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Welcome to last year's single challenge day three.
This is the final day in this series. So welcome.
This is the last day and we have a lot of, a lot of territory to cover,
but I want to pray over us first. Father God,
I'm so thankful for your daughters.
I'm thankful that you have drawn them here with your spirit,
that you have heard the cries of their heart,
that heaven has been listening and that you are drawing them to your heart,
taking them off the path of pain and leading them on that good path back to you.
I pray that you would open their hearts and their minds to receive whatever it
is that you have for them today and that you would help them to understand that
they are not alone,
that you are emotionally involved with them and that you want even better for
them than they want for themselves.
I ask that you would speak to me and speak through me,
let your anointing destroy any strongholds that are keeping them back from their
best life. In Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Amen. All right.
So we have a lot of stuff to get over today to get through today. Um,
and then I'm going to tell you all about my program last year single.
So last portion of today's broadcast, I'm going to tell you all about it.
A lot of you have had questions like, Hey, how do we meet the guys? How, you know,
do we have a success story? Like,
how does this work is the consensus that I see right now happening in this
challenge Facebook group.
And I'm going to tell you all about that in the second half of today.
But right now I want to just light you up spiritually about why God has brought
you here. I want to just prime the pump,
but I'm going to do a little housekeeping here at the beginning.
I want you to invite a friend, invite a friend to come and join us.
Yes, the challenge is over,
but the replays are going to be up for at least another week or so.
Invite a friend to come and watch because I believe what you help make happen
for someone else, God makes happen for you.
A lot of times we have a scarcity mentality and we just try to get to the front
of the line, right? But we don't want to do that anymore because that's not
kingdom. In kingdom, there's more than enough, right? Jehovah Jireh.
He is our provider and he doesn't have empty pockets.
And so it's important for us to understand that we don't have to gatekeep any
good thing that comes into our lives because we can share it with others.
Because the more that we give, the more that comes back to us.
And so I want to really encourage you to, to invite a friend,
but make sure that they come in through Jackie Dorman.com, right?
www.Jackie,
J A C K I E D O R M A N.com M A N.
Dorman, like Norman, but with a D.
Make sure they come through there because they're going to want to opt in for
all of our bonus material that we send out through email and you're going to
want to too. So if you didn't do that,
make sure that you go over right now and you sign up and register your email
because after this challenge is over today,
I'm going to be sending out all kinds of amazing content. All right?
And so you're going to want to get that because that's going to continue to just
prime that hope pump in your heart, right?
And supernatural hope is what happens in order for us to have these
miraculous love stories. Okay? So we got to have that going on, right?
So make sure that you do that and don't forget about it and make sure that you
invite a friend, invite two friends, invite three friends. Um,
because this is a very special,
very supernatural place as you're going to see,
because I'm going to show you some love stories today. At the end,
when I'm telling you about the program,
I'm going to show you some of the hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and hundreds
of women just like you that are now engaged or married because of this
program and because of their yes. Right? And so that's an important part.
But before that,
let's go ahead and just go after some supernatural things that I believe God
wants you to leave this challenge with. All right?
I promised you that I was going to over deliver during this challenge.
This is not one of those tease videos that you see on the internet.
You click on it and they promise to like give you the keys to some problem in
your life, you know, your thyroid or losing weight or, you know,
building a business or whatever it is.
But then the entire video is just like a bunch of circular
talking where they talk about the problem,
but they never tell you the solution, right?
Because they want you to buy something. But here, as you can see,
I've delivered a lot of amazing truth during this challenge.
A lot of things that have unlocked your heart,
a lot of things that are just going to make you better. Right?
That's why I always say, Hey, welcome me, Jackie D your life is better now,
because I'm going to deliver the truth of heaven. Whatever God has given me,
I'm not going to gatekeep it. I'm going to deliver it to you.
The problem is, is that we can't do it all in three days.
There's so much more work to be done. Although we've opened up some of those heart boxes, we've
caught some of those foxes in the vineyard, we got to go forward and do the rest of the work. And so
I want to talk about that for a second, because when God gives us a promise,
he gives us a process. You might've heard me mention that in day two. Remember, I talked
about going and sitting in the waiting room after you find out that you're pregnant. That would be
ridiculous, right? We don't do that. We go and prepare. To recap a little bit of day two, I
talked about how the word wait is not a biblical word. That word is actually translated into words
that mean to expectantly prepare. There are no waiting rooms in the kingdom of God. None, y'all.
There are no waiting rooms. Does it make sense for you to have a waiting room? Because you have
a very finite earth life. The best of us, you know, I have a friend whose grandma is celebrating
103 birthday, her 103rd birthday this week. Okay. So even the best of us, if we live to be over
a hundred years old, y'all, that's just a hundred years and it goes by real fast, right? And so what
benefit would it be for God to make you wait until the end of your life to be able to get the tools
and the resources, including a partnership in order to be able to do the things that he's put
you on earth to do? How does that make any sense? It doesn't make any sense. It doesn't make logical
intellectual sense, but most importantly, it doesn't make any spiritual sense. A lot of people
have this religious idea that God doesn't give us anything until we're perfect. Now, God gives us
things to grow into. God helps us. He gives us the tools to get some maturity so that we can handle
the things that he wants to give us. Remember what Jesus said about marriage to his disciples?
I taught you guys about this. He said, not everyone can handle the weightiness of it.
