WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:07.160 All right, everyone, welcome to tonight's Spirit Mate Match event. 2 00:00:07.160 --> 00:00:10.760 I'm so excited about what we're going to be doing with our new technology, and I want 3 00:00:10.760 --> 00:00:11.760 to explain some of that. 4 00:00:11.760 --> 00:00:15.240 A lot of you have had questions, and so this is where I'm going to answer some of your 5 00:00:15.240 --> 00:00:16.239 questions. 6 00:00:16.239 --> 00:00:18.680 Please remember, do not email us about Spirit Mate Match. 7 00:00:18.680 --> 00:00:22.220 I want you to go ahead and post in the comments, are you supposed to email us about Spirit 8 00:00:22.220 --> 00:00:23.220 Mate Match? 9 00:00:23.220 --> 00:00:24.220 Yes or no? 10 00:00:24.220 --> 00:00:29.240 Go ahead and put that in the comments so everyone kind of gets on the same page here. 11 00:00:29.240 --> 00:00:34.760 You guys, we have a very small team, a very small team, and that means that we do not 12 00:00:34.760 --> 00:00:40.440 have the bandwidth to field 800 emails about Spirit Mate Match, and that is why we have 13 00:00:40.440 --> 00:00:42.400 a post in all of your groups. 14 00:00:42.400 --> 00:00:48.200 Every group, whether you're in phase two, three, or men's group, has a post that is 15 00:00:48.200 --> 00:00:52.000 pinned to the top of your group that says, what are your questions about Spirit Mate 16 00:00:52.000 --> 00:00:53.000 Match? 17 00:00:53.000 --> 00:00:57.220 We will help you with tech issues in that chat, in those comments. 18 00:00:57.220 --> 00:01:02.260 We will explain deeper to you what it is that we're up to with Spirit Mate Match, all 19 00:01:02.260 --> 00:01:07.260 the things that you ever wanted to know about our new platform, our new matchmaking platform, 20 00:01:07.260 --> 00:01:08.660 we will answer there. 21 00:01:08.660 --> 00:01:13.620 And then on lives like this, I will get on and I will explain things even deeper. 22 00:01:13.620 --> 00:01:18.380 So we have this technology curated for us, you guys, and it is amazing. 23 00:01:18.380 --> 00:01:20.340 I have gone down the rabbit hole with it today. 24 00:01:20.340 --> 00:01:26.440 I have lost the entire day in the Spirit Mate Match universe, okay? 25 00:01:26.440 --> 00:01:28.240 It's amazing in there. 26 00:01:28.240 --> 00:01:33.440 I just started randomly looking at all of your profiles and looking at your matches 27 00:01:33.440 --> 00:01:35.040 and what is your top match. 28 00:01:35.040 --> 00:01:40.560 I have the ability to look at your top match and what the system, what the algorithm, what 29 00:01:40.560 --> 00:01:46.880 the computer, what the AI says is the number one person in our database that you have the 30 00:01:46.880 --> 00:01:51.040 most in common with, that your answers line up the most with. 31 00:01:51.040 --> 00:01:55.720 And you know what I love about what we're going to do tonight is that, first of all, 32 00:01:55.720 --> 00:02:00.920 raise your hand, whether it's your little yellow avatar hand, or you can just put yes 33 00:02:00.920 --> 00:02:02.260 in the comments. 34 00:02:02.260 --> 00:02:06.720 If you're exhausted with technology, like dating apps, you're exhausted with dating 35 00:02:06.720 --> 00:02:13.320 apps, exhausted with them, tired of them, done with them, in fact, nothing good really 36 00:02:13.320 --> 00:02:19.000 for you ever happens on them because it's just a swipe fest and there's never any connection. 37 00:02:19.000 --> 00:02:20.000 Okay. 38 00:02:20.000 --> 00:02:23.460 So what we're trying to do here and what we've always been doing and what we will always 39 00:02:23.460 --> 00:02:29.020 continue to do in greater and greater ways is we want to harness the power of technology. 40 00:02:29.020 --> 00:02:31.740 Guys, that was almost unanimous if you didn't notice. 41 00:02:31.740 --> 00:02:35.100 207 of you on, I think all of you raised your hand. 42 00:02:35.100 --> 00:02:39.060 So what we're trying to do within our communities, and we've been doing it and we're going to 43 00:02:39.060 --> 00:02:47.300 continue to do it, is we want to use technology to do what we call community-based matchmaking. 44 00:02:47.300 --> 00:02:52.700 We want to help people to meet people within their circles of influence and within community. 45 00:02:52.940 --> 00:02:53.940 Okay. 46 00:02:53.940 --> 00:02:55.700 And so that is what's exciting. 47 00:02:55.700 --> 00:02:59.780 And this tool is just going to help us do that even faster. 48 00:02:59.780 --> 00:03:03.540 So I wrote down some of the ways, first of all, a lot of you, believe it or not, have 49 00:03:03.540 --> 00:03:04.980 not filled out your profile. 50 00:03:04.980 --> 00:03:06.900 I don't know what's wrong with you. 51 00:03:06.900 --> 00:03:08.180 All right. 52 00:03:08.180 --> 00:03:11.180 I don't know if your computer's broken. 53 00:03:11.180 --> 00:03:12.180 I don't know. 54 00:03:12.180 --> 00:03:15.620 I don't know if you're just scared and you just don't want to fill it out or you started 55 00:03:15.620 --> 00:03:23.180 filling it out and then you stopped, or if you have some computer issues as far as you're 56 00:03:23.180 --> 00:03:25.500 not tech savvy. 57 00:03:25.500 --> 00:03:27.700 I'm not the most tech savvy person in the world. 58 00:03:27.700 --> 00:03:31.460 That's why I have an IT department named David Dorman. 59 00:03:31.460 --> 00:03:34.660 He just seems to know things about things, and I don't even know how. 60 00:03:34.660 --> 00:03:35.740 Did he go to Zoom school? 61 00:03:35.740 --> 00:03:36.740 Was there a Zoom school? 62 00:03:36.740 --> 00:03:38.220 Did I miss that? 63 00:03:39.220 --> 00:03:45.780 I know that there definitely was a Google suite school. 64 00:03:45.780 --> 00:03:47.660 I didn't go to any of those schools. 65 00:03:47.660 --> 00:03:48.660 I don't. 66 00:03:48.660 --> 00:03:54.620 I've always had someone working with me that was the IT person, so to speak, right? 67 00:03:54.620 --> 00:03:55.620 Okay. 68 00:03:55.620 --> 00:03:56.620 So it's all right. 69 00:03:56.620 --> 00:03:57.620 We will help you. 70 00:03:57.620 --> 00:04:01.620 Just post in the comments of that post and say, hey, I filled it out, but then I don't 71 00:04:01.620 --> 00:04:04.260 know what happened. 72 00:04:04.260 --> 00:04:06.460 Because this is what should have happened. 73 00:04:06.460 --> 00:04:09.260 You fill it out, and you're like, well, Jackie, where is it? 74 00:04:09.260 --> 00:04:12.820 It's in the resource tab of your group. 75 00:04:12.820 --> 00:04:17.459 So if you're in phase two on the app in the resource tab, there's a little word that says 76 00:04:17.459 --> 00:04:18.459 resource. 77 00:04:18.459 --> 00:04:26.700 There's curriculum, community, events, replays, resource, and you just click on that little 78 00:04:26.700 --> 00:04:33.020 tab and then there's a bunch of resources in there, and one of those resources is your 79 00:04:33.020 --> 00:04:35.820 spirit mate match profile. 80 00:04:36.180 --> 00:04:39.980 So click on that link in the resource tab, and then it'll take you over to a different 81 00:04:39.980 --> 00:04:41.180 place where you can fill it out. 82 00:04:41.180 --> 00:04:43.940 You guys do it from a desktop. 83 00:04:43.940 --> 00:04:44.940 Do it from a desktop. 84 00:04:44.940 --> 00:04:49.820 If you have to copy and paste that link to yourself and then open it up on your desktop, 85 00:04:49.820 --> 00:04:50.820 cool. 86 00:04:50.820 --> 00:04:51.820 Do it on a desktop. 87 00:04:51.820 --> 00:04:52.820 Why? 88 00:04:52.820 --> 00:04:53.820 Because it's just easier. 89 00:04:53.820 --> 00:04:55.860 It lets it be bigger for you. 90 00:04:55.860 --> 00:04:57.460 You can see the fields better. 91 00:04:57.460 --> 00:04:58.740 It's just better that way. 92 00:04:58.740 --> 00:04:59.700 It's just a pro tip. 93 00:05:00.000 --> 00:05:06.880 Do it on your laptop, on your desktop computer, and then after you hit submit, it's going to have 94 00:05:06.880 --> 00:05:11.600 a confirmation page, but then it's going to send you an email. Part of the information that it 95 00:05:11.600 --> 00:05:16.640 asks you is your email address. Whatever email, and please you guys don't put typos in there. 96 00:05:16.640 --> 00:05:20.320 This is how a lot of you don't end up getting the email because you're typing so fast, 97 00:05:20.320 --> 00:05:24.480 and unfortunately it's not going to check your mistake. It's not going to make you confirm your 98 00:05:24.480 --> 00:05:34.160 email. That is unfortunate because a lot of us, without that confirm your email situation, 99 00:05:34.800 --> 00:05:40.000 we do accidentally type in the wrong thing. Check and double check that email because 100 00:05:40.640 --> 00:05:45.760 if you don't get an email sent to you from the email that you put in there, 101 00:05:45.760 --> 00:05:51.760 that could be the problem. If you comment in that tagged post in your group, 102 00:05:51.760 --> 00:05:55.040 hey, I didn't get an email. We'll figure it out for you. We'll troubleshoot it for you, 103 00:05:55.600 --> 00:06:00.000 but if you did put your email incorrectly, you should get an email. Check your spam filter. 104 00:06:01.200 --> 00:06:07.760 Gmail might have spammed us, said we were spam, and put us in that spam filter. Go dig us out of 105 00:06:07.760 --> 00:06:11.760 the spam filter. Mark us safe because you're going to want to get emails from SpiritMate Match, 106 00:06:12.480 --> 00:06:18.640 and then what you can do with that confirmation email that you got is you can log back in to 107 00:06:18.640 --> 00:06:25.280 your profile and you can upload a profile picture. You guys, that profile picture is for me 108 00:06:26.320 --> 00:06:31.440 and my matchmaking team. The other people, the other singles, as of right now, 109 00:06:32.800 --> 00:06:39.120 do not see your picture. Only we see it, and that reminds us of who you are. We're like, 110 00:06:39.120 --> 00:06:45.680 oh yeah, I saw that person in class. Oh yeah, it's for us to make a connection with who you are. 111 00:06:46.400 --> 00:06:49.840 Make sure that you upload a profile picture. Right now, it's only going to let you upload one, 112 00:06:49.840 --> 00:06:55.280 so upload your best one. Remember, I'm the one that's looking at it or someone on my matchmaking 113 00:06:55.280 --> 00:07:00.960 team, and so do not have your sunglasses on. I want to see your eyes. I want to see your pearly 114 00:07:00.960 --> 00:07:07.680 whites or off-whites. Let's see them. Smile. Give me a picture that you're smiling in, 115 00:07:07.680 --> 00:07:12.640 that you're not grumpy and grouchy in. I want to see what you're like in that picture. 116 00:07:13.040 --> 00:07:17.760 Okay? It's okay for that picture to have a dog in it or for you to be doing something active. As 117 00:07:17.760 --> 00:07:22.880 long as I can see your face, really important. All right? If it could be your whole upper body, 118 00:07:22.880 --> 00:07:27.600 if it could be a full-length picture, that's fine. That's cool, but at least don't just give me a 119 00:07:27.600 --> 00:07:33.680 real close-up of your head. All right? Let me just see you in a normal pose in the picture, 120 00:07:33.680 --> 00:07:38.400 and then you guys, when you're filling out that profile originally, when you're filling it out, 121 00:07:38.400 --> 00:07:43.280 be honest in it. Don't try to up your chances of meeting someone by saying something that you 122 00:07:43.280 --> 00:07:47.760 don't mean. You're like, what do you mean, Jackie? Well, for instance, it's going to ask 123 00:07:47.760 --> 00:07:52.720 your preferences on distance with someone that you might meet, and if you say that you're open 124 00:07:52.720 --> 00:07:58.880 to relocating but you're really not, then you're wasting my time. You're wasting my time. So if 125 00:07:58.880 --> 00:08:05.840 you're not open to relocating or if you have a huge list of things that would have to happen, 126 00:08:05.840 --> 00:08:10.640 including an angelic visitation in order to relocate, then just put that you're not open 127 00:08:10.640 --> 00:08:18.000 to relocating. Okay? Because I don't got time for that. I don't. And I maybe go to make an 128 00:08:18.000 --> 00:08:24.160 introduction, and the person finds out in the first conversation with you that you're embedded 129 00:08:24.160 --> 00:08:28.080 where you live and that you don't want to relocate. Well, then you lied on your spirit 130 00:08:28.080 --> 00:08:34.799 mate match application. Okay? So please don't do that. All right? Don't lie about your height. 131 00:08:34.799 --> 00:08:41.679 Don't lie about your weight, your body type. Don't get creative with any of that stuff. Okay? 132 00:08:42.240 --> 00:08:48.560 Just tell the truth. I believe that there's a match for everyone. Call me crazy. Many people 133 00:08:48.560 --> 00:08:54.240 have, but I believe that there is a match for everyone. So just be you, boo. Just do it. 134 00:08:55.120 --> 00:08:59.040 Just do it. And we'll see what happens. So how am I going to use this information? Well, 135 00:08:59.040 --> 00:09:03.120 first of all, I need a lot more information. You think with our huge community that we would 136 00:09:03.120 --> 00:09:08.640 have a lot more women signing up for their profiles. We've got a lot of guys signing up 137 00:09:08.640 --> 00:09:17.120 for their profiles. In fact, I'm really, I'm very, I'm pleasantly pleased. I don't want to say 138 00:09:17.120 --> 00:09:22.480 surprised because I'm not surprised. God told us to do this and it's working. A lot of men have 139 00:09:22.480 --> 00:09:26.960 signed up as far as have filled out their profiles. Ladies, we need more of you to fill out your 140 00:09:26.960 --> 00:09:32.880 profiles. A lot of you haven't. Some of you have, but compared to the number of women that are in 141 00:09:32.880 --> 00:09:38.000 this community and the number of profiles that we have filled out there's a lot of you missing. 142 00:09:38.000 --> 00:09:43.040 Now there is a huge number of people that are already in relationship in our community. 143 00:09:44.000 --> 00:09:48.960 That's true. There is. I know that you don't see them a lot because they probably don't come to 144 00:09:48.960 --> 00:09:52.800 lives very much anymore. Maybe they come to prayer, but they don't come to that many lives. 145 00:09:52.800 --> 00:09:58.400 Why? Because they're in relationship. They only have a limited amount of bandwidth and they're 146 00:09:58.400 --> 00:09:59.840 using it on getting to know the. 147 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:01.060 person that they're dating. 148 00:10:01.060 --> 00:10:05.160 And so there are a lot of people in some level of 149 00:10:06.840 --> 00:10:08.520 relationship past two. 150 00:10:08.520 --> 00:10:10.880 So two, two and a half, two and three quarters, 151 00:10:10.880 --> 00:10:13.000 three, four. 152 00:10:13.000 --> 00:10:15.880 Some people getting married really, really soon. 153 00:10:15.880 --> 00:10:19.120 So excited that I just got a message today. 154 00:10:19.120 --> 00:10:20.840 Jackie, we're getting married in 21 days. 155 00:10:20.840 --> 00:10:22.080 I'm like, come on. 156 00:10:23.480 --> 00:10:24.800 It's just exciting. 157 00:10:24.800 --> 00:10:26.600 So, so exciting. 158 00:10:26.600 --> 00:10:29.920 And that person specifically came into our community 159 00:10:29.920 --> 00:10:34.400 with not an option on the horizon, 160 00:10:35.320 --> 00:10:37.280 not an option on the horizon, okay? 161 00:10:37.280 --> 00:10:40.800 So if you've been feeling really discouraged, 162 00:10:40.800 --> 00:10:43.640 and in fact, someone was honest enough to admit 163 00:10:43.640 --> 00:10:46.240 that other people's success in this program 164 00:10:46.240 --> 00:10:48.600 actually makes them sad. 165 00:10:48.600 --> 00:10:53.360 You guys gotta do some heart work, gotta do a heart check. 166 00:10:53.360 --> 00:10:55.960 Other people's success should not make you sad. 167 00:10:57.040 --> 00:10:58.640 It shouldn't. 168 00:10:58.640 --> 00:11:01.800 It should make you, it should increase your faith 169 00:11:01.800 --> 00:11:04.440 that if it can happen for them, it can happen for you. 170 00:11:04.440 --> 00:11:06.080 And so if it makes you sad, 171 00:11:06.080 --> 00:11:09.240 that means somehow you think that that person 172 00:11:09.240 --> 00:11:10.600 has something that you don't. 173 00:11:10.600 --> 00:11:15.600 They have some kind of upper hand, right? 174 00:11:15.800 --> 00:11:17.440 They have some sort of leverage. 175 00:11:17.440 --> 00:11:19.440 They have something that you don't have 176 00:11:19.440 --> 00:11:20.900 and that you can't get. 177 00:11:20.900 --> 00:11:23.260 And so let's dig into that idea. 178 00:11:23.260 --> 00:11:24.200 That's very important. 