was that retreat, if I had the retreat,

743
00:47:51.600 --> 00:47:53.840
this is what God's given me right here, right now.

744
00:47:53.920 --> 00:47:57.440
If I had that retreat, would I hang that on the wall?

745
00:47:57.440 --> 00:47:58.640
Would I have that plant?

746
00:47:58.640 --> 00:47:59.560
Would I?

747
00:47:59.560 --> 00:48:00.920
You see how you do that?

748
00:48:00.920 --> 00:48:07.080
So you look at these qualities, and you imagine yourself, OK?

749
00:48:07.080 --> 00:48:12.040
I'm the top social media marketing expert in the world.

750
00:48:12.040 --> 00:48:13.560
What am I thinking?

751
00:48:13.560 --> 00:48:17.160
What would I be thinking about on a regular basis?

752
00:48:17.160 --> 00:48:19.080
What would I be feeling?

753
00:48:19.080 --> 00:48:20.480
And we got to that feeling tone.

754
00:48:20.480 --> 00:48:21.640
I'd be feeling confident.

755
00:48:21.640 --> 00:48:23.000
I've been feeling creative.

756
00:48:23.120 --> 00:48:25.240
I'd be feeling on my game.

757
00:48:25.240 --> 00:48:27.280
I'd be feeling resourceful.

758
00:48:27.280 --> 00:48:28.280
I'd be feeling.

759
00:48:28.280 --> 00:48:31.080
And you get into the feeling tonality of that.

760
00:48:31.080 --> 00:48:33.440
What would I be doing?

761
00:48:33.440 --> 00:48:37.800
I would be having this much time for creating,

762
00:48:37.800 --> 00:48:40.280
and maybe I would drop all the marketing.

763
00:48:40.280 --> 00:48:41.960
Maybe everybody would be coming to me,

764
00:48:41.960 --> 00:48:44.000
and I would simply be creating and meeting

765
00:48:44.000 --> 00:48:45.600
with my new clients, whatever.

766
00:48:45.600 --> 00:48:47.480
What would I be doing?

767
00:48:47.480 --> 00:48:51.680
And most of all, who would I be being?

768
00:48:51.720 --> 00:48:55.360
I would be being what?

769
00:48:55.360 --> 00:48:59.960
Creative, resourceful, loving, dynamic, confident.

770
00:48:59.960 --> 00:49:03.640
And so the idea of this is basically

771
00:49:03.640 --> 00:49:12.080
designing a life that aligns and activates you, OK?

772
00:49:12.080 --> 00:49:18.600
So these are the qualities of taking whatever it is,

773
00:49:18.600 --> 00:49:21.400
and you're activating the idea of visualizing.

774
00:49:21.400 --> 00:49:23.720
You're activating your God-given image maker

775
00:49:23.720 --> 00:49:29.800
that you are seeing yourself already as that.

776
00:49:29.800 --> 00:49:32.400
You're seeing yourself as that.

777
00:49:32.400 --> 00:49:36.360
I shared with someone who is in direct selling,

778
00:49:36.360 --> 00:49:38.440
who has a goal in network marketing,

779
00:49:38.440 --> 00:49:40.360
who has a goal to get to a level.

780
00:49:40.360 --> 00:49:41.840
And I thought back.

781
00:49:41.840 --> 00:49:43.520
Again, I go way back on this stuff.

782
00:49:43.520 --> 00:49:45.600
I thought back like 30 years ago,

783
00:49:45.600 --> 00:49:47.680
and I was this young 20-something,

784
00:49:47.680 --> 00:49:50.720
and I was in this nutritional network marketing company.

785
00:49:50.760 --> 00:49:52.920
And I had been living this goal.

786
00:49:52.920 --> 00:49:54.400
They had this goal to become.

787
00:49:54.400 --> 00:49:56.880
It was called a field advisor, right?

788
00:49:56.880 --> 00:49:59.200
So become a field advisor.

789
00:49:59.200 --> 00:50:01.440
And I was in this.

790
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:04.760
And so I had, you know, I had put,

791
00:50:04.760 --> 00:50:06.760
I'll just kind of show where I can talk to you guys.

792
00:50:06.760 --> 00:50:09.720
So I had put up the pin,

793
00:50:09.720 --> 00:50:11.480
there was this pin that had diamonds

794
00:50:11.480 --> 00:50:13.400
all the way around the outside that made you,

795
00:50:13.400 --> 00:50:14.440
I think you had, I don't remember,

796
00:50:14.440 --> 00:50:17.000
like 20 people in your line or something.

797
00:50:17.000 --> 00:50:19.360
So I had these 20 diamonds around the pin

798
00:50:19.360 --> 00:50:23.240
and I just imagined myself that I was that,

799
00:50:23.240 --> 00:50:25.640
I was that top position, I was that field,

800
00:50:25.640 --> 00:50:27.960
and I felt I was a confident speaker,

801
00:50:28.000 --> 00:50:29.960
I was a confident leader,

802
00:50:29.960 --> 00:50:33.000
I was just an expert at what I did,

803
00:50:33.000 --> 00:50:37.760
and I always just pictured I am a field advisor

804
00:50:37.760 --> 00:50:40.000
and I dressed like a field advisor

805
00:50:40.000 --> 00:50:42.040
and I fought like a field advisor

806
00:50:42.040 --> 00:50:44.200
and I spoke like a field advisor.

807
00:50:44.200 --> 00:50:45.640
This is a true story.

808
00:50:45.640 --> 00:50:48.400
So I go to this conference, right?

