And welcome, welcome.
Here we are, October 1st, if you're watching this live, the first day of the final quarter
of 2020.
Can you believe it?
Well, I'm so glad that you are here, and I'm so glad to be able to spend this time with
you.
First day of a new quarter, the final quarter of 2020, full moon, I'm expecting big things.
How about you?
So excited to share with you today a very, very, very important topic, I think, as we
do enter into this final quarter, and that is clarifying our goals, clarifying our goals
for this final quarter of 2020.
So let's begin with prayer, with inviting the Holy Spirit, coming together.
I think this is going to be a very, very important and powerful time together.
I'm excited.
I'm going to share a few things, like usual, and then we're going to mastermind.
We're going to interact together.
So if you're watching this on Facebook at the live at the time, you might want to come
on over to StreamYard, and I'll be able to see you.
Otherwise, leave lots of comments, and I'll be watching for your comments, but to truly
mastermind, it'd be great if we're all together.
So let's start with prayer first.
Father God, I just thank you for this time.
I thank you for your goodness.
I thank you for your mercy.
I thank you for these amazing women, Prosper Coaches, called, anointed, appointed to bring
your kingdom, your peace, your power, your transformation, your goodness.
We invite you here.
We invite the awareness of your Holy Spirit.
We invite the awareness of your presence.
We ask for supernatural wisdom, and understanding, and discernment, and direction.
We give thanks for all these things in Jesus' name, amen, amen.
Welcome, welcome.
So we are talking about clarifying goals.
By the way, if you haven't been in your Prosper by Design certification materials, your training,
it's a good idea to go back through it again.
You're different.
You'll get different things out of it.
So the beginning of this, I pulled directly from that section.
It's in the basic section about clarifying goals, and I thought, how appropriate.
As a coach, you're doing this kind of double thinking, double application, right?
You're thinking about how you can help your clients finish strong.
At the same time, you're looking at yourself.
How can I finish strong?
How can I finish, okay.
And some people look like they're having trouble, can't find a way, okay.
I am live, so refresh.
Okay, can, okay, there's a comment.
I want to make sure you guys can see me, so let me see your comments.
Okay, finally had to go through my personal rather than, okay, I guess it got put in the
wrong place.
I'm glad you're here.
Awesome.
Welcome.
All right, so we are talking about clarifying our goals, and this is pulled directly from
the coach certification training, and so this is a double full training, right?
As we mastermind, you're learning how to apply this in your coaching, and of course, we start
being our own best student, right?
We teach what we most need to know.
All right, so it begins with knowing where you are, knowing where you desire to go.
That's how we get to our preferred.
or destination.
So if you keep this really simple for yourself,
for your coaching clients, get really clear.
Where are you?
Can be in any area of your life, right?
Where are you in your health?
What do we do when we want to know
where we are in our health?
We do a physical, right?
What's our weight?
What's our blood pressure?
What's our heart rate, right?
We do kind of look at where we are.
And then if we need to change,
we can look at where we want to go.
So we can do that with health.
We can do it with relationships.
You can do it with your business.
Where are you?
And what are some of the metrics you can look at
as it comes to your business, okay?
Lead generation.
How many leads do you have on your list
that you're following up with?
Potential clients, potential people in your course,
in your mastermind, right?
How many people on your list?
That's a metric.
How many clients do you have?
That's a metric.
How many do you desire to have?
We're looking at the last quarter, by the end of the year.
That's a metric.
Social media.
How many people do you have on Facebook or LinkedIn
or Instagram, wherever you're working?
That's a metric.
Where are you?
See, we have to know where we are
and we have to know where we want to go.
Can you imagine getting in your car
and trying to set the GPS
and you don't know where you are
or you don't know where you're going?
Fortunately, the GPS helps us know where we are,
but we still have to put in where we're going
or we're going nowhere.
And so we can do this in each of the areas.
Where are you and where do you desire to go?
I love this proverb taken from the Passion Translation
and it says, it's a father talking to his child.
A father talking to his child.
And he went into it with clear goals for his child.
I remember when I homeschooled my kids,
I had two really important goals.
Well, the fundamental one that they would know God, right?
But I wanted them to be well-read
and I wanted them to be able to communicate very well,
both spoken and in writing.
So I had a goal.
How would I get them through school
and have them be well-read,
have them be able to communicate?
And when you have that goal,
then you can make a plan to get there.
And so Proverbs, King Solomon had a goal for his child.
And the goal was, my son, advice,
never drift off course from these two goals for your life.
Here's a father reminding his kid,
hey, there's two goals for your life.
Walk in wisdom and discover discernment.
Wow, I can't imagine being King Solomon's son.
I wish I had parents that would have told me,
walk in wisdom, discover discernment.
And don't ever forget how they empower you.
If you follow these two goals, just remember.
So he's given them the two goals
and he's giving them the why.
You as a coach are gonna help them identify their goals
and help them discover their why.
When you're coaching yourself,
as we're looking at this last quarter,
if you're listening to this real time,
what are your goals and why?