Not everyone's mature enough to live a married life, but if you can basically surrender to the
process, then you should go after it because you can have it. And I believe that you can have it
too. Now I've seen all different types of love stories. You guys have had a front row seat to
so many love stories now, you know, gone are the days when I just helped 15 of my friends get
married. You know, that might seem like a lot of friends to help get married. And actually I've
helped so many others stay married because I've always been the relationship girl. But at the same
time, now the love stories that I've had a front seat to are so numerous that a lot of times I even
forget people's names, but I don't forget their stories, right? Because there's so many and guess
what? They're all different types of stories. Then they all needed different tools and different
resources and different maturity processes. And that is what we are here to help you with because
it's not just about finding love. It's about being able to sustain love. There's a scripture in the
Bible that says that God's increase, his upgrade, his promotion in your life. It doesn't come with
sorrow, meaning that God's not going to give you something that's not sustainable. He's not going
to give you something that you're not mature enough to handle. Now we can go out and get it ourselves.
We can jump over those baby gates in our lives and we can go out and say, Hey, you know what?
If God's not going to give it to me, I'm going to get it myself. And we do that. So often our
broken hearts, remember the broken heart, it's what it's sick, right? And it wants medication.
And so we run out and we try to medicate it with all different types of things. But if you want the
God thing, not just the good to you in the moment thing, and then you're going to want to tune into
what I'm going to say now. So God doesn't just give us a promise. He gives us a process and we
can't circumvent that process. I know a lot of times we like to take shortcuts. We like to try
to figure out shortcuts, but there's a difference between a shortcut and acceleration. If you stop
trying to shortcut the process, all right, and you let God accelerate you, the acceleration is
actually going to take you to a place where you can actually sustain what it is that you want.
The shortcut is going to get you into places that are way beyond your pay grade. And you're going
to end up having another failure and that failure is going to not rob you of potential. You still
have the potential to be successful, but it's going to rob you of confidence. And what happens
when we're robbed of confidence? We go back and sit in the waiting room for another five years.
And I don't want that to happen to you. We're not going to lather, rinse, repeat that cycle.
So it's time to cut off the cycle. It's time to stop trying to skip the process. I've done this
in my life so many times. I've tried to skip the process to lose weight. I've tried to skip the
process to build a business. I was the child of a single mother. My mom was married three times
before I was 10 years old, all two abusive men. And so I knew what it was like to be independent
at a very young age, to make my own food, to do my own thing, to figure it out. If I needed money
for something, I had to go out and make that money myself, whether it was shoveling driveways.
It didn't matter what it was. And so as an adult, because I'm a born entrepreneur,
because of that, a lot of times I try to circumvent...
I don't need that business coach, or I don't need to take this training,
or I don't, I, you know, I know enough to be dangerous.
The problem is,
is the only thing that you're being dangerous to is yourself when you try to
circumvent that process. And so we don't want to,
we don't want to skip the process.
We don't want to skip the people that have the grace to help us in the process.
And we don't want to skip the maturity that's going to happen as a result.
A lot of you have been single for a really long time, but you have been waiting.
You haven't been preparing. Okay. You've been waiting.
You haven't been maturing.
And I believe that God wants to do an accelerated maturity process in your life
so that you don't have to wait anymore.
Please don't think that I'm inviting you into a big, long wait.
That's why we call this last year single, because there are some things,
some very important things that God wants to put into alignment in your heart.
And in your life, there's a very, you know,
detrimental foxes that he wants to catch and pull out of that vineyard before
you're one year into an amazing relationship and you sabotage it,
you cut and run from it. All right. Before you jump into something, you know,
that dumb and happy, so to speak,
and you have your blinders on of all the things that you wish something was,
and you're not looking at the red flags waving right in your face.
We don't want any of that. And God doesn't want that for you anymore either.
He wants you to be able to continue to gain momentum in your life and not just
your love life, but your love life is a very, very important thing, right?
That's a make it or break it relationship.
All of you that are divorced know that you, if you pick someone,
you choose someone who either can't go, you know,
to the place of maturity that you're going to continue to go to in life,
or they just aren't who you thought they were. And they're, you know,
in an unhealthy place that sabotages you. Every time you turn around,
you take five steps forward and 20 steps back because of this relationship.
That's a make it or break it relationship.
And we want to make sure that we're not just choosing right,
but we're choosing righteously.
And a lot of us have some weird attractions that we have to unpack.
We're not loser magnets, we're loser addicts.
What we believe we become and what we become,
we attract and we have to shut that cycle down.
So I'm going to tell you that your love story is going to stretch you.
It's supposed to, it's not supposed to be easy. It's supposed to be worth it.
And some of you that have been through abusive relationships,
now you're not even willing to take a look at anything that's hard.
You expect that if it's from God, you're going to get to hit the easy button.
It's going to be easy, right?
That's how you're going to know that it's from God because it's easy.
It's not complicated. It's not true. It's not true.
That's not the way it works. We live in the year 2024. Everybody's broken.
Everybody suffers. Everybody has yellow flags.
The difference between yellow flags and red flags is a vast difference.
And most yellow flags are either going to turn red and you need someone to help
you see what's going on there before it happens and,
or they're going to turn green.
And that has to do with the heart posture of the person that has them.
You have yellow flags and I have yellow flags,
but what it's turning red or green,
what's that's dependent on is whether or not we have a teachable heart,
whether or not we're self-aware, whether or not we've done the heart work.
And so you want that in your partner as well.
You want someone who's willing to do the work, who is self-aware,
who sees that they are broken and in process in this area,
but they want to grow. They want to grow. All right.
So we don't want to strive anymore in our love lives,
but we are going to stretch. And guess what? That's going to Mark you stretch
marks, right? For those of you that have babies, um, there,
there's marks that have been left behind that show that process in which you
became the mother. We're coming up into mother's day.
There's a process that shows that you became the mother on your body.
And that is those marks where you've been stretched. And, and this is,
this is going to stretch you and it's going to Mark you and it's going to change
you because it's supposed to, and becoming the bride is supposed to,
whether it's the bride of Christ or whether it's the bride of man,
it's going to change you.
