All right.
So welcome to the last year single orientation.
My name is Renee Rizzo and I'm subbing for Jackie Dorman.
So I'm going to give you a slightly different version of the orientation because I'm going
to make sure you are comfortable in the portal on the website.
You know how to find everything.
You know kind of what happens from each phase and then I'm going to show you around the
Facebook page because I really want you to make sure you're super comfortable and I'll
even tell you just a little bit about the app that you all will be moving to by the
time you get to phase three and but I'm just I'm so excited that you guys are here.
I've been a part of this community for three years now and you know I had a friend that
kind of roped me into the program.
She like kind of begged me to do the challenge with her and do the full you know boot camp
back then it was called and you know I was like a I don't need more female friends and
B I don't need any more therapy or help like I've done it all like I've got the t-shirt
and what I learned is there was so much more healing that was still available to me especially
in the area of relationships and so that is what Jackie talks about in the heart work
which is part of the phase one and now we have amazing content in phase two and even
more amazing content and community in phase three.
So the program is even bigger and better than it ever was when I joined three years ago.
It truly is the secret sauce and that will transform you.
So I promise you will find some of your best friends in this community if you stay engaged.
So it's all about how much you put into it.
No matter where we are in the country if I show up in a city all I have to do is put
in the community hey you guys are going to be in New York for a couple days who wants
to meet with me and I'll get to bump into people and some of the people that will be
in each other's wedding parties are from this community and so you have an opportunity to
get a lot out of it.
I hope you are here for more well even if you're here for just a guy you're like ah
I just want to meet a man Renee I'm sick I'm sick of it I need a man I don't need more
girlfriends I don't need more therapy even if that's why you came in here and you were
nudged to do it anyway that's okay because you're going to get that and then all the
other stuff but what you're going to get is the other stuff first which is going to make
you more healthy and more equipped to find the right guy.
Now some of you are going to need to let go of the way that you used to find the other
guys you're here because that plan didn't work that's what got you here so sometimes
when you get to like phase 2 you know we have women who are like I know what to do I can
get dates okay but you're here so you're not getting the right dates so I'm just going
to really encourage you to just trust the process and embrace it and be super excited
about it because you have a lot of cool stuff that's coming ahead so as Jackie talked about
it's called the last year single program and you are now in phase one so phase one is the
heart healing it's the book so I'm going to take you to the portal and show you where
all of the downloads are one of them being her book I don't know if you've got a printer
I have a printer at home I printed out the book because I have it in a notebook from
3 years ago I have it in a notebook and it's all marked up if you want to buy a hard copy
of the book it's like I don't know less than 20 bucks I think on Amazon so you can go get
that if you want but you've got the PDF go ahead and download it make sure that you save
it print it out if you can mark it all up and then a lot of the handouts are also in
a PDF format for you to do and I also have all of those still printed out from the first
time that I took the program 3 years ago so I'm going to show you how to do that so the
way phase one works in the heart work on the website www.jackiederman.com we're going
to go in there and I'm going to show you how to get in there make sure you see where all
the videos are to watch where all the handouts are and I'm even going to show you where the
links are in the schedule for how to get to these zoom sessions it's all in the portal
now for now all of the community is on Facebook so the portal is where the education content
is for phase one and for phase two on Facebook we have a separate challenge page as you guys
know so if you're still in the challenge page take yourself out of the challenge page it's
going to confuse you you don't need to be there anymore if you got to the phase one
so hopefully if you are here it means you got an email from us or I bombarded you with
an email and I'm like hey here's the link to get into the phase one go check your portal
but we're going to do that again tonight I want to make sure everybody has their email
set up to get emails from us or their profiles up to get emails from us so in the heart work
you're going to do all your content in the portal community on a Facebook page when you're
done with the heart work and that program which is five weeks long it's five weeks worth
of videos reading questions and
weekly check-ins, so that's what the heart work is.
It's about four 15-minute videos a week,
about 50 pages of her book,
and there are questions at the end of the chapter.
We encourage you to journal those.
Then you're invited every Monday,
either 1 p.m. or 8 p.m. Eastern Time,
to come live to show up to a weekly check-in.
Now, back in the day, we used to have a set start
and stop time, and so everybody was doing
the same information every single week.
But what we learned is life happens,
and some of you go really fast with the program,
and we try to get you to slow down,
and some of you go really slow because something happens.
You had a job deadline, somebody got sick in the family,
and you're like, oh my gosh, I didn't do any of week two.
I'm still in week one.
It's okay, you go at your own pace.
So when we go to the check-ins, you're like,
well, what is she gonna talk about at the check-ins?
Well, part of what we do is we ask you guys
to stay engaged on the Facebook page.
