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Welcome to Supernatural Saturday.

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No matter where I am in the world, the show must go on, and so I'm glad to be here with

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you guys.

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I know it's morning for a lot of you in the States.

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It is in the afternoon for me here in beautiful Ravenna, Italy, where we are cruising for

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my mother-in-law's 80th birthday and my in-law's 50th anniversary.

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So big deal, big family vacation's been planned all year long, and so here we are about to

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do this.

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And I really felt on my heart like God wanted to use this typology for all of us today.

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I want to make a couple announcements before we get started today.

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First of all, Spirit Mate Match is out in beta.

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It's going to have a little glitch here and there, and that's okay.

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We want you to report that to us.

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Where?

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In the app.

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Please do not email us.

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We will not be answering any emails about Spirit Mate Match.

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And so you will find a post in all of your groups on the app that allow you to report

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any technical difficulties, any issues in the comments of those posts, and then our

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team will get to those as soon as we can.

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All right, where does Spirit Mate Match intake form live?

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It lives in phase three women and phase two women.

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That's right.

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We went ahead and we launched it for all of you phase two dating accelerator women as

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well.

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And so it lives in the resource page of your app.

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Is it in your Facebook group?

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Nope.

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It's in your app.

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It's in the resource page of your app.

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Guys, where is it for you guys?

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It's in your app, in the resource page of your little page, your little piece of real

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estate in the app.

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So if you're in phase three ladies, it's in your resource page.

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If you're in phase two ladies, it's in your resource page.

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If you're in last year single for men, it's in your resource page on your app.

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Okay.

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If you're in phase one with us, if you're still in heart work, then you are in a dating

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sabbatical and we will allow you to fill out your intake form when you make it to phase

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two.

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Does that sound good to everybody?

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Now what else lives in your resource page right now?

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Bethany, correct me if I'm wrong, but we have the affiliate, hold on.

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Sorry guys, they're making a bunch of announcements in other languages.

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And so I hope this is not where we're supposed to go if the ship starts to have trouble because

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it's not in English and I don't know.

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All right.

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Thank you, Jesus.

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That's over.

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It was in a lot of languages.

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I'm really, really impressed with that guy.

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He's one person in speaking in Portuguese and Italian and Spanish.

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And so woohoo for him.

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All right.

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That's a lot to remember.

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Okay.

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So I'm back.

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So the affiliate links, the affiliate program that has been launched should be up in all

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groups phase one, two, and three.

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If it's not, it will be soon.

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Where in your resource page of your app, where phase one, phase two, phase three men's group,

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right?

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If you haven't caught on, we're trying to only have the links to these things in the

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app.

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All right.

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What else lives on your app?

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Your curriculum and your calendar.

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Phase three women.

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You have a Facebook group that is extra.

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If you want.

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Men, you have a Facebook group that's extra if you want it.

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If you're in phase one and two,

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those Facebook groups are being phased out,

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but you will still have that women's Facebook group

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when you get to phase three, if you like it better.

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But you'll still have to go to your app

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for your curriculum, your calendar,

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all important announcements and the resource page, okay?

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And we're gonna keep adding more resources

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to the resource page.

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Please do not email us about the app

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or the affiliate program.

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If you have a question, look in the featured section

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of the app group that you're in,

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and there will be a post that says,

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do you have any questions about the affiliation group,

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the affiliation program, the affiliate program,

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or Spirit Mate Match?

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And you can put those questions

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in the comments of that post.

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All right, that's all of our announcements for today,

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so let's jump into Supernatural Saturday.

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If you missed it, I'm on a ship, all right?

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And I am cruising away to Greece

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for my mother-in-law's 80th birthday

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and my in-law's 50th anniversary.

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My entire family, an extended family, is on this boat.

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All of my children, all of their spouses,

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my in-laws, my aunt-in-laws,

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and also my sister and brother-in-law and my nephew.

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And so we're gonna have a good old time.

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We're very excited.

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I've been planning this all year

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for these special occasions.

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You guys, family is important.

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At the end of the day, family's all that's gonna matter.

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And so if you don't have a good relationship

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with your family, maybe they're not safe,

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maybe you can't have relationship with them right now,

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God wants to put you in a family.

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He does.

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He wants to put you in a family.

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This is your family.

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I just wanna let you know that we're your family.

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We love you guys.

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We have two last trip single trips coming up,

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one to D.C. in October

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and one to New York City first weekend in December.

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If you've never done Christmas in New York,

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then we wanna invite you to come to that.

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Those information pages are gonna be up in all groups,

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where, in the resource page of your apps,

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really soon, here in the next,

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probably, three or four days, okay?

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So, but you can mark your calendar,

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second weekend in October, first weekend in December.

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We're gonna be in D.C. and in New York City, respectively.

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Because we wanna do life with you.

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We do.

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There's not gonna be any cost for those trips.

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Of course, the cost that you have to get there

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and where you're gonna stay and all of your shopping

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or whatever you're gonna do,

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but we're not charging you to come hang out with us.

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All right, we wanna do life with you.

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We wanna get to know you.

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We wanna have an opportunity.

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Life Center New York City's gonna have a worship night.

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When we get in town on that Friday, the 6th,

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it's gonna be a blast.

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We're gonna get spiritual with each other.

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I'm also gonna see about maybe having

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some kind of spirit mate match event

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at that church, as well.

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I can't say we're definitely gonna do that,

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but I'm gonna see if we can do something like that

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this, that weekend, as well.

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All kinds of things planned for the rest of this year

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and for next year with that spirit mate match service, okay?

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So all kinds of fun, curated events

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where you can meet people that you have

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a lot of compatibility with in person.

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But family, if you can, mend fences with your family.

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If you can, bury hatchets with your family.

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If you can, forgive.

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If you can, give grace and give mercy.

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If it's okay for you to sit at the table

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next to someone who's not safe and not healthy,

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because remember, poison only poisons you if you drink it,

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only if you take it in.

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Remember, I write about that and I talk about that a lot,

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is that you can't get poisoned,

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all that stuff underneath this sink at your house

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that says danger, fatal if swallowed, right?

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You gotta take it in, you gotta internally take it in

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in order for it to hurt you.

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If you take one of those bottles of poisonous cleaner

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and you sit it next to you at the dinner table,

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is it gonna poison you?

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It's not gonna poison you, is it?

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It's not gonna poison you

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unless you open it up and drink it.

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And so you can sit next to that family member

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that just didn't get the memo yet.

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They don't have the memo.

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They don't understand about heart healing.

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They didn't get heart healed yet, right?

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They didn't do their forgiveness templates yet.

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They didn't do their confessions yet.

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You know, they will.

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If you continue to model that for them,

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and I'm not saying don't employ good boundaries.

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I'm not saying that.

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You definitely want to employ good boundaries for sure.

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But at the same time, you wanna make sure

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that your boundaries are not just fancy words

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for keeping people away because you just don't like them.

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You don't like their brokenness.

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You were broken too once,

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and I bet there are plenty of people

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that didn't like you either.

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Plenty of people who didn't like to be around you.

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Plenty of people that sighed when they found out

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that you were coming to the event,

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that you were coming to the family gathering.

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That they had to sit next to you at work

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in a cubicle world because you're so negative,

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or you're always depressed, or you're always complaining,

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or you're a people pleaser

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that's trying too hard all the time,

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and it's just annoying.

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You guys, we can go on and on.

