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All right, so welcome to phase three PATH session.

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Tonight we are gonna do something

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called the passion process, right?

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It's gonna be a great time together.

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There are gonna be some breakout sessions

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that are gonna be involved tonight,

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but I'm gonna need some assistance with breakouts.

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Bethany, you're gonna be here the whole time?

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Okay, all right.

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Let me go ahead and, okay.

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All right, so Bethany, you're gonna do the breakout

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since I'm on my iPad and it won't let me do it.

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And so you're gonna do that when it's time, okay?

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All right, so we're gonna have

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a little breakout action tonight

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because you're gonna help process

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each other's passion tonight.

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And I'm gonna explain that to you guys

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in just a few minutes, but right now we're gonna pray.

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Father God, we're so thankful.

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We're so thankful that you've created us to have passion.

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You've created us to live with passion.

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You've created us to actually enjoy these lives

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that you've blessed us with.

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Our lives are a gift and you want us to enjoy them.

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And so Lord, I pray that every single mind and heart

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is shifted towards a kingdom perspective of life,

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away from a religious perspective,

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away from a happening to us

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instead of happening for us perspective,

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and that everyone without fail would leave here tonight

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understanding that the things that you've called them to do

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the gifts and talents that they've been hardwired with

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are their gift, your gift to them

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and their gift to the world.

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And that when they live at that level of passion,

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everybody wins in Jesus name, amen.

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All right, all right.

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Okay, so let's see.

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We have about 88 live.

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So I had the opportunity to work

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with a lot of amazing teachers

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over the course of my discipleship

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to sit under a lot of amazing teachers,

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a lot of names that you guys would probably know

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if I name dropped them.

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But one of the things that I've learned

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over the course of my discipleship

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is that God wants us to like and even love our lives, okay?

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And so often what happens to us

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because of, you know, family, origin, family,

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culture, maybe even religion

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is that we get into a status quo situation

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where we're just going through the motions.

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We're just treading water, right?

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And so God doesn't want that for us.

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But all of the passion that you're gonna live with

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if you're not living with passion now

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is going to come as a result of taking some risks, right?

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Some risks have to be taken

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in order to get to a place of passion.

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You know, you're not going to break out

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a status quo accidentally.

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That's not gonna happen, okay, in any area of your life.

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You're gonna have to put some sweat equity in.

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Now, does that mean that we strive

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in order to get things that we think that we need?

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No, I believe that God provides for his lovers

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even while they're sleeping.

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That is a scripture.

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But at the same time, when you're not sleeping,

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when you're awake, what are you doing

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that proves that you really want it, right?

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The proof of desire is action or pursuit.

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And we talked about that a little bit

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on Supernatural Saturday.

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And so I want you guys to remember

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that we are gonna be activating Supernatural Saturday

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because we had a Mother's Day activation on Sunday night

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instead of our regular activating Supernatural Saturday.

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And so this Saturday, I'm going to be flying to Cartagena

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for our first international retreat.

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And so we are going to be activating

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what we learned last Saturday.

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So if you did not listen to last Saturday,

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Supernatural Saturday, go back and listen to the replay.

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It's in your Jackie Dorman portal.

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It's in your Facebook groups, okay?

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Go listen to that replay

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because you're gonna wanna sit quietly with God,

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with Holy Spirit, and just listen, okay?

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We wanna make this a habit.

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We wanna make this part of our proprietary protocol

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where we just sit and listen.

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We're not asking, we're not telling God

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how to solve our problems, right?

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We're not praying for other people.

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We're not interceding.

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Those are all great things.

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You can do all those,

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not the telling God how to solve your problems one.

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But you definitely wanna just sit quietly

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and just listen at some point, right?

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I did that yesterday or the day before.

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I did that Tuesday.

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And guys, I wrote all kinds of things

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that I heard God speaking to me.

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Now, I'm not gonna run off half-cocked

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and do all those things, right?

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That's some of that stuff,

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it's only in God's power to make those things happen.

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There's some things, some corrective elements

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to the things that I heard that are in my power to shift.

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And then there are-

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are other things that are God's part

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and they're in his power, okay?

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And so you're gonna activate those things

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on Saturday with each other.

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Think Faith Friday, but actually Supernatural Saturday,

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you sharing what God said to you

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when you made that appointment with him

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to just sit and listen, right?

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And so we want you to testify and share

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what happened as a result of you spending

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that quality time with God.

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A lot of us think because we don't have quantity of time

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that we don't spend quality time.

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But I will tell you that I knew a woman

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who had kids, boom, boom, boom, boom.

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Five kids, one after another, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.

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She was definitely very busy,

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didn't have one moment to herself,

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even to go to the bathroom, all right?

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But while she was cleaning, the kids are napping,

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the other kids are at school,

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while she's cleaning the toilets in her house,

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while she's doing the things,

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she's quietly, she's talking to God.

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She doesn't have quantity of time,

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but she decided to take the time that she had

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and just let God speak to her, right?

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To just purpose the intention of letting God speak.

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And so maybe you have a lunch break

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and instead of going and gossiping around the water cooler

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with the people that you work with, okay?

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Maybe you just go and you sit in your car with your lunch

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and you just sit and listen.

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Got your little pad there,

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ready to write down anything that God says to you

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that you wanna remember.

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you're just gonna not even write anything down,

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you're just gonna let him wash his love over you

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and talk to you and encourage you,

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and you're not even gonna write that stuff down, right?

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And one thing that I used to fall into this habit,

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don't fall into this habit,

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where we're spending time with God

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and he's talking to you,

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maybe even get some, what I call those heavy revies,

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to get those revelations.

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Don't run off and share all that stuff with other people.

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That was for you.

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And yeah, maybe it's worth, it's share worthy,

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maybe it's share worthy,

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but we don't just sit with God,

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especially for those of you that are in ministry

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or any kind of helping professions.

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We don't just sit with God to get more content

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to go share with others,

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to go post on social media

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and show people how spiritual we are or whatever.

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And so some of that stuff is just for you.

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And if it's share worthy

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and it's something that is for other people too,

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you can share it later.

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Right now, you're just gonna spend time

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just listening and receiving, okay?

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All right, so tonight, so that's the housekeeping.

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Saturday, that's what we're gonna do on Saturday.

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Okay, double D, David is leading Faith Friday tomorrow.

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So if you've never been there

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with a man leading Faith Friday,

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he will be leading Faith Friday tomorrow morning.

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And then on Saturday, Bethany will be taking over for me

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and she will be facilitating that time

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where you guys can share what it is

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that you've heard God saying

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in your special set aside time, all right?

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Okay, tonight, passion process.

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All right, so on your piece of paper,

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first of all, I wanna remind us

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that we are almost halfway through the year.

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Almost halfway, July 3rd,

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this year will be half over, okay?

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I think it's usually July 2nd, but we had a leap day.

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We had a leap year happen.

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So it's gonna be half over.

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And you guys, this is the year of the open door, right?

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This is year 5784, it's the year of the open door.

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And some of you have yet to see any open doors.

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But perhaps you're so busy with other things

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that you're not paying attention to those things, right?

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And so tonight what we wanna do

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is we wanna get focused on what we would like

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to see happen before this year ends.

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What would we like to see happen before this year ends?

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And I know all you guys are right, meet my spirit mate.

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Okay, listen, what do we wanna see happen

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before this year's ends?

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Like, what are we passionate about?

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What would we love to accomplish?

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Not just see happen, that's not even the right terminology.

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What do we wanna accomplish

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What do I wanna accomplish?

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Get done, manifest, have happen in my life

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before the end of this year.

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And you guys, I know that you could write down

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a hundred things that you would really like,

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but I'm not talking about being practical

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because there is a supernatural component to this.

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But I want you to make this list very carefully,

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truthfully with God, all right?

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Very carefully and very truthfully with God.

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Like for instance, you couldn't write down,

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I'd like to pass the LSAT before the end of the year.

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The only way that you could write that down

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is if you've already done your undergraduate in law school.

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You understand that that can't happen

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before the end of this year.

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here, right? So there are things that it'd be ridiculous, even if

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that is a desire of yours for you to write down on this piece

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of paper right now. Okay, I want you to dream big. But I also

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want you to, to be realistic, as far as what kind of time and

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effort have you already put in? Okay. Because I will tell you

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that there are a lot of people that think that just because

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they're a child of God, they get to circumvent all the process.

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And that's just simply not true. It's not. In fact, God's

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promises are his process. The promise is the point. I'm sorry,

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the process is the point of the promise. It is. It's the thing

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that readies you to be able to sustain that thing. So I want

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you to write down on your paper, five things. So usually when I

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do the process, this passion process, it is 10 things. But

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because it's only this year, I want you to write down five

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things that you would really love to accomplish before

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January 1 2025. I'm gonna give you a few minutes to write those

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things down. I would like for you to write them in order of

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the most important thing being number one, and then 2345. So go

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ahead, I'll give you about five minutes to do that. If you can

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only come up with two, fine. If you can only come up with

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three, sure. I'd like for you to come up with more than one.

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Also, please be as detailed as possible. Okay, don't say I'd

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like to run a 5k. That's great. But I want you to say where do

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you want to run that 5k? I want to run the you know, I want to

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run a marathon in this city. I want to run this specific

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marathon that I know is coming up. I want to train and run this

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specific marathon that's coming up. Okay, so get more detailed.

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If you'd like to go back to school, where do you want to go

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back to school? Where do you want? What do you where do you

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want to go back to school? Like what school and where do you

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want to go back to school for guys get it be detailed. Give as

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much detail on each one as you can.

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Raise your hand if you need a couple more minutes. Okay, give

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me a couple more minutes. Go ahead.

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You guys check in with your heart. You know, there might be

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some practical things that you put on this list because it's

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just kind of sticks out like a sore thumb. Like some of you're

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like, I want to, I want to get I want to get my house, you know,

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cleaned up and, and up for sale. You know, because I want to sell

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it, you know, so there might be some things that are really

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practical stick out like a sore thumb that you know that you

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need to get done. But what do you want? What do you

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All right, let's go ahead and finish up.

