hear it say that. So welcome to your orientation for this winter installment of last year single
program. All of you ladies that are starting right now within a couple weeks of each other
are going to be considered a bridal party. All right. So we have some ladies that are starting
today. We had a couple, we had a group of ladies. I shouldn't say a couple. There was probably 25
ladies or so that started two weeks ago into their last year single program. And then we have
some ladies that are kind of behind y'all because we've left registration open. And so they'll be
coming maybe two weeks later than you guys. And that's okay. However, that works. I just
want to really make sure that we're recording right now because I definitely didn't hear it
say that it's recording. And I want to make sure because this is going to have to be in replay.
So, um, yes, we are recording. Awesome. All right. Thank you, Renee. So this is your orientation. So
I'm going to go over some best practices with you tonight. I'm going to tell you what to expect.
Um, I'm going to get you excited and then I'm going to turn you loose. All right. We will have
some Q and a please ask any questions that you have because someone in replay that wasn't here
live, they may have the same question as you. And if you ask it, then it gets answered right
on this live video. And so that's important. And so, um, we have three phases to our program
and you guys are headed into phase one, also known as the heartwork part of our program.
We did a little bit of heartwork during the challenge. I think all of you, that's probably
why you signed up because you started having stuff come to the surface in your heart. And you're like,
wow, I really need this. And so you're going to do an extended version of that during these first
five weeks of your program. And then the second phase starts after five weeks of your program.
The second phase starts that space too. And that is your love story accelerator part of our
program. That's where we start digging into the divine feminine and dating and online dating and
boundaries and all different types of things that you are going to need to know in order to be
successful in this area of your love life. And then after you're done with phase one and two,
you will go into phase three, which is just our community phase. That's where you'll have lots
of different community events that you wouldn't have access to in phase one and two different coed
events, like, um, dating game events. And we have this thing called single spotlight that we do.
And there is an event every single week. There's one event every single week at the end of phase
two, you will receive an email that tells you that you're headed into phase three and that you need
to take a pathfinder assessment. It'll give you the link to that quiz. And all that quiz is going
to do is really show you where you're at when you're at the end of phase two, going into phase
three, that quiz is going to show you and us where you are at so that we know what you need to work
on in phase three. Some of you are going to work on path one, which is your relationship with God.
Some of you are going to work on path two, which is your relationship with yourself, your self-esteem,
your self-worth, your identity. And some of you are going to work on path three, which is your
relationship with others, boundaries, all different types of things go into phase three, right? I'm
sorry, path three, a lot of different P words in this program, program, phase, paths. Okay.
And so what I want to let you guys know is that you are the first group that we are allowing to
go at their own pace. So it's kind of a hybrid evergreen process. What does that mean? That
means that we all used to keep you guys all together as a group. And even in the materials,
the materials wouldn't unlock until it was time for them to unlock. We're going to let you be on
the honor system. We know that all of you have different schedules. You have different bandwidth
in order to consume these materials, especially with the holidays coming. And so best practices
in our protocol of what we've seen the most success with is that you will not consume more
than one week's material at a time. Now, if for some reason, you know, you know, that you're going
to go on vacation for a month and you want to go ahead and consume two weeks of material, like
we're going to put you on the honor system of what you can handle. The reason why we want you to
just process this. And that's what our sections are called in my book, the heart work. Let's just
process that because it takes time to process things. You can know things and never know things.
And so it's important that you allow yourself time to process. It's important that when you sign
that permission slip, you're giving supernatural permission to Holy spirit to come alongside you
in this process and to show you things that you've never seen before. That being said,
I'm sorry, ladies, I have no idea what just happened. A password thing popped up on my
screen and all of you went away. All right. So that being said, you know, if you do two weeks
at the beginning, and then you have to take a week off because you know that you're going on vacation.
then you catch up with the next two weeks
or the next three weeks,
we're gonna let you decide what that's like for you, okay?
And so instead of your materials being on a drip
where we schedule them,
they are going to be on a honor system unlock system
where if you complete one material,
the next material, the next session, the next video,
the next worksheet is gonna automatically unlock for you.
Okay, it's still best practices
for you to take one week at a time.
Every single week in phase one,
there will be a live coaching session on Mondays,
1 p.m. Eastern, that's 12 noon Central,
and that would be 10 a.m. Pacific,
also 11 a.m. Mountain if you're in Mountain.
There will be a live coaching session,
a heart check-in every single week,
and then it will also happen at 8 p.m. Eastern,
7 p.m. Central, 6 p.m. Mountain, and 5 p.m. Pacific.
There is a calendar in your phase one Facebook group.
There'll also be a calendar in your portal
at JackieDorman.com that just lets you know
that every single Monday
that those coaching sessions are live.
The replay from the 8 p.m. session
will be available in your portal as well.
So if you didn't get to see that coaching session
and you wanna watch it,
the 8 p.m. session will be recorded
and that recording will be in your portal.
Everyone understand so far?
All right.
Also we have prayer every day of the week,
10 a.m. Eastern, all right, that's 9 a.m. Central,
8 a.m. Mountain, and 7 a.m. Pacific time.
Every day of the week we have prayer,
Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday,
and then Saturdays we have Supernatural Saturday.
That is usually with me
and that is a time of prophetic current realities.
It's a very powerful time of breakthrough.
I get on and I do a teaching
and that usually is something that is fire, all right?
So get ready for that
because Holy Spirit really leads and guides
on Supernatural Saturday
and that's why we call it Supernatural Saturday.
And on Sunday nights we have a time of activation
for the things that were released on Saturday's call
and that call on Sunday nights and all of this,
you have to remember this,
all of it's on your calendar
that once again is in your portal at JackieDorman.com
and it's also in the guide section
of your phase one Facebook group.
So all those times stay the same.
So Mondays you have your live coaching calls.
If you missed it, you can watch the replay.
Every day of the week you have prayer.
Saturdays you have Supernatural Saturday.
Sunday night you have activations.
And then the last Sunday of the month
we have personal prophetic prophecy time,
meaning if you have never received a word from the Lord,
if you've never been exhorted or encouraged
or edified in the Spirit,
you're gonna wanna come to that.
We have our entire prayer team usually available
to just begin to speak over you the heart of the Father.
And it is a really, really amazing time.
And so that's once a month on Sunday nights.
So we have all of that for you in phase one.
And then in phase two,
the very same thing is gonna happen
except your live coaching calls are on Tuesdays now,
Tuesday afternoon and Tuesday evening.
You're gonna have those live coaching calls.
You're still gonna have that prerecorded content.
You're still gonna be on an honor system
going through that content,
Dating 101 and The Divine Feminine
and Boundaries and Online Dating
and all the different things
that are available to you there.
There will be a kickoff video that explains phase two,
explains how to navigate phase two,
explains the challenge, the dating challenge
that we release you into in phase two.
But we will ask you during phase one,
and we can't make you do this,
and we're not gonna police you in it.
