Welcome to Supernatural Saturday.
Like I just said, I'm mobile today so there might be a little bit of background noise
here and there.
I just want to encourage you to not wait until you have ideal circumstances to do the thing
that you want to do.
You know, I'm the kind of person who doesn't let excuses get in my way and I would love
for you to be that kind of person too because I realized many years ago that excuses are
just a fancy word for fear, just fear keeping us from pulling the trigger, keeping us from
stepping out and doing the things that it is that are in our heart and that's important
for us to just go ahead and press through that stuff.
And you see, as soon as you press through it, that it actually really wasn't that valid
in the first place, right?
That's what happens, but you'll never get to that place unless you go ahead and just
do it afraid.
All right.
So Father God, we thank you for this time together this morning.
We thank you, Lord, that we're not going to let anything stand in our way from the things
that you said that we could have, that we are going to partner with you.
We're going to lock arms with you, with heaven and with each other this morning, and that
you're going to show us how we are better together, how we are better together and how
we can do anything that we set our hearts to when we partner with you and each other.
In Jesus name, amen.
So today is the day that we have all kinds of really great things that I would love to
share with you.
I planned on going full throttle because I pretty much have one speed and that is full
throttle.
But I'm going to go half throttle today with some of the announcements and make some more
announcements and even a more poignant message about some of my announcements next Saturday
as well.
But I'm not going to leave you hanging.
I told you I had something special for you today and so I'm going to give it to you,
even if I give it to you at half octane, okay?
So I do have a thought this morning and God really directed my attention to the story
in Second Kings with the widow and the cruise of oil.
Is everyone really familiar with that story?
And if you're not familiar with that story, I'd love for you to direct your attention
there now.
So go to Second Kings, Second Kings chapter four, and I'm going to go to the NIV version,
the new international version.
So if you want to go ahead and get that, I'll give you a second to get there.
And in the NIV version, this chapter in Kings is just simply called the widow's olive oil.
So I'm going to go ahead and read from the first verse, the wife of a man from the company
of the prophets.
I want you to pay attention to that.
The wife of a man from the company of the prophets.
So this isn't just some rando stranger.
This is a woman who is married to one of the men in the company of prophets.
She cried out to Elisha and she said, your servant, my husband is dead.
So this was a prophet within the company of prophets that served Elisha, served Elisha,
and now he's passed away.
And she goes on to say, and you know that he revered the Lord, but now his creditors
are coming to take my two boys as his slaves.
Y'all, they did this kind of stuff back then.
If you couldn't pay your debts, it wasn't just like, Oh, well, you know, you're just
accruing interest.
You have a bag credits for, no, they came and took your family and enslaved them to
pay off debts.
And Elisha replied to her, how can I help you?
How can I help you?
Tell me, what do you have in your house?
I want us to look right there.
I want us to stop there for one second, because the focus of the message that God has for
us today is going from victim to victor.
Guys, I spent many, many years in a victim mentality, in a victim mindset, and I didn't
even know that I was in a victim mindset.
I was in the only mindset that I ever knew.
I didn't know any other mindset.
For me, things were bad or they were getting worse.
That's what my life looked like.
I was waiting for the other shoe to drop.
I was sleeping with one eye open.
I was looking over my shoulder.
I was always in survival mode.
I was always expecting to be the victim of something because I had been the victim so
many times before.
Anybody else should stop right there and see who wants to row that boat.
boat with me. I'm no longer on that boat, but who would admit that you either have rode
that boat or you quite frequently go back on that boat? Or you just feel like if something
bad is going to happen to somebody, it's going to happen to you, right? And that's the thing
about our imaginations. When they get tainted by trauma, they can become very negative.
And then in our mind's eye, instead of dreaming with the Lord, instead of allowing our imaginations
to be this tool that helps us to get to amazing places, they become a stumbling block of us
always imagining everything going wrong, of everything negative in our hearts because
of that trauma always playing out in the movie reel of our minds. Amen?
So someone's 15 minutes late and instead of, Oh, you know, there must've been a traffic
jam. You're like, Oh, they were in an accident. And then I have a very vivid imagination and
pretty soon I'm at their funeral in my mind and I'm playing the movie reel of, and then
you guys all get so emotional. I can cry a couple of tears at a scenario. That's not
even real. Imagine what I could do if that same tool that I'm using to imagine everything
going wrong. I used to imagine going right. If I used it to dream with God, if I used
it to be in places that my feet have not yet gone to, but God wants to take me to, right?
