Just a handful of you on this early orientation
and that's okay.
I'll give you a chance to ask any questions
that you need to ask before the end, all right?
And so I'm just gonna go over some best practices here
with you guys.
I'm not gonna keep you long.
I'm gonna go over what you can expect.
That's really important part of orientation
and how it all works.
So first and foremost, I'm so excited for you.
I just saw someone post in the group in the challenge group
and say, I just joined the program
and I feel like my whole life is about to change.
And it is, that is not a lie.
It is going to change.
And the process of changing
is not necessarily going to feel great at first.
And so I wanna go ahead and give you that.
Just because something hurts a little bit
or it's a little hard at first
doesn't mean that it's not gonna be worth it.
It doesn't have to be easy.
It just has to be worth it, right?
And so that's the most important part of that.
So depending on how many layers you got on you
of counterfeits,
depending on how much stuff you've been through,
how much trauma directly related to relationships,
not just romantic,
but other types of relationships as well
is in your life, in your heart,
have to weigh in those heart boxes
that that is going to be what this first five weeks
of your life looks like.
And so I wanna encourage you, don't fall off, don't quit.
If you have to go a little slower than five weeks,
that's fine.
If you end up taking two or three weeks
to just go through the first week,
whatever you need to do, we will be here for you.
And you won't be alone
because there will always be other ladies
in the same place that you are in the program,
if that makes sense, okay?
And I want you to get to know each other.
We have all kinds of opportunities
for you to get to know each other,
for you to pray for each other,
all different types of things where you feel supported
and you feel seen, known, and loved in this community
and by heaven.
In fact, let me just tell you this.
You know, a lot of you know my story
and I have, you know,
dealt with a lot of abandonment issues in my life.
I've been on my own from a very young age,
like my mid-teens.
And today I had to do some things
that I was really putting off
because they kind of scared me.
And maybe you've been putting off the type of work
that you're about to do with us because it's scary
and you really don't know what's gonna come up
or you don't know what to expect.
And so I've been putting some things off
because I just felt unprotected.
And I wanna let you know that you are protected,
you are God-defended,
and you're gonna see that more and more
as you progress through this first five weeks
of how intentionally involved God is in your life
and how he has brought you here.
And so my prayer today,
I was crying actually earlier today
over some of the things that I'm doing in my life.
And I just said to God,
I just wanna feel looked after.
And I just wanna release that over you right now.
I was just saying that to the Lord through tears.
I just wanna feel looked after,
like I'm being looked after.
Like when we're children,
if you have a good mother,
then you're looked after, right?
Your needs are not just met, but also preempted.
Like a good mother knows what her child has needed
before they even start crying for it, right?
She knows about what time that child's gonna wanna eat
or go to sleep.
And a good mother is already ahead of the curve,
a focused mother, an intentional mother,
an intentional father.
And so all my life, I felt like I was on my own
and that there was no one looking after me,
that I was unprotected, that life wasn't safe.
The world wasn't safe, right?
And so one of the main things that's gonna happen to you
as you come through this first five weeks of the program
is you are gonna feel fathered.
You are gonna feel mothered,
like you never have been before.
Not smother mothered, not controlled.
A lot of times when we find spiritual leadership
in our lives, it's sort of like a controlling type of thing,
but it's not gonna be like that.
You're gonna feel protected and safe and looked after
and cared for and seen and known and loved,
not just by the people around you in the program,
your coaches, myself, but also by heaven.
And so for a lot of you,
that's going to be so healing and so life-changing
in and of itself.
So that was kind of a word that I felt like
I wanted to release over this group of ladies
that are starting today.
So let's talk about some of the things that you can expect.
Let me go over a little housekeeping at first.
So if you have not joined the Facebook group,
please join it.
And then after you're in that phase one Facebook group
and all the links for that are in the email series
that we're sending you,
if you for some reason are not getting emails,
go ahead and raise your little avatar hand
if you've not received any confirmation emails,
information emails from us since joining the program.
Okay, no hands are up, that's good.
But because this is being recorded,
I will go ahead and say to all those
that are watching and replay,
if you have not gotten emails.
It's possible that you gave us a typo when you entered your email address, that you put a typo
in it. That happens more often than you think. So please email us at admin, A-D-M-I-N at Jackie
Dorman, J-A-C-K-I-E D-O-R-M-A-N dot com. So admin at Jackie Dorman dot com. That is what you want
to do. Email us and let us know, hey, I'm not getting the emails. I haven't gotten any of
the emails with the information about how to access my materials, how to create my account,
how to get to my Facebook classroom. That's just a bonus classroom. If you're not on Facebook for
some reason, good news. In two weeks or shorter, we're going to have everything on an app that you
can download for free. Whether you have a Droid or an iPhone, you'll be able to have it right on
your phone. You'll have the community on your phone. You'll have the resources on your phone.