Every Sunday, you will see a post,
and I'll show you where that post
is always gonna be in the feed,
and it's gonna say, how are you doing?
What's going on, what's working, what's not working?
And so we want you guys to answer there.
We have trained coaches.
So Bethany, who you will meet Monday night,
if you've not already met her,
Bethany is our lead coach, our lead heartwork coach,
and she has a team of a few people under her
that will be responding to all of your posts.
So Kelly and Bethany are gonna be the ones
teaching the heart check-ins on Mondays,
and then they've got a team of people
that are gonna be responding to all of your posts.
So when you get responses, especially that first response,
if we approve your post,
we're gonna be one of the first ones to respond.
So you'll always know that typically
that first response is coming from a coach,
and it's not just some hoo-ha,
like just giving her a two-cent opinion.
Now, y'all can give your two-cent opinion on it,
just know that the first person responding
is probably always gonna be a coach,
so that kinda gives you just a little bit more validity.
So we want you to respond in the roll call.
We also, throughout the week, want you to share with us,
hey, I just watched this video, I've got this question,
or this kinda happened to me,
or I hit this stumbling block, is this normal?
Or is this normal?
And you can ask questions in the newsfeed,
and again, the coaches will respond.
Based on what you guys are saying during the week,
and what you're saying in the roll call,
Bethany will bubble up what she thinks are the issue,
the major issues kinda going on for the week,
and that's usually what will happen at the check-in.
I know she's got like some set content
that she kind of goes over week to week to week,
and so if she's gonna go over content in the week,
if it's material you have not yet read,
don't worry about it, you can still show up.
She's just giving a broad overview.
I know most of the time that Bethany will have you guys
go into small breakout rooms,
and to share with one another,
and kinda bond with your sister,
and then you guys are gonna come back together.
So the kind of the cycle for phase one
is you have a whole week to watch the four videos,
do the reading, and answer the questions,
and just kinda journal them.
You're gonna come either Monday at 1 p.m. or 8 p.m.
to go to a check-in.
If you can't make the live check-in,
you are gonna be able to just watch it in replay.
It's not as fun, but you always can do that.
And I'm gonna show you the calendar in a bit,
but the other thing that's available to you
is prayer seven days a week.
Monday through Thursday, it's in the mornings,
and it's always, I will say this to you guys,
99.9% of the time, anything in the morning
is always gonna be 10 a.m. Eastern time.
The reason why it's 10 a.m. Eastern time
is because it's 7 a.m. Pacific,
and we're trying to find that sweet spot in the morning.
So usually if it's a morning meeting,
it's 10 a.m. Eastern time.
If it's an evening meeting,
it's typically always 8 p.m.
So if you're like, well, what time?
That's it, I just told you.
10 a.m. or 8 p.m. Eastern time.
Those are always in Eastern times,
and you kind of have to do the math.
I did not realize how many people don't know
how to figure out their time zone from that.
And I've been a little traumatized in the last three years
listening to some of you, and I'm like,
how did you get through elementary school
and not know the time difference in places?
Or Google now, you can look it up.
Especially for those of y'all
that are coming in from other countries,
I get it when I'm in Israel or Italy or Mexico.
I'm always like, what time zone am I in?
What time zone am I in?
So I get it, and I get it.
So prayer Monday through Thursday
is led by one of our prayer leaders.
I lead on Monday mornings.
You don't usually see me on camera.
Usually for prayer times, we're not on camera.
It's early for a lot of us,
and we're not getting on camera.
And so Monday through Thursday
kind of follows the same format.
We pray for men, men in the community,
and then we pray for Jackie and David,
the leadership, the volunteers, all of you.
We pray for this movement.
Then we go to a time of open prayer,
and then we go into a time of specific prayer needs.
Fridays are called Faith Fridays.
It's still that 10 a.m. time slot.
Jackie's husband has now started to lead that on Fridays.
It's super awesome.
We call it Brag on Jesus Fridays.
So you get to hear a lot of wins that are going on.
On Saturdays at 10 a.m., Jackie gives,
and you guys, I'm giving you these time slots,
but I'm gonna show you in the portal
where this calendar is,
so you don't have to write this down.
I'm just trying to tell you
all that's available to you right now.
So Saturdays are Supernatural Saturday,
and that's where you'll get a prophetic word from Jackie.
If I can't ever make those live,
those are super great to listen to in the car
or just when you just need a jolt
because there's usually something really amazing in there.
And then usually on Sunday nights,
again, 8 p.m., we will go into activation with that.
We will activate the word that she has given out.
Monday through Thursday, prayer is women only.
Friday, Saturday, and Sunday is co-ed.
So I will say, if you're gonna be on camera,
make sure you're fully dressed and you're not getting ready.
I will hate to tell you how many times
women forget that they're on camera.
