WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:08.000 And I think we should be recording now. 2 00:00:08.000 --> 00:00:11.000 Did that work? 3 00:00:11.000 --> 00:00:13.000 Yes. 4 00:00:13.000 --> 00:00:15.000 All right. 5 00:00:15.000 --> 00:00:21.400 Welcome, welcome, welcome to day four. 6 00:00:21.400 --> 00:00:24.160 You guys are troopers. 7 00:00:24.160 --> 00:00:28.360 I see many of you are returning. 8 00:00:28.360 --> 00:00:31.760 Not one day, not two days, not three days, but four days. 9 00:00:31.760 --> 00:00:39.240 You guys are like ready, ready to bring it, ready to create change and transformation. 10 00:00:39.240 --> 00:00:42.360 So welcome, welcome, welcome. 11 00:00:42.360 --> 00:00:44.620 You know, we've really covered some territory. 12 00:00:44.620 --> 00:00:50.180 We have been working through the PROSPER system. 13 00:00:50.180 --> 00:00:59.940 This is the total package, the total system for creating a prosperous, profitable faith 14 00:00:59.940 --> 00:01:02.460 integrated business. 15 00:01:02.460 --> 00:01:11.340 So PROSPER is an acronym and we, day one was the first P, which was about partnering with 16 00:01:11.340 --> 00:01:15.140 God in business, right? 17 00:01:15.140 --> 00:01:24.780 And this is so powerful when you realize that you can actually partner with God. 18 00:01:24.780 --> 00:01:31.620 He can be your CEO, your CFO, your COO, your chief creativity officer. 19 00:01:31.620 --> 00:01:35.820 You can tap into infinite wisdom. 20 00:01:35.820 --> 00:01:39.180 And this is where miracles start happening. 21 00:01:39.180 --> 00:01:44.420 I mean, this is such an exciting, it's, I could not believe. 22 00:01:44.700 --> 00:01:45.700 I posted it on Facebook. 23 00:01:45.700 --> 00:01:49.060 I could not believe I have been teaching this subject for 11 years. 24 00:01:49.060 --> 00:01:53.340 You know how Facebook brings back memories and it was like 11 years ago, partner with 25 00:01:53.340 --> 00:01:54.340 God. 26 00:01:54.340 --> 00:01:55.540 I'm like, really? 27 00:01:55.540 --> 00:02:00.940 It just feels like just yesterday, but it's one of the most profound things in my life. 28 00:02:00.940 --> 00:02:04.160 My entire company's changed. 29 00:02:04.160 --> 00:02:10.580 My employees changed, the team changed, the clients changed, like, like miracles broke 30 00:02:10.580 --> 00:02:11.580 out. 31 00:02:11.580 --> 00:02:13.380 We saw so many miracles. 32 00:02:13.380 --> 00:02:21.460 We saw miracles of, of, of provision and miracles of healing and, you know, just transformation. 33 00:02:21.460 --> 00:02:24.420 And so P is partnering with God. 34 00:02:24.420 --> 00:02:28.180 That's when you realize you're not alone. 35 00:02:28.180 --> 00:02:34.940 You don't have to do this by striving, by stressing, by sacrificing. 36 00:02:34.940 --> 00:02:38.300 And so that's the P, we covered that in day one. 37 00:02:38.300 --> 00:02:44.340 And of course, all the replays are up in Facebook all week long till midnight, Sunday, 38 00:02:44.340 --> 00:02:46.740 or with VIP, you can keep them. 39 00:02:46.740 --> 00:02:51.540 If you've loved these and you want to listen again and again, get the VIP option. 40 00:02:51.540 --> 00:02:52.540 Okay. 41 00:02:52.540 --> 00:02:56.500 And so partnering with God, P in the prosper system. 42 00:02:56.500 --> 00:03:04.200 And then day two was R, which was about renewing the mind. 43 00:03:04.200 --> 00:03:10.040 And we talked about, you know, there's God's part in, and God is just always there and 44 00:03:10.040 --> 00:03:17.920 God is always working profoundly, but so often, how many of you know, you're stinking thinking, 45 00:03:17.920 --> 00:03:24.240 you're limiting beliefs that don't line up with the truth, that don't line up with what 46 00:03:24.240 --> 00:03:26.960 God thinks or what God says. 47 00:03:26.960 --> 00:03:29.040 That's what keeps us held back. 48 00:03:29.040 --> 00:03:33.080 It's not God holding you back, it's the, it's the thoughts. 49 00:03:33.080 --> 00:03:40.680 And so we learned what Romans teaches, how to be transformed by the renewing. 50 00:03:40.680 --> 00:03:44.960 And you know, it's amazing, everything I teach, I'm teaching you the scripture, I'm teaching 51 00:03:44.960 --> 00:03:45.960 you the science. 52 00:03:45.960 --> 00:03:48.960 Like we know this is the science. 53 00:03:48.960 --> 00:03:55.200 You've got neural pathways in your brain, you've got roadways, right? 54 00:03:55.200 --> 00:04:00.880 And the ones that you have been really thinking about meditating on, you know, and this is 55 00:04:00.880 --> 00:04:06.480 why it's so important, you know, they become four lane highways so that you just gravitate 56 00:04:06.480 --> 00:04:09.080 there naturally, right? 57 00:04:09.080 --> 00:04:14.520 And the ones that get neglected, and you're not thinking about, of course, they're like 58 00:04:14.520 --> 00:04:17.279 the little, you know, dirt roads, right? 59 00:04:17.279 --> 00:04:25.840 And so, so we know this, we know that, you know, as we are, as we are building that in 60 00:04:25.840 --> 00:04:32.360 our mind, that literally what scripture says, that we're transformed by the renewing of 61 00:04:32.360 --> 00:04:36.680 our mind, that literally our mind is becoming new. 62 00:04:36.680 --> 00:04:41.200 And like there's physical changes, right? 63 00:04:41.200 --> 00:04:43.320 And it affects every area of our life. 64 00:04:43.320 --> 00:04:52.120 We know, for example, that people that continuously meditate, that there's physical changes into 65 00:04:52.120 --> 00:04:53.560 their brain. 66 00:04:53.560 --> 00:04:55.460 So this is so powerful. 67 00:04:55.460 --> 00:05:00.020 So the P was partner with God, the R was renew, be transformed. 68 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:10.000 by the renewing of your mind. Oh, yesterday was about understanding flow and opening the flow. 69 00:05:11.520 --> 00:05:17.680 How many of you received a blessing from any of these teachings? How many of you got something 70 00:05:18.240 --> 00:05:25.680 that is already starting to shift you? Put shift in the comments if already from what we've covered, 71 00:05:25.680 --> 00:05:31.680 the first three days of the Prosper System, if you've already started to see a shift. 72 00:05:33.920 --> 00:05:41.840 Awesome. Earlene says shift. All right. Love it. A bunch of you writing shift. Awesome. Lorraine 73 00:05:42.400 --> 00:05:50.720 and Tracy. And it's going so fast. So congratulations. I love that. Congratulations. 74 00:05:50.720 --> 00:05:57.600 All right. We're going to open with prayer and we're going to dive into today, which is so 75 00:05:57.600 --> 00:06:06.800 significant. And once again, I'm mindful like you're here because I know you want to grow your 76 00:06:06.800 --> 00:06:11.920 faith and you want more peace and you want more miracles and all of that. So we're going to talk 77 00:06:11.920 --> 00:06:19.200 about the scripture basis of it all. And I know you want to build a prosperous, profitable business 78 00:06:19.200 --> 00:06:24.800 in this season. Right. And so I'm going to be giving you very practical. Today, I'm going to 79 00:06:24.800 --> 00:06:34.560 talk about a concept how you can 10X your business, 10X the results, but doing way, way less. 80 00:06:34.560 --> 00:06:40.080 And I'm going to give you really practical strategies how to do that. So who's ready? 81 00:06:40.080 --> 00:06:47.040 Put ready in the comments. Put some love in the comments. If you are ready, let's go. I'm going 82 00:06:47.040 --> 00:06:56.720 to open with prayer as today we're talking about how do we really create space for what we desire, 83 00:06:57.760 --> 00:07:05.280 for what God has called us to, for what we were born to be and born to do. How do we, how do we 84 00:07:05.280 --> 00:07:11.920 create that space? So let's start with prayer and then let's build from there. Father God, I just 85 00:07:11.920 --> 00:07:20.240 thank you for all the ways that you are working and all that you are teaching us and all that you 86 00:07:20.240 --> 00:07:27.840 are transforming. And Holy Spirit, we just invite you on this call, whether people are listening 87 00:07:27.840 --> 00:07:36.320 live or the replay, Holy Spirit, I ask that you move in such mighty ways. I'm asking for supernatural 88 00:07:36.320 --> 00:07:43.840 breakthrough, Lord, that wherever there has been stuckness, where there's been limiting beliefs that 89 00:07:43.840 --> 00:07:51.280 have kept people playing small and not stepping into the fullness of all you have, I am asking 90 00:07:51.280 --> 00:07:58.720 for a renewing of the mind. I'm asking for you to break through. You are Jehovah Bell Parazine, 91 00:07:58.720 --> 00:08:04.880 the God of the breakthrough. And so Lord, I'm asking with every word that I speak, I ask that 92 00:08:04.880 --> 00:08:12.720 the meditations of my heart and my mind and the words of my mouth will please you, will glorify 93 00:08:12.720 --> 00:08:19.200 you, and that like Paul said in scripture, I won't just be speaking words, but I'll be speaking 94 00:08:19.200 --> 00:08:26.400 spirit and life. Lord, let your spirit, let your life flow through everything that is said today. 95 00:08:26.400 --> 00:08:33.360 So Lord, open our spiritual senses, open our mind, open our ears, our spiritual ears, open 96 00:08:33.360 --> 00:08:40.640 our spiritual eyes, open our spiritual heart, that we can see, we can hear, we can know, we can 97 00:08:40.640 --> 00:08:48.960 perceive your goodness, that we can perceive how and where you're working in this season, that 98 00:08:48.960 --> 00:08:56.480 we can perceive your presence, that we can be fine-tuned to hear your word for this season. 99 00:08:56.480 --> 00:09:08.480 I'm asking that and so much more in Jesus name. Amen. Amen. Amen. Okay. We're talking about space 100 00:09:09.840 --> 00:09:15.840 and I think in this season, there's never been a more important topic. 