Welcome to Supernatural Saturday.
No matter where I am in the world, the show must go on, and so I'm glad to be here with
you guys.
I know it's morning for a lot of you in the States.
It is in the afternoon for me here in beautiful Ravenna, Italy, where we are cruising for
my mother-in-law's 80th birthday and my in-law's 50th anniversary.
So big deal, big family vacation's been planned all year long, and so here we are about to
do this.
And I really felt on my heart like God wanted to use this typology for all of us today.
I want to make a couple announcements before we get started today.
First of all, Spirit Mate Match is out in beta.
It's going to have a little glitch here and there, and that's okay.
We want you to report that to us.
Where?
In the app.
Please do not email us.
We will not be answering any emails about Spirit Mate Match.
And so you will find a post in all of your groups on the app that allow you to report
any technical difficulties, any issues in the comments of those posts, and then our
team will get to those as soon as we can.
All right, where does Spirit Mate Match intake form live?
It lives in phase three women and phase two women.
That's right.
We went ahead and we launched it for all of you phase two dating accelerator women as
well.
And so it lives in the resource page of your app.
Is it in your Facebook group?
Nope.
It's in your app.
It's in the resource page of your app.
Guys, where is it for you guys?
It's in your app, in the resource page of your little page, your little piece of real
estate in the app.
So if you're in phase three ladies, it's in your resource page.
If you're in phase two ladies, it's in your resource page.
If you're in last year single for men, it's in your resource page on your app.
Okay.
If you're in phase one with us, if you're still in heart work, then you are in a dating
sabbatical and we will allow you to fill out your intake form when you make it to phase
two.
Does that sound good to everybody?
Now what else lives in your resource page right now?
Bethany, correct me if I'm wrong, but we have the affiliate, hold on.
Sorry guys, they're making a bunch of announcements in other languages.
And so I hope this is not where we're supposed to go if the ship starts to have trouble because
it's not in English and I don't know.
All right.
Thank you, Jesus.
That's over.
It was in a lot of languages.
I'm really, really impressed with that guy.
He's one person in speaking in Portuguese and Italian and Spanish.
And so woohoo for him.
All right.
That's a lot to remember.
Okay.
So I'm back.
So the affiliate links, the affiliate program that has been launched should be up in all
groups phase one, two, and three.
If it's not, it will be soon.
Where in your resource page of your app, where phase one, phase two, phase three men's group,
right?
If you haven't caught on, we're trying to only have the links to these things in the
app.
All right.
What else lives on your app?
Your curriculum and your calendar.
Okay.
Phase three women.
You have a Facebook group that is extra.
If you want.
Men, you have a Facebook group that's extra if you want it.
If you're in phase one and two,
those Facebook groups are being phased out,
but you will still have that women's Facebook group
when you get to phase three, if you like it better.
But you'll still have to go to your app
for your curriculum, your calendar,
all important announcements and the resource page, okay?
And we're gonna keep adding more resources
to the resource page.
Please do not email us about the app
or the affiliate program.
If you have a question, look in the featured section
of the app group that you're in,
and there will be a post that says,
do you have any questions about the affiliation group,
the affiliation program, the affiliate program,
or Spirit Mate Match?
And you can put those questions
in the comments of that post.
All right, that's all of our announcements for today,
so let's jump into Supernatural Saturday.
If you missed it, I'm on a ship, all right?
And I am cruising away to Greece
for my mother-in-law's 80th birthday
and my in-law's 50th anniversary.
My entire family, an extended family, is on this boat.
All of my children, all of their spouses,
my in-laws, my aunt-in-laws,
and also my sister and brother-in-law and my nephew.
And so we're gonna have a good old time.
We're very excited.
I've been planning this all year
for these special occasions.
You guys, family is important.
At the end of the day, family's all that's gonna matter.
And so if you don't have a good relationship
with your family, maybe they're not safe,
maybe you can't have relationship with them right now,
God wants to put you in a family.
He does.
He wants to put you in a family.
This is your family.
I just wanna let you know that we're your family.
We love you guys.
We have two last trip single trips coming up,
one to D.C. in October
and one to New York City first weekend in December.
If you've never done Christmas in New York,
then we wanna invite you to come to that.
Those information pages are gonna be up in all groups,
where, in the resource page of your apps,
really soon, here in the next,
probably, three or four days, okay?
So, but you can mark your calendar,
second weekend in October, first weekend in December.
We're gonna be in D.C. and in New York City, respectively.
Because we wanna do life with you.
We do.
There's not gonna be any cost for those trips.
Of course, the cost that you have to get there
and where you're gonna stay and all of your shopping
or whatever you're gonna do,
but we're not charging you to come hang out with us.
All right, we wanna do life with you.
We wanna get to know you.
We wanna have an opportunity.
Life Center New York City's gonna have a worship night.
When we get in town on that Friday, the 6th,
it's gonna be a blast.
We're gonna get spiritual with each other.
I'm also gonna see about maybe having
some kind of spirit mate match event
at that church, as well.