809
00:50:48.400 --> 00:50:50.840
And I'm near the front row,

810
00:50:50.840 --> 00:50:53.280
the president and the vice president is there,

811
00:50:53.280 --> 00:50:55.080
there's massive crowd of people,

812
00:50:55.080 --> 00:50:56.880
you know how network marketing is, right?

813
00:50:56.880 --> 00:51:00.280
So everybody's in the audience and the energy is so high

814
00:51:00.280 --> 00:51:03.400
and you're just getting caught up with the energy of it all.

815
00:51:03.400 --> 00:51:06.080
And they say, okay, what I'd like right now

816
00:51:06.080 --> 00:51:10.680
is all of you who are field advisors, please stand.

817
00:51:11.880 --> 00:51:15.640
I was up on my feet standing and all of a sudden it hit me.

818
00:51:16.960 --> 00:51:20.120
Oh crap, I'm not a field advisor yet.

819
00:51:20.120 --> 00:51:23.360
I'm standing, everyone's looking at me.

820
00:51:24.320 --> 00:51:26.160
I became a field advisor that month.

821
00:51:27.400 --> 00:51:32.400
But do you see, I had lived it so many times

822
00:51:32.720 --> 00:51:35.400
before I actually lived it.

823
00:51:35.400 --> 00:51:37.840
This is the goal of what we're talking about.

824
00:51:38.720 --> 00:51:40.880
You're moving beyond this thought,

825
00:51:40.880 --> 00:51:44.720
this new year's resolution, this piece of paper,

826
00:51:44.720 --> 00:51:49.360
you're moving beyond that to who must I become,

827
00:51:49.360 --> 00:51:54.040
to I am that, and I'm gonna start building my life

828
00:51:54.040 --> 00:51:57.240
that my home represents that.

829
00:51:57.240 --> 00:51:59.760
You know, I write three words every year, right?

830
00:51:59.760 --> 00:52:02.840
And my three words this year, and by the way, again,

831
00:52:02.840 --> 00:52:04.400
like all the other principles I've taught you,

832
00:52:04.400 --> 00:52:05.520
I write them every single day.

833
00:52:05.520 --> 00:52:07.280
It's on the Prosper Daily Plan.

834
00:52:07.280 --> 00:52:08.960
I write those three words every day.

835
00:52:08.960 --> 00:52:11.160
They always come true.

836
00:52:11.160 --> 00:52:15.400
So this year it's uplift my heart like I'm doing today.

837
00:52:15.400 --> 00:52:17.120
I pray I'm uplifting you.

838
00:52:17.120 --> 00:52:19.000
I pray that there's just this uplift

839
00:52:19.000 --> 00:52:20.440
that you step into the fullness

840
00:52:20.440 --> 00:52:21.720
of who God has called you to be.

841
00:52:21.720 --> 00:52:26.720
So uplift, up-level, I desire to up-level my thinking,

842
00:52:29.160 --> 00:52:33.640
up-level my body, up-level my relationship with God,

843
00:52:33.640 --> 00:52:37.720
up-level, right, just up-level, and upgrade.

844
00:52:37.720 --> 00:52:40.440
I desire to upgrade all kinds of things.

845
00:52:40.440 --> 00:52:41.960
Do you know the power of writing

846
00:52:41.960 --> 00:52:44.040
those three words down already?

847
00:52:44.040 --> 00:52:48.840
We're only on day, what, 13, 14 of the month.

848
00:52:48.840 --> 00:52:51.600
Sometimes it's really silly stuff,

849
00:52:52.360 --> 00:52:54.440
but it's living it.

850
00:52:54.440 --> 00:52:57.640
It's living that person, right?

851
00:52:57.640 --> 00:52:59.960
So I have a toaster.

852
00:52:59.960 --> 00:53:01.880
It still works.

853
00:53:01.880 --> 00:53:02.960
It's really ugly.

854
00:53:02.960 --> 00:53:06.440
It's really old, kind of matches my old Ford Granada.

855
00:53:06.440 --> 00:53:07.400
It's green too.

856
00:53:07.400 --> 00:53:09.240
I don't know how I inherited this thing,

857
00:53:09.240 --> 00:53:10.640
but it's really ugly.

858
00:53:10.640 --> 00:53:13.880
I have a can opener that just really doesn't work.

859
00:53:13.880 --> 00:53:14.720
You know what?

860
00:53:14.720 --> 00:53:15.760
This is my year to upgrade.

861
00:53:15.760 --> 00:53:17.960
I have the most amazing can opener.

862
00:53:17.960 --> 00:53:19.600
I have the most amazing toaster.

863
00:53:19.600 --> 00:53:20.680
This thing is so thick.

864
00:53:20.680 --> 00:53:22.320
You can defrost on the top of it.

865
00:53:22.320 --> 00:53:23.640
You can put bagels in it.

866
00:53:23.640 --> 00:53:24.880
You can, right?

867
00:53:24.880 --> 00:53:27.240
Simple things, but it is making sure

868
00:53:27.240 --> 00:53:31.040
that the details of your life line up

869
00:53:31.040 --> 00:53:35.720
with who you say you are, line up with your goals.

870
00:53:35.720 --> 00:53:38.480
So do you get the feeling here

871
00:53:38.480 --> 00:53:41.320
that goals aren't something way out there?

872
00:53:41.320 --> 00:53:44.480
Goals aren't something outside of yourself.

