And good morning. Happy Memorial Day. We are here. We're going to start our day
incredibly. I'm so excited. This of course is day one of the challenge, the 5-7
Prosper Challenge for you to show up and to let God show through. I am
thrilled. I know that this is going to be a phenomenal week. God has been showing
me so much as we gather together and choose to show up, release the gifts that
are inside of us. So welcome those of you that are joining. I see you Ada.
Welcome. Welcome. So happy Memorial Day weekend. I chose to show up today because
this is so important and I know that. And I thank the people that have served.
Truly, truly, truly. So today as day one, we're going to lay a foundation, powerful
foundation. We're going to talk about some key ideas, some key actions to
expose the lies, the stories that we've been telling ourselves that keep
ourselves stuck, keep us from showing up. I'm always amazed as a coach. Once the
story comes out, awareness is the first step of transformation. We can then begin
to make a powerful, powerful shift. So this group, you're gonna get as much out
of it as you desire. I can tell you I'm gonna play full-on. This came as a result
of prayer. I literally was kneeling down asking God the next move for this season
as we're going through so much as a people and asking God what my role can
be to show up, to take the gifts that he's given me and freely give them to
serve during these difficult times. And God said he wanted me to start a
challenge. So here we are. So I'm committed to you. I'm committed to
showing up full-on. I'm gonna be here at 830 every morning and you are gonna get
out of it as much as you desire. So begin to ask yourself how much are you
willing to engage? How much are you willing to build relationships? Starting
right here in this group because what I know about this group is we're gonna
create a space of grace plus action. We're gonna have grace on ourselves.
We're doing new things. We don't get upset when a baby falls down learning to
walk. Why would we get upset as we step into new ground, new territories, new
skill sets, new mindsets? So we're gonna have grace with ourselves and we're
gonna have grace with each other. I encourage you to be each other's best
cheerleader. Give that which you desire to receive. And so we're gonna show up
and have a place of grace and it's gonna be a place of action. Because the
difference of a dream and a hallucination is the action. If we keep
doing what we've already been doing we're gonna keep getting the results
right that we've already gotten. So I'm gonna start with prayer each day. I'm
gonna open with prayer and good morning Yvonne I see you just joined us welcome.
Each day I'm gonna pour out my heart to you. I'm gonna give you the very best
that I have. This this week is my gift to you because I know that God has
placed such amazing gifts inside of you. He has taught you lessons. You've gone
through hard things and those hard things gave you valuable lessons and
there's people that need to hear what you learned. There's people that need
your compassion. There's people that that need what God has placed inside of you.
You've got education in some cases. You've taken courses in some cases. You've
trial and error in some cases. God has just put spiritual gifts in you in some
cases. And the world needs it. There's people out there I promise you over 30
years of doing this I promise you that there are people out there that are
praying for you. They don't know. They don't know it's you. They just know that
They're praying, they're hurting, they're missing, they're stuck, they're frustrated,
they need help, they're at their wits end.
Some of them are considering suicide, some of them are considering changing relationships,
some of them are pivoting, so many things going on and they're praying, God please send
me someone to help me with this.
And you are very likely that someone will you answer the call.
So I'm going to be here giving you my very best, I'm going to be here praying, I'm going
to give you tools, tips, strategies, we're going to have an assignment each time.
But we're going to begin just in this group of encouraging each other.
So will you join me in prayer?
First of all, Father I thank you that you've called us to come together.
You ordain this.
You put it on women's and men, enlightened men's hearts to come into this group.
You've given them a divine nudge, they know, they know in their heart of hearts they gotta
stop playing small.
They know in their heart of hearts that they have something to give and yet fear, perfectionism,
thinking that they're not enough or don't have enough or don't know enough, all these
lies hold them back.
Father in the name of Jesus I ask that every untrue story, every lie that they've been
believing that has been keeping them from fully showing up and allowing you to show
out.
I'm asking that this week, I'm asking with faith, I'm asking with expectation that this
will be a week of supernatural breakthrough.
Like a plant, you're showing me a plant that's been dormant, it's been in the ground, it's
been in its gestation period and you're showing me a plant that just comes up through the
ground and sees the sunshine.
Comes up from the ground, pushes through the crack like I teach about the dandelion, pushes
through the crack to be able to release their gifts.
Father I'm asking that this week will be a week of pushing through the cracks, the cracks
of the lies, the cracks of inertia, the cracks of not taking action.