And let's just say it's not fun.
And so also, if you're working out or you're walking,
if you're not, like right now, I'm sitting fully engaged.
This is an appropriate attire,
an appropriate way to show up.
But if you're busy and you've got
your ceiling fan going in this,
just have your camera off, it's all good.
If you're running, if you're walking, if you're driving,
I don't need to see your hip while you're driving.
It's just kind of weird.
So it's okay to have your camera off.
And so, just wanted to warn you,
if your camera is on though,
realize on Friday, Saturday, Sunday,
there might be men in the room.
And so you kind of want to make sure
you're dressed appropriately,
even if people forget to tell you that.
Okay, so the beautiful thing about the heart work
is you're gonna dig into like everything
that you saw in that three-day challenge,
but like on crack.
There's like so much more
that you're gonna kind of go through.
You're gonna go through a lot of heart healing,
Jackie will tell you a few things about this.
It will be normal for you to start dreaming again.
It will be normal for some of you
to feel like you're getting a headache.
You know how like when you do a detox
or you get a massage, you kind of feel icky afterwards
because all the toxin is coming out of your body.
It's the same thing that kind of happens here.
You might feel like, oh my gosh, I have a headache.
Oh my gosh, I'm getting sick.
Or oh my gosh, I feel like I'm getting attacked
from the enemy.
All of that stuff is natural.
It happens.
All of that stuff is natural.
It happens.
Just ask for Holy Spirit to cover you,
protect you and kind of push through it
because you've got some great stuff.
The other thing that she'll tell you to do
is don't go digging.
She'll tell you that the Lord is gonna bring up the stuff
that you need to uncover as you uncover it.
So if say something comes up like about
you have a mom wound or a dad wound
and something comes up that you hadn't really thought
about before, don't go like dig in that first
or second week to figure out all of it.
Just whatever the Lord shines on it,
that's what you take to the Holy Spirit and that's it.
And just let him slowly,
I kind of call it like peeling an onion.
The Lord's only gonna let you peel pieces of your story
that you're ready and able to do.
So you wanna make sure that you don't,
you go at the pace that the Holy Spirit goes at.
I already told you at the very, very beginning.
And so if you're late and you didn't hear me say this,
everybody goes at a different pace.
That's why even though a bunch of you just signed up
in the last two weeks,
some people already hit the ground running
and they're already starting week two.
Some people are like, okay, it just took me a week
to learn where the Facebook page is.
And so I haven't even started reading.
Like it's all good, it's okay.
Cause you're gonna be in a group of women who are like,
man, I joined in December and I didn't do anything
for a month and I just picked it back up.
So don't have any FOMO, it's all good.
We're gonna walk through the site
to make sure you guys are set up to get emails.
When you watch the last video, at the end of the five weeks,
when you watch that last video,
that and you say mark is complete,
that should trigger an automatic email to come to you.
So if your settings are correct,
you're gonna get an email that says,
woohoo, you finished phase one, awesome.
You're about to go into phase two.
Here's what to expect in phase two.
And then here's the Facebook link for phase two.
If you finish that and you get no email,
you're gonna have to email me and I'm gonna help you
get your email set up and or get you the link
to get into phase two.
And then in phase two,
It's less homework, but it's more longer videos.
We talk about dating.
What that's kind of like your love story accelerator.
So Jackie starts off the love story accelerator,
a dating one to one and a divine feminine, divine masculine teaching.
I teach the online dating and the boundary session.
And you're there for about four weeks in phase two.
Just like here, you're going to get a weekly check in.
The weekly check ins for phase one is on Mondays.
The check ins on phase two are Tuesdays.
And then at the end of those four weeks, you're going to go into phase three.
And like I said, by the time you get to phase three,
you will probably be in the app, which will replace Facebook and the website.
So those two things kind of get merged into one on the new app.
Super excited.
And that's when you kind of join the general population.
And at that point, all of the teaching and all of the events
are typically live and they're typically co-ed and they're always in replay.
So we're going to all go march.
You're going to I'm going to screen share and we're going to march over
and I'm going to march over to the portal, show you everything there.
Let you ask me any questions there.
We're going to march over to the Facebook page
and I'll let you ask me any questions there that I'm going to stop sharing.
And then I'm just going to let you ask me any questions.
The one thing I do have to remember to tell you in phase one,
we strongly, strongly encourage you to stop dating right now
that it will just be a distracting.
So if you are just piddling around online dating,
if you're just piddling around dating guys, we want you to put that on pause.
If you are in a serious relationship with somebody, of course,
we're not going to tell you to break up with the guy for the next five weeks
or stop talking to him.
But we do want you to warn him that you are in a coaching program.
And that they're just going to need to give you a lot of extra grace.