873
00:53:44.480 --> 00:53:47.040
Goals are something that you're living,

874
00:53:47.040 --> 00:53:49.920
being, feeling, speaking, doing.

875
00:53:50.720 --> 00:53:53.000
Do you get the distinction?

876
00:53:53.000 --> 00:53:54.080
This isn't taught.

877
00:53:54.080 --> 00:53:56.360
Every goal setting thing I go to, it's outside.

878
00:53:56.360 --> 00:53:57.480
Write down your goals.

879
00:53:57.480 --> 00:53:58.320
Okay.

880
00:53:58.320 --> 00:53:59.880
Divide it up into steps.

881
00:53:59.880 --> 00:54:00.720
Okay.

882
00:54:00.720 --> 00:54:01.800
Prioritize it.

883
00:54:01.800 --> 00:54:02.640
Okay.

884
00:54:02.640 --> 00:54:03.680
Work your way down the list.

885
00:54:03.680 --> 00:54:04.520
Okay.

886
00:54:04.520 --> 00:54:06.920
Get an accountability partner.

887
00:54:06.920 --> 00:54:07.760
Okay.

888
00:54:07.760 --> 00:54:10.400
If that was working, we'd all have our goals.

889
00:54:10.400 --> 00:54:12.240
Am I cracking you guys up?

890
00:54:12.240 --> 00:54:13.080
Okay.

891
00:54:13.080 --> 00:54:14.840
But is it true or is it true?

892
00:54:14.840 --> 00:54:16.280
Am I speaking truth here?

893
00:54:17.280 --> 00:54:20.000
If it was working, we'd all be at our goals.

894
00:54:21.160 --> 00:54:22.000
Why?

895
00:54:22.000 --> 00:54:23.440
You know, this past Friday,

896
00:54:24.360 --> 00:54:27.160
it's 80, 90% have already given up

897
00:54:27.160 --> 00:54:28.200
on their new year's resolution.

898
00:54:28.200 --> 00:54:29.040
It's over.

899
00:54:29.040 --> 00:54:30.280
It's done.

900
00:54:30.280 --> 00:54:31.120
You're here.

901
00:54:32.080 --> 00:54:36.000
Because you're focusing on the feeling tonality.

902
00:54:36.000 --> 00:54:38.840
If you understand the psychoneuroimmunology of that,

903
00:54:38.840 --> 00:54:43.840
the feeling tonality actually changes your entire chemistry.

904
00:54:44.720 --> 00:54:47.720
You have neuropeptides that go to every part of your body

905
00:54:47.720 --> 00:54:49.160
that line up with that.

906
00:54:49.160 --> 00:54:54.160
And by the way, the heart sends more messages to the brain

907
00:54:54.480 --> 00:54:55.960
than the brain to the heart.

908
00:54:55.960 --> 00:54:58.240
And your heart is radiating energy.

909
00:54:58.240 --> 00:55:00.120
Everything is radiating energy.

910
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:04.720
is energy. That's how God made the world. Everything is energy. Your heart is radiating

911
00:55:04.720 --> 00:55:12.840
energy. We've measured it up to 15 feet. So all of this is not just fluff. This is not

912
00:55:12.840 --> 00:55:19.400
psychobabble. This is influencing what's coming into your life. This is what's going through

913
00:55:19.400 --> 00:55:27.320
your body, that you're stepping into this and you are being it. Okay. Got off on a little

914
00:55:27.320 --> 00:55:39.080
tangent, but we're all good. Okay. We're back. So next. Okay. So you begin asking yourself

915
00:55:39.080 --> 00:55:45.480
some questions. Some of the most powerful things that you can do is ask yourself questions.

916
00:55:45.480 --> 00:55:52.360
Okay. So here's some of the questions we talked about. What do I have? I, if I've coached

917
00:55:52.360 --> 00:55:56.960
with you, you've done what's in your hand exercise. If you haven't done that, go back

918
00:55:56.960 --> 00:56:04.280
and do it. Ask me for it. What's in, what's in your hand. Right. And so, uh, what do I

919
00:56:04.280 --> 00:56:09.720
have that I can start using right now? You all have something that you can start with.

920
00:56:09.720 --> 00:56:14.480
You have gifts and talents. You have resources, you have connections, you have people that

921
00:56:14.480 --> 00:56:22.080
you know, you have contacts, you have something. And the key is to begin to apply what you

922
00:56:22.080 --> 00:56:40.920
have. Okay. And we talked about this earlier. I love this picture, right? Because the kitty

923
00:56:40.920 --> 00:56:51.200
is so often who we see ourself as, and the lion is who God has made you to be. And so

924
00:56:51.200 --> 00:56:59.640
that's why this is such a powerful picture. I, um, I had my daughter earlier and she was

925
00:56:59.640 --> 00:57:07.840
feeling, um, a little bit discouraged and down, um, in herself and was going down that

926
00:57:07.840 --> 00:57:13.560
that road. And the Holy spirit just came upon me. I was doing my makeup, getting ready

927
00:57:13.560 --> 00:57:18.440
to come here. And I grabbed my daughter and I said, there's something on my heart. I need

928
00:57:18.440 --> 00:57:25.120
to tell you. And I got her right in front of me. And I go, I want you to stop focusing

929
00:57:25.120 --> 00:57:32.680
on who you're not stop focusing on what's wrong, what's broken, what, what's lacking,

930
00:57:32.680 --> 00:57:35.800
what you're not being, or what you're not doing. I want you to stop that right now.