You'll have the events on your phone. All you have to do is hit a link and go straight to the
Zoom when it's time for your event. It'll be great. Who's excited about that? I am. I'm very
excited about that. And so in just a couple of weeks, about halfway through your phase one,
you will have access to that. And that's going to be incredible. And that's going to make the
transition to phase two and phase three so seamless, because as of right now, you go into
the challenge Facebook group, you go into phase one Facebook group, and then you go into phase
two Facebook group, and then you go into phase three Facebook group, right? And so that's really
clunky. And a lot of people don't even like to use Facebook. And so we invested in this app that is
really phenomenal. And it'll be everything right at your fingertips that you need, including the
community, the same type of community that you have on Facebook, like the newsfeed and all the
pictures and videos and whatever it is that you want to post and your homework and whatever you're
doing in your phase will be right there on your phone. And then also, if you don't use your phone
like that, on your laptop, you'll have the it's a it's a web based app. So you can use it also on
your laptop if that's what you prefer. Alright, so that's exciting. And that's coming so soon.
They said by March 1, and maybe sooner. So I'm very, very excited about that. You'll be the
first class that really gets to, you know, start the program that way. So back to little housekeeping.
So you were in that challenge Facebook group, but when you join Facebook group phase one,
for your heart work, please remove yourself from the challenge group. Why? Because it's confusing
for you. A lot of people end up posting their videos or the things that they want to talk about
that are happening to them in phase one in the challenge group, because they don't know where
they are. And so it's important for you to just go ahead and remove yourself from the challenge
group. You don't need it anymore. There's nothing that we're going to post there that you need to
know about everything that we're going to be posting in your actual program groups are all
that you're going to need to know. But do not leave the challenge group before you get safely and
securely into phase one Facebook group. Okay, why? Because then we can't find you. We don't know what
your Facebook name is, we can't find you. If for some reason you're not getting the emails, then we
don't know where you are. And so make sure that you leave that group after you're you've been
approved and you're admitted to the phase one group. Okay, how many of you are already in the
phase one Facebook group? Raise your hand. You're already there. Put your hands up. I can see you.
So if you're on camera, just raise your hand. All right, there's a lot of you. All right,
so you can go ahead and safely remove yourself from the challenge group. All right. Good stuff.
And then when you go to phase two, you'll already be in the app. So I'm not going to tell you how
to do it, because it's going to be completely different and great. So it's going to be good.
All right. So what you'll see in that phase one Facebook group is just community. All right,
you'll see community there. There'll be a weekly roll call post put up every Monday, asking you
how you're doing, what's going on. There'll be reminders about your live coaching that happens
every Monday at one and eight. Like right now, there's live coaching going on. And tonight,
there'll be live coaching going on. So 1pm Eastern, 8pm Eastern, that's your live coaching
call. Y'all don't need to be there because you haven't started the program yet. So you go to
your KajabiJackieDorman.com portal, and you're going to log in, and you're going to create your
login. That's what's in those emails that we send to you after you registered. And then you'll be
able to see all of your coursework. You guys, this coursework has been laid out week by week on
purpose. And we do not want you to rush ahead in the curriculum. Can we stop you? No, we can't stop
you. If you want to binge at all and try to get to phase two in one week, your master heartwork
coach, Bethany, is going to know when you request phase two, that you did phase one in one and a
half weeks. And she's going to call you out on it. She's going to say, Hey, you know, why are
you trying to rush through this very supernatural process? I want to let you know in my experience,
in all the success that we have in this program,
It happens faster for the people that really focus on themselves for these five weeks.
We can't force you to go on a dating sabbatical, but we're going to ask you to.
We can't force you to get off the dating apps and put them on pause, but we're going to
ask you to.
We can't force you to focus on the curriculum and really allow that supernatural heart healing
process to happen, but we're going to ask you to because we know that that's the secret
sauce of what happens next.
So do it for yourself.
Do it for your future lineage and legacy.
Understand that the reason why you are single is not just because you haven't met him yet
or not just because you haven't been in the right communities or you haven't met the right
people to introduce you.
One of the main reasons that you are stuck in your love life is because you're stuck
on the inside, not the outside.
So you guys, it's only five weeks.
That means you're still set up for a summer of love.
It's all good.
It literally is still winter time, right?
For everyone's like, I want a summer body.
I want a summer body.
I want a bikini body.
Bikini bodies start in the winter time.
They don't start in the summertime.
They start in the winter, don't they?
And also prevention's worth a pound of cure.
And so it's about you really focusing on this.
Now phase two, your love story accelerator, your dating coaching.
It's fire too.
Don't rush through that either.
You're not going to have to, because you're already going to be out dating again, so you're
not going to feel that FOMO going on.
But a lot of people do have FOMO in the first five weeks.
They wanted to be married last year, so they don't want to wait another five weeks to meet
him.
Come on, y'all.
In fact, I just got, let me show you this, got to trust the process.
I'm going to show you this.
This little chicky mama just got engaged two days ago to one of our guys.
So this is a guy from our program and a girl from our program just got engaged.
They've only known each other for four months, you guys.
That's how fast it can accelerate when you do your heart work.
Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
All right.
So let's focus on the heart work part, shall we?
Yes.
I just got that in my inbox this morning.
So that's an encouragement for you.
