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Yo yo Online School of Sonship family hope you guys are doing amazing. I am sweaty

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like a boss right now. Just just finished a workout so hello hello great to be

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with you whether you're joining live or delayed hello and as always getting as

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much water in my system as I can so I had great time in the glory this morning

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as a really creative space this morning which is fun and now done the workout

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and with you guys which is great 9 a.m. New Zealand time and awesome to be

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starting the day with you so let me have the stroop drink it about three liters a

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day really really good just keep the body flowing and how are you doing jump

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just say hello when you jump on board so I can see who's there awesome to be

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together and in this video today we are going to go through the review template

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and that is going to be fun so I'm looking forward to sharing this with you

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I see Muffy there who else is there just drop a little hello as you jump on board

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and Kerry wonderful to have you guys there see others jumping on too very

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cool and this is going to be a whoo a great session today I I am just dripping

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Liz hi I'm just dripping with sweat from that workout which is great great way to

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to be living the life baptized in sweat and glory so hey how about we pray as

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we start our session today and see what will happen as we start stirring things

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up and see what starts to happen as the Holy Spirit starts to move all around us

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so yeah let's do it and then you know as you jump on board just say hello so I

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can see who's there who's joining us and this is going to be an awesome morning

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together so ha well Papa Jesus Holy Spirit we love you ha we thank you that

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we are one with you we thank you that in you we live and move and have our being

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see you babe wife is heading out okay just begin praying in the spirit and

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set your attention on the reality that you are as one as one can be with the

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Trinity you are as one with that unbroken cycle of divine love that flows

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from Father Son and Holy Spirit as possible you are one with the divine

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dance you are one with the divine nature you are one with the spirit they

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are who she and or about in the mine a rabbi kitty out in a moment while we

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love you Papa we love you Jesus we love you Holy Spirit a rabble cushy and or

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about in the mouth be a room on a man and a model gear up a cushy and or about

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the other than the mouth cool rub up about she and oh I'm just gonna stand

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and pray and start moving things around a little bit me a rabble she and I'll

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rub up the other than a mom or a baba quite a rebuttal in the me she and all

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Roman a man and my kitty out on a man I'm a she and older than a my a rabbi

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check this out as you're praying be a rabble cushy out on a man I'm about by

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heavy rain a rabbi kissy and or about the other than a man I'm a mouth shunned

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oh oh rabbi kitty out on a man I'm a mama she a concomitant or about in a

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mouth or a bucky she and or about in a mouth by or a baba and a me she and or

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about in a mouth by or a baba and a me she and or about in a mouth by or in

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quandary about in a me she and all it's a heavy rain come a rabble bushy out on

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a man I'm a mouth quite so or about in a me she and or about in a me she and or

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or about in a me she and or about in a mouth

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Rubaba-shiki-a-ramanama-ma

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Iyaraba-ki-shi-andor-u-bara-ni-mi-shi-andor

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Ura-bara-ni-ki-shi-andor-u-bara-nama

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Ura-ba-ba-ba-ba-shiki-a-ramanama-ndor

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Ura-bara-ni-mi-shi-andor

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Iyambandor-u-rabara-ni-mi-shi-andor

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Rabara-ni-mi-shi-andor

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Ru-kwa-te-ra-bara-ni-mi-shi-andor-u-ramanama-ma

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Iyambandor-u-rabara-ni-mi-shi-andor-u-ramanama-ndor

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Well, fix your mind on heavenly things

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Fix your mind on heavenly things

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Fix your mind on heavenly things, right now

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Iyaraba-kondor-u-namah

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Oh, Abba Father, King Jesus, Holy Spirit

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We fix our mind

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on heavenly things, right now

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We fix our mind on the throne

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We fix

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our mind on the throne

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We fix our mind

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on Yeshua Messiah

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We fix our mind on the reality

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that we are seated in Christ Jesus

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in heavenly places, in Jesus' name

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Iyaraba-kondor-u-namah

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Rabara-ni-mi-shi-andor

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Oh, the 24 elders

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they cast their crowns before your throne

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10,000 times 10,000 angels

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worship

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the cloud of witnesses

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the living creatures, the seven spirits of God

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All of heaven adores you

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All of heaven worships you

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and we fix our mind on heavenly things, right now

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the rolls of thunder

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the flashes of lightning

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We fix our mind on heavenly things

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where we are seated in Christ Jesus

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Iyaraba-kondor-u-namah

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Rabara-ni-mi-shi-andor

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We fix our mind on dominion

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We fix our mind on the reality

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that every knee will bow

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and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ

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is the King of kings and Lord of lords

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Iyaraba-kondor-u-namah

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Rabara-ni-mi-shi-andor

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We fix our mind

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All of heaven and all of earth

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and all creation

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will come in before you

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singing worthy

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You are worthy of it all

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You are worthy of it all

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You are worthy of it all

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Let our worship rise right now

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Let our adoration rise right now

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Let our praise rise

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and may we bring you heavens

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May we bring you the very finest worship possible

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May we worship right now

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on earth as it is in heaven

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May we glorify you

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May we lift you up

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May we exalt you on high

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May we adore you like they adore you in heaven

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May we worship like they worship in heaven

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May we give you high praise right now

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in this moment

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just as it is in heaven

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May on earth as it is in heaven

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May it be birth, may it culminate

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May it be catalyzed, may it start right now

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May our adoration for you

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and our delight for you right now

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May our delight be heaven on earth right now

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May our praises be heaven on earth right now

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May our worship be on earth as in heaven right now

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Let our worship rise right now

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Let our adoration rise right now

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and may we bring you heavens

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May we worship like they worship in heaven

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May we exalt you

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May we lift you up

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May we adore you

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May we lift you up

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May we glorify you

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May we exalt you

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May we glorify you

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May we exalt you

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Be lifted, oh lifted, oh lifted on high, God, receive the highest praise.

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Be lifted, oh lifted, oh lifted on high, God, receive the highest praise.

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Be lifted higher, be lifted up, be lifted higher,

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be lifted up, oh Lord.

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May the sound of heaven be the sound that comes from our lips.

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May the frequencies that resonate before the throne be the frequencies that resonate in our hearts, in our lips, in our homes, in our lives.

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May the atmosphere that resonates heaven resonate in us.

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May the atmosphere and the culture of your kingdom that floods the realm of heaven, may it flood us, body, soul, and spirit.

