WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:10.080 I'm going to ask some questions for today's Tuesday Tips. 2 00:00:10.080 --> 00:00:16.160 What amazing things can you create out of this situation? 3 00:00:16.160 --> 00:00:24.080 Now I'm not trying to be Pollyanna, I'm not trying to minimize how severe this situation 4 00:00:24.080 --> 00:00:25.080 is. 5 00:00:25.080 --> 00:00:32.000 But I am saying, I believe that there can be some really great good that can come out 6 00:00:32.000 --> 00:00:33.200 of it. 7 00:00:33.200 --> 00:00:41.000 And so the two questions I'm going to open with are, what amazing things can you create? 8 00:00:41.000 --> 00:00:43.560 And I'm going to give you some ideas and some tips. 9 00:00:43.560 --> 00:00:47.800 What amazing things can you create? 10 00:00:47.800 --> 00:00:48.960 What's possible? 11 00:00:48.960 --> 00:00:56.240 What possibilities exist in this situation as we're all hunkered down and at home? 12 00:00:56.240 --> 00:01:02.400 Well, hey there, Brenda Byers, founder of Prosper In All Things and Prosper By Design 13 00:01:02.400 --> 00:01:04.760 Coach Certification. 14 00:01:04.760 --> 00:01:14.520 You know, in 2014, I made a bold decision after decades of speaking and doing seminars 15 00:01:14.520 --> 00:01:21.880 and workshops and live events, usually at hotels, conference centers, etc. 16 00:01:21.880 --> 00:01:28.320 I made the choice that I was going to bring my entire business online. 17 00:01:28.320 --> 00:01:35.360 Now that wasn't being done as often back then as it is starting to be now. 18 00:01:35.360 --> 00:01:40.720 But I decided that I was going to transition all my speaking, my coaching, my seminars, 19 00:01:40.720 --> 00:01:41.720 everything. 20 00:01:41.720 --> 00:01:43.280 I was going to bring it online. 21 00:01:43.280 --> 00:01:50.200 And I was going to do that in just two and a half, three days a week. 22 00:01:50.200 --> 00:01:53.420 I was going to open up four days a week. 23 00:01:53.420 --> 00:02:00.120 And I can tell you in a super excited way, I was able, have been able to create a six 24 00:02:00.120 --> 00:02:09.680 figure income working three days a week from home, providing even greater service and benefits 25 00:02:09.680 --> 00:02:12.000 to my coaching clients. 26 00:02:12.000 --> 00:02:16.040 See, they don't have to now drive, they don't have to get all dressed up, there doesn't 27 00:02:16.040 --> 00:02:18.200 have to be any commute time. 28 00:02:18.200 --> 00:02:23.320 I'm able to record the whole call, I send them the recording afterwards. 29 00:02:23.320 --> 00:02:29.600 I'm able to show things on the screen, share any kind of template, any kind of tool on 30 00:02:29.600 --> 00:02:30.600 the screen. 31 00:02:30.600 --> 00:02:35.400 I'm able to look at their stuff, they can share their screen. 32 00:02:35.400 --> 00:02:41.760 And so there was all kinds of options that came available by doing it this way. 33 00:02:42.520 --> 00:02:47.920 So what I want to talk about today is I'm going to share some tips for you, some positive 34 00:02:47.920 --> 00:03:00.240 thoughts, some positive ideas, how you can use this time to grow your faith, your income, 35 00:03:00.240 --> 00:03:02.040 and your impact. 36 00:03:02.040 --> 00:03:04.120 Yeah, that's what I can believe. 37 00:03:04.120 --> 00:03:08.560 As we're all hunkered down at home, we got two choices. 38 00:03:08.560 --> 00:03:15.320 We can be glued to the news, and we can be very, very afraid. 39 00:03:15.320 --> 00:03:16.480 And I'm going to show you something. 40 00:03:16.480 --> 00:03:17.480 Let's see if this works. 41 00:03:17.480 --> 00:03:19.640 I'm going to show this picture. 42 00:03:19.640 --> 00:03:22.000 Let's see, let me share this to the screen. 43 00:03:22.000 --> 00:03:23.320 All right. 44 00:03:23.320 --> 00:03:27.400 This is your brain, happy and normal on the right. 