All right.
Let's talk about some of the things you're going to experience if you really allow the
heart work to do its work.
What are you going to experience?
Don't mail it in because you're a therapist or a counselor or a coach or because you're
so-so teacher, you've done all kinds of therapy or inner healing.
This is different.
It's very different.
It's not going to be like anything that you've experienced before and God brought you here
to do it.
So remember, you're having a divine appointment.
Very, very important.
All right.
So if you're a therapist or a coach or a counselor or a leader of some kind, we want
you to take that hat off here.
You get to just do you, boo.
You don't have to lead anybody else.
It's going to feel so freeing for a lot of you.
I know you're going to see other people struggling and it's going to be so hard for you not to
try to fix it for them.
You're going to see your sisters posting and struggling.
It's going to be so hard for you not to give out your personal phone number and say, call
me anytime.
I'll be there for you.
I'll help you.
I'll coach you.
That's how we have people on our team that are master heartwork coaches.
You don't need to do that.
You can actually focus on yourself and we're going to actually insist that you do.
Okay.
Because this only works if you focus on yourself.
So many therapists and coaches and counselors become that because they know how to help
other people, but they don't know how to get healthy themselves.
And so it's important that we just focus on ourselves during this time.
Right?
Remember the, this, the saying that you can, you can coach, but you can't play, right?
Right.
Well, my experience with sports, cause I used to be in sports is the best coaches were people
that were former athletes.
So it's time for you to really, you know, allow yourself to be healed, healthy, and
whole in ways that you don't even know you need it.
And then you'll just be better at what it is that you're called to do when this is all
over.
Okay.
So take this time for yourself.
All right.
So what are you going to experience in this first five weeks?
I, I, I warn you about this and I'm going to warn it in orientation.
And I know warning sounds so like negative, I'm going to advise you on it.
And then so that you, when it shows up, you're like, Oh yeah, Jackie told us that this could
happen so that you know what's going on, but you're also in the materials in first week
of the materials.
You'll see it again.
Okay.
These exact same things that I'm about to tell you.
All right.
So you're going to expect some things.
You remember that book that was out, even if you've never had a baby, it was called
what to expect when you're expecting.
So that's kind of what I'm about to do.
What you expect.
as your heart is healing in phase one of heart work, okay?
To feel all the feels.
You can expect to feel a lot of feelings,
especially if you're someone who doesn't feel a lot
and someone who, you know, you haven't cried in a long time.
I'm one of those people, I don't cry a lot,
but when I cry, oh baby,
it's like five years of tears coming out.
And you might be afraid of that.
You're like, if I start crying, I'm never gonna stop.
And that might feel, you might feel that way.
For some of you that really value keeping it together,
you have a lot of self-control,
you're a really balanced person, okay?
You show up in person put together,
you might feel a little messy.
You might feel a little messy during this first phase.
And you know what, it's okay.
God wants you to know that you're allowed to be messy.
Because some of you like having it all together
is a trauma response.
You're so responsible, but that's a fancy word for fear.
You fear anyone seeing you that you're messy.
You don't think that you are, you know,
valued or worthy of love outside of your perfectionism.
And we need to rip that layer off,
because it's counterfeit, it's a counterfeit.
So I know who you are, y'all.
You do 50 things before 8 a.m., bravo, sister.
But you're gonna feel a little out of pocket
in this first phase.
And that is by design.
God wants you to kind of let it all hang loose,
let your hair down a little bit, right?
So feel all the feels,
because we have to feel the feels to heal the feels.
That is something that God told me many, many years ago.
He said, Jack, you got to feel the feels to heal the feels.
And that is true.
So those feelings want to be recognized.
They want to be honored.
The trauma that you've been through
wants you to acknowledge it.
We've got to honor our trauma.
I know that sounds crazy,
but we have to honor the things that we've been through,
including the hard things.
We have to recognize them.
We have to acknowledge them.
We have to hold a space of honor for our life experiences
so that God can do Romans 8, 28,
work it all to your good.
Do you see how that works?
A lot of you haven't seen how the bad things
that have happened in your life
have been worked to good yet.
And the reason why is because you refuse
to hold space for those things, okay?
This is not eternal sunshine and spotless mind.
We don't just go through hard things
that just keep moving real fast
and then hope that stuff doesn't catch up with us.
It's with you all the time.
So it's time to take a good look at it
and allow God to bring good from it, right?
Second, feel angry, weepy, irritable, alert,
like highly alert and maybe even on a hair trigger.
You might feel like you have a little chronic PMS
during this first phase
where you're a little more irritable than normal.
You're a little more sassy than normal.
You're possibly a little bit more angry than normal.
I call anger hurt and fears bodyguard.
So if anger shows up,
you're gonna learn with your heart work tools
to immediately assess where am I hurting?
What am I afraid of with that frustration,
that anger, that irritability,
because that is just protecting a wounded part of you
whenever it shows up.
So we gotta figure out when it shows up,
we gotta with Holy Spirit,
we gotta figure out where it's really coming from, okay?
Especially if you're having a level 10 response
to a level two situation.
