Hi, and welcome to the final video in this heart workshop.
There's so many different types of things we could talk about, and you're going to see
in your reading that God really wants to get across to you, that you've been matched with
the times that you're living in, that he loves you so very much, and that he knew you before
the foundation of the earth.
That's that Psalm 139 scripture that he knows us.
He knows us.
It's not a dream, and he wrapped your body around it, and he puts you in this timeframe.
He matched you with this era because he believes that you are carrying something that can change
the world.
He placed you in your mother's womb, and a lot of people have some hard work to do around
that idea, because they're like, why would God match me with the family that I was born
into?
They were abusive.
They were harmful.
They weren't safe.
They were hurtful.
But you know what?
You're still here.
I'm still here.
You're still with us.
We've had a lot of things happen to us.
Maybe that school that you went to, maybe that first job that you had, or that party
that you went to.
You're like, hey, if God's so intentional with my life, then why did all of those things
happen?
Why?
Why all the bad stuff?
You know, God has done great things through those things.
We're here today.
Yes, that stuff, that stuff, it sucked, basically.
There's no other way to say it, but nothing that's happened to us is more powerful than
what Jesus did for us on the cross.
And trust me, I have all those t-shirts and mugs too, but we can't fly that banner, that
banner of victim.
If we want to fly the banner of victim, then we can't fly the banner of victory.
We have to believe that everything works out to the good of those that are called according
to his purpose, like his word tells us.
So I want to talk to you about that higher purpose right now.
I want to begin to just infuse your spirit with excitement about what God has planned
for you.
And in your reading assignment for this week, you saw that you're a supernova.
And I believe that with all my heart, that this generation that you've been matched with,
God could have put you anywhere in the earth time realm, anywhere.
Okay?
This timeline that's been going on for some time now, thousands of years, he could have
put you right in the donkey age, in the Bible days, or he could have put you in the 1920s.
You could have been a flapper in the roaring 20s.
You could have been part of the great depression.
You could have gone to war, gentlemen.
You could have been in first world war, the second world war or Vietnam, but no, he matched
you with right now, the 21st century.
You are here because God had something very big in store for the world through you.
You were matched with these times and you are a match for these times.
And so there's a lot of things that are sealed up inside of you still.
And I'm going to speak to those things tonight.
And I'm going to ask those things to come out, the deep things to unlock and to come
to the surface.
In fact, I'm going to command them to.
I'm going to declare that they open and that you're going to start seeing things about
yourself that you never saw before, gifts and talents, potential that you've never known
before, dreams that were buried a long time ago underneath all of those counterfeit layers,
all of that hurt, all that rejection, all that pain, those things are going to start
to poke their little seedling heads back up out of the ground.
And then they're going to grow at an accelerated rate.
That's right.
Because I believe that God is just setting that beautiful table with his finest China
and that we are those vessels.
We're that beautiful China.
And it's not that we haven't been broken.
We have been broken, but we're priceless.
It's not that we're in excellent condition.
You know, I buy things on Facebook marketplace.
I don't know if you do as well.
And people will tell you what condition it's in.
And a lot of times people will say it's new or it's kind of like new, but you get it and
you're just like, oh no.
This is not new.
And we think of ourselves that way.
We're like, oh, I'm broken.
I messed up.
Who's going to want me?
I'm going to have to exaggerate my value to other people, but it's just not true.
You know, there's a beautiful ancient Japanese art of filling vessels, broken vessels with
gold in the cracks and the broken places.
And I write about that in your reading and we have intrinsic value even after we're broken.
You know, the Japanese believe that that's even more valuable once it has been filled
in with that gold filling.
And so our foundation, it may have a lot of cracks in it, but God's filling it in with
his love, with that liquid gold.
And it's coming in, it's filling in all of those places where we've been hurt, where
people have hurt us.
And we've went through all kinds of trauma, all those dark nights of the soul that have
dug a deep, deep, deep well inside of us.
And we're deciding that that water is going to be sweet.