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May it flood this realm. May the atmosphere of heaven saturate us.

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May we carry your glory.

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Open up the gates. Open up the realms. Open up the dimensions of your kingdom.

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Let your glory flow. May we be carriers of your glory.

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May we be marked by your glory forever.

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May we never be the same because we've been touched by your glory.

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Kuru kū kuʻu ʻeʻi. Kia roku moko andora. Amen.

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Kia roku moko andora.

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Amen, amen. Kia rana mana mama.

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Whatever you want to declare, I want to encourage you to make a declaration right now.

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Hora kiʻi ʻeʻi rana mana mama. Kia tu kōro rana mana mama. Kuando iʻi tiʻi rana mana mama. Kiʻi ʻeʻi andora rana mama.

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Kia kūn kūn andora rana mama. Kia kūn kūn andora rana mama.

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Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, let your presence, let your thick, rich, glorious presence flood this place.

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Papa, right now we declare, we decree and we declare, we mandate and we legislate that we carry your glory.

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Papa, we decree and we declare, we mandate and we legislate that we carry your glory.

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We decree and we declare, we mandate and we legislate that we carry your glory.

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Papa, truly there's nothing more beautiful to us than knowing you.

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We long to know you more. We say, take us deeper and deeper and deeper and deeper into who you are.

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Swallow us alive in your glory. Fill us, flood us, immerse us, baptise us.

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Eru kūn kuʻa te ʻārana mama. Holy, holy.

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Kuiʻa tuku kūruna mana mama. Holy, holy.

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Amen. Alright. Well how are you guys doing? How are you doing? Let me know how you guys are going.

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Good to be here today in the glory together.

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I see Esther there, Deborah there, Noxali, Patty, great to have you all here together.

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Billy, who else is there? Just say a little hi when you jump on.

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Lisa, great to have you there. Wow, wow, wow.

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Wow, wow, wow. Okay. Oh wow. Family, just great to be in the presence together as well just before we jump into this template.

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That is the place that we want to stay, the place that we want to live from, and everything that we hope to accomplish.

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We talked about this last week, the balance between...

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Hi Raewyn, beautiful to see you there. Anna, hello, hello. Muffy, hi.

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We talked about this last week, the balance between disciplines and to-do lists.

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like worship, being in the presence, disciplines like fitness, what we're eating, what are

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your other disciplines, feel free to chuck them in the comments there, wow, and so we've

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got the discipline side of things that we're going to have to do those tomorrow, we're

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never going to out, you know, we're never going to have to stop doing the disciplines

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and then the to-do list, so the disciplines determine our state of being, right?

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The disciplines determine our state of being, how we're stewarding our relationships, I

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can't just look after my wife and my kids one day, it has to be a discipline, it has

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to be a daily thing, it has to be, you know, constant and that's the disciplines and then

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the to-do lists are things we're going to tick off and the to-do lists, they don't determine

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our state of being, to-do lists determine our achievement, so we've got lifestyle based

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success and achievement based success and both are really, really critical, right?

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We want to have a divine state of being, we want to be in place of peak performance,

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Let me know if you want to be in a place of peak performance, where you want your body,

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your soul and your spirit, your relationships, your health, your finances, you want all of

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those things thriving, right?

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You want a peak, you want like a state of being that is in peak performance, right?

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We want that, we want a state of being that's in peak performance but then we also want

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significance, we want to really get some amazing things done, so that's the disciplines and

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then to-do lists and so today, the template that we're going to go and check out and you've

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seen that in the description already, no doubt, is there's a link in the description of this

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video that you can download the template for today, for this week, week 7, our last week

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of the Extreme Ownership Challenge but this template is slightly different because we're

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going to use this template over and over because this template is the review template, okay?

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So we're going to do a review now but every 3 months, we're going to do a review, okay?

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So every 3 months, we're going to do a review of our goals and how we're going with what

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we're going after together because the dream for me is not to see you guys just complete

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a course, the dream for me is to see us all collectively living in our dreams together.

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What do you reckon, mate?

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So for me, that's it, right?

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That's the heart, that's the desire, hi Dyke, great to have you with us but isn't that the

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dream for all of us?

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The dream for all of us is that we want to step into our wildest dreams and we disciple

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nations through fulfilled dreams, so for me, my heart, my mission, my mission is to see

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you step into your wildest dreams, that's what I'm about, that's what I desire, so this

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is not just a one-off event, you're in the Online School of Sonship and we're going to

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do reviews every 3 months, okay, so this template is quite cool because we don't just

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use it one time, we use it over and over, the other templates, you can use them over

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and over too, they're designed to help you set yourself up for success and when you've

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got a goal, those templates, you've got them, they will help you create the infrastructure

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around it to really set yourself up for success to achieve that goal, alright, so normally

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I would do this meeting through Zoom but Zoom changed some of their settings, so we're

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doing a tech upgrade today, so I can't show you what I, I can't just do a screen share

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like I'd normally do, but I will pull this up for you, so here's the template, it looks

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like this, if you haven't got it already, hold still, ta-da, that's the review template

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okay, so, just having another drink, crikey in that time of prayer and worship, I'm still

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short breathed from my workout, I just finished and came straight into this video, I'm still

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short of breath and sweating and panting and thirsty, but that's good, that's one, I'm

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taking off one of my disciplines for the day, so in the review, let me show you this again,

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so in the review, the idea is that we are reviewing goals, okay, so this whole way through

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the process, you have chosen, you know, a goal that you really want to go after, so

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this review is for you for when your time comes, because in the process and the template

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so far, you've set up a time for when you want your goal to be achieved, so remember

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a SMART goal, we've looked at this before, that stands for Specific SMART Goal, Specific

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Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Time Bound, okay, if you don't have a time frame

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on a goal, then it's not a goal, okay, it needs a time frame for it to be a goal, because

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a goal, you have to have a time line on it so that you can review it, now the review

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process is really, really critical, because without a review, there's no accountability,

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right, you can just, let me know if you've had this before, right, you've set goals and

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things like that and then just forgotten about them, you've set goals but had no

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accountability so you just kind of walk away they get lost and you get

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distracted from them and the next thing pops up and you're on to that and you

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haven't actually finished or achieved or accomplished what you set out to achieve

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in the first place let me know if you know what that is like and the beauty of