45 00:03:27.400 --> 00:03:33.520 And on the left, this is your brain on fear. 46 00:03:33.520 --> 00:03:40.520 So probably the worst thing that we can do to our immune system, to our brain, to our 47 00:03:40.520 --> 00:03:47.640 creativity, to our circulatory system, to our longevity, to our peace, to our joy, probably 48 00:03:47.640 --> 00:03:57.440 the worst option we can choose right now is to meditate, think about, mull over, speak, 49 00:03:57.440 --> 00:03:58.960 fear. 50 00:03:58.960 --> 00:04:01.520 This is your brain on fear. 51 00:04:01.520 --> 00:04:03.920 This is the brain that God gave us. 52 00:04:03.920 --> 00:04:11.680 And I'll remind you that God did not give us a spirit of fear, but a sound mind of love 53 00:04:11.680 --> 00:04:13.040 and power. 54 00:04:13.040 --> 00:04:16.040 So instead of fear, what can we do? 55 00:04:16.040 --> 00:04:17.040 All right. 56 00:04:17.040 --> 00:04:23.520 Number one, number one, reframe the challenge. 57 00:04:23.520 --> 00:04:27.040 You see, everything in life is about our perspective. 58 00:04:27.040 --> 00:04:28.520 It's about our point of view. 59 00:04:28.520 --> 00:04:31.560 It's about how we look at something. 60 00:04:31.560 --> 00:04:35.240 We can look at this like this is a disaster. 61 00:04:35.240 --> 00:04:36.840 I'm going to be miserable. 62 00:04:36.840 --> 00:04:39.320 I'm scared. 63 00:04:39.320 --> 00:04:45.000 You know, we can look at it so many ways, or we could look at it as this is the greatest 64 00:04:45.000 --> 00:04:47.000 season of my life. 65 00:04:47.000 --> 00:04:48.400 How can I serve? 66 00:04:48.400 --> 00:04:50.200 How can I bring light? 67 00:04:50.200 --> 00:04:52.040 How can I grow? 68 00:04:52.040 --> 00:05:00.040 What can I do to turn this fear, or this situation, or this frustration, or whatever it is, into 69 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:03.880 to positivity and power. 70 00:05:00.040 --> 00:05:00.040 71 00:05:03.880 --> 00:05:07.360 Let me just give you a few ideas to help reframe, 72 00:05:07.360 --> 00:05:10.200 get your thoughts going forward, okay? 73 00:05:10.200 --> 00:05:15.200 Number one, some of you just need rest. 74 00:05:17.120 --> 00:05:20.880 I've got some clients that are fried, 75 00:05:20.880 --> 00:05:25.040 they're sizzled, they're burned out, they're toast. 76 00:05:25.040 --> 00:05:29.340 And finally, we're getting an opportunity as a society 77 00:05:29.420 --> 00:05:32.200 to do something that we need to do. 78 00:05:32.200 --> 00:05:36.540 To rest our bodies, to rest our minds, 79 00:05:36.540 --> 00:05:41.440 to be still and know that He is God. 80 00:05:41.440 --> 00:05:44.140 Those of you that suddenly have your family together, 81 00:05:44.140 --> 00:05:46.460 thank you for the texts you've been sending. 82 00:05:46.460 --> 00:05:50.900 Suddenly, kids, families, everyone's coming together. 83 00:05:50.900 --> 00:05:52.760 This is a wonderful opportunity. 84 00:05:52.760 --> 00:05:55.840 Some of you have been wanting to study and grow and read. 85 00:05:55.840 --> 00:05:57.920 Some of you have been wanting to finish projects. 86 00:05:57.920 --> 00:06:01.220 Some of you have been wanting to create. 87 00:06:01.220 --> 00:06:04.800 So here's my suggestion, reframe. 88 00:06:04.800 --> 00:06:09.800 And then within that reframe, create a routine, okay? 89 00:06:10.420 --> 00:06:13.000 You had a routine before, right? 90 00:06:13.000 --> 00:06:15.140 You brushed your teeth probably the same time, 91 00:06:15.140 --> 00:06:17.660 ate probably the same thing, dashed out the door, 92 00:06:17.660 --> 00:06:20.460 went to do what you needed to do, came back, did what you, 93 00:06:20.460 --> 00:06:22.500 you had a routine. 94 00:06:22.500 --> 00:06:24.440 Don't stop that. 95 00:06:24.460 --> 00:06:28.580 But turn it into a routine that really makes you more 96 00:06:28.580 --> 00:06:30.340 of the person that you wanna be. 97 00:06:30.340 --> 00:06:33.000 Have you been thinking about exercising? 