WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:05.320 Good morning family, how are you doing? 2 00:00:05.320 --> 00:00:12.200 I'm looking forward to this morning's session, I'm going to give it to you nice and quick 3 00:00:12.200 --> 00:00:20.240 and hot, and I'm going to give you the 8 pillars of a highly motivated lifestyle. 4 00:00:20.240 --> 00:00:26.400 So the 8 pillars, we're going to jump into that in a moment, but welcome, welcome, welcome, 5 00:00:26.840 --> 00:00:34.600 I really love you guys, and I want to say thank you so much everyone, because I'm getting 6 00:00:34.600 --> 00:00:43.360 a stream of phone calls and video calls and messages from people whose lives are being 7 00:00:43.360 --> 00:00:49.080 really really rocked right now in this process of dreaming, so that is amazing, getting a 8 00:00:49.080 --> 00:00:55.000 few messages as well that I can relate with, parents looking forward to catching up a little 9 00:00:55.000 --> 00:01:00.080 bit when their kids get back to school in the next week, which is very cool, but I want 10 00:01:00.080 --> 00:01:08.000 to say lots of love to all of you, and really excited about the transformations that are 11 00:01:08.000 --> 00:01:16.320 taking place, remember there's got to be something that sets us apart from hundreds of millions 12 00:01:16.320 --> 00:01:21.040 of other Christians who've taken their dreams to the graves, if we want to be the ones that 13 00:01:21.040 --> 00:01:27.360 actually see Ephesians 3.20 come alive in our lives, if we want to be the type of people 14 00:01:27.360 --> 00:01:33.240 that actually see our wildest dreams fulfilled, and if we actually want to walk in that, something 15 00:01:33.240 --> 00:01:38.280 has to set us apart, and something does set us apart, and one of the things that sets 16 00:01:38.280 --> 00:01:44.120 people apart from those that never see their dreams fulfilled, and those that are the ones 17 00:01:44.120 --> 00:01:50.000 that walk in their dreams and see them fulfilled, is the level of motivation that we carry in 18 00:01:50.000 --> 00:01:58.000 our lives, like a great level of motivation, here's the value of a great level of motivation, 19 00:01:58.000 --> 00:02:09.199 a great level of motivation is going to empower you to unlock the secret to getting whatever 20 00:02:09.199 --> 00:02:16.720 you want, now the secret to getting whatever you want is doing whatever it takes, and what's 21 00:02:16.720 --> 00:02:21.680 the number one reason why someone isn't going to do whatever it takes to see their dreams 22 00:02:21.680 --> 00:02:29.560 fulfilled, that number one reason is motivation, so if you can learn to harness motivation, 23 00:02:29.560 --> 00:02:36.320 you can literally step into a realm where nothing is impossible for you, let's just 24 00:02:36.320 --> 00:02:40.840 break that quote down from David Riddell, he said, here's the secret to get whatever 25 00:02:40.840 --> 00:02:46.840 you want, do whatever it takes, so we're going to ask ourselves, okay, do whatever 26 00:02:46.840 --> 00:02:53.080 it takes, am I willing to do whatever it takes to see my dreams fulfilled, it's a really 27 00:02:53.080 --> 00:03:02.000 good question, and if the answer is no, then we need more motivation, we just need more 28 00:03:02.000 --> 00:03:10.240 motivation don't we, so here's some ways for increasing the level of motivation, here's 29 00:03:10.240 --> 00:03:16.080 some of the ways that I've put into, so I've put these things, morning Marion, good to 30 00:03:16.080 --> 00:03:24.840 see you, I have put these 8 pillars of a highly motivated lifestyle into the motivator template, 31 00:03:24.840 --> 00:03:31.080 so this is me just kind of pulling the motivator template out and just touching on the themes, 32 00:03:31.080 --> 00:03:40.640 so before I start on the 8 pillars of a highly motivated state of being, I want to share 33 00:03:40.640 --> 00:03:49.040 with you as well, one massive motivating factor that is not in the motivator, I haven't built 34 00:03:49.040 --> 00:03:56.880 it into the motivator because it's not really something that I need to build into the motivator, 35 00:03:56.880 --> 00:04:02.640 I've kind of lightly touched on it, but that theme is pain, now it might not be built into 36 00:04:02.640 --> 00:04:07.760 the motivator, but it's built into the infrastructure of life, that if you're not doing whatever 37 00:04:07.760 --> 00:04:13.280 it takes to fulfill your dreams, then boom, you're going to be living with that pain, 38 00:04:13.280 --> 00:04:18.079 the