179 00:11:24.200 --> 00:11:25.600 Let's dig into that idea 180 00:11:25.600 --> 00:11:27.760 because I want you to celebrate each other. 181 00:11:27.760 --> 00:11:30.240 It's important for you to celebrate each other. 182 00:11:30.240 --> 00:11:32.960 We have some people that have been in here for a long time, 183 00:11:32.960 --> 00:11:35.560 just all of a sudden getting into 184 00:11:35.560 --> 00:11:37.400 really serious relationships and getting married. 185 00:11:37.400 --> 00:11:39.440 And so I'm so excited for them. 186 00:11:39.440 --> 00:11:41.840 They didn't give up, they did the work. 187 00:11:41.840 --> 00:11:43.400 There were some other things in their lives 188 00:11:43.400 --> 00:11:45.140 that needed to get straightened out with family, 189 00:11:45.140 --> 00:11:46.560 with their children. 190 00:11:46.560 --> 00:11:48.080 For those of you that are single parents, 191 00:11:48.080 --> 00:11:49.520 sometimes it's not that you're not ready, 192 00:11:49.520 --> 00:11:51.240 it's that your kids are not ready. 193 00:11:52.200 --> 00:11:54.200 You want them to be ready, you think they're ready, 194 00:11:54.200 --> 00:11:57.520 but God knows your children's hearts and they're not ready. 195 00:11:58.280 --> 00:11:59.840 And so it's important for you to learn 196 00:11:59.840 --> 00:12:01.100 how to focus on your children 197 00:12:01.100 --> 00:12:03.960 and on being a supportive and good parent 198 00:12:03.960 --> 00:12:05.640 and leave the matchmaking to God. 199 00:12:05.640 --> 00:12:07.520 So if you're chasing after the opposite sex 200 00:12:07.520 --> 00:12:08.900 and your kids are falling through the cracks, 201 00:12:08.900 --> 00:12:09.800 then guess what? 202 00:12:09.800 --> 00:12:13.160 That's not gonna be a match made in heaven. 203 00:12:13.160 --> 00:12:15.960 And so we gotta make sure that we're focusing 204 00:12:15.960 --> 00:12:18.760 on what's important and trusting God 205 00:12:18.760 --> 00:12:21.860 to give us what we need in the right timing. 206 00:12:21.860 --> 00:12:23.460 Amen? 207 00:12:23.460 --> 00:12:24.600 Amen. 208 00:12:24.600 --> 00:12:26.860 Okay, guys, we're gonna have fun tonight. 209 00:12:26.860 --> 00:12:29.100 We have a lot going on. 210 00:12:29.100 --> 00:12:32.300 All right, so if you see a spirit match event 211 00:12:32.300 --> 00:12:34.480 on your calendar, what can you expect? 212 00:12:34.480 --> 00:12:36.200 You can expect things like the dating game 213 00:12:36.200 --> 00:12:37.900 that we're gonna play tonight. 214 00:12:37.900 --> 00:12:39.860 You can expect things like maybe a shuffle. 215 00:12:39.860 --> 00:12:41.020 What's a shuffle? 216 00:12:41.020 --> 00:12:44.180 Well, remember how I said we're exhausted by dating apps? 217 00:12:44.180 --> 00:12:45.460 Well, part of the reason that we're exhausted 218 00:12:45.460 --> 00:12:47.460 by dating apps is because it's just you 219 00:12:47.460 --> 00:12:49.200 and one other person and you have to figure out 220 00:12:49.200 --> 00:12:51.220 whether or not you choose them or if they choose you 221 00:12:51.220 --> 00:12:52.860 or if you're even gonna get together. 222 00:12:52.860 --> 00:12:54.140 And then a lot of times, 223 00:12:54.140 --> 00:12:56.220 just falls off the conversation. 224 00:12:56.220 --> 00:12:58.540 We all would rather meet someone 225 00:12:58.540 --> 00:13:02.900 in some sort of environment where there's already 226 00:13:02.900 --> 00:13:07.900 the impetus or the catalyst for conversation, right? 227 00:13:08.180 --> 00:13:11.300 For fun, to see that person's personality. 228 00:13:11.300 --> 00:13:13.260 And so what we're gonna do in our shuffles, 229 00:13:13.260 --> 00:13:14.400 kind of just, all right, 230 00:13:14.400 --> 00:13:16.020 you're allowed to have a guilty pleasure. 231 00:13:16.020 --> 00:13:18.220 Now, back when The Bachelor first came on 232 00:13:18.220 --> 00:13:21.180 20-something years ago, it was not racy like it is now. 233 00:13:22.260 --> 00:13:23.660 It was much different. 234 00:13:23.660 --> 00:13:25.340 I was a younger woman. 235 00:13:25.380 --> 00:13:26.620 I was in my twenties 236 00:13:27.740 --> 00:13:30.100 and I snuck into the computer room to watch it 237 00:13:30.100 --> 00:13:31.780 because it was fascinating to me. 238 00:13:31.780 --> 00:13:33.940 It's fascinating to watch all these people, 239 00:13:33.940 --> 00:13:35.540 kind of like sports for women. 240 00:13:35.540 --> 00:13:36.820 Guys, you go watch your football. 241 00:13:36.820 --> 00:13:38.820 Ladies, you probably go watch your football. 242 00:13:38.820 --> 00:13:41.340 A lot of women watch these types of sports 243 00:13:41.340 --> 00:13:46.340 where they watch someone competing for a date or love. 244 00:13:46.460 --> 00:13:48.140 And guys, we know that it's not love 245 00:13:48.140 --> 00:13:49.860 because of all The Bachelor seasons, 246 00:13:49.860 --> 00:13:52.300 and there's been 20 plus seasons of them. 247 00:13:52.300 --> 00:13:54.180 I think 40 seasons of them. 248 00:13:54.180 --> 00:13:55.620 I think only two bachelors 249 00:13:55.620 --> 00:13:57.180 actually got married and stayed married. 250 00:13:57.180 --> 00:14:00.140 Sean got married and stayed married and somebody else. 251 00:14:00.140 --> 00:14:01.100 But The Bachelorettes, 252 00:14:01.100 --> 00:14:03.140 when it's their turn to be the main person, 253 00:14:03.140 --> 00:14:05.540 they get married a lot quicker and a lot, 254 00:14:05.540 --> 00:14:07.020 that lasts a lot longer. 255 00:14:07.020 --> 00:14:08.740 So we know that it doesn't really work, 256 00:14:08.740 --> 00:14:10.460 but that is not why I told the story. 257 00:14:10.460 --> 00:14:12.700 Why I told the story is, is that when they do the group 258 00:14:12.700 --> 00:14:14.700 dates, especially on The Modern Bachelor, 259 00:14:14.700 --> 00:14:15.940 which I don't watch anymore, 260 00:14:15.940 --> 00:14:17.340 because I think it's just bleh. 261 00:14:17.340 --> 00:14:20.260 Now, if you watch it, I'm not trying to shame you, 262 00:14:20.260 --> 00:14:22.460 but they do something where, you know, 263 00:14:22.460 --> 00:14:24.100 maybe there's a one-on-one date over here, 264 00:14:24.820 --> 00:14:25.940 maybe there's a group date over here. 265 00:14:25.940 --> 00:14:27.340 Maybe there's a, you know, 266 00:14:27.340 --> 00:14:29.340 a group date of just girls or guys over here, 267 00:14:29.340 --> 00:14:30.820 getting to know each other within community. 268 00:14:30.820 --> 00:14:34.500 And then they're trading off with getting to know 269 00:14:34.500 --> 00:14:36.660 the other guys or girls in the group. 270 00:14:36.660 --> 00:14:41.300 I want to do that both in person and through technology. 271 00:14:42.260 --> 00:14:45.100 So you might be invited to a shuffle 272 00:14:45.100 --> 00:14:49.380 where you're in a breakout room with three guys 273 00:14:49.380 --> 00:14:51.340 and four or five girls, 274 00:14:51.340 --> 00:14:55.740 and you have no idea which people in that group 275 00:14:55.740 --> 00:14:58.420 the algorithm said that you match with. 276 00:14:58.420 --> 00:14:59.380 You don't know. 277 00:15:00.000 --> 00:15:04.600 gonna tell you, because that way it takes the pressure off. 278 00:15:04.600 --> 00:15:07.180 And you get to just know people and get to know people 279 00:15:07.180 --> 00:15:09.100 and see if you're clicking with anyone. 280 00:15:09.100 --> 00:15:11.160 We're also gonna do these things in person. 281 00:15:11.160 --> 00:15:14.500 So please be watching your single cities for updates 282 00:15:14.500 --> 00:15:17.780 about in-person shuffles and other types of events 283 00:15:17.780 --> 00:15:22.620 where we're using our technology in order to curate events. 284 00:15:22.620 --> 00:15:26.580 And also be watching your groups for updates 285 00:15:26.640 --> 00:15:30.080 about what we're gonna be doing live online, okay? 286 00:15:30.080 --> 00:15:30.920 I know, super fun. 287 00:15:30.920 --> 00:15:31.740 I'm so excited. 288 00:15:31.740 --> 00:15:33.680 You guys, I had so much fun today 289 00:15:33.680 --> 00:15:35.480 going through profiles and doing things. 290 00:15:35.480 --> 00:15:40.300 What else are we gonna use the technology for right now? 291 00:15:40.300 --> 00:15:41.760 Guys, there may come a day in time 292 00:15:41.760 --> 00:15:43.400 when I'm gonna allow you to go ahead 293 00:15:43.400 --> 00:15:44.840 and look at other people's profiles, 294 00:15:44.840 --> 00:15:46.600 but I don't wanna run this like a dating app. 295 00:15:46.600 --> 00:15:48.800 Does it have the capability to be run like that? 296 00:15:48.800 --> 00:15:49.960 Yes, it does. 297 00:15:49.960 --> 00:15:54.000 It does higher level than a regular dating app, 298 00:15:54.660 --> 00:15:56.860 because it's based on a lot of different criteria, 299 00:15:56.860 --> 00:15:58.220 but I don't wanna do that right now. 300 00:15:58.220 --> 00:15:59.340 Right now, what I wanna do 301 00:15:59.340 --> 00:16:03.420 while we're still in the intake process of getting profiles 302 00:16:03.420 --> 00:16:05.700 is I want to continue to do these things 303 00:16:05.700 --> 00:16:08.060 that we're doing now so people can meet within community. 304 00:16:08.060 --> 00:16:10.480 So we'll do spotlights as well. 305 00:16:10.480 --> 00:16:12.480 We will do them live on calls like this, 306 00:16:12.480 --> 00:16:15.620 but we will also do them over my social media. 307 00:16:15.620 --> 00:16:17.740 So if you are a student in good standing, 308 00:16:17.740 --> 00:16:19.500 if you're a private client in good standing 309 00:16:19.500 --> 00:16:20.780 with this community, 310 00:16:20.780 --> 00:16:25.040 and you have filled out a spirit mate match profile, 311 00:16:25.040 --> 00:16:27.740 please know that it can show up, 312 00:16:27.740 --> 00:16:29.640 not your last name, not where you live, 313 00:16:29.640 --> 00:16:32.480 not any information that would, you know, 314 00:16:32.480 --> 00:16:36.120 let some cuckoo bird get ahold of you, 315 00:16:36.120 --> 00:16:39.640 but your face, okay? 316 00:16:39.640 --> 00:16:41.320 And some important information 317 00:16:41.320 --> 00:16:42.960 that lets people reach out to us 318 00:16:42.960 --> 00:16:45.040 and let us know that they wanna meet you. 319 00:16:45.040 --> 00:16:47.800 Guys, I used to do this over my Instagram. 320 00:16:47.800 --> 00:16:49.440 It was my Instagram called single nation. 321 00:16:49.460 --> 00:16:51.020 It was a private Instagram. 322 00:16:51.020 --> 00:16:56.020 And I will tell you that I helped probably 25-ish people 323 00:16:56.460 --> 00:16:59.780 get married on there, maybe more, 324 00:16:59.780 --> 00:17:03.180 just off the top of my head from spotlighting them 325 00:17:03.180 --> 00:17:07.500 and from the mojo and grace that this movement carries. 326 00:17:07.500 --> 00:17:09.780 Okay, so very, very exciting, right? 327 00:17:09.780 --> 00:17:10.700 You guys excited? 328 00:17:14.859 --> 00:17:17.540 Vivian said, what does in good standing mean? 329 00:17:17.920 --> 00:17:20.520 If you were not in good standing, you would know it. 330 00:17:20.520 --> 00:17:21.359 How about that? 331 00:17:24.020 --> 00:17:26.119 I think in the whole history of the four years 332 00:17:26.119 --> 00:17:28.280 that we've done what we do, almost five, 333 00:17:28.280 --> 00:17:30.760 we're coming up on five years, you guys, in 2025, 334 00:17:31.620 --> 00:17:34.700 we've only had to like kick out maybe five people. 335 00:17:35.880 --> 00:17:37.120 I think that's about it. 336 00:17:37.120 --> 00:17:40.840 And for bad behavior and for complaints against them, 337 00:17:40.840 --> 00:17:42.760 like numerous complaints. 338 00:17:42.760 --> 00:17:45.880 And so we do try to vet people out as best we can. 339 00:17:45.880 --> 00:17:48.580 All right, so that is the update for those of you 340 00:17:48.580 --> 00:17:50.700 that wanted updates about Spirit Mate Match. 341 00:17:50.700 --> 00:17:52.220 You've been asking for updates about, 342 00:17:52.220 --> 00:17:54.600 hey, when is Jackie gonna make matches? 343 00:17:54.600 --> 00:17:56.100 What are we doing with this? 344 00:17:56.100 --> 00:17:57.540 We're still taking profiles. 345 00:17:57.540 --> 00:17:59.220 We're still in the intake phase, 346 00:17:59.220 --> 00:18:00.580 but while we're in the intake phase, 347 00:18:00.580 --> 00:18:02.300 and please fill out your profile. 348 00:18:02.300 --> 00:18:04.700 And when you get that email that lets you go back 349 00:18:04.700 --> 00:18:06.620 into your profile and tweak stuff, 350 00:18:06.620 --> 00:18:08.740 you can use the profile wizard to tweak stuff. 351 00:18:08.740 --> 00:18:10.740 So you're like, oh, it's not letting me change anything. 352 00:18:10.740 --> 00:18:13.480 Use the wizard, okay? 353 00:18:13.480 --> 00:18:14.320 The wizard. 354 00:18:16.060 --> 00:18:17.580 It's important, the wizard. 355 00:18:17.580 --> 00:18:21.580 Okay, and so, and if you do have tech problems past that, 356 00:18:21.580 --> 00:18:25.260 then in that post, in your group, in the comments, 357 00:18:25.260 --> 00:18:27.260 let us know and we'll help you. 358 00:18:27.260 --> 00:18:29.920 And team, whoever was on here, I saw Bethany on here, 359 00:18:29.920 --> 00:18:34.780 let's delete those questions after they're answered. 360 00:18:34.780 --> 00:18:35.900 We'll leave them up for a little while, 361 00:18:35.900 --> 00:18:36.740 but let's delete them 362 00:18:36.740 --> 00:18:38.820 so we don't end up with 5,000 questions. 363 00:18:38.820 --> 00:18:40.820 So after we know the person has seen it 364 00:18:40.820 --> 00:18:41.820 and they've responded to us, 365 00:18:41.820 --> 00:18:43.660 then let's delete that information 366 00:18:43.660 --> 00:18:46.880 so that we can keep going forward with answering questions 367 00:18:46.880 --> 00:18:48.520 and helping people. 368 00:18:48.520 --> 00:18:50.560 All right, you guys ready to get started? 369 00:18:52.080 --> 00:18:54.640 Guys, full transparency, 370 00:18:54.640 --> 00:18:57.040 I am on like a liver cleanse right now. 371 00:18:57.040 --> 00:18:59.000 And you know what I know? 372 00:18:59.000 --> 00:19:00.440 You need carbs. 373 00:19:00.440 --> 00:19:02.520 Your brain doesn't work without carbs. 374 00:19:02.520 --> 00:19:03.440 It doesn't. 375 00:19:03.440 --> 00:19:05.640 My brain's not working right now really well. 376 00:19:05.640 --> 00:19:09.800 And so if I say something crazy, crazier than usual, 377 00:19:09.800 --> 00:19:10.920 please give me some grace 378 00:19:10.940 --> 00:19:13.740 because I need some carbs, friends. 379 00:19:13.740 --> 00:19:15.100 I haven't had any carbs. 380 00:19:15.100 --> 00:19:18.260 All right, like any, like none. 381 00:19:20.340 --> 00:19:21.500 I'm on the broth, y'all. 382 00:19:21.500 --> 00:19:25.060 And I feel so good, my digestive is great. 383 00:19:25.060 --> 00:19:27.700 You can't do it long-term, but you can do it for a second. 384 00:19:27.700 --> 00:19:30.340 All right, so what do we have for you tonight? 385 00:19:30.340 --> 00:19:32.860 We have a dating game that's been curated 386 00:19:32.860 --> 00:19:35.020 by our Spirit Mate Match app. 387 00:19:35.020 --> 00:19:38.380 So we have one bachelor and three bachelorettes, 388 00:19:38.400 --> 00:19:41.560 and the three bachelorettes are in the top 10 of matches 389 00:19:41.560 --> 00:19:44.680 for our bachelor on the Spirit Mate Match profile. 390 00:19:44.680 --> 00:19:46.400 He doesn't know who they are. 391 00:19:46.400 --> 00:19:48.000 They don't even know who each other are. 392 00:19:48.000 --> 00:19:49.460 And up until tonight, 393 00:19:49.460 --> 00:19:51.520 they didn't even know who the bachelor was. 394 00:19:51.520 --> 00:19:53.160 And so they still don't know. 395 00:19:53.160 --> 00:19:55.400 So I'm going to highlight the bachelor 396 00:19:55.400 --> 00:19:57.360 and I'm gonna highlight bachelorette one, 397 00:19:57.360 --> 00:19:59.880 two and threes windows, okay? 398 00:20:00.000 --> 00:20:03.480 They have no picture, it's blank, it's black, 399 00:20:03.480 --> 00:20:04.600 there's nothing there, 400 00:20:04.600 --> 00:20:07.740 because it's kind of like the voice, right? 401 00:20:07.740 --> 00:20:09.800 We want to ask some questions, 402 00:20:09.800 --> 00:20:11.920 and you guys, whatever fun questions 403 00:20:11.920 --> 00:20:13.760 that don't have to do with someone's age 404 00:20:13.760 --> 00:20:15.200 and their location, 405 00:20:15.200 --> 00:20:17.520 something that would give away who they are, 406 00:20:17.520 --> 00:20:18.360 put those up. 407 00:20:18.360 --> 00:20:19.560 Once we get the bachelor up, 408 00:20:19.560 --> 00:20:23.120 start feeding him questions that you think he should ask. 409 00:20:23.120 --> 00:20:25.000 We'll kick it off with a question or two, 410 00:20:25.000 --> 00:20:26.600 but start feeding him a couple of questions 411 00:20:26.600 --> 00:20:29.520 because, you know, I'm sure he's nervous. 