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Can't we? So if you're sitting next to that bottle of poison,

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it can't poison you. Why? Because we can do life with

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broken people without their brokenness breaking us write

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that down. That is a direct quote from little old me Jackie

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D. God told me that years ago about my mom. He said, Jackie,

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you can do life with broken people without their brokenness

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breaking you. But you got to do your heartwork first, because

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you got to see them through a new lens. Right now you're just

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seeing them through your own brokenness. And that's why

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their brokenness is breaking you because you're seeing them

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through your brokenness. You're seeing them through all of the

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unforgiveness that you still have all the bitterness that you

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still have all the counterfeit identity that you still have

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that yes, they help create it. And that's why when you see

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them, you get triggered. That's why when you see them, you you

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revert into an old personality that you don't like, you start

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doing behaviors that you don't like about yourself when you're

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around those people because why because you're beginning to

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become the person that they know you to be instead of the person

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that you really are. Anybody else had that happen? Raise your

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hand right now if you're on camera, if not raise your avatar

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hand. You get around people that you have a lot of bad blood

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with, you know, people that have hurt you and wronged you and you

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start acting different. You start acting different than you

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are. You start acting like that person that was wrong, that

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person that was hurt that person that was, you know, lied on and

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betrayed. You start acting like that little child that was

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abandoned and rejected. I remember in my first marriage,

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you know, I was young, I got married at 20 years old, I had

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hardly any healing at all. I didn't even meet Jesus till I

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was 22. But my first husband, you know, he knew me since I was

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12 years old. And he had been around my family, good, bad,

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ugly, okay, a lot. And when we got married, I remember we would

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very rarely go visit my family. But when we did go visit my

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family, my former husband, one of the true things that he said

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to me during our marriage was, I don't like the way that you act

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when you're around your family, you act different. You're not

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the same person. He said, you act like a teenager. He said, you

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act, you know, petulant and pouty. And you act like, you

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know, like, you know, entitled, and, you know, just, you know,

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cranky, and, you know, different things that he said to me, I

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remember that conversation back 20 plus years ago that I had

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with him. And he was right. But I didn't know why. Of course, in

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the moment, I was like, No, I don't. Right? We're always gonna

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be like, No, I don't. Because I couldn't see clearly, I didn't

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know that those were counterfeits that were showing up

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to the table. And so pay attention, how you act around

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people. Okay, and your family, people in your church community,

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pay attention. If you start acting in a way that you're not

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proud of, or you don't like about yourself, you need to pay

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attention to that. You need to write that down. You need to ask

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Holy Spirit to show you what the root of that is, and why you act

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differently around those people. Maybe all of a sudden, you're

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bragging when you get around people, or you're trying to act

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bigger than you are, you're trying to, you know, feel

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important or make other people think that you're important. You

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start listening out your accomplishments, maybe you start

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talking to me, me, me language, you make it all about yourself,

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you start being really self focused, and other people can't

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even get a word in edgewise. Maybe other people are trying to

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talk about themselves. And you keep saying things like, Oh,

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yeah, that happened to me, too. Or I did that, too. You just

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can't let someone else have the spotlight for a moment. Why? Got

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asked yourself, why? Why am I like that with these people? But

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I'm not like that over here. Why? You're going to find out a

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lot of great answers. And that's going to be the beginning of

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healing. Go ahead and put your hands down families important.

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And that is why I'm on a big piece of metal about to go in

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the open sea. I have only been on one cruise in my entire life.

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And it was when I was like, in my 20s. And it was I don't know

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if you can even you barely could call it a cruise. It was like a

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day and a half. But here we are. Here we are friends. They

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didn't even tell us anything. They're like, report to your

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muster station before you go to your cabin. And then you go

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there. And then they scan your phone. They're like, Yep, you're

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here. Go ahead and go. If there's an emergency, just come

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back here. Like, okay, but what what what else? What else do you

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want us to know? You're like, listen, I've seen the movies. We

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need some information. All right. But in Jesus name, of

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course, we're gonna be fine. But we're here to celebrate. You

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know, would this be the thing that I chose to do to celebrate?

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You know, sometimes you just got to put what you want aside for

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the purpose of making other people happy. Are you able to do

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that? Are you able to put what you want aside in life in order

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for to make someone else happy? And some of y'all been doing

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that too much.

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You're always trying to make someone else happy.

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You never get a turn.

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It's never your turn.

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It's never about what you want.

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And so choose which shoe of those two things

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that you're wearing, okay?

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Tie it up and wear it.

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Which one are you?

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Are you the person that it's all about you all the time?

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Are you the person that it's all about other people

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all the time?

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Right?

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You never get a chance.

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Some of you are always at the front of the line.

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You're always wanting your turn.

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And then there's others of you who never take a turn

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and you let everybody else have a turn

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every single time, right?

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That's another thing that happens.

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So we need to see which one we are

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and what we need to change

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and what we need to focus on and what we need to do.

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So, all right.

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So there's a scripture that I saw

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that was really interesting.

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And so the crux of today's Supernatural Saturday

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is not just family.

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The crux of today is this scripture

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that I'm gonna share to you that I saw.

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And I've never really seen it before.

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And it seemed pertinent because we were about to,

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you know, go on this cruise,

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but I really feel like it's a word for everybody.

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And so I wanna go ahead and jump into it.

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I'm gonna go ahead and read it.

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And you're gonna be like,

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oh, I didn't never see that before.

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All right.

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This is what it says.

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Hang on one second.

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Of course, it would have been really helpful

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if I would have already had it up.

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Give me some grace today, y'all.

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Been traveling, traveling, traveling.

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Okay.

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I'm still looking for it.

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Just give me a sec here.

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Okay.

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I'm still looking for it.

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Just give me a sec here.

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Of course it has seemed to disappear.

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There it is, found it.

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All right, I don't know what translation this is,

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but it's Psalm 65, five.

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And it says,

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you faithfully answer our prayers with awesome deeds.

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Oh God, our savior.

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You are the hope of everyone on earth.

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Even those who sail on distant seas.

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Wow.

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Even those who sail on distant seas.

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And of course, you know,

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I'm sure that that meant something to the Psalmist

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when he wrote it.

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And what it meant was probably not the context

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that I'm gonna put it in right now.

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But I'm on a really large ship that's in port right now.

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It's sitting in a harbor right now.

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But that's not what it was made for.

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I'm on a really large ship right now, friends,

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that are sitting in a harbor,

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but that is not what it's made for.

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Look, here I am.

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See the harbor?

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See those sailboats and those other ships out there?

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I don't know if you can see them or not.

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And I love this scripture

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because it promises that God will be with us, right?

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It promises that he will faithfully answer

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all of our prayers with his awesomeness,

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with his awesome deeds.

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And he is the hope of everyone on earth

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and even those who sail the distant seas.

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I'm gonna try to go outside, you guys.

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My name is Captain Frank from the Gulf of Darbin.

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I'm not sure if you can see this.

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There is no way,

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there's literally nowhere to get away from this.

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So I'm gonna talk louder than Captain Frank, okay?

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We just gotta do it, y'all.

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So even those that sail the distant seas

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and really off,

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what I really felt like God was saying here, friends,

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is that our ships don't belong in harbor.

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They don't belong in port.

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They belong out on the sea.

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The harbor is a place of safety,

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but we were not created to live safe lives.

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We were not created to live safe lives.

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And so this scripture is promising.

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expecting that God will be with us, that he will help us, that he's going to answer our

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prayers and be faithful to us, answer with awesome deeds, even those of us that decide

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to leave the port and sail the sea.

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Even those of us that decide to take some risks, and I really feel like that is the

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Supernatural Saturday theme today is, are you ready to take some risks?

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Are you ready to leave the harbor?

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Are you ready to leave the port?

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And are you ready to sail the sea?

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We're still asleep.

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You can come back.

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Okay, someone's not muted saying that they're still sleeping.

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All right.

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So the PIP alarm's going off right now, and I guess that's them telling us this is what

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it sounds like if there's an emergency.

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I didn't listen to the announcement, y'all, so I will not be where I'm supposed to be

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probably, and that's going to be all right, all right?

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So I want you to go ahead and ask yourself if there is something that you need to get

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out of the safety of the harbor and out of the safety of port and begin to launch out

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and take some risks and go beyond those watermarks, go beyond those places that you've been before,

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out into maybe no man's land, out into a new frontier, right, out on the open seas.

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What are those things?

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Let's go ahead and post them in the chat right now.

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All right.

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Thank you.

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Bye-bye.

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Bye-bye.

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Okay, these are all awesome, and a lot of them are very similar.

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If you guys take a look at all the things that you guys feel like you're sitting safely

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in the port, safely in the harbor, because ships are safe in the harbor.

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That's why ships come into harbor, not just to offload their goods, but also to be safe.

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The harbor is considered a place of safety from storms and all different types of stuff.

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The last thing that you want to do is be out at the open sea in a storm, right?

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But you know what?

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Some of us are going to be out at sea in an open storm.

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We're going to be out in the open sea.

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Who knew that there was going to be this many announcements during this time, during this

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time of Supernatural Saturday?

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But you know what?

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We're going to push through.

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Sometimes you just have to push through, and this is the problem with most of us getting

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out into the sea.

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It never seems like the right time.

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It's never going to be the right time, friends.

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I'm just going to tell you that right now.

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It's never going to be the right time.

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In fact, when I launched Married in 12 Months or Less, which has become last year's single,

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my mom had just died.

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I mean, literally, the week before, she had just passed away.

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I had just left the ICU where I had looked at her for a month, languishing, intubated,

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didn't know whether or not she was going to rise up or she was going to go to heaven,

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didn't know what was going to happen, and then I left that place.

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I don't know if any of you have ever been to the ICU, but you feel like you're kind

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of in a bubble in the ICU.

