Okay, so my name is Renee Rizzo, a lot of you maybe saw me in the challenge group.
I was one proving all of the posts and helping out.
Some of you just joined in the last five days, some of you have joined in the last two weeks
and you're like, I haven't had time to do anything yet, so help.
This is literally just an orientation to make sure, and I'm going to spend a good part of
the time.
Don't worry, you may want to watch some of this in replay because you're driving, because
I'm going to share my screen and show you guys how to get around Facebook, where all
this stuff is, but mainly the portal.
That's the most important thing.
I want to make sure you know where all the videos are and all the teachings, and kind
of answer any questions you have about the start of this program.
So thank you for joining this community, you guys.
This is a really special program and a special community.
Jackie is at the airport right now, coming home from her daughter getting engaged in
California and she said, strangers are coming up to her saying, I went through your program
and I'm married because of you.
And she's like, these are the stories I didn't even know existed, and it just happens.
And so there's a real, real cool thing.
As you guys know, Jackie started this program in October, November, formally of 2020.
And I joined the program in March of 2021.
So I've been a part of this community for three years.
And I started teaching ad hoc within a year, and I've been on the staff team for about
a year now.
And so you will see my face in and out a lot.
You will see Cheryl's face in and out a lot on technology.
And obviously in heart work, you will see and hear from Bethany Stanko, and you will
hear from her and her team a lot.
So the cool thing about this program, so we'll just kind of summarize again.
It is in three phases.
And right now you guys are in phase one, and ideally you're here about five weeks.
Some of you might get it done in four weeks, and some of you might take six or seven weeks
and that's okay.
I will say when it comes to the heart work, you guys, I still have the ebook that is in
your portal.
I downloaded it.
I still have mine.
I've downloaded it and printed it like on my own printer.
So I printed it in eight and a half by 11 paper.
I marked it up and it's still sitting over there in the corner of my house.
And I refer back to it all of the time.
So don't think phase one is, okay, I do the heart work and I'm never going to do it again.
It's kind of like when you go to therapy and you're like, oh, like I'm never going to need
recovery or help.
No, it's not true.
It's no different than I used to run marathons, but today I still have to keep working out
to have a healthy body.
I can't live off of what I did 10 years ago.
It's something that I have to do it.
So that's the goal of the heart work.
So I'm going to go on and I'm going to go ahead and share my screen with the portal
because I'm going to walk you through.
I want to make sure you're set up to get emails from us.
Now you may have heard Jackie say we are moving to a new app.
So I'm going to show you what this app looks like from my computer.
And then I'm going to show it to you from my phone because the new app is even easier
to use, but all apps, some for this kind of product, all kind of look the same.
So once we give you the link to the new app, if you could, if you can master this app,
you are going to be able to master that one.
So that's the first thing that we're going to do is we're going to walk through the portal
so you can see where everything is, how to download stuff, how to move to the next thing.
And then we're going to go to the Facebook page and kind of show you around there.
And I really want to help you guys navigate it.
Here's what I can tell you with heart work.
What you put into it is what you're going to get out of it.
So you always want to try to take it in, in chunks.
You want to journal about it.
You want to pray about it.
You want to see how it shows up in your life each and every single day.
And when Bethany puts that roll call thing on Monday mornings and said, how are you doing?
We actually want to hear how you're doing.
And then when you watch that last video, it's going to trigger an email from us to say,
hey, you're done with phase one.
We're going to give you the module for phase two.
And here's the link to get to phase two Facebook page.
If you don't get that email and you don't get that link, not a problem.
You just email me, email admin at JackieDorman.com and we're going to get you there.
And then the same thing happens for phase two.
Phase two is a lot shorter.
Um, well, it's only, it's four weeks, but that's where you start your dating, but there's
a lot less homework.
It's just four, five videos.
And so it's much more palpable to get in there.
And then by phase three, you're with the entire community, which has over a thousand people
in it, you guys.
And so we're super excited.
So I'm going to go ahead and share my screen.
I'm.
we're gonna go from scratch together on how to get there.
Yeah.
Okay.
So, okay.
So I'm in Google here, you can all see.
I'm gonna go to JackieDorman.com, boom.
So right there in the middle, that's the login button.
So hopefully you've already gotten your email
and your login.
So first thing we're gonna do is we're gonna make sure
I am set up to get these emails.
I have more core slot in my library than you guys do
because I have access to all of them.
But I'm gonna go over the two you should have access to.
The first one being phase one, right here,
the HeartWork program.
This is where the content is.
Right next to it, you're not gonna see
any of this other stuff because you're not there yet,
but here's what the content looks like
for Love Stories Accelerator phase two.
But with phase one, this is the content.
Right next to it, you're gonna also see phase one,
HeartWork check-in and links to live sessions.