What's that look like? What's that feel like? I've experienced that too. I would go speak
someplace and before I would even get there, my mind, that movie in my mind would start
playing and I would imagine myself up on that stage with that microphone and I would imagine
myself speaking and I would hear what I was saying to that audience. And then I would
look out in the audience and I would see someone in the audience and I would see what they
looked like and what color their shirt was. And I would hear myself saying something to
them that was, you know, just transformative from the kingdom of heaven and, and they would
have a reaction to it that was supernatural and all kinds of amazing things would happen.
And you know what? When I got to that place, that's exactly what happened. I got up on
that stage and I took that microphone and I said the words that I saw myself saying
in the spirit. And I looked out and I saw that person with that shirt on or those earrings
on or that tattoo. And I delivered to them the word of the Lord that brought breakthrough
and transformation into their lives. Is that a cool way to use your imagination? It is.
And I'd love to say that I use my imagination like that more than I use it the other way,
but that's not true. And I'm not here to lie to you folks today, but I am telling you that
I know that your imagination works both ways and God can use your imagination for the prophetic.
He can use your mind's eye in the movie that plays in your mind to bring breakthrough to
you and others. That's just a sidebar today. So we're going back to the story now. So here's
this lady and the prophet is saying, okay, I see. I see that we have a familial connection.
Your husband served me and served me well. So how can I help you? But then he asked her
a very important question. Tell me what do you have in your house? What do you have in
your house? And God's asking you that today. And the reason why that this message came
to be is because I was sitting around and I was thinking about some pretty negative
things. I'm just going to be transparent with y'all today. I was thinking about some pretty
negative things and that old victim mentality was trying to creep back up in my heart because
you guys, it's not a one and done. If you've had a lot of unfortunate things happen to
you, right? If you've been on the wrong side of fortune for too long where things haven't
gone right and you've gotten into a lot of trouble and not all of it is the trouble that
you made for yourself. Other people's trouble found you. You've been abused and used, left
out, left behind, felt like forgotten. I'm just going to pause right here because I think
I might be going through a dead zone. So just hold that thought for one second. Actually
start writing down what you have in your house while we pause here for just a sec.
All right, can everyone hear me all right?
Okay.
So I was sitting and I was thinking about something that I needed to do and all I could
think about were the things that I didn't have to do that with and I started feeling
sorry for myself.
I did.
I started feeling sorry for myself.
Kind of like that man at the pool, Bethesda, who's focused on what he did not have and
Jesus was standing right in front of him, right?
When Jesus said, Hey, do you want me to help you?
He was like, well, there's no help for me.
You know, I can't get in the pool.
I can't walk there.
I'm crippled.
There's no one to help me get in the pool.
Someone else always gets in the pool before I do.
He just started giving Jesus a rundown of all the reasons why he couldn't have a good
life while he couldn't have a healing, why nothing ever worked out for him.
Do you see this?
And a lot of times this is what we do and I'm just going to admit to you, it's a lot
of times what I do.
And God stopped me right there when I was thinking these thoughts.
I wasn't even saying them out loud.
I was just thinking these victim minded thoughts and I recognize them, but you guys, I'm going
to tell you something that maybe no one else would ever admit to you, but feeling sorry
for yourself feels good for a minute.
It feels good to stroke that orphan inside of you, poor little you, thing ever works
out for you.
It's just so unfair.
You know, seriously, it feels good for a second, but can I tell you that it doesn't lead anywhere
good?
God's not going to come to your pity party.
There's no trophies for trauma.
He's not.
I had to learn that the hard way.
I was always throwing pity parties for myself, hoping that God would have compassion on me
because I was so pathetic and would show up and give me a better life.
That's not how it works.
It does not work that way.
And so if you've been doing that, like I used to do that, today's the end of that.
Today's the end of that.
So I was thinking these victim minded thoughts and I knew that I was, and I was just going
to do it for a couple more seconds and then I was going to quit because remember, it feels
good for a minute.
I was just going to do it for a couple more seconds.
And that's when God said to me, he said, Hey Jackie, you know the biggest difference between
being a victim and a victor?
And I was like, no Lord.
What is the biggest difference between being a victim, being a victor?
He's like victims only focus on what they don't have and victors focus on what they
do have.
Come on Jesus.
Because everybody has something.
Everybody has something.
Case in point, the widow.