931
00:57:35.800 --> 00:57:40.120
Because energy flow is where the attention goes. And I want you to remember right here,

932
00:57:40.120 --> 00:57:43.360
right now, and I'm speaking to all of you that are listening to me live and online.

933
00:57:43.360 --> 00:57:52.280
I want you to remember who you are as a son or a daughter of the most high God. Who are

934
00:57:52.280 --> 00:58:01.200
you? You have the mind of Christ. You are the temple of the Holy spirit. You are a container

935
00:58:01.200 --> 00:58:07.160
for God. That means you have all access to all wisdom, all resources. You have the power

936
00:58:07.160 --> 00:58:12.880
of life and death in your tongue. Yeah. You may need to catch up. There may be a learning

937
00:58:12.880 --> 00:58:17.920
curve. You may need to get some skills. You may need to learn some things. You may need

938
00:58:17.920 --> 00:58:21.680
to let go of some things you've been holding on to tight. You know, God's trying to give

939
00:58:21.680 --> 00:58:26.120
you this thing and you're holding on to sticky candy and he can't pry your fingers open to

940
00:58:26.120 --> 00:58:31.400
give you what he wants to give you. Right? So you might have to release some things,

941
00:58:31.400 --> 00:58:36.600
old identities, old beliefs, old ways of thinking, old ways of talking. You may have to step

942
00:58:36.600 --> 00:58:45.320
into a new, bigger identity, but you must remember right here, right now, who you are.

943
00:58:45.320 --> 00:58:55.780
You are that lion because you carry the lion of Judah in you. You were made in God's image.

944
00:58:55.780 --> 00:59:01.540
So when you look at your goals, you cannot look at, Oh, I've always tried this and I,

945
00:59:01.540 --> 00:59:06.740
and it just never works. I, I just tend to get started and then I give up. I, I just

946
00:59:06.740 --> 00:59:13.140
think maybe it's in my family. It's in my genes. Maybe now you're in the victim consciousness,

947
00:59:13.140 --> 00:59:17.880
get up at least to the manifest consciousness. I will do this. I will take these actions

948
00:59:17.880 --> 00:59:26.360
and even more so get into this one, right? The channel consciousness that says, God,

949
00:59:26.360 --> 00:59:31.320
right now, do this through me. This is way bigger than me, but you put me here. I trust

950
00:59:31.320 --> 00:59:40.040
you. Teach me, speak through me, right through me, coach through me, heal through me. You

951
00:59:40.040 --> 00:59:46.060
become that vessel. It's not about you anymore. It's about God in you. It was never meant

952
00:59:46.060 --> 00:59:52.820
to be about you. We're just vessels or all the way into the being that you're going around.

953
00:59:52.820 --> 00:59:58.500
I thank you father that you're in me. I'm hidden in you. I'm in them. They're in me.

954
00:59:58.500 --> 00:59:59.420
We're all one.

955
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:05.480
Now we're operating that. So who must I become? You look at that picture right there.

956
01:00:05.480 --> 01:00:12.840
Be reminded who must I become? Okay. What must I release? What must I release? What

957
01:00:12.840 --> 01:00:20.520
beliefs have I been holding to? I'm not smart enough. I'm too old. I'm too whatever. What

958
01:00:20.520 --> 01:00:30.880
kind of crazy things have you been telling yourself? What habits do I need to change?

959
01:00:30.880 --> 01:00:37.120
What identity? I've got to change from I'm a smoker to I'm a non-smoker. I can't even

960
01:00:37.120 --> 01:00:43.000
think about smoking. I'm a non-smoker. I'm, I got to change from I'm broke to are you

961
01:00:43.000 --> 01:00:48.440
kidding? I'm so abundant. I'm a daughter of the most high God. Money comes to me easily

962
01:00:48.440 --> 01:00:57.320
and effortlessly. I'm, I'm old. No, he says I, he restores my youth. He says he, he makes

963
01:00:57.320 --> 01:01:03.000
me mount up with wings of Eagles. He says, you know, that I fly like an Eagle. He says

964
01:01:03.000 --> 01:01:09.600
that he renews my youth. That's what my Bible says. He renews my youth. I had someone prophesy

965
01:01:09.600 --> 01:01:15.920
over me a couple of days ago and they said, you know, God's renewing your youth because

966
01:01:15.920 --> 01:01:20.000
you're coming to life from a place of fun and curiosity. And you've let go of the things

967
01:01:20.000 --> 01:01:26.800
that make you old, the striving, the stress, the negativity, right? So what must I release?

968
01:01:26.800 --> 01:01:32.400
What beliefs, what habits, what identity, what stuff do I need to release? What am I

969
01:01:32.400 --> 01:01:38.520
still holding onto? Because I, maybe I have the belief in that I need security, the value

970
01:01:38.520 --> 01:01:42.280
of security. Am I holding onto stuff that I really should have let go and bless someone

971
01:01:42.280 --> 01:01:47.320
a long time ago? Because it doesn't even give me joy anymore. I mean, when I cleaned

972
01:01:47.320 --> 01:01:55.640
out that living room, I had an old couch that was from my marriage. Like I don't need to

973
01:01:55.640 --> 01:02:02.320
have that 10 years later. Now I've got a couch that just sparks so much joy. I love it. You

974
01:02:02.320 --> 01:02:07.720
know? So, so like what stuff am I holding onto that? It doesn't even spark joy anymore.