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We're going to go to our next thing.

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So I don't know if I was muted when I was trying to say that, you know, you could have something practical, like cleaning out your house. Did you guys hear me say all that stuff?

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Because apparently I muted myself. Okay. All right, just making sure someone said you're muted. Okay. All right.

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So, we need a brave volunteer couple of actual brave volunteers because I'm going to demonstrate to you what we're going to do next. Okay, and you're going to do this as well.

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But I need a couple people that want to want to volunteer to unmute themselves and read their list.

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Who will be our first volunteer.

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I'll do it. Who said, who said, Kathy. Kathy Chamberlain.

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All right, so Kathy I want you to start with number one, and I want you to read very slowly. All right, the first, the first, how many how many do you have you have five, five.

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Okay, I want you to read all five started with number one, and read, don't read real fast read slow. Go ahead. Okay.

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Number one is share Ellie, that's my book, Ellie the elephant.

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Share Ellie more in churches and schools.

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Speak to kids everywhere. More speaking engagements.

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That's number one.

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Number two, find the job that uses my speaking to kids and parents job that will get me up in the morning won't suck the life out of me.

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Number three, connect with my spirit made on a deeper level.

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Number four, travel to states I haven't been to solo if need be up the east coast.

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And then five, make more money, not live paycheck to paycheck.

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Okay, so now, Kathy is going to you heard all the ones Kathy read all of them. Okay.

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So now Kathy, I want you to read them again.

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Okay. And as you're reading them. I want you to picture yourself doing these things. Okay. And I want you to really just imagine that you've received these things as you're reading this, starting with number one.

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And I want you, I want you as much as possible I know that you're reading, but I want you to look at us in the face when you're saying these things you can look down but look back up while you're telling us what it is that you want to accomplish.

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Number one, to share le my book, more in churches, and in schools, speak to kids everywhere with the open doors that God's going to do more speaking engagements.

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Number two, find a job that's going to use my, my speaking skills to kids and parents, and a job that will get me up in the morning, and will not suck the life out of me.

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Number three, connect with my spirit mate on a deeper level

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Number four, travel to states that I have never been to before solo if I have to, especially up the east coast.

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And then number five, make, make more money.

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So that I'm not living paycheck to paycheck.

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Okay, so you guys listen to happy and you saw her Did you see it.

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She read where her eyes lit up. Did you guys see it.

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Which one do you think it was.

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Go ahead and put it in the chat 12345, which one do you think it was. She wants all of them. But which one is the juice on which one did her like her expression change and her eyes lit up when she said it she kind of smiled a little bit when she said it.

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So many people think it's the travel one.

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So many people are saying travel, travel, travel, travel, travel, travel.

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And of course, that's great, you know solo if she has to.

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Kathy, I want you to read back to us. Okay.

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Okay, stop, stop guessing for a second.

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I want you to read back to us number two.

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Okay, number four.

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And number five, starting with number two, and remember, make eye contact with us right imagine yourself doing this.

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Imagine yourself doing these things as if you already have them go ahead.

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Okay.

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I want to find a job that uses my speaking skills to kids and parents, and a job that is going to get me out of bed in the morning, and not suck the life out of me.

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You guys see it for travel to states I've never been to solo if I have to up the east coast.

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Make money, make more money, so that I'm not living paycheck to paycheck.

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Kathy reread number two, and number four.

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I want to find a job that uses my skill and speaking to kids and parents, I want for one way one change one change, I want you to change the word job to assignment.

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I want to find an assignment that's going to use my, my speaking skills to kids and the parents, an assignment that's, that's going to get me up in the morning, and is not going to suck the life out of me.

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And then travel to states that I've never been to solo, if I need to up the east coast.

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Okay, both of those things she wants. Okay, she wants all five of those things, but you guys see the juice on to.

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Her inflection and her voice changes. You know Kathy, when you're reading any of these did you start to get emotional at all when you read any of them, picturing yourself doing that the job one assignment.

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I saw it. I saw your eye. I saw your eyes light up. Okay you guys, that's what God is on right now.

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Now, she can accomplish all five of those things this year none of those are unrealistic to accomplish in this year right, but there's something that comes before the other things, and that is when Holy Spirit is helping us to get something done that's what the passion

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is when the, I call it the juice, when the juice is on it right and the juice is on number two for her, and it's possible that number four goes with number two, because it's possible that there's a relocation, the possible the desire for her to especially go to the east coast for some reason, right, means that there, there's something there's something for her there's something waiting for her so that's exciting guys is that fun.

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Right, so Kathy, God is with you. All right, he's with you to do this to accomplish this thing. And so we're going to talk about what you would need to do in the second half of tonight, in order to do that.

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Okay, so now we're going to break you up into groups.

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Right, we're going to break you up into groups of two.

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Actually let's do three going to break you up into groups of three.

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So go ahead and start creating those for us.

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Can you make me a full host for some reason I can't do it right now.

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Sure.

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What did you say three people right so she's going to guess she's going to put you into groups of three and so you know in order to do that go take it all the way down to groups of two three, otherwise it'll put people in groups of three four.

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So take it all the way down until it goes down down down down down until two three pops up.

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Okay.

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So some of you might have groups of just two that means and some of you are going to have groups of three, you guys, times of the absence, no chit chatting.

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passion process, all of you are gonna get a chance

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to read to the other two people,

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and I want you to start out with what we had Kathy do

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at the very end, okay?

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And that is, look the other people in your room in the eye,

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that means everyone's gotta turn their camera on,

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everybody, okay?

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Go put some clothes on if you're nakey, all right?

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Everyone's gonna look each other in the eye,

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and you're gonna read your five things.

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You're gonna read them slowly at first,

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and then they're gonna ask you to reread,

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you know, they're gonna like say,

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okay, this is what I felt, this is what I felt,

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each person's gonna have one vote

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of what they felt the juice was on,

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they're gonna have you reread that thing,

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and I want you to also pay attention

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to what you get emotional about.

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When you're reading it, you start to choke up a little bit,

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your throat starts to get tight,

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you start imagining yourself doing this,

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and you start feeling Holy Spirit on it,

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because God wants that thing for you,

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and he's the one that put that desire there.

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I'm getting choked up just thinking about it, okay?

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So, pay attention to your own heart

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when you're reading these things out loud,

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and hopefully you were as detailed as you could be,

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because it's important for it to have detail, all right?

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All right, okay, Holy Spirit's all over this, y'all.

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Hey, raise your hand if that was fun,

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raise your hand if that was enlightening.

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Awesome, awesome, so good.

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All right, so you can see that we have desires,

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we can write down five things that we wanna accomplish,

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but there are some things that we want more than others,

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and there are also some things

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that it's more the time for, right?

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Or maybe that's the first,

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maybe that's the first block in the building,

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maybe that's the first thing that we need to do.

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And so, when we use our mouths and we say it out loud,

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there's a different resonance on it.

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Does that make sense to everyone?

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Are we recording again?

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Yeah, you're recording.

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Was I recording the whole time?

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Yes.

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Okay, all right.

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Since it came from breakout, yeah, you're good.

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Okay, awesome, so there's a different resonance, right?

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You guys, our voices carry resonance,

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and so there's a different resonance on it.

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And so, when people hear you say that you want it,

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they actually believe you, right?

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They believe that you want it.

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They believe that it is something

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that is for right now in your life, right?

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Okay, so go ahead and put in the chat,

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because it'd be way too long for us to talk to everyone,

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put in the chat the thing that your group chose for you

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and the thing that you felt the most resonance on

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out of your list.

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Go ahead and put, what is that thing?

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Write it out, put it in the chat

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so we can see what some of the things are.

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Guys, some of these things are really vague.

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More fun, what does that mean?

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What kind of more fun?

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Home-based business, what kind of home-based business?

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New assignment, what kind of new assignment?

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Y'all are not following directions.

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Do more drawing, what kind of drawing?

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What are you drawing?

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Start a trauma ministry, what kind of trauma?

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Open a private bank, that's interesting.

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Write a children's book about what?

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What kind of children's book?

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Find investments, move, clean your house,

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finish decorating the rooms in your house.

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Gain a work-life balance, okay, all right.

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Move, new apartment where?

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What city, what neighborhood?

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What kind of apartment?

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I'm helping you guys get more clear.

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So regardless of what it was that people pinpointed

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as the thing that when you voiced it,

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they believed that you wanted it.

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When you voiced it, they felt heaven on it, okay.

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Whatever that thing is for you,

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I want you to get very specific about it

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because now we're gonna go to part two.

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And part two is, how are you gonna get it?

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How are you gonna get it in your hot little hands?

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Because all of these things that you are listing out here

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as the thing that was chosen for you for right now

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to work on, okay, to go after,

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that is going to require you to take action.

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So now I want you to take a few minutes

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and I want you to take that one thing

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and I want you to put it on a new piece of paper

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and I want you to write that thing at the top.

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as detailed as possible because what you're writing here in the chat is not detailed.

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So once you get as detailed as possible about that one thing, now I know that all the other

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things on the list you want to but remember we got to start somewhere and this is what

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the resonance was on. This is what heaven was backing you in when you spoke it out loud.

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Okay so let's write it at the top of a new sheet of paper and then I want you to list under it

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five things that you would need to do in order to make that happen.