412 00:20:29.600 --> 00:20:30.800 I'm sure he's nervous. 413 00:20:30.800 --> 00:20:33.840 And I wanted someone that we know here in community 414 00:20:33.840 --> 00:20:36.220 to be the first person to go at this game, 415 00:20:36.220 --> 00:20:38.500 someone that we know and trust and we like, 416 00:20:38.500 --> 00:20:40.680 and someone who's willing to volunteer his tribute, 417 00:20:40.680 --> 00:20:43.160 even though this is not the Hunger Games. 418 00:20:43.160 --> 00:20:44.760 And so we're going to have fun tonight. 419 00:20:44.760 --> 00:20:46.480 And then after that, stay tuned, 420 00:20:46.480 --> 00:20:50.160 because we have a few other guys here tonight 421 00:20:50.160 --> 00:20:52.800 that are part of Spirit Mate Match, 422 00:20:52.800 --> 00:20:55.860 part of the platform, that I want to spotlight. 423 00:20:55.860 --> 00:20:57.720 And you guys, I'm going to try to do as many spotlights 424 00:20:57.720 --> 00:20:59.960 as I can, everywhere that I can, 425 00:20:59.960 --> 00:21:02.240 of the students and clients that I have. 426 00:21:02.240 --> 00:21:03.760 So whether it's on my social media, 427 00:21:03.760 --> 00:21:06.720 whether it's to my email list, I'm going to spotlight you. 428 00:21:06.720 --> 00:21:10.240 So please let us know if you have a profile filled out 429 00:21:10.240 --> 00:21:12.160 and you do not want to be spotlighted 430 00:21:12.160 --> 00:21:14.800 in that post in your group. 431 00:21:14.800 --> 00:21:16.080 Don't email us. 432 00:21:16.080 --> 00:21:17.400 In that post in your group, just say, 433 00:21:17.400 --> 00:21:19.280 hey, I don't want to be spotlighted 434 00:21:19.280 --> 00:21:20.640 outside of the community. 435 00:21:20.640 --> 00:21:22.080 I don't want to be spotlighted 436 00:21:22.080 --> 00:21:24.280 on Jackie's public social media. 437 00:21:24.280 --> 00:21:25.160 Let us know that, 438 00:21:25.160 --> 00:21:27.880 because when you signed that release form, 439 00:21:27.880 --> 00:21:31.920 you signed off on us helping you find someone 440 00:21:31.920 --> 00:21:35.080 in whatever way we want to do it. 441 00:21:35.080 --> 00:21:36.960 Okay, all right. 442 00:21:36.960 --> 00:21:39.400 So that being said, without further ado, 443 00:21:39.400 --> 00:21:40.280 let's get started. 444 00:21:40.280 --> 00:21:41.120 We're going to have fun. 445 00:21:41.120 --> 00:21:45.120 Oh, so he's going to ask some questions. 446 00:21:45.120 --> 00:21:47.520 And then after a couple rounds, 447 00:21:47.520 --> 00:21:50.160 he is going to pick the person whose questions, 448 00:21:50.160 --> 00:21:53.440 answers he liked the best for a virtual date 449 00:21:53.440 --> 00:21:54.760 or an in-person date. 450 00:21:55.360 --> 00:21:56.920 And then he's going to pick the person 451 00:21:56.920 --> 00:21:59.960 who he wants to meet if the person's local to him. 452 00:21:59.960 --> 00:22:01.920 And so they're going to go on a virtual 453 00:22:01.920 --> 00:22:04.160 or in-person date that we're going to plan. 454 00:22:04.160 --> 00:22:05.440 We're going to plan it for them. 455 00:22:05.440 --> 00:22:07.720 We're going to tell them exactly what we want them to do, 456 00:22:07.720 --> 00:22:10.240 whether it's in-person or it's online, 457 00:22:10.240 --> 00:22:12.520 so that that takes all the pressure off them 458 00:22:12.520 --> 00:22:14.080 to get to know each other better. 459 00:22:14.080 --> 00:22:15.080 But guess what? 460 00:22:15.080 --> 00:22:17.680 The two bachelorettes that he wasn't sure 461 00:22:17.680 --> 00:22:19.400 if their answers were resonating, 462 00:22:19.400 --> 00:22:21.440 he will know that those other two bachelorettes 463 00:22:21.440 --> 00:22:23.600 heard of his results on Spirit May Match. 464 00:22:23.600 --> 00:22:25.640 So he could reach out to them anytime he wants to. 465 00:22:25.640 --> 00:22:27.720 And any other guys that are here 466 00:22:27.720 --> 00:22:30.440 can also reach out to them anytime that they want to, 467 00:22:30.440 --> 00:22:32.800 because once again, here we are, 468 00:22:32.800 --> 00:22:34.640 and this is why we're spotlighting each other. 469 00:22:34.640 --> 00:22:36.560 You can also reach out to, 470 00:22:36.560 --> 00:22:39.120 you can also post in your group. 471 00:22:39.120 --> 00:22:43.280 If you want to meet someone, you can post and ask. 472 00:22:43.280 --> 00:22:45.880 Did you guys know on Ask Jackie, you can send anonymous, 473 00:22:45.880 --> 00:22:48.400 you can send anonymous stuff on there. 474 00:22:48.400 --> 00:22:49.760 So anonymously, you can say, 475 00:22:49.760 --> 00:22:54.760 hey, that bachelorette number two, I'd like to meet her. 476 00:22:55.320 --> 00:22:57.040 You could do that. 477 00:22:57.040 --> 00:22:58.160 You can. 478 00:22:58.160 --> 00:23:00.520 And then we'll know. 479 00:23:00.520 --> 00:23:02.200 We just want to cut down on emails, y'all. 480 00:23:02.200 --> 00:23:04.240 We're trying to cut down on emails here. 481 00:23:04.240 --> 00:23:05.080 All right. 482 00:23:05.080 --> 00:23:06.360 One thing that I don't want you to do 483 00:23:06.360 --> 00:23:09.720 is I don't want you to try to find people 484 00:23:09.720 --> 00:23:11.760 and stalk them on social media. 485 00:23:11.760 --> 00:23:13.200 Let's not do that. 486 00:23:13.200 --> 00:23:16.880 Okay, let's find out other ways in order to meet them. 487 00:23:17.400 --> 00:23:22.400 Guys, if one of the guys that are spotlighted tonight, 488 00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:25.680 you want to meet them, you need to, 489 00:23:25.680 --> 00:23:26.760 you are going to email us. 490 00:23:26.760 --> 00:23:28.080 We're still allowing you to do that. 491 00:23:28.080 --> 00:23:32.000 Email us and put their first name in the subject line. 492 00:23:32.000 --> 00:23:33.800 That's it, their first name. 493 00:23:33.800 --> 00:23:37.720 And then tell us your name on the Spirit Mate Match profile. 494 00:23:37.720 --> 00:23:39.560 Okay, give us your email address and your name. 495 00:23:39.560 --> 00:23:41.360 We'll already have your email address. 496 00:23:41.360 --> 00:23:42.840 But if it's different than the one you use 497 00:23:42.840 --> 00:23:44.720 for Spirit Mate Match, please let us know that. 498 00:23:44.720 --> 00:23:45.800 And we will look it up 499 00:23:45.840 --> 00:23:50.120 and we will contact you if we want to make an introduction. 500 00:23:50.120 --> 00:23:52.200 Okay, cool. 501 00:23:53.800 --> 00:23:56.080 All right, guys, I just have to remind myself right now 502 00:23:56.080 --> 00:23:58.000 really quickly who bachelorette number one, 503 00:23:58.000 --> 00:23:59.960 two and three are, like who they are. 504 00:23:59.960 --> 00:24:01.240 You're not going to know who they are, 505 00:24:01.240 --> 00:24:03.040 but I need to know who they are. 506 00:24:03.040 --> 00:24:05.080 Okay, so let me take a look here. 507 00:24:09.560 --> 00:24:10.400 All right. 508 00:24:13.200 --> 00:24:14.040 Okay. 509 00:24:16.760 --> 00:24:17.880 Mm-mm. 510 00:24:17.880 --> 00:24:19.040 You guys, this is gonna be so fun. 511 00:24:19.040 --> 00:24:19.880 You excited? 512 00:24:19.880 --> 00:24:20.720 I'm excited. 513 00:24:21.720 --> 00:24:22.960 Remember, I have no carbs. 514 00:24:22.960 --> 00:24:24.520 I'm gonna be going a little bit slower tonight. 515 00:24:24.520 --> 00:24:25.520 I'm gonna try my best. 516 00:24:25.520 --> 00:24:26.760 And for a lot of you, you're like, 517 00:24:26.760 --> 00:24:28.160 man, Jackie, slower is good, 518 00:24:28.160 --> 00:24:29.680 because you're way too fast. 519 00:24:29.680 --> 00:24:31.320 All right, let's see. 520 00:24:31.320 --> 00:24:34.440 And batch number three. 521 00:24:36.960 --> 00:24:39.520 All right, fun, fun, fun times. 522 00:24:40.880 --> 00:24:41.960 All right, without further ado, 523 00:24:41.960 --> 00:24:43.920 let's get some spotlights going here. 524 00:24:45.800 --> 00:24:47.640 Mm-mm. 525 00:25:00.000 --> 00:25:26.000 How are you guys doing today? 526 00:25:26.000 --> 00:25:31.000 Great match is our favorite Mike Anthony. 527 00:25:31.000 --> 00:25:38.000 My thank you so much for volunteering. 528 00:25:38.000 --> 00:25:52.000 We're gonna have fun. Okay, let's go. Let's go. Let's go. All right. So hold on one second. I want to see if I'm able to 529 00:25:52.000 --> 00:25:54.000 be nervous. 530 00:25:54.000 --> 00:25:57.000 Easier said than done. 531 00:25:57.000 --> 00:26:05.000 No, it's all good. You know, it's, this is amazing. It's actually kind of an honor to be the first right. Yeah, it's gonna be great. 532 00:26:05.000 --> 00:26:08.000 All right. 533 00:26:08.000 --> 00:26:12.000 Questions. 534 00:26:12.000 --> 00:26:14.000 All right. 535 00:26:14.000 --> 00:26:24.000 All right. 536 00:26:24.000 --> 00:26:28.000 I might need the IT department y'all. 537 00:26:28.000 --> 00:26:33.000 We're gonna do our best. 538 00:26:33.000 --> 00:26:37.000 It is a pioneering thing. It's a breakthrough. 539 00:26:37.000 --> 00:26:42.000 It is crazy. 540 00:26:42.000 --> 00:26:47.000 Is anyone spotlighted right now. 541 00:26:47.000 --> 00:26:51.000 No pad Mike pinned but he's not pinned now. 542 00:26:51.000 --> 00:26:54.000 Okay, thank you so much. 543 00:26:54.000 --> 00:27:00.000 Hey, Bethany. I forgot you were here. Yeah, so we helped me. 544 00:27:00.000 --> 00:27:02.000 I can try. Yeah. 545 00:27:02.000 --> 00:27:11.000 What you're just like, yes, please do that. Thank you. Okay, I need you to privately send me the ladies names then. 546 00:27:11.000 --> 00:27:15.000 No no dispatch that one two and three that's what they're, that's what their zoom window say. 547 00:27:15.000 --> 00:27:24.000 Okay, cool. All right. 548 00:27:24.000 --> 00:27:28.000 Okay, I need to get my window back up. 549 00:27:28.000 --> 00:27:37.000 I couldn't find my green screen I was going to do the background of the dating game just but I think I took it all that would have been so fun. 550 00:27:37.000 --> 00:27:40.000 Okay. 551 00:27:40.000 --> 00:27:50.000 The IT department left so I don't know what to do they're off for the night apparently. All right. 552 00:27:50.000 --> 00:27:59.000 Thanks. 553 00:27:59.000 --> 00:28:06.000 All right. Is anyone spotlighted yet pinned spotlighted. 554 00:28:06.000 --> 00:28:09.000 I can see nothing. 555 00:28:10.000 --> 00:28:13.000 Too so far, I'm working on I have to find them. 556 00:28:13.000 --> 00:28:22.000 Yeah, just type in just type in BAC, BAC, they'll come up. 557 00:28:22.000 --> 00:28:36.000 They're all here. 558 00:28:36.000 --> 00:28:40.000 So as much as carbs. 559 00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:45.000 No, it really doesn't I googled it doesn't have any carbs in it. 560 00:28:45.000 --> 00:28:53.000 I mean if the milk, if the milk. Someone's been watching me on my Instagram story today, Mr. Mike. 561 00:28:53.000 --> 00:29:00.000 But, yeah, the milk, if you put some sort of milk with carbs in it I guess that would work. 562 00:29:00.000 --> 00:29:03.000 All right, okay they're all pinned. 563 00:29:03.000 --> 00:29:07.000 All right, awesome. All right. 564 00:29:07.000 --> 00:29:14.000 Someone's to talk about my cat friend I named it ginger, who knew it was a boy, so it's a boy named ginger. Okay. 565 00:29:14.000 --> 00:29:21.000 I'm not going to make any gender fluid remarks because then I'll get hate mail from all of you. All right, so here we go. 566 00:29:21.000 --> 00:29:26.000 We're going to play the dating game. All right so bachelor. 567 00:29:26.000 --> 00:29:36.000 What is your first question for all three bachelorettes, and it can't be their name or their location or anything that would give them away. What is your first question for all three. 568 00:29:36.000 --> 00:29:38.000 Hmm. 569 00:29:38.000 --> 00:29:46.000 So I saw a lot of them in the chat. I thought this one was funny. This is different. If you were a shoe what kind of shoe would you be. 570 00:29:47.000 --> 00:29:57.000 Yeah, you know, kick off. I like it. That's a great pickup. All right, bachelorette number one, if you were a shoe. What type of shoe would you be. 571 00:29:57.000 --> 00:30:00.000 Oh, probably a bougie boots something really pretty. 572 00:30:00.000 --> 00:30:03.440 pretty on the outside and nice and comfortable and friendly on the inside. 573 00:30:04.800 --> 00:30:08.520 Ooh. All right. I like that. And go ahead and say hi to our bachelor. 574 00:30:09.360 --> 00:30:10.880 Hi, it's nice to meet you. 575 00:30:11.440 --> 00:30:12.280 Nice to meet you as well. 576 00:30:12.880 --> 00:30:14.920 Thanks for going first. That couldn't be easy. 577 00:30:18.000 --> 00:30:20.640 Yes. All right. Bachelorette number two, 578 00:30:20.680 --> 00:30:24.400 go ahead and unmute yourself and greet our bachelor and then answer the 579 00:30:24.400 --> 00:30:26.920 question. If you were a shoe, what kind of shoe would you be? 580 00:30:31.000 --> 00:30:32.560 Hello. How are you today? 581 00:30:34.200 --> 00:30:37.040 Doing great. Um, you know, this is kind of fun, 582 00:30:37.040 --> 00:30:41.760 but a little stressful at the same time, you know, but it's kind of, you know, 583 00:30:41.880 --> 00:30:45.960 um, it's really cool that I really believe in what Jackie is doing and that, 584 00:30:46.000 --> 00:30:49.280 and this movement and, um, yeah, no, it's been, it's been, 585 00:30:49.320 --> 00:30:52.800 it's really an honor to actually be the first, I mean, I really, 586 00:30:52.840 --> 00:30:54.840 it really means, yeah, 587 00:30:54.880 --> 00:30:58.080 it's kind of what I've been made to do is go first so other people can follow. 588 00:30:58.120 --> 00:31:00.440 Awesome. I love that. 589 00:31:01.760 --> 00:31:04.320 Pioneering. Okay. What kind of shoe are you? 590 00:31:05.160 --> 00:31:07.880 Um, I am a sneaker, 591 00:31:09.040 --> 00:31:13.560 something that, um, it was comfortable and, 592 00:31:14.400 --> 00:31:18.840 um, can pretty much wear it with almost anything. And, 593 00:31:19.600 --> 00:31:24.480 um, you know, I like to walk, I like to be outside. So it's, um, 594 00:31:24.800 --> 00:31:27.440 you know, something that I, I would like to be. 595 00:31:29.080 --> 00:31:31.200 All right. Great answer. 596 00:31:31.440 --> 00:31:34.920 I see some of you guys are having secondhand anxiety. 597 00:31:36.520 --> 00:31:40.920 I'm blushing. I'm feeling like kind of hot. Okay. All right. 598 00:31:40.920 --> 00:31:45.240 So, um, that's right. Number three, unmute yourself, greet our bachelor, 599 00:31:45.240 --> 00:31:47.200 and then tell us what kind of shoe you would be. 600 00:31:48.040 --> 00:31:49.440 Hi, Mike. How are you doing? 601 00:31:50.080 --> 00:31:50.920 Pretty good. 602 00:31:54.240 --> 00:31:55.960 Congrats on being in the hot seat today. 603 00:31:58.520 --> 00:32:01.760 Um, my, if I was a shoe, 604 00:32:02.240 --> 00:32:07.000 I would be a wedge and I think a lot of the ladies understand what I mean. 605 00:32:07.000 --> 00:32:10.000 When I say wedges, they give you height, 606 00:32:10.440 --> 00:32:14.000 they make your legs look better and, but they're more comfortable than a heel. 607 00:32:16.400 --> 00:32:17.240 I like it. 608 00:32:18.800 --> 00:32:22.200 The big heels. Oh no. I know. Yeah. I know what you're talking about. Sorry. 609 00:32:23.760 --> 00:32:27.120 I'm tracking all the guys are like, what? Okay. 610 00:32:27.360 --> 00:32:30.000 Everyone go ahead and put what kind of shoe you would be in the chat. 611 00:32:30.040 --> 00:32:31.160 Since we're having fun, 612 00:32:31.440 --> 00:32:35.160 let's go ahead and see all of your answers while Mike finds his next question. 613 00:32:35.760 --> 00:32:39.120 So Mike, the next question that I want you to answer, okay. 614 00:32:39.120 --> 00:32:41.520 The next question I want you to ask is I want you to ask, 615 00:32:41.560 --> 00:32:43.080 I want you to say what, 616 00:32:43.200 --> 00:32:46.320 what you would do or what you would be or how you would feel. 617 00:32:46.440 --> 00:32:50.960 And then we're going to ask them to answer as well. All right. So, 618 00:32:52.440 --> 00:32:53.280 my dream, 619 00:32:53.320 --> 00:32:57.120 my dream vacation would be a week by the ocean. 620 00:32:57.160 --> 00:33:00.680 What would your dream vacation be? And then I want you just to ask, you know, 621 00:33:00.680 --> 00:33:03.640 start with one of the bachelorettes and you get to choose which one. 622 00:33:04.760 --> 00:33:05.920 Oh, one, two or three. 623 00:33:06.400 --> 00:33:10.640 Wish we would have prepped. Well, let's go with dream vacation. 