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It's not good.

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All right, now that the recording is official,

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welcome, welcome, welcome to this bonus day.

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I get so excited teaching.

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This is, I think, one of my favorite master classes

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to teach.

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It's so transformational because we're talking about you.

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And we're talking about your divine identity.

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We're talking about who you're not, what are the lies, right?

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And who are you?

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And this is the whole key to stepping

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into fully living your life, your highest potential,

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your divine potential.

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And scripture is so rich on this topic.

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I could probably talk on this topic for a month.

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So I get going.

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I've been known to have gusts of 100 miles an hour

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when I speak.

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So that's what the recordings are for.

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You'll get new things each time.

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If you have your study guide, you

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can take notes in the study guide.

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Linda, if you'll pop the study guide link in one more time.

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And again, I want to welcome all of you who have joined.

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It's so great.

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Stay to the end.

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I've got so much to share with you.

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And I'm just blessed, just blessed

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to spend this time with you.

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So what I want to do myself is open up

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that I can see the chat.

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And so I'd love to hear where you're from.

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I've already met some of you.

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We've got Jop in Tennessee, and Peggy in Washington,

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and Dana in Texas, and I think Sharon's in California.

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Pop in the chat.

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Where are you from?

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And what day is this for you?

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Is this day number one?

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Have you been in all six days?

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Pop in the chat.

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Where are you from?

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And what day is this for you?

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We've had quite the series.

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The entire series will be up in the Prosper Women Facebook

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group until midnight Sunday night.

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I'll take it down Monday morning.

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So you can go back.

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You can binge if you missed.

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We covered a lot of powerful, powerful stuff.

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So enjoy those.

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If you want to own them and keep them

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and be able to go back to them any time,

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there is the VIP option.

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You get all the replays.

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And I love to do special things for the VIPs.

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So I'll be staying in touch with you.

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So Linda, I can't see, but I imagine you've done it.

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If you'll put the chat, if you'll put the guide so people

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can get all the verses, be taking notes, print that out,

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follow along.

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And put the VIP link if they missed any,

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that they're able to get that.

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I'm going to start with prayer.

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We are going to dive in.

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I'm going to move my light a little bit

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so I don't have a ring in my glasses.

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Oh, the joy of lighting.

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I think that's a little bit better.

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All right, all right.

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Who's ready?

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Let me see.

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I'm going to close down on not seeing all your names

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and open the chat because I want to see what

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you have to say in there.

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This is where we can stay in touch.

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All right, it's Kim's first day.

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Yep, all of it's included in the VIP replays, all six days,

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plus more.

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OK, love it, love it.

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OK, so yeah, like I said, we've even got Canada in the house.

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Kathleen, welcome.

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Sunnyvale, California.

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Austin, Texas.

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Woo-hoo, so excited.

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All right.

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I don't want to take another minute

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because we're going to cover a lot of territory.

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Who's ready?

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Put ready in the chat.

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Who is absolutely ready?

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All right, let's start with prayer.

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Father God, I thank you for this incredible topic.

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As we get to partner with you, I ask

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that you just open our spiritual senses

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to hear what you, Holy Spirit, have

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to say for each man or woman represented on this call.

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I ask, Lord, that we'll truly hear

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and that lies will be broken that have kept us stuck

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or playing small, any lies about who we aren't

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and what we can't do that doesn't line up with the word.

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I'm asking for breakthrough, supernatural breakthrough.

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And I'm asking who we are in your eyes

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that that will be revealed.

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And it'll reveal fresh hope, fresh inspiration,

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fresh energy.

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Let the words of my mouth, the meditation of my heart

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be pleasing in your sight.

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I ask it.

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Jesus name, amen.

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Welcome, welcome, welcome to all of you

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from all over the country and other countries.

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So glad that you are here.

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So we're talking about identity.

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We're talking about the question, who are you?

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We've been asking questions all week, right?

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We've asked, who or what is our source?

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Who or what is our source?

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Is our job our source?

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Our spouse our source?

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And the government our source?

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The economy our source?

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So we've been talking about who or what is our source?

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And there's one source.

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Everything else is a resource.

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And we've been talking, and this has a lot to do with today,

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who or what has been driving us?

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Many of you have been driven.

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Any of you, do I have any overachievers in the house?

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Anybody been driven?

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Pop me in the chat, right?

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You've been driven.

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And so we've been looking at what has been driving you.

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And is it fear?

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Is it lack?

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What is it?

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Not enoughness?

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Not good enough?

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Need to prove?

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What is it?

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And today we're asking the deep, deep question,

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who are you?

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And who are you not?

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What lies have you believed about who you are?

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So of course, as we've done all week long,

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we're gonna dive into the scripture.

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We're gonna dive into the science.

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We're gonna dive into the strategy.

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A lot of scripture today,

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because we're just gonna be just peeling back layers

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and just opening new frontiers.

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So a lot of scripture today.

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You see, you have been developing a story, a narrative.

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You created it, right?

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You created this story.

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Let's let in some of the people trying to come in here.

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Okay, there we go.

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So you've created a story about who you are,

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and you've also created a story about who you're not.

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And the thing about this is you've created

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and you've miscreated and you can recreate.

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And this is what I want you to understand

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is it's not in stone.

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When we create a story, it can be changed.

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And it can be lined back up with the truth of God's word.

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It can be lined back up with the truth of who you are.

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So maybe you've had a story.

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This week has been a lot of breakthrough week,

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and I've been doing a breakthrough calls, coaching calls.

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And I've had three women get breakthrough

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in this area around identity.

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And so yesterday did a breakthrough

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around what we put after the words, I am.

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I am is the name of God.

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make sure whatever you put after those words,

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I am are true about God.

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is that God?

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I am broke.

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If it's not, then it's not true.

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And it shouldn't be lined up with God's name.

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I am, okay?

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And so yesterday I dealt with one of the lies

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we broke through, and she was saying,

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and feeling, and acting accordingly, I am a failure.

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Have any of you felt that way?

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You start looking at your life,

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it's not going the way you want,

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and you say, I am a failure, okay?

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Good, you know, Victoria put in there, I am not good enough.

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Hey, we've got to break through those lies.

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I had another woman who had bought into

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what other people had said.

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Remember, people can feed you stuff.

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Imagine a spoon coming at you,

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and that spoon might be filled with poop.

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And it can be handed to you, here, eat this.

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And you get a choice.

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You eat it, you internalize it, you believe it,

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and you act accordingly.

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Or you say, that's not my reality,

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that doesn't line up with the word of God,

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and you don't eat it.

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We get that choice all the time.

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But many of us have eaten the poop.

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Any poop eaters that I'm talking about?

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You've eaten words that have been spoken over you, right?

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Poop off my diet.

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I love that, you guys are fun, I can tell already.

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So we broke a lie that had been spoken over one very brilliant,

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brilliant woman.

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She's been part of these calls.

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And she had that I am not good at.

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And she was about to do a very big speaking, important

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speaking business thing.

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to be a disappointment to them, that they really

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hoped it was the other team member that was going to speak.

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so less than.

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And we broke that.

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She went and she rocked it.

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So these stories that we create, we can uncreate, right?

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I had another one within this last week

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been taught that, you know what?

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Even if you don't agree with it, if it doesn't

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align with your spirit, you're not feeling good about it,

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and everything about your intuition is not liking this.

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But she was taught, you better go along to get along.

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Maybe some of you have been taught to play nice and go

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along to get along.

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Because if you don't, you'll be rejected.

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You won't be accepted, right?

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And so there's all of these lies that we buy into.

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There's no neutral thoughts.

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Every thought, every belief, every feeling has a fruit.

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So when we believe that, even if it's not true,

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but we internalize it, we believe it,

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it produces the fruit.

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And the fruit is the life that we're living.

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And so when you look at who we are,

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I like what Dr. Benjamin Hardy says,

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we're a combination of our stories, our narrative,

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what we believe about ourselves, and our standards,

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our stories and our standards.

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And so we've got this identity about who we are.

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And a lot of times, if I say, who are you,

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we think we're a role, right?

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So you say, I am a mom, or I am a teacher, I am a coach.

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No, that's not what you are.

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That's a role that you play.

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But the real question is, underneath all of that,

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who are you?

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I remember in 2012, when I went through a very painful divorce,

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everything that had been my life was gone.

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And so I was no longer a founder of a multi-seven figure

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company.

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I was no longer a homeschool mom.

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I was no longer a Bible study teacher.

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All the roles that I'd had were stripped away.

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And I was left to say, who am I?

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And this is where I want to come today.

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It's actually a beautiful place to strip away.

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If you've ever heard the story of Michelangelo

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and creating the statue of David,

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and they're like, how do you look at the stone

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and produce this incredible statue?

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I've been to the Louvre in Paris.

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And they're amazing, the detail and the muscles.

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And it's just incredible.

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And how do you do that?

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And he says, I simply chip away everything that is not David.

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This is so true for our life.

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Part of the goal of today is let's chip away everything

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that is not you, the real you, your identity,

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your divine identity.

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Let's chip that away.

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Who's ready for that?

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Put ready in the chat.

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We're going to do some chipping.

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So we're going to look at different aspects

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of this identity.

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And it's how we see ourselves.

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And it's how others see us.

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We're going to look at that.

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But I also want to look at, how did we come up

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with what we believe about ourselves?

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How did we get here?

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And I want you to think back for just a moment.

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And there's some things that you picked up

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that were being put down from the time you were born.

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And actually, the truth is it started in your womb,

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in your mother's womb.

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We now know when you were connected to the umbilical cord

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and you were sharing everything, you were absorbing everything.

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everything that was your mother, everything she ate and drank,

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if she did drugs, like you were absorbing all of this, but you

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were also absorbing her emotions. If there was emotions

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of love, you were just being filled with that. But if your

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mother had fear, like I know my mother did, right? You were

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absorbing. And maybe there was even in that fear, she actually

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didn't want you. And you were absorbing that. And so we came

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out already with the frequencies of certain emotions in us. And

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then we come out, and that seems pretty traumatic, most births

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the way they happen, right? But then we start start our

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childhood journey, right? And we start learning things. And as we

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grow older, and we're four and five and six and seven, and we

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start learning that certain things are okay, and certain

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things are not okay. And certain things bring love and certain

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things bring things we don't like, could be a SWAT could be

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a mean look could be a mean words could be a withdrawing of

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love. I mean, there's all kinds of punishment from others to try

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to get you to step in line. Okay, could be neglect. And so

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we learned that it's not safe to be us. It's not safe to be.

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We entered kind of a dangerous place. I mean, some of us maybe

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didn't, and we just got coddled into love. And I bless you, that

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wasn't my experience. I was born to a bipolar drug addicted

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mother alcoholic. So for some of you, maybe you were just born

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into love, you had a home water birth, and your mom just

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nurtured you and sheltered you. And I pray that's true. But some

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of us, it didn't start out so well. And we learned it wasn't

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safe to be and, and then we started talking. And we were so

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excited. We were so filled with life. And we started asking, and

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we're like, Oh, mommy, daddy, I want this. I want that shiny

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crown. I want it. I'm a princess. I want those shoes. I

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want that bicycle. And you learned, perhaps with

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reprimand, or a look or neglect, that it's not safe to

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ask. And maybe you started adjusting, because you really

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wanted to be loved, and you wanted to be safe. And so maybe

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you started getting some shadows, like how can you be so

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selfish? Any of you have the selfish shadow, when you ask for

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something you were told you were selfish, any of you have the

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selfish shadow, right? And so it became not safe to ask not

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safe to be not not safe to ask. And then you got a little bit

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older, and maybe you worked for yourself, or you got something,

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and you found out it wasn't even safe to get. You know, I would

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get things I got a horse when I was young, a horse, a horse

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saved me through the trauma, I would often run away from home

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and sleep in the barn and loved my horse. And, and I became very

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good at competitive jumping and hunters hack and equestrian and

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all of that, and just loved my horse. And then my parents

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decided to move and they never asked in their alcoholic, they

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moved to a totally different city, and they sold the horse,

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I wasn't consulted. And so I got used to a new setting. And

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they bought a boat. And so I started water skiing, and this

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helped me. And so I would, I could water ski all the way

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around the lake, I had legs of steel, my dad couldn't get me

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down unless he just stopped the boat and let me go bloop, bloop,

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bloop, right. And so I started liking water skiing, but I was

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only there a year and a half, two years and alcoholic, they

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decided to move from Bass Lake to Placerville, and they sold

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the boat. And I wasn't asked if I it was okay to lose my

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friends or the sport or what I loved. And so we moved to

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Placerville. And then I began to see that even my things could

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be taken away. And so I began to see that that it's not safe to

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get because it can be used to manipulate you, it can be used

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to, it can be taken away from you as punishment or just taken

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away from you. Am I talking to anybody? This is all off the

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cuff. This is my experience. But am I talking to anyone put

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me in the chat? I'm so curious. Any of you relating? Are you

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picking up what I'm putting down? And so this is where the

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story started coming about, about in order to stay safe, I

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need to be a certain way, act a certain way and not act a

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certain way. Am I talking to anybody?

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So it's in this process that we create these stories.

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And so I want to show you a story in the Bible,

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page one on your guide.

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It comes from Numbers 13.33, Numbers 13.33.

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There's this interesting story.

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God had pulled them out of Egypt, the Hebrews,

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and promised them a land flowing with milk and honey.

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And so they get, finally, takes 40 years

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of going through so much.

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We'll talk about that in a minute.

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But they get to the promised land,

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and they send in 10 spies to go see what are we dealing with.

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And the 10 spies go in, and they come out to give a report.

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And eight of them have a negative report.

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Only two have a good report.

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Eight of them have a fear-based report.

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And so you see in Numbers 13.33, it says,

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there we saw the Nephilim.

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These were the giants, the sons of Anak.

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And look what it says.

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And we were like, anybody write in the chat,

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what were they comparing themselves to?

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We were like, what?

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Grasshoppers.

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What a visual.

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And we were like grasshoppers where?

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Grasshoppers in our own what?

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Sight, in our own sight.

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You see, this is starting in what we're taking in

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and we're believing about ourselves.

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Now, keep in mind, these are human beings

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made in the image of God.

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They've come through so many miracles.

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I mean, God has been with them, leading them by day,

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right, with the cloud, leading them by night, with fire,

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dropping manna from heaven.

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These are like human beings made in the image of God.

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And their self-perception, their self-identity

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was to compare themselves with one of the smallest,

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puniest, most limited, like you can step on it, grasshopper.

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And what's so interesting about that is it says,

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we were like grasshoppers in our own sight.

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We were like grasshoppers in our own sight.

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And so we were in their sight.

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Now, this is a fascinating thing,

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that as you are seeing yourself, you are creating

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how other people see you.

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In other words, how you are showing up

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is how they're perceiving you.

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And so like I shared earlier in the week,

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beautiful, brilliant woman, I mean, master's degree,

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a powerful woman who's accomplished top earner,

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just building just amazing things, doing amazing things,

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loves God.

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But in her own eyes, she saw herself

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as a grasshopper in a sense, in her own way,

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that she was less than her colleague.

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And so she was thinking that they actually

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wished that the company that hired them

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would have actually gotten the colleague and not her.

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And she'd been told by people that she's not good with people

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and not good with crowds.

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And so here she was about to show up

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with those lies determining how she showed up.

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And when we broke those lies and we

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spoke the truth of who she truly was, guess how she showed up?

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Powerfully, she rocked it.

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They loved her.

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She was great with people.

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She was great with a crowd.

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You see, those beliefs were not based in truth.

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And so here it says, we were like grasshoppers

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in our own sight.

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And so we were in theirs.

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And so we've crafted these crazy stories about ourselves.

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And so today is about aligning them up with truth.

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So what did I do with these women

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to help them break through?

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Well, the first thing is we've got to identify the lie.

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And we did that this week, didn't we?

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And so I really love Byron Katie's questions.

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I've kind of adopted them to make them my own.

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The first thing when you have these thoughts and you say,

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is that true?

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Is that true?

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And your brain at first wants to say it's true.

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Because let me tell you, all those experiences

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that you learned in your life, your brain has one major focus

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and that's to keep you safe.

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Your brain is dedicated to keeping you safe.

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And in process, it often keeps you paralyzed

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and not moving forward.

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Because to keep you safe, then you can't take risks.