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And so I saw one person at least say meet my spirit mate so they they chose that for you

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that's great. So being here showing up so one of the things for someone who that would be your thing

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showing up here listening to your coaches like taking advice the advice that we're giving you

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putting yourself out there right going on dates like there's so that's kind of some of the things

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that you would list out and if you're already doing that stuff then add more to it you know

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possibly you need to you know go to a different place than where you're fishing a different

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fishing hole so to speak right branch out to other communities other events you know

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you need to come up with once again with the help of holy spirit some things some practical and some

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supernatural things that you would need to do to accomplish this thing that heaven has already

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invited you into that's why there was resonance on it. Kathy said this is the thing that I felt

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emotion about and I saw the very first time she read I saw that number two her eyes sparkled a

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little bit when she said it and I was like oh that's it that's the one and so she's got to do

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something in order to that for that to happen God's got to do his part for sure but he's already

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inviting her he's saying I'm going to do my part you want this because I created you to want it

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and so now I need you to do your part so you can have it okay and so everyone's going to write that

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stuff down all right so I'm going to give you guys about five minutes or so to write down five or six

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minutes to write down at least five things that you would have to do in order to accomplish that

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one thing before the end of this year go ahead and and Bethany you can pause this you can pause

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they're saying and then they're five who wants to volunteer to read their

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five their their thing carol and then their five and then their five action steps

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I'm sorry coral go ahead coral yeah okay so I want to be able to sell more of my abstract art

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that really resonate with my collectors so what I'm going to do with the five things is

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one I want to create a new art with great colors and that the theme is very accessible to people

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so they can really resonate with them and then the second thing I'm going to do is to create

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the template you know like doing the research of the you know the images I'm going to create from

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and the third one is I'm going to create a new color palette that will like really

477
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different really captivating the third one is oh no the fourth one okay I'm going to take

478
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more coaching and advices from people who have done this you know better than I and then the

479
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last one is I need to manage my process the creative process and also my mindset well

480
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because why I feel like I'm dating and then doing this I feel like in my brain sometimes it's just

481
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like a distracted in different areas of the emotional up and down but I want to I cannot

482
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run away from dating but I also need to focus so I want to find a efficient way a wise way to manage

483
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it space so so time management and emotional right so so yes bandwidth it's actually should

484
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be called capacity management so capacity management okay that's number five capacity

485
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management what do you have the capacity to do love it all right good thank you Coral okay who

486
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else Tanya has her hand up go ahead Tanya um hi um hi hi um I want to begin the gathering again

487
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and the gathering is a place where people can come to worship to pray to be healed where people can

488
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be discipled um I had started it before the pandemic and then when that happened um I stopped

489
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and was doing other ministry but it's just heavily on my heart to begin it again and so the five

490
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steps if there's five um first I was looking for a place I've been doing

491
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that. But then I heard the Holy Spirit said, just begin at your home again. Um, and, um,

492
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uh, time management also, um, that I wouldn't, let's stop Tanya right there. Let's stop Tanya

493
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right there because what she said was really good. A lot of you, you will get stumped and

494
00:35:18.400 --> 00:35:24.880
you will get sidetracked and you will get delayed because you're going to put on this list things

495
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that are out of your control. What I want you to put on this list are things you can do right now.

496
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In order to make this happen. Okay. If God wants it to be in a bigger building,

497
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then that's supernaturally what he's going to have to do. But guess what? She has a home

498
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and she's willing to invite people into her home. So she doesn't got to wait on that. Okay.

499
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Go ahead, Tanya. Okay. And, um, just the procrastination part of myself at this point,

500
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I have to just do it. I'm already equipped, so I have to just do it. So that's number. Okay. So

501
00:35:55.840 --> 00:35:59.760
let me ask you, when's the first gathering? When's the first gathering then? When is it

502
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next month? What day? I'm going to do it next month. What day of next month?

503
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The last Friday, Saturday, Saturday, Saturday, the last Saturday of next month.

504
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All right. Someone get the date of that. Put it in the chat. What's the last Saturday of June.

505
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Okay. Keep going, Tanya. We got you. Um, that's it. Um, I heard the spirit saying, and it's,

506
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and it's a movie and it may sound funny to some people, but this is how the Lord speaks to me.

507
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Sometimes if you build it, they will come. So they will, people are hungry. People are hungry

508
00:36:40.320 --> 00:36:44.720
for community. They're hungry for all the things. Okay. So it looks like June 29th is the last

509
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Saturday of the month. Yes. And so June 29th, Tanya, it's on. All right. All right, Thomas,

510
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go ahead and share. All right. Um, the thing that really jumped out to my group, um, who I

511
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appreciate, uh, was having 20 polished poems by the end of the year. And so the five things that

512
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I wrote down was one, write one rough draft per week, um, perhaps on Sunday afternoons.

513
00:37:16.480 --> 00:37:24.640
Um, two, uh, to go back and revisit each one, um, each Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.

514
00:37:26.160 --> 00:37:36.160
Oh, hi Carla. Um, number three, to, um, get a notebook to write them in. Uh, number four,

515
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to sit for at least five minutes, um, when I'm writing in an attempt to, um, uh, create

516
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supernatural, um, writing and five at the end of the year to put them in a clean, beautiful collection.

517
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I love it. So organized. So, so thought out. That's wonderful. Okay. I like that. And Carla

518
00:38:01.280 --> 00:38:06.640
said she knows him. That's why this is community and some people know each other here. Okay. So

519
00:38:06.640 --> 00:38:11.280
if you're interested in meeting Thomas, reach out to Carla because she knows him and she would love

520
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to, um, she would love to screen you for him and then introduce you to him possibly. Okay.

521
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So Nikki, you're up. Okay. I know him too, but I'm trying, listen, I'm trying to delegate

522
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matchmaking here. This is community-based matchmaking, not Jackie-based matchmaking.

523
00:38:29.360 --> 00:38:36.640
Okay. Nikki, it's your turn. Yes. Um, so what spoke to my group, um, was I had talked about,

524
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um, rebuilding relationships or maintaining relationships. Um, when I go through my bouts

525
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of depression, I tend to pull away from everybody and everything. So being able to reinvest in

526
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relationships and on a bigger scale, um, become more involved in my church and my just community

527
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as a whole, because I live in a pretty small town that I could do that. So number one, I wrote down

528
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praying for insight, um, on who needs my interaction, um, so that I can step out of

529
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myself and invest into others. Number two, to continue my heart work so that I can see what

530
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is, um, in my spirit that is bringing up my depression again. Uh, number three was to speak

531
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with my pastor and a few other people at my church on areas where they need, um, people to step up

532
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and volunteer and help and where I can utilize my gifts. Number four was, um, finishing the Bible

533
00:39:30.960 --> 00:39:35.200
study I've been working on, which is discerning God's voice so that it can also help me just

534
00:39:35.840 --> 00:39:40.720
feel that closer connection and know where I should be investing. And then last was actually

535
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making the time and stepping out of my own home to invest in, be involved with people as opposed to,

536
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uh, staying home when I'm feeling down.

537
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Awesome, Nikki. Um, actually I'm sensing something for you as well. So, um, if you will email admin

538
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dorman.com. It's something that I would privately share via email with you. Okay, awesome. Thank

539
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you, Nikki. I love it. I believe that that's going to happen. In fact, I don't think you're

540
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going to go back in the cave after this. I think that you are going to stay out, you're

541
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going to stay uncomfortable, you're going to be vulnerable, you're going to let people

542
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in. You're going to actually, you know, during your process, you're going to help, you know,

543
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your process is going to help other people in process. As you do that more publicly and

544
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be in process, mental health, y'all, is something that we all deal with. Our mental health is

545
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an important part of our lives. And so many people for so long have not, you know, had

546
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the type of, you know, vulnerable community around them that people are willing to talk

547
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about it. And so that's good and important. All right. So next up, I think is Nora.

548
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Hi. So the one that I went with in my group is have more fun. And to me, that's anything

549
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that gives me more, more energy. But specifically, I want to host dinner parties and game nights

550
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at my place to build community and bring people together to do life with because a lot of

551
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my people have moved away. And so to do awesome. So making new friends. Yeah, making new friends.

552
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Yes. Like you guys are my friends, but I need them in person too. So number one, yes.

553
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I was going to, you know, pick the people that I want to bring over, like pick people. Number two

554
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is pick the date. Number three is pick the meal. Number four is like buy more chairs and a table

555
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because I don't have that many places to sit. And I couldn't think of number five. So I was

556
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just like embrace imperfection because I think I think the thing that's been keeping me from

557
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doing this is just like a perfectionistic mindset. So just like taking perfect action.

558
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I have an idea. So I love this. This is great. And so I have an idea. Number one, I think that

559
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you should be on the team that helps plan the conference in your area because I think that's

560
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going to be great for you. And then number two a lot of times when we're hosting other people,

561
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you guys, and we have the gift of hospitality. We want to host people. We want to serve them and

562
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love them well. And that's great. But I think it kind of feeds into the kind of perfectionist

563
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mentality. So what if Nora, you and you picked a few people to come over and cook with you.

564
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I love that. So to come over and create a meal together, right. And, you know, kind of almost

565
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like a murder mystery night, you assign everyone a different thing and you have the stuff,

566
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but you come and they, or they contribute the stuff and you guys all make a meal together.

567
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Like someone makes a salad and someone makes the garlic bread or the, you know, or the lasagna,

568
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whatever, you know, whatever it is in your heart. Yeah. So cooking together, you know, if y'all

569
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drink some wine, have a little glass of wine cooking together, doing the things, you know,

570
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and if you don't, yeah, whatever. Yes. Look at that. Great. I'm just waiting, waiting for it.

571
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Come on over. Okay. And that way it takes the pressure off you to, to do the perfect meal.

572
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I like that. You know what? That's actually something that God told me to do. I just

573
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created, I mean, like I didn't even know how to cook chicken at this point, but I invited

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some coworkers over and we just like made tacos together. And then the executive team came over

575
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and like, then the entire company was in my house. And this was like, it was a Holy spirit

576
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dinner party. And that was like several years ago. And that's what inspired this. So I like

577
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the fact that you said that ties back to the inspiration. So I love it. Thanks, Jackie.

578
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I love that. I love that. And I don't know who this word is for, but I'm hearing progressive

579
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dinner in my heart. And so I'm just going to release that. And what that is, is that that's

580
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a really great way to get to know your neighbors. So progressive dinner traditionally is when a group

581
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of people, neighbors normally would go house to house for different courses of a meal. Okay. So

582
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like you'd spend, you go to one house for like the pre dinner, the appetizers, you go to another

583
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house for the, the main course, you go to another house for dessert. And it's a really good way for,

584
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you know, neighbors to get to know each other. And so I don't know who that's for, but I want

585
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to release that because it's a great way to non-Christian create community. Like a lot,

586
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you're like, come to church with me. No, just open your home and be, you know, one of the stops

587
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on a progressive dinner. That's the way to know your neighbors and to love on them. And it doesn't

588
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have to always be over spiritualized. Right. Which is good. Okay. So thanks for sharing. And let's say

589
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Lauren, you're up. Okay. I'm coming over to Nora's. Nora's going to do that. That's a word for Nora.