If ever there was a pathetic figure, it's this woman in the Bible.
Her husband's dead.
They're coming to take her sons away as slaves and all she has is a little tiny bottle of
oil.
It'd be really, really easy and she was focusing on this, but all of us in these circumstances
would focus on the dead husband and the enslaved sons, would we not?
And this huge debt that we could not pay.
Would we not focus on that?
Of course we would.
And this is what the opposing forces in your life want you to focus on.
They want you to focus on that student debt.
They want you to focus on that home loan, that car note that looms up every month that's
big and that insurance payment that goes along with it.
They want you to focus on all the outgoing instead of all the incoming.
They want you to focus on what you don't have instead of what you do have.
Like the man at the pool Bethesda, you know what you do have?
You got Jesus, number one.
And we can end the story right there.
But some of us just have the idea of Jesus, but we don't really know how to activate that.
And I was one of those people.
The word of God was not working for me because I didn't know how to activate it.
I had too much stuff in my heart that was keeping that good word, that good seed from
growing in my heart and bearing fruit.
So hopefully today we will see some of the things that are standing in the way between
us becoming.
a victor from this victim posture. Okay, so let's continue the story today.
I know this is a little different, but we're going to go for it. So he said,
what do you have in your house? Tell me what you have in your house. And she says,
your servant has nothing there at all. Nothing there at all. She starts out with, I have nothing.
And then she adds, except a small jar of olive oil. So you can see right there that her mindset
is that that's nothing. I have nothing. Oh yeah. Well, I have this little jar of olive oil, but,
but you guys, we got to give God something to work with.
Got to give God something to work with. We serve the God of more than enough. We serve the God
of loaves and fishes. All you have to do is read through the new Testament to see what kind of God
we serve. He takes little and he makes it much, doesn't he? So Elisha said, go around and ask all
of your neighbors for empty jars. Don't ask for just a few. Recording in progress.
Go and ask all of you. Okay guys, I'm sorry.
Go and ask all of your neighbors for their empty jars. And don't just ask for a few.
Don't just ask for a few. Can you imagine this widow? You know, all her neighbors know her
situation. No one else is helping her. She went to the prophet. All her neighbors,
she comes knocking on their door saying, hey, can I have all your empty jars?
Can I have all your empty pots and all your empty pottery? Y'all, this isn't like,
this isn't a Walmart. Okay. Where you have a jar,
you know, someone borrows it or you break it. You just go buy another one. You guys,
they made these jars. They made them. They're, they're pottery, right?
They had to mold them and shape them and, you know, put them in the heat and
do the things that people do with pottery. I was really bad at pottery class. Anyone else I took,
you know, in school, we had, we had pottery and I was not good at it. The stuff I made always blew
up in the stove. It always blew up because you, you know, you got to get all the little
bubbles out of that. And I'm one of those people who likes to do things fast, not right.
I do it fast. I don't necessarily do it right. And so pottery is not something for someone like me.
So she goes around and she's knocking on people's doors. You know, that they're wondering what,
what in the world? First of all, she doesn't have anything by her own admission.
She's poor as the church mouse. And now she's asking them for all of their empty jars. I'm sure
they're like, why? What do you want it for? Really? What do you want it for? But there's a lot of
important little tidbits in this story. And so just write down borrowed from the neighbors
in your notes there. Borrowed from the neighbors. Okay. Let's go back to the story.
Lycia said, go around and ask all of your neighbors for empty jars. Don't ask for just a few.
Then go inside and shut the door behind you,
you and your sons. And now pour your little jar of olive oil, pour the oil into all the jars.
And as each is filled, put it to one side. There's a miracle of multiplication that's
about to happen here. Right? And how did she describe her jar of olive oil?
She described it as small, didn't she? A small jar of olive oil. And in another translation of
these scriptures, I know that she borrowed jars of all shapes and sizes from her neighbors.
All shapes and sizes. She's got this small jar of olive oil. But y'all, from the lady next door,
she might have borrowed a jar that had water in it or something, like that was a big, huge jar.
We don't even know. We don't.
even know. We just know that they were all shapes and sizes and they had been
used for all different types of things. They weren't just olive oil jars. And so
she starts pouring this jar of olive oil into these borrowed vessels. You guys,
that's a sermon right there that we could preach if we wanted to. Oil is a
typology of anointing. It's a typology of worship. It's a, you know, she's pouring it
into all these empty vessels, right? So as she does, what happens? It doesn't fail.
