Kirsten, I'm in Manawatu, New Zealand.
Manawatu?
Yeah.
Very cool.
Whereabouts?
I'm just out of Palmerston North on a farm out of Pāmei.
Oh, nice.
That is very, very cool.
We were in Fielding last year for a wedding for some friends, took a wedding down there,
but not often down there, it's the heart of the world.
Very cool.
Phoenix.
Is Phoenix your first name?
It says Phoenix Grace here, are you there, can you hear us okay?
Not sure if it looks a little bit frozen there, but anyway, fam, we're going to jump into
this.
Let me...
Oh, hi Phoenix.
I can see your chat, but I just wanted to, I wanted to have the Zoom option available
just because I love being able to see everyone's faces, which is awesome.
So let me just make sure this is streaming like it should be and yeah, I just saw us,
I just saw us there.
We're there a second ago, right, cool, there we are.
We are in, which is great.
Cool, fam.
Well, awesome to be with you, whether you are joining us in the Zoom room or you're
in the Facebook group live, it's awesome to have you with us.
And if you're in the Facebook group, you can, like the link to jump into the Zoom room is
in the description, okay?
So you can, you can see it in that video, okay?
So if you want to jump into the Zoom room, easy, just click in there and jump in.
So this is going to be an exciting session.
I'm really excited about the space that we're in right now, going into the Foundations for
Exponential Growth and also into the 21 Day Challenge, okay, 21 Days to Automated Kingdom
Impact and Income.
So I'm really, really excited about this challenge.
I'm really excited about everything we're going to do and learn and grow into.
Kirsten, would you like to pray for us as we kick it off?
Sure.
Father, I just thank you for this amazing opportunity.
I thank you for your kingdom come here on earth as it is in heaven.
And I just, I thank you for these amazing people that we are family and you.
And I ask that just as Benji opens up today, that I thank you that you lead them by your
spirit and that we would have ears to hear and eyes to see what you're doing and where
you're leading us.
I thank you for unity.
I thank you for your favour that surrounds us as with a shield.
And we just trust you for the future and for the path that you have for each of us and
for us as a group in Jesus name.
Amen.
Beautiful.
That is awesome.
Oh, Nkechi was just trying to join in there.
So I'm not sure if you're watching live, Nkechi, but I just saw you there and it'll be
great to have you jump back in there if you want to.
So thank you very much for your prayer, Kirsten.
I appreciate that.
And we are on a really exciting journey.
So if you didn't know, in the last 12 months, we went from a startup to impacting over
50,000 lives, well over 50,000 lives.
We've probably connected with more like 80,000, close to 100,000 people in that 12
months. So we've actually connected and impacted their life in some way.
And that was from a startup with hardly any cash, right?
So from a startup with hardly any cash, we impacted, we're beginning close to 100,000
people now that we've impacted their life in some way.
And we've sparked the move of God in the online space where we can't keep up with the
testimonies of the miracles, the life transformations, the marriages impacted, the
families blessed.
We just can't keep up with, and the God encounters, we can't keep up with all the
stories. And we've also generated over seven figures in income in that time as well.
So I want to kind of frame as we jump into the session, I wanted to frame it like that
because what we're going to teach you actually works, right?
That this we're always teaching you mindset, skill sets and systems.
We always tell you like, look, for me, the first big mindset that I wanted to break
through was hitting 10K months.
That was my first goal.
And then I reached it and I realized when I reached that, actually, this concept of
of hitting a goal of 10K months,
that if it's just,
I just need to upgrade my mindset, skill sets, and systems,
and I can do 10K weeks.
And then if I,
and so I upgraded my mindset, skill sets, and systems,
and then I hit 10K weeks,
and then I did it again.
Then we hit our first 10K days,
and then we did it again.
And then as we kept consistently doing it,
we did 100K months.
And then as we kept consistently doing that,
and we've done that three times, 100K months.
And then, yeah, as we consistently did that,
it led to over seven figures in 12 months.
So what I'm wanting to just kind of frame up for you
is that what we're gonna teach you right now,
it really works.
And, but I wanna get into like
the foundational psychology for you
of why it's working for us,
why it might not work for some people,
and what you can do to start changing things
so that it will work for you.
So Enkichi, welcome.
Always wonderful to have you with us.
Wonderful to have you with us
in the School of Social Media Marketing as well.
So what we're gonna talk about right now
is foundations for exponential growth.
And we're gonna start with the parable of the sower.
Okay, so come with me if you've got your Bible
to Matthew 13.
That same day, Jesus went out of the house
and sat by the lake.
Such large crowds gathered around him
that he got into a boat and sat in it.
All the people stood on the shore.
Then he told the many things in parable saying,
a farmer went out to sow his seed.
As he was scattering the seed,
some fell along the path
and the birds came and ate it up.
Some fell on rocky places
where it did not have much soil.
It sprang up quickly because the soil was shallow.
But when the sun came out,
the plants were scorched and they withered
because they had no root.
Some seed fell among thorns
which grew up and choked the plants.
Still other seed fell on good soil
where it produced a crop.
A hundred, 60, or 30 times what was sown.
Whoever has ears, let them hear.
Great parable, right?
Great parable.
So that's actually a parable about exponential growth.
Okay, that's a hundred fold growth,
60 fold growth, 30 fold growth,
which is a good, that's a good return, right?
When you can get a hundred fold growth.
So this is Jesus teaching on exponential growth.
And I want to like,
I want to just highlight something else as well.
You know, like our dream is raising royalty
is that we are a movement of kingdom royalty,
discipling nations through Fulfilled Dreams.
So everything that we're doing is for that purpose.
We believe that Fulfilled Dreams disciple nations.
So we're like, man, let's go after Fulfilled Dreams.
How do we help people step into their dreams?
And there's always three things that we see
that are the top three things
that hold people back from their dreams.