You guys, please, for the love of God, get to know this
because half the time people in Facebook are like,
I don't see the links, I don't see the links,
where's the links?
And they're right here in the Porter.
So we're gonna kind of walk through that.
So first, here's the program.
Once you're here, do you see how there's
this little shadowed face?
The first thing I want you to do
when you're done with me tonight
is make sure you're set up to get emails.
So you click on that, you go to settings,
and then you're gonna go all the way down there.
See, it's got my name and my email.
It's not gonna let you put an address in.
I don't know why, it just won't.
And right here, please ail me
about new products and promotions.
A lot of you don't have this turned on.
So you need to turn it on,
and then you have to come up here and hit save.
You have to hit save.
So you can't just turn it on and get out of the room.
You actually have to hit save.
So that's how you make sure you're getting our emails.
I can't do it for you.
If you're like, Renee, I don't remember what you just said,
email admin at JackieDurham.com.
I will send you the instructions
and I will give you the screenshot that goes with it.
But lo and behold, here is the program.
So the first thing, so see, look at,
cause I actually learned this the old way,
so I haven't even gone all through this.
This is the welcome video.
You're gonna start there.
This is a little bit of a brief information.
Then there's this welcome from Jackie.
And then there's these two live orientations.
Now I will say this,
you're here with me getting an orientation,
but every time Jackie speaks, it's always good nuggets.
So if you wanna go back and watch these orientations,
if you have not done so, please go ahead and do so.
She's always got great little nuggets in there.
Right there, schedule and important links.
Looks it, right, it's also right here.
So you can click on that.
And this is what your course looks like.
So see, when you're done looking at something,
you actually have to hit this button, mark as complete.
Now it knows you've done the next thing.
So look right here, click for dates and times,
convert it into your area.
Every Monday here, here is the session link right here.
You see how there's the link right there?
You're like, oh my gosh.
So every week, every Monday at these times,
we do a heart check in.
So you never even need to go into Facebook
to get this link.
Here's the link.
If the link is ever not working, we have the meeting ID.
So you go www.zoom.com, you put in this meeting ID
and you put in this passcode.
So right now you've got two ways right here
to get into this weekly link.
I'm gonna actually take a look and see what this shows us.
Ooh, look at that time zone converter.
I mean, we're just so good for you guys.
That's mainly for our out of the country people.
Okay, weekly prayer calls.
So here is the schedule.
So not only does this tell you when we're praying,
but they're telling you which link to use.
So Monday through Thursdays,
we always use the women's prayer link
because it's women only.
Faith Friday, we actually started letting the guys
come to the session on Fridays
because it's our brag on Jesus Friday.
So we do a little bit of opening prayer first,
but we go right into everybody sharing something
that God is doing in their life.
Saturday, we have a separate link
called Supernatural Saturday.
And I'm gonna show you the links in just a moment.
And that's where Jackie's always giving a prophetic word.
The women's prayer and faith Friday are not taped.
They are not recorded.
They're every day.
In fact, we're about to start in
a Wednesday evening prayer time
and possibly a Monday evening prayer time.
So you people who can't get to the morning prayer,
we're trying to think of you and come up with other options.
So Saturday is always gonna be in replay.
So out of this entire grid right here,
Supernatural Saturday is the only one recorded.
Every now and then,
if Jackie feels like she's doing something anointed,
she might record Sunday night.
Sunday night is basically taking
what Jackie teaches on Saturday.
And Sarah Crockett, this is like her ministry.
She helps you activate it in your life.
So if Jackie is talking about putting down the spirit
of discouragement, Sarah's gonna walk you through
some things how to do that.
So you always see the links that's being used
and then guess what?
Right here, here are the links.
Boom, there's the link again.
There's the link again.
So we have the links here.
So we have the links here and in that other place.
Isn't that beautiful?
We have the links in more than one place.
So obviously once I completed this,
it's gonna want me to go right to the lesson.
And then it's gonna say,
okay, so here's my printable downloads.
You're like, where are all the downloads?
Here's where they are.
And they're right here.
Here's the ebook.
Again, if you cannot, because it's a copy written book,
you can't bring it to the printer,
but you can print it yourself at home.
Here's the permission slip.
Here's the revealing for healing cycle, the hope scale.
You're like, well, when do we use these?
You will know when you get the teaching
and I'll kind of show you that next.
So I'm gonna mark that as complete.
And then it's gonna say instructions for the week.
So part one.
So now here, now I'm in the part one video.
It says I've completed it,
but if I watch the video and I hit complete.
So now in this video,
you see how the permission slip is right there to the right.
So I know the permission slip is what goes with this video.
So whenever a download is necessary and they print out,
the video is gonna be here.
The download is gonna be right here.
If you don't see a download,
then there's nothing to be downloaded.