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You can't step out of your comfort zone.

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You can't try new things.

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And so to keep you safe, you procrastinate.

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To keep you safe, you play small.

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To keep you safe, right?

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And so is that true?

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And to really lock it in, can I absolutely know that's true?

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And let me tell you, as many years as I've been doing this,

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the answer always comes up with no.

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No, it's not true.

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So we've been believing a lie.

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The Bible calls it cleverly devised tales.

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The Bible calls it things that exalt itself above the truth.

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It says we've got to demolish those things that

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exalt itself above the truth.

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And so we've been believing these lies

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and living them out and acting on them.

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And so the second question, we find out it's not true.

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And I said, there's no neutral thoughts.

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There's no neutral beliefs.

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They always have a fruit.

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So the second question, and you can do this yourself,

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the second question I ask is, OK, so you've

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been believing a lie.

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We've come to that so far, OK?

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It was not necessarily with evil intention.

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It was to keep you safe.

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And you bought into a lie.

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You ate the poop, OK?

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You took the spoonful, right?

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And so I ask the question, what is

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the fruit of believing that lie?

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In other words, when you believe that lie, how do you feel?

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And how do you show up?

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How do you act?

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100% of the time, I've been doing this for decades,

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100% of the time, the fruit is low frequency.

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I feel paralyzed.

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I feel stuck.

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I feel not good enough.

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I feel frustrated.

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I feel angry.

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I feel lost.

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I feel sad, whatever.

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It's all low frequency stuff.

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And the fruit is, I play small.

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I procrastinate.

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I don't follow up.

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I don't ask for anything.

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I don't ask for the sale.

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I don't expect things.

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I like all those safe things.

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That's the fruit.

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And so then the third question I ask

517
00:27:48.120 --> 00:27:52.360
is, if you were willing to release that lie,

518
00:27:52.360 --> 00:27:54.160
because we already established it's a lie,

519
00:27:54.160 --> 00:27:57.800
and we already established that the fruit is not so good.

520
00:27:57.800 --> 00:28:02.840
So if you were willing to let go of that fruit, of that lie,

521
00:28:02.840 --> 00:28:04.560
if you were willing to let go of that lie,

522
00:28:04.560 --> 00:28:06.720
what would be the fruit?

523
00:28:06.720 --> 00:28:08.240
And it's amazing.

524
00:28:08.240 --> 00:28:10.520
100% of the time, this has never failed.

525
00:28:10.520 --> 00:28:15.560
100% of the time, oh, if I let go of that, I'd be happy.

526
00:28:15.560 --> 00:28:17.040
I'd be filled with joy.

527
00:28:17.040 --> 00:28:18.720
I'd feel confident.

528
00:28:18.720 --> 00:28:21.080
I would start pursuing my dreams.

529
00:28:21.080 --> 00:28:22.440
I would play bigger.

530
00:28:22.440 --> 00:28:23.640
I would go for it.

531
00:28:23.640 --> 00:28:24.560
I would.

532
00:28:24.560 --> 00:28:27.320
And so 100% of the time, if we were

533
00:28:27.320 --> 00:28:31.920
willing to let go of that lie, then we operate in high

534
00:28:31.920 --> 00:28:34.640
frequency, and we take high frequency actions.

535
00:28:34.640 --> 00:28:37.520
Remember, we said all our thoughts, all our beliefs

536
00:28:37.520 --> 00:28:39.440
are either love-based or fear-based.

537
00:28:39.440 --> 00:28:41.680
And if they're fear-based, they're lie-based.

538
00:28:41.680 --> 00:28:43.840
And if they're fear-based, they're keeping you stuck.

539
00:28:43.840 --> 00:28:45.480
They're not based on truth.

540
00:28:45.480 --> 00:28:47.920
And if they're love-based, they're based on truth.

541
00:28:47.920 --> 00:28:50.160
And we've been talking, this is your,

542
00:28:50.160 --> 00:28:54.280
the whole series has been your expansion formula.

543
00:28:54.280 --> 00:28:56.120
We've been talking about expanding.

544
00:28:56.120 --> 00:29:00.360
We've been talking about the contrast of contracting,

545
00:29:00.360 --> 00:29:02.520
and fear contracts.

546
00:29:02.520 --> 00:29:06.640
And so we've been talking about the opposite of contracting,

547
00:29:06.640 --> 00:29:08.960
because a recession is a contraction.

548
00:29:08.960 --> 00:29:11.480
When you're afraid, your whole body contracts.

549
00:29:11.480 --> 00:29:14.240
When you're afraid, your mind contracts.

550
00:29:14.240 --> 00:29:17.760
And when you're afraid, your actions contract.

551
00:29:17.800 --> 00:29:22.120
And when you operate in love, and you operate in truth,

552
00:29:22.120 --> 00:29:24.440
then you're expansive.

553
00:29:24.440 --> 00:29:27.320
And so you're more bold, and you take risks,

554
00:29:27.320 --> 00:29:29.320
and you're willing to try new things,

555
00:29:29.320 --> 00:29:32.480
and you're willing to step out of your comfort zone, right?

556
00:29:32.480 --> 00:29:39.320
And so we ask that, and we see that it's very high frequency.

557
00:29:39.320 --> 00:29:41.880
And so then, remember we said all week

558
00:29:41.880 --> 00:29:45.120
that this all starts with awareness?

559
00:29:45.120 --> 00:29:47.560
What I'm talking about today, it's first about awareness.

560
00:29:47.600 --> 00:29:48.560
How did we get here?

561
00:29:48.560 --> 00:29:51.760
And what actually am I believing about myself?

562
00:29:51.760 --> 00:29:52.920
Write it down.

563
00:29:52.920 --> 00:29:55.680
We had some exercises about that.

564
00:29:55.680 --> 00:29:57.440
And so it's about awareness,

565
00:29:57.440 --> 00:30:00.280
and then it moves when you discover the truth.

566
00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.480
truths, and we replace the lies with truth,

567
00:30:03.480 --> 00:30:08.240
it comes to our God-given ability to choose.

568
00:30:08.240 --> 00:30:12.680
And so now we choose to think differently, speak differently,

569
00:30:12.680 --> 00:30:16.000
act differently, be different, right?

570
00:30:16.000 --> 00:30:18.320
And so we move from awareness to,

571
00:30:18.320 --> 00:30:22.120
and this is something only you can do, only you can choose.

572
00:30:22.120 --> 00:30:25.400
We choose to step into a new reality.

573
00:30:25.400 --> 00:30:29.080
And so I repeat many times to them to get it in their head.

574
00:30:29.080 --> 00:30:30.520
I repeat it.

575
00:30:30.520 --> 00:30:33.720
Those of you that have done like spirit tapping with me,

576
00:30:33.720 --> 00:30:36.560
and I use emotional frequency technique.

577
00:30:36.560 --> 00:30:38.760
I use prayer and intercession.

578
00:30:38.760 --> 00:30:43.160
I use the word and I use this question

579
00:30:43.160 --> 00:30:45.040
that comes from Byron Katie.

580
00:30:45.040 --> 00:30:47.440
And so I repeat it and I say,

581
00:30:47.440 --> 00:30:50.240
so you've been believing this lie

582
00:30:50.240 --> 00:30:52.440
and all of you can write down the lie.

583
00:30:52.440 --> 00:30:53.680
I'm a failure.

584
00:30:53.680 --> 00:30:55.040
I'm not good enough.

585
00:30:55.040 --> 00:30:56.560
I don't have enough.

586
00:30:56.800 --> 00:30:58.920
Whatever, whatever the lies you believe

587
00:30:58.920 --> 00:31:01.560
and new ones will surface as you start to eliminate

588
00:31:01.560 --> 00:31:03.200
everything that's not you.

589
00:31:03.200 --> 00:31:05.840
And then you write down the fruit

590
00:31:05.840 --> 00:31:07.920
and you see what's being produced.

591
00:31:07.920 --> 00:31:09.600
And so I say, and that's producing

592
00:31:09.600 --> 00:31:12.120
these low frequency results, right?

593
00:31:12.120 --> 00:31:16.000
Low frequency emotions, which causes disease in the body.

594
00:31:16.000 --> 00:31:19.320
It causes not to attract all of that, right?

595
00:31:19.320 --> 00:31:23.360
And if I released it, if I was willing to release it,

596
00:31:23.360 --> 00:31:25.200
it would mean high frequency thoughts,

597
00:31:25.200 --> 00:31:26.960
high frequency actions.

598
00:31:26.960 --> 00:31:29.560
And so then I asked the big choice question,

599
00:31:29.560 --> 00:31:33.240
are you willing to activate,

600
00:31:33.240 --> 00:31:36.360
to use your God-given ability to choose?

601
00:31:36.360 --> 00:31:39.000
Because we know it's a lie and it's producing bad results.

602
00:31:39.000 --> 00:31:40.440
Are you willing to choose?

603
00:31:40.440 --> 00:31:42.320
Actually, before that, I asked the question,

604
00:31:42.320 --> 00:31:44.040
can you give me any good reason

605
00:31:44.040 --> 00:31:46.280
to continue to hold onto this lie?

606
00:31:46.280 --> 00:31:48.280
And of course there's no good reason.

607
00:31:48.280 --> 00:31:50.920
Then I ask, okay, are you willing?

608
00:31:50.920 --> 00:31:54.800
Now we activate our God-given choice, okay?

609
00:31:55.200 --> 00:31:56.560
And we do this through prayer

610
00:31:56.560 --> 00:31:58.840
and then we get it out of the body

611
00:31:58.840 --> 00:32:03.840
and we move forward to get this out, okay?

612
00:32:04.200 --> 00:32:08.800
And so from there, we can step into a new version.

613
00:32:08.800 --> 00:32:10.640
So, what do you think?

614
00:32:10.640 --> 00:32:13.000
If they saw themselves as grasshoppers,

615
00:32:13.000 --> 00:32:15.560
do you think that that's very contracted

616
00:32:15.560 --> 00:32:17.680
or do you think it's very expansive?

617
00:32:17.680 --> 00:32:20.720
Do you think they were playing really big and bold

618
00:32:20.720 --> 00:32:22.680
and stepping into God's promises

619
00:32:22.680 --> 00:32:25.360
and inheriting the land of milk and honey?

620
00:32:25.360 --> 00:32:27.960
Or do you think they wanted to hide and cower

621
00:32:27.960 --> 00:32:30.120
as a grasshopper so they don't get stepped on,

622
00:32:30.120 --> 00:32:32.280
that they wanna stay safe, right?

623
00:32:32.280 --> 00:32:37.120
And so it was a very contracted way of being.

624
00:32:37.120 --> 00:32:41.000
So this is what we must look at is how do we see ourselves?

625
00:32:41.000 --> 00:32:42.800
That's the first part of this.

626
00:32:42.800 --> 00:32:46.440
And we do the deep work, how do we see ourselves?

627
00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:51.440
And then we look at how do others see us?

628
00:32:53.480 --> 00:32:55.640
How do others see us?

629
00:32:55.640 --> 00:32:59.880
And there's this powerful verse that Jesus said

630
00:32:59.880 --> 00:33:04.880
in Matthew 16, 15, 15, or Matthew 16, 15, okay?

631
00:33:07.960 --> 00:33:12.960
And it says, Jesus said to them,

632
00:33:16.440 --> 00:33:21.280
he asked them the question, first he opened kind of vague,

633
00:33:21.280 --> 00:33:23.200
who do people say that I am?

634
00:33:24.040 --> 00:33:25.920
And they said, well, some think you're Elijah

635
00:33:25.920 --> 00:33:27.120
come back to life.

636
00:33:27.120 --> 00:33:29.440
Some think you're John the Baptist.

637
00:33:29.440 --> 00:33:32.560
Some think you're just a prophet or a teacher.

638
00:33:32.560 --> 00:33:34.480
So he asked kind of the general question.

639
00:33:34.480 --> 00:33:36.400
We all have to answer this about Jesus.

640
00:33:36.400 --> 00:33:38.240
Who do you say Jesus is?

641
00:33:38.240 --> 00:33:41.200
So some say any of those things, he's a prophet,

642
00:33:41.200 --> 00:33:43.040
he's a teacher.

643
00:33:43.040 --> 00:33:47.600
And then he got real direct to Peter and he says,

644
00:33:47.600 --> 00:33:52.600
but who do you say that I am?

645
00:33:53.200 --> 00:33:55.480
The question we all have to answer.

646
00:33:55.480 --> 00:33:59.160
And Simon Peter in verse 16 answers,

647
00:33:59.160 --> 00:34:02.200
you are the Christ, the Messiah, the anointed,

648
00:34:02.200 --> 00:34:04.400
the son of the living God.

649
00:34:05.720 --> 00:34:09.719
And verse 17, Jesus answered him, blessed.

650
00:34:09.719 --> 00:34:11.480
This is the amplified translation.

651
00:34:11.480 --> 00:34:15.920
So it gives you all the words, blessed, happy,

652
00:34:15.920 --> 00:34:18.760
spiritually secure, favored by God.

653
00:34:18.760 --> 00:34:23.400
Are you Simon, son of Jonah, because flesh and blood,

654
00:34:23.400 --> 00:34:25.920
mortal man did not reveal this to you,

655
00:34:25.920 --> 00:34:28.400
but my father who's in heaven.

656
00:34:29.600 --> 00:34:34.600
Now, here's what I wanna consider with Jesus' answer.

657
00:34:35.480 --> 00:34:38.679
His answer was so quick and it's like,

658
00:34:38.679 --> 00:34:42.639
he knew Peter was speaking truth, he recognized truth.

659
00:34:43.480 --> 00:34:48.480
But in order for Jesus to recognize Peter's answer

660
00:34:49.159 --> 00:34:54.159
as the truth, he had to already know his own identity.

661
00:34:56.880 --> 00:35:00.240
So when someone says something to you,

662
00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:05.200
You have to recognize, is that coming from fear-based or is that coming love-based?

663
00:35:05.200 --> 00:35:12.240
Are they saying that because they're scared and they're trying to lash out or protect themselves

664
00:35:12.240 --> 00:35:17.920
because everybody's trying to play safe or are they saying that from a place of love and they're

665
00:35:17.920 --> 00:35:25.680
speaking truth into my life? Before you take the spoon, you have to know your own identity

666
00:35:25.680 --> 00:35:33.440
to be able to discern if what other people are saying is true because that's how you're

667
00:35:33.440 --> 00:35:40.320
going to decide if you accept it. Let me give you an example. If I say to you right now,

668
00:35:40.320 --> 00:35:51.440
you are such a frog. I'm telling you, Sharon, Job, Dana, Peyton, I mean, you are a frog.

669
00:35:51.600 --> 00:35:58.560
You know, it's not going to have a lot of impact because you don't believe that about yourself.

670
00:35:58.560 --> 00:36:04.000
You've pretty much established, I'm not a frog, I hope. Okay. And so it doesn't mean a whole lot

671
00:36:04.000 --> 00:36:12.240
to you. You're not going to take it in. But if I say, how could you do such a stupid thing?

672
00:36:12.240 --> 00:36:18.400
You are so stupid. Now, if you carry the stupid gene, you're going to go, yep,

673
00:36:18.400 --> 00:36:26.560
there's confirmation. I'm stupid. Right? Do you follow me? So these decisions that you've made

674
00:36:26.560 --> 00:36:31.680
have opened the door for what you'll receive from other people. And you'll either say, no,

675
00:36:31.680 --> 00:36:37.200
that's not true. Return to sender. Or you'll go, yeah, that's from the Lord. Thank you. I received

676
00:36:37.200 --> 00:36:44.160
that. Are you picking up what I'm putting down? I'm laying some heavy change agent stuff for you.

677
00:36:44.160 --> 00:36:47.920
Pop in the chat. Are you picking up what I'm putting down?