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a review is that the review is going to keep us all accountable say

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accountability yeah so you know that in three months time I'm going to be

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popping up again and going after accountability with you guys to make

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sure hey you're actually doing what you set out to do you're actually achieving

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it because listen this is not for play this is not for mucking around the world

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needs you bringing your dreams to life like never before but your wildest

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dreams are made up of countless little goals in the process so we need to be

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mastering this process of ticking off goals specific measurable attainable

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realistic and time bound now if you you might create your own system you might

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want to you might create your own flow in this process it's really important

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that you don't allow your goals your dreams to oppress you okay some people

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take their goals and their dreams so seriously that they actually end up

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stripping life from them your goals are there to serve you your systems that you

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use are there to serve you so if you need to adjust the systems adjust the

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goals a little bit so that they serve you better you don't want a goal to be

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in a ruthless overlord you don't want a goal to be you know a tyrant over your

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life you want a goal there to serve you your goals should be your best friends

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reviews should be fantastic that these things should have a really good

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atmosphere and they should feel really good that you that you've got

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accountability it should feel really good that you've got goals it should

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feel really good that you've got a review template and a review system in

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place because that's going to help you take the next step that you need to take

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to getting your goals so that's what we want to say okay I want to say

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accountability so say that again with me say accountability right if we want to

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thrive we need some accountability and when I talk about accountability I want

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to say this that the accountability that I want to bring here is not

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accountability that's watching your every step and going hmm are you

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behaving I don't want that type of accountability right that's I want

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that's kind of an orphan accountability where it's really more about control and

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it's more about you know like spying on people I don't want that I want

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accountability to greatness I want to see you and I know that you already

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carry this but I want to see you take another step into your greatness there's

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seeds of greatness that God's placed on the inside of you and you need to bring

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those to life right you need to bring those to fruition and they're not going

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to come to fruition if you're just sitting around if you're not doing

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anything if you're not being serious if you're not taking it taking this whole

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dynamic of the call of God really seriously and I don't think you can say

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that you're taking the call of God in your life really seriously if you don't

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have some goals if you don't have some to-do lists if you don't have some

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plans in place because it's not just going to magically happen okay so we've

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been through it now you guys have got all the templates now the seven sacred

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systems for success you have them which is exciting and so what we want to do

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going forward is we want to get in a rhythm okay you want to take all that

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information you want to take all those systems and all those templates and then

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just create an organic rhythm with them in your life you want to figure out what

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works well how does it flow how does it work well so for me what works like the

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best kind of system that works well for me is my strategy like I have primary

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strategies and then I have individual strategies for different goals but it's

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the kind of the way my white life works is I do what I see the father doing so

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if there's a if there's something that has to happen in a particular day or

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whatever I'm always asking Holy Spirit every day what is the single grace

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greatest most important priority action that I have to take today okay so I've

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got to have that I want that priority action I've got to have that priority

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auction but I also get I do that on a season by season basis okay so I've

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shown this to you guys before but this is like that this is the season okay so

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this season it might last a few weeks it might last a month and then some of the

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this is a to-do list for the season right so I just did this last week why

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only if you know maybe less than a week ago I put this new one up and this has

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got the things that I need for you know for coming up and then I'll put the

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bigger projects that I need to do on a bigger scale and those some of those big

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projects they have lots and lots and lots of little tasks attached to them so

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all the little tasks they go on things like this like my daily to-do list okay

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so I've got those things there hey we got a little kid let's see who's at

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Yep, come in. Ez, my man. Okay, Ez has been doing some homeschool. What have you got bud?

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You've got the things you're thankful for? Okay guys, let's have a little look

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at what Ezra is thankful for. Going to Tairua for my Lego. Yep. For my gems. Yep.

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And what else are you thankful for? For my house. Yep. For my mum and dad. Yep. For my thankfulness. Yep.

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For my succulents. Yep. And what's this one? For my friends, family. Yep. And love.

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Oh, that's fantastic. So Ez, tell these guys on the video, thankfulness is what?

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Happiness. Who's responsible for your happiness? Me. Yeah, that's right. How are

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you gonna, how are you gonna be happy? Thankfulness. Good man. Thankfulness is

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happiness. Awesome. Say see you to these guys. Bye. Great stuff. Good work on this, Ez.

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And later you can bring it to me and I will write it out correctly and then you

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can copy it. Cool? Good man. Okay, bless you. Good work, Ez. Isn't he the man?

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Love you, Ez. He's the man teaching kids one of the most important lessons they'll

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learn, which is thankfulness is happiness. And we teach that lesson every single day

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to our kids. Thankfulness is happiness. So that's cool. I've been, I'm kind of

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been homeschooling mum Alana and I, been homeschooling the kids in this season as

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well, but they're gonna start school next week. So Monday next week they start

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school, a really cool school, where we're moving into our new town. So that's cool.

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Okay, so, so what I'm, what I'm saying, right, is you want to take all the

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templates that we've done over this extreme ownership adventure, you want to

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take all of the templates and the systems, the seven sacred systems for

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success that we've looked at, and create a flow that works really, really well for

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you. Now all those templates, I kind of do those things all the time, right, that

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they're, but what I've boiled it down to is an organic flow that after using those

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templates, and then if there's a particular thing that I really want to

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do, like if I really, if I really need motivation, just, or you really need

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motivation, just whip out the motivation template and put your goal through the

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motivation template, and I tell you what, that motivation template will set your

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goal on fire, it'll set your heart on fire, it'll bring you right back to the

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significance, to the why, to all the reasons why this goal has to happen, it

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will just light you up, okay. So, so I guess that's one of the things that I

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want to just bring to you as we're kind of closing out this series, is that you

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want to take everything that we've done and kind of create just an organic flow

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with it, that's going to work for you on a regular basis. Okay, awesome, so let's

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now go to the template again, and hopefully you've got a copy there in

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front of you, if you've been able to download it, if you haven't, let me show

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you this quickly, but it starts off, the first thing in the review, and so you

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want to kind of get familiar with this process, because you can do it for

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yourself whenever you want, just depending on when your, your, your

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timeline is, right, for a goal, because we've got specific, measurable, attainable,

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realistic, and timetabled, or time bound, so when, so choose your goal, name your

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goal, put these details down here, you should already have those in the

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templates that you've already done, and then you can just, you know, transfer that