If you've been out on one or two dates with somebody,
we might encourage you to say, you know what, I will.
I'm in the in the middle of working with a relationship coach.
You can say whatever you guys want.
Like, hey, you know, I just I just hired an executive coach, a life coach.
You don't have to say if it's a relationship coach,
if you've only been on two dates with him, he doesn't need to know everything
that it is.
And you can just say, hey, it's an intensive.
I'm going to be back in a month.
Now, you might think like, oh, my gosh, but what if he doesn't wait for me
for a month and he ain't your guy?
Like if he's your guy, he'll wait a month for you,
because if anything, he's going to want a healthier you.
So that's our encouragement to you.
And all right, so let me go ahead and share the screen.
And like I said, since I'm covering for Jackie tonight,
for those of you that came on late,
they are having Wi-Fi and storm issues in Columbia, Columbia.
And so I'm kind of hitting.
So if you want to get more of Jackie's, whoo,
she's going to be way less technical in her orientation.
She did it last week.
It's in your portal.
And I'll show you where it is so you can go out and watch it.
But I get to teach you how to find everything.
So I'm going to be your best friend.
I also will tell you this before I forget.
If you have a technical question, a billing question,
you're going to email admin at Jackie Dorman dot com.
Now, you guys have a very small staff.
And so I want you to show us some grace.
Sometimes people get very demanding on a Sunday afternoon.
And I'm like, OK, some of us are in church or with our family.
So hold space and grace.
I will say this.
Somebody is probably always manning the Facebook page.
I mean, I will say we do try to check the emails every single day.
But on the weekends, we don't check them every hour of every day.
You know, we are trying to honor our families, too.
So if you have a program question or an urgent question,
it might be best for you to put it on the news feed on Facebook
because we have dozens of volunteers helping man those pages.
So chances are somebody is awake.
If somebody is in a time zone that will be able to answer your question.
But in general, the news feed is for program.
The admin email is for technical issues.
OK, let me go ahead and show the screen.
Okey dokey.
So here's the the Jackie Dorman website that you've got right here.
So I'm going to kind of walk you through.
You see how it says member login.
And you guys, you can go to Kajabi.
Kajabi does have a app version of it.
It's a lot more clunky.
And so I don't train from that.
And so if you use that, I can just tell you it's harder to.
It's not harder to watch the videos.
It's harder to download some stuff.
And it's not as easy to navigate.
So I'm showing you the desktop version.
Member login.
So you're going to come down here and you're going to put your email address
and that's the email you use to purchase the program and the password.
And so you have to do that login.
I'm going to be able to see more than you can see, so don't worry.
Great about that.
So let's see how it says my library at the top.
Now you guys, right now,
you should only see these two things right here.
Phase one, the heart work program.
This is where the content is
and it's where the downloads are.
All the PDFs, content PDFs.
This right here, we separated this out
to make it super easy for you.
This is the link to all the prayer sessions,
the links to the check-in,
the links to Supernatural Saturday,
the schedule, and all the replays.
So the links to stuff and the replays are here.
Look, it says links to live sessions.
Check it in links.
It's also where the replays are.
Here is where the content is.
Are we good?
Okay, so we're gonna go into the content.
So you're gonna click on it.
So the first thing I'm gonna ask you guys to do,
and if you guys have gotten an email from me
because you weren't in the Facebook page,
you already know what this is,
but I'm gonna walk you guys through this.
So way up in the corner, this little, your profile,
he doesn't show up until you're actually in the heart work.
Because if you noticed, here, there was no little guy.
No little guy here.
Don't know why Kajabi did that, but they did.
So you have to come in and there's the thing.
I'm gonna click on my profile
and I'm gonna go to settings.
And it's like, oh, there's Renee Rizzo, there's my email.
I'm gonna come all the way to the bottom.
This is how I know.
And see where it says,
please email me about new products and promotions.
A lot of you did not click that button on the purchase
because who wants new products and promotions?
You're like, bleh.
And so a lot of you didn't click that.
The problem is, it means you get none of our emails.
So you have to make sure all these buttons are to the right.
So I want you guys, when you get off here,
I want everybody going in, double check,
to make sure all these little buttons are to the right.
Once you do that, come down here, y'all.
You gotta hit the save button, right?
I'm sorry, it's way up here in the corner.
So if you click here, but you don't hit save, guess what?
It don't save.
So go to the little guy, go to settings,
come all the way down, click everything to the right,
then hit save.
That's how you save it.
Okay, so that's your setting.
We're gonna go back to Jackie Dorman.
We're gonna go back here to phase one.
All right, so you guys are just starting.
And you're gonna go, wow, what do I do, what do I do?
Well, you start here.
It says start here, so that's what you're gonna do.