We're not gonna police you in it,
but we do recommend that you go on a dating sabbatical
for the next five weeks during your first phase
or your heartwork.
You wanna focus on yourself.
And I know that all of you are like anxious to get out there
and to meet that person that God has for you,
but there's no sense in continuing to run
a hundred miles an hour down a dead end road.
And so we've got to get the filters and the blind spots off
so that we can have momentum, right?
Clarity has to come before momentum.
Now, we can't make you do that.
Now, if you have a serious boyfriend,
then we're not talking about them.
If you're here just because you wanna do some heartwork,
but you already met someone
and you're very serious in that relationship,
then we're not gonna make you break up with them
in order to be in this group.
If you just met someone brand new,
just started talking to them,
maybe even since you signed up,
all of a sudden someone's talking on a dating app.
Guess what?
If they're your person,
they're still gonna be there when you're done.
And if they're your person,
they're gonna understand that you're doing this for you
so you can become a better version of yourself.
And they would want that for you
if they are your spirit mate.
You cannot miss out on your spirit mate
by working on your...
own heart.
All right.
That's just not going to happen.
So we asked you to on that dating sabbatical, um, some people don't and they try to show
up in our groups and post about the guys that they're talking to and to get heartwork feedback.
Guess what?
If you're not on the dating sabbatical during phase one and you post a relationship question
about some guy you're talking to on a dating app, we will not approve that message.
That that message will not make it onto your Facebook group.
Why is that?
Now you're distracting everyone with dating and with men and with whatever it is, shenanigans
you got yourself into instead of focusing on what you're here to do during phase one.
All right.
And the heartwork sometimes is hard work.
And so you want to fully focus on it because even those of you that have been in counseling
or therapy for years, you're going to have what I call revealing for healing.
You're going to, this is a very supernatural process and you're single for a reason and
God wants to show you what it is, okay?
Whether it has something to do with you or something that you're believing a lot of times,
that's what it is.
Whether it has to do with something that you need to do that you haven't done yet.
Some of you, God gave you some instructions a long time ago, not about your love life,
about another area of your life, but guess what?
You drug your feet on that and you never did that thing and now you're still walking around
in circles.
And so those things will come back to you during phase one, whether they come back during
the heartwork or during a prayer call or during a supernatural Saturday, God is going
to give you direction.
You're going to get clarity and you're going to begin to move forward in every area of
your life.
Are you excited?
You should be because it's going to be great.
It's going to be great.
Okay.
So phase one is that heartwork part.
Phase two is going to be that love story accelerator part.
All of you are going to get there at different times.
Some of you are going to be dragging behind because you're busy and it's going to take
you a long time to get through the phase one and that's okay.
However long it takes you, it's still going to be there.
The coaches are still going to be there every Monday.
If you're in phase two, the coaches are going to still be there every Tuesday and if you're
in phase three, we have an entire calendar of events for phase three people.
I do want to recommend that now that you have joined the program to remove yourself from
the challenge Facebook group, please make yourself a little note and go back and do
that as soon as possible.
Why?
Some of you even tonight are posting over there and you're confused.
You're like, Hey, am I supposed to be here?
Where am I supposed to be?
We're posting over there talking about me coming live, talking to the challenge group
and you're like, Hey Jackie, I thought you were going to be live at eight.
It says here you're going to be live at seven.
That's because we're talking about a different live, right?
And so it's important that you move over fully into your last year single phase one Facebook
group.
If you're lost and you can't find it, you don't know where the email is.
Please check your spam filter and if it's not there, then email us at admin at Jackie
Dorman.com.
That's one Oh Dorman like Norman, not doorman.
Okay.
Just one Oh and we will help you find your Facebook group.
Okay.
We will, we will send you that link again and we will get you over there.
Okay.
That is where you're going to post all of your stuff.
That's where you're going to share.
That's where you're going to let people see your face.
Some of you got a cat as your avatar on your Facebook page, right?
And so no one even knows who you are.
So you're going to show up over there, you're going to post a picture of yourself, an introduction.
People are going to see who you are because you're not the kitty in the picture, right?
And so we want to make sure that we all get to know each other.
You're going to start to trust the women in this group, your bridal party.
This is, these are going to be your ride or dies.
I've seen people being each other's weddings.
I've seen people become housemates during this process of their last year single.
I've seen people introduce each other to their spirit mates within this community.
I mean, you're going to meet some of your best girlfriends and even guy friends in this
community when you begin to intermingle with our guys group.
All right.
And some people meet their spirit group spirit mates right within this community too.
In fact, our, our most recent premarital coaching class, which you will have access to if you
get into a, a serious relationship, when I should say in this community, I was going
through the couples that are in this one.
And like, I think that like 70% of them that within community are met through me.
And then, you know, you guys, that's so touching.
I love it.
I mean, not that we don't have almost 600 success stories, but like seeing that many
people that, you know, met actually through this community or through me specifically,
instead of just taking the supernatural momentum and then meeting someone through friends or
family, it's just really fun.
And I love it.
All right.
So as you start that phase one heartwork after tonight, it's time.
You can go ahead and get started.
Remember one week at a time is the goal.
And that is our recommendation.
Sign that permission slip.
Even though you.
who did it during the challenge, do it again.
Be intentional that you're stepping over
from being challenged to accepting the challenge, right?
Now you're in the program.
Now it's time to go to the next level.
Okay, so I wanna make sure that you really,
and if you have to revisit that permission slip
every single day because you're one of those ladies
who just really has a hard time giving control to God,
you're like, you give him the wheel, take it back.
Give Jesus the wheel, you take it back.
I wanna encourage you to really make that permission slip
part of your morning prayers.
Teach me, show me, heal me, grow me.
You're giving God permission to supernaturally intervene
in your life and you will start seeing crazy stuff
in a good way happening.
All right, so let's talk about,
does anyone have any questions
about the go at your own pace,
about how the stuff unlocks?
Once you watch one video,
the next video will be available to you
even if you're not supposed to watch it yet.
Just like Netflix.
Netflix doesn't hold you accountable
if you binge an entire season of Gilmore Girls
in one weekend.
You can do it, right?
And the same thing with our material.
You'll be able to do it.
We don't want you to do that, but you would be able to.
So does everyone understand how that works?
Okay, and then those heart check-ins once a week
or a grab bag, they're gonna be over
all different types of stuff
that have to do with the heart work.
All right, phase of week one, two, three, and four.
Supernatural surrender, understanding the heart,
unpacking the heart boxes,
which includes confession, repentance, and forgiveness,
and then understanding and becoming the real you.
All right, all right.
So we have our coaches in the chat right now.
So if you have any questions, go ahead and put them up.
They can either answer them or I can answer them live.
Where can we access the permission slip?
The permission slip should live in the very first part
of your Jackie Dorman portal,
in the phase one portal of Jackie Dorman,
in the heart work course,
and it should be at the very top, right?