And you have to make room for it just like you've made room for that baby in
your womb. And for those of you that haven't experienced that yet, um,
and want to experience that,
God promised me that we would have geriatric supernatural pregnancies in this
movement. And we do. So the doctors say, Hey,
everything over 35 is advanced maternal age.
But God just laughs at that because I believe that there are people that will
carry a physical child in their womb past those years of gestation.
God promised we would see those miracles in this community and we do see them.
But then also there are all kinds of amazing children that need families.
And so if you have the heart of a mother, which I believe you do,
I believe all divine feminine women have the heart of a mother.
There are children for you to parent and who knows, you know, like my love story,
your love story might be a box set. My Prince Charming wasn't sold separately.
He came as a family box set with children included.
And for those of you that that scares, you're like, Oh no,
I do not want to be, you know, the, the step mom. Well,
don't be the step mom then. All right. Be the bonus mom.
Be the mom that comes alongside these children and become such an important part
of their lives.
that they couldn't, like it's not just your love story,
it's their love story.
In fact, I just saw on my Facebook memories,
this is reminding me,
this is hot off the presses from Holy Spirit,
you know, cause this is Mother's Day's weekend.
I saw a post that my son, Jaron,
who was 11 years old when I married his father,
he posted for me on Mother's Day right here.
I just found this in my memories, this post by my son.
He said, I'd like to honor my mother,
Jacqueline Dorman for Mother's Day
because she's taught me so much
about how to be more in tune with others
and be more spontaneous in my life.
And as a result,
I think that I get more out of this life experience
than I ever could have without her.
Happy Mother's Day.
That was nine years ago, you guys.
He was 20 years old when he wrote that.
And I get all kinds of sweet cards from him.
In fact, I'm not gonna see him on Mother's Day
because he's traveling right now.
But before he left, he made sure that he took me out.
He gave me a gift card.
He bought me some tennis shoes.
He's always given me new tennis shoes.
So you can have amazing, beautiful relationships
with children that you have not given birth to.
All right, you can.
Okay, so we've already established during this challenge
that God doesn't need our help to do his part.
God can do his part,
and he's always been able to do his part.
But we've gotta get out of his way.
We gotta stop trying to do his part, number one.
And number two, we've gotta start doing our part.
And a lot of times we don't know what that is,
and we need help figuring out what that is, right?
He says in Isaiah 66, hey, you do your part,
but when it's time for the children to come to the birth,
when it's time to birth,
when it's time to manifest the things
that I've put inside of you, that's all me, that's my part.
So we do our part, and he does his.
And oftentimes, God will hide our breakthrough
in other people.
And that's been hard for me
because I grew up very independent.
I told you about my childhood.
By the time I was 13, 14 years old,
I lived in a girl's home, a home for unwanted children.
I want you to go ahead and take that in for a second.
By the time that I was just starting out my teen years,
some of the hardest years, right, in adolescence,
I was living in a home for unwanted children,
unwanted kids.
And then I went from that home
to foster care type situations.
All of you that were part of the foster care system,
or maybe you're a fostering mom right now,
the kids show up with the garbage bags full of clothes.
That was my life, y'all.
And then when I got old enough in my teen years
to just say, you know what, I don't wanna do this anymore,
I ran away.
I ran away with a guy that I was dating
when I was 17 years old.
I was couch surfing, I was homeless for a minute,
all kinds of different things.
I've experienced that.
And now at almost 50 years old,
I'll be 50 years old in January,
I look back and I see God's hand on me
all through my life, helping me,
establishing me, keeping me safe,
even though I didn't know him.
I didn't know him, but he certainly knew me.
And so some of you feel like you've been abandoned
and you've been forgotten, but you know what?
Your story's not over yet.
I'm not gonna cry.
Your story's not over yet.
My story wasn't over yet, right?
And even after I met Jesus,
you guys know that this is how the heart work came to be.
Everything wasn't magically better for me, okay?
We do people a disservice when we say,
oh, you met Jesus, everything's better now.
No, it's not.
I was dealing with all kinds of mental health issues
as a result of my abusive childhood,
all kinds of situations where it would be very difficult
for me to trust anyone or attach to anyone.
You know, I uniquely have been gifted
by what I have been through to help you get unstuck,
to help you to be able to attach.
It's one thing to meet someone
and to feel all kinds of feels for them.
And it's another thing to trust them
and be able to let them in.
Those are two very vastly different things.
And so God will hide our breakthrough in midwives,
so to speak.
And I would love to be the midwife
for the love story that you're carrying.
Doesn't Song of Songs 2 tell us that the story,
the love story that I've already planted within you,
it's already been written, you're already carrying it.
Psalm 139 tells us that God wrote a book,
a story about your life.
And I believe that this is a chapter of that story.
And it's time to get in that chapter,
the one that God wrote, not the one that Hurt wrote,
not the one that Abandonment wrote,
not the one that all of your bad choices and men wrote,
but the one that God has written, right?
And I wanna help you be able to do that.
And I believe that God always sends people to me
when they're ready for a tipping point.
When they're sick and tired of being sick and tired,
when they don't want to go through the same old motions
over and over and over again, right?
They don't wanna fake it till they make it anymore.
They want to be it so that the world can see it.
And that's what your love story is about.
It's not just about you.
It's about your lineage.
It's about your legacy.
I believe right now God is calling missionaries
into marriage and family
because marriage and family is dying.
And if you wanna volunteer as tribute.
If you want to say, like Isaiah said, here I am, God send me, then this is the time.