I can't say we're definitely gonna do that,
but I'm gonna see if we can do something like that
this, that weekend, as well.
All kinds of things planned for the rest of this year
and for next year with that spirit mate match service, okay?
So all kinds of fun, curated events
where you can meet people that you have
a lot of compatibility with in person.
But family, if you can, mend fences with your family.
If you can, bury hatchets with your family.
If you can, forgive.
If you can, give grace and give mercy.
If it's okay for you to sit at the table
next to someone who's not safe and not healthy,
because remember, poison only poisons you if you drink it,
only if you take it in.
Remember, I write about that and I talk about that a lot,
is that you can't get poisoned,
all that stuff underneath this sink at your house
that says danger, fatal if swallowed, right?
You gotta take it in, you gotta internally take it in
in order for it to hurt you.
If you take one of those bottles of poisonous cleaner
and you sit it next to you at the dinner table,
is it gonna poison you?
Is it?
It's not gonna poison you, is it?
It's not gonna poison you
unless you open it up and drink it.
And so you can sit next to that family member
that just didn't get the memo yet.
They don't have the memo.
They don't understand about heart healing.
They didn't get heart healed yet, right?
They didn't do their forgiveness templates yet.
They didn't do their confessions yet.
You know, they will.
If you continue to model that for them,
and I'm not saying don't employ good boundaries.
I'm not saying that.
You definitely want to employ good boundaries for sure.
But at the same time, you wanna make sure
that your boundaries are not just fancy words
for keeping people away because you just don't like them.
You don't like their brokenness.
You were broken too once,
and I bet there are plenty of people
that didn't like you either.
Plenty of people who didn't like to be around you.
Plenty of people that sighed when they found out
that you were coming to the event,
that you were coming to the family gathering.
That they had to sit next to you at work
in a cubicle world because you're so negative,
or you're always depressed, or you're always complaining,
or you're a people pleaser
that's trying too hard all the time,
and it's just annoying.
You guys, we can go on and on.
Can't we? So if you're sitting next to that bottle of poison,
it can't poison you. Why? Because we can do life with
broken people without their brokenness breaking us write
that down. That is a direct quote from little old me Jackie
D. God told me that years ago about my mom. He said, Jackie,
you can do life with broken people without their brokenness
breaking you. But you got to do your heartwork first, because
you got to see them through a new lens. Right now you're just
seeing them through your own brokenness. And that's why
their brokenness is breaking you because you're seeing them
through your brokenness. You're seeing them through all of the
unforgiveness that you still have all the bitterness that you
still have all the counterfeit identity that you still have
that yes, they help create it. And that's why when you see
them, you get triggered. That's why when you see them, you you
revert into an old personality that you don't like, you start
doing behaviors that you don't like about yourself when you're
around those people because why because you're beginning to
become the person that they know you to be instead of the person
that you really are. Anybody else had that happen? Raise your
hand right now if you're on camera, if not raise your avatar
hand. You get around people that you have a lot of bad blood
with, you know, people that have hurt you and wronged you and you
start acting different. You start acting different than you
are. You start acting like that person that was wrong, that
person that was hurt that person that was, you know, lied on and
betrayed. You start acting like that little child that was
abandoned and rejected. I remember in my first marriage,
you know, I was young, I got married at 20 years old, I had
hardly any healing at all. I didn't even meet Jesus till I
was 22. But my first husband, you know, he knew me since I was
12 years old. And he had been around my family, good, bad,
ugly, okay, a lot. And when we got married, I remember we would
very rarely go visit my family. But when we did go visit my
family, my former husband, one of the true things that he said
to me during our marriage was, I don't like the way that you act
when you're around your family, you act different. You're not
the same person. He said, you act like a teenager. He said, you
act, you know, petulant and pouty. And you act like, you
know, like, you know, entitled, and, you know, just, you know,
cranky, and, you know, different things that he said to me, I
remember that conversation back 20 plus years ago that I had
with him. And he was right. But I didn't know why. Of course, in
the moment, I was like, No, I don't. Right? We're always gonna
be like, No, I don't. Because I couldn't see clearly, I didn't
know that those were counterfeits that were showing up
to the table. And so pay attention, how you act around
people. Okay, and your family, people in your church community,
pay attention. If you start acting in a way that you're not
proud of, or you don't like about yourself, you need to pay
attention to that. You need to write that down. You need to ask
Holy Spirit to show you what the root of that is, and why you act
differently around those people. Maybe all of a sudden, you're
bragging when you get around people, or you're trying to act
bigger than you are, you're trying to, you know, feel
important or make other people think that you're important. You
start listening out your accomplishments, maybe you start
talking to me, me, me language, you make it all about yourself,
you start being really self focused, and other people can't
even get a word in edgewise. Maybe other people are trying to
talk about themselves. And you keep saying things like, Oh,
yeah, that happened to me, too. Or I did that, too. You just
can't let someone else have the spotlight for a moment. Why? Got
asked yourself, why? Why am I like that with these people? But
I'm not like that over here. Why? You're going to find out a
lot of great answers. And that's going to be the beginning of
healing. Go ahead and put your hands down families important.