And you're gonna start here.
You're gonna watch the welcome video.
I've already completed it, so I don't have to do it again.
We need you to sign a waiver, so there's the link.
See, it's a live link to sign the waiver.
Confirm your subscription emails.
I already just showed you how to do that.
Download the HeartWork book.
I'll show it to you to the right.
You can begin by reading, and then join the Facebook page.
So in case you didn't join the Facebook page,
or you're like, I didn't get the email
to join the Facebook page.
Here it is, right here.
So we try to give you a lot of ways to do that.
So if you go over here to the right,
here are the downloads.
So typically, the downloads are to the right.
That's why if you're looking at this from your phone,
you may not see it as clean.
But here is the book.
Here is some of the information,
and here is the permission slip
that you probably already did in the challenge.
Okay, so then once you do that, you say complete.
Boom, and now look, it's already telling me
the next thing to do.
Now there's a welcome video from Jackie.
So you click on that, and now you could watch
this welcome video from her.
Woo woo!
Now you're like, okay, I really wish I got a chance
to talk to Jackie personally,
and like, I got stuck with Renee.
It's all good, I'm not taking it personal.
So if you go here, you can watch this orientation
that Jackie did.
It's pretty much the same kind of orientation,
but you can go ahead and watch it,
and when you're done, you're gonna hit mark complete.
If you guys don't hit mark complete,
it doesn't really show you the next thing to do.
Now this is the tech orientation.
I'm walking you through the tech orientation.
So you really don't need to go through it, but that's me.
So we're gonna pretend that we just completed that.
Ah, what's the schedule?
There you go.
Here's the schedule right here.
So the schedule here, click here for dates and times
to convert to your area.
So remember I said to you,
the schedule and important links, Monday prayer calls.
Here's the link to it.
Boom, here's the times.
I'm sorry, this is the check-in.
This is the check-in for you.
Sorry, yes, this is the live check-in.
And then here are the prayer call.
This is the prayer call schedule.
And here are all the prayer call links right there.
So, beautiful.
I'm gonna also show you another place
this calendar always is.
You can always go back to it, super easy.
Keep going, downloads.
And now it's gonna be like,
oh my gosh, here's all the downloads.
So you can look to the right
and you can grab the downloads.
So you see how there's more downloads here for you.
So you're gonna come to the right
and you're gonna click on all these,
save them to your computer.
They're like, good job, keep going, next lesson.
Okay, so now we're in part one.
So that was a lot of housekeeping.
So now part one, now you can see how it shows week one.
There are one, two, three, four, five, six little videos.
They're not longer than like 14 minutes, you guys.
So they're not that bad.
You've got a whole week to watch these videos.
And then look, it even has instructions.
She's telling you here what to read, what to watch,
what to do, homework questions,
and other things that you've got.
So week one for the entire week,
this is what you've got to do.
And here's all the videos.
So that's warning you that there are gonna be six videos.
So you're gonna go through,
you're gonna watch the next video, hit complete,
watch the next video, hit complete, boom.
You're gonna keep going through all the way.
There's the bonus session.
Bonus session, dream interpretation,
everyone loves that one.
And now you're part two.
You're like, oh crap, part two, that's already next week.
So there's how you move around this.
Any questions, I'm gonna open the floor for questions.
Any questions about how to walk through the videos,
how to get to the downloads for part one?
And then you kind of see that you basically do this process
for the next five weeks.
Any questions so far?
You can come off mute and just ask
because I can only see five of you
across my screen right now.
Hi, I have a question.
I noticed that there are permission slips,
I think on each, after each video or something like that.
Do we have to open the permission slip
and send them again or do our,
because we did one before, it's fine.
Yeah, it's fine.
Yeah, you're fine.
So a lot of times you will see, thanks for asking.
A lot of times you'll see we will put things
in multiple places so that you can't miss it.
So if you've already seen it, already printed it,
already signed it, and you guys,
nobody's gonna ask you for your handouts.
Those are just for you to keep for yourself.
It's not like you're gonna come to week one class
and you're like, hey, I signed it.
I mean, you can, but you don't have to.
That's really, all of this is really on your honor system.
Now I will tell you, when you finish phase,
when you finish phase one or the heart work in five weeks,
some of you will try to watch all the videos
in like two hot weeks and plow through the program.
And you're gonna get the button that says,
you're gonna come to us
and you're gonna try to join phase two.
And we're not gonna let you.
We're gonna be like, look,
you did not do the heart work in two weeks flat.
There's no way.
We want you to get all that you can.
And here's what I can tell you,
and Jackie will tell you this.
Anybody that tries to rush phase one,
I mean, yes, can you get it done in four weeks?
Probably, you could probably get it done in four, not five,
but can you really get it done in two or three?