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Everyone's really quiet back there.

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Of course, there's alarm monitors going off, and there's people in emergencies and different

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things, but when you're in the room with your loved one, it's very quiet in there.

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It's very secluded in there.

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There isn't a lot of, besides the sound of the machines, there's really nothing else

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going on there.

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But then when you leave the ICU, and I left the ICU that day when my mom, her spirit left

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her body and she went to heaven, I walked out of that ICU and I opened the door.

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I opened the door.

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from her room into the bigger ICU and then I opened the door from the bigger ICU into

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the regular hospital and life was going on as usual.

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People were talking and laughing and eating.

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Nobody cared about what just happened to me back there in that other secluded room.

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Everyone was just doing their thing.

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The world was still turning and spinning.

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And then one week later I was home and I said, God, you know, I don't want to do this anymore.

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What do you want me to do?

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And he told me to do what I do now.

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He told me that he wanted his sons and daughters married.

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He asked me if I would ride shotgun.

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He asked me if I would use my love and gift of matchmaking and the heart work to bring

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people together in these divine kingdom matches.

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And I said, yes.

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Okay.

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I said yes to that.

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But a couple of weeks later, what happened?

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The whole world shut down.

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The whole world stopped spinning.

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How many of you would have thought, oh, I must have missed hearing that.

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God must not have meant right now.

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We can't even get together.

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We can't even leave our houses.

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But you guys, I didn't give up.

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Just like I didn't give up on this call when, you know, they made announcements in English

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and Chinese and Portuguese and Spanish.

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I didn't give up because sometimes you just got to push through.

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And guess what?

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I'm a pusher througher.

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And I just released that over you right now.

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If I have anything, I have the gift of perseverance.

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And I'm going to just release that over you because you got to push through.

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You can't let every single wave deter you from sailing.

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You cannot let the clouds on the horizon deter you from sailing.

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There's actually a scripture in the Bible that says they that regard the wind and the

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rain will not reap.

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They won't.

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They won't sow.

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They're not going to go out and they're not going to have a harvest because it's what?

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Never the right time.

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The weather is not good.

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Okay.

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Well, forget the weather.

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Forget the weather.

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There are no guarantees.

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There are no guarantees except one.

501
00:27:11.380 --> 00:27:14.520
You're going to have trouble.

502
00:27:14.520 --> 00:27:15.520
You're going to have trouble.

503
00:27:15.520 --> 00:27:18.880
Jesus said, here's your guarantee in this world.

504
00:27:18.880 --> 00:27:19.880
You're going to have trouble.

505
00:27:19.880 --> 00:27:22.760
Did he not say that?

506
00:27:22.880 --> 00:27:23.880
But then he said, be of good cheer.

507
00:27:23.880 --> 00:27:24.880
I've overcome the world.

508
00:27:24.880 --> 00:27:25.880
Come on.

509
00:27:25.880 --> 00:27:26.880
What did he say?

510
00:27:26.880 --> 00:27:27.880
What was he saying?

511
00:27:27.880 --> 00:27:28.880
I'm bigger than that.

512
00:27:28.880 --> 00:27:29.880
I'm bigger than that.

513
00:27:29.880 --> 00:27:37.360
That scripture that I just read you, whatever context the psalmist meant it, and I know

514
00:27:37.360 --> 00:27:42.080
he meant even those that are far off doing this other thing, sailing the seas, the distant

515
00:27:42.080 --> 00:27:43.080
seas.

516
00:27:43.080 --> 00:27:49.160
The way I'm reading it today and the way that it impacts me today is God is saying, I will

517
00:27:49.160 --> 00:27:56.160
listen to an answer with awesome deeds and be faithful to all y'all, even those that

518
00:27:56.160 --> 00:28:02.880
have set out to do something crazy.

519
00:28:02.880 --> 00:28:11.300
Even those that are out doing something, pioneering something, going beyond, going beyond where

520
00:28:11.300 --> 00:28:15.160
they've ever been before, going beyond where anyone in their families have ever been before.

521
00:28:15.160 --> 00:28:18.560
Some of you on this call, God is calling you back to school.

522
00:28:18.560 --> 00:28:22.080
God is your open seat and you didn't finish it.

523
00:28:22.080 --> 00:28:25.760
Maybe you didn't even like school back when you were younger and you didn't maybe do well.

524
00:28:25.760 --> 00:28:27.440
Maybe you didn't get a 4.0 or 4.5.

525
00:28:27.440 --> 00:28:29.000
Do you know you can get like a 5.0 now?

526
00:28:29.000 --> 00:28:30.360
Like I'm like, what are they doing?

527
00:28:30.360 --> 00:28:31.640
What kind of extra credit is this?

528
00:28:31.640 --> 00:28:33.600
What kind of sorcery is this?

529
00:28:33.600 --> 00:28:35.320
All right.

530
00:28:35.320 --> 00:28:37.480
Yeah, they're doing that.

531
00:28:37.480 --> 00:28:38.480
Okay.

532
00:28:38.480 --> 00:28:39.480
They're overachieving.

533
00:28:39.480 --> 00:28:43.720
I mean, you know, that's, that's, that's a lot, but you maybe you didn't do good, but

534
00:28:43.720 --> 00:28:46.160
it may be no one in your family graduated from college.

535
00:28:46.880 --> 00:28:49.400
Maybe you're going to be the first person in your family to even graduate.

536
00:28:49.400 --> 00:28:52.280
Maybe you're the first person that graduated from high school and now you'd be the first

537
00:28:52.280 --> 00:28:53.280
person.

538
00:28:53.280 --> 00:28:54.280
What is that?

539
00:28:54.280 --> 00:28:56.120
That's you sailing the distant sea.

540
00:28:56.120 --> 00:29:02.800
That's you going above and beyond where anyone has ever gone before to infinity and beyond.

541
00:29:02.800 --> 00:29:04.960
That is what you're doing.

542
00:29:04.960 --> 00:29:05.960
That is you.

543
00:29:05.960 --> 00:29:10.060
You're Buzz Lightyear, you know, in your family.

544
00:29:10.060 --> 00:29:13.680
Maybe some of you, your family, no one's ever been married successfully.

545
00:29:13.680 --> 00:29:14.840
Maybe it's just all divorces.

546
00:29:14.840 --> 00:29:16.160
That's my story.

547
00:29:16.160 --> 00:29:19.760
My mom was able to be successfully married to her last husband until she passed away

548
00:29:19.760 --> 00:29:20.760
and went to heaven.

549
00:29:20.760 --> 00:29:21.760
But she'd already been divorced.

550
00:29:21.760 --> 00:29:24.360
She'd already been married three times.

551
00:29:24.360 --> 00:29:25.360
Okay.

552
00:29:25.360 --> 00:29:30.360
And yeah, you know, I told my kids, you guys know that by both of my daughters are married.

553
00:29:30.360 --> 00:29:34.180
My youngest just got married a month and a half ago and my oldest has been married for

554
00:29:34.180 --> 00:29:39.460
four years and my son has a very serious girlfriend and we're all laughing on this trip that next

555
00:29:39.460 --> 00:29:44.080
year he'll be married and she'll be on this, she'll be on whatever family vacation we have.

556
00:29:44.320 --> 00:29:45.320
Right.

557
00:29:45.320 --> 00:29:46.320
But I will tell you this.

558
00:29:46.320 --> 00:29:53.320
I believe as I stand before you today that my children will not experience divorce, that

559
00:29:53.320 --> 00:29:56.960
they will be the first in their families to not be divorced.

560
00:29:56.960 --> 00:30:00.040
All of them come from divorce, but I believe that they will not.

561
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:04.960
be divorced. I believe that we've cut that off. What ran in our family ran out with us,

562
00:30:04.960 --> 00:30:10.640
with my generation, with me and David. Okay. And with, you know, there are other parents

563
00:30:11.280 --> 00:30:15.920
that are happily married now too. And that our kids will have the support and the community

564
00:30:15.920 --> 00:30:21.040
and the resources and the knowledge and the insight and the wisdom in order to stay married,

565
00:30:21.040 --> 00:30:26.080
because that's what marriage takes. It takes community. It takes collaboration. It takes

566
00:30:26.080 --> 00:30:32.080
a teachable heart. It takes insight and wisdom and revelation. It takes grace and mercy. That's

567
00:30:32.080 --> 00:30:35.760
what it takes. And I believe that they're going to be the first in their line to never be divorced,

568
00:30:37.600 --> 00:30:44.480
to never be divorced. Some of you have the desire to go and use your story somewhere. I see several

569
00:30:44.480 --> 00:30:49.120
people want to write a book and there's several podcasts that are lingering in the comment section

570
00:30:49.120 --> 00:30:55.120
of this right now, wanting to talk about things, wanting to share information and revelation with

571
00:30:55.120 --> 00:31:00.800
others. Maybe you're the first person who's ever stepped out into the spotlight in your family

572
00:31:00.800 --> 00:31:04.560
line, or maybe it's the first time that you've ever even thought about stepping in the spotlight.