And that is why I'm on a big piece of metal about to go in
the open sea. I have only been on one cruise in my entire life.
And it was when I was like, in my 20s. And it was I don't know
if you can even you barely could call it a cruise. It was like a
day and a half. But here we are. Here we are friends. They
didn't even tell us anything. They're like, report to your
muster station before you go to your cabin. And then you go
there. And then they scan your phone. They're like, Yep, you're
here. Go ahead and go. If there's an emergency, just come
back here. Like, okay, but what what what else? What else do you
want us to know? You're like, listen, I've seen the movies. We
need some information. All right. But in Jesus name, of
course, we're gonna be fine. But we're here to celebrate. You
know, would this be the thing that I chose to do to celebrate?
You know, sometimes you just got to put what you want aside for
the purpose of making other people happy. Are you able to do
that? Are you able to put what you want aside in life in order
for to make someone else happy? And some of y'all been doing
that too much.
You're always trying to make someone else happy.
You never get a turn.
It's never your turn.
It's never about what you want.
And so choose which shoe of those two things
that you're wearing, okay?
Tie it up and wear it.
Which one are you?
Are you the person that it's all about you all the time?
Are you the person that it's all about other people
all the time?
Right?
You never get a chance.
Some of you are always at the front of the line.
You're always wanting your turn.
And then there's others of you who never take a turn
and you let everybody else have a turn
every single time, right?
That's another thing that happens.
So we need to see which one we are
and what we need to change
and what we need to focus on and what we need to do.
So, all right.
So there's a scripture that I saw
that was really interesting.
And so the crux of today's Supernatural Saturday
is not just family.
The crux of today is this scripture
that I'm gonna share to you that I saw.
And I've never really seen it before.
And it seemed pertinent because we were about to,
you know, go on this cruise,
but I really feel like it's a word for everybody.
And so I wanna go ahead and jump into it.
I'm gonna go ahead and read it.
And you're gonna be like,
oh, I didn't never see that before.
All right.
This is what it says.
Hang on one second.
Of course, it would have been really helpful
if I would have already had it up.
Give me some grace today, y'all.
Been traveling, traveling, traveling.
Okay.
I'm still looking for it.
Just give me a sec here.
Okay.
I'm still looking for it.
Just give me a sec here.
Of course it has seemed to disappear.
There it is, found it.
All right, I don't know what translation this is,
but it's Psalm 65, five.
And it says,
you faithfully answer our prayers with awesome deeds.
Oh God, our savior.
You are the hope of everyone on earth.
Even those who sail on distant seas.
Wow.
Even those who sail on distant seas.
And of course, you know,
I'm sure that that meant something to the Psalmist
when he wrote it.
And what it meant was probably not the context
that I'm gonna put it in right now.
But I'm on a really large ship that's in port right now.
It's sitting in a harbor right now.
But that's not what it was made for.
I'm on a really large ship right now, friends,
that are sitting in a harbor,
but that is not what it's made for.
Look, here I am.
See the harbor?
See those sailboats and those other ships out there?
I don't know if you can see them or not.
And I love this scripture
because it promises that God will be with us, right?
It promises that he will faithfully answer
all of our prayers with his awesomeness,
with his awesome deeds.
And he is the hope of everyone on earth
and even those who sail the distant seas.
I'm gonna try to go outside, you guys.
My name is Captain Frank from the Gulf of Darbin.
I'm not sure if you can see this.
There is no way,
there's literally nowhere to get away from this.
So I'm gonna talk louder than Captain Frank, okay?
We just gotta do it, y'all.
So even those that sail the distant seas
and really off,
what I really felt like God was saying here, friends,
is that our ships don't belong in harbor.
They don't belong in port.
They belong out on the sea.
The harbor is a place of safety,
but we were not created to live safe lives.
We were not created to live safe lives.
And so this scripture is promising.
expecting that God will be with us, that he will help us, that he's going to answer our
prayers and be faithful to us, answer with awesome deeds, even those of us that decide
to leave the port and sail the sea.
Even those of us that decide to take some risks, and I really feel like that is the
Supernatural Saturday theme today is, are you ready to take some risks?
Are you ready to leave the harbor?
Are you ready to leave the port?
And are you ready to sail the sea?
We're still asleep.
You can come back.
Okay, someone's not muted saying that they're still sleeping.
All right.
So the PIP alarm's going off right now, and I guess that's them telling us this is what
it sounds like if there's an emergency.
I didn't listen to the announcement, y'all, so I will not be where I'm supposed to be
probably, and that's going to be all right, all right?
So I want you to go ahead and ask yourself if there is something that you need to get
out of the safety of the harbor and out of the safety of port and begin to launch out
and take some risks and go beyond those watermarks, go beyond those places that you've been before,
out into maybe no man's land, out into a new frontier, right, out on the open seas.
What are those things?
Let's go ahead and post them in the chat right now.
All right.
Thank you.