678
00:36:50.000 --> 00:36:57.760
So Jesus, to recognize that Peter's answer was truth and that it came from God and that it was

679
00:36:57.760 --> 00:37:06.400
anointed, he had to already know his identity. And notice that at this moment, Jesus was not

680
00:37:06.400 --> 00:37:16.320
seeking affirmation. He was highlighting a profound principle of knowing who we are in

681
00:37:16.320 --> 00:37:25.520
the eyes of God. Right? So how did Jesus know his identity? How did he recognize

682
00:37:26.240 --> 00:37:33.920
that Peter was speaking the truth? Where do we get our identity? How did you decide the things

683
00:37:33.920 --> 00:37:41.120
you believe? And this is amazing. Okay. I'm going to stretch you a little bit, especially if you

684
00:37:41.120 --> 00:37:50.480
tend to be very rigid in your thinking. If you tend to be religious, religious, the word religion

685
00:37:50.480 --> 00:37:57.920
means back to bondage. So religion can be very, any of you maybe have learned very, and I'm not

686
00:37:57.920 --> 00:38:02.160
talking about truth, right? I'm not talking about faith. I'm not talking about being spiritual.

687
00:38:02.160 --> 00:38:07.680
I'm talking about religion right now. And when you're very rigid and you're very,

688
00:38:09.120 --> 00:38:18.160
then you think that because you believe it, it's true. And so you have to do some digging.

689
00:38:19.520 --> 00:38:27.120
Like, where did I get that belief? Where did I come up with that belief? Did you research it from

690
00:38:27.120 --> 00:38:34.240
scripture and God revealed it to you from heaven? Or did you get it from broken, hurting people

691
00:38:35.200 --> 00:38:40.800
who got it from broken, hurting people who got it from broken, hurting people? And it just keeps

692
00:38:41.360 --> 00:38:44.240
passed down the line. Where did you get that belief?

693
00:38:46.960 --> 00:38:53.760
And a belief, by the way, is a strongly held opinion. Beliefs can be changed because you

694
00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:59.360
believe something does not make it true. Any of you, have you ever believed something? I'm really

695
00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:07.680
curious. Put this in the chat. Have you ever believed something that was not true? Man, did

696
00:39:07.680 --> 00:39:20.640
you believe it? Did it influence your life? Any of you? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, any of you believed

697
00:39:20.640 --> 00:39:26.400
in Santa Claus, a fat man that came down your chimney and you even left him cookies and milk?

698
00:39:26.400 --> 00:39:33.360
And boy, were you excited. And boy, did you ever believe that? Was it true? No, a strongly held

699
00:39:33.360 --> 00:39:38.880
opinion that you got from someone who got from someone who got from someone. Did you believe in

700
00:39:38.880 --> 00:39:44.240
the truth tooth fairy? That actually you couldn't wait to lose that tooth and you were going to get

701
00:39:44.240 --> 00:39:49.440
some money underneath your pillow? Did you believe in the Easter bunny? Okay, I'm talking the childhood

702
00:39:49.440 --> 00:39:59.760
beliefs, but this didn't stop in childhood. Now I understand. I came.

703
00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:02.480
from his, it came from his fear and his pain.

704
00:40:02.480 --> 00:40:03.360
Yes, sister.

705
00:40:03.360 --> 00:40:06.080
So she was influenced by a pastor.

706
00:40:06.080 --> 00:40:09.920
Many of us were, who were influenced from their own.

707
00:40:09.920 --> 00:40:13.200
Let me tell you, this will give you compassion.

708
00:40:13.200 --> 00:40:14.720
This will give you love.

709
00:40:14.720 --> 00:40:16.840
This will stop the judgment.

710
00:40:16.840 --> 00:40:19.920
I'm not saying what people did to you was right.

711
00:40:19.920 --> 00:40:23.600
I was sexually abused as a child, doesn't make it right.

712
00:40:23.600 --> 00:40:26.320
Some of you were trafficked, doesn't make it right.

713
00:40:26.320 --> 00:40:28.840
Some of you were beaten, doesn't make it right.

714
00:40:28.840 --> 00:40:33.160
Some of you had narcissistic abuse, doesn't make it right.

715
00:40:33.160 --> 00:40:37.040
They were simply acting out of their fear.

716
00:40:37.040 --> 00:40:41.200
And their fear made them desire

717
00:40:41.200 --> 00:40:43.400
to control their circumstances.

718
00:40:43.400 --> 00:40:45.720
Fear wants to make you feel safe.

719
00:40:45.720 --> 00:40:47.200
And in order to feel safe,

720
00:40:47.200 --> 00:40:49.640
you want to control your environment.

721
00:40:49.640 --> 00:40:53.240
So sometimes you become controlling, sometimes.

722
00:40:53.240 --> 00:40:56.040
So much of what we see that's being labeled narcissists,

723
00:40:56.040 --> 00:40:58.960
so much of what we see in our society,

724
00:40:58.960 --> 00:41:01.920
it's about their need to feel safe.

725
00:41:01.920 --> 00:41:04.400
It's them speaking from their pain

726
00:41:04.400 --> 00:41:09.080
and hurting people hurt people, and it gets passed down.

727
00:41:09.080 --> 00:41:11.080
Okay, let me see what you guys are saying.

728
00:41:11.080 --> 00:41:15.000
My father never let us stop believing in Santa Claus

729
00:41:15.000 --> 00:41:17.320
every year around the dining room table.

730
00:41:17.320 --> 00:41:19.840
Okay, so this was one that, boy, we're not letting go

731
00:41:19.840 --> 00:41:22.200
of his not even childhood, we're sticking to this.

732
00:41:22.200 --> 00:41:25.560
And was he a fat man that came down your chimney in a sleigh?

733
00:41:25.560 --> 00:41:27.480
And he took his sleigh to everybody?

734
00:41:27.480 --> 00:41:31.400
Like, wow, some of our beliefs are that silly.

735
00:41:32.800 --> 00:41:34.560
Some of our beliefs are that silly.

736
00:41:35.440 --> 00:41:38.760
And then what happens when we're asked to put our faith

737
00:41:38.760 --> 00:41:40.280
and believe in Jesus?

738
00:41:41.640 --> 00:41:44.440
Man, we've been disappointed so many times,

739
00:41:44.440 --> 00:41:46.360
but that's another story.

740
00:41:46.360 --> 00:41:49.240
Okay, so where do we get our identity?

741
00:41:49.240 --> 00:41:51.120
We're on the next page.

742
00:41:51.120 --> 00:41:54.560
And this is kind of like the question I asked you earlier,

743
00:41:54.560 --> 00:41:57.360
who or what is your source?

744
00:41:57.360 --> 00:41:59.480
Who or what is your source?

745
00:41:59.480 --> 00:42:01.920
And for some people, like, man,

746
00:42:01.920 --> 00:42:03.960
they're counting on their pension fund, that's their source,

747
00:42:03.960 --> 00:42:05.160
or they're counting on their job,

748
00:42:05.160 --> 00:42:06.880
or they're counting on their client.

749
00:42:06.880 --> 00:42:09.720
They're not looking from a place of how can I add value

750
00:42:09.720 --> 00:42:12.360
to their client, or maybe that's secondary.

751
00:42:12.360 --> 00:42:14.840
They're saying, if I could just get a client,

752
00:42:14.840 --> 00:42:18.600
I could pay my bills, because my client is my source.

753
00:42:18.600 --> 00:42:21.480
You see, and so we get all this twisted, right?

754
00:42:21.480 --> 00:42:24.080
Well, the same thing is true with our identity.

755
00:42:24.600 --> 00:42:27.280
Where do we get our identity?

756
00:42:27.280 --> 00:42:31.720
And so for some, their identity is being a mother.

757
00:42:31.720 --> 00:42:34.480
Why do you think we go through such trauma

758
00:42:34.480 --> 00:42:36.960
with empty nests for many?

759
00:42:36.960 --> 00:42:39.840
Some didn't get their identity from being parents.

760
00:42:39.840 --> 00:42:43.120
They were great parents, but it wasn't their identity.

761
00:42:43.120 --> 00:42:45.320
So when the kids left, they're like, cool,

762
00:42:45.320 --> 00:42:47.280
this is the next season in my life.

763
00:42:47.280 --> 00:42:48.600
What business am I gonna start?

764
00:42:48.600 --> 00:42:50.200
What ministry am I gonna jump into?

765
00:42:50.200 --> 00:42:51.200
They were cool.

766
00:42:51.240 --> 00:42:54.640
For others, it was completely grieving and devastating,

767
00:42:54.640 --> 00:42:58.080
like now that I'm not a mom, who am I?

768
00:42:58.080 --> 00:43:00.280
Some, it was around their money,

769
00:43:00.280 --> 00:43:02.680
and they had really done well,

770
00:43:02.680 --> 00:43:06.840
and then something came like 2008 or the pandemic,

771
00:43:06.840 --> 00:43:09.920
and their identity was, I'm a business person,

772
00:43:09.920 --> 00:43:11.560
I'm a wealthy business person,

773
00:43:11.560 --> 00:43:13.680
I'm an influential business person,

774
00:43:13.680 --> 00:43:15.760
and all of that is stripped away.

775
00:43:15.760 --> 00:43:18.800
I've had some women this week saying to me,

776
00:43:18.800 --> 00:43:22.160
I feel like everything is being stripped away,

777
00:43:23.040 --> 00:43:24.880
but then it's kind of like David,

778
00:43:24.880 --> 00:43:28.640
we get to discover who are we?

779
00:43:28.640 --> 00:43:31.960
And so where do you get your identity?

780
00:43:31.960 --> 00:43:32.800
That's the question.

781
00:43:32.800 --> 00:43:34.320
Is it from your money?

782
00:43:34.320 --> 00:43:36.840
Do you feel less than when you don't have money?

783
00:43:36.840 --> 00:43:39.000
Some of you, it's your degrees.

784
00:43:40.120 --> 00:43:43.040
I mean, I'm looking at some really intelligent women

785
00:43:43.040 --> 00:43:44.360
on this call.

786
00:43:44.480 --> 00:43:49.040
Some of you that I'm looking at have multiple PhDs.

787
00:43:49.040 --> 00:43:51.000
Sharon is a two PhDs, three.

788
00:43:51.000 --> 00:43:55.760
I mean, I'm looking at some brilliant women here.

789
00:43:55.760 --> 00:43:58.800
No joke, okay?

790
00:43:58.800 --> 00:44:02.880
And on all levels, brilliant in so many different ways,

791
00:44:02.880 --> 00:44:06.960
in healing, in writing, in serving, in ministry.

792
00:44:06.960 --> 00:44:10.400
I'm looking at Peggy Gifted in healing

793
00:44:10.400 --> 00:44:11.920
and laying hands on people.

794
00:44:12.400 --> 00:44:16.960
So, but the question is, if that's stripped away,

795
00:44:18.360 --> 00:44:20.640
did you like lose your identity?

796
00:44:20.640 --> 00:44:24.160
Is your identity based on people or things or resources?

797
00:44:24.160 --> 00:44:28.160
Remember this week, I'm giving you a lot of review.

798
00:44:28.160 --> 00:44:30.280
This week we talked about,

799
00:44:30.280 --> 00:44:33.880
we can have an external locus of control,

800
00:44:33.880 --> 00:44:37.520
meaning that something outside of myself

801
00:44:37.520 --> 00:44:41.080
is necessary for me to be happy, healthy, prosperous.

802
00:44:42.520 --> 00:44:46.240
Or we can have an internal locus of control

803
00:44:46.240 --> 00:44:49.200
that says out of the heart flows the issues of life.

804
00:44:50.160 --> 00:44:55.160
Rivers of living water flow out of my innermost being.

805
00:44:55.240 --> 00:44:57.640
I'm the temple of the spirit of God.

806
00:44:57.640 --> 00:44:59.800
I have the mind of Christ.

807
00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:03.000
It's coming from an internal perspective.

808
00:45:03.200 --> 00:45:05.600
So you've been taught.

809
00:45:05.800 --> 00:45:10.320
You've been programmed to have external thinking.

810
00:45:10.520 --> 00:45:12.120
It's not biblical.

811
00:45:12.320 --> 00:45:17.760
You've been programmed, and therefore you've been striving all week was about

812
00:45:17.960 --> 00:45:22.760
breaking, striving, and I pray you've gotten some insight where that's coming from.

813
00:45:22.960 --> 00:45:29.240
So you've been programmed by striving to get if I can just get money.

814
00:45:29.360 --> 00:45:35.720
If I can just get a man, if I can just get clients, if I can just get my book.

815
00:45:35.920 --> 00:45:39.880
Like we keep thinking that it's about getting.

816
00:45:40.600 --> 00:45:44.080
External locus of control.

817
00:45:45.120 --> 00:45:49.480
It's not about getting you were never put on this planet to get.

818
00:45:49.680 --> 00:45:53.200
You were told that all things.

819
00:45:53.920 --> 00:45:57.000
Are in you, how beautiful.

820
00:45:57.160 --> 00:46:01.640
Sharon's been such a beautiful woman of faith, and she went through a time

821
00:46:01.840 --> 00:46:05.400
in between jobs and being a homeless, and we came alongside her in the Prosper

822
00:46:05.600 --> 00:46:09.400
Leader membership, and she said, when I was homeless, God spoke to me.

823
00:46:09.600 --> 00:46:11.080
Make your home in me.

824
00:46:11.280 --> 00:46:13.320
It's like I've got to live truth.

825
00:46:13.520 --> 00:46:15.880
Those of you that are fatherless, God will speak.

826
00:46:15.880 --> 00:46:16.840
I am your father.

827
00:46:16.840 --> 00:46:18.360
Those of you looking for a husband.

828
00:46:18.560 --> 00:46:19.680
I am your husband.

829
00:46:19.880 --> 00:46:21.560
Those of you looking for peace.

830
00:46:21.760 --> 00:46:23.440
God says, I am your peace.

831
00:46:23.640 --> 00:46:24.080
Right.

832
00:46:24.680 --> 00:46:29.600
So, yes, he is our everything, everything you could ever want.

833
00:46:29.800 --> 00:46:32.120
And where is it? It's in you.

834
00:46:32.320 --> 00:46:35.920
Remember, they were looking in Judaism.

835
00:46:36.120 --> 00:46:41.840
The Hebrews, the Jews were looking for the solution to their problems.

836
00:46:41.840 --> 00:46:43.120
What were their problems?

837
00:46:43.320 --> 00:46:46.080
They were oppressed. They were under Roman oppression.

838
00:46:46.280 --> 00:46:49.400
They were being treated terribly.

839
00:46:49.600 --> 00:46:50.640
They were oppressed.

840
00:46:50.800 --> 00:46:58.000
And their whole hope was that a conquering king, a conquering Messiah was going to

841
00:46:58.200 --> 00:47:01.920
come, this was their programming, and he was going to tear down these Romans,

842
00:47:02.120 --> 00:47:04.080
and he was going to establish them.

843
00:47:04.280 --> 00:47:09.560
So when Jesus came, Jesus came for one purpose.

844
00:47:09.760 --> 00:47:13.520
They started projecting onto Jesus.

845
00:47:13.720 --> 00:47:15.600
You're the one. When are you going to do it?

846
00:47:15.600 --> 00:47:17.040
When are you going to get rid of these Romans?

847
00:47:17.240 --> 00:47:18.960
When are you going to establish the kingdom?

848
00:47:19.120 --> 00:47:20.760
And

849
00:47:20.960 --> 00:47:25.720
and people were teaching them that it's over here in this cave or go over there.

850
00:47:25.920 --> 00:47:28.240
And Jesus said.

851
00:47:28.760 --> 00:47:35.200
If they say that the answer is in the cave or the answer is over there, don't go.

852
00:47:35.400 --> 00:47:39.320
And he said something so profound that must have made them go, huh?

853
00:47:39.520 --> 00:47:43.160
He said, the kingdom of God is within you.

854
00:47:43.360 --> 00:47:45.640
The kingdom of God is within you.

855
00:47:45.840 --> 00:47:48.720
See, this is an internal locus of control.

856
00:47:49.000 --> 00:47:55.360
Jesus said, the peace that is in me, I give to be in you.

857
00:47:55.560 --> 00:47:57.680
Jesus, that's internal locus of control.

858
00:47:57.880 --> 00:48:00.360
Jesus said

859
00:48:00.840 --> 00:48:04.800
the last prayer, Father, may they be one.

860
00:48:05.000 --> 00:48:06.840
It's another lie that we're separate.

861
00:48:07.040 --> 00:48:08.480
May they be one.

862
00:48:08.680 --> 00:48:12.440
And may they understand that I'm in them and you're in me.

863
00:48:12.640 --> 00:48:17.960
And like, may they understand that everything's inside.

864
00:48:18.120 --> 00:48:22.000
That I'm hidden in Christ.