The oil cruise didn't fail, did it? It just kept pouring out more oil
and more oil and more oil and more oil.
And when all the jars were full, she said to her son, bring me another one. But he
replied, there is not a jar left. Then the oil stopped flowing. She went and
told the man of God and he said, go sell the oil and pay your debts. You and your
sons can live on what is left. Wow.
What an amazing story. And how does that apply to us? Well, first of all, you have
everything you need in your own house.
Instead of sitting around and thinking about all the time about what you don't
have, it's time for you to start focusing on what you do have. And it might
be just something really little. It might be something really small, but you have
something. And if you get up every single day and you focus on what you have
instead of what you don't have, that in and of itself is going to be a huge
shift for you. A huge shift is going to happen when you decide that you are
going to focus on what is in your house instead of what is not.
So what happened to me the day that I was feeling sorry for myself at the
beginning of the week, and I'll just go ahead and tell you, I was feeling sorry
for myself because my mother is dead.
And everybody else is running around this summer with their mothers.
It seems like and you guys and this is what will happen when you're focused on
what you don't have. All you'll see is evidence that everyone else has what you
don't have.
Do I have any agreement with that?
Every post in your Facebook feed will be of someone with their boyfriend or their
girlfriend or their husband or their wife or doing things that you don't have
money for like going on vacation or buying a new car. Come on, y'all. Let's
get honest today.
The difference between my pain and that pain is that y'all still have an
opportunity to have all that. My mother is not on the earth.
And some of you have that same story too.
But that's all I could think about. All I could think about is this.
And I was feeling sorry for myself. And I was crying and I was just having a bad
hard time. And that's okay. We can have grief over something that's been lost.
But the story that I was telling myself is that I can't have a good life because
I don't have this thing.
And that's just simply not true.
It's not true.
So go ahead and put in the chat right now.
The thing that you don't have that you focus on continuously and you feel a
little sorry for yourself. Let's see it.
All right, a lot of you have the same have not story. Now I want to hear from
the have side of the story. I want you to put, I want you to pray first because I
know you have a lot of things, but I want you to pray.
And then I want you to put in the chat what you do have.
Even if you don't like the widow, think that it's
that great, or that important, or that valuable.
Look at all this stuff, y'all.
Look at all this stuff.
And some of you, the haves that you have are not the haves that other people have.
So doesn't it stand to reason that within this group, we have everything that we need?
We don't all have the same thing, but we have everything.
Because you guys, I want you to take a look at the widow's miracle again.
She didn't have a husband.
She had debt, his debt, right?
But she did have something of value, not much value.
The reason why she didn't pay attention to it was because it couldn't solve the problem
that she had, right?
It was valuable.
It just wasn't valuable enough.
But what happened when she borrowed the things that her neighbors had?
You guys see that this miracle would not be possible without other people's stuff?
Do you see it?
When she put what she had together with what her neighbors had, that was the winning combination,
wasn't it?
Guys, years ago, when I was pregnant with my daughter, the one that just got married,
I didn't have any friends.
I felt really lonely.
I was battling in my mental health.
I had severe panic disorder back in those days.
I was 25 years old.
I had a job at a daycare that I didn't really like.
I had a church family that I loved, though, that were trying to support me and help me.
But they're all married, you know?
And I wanted like a friend to run around with.
And those women, they were doing their thing with their spouses and all their things.
And I was married too, but I had a bad marriage, had a rough go.
And I just wanted a friend.
I just wanted a friend, but I didn't want just any kind of friend.
I wanted a pregnant friend.
I had never had a baby before, and I was scared.
I didn't have a relationship with my mother.
I just wanted another woman who was experiencing the same season of life that I was in that
could do things with me that pregnant people do.
And I was laying in my bed, oh, and I had horrible morning sickness, except it wasn't
in the morning.
It was in the afternoon, and the evening, and the morning, and every day, and it wasn't
in the first trimester.
It was in the second trimester, and the third trimester, and the last, all the way up to
the end, okay?
So I'm sitting there, I'm laying there, feeling sorry for myself.
I don't have any friends, and I just want someone to try on maternity clothes with,
and I just want someone who's going to have to go through the same things as me.
Because you guys, it wasn't the internet back then.
You couldn't just go on the internet and Google what other people are saying about being pregnant,
okay?
I had one book.
It was called What to Expect When You're Expecting, and it was a scary book.
It was a real scary book.