Bye-bye.
Okay, these are all awesome, and a lot of them are very similar.
If you guys take a look at all the things that you guys feel like you're sitting safely
in the port, safely in the harbor, because ships are safe in the harbor.
That's why ships come into harbor, not just to offload their goods, but also to be safe.
The harbor is considered a place of safety from storms and all different types of stuff.
The last thing that you want to do is be out at the open sea in a storm, right?
But you know what?
Some of us are going to be out at sea in an open storm.
We're going to be out in the open sea.
Who knew that there was going to be this many announcements during this time, during this
time of Supernatural Saturday?
But you know what?
We're going to push through.
Sometimes you just have to push through, and this is the problem with most of us getting
out into the sea.
It never seems like the right time.
It's never going to be the right time, friends.
I'm just going to tell you that right now.
It's never going to be the right time.
In fact, when I launched Married in 12 Months or Less, which has become last year's single,
my mom had just died.
I mean, literally, the week before, she had just passed away.
I had just left the ICU where I had looked at her for a month, languishing, intubated,
didn't know whether or not she was going to rise up or she was going to go to heaven,
didn't know what was going to happen, and then I left that place.
I don't know if any of you have ever been to the ICU, but you feel like you're kind
of in a bubble in the ICU.
Everyone's really quiet back there.
Of course, there's alarm monitors going off, and there's people in emergencies and different
things, but when you're in the room with your loved one, it's very quiet in there.
It's very secluded in there.
There isn't a lot of, besides the sound of the machines, there's really nothing else
going on there.
But then when you leave the ICU, and I left the ICU that day when my mom, her spirit left
her body and she went to heaven, I walked out of that ICU and I opened the door.
I opened the door.
from her room into the bigger ICU and then I opened the door from the bigger ICU into
the regular hospital and life was going on as usual.
People were talking and laughing and eating.
Nobody cared about what just happened to me back there in that other secluded room.
Everyone was just doing their thing.
The world was still turning and spinning.
And then one week later I was home and I said, God, you know, I don't want to do this anymore.
What do you want me to do?
And he told me to do what I do now.
He told me that he wanted his sons and daughters married.
He asked me if I would ride shotgun.
He asked me if I would use my love and gift of matchmaking and the heart work to bring
people together in these divine kingdom matches.
And I said, yes.
Okay.
I said yes to that.
But a couple of weeks later, what happened?
The whole world shut down.
The whole world stopped spinning.
How many of you would have thought, oh, I must have missed hearing that.
God must not have meant right now.
We can't even get together.
We can't even leave our houses.
But you guys, I didn't give up.
Just like I didn't give up on this call when, you know, they made announcements in English
and Chinese and Portuguese and Spanish.
I didn't give up because sometimes you just got to push through.
And guess what?
I'm a pusher througher.
And I just released that over you right now.
If I have anything, I have the gift of perseverance.
And I'm going to just release that over you because you got to push through.
You can't let every single wave deter you from sailing.
You cannot let the clouds on the horizon deter you from sailing.
There's actually a scripture in the Bible that says they that regard the wind and the
rain will not reap.
They won't.
They won't sow.
They're not going to go out and they're not going to have a harvest because it's what?
Never the right time.
The weather is not good.
Okay.
Well, forget the weather.
Forget the weather.
There are no guarantees.
There are no guarantees except one.
You're going to have trouble.
Jesus said, here's your guarantee in this world.
You're going to have trouble.
Did he not say that?
But then he said, be of good cheer.
I've overcome the world.
Come on.
What did he say?
What was he saying?
I'm bigger than that.
That scripture that I just read you, whatever context the psalmist meant it, and I know
he meant even those that are far off doing this other thing, sailing the seas, the distant
seas.
The way I'm reading it today and the way that it impacts me today is God is saying, I will
listen to an answer with awesome deeds and be faithful to all y'all, even those that
have set out to do something crazy.
Even those that are out doing something, pioneering something, going beyond, going beyond where
they've ever been before, going beyond where anyone in their families have ever been before.
Some of you on this call, God is calling you back to school.
God is your open seat and you didn't finish it.
Maybe you didn't even like school back when you were younger and you didn't maybe do well.
Maybe you didn't get a 4.0 or 4.5.
Do you know you can get like a 5.0 now?
Like I'm like, what are they doing?
What kind of extra credit is this?
What kind of sorcery is this?
All right.
Yeah, they're doing that.
Okay.
They're overachieving.
I mean, you know, that's, that's, that's a lot, but you maybe you didn't do good, but
it may be no one in your family graduated from college.
Maybe you're going to be the first person in your family to even graduate.
Maybe you're the first person that graduated from high school and now you'd be the first
person.
What is that?
That's you sailing the distant sea.
That's you going above and beyond where anyone has ever gone before to infinity and beyond.
That is what you're doing.
That is you.
You're Buzz Lightyear, you know, in your family.
Maybe some of you, your family, no one's ever been married successfully.
Maybe it's just all divorces.
That's my story.