Guys, that is where the e-book is as well.
If you wanna order a hard copy of the book,
you can get it on Amazon, okay?
That book does exist in hard copy,
and if you're one of those people that wants to highlight,
you wanna make little notes,
and you wanna dog ear the pages, then you can order that.
But in the meantime, you have access to that e-book.
It does come with, the e-book does come with your program.
All right, can you please describe
what the Sunday night event is again?
Sunday night is an activation of Saturday.
So for three weeks of the month,
the things that I release over the single nation on Saturday,
because that is a co-ed event of our women's program
and our men's program,
the things that I release, okay,
that God is speaking to my heart to release to you
of encouragement and hope
and all kinds of supernatural instruction and direction.
I mean, they're just amazing times together in the spirit.
Okay, on Sunday nights,
that's where you can dig in with our activation coach.
Her name is Sarah, she's incredible,
and she helps you actually practically apply
the stuff that you heard on Saturdays
to your everyday life.
Like, what does that mean for me?
Like, that sounded great, Jackie,
that lit my panties on fire.
Like, I'm running around now, I'm excited, woo, woo.
But now what?
What do I do with that?
I got excited about it, but how do I implement it
in my everyday life, right?
How?
So on Sunday nights, you're gonna activate that.
And then the last Sunday night of every month,
we have a time where our entire prayer team
or whoever's available on our prayer team comes together
and we begin to speak the Father's heart over you.
We begin to call individual people out
and give you what we call words of knowledge,
you know, words of prophecy.
If you come from a denominational background
or maybe you're just a new Christian
and you don't even know what that is,
you can go and look at it in Galatians 5,
look at the gifts of the spirit.
And we operate in those on the last Sunday nights
of every month, okay?
And that's a really powerful time individually for people
to really receive encouragement from heaven.
And so that happens during that.
The women's prayer times, Monday through Friday.
Friday is Faith Friday, also known as Brag on Jesus Day.
And so that's where we just show up and we just testify.
You can show up and talk about the good things
that God's doing in your life that week.
Everyone has an opportunity that wants to,
just to brag on Jesus on Fridays.
That's a time of encouragement.
And then Monday through Thursday,
we follow a format of praying for our spirit mates,
really generally, because it's women only prayer,
praying for men in the earth and God causing revival
in mankind and raising men up.
Pray for our individual spirit mates
and those beautiful divine connections that are coming.
And then we just pray over whatever is either
on that prayer leader's heart or whatever's on your heart.
You can show up.
up at those prayer times and you can share short, brief and powerful, um, you know, scriptures
that God put on your heart or some sort of prayer that you want to pray over the group.
Those are really, really amazing times. And that's the time when you're going to bond together with
your sisterhood. And so if you've got to show up and ask for prayer because you're hurting and
you're, you need a physical healing and you need a breakthrough or you need this or that, that's
where you're going to find that support as well. And so show up for those as much as you can.
All right. I downloaded the app. Isn't that where everything is? There isn't an app,
so I'm not really sure what you downloaded, but it wasn't us. So if you can put in the chat what
the name of the app is that you downloaded, because I'm not really sure what we're talking
about there. Um, all right, let's see. You have an account, right? The email that you registered
with the email that you purchased the course with you had, you make a password and that
email and that password is how you log into jackiedorman.com into your portal.
And in your portal, the thing that you purchased is there. All right. So you're just going to see,
you're just going to see phase one of the heartwork program right now, because that's
all you have access to. And that is going to be called the heartwork. And that is where I'm
talking about you having access to these materials. Once you go through all those materials, regardless
of whether it takes you five weeks, like we want it to take you, or it takes you three weeks because
you, you know, you double time it, whatever you're doing, you know, make sure you're following holy
spirit. But as soon as you unlock that final session in that phase one, that's when phase two
will pop up. Okay. On your portal. And you'll start having access to that. Does that make sense
to everybody? Any questions, any more questions? Nicole, go ahead. Hi, sorry. So the videos that
are in Facebook group that you watch consecutively after you unlock. Oh, I can't hear you, Nicole.
Hold on a second. Hold on one second. Okay, go ahead. Sorry. The videos in the Facebook,
you unlock them, like it's like one through eight, things like that. I think somebody had posted
something as a question, but some of them are not pertaining to the week that we're on.
Do we still watch them? Okay. First of all, the videos, your actual assignments in your videos,
in your materials for phase one are in the Jackie Dorman portal. They're not in the Facebook. Okay.
So the ones in the Facebook, they're just to go back and reference what each. Yeah. Are you talking
about the replays that are in the guide section of Facebook? Okay. Yeah. You don't need to watch
those replays. Those are obviously from, you know, a class before you, and we're going to actually be
removing all of that from Facebook and putting it over in the portal so that people are not
confused about what's happening. There's a lot of good information in those videos. So we're
not going to stop you from watching them if you want to watch them, but if you want to keep
yourself from trying to get ahead of yourself and like zigging and zagging and going left and right
being confused, because, you know, we're over here talking about forgiveness, but you're still
on supernatural surrender. Then I suggest you stay in your portal and don't pay attention to
those replays because we are going to be putting your replays in your portal.
Okay. And your Jackie Dorman portal. Good question, Nicole. Thank you so much for asking that.
All right. Someone just asked something. Let me take a look.
Make sure you ask your questions, ladies. Let's see. So by Monday for our coaching session,
are we supposed to have the first 48 pages read chapters one through three and homework process
this done? Well, it's obviously Thursday. Okay. So you guys, this is your orientation and you can
get started. Go ahead and show up to Monday's coaching call, but really honestly about, you
know, your coaching calls are going to happen every week. So we're having your orientation
on a Thursday. We usually do it on a Monday. And then the following Monday would be your first
coaching call, but you can show up to the coaching call on Monday, but no, the following Monday would
be when we would expect you to be showing up either live or on replay for that first heart
check-in. All right. Cause I know that you guys are like, whoa, it's Christmas time. I'm busy.
I got to go shopping. I got to wrap presents. I got to do all this stuff. And I got to read
48 pages. What I know the reading part's hard. You guys, I almost had that. I almost had that
completely finished and audible. And I know people really love it when that book is on audible.
But honestly, I think reading and then journaling.
Guys, make sure that you're journaling the questions
that are at the end of each chapter of those materials
because they are designed to bring that revealing
for healing faster.
They're not just regular questions,
they're supernatural questions.
And so I wanna make sure that you are utilizing those tools
to get the most out of this first phase.
What about the bonus session?
Good question.
Guys, I had that bonus session for the people
that signed up within the first 24 hours,
and some of you may have been those people.
But unfortunately, a lot of people,
they hadn't watched the challenge at all.
So they weren't there live
for that last day of the challenge.
They didn't hear the offer.
And so people were emailing and asking,
oh, please, can you extend it?
I just finally heard about it.
I just finally got to watch video three.
So we went ahead and extended that bonus session
to this Sunday.
