This is the God, Money, and Me Discovery Course, Audio Disc 4.
Secondly, you're operating on scripts.
And so you begin to edit or rewrite your script.
Sandra Dee understands all about scripts, right?
In a movie, in a part, you get a script and that becomes your world during that 30 minutes
or that hour, that three hours that you're creating, right?
You're living.
Guess what?
You inherited those about your life.
And there's scripts that are playing in your subconscious that you're still following to
the T. You've stepped into the part.
But the cool thing is you can rewrite them.
All you need to do is identify them and know them.
And you begin to look at them and step out of them for a second and look at them and
say, how's that working for me right now?
Is this one I want to hold on to because it's producing the results or is this script no
longer serving me?
I would propose if your script is no longer serving you, it might be time to edit or rewrite
the script.
I bought into some heavy duty scripts that have heavy duty messed with me.
It took so much to change them, but I can tell you it's the best thing I've ever done.
What a difference.
Scripts are our perceptions about life, our guidelines for living.
They can be general.
They can be specific.
We get scripts in our religion.
We get scripts on our sexuality.
We get scripts in our politics.
We get scripts in our parenting.
We get scripts in marriage, scripts in finances.
You're usually unconscious unless you learn how to identify these.
So you begin to kind of just step back and be an observer into your life.
Do you know what we know about quantum physics?
Here's another little interesting tidbit.
We used to think in physics that we were in this universe and we're just observers.
Here we are.
We're just observing the universe.
Do you know what we know now?
We know that by our observing, the universe changes just by observation.
They took a particle.
They had a double slit that the particle could go through, the photon could go through, and
it would go one way and act one way, and when the observer looked at it, it changed the
way it acted just by observing it.
Is it because our energy is reflecting into it?
It's the way that God has wired you, that your thoughts, your words, and your emotions
change not only internally, your DNA, you can literally see the double-strand helix
coil and uncoil by your words and your emotions and your beliefs, change your very own DNA,
change your level of dis-ease, change your level of finances, change internally, but
guess what?
Changes your world.
If you didn't know how powerful God's made you, he made you in his image.
And nothing gets done, last time I checked, on this planet without human beings.
There had to be an Abraham, there had to be a Deborah, there had to be a Moses, there
had to be a Jacob, there had to be a Sarah, there had to be a Peter, there had to be a
Paul, and there has to be a you.
Now that you can think you're a worthless worm that is just a fate of your circumstances,
should you choose to believe that, it becomes your reality, or your you can step into your
power, your God-given design, and really get some things done.
So rewriting the script, you step back.
So first of all, what do I have to give up to follow this script?
What are you giving up in order to keep this script going?
Second, what might be a better script for who you are designed to be, who you're becoming?
What might better serve you?
What might be a better script?
What script might better support your life, your vision, your purpose?
And then you can begin working on the script.
You can leave it as it is.
If it's working for you and it's working for your brain, don't change it.
Leave it as it is.
You can delete a portion of it that's not working for you, not working for your brain,
not working for your vision, your purpose, delete it.
Why are you still holding on to that part of the script?
That's why I always say, who made up that rule?
Who said that?
Who are they?
You know, they say that we should.
Who are they?
Or rewrite all of it to better match your brain and who you are.
The first is leave it as it is, if it's working.
The second is delete a portion of it if that portion's not working for you.
The third is rewrite all or part of it to better match you.
Or the last is create a new script that aligns with your unique brain, lead, vision, and
purpose.
Aligns.
You also can create lots of little mini-scripts.
What do you think self-talk and affirmations are?
They're new mini-scripts.
I like, David understood scripts.
He spent a lot of time out there with just God, learning a lot of lessons, looking at
the stars, and taking care of sheep, and he wrote some very powerful affirmations.
One of them is found in Psalms 23.
And I've often thought to myself, wow, I'll catch myself doing this.
And what if I'm walking through the grocery store aisles and I'm pushing the cart, right?
And I'm just cruising along and I'm saying, man, my cup overflows.
By surely goodness and mercy, follow me all the days of my life.
I'm wheeling down the aisles.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of the devil, I don't fear, because
I don't walk in fear anymore, because I know you're with me, and I know you cover me, and
I know you're protecting me.
Well, what would happen if we had scripts like that?