624 00:33:10.960 --> 00:33:14.560 How would that be? That's good. I want to go to Hawaii, you know, 625 00:33:14.560 --> 00:33:17.760 like spend Hawaii, do some scuba diving, some snorkeling. 626 00:33:18.760 --> 00:33:21.520 But Italy would be kind of fun too. So let's do Hawaii. 627 00:33:24.240 --> 00:33:29.240 So I would really love to do Hawaii. And what was the second part I am? 628 00:33:29.240 --> 00:33:33.320 So I want you to ask one of the bachelorettes one, 629 00:33:33.320 --> 00:33:36.320 two or three to answer the question as well. Okay. 630 00:33:36.840 --> 00:33:41.960 So bachelor at number two, what would be your dream vacation? 631 00:33:44.920 --> 00:33:49.640 My dream vacation would be to go to Wyoming 632 00:33:49.840 --> 00:33:54.760 and just go out riding on horses 633 00:33:54.760 --> 00:33:59.400 and be out in nature and just enjoy the 634 00:33:59.400 --> 00:34:02.320 beautiful views out in Wyoming. 635 00:34:04.400 --> 00:34:06.280 Beautiful country out there. Yeah. 636 00:34:06.680 --> 00:34:08.320 All right. That's awesome. Okay. 637 00:34:08.320 --> 00:34:12.760 Now pick another question and go ahead and answer it yourself. 638 00:34:12.800 --> 00:34:16.320 And then ask one of the other bachelorettes to answer as well. 639 00:34:17.280 --> 00:34:21.520 Hmm. This is always, this is always one of my fun ones. Like, you know, 640 00:34:22.400 --> 00:34:24.560 so does pineapple belong on pizza? 641 00:34:24.600 --> 00:34:28.960 And I absolutely say pineapple belongs on pizza because it's, you know, 642 00:34:29.440 --> 00:34:33.000 it's amazing. So bachelorette number one, 643 00:34:33.000 --> 00:34:37.880 does pineapple belong on pizza? Absolutely. I love a Hawaiian pizza. 644 00:34:38.320 --> 00:34:41.719 It's so good. Oh, a little Maui zowie action. 645 00:34:42.920 --> 00:34:45.600 All right. I love it. All right. 646 00:34:45.600 --> 00:34:48.760 All right. So once again, Mike, you're going to pick a question, 647 00:34:48.800 --> 00:34:51.360 answer it yourself, and then you're going to ask the remaining bachelorette, 648 00:34:51.360 --> 00:34:53.840 bachelorette number three to answer as well. 649 00:34:58.760 --> 00:34:59.120 All right. 650 00:35:00.000 --> 00:35:02.040 I'm taking notes for him, Katie. 651 00:35:02.040 --> 00:35:02.560 Thank you. 652 00:35:02.560 --> 00:35:04.680 I was like, I thought I was going to have a notepad, 653 00:35:04.680 --> 00:35:06.200 but this is a little nerve wracking. 654 00:35:06.200 --> 00:35:11.480 So the question I'm going to ask is, how would your best friend 655 00:35:11.480 --> 00:35:13.000 describe you? 656 00:35:13.000 --> 00:35:16.880 And my best friend's been my best friend for 30 years now. 657 00:35:16.880 --> 00:35:26.240 And he'd say, I'm always there, dependable, kind, loving, 658 00:35:26.240 --> 00:35:28.920 caring, and just as rock. 659 00:35:28.920 --> 00:35:31.600 So bachelorette number three, what 660 00:35:31.600 --> 00:35:33.440 would your best friend say about you? 661 00:35:33.440 --> 00:35:35.000 How would she describe you? 662 00:35:35.000 --> 00:35:36.240 Or he. 663 00:35:36.240 --> 00:35:36.740 Or he. 664 00:35:36.740 --> 00:35:37.240 Or he. 665 00:35:37.240 --> 00:35:40.920 I know, I was course correcting. 666 00:35:40.920 --> 00:35:43.320 Of course, if it's a match, she'll 667 00:35:43.320 --> 00:35:46.400 have to get rid of her boy best friend, but that's fine. 668 00:35:46.400 --> 00:35:47.920 All right, go ahead. 669 00:35:47.920 --> 00:35:51.000 Bachelorette number three. 670 00:35:51.000 --> 00:36:03.120 I think she would say that I was very empathetic and kind, 671 00:36:03.120 --> 00:36:07.880 and I'm very loyal and dependable as well. 672 00:36:07.880 --> 00:36:08.680 Oh, that's amazing. 673 00:36:08.680 --> 00:36:10.720 Oh, I love it. 674 00:36:10.720 --> 00:36:12.080 All right. 675 00:36:12.080 --> 00:36:14.360 OK, now I want you to find a question, 676 00:36:14.360 --> 00:36:17.440 and I want you to answer it, and then I want you to. 677 00:36:17.440 --> 00:36:19.560 But first, OK, I want you to find another question, 678 00:36:19.560 --> 00:36:22.360 and I want you to ask all three bachelorettes to answer it. 679 00:36:22.360 --> 00:36:23.920 You don't have to answer it yourself, 680 00:36:23.920 --> 00:36:26.360 but I want you to ask all three bachelorettes to answer it. 681 00:36:26.360 --> 00:36:29.000 So find a good question to ask all three of them, 682 00:36:29.000 --> 00:36:30.520 and then you just pick who goes first. 683 00:36:36.040 --> 00:36:38.360 What about that favorite childhood meal 684 00:36:38.360 --> 00:36:39.760 and favorite meal now? 685 00:36:39.760 --> 00:36:40.880 I think that's fun. 686 00:36:40.880 --> 00:36:41.760 That's a good one. 687 00:36:41.760 --> 00:36:44.880 All right, so bachelorette number one, 688 00:36:44.880 --> 00:36:47.040 what is your favorite childhood meal now? 689 00:36:47.040 --> 00:36:48.960 Or what was your favorite childhood meal, 690 00:36:48.960 --> 00:36:51.320 and what is your favorite meal now? 691 00:36:51.320 --> 00:36:53.280 My favorite childhood meal, I would say, 692 00:36:53.280 --> 00:36:56.640 would be tacos, like a taco bar, big taco bar. 693 00:36:56.640 --> 00:36:58.920 Good for parties, good for weather parties, 694 00:36:58.920 --> 00:37:00.720 things like that. 695 00:37:00.720 --> 00:37:02.520 And I would say it's the same thing now, 696 00:37:02.520 --> 00:37:05.400 because I've carried on their tradition with my kids, 697 00:37:05.400 --> 00:37:09.000 and so it's just kind of a warm feeling from my generation 698 00:37:09.000 --> 00:37:13.040 to the generation that I have. 699 00:37:13.040 --> 00:37:17.360 So street tacos or crispy tacos? 700 00:37:17.360 --> 00:37:19.480 Probably crispy, anything. 701 00:37:19.480 --> 00:37:22.960 We have huge parties, and we have huge groups of food 702 00:37:22.960 --> 00:37:24.640 at a time, and so, yeah, both. 703 00:37:24.640 --> 00:37:26.440 We try to make it fun so that everybody 704 00:37:26.440 --> 00:37:27.320 wants to participate. 705 00:37:27.320 --> 00:37:28.560 It's enjoyable. 706 00:37:28.560 --> 00:37:29.800 That's cool. 707 00:37:29.800 --> 00:37:31.320 Who doesn't love a taco? 708 00:37:31.320 --> 00:37:32.480 Who doesn't love a taco? 709 00:37:32.480 --> 00:37:35.800 All right, go ahead and ask one of the remaining bachelorettes. 710 00:37:35.800 --> 00:37:38.960 Bachelorette number two, what is your favorite childhood meal, 711 00:37:38.960 --> 00:37:42.520 and what is your favorite childhood meal now? 712 00:37:42.520 --> 00:37:48.280 My favorite childhood meal was lasagna. 713 00:37:48.280 --> 00:37:53.840 And now, probably my favorite meal is, 714 00:37:53.840 --> 00:37:57.800 I've been really into Thai food, and I'm just, I don't know, 715 00:37:57.800 --> 00:38:00.120 I like all the flavors and the spices. 716 00:38:00.120 --> 00:38:04.520 And so, I don't know, I feel like I'm getting more 717 00:38:04.520 --> 00:38:07.640 into that kind of food, so. 718 00:38:07.640 --> 00:38:09.280 You got to be careful with Thai, though. 719 00:38:09.280 --> 00:38:12.320 It can light you up. 720 00:38:12.920 --> 00:38:13.640 It's true. 721 00:38:13.640 --> 00:38:16.320 It's true. 722 00:38:16.320 --> 00:38:19.080 What about you, bachelorette number three? 723 00:38:19.080 --> 00:38:21.600 My favorite food when I was a kid 724 00:38:21.600 --> 00:38:24.520 was mac and cheese, of course. 725 00:38:24.520 --> 00:38:29.320 And now, it's probably be a good steak. 726 00:38:29.320 --> 00:38:31.040 Ooh, yeah, good. 727 00:38:31.040 --> 00:38:32.320 Yeah. 728 00:38:32.320 --> 00:38:34.840 Potatoes on the side. 729 00:38:34.840 --> 00:38:36.560 Filet with some blue cheese. 730 00:38:36.560 --> 00:38:38.240 Oh, yeah, yeah. 731 00:38:38.240 --> 00:38:39.680 Or horseradish. 732 00:38:39.680 --> 00:38:41.280 I've had that before, too. 733 00:38:41.280 --> 00:38:42.600 That's really good. 734 00:38:42.600 --> 00:38:43.440 Now, I'm hungry. 735 00:38:43.440 --> 00:38:45.160 Awesome. 736 00:38:45.160 --> 00:38:46.200 I love it. 737 00:38:46.200 --> 00:38:48.160 Hey, everyone, just go ahead and put the answers 738 00:38:48.160 --> 00:38:49.520 to those questions in the chat. 739 00:38:49.520 --> 00:38:53.120 Feel free to tell us, what's your favorite childhood meal? 740 00:38:53.120 --> 00:38:54.920 And what is your favorite meal now? 741 00:38:54.920 --> 00:38:56.160 We want to get to know each other better. 742 00:38:56.160 --> 00:38:56.680 It's fun. 743 00:38:56.680 --> 00:38:59.960 Don't forget, there's other people here in the chat 744 00:38:59.960 --> 00:39:01.800 that you might make a match with. 745 00:39:01.800 --> 00:39:05.520 OK, what's next? 746 00:39:05.520 --> 00:39:07.480 Let's get into some more serious questions. 747 00:39:07.480 --> 00:39:08.920 Mike, do you want to? 748 00:39:08.960 --> 00:39:12.440 So let's get into some questions like favorite childhood 749 00:39:12.440 --> 00:39:19.200 memory or just things about growing up, about family. 750 00:39:19.200 --> 00:39:21.000 So what kind of question do you want to ask? 751 00:39:21.000 --> 00:39:25.240 And I want you to answer it first in less than 15 seconds. 752 00:39:25.240 --> 00:39:29.440 And then, I want you to ask one of the Bachelorettes 753 00:39:29.440 --> 00:39:32.360 to answer that question. 754 00:39:32.360 --> 00:39:35.120 OK. 755 00:39:35.120 --> 00:39:37.000 Let's do favorite childhood memory. 756 00:39:37.040 --> 00:39:40.000 It's going to be kind of challenging. 757 00:39:40.000 --> 00:39:42.960 When I was a kid, I grew up in the, 758 00:39:42.960 --> 00:39:45.920 well, I lived in this Nevada desert for a little while. 759 00:39:45.920 --> 00:39:47.520 And there were lizards everywhere. 760 00:39:47.520 --> 00:39:49.720 And I remember as a kid, my mom would come out, 761 00:39:49.720 --> 00:39:53.400 and there would be like 20 lizards on the back porch. 762 00:39:53.400 --> 00:39:55.280 Because I would catch them and bring them home. 763 00:39:55.280 --> 00:39:59.120 And she'd laugh because it was just a lizard avalanche 764 00:39:59.120 --> 00:40:00.120 when she opened the door. 765 00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:07.000 So, bachelorette number three, what was one of your favorite childhood memories? 766 00:40:07.000 --> 00:40:12.000 Oh, that's a hard one to choose just one. 767 00:40:12.000 --> 00:40:16.000 I guess it's a good thing that I have so many. 768 00:40:16.000 --> 00:40:24.000 I probably say what sticks out the most is when I was growing up we grew up on quite a number of acres. 769 00:40:24.000 --> 00:40:45.000 And so we, my sisters and I would kind of pretend our usual like pretend game was we were in the Wizard of Oz, and we would run around the property picking wildflowers and making bouquets and doing the Wizard of Oz dance together going to see the wizard. 770 00:40:45.000 --> 00:40:51.000 And I just, that's one of my most favorite memories of my sisters. 771 00:40:52.000 --> 00:40:59.000 Because, because, because, because, because. 772 00:40:59.000 --> 00:41:09.000 Okay, cute. All right, so let's pick a different kind of more serious question and ask a different bachelorette. 773 00:41:09.000 --> 00:41:16.000 Okay, it can be anything it could be, you know, something about their spirit life something about. 774 00:41:16.000 --> 00:41:21.000 Yeah. 775 00:41:21.000 --> 00:41:26.000 That one's a little too deep I think. 776 00:41:26.000 --> 00:41:35.000 What how about how about something like you answer it first and then ask one of the other ones but how about what, what activity makes you feel closest to God. 777 00:41:35.000 --> 00:41:36.000 Oh, that's a great one. 778 00:41:36.000 --> 00:41:39.000 All right, so my worship. 779 00:41:39.000 --> 00:41:50.000 Number one thing I just feel the presence of God, you know, I mean I wouldn't live in worship 24 hours a day if I could, you know, because it's just amazing, but then I have to function so therefore. 780 00:41:50.000 --> 00:42:05.000 So bachelorette number one what, what is the Lord the best for me it's definitely worship, that is something that I am a praise and worship leader by trade and or by. 781 00:42:05.000 --> 00:42:21.000 One of the things I do for a living. And, but it's just something that I do in my home in my car, you know, day and night I will find myself waking up talking to the Lord, telling them how much I love him and I just, I can feel his presence and calm my mind 782 00:42:21.000 --> 00:42:29.000 and heart with that more than anything, so I just I live it and breathe it and I absolutely love it. 783 00:42:30.000 --> 00:42:41.000 We have a match to us. Same thing. Okay, so why don't you go ahead and ask bachelorette number two, same question. 784 00:42:41.000 --> 00:42:48.000 Bachelorette number two what, how do you connect to the Lord the best. 785 00:42:48.000 --> 00:43:04.000 For me, I mean I also love praise and worship as well but I think for me is more of a quiet time on. I have, I feel like I connect mostly with him in nature. 786 00:43:04.000 --> 00:43:18.000 I have a hill in my, on my property that I like to just sit out there and I can just, you know, talk with him and, you know, I just feel the closest with him there. 787 00:43:18.000 --> 00:43:26.000 I know there's something about majesty of nature. I mean when I'm in Yosemite I think I hear the word like crazy they're just being in. 788 00:43:26.000 --> 00:43:27.000 Right. 789 00:43:27.000 --> 00:43:29.000 That's cool. 790 00:43:29.000 --> 00:43:34.000 How many of you guys think this is going to be a really hard choice. 791 00:43:34.000 --> 00:43:46.000 Yes. Okay, let's let's get, let's get a little more serious let's talk about flaws but in a fun way. How about the question Mike you're going to answer this first and then you're going to pick one of the bachelorettes to go first but all of them are going 792 00:43:46.000 --> 00:43:57.000 to answer this question. And that is, if you were going to get a detention, not that you did, but if you're going to get a detention in high school, what would have been for. 793 00:43:58.000 --> 00:44:01.000 I was in detention a lot. 794 00:44:01.000 --> 00:44:07.000 You know, for, for being a little smart Alec. 795 00:44:07.000 --> 00:44:18.000 Now and being the class clown and stirring up trouble. I mean, you know, I know you guys can't see that at all but you know I used to have more fun at all. 796 00:44:18.000 --> 00:44:21.000 All right, bachelorette number three. 797 00:44:21.000 --> 00:44:25.000 What 798 00:44:26.000 --> 00:44:30.000 would you get a detention. Okay, what would you get it for that's the repeat of the question. 799 00:44:30.000 --> 00:44:40.000 This is hard for me to answer because I was the angel child in school so I was, I was afraid of getting detention. 800 00:44:40.000 --> 00:44:45.000 But, but if, if I had to, if I did anything. 801 00:44:45.000 --> 00:44:48.000 It would be talking during class to a friend. 802 00:44:48.000 --> 00:44:50.000 That would be my detention. 803 00:44:50.000 --> 00:44:56.000 Yeah, we see a lot of that in the chat you guys a lot of people talking, talking in class. 804 00:44:56.000 --> 00:44:59.000 All right. Okay. 805 00:44:59.000 --> 00:45:00.000 Bachelorette number two. 806 00:45:00.000 --> 00:45:13.100 So, similarly, I only got one detention in high school, and it was for talking to a friend 807 00:45:13.100 --> 00:45:18.340 during, they were showing a movie, and I don't even know what I was talking to my friend 808 00:45:18.340 --> 00:45:25.700 about, but yeah, I got a detention then, but yeah, that was the only one. 809 00:45:25.700 --> 00:45:26.700 So fun. 810 00:45:26.700 --> 00:45:27.700 All right. 811 00:45:27.700 --> 00:45:28.700 It's so fun. 812 00:45:28.700 --> 00:45:34.500 It's confession time from, you know, junior high, bachelorette number one. 813 00:45:34.500 --> 00:45:40.980 Okay, so like bachelorette number two, I actually only did get detention one time, and it was 814 00:45:40.980 --> 00:45:46.700 because I had stayed behind to help a friend who had fallen and hurt her leg, so I sat 815 00:45:46.700 --> 00:45:52.420 with her so she wouldn't be lonely to encourage her, and when I received my detention, I became 816 00:45:52.420 --> 00:46:00.020 just a tiny bit smart aleck with my mouth, but actually got in trouble for helping somebody. 817 00:46:00.020 --> 00:46:04.700 Oh my goodness, you little goody goody two shoes, all three of you, I was the captain 818 00:46:04.700 --> 00:46:05.700 of detention. 819 00:46:05.700 --> 00:46:06.700 Okay. 820 00:46:06.700 --> 00:46:07.700 Fun stuff. 821 00:46:07.700 --> 00:46:09.660 They had the Jackie chair. 822 00:46:09.660 --> 00:46:10.660 The Jackie chair. 