It said on the 17th day of your pregnancy, in the third hour, in the second minute, you'll
get a hemorrhoid, and there it was, right?
It was a prophetic book, and that's all I had.
And so as I'm laying there, feeling sorry for myself,
this is what the Lord said to me.
He said, instead of laying around here
feeling sorry for yourself because you don't have a friend,
he's like, why don't you go out
and find someone who needs a friend?
Why don't you find someone who needs a friend?
Instead of wanting me to send you a friend,
why don't you go and be a friend?
And so I went to my job that I hated, my daycare job,
and they hired this new guy, this young guy.
They thought he was gonna entertain the school-agers,
like the kids that had to be there all summer
instead of having fun,
because their moms had to work and they had single moms.
And so he was there as like, you know, crowd-controlled.
And so he worked in my room with me
and I started to get to know him a little bit.
He was a few years younger than I was.
And I found out that he had a girlfriend,
a living girlfriend, right?
Because this is a business, this is not a church.
He definitely was not a Christian.
And I was like, oh, you have a living girlfriend?
He said, yeah.
He's like, yeah, he's like, things are rough right now.
I was like, what's up?
And he's like, well, he's like, you know, she's pregnant.
And she's, you know, having a rough go of it.
And I was like, oh, you have a pregnant girlfriend.
Interesting, I'd like to meet
this pregnant girlfriend of yours.
He's like, yeah, all right, well, you know, you can meet her.
So eventually, a week or so went by
and she came up during his lunch break
and I met her, her name was Angie.
And I met Angie and I was like, Angie, I want to meet you.
And she was like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
And I was like, Angie, I was like, I'm pregnant too
and I'd like to be your friend.
And she was like, really?
And I was like, yeah.
It's like, do you want to go shopping for maternity jeans?
Do you want to hang out?
And we started hanging out and we started being friends.
And you know what ended up happening as a result of that?
She ended up receiving Jesus.
She ended up getting saved and baptized
and they ended up getting married.
That's what ended up happening
as a result of me taking what I didn't have.
And instead of focusing on what I didn't have,
I could focus on what I did have.
And what did I have?
I had friendship.
I had something to give.
We're always just sitting around waiting to receive
but we have something to give.
And when you give out of your own deficit,
when you give out of your own hurt or pain
or desire or longing,
something really amazing starts to happen.
You start to get more.
A lot of times the very last thing that we want to give
is the thing that we have the least of.
We want to just kind of reserve that for ourselves
because like another widow in the Bible,
the prophet asked her to make him a little cake
and she said, oh no, sir,
I only have a little bit of flour
and a little bit of oil left
and I'm gonna make one more cake for me and my children
and then we're gonna die
because it was a famine.
And a lot of times that's our mentality.
I gotta hold on to this little bit that I have left.
I can't give it away to anybody else
because this is all I have
and there's no more where this is coming from.
Guys, that's a victim.
There's no more where this is coming from.
I can't afford to give this away.
There's no more where this is coming from.
This is it.
This is all that I have left.
But as Christians, the Bible tells us
if you have two of something,
you need to give the other thing away.
And if someone asks you for something,
you need to give it to them cheerfully, right?
The very things that we're hoarding and holding on to
because we don't think that there's any left of that
are the very things that would multiply
if we would give them to others.
Now I'm gonna start stepping on a little bit of toes
right now and I'm not meaning to.
And if you hear it through a religious mindset,
you think that the father's angry with you,
then that is a root of rejection and religion
that you have in your heart
because that is not my posture at all.
I have been leading this movement for four years
and I've asked people from the very beginning
of this movement to tell their friends about this movement.
Their single friends that are hurting out there.
I've asked people from the very beginning of this movement
to, hey, you may be a Christian,
but you may be a non-Christian.
meet a guy on a dating app, he's a great guy,
You may be a non-Christian,
but you may be a non-Christian.
but he's not your guy, he's,
gentlemen, you meet a lady, she's not your lady,
share that, share that contact with somebody else.
What you help make happen for others,
God will make happen for you.
That has been the motto of this movement from the beginning.
Do you know how few people do this?
Very few people.
Because they're so wrapped up in their own pain.
Most of you put in the chat,
when I asked what you don't have,
you put a partner, a spirit mate, family.
So you're so wrapped up in your own deficit,
in your own pain, in your own longing,
that it's difficult to help someone else out
that's in the same place.