It's identity, identity issues.
And so that's why we go hard in,
that's why we include the Online School of Sonship.
Now there's plenty of people who've paid
well over a thousand dollars
just to access the Online School of Sonship,
but we're just making that crazy available to people.
Then the other thing, so it's identity.
The other thing is people not understanding,
not having good version skills,
not understanding how to bring their dreams to pass,
not understanding the science of dreams.
So I wrote the book, The Science of Dreams.
I've given people free copies.
We've given well over 50,000 copies
of The Science of Dreams away,
and it's actually sparking a viral outbreak of dreams.
All around the world,
there's dreams starting to come to life
because people are actually starting to understand
the science of dreams.
That's not luck.
God actually has a pattern and a blueprint
for bringing dreams to life.
And then the third thing is finances.
I know that if you had a whole stack of finances right now,
you would go out and do awesome things.
I just think that there's so many good, wonderful,
great Christians out there that don't have finances
to bring their dreams to life.
And I think we need to change that.
Who thinks we should change that?
I think we should absolutely radically change that,
flip it on its head.
I want to change that.
And I really believe that God wants to change that too
in a real big way.
So what we're doing, everything that we do,
you have to understand that there's balance
in everything that we're doing.
We're not trying to be more spiritual
than we are being more financial.
We're not trying to be more financial
than we are being focused on our health.
Everything has balance,
and God designed it that everything should have balance.
So for us, the way that we're going to thrive
is if we move forward with balance together.
of the, this is one of the, like, the key things in life. We need, if we want to thrive, we need
balance. So we're going to talk about balance in a moment. I'm going to come back here and talk
about the spiritual for a moment as well. But it's not just a spiritual, I'm going to talk about,
go back to the parable of the sower. Here's the thing about the parable of the sower, right,
is that the seed that Jesus was sowing was the seed of the divine life, okay? It's the gospel,
it's the seed of the divine life, which we cannot understate how profound that is, right?
That's the life of Christ fully manifest in us. That is no small thing, that's a big deal.
And when Jesus uses the word life, there's three Greek words for life used in the New Testament,
there's psuche, which is life of the soul, bios, life of the body, life of the flesh,
life of plants and animals, and then there's zoe, which is the divine life. And Jesus defined
zoe, he said, I am the way, the truth, and the zoe. So if you want to understand zoe from Jesus'
perspective, he said, it looks like me, it looks like the divine life. And this is the seed that
he was sowing in Matthew 13, was the seed of the divine life, with the dream that the seed of the
divine life would reproduce itself in us a hundredfold. That's his hope, his dream, that the
seed of the divine life would reproduce in us exponentially, that there would be a viral outbreak
of the divine life, that it would explode from within us, that we would be consumed by it, it
would bubble up in us and overflow. So here's the thing about that parable is that there's never a
problem with the seed, is there? Right? There's never a problem with the seed. This is something
we have to understand really clearly, that there is never a problem with the seed of the gospel,
but there's only ever a problem with the soil. Now this is confronting, and this is one of the
things I love about how God speaks to us when we've got our big boy pants on, as he speaks to us
wanting us to take extreme ownership. God doesn't speak to us in a way where he wants us to just,
you know, stay in a place of being stuck, justifying unhealthy behaviors or unhealthy mindsets.
He will just give it to us straight. And I love that about God, and I'm quite happy to give it
to people straight too. And I just think extreme ownership is so helpful, because I find that
majority of the time our worst enemy is ourselves. It's not the devil. The devil doesn't really have
to worry about us. If we can be stuck in a place of justification, and justifying while we're not
in a place of exponential growth, then the devil doesn't have to worry about it. And I just see this
in Christians all the time, real victim mindsets, like moaning, justifying, whinging, I don't have
this because of that person, because of this. I saw a guy recently wearing a shirt, and he was
working, it was just a video I was watching, and a lot of people wouldn't like this, but he's
on the shirt that said, no one cares, work harder. Now, as a pastor, you're not allowed to wear a
shirt like that. But the point of that guy is that it's actually what he was getting at, is that work
ethic is the thing that will change your circumstances, not moaning. It's not that no
one cares. I'm not saying people don't care, but I'm saying that the point of his shirt is that
that grizzling or bad attitudes or justification won't change circumstances in our lives,
but work ethic will. So, this brings us back to the parable of the sower again, right? It's always
the soil that determines what happens, it's not the seed. The seed is programmed for success,
right? The seed is programmed to reproduce the divine life. And you know, you understand, like,
if you grow things, if you've seen things grow, you put a seed in, and the seed has a program
in it already. The seed is already programmed for broccoli. I grew up in an organic market garden,
so we grew crops by the hundreds of thousands. So, broccoli is programmed for broccoli. You put
a broccoli seed in, you'll get broccoli. You put a courgette seed in, you'll get courgettes.
It's just, this is how it works. And so, the divine life will reproduce the divine life if
the soil is right. But the thing, the big deal here is the soil. So, say this with me. Say,
if we look after the soil, the seed will take care of itself.
If we look after the soil, the seed will take care of itself.
Beautiful. If we take care of the soil, the seed will take care of itself. And actually,
growing up on an organic market garden, this is one of the things that we spent a huge amount of
time doing, was looking after the soil. Because good soil was amazing, bad soil was just going to
be a nightmare. Good
the soil, what we would do, everything had to be certified
organic. So you had to check, you know, like where everything
was coming from, it had to all be ticked off, but we would get
organic sawdust, we would get organic chicken manure. And, and
the worst but the best was fish fertiliser, but I hated fish
fertiliser because it stunk so bad, but it was also the best.