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from those templates that you've already got, put it here, or if you're creating a

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new goal, you could create it here, if you just want to do a really quick set

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up for a goal, but you've actually got a whole goal template, so I'd recommend

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using that, and then, so it's got little questions as you go through, number three,

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did you fully complete your SMART goal on time, and then if your answer is yes,

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please go to number 14, okay, let's go to number 14, so if you did, if you use

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this review on yourself, we'll be using it together, but I want to encourage you

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to be setting a three-month goal, okay, what do you want to achieve in three

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months, so what worked well for you in the process of accomplishing this goal,

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okay, so if you did achieve the goal, it asks, the template asks you a couple of

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questions about what worked well, what worked well for you in the process of

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accomplishing this goal, and taking the time just to think about that could give

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you some invaluable information and insights, then question number 15, is there

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any part of the process that you can learn from that will add value to your

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future, so just, you know, figuring out what went well, why did you succeed here,

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putting those details down, number 16, please name your next high-priority SMART

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goal, put that down there, because you want to keep building momentum, a goal is,

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you know, it's one stepping stone, so what's the next stepping stone that you

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need, and then number 17, what is the next best action that you can take towards

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completing that goal, so this, this review also just sets you up for it with a bit

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of momentum for your next,

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next stage, and then when will you take this next action, and then the final thing in here,

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we'll have to go back to, we'll go back because there's two lanes to this.

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So once you've signed this statement, your review is complete, and then the statement

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is I am 100% committed to accomplishing my goals and fulfilling my dreams.

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So name it, date it, sign it, congratulations, you have now completed your smart review,

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go and chase down your wildest dreams.

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Okay, so we'll go back to the top.

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Now if you didn't get the, so number three, did you complete your smart goal on time?

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If you didn't, B, if your answer is no, then how far away are you from completing your

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So this just helps you do a reality check on if you were close, if you were far, if

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you were miles away, what was it like, did you nearly get your goal, or were you miles

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comes to reviews and when it comes to looking at your goals, because you might have just

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All the time, you know, it's really common that things will come up.

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You guys know this, right?

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You're going to get distractions, blindsides, all sorts of things will come up, and sometimes

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you just didn't allow a realistic amount of time, and other times there's other reasons.

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But we want to identify what were the issues.

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it, isolate, we want to minimize, isolate, or eliminate, okay, so you say minimize, isolate,

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If there's consistent reasons why you're not achieving your goals, you want to minimize,

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isolate, or eliminate.

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You want to figure out, okay, why was it that you didn't get this goal?

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Can you minimize the reason that you didn't get this goal?

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Was it too much Netflix?

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That was the reason?

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Well, you can eliminate that.

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You know, was it that you were just distracted that you didn't get this goal?

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Question number six is, is this goal still significant and important enough that you

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So if your answer, so A is, if your answer is no, please go to question 12.

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So this is just like, sometimes a goal just actually becomes irrelevant, right?

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So say your goal is to earn, you know, $100, or say your goal is to earn $10,000 so you

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can buy a new car, but if you get given a new car, then you don't really, that's not

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like a goal.

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It's like, okay, so it will actually achieve the goal, or you might be wanting to get some

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cricket gear to play cricket, but then actually you decide, actually, like, I want to play

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rugby now, or whatever.

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So there was a World Series earthquake, I think it was San Francisco, the World Series

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earthquake, and it was during a World Series baseball game, and the earthquake struck,

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and the whole city was just like in total chaos, right?

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of money off their business, because everyone's coming to San Fran for the World Series baseball

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game.

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But, right, those people who were planning to do a lot of business there, restaurants

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or whatever, they needed to change their game plan up real quick, because their restaurants

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were on fire, there were gas fires, there was, you know, the whole city was a war zone

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up, you have to, sometimes you have to just change up the goal that you've got for a good

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So you just want to identify that, and say, you know, are you quitting this for a good

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reason, or what?

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On question number six, it says, is this goal still significant and important enough that

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you want to try again?

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A, if your answer is no, please go to question 12.

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B, if your answer is yes, what is the new time frame that you will set for this goal?

442
00:34:20.600 --> 00:34:24.760
So review option is, you just need to set a new timeline for getting this goal, or A,

443
00:34:24.760 --> 00:34:31.440
let's go to question 12, and it says, question 12 says, can you remember why this goal was

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important to you in the first place?

445
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So it's just taking you back.

446
00:34:34.840 --> 00:34:36.040
Do you really want to quit this?

447
00:34:36.040 --> 00:34:37.840
Do you really want to leave this?

448
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And the answer might be yes, and if it's yes, great, then just walk away from that goal,

449
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because things change and you have to be flexible and change with them.

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So then question number 13, after you've done that and really confirmed, yeah, I do want

451
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to just leave this goal, number 13 says, are you certain that you no longer wish to complete

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this goal?

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A says, if you have decided that you no longer wish to complete this goal, please sign the

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statement below.

455
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:06.900
and it says this SMART goal is no longer a priority in my life so name it, date it,

456
00:35:06.900 --> 00:35:12.100
sign it. Or B, if you've decided that you do want to complete this goal then

457
00:35:12.100 --> 00:35:17.180
return to question number 8. All right so question number 8 says what

458
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actions were highly effective during your last attempt to complete this goal?

459
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Because sometimes you might achieve a goal or you might fail to achieve a goal

460
00:35:24.420 --> 00:35:27.480
but a few of the things you were doing were really good. So if we go back to

461
00:35:27.480 --> 00:35:30.520
question 6, you can see it's kind of like a little bit of an adventure doing

462
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this template because it just depends, you know, it's got multiple scenarios of

463
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you know how you've gone with that goal. So back to question 6, is this goal

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still significant and important enough that you want to try again? B, if your

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answer is yes, what is the new time frame you want to set for this goal? So set the new

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time frame. 7, can you remember why this goal was so important to you in the

467
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first place? Yes, you can accept that. Number 8, what actions were highly

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effective during your last attempt to complete this goal? So just getting some

469
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more info out of it. And then, you know, because this stream now is for if you

470
00:36:00.920 --> 00:36:05.240
didn't get it, number 9 is what will you do differently this time? Okay, so why

471
00:36:05.240 --> 00:36:08.080
didn't you get that goal and what are you going to change it up? Because we've