865
00:48:22.520 --> 00:48:26.440
And Christ is in me, I'm the temple of the Holy Spirit,

866
00:48:26.640 --> 00:48:32.800
and I'm to guard my heart because out of it flow the issues of life.

867
00:48:33.000 --> 00:48:37.960
Out of the heart, the mouth speaks, you see, so do you understand if you're

868
00:48:38.160 --> 00:48:42.560
going to learn to and you've got to do this to get to truth?

869
00:48:42.760 --> 00:48:46.240
If you're going to learn to reason correctly, you've got to start learning

870
00:48:46.240 --> 00:48:49.800
to reason from internal to external.

871
00:48:50.000 --> 00:48:55.400
And it'll stop the chase, it'll stop the angst, it'll stop the striving,

872
00:48:55.600 --> 00:48:59.160
it'll stop the frustration, you're not here to get anything.

873
00:48:59.360 --> 00:49:01.680
You're here to release what's in you,

874
00:49:01.880 --> 00:49:07.040
the rivers of living water, the peace, the joy, the wisdom,

875
00:49:07.240 --> 00:49:10.160
the mind of Christ, the power, the dominion.

876
00:49:10.360 --> 00:49:12.920
You're here to release the healing.

877
00:49:13.120 --> 00:49:14.880
You're here to release the peace.

878
00:49:15.040 --> 00:49:18.640
Do you know, he said, you can go to a house and you can release your peace.

879
00:49:18.760 --> 00:49:19.920
How many of you do that?

880
00:49:19.920 --> 00:49:21.840
We're actually supposed to pray that we're

881
00:49:22.040 --> 00:49:24.480
supposed to come to a house and release our peace.

882
00:49:24.680 --> 00:49:27.680
Do you have enough peace to be able to release it?

883
00:49:27.880 --> 00:49:34.000
Jesus was in the boat during a storm and he was sleeping and fear took over with

884
00:49:34.200 --> 00:49:38.560
the disciples and they wake them up and they're speaking from a place of fear.

885
00:49:38.760 --> 00:49:39.880
Don't you care?

886
00:49:40.080 --> 00:49:42.680
We're about to die.

887
00:49:42.840 --> 00:49:45.720
Fear exaggerates.

888
00:49:47.080 --> 00:49:49.160
Jesus had enough peace that he could look

889
00:49:49.360 --> 00:49:53.960
at the storm and say, peace, be still.

890
00:49:54.160 --> 00:49:55.840
By the way.

891
00:49:56.040 --> 00:49:59.960
I've got close friends that walk in the Holy Spirit, I've got one.

892
00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:05.640
named Doug he was in the Philippines and the hurricane was set just about

893
00:50:06.060 --> 00:50:09.400
15 years ago. The hurricane was set to land right where he was

894
00:50:10.240 --> 00:50:17.240
And this man of God went to the point the very point where the hurricane was going to hit put out his hands in

895
00:50:17.440 --> 00:50:19.440
prayer and

896
00:50:19.480 --> 00:50:24.800
Diverted the storm to go in Jesus name. Do you know that storm?

897
00:50:25.800 --> 00:50:27.800
Back to the testimony

898
00:50:28.320 --> 00:50:31.260
Job, I think your cat just unmuted you there we go

899
00:50:32.000 --> 00:50:34.920
and so so he got to the end and

900
00:50:35.840 --> 00:50:41.640
Just like Jesus peace and the storm came and it split off in two and it never hit

901
00:50:43.280 --> 00:50:48.360
You've got to remember what Jesus said greater is he that is where

902
00:50:50.200 --> 00:50:52.200
In you

903
00:50:52.640 --> 00:50:57.240
That he that is in the where the world and

904
00:50:57.880 --> 00:50:59.440
Yet, we're constantly

905
00:50:59.440 --> 00:51:04.480
Cowering at the next thing that we're fed when our spoon is given to us our spoon of poop

906
00:51:04.760 --> 00:51:10.080
Be afraid because the next XYZ give it a name is here

907
00:51:10.560 --> 00:51:13.320
Be afraid submit control

908
00:51:13.800 --> 00:51:15.400
cower

909
00:51:15.400 --> 00:51:17.280
because the next

910
00:51:17.280 --> 00:51:23.360
To make you afraid and control you fear is used to manipulate if you haven't figured that out, right? Oh

911
00:51:24.240 --> 00:51:28.440
Have we been off track Linda? This is nothing like anything. I've ever taught. Is it I

912
00:51:29.760 --> 00:51:35.440
Don't know how many times you take this it's gonna be brand-new because the Holy Spirit's brand-new fresh manna fresh manna

913
00:51:35.960 --> 00:51:37.960
Okay, so

914
00:51:38.000 --> 00:51:39.800
Where are we?

915
00:51:39.800 --> 00:51:45.520
Where do we get our identity Jesus got his identity from the father?

916
00:51:45.520 --> 00:51:48.540
We see it in Matthew 3 at the baptism

917
00:51:49.160 --> 00:51:57.600
We see at the baptism that Jesus obeys where he was led. He asked John his cousin to baptize him and

918
00:51:58.480 --> 00:52:06.360
he comes out of the water and a voice from heaven says this is my son and

919
00:52:07.000 --> 00:52:09.000
whom I'm well-pleased and

920
00:52:10.000 --> 00:52:13.120
The Holy Spirit in the form of a dove

921
00:52:13.960 --> 00:52:20.560
lands on Jesus since you got the Father Son and the Holy Spirit got the whole Trinity right there in the baptism and

922
00:52:21.240 --> 00:52:24.160
So he he heard from the father

923
00:52:25.160 --> 00:52:30.680
I'm a son and I'm loved and I'm not having to earn this

924
00:52:30.800 --> 00:52:37.160
There's nothing I can do and you're a son and you're a daughter and there's nothing you can do to make God

925
00:52:37.200 --> 00:52:41.440
Love you more or less. This is not about works

926
00:52:42.840 --> 00:52:44.840
you know, I I

927
00:52:45.280 --> 00:52:51.080
Had dinner with a Muslim man of God loves God with all his heart

928
00:52:52.240 --> 00:52:55.240
but I I listened and

929
00:52:56.480 --> 00:53:04.640
There was so much fear and desire that somehow God would accept him that if he could do enough good deeds

930
00:53:05.120 --> 00:53:07.120
that that he would be

931
00:53:08.120 --> 00:53:13.760
Accepted and he had the right heart. There was so much fear. I just pray that God will accept me

932
00:53:13.760 --> 00:53:17.560
I just pray that I'll do enough good deeds. I pray he honors my good deeds

933
00:53:17.560 --> 00:53:23.840
I pray and that was his whole his whole life was around that I say enough prayers. I do enough actions and

934
00:53:26.360 --> 00:53:31.880
Jesus was so different Jesus on the cross said it's finished and

935
00:53:32.880 --> 00:53:34.880
And

936
00:53:35.160 --> 00:53:37.000
The whole

937
00:53:37.000 --> 00:53:38.600
all of

938
00:53:38.600 --> 00:53:45.800
Hebrews all of Galatians all of man so much of the Bible is it's already done

939
00:53:46.880 --> 00:53:48.880
It's already done

940
00:53:49.560 --> 00:53:55.680
So this is not about you working to be a good girl or a good boy to be good enough again

941
00:53:56.360 --> 00:54:02.040
We've asked are you trying to get to something? Are you trying to get to God?

942
00:54:02.240 --> 00:54:09.680
Are you trying to get to heaven? Are you trying to get to something? Or are you coming from?

943
00:54:10.920 --> 00:54:12.920
and if you're coming from

944
00:54:13.720 --> 00:54:15.720
Christ in me the hope of glory

945
00:54:16.000 --> 00:54:18.000
You're coming from

946
00:54:18.320 --> 00:54:19.520
love

947
00:54:19.560 --> 00:54:27.200
You see and so so Jesus was coming from that he got his identity from the father and

948
00:54:27.840 --> 00:54:29.280
so

949
00:54:29.280 --> 00:54:35.440
There's a powerful exercise for you to do right there and I want you to write down

950
00:54:37.280 --> 00:54:42.640
Real quick write down. Who do you say you are?

951
00:54:43.200 --> 00:54:49.920
What do you most commonly don't make it fancy and pretty I want you to be real what do you honestly often say about

952
00:54:50.560 --> 00:54:52.000
yourself

953
00:54:52.000 --> 00:54:59.520
What do you put after the words? I am this is a this is a time to be truthful. And then then we're gonna

954
00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:03.600
I compare it to what God says in the next section,

955
00:55:03.600 --> 00:55:07.200
somebody put, right, I love it.

956
00:55:07.200 --> 00:55:10.640
Terry says, breakthrough is happening in me right now.

957
00:55:10.640 --> 00:55:11.980
I'm so thrilled.

958
00:55:13.000 --> 00:55:15.520
Dana says, I'm a daughter of the king.

959
00:55:15.520 --> 00:55:16.960
I'm a daughter of the most high.

960
00:55:16.960 --> 00:55:19.100
That's the truth that goes on the bottom.

961
00:55:19.100 --> 00:55:22.720
We wanna make sure that what we're saying in the top

962
00:55:22.720 --> 00:55:24.200
lines up with that.

963
00:55:24.200 --> 00:55:27.760
And if it does not, you're gonna write it down.

964
00:55:27.760 --> 00:55:29.920
And like we did in earlier exercises,

965
00:55:30.680 --> 00:55:31.520
you're gonna take a red pen

966
00:55:31.520 --> 00:55:33.800
and you're gonna draw a line through it

967
00:55:33.800 --> 00:55:37.040
as a symbolic that this is not the truth.

968
00:55:37.040 --> 00:55:39.640
This was a lie that I believe

969
00:55:39.640 --> 00:55:42.400
that exalted itself above the truth.

970
00:55:42.400 --> 00:55:44.440
And from this point on,

971
00:55:44.440 --> 00:55:49.020
I'm going to affirm only what scripture says about me.

972
00:55:50.000 --> 00:55:55.000
And so much of this comes from going into the wilderness.

973
00:55:55.680 --> 00:56:00.680
This is why morning routine is so very important.

974
00:56:02.560 --> 00:56:07.560
It's so very important to be still and know that I am God,

975
00:56:09.240 --> 00:56:14.240
to biblically meditate, so important, okay?

976
00:56:15.280 --> 00:56:19.240
And that's why we do in the Prosper Daily,

977
00:56:19.240 --> 00:56:24.240
the whole top of the first page is about the golden hour.

978
00:56:25.000 --> 00:56:26.280
It's our time with God.

979
00:56:26.280 --> 00:56:27.480
It's the most important.

980
00:56:27.480 --> 00:56:29.440
It's when we're setting our sail

981
00:56:29.440 --> 00:56:31.520
to what the rest of our day is gonna look like,

982
00:56:31.520 --> 00:56:33.280
the rest of our week, the rest of our month,

983
00:56:33.280 --> 00:56:34.480
the rest of our year.

984
00:56:34.480 --> 00:56:36.320
And so, remember we said,

985
00:56:36.320 --> 00:56:39.120
we go from awareness to choosing

986
00:56:39.120 --> 00:56:42.780
to then doing those actions on a daily basis

987
00:56:42.780 --> 00:56:44.240
until they become habit,

988
00:56:44.240 --> 00:56:46.740
that we're no longer, they become unconscious.

989
00:56:46.740 --> 00:56:49.520
We don't even have to think about them anymore.

990
00:56:49.520 --> 00:56:51.760
I don't have to think about spending time

991
00:56:51.760 --> 00:56:52.780
with God in the morning.

992
00:56:52.780 --> 00:56:54.520
I've done it for 40 years.

993
00:56:55.040 --> 00:56:56.000
I don't have to think about it.

994
00:56:56.000 --> 00:56:57.700
I don't even have to write it down.

995
00:56:57.700 --> 00:56:59.280
It's as natural as breathing.

996
00:56:59.280 --> 00:57:00.520
It's part of my routine.

997
00:57:00.520 --> 00:57:02.600
It's a habit, right?

998
00:57:02.600 --> 00:57:05.420
And so we develop these habits.

999
00:57:06.320 --> 00:57:09.720
Love it, Victoria, I'm fearfully and wonderfully made.

1000
00:57:09.720 --> 00:57:11.800
I'm loving, I'm loving your chats there.

1001
00:57:11.800 --> 00:57:15.520
I'm daughter of, I'm a mountain mover.

1002
00:57:15.520 --> 00:57:17.600
Yeah, we talked about, you know,

1003
00:57:17.600 --> 00:57:20.120
say to the mountain, be thou removed,

1004
00:57:20.120 --> 00:57:23.360
the mountain of debt, whatever, mountain of fear.

1005
00:57:23.360 --> 00:57:24.280
I love that.

1006
00:57:24.920 --> 00:57:26.280
You guys are putting some great comments.

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Job, I'm joyful regardless of the circumstances in life.

1008
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Yes, because if you're coming from an internal perspective,

1009
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and I celebrate that job,

1010
00:57:35.840 --> 00:57:38.120
especially you're going through a lot of,

1011
00:57:38.120 --> 00:57:40.760
we talked and you weren't on the call, job,

1012
00:57:40.760 --> 00:57:43.200
but we talked about all week,

1013
00:57:43.200 --> 00:57:47.880
the battle between faith and circumstances,

1014
00:57:47.880 --> 00:57:51.480
the battle between faith and circumstances.

1015
00:57:51.480 --> 00:57:53.360
And you've had a lot of circumstances.

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00:57:53.400 --> 00:57:55.640
Your daughter has lymphoma going through,

1017
00:57:55.640 --> 00:57:59.400
you know, going through the chemotherapy,

1018
00:57:59.400 --> 00:58:02.280
and yet you're choosing to be driven.

1019
00:58:02.280 --> 00:58:07.000
And the Bible says that the joy of the Lord is my strength.

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And joy comes from the inside.

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It doesn't come from our circumstances.

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And so praise God for that.

1023
00:58:13.240 --> 00:58:15.880
And I celebrate that with you.

1024
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I've seen many of you go through hard times

1025
00:58:18.520 --> 00:58:19.840
and I celebrate that.

1026
00:58:19.840 --> 00:58:22.640
And you're still here, Sharon, you're still here.

1027
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And God blessed you with a job.

1028
00:58:25.200 --> 00:58:27.280
And I just, you know,

1029
00:58:27.280 --> 00:58:30.400
I'm thrilled that you're choosing to still be here,

1030
00:58:30.400 --> 00:58:31.880
no matter what.

1031
00:58:31.880 --> 00:58:34.400
That you're choosing to step out in faith.

1032
00:58:34.400 --> 00:58:36.640
Susan stepped out in faith

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00:58:36.640 --> 00:58:38.680
because she understood that coaching,

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00:58:38.680 --> 00:58:41.120
that coaches need coaches,

1035
00:58:41.120 --> 00:58:43.520
that she wasn't going to get the clarity.

1036
00:58:43.520 --> 00:58:46.520
She wasn't gonna get the clear direction

1037
00:58:46.520 --> 00:58:49.680
and the accountability and the step-by-step

1038
00:58:49.680 --> 00:58:51.720
to move forward without coaching.

1039
00:58:51.720 --> 00:58:54.720
It didn't mean she already had everything.

1040
00:58:54.720 --> 00:58:56.920
She had to dig deep to say,

1041
00:58:56.920 --> 00:58:58.520
I'm gonna step into coaching.

1042
00:58:58.520 --> 00:59:01.560
And I can say that about so many of you, right?

1043
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And so we're coming from this internal place, right?

1044
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So beautiful, beautiful.

1045
00:59:08.600 --> 00:59:12.120
Okay, and so then what happens

1046
00:59:12.120 --> 00:59:16.080
is that identity is tested.

1047
00:59:16.080 --> 00:59:17.920
Now, what we're gonna do

1048
00:59:17.920 --> 00:59:22.920
is we're gonna take about a three minute break, okay?

1049
00:59:24.040 --> 00:59:27.240
Because the mind can only absorb what the butt can absorb

1050
00:59:27.240 --> 00:59:29.440
or whatever that saying is, okay?

1051
00:59:29.440 --> 00:59:30.880
So I want you to get up and stretch.