You guys, I was older than Angie,
and even though it was my first pregnancy,
I knew a lot more than she did.
She was only 20 years old, I was a mature 25.
And I knew Jesus, and I was able to add a lot to her life.
See, I was waiting for someone to come and rescue me
when actually I was the rescuer that God wanted to send out.
And guess what, both of our needs got met.
And I see some of you asking, how do we refer,
how do we do this, how do we do this?
Well, I have good news for you,
and that was the big announcement that I had.
Not only are we going to be sharing the link
for you to start your profiles on Spirit Mate Match
this coming week on Monday, we're gonna start.
For those of you that are in phase three,
for those of you that are in heart work,
you're gonna have to wait until you get
to the dating phases to join this,
but don't worry, it'll be there for you
and all the kinks will be worked out
by the time you get there.
So do not rush through your heart work
because that is the game changer for you.
If you get to phase three without having done phase one
and two, you're gonna fall flat on your face anyway.
And so it's better, an ounce of prevention
is worth a pound of cure, friends.
But for those of you that are already in phase three
and all of our gentlemen, you will be the people
going ahead and starting those intake forms
on Spirit Mate Match, but that is not all the good news
that we have for you.
That is not all the good news
and that is what this entire message is about this morning.
The other good news is this.
I see you guys asking where the intake forms are.
I just said, we will share the link with you
this coming week.
We're gonna put it in the app, in your group.
We're gonna have an information session on it
for everyone who has questions.
Please do not email us about this.
We will not answer any emails about Spirit Mate Match.
We will make the announcement in phase three
and in the men's group, we will share the link there.
It'll be easy peasy, lemon squeezy for you to fill it out.
If it's not there, then it's not there yet.
We're hoping to post it by Monday.
We've been working on the algorithms
and there is no reason why you guys shouldn't be
filling that out by this week, this Monday, okay?
All right.
So back to the other exciting announcement.
Are y'all ready?
I've decided and the team has decided
that in order to get people to do
what we've always wanted y'all to do
and that is community-based matchmaking, right?
Help make happen for others
what you would love to have happen for yourself.
We're gonna incentivize you.
So starting next week as well,
we're gonna start a rollout.
It's gonna take a little while,
but we're gonna start a rollout of our affiliate program.
What does that mean?
That means when you refer someone,
you're gonna refer them.
You're gonna have your own QR code.
You're gonna have your own link.
If you meet someone somewhere, be like,
hey, I'm part of an amazing singles group.
You don't have to do life alone anymore.
You know, if you're marriage-minded,
this is the place for you.
You can get prepared for marriage.
You can get everything that you need.
Here, just use your phone, scan this QR code.
Use this link.
And when they do use this link
and they join our program, guess what?
You get money.
What?
Yeah, you do.
And we're gonna have the best affiliate program out there,
meaning.
that you're going to get nicely compensated for sharing
what has brought you breakthrough.
Because isn't that what we're supposed to be doing anyway?
Sharing what has brought us breakthrough.
But I'm gonna tell you guys something,
and this might be scandalous to you,
but I'm gonna say it anyway
because I think it's really important.
We have had so many people come through this program.
They came in here busted and disgusted.
They came in here brokenhearted.
They came in here with all kinds of roots of rejection
and all kinds of problems.
They didn't have a snowball's chance in Hades
of getting into a relationship during this lifetime.
And we have, with the help of Holy Spirit,
helped build them back from scratch.
Helped them do their hard work.
Helped them get out of their patterns
that caused them to be in abusive relationships.
Helped them to put themselves out there.
Helped them to gain confidence.
And then they were successful.
The unthinkable, the impossible to them,
ended up happening.
They ended up meeting someone amazing and getting married.
And do you know that they did not even turn around
to give a wave towards this program?
They never told anyone they were here.
You see them posting about how God finally brought
their spirit mate, even using the language
from this program, but never mentioning this program
and the supernatural grace
that caused them to be successful.
Y'all, don't be those people.
And why you say, may they do something like that?
Because it's embarrassing to admit, maybe, for them,
that this is where that happened for them.
I don't know, but I will tell you this.
That is not the minority of success stories.
That is the majority of success stories.
That's the majority.
But you guys, there's an extra blessing
besides just you being successful.
It reminds me of the story of the lepers.
We're going into all these parables
and we're going to all these Jesus stories today.
But you know, Jesus healed a whole group of lepers.
And I don't know if you know what leprosy does to you,
but it eats your body.