So the first place that you wanna start with your client
and the first place you wanna start with yourself
is take a look at where you are
and start with the good things.
You know, it's so easy to beat ourselves up.
It's so easy to focus on what we lack
and what there's not enough of.
This is the most common.
And you can feel like you're not doing much
or you're not getting anywhere.
I have to remind clients all along how far they've come
and how much they've accomplished
because in their eyes, it feels like it's not fast enough,
it's not enough perhaps,
and perhaps you're feeling that too.
And so remember that whatever you focus on expands.
So if you're focused on what is not working,
you're gonna have more of what's not working.
If you're focusing on lack,
you're gonna have more of lack, right?
If you're focusing on whatever it is,
you're gonna create more of that.
And so if you start by focusing on what's working.
So here's what I want you to do for just a minute here.
I want you to start writing down,
just brainstorm right now and write down
everything that you've accomplished this year.
What have you, when you really stop and think about it.
In 2020, in the middle of a pandemic
with all kinds of craziness,
what were you able to do so far?
What have you learned?
What have you grown?
What have you accomplished?
Could be in any area, your business, your social media,
your health, your relationships, your clients.
Write it down, take a minute and celebrate some wins.
Celebrate some wins.
What have you accomplished in spite of a pandemic?
Some of you been on Prosper TV, that's huge for you.
I know there's a big stretch.
Some of you have launched programs, courses, masterminds,
some of you have gotten bold and shown up online.
Some of you have written some things, created some things.
Some of you have started new habits.
Maybe you've changed your eating.
Maybe you've lost some weight.
Maybe you've cut out some things.
Write it down.
What have you accomplished so far
in the first three quarters?
What can we celebrate together?
Just make a list right now, write it down.
This is important.
There's a lot of things that happen
when we start with the positive and with the wins.
It's how I start every coaching session.
What can we celebrate?
Okay.
All right.
So we're gonna celebrate that
when we get together in the mastermind.
Remember that, we're gonna celebrate that.
We're gonna come back
and we're gonna share some of those things.
And we're gonna build.
And I'm looking, I'm looking at the chat right now.
And we're gonna build.
And I'm looking right now.
Okay, people are having trouble getting on.
Let me go over really quick.
Ah, here it comes.
Okay, Denise is joining.
So, if you need me to send you the invite for StreamYard,
that's the best because we can all be on there.
I'm happy to send that to you.
Just text me right now.
If you're on Facebook and you're watching
but you're not really participating, but you're watching,
say hi.
Say, I'm here.
Put your name.
And we can go with that.
And if you need help with something, text me.
Okay.
It looks like maybe it's in my personal Facebook page
rather than Prosper by Design.
So, okay.
All right, good.
I see that you're here live.
Yvonne, welcome.
Okay.
All right.
And, okay.
Jenny needs an invite.
I'm going to email you an invite right now.
Here it comes.
I'm juggling a lot of bells and whistles.
Okay.
All right.
So, Jenny, I see you in Facebook
and I just emailed you the link.
And I see you, Denise.
I see you, Yvonne.
If there's anyone else I'm missing I'm so glad you're here. This is so important. It's about finishing
strong guys
You've come this far. It's about finishing strong. So let me keep going. I want to just share a few things
This is a refresher from your course and it's some new things and then we're gonna do this together
Okay, so let's just go from here. Okay, so
tool number one that we said
Right is
Knowing where you are and celebrating your wins. Okay tool number two is
Knowing your
optimum
outcome and
why in
other words, where do you
Desire to be there we go. I see Jenny got into yay persistence pays off. All right
Where do you desire to be?
and
We're gonna take some time on this too, I want you to be able to so so here we are October 1st
We've got October November
December and we wrap up 2020
So we open with celebrating what we've done so far up until October 1st
If you're listening to this in real time, you could do it at whatever time of the year you're listening
It may not be fourth quarter for you later. But right now those listening live
Goal setting works any time of the year. You might say I didn't set any goals this year great
The perfect time is right now
Because if you don't know where you're going, how are you gonna know if you get there? I
Talked to someone today. I said, what's your plan? Well, I don't really have a plan
I said well, you know my experience has been if you fail to plan then you plan to fail
So we have to know where we're going like I said, how how do you get your car you just start driving?
Well, you can do that and you'll just end up where you end up and be happy where you end up
We have to know right so
Where do you desire to be and why and then really internalize that what does that optimum outcome that?
Success optimum outcome. What does it look like?
Can you describe it to me pretend I'm a fifth grader
Describe to me what success looks tell me make it plain make it simple
Success looks like having my first client
Success looks like having five clients success looks like, you know finishing with six figures success looks like finishing in seven
What does it look like describe it and then what does it feel like?
That's even better, what does it feel like I
feel a sense of
Gratitude I feel a sense of satisfaction. I I feel a sense of what what do you feel?
and
What's changed as a result of that success?
What reality is different what behavior is different?