101 00:09:16.720 --> 00:09:23.120 How many of you have felt just overwhelmed 102 00:09:24.400 --> 00:09:31.840 by just the massive amount of things coming at you? I don't know how else to phrase it, right? 103 00:09:31.840 --> 00:09:38.480 I mean, there's 5,000 messages coming at us from every angle possible, like we're checking 104 00:09:38.480 --> 00:09:46.720 10 places, you know, for messages and like how many of you just felt this squeezing 105 00:09:48.080 --> 00:09:59.840 of like so much packed into your day, into your mind, into your space, that it's replacing. 106 00:10:00.800 --> 00:10:09.280 peace. It's replacing that deep sense of God's presence, that deep sense. How many of you 107 00:10:10.400 --> 00:10:16.400 put in the chat, like if you've been feeling like clutter, if you've been feeling squeezed 108 00:10:17.200 --> 00:10:25.600 and you want to have more space, type that in the chat if that is true for you. Let me get 109 00:10:25.600 --> 00:10:33.120 where I can see the messages here. There we go. All right. Yeah, you're feeling it. 110 00:10:33.120 --> 00:10:42.320 You're feeling it. When we lack space in our minds, in our hearts, in our schedule, 111 00:10:42.880 --> 00:10:51.600 in our physical environment, in our home, it crowds out the ability for the things that 112 00:10:52.160 --> 00:10:59.040 that truly matter. OK, there's three. We're going to start with some scripture. OK. 113 00:11:00.720 --> 00:11:03.440 And then we're going to get into some really practical things. 114 00:11:04.480 --> 00:11:13.360 But there's three verses that I consider like some of the saddest verses, really, in a lot of 115 00:11:13.360 --> 00:11:21.440 ways. And yet I believe they speak so much truth for where we are right here, right now. So one 116 00:11:21.520 --> 00:11:28.080 of them, you've all read it every Christmas. It's Luke 2 7. I mean, it's part of just the birth of 117 00:11:28.080 --> 00:11:38.480 Jesus, the Christmas story. Right. And it talks about how when it came time for Mary to to give 118 00:11:38.480 --> 00:11:50.720 birth to the son, her firstborn, that she laid him in a manger. Because there was no room or place 119 00:11:50.720 --> 00:12:04.240 for them at the inn. I think that's so symbolic, that here you had the word become flesh. Here you 120 00:12:05.280 --> 00:12:13.440 had infinite love. God himself. God is love. You had infinite wisdom. You had infinite power. You 121 00:12:13.440 --> 00:12:23.280 had infinite goodness. Excuse me, land on planet Earth. And there was no room. 122 00:12:25.200 --> 00:12:33.040 There was no room for this love. There was no room for this light. There was no room for this this glory. 123 00:12:33.600 --> 00:12:47.440 And I wonder if we consider this temple, this physical space, that we are the container here 124 00:12:48.160 --> 00:12:55.360 on Earth. And Scripture says we're the temple of the Holy Spirit. We're the container of God, 125 00:12:55.360 --> 00:13:04.560 container of God. Christ in us, the hope of glory. And I wonder if we thought about it like the 126 00:13:04.560 --> 00:13:18.240 Christmas story, the inn. Is there room at the inn? Like in your mind, how much space in your mind 127 00:13:18.240 --> 00:13:29.280 is available on a daily, on a weekly, on a monthly, on a moment by moment? How much space? 128 00:13:30.800 --> 00:13:36.640 Like if you suddenly did a computer analysis and you made a graph, 129 00:13:38.400 --> 00:13:47.120 you made a graph, and it's like charts, like a bar chart, right? And how much of your mind 130 00:13:48.080 --> 00:13:57.840 is consumed with worry? Worry about what might happen. Worry about how much is it into anxiety, 131 00:13:57.840 --> 00:14:03.440 looking into the future, and what if? What if I don't get clients? What if I can't pay my bills 132 00:14:03.440 --> 00:14:08.800 this month? What if I don't have enough money? What if I, you know, get sick? What if I'm all 133 00:14:08.800 --> 00:14:18.160 alone? What if I never find love? Like worry is inside out faith. Like how much of your bandwidth 134 00:14:18.160 --> 00:14:24.160 of your space, like consider like your computer space, you've got so much space, right? How much 135 00:14:24.160 --> 00:14:36.080 of your space is occupied with fear or with doubt or with worry or with shame or with regret or 136 00:14:37.040 --> 00:14:46.640 with any of the low frequency? Are we like the inn that infinite love wants to come? That 137 00:14:46.640 --> 00:14:56.480 that infinite joy wants to come? That infinite wisdom wants to come? But there's no room at the inn. 138 00:14:59.520 --> 00:14:59.920 Something 139 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:06.640 to reflect on. You know, then there was, there was the story 140 00:15:06.640 --> 00:15:12.960 in Luke 9. I'm reading from the Passion Translation, but you see 141 00:15:12.960 --> 00:15:18.640 the invitation being made. Like we've all been invited, right? 142 00:15:18.640 --> 00:15:26.520 And you, you see the invitation being made. And Jesus turns and 143 00:15:26.520 --> 00:15:31.920 says, come be my disciple, right? Come pattern after me. 144 00:15:31.920 --> 00:15:36.160 Come follow me. Come let me be your teacher. Let me, let me 145 00:15:36.160 --> 00:15:40.400 model. Let me show you how it's done. Let's, let's, let's suck 146 00:15:40.400 --> 00:15:45.880 together. Let's spend time together, right? Like Revelation 147 00:15:45.920 --> 00:15:50.560 says that the Holy Spirit, the God, that Jesus are standing at 148 00:15:50.560 --> 00:15:55.320 the door and they're knocking and, and we can only open it 149 00:15:55.320 --> 00:16:01.440 from the inside. And so Jesus says to another one, come be my 150 00:16:01.640 --> 00:16:11.240 disciple. And he says, someday I will Lord, someday, someday when 151 00:16:11.240 --> 00:16:14.440 I have more time, I'll read my Bible. Someday when I have more 152 00:16:14.440 --> 00:16:19.960 time, I'll, right? Someday I will, but allow me first to 153 00:16:19.960 --> 00:16:24.680 fulfill my duty as a good son and wait until my father passes 154 00:16:24.680 --> 00:16:32.920 away. And Jesus answers, don't wait for your father's burial. 155 00:16:33.680 --> 00:16:39.760 Let those who are already dead, wait for dead. As for you, as 156 00:16:39.760 --> 00:16:46.040 for you, like the kingdom of God is, is here now as for you go 157 00:16:46.040 --> 00:16:49.560 proclaim God's kingdom has arrived. And he, he goes to 158 00:16:49.560 --> 00:16:53.680 another and says, yeah, Lord, I want to follow you too. But let 159 00:16:53.680 --> 00:17:00.640 me first go home and say goodbye to my entire family. And Jesus 160 00:17:00.640 --> 00:17:05.119 answers something really powerfully. Why do you keep 161 00:17:05.119 --> 00:17:12.839 looking back to your past and have second thoughts about 162 00:17:13.119 --> 00:17:23.599 following me? So, so in this second example, they, they 163 00:17:23.599 --> 00:17:26.960 didn't have bandwidth, they didn't have space because they 164 00:17:26.960 --> 00:17:32.320 were too consumed with what they felt they needed to be, or they 165 00:17:32.320 --> 00:17:39.200 were too consumed with their past. And then the third 166 00:17:39.200 --> 00:17:42.760 example, many of you are familiar with comes from Luke 167 00:17:42.760 --> 00:17:56.320 chapter 10, verses 38 to 42. And it says, now, while they were on 168 00:17:56.320 --> 00:18:00.080 their way, it occurred to Jesus to enter a certain village and a 169 00:18:00.080 --> 00:18:05.280 woman named Martha received and welcomed her into her home. So 170 00:18:05.280 --> 00:18:09.000 this is the home of Mary, Martha, Lazarus. These were some 171 00:18:09.000 --> 00:18:13.440 of Jesus's closest, dearest friends. Okay. And so they 172 00:18:13.440 --> 00:18:20.560 welcome into the house. And so there was a sister, Mary, and 173 00:18:20.560 --> 00:18:26.600 Mary plops herself right down at the feet of Jesus. And she's 174 00:18:26.600 --> 00:18:31.000 just soaking in every word. She's sitting at the feet of 175 00:18:31.000 --> 00:18:37.120 Jesus, just soaking in every word. And verse 40, Martha, it 176 00:18:37.120 --> 00:18:43.720 says, was overly occupied and too busy. How many of you are 177 00:18:43.760 --> 00:18:49.000 overly occupied and too busy? It says she was distracted with 178 00:18:49.000 --> 00:18:56.640 much serving. And she comes to Jesus and she says, Lord, like, 179 00:18:56.640 --> 00:19:00.520 do you not see what's going on? Is it nothing to you that my 180 00:19:00.520 --> 00:19:06.080 sister's just sitting around? And there's sandwiches that need 181 00:19:06.080 --> 00:19:11.200 to be made, like, people got to eat, we got things to do. Like, 182 00:19:11.200 --> 00:19:14.080 don't you care that she's just sitting around? Tell her to get 183 00:19:14.080 --> 00:19:19.000 up and help me. She tries to involve Jesus in her busyness. 184 00:19:20.600 --> 00:19:28.440 And Jesus replies to her saying, Martha, Martha, you're, you're 185 00:19:28.440 --> 00:19:35.560 anxious and troubled about many things. There's need of only 186 00:19:35.560 --> 00:19:43.680 one, or but a few things. So Jesus says, you're anxious about 187 00:19:43.720 --> 00:19:52.160 many things. There's really just a few. You know, there's a, 188 00:19:52.200 --> 00:19:59.800 there's a book called One Thing. And one of the most profound 189 00:19:59.800 --> 00:20:00.080 things 190 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:07.120 I'm going to get into this in the second half of this teaching as to the number one thing 191 00:20:07.120 --> 00:20:09.520 I see in business right now. 192 00:20:09.520 --> 00:20:17.080 What's the number one thing that I see keeping coaches, healers, entrepreneurs broke? 