WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:10.000 Hi, ladies, welcome. 2 00:00:10.000 --> 00:00:11.000 Happy Monday evening. 3 00:00:11.000 --> 00:00:13.000 It's good to see you all. 4 00:00:13.000 --> 00:00:19.000 If you can, if you're able, you're not driving, you're not eating, please turn on your cameras. 5 00:00:19.000 --> 00:00:25.000 We're going to always ask you, at least I am going to always ask you to do that when you join me for a live session. 6 00:00:25.000 --> 00:00:34.000 It's really good for me to be able to see you as a coach, but also for you all to practice being seen. 7 00:00:34.000 --> 00:00:40.000 Coming out of hiding is really important in your phase one heartwork journey and beyond. 8 00:00:40.000 --> 00:00:58.000 If you have a name, like administrator, Zoom user, if you all can, if you hover over your picture on Zoom, the three dots, if you click on that, and then it's called rename, if you can just put in your first name, at least that way I know who you are. 9 00:00:58.000 --> 00:01:02.000 I'm going to call you by your name, and I'm going to call you by your heart. 10 00:01:02.000 --> 00:01:05.000 And then I'm going to call you by your name. 11 00:01:05.000 --> 00:01:11.000 And then I'm going to call you by your name, and then I'm going to call you by your heart. 12 00:01:11.000 --> 00:01:16.000 And just because there's times where God will lead me to say people, things by, call people by name, and I want to be able to use your name. 13 00:01:16.000 --> 00:01:20.000 So that helps me and also just so I know who you are in the program. 14 00:01:20.000 --> 00:01:22.000 All right, so again, welcome. 15 00:01:22.000 --> 00:01:23.000 My name is Bethany Cooper. 16 00:01:23.000 --> 00:01:25.000 I'm one of the heartwork coaches in the community. 17 00:01:25.000 --> 00:01:26.000 And I'm a new lady. 18 00:01:26.000 --> 00:01:33.000 So please tell me in the chat that you're new, you're joining us for the first time, that way I know who our new ladies are. 19 00:01:33.000 --> 00:01:36.000 I know that we have some that might even join us here in a little bit. 20 00:01:36.000 --> 00:01:39.000 We have several new ladies that joined in the last week. 21 00:01:39.000 --> 00:01:43.000 So I imagine at some point we'll have some people joining for the first time. 22 00:01:43.000 --> 00:01:46.000 Hi, Tara, welcome for your first time. 23 00:01:46.000 --> 00:01:51.000 And all of our ladies that have been here for a while, wave and welcome Tara and Christy. 24 00:01:51.000 --> 00:01:53.000 Wave and welcome them. 25 00:01:53.000 --> 00:01:57.000 It's so good to be here with all of you tonight. 26 00:01:57.000 --> 00:02:01.000 Always want to remind you all to stay connected in community. 27 00:02:01.000 --> 00:02:07.000 I know that there are a lot of things going on in the world, especially with the hurricane and all the effects. 28 00:02:07.000 --> 00:02:13.000 You know, we are praying for all those that have been impacted, as well as family members and all of the things. 29 00:02:13.000 --> 00:02:18.000 But also beyond that, your own personal life and what's happening. 30 00:02:18.000 --> 00:02:24.000 But you're here during this time for heart work, for an appointed time and appointed purpose. 31 00:02:24.000 --> 00:02:27.000 And we believe God has divinely led you here. 32 00:02:27.000 --> 00:02:32.000 And so we want to encourage you to stay connected, stay in community, come into the app or the Facebook group. 33 00:02:32.000 --> 00:02:34.000 And I don't want either group to worry. 34 00:02:34.000 --> 00:02:38.000 Those that started in Facebook are just finishing their journey in Facebook. 35 00:02:38.000 --> 00:02:41.000 But after a certain point, we have everybody in the app. 36 00:02:41.000 --> 00:02:44.000 But same things are happening in both places. 37 00:02:44.000 --> 00:02:47.000 So I just want you all to come into those groups and engage. 38 00:02:47.000 --> 00:02:48.000 Post in there. 39 00:02:48.000 --> 00:02:50.000 Let us know how you're doing. 40 00:02:50.000 --> 00:02:55.000 And at the end of every live session, we are going to be issuing what's called activation. 41 00:02:55.000 --> 00:02:58.000 Some of you are like, what's an activation? 42 00:02:58.000 --> 00:03:02.000 An activation from my standpoint, I'm not sure if Jackie would describe this differently, 43 00:03:02.000 --> 00:03:11.000 but it's a way for you to take what you're learning in a live session, as well as in the heart work program, and activate it. 44 00:03:11.000 --> 00:03:12.000 Partner with it. 45 00:03:12.000 --> 00:03:14.000 Take quick action on something. 46 00:03:14.000 --> 00:03:16.000 Helps make it very real. 47 00:03:16.000 --> 00:03:23.000 Helps accelerate the supernatural healing process in ways beyond what you guys can ask, think, or imagine truly. 48 00:03:23.000 --> 00:03:36.000 So I encourage you all, as much as you can, to take quick action on the activations that I give or Jackie might give in our live sessions, as well as on Supernatural Saturday. 49 00:03:36.000 --> 00:03:42.000 Sometimes I know you all that it can seem like, oh my gosh, I already have a lot to know and keep up with. 50 00:03:42.000 --> 00:03:49.000 But I promise, if you stay engaged and just do your best every day, you're going to get to where you need to go. 51 00:03:49.000 --> 00:03:50.000 Okay? 52 00:03:50.000 --> 00:03:51.000 Stay engaged. 53 00:03:51.000 --> 00:03:52.000 We love you. 54 00:03:52.000 --> 00:03:53.000 We want to be here for you. 55 00:03:53.000 --> 00:03:58.000 If you start to struggle in any way, please don't allow the enemy to cause you to isolate. 56 00:03:58.000 --> 00:04:02.000 Come into the group and say, hey, I'm really struggling today or this week. 57 00:04:02.000 --> 00:04:03.000 Can you pray for me? 58 00:04:03.000 --> 00:04:07.000 Y'all, do you know that you can ask for prayer in the community group? 59 00:04:07.000 --> 00:04:08.000 I hope you do. 60 00:04:08.000 --> 00:04:13.000 Now, for those that are joining us for the first time, it's super important for me to tell you this. 61 00:04:13.000 --> 00:04:17.000 You get to check your helper hats at the door. 62 00:04:17.000 --> 00:04:24.000 No matter if you've been in ministry forever, counseling, you're a really big helper and you just love to help people. 63 00:04:24.000 --> 00:04:26.000 You get to take all those helper hats off. 64 00:04:26.000 --> 00:04:30.000 And myself and the other coaches are the ones that are going to be helping people. 65 00:04:30.000 --> 00:04:34.000 So even sisters that might be really struggling, I want to encourage you all. 66 00:04:34.000 --> 00:04:38.000 Those that are members of this program, you do not have to be the ones to help them. 67 00:04:38.000 --> 00:04:42.000 That's what myself and the coaching team and Jackie are here for. 68 00:04:42.000 --> 00:04:45.000 But you can definitely cheer them on and just let them know you're praying for them. 69 00:04:45.000 --> 00:04:47.000 So just want to make sure everyone knows that. 70 00:04:47.000 --> 00:04:52.000 And it's a good reminder for the ladies that have been in the program for a while as well. 71 00:04:52.000 --> 00:04:56.000 I want to let you guys know that we're going to have a special session coming up this Sunday. 72 00:04:56.000 --> 00:05:00.000 If you didn't know, we just had a prophetic night last night. 73 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:05.920 be in your replays probably tomorrow if it's not already there. But we are going to do another 74 00:05:05.920 --> 00:05:12.960 special session. It's a very prophetic anointed time during Rosh Hashanah this week happening as 75 00:05:12.960 --> 00:05:20.160 well as the new year beginning and we are just really feeling led to lead people into some really 76 00:05:20.160 --> 00:05:24.320 special important times with the Lord during this week. So that's going to happen Sunday evening 77 00:05:25.040 --> 00:05:32.240 this Sunday October 6th at 8 p.m. Eastern Time. That's 7 p.m. Central and 5 p.m. Pacific. We'll 78 00:05:32.240 --> 00:05:36.800 put a post in there that'll also be in your events area. We'll make sure you guys know how to get 79 00:05:36.800 --> 00:05:41.840 connected to that. Basically it's just taking place of our regular Sunday night prayer. Okay 80 00:05:41.840 --> 00:05:46.000 so you can use the same link that you would use for Sunday night prayer but we're just gonna 81 00:05:46.000 --> 00:05:52.240 repurpose that night for something special. For those of you in the program no matter where 82 00:05:52.240 --> 00:05:57.840 you're at this is my reminder for you tonight regarding disruptions and distractions. I want 83 00:05:57.840 --> 00:06:03.680 to encourage you to stay focused even those guys that you broke up with or they broke up with you 84 00:06:03.680 --> 00:06:11.360 and all of a sudden they're coming out of the woodwork. Yes stay focused. I want to encourage 85 00:06:11.360 --> 00:06:17.760 you to continue to surrender those people to the Lord and trust that you're here you're moving 86 00:06:17.760 --> 00:06:24.800 forward and understand that the enemy is going to try to get you to go where backwards backwards. 87 00:06:24.800 --> 00:06:30.000 So we want you to stay focused keep moving forward and I want to encourage you all just to 88 00:06:30.000 --> 00:06:35.120 if you don't know we encourage everybody in phase one to press pause on dating and interacting with 89 00:06:35.120 --> 00:06:46.160 men. Okay here's why because you all need this time for you. You came here because there was a 90 00:06:46.160 --> 00:06:52.240 reason that you have felt stuck and you haven't found the spirit mate the God you believe God is 91 00:06:52.240 --> 00:06:56.880 leading you towards and we want to help you get to that place as well and one of the ways we have 92 00:06:56.880 --> 00:07:02.800 found that this is works really well is when you all really stay engaged in your healing process 93 00:07:02.800 --> 00:07:08.480 and don't get distracted with guys. I promise if you will give yourself the five weeks or seven or 94 00:07:08.480 --> 00:07:15.680 ten however long it takes you we we really prefer best practice one week of content per week. If you 95 00:07:15.680 --> 00:07:20.320 need to take a little bit longer that's fine we don't want you rushing and binging on videos and 96 00:07:20.320 --> 00:07:25.840 binging on the book y'all you're going to miss things if you do that so give yourself at least 97 00:07:25.840 --> 00:07:33.440 one week per week of content to work on that but also to really focus on what God wants to do in 98 00:07:33.440 --> 00:07:40.000 you. If you will do that if you will give yourself permission to invest fully in yourself in this time 99 00:07:40.560 --> 00:07:45.280 I've been through this program several years ago so I'm telling you from experience 100 00:07:45.280 --> 00:07:52.000 you will experience supernatural healing and shifts that you need to not just attract a guy 101 00:07:52.720 --> 00:07:59.840 but to attract your spirit mate a really healthy amazing man that God is going to lead you to okay 102 00:08:00.480 --> 00:08:05.200 trust me in this your your process will be accelerated later on supernaturally in ways you 103 00:08:05.200 --> 00:08:12.480 can't even imagine right now truly all right my last focus uh update for you is um just keep 104 00:08:12.480 --> 00:08:17.920 showing up okay just keep showing up and let us see who you are what are some things you love to do 105 00:08:17.920 --> 00:08:22.480 you all know you can come in the group and just say hey I had a great week this week this is 106 00:08:22.480 --> 00:08:28.240 something fun that happened yes you can do that in here I want you all to look across the zoom room 107 00:08:28.240 --> 00:08:34.159 I know some of them it's just names but these ladies in here are a part of what we call your 108 00:08:34.159 --> 00:08:39.600 sister squad even though some of you are going to move out into phase two before you know before the 109 00:08:39.600 --> 00:08:45.680 ladies that just joined yes some of you all are going to become friends more than what you can 110 00:08:45.680 --> 00:08:52.560 even understand or comprehend right now if you will let yourself become a part of this community 111 00:08:52.560 --> 00:09:00.640 and really let the ladies in this group in I was in the wedding of one of our phase two coaches Carla 112 00:09:00.640 --> 00:09:06.160 you guys that will later go into phase two you will meet her there I was in her wedding one year 113 00:09:06.160 --> 00:09:13.360 ago I met her in this program I absolutely love her she's one of my sisters and I believe that 114 00:09:13.360 --> 00:09:18.080 that can be possible for you all as well if that is something that you want all right that's all 115 00:09:18.080 --> 00:09:23.600 for the catch-up tonight let me pray for us father god thank you so much for everything that you're 116 00:09:23.600 --> 00:09:31.200 doing god I thank you for your divine protection and redirection at times god we thank you for 117 00:09:31.200 --> 00:09:36.240 supernatural healing and grace in our midst tonight holy spirit we ask you to come and have 118 00:09:36.240 --> 00:09:42.880 your way remove any blinders any filters any triggers that would happen tonight we thank you 119 00:09:42.880 --> 00:09:48.800 god that you would place the balm of gilead upon our hearts bring those things out of darkness into 120 00:09:48.800 --> 00:09:54.400 the light so that there can be healing and redemption and reconciliation and restitution 121 00:09:54.400 --> 00:09:59.680 in ways that we can't even imagine we thank you for supernatural heart surgery happening tonight 122 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:18.000 Yes, Lord, we thank you that you love your daughters, you love your sons, and I thank you that you are creating kingdoms, families, and marriages through this movement, through this generation, through this time, and in the lives of these ladies that are here tonight, that that is what you're going to do. 123 00:10:18.000 --> 00:10:33.000 We thank you that this is an Esther 414 moment. For such a time as this, you've called them. We thank you for their yes. We thank you that you would help them to hear what your spirit is saying to them tonight, that you would give them eyes to see in the spirit as well. 124 00:10:33.000 --> 00:10:47.000 We thank you, Father, for sending your son Jesus, and Jesus, we thank you for coming, for shedding your blood on the cross for our sins, for our healing, for our redemption, but also so that we could be in relationship with you. 125 00:10:47.000 --> 00:11:04.000 Thank you for not leaving us alone. Thank you for the truth that Psalm 68.6 says that you place God, the solitary and families. For those that feel alone tonight, I thank you, God, that you would remind them that you have placed them here and they can choose to be a part of this family. 126 00:11:04.000 --> 00:11:22.000 And we just thank you for leading them here. In Jesus name, amen and amen. All right, ladies, if you did not know there is a video in week one. So even if you're past week one, some of you all are in week three and four and maybe further, and you haven't done your Jesus cares board yet. 127 00:11:22.000 --> 00:11:46.000 You're not in trouble, I promise. But here's my loving reminder and encouragement. Please do your Jesus cares boards. Here's why. This is an important part of you inviting Jesus and that physical reminder of Jesus, I believe that you care about these cares and worries and concerns that burden me and I'm going to take them off of myself and put them on to you, Jesus. 128 00:11:47.000 --> 00:12:01.000 If you're just starting this program, you will see that video in week one. Jackie will explain she's going to tell you a story and then she's going to explain what the Jesus cares board is and she's going to show you an example of her Jesus cares board. It can be very simple ladies. 129 00:12:01.000 --> 00:12:20.000 If you want to be more artsy and crafty and do something that is different than hers, it is totally fine. You do what feels best for you. Okay. The point is just to get it done to get it started and then what? Post it in the group. We want to see pictures of it. Why does that matter? 130 00:12:20.000 --> 00:12:44.000 Because a myself as a coach and the other coaches can choose to see your Jesus cares board pray over those needs and partner with you and believing that Jesus is going to work in every one of those cares on your board. It also is you saying I'm coming out of hiding and I'm choosing to believe myself that Jesus is working in these cares in my life. Okay. 131 00:12:44.000 --> 00:12:56.000 Be sure to do that. If you haven't done it yet, those of you just joining us brand new, you can do it this week as you're in there week one watching that video and working on that. We look forward to seeing those. 132 00:12:56.000 --> 00:13:01.000 I want to talk to you all a little bit about supernatural surrender tonight. 133 00:13:01.000 --> 00:13:10.000 And I want to start at this place. Some of you may not believe this or know this, but God is a gentleman. 134 00:13:11.000 --> 00:13:15.000 What does that mean? It means he's not going to force his way in. 135 00:13:15.000 --> 00:13:27.000 Well, why does that matter in the heart healing process? Well, because some of you, whether you realize it or not, subconsciously have put do not enter signs up on parts of your heart. 136 00:13:27.000 --> 00:13:37.000 Maybe not all of your heart. Maybe you feel close to God in some areas, but there's just other areas that you're just really not wanting to go into. 137 00:13:37.000 --> 00:13:44.000 And for some of you, you've been in counseling for years. You've done all kinds of programs. Some of you have done other healing programs. 138 00:13:44.000 --> 00:13:50.000 And I want to encourage you if the Holy Spirit brings something up in this time. 139 00:13:50.000 --> 00:13:58.000 It's because there's another peak. He's just wanting you to take another look at that. It doesn't mean you have to go all the way back through your trauma. 140 00:13:58.000 --> 00:14:05.000 But there is something he's wanting to show you. So here's something that you're going to, we want to encourage you to get really good at asking God questions. 