So anyone who signs up until this Sunday night,
they will also receive that bonus session.
And that includes all of you, obviously,
because you all signed up.
So whether you sign up in the first 24 hours
or you signed up,
so then we will schedule that bonus session
and it will be live.
It will be available in replay as well.
But we will send you out an email and let you know,
everyone who signed up from the very beginning
till this Sunday,
all of you will receive an email saying,
hey, here's a time and date for that bonus session
that you signed up for.
And then we'll, and it's going to be good, y'all.
It's going to be about prophesying your year.
So like what's going to be happening for us in 2024,
it's going to be a really amazing, great time
of just really getting some clarity
and some breakthrough and some things.
And so I really want to encourage you
to be part of that life if possible.
Okay.
And we will let you know when that date is.
So good question.
Thank you for asking, Matt.
All right.
Yeah, that bonus session is going to be fun.
I'm looking forward to that.
Are there worksheets?
Yes.
Not every chapter has a worksheet,
but there are several worksheets
and the worksheet goes where it is.
So if it's in week one's materials,
that's where it belongs.
Okay.
There's bonus sessions in some of them.
Like there's one called Supernatural Hope
and it has a worksheet that goes with it.
Okay.
The Hope Scale.
You want to make sure that you do that worksheet
before you watch the bonus session.
You want to do the worksheet first
and then you want to watch the bonus session about hope.
Why?
Because if you watch the bonus session first,
then you're not going to fill out the worksheet correctly.
It's not going to be accurate.
So you want to make sure you do that first.
And the instructions are in that portal.
Hey, do this worksheet
and then watch the Supernatural Hope bonus session.
Okay.
So if the worksheet, the worksheet is where it belongs.
It's where it belongs.
And then that's where you should do it
is where it is in your materials.
All right.
I'm going to tell you in a few minutes,
what you can expect as you go into this first phase.
And that's based on the majority of people
and what happens with them.
Can someone link the workbook
if we want to order it online?
So I'm assuming that you're saying,
can someone link the heart work?
And you just find it at Amazon, Jackie Dorman,
the heart work, that's what it's called.
But if one of our coaches
want to put a link up in the chat right now
of where they can buy it on Amazon, then you can do that.
All right, let's see.
I read the book, but I'm now doing the course.
Okay.
So I'm assuming that you're not talking
about the Married in 12 Months or Less book,
which is one of my other books.
You're talking about the heart work.
And I want to, I want to suggest to you
that even if you've already read that book in its entirety,
maybe in a different season,
or maybe before you joined the course,
that you still do the reading and the journaling
along with the videos and the worksheets
in the order that we've presented them in,
even if you read it before.
Because it's going to hit differently this time, okay?
And it's important that you do that reading
and that journaling along with what you're doing here,
along with the live coaching.
That's very important.
All right, awesome.
I see you, Tony Lynn.
I see what you're saying and you're right.
Okay.
All right, so let's go ahead and move forward.
What can we expect during this phase one?
What can we expect?
A lot of really good things
and some not so good things, all right?
Let's go ahead and cover, what do you guys want first?
The good, bad, the ugly.
Let's go over the hard, but not that fun, all right?
So some of the things that happen
when we begin the supernatural process of heart work,
and once again, it doesn't matter how much therapy
or counseling you've done, this is still going to happen.
You might be like, Jackie, I unpacked all my heart boxes.
Well, guess what?
There's a few left in the back
that you don't know about yet.
all gonna open up like Pandora's box during this program.
And so, because it's over the holidays as well,
I wanna encourage you to really take time for yourself.
Make sure that you're not showing up to a family dinner,
half cocked, ready to blow up
because you just did a session
and you realize that your parents were not that great, okay?
So we know everyone suffers.
And so we go through that
when we're going through this hard work part.
A lot of times we're revisiting that
and I know it's hard to revisit that.
Most adults that are living right now on earth
have some form of post-traumatic stress disorder, okay?
When I used to be a social worker,
we used to call that broken heart syndrome.
That's what we called it as clinicians behind the scenes,
we called it broken heart syndrome.
And so that's what happens.
And trauma doesn't just hurt us,
it creates different versions of us.
You're gonna get to meet all of your counterfeit identities
during this phase one.
And some of them you're gonna like,
you'd be like, I see you girl.
And some of them you're not gonna like, all right?
You're gonna be like, ooh, I can't stand her.
And so that is because she's been causing you
a lot of trouble with her decision-making
and her people-pleasing.
And so you're gonna get to meet them.
They're gonna come to the surface.
At some point in time, your process, your patterns,
your choices, all of those things
and where they come from,
not just the what, but also the why
is gonna begin to surface.
And we call that revealing for healing, all right?
And so you don't have to do that alone.
That is what your Facebook group is for.
So show up there, all right?
Let people know what you're going through.
Let people know what your experiences are,
your breakthroughs, your wins,
and some of the losses and hurts and pains
because you're gonna hear me too.
You're gonna hear support and encouragement.
I want you guys to encourage each other
and cheer each other on and clap when each other win
and hug each other virtually and love each other
when people are going through the hard things, okay?
The Bible says,
rejoice with those that rejoice
and weep with those that weep.
What we don't want you to do in here
is we don't want you to counsel, right?
We don't want you to give advice or counsel
because even if that's what you do for a living
and it's gonna be hard for some of you,
if you are a therapist or a counselor or a coach,
a lot of women are in those healthy professions.
So there's probably a lot of you
that do some sort of work like that.
We want you to take that hat off during this course, okay?
You don't have to wear that hat here
because we have people on our team that wear those hats
so that you can take a break.
You can focus on you.
Some of you have never had the luxury to focus on yourself.
You're always caretaking for someone else,
always taking care of someone else,
always cleaning up someone else's mess,
always worrying about someone else,
always trying to fix someone else or help someone else.
This is you time.
And it's very important that you take advantage of it
because if you're so worried,
I want you to support each other and love each other,
but if you're so worried
about what's going on over here with Sophia
and you're getting all down a rabbit hole
with her trauma and her stuff,
a lot of times that is a self-defense mechanism
to not work on our own stuff.
For constantly focused on someone else and their stuff
is because we don't want to take a good look
at our own heart, right?
We're deflecting.
We don't want to deflect here.
We want to process.
Holy Spirit is here to help us.
Remember the parable where the man in the pool with Bethesda,
he couldn't get in the water fast enough
and Jesus showed up and said,
you don't need the water, you need me.
And here I am.
And the man was so busy with all his victim mentalities
that he didn't notice that his answer
was right in front of him.
And he kept making excuses of why
things weren't going to work out for him.
We don't want to do that here.
We want to realize that the waters are being stirred
and Jesus is here to help us get into them, right?
We're here for healing
and you will have breakthrough if you expect.
You're going to get whatever you expect
and whatever you put into this,
you are going to get out of it, all right?
You're going to be an accelerated season of healing here.