And so it's gonna tell you right here,
read part one of the heart workbook, pages one to 48.
Journal your answers.
Watch the prerecorded videos one through three.
And you're gonna see those coming up next.
Here's the homework questions that go with it.
So this is video one.
And so it says I've already watched it.
So now I'm gonna go to like the next lesson.
So here's video two.
And then you watch that one
and it's gonna get you to video three.
So at the front of every week,
it's gonna always tell you
what your homework assignment is done.
When you hit download and complete,
it's gonna take you to the next lesson.
So I'm gonna go all the way back out here
and I'm gonna go to phase one.
I need to go further out than that.
Here we go, I'm into the library.
I wanna go over here to the links.
Now before I go anywhere else,
I'm gonna also let you guys come off mute and ask questions.
So here is all the check-ins.
So here, we also have something for you to read.
The Royal Rules, our schedule for events.
Again, there's another schedule here.
You're like, I didn't see the schedule.
Here it is again.
Here are the links again.
And then you get to come in here.
If you're like, well, I missed an event
where it's gonna be.
Here are the live replay sessions.
The only replay sessions I would ask you to go back
and listen to are Supernatural Saturdays only if you want.
These HeartWork live check-ins,
they would just be confusing for you to go watch
because that's what you're gonna be happening live.
So yes, you can go listen to them,
but it really, you wanna stay more active.
So you wanna look at things like Supernatural Saturday.
See, that happened to be a Sunday we did record it.
Supernatural Saturday, you don't need to watch
that January live orientation, Supernatural Saturday.
So those are an example of what you're gonna wanna watch.
And then it has the February ones again.
So you have access to all the live recordings
and all the links.
So if you're like, where are the replays?
Where are the replays?
Where are the links?
So we've given you two places to see them.
So this is this library and the other library.
So you actually, the only reason why,
I'm gonna stop sharing my screen for a second
so I can see all your beautiful faces.
So the idea is that you should be able
to stay in the portal.
Now, if you're like, I hate being on my computer,
I'm gonna show you what the portal looks like
from your phone.
You just download Kajabi, it's called Kajabi, K-A-J-A-B-I.
And it's got this blue little link.
And then it will ask you for which company
and it's jackydorman.com.
And you put in the web address.
And then what comes up is the thing.
And you'll see the same stinking library.
There's all of the same stuff there for the videos.
And then you'll see the phase one links.
So it's Kajabi, that's the name of the app.
And you wanna type in jackydorman.com.
So if you're like ever on the road and you're like,
crap, I don't have the link for Supernatural Saturday
and I'm on the car, pull it up from the app
and you can go right into the links.
And you're like, okay, boom,
here how to get a schedule and important links, boom.
Here is the prayer call right or even the the phase one check-in. Boom. Here's faith Friday
I'm gonna click on this link. So right from your phone
You can get to any of the zoom links right there
So and you might as well get used to trying it this way because when we move to the new app
It's the same thing you guys work. It's probably not gonna be called Kajabi
We're gonna have you download another app for it, but it's gonna have the same idea
you're gonna be able to do everything from your computer and
Everything from your phone we are trying to become very
Non-dependent on Facebook Facebook is being really wonky and funky lately
And so we want you to be able to live not on Facebook
we're even opening up in the new app a
Community section so you will be able to chit-chat with each other and with the other coaches
Right in the app so you don't have to we will probably make
Facebook very very very generic
Sure, let me see it is
Kajabi is the name of the app
now you might might be like
Okay, so
Kajabi is the name of the app and if you go to like your Apple Store or in I mean, I'm Ivan
I'm on an Apple
But I will go to the App Store
I
Will pick up Kajabi, it's gonna look like I've already got it
So right there Kajabi, do you see how it's got that little blue color that one is Kajabi
and
So that's how you're gonna open it up and then you're gonna put in Jackie Dorman now some of you might think it's not even
Worth it. I will tell you this you guys you will be in the new app
You will be on boarded into the new app probably in the next three weeks. So some of you actually might finish phase one
Before you go into the new app
So some of you you might feel like it's not even worth me downloading this app if it's not gonna be here in three weeks
Then don't download it. Just use it off your computer. Just use Facebook
I'm just trying to give you guys as many options as possible like Laurie is sitting here in her car
So it might have been really nice for her to have the you know
An easier version from her phone to kind of jump in from it. So just wanted to offer that as an option
Are there any questions about
Moving around the portal where the links are the videos are the downloads are because I will go back there if we need to
So I want to make sure you guys feel super comfortable. Just make sure
When you finish a video you have to do mark as complete you guys. I'm in seminary school right now
I swear I have to do the same dang thing like they call it Moodle, but it's the same thing
I have to watch videos. I have to mark it done and it's telling me how much I'm getting stuff complete
It's how I click in my homework. It's how I download the PowerPoints. I'm like here
I am in seminary school and I'm doing the same dang thing y'all are doing. So it just is what it is
This is how we're doing things digital now
Okay, any questions at all about the portal? Do y'all feel good?