472
00:36:08.080 --> 00:36:11.080
got to make sure that, you know, if our strategy didn't work, we have to change

473
00:36:11.080 --> 00:36:15.320
that strategy up. And you might have had a great strategy and I get this

474
00:36:15.320 --> 00:36:19.520
sometimes, you know, I work my guts out trying hard to create a really awesome

475
00:36:19.520 --> 00:36:24.960
strategy and I am not, I don't have any loyalty and I want to encourage you not

476
00:36:24.960 --> 00:36:28.600
to have loyalty to a strategy just because you put a lot of time into it,

477
00:36:28.600 --> 00:36:35.360
okay? Because, you know, the only thing worse than a bad strategy is implementing

478
00:36:35.360 --> 00:36:40.040
it, okay? The only thing, you know, like sometimes I create these great

479
00:36:40.040 --> 00:36:44.080
strategies for marketing or whatever, right? And then you test them. So I

480
00:36:44.080 --> 00:36:48.360
always, when it comes to a strategy, you can do as much work on creating a

481
00:36:48.360 --> 00:36:52.200
strategy as you like, but you can't really have too much loyalty to your

482
00:36:52.200 --> 00:36:57.360
strategy. Don't get too emotionally connected to your strategies, okay? What

483
00:36:57.360 --> 00:37:00.840
you want to be emotionally connected to is results. You want to be emotionally

484
00:37:00.840 --> 00:37:05.000
connected to success. You see a lot of people that, you know, that do this with

485
00:37:05.000 --> 00:37:09.240
buying houses. They buy houses out of emotion or they run a business out of

486
00:37:09.240 --> 00:37:14.480
emotion rather than results. And if you're running it on emotion rather than

487
00:37:14.480 --> 00:37:18.400
results, you know, you can get yourself in trouble. If you buy a house on emotion

488
00:37:18.440 --> 00:37:23.360
rather than results or rather than facts, then you can kind of get yourself into a

489
00:37:23.360 --> 00:37:28.840
lot of trouble. So number nine is just about analyzing, you know, what

490
00:37:28.840 --> 00:37:33.520
strategies work for you, what didn't. Because, yeah, I'll definitely say that in

491
00:37:33.520 --> 00:37:38.520
the process of creating strategy, you can do lots and lots of planning and then

492
00:37:38.520 --> 00:37:43.200
have a strategy that just bombs on you. And that's okay. So the way that, one of

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00:37:43.200 --> 00:37:48.080
the ways that I think about that is that I always think when strategy, I

494
00:37:48.080 --> 00:37:51.640
always think about strategy kind of objectively or just kind of from a

495
00:37:51.640 --> 00:37:55.040
distance. I think, okay, I've created this strategy. We need to test it and see if

496
00:37:55.040 --> 00:37:58.760
it works. Because you never want to be loyal to a strategy. You always want to

497
00:37:58.760 --> 00:38:02.440
be loyal to your dream, okay? Because a strategy can kill your dream. The wrong

498
00:38:02.440 --> 00:38:06.480
strategy, it'll kill your dream. So don't be loyal to strategies. Be loyal to your

499
00:38:06.480 --> 00:38:11.000
dream and always ensure that, hey, you know, like if you had a plan, if it failed,

500
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if something backfired, changed, whatever, don't worry, create a new strategy.

501
00:38:14.120 --> 00:38:19.000
Strategies are a dime a dozen. And I'll say this about strategy, right?

502
00:38:19.000 --> 00:38:26.200
This is one of God's best moves. If you look in the Bible, every single time you

503
00:38:26.200 --> 00:38:29.600
look in the Bible, there is a strategy, okay? There's a strategy for success. If

504
00:38:29.600 --> 00:38:33.200
you are Joshua and you're going to take over the promised land, there's a

505
00:38:33.200 --> 00:38:37.680
strategy for success. If you're Joshua and you're going up in a city like

506
00:38:37.680 --> 00:38:41.920
Jericho that can't be defeated, it's an inconquerable city, then God has a

507
00:38:41.920 --> 00:38:46.320
strategy. And it might not look, it might look weird to you. It might look like God

508
00:38:46.320 --> 00:38:49.360
saying, hey, march around the city seven times and blow some trumpets and that's

509
00:38:49.360 --> 00:38:53.440
your strategy. Well, if that's the strategy that God has, that's the

510
00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:57.840
strategy that you want to go after. So this is where intimacy with God and the

511
00:38:57.840 --> 00:39:00.600
prophetic dynamic and just really connecting with God is going to really

512
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help in the process of creating strategy. You know, you had Elisha and his

513
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servant Gehazi. And Gehazi's like, oh no, you know, like as he sees the

514
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enemy encamped around them. And then Elijah says to him, you know, Elijah says,

515
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you know, Lord open his eyes so that he might see that those who are for us are

516
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greater than those who are against us. And he opens Gehazi's eyes and all of a

517
00:39:28.560 --> 00:39:31.840
sudden he's like, whoa, I'm seeing from a totally different dimension. So

518
00:39:31.840 --> 00:39:37.800
strategy, strategy is one of the most critical areas of our lives. For me, it's

519
00:39:37.800 --> 00:39:43.280
a day-by-day space and I'm always pulling on the spirit of wisdom for

520
00:39:43.280 --> 00:39:49.840
strategy. I'm always leaning into God for strategy. This is John, which one is it?

521
00:39:49.840 --> 00:39:56.320
This is John 5 19. I do only what I see the Father doing. I'm always on a daily

522
00:39:56.320 --> 00:40:01.640
basis leaning in for strategy and I get strategy.

523
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:03.480
Even if I get a strategy from God, I'm like, right, I'm going to put this into place, I'm

524
00:40:03.480 --> 00:40:07.940
going to implement it, but I'm not going to be loyal to the fact that I thought I heard

525
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from God.

526
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I'm going to be loyal to results, because sometimes even when we think we're hearing

527
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from God, we can get it wrong.

528
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I've had that really badly myself, and I've shared that with you guys in this journey

529
00:40:18.440 --> 00:40:24.200
so far as well, that sometimes I am sure I've heard from God in a specific detail, and maybe

530
00:40:24.200 --> 00:40:29.960
I did, maybe I implemented it wrong, maybe I got it wrong somewhere, but the litmus test,

531
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the way of checking, it's just look at the results, what's the fruit from it, and you

532
00:40:35.440 --> 00:40:37.440
want to be loyal to fruit, you want to be loyal to your vision.