But in terms of preparation for the soil, the best was when the
weather conditions were right, you'd put the sawdust down,
you'd put the chicken manure down, we'd spend ages spreading
it all, then you rotary hoe it in. But then when the soil
conditions were right, like the, we would plant by hand, like
right, like these massive rows, we'd plant by hand. But when you
got got it all right, the, the soil was just so soft and
beautiful and lovely to work with. But when it wasn't right,
you know, like it was just terrible. And so, but when you
had good soil as well, everything just thrives. So this
foundations for exponential growth, so much of it is about
us taking care of the soil of our own hearts, so that we can
thrive. And now if we take care of the soil of our own hearts,
we will thrive and not just spiritually, because taking care
of the soil of our own hearts requires balance. If we do this
well, we will thrive in every area of our lives. You could say
as well that not only is the divine life, you know, not only
is the seed like the divine life, but it's so you could also
say that the seed is like success, you know, success will
take care of itself if you take care of the soil. Because so
much of what success requires is, is the right environment in
your life. And then, and then success will grow, success will
flourish. And same with exponential growth. If you take
care of the soil, exponential growth will happen. So let's,
let's go on a little bit deeper with this, because I want to
talk to you about why the training that we're going to do
with some people, like why it works for some people and why
it doesn't work for others, okay, because mindset, skill
sets and systems, and the mindset, skill sets and systems
that we're teaching you, they're not maybes, they're not
ifs, they're proven, they work, they work for us, they work for
people all over the world, they work, okay, the mindset, skill
sets and systems that we're teaching you, they work. The
thing that doesn't always work for other people is the
implementation, right? Implementing, you know, so if
there's a proven mindset, skill set or system, what is on trial
is not the mindset, the skill set or the system, what is on
trial is the implementation of the mindset and the skill set
and the system. So one of our goals for the Foundations for
Exponential Growth and the 21 Days to Automated Kingdom Impact
and Income is to help you get your first lead, right? That's
the first thing, like if you could get your first lead,
that's a win. If you could get your first dollar earned, then
that's another awesome win, right? If you could earn, if you
could get a lead, if you could get a cent, that's amazing,
right? Just that one little thing, if you could get that one
little thing, that's amazing. Because what happens when you
succeed on any level is you realize, oh, wow, this actually
works. It doesn't matter what level you succeed on. But when
you succeed at any level, you realize this works. And you
realize, actually, if this works on this level, all I have to do
is increase the intensity over here, and it will work at a
higher level. And so, for me, the goal for the 21 Days to
Automated Kingdom Impact and Income is I'd love it if you
could impact one person in one small way. I'd love it if you
could generate one lead in the challenge. I'd love it if you
could generate one cent. Because if you can do that, then the
mindset, skill sets and systems have proved themselves to you,
right? It's not that they don't need to prove themselves to me,
because we generated seven figures from them in the last
12 months already. We impacted nearly 100,000 people with them
in the last 12 months already. So they don't need to prove
themselves to me. I already know. So I go all in. I don't
hold back. There's no hesitancy in me. I go absolutely all in.
And I trust the mindset, skill sets and systems. And I'm just
like, yes, I'm 100% in. But other people don't trust the
system yet. They don't trust the mindsets yet. They don't have
the skill sets yet. So they don't trust. So they don't go
all in. They hold back. They're reserved. They're shy about it.
But that's not going to get you results. So what we need to do
is actually start building some trust for you that the mindset,
skill sets and systems will work so that you can actually stop
holding back. And you can really go all in. But there's some
deeper, like, deeper
psychology that we have to address for people that is going to help you take care of the soil and
it's also going to help take care of the fact that this is difficult okay so growth is difficult
learning is difficult it always is right who understands that when you learn a new thing
there's a barrier there right there's an internal barrier there's a mindset blockage there's
there's physical brain matter blocking the way of you learning a new thing and it's difficult
right and that process of creating a new pathway when you learn a new habit when you learn a new
mindset skill set or system there is literally it takes 21 days to form in your mind the new
pathway and if someone does a brain scan on you they can see the new neurological pathway
formed in your brain as a physical structural thing that they can see it wasn't there 21
days later it is there it can be seen in your brain that you create a brand new neurological
pathway that's associated with that new learned behavior so this is what we want to do is we want
to retrain our brains we want to create some new neurological pathways that actually understand
mindsets skill sets and systems but it does take 21 days to do that okay so um so i hope this is
going to like start to make a little bit of sense we want to move forward but we want to move forward
in all areas of our life at the same time but we want to be growing so this is so what we're about
to do is that it's going to start multiple uh neurological pathways are going to start being
formed and guess what that's going to be challenging you might be like ah this is hard
it's definitely going to be hard right this is my dream as a father is to get my son to do hard
things to get my daughters to do hard things i feel like that is my job as a father is to get
my children to do hard things and here's why as i you know like spent over a decade as a pastor
and leading a ministry training school i would ask myself how come so many of the people that i'm
you know ministering to and discipling and training how come they struggle so much to
get things done how can they struggle so much with actually bringing their own dreams to life
how can they struggle so much with uh getting what they want so i've got a friend david rodell he's
an amazing speaker and his what classic opening line is who wants to know the secret to getting
whatever you want in life it's a good secret right who wouldn't like who wouldn't want to
know that who wants to know the secret to getting whatever you want in life yeah wave your hands
around if that's you say yes in the facebook comments if that's you who okay so you guys
want to know the secret to getting whatever you want in life well it's not a difficult secret all
right but so here's what it is if you want to get what the secret to getting whatever you want in
life is to do whatever it takes now people are really excited about hearing that secret until
they hear the answer right and then once they hear that answer it's almost like there's this
internal unconscious oh this deep sadness coming up inside people's hearts um as they realize that
um that the answer is doing whatever it takes because people always want the easy option right
um you know i spent like a decade retraining my brain and rediscovering the psychology
of sonship understanding that christy welcome great to have you with us where are you joining
from reno nevada usa yay so cool wonderful to have you with us what a delight what an honor
and a privilege to have you all with us it's great to be with you guys cool well we'll just
charge along if you've missed any you can always catch the replay or i'm not sure if you're watching
on facebook or if you just jump straight in here i'm on facebook no actually i'm sorry i saw you
in my email i just got home and popped on my i was checking email and you guys were live oh perfect
well that is wonderful cool well feel free to catch the the kind of the beginning part um in
the facebook group later if you want um there's a link in your email conveniently to the replay for
later as well so um here's the thing like the secret to getting whatever you want in life is
to do whatever it takes and when people hear that they almost subconsciously have this oh like
disappointed with that that that's the answer and the reason is because very few people have
what it takes to do whatever it takes in order to get whatever they want
let me say that again slowly there's not many people
few people have what it takes to do whatever it takes to get whatever they want.