You all saw how I told you to make sure you're getting the emails
I also will tell you this too and I know some of you are like I'm still not getting the emails
Once we go to the new app, we're gonna do all most communication through push notifications
So make sure you have your push notifications turned on. We're not gonna over bombard you
We're not gonna send you crap all day long
but if there is a class that day that you're supposed to be at we're gonna tell you if the zoom link got switched we're
Gonna tell you if Jackie's coming on live to do something special. We're gonna tell you so that's gonna be the primary way
We're gonna communicate with you is through the push notifications of the app
So we'll be there in a few weeks wanted to walk you through that
Alright, I'm gonna hop back over to share so I want to briefly walk you through Facebook and here's what I can tell you for
now
For now Facebook is where to have community and some of you're like, oh my gosh
I can't stand Facebook then just come out on it once a week. Come on it twice a week
Bethany is always gonna do a roll call question and that's your chance to give updates on how you're doing
We decide what to do at the check-in based on what you guys say
Because all of you are coming in and stay in phase one at different speeds
Some of you are going to be in a fit in a group
Where you've just been in for two weeks and somebody else has been in for five because they're just going really slow
And so we want to make sure each week we address the questions that the majority of you are having so they're very dynamic
They're very kind of on the scene. The other thing is if you can't make a live session
We strongly encourage you to watch your stuff write down your questions or you get your wins or get your concerns and then
Create a Facebook post and say hey, I didn't make it to the repay. Here's what I learned this week
I just finished week two did it at a Bethany or the other coaches will respond to your questions
So the goal is to do the this work in community. We don't want you to do it in isolation
We never think it's a good thing for you to do stuff in isolation.
So I actually have to change Chrome because I, I, you guys have a lot of contracts.
So I have to change.
I have different Chromes for, Oh, it's not what I meant to do.
Okie dokie.
Let me move you because I got to get to my other Chrome so I can get to my Facebook account.
There we go.
All right.
Facebook.
Here we go.
So now we're going to go to, if you all have not joined, please, for the love of God, I've
If you guys did not get in here, I promise you've got an email from me if, and if you
didn't get an email from me, it's sitting in your junk, but we're going to go to phase
one.
Okay.
Where is everything?
You're like, Oh, I forgot where everything is in the portal.
In the guides is also the same stuff.
We have the welcome video.
We have the orientations.
We have the, um, the welcome right here.
So the group rules.
So everything that you just saw on the portal, um, everything you just saw on the portal
is here.
Then you're going to see, but see, here's the problem with Facebook.
You guys, all the comments you see, it's going to just drag you down.
Guide two.
We always say, where are the links?
Guide two.
So in guide two, here's the links.
Here's the course calendar again.
Oh, well, that's not good.
Um, obviously I'll have to fix that.
The prayer schedule is right here.
So all the links that you saw in your Porter, I'll also hear too.
Here's what happens though.
Here's why people don't like looking at them in Facebook.
So I'm going to go to the all community link.
Watch what happens.
Okay.
See faith.
This is why we're getting off Facebook y'all.
This right here.
This is right here.
Why we're getting off Facebook because this is not supposed to, but I mean, I don't even
have to tell you, um, normally here's what would happen though.
Normally it would drag me down and you would see the full thing with all the phone numbers.
And if people wrote comments in it, because every time somebody else needs to mute, um,
thanks.
Okay.
So, and then here are the replays.
Let me pull up this.
I need to pull up this and see who's not muted.
Okay.
There we go.
All right.
I just muted you.
All right.
So here's also replays.
So the live sessions, supernatural Saturday replays, um, and so join your single city.
So I, and you guys, by the way, this link, this link is not working too right now.
All right.
But let me go back out of the guides to show you I'm in the wrong place.
Okay.
So let me show you now.
The other thing is, so your computer now, now this is exactly what it looks like on
my iPhone.
For some of you who have an Android, you're not seeing this.
So this is what my phone shows me.
This is what the computer shows me.
Here are the guides here's featured.
And then obviously under featured.
Now just to give you guys an idea, this is most relevant.
If you're worried that you're not seeing the most recent post, you go new posts and it
resorts it by the most recent post, because if it's most relevant or newest activity,
it's just pulling up the one that's got most recent comment on it.
But if you feel like somebody has had the most important post, you can resort it by
new posts.
Or if it's really important, look here on the featured, see how the featured goes across.
And so that's your best way to see everything that we think is featured.
So that's also another way to make sure you got your subscribe to emails.