141 00:14:05.000 --> 00:14:14.000 So for example, I was sexually abused when I was younger. And when I went through my process, I had already done work on that. 142 00:14:14.000 --> 00:14:23.000 But guess what? Holy Spirit brought that up in my process. And so I learned really quick, like, Lord, I know I've worked through this before, but you're bringing this up. 143 00:14:23.000 --> 00:14:31.000 So is there something you're wanting me to see about this? Is there a new layer of healing that you're wanting me to walk through? 144 00:14:31.000 --> 00:14:38.000 Is there something that I didn't know before that you want to reveal that's new? 145 00:14:38.000 --> 00:14:45.000 So just have a conversation with God about it versus just dismissing it like, I've already done this. I don't want to do this again. 146 00:14:45.000 --> 00:14:54.000 Be very open in this process. I want to encourage you all to just ask the Lord to help you take down any do not enter signs. 147 00:14:54.000 --> 00:14:59.000 And to give God full access. Full access. 148 00:14:59.000 --> 00:15:00.000 That means... 149 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:06.800 There's no broken bridges. There's no keep out signs. There's no do not enter. It's full access. 150 00:15:06.800 --> 00:15:14.800 All roads lead to yes. Yes, Lord. You can enter my heart. Yes, Lord. You can enter this really 151 00:15:14.800 --> 00:15:21.200 broken area. Yes, Lord. You can enter this broken relationship with my mom or my sister, 152 00:15:21.200 --> 00:15:26.400 or you can enter this broken relationship with my child. Whatever that looks like for you all, 153 00:15:27.360 --> 00:15:31.520 God wants you to invite him into that. He's not going to force his way in. 154 00:15:32.080 --> 00:15:37.840 So if you didn't know, Revelation 320 confirms it. It says, Behold, I stand at the door and knock. 155 00:15:38.800 --> 00:15:41.920 If any man hears my voice and opens the door, I will come into him, 156 00:15:42.480 --> 00:15:46.960 and he will suck with me and he with me. A lot of times we believe that's just about 157 00:15:47.680 --> 00:15:52.800 accepting and inviting Jesus into our lives as our Lord and Savior, but I believe it's also about 158 00:15:52.800 --> 00:16:02.000 the daily invitation. God is daily knocking on the door of your heart saying, Can I come into 159 00:16:02.000 --> 00:16:07.520 this area? Can I come into this situation? Will you trust me? I feel the Holy Spirit on this. 160 00:16:07.520 --> 00:16:14.320 I'm going to stay here for a minute. Will you trust me with this burden, with this unfulfilled 161 00:16:14.320 --> 00:16:20.960 promise that you believe I've held out on you? Y'all, God is not a God that dangles carrots 162 00:16:21.920 --> 00:16:28.640 as a trick. And I believe some of you tonight, he wants you to understand that the enemy 163 00:16:28.640 --> 00:16:33.360 of your soul, the enemy comes to kill, steal, and destroy, but Jesus Christ came to give you life 164 00:16:33.360 --> 00:16:38.000 and give it to you more abundantly. The enemy has tried to cause you to believe that God's a trickster, 165 00:16:38.000 --> 00:16:43.040 that he's a liar, that he's deceitful, and that he just, he's never going to come through for you. 166 00:16:44.720 --> 00:16:49.760 He comes through for everybody else, but not for you. That's the lie of the enemy. 167 00:16:50.240 --> 00:16:54.960 And tonight, I want to encourage you to let that lie go and partner with the truth that 168 00:16:54.960 --> 00:17:02.560 God is a good father. He's faithful, and he will come through for you, not just everybody else, 169 00:17:02.560 --> 00:17:08.960 for you, for you, Friendshi, for you, Camilla, for you, Mariska. Yes, every one of you, ladies, 170 00:17:08.960 --> 00:17:16.160 I could call you all by name, but tonight he is saying, Trust me, open the door of your heart to 171 00:17:16.160 --> 00:17:23.040 me and see what I will do. I'm going to read just a brief thing from the book. I don't give page 172 00:17:23.040 --> 00:17:27.440 numbers when I do live sessions because the ebook page numbers are different than the physical book. 173 00:17:27.440 --> 00:17:32.640 The content's the same, but it just, just listen and kind of soak it in. At some point, you all 174 00:17:32.640 --> 00:17:38.320 will read it anyways, but it says this, Ever since we were toddlers, our mantra has been, I do it 175 00:17:38.320 --> 00:17:45.840 myself. I do it myself. Y'all had little kids. Anybody had little kids? I know my kids did that, 176 00:17:45.840 --> 00:17:51.360 even as they got older, even myself as a teenager, I can remember just being adamant that I didn't 177 00:17:51.360 --> 00:17:59.200 need help. Y'all, can I get a witness that us ladies also do that as adults? Hello? I don't 178 00:17:59.200 --> 00:18:03.680 need anybody's help. I got this all by myself. We're going to talk about that in other weeks 179 00:18:03.680 --> 00:18:10.080 because we want to get rid of that. It's okay for us to be strong, ladies. I can get all kinds of 180 00:18:10.080 --> 00:18:17.040 things done all day long, but y'all know what has been really amazing is letting my husband do 181 00:18:17.040 --> 00:18:23.200 things for me. It's not been easy, but it's absolutely been worth it because you know what? 182 00:18:23.840 --> 00:18:29.520 I don't have to do everything by myself anymore. And here's another thing for you. For those of 183 00:18:29.520 --> 00:18:36.080 you that aren't there yet, obviously you're here in heartwork. Even before he came into my life, 184 00:18:36.080 --> 00:18:43.680 my husband, I was practicing this in heartwork and beyond before I ever met him, letting friends 185 00:18:43.680 --> 00:18:49.440 help me. My best friend, I called her one day like, Hey, can you ask your husband if you'll 186 00:18:49.440 --> 00:18:54.880 come over and help me hang this cabinet? Some of you, I want you just right now, even just start 187 00:18:54.880 --> 00:19:00.640 asking the Holy spirit. Is there something the Lord wants you to ask someone to help you with 188 00:19:00.640 --> 00:19:05.520 this week? This didn't come up this, this afternoon. So I believe this is a Holy spirit. 189 00:19:05.520 --> 00:19:12.400 Some of y'all need to let people help you. And you need to surrender to the idea that you just 190 00:19:12.400 --> 00:19:18.000 have to act like you have it all together all the time. And that you just have to be strong. 191 00:19:18.000 --> 00:19:23.440 And if you show any signs of weakness, that that's bad. A asking for help isn't weak. 192 00:19:25.200 --> 00:19:31.360 It's not a weakness. It's you opening yourself to relationship. It's you opening yourself 193 00:19:31.360 --> 00:19:36.160 to community and to love and to connection. Okay. I'm going to go on. We've been programmed 194 00:19:36.160 --> 00:19:41.680 by our broken world to never depend on anyone or anything. And people that do are considered 195 00:19:41.680 --> 00:19:46.640 foolish and naive all through our lives. We are taught overtly and covertly that it's a good 196 00:19:46.640 --> 00:19:53.280 thing to be in and stay in control. And that is a lot of hard work. One of the main reasons we 197 00:19:53.280 --> 00:19:59.920 don't want to depend on anyone else. Guess what? It's because we don't want to be disappointed. 198 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:07.040 So I want to ask you all right now, just to ask the Holy Spirit, be 100% honest with God 199 00:20:07.040 --> 00:20:09.280 in yourself right now. 200 00:20:09.280 --> 00:20:14.120 Are you putting up walls and we're going to talk about this more in a little bit and not 201 00:20:14.120 --> 00:20:21.480 letting love in, not just romantic relationship, love, even love and community and friendship. 202 00:20:21.480 --> 00:20:22.920 Some of y'all have been hurt in churches. 203 00:20:22.920 --> 00:20:25.880 Some of y'all have been hurt by other friends and community groups. 204 00:20:25.880 --> 00:20:31.040 And so you're even afraid, like you're here, praise the Lord, you're here, but you still 205 00:20:31.040 --> 00:20:32.040 have walls up. 206 00:20:32.040 --> 00:20:33.480 You're like, I don't know about this. 207 00:20:33.480 --> 00:20:36.280 I don't, I don't know if I even want to share in this group. 208 00:20:36.280 --> 00:20:42.120 I don't, I would just rather be on the wall and just, just kind of watch. 209 00:20:42.120 --> 00:20:44.040 If that's you, I love you. 210 00:20:44.040 --> 00:20:45.040 There's no shame. 211 00:20:45.040 --> 00:20:46.120 There's no condemnation or guilt. 212 00:20:46.120 --> 00:20:47.680 I don't want you to receive any of that. 213 00:20:47.680 --> 00:20:51.880 If you feel that during any of these live sessions, that is from the enemy because he 214 00:20:51.880 --> 00:20:54.600 doesn't want you to feel safe. 215 00:20:54.600 --> 00:20:58.560 But I want you to know absolute like love for you. 216 00:20:58.560 --> 00:21:00.480 I don't want you to stay there though. 217 00:21:00.480 --> 00:21:02.480 I want you to come into community. 218 00:21:02.480 --> 00:21:06.680 I want you to get out of your comfort zone and really embrace everything God has for 219 00:21:06.680 --> 00:21:10.160 you here because it's, it's really going to be beautiful and glorious if you allow it 220 00:21:10.160 --> 00:21:12.560 to be okay. 221 00:21:12.560 --> 00:21:18.120 In this process as well, in our supernatural surrender process, we want to encourage you 222 00:21:18.120 --> 00:21:21.020 to ask for revealings for healing. 223 00:21:21.020 --> 00:21:22.720 We don't want you to dig. 224 00:21:22.720 --> 00:21:23.720 Okay. 225 00:21:23.840 --> 00:21:27.560 So the difference is somebody who gets their shovel out and they start digging into past 226 00:21:27.560 --> 00:21:32.640 generation and start asking their parents and it's okay to ask every now and then questions, 227 00:21:32.640 --> 00:21:35.280 but y'all, we don't need to go dig up graves. 228 00:21:35.280 --> 00:21:36.280 Okay. 229 00:21:36.280 --> 00:21:38.920 We need to ask the Holy spirit. 230 00:21:38.920 --> 00:21:42.920 Is there anything you want to bring to darkness until from the darkness into the light, Lord, 231 00:21:42.920 --> 00:21:44.440 is there anything you want to reveal? 232 00:21:44.440 --> 00:21:47.960 If you get offended word, Hey, I feel offended about that. 233 00:21:47.960 --> 00:21:49.120 Is there anything you want to show me? 234 00:21:49.120 --> 00:21:51.860 Like, why am I getting so offended? 235 00:21:51.860 --> 00:21:57.140 It might be because of what that person did, but it also might be because you need healing 236 00:21:57.140 --> 00:22:02.140 and you're getting super triggered over something that really isn't a big deal. 237 00:22:02.140 --> 00:22:03.260 So be open. 238 00:22:03.260 --> 00:22:04.260 Don't dig. 239 00:22:04.260 --> 00:22:08.860 Ask the Holy spirit to reveal for healing and trust what he brings up and lean into 240 00:22:08.860 --> 00:22:09.860 the Holy spirit. 241 00:22:09.860 --> 00:22:11.580 And you guys will hear me talk about pull the thread. 242 00:22:11.580 --> 00:22:14.240 I'm going to, I'll do that during my coaching sessions. 243 00:22:14.240 --> 00:22:18.340 It's actually something that just, I don't know, over the last three years as I've been 244 00:22:18.340 --> 00:22:21.340 coaching in this community, it just pulled the thread. 245 00:22:21.820 --> 00:22:28.380 So what I mean by that is this, we encourage you to ask the Holy spirit. 246 00:22:28.380 --> 00:22:35.820 What is the root trauma that I experienced that led me to where I'm at right now? 247 00:22:35.820 --> 00:22:39.420 Like whatever the thing is that you're struggling with where you're stuck. 248 00:22:39.420 --> 00:22:42.420 And sometimes you'll be like, I don't know if it's the root thing. 249 00:22:42.420 --> 00:22:43.580 It's okay. 250 00:22:43.580 --> 00:22:48.680 Just pull the thread, pull the thread on what is the Holy spirit bringing up right now? 251 00:22:48.680 --> 00:22:53.440 Even if it's just a random thought and you're like, why am I thinking about this great school 252 00:22:53.440 --> 00:22:54.720 playground incident? 253 00:22:54.720 --> 00:22:57.920 I don't even think I was hurt by that. 254 00:22:57.920 --> 00:23:01.680 Well, the threat Lord, you're bringing up this situation from when I was in elementary 255 00:23:01.680 --> 00:23:03.520 school on the playground. 256 00:23:03.520 --> 00:23:07.400 Is there something you want to reveal to me through this situation? 257 00:23:07.400 --> 00:23:08.400 It's that simple. 258 00:23:08.400 --> 00:23:09.400 Y'all. 259 00:23:09.400 --> 00:23:10.400 Okay. 260 00:23:10.400 --> 00:23:12.840 So you just pull the thread means you just start asking the Lord about what's coming 261 00:23:12.840 --> 00:23:14.040 up. 262 00:23:14.040 --> 00:23:19.000 And then as he starts to show you, what can happen is it may, it doesn't always, but it 263 00:23:19.000 --> 00:23:21.600 might lead to another situation. 264 00:23:21.600 --> 00:23:24.060 And then it might lead to another situation. 265 00:23:24.060 --> 00:23:28.320 And then you might find that underneath of those is the root. 266 00:23:28.320 --> 00:23:29.600 Okay. 267 00:23:29.600 --> 00:23:31.080 Everyone on the same page with me. 268 00:23:31.080 --> 00:23:32.080 Okay. 269 00:23:32.080 --> 00:23:34.800 And for those of you that have been in a few weeks, this is good reminder. 270 00:23:34.800 --> 00:23:36.520 So keep soaking this all in. 271 00:23:36.520 --> 00:23:40.680 I listened to things over and over and over when I was in the bootcamp and heartwork, 272 00:23:40.680 --> 00:23:42.280 that's what we used to call. 273 00:23:42.280 --> 00:23:43.280 Heartwork was bootcamp. 274 00:23:43.760 --> 00:23:45.080 It really, really is helpful. 275 00:23:45.080 --> 00:23:49.160 I'm going to now pray over you all, uh, the submission activation. 276 00:23:49.160 --> 00:23:50.440 This is in your books as well. 277 00:23:50.440 --> 00:23:53.640 Again, I'm not going to say the page just cause it won't really matter to you. 278 00:23:53.640 --> 00:23:58.480 Cause it's a different page for you in your ebook, but I want to encourage you. 279 00:23:58.480 --> 00:24:00.880 I am big on before y'all go into breakout. 280 00:24:00.880 --> 00:24:05.160 For those of you that are new, what we do in breakout also, just so you know, is I put 281 00:24:05.160 --> 00:24:09.240 you in a, a breakout room and you're going to get a pop-up to join that room. 282 00:24:09.240 --> 00:24:12.560 You are probably going to be in a room with people that you don't know. 283 00:24:12.560 --> 00:24:18.000 And I want to encourage you don't avoid conversation, lean in, lean in again, get out of your comfort 284 00:24:18.000 --> 00:24:20.800 zone and engage. 285 00:24:20.800 --> 00:24:24.040 These ladies will truly, this is, I've been doing this for three years. 286 00:24:24.040 --> 00:24:30.800 You all in three years, I've never had someone say someone hurt me in a breakout room. 287 00:24:30.800 --> 00:24:33.800 So I hope that doesn't start now, but I don't think it will. 288 00:24:33.800 --> 00:24:35.800 And so we honor one another. 289 00:24:35.800 --> 00:24:38.920 You don't have to fix anybody in the breakout rooms. 290 00:24:39.000 --> 00:24:43.640 Remember you just give everybody space to share, love each other, support each other 291 00:24:43.640 --> 00:24:45.320 and all of that. 292 00:24:45.320 --> 00:24:49.600 And then when we come back together, I'm going to ask who's willing to share with the whole 293 00:24:49.600 --> 00:24:51.440 group, what you shared in your breakout. 294 00:24:51.440 --> 00:24:55.320 And then I'm going to do some group coaching and I'm going to share some more con content 295 00:24:55.320 --> 00:24:57.120 and then we'll do the breakouts again. 296 00:24:57.120 --> 00:24:59.880 And that's how pretty much every. 297 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:06.640 session will go. Sometimes Holy Spirit takes way over and we always invite him in but sometimes 298 00:25:06.640 --> 00:25:11.760 he takes over and we do more content on the front end and and it might look a little different but 299 00:25:11.760 --> 00:25:16.800 tonight that's the plan so we'll see what happens. But for now I encourage you all just to put your 300 00:25:16.800 --> 00:25:21.520 hands out. Submission activation if you all surrender and you're letting go I want to 301 00:25:21.520 --> 00:25:27.120 encourage you all to practice this often okay. Even at home alone with the Lord. Just Lord you 302 00:25:27.120 --> 00:25:32.080 picture people in your hands that he's asking you to surrender. Lord I just I surrender these people 303 00:25:32.080 --> 00:25:36.480 to you so I'm going to teach you something right now. Surrender these people to you and I trust 304 00:25:36.480 --> 00:25:40.560 that you're working in their lives and you care about them more than I do. Lord I surrender my 305 00:25:40.560 --> 00:25:46.560 life to you. So just this posture. I want you to maintain this posture with your heart healing. 306 00:25:46.560 --> 00:25:50.080 Okay as you stay with your hands open you're going to close your eyes. I'm going to read 307 00:25:50.080 --> 00:25:54.640 this submission activation over you and then I'm going to put you into breakouts. 308 00:25:55.600 --> 00:26:02.000 Father God I give you permission to search me and to reveal anything in my heart that does not 309 00:26:02.000 --> 00:26:07.760 belong to my true identity and that is hindering me from living the life you created me to live. 310 00:26:08.480 --> 00:26:14.640 Holy Spirit I invite you into the darkest places in my heart. Show me the areas that are still 311 00:26:14.640 --> 00:26:20.080 wounded and are still hurting. When you reveal these broken places to me I covenant with you 312 00:26:20.560 --> 00:26:26.080 to release them into your care and to respond with forgiveness and repentance. I set aside the 313 00:26:26.080 --> 00:26:31.120 season of my life for a time of healing and wholeness and ask Holy Spirit to take charge 314 00:26:31.120 --> 00:26:38.960 of this process. I ask that you dwell with me and in me. I need you. I cannot heal myself. 