way that I did touch on it lightly is in the section where I got you to imagine 39 00:04:18.079 --> 00:04:24.800 what would it feel like not to be living your dreams, but you could even think of this as 40 00:04:25.200 --> 00:04:30.480 at the moment, just a little reflection, how much pain or how much unnecessary pain is there 41 00:04:30.480 --> 00:04:35.840 in your world because you're actually not living in your wildest dreams, so that's a big thing, 42 00:04:35.840 --> 00:04:42.320 that's a big motivator in life is pain, some people won't get motivated until the level of 43 00:04:42.320 --> 00:04:49.200 pain increases and increases and increases till the pain is so extreme that they just can't 44 00:04:49.200 --> 00:04:55.680 survive without doing something, the level of pain and rock bottom, you know, 45 00:04:55.680 --> 00:04:59.120 sometimes people have to hit rock bottom, we've heard that saying, sometimes you've got to hit 46 00:04:59.120 --> 00:04:59.840 rock bottom. 47 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:03.960 before you're going to change and that's the that's the motivator that some 48 00:05:03.960 --> 00:05:10.440 people need to actually maintain to actually make a change but I'm not 49 00:05:10.440 --> 00:05:15.000 focusing on pain on this one I'm focusing on eight pillars that we can 50 00:05:15.000 --> 00:05:20.760 build into our lives to actually redesign our worlds because when you 51 00:05:20.760 --> 00:05:25.000 have that high level of motivation you're going to be just like those 52 00:05:25.000 --> 00:05:31.440 people who are achieving their wildest dreams Tony Robbins really famous life 53 00:05:31.440 --> 00:05:37.880 coach he talks about you know if you want to be successful it's not difficult 54 00:05:37.880 --> 00:05:42.600 if you want to be successful all you need to do is find someone who's 55 00:05:42.600 --> 00:05:47.360 succeeding and model their success so look at those people if we want to be 56 00:05:47.360 --> 00:05:51.800 like those those people who have followed Jesus into the fulfillment of 57 00:05:51.800 --> 00:05:55.040 their dreams and they're living Ephesians 3 20 we look at their lives 58 00:05:55.040 --> 00:06:00.320 and go okay what is it about your life that is actually producing the 59 00:06:00.320 --> 00:06:03.880 fulfillment of your dreams what what is the core thing what are the what's the 60 00:06:03.880 --> 00:06:08.320 infrastructure in your life that's actually producing the fulfillment of 61 00:06:08.320 --> 00:06:13.240 your wildest dreams so that thing you're one of those things one of those 62 00:06:13.240 --> 00:06:20.720 absolute keys to to success what do you know we're doing systems for success but 63 00:06:20.720 --> 00:06:27.240 one of the systems that is absolutely critical in the lives of people who are 64 00:06:27.240 --> 00:06:36.880 flourishing in their Ephesians 3 20 reality is that they have a really 65 00:06:36.880 --> 00:06:41.280 highly motivated lifestyle so let's jump into these eight pillars and let me pray 66 00:06:41.280 --> 00:06:46.680 for you as well for a second and then we will touch on these eight pillars but 67 00:06:46.720 --> 00:06:51.880 Trinity this morning we thank you so much for this beautiful family we thank 68 00:06:51.880 --> 00:06:57.240 you for all the testimonies coming out so far of dreams being awakened and lost 69 00:06:57.240 --> 00:07:01.280 dreams being found and new dreams being born and dead dreams being resurrected 70 00:07:01.280 --> 00:07:06.240 Jesus I thank you for every single person in the systems for success family 71 00:07:06.240 --> 00:07:11.240 that is engaging in this process right now Jesus I just ask that you pour out your 72 00:07:11.240 --> 00:07:17.000 grace you pour out your blessing you pour out the wonder of who you are Jesus 73 00:07:17.000 --> 00:07:21.760 on every single person Jesus I just ask that you you just bring a level of 74 00:07:21.760 --> 00:07:24.960 breakthrough a fresh level of breakthrough in the area of motivation 75 00:07:24.960 --> 00:07:30.400 for every single person Jesus we lift these dreams up and I thank you so much 76 00:07:30.400 --> 00:07:36.480 Jesus for giving revelation to every single person on the highway the pathway 77 00:07:36.480 --> 00:07:41.960 for them to step into their Ephesians 3 20 Jesus we thank you for your presence 78 00:07:41.960 --> 00:07:47.320 saturating us and filling us and flooding us today in Jesus name Amen 79 00:07:47.320 --> 00:07:51.800 boom so whether you're with us live or delayed just you