What's changed as a result of you getting this optimum outcome
This is not the time to let up so many people come to the end and of the year and they're tired and it's been
Dramatic and it's been chaotic and for many it's been frustrating and confusing and you know, they're tired. It's normal to be tired
You know if you watch any game at the end, the players are tired
But this is when the action happens when others drop off
This is when you press through to the mark you keep your eyes on the mark and you do not let up
This is the time
Okay
So tool number two
What's my optimum outcome are you able to write that in a single sentence?
What does it feel like
What what behavior
What reality has changed for you?
Okay
Number three tool number three, these are all in your prosper by design
Under clarifying goals, but I'm reminding you you're gonna use it on your clients
You're gonna use it on yourself to not tool number three
Who do I need to be
To achieve my outcome now, this is probably the most important
Of course, if you don't know your outcome, you can't answer this. So you've got to come up with your
Outcome right your optimum outcome
But, once you have that, and once you have that, the real question is, who do you need
to be to achieve that?
When you get this, everything changes.
You see, transformation happens from the inside out.
Now, this is an equation that almost everybody, if they have not heard this, they will do
it backwards.
Most people think that if they do things, their human doings, busy do, do, do, if they
do things, then they'll be able to have things, a house, a boat, a car, and then they'll be
something, like happy.
So they think that it goes, do, have, be, if I do something, I can have something, and
then I'll be.
Right?
If I can do something, then I'll have something, then I can be.
The fact is that the miracle happens when you reverse this.
This is one of the most profound things, if you get this.
Reverse this order.
When you start being the person you would be, if you had your goal, if you are a highly
successful, highly sought out coach, who do you need to be, confident, diligent, consistent?
What character traits do you need to have to be the kind of coach that you truly desire
to be?
Persistent?
What is it?
So when you start being the person you would be if you have that goal, guess what?
Guess what?
Naturally, out of your being, you will do the actions, and that opens the way for us
to have what we desire.
It's a fine distinction, but it's very, very, very powerful.
Very powerful.
So each day, I'm going to give you a couple powerful distinctions.
You guys, you know, I've been teaching this for like 30 years.
I've never seen it fail.
There's a couple distinctions.
This is the first big one.
Who do I need to be in order to have that?
If your optimum outcome is to have abundance, let's say financial abundance.
Let's say you haven't been a millionaire yet, and you want to be a millionaire.
Who do you need to be?
And out of that, you're going to do the things.
So I'm going to share a couple of distinctions that will completely change your life if you
apply them.
This is one of them.
So right now, just take a minute and write down a couple of things that come to mind
to answer this question.
When you consider your optimum outcome, who do you need to be?
You're desiring to finish 2020 with an optimum outcome.
My first client, my first five clients, my first six-figure year, my first thousand followers.
What is it?
My first course with 10 people, whatever it is.
What is it for you that you're going to finish 2020 and you're going to be like, ah, I stuck
it out.
I did it.
Let's get to the finish line here.
Who do you need to be?
Do you need to be bold?
That's one I've had to write down many times.
Do you need to be bold?
Do you need to be faithful, full of faith?
Do you need to be willing to take risks?
Do you need to be a producer, a creator instead of a consumer?
Do you need to be consistent?
assistant? Do you need to be available? Do you need to be open, receptive? Who do you
need to be? And then tool number four, remember your first, the way you can remember this
could write this down in your notes. I'm a human being, not a human doing. It starts
with being. It's who am I being? Who am I showing up as? Who am I being? And then we
can move into, what do I need to do? What actions do I need to take? What habits do
I need to create? Maybe I'm trying to change my body. I wanted, I desired to stay healthy
during this pandemic. I started the habit of walking no less than a mile a day. I started
the habit of doing yoga every morning, lifting some weights. I started these habits in order
to be fit, to be strong, to be healthy, right? So what actions? So for you, how are you doing
on consistently reaching out and generating leads? How are you doing on consistently creating
content or writing? How are you doing on consistently networking? How are you doing on growing,
learning something new every day? So what actions do I need to take? What habits do
I need to create? Okay, here's some additional questions. These aren't in the PBD course,
but they're things I've learned over the years that I thought would be helpful for you. Some
more questions for speculation and meditation. You can do this. My goal, my intention for this
is to start the thought process, start the mastermind, and you can use these couple days,
starting this final quarter, to get really clear. Clarity, of course, creates so much. So are there
things you need to release? Are there old mindsets? Are there old beliefs? You know,
there has been incredible breakthrough coming out of this Prosper TV experience. God told me to have
it be an experience. It's not just being on the show, but it's what happens before, during,
after. And it's still going on. I mean, remarkable breakthroughs. Remarkable. And one of the things,
as we're talking here about what do I need to release, you know, it's become very clear to me
that I once heard it said this way, it only takes one grain of sand, one grain of sand in your bed,
one cracker crumb to keep you from getting a good night's sleep. You ever experienced that? Just an
irritating, right? A pebble in your shoe, whatever. It just takes like one, right? In our life,
it just takes one, one lie, one untruth that we buy into completely derails us off of our divine
assignment. I have seen two of those broken off since Prosper TV, two different people that I'm
aware of, probably more happening. Something they've believed maybe since childhood. And it's
that thing. It's that, it's that one lie. You know, you look at what happened in the Garden
of Eden. It's just one untruth. And the untruth in the Garden of Eden was God keeping
something from you
Whereas before up until that point God was good. God could be trusted and
Now can I really trust God? He's holding out on me. He's keeping something for me. Why did God do this to me?