1052
00:59:30.880 --> 00:59:32.240
I want you to drink water

1053
00:59:32.240 --> 00:59:34.960
because we're gonna dig deep now

1054
00:59:34.960 --> 00:59:39.280
into how do we get this breakthrough?

1055
00:59:39.280 --> 00:59:42.160
How do we really get clear on our identity?

1056
00:59:42.160 --> 00:59:43.240
So we're gonna get into,

1057
00:59:43.240 --> 00:59:45.040
we've been covering a lot of scripture

1058
00:59:45.040 --> 00:59:47.640
and we're gonna really get into

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00:59:48.320 --> 00:59:49.640
how do we get there from here?

1060
00:59:49.640 --> 00:59:53.000
So take a quick break, fast, come back,

1061
00:59:53.000 --> 00:59:57.000
get a drink of water and we'll see you quickly.

1062
00:59:57.000 --> 00:59:57.840
Get the record.

1063
00:59:58.960 --> 01:00:00.120
So welcome back.

1064
01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:03.920
like that song was casting crowns and the voice of truth.

1065
01:00:04.320 --> 01:00:12.040
Out of all the voices, I will choose to believe the voice of

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01:00:12.040 --> 01:00:16.600
truth. All right, who's been getting some some real

1067
01:00:16.600 --> 01:00:22.120
breakthrough ideas, pop in the chat. Anything that is just

1068
01:00:22.120 --> 01:00:25.680
starting to really come to you as you're as you're going

1069
01:00:25.680 --> 01:00:30.960
through today or this week, pop in the chat. What's coming to

1070
01:00:30.960 --> 01:00:36.240
you? What's coming to you? All right.

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01:00:46.840 --> 01:00:53.560
Clarity. Wonderful. Wonderful. Clarity is so important. Love

1072
01:00:53.560 --> 01:00:53.880
it.

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01:00:56.680 --> 01:01:03.520
I'm not what has been spoken over me. So big. I love that.

1074
01:01:03.520 --> 01:01:07.440
Thank you, Terry. Yeah, I had some pretty terrible things

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01:01:07.440 --> 01:01:13.440
spoken over me. I'm with you, sister. Dana Clarity and your

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01:01:13.440 --> 01:01:18.760
tribe. Wonderful job confirming my identity in Christ daily.

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01:01:18.920 --> 01:01:27.360
Yes, ma'am. So beautiful. So beautiful. Okay. All right. So

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the next step in there, there's there's two things that the

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enemy tries to take from you. One is the word. Okay, if he

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01:01:39.480 --> 01:01:44.200
can keep you too busy to know the word. Remember, the Bible

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01:01:44.200 --> 01:01:48.240
says that that the word just comes in even between the bone

1082
01:01:48.240 --> 01:01:53.400
and the marrow. I mean, the word transforms the word heals

1083
01:01:53.400 --> 01:02:00.240
the word births in you. And so if, if we can be kept separate

1084
01:02:00.240 --> 01:02:04.360
from the word that and we're not growing in that way, that's the

1085
01:02:04.360 --> 01:02:07.520
first thing to try to take away from you. And the second thing

1086
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is your identity. If you cannot know who you are, then you can

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01:02:13.000 --> 01:02:17.840
be molded into someone else's image or into your own image.

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01:02:17.960 --> 01:02:24.440
And not the truth of who you are. And so what we saw is that

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01:02:24.440 --> 01:02:29.560
in Matthew three was the baptism, Jesus got his identity

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01:02:29.560 --> 01:02:33.400
from the Father. And then in Matthew four, we see the

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01:02:33.400 --> 01:02:39.040
tempter shows up. And then Matt and the tempter says, if you are

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01:02:39.040 --> 01:02:47.040
God's son, you see, you see, you could circle that word if that

1093
01:02:47.040 --> 01:02:53.360
that was the key right there. If this was not an if question,

1094
01:02:53.440 --> 01:02:56.480
the voice came from heaven, Jesus knew it, everybody heard

1095
01:02:56.480 --> 01:02:59.960
it, I'm pretty sure the tempter heard it. But if you're God's

1096
01:03:00.000 --> 01:03:06.880
son, prove it. And so here is the desire to already have him

1097
01:03:06.880 --> 01:03:10.440
not know his identity and have to start proving in other words,

1098
01:03:10.440 --> 01:03:14.520
have them think he's not good enough and have to prove it by

1099
01:03:14.560 --> 01:03:21.560
overworking by doing works by performing. Sound familiar? You

1100
01:03:21.560 --> 01:03:24.520
don't know your identity. And now you need to prove that you

1101
01:03:24.520 --> 01:03:27.840
are good enough. So much of your life has been proving that you

1102
01:03:27.840 --> 01:03:34.480
are good enough. And so if you are God's son, prove it command

1103
01:03:34.480 --> 01:03:40.040
these stones to be made loaves of bread. And he said, if you

1104
01:03:40.040 --> 01:03:43.680
are God's son, throw yourself down for it's written, he will

1105
01:03:43.680 --> 01:03:48.920
give you his angels charge over you. So twisting even the word.

1106
01:03:50.000 --> 01:03:59.160
Right. So if you don't know your identity, others are going to

1107
01:03:59.440 --> 01:04:08.800
try. Yeah. To tell you who you should be. They'll so often

1108
01:04:09.080 --> 01:04:12.120
anybody have somebody that just shoulds all over them all the

1109
01:04:12.120 --> 01:04:16.360
time. You should do this. You should do that. I I've got one

1110
01:04:16.360 --> 01:04:18.840
daughter that just loves to do that. And I keep asking her to

1111
01:04:18.840 --> 01:04:22.040
stop shooting all over me. You should do this. You really

1112
01:04:22.040 --> 01:04:26.720
should do this. Or maybe you're shooting all over yourself.

1113
01:04:28.240 --> 01:04:32.040
Because you've lost sight. See, this is the fruit of not knowing

1114
01:04:32.040 --> 01:04:35.480
our identity is we're letting other people tell us who we are,

1115
01:04:35.520 --> 01:04:42.320
what we should do what we shouldn't do. Right? Who we

1116
01:04:42.320 --> 01:04:49.080
should be who we shouldn't be. Yeah. So there's an interesting

1117
01:04:49.080 --> 01:04:55.160
story as we continue on in in this scripture. And I just want

1118
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to check they're saying something to us over on

1119
01:04:57.840 --> 01:05:00.000
Facebook. Let's see what that's saying.

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01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:10.400
to us. Okay, love it. Okay, so the steps now as we're going to really discover who are we,

1121
01:05:10.400 --> 01:05:16.480
this is really an uncovering, this is really a discovering. So we're discovering who we really

1122
01:05:16.480 --> 01:05:23.840
are by removing what we're not, who or what that we're not. We're stripping away these lies,

1123
01:05:23.840 --> 01:05:31.120
we're stripping away these stories that really have made you play small and perform differently

1124
01:05:31.120 --> 01:05:39.040
and show up differently and maybe not pursue your dream, maybe not. Here's another big one around

1125
01:05:39.040 --> 01:05:44.640
this, around the desires. You know, scripture says that God gives us the desires of our heart.

1126
01:05:44.640 --> 01:05:49.280
So one of the first things I do in coaching, I do something called the tournament of desires.

1127
01:05:49.280 --> 01:05:53.920
So we want to get you clear on your values, get you clear on your desires because the bible says

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God, you know, will give you the desires of your heart. But you have been trained, we've all been

1129
01:06:00.480 --> 01:06:08.800
trained like dogs, you know, we've been conditioned and many of us have been trained that desires are

1130
01:06:08.800 --> 01:06:16.320
bad and that having a desire is bad. Those of you that have the selfish shadow, the greedy shadow,

1131
01:06:16.320 --> 01:06:22.880
all of that that was programmed into you. So we're really afraid to even desire something, okay?

1132
01:06:23.600 --> 01:06:33.200
And yet those desires don't go away, God gave them to you. And people go, well the heart is

1133
01:06:33.200 --> 01:06:39.440
desperately wicked. No, not the redeemed heart. The redeemed heart is where the kingdom of God is,

1134
01:06:39.440 --> 01:06:45.600
where the spirit of God is. And the redeemed heart's desires line up with God's desires

1135
01:06:45.600 --> 01:06:52.160
and they're key to your divine purpose. And the desires provide the strength and the energy and

1136
01:06:52.160 --> 01:06:57.920
the confidence and the courage. And so if you've been constantly shutting down your desires, a lot

1137
01:06:57.920 --> 01:07:04.880
of times when I coach women, they don't even know what they desire. So they're even afraid to have a

1138
01:07:04.880 --> 01:07:10.880
desire. They haven't even thought like that. Maybe they've just lived very selflessly all their life

1139
01:07:10.880 --> 01:07:16.240
and so they just live for what the kids wanted and what the husband wanted and what the church

1140
01:07:16.240 --> 01:07:24.560
wanted and whatever. And so they've never... So we want to strip away who we're not. So there's

1141
01:07:24.560 --> 01:07:33.760
this very interesting... I have this book that was gifted to me. I can grab it without

1142
01:07:33.760 --> 01:07:43.200
dropping everything. And it's called People of the Word. And it's 50 words that shaped Jewish

1143
01:07:43.200 --> 01:07:50.960
thinking. So it's looking at biblical Hebrew words. And so each one breaks down the Hebrew

1144
01:07:50.960 --> 01:07:57.520
word and you learn something about it. And it's very eye-opening because we're Judeo-Christians.

1145
01:07:58.320 --> 01:08:05.040
We have more than half of our Bible that comes from there. And so it's very fascinating. And so

1146
01:08:05.040 --> 01:08:13.120
this is what it says in one section here. And what I'm talking about is the exodus,

1147
01:08:13.120 --> 01:08:20.240
if you've turned the page on discovering who you are not. And we're talking about the exodus. And

1148
01:08:20.240 --> 01:08:25.840
many of us think of the book of exodus and we think of the exodus from Egypt as just a single

1149
01:08:25.840 --> 01:08:32.560
event, a historical event. Some of you also think of it as a metaphysical event or whatever.

1150
01:08:32.560 --> 01:08:40.880
And there's many layers to scripture. But this is what it says in the book that's so fascinating.

1151
01:08:40.880 --> 01:08:52.000
It says much of Jewish tradition is focused on the exodus from Egypt. It says it is recounted

1152
01:08:52.000 --> 01:08:59.760
through the Jewish scriptures and included in major festivals, not just Passover. According to

1153
01:09:00.800 --> 01:09:15.200
Hadistic teaching, the exodus is not just one event but a paradigm for our current life.

1154
01:09:15.439 --> 01:09:24.479
It is not only a geographical location, but look what it is when you look at the original word.

1155
01:09:24.479 --> 01:09:35.680
It's a limited state of mind that we must transcend. So the exodus represents all the time

1156
01:09:35.680 --> 01:09:41.840
you've contracted. Remember we're in your expansion. All the times you've contracted in your thinking,

1157
01:09:42.399 --> 01:09:53.200
you've limited yourself, you've limited God, you've limited possibilities. And so this limited

1158
01:09:53.200 --> 01:09:59.840
state of mind that says, I can't, I can't do this or I'm not enough or I don't have

1159
01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:05.520
enough. I don't have the education, I don't have the money, I'm too old, I'm too young,

1160
01:10:05.520 --> 01:10:10.240
I'm too fat, I'm too thin, I'm too single, I'm too married, whatever. We've got this

1161
01:10:10.240 --> 01:10:19.720
limited state of mind. And so it says we learn a lot from the Hebrew word for Egypt, which

1162
01:10:19.720 --> 01:10:33.880
is Mitzrayim. The word Egypt means limitation. The word Egypt means limitation. And so the

1163
01:10:33.880 --> 01:10:46.360
truth is that exodus from Egypt also includes being liberated from internal bondage. This

1164
01:10:46.360 --> 01:10:52.320
is what it says in People of the Word. If Egypt represents the tyranny of self-limiting

1165
01:10:52.320 --> 01:11:02.720
beliefs and behaviors, the exodus signifies our spiritual journey toward expansive. We're

1166
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in your expansion formula. It represents the spiritual journey toward expansive perception

1167
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and limitless potential. That's right there on the bottom. People of the Word, 50 words

1168
01:11:21.080 --> 01:11:33.360
that shaped Jewish thinking. So a very powerful exercise, a very powerful exercise. And I'll

1169
01:11:33.360 --> 01:11:40.960
tell you a story real quick. And it was about, I want to say 15 years, I'll have to look

1170
01:11:41.000 --> 01:11:47.840
at my journal, I'll have to say probably 15 years ago. And I shared this during the week

1171
01:11:47.840 --> 01:11:55.320
that I was on a trip to New Jersey. And I entered this little country church and the

1172
01:11:55.320 --> 01:12:01.520
worship music was going and I was lost in the worship. And the Holy Spirit spoke to

1173
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me so strong and said, cast out the slave woman and set her free. And I shared that

1174
01:12:09.520 --> 01:12:20.600
story yesterday. And if we don't really do this work to step into who am I? Who does

1175
01:12:20.600 --> 01:12:27.600
God say I am? What is God made me to do? What's my divine purpose? What's my divine

1176
01:12:27.640 --> 01:12:32.920
vision? What's my divine destiny? You know, each of us has a different fingerprint, a

1177
01:12:32.920 --> 01:12:40.080
different eye print, each of us, we're completely different. Because we're created,

1178
01:12:40.080 --> 01:12:46.760
the Bible says in Ephesians, for a good path that has been laid out in advance. There's

1179
01:12:46.760 --> 01:12:54.400
a there's a path for what you're here to learn to do to experience to be mostly to be.

1180
01:12:55.240 --> 01:13:03.120
It's less about doing and more about being, who are you and who are you called to be? And

1181
01:13:03.120 --> 01:13:10.120
so when we don't know who we are, we're driven by that slave woman, I was driven by that

1182
01:13:10.120 --> 01:13:17.240
slave woman. When I said who or what is driving you, I was driven by my wounding, much of

1183
01:13:17.240 --> 01:13:22.360
what's being created, even in the coaching space is being created from a place of wounding.

1184
01:13:23.360 --> 01:13:31.360
We're being driven, mercifully, without mercy, like we're being driven to, to sacrifice,

1185
01:13:31.360 --> 01:13:37.360
we're being driven not to sleep, not to eat, we're being driven to wear our bodies down,

1186
01:13:37.360 --> 01:13:45.360
we're being driven from this place of wounding. To prove that we are enough to prove that

1187
01:13:45.360 --> 01:13:50.360
that there isn't lack to prove whatever it is, we're trying to prove that we really can

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01:13:50.360 --> 01:14:00.360
do it, whatever it is. And so it drives us. And so one powerful exercise to do, and there's

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a powerful book that I really recommend. And it's called Be Your Future Self Now, by Dr.

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01:14:10.360 --> 01:14:18.360
Benjamin Hardy, Be Your Future Self Now by Dr. Benjamin Hardy. And it's a wonderful

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01:14:18.360 --> 01:14:26.360
opportunity to step into and operate from a place of who you really are and who you're

1192
01:14:26.360 --> 01:14:34.360
called to be, and not to break free from your past. So he brings a really wonderful perspective,

1193
01:14:34.360 --> 01:14:41.360
you know, I was trained in counseling psychology, and we've kind of been trained that life is

1194
01:14:41.360 --> 01:14:46.360
like linear that, that we have all these experiences in the past, and those experiences in the

1195
01:14:46.360 --> 01:14:52.360
past are making us who we are today. And what we do today is determining what our future

1196
01:14:52.360 --> 01:14:59.360
and it's very linear. There's newer psychology that is emerging.

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that is showing a different perspective.

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And that is, we really biblically only have now.

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The Bible is so clear.

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Well, it's today, today.

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01:15:10.800 --> 01:15:13.240
Now is the day of salvation.

1202
01:15:13.240 --> 01:15:16.720
Jesus said, take no thought for tomorrow, like today.

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And so we live in the today.

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01:15:19.240 --> 01:15:20.320
That's all we have.

1205
01:15:20.320 --> 01:15:21.960
We can't change the past.

1206
01:15:21.960 --> 01:15:22.840
It's all done.

1207
01:15:22.840 --> 01:15:23.680
It's happened.

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01:15:23.680 --> 01:15:24.500
You can't go back.

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01:15:24.500 --> 01:15:25.600
You can't do anything to it.