My mom was able to be successfully married to her last husband until she passed away
and went to heaven.
But she'd already been divorced.
She'd already been married three times.
Okay.
And yeah, you know, I told my kids, you guys know that by both of my daughters are married.
My youngest just got married a month and a half ago and my oldest has been married for
four years and my son has a very serious girlfriend and we're all laughing on this trip that next
year he'll be married and she'll be on this, she'll be on whatever family vacation we have.
Right.
But I will tell you this.
I believe as I stand before you today that my children will not experience divorce, that
they will be the first in their families to not be divorced.
All of them come from divorce, but I believe that they will not.
be divorced. I believe that we've cut that off. What ran in our family ran out with us,
with my generation, with me and David. Okay. And with, you know, there are other parents
that are happily married now too. And that our kids will have the support and the community
and the resources and the knowledge and the insight and the wisdom in order to stay married,
because that's what marriage takes. It takes community. It takes collaboration. It takes
a teachable heart. It takes insight and wisdom and revelation. It takes grace and mercy. That's
what it takes. And I believe that they're going to be the first in their line to never be divorced,
to never be divorced. Some of you have the desire to go and use your story somewhere. I see several
people want to write a book and there's several podcasts that are lingering in the comment section
of this right now, wanting to talk about things, wanting to share information and revelation with
others. Maybe you're the first person who's ever stepped out into the spotlight in your family
line, or maybe it's the first time that you've ever even thought about stepping in the spotlight.
Maybe you've been someone who's been hiding in the shadows for years. There's others of you that,
you know, it's time for you to shift and change directions in your careers. You've been doing
something for a long time that you don't like, and maybe it's going to take some training in
order to go do what you do like, but you need to do it. Start today. Start today. There's a famous
saying that says a year from now, you're going to wish you started today. And I'm going to wish
right now that people stop making announcements because why? We already know all the things.
We know it. We know we don't care. Okay. So it's time for the start. Okay. And so what is one step
that you can take today towards this sailing of the open seas? What's one step you can take today?
I don't want to know what you can do next week or Monday. I don't want to know what you can do
a month from now. What is one step you can take today? Put it in the chat.
All right. We have a lot of things here. Okay. I want to know what you can do today.
Today. Some of you are putting things up that I know you can't do it today. I know you can't finish
it today. I know you can't do it today. I'm talking about today. What is an action item that you can do
today? Before today is over, regardless of whatever time it is right now, for some of you,
it's almost 11. For some of you, it's almost 10. For some of you, it's almost eight.
What time? I mean, what can you get done with the time that you have today?
Kimberly said she thinks she's getting engaged today. What? Come on, girl. We want pictures.
She thinks she's getting engaged. Make sure your nails are done, honey bun. All right. Be ready
for that. Okay. What are you going to do today? Make a phone call of some sort. Do an internet
search on something. Find out the deets on something. Right. Some people are just going
to go to the beach. All right. If that's a step towards this sailing of the open seas and you
stepping out and doing something that, you know, God has called you to do with your life. Fannie's
going to a singles events. That's awesome. So that's towards her desire to meet her spirit,
her spirit mate. All of you I know can fill out the spirit mate match. If you're in phase
two, three, or the men's group, that's definitely a step that you can take.
Definitely a step. Some of you are saying, I'm going to go wedding dress shopping. I'm
going to go looking around at wedding dresses. All right. Research. Some of you are doing
research of all different kinds. You guys see, you see.
See how amazing it is to take action?
I wanna tell you something that I've learned the hard way
because I wanna let you know that I used to be
the kind of person who had a whole lot of wishbone, okay?
Just sitting around wishing for things to happen,
hoping that things are gonna change
and I always put it in God's, I put it in God's court.
Okay, God, well, if you want this for me,
you're gonna make it happen, you're gonna do it, right?
I wasn't doing my part.
I didn't understand that it wasn't God's part to do.
I didn't understand that I had a part and God had a part
and if I was faithful to do my part,
then God would be faithful to do his.
I also didn't understand the anatomy of a prophetic word.
I had all kinds of prophetic words,
but I didn't understand that they had a process.
When God gives us a promise, he also gives us a process
and I didn't understand how to discern process
and what was God's part in that process
and what was my part in that process.
And I would love to do an activation with you guys
about this very subject.
Helping you, I'd love for you guys
to bring your prophetic words, okay?
All the different things
that you feel like God has promised you,
all the things that you think God's been speaking to you,
especially since you've been in this community.
And I'd like you to bring those to a class with me
where I show you how to really see what's now, what's later,
what are the actionable steps that you can do
to do your part on what God has said
he would do his part on.
Who would love that?
Who would love to do that?
It's called prophetic processing.
Who would love to do that?
Okay, well, we will do that.
We will plan to do that, Bethany.
Maybe that could be our PATH session in September.
I know we have a PATH session on the calendar,
so how about we do that?
I think that could be real fun, all right?
And so we'll go into breakout groups
and you guys can help each other
with the different things that I assign as we're doing that.
But I didn't know those things back then.