573
00:31:04.560 --> 00:31:09.120
Maybe you've been someone who's been hiding in the shadows for years. There's others of you that,

574
00:31:09.120 --> 00:31:14.560
you know, it's time for you to shift and change directions in your careers. You've been doing

575
00:31:14.560 --> 00:31:18.800
something for a long time that you don't like, and maybe it's going to take some training in

576
00:31:18.800 --> 00:31:26.560
order to go do what you do like, but you need to do it. Start today. Start today. There's a famous

577
00:31:26.560 --> 00:31:31.280
saying that says a year from now, you're going to wish you started today. And I'm going to wish

578
00:31:31.280 --> 00:31:35.920
right now that people stop making announcements because why? We already know all the things.

579
00:31:35.920 --> 00:31:44.560
We know it. We know we don't care. Okay. So it's time for the start. Okay. And so what is one step

580
00:31:44.560 --> 00:31:51.280
that you can take today towards this sailing of the open seas? What's one step you can take today?

581
00:31:51.280 --> 00:31:55.520
I don't want to know what you can do next week or Monday. I don't want to know what you can do

582
00:31:55.520 --> 00:31:58.720
a month from now. What is one step you can take today? Put it in the chat.

583
00:33:14.560 --> 00:33:27.840
All right. We have a lot of things here. Okay. I want to know what you can do today.

584
00:33:28.480 --> 00:33:33.200
Today. Some of you are putting things up that I know you can't do it today. I know you can't finish

585
00:33:33.200 --> 00:33:38.400
it today. I know you can't do it today. I'm talking about today. What is an action item that you can do

586
00:33:38.400 --> 00:33:44.240
today? Before today is over, regardless of whatever time it is right now, for some of you,

587
00:33:44.240 --> 00:33:47.200
it's almost 11. For some of you, it's almost 10. For some of you, it's almost eight.

588
00:33:47.760 --> 00:33:52.480
What time? I mean, what can you get done with the time that you have today?

589
00:33:54.800 --> 00:34:00.240
Kimberly said she thinks she's getting engaged today. What? Come on, girl. We want pictures.

590
00:34:01.360 --> 00:34:06.400
She thinks she's getting engaged. Make sure your nails are done, honey bun. All right. Be ready

591
00:34:06.400 --> 00:34:15.840
for that. Okay. What are you going to do today? Make a phone call of some sort. Do an internet

592
00:34:15.840 --> 00:34:21.840
search on something. Find out the deets on something. Right. Some people are just going

593
00:34:21.840 --> 00:34:26.400
to go to the beach. All right. If that's a step towards this sailing of the open seas and you

594
00:34:26.400 --> 00:34:31.760
stepping out and doing something that, you know, God has called you to do with your life. Fannie's

595
00:34:31.760 --> 00:34:36.480
going to a singles events. That's awesome. So that's towards her desire to meet her spirit,

596
00:34:36.480 --> 00:34:42.159
her spirit mate. All of you I know can fill out the spirit mate match. If you're in phase

597
00:34:42.159 --> 00:34:45.440
two, three, or the men's group, that's definitely a step that you can take.

598
00:34:46.480 --> 00:34:50.080
Definitely a step. Some of you are saying, I'm going to go wedding dress shopping. I'm

599
00:34:50.080 --> 00:34:56.400
going to go looking around at wedding dresses. All right. Research. Some of you are doing

600
00:34:56.400 --> 00:35:00.000
research of all different kinds. You guys see, you see.

601
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:01.840
See how amazing it is to take action?

602
00:35:01.840 --> 00:35:04.640
I wanna tell you something that I've learned the hard way

603
00:35:04.640 --> 00:35:06.680
because I wanna let you know that I used to be

604
00:35:06.680 --> 00:35:10.360
the kind of person who had a whole lot of wishbone, okay?

605
00:35:10.360 --> 00:35:12.880
Just sitting around wishing for things to happen,

606
00:35:13.880 --> 00:35:15.480
hoping that things are gonna change

607
00:35:15.480 --> 00:35:18.080
and I always put it in God's, I put it in God's court.

608
00:35:18.080 --> 00:35:19.680
Okay, God, well, if you want this for me,

609
00:35:19.680 --> 00:35:22.000
you're gonna make it happen, you're gonna do it, right?

610
00:35:22.000 --> 00:35:23.960
I wasn't doing my part.

611
00:35:23.960 --> 00:35:27.120
I didn't understand that it wasn't God's part to do.

612
00:35:28.120 --> 00:35:30.840
I didn't understand that I had a part and God had a part

613
00:35:30.840 --> 00:35:32.320
and if I was faithful to do my part,

614
00:35:32.320 --> 00:35:34.120
then God would be faithful to do his.

615
00:35:34.120 --> 00:35:37.480
I also didn't understand the anatomy of a prophetic word.

616
00:35:37.480 --> 00:35:39.160
I had all kinds of prophetic words,

617
00:35:39.160 --> 00:35:41.360
but I didn't understand that they had a process.

618
00:35:41.360 --> 00:35:44.800
When God gives us a promise, he also gives us a process

619
00:35:44.800 --> 00:35:47.960
and I didn't understand how to discern process

620
00:35:47.960 --> 00:35:49.760
and what was God's part in that process

621
00:35:49.760 --> 00:35:52.000
and what was my part in that process.

622
00:35:52.000 --> 00:35:54.760
And I would love to do an activation with you guys

623
00:35:54.760 --> 00:35:57.000
about this very subject.

624
00:35:57.520 --> 00:35:59.480
Helping you, I'd love for you guys

625
00:35:59.480 --> 00:36:02.080
to bring your prophetic words, okay?

626
00:36:02.080 --> 00:36:02.920
All the different things

627
00:36:02.920 --> 00:36:04.600
that you feel like God has promised you,

628
00:36:04.600 --> 00:36:07.720
all the things that you think God's been speaking to you,

629
00:36:07.720 --> 00:36:09.760
especially since you've been in this community.

630
00:36:09.760 --> 00:36:12.440
And I'd like you to bring those to a class with me

631
00:36:12.440 --> 00:36:17.440
where I show you how to really see what's now, what's later,

632
00:36:18.040 --> 00:36:19.920
what are the actionable steps that you can do

633
00:36:19.920 --> 00:36:21.920
to do your part on what God has said

634
00:36:21.920 --> 00:36:23.760
he would do his part on.

635
00:36:23.760 --> 00:36:24.600
Who would love that?

636
00:36:24.600 --> 00:36:26.400
Who would love to do that?

637
00:36:26.400 --> 00:36:27.960
It's called prophetic processing.

638
00:36:27.960 --> 00:36:29.720
Who would love to do that?

639
00:36:29.720 --> 00:36:31.600
Okay, well, we will do that.

640
00:36:31.600 --> 00:36:34.320
We will plan to do that, Bethany.

641
00:36:34.320 --> 00:36:38.400
Maybe that could be our PATH session in September.

642
00:36:38.400 --> 00:36:40.080
I know we have a PATH session on the calendar,

643
00:36:40.080 --> 00:36:41.160
so how about we do that?

644
00:36:41.160 --> 00:36:43.640
I think that could be real fun, all right?

645
00:36:43.640 --> 00:36:45.320
And so we'll go into breakout groups

646
00:36:45.320 --> 00:36:46.480
and you guys can help each other

647
00:36:46.480 --> 00:36:49.920
with the different things that I assign as we're doing that.

648
00:36:49.920 --> 00:36:52.680
But I didn't know those things back then.

649
00:36:52.680 --> 00:36:54.360
And so I was always just in the waiting room

650
00:36:54.400 --> 00:36:56.800
and you guys know how I feel about waiting rooms.

651
00:36:58.680 --> 00:37:00.920
I don't love them, but I thought they were necessary,

652
00:37:00.920 --> 00:37:02.640
but I was wrong.

653
00:37:02.640 --> 00:37:05.200
You guys, we have a very limited amount of time on earth.

654
00:37:05.200 --> 00:37:06.640
It's very, very limited.

655
00:37:06.640 --> 00:37:08.800
God never meant us to be waiting.

656
00:37:08.800 --> 00:37:10.960
There's always something that's ripe in your life.