193 00:20:17.080 --> 00:20:20.120 Why are they not progressing year after year? 194 00:20:20.120 --> 00:20:25.280 They set their goals, they got their coaching certification. 195 00:20:25.280 --> 00:20:28.360 Why are they not prospering? 196 00:20:28.360 --> 00:20:32.720 You know the saddest thing, you all have, many of you have filled out the form when 197 00:20:32.720 --> 00:20:34.600 you had a call with me. 198 00:20:34.600 --> 00:20:37.200 You had a breakthrough strategy call. 199 00:20:37.200 --> 00:20:41.920 And one of the questions I ask is how long have you been in business? 200 00:20:41.920 --> 00:20:46.880 The average right now, because many came in during COVID, has been two to five years. 201 00:20:46.880 --> 00:20:47.880 That's huge. 202 00:20:47.880 --> 00:20:52.680 Now, many of you are more, many of you are less, but that's the average, two to five 203 00:20:52.680 --> 00:20:53.680 years. 204 00:20:53.680 --> 00:20:58.320 Then the next question is what's the income that you're earning every year? 205 00:20:58.320 --> 00:21:04.560 And the first button is zero to 10,000, meaning you're making 10,000 or less a year. 206 00:21:04.560 --> 00:21:08.800 So you've been in business two to five years. 207 00:21:08.800 --> 00:21:14.280 And do you know that's where the majority, I want to cry when I look at that. 208 00:21:14.280 --> 00:21:16.320 I'm like, why, why, why? 209 00:21:16.320 --> 00:21:17.880 No, no, no. 210 00:21:17.880 --> 00:21:19.720 There's an abundance of people. 211 00:21:19.720 --> 00:21:22.320 There's an abundance of people needing coaching. 212 00:21:22.320 --> 00:21:26.400 There's abundance of people willing to pay for it. 213 00:21:26.400 --> 00:21:27.540 Why? 214 00:21:27.760 --> 00:21:31.860 Why are they still making less than $10,000 a year? 215 00:21:31.860 --> 00:21:32.860 Okay. 216 00:21:32.860 --> 00:21:38.060 And it has to do with the things we've, we've talked about, but it has a lot to do with 217 00:21:38.060 --> 00:21:39.060 this one. 218 00:21:39.060 --> 00:21:46.740 Jesus's words, Mary, Mary, Mary, you're concerned with many things, but you really only need 219 00:21:46.740 --> 00:21:48.900 to do a few. 220 00:21:48.900 --> 00:21:52.180 We're going to break that down, how that applies in business. 221 00:21:52.180 --> 00:21:55.820 But I want you to think about that. 222 00:21:55.820 --> 00:22:03.860 What I have found is that many coach certification programs, and this is why I created the Prosper 223 00:22:03.860 --> 00:22:08.900 Coach Certification Program, because I saw a huge hole. 224 00:22:08.900 --> 00:22:19.700 Many coach certification programs are turning out coaches, excuse me. 225 00:22:19.700 --> 00:22:26.260 They're turning out coaches, but they never taught them how to build a business. 226 00:22:26.260 --> 00:22:30.740 Most coaches are absolutely clueless how to build a business. 227 00:22:30.740 --> 00:22:36.740 Two to five years later, they come to me and we're able in one day to change this. 228 00:22:36.740 --> 00:22:40.300 But they come to me and they still don't know their niche. 229 00:22:40.300 --> 00:22:41.860 I mean, they think they do. 230 00:22:41.860 --> 00:22:45.500 They say, oh, women over 50, that's not a niche. 231 00:22:45.500 --> 00:22:48.500 That's half the population, right? 232 00:22:48.500 --> 00:22:50.180 If I say, what's your big promise? 233 00:22:50.180 --> 00:22:53.220 What's your value proposition? 234 00:22:53.220 --> 00:22:55.220 They can't answer that question. 235 00:22:55.220 --> 00:22:58.700 If I say, what's your irresistible package? 236 00:22:58.700 --> 00:23:01.060 All they can do is tell me hours or sessions. 237 00:23:01.060 --> 00:23:03.700 That's not what people buy. 238 00:23:03.700 --> 00:23:07.020 So I do a business breakthrough one day intensive, right? 239 00:23:07.020 --> 00:23:10.300 So my point is, what have they been doing? 240 00:23:10.300 --> 00:23:14.380 Why two to five years and they're still not making money? 241 00:23:14.380 --> 00:23:22.820 Because of this very thing that Martha, that Jesus talked to Martha, you got many things. 242 00:23:22.820 --> 00:23:26.380 So they think that they're going to save money. 243 00:23:26.380 --> 00:23:30.240 They try because they weren't trained in business in their coach certification. 244 00:23:30.240 --> 00:23:36.540 So they go to all the gurus online and one of them says, you need to write a book. 245 00:23:36.540 --> 00:23:38.020 So they're trying to write a book. 246 00:23:38.020 --> 00:23:40.620 Another says, you need to do a podcast. 247 00:23:40.620 --> 00:23:42.380 So they're trying to do a podcast. 248 00:23:42.380 --> 00:23:44.540 So they're trying to be their own copywriters. 249 00:23:44.540 --> 00:23:46.580 They're trying to write their own emails. 250 00:23:46.580 --> 00:23:48.900 They're trying to be their own social media experts. 251 00:23:48.900 --> 00:23:51.140 They're trying to be their own lead generation. 252 00:23:51.140 --> 00:23:52.140 They're trying. 253 00:23:52.140 --> 00:23:55.380 And so they're juggling a million balls. 254 00:23:55.380 --> 00:23:57.540 Like can any of you relate? 255 00:23:57.540 --> 00:24:01.700 You know, put in the chat, you're talking to me, right? 256 00:24:01.700 --> 00:24:05.020 And so this is why it's the same scenario. 257 00:24:05.020 --> 00:24:10.660 What Jesus says, he says, you're concerned about many things, but you really only need 258 00:24:10.660 --> 00:24:15.580 to be concerned with a few, even one. 259 00:24:15.580 --> 00:24:18.700 And this is so powerful. 260 00:24:18.700 --> 00:24:23.940 It's what I want to teach you today, practically speaking. 261 00:24:23.940 --> 00:24:37.500 So we've got to clear the clutter and there's lots of clutter and we've got to take back 262 00:24:37.500 --> 00:24:39.980 our power, right? 263 00:24:40.300 --> 00:24:44.140 So we've been talking about this the whole way. 264 00:24:44.140 --> 00:24:49.020 We've got to take back our God-given ability to choose. 265 00:24:49.020 --> 00:24:52.420 Again, there's God's part and yours part. 266 00:24:52.420 --> 00:24:54.740 Your part is to choose. 267 00:24:54.740 --> 00:24:56.380 God doesn't choose for you. 268 00:24:56.380 --> 00:24:59.860 He's already chosen for you. 269 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:07.280 to you to choose to take back your God-given power of choice. 270 00:25:07.280 --> 00:25:11.080 That power of choice, I'd like you to think of the word 271 00:25:11.080 --> 00:25:12.320 allocation. 272 00:25:12.320 --> 00:25:14.280 Put in the chat, allocation. 273 00:25:14.280 --> 00:25:17.120 Put in your notes, allocation. 274 00:25:17.120 --> 00:25:21.240 Allocation is where you have a certain number of resources, 275 00:25:21.240 --> 00:25:26.920 be it time, be it energy, be it money, and you allocate. 276 00:25:26.920 --> 00:25:29.800 In other words, you consciously choose 277 00:25:29.800 --> 00:25:33.600 how you're going to spend. 278 00:25:33.600 --> 00:25:38.960 So we've got to choose how we spend our time. 279 00:25:38.960 --> 00:25:42.040 We've got to choose, even probably more importantly, 280 00:25:42.040 --> 00:25:45.200 how we spend our energy. 281 00:25:45.200 --> 00:25:50.400 We've got to choose how we spend our money. 282 00:25:50.400 --> 00:25:56.640 We're literally choosing how we spend our life. 283 00:25:57.400 --> 00:26:00.400 And what is the priority? 284 00:26:00.400 --> 00:26:03.920 So Mary understood priorities. 285 00:26:03.920 --> 00:26:05.640 She understood that there'll always 286 00:26:05.640 --> 00:26:07.560 be a million things to do. 287 00:26:07.560 --> 00:26:11.520 There's always a million things to do. 288 00:26:11.520 --> 00:26:14.640 We've got the curse of the blessing. 289 00:26:14.640 --> 00:26:18.080 People complain, man, I had to do three loads of laundry. 290 00:26:18.080 --> 00:26:21.720 And I say, what a blessing that not only you 291 00:26:21.720 --> 00:26:25.600 have a washing machine, but you've got that much laundry. 292 00:26:25.600 --> 00:26:28.720 Because I've lived overseas. 293 00:26:28.720 --> 00:26:33.960 And in most countries, they've got two sets of clothing. 294 00:26:33.960 --> 00:26:35.960 One thing that they wear and they 295 00:26:35.960 --> 00:26:37.800 wash every single day in the summer, 296 00:26:37.800 --> 00:26:40.480 and one that they wear and wash everything. 297 00:26:40.480 --> 00:26:48.160 Even 20 years ago, being in Korea, that's how it was. 298 00:26:48.160 --> 00:26:51.160 And so, yeah, we've got so much stuff 299 00:26:51.160 --> 00:26:54.200 now that it's consuming our space, and our time, 300 00:26:54.200 --> 00:26:57.200 and our energy of taking care of it. 301 00:26:57.200 --> 00:26:58.920 But we get to allocate. 302 00:26:58.920 --> 00:27:03.400 And like Mary, we can choose what's the one thing. 303 00:27:03.400 --> 00:27:07.360 And the very first thing, Jesus said, seek first. 304 00:27:07.360 --> 00:27:09.440 Seek first. 305 00:27:09.440 --> 00:27:10.800 Seek primary. 306 00:27:10.800 --> 00:27:15.920 Seek first the kingdom of God. 307 00:27:15.920 --> 00:27:19.160 And all these things will be added. 308 00:27:19.160 --> 00:27:21.680 He said, don't worry about what you're going to eat, 309 00:27:21.720 --> 00:27:26.280 what you're going to wear, how you're going to pay your bills. 310 00:27:26.280 --> 00:27:30.520 He said, the pagans, they worry about that. 311 00:27:30.520 --> 00:27:31.920 Not you. 312 00:27:31.920 --> 00:27:32.800 Not you. 313 00:27:32.800 --> 00:27:35.760 If you understand that God has said 314 00:27:35.760 --> 00:27:38.480 he would supply all your needs, that he has 315 00:27:38.480 --> 00:27:40.600 said you can partner with him. 316 00:27:40.600 --> 00:27:43.520 So we don't have to use our space for worry. 317 00:27:43.520 --> 00:27:46.840 So we allocate. 318 00:27:46.840 --> 00:27:48.720 How about my mind? 319 00:27:48.760 --> 00:27:53.800 What gets my attention on a daily basis? 