315 00:26:38.960 --> 00:26:45.600 I want to be free from the past. Free to be who I truly am. Help me to become who you created me to 316 00:26:45.600 --> 00:26:52.720 be. Show me the lies that I have believed about myself, my life, my surroundings, even the lies 317 00:26:52.720 --> 00:27:00.480 I have believed about you. Teach me the greater truth. Teach me your ways. Teach me how to think 318 00:27:00.480 --> 00:27:09.840 and how to live abundantly. Teach me. Show me. Heal me. Grow me. In Jesus name. Amen. 319 00:27:10.480 --> 00:27:16.160 Ladies he will do it. He will do it. Just keep asking him. Keep surrendering every day 320 00:27:16.960 --> 00:27:21.840 and he's going to show you. So this is your question for breakout room number one. 321 00:27:24.000 --> 00:27:28.160 What are some things that God has been nudging you about as I've been talking 322 00:27:28.160 --> 00:27:33.600 tonight about surrendering to him? Like what's something you need to surrender to him tonight? 323 00:27:34.480 --> 00:27:40.480 Okay. Maybe it's an area of your heart that you need to allow him to come into. Maybe it's 324 00:27:42.880 --> 00:27:48.400 you know a situation that you need to surrender. Maybe it's a worry, a fear. Whatever it is for you. 325 00:27:48.400 --> 00:27:53.280 What do you need to surrender? Remember again we're taking down do not enter signs and we're 326 00:27:53.440 --> 00:27:58.800 enter signs and we're saying full access Lord. Okay. All right. Here we go. 327 00:28:09.120 --> 00:28:12.800 I'm going to give you all eight minutes. Go ahead and click to join those rooms. 328 00:28:23.280 --> 00:28:40.800 All right. Let's see. Julia, Lucy, Lua, Marsha, Nisheto. Can you all join groups tonight? 329 00:28:47.840 --> 00:28:51.120 Awesome. I know some of y'all might not have great connection. 330 00:28:51.760 --> 00:28:57.920 Let's see here. Oh, that's totally fine. Nisheto. That's good. You can stay here with me. I'm going 331 00:28:57.920 --> 00:29:03.280 to start to pray here in a minute. All right. Father, thank you so much for all those that 332 00:29:03.280 --> 00:29:08.240 are in the breakouts right now, as well as those that are going to be watching this replay. 333 00:29:08.800 --> 00:29:14.880 We thank you God for revealings, for healing that are happening. And we thank you God for just 334 00:29:14.880 --> 00:29:19.120 working in all of these conversations. Lord, I thank you that you would help them to 335 00:29:20.080 --> 00:29:23.520 open up to their sisters and share as well as again, those that are watching replay, 336 00:29:23.520 --> 00:29:28.640 may they post in the group and allow all those in the group to come around them as they share 337 00:29:28.640 --> 00:29:33.760 those areas that they're going to surrender to you, Jesus and you father and you Holy spirit 338 00:29:33.760 --> 00:29:41.520 and trust you in this process. We thank you for continuing to minister truth and life and hope 339 00:29:41.520 --> 00:29:46.720 in every area of their lives. And we just thank you Lord for everything that you're doing. 340 00:29:46.720 --> 00:29:53.200 Ladies, hold on one second. I have somebody asking for help, but I cannot go into that room. 341 00:29:57.280 --> 00:29:59.520 All right. We'll see what happens there. All right. 342 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.000 We just thank you also for just ministering peace 343 00:30:03.000 --> 00:30:05.140 and truth and life. 344 00:30:05.140 --> 00:30:07.940 We thank you for bringing your anointing 345 00:30:07.940 --> 00:30:10.560 and your revelation and healing grace 346 00:30:10.560 --> 00:30:15.060 into every mind and spirit. 347 00:30:15.060 --> 00:30:16.060 Oh, let's see here. 348 00:30:17.740 --> 00:30:18.580 Oh, awesome. 349 00:30:18.580 --> 00:30:20.340 Okay, Alua, let me see. 350 00:30:20.340 --> 00:30:22.100 You are in, hi. 351 00:30:22.100 --> 00:30:22.940 Hold on one second. 352 00:30:22.940 --> 00:30:25.840 Let me see, you're in room, is it three? 353 00:30:26.880 --> 00:30:28.160 Where are you? 354 00:30:30.840 --> 00:30:33.080 Oh, did you go ahead and log out of the other one? 355 00:30:33.080 --> 00:30:34.360 You might've been in three. 356 00:30:34.360 --> 00:30:35.200 I'll go ahead and put you in there. 357 00:30:35.200 --> 00:30:36.360 Go ahead and join. 358 00:30:36.360 --> 00:30:37.560 Okay, thank you. 359 00:30:37.560 --> 00:30:38.400 Thanks. 360 00:30:42.040 --> 00:30:42.880 All right. 361 00:30:44.920 --> 00:30:47.680 Sorry, ladies, I was just trying to figure out. 362 00:30:48.700 --> 00:30:50.360 Oh, we have someone else joining. 363 00:31:00.520 --> 00:31:03.180 Thank you, Lord, as Joanna's joining. 364 00:31:03.180 --> 00:31:04.600 Hi, Joanna. 365 00:31:04.600 --> 00:31:05.780 How are you? 366 00:31:05.780 --> 00:31:07.120 Oh, we lost her. 367 00:31:07.120 --> 00:31:10.640 But we just thank you for helping every lady 368 00:31:10.640 --> 00:31:13.360 just really submit this process to you 369 00:31:13.360 --> 00:31:15.080 and allow you to come in 370 00:31:15.080 --> 00:31:16.880 as you've knocked on the door of their heart. 371 00:31:16.880 --> 00:31:18.780 Thank you, Lord, that they don't have to be afraid 372 00:31:18.780 --> 00:31:20.360 because you're with them 373 00:31:20.360 --> 00:31:22.560 and they don't have to be discouraged in this process 374 00:31:22.560 --> 00:31:23.600 because you are their God 375 00:31:23.600 --> 00:31:26.120 and you have them in the palm of your hand, 376 00:31:26.120 --> 00:31:27.440 that you will strengthen them. 377 00:31:27.440 --> 00:31:28.460 You're gonna help them. 378 00:31:28.460 --> 00:31:31.740 You're gonna hold them up with your victorious right hand, 379 00:31:31.740 --> 00:31:33.940 not just your right hand, but your victorious right hand. 380 00:31:33.940 --> 00:31:35.900 So, Lord, we just thank you for victory. 381 00:31:35.900 --> 00:31:39.220 We thank you that we fight from victory, not for victory, 382 00:31:39.220 --> 00:31:40.540 that the victory has already been won 383 00:31:40.540 --> 00:31:42.180 on the cross with Jesus Christ. 384 00:31:42.180 --> 00:31:44.680 Hi, Virginia, did you get kicked out of your room? 385 00:31:58.460 --> 00:32:03.460 Virginia, I knew that you sent a request for help, 386 00:32:03.980 --> 00:32:06.660 but I'm not able to go into the breakouts with you. 387 00:32:06.660 --> 00:32:09.580 So I don't know if maybe Melissa wasn't able to share 388 00:32:09.580 --> 00:32:10.680 or talk in there. 389 00:32:13.940 --> 00:32:15.220 All right, well, I'm gonna keep going. 390 00:32:15.220 --> 00:32:16.660 Let me know in the chat 391 00:32:16.660 --> 00:32:20.240 and I can kind of respond there accordingly. 392 00:32:20.240 --> 00:32:22.020 So, Lord, we just thank you for that reminder 393 00:32:22.020 --> 00:32:24.740 that we are fighting from victory, not for victory. 394 00:32:24.740 --> 00:32:26.960 So thank you, Lord, for the supernatural victory 395 00:32:26.960 --> 00:32:28.800 in every area of our lives, 396 00:32:28.800 --> 00:32:30.440 that all things have passed away. 397 00:32:30.440 --> 00:32:32.400 Behold, everything is becoming new. 398 00:32:32.400 --> 00:32:34.760 So we thank you that you're bringing rivers in the wasteland 399 00:32:34.760 --> 00:32:37.640 and streams in the desert, that you are doing a new thing 400 00:32:37.640 --> 00:32:39.040 and that we will perceive it 401 00:32:39.040 --> 00:32:41.960 and we will see that it is springing up. 402 00:32:41.960 --> 00:32:46.000 We thank you for springing up, oh, well, within our soul. 403 00:32:46.000 --> 00:32:49.440 We thank you for fresh and fillings of the Holy Spirit. 404 00:32:49.440 --> 00:32:52.640 And I thank you, God, that we don't have to get tired 405 00:32:52.640 --> 00:32:54.480 of doing any good. 406 00:32:54.480 --> 00:32:55.520 At just the right time, 407 00:32:55.520 --> 00:32:57.240 we are gonna reap a harvest of blessing 408 00:32:57.240 --> 00:32:58.080 if we don't give up. 409 00:32:58.080 --> 00:33:03.080 So, Lord, we thank you for fresh winds of hope, 410 00:33:03.680 --> 00:33:05.480 grace, and courage, Lord. 411 00:33:05.480 --> 00:33:09.080 We thank you for encouraging our spirits and our souls. 412 00:33:09.080 --> 00:33:11.560 And we thank you, Lord, for bringing truth in life. 413 00:33:11.560 --> 00:33:13.560 Hi, Emily, how are you? 414 00:33:18.080 --> 00:33:19.400 The ladies are in a breakout room. 415 00:33:19.400 --> 00:33:21.080 So they're gonna be back in like three minutes. 416 00:33:21.080 --> 00:33:22.400 I can put you in a breakout 417 00:33:22.400 --> 00:33:25.240 and you can just join in for a few minutes if you'd like. 418 00:33:26.520 --> 00:33:30.400 I'm not sure if you can hear me. 419 00:33:30.400 --> 00:33:33.400 I just need help with the, I'm muted. 420 00:33:33.400 --> 00:33:35.600 I don't know how to fix this. 421 00:33:35.600 --> 00:33:37.600 Okay, Virginia, I can hear you now. 422 00:33:39.200 --> 00:33:41.480 Were you having trouble when you were in the room? 423 00:33:41.480 --> 00:33:46.120 Yes, I can't like, I can't make it show my picture. 424 00:33:46.120 --> 00:33:47.400 I can't unmute. 425 00:33:47.400 --> 00:33:50.600 Okay, well, you're unmuted right now. 426 00:33:50.600 --> 00:33:53.360 So that's what you would wanna do in the room. 427 00:33:53.360 --> 00:33:54.600 You can stay here right now, 428 00:33:54.600 --> 00:33:57.160 but then also, are you on a phone? 429 00:33:57.160 --> 00:33:58.000 Yes. 430 00:33:58.000 --> 00:34:00.520 Okay, so if you tap on your phone, 431 00:34:00.520 --> 00:34:02.600 there will be, well, let me ask you this. 432 00:34:02.600 --> 00:34:05.640 Does your phone have camera capability? 433 00:34:05.640 --> 00:34:06.480 Yes. 434 00:34:06.480 --> 00:34:08.639 Okay, so if you tap on your phone, 435 00:34:08.639 --> 00:34:12.280 at the bottom, there's like a thing that says video. 436 00:34:12.280 --> 00:34:13.800 Do you see that? 437 00:34:13.800 --> 00:34:14.920 No, that's. 438 00:34:16.360 --> 00:34:18.920 You might have to click where it says more then. 439 00:34:20.800 --> 00:34:21.760 Do you see that? 440 00:34:22.760 --> 00:34:24.360 Oh, you just muted yourself. 441 00:34:29.440 --> 00:34:31.560 Okay, now you're on, oh, maybe not. 442 00:34:36.560 --> 00:34:38.000 Am I still muted? 443 00:34:38.000 --> 00:34:39.080 Now I hear you. 444 00:34:40.520 --> 00:34:41.360 Hello? 445 00:34:41.360 --> 00:34:42.199 Yes, I hear you. 446 00:34:42.199 --> 00:34:43.040 Can you hear me? 447 00:34:45.440 --> 00:34:46.280 Hello? 448 00:34:48.560 --> 00:34:49.880 Okay. 449 00:34:50.840 --> 00:34:51.800 I'm gonna keep praying. 450 00:34:51.800 --> 00:34:55.560 Virginia, we can definitely work with you behind the scenes 451 00:34:55.560 --> 00:34:57.880 with our admin tech team. 452 00:34:57.880 --> 00:35:00.520 If you'll email admin at JackieDorman.com. 453 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:04.440 They can help you kind of work through how to get your camera to work and how to get 454 00:35:04.440 --> 00:35:07.680 your phone to work so you can hear and talk properly. 455 00:35:07.680 --> 00:35:08.680 Okay. 456 00:35:08.680 --> 00:35:09.680 Okay. 457 00:35:09.680 --> 00:35:10.680 Awesome. 458 00:35:10.680 --> 00:35:14.880 So let me just thank you for bringing truth in life. 459 00:35:14.880 --> 00:35:16.260 We thank you for bringing peace. 460 00:35:16.260 --> 00:35:20.640 Even when we have tech issues, we trust Lord that you put us right where we need to be. 461 00:35:20.640 --> 00:35:24.720 So Lord, I thank you that you just even minister to Virginia right now, God, you know, everything 462 00:35:24.720 --> 00:35:29.660 that she has need of, or we just thank you for insight and revelation on how to work 463 00:35:29.660 --> 00:35:34.660 her technology, but also peace in the midst of frustration that can happen, at least 464 00:35:34.660 --> 00:35:37.900 for myself, when I experienced stuff like that, I can feel frustrated. 465 00:35:37.900 --> 00:35:40.020 So God, we thank you for peace. 466 00:35:40.020 --> 00:35:45.180 And we thank you Lord that you, you lead us into wide open spaces and that you're, you're 467 00:35:45.180 --> 00:35:49.260 bringing truth and you're bringing life into every area of darkness. 468 00:35:49.260 --> 00:35:53.220 And we thank you for the truth and the reminder that there is no darkness for you, Lord, because 469 00:35:53.220 --> 00:35:54.660 you are the light. 470 00:35:54.660 --> 00:35:56.940 And so everywhere that you are, there is light. 471 00:35:56.940 --> 00:35:58.400 There is no darkness. 472 00:35:58.400 --> 00:36:02.800 You can't even like the darkness can't even comprehend you because you walk in and everything 473 00:36:02.800 --> 00:36:03.800 changes. 474 00:36:03.800 --> 00:36:07.760 So Lord, we thank you for illuminating and bringing light and life into every area of 475 00:36:07.760 --> 00:36:13.960 our minds, our spirits, our bodies, and our souls tonight, our emotions, our mindsets. 476 00:36:13.960 --> 00:36:17.360 We thank you for revealing areas for healing. 477 00:36:17.360 --> 00:36:23.560 And just bringing also just Lord, your love and your acceptance and your grace. 478 00:36:23.560 --> 00:36:26.600 We know it's already there, Lord, but help us to receive it. 479 00:36:26.800 --> 00:36:31.200 God, your word says that you love us unconditionally, that nothing can separate us from your love, 480 00:36:31.200 --> 00:36:35.240 not height, nor depth, nor principality, nor power, nor things in the present or things 481 00:36:35.240 --> 00:36:36.360 to come. 482 00:36:36.360 --> 00:36:41.120 We thank you that you would help us to become more firmly rooted and fixed in your love. 483 00:36:41.120 --> 00:36:47.320 Help us to just remember that tonight that you would help us to return to our first love, 484 00:36:47.320 --> 00:36:53.960 which is you, and that you would just reinvigorate our relationship with you, Jesus, and bring 485 00:36:53.960 --> 00:36:58.760 new life, bring new revelation, bring new healing, and just help us to fall in love 486 00:36:58.760 --> 00:37:03.040 all over again with your word, with your truth, with your life. 487 00:37:03.040 --> 00:37:08.360 We see in Psalm 139, 23 through 24, that it says, God, I invite your searching gaze into 488 00:37:08.360 --> 00:37:12.120 my heart, examine me through and through, find out everything that might be hidden within 489 00:37:12.120 --> 00:37:17.000 me, put me to the test and sift through all my anxious cares, see if there's any path 490 00:37:17.000 --> 00:37:22.560 of pain I'm walking on, and lead me back to your glorious ways, the path that brings me 491 00:37:22.560 --> 00:37:25.360 back to you, in Jesus' name, amen. 492 00:37:25.360 --> 00:37:28.160 All right, so welcome back, ladies. 493 00:37:28.160 --> 00:37:33.120 When you are in breakouts, for those that are new, I tend to pray while you're in there 494 00:37:33.120 --> 00:37:38.760 because the people that watch the replays, it would just be black nothing, so I pray 495 00:37:38.760 --> 00:37:41.120 and declare things over you while you all are in there. 496 00:37:41.120 --> 00:37:45.120 I also try to help other ladies get connected, so I don't want you all to come back and worry 497 00:37:45.120 --> 00:37:47.360 that you're missing out. 498 00:37:47.360 --> 00:37:51.800 If you want to go back and listen to those in the replay, awesome, but just know you're 499 00:37:51.800 --> 00:37:54.160 being lifted up in that time as well. 500 00:37:54.160 --> 00:37:58.840 Okay, who is willing to share with the whole group what you shared? 501 00:37:58.840 --> 00:37:59.840 Hi, Shirai. 502 00:37:59.840 --> 00:38:00.840 Go ahead. 503 00:38:00.840 --> 00:38:01.840 Oh, you're muted. 504 00:38:01.840 --> 00:38:05.600 Oh, there you go. 505 00:38:05.600 --> 00:38:15.560 So I actually, this time, I found somebody that we were like, yeah, me too. 506 00:38:15.560 --> 00:38:17.920 That's awesome. 507 00:38:17.920 --> 00:38:30.400 We were just talking about how being in our 40s, how it's an emotional rollercoaster. 508 00:38:30.400 --> 00:38:37.800 We have hot, really, we feel like we need to, we surrender and we feel really high with 509 00:38:37.800 --> 00:38:44.520 our relationship with God, and then there's moments that would come crashing down. 510 00:38:44.520 --> 00:38:58.800 And we were just talking about how, I guess, maybe what we need to surrender is comparing. 511 00:38:58.800 --> 00:39:06.200 We both were sharing with each other that we look at, that we see other people and we 512 00:39:06.200 --> 00:39:14.480 are wondering why it's, why it hasn't happened for us or to us or, and we, and we get angry 513 00:39:14.480 --> 00:39:21.440 with God and we don't want to get angry with God, but we do get angry with God about it 514 00:39:21.440 --> 00:39:28.160 because it's been a long time, a long time waiting and wondering when is it my turn? 515 00:39:28.160 --> 00:39:29.160 Yes. 516 00:39:29.160 --> 00:39:30.160 Yes. 517 00:39:30.160 --> 00:39:31.160 So good, Shirai. 518 00:39:31.160 --> 00:39:32.160 Thank you so much for sharing that. 519 00:39:32.160 --> 00:39:33.160 I appreciate that. 520 00:39:33.160 --> 00:39:34.160 Yes. 521 00:39:34.160 --> 00:39:39.080 You all, one of the biggest contenders in everybody's process that I have coached in 522 00:39:39.080 --> 00:39:42.440 these three years is comparison traps. 523 00:39:42.440 --> 00:39:43.720 That's what I call them. 524 00:39:43.720 --> 00:39:44.720 Comparison traps. 525 00:39:44.720 --> 00:39:49.880 The enemy is like constantly, whether it's about a romantic relationship or your job 526 00:39:49.880 --> 00:39:55.360 or a friend, he always wants to get us into comparing ourselves with other people, thinking 527 00:39:55.360 --> 00:39:58.360 that we're not enough and that they have everything. 528 00:39:58.360 --> 00:39:59.840 We have nothing. 