Why are you overreacting?
Because there's something rooted there in that situation
that is really still hurting inside of you, okay?
Or fearful inside of you.
All right.
All right, drama is something that people report
during the first five weeks.
You maybe have a drama free life
and you like a drama free life
and then all of a sudden drama starts knocking on your door,
as I like to call it, all hell breaking loose.
You go outside and someone's vandalized your car
or something, I'm not speaking that over you,
but I said that the other day
in one of the challenge videos
to kind of like help people register,
like, hey, come on, let's do this.
And then someone reported it already.
Someone in this group that's in phase one
already made a post and said that
someone was going through the neighborhood
messing up people's cars.
So now that being said,
we cannot allow intimidation or distraction.
Those are gonna be your two biggest enemies
during phase one, intimidation or distraction.
Do not allow distraction to derail you.
Stay focused, this is your time.
So all of a sudden your best friend
starts having man trouble
and she breaks up with her husband or something
and wants to cry on your shoulder 24 seven.
No, all of a sudden your children
who knew how to make their own hot pockets
and tie their own shoes,
now don't even know what a microwave is.
Do not allow their needy, clingy, see it for what it is.
It's distracting you from being able to focus on what it is that God brought you here to
do.
This is your time.
You're allowed to have this time.
Tell yourself that.
I matter too.
Just say it right now.
I matter too.
Okay.
Your aging parents have a fall or something happens.
You know, just all kinds of crap that's trying to distract you and intimidate you and get
you to stop going forward.
We got to go forward.
We're going to go forward.
Now let's talk about the good things.
Night dreaming, daydreaming, deja vu.
These are just a few of the things that happen in during this first very supernatural phase
of last year single.
What's deja vu?
Deja vu to me is when you're coming into convergence with the story that God wrote
about your life.
It may feel like you're doing something familiar.
You're like, Hey, I've been here before.
This has happened before.
What the heck?
Why does this feel so real?
Did I dream about this?
When you start having those moments, if you do write down, where are you?
What are you doing?
What are you saying?
Who are you with?
What's the context of the deja vu?
Because God's talking to you.
You're going to start to see all kinds of patterns during phase one of God looking at
you and talking to you.
You're going to feel the attention of heaven on your life like never before.
You might start seeing number sequences all the time, 1111 or, you know, 1234 or this
or that.
You're going to start seeing things, 555-777, you know, all the stuff, 444, write it down.
Keep a journal during your heart work.
You're going to have lots of journaling questions in the curriculum, so just go ahead and buy
yourself a new journal.
Just write heart work on the front of it and keep it.
I have a private client who did that and she goes back all the time and reads through all
the stuff that was coming up during this time and it's so amazing how many miracles God
did in her life during phase one.
So get yourself a, if you're like, I can't afford a journal, go to the dollar store and
get a notebook and just use it for a dollar.
Go get it.
Okay.
Night dreaming.
If you're already a dreamer, you might have an increase in dreaming or God might start
talking to you in different ways that you're not used to him talking to you in.
Okay.
Anything that sticks out to you that seems interesting and seems like you keep seeing
it.
I keep seeing a red bird all the time.
Jackie.
Um, I keep seeing this or that or these numbers or I keep, I keep, I'm getting deja vu or
I'm dreaming more at night, but I don't understand them.
Write those things down.
Sometimes people will put a dream that seems very, very prophetic to them in their group,
in the phase one group, and then people will weigh in on the interpretations of that.
You might find yourself zoning out and daydreaming more like starting to imagine your life and
imagine your wedding and what you want.
You might even start a Pinterest board where you start pinning things because you're so
full of hope and excitement about what your future looks like.
That's all good.
That's all God.
Okay.
Heightened senses.
Some of you that have had babies, you know, during pregnancy, you feel like your smell
is on high alert and your hearing seems like more keen and saw your senses seem to be like
way escalated.
That happens here for a lot of people as well because you're pregnant with promise.
And so you might feel like your smell, sight, touch, taste, all of those things are going
to another level.
That's all good.
And it's okay.
What's happening there is that this dirty heart lens is getting cleaned off and you're
seeing more clearly, right?
You're feeling more point poignantly.
Those things are just happening more vibrant, colorful kind of situation.
Now here's something I want to warn you of personality and lifestyle changes as you're
coming alive during this first phase, you might want to run off and do some crazy, like
go into your job and say, you can take this job and shove it.
I work in here no more.
You know, don't do that.
Don't do that.
Don't make any major changes during phase one.
If you're still feeling like that's what you want to do come phase two, then by all means
we will help you to do that in a way that is wise.
A lot of people will start seeing the areas of their life that are not abundant, that
are not good, the areas where they've been held back for years.
And what you want to do when you see that is you want to, you know, cut it off as quick
as possible.
Of course, some of you are going to start getting the itch to make a move geographically
God said that his singles were going to relocate, relocate, relocate for their love story.
So we're seeing that in droves.
Don't do it during phase one.
Now that being said, if you already were in the middle of a life transition before you
joined this program.
you're already moving, you're already changing jobs,
then carry on, okay?