320 00:27:53.800 --> 00:27:56.880 Because we talked about what we focus on expands. 321 00:27:56.880 --> 00:27:58.880 What gets my attention? 322 00:27:58.880 --> 00:28:00.640 What gets my energy? 323 00:28:00.640 --> 00:28:02.320 What gets my time? 324 00:28:02.320 --> 00:28:04.120 What gets my talents? 325 00:28:04.120 --> 00:28:06.040 What gets my treasure? 326 00:28:06.040 --> 00:28:07.240 We choose. 327 00:28:07.240 --> 00:28:09.240 We consciously choose. 328 00:28:09.240 --> 00:28:12.480 And we allocate. 329 00:28:12.480 --> 00:28:15.360 I want to show you something. 330 00:28:15.360 --> 00:28:17.880 How many of you is this hitting home? 331 00:28:17.880 --> 00:28:20.760 How many of you is this important 332 00:28:20.760 --> 00:28:22.640 as we look at applying this? 333 00:28:22.640 --> 00:28:23.160 Yeah? 334 00:28:23.160 --> 00:28:24.120 OK. 335 00:28:24.120 --> 00:28:24.760 All right. 336 00:28:24.760 --> 00:28:26.960 I'm going to share my screen. 337 00:28:26.960 --> 00:28:30.760 I'm going to share something with you right now, 338 00:28:30.760 --> 00:28:32.200 this picture. 339 00:28:32.200 --> 00:28:40.360 And this comes from a book called 10x is easier than 2x. 340 00:28:40.360 --> 00:28:43.440 There's two books that I highly, highly recommend. 341 00:28:43.440 --> 00:28:46.520 One is called Be Your Future Self Now, 342 00:28:46.520 --> 00:28:49.080 which lets you get a really clear vision. 343 00:28:49.080 --> 00:28:52.560 Because without vision, the people perish. 344 00:28:52.560 --> 00:28:57.920 And the second is this one, which is 10x is easier than 2x. 345 00:28:57.920 --> 00:29:01.080 For those of you who have been striving, for those of you 346 00:29:01.080 --> 00:29:04.400 who have been grinding, for those of you 347 00:29:04.400 --> 00:29:07.160 who've been sacrificing, you've done it. 348 00:29:07.160 --> 00:29:08.240 You've been pushing. 349 00:29:08.240 --> 00:29:11.040 You've been sacrificing sleep, and health, and energy, 350 00:29:11.040 --> 00:29:13.040 and everything else trying to build your business. 351 00:29:13.040 --> 00:29:14.960 And you're still not where you want to be. 352 00:29:15.000 --> 00:29:18.800 You've been trying to do the 2x model. 353 00:29:18.800 --> 00:29:22.840 And so you've heard of the 80-20 rule, right? 354 00:29:22.840 --> 00:29:27.800 And the 80-20 rule is that 20% of what you're doing 355 00:29:27.800 --> 00:29:31.480 is producing 80% of the results. 356 00:29:31.480 --> 00:29:35.960 So this is about knowing what is your 20% that's 357 00:29:35.960 --> 00:29:37.680 producing your results. 358 00:29:37.680 --> 00:29:41.680 Now, most people, when they try to increase their business 359 00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:44.040 and grow their business, they just push harder. 360 00:29:44.200 --> 00:29:46.600 And so they take the 2x model. 361 00:29:46.600 --> 00:29:49.160 So they keep the 80% the same. 362 00:29:49.160 --> 00:29:51.800 They keep, I'm still going to keep doing this, and doing that, 363 00:29:51.800 --> 00:29:53.400 and doing this, and doing that. 364 00:29:53.400 --> 00:29:54.360 I'm going to push this. 365 00:29:54.360 --> 00:29:55.280 I'm going to try that. 366 00:29:55.280 --> 00:29:56.960 And they add 20% new. 367 00:29:56.960 --> 00:29:59.040 OK, I'm going to add podcasting. 368 00:29:59.040 --> 00:30:01.480 OK, I'm going to add. 369 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:02.280 at a book, OK, I'm going to add. 370 00:30:02.280 --> 00:30:04.600 And so they add 20% new. 371 00:30:04.600 --> 00:30:07.360 That's the 2x mindset. 372 00:30:07.360 --> 00:30:10.320 And you'll be lucky if you 2x with that. 373 00:30:10.320 --> 00:30:12.760 Most likely, you're going to burn out and get tired. 374 00:30:12.760 --> 00:30:16.120 And you're going to be in that category I mentioned. 375 00:30:16.120 --> 00:30:21.760 In this book, the concept, which Dan Sullivan, 376 00:30:21.760 --> 00:30:25.000 he is like old timer, old timer. 377 00:30:25.000 --> 00:30:27.720 Like he's been mentoring the top leaders for years. 378 00:30:27.720 --> 00:30:30.440 I was listening to him 30, 40 years ago. 379 00:30:30.440 --> 00:30:33.480 I mean, this man, when it comes to leadership, 380 00:30:33.480 --> 00:30:35.800 we're going like way back. 381 00:30:35.800 --> 00:30:38.080 And yet, still here he is, bestseller, 382 00:30:38.080 --> 00:30:40.080 creating change right now. 383 00:30:40.080 --> 00:30:45.680 Benjamin Hardy has a degree in organizational psychology. 384 00:30:45.680 --> 00:30:49.000 And he really brings all the new research 385 00:30:49.000 --> 00:30:51.200 and all the new psychology. 386 00:30:51.200 --> 00:30:56.680 And so this model is very different. 387 00:30:56.680 --> 00:31:00.960 The 10x model says that you're only 388 00:31:00.960 --> 00:31:06.720 going to keep the 20% what is most important. 389 00:31:06.720 --> 00:31:08.960 Looks like a typo in there in existing, doesn't it? 390 00:31:08.960 --> 00:31:10.720 I didn't type that. 391 00:31:10.720 --> 00:31:11.680 Somebody else did that. 392 00:31:11.680 --> 00:31:15.360 But anyway, you're going to keep the 20% that's producing. 393 00:31:15.360 --> 00:31:21.200 You're going to let go of 80%. 394 00:31:21.240 --> 00:31:27.680 You're going to let go of 80% of what you have been doing. 395 00:31:27.680 --> 00:31:31.480 This is why I say you're going to do way less and achieve 396 00:31:31.480 --> 00:31:32.640 way more. 397 00:31:32.640 --> 00:31:36.240 Now, every time I have wanted to scale my income, 398 00:31:36.240 --> 00:31:39.000 Prosper and All Things started in 2012. 399 00:31:39.000 --> 00:31:41.200 It's grown every year. 400 00:31:41.200 --> 00:31:43.640 And every time I wanted to scale. 401 00:31:43.640 --> 00:31:46.560 So when I started, I have to tell you, 402 00:31:46.560 --> 00:31:51.440 I was like a maniac everything I did when I started. 403 00:31:51.440 --> 00:31:54.680 I had like a podcast going back 2012. 404 00:31:54.680 --> 00:31:58.600 I did Motivate Me Monday every single Monday morning. 405 00:31:58.600 --> 00:32:01.600 I did BBSC, Bible-based spiritual equipping. 406 00:32:01.600 --> 00:32:05.760 I did a full one-hour Bible study every Tuesday morning. 407 00:32:05.760 --> 00:32:09.880 I did quarterly live events in hotels, 408 00:32:09.880 --> 00:32:14.440 in resorts that I needed to reserve and rent. 409 00:32:14.440 --> 00:32:17.360 And I met people in person. 410 00:32:17.360 --> 00:32:19.400 And I did in-person workshops. 411 00:32:19.400 --> 00:32:22.800 And I did in-person VIPs. 412 00:32:22.800 --> 00:32:26.120 And so I was just like, go, go, go. 413 00:32:26.120 --> 00:32:29.000 And it was like, no, no. 414 00:32:29.000 --> 00:32:29.920 I'm committed. 415 00:32:29.920 --> 00:32:33.000 I made a commitment back in 2012 to work 416 00:32:33.000 --> 00:32:35.440 3 and 1 1 days a week. 417 00:32:35.440 --> 00:32:38.600 So I would have 3 and 1 1 days to be 418 00:32:38.600 --> 00:32:43.000 able to do all the other things God has been calling me to do. 419 00:32:43.000 --> 00:32:44.760 And I have held that. 420 00:32:44.760 --> 00:32:49.800 I have worked 3 and 1 1 days a week for 10 years. 421 00:32:49.800 --> 00:32:51.200 So I let go. 422 00:32:51.200 --> 00:32:55.640 So you're letting go of the good so 423 00:32:55.640 --> 00:32:57.080 that you can pursue the great. 424 00:32:57.080 --> 00:32:58.760 So I let go of Motivate Me Monday. 425 00:32:58.760 --> 00:32:59.480 It was powerful. 426 00:32:59.480 --> 00:33:00.680 Everybody loved it. 427 00:33:00.680 --> 00:33:01.520 I let it go. 428 00:33:01.520 --> 00:33:03.240 I let go of BBSC. 429 00:33:03.240 --> 00:33:06.280 I let go of doing live events in hotels. 430 00:33:06.280 --> 00:33:09.240 I let go of traveling to meet clients. 431 00:33:09.240 --> 00:33:11.520 And I put everything online. 432 00:33:11.520 --> 00:33:17.280 And this is, I think it was 2016, long before 2020, OK? 433 00:33:17.280 --> 00:33:19.880 Maybe 2014, I think it was. 434 00:33:19.880 --> 00:33:21.960 I went totally online. 435 00:33:21.960 --> 00:33:26.600 And God was preparing for what was coming, all right? 436 00:33:26.600 --> 00:33:33.440 So what I want you to begin to look at, first of all, 437 00:33:33.440 --> 00:33:36.840 begin to look at what that you're doing 438 00:33:36.840 --> 00:33:38.400 is producing income. 439 00:33:38.400 --> 00:33:42.600 What are income-generating activities? 440 00:33:42.600 --> 00:33:45.520 And what are not? 441 00:33:45.520 --> 00:33:50.320 So I like to think in terms of D's, OK? 442 00:33:50.320 --> 00:33:54.120 There's things that only you can do. 443 00:33:54.120 --> 00:33:56.720 And you've got to figure out, what are those? 444 00:33:56.720 --> 00:33:59.520 What are the things that only you can do? 445 00:33:59.520 --> 00:34:03.280 There's things that you can delegate. 446 00:34:03.280 --> 00:34:06.400 And the more you learn to delegate 447 00:34:06.400 --> 00:34:10.000 and the more you learn to think in terms of ROI, 448 00:34:10.000 --> 00:34:12.080 the more your business will grow. 449 00:34:12.080 --> 00:34:15.159 So for example, one of the first things I delegated 450 00:34:15.159 --> 00:34:17.840 was lead generation, OK? 451 00:34:17.840 --> 00:34:21.159 And so for, I don't know now, I want to say four years. 452 00:34:21.159 --> 00:34:22.400 It might have been five years. 453 00:34:22.400 --> 00:34:24.800 But it's been at least four years. 454 00:34:24.800 --> 00:34:29.960 I've had a permanent organic lead gen gal. 455 00:34:29.960 --> 00:34:34.760 And she keeps my calendar full with calls, with new people. 456 00:34:34.760 --> 00:34:38.320 And they are my exact dream client. 457 00:34:38.320 --> 00:34:42.040 So I don't have to think about going out and generating leads. 458 00:34:42.040 --> 00:34:44.239 Do you know how that frees your mind? 459 00:34:44.239 --> 00:34:45.639 It frees your income. 