Why did God allow this? Why is God keep we have all of this right and it translates to
I'm not worthy
I'm not loved. I'm not good enough
I'm too late. I
Don't deserve it, whatever the lie is
We're seeing these get broken off
So what do I need to release? Is there a belief that you have held on to?
That has kept you
From really
Rising shining fulfilling your divine call and assignment. There's something kind of like that
What do I need to release another?
Question and these are great questions for you and for your coaching clients. What have I been?
tolerating
Tolerating
You know
My guest bathroom that my son uses has had a broken like
That when it lands it doesn't seal inside and water leaks. And so you have to go jiggle on the handle
to get it to kind of move over and seal because the seal got old that falls on you know when you flush and
so I
Have tolerated for months
Son your toilets leaking my water bills up right son your toilet is leaking go go go shake the handle a little bit make sure it seals
That's called tolerating
That kind of stuff weighs on you the things that you haven't just handled
Yeah, you know being really real with you, right? I was supposed to
Renew my license in March and then the whole Kovat thing hit and DMV was closed and yada yada
And I was supposed to have my eyes tested before I go and so, you know
I've just kept putting this thing off and I figured well after Kovat settles down
I'll go but of course, it's not settling down and I'm realizing all of a sudden
It's like man, my license is like nine months expired. Okay, true confessions here
Because I'm thinking it's a big deal
I gotta go make an appointment at the eye doctor and then I gotta get glasses and then I gotta go to DMV and make
An appointment and it just feels like this big deal and I finally was like no, I'm not tolerating anything
The toilet is fixed
I'm going to go to DMV
There's not gonna be these things on my list that weigh on you and drain your energy
Just deal with it. So I'm just gonna deal with it go to the DMV. Do you know what I?
Didn't have to do any of those things. I got online
You clicked on a thing renew and my DMV was renewed my license was renewed I was making a big thing
I was tolerating it. It wasn't hard. It was harder
Not doing it. It was harder constantly going in and jiggling this
Frickin handle them fixing it any of you know what I'm talking about
Any of you relate? What are you tolerating?
Are you tolerating what have you been tolerating that really if you get this done you could finish
2020 without these little little sucker fish on you draining you
Because they do that
So what needs to happen for you to feel terrific?
What needs to happen if XYZ happened? I feel terrific. What is that?
What is that what needs to happen for you to feel terrific
What do you need to add?
What do you need to learn what skill set do you need to add?
What do you need help with
And
Where might you get that help?
There is help available. I
Was reading it'll be in the blog post. I think it goes out tomorrow. I was reading
in the book of Acts, I think it's around Acts 6 and
there's a story in there and
the widows they weren't getting that the Hellenistic Greek Jews were not getting the
distribution that the Jewish were getting and
So they went to the Apostles and they're like we need to solve this and the
Apostle said something that could have really sounded like pride,
like they're just, you know, high and mighty, but he said,
are we supposed to get off track of what we're called to do and
go wait tables? Now that could sound like,
Oh, you think you're too good to wait tables? No,
they're staying in the lane of their divine assignment.
God had called them to preach the word, to bring in new churches.
So they came up with a solution,
find people of good character and get some people delegate,
delegate, delegate, read, read the blog post. It'll be up here.
But the point was Joyce Myers in, in, um,
in the Bible had a little commentary in the amplified translation
and God will supply all your needs according to his
riches. And that includes people to help you.
So my article was one of the biggest mistakes we make is
solopreneurs try to be solo.
They try to do everything by themselves and it's a mistake. And I explain why.
It takes you off your design, your divine assignment.
What do you need help with and where can you get it? These days,
there's so much affordable,
available ways to get help. Okay.
What would you do this year, 2020, if you knew you could not fail?
And I want to finish with this thought, and then we're going to mastermind.
I've always told you progress, not perfection.
Proverbs 15 to says the life path of the prudent
lists them progressively heavenward,
delivering them from death,
from the death spiral that keeps them turning downward.
You're either progressing upward or you're progressing downward.
So I want to share something for you to use over the next few months.
This part's not in the coaching.
This is bonus for you showing up at the mastermind.
I like to give you over deliver, give you even more than you get.
That's why we have these masterminds. Okay.
So I want to talk about what's called the 1% rule.
The 1% rule. I've seen James Altucher talk about this.
I've seen a couple other people bring it into play.
And the 1% rule is simple.
Improve just 1% each
day.
Improve just 1% each day.
And the idea is that if you do this,
it's like compounding interest in a bank account.
Your good habits stack over time.