823 00:46:10.660 --> 00:46:11.660 Woo hoo! 824 00:46:11.660 --> 00:46:12.660 They did. 825 00:46:12.660 --> 00:46:14.300 I was the, you know, you guys remember the breakfast club? 826 00:46:14.300 --> 00:46:15.540 Yeah, that was me. 827 00:46:15.540 --> 00:46:16.940 Saturday school, all the way. 828 00:46:16.940 --> 00:46:17.940 All right. 829 00:46:17.940 --> 00:46:20.700 I guess I didn't meet Jesus until I was in my 20s, so do not judge me. 830 00:46:20.980 --> 00:46:23.180 I want to keep on with this because I think this is so fun. 831 00:46:23.180 --> 00:46:28.060 All right, so like in high school, you know how they have those, what are those called? 832 00:46:28.060 --> 00:46:30.540 Those things like most likely to, they call them something. 833 00:46:30.540 --> 00:46:31.540 What are those called? 834 00:46:31.540 --> 00:46:32.540 Put it in the chat. 835 00:46:32.540 --> 00:46:33.540 Most likely to succeed. 836 00:46:33.540 --> 00:46:34.540 Most likely to- 837 00:46:34.540 --> 00:46:35.540 I need carbs. 838 00:46:35.540 --> 00:46:36.540 Most likely to get- 839 00:46:36.540 --> 00:46:37.540 Superlatives. 840 00:46:37.540 --> 00:46:38.540 Superlatives. 841 00:46:38.540 --> 00:46:39.540 Superlatives. 842 00:46:39.540 --> 00:46:40.540 Okay. 843 00:46:40.540 --> 00:46:41.540 Superlatives. 844 00:46:41.540 --> 00:46:45.180 I'm hooked on phonics, you guys, because I'm not hooked on it. 845 00:46:45.180 --> 00:46:46.580 I cannot sound anything out. 846 00:46:46.580 --> 00:46:47.580 All right. 847 00:46:47.580 --> 00:46:52.060 So Mike, you're going to tell us what you would be the most, what you'd been voted by 848 00:46:52.060 --> 00:46:53.380 all of your friends. 849 00:46:53.380 --> 00:46:58.260 Let's go college, like high school, college, the most likely to do with your life. 850 00:46:58.260 --> 00:46:59.260 Okay. 851 00:46:59.260 --> 00:47:02.700 And then you're going to ask all three bachelorettes same question. 852 00:47:02.700 --> 00:47:06.500 That was a rough season of my life. 853 00:47:06.500 --> 00:47:08.460 I didn't, I didn't come to the Lord until 20. 854 00:47:08.460 --> 00:47:12.780 So probably dying in a car crash because I was street racing. 855 00:47:12.780 --> 00:47:17.460 Like it was, it was one of those things where, you know, I ran 856 00:47:17.540 --> 00:47:21.100 from pain with adrenaline and horsepower. 857 00:47:21.100 --> 00:47:28.540 And so it's not, you know, and so, yeah, that wasn't my favorite season of life. 858 00:47:28.540 --> 00:47:30.900 So most likely to not survive. 859 00:47:30.900 --> 00:47:31.900 Okay. 860 00:47:31.900 --> 00:47:32.900 That's fair. 861 00:47:32.900 --> 00:47:33.900 Car crash. 862 00:47:33.900 --> 00:47:34.900 All right. 863 00:47:34.900 --> 00:47:35.900 What do we got? 864 00:47:35.900 --> 00:47:41.140 Let's, let's ask pick one to go. 865 00:47:41.140 --> 00:47:42.140 Number one. 866 00:47:42.140 --> 00:47:46.520 Well, so the remainder of my high school career was a little bit different. 867 00:47:46.580 --> 00:47:51.920 So I would say probably would have been most likely to be a mom. 868 00:47:51.920 --> 00:47:55.480 All right. 869 00:47:55.480 --> 00:47:56.960 Most likely to be a mom. 870 00:47:56.960 --> 00:47:58.160 Love it. 871 00:47:58.160 --> 00:47:59.160 Keep going, Mike. 872 00:47:59.160 --> 00:48:00.160 Oh, number two. 873 00:48:00.160 --> 00:48:01.160 So keep going. 874 00:48:01.160 --> 00:48:02.160 Number two. 875 00:48:02.160 --> 00:48:09.560 What would, what would you most likely to be? 876 00:48:09.560 --> 00:48:12.600 School was tough for me. 877 00:48:12.600 --> 00:48:19.480 So I always had to work really, really hard and it was, it was tough because I don't even 878 00:48:19.480 --> 00:48:28.400 my guidance counselors, like, I feel like they didn't really believe in, in my capabilities. 879 00:48:28.400 --> 00:48:39.040 So I, I honestly don't know like what they thought, but I mean, for me, I have a, a very 880 00:48:39.040 --> 00:48:47.280 persevering, you know, way about me and, you know, despite, you know, people saying 881 00:48:47.280 --> 00:48:51.040 like, oh, well, you know, you can't do this or you can't do that. 882 00:48:51.040 --> 00:48:58.560 You know, I, I was very stubborn and I said to myself, well, I am going to go through 883 00:48:58.560 --> 00:49:02.360 school and, you know, become what I want to be. 884 00:49:02.360 --> 00:49:03.360 So. 885 00:49:03.360 --> 00:49:04.800 So most likely to overcome. 886 00:49:04.800 --> 00:49:05.800 That's great. 887 00:49:05.800 --> 00:49:06.800 Yeah. 888 00:49:06.800 --> 00:49:07.800 Definitely an overcomer. 889 00:49:07.800 --> 00:49:08.800 Yeah. 890 00:49:09.560 --> 00:49:10.560 Yeah. 891 00:49:10.560 --> 00:49:11.560 Yeah. 892 00:49:11.560 --> 00:49:12.560 Love it. 893 00:49:12.560 --> 00:49:13.560 Bachelorette. 894 00:49:13.560 --> 00:49:14.560 Number three. 895 00:49:14.560 --> 00:49:20.960 I'd say probably, and this is just because of the time of the life of my life that I 896 00:49:20.960 --> 00:49:21.960 was in at the time. 897 00:49:21.960 --> 00:49:26.960 And I have to, I was, I was actually a Christian, but I wasn't very serious about it when I 898 00:49:26.960 --> 00:49:27.960 went to college. 899 00:49:27.960 --> 00:49:32.040 But so I would say most likely to rebel. 900 00:49:32.040 --> 00:49:34.920 All right. 901 00:49:35.920 --> 00:49:40.240 That's a rough kind of, that's a very transitional stage of life, you know, especially if you've 902 00:49:40.240 --> 00:49:42.920 come out of a, depending on your childhood. 903 00:49:42.920 --> 00:49:43.920 Absolutely. 904 00:49:43.920 --> 00:49:44.920 So, yes. 905 00:49:44.920 --> 00:49:45.920 All right. 906 00:49:45.920 --> 00:49:49.960 So we're going to wrap it up and how we're going to wrap it up is we're going to wrap 907 00:49:49.960 --> 00:49:54.720 it up with a question about what we're all here for, and that is how we're going to make 908 00:49:54.720 --> 00:49:57.960 connection and what we're looking for in connection. 909 00:49:57.960 --> 00:50:00.040 And so Mike, starting with yourself, you know, in. 910 00:50:00.000 --> 00:50:03.260 and in 20 seconds or less, 911 00:50:03.260 --> 00:50:06.120 what are the traits that you're looking for 912 00:50:06.120 --> 00:50:09.540 in a match, in a partner? 913 00:50:09.540 --> 00:50:11.300 What are the most important traits to you 914 00:50:11.300 --> 00:50:12.220 that you're looking for? 915 00:50:12.220 --> 00:50:14.140 And then you're gonna let all three bachelorettes 916 00:50:14.140 --> 00:50:16.640 ask, answer the same question. 917 00:50:16.640 --> 00:50:19.320 So I answer it and then let them answer, okay. 918 00:50:19.320 --> 00:50:22.440 First one, Jesus has their yes. 919 00:50:22.440 --> 00:50:24.120 Like, you know, Jesus has my yes, 920 00:50:24.120 --> 00:50:26.280 and I don't know where that's gonna lead quite honestly, 921 00:50:26.280 --> 00:50:30.480 but, and just somebody who is on fire, 922 00:50:30.480 --> 00:50:31.560 like a worshiper, 923 00:50:31.560 --> 00:50:34.920 somebody who follows the Holy Spirit and is led. 924 00:50:34.920 --> 00:50:36.040 I mean, those are the, those, 925 00:50:36.040 --> 00:50:36.880 with everything, with that, 926 00:50:36.880 --> 00:50:40.040 you can make everything else work, you know. 927 00:50:40.040 --> 00:50:41.640 Somebody who's kind. 928 00:50:41.640 --> 00:50:45.040 I got two boys that can use some love 929 00:50:45.040 --> 00:50:50.040 and just, so maybe just be a partner in life and fun, 930 00:50:50.600 --> 00:50:52.960 to have some fun, you know. 931 00:50:52.960 --> 00:50:55.320 Like, Jackie's a party in a box. 932 00:50:55.320 --> 00:51:00.320 And you know, like, I was lacking that, 933 00:51:00.960 --> 00:51:02.120 but I'm looking at going, 934 00:51:02.120 --> 00:51:03.920 I would like to have a party in a box 935 00:51:03.920 --> 00:51:05.020 and have a lot of fun. 936 00:51:06.360 --> 00:51:08.400 So does that cover it all? 937 00:51:08.400 --> 00:51:09.240 Just, yeah. 938 00:51:09.240 --> 00:51:10.080 Yeah, it covers it all. 939 00:51:10.080 --> 00:51:10.960 And just so you guys know, 940 00:51:10.960 --> 00:51:12.960 that is my nickname for my husband's best friend. 941 00:51:12.960 --> 00:51:15.040 My husband's best friend calls me a party in a box. 942 00:51:15.040 --> 00:51:17.120 So he's just not making that up out of nowhere. 943 00:51:17.120 --> 00:51:17.960 You're like, what, 944 00:51:17.960 --> 00:51:19.560 what is he saying about Jackie right now? 945 00:51:19.560 --> 00:51:20.400 Yes, it's true. 946 00:51:21.240 --> 00:51:22.760 Okay, so go ahead and you can start 947 00:51:22.800 --> 00:51:26.200 with whatever bachelorette you want to ask the question. 948 00:51:26.200 --> 00:51:27.880 We started four words, so let's go backwards. 949 00:51:27.880 --> 00:51:29.240 Bachelorette number three. 950 00:51:31.880 --> 00:51:35.920 I too, like, I feel like I'm a playful person 951 00:51:35.920 --> 00:51:39.160 and I've become more playful as I've gotten older. 952 00:51:39.160 --> 00:51:41.040 And I think that kind of weighs in 953 00:51:41.040 --> 00:51:42.680 to my perspective on life. 954 00:51:42.680 --> 00:51:45.360 It's getting more relaxed as I get older. 955 00:51:45.360 --> 00:51:47.520 I think that's funny to say. 956 00:51:47.520 --> 00:51:52.520 But I also, I, my personality is on the inside 957 00:51:52.760 --> 00:51:55.960 in the middle of being extroverted and introverted. 958 00:51:55.960 --> 00:51:57.360 So I still need alone time, 959 00:51:57.360 --> 00:51:59.720 but I need someone to kind of pull me out of my shell 960 00:51:59.720 --> 00:52:01.400 a little bit to have some fun 961 00:52:02.720 --> 00:52:05.640 and definitely continue to grow my relationship 962 00:52:05.640 --> 00:52:06.480 with the Lord. 963 00:52:06.480 --> 00:52:08.920 That's 100% my goal. 964 00:52:10.040 --> 00:52:11.080 Yeah, super cool. 965 00:52:11.960 --> 00:52:13.640 All right, bachelorette number two. 966 00:52:17.040 --> 00:52:19.560 So things that I'm looking for, you know, 967 00:52:19.560 --> 00:52:21.600 same God-centered, you know, 968 00:52:21.600 --> 00:52:23.880 definitely a God-centered relationship. 969 00:52:25.200 --> 00:52:29.080 Someone who loves the outdoors, loves animals, 970 00:52:30.280 --> 00:52:32.720 loves to laugh and have joy. 971 00:52:34.280 --> 00:52:35.680 Someone to partner with. 972 00:52:37.440 --> 00:52:40.000 Someone that can have strong communication 973 00:52:40.000 --> 00:52:43.560 because I believe, you know, communication is so important. 974 00:52:46.120 --> 00:52:49.320 Someone that, you know, we could be a light 975 00:52:49.320 --> 00:52:54.320 for Jesus together and, you know, make positive changes. 976 00:52:56.960 --> 00:52:58.200 That's amazing. 977 00:52:58.200 --> 00:52:59.400 Awesome. 978 00:52:59.400 --> 00:53:02.680 And bachelorette, last not least, bachelorette number one. 979 00:53:03.840 --> 00:53:06.400 I love Jesus with all of my heart 980 00:53:06.400 --> 00:53:08.120 and I love to be spirit led. 981 00:53:08.120 --> 00:53:10.840 And so I really desire that in a mate. 982 00:53:12.880 --> 00:53:15.840 My parents were like that and they were really compatible 983 00:53:15.840 --> 00:53:17.680 and they were very spirit led. 984 00:53:17.680 --> 00:53:20.160 And I desire to have that in my life. 985 00:53:20.160 --> 00:53:21.200 I like to have fun. 986 00:53:21.200 --> 00:53:22.480 I love to laugh a lot. 987 00:53:22.480 --> 00:53:24.880 I can make a joke and fun out of just about anything, 988 00:53:24.880 --> 00:53:27.400 even things that probably shouldn't be funny. 989 00:53:27.400 --> 00:53:30.240 So I love, you know, I'd like a lot of that. 990 00:53:30.240 --> 00:53:33.560 Also loyalty and faithfulness, kindness, 991 00:53:33.560 --> 00:53:36.960 somebody with a growth mindset and, you know, 992 00:53:36.960 --> 00:53:40.520 who's willing to, I believe in like being spontaneous 993 00:53:40.520 --> 00:53:41.440 and having fun, right? 994 00:53:41.440 --> 00:53:42.920 But then also using wisdom. 995 00:53:42.920 --> 00:53:45.160 I think the Bible calls us to use wisdom, 996 00:53:45.160 --> 00:53:47.240 that wisdom is the principal thing. 997 00:53:47.800 --> 00:53:49.240 And so I long for that as well. 998 00:53:49.240 --> 00:53:51.720 So those are some of the things I'm looking for. 999 00:53:51.720 --> 00:53:52.560 That's amazing. 1000 00:53:53.440 --> 00:53:54.880 These are all really great answers. 1001 00:53:54.880 --> 00:53:55.720 I love it. 1002 00:53:55.720 --> 00:53:58.040 You guys, I've been making stars next to bachelorette one, 1003 00:53:58.040 --> 00:54:00.760 two, and three, as they said things in their answers 1004 00:54:00.760 --> 00:54:03.640 that were in synergy to Mike's answers 1005 00:54:03.640 --> 00:54:04.720 and what I know of Mike. 1006 00:54:04.720 --> 00:54:07.320 And really it's kind of a neck and neck tie. 1007 00:54:07.320 --> 00:54:08.600 It's a dead heat. 1008 00:54:08.600 --> 00:54:12.920 And so all three of these women have different aspects 1009 00:54:12.920 --> 00:54:14.280 of their personalities. 1010 00:54:14.280 --> 00:54:15.560 And because I know who they are, 1011 00:54:15.600 --> 00:54:17.480 they have different aspects of their everyday life 1012 00:54:17.480 --> 00:54:19.280 that match with Mike's everyday life. 1013 00:54:19.280 --> 00:54:21.000 Cause I know about him as well. 1014 00:54:21.000 --> 00:54:23.160 And so really you can't make a wrong choice 1015 00:54:23.160 --> 00:54:25.760 because once again, y'all, this is not a marriage proposal. 1016 00:54:25.760 --> 00:54:29.160 This is just a virtual or in-person date, 1017 00:54:29.160 --> 00:54:32.480 virtual or in-person, get to know each other, hang, 1018 00:54:32.480 --> 00:54:33.880 low stakes situation, 1019 00:54:33.880 --> 00:54:37.040 meaning that if there isn't any compatibility to go forward 1020 00:54:37.040 --> 00:54:38.400 and to get to know each other better, 1021 00:54:38.400 --> 00:54:40.120 they're in community, they're friends. 1022 00:54:40.120 --> 00:54:42.480 And Mike has the option to go 1023 00:54:42.480 --> 00:54:46.440 because all three of them have tied really with my paper 1024 00:54:46.440 --> 00:54:50.040 that he can go and get to know the other two as well. 1025 00:54:50.040 --> 00:54:51.680 And anyone else in the community, 1026 00:54:51.680 --> 00:54:53.600 you guys, that is what community-based matchmaking 1027 00:54:53.600 --> 00:54:54.480 is about. 1028 00:54:54.480 --> 00:54:56.280 We're all here to get to know each other. 1029 00:54:56.280 --> 00:54:58.560 I believe that God has a match for everyone. 1030 00:54:58.560 --> 00:54:59.800 And if someone's not your match, 1031 00:54:59.800 --> 00:55:01.600 then someone is not your match. 1032 00:55:00.000 --> 00:55:03.680 someone else in the community probably could be. 1033 00:55:03.680 --> 00:55:05.320 And so that is really important. 1034 00:55:05.320 --> 00:55:06.640 So Mike, great job. 1035 00:55:06.640 --> 00:55:08.840 Bachelorette one, two, and three, great job. 1036 00:55:08.840 --> 00:55:10.560 And so we will allow all the bachelorettes 1037 00:55:10.560 --> 00:55:12.580 to reveal themselves, not quite yet, 1038 00:55:12.580 --> 00:55:15.120 because Mike is gonna give us his choice 1039 00:55:15.120 --> 00:55:16.200 based on this dead heat. 1040 00:55:16.200 --> 00:55:19.360 He's just gonna be choosing based on whatever, you know, 1041 00:55:19.360 --> 00:55:21.680 feeling he has in this moment right now 1042 00:55:21.680 --> 00:55:22.920 in the heat of the moment, 1043 00:55:22.920 --> 00:55:26.480 because he's kind of on the hot seat. 1044 00:55:26.480 --> 00:55:28.600 He's gonna go ahead and pick, 1045 00:55:28.600 --> 00:55:32.680 and then she is going to be the last one to reveal herself. 1046 00:55:32.680 --> 00:55:34.440 The other two will reveal themselves, 1047 00:55:34.440 --> 00:55:35.920 and they will tell the whole community, 1048 00:55:35.920 --> 00:55:37.500 since we have a bunch of guys here tonight. 1049 00:55:37.500 --> 00:55:39.160 I see you guys, I see y'all. 1050 00:55:40.960 --> 00:55:43.920 And then of course, in case Mike wants to, 1051 00:55:43.920 --> 00:55:47.920 and he wants to, you know, get to know them later too, 1052 00:55:47.920 --> 00:55:49.120 he'll know who they are. 1053 00:55:49.120 --> 00:55:51.720 All right, so Mike, without further ado, 1054 00:55:51.720 --> 00:55:53.800 David Dorman, can I get a drum roll? 1055 00:55:54.560 --> 00:55:55.400 Sure. 1056 00:55:56.800 --> 00:55:58.520 Yeah, oh man, this is hard. 1057 00:55:58.520 --> 00:55:59.480 Jesus help. 1058 00:56:01.520 --> 00:56:04.320 Mike, is it gonna be bachelor one, bachelorette one, 1059 00:56:04.320 --> 00:56:07.880 bachelorette two, or bachelorette three 1060 00:56:07.880 --> 00:56:11.780 for your in-person or virtual date? 1061 00:56:11.780 --> 00:56:12.620 Number one. 1062 00:56:13.620 --> 00:56:14.960 Number one! 1063 00:56:14.960 --> 00:56:18.400 All right, before number one reveals herself, 1064 00:56:18.400 --> 00:56:21.680 we're going to allow number two to reveal herself. 