529 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:04.640 we're like supernaturally blessed, he's always trying to 530 00:40:04.640 --> 00:40:08.040 cause us to think that there's something that we don't have, 531 00:40:08.280 --> 00:40:11.100 that we're missing out on, and that God's holding out on us 532 00:40:11.100 --> 00:40:14.880 because he wants us to believe the lie that God is not good, 533 00:40:14.880 --> 00:40:18.440 that God does not see us, that God does not care. And so we 534 00:40:18.440 --> 00:40:22.580 always have to resist those lies and partner with the truth that 535 00:40:22.580 --> 00:40:27.160 God is for us. So who can be against us? God is on our side, 536 00:40:27.160 --> 00:40:30.880 and he's fighting for us in ways that we can't even even imagine 537 00:40:31.080 --> 00:40:34.800 right now, even while you're on this session right now. I want 538 00:40:34.800 --> 00:40:37.680 you just to consider that Jesus is sitting at the right hand of 539 00:40:37.680 --> 00:40:44.360 the Father interceding for you, by name, by name, and he knows 540 00:40:44.360 --> 00:40:50.920 every hair on your head. And he cares deeply for you. When you 541 00:40:50.920 --> 00:40:53.560 were sharing the highs and the lows, you said there's moments 542 00:40:53.560 --> 00:40:57.720 that come crashing down. My question for you, Sharai, is in 543 00:40:57.720 --> 00:41:00.880 the moments where you feel like that crashing down happens, is 544 00:41:00.880 --> 00:41:03.600 there something in particular, and it can be a lot of different 545 00:41:03.600 --> 00:41:06.320 things, but what comes to mind tonight when I ask you, is 546 00:41:06.320 --> 00:41:10.600 there something in particular that happens that triggers the 547 00:41:10.600 --> 00:41:11.400 crashing down? 548 00:41:11.400 --> 00:41:20.360 Lots of times, it is scrolling on Facebook, and or getting a 549 00:41:20.360 --> 00:41:25.640 getting a wedding invitation in the mail, or see, yeah, seeing 550 00:41:25.640 --> 00:41:30.920 somebody else experiencing something that you that you want, 551 00:41:31.400 --> 00:41:37.720 or that you desire, and, and you just don't, and you just don't 552 00:41:38.040 --> 00:41:39.160 understand, like, 553 00:41:41.960 --> 00:41:44.760 so what is the lie? Okay, this is really good. We're going 554 00:41:44.760 --> 00:41:46.760 somewhere really great with us. So I'm gonna if you're willing, 555 00:41:46.760 --> 00:41:50.440 I'm going to kind of unpack this with you. So what is the lie 556 00:41:50.440 --> 00:41:53.880 when you when you and I want you to know, I felt this way 557 00:41:53.880 --> 00:41:58.280 before, so I can relate 100% to what you're saying. When you 558 00:41:58.280 --> 00:42:01.000 let's go with the getting a wedding invite. Okay, let's go 559 00:42:01.000 --> 00:42:04.280 with that one right now. When you get the wedding invite, 560 00:42:04.280 --> 00:42:08.120 what is the lie that you believe that triggers the 561 00:42:08.120 --> 00:42:10.360 downward spiral, if you will? 562 00:42:14.360 --> 00:42:20.120 Why not? Why? Why her or him and not me? Okay, is that the lie 563 00:42:20.200 --> 00:42:23.960 you believe? Or is that the emotion that follows? And the 564 00:42:23.960 --> 00:42:26.920 thought emotion about them? I guess the lie is I'm never 565 00:42:26.920 --> 00:42:29.160 going to have it's not going to be it's never going to be my 566 00:42:29.160 --> 00:42:33.000 turn. Okay, like I'm always celebrating other people, but 567 00:42:33.000 --> 00:42:37.800 nobody ever celebrates me. Okay, so what's the lie underneath 568 00:42:37.800 --> 00:42:38.280 of that? 569 00:42:41.800 --> 00:42:46.600 Disappointment? Yes. Yes, you're you're you're headed in the 570 00:42:46.600 --> 00:42:48.840 right direction. So I'm not trying to tell you what's there 571 00:42:48.840 --> 00:42:54.440 for you. But typically, ladies, if it's never going to be our 572 00:42:54.760 --> 00:42:58.280 turn, what's the core lie that we believe? 573 00:43:00.760 --> 00:43:04.520 That God will not come through for me. That's right. That's 574 00:43:04.520 --> 00:43:10.200 right. And when we really get to that core, and then we say, 575 00:43:10.200 --> 00:43:15.880 Lord, when is the first time I believed the lie that you're not 576 00:43:15.880 --> 00:43:19.640 going to come through for me? When's the first time I believed 577 00:43:19.640 --> 00:43:23.560 that lie? Because I'm not going to come through for you. And 578 00:43:24.120 --> 00:43:27.080 because when we understand and recognize the first time we 579 00:43:27.080 --> 00:43:30.920 believe that lie, every time after that, that we believe that 580 00:43:30.920 --> 00:43:33.720 lie and partnered with it with, you know, and again, 581 00:43:33.720 --> 00:43:36.440 subconsciously, this happens a lot of times subconsciously, 582 00:43:36.440 --> 00:43:39.400 ladies, we're partnering with these lies. And every time we 583 00:43:39.400 --> 00:43:43.000 partner with it again, like, yep, God, he's not going to come 584 00:43:43.000 --> 00:43:45.320 through for me. He didn't come through me for me before. And 585 00:43:45.320 --> 00:43:48.680 he's not coming through for me now. So it's just never going 586 00:43:48.680 --> 00:43:52.520 to happen for me. That's how we partner with the lie. And when 587 00:43:52.520 --> 00:43:56.520 we do that, it creates a stronghold. Okay, so that's how 588 00:43:56.520 --> 00:43:59.880 strongholds are created. So the way we come out of those 589 00:43:59.880 --> 00:44:02.760 strongholds, and that they're broken is we come out of 590 00:44:02.760 --> 00:44:05.800 alignment and agreement with those lies. And we say, No, 591 00:44:05.800 --> 00:44:09.000 devil, I am not going to believe that lie anymore. Even 592 00:44:09.000 --> 00:44:12.360 though in the physical realm, I'm not there. Yet, I want you 593 00:44:12.360 --> 00:44:17.560 all to get real comfortable with that word. Yet, y e t. You 594 00:44:17.560 --> 00:44:20.760 may not be there yet. But that doesn't mean you're not going 595 00:44:20.760 --> 00:44:25.000 there. You can be a bride you if you believe you will be a 596 00:44:25.000 --> 00:44:27.560 bride. I'm not just saying name it, claim it. But here's the 597 00:44:27.560 --> 00:44:30.840 reality. We have to partner with truth. We have to stop 598 00:44:30.840 --> 00:44:34.120 partnering with the lies in the core. But how does that happen? 599 00:44:34.680 --> 00:44:39.320 It happens because we ask God to come into that area that that 600 00:44:39.320 --> 00:44:43.880 first place, Lord, where did I believe the lie, the first time 601 00:44:44.440 --> 00:44:49.640 that you don't come through for me. And when it comes in and 602 00:44:49.640 --> 00:44:54.680 heals those areas, that's how the more that that core areas 603 00:44:54.680 --> 00:44:57.880 healed, the more everything else is going to heal. And you're 604 00:44:57.880 --> 00:44:59.320 going to start to get breakthrough and you're going to 605 00:44:59.320 --> 00:44:59.960 start to gain momentum. 606 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:02.200 because here's the other reality, ladies. 607 00:45:02.200 --> 00:45:05.840 When we're more free, we're more confident, we're healthier. 608 00:45:05.840 --> 00:45:07.680 Guess what kind of people we attract? 609 00:45:08.820 --> 00:45:13.020 Healthy attracts healthy, whole attracts whole. 610 00:45:13.020 --> 00:45:14.920 If we're really, you know, have unhealthy, 611 00:45:14.920 --> 00:45:17.680 even myself in the past, I was a big giver, 612 00:45:17.680 --> 00:45:20.800 big giver, big giver, I had no boundaries. 613 00:45:20.800 --> 00:45:22.520 And so guess what I attracted? 614 00:45:22.520 --> 00:45:24.360 Takers, takers, takers, takers, 615 00:45:24.360 --> 00:45:27.600 not just even in romantic relationships, but in friendships. 616 00:45:27.640 --> 00:45:30.100 Y'all, I was surrounded by takers. 617 00:45:30.100 --> 00:45:34.120 I still have to watch that today as a leader, as a pastor, 618 00:45:34.120 --> 00:45:37.380 I have a big pastor's caring heart. 619 00:45:37.380 --> 00:45:39.040 I have to set a lot of boundaries 620 00:45:39.040 --> 00:45:42.560 because if I'm not careful, I can get out of balance 621 00:45:42.560 --> 00:45:45.160 and the takers just come right back in 622 00:45:45.160 --> 00:45:46.400 because they don't have any boundaries. 623 00:45:46.400 --> 00:45:47.720 And if I don't have boundaries 624 00:45:47.720 --> 00:45:48.720 and they don't have boundaries, 625 00:45:48.720 --> 00:45:52.400 then they're all invading my stuff, right? 626 00:45:52.400 --> 00:45:54.640 So I'm not saying I shut people out. 627 00:45:54.640 --> 00:45:57.120 If the Lord tells me I need to kind of step back 628 00:45:57.640 --> 00:45:58.480 from somebody in a season 629 00:45:58.480 --> 00:46:00.680 because they're not in a healthy place, I do that. 630 00:46:00.680 --> 00:46:02.840 But I'm not saying y'all have to just cut off relationships, 631 00:46:02.840 --> 00:46:05.760 but we have to see, okay, 632 00:46:05.760 --> 00:46:08.940 these are the areas that haven't worked for me before. 633 00:46:10.160 --> 00:46:12.440 For me, I was a common denominator. 634 00:46:13.480 --> 00:46:17.040 I kept attracting broken men that were abusive 635 00:46:17.040 --> 00:46:19.280 and cheated on me and all these things, 636 00:46:19.280 --> 00:46:20.320 and were big takers. 637 00:46:20.320 --> 00:46:23.000 And so I had to be willing to look at, 638 00:46:23.000 --> 00:46:26.040 you know what, I'm the common denominator here. 639 00:46:26.040 --> 00:46:30.320 So Lord, what needs to happen and change in me 640 00:46:30.320 --> 00:46:32.680 so that I don't keep attracting that 641 00:46:32.680 --> 00:46:34.740 because I don't want that anymore. 642 00:46:36.280 --> 00:46:38.920 And then God really led me into supernatural healing 643 00:46:38.920 --> 00:46:40.520 in so many ways, y'all. 644 00:46:40.520 --> 00:46:43.320 Things I didn't even know that I needed healing from. 645 00:46:43.320 --> 00:46:45.400 And so Shirai, thank you for sharing. 646 00:46:45.400 --> 00:46:47.100 I hope that was super helpful. 647 00:46:47.980 --> 00:46:50.520 As you unpack this, I want to encourage you, 648 00:46:51.400 --> 00:46:54.640 A, here's another thing, ladies. 649 00:46:54.640 --> 00:46:59.600 I will tell you, mine was wedding announcements sometimes, 650 00:46:59.600 --> 00:47:01.520 but honestly, the thing that was harder for me 651 00:47:01.520 --> 00:47:04.080 on social media was seeing everybody having babies. 652 00:47:05.200 --> 00:47:07.520 Because I've always wanted a baby of my own. 653 00:47:07.520 --> 00:47:08.960 I've raised other people's kids. 654 00:47:08.960 --> 00:47:11.360 I feel like I've done a good job helping them do that. 655 00:47:11.360 --> 00:47:13.720 And I'm super grateful for the kids in my life, 656 00:47:14.640 --> 00:47:18.000 as well as Brian's children now in my life as well. 657 00:47:18.000 --> 00:47:21.480 But, you know, I had to really start limiting 658 00:47:21.480 --> 00:47:23.080 my social media for a season. 659 00:47:23.080 --> 00:47:25.960 When that really pained me, every time I saw it, 660 00:47:25.960 --> 00:47:27.000 God just was like, 661 00:47:27.000 --> 00:47:29.960 just stop looking on social media for as much right now. 662 00:47:31.480 --> 00:47:33.720 I just, it wasn't that I never went on there, 663 00:47:33.720 --> 00:47:35.560 but I just went on there less. 664 00:47:35.560 --> 00:47:37.080 Because in that season, 665 00:47:37.800 --> 00:47:42.120 my heart just needed time to get to a healthier place 666 00:47:42.120 --> 00:47:44.600 to believe that God has that for me. 667 00:47:45.560 --> 00:47:47.960 And that he hasn't forgotten me in that either. 668 00:47:47.960 --> 00:47:50.360 And he's working on my behalf and he's working, 669 00:47:50.360 --> 00:47:51.880 and he might even do it in ways 670 00:47:51.880 --> 00:47:53.400 that I haven't even imagined yet. 671 00:47:54.600 --> 00:47:57.560 You know, so want to encourage you all. 672 00:47:57.560 --> 00:47:59.640 We've had some ladies, I'm not saying you have to do this, 673 00:47:59.640 --> 00:48:00.920 but this might be for somebody 674 00:48:00.920 --> 00:48:03.640 because it's come up in my spirit twice tonight. 675 00:48:03.640 --> 00:48:04.840 So I just want to encourage you. 676 00:48:05.720 --> 00:48:08.120 We've had some ladies while they're in heart healing 677 00:48:08.120 --> 00:48:11.480 in this program, literally not watch TV 678 00:48:11.480 --> 00:48:13.160 or go on social media at all. 679 00:48:15.320 --> 00:48:17.640 I know that seems super like big. 680 00:48:17.640 --> 00:48:20.040 So that might not be for everyone, like I said. 681 00:48:20.040 --> 00:48:21.800 But if that's something that even right now, 682 00:48:21.800 --> 00:48:25.560 you're like, ooh, Lord, that might be for me. 683 00:48:26.280 --> 00:48:27.560 I want to encourage you just, 684 00:48:27.560 --> 00:48:29.080 it doesn't mean that you can't watch it at all, 685 00:48:29.080 --> 00:48:30.920 but maybe you just need to reduce 686 00:48:30.920 --> 00:48:33.320 your media engaging right now. 687 00:48:34.200 --> 00:48:37.000 Because you all, sometimes when we're filling our minds 688 00:48:37.000 --> 00:48:39.080 with all kinds of stuff in our ears, 689 00:48:39.080 --> 00:48:40.680 you know, everything comes through the ear gate 690 00:48:40.680 --> 00:48:41.800 and the eye gate. 691 00:48:41.800 --> 00:48:44.040 And when we're filling with all this other stuff, 692 00:48:44.040 --> 00:48:45.560 sometimes God is speaking to us, 693 00:48:45.560 --> 00:48:48.280 but we can't hear him as clearly 694 00:48:48.280 --> 00:48:49.880 because we're hearing all this other stuff. 695 00:48:50.840 --> 00:48:51.480 Does that make sense? 696 00:48:52.600 --> 00:48:53.320 Okay. 697 00:48:53.320 --> 00:48:54.360 So you all pray. 698 00:48:54.360 --> 00:48:58.280 I'm not, again, I am never about rules and legalism. 699 00:48:58.280 --> 00:48:59.400 I want you all to just pray 700 00:48:59.400 --> 00:49:00.920 and ask the Holy Spirit for yourself. 701 00:49:00.920 --> 00:49:01.640 Okay. 702 00:49:01.640 --> 00:49:02.520 Brenda, go ahead. 703 00:49:06.040 --> 00:49:10.280 Hi, I felt the Lord said to surrender finances. 704 00:49:11.240 --> 00:49:12.440 Okay. Tell me why. 705 00:49:14.600 --> 00:49:15.240 Oh, I didn't know. 706 00:49:15.240 --> 00:49:20.600 I don't have to give all the details, 707 00:49:20.600 --> 00:49:21.640 but what is like, 708 00:49:21.640 --> 00:49:24.520 what was the main reason he put finances on your heart? 709 00:49:26.120 --> 00:49:31.000 I feel like right now it's because I resigned 710 00:49:31.000 --> 00:49:33.080 from the job I was at, which was a good thing. 711 00:49:33.080 --> 00:49:37.880 I felt the Lord, you know, on that. 712 00:49:37.880 --> 00:49:40.680 Like when I resigned, I felt the joy of the Lord on it. 713 00:49:40.840 --> 00:49:44.440 Um, um, and I just feel like, um, 714 00:49:46.200 --> 00:49:47.560 yeah, I'm just struggling with this 715 00:49:47.560 --> 00:49:50.360 because I did get an offer for a new job. 716 00:49:50.360 --> 00:49:51.480 Praise Jesus. 717 00:49:51.480 --> 00:49:52.920 It hasn't started yet. 718 00:49:52.920 --> 00:49:55.080 And so, but I'm going to be making less. 719 00:49:56.440 --> 00:49:59.640 And so all of a sudden it's this, you know, 720 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:12.640 um, not trusting him for, for provision. And I've had this happen before. Um, but I tend to, 721 00:50:12.640 --> 00:50:16.960 I think it's, I think definitely part of it is just the way I was raised and I'm the first 722 00:50:16.960 --> 00:50:26.000 believer in my family. So it was always like work hard, you know, and, and, and make money, 723 00:50:26.000 --> 00:50:31.360 you know? So all of a sudden when, when my job hasn't started, all of a sudden I'm like, 724 00:50:32.400 --> 00:50:39.280 you know, about spending money and, you know, not looking to him. 725 00:50:40.160 --> 00:50:45.440 So, so this is so good, Brenda. And I wouldn't have necessarily gone here tonight, but I love 726 00:50:45.440 --> 00:50:51.920 that it came up tonight. 100%. I believe there's a lot of people that struggle in their finances. 727 00:50:51.920 --> 00:50:57.520 I did, I did for years. And one of the things that I learned through heart healing y'all 728 00:50:57.520 --> 00:51:03.680 seriously heart healing, this heartwork program can supernaturally change every area of your life. 729 00:51:04.320 --> 00:51:07.680 If you will believe that and partner with that, it really can happen. 730 00:51:08.240 --> 00:51:14.320 I genuinely surrendered every area. And there were certain areas, even like, I was just like, 731 00:51:14.320 --> 00:51:19.360 okay, Lord, I knew that I needed transformation in my finances. It wasn't that I didn't have a 732 00:51:19.360 --> 00:51:23.840 good job, but I, you know, I, I followed the, you know, you put money in 401k and I just didn't 733 00:51:23.840 --> 00:51:27.440 have a lot left. I felt like I was living kind of paycheck to paycheck after that. 734 00:51:28.640 --> 00:51:33.040 And I have two spiritual daughters. I was, you know, providing a lot for them as well. 735 00:51:33.600 --> 00:51:39.840 But in that God started showing me how the way that I was raised and the way that money was 736 00:51:39.840 --> 00:51:45.280 talked about in a lot of fears around money. My mom was a single mom. She didn't handle her money 737 00:51:45.280 --> 00:51:50.400 well and therefore set a lot of negative things about money. And so those things were just still 738 00:51:50.400 --> 00:51:55.600 in my mind and in my subconscious. And every time something happened, those things would rise up, 739 00:51:55.600 --> 00:51:59.680 which is kind of what you're talking about. And so when you were talking, that's what I wrote 740 00:51:59.680 --> 00:52:04.640 fears rising. And so I want to encourage you just to partner with you know, fear has to do with 741 00:52:04.640 --> 00:52:11.040 torment, perfect love, cast out fear. So when we were, when we feel fear ladies about anything, 742 00:52:11.040 --> 00:52:16.640 but in regards to what Brenda's saying regarding finances, Lord, what is the way that I'm not 743 00:52:16.640 --> 00:52:22.080 feeling rooted in your love right now? That's causing me to be afraid that you're not going 744 00:52:22.080 --> 00:52:32.080 to provide for me. Does that make sense? So typically if we feel rooted in his love, 745 00:52:32.080 --> 00:52:36.160 if we feel secure, maybe that's a better word to kind of help bring that home a little bit. 746 00:52:36.160 --> 00:52:44.160 If we feel secure in his love, when the waves come, we're still secure. We're still steady. 