657
00:37:10.960 --> 00:37:11.800
Write that down.

658
00:37:11.800 --> 00:37:13.880
There's always something that's ripe in your life.

659
00:37:13.880 --> 00:37:15.520
Yeah, there's some things that are not ripe yet.

660
00:37:15.520 --> 00:37:16.880
There's some things that are still maturing.

661
00:37:16.880 --> 00:37:18.200
They're still gestating,

662
00:37:18.200 --> 00:37:19.480
but you're always gestating.

663
00:37:19.480 --> 00:37:20.320
You're never waiting.

664
00:37:20.320 --> 00:37:21.400
That's another Jackie-ism.

665
00:37:21.400 --> 00:37:22.240
Write it down.

666
00:37:22.240 --> 00:37:23.240
You're always gestating.

667
00:37:23.240 --> 00:37:25.920
You're never waiting, just gestating.

668
00:37:25.920 --> 00:37:27.360
There is something that's growing,

669
00:37:27.360 --> 00:37:28.880
something that's maturing in your life,

670
00:37:28.880 --> 00:37:30.760
but there's something that's already ready.

671
00:37:30.760 --> 00:37:32.760
It's something that's already matured.

672
00:37:32.760 --> 00:37:34.440
There's something that you can do right now

673
00:37:34.440 --> 00:37:37.280
that's already there.

674
00:37:37.280 --> 00:37:40.880
Remember the not yet, the now and the not yet scene?

675
00:37:40.880 --> 00:37:41.800
It's not the not yet.

676
00:37:41.800 --> 00:37:43.760
It's the not yet scene.

677
00:37:43.760 --> 00:37:45.640
When I was carrying my daughter Reagan in my womb,

678
00:37:45.640 --> 00:37:47.160
she wasn't the not yet.

679
00:37:47.160 --> 00:37:48.280
She was the not yet scene.

680
00:37:48.280 --> 00:37:50.600
She was very much now.

681
00:37:50.600 --> 00:37:51.960
I just couldn't see her yet.

682
00:37:53.240 --> 00:37:54.800
Now they can put machines on you

683
00:37:54.800 --> 00:37:58.160
and you can see your baby like 3D and it's just crazy.

684
00:37:58.160 --> 00:38:00.800
It looks just like the baby when the baby comes out.

685
00:38:00.800 --> 00:38:04.960
Not when I was pregnant, 23 and a half years ago.

686
00:38:06.000 --> 00:38:06.880
Okay?

687
00:38:06.880 --> 00:38:07.960
No.

688
00:38:07.960 --> 00:38:10.840
You're lucky if that sonogram even told them the right thing.

689
00:38:10.840 --> 00:38:11.840
It could have been a penis.

690
00:38:11.840 --> 00:38:12.960
It could have been a finger.

691
00:38:12.960 --> 00:38:13.800
We don't know.

692
00:38:13.800 --> 00:38:16.640
You decorated your nursery in blue, too bad.

693
00:38:16.640 --> 00:38:18.040
It's a baby blue girl now.

694
00:38:19.240 --> 00:38:20.600
All right?

695
00:38:20.600 --> 00:38:23.080
That's how good that technology was back then.

696
00:38:23.920 --> 00:38:24.920
It wasn't good at all.

697
00:38:26.200 --> 00:38:27.440
It wasn't good.

698
00:38:27.440 --> 00:38:28.360
Okay?

699
00:38:28.360 --> 00:38:31.160
And so it's not, it's just the not yet scene.

700
00:38:31.160 --> 00:38:32.920
I want you to start thinking about that.

701
00:38:32.920 --> 00:38:33.960
The things that I'm carrying,

702
00:38:33.960 --> 00:38:35.520
the things that God has promised me,

703
00:38:35.520 --> 00:38:37.360
they're not the not yet,

704
00:38:37.360 --> 00:38:41.520
because I feel like not yet can translate into maybe not.

705
00:38:41.520 --> 00:38:42.480
Maybe never.

706
00:38:44.000 --> 00:38:45.880
You guys, it's not if, it's when.

707
00:38:45.880 --> 00:38:47.360
It's not if, it's when.

708
00:38:47.360 --> 00:38:48.200
Write that down.

709
00:38:48.200 --> 00:38:49.840
It's not if, it's when.

710
00:38:53.680 --> 00:38:54.920
It's the not yet scene.

711
00:38:54.920 --> 00:38:55.880
It's not the not yet.

712
00:38:55.880 --> 00:38:57.040
It's the not yet scene.

713
00:38:57.040 --> 00:38:57.880
Write that down.

714
00:38:57.880 --> 00:39:01.600
It's important that you begin to focus on the truth.

715
00:39:01.600 --> 00:39:02.440
This is the truth.

716
00:39:02.440 --> 00:39:03.560
This is the word of God.

717
00:39:05.080 --> 00:39:07.040
In fact, he tells us to call those things

718
00:39:07.040 --> 00:39:09.120
that are not as what?

719
00:39:09.120 --> 00:39:10.440
Though they were.

720
00:39:10.440 --> 00:39:11.280
Because why?

721
00:39:11.280 --> 00:39:12.920
Because they are, that's why.

722
00:39:14.280 --> 00:39:15.480
Because they are.

723
00:39:16.480 --> 00:39:19.640
And so it's important that we begin to wrap our hearts

724
00:39:19.640 --> 00:39:22.360
and our minds and our spirits around truth.

725
00:39:22.400 --> 00:39:25.800
We cannot continue in things that are not true.

726
00:39:27.520 --> 00:39:28.840
That's where you get depressed.

727
00:39:28.840 --> 00:39:30.520
That's where you get discouraged.

728
00:39:30.520 --> 00:39:32.120
That's where you just wanna stay in the port,

729
00:39:32.120 --> 00:39:33.760
in the harbor and not leave.

730
00:39:33.760 --> 00:39:35.880
Oh, what difference does it make?

731
00:39:35.880 --> 00:39:37.120
You know?

732
00:39:37.120 --> 00:39:39.880
I don't even know if God called me to go out there.

733
00:39:39.880 --> 00:39:41.440
I'm looking out there right now, y'all,

734
00:39:41.440 --> 00:39:43.840
and it looks kind of scary out there, but you know what?

735
00:39:43.840 --> 00:39:46.320
There's a lot of people out there.

736
00:39:46.320 --> 00:39:48.880
There's a lot of sailboats out there.

737
00:39:48.880 --> 00:39:50.200
And you know what will happen

738
00:39:50.200 --> 00:39:52.320
if we let discouragement and disappointment set in,

739
00:39:53.280 --> 00:39:55.160
if we think that it's the maybe not

740
00:39:55.160 --> 00:39:57.600
instead of the not yet seen?

741
00:39:57.600 --> 00:39:59.440
You're gonna think that God picked all those people

742
00:39:59.440 --> 00:40:00.440
and didn't pick you.

743
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:05.600
That you're gonna start getting mad at people when they start getting their little sailboats ready and the wind catches their sail

744
00:40:05.680 --> 00:40:09.320
You're gonna get mad at them. Well, how dare they go out there and sail the sea?

745
00:40:12.040 --> 00:40:17.520
How dare they change course and careers in midlife don't they know they're old

746
00:40:21.360 --> 00:40:25.880
How in the world did they get married I'm for sure skinnier than them

747
00:40:25.880 --> 00:40:30.320
Men I'm for sure taller than him. I got more money than him. How did he get married?

748
00:40:34.880 --> 00:40:36.880
How

749
00:40:39.480 --> 00:40:41.480
How how how how

750
00:40:42.480 --> 00:40:45.040
Here they are again y'all they just keep coming

751
00:40:46.760 --> 00:40:51.320
All right, so how did they get out there you guys one day they just decided I'm just gonna do it

752
00:40:51.960 --> 00:40:53.960
I'm just gonna do it

753
00:40:54.160 --> 00:40:59.160
They put aside all excuses and they decided I'm just gonna do it. Okay, so for the activation right now

754
00:40:59.160 --> 00:41:03.480
I want you to put up the most prevalent excuse that you use for not

755
00:41:04.840 --> 00:41:10.320
Jumping in what is it? What is the excuse that always comes? What's the lie that always comes about you?

756
00:41:10.560 --> 00:41:15.640
What's the thing that you always listen to and it causes you to never get started put that in the chat?