1065 00:56:21.680 --> 00:56:23.240 Reveal yourself, turn on your window, 1066 00:56:23.640 --> 00:56:25.560 tell us your name, where you live, 1067 00:56:25.560 --> 00:56:27.880 and, you know, just anything else you want to share 1068 00:56:27.880 --> 00:56:29.380 with the group about yourself. 1069 00:56:33.160 --> 00:56:34.400 Where are you? 1070 00:56:34.400 --> 00:56:36.120 Hello. 1071 00:56:36.120 --> 00:56:37.560 Yay, it's Dana! 1072 00:56:39.200 --> 00:56:44.200 Hi, I'm Dana, I'm in New Jersey, and I'm 45. 1073 00:56:46.240 --> 00:56:47.280 Dana from Jersey. 1074 00:56:47.280 --> 00:56:49.240 I actually have met this beautiful woman in person. 1075 00:56:49.240 --> 00:56:51.400 She's incredible. 1076 00:56:51.400 --> 00:56:54.200 There's so many amazing things about her, 1077 00:56:54.200 --> 00:56:58.600 and so we're so excited that she is part of our community. 1078 00:56:58.600 --> 00:57:00.220 You guys heard a lot about Dana tonight, 1079 00:57:00.220 --> 00:57:02.600 so if you know someone that Dana should meet, 1080 00:57:02.600 --> 00:57:03.520 Dana should match with, 1081 00:57:03.520 --> 00:57:05.060 remember what we help make happen for others, 1082 00:57:05.060 --> 00:57:06.600 God makes happen for us, 1083 00:57:06.600 --> 00:57:09.800 go ahead and email us with the subject line, Dana. 1084 00:57:09.800 --> 00:57:13.180 If you're a guy that wants to meet her, same thing, D-A-N-A. 1085 00:57:13.180 --> 00:57:14.840 If you're a girl that has someone 1086 00:57:14.840 --> 00:57:16.160 who you think Dana should meet, 1087 00:57:16.160 --> 00:57:18.240 either within the community or not in the community, 1088 00:57:18.240 --> 00:57:20.000 Dana in the subject line, 1089 00:57:20.000 --> 00:57:24.440 and we thank you guys for helping find Dana's spirit mate. 1090 00:57:24.440 --> 00:57:27.280 All right, and then next, Bachelorette number three, 1091 00:57:27.280 --> 00:57:28.720 go ahead and reveal yourself. 1092 00:57:31.280 --> 00:57:36.280 Hi, I'm Mandy, and I live in Boise, Idaho, 1093 00:57:36.440 --> 00:57:38.320 and I'm 49 years old. 1094 00:57:39.280 --> 00:57:42.120 Mandy from Idaho, so cute. 1095 00:57:42.120 --> 00:57:45.620 I have not met Mandy in person, but she's so cute. 1096 00:57:45.620 --> 00:57:49.080 And once again, you heard a lot about her tonight. 1097 00:57:49.080 --> 00:57:51.280 If you know anyone that should meet Mandy 1098 00:57:51.280 --> 00:57:53.840 or she should meet, or if you want to meet Mandy, 1099 00:57:53.840 --> 00:57:56.000 then Mandy in the subject line 1100 00:57:56.000 --> 00:57:59.440 to admin at JackieDorman.com, all right? 1101 00:57:59.440 --> 00:58:01.960 All right, and without further ado, 1102 00:58:01.960 --> 00:58:05.160 the person, once again, all three of these women, 1103 00:58:05.160 --> 00:58:07.640 I have the same amount of stars by each of your name 1104 00:58:07.640 --> 00:58:11.260 of answering questions in synergy to Mike's questions. 1105 00:58:12.120 --> 00:58:16.600 The person that you wanted to check out and see, 1106 00:58:16.600 --> 00:58:18.080 see what's up, have a little date with, 1107 00:58:18.080 --> 00:58:20.600 have a little hangout with, is Bachelorette number one, 1108 00:58:20.600 --> 00:58:23.200 Bachelorette number one, please reveal yourself. 1109 00:58:29.800 --> 00:58:30.640 Where is she? 1110 00:58:30.640 --> 00:58:31.760 Oh, sorry, hi. 1111 00:58:33.120 --> 00:58:34.040 Hello. 1112 00:58:34.040 --> 00:58:35.680 Hey, I'm Jessica. 1113 00:58:35.680 --> 00:58:36.920 Can you hear me? 1114 00:58:36.920 --> 00:58:39.920 Yes, Jessica from Florida. 1115 00:58:39.920 --> 00:58:42.400 I'm Jessica, I am from Florida, 1116 00:58:42.400 --> 00:58:44.800 Milton hurricane country right here. 1117 00:58:45.120 --> 00:58:48.760 I'm 44, it's nice to meet you, Mike. 1118 00:58:48.760 --> 00:58:50.280 Nice to meet you as well. 1119 00:58:50.280 --> 00:58:52.080 Yes, and so Jessica and Mike, 1120 00:58:52.080 --> 00:58:53.600 we will be in touch with both of you. 1121 00:58:53.600 --> 00:58:55.280 We're, because you're in California, Mike, 1122 00:58:55.280 --> 00:58:57.280 and Jessica's in Florida, 1123 00:58:57.280 --> 00:59:00.120 we will be setting you up on a virtual date of our choosing 1124 00:59:00.120 --> 00:59:02.640 so you guys get to know each other better. 1125 00:59:02.640 --> 00:59:04.240 We will talk to both of you privately 1126 00:59:04.240 --> 00:59:07.520 about the level of contact as far as information, 1127 00:59:07.520 --> 00:59:09.720 phone numbers, whatever, want to be exchanged. 1128 00:59:09.720 --> 00:59:11.600 I actually have known Jessica for a while. 1129 00:59:11.600 --> 00:59:15.600 Jessica was actually one of my students back in the day 1130 00:59:15.600 --> 00:59:17.040 for a whole different subject. 1131 00:59:17.040 --> 00:59:19.720 So her and I, we've been talking for a while 1132 00:59:19.720 --> 00:59:23.480 and she is a wonderful therapist in Florida 1133 00:59:23.480 --> 00:59:25.680 and has done a lot of great work 1134 00:59:25.680 --> 00:59:29.240 and continues to do great work in ministry 1135 00:59:29.240 --> 00:59:30.840 and in business tree. 1136 00:59:30.840 --> 00:59:34.840 And so love Jess, so excited for this tonight. 1137 00:59:34.840 --> 00:59:38.480 Now, Bethany, if you go ahead and unhighlight everybody, 1138 00:59:38.480 --> 00:59:39.880 how fun was that you guys? 1139 00:59:39.920 --> 00:59:41.800 And we're going to do so much more of stuff like this, 1140 00:59:41.800 --> 00:59:45.000 shuffles and dating games, bigger dating games, 1141 00:59:45.000 --> 00:59:46.840 maybe like a family feud situation 1142 00:59:46.840 --> 00:59:48.760 where you have guys and girls on each side 1143 00:59:48.760 --> 00:59:51.000 and no one knows who the spirit mate match 1144 00:59:51.000 --> 00:59:53.560 said should be together, 1145 00:59:53.560 --> 00:59:55.680 but we'll do all kinds of fun things 1146 00:59:55.680 --> 00:59:59.040 where we can really get to know people a lot better 1147 00:59:59.040 --> 01:00:00.200 within this community. 1148 01:00:00.000 --> 01:00:07.280 All right in person as well in person as well. Okay and so I do have a couple guys that I asked 1149 01:00:07.280 --> 01:00:12.240 to come and I see that a couple of them were able to make it tonight and so I want to go ahead and 1150 01:00:12.240 --> 01:00:19.920 spotlight them so that we can have a little single spotlight. So ladies get ready to ask your 1151 01:00:19.920 --> 01:00:29.520 questions. And we'll do this for the next 20-ish minutes for those of you that are watching the 1152 01:00:29.520 --> 01:00:39.200 clock. There I am. Hey y'all. All right so look at my cup. Hey y'all. All right I'm not country 1153 01:00:39.200 --> 01:00:43.280 at all you guys. I come from Cleveland. I don't need to say anything more about that. All right 1154 01:00:43.280 --> 01:00:51.600 Abram where are you at? I saw you. You can't escape. I have you in my tractor beam ad spotlight. 1155 01:00:52.320 --> 01:00:57.680 All right. All right and then last but not least 1156 01:01:01.680 --> 01:01:02.640 Mr. Greg. 1157 01:01:06.160 --> 01:01:11.600 Let's see. I should be able to add more than one spotlight shouldn't I? Yes. 1158 01:01:11.600 --> 01:01:19.840 Bethany see if you can spotlight Greg. It's spelled with two g's there. 1159 01:01:20.480 --> 01:01:24.400 It's not letting me do it for some reason. See if you can do it. 1160 01:01:27.840 --> 01:01:36.400 Hi Abram. How's it going? Are you nervous? A little bit yeah. Yeah I know it is a little nerve-wracking 1161 01:01:36.400 --> 01:01:42.320 but it's going to be great. All right so Abram and Greg are both part of our men's community 1162 01:01:42.320 --> 01:01:46.560 and we are so thankful for both of them. Both of them amazing great guys 1163 01:01:46.560 --> 01:01:48.960 and we're just waiting for Greg to get spotlighted. 1164 01:01:51.040 --> 01:01:54.640 Can you guys hear me okay? Maybe turn yourself up a little bit. 1165 01:01:57.040 --> 01:01:57.840 You're a little low. 1166 01:01:57.840 --> 01:02:07.920 Oh I found it. Oh I lost it. Yeah it keeps kicking it back out. I'm not sure. 1167 01:02:12.800 --> 01:02:21.280 There you are. Hi. Hi Greg. Hello. Hello. All right. Okay so we're so excited for Greg and 1168 01:02:21.280 --> 01:02:25.680 Abram to be with us tonight. Both of these guys is their first time in the spotlight 1169 01:02:25.680 --> 01:02:31.600 and so that's awesome. Let me just check and see. I did have one other guy that thought he might be 1170 01:02:31.600 --> 01:02:36.960 able to come. Nope he's not here. All right so what we do during single spotlight is these are 1171 01:02:36.960 --> 01:02:43.280 guys from our men's community. They also have a spirit mate match profile filled out and we want 1172 01:02:43.280 --> 01:02:50.240 to showcase them to our female student body and for everyone watching in replay. We have about 230 1173 01:02:50.240 --> 01:02:55.120 people live right now and then everyone who will watch in replay. If you want to meet either one 1174 01:02:55.120 --> 01:03:00.160 of them you're going to email us and you're going to put their name their first name in the subject 1175 01:03:00.160 --> 01:03:08.560 line. Abram or Greg with two g's. Greg we want to know about the two g's okay. Mom and dad were just 1176 01:03:08.560 --> 01:03:14.640 like one g's not enough. Greg is amazing. We're going to give him two g's. Did you ever ask your 1177 01:03:14.640 --> 01:03:19.920 parents because it's kind of an unusual spelling right? Yeah it's kind of weird kind of country. 1178 01:03:19.920 --> 01:03:28.560 Weird. It's unique. It's unique. My real name is Gregory with one g and before I ever started 1179 01:03:28.560 --> 01:03:33.600 going to school my mom started teaching me how to spell my name but they always called me Greg 1180 01:03:34.160 --> 01:03:39.200 and she liked me spelling it with two g's so I just spelled g-r-e-d-g all my life. 1181 01:03:40.240 --> 01:03:45.040 All right I love that story. Mom taught him how to write his name as a little boy 1182 01:03:45.600 --> 01:03:50.080 and she liked that unique that unique spelling and I think that's great. Double g. 1183 01:03:50.080 --> 01:03:56.960 David Dorman is is double d and you're double g now and so it's very fun. All right okay so Abram 1184 01:03:56.960 --> 01:04:00.400 and Greg just take turns. We're gonna go back and forth. Ladies go ahead and put your questions in 1185 01:04:00.400 --> 01:04:06.880 the chat. Ladies keep your questions light okay and fun. Let's not get all crazy up in here. I 1186 01:04:06.880 --> 01:04:13.840 know how y'all are okay but Greg and Abram first and foremost tell us where you live. How old are 1187 01:04:13.840 --> 01:04:20.560 you? You know just a little bit of bio about yourself. Greg do you want to go first? Yeah you 1188 01:04:20.560 --> 01:04:23.760 might want to turn yourself up a little bit more. Is it just me or he's really low? Can you hear me? 1189 01:04:24.640 --> 01:04:29.360 Yeah I mean yeah I gotta lean in. Is it just me? Can everyone hear him okay? 1190 01:04:30.800 --> 01:04:37.520 Okay it's him. It's very low. Okay turn up my mic here man. Turn that mic up. Yeah 1191 01:04:38.480 --> 01:04:43.520 I'm gonna do the zoom stuff so my volume's gonna be jacked. Oh there it is. Can you hear me? There 1192 01:04:43.520 --> 01:04:49.360 it is. Can you hear me? Yeah that's just regular. You're not jacked. Go ahead. Okay Greg you want 1193 01:04:49.360 --> 01:04:58.240 to go? You want me to go? You can go man. All right so Abram Dukas. 39 years old. I'm five 1194 01:04:58.240 --> 01:04:59.840 six on a good day. Bye. 1195 01:05:00.000 --> 01:05:03.000 175 pounds, kind of a gladiator build. 1196 01:05:03.540 --> 01:05:06.860 Um, my grass right now is a little long. 1197 01:05:08.340 --> 01:05:11.160 Um, but I cut it like every fifth day. 1198 01:05:11.760 --> 01:05:19.060 So, and then my beard is reddish, but the, the carpet, the curtains 1199 01:05:19.060 --> 01:05:23.500 do not match the carpet, so no little potions or, you know, stuff like that. 1200 01:05:23.500 --> 01:05:24.900 I'm basically like a blonde guy. 1201 01:05:24.980 --> 01:05:26.660 Um, more or less. 1202 01:05:27.360 --> 01:05:28.560 Um, yeah. 1203 01:05:29.540 --> 01:05:31.680 With a red beard, blonde with red. 1204 01:05:31.680 --> 01:05:32.460 Is that what you're saying? 1205 01:05:32.820 --> 01:05:35.640 Yeah, more or less like a Sandy blonde kind of a guy. 1206 01:05:35.700 --> 01:05:39.320 Um, not really dark haired, but my beard is red in that. 1207 01:05:39.320 --> 01:05:40.480 My, my brother has it. 1208 01:05:40.480 --> 01:05:41.280 My dad has it. 1209 01:05:41.320 --> 01:05:43.820 And my great grandfather had it. 1210 01:05:43.920 --> 01:05:46.920 And I think that might be, uh, some of the German blood in me. 1211 01:05:46.920 --> 01:05:49.520 I'm 75% Italian, 25% German. 1212 01:05:50.240 --> 01:05:54.200 Um, culturally more or less live in Italian, eating Italian. 1213 01:05:54.260 --> 01:05:57.360 Um, I don't want to eat like the Americans cause I want to die. 1214 01:05:57.400 --> 01:06:00.480 I like as an old person with good health. 1215 01:06:00.480 --> 01:06:02.980 So, uh, you know, health's a priority for me. 1216 01:06:03.000 --> 01:06:04.160 Don't get me started. 1217 01:06:04.560 --> 01:06:06.160 Do not give me a little bit of carbs. 1218 01:06:06.160 --> 01:06:06.280 Okay. 1219 01:06:06.280 --> 01:06:06.960 It's not going to hurt you. 1220 01:06:07.760 --> 01:06:08.280 I need it. 1221 01:06:08.520 --> 01:06:09.120 Ladies. 1222 01:06:09.120 --> 01:06:12.400 He's talking about this carpet, not anything further South. 1223 01:06:12.400 --> 01:06:14.760 So get your minds out of the gutter and let's yeah. 1224 01:06:14.760 --> 01:06:16.560 Like drapes carpet, you know? 1225 01:06:17.040 --> 01:06:17.520 Yeah. 1226 01:06:17.520 --> 01:06:21.660 But sometimes that analogy is used differently. 1227 01:06:21.660 --> 01:06:22.000 All right. 1228 01:06:22.000 --> 01:06:22.500 Keep going. 1229 01:06:22.500 --> 01:06:26.820 My bad, my bad, but yeah, Fresno, California. 1230 01:06:26.900 --> 01:06:30.580 Um, yeah, I work in the restaurant business. 1231 01:06:30.620 --> 01:06:32.300 Been doing that for like 20 years. 1232 01:06:32.620 --> 01:06:34.660 I work at a higher end seafood restaurant. 1233 01:06:35.340 --> 01:06:37.860 Um, and, um, I enjoy my job. 1234 01:06:37.860 --> 01:06:40.540 I based my job is basically to help people have a good time. 1235 01:06:41.420 --> 01:06:45.740 And, um, yeah, it's like kind of like serving people every day, you know, 1236 01:06:45.740 --> 01:06:46.780 making sure they have a good time. 1237 01:06:47.420 --> 01:06:51.240 And, uh, luckily my restaurant's really popular in my town and a great food. 1238 01:06:51.240 --> 01:06:53.640 And so it's, uh, wins across the board. 1239 01:06:53.840 --> 01:06:56.600 Um, yeah, I don't know if you want to go further, but yeah. 1240 01:06:57.680 --> 01:06:57.880 Yeah. 1241 01:06:57.880 --> 01:07:00.840 And so, and Abram, you've never been married, never married. 1242 01:07:00.840 --> 01:07:02.520 No kids that I know. 1243 01:07:03.160 --> 01:07:04.720 And did you say how old you were? 1244 01:07:05.200 --> 01:07:06.920 39, 39. 1245 01:07:07.120 --> 01:07:07.320 Okay. 1246 01:07:07.320 --> 01:07:07.800 That's awesome. 1247 01:07:07.800 --> 01:07:08.600 That's a great intro. 1248 01:07:08.960 --> 01:07:10.320 Greg, what do you got? 1249 01:07:10.960 --> 01:07:11.600 Yeah, I'm Greg. 1250 01:07:11.600 --> 01:07:13.320 I live in Charlotte, North Carolina. 1251 01:07:13.600 --> 01:07:16.480 I'm 58 years old, just turned 58 in August. 1252 01:07:16.680 --> 01:07:24.040 And, um, I have a 11 year old son and been married once divorced, 1253 01:07:24.080 --> 01:07:27.160 um, for about three years now. 1254 01:07:28.200 --> 01:07:35.960 So, um, I'm, I guess as far as build wise, I've got into that I'm five, 10, 1255 01:07:36.760 --> 01:07:44.000 170 ish, um, and I'm very active as far as, um, um, definitely like to do 1256 01:07:44.000 --> 01:07:49.520 anything active sports workout a little bit, um, pickleball, tennis, anything like 1257 01:07:49.520 --> 01:07:57.880 that, um, also my career, basically I'm in it security and, um, and currently 1258 01:07:57.880 --> 01:08:02.200 working for more of a, on the legal side of it, um, compliance. 1259 01:08:02.800 --> 01:08:05.520 And, um, so pretty boring job. 1260 01:08:05.520 --> 01:08:07.920 I work from home, work, work, uh, remotely. 