And so I was always just in the waiting room
and you guys know how I feel about waiting rooms.
I don't love them, but I thought they were necessary,
but I was wrong.
You guys, we have a very limited amount of time on earth.
It's very, very limited.
God never meant us to be waiting.
There's always something that's ripe in your life.
Write that down.
There's always something that's ripe in your life.
Yeah, there's some things that are not ripe yet.
There's some things that are still maturing.
They're still gestating,
but you're always gestating.
You're never waiting.
That's another Jackie-ism.
Write it down.
You're always gestating.
You're never waiting, just gestating.
There is something that's growing,
something that's maturing in your life,
but there's something that's already ready.
It's something that's already matured.
There's something that you can do right now
that's already there.
Remember the not yet, the now and the not yet scene?
It's not the not yet.
It's the not yet scene.
When I was carrying my daughter Reagan in my womb,
she wasn't the not yet.
She was the not yet scene.
She was very much now.
I just couldn't see her yet.
Now they can put machines on you
and you can see your baby like 3D and it's just crazy.
It looks just like the baby when the baby comes out.
Not when I was pregnant, 23 and a half years ago.
Okay?
No.
You're lucky if that sonogram even told them the right thing.
It could have been a penis.
It could have been a finger.
We don't know.
You decorated your nursery in blue, too bad.
It's a baby blue girl now.
All right?
That's how good that technology was back then.
It wasn't good at all.
It wasn't good.
Okay?
And so it's not, it's just the not yet scene.
I want you to start thinking about that.
The things that I'm carrying,
the things that God has promised me,
they're not the not yet,
because I feel like not yet can translate into maybe not.
Maybe never.
You guys, it's not if, it's when.
It's not if, it's when.
Write that down.
It's not if, it's when.
It's the not yet scene.
It's not the not yet.
It's the not yet scene.
Write that down.
It's important that you begin to focus on the truth.
This is the truth.
This is the word of God.
In fact, he tells us to call those things
that are not as what?
Though they were.
Because why?
Because they are, that's why.
Because they are.
And so it's important that we begin to wrap our hearts
and our minds and our spirits around truth.
We cannot continue in things that are not true.
That's where you get depressed.
That's where you get discouraged.
That's where you just wanna stay in the port,
in the harbor and not leave.
Oh, what difference does it make?
You know?
I don't even know if God called me to go out there.
I'm looking out there right now, y'all,
and it looks kind of scary out there, but you know what?
There's a lot of people out there.
There's a lot of sailboats out there.
And you know what will happen
if we let discouragement and disappointment set in,
if we think that it's the maybe not
instead of the not yet seen?
You're gonna think that God picked all those people
and didn't pick you.
That you're gonna start getting mad at people when they start getting their little sailboats ready and the wind catches their sail
You're gonna get mad at them. Well, how dare they go out there and sail the sea?
How dare they change course and careers in midlife don't they know they're old
How in the world did they get married I'm for sure skinnier than them
Men I'm for sure taller than him. I got more money than him. How did he get married?
How
How how how how
Here they are again y'all they just keep coming
All right, so how did they get out there you guys one day they just decided I'm just gonna do it
I'm just gonna do it
They put aside all excuses and they decided I'm just gonna do it. Okay, so for the activation right now
I want you to put up the most prevalent excuse that you use for not
Jumping in what is it? What is the excuse that always comes? What's the lie that always comes about you?
What's the thing that you always listen to and it causes you to never get started put that in the chat?
You
All right, you guys see so many people saying I don't know how I don't know how I don't know how and that was the
Thing that I was gonna tell you the thing that I learned the hard way is you're never gonna know how until you just start
That's why it's important for you to just do what you know to do today. What can you do today?
For instance it let's just take the school one that seems to be really prevalent for a lot of people do the research
You know, where is the school that you can go to you're gonna go online. Are you gonna go in person?
What does that look like? How much does it cost? Is there student aid, you know, do you qualify for student aid?
What forms can you fill out?
These are little tiny things that you can do to get ready to go
You know
You have to take those first steps you have to because unless you take the first step
You're not gonna see the second step or the third step or the fourth step
But I really like is what the captain this captain Frank is on right now
That's who's talking and he's talking about we're about to pull out of port, which is really exciting
I feel like that's really what needs to happen on this call and it was four four four
When he came on and said that we want to pull out of port and that is the number of favor to me
That's what four means it means favor. It means open doors and you guys we are in that year
We are in those years. We are in 57 84. We are in the year of the open door
And so God is saying hey, there's a door set before you. Come on. Let's go. Let's go, right? Let's go
What are we gonna do? What do you want to do?
Well, if you some of you need to ask yourself that you're like, I don't even know
What what you're talking about Jackie because I don't even have anything to work towards. Well, what do you want?