And even though you might be healed of leprosy,
meaning the disease cannot take any more progress
in your body, it can't cause any more damage,
it doesn't mean that you're not left
with the damage it already caused.
Missing nose, ears, any cartilage in your body,
skin missing, you're just now clean.
The priest had a certain way of determining
whether the disease was cured or in remission or done.
And so Jesus healed them and said,
hey, you know, go show yourselves to the priests
because they didn't have any signs
of active disease anymore.
But there was one leper that came back and thanked Jesus.
And it says he was made whole.
You know what that means to me?
That means his nose grew back, his ears grew back,
any skin lesions that he had that caused damage,
that all that damage was repaired.
He wasn't just healed, he was made whole.
And I propose to you that you can have success
for yourself here, and that's only part of the blessing.
The other blessing is knowing that you've gone back
and caused someone else to have success too.
That you've turned back around and it wasn't just about you,
it was about everyone like you out there
and the pain that you know so well because you lived it.
Amen?
I was focused on my own pain,
but God wanted me to focus on Angie's pain.
He wanted me to focus on someone else who was in pain
that guess what, didn't have the valuable thing that I had,
and that was Jesus.
And her life was changed.
Her life was completely turned around.
Angie became a stylist and worked in a salon.
She already had one son by a different man at 20 years old.
She had all kinds of different things going on in her life.
And she was able to follow Christ
and she still follows Christ to this day.
Isn't that an amazing story?
You guys, we can't do this alone,
we have to do this together.
The widow was in a victim mentality for sure,
but the instructions that she got was,
hey, what do you have, but not just what do you have,
what do your neighbors have?
Guys, we're part of the biggest family on earth
and if we work together,
there doesn't have to be one lonely person left.
There doesn't have to be.
Guys, I.
I don't know if you missed this memo, but I'm married.
I've been married for 17 years.
I don't have to do this.
I do this because I care
about the revival of marriage and family.
It's the only thing that's gonna change the world
while everyone's around here yelling about Trump and Kamala.
Everyone's over here, Democrat, Republican,
thinking that their vote on election day,
while I'm not saying it's not important,
it's not gonna change the world.
No president in an Oval Office somewhere
is going to address the concerns of the people.
The community addresses those concerns,
and the community is made up of families,
and families are made up of marriages.
And that is what changes the world.
So if we want to see change, we are that change.
We are that change.
I'm gonna meddle some more.
The restoration of the black family
is gonna start with black people getting married.
Come on.
And you know what's gonna happen?
We're gonna be part of that change.
Because we're part of the revival of marriage and family.
Communities are gonna be changed
by the people that live in them,
not the people that live outside of them.
The reason why I mentioned that
is because when I first started this movement,
the Lord spoke to me and he said
that we would be part of the restoration and revival
of the black family, the black marriage.
Because there's reparations that are due
in the spirit realm, and God wants people
that are willing to contend for them.
So if you're a person of color and you are on this call,
the very first question that you should ask
is why is the devil so scared of black families?
I'll tell you why.
Because these are families of faith.
There's a faith heritage in the black community
that cannot be duplicated anywhere else.
I watched a movie about a church
that decided to single-handedly change
the lives of children in the system.
If you haven't seen Sound of Hope, go watch it.
Possum Trot, a little tiny town in the middle of the desert,
on the border of Texas and Louisiana,
an all-black church full of black couples
and black families decided to adopt
all of the children in the system.
You guys, when I said all, I meant all.
All of the children in the system
within a hundred-mile-square radius of their town.
22 families adopted over 70 children.
What are we talking about here?
You know why?
You know what they said?
You guys, these were not rich people.
These were not rich people.
These were people that were doing good
just to have enough on the table for their own folk.
And I'm gonna tell you right now, that did not deter them.
Why did it not deter them?
Because they weren't focused on what they didn't have,
they were focused on what they did have.
And what did they have?
They had love to give.
They had community to share.
They locked arms with each other and they helped each other
to do something unfathomable.
You guys, the social worker that was in charge
in that district, she got saved
because of what she saw these people do.
You guys, we can do that.
We could lock arms together
and there could be a better world.
We could lock arms together
and there could be no one left in this community
that does not have an amazing partner
for their assignment on earth.
Do you guys believe that?
Because I believe it.
If I didn't believe it, I would not be here.
And to incentivize you,
because I know a lot of you are struggling financially,
we're going to put our money where our mouth is.