590
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What'd you say? Say it louder. I'm going to come over to Nora's because

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is perfect. One of my first ones that I wrote down was have a

592
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solid life giving in person community that celebrates

593
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birthdays, special occasions, and is so supportive just in

594
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life in general. This community will have people mostly in the

595
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same season of life as me.

596
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Yes, that's beautiful. You guys people need this so desperately

597
00:45:28.240 --> 00:45:30.480
guys, they need this more than you inviting them to their

598
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church to your church. Okay, they need community they need

599
00:45:34.680 --> 00:45:37.640
they need a place where they can just have, you know, the family

600
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that you choose friends, right. And so that's important. Okay,

601
00:45:41.200 --> 00:45:43.600
so Lauren, what are what are the first five steps you're going to

602
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do? Besides be one of the leaders of our new single city

603
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Arizona is what I'm hearing about.

604
00:45:50.200 --> 00:45:53.280
All the Arizonans raise your hand. I can spot you.

605
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That would help. So, um, so that is a real thing. We are going to

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be starting in a single city in Arizona. And Lauren is one of

607
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the people that has volunteered to be part of the leadership of

608
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that. So that's step one. Alright, step two. What do you

609
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got? Step two, I need help. I need help. What are your five

610
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things? I'm trying to figure them out. Alright, so I would

611
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say the Holy Spirit actually showed me this I was out to

612
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dinner. And I was talking just with our waitress. And she was

613
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super bubbly and friendly. And I wanted to just ask her I didn't

614
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because I didn't have anything set up. But I wanted to ask her,

615
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Hey, like, are you single? And do you have somewhere to go?

616
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Because I could just sense it. Like, I think the Holy Spirit

617
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put that on my heart even more. So just people in passing, you

618
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know, if I feel kind of a connection, if I'm just talking

619
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with them, I love striking up conversations like that. Just

620
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asking them. And I think that's a big part of it. And I think

621
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asking them and getting the word out more than just

622
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identifying a group of people within a church. It's just doing

623
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life wherever I'm at, like a grocery store, walking about

624
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wherever. Okay, so that's two. And you know, in the whole are

625
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you single thing is a great opening line, you guys. I mean,

626
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obviously, I'm more than just a matchmaker. But when people ask

627
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me what I'm do what I do, like at an airport or something, I

628
00:47:12.760 --> 00:47:16.360
always start with that. Because guess what? People don't push

629
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back on that as much as they would push back on profit or

630
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preacher or minister or something like that. They're

631
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like, Oh, wow, that's interesting. And it starts a

632
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conversation. So what she's saying is right. But the thing

633
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Lauren that I will tell you is that if you're going to do that,

634
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then make sure that these events where you know, these these

635
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gatherings where you're going to get to know these people and

636
00:47:35.240 --> 00:47:37.760
love on them and do life together are outside of your

637
00:47:37.760 --> 00:47:40.920
home until you get to know people better. Okay, I wouldn't

638
00:47:40.920 --> 00:47:44.200
just invite strangers to your home right off the bat is how my

639
00:47:44.200 --> 00:47:47.640
watch got stolen. This is how I can name off all the things

640
00:47:47.640 --> 00:47:52.080
y'all. I've got all the mugs and t shirts of this. And so all I'm

641
00:47:52.080 --> 00:47:55.400
saying is, is that, you know, see these people in a neutral

642
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environment before you start inviting them into your space.

643
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Okay. 100% absolutely safety, right? I do have a location. So

644
00:48:05.920 --> 00:48:08.680
secure the location. It's in my church. They already said I

645
00:48:08.680 --> 00:48:15.520
could use a big room. And another, I think this is for

646
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cultivate a team. I need people in on my team to make this

647
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happen.

648
00:48:22.080 --> 00:48:25.680
Everyone. Okay, so everyone, stop, everyone, I want you to

649
00:48:25.680 --> 00:48:27.560
pay attention to what's happening with Lauren here.

650
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Okay. So, Lauren, I want you to read the main thing that you

651
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felt to do. All right. Read that one again, the main thing.

652
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The main thing, okay, a community,

653
00:48:44.440 --> 00:48:48.960
have a solid life giving in person community that celebrates

654
00:48:49.000 --> 00:48:53.320
birthdays, special occasions, and is so supportive. This

655
00:48:53.320 --> 00:48:55.960
community will have people mostly in the same season of

656
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life as me.

657
00:48:57.760 --> 00:49:02.160
Okay, so that's not great, right. And when she's right, and

658
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when she read that, all of us pictured, you know, something,

659
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and but then when she starts listing out the steps, you know,

660
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it starts sounding like a church thing, doesn't it? Now, it

661
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sounds like, oh, it's going to be at a room in the church, it's

662
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going to be like a ministry night, she's putting together a

663
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team for it. Now, it's gone from informal, like, hey, people do

664
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in life together, some kind of formal ministry time, where

665
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there's team members, and there's a room in a church. And

666
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so, I don't think that step goes along with the main thing

667
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that you listed out at the beginning.

668
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I got, are you Lauren disappeared? Okay, so. So if you

669
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said to me, the main thing, I want to start a ministry for

670
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people in the same season of life, right? But no, you said

671
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celebrate birthdays, do life together, you know, so those two

672
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things, you know, basically

673
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place to belong, like a group, like a, you know, a group of friends is what it sounded like when

674
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you read the thing. And then now it sounds like some sort of organized type of ministry thing.

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Does everyone agree with me? So you see how we can like, have something and then as we start

676
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listing out the action steps, we can kind of like start creating something different.

677
00:50:26.960 --> 00:50:37.840
Anybody? And I will just tell you guys for pre-believers, so like the waitress, you know,

678
00:50:37.840 --> 00:50:44.160
at, at the restaurant for pre-believers, they're much more likely to meet you out at a two-step

679
00:50:44.160 --> 00:50:49.360
place where you're going to have a fun night of dancing together and, you know, having dinner

680
00:50:49.360 --> 00:50:54.320
or doing something, or maybe a girl's brunch where you're going to talk about, you know,

681
00:50:54.320 --> 00:51:00.800
that what's like to be single in 20, you know, in the year 2024, then to come to a church where

682
00:51:00.800 --> 00:51:08.320
there's a team to do something with them. So right now, Lauren, we're to come back to you. I want you

683
00:51:08.320 --> 00:51:13.360
to look in your heart and, and, and think about what is it that you really want and what is it

684
00:51:13.360 --> 00:51:17.840
that you're really seeing? And we're going to come back to you. So look at that, think about that,

685
00:51:17.840 --> 00:51:23.600
and then list out five things that go with that thing. And we'll be back. Jill, I'm helping you

686
00:51:23.600 --> 00:51:27.920
guys get clear. You got to get clear. We're not going to go anywhere if we're not clear. Okay, Jill,

687
00:51:27.920 --> 00:51:34.800
what do you got? Hi, Jackie. Hi. Um, so my group didn't pick one, but I've, I've picked the first

688
00:51:34.800 --> 00:51:40.560
one that came to my mind, which was launch my podcast. And so, okay, wait, wait, wait. What's

689
00:51:40.560 --> 00:51:45.680
your podcast about? Okay. So the podcast, it's called the human side with officer Jill. For

690
00:51:45.680 --> 00:51:49.840
those who don't know, I'm a police officer. And so it's basically, I'll be interviewing people,

691
00:51:50.560 --> 00:51:54.960
um, both officers and community members on, on how we can make the relationship better.

692
00:51:54.960 --> 00:52:00.240
And just kind of like this, I guess, controversial topics or just basic topics regarding

693
00:52:00.240 --> 00:52:05.520
law enforcement and the community. Oh, girl, that's going to be a hot topic. All right,

694
00:52:05.520 --> 00:52:12.160
keep going. Okay. So first, so I have recorded, uh, I batch recorded about two months worth of

695
00:52:12.160 --> 00:52:18.000
content. So now, and I'd actually just did that last week. So my first step is actually writing

696
00:52:18.000 --> 00:52:24.320
out a strategy and how or which videos I want to release, um, and set a release date or launch

697
00:52:24.320 --> 00:52:30.240
date. Uh, number two would be creating some additional shorts that may correlate with the

698
00:52:30.240 --> 00:52:40.560
long form videos. Uh, number three is schedule and keep dates to edit their, their actual recorded

699
00:52:40.640 --> 00:52:49.200
videos. Um, number four is ask for additional insight for launching the podcast from the

700
00:52:49.200 --> 00:52:53.120
mastermind community that I'm in, or whoever else I have access to that has that information.

701
00:52:54.160 --> 00:53:00.800
And number five is just launch do it. Yeah. Hey, you guys listen, when it comes to something like

702
00:53:00.800 --> 00:53:04.320
this, I'm going to give this advice to Jill, but I'm going to give it to everyone, including the,

703
00:53:04.320 --> 00:53:09.280
um, coral who talked about her art, you know, Lauren, you guys just throw it against the wall

704
00:53:09.280 --> 00:53:14.400
and see what sticks. It doesn't have to all be perfect Nora about her, you know, gathering people,

705
00:53:14.400 --> 00:53:18.480
you know, in her house and having dinners and, you know, parties and game nights,

706
00:53:18.480 --> 00:53:23.120
throw it against the wall and see what sticks. Okay. You're going to have something in your mind

707
00:53:23.120 --> 00:53:27.200
that you think that it looks like you have to start somewhere, start somewhere, start small.

708
00:53:27.200 --> 00:53:31.040
You don't have to have everything together. Like our sister that said she wanted to start the

709
00:53:31.040 --> 00:53:35.440
gathering, right? She wants to start gathering. She wants to start the gathering. You don't need,

710
00:53:35.440 --> 00:53:38.400
she don't, she was like, Oh, where am I going to get a venue at? And God's like,

711
00:53:38.400 --> 00:53:43.760
you live in a venue, right? She's obviously inviting people that she knows into her home.