What do you want to do
but the thing that I didn't ever know is that you have to just start you have to start and the also the thing that
I want to say that captain Frank just said that I thought was so powerful as he said
We're gonna go slow at first because the water is shallow and he said and when the water is shallow you have to go slow
He said but when we get out to the deep we're gonna go fast
When we go out to the deep we're gonna go fast. Isn't that powerful the deeper you go the faster you can go
Right and you guys I'm watching people out here trying to sail right now and I'm not gonna turn my camera on
I don't want to take a chance that I'm gonna lose signal, but some of them, you know, they're sailing but then
They're sailed as falls in the water because they really don't fully know what they're doing yet
And that's okay because you know what they're out there trying aren't they? You know what those people are closer to?
sailing than the people that I see over here on the beach sitting on the shore watching the people
that are sailing. The people that are out there trying and failing are the people that are going
to eventually be sailing. The people on the beach, they're not going to be sailing. They're watching
from a safe distance, they're watching with their feet on dry land, they're watching with their feet
on safe and solid land, and the rest of them are... Hold on, I gotta, I gotta mute somebody here.
Got way too much noise to have extra noise. So the people on the beach, they're not going to. I'm
gonna turn on the camera, try to turn on the camera. You guys, I don't know how to get out my door.
Doesn't stop me from trying though, and it's the heaviest door in the world.
Okay, I'm going out. I'm gonna make a point. Captain Frank is done talking. Look out there,
see all those people sailing. They're parasailing. Some people are sailing,
but look at all these other people. They're just safe on the beach.
They're safe on the beach. See that guy? This sail just flopped right in the water,
but at least he's going to get up and try again, and these folks out here, they're going and going
and going and going, right? So which one do you want to be? No, seriously, you don't have to just
tell me what I want to hear. You tell me what's true. Which one do you want to be? Do you want to
be one of the people that sits on the shore and criticizes everyone that's on the water? In fact,
Holy Spirit's telling me this right now, so I'm just going to say it, and it's not going to be
nice, but I'm going to say it anyway. Some of you are hoping, those people that are trying,
you're hoping that they're going to fail. You're actually hoping they're going to fail.
It's not because you're a mean and malicious person. It's because you don't have the courage
to try, and you're hoping that they're going to prove you right, that it's better not to try.
You're hoping that they're going to prove you right, and that they're going to come back and
sit on the beach right next to you because they tried and failed. I just talked to a girl the
other day, and she told me that everything was going good. She's part of this community in her
dating life. Everything's going good, except one of her closest friends, and she never saw this
coming, is her biggest discouragement. One of her closest single girlfriends has been discouraging
her constantly as she's trying to get to know people. That's not the right one, or you shouldn't
do that, or I'm sure that that guy's not good, or just constantly being negative and discouraging.
She's sitting over here on the beach, and her friend has begun to venture out into the water.
She doesn't want to go out into the water herself. She's too scared to. Instead,
she wants to discourage her friend from going out in the water, too, and come sit next to her on the
beach because misery loves company. There's a reason why that's a saying. There's a reason
why it's a saying. Here's what I want to tell you, friends. Be the person in the water getting
criticized, not the person on the beach criticizing. I'm going to say it again. Be the
person in the water getting criticized instead of the person on the beach criticizing. Do you feel
me, yo? We have all been the person on the beach criticizing, so no shame in your game. If that's
you, repent and ask God to deliver you from fear so that you can get out there with them, too.
He promises that he's going to be with us, and he's faithful to answer our prayers,
even those of us that are crazy enough to sail the distant seas.
I love it. This is going to be my new life motto.
I guarantee you those people that are out there, I can't see them close enough, but I
bet you they're giving each other tips. Someone's sail is falling over. Another person's saying,
hey, do this. Catch this. Someone's cruising by, and they're picking up something for someone and
helping them. Why? Because they're all out there together. They're all the crazy ones that are
going to give this a shot. That's what I want this community to be. I want all of us to be the people
that are in the water. Using our affiliate program, we can get the people off the beach into the water.
We can cheer them on. We can say, hey, it's not as bad as you think. Instead of being negative,
oh, there's no good men left in the earth, or oh, all the women are gold diggers. Instead of that,
we can start saying something different. Like, hey, you know what? Yeah, you have to meet
more than one person, but there are good people out here if you get out here, right? Hey, there's
more than just getting married out here. There's also being encouraged and having other people
cheer you on to the biggest dreams and goals of your life. Lock arms with us. Oh, you're alone?
Okay. You don't have to be alone. You can come sit with us. That is what I want this community
to be. I want us to be the ones that are crazy enough, the dreamers, okay?
Okay, the doers that are encouraging all the people
that are sitting around doing nothing to come do it with us.
They don't wanna do it alone, that's okay,
they can come do it with us.
Are you guys in?
Do you guys wanna be those people too?
And some of you, Mickey just said,
somehow I'll get out there.
Yeah, so get out there because you're gonna help her.
You're gonna help her get out there.
That's why we pray seven days a week
because we pray for the supernatural help to get out there
and then that's why we teach all the courses and classes
that we do and we give you all the resources that we have
because the practical ways of getting out there too
and not just in your love life,
but in all areas of your life
because these kingdom alliances,
these partnerships that God's making,
they're not with losers, okay?