can hit those likes or 80 00:07:51.800 --> 00:07:55.040 just comment and I'll be able to know that you're tracking through but I love 81 00:07:55.040 --> 00:07:59.880 you guys and we're going to jump into the eight pillars of a highly motivated 82 00:07:59.880 --> 00:08:04.160 lifestyle that are incorporated into the motivator just going to be really light 83 00:08:04.160 --> 00:08:10.840 on this but the first one is your why dun dun dun what is your why now the 84 00:08:10.840 --> 00:08:14.760 motivator is awesome for this so as you go through the motivator boom you're 85 00:08:14.760 --> 00:08:17.680 going to be nailing your why you're going to be articulating you're going to 86 00:08:17.680 --> 00:08:21.000 have that you know as you complete the motivator boom you're going to have your 87 00:08:21.000 --> 00:08:25.000 why on paper that's going to be setting you apart that's going to be something 88 00:08:25.000 --> 00:08:29.280 that sets you apart from the multitudes that have never articulated their why 89 00:08:29.280 --> 00:08:32.960 they've never written it down and they've never had it accessible next 90 00:08:32.960 --> 00:08:39.080 thing that we're going to touch on in the motivator for you guys which is one 91 00:08:39.080 --> 00:08:45.120 of the eight pillars is imagination now how powerful are those little 92 00:08:45.120 --> 00:08:49.520 activations that I've been giving you along the way how powerful are they at 93 00:08:49.520 --> 00:08:54.640 causing you know just imagining what does it feel like when you're on the edge 94 00:08:54.640 --> 00:08:59.640 you know you're on your deathbed you're on the edge of passing through into 95 00:09:00.200 --> 00:09:05.720 heaven and there you are just imagining that you know as you imagine that and 96 00:09:05.720 --> 00:09:09.480 you look back how do you feel when you've seen all your wildest dreams 97 00:09:09.480 --> 00:09:15.040 fulfilled and or how do you feel if you haven't seen any of them fulfilled but 98 00:09:15.040 --> 00:09:21.560 that power of imagination is huge for releasing a massive injection of 99 00:09:21.560 --> 00:09:27.360 motivation now when you imagine it the cool thing about the motivator 100 00:09:27.360 --> 00:09:32.120 template is I give you activations to imagine it and then extract that 101 00:09:32.120 --> 00:09:36.440 information from your imagination and write it down there you go you've got 102 00:09:36.440 --> 00:09:41.280 you know you've got the information written down on a piece of paper so you 103 00:09:41.280 --> 00:09:44.720 can actually see it and remember without having to go through all the effort of 104 00:09:44.720 --> 00:09:50.920 doing exercises and imagination you know activations it's like boom here is this 105 00:09:50.920 --> 00:09:55.800 priceless information now that is absolute gold for you that information 106 00:09:55.800 --> 00:10:01.880 so the next thing that is a pillar of a highly motivated 107 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:08.600 state of being is focus. Now I like to focus on my dreams a lot. You know one of 108 00:10:08.600 --> 00:10:16.320 the differences between millionaires and billionaires is this level of focus on 109 00:10:16.320 --> 00:10:24.280 how often they look at their dreams, how often they look at you know at their to 110 00:10:24.280 --> 00:10:29.840 do lists, how often they look at their why. This really really really sets 111 00:10:29.840 --> 00:10:34.760 people apart on a massive degree. So focus. So the value of the motivator is 112 00:10:34.760 --> 00:10:38.480 that you're going to extract this high-level information and then you've 113 00:10:38.480 --> 00:10:42.100 got that super accessible, it's written down right there and then you can 114 00:10:42.100 --> 00:10:45.340 actually start building in a discipline of focusing and looking at that 115 00:10:45.340 --> 00:10:50.720 information on a regular basis. Boom. Now we're starting to get on the next one 116 00:10:50.720 --> 00:10:56.280 which is beliefs. These two kind of go, these two do go hand-in-hand in one 117 00:10:56.280 --> 00:11:01.960 sense. Beliefs, so truth and lies and then emotional freedom. I kind of 118 00:11:01.960 --> 00:11:06.240 bracketed it over here as well. Call it mental and emotional hygiene. I like that 119 00:11:06.240 --> 00:11:11.440 concept mental hygiene, emotional hygiene. How are your emotional armpits? Are they 120 00:11:11.440 --> 00:11:16.200 smelly, stinky or have they had a good cleanup? Do you smell great 121 00:11:16.200 --> 00:11:21.280 emotionally? Do you smell not so great? Is your mental hygiene awesome or is it 122 00:11:21.280 --> 00:11:28.200 lacking? So these things here have a huge, oh and you just couldn't quantify the 123 00:11:28.200 --> 00:11:34.520 impact that mental and emotional hygiene has on your level of motivation and for 124 00:11:34.520 --> 00:11:39.700 a lot of people they never ever conquer these things in their lives so they 125 00:11:39.700 --> 00:11:44.880 struggle consistently throughout their whole life with motivation. 