712
00:53:43.760 --> 00:53:48.800
Remember, we want to make sure that, you know, we're in neutral spaces until we understand that

713
00:53:48.800 --> 00:53:53.840
people are safe to bring in our houses. Um, you, you guys, that's a good boundary. I know back in

714
00:53:53.840 --> 00:53:57.840
the days, it's like, Oh, well, we're Christians and we should just have open house for anybody

715
00:53:57.840 --> 00:54:04.000
to come. Yes. That's not true. Okay. And so we, we definitely want to have wisdom. And so, um,

716
00:54:04.000 --> 00:54:10.320
Jill, it doesn't have to be perfect. It just has to be done. Perfect is better than done. And so

717
00:54:10.320 --> 00:54:16.160
you're going to get after it. Thank you. All right. So Jill, when are we expecting

718
00:54:17.280 --> 00:54:23.760
just the first episode of this? So I'm telling myself in order to challenge myself to get the

719
00:54:23.760 --> 00:54:30.160
stuff done, uh, before June 1st. So the end of May end of this month is what I'm trying to tell

720
00:54:30.160 --> 00:54:38.480
myself. That's in two weeks. Let's go. Let's go. Let's go. Okay. Hey, listen, I was arrested once.

721
00:54:38.480 --> 00:54:45.200
So I can be on your podcast. Okay. That qualifies as a guest. I was arrested. I was taken to jail

722
00:54:45.920 --> 00:54:53.360
because I had a unpaid speeding ticket. Let's go. All right. Okay. All right. Maeve you're up.

723
00:54:53.360 --> 00:54:58.800
Hi, Jackie and everyone. All right. My, um, passion fun.

724
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:06.080
thing is pass the sailing test and feel comfortable sailing on my own and bringing out friends on the

725
00:55:06.080 --> 00:55:14.480
boat. Whoa do you have a boat? No but I'm gonna um but at the sailing community I can once I pass

726
00:55:14.480 --> 00:55:19.920
the test and then you can do the boat share thing with them. Oh I love it okay. I don't have to I

727
00:55:19.920 --> 00:55:26.160
don't have to own a boat or take care of a boat. Love that okay so I love that. What do you okay

728
00:55:26.160 --> 00:55:31.920
so what do you have to do to make this reality? I gotta do my two more lessons with Julie my

729
00:55:31.920 --> 00:55:38.880
sailing instructor. I have to become a member of the sailing club. I have to pass the test

730
00:55:39.920 --> 00:55:43.440
uh like do all the things so I can be qualified to sail on my own.

731
00:55:44.560 --> 00:55:49.760
That means I also need to study from the YouTube learn to sail videos.

732
00:55:50.720 --> 00:55:56.000
I need to practice and rehearse in my mind and visualize the points of sail all of that being

733
00:55:56.000 --> 00:56:04.800
out on the water and then I need to invite friends to come on the boat with me. I then need to

734
00:56:04.800 --> 00:56:10.880
practice and take friends out and I keep thinking of like it must have been God because I usually

735
00:56:10.880 --> 00:56:15.520
don't talk like this but it like sailing ministry. Not that I'm actually like leading a ministry

736
00:56:15.760 --> 00:56:22.240
but this is like my sailing ministry of I bring a friend out or two and guys listen so much this

737
00:56:22.240 --> 00:56:27.760
is the new ecclesia this is the new we are the church but this is the new spiritual community

738
00:56:27.760 --> 00:56:34.560
sailing sailing clubs running clubs right hiking clubs these are the new things people doing life

739
00:56:34.560 --> 00:56:39.200
together like like Lauren said people are in the same season or or not even the same season but the

740
00:56:39.200 --> 00:56:45.120
same interest doing life together this is how we influence and impact people by doing life with

741
00:56:45.120 --> 00:56:50.160
them so Maeve that's amazing. All right so when are you going to finish your two lessons with your

742
00:56:50.160 --> 00:56:55.760
sailing instructor? They're all scheduled so I have next weekend is the second to last and then

743
00:56:55.760 --> 00:57:03.120
the following weekend is the pre-test and then the week after that is the test so the first week of

744
00:57:03.120 --> 00:57:09.440
June they're on my calendar first week of June is the test so I need to be ready by then and then

745
00:57:09.440 --> 00:57:14.960
after that I just need to be brave to go out and take the boat out and bring a friend

746
00:57:14.960 --> 00:57:21.840
and have a lot of fun. Where do you where do you live at? I'm um in Lakewood Ranch near Sarasota,

747
00:57:21.840 --> 00:57:27.280
Florida so I'm in the Gulf. All right everyone that's in her area she wants to take you on the

748
00:57:27.280 --> 00:57:34.160
boat let's go all right it's gonna be so fun it's gonna be so fun now I'll go on the boat with you

749
00:57:34.160 --> 00:57:39.120
Maeve I will go on the boat with you while you're learning but if all of you are wanting to become

750
00:57:39.120 --> 00:57:44.880
a pilot I'm not your girl I will not fly with you until you really know what you're doing okay

751
00:57:44.880 --> 00:57:52.960
Sandra you're up. Hi yes so I'm very passionate about seeing more Hispanics in nursing and the

752
00:57:52.960 --> 00:58:01.600
way I'm doing that is be is only from God and he's been telling me to go on social media which I did

753
00:58:01.600 --> 00:58:08.800
I have Instagram now and I have TikTok I have made some videos already but what I need to do

754
00:58:08.800 --> 00:58:16.800
is share my share with people so share with mostly I want to talk to teenagers and middle

755
00:58:16.800 --> 00:58:25.840
schoolers about nursing so I need to number one share with with more people get uncomfortable

756
00:58:25.840 --> 00:58:33.200
and continue to make my videos number three is continue to God has been giving me so many amazing

757
00:58:33.200 --> 00:58:42.960
ideas so continue to write those down fourth is I have a nursing 101 like six video idea I need to

758
00:58:42.960 --> 00:58:52.320
start doing that and fifth I think it's more like promotion and learning how to get more views

759
00:58:53.440 --> 00:58:57.920
so learning from people that know about like social media and all that fun stuff

760
00:58:58.320 --> 00:59:03.600
awesome well you know I know that I know for a fact that schools you know have people in

761
00:59:04.160 --> 00:59:09.680
from different vocations to talk to students about you know careers career day and different things

762
00:59:09.680 --> 00:59:13.280
so you definitely want to get in on that right the middle schools and high schools because that's

763
00:59:13.280 --> 00:59:18.400
probably where that's going to begin um Lissandra said I'm a Hispanic nurse so you have one of your

764
00:59:18.400 --> 00:59:26.160
sisters here so yeah I love that and I think that's laid out pretty well so um get with it let's go

765
00:59:26.160 --> 00:59:33.600
get with it let's go all right thank you I thought you loved the eclectic beautiful gift set of this

766
00:59:33.600 --> 00:59:37.360
community look at all the different things some of you're like I would never think to do that I

767
00:59:37.360 --> 00:59:42.480
would never want to do that I would never I would never even um whatever to do that right because

768
00:59:42.480 --> 00:59:47.360
we're all created differently and we all have you know purpose and that's why your spirit mate is

769
00:59:47.360 --> 00:59:51.920
your purpose partner they're not your perfect partner there's no such thing but they are your

770
00:59:51.920 --> 00:59:55.760
purpose partner which is great all right we're just going to take a couple more because it's

771
00:59:55.760 --> 00:59:59.760
already 8 22 we need to we need to end at 8 30 so you guys short brief and powerful

772
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:00.800
Make it fast.

773
01:00:00.800 --> 01:00:03.880
Mandy, go.

774
01:00:03.880 --> 01:00:07.880
My word for 2024 is welcome in, oddly enough.

775
01:00:07.880 --> 01:00:13.360
And I feel laid on my heart to start a retreat,

776
01:00:13.360 --> 01:00:19.080
to be a retreat guide, or some kind of coaching business.

777
01:00:19.080 --> 01:00:22.440
So I've incorporated an LLC in the state of Texas.

778
01:00:22.440 --> 01:00:23.960
It's cheaper there than in Michigan.

779
01:00:23.960 --> 01:00:26.480
And I feel like one day I'll be living in Texas somehow,

780
01:00:26.480 --> 01:00:28.040
some way.

781
01:00:28.120 --> 01:00:29.920
And so I just need to pick a location.

782
01:00:29.920 --> 01:00:33.640
My goal is to have them quarterly in 2025,

783
01:00:33.640 --> 01:00:35.880
but I want one this year in 2024.

784
01:00:35.880 --> 01:00:39.080
So I need a location, finalize a menu.

785
01:00:39.080 --> 01:00:41.280
I have the curriculum that I've written.

786
01:00:41.280 --> 01:00:45.640
I need to finalize a timeline, and then a marketing plan.

787
01:00:45.640 --> 01:00:47.200
But marketing's my background, but I

788
01:00:47.200 --> 01:00:49.120
need to be able to market it.

789
01:00:49.120 --> 01:00:51.600
And that's it.

790
01:00:51.600 --> 01:00:53.120
Awesome, that sounds great.

791
01:00:53.120 --> 01:00:54.480
OK, Constance, you're up.

792
01:00:54.480 --> 01:00:57.840
Oh, Mandy, did you say what kind of retreat?

793
01:00:57.840 --> 01:01:00.320
Spiritual retreat, so like a silent,

794
01:01:00.320 --> 01:01:02.760
having portions of like silent retreat.

795
01:01:02.760 --> 01:01:05.360
But it's a spiritual retreat with walking labyrinths

796
01:01:05.360 --> 01:01:06.680
and things like that.

797
01:01:06.680 --> 01:01:07.600
That's good, you guys.

798
01:01:07.600 --> 01:01:09.720
I just want to tell you that for my birthday,

799
01:01:09.720 --> 01:01:11.440
I wanted to kind of get away and kind of go

800
01:01:11.440 --> 01:01:12.800
to a retreat kind of place.