So all hell is going to break loose a little bit
for some of you, right?
You're going to have some pushback.
I call it the opposing forces,
the border bullies that don't want you to cross over
into your proverbial promised land.
And so don't pay attention to it.
Do not give the distractions any type of power in your life.
None of the naysayers, none of the voices.
If you tell someone that you're in some kind of
premarital group because you want to meet your spirit mate,
people are going to give you a hard time.
Not everyone, but someone's going to give you a hard time
and you cannot let people discourage you.
When God wrote the story of your life
and when God wrote your love story,
he didn't ask anyone else for their permission
and you don't need their permission either.
And so my advice to you during this.
first phase to minimize distraction would be to show up here and utilize our coaches
and your sisters for sounding board and maybe leave everybody else out of it.
You don't need anyone sabotaging your progress here.
Okay.
If you have kids at home, you can expect them to act out.
Maybe they forget how to use the microwave or tie their shoes and all of a sudden they're
needy and clingy and rude because why?
Because your kids are very trauma bonded to you.
You're like trauma about it.
Yes.
You've been through a lot.
That's why you're here.
Okay.
That's why you're raising them without a father in the home because you're either divorced
or he's passed away or he, you never married him in the first place.
Why?
Because it wasn't a healthy situation.
And so those kids, they pick up on your feelings and your emotions.
They know how you're feeling.
They know what's up.
They don't consciously know, but they unconsciously feel it.
And so they might start to have some revealing for healing and not even know why.
Right.
And so you want to support them without allowing them to distract you.
Okay.
Cause this is your time.
It's that thing on the plane, put your own oxygen mask on first, and then you can help
your child.
Cool.
You can expect to feel all the fields.
For those of you that are shut down, we call it numbing in the clinical world.
For those of you that have parts of you that you just don't feel much, you just don't feel
much in those areas.
I can't tell you how many women have come to me and said, you know, I just have never
really been that attracted to anybody.
I just haven't, I haven't really been in love.
I don't know if I was ever in love or, you know, once we get them into phase two, they're
just like, yeah, you know, he's a nice guy.
He seems really great, but I don't feel any sparks.
Why?
Because we're numbing out.
We've been hurt so many times, or we're so afraid of being hurt that those parts of us
are shut down.
Right.
And I talked about that in the challenge about those places coming alive again.
So we've got to feel the fields to heal the fields.
That's what I say in the hard work.
We've got to feel the fields to heal the fields.
And so, yeah, you're going to have feelings maybe that you haven't had a really long time
and that's okay because they're not permanent.
So regardless of whether they're great or whether they're not so great, I just really
want to encourage you to push through them.
Don't fall off.
Don't go sit down in a corner somewhere and self-medicate come here and let's just go
ahead and feel them together so that we can move you through them to the next level.
Okay.
So you're going to have those revealing for healings.
All hell might break loose.
You're going to feel the fields to heal the fields.
One of the things that's going to happen is Psalm 126.
You're going to begin to dream again.
The word of God says that when we're in captivity, we can't dream.
But when we're coming out of bondage, we become like those that dream.
I want to tell you that one of the biggest things that happens in post-traumatic stress
disorder or anytime that you've had trauma in your life as a result of that trauma, a
lot of times our imaginations turn dark.
So we still have an imagination, but we can't imagine anything but bad happening.
Anybody else ever experienced this?
You really are kind of stuck on worst case scenario a lot, and you're always like in
hypervigilant survival mode, trying to make sure that nothing bad is going to happen.
You're always very cautious, maybe even call it being responsible, but you don't really
take a lot of time to just sit around and dream anymore.
Like imagine or fantasize yourself in really good scenarios where really amazing things
are happening to you.
Your imagination has turned negative.
So if you're imagining something, you're usually imagining a scenario that you don't
want and you feel like by imagining it, that is somehow keeping it from happening.
So you're like, well, if I get ahead of this thing, then I'm going to beat it.
It's time for your imagination to be shifted back over to dreaming with God again.
God wants that for you.
We've been created to be dreamers.
We've been created to imagine with God or dream with God.
Remember we are God's dream.
You are a product of the imagination of God and he took his imagination and he wrapped
a body around it and we call it you.
And so just how he's a creator of amazing and beautiful things, you are also a creator
of amazing and beautiful things.
And so we want to come out of that stress and trauma response with our imaginations
and we want to dream with God.
We want to begin to see ourselves in, in the things that we want to have happen in our
lives.
We want to begin to see ourselves in incredible scenarios, doing things that we've only dreamed
of doing.
And that is what we want to do.
So night dreaming, put a little journal, put a little notepad, a pen.
You will not remember if you wake up in the middle of the night, you're like, wow, that's
an interesting thing.
I got to ask Jackie or a team member.
I got to ask.
somebody what that means.
And then you go back to sleep and you wake back up
and darn it, you just can't, you know, you had a dream,
but you don't know what it is.
You just can not.
Yes, Linda Hart, if you've not dreamed in a while,
that is a good indication that you've been
in some kind of stress response.
Because we've been designed to dream.
People will say all the time, including me,
oh, you know, I'm not a dreamer.
I don't dream that much at night.
Yeah, because our hormones are whacked out
because our adrenals are burnt out
because we're stressed out.
And the first thing that happens
when you're stressed out friends
is that your adrenals are impaired,
your thyroid is impaired,
your ovaries are impaired
if you're still a menstruating woman.
And then guess what?
You're not getting deep sleep.
And so you're not getting REM sleep,
so you're not getting dream sleep.
Does that make sense to everyone?
You guys, it's biological.
And so as you're starting to come out of that
during the heart work, you're gonna start dreaming.
And when you start dreaming,
and some of you are not even gonna only dream at night,
you're gonna dream during the day.
You're gonna find yourself sitting around daydreaming again
like you were when you were a kid.
Write those things down.
God's talking to you.
He's always talking to us,
but he wants to let you in on the little love notes
that are leading you somewhere special in your life.
Okay, so begin to write those things down.
You start seeing patterns, write them down.
Like I saw a red bird five times this week.
Write it down.
God's talking to you.
Like I saw, I saw all these numbers.
I keep seeing them.
One, two, three, four, two, two, two, four, four, four,
11, 11, one, one, one, all the things.
Write it down, write it down.
And we'll make sure that on all of our heart work check-ins,
our heart check-ins,
we will say something about supernatural patterns.
Okay, we'll say something, we'll take any questions,
because remember those heart check-ins,
you get to ask your questions.
Regardless of what part of phase one you're in,
you're gonna get to ask your questions
if you show up live.
Okay, really important stuff.
So you're gonna start dreaming again.
You're gonna start having daydreams again.
You're gonna imagine,
you might start having a little thing called deja vu.
Just so you know, you know what deja vu is?
It's convergence.
And so if you start experiencing deja vu,
I want you to stop right then.
I want you to take inventory, write it down.
Who am I talking to?
What am I talking about?