I tried to do a post, barely anybody looked at it, but I was trying to help you guys out.
So you'll always see these reminder posts here.
This is what I was just talking to you about.
This is the roll call post.
Look at 91 comments.
So she's wanting to hear from you.
How are you guys doing?
What's going on?
People are giving some updates here and look at poor Bethany and her amazing team.
They respond to every comment within a day.
See how much we love you guys?
We are making sure that you are getting attended to.
So if you don't see this post, but this post it's always done on Mondays, it's a great
way for you to do that.
But if you're like, I just need to see, ask you something, then you would start your own
post.
I just watched the video, blah, blah, blah, and then you would just post it.
And then Bethany will respond to you there.
I'm not teaching you how to use Facebook because y'all know how to use Facebook.
I'm just wanting you to feel like you can navigate Facebook with our features.
So featured in guides, that's the only place.
Guides has the links and the replays.
Featured are the most important recent posts that we have.
Okay.
So that is the technology around what we've got.
I want to now encourage you as you go through this, I'm going to like just give some encouragements,
but I really then also want to hold space for you guys to ask me questions.
So here's what I can tell you about the heart work in phase one.
The heart work material is based off.
of her book.
So you've got the book, you've got some videos,
and you guys, the videos are never longer than,
there's like 14 chapters in the book.
So you're basically, it's been broken out into five weeks.
So you're only doing about three chapters a week.
You're reading about three chapters a week.
And you guys, this is not like,
I have seminary books I have to read right now.
I promise you, it's not like that.
Like, her book is very much her story
and what God has done.
So this is not a hard read.
You will enjoy the read, you'll love it.
And so it's about three chapters a week,
and it's about three videos a week.
These videos are like between 12 and 15 minutes long.
That's it.
So it's gonna be about 45 minutes of video time,
maybe an hour and a half of reading time,
depending on how fast you read.
And then obviously to answer the questions.
There are questions at the back of every chapter,
and there's also those additional questions.
The ideal is that you take the answers to those questions
to those check-ins,
because that would be a great time to bring them back up.
Otherwise, you can respond to your answers in the feed
and kind of get feedback from them.
It is a private page, you guys.
Only people in phase one are in there.
Nobody else can see the stuff that's going on in there.
So you're as about as safe as you can get.
Y'all, I have seen people be very blunt
and very honest in that Facebook feed.
I've heard people talk about masturbation, family trauma,
illnesses, multiple affairs, weddings.
So there is nothing that you're gonna bring to the group.
I promise you're like, oh my gosh,
but you don't know what I've done.
I don't care.
I've done it too.
Like there's nothing that you're gonna be able to say
that's gonna shock us or scare us.
The more honest you are, the more we can help you.
So if you're having a good day, tell us.
If you're having a crappy day, tell us,
and we're gonna kind of help you walk through it.
The heart work is focused on heart healing.
You will also then love moving to phase two,
which is love story accelerator.
Sometimes people don't wanna go to love story accelerator
because we give you a dating challenge
and we want you to get back out there
because obviously during heart work,
we encourage you to stop dating.
We encourage you to put the dating on pause for five weeks
because we have to unlearn a lot of stuff
and learn a lot of new stuff and heal from stuff.
If you are in a committed relationship with somebody,
an exclusive committed relationship,
we're not gonna ask you to break up with them.
But if you're just like surfing and swiping,
we're gonna ask you to put that on hold for five weeks.
And we promise you it will be worth it.
In phase two, you'll get a dating challenge
and you'll have an opportunity to have lots of dates.
And there's five videos in that phase.
The love story accelerator challenge, dating 101,
divine feminine and masculine,
online dating and boundaries.
I teach the online dating and the boundary ones.
And I will say you guys,
the online dating class is also meant
for any kind of dating that you would do, not just online.
And you guys, you may not wanna go back online.
That's okay.
Like just watch all of the content.
It's super fun.
And then we do weekly check-ins with that.
And you guys, these check-ins are so fun to come to.
Like right now we only have like,
a dozen folks somewhere between
on any given Monday night or Tuesday night.
So the check-ins for phase one are on Monday nights.
And when you go to phase two,
check-ins are on Tuesday nights.
We could have as little as 12 people
and as much as 35 people.
We never have more than that though on a call.
So you really have the opportunity
to get a lot of good coaching
and you get to what we call go in the hot seat.
So like, I'll be like,
Melanie, tell me how your date went last week.
Did you tow the line?
Like, how did it go?
Or Lori or Linda, how did it go last week?
And so you'll get to see each other and it'll be super fun.
And then phase three is all sorts of fun.
Okay.
So that is a summary of how to navigate
and what to look forward to.
Again, if you wanna hear like tidbits from Jackie,
I encourage you to go to where I showed you
in the heart work where you can watch the live check-ins
that she just did a few weeks ago.