1261 01:08:07.920 --> 01:08:10.960 So, um, kind of flexible during the day. 1262 01:08:11.480 --> 01:08:15.240 And, um, so yeah, it's kind of a good, good opportunity right now. 1263 01:08:15.920 --> 01:08:19.920 And, um, yeah, I grew up, uh, near Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. 1264 01:08:19.920 --> 01:08:26.080 So I'm a big Steelers fan, um, and lived in Virginia beach, Virginia for 25 1265 01:08:26.080 --> 01:08:27.399 years before moving to Charlotte. 1266 01:08:27.560 --> 01:08:29.359 And I've been in Charlotte about 10 years now. 1267 01:08:29.359 --> 01:08:30.920 So, um, 1268 01:08:31.080 --> 01:08:31.399 great. 1269 01:08:31.399 --> 01:08:32.479 Can you repeat how old you are? 1270 01:08:32.479 --> 01:08:33.640 Because people ask again, 1271 01:08:35.800 --> 01:08:38.399 50 and then five, eight, right? 1272 01:08:38.840 --> 01:08:39.240 Eight. 1273 01:08:39.359 --> 01:08:40.080 Yes. 1274 01:08:40.160 --> 01:08:40.439 Yes. 1275 01:08:40.439 --> 01:08:41.520 Come on, bro. 1276 01:08:42.359 --> 01:08:43.720 I'm about to join the 50 club. 1277 01:08:43.960 --> 01:08:44.600 All right. 1278 01:08:44.760 --> 01:08:45.560 You're looking good. 1279 01:08:45.600 --> 01:08:46.040 All right. 1280 01:08:46.279 --> 01:08:46.960 It's awesome. 1281 01:08:46.960 --> 01:08:48.760 You guys, fifties, best decade. 1282 01:08:48.760 --> 01:08:51.960 My friend who's in their sixties said fifties, sixties, best decades of your 1283 01:08:51.960 --> 01:08:54.720 life for those of you that are not there yet, you're welcome. 1284 01:08:54.880 --> 01:08:56.120 You have things to look forward to. 1285 01:08:56.479 --> 01:08:56.920 All right. 1286 01:08:57.080 --> 01:08:59.200 Um, you guys, where's the last place you vacationed? 1287 01:08:59.760 --> 01:09:01.479 I know, Greg, you just got back from somewhere. 1288 01:09:01.479 --> 01:09:04.399 Where's the last place you went on vacation and, or someplace that you're 1289 01:09:04.399 --> 01:09:06.640 really hoping to go on vacation in 2025. 1290 01:09:08.359 --> 01:09:10.359 I got back last night from Aruba. 1291 01:09:11.120 --> 01:09:13.399 Aruba, Jamaica. 1292 01:09:13.439 --> 01:09:13.800 All right. 1293 01:09:13.840 --> 01:09:15.080 Did you want to go to Aruba? 1294 01:09:15.080 --> 01:09:16.920 Did someone else, was someone else playing that? 1295 01:09:16.920 --> 01:09:17.560 Or was that a year? 1296 01:09:17.880 --> 01:09:20.640 It was a group, a group of Christian singles I went with. 1297 01:09:20.640 --> 01:09:22.800 And, um, yeah, it was great. 1298 01:09:23.000 --> 01:09:26.760 It was being, um, I'm, I have my son every other week. 1299 01:09:26.760 --> 01:09:28.359 So Friday to Friday, every other week. 1300 01:09:28.359 --> 01:09:34.279 And, um, whenever somebody plans a vacation, I can just jump on I'm I'm game. 1301 01:09:35.439 --> 01:09:36.520 Oh, I love that. 1302 01:09:36.520 --> 01:09:37.520 That's awesome. 1303 01:09:37.600 --> 01:09:38.200 Okay. 1304 01:09:38.720 --> 01:09:40.680 Um, you, how old did you say your son was? 1305 01:09:42.479 --> 01:09:42.840 All right. 1306 01:09:43.080 --> 01:09:47.800 And are you open to women that, uh, are local to you that would have children as 1307 01:09:47.800 --> 01:09:48.000 well? 1308 01:09:48.000 --> 01:09:52.680 Cause obviously you can't relocate because you have a son, um, that lives there. 1309 01:09:52.760 --> 01:09:57.920 And then also, um, are you still in interested in making more children? 1310 01:09:59.120 --> 01:09:59.520 My. 1311 01:10:00.000 --> 01:10:05.640 I'd never say never, but my preference out, you know, pretty much would be to not have 1312 01:10:05.640 --> 01:10:13.680 any more kids, um, you know, new kids, fresh kids starting over, you know, but, um, yeah, 1313 01:10:13.680 --> 01:10:19.360 but, um, I would be able to date long distance, but definitely would not be able to relocate, 1314 01:10:19.360 --> 01:10:20.880 um, anytime soon. 1315 01:10:20.880 --> 01:10:21.880 So, okay. 1316 01:10:21.880 --> 01:10:22.880 That's good. 1317 01:10:22.880 --> 01:10:24.120 That's good to know. 1318 01:10:24.120 --> 01:10:26.360 People want to know that ladies always want to ask that. 1319 01:10:26.360 --> 01:10:27.360 All right. 1320 01:10:27.360 --> 01:10:32.440 So Abram, same kind of question where vacation, you want to go, you just went, tell us, and 1321 01:10:32.440 --> 01:10:36.680 then answer the same question about, um, if you're open to women that already have children. 1322 01:10:36.680 --> 01:10:38.440 Okay, guys. 1323 01:10:38.440 --> 01:10:40.280 So I don't go on vacation much. 1324 01:10:40.280 --> 01:10:46.240 Um, it'd be nice to go on vacation with somebody, uh, you know, make some memories. 1325 01:10:46.240 --> 01:10:51.480 Um, so pretty much staying in my town, you know, just working, staying out of trouble. 1326 01:10:51.480 --> 01:10:53.680 Um, but it'd be nice to go on some vacation. 1327 01:10:53.680 --> 01:10:55.120 I do have some plans to go to Italy. 1328 01:10:55.120 --> 01:10:59.440 I think next year with some really close friends of mine, they're all married. 1329 01:10:59.440 --> 01:11:01.200 They all, they all have, uh, their person. 1330 01:11:01.200 --> 01:11:04.360 It'd be nice to bring my person as well. 1331 01:11:04.360 --> 01:11:07.240 So that would be great. 1332 01:11:07.240 --> 01:11:08.880 And do you want to have children of your own? 1333 01:11:08.880 --> 01:11:09.880 Do you want kids? 1334 01:11:09.880 --> 01:11:11.200 Yeah, I'm here to have kids. 1335 01:11:11.200 --> 01:11:15.880 I think that I would have major regrets in my life if I did not have kids. 1336 01:11:15.880 --> 01:11:21.360 I think at least two, I don't want to do that whole, uh, you know, only a child syndrome 1337 01:11:21.360 --> 01:11:26.280 thing, you know, like give the kid a person to live their life with. 1338 01:11:26.280 --> 01:11:31.880 You know, I have two brothers and it was a gift to have them by my side throughout my 1339 01:11:31.880 --> 01:11:32.880 whole life. 1340 01:11:32.880 --> 01:11:36.960 Um, growing up, me and my brothers, we'd fight a little bit, but dad would always, you know, 1341 01:11:36.960 --> 01:11:40.160 tell us we're, we're a team and we're the closest thing to each other on this planet. 1342 01:11:40.160 --> 01:11:42.320 So I believe that to this day. 1343 01:11:42.320 --> 01:11:44.000 And I would love to have at least two kids. 1344 01:11:44.000 --> 01:11:46.080 Um, if you want to have more, that's great. 1345 01:11:46.080 --> 01:11:50.920 I'm not going to say no, but, um, I think at least two would be, um, what about kids 1346 01:11:51.480 --> 01:11:52.480 that she already has? 1347 01:11:52.480 --> 01:11:53.480 Would you be open to that? 1348 01:11:53.480 --> 01:11:55.520 And also, would you be open to adoption? 1349 01:11:55.520 --> 01:12:00.080 Um, adoption, I have not opened my heart up to that. 1350 01:12:00.080 --> 01:12:07.040 Um, when it comes to the lady having a kid, I kind of, I'm still working on that, but 1351 01:12:07.040 --> 01:12:11.120 I think if the kid was really young, maybe like five and under, I think that I could 1352 01:12:11.120 --> 01:12:17.640 really make a huge impact on that person and become a good, uh, male leader in his life 1353 01:12:17.640 --> 01:12:18.640 or her life. 1354 01:12:18.640 --> 01:12:20.800 And, um, that kind of a thing. 1355 01:12:21.680 --> 01:12:22.680 So yeah, I'm still working on that stuff. 1356 01:12:22.680 --> 01:12:25.440 There's so many people that are single moms out there that need a good partner. 1357 01:12:25.440 --> 01:12:28.920 So I'm still kind of working on that, but that's my honest answer as of right now. 1358 01:12:28.920 --> 01:12:30.400 So ladies, that's a great, honest answer. 1359 01:12:30.400 --> 01:12:34.520 And ladies remember, understand that, you know, right now, um, you know, he's, he's, 1360 01:12:34.520 --> 01:12:39.720 he said, I, my heart's not fully open to that, but I'm open to my heart being open to that. 1361 01:12:39.720 --> 01:12:40.960 So hear what he's saying. 1362 01:12:40.960 --> 01:12:41.960 And that's great. 1363 01:12:41.960 --> 01:12:45.640 That's kind of where we all are with things that we've never done and we haven't experienced. 1364 01:12:45.640 --> 01:12:46.640 That's important. 1365 01:12:46.640 --> 01:12:47.640 You think that we would be open? 1366 01:12:47.640 --> 01:12:50.760 We're not sure if we would be, we just don't know. 1367 01:12:51.720 --> 01:12:52.720 And that's a fair and good and honest answer. 1368 01:12:52.720 --> 01:12:53.720 And I like it. 1369 01:12:53.720 --> 01:12:54.720 All right. 1370 01:12:54.720 --> 01:12:58.480 Um, let's see what other questions you guys have. 1371 01:12:58.480 --> 01:13:01.760 What other questions, um, people want to know about your spiritual life. 1372 01:13:01.760 --> 01:13:02.960 They're always going to want to know. 1373 01:13:02.960 --> 01:13:05.160 So what is, you know, how do you feel closest to God? 1374 01:13:05.160 --> 01:13:06.560 We asked that in the dating game. 1375 01:13:06.560 --> 01:13:07.960 I think that's a great question. 1376 01:13:07.960 --> 01:13:11.280 How do you cultivate your relationship with God? 1377 01:13:11.280 --> 01:13:14.640 How do you do it? 1378 01:13:14.640 --> 01:13:15.640 Either one of you. 1379 01:13:15.640 --> 01:13:18.640 Yeah, I can go first. 1380 01:13:18.920 --> 01:13:19.920 Definitely. 1381 01:13:19.920 --> 01:13:26.000 I'm very, I've always been very involved in worship and playing worship. 1382 01:13:26.000 --> 01:13:30.600 I play bass guitar and have been playing for quite a few years. 1383 01:13:30.600 --> 01:13:35.720 Not currently playing for a church right now, but, um, that worship just, you know, I can 1384 01:13:35.720 --> 01:13:42.760 just get lost in worship and, um, and, and also I will say this, you know, I love to 1385 01:13:42.760 --> 01:13:43.960 worship God. 1386 01:13:43.960 --> 01:13:49.000 There's a time also that I need to turn the music off and just be alone. 1387 01:13:49.000 --> 01:13:55.680 Because sometimes the music or something in the background can kind of be, you know, hard, 1388 01:13:55.680 --> 01:13:58.880 almost distracting for me whenever I really want to zone in with God. 1389 01:13:58.880 --> 01:14:03.520 So there's kind of that, that two-sided part of it, there's, there's a time of worshiping 1390 01:14:03.520 --> 01:14:08.560 and kind of, you know, giving to God and, and, you know, praise and adoration or whatever. 1391 01:14:08.560 --> 01:14:12.440 But then there's also a time where I just need to turn the music off and just listen 1392 01:14:12.440 --> 01:14:14.720 and just be close to Him. 1393 01:14:14.720 --> 01:14:15.720 Good answer. 1394 01:14:15.720 --> 01:14:16.720 Love it. 1395 01:14:16.720 --> 01:14:17.720 Okay. 1396 01:14:17.720 --> 01:14:19.040 What about you, Abram? 1397 01:14:19.040 --> 01:14:20.680 How do you connect with God? 1398 01:14:20.680 --> 01:14:24.280 How are you nurturing that relationship? 1399 01:14:24.280 --> 01:14:25.280 So just a little background. 1400 01:14:25.280 --> 01:14:29.480 First, I was raised a Roman Catholic, you know, being an Italian guy and all that. 1401 01:14:29.480 --> 01:14:33.240 And altar boy, when I was in my early teens, I thought I had a calling to maybe even live 1402 01:14:33.240 --> 01:14:36.760 a religious life. 1403 01:14:36.760 --> 01:14:41.920 And then over the years, unfortunately, it seems like when I'm going through my worst 1404 01:14:41.920 --> 01:14:44.520 times, I really need Him. 1405 01:14:44.520 --> 01:14:50.920 And I've leaned on Him to give me peace and, you know, and all the things I've been through. 1406 01:14:50.920 --> 01:14:59.360 But when it comes to modern day here, I pray every night, get on my knees, thank Him for 1407 01:14:59.360 --> 01:15:00.080 everything that's going on. 1408 01:15:00.000 --> 01:15:06.820 on, try to appreciate everything that's going on. Things could be a lot worse. And I would 1409 01:15:06.820 --> 01:15:11.100 like to go back to church. I think the idea of going to church for my family is amazing. 1410 01:15:11.100 --> 01:15:14.940 And if I could find someone that's even maybe, whatever you want to call it, has more grace 1411 01:15:14.940 --> 01:15:21.900 than me or is a little bit more serious about it, I'm okay with that. I think that's wonderful. 1412 01:15:21.900 --> 01:15:28.780 Saying grace before meals, stuff like that. I think it's super important and I love that 1413 01:15:28.780 --> 01:15:34.320 stuff. And so, yeah, God's on my mind throughout the day, how I talk to people, how people 1414 01:15:34.320 --> 01:15:40.280 are talking to me, and I'm just trying to be better. So I'm not super hardcore, but 1415 01:15:40.280 --> 01:15:43.380 I believe it. And yeah. 1416 01:15:43.380 --> 01:15:48.680 I love that answer, Abram. That's such a great answer. Oh, that's so good. And that's all 1417 01:15:48.680 --> 01:15:53.240 of us, you guys. Most of us, you remember back, remember back to where, you know, in 1418 01:15:53.240 --> 01:15:58.300 your spirit life you had like a growth spurt, right? You know, we all had a growth spurt 1419 01:15:58.320 --> 01:16:04.200 from, you know, just, just raw, you know, passion, intention, you know, we got into 1420 01:16:04.200 --> 01:16:08.940 a crisis and that crisis maybe led to a growth spurt or, you know, someone came along in 1421 01:16:08.940 --> 01:16:14.800 our life that, you know, made us want more of, of, you know, we, we knew some, something, 1422 01:16:14.800 --> 01:16:19.480 but made us want to know more of that something. And so we've all been, you know, in all of 1423 01:16:19.480 --> 01:16:22.520 those things. I love it that you thought when you were a child that you would live a religious 1424 01:16:22.520 --> 01:16:26.400 life, meaning maybe go into the priesthood or do something like that. And we're glad 1425 01:16:26.400 --> 01:16:30.780 you didn't do that because you would not be here with us tonight. You would not, you 1426 01:16:30.780 --> 01:16:35.740 would not be able to get married. And so but I feel like that call is on your life. I feel 1427 01:16:35.740 --> 01:16:40.660 like you guys can feel it too on Abram's life, right? That God has called him. And that is 1428 01:16:40.660 --> 01:16:47.220 why he has such a refreshing connection with God. That's not religious and it's just real. 1429 01:16:47.220 --> 01:16:51.100 I love what you just said. And I feel like you have a high spiritual IQ. And so I just 1430 01:16:51.100 --> 01:16:52.100 want to tell you that. 1431 01:16:52.400 --> 01:16:58.000 Can I just interrupt really quick? I know I'm like raised Catholic, but I'm not going to X out any 1432 01:16:58.000 --> 01:17:03.120 other Christian type people. I think we're under one big umbrella, same book kind of stuff. 1433 01:17:03.120 --> 01:17:04.720 And so I just want to make that clear. 1434 01:17:05.920 --> 01:17:13.720 Yes, of course. Great. All right. And we do have lots of Catholics in our community and, and 1435 01:17:13.720 --> 01:17:19.360 people that are, you know, Protestant Catholics, people that go to mass because they grew up 1436 01:17:19.460 --> 01:17:24.420 that way, but then they also dabble in some spirit kind of charismatic communities. There's a 1437 01:17:24.420 --> 01:17:31.540 lot of stuff going on in this community. There's a lot of hybrid. Okay. So let's see. So Greg 1438 01:17:31.540 --> 01:17:37.500 has a job that he said is boring or just kind of like not exciting or whatever. And then, and 1439 01:17:37.500 --> 01:17:41.020 then Abram has a job that he, you know, sounds like he's really passionate about. Where do you 1440 01:17:41.020 --> 01:17:46.660 guys see yourself professionally? You know, in the next, in the next few years, Greg, you're 1441 01:17:46.660 --> 01:17:54.640 59. So is this where you're going to retire? Is that your plan? You know, or, and, or is there 1442 01:17:54.640 --> 01:17:57.760 something that you're passionate about that you would really like to do for a living that you're 1443 01:17:57.760 --> 01:18:01.960 not doing now? Either question. 