533
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So what 9x9 is, what will you do differently this time?

534
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Let me think.

535
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I just want to camp on this moment here of strategy just for a moment longer, because

536
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this is going to be one of your most critical areas in your life when it comes to reviewing,

537
00:40:53.480 --> 00:40:58.000
and you want to be doing this with your life, with your things, on a daily process, sometimes

538
00:40:58.000 --> 00:41:03.800
multiple times a day, I'll be assessing strategy, and I'll be leaning in, I'm like, okay God,

539
00:41:03.800 --> 00:41:06.320
what do we need to do, what do we need to do?

540
00:41:06.320 --> 00:41:20.520
This is 2 Chronicles Chapter 20, 2 Chronicles Chapter 20 is Jehoshaphat, and Jehoshaphat

541
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says he's got three armies coming against him, and the whole of Israel is certain that

542
00:41:26.800 --> 00:41:28.880
they're going to be wiped off the map, right?

543
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The whole of Israel is certain that they're going to be wiped off the face of the earth

544
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because of three entire armies coming against them, but they have this mindset, right?

545
00:41:41.120 --> 00:41:46.680
They go into a place of worship, so that's the first time, and listen, when you're leaning

546
00:41:46.680 --> 00:41:51.040
into God for strategy, it's not always pretty, it's not always like everything's nice and

547
00:41:51.040 --> 00:41:56.480
fluffy, sometimes if you fail to achieve your goal, and you were all in on that goal, you'd

548
00:41:56.480 --> 00:42:00.800
burnt your boats, you were all in, this was your only option, you'd done everything you

549
00:42:00.800 --> 00:42:06.240
could, you'd gone 100% in this direction, and you were really trusting that this was

550
00:42:06.240 --> 00:42:11.320
going to work, and it doesn't work, you can end up in a place of serious desperation,

551
00:42:11.320 --> 00:42:15.920
and you need a strategy from heaven in that moment, and you're just like, God has to pull

552
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through.

553
00:42:17.360 --> 00:42:22.760
So take 2 Chronicles Chapter 20 with King Jehoshaphat, what they do when the three armies

554
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are attacking them, they first go into a place of worship, they go into a place of fasting,

555
00:42:28.280 --> 00:42:35.280
and then Jehoshaphat says something awesome, he says, we have no power to face this vast

556
00:42:35.400 --> 00:42:42.400
army that is attacking us, and we do not know what to do, but our eyes are on you, Lord.

557
00:42:43.080 --> 00:42:45.120
Oh my gosh, how beautiful is that?

558
00:42:45.120 --> 00:42:47.120
And that is exactly where we find ourselves.

559
00:42:47.120 --> 00:42:51.560
If you're following God, if you're chasing down a big, crazy, outrageous dream, if you

560
00:42:51.560 --> 00:42:55.120
are going after exceedingly, abundantly, above and beyond what you've ever dared to

561
00:42:55.120 --> 00:42:59.600
ask, dream, pray, think, or even imagine, you are guaranteed to be going places where

562
00:42:59.600 --> 00:43:04.400
you do not know the way, you do not know what to do, you do not know the strategy.

563
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And if you've failed in the process, all it does is emphasize the desperate need that

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you have for a fresh strategy from God.

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00:43:13.520 --> 00:43:20.200
The answer is, it's like, oh my gosh, I have to, I have to hear from God.

566
00:43:20.240 --> 00:43:26.240
We find ourselves in that moment, and so what was awesome in Jehoshaphat's mindset is that

567
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he went into a place of worship, and something beautiful about that, go into a place of worship,

568
00:43:30.920 --> 00:43:36.080
go into a place of praying in the Spirit, but do not stress out, okay?

569
00:43:36.080 --> 00:43:41.200
Absolutely, last thing you want to do is do not stress out, because stress will kill the

570
00:43:41.200 --> 00:43:42.600
creative flow, okay?

571
00:43:42.600 --> 00:43:47.800
You want to just do whatever you have to do, pray in the Spirit, worship, just go hard,

572
00:43:47.800 --> 00:43:54.040
read your Bible, read through the Psalms until you get your peace, just go pray, pray, pray,

573
00:43:54.040 --> 00:43:58.960
shift things, stir things up, but do not get stuck in a place of stress, because stress

574
00:43:58.960 --> 00:44:03.520
will shut down the creative flow, stress will shut down your ability to hear the strategy

575
00:44:03.520 --> 00:44:05.800
that you so desperately need, okay?

576
00:44:05.800 --> 00:44:10.320
Don't go into a place of shame, don't go into a place of guilt, you've got to rise above

577
00:44:10.320 --> 00:44:12.120
that in that moment, and you're going to get there.

578
00:44:12.120 --> 00:44:17.720
If you can't get there, just by sitting quietly, put some worship music on, pray in the Spirit,

579
00:44:17.720 --> 00:44:19.920
you've got to master your attention.

580
00:44:19.920 --> 00:44:22.680
It's like I've talked about this before, self-arresting, right?

581
00:44:22.680 --> 00:44:26.080
You can have a failure and your mindset starts crashing, it's like, oh my gosh, what am I

582
00:44:26.080 --> 00:44:27.080
going to do?

583
00:44:27.080 --> 00:44:30.120
Well, you've got to self-arrest, and in that moment you've got to get a new strategy, and

584
00:44:30.120 --> 00:44:35.360
this is a huge part of the review process, is that you have to get a new strategy.

585
00:44:35.360 --> 00:44:39.120
If it didn't work, you've got to get a new strategy, you've got to hear from God, but

586
00:44:39.120 --> 00:44:43.760
to do that, you want to be in the space of the creative flow, you want to be in a place

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00:44:43.760 --> 00:44:46.760
of divine flow, and that's what Jehoshaphat ensured.

588
00:44:46.760 --> 00:44:50.400
They went into fasting, they went into prayer, they went into worship, and they went into

589
00:44:50.400 --> 00:45:00.040
waiting on God, and waiting on the Lord is a Hebrew word, kavah, Q-A-V-A-H, kavah, alright?

590
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.040
It means a place of divine entanglement.

591
00:45:04.040 --> 00:45:07.080
It's like the same word used for weaving, okay?