It compounds.
So if you improve a little each day, it compounds.
When 1% compounds every day,
it doubles every 72 days.
So compounding tiny excellence is
what creates big excellence.
Can you get 1% better a day? Now this makes it really simple.
It says you get roughly eight hours of sleep at night.
That's 16 waking hours for you to do something to improve.
16 times 60 is 960 minutes.
So 1% of 960 is 9.6.
In other words,
if every day you would just add 10 minutes of something
positive into your life,
you'd become unstoppable.
So when it comes to being a coach,
when it comes to growing your coaching business or your health or your
relationships or whatever,
your predominant goal or all of the above,
continue to ask yourself,
what could I do today to just improve by 1%?
I'm telling you,
if you even did a half a percent,
if you just looked at what you could do every day,
just a half a percent more,
you're going to see phenomenal change in your life.
Okay? So let's join together.
Let's mastermind those of you that came in here.
I'm going to add you to the stream.
And if you turn your cameras on, that's much better.
But if you don't want to,
we're going to see a blank and,
At least we can hear you.
I believe you can, let's see, I'm unmuting you.
But maybe it looks like you maybe have to unmute yourself.
It looks like two of you are muted right now.
Okay, there comes Yvonne.
Okay, Denise, are you able to join us?
I know it's three hours later for you.
At least unmute yourself.
There we go.
I can hear you now.
Okay.
All right, and I'm assuming you don't want your camera on.
No, I'll forgo that.
Okay, all right.
I know, you get grace, you get three hour later grace.
So you guys, that blank black box right there.
And for those of you that are listening on Facebook,
I will just watch for comments over there.
And I will also check the private chat,
but I'll be watching comments.
Those of you guys that are watching on Facebook
and those of you that are brave enough that you showed up,
then we'll go from there.
So let's start here.
Let me turn the banner off.
There we go.
Okay, make some more room.
All right, better.
Okay, so let's start celebrating first.
So let's go through this process just a little bit, okay?
And so you guys can put in Facebook,
you can put it in the chat and I'll watch for that.
And those of you that are live, what can we celebrate?
When, and was it a surprise when you looked at 2020,
have you done more than maybe you gave yourself credit for,
or you thought about?
Yeah, go ahead and share, I'd love to hear.
Oh, well, can you hear me?
Yep, I can hear you.
Okay, hi.
Well, I certainly made it to California
after being in Nevada and having a closure
to my father's life.
And I made it into a trailer and started coaching
with Brenda and got on Prosper TV.
And I've been doing more lives and did my first challenge
and just kind of hitting it hard and trying to grow
and see some new, a new life.
You know what?
That's a lot.
And one year in the middle of COVID, so I celebrate you.
You closed out things with your father and all of that.
You bought a trailer, you traveled across country,
you invested in yourself and got coaching.
I know you cause I'm your coach.
You also invested in yourself to get a website.
You showed up on Prosper TV.
You showed up with a mastermind.
This is applause here.
We celebrate, we celebrate you.
We celebrate you.
That's a lot in a year.
That's in the middle of a COVID year, we celebrate you.
Remember that, you know, when you start to feel
like things aren't going fast enough, we celebrate you.
All right, somebody else.
Let me check the comments here.
Let's see.
Okay, they're just waiting and celebrating right now
over there on Facebook, they're celebrating you.
Okay, all right.
Anyone else?
Can we celebrate you?
Okay, I'll jump in and get mine going.
So in the midst of COVID started in no direct order.
So got the podcast up and running.
I actually just got certified with this year.
Started a morning prayer with Tabatree on Prosper TV.
Won one of the challenges that you put out
a few months back.
And I'm committing to showing up.
Amen, amen, woo-hoo, we celebrate you.
Lots of big stuff.
You know, you did show up in so many ways.
You invested in yourself, you know, to become a coach.
You have showed up in networking, showed up in praying,
showed up in challenges, even winning challenges.
Yeah, I love it.
Showed up on Prosper TV in a big way.
Congratulations, you know, we celebrate you.
We celebrate you, woo-hoo.
All right, okay, anyone else?
Denise can we celebrate you? I see you there being quiet. Can we celebrate you?