This is the time. This is the time to volunteer for that because God is choosing people to go
into that. And I believe that your presence here is because He has chosen you. He has
highlighted you for this day and age to be the person that shows this world what marriage and
family looks like through your marriage and your family. All right. So there's not one person on
this earth that doesn't need other people and other people's help to reach their highest
potential. That's the way God did it. All right. Yes, He's the source, but He's the head of the
human resource department. And He will send human resources to answer our prayers. That is what He
does. Working through their giftings because of their experience and the anointings they carry
and the things that they know, but we don't trust people. And so if we can't get it done ourselves,
then it doesn't get done. Right. And we've got to stop living that way because how's it working
out for you? Right. That DIY, do it yourself. How's it working out for you? And not just in
your love life. Think about all the areas of your life where you refuse to invest. And you're like,
well, but Jackie, I don't have the money. We have what we, we have resources for what we want to
have resources for. I know. Okay. Because the first financial breakthrough that I ever had was
because my former husband told me on the phone because of my daughter's 16th birthday, she wanted
to go to California. I had never taken her on a trip. I had never had the money to go anywhere
on vacation with my children. You know, I was in ministry full time and y'all know that doesn't
pay nothing. All right. It doesn't pay anything. Right. Um, as far as in this lifetime, lots of
eternal treasure being stored up, not a lot of earthly treasure being stored up when you're in
full-time ministry. And so he told me on the phone, you know, and, and he was very happy to
tell me that he was going to take her on the trip that she wanted to go on because he had lots of
money. He had a really great job. He had a career, you know, I helped pay for him to have that career
as I worked while he went to college, when we were married, you know, all the things.
And now I'm poor as a little church mouse. And he's out here making six figures and saying,
I'm going to treat our daughter to this vacation. And something rose up inside of me. And I was like,
no, I'm going to take her. And he laughed at me. You guys, he laughed in my ear. He said,
come on, Jackie, you and I both know that you're not going to be able to come up with the money to
take her to California for her birthday. And I said, yeah, I will watch me. And I hung up the
phone and I was like, okay, God, I can't disappoint her. I can't say I'm going to do it. And then at
the end, end up not doing it. And I didn't have credit cards. I didn't have anything to be able
to like, you know, pay for it or live beyond my means, so to speak. So God began to give me
creative ideas. And he began to give me opportunities and he began to give me the
grace to have breakthrough. And you know what I learned during that little season of my life?
I learned that I was never stuck on the outside. I was only stuck on the inside.
I believed that I couldn't do it before that moment. And so I never was able to do it before
I was never able to stretch. I was never able to have success in areas of my finances. But then
all of a sudden I put, you know, my faith on it. I was like, okay, God, I can't do it myself for
sure. But with you, I can do anything, right? It's not about what God can do. It's about what we
believe he can do through us, right? To him who's able to exceedingly abundantly above all we can
ask, think, or imagine through what? Ephesians 3.20, the power that works in us, which is the
power of Holy Spirit. And so all kinds of revelation started coming to me. And can I tell
you guys, I never from that moment forward ever thought that finances were something that was
going to keep me back from something that I really wanted to do ever again, ever again.
And that was seven years ago. My daughter is now 23 years old, right? Come on. Someone needed to
hear that. So there's no one, there's not one person on this earth that doesn't need someone
else's grace that's on their life, that they're carrying someone else's help, someone else's
wisdom or knowledge in an area in order to get your breakthrough. And I believe that God has
brought you here. And you're going to see some love stories in a minute to get the breakthrough
that we carry. A lot of you are just positioned for a super bloom. God brings people here when
there's time for a tipping point. Guys, there's only a couple hundred of you right here right now
that have been actively involved in this challenge. There's eight plus billion people in the world.
I believe that you've been handpicked. I believe that God brought you here specifically.
Okay. It's not that there couldn't be lots and lots and lots more people, but we're not trying
to get lots and lots and lots more people. We're just trying to get the people that God has marked
the God, that the people that God is talking to their heart, you know? So it really, to me,
I'm pulling for you. I'm pulling for you. So the super bloom, um, the last one that happened was
out Lake Elsinore, California. A super bloom is a phenomena that has
happens when there's drought, but there's seed.
And so a lot of you have had a lot of drought in your life.
There hasn't been a lot of refreshing in your life.
There hasn't been a lot of rain in your life, right?
There's been a lot of hard things that have happened and there's areas of your
heart that have become very hard and by disappointment and by failure,
by trauma, by all different types of things. But the seed,
God's word about you, God's love for you, all of those things, it's still here.
It's still laying on that hardened area.
And that's what happened in the natural. The last time out in California,
they'd had months and months and months,
I think even maybe a couple of years without any significant rainfall.
But the flowers, the vegetation was still seeding.
It was still seeding, especially the poppies. This was a poppy super bloom.
And it was still seeding and it was still during the harvest season,
letting it seeds, but the seeds were just laying on that hardened ground.
But then they had a gully washer.
They had a huge storm that came through and it softened that ground just
enough for that seed to penetrate. And when that seed penetrated y'all,
it was a sight to behold, a super bloom happened.
And I believe that God has positioned you for a super bloom.
There's a lot of good information that God has been trying to get into your
heart for a really long time.
And it's all just positioned to penetrate during this program that you would do
with me during what I call the heart work and super bloom in your life,
in the area of your health and your wealth, your relationships, your identity,
so many different things,
just things that you've never been able to go forward in for so long,
just like me and that story about taking my daughter to California.
And then all of a sudden, boom, super bloom,
super bloom.
And that is a word that we use a lot in our program because that is what happens
to people here. Everything that you know,
but you don't know makes that 18 inch journey from head to heart and finally
gets rooted.
It finally is able to penetrate and bear fruit in your life. Whoo.
I gotta take a break.
I don't know if you're feeling that, but I'm definitely feeling it. All right.
Jesus. So you were promised Psalm 139. You were promised to this earth.
God predicted you. He promised you. You're important.