801
01:01:12.800 --> 01:01:14.720
And there are several in Austin, and they're

802
01:01:14.720 --> 01:01:17.520
all whack-a-doodle places.

803
01:01:17.520 --> 01:01:19.360
I looked at the menu of what I'd be doing

804
01:01:19.360 --> 01:01:20.480
if I went to these places.

805
01:01:20.480 --> 01:01:23.240
First of all, they're crazy expensive.

806
01:01:23.240 --> 01:01:25.120
And then the stuff was so weird.

807
01:01:25.120 --> 01:01:27.000
There was tarot card readers, and there

808
01:01:27.000 --> 01:01:29.400
were all these things going on at these retreats.

809
01:01:29.400 --> 01:01:31.000
And I was like, oh my gosh.

810
01:01:31.000 --> 01:01:34.480
And I thought to myself, Mandy, someone who's a Christian

811
01:01:34.480 --> 01:01:36.520
needs to make a spiritual retreat that

812
01:01:36.520 --> 01:01:41.080
is transformative for non-Christians, for everybody.

813
01:01:41.080 --> 01:01:42.680
Kind of Jehovah's Sneaky in a way

814
01:01:42.680 --> 01:01:44.280
with all the spiritual elements.

815
01:01:44.280 --> 01:01:47.360
But for a lot less money, because this was like,

816
01:01:47.360 --> 01:01:50.000
I don't know, like $8,000 a night,

817
01:01:50.000 --> 01:01:52.720
and with a lot less witchcraft, that would be great.

818
01:01:52.720 --> 01:01:54.920
Or like not a lot less witchcraft, but no witchcraft.

819
01:01:54.920 --> 01:01:55.480
How about that?

820
01:01:55.480 --> 01:01:57.040
That's exactly what I created.

821
01:01:57.040 --> 01:01:58.400
All right, go for it.

822
01:01:58.400 --> 01:01:59.640
All right, Constance, you're up.

823
01:01:59.640 --> 01:02:01.080
Guys, we've got to go fast.

824
01:02:01.080 --> 01:02:02.080
Yeah.

825
01:02:02.080 --> 01:02:06.320
So I'm opening a full-time outdoor nature immersion

826
01:02:06.320 --> 01:02:08.880
program for children with special needs.

827
01:02:08.880 --> 01:02:13.000
And that is opening on September 5th.

828
01:02:13.000 --> 01:02:19.080
And my things that I have to do is parent meetings.

829
01:02:19.080 --> 01:02:23.200
I'm running informational meetings and also

830
01:02:23.200 --> 01:02:25.440
parent tours of the property.

831
01:02:25.440 --> 01:02:27.760
I need to order all of the equipment

832
01:02:27.760 --> 01:02:34.280
that I need to put on the property and then hire staff.

833
01:02:34.280 --> 01:02:38.840
And I can't remember now, because I just drove and walked

834
01:02:38.840 --> 01:02:39.680
away from my paper.

835
01:02:39.680 --> 01:02:43.760
But I also hire a personal assistant for myself as well.

836
01:02:43.760 --> 01:02:44.600
OK, awesome.

837
01:02:44.600 --> 01:02:47.120
And I was hearing that there's investors for you.

838
01:02:47.120 --> 01:02:53.160
And so I want you to put that on your list, is to ask for money.

839
01:02:53.160 --> 01:02:56.720
OK, Christine, you're up.

840
01:02:56.720 --> 01:02:58.280
People will give to that, Constance.

841
01:02:58.280 --> 01:03:00.120
Go ahead.

842
01:03:00.120 --> 01:03:02.240
Hi, everybody.

843
01:03:02.240 --> 01:03:05.640
Mine was, well, Jerry and Christine,

844
01:03:05.640 --> 01:03:08.360
the other Christine with a K, they

845
01:03:08.360 --> 01:03:10.280
thought that my eyes really lit up

846
01:03:10.280 --> 01:03:13.880
when I talked about riding my bike and everything.

847
01:03:13.880 --> 01:03:16.280
So last year, I bought a bike.

848
01:03:16.280 --> 01:03:19.240
And a little bit after I bought it,

849
01:03:19.240 --> 01:03:21.240
I realized the tire was flat.

850
01:03:21.360 --> 01:03:25.880
So this past Christmas, I bought an air pump.

851
01:03:25.880 --> 01:03:28.120
So basically, it's still been sitting there.

852
01:03:28.120 --> 01:03:30.760
So my goal is to pump air.

853
01:03:30.760 --> 01:03:32.680
My first thing that I need to do for the bike

854
01:03:32.680 --> 01:03:35.320
is to pump air in the tires.

855
01:03:35.320 --> 01:03:37.800
And then I need to continue exercising

856
01:03:37.800 --> 01:03:41.880
so I can get stronger so my muscles will be

857
01:03:41.880 --> 01:03:44.320
able to go up steep hills.

858
01:03:44.320 --> 01:03:48.600
And I also need to buy a bike helmet and knee pads

859
01:03:48.600 --> 01:03:49.800
and elbow pads.

860
01:03:49.800 --> 01:03:52.880
That should have been right after I pumped the tire.

861
01:03:52.880 --> 01:03:55.200
Sorry, it was mixed up.

862
01:03:55.200 --> 01:03:59.520
And then I need to join a meetup group.

863
01:03:59.520 --> 01:04:03.040
And then I need to go on a bike trail ride with them

864
01:04:03.040 --> 01:04:05.040
and meet new friends.

865
01:04:05.040 --> 01:04:05.840
I love it, Christine.

866
01:04:05.840 --> 01:04:06.600
That's awesome.

867
01:04:06.600 --> 01:04:07.520
Lay it out, girl.

868
01:04:07.520 --> 01:04:08.000
Do it.

869
01:04:08.000 --> 01:04:09.120
You can do it.

870
01:04:09.120 --> 01:04:12.080
All right, you guys, I just want to say something to you.

871
01:04:12.080 --> 01:04:18.360
And this was a word that God used me to give to my husband.

872
01:04:18.400 --> 01:04:20.680
And then other people confirmed this word.

873
01:04:20.680 --> 01:04:22.360
But I felt this strongly from the Lord.

874
01:04:22.360 --> 01:04:24.040
And so I spoke it over my husband,

875
01:04:24.040 --> 01:04:27.320
that if he would go after physical fitness,

876
01:04:27.320 --> 01:04:29.120
I've known him for 18 years.

877
01:04:29.120 --> 01:04:33.080
I've never known him to go work out, lift weights,

878
01:04:33.080 --> 01:04:35.000
do anything like that.

879
01:04:35.000 --> 01:04:37.400
And if he would go after physical fitness

880
01:04:37.400 --> 01:04:39.920
and physical health, that all kinds of other things,

881
01:04:39.920 --> 01:04:41.800
like a domino effect, would start

882
01:04:41.800 --> 01:04:43.560
to come into place in his life.

883
01:04:43.560 --> 01:04:47.280
And this year, he finally did that.

884
01:04:47.280 --> 01:04:51.240
He joined a gym, kind of a CrossFit gym.

885
01:04:51.240 --> 01:04:52.640
And he loves it.

886
01:04:52.640 --> 01:04:56.200
And he's becoming so strong and so healthy.

887
01:04:56.200 --> 01:04:59.480
And also, all kinds of other things in his life

888
01:04:59.480 --> 01:05:01.320
are starting to.

889
01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:01.200
fall into place.

890
01:05:01.200 --> 01:05:02.680
So for some of you, you're like,

891
01:05:02.680 --> 01:05:04.160
I love these other things on my list,

892
01:05:04.160 --> 01:05:06.960
but my group picked this thing for me.

893
01:05:06.960 --> 01:05:09.320
Well, it's probably the domino

894
01:05:09.320 --> 01:05:12.300
that causes the tipping point, okay?

895
01:05:12.300 --> 01:05:13.680
It causes the tipping point.

896
01:05:13.680 --> 01:05:16.560
All right, so we're gonna speed through the rest of these.

897
01:05:16.560 --> 01:05:18.440
You guys gotta be short, brief, and powerful.

898
01:05:18.440 --> 01:05:19.280
Rochelle, go.

899
01:05:24.560 --> 01:05:26.960
I was not expecting to be on here, sorry.

900
01:05:26.960 --> 01:05:29.760
Hey, the one that came to me

901
01:05:29.760 --> 01:05:32.640
that was top one was stepping up in leadership

902
01:05:32.640 --> 01:05:35.200
in my business with Mary Kate Cosmetics.

903
01:05:35.200 --> 01:05:38.200
I had done it previously full-time three years ago.

904
01:05:38.200 --> 01:05:41.360
When I left my abusive marriage, I had to put it on hold.

905
01:05:41.360 --> 01:05:42.360
And just recently, God said,

906
01:05:42.360 --> 01:05:44.120
you need to leap out of faith,

907
01:05:44.120 --> 01:05:45.680
the best job I've ever had, nannying,

908
01:05:45.680 --> 01:05:47.120
and step full-time back into this.

909
01:05:47.120 --> 01:05:49.040
So that is what I've done.

910
01:05:49.040 --> 01:05:50.640
And literally, this was my first week.

911
01:05:50.640 --> 01:05:54.480
So this was actually exactly what my soul needed

912
01:05:54.480 --> 01:05:57.960
to kind of refocus me on what God's calling me to do, so.

913
01:05:58.840 --> 01:06:00.080
Awesome.

914
01:06:00.080 --> 01:06:01.960
Directorship is the term of what it's called,

915
01:06:01.960 --> 01:06:03.080
of leadership.

916
01:06:03.080 --> 01:06:05.880
That's where you train, you build your team,

917
01:06:05.880 --> 01:06:08.200
and train them to train other people.