1210
01:15:25.600 --> 01:15:27.900
You can't go back and redo it, make it new.

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01:15:27.900 --> 01:15:32.300
The only thing you can do is go back and drag it into now.

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01:15:32.300 --> 01:15:37.020
And so what he teaches in that book that I really like

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is that we're not actually seeing the past as it happened.

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We're seeing it through the lens of all the beliefs

1215
01:15:44.740 --> 01:15:47.820
and all the things we've come to accept.

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And so we have a choice.

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01:15:49.680 --> 01:15:54.060
We can look back at our past and we can bless it.

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01:15:54.060 --> 01:15:55.500
We can forgive it.

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01:15:55.500 --> 01:15:57.660
We can release it.

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01:15:58.420 --> 01:16:01.740
We can glean the lessons from it and leave it there

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so that we live in the now unhindered by the past

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01:16:06.380 --> 01:16:08.220
and the stories of the past.

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And we can dip into the future.

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When Paul talks about running the race to win

1225
01:16:15.820 --> 01:16:20.340
and all of that, we can see the target where we're going

1226
01:16:20.340 --> 01:16:25.340
and we can borrow from the future and live like that today.

1227
01:16:25.780 --> 01:16:29.140
And this is our God-given image maker.

1228
01:16:29.140 --> 01:16:34.140
So one of the most powerful things is to begin living today

1229
01:16:34.480 --> 01:16:39.140
the truth of who you are and the truth of who you desire

1230
01:16:39.140 --> 01:16:43.060
to be in this future, the true you.

1231
01:16:43.060 --> 01:16:46.620
And you start living from that place.

1232
01:16:46.620 --> 01:16:51.620
And so everything you do, let's say this happy, prosperous,

1233
01:16:51.980 --> 01:16:56.940
generous, successful woman that we see in the future.

1234
01:16:56.940 --> 01:17:01.500
And then as you're going through your day, you say,

1235
01:17:01.500 --> 01:17:04.300
who would this happy, healthy, prosperous woman

1236
01:17:04.300 --> 01:17:05.820
have for friends?

1237
01:17:07.340 --> 01:17:10.300
How would this happy, healthy, prosperous woman

1238
01:17:10.300 --> 01:17:11.680
spend her time?

1239
01:17:12.760 --> 01:17:17.300
How would this happy, healthy, prosperous woman dress?

1240
01:17:17.300 --> 01:17:20.260
How would she speak?

1241
01:17:20.260 --> 01:17:24.300
And you begin to bring that and you begin living it now.

1242
01:17:24.300 --> 01:17:27.900
And there's lots of just amazing stories in that book

1243
01:17:27.900 --> 01:17:29.300
and a lot of things.

1244
01:17:29.300 --> 01:17:34.300
And so this whole idea of stepping into the fullness.

1245
01:17:35.300 --> 01:17:39.140
And so one fun thing you can do is write a letter

1246
01:17:39.140 --> 01:17:43.720
to your current self from your future self.

1247
01:17:44.720 --> 01:17:49.720
And so what would your future self say?

1248
01:17:50.280 --> 01:17:53.040
And you can also do it to your past self, right?

1249
01:17:53.040 --> 01:17:54.960
What would you write from your current self

1250
01:17:54.960 --> 01:17:56.120
to your past self?

1251
01:17:56.120 --> 01:17:57.360
You didn't know any better.

1252
01:17:57.360 --> 01:17:59.960
I forgive you so much of what was spoken of you

1253
01:17:59.960 --> 01:18:02.480
wasn't true, you actually are beautiful.

1254
01:18:02.480 --> 01:18:05.120
So you can speak there, but you can go into the future self

1255
01:18:05.120 --> 01:18:07.840
and write a letter to today that you're already

1256
01:18:07.840 --> 01:18:10.960
that happy, healthy, prosperous, generous, beautiful,

1257
01:18:11.000 --> 01:18:12.760
God-fearing woman.

1258
01:18:12.760 --> 01:18:14.680
And what would you say to yourself?

1259
01:18:14.680 --> 01:18:18.200
Hey, you don't have to strive, you're already beautiful.

1260
01:18:18.200 --> 01:18:20.400
Let me tell you, it's gonna be so good.

1261
01:18:20.400 --> 01:18:23.480
Let me tell you, you got this more than you think you do.

1262
01:18:23.480 --> 01:18:25.800
Let me tell you, most of the things you worry about,

1263
01:18:25.800 --> 01:18:27.800
they're never gonna happen actually.

1264
01:18:27.800 --> 01:18:31.040
Like you can begin to speak to yourself that way.

1265
01:18:31.040 --> 01:18:33.920
It's a fun, fun exercise.

1266
01:18:33.920 --> 01:18:37.400
And also, like I said, begin the practice.

1267
01:18:37.400 --> 01:18:40.120
Would my future self do this?

1268
01:18:41.960 --> 01:18:44.640
Susan, I'm a best-selling author,

1269
01:18:44.640 --> 01:18:47.280
I'm a television personality.

1270
01:18:47.280 --> 01:18:50.640
And so you go to buy your clothes and you say,

1271
01:18:50.640 --> 01:18:55.080
would that successful author and television personality,

1272
01:18:55.080 --> 01:18:57.000
would she wear this?

1273
01:18:57.000 --> 01:18:58.120
Would she do this?

1274
01:18:58.120 --> 01:18:59.200
How would she spend her time?

1275
01:18:59.200 --> 01:19:00.800
Would she read this?

1276
01:19:00.800 --> 01:19:03.040
Would she watch this?

1277
01:19:03.040 --> 01:19:04.840
Would she speak this?

1278
01:19:05.040 --> 01:19:05.880
Right?

1279
01:19:07.320 --> 01:19:11.920
Maggie and Kate, just like transforming communities

1280
01:19:11.920 --> 01:19:15.880
for Christ and bringing equal opportunities

1281
01:19:15.880 --> 01:19:18.400
and health and all of that.

1282
01:19:18.400 --> 01:19:23.360
So would that person who has now done this,

1283
01:19:23.360 --> 01:19:25.000
what would she say today?

1284
01:19:25.000 --> 01:19:26.040
Right?

1285
01:19:26.040 --> 01:19:28.600
And so there's a beautiful prayer.

1286
01:19:28.600 --> 01:19:33.600
And the prayer is, Lord, help me to be still.

1287
01:19:34.920 --> 01:19:37.600
And teach me to hear your voice.

1288
01:19:38.760 --> 01:19:43.760
And show me, show me who I truly am in your eyes.

1289
01:19:48.560 --> 01:19:53.120
Help me to remove the false identities

1290
01:19:53.120 --> 01:19:54.760
that I've put on myself.

1291
01:19:54.760 --> 01:19:58.680
And the masks I've worn trying to fit in

1292
01:19:58.680 --> 01:20:00.160
and trying to be light.

1293
01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:06.520
and loved and accepted and the mask I've worn trying not to be hurt, would you strip that

1294
01:20:06.520 --> 01:20:14.840
away that I can step fully into the beautiful woman, the beautiful, courageous man that

1295
01:20:14.840 --> 01:20:17.360
you've created me to be?

1296
01:20:17.360 --> 01:20:24.520
Will you empower me to be rooted and grounded in love and truth?

1297
01:20:24.520 --> 01:20:32.080
And so if you can take some time, maybe after this call, to go in nature, to ground, put

1298
01:20:32.080 --> 01:20:39.840
your bare feet on the ground, be under the trees, and just pray the prayer, Holy Spirit,

1299
01:20:39.840 --> 01:20:42.280
show me me.

1300
01:20:42.280 --> 01:20:51.480
Take a pen and paper that you can journal, show me me as you see me.

1301
01:20:51.480 --> 01:20:57.160
And so what you're learning is to be more discerning.

1302
01:20:57.160 --> 01:21:02.800
When people say things to you or about you or the media says things, or you say things

1303
01:21:02.800 --> 01:21:08.320
to yourself when you look in the mirror, or you recall things that have been spoken over,

1304
01:21:08.320 --> 01:21:13.760
you're learning to be more discerning to say, wait a minute, that's not true, no, no, no.

1305
01:21:13.760 --> 01:21:18.600
Temperature gauge, that doesn't line up with the word, no, no.

1306
01:21:18.600 --> 01:21:23.160
And you get the ability to say, that's not true, and I know that's got a low frequency

1307
01:21:23.160 --> 01:21:28.680
fruit, and I reject that, and I return it to sender.

1308
01:21:28.680 --> 01:21:37.400
I've had people out of pain say horrible things to me, people that are supposed to love me.

1309
01:21:37.400 --> 01:21:43.040
And they've predicted horrible futures out of their angry for me.

1310
01:21:43.040 --> 01:21:49.400
You're going to die broke, you're not even going to afford a nursing home, and no one's

1311
01:21:49.400 --> 01:21:53.680
going to visit you, and you're going to, I mean, word curses, people out of their pain,

1312
01:21:53.680 --> 01:22:01.080
they speak word curses, and you've got to learn to quickly put up the shield that says,

1313
01:22:01.080 --> 01:22:03.360
that's not my reality.

1314
01:22:03.360 --> 01:22:07.880
Or maybe the news tells you, this is going to happen to you.

1315
01:22:07.880 --> 01:22:12.840
This is the economy, and this is where you're going, or this is, excuse me, where you're

1316
01:22:12.840 --> 01:22:14.640
health is going.

1317
01:22:14.640 --> 01:22:23.680
You've got to learn to say, write this down, that's not my reality.

1318
01:22:23.680 --> 01:22:28.840
That's not my reality.

1319
01:22:28.840 --> 01:22:31.560
Someone says to you, you better save, you're not going to have any money, you shouldn't

1320
01:22:31.560 --> 01:22:35.000
be spending any money, you're going to be broke, do you understand?

1321
01:22:35.000 --> 01:22:39.240
I had someone say to me today, they haven't gone into coaching, a real gift for coaching,

1322
01:22:39.240 --> 01:22:42.360
they haven't gone into coaching for like a decade, because people told them there's

1323
01:22:42.360 --> 01:22:43.720
no money in coaching.

1324
01:22:43.720 --> 01:22:44.720
Say what?

1325
01:22:44.720 --> 01:22:51.320
I don't know about your circle of friends, I've got six-figure coaches all around, seven-figure

1326
01:22:51.320 --> 01:22:56.400
coaches all around, eight-figure coaches, say what?

1327
01:22:56.400 --> 01:22:59.200
That's not my reality.

1328
01:22:59.200 --> 01:23:01.160
You can't make any money doing that.

1329
01:23:01.160 --> 01:23:05.840
You've been taught the starving artist concept, you can't make money as an artist.

1330
01:23:05.840 --> 01:23:09.640
You've been taught the starving author, you can't make any money.

1331
01:23:09.640 --> 01:23:15.800
What lies have been spoken over what you can do, what you can't do, who you are?

1332
01:23:15.800 --> 01:23:18.400
You've got to say, is that true?

1333
01:23:18.400 --> 01:23:20.320
What fruit is it producing?

1334
01:23:20.320 --> 01:23:30.360
And if it's a lie, sorry, return to sender, that's not part of my reality.

1335
01:23:30.360 --> 01:23:38.480
And I get some amens in the chat or in a Facebook group, but am I talking to anybody?

1336
01:23:38.480 --> 01:23:45.480
Yeah, you really have to, the doubt and unbelief that gets put, and somebody said, I broke

1337
01:23:45.480 --> 01:23:48.920
it off my mom last night in prayer.

1338
01:23:48.920 --> 01:23:54.400
Yeah, we've been really having to break off some of this stuff in prayer, because we're

1339
01:23:54.400 --> 01:24:00.720
still living out our mother's pain, or our grandmother's pain, or our great grandmother's

1340
01:24:00.720 --> 01:24:01.720
pain.

1341
01:24:01.720 --> 01:24:04.840
I mean, this is being passed down over and over and over.

1342
01:24:04.840 --> 01:24:07.440
It's like, where did you learn this stuff?

1343
01:24:07.440 --> 01:24:10.240
In order to get this belief, where did the belief come from?

1344
01:24:10.240 --> 01:24:12.600
First of all, did it just come straight down from heaven?

1345
01:24:12.600 --> 01:24:13.600
Did you come up with this?

1346
01:24:13.600 --> 01:24:15.240
Was it a divine revelation?

1347
01:24:15.240 --> 01:24:17.940
Like where did you get this belief?

1348
01:24:17.940 --> 01:24:20.640
You got it from hurting people.

1349
01:24:20.640 --> 01:24:23.080
And where did those people get that belief?

1350
01:24:23.080 --> 01:24:25.320
They got it from hurting broken people.

1351
01:24:25.320 --> 01:24:26.640
And where did those people get it?

1352
01:24:26.640 --> 01:24:28.960
They got it from hurting broken people.

1353
01:24:28.960 --> 01:24:35.480
You ever heard the story, the daughter was visiting the mom, and the mom cut off the

1354
01:24:35.480 --> 01:24:40.080
end of the roast and put it in the pan and put it in the oven.

1355
01:24:40.080 --> 01:24:42.520
And her husband said, why does your mom always cut off?

1356
01:24:42.520 --> 01:24:43.720
And that's a lot of good meat.

1357
01:24:43.720 --> 01:24:45.760
Why does she cut off the end of the roast?

1358
01:24:45.760 --> 01:24:51.400
And so she said, I don't know, I'll ask her, Mom, why do you cut off every holiday you

1359
01:24:51.400 --> 01:24:52.400
cut off?

1360
01:24:52.400 --> 01:24:53.400
There's a lot of meat there.

1361
01:24:53.400 --> 01:24:54.400
Why do you cut off the end of the roast?

1362
01:24:54.400 --> 01:24:57.800
And she said, I don't know, Grandma always did it that way.

1363
01:24:57.800 --> 01:25:00.000
I'm going to call Grandma, I'm so curious.

1364
01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:02.640
Curious, doesn't make sense to me.

1365
01:25:02.640 --> 01:25:04.280
Three generations.

1366
01:25:04.280 --> 01:25:05.920
Grandma, I'm at mom's.

1367
01:25:05.920 --> 01:25:07.880
We're making roast.

1368
01:25:07.880 --> 01:25:09.520
Mom cuts the end off.

1369
01:25:09.520 --> 01:25:12.840
And she says that you always did that.

1370
01:25:12.840 --> 01:25:16.280
Why did you cut the end off of the roast every year?

1371
01:25:16.280 --> 01:25:20.080
She says, oh, honey, the pan that I had was too small.

1372
01:25:23.440 --> 01:25:25.680
How many beliefs that are too small

1373
01:25:25.680 --> 01:25:27.880
got passed down for generations?

1374
01:25:27.960 --> 01:25:30.680
In our family, we don't make money.

1375
01:25:30.680 --> 01:25:35.680
In our family, we don't get an education.

1376
01:25:35.680 --> 01:25:38.520
In our family, we don't show up like that.

1377
01:25:38.520 --> 01:25:40.360
We're not those kind of people.

1378
01:25:42.840 --> 01:25:43.840
Am I talking to anybody?

1379
01:25:43.840 --> 01:25:45.520
I wanna hear from you guys in the chat.

1380
01:25:45.520 --> 01:25:47.240
I don't know, maybe I'm just talking to myself.

1381
01:25:47.240 --> 01:25:48.760
Am I talking to anybody here?

1382
01:25:51.320 --> 01:25:52.560
Is this resonating?

1383
01:25:52.560 --> 01:25:56.080
Are you getting some things to completely break you free?

1384
01:25:58.080 --> 01:26:00.040
Love to hear in the chat.

1385
01:26:01.480 --> 01:26:05.360
I had created a survey and I don't know,

1386
01:26:05.360 --> 01:26:07.480
maybe Linda can figure out where to find it.

1387
01:26:07.480 --> 01:26:09.440
I wanted to ask you a couple of questions

1388
01:26:09.440 --> 01:26:11.440
so we could help future people,

1389
01:26:12.560 --> 01:26:16.520
but I couldn't find the survey that I created before.

1390
01:26:16.520 --> 01:26:20.880
So maybe Linda can find that and bring it up.

1391
01:26:20.880 --> 01:26:23.080
Okay, let's keep moving.

1392
01:26:23.080 --> 01:26:26.880
So let's talk then as we go.