So many of you don't feel important, but not only you are important,
but your love story is important.
But so many of us are not living that story that God wrote about us.
That book that he wrote about us. We're not living that in any area of our lives,
any, any area of our lives. And when we try to step into that story,
we always get thrown back on our butt, but not this time. It's time.
It's time for us to step into the story of the real us.
It's time for us to have healthy hearts because when you have an unhealthy heart,
especially the area of your love story, it's like swimming with the sharks.
You do not want to be bleeding out on these dating streets.
All right. Because you will attract Prince alarming and not Prince charming.
I'm going to tell you that right now. You do not want to do that.
And I'm going to tell you a few love stories here where people have had success
in areas where I know that you think people don't have success.
Like for instance, the dating apps, none of you want to go on the dating apps.
And a lot of you have been on the dating apps with no success.
You've attracted some things, but they haven't been good things.
And this is what happens when we go out there on our own and especially not
with the right tools and not with the right heart.
Your success in life is not going to be just about being in the right place at
the right time.
It's going to be about being in the right place at the right time with the right
heart. That's what it's going to be about.
So you might get on there and you attract all the scammers.
You attract all the users and losers and abusers.
We don't want that anymore, right? Not at all.
It's the masculine's job according to the word of God and Proverbs to find the
wife, not the woman, the wife. It's the masculine's job to find the wife.
So the wife is something, it's something that you can give off.
You notice that the scripture doesn't say when a man finds a woman,
and it doesn't say when a husband finds a wife, it says,
when a man finds a wife, he becomes a husband.
And so I want to help you step into the divine feminine.
I believe that all of us as women have been created to be the help meet,
the easer, which means it's, it's a word that God uses for himself.
That means warrior. It's not a weak word, y'all.
For all of you that think that women are weak and we've been created to be
subservient.
That's something I would also like to help you unpack because that is not the
heart posture of the feminine.
But when a man finds this divine feminine, he's not going to let it go.
It's going to bring out the husband in him because he's found his good thing.
Let's go back to Genesis. Remember what God said?
It's not good for man to be alone. So let's get forward to Proverbs 18.
When a man finds a wife, what?
He's found his good thing because he's obtained favor from the Lord to be able
to see that this is not an ordinary woman. This is my easer.
And we have that happen.
We know how to activate that process and we've had it happen over and over and
over again.
And we, and because we have a men's challenge and a men's community, we
obviously get to teach them the opposite, right?
We get to teach them the opposite of what the women are being taught so that
we're raising up a generation of men that understand their place as the
divine masculine as well.
So that's just been so rewarding.
So we have to have this grace from heaven to become the bride.
We do.
And the single seasons that we've lived in, they haven't necessarily done that
for us because we haven't been preparing.
We've just been waiting, right?
We've just been waiting.
Let me tell you a story about my daughter, Reagan, the 23 year old, that
daughter, when she was 17, I'm trying to think of when pandemic was, um, 17 or 18
years old.
So she lived here in Austin with me.
She's still living at home when the pandemic happened.
And of course you guys all know that things shut down and here in Texas,
things really shut down.
Like there was nothing open, all the stuff.
Okay.
So she was a nanny at the time.
That's what she was doing.
She was going to college and she was a nanny and she didn't have a job anymore.
Immediately, instantly her job was over.
Why?
Because the people she nannied for didn't have to go to work.
And so they're going to be home with their child.
They don't need her.
She wasn't working for people that had essential jobs that had to continue to
work even during the quarantine and shutdown.
Okay.
So fast forward a few months, I think four or five months and things started to open
up a little bit.
And my daughter's like, I want to go back to work.
She's like, I don't want to sit at home anymore.
I'm bored.
I'm tired of sitting home.
I want to find someone to nanny for that is still working and has to work.
So she went on an app, like a care kind of app where you find babysitting and nanny
jobs.
And she found someone who was, was a lawyer.
The woman was a lawyer and I think the father was a doctor and they were still
working and needed a nanny.
So my daughter applied for the job and she got it immediately.
They were like, Oh, this is great.
You seem amazing.
Let's give it a shot.
Let's go ahead and try you out.
So she was so excited because this job was going to pay more.
This is like her dream job.
It was one child.
It was a super easy job.
It had all kinds of perks to it and she was going to make more money than she had
ever made y'all in her entire life.
So she goes to their first day of work.
Everything's great and wonderful.
And then she comes back.
She goes to her second day of work.
Everything's great and wonderful.
And this is how some of y'all's relationships are going to be going to meet
someone.
You're like, Oh, this is what I've always wanted.
Oh, it's great.
Right?
That's what was happening here.
Okay.
But then by the third day of work, she was late.
Why was she late?
Because during this whole four or five months off of work, she had developed some
bad habits.
She was staying up really late at night because there was nowhere to be the next
day.
Right?
She wasn't setting an alarm.
She wasn't staying disciplined like in work mode because there wasn't any work
mode during lockdown and quarantine.
And so these bad habits, hear me out,
that she developed in the waiting room when she was just twiddling her thumbs,
waiting for what?
Who knows?
When's it going to show up?
I don't know.
How long is this going to last?
Who knows?
Right?
That's what a lot of your love lives look like.
Oh, I don't know what God's doing.
Maybe someday, I don't know.
He'll probably send me a husband.
Maybe he won't.
Maybe I have the gift of singleness.
I don't know what's going on.
That's what happened during that time.
And by the third day of work, she was tardy.
And so the parents gave her another chance.
They're like, Hey, you know what could happen to anyone?
You know, it's a one-off.
Now keep in mind that this isn't necessarily part of her character just to be
late and to be irresponsible.
But once again, the waiting room can mess you up.
It can.
So the fourth day of work, once again, everything's good and great.