975
01:02:08.120 --> 01:02:13.160
Right. I look at what Marie Kondo, if you've ever done, you know, the magic of tidying

976
01:02:13.160 --> 01:02:18.360
with Marie Kondo and she takes whatever it is, you know, like I love my Prosper Cup from

977
01:02:18.360 --> 01:02:26.520
Prosper TV. Right. So, so I take my Prosper Cup and I hold it and it sparks joy. I look

978
01:02:26.520 --> 01:02:31.560
at it and I smile. I want to share it with you guys because it sparks joy. Right. I love it.

979
01:02:32.520 --> 01:02:36.440
That's all you want to surround yourself. If it doesn't spark joy, if you don't love it

980
01:02:36.440 --> 01:02:40.840
and you're holding onto it, well, what if I don't get another cup? Well, you know what I,

981
01:02:40.840 --> 01:02:45.240
what if I have to go cupless? You know, what if my life is forever without cups? You know,

982
01:02:45.240 --> 01:02:50.520
that's a life that's not based on the truth of God. Right. I'm being funny to get you guys

983
01:02:50.520 --> 01:02:57.960
thinking. All right. So the final step here is, is the plan. So remember we said goals without a

984
01:02:57.960 --> 01:03:09.160
plan are a hallucination. Okay. And so gotta have a plan. So the ideal way is I like to do it this

985
01:03:09.160 --> 01:03:16.040
way. Okay. If you've got two pages on a, on a journal, can I borrow your paper for just one

986
01:03:16.040 --> 01:03:21.960
second? So if you've got two pages, Oh, it won't work with this camera anyway. Nevermind. You can

987
01:03:21.960 --> 01:03:29.000
imagine it if you've got two pages on a journal. Okay. So on one side, you're putting the goal.

988
01:03:29.800 --> 01:03:37.480
Okay. On the opposite page, you're putting all of the actions that you can think of actions that you

989
01:03:37.480 --> 01:03:45.560
can think of. This is a form of a plan, right? So start, start a business, start a coaching business,

990
01:03:45.560 --> 01:03:52.040
let's say, and you put every action that you can think of. Right. So I need to get a, let's say a

991
01:03:52.040 --> 01:03:57.880
business license. Maybe I want to get a, you know, coach certification. I need to get a computer.

992
01:03:57.880 --> 01:04:05.000
Maybe I need to get a camera for maybe I need to, you know, get a daytime. Like what are all the

993
01:04:05.000 --> 01:04:11.720
actions? Maybe I need to make a list of all the people that I know. Maybe I need to show up and

994
01:04:11.720 --> 01:04:22.120
do a Facebook live. Maybe. And you just write down all the actions that you can take. Okay. So

995
01:04:24.040 --> 01:04:31.320
you know, maybe it's, I want to clean out a room. And so maybe the action is I'm going to buy

996
01:04:32.120 --> 01:04:40.360
huge bags of those yard bags, and I'm going to have some boxes and I'm going to, and so

997
01:04:40.360 --> 01:04:45.320
maybe the actions are, I'm going to take everything out of the master closet. This is

998
01:04:45.320 --> 01:04:50.760
kind of a Marie Kondo way of doing it. Right. And then I'm, or I'll do this when I clean out my

999
01:04:50.760 --> 01:04:56.840
office, I'm only going to put back in there, whatever I want to keep and everything else

1000
01:04:56.840 --> 01:04:59.880
either gets thrown away or given away. Right. So it gets put

1001
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:07.440
away, thrown away, or given away. So you're taking really concrete and starting to put steps to it.

1002
01:05:07.440 --> 01:05:12.160
And again, you might want to look out, however much you want to look out. If you want to look

1003
01:05:12.160 --> 01:05:18.000
out 10 years from now, that's a great place to start. 10 years from now, this is what I want

1004
01:05:18.000 --> 01:05:22.640
my business to have. I want it to be earning this much. I want to be serving this many people. I

1005
01:05:22.640 --> 01:05:27.200
want to have this in place. Like I mentioned earlier, when I first built Prosper 10 years

1006
01:05:27.200 --> 01:05:32.000
from now, I wrote down everything. I'm going to need a website. I'm going to need a membership

1007
01:05:32.000 --> 01:05:38.000
site. I'm going to need a place for courses. I'm going to need a coach certification.

1008
01:05:38.000 --> 01:05:43.680
I'm going to need a television radio. I'm going to need to have books. I'm going to need to have,

1009
01:05:43.680 --> 01:05:50.000
and I just like wrote all that stuff. And then you break it down and you go, okay, that's 10 years.

1010
01:05:50.000 --> 01:05:55.120
Okay. Halfway would be five years. Where would I want to be in five years from there?

1011
01:05:56.080 --> 01:06:00.000
Well, maybe I don't have, you know, blah, blah, blah, but I have blah, blah, blah.

1012
01:06:00.880 --> 01:06:06.560
Okay. Now I take that five years. Where would I want to be in one year? Because we put that whole

1013
01:06:06.560 --> 01:06:12.240
10 year goal into a year. This is where we go wrong. Okay. So you got to be a little bit realistic

1014
01:06:12.240 --> 01:06:17.200
that way, you know, your time, your belief, all of that. So, okay. I broke it down five. Okay.