I am asking and believing by faith for supernatural breakthrough.
And so for all of you that agree with that prayer, put it in the comment.
Say I agree, say amen, thank God for it, thank God for it, thank God.
Alright let's talk about first real quick, why don't we show up?
What are the things that keep us from showing up?
Well I can tell you the first thing that keeps us from showing up is perfectionism, perfectionism.
Trying to be perfect.
I'm going to tell you that everybody I've known, myself included, that has been successful,
they do it many times, what we would call poorly, not perfectly, before that the improvement
comes.
But let me tell you something about what I know about people out there.
Thirty years of serving people, running multi-million dollar companies, training, speaking all over
the world, you know what I know?
People aren't looking for perfection.
They're not even asking, they're not saying let me find someone perfect that I can model
after.
And fact is, the truth is, you're looking in the mirror and seeing your warts and your
freckles and your wrinkles and your gray hair and your whatever, you're seeing that, they're
not even seeing that.
You're judging yourself so much more harshly than they are.
Because you know what?
They're focused on them.
They're looking for help.
And they don't expect, in fact they don't even like perfection.
You know yesterday, I was out in the garden, I was in my t-shirt, I showed up, I looked
at my own video, judged myself, said man, that was all bad.
You showed up like that?
But I wanted you to know that this is not about us getting dolled up and looking perfect.
I like to, you know, put some color on for you guys.
This is about letting God shine through you.
And so how do you deal with the perfectionism that will get you to show up?
Step number one, get your eyes off of yourself and get your eyes on the person that you're
serving.
See them.
See their needs, see their pain, see how you can serve. Let God flow through you.
Ask God to speak through your mouth, to love through your arms, to write through
your fingers, to you know to pray through you, to create through you, to love
through you. Get your eyes off of yourself. I've trained up award-winning
speakers, okay. I used to run a speech and debate club, nationally award-winning
speakers, and the first thing I had to do is to have them stop focusing on
themselves and find people in the audience and look at them. So during this
challenge, as you get ready to show up, I want you to just imagine the people
you're serving. And we're going to get real specific tomorrow. We're going to
talk about the niche and the person very clear. You're going to get clarity
tomorrow, but I want you to look at that person and that will break the
perfectionism. Secondly, a friend of mine likes to say, do it ugly. Do it first, just
do it, and it will get better and better and better and better. Look, I've been
teaching workshops and online events and live events, you know, for 30 years. Oh, I
look at some of the stuff I created and I cringe, but you know what, I started.
And you can too. I had a coach once that put out his first book and everyone made
so much fun of him because the cover of the book was so ugly and they'd always
tell him, that is the ugliest book cover I've ever seen, and he always had an
answer. Yeah, well my book with the ugly cover is making way more money than the
book you haven't written. Think about it. So it's about getting our eyes off
ourselves and being willing to do it ugly. Alright, number two that keeps us
from showing up is the belief in lack. Lack is a construct of our imagination.
The world is abundant, God is abundant, he came for us to have abundance, he's given
us everything we need for life and godliness. In fact, we're the very temple
of the Holy Spirit, we carry God. Do you remember when you walk in a room, God
walks in a room, so there is no lack in the kingdom. You'll hear me say that very
often. Write that down just so it sinks in for you. No lack in the kingdom.
There's no lack in you and there's no lack in God's kingdom. Right here on
earth there's no lack. So the belief in the lack will keep you from showing up,
right? I'm not good enough, I don't have enough, I don't have enough education, I'm
too old, I don't know enough. Drop it. Drop it. You have everything you need for
right now to serve the people that you're called to serve. Alright, number
three why we don't show up, just plain old fear. Fear. Our brains are wired to
keep us safe, okay? And so our brains come up with these stories and most of the
time we don't even know what those stories are. And we have money
stories and these are fear-based lies, okay? We have money stories, we have
self-esteem stories, we have relationship stories, we've got these
stories but they're really below our conscious mind. And those of you who
have done a breakthrough session with me, especially where I do spirit tapping,
it's like night and day. Because what do I do? We first prayerfully uncover, we
bring to the surface, you know the Bible talks about bringing into the light. And
so we bring into the light until we can see it clearly. And we go, oh yeah, come to
think of it, that is what I've been believing. So we bring the lie to light
so that we can cancel the lie by God's grace. And we literally, with spirit
tapping, we literally rewire our nervous system to put a new belief in there. You
see, most of us have a program in our brain, like a program in your computer
that has a virus, usually many viruses. And when we get the virus out, we take
the program out, we put the new program in, there's no end to it. So
that's one of the reasons. Another reason is overwhelm. Okay, everybody's
telling you, you've got to build a Facebook page, you've got a blog, you've got a
podcast, you've got a video, it's really important, get on YouTube. Any of you feel
that? It's overwhelming. Hey, I'm a coach. And, and I know all of those different
places. And it can be
overwhelming, but we don't have to do that. We're going to talk about how to get past the overwhelm
during this time. We're going to do one thing at a time, but here's the key. We're going to do
something every day. Now the last thing I'm going to talk about, and we're going to get
into the challenge and how to do it, is getting caught up with numbers. Okay, I have people say,
well I made a video and only two people watched it. I wrote a blog and only five people saw it.