757
00:41:21.320 --> 00:41:23.320
You

758
00:41:51.320 --> 00:41:53.320
You

759
00:42:21.320 --> 00:42:23.320
You

760
00:42:46.000 --> 00:42:51.300
All right, you guys see so many people saying I don't know how I don't know how I don't know how and that was the

761
00:42:51.300 --> 00:42:56.540
Thing that I was gonna tell you the thing that I learned the hard way is you're never gonna know how until you just start

762
00:42:56.580 --> 00:43:00.860
That's why it's important for you to just do what you know to do today. What can you do today?

763
00:43:01.700 --> 00:43:06.900
For instance it let's just take the school one that seems to be really prevalent for a lot of people do the research

764
00:43:07.180 --> 00:43:11.940
You know, where is the school that you can go to you're gonna go online. Are you gonna go in person?

765
00:43:11.940 --> 00:43:16.220
What does that look like? How much does it cost? Is there student aid, you know, do you qualify for student aid?

766
00:43:16.220 --> 00:43:17.500
What forms can you fill out?

767
00:43:17.500 --> 00:43:21.220
These are little tiny things that you can do to get ready to go

768
00:43:21.540 --> 00:43:22.140
You know

769
00:43:22.140 --> 00:43:26.220
You have to take those first steps you have to because unless you take the first step

770
00:43:26.220 --> 00:43:28.780
You're not gonna see the second step or the third step or the fourth step

771
00:43:28.780 --> 00:43:33.100
But I really like is what the captain this captain Frank is on right now

772
00:43:33.100 --> 00:43:37.540
That's who's talking and he's talking about we're about to pull out of port, which is really exciting

773
00:43:37.540 --> 00:43:40.700
I feel like that's really what needs to happen on this call and it was four four four

774
00:43:40.940 --> 00:43:45.500
When he came on and said that we want to pull out of port and that is the number of favor to me

775
00:43:45.500 --> 00:43:50.500
That's what four means it means favor. It means open doors and you guys we are in that year

776
00:43:50.500 --> 00:43:54.460
We are in those years. We are in 57 84. We are in the year of the open door

777
00:43:54.460 --> 00:44:00.580
And so God is saying hey, there's a door set before you. Come on. Let's go. Let's go, right? Let's go

778
00:44:00.700 --> 00:44:02.700
What are we gonna do? What do you want to do?

779
00:44:02.740 --> 00:44:05.740
Well, if you some of you need to ask yourself that you're like, I don't even know

780
00:44:06.140 --> 00:44:10.260
What what you're talking about Jackie because I don't even have anything to work towards. Well, what do you want?

781
00:44:10.580 --> 00:44:12.020
What do you want to do

782
00:44:12.020 --> 00:44:18.300
but the thing that I didn't ever know is that you have to just start you have to start and the also the thing that

783
00:44:18.300 --> 00:44:21.500
I want to say that captain Frank just said that I thought was so powerful as he said

784
00:44:21.580 --> 00:44:27.100
We're gonna go slow at first because the water is shallow and he said and when the water is shallow you have to go slow

785
00:44:27.340 --> 00:44:30.140
He said but when we get out to the deep we're gonna go fast

786
00:44:31.380 --> 00:44:38.220
When we go out to the deep we're gonna go fast. Isn't that powerful the deeper you go the faster you can go

787
00:44:39.060 --> 00:44:43.940
Right and you guys I'm watching people out here trying to sail right now and I'm not gonna turn my camera on

788
00:44:43.940 --> 00:44:49.240
I don't want to take a chance that I'm gonna lose signal, but some of them, you know, they're sailing but then

789
00:44:49.580 --> 00:44:53.260
They're sailed as falls in the water because they really don't fully know what they're doing yet

790
00:44:53.260 --> 00:44:59.980
And that's okay because you know what they're out there trying aren't they? You know what those people are closer to?

791
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:04.560
sailing than the people that I see over here on the beach sitting on the shore watching the people

792
00:45:04.560 --> 00:45:08.720
that are sailing. The people that are out there trying and failing are the people that are going

793
00:45:08.720 --> 00:45:13.280
to eventually be sailing. The people on the beach, they're not going to be sailing. They're watching

794
00:45:13.280 --> 00:45:17.680
from a safe distance, they're watching with their feet on dry land, they're watching with their feet

795
00:45:17.680 --> 00:45:28.480
on safe and solid land, and the rest of them are... Hold on, I gotta, I gotta mute somebody here.

796
00:45:29.440 --> 00:45:34.640
Got way too much noise to have extra noise. So the people on the beach, they're not going to. I'm

797
00:45:34.640 --> 00:45:39.040
gonna turn on the camera, try to turn on the camera. You guys, I don't know how to get out my door.

798
00:45:40.480 --> 00:45:43.680
Doesn't stop me from trying though, and it's the heaviest door in the world.

799
00:45:45.920 --> 00:45:54.560
Okay, I'm going out. I'm gonna make a point. Captain Frank is done talking. Look out there,

800
00:45:55.280 --> 00:45:58.800
see all those people sailing. They're parasailing. Some people are sailing,

801
00:45:58.800 --> 00:46:01.520
but look at all these other people. They're just safe on the beach.

802
00:46:02.880 --> 00:46:07.840
They're safe on the beach. See that guy? This sail just flopped right in the water,

803
00:46:07.840 --> 00:46:13.760
but at least he's going to get up and try again, and these folks out here, they're going and going

804
00:46:13.760 --> 00:46:23.360
and going and going, right? So which one do you want to be? No, seriously, you don't have to just

805
00:46:23.360 --> 00:46:27.520
tell me what I want to hear. You tell me what's true. Which one do you want to be? Do you want to

806
00:46:27.520 --> 00:46:34.480
be one of the people that sits on the shore and criticizes everyone that's on the water? In fact,

807
00:46:34.480 --> 00:46:37.920
Holy Spirit's telling me this right now, so I'm just going to say it, and it's not going to be

808
00:46:37.920 --> 00:46:41.920
nice, but I'm going to say it anyway. Some of you are hoping, those people that are trying,

809
00:46:41.920 --> 00:46:46.640
you're hoping that they're going to fail. You're actually hoping they're going to fail.

810
00:46:46.960 --> 00:46:50.400
It's not because you're a mean and malicious person. It's because you don't have the courage

811
00:46:50.400 --> 00:46:54.880
to try, and you're hoping that they're going to prove you right, that it's better not to try.

812
00:46:56.640 --> 00:46:58.880
You're hoping that they're going to prove you right, and that they're going to come back and

813
00:46:58.880 --> 00:47:06.000
sit on the beach right next to you because they tried and failed. I just talked to a girl the

814
00:47:06.000 --> 00:47:11.920
other day, and she told me that everything was going good. She's part of this community in her

815
00:47:12.320 --> 00:47:20.240
dating life. Everything's going good, except one of her closest friends, and she never saw this

816
00:47:20.240 --> 00:47:25.680
coming, is her biggest discouragement. One of her closest single girlfriends has been discouraging

817
00:47:25.680 --> 00:47:32.160
her constantly as she's trying to get to know people. That's not the right one, or you shouldn't

818
00:47:32.160 --> 00:47:37.600
do that, or I'm sure that that guy's not good, or just constantly being negative and discouraging.

819
00:47:38.160 --> 00:47:44.000
She's sitting over here on the beach, and her friend has begun to venture out into the water.

820
00:47:45.040 --> 00:47:48.320
She doesn't want to go out into the water herself. She's too scared to. Instead,

821
00:47:48.320 --> 00:47:51.840
she wants to discourage her friend from going out in the water, too, and come sit next to her on the

822
00:47:51.840 --> 00:47:57.200
beach because misery loves company. There's a reason why that's a saying. There's a reason

823
00:47:57.200 --> 00:48:03.280
why it's a saying. Here's what I want to tell you, friends. Be the person in the water getting

824
00:48:03.280 --> 00:48:08.400
criticized, not the person on the beach criticizing. I'm going to say it again. Be the

825
00:48:08.400 --> 00:48:13.360
person in the water getting criticized instead of the person on the beach criticizing. Do you feel

826
00:48:13.360 --> 00:48:20.880
me, yo? We have all been the person on the beach criticizing, so no shame in your game. If that's

827
00:48:20.880 --> 00:48:27.040
you, repent and ask God to deliver you from fear so that you can get out there with them, too.

828
00:48:28.480 --> 00:48:32.000
He promises that he's going to be with us, and he's faithful to answer our prayers,

829
00:48:32.000 --> 00:48:34.800
even those of us that are crazy enough to sail the distant seas.

830
00:48:37.440 --> 00:48:40.800
I love it. This is going to be my new life motto.