She always has something good to say.
You guys, she has a little outline.
She sometimes follows her outlines.
She always adds something new.
So if you ever have a chance to watch a replay
of something that Jackie has done, always do it.
Put it in the car, do it on a walk.
And then in fact,
if you feel like she's getting to something
you've already heard before,
then just fast forward past it
and you can do your thing and not take up a whole hour.
But this is an opportunity for you guys
to ask me questions.
Or if you're like, I just need to know,
is it okay to be scared to pieces?
Yes, it's okay.
You will dream a lot.
So here's some of the things that you can,
let me tell you this first.
There are some things that you can expect to happen
when you do the heart work.
You will feel all the feels.
You will feel sadder, happier, scared, all of it.
of them bigger than you've ever felt before because that's just what happens when we're
starting to do healing internally.
The other thing that you might do is you might sleep less, you might sleep more, you might
dream a lot more.
We encourage you to write those dreams down and ask Holy Spirit to tell you in the coming
weeks what he's wanting you to say.
Sometimes it's not literal, sometimes it's allegorical and it means nothing.
And sometimes feel free to bring those dreams to either the Facebook page during your update
or the check-in.
So be prepared for that.
Also be prepared for life to try to get in the way.
The enemy wants nothing more than for you to not finish the heart work because he doesn't
want you to have a healed heart and he doesn't want you to have a happy, healthy, holy union
with another person to do covenant and kingdom work.
So your kids, your job, your family, anything that you can think of that will try to get
in the way, will try to get in the way.
And you just say, hey, I'm just taking the next five weeks for me.
And also like you guys don't feel like you have to tell everybody what you're doing.
Here's what I have told people for years.
I'm involved with an online singles discipleship community.
That's it.
That's all I say.
I don't tell people I'm in last year's single, it used to be called Married in 12 Months.
I don't want the judgy McJudgies like going, oh, what does that mean?
And then I got to explain myself and I'm like, I'm in a great community and nationwide, it's
actually global, but a nationwide, you know, online discipleship program, really geared
to singles and it includes heart healing.
It's really amazing.
And I'm working through it and it's really cool to be around like-minded people because
for the vast majority of us, we have church environments that don't have great programs,
especially if you're the age 32 to 55, there's just, there's just not a lot available.
And so we're trying to make it available.
So that's why you need to tell people.
I remember I was with a girlfriend once and she told like, oh, like literally in front
of guys, like, oh my gosh, I know Renee from Married in 12 Months.
And I'm like, shoot, shut up.
I don't tell people that's what I'm in, I don't know.
But you know, if you want to tell people, now I will tell you this, in phase two, we
will tell you to come out of hiding and let people know that you're single, ready to mingle.
And everybody has cute ways that they want to do that.
And that's super fun.
I'm so glad y'all are here.
I'm really glad that you're in this program.
I will say this, the only dissatisfied people that come in our program after three years
are people who don't do the program.
I see the disenrollment report, you guys.
I see everybody who comes and everybody who goes, and 99.9% of the time, if somebody leaves
dissatisfied is because they didn't do anything.
They didn't open up the videos, they didn't read the book, they didn't do the work.
Anybody else who actually does the content always feels like it was well worth their
time and their money.
And so whether you stay with us for six months or six years, it doesn't really matter.
And I promise you this heart work, I think it's kind of like, I always think everybody
should do therapy.
Everybody should do a 12-step program.
That's how I kind of feel about the heart work.
I kind of feel like everybody on this planet needs to do the heart work.
I want my mother, she's 80 years old, she has no desire to ever get remarried again,
but that woman needs the heart work and I'm going to get her to do it one day.
And so I'm hoping and praying that one day Jackie has the heart work sold and marketed
to all the different groups out there because lots of people need heart healing.
Our hearts have been wounded.
We are living in a fallen and broken world and we have found the counterfeit ways to
receive heart love and it has wounded us.
And as she talks about in her book, it has produced counterfeit versions of us.
So that's why we don't want you to date during the heart work because we want you to get
healed because what you used to be attracted to broken is probably not going to be what
you're attracted to healed.
And so Lori, you're like, Lori got to witness my boyfriend, my new boyfriend.
I get to say that my new boyfriend, he literally was just leaving as I was starting and y'all,
he's amazing in every sort of way except he is six two and I'm four foot nothing.
Like it's really silly.
All the tall girls hate me right now because I snagged a tall man and I didn't, I didn't
have, I totally, I totally hate you.
I am five 11 and a half.
Like a lot of the time I sit down on my tall stool and I just stand and then we're like,
I leveled.
Great.
Anywho.
All right.
Well, all right.
I'm going to open the floor.
Thoughts, comments, questions.