Where am I?
Who am I with?
Who am I not with?
What's going on?
Write it down.
Why?
Because the reason why you're having deja vu
is because you are actually remembering something
that God has spoken to you,
maybe in the nighttime, in a dream,
that you don't remember consciously.
It could be something that's actually written
in your Psalm 139 story.
That story that God wrote about your life.
You could be actually experiencing it,
and the real you knows that you've heard about this
somewhere before.
In that story that was written inside your heart.
Like when I saw my husband on that jumbotron, I knew him.
I didn't know why I knew him,
but two years later, he became my neighbor,
and four years later, he became my husband.
Right?
Or two years later, he became my neighbor,
and four years later, I found out
that he was the same guy in the jumbotron
after I was married to him for two years.
Why did I recognize him?
My heart recognized him because he was written in my story.
So you guys, one thing that I really want
to have happen to you, and it's meant to happen to you
during phase one, is that you supernaturally come alive.
You're a spirit that lives in a body.
You're not a body that has a spirit,
and your spirit's gonna come alive.
You're gonna start realizing that God's talking to me.
He's leading me.
He's guiding me.
He's emotionally involved with me.
He loves me.
He wants better things for me
than I would ever choose for myself.
That's what we want to have happen to you in phase one,
and it's going to.
God starts reframing all the bad things
that happen in your life.
You're gonna start seeing it through a different lens.
You're gonna start having those Romans 8, 28,
God working it all out to your good moments,
beauty for ashes kind of stuff,
as you progress through those first five weeks.
It's gonna be so fun.
You're gonna get to see it happen for other people too,
and that is gonna be so rewarding for you, okay?
Woo!
Love it.
So exciting.
All right.
Okay, so that is what you can expect.
Does anyone have any questions?
And then once again,
we don't have it completely set up this way
because you're the first group
that's gonna go through this hybrid,
like kind of beyond the honor system,
go at your own pace,
but pretty soon,
probably within the first week of your program,
when you unlock a material,
like you unlock a session,
a video of me speaking to you,
like in week one or week two,
it'll generate an email.
So please make sure that you mark our email safe.
Make sure that you remove them from your spam inbox,
put them in your inbox so that we're communicating with you
because in that email,
it's gonna tell you really what we want you to dig into
when you.
watch that video and what you should or might be feeling and just different things that should be
feeling, but might be feeling it kind of coach you a little bit in those emails, along with
that live coaching session every week. Okay. We want to make sure you're getting those emails
are really important. Okay. They're not going to come right away. Remember what I just said.
It's not completely that algorithm isn't completely set up yet, but it's going to start
happening pretty soon here. You know, hopefully before you get through week one, that's going
to start happening. All right. Okay. So coaches, we have Bethany Cooper on tonight. She used to
be Bethany Stanko when she was like you, because she is a success story from this community.
Always was a coach was a coach before she came to us. Like a lot of you are, and now she coaches
for us and she will be one of your main heartwork coaches that will be showing up with you on those
check-ins on Monday. And then we have Renee Rizzo on here as well. And she's going to be a very
familiar face to you when you get to phase two. She also was a student in this program as well.
And so when you get to phase two, you're going to get to glean from the wisdom of, we call her Rizzo
around here and you know, kind of like Greece, right. And you're going to get to glean from
that wisdom when you get to phase two and you'll see, you'll see some of her before that as well.
Then we have another, other amazing coaches. If you see people commenting on your posts
in any Facebook group, whether it's phase one, two, or three, that's right. There's three different
Facebook groups. So when you go on phase one Facebook group, when you're done with that
and you, and you request phase two, because you got the email, it's time to go to phase two
and you went over there, you'll get removed from the phase one group. Okay. So don't worry about
that. And you know, if you can help us remove yourself, that's great, but otherwise we will
remove you because we don't want you confused in those groups. But in those groups, when you post
and you see people that are commenting on your posts, and it seems more like a coaching comment
is probably not one of your sisters. And here's probably one of our peer coaches that works with
us. Right. And so we're going to introduce all of them to you. So you know who they are,
and you don't think that they're just some nosy Nelly all up in your business.
When you're posting there, you're like, Hey, you're not supposed to be coaching me. The coaches are,
well, they are an extension of the coaches. And so we want to know, we want you to know who they
are. So you don't think that they're just some, you know, some overzealous over helping. I'm not
bossy. I'm just an aggressive helper kind of girl, right? Because there's a sweatshirt that I almost
bought for myself. It says I'm not bossy. I'm just aggressively helpful. Some of you are like that
too. All right. So they are not being aggressively helpful. They are actually,
they have permission and they to be helpful because they all have been through this program
and they've been with us for a long time and they're here to help you be successful. All
right. Does anyone have any questions? I have a question. Okay. Um, if I'm not ready to talk
to guys or start dating after phase one, can I wait for phase two or how does that work?
I think phase two would still just be amazing for you. Even if you're, even if you're not,
cause ladies, you're not going to ever stop doing the heartwork. The heartwork is a tool belt
you're going to wear for the rest of your life. And it's just going to help you to, you know,
just really be self-aware of what's happening in your life and be able to get to those wins a lot
faster. But if you're really not ready, because we have people in here whose husbands just passed
away or they just got divorced or different things, no one's going to force you into dating,
but the information in phase two, like the divine feminine and boundaries and all that is so good
for you, regardless of whether you're ready to get out there or not. Okay. So go ahead and do it.
And don't just wait until I feel like I'm ready to date. Yeah. I think that you'll really enjoy
it regardless of whether you really want to get out there or not yet. Okay. Yeah. And it might
actually empower you to feel confident to want to do that. And here's the other thing. You have no
idea how you're going to feel after heartwork, right? Don't force you. Okay. I just went through
a breakup. Um, so I'm just kind of not sure. You're wrong. You're wrong. We get it. Yeah. Yes.
And we're here to help stop the bleeding. It's going to be good. You're in the right place.
And that goes for anyone. We're not going to force you into anything you don't feel ready for. Okay.
But we're here to get you ready. That's what we're here to do. All right. Who else?
We had one question, um, about Christmas day and new year's fall on Monday. So they they're asking,
will they have live sessions on Christmas day and new year's day?
Um, we probably will still record something. I think that we will, our, that our team will
still record something, but you can just watch it and replay. Like, if you can't be there for that,
we understand that it's Christmas day. Um, but we will still record it because we really need
to stay on that Monday. And you guys, you're going to learn something about me.
Um, right now in, in this program, I learned a long time ago that the timing's never going
to be perfect in life.
And so if you want it, you just got to go do it, right?
You just got to go do it.
And so, um, so yeah, you know, we don't just, we don't just wait for Friday.
We won't, don't wait for vacation.
We don't wait till we're a certain age.
We don't, you know, wait till we're a certain weight.
Like a lot of you, you know, you haven't replaced your clothes in a long time because you're
waiting until you feel worthy of cute clothes because you don't like your body.