831
00:48:44.400 --> 00:48:48.320
I guarantee you those people that are out there, I can't see them close enough, but I

832
00:48:49.040 --> 00:48:53.840
bet you they're giving each other tips. Someone's sail is falling over. Another person's saying,

833
00:48:53.840 --> 00:49:00.800
hey, do this. Catch this. Someone's cruising by, and they're picking up something for someone and

834
00:49:00.800 --> 00:49:05.920
helping them. Why? Because they're all out there together. They're all the crazy ones that are

835
00:49:05.920 --> 00:49:11.680
going to give this a shot. That's what I want this community to be. I want all of us to be the people

836
00:49:11.680 --> 00:49:16.720
that are in the water. Using our affiliate program, we can get the people off the beach into the water.

837
00:49:18.160 --> 00:49:22.320
We can cheer them on. We can say, hey, it's not as bad as you think. Instead of being negative,

838
00:49:22.320 --> 00:49:26.640
oh, there's no good men left in the earth, or oh, all the women are gold diggers. Instead of that,

839
00:49:26.640 --> 00:49:31.520
we can start saying something different. Like, hey, you know what? Yeah, you have to meet

840
00:49:31.520 --> 00:49:39.200
more than one person, but there are good people out here if you get out here, right? Hey, there's

841
00:49:39.200 --> 00:49:44.480
more than just getting married out here. There's also being encouraged and having other people

842
00:49:44.480 --> 00:49:51.280
cheer you on to the biggest dreams and goals of your life. Lock arms with us. Oh, you're alone?

843
00:49:51.280 --> 00:49:55.360
Okay. You don't have to be alone. You can come sit with us. That is what I want this community

844
00:49:55.360 --> 00:49:59.920
to be. I want us to be the ones that are crazy enough, the dreamers, okay?

845
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:03.840
Okay, the doers that are encouraging all the people

846
00:50:03.840 --> 00:50:07.160
that are sitting around doing nothing to come do it with us.

847
00:50:07.160 --> 00:50:08.560
They don't wanna do it alone, that's okay,

848
00:50:08.560 --> 00:50:10.240
they can come do it with us.

849
00:50:10.240 --> 00:50:11.580
Are you guys in?

850
00:50:11.580 --> 00:50:13.480
Do you guys wanna be those people too?

851
00:50:15.480 --> 00:50:17.000
And some of you, Mickey just said,

852
00:50:17.000 --> 00:50:18.120
somehow I'll get out there.

853
00:50:18.120 --> 00:50:21.080
Yeah, so get out there because you're gonna help her.

854
00:50:21.080 --> 00:50:22.520
You're gonna help her get out there.

855
00:50:22.520 --> 00:50:24.120
That's why we pray seven days a week

856
00:50:24.120 --> 00:50:27.720
because we pray for the supernatural help to get out there

857
00:50:27.720 --> 00:50:30.320
and then that's why we teach all the courses and classes

858
00:50:30.320 --> 00:50:32.880
that we do and we give you all the resources that we have

859
00:50:32.880 --> 00:50:35.600
because the practical ways of getting out there too

860
00:50:35.600 --> 00:50:36.920
and not just in your love life,

861
00:50:36.920 --> 00:50:38.760
but in all areas of your life

862
00:50:38.760 --> 00:50:40.400
because these kingdom alliances,

863
00:50:40.400 --> 00:50:42.360
these partnerships that God's making,

864
00:50:42.360 --> 00:50:44.920
they're not with losers, okay?

865
00:50:44.920 --> 00:50:46.520
They're with people that are doing things

866
00:50:46.520 --> 00:50:47.560
to change the earth.

867
00:50:47.560 --> 00:50:48.820
They're with world changers.

868
00:50:48.820 --> 00:50:49.960
You're a world changer

869
00:50:49.960 --> 00:50:51.560
and your partner will be a world changer

870
00:50:51.560 --> 00:50:55.300
and we are here to help you to become a world changer,

871
00:50:55.300 --> 00:50:57.740
to finish your course, to use your gifts and talents

872
00:50:57.740 --> 00:51:00.280
and to become all that God created you to be.

873
00:51:01.460 --> 00:51:03.100
That is what this movement's about.

874
00:51:03.100 --> 00:51:04.900
It's not just about getting married.

875
00:51:07.000 --> 00:51:08.800
It's not just about getting married.

876
00:51:10.300 --> 00:51:13.460
So here's to the misfits, the dreamers, the doers.

877
00:51:13.460 --> 00:51:15.980
God told me years ago, I didn't know what it meant,

878
00:51:15.980 --> 00:51:16.820
but he said, Jackie,

879
00:51:16.820 --> 00:51:18.020
you're gonna be the queen of the misfits.

880
00:51:18.020 --> 00:51:20.260
I'm like, ooh, that does not sound good.

881
00:51:21.260 --> 00:51:23.140
I did not know what that means.

882
00:51:23.340 --> 00:51:26.780
I do now because I believe

883
00:51:26.780 --> 00:51:29.020
that kingdom people are misfit people.

884
00:51:29.020 --> 00:51:29.860
I do.

885
00:51:29.860 --> 00:51:31.180
I believe that we've never fat.

886
00:51:31.180 --> 00:51:32.140
We've never fat.

887
00:51:32.140 --> 00:51:33.140
We've never fat.

888
00:51:33.140 --> 00:51:34.460
We've never fit anywhere.

889
00:51:34.460 --> 00:51:37.380
Everywhere we go, we always feel like the odd person out.

890
00:51:37.380 --> 00:51:38.820
We always know that there's more.

891
00:51:38.820 --> 00:51:41.180
We're the people that wanna get out on the sea.

892
00:51:41.180 --> 00:51:43.580
We're not the people that wanna stay on the beach.

893
00:51:43.580 --> 00:51:44.760
Y'all, the misfits are the people

894
00:51:44.760 --> 00:51:47.820
that are out doing the things, y'all.

895
00:51:47.820 --> 00:51:50.080
The people that are doing the status quo,

896
00:51:50.080 --> 00:51:51.900
the people that are living the norm life,

897
00:51:51.900 --> 00:51:53.980
the people that are in the churches, sitting on the pews,

898
00:51:53.980 --> 00:51:56.540
hearing the same message over and over again every week

899
00:51:56.540 --> 00:51:58.300
and acting like it's something different.

900
00:51:58.300 --> 00:52:00.660
Those are not the misfits.

901
00:52:05.060 --> 00:52:07.100
We're only misfits because the people

902
00:52:07.100 --> 00:52:09.380
that live the status quo called us that.

903
00:52:09.380 --> 00:52:11.820
We're actually the kingdom people.

904
00:52:11.820 --> 00:52:15.040
If you've ever watched that show, The Chosen,

905
00:52:15.040 --> 00:52:17.400
Jesus' disciples were the misfits, right?

906
00:52:17.400 --> 00:52:18.580
They were the people that were like,

907
00:52:18.580 --> 00:52:21.060
yes, I'm gonna go with you.

908
00:52:21.100 --> 00:52:22.220
I'm gonna follow you.

909
00:52:22.220 --> 00:52:23.940
I'm gonna do something different.

910
00:52:23.940 --> 00:52:25.820
I'm not gonna stay here in my little town.

911
00:52:25.820 --> 00:52:28.300
I'm not going to just settle for religion.

912
00:52:28.300 --> 00:52:29.120
I want more.

913
00:52:29.120 --> 00:52:30.500
I want relationships.

914
00:52:30.500 --> 00:52:31.720
And you're the Messiah.

915
00:52:32.600 --> 00:52:34.660
So I'm gonna have a relationship with you.

916
00:52:36.700 --> 00:52:37.540
Got it.

917
00:52:37.540 --> 00:52:38.740
And you guys, for those of you that are like,

918
00:52:38.740 --> 00:52:40.700
the thing that's keeping me back is my health,

919
00:52:40.700 --> 00:52:42.380
I wanna let you know I've been on a health journey

920
00:52:42.380 --> 00:52:44.100
for like a couple years now.

921
00:52:44.100 --> 00:52:46.820
And God continues to give me the new piece of the puzzle.

922
00:52:46.820 --> 00:52:48.600
He continues to give me the information

923
00:52:48.600 --> 00:52:50.100
that I need to go further.

924
00:52:50.100 --> 00:52:52.700
We can only go as far as these bodies are gonna take us.

925
00:52:52.700 --> 00:52:55.780
So all of you, your first step towards your dream or goal

926
00:52:55.780 --> 00:52:57.540
could be to get your health in order.

927
00:52:57.540 --> 00:53:02.340
Your first step would be today, you start eating correctly.

928
00:53:02.340 --> 00:53:04.660
Not tomorrow, not next week, not Monday.

929
00:53:04.660 --> 00:53:05.740
Diets always start on Monday.