747 00:52:44.160 --> 00:52:51.280 Does that make sense? Yeah. And so, um, as those fears rise, I want to encourage you to ask the 748 00:52:51.280 --> 00:52:59.040 Lord, is there a lie that I heard growing up that is causing me to partner with fear? 749 00:53:01.280 --> 00:53:05.760 Yeah. Yeah. I feel like when you were saying that, that my mom has spoken over me more than once. 750 00:53:06.640 --> 00:53:14.480 That I'm not good at finances. Okay. So in Jesus name, Brenda, you are changing things for your 751 00:53:14.480 --> 00:53:21.200 family and you are going, you know, I, I sincerely, I say stuff like this over even now, God, thank you 752 00:53:21.200 --> 00:53:26.080 so much that you're helping me to become Bethany Cooper, a better steward of all of the finances 753 00:53:26.080 --> 00:53:32.480 you give me that I'm going to be a bar or a lender, not a borrower that I'm going to have plenty of 754 00:53:32.480 --> 00:53:37.520 money to give away all the time. And it's not about it like, Oh God, just going to constantly 755 00:53:37.520 --> 00:53:42.880 know you all, but here's the reality. God wants to give money to his kids who will handle it well 756 00:53:42.880 --> 00:53:50.160 and steward it well, so that we can what help other people that we are an extension of him 757 00:53:50.800 --> 00:53:56.640 and his generosity is kind heart. Just like Jackie, if y'all weren't on last night, 758 00:53:56.640 --> 00:54:01.040 the prophetic ministry, and I please listen to it. Jackie released a prophetic word 759 00:54:01.040 --> 00:54:05.760 about supernatural provision that God led her and her husband to do for a woman that they met 760 00:54:05.760 --> 00:54:13.200 randomly on the road. Y'all this stuff really happens and it can happen for each one of you too. 761 00:54:13.200 --> 00:54:17.520 So Brenda, thank you for sharing. I believe God wants to continue to give you breakthrough 762 00:54:17.520 --> 00:54:22.240 partner with the truth. God, thank you so much that I just come out of agreement right now. 763 00:54:22.240 --> 00:54:26.640 This is the kind of stuff I would say. I come out of agreement right now with the lie that was spoken 764 00:54:26.640 --> 00:54:31.360 over me through my mother, that I am not good at finance. It's got to thank you that you are the 765 00:54:31.360 --> 00:54:35.600 one that gives me fresh revelation and insight every single day. And you're going to teach me 766 00:54:35.600 --> 00:54:40.160 how to continue to become stronger and a better steward in my finances. And I'm going to break 767 00:54:40.160 --> 00:54:47.040 that, that lie off of my life every day going forward. Amen. Yeah. Yeah. So just keep partnering 768 00:54:47.040 --> 00:54:52.160 with truth. Keep walking. You've got this. God's going to show you the way. So good. All right, 769 00:54:52.160 --> 00:54:58.320 Maureen, go ahead. Hi. 770 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:10.040 Thank you. So I felt the Lord nudging me about giving up the dream of what I think my romantic 771 00:55:10.040 --> 00:55:16.800 relationship is supposed to look like with him and with other like a significant other. 772 00:55:16.800 --> 00:55:22.720 And I also heard the lie as one of the other women were sharing about why not me the lie 773 00:55:22.720 --> 00:55:31.480 that spoke the lie that came up to me. Sorry, my dog knocked over my phone. I'm not good 774 00:55:31.480 --> 00:55:39.600 enough is the lie that I hear a lot. And what I relate to is seeing engagement engagements 775 00:55:39.600 --> 00:55:44.400 for some reason, every time I see somebody go like posting look, I'm engaged. I'm not 776 00:55:44.400 --> 00:55:49.320 good enough to get that is the lie I've heard. But so recently, the past year, I've tried 777 00:55:49.320 --> 00:55:55.560 to step out and date in their two failed relationships. And I envisioned and I had a dream for each 778 00:55:55.560 --> 00:56:01.520 of them and hope that it would work because they were Christian men. And even going to 779 00:56:01.520 --> 00:56:05.440 churches one with one of the guys we were holding hands in worship, and I just felt 780 00:56:05.440 --> 00:56:13.760 like the Lord was nudging me to surrender that to him. Yeah, that's it. 781 00:56:13.760 --> 00:56:20.240 So good. Y'all so many times, um, it's a really good place to be in when we surrender 782 00:56:20.240 --> 00:56:28.000 the dream or the expectation of how something has to look. Um, you all, I would have never 783 00:56:28.000 --> 00:56:34.640 swiped on, I would have never swiped right on my now husband in the past. I wouldn't 784 00:56:34.640 --> 00:56:40.600 have. But God just kept highlighting him to me in the app. And so I said something to 785 00:56:40.600 --> 00:56:44.840 my best friend, and she's like, just just go for it and see what happens. And y'all, 786 00:56:44.840 --> 00:56:51.160 here we are two years later married. And I would have passed him right over. So just 787 00:56:51.160 --> 00:56:57.080 planting some seeds for y'all. Okay. So one of the things in the I'm not good enough, 788 00:56:57.080 --> 00:57:01.800 I'm again, y'all are going to hear me say this over and over and over again, but I do 789 00:57:01.800 --> 00:57:06.720 this so that you remember, Lord, when is the first time I believed the lie that I'm not 790 00:57:06.720 --> 00:57:12.720 good enough to whatever, if it starts with get the guy, if I'm not good enough to get 791 00:57:12.720 --> 00:57:17.400 married, if I'm not good enough to be able to hold a relationship together, if I'm not 792 00:57:17.400 --> 00:57:25.680 good enough to, um, you know, um, get invited out with my friends to the football game when 793 00:57:25.680 --> 00:57:28.880 you were a teenager, I don't know why that just came up in my spirit, but just whatever 794 00:57:28.880 --> 00:57:35.040 the I'm not good enough, wherever that trail started, it started somewhere. Most people 795 00:57:35.200 --> 00:57:42.000 in general believe two big lies. I'm not, I'm not enough or I'm too much. And a lot of other 796 00:57:42.000 --> 00:57:48.400 lies central, like kind of come around those two lies. So if that's you, you are enough. 797 00:57:48.400 --> 00:57:55.280 God makes us enough. And on our journey, as we become more whole, more healthy, we realize 798 00:57:55.280 --> 00:58:01.200 that, uh, in the moments that we feel that we're not enough, God is, is our strength 799 00:58:01.280 --> 00:58:08.800 and our weakness, right? Y'all God will lead you to a spirit mate that will love you in 800 00:58:08.800 --> 00:58:14.000 your inadequacy, just as much as they love you in your greatness. If you believe that 801 00:58:14.000 --> 00:58:20.800 can happen for you, it's waiting and pursuing that kind of healthy and not settling for 802 00:58:20.800 --> 00:58:26.400 less than God's best for you. And so as you invite the Lord into your process, I want 803 00:58:26.400 --> 00:58:31.520 to encourage you, Maureen and anybody else that related to what she said, I want you to ask God 804 00:58:31.520 --> 00:58:36.160 to give you some new dreams. And one of the activations tonight, I'm going to go ahead. 805 00:58:36.160 --> 00:58:39.280 There's two. I'm going to go ahead and give you the first one right now, because I feel like 806 00:58:39.280 --> 00:58:46.480 it's really good segue with what Maureen just shared activation. Number one, never will I ever. 807 00:58:47.840 --> 00:58:52.000 It's a list. You're going to make a list. Never will I ever. And I'm going to explain this to 808 00:58:52.000 --> 00:58:59.120 you so you know what we're looking for. Without realizing it along the way, we all start to make 809 00:58:59.120 --> 00:59:05.440 a list mentally, subconsciously. Never will I ever. I'm going to just start giving you some examples. 810 00:59:05.440 --> 00:59:11.200 You guys can even start to write things down as they come to mind for you. Okay. Never will I ever 811 00:59:11.200 --> 00:59:18.480 date someone with the name James ever again. Never will I ever date someone shorter than me. 812 00:59:18.480 --> 00:59:23.680 Never will I ever date someone or marry someone that's a pastor or in ministry. 813 00:59:23.680 --> 00:59:28.080 Never will I ever date someone who's in the military or a police officer. 814 00:59:28.080 --> 00:59:33.680 Never will I ever date someone of another ethnicity. Never will I ever. Date someone 815 00:59:33.680 --> 00:59:38.560 with brown hair. I mean, there's so many different things that we subconsciously 816 00:59:38.560 --> 00:59:44.320 and a lot of times through hurt, through brokenness or, you know, criticism in our hearts because of 817 00:59:44.320 --> 00:59:48.480 something that was done to us by a certain person with a certain name or certain look, 818 00:59:49.360 --> 00:59:55.520 and even just our own stigmas. Let's be real. Okay. Am I saying that God's going to force you 819 00:59:55.520 --> 00:59:59.920 to marry someone you absolutely have no attraction to? No, that's not true. 820 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:01.360 That's not what we're saying. 821 01:00:01.360 --> 01:00:03.200 But here's the reality, you all. 822 01:00:03.200 --> 01:00:05.920 We have to surrender the pen. 823 01:00:05.920 --> 01:00:09.000 Remember I said full access. 824 01:00:10.400 --> 01:00:11.240 Full access. 825 01:00:11.240 --> 01:00:13.920 Surrender the pen to the Lord 826 01:00:13.920 --> 01:00:16.920 and let go of your never will I ever list. 827 01:00:16.920 --> 01:00:19.600 Now, on the flip side, I am not saying, 828 01:00:19.600 --> 01:00:21.760 we as a community are not saying 829 01:00:23.680 --> 01:00:26.240 that you should get into a relationship 830 01:00:26.240 --> 01:00:27.840 with someone who's abusive. 831 01:00:27.880 --> 01:00:29.040 Sometimes we have people say, 832 01:00:29.040 --> 01:00:32.760 never will I ever date someone who abuses me. 833 01:00:32.760 --> 01:00:35.000 Well, of course not. 834 01:00:35.000 --> 01:00:35.840 Of course not. 835 01:00:35.840 --> 01:00:38.760 And I'm not trying to sound funny here or put anyone down, 836 01:00:38.760 --> 01:00:41.960 but we would never want you to be in a relationship 837 01:00:41.960 --> 01:00:43.520 with someone who's abusive. 838 01:00:43.520 --> 01:00:48.320 Never will I ever date someone who is currently an addict. 839 01:00:49.880 --> 01:00:52.280 No, we don't want you to be in a relationship 840 01:00:52.280 --> 01:00:54.840 with someone who is currently an addict either. 841 01:00:54.840 --> 01:00:56.680 So you don't have to put those on your list. 842 01:00:56.680 --> 01:00:57.840 That's not what we're looking for. 843 01:00:57.840 --> 01:01:01.640 We're looking for the, again, the kind of the stigmas, 844 01:01:01.640 --> 01:01:03.120 the things that we partner with. 845 01:01:03.120 --> 01:01:07.400 And we just say, I'm never being with someone like this. 846 01:01:07.400 --> 01:01:09.040 And it tends to be connected, 847 01:01:09.040 --> 01:01:10.600 whether you realize it or not, 848 01:01:10.600 --> 01:01:14.960 it's often connected with things in your subconscious 849 01:01:14.960 --> 01:01:18.680 that happened along the way because of hurt that happened. 850 01:01:18.680 --> 01:01:20.760 I'm gonna be real transparent and honest with you. 851 01:01:20.760 --> 01:01:24.040 One of mine, and I don't wanna offend any of my, 852 01:01:24.040 --> 01:01:26.560 and I don't, when I say this, I'll be real honest. 853 01:01:27.400 --> 01:01:31.440 Sometimes I don't know if I should say African-American 854 01:01:31.440 --> 01:01:34.320 or black, and so just know, I love all of my, 855 01:01:34.320 --> 01:01:36.200 like Mexican, Asian, I don't, 856 01:01:36.200 --> 01:01:37.320 all the different ethnicities. 857 01:01:37.320 --> 01:01:39.320 When I say this, I have so much love. 858 01:01:39.320 --> 01:01:42.880 I have some of my best friends are of different ethnicities, 859 01:01:42.880 --> 01:01:47.440 but growing up, my sister dated gentlemen that were black. 860 01:01:47.440 --> 01:01:51.920 And the one guy in general, in particular, excuse me, 861 01:01:51.920 --> 01:01:55.720 would not even come in and meet us as a family. 862 01:01:55.720 --> 01:01:59.520 And it was really hard for me to see that happen. 863 01:01:59.520 --> 01:02:02.640 And my sister got in a really bad relationship 864 01:02:02.640 --> 01:02:05.200 and it did a lot of damage to her. 865 01:02:05.200 --> 01:02:08.200 And so I just got really afraid. 866 01:02:08.200 --> 01:02:11.240 And it had nothing to do with all people 867 01:02:11.240 --> 01:02:13.760 of other ethnicities or all people that are black, 868 01:02:13.760 --> 01:02:17.680 but in my heart, I was scared, okay? 869 01:02:17.680 --> 01:02:20.760 So in my transparency, I want you all to understand 870 01:02:20.760 --> 01:02:23.600 that I had to be honest with myself 871 01:02:23.600 --> 01:02:25.840 and say that in my subconscious, 872 01:02:25.840 --> 01:02:28.080 it wasn't because the color of someone's skin, 873 01:02:28.080 --> 01:02:30.560 it was because what I saw my sister go through. 874 01:02:32.080 --> 01:02:33.840 Here's the flip side. 875 01:02:33.840 --> 01:02:38.360 I had a lot of white men, Caucasian men hurt me. 876 01:02:38.360 --> 01:02:39.720 It's not about the skin color, 877 01:02:39.720 --> 01:02:42.920 it's about what the person's character is. 878 01:02:42.920 --> 01:02:44.640 What is the fruit that they're displaying 879 01:02:44.640 --> 01:02:48.360 or the lack of fruit that is being displayed, okay? 880 01:02:48.360 --> 01:02:50.360 So, but here's the thing, 881 01:02:50.360 --> 01:02:53.800 I had to be willing to be honest with myself 882 01:02:53.800 --> 01:02:58.000 and say, I had on my never will I ever list 883 01:02:58.000 --> 01:03:02.160 that I was not comfortable dating someone that was black. 884 01:03:02.160 --> 01:03:05.480 And I had to be willing to look into my heart 885 01:03:05.480 --> 01:03:10.400 and look at why did I have that in my heart? 886 01:03:10.400 --> 01:03:11.320 Do you understand? 887 01:03:12.280 --> 01:03:13.920 And I hope everyone feels loved 888 01:03:13.920 --> 01:03:15.840 that's of any other ethnicity here, 889 01:03:15.840 --> 01:03:17.760 because I just feel like it's important 890 01:03:17.760 --> 01:03:20.040 for us to talk about these things sometimes 891 01:03:20.720 --> 01:03:23.880 because this is how we posture in our hearts 892 01:03:23.880 --> 01:03:28.240 and even other, it goes both ways at times. 893 01:03:28.240 --> 01:03:31.760 And so just know that it's important 894 01:03:31.760 --> 01:03:34.280 for the Holy Spirit to guide this process. 895 01:03:34.280 --> 01:03:37.000 There are gonna be God non-negotiables, okay? 896 01:03:37.000 --> 01:03:38.680 So one of my God non-negotiables, 897 01:03:38.680 --> 01:03:40.760 this did not go on my never will I ever list 898 01:03:40.760 --> 01:03:43.400 because God did not ask me to give this up 899 01:03:43.400 --> 01:03:45.040 and surrender this to him. 900 01:03:45.040 --> 01:03:47.920 I've always wanted a child, always. 901 01:03:48.480 --> 01:03:51.600 I mean, I was the girl that was with my baby cousins 902 01:03:51.600 --> 01:03:53.200 and nieces and nephews holding the babies. 903 01:03:53.200 --> 01:03:56.400 Like that is a part of who I am. 904 01:03:56.400 --> 01:04:00.040 And so I knew that I wanted to date 905 01:04:00.040 --> 01:04:03.360 and marry someone that wanted to have more children, 906 01:04:03.360 --> 01:04:05.120 whether I have one biologically 907 01:04:05.120 --> 01:04:10.080 or we have one biologically or we adopt or whatever. 908 01:04:10.080 --> 01:04:13.120 I just knew they needed to be willing to do that. 909 01:04:14.040 --> 01:04:16.240 So that's a God non-negotiable. 910 01:04:16.240 --> 01:04:17.840 That was one of my God non-negotiables. 911 01:04:18.640 --> 01:04:20.120 Y'all see the differences? 912 01:04:20.120 --> 01:04:21.200 I hope I made this clear 913 01:04:21.200 --> 01:04:23.720 and I hope I didn't offend anybody in the process. 914 01:04:23.720 --> 01:04:25.240 If I did, I wanna encourage you. 915 01:04:25.240 --> 01:04:26.080 If you felt offended, 916 01:04:26.080 --> 01:04:28.360 please ask the Holy Spirit to show you why, 917 01:04:28.360 --> 01:04:30.520 because I genuinely am releasing this 918 01:04:30.520 --> 01:04:33.120 with so much love in my heart for all people. 919 01:04:33.120 --> 01:04:34.600 All right, so I'm gonna start. 920 01:04:34.600 --> 01:04:36.400 I see another hand went up, April. 921 01:04:36.400 --> 01:04:37.960 I'm gonna have to move forward 922 01:04:37.960 --> 01:04:40.000 because I wanna talk about control for a little bit. 923 01:04:40.000 --> 01:04:42.720 And I want y'all to have another breakout session, okay? 924 01:04:43.720 --> 01:04:44.560 Okay. 925 01:04:46.320 --> 01:04:47.280 Camilla asked me, 926 01:04:47.280 --> 01:04:48.920 is the man that wouldn't come in the house 927 01:04:48.920 --> 01:04:50.520 the same man that hurt your sister? 928 01:04:50.520 --> 01:04:52.560 Yes, yes, yes. 929 01:04:52.560 --> 01:04:54.280 I mean, there were multiple men that hurt my sister. 930 01:04:54.280 --> 01:04:57.160 My sister has lived a very, very rough life, 931 01:04:57.160 --> 01:04:58.840 but that was one of the first memories. 932 01:04:58.840 --> 01:05:00.640 And I was young, I was three years. 933 01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:04.360 younger than her. So that was pretty big. Uh, like when she was, you know, 934 01:05:04.800 --> 01:05:08.400 16, 17, when that happened, I was 13, 14 years old. 935 01:05:08.400 --> 01:05:11.680 So that was pretty influential in my life. Um, all right. 936 01:05:12.000 --> 01:05:15.600 Control is an illusion you all. So what do I mean by that? 937 01:05:15.600 --> 01:05:16.880 It's a misleading image. 938 01:05:17.280 --> 01:05:22.000 We get misled intellectually as well as in the physical realm by ideas of 939 01:05:22.020 --> 01:05:22.840 control. 940 01:05:22.920 --> 01:05:25.840 One of the things that the Holy spirit brought up this afternoon that I want to 941 01:05:25.840 --> 01:05:29.800 mention today. And again, there's no shame or guilt or condemnation. 942 01:05:29.800 --> 01:05:32.240 If y'all struggle with this, but OCD came up. 943 01:05:32.520 --> 01:05:36.040 And I feel led to mention that again tonight. What do I mean by that? 944 01:05:36.880 --> 01:05:41.360 OCD that you have about anything tends to 945 01:05:41.380 --> 01:05:46.200 come out of people that have fragmentation and trauma because they 946 01:05:46.200 --> 01:05:51.160 didn't have control when they went through things as kids or 947 01:05:51.160 --> 01:05:55.240 even as adults. And so when they, when they went through trauma, 948 01:05:55.880 --> 01:06:00.200 one of their coping mechanisms was to develop OCD methods. 949 01:06:00.440 --> 01:06:04.080 Sometimes it can be excessive cleaning. It can be, um, 950 01:06:04.680 --> 01:06:07.640 just having to have things, you know, just so in different ways, 951 01:06:07.640 --> 01:06:12.520 like my youngest spiritual daughter was like really OCD about her bed at night. 