460 00:34:45.639 --> 00:34:46.800 It frees your life. 461 00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:49.600 Now, most people won't take that risk. 462 00:34:49.600 --> 00:34:53.880 It was very hard, even for me back then. 463 00:34:53.880 --> 00:34:56.639 Back then, I think I started paying $800 a month 464 00:34:56.639 --> 00:35:00.960 when I first started doing that to get the organic lead gen. 465 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.040 But having been in business for three decades, 466 00:35:04.040 --> 00:35:08.000 I think like a business woman, I think ROI. 467 00:35:08.000 --> 00:35:11.480 I wanna teach each one of you to think ROI, 468 00:35:11.480 --> 00:35:12.920 return on investment. 469 00:35:12.920 --> 00:35:16.560 In other words, let's pretend it's a slot machine 470 00:35:16.560 --> 00:35:20.620 for a second, just for ease or magic machine. 471 00:35:20.620 --> 00:35:25.620 If you put in $800 and 1500 came out most every month, 472 00:35:26.620 --> 00:35:31.620 are you okay putting the 800 in and 1500 comes out? 473 00:35:33.220 --> 00:35:37.580 Or you put in 800 and 1500 comes out, 474 00:35:37.580 --> 00:35:40.480 but then you understand the lifetime value of a client. 475 00:35:40.480 --> 00:35:44.120 And actually that translates to tens of thousands. 476 00:35:44.120 --> 00:35:46.380 Is it worth to keep spending? 477 00:35:46.380 --> 00:35:49.860 Because most people have a consumer mindset 478 00:35:49.860 --> 00:35:51.980 and they think I don't wanna spend money. 479 00:35:51.980 --> 00:35:54.180 I'll figure out how to find my own leads. 480 00:35:54.220 --> 00:35:55.180 I'll do that. 481 00:35:55.180 --> 00:35:56.940 So they don't delegate. 482 00:35:56.940 --> 00:36:01.940 So I delegated that, boom, lead generation solved, okay? 483 00:36:01.960 --> 00:36:05.140 Then I delegated copywriting. 484 00:36:05.140 --> 00:36:07.900 I'm a full-time copywriter, right? 485 00:36:07.900 --> 00:36:11.460 And so I could have high quality, 486 00:36:11.460 --> 00:36:16.100 powerful content going out, okay? 487 00:36:16.100 --> 00:36:18.700 I keep my own personal content. 488 00:36:18.700 --> 00:36:21.920 Like I personally post every day on social media 489 00:36:21.920 --> 00:36:25.200 because it's my heart, my soul giving out. 490 00:36:25.200 --> 00:36:28.280 And then from that, my copywriter can build 491 00:36:28.280 --> 00:36:31.280 and go miles with my thoughts, 492 00:36:31.280 --> 00:36:33.420 with my heart and take it further. 493 00:36:33.420 --> 00:36:38.160 So one is D, what only you can or choose to do. 494 00:36:38.160 --> 00:36:39.540 One is delegate. 495 00:36:39.540 --> 00:36:41.120 What do I need to let go of? 496 00:36:41.120 --> 00:36:44.420 To 10X, I got to let go of 80% of things. 497 00:36:44.420 --> 00:36:45.920 I had to let go of lead gen. 498 00:36:45.920 --> 00:36:48.480 I had to let go of writing emails every day. 499 00:36:48.480 --> 00:36:50.480 I had to let go, okay? 500 00:36:50.480 --> 00:36:52.240 Now the beautiful thing, 501 00:36:52.240 --> 00:36:56.000 and what I'm going to be teaching you, that's amazing. 502 00:36:56.000 --> 00:36:57.280 It's a whole new era. 503 00:36:57.280 --> 00:36:59.600 It's a wonderful new era. 504 00:36:59.600 --> 00:37:02.180 In the Prosper Leader membership, 505 00:37:02.180 --> 00:37:04.000 and Linda, please put the link for that. 506 00:37:04.000 --> 00:37:05.440 I don't want to forget. 507 00:37:05.440 --> 00:37:07.920 I'm offering you the Prosper Leader membership 508 00:37:07.920 --> 00:37:10.080 for only $99 a month. 509 00:37:10.080 --> 00:37:14.440 I'm going to be diving deep with you in the coming months. 510 00:37:14.440 --> 00:37:16.580 All right, starting in July, 511 00:37:16.580 --> 00:37:19.680 how you can save 15 to 20 hours a week. 512 00:37:19.680 --> 00:37:22.800 I'm going to teach you how to use technology 513 00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:27.240 that now you may not need to hire some of these things 514 00:37:27.240 --> 00:37:32.200 because now you can have your heart, your content, 515 00:37:32.200 --> 00:37:35.200 like you can become omnipresent in minutes, 516 00:37:35.200 --> 00:37:36.820 what used to take hours. 517 00:37:36.820 --> 00:37:40.400 I'm going to pull back all the secrets of how I do that, 518 00:37:40.400 --> 00:37:41.240 okay? 519 00:37:41.240 --> 00:37:43.280 So I'm going to be teaching that. 520 00:37:43.280 --> 00:37:47.120 So in the Prosper Leader membership, 521 00:37:47.120 --> 00:37:50.880 not only do we have two group coaching a month 522 00:37:51.840 --> 00:37:54.840 and masterminding and powerful group coaching, 523 00:37:54.840 --> 00:37:59.840 but every Thursday, we're also have an office hours, okay? 524 00:38:01.960 --> 00:38:04.480 And I'm bringing in experts and I'm teaching 525 00:38:04.480 --> 00:38:06.640 so that every week I'm breaking this down. 526 00:38:06.640 --> 00:38:09.360 So like what you would have to pay me 527 00:38:09.360 --> 00:38:11.280 in one-on-one coaching to get this, 528 00:38:11.280 --> 00:38:14.160 you know, I mean, this is the best deal ever. 529 00:38:14.160 --> 00:38:16.840 So if you want to be part of a community, 530 00:38:17.600 --> 00:38:18.440 you want to be growing, 531 00:38:18.440 --> 00:38:20.680 you want content like you're getting like this 532 00:38:20.680 --> 00:38:22.000 every single week, 533 00:38:22.000 --> 00:38:24.520 be sure you join the Prosper Leader membership. 534 00:38:24.520 --> 00:38:26.700 Okay, so what are you going to do? 535 00:38:26.700 --> 00:38:29.240 What are you going to delegate? 536 00:38:29.240 --> 00:38:32.600 What are you going to delay that, you know, 537 00:38:32.600 --> 00:38:35.320 there was things that I really wanted to do 538 00:38:35.320 --> 00:38:37.280 that I had to just delay. 539 00:38:37.280 --> 00:38:39.720 So for example, I got a keyboard 540 00:38:39.720 --> 00:38:43.880 and I really wanted to start playing and it's sitting there. 541 00:38:43.880 --> 00:38:45.920 And then I had to just say, you know what? 542 00:38:45.920 --> 00:38:49.480 No guilt, this is going to wait. 543 00:38:49.480 --> 00:38:52.520 That's got a delay, right? 544 00:38:52.520 --> 00:38:54.520 I haven't started a podcast. 545 00:38:54.520 --> 00:38:58.240 I know the value of it, delay. 546 00:38:58.240 --> 00:39:01.120 I'm going to focus, I'm going to be on other people's podcast 547 00:39:01.120 --> 00:39:04.040 but I'm going to focus the best use of my time right now. 548 00:39:04.040 --> 00:39:05.800 So there's things you need to delay 549 00:39:05.800 --> 00:39:08.960 and there's things you just need to let go of and delete. 550 00:39:08.960 --> 00:39:11.560 They're not serving you, they're not in your gifting, 551 00:39:11.560 --> 00:39:15.340 they're not in your talents and they're taking up your time. 552 00:39:15.340 --> 00:39:18.740 And so, you know, what's consuming your time 553 00:39:18.740 --> 00:39:21.420 that's got to be deleted, okay? 554 00:39:21.420 --> 00:39:25.140 And you can look at that when you're allocating 555 00:39:25.140 --> 00:39:28.660 in all ways, okay? 556 00:39:28.660 --> 00:39:33.660 So it's this idea of being able to focus, right? 557 00:39:38.720 --> 00:39:43.720 On that 20% and go all in with 80% of your time 558 00:39:44.560 --> 00:39:48.400 on those things that are producing results. 559 00:39:48.400 --> 00:39:53.400 So to do that, you need to, first of all, get super clear. 560 00:39:55.640 --> 00:39:58.880 Like, first of all, one of the first things I do 561 00:39:58.880 --> 00:40:00.320 and if you haven't scheduled. 562 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.720 to call with me, schedule, we'll start looking at where you're at, where you're trying to go, 563 00:40:04.720 --> 00:40:11.440 what's keeping you stuck, okay? So schedule a call with me. One of the things I do in a one-day 564 00:40:11.440 --> 00:40:19.840 business breakthrough intensive is I start by making sure that you've got a written business 565 00:40:20.480 --> 00:40:27.920 vision statement. My experience is that people will follow a vision even more than they'll follow 566 00:40:27.920 --> 00:40:34.480 a person. My experience is a written vision statement that like makes you cry and I'm not 567 00:40:34.480 --> 00:40:39.520 talking about your personal. Many of you have a personal one, oh I travel the world, I'm married 568 00:40:39.520 --> 00:40:44.720 to the man of my dreams, I have a house on the beach. I'm not talking about that, your personal. 569 00:40:44.720 --> 00:40:52.480 I'm talking about your business vision statement because let me tell you, your team members will 570 00:40:52.480 --> 00:41:00.480 come alive with your vision, your clients will follow your vision, you will be motivated by your 571 00:41:00.480 --> 00:41:07.120 vision. So we get a written vision statement then we get absolutely clear on your niche. 572 00:41:07.760 --> 00:41:14.800 Too many of you are trying to serve too big. I know that what you do, I understand coaching can 573 00:41:14.800 --> 00:41:23.440 help everyone. I get it, I get you want to help so many people, okay? What I have found in this 574 00:41:23.440 --> 00:41:32.320 market is that if we can hyper niche you, okay, and I will come up with that with you, hyper niche 575 00:41:32.320 --> 00:41:39.920 so that you become the expert, you become the one that they refer on this subject, you become 576 00:41:40.000 --> 00:41:47.520 like working with your exact client and when you have that then you can really hone in what is 577 00:41:47.520 --> 00:41:54.560 their now problem, what are they struggling with right now so that you've got a really clear value 578 00:41:54.560 --> 00:42:02.080 proposition, okay? So we have irresistible packages, irresistible pricing, so these things have to be 579 00:42:02.080 --> 00:42:08.880 in place. These are foundation because, okay, let's look, you want to build a prosperous faith 580 00:42:08.880 --> 00:42:16.240 integrated business. So let's assume you have now created space and you're starting every day 581 00:42:16.240 --> 00:42:23.840 with God, you're being filled up, you've created space that you're doing what's most important, 582 00:42:23.840 --> 00:42:31.920 okay? Then you have to have two or three things for you to be prosperous, okay? In other words, 583 00:42:31.920 --> 00:42:38.400 having high paying clients coming to you. You got to have two or three things. You've got to be 584 00:42:38.480 --> 00:42:46.160 absolutely clear on those things that I just mentioned. You have to be able to have a very 585 00:42:46.160 --> 00:42:55.280 heart-centered successful sales conversation. Let me tell you, it's so easy to diagnose. 