1393
01:26:26.880 --> 01:26:30.800
That the cost of all of this, by the way,

1394
01:26:30.800 --> 01:26:35.800
is that our self-worth is tied to these identity issues

1395
01:26:40.840 --> 01:26:45.240
and our self-worth pushes us to extremes.

1396
01:26:46.520 --> 01:26:48.200
I wanna share another story

1397
01:26:48.200 --> 01:26:49.640
and then we're gonna have some verses

1398
01:26:49.640 --> 01:26:52.040
and we're gonna have a powerful prayer

1399
01:26:52.040 --> 01:26:54.640
to break off this stuff, okay?

1400
01:26:54.640 --> 01:26:59.360
So it's really, really interesting,

1401
01:26:59.360 --> 01:27:04.200
the story in Luke chapter 15.

1402
01:27:04.200 --> 01:27:07.960
And I don't know, let me see if it's in your guide.

1403
01:27:07.960 --> 01:27:11.640
I don't see it in your guide, no.

1404
01:27:11.640 --> 01:27:14.240
So I'm just gonna tell you the story

1405
01:27:14.240 --> 01:27:15.800
and you can go read Luke 15,

1406
01:27:15.800 --> 01:27:18.280
read it in a couple translations

1407
01:27:18.280 --> 01:27:21.400
and maybe Linda, we could add that for future, make a note.

1408
01:27:22.440 --> 01:27:23.760
Luke 15.

1409
01:27:23.760 --> 01:27:27.840
So the story opens in Luke 15

1410
01:27:27.840 --> 01:27:30.840
and it says, there was a father.

1411
01:27:30.840 --> 01:27:35.080
And so this is really a story in Luke 15

1412
01:27:35.080 --> 01:27:38.080
about what our heavenly father is like.

1413
01:27:38.080 --> 01:27:41.560
So when it opens in Jewish and in Christian

1414
01:27:41.560 --> 01:27:43.440
biblical theology, when it's opening,

1415
01:27:43.440 --> 01:27:45.240
it's telling you what it's about.

1416
01:27:45.240 --> 01:27:46.760
And so there was a father.

1417
01:27:46.760 --> 01:27:49.000
So this is a story of a father.

1418
01:27:49.000 --> 01:27:53.200
And secondarily, the father had two sons

1419
01:27:53.200 --> 01:27:55.800
and so it's a story about two sons.

1420
01:27:55.800 --> 01:27:59.360
And I wanna see if you relate to either of the sons

1421
01:27:59.360 --> 01:28:03.080
and how our self-worth just in our identity

1422
01:28:03.080 --> 01:28:06.480
pushes us to extremes.

1423
01:28:06.480 --> 01:28:08.400
So the first son,

1424
01:28:08.400 --> 01:28:10.760
and I'm reading in the passion translation here,

1425
01:28:10.760 --> 01:28:14.800
it says, and this is a parable that Jesus told by the way.

1426
01:28:14.800 --> 01:28:19.080
Once there was a father with two sons

1427
01:28:19.080 --> 01:28:22.040
and the younger son came into his father

1428
01:28:22.040 --> 01:28:25.080
and said, father, don't you think it's time

1429
01:28:25.080 --> 01:28:28.600
to give me a share of your estate?

1430
01:28:28.600 --> 01:28:30.960
So the father went ahead and distributed

1431
01:28:30.960 --> 01:28:34.360
between the two sons, their inheritance.

1432
01:28:34.360 --> 01:28:36.880
And shortly after the younger son

1433
01:28:36.880 --> 01:28:38.440
packed up all his belongings

1434
01:28:38.440 --> 01:28:41.520
and traveled off to see the world.

1435
01:28:41.520 --> 01:28:45.040
And he journeyed, go ahead and mute yourself, please.

1436
01:28:45.040 --> 01:28:48.360
He journeyed to a far off land

1437
01:28:49.360 --> 01:28:53.000
where he soon squandered or wasted

1438
01:28:53.000 --> 01:28:55.760
all that he'd been given in a binge

1439
01:28:55.760 --> 01:28:59.560
of extravagant and reckless living.

1440
01:29:02.080 --> 01:29:04.600
And then the rubber hit the road

1441
01:29:04.600 --> 01:29:09.080
and everything was spent and he was hungry.

1442
01:29:10.480 --> 01:29:13.360
And so it says that he attached himself

1443
01:29:13.360 --> 01:29:16.200
to one of the local, there was a famine in the land

1444
01:29:16.240 --> 01:29:19.560
and he attached himself to one of the people

1445
01:29:19.560 --> 01:29:22.640
asking for a job, just help me, help me.

1446
01:29:22.640 --> 01:29:25.920
And he gets hired by a pig farmer.

1447
01:29:25.920 --> 01:29:28.640
Now remember, this is a good Jewish boy

1448
01:29:28.640 --> 01:29:31.000
from very high class.

1449
01:29:32.560 --> 01:29:35.440
Even touching a pig made you completely unclean.

1450
01:29:35.440 --> 01:29:37.280
For sure, you didn't eat a pig

1451
01:29:37.280 --> 01:29:38.560
and you didn't hang out with a pig.

1452
01:29:38.560 --> 01:29:39.880
And if you even touched it,

1453
01:29:39.880 --> 01:29:44.040
so it's violating everything he knew of his faith.

1454
01:29:44.080 --> 01:29:47.960
But it says that he took a job

1455
01:29:47.960 --> 01:29:52.640
and it says that he lived in the pig pen with the pigs.

1456
01:29:53.800 --> 01:29:56.200
And it said he ate some of the pig food,

1457
01:29:56.200 --> 01:29:58.720
which was carob pods.

1458
01:29:58.720 --> 01:30:00.120
And it says he would have.

1459
01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:07.040
continued to eat. The Amplified translation says he would have continued to live on the pig food,

1460
01:30:07.040 --> 01:30:16.800
but it could not satisfy. So when we're out of our identity, and we're operating out of fear,

1461
01:30:16.800 --> 01:30:23.200
and lack, and out of desperation, and we're living in far less than God has called us to be,

1462
01:30:23.200 --> 01:30:29.760
and we're contracted, and we try to live contracted life, but this problem surfaces that

1463
01:30:29.760 --> 01:30:36.480
he has, which is he's hungry. And what I can tell you from the translation is he's hungry

1464
01:30:36.480 --> 01:30:42.320
spiritually, he's hungry physically, he's hungry emotionally, he's hungry, and what he found is

1465
01:30:42.320 --> 01:30:50.960
no matter how much wine women song, no matter what he tried, it could not satisfy. Any of you done

1466
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the striving deal? You got the companies, you got the raise, you got the degrees, you got you did

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all the striving. Any of you got there and it could not satisfy? Write that in the chat. If

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you've been down this journey one way or another, write down could not satisfy. You did what they

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said. You got the job, you got the education, you got the raise, you got the husband, you got the

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company, you got any of you have tried that route that is not based on your true identity, it's based

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on performance, and you got there, and you found out it could not satisfy. Pop in the chat, pop

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in the Facebook group. That was me. Amen, amen, amen, amen, amen, amen, amen. Okay, love that.

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Okay, and it says something interesting. It says he came to himself.

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There's that awareness that we talk about. Transformation becomes, comes from awareness.

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Change comes from awareness. It says he came to himself. So I pray that today you're getting the

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food to come to yourself, and so he started talking to himself. He came to himself, and he

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started talking to himself, and he started remembering, and he's thinking, you know what?

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In my father's house, I never went hungry ever. I never lacked for anything. I mean, even the servants

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have all that they could possibly want with plenty to spare. They lack nothing, and then he asked the

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question, what the heck am I doing? Like, you wake up awareness, and you go, what the heck am I doing?

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I did that, striving for decades. I was like, what the heck?

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You're able to make changes based on your new identity.

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That's why I only work three and a half days a week. You're able to attract a different level

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of client based on the new identity. You're able to charge the prices based on a new level of

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identity. It's based on the value that you bring, the results that you deliver, not what people tell you,

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and so, but he hadn't gone to that whole transformation. He got the awareness. Now he

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has to use his God-given ability to choose. He a little bit mischooses, and so he says, you know

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what? I'm going to go back home. I'm going to repent. Repent means turn and go the other direction,

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and I'm going to go to the father, and I'm going to say, father, I sinned, and then he's going to say,

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please let me be one of your servants, because one of the servants, I'm not worthy to be your son.

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Let me be a servant. Now here's an interesting thing. Any of you have kids? You've got sons?

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I've got a son. Daughters? I've got a son. I've got one son, two daughters.

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Do I look at it? Do you look at it like they have to be worthy? Like if they're not worthy, do you

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say you're not my son? If they're not worthy, do you say you're not my daughter? If they, even if they go

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and they veer course, and they try drugs, or they're promiscuous, or they leave the faith,

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or they do, do you ever get to the place that you say you're not? I mean, if you do, it's out of your

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pain. I mean, we don't do that as parents. Our kids don't have to do something to become a son

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or become a daughter, and Jesus said, if you, on earth, filled with sin, miscreations, and perceptions,

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know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more does your father in heaven,

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and yet here we are, still trying to perform to get to heaven, still trying to perform to get God

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to love us, still trying to perform to show we're a good Christian, still trying to perform to be

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good enough, yeah? So he decided,

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he's going to perform. Let me just be your servant. And the scripture says that while he's still a

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long way away, the father saw him and the father came running to him. And it says that he was

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dressed as a beggar. You see, you see what happens when we don't have our identity. It affects our

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01:35:22.240 --> 01:35:27.120
self-worth. He saw himself as a grasshopper. He saw himself as a beggar. He dressed as a beggar.

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He showed up barefoot as a pig farmer, stinking, smelling. And the father runs to him and embraces

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him. And the father puts a robe on him to remind him that he is royalty, that you are co-heirs,

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that you're seated in high places with Christ, you're heirs. He put shoes on his feet to remind

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him he's not a beggar. Jesus says, I don't call you servant. I call you friend. A servant doesn't

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know, but I tell you everything. He put a ring on his finger to signify authority. Jesus said,

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I give you power. I give you authority. So he kisses him and he shows tender love and he loves

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him and they get back home. And he says, kill the best cow. We're going to celebrate. My son was

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dead. He's alive. He's here. We're going to have a party. And the second son hears about it.

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And the second son, maybe you're not the first son. Maybe you were the good girl and you didn't

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go the rebellious route. There's one of each kind. Maybe you were the one that stayed home and you

1517
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were the self-righteous son, the other son. And the self-righteous son gets very, very angry

1518
01:36:42.000 --> 01:36:48.880
and says, what is this all about? He wouldn't even go into the party. This man has, you know, spent

1519
01:36:48.880 --> 01:36:56.480
all of his money on righteous living. Well, I've been here working. Can't you see? I've been serving

1520
01:36:56.480 --> 01:37:01.680
and you haven't given me a fatted cow. Maybe you're saying to God, you haven't answered my

1521
01:37:01.680 --> 01:37:08.560
prayers, God. You haven't given me what I asked for, God. I've done the thing. I've gone to church.

1522
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I've read the book. I've done the thing. And you haven't done anything. And the father answer is so

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profound. The father says, son, you're always with me and everything that I have is yours.

1524
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You see, your true identity breaks the separation from God as something far away that you have to

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01:37:38.240 --> 01:37:43.520
strive to get his approval or to be a daughter or to be good enough or any of those lies.

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And Jesus, the last thing he prayed is you'd understand, no, you're one, you are loved. There's

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01:37:49.760 --> 01:37:55.280
nothing you can do to make God love you more. There's nothing you can do to make God love you

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01:37:55.840 --> 01:38:06.720
less. And so we're breaking those two main lies, right? The lie of separation that God is somewhere

1529
01:38:07.680 --> 01:38:15.760
far and you got to try to get to him. And the lie of lack that you don't have enough and you can't

1530
01:38:15.760 --> 01:38:26.640
get enough. And Romans 12 says, be not conformed, don't be shaped by the world, but be transformed

1531
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by the renewing of your mind. This whole week has been about renewing your mind and stepping

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into scripture. And so near the last page where it says, discover your identity,

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scripture tells you so many things. I'm going to read just a few of them and then we're going to

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close with a verse and a prayer. And so scripture is, first of all, you know who you are by knowing

1535
01:38:59.360 --> 01:39:08.880
who God is, right? And scripture says you're accepted. John 1, 12 says you're God's child.

1536
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John 15, 15 says you're a friend of Jesus. First Corinthians 6, 17 says you're united with the

1537
01:39:18.960 --> 01:39:26.640
Lord. You're one with him. Ephesians 1, 3 through 8 says you're chosen, you're adopted.

1538
01:39:27.440 --> 01:39:37.200
Colossians 2, 9 and 10 says you're complete in Christ. Hebrews 4, 14 to 16 says you have direct

1539
01:39:37.200 --> 01:39:46.080
access to the throne of God. You're secure. Romans 8, 1 and 2 says you're free from condemnation.

1540
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There's no condemnation. Romans 8, 28 says everything in your life is working together

1541
01:39:52.720 --> 01:39:59.760
for good. Romans 8, 31 to 39 says you're free from condemnation.

1542
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You cannot be separated.

1543
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There's nothing that can separate you

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01:40:04.720 --> 01:40:06.120
from the love of God.

1545
01:40:07.240 --> 01:40:12.240
Philippians 1.6 says that God will complete the good work

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01:40:13.040 --> 01:40:14.200
he started in you.

1547
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He'll finish what he started.

1548
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2 Timothy 1.7 says you haven't been given a spirit of fear,

1549
01:40:22.280 --> 01:40:26.420
but a power of love and a sound mind.

1550
01:40:26.420 --> 01:40:28.320
That's 2 Timothy 1.7.

1551
01:40:29.260 --> 01:40:33.700
1 John 5.18 says you're born of God

1552
01:40:33.700 --> 01:40:36.540
and the evil one cannot touch you.

1553
01:40:36.540 --> 01:40:39.180
What have you been afraid of?

1554
01:40:39.180 --> 01:40:41.260
A demon in every bush?

1555
01:40:41.260 --> 01:40:44.020
You have all power, authority, dominion.

1556
01:40:44.020 --> 01:40:47.300
You're not a helpless, hopeless victim.

1557
01:40:47.300 --> 01:40:49.040
You're significant.

1558
01:40:50.060 --> 01:40:51.140
You're significant.

1559
01:40:51.140 --> 01:40:54.580
John 15.5 says you've been chosen.

1560
01:40:54.580 --> 01:40:57.580
You've been appointed to bear fruit.

1561
01:40:57.580 --> 01:41:01.160
John 15.16 says you're God's temple.

1562
01:41:02.380 --> 01:41:04.760
You're the container of the Holy Spirit.

1563
01:41:05.700 --> 01:41:10.260
1 Corinthians 3.16 says

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you're a minister of reconciliation for God.

1565
01:41:14.460 --> 01:41:19.460
2 Corinthians 5.17-21, this is a big one.

1566
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2 Corinthians 5.17-21 says you're seated with Christ

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01:41:26.100 --> 01:41:27.700
in the heavenly realm.

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Where are you deciding from when you make choices?

1569
01:41:35.220 --> 01:41:38.300
When you view things, when you govern,

1570
01:41:40.180 --> 01:41:44.220
are you ruling from that higher place

1571
01:41:44.220 --> 01:41:47.220
that can look down with compassion?

1572
01:41:47.220 --> 01:41:50.660
Or are you in this contracted under place

1573
01:41:50.660 --> 01:41:52.580
that you're making decisions?

1574
01:41:52.580 --> 01:41:55.060
I've shared my rule of thumb with you.

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To never make a decision based on fear or lack

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01:41:59.020 --> 01:42:00.420
because both of those are lies.

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They're both illusion.

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01:42:01.820 --> 01:42:04.360
Never make a decision based on fear.

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Fear is not of God.

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01:42:07.820 --> 01:42:09.420
Perfect love casts out fear.

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01:42:09.420 --> 01:42:12.220
Never make a decision based on fear.

1582
01:42:12.220 --> 01:42:14.180
Never make a decision based on lack

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01:42:14.180 --> 01:42:16.100
because the Father says you lack nothing.

1584
01:42:16.100 --> 01:42:18.020
You have access to all of heaven,

1585
01:42:18.020 --> 01:42:20.900
all the gold, the silver, everything.

1586
01:42:20.900 --> 01:42:22.140
God is your source.