I'm watching. I'm kind of at a loss and you know I'm sure that there's plenty to
celebrate and yet I don't know if I'm just tired but I'm sitting here thinking
surely there must be something that I can celebrate and yet I'm you know
nothing is really popping up and interestingly enough or probably not
that interestingly enough part of me is actually fighting against the oh I
didn't do that oh man they already did that I didn't and and so I'm quiet
because I'm just kind of watching this whole thing go on as I'm you know
comparing and judging and trying to come up with something so I don't feel
embarrassed and and just the whole thing it's just so yeah really and can we take
a minute and celebrate you as your coach I know a little bit more about you than
maybe other people could we bring attention of maybe some of the amazing
things that you've done you in the middle of kovat as a school teacher
have to completely learn an entire many new systems to be able to effectively
teach oh that's true we yeah that's true that's not we celebrate you as one of
the most important people in children's life right now on top of that did you
create probably one and we're so glad I see you guys coming and Kim if you can
come on over to to the other site where we can see you that'd be awesome but
otherwise I'm following you guys over on Facebook so Denise we celebrate what
you've done you've learned multiple you had to learn so many systems and move
curriculum online and stay online and find ways to keep these kids attention
and help them when they're wanting to tune out on top of doing all of that we
celebrate you lovingly taking care of your parents including multiple trips to
doctors and hospitals and being there and running at the drop of a hat and on
top of that we celebrate that you have created what I believe is one of the
most amazing kids curriculums kids coaching that I've ever ever seen
incredible that you have done with a broken arm that is so funny you've done
a lot Denise and you're a mom and we celebrate you running dogs to vets my
goodness we celebrate you okay let me come over to Facebook and let me see
here I'm trying to see who goes with what so let me see put you guys's names
in there um Kim is that you putting pickleball tournament is that you can
you guys put in your name and what goes with what just type your name in real
quick because I it's not showing who things are on mine I'm not I'm not
seeing just says Facebook user so I want to celebrate you but who wrote down took
part in my first huge pickleball tournament who's that put in a name okay
all right I'll wait to hear from you guys as as we continue to to celebrate
you I'm just waiting for a second okay okay there's Carmel okay oh both of them
were Carmel okay so Kim you haven't written anything you just joined and so
what we're talking about is what have you accomplished so far in 2020 that we
can celebrate so in the meantime let's celebrate Carmel together so Carmel's
both Holmes and Reynolds found a space for a new spa in Texas that's
It's an incredible story.
I bought her a spa treatment, and now she
owns one in Texas.
Incredible.
Securing finances after her SBA loan went bust from the pandemic,
grew her mailing list, finished a book,
secured huge sport teams for a corporate partnership
for the spa, grew her blog following
and her social media following quadrupled,
took part in first huge pickleball
tournament in Carson City.
And today, celebrating one year playing pickleball.
Woo-hoo!
We celebrate you, Carmel.
We celebrate you.
I know you've been through lots of hard times,
and you are more than a conqueror.
And we celebrate you for that.
OK, Kim, the question, we've reviewed where we've been in 2020
and where we're going in 2020.
So we started where we've been.
What can you celebrate?
What have you accomplished so far in 2020?
We always start with our wins, and then we
move to the next part as far as where we're going.
Where we're going, OK?
So what can we celebrate as we're clarifying goals, right?
Where we are, where we're going, OK?
And then we're going to move back to this,
the optimum outcome and the why.
So let's verbalize it.
In the tongue is the power of life and death.
We want to collectively, as a mastermind,
celebrate your ideal outcome and pray into it
and encourage you that, yes, you can, and yes, you will,
and we are with you.
So let me come back to the comments,
and I'll see, Kim, or if you want to come in to StreamYard
and just talk, that's easier too,
whichever is better for you.
So let's talk about your optimum outcome,
where you desire to be.
We're in the final quarter of 2020.
You shall decree a thing, and it will be established.
I want to remind you the mind, heart, mouth connection.
The mind is the thoughts.
The heart is the feeling.
That's the soil.
The thought is the seed.
We plant it in the soil of our heart,
and we harvest it with our mouth.
We speak it.
And one question I've been thinking a lot about
is, is your mouth in alignment with what you desire?
Are your words in alignment?
Are you speaking that which you desire
or that which you don't desire?
What gets more word power?
I was listening to Dr. Creflo Dollar,
and he was talking about how our life and all these things
that God has created are voice-activated, voice-activated.
Our faith is voice-activated.
We call those things that are not as though they were.
The world being created was voice-activated.
The power of life, voice-activated.
The power of death, voice-activated.
Decree a thing, voice-activated, and it is established.
So are your words in alignment with the word?
Like we talked about before, and with what you desire?
All right, who would like to share?
And I'm still waiting to celebrate you, Kim.
I don't see you listing some of the things from this year.
And don't tell me you didn't do anything,
or we'll come in there and help you that you did.
Because I know you've been doing a lot of things,
leading masterminds.
And yeah, you've been starting challenges.
You've been doing a lot.
Let's let us celebrate you.
In the meantime, anybody that wants to come in now
and declare and decree their optimum outcome
before the end of the year,
what is it that you desire to accomplish
before the end of the year
that you're going to feel so good about?
2020. What is it? Okay. Go ahead, Yvonne. That's awesome. Okay. Well, I'm going to decree at least
five clients before the end of the year. Minimal. We stand with you. Well, I should say five paying
clients. Okay. Okay. All right. I love that. And so I'm writing it down because I'm going to be
in agreement with you and I'm going to be asking you about it. So five clients and tell me why.
I believe I have a lot of, I have clients, but not paying clients. So I, for me, it's like I,
in a sense will be validated that I'm actually doing what I believe God has called me to do.