And that right there, as I went deeper on this, I realized, oh my gosh, this is the
biggest missing link on the planet.
This is the biggest missing link in our families.
This is the biggest missing link in our discipleship.
This is the biggest missing link in our churches and how we pastor people.
Pastors are so soft.
And I've got a friend who's a pastor who's not so soft, and he lives in the very deep
southern part of New Zealand, and they're a little bit rough down there.
And I lived down there with a lot of those rough guys, and I liked it a lot.
But one of his sayings is he's always talks about, you know, the lack of testicular fortitude,
which is very right.
And I think it's something that we need to address.
Here's what really that is about us.
Very few people have what it takes to do whatever it takes to get whatever they want.
And so the question becomes, then how do we get what it takes to do whatever it takes
so that we can get whatever we want?
Because if you can figure out how to get what it takes to do whatever it takes to get what
ever you want, if you can figure that out, then you can implement it in every area of
your life.
Right.
And the thing is, one of the reasons why people don't implement the proven mindset skill sets
and systems is because they don't have what it takes to do hard things.
Right.
They start.
But then it gets hard as they're forming a new neurological pathway in the brain.
Oh, this gets hard and they give up.
Right.
They our culture has been trained to avoid pain.
Our culture has been trained to avoid hard things, and our culture has been trained to
be led by its feelings rather than to actually be self-disciplined.
Let's check out this beautiful verse that Paul wrote to Timothy, 2 Timothy 1, 7.
For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love and self-discipline.
So self-discipline there, you could call that self-discipline or self-control or grit
or chutzpah or tenacity or endurance.
It's that ability to never give up.
Right.
That's what that is.
So let me read that again.
2 Timothy 1, 7.
For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love and self-discipline
or self-control.
So as I spent years trying to unpack this figure out, like, what was it that gave me
that I somehow had the ability to do the hard things when my peers weren't able to do it,
when the people I was discipling weren't able to do it?
I was like, man, why can't people just do the hard things?
Because I administered a conference, whatever, and people come up afterwards and like, hey,
can I please have the magic pill to get what you've got?
And I'll be like, yeah, it's just like I just spent 10,000 hours in prayer.
Oh, how did you do that?
Well, I just spent at least three hours in prayer for years every day doing, you know,
I just did hard things, you know.
So but then and that would go away really disappointed.
Like that was a bad answer.
But like, that's an awesome answer.
Go and spend 10,000 hours in prayer.
That's a wonderful answer.
Right.
But people be disappointed.
Why?
Because it's hard.
But they just wanted a magic pill.
But how can I transform?
How can I, you know, see identity transformation?
Oh, easy.
Like just go and spend 10,000 hours in prayer.
Like, why?
Like, why does that sound like a bad answer?
Right.
This shouldn't sound like a bad answer.
That's a great answer.
Go and read your Bible a few times.
Oh, like, but it's because people have this mindset that they they don't like doing hard
things.
They want to avoid hard things.
They don't like pain.
They want to avoid pain.
They don't like self-control.
They don't like self-discipline.
They want to avoid those things.
All right.
Well, that's your answer right there.
And there's this twisted mentality, this twisted psychology that is being like implanted into
the culture of the world that avoids hard things.
But in the kingdom, we do hard things.
Right.
Say this with me.
We do hard things.
Right.
We're going to say this together a few times.
We do hard things.
That is the anthem of raising royalty.
We do hard things.
All right.
That is that is our day.
and day out anthem, we do hard things. And because so I studied
myself, I psychoanalyze myself all the way back to my childhood.
I was like, what's going on? What's different here in my life
that's that makes me tick differently to all these other
people who want easy things. And then I realized the problem in
my life was my dad, right? My dad was crazy. He bought a farm
and he decided he was going to have an organic market garden.
And you know what an organic market garden is? That's just an
infinite world of hard things. It you you hit your weeds never
stop growing. The weather's always against you. It goes from
drought to a flood. Something's always going terribly wrong. You
have to work hard on an organic market garden. You know, like
you're planting everything by hand, you're weeding everything
by hand, you're it is it is a lot of crazy work. And so you
know, like whether it was harvesting or planting, if the
jobs weren't done, then we weren't done, right? Like, if you
had to work late, you had to work late. If you had to work
early, you had to work early. If you had to work in the cold, the
rain, if you had to work in the heat, you just had to do it. And
this so from the time I was six, actually, yeah, from the time I
was six, I was working on the farm all the time just doing
hard things. And my life was a diet of continual relentless
hard things on the farm. But what I didn't realize is that a
relentless diet of hard things builds self control, self
discipline, it builds within us the ability to do hard things.
And if you can do hard things, right, if you have the
psychology that says I can do hard things, then you've got the
psychology that can do whatever it takes to get whatever you
want. Right? That's when you will have what it takes to do
whatever it takes to get whatever you want. So and so the
beauty of this though, right, once you grow and you develop
and you invest into doing hard things, you can then invest that
into any area of your life. So when I stopped, you know, when
God called us out from pastoring, he said, I want you
to start a business. I'm like, Whoa, okay, this is crazy. You
know what he called us to do insane, crazy hard things. I was
like, what God we're gonna do what I was like, that's so hard.