918
01:06:08.200 --> 01:06:10.200
And that is what I have,

919
01:06:10.200 --> 01:06:12.040
that's really my passion and a heartbeat,

920
01:06:12.040 --> 01:06:15.560
because it is the bridge that you reach people

921
01:06:15.560 --> 01:06:17.200
that you would never have anything in common with,

922
01:06:17.200 --> 01:06:19.040
and you build relationships with them

923
01:06:19.040 --> 01:06:22.040
through sales and through parties and through team building

924
01:06:22.040 --> 01:06:23.760
that in turn gives me opportunities

925
01:06:23.760 --> 01:06:25.120
to build relationships for eternity.

926
01:06:25.120 --> 01:06:26.440
And that's where my heartbeat is,

927
01:06:26.440 --> 01:06:30.000
is that I can impact their lives and transform them here,

928
01:06:30.000 --> 01:06:33.160
with whatever level they are working with me at,

929
01:06:33.160 --> 01:06:35.880
but more importantly, to impact their lives for eternity.

930
01:06:35.880 --> 01:06:37.160
That's my heartbeat.

931
01:06:37.160 --> 01:06:41.640
So to accomplish my goals,

932
01:06:41.640 --> 01:06:43.160
you said only five, right?

933
01:06:43.160 --> 01:06:45.160
Might be a little longer.

934
01:06:45.160 --> 01:06:46.920
Okay, well, we have to go through them quickly.

935
01:06:46.920 --> 01:06:48.600
There's two other, three other people waiting now.

936
01:06:48.600 --> 01:06:49.440
Go ahead.

937
01:06:49.440 --> 01:06:50.280
Organized office.

938
01:06:50.280 --> 01:06:51.120
I'm actually in the middle of that.

939
01:06:51.120 --> 01:06:52.240
I almost didn't get on this call

940
01:06:52.240 --> 01:06:53.680
because I had a work pool day.

941
01:06:53.680 --> 01:06:56.040
So I didn't have any makeup on today,

942
01:06:56.640 --> 01:06:58.280
but I'm literally in the middle of organizing my office.

943
01:06:58.280 --> 01:06:59.800
That is the first thing I'm doing.

944
01:06:59.800 --> 01:07:02.280
Second one would be creating a daily plan

945
01:07:02.280 --> 01:07:05.240
of what I need to do each day in a schedule

946
01:07:05.240 --> 01:07:08.600
as if I were in a regular job and schedule that in.

947
01:07:08.600 --> 01:07:12.240
So I know exactly where I have openings to work from.

948
01:07:12.240 --> 01:07:15.480
Third is have systems in place to stay organized.

949
01:07:15.480 --> 01:07:16.520
I am not a paper person.

950
01:07:16.520 --> 01:07:18.240
I have to keep organized,

951
01:07:18.240 --> 01:07:21.840
especially as I grow to be able to grow fast

952
01:07:23.240 --> 01:07:24.360
and help other people.

953
01:07:24.360 --> 01:07:25.200
Booking daily.

954
01:07:25.200 --> 01:07:29.080
I need to work on daily working on booking appointments

955
01:07:29.080 --> 01:07:32.760
and ultimately working on 60 facials,

956
01:07:32.760 --> 01:07:35.280
full circle, book, sell, book, share

957
01:07:35.280 --> 01:07:38.760
in order to accomplish my goal of directorship by this year.

958
01:07:38.760 --> 01:07:41.120
So that is my goal and what I'm working on.

959
01:07:41.120 --> 01:07:44.880
So, and then hiring eventually too, so.

960
01:07:45.800 --> 01:07:46.640
Awesome.

961
01:07:46.640 --> 01:07:47.480
That's awesome.

962
01:07:47.480 --> 01:07:48.320
Go for it, Rachelle.

963
01:07:48.320 --> 01:07:49.160
We believe in you.

964
01:07:49.160 --> 01:07:50.000
You can do it, girl.

965
01:07:50.000 --> 01:07:50.840
All right.

966
01:07:50.840 --> 01:07:51.680
Thank you.

967
01:07:51.680 --> 01:07:52.520
Bye.

968
01:07:52.520 --> 01:07:53.360
And all of you that had to put things aside

969
01:07:53.400 --> 01:07:55.680
because of divorce, because of trauma like Rachelle did,

970
01:07:55.680 --> 01:07:58.560
it's time to dust those things off and go after it again.

971
01:07:58.560 --> 01:07:59.400
All right.

972
01:07:59.400 --> 01:08:02.000
I see other people are like raising their hands,

973
01:08:02.000 --> 01:08:03.360
but we're only going to take the people

974
01:08:03.360 --> 01:08:04.280
that were already rating.

975
01:08:04.280 --> 01:08:05.320
So Charles, go ahead.

976
01:08:05.320 --> 01:08:07.200
Cause we were way past time now.

977
01:08:07.200 --> 01:08:08.120
Charles, go ahead.

978
01:08:09.640 --> 01:08:13.960
So my thing is, was the work on my book

979
01:08:13.960 --> 01:08:15.600
while finishing my book,

980
01:08:15.600 --> 01:08:17.520
The Master Key of Breakthrough.

981
01:08:17.520 --> 01:08:22.359
And, and my action steps for that is

982
01:08:22.359 --> 01:08:26.240
to blot out, block out time to actually do it.

983
01:08:27.520 --> 01:08:31.439
And to search for a publisher,

984
01:08:31.439 --> 01:08:33.479
not only search, but find a publisher

985
01:08:33.479 --> 01:08:37.160
and also write the screen, screenwrite for it,

986
01:08:37.160 --> 01:08:39.800
for the book trailer and,

987
01:08:41.080 --> 01:08:46.080
and find somebody that is credible to write the foreword.

988
01:08:46.640 --> 01:08:47.479
And,

989
01:08:48.319 --> 01:08:53.319
yeah, I think the fifth one was do more extensive research

990
01:08:54.680 --> 01:08:57.359
and study the topic more thoroughly.

991
01:08:59.120 --> 01:08:59.960
All right.

992
01:08:59.960 --> 01:09:00.800
Well, you can do it, Charles.

993
01:09:00.800 --> 01:09:02.640
You have seven months left of this year,

994
01:09:02.640 --> 01:09:03.800
six and a half months.

995
01:09:03.800 --> 01:09:06.240
And so you can for sure do it

996
01:09:07.120 --> 01:09:08.880
and you don't have to have a publisher.

997
01:09:08.880 --> 01:09:10.560
You can self publish.

998
01:09:10.560 --> 01:09:13.520
Getting a publisher is really not worth it, honestly.

999
01:09:13.520 --> 01:09:15.560
So you can self publish

1000
01:09:15.560 --> 01:09:18.640
or you can find a self publishing publisher.

1001
01:09:18.640 --> 01:09:22.040
And so we, you know, in fact, maybe raise your hand

1002
01:09:22.040 --> 01:09:27.040
if your passion project for this year

1003
01:09:27.439 --> 01:09:31.040
is some sort of book, raise your hand.

1004
01:09:32.600 --> 01:09:36.479
I might have my good friend who is a publisher

1005
01:09:36.479 --> 01:09:39.080
and an avid book writer come in and talk.

1006
01:09:39.080 --> 01:09:41.279
Okay, there's enough of you that I think we could do that.

1007
01:09:41.279 --> 01:09:42.520
All right, awesome.

1008
01:09:42.520 --> 01:09:44.200
Right, and then Jackie had her hand up.

1009
01:09:44.200 --> 01:09:45.040
Thank you, Charles.

1010
01:09:45.560 --> 01:09:46.399
We believe that you can do that.

1011
01:09:46.399 --> 01:09:48.399
There's a couple of things on that action item list

1012
01:09:48.399 --> 01:09:50.399
that I don't think are necessary

1013
01:09:50.399 --> 01:09:55.400
in order for you to accomplish your goal this year.

1014
01:09:55.680 --> 01:09:59.200
And so focus on writing the book,

1015
01:09:59.200 --> 01:10:00.400
gotta do that for sure.

1016
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:03.400
and so make that your primary focus of putting that,

1017
01:10:03.400 --> 01:10:04.900
putting intention and time on that.

1018
01:10:04.900 --> 01:10:08.560
You guys, we all have time to get done what we need to do,

1019
01:10:08.560 --> 01:10:10.640
so stop telling yourself you don't have time.

1020
01:10:10.640 --> 01:10:13.020
Well, if I only had time, if only I didn't have to work,

1021
01:10:13.020 --> 01:10:15.700
if only I didn't have to do this or that or whatever,

1022
01:10:15.700 --> 01:10:17.740
we make time for what we want to do.

1023
01:10:17.740 --> 01:10:19.160
That's what happens, okay?

1024
01:10:19.160 --> 01:10:20.460
And if what you want to do is veg out

1025
01:10:20.460 --> 01:10:22.880
in front of the television, none of you,

1026
01:10:22.880 --> 01:10:25.340
if you have any kind of big, hairy, audacious goal

1027
01:10:25.340 --> 01:10:29.200
for this year, should be spending any time watching TV.

1028
01:10:29.240 --> 01:10:31.660
It's a complete waste of your time and your life.

1029
01:10:31.660 --> 01:10:33.100
You can't get that time back,

1030
01:10:33.100 --> 01:10:35.780
and you're not gonna get anything in exchange for it,

1031
01:10:35.780 --> 01:10:40.780
except for some hours of mindless,

1032
01:10:40.900 --> 01:10:43.620
probably detrimental crap, okay?

1033
01:10:43.620 --> 01:10:45.420
And so let's stop with that,

1034
01:10:45.420 --> 01:10:48.340
and let's start with pursuing our dreams.

1035
01:10:48.340 --> 01:10:50.620
All right, so Sally, you're up.

1036
01:10:50.620 --> 01:10:55.620
Oh, sorry.

1037
01:10:57.240 --> 01:11:00.760
So I've been really feeling like God

1038
01:11:00.760 --> 01:11:03.800
has been calling me to move to Texas.

1039
01:11:03.800 --> 01:11:06.960
And so a week ago, I just started telling everybody,

1040
01:11:06.960 --> 01:11:10.960
my family, my kids, and they're all for it.

1041
01:11:10.960 --> 01:11:13.380
And then I started doing these things,

1042
01:11:13.380 --> 01:11:18.380
like the five things, like thinking about selling my place,

1043
01:11:19.080 --> 01:11:23.000
picking a city, getting a real estate license there,

1044
01:11:23.000 --> 01:11:25.160
because I do real estate here.