126 00:11:44.880 --> 00:11:50.160 They don't necessarily realize why their level of motivation is so low but one of the 127 00:11:50.160 --> 00:11:55.920 keys is here is the mental and emotional hygiene. So you can see those in the 128 00:11:55.920 --> 00:11:59.560 templates but it's really really good to do a check up from the neck up you know 129 00:11:59.560 --> 00:12:03.480 it's great to do a check up from the neck up. This as well is one of the 130 00:12:03.480 --> 00:12:07.800 values of Christian ministry and there's so many awesome ministries out there 131 00:12:07.800 --> 00:12:12.760 that can help you in this process of truth and lies. What are you really 132 00:12:12.920 --> 00:12:17.800 believing in? The thing as well is that your beliefs, look your beliefs always 133 00:12:17.800 --> 00:12:22.920 produce your emotions okay? Your beliefs always produce your emotions so if you're 134 00:12:22.920 --> 00:12:27.480 feeling like man I've got some real emotional issues going on, the root 135 00:12:27.480 --> 00:12:39.800 that's the fruit and your beliefs are the root. So if the emotions aren't 136 00:12:40.000 --> 00:12:43.440 thriving, aren't fantastic, if you're struggling with emotional freedom, boom 137 00:12:43.440 --> 00:12:46.480 we're going to get here into the belief and to the truth and lies of what you're 138 00:12:46.480 --> 00:12:49.360 believing. What are you believing about your dreams? Are they possible, not 139 00:12:49.360 --> 00:12:53.880 possible? What are you believing? Even more so here's a big kicker, identity. 140 00:12:53.880 --> 00:13:00.520 What are you believing about yourself? This is absolutely huge guys. Now this is 141 00:13:00.520 --> 00:13:14.760 in my top two dreams. So identity, this is this is massive for me because 142 00:13:14.760 --> 00:13:21.200 identity really, identity having a strong foundation of identity, knowing your 143 00:13:21.200 --> 00:13:24.880 sonship, knowing that you're as loved as love can be, you're as one as one can be, 144 00:13:24.880 --> 00:13:28.960 you're as son as a son can be and you're as in as in can be, being fully persuaded 145 00:13:29.000 --> 00:13:33.000 that you're perfectly made in the image of God is going to sort all of this junk 146 00:13:33.000 --> 00:13:37.640 out but if you have not mastered your identity, if you're not nailed that, if you 147 00:13:37.640 --> 00:13:42.400 haven't done some training on identity you will always struggle with truth and 148 00:13:42.400 --> 00:13:46.240 lies and your belief system which will produce negative emotions which will 149 00:13:46.240 --> 00:13:51.600 rob you of your motivation. So if you want highly motivated state of being you 150 00:13:51.600 --> 00:13:55.680 can't get there without nailing your identity and something for you guys just 151 00:13:56.400 --> 00:14:00.760 to be aware of as well is that this is something that I do a lot of training on. 152 00:14:00.760 --> 00:14:04.760 I've got some free training online already in the Life Redefined group but 153 00:14:04.760 --> 00:14:08.520 I've got a really, really exciting project coming up. You're going to love 154 00:14:08.520 --> 00:14:12.280 this really, really exciting project that's coming up. Some awesome free 155 00:14:12.280 --> 00:14:16.760 training on identity, creating some great community online around this. Hundreds of 156 00:14:16.760 --> 00:14:20.760 people have been going through it already. I'd love to have you join us for some 157 00:14:20.760 --> 00:14:24.520 online identity training. I've got heaps of free awesome stuff and I've got some 158 00:14:24.520 --> 00:14:28.360 really exciting projects coming up that I'm really looking forward to announcing 159 00:14:28.360 --> 00:14:32.640 soon. The next one is relationships. What are the relationships that 160 00:14:32.640 --> 00:14:37.360 you've got in your world? Are they positive, negative? Are they adding 161 00:14:37.360 --> 00:14:41.760 value or robbing value? Now that was kind of one of the most awkward moments in 162 00:14:41.760 --> 