952 01:06:13.320 --> 01:06:16.600 Everything had to be tucked real tight and her and her sister, 953 01:06:16.600 --> 01:06:20.400 they would fight like every night. I'm not joking about the bed, 954 01:06:20.960 --> 01:06:24.240 because Michaela was just fine to just lay down. She was the older and Olivia, 955 01:06:24.240 --> 01:06:28.440 just everything had to be so, so she couldn't have, um, 956 01:06:29.000 --> 01:06:30.240 Olivia, the same, same one. 957 01:06:30.240 --> 01:06:33.600 Couldn't have anything that she could feel on the inside of her socks. 958 01:06:33.600 --> 01:06:36.000 So no decorative socks, all that. 959 01:06:36.360 --> 01:06:40.320 But she also struggles with like when she feels very stressed, 960 01:06:41.400 --> 01:06:45.720 she massively cleans. And so again, I'm just giving these as examples. 961 01:06:45.960 --> 01:06:47.120 Y'all there's nothing wrong with it, 962 01:06:47.120 --> 01:06:49.760 but I want you to be aware of it because I don't believe God wants you to stay 963 01:06:49.760 --> 01:06:50.960 there. Okay. 964 01:06:51.440 --> 01:06:55.520 I believe he wants to heal your heart and help you learn other, um, 965 01:06:55.560 --> 01:06:57.680 ways to live your life. 966 01:06:58.160 --> 01:07:01.600 And as you heal to maybe practice, 967 01:07:01.960 --> 01:07:06.880 not always, um, doing those as excessively. 968 01:07:07.160 --> 01:07:09.520 So that makes sense where you start to come into balance. Again, 969 01:07:09.520 --> 01:07:12.760 it's not bad to clean. It's not bad to have things straight, right? 970 01:07:13.240 --> 01:07:16.760 But it's when we become obsessed with those, because we, 971 01:07:16.840 --> 01:07:18.840 we need that feeling of control. 972 01:07:19.160 --> 01:07:22.800 That is one of the signals that you have trauma that needs healed. 973 01:07:24.120 --> 01:07:25.280 Okay. All right. 974 01:07:27.080 --> 01:07:30.640 We cannot control other people. We can't control outcomes. 975 01:07:30.640 --> 01:07:36.120 We can't control circumstances. Um, so what can we control ladies? 976 01:07:37.400 --> 01:07:40.760 We can control our beliefs about things as well as, 977 01:07:40.920 --> 01:07:43.360 as our responses to situations. 978 01:07:44.360 --> 01:07:48.480 So I talked today also about the difference between response and, 979 01:07:48.880 --> 01:07:49.720 um, 980 01:07:51.080 --> 01:07:56.080 response and re I forget how I said it today. It was so good. 981 01:07:56.480 --> 01:08:01.240 Um, but basically like, you're just a reacting. Thank you. Thank you. 982 01:08:01.240 --> 01:08:03.240 Lord reacting versus responding. 983 01:08:03.240 --> 01:08:07.480 A reaction is just like what the way I consider it and it can be like small 984 01:08:07.480 --> 01:08:09.200 reaction, but it can also be very big. 985 01:08:09.640 --> 01:08:12.760 So I was thinking this afternoon, um, 986 01:08:12.800 --> 01:08:15.680 that reactions can be very volcanic. 987 01:08:16.080 --> 01:08:19.520 So you have all this stuff underneath the surface and somebody does something 988 01:08:19.520 --> 01:08:20.359 and you're just like, 989 01:08:20.359 --> 01:08:24.200 you go from zero to one 80 and you're angry and you're reacting. 990 01:08:24.359 --> 01:08:26.040 And sometimes it's not always anger. 991 01:08:26.040 --> 01:08:29.880 Sometimes it's shutting down and going like a turtle. 992 01:08:30.080 --> 01:08:32.120 I'm going to use that as, and again, not making fun, 993 01:08:32.120 --> 01:08:33.319 but literally people kind of, 994 01:08:33.560 --> 01:08:37.960 they just go in the shell and they just hide from the world, right? So it can be, 995 01:08:37.960 --> 01:08:39.399 that can be a reaction too. 996 01:08:39.920 --> 01:08:42.680 So I don't want you always to think it has to be a big explosive thing. 997 01:08:42.680 --> 01:08:47.279 Sometimes it's a very quiet, like, I'm just not going to let anybody in. 998 01:08:47.279 --> 01:08:50.439 Nobody's safe kind of thing. So that's a reaction. 999 01:08:50.439 --> 01:08:54.439 We want you to heal and start to respond instead. 1000 01:08:55.760 --> 01:08:57.680 So I want you to ask the Lord, 1001 01:08:58.040 --> 01:09:02.640 are there any areas that you are currently having constant reactions? 1002 01:09:03.120 --> 01:09:06.399 I gave some examples this afternoon. Yours might be something totally different. 1003 01:09:06.720 --> 01:09:09.359 Road rage. Y'all, it's not just men. 1004 01:09:10.040 --> 01:09:14.880 I have had more ladies like doing road rage on me 1005 01:09:14.880 --> 01:09:17.040 on the road than ever before. 1006 01:09:18.000 --> 01:09:20.479 Anger is at an all time high in our society. 1007 01:09:21.279 --> 01:09:23.520 People getting massively angry at their kids, 1008 01:09:23.840 --> 01:09:27.160 getting massively offended over things all the time. 1009 01:09:27.160 --> 01:09:31.000 Everything agitates us in this society. So what is, 1010 01:09:31.000 --> 01:09:35.120 what is the thing that causes the reaction and explosion in you be open to 1011 01:09:35.120 --> 01:09:38.279 hearing what that is and talking with God about it. Maybe it's your mom, 1012 01:09:38.800 --> 01:09:41.600 maybe just being around your mom. I don't know why that's coming up, 1013 01:09:41.600 --> 01:09:43.399 but that just came up in my spirit as well. 1014 01:09:43.680 --> 01:09:46.720 You know those people that just get under your skin and maybe for good reason, 1015 01:09:47.560 --> 01:09:50.920 because maybe they've done a lot of hurtful things or said a lot of hurtful 1016 01:09:50.920 --> 01:09:51.880 things in the past. 1017 01:09:52.600 --> 01:09:57.120 And the Lord wants to help you heal to help you be able to respond to 1018 01:09:57.120 --> 01:09:59.840 them. Even in the midst of those situations. 1019 01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:03.400 Doesn't mean we have to be okay with their mistreatment. 1020 01:10:03.400 --> 01:10:05.960 I wanna make sure you hear me on that, okay? 1021 01:10:05.960 --> 01:10:07.960 You don't have to keep being abused by people. 1022 01:10:07.960 --> 01:10:09.700 You can set healthy boundaries 1023 01:10:09.700 --> 01:10:11.160 and you're gonna learn more how to do that 1024 01:10:11.160 --> 01:10:13.420 over the next several weeks. 1025 01:10:13.420 --> 01:10:15.160 Here's one of the other things that's super important. 1026 01:10:15.160 --> 01:10:18.140 Boundaries, while they are important, 1027 01:10:18.140 --> 01:10:20.760 we also wanna make sure you don't go overboard with those 1028 01:10:20.760 --> 01:10:23.200 and just create a bunch of walls 1029 01:10:23.200 --> 01:10:25.180 as self-protection mechanisms. 1030 01:10:26.080 --> 01:10:27.880 Are you doing things in your life right now 1031 01:10:27.880 --> 01:10:31.360 to try to avoid pain, getting hurt, or disappointment? 1032 01:10:32.400 --> 01:10:33.600 Here's a quote from the book. 1033 01:10:33.600 --> 01:10:34.560 The more hurt we are, 1034 01:10:34.560 --> 01:10:36.600 the more we try to control our environment, 1035 01:10:36.600 --> 01:10:38.180 keep everyone right where we want them 1036 01:10:38.180 --> 01:10:39.560 so they can't hurt us. 1037 01:10:41.400 --> 01:10:43.000 Love is a risk, you all, 1038 01:10:44.640 --> 01:10:46.840 but it's a risk worth taking. 1039 01:10:46.840 --> 01:10:47.760 I promise. 1040 01:10:48.640 --> 01:10:51.840 Y'all know that even to connect with your sisters 1041 01:10:51.840 --> 01:10:53.880 in this group, that you have to be willing 1042 01:10:53.880 --> 01:10:56.180 to open yourself up to receive love. 1043 01:10:58.760 --> 01:11:00.880 To find your spirit mate, 1044 01:11:00.880 --> 01:11:03.400 you have to be open to the new things 1045 01:11:03.400 --> 01:11:06.680 that God wants to bring you and to be open to love. 1046 01:11:06.680 --> 01:11:08.960 We have some women that say they wanna get married, 1047 01:11:08.960 --> 01:11:10.080 they wanna meet their spirit mate, 1048 01:11:10.080 --> 01:11:13.040 but y'all, they absolutely hate men. 1049 01:11:13.040 --> 01:11:15.520 Even in this community, long into the program, 1050 01:11:15.520 --> 01:11:17.340 they just do not like men. 1051 01:11:18.300 --> 01:11:19.880 And so we're continuing to love them, 1052 01:11:19.880 --> 01:11:21.480 we're continuing to speak truth to them, 1053 01:11:21.480 --> 01:11:23.520 we're continuing to pray for their healing, 1054 01:11:23.520 --> 01:11:25.600 but y'all, if you don't like men, 1055 01:11:26.480 --> 01:11:29.200 you need to heal in that place 1056 01:11:29.200 --> 01:11:31.200 because one man or two men, 1057 01:11:31.200 --> 01:11:33.000 however many men that hurt you, 1058 01:11:33.000 --> 01:11:34.940 doesn't mean that all men are bad. 1059 01:11:36.920 --> 01:11:39.040 Okay, so if you're believing the lie 1060 01:11:39.040 --> 01:11:42.080 that all men are liars, all men are cheaters, 1061 01:11:42.080 --> 01:11:46.140 all men are lazy, whatever the lie is for you, 1062 01:11:46.140 --> 01:11:48.300 that's an area I wanna encourage you to ask God 1063 01:11:48.300 --> 01:11:51.180 to bring truth into those things and places as well. 1064 01:11:52.180 --> 01:11:54.540 Isaiah 26, three says, 1065 01:11:54.540 --> 01:11:56.300 you will keep him in perfect peace 1066 01:11:56.300 --> 01:11:58.580 whose minds are steadfast, 1067 01:11:58.580 --> 01:12:03.580 which means stayed upon you because they trust in you. 1068 01:12:03.620 --> 01:12:06.840 So as we trust in the Lord, he will keep us in peace. 1069 01:12:06.840 --> 01:12:10.240 It's time to yield control tonight, it's your night. 1070 01:12:10.240 --> 01:12:12.260 Did you know that this tonight is your night, 1071 01:12:12.260 --> 01:12:15.040 it's your time to yield control? 1072 01:12:15.040 --> 01:12:16.160 So what do I mean by that? 1073 01:12:16.160 --> 01:12:18.920 To give in, to give into the Lord, 1074 01:12:18.920 --> 01:12:21.240 to give into his trust, to his care, 1075 01:12:21.240 --> 01:12:25.000 letting go, conceding and waving the white flag 1076 01:12:25.000 --> 01:12:29.560 and saying, God, I cannot do this by myself, 1077 01:12:29.560 --> 01:12:31.100 I never could do it by myself, 1078 01:12:31.100 --> 01:12:33.680 but I am truly gonna take my hands off the wheel 1079 01:12:33.680 --> 01:12:35.440 and I'm not gonna keep taking the wheel back, 1080 01:12:35.440 --> 01:12:38.640 Lord, I promise, I promise, Lord. 1081 01:12:38.640 --> 01:12:41.180 And if I do, Lord, I thank you that you'll remind me 1082 01:12:41.180 --> 01:12:46.180 that I can trust you, I can truly let go. 1083 01:12:47.040 --> 01:12:48.000 And that doesn't mean y'all, 1084 01:12:48.000 --> 01:12:51.480 we just sit and wait for God to drop the guy at our door. 1085 01:12:51.480 --> 01:12:54.040 Y'all know, I actually, that's what I was asking God for. 1086 01:12:54.040 --> 01:12:57.720 I genuinely wanted God to bring the guy to my door. 1087 01:12:57.720 --> 01:12:59.760 I even asked him, like, it can be a UPS guy, 1088 01:12:59.760 --> 01:13:02.760 I don't even care, but he just has to love you, Jesus. 1089 01:13:02.760 --> 01:13:04.840 And he has to wanna do ministry too. 1090 01:13:04.840 --> 01:13:08.200 But y'all, that's not what God did and that's okay. 1091 01:13:08.200 --> 01:13:10.040 He had a different plan and praise the Lord, 1092 01:13:10.040 --> 01:13:13.600 I was willing to listen and walk with him in the journey. 1093 01:13:13.600 --> 01:13:15.400 When I encourage you all to partner with God, 1094 01:13:15.400 --> 01:13:18.480 he knows what's best for you every step of the way. 1095 01:13:18.480 --> 01:13:22.360 All right, so tonight we're gonna end the power struggle. 1096 01:13:22.360 --> 01:13:23.760 Agree? 1097 01:13:23.760 --> 01:13:25.760 Raise your hand if you are willing to let go 1098 01:13:25.760 --> 01:13:27.740 of the power struggle tonight. 1099 01:13:28.700 --> 01:13:31.320 Praise the Lord, we're gonna break free tonight, 1100 01:13:31.320 --> 01:13:36.320 we're gonna, April, yeah, your UPS guy's cute. 1101 01:13:36.600 --> 01:13:38.760 I don't even think I had a cute UPS guy, 1102 01:13:38.760 --> 01:13:40.400 so that didn't work out for me either. 1103 01:13:40.400 --> 01:13:42.180 All right, ladies, so here's your chance 1104 01:13:42.180 --> 01:13:43.120 to let go of control. 1105 01:13:43.120 --> 01:13:44.840 You're gonna go into the breakout room 1106 01:13:45.280 --> 01:13:47.800 and I wanna encourage you to share with your sisters. 1107 01:13:47.800 --> 01:13:51.320 I know it might seem similar to the earlier question 1108 01:13:51.320 --> 01:13:52.680 about where do you need to surrender, 1109 01:13:52.680 --> 01:13:54.760 but it's actually different. 1110 01:13:54.760 --> 01:13:57.820 Maybe some of you need to let go of controlling your kids. 1111 01:13:57.820 --> 01:14:01.600 Maybe some of you need to let go of controlling outcomes. 1112 01:14:01.600 --> 01:14:03.600 Maybe some of you need to let go of a guy 1113 01:14:03.600 --> 01:14:06.000 that you're still trying to hang on to, 1114 01:14:06.000 --> 01:14:07.040 even though it's just like, 1115 01:14:07.040 --> 01:14:09.480 oh, I'm just encouraging him from time to time. 1116 01:14:09.480 --> 01:14:13.040 That came up today, genuinely in the one o'clock. 1117 01:14:13.080 --> 01:14:14.960 She just said, you know, he just, 1118 01:14:14.960 --> 01:14:17.200 this guy just keeps popping up every now and then, 1119 01:14:17.200 --> 01:14:20.040 and she just feels led to pray for him and encourage him. 1120 01:14:20.040 --> 01:14:22.920 Y'all know, just let that go. 1121 01:14:22.920 --> 01:14:27.120 It's not your job to be someone's spiritual advisor. 1122 01:14:27.120 --> 01:14:29.060 Let that go and make room for the new. 1123 01:14:29.060 --> 01:14:29.900 So what is it? 1124 01:14:29.900 --> 01:14:33.800 Maybe for you it's letting go of fear and worry 1125 01:14:33.800 --> 01:14:37.040 and controlling, you know, every aspect 1126 01:14:37.040 --> 01:14:38.760 to try to get something to work out 1127 01:14:38.760 --> 01:14:40.880 exactly the way that you want it to. 1128 01:14:40.880 --> 01:14:41.720 Someone said earlier, 1129 01:14:41.720 --> 01:14:44.840 letting go of the dream and the expectation. 1130 01:14:44.840 --> 01:14:45.920 Okay, all right. 1131 01:14:45.920 --> 01:14:47.520 So I think I gave enough examples. 1132 01:14:47.520 --> 01:14:50.200 Y'all can say something entirely different. 1133 01:14:50.200 --> 01:14:53.060 Whatever works for you is what you want to share. 1134 01:14:54.000 --> 01:14:55.040 All right, I'm going to give you, 1135 01:14:55.040 --> 01:14:56.600 I'm going to give you six minutes this time. 1136 01:14:56.600 --> 01:14:58.600 So short, brief and powerful. 1137 01:14:58.600 --> 01:15:00.600 That's how we say it in this community. 1138 01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:08.000 Alright, go ahead ladies. Click to join. See y'all in just a few minutes. Praying for you all. Go ahead and click to join. 1139 01:15:18.000 --> 01:15:19.000 Alright. 1140 01:15:31.000 --> 01:15:35.000 Alright, Laura, we just thank you so much for the ladies that are in the group. 1141 01:15:35.000 --> 01:15:39.000 Thank you so much for your healing, grace. 1142 01:15:39.000 --> 01:15:46.000 Lord, I thank you that you would just show us the areas that we need to surrender control to you, that we would wave the white flag 1143 01:15:46.000 --> 01:15:50.000 and trust you, God, in the process of our healing, in the process of our lives. 1144 01:15:50.000 --> 01:15:57.000 God, that you are working all things together for our good, not just for our life, but to save many people alive. 1145 01:15:57.000 --> 01:16:04.000 I thank you that we can rely on you, God. We can depend on you and you will see us through. 1146 01:16:14.000 --> 01:16:16.000 Hi, Joanna. Did you get kicked out? 1147 01:16:16.000 --> 01:16:18.000 No, I was in my room by myself. 1148 01:16:18.000 --> 01:16:21.000 Oh, shoot. I didn't scroll down all the way. I'm so sorry. 1149 01:16:21.000 --> 01:16:23.000 Here you go. There you go. 1150 01:16:23.000 --> 01:16:24.000 Thank you. 1151 01:16:24.000 --> 01:16:25.000 Sorry about that. 1152 01:16:26.000 --> 01:16:27.000 Alright. 1153 01:16:27.000 --> 01:16:29.000 What was I saying? I'm going to read that again. 1154 01:16:29.000 --> 01:16:34.000 If you continue in my word, you shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free. 1155 01:16:34.000 --> 01:16:37.000 So, Laura, we just thank you for freedom in the Holy Spirit tonight. 1156 01:16:37.000 --> 01:16:41.000 It's not by might nor by power, but it's by your spirit, says the Lord. 1157 01:16:41.000 --> 01:16:45.000 We thank you, that Holy Spirit, you're just coming in, you're weaving in the conversations, 1158 01:16:45.000 --> 01:16:50.000 you're even weaving into the hearts and the minds and the spirits of those that are watching this replay. 1159 01:16:51.000 --> 01:17:00.000 And you're helping them to hear what your spirit is saying about letting go of control and allowing you to bring truth and hope in life. 1160 01:17:00.000 --> 01:17:04.000 We thank you that Jeremiah 17, 9 through 10 in the message version says this, 1161 01:17:04.000 --> 01:17:09.000 the heart is hopefully dark and deceitful, a puzzle that no one can figure out, 1162 01:17:09.000 --> 01:17:13.000 but I, God, search the heart and examine the mind. 1163 01:17:13.000 --> 01:17:16.000 I get to the heart of the human. 1164 01:17:17.000 --> 01:17:19.000 I get to the root of things. 1165 01:17:19.000 --> 01:17:24.000 I treat them as they really are, not as they pretend to be. 1166 01:17:24.000 --> 01:17:29.000 God, thank you that you treat us, your daughters, as we really are. 1167 01:17:29.000 --> 01:17:33.000 God, that you treat us as the daughters, like when you originally formed us, 1168 01:17:33.000 --> 01:17:38.000 when you created us and you breathed us into existence. 1169 01:17:38.000 --> 01:17:41.000 God, that you, that's how you look at us. 1170 01:17:41.000 --> 01:17:45.000 And every time you look at us, that's the way you look through that lens. 1171 01:17:45.000 --> 01:17:48.000 And we just thank you for your unconditional love, your grace, your mercy. 1172 01:17:48.000 --> 01:17:50.000 That is new every morning. 1173 01:17:50.000 --> 01:17:53.000 We thank you, God, that we are blessed when we go in. 1174 01:17:53.000 --> 01:17:54.000 We're blessed when we go out. 1175 01:17:54.000 --> 01:17:56.000 We're blessed when we rise up and we're blessed when we lie down. 1176 01:17:56.000 --> 01:18:02.000 We thank you, God, for sale of rest for every one of these ladies in this heart work process. 1177 01:18:02.000 --> 01:18:10.000 We thank you, God, that you are doing supernatural heart surgery in each one of them every day in the days ahead. 