1045
01:11:25.160 --> 01:11:26.520
And then it's just like,

1046
01:11:29.600 --> 01:11:31.360
am I really supposed to be doing this?

1047
01:11:31.360 --> 01:11:35.200
So I guess I just have a question is,

1048
01:11:36.120 --> 01:11:38.700
do you just do that?

1049
01:11:40.520 --> 01:11:41.360
I don't-

1050
01:11:41.360 --> 01:11:43.320
Okay, so why do you feel like God's telling you

1051
01:11:43.320 --> 01:11:46.040
to move to Texas, and you don't even know what city?

1052
01:11:46.040 --> 01:11:47.600
Why do you feel like that's happening?

1053
01:11:47.620 --> 01:11:50.780
And how did your family take the news of that?

1054
01:11:50.780 --> 01:11:53.360
All of my kids are like, yeah, mom, do it.

1055
01:11:53.360 --> 01:11:54.940
We might move there too.

1056
01:11:54.940 --> 01:11:59.700
And I just, I mean, I just felt like I've all,

1057
01:11:59.700 --> 01:12:04.220
I've encountered so many people since I've been prompted,

1058
01:12:04.220 --> 01:12:06.620
like God's kind of wooing me there.

1059
01:12:06.620 --> 01:12:09.340
And I mean, even this call,

1060
01:12:09.340 --> 01:12:14.340
when I got on Rhonda's from there,

1061
01:12:14.460 --> 01:12:16.940
and then she's been thinking about doing real estate.

1062
01:12:17.280 --> 01:12:18.960
And so I felt like that's a God connection.

1063
01:12:18.960 --> 01:12:21.360
And it's just like, everywhere I go,

1064
01:12:21.360 --> 01:12:24.760
I feel like it's just confirmation.

1065
01:12:24.760 --> 01:12:26.860
But then when I get to the steps.

1066
01:12:31.520 --> 01:12:34.240
So maybe the reason why when you get to the steps,

1067
01:12:34.240 --> 01:12:36.420
first of all, you guys, it's always scary to make change.

1068
01:12:36.420 --> 01:12:37.600
Remember what I said at the beginning,

1069
01:12:37.600 --> 01:12:39.000
it requires risk, right?

1070
01:12:39.000 --> 01:12:40.740
We're gonna have to take risks.

1071
01:12:40.740 --> 01:12:41.960
But at the same time,

1072
01:12:41.960 --> 01:12:46.680
I think that you need an actual city, Sally, I do.

1073
01:12:47.420 --> 01:12:48.980
I feel like God needs to highlight a city to you

1074
01:12:48.980 --> 01:12:50.340
before you can take action.

1075
01:12:50.340 --> 01:12:52.420
And so we need a city.

1076
01:12:52.420 --> 01:12:53.780
Texas is a big state.

1077
01:12:53.780 --> 01:12:56.060
I live here and it's really big.

1078
01:12:56.060 --> 01:12:58.900
It takes so long to drive across Texas.

1079
01:12:58.900 --> 01:12:59.860
It's ridiculous.

1080
01:12:59.860 --> 01:13:02.260
My daughter's getting married in Marfa, which is in Texas.

1081
01:13:02.260 --> 01:13:06.700
And it took me seven plus hours to drive there from Austin.

1082
01:13:06.700 --> 01:13:08.180
And so it's a big place.

1083
01:13:08.180 --> 01:13:10.180
And there's lots of places here.

1084
01:13:10.180 --> 01:13:12.220
If you're a real estate agent,

1085
01:13:12.220 --> 01:13:13.540
God may have you in a small town.

1086
01:13:13.540 --> 01:13:14.560
He may have you in a big city.

1087
01:13:14.560 --> 01:13:15.400
We don't know.

1088
01:13:15.400 --> 01:13:17.900
But what I want you to do now is I want you to pray

1089
01:13:17.900 --> 01:13:19.240
before you take any action.

1090
01:13:19.240 --> 01:13:21.180
The action I want you to take is pray

1091
01:13:21.180 --> 01:13:23.980
that God would confirm the city.

1092
01:13:23.980 --> 01:13:25.540
And then the first action step, Sally,

1093
01:13:25.540 --> 01:13:26.580
that I would like you to take

1094
01:13:26.580 --> 01:13:28.780
is I'd like you to go visit there.

1095
01:13:28.780 --> 01:13:31.220
Whatever that city is, go visit there.

1096
01:13:31.220 --> 01:13:33.020
And I wanna let you know that there's a lot of people

1097
01:13:33.020 --> 01:13:34.540
in this community from Texas.

1098
01:13:34.540 --> 01:13:36.740
And so if you want to kind of hop around

1099
01:13:36.740 --> 01:13:39.580
while you're waiting for that confirmation,

1100
01:13:39.580 --> 01:13:41.100
I think your only action step right now

1101
01:13:41.100 --> 01:13:43.140
would be to visit Texas,

1102
01:13:43.200 --> 01:13:45.920
visit any cities that you think that God is highlighting.

1103
01:13:45.920 --> 01:13:50.320
So visit Dallas, visit Fort Worth, visit Abilene

1104
01:13:50.320 --> 01:13:53.000
or wherever it is that God's highlighting to you,

1105
01:13:53.000 --> 01:13:56.440
Houston, it doesn't matter, San Antonio, Austin.

1106
01:13:56.440 --> 01:14:00.360
And then let us know because there's sisterhood

1107
01:14:00.360 --> 01:14:02.040
and brotherhood in those areas,

1108
01:14:02.040 --> 01:14:04.740
specifically sisterhood and people that might be able

1109
01:14:04.740 --> 01:14:09.280
to lend just somewhere to sleep from our community

1110
01:14:09.340 --> 01:14:13.340
while you're kind of seeing where the juice is

1111
01:14:13.340 --> 01:14:14.520
when you go to those places.

1112
01:14:14.520 --> 01:14:17.660
David and I felt led to move to Austin, Texas.

1113
01:14:17.660 --> 01:14:19.800
It's been seven plus years ago.

1114
01:14:19.800 --> 01:14:21.160
And the very first thing that we did

1115
01:14:21.160 --> 01:14:22.980
when we felt that was we visited.

1116
01:14:24.700 --> 01:14:26.400
We visited Austin, we took a trip,

1117
01:14:26.400 --> 01:14:28.640
we took a little vacation to Austin

1118
01:14:28.640 --> 01:14:31.120
to see what God would say.

1119
01:14:31.120 --> 01:14:33.760
And he confirmed so many things when we came on that trip

1120
01:14:33.760 --> 01:14:36.560
and we're believing for that for you too, okay, Sally?

1121
01:14:36.560 --> 01:14:38.420
All right, so think about doing that.

1122
01:14:38.420 --> 01:14:41.360
Jackie, you're the last one and make it very quickly.

1123
01:14:43.700 --> 01:14:47.580
So my group, when I was like talking about like everything,

1124
01:14:47.580 --> 01:14:50.340
cause I've been very vocal about my loss of my job,

1125
01:14:50.340 --> 01:14:53.900
April 12th, was to obtain a healthy job

1126
01:14:53.900 --> 01:14:57.300
that loves my Asperger's, I enjoyed near my spirit mate.

1127
01:14:57.300 --> 01:15:00.180
So location wise, that's in the Manhattan.

1128
01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.400
area. So when I was praying over these, I got actually a few more when one of my CG

1129
01:15:06.400 --> 01:15:11.520
members were announcing their victory on getting a promotion, a new job. So one of them was like,

1130
01:15:11.520 --> 01:15:16.880
pray over my job apps with my spirit mate, be diligent and following up with KPMG,

1131
01:15:16.880 --> 01:15:23.680
research each company before applying, location, keep on applying, stop, you know, being depressed

1132
01:15:23.680 --> 01:15:30.320
or giving up, do not give up. And then the two or one denouncement came, the Holy Spirit said,

1133
01:15:30.320 --> 01:15:35.760
do not envy others' promotions or breakthroughs in the job situation. You know, especially when

1134
01:15:35.760 --> 01:15:41.280
I'm at the point where I'm not sure what to do financially and celebrate all victories and

1135
01:15:41.920 --> 01:15:48.320
all decisions and all seasons. Right. Awesome. And for all of you that getting some sort of

1136
01:15:48.320 --> 01:15:52.720
job as part of it, like Happy's, let's make sure that we're putting ourselves out there.

1137
01:15:52.720 --> 01:15:56.720
Let's make sure that we're bettering ourselves and kind of continuing education, continuing

1138
01:15:56.720 --> 01:16:01.520
education that you can do in the meantime. And also not saying that this is the word from the

1139
01:16:01.520 --> 01:16:08.480
Lord, but also be open to a shift. You know, maybe there's something new that it's time for you to

1140
01:16:08.480 --> 01:16:14.160
go after, um, besides for, uh, besides what you've always done. And so make sure that you get with

1141
01:16:14.160 --> 01:16:18.960
someone who can kind of look over your resume and see where your skillset could apply to something,

1142
01:16:18.960 --> 01:16:22.640
maybe even a little different than what you're used to doing. It might not be completely

1143
01:16:22.640 --> 01:16:27.760
different. Maybe it's just a little different. Okay. Because a lot of times God uses these,

1144
01:16:27.760 --> 01:16:33.760
these oppositions as opportunities, right? Doesn't he? He does. So who had fun tonight?

1145
01:16:33.760 --> 01:16:37.760
Who loves the passion process? And you can do this with your friends, you know, help people

1146
01:16:37.760 --> 01:16:42.960
get excited about their lives, you know, help them to get excited about their lives. This is

1147
01:16:43.040 --> 01:16:48.800
really important stuff for everyone. All right. Okay. So, um, you guys got to create us to live

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with passion and with purpose. And when you're living in your passion and purpose, then you're

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going to meet your passion and purpose mate. And so it's important that you get out there

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and you start doing that. All right. Love y'all have an amazing night. See you soon.