586 00:42:56.640 --> 00:43:01.520 You come to me and you tell me you're making less than ten thousand dollars a year in your business 587 00:43:02.480 --> 00:43:08.560 and I say to you, what's your niche and you can't answer, what's your value proposition, 588 00:43:08.560 --> 00:43:17.200 blah, blah, blah. And I say to you, let me ask you, this week we're already Thursday. 589 00:43:18.880 --> 00:43:25.760 I want you to think about this. How many offers, I'm talking irresistible offers, how many offers 590 00:43:25.760 --> 00:43:32.960 did you make this week? Now, let me be clear, what's an offer? An offer is an opportunity 591 00:43:32.960 --> 00:43:43.760 for your ideal client to say yes or no to joining you, okay? How many offers did you make this week? 592 00:43:45.200 --> 00:43:52.480 Pop in a number in the chat. I'm so curious. Be real, please, because truth is how we build, 593 00:43:52.480 --> 00:43:57.280 okay? There's no shame, there's no condemnation, there's no guilt. But how many? Just, I want to 594 00:43:57.280 --> 00:44:05.040 see in the chat. Pop it in the chat. Let me see. How many offers have you made this week? And 595 00:44:07.760 --> 00:44:12.560 zero. Thanks for your honesty. Zero. Thank you for your honesty. 596 00:44:12.800 --> 00:44:23.680 Come on, who else is going to tell the truth? Okay, one. Congratulations. Three. Way to go. Who else? 597 00:44:26.400 --> 00:44:36.400 One. Okay. This is the norm. So here's the thing. You want to build a business, you need sales, 598 00:44:36.400 --> 00:44:45.600 you need clients. But if you're not making any offers, or the offers are not irresistible, 599 00:44:46.160 --> 00:44:52.000 or you do not know how to have a successful sales conversation, you cannot 600 00:44:53.760 --> 00:44:59.840 have the sales, you cannot have the income, right? So, ooh, go, go. 601 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:02.420 Earl, who just put, was it Tamara who put five? 602 00:45:02.420 --> 00:45:06.480 Go girl, way to go, love it. 603 00:45:06.480 --> 00:45:08.860 Okay, now I want you to understand the difference 604 00:45:08.860 --> 00:45:13.160 between an invite and an offer, okay? 605 00:45:13.160 --> 00:45:15.540 An invite is, hey, let's have a call. 606 00:45:15.540 --> 00:45:16.940 I'd love to have a call with you. 607 00:45:16.940 --> 00:45:18.580 That's not an offer. 608 00:45:18.580 --> 00:45:20.500 Hey, check out this landing page. 609 00:45:20.500 --> 00:45:23.940 That's an invite, that's not an offer. 610 00:45:23.940 --> 00:45:26.980 An offer is when I present to you 611 00:45:26.980 --> 00:45:29.220 and preferably two choices. 612 00:45:29.220 --> 00:45:32.940 So let's say you have a choice of doing 613 00:45:32.940 --> 00:45:36.160 a one day business breakthrough intensive with me 614 00:45:36.160 --> 00:45:40.940 or a 90 day, okay, which is better for you 615 00:45:40.940 --> 00:45:43.960 and they have an opportunity, okay? 616 00:45:43.960 --> 00:45:47.780 So that's an offer that they have a chance. 617 00:45:47.780 --> 00:45:51.720 So no, I'd say an invite is planting seeds 618 00:45:51.720 --> 00:45:55.320 and an offer is actually an opportunity 619 00:45:55.320 --> 00:45:57.620 to harvest those seeds, okay? 620 00:45:57.620 --> 00:46:02.080 Because an offer has a place for a yes or no. 621 00:46:02.080 --> 00:46:06.880 So if I was to say, hey, I invite you all 622 00:46:06.880 --> 00:46:09.720 to join the Prosper Leader membership. 623 00:46:09.720 --> 00:46:13.080 You wanna be part of a like-minded community 624 00:46:13.080 --> 00:46:16.640 of amazing women and the things that are happening 625 00:46:16.640 --> 00:46:18.600 in that Prosper Leadership, I mean, 626 00:46:18.600 --> 00:46:21.180 we've got accountability partners, prayer partners. 627 00:46:21.180 --> 00:46:23.680 We got people supporting each other in need. 628 00:46:23.680 --> 00:46:24.760 We've got business partners. 629 00:46:24.760 --> 00:46:27.220 I mean, there's all kinds of stuff happening 630 00:46:27.720 --> 00:46:30.800 and I'm there coaching you every single week. 631 00:46:30.800 --> 00:46:34.320 I wanna invite you, grab this discount. 632 00:46:34.320 --> 00:46:36.440 It's normally 197 a month. 633 00:46:36.440 --> 00:46:38.520 Grab the Prosper Leader membership. 634 00:46:38.520 --> 00:46:40.000 That's an invite. 635 00:46:41.020 --> 00:46:42.240 That's not an offer. 636 00:46:42.240 --> 00:46:44.720 That's an invite, okay? 637 00:46:44.720 --> 00:46:47.320 But I'm on the phone with you 638 00:46:47.320 --> 00:46:51.500 and I have listened to where your stock 639 00:46:51.500 --> 00:46:55.840 and what's important to you and what are your needs. 640 00:46:55.840 --> 00:46:57.220 Yes, I love that, Tamara. 641 00:46:57.220 --> 00:46:59.660 An invite is planting seeds, absolutely. 642 00:46:59.660 --> 00:47:04.660 Okay, and so I'm listening to you and I hear, 643 00:47:07.620 --> 00:47:09.700 yeah, I really need to get sales. 644 00:47:09.700 --> 00:47:11.020 I really need to get my business. 645 00:47:11.020 --> 00:47:12.500 It's really important to me. 646 00:47:12.500 --> 00:47:13.380 This is my day. 647 00:47:13.380 --> 00:47:16.700 And I'm very clear on where you're struggling, 648 00:47:16.700 --> 00:47:18.540 what's your pain, what's your needs. 649 00:47:18.540 --> 00:47:19.960 And I say to you, you know what? 650 00:47:19.960 --> 00:47:21.940 Here's what I recommend. 651 00:47:21.940 --> 00:47:23.380 First of all, let's get clarity. 652 00:47:23.380 --> 00:47:25.180 Let's do a call. 653 00:47:25.200 --> 00:47:27.840 Let's do a one-day business breakthrough intensive 654 00:47:27.840 --> 00:47:30.520 so you have all of that clear. 655 00:47:30.520 --> 00:47:34.720 Or if you need someone to support you a full 90 days 656 00:47:34.720 --> 00:47:38.280 and you want to be working through every step 657 00:47:38.280 --> 00:47:41.240 of implementing the technology, 658 00:47:41.240 --> 00:47:44.120 the wording and the marketing, get your sales skills. 659 00:47:44.120 --> 00:47:48.040 You want me working with you one-on-one over 90 days. 660 00:47:48.040 --> 00:47:50.520 And I say, which is better for you? 661 00:47:50.520 --> 00:47:54.480 The one-day breakthrough intensive or the 90 days? 662 00:47:54.500 --> 00:47:56.740 And you go, oh, definitely. 663 00:47:56.740 --> 00:47:58.380 I think I want to start with the one day. 664 00:47:58.380 --> 00:47:59.260 I need that. 665 00:47:59.260 --> 00:48:00.740 I absolutely need that. 666 00:48:00.740 --> 00:48:02.260 And I go, great, here's a link. 667 00:48:02.260 --> 00:48:04.020 Go ahead and click it. 668 00:48:04.020 --> 00:48:05.420 As soon as you click on that, 669 00:48:05.420 --> 00:48:08.220 I'm going to start sending you templates to get you ready. 670 00:48:08.220 --> 00:48:11.060 Then we're going to book three, four, five hours together 671 00:48:11.060 --> 00:48:11.900 on the calendar. 672 00:48:11.900 --> 00:48:14.000 We're going to be one-on-one on a whiteboard. 673 00:48:14.000 --> 00:48:16.620 I'm going to lay out all of your marketing, your messaging. 674 00:48:16.620 --> 00:48:19.260 You're going to have absolute clarity, your vision, 675 00:48:19.260 --> 00:48:22.220 your niche, your packages, your pricing, right? 676 00:48:22.220 --> 00:48:23.140 That's an offer. 677 00:48:23.140 --> 00:48:24.320 I gave you a choice. 678 00:48:24.320 --> 00:48:26.880 You can say yes or no or either or. 679 00:48:26.880 --> 00:48:28.920 Do you all understand the difference? 680 00:48:28.920 --> 00:48:33.920 So now to be able to do this, 681 00:48:33.960 --> 00:48:37.740 you've got to back to the subject that we're talking about. 682 00:48:37.740 --> 00:48:40.060 You have to create space. 683 00:48:41.040 --> 00:48:46.040 And the space is that you have created the space 684 00:48:47.960 --> 00:48:51.520 that you're available to fully show up. 685 00:48:51.520 --> 00:48:56.520 You are able to let God's spirit flow through you. 686 00:48:57.300 --> 00:49:02.300 And you're able to absolutely focus 687 00:49:03.940 --> 00:49:06.860 and keep the main things the main things. 688 00:49:06.860 --> 00:49:08.260 Is that making sense? 689 00:49:08.260 --> 00:49:13.020 If you have questions on what I'm saying, pop it in there. 690 00:49:13.020 --> 00:49:15.860 So yes, clear the clutter. 691 00:49:15.860 --> 00:49:20.860 It's so powerful because if we think about mental clutter, 692 00:49:21.440 --> 00:49:22.960 okay, worry, fear, doubt, 693 00:49:22.960 --> 00:49:25.240 that's just keeping you from stepping into the fullness 694 00:49:25.240 --> 00:49:27.280 of everything God has for you. 695 00:49:27.280 --> 00:49:29.720 Physical clutter, if you're cluttering your body 696 00:49:29.720 --> 00:49:31.840 with lots of, you're clogging your arteries, 697 00:49:31.840 --> 00:49:33.080 you're clogging your lung, 698 00:49:33.080 --> 00:49:35.720 you're clogging everything with junk. 699 00:49:35.720 --> 00:49:38.520 And now you don't have the energy and the stamina 700 00:49:38.520 --> 00:49:40.760 and you're sleepy all the time and you're yawning 701 00:49:40.760 --> 00:49:42.640 and your brain is foggy 702 00:49:42.640 --> 00:49:44.780 because you're cluttering your body. 703 00:49:44.780 --> 00:49:47.000 If you're cluttering your space 704 00:49:47.000 --> 00:49:49.560 and you're spending half your time looking for things 705 00:49:49.580 --> 00:49:51.580 because you can't find things 706 00:49:51.580 --> 00:49:53.740 or you're cluttering your calendar 707 00:49:53.740 --> 00:49:56.460 that you're just letting other people, 708 00:49:56.460 --> 00:50:00.100 you're letting the tail wag the dog like everybody. 