1178 01:18:10.000 --> 01:18:13.000 We thank you that in 1 John 3, 20, it says, 1179 01:18:13.000 --> 01:18:17.000 whenever our hearts make us feel guilty and remind us of our failures, 1180 01:18:17.000 --> 01:18:22.000 we know that God is much greater and more merciful than our conscience. 1181 01:18:22.000 --> 01:18:24.000 And he knows everything there is to know about us. 1182 01:18:24.000 --> 01:18:28.000 So Lord, we just thank you that you know everything about us and you love us. 1183 01:18:28.000 --> 01:18:30.000 You chose us anyways. 1184 01:18:30.000 --> 01:18:36.000 You chose us knowing the sin that we would commit and you wanted us and you still want us. 1185 01:18:36.000 --> 01:18:42.000 We thank you, God, that you always extend the olive branch to us. 1186 01:18:44.000 --> 01:18:46.000 Proverbs 4, 23 says, 1187 01:18:46.000 --> 01:18:51.000 So above all, guard the affections of your heart for they affect all that you are. 1188 01:18:51.000 --> 01:18:57.000 Pay attention to the welfare of your innermost being for from there flows the wellspring of life. 1189 01:18:57.000 --> 01:19:02.000 So Lord, we just thank you that you'll go into the depths of our soul, 1190 01:19:02.000 --> 01:19:04.000 into the depths of our heart. 1191 01:19:06.000 --> 01:19:09.000 Lord, we thank you for healing at the core of our being. 1192 01:19:09.000 --> 01:19:12.000 God, we just slow down right now in your presence. 1193 01:19:12.000 --> 01:19:14.000 And we say, thank you. 1194 01:19:14.000 --> 01:19:16.000 Thank you for healing. 1195 01:19:16.000 --> 01:19:21.000 Every aspect of us healing us from the inside out. 1196 01:19:21.000 --> 01:19:28.000 We thank you that you're making us beautiful more and more and more every day from the inside out that your glory will shine through us. 1197 01:19:28.000 --> 01:19:31.000 That we are like a city set upon a hill. 1198 01:19:31.000 --> 01:19:33.000 That others will be drawn to you through us. 1199 01:19:33.000 --> 01:19:38.000 We thank you that our spirit mates will be drawn to us and we will be drawn to our spirit mates in due season. 1200 01:19:38.000 --> 01:19:42.000 We thank you, Lord, for your truth, for your hope, for your life. 1201 01:19:42.000 --> 01:19:43.000 Yes, Lord. 1202 01:19:43.000 --> 01:19:46.000 I even just heard the Holy Spirit say, we thank you for forgiveness. 1203 01:19:46.000 --> 01:19:51.000 Lord, we release a spirit of forgiveness in Jesus name. 1204 01:19:51.000 --> 01:19:55.000 Flowing in each one of us individually as well as through this community. 1205 01:19:57.000 --> 01:20:00.000 Thank you for helping us, Holy Spirit, to recognize. 1206 01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:04.160 eyes, the places and the spaces and the ways we get offended. 1207 01:20:05.240 --> 01:20:08.080 Help us to forgive those who have hurt us even right now, 1208 01:20:08.080 --> 01:20:11.600 just yes, Lord, I forgive that man. I don't know if I've ever 1209 01:20:11.600 --> 01:20:14.760 done this. But Lord, I forgive that man that hurt my sister. 1210 01:20:15.320 --> 01:20:19.880 And that man that caused fear in me. I thank you, Lord, that you 1211 01:20:19.880 --> 01:20:23.440 would just wash over him even right now that your grace would 1212 01:20:23.440 --> 01:20:27.000 be upon him. I thank you that your grace would also return to 1213 01:20:27.000 --> 01:20:30.920 me. I thank you for healing and, and release in Jesus name of 1214 01:20:30.920 --> 01:20:36.640 that situation. Ladies, this is how we do forgiveness. As many 1215 01:20:36.640 --> 01:20:39.120 times as I've done forgiveness. I don't think I've ever shared 1216 01:20:39.120 --> 01:20:42.000 that story before. I've done heartwork coaching for three 1217 01:20:42.000 --> 01:20:44.800 years. Now I did it long before I came into this community as 1218 01:20:44.800 --> 01:20:50.280 well. But I've never shared that story that I shared tonight. And 1219 01:20:50.320 --> 01:20:53.920 I literally don't think I've ever realized I don't know if 1220 01:20:53.920 --> 01:20:57.520 I've ever forgiven that man until just now. So Lord, I thank 1221 01:20:57.520 --> 01:21:02.320 you for that. I thank you that I can be an example of walking in 1222 01:21:02.320 --> 01:21:06.320 forgiveness and choosing forgiveness in every moment as 1223 01:21:06.320 --> 01:21:10.160 you reveal it to us for healing. God, I thank you that you're so 1224 01:21:10.160 --> 01:21:15.640 good. You're so wonderful. Philippians 4.7 says then you 1225 01:21:15.640 --> 01:21:19.080 will experience God's peace which exceeds anything we can 1226 01:21:19.080 --> 01:21:22.240 understand. Peace will guard our hearts and our minds as we live 1227 01:21:22.240 --> 01:21:26.320 in Christ Jesus. Isaiah 40 verse 31 says that those who hope in 1228 01:21:26.320 --> 01:21:29.040 the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar in 1229 01:21:29.040 --> 01:21:32.680 wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will 1230 01:21:32.680 --> 01:21:37.840 walk and not be faint. Proverbs 23 23 says embrace the truth and 1231 01:21:37.840 --> 01:21:41.560 hold it close. Don't let go of wisdom instruction in life 1232 01:21:41.800 --> 01:21:46.000 giving understanding where we thank you for these reminders. We 1233 01:21:46.000 --> 01:21:48.560 thank you for your truth. We thank you that your word cuts 1234 01:21:48.560 --> 01:21:52.720 through the bone and marrow that you bring truth in life and 1235 01:21:52.720 --> 01:21:56.440 we thank you for hope. Yes, Lord, we thank you for fresh and 1236 01:21:56.440 --> 01:22:00.080 filling of hope where hope has been deferred. We thank you God 1237 01:22:00.080 --> 01:22:03.840 that you would not only fill us with fresh hope but Lord God 1238 01:22:03.840 --> 01:22:06.920 that we would become so full that we would be able to turn 1239 01:22:06.920 --> 01:22:10.240 into people that create shade and hope for other people that 1240 01:22:10.240 --> 01:22:13.680 we would be hope dealers. We thank you and we partner with 1241 01:22:13.680 --> 01:22:16.640 that truth Lord that we're hope dealers that we are kinsmen 1242 01:22:16.640 --> 01:22:20.800 Redeemers in our family timeline in Jesus name. Hello, 1243 01:22:20.800 --> 01:22:24.120 welcome back. All right, go ahead and mute yourselves. All 1244 01:22:24.120 --> 01:22:27.800 right, who is willing to share with the whole group? What you 1245 01:22:27.800 --> 01:22:29.000 shared in your breakout? 1246 01:22:35.080 --> 01:22:36.080 I can. 1247 01:22:36.360 --> 01:22:39.360 Awesome. How do you say your first name? Just tell me. Is it 1248 01:22:39.360 --> 01:22:39.960 Kaja? 1249 01:22:40.280 --> 01:22:40.960 Kaja. 1250 01:22:41.560 --> 01:22:42.480 Say it again for me. 1251 01:22:42.800 --> 01:22:43.520 Kaja. 1252 01:22:44.400 --> 01:22:47.440 Okay, so like phonetically like Kaja? 1253 01:22:47.800 --> 01:22:49.600 Like K-Y-S-A. 1254 01:22:49.880 --> 01:22:52.240 Okay, awesome. Thank you so much. Go ahead. 1255 01:22:52.840 --> 01:22:59.320 Um, so this kind of took me off guard a little bit. Um, but 1256 01:22:59.800 --> 01:23:05.200 something that I really like to do is exercise, not like 1257 01:23:05.440 --> 01:23:11.600 excessively, but just every day I like to exercise for you know, 1258 01:23:11.600 --> 01:23:19.440 45 minutes or an hour. And, you know, my job feels kind of 1259 01:23:19.440 --> 01:23:22.920 stressful. And it, you know, I see it as like, Oh, good way to 1260 01:23:23.240 --> 01:23:32.960 just unwind. And, you know, like even with I live in Tacoma. And 1261 01:23:32.960 --> 01:23:36.560 so this call starts at five o'clock. And that's like a short 1262 01:23:36.560 --> 01:23:43.880 window between work and the call. And I just was realizing 1263 01:23:45.400 --> 01:23:54.040 that I've been convicted. God saying, I feel like He has said 1264 01:23:54.040 --> 01:23:59.480 to my heart, is this heart work? Like how big of a priority is 1265 01:23:59.480 --> 01:24:05.960 it? This is something you've been wanting to really be free 1266 01:24:05.960 --> 01:24:14.440 of you for so long. And, um, it's one evening, you know, and 1267 01:24:14.480 --> 01:24:17.160 so yeah, 1268 01:24:18.000 --> 01:24:21.320 that's really good. And I want to just say thank you for your 1269 01:24:21.320 --> 01:24:25.400 honesty about that. Because there are a lot of people. I'm 1270 01:24:25.400 --> 01:24:28.440 not everyone. But I can tell you that there are other people 1271 01:24:28.440 --> 01:24:31.000 that struggle with that that have come into the program. And 1272 01:24:31.000 --> 01:24:34.600 then they're like, you're giving us too much work. So they like 1273 01:24:34.600 --> 01:24:38.120 don't, they literally don't continue. And so I want to 1274 01:24:38.120 --> 01:24:43.800 encourage you if the Holy Spirit is speaking to you, Kaisa, or 1275 01:24:43.800 --> 01:24:49.760 anyone else about that, to really lean into that. Because 1276 01:24:49.760 --> 01:24:54.880 you're worth it. You're worth the investment, just as much as 1277 01:24:54.920 --> 01:24:58.320 anything else would be worth our time. You all just even right 1278 01:24:58.320 --> 01:25:00.000 now, just in my spirit, like 1279 01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:06.720 What's coming up is sometimes people, and I say this with a lot of love too, and the examples I 1280 01:25:06.720 --> 01:25:10.560 give you all are things I've walked through. So just know when I give them, it's typically stuff 1281 01:25:10.560 --> 01:25:17.040 God has convicted me of or shown me on my journey. Times I've said I didn't have money for stuff, 1282 01:25:17.040 --> 01:25:21.680 and then God would be like, well, you're getting coffee at Starbucks all the time. 1283 01:25:21.680 --> 01:25:27.600 So do you not have the money? You know, just like he just lovingly just like nudges us, right? 1284 01:25:27.600 --> 01:25:35.840 And so just be open to seeing like what is it maybe that God wants to shift in your schedule 1285 01:25:35.840 --> 01:25:43.760 just for now in this season to make room, to make room for this program, for this healing journey, 1286 01:25:44.720 --> 01:25:50.080 because what the freedom and the lightness that you're going to experience as a result 1287 01:25:50.080 --> 01:25:56.320 will be worth it. I love that share. Thank you so much for being open to sharing that. 1288 01:25:58.080 --> 01:26:06.960 Joanna, go ahead. Yeah, so I shared with the group something that I need to let go of 1289 01:26:06.960 --> 01:26:16.960 is the previous relationship that I had where I realized that he wasn't like healthy, like fully 1290 01:26:16.960 --> 01:26:26.720 healthy, and I don't know if this is something like bad or not, but like I find myself like 1291 01:26:26.720 --> 01:26:31.280 still praying for him. I'm not like in communication with him or anything like that, 1292 01:26:31.280 --> 01:26:38.800 but I'm praying for it, for his healing, that the Lord makes him whole. And I'm like, Lord, 1293 01:26:38.800 --> 01:26:44.240 I surrender it to the Lord, but I'm like, man, like if he was whole and he was healing healthy 1294 01:26:44.240 --> 01:26:51.360 that like, you know, then we can get back together. So just like letting go of that and just 1295 01:26:51.360 --> 01:26:57.280 really surrendering that to the Lord. Yeah. So, okay. So on this, this is kind of what came up 1296 01:26:57.280 --> 01:27:03.760 today with someone different. And I'm not saying you guys have to all together, stop praying for 1297 01:27:03.760 --> 01:27:08.160 people. Obviously, if God really leads you to pray for someone, do it. But sometimes you all, 1298 01:27:08.800 --> 01:27:15.680 we hang on and we just keep hanging on. In our program, I'm not going to go into this much. So 1299 01:27:15.680 --> 01:27:19.200 don't ask me a lot of questions, but I do want you all to hear this tonight because it goes with 1300 01:27:19.920 --> 01:27:27.440 We encourage when you guys go into phase two and, and beyond the three M's marriage-minded, 1301 01:27:27.440 --> 01:27:34.480 masculine, and oh my gosh, I thought, forgot the third one, marriage-minded, masculine, 1302 01:27:34.480 --> 01:27:42.960 and mature, mature, super important. And so here's the thing. When we are giving our minds 1303 01:27:42.960 --> 01:27:49.920 and our hearts and that space to someone else, it's not open and available for ourselves in 1304 01:27:49.920 --> 01:27:56.320 this season or anybody else in the future. Okay. One of the things I encourage the young lady 1305 01:27:56.320 --> 01:28:01.120 this afternoon to do, and I would encourage you all to do this as well as if this speaks to you, 1306 01:28:02.080 --> 01:28:07.040 instead of taking the time to pray for that former person that you were in relationship with, 1307 01:28:08.000 --> 01:28:13.040 I would encourage you to get a little journal and start writing prayers for your spirit mate. 1308 01:28:16.000 --> 01:28:20.640 Anything that God puts on your heart, pray and ask God to show you something to pray for your 1309 01:28:20.640 --> 01:28:30.560 spirit mate and do that instead. And just give yourself permission to all the way shift and let 1310 01:28:30.560 --> 01:28:39.120 go of that person completely surrender that because here's the thing. Sometimes y'all it's, 1311 01:28:39.120 --> 01:28:43.680 it's does happen where people will come back into our lives and that relationship will, 1312 01:28:43.680 --> 01:28:50.080 will work at some point, but here's the thing. If that person has not changed at all in their 1313 01:28:50.080 --> 01:28:56.080 character, in the fruit, they display in their pursuit of the Lord, then nothing has changed 1314 01:28:56.080 --> 01:28:59.920 with that person. That's going to help you be able to be with them in a healthy marriage. 1315 01:29:00.800 --> 01:29:06.160 Okay. So I just, that's what I'm going to share on that part tonight, but I want to encourage you 1316 01:29:06.160 --> 01:29:11.680 all make room, make room for yourself. And again, even the time and the effort that we're spending 1317 01:29:11.680 --> 01:29:18.080 praying for that person. What if we just took that time even and put it towards our heart work 1318 01:29:18.080 --> 01:29:22.480 process? You know what I'm saying? And sometimes it's just a few minutes. I understand that, 1319 01:29:22.480 --> 01:29:27.200 but sometimes some of us, I don't know about you all, but sometimes I would spend like 15 minutes 1320 01:29:27.200 --> 01:29:34.000 praying for somebody because I wanted that person's heart to change. I begged and pleaded 1321 01:29:34.000 --> 01:29:39.600 with God to be with the girl's dad and for him to marry me. Y'all I'm so thankful now 1322 01:29:40.640 --> 01:29:45.680 that that is not what God did. He did not answer that prayer and I'm super grateful. 1323 01:29:46.880 --> 01:29:50.480 Okay. So thank you for sharing. That was really good. Tara, go ahead. 1324 01:29:50.480 --> 01:30:01.840 Yeah. So I think I just need to let go of the guilt that I harbor over the past few years. 1325 01:30:00.000 --> 01:30:03.160 versus staying in an abusive relationship 1326 01:30:03.160 --> 01:30:05.560 where I knew I was cheating at some point. 1327 01:30:05.560 --> 01:30:07.800 In the beginning, they're never like that. 1328 01:30:07.800 --> 01:30:11.460 But then once you realize who they truly are, 1329 01:30:13.160 --> 01:30:14.880 I did the same thing, was looking at, 1330 01:30:14.880 --> 01:30:16.240 oh, well, all these good things, 1331 01:30:16.240 --> 01:30:20.840 but then when the bad things and the horrible things 1332 01:30:20.840 --> 01:30:22.380 and everything came up, 1333 01:30:24.720 --> 01:30:27.260 I just blamed myself for staying. 1334 01:30:27.340 --> 01:30:29.460 And for, instead of being like, 1335 01:30:30.540 --> 01:30:31.940 all of my friends say I'm too nice, 1336 01:30:31.940 --> 01:30:34.900 like everyone makes mistakes, 1337 01:30:34.900 --> 01:30:37.260 everyone has their issues, 1338 01:30:37.260 --> 01:30:40.700 but when I said them out loud afterwards, 1339 01:30:40.700 --> 01:30:44.260 I recognized, oh my goodness, 1340 01:30:44.260 --> 01:30:46.700 like what was I thinking? 1341 01:30:46.700 --> 01:30:49.620 Why would I stay ever when I say it out loud to someone 1342 01:30:49.620 --> 01:30:50.920 or someone, you know what I mean? 1343 01:30:50.920 --> 01:30:53.220 So I just need to let go of that guilt 1344 01:30:53.220 --> 01:30:57.980 and blaming myself for staying in such a horrible situation. 1345 01:30:57.980 --> 01:30:58.900 Yeah. 1346 01:30:58.900 --> 01:31:00.780 Have you ever done, 1347 01:31:00.780 --> 01:31:02.540 have you ever forgiven yourself for that? 1348 01:31:02.540 --> 01:31:03.820 Not just let go of guilt, 1349 01:31:03.820 --> 01:31:06.020 but like actually forgiven yourself for it? 1350 01:31:07.700 --> 01:31:08.860 No. 1351 01:31:08.860 --> 01:31:09.700 Okay. 1352 01:31:09.700 --> 01:31:13.360 There is a forgiveness prayer sheet in week four. 1353 01:31:13.360 --> 01:31:14.200 Okay. 1354 01:31:14.200 --> 01:31:16.100 I don't know if it will let you seek week four right now. 1355 01:31:16.100 --> 01:31:18.200 If not, do a post in the group and let me know 1356 01:31:18.200 --> 01:31:20.020 and I will get that to you. 1357 01:31:20.020 --> 01:31:20.860 Okay. 1358 01:31:20.860 --> 01:31:21.980 I really feel like it's super important for you 1359 01:31:21.980 --> 01:31:24.100 to go ahead and do that this week. 1360 01:31:24.100 --> 01:31:24.940 Okay. 1361 01:31:24.940 --> 01:31:26.860 And really just partner with the process 1362 01:31:26.860 --> 01:31:30.280 of forgiving yourself for staying in that relationship. 1363 01:31:31.340 --> 01:31:32.580 Because here's the thing, 1364 01:31:33.500 --> 01:31:34.860 from this day forward Tara, 1365 01:31:34.860 --> 01:31:37.080 you're going to be changed forever. 1366 01:31:37.080 --> 01:31:39.460 And God is going to show you how to heal 1367 01:31:39.460 --> 01:31:41.380 and become confident in who you are. 1368 01:31:41.380 --> 01:31:43.820 And you're going to start to see your value 1369 01:31:43.820 --> 01:31:44.940 in a whole different way. 1370 01:31:44.940 --> 01:31:46.320 I believe that in Jesus name, 1371 01:31:46.320 --> 01:31:48.220 I'm just speaking that over you. 1372 01:31:48.220 --> 01:31:51.220 I believe that you're here by divine appointment 1373 01:31:51.300 --> 01:31:54.940 and God has something really amazing in store for you. 1374 01:31:54.940 --> 01:31:59.040 And everything that used to be is no more. 1375 01:32:00.460 --> 01:32:01.300 It's no more. 1376 01:32:01.300 --> 01:32:02.220 It's over. 1377 01:32:02.220 --> 01:32:03.980 And God is rewriting your story. 