But you know, he knew I was up for hard things. He's like, go
get him, son. I'm like, Whoa, all right, this is crazy. Let's do
it. And so what you need, right, what you need to thrive, not
just in business, but to bring your dreams to life. And guess
what, like the context that we're in the world right now, oh
my goodness, if we want to bring heaven to earth in the context
of the darkness, that's rampaging the face of the earth
right now, whoa, we're gonna have to do some serious hard
things who can like who can see that like we've got, we've got
to be able to do hard things we need to be able to put in our
kids, the ability to do hard things we need to put in our
discipleship, the ability to do hard things because we're not
called to tuck our tails and run. We're called to rule and
reign and power and love from the top down. We're called to
get up on those seven mountains and start flipping the script.
That's not going to be easy. It's going to require hard
things. So that is why we what we're doing at the core of the
next 21 days, which is 21 days to automated kingdom impact and
income. The core the essence of that is our daily hard things
challenge. Okay. Now we've actually been doing this in the
School of Sonship as well. We're on day 51 in the School of
Sonship on it. That's not going to apply here. But actually, if
I was to look at it in my life, I'm in like, this is just my
life, right? It's not it's not. It's nothing extra, except I'm
just kind of being accountable about it and being a little bit
more intentional in some areas. Okay, so what we're going to
jump into now is in this online School of Sonship, we talk about
the seven sacred elements of balance in life. Okay. And that
applies here too. And I'm going to explain a little bit more why
this is even why this is actually awesome in the context
of social media marketing. Okay, so let's look at the seven
sacred elements of balance. The first one is sonship. So for me,
sonship or identity that encompasses the whole spiritual
side of life, right? So you could call it the spiritual side
or identity or sonship like that. That's the spiritual side. So
that's one. Okay. And that's probably the most foundational.
But that's one is the spiritual side. So we've got seven. So
that's number one, number two, and number two is relationships.
Number three, and these are not specifically in order of
importance, but they're just how I wrote them on the page.
Number three is physical health and fitness.
Number four is vision.
Number five is finances.
Number six is focus.
And number seven is work ethic, okay?
So I've actually spent years trying to boil this down
to really what are the seven most important elements
to focus on and master in order to have balance
where we were gonna thrive.
So that's the seven that I've come to.
Feel free to chuck it around there
if you think there's any other things there.
But to me, those are the seven most important areas
in life for us to focus on on a daily basis.
I'll hit them to you again.
So the spiritual side or sonship and identity, number one.
Number two is relationships.
Number three is physical health and fitness.
Number four is vision.
Number five is finances.
Number six is focus.
And number seven is work ethic.
All right, we got it.
Sweet.
So those are the seven areas that we're gonna focus on.
Now let me pull up for you.
I think some of you guys will have seen this already.
Let me hit a screen share.
Okay, I'm gonna hit screen share.
There's lots happening on my desktop at the moment
because I'm building you guys a new funnel.
I'm doing all sorts at the moment.
Okay, so that's us.
Where are we?
I'll pull it up.
I'm just gonna pull up
Seb's little thing of the daily hard things challenge.
Here we go.
So here's our daily hard things, 12 things, okay?
So I'm gonna share shortly why these daily hard things,
I'm gonna share with you shortly why they're so brilliant
in the context of doing social media marketing, okay?
So first of all, I wanna ask you
if you think these daily hard things
are achievable or not, okay?
So if you think they're achievable,
I'm gonna say achievable.
If you think they're not achievable,
I want you to say not achievable.
I'm watching the Facebook comments here as well.
So I'll see what you're saying in response there too.
See a few of our crew on Facebook.
Yeah, yeah, lots of love to you guys.
Yes, we do hard things.
Okay, so number one, praying in the spirit for five minutes.
Is that achievable in a day or not achievable?
Achievable.
Achievable, sweet.
So if you don't currently pray in the spirit,
then I would just say you can spend five minutes
giving thanks to Jesus for awesome stuff
that he's doing, right?
Five minutes of gratitude.
If you pray in the spirit,
then definitely make sure it's praying in the spirit.
And if you've got questions,
you can ask those in the online School of Sonship
and we'll chat and journey that out with you
if you would like.
So, all right.
Let me, I see some people jumping ahead there
in the comments.
So number two, reading a chapter of Proverbs a day.
Is that achievable or not achievable?
Achievable.
Achievable, it's so fun reading the Bible together
with a group of people at the same time.
So that's achievable.
Recording your favorite verse from that chapter.
Is that achievable or not achievable?
Achievable.
Achievable, cool.
So it could be like in your journal.
So I've got a, like, I've got my journal here,
got my Bible here, got my journal here.
And then sometimes my Bible and my journal
are on my phone, just depends on the day.
But I've got a, yeah, so that's achievable.
Okay, what about this?
Number four, list three things you were grateful for.
Is that achievable or not achievable?
Achievable.
Achievable to list three things.
So you write those down in your journal, okay?
So where you're recording your favorite verse,
you write down your three things that you're grateful for.
Number five, complete your daily declarations.
So let me give you context
on what the daily declarations are first.
So my daily declarations are beside my bed right now,
so I won't show them to you.
But I've got 12 daily declarations
that I declare every day over my life.
But for you, the whole idea of the daily declarations
is to make one declaration.
declaration, right, just to write this down, right, write
down one declaration, it can just be a sentence if you want
to, it can just be anything from a short sentence to as long as
you want. Right, but write down one short sentence of a
declaration of hope of the promises of God or what you're
believing for, for each of the seven sacred elements of
balance. Okay, so those seven elements of balance that we
looked at that are here in my notes. Let me make these big.