But by the last day of the week, she was late again and they met her at the door
and they fired her.
She forgot to set her alarm.
She was so tired when she got home that she did a few things and she went to
sleep and she forgot to set her alarm and then she woke up late.
So she called the mom because the dad's the one that met her at the door because
he was the one that stayed back late for work to wait for her, said, I'm sorry,
we don't need your services anymore.
She was devastated.
She called me on the phone.
She's crying.
Oh, so great.
This opportunity and I messed it up.
Okay.
And so I said, well, why don't you just text the mom and just tell her, Hey, you
know, I promise this won't happen again.
So she tried and she said, I'll set three alarms.
She said, I'll have my parents wake me up if I need to.
Anything I need to do.
I really, really, really, really, really want this job.
And the woman was so gracious.
You know what she said back to her?
She said, Reagan, she said, you're an amazing girl.
She said, and I know that you are going to be so successful in life.
She said, but I needed you to be ready before you took the job.
I needed you to set those three alarms before you took the job.
I needed you to be prepared before you took the job.
But I know this, there's such a spiritual message here. I know this Regan, the next
time that you get an opportunity to do something, to have another job or to do
something you want to do, you're going to learn from this situation and you're
going to be prepared, right? In essence what she was saying is the next time you
come up to bat you're going to hit it out of the park because you're going to be
ready for it. And that was such a hard lesson for my daughter to learn. It was
so hard, you know? And me getting married at 20 with bad information and picking
the wrong person and going through so much turmoil and abuse and hurt and just
crazy stuff in that marriage, even though I got my beautiful daughter out of that
marriage, you know, it taught me that the second time around when God began to
talk to me about my hard work, I wasn't going to do that the second time. And my
daughter did get another opportunity for an amazing job and it wasn't too
long after that. It was probably three or so months later and you know what? She
did hit it out of the park and she is super successful and she has learned so
much from that experience. And so what Papa God is inviting us into is he's
inviting us into some short season of being able to be prepared for love when
it shows up. Because love shows up suddenly. Remember, I've had a front row
seat to people that have been in barren wastelands in their dating lives for
years and years and years and years and then they come into this program and
love shows up suddenly. So let's look at some of those love stories because I
think it's fun and I think that, you know, you can't be it if you can't see it. So
when I first, here's my Instagram. My Instagram is just doing its own thing
right now. All right, let's see. So here's my Instagram. If you don't follow
me, follow me. Why don't you follow me? Jackie Dorman Official, all right. And
then there's highlights right here. And if you go to my highlights, the very
first success story highlight I ever made was just called Success Stories.
And as you can see here, it has lots and lots and lots of couples. Look at all
these amazing couples just like you. I match made those two. All these couples
that have had success. Let me go back this one. See if I can go back. Can I go back?
She met him in her living room after she was in this program. Her love story
just not showed up suddenly. It showed up suddenly in her living room, y'all.
Mariah and Ian. I wish, I don't know if I can get this focused. Okay, so I'm gonna
be in the background but these couples are gonna be in the foreground. Look at
all these couples, y'all. And this is just, these highlight reels on Instagram, they
hold a hundred pictures. So I have five of them. I have at least 500 success
stories just on my Instagram and that doesn't even include the other hundreds
and hundreds. Okay, so this, this, this, this, this girl. You go back. That girl.
Look at that love story. I love that. I love that picture. This girl is my
husband's cousin. Single mama, had never had success in love, had always attracted
Prince Alarming and not Prince Charming and I helped her get married. I know that
there are other programs and there are matchmakers out there and the actual
matchmakers, I've been on panels at events with matchmakers. They charge
anywhere from $30,000 to $300,000 to matchmake. Whoa, that's crazy. But here's
the thing, they don't have the type of success that I have. They charge that
amount of money but they do not have the success that this program has. This
program is super natural and I get new engagement announcements and new wedding
invitations every single week. Every single week. You know, one of these, I just
saw, I just saw her picture. She had never been on a date in her entire life. She
was in her mid-30s, had never ever had a boyfriend, had never been on a date, had
never had her first kiss, nothing. Now she is married and she has a little daughter.
She was worried, you know, I'm not gonna, this is her right here, she's like, I'm
not gonna find anyone. I'm not gonna get married. Men don't like me. She's married
to an amazing guy, Caleb, Dana and Caleb, and she has a little baby daughter. But
she had never been on a date. It's not that she was bad at dating, she had no
experience dating. Rebecca and Joshua, they have two children now. Some of these,
these are, this is my first highlight reel. So some of these people have been
married for three or four years now and they have babies, all kinds of incredible
things. Here's our most recent highlight reel of just some success stories within
the last month or so.
Well, that's an anniversary.
picture, but see these two right here? For those of you that are like, oh, I'm too old.
Those people are in their sixties. These people are in their sixties. Oh, I'm too
young. Our most recent success story is just a week or so ago. Let me find her.
She's 23 years old. She's our youngest success story that we've ever had and
our oldest success story we've ever had was 81, or is 81. So you guys, I just want
to let you know that this isn't hype. This is real. It is, and God's
inviting you into it. So let's talk about what the program is. Are you ready to
talk about the program? So the program has three phases. The first phase is what
we call heart work, and we did a little bit of it during this challenge, but
we're gonna do a lot of it. In the first five weeks that you're in this program,
we're gonna ask you to put your date and shoes away and just focus on those foxes
in the vineyard. With our team, we're gonna focus. We're gonna dig deep. We're
gonna find out how you're sabotaging yourself. It doesn't matter how much
therapy or counseling you've had, this is gonna hit differently. I even have
therapists take this and they're like, whoa, you know, I've been in therapy all
my life and and I have never had so much breakthrough in such a short amount of
time. Why? Because it's a super bloom. It's a tipping point. That's why. Okay, and so
and it's designed specifically to help you to unpack the things that are
keeping you single, alright? But not just single, but also broke, also sick, also at
odds with everyone in your life. Whatever it is that's keeping you stuck on the
inside is going to help you to be freed on the outside, okay? So that's phase one
and it's five weeks long. And for those of you that are like, hey, is this local?