1015
01:06:17.200 --> 01:06:23.280
I broke it down one year. Okay. Where this time next year, where do I need to be? Maybe

1016
01:06:23.280 --> 01:06:29.680
if you've never earned a hundred thousand and your goal is, you know, in 10 years, I want to

1017
01:06:29.680 --> 01:06:36.240
be eight figures. Okay. Maybe in five years, I want to be seven figures. Maybe in a year,

1018
01:06:36.240 --> 01:06:40.800
I want to be six figures or three years. Like, do you see how I took that and I broke it down

1019
01:06:40.800 --> 01:06:48.000
into manageable chunks? Okay. So a year, and this is where we're really going to be working for the

1020
01:06:48.000 --> 01:06:52.880
purpose of this. You've got your big goals. You broke it down. Let's talk just 2023. If this,

1021
01:06:52.880 --> 01:06:58.400
if you're listening live this year, now take that year and break it in half.

1022
01:06:59.200 --> 01:07:07.840
If I'm going to finish this year with this in place in six months, where would I need to be?

1023
01:07:10.560 --> 01:07:13.280
So you've got the year in six months. Where do I need to be?

1024
01:07:15.280 --> 01:07:20.560
Okay. And you got the six month goal really clear. The feeling, the doing, what would I remember?

1025
01:07:20.560 --> 01:07:23.760
We're living it, right? Who do I need to be? What am I feeling? What am I doing? What are

1026
01:07:23.760 --> 01:07:30.480
the actions I'm taking? What am I saying? Okay. Six months now, halfway to that is three months.

1027
01:07:30.480 --> 01:07:40.880
So over these 90 days, my 90 day plan is. Okay. That's the three months. Okay. A third of that,

1028
01:07:40.880 --> 01:07:45.280
you see how when you chunk it down, it gets more and more realistic. Okay. That means,

1029
01:07:45.280 --> 01:07:49.200
and now your year really has a plan to it. You're not just hoping that at the end of the year,

1030
01:07:49.200 --> 01:07:56.880
somehow you're a six figure earner. Doesn't work that way. If it's six figures at the end of the

1031
01:07:56.880 --> 01:08:05.280
year, and maybe it's halfway, right? That it's halfway to the six figures. And then maybe in

1032
01:08:05.280 --> 01:08:10.160
the month, right? You break it down. How much do I need to be earning? Okay. And this month,

1033
01:08:10.160 --> 01:08:18.640
how much can I go toward that? Okay. And now what's most important is you do a prosper daily plan.

1034
01:08:19.200 --> 01:08:24.399
What do I need to do today? So you all know my favorite question. I've repeated it many times,

1035
01:08:24.399 --> 01:08:31.359
but if you're new, my favorite question is what is the single most important action?

1036
01:08:33.359 --> 01:08:39.439
What is the single most important action I can take today?

1037
01:08:42.880 --> 01:08:48.319
Because folks, the truth is you really only have today. You only have this moment. None

1038
01:08:48.319 --> 01:08:53.040
of us are guaranteed tomorrow. None of us knew COVID was going to happen. None of us,

1039
01:08:53.040 --> 01:08:56.640
we don't know a tree's going to hit your car. We just don't know what's going to happen.

1040
01:08:57.600 --> 01:09:06.640
Okay. So the only thing that really you've been given is today. So I've got the big picture. I'm

1041
01:09:06.640 --> 01:09:10.479
trying to get here in 10 years. I'm trying to get here in five years. I'm trying to get here in three

1042
01:09:10.479 --> 01:09:16.560
years. I'm trying to get here this year. I've split that in half. I've split it into a 90 day plan.

1043
01:09:16.560 --> 01:09:22.720
And now I've split it to this month. Now I've got it today. And every single day I'm asking,

1044
01:09:22.720 --> 01:09:29.439
what's the single most important action I can take today to advance in the direction of my

1045
01:09:29.439 --> 01:09:35.040
goals, dreams, and desires. What do I need to do today? Imagine if every day you just took

1046
01:09:35.040 --> 01:09:41.680
one important action, even if you only worked five days a week, if it was a work thing,

1047
01:09:42.319 --> 01:09:50.479
that's 20 significant actions a month in your 90 day plan. That's 60 significant actions. I got a

1048
01:09:50.479 --> 01:09:58.480
business lesson. I set up, I got my domain. I made a video. I wrote a post. I started my blog.

1049
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:02.360
Just one action a day.

1050
01:10:02.360 --> 01:10:07.760
The cumulative effect of this is so powerful, so powerful, OK?

1051
01:10:07.760 --> 01:10:11.560
And Napoleon Hill says the primary reason for failure

1052
01:10:11.560 --> 01:10:14.280
is people do not develop new plans to replace

1053
01:10:14.280 --> 01:10:16.520
those plans that didn't work.

1054
01:10:16.520 --> 01:10:19.360
In other words, they keep on doing the same thing

1055
01:10:19.360 --> 01:10:22.960
and expecting different results, OK?

1056
01:10:22.960 --> 01:10:25.360
So you've got to put action to it.

1057
01:10:25.360 --> 01:10:27.520
What is the single most important action?

1058
01:10:27.520 --> 01:10:28.960
You've got to go for it.

1059
01:10:28.960 --> 01:10:31.000
You've got to put action to it.

1060
01:10:31.000 --> 01:10:32.120
Two more things, too.

1061
01:10:32.120 --> 01:10:33.720
I'm going a little bit over because we

1062
01:10:33.720 --> 01:10:34.720
started a little late.

1063
01:10:34.720 --> 01:10:36.160
But these are really important.

1064
01:10:36.160 --> 01:10:37.680
And we'll wrap up with this.

1065
01:10:37.680 --> 01:10:38.480
And then I'm going to turn around,

1066
01:10:38.480 --> 01:10:39.920
let you meet the group live.