Tell me how you're feeling.
Anything.
This is your time now.
And then if there are no questions, I'm just going to let you off the phone, but I'm hoping
you guys either have a good comment or a good question or just, I'm so excited and that's
all I got to say.
So just feel free to unmute yourself.
I apologize, but so I had a question because I kind of missed on the Facebook when you
go on the Facebook is the so the Facebook part is different than the regular Facebook.
So Facebook no the Facebook page remember how you guys were in the challenge page and
you guys were just in this private little group.
Now you hopefully left the challenge group because you don't need that group anymore.
Now you should be in Facebook phase one.
If you did not get the link for that and you don't know where it is oh good I'm so glad
Nicole let me show you really quick oh crap I'm not going to do it this way let me share
my screen so you see what I'm doing okay so if you did not get the email for it it's really
not that hard do you see how it says this you literally just type in last year single
dash phase one so if you did not get the link for it you can just go in there and then you
can you can go ahead and sign up and it's going to give it's going to ask you some membership
questions to get in so no I'm just showing you two ways to be in this community all the
content all the videos and the downloaded materials is in the portal at JackieDorman.com
that first thing I showed you that is a web-based portal that's also on your phone.
The Facebook page is where you're chit-chatting with each other but because we are being nice
we also put all the links and all the guides and all of the replays I mean all the links
and the schedule and the replays in the guide section so it's there but I always recommend
especially for you guys because you're learning and watching everything in the portal I would
just go to the portal for everything I would only use Facebook for community for conversation
that's what I would do I would try not to find crap in Facebook because it's a hot mess
you guys saw how all those links weren't even working just now and I saw a message from
one of our tech team that she said Facebook is being squirrely with us right now so that's
what I would do. Kristal is that my saying it right? Kristal. Kristal okay. Yeah one of the
problems that I had and I think it's going to be more helpful like you said to go to
JackieDorman.com is I started it and I was I went through everything and I was hitting
complete but I felt like it wasn't carrying over so I don't I can't even remember what
I did because I think I had been in like both of them but I'd go into one and I'd
hit complete then I'd go into the other and it yeah it showed like I didn't do it again
and then for whatever reason at one point something happened and I got kicked out so
they had to reset everything and now nothing is checked. Do not worry about that if you're
not getting the I completed email us and let them know and we will force you into the
next place so but you are correct you do want to say in the content portal mark complete
the replay links you don't need to worry about that that's why we separated them out because
a lot of people don't need to watch the replays because they were there live so we didn't
want that counting against you so that's why we have the content separate from the replays
so the content is the one that you want to have to keep marking complete but you guys
do not sweat it if it is not showing that you completed it's not letting you see the
next thing just email us at admin at JackieDorman.com and we will force you to the next place we
will not just should we should we always do it in JackieDorman.com versus Facebook so
if we're gonna ever do it in Facebook okay because I think that was my problem and I
was gonna okay yeah and then I was also having a hard time you know I had I had responded
and put some things and I wasn't getting a response back and I think because they pin
things I didn't understand or or I wasn't seeing how to use the feature and and what
you just showed us so thank you I think that's gonna be helpful and good hopefully I won't
get lost thank you thank you for saying that because I forgot Facebook has that done thing
too yeah don't do it don't yeah thank you for thank you for clarifying that because
I forgot that thing because when I was in the heart work we didn't have a portal so
we had to do everything in Facebook so I had to keep hitting done done done done done in
Facebook don't do that the only thing you should be doing I would only recommend chatting
in Facebook going on to that main news feed answering the roll call question asking your
own question or
looking across at featured. I wouldn't watch anything else in replay or in the guides.
I would just stay off of it. It's been giving us more and more trouble,
but how the system knows you're ready to move on is what's happening in the portal. So thank
you for asking that and me getting a chance to clarify that because I didn't even remember that
part. Okay. Who else? Anybody else have a question or comment?
Renee, the Jesus Cares Board. Yes, ma'am.
Could you give clarity to that, please? Okay. So you have to make your own Jesus
Care Board. So in the second week, I'm actually going to grab mine for you.
See, where did I put it? I had to hide it because it talks about getting married and
I didn't want the boyfriend to see it in the bathroom. I can't be scaring him about that
too soon. Okay. So the Jesus Care Board, really, you guys, I define a Jesus Care Board differently
than a vision board. So a vision board, but there's some similar bent to it, right?
Like a vision board is like what you're going to kind of manifest. These are my goals. These
are the things that I'm going to work on and try to make happen. A Jesus Care Board is almost the
opposite. It's the stuff that's been weighing you down and you're like, Jesus, it's too big.