No, it's global. We're an international movement. We have success stories in all
different types of countries. We're translated into Spanish. Portuguese is
next for translation because we have so many Brazilian success stories. I think I
have five Brazilian brides now that have gotten married as a result of this
program. Some of them that I personally match made. Two of those five I
personally match made. Alright, phase two. When you graduate phase one, you're gonna
go into what we call our love story accelerator or our dating challenge. Now
you get to go back out and try out all of your new hearts in the real world
with us helping you. You're not alone. The community's around you. Your coaches
and your team is around you. We're gonna help you date differently than you've
ever dated before. Alright, you're gonna have to surrender the pen, that list, some
of your messed up attractions that are based on broken things in your life and
let people in. I will tell you 70% of my success stories tell me this, Jackie, I
would have never given this person even a second look without this program.
Jackie, this is not what I expected. This is not what I thought it would look
like, but I'm so happy. So as you can see, what you don't know is hurting you and
what you're not open to is keeping you from having what God has for you. And so
we want to help those blind spots and filters and we have to do it in the
dating module. Why? Because hurt in family healed in family. Hurt in marriage
healed in marriage. Hurt in dating healed in dating. Hurt in relationship healed in
relationship. Hurt in community, friendship healed in friendship and
community. We have to help you in real time while you're out there so you can
see the things that you've been doing and you're going to be a lot more
self-aware because of that five weeks of heart work and it's going to be great.
And you're gonna be a lot more open because of that five weeks as well. Once
again, it is super natural. Lots of people meet someone great in phase two.
Sometimes they sabotage it, sometimes they can sustain it, but everyone learns
and gets another chance up at bat just like my daughter Reagan and so it's all
good. And then phase three is our final phase and that's our community phase.
It's a highly co-ed phase. We have a lot of co-ed things that happen, a few
things that happen in phase two that are like that, but phase three and guess
what? Now it's never been a better time to join our community because now we
have an app for phase three and higher. So when you're in our community, um,
your community phase, phase three, you get to go on our app. There's all kinds
of amazing things. We have a new brand called last trip single. We have all
kinds of conferences and all types of things to meet up in person with other
people in the community. So you're going to meet your best friends in this
group. You're going to meet people that are going to be in your wedding in this
group. Let me show you this. This girl right here, she's one of my most recent
success stories. She gets married in 30 days. This is a picture that her
girlfriend, her friend in this group took of her for her birthday and posted
it. She lost a hundred pounds. You guys, people lose so much weight in this
program because your heart gets healed and it was never fat. It was hurt. It
was hurt all along. It was trauma just stored in the body. And so she lost a
hundred pounds. Um, she was able to heal from her divorce and now she is
getting married to a great guy, but that's not all. Several girls in her
wedding are from this community, including her maid of honor.
She was the maid of honor in that other girl's wedding
that she met in this community.
She's met her best friends in this community.
In fact, let me just read what she said to me.
Thank you, Jackie.
I don't know how to say thank you enough.
I'm not great at receiving gifts,
but this one is so special to me,
and I'm so excited to wear it one day.
I gave her something to wear on her wedding.
It looks at me in the closet every day.
I almost felt like I let you down
being in the program and not having any prospects.
I had felt so prophetic,
but prophetic things don't necessarily have a timeline,
and I wasn't open to healing yet.
But thank you for believing in my love story.
I know God brought me to your group,
and I'm so grateful every day for it.
Two of my best friends have come from it,
along with a community and mentor, meaning me,
that I was missing so much in my life.
Thank you.
You guys, I would be lying if I said
that it's easy to run this type of movement.
There's a lot of warfare because the enemy hates family
because all that God ever wanted was a family.
But it is worth it, and those are the types of things
that make it worth it, make it worth it.
So you're gonna go at your own pace.
Some of you have a lot of healing to do.
If you come in and you surrender immediately.
You know, she's apologizing to me
because it wasn't her last year single.
This success for her is happening over a year
of being in the program.
But the thing is is that she had a lot of healing to do.
You know, I told you, she lost 100 pounds.
She changed careers, she relocated.
You know, all the things that happened
for this woman are so miraculous.
Her first husband that she married at 18 years old,
he ghosted her in the marriage.
He just didn't come back home one day.
Never told her he was leaving,
never told her he was divorcing her,
and then she got papers in the mail
saying, I want a divorce.
But first he was just missing.
Can you imagine your husband is not showing up
and you're calling the police?
Where is he?
I don't know.
Is he dead somewhere?
Yeah, that happened to this girl.
So she had a lot of healing to do.
And do you know that during the fourth week,
which is the forgiveness week of phase one,
which is our heart work phase, phase one,
the fourth week is your forgiveness week.
She ran into that guy that she was married to
all those years ago.
She ran into him.
She had never seen him since the day he left the house
and never came back.
Even the divorce was done just with paperwork in the mail.
Never saw him again until this moment
during her forgiveness week.
She ran into him in a coffee shop in her old hometown.
And he said, hey, I'm so glad I ran into you.
I've been thinking about you.
I really owe you an explanation and an apology.
She got the apology.
She got the closure.
She got it, y'all.
That happened.
I know it's crazy.
It's crazy, but it's a true story and it's her story.
And I know that the Lord highlighted her.
I had no intention of saying anything
about any specific person right now,
but God wants someone out there to know that.