I feel like you'll have even more clarity
as you go forward in phase one.
But if you're not, don't do it.
Don't take your long hair and cut it into a pixie cut.
Don't do that during phase one.
You're gonna feel some kind of way about a lot of things.
Don't cut off that toxic best friend
that's been using you for the last 25 years.
Don't do it right now.
You can do it in phase two.
Like I said, you'll have more clarity
and you'll have more support.
Go ahead and wait to make those huge changes
after phase one is over.
Remember, you don't want distractions.
And a lot of times making that change
actually causes you to derail.
It causes you to get distracted
and now you're running around making these changes
instead of focusing on your hard work.
Do you see what I mean?
Because changes require bandwidth
and they require time and investment.
Let's not do that until we're done with this.
So those are the things that are gonna happen.
Those are just a little sampling
of the things that people report to us
over and over and over and over again during phase one.
And so that's kind of like what to expect
when you're expecting.
And what you can't expect
is you are going to get breakthrough.
You are going to get healing.
Healing that you didn't even know that you needed.
And if you don't take out the shovel and start digging,
trying to find your own heart wounds,
Holy Spirit will bring them very gently to the surface
as you go through the curriculum.
You'll start thinking about something.
You might have a dream.
All of a sudden you'll be remembering in vivid detail
something that happened to you
that you thought you were over a long time ago.
And when you get to week three and four,
those are the confession, repentance and forgiveness weeks,
you might start realizing
that you have more unforgiveness in your heart
than you thought you did.
You might have some secrets in your heart
that you need to get off your chest
that you didn't realize were there.
All kinds of stuff is going to happen to do what?
To clear the way for you to have a vibrant
and healthy relationship with your spirit mate
and with God and with others.
It's gonna be really great.
I'm excited for you.
Heartwork's my favorite.
Remember God used the heartwork to save my life.
He downloaded it to me for me.
And now it's been used to help thousands and thousands
of other people in all different areas of their life,
not just their love life.
So very exciting.
All right, for those of you that we provide
as part of your materials, an ebook,
for those of you that are like, I hate an ebook.
I do not want to do it on an ebook.
There is a hardback book available on Amazon.
You can grab that.
Probably we'll get to you in a couple of days.
For those of you that like to highlight,
you like to do all the things, it is available.
It does exist, okay?
I think that's all that I have for you right now.
There is another orientation tonight at eight,
or we'll just play this replay one or the other,
depending on what the questions are that y'all have.
So what questions do you guys have for me?
I'm ready to answer them.
Go for it.
Abby?
You need to unmute yourself.
Sorry about that.
I didn't realize there was an orientation until today.
And so I kind of went gangbusters and went too fast.
So I only started a couple of days ago,
and I'm almost, I think I'm basically done with it.
It's already as embarrassing as that is to admit.
So I just wanted to mention that I didn't know
what I didn't know, I guess.
Yeah, so what I would suggest that you do
is I would suggest that you have two choices.
You can go through week one at a slower pace
and really just digest and journal and process.
Week one is the supernatural surrender week, you guys,
and it's really important to really be revisiting
that permission slip, really being allowed God
to speak to you about all the ways
you've been controlling your own life
and not submitting to him.
He'll bring all kinds of stuff
to the surface during week one.
So you have the option to do that,
and then go to your live coaching calls next Monday,
either one or eight o'clock, okay?
Those are both Eastern times.
And so it's noon and seven for Central,
and then it's 10 and seven or five, five?
Wait, five for Pacific.
So you have that option,
or if you feel like you really did process
and you did a lot of processing in those three days,
then tonight at 8 p.m., there is a coaching call
for people that are actively in the program,
including the week one people.
You guys, every week, when you have those live calls
at either one Eastern or eight Eastern,
it's a grab bag based on your.
weekly roll call.
So your master heart work coach, Bethany,
will put up a weekly roll call post in phase one
every single week on Mondays and say,
hey, where are you?
What's going on?
What's coming up?
What are you working on?
What week are you in?
And you fill that out, you comment in that post.
And then on those coaching calls,
that gives her an idea of where we need to go
with the support and the heart check-in that we're doing.
Okay?
And that's how that works.
And you guys, the more that you show up live in the group,
when I mean live, like you post in the group,
the more that you post about what you're working on
and what's coming up,
your breakthrough creates breakthrough for others.
So if you want to just be a fly on the wall in this group,
in your Facebook group, you don't ever want to post.
You want to just kind of fly under the radar.
You're doing the stuff, but you're not engaging.
You're not showing up for the live calls.
You're also not sharing your experience with others
and what God's doing in your life,
including your dreams or this or that.
You're going to get out of it what you put into it.
And so stop hiding.
This is a private group.
There's no judgment here.
And a lot of you have heart wounds with other women
and you'll get healed of those heart wounds
with other women.
If you go ahead and you start trusting people
in this group, it'll be good for you.
All right, go ahead, Abby.
Oh, I just want to say one last thing.
I was able to process, even though I kind of went faster,
I don't think I remember crying this much
in a very long time.