Oh, way too big. Okay, okay, here we go. So here's the seven.
We'll just make that a little bit smaller. Okay, here's the
seven sacred elements of balance. Okay, you got
spiritual, which is sonship and identity. So you want to create
one declaration around your life around this, what you're
dreaming for in the spiritual area of your life. Okay, so
utilize the Ephesians 320 principle, which is to do
exceedingly abundantly, above and beyond all that you've ever
did to ask, dream, think, pray, or even imagine. Okay, Ephesians
320 principle, which means God has given you permission to try
and outdream him. Good luck, right? Good luck trying to
outdream God. That's your invitation to try and
outdream God. So whatever your dreams are, we just want you to
at minimum, just write one short sentence that's a
declaration of your dreams or something, you know, that you're
hoping for expecting in that area. So the spiritual relationships,
physical health and fitness, you know, your vision, your
finances, your focus, your work ethic. So that's something that
you have to do is create those seven declarations. That's a
little bit of homework for you. Okay, so that's your first bit of
homework for you in this process is writing down your seven
decrees. Okay. Right, let's get back to this. Okay, so that's
number five is complete your daily declaration. So is that
achievable or not achievable? Awesome. I would just say about
that having the daily declarations is having those daily
declarations enables is enabling me to redesign my life, right?
It's part of the process of the science of dreams. And it
enables you to restructure the fabric of reality around your
life. Pretty fun, right? You literally get to redesign
reality. And that's a big part of it for me of how I redesign
reality, how I co label with God, because actually prayer
should really only be about 1% praying, right? And the rest of
the is actually creating with God. And this is a massive part
of the process of creating with God and redesigning your
reality. Number six, so number six is move your body for at
least five minutes achievable or not achievable. Yeah,
yeah. Achievable. So when I was starting to, my metabolism was
starting to change when I was pastoring. And I was just never
did any I was just relying on my metabolism, right to keep me in
shape as opposed to actually doing any exercise. But then I
started, my metabolism started changing that didn't start
working anymore. I started to notice Oh, man, I'm actually
putting on a gut. It's difficult to starting to get more
challenging to tie my shoelaces and I was actually a lot heavier
than I thought I was. And I was kind of lying to myself and
justifying but actually the reality was I just I needed to
start working out to stay in shape. And I needed to reduce my
sugar intake as well, actually. But so I didn't really have a
workout culture in my life. But I just started by moving my
body for five minutes. I just started with that right? Move
your body for at least five minutes. And the cool thing
about that is if what happens when you do something on a
small, you know, do something for like five minutes a day for
21 days, what happens is you reshape the pathways in your
brain, you're starting to do hard things. But now I work out
all the time. And I love it. But it started with doing five
minutes a day. And so what that is, is that is incremental
sustainable change, okay, so you want to when you're when you're
going after transformation, go for small things that are
sustainable rather than big things that aren't sustainable.
So that's why it's just like praying the spirit for five
minutes. If you want to pray more, go for it, pray more, move
your body for at least five minutes. If you want to do that
for more than go for it.
But move your body for at least five minutes.
Achievable or not achievable?
Achievable, fantastic.
Okay, number seven, I think everyone will like,
eat something awesome.
Is that achievable or not achievable?
Nkechi, is that achievable?
Yes, you can unmute if you want.
Achievable.
Well, you'll like that one, won't you?
What is something awesome that you would like to eat?
Well, I like a lot of things.
It depends what time of day.
If it's early morning in the morning, it's a morning bun.
If it's like dinner time, it's these,
I like these raw shrimp, kind of with garlic,
kind of awkward.
Oh, nice, very cool.
Yeah.
Yeah, cool.
So I think everyone's gonna be able to find
a lot of awesome things to eat from all over the world.
And it'd be pretty fun to see some
of the awesome things we're eating.
Okay, so that's eat something awesome.
Number eight is drink three liters of water a day.
All right.
Now, some people are like, oh my gosh, I can't do that.
Now, let me say that if you,
I put three liters of water there as a target,
but for some people,
they might find that actually,
like I can only do two liters.
For me, like three liters or four liters is no worries.
Like I'll drink, I'll often drink like three liters,
three liters, just nothing, it just, it's easy.
Sometimes it's even four liters is easy.
So, but you want to just look after your body, right?
It's not a competition.
You know, it's not about who can drown themselves.
You know, you can drink too much water,
but sometimes, like if you're working out,
if you're busy, if it's hot, you know,
obviously you can drink more compared to other days.
So it's not like,
it's not necessarily about just drinking
as much water as you can.
It's just about making sure you've got a lot of water
going through your system.
So I put three liters of water there as a target.
If you can do three liters, shoot for it.
If for any reason, health-wise, you can't do three liters,
you know, like don't damage yourself, you know,
like just the idea is that this is to be a blessing,
not a curse.
So make sure it's a blessing in the way that you do that.
Because sometimes for people,
they have goals that actually are more of a curse
than a blessing.
So you want to make sure that this system is working for you,
not against you, okay?
It's designed to upgrade your life, not damage it.
So the other thing that I'll say as well
of what makes it easier for me is,
if you haven't seen it in the school
of social media marketing,
one of the things that we sell is water filters.
And if you're drinking water straight from a tap,
like I hate it.
I hate drinking water straight from a tap.
It's not fun.
But when I put it through the Enantic Canyon machine,
and when I'm drinking Canyon water,
I will definitely rate that and rave about it.
I flippin' love it.
I can taste the difference instantly.
And I can also tell that the,
because actually the structure of the water
is different at like at the very core level of the water.
So it's got more oxygen in it
and my body absorbs more oxygen.
And that's one of the biggest issues
that our bodies have in terms of health
is we don't have enough oxygen in our body.
So anyway, so if you haven't checked out the video in,
let me just quickly, I'll go there now.