98 00:06:33.000 --> 00:06:35.060 Hey, part of my routine every morning, 99 00:06:35.060 --> 00:06:37.660 I roll out my yoga mat. 100 00:06:37.660 --> 00:06:40.500 I praise God on my yoga mat. 101 00:06:40.500 --> 00:06:45.500 I stretch, I increase my strength and I have a routine. 102 00:06:46.860 --> 00:06:49.780 I also have a spiritual growth routine. 103 00:06:49.780 --> 00:06:53.040 This is your time that you can have more time to pray, 104 00:06:53.040 --> 00:06:56.100 to read the word, to do this as a family, 105 00:06:56.100 --> 00:06:59.540 to meditate, whatever your spiritual practice is. 106 00:06:59.540 --> 00:07:02.060 So number one, reframe this change. 107 00:07:02.060 --> 00:07:07.060 Let's turn fear into productivity, positivity, power, okay? 108 00:07:08.100 --> 00:07:11.980 Number two, here's a question for you to ponder. 109 00:07:11.980 --> 00:07:14.800 Be ready for this, ponder this question. 110 00:07:14.800 --> 00:07:17.700 What would I love? 111 00:07:19.180 --> 00:07:21.920 Perhaps you haven't taken the time to ask yourself that. 112 00:07:21.920 --> 00:07:23.700 What would I really love? 113 00:07:23.700 --> 00:07:25.940 Make a list, what else would I love? 114 00:07:26.860 --> 00:07:29.180 I'd love to work from home. 115 00:07:29.180 --> 00:07:31.500 I'd love to make six figures. 116 00:07:31.500 --> 00:07:33.540 I'd love to volunteer more. 117 00:07:33.540 --> 00:07:35.940 I'd love to have more vacations. 118 00:07:35.940 --> 00:07:37.940 I'd love to build a business. 119 00:07:37.940 --> 00:07:41.500 I'd love to, what is it, what would you love to do? 120 00:07:42.480 --> 00:07:44.980 I would love, you could also phrase it, 121 00:07:44.980 --> 00:07:47.180 what would give me bliss? 122 00:07:47.180 --> 00:07:48.720 So number one, reframe. 123 00:07:48.740 --> 00:07:53.740 Number two, ask yourself, what would give me bliss? 124 00:07:55.780 --> 00:07:58.100 What would give me bliss? 125 00:07:58.100 --> 00:08:02.380 And I would like you to begin to think about this 126 00:08:02.380 --> 00:08:05.020 as an opportunity for a business. 127 00:08:05.020 --> 00:08:06.380 See, as a business coach, 128 00:08:06.380 --> 00:08:08.780 I love helping people start businesses. 129 00:08:08.780 --> 00:08:11.460 And the first step is I start looking at 130 00:08:11.460 --> 00:08:14.460 what they would love, what they would love to do, 131 00:08:14.460 --> 00:08:16.420 what they already know. 132 00:08:16.760 --> 00:08:20.380 Like in scripture, what's that in your hand, right? 133 00:08:20.380 --> 00:08:23.200 We have a tendency to minimize what's in our hand 134 00:08:23.200 --> 00:08:25.500 and say, oh, nothing but. 135 00:08:25.500 --> 00:08:29.320 When God asked Pharaoh, asked Moses, 136 00:08:29.320 --> 00:08:31.240 what's that in your hand? 137 00:08:31.240 --> 00:08:33.860 And he said, it's just a staff. 138 00:08:33.860 --> 00:08:36.440 Ah, no, no, no, no, no. 139 00:08:36.440 --> 00:08:37.780 It's not just a staff. 140 00:08:37.780 --> 00:08:39.919 That would lead a multitude. 141 00:08:39.919 --> 00:08:42.320 That would part the Red Sea. 142 00:08:42.320 --> 00:08:46.200 That would pull water out of a rock. 143 00:08:47.020 --> 00:08:49.220 What seems minimal in our hands, 144 00:08:49.220 --> 00:08:52.660 when we dedicate it to God, it's powerful. 145 00:08:52.660 --> 00:08:54.340 So you've got a lot of gifts. 146 00:08:54.340 --> 00:08:56.260 You've got a lot of resources. 147 00:08:56.260 --> 00:09:00.760 You've got a lot of connections, all right, 148 00:09:01.720 --> 00:09:04.500 that can be amazing. 149 00:09:04.500 --> 00:09:05.380 What would give you bliss? 150 00:09:05.380 --> 00:09:09.080 Today, I was talking to a dear friend, 151 00:09:09.080 --> 00:09:11.440 and I said, hey, use this time. 152 00:09:11.440 --> 00:09:13.860 Let's build an online business for you. 153 00:09:13.860 --> 00:09:16.440 And I said, I want you to think about right now, 154 00:09:16.440 --> 00:09:18.880 what would you love to teach? 