So I can relate to what you were saying.
I just wanted to mention that.
Awesome.
Well, make sure that you find your roll call post
for today in the group and comment in there.
And then you can show up to your live coaching tonight.
All right?
All right, sounds good.
Any other questions?
Yeah, Heidi, go ahead.
Hi, Jackie.
I kind of started at the end of January
and I thought I'd be moving at a faster pace in the process.
I'm in week two and I can't, for the life of me,
get to actually do the work.
And now I'm watching my walls coming up.
So any kind of recommendation is that,
I'm like, I spun around on Saturday
doing all sorts of stuff.
So I don't get to do what I'm supposed to do,
which is what I committed to.
So it was just interesting to watch.
I don't want to rush the process,
but I also want like, come on, Heidi,
get to your stuff, you know?
Well, you know, the thing is, procrastination,
you guys, procrastination,
and we all do it in different ways.
And most people don't realize,
but we procrastinate doing things
that we don't feel like we can do, right?
Or we're afraid to do.
And so really what you need to do there, Heidi,
is that's already hard work.
You're aware that you're avoiding the hard work.
So you have to sit with God, you know,
and ask to be shown what you're afraid of.
Like, what am I afraid of here?
Am I afraid of success?
Am I afraid of breakthrough?
And am I afraid that if I actually do this,
then I'm going to end up in phase two
and I'm going to be in dating,
I'm going to be in dating someone?
You know, what is it?
Look at, you know, I really feel that for you.
I feel like it's like, oh,
I'm being intentional about my love life
and making this my last year single.
And now that I'm here, I'm dragging my feet
because I don't actually want to get to the place
where I actually will be with the men,
with my, with, you know.
So, and just go ahead and let God show you why.
It's not just about the what, it's about the why.
Why?
Why am I afraid?
You know, I feel like that will be empowering.
And then you just have to do it afraid.
Once you realize why, you just got to do it.
Yes, thank you.
We're rooting for you.
We're here for you.
Now you're on our radar.
So we're going to be fine.
We're going to be coming to find you
if you were not showing up.
All right.
Thank you.
A couple other questions here going.
Jennifer?
Okay.
Just a quick question.
The prayer links, the community faith Friday,
supernatural Saturdays,
will they be recorded for work purposes?
Supernatural Saturdays.
Okay.
So none of the prayer calls.
So we have prayer for women Monday through Thursday.
Okay.
And it's at 10 AM Eastern.
And then on Fridays, we have faith Friday.
That is a all community session, a co-ed session.
A lot of men work during the day.
So we don't really see a lot of men coming
to daytime things, just so you guys know.
But faith Friday is not recorded.
But supernatural Saturday is.
Supernatural Saturday is the only prayer call
that's recorded.
Sunday night activations.
And the reason why is because it's available every week.
The prayer calls are available every week.
Faith Friday is just people testifying
and bragging on Jesus.
And then Sunday night activation is just activation time.
And so there's no reason to record those things,
especially activation,
because there's a lot of breakouts for that kind of stuff.
And so supernatural Saturday is the only thing
that's recorded of that stuff.
All of the coaching calls.
Mondays are recorded.
So there's one coaching call every Monday,
whether it's the one or the 8 p.m. that's recorded,
and you'll have access to that in your portal.
All right.
And Jennifer, if you can't be there live
for either of those times for whatever reason,
you can put that in your roll call
to say, hey, I can't be there live,
but I would love for you to address this situation
on the live call so that when I listen and replay,
I can hear what you're saying to me.
Okay, thank you.
Yep.
Barbara.
Hi, Jackie.
So I've never really been a big church person
or close to God in my life.
So this whole, I mean, I'm here
because it was appealing to me, and I feel like,
so I don't know if you have any words of wisdom
about like a newcomer
to the whole religious aspect of my life.
Yeah, okay, no, I love that.
And I think that you are going to feel a little bit
on Mr. Toad's wild ride,
because number one, we don't do religion here.
So, I mean, I am a Christian, this is a faith-based program,
but I am a true Christ follower.
I'm not a religious person.
This is gonna be a very spiritual program
because we are spirits, you guys, we are not bodies.
We are spirits that live in bodies that possess souls,
which are these master control areas of our life
where all of our memories and experiences are kept.
And so it's important that we address that
when we are going after any kind of healing,
inner healing, especially.
So I think you're gonna learn a lot of stuff.
I don't think that a lot of it's gonna be over your head
because it's, like I said,
this is not like a deep religious,
you have to know scripture type of thing.
I think a lot of it's just gonna really resonate with you.
And one thing I know for sure,
this will really resonate with you.
And it's very, very simple.
It's very spiritually simple to understand.
So I think that you're really gonna like it.
Give us feedback too.
We have people that come in here
at all levels of spirituality
and all levels of belief,
and they all get massive breakthrough.
So we would love to hear, as you're going forward,
what you think about the ability to process and comprehend,
even if you haven't like been around
that type of language for a long time.
Thank you.
Thanks for being here.
Excited that, I believe it's a divine appointment.