709 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:02.520 that asks for your time or demands your time, 710 00:50:02.520 --> 00:50:03.420 you're just giving it. 711 00:50:03.420 --> 00:50:06.640 And you haven't learned how to set boundaries or say no. 712 00:50:06.640 --> 00:50:08.920 And so you don't have time to build it. 713 00:50:08.920 --> 00:50:10.760 And you don't have energy anymore 714 00:50:10.760 --> 00:50:14.160 because you haven't protected your energy. 715 00:50:14.160 --> 00:50:16.880 So all of these things. 716 00:50:16.880 --> 00:50:21.940 And so if we're going to do a practical on clutter, 717 00:50:21.940 --> 00:50:23.440 I'm going to give you a few things. 718 00:50:23.440 --> 00:50:26.960 And then we're going to do a prayer and an exercise 719 00:50:26.960 --> 00:50:30.160 right now that's really, really powerful. 720 00:50:30.160 --> 00:50:37.120 But let's look at one of the first things, OK? 721 00:50:37.120 --> 00:50:40.480 If you're trying to do this and you want to just do it fast 722 00:50:40.480 --> 00:50:42.080 and you just want quick relief and you 723 00:50:42.080 --> 00:50:46.200 want to feel really good, I just pick a spot. 724 00:50:46.200 --> 00:50:47.320 It can be a closet. 725 00:50:47.320 --> 00:50:48.120 It can be a room. 726 00:50:48.120 --> 00:50:50.040 It can be your office. 727 00:50:50.040 --> 00:50:55.720 On a regular basis in my office, I take everything out. 728 00:50:55.720 --> 00:50:59.200 And I clean and I only put back that which I love. 729 00:50:59.200 --> 00:51:00.560 Because I need space. 730 00:51:00.560 --> 00:51:01.440 I can't think. 731 00:51:01.440 --> 00:51:03.760 I can't work if I don't have space. 732 00:51:03.760 --> 00:51:05.600 Soon as things start feeling like they're, 733 00:51:05.600 --> 00:51:06.720 I can just feel it. 734 00:51:06.720 --> 00:51:09.320 I feel like I can't breathe, OK? 735 00:51:09.320 --> 00:51:12.320 But one of the things you could just do on a daily basis 736 00:51:12.320 --> 00:51:15.720 is just dedicate 15 minutes, 30 minutes. 737 00:51:15.720 --> 00:51:17.800 Consistency creates momentum. 738 00:51:17.800 --> 00:51:21.080 Just have three bags, three boxes. 739 00:51:21.080 --> 00:51:23.520 One, what you're going to give away. 740 00:51:23.520 --> 00:51:25.640 One, what you're going to throw away. 741 00:51:25.640 --> 00:51:27.960 And one that you're going to keep. 742 00:51:27.960 --> 00:51:32.680 Now, how do you decide if you're going to keep it? 743 00:51:32.680 --> 00:51:35.000 I ask some really important questions. 744 00:51:35.000 --> 00:51:38.600 One of my favorite questions is, do I love this? 745 00:51:38.600 --> 00:51:41.040 Does it give me bliss? 746 00:51:41.040 --> 00:51:43.200 Like, are there clothes? 747 00:51:43.200 --> 00:51:45.960 The second is, do I use it? 748 00:51:45.960 --> 00:51:49.080 And the third is, are there duplicates? 749 00:51:49.080 --> 00:51:50.640 Like, is this useful? 750 00:51:50.640 --> 00:51:51.840 Do I use it? 751 00:51:51.840 --> 00:51:54.800 Do I have too many of them? 752 00:51:54.800 --> 00:51:58.080 You don't need five of the same thing, 10 of the same thing. 753 00:51:58.080 --> 00:52:01.080 But do I love it? 754 00:52:01.080 --> 00:52:08.360 When you create this space, yes, does it bring joy? 755 00:52:08.360 --> 00:52:09.680 Does it spark joy? 756 00:52:09.680 --> 00:52:11.200 That's on that list as well. 757 00:52:11.200 --> 00:52:13.320 Does it spark joy? 758 00:52:13.320 --> 00:52:15.880 Another question, when's the last time I really used it? 759 00:52:15.880 --> 00:52:18.360 If you're still thinking, well, I think I'm going to use it, 760 00:52:18.360 --> 00:52:21.520 but you haven't used it or worn it in five years, 761 00:52:21.520 --> 00:52:24.200 two years, let it go. 762 00:52:24.200 --> 00:52:27.400 Let it bless somebody else. 763 00:52:27.400 --> 00:52:32.320 And oh, my goodness, the freedom you will experience. 764 00:52:32.320 --> 00:52:39.880 I shared with many of you, I had old stuff in my living room 765 00:52:39.880 --> 00:52:41.720 because it was super expensive. 766 00:52:41.720 --> 00:52:45.720 I had Tommy Bahama furniture, and I 767 00:52:45.720 --> 00:52:48.080 had a tapestry on the wall. 768 00:52:48.080 --> 00:52:49.960 It was really outdated, but it just 769 00:52:49.960 --> 00:52:51.320 cost thousands. 770 00:52:51.320 --> 00:52:53.760 And sometimes we get stuck because something 771 00:52:53.760 --> 00:52:55.360 costs stuff, right? 772 00:52:55.360 --> 00:53:02.120 And so in a matter of 24 hours, I 773 00:53:02.120 --> 00:53:06.080 cleared every single thing out of my living room, everything. 774 00:53:06.080 --> 00:53:07.960 And I donated the couches. 775 00:53:07.960 --> 00:53:09.200 They brought joy to someone. 776 00:53:09.200 --> 00:53:11.480 I put on Facebook Marketplace the tapestry. 777 00:53:11.480 --> 00:53:14.760 Someone said, I've been praying for this, 778 00:53:14.760 --> 00:53:16.920 and they were so thrilled, right? 779 00:53:16.920 --> 00:53:18.480 And junk went out. 780 00:53:18.480 --> 00:53:19.440 Everything went out. 781 00:53:19.440 --> 00:53:22.600 It was like, oh, this is a beautiful room. 782 00:53:22.600 --> 00:53:24.800 It's a very tall ceiling, beautiful. 783 00:53:24.800 --> 00:53:26.240 Open the wood floor. 784 00:53:26.240 --> 00:53:28.200 I could see the wood floor. 785 00:53:28.200 --> 00:53:32.200 And there was such a sense of peace when I did that. 786 00:53:32.200 --> 00:53:35.680 And then I only put back what I love, 787 00:53:35.680 --> 00:53:38.560 and I went and bought myself a couch that I love. 788 00:53:38.560 --> 00:53:42.240 It's got a queen chair at the end that I can sit in. 789 00:53:42.240 --> 00:53:43.840 I don't have a coffee table. 790 00:53:43.840 --> 00:53:45.000 I don't have a rug. 791 00:53:45.000 --> 00:53:48.960 I've got a beautiful bookshelf that I love and a couch. 792 00:53:49.000 --> 00:53:53.880 And I put a beautiful painting above the fireplace, 793 00:53:53.880 --> 00:53:55.240 and that's it. 794 00:53:55.240 --> 00:53:59.880 And when you walk in the room, there's just peace. 795 00:53:59.880 --> 00:54:02.840 This is the fruit of what we're talking about. 796 00:54:02.840 --> 00:54:03.760 Be it your mind. 797 00:54:03.760 --> 00:54:04.680 Be it your body. 798 00:54:04.680 --> 00:54:05.800 Be it your space. 799 00:54:05.800 --> 00:54:07.320 Be it your business. 800 00:54:07.320 --> 00:54:12.840 Stop trying to do everything, and there's peace. 801 00:54:12.840 --> 00:54:17.760 So I'm going to close with one more form of, well, 802 00:54:17.760 --> 00:54:19.240 let me just give you a few thoughts 803 00:54:19.240 --> 00:54:20.920 for emotional-spiritual clutter, then 804 00:54:20.920 --> 00:54:24.360 I'm going to close with prayer. 805 00:54:24.360 --> 00:54:26.400 Here's some questions for you. 806 00:54:26.400 --> 00:54:31.240 What beliefs have held me back or keeping me? 807 00:54:31.240 --> 00:54:33.000 This is emotional clutter. 808 00:54:33.000 --> 00:54:35.720 Kept me playing small. 809 00:54:35.720 --> 00:54:37.200 You make a conscious choice. 810 00:54:37.200 --> 00:54:38.760 I'm going to tell you how to do that. 811 00:54:38.760 --> 00:54:43.760 What fears have kept me from taking action? 812 00:54:43.800 --> 00:54:50.160 What unforgiveness, hurt, or offense has kept me in bondage? 813 00:54:50.160 --> 00:54:54.720 What debts or financial burdens are weighing on me? 814 00:54:54.720 --> 00:54:57.800 What habits or addictions? 815 00:54:57.800 --> 00:55:01.160 Are you addicted to checking social media? 816 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.520 Are you addicted to Netflix? 817 00:55:01.520 --> 00:55:03.480 Are you addicted to sugar? 818 00:55:03.480 --> 00:55:10.160 What is it that is hurting your body, mind, and spirit? 819 00:55:10.160 --> 00:55:14.680 Like the ones with Jesus, who or what from the past 820 00:55:14.680 --> 00:55:19.440 have I been clinging to that's no longer in my highest good? 821 00:55:19.440 --> 00:55:21.920 What secrets or shame are crushing me 822 00:55:21.920 --> 00:55:23.160 or causing me to hide? 823 00:55:23.160 --> 00:55:30.000 What things do I keep on doing that haven't been working, 824 00:55:30.000 --> 00:55:33.240 but I keep on doing them? 825 00:55:33.240 --> 00:55:34.640 Right? 826 00:55:34.640 --> 00:55:36.120 So I'm going to send these to you. 827 00:55:36.120 --> 00:55:37.840 I'm going to give you a graphic. 828 00:55:37.840 --> 00:55:42.080 This is going to go in the Facebook group. 829 00:55:42.080 --> 00:55:44.920 The last thing I want to talk about 830 00:55:44.920 --> 00:55:52.360 is forgiving, blessing, and releasing. 831 00:55:52.360 --> 00:55:55.000 One of the strongest bondage and clutter 832 00:55:55.000 --> 00:56:00.320 that keeps us in emotional debt, keeps us physically sick, 833 00:56:00.320 --> 00:56:03.080 shuts down our immune system, and keeps us financially 834 00:56:03.080 --> 00:56:07.000 in debt is unforgiveness. 835 00:56:07.000 --> 00:56:14.080 Now, not forgiving someone is like drinking a poison, 836 00:56:14.080 --> 00:56:17.320 hoping you're going to hurt the other person. 837 00:56:17.320 --> 00:56:20.400 The truth is, you not forgiving them is not stopping them. 838 00:56:20.400 --> 00:56:22.680 They're going on being, doing whatever. 