You really can't.
And what we have found is that people
who don't take the time at the front end,
they kind of plow through phase one and two
just so they can get to phase three,
start date and meet the guys.
And it just combusts.
And they're like, oh,
and they're just making all the same old mistakes
because they really didn't have any time to change
and get healed.
They're still looking for the same kind of guys.
And so they usually end up having to start all over
and go back to the heart work.
So you might as well do it right the first time.
Okay, we're gonna back out of here.
And I am just hitting the back button.
That might not be the best way to get out of here.
Let me think.
All right, we're gonna go to here, phase one.
No, okay.
We're learning together.
I forget how I get out of here.
Okay, there is gotta be a better way to close out of here.
I'm embarrassed to tell you this.
I should know how to do this.
I do this all the time.
Well, when all else fails, I back out all the way.
Oh, library.
Ah, there you go.
Okay, so you click on your little head
and you go and click on my library.
Woo, see, there you go.
Even I forget stuff.
Now we're gonna go into where all the check,
the replays are, and the links.
So you're like, okay, Renee.
So I've got some important things to show you here.
So here's the royal rules.
And this is just rules of engagement.
And so this is really important for you to know
how we try to operate here.
We say things like community over competition.
This is the one community I swear,
you guys, if a lot of you have girl wounds
from mean girls that you grew up with
and women that comparison and all of that,
you will find some healing in this community.
I don't know how we can have a thousand women
in this community and we don't get petty
or kind of cray cray, but we really don't.
We have the most beautiful community here.
And it's because we take these world rules really seriously
and we will put you on probation if you start breaking them.
Lift all boats.
It is okay for you guys to share things
that are disappointing, things that are hurting you
when you feel sad, but what we won't do
is let you whine and complain and bring each other down.
We wanna make sure that we lift all boats up.
Guard your words, just pay attention to what you say.
Think about this, is this kind, is this necessary?
So we are really paying attention
to not only how you talk to other women in the community,
but really how you talk to yourself.
So if we feel like you're kind of crapping on yourself,
we're gonna even call you out on that.
Remember to respect each other's privacy.
What is said in a prayer call stays in a prayer call.
What is said in your small groups stays in a small group.
And then obviously,
we really don't want you private messaging.
Don't private message or DM in Facebook me,
Jackie or Bethany or the coaches.
If you need to reach out to us,
send it to the admin at JackieDorman.com email
and it will get to us.
Try not to sell your books, sell your own product.
This is not a place for it or anybody else's.
And so we really don't want you guys recommending
other authors, other speakers, other influencers.
There's a lot of other great content out there.
We're not saying that.
But right now in here,
we're trying to focus on the hard work.
Because the problem is if you promote an outside speaker,
we just don't have the staff time to vet that speaker
to make sure that what they're saying
or what they're writing is in conflict of what we're saying.
And so we just try to keep that out here.
You are not a therapist here.
Even if you are a therapist,
you get to take your therapist hat off.
So you just wanna make sure
that you are not diagnosing people.
Like, oh my gosh, she sounds like a narcissist.
Oh my gosh, she sounds so codependent.
Oh my gosh, they sound bipolar.
Like you guys, that's like making a diagnosis.
So we really can't do that.
There you go.
See, look, if you're like, I don't know what the email is.
There you go, there's the email.
Okay, so that's the Royal Rules.
And we're gonna back out of the Royal Rules.
And then there's the schedule and important links to attend.
So remember I said,
you may not wanna go to phase one and look for that.
Boom, here's the schedule again with all of the links.
Super easy.
How to contact us, boom, right there.
Look, it's a direct link to the email.
Look, boom, it sets up an email right away.
And you will get that email out the door.
So it can't get any easier than that.
And then of course, there's where all the replays.
You guys, the only replays you need to worry about
is if you want.
You don't have to watch any of the replays
that are not current,
but you can watch any Supernatural Saturday.
They're always good.
So it goes March, April, May.
Again, I wouldn't go in and watch all the check-ins.
That'll just confuse you.
There are just the taped versions
of what you guys are gonna start attending.
But Supernatural Saturdays,
if you're ever alone in your car
or you're out on a walk or a hike
and you need a good word from the Lord,
then feel free to watch the Supernatural Saturdays.
But obviously if you click on it,
it's gonna take you right to the video.
So that is the beauty of this module
is that we've got the calendar right there with the links,
how to contact us and all the replays right there.
So I love having this.
And let's see, we're gonna back out of that.
And back out of that.
See, now let's see if I can go back to the beginning here.
Oh, nope.
Library.
Go back to the library, boom.
So evidently the library
is the word you're looking for everywhere.
Okay, so I'm gonna stop
just so I can see more of your faces.