1378 01:32:03.980 --> 01:32:07.100 And so I really believe that as you forgive yourself 1379 01:32:07.100 --> 01:32:09.700 and really lean into this process, 1380 01:32:09.700 --> 01:32:13.060 God's going to just transform the way you look at everything. 1381 01:32:13.060 --> 01:32:14.680 I really do. 1382 01:32:14.680 --> 01:32:15.760 Yeah. 1383 01:32:15.760 --> 01:32:16.940 Y'all it's going to be so good. 1384 01:32:16.940 --> 01:32:18.940 I'm going to go ahead and let Camilla, 1385 01:32:18.940 --> 01:32:20.300 if anybody needs to log off, 1386 01:32:20.300 --> 01:32:21.140 totally understand. 1387 01:32:21.140 --> 01:32:23.760 We're going to always end at 9.30. 1388 01:32:23.760 --> 01:32:24.780 So y'all know, 1389 01:32:24.780 --> 01:32:26.660 I try not to go longer than an hour and a half. 1390 01:32:26.660 --> 01:32:28.660 And I really am only supposed to do an hour and 15, 1391 01:32:28.660 --> 01:32:31.420 but I feel like it's super hard to get all this in 1392 01:32:31.420 --> 01:32:32.660 in an hour and 15 minutes. 1393 01:32:32.660 --> 01:32:34.000 I really do. 1394 01:32:34.000 --> 01:32:35.360 So Camilla will go, 1395 01:32:35.360 --> 01:32:38.020 and then I'm not going to be able to take any more tonight, 1396 01:32:38.020 --> 01:32:38.840 but y'all, 1397 01:32:38.840 --> 01:32:40.000 if you have something you want to share 1398 01:32:40.000 --> 01:32:41.520 or need additional coaching, 1399 01:32:41.520 --> 01:32:42.360 just so y'all know, 1400 01:32:42.360 --> 01:32:45.700 if there's something you want coaching feedback on 1401 01:32:45.700 --> 01:32:47.020 in your group, 1402 01:32:47.020 --> 01:32:49.860 you can do a post and we will coach you there. 1403 01:32:50.380 --> 01:32:51.200 So just so you know, 1404 01:32:51.200 --> 01:32:52.420 you guys can do that 100%. 1405 01:32:52.420 --> 01:32:55.740 So Camilla, go ahead and share. 1406 01:32:55.740 --> 01:32:56.580 Okay. 1407 01:32:56.580 --> 01:32:57.560 So yeah, go ahead. 1408 01:32:57.560 --> 01:32:59.500 It's interesting because both questions 1409 01:32:59.500 --> 01:33:00.460 that you asked tonight, 1410 01:33:00.460 --> 01:33:02.960 they both led me to the same answer, 1411 01:33:02.960 --> 01:33:03.800 you know, 1412 01:33:03.800 --> 01:33:08.340 and surrender and letting go of the anxiety of timing, 1413 01:33:08.340 --> 01:33:09.180 you know, 1414 01:33:09.180 --> 01:33:10.280 trusting God's timing. 1415 01:33:10.280 --> 01:33:13.080 That's something that really stresses me out. 1416 01:33:13.080 --> 01:33:14.660 You know, like I need to, 1417 01:33:14.660 --> 01:33:16.040 I feel like I need to be in control. 1418 01:33:16.040 --> 01:33:16.880 I feel like, 1419 01:33:16.880 --> 01:33:18.540 oh, if I at least knew like a timeframe, 1420 01:33:18.540 --> 01:33:19.380 you know, 1421 01:33:19.380 --> 01:33:20.200 like to look for, 1422 01:33:20.200 --> 01:33:21.040 for example, 1423 01:33:21.040 --> 01:33:21.880 in a year, 1424 01:33:21.880 --> 01:33:22.700 two, 1425 01:33:22.700 --> 01:33:23.540 30, 1426 01:33:23.540 --> 01:33:24.380 whatever, 1427 01:33:24.380 --> 01:33:25.200 you know, 1428 01:33:25.200 --> 01:33:26.040 I wouldn't feel more relieved, 1429 01:33:26.040 --> 01:33:27.940 but just that anxiety of like not knowing when, 1430 01:33:27.940 --> 01:33:28.780 you know, 1431 01:33:28.780 --> 01:33:31.620 like I really need to surrender that to God, 1432 01:33:31.620 --> 01:33:32.500 like that fear, 1433 01:33:32.500 --> 01:33:33.340 you know, 1434 01:33:33.340 --> 01:33:36.100 like I always constantly feel like I'm running out of time, 1435 01:33:36.100 --> 01:33:36.940 you know, 1436 01:33:36.940 --> 01:33:37.780 like, 1437 01:33:37.780 --> 01:33:38.600 oh, 1438 01:33:38.600 --> 01:33:39.440 I'm almost 40, 1439 01:33:39.440 --> 01:33:40.280 you know, 1440 01:33:40.280 --> 01:33:41.100 like I see my friends, 1441 01:33:41.100 --> 01:33:41.980 and you spoke about comparison today. 1442 01:33:41.980 --> 01:33:42.820 And I feel like, 1443 01:33:42.820 --> 01:33:43.640 oh my gosh, 1444 01:33:43.640 --> 01:33:44.480 I'm running out of time, 1445 01:33:44.480 --> 01:33:45.320 God, 1446 01:33:45.320 --> 01:33:46.140 you know, 1447 01:33:46.140 --> 01:33:46.980 like, 1448 01:33:46.980 --> 01:33:47.820 so that's like, 1449 01:33:48.700 --> 01:33:50.580 this thought that keeps coming to my mind 1450 01:33:50.580 --> 01:33:52.380 and brings anxiety. 1451 01:33:52.380 --> 01:33:53.260 Okay. 1452 01:33:53.260 --> 01:33:55.820 So Camilla or anyone else, 1453 01:33:55.820 --> 01:33:57.500 these are great examples of stuff 1454 01:33:57.500 --> 01:33:59.460 that should go on your Jesus cares board. 1455 01:33:59.460 --> 01:34:00.300 Okay. 1456 01:34:00.300 --> 01:34:03.340 So you can put on their anxiety, 1457 01:34:03.340 --> 01:34:05.140 fear of running out of time. 1458 01:34:05.140 --> 01:34:05.980 Okay. 1459 01:34:05.980 --> 01:34:07.760 Put those up on your G and just as you do it, 1460 01:34:07.760 --> 01:34:08.600 Jesus, 1461 01:34:08.600 --> 01:34:09.880 I cast these cares on you. 1462 01:34:09.880 --> 01:34:12.500 And I believe that you're going to supernaturally work 1463 01:34:12.500 --> 01:34:15.540 and heal any area of my life. 1464 01:34:15.540 --> 01:34:19.300 That's causing fear to happen 1465 01:34:19.300 --> 01:34:21.260 that then feeds into the anxiety. 1466 01:34:21.260 --> 01:34:22.180 Just so y'all know, 1467 01:34:22.180 --> 01:34:23.380 I say this a lot. 1468 01:34:23.380 --> 01:34:26.780 Anxiety is fueled by fear. 1469 01:34:26.780 --> 01:34:28.460 And what if statements? 1470 01:34:28.460 --> 01:34:30.100 Okay. 1471 01:34:30.100 --> 01:34:33.460 So if you can ask the Lord to reveal the fear 1472 01:34:33.460 --> 01:34:35.220 that you believe the lie, 1473 01:34:35.220 --> 01:34:36.060 the lie that, 1474 01:34:36.060 --> 01:34:36.880 okay, 1475 01:34:36.880 --> 01:34:38.460 so basically it starts with a lie, 1476 01:34:38.460 --> 01:34:41.820 the lie feeds the fear and the fear feeds anxiety. 1477 01:34:42.700 --> 01:34:43.700 It's kind of how it goes. 1478 01:34:43.700 --> 01:34:45.060 Okay. 1479 01:34:45.500 --> 01:34:48.140 So if you can ask the Lord to reveal the lie 1480 01:34:49.500 --> 01:34:50.860 that it started with, 1481 01:34:50.860 --> 01:34:51.700 okay. 1482 01:34:51.700 --> 01:34:54.780 So if it's the anxiety of trusting God's timing, 1483 01:34:54.780 --> 01:34:56.940 so somewhere along the way, 1484 01:34:56.940 --> 01:35:00.220 you probably partnered with the lie that. 1485 01:35:00.480 --> 01:35:06.960 God takes too long or some kind of, you know, God doesn't come through fast enough for me, 1486 01:35:06.960 --> 01:35:12.080 or, you know, I wait and I wait and I wait and I wait and nothing happens. You know, 1487 01:35:12.080 --> 01:35:17.680 it can sound a lot of different ways, but just ask the Lord to reveal to you what it sounds like, 1488 01:35:17.680 --> 01:35:22.400 what it feels like, so that you know, what is the lie that you actually partnered with 1489 01:35:22.400 --> 01:35:26.880 so that you can come out of agreement with that. And then partner with the truth that God 1490 01:35:27.600 --> 01:35:31.920 is never late. He's always right on time. And here's the other thing, the Lord, and I'm going 1491 01:35:31.920 --> 01:35:35.600 to close with this. I'm going to give you all one more activation, so don't leave us yet if you're 1492 01:35:35.600 --> 01:35:45.440 still here. For all of you, but also for Camilla, one of the ways that we defeat overwhelm, which 1493 01:35:45.440 --> 01:35:50.480 is what kind of you're talking about there, the fear of like, I'm running out of time and you're 1494 01:35:50.480 --> 01:35:58.000 feeling overwhelmed and it feeds all that anxiety is to take one day at a time. So every day I want 1495 01:35:58.000 --> 01:36:04.400 you to just ask the Lord, what's one thing I can do today to partner with your, your plan for my 1496 01:36:04.400 --> 01:36:09.680 life? What's one thing. So right now, hopefully it's heartwork. You're working on your heartwork 1497 01:36:09.680 --> 01:36:16.240 each day. What's one thing I can do today. And then every day forward saying this, asking God 1498 01:36:16.240 --> 01:36:22.480 the same thing, ladies, I know that sounds very simple, but so many times we forget that it truly 1499 01:36:22.480 --> 01:36:28.880 is one day at a time when we sit and wait, a lot of people think waiting is an inactive thing. It's 1500 01:36:28.880 --> 01:36:37.040 not, it's an active thing. So every day, as I was waiting on my spirit mate, I was walking 1501 01:36:38.000 --> 01:36:43.360 one day at a time, taking one step, taking one step, partnering with the next truth that God 1502 01:36:43.360 --> 01:36:49.280 revealed coming out of agreement with the lie that was revealed one day each day. Some days I 1503 01:36:49.280 --> 01:36:54.880 had multiple things that God would show me, but again, the key is for, for us to start somewhere 1504 01:36:54.880 --> 01:37:01.360 and doing one thing at least a day. And then as we do that and then do that again, as God shows, 1505 01:37:01.360 --> 01:37:07.760 it's going to create momentum. Okay. So that's how we start to get breakthrough and really start to 1506 01:37:07.760 --> 01:37:13.920 move forward in life. Okay. So partner with God. What is the one thing you want me to do today? 1507 01:37:14.480 --> 01:37:18.320 And for those of you that feel stuck in your heartwork, I hope that you're asking God, 1508 01:37:18.320 --> 01:37:24.080 the same thing, God, what's the one heartwork program thing I need to do today. Cause y'all, 1509 01:37:24.080 --> 01:37:28.400 we don't want you gets camping out in phase one and heartwork. I have some people in the program 1510 01:37:28.400 --> 01:37:32.720 right now, you know, and some that came back, you know, they got distracted or life happened. 1511 01:37:32.720 --> 01:37:37.200 That's different, but some people that have been here for many, many, many, many months, 1512 01:37:37.200 --> 01:37:41.440 and I have compassion for that. We understand, but we want you to move forward. 1513 01:37:42.560 --> 01:37:46.880 Okay. We don't want people to get stuck. All right, here's your other activation. So activation 1514 01:37:46.880 --> 01:37:51.120 number one was the never will I ever remember the never will I ever list. So what you guys 1515 01:37:51.120 --> 01:37:54.160 are going to do with that. You're not going to just write your list on your paper. 1516 01:37:55.200 --> 01:37:58.400 You're going to go in the group and you're going to post it in the group. And you're going to share 1517 01:37:58.400 --> 01:38:02.800 it with your sisters and with the coaches, because we're going to coach you on those. Never will I 1518 01:38:02.800 --> 01:38:06.880 ever as well. Some of you all will write things on there that we're going to have to Holy spirit 1519 01:38:06.880 --> 01:38:13.280 nudge you to let go of as well. Even things you don't realize. Yes. Yeah. You're still moving 1520 01:38:13.280 --> 01:38:17.120 forward, sweetie. I love it. You're showing up, keep moving forward. I have some other people, 1521 01:38:17.120 --> 01:38:21.360 they had some health things come up, you know, all kinds of things. So we're so proud of all 1522 01:38:21.360 --> 01:38:25.280 of you who still are moving forward. All right. Activation number two, 1523 01:38:26.480 --> 01:38:32.560 pray about what God wants you to let go of this week. And then I want you to create a post about 1524 01:38:32.560 --> 01:38:38.640 it. I want you to take a photo of the thing you're letting go of. Okay. This can look a lot 1525 01:38:38.640 --> 01:38:45.600 of different ways. It might be a person. It might be a thing. Um, I had, um, someone share it in 1526 01:38:45.600 --> 01:38:51.680 another group. Um, and also if you guys did not hear, uh, supernatural Saturday as well, Jackie 1527 01:38:51.680 --> 01:38:57.280 gave a word about letting go. It's very timely. I, I, she did not know I was going to be doing 1528 01:38:57.280 --> 01:39:01.680 this session tonight and I didn't know she was going to do a message on letting go. So Holy 1529 01:39:01.680 --> 01:39:06.480 spirits all up in that. I believe that'll be a big blessing to you as well. That's also in your 1530 01:39:06.480 --> 01:39:12.960 replays. But what's, um, the one lady in another group posted, she was cleaning out her garage 1531 01:39:12.960 --> 01:39:18.080 and came across divorce paperwork. She didn't even realize she still had it. It's not stuff she 1532 01:39:18.080 --> 01:39:22.400 needs to hang on to. It's stuff that she can let go of. And God nudged her, get rid of that. 1533 01:39:22.400 --> 01:39:26.320 Um, you all, when I went through the letting go process, I've done it several times that God has 1534 01:39:26.320 --> 01:39:32.880 led me to let go of clothes, uh, that reminded me of somebody negative from the past, my ex-husband 1535 01:39:32.880 --> 01:39:37.520 just even recently when we moved from Indiana to Florida, there were some things I just, I don't 1536 01:39:37.520 --> 01:39:42.160 even know why I still had them. I really wasn't even wearing them, but as I was packing it, I got 1537 01:39:42.160 --> 01:39:47.120 this ucky feeling. And I was like, but it's just, you know, it's just a, I hate to get rid of it. 1538 01:39:47.120 --> 01:39:53.600 It's a night, you know, like nothing major. Um, I didn't, I didn't even like really think anything 1539 01:39:53.600 --> 01:39:58.880 of it until the Holy spirit was like, you need to just get rid of that. Cause every, he literally, 1540 01:39:58.880 --> 01:39:59.840 this is how he talked to me. 1541 01:40:00.000 --> 01:40:03.000 Every time you look at that, you feel something negative. 1542 01:40:03.000 --> 01:40:04.480 Why are you keeping it? 1543 01:40:05.600 --> 01:40:07.480 Holy Spirit and I just talk like friends, y'all. 1544 01:40:07.480 --> 01:40:10.260 This is the conversations we have together. 1545 01:40:10.260 --> 01:40:11.960 So sometimes it's stuff like that. 1546 01:40:11.960 --> 01:40:14.400 The other example I wanna give you 1547 01:40:14.400 --> 01:40:18.060 is I came across a box of old love notes 1548 01:40:18.060 --> 01:40:21.120 that I had from a prior boyfriend. 1549 01:40:21.120 --> 01:40:23.280 This is a couple of years ago now. 1550 01:40:23.280 --> 01:40:25.160 And God asked me to get rid of that. 1551 01:40:25.160 --> 01:40:27.600 I also have gone through my phone 1552 01:40:27.600 --> 01:40:29.200 and asked the Lord to show me stuff 1553 01:40:29.200 --> 01:40:30.960 I need to get rid of in my phone. 1554 01:40:30.960 --> 01:40:32.700 Pictures of old stuff. 1555 01:40:32.700 --> 01:40:36.880 I had proof of bad things that my ex did 1556 01:40:36.880 --> 01:40:39.220 to prove all the people he was cheating on me with, 1557 01:40:39.220 --> 01:40:40.600 all that kind of stuff. 1558 01:40:40.600 --> 01:40:42.760 Y'all, we gotta let go. 1559 01:40:42.760 --> 01:40:46.280 Let go, let go, let go, okay? 1560 01:40:46.280 --> 01:40:49.120 If you are in some kind of court case 1561 01:40:49.120 --> 01:40:52.080 and you need stuff for that, that is different. 1562 01:40:52.080 --> 01:40:54.480 Follow the wise counsel of your lawyer 1563 01:40:54.480 --> 01:40:57.540 or attorney or whatever, okay? 1564 01:40:57.540 --> 01:40:59.100 All right, I'm gonna pray us out, 1565 01:40:59.860 --> 01:41:01.180 but post in the group, let's see those. 1566 01:41:01.180 --> 01:41:02.280 You guys, if you go in the group, 1567 01:41:02.280 --> 01:41:03.300 you're gonna see some ladies 1568 01:41:03.300 --> 01:41:04.620 that were in the afternoon session 1569 01:41:04.620 --> 01:41:05.660 that are already posting. 1570 01:41:05.660 --> 01:41:07.340 I think it will encourage you. 1571 01:41:07.340 --> 01:41:08.300 I was pretty excited. 1572 01:41:08.300 --> 01:41:10.420 I saw it right before I hopped on tonight. 1573 01:41:10.420 --> 01:41:12.200 That God is doing some stuff. 1574 01:41:12.200 --> 01:41:14.220 Become a part of this movement 1575 01:41:14.220 --> 01:41:16.180 and what God is doing in this day and time 1576 01:41:16.180 --> 01:41:18.660 in creating kingdom, family, and marriage. 1577 01:41:18.660 --> 01:41:21.060 Father, we thank you for freedom. 1578 01:41:21.060 --> 01:41:25.460 We thank you that you are, yes, Lord, 1579 01:41:25.460 --> 01:41:28.860 opening prison doors and you're setting the captives free. 1580 01:41:29.620 --> 01:41:30.940 I thank you that you're starting with us. 1581 01:41:30.940 --> 01:41:32.660 I thank you that we are walking 1582 01:41:32.660 --> 01:41:34.260 into the fullness of your plans 1583 01:41:34.260 --> 01:41:36.380 and purpose for us every single day. 1584 01:41:36.380 --> 01:41:38.820 God, I thank you that we are your daughters, 1585 01:41:38.820 --> 01:41:41.180 that we are beloved, that we are, 1586 01:41:41.180 --> 01:41:42.780 our worth is far above rubies. 1587 01:41:42.780 --> 01:41:43.860 I thank you that you'll help us 1588 01:41:43.860 --> 01:41:46.540 to truly believe that in our core, 1589 01:41:46.540 --> 01:41:49.700 that God, we will become more secure in your love, 1590 01:41:49.700 --> 01:41:52.580 that we will become more confident in you every day. 1591 01:41:52.580 --> 01:41:54.420 Help us to know you more, Father, 1592 01:41:54.420 --> 01:41:58.220 as love, as good, as faithful, as kind. 1593 01:41:58.660 --> 01:42:01.540 I ask you, God, to heal the depths of our souls 1594 01:42:01.540 --> 01:42:03.540 and help us to hear what your spirit is saying 1595 01:42:03.540 --> 01:42:05.740 a little bit more clearly every day. 1596 01:42:05.740 --> 01:42:08.220 We thank you for your hedge of protection around us. 1597 01:42:08.220 --> 01:42:09.420 And I thank you that you'll help us 1598 01:42:09.420 --> 01:42:11.780 to think on things that are true, noble, 1599 01:42:11.780 --> 01:42:13.260 lovely, and of good report, 1600 01:42:13.260 --> 01:42:15.540 things that are above only and not beneath. 1601 01:42:15.540 --> 01:42:17.540 In Jesus' name, amen. 1602 01:42:17.540 --> 01:42:18.820 God bless you all. 1603 01:42:18.820 --> 01:42:20.100 I'll see you all in the group 1604 01:42:20.100 --> 01:42:22.860 and probably around on prayer 1605 01:42:22.860 --> 01:42:24.640 and all kinds of stuff this week. 1606 01:42:24.640 --> 01:42:26.780 Have a great week, everyone. 1607 01:42:26.780 --> 01:42:27.620 Bye. 1608 01:42:28.220 --> 01:42:29.220 Bye.