Okay, yes, there are hacks. I'm going to share with you hacks as you're showing up to get noticed
more, to get more people seeing you, but there's more to it. You need to understand a couple
things. First of all, the ones that actually you can see looking at you, those are those are the
lookers. Okay, but I want you to know there are far more lurkers. So there's lookers, there's
lurkers, there's a lot of people watching you don't even know are watching you. So that's the
first thing I want you to know, but here's the second really big lesson that I learned, and I've
learned this as I have built multiple organizations. I learned this when I built my first sales team
in network marketing. I had reached the top position. I was in my 20s and I reached the top
position. I remember being recognized on the stage and as one of the top income earners. Okay, and
at that time I think I was my checks were 150 about 15,000 20,000 a month. Okay, my 20s and
I remember all the other people getting on the stage and their income was less than mine,
but they had thousands. Some of them had 10,000s of people, but their income didn't reflect it.
Okay, I have learned that when I built my own network marketing corporation and I've learned it
on social media. Look, you'll go, you know, between all of my pages, I don't know, I have 5,000
followers, probably six, 7,000 followers between all the different pages that I have. It's nothing
compared to the people that have millions, but the quality of the relationship that you build
and the income you earn, I earn more than people have huge following. Do not get caught up in the
numbers. Get caught up in allowing to showing up and allowing God to show through you. Okay,
don't let the numbers distract you. You just keep doing what you're called to do. All right,
you guys good with me? All right, put something in the comments. It's early in the morning here
today. Put something in the comments. Say, I'm with you. I agree. All right. Now, this challenge
is an opportunity to build a new habit. I have found that habits, the habits that we create,
create us and create our life. So, whenever I want to change something, whenever I desire
to change something, I create a habit. Okay, I create a habit. So, during this pandemic,
I created the habit of walking. Woo-hoo! I am on day 48 unbroken of walking between one and
three miles a day unbroken. That's a habit. I automatically go into it. I automatically walk.
So, you begin to create the habits. So, we're going to begin to create some habits during
this challenge that are going to raise your visibility, that are going to build relationships,
that are going to grow your income, they're going to grow your impact. Okay, so we're going to build
new habits. Thank you for the high fives, guys. I'm pretty excited about it, creating new habits.
Proverbs 6.4 says, don't put it off. Do it now. Don't rest until you do. That's Proverbs 6.4.
Don't put it off, guys. The time's never going to be perfect. You're never going to know enough.
You're never going to have it all together. Show up now. Do it now. Don't put it off. This
challenge is your opportunity. Why is that important? Let me give you a little message.
then we're going to get into what we're going to do today. We make these excuses and we procrastinate
and when we succumb to those excuses and procrastination, we not only erode our confidence,
that erodes your confidence, but there's something that erodes in our soul. Remember our souls,
our mind, will and our emotions, our very being. When we do this, when we don't play full on,
there's something that eats at our soul. Do you know what I'm, do you feel what I'm talking about?
And so in spite of, you know, whatever well-crafted excuses, you know, the truth lives in us.
David said, make me know truth in my inner man. That the truth living inside of us, the spirit
living inside of us, knows when we could have done better. And so our sophisticated reasons
may sound good to the untrained ear, but there's something in our soul that knows better.
And here's the key, success breeds success. It bleeds into all areas. If I have consistency in
my walking, you know what, it's going to bleed into what I'm eating. You know what, it's going
to bleed into my energy, which is going to bleed into the quality of my work, which is going to
bleed into, you see, success breeds success. So every win that you have during this week,
we're going to celebrate us. Let, share your wins here. Let us woohoo you. We will, okay,
share your wins. No matter how small, those lead to more wins. On the other side of it,
every compromise, no matter how small, spills into other areas of our life and we start
compromising in those areas. So that brings up the issue of integrity. Let's talk about integrity.