592
00:45:07.080 --> 00:45:10.800
So you weave yourself into the divine nature itself.

593
00:45:10.800 --> 00:45:13.360
You weave yourself into oneness with God.

594
00:45:13.360 --> 00:45:14.360
You weave yourself.

595
00:45:14.360 --> 00:45:15.360
That's waiting on God.

596
00:45:15.360 --> 00:45:18.920
So if you need a new strategy, you need to wait on God.

597
00:45:18.920 --> 00:45:19.920
You need to wait on the Lord.

598
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You need to kava, okay?

599
00:45:21.820 --> 00:45:24.240
And it's not just going, well, I'm wasting my time.

600
00:45:24.240 --> 00:45:25.240
What am I doing?

601
00:45:25.240 --> 00:45:26.240
Come on, God.

602
00:45:26.240 --> 00:45:27.240
Come on, God.

603
00:45:27.240 --> 00:45:30.960
It's not just trying to be patient and wait for the time to go by, as in that.

604
00:45:30.960 --> 00:45:37.800
It is kava is to weave yourself into the very fabric of the being of God.

605
00:45:37.800 --> 00:45:40.240
To weave yourself into oneness with God.

606
00:45:40.240 --> 00:45:45.720
To weave yourself into the fabric of God like a rope is weaved.

607
00:45:45.720 --> 00:45:48.400
That is kava and that is what Jehoshaphat did.

608
00:45:48.400 --> 00:45:53.200
He weaved himself into oneness with God so that he was in a place where he could hear

609
00:45:53.200 --> 00:45:54.200
from God.

610
00:45:54.200 --> 00:45:57.720
And so God said, go out and, you know, go out and meet them.

611
00:45:57.720 --> 00:46:01.120
And when they get to the pass of Ziz, they look out over the enemies and they've all

612
00:46:01.120 --> 00:46:02.440
defeated themselves.

613
00:46:02.440 --> 00:46:05.800
The two small armies banded together and killed the big army completely.

614
00:46:05.800 --> 00:46:10.520
Then the two small armies fought each other completely and there was no one left.

615
00:46:10.520 --> 00:46:16.720
It was just, all that was left was for Jehoshaphat's army to spend three days carrying away the

616
00:46:16.720 --> 00:46:17.720
plunder.

617
00:46:17.720 --> 00:46:22.000
But what he did is he put his worship team in the very front of his army and he went

618
00:46:22.000 --> 00:46:23.000
out with delight.

619
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So he went in this place of, of delight.

620
00:46:24.520 --> 00:46:28.880
So what I want to say to you is that as you're waiting on the Lord as you want to stir it

621
00:46:28.880 --> 00:46:30.560
up, you, you need a new strategy.

622
00:46:30.560 --> 00:46:31.640
You've got to review your strategy.

623
00:46:31.640 --> 00:46:33.120
You've got to hear from God.

624
00:46:33.120 --> 00:46:34.280
So you avoid stress.

625
00:46:34.280 --> 00:46:36.120
You don't go into that place of stress.

626
00:46:36.120 --> 00:46:39.920
You stir yourself up, you're praying in the Spirit, you're waiting on the Lord, and you

627
00:46:39.920 --> 00:46:42.920
get come, you've got to get yourself into that place of delight.

628
00:46:42.920 --> 00:46:45.740
And I want to say that the sound of your delight is the sound of your breakthrough.

629
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The sound of your delight is the sound of your breakthrough.

630
00:46:48.260 --> 00:46:52.200
The sound of your delight is the sound of your breakthrough and it's in that place of

631
00:46:52.200 --> 00:46:53.200
delight, right?

632
00:46:53.200 --> 00:46:54.960
Where you're in the place of delight.

633
00:46:54.960 --> 00:46:59.200
You're in that place where you're worshiping on earth as it is in heaven, even in the midst

634
00:46:59.200 --> 00:47:00.200
of these circumstances.

635
00:47:00.200 --> 00:47:01.200
You're in the place of delight.

636
00:47:01.200 --> 00:47:02.200
You're in a place of worship.

637
00:47:02.200 --> 00:47:03.760
You're in the place of adoration.

638
00:47:03.760 --> 00:47:07.160
You're living above your circumstances in that place that you'll get the strategies

639
00:47:07.160 --> 00:47:08.160
that you need.

640
00:47:08.160 --> 00:47:09.160
Okay?

641
00:47:09.160 --> 00:47:10.160
That is the place.

642
00:47:10.160 --> 00:47:13.040
So I know that's a lot of time to spend on question number nine, but it's one of the

643
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most critical aspects to the review process is that you know how to hear from God, to

644
00:47:18.120 --> 00:47:22.920
get a word from the Lord, and to actually get your brand new strategy from heaven.

645
00:47:22.920 --> 00:47:23.920
Boom!

646
00:47:23.920 --> 00:47:24.920
Awesome.

647
00:47:24.920 --> 00:47:31.200
Let me know how you get your strategies from heaven.

648
00:47:31.200 --> 00:47:32.200
That's how I do it.

649
00:47:32.200 --> 00:47:34.760
The sound of your delight is the sound of your breakthrough and you've got to live above

650
00:47:34.760 --> 00:47:37.800
your circumstance, living overwhelmed by His presence.

651
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And when you've got no ideas, and I regularly have no ideas left of what to do, how to do

652
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it, and I just say, I do not know how to face this vast army that is attacking us.

653
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We have no power to face this vast army that is attacking us, and I do not know what to

654
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do, but my eyes are on you, Lord.

655
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And when your eyes are on Him, you're waiting on Him, you're in a place of delight, He will

656
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speak.

657
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So number 10, what is the next best action that you can take towards completing this

658
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goal?

659
00:48:04.960 --> 00:48:05.960
Awesome.

660
00:48:05.960 --> 00:48:09.680
Once you've got a strategy, that will become clear what your next best step is.

661
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Number 10, number 11, when will you take this next best action?

662
00:48:12.880 --> 00:48:18.440
So these questions here are again about helping you steward that momentum, maintain that momentum

663
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as you're going forward.

664
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And the next part says, once you've signed the statement, your review is complete.

665
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I am 100% committed to accomplishing my goals and fulfilling my dreams, name it, date it,

666
00:48:29.520 --> 00:48:30.520
sign it.

667
00:48:30.520 --> 00:48:31.520
Boom!