930
00:53:05.740 --> 00:53:07.700
But it's not a diet, it's a lifestyle change.

931
00:53:07.700 --> 00:53:09.340
Today, you stop the sugar intake.

932
00:53:09.340 --> 00:53:11.380
Today, you just say no to the things

933
00:53:11.380 --> 00:53:13.540
that you know don't make you feel good,

934
00:53:13.540 --> 00:53:14.860
the things that make you tired,

935
00:53:14.860 --> 00:53:17.060
the things that make you grumpy,

936
00:53:17.060 --> 00:53:18.860
the things that hurt your stomach,

937
00:53:18.860 --> 00:53:20.340
the things that give you a rash.

938
00:53:20.340 --> 00:53:21.940
You're not gonna eat that stuff anymore.

939
00:53:21.940 --> 00:53:24.700
Today's the day that you go out and walk.

940
00:53:24.700 --> 00:53:26.500
One of my favorite students, Toby,

941
00:53:26.500 --> 00:53:28.420
she had an injury as a flight attendant.

942
00:53:28.420 --> 00:53:30.020
And when she first came into this community,

943
00:53:30.020 --> 00:53:32.700
she's an OG, when she first came into this community,

944
00:53:32.700 --> 00:53:35.060
when I first began, when it was called

945
00:53:35.060 --> 00:53:37.780
Married in 12 Months or Less, back in those days,

946
00:53:37.780 --> 00:53:39.180
we had the walking challenge.

947
00:53:39.180 --> 00:53:42.300
She could not walk for more than five minutes.

948
00:53:42.300 --> 00:53:43.500
She couldn't, y'all.

949
00:53:43.500 --> 00:53:44.940
She physically couldn't, but you know what?

950
00:53:44.940 --> 00:53:46.300
She did that five minutes.

951
00:53:46.300 --> 00:53:48.140
And that turned into 10, it turned into 15,

952
00:53:48.140 --> 00:53:50.220
it turned into 30, it turned into now,

953
00:53:50.220 --> 00:53:53.740
she's hiking, she's doing all kinds of stuff.

954
00:53:53.740 --> 00:53:55.820
She's got her life back.

955
00:53:55.820 --> 00:53:58.940
And we were cheering her on the entire way.

956
00:53:58.940 --> 00:54:00.780
Because it doesn't matter if you do it right,

957
00:54:00.780 --> 00:54:02.140
all that matters is if you do it.

958
00:54:02.140 --> 00:54:03.540
There's no right way to do it.

959
00:54:03.540 --> 00:54:04.860
All you gotta do is do it.

960
00:54:06.140 --> 00:54:07.980
So stop saying tomorrow.

961
00:54:07.980 --> 00:54:09.580
Today.

962
00:54:09.580 --> 00:54:11.340
Today, today is the day.

963
00:54:12.300 --> 00:54:14.540
That's why the Bible says today is the day of salvation.

964
00:54:14.540 --> 00:54:16.020
You know that word is sozo, right?

965
00:54:16.020 --> 00:54:18.020
That means today is the day that you are healed,

966
00:54:18.780 --> 00:54:19.620
that you are in the mind, body, spirit.

967
00:54:19.620 --> 00:54:21.300
Today is the day that you're made whole.

968
00:54:21.300 --> 00:54:23.620
Today is the day, not tomorrow.

969
00:54:23.620 --> 00:54:25.100
Today is the day.

970
00:54:25.100 --> 00:54:26.740
Remember that scripture.

971
00:54:26.740 --> 00:54:27.580
What was it again?

972
00:54:27.580 --> 00:54:29.500
Psalm 95.5, is that what it was?

973
00:54:30.740 --> 00:54:31.660
Write it down.

974
00:54:32.660 --> 00:54:33.740
Put it in the chat, somebody.

975
00:54:33.740 --> 00:54:34.580
What was it?

976
00:54:35.660 --> 00:54:37.100
He said he is faithful.

977
00:54:38.300 --> 00:54:40.340
65.5, he is faithful.

978
00:54:40.340 --> 00:54:42.540
He is faithful to answer our prayers.

979
00:54:42.540 --> 00:54:44.380
He is faithful to be with us

980
00:54:44.380 --> 00:54:46.260
as we're sailing those distant seas.

981
00:54:47.220 --> 00:54:49.980
He is faithful to show up with awesome deeds

982
00:54:51.140 --> 00:54:53.380
in an answer to what we're asking for.

983
00:54:53.380 --> 00:54:54.220
All right, so don't forget,

984
00:54:54.220 --> 00:54:55.660
we're gonna do that prophetic processing.

985
00:54:55.660 --> 00:54:56.620
We're gonna go ahead and make that

986
00:54:56.620 --> 00:54:58.340
our path session for this month.

987
00:54:58.340 --> 00:54:59.540
Be there or be square.

988
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:01.880
Love y'all, send some prayers to us

989
00:55:01.880 --> 00:55:03.600
as we sail the distant seas.

990
00:55:03.600 --> 00:55:05.920
And all of you remember, today is the day.

991
00:55:05.920 --> 00:55:07.240
Today is the day that you start.

992
00:55:07.240 --> 00:55:08.240
You're gonna look back and say,

993
00:55:08.240 --> 00:55:11.080
it all started on this crazy day,

994
00:55:11.080 --> 00:55:12.400
on this supernatural Saturday

995
00:55:12.400 --> 00:55:14.800
with all the announcements in the background,

996
00:55:14.800 --> 00:55:17.120
with all the disruptions and all the distractions,

997
00:55:17.120 --> 00:55:18.880
because I feel like that is the word for us.

998
00:55:18.880 --> 00:55:21.720
Doesn't matter what tries to disrupt or distract you.

999
00:55:21.720 --> 00:55:23.400
From this moment forward, friends,

1000
00:55:23.400 --> 00:55:26.560
anything that tries to make you break your focus

1001
00:55:26.560 --> 00:55:29.280
on what God has spoken to your heart today,

1002
00:55:29.360 --> 00:55:31.720
that is the enemy, whatever.

1003
00:55:31.720 --> 00:55:34.040
It's the enemy, no matter what it is.

1004
00:55:34.040 --> 00:55:35.760
We're not gonna break our focus.

1005
00:55:35.760 --> 00:55:36.920
We're gonna go forward.

1006
00:55:36.920 --> 00:55:38.880
No matter if the waves seem a little bit big,

1007
00:55:38.880 --> 00:55:39.960
we're in this together.

1008
00:55:39.960 --> 00:55:41.400
I love y'all, be blessed.

1009
00:55:43.600 --> 00:55:45.520
Have a wonderful trip, Jackie.

1010
00:55:47.840 --> 00:55:49.040
Have a great day, Jackie.

1011
00:55:49.040 --> 00:55:49.960
Enjoy your trip.

1012
00:55:51.200 --> 00:55:52.800
Have a wonderful trip, Jackie.

1013
00:55:52.800 --> 00:55:54.600
You and your family enjoy yourselves.

1014
00:55:54.600 --> 00:55:55.440
God bless you.

1015
00:55:57.040 --> 00:55:58.080
Prayers for safety.

1016
00:55:59.080 --> 00:55:59.920
Thank you, Jackie.

1017
00:55:59.920 --> 00:56:01.960
Hope you have a great trip.

1018
00:56:01.960 --> 00:56:03.080
Thank you, Jackie.

1019
00:56:04.120 --> 00:56:04.960
Thank you, Jackie.

1020
00:56:04.960 --> 00:56:06.680
I hope you have fun.

1021
00:56:06.680 --> 00:56:07.520
Thank you, Jackie.

1022
00:56:07.520 --> 00:56:09.640
Blessing, the grace and mercy,

1023
00:56:09.640 --> 00:56:11.640
traveling grace and mercy.

1024
00:56:11.640 --> 00:56:13.240
Love you guys.

1025
00:56:13.240 --> 00:56:14.080
Love you.

1026
00:56:14.080 --> 00:56:14.920
Bless you.

1027
00:56:14.920 --> 00:56:15.760
Love you too.

1028
00:56:15.760 --> 00:56:16.600
Bye, Jackie.

1029
00:56:16.600 --> 00:56:17.440
Bye everyone.

1030
00:56:17.440 --> 00:56:18.280
Bye.

1031
00:56:18.280 --> 00:56:19.120
Bye.

1032
00:56:19.120 --> 00:56:22.800
And these churros break these victories today for you.

1033
00:56:22.800 --> 00:56:24.240
Father Jesus covers you.

1034
00:56:24.240 --> 00:56:25.160
Amen, amen.