1444 01:18:03.640 --> 01:18:10.720 For me, I'm kind of in the coasting mode. This time of my life, looking forward to, you know, 1445 01:18:11.560 --> 01:18:15.760 either not basically not working harder, but you know, there, there's definitely a lot of 1446 01:18:15.820 --> 01:18:21.400 things, even career wise that, that would be more interesting and more, you know, drive me more, but 1447 01:18:21.400 --> 01:18:26.460 I'm, you know, kind of worked hard to get where I'm at and be not ready to step away from it at the 1448 01:18:26.460 --> 01:18:33.880 moment. But, but yeah, just definitely, you know, definitely, you know, would stay involved in some 1449 01:18:33.880 --> 01:18:39.100 sort of my background was actually, or my degrees in electrical, electrical engineering, design 1450 01:18:39.100 --> 01:18:45.660 engineering, and kind of drifted into it, and then it security, but um, but yeah, just I'm very 1451 01:18:45.660 --> 01:18:52.980 hands on very, you know, like to tinker do it yourself or, you know, build houses, you know, not 1452 01:18:52.980 --> 01:18:58.000 build houses, but, you know, DIY projects or whatever around the house, you know, not pretty 1453 01:18:58.000 --> 01:19:02.740 much not afraid of anything like that. So that's, that's where I get my fun. If my job's boring, I 1454 01:19:02.740 --> 01:19:04.180 definitely tear something up. 1455 01:19:04.900 --> 01:19:11.340 Ah, he likes to renovate y'all. He'll tear something up so that he can put it back together again. I 1456 01:19:11.340 --> 01:19:15.940 like it. What about you, Abram? Like what, what are you, what are you passionate about? You're 1457 01:19:15.940 --> 01:19:21.460 passionate about people and serving people. I love that. Um, but, uh, what would you want to own your 1458 01:19:21.460 --> 01:19:23.740 own restaurant? I mean, like, what do you got? What do you got? What do you want to do? 1459 01:19:24.140 --> 01:19:29.860 So the last couple of years, um, I'm pretty frugal. I'm not a cheapskate. I just pinch pennies here so 1460 01:19:29.940 --> 01:19:34.820 I could spend money other places that I want, but I've been saving my money up and I've been slowly 1461 01:19:34.820 --> 01:19:40.260 accumulating, um, equipment and just knowledge on, um, opening up a little, uh, pizza truck. Um, I 1462 01:19:40.260 --> 01:19:43.580 don't know if you guys are familiar with Fresno, California, but just the West coast in general, not 1463 01:19:43.580 --> 01:19:48.700 a lot of good pizza out here. I don't know if anyone is familiar with Dave Portnoy and the, uh, 1464 01:19:48.700 --> 01:19:55.340 one bite, everybody knows the rules in martial sports, but anyways, um, yeah, I think that there's 1465 01:19:55.340 --> 01:19:59.860 some room in this town. We're like a big, we're like still a small, big town, but, um, 1466 01:20:00.000 --> 01:20:03.560 There's some room for some pizza game, um, in this town. 1467 01:20:03.640 --> 01:20:06.000 And, um, I think a truck's a start. 1468 01:20:06.960 --> 01:20:09.700 I don't know if I want to get into the alcohol business, even though it's good 1469 01:20:09.700 --> 01:20:10.980 money, but we'll see what happens. 1470 01:20:10.980 --> 01:20:12.720 But I think, uh, just some pizza here. 1471 01:20:12.920 --> 01:20:18.800 Um, I could do some damage and, uh, healthy pizza, healthy pizza, you know? 1472 01:20:19.540 --> 01:20:24.720 So you're, you're a, you're a, um, entrepreneur, you're an entrepreneur and 1473 01:20:24.720 --> 01:20:29.260 pizza, you're seeing the need, you're seeing the space that you could fill. 1474 01:20:29.260 --> 01:20:30.220 And so I love that. 1475 01:20:30.660 --> 01:20:31.580 Um, you guys, that's fun. 1476 01:20:32.060 --> 01:20:32.600 Okay. 1477 01:20:32.700 --> 01:20:33.880 Um, all right. 1478 01:20:33.880 --> 01:20:34.820 So we're going to wrap it up. 1479 01:20:34.880 --> 01:20:36.260 We are at eight 24. 1480 01:20:36.260 --> 01:20:39.700 And so both of these guys, awesome guys, both of them have been around the 1481 01:20:39.700 --> 01:20:40.860 community for a little while now. 1482 01:20:40.860 --> 01:20:42.040 I've gotten to know both of them. 1483 01:20:42.320 --> 01:20:44.820 I've had one-on-one conversations with both of them. 1484 01:20:45.140 --> 01:20:48.180 Um, and, um, both of them are in our men's community. 1485 01:20:48.180 --> 01:20:52.380 And so, uh, please, if you want to meet either one of them, let us know 1486 01:20:52.620 --> 01:20:56.940 before we sign off guys, just like we asked, uh, Mike at the end, we're 1487 01:20:56.940 --> 01:21:00.180 going to ask you, what would you say that you're looking for in a partner? 1488 01:21:00.180 --> 01:21:03.700 You know, yourself, you've been around for 39 years, been around for 58 years. 1489 01:21:03.940 --> 01:21:08.260 You know, yourself, what do you think it is that you need in your other half? 1490 01:21:08.780 --> 01:21:09.340 Let us know. 1491 01:21:10.780 --> 01:21:11.260 We want to know. 1492 01:21:13.300 --> 01:21:14.980 Describe her to us. 1493 01:21:16.300 --> 01:21:20.660 And then ladies, if you fit that, then you can email us. 1494 01:21:20.700 --> 01:21:23.260 If you don't fit that don't email us. 1495 01:21:23.340 --> 01:21:23.860 All right. 1496 01:21:24.380 --> 01:21:24.860 Okay. 1497 01:21:27.940 --> 01:21:29.140 I guess a big question. 1498 01:21:29.340 --> 01:21:29.780 Go ahead. 1499 01:21:30.060 --> 01:21:30.620 It's a big one. 1500 01:21:32.060 --> 01:21:33.580 Yeah, um, definitely. 1501 01:21:34.220 --> 01:21:35.220 Physically wise. 1502 01:21:35.260 --> 01:21:36.660 Um, we'll start there. 1503 01:21:36.660 --> 01:21:40.180 Um, no, I definitely like to keep staying in shape and exercise 1504 01:21:40.180 --> 01:21:41.900 and be active hiking, anything. 1505 01:21:42.620 --> 01:21:44.220 Um, love the outdoors. 1506 01:21:44.260 --> 01:21:48.020 So definitely some, you know, obviously you don't have to do everything together, 1507 01:21:48.020 --> 01:21:55.820 but, um, you know, somebody that likes to be active and, um, and as far as 1508 01:21:55.860 --> 01:22:02.660 spiritually, um, I feel, you know, being on divorce and, and kind of feel like 1509 01:22:02.660 --> 01:22:08.100 I made a, or learned from the previous, you know, relationship I was in. 1510 01:22:08.100 --> 01:22:15.020 I think somebody who is more on my same, on the same page as me as far 1511 01:22:15.020 --> 01:22:20.500 spiritually worship style, um, you know, just enjoys being involved in church, 1512 01:22:20.500 --> 01:22:25.140 being, you know, going on mission trips, things like that, um, uh, volunteer 1513 01:22:25.180 --> 01:22:27.020 and, um, you know, in church. 1514 01:22:27.060 --> 01:22:30.220 Um, I think that's definitely important and, and definitely 1515 01:22:30.220 --> 01:22:32.220 just, you know, enjoys being around people. 1516 01:22:32.220 --> 01:22:34.500 I'm, um, I saw the question earlier. 1517 01:22:34.500 --> 01:22:42.140 I'm more of a, a, um, more reserved, not, not extremely outgoing, especially 1518 01:22:42.140 --> 01:22:43.700 in a new group or a large group. 1519 01:22:43.740 --> 01:22:48.060 Um, I can, I can, you know, in a small group, you probably asked 1520 01:22:48.060 --> 01:22:52.260 me to not talk so much, but, but, um, I'm definitely more reserved upfront. 1521 01:22:52.260 --> 01:22:56.580 So, um, you know, somebody that is also not reserved, you know, 1522 01:22:56.620 --> 01:22:58.380 would, would, would be a good thing. 1523 01:22:58.380 --> 01:23:02.580 Just, um, I'm not afraid of, um, you know, somebody that's, you 1524 01:23:02.580 --> 01:23:03.980 know, a little more chatty than me. 1525 01:23:04.020 --> 01:23:04.540 That's all right. 1526 01:23:05.100 --> 01:23:06.620 So, um, so yeah. 1527 01:23:06.700 --> 01:23:10.340 Um, I think that's, that's about it. 1528 01:23:10.340 --> 01:23:13.860 Definitely, you know, I don't know. 1529 01:23:14.860 --> 01:23:15.180 All right. 1530 01:23:15.180 --> 01:23:16.300 That's so good guys. 1531 01:23:16.300 --> 01:23:20.860 Just to recap someone who's active, you know, uh, Greg is 58 years 1532 01:23:20.860 --> 01:23:23.740 old and you don't look like that when you're 58 years old, unless you 1533 01:23:23.740 --> 01:23:24.940 take real good care of yourself. 1534 01:23:24.940 --> 01:23:25.420 All right. 1535 01:23:25.700 --> 01:23:28.700 I'm going to tell you because I'm hitting 50 and stuff starts breaking all 1536 01:23:28.700 --> 01:23:30.260 the warranties started getting called in. 1537 01:23:30.660 --> 01:23:31.100 Okay. 1538 01:23:31.100 --> 01:23:32.860 And so he is in shape. 1539 01:23:32.900 --> 01:23:35.380 He works at being in shape by playing sports. 1540 01:23:35.380 --> 01:23:38.460 He, he named all the things he likes to do by being outside outdoors, 1541 01:23:38.460 --> 01:23:41.420 being active, but also probably eating. 1542 01:23:41.700 --> 01:23:42.540 Somewhat right. 1543 01:23:42.860 --> 01:23:44.500 And, uh, and looking after himself. 1544 01:23:44.500 --> 01:23:45.380 Well, all right. 1545 01:23:45.380 --> 01:23:46.980 So he wants that in a woman. 1546 01:23:47.060 --> 01:23:49.620 He wants you to want to be active, want to be outdoors. 1547 01:23:49.660 --> 01:23:52.540 Want to, you know, do things once again, not everything together, 1548 01:23:52.580 --> 01:23:54.780 but someone who has that mindset. 1549 01:23:55.100 --> 01:23:58.260 And then spiritually someone who loves worship, someone who 1550 01:23:58.260 --> 01:24:01.180 loves bass guitar, right? 1551 01:24:01.180 --> 01:24:05.020 No, somebody who loves worship, church missions, trips, volunteering, 1552 01:24:05.020 --> 01:24:07.380 just serving others, loving God, serving others. 1553 01:24:07.700 --> 01:24:09.500 And then somebody who's a little bit more outgoing. 1554 01:24:09.900 --> 01:24:12.900 If you're really, really shy, it doesn't mean that we're going to ask you off, 1555 01:24:12.940 --> 01:24:16.460 but you know, he can be a little bit more shy, a little bit more introverted 1556 01:24:16.460 --> 01:24:17.660 until you really get to know him. 1557 01:24:17.980 --> 01:24:19.540 And so he needs a social director. 1558 01:24:19.980 --> 01:24:20.660 All right, ladies. 1559 01:24:20.660 --> 01:24:24.100 So he needs someone who's going to help him to connect with others. 1560 01:24:24.380 --> 01:24:28.260 And so if you fit that, all right, take good care of yourself. 1561 01:24:28.500 --> 01:24:30.460 You don't have any small children. 1562 01:24:30.740 --> 01:24:31.100 All right. 1563 01:24:31.100 --> 01:24:35.100 Because Greg has raised his kids and, um, and you're ready to, 1564 01:24:35.460 --> 01:24:36.660 you heard his lifestyle. 1565 01:24:36.660 --> 01:24:38.740 He likes to travel every time he gets a chance. 1566 01:24:39.380 --> 01:24:39.620 All right. 1567 01:24:39.620 --> 01:24:42.660 He likes to tear up stuff, DIY stuff, rebuild stuff. 1568 01:24:42.660 --> 01:24:47.660 If any, and all of this stuff sounds like you then put Greg's name. 1569 01:24:47.780 --> 01:24:51.940 Don't forget the second G in the subject line and email us so that 1570 01:24:51.940 --> 01:24:53.300 we can make a connection for you. 1571 01:24:53.620 --> 01:24:55.420 All right, Abram, it's your turn. 1572 01:24:55.420 --> 01:24:55.940 What do you got? 1573 01:24:57.660 --> 01:24:58.100 All right. 1574 01:24:58.100 --> 01:25:00.020 So, um, I think generally speaking. 1575 01:25:00.000 --> 01:25:02.880 I would just love someone that is 1576 01:25:04.260 --> 01:25:07.920 Like feminine and what I mean by that it's just like kind 1577 01:25:09.080 --> 01:25:11.720 You know, I can be pretty rough. So I need some balance there 1578 01:25:13.620 --> 01:25:15.620 You know, I could be a little 1579 01:25:16.200 --> 01:25:20.560 Not as empathetic sometimes because I'm a little like, you know, well, you know do something about it, you know 1580 01:25:20.840 --> 01:25:22.840 But I would love someone kind feminine 1581 01:25:23.880 --> 01:25:25.880 nurturing wants a family 1582 01:25:26.160 --> 01:25:32.320 You know, if you like to do DIY projects too, I love that stuff too, you know, I 1583 01:25:34.840 --> 01:25:38.640 Am super health conscious when it just comes to what kind of food I eat 1584 01:25:38.640 --> 01:25:42.800 Like I'm that weirdo in the aisle that I'm like, I'll pick up a box. So I'll read the ingredients 1585 01:25:42.800 --> 01:25:47.800 I'm like shit, you know, it's no good put it back on the shelf guy. Sorry about that 1586 01:25:49.120 --> 01:25:51.120 you know, I 1587 01:25:51.280 --> 01:25:56.400 Am conservative as well when it comes to the voting and stuff. I'm not gonna beat around the bush on that 1588 01:25:59.440 --> 01:26:01.440 Kind of more old-school values, you know 1589 01:26:02.720 --> 01:26:06.400 I'm not saying that you have to wash the dishes and I have to mow the lawn, you know 1590 01:26:06.400 --> 01:26:09.320 I'll help you wash the dishes. No big deal. Not a problem 1591 01:26:11.120 --> 01:26:15.360 So, yeah, I think someone that's active as well, you know anytime you want to go to the mountains 1592 01:26:15.360 --> 01:26:19.160 I'm down you want to go on a day trip somewhere? I'm down 1593 01:26:20.120 --> 01:26:26.160 Like I said, I don't go don't go too many places I try to stay home and I am content with that stuff 1594 01:26:26.160 --> 01:26:28.160 I'm a happy dude, but it'd be nice to go places 1595 01:26:28.760 --> 01:26:30.760 Do things with each other? 1596 01:26:31.800 --> 01:26:33.000 But I don't want to get it 1597 01:26:33.000 --> 01:26:36.160 I don't want to get it confused spending money to me is not gonna make me happy 1598 01:26:36.720 --> 01:26:41.800 Spending time with people that I care about that makes me happy and I have this little rule of thumb where it's the 1599 01:26:42.880 --> 01:26:47.480 It's the F's are my priorities. It's faith family friends food 1600 01:26:48.080 --> 01:26:49.720 These are my things 1601 01:26:49.720 --> 01:26:53.080 Dinner parties love them. I'll cook all the food. Don't worry about that 1602 01:26:55.480 --> 01:26:58.480 Yeah, there's a whole lot to go over here but that's kind of short long story short I 1603 01:26:59.360 --> 01:27:05.880 Love it. That's all great faith family food you guys this is great faith family friends food. These are the wonderful F's 1604 01:27:05.880 --> 01:27:07.480 I love those 1605 01:27:07.480 --> 01:27:11.960 Abrams also an entrepreneur. So if you have an adventurous type of personality 1606 01:27:12.280 --> 01:27:16.360 He likes to stay active go to the mountains go on a day trip, you know, just be spontaneous 1607 01:27:16.760 --> 01:27:23.240 As you can tell he has a positive personality. So if you're melancholy, this is not gonna be the right match for you 1608 01:27:23.360 --> 01:27:27.440 Look, there's a place for melancholy people doesn't mean you're negative. Maybe you're just melancholy 1609 01:27:27.640 --> 01:27:32.640 All right, but if that's you this wouldn't be the right match for you. He's looking for his 1610 01:27:34.600 --> 01:27:37.240 For his spirit mate for his complimentary opposite 1611 01:27:37.240 --> 01:27:42.720 So he wants a kind soft kind of gentle woman and not not a pushover 1612 01:27:43.240 --> 01:27:49.360 But if you're like a strong tell it like it is, you know, just that's probably not gonna be the right match for you 1613 01:27:49.680 --> 01:27:51.040 Okay 1614 01:27:51.040 --> 01:27:55.400 Italian as you can see, I'm sure he has a lot of strong women in his family. And so 1615 01:27:56.120 --> 01:28:01.080 He likes strong women, but at the same time maybe doesn't want to marry someone who's just like his mom 1616 01:28:01.720 --> 01:28:02.720 DIY 1617 01:28:02.720 --> 01:28:05.520 Likes to do that stuff likes to get his hands dirty 1618 01:28:05.520 --> 01:28:11.040 If you're the bougie chick that needs status symbols in your brands and a dog in your purse 1619 01:28:11.120 --> 01:28:17.680 It's probably not the right match for you. Okay. All right. Happy dude, Abram. Love it wants a family 1620 01:28:19.000 --> 01:28:22.800 definitely wants a family and so right at that millennial age of 1621 01:28:23.400 --> 01:28:25.040 family and 1622 01:28:25.040 --> 01:28:28.640 Creating family you guys you're both awesome. I love it 1623 01:28:29.200 --> 01:28:31.720 Thank you so much guys for being with us tonight 1624 01:28:31.720 --> 01:28:38.360 And if you want to meet Abram you feel like you match this profile you like him you like 1625 01:28:38.840 --> 01:28:46.200 His genuineness and his transparency put his name a bram. Is it short for Abraham or just Abram? 1626 01:28:46.520 --> 01:28:52.520 So I just tell people that if they know the story that I'm Abram and I'm turning into Abraham 1627 01:28:52.520 --> 01:28:54.520 So it's actually just a broom. Oh 1628 01:28:55.280 --> 01:29:00.720 My gosh, I love that so much. Yeah, that's so great. Okay, you guys he just got prophetic on us 1629 01:29:00.800 --> 01:29:07.840 All right, and so there you have it. That means that he wants a lot of kids. So get ready. Okay, just kidding 1630 01:29:08.360 --> 01:29:10.360 put his name in 1631 01:29:10.520 --> 01:29:15.520 In the subject line and you guys this is this is the end for our spirit mate match time tonight 1632 01:29:15.520 --> 01:29:22.840 I will be in touch with you guys with any matches and introductions. Thank you so much. Thanks everyone. See you soon. Bye everybody