So excited for your divine appointment.
Evangeline.
Thank you so much.
I just have a question.
So you mentioned that the first one
was a five week sabbatical.
And can you give some guidance around
like how to communicate that if I'm in the middle-
I'm having a hard time hearing you.
I don't know if it's your microphone.
It seems a little muffled.
Try again.
Is this better?
Maybe, go ahead.
Yeah, let's just go ahead and talk.
Let me see.
Oh.
Can you hear me, Jackie?
Is this better?
Yeah, that is better.
Jackie, is this group for women only?
It's an orientation for our women's class, Scott.
Okay.
Sorry.
We do have heart check-in for men tonight.
Yeah, I'll be there.
Thank you.
Okay.
Thanks, Scott.
Bye-bye.
Bye.
Hi, Jackie.
So I just had a question.
So I know for the first five weeks,
you mentioned that it's a sabbatical
that you are recommending people taking.
And I was wondering if you have any language
or what you would use to like tell people
who are in the initial phases of seeing people.
Okay.
So if you're not, okay.
So you guys will learn in our program
that we differentiate relationship with five phases,
okay, of relationship.
We have five levels.
So level one is just community friendships.
It's not necessarily romantic.
It could be with a woman or a man, right?
It's just community relationship.
And then level two is that discovery process
where you're getting to know people,
but there's nothing official.
It's not a romantic relationship yet.
You might be dating them,
going out with them, hanging out with them,
but nothing has been made official.
It hasn't turned romantic.
Level three is where there's that definition of romance,
that defining of the relationship.
You're exclusively together,
you're boyfriend and girlfriend.
You see a future together and you want to explore that.
Okay, then level four is engagement.
five's marriage. So if you're in a level three relationship, you're someone's girlfriend,
you have made a commitment to that relationship to see it through and see where it's going to go
because you feel like it's a marriage minded courtship. Do not break up with that person
during this program. Focus on your heart work, but don't break up with someone that you're
in a relationship with unless of course it's a bad and unhealthy relationship and you realize
that through this program and then you break up with them. So Evangeline, are you talking about
a level two kind of just dating around getting level two? Yeah. Right. So here's the thing.
If any of those people are your spirit mates, they will be there in five weeks. They will still be
there. And so what you say to them is say, Hey, you know what? I am doing some self-improvement.
I'm taking a course and part of the first five weeks of the course is heart work and they
recommend that we take a sabbatical from dating relationships. And so I'd love to,
to pick this up again, you know, in mid, you know, mid-March or, and yeah, mid-March.
Thank you. That's super helpful. Yeah. And you can't miss out on your spirit mate, you guys. So
if that creates fear in you immediately with someone that you don't have really anything
invested in, then you might have an anxious attachment style. And so it's important to
understand that you're not going to miss your spirit mate by focusing on healing your heart.
You're not going to miss out on them. They'll still be there waiting. If that's them.
Thank you, Jackie. You're welcome. Michelle.
Hi. Hello. Can you hear me? Yeah, I can hear you.
Yes. I have two things. First. I'm not understanding about the, the weekly coaching.
If you're going at different paces, everyone is going at different paces.
How do you know which coaching session we're supposed to actually be in? Or is it that we're
supposed to go every week? Yeah. Every week phase one, which is where everyone, regardless of whether
they're at first week of heartwork or they're in the fifth week of heartwork, you're in the phase
one that you're coaching sessions are at 1 PM Eastern and 8 PM Eastern on Mondays. And based
on what you fill out in that roll call post, that is what the coach will cover. So they'll cover
stuff from, you know, face phase one, uh, week five or week three or week two, or, you know,
the forgiveness week or the supernatural surrender week. And if you can't be there,
you can ask them to cover something specifically, and then you can watch the replay.
So everyone in all different weeks of phase one will be on those coaching calls together. Phase
two, when you graduate to your dating accelerator coaching, those coaching calls are live on
Tuesdays at 1 PM Eastern and 8 PM Eastern. And once again, they cover everything from all four
of those weeks in a grab bag of whoever's live and whoever's asked in the, you know,
comments of the roll call for specific coaching. Plus I do something in phase two called ask Jackie,
where you can ask me your specific questions. And I come on live once a week and I answer
all the questions in the ask Jackie form. So if you're in phase one, which you are,
your coaching is at one and eight on Mondays until you get to phase two. Does that make sense?
Yes. Okay. Okay. It gives you a preview as well, because some, some ladies might be in
week three or week four that are on your call and they're asking questions about forgiveness
and stuff. It will give you a preview of what you're headed towards as you go through the
curriculum. Okay. Um, also I am from Jamaica. I'm not American. Okay. I understand about the, um,
the, the heart issues. I think that's something I do need, but I'm kind of unsure of the program
will work for me as a single outside of America, because I'm realizing majority of the persons
there are Americans. We do have, we do have international students and we have had a lot
of international matches. So, um, as far as the community portion in like the community-based
matchmaking portion, I think it definitely can work for you. Okay. Thank you. And the
other thing that I want to tell you, Michelle, and you guys all need to hear this and know this
is that we have a lot of matches that happen within our community, but the majority of our
matches happen as part of the supernatural process, meaning that before you joined this
program, you had no prospects. You might not have been on a date for a really long time,
or you kept dating the same men over and over again, which were bad situations and, you know,
things that left you heartbroken. And then all of a sudden, after you do this program phase one,
and you go into phase two, there's healthy men that are attracted to you. There's love right
in front of you that you didn't see before. You,
You would be amazed at how many people end up
marrying their best friend
that they never even thought of romantically
until they took this program.