155 00:09:18.880 --> 00:09:20.180 If you could just teach something, 156 00:09:20.180 --> 00:09:22.800 if you could mentor, if you could give something, 157 00:09:22.800 --> 00:09:25.120 what would you love to teach? 158 00:09:25.120 --> 00:09:30.120 And she said, I would love to teach how to build life, 159 00:09:31.080 --> 00:09:33.400 how to make your home a sanctuary, 160 00:09:33.400 --> 00:09:37.800 and build your family multi-generationally. 161 00:09:37.800 --> 00:09:40.760 How can multi-generations live together? 162 00:09:40.760 --> 00:09:43.260 I said, wow, that's gonna be huge. 163 00:09:43.640 --> 00:09:44.480 That's a trend. 164 00:09:44.480 --> 00:09:46.160 We're gonna have a lot of, 165 00:09:46.160 --> 00:09:47.660 in this sandwich generation, 166 00:09:47.660 --> 00:09:50.540 we're gonna have a lot of multi-generations, 167 00:09:50.540 --> 00:09:53.340 three generations living together, right? 168 00:09:53.340 --> 00:09:55.260 And so I began to talk about what she could do, 169 00:09:55.260 --> 00:09:58.260 and she got so excited. 170 00:09:58.260 --> 00:10:00.060 Are you passionate about cooking? 171 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:06.160 Do you love vegan life or paleo life or whatever you do vegetarian life? Would you love to teach 172 00:10:06.880 --> 00:10:13.280 some cooking? I have another client who has overcome so much childhood trauma 173 00:10:14.080 --> 00:10:20.960 and she said what could I do with it? I said well, what would you love to do with it? And I 174 00:10:20.960 --> 00:10:25.920 just started listing all the possibilities. What's possible? What would you like to do? Would you like 175 00:10:25.920 --> 00:10:29.840 to write a book? Would you like to create a course? Would you like to be a coach? Would you like to be 176 00:10:29.840 --> 00:10:34.640 a teacher? Would you like to be a volunteer? Would you like to set up programs? Would you like and I 177 00:10:34.640 --> 00:10:41.360 just and she just went wow. I never thought about it that way. A good a good business coach will 178 00:10:41.360 --> 00:10:48.320 walk you through that process. You've got gifts inside of you that will bless people and provide 179 00:10:48.880 --> 00:10:55.760 income for you. So number one, reframe. Number two, what would I love and how could I perhaps turn it 180 00:10:55.760 --> 00:11:02.560 into a business opportunity? And that includes number three. What do you know already? What do 181 00:11:02.560 --> 00:11:09.200 you do effortlessly? What comes natural for you? You see the mistake we make is we assume that 182 00:11:09.200 --> 00:11:17.680 everybody knows the same things that everybody just knows that. No, not true. And so what comes 183 00:11:17.680 --> 00:11:25.040 easy for you is a great thing to begin with. And then I said to her today, I said write down, write 184 00:11:25.040 --> 00:11:31.440 down all the things. Just start making a list of all the things that you could start talking about 185 00:11:31.440 --> 00:11:40.000 on that subject. I believe this is a powerful time to grow your faith, to grow your income, to grow 186 00:11:40.000 --> 00:11:46.880 yourself. What can you learn right now? You know, I have an online coach certification program and 187 00:11:46.880 --> 00:11:53.920 for those of you who have thought about coaching, watch for my webinar, Is Coaching Your Golden 188 00:11:53.920 --> 00:12:00.480 Ticket? I believe right now there's never been a greater demand for life health business relationship 189 00:12:00.480 --> 00:12:07.040 coaches. And so I have a coach certification program that will turnkey, biblically-based, 190 00:12:07.040 --> 00:12:15.120 science-backed, will equip you to launch a profitable coaching business. And it includes giving you leads 191 00:12:15.120 --> 00:12:20.960 and the mentoring and the coaching. We don't just give you an online course and leave you there. 