They're with people that are doing things
to change the earth.
They're with world changers.
You're a world changer
and your partner will be a world changer
and we are here to help you to become a world changer,
to finish your course, to use your gifts and talents
and to become all that God created you to be.
That is what this movement's about.
It's not just about getting married.
So here's to the misfits, the dreamers, the doers.
God told me years ago, I didn't know what it meant,
but he said, Jackie,
you're gonna be the queen of the misfits.
I'm like, ooh, that does not sound good.
I did not know what that means.
I do now because I believe
that kingdom people are misfit people.
I do.
I believe that we've never fat.
We've never fat.
We've never fit anywhere.
Everywhere we go, we always feel like the odd person out.
We always know that there's more.
We're the people that wanna get out on the sea.
We're not the people that wanna stay on the beach.
Y'all, the misfits are the people
that are out doing the things, y'all.
The people that are doing the status quo,
the people that are living the norm life,
the people that are in the churches, sitting on the pews,
hearing the same message over and over again every week
and acting like it's something different.
Those are not the misfits.
We're only misfits because the people
that live the status quo called us that.
We're actually the kingdom people.
If you've ever watched that show, The Chosen,
Jesus' disciples were the misfits, right?
They were the people that were like,
yes, I'm gonna go with you.
I'm gonna follow you.
I'm gonna do something different.
I'm not gonna stay here in my little town.
I'm not going to just settle for religion.
I want more.
I want relationships.
And you're the Messiah.
So I'm gonna have a relationship with you.
Got it.
And you guys, for those of you that are like,
the thing that's keeping me back is my health,
I wanna let you know I've been on a health journey
for like a couple years now.
And God continues to give me the new piece of the puzzle.
He continues to give me the information
that I need to go further.
We can only go as far as these bodies are gonna take us.
So all of you, your first step towards your dream or goal
could be to get your health in order.
Your first step would be today, you start eating correctly.
Not tomorrow, not next week, not Monday.
Diets always start on Monday.
But it's not a diet, it's a lifestyle change.
Today, you stop the sugar intake.
Today, you just say no to the things
that you know don't make you feel good,
the things that make you tired,
the things that make you grumpy,
the things that hurt your stomach,
the things that give you a rash.
You're not gonna eat that stuff anymore.
Today's the day that you go out and walk.
One of my favorite students, Toby,
she had an injury as a flight attendant.
And when she first came into this community,
she's an OG, when she first came into this community,
when I first began, when it was called
Married in 12 Months or Less, back in those days,
we had the walking challenge.
She could not walk for more than five minutes.
She couldn't, y'all.
She physically couldn't, but you know what?
She did that five minutes.
And that turned into 10, it turned into 15,
it turned into 30, it turned into now,
she's hiking, she's doing all kinds of stuff.
She's got her life back.
And we were cheering her on the entire way.
Because it doesn't matter if you do it right,
all that matters is if you do it.
There's no right way to do it.
All you gotta do is do it.
So stop saying tomorrow.
Today.
Today, today is the day.
That's why the Bible says today is the day of salvation.
You know that word is sozo, right?
That means today is the day that you are healed,
that you are in the mind, body, spirit.
Today is the day that you're made whole.
Today is the day, not tomorrow.
Today is the day.
Remember that scripture.
What was it again?
Psalm 95.5, is that what it was?
Write it down.
Put it in the chat, somebody.
What was it?
He said he is faithful.
65.5, he is faithful.
He is faithful to answer our prayers.
He is faithful to be with us
as we're sailing those distant seas.
He is faithful to show up with awesome deeds
in an answer to what we're asking for.
All right, so don't forget,
we're gonna do that prophetic processing.
We're gonna go ahead and make that
our path session for this month.
Be there or be square.
Love y'all, send some prayers to us
as we sail the distant seas.
And all of you remember, today is the day.
Today is the day that you start.
You're gonna look back and say,
it all started on this crazy day,
on this supernatural Saturday
with all the announcements in the background,
with all the disruptions and all the distractions,
because I feel like that is the word for us.
Doesn't matter what tries to disrupt or distract you.
From this moment forward, friends,
anything that tries to make you break your focus
on what God has spoken to your heart today,
that is the enemy, whatever.
It's the enemy, no matter what it is.
We're not gonna break our focus.
We're gonna go forward.
No matter if the waves seem a little bit big,
we're in this together.
I love y'all, be blessed.
Have a wonderful trip, Jackie.
Have a great day, Jackie.
Enjoy your trip.
Have a wonderful trip, Jackie.
You and your family enjoy yourselves.
God bless you.
Prayers for safety.
Thank you, Jackie.
Hope you have a great trip.
Thank you, Jackie.
I hope you have fun.
Thank you, Jackie.
Blessing, the grace and mercy,
traveling grace and mercy.
Love you guys.
Love you.
Bless you.
Love you too.
Bye, Jackie.
Bye everyone.
Bye.
And these churros break these victories today for you.
Father Jesus covers you.
Amen, amen.