We're going to decide that it's going to be sweet.
I believe that it is sweet and I believe that it's becoming more and more sweet by the moment
as you surrender to this process.
That's why God wants to prepare you.
He wants to cleanse you.
He wants to get you ready to release you.
You're valuable to him, even with all your broken pieces that have been.
put back together with that liquid love of his unconditional grace.
And God has such great things planned for you, those partnerships, those marriages
that he has planned for you, for those of you that are here and want that spirit
mate, those promotions, that acceleration that he has planned over that dream in
your heart, all of those amazing things that he has written in your story.
He already wrote those things in your story, and now he wants you to step out
of the story that hurt and pain and shame and trauma and rejection wrote and
step into the story that he wrote about you, because I believe that you are
shakers and you are kingdom makers.
And God has called you to do amazing things that you're the beautiful
vessels that he is setting the table.
And that liquid gold of his love is just all over in all of those places
that the enemy meant to destroy us.
God is using that to not just heal us, but to heal all kinds of people around us.
And so we need to just push forward into that and remember that we
need to let him fill us, fill us full.
Anytime you feel empty.
Anytime you feel like, oh, I can't do this anymore.
You're right.
You can't do this anymore.
You need God.
It's a God shaped hole that you have going on there.
It's not a man shaped hole.
It's not a woman shaped hole.
It was a God shaped hole.
And ever since I was a little kid, I thought I had to have a boyfriend.
I had to have a man.
I was raised in that generation, born in the seventies.
You just get married.
You fall in love.
It's all about that.
We were all boy crazy in elementary school, middle school, high school.
It was all about finding love, but we've been created from love and we are love.
We've been created to love and be loved.
It's not a man shaped hole.
It's not a woman shaped hole.
It's a God shaped hole.
And so as I ran towards that first altar of marriage, I ran past more red flags
than the Daytona 500, because all I believed is that I had a hole in that I
was going to shove that boy at the end of the altar in that hole.
I was 20 years old and I didn't have a lot of good information.
I was surrounded by people I didn't know headed towards the
future that I wasn't sure about.
But that God shaped hole continued to be there even after I said those I do's.
And for those of you that have been divorced and you've been through that
type of mistake where you thought something was going to be the magic
bullet of happiness, but it wasn't, you're hearing me right now.
So it's a God shaped hole.
It is.
And so we need to allow God to fill it.
What we say around here is whole in Christ, complete in
marriage and healed in family.
You know, when I met Jesus, he filled that hole.
He did.
He filled it and he filled it completely.
Unfortunately, there were a lot of other things that had to be filled in.
And that's when I began to do my heart work.
And that is why you're here.
You're here to do your heart work so that all this beautiful information
that you've learned during this workshop, it can make it from your
mind, from your intellect down into your heart, because that's where it's
going to really make the difference.
That is where everything's going to start shifting and changing.
You're going to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and you're
going to be able to see something different than you've ever seen before.
And it's all about progress.
It's not about perfection.
I know that you've already felt some supernatural shifting and
changing in your life, but you're going to feel more.
This is just the beginning.
Look, this is not the end.
I know this is the last video, but this is not the end of this heart work.
This is the beginning of it.
Think of the heart work as a, as a tool belt.
Now of all different types of tools that you can use to have this abundant life.
It's just going to keep getting better and better and better and better.
And as your foundation gets stronger and stronger, God's going to build bigger
and bigger and bigger on top of it.
The finished work of the cross is finished.
The problem is, is that isn't always finished in our hearts.
We don't always believe that it's finished, but it is finished.
And so this is going to help you manifest that in your life.
And so you're going to be in process.
God doesn't just give us promises.
He gives us processes.
That's what happens.
And so you're going to continue to mature more and more and more and more as you go
forward with this new revelation, that your heart is where the quality of your
life flows from and that you get to decide what gets in here and what stays in here,
what you believe and what you don't believe.
You're the one that gets to partner with heaven.