192 00:12:20.960 --> 00:12:27.920 So this is a wonderful opportunity to get yourself certified, to launch a business. All right. And 193 00:12:28.800 --> 00:12:34.800 I can teach more about that later. So I want to encourage you to begin to create some spaces 194 00:12:35.360 --> 00:12:41.680 for these things. Create a meditation space in your home where you can go and just be alone with 195 00:12:41.680 --> 00:12:49.520 God. And you can pray, you can meditate, you can do yoga, you can study. Create a place that 196 00:12:49.600 --> 00:12:56.640 is a blessing for you. Create a workspace. Okay. Find a place that you can quietly create. 197 00:12:56.640 --> 00:13:04.240 So begin to build. You know, I have, this is being filmed in my office and it's in my home. 198 00:13:04.240 --> 00:13:11.600 My commute is from my bedroom to my middle room. And I've created a room that I love. 199 00:13:11.600 --> 00:13:18.000 You see a prophetic painting behind me. That's a powerful story. You see things on there that 200 00:13:18.720 --> 00:13:24.160 give me bliss. You see all of the notes up on the left, all of the things I'm working on, 201 00:13:24.160 --> 00:13:30.960 the projects, but I've got a place that I can go and my mind knows I'm at work. It's time to coach, 202 00:13:30.960 --> 00:13:38.320 create, write, create that kind of environment for yourself, create a workspace. And the last 203 00:13:38.320 --> 00:13:43.120 tip I'm going to share, and I'll come back and share more throughout the days, because I am all 204 00:13:43.120 --> 00:13:50.320 about transforming this fear into power for you. Having you begin to see what I believe you'll be 205 00:13:50.320 --> 00:13:57.920 able to look back on as this being the greatest opportunity that God gave you. I believe the 206 00:13:57.920 --> 00:14:01.440 government's going to start pouring some money into this thing. I think you're going to have 207 00:14:01.440 --> 00:14:07.040 some time. I think you're going to have wonderful opportunities. And for those of you that are 208 00:14:07.040 --> 00:14:12.960 people of faith, I think this is an awesome opportunity to be a light. I think this is an 209 00:14:12.960 --> 00:14:19.120 amazing time to share your gifts. Do you love to teach? Do you love to write? Do you love to pray? 210 00:14:19.120 --> 00:14:26.160 Do you love to prophesy? What gifts has God put in you? I'm sharing my gifts. I love speaking. I love 211 00:14:26.160 --> 00:14:31.520 teaching. I love inspiring. That's what I'm all about. That's what Prosper in All Things is all 212 00:14:31.520 --> 00:14:37.920 about. Equipping, empowering, inspiring you. Because that's what I love to do. What do you 213 00:14:37.920 --> 00:14:44.160 love to do? What gifts have God put in you? How can you take a time that is a dark season 214 00:14:44.880 --> 00:14:48.960 that you could be a blessing? Do you want to be a blessing in seniors' lives? Do you want to 215 00:14:48.960 --> 00:14:54.560 deliver some meals? Do you love talking on the phone? Do you want to call and encourage people? 216 00:14:54.560 --> 00:14:59.760 Do you love leading a Bible study? Do you love creating things? 217 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:06.400 Um, what can you do? Do you love writing? How can you be a light right now? I believe this is 218 00:15:06.400 --> 00:15:13.040 a season you can grow your faith. Be still. Be with God. Share your faith. Bless. Use your faith. 219 00:15:13.040 --> 00:15:19.040 You can grow your faith. You can grow your income. Never has there been a better time to build a 220 00:15:19.040 --> 00:15:25.520 virtual online business. Never. Never has there been a better time to be a coach. You can build 221 00:15:25.520 --> 00:15:40.400 your income part-time. Six figures. Seven figures.