1067
01:10:39.920 --> 01:10:42.840
And we're going to have some processing time where

1068
01:10:42.840 --> 01:10:45.920
you make this real for you, OK?

1069
01:10:45.920 --> 01:10:50.040
So one powerful thing, and I don't

1070
01:10:50.040 --> 01:10:53.200
know if I mentioned I did on us gathering before,

1071
01:10:53.200 --> 01:10:55.000
but maybe not on this call.

1072
01:10:55.000 --> 01:10:57.360
Your habits define you.

1073
01:10:57.360 --> 01:10:59.600
Did I do that on this call or only before?

1074
01:10:59.600 --> 01:11:02.480
OK, so you are a product of your habits.

1075
01:11:02.480 --> 01:11:05.600
Everything, 90% of who you are is just simply habit.

1076
01:11:05.600 --> 01:11:08.160
You sleep on the same side of the bed.

1077
01:11:08.160 --> 01:11:09.880
You get up and you do the same thing.

1078
01:11:09.880 --> 01:11:11.280
You brush your teeth the same way.

1079
01:11:11.280 --> 01:11:12.680
You tie your shoes the same way.

1080
01:11:12.680 --> 01:11:14.640
You drive the same way.

1081
01:11:14.640 --> 01:11:15.240
Everything.

1082
01:11:15.240 --> 01:11:16.800
You put on your shoes the same way.

1083
01:11:16.800 --> 01:11:18.480
Everything we do is habit.

1084
01:11:18.480 --> 01:11:21.480
And so I've learned that if I want

1085
01:11:21.480 --> 01:11:23.640
to change something in my life, I simply

1086
01:11:23.640 --> 01:11:25.120
have to change a habit.

1087
01:11:25.120 --> 01:11:27.360
That's the master key of success.

1088
01:11:27.360 --> 01:11:29.320
Whenever I decide I want, well, we've

1089
01:11:29.320 --> 01:11:31.400
got to change the thinking, the identity,

1090
01:11:31.400 --> 01:11:33.480
but then now we're in the action part of it.

1091
01:11:33.480 --> 01:11:37.120
In the action part of it, I've got to create a habit, OK?

1092
01:11:37.120 --> 01:11:38.800
So there's a couple of ways.

1093
01:11:38.800 --> 01:11:44.040
Now, if you have not read the book Atomic Habits,

1094
01:11:44.040 --> 01:11:46.840
Atomic Habits.

1095
01:11:46.840 --> 01:11:48.800
I'll put a link in the chat in a second.

1096
01:11:48.800 --> 01:11:50.200
Atomic Habits.

1097
01:11:50.200 --> 01:11:53.760
Probably one of the most important books

1098
01:11:53.760 --> 01:11:56.560
that you can read for this whole goal setting.

1099
01:11:56.560 --> 01:11:58.080
You can listen to it on Audible.

1100
01:11:58.080 --> 01:11:59.680
Atomic Habits, OK?

1101
01:11:59.680 --> 01:12:02.360
I think it's James Clear.

1102
01:12:02.360 --> 01:12:06.240
He gets into some of this to really make your habits stick.

1103
01:12:06.240 --> 01:12:09.360
One of them, I call it something different than he calls it,

1104
01:12:09.360 --> 01:12:12.360
but I'm a really big believer in declarations.

1105
01:12:12.360 --> 01:12:13.840
It's on the Prosper Daily Plan.

1106
01:12:13.840 --> 01:12:16.320
A declaration is an I will statement.

1107
01:12:16.320 --> 01:12:18.480
So every day on the Prosper Daily Plan,

1108
01:12:18.480 --> 01:12:20.200
you've got three I wills.

1109
01:12:20.200 --> 01:12:23.040
For me, I often say, I will read and pray.

1110
01:12:23.040 --> 01:12:24.840
I will exercise.

1111
01:12:24.840 --> 01:12:26.400
I will write three pages.

1112
01:12:26.400 --> 01:12:29.520
That's an example of some of my declarations.

1113
01:12:29.520 --> 01:12:32.840
It's I absolutely will do this, right?

1114
01:12:32.840 --> 01:12:37.040
So we can intensify this declaration

1115
01:12:37.040 --> 01:12:40.200
by kind of merging it with an intention

1116
01:12:40.200 --> 01:12:44.360
and adding the action, the time, and the place.

1117
01:12:44.360 --> 01:12:48.720
This really is going to take you from fuzzy thinking

1118
01:12:48.720 --> 01:12:52.600
into really clear thinking.

1119
01:12:52.640 --> 01:12:54.440
So here's an example.

1120
01:12:54.440 --> 01:13:01.240
I will write at 8 AM in my office.

1121
01:13:03.840 --> 01:13:04.920
I will write.

1122
01:13:04.920 --> 01:13:05.960
I get more specific.

1123
01:13:05.960 --> 01:13:14.240
I will write 500 words at 8 AM in my office.

1124
01:13:14.240 --> 01:13:15.880
So I know what I'm going to do.

1125
01:13:15.880 --> 01:13:16.960
It's very specific.

1126
01:13:16.960 --> 01:13:19.880
I'll know if I've written 500 words or not.

1127
01:13:19.880 --> 01:13:20.960
I've got a time.

1128
01:13:20.960 --> 01:13:21.880
It's on my calendar.

1129
01:13:21.880 --> 01:13:24.320
If you don't have it on your calendar, it's a hallucination.

1130
01:13:24.320 --> 01:13:26.360
You'll never get to it.