I can't carry it anymore. I'm going to give it to you. Now we have some artists and creative people,
you guys, they'll do a Jesus Care Board. It's like this big and it's got artwork and drawings
and all the things. My condo is too small for that. So mine is this big. Some people literally
have a bulletin board and they use post-its every time something comes up in their life that is
upsetting them, stressing them out. They write it on a post-it and they clip it to the Jesus Care
Board. And some women like actually keeping a jar of all of the things that God has answered.
So at the end of the year, everything that they cared about, God took care of. So what usually
some of us do, I just printed out and it says, Jesus Cares. It's based off the verse 1 Peter 5,
7. Now, if you guys are just starting and you've not gotten a week to just listen, but you don't
need to know this yet. And it says, cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. So that's
the verse. So that's where Jackie kind of came up with this idea. And so sometimes people do pictures.
Sometimes people go to magazine articles and write that down. So I picked a few areas of my life for
2024 because this is my 2024 one. And I've got my love life on here. So I wrote some things.
I want to date men with three Ms, mature, masculine, and marriage-minded. This year, I want my spirit
mate to find me. I'm in college now. I'm back in seminary school. Maintain a 3.0 average.
So like I've got all these goals, love life, school, my coaching business, and then my work
here with y'all. And so I have some things that I've been losing sleep over. So I've committed
them to God. And I said, okay, God, I'm done worrying about this. It's yours. So does that
answer the question for you? It does. Perfect. Perfect. And like I said, you guys, you'll see
on the Facebook page, some people with the most elaborate and then some people with the most
simple, you do the one that's going to have you do it. Like, that's all I got to say. Just do it.
I didn't do mine for like a year. Jackie's like, oh my gosh, you never did one. I'm like, no,
I thought it was stupid, but like, I totally blew it off. But then I was the one up at night
stressed about everything. And then I started doing it. And I want to say almost everything
that was on my Jesus care board from last year came off. Like God took care of, not always the
way I wanted to, but God took care of it. So this is, this is really a lame version. Y'all like,
my room's too small. I don't know, but it's cute. And it's simple, but it's all the stuff I don't
think about, but I do usually keep it in my bathroom or my bedroom. So I take a look at it
and I'm like, no, God's working it out. Like I have to do my part, but God's going to do his
part. So thank you for asking about that. People always get confused about what to do on the Jesus
care board. So you don't do that till week two. If you're not on week two, don't worry about it yet.
But now when you get to that section, you're going to be like, oh, I remember that conversation. Now
I know what to do. And we've saved you a bunch of confusion on that. Okay. Any other questions?
This was fun. One more, the expectations for this evening, this, the first class I'm going to,
is that we expect it to complete all of the reading, all of the, the journaling.
Oh, you know what, Linda, I apologize. You may have come on. This isn't, this is a follow-up
orientation, this session. So you may have missed what's going on right now and you can actually
hop over to it right now.
If you've already done all your homework and everything,
there is a live check-in going on right now.
The link, again, is back in that portal,
and it's also on that Facebook page.
So if you've already spent a whole week doing your homework,
you wanna hop over there.
She'll be on it for at least another 30 to 45 minutes.
Okay, great, thank you so much.
You're welcome, all right.
So this tonight was just for orientation
for people who just joined,
or for people who have not been
to any of the orientations yet.
We just wanna make sure you're prepped and ready to go.
But as Linda just brought up,
since you guys are now in the program,
the goal would be to read all of that content,
the first three chapters, basically, for week one,
watch those first three videos,
answer those questions, and show up.
But you guys, I will say this.
If you do none of it, show up anyway.
There's always something to learn
and be taught in the check-in.
There's no one that's gonna go,
oh my gosh, Anna, you didn't do your homework, bye-bye.
No, no one's doing that.
So always go to the live, always go to the live,
no matter how far behind you are
on the reading or the journaling.
You're in a group setting.
She's gonna remind you on stuff.
You can even, if she breaks you out into small groups,
you just go, you know what, guys,
I think it's the reading today,
but here's what's stressing me out.
And then the group in there is just gonna pray with you.
It's gonna be that simple.
So never not show up
because you didn't get the homework done.
Okay.
All right, you guys, well, I am super excited for you.
Like I said, show up.
This is a gift for you.
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, Anna.
I don't know how, I'm so sorry.
I appreciate you.
Yeah, hop on over.
All right, so yes,
if you've already been in here for a week,
you've already been doing homework,
you should be on the live check-in.
This was just another orientation
in case you guys had not gotten to any orientation.
And what Jackie specifically wanted me to do
is show you Facebook and show you the portal
because people are getting confused in the portal
and we just wanted to help you guys out there.
All right, you guys have a God bless week.
Have an amazing week and enjoy this community
and I will see you somewhere along the way.
I'm the one that leads prayer on Monday morning.
So if you get to come to prayer on Monday mornings,
you'll see me there.