668
00:48:31.520 --> 00:48:32.520
Okay.

669
00:48:32.520 --> 00:48:37.800
So that is the review template.

670
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So you might be in a place right now where you've got a SMART goal that the timeline

671
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is up.

672
00:48:43.760 --> 00:48:48.000
Every time a goal comes up, like the timeline on one of your goals comes up, you want to

673
00:48:48.000 --> 00:48:53.280
chuck it through this review process, see how it went, see how did it go.

674
00:48:53.280 --> 00:48:58.920
And again, after a while of doing this, you might create your own organic system of reviewing

675
00:48:58.920 --> 00:49:03.480
so that you can review these things really quickly, really effectively, and you want

676
00:49:03.480 --> 00:49:07.680
to create these organic processes and systems where you're doing everything that's in the

677
00:49:07.680 --> 00:49:10.160
seven sacred systems for success.

678
00:49:10.160 --> 00:49:13.960
You want to have a way that you get these templates and it's just an organic flow of

679
00:49:13.960 --> 00:49:14.960
life.

680
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But before you've got to that place, you just want to be like, okay, sweet, I need to set

681
00:49:19.800 --> 00:49:20.800
a new goal.

682
00:49:20.800 --> 00:49:25.120
I'm going to set that up and then put on your phone or put on your calendar when the timeline

683
00:49:25.120 --> 00:49:26.960
is set for that goal.

684
00:49:26.960 --> 00:49:32.520
And when the timeline is up, then do a review on your goal and see how you went, see what

685
00:49:32.520 --> 00:49:35.920
you can learn, see what you can take away from that process.

686
00:49:35.920 --> 00:49:36.920
Sweet.

687
00:49:37.160 --> 00:49:45.240
So I think that that is the gist for us of the review.

688
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So I'm going to give you, obviously, this week, our last week, week seven, on tomorrow

689
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at 9 a.m.

690
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Again, same time, New Zealand time, tomorrow, 9 a.m. New Zealand time, I will be doing another

691
00:49:57.000 --> 00:49:59.960
quick video that is going to be...

692
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the Extreme Ownership Challenge for week seven and then Friday at 9 a.m. New

693
00:50:07.200 --> 00:50:13.600
Zealand time same time we will have a live Q&A Zoom okay so look forward to

694
00:50:13.600 --> 00:50:21.720
the live Zoom on Friday and that's us for now love you heaps fam let me know

695
00:50:21.720 --> 00:50:26.360
if you've got any questions thoughts I'm just checking I'm checking the comments

696
00:50:26.360 --> 00:50:31.280
now so if you've got any questions thoughts anything like that and then do

697
00:50:31.280 --> 00:50:38.920
it Raewyn says do you have a weekly review Benji for the smaller stuff so

698
00:50:38.920 --> 00:50:42.520
let me just check these comments I'm just checking the comments just to see

699
00:50:42.520 --> 00:51:04.840
if right hang on hang on a minute here I'm trying to oh there we go okay I don't

700
00:51:04.840 --> 00:51:13.960
have a weekly review system Raewyn but what I have is this I have this is what

701
00:51:13.960 --> 00:51:18.760
I use for my reviews it's just calm I have a combination of like and it's more

702
00:51:18.760 --> 00:51:24.360
like on the not necessarily reviewing but moment by moment really I'm looking

703
00:51:24.360 --> 00:51:28.600
I'm constantly looking at this constantly looking at to-do lists

704
00:51:28.600 --> 00:51:33.560
constantly looking at the projects and then I have my team that I work with so

705
00:51:33.560 --> 00:51:39.560
I work with a team and you know we just look at results so everything is in my

706
00:51:39.560 --> 00:51:45.960
world is results how's the results going and so yeah we have some different

707
00:51:45.960 --> 00:51:50.320
structures as well around you know looking at those things so I've got lots

708
00:51:50.320 --> 00:51:52.920
of different things around in my life as well that I use to kind of measure

709
00:51:52.920 --> 00:51:57.240
results so it's really good to just be able to measure your results and that's

710
00:51:57.240 --> 00:52:02.080
one of the good things about a goal system a specific measurable attainable

711
00:52:02.080 --> 00:52:13.680
realistic time bound goal is that it enables you to measure things so I've

712
00:52:13.680 --> 00:52:17.840
got a quite a few things that I use to measure my results and you know like

713
00:52:17.840 --> 00:52:23.560
these things here it's quite measurable did I do it didn't I do it and then the

714
00:52:23.560 --> 00:52:29.640
like for me everything's quite time bound as well so yeah so that's just

715
00:52:29.640 --> 00:52:33.400
kind of how my world works you guys will I guess create your own organic

716
00:52:33.400 --> 00:52:41.120
flow of how that works for you sweet okay I think that's it but last chance

717
00:52:41.120 --> 00:52:47.440
now last chance now to ask a question about this otherwise we're going to sign

718
00:52:47.440 --> 00:52:56.640
off for today okay awesome family love you very much and you guys have a

719
00:52:56.640 --> 00:53:00.920
wonderful wonderful week I'll see you again 9 a.m. New Zealand time tomorrow

720
00:53:00.920 --> 00:53:07.320
and then we will watch the space for reviews in three months time okay we're

721
00:53:07.320 --> 00:53:18.880
going to be doing a review and also in in the in the very near future we're

722
00:53:18.880 --> 00:53:22.760
going to be running a three-day open heaven intensive which I'm outrageously

723
00:53:22.840 --> 00:53:28.760
excited about okay so stay tuned for the three-day open heaven intensive because

724
00:53:28.760 --> 00:53:32.920
that's going to be followed by one of the most powerful trainings that I've

725
00:53:32.920 --> 00:53:37.360
ever done online which is going to be a 12-week open heaven masterclass and

726
00:53:37.360 --> 00:53:40.640
that's going to be happening here in the online school of sonship so you guys

727
00:53:40.640 --> 00:53:44.680
are in the online school of sonship so you get all of that stuff for free you

728
00:53:44.680 --> 00:53:48.200
know like the 12-week open heaven masterclass that's going to be ultimate

729
00:53:48.200 --> 00:53:55.280
and really really pumped to be sharing that with you guys going forward so yeah

730
00:53:55.280 --> 00:53:59.960
right I'll see you tomorrow love heaps bless you fam bye bye