1131
01:13:26.360 --> 01:13:28.960
And the place, because now for your brain,

1132
01:13:28.960 --> 01:13:31.760
that's really concrete.

1133
01:13:31.760 --> 01:13:39.560
OK, I will do yoga at 7 30 AM in my bedroom.

1134
01:13:39.560 --> 01:13:46.440
Or I will work out in the gym at 6 AM in my local gym.

1135
01:13:46.440 --> 01:13:48.720
Do you guys get the depth of this?

1136
01:13:48.720 --> 01:13:50.240
Do you see how real it is?

1137
01:13:50.240 --> 01:13:51.520
You can't squirm out of this.

1138
01:13:51.640 --> 01:13:54.880
This is not fuzzy thinking.

1139
01:13:54.880 --> 01:13:57.800
All right, now another level of this,

1140
01:13:57.800 --> 01:14:01.960
again, this is from Atomic Habits, is habit stacking.

1141
01:14:01.960 --> 01:14:04.160
This makes it even more real.

1142
01:14:04.160 --> 01:14:07.000
And what we know is that whatever we do

1143
01:14:07.000 --> 01:14:09.800
affects everything else that we do.

1144
01:14:09.800 --> 01:14:13.600
So habit stacking is to take a habit that you already have.

1145
01:14:13.600 --> 01:14:16.760
So for example, I get up.

1146
01:14:16.760 --> 01:14:19.120
And for me, these are some of my habits.

1147
01:14:19.120 --> 01:14:20.680
I get up in the morning.

1148
01:14:20.680 --> 01:14:22.480
And I always go to the kitchen.

1149
01:14:22.480 --> 01:14:25.760
And I pour some coconut water.

1150
01:14:25.760 --> 01:14:30.160
And I put a delta E in the coconut.

1151
01:14:30.160 --> 01:14:34.840
So I pour a delta E in my coconut water.

1152
01:14:34.840 --> 01:14:38.320
And then a lot of times, because my daughter's going to work,

1153
01:14:38.320 --> 01:14:38.880
I go ahead.

1154
01:14:38.880 --> 01:14:41.800
And while I'm in the kitchen, I make a smoothie.

1155
01:14:41.800 --> 01:14:44.000
And I get all my protein and all my veggies

1156
01:14:44.000 --> 01:14:45.280
and all my stuff in my smoothie.

1157
01:14:45.280 --> 01:14:48.680
I make amazing pina coladas or avocado melon,

1158
01:14:48.680 --> 01:14:50.560
all these amazing smoothies.

1159
01:14:50.560 --> 01:14:51.960
So I do those two things.

1160
01:14:51.960 --> 01:14:52.440
I get up.

1161
01:14:52.440 --> 01:14:53.240
I go to the kitchen.

1162
01:14:53.240 --> 01:14:54.240
That's just done.

1163
01:14:54.240 --> 01:14:56.560
So I'm kind of a two-fisted drinker, right?

1164
01:14:56.560 --> 01:15:01.320
And then I naturally go into my.

1165
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my office at home. I've got a big easy chair. It's my study chair. I got the light over

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my head as I sit there. And I know that that's going to be my time with God. I'm going to

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read. I'm going to pray. I'm going to meditate. I'm going to do the things that I do. Okay.

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So I already have a cue, which a cue is a part of the habit. I got a cue that when I

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wake up, I make my Delta E and my smoothie. I have my cue that once I have my Delta E

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and my smoothie, I go into my office. I've got a place and it's a time. I set my alarm

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the same every day. It's a habit. Right. And so I've got my drinks and I sit down and I've

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got my table. I got my many color pens and you know, I've got my books. I got my Bible.

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I got my highlighters and I sit there and it's my time with God. Okay. Now maybe you

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are wanting to add having a spiritual practice, but you can't seem to get to it. Things always

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interrupt and you, you just don't have a way to get to that. Habit stacking is, let's

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say you drink coffee every morning. It's a habit. It's already there. Okay. So you say

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after I make my coffee, I will read my Bible. There you go. You now, the cue that you're

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teaching yourself, you're speaking this to yourself, habit stacking, right? So you take

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something that you're already doing and you're putting the thing that you want to add and

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you're making it very concrete that there's a cue. As soon as I make my coffee, I'm going

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to read my Bible. That's how I'm going to wire my brain. I speak it. That makes it more

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powerful. I hear myself. That makes it powerful. So you get up and you go, Oh, I'm, you talk

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to yourself. Okay. You're not crazy. You talk to yourself and you go, okay, I'm going to

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go make my coffee. And as soon as I make my coffee, I'm going to go grab my Bible. I'm

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going to get my nice, easy chair and I'm going to sit there and God and I are going to have

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time together. So I speak it. I have a very specific action. I have a very specific habit.

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I promise you'll these things will stick when you start doing this. Okay. Put in the chat.

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If that's helpful, let me know. Is that, is that something that will really make a difference?

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Pop in the chat to see your comments. You guys are quiet. I'm, I'm wrapping it up now

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because we are over and I want you to meet everybody here. So bottom line, commit, create

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habits, set up accountability, have a community. This is why I have the prosper leader membership.

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It's a community. All these masterclasses are free for prosper leaders. And so, um,

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you know, if you haven't done that yet and you want to become a prosper leader member,

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all of the resources twice a month, I go live these masterclasses, they're all included

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as part of that. And you've got a community that is supporting you. Okay. And so I want

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to thank you for being here. And now I am going to unpin myself. I'm going to stop recording

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and I want you to meet.