Anybody have any questions
about how to start viewing that video footage,
how to download the thing and kind of move?
And remember, there's two modules,
one that's got the content and the downloads,
one that's got the schedule, the links and the replays.
We try to make it super easy for you.
So we good there?
Good there?
Okay, y'all look super excited.
All right, I'm going to go to Facebook now.
I'm not going to insult you, because I'm not
going to spend a lot of time.
Because most of you already know how to use Facebook.
But we're going to go to Facebook.
I have to get my other Chrome screen up
where my Facebook page is.
And I'm going to go to phase one.
And now I'm going to screen share for y'all.
OK, so here is phase one.
When we say, so if you're like, I'm
in the middle of the Facebook page, if you go to guides,
guides also has, you guys, don't watch the content here
and click off complete here.
You really need to watch all your training in the portal.
So kind of ignore all of this stuff.
But this is kind of here too.
And you page down.
Look, there's the calendar right here again.
So here's the calendar again.
Here's the Zoom link for Supernatural Saturday,
the prayer schedule, the live session, all community link.
So here's also the very same links
in the calendar in guide two.
So a lot of times, you'll hear us say the calendar
and the links are in guide two.
They're in guide two for phase one, phase two, and phase three.
So you go to the guide section.
But if you notice, see, this is what's clunky about Facebook.
You kind of have to bypass all this stuff to get to guide two.
There's no other way to do it except scroll on down.
And then if you get to guide three,
here's also where some of the replays are.
And so that's where you can go.
Now, the other thing I'm going to show you is the Feature tab.
So that's what the guides have.
So the guides also, see how it's just more clunky?
Then the Feature tabs, the Feature tab
is always going to show the most recent stuff that's
been recorded here for you.
Like here, this was just featured.
Now, I will say, I like the way that the Feature looks on my phone
way better than it does here.
Here, it kind of cascades down.
On my phone, it kind of cascades across.
So it's a lot easier to see.
Because unfortunately, with this, it shows all the comments.
And it's kind of a pain.
So you're going to see all the Feature.
Remember I told you about a roll call?
Every Sunday, you're going to see a post like this.
And it's going to say, time for the weekly roll call.
How are you doing?
And look, 150 responses.
So people will always tell everybody how they're doing.
And Bethany or one of the other coaches
will always be there to respond.
So you guys, we take your posts very seriously.
It takes us hours, hours to respond to you.
And we do it because we love you guys.
So that's the most important thing.
And obviously, the main news feed
is in the discussion, like it normally would be,
just like you're normally on any.
And then you can just do a post.
Now, I will say this, you guys.
All of your posts do go up for approval.
And again, give people a chance to get
to approve all of the posts.
Because not only are we approving your post,
but we need to make sure that the staff person is approving
your post, also is the time to be the first one to comment.
This way you know, whoever your first commenter is,
it's a coach.
And I'm super excited because Bethany is your main coach.
You're going to also get to know Annette, Jennifer, and Kelly
in phase one.
So those are the names you're going to be looking for.
Bethany is your main teacher.
Kelly, Jennifer, and Annette.
And of course, Jackie is always around, bopping in and out everywhere.
So if you think she's not reading your post, you're wrong.
She is.
And she will comment on them a lot.
And she will show up for a check-in.
She will show up for a random live.
And of course, she leads on Saturday morning.
So I promise you will get to see Jackie through phase one, two, and three.
She does a lot of the teachings live in phase three.
Once you get to phase two, she does invite you to phase three stuff
every now and then if it overlaps with stuff
and if she's feeling in the mood.
And so anyway, we're super excited for you to be here.
I don't want to take up too much more of your time
because it's a Wednesday night.
But do you have any other questions, concerns,
any other thoughts you kind of wanted to cover?
Are y'all feeling good?
OK.
Renee.
Renee, what a beautiful name.
OK, Renee, I'm going to give you a dating tip.
Dating tip 101.
Because y'all, I lead the check-ins on Tuesday nights.
It is so much fun.
You know, put your hair up in a top knot.
And I will do weekly check-ins.
Literally, we last like.
90 minutes because I will let every single person share their dating woes and I will give you fun facts, but
And just so you guys get to know our personalities Jackie, if you've not already figured out total straight shooter, right? She is direct
She's funny. She's a straight shooter
Bethany is like the wife of a pastor. She's super sweet. Super amazing. I'm kind of somewhere in the middle
I'm snarky. Maybe not as snarky as Jackie and I'm super nice
Maybe not as nice as Bethany and so you're gonna get a lot of straight talk for me when you are going through the love
Story accelerator. Okay, Renee. You're up
Okay, love your name, you know, it's great
But I had a question Bethany on I don't know if it was Monday I think it was Monday she had mentioned
that some are
personal one-on-one coaching and not and is it just
Is that part of the program too? Or is that just kind of?