00:14:46.200 The Motivator. I put down there who are the most, you know, you've got to 163 00:14:46.200 --> 00:14:48.920 actually do a little assessment on the most positive people and the most 164 00:14:49.480 --> 00:14:56.480 people in your world. Who are the most negative people in your world? Oh no! 165 00:14:56.480 --> 00:15:01.840 It's kind of funny that we could have really negative people 166 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:04.560 in our world. Hold on one second, I just realized my microphone's not plugged in. 167 00:15:06.320 --> 00:15:13.120 The sound there a bit now. So relationships, that's critical. Now that's a really, really 168 00:15:13.120 --> 00:15:21.760 tender topic. It can take some real dancing, some dynamic processing in terms of learning how to set 169 00:15:21.760 --> 00:15:27.120 really good boundaries and learning how to have healthy relationships. That again is training that 170 00:15:27.120 --> 00:15:32.480 I cover in my online identity training as well. We talk heaps about relationships, 171 00:15:32.480 --> 00:15:36.480 healthy boundaries, healthy relationships. So if you want to go deeper on that, I've got heaps of 172 00:15:36.480 --> 00:15:41.280 content. And like I said, I've got some exciting announcements coming up that's going to really 173 00:15:41.280 --> 00:15:46.640 help you with that. And the other thing is coaching and accountability. This is a massive, 174 00:15:47.280 --> 00:15:51.760 massive pillar. And something I want to say about accountability is some people are a little bit, 175 00:15:52.480 --> 00:15:56.560 you know, like got a little bit of a negative vibe about accountability because it's being 176 00:15:56.560 --> 00:16:01.600 used really poorly. Even in Christian circles, accountability has been used as a way of just 177 00:16:01.600 --> 00:16:09.040 kind of almost spying on people or just growling people. It's kind of being used in a negative way, 178 00:16:09.040 --> 00:16:16.640 but really accountability should be used in this way of keeping each other accountable to our 179 00:16:16.640 --> 00:16:28.640 greatness. Do you think that does this sound better now? Just give me a thumb. I just took 180 00:16:28.640 --> 00:16:36.880 that microphone out. Do you think that sounds better now? Let me know what you think. Sorry, 181 00:16:36.880 --> 00:16:44.560 I took it out, Nita. So thanks for that comment. But coaching accountability is, 182 00:16:45.280 --> 00:16:53.120 uh, you know, the focus of coaching accountability should be that you're being kept accountable to 183 00:16:53.120 --> 00:16:59.360 your phenomenal greatness. Okay. You've got a, you've just, you've just got so much potential, 184 00:16:59.360 --> 00:17:05.119 so much greatness. There's so much destined locked up inside of who you are and coaching 185 00:17:05.119 --> 00:17:09.440 accountability should be really designed to keep you accountable to that high level of greatness. 186 00:17:09.440 --> 00:17:13.599 And that is so motivating. That's so powerful in our lives. Having someone like, Hey, 187 00:17:13.599 --> 00:17:18.960 how are you stewarding your greatness? The thing with coaching as well that I've mentioned in the 188 00:17:18.960 --> 00:17:24.400 template is that anyone who starts getting really, really serious about success in their life, 189 00:17:24.400 --> 00:17:31.200 anyone who starts getting really serious about success in their life gets a coach of one form 190 00:17:31.200 --> 00:17:34.480 or another. You look at athletes, the moment an athlete starts getting serious for success, 191 00:17:35.040 --> 00:17:41.200 boom, they're after a, they're after a coach and they are being set up for unprecedented success. 192 00:17:41.200 --> 00:17:46.160 So hope that you enjoyed that. The eight pillars of a highly motivated state of being, 193 00:17:46.160 --> 00:17:52.560 remember the one that I didn't touch on is pain. I didn't, I didn't, I only lightly touched on that. 194 00:17:53.360 --> 00:17:59.680 Um, but if you don't nail these eight pillars of a highly motivated state of being, 195 00:17:59.680 --> 00:18:07.840 then pain will come looking for you. I'm excited guys with everything that's happening, 196 00:18:07.840 --> 00:18:14.080 looking forward to going on this journey more and more with you into the fulfillment of our 197 00:18:14.080 --> 00:18:18.800 wildest dreams going on that adventure together. Love you heaps and bless you. 198 00:18:18.800 --> 00:18:23.840 Have an amazing day today. Have a great weekend as well. See you soon.