So if you haven't checked this out yet,
then this is definitely worth checking out.
So you can go to the guides, right?
This is my secret weapon
when it comes to drinking lots of water.
So go to the guides.
So the guide number three,
which is fast-tracking to 10K months.
There's four strategies to fast-tracking to 10K months.
Change your water, change your life.
So click on that one.
I spent $10,000 creating this video for you.
So this 20 minute video here.
I'll stop it there.
But that's the video there.
Change your water to change your life.
If you haven't seen that,
you definitely want to check that out.
That was selling those machines
was the first thing that got me to break 10K months.
And then conveniently,
it's something that I really need in my life, right?
Because how important is water?
Insanely important.
So this is one of my secret health weapons in my life
is I have flippin' awesome water.
I have the best water in my life.
So it's a huge life advantage, really.
So let's get back to the hard things.
Right, so three liters of water there or thereabouts achievable, not achievable, achievable, achievable,
sweet.
Right, number nine is fun, intentionally love on someone, achievable or not achievable.
Yeah, definitely achievable.
Definitely achievable.
Number 10, practice your trigger, okay, so I have to give you a little bit more context
on this one too, practicing your trigger.
This is some more homework, okay, so for this one, just practicing your trigger, let me
try and find it here.
So practicing your trigger, you've got to do a little bit of homework, you've got to
do a little bit of drawing, okay, so I'm just pulling my drawing up for you, okay, so practicing
your trigger is about actually practicing the presence of God and creating a trigger
in your daily life that will help you focus on, here it is, here's my trigger, okay, so
this is on my phone, so you can see that is not like the most extreme, amazing, you
know, like artistic work there, yeah, it's just stick figures and a simple basic picture
but what that, it's just about the symbolism of it is draw a picture, so that picture to
me is a symbol of the most amazing intimacy with God that I can imagine, right, so even
if it's just a real basic stick figure, however it is or if you want to be more elaborate,
some people really go to town because they love drawing pictures, you just draw a picture
that represents to you what practicing the presence is about, what the most amazing experience
of intimacy with God looks like and then when you practice, so for me, my trigger,
the idea is, right, actually you can see it right here, just I've got a little post-it
note that says trigger, fell off my computer because it's not that sticky but it just sits
here on my desk just to remind me to trigger and the whole idea of triggering is that I
intentionally focus in for a moment on just what the most beautiful expression of intimacy
is like, so you can choose a different thing to be your trigger, like it could be when
you get in the car, that could be your trigger, when you do something for me, it's I'm trying
to practice that every time I have a drink that I trigger, it can just be like just a
moment where you go, whoa, you just think about God for a moment, you're just inviting
him in just for a moment, into that moment, you're just practicing enjoying God just for
that moment, okay, so that's the trigger, so the cool thing about it is that a practice
creates a habit, a habit creates a reflex and a reflex creates a lifestyle and a lifestyle
creates a state of being, so by practicing these things, there's really small simple
things, we actually create a whole state of being, of oneness with God and so I actually
just had a testimony from someone today who's been doing this with us for the last 51 days
and they said their favorite thing and the whole thing is practicing their trigger because
they never used to invite God into the little things and now they have God actually filling
up their day, whereas before they only kind of had God when they were doing worship or
something like that, but now God like bubbles up, he fills up their most mundane simple
moments because they've been practicing the presence of God in those simple moments, so
if you have it something like a trigger, I tried to have this on my drink bottle but
you know like just, it's not very sticky, but you can, you could put the post-it notes
up somewhere, you could, you just do what works for you, but the whole idea is that
you're practicing in the little mundane moments, practicing enjoying God, practicing the presence
in those little moments and you use your picture as just like a little anchor point for you,
so your picture, the idea of your picture is to create an anchor point in your mind
that you can go, ah yes, you, it actually, and that picture and the other thing, whether
whatever it is, you know, it could be, like I said, for me it's, you know, and I don't,
I definitely, I do not get this often, I don't, most of the time I don't get this, right,
the whole thing for me is my trigger is my drink bottle, so I'm, when I drink, if I remember,
hmm, if I remember, I take a moment.
amazing, the most amazing level of intimacy with God that I can
imagine. But even if you only get it a little bit right, the
whole idea is that by practicing it gets it gets more of a
reflex, and then it becomes more of a habit and it becomes more
of a lifestyle and it becomes more of a state of being that
you live in. So that's pretty fun. Sound good? achievable or
not achievable. Achievable, beautiful. Okay, number 11.
Alright, here we go. Number 11 is that we're going to go on
this journey as a family. This is going to be fun. I reckon
you are going to love this so much. And so one of the things
that we want to do each day number 11 is post an
accountability picture. Okay, so post a photo of you doing one of
these things. So each day you're going to post an
accountability picture with the group. So is that achievable or
not achievable? Yep. achievable, right? We it's pretty simple.
We've got a we've pretty much all of us have a phone. And it
could be as simple as this. Okay, I'm gonna take a photo of
my drink bottle. Boom, I've been drinking water and you can just
and then you'll drop it. Let me you know, it's this easy to do
that. Okay, now I'm just going to drop it in the comments here
on this. I actually can't drop in the comments on it. But you
know, that's all I have to do just drop it. So each day what
will happen is that one of the raising royalty staff will will
do the you know, day, whichever day it is, and they'll do the
we do hard things post and they'll drop a picture and then
everyone else drops their accountability pictures and
their stories and things like that. And that's actually a
really, really cool journey to go on together. And then the
last one number 12 is I'm going to be live tomorrow. Same time
covering number 12. It's called complete your daily social media
tasks. Okay, so there is going to be a posting schedule for
you. And I'm the way I'm creating the posting schedule
for you is I'm going to show you what it looks like if you just
want to treat this as a hobby. This is this is how you should
post if you want this business just to be a hobby, right? Like
if this is just a hobby, and you don't really care if you make
money out of it, right hobbies cost you money rather than
making you money. So if you want to treat this like a hobby, I'll
show you how to treat it like a hobby. So you don't really
necessarily make any money out of it. Because a lot of people
don't realize that they treat their business like a hobby. And
then they wonder why it's not making the money. Like, oh, your
business doesn't work. I'm like, hang on my business has been
awesome. And there's people crushing it. And I pay out 10s
of 1000s of dollars to affiliates on a regular basis,
because they're doing it right, because they're not treating it
like a hobby. But if you treat it like a hobby, you'll get you
know, you'll get the hobby results. And so I'll show you
like, if you want to treat it like a hobby, do this. If you
want to treat it like a business, do this. If you want
to treat it like, you know, if you want to fast track towards
10k months, then do this. Okay, so there's different levels of
intensity will give you different results. So tomorrow's
session is all about going through the daily social media
tasks and helping you understand that. Sweet. Any questions, fam?