It's just a very supernatural thing.
So don't count yourself out
just because you don't think you're in proximity
to our community in America or any of those things
because that's just really not the way God works.
God brought you here
because he wants his single sons and daughters married.
He's gonna help you to get out of your own way
and get out of his way
and then stuff's just gonna start happening.
That's what happens here.
And it's really fun to watch.
I never, it never gets old for me to watch
and get to see how God makes these matches
because ultimately God really is the matchmaker
but it's gonna be great.
You guys watch, you'll see.
Pay attention to each other and each other's backstories
and each other's present tense love story
meaning like nothing on the horizon
and see how quick something that
there was nothing on the horizon
now there's something on the horizon.
Just watch, you'll see.
Oh yeah, my husband walked in the room.
He said, Perth, Australia.
Yeah, one of my success stories
was in the most isolated city in the world, Google it.
No one leaves, no one moves there
and there are 1% Christians there and she's married.
She thought she would have to move away from there
but she couldn't, she had shared parenting.
So she felt so trapped and guess what?
Her guy was there the whole time
and now they're married, so it's great.
All right, Adele, I don't see any other hands.
Does anyone else have any other questions
before I let you go?
Who's excited?
Oh wait, Heidi has a question, go ahead.
And now Abby has a question.
I may have missed this when you spoke in the beginning.
When you say week one, let's say like just my work schedule,
I have a lot of time that I can dedicate
on a Saturday night, on a Friday night.
If I dedicate just the two days of the week for week one,
does that count?
Does that work?
How does, I don't wanna rush through the process.
Week one is not about a week, it's about the curriculum.
Okay, so the curriculum is laid out in weeks
and if the time that you have to do your work
is just two days of that week, then that's what you do.
What we don't want people to do
is rush through all five weeks of curriculum in one week.
We don't want people to binge the curriculum.
I got it, thank you.
Yeah, okay, Abby.
Just a quick question.
You had mentioned when you were giving an example
about how you had a private client and I was curious,
is that possible if we need it
to be a private client to you?
I'm just curious.
We do have one-on-one coaching sessions.
Yes, we do.
Okay.
Yeah, so we have, you guys,
so the HeartWork specifically phase one
is a inner healing protocol.
It's an actual protocol that has very supernatural success.
And so if you need specifically HeartWork one-on-one coaching
we do have that available.
It is an extra fee.
We do have one-on-one coaching available.
Obviously the group coaching is phenomenal
and I think that you'll really get a lot from it.
And a lot of people that think
that they're gonna need a one-on-one call
realize they don't need one.
But we do have that available for a very nominal price.
And then in phase two,
we actually have one-on-one dating coaching available
as well, all the way through phase three.
So people that are in community as well.
We also have Symbus.
We have a, I'm a certified Symbus instructor
which is save your marriage before it starts.
It's a pre-marital coaching class that is really awesome.
We have that available and we have had hundreds
and hundreds and hundreds of our pre-marital students
that have found success in this program take that.
Some people take it, something else,
they go to a pre-marital counselor or something
but a lot of people take that program
as their pre-marital coaching.
And we have that available for you
when you get into a serious level three,
level four relationship.
So we got you covered on all ends.
I'm excited, thank you.
I'm glad, I'm glad.
You guys, we are matchmakers, but we are matchbreakers.
We are not going to let you get to the altar
with someone you should not be there with
if you have any kind of teachable heart.
I mean, we're not going to come to your house
and kidnap you, but short of that, just short of that
we're going to do everything we can to make sure
that you see if something really is unhealthy, all right?
So relax, you're God defended, have fun.
Let this be a time of just,
you guys, people have so many breakthroughs in phase one
that have nothing to do with romance.
They start doing something they did when they were a kid
that they haven't done in a long time.
They start playing an instrument again.
They start, you know, going and doing something
with their life that they didn't know
that they still wanted to do.
They, they start having all kinds.
of ideas, they start writing stuff, they start creating stuff, all kinds of breakthrough
happen in this program besides just the love story.
Expect to come alive, because that's what's going to happen to you.
All right, so let's get going, Heidi, no procrastinating.
And that's for everybody else who gets in and is just like, ah, it's going to be okay.
We're here to support you.
And everyone else is going through it right with you.
And so just know you're not alone.
All right.
And if you get to, if you get to prayer at all, please get to prayer.
If you get to supernatural Saturday, Sunday activation, take advantage of those things.
And we'll see you guys soon.
Yes, you're expected.
All right.
Bye, everyone.
Welcome.
Welcome to your last year single.