How might things be different if we changed our script?
See how powerful words are?
The internal dialogue and the spoken word.
The power of the spoken word.
So we can have affirmations, we can have visualizations, we can remove negative and limiting beliefs,
and we can align it with our brain wiring.
Now, let's dig in for a minute with the brain wiring.
By the way, if you all haven't taken time in watching the free video on prospering
all things, I encourage you to go back and watch that.
Because I really go into the brain wiring there even more, and you get a chance to really
kind of be exposed to it there.
And here's the key around it.
There is an incredible danger, and I do mean danger, tragedy, around not being authentically you.
Phil said, ignoring who you truly, authentically are can literally be killing you.
It's the blame.
Forcing yourself to be someone you are not.
Have you ever done that?
Forcing yourself to be someone you are not, or stuffing down who you really are.
Any of you know anything about that?
Is incredibly taxing.
Any of you know anything about that?
Nothing.
It'll tax you, it'll tax you, it'll tax you so much that it will literally shorten
your life by years and years and years.
Let me tell you why I add this piece.
I discovered this piece, I don't know, it must be about 17, 18 years ago.
I was mentored by one of the top brain researchers in the world, and teachers,
and she's been my mentor and has taught me this, and I love sharing this because
here is a piece that you're not going to get anywhere else, and that will actually
totally distinguish Prosper and All Things from anything else, this piece.
And you'll begin to understand what I mean by that.
Understanding how your brain is wired will absolutely bring the joy and the peace
back into your life, will let you carry out who you're meant to be,
will make you feel...
like you're doing what you were born to do, we'll solve huge relationship problems, we'll
get you in the right career, we'll surround you with the right people, we'll bring the
right resources, we'll get rid of the dis-ease, we'll get rid of the autoimmune disorders,
I've seen this change more than anything.
On my website prosperinallthings.com, you will see that you can order the BTSA, the
Benzinger Thinking Style Assessment, it comes online, you'll get it by email once you order
it, you'll get it instantly, and you can do it in the privacy of your own home, and you
just answer what comes to you, don't overthink it, don't be crazy about it, just answer what
comes to you.
This test will give you back a 25 page or more tool.
And so what's different with this?
This is actually getting into innately what you're born with, and it's about, it's not
about what you like, it's not about your personality, it's not about your skill set, it is about
your energy advantage, do you understand?
And all those other things, so to me it seems like one of the deeper, more complete assessment
tools, they're all good, they all shed lights on you, you know, and people love to do this,
I mean I've seen all kinds of, you know, you can see what animal you are, what gem you
are, what personality type you are, you know, it's all fine, but to me this is more, you
know, life or death, this is your life, if you don't understand, it's not cute, it's,
we're talking your life.
So that's why I go this direction, that's why I choose this particular one, make sense?
So I've done Strength Finder 2.0, how does that compare?
Strength Finder 2.0, all have their value, they all have their value, I just really find
that this is a critical piece, it's not something you've acquired, it's not just your strength,
this is what you're born with, and it's about energy efficiency, that's the best way I can
explain it, this is an internal deal, of getting back in line with who you are, period.
So hopefully that helps you understand, okay, and anybody I coach, anybody I teach, you're
gonna bring it from now on, if you come to any of my workshops, you're gonna come with
a whole new understanding of who you are, you're gonna bring that with you, and you're
gonna be able to apply it.
Let me tell you why, if you do not understand which quadrant of the brain is energy efficient
for you, you're gonna try to put yourself in a mold that doesn't fit you.
Any of you ever been to a goal setting workshop?
Okay, any of you ever tried to do goal setting?
And any of you, like, it lasted during that day, and then after that, you were on to the
next thing, and it just didn't fit your brain, any of you, can you connect with that at all?
Well because goal setting is a frontal left, it's in the frontal left quadrant of your
brain.
So if I'm gonna teach you to manifest, and I only focus, I'm only gonna reach that population
that has an energy advantage there, and instead, because I've spent more than 30 years in personal
development and attended the best, you know, I've worked with Brian Tracy, I'm in his book,
I was on his TV, I've listened to everything he's done, I've worked with Jim Rohn, I mean
I've been around all this stuff, I understand it, and I'm going to cause you to goal set
not thinking about your brain, and you're gonna just beat yourself up wondering why
you don't get your goals.