Okay, so phase three is the community phase
and it has all kinds of goodness.
We're gonna continue in healing.
We have all kinds of stuff that happens
in our PATH sessions during community phase.
We have all kinds of online meetups and in-person meetups.
We have all kinds of continuing education
about things like blending families and attachment styles,
everything and anything you could want.
That is a subscription that only happens for $37 a month.
And now it includes an app and guess what?
We're gonna have a community-based matchmaking app
that comes out this summer as well
that's going to be included in that subscription.
All of that will be included.
The community phase has its own app as well
where you can mingle and meet all kinds of friends
and all different types of things there, okay?
And plus it makes it really easy to use that community level
if you're just on the app, okay?
And for those of you that don't like to do things
from your phone, it's a web-based app
so you can use it on your computer
and you can also use it from your phone, all right?
All right, so today we have a special offer.
I've never done this before,
but my mom's birthday is on Monday.
Her birthday always falls around Mother's Day.
Mother's Day is Sunday and my mom's birthday is Monday.
A lot of you didn't get your heart broken the first time
from a love interest.
You got your heart broken in family, okay?
You were hurt and traumatized
and your heart was broken in family and that's my story.
My mom and I had a very tumultuous relationship.
She sent me to live in a girl's home, as you know,
and all the things, and as an adult,
I had really no real true relationship with her.
But she got sick in 2017 and 2016,
she got sick and God reconciled us and reunited us
and I was able to be there with her
for the last four years of her life,
help her do her heart work,
help her forgive herself and forgive others.
And my mom is such a big part of why I do this
because she was married three times before I was 10.
My mom wasn't a bad woman,
but she was so traumatized by those abusive relationships
that she wasn't able to love,
that she wasn't able to do the things
that she needed to do for her children.
And I believe also she left.
this life very early at only 62 years old because of what had happened, the
dis-ease and disease that happened in her body as a result of all of that
unhealed trauma. So I got to spend the last four years of her life with her,
helping her as she was, you know, leaving this earth and going to heaven. And
because of that, we're going to give you a special offer today, all right? If you
sign up and you use the code, which is my mother's name, Diana, in the first, what,
couple days, because I'm going to end this special offer at
midnight on Mother's Day. May 12th at midnight, PST, this offer will end. And
once again, we have never, because this is already so inexpensive compared to
everything that's out there that's not successful. All the stuff that's out
there is super expensive, thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars, and
it's not successful like this. And this is $297 one time. You pay $297
one time, and I'm going to give you $50 off today with the code Diana, which is
my mom's name. In celebration of her, I believe that God is keeping so many
people from having, you know, from their destinies being cut off, from ending up
in that trajectory. I know that my mom would be so pleased that her memory and
her name is being used to help single mamas and single women to choose, you
know, godly, great, amazing partners. I know that she would love that. So Diana, D-I-A-N-A,
not Diane, Diana, D-I-A-N-A. If you put that code in, you will be able to get $50
off. So $247 one time to sign up today. And then your subscription starts 30
days after, so most of you will be done with phase one into phase two, $37 a
month. That is cancel anytime. People don't ever cancel, but it is cancel
every time. It's really easy to cancel. If you want to cancel, if you get into some
kind of financial hardship and you don't have $37, you can cancel. But as
of today, $37 a month for the rest of the time that you're with us getting your
success story. That's it. That's what it is. All right, so here's the signup page
and right here you can see underneath the payment thing, there's a, do you have
a coupon? Have a coupon code right there. You're gonna put D-I-A-N-A, Diana, if you
want to get that $50 off. That will only be good until May 12th, Mother's Day at
midnight. You guys, come Monday morning. All right, come one o'clock in the
morning on Monday, it is going to be the $297 again. So just $50 more, but still.
All right, for those of you that are asking questions, we are going to come
through and answer those questions in the chat. So put them in the chat of this
video and our team will come through and answer them. I know that for some of you
$297 seems like a lot and remember it's $247 if you go ahead. This is your fast
action bonus. We're going to reward people that step out in faith like I did
when I told my former husband, my WAS-bin, he was my husband, so he's my WAS-bin,
that, hey, I'm going to do it. Don't tell me what I can't do. I can do it, right?
This has got to be your intention, your faith. This cannot be handed to you.
You've got to stretch for it. You have to, you have to, you have to invest in
yourself and in your love story. All right? I want to be your midwife. I want
to help you birth what you're carrying,
but you have to have an investment in yourself and your love story as well.
And you guys, it's so small.
There's programs to help you heal and to help you attachment style and all the
things, you know, to help you to, you know,
notice the narcissists and the red flags and none of them are less than like
$2,500 down. None of them. Okay.
And so I know that this is priced right.
I know that this is priced for the single mama.
I know that we've done this on purpose.
It used to be more expensive and years ago,
and I've made it this because I want it to be doable for everybody and it's,
it is what it is. So love you. Bless you.
If you didn't watch day one and two,
please go back and watch them so much breakthrough for you there.
Make sure you do the homework. Make sure you do the declarations.
Make sure you sign the permission slip.
Go ahead and get in position for God to do in your life what you've always
wanted him to do.
And that is give you the abundant life that Jesus died for you to have.
It's yours. It's yours. All right. I love y'all.
Thank you for joining me for this session,
the spring session of our last year single challenge.
And I hope to see you in the program.
I will be showing up over the course of the next couple of days with some fun
bonus content. Um, and you're going to want to be there.
I'll do a Q and a for those of you that have questions.
I'll do that quickly so that you can be part of that fast action bonus.
I'll go ahead and do a Q and a, um, probably, uh, off to see when,
but I'll post it in the group. Okay. So that if you have any questions,
you get them answered so you can go ahead and pull the trigger. All right.
See you soon. Love you. Bye-bye.