And the word says that your gift makes room for you. So to me establishes that it makes me have
to commit to really dig in and do my part because God's not short of his word. Nice. So who do you
need to be to have those five clients? I need to be someone that knows that they have something to
offer to people and that I can help be a game changer in their areas where they're struggling.
Do you have something valuable to share? I do have something valuable where I can,
I can give them tools to empower them to get out of there yesterday and really live in their
God purpose. That's what I want to hear. That's, I love the confidence, the way that you said that.
Thank you. Thank you. Let's celebrate you. Woo hoo. And we stand, we stand in agreement. We
stand in agreement with you. So, so five clients, it requires you doing some lead generation.
I was, I was sharing today. Um, uh, I was sharing that there's two sides on one side. We're creating
content or a course or, you know, whatever it is that we're doing for the actual physical.
And on the other side, we're building relationships and we're generating leads. Okay. Um,
so the pipeline needs to be filled and that can be done for free if you do the work.
And so how do you generate the leads? Free speaking, networking online and off,
uh, reaching in and groups and communicating with people, uh, direct messaging, building
relationships, asking questions, calling people, taking people out to whatever you're you're,
you need to have the pipeline full. That's if you do it for free yourself or you pay to have
someone else do it for you. You hire someone good at advertising and you pay. Right. Um, so
it's very important to be realistic to have the five clients. That means you need to have 10
probably free breakthrough calls, right? I mean, you may get a hundred percent, then have five
calls and you get a hundred percent, but a lot of us don't get a hundred percent. Some people have
to think about it or come up with the money or talk to someone or whatever. And so chances are
you may need to have at least 10 breakthrough calls. So your focus then becomes, I need to
have 10 breakthrough calls and you have a prospect list, you know, lead generation list,
and you're focused on reaching out to a few people, at least, you know, two or three people a
day, talking to people, building relationship, being in groups, posting, podcasting, doing the
things you're doing to generate leads. Okay. Jenny, how about you?
Well, let's see. I'd like to do a minimum of two more challenges before the end of the year.
And I'd like those to be my lead generation focus. So I'm maybe doing a little bit of
Facebook advertising for that. And then connecting up, I'd like to do, I'd like to
have one course that I can redo over and over and start a series that I can build. And I'd like to
have a mastermind group. And one coaching.
Client that's paid, okay
All right
We celebrate you we celebrate
those
Outcomes and you've decreed a thing and it will be established and how many of you commit to continue to pray with
Yvonne with me for these holes, you know
Absolutely
Okay, all right, so going back circling back around her Kim over here on Facebook she finished
Certification
With leading the field program. She's been caring for her mother. She's been homeschooling her grandkids
Spiritual awakening she has created and hosted a weekly mastermind group that house tripled
she has launched and
certified in fitness and nutrition program
So we celebrate you Kim way to go. That's amazing. We're so
Happy to hear that and Kim says she decrees to create one summit
One summit I'm writing this down so I can be praying for you guys to
One summit two or three challenges so pick two or three and get them on the calendar
and to be debt-free, so I assume you've got a number to do that and
So we stand with you
We pray with you
and agree we touch and agree with you that you will be able to do that and
I have a great system for being debt-free you reach out to me and I'll share that with you
It's fun and it kind of gets momentum going. So I love that love that
Okay
Let me hear from
Carmel or Denise
What do you declare and decree before?
2020 is out
I
Declare that I'm going to have my children's program complete. Amen
and
My fabulous program, oh, thank you. I'm excited. I really am it's
One a bigger and bigger
And also
that I
that I have representation in my website and
My brand that is updated so that it's current and it's reflective of the direction that God's moved me in
Love it
We stand with you. We touch and we agree and if you guys have this written down
I'll try to maybe put it in the Facebook group. Let's pray and remember and hold each other up
Let's see who else
Did you let me just see I'll try to look at the notes here if you put
Carmel you have not said I don't think
What you're declaring and decreeing for 2020, let me know and
And
Okay, let's see here it is, okay finalize and fund
her building loan begin construction on her spot in Texas
Launch her new book and on line class. All right
We celebrate with you
Make a note of that myself continue to pray for you. I have been and I will continue
So we're praying for your loan and your construction starting in your spa
We're gonna all have to take a trip to Texas and do her float spot in, Texas
launch her new book and
Her online class. All right. I love it for milk. Congratulations. We celebrate you
We pray we touch and we agree
Okay
Anything coming up for you guys that you would love in addition to what we've mentioned
Is there a question? Is there a challenge? Is there a roadblock? Is there something you want us to pray?
Is there any way?
We did not get to mastermind as not much
I felt this was really important to just have you speak out and be clear for this final quarter
I felt that was a super important kind of
Marker was that helpful for?
for you to really think that way for the next three months?
Was that useful for you?
Yeah.
Okay.
Any questions, comments, concerns,
things you need help with?
And for all the rest of you that are not getting the benefit
of being live, you get so much more by attending live
than watching other people afterwards.
So I encourage you to participate.
We're every other week together here.
Okay, let's see.
Question, what liability insurance
do you recommend for coaches?