See why this might be important?
I have to be able to teach, and so do you, according to your innate energy advantage.
You need to be able to allow people the dignity, some of you are taking your brain lead and
you're trying to put it on your kids.
Some of you are totally not getting your spouse, or significant other, who's a different brain
lead than you, because every brain lead has its own language, every brain lead has its
own strengths, and you're not getting it.
And it will probably even feel as an attack to you if you don't get the strengths of it.
Let me give you an example.
You can be a frontal right, and frontal right brain are very, it's the place in the brain
of visioning.
That's why a frontal left, a basal left is not going to be real thrilled about creating
a vision board.
I can sit and teach you how to create a beautiful vision board, and you say just sit and vision
it, and you're like, I'm not feeling it, I can't, I mean give me a list and let me put
it sequentially.
You know, but I'm speaking from my language, not understanding them.
So when you teach, or when you understand, or when you know yourself, you begin to work
from that promise.
So I could be one that is a frontal right and be very visionary on seeing things.
And for a person that's a frontal right, they hate details.
Do you know what I say to Berlin more often than anything else out there when she says
something to me?
What do I say?
That would be a detail.
Berlin?
That would be a detail.
Take care of it.
I don't want to hear about it.
I'm already over here needing to get us here.
I need someone who's got a different giftedness that I don't have, because I couldn't live
without those details being done.
That put me in it, and I'm going to procrastinate, I'm going to be exhausted, I'm going to be
fried, and I'm going to get sick.
Oh, but we think we're supposed to be Jack of all trades.
Jane of all trades.
So I'll get people, because you're going to get this beautiful graph on your BTSA, and
it should look like this.
It should, you're going to have the four quadrants of the ring.
You've got two, okay, what we call frontal, okay, and two posterior or basal.
See, we all understand that we have two hemispheres.
On your notes, I think the first thing says we have.
So we get a lot of people say, I'm right brain, right, or I'm left brain, we get that, okay?
What most people don't know is there's actually a fissure that runs along here that actually
divides the brain into four quadrants, not just two.
And what we know, so this would be what we call frontal right, this would be called basal
right, this would be called basal left, and this would be called frontal left, okay, just
looking at this.
So if we were going around the clock, frontal right, basal right, basal left, frontal left,
okay?
So the interesting thing about this, that each has its language, and when you're operating
in, so if you were a frontal right, or if you were a frontal left, and you looked at
the brain, when you did activities in that part of the brain, it would run cool, because
it's not, it's requiring a dollar a second in energy.
When you step over here or over here trying to be a jack-of-all-trades, it runs hot on
the PET scans.
Literally you're frying your brain.
We know that.
Now I get people, what it should look like, okay, let's suppose you're a frontal right,
okay, that that's your energy advantage, let's suppose, okay?
What will happen is it should look like a kite, in other words, it'll go like this,
it'll really point, the graph that you get, and then it'll be kind of like right here,
and then it'll be like this, meaning that the diagonal will be your weakest, the one
that will require the most energy for you.
So if you're a frontal right, for example, the basal left activities, a basal left is
a system person.
They say things like, just tell me what to do, and I'll do it.
Just give me the rules, just kind of go through.
And I go heavy into this based on, if we're talking about health, I teach this from a
health perspective.
If we're talking about business, I teach it, and in this one I'm teaching about money,
so I just did a page for you on the money, how the different brain leads will operate
with that.
So here's what happens.
The interesting thing about the brain is if I'm frontal right, I cannot, there is no direct
connection to go from here to here.
What the brain has to do is it has to either go here or here to its neighbor, and then
over here.
So it is the most energy intensive to go right here.
So now ask me to do something routine over and over and over again, and kill me now.
Give me a job that I do the same thing every day, repetitively, and you'll kill me.
But guess who I need in my life the most?
See the frontal right?
Guess what they hate if they're in sales?
They're in sales reports.
Uh huh.
Yep.
Follow up.
Uh huh.
Routine things.
It's expensive.
Uh huh.