Well, it's time to start making peace with your body and letting it look cute, regardless
of whether you're at your ideal weight or not.
Like we're not going to wait.
Okay.
This is life.
This is not a dress rehearsal.
This is life right now.
And so our team will show up.
Someone on our team will show up, probably me and, um, and, um, especially since, um,
I am having Christmas on the 23rd.
So on the 25th, I for sure can show up coaches.
I will.
I will take those.
I will take those slots on the 25th.
And so, yes.
And on, and on, on New Year's day too.
So you can watch and replay if you're not available though.
And I leave prayer on Mondays and I will be praying on Christmas day and New Year's day.
There we go.
Right.
There's a scripture in the Bible that says that if you regard the wind, like the weather,
the wind and the rain that you will never plant and you will never harvest.
And so, you know, we can't just, we can't work, wait for perfect conditions.
We just got to go after it.
All right.
So what else do we have?
Any other questions?
Let me look in the chat here.
Cause I see that there's stuff coming up.
All right.
What if you don't think you know how to look cute, et cetera?
Oh, you're going to get so much of that in phase two.
And if you end up in path two, when you get to phase three, there's going to be a lot
of that as well with just, you know, beginning to love yourself, you got to rock it out.
You know, I'm a, I'm a, I'm what they call midsize girl.
So I'm not necessarily plus size, but I'm not, you know, missus size either.
I'm just kind of right in that, you know, 10 to 16, depending on who makes the clothes
kind of arranged.
And you know, I didn't used to be like that when I was young and I'm five 10.
So I'm pretty substantially kind of sturdy girl.
And I just had to make peace with, you know what?
I got to love myself.
I got to love myself right here, right now.
I can't wait till I'm what everybody else thinks I should be or what, you know, I think
I should be based on culture or based on what I was like when I was 20.
And so you're going to hear about how to look cute and how to love yourself.
And that's going to be important.
Did you mention there are dating events later?
How does that work?
There are live events that also include men.
So if you want to call that a dating event, you can call it a dating event, but we have
fun times of discussions, lively discussions called.
He said, she said, we have single spotlights where I might bring someone before you that
I'm trying to match make, you know, and, and interview them and tell you all about them
so that you can meet them.
We do have other fun games and different things that we play like date, the dating game, just
like the old fashioned one where there's three people that you can't see.
And one bachelor or bachelorette that gets to choose between those three people based
on the questions they answer, just fun, things like that.
Plus a lot of our things, Saturdays and Sundays are co-ed Fridays are now co-ed as well.
And so if there are any men in our community that are showing up to those things, just
so you know, ladies, men don't show up to a lot of zoom stuff live, they usually watch
and replay.
But there are lots of opportunities to meet the guys that are somehow associated or affiliated
with our, with our movement.
We have had lots of marriages happen between those two groups of people.
Do you have any events local to the Austin area?
Good question.
Renee, you guys were on here, Bethany, I want to go ahead and make single cities available
to people as soon as phase one.
So ladies, there's going to be a list and links to things to Facebook pages called single
city.
All right.
And we have, I think 19 of them right now.
We have several more that are being added.
Choose the one that's closest in proximity to you.
If you don't have one, that's right in your city that you're from.
You can suggest one to get started there.
Okay.
You can email us and say, Hey, I'd love for you to start one in St. Louis.
But in the meantime, join the one that's closest to you, the one that's within a four or five
hour driving distance, or the one that's just closest to you just in general.
We have a couple in Canada and the rest of them are in the US.
We have one opening in the UK and a couple more us cities that are opening as we speak
or in the works for that.
So we're going to get those links put up in your guide section of your Facebook page.
Scroll down till you see the guide that says single city, and then you'll see the links.
Go ahead and join that.
And that is where you're going to find out about local events.
Like if I'm coming to your city, like I'm in Southern California right now, I was in
Southern California a few months ago.
a meetup, a meet and greet where I got to meet people
and it was fun, it was co-ed, it was a good time.
So if that's happening,
that will be posted on your single city page.
If there are other events in your city for singles,
because all of those single cities have moderators
that are in our community,
they will get posted on those pages
where you can meet up in person with your sisters,
you can do some homework together,
you can go out together and have fun, have a girls night,
you can meet whatever guys are in that area
in the single cities.
The single cities tend to be pretty much sisterhoods though
with just a few men intermingled in there.
All right, what else questions do we have?
Can we join all if we love to travel?
No, we don't like you to do that.
We like you to really have community,
but if you work two places and you're back and forth,
back and forth between those two places,
you definitely can join both of them.
If one place is like your hometown,
that's where your parents still live
and you go there a lot, let's near that one,
then you can do that.
But we definitely don't want you to join all of them.
Okay, so yeah,
because we really want you to make friends and community
and that's what's important there.
And then when you guys get into phase three,
then we do have global groups
that are just everyone everywhere.
And those won't be available to you
until you're over there in phase two and three.
All right, is there any other questions?
The Zoom links for prayers should already be
in your Facebook portal.
Renee, Bethany.
Yes, the schedule and all the Zoom links
are in guide number two in your Facebook portal.
Okay.
Yeah, and that's in Facebook, friends.
Guides in Facebook, right?
When we say portal, that's JackieDorman.com.
Okay, when we say Facebook group,
it's obviously Facebook.
When we say the word guides, that's the Facebook group.
You're gonna see a little word that says guides.
It's gonna either be in your toolbar on your Facebook page,
your phase one Facebook page,
or if you have an old version of Facebook,
there might be a little three line hamburger,
a little three lines, little dropdown menu,
and your guides might be in there as well.
The single cities, we have 19 of them, Sophia.
So you'll see the list of them,
and those will be also in the guides section
of your Facebook group.
So just join the one that's nearest you
or the two that are nearest you.
Don't join all 19 of them, Tony Lynn.
Tory Lynn, Tory Lynn.
Don't, no, I'm just kidding.
I'm just kidding.
Sophia, go ahead.
So I'm in the guides, but I'm not seeing where the-
I'm literally, yeah, Sophia,
she just announced that she's offering that.
So we have not linked it yet.
So you need to, we'll do that tomorrow for you guys.
Okay.
Yeah, usually we don't let,
usually single cities are not available till phase two
because we want you to focus on hard work
and they are co-ed to a certain extent.
So we don't want you to get all, you know,
get all distracted by any guys that you may or may not meet.
But I'm just going to go ahead and do it
because I want you to have community with each other.
I want you to see who lives near you
and who you can get together with
and really link arms with during this time.
So we're going to go ahead
and make those available right away.
Any other questions?
Ladies, remember you're asking questions
for all the people that are not here.
So if you even think that it's a good question,
go ahead and ask it.
Do you have like a specific amount of time
that you encourage girls to wait after a breakup
in order to even step their foot back in there
or not really?
You know, everybody's different, obviously.
You know, it depends on how serious the relationship was.