One definition of integrity is the state of being whole and undivided. Integrity, integer, whole,
one. So when we say one thing, when we join a challenge, when we say, we tell people,
I'm going to do this, and then we do something else, we're no longer whole. We're, we're,
we're no longer undivided. We have a split mind. In the book, really fun book, Who Will Do What
By When, integrity is defined as doing what you say you will do. Even if it's only a promise you
made yourself, even if only you knew, integrity is doing what you say you will do. It's honoring
your commitment to yourself. So this week, today, starting today, this challenge, do I have your
agreement that we're going to, we're going to drop the, the lack, we're going to drop the
perfectionism, we're going to drop the needing to know it all, we're going to drop waiting for
everything to be perfect. Can I have your commitment to play full-on in this challenge?
Will you, will you show up every day? Will you do the assignments? I'm going to have some fun
prizes by the way. I'm keeping track, I'm keeping track of who went in there and registered on the
website and gave their email and their, and their phone number so I can text reminders and cool
things, love notes. So you're getting a point for that. I'm keeping track who wrote down their
intention. I'm keeping track who does today's assignment. There's points, all right? So do I
have your commitment to play full-on? Yay! Let's celebrate Ada. She says I'm in full-on. I celebrate
you. I congratulate you. I will be praying for you. All right. Yvonne, yay! She's celebrating.
All right. Today's idea is this,
and I know Yvonne's playing full-on. I celebrate you. I congratulate you.
And for the rest of you that are even watching this later or whatever, put it in the comments.
I'm playing full-on. I commit. I commit. I commit to walking in integrity. I commit to doing what I
say I would do. I joined this group because I desire to show up. I joined this group because
I desire to show out. I desire to grow my visibility. I desire to grow my impact. Congratulations.
Cindy says, yes, I'm showing up full-on. Okay. Today's idea and today's homework. Consistency
creates momentum. I'm going to be posting that here right after this call. Consistency creates
creates momentum.
All right, there's the past assignments of registering
and setting your intention.
Today, today's assignment
is you're gonna show up here in this group
and you're gonna show up with your eyes
on serving each other.
That means you're gonna be hitting like on their post
because we're getting practice.
Real people serving real people
are right here in this group.
You're gonna get in the habit,
leaving comments, congratulating, encouraging,
showing up in this group.
So today, your job is to post
and you can do it either with a picture of yourself
because you're showing up,
you're gonna put a picture of yourself
or if you really wanna play full on,
you're gonna do a short video,
just 30 seconds, a minute.
You're gonna show up with a picture or video
and you're gonna tell us
why you're excited to be in the group,
what you're committed to do,
what you're expecting.
You ready?
You're gonna show up.
You're gonna put your picture
or if you really wanna play full on,
you're gonna make a video of yourself.
You're gonna share why you're excited.
You're gonna post it in this group.
Second thing you're gonna do
and this will go in your email, okay?
I'll show you how to do this.
But how many of you have a signature line,
a signature stamp below your name
on every email that goes out?
Does it have your social media icons?
Does it have your phone number?
Does it have your email address?
Okay, I'm gonna teach you,
I'm gonna give you the instructions
how to create a stamp.
It's free.
And from now on, when you show up,
you're showing up full on.
Your signature lets people know how to reach you.
It invites people to reach you.
So two assignments today that you're showing up.
You're showing up in this group for this group, okay?
And you're gonna show up from now on
in your emails with a signature stamp.
That's your assignment for today.
Until tomorrow, we'll be back, 7.30.
I'll be bee-bopping in here.
I'll be dropping cool things.
So keep your notifications on, check it out
because every time God gives me a download,
I'm gonna pass it on to you.
Is that okay?
I'm gonna, every time, wherever I am,
if God gives me a download for you,
I'm gonna be posting it in this group
because I'm playing full on.
I'm so committed to you.
I'm so committed to you breaking through.
I'm so committed to praying for you.
So I wanna thank you for showing up today,
stepping up, and just for being you.
So lots of love.
I'll post the stuff in and in the group
and I'll be emailing you.
So make sure that you gave me your email
and your cell phone number
so I can send you some little text love notes.
We'll see you tomorrow, maybe before.
Lots of love, bye-bye.