It's a basic, almost any one of you that have insurance,
they have a basic liability that is used.
They do not tend to like life coaches.
So it's often better to phrase it as consultant
or a little bit different wording
or it becomes a little harder to get the insurance.
So that is something I would look into.
My normal insurance is through farmers
and he found one through what was called Hiscox,
which I think may be a side of that,
that they do the liability insurance.
And so that's one that I'm familiar with.
I do, if you private message me,
I do have someone I know that has told me in the past
that they offer liability insurance for coaches
and I can look that up.
I don't have it on the tip of my tongue,
but I also do know that one as well.
So I can try to go back and find that someone
that I've met through networking
that has done the liability for a lot of coaches.
Okay.
All right.
And who's commenting just so I can go back to you?
Is that Carmel that's writing that?
Okay.
All right.
Anybody else, questions, comments?
Okay.
All right, then.
I celebrate your wins.
I stand and agree with you
on your plans that you prosper
and that you finish strong in these few months.
We're continuing to, can I, Tony Robbins,
constant and never ending improvement.
So every week there's new changes happening
in the Prosper Membership site to make it even better,
to promote you better, to really add so much value.
We're continuously adding more and more things.
So of course, Ingrid's TV show
is out on the platform and Earlene's is out this week.
Each week, a new one comes out.
So please tag, share, like,
as you serve each other that way, everybody wins.
So please do that.
Of course, Jimmy is next week.
And then Linda is on the 14th, incredibly powerful.
Yvonne is on the 21st.
Cindy is on the 28th.
I believe that's the schedule they've got.
And Jackie's the following week.
So we're gonna have such a lineup.
And the beauty is that it's like this updraft
as each person is added and tagging and sharing.
It just brings them to notice all the other episodes.
And so that everybody keeps getting new viewers
and new people.
And we are upgrading some even more things.
You're gonna see some really big changes
over this next week or so.
We're gonna do a real official launch in a few weeks
to even promote it further with massive advertising.
So all kinds of fun.
things happening that way. Um, so be sure to get in, like,
and share it.
You guys should have all joined the membership site as a free member and then
you automatically get upgraded. If you are, um, uh,
in your first year with prosper coaching, or if you have renewed,
then it's free for you guys. Um, if you're sending people, of course,
they can come in and watch all kinds of free stuff. Uh, right now,
I do have a discount. They can enter in the code member,
save capital M capital S member save,
and they can get a whole year of the membership for $97.
So tons of value, the challenges, the Bible studies,
the masterminds, the just tons of value. So, um,
that's all going forward as continue to support you and, uh,
and grow you. I'm super excited for what each one of you have done.
I celebrate, I just,
I completely celebrate your accomplishments, your courage,
your growth, your love, and who you are. And, um,
so we'll close with prayer. Um, maybe Yvonne,
will you close this in prayer? That'd be awesome.
Okay. Um, dear Lord, in the mighty name of Jesus father,
we come giving you honor and praise Lord.
We thank you for mastermind that coaches prospered by design coaching.
Father, we thank you for the fellowship. We thank you for the sisterhood.
Father, we just ask that we will continue to be, um,
empowered by you and move in unity to do your will on earth.
Father special prayer for the ladies that were able to speak what, what,
where they're at, uh, for Jenny Lord, you know,
where her desires are with the mastermind. Father God,
we ask that you would just open those doors,
give her a lot of creativity to move her business forward.
We thank you for Kimberly. We thank you for what you're doing with her.
She wants to be debt free father God, as well as, uh, another summit.
So father God,
we just ask that you would open those doors right now in the mighty name of
Jesus. Father, we thank you for your diligence.
Father, we thank you Lord that, uh, even,
even though she's taking care of her parents,
she's still pressing in toward the mark of the high call.
Bless her and give her a special anointing father to continue this year.
We, we thank you in advance for her book launch.
We thank you in advance for, um, uh,
for the update father God that she's desiring.
We ask that you would open every door that needs to be open and close every
door that needs to be closed. We thank you. We thank you for the spa.
We thank you for the idea that you've given her as a business.
We ask Lord that there be no lack or hindrance that she goes forth in this
long and we speak and decree favor over that loan in the mighty name of Jesus.
We thank you for the launching of her book,
that it would bless many as they read, continue to bless Brenda. Lord,
as she leads according to your will,
we ask that you will continue to watch over us,
keep us until we all come together again,
bless each household and keep us safe in Jesus name. We pray. Amen.
And God bless.
Amen. Thank you. And we bless Yvonne.
And in the five clients, we thank you Lord. All right.
We get back together again, of course, on the 15th.
So in two weeks and, um, I'll be reaching out.
I'm going to be having you guys as prosper coaches stepping up and leading some
of these masterminds and, um, just continuing to hone your skills.
So be ready. This is your place to get stretched, to grow,
to be loved, um, all in the,
the wonderful sisterhood that we have. So I love you guys.
We'll see you again in a couple of weeks. God bless you.
You're welcome.