1587
01:42:22.140 --> 01:42:24.660
You have, he says he will supply all your needs

1588
01:42:24.660 --> 01:42:25.820
according to his riches.

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Never make a decision.

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So 2 Corinthians 5.17-21 says you're seated with Christ

1591
01:42:33.100 --> 01:42:34.660
in the heavenly realm.

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You see how I'm washing you in the word?

1593
01:42:37.500 --> 01:42:40.260
Jesus says to be washed in the word.

1594
01:42:40.260 --> 01:42:44.380
I'm washing you in the word right now.

1595
01:42:45.780 --> 01:42:49.740
Ephesians 2.6, we're gonna read that one.

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So beautiful.

1597
01:42:51.060 --> 01:42:53.060
And Ephesians 2.10.

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Ephesians 2.6 says that you are God's poema,

1599
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God's poetry, God's masterpiece.

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When I say we gotta line up how we view ourself,

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01:43:09.820 --> 01:43:11.940
are you looking for every word, every wrinkle,

1602
01:43:11.940 --> 01:43:13.340
everything that's wrong?

1603
01:43:13.340 --> 01:43:15.540
Or are you looking in the mirror and saying, praise God,

1604
01:43:15.540 --> 01:43:17.140
I'm God's masterpiece.

1605
01:43:17.140 --> 01:43:19.300
Praise God, I'm God's poetry.

1606
01:43:19.300 --> 01:43:22.720
Praise God, I'm beautiful in his eyes, right?

1607
01:43:22.840 --> 01:43:27.840
And it says that we are his handiwork, his workmanship.

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01:43:33.000 --> 01:43:37.080
And we're born anew that we can do good works,

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01:43:37.080 --> 01:43:39.960
which God predestined beforehand,

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01:43:39.960 --> 01:43:43.760
taking the paths which he prepared ahead of time

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01:43:43.760 --> 01:43:45.440
that we should walk in them.

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01:43:45.440 --> 01:43:46.480
Look at this.

1613
01:43:46.480 --> 01:43:48.320
The path's been already laid out for you.

1614
01:43:48.320 --> 01:43:49.920
There's a path for you to walk on.

1615
01:43:49.920 --> 01:43:51.200
What about that?

1616
01:43:51.200 --> 01:43:55.200
This is in the Amplified Translation, Ephesians 2.10.

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01:43:55.200 --> 01:44:00.200
Living the good life that he prearranged

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01:44:01.120 --> 01:44:04.400
and made ready for us to live.

1619
01:44:05.520 --> 01:44:09.560
So embracing this truth means that we go back

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01:44:09.560 --> 01:44:12.040
and we discover who really am I?

1621
01:44:12.040 --> 01:44:14.120
Who does God say I am?

1622
01:44:14.120 --> 01:44:19.120
We break off the lies, we begin to practice that.

1623
01:44:19.960 --> 01:44:24.960
So let me close with this scripture and then with prayer.

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01:44:25.920 --> 01:44:29.160
Linda, if you all don't have,

1625
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I wanna put a couple of things.

1626
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If you didn't get the study guide, I wanna put it.

1627
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If you don't have the VIP option to get all six days replay,

1628
01:44:37.400 --> 01:44:39.760
I wanna make sure you get that.

1629
01:44:39.760 --> 01:44:42.600
If you wanna schedule a call with me,

1630
01:44:42.600 --> 01:44:47.480
you need coaching to get clarity, to get a strategy.

1631
01:44:47.520 --> 01:44:52.280
We're going into fourth quarter to step into what God,

1632
01:44:52.280 --> 01:44:53.600
the desires of your heart,

1633
01:44:53.600 --> 01:44:56.040
what God has really called you to.

1634
01:44:56.040 --> 01:44:58.080
Let's book a call.

1635
01:44:58.080 --> 01:44:59.280
Let's talk about this.

1636
01:44:59.280 --> 01:45:00.120
Let's get you.

1637
01:45:00.000 --> 01:45:02.760
Moving forward, I've told you all week,

1638
01:45:02.760 --> 01:45:04.400
you need three things.

1639
01:45:04.400 --> 01:45:07.680
You need clarity, you need coaching,

1640
01:45:07.680 --> 01:45:09.640
you need someone to hold you accountable,

1641
01:45:09.640 --> 01:45:13.140
someone who's gone where you wanna go to give you strategy,

1642
01:45:13.140 --> 01:45:15.560
someone to see your blind spots,

1643
01:45:15.560 --> 01:45:20.560
someone to walk you into this place that you're called to.

1644
01:45:20.960 --> 01:45:22.840
So if you haven't booked a call with me yet,

1645
01:45:22.840 --> 01:45:24.140
what are you waiting for?

1646
01:45:25.160 --> 01:45:27.960
Are you gonna just let these words go over?

1647
01:45:27.960 --> 01:45:30.240
Book a call, okay?

1648
01:45:30.240 --> 01:45:35.240
And if you are not interested in coaching,

1649
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you need a community,

1650
01:45:37.120 --> 01:45:39.440
a community that comes alongside of you,

1651
01:45:39.440 --> 01:45:42.400
a community that brings connections,

1652
01:45:42.400 --> 01:45:45.260
and that's the Prosper Leader membership.

1653
01:45:45.260 --> 01:45:48.360
I do group coaching twice a month.

1654
01:45:48.360 --> 01:45:53.360
If you have never seen the Prosper Leader membership,

1655
01:45:54.000 --> 01:45:58.080
allow me really quick for 30 seconds

1656
01:45:58.080 --> 01:46:02.240
to just show you what it is that you've been missing

1657
01:46:02.240 --> 01:46:04.160
and tell you what's coming up.

1658
01:46:04.160 --> 01:46:08.160
All of the workshops are free, all the masterclasses.

1659
01:46:08.160 --> 01:46:11.680
When you're a member of the Prosper Leader membership,

1660
01:46:11.680 --> 01:46:13.960
there is lots of free resources.

1661
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There's everything to get you going in the sales side of it.

1662
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Maybe you're not getting sales in your coaching business.

1663
01:46:20.720 --> 01:46:24.000
Maybe you don't have a follow-up system

1664
01:46:24.000 --> 01:46:26.760
and the fortune is in the follow-up.

1665
01:46:26.760 --> 01:46:29.520
Maybe you don't know how to use technology,

1666
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which by the way, next Sunday, next Saturday,

1667
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the 5th, next Saturday, I'm teaching you

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all that I'm doing in this season on AI

1669
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to save 15 to 20 hours a week,

1670
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to get clients, to make money, to move forward.

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All the masterclasses are free

1672
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if you are a Prosper Leader member.

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If not, it's $97.

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Do you have the link for the AI masterclass?

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So you can either join the AI, go to learn.

1676
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Go to learn.

1677
01:47:02.240 --> 01:47:03.640
You know what it is, Brenda Byers.

1678
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Learn.BrendaByers.com.

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Learn.BrendaByers.com and you'll see the AI masterclass.

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Learn.BrendaByers.com, you'll see it.

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So I'm gonna be teaching that.

1682
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So all the masterclasses are free.

1683
01:47:15.600 --> 01:47:18.400
We gather twice a month.

1684
01:47:18.400 --> 01:47:22.440
You get a Prosper Sister that you pray with.

1685
01:47:22.440 --> 01:47:24.120
You have accountability.

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I show up weekly for office hours.

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There's lots.

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If you've loved this masterclass, there's lots of them.

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There's five days on partnering with God in business.

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Lots of stuff.

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If you're struggling with money, God money in me.

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For years, I charged almost $600 for that.

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All kinds of stuff to break the money.

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If you love the scripture, the science, the strategy,

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manifest love, health, and prosperity,

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I charge $4,200, almost 10 years for this.

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The cheapest you could get this was 3,900.

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It's right in here for you.

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So become a Prosper Leader member.

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So whether you want to open the flow and activate vision,

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have personal growth, Bible studies, faith,

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health, relationships, you want coach training,

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it's all there for you.

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So become a Prosper Leader member.

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Now I'm making some incredible offers

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for those who do coaching with me.

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I'm giving that free.

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So schedule a call.

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Let's figure out what's right for you.

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What do you need?

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Where are you trying to get?

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What support's going to get you there?

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Book a call.

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Book a call.

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Let's figure out your next move.

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We're going into fourth quarter.

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We're laying the foundation for 2025.

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Book a call.

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Okay, I'm going to finish on time by George.

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Let me just, I don't know who George is,

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but let me read this to you, okay?

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Read this verse and pray.

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Okay, Ephesians chapter 3, 16 and on.

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Listen to this, just soak this in for a minute.

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In fact, put your feet on the ground,

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take a deep breath and exhale.

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Always make your exhale longer than your inhale.

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As you breathe in, say yah.

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As you breathe out, say way.

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Okay, so we breathe in, we say yah.

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Let's do it again.

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Yah.

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Way.

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Now I want you to say, I am who God says I am.

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Say it out loud to yourself.

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I am who God says I am.

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And I can do what God says I can do, which is all things.

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You can see it behind me.

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I am who God says I am and I can do what God says I can do.

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I can do what God says I can do.

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All right, listen to this real quick.

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May he grant you out of the rich treasury of his glory

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to be strengthened and reinforced with mighty power

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in the inner man by the Holy Spirit himself

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indwelling in your innermost being and personality.

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01:50:30.320 --> 01:50:32.380
Are we talking external or internal?

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Internal.

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This prayer is saying that he wants to give you

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out of his incredible treasure of glory.

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He wants to give you strength.

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He wants to give you power.

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By the way, that's the same power

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that raised Christ from the dead.

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It's deuteromous power.

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He wants to live, indwell in your innermost being.

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That's why there's no place you can go that God is not.

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When you walk in a room, God's still there.

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David discovered that.

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He said, even if I make my bed in hell, God is there.

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I can go to the furthest ocean, God is there, right?

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So may he grant you that.

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Verse 17, may Christ through your faith.

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Remember we learned in this series

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that faith is activating the promises of God.

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So may Christ through your faith actually dwell.

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The Amplified Translation says, settle down, abide,

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make his permanent home where?

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In your heart.

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And may you be rooted deep in love

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and founded securely on love.

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Remember we said everything has two tracks, right?

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Fear or love.

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This is about being rooted and grounded in love.

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How you look at yourself is gonna be with the eyes of love.

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How you speak is gonna be love.

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How you act and show up is gonna be out of love.

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Verse 18, that you may have the power

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01:51:56.820 --> 01:52:01.820
and be strong to apprehend and grasp with all the saints,

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God's devoted people, the experience of that love.

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What is the breadth, the length, the height,

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the depth of God's love?

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So that we can have the power to actually grasp this.

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How high, how wide, how deep?

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Verse 19, this is big, 19.

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That you may really come to know.

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I pray this series in your expansion formula,

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that you may really come to know practically.

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This is practical.

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This is about your business.

1790
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This is about having a seven, eight figure business.

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This is about having relationships.

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This is about practical.

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God is very practical.

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May you really come to know practically

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01:52:54.280 --> 01:52:58.920
through experience for yourselves, the love of Christ,

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which far surpasses mere knowledge.

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We're not just talking about getting this in your head.

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This is not a head thing.

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Surpasses mere knowledge,

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that you may be filled through your whole being

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unto the fullness of God.

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01:53:18.360 --> 01:53:20.080
In other words, just visualize this,

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that you may have the richest measure

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01:53:22.640 --> 01:53:24.920
of the divine presence

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01:53:26.000 --> 01:53:31.000
and become a body fully filled and flooded with God himself.

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01:53:34.320 --> 01:53:39.320
And now to him who by an inconsequence of his power

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01:53:40.360 --> 01:53:42.000
that is at work, where?

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Within us, put your hand on your heart at work,

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within us, not out there somewhere,

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01:53:51.160 --> 01:53:56.160
is able to carry out his purpose

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01:53:56.180 --> 01:54:00.320
and do super abundantly,

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far over and above all that we dare ask,

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01:54:08.020 --> 01:54:13.020
think infinitely beyond our highest prayers,

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desires, thoughts, hopes, or dreams.

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This is the word of God.

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This is the will of God, a God who is infinite love,

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who dwells in you,

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who desires to give you exceedingly abundantly

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above and beyond anything you could ask, hope, or imagine.

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If you've asked it, God wants to give you more.

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01:54:34.740 --> 01:54:37.620
If you've hoped it, God wants to give you more.

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If you've imagined it, God wants to give you more.

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That's our God.

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He's that big.

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01:54:44.120 --> 01:54:45.680
He's that much love.

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God is love.

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01:54:48.160 --> 01:54:50.100
And that's what he desires.

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That's his will for you.

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So the trick is, we've got to stop counter dictating that.

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We've got to stop using.

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01:55:00.000 --> 01:55:04.960
our imagination to counteract it with fear, with doubt,

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with worry, the things that cancel the miracles.

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That's what this Your Expansion formula has been about.

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You don't have to see yourself as a grasshopper.

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You don't have to be contracted.

1836
01:55:17.720 --> 01:55:22.200
You don't have to think or live or be or play small.

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01:55:22.200 --> 01:55:25.600
You no longer have to try to keep yourself safe.

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You are safe.

1839
01:55:27.680 --> 01:55:30.280
You're hidden in Christ.

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01:55:30.280 --> 01:55:32.880
You no longer have to try to be enough.

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01:55:32.880 --> 01:55:34.400
You are enough.

1842
01:55:34.400 --> 01:55:36.920
You're the temple of the Holy Spirit.

1843
01:55:36.920 --> 01:55:37.960
You have dominion.

1844
01:55:37.960 --> 01:55:38.800
You have power.

1845
01:55:38.800 --> 01:55:39.620
You have authority.

1846
01:55:39.620 --> 01:55:41.000
You have the mind of Christ.

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You have the power of life and death in your tongue.

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Now is time from this awareness to choose this,

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01:55:48.340 --> 01:55:52.660
to make it a habit every single morning, every single day,

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01:55:52.660 --> 01:55:54.760
to renew our mind.

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We're transformed by the renew, making new.

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01:55:57.740 --> 01:56:01.280
Now it's time to align what we think and feel

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and say about ourselves with what God says.

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Yes, who's ready?

1855
01:56:09.080 --> 01:56:15.360
Who's leaving this place different than they showed up?

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01:56:15.360 --> 01:56:18.840
I'm so grateful you chose to be here.

1857
01:56:18.840 --> 01:56:21.360
I would love to come alongside of you coaching.

1858
01:56:21.360 --> 01:56:24.560
I would love to have you in the Prosper Leader membership

1859
01:56:24.560 --> 01:56:26.600
when God said, gather the women,

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and he showed me women linking arms,

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01:56:29.440 --> 01:56:31.720
carrying across the finish line.

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01:56:31.720 --> 01:56:34.560
I'm seeing the most miracles, the most beautiful partnerships

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01:56:34.560 --> 01:56:39.200
and alignments happening, and it's only going to get better.

1864
01:56:39.200 --> 01:56:41.760
So I invite you to be a Prosper Leader member.

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That's a gift.

1866
01:56:43.600 --> 01:56:45.440
For those of you that are coaching with me,

1867
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I invite you to coach with me.

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If you don't know where or how, book your call.

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01:56:49.520 --> 01:56:51.200
Let's figure it out.

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01:56:51.200 --> 01:56:53.360
Let's figure it out, OK?

1871
01:56:53.360 --> 01:56:56.200
I'll see you next week in the AI Masterclass.

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Watch your emails.

1873
01:56:57.360 --> 01:56:58.520
You'll get notifications.

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01:56:58.520 --> 01:56:59.680
You'll get the link.

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You can just find it at learn.brendabyers.com.

1876
01:57:03.080 --> 01:57:04.480
You'll see it there.

1877
01:57:04.480 --> 01:57:06.400
And that's where I'm going to give you

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01:57:06.400 --> 01:57:10.160
the practical strategies, like how do I reach these leads?

1879
01:57:10.160 --> 01:57:11.440
How do I grow my business?

1880
01:57:11.440 --> 01:57:12.440
How do I make money?

1881
01:57:12.440 --> 01:57:14.440
How do I save 15 to 20 hours a week?

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That's next Saturday, OK?

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We'll see you there.

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I love you.

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01:57:19.240 --> 01:57:21.800
Thank you so much for being here.

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And we'll see you soon.

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God bless you.