839 00:56:22.680 --> 00:56:25.880 And the truth is, they may not deserve forgiveness, 840 00:56:25.880 --> 00:56:27.000 but that's not for you. 841 00:56:27.000 --> 00:56:29.080 That's for the Lord. 842 00:56:29.080 --> 00:56:32.520 This is about you being free and stepping 843 00:56:32.520 --> 00:56:38.560 into the fullness of what God has for you. 844 00:56:38.560 --> 00:56:43.720 And so there is a prayer, and there's three words. 845 00:56:43.720 --> 00:56:45.840 And it goes like this. 846 00:56:45.840 --> 00:56:47.240 I forgive you. 847 00:56:47.240 --> 00:56:49.720 And this also can be forgiving yourself. 848 00:56:49.720 --> 00:56:52.360 I forgive you. 849 00:56:52.360 --> 00:56:55.200 I release you. 850 00:56:55.200 --> 00:56:57.040 Cut the tithes. 851 00:56:57.040 --> 00:56:59.360 Cut the energetic cords. 852 00:56:59.360 --> 00:57:03.080 And I bless you. 853 00:57:03.080 --> 00:57:03.920 I bless you. 854 00:57:03.920 --> 00:57:06.440 Jesus says, bless those that curse you. 855 00:57:06.440 --> 00:57:08.280 We talked about the boomerang. 856 00:57:08.280 --> 00:57:09.720 Bless, and you'll be blessed. 857 00:57:09.720 --> 00:57:10.960 Give, and you'll receive. 858 00:57:10.960 --> 00:57:12.960 Forgive, and you'll be forgiven. 859 00:57:12.960 --> 00:57:15.760 In fact, Jesus said, even if you're being generous, 860 00:57:15.760 --> 00:57:18.560 and you're about to go and give tithes and blessings, 861 00:57:18.560 --> 00:57:21.960 and you realize you haven't forgiven someone, stop. 862 00:57:21.960 --> 00:57:22.880 Leave the money. 863 00:57:22.880 --> 00:57:24.040 Leave the church work. 864 00:57:24.040 --> 00:57:25.440 Leave all of that. 865 00:57:25.440 --> 00:57:28.960 Go back and forgive. 866 00:57:28.960 --> 00:57:30.840 And then come and keep moving. 867 00:57:30.840 --> 00:57:33.000 This is the thing that will clear the biggest 868 00:57:33.000 --> 00:57:33.760 amount of clutter. 869 00:57:33.760 --> 00:57:37.160 This is the thing that will set you free the most. 870 00:57:37.160 --> 00:57:38.840 So I'm going to pray with you. 871 00:57:38.840 --> 00:57:40.960 Stay with me till the end of the prayer. 872 00:57:40.960 --> 00:57:43.320 And then I'm going to talk to you about tomorrow, what's 873 00:57:43.320 --> 00:57:45.000 happening. 874 00:57:45.000 --> 00:57:48.560 Father God, I thank you for everything 875 00:57:48.560 --> 00:57:53.760 that you released in this call today. 876 00:57:53.760 --> 00:57:58.400 Lord, wherever we have been holding on, 877 00:57:58.400 --> 00:58:02.600 wherever our fists have been clenched with stuff, 878 00:58:02.600 --> 00:58:07.880 with fear, with unforgiveness, wherever we've been holding on 879 00:58:07.880 --> 00:58:13.280 so that there's no space, when a fist is clenched, 880 00:58:13.280 --> 00:58:17.960 there's no space for what you have for us. 881 00:58:17.960 --> 00:58:23.320 So Father God, whatever it is that we've been holding on to, 882 00:58:23.320 --> 00:58:31.040 especially hurt, offense, the thing that causes the greatest 883 00:58:31.040 --> 00:58:34.920 pain, holding on to offense. 884 00:58:34.920 --> 00:58:39.240 Lord, we follow your commandments to forgive. 885 00:58:39.240 --> 00:58:42.760 Whether or not they deserve it, that's up to you to handle. 886 00:58:42.760 --> 00:58:46.680 But it's not for us to carry, because it's stuck in our liver. 887 00:58:46.680 --> 00:58:47.960 It's stuck in our mind. 888 00:58:47.960 --> 00:58:49.080 It's stuck in our heart. 889 00:58:49.080 --> 00:58:51.240 It's keeping us from fully living. 890 00:58:51.240 --> 00:58:58.360 So based on our desire to fully live the abundant life, Lord, 891 00:58:58.360 --> 00:59:04.920 we forgive that person right now, those people. 892 00:59:04.920 --> 00:59:08.160 If you could do it on the cross and say, Father, forgive them. 893 00:59:08.160 --> 00:59:11.320 They know not what they're doing. 894 00:59:11.320 --> 00:59:13.400 You understood that they were operating 895 00:59:13.400 --> 00:59:16.280 at their level of consciousness at that moment. 896 00:59:16.280 --> 00:59:21.440 And you could rise above it and let love reign. 897 00:59:21.440 --> 00:59:24.720 And from the cross, where you were spit on 898 00:59:24.720 --> 00:59:29.680 and a crown of thorns, and you were given vinegar to drink, 899 00:59:29.680 --> 00:59:33.680 and your clothes were being rolled, diced for, and ripped. 900 00:59:33.680 --> 00:59:37.160 And from all of that vantage up there of that pain, 901 00:59:37.200 --> 00:59:40.280 that suffering, that anguish, you could say, forgive them, 902 00:59:40.280 --> 00:59:41.560 Lord. 903 00:59:41.560 --> 00:59:46.400 I think we can to help us forgive. 904 00:59:46.400 --> 00:59:49.960 I forgive that person. 905 00:59:49.960 --> 00:59:54.040 And I forgive myself. 906 00:59:54.040 --> 00:59:57.120 I was doing the best I knew how to do at that time. 907 00:59:57.120 --> 00:59:58.400 I've made mistakes. 908 00:59:58.400 --> 01:00:00.840 I've done things I regret. 909 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:07.440 But I release those regrets, that shame, all of that to you, knowing that's low frequency. 910 01:00:07.440 --> 01:00:11.760 I forgive others, and I forgive myself. 911 01:00:11.760 --> 01:00:20.080 I choose, I activate my God-given ability to choose, and I choose to unconditionally 912 01:00:20.080 --> 01:00:24.320 love and accept myself. 913 01:00:24.800 --> 01:00:28.880 As I forgive others and myself, I release it. 914 01:00:29.920 --> 01:00:31.920 I will not keep going back. 915 01:00:31.920 --> 01:00:33.040 Yesterday is gone. 916 01:00:33.600 --> 01:00:34.880 I can't change it. 917 01:00:34.880 --> 01:00:36.800 There's not a thing I can do with the past. 918 01:00:36.800 --> 01:00:38.240 It doesn't exist anymore. 919 01:00:39.440 --> 01:00:43.840 So by your grace, I ask that you help me release. 920 01:00:43.840 --> 01:00:45.200 Release those thoughts. 921 01:00:45.200 --> 01:00:46.880 Release that condemnation. 922 01:00:46.880 --> 01:00:48.880 Release that offense. 923 01:00:48.880 --> 01:00:55.840 Release that connection, that energetic tie that has held me to that person or thing. 924 01:00:55.840 --> 01:01:00.320 I ask that spiritually, by the power of the Holy Spirit, that you cut. 925 01:01:00.320 --> 01:01:07.920 And I want you all to visualize cutting that energetic tie that has kept you in bondage. 926 01:01:09.520 --> 01:01:11.440 And instead, I choose to bless. 927 01:01:12.080 --> 01:01:13.440 I bless that person. 928 01:01:14.080 --> 01:01:19.840 I pray that you bless them abundantly with your love, with your grace, with your forgiveness. 929 01:01:19.840 --> 01:01:22.160 I pray that you bless them. 930 01:01:22.160 --> 01:01:23.120 I bless them. 931 01:01:24.240 --> 01:01:27.920 I bless everyone and everything, including myself. 932 01:01:29.680 --> 01:01:32.400 In Jesus' name, amen. 933 01:01:34.000 --> 01:01:36.320 So I pray that exercise. 934 01:01:37.600 --> 01:01:42.480 Some of you may need to take daily communion. 935 01:01:42.480 --> 01:01:46.160 That's a really powerful way to continue to release this. 936 01:01:46.160 --> 01:01:51.760 You know, doing a daily exercise of releasing more and more stuff. 937 01:01:53.040 --> 01:01:59.120 And there'll be whole new freedom, right? 938 01:01:59.120 --> 01:02:01.520 So I pray that this has blessed you. 939 01:02:01.520 --> 01:02:05.280 I'm going to put more stuff in the Facebook group. 940 01:02:05.280 --> 01:02:06.560 So hang out over there. 941 01:02:06.560 --> 01:02:07.680 The replays are over there. 942 01:02:07.680 --> 01:02:10.000 I'm going to put some graphics over there for you. 943 01:02:10.800 --> 01:02:17.360 If you have not yet joined the Prosper Leader membership, I'm going to tell you, 944 01:02:17.360 --> 01:02:22.480 if you've loved these few days, you're going to totally love the Prosper Leader membership, 945 01:02:22.480 --> 01:02:27.600 because I'm going to be there pouring into you, and you're going to be part of a community. 946 01:02:27.600 --> 01:02:31.840 You have all access to everything I created. 947 01:02:31.840 --> 01:02:37.120 You know, many of the courses in there sold for 10 years for over $4,000 and $5,000. 948 01:02:37.920 --> 01:02:38.640 Okay? 949 01:02:38.640 --> 01:02:40.480 You get access to everything. 950 01:02:40.480 --> 01:02:43.920 I talked about having a successful sales conversation. 951 01:02:43.920 --> 01:02:44.560 It's in there. 952 01:02:45.280 --> 01:02:47.040 The fortune is in the follow-up. 953 01:02:47.040 --> 01:02:48.240 It's in there. 954 01:02:48.240 --> 01:02:49.840 How to use AI. 955 01:02:49.840 --> 01:02:50.960 It's in there. 956 01:02:50.960 --> 01:02:53.040 So take action today. 957 01:02:53.040 --> 01:02:54.800 Join the Prosper Leader membership. 958 01:02:55.360 --> 01:03:02.640 Tomorrow, I am so excited for what is coming. 959 01:03:02.640 --> 01:03:04.320 So check your emails. 960 01:03:04.320 --> 01:03:07.760 Watch you as we work our way through the Prosper system. 961 01:03:07.760 --> 01:03:10.880 We've done the P-R-O-S. 962 01:03:11.680 --> 01:03:12.400 Okay. 963 01:03:12.400 --> 01:03:13.680 You're going to love tomorrow. 964 01:03:13.680 --> 01:03:18.160 And then don't forget, Saturday is a two-hour masterclass, 9 to 11. 965 01:03:18.960 --> 01:03:20.960 Probably the biggest thing we're going to be doing. 966 01:03:20.960 --> 01:03:23.200 It's going to be about shifting your identity. 967 01:03:24.000 --> 01:03:28.960 As long as your identity is stuck to the old you, you can't get to the new vision. 968 01:03:28.960 --> 01:03:32.320 So we're going to do some powerful identity shifting. 969 01:03:32.880 --> 01:03:33.760 We'll see you there. 970 01:03:34.480 --> 01:03:35.520 Love you all. 971 01:03:35.520 --> 01:03:37.120 I pray this has blessed you. 972 01:03:37.120 --> 01:03:39.120 I'll see you over in the Facebook group. 973 01:03:39.120 --> 01:03:40.160 God bless you.