Okay. That was kind of hustled through there. So yeah, let me
know if you've got any questions.
Yeah, I've got a question, Benji. Yeah. Yeah, like, if we
want to invite some friends to come on this journey with us for
one day, and, and, you know, sign up for a free business or
become part of the inner circle, whichever one they can afford.
What's the best way to do that? Which out of the funnels is the
best funnel to recommend?
Totally. So I'm actually creating a new funnel for you,
right? At the moment, I'm hustling on a new funnel for you,
which is going to be amazing. But in the meantime, in the
meantime, let me show you the best funnel for this right now.
And let me pull up Lead Dino. Oh, hang on, I'll share my screen
with you. Because you're right. You're right, Rod. This journey
is flipping awesome. And this is a great thing to invite people
to be a part of. And yeah, it'll cost them a few bucks to jump on
but the return they'll get from it is insane. So yes, and let me
Okay, here we go. We're in Lead Dino. If you haven't got your
lead
dyno set up yet, then this is something that you want to do quickly with support. Make sure you're
connected with them and say, okay, right, because this is what your lead dyno dashboard looks like.
This is where you go. You can see here, I just use these occasionally, but I've had, you know,
shows me the number of clicks on my links. It shows me how many leads I've generated from those
links that I've posted, and it shows me how many purchases. You see that? So there's been,
and I don't really follow this because I've got like other links and things like that,
that I post. Most of the time I post corporate links that are the inner circle ones. So
most of the time when I'm posting links, I post links that make money for the inner circle. So
if you're not in the inner circle yet, then you want to figure that out, but you want to have
a think about that. But most of the time when I'm posting, I'm making money for the inner circle
rather than just like making my money, making money for me. So that's what that is. Anyway,
so you get your lead dyno things sorted. If you haven't, then you come to landing pages
and then it's going to be the activator affiliate. Okay. So let me minimize this.
I'll come to the activator affiliate. So this one here, the activator affiliate, I'll copy that,
close. Okay. So the, and then let me just show you what it looks like.
I'm just dropping this there, come on internet. Ta-da! This is what it looks like,
the activator funnel. Okay. So this is converting all right, but I'm actually making an even better
one at the moment. Okay. So it's not like a casual thing just to make another funnel,
to give you an idea, stop that screen share, to give you an idea,
like when I built my first funnel, it took me from February to October.
I've nearly finished building this new one for you this week.
I've just got a bit of filming to do on it tonight and a few other touches
and then we've got a few other little bits and pieces to do and it'll be ready hopefully
in a few days. But the activator funnel, like that works for now. Like it's working,
it's actually getting good results for now. So you can use that. All I'm saying is that
I'm hustling creating something that's even more powerful. And then you want to catch the,
like tomorrow when I go through the social media part of it, you're going to see in that one
tomorrow, like how powerful all of this becomes, not just as personal transformation, but as a
weapon for your business. So we're going to jump into that tomorrow, same time.
But yeah, if you want to share this opportunity, you can just use it with your friends. Just use
casual language, the same language that you would normally use. Just say, hey guys, I'm doing this
really exciting thing. It's going to be 21 days of transformation, 21 day challenge to automated
kingdom impact and income. If you want to jump on board with me, it's like, just write a spiel
about it. It doesn't have to be, just use your own language. Yeah. Sweet. Any other questions?
I'm just thinking it's a good opportunity for everyone really to, before Monday, try to invite
as many friends as they can. And that way they hit the ground running. Absolutely. And so here's,
here's what's going to happen. Just a quick like bird's eye view for you of what's going to happen
is in the 21 days, what we're actually going to use the 21 days to and all the posting schedule
of what that's all going to be about is the first 16 days is the posting is going to be about,
you know, just kind of creating engagement with people and things like that. And then the last
part, the last five days of it, we're going to run a challenge, right? So we're going to be
bringing people in. And at the end of that challenge, we're going to invite people to
join with us for another 21 day cycle, because 21 days is what it takes to build a,
build a, you know, create that pathway, but actually takes three cycles of 21 days to really
get it established in your mindset. So that's what we're going after is 60, 63 days. So that's
actually going to be a really cool cycle that we do, but you're onto it, my man, it's going to be
ultimate for, for bringing people in. So we're going to use this first one, we'll get a whole
bunch of testimonies. And then the second one is where we're going to light it up like crazy.
Cool, cool. Good to see you, man.
But that's it for us today. Laura, would you like to play to wrap it up?
And then we're done, but I'll see you live same time tomorrow.
Thank you, Heavenly Father, for this time together. Thank you for
Benji and blessing us all through him. Thank you, Holy Spirit, for leading us and guiding us
in this journey together of 21 day challenge.
Amen. Well, thank you so much and bless you. We'll catch you guys all. Love you heaps and
so delighted and honored to be on the journey together, but we do hard things. Love you, fam.
See you.