So guess who they have to create a team that...
has all of these things. So again, this would be a healthy one. If you were a frontal left,
it would be the opposite. It would go here, like this, like this, and like this. If you
were a basal left, it would come way out here, like this. This would be a true. Now, it will
show you innately what you are, what you were born with when you get the report, and it
will show you something really interesting, where you're operating right now. Because
some of you are innately, maybe you are innately here, and you're here, maybe you're innately
here, and you're being forced here, whatever it is, it'll show you where you are. It'll
also show you your introversion, extroversion scale, which really doesn't have anything
to do with people. We all think of that as whether I like people or not. It has to do
with your brain's level of stimulation, and whether you need more stimulation, or it has
too much stimulation. So you'll know your introversion, extroversion scale. It also
has to do with people. You'll also know your sensory preference, how you learn best. So
you'll begin to learn how to put yourself in a position. But what I'll sometimes get,
and you can sign and have me look at it, so that I can talk to you about it, and you can
bring it to class, and things like that. And when you get your report, I will get women
that look like this. They'll say, how cool, I'm using all of my brain. And I'm saying,
you are one millimeter away from a full-on crash. Let's talk. I know you're putting out
so much energy, you're cutting years off your life, you're stressing your immune system
to no end, you probably get sick all the time, you're probably frightened, exhausted,
and you're thinking, wow, I'm just using my whole brain. We have discovered something
called PASS, prolonged adaption stress syndrome. How many of you know post-traumatic stress
disorder? Okay, you all know that. What are the symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder?
Burnout, depression, illness, anxiety, nightmares, sleeplessness. Okay, what we know about this,
now in the live recording, I know I kept saying this and this and this, and I was comparing
two things. So let me just give some clarification here. What I meant in comparing was I was
comparing PASS, P-A-S-S, prolonged adaption stress syndrome, with PTSD, post-traumatic
stress disorder. And the only point I wanted you to understand from there is that the symptoms
of both are the same. In other words, if you are in a part of your brain that is not
in your innate energy advantage over a prolonged period, if you're spending more than 51% of
your time operating in the other quadrants of your brain that are not energy efficient,
there will be a syndrome that develops that has the same symptoms as the post-traumatic
stress disorder. The only difference between the two is that the post-traumatic stress
disorder, you can isolate it with an incident where it began. In other words, a traumatic
incident, they were in a war, they were raped, we can go back to where it started. Whereas
with PASS, it's simply a long period of time operating in your adapted brain lead. The
other thing with post-traumatic stress disorder is you have flashbacks, and that's not the
case with prolonged adaption stress syndrome. So I just wanted you to get an idea that what
we're talking about here is very serious. You being able to know your brain lead, your
innate energy advantage, and begin to build your life by design so that you spend at least
51% of your time in that energy advantage. Because otherwise, trying to be a jack of
all trades, trying to live in all your brain leads, trying to do things that are not in
your brain lead, do have some very serious consequences. And that's all I was trying
to compare right there. Okay, so the blanks were left and right hemisphere, four quadrants,
two frontal, two basal. Y'all got that? And the first blank was killing you. Okay. Second
page, PET scans show innate...
brain lead okay you have a unique energy advantage is the second blank
advantage your brain runs cool so the blanks are lead advantage cool your brain
runs cool you're requiring 1 100th of the glucose uptake oxygen uptake by
staying in your brain like do you think it might be important to know and do
you think it might be important to structure your life around who you are
it's it's not about your skill set it's about energy it's about who you're wired
to be and that blank there we spend a hundred times more energy that's a
literal number hundred times more energy and the bottom one literally
frying your brain
that I see from having taught yes now it is the fact that the sense of importance
that you put on it how it theologically is affecting your body this isn't just a
little driver yeah yeah exactly it's the surfacy kind of thing yep and really
you've taken it to the deeper level of saying this is why there's disease yeah
exactly exactly a huge thank you thank you what you're teaching and it finally
makes sense and when you come to my all-day events when I have time to play
oh my gosh we will have fun with the brain leads I can have you in hysterics
laughing at what the different brain leads do and and comparing with each
other you know today I'm condensing a three-day thing into like three hours
and because I wanted you here in San Diego to have a taste and once you've
had a taste I'll be able to help take you deeper and broader and wider and
we'll have a blast with it I'm kind of no-nonsense today I'm trying to get the
basics in that you get how can we really affect change right now that you leave
you'll have something you can apply today none of this requires rocket
science you can take any page that I just gave you today and you can apply it
and see radical change that's my goal today