Shot off the hip type thing
Or as it is what it is. Did she say there was one? I mean, okay, so just so you know
99% of what you're gonna get here is group coaching
however, when you get to
When you're in like and I forget how she does it in phase one
But usually in phase one you will get to ask questions so there's always a chance to ask a question
One to one in the check-ins whether it's phase one two or three
You get to ask me direct questions Jackie direct questions Bethany direct questions
If you want private one-on-one where it's just you and just Jackie Bethany or myself
That is a separate fee
To do that and you can email us at admin at Jackie Durman comm what I can tell you is out of like
You know 3,000 people that have gone through this program. I think a lot of people come in saying oh my gosh
I need one-on-one coaching. No. No, you don't understand my story
I need one-on-one coaching and I would say 98% decide that they don't need the coaching because they realize how much they get
coaching here
But that is an option for you
I'm gonna encourage you Jackie would encourage you to start the program before you decide that you need that
So I will say you get a and I feel like you guys I love one-on-one coaching
I love a one-on-one therapy, but I also love group therapy
I think there's something magical about what you learn when you're among your peers and
Especially when you see I'm gonna try to say this delicately, but it's not gonna come out delicate
Okay, sometimes you've got some like blind spots on your own story
but when you watch someone else like ask Beth near Jackie a question and or they say something in a post and you're like
Oh my gosh, and then you're like, oh crap. That's what I say. Oh crap
That's what I must look like when I say that and so there's kind of like this revealing to you. You're like, oh
and so you get to see it play out when you're watching somebody else do it and it just kind of gives you a
little bit more of an aha honest moment and
The other thing is you kind of can't con the con artists, you know, so when you're all in the same room together
You know, you kind of it kind of forces a little bit more honesty
So it's all group coaching, but there's always time to ask
questions individually and in phase two and in phase three Jackie has what's called ask Jackie you submit your
Question and you can submit it anonymous if you want. It's on a Google form
We post the form every single week and she will get on live and she'll answer all of those questions and kind of plow through
Them and even if she doesn't get to your question
She gets to so many of the questions you always learn something every single time that she she can't speak without learning something. So
Hopefully that will that answers your question enough. Okay, so Renee
So here's my here's my teaching moment for you
And I want to see this change the next time I see you on a zoom meeting
So you guys when you start zoom dating?
You want to make sure you're facing the light do you see how young I look I'm facing the light
So it's hiding all my lines and wrinkles
And so you want to make sure you've got like something pretty in your background
You've got a cute outfit on you know, you're you at least look good here
No, I can have my pajamas on and y'all wouldn't even know it. So Renee's got the light behind her
So she's looking very dark, right?
Megan Norton you even have the light behind you
So you see how like if I turn this computer around you see how I look really different
I don't look as shebang, but this one like ooh shit bang
So that's my that's my tip to you if you're ever on camera Friday Saturday Sunday
Face the light. Make sure your background looks nice.
Do a fake background if you need to.
Smile. Do not have the computer down here
so that we're looking up your nose.
So gross. Like, stop it. Don't be like your grandma.
Learn how to do this. And if you have to,
prop your computer up on something
so that you're looking straight at it.
Because even right now,
like, when I know I'm being filmed for a teaching with the guys,
I know, look it, my computer's kind of coming up a little bit
and so you can still see my nose a little bit.
So I know when I'm teaching with the guys,
I have the camera right here. So now I just look good.
And now you don't see my double chin or anything.
So that's my free phase two dating, video dating lesson.
There you go.
Thank you. Thanks.
You're welcome.
All right, you guys, this was so much fun.
I'm going to pray y'all out.
If you have no more questions, I'm not going to keep you.
Father God, thank you so much
for each and every single woman here.
We know that you've called them.
We know that such as a time as this,
we ask that you just fill them to overflowing.
I ask for a hedge of protection around their mind,
their body, their spirit, their finances,
and their home and their family.
Father God, no weapon formed against them shall prosper
so that as they go through this heartwork,
that you bring up what you want them to learn
and to deal with just at the pace that's perfect for them.
So Father God, we just ask that you seal them
and protect them and guide them in this time
and that we just give them extra dose of space
and grace and presence.
Father God, we just ask for the peace
that surpasses all understanding.
And we are so excited to partner with them
on their love story, their heart healing story.
And we just know that there's going to be an abundance
of change in their life, not just in their love story,
but Father God, you are going to bring victory
in every area of their life.
So we just thank you so much in the precious name of Jesus.
Y'all, it was so fun being with you tonight
and you'll see me some other time.
And if you see me on a Monday morning,
I don't look this good.
Anyway, bye.