We believe in this.
We're willing to share
whatever we need to share to make it happen.
Who loves this idea?
Yes, Vicki, we can be great together.
In fact, I want to let you know.
you know that's the only way we can be great. The only way we can be great is together.
You guys, this is a new era of last year. Single.
This is a new era.
Now it's gonna,
it's going to require you to share with people what you're doing and letting
people kind of into your personal business.
And I want to let you know something that God's put in my heart.
When some of you put it out there that this is what you're doing and you
continue to put it out there that this is what you're doing for the purpose of
drawing other people in and getting people here and even participating in the
affiliate program and making some money doing it,
you're actually going to meet your spirit mate
because you putting it out there is going to cause you to meet someone who's
like, Oh, this guy, this girl wants to be married.
I have someone introduced them to
what you make happen for others. God makes happen for you.
He does. And so we're going to have those affiliate links hopefully ready as soon
as next week. Y'all all have your own.
Make sure that you share your own. Okay.
For those of you that are asking you, how do we send people to you?
I don't want you to send people to me except through your own link from now on
because I want you to benefit
from being part of a movement.
This is not a business. This is a movement.
And I believe that we're on the cusp of it becoming a revolution.
There are others of you, I feel Holy Spirit saying this right now,
that you're going to be go,
you're going to go beyond affiliation because you're supposed to be helping
with something beyond that. Volunteering, helping, coaching,
becoming a heartwork coach,
doing something with one of our in-person single city groups,
guys with our spirit mate match technology,
we're going to be able to have curated events online and in person all over the
world. But we can't do that if we don't have boots on the ground.
And so some of you,
God's going to tug at your heart and your heart's even burning now that you want
to be involved. You're super busy.
You don't know how you can do it, but where there's God's will, there's a way.
Yes, that's an either word is shift between now and the end of this year.
That's an either word is shift between now and the end of this year.
We're going to shift and we're going to shift big time.
We're going to shift into a higher gear y'all and we're going to get some
momentum, but it can only happen if we lock arms and partner together.
You guys, I believe that's why I wrote about it in married in 12 months or less.
My book,
I believe in six degrees of separation and I believe that number's even smaller
now.
There's 260 people on this call right now and between the 260 of us,
we know everyone in the world.
We do.
All of us
have six, five, four, three, two,
one degrees of separation from everyone in the world.
And what does that mean?
That means somebody here knows somebody who knows somebody who knows your
spirit mate. What? Yes.
Somebody here right now knows somebody who knows somebody who knows somebody who
knows your spirit mate.
And if we work together, we will find each other. Amen.
Father God, we thank you for this call this morning.
We thank you Lord that you cause us to care when we're in pain. Lord,
it's hard for us to care about anything but our own pain.
But we're asking that our pain would have purpose.
We're asking that our suffering would be sacred and that it would bring
breakthrough for others and transformation for others.
We pray that you would.
Help us and give us the grace to get our eyes
off of ourselves, off of what we don't have,
and our eyes on you and what we do have.
Help us, God, to become generous with our lives,
generous with our breakthrough and transformation,
generous with our communities,
generous with the things that we do have, God,
so that you can multiply them and make them into more.
I pray, God, that you would make us today
not just a group, not just a community,
but today, God, we would cross over the threshold
and become a family.
Let us be a family,
a family that wants better things for each other
than we even want for ourselves,
a place where the lonely can come
and they can find refuge.
And they can find resources,
a place that leaves no one out,
a place where if we're going to go,
we're all gonna go together,
a place where the tide lifts all the boats.
In Jesus' name, amen.
I love y'all.
I appreciate you.
Thank God for you.
I'm rooting for you.
I am.
And I do believe that this is a new era.
And so if you want to be involved,
please watch your groups.
Don't email us.
We will give you all the information about these two things.
If you're in phase three and above, you'll get both things,
Spirit Mate Match and the affiliate stuff.
If you're in any of the other groups, phase one or two,
do not rush, take your time.
Do not have a scarcity mentality.
I promise you, there is gonna be enough left for you
when you get there, but you will get the affiliate stuff,
but not the Spirit Mate Match stuff yet.
And that's great because that gives us a time
to onboard everyone and get everyone worked out
in our matchmaking service
before everyone else comes on board, okay?
All right, bless you.
Have a supernatural Saturday.
Go out there and share what you do have with someone,
all right, because you're rich whether you know it or not.
Bye, everyone.