You're the one that gets to believe that you're a world changer and that God has
you here for a purpose and has you here on purpose, and that is what's going
to make all the difference.
All right.
So are you ready?
You're as ready as you're ever going to be, just so you know, because it's not about
you being ready.
It's about you surrendering because as you surrender, God's going to get you more and
more and more ready and prepared to receive and be able to steward the beautiful things
that he has for you.
So I'm going to release you now, I'm going to release you to be who you have been called to be.
Each and every one of you different.
I remember when God did that for me.
He said, get up, Jackie.
I want to show you who you're called to be.
I can't wait till you see everything that I have in store for you.
And I can't wait until you see everything that God has in store for you.
He has a clean bill of health in store for you.
He has a new adventure in store for you.
You know, God doesn't write sad, boring stories.
He writes epic adventures.
That's what he does.
And he wants you to call shotgun.
He wants you to get in the car and he wants to, he wants you to let him drive.
So you can go someplace new where you've never been before.
Actually, no one in your lineage, no one in your family has ever been to the places that
God wants to take you.
He wants you to be a pioneer.
So you have to get out of your own way.
You can't allow other people to stop you.
You know, border bullies are probably going to show up now that you've done this hard
workshop and they're going to try to drag you back to those counterfeit identities.
Are they going to be doing it on purpose?
No, but you know, your newfound growth and your identity is probably going to make a
lot of people uncomfortable because they're going to think, oh, they're growing now.
I have to grow too.
And they're not ready to grow.
They don't want to grow.
And you cannot allow them to drag you back into those small places.
You have to rock the boat and see who falls out and just leave them there.
You got to leave them there.
Okay.
That's love.
You got to leave them there because they can't go with you where you're going, because God
wants to take you someplace and anything that's going to try to hold you back is going to
be the enemy of that progress.
And so you're going to have to really begin to make a decision that you want progress
more than you want to please people more than you want to be liked.
Sometimes you have to let other people hate you so that you can love yourself because
that's going to be their issue.
Remember, they have to do their hard work.
That's what has to happen there.
And so there's all kinds of boundaries that are going to have to be instituted in order
for you to continue this path of hard work forward.
But at every single intersection, God's going to give you the grace.
He's going to give you that invitation to go forward.
And he's going to say, Hey, do you want to go forward?
Do you want to go forward with me?
That means you're gonna have to let go of some things.
There's some more unpacking of some heart boxes that you're going to have to do.
There's some more lies here that are holding you back.
You're going to have to let go of them if you want to go forward.
But I'm inviting you.
And a lot of times that invitation is going to show up as offense.
I know I said that.
Offense.
Isn't that crazy?
Every time you get offended, that's an invitation to an upgrade.
Why?
Because it's pointing to an unhealed part of your heart.
So when you feel offended, when you feel angry, when you feel any of those negative emotions,
because just because you did the hard work doesn't mean that you're not going to feel
those things.
But when they do come, you get that tool out of your tool belt and you say, Why do I feel
this way?
Why do I feel irritated, annoyed, angry?
Why do I feel ashamed right now?
Why do I feel offended right now?
Why is what that person's saying?
Why is it so offensive to me?
And then when you begin to ask those supernatural questions that I've taught you to ask during
this workshop, you're going to get supernatural answers.
And you're going to be able to see that root that's getting in the way of God's love
getting deep, deep, deep down into your heart soil.
And you're going to be able to print it out.
You're going to be able to give Holy Spirit permission to just go ahead and remove it
so that you can get moving forward at an even faster pace.
So I bless you.
I believe in you.
I know that you're here by divine appointment.
And I know this is just the beginning of the transformation that's going to happen in your
life.
And I hope to see you in some future things as part of the Married in 12 Months or Less
family and all the different products and courses and classes that we have.
Please show up.
Give us your testimony of how this workshop changed your life.
We always want to hear from you.
And you can find the links to give us those testimonies and to contact us and to communicate
with us in all of the links that come along with your course.
All right.
So we'll see you soon.
I love you.
I bless you.
Bye.