It depends on what kind of trauma
or drama ended the relationship.
You know, it depends on what level, yeah,
what level of seriousness of the relationship, you know?
And so, you know, it depends on the sensitivity
of the person just in general.
And so I just think that as you go through your heart work,
I think that you'll be able to get a better gauge
of where you are.
And then you'll know what it is
that you want to do going forward.
And ladies, remember that everyone's here
for a different reason, right?
I think that we can all agree
that there are some beautiful, amazing, talented women
that are single.
on this earth, right?
And so that should encourage you first and foremost,
that you're not rowing this boat alone,
but everyone's rowing this boat for a different reason.
And while I don't know all of you personally,
and if I did sit down and have a coaching call with you,
we would probably be able to get down to the bottom of,
you know, your stagnation in this area of your life
pretty quickly.
I do know this,
I do know that there has been a corporate singleness
over the body of Christ.
And God spoke to me that he wants that to end.
So the dry spell in people's love lives has been ending.
There's been a tsunami wave of marriages happening
just in this movement.
That doesn't include all the other people
that may be called to this ministry as well.
And so all I wanna say is this,
is that whatever's been keeping you back from this,
I believe is now breaking off.
Okay, that's why you're here.
So corporately, you know,
we're seeing mass numbers of people get married
and I believe you're gonna be one of them.
So it doesn't matter what's kept you single,
God's, he's playing matchmaker.
So it's time for you now.
Go ahead, let's see.
Is it Ms. Shonda?
I'm so bad at sounding things out.
Is that how I say your name?
Yes, you said it correctly.
And I think you sort of answered the question
without answering the question.
So my question was gonna be about diversity,
but obviously God can move through any,
he can move through anything,
but when we are having the coaching calls
and obviously we are the sum of our lived experiences
and shared experiences,
and sometimes that's very different.
And so my question is always,
if you don't have a very diverse upbringing,
how those answers could be,
or the coaching could be very unique if you,
I don't know, I don't wanna make it like.
No, no, I hear what you're saying for sure.
And we definitely have,
I feel like we have some very diverse experience,
you know, and it's as far as our coaches are concerned
and who they are that will be giving that advice.
And specifically in the area of people's love lives,
I mean, obviously, like you said,
you know, every area of our lives is different.
We all have different experiences in those areas,
you know, regardless of where we come from.
And so, yeah, that's important.
I will say this,
and I think this is important to note that,
you know, I had someone just recently,
I don't know if any of you follow me on Instagram,
but it's Jackie Dorman official on Instagram.
And I post a lot of success stories there.
And there's not a lot of diversity in those pictures, right?
So they're pretty much all just called
And then interspersed every once in a while,
we'll have an interracial marriage,
or we'll have, you know,
we'll have some people of color in some ways,
whether they're Asians or whether they're black,
or it doesn't matter what they are.
And someone questioned me about that,
like, is your program for all people?
It's for all the people that sign up.
And so that has been,
I feel like the thing that has kept us
from having more diversity is that, you know,
more people just haven't given it a shot
and it's not, you know,
is that, you know,
more people just haven't given it a shot
or believe that it was for them.
But I will tell you that when I started this in 2020,
God said that this movement would be instrumental
in restoring the black family.
And so I've yet to see that promise come to pass.
Like I said, it's just been a little trickle
of diversity in the success stories
only because of the fact that
we haven't had more diverse audience
actually join the program.
So I'm excited with this last challenge.
I feel like that's shifting.
And so I feel like that word that God gave me in 2020
about this movement being that force of revival,
I think that that is going to,
I think we're gonna start seeing that come to pass.
Thank you.
And I'm excited about it.
So I made a few comments.
You go, I'm not afraid of being transparent.
I made a few comments during this last challenge
that actually got an email from someone
that they felt like the comments that I made
were actually insensitive culturally.
And I didn't understand.
I had to like actually go back
and look at what the comments were.
And then even after that,
it was hard for me to understand
because culturally those comments are where I come from.
I might not look like I come from that place,
but I grew up in foster care.
I lived in the inner city.
So the comments that I made, they're part of me.
They're part of what would naturally flow from me.
And so I feel like this is a really amazing
and beautiful opportunity for all of us
as the single sons and daughters of God
to kind of lock arms and like join this revival together.
And so that really stretched me.
And I feel like there'll be a lot of stretching
as we go forward, seeing these promises of God fulfilled.
And I'm excited about that.
that. Coolness? Everyone excited? All right. Good, good, good. Well, is there any other
questions? What time is it? All right, we're just a little bit, seven minutes after the hour.
Anybody have any other comments before we go forward?
It sounded like someone was trying to get in the back door. I remember this in my house.
So I'm like, what's going on over there? What's going on? I will, since we're kind of on that
subject, I will say this, you know, you would have heard this in phase two, but let's really be
willing to allow God to move all things out of our heart that would keep us from the love story
that he has for us. Like, you know, we got to surrender the pen and you know, I say this in
phase two, but I'll go ahead and say this now. A lot of people are going to have marriages that
they weren't expecting. So we always have to be open to intercultural, interracial, inter,
you know, denominational or intergenerational like ages marriages, because like, I know someone
right now who's dating someone who's like 35 years older than them. And it's a God thing. And
that's like, whoa, most of us would not sign up for that. Right. So whether it's intergenerational
or interracial or intercultural, intercontinental, you have no idea the love story that God might
have for you. And so I want you to begin, even during this heart work part to really begin to
open your heart, knowing that God knows what's best for you and he knows how to restore your
lineage and legacy better than you do. And so we got to surrender the pen. I would not have signed
up to marry a guy who's two inches shorter than me. Inter, inter height. Is that a thing?
In my bare feet, friends in my bare feet, I'm not even talking about with shoes on.
All right. So, but, um, but yeah, good times. So we all have, we all have things that we're
going to get stretched in. I, mine is small compared to some of the ones that y'all might
get stretched in, but I want us to begin the process of being open to that. Cool.
All right. So I want to pray over you, father God, I thank you for this group of ladies. I
thank you that you brought them here to help them to get to the places that they have always dreamed
of going. And so now is the time Lord help us to come into alignment and agreement with heaven and
every area of our lives. Help us to be willing to be made willing in this day of your power to step
in the waters while they're being stirred, that our hearts might be healed, that the filters might
be cleaned off. The heart lens might be clear so that we can walk into the destiny that you've
always had for us, take our feet off the path of pain and lead us back to you in Jesus name. Amen.
Right. If you think of any other questions, you can put them in the chat of this replay,
like in the comments of this replay and our coaches or myself, we will circle back around
and we will answer those questions, but this is it ladies. You are activated.
Go ahead and go. Remember one week, one, one section, one week, a week of the first five
weeks is what we recommend. If you got to go faster than that, for some reason, we trust you,
but we know that you're doing